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39 38 real weddings 10 Cover Wedding: Victoria & Taran 23 Black Hills Couples 80 Black Hills Couples 126 Kaitlyn & Carter 128 Haley & Matt 130 Billie & Bryan 132 Vanessa & Sage 134 Victoria & Andrew

fashion 38 Walk in Style 42 Preserve Your Gown

photography 74 Picture Perfect 76 Ordering Prints

beauty 44 Bridal Beauty 48 Bride’s Advice

videography 82 In Motion

engagement 16 First Steps 18 Bridal Shows 20 Your Planner 22 SD Marriage License 24 Wedding Rings 26 Engagement Photos 28 Invites 30 Let’s Party 32 Gift Registry 34 Keepsake Gifts

ceremony 54 Saying “I do” 54 Unity Symbols

groom 50 His Attire & Checklist

décor & rentals 60 Set the Scene 64 Weather What-Ifs floral 66 Bouquets 70 Seasonal Blooms

catering 86 Your Meal 90 Menus & Myths 92 Twist on Tradition cakes 94 Sweet Treats 96 Terms to Know reception 100 Time to Celebrate 102 Flow of Events 108 Welcome Your Guests

72 60 entertainment 114 Fill the Floor 118 Light the Night 120 Photo Booth transportation 122 Catch a Ride wedding wrap up 136 Ticket to Paradise 138 After “I Do” planning your wedding 141 Vendor Directory 146 Timeline Checklist 149 Budget Development 152 Compare Venues 153 Payment Records 154 The Details 157 Photo Checklist 158 Wedding Day Checklist

Cover Photo by R.Becker Creative. See page 10 for more details on this beautiful Black Hills wedding in Custer State Park.

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Victoria and Taran really wanted an outdoor wedding because they felt it would resonate the most with them. However, this being the Black Hills, the weather didn’t cooperate, so they ended up having the ceremony indoors at Sylvan Lake Lodge. Victoria says it ended up making no difference whether they were married indoors or out, because it turned out amazing. “If you are worried about having it inside,” she says, “Don’t stress!” How We Met The couple met in 2012, when Victoria was a freshman and Taran a sophomore. On Halloween night,

she introduced herself via a text message. After talking on and off for about a month, they went on their first date, driving around town and talking for hours. They quickly learned they had a lot in common, especially their tastes in music. About one year later, they officially started dating. Hints for Brides I think the best advice I was given was from a girlfriend of mine who had just previously had a spectacular wedding: your wedding day will end up going by so fast. On the day of, don’t stress over the little things and try to take in every moment.

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“Your wedding day will go by fast. Don’t stress over the little things and try to take in every moment.” Victoria Tucker Cover Bride 2020




engagement & planning

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first steps be realistic

Allocate your funds accordingly and prioritize what is necessary for your celebration. If you aren’t sure which vendors you will need and how much to spend, check out the Budget Development sheet on page 149.

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It’s going to be hard, but the last thing you want is to add to your debt with wedding expenses. Keep within your budget and start married life without the stress of monetary worries.

Don’t forget to get your ring sized and insured! You won’t want it to accidentally fall off as you are showing it to family and friends.

You’re getting married! Once the initial shock wears off, you’ll need to make a lot of decisions. Don’t worry; we are here to help. Before you start meeting with vendors and putting the little details together, there are a few key factors you will need to sort out. Here are some places to start your wedding planning after your engagement.

create a budget

Money will be a huge part of your celebration. To avoid racking up costs, know which professionals you need to make your wedding a success, and the limits of what you can spend on each.

decide who pays

If you will be receiving any assistance from family members, sit down and communicate about who will be paying for what. No matter who contributes to the wedding budget, the financial responsibility is ultimately the couple’s.



first steps of planning tell your family and friends You will need to call these VIPs before you post your news on social media. Then, go to BlackHillsBride. com and create your profile to share with others! size your ring If your ring wasn’t sized, call the jeweler and have it done as soon as possible. book a photo shoot Mostly all photographers have packages that include engagement and wedding photos.

draft your guest list This will help determine the size of venue you will need. select your venue Have a few choices ready, and keep in mind most places are booked a year in advance. choose your wedding party You need help ensuring everything runs smoothly on the big day and leading up to it. be inspired Earmark these pages, use our website and follow our Pinterest boards to start narrowing down your wedding theme.


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bridal shows Bridal fairs and expos offer a great opportunity to meet vendors in your area, hear about the latest trends in event design and gather tips on the planning process. Use these tips to make the most of any event you attend:

Don’t go at it alone! Make your bridal show day fun with friends, family and your fiance. They’ll have great input and advice.

create a temporary email address just for wedding planning Keep wedding-related bids, receipts and offers in one place without cluttering your personal inbox. bring address labels with your name, email address, phone number and wedding date Each vendor you interact with will request your information, and there will be lots of giveaways, too. Having an address label handy will save time (and your hand!) wear comfortable shoes Save those fancy heels for your wedding day! You’ll be spending a lot of time on your feet, so make sure your footwear will be comfortable for several hours at a time. bring your fiancé He wants to be part of the important decisions, too. This will save time in the future, and he will be a big help when it comes to choosing which vendors you want to work with.



bring cash for entrance fees You’ll also want to keep your credit/debit card with you for any deposits and down payments you choose to make. If you meet a vendor who is the perfect fit and is available on your wedding date, you’ll want to book their services so you don’t lose out. bring reusable shopping bags You’ll leave the fair with a pile of brochures, business cards and samples in hand. Some vendors will have plastic bags, but it’s much more convenient (and stylish!) to bring along reusable bags to tote your goodies. *Bonus tip: Tuck a plastic baggie or zippered pouch into your bag – when you meet a vendor you want to consider further, put those business cards in the pouch to keep them separate from the rest.

Engage with vendors who are at the show and don’t be afraid to ask questions! Here are a few basics to get you started: • What is your style/strength? (view past work if available) • Do you have my date open? • What are your prices and packages? • Do you have a travel fee? • What is your cancellation policy?

Study the list of vendors attending the show before you go. Things move quickly and it’s best if you’ve done your homework. Scope out the professionals you want to meet, but be open to options. Someone there might just surprise you with a deal you can’t turn down!



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your planner Before hiring your coordinator, talk to them on the phone and meet them in person to ensure your personalities will be a good fit as you work together to plan your big day.

You may be super organized and creative, but when it comes time to walk down the aisle, all you will really want is to feel the love — not the stress. If your life is already busy, then recognize that your wedding day will be much more enjoyable if you are not stressing over every little detail. You might think that hiring a wedding consultant is out of your budget, but before deciding one way or the other, consider these benefits.

best interests in mind

One of the biggest advantages of hiring a good wedding coordinator is that someone will have your best interests in mind. A planner can direct you to vendors who do amazing work, as well as steer you away from vendors who won’t meet your needs and level of service you deserve. They know industry standards – such as pricing and services for wedding vendors – and will work to ensure that you get what you need.

planning takes time

Until you really get into the preparations for your big day, it is impossible to imagine just exactly how much work is really involved. There are so many details to be taken care of, and if you work long hours, have lots of hobbies or have children to look after, you don’t want to be completely drowning in to-do lists during your engagement. At the beginning of your wedding planning, sit down as a couple and consider how much time, how much budget and how many accountable helpers you will have



available for preparations. A wedding planner could be your best path to a smooth wedding-day experience.

levels of service

How much help do you think you’ll need? Consulting and “day-of” services are cheaper but significantly less comprehensive than a full-service planner. Full-service planners attend vendor meetings with you, keep everything running smoothly and ensure that everyone sticks to the timetable. Be sure to read and fully understand your agreement before you sign.

what to ask: • Do you have our date available? • How long have you been in business? • How many weddings have you planned? • What are your pricing packages? • What do your services include? • Have you worked with the venue we’ve chosen? • If our event is outside, do you also help arrange an alternative plan? • Are we required to work only with vendors on your reccommended list?

• Will you be present at our vendor meetings? • Will you invoice us for vendor fees, or do we handle that ourselves? • Will you provide us with a timeline of the wedding and a floor plan of the venue? • Is the wedding day rehearsal included in your fees? • Will you be onsite during our wedding? • How early do we need to book your services? • Are there any fees that won’t be included in your proposal?


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licenses what to do with the license

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“Keep in mind that the Register of Deeds office is only open Monday through Friday (and not on government holidays) from 8 a.m. to 5p.m. Do yourselves and those who work there a favor and arrive no later than 4:30 p.m. to give everyone time to complete the necessary paperwork.” Mary MaiseyIreland, Your Joyful Wedding

Deliver the license to the person who solemnizes the marriage. The officiant must complete the bottom portion of the license (also signed by the couple and two witnesses), and then return it to the Register of Deeds within 10 days of the wedding. The license remains on file permanently in the issuing registrar’s office.

the marriage license

An engaged couple must appear together at any South Dakota County Register of Deeds office with photo identification (Driver’s License, State ID, Military ID, Tribal Photo ID or a certified copy of birth certificate) to apply. Allow yourselves at least 30 minutes for the complete application process.

licensing fees

The license fee is $40. If you change your name after you are married, you will need a certified copy of the marriage license for your new South Dakota driver’s license. A fee of $15 for a certified copy applies.

waiting period and use

No waiting period or blood test is required; license can be used immediately, and must be solemnized within 20 days from issue date or the license becomes void.



where to apply With the excitement of your engagement, don’t forget to add getting your marriage license to the to-dos! butte county Register of Deeds Office 839 5th Avenue, belle fourche (605) 892-2912 custer county Register of Deeds Office 420 Mt. Rushmore Road, Custer (605) 673-8171 fall river & oglala lakota counties Register of Deeds Office 906 N. River Street, Hot Springs (605) 745-5139

lawrence county Register of Deeds Office 90 Sherman Street, Deadwood (605) 578-3930 meade county Register of Deeds Office 1300 Sherman St., Ste. 138, Sturgis (605) 347-2356 pennington county Register of Deeds Office 130 Kansas City Street, Rapid City (605) 394-2177 please note State and county marriage license requirements can change. The application information provided is for guidance only and should not be taken as legal advice.


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wedding rings insuring your wedding rings

You’ve waited for those beautiful trinkets your whole life. They not only hold a value of sentiment about the love and commitment they represent, but they also hold real financial value that you should be considering. Insurance for your ring will usually cost between 1-3 percent of the rings value per year. If your ring would cost $5,000 to replace, you can expect to pay around $50-150 each year to have it insured.



why should i get my rings insured?

Having them insured will give you peace of mind that in the event they are lost or stolen, they can be replaced. The cost of an insurance policy is small in comparison to the cost to replace what may have required years of saving to purchase in the first place.

how do I get them insured?

There are multiple ways and policies you can choose to cover insuring your ring. Some homeowners’ and renters’ insurance policies allow you to add your rings to the overall coverage. However, many of these policies only cover up to a specific dollar amount. You can also opt for a personal property policy that covers just your rings, or other specific high value items such as expensive jewelry, electronics or collectibles. Most companies will require a jeweler appraisal. When getting your appraisal, talk to the appraiser about how they address the issue of inflation. It is also a good idea to take good photos of your rings, not only to offer additional proof to the insurance company, but also to help the jeweler to be able to recreate what you have lost.

the ring metal glossary Choosing the metal for your engagement and wedding bands is just as important as the diamond it will hold. You want to find something that will stand the test of time and suit your lifestyle. gold Gold is prized for its rarity and luster. Each Karat represents a percentage of purity of the metal. white gold White gold combines multiple metals with pure gold. It is durable and tarnishresistant but often requires plating around the jewelry. rose gold This alloy combines gold with copper to create a pink-tinted hue. The more copper added, the deeper shades of red you will find.

silver This precious metal goes well with all skin tones. Silver is lustrous and will most likely outshine gold over time. platinum This rare white metal is known for its strength and purity, making it the most expensive option for a ring. palladium This luxurious metal is white and lightweight, and one of the rarest precious metals. stainless steel With its industrial style and look, stainless steel is great for both men and women. titanium Titanium is the hardest natural element in the world – yet still very lightweight. tungsten This metal is harder than gold alloys, making it durable and scratchresistant.


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What to ask your insurance provider? • What is covered exactly? • Will the ring be replaced if it is stolen, broken, or lost? • How will the ring be replaced? • Will you be given a certain dollar amount? • Will you be required to purchase it through a specified jeweler? • What documentation do you need to provide to ensure you will receive a replacement exactly like the ring you own? • How will the value be determined? Clarify how unique or vintage rings will be appraised and replaced considering they may be one of a kind. • What documentation is required to prove that the ring is lost, stolen or broken and needs to be replaced? • How much will it cost?

engagement photos Be creative and highlight your favorite thing together. This will give the images your photographer captures a personal twist to be treasured for years to come.

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Use your photos for engagement announcements, wedding invitations, and to decorate your guest book and reception tables.

Talk to your photographer about locations you would like to visit and your ideas. Maybe you would love to have more candid pictures taken in a coffee shop. The better you communicate about what you are looking for in your pictures, the more likely you’ll get it.

Engagement photos will capture this new adventure in your life and give you beautiful images to share in your announcement to family and friends. The engagement photo session gives you and your fiancé a chance to get to know your photographer and observe how he or she interacts with you before the wedding day. You will be more comfortable the day of the wedding knowing that all of your personalities blend, which can ease any tension or anxiety. Your photographer will be able to get to know the two of you during this time, as well. Do your eyes blink a lot? Do you need help in some posed shots? What angles look best for your facial expressions? This session will save time when creating a timeless portrait on your wedding day.

look amazing

Bring several outfits so as to choose the clothes that go best with each background. Keep in mind: solids are great and look good next to almost any backdrop. Also, it is important for your clothes to complement and look good next to your fiancé’s, but try to avoid looking like twins.

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invites Although there are a lot of digital options available, printed stationery for your celebration is an important detail in your wedding planning that your guests are sure to notice. Working with a local professional will open up your options.

plan with a theme Make your RSVP date two to three weeks before your wedding date to allow enough time to get final guest numbers to vendors.

Stationery will display a matching style across all pieces. Items couples usually include in their stationery packages are save-the-dates, invites, and RSVPs before the wedding, ceremony programs, table placeholders and menus for the wedding, and thank yous and envelopes for postwedding wrap-up tasks. Don’t be afraid to ask your vendor for trends they’ve seen and complementary styles. Not everything has to be exactly the same. Mix it up with a twist of your personalities combined into one cohesive look. Play with textures, colors, and different types of papers to add little details your guests will take notice of as they see your stationery.

where to start

To figure out your timeline, start with your save-the-dates. These should be sent four to six months before your wedding. Not only does this allow for guests who are travelling to get your wedding date on their calendars, but it keeps you organized, as well, when you are booking and working with your vendors. Next are your wedding invitations. These will follow your save-the-dates with response cards four to six weeks before the wedding. This gives your guests ample time to reply and make their travel arrangements, as well as getting you numbers for your venue, caterer, and other



vendors you are working with. Following up with guests is inevitable. Although it takes extra time, be sure to allot enough room in your planning schedule to text, call, and message guests who have not responded—especially if you want to see them on your special day. Want to keep track of who has replied? Try numbering the RSVP cards and correlating them with a spreadsheet of guests. This way you can easily refer to your list and plan to follow up with those who have yet to reply. Another piece of stationery that is extremely helpful to send with your RSVPs are contact numbers. Oftentimes, as the bride you will be bombarded by calls and texts. Designating a family member or a

what to ask • How long have you been in business? • What are your pricing packages? • When is payment due? • Do you offer custom invitations? Is there an extra fee? • For customization, what are the options I have for fonts, color, paper, etc.? • Based on the paper we select and the number of pieces involved, what would it cost to mail our wedding invitations?

• Once I place our order, how long will it take to complete? • Will I have a proof before you print my stationery? • How much additional time will it take to redo my order if there is a problem with it? Is there a cost? • Do you have any rush-order availability? What does this cost? • Will you assemble the stationery if it involves multiple pieces? • Do you offer an addressing service? What are the fees? #BlackHillsBride

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beauty in the details

Wedding stationery is an easy way to add personality to your day. Not only can it complement the theme you’ve chosen for your wedding, it can also get guests excited about celebrating with you! From welcomeg pieces to guests’ hotel rooms and letter stationery to your spouse-to-be, to ceremony programs, table settings, and menus – custom pieces will add a special touch to your celebration. Ask your wedding photographer to put the little details on their list. Your stationery pieces will be a keepsake you will treasure for years to come.

Gone are the days of traditional feathered pens and a lined book for remembering the family and friends who attended your wedding day. When you choose a creative alternative for your guestbook, it can be used as a keepsake and even a decoration in your home. From art to helpful tools for the future, the possibilities are endless. Gathering signatures on artwork is a memorable way to capture the names of guests. Written names on a spinning globe or framed piece can adorn the walls and shelves of your home. For practical sign-in options, think of things you will want after your wedding day. Having guests write tips and date night ideas to put in a jar will be helpful down the road. Some couples have envelopes for guests to address their own thank-yous. This will fill your address book and help with post-wedding tasks.

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let’s party Rehearsal dinner and reception parties aren’t the only ways to celebrate your upcoming nuptials; there are plenty of smaller gathering opportunities, too. Family and friends can use the list below for inspiration on how to help you celebrate your marriage.

Share your celebrations with your guests by sending them a locally-designed invitation.

engagement party

Traditionally hosted by the parents, the engagement party is the first celebration of your upcoming wedding. Occasionally, parents of the bride and groom will host a party together, but separate parties are more popular. They provide a convenient way for parents to introduce their child’s fiancé(e) to family and friends.

bridal or couples’ showers

Customarily, the immediate family of the bride and groom are not the host of a shower, as it is viewed as asking for gifts. Rather, the honor attendant and bridesmaids host a shower. Since someone other than the bride always gives the shower, registry information may be included with the invitation.

bridesmaids’ luncheon

Depending on the level of formality the bride prefers, this luncheon may take place in a home or restaurant. This is a great opportunity for the bride to present her ladies with their wedding mementos, and also allows time to go over the planning timeline. Discuss items such as schedules



for final dress fittings, pre-wedding preparations and the run-through of the wedding day.

bachelor/ette party

This is the night you’ve been looking forward to! Just you and the girls on the last few days of single life. These gatherings can be fun and active or relaxing. Bachelorette parties often incorporate a theme and can include attending a sporting event, going to a comedy club or having a shopping excursion. Some groups enjoy activities such as paintball, gambling, golfing, bowling or even camping.

throwing a bachelorette party 101 There’s a lot of pressure on the maid of honor to plan the perfect bachelorette party, especially when you are busy with wedding planning. Bachelorette parties don’t necessarily mean a wild night of partying–it should be planned with your best interests in mind. Let your maid of honor know what you would like to avoid at your party. Choose a date and mark it on the calendar. Create a guest list of

everyone invited, which traditionally includes bridesmaids and a few close female friends and family members. Try not to invite anyone who isn’t invited to the wedding. A month before the bachelorette party, have your maid of honor send RSVPs to everyone on the guest list. Include details like the date, time, activity, and estimated duration. If applicable, make reservations at venues, attractions, or restaurants that are planned.


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top 2 bridal shower games bride & groom trivia Print out a varied list of facts about you and your fiancé. Have a mixture of everyday facts like “This person eats bagels every morning” and weird facts like “This person has more shoes than days in the month.” Distribute them to the guests and have them guess if it is a fact about the bride or the groom. The person with the most correct answers wins! telephone toast Take a page out of the summer camp book and play this fun variation of telephone. Have the guests sit in a circle. The bride thinks of a short toast. She whispers it in the ear of the person next to her. That person whispers it to the next, and so on until it gets to the last person. The last person says what they were told. Then the bride tells what the actual toast was. It is surprisingly difficult to get a coherent toast by the end.



Check the store’s return or exchange policy before you begin your registry.

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gift registry Registering for gifts is a great way to let your guests know what you want or truly need for the next chapter in your life together. It also helps cut down on the returns you will have to make after the wedding. Here are a few basic tips to help you through the process. Set up your registries soon after your engagement, as friends and family will look to it for gift-giving ideas for engagement parties and showers. At least one of your registries should allow online purchases for those who do not live in the area or do not have local opportunity to purchase the items on your list. Before you register, spend some time with your fiancé thinking about items you could use the most – as well as ones you already have. Plan on spending several hours cruising your favorite stores – both chains and locally-owned – to pick out just the right items. Registering can be fun and create a nice break between the hectic wedding-planning process.



Register for items at several stores and price points so as to give your guests flexibility in shopping. Include items that you need for the kitchen, bedroom and bathroom, but don’t forget to include “want” items that you and your groom have always intended to purchase down the road like hobby gear or tech items. If there is a rule of thumb on wedding gifts, this is it: whether the gift is what you registered for or comes from the gift-givers attic, always, always say “thank you” (even if you are planning to return the gift). Show you care by promptly sending notes; try to have them in the mail within a month after your honeymoon. Make all notes personal, refer to the gift that was given to you, and write them together. After all, you are a married couple now.

kitchen registry n Blender n Stand Mixer n Coffee Maker n Slow Cooker n Waffle Iron n Silverware/ Knives n Cookware bed & bath registry n Flat & Fitted Sheets n Blankets n Comforter Set n Towels n Scale n Hamper décor registry n Vases n Frames n Lamps

n Electronics n Furniture n Wall Art

outdoor & travel registry n Patio Set n Grill n Barbecue Set n Luggage n Camping Gear n Honeymoon Funds


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anniversary gifts traditional modern Paper Clocks Cotton China Leather Crystal/Glass Fruit/Flowers Appliances Wood Silverware Candy/Iron Wood Wool/Copper Desk Sets Bronze Linens/Lace Willow/Pottery Leather Aluminum/Tin Diamond Crystal Watches China Platinum Silver Silver Pearl Diamond Coral Jade Ruby Ruby Sapphire Sapphire Gold Gold Emerald Emerald Diamond Diamond

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keepsake gifts It can be easy to overlook the people who have helped make your dreams come true. Take the opportunity to say “thank you” for helping make your day unforgettable with unique keepsakes, engraved gifts or any of these ideas.

for your bridesmaids Factor your “thank you” into your intial wedding budget to ensure funds do not run out.

Assisting in the wedding preparations can be time-consuming for your bridesmaids. Consider giving engraved jewelry to use not only for your wedding day but in the future, as well. Gifts for your bridesmaids can also be practical, such as an embroidered tote bag or sweatshirt. Another gift idea for your wedding party is a gift certificate to a salon and spa or a restaurant.

for the groomsmen

Consider buying them their shirts, ties or socks to be worn with their suits. Engraved flasks or steins can also be fun! A simple gift lets them know that you appreciate their efforts and that you want to thank them for all that they have done to support you.

for your parents

They worked hard to raise you; they showed you what love is about – and most importantly, they helped make your wedding day possible. A personalized photo album or picture frame can be very dear to the heart and can incorporate both childhood and current pictures. It makes a great gift they are sure to love. Jewelry is a nice gift for mothers, and a personalized pen or watch is a great idea for fathers. Write a heartfelt thank-you



letter to give to both of them. Putting your words on paper can mean the world to parents, and will become a treasured keepsake as they watch the love grow between you.

for each other

The tradition of the bride and groom’s gift exchange may be fading, but many couples still honor this pastime. Perfume, watches and letters are great options to keep in mind.

remember your wedding day You’ve been planning your wedding for months, and in a blink of an eye, you’re off to your honeymoon and starting your new adventure together as Mr. and Mrs. Remember your day with these ideas. printed photos If you chose a package with your photographer that included prints, you will want to get them framed or put into an album. Decide what will work best with your lifestyle and décor. After placing your order with the photographer, give them some time to get everything

processed. It may take longer than you expect, so plan accordingly and ask your professional for an estimated date. ceremony memories Another great way to remember your wedding day is choosing a ceremony activity that can be treasured for a lifetime. Whether sand in a vase, a box of love letters, or your sand turned into a beautiful glass piece, it will be a fun anniversary piece to revisit each year.


UNITY GLASS CEREMONY The creative process begins with a beautiful and unique unity ceremony during your wedding. Unity Glass takes the unity ceremony to an emotional level of personalization and artistic expression. This one-of-a-kind art piece is a unique, symbolic, and a highly personal lasting alternative to the basic unity ceremony. During this ceremony the couple combines custom selected glass crystals. The crystals are then used by the glass artist to create the final Unity Glass, various designs available. You also have an opportunity to create unique and thoughtful gifts for family and friends with remaining unity ceremony glass crystals. A custom solid glass heart or blown glass ornament is a perfect thank you gift for those who made your day extra special.

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fashion & beauty

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walk in style We know shopping for the wedding dress is the most anticipated pre-wedding moment for brides, and it should be all fun. But having so many choices makes it easy to get overwhelmed. Plan ahead and follow these tips for the best shopping experience.

Once you find “the dress,” stop looking! Have faith in your decision, and enjoy the peace of mind that finding the perfect gown brings.

rules of engagement

Unless you plan for a twelve-month or longer engagement, set a budget right away and start looking for your wedding dress up to nine months before the wedding day. At the same time, don’t procrastinate these important pieces to your wedding day. Some dress designers require six to eight months to produce a dress; others may be quicker or even longer, so be sure to ask. Order early to avoid rush-order fees and to allow plenty of time for fittings, alterations and, of course, Murphy’s Law (whatever can go wrong, will).

come to terms

When you imagine yourself walking down the aisle, how would you describe the dress style you are wearing? If you need help with the terms to use, become familiar with specialty fabrics and dress silhouettes to help you communicate the details of what you want. If you are still searching for that certain look, flip through these magazine pages and mark the dresses you like for your consultant. Have a budget in mind before you go, and don’t be afraid to communicate your budget with the professional helping you at your appointment. After all, they are there to help your dress dreams come true and to provide you with the best shopping experience possible.



style guide

The details of your ceremony – the season, how formal it will be, the location, theme, etc. – should be used as a guide in choosing a dress. Select a fabric and finish that is appropriate for the location and weather of your wedding day. Each possible scenario calls for a different style of dress, so be sure to share this information at your appointment.

altered to fit

Don’t fixate on the size of the dress, but instead on how your measurements compare to the designer’s chart. Gown sizes usually run one to two sizes different than your everyday clothes.

shopping day have a price in mind Once you have a budget, don’t try on dresses outside of your limits. You won’t want to fall for a gown you can’t afford. Also remember to factor in your veil, lingerie, jewelry and shoes to create your budget. bring the extras Make sure to bring any accessories you have already purchased to ensure the styles are cohesive. This includes heirloom jewelry, hair pieces and shoes.

dress accordingly Keep your makeup light to keep the dresses clean. It also helps to have your hair similar to what you are looking for on your wedding day, too. local advantage Regardless of whether you know the look and love a particular designer or are starting from scratch, it’s best to shop local. The staff at local bridal salons can help get you started trying styles on right away.


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what to ask • How long should I expect my visit to last? • Are appointments one-on-one? • Can I schedule an appointment after hours? • How long does it take to order a bridal gown? • Do I have to take my gown home after I purchase it? • Are rental gowns available? • When do I need to start alterations? • Can you alter dresses not purchased at your store? • Will you alter any brand of dress? • How long does it take to order bridesmaid dresses? • What should I do if my bridesmaids are not local? • What happens if my bridesmaid finds out she’s pregnant? • Are any discounts available for the wedding party if we purchase the dress and/or suit at your store? • What information do you need to rent tuxedos? • Is it possible to rent just a few parts of the tuxedo? • Do you accept returns?



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Prior to purchasing your gown, check the cleaning and storage requirements. Often, gowns will not have care tags sewn into the side–so ask your retailer for instruction.



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preserve your gown

Your wedding gown is going to be beautiful, and probably the largest investment on a dress you will ever make. Its showcase will be the day of your wedding, but there are tasks before and after the big day to make sure your dress stays in perfect condition. You love that dress with all your heart leading up to the wedding. It’s your baby and you make sure every little detail is precise and it is sparkly new. When your wedding day comes, your focus will shift to what’s actually going on. The dress will be dragged on the ground, through glitter and grass. You’re going to have a great time and food will drop and drinks will be spilled. It’s ok!

After the wedding, your gown should be cleaned and protected. At the cleaners, let them know of anything and everything that was spilled on your dress. Since the heat from the cleaning will essentially set the stains, pre-treating will be important if you don’t want brown spots on the gown. Preserving your gown is crucial if you want your dress kept in good condition. All of the elaborate beading, sequins, and lace may cause complications during the cleaning…but don’t let that stop you from getting the gown of your dreams. Talk through the process with your vendor and be patient with the processes they will need to take. To store the dress, ask for your gown to be placed in a dust-proof, acid-free box suitable for storage. This will preserve all of the delicate laces, beading and fabric of your wedding ensemble, helping keep the yellow hues away. Last but not least, store your gown in an area that is cool and dry.


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bridal beauty Chances are that more photos will be taken of a newlywed couple on their big day than at any other moment in their shared lifetime. Make sure you put forward your best look as you get ready for what may be the most important and memorable day in your life. Here are just a few of the beauty options available to you as you prepare. Don’t drastically change your everyday look for your wedding too close to the big day. You still want your pictures to look like you!

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Having your hair done by a professional is important to ensure that your hair will withstand countless hugs and any unknown elements throughout your wedding day. When meeting with your stylist, bring a photo of the hairstyle you would like to have done, but remember to remain flexible – there are a lot of factors that go into each and every look. Schedule a trial run of your style several weeks prior to the wedding, and bring your accessories. When you’ve chosen a style you like best, have your bridesmaids do something similar for a cohesive, complementary look. On the day of the wedding, wear a button-up shirt or robe to keep your hair and makeup looking flawless.

caring for your skin

Nothing is more beautiful than the natural glow of happiness that comes from within a bride on her wedding day. To improve the look of your skin, schedule a series of facials with your last appointment no later than two weeks before the big day.



Begin to implement a daily skin-care routine of three basic steps: cleanse, exfoliate and moisturize to care for your face. You can then add any special products to help repair and rejuvenate your skin, but be sure to test new products in advance. Exfoliate your body weekly to achieve a healthy shine – paying special attention to the parts of your skin that will be exposed when you are in your dress. Don’t forget to moisturize with a body cream!

sun-kissed skin

A fresh tan looks stunning against a white wedding gown. If your skin has the ability to tan, look for a vendor that offers skin profiling to help determine the best tanning unit for the color you’re looking for, lotion that will work best and the time allotment for each session. You will want

bridal fitness seek advice Talking to a certified trainer will help you understand your body type, fat type, BMI and other factors – making the process of getting in shape easier. stick to the program Give yourself time to see results. It’s best to start your fitness training six months to one year prior to your wedding day.

watch what you eat Be cautious of what you are putting into your body. Opt for healthy foods, including whole grains, meats, and vegetables. call the pros Not seeing results? There are countless businesses that specialize in slimming, detoxifying and toning options to give a boost to any weight-loss program you use.


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what to ask • Do you have my date available? • Can we schedule a trial run? Is there an extra fee? • If I change my mind on my bridal beauty look, is there a charge for a re-trial? • How long will it take to have my hair and makeup done? • What should I do if I don’t have my hair accessories yet? • Are you able to do my bridesmaids’ hair and/or makeup, too? • Will you travel? What is the cost? • Do you bring your own equipment and products? • What kind of space and lighting do you need? • Will you bring an assistant to help you? • How many hair styles and makeup can you complete in a set time frame? • If you are not at the wedding, can you provide me with hair products and makeup for quick fixes?



to build a base tan, and remember – the number-one rule is never, ever to burn. If you have Type-1 skin (fair skin that burns easily) or want to try something beyond the beds, spray tanning is a great alternative. The color takes anywhere from two to four hours to develop and usually lasts five to seven days, but can vary depending on the product. To ensure the results are what you are looking for, do a practice spray tan at least two weeks prior to your wedding day and use a professional. You don’t want to be orange for all of your photos.

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Makeup for big events works a little differently than your everyday look. A professional makeup artist can help you choose a foundation and colors that complement your skin tone and give you a smooth, natural look that will last. As with all beauty services, schedule a time prior to your wedding day. Bring in your inspiration photos and clearly communicate the look you are hoping to achieve. Then, let your artist create a gorgeous, lasting appearance for you! Inevitably a few tears will be shed, so use waterproof mascara and eye makeup. When you practice, take a picture of your new look at the same time of day that your wedding will be held, and remember – flash photography is less forgiving than a mirror.

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Your hands will be on stage for the entire day – signing the certificate, showing off your rings, shaking hands. Get them looking polished with a good wedding-day manicure. Be strategic when selecting your colors and designs. You won’t want to cringe at dark burgundy nails years from now. You can always use the bold colors on your toes! Getting your nails done ahead of time leaves room for smudges and chips. Explore your options at the salon with gel and acrylic artificial nails that have a longer, stronger lifespan beyond your wedding day. #BlackHillsBride


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DO hire a professional hairstylist and makeup artist. They have the experience and tools to help you look your best. DON’T tweeze or wax brows the day of the ceremony. Instead, take care of hair removal a day or two before. DO allot enough time for your beauty appointment. If you will be going to a salon, block out two or more slots to avoid being rushed. DON’T make any drastic changes to your looks right before the wedding. This includes your hair color, extreme tanning or chopping off all your hair. DO bring a veil, headpiece and any other accessories to your hair consult. DON’T forget to schedule a trial run. Schedule it several months before the wedding day so you have ample time to work with your stylists. DO exfoliate your skin prior to the wedding to remove any dryness and errant flakes. Moisturize well to ensure a smooth palette for makeup application. DON’T wash or condition hair the day of the wedding. Intricate styles tend to stay better when hair has a little grip.

DO wear a little more makeup than you are used to wearing because it will show up better in photos. However, do not wear so much that you look clownish. DON’T wear too much under-eye concealer or one that is too light a shade. This can draw more attention to problem areas. DO experiment with any products you haven’t used recently to test for allergic reactions before the wedding. wedding day emergency kit n Brush / comb n Bobby pins n Styling products n Cotton balls n Q-Tips n Tissues n Makeup kit n Makeup remover n Baby powder n Hand mirror n Hair dryer n Curling / flat irons n Ponytail holder n Clear nail polish n Deodorant n Toothbrush



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Feel free to have some fun with your attire. You can set yourself apart with a different vest and tie color, brightly colored socks, or shoes that show off your personality.

in with your groomsmen periodically to ensure that everyone is on schedule with alterations. The groom, like the bride, has the option of purchasing, renting or having wedding-day attire tailor-made. Purchasing a tux or a suit is a good investment and can be worn over and over again – especially for your career. Rented formal wear usually includes a jacket, vest, shirt, neckwear, cufflinks, pants and shoes. Remember to recognize the importance of the day and know there are options to fit your style. Yes, the spotlight of the day will no doubt be on the lovely bride – but the groom should look good, too. Whatever the degree of formality the wedding theme may carry, these tips will help when ordering attire. First, it’s beneficial to know that formalwear can be separated into four styles: black tie, formal, semiformal and casual. The time of your ceremony will strongly influence the level of formality, in turn influencing the attire. Other considerations such as color and theme will also play a part in the selection. You will want to give yourself plenty of time to order your attire. Formalwear should be reserved or purchased at least six months in advance and all measurements taken at least three months prior to the wedding to allow plenty of time for alterations. If your groomsmen live in different parts of the country, have them measured by a local tailor and the details forwarded to your store. Be sure to check

groom’s checklist n Choose your best man, groomsmen, and ushers n Shop for wedding bands n Select tuxes or suits for groomsmen n Arrange for wedding-day transportation n Buy the bride a memorable gift n Double-check tuxedo orders and sizes n Make sure all groomsmen know when final fittings are and where they’ll be n Pick out groomsmen gifts n Pick up your wedding rings and doublecheck engravings

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saying “i do” Your ceremony is the start of something beautiful. It not only kicks off the biggest party of your life once you say “I do,” but it also ignites a new adventure for you and your soon-to-be spouse – no matter how long you have been together. Here are some details to think about while planning the perfect beginning.

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officiant or clergy

First, discuss your beliefs with your fiancé to ensure that the ceremony is meaningful to both of you. If you follow a particular faith, you and your partner may want to consider a religious ceremony in a house of worship, church or temple. The other option would be a civil ceremony (in accordance with state laws) that has a judge, justice of the peace, county clerk or officiant to solemnize your nuptials. Once you both decide what kind of ceremony you would like to have, make a list and start meeting with officiants and pastors. Look for the perfect person to solemnize your wedding, making sure your personalities, values and beliefs blend well together. After deciding on your officiant, ask for help in creating the type of ceremony you would like to have – a service unique to you and your spouse. For instance, a casual, outdoor wedding might require different components than a formal, religious ceremony in a church.

preparing for forever

Your wedding preparations should also include preparing for a lifetime together. Premarital counseling and education has proven to significantly reduce the divorce



rate (30-40%) and increase the quality of your intimate relationship. Create a strong foundation, not only for your wedding day, but for your new adventure together as a married couple. Choose a program that covers effective communication, barriers in your relationship and successfully easing tension with conflict management. Counseling will also help you understand each of your histories and how to work with them toward health and healing. You will also work through money matters and leisure time, as well as sexuality and intimacy myths and truths. You’ll learn how to stay connected and achieve your marital expectations, dreams and goals together while communicating with one another effectively.

unity symbols wine blend While the bride pours a white wine, the groom pours a red – making a unique blush wine that can be enjoyed after the wedding day. sand ceremony Two smaller vessels filled with different colored sand pour into a central vessel. cord of three strands The bride and groom braid three strands together

symbolizing the union of God, husband and wife. a box of love letters Place love letters into a box to be read to one another when times get tough. avoid disaster Take religious restrictions seriously. Meet with your officiant one to two months after getting engaged. Your ceremony venue may have rules on premarital counseling, reciting vows, attire and music restrictions. #BlackHillsBride

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what to ask: • Are you available on my wedding date? What time? • How much do you charge? • Are there extra fees for travel? • How long have you been performing weddings? • What are your credentials? • How long is your average wedding ceremony? • Can we write our own vows? If so, will you help us create them? • Will you give a sermon or a speech? Can we see it beforehand? • Can you give us an overview of the service? • Do you have any restrictions we should know about? • Will you perform the ceremony outside? • Will you attend the rehearsal? • Will you be joining us at the reception? • What is expected of us in terms of pre-marital classes? • How many pre-wedding meetings will we have with you?



Although there may be hesitation at the beginning when mentioning counseling, it is a step in your wedding planning that you will be glad you chose to take part in.

vows that wow

Your vows are not something that you recite and repeat at your ceremony. This is the most important promise you’ll ever make to each other, so it should reflect your feelings and beliefs. Traditional vows have been repeated for centuries and give some couples a sense of permanence after reciting them. An alternative is creating your own vows. Before you opt for this approach, check with your officiant to see if they are okay with it. Once you’ve got the thumbsup, begin by looking for inspiration and settling on a format and tone with your fiancé. After the details are chosen, write it all out – including moments from your relationship and promises you will make to your partner for the new adventure ahead.



readings to remember

Many couples choose to have a scripture passage or quotes read at their ceremony. Here are a couple of ideas that are sure to leave your guests inspired. “But ‘God made them male and female’ from the beginning of creation. ‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” Mark 10:6–9 (NLT) “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not selfseeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Cor. 13:4–7 (NIV)


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set the scene Rental vendors know which pieces will work best in countless situations. Don’t be afraid to trust their advice!

Beautifully decorated weddings require creative talent, many hours and an extensive inventory of items. Hiring a professional is a wise investment you won’t regret. Many brides underestimate what’s involved in the decorating process – the time researching, gathering the items, setting them up and then tearing them down. Décor professionals will help you to avoid the frustration of producing your dream wedding on your own.

have a guest count estimate for the quantity of items you will need to reserve before talking to your vendor; a little more than planned is always safe! Once you have your order, be ready to place a deposit for your pieces. Many businesses will have a wide selection of accessories to rent including arches, chair covers, aisle runners and more. Some vendors will have specific items like tables or portable restrooms.

name your style and theme

get it in writing

A theme is usually a phrase like “vintage glam” or “rustic chic” that will sum up the overall feel and design of your wedding day. It’s important to select your theme along with colors and style before you get started, as it will extend to every detail of the day, including your venue, attire and more.

get creative

This is your big day, and making your venue uniquely yours is important. A growing trend in many weddings is to post special messages to guests on chalkboards. These signs help spread the word about where to sit, which hashtags to use and where things are happening without having to make an announcement. Instead of trying to learn to chalk, hire an artist who creates gorgeous displays that your guests are sure to recognize.

booking rentals

Some ceremony and reception sites will require that you rent equipment from an outside source, which can turn any setting into something spectacular. Be sure to



Once you have decided to work with a particular vendor, sign a detailed, written contract that covers all dates and times. Be aware of your responsibilities and your vendor’s duties for your wedding day, and reconfirm your arrangements several weeks before your wedding.

options • Chairs • Tables • Linens • Drinkware • Flatware • Drink fountain • Coffee percolator • Cake stand • Tent • Dance floor • Lighting • Draping • Portable bar • A/V equipment • Centerpieces • Arches • Aisle runner • Backdrops • Garland • Candles • Lanterns • Signage

• Baskets • Portable washroom • Ladders • Dolly / Carts your rental budget The summer months and early fall are peak wedding months for many vendors. Prices could be higher and availability may be limited. Talk to your rental vendors six to nine months out to book key products. Then, finalize the details three to four weeks before the big day. #BlackHillsBride

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what to ask • Do you have a list of products you offer? • Are you licensed and insured? • What gratuity and sales tax will be added to these fees? • When are the deposit and payment due? • What is the cancellation policy? • Do you have any referrals for vendors? • Do you provide site diagramming with your service? • Have you decorated/set up at my venue before? • What are your costs for delivery? Are there additional fees for special delivery requirements? • Are you available to set up? What is the fee? • If outside, can you suggest a weather back-up plan? • Do you handle relevant permits if needed? • What is the return policy after our event? Is there a timeline?



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rain Take a practice walk to see if your shoes are going to stick into the ground or slip and slide. Consider purchasing umbrellas for each of your guests to use, or send out a message asking your guests to come prepared for the possibility of wet weather cold Have your bridesmaids wear a wrap, shrug or cape to keep the shivers under control during the ceremony. You can also look into renting space heaters for the reception. wind If you are using candles at your ceremony, try placing glass covers over the flames to keep them burning strong. Tack down any flowy curtains or other loose materials to prevent them from blowing away. Don’t forget to secure your hair with setting spray and pins to ensure flawless hair in the breeze. heat You want your guests’ hearts to melt, not the frosting on your cake. If your wedding day is projected to be a scorcher, talk to your baker in advance. You can also provide your guests with paper fans to keep cool during the ceremony.

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bouquets After you have secured a venue and chosen a theme for your wedding day, it’s time to book your florist. Flowers are more than a bouquet and boutonnière; they add personality to your event, bringing your celebration to the next level. Here are some of the details to pin down for a productive meeting.

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wedding size and budget

If you have no idea how to come up with a budget for flowers, then start out with 8-10% of the overall budget. You can always allocate more if you are using large quantities of flowers for aisles and centerpieces. Figuring out how many bouquets and boutonnières are needed for the bridal party, plus how many table arrangements you will need for guest seating, will also help to determine your floral budget allocation. With that figure, your floral designer can guide you toward the types of flowers and designs that will help you stay within or close to that amount. Keep in mind that most flowers can be ordered any time of year, but flowers and greenery that are in season will generally be a less-expensive option for your ceremony..

flower types and visual aids

Are there any specific flowers or a design you know you like and just have to have? Bring in photos of the styles you like so as to help communicate your ideas.



Not that you want an exact replica, but you may love one example for the shape of the bouquet, another for the type of flowers or the elements used, and yet another for the color scheme. Flowers are seasonal, so keep in mind that what you want may not necessarily be available or cost-effective. Lastly, it’s a good idea to note any flower allergies that you or your groom might have and share them with the floral designer to avoid any untimely sneezes.

descriptive words

Along with the photos, decide on a few descriptive words to help express the style you have in mind. Try to use meaningful words like formal, vintage, rustic, casual and glam, while avoiding basic words like

know your style Prepare for your floral consultation by listing your wedding color palette and special touches like monograms and themes you want to incorporate into your flowers. The atmosphere of the ceremony venue may have a big impact on your floral design (e.g., rustic, modern, elegant). terms to know cascade A waterfall effect, where blooms spill from one handheld base.

hand-tied A larger bouquet of assorted flowers in a loosely gathered design. nosegay This is a small, hand-held bouquet of fragrant flowers and foliage. pageant Long-stemmed flowers the bride carries cradled in her arm. remembrance Bouquet in memory of a lost loved one or family member who may not be able to attend the wedding celebration.


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what to ask: • Do you have my date open? • How many weddings or events will you schedule in the same day? • What flowers are in season for the month we’re getting married? • What can you suggest to tie in my bouquet with the boutonnières, bridesmaid flowers and centerpieces? • If I have a photo of a bouquet I like, are you able to recreate it? • Will you work with my cake designer if I decide to have flowers on my cake, too? • How far in advance of the wedding will you create the bouquets and arrangements? How are they stored? • Will you preserve my bouquet after the wedding? • Do you deliver? What are your fees?



elegant or simple, unless that is really what you mean. When choosing descriptive words, think how you would describe your gown, venues or wedding theme.

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other considerations



Complement your dress, personality and proportions when choosing your bridal bouquet. Here are some basic considerations to factor in before making your final choice. All-white bouquets are the most traditional choice for brides, while the use of color in a bridal bouquet is a beautiful way to express individual personality. Consider using accent flowers in your different wedding colors, or just something bright and fun. Consider any embellishments on the front of the dress; you won’t want to obscure the beautiful beading or lace with a large bouquet.

agree on details

Thoroughly discuss your ideas of how you would like to see your bouquet look, share your photos and descriptive words of the feel you want to accomplish, and then trust your designer. A good florist thrives on having the blessing of doing what is best for the look of the arrangement. Keep in mind, they are working with a natural product. Floral pieces may come in different colors, sizes and shapes than planned. Try to be as flexible as possible and believe the floral designer is working for you with their best intentions at heart. At the end of the consultation, or shortly thereafter, you should receive a quote for costs and a summary of the meeting. This is not set in stone and nothing is ordered until the contract is signed, so if you want to expand and make something greater, then just let your florist know as soon as possible. Although your flowers will not need to be ordered until a few months before your wedding date, six months is a good timeline to choose your floral vendor and get on the schedule – no matter the size or complexity of the floral designs you may choose. #BlackHillsBride

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seasonal blooms Spring • Anemone • Apple or Cherry Blossoms • Bells of Ireland • Boronia • Casa Blanca Lily • Daffodil • Delphinium • Dogwoods • Forsythia Branches • Hyacinth • Hydrangeas • Iris • Larkspur • Lilacs • Lisianthus • Narcissus • Pansies • Peony • Ranunculus • Stargazer Lily • Sweetpea • Tulip • Waxflower



Summer • Alstromeria • Anemone • Asters • Bells of Ireland • Chrysanthemum • Dahlias • Daisies • Delphinium • English Lavender • Forget-me-not • Freesia • Gerbera Daisy • Hydrangea • Iris • Larkspur • Liatris • Lily, Asiatic • Lily, Oriental • Lisianthus • Matsumoto Asters • Monte Casino Asters • Queen Anne's Lace • Snapdragons • Solidaster • Statice • Stephanotis • Stock • Sunflower • Tuberose • Viburnum • Yarrow • Zinnia • Ranunculus

Fall • Asiatic Lily • Calla Lilies • Aster • Chrysanthemum • Dahlia • Gerbera Daisies • Marigold • Statice • Sunflowers • Zinnia • Dried Leaves Winter • Amaryllis • Anemone • Bells of Ireland • Camellias • Casa Blanca Lily • Cosmos • Daffodil • Forget-me-nots • Holly • Jasmine • Narcissus • Poinsettia • Ranunculus • Stargazer Lily • Star of Bethlehem • Stephanotis • Sweetpea • Tulip • Waxflower • Pines & Evergreens & Berries

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picture perfect Wedding photographers book fast. If you have a certain one in mind, then call right away as some will book a year in advance.

Weddings are full of laughs, happy tears and memories you will treasure forever. Fortunately, the right wedding photographer can gorgeously preserve the entire event’s happenings, the emotions of the day and the fun – which you will cherish. One perfect picture can instantly take you back to the happiest day of your life, and one perfect album of images can become your favorite coffee-table book. Do not take a gamble; hire a professional photographer. Invest time in choosing a talented vendor who is a good match for you and your fiancé. Remember, price should not be your sole factor in hiring your photographer; the value of having top-quality pictures will be priceless. Here are simple tips for finding a professional who will capture the event perfectly.

find your style

Determine the photographer’s style – is it photojournalistic or traditional? Look through social media pages and websites for a sample of a photographer’s work. Then, decide which style matches the look you’re going for. The photojournalistic style captures little moments, rather than poses, creating candid and spontaneous images that convey the genuine emotion of your day as it naturally unfolds. You will end up with a wide array of shots, some you may not have even witnessed, and they will serve as a record of the great time your guests had.

Traditional, formal photography refers to posed pictures. These usually consist of standard poses, such as the wedding party, the couples’ families, the shots of the bridesmaids with their bouquets, the groom with his parents, and the happy couple gazing into each other’s eyes. Generally, most photographers will have a mix of both styles. Where they begin to differ lies in their editing techniques. Some professionals will apply basic retouches while others will place filters and color corrections on your images. Be sure to look at many galleries and choose the style you like best.

share your expectations

Open and clear communication is essential to getting the wedding photos you’re counting on. Share your expectations,

photo checklist getting ready n Bride’s hair & makeup n Bride & mother n Groom n Bridesmaids n Groomsmen details n Bride’s dress n Jewelry & accessories n Groom’s apparel n Flowers n Invitations & programs bridal party n The first look n Bride only

n Bride & groom n Groom only n Bride with

bridesmaids n Bride with

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groomsmen ceremony n Guests n Wedding party n Flower girl(s) n Ring bearer(s) n Groom at the altar n Bride walking down the aisle More photo checklist items can be found on page 157.




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what to ask • Do you have my date available? • How far in advance do I need to book? • How long have you been photographing weddings? • How many weddings do you shoot each season? • What is included in your pricing? • Do you charge for travel if my site is out of your area? • How much is the deposit? • Do you offer a payment plan? • How would you describe your style? • Do you have a recent portfolio I can view? • Am I able to give you a list of specific shots we would like? • What information do you need from me on our wedding day? • Will you help us create a wedding day schedule? • Will you be the photographer at my wedding? • Do you have a second shooter? • What do you/your photographers wear? • How long will it take to get proofs?



and never assume that your photographer knows what you want. Vague terms like “modern,” “close-up” and “artistic” can mean very different things to a bride and her photographer. One way to be sure everyone is on the same page is to go through sample shots together, identify ones you like and explain why you chose those images. If you have certain images you want to have taken, ask for them and create a shot list with the vendor you have chosen. Talk with your photographer, and be honest about your expectations. Making a “musthave” list will help ensure that nothing is missed on your wedding day. When you are creating your shotlist, be realistic and understand the timetable you are giving to your photographer. Don’t expect 20 different shots in a five-minute window.

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covering all the angles

When looking through your options, consider a wedding package that includes a second photographer. Your photographer cannot be in more than one place at a time, and a second camera will help capture all important moments from a different angle. While one person photographs the bride throwing her bouquet, the second shooter can focus on all the ladies who are diving for it. While one takes family photos, the other can catch details at the reception. While one photographer captures you walking down the aisle, the other can capture your groom’s expression at the altar.

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create a schedule



Your photographer can help you establish a wedding-day schedule, taking into account your photo shot list. Instead of having the wedding party and family members milling around for several hours waiting for their photo opportunity, give them the schedule showing when they need to be where.

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photography package is the right one for your needs? Start by asking what the photographers on your list offer, and if you can customize a package based on your shot list, needs and budget. Are engagement photos included in the packages? Be sure to ask! If you want all your images, ask about the fee for a CD of digital images. Oftentimes, photographers have a watermark on the photos they take, so find out if your digital images will have the mark removed. Next, ask about the type of album designs offered and if they provide any assistance in creating your keepsake. It’s common for couples to need help in narrowing down the hundreds of images from their wedding day. Find out if retouching, color adjustment or other corrective services are provided for an additional fee. Lastly, find out about the proofing and ordering process. It’s typical for images to be viewable online and ordered through your photographer. Ask how much time will pass after the wedding before you will see the proofs, and how long after you order your photos and album until you will receive them. Be patient, and remember this process does take time.

photo displays

Photo displays are a great way to showcase the coming together of two families. Featuring photos from your childhood up to your engagement is a creative way to introduce yourselves. Here are a few ideas to add that personal touch. Design photo-lanterns to use as centerpieces or to hang around your reception area. They are decorative and a great source of soft light. Glue old photo frames together in a triangle shape to create table centerpieces – put a candle in the middle for added effect. Ask friends and family for photos of you, the groom or you as a couple and hang them at the reception. Try displaying them on a picture board or with string and clothespins. Placing pictures of you and your groom at different ages, perhaps corresponding with wedding-table numbers, gives a personal touch to your table arrangement and seating plan. However you choose to display your images, the possibilities are endless! #BlackHillsBride

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Before hiring a videographer, ask to see examples of their work to ensure it is the style of filming you want for your day.

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love in motion You have worked to plan the most beautiful day, and where photography can capture the still moments of your wedding, there is still a story in motion waiting to be told. Videography is the perfect way to replay your wedding day memories over and over again – capturing the little things, like the fluid movement of the bride making her way down the aisle or the groom’s reaction as he sees her.

know your options

Videographers are professional storytellers, so you will want to make sure that they are able to capture the parts of your story you want to tell. For example, in addition to the wedding day video of your ceremony and reception, you and your fiancé might want to consider having



your vendor create a short clip – perhaps of how you met and fell in love – to show at your rehearsal dinner. Having this kind of video at your event is a fun way for family members and friends to get to know you as a couple, if they haven’t had the chance. You will need to have interview questions for your videographer to ask you as they film your clip. Practicing what you want to say can help calm your nerves in front of the camera. When you begin planning your budget, allocate an adequate amount for a professional – it’s worth it! You won’t want the shots to be blurry or the sound to be muffled as you replay your wedding day a year later.

questions to ask: • Do you have my date available? • How long have you been in business? • What is included in your price? • What is the payment schedule? • Do you have a preferredvendors list of area professionals you like working with? • How would you describe your filming style? • What input do you need from us? • Have you shot at my venue(s) before?

• Will there be a second shooter? • What do your camera and equipment look like? Do we need to provide anything? • Is there a back-up plan if there is equipment failure on our wedding day? • How long after the wedding do we wait for our copy of the video? • What is your cancellation policy?




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catering & cakes

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your meal What you will be serving is an important question to ask when you are choosing your meal. It’s more than flavor; presentation and service are also big on the list to consider. Having your meal catered by a professional ensures the details will be taken care of and none of your guests will have to miss out on the party because they are stuck in the kitchen.

Use the time of your reception to narrow your choices. If the dinner will be served earlier, a lighter meal is adequate, while a full meal is more common later in the day.



on-site option or hire your own

The venue you select will have some impact on the caterer you choose, as some locations require you use their on-site catering service or work within their list of preferred vendors. These vendors will typically provide all china, flatware, glassware, service, clean up and gratuity in their catering price range. A professional caterer will provide incomparable food with an excellent display. Services will usually include preparing the food, packaging it for wedding service, transporting it to the site, preparing the service table and providing staff for serving. Before you choose your meal, do some research on a variety of vendors. Then, determine your preferences and set up an interview. While most caterers can offer a variety of cuisine, there are caterers who specialize in barbecue, ethnic cuisine or vegetarian menus.

consider the extras

As you can imagine, the more complex the dĂŠcor and presentation of the food, the more labor hours it will take to create. Increasing the food quality will also result in a higher per-person cost for your reception. If your budget is limited, determine your priorities and spend the bulk of your catering dollars in that area.

booking your caterer

Complete a contract with the caterer that includes a listing of the foods selected, services to be provided and the cost. Know the number of servers that will be present, hours of service to be provided and arrival and departure times. Find out about all deadlines and due dates prior to your agreement for clear communication.

the options buffets Usually consisting of long tables laden with both hot and cold menu items, buffets give the newlyweds more time to mingle with guests. plated service Served individually by professional wait staff, plated meals are great for time-sensitive celebrations.

Couples mistakenly believe this option to be expensive, but it will depend on what you serve. food stations These self-serve stations are individual tables throughout the room grouped by cuisine keeping the pickiest eater content with options. family style For a warm, inviting atmosphere, this style centers around platters placed at each setting that are passed amongst those seated. #BlackHillsBride

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what to ask: • Do you have my date available? • What service costs are included? • How are gratuities figured? • How much time do you need for setup? • Have you done events at my venue before? • Do you have a state Health Department license and liability insurance? • Will you be personally handling the meal service at my wedding? • Are you willing to include a family recipe in the menu? • Can we schedule a tasting of the menu we choose? What is the cost for this? • What is your average cost per person? • Can you prepare special meal requests? • Do you charge a serving fee? • Do you provide beverage service? • Do you have a liquor license? • What is the ratio of servers to guests and how will they be dressed?




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menus & myths chicken. However, many caterers can work wonders with different cuts of beef, making it a great alternative. You may have to forego the filet mignon, but a skirt steak cooked to perfection and served with a mouthwatering reduction sauce can be equally as impressive.

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plated dinners are expensive

Looking for more tips on choosing your menu? See more Black Hills Bride articles online.

There are so many options when it comes to the type of catering and the choice of food you decide to serve. Likewise, there are misconceptions to go with each. Here are a few common, budget-friendly reception menu myths debunked by local culinary experts.

finger foods are cheaper

Creating perfectly designed hors d’oeuvres, or cutting up enough fruit and cheese to serve a crowd, can be infinitely more time-consuming for a caterer than putting together a simple meal. Even in large quantities, most dinner components can be prepared in a single batch, whereas those adorable little crudités require someone to carefully stack and arrange them, one at a time.

beef will cut into your budget

It’s commonly recommended to skip the beef and opt for “more affordable”



People have been trying to figure out the cost difference between buffet-style meals and plated options for years. It truly will depend on your guest list and the vendor you choose. Buffets provide an array of options to guests, while plated meals control portion sizes.

cheers to you Most people associate weddings with champagne toasts, but there are other drinks to consider for your big day, too. wines Both reds and whites are great culinary complements. beer Providing beer on tap for your guests is a great alternative to an open bar. This can be a perfect compromise for both your guests

and your wallet. Add locally-brewed favorites for an additional twist. cocktails A unique way to include a special memory is to create a signature cocktail to feature at your reception. coffee Java lovers who want something different can set up a coffee bar with an array of flavored syrups and toppings like whipped cream and shaved chocolate. Guests will love it, especially if you are hosting your event in the winter months. #BlackHillsBride

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traditional to trendy At the end of the day your wedding menu should be all about what you as the bride and groom enjoy.

In recent years, brides and grooms have experimented with a variety of cuisines when it comes to their wedding reception menu. From Chinese takeout-themed buffets to innovative food stations that let guests pick and choose how to fill their plates, these anything-goes receptions have put classic menus on the backburner. But trendy foods and eccentric setups aren’t for everyone. Here are some options when planning your meal.

the first course

traditional The Garden Salad a mix of greens with tomatoes, cucumbers and the guests' choice of a few popular dressings like ranch and Italian vinaigrette. the twist Be creative with your salad by incorporating some different greens, such as arugula and kale; adding unexpected toppings like fruit; and topping it all off with an inventive dressing like chipotle-honey or avocado-lime. the trend Forget the salad and go for an elegant chilled soup like gazpacho or spicy tomato basil bisque.

the main course

traditional A selection of chicken, beef, or fish will satisfy most guests regardless of their food preferences. You may also want to consider offering a vegetable dish to accommodate



vegetarian guests. Add to the plate with a vegetable side like French cut green beans or a medley of roasted root vegetables. the twist Think about flavorful sauces that will enhance your meat and fish options. A zesty picatta does wonders for boosting a bland chicken breast, and toppings like a mango chutney complement grilled salmon perfectly. Drizzle mashed potatoes with truffle oil to create a side that is as delectable to eat as it is to smell, or try substituting the traditional rice with a different grain such as couscous or quinoa. the trend Think outside the American box! Latin- or Asian-inspired dishes are quickly becoming some of the most popular menu items at weddings across the country. Keep it simple with familiar items such as pot stickers, spring rolls, and lo mein.

the final plate

traditional A classic tiered cake layered with your favorite flavors and topped with a decadent icing. the twist Try new flavor combinations like Swiss almond pound cake with a mocha almond filling or key lime cake with vanilla buttercream icing. the trend Forget the cake! Candy and cookie bars are gaining popularity, along with the idea of bite-sized desserts. An assortment of pies is another great way to add variety and appease a number of tastes and preferences.


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sweet treats To ensure that your baker will have enough time to complete your design, talk to the vendor six months in advance.

Choosing a cake starts by breaking the design into several basic categories. Once you put the process into steps, it will make the task less stressful – and some may even call it fun! In the end, you will have a cake that is uniquely your own and will take your guests’ breath away. If you are going the traditional route with a tiered cake, the number of wedding guests will define the size of your cake, as well as how many tiers it should have. Ask how many guests can be served per tier, figuring on one slice per guest. Wedding cakes also include an additional anniversary tier. Adding sheet cakes is an economical option and allows you to serve several flavors. Still looking for that multilevel look? Ask your baker! Oftentimes, they can create a faux layer out of foam or even rice crispy treats so your overall look has the effect you've always dreamt about–without the costs.

the flavors

Your wedding cake doesn’t have to be white, unless of course that’s your favorite. Doing a taste test as part of your research allows you to confidently decide on what kind of wedding cake you desire. Red velvet lemon, and chocolate are popular. Do you have multiple layers? Try mixing it up and offering a selection! Once you have decided on the flavor of the cake, you will want to start thinking about frosting and fillings. If you need



suggestions, ask your baker to share the most frequently-ordered flavor combinations. With the incredible number of flavors and types of fillings, you will be able to create some pretty spectacular combinations. From buttercreams and fondants to jams and jellies, your cake should taste as amazing as it is sure to look.

the design

Your cake decorations can be as simple or as lavish as you want. Find images that demonstrate your ideas to portray the look and feel to your vendor. Just as describing the theme of your wedding to your venue or decorater, you will want to paint your baker a picture of the setting the cake will sit in to ensure it fits with the overall theme of your wedding day. Fresh flowers, greenery, fondant garnishes, and piped designs are always timeless options. More decorating terms can be found on page 96. what to ask: • Is my date available? • Are you licensed and insured? • How long have you been in business? • How much is the deposit? • What is the payment schedule? • How many other events will you book on the same day? • Do you deliver? How far? • How large is a serving size? • Who will add

the floral decorations? • Do you set up the cake table? • Is the cake prepared fresh for the wedding day? • What is your specialty style? • If we want to serve a cake and cupcakes, can you do both? • Do you have a portfolio we can select from? • Are you able to create a custom design? #BlackHillsBride

groom’s cake

What better way to surprise your groom than with a themed cake incorporating one of his obsessions? Produce a fish-shaped cake, one with a sports theme or even one with an eightpoint buck on it! Try his favorite flavors, and get creative with it.

cake alternatives

Throughout the decades, couples have come up with endless options when creating a sweet-tooth haven. Cupcakes and cake truffles are popular with couples that are looking for a non-traditional wedding dessert. Sometimes people don't love cake, and that's ok! Different flavors of pies (full and mini) are fun for outdoor weddings. Donut walls are perfect for the couple who decides to celebrate during a brunch hour. And who doesn't love a spread of cookies and milk! Whatever you decide, talk to your baker and decorater for the best ways to display your options.

things to remember

Traditionally, the bottom layer of cake is the one you will cut into. Cut the cake into two small slices – and don't be afraid to ask your baker for tips ahead of time! Choose a keepsake knife and spatula to cut your wedding cake. This is a good opportunity to incorporate a treasured family heirloom as your "something borrowed."

it’s tradition

Many couples choose to follow the tradition of saving the first tier of their wedding cake for a first-anniversary celebration. If you opt for the tradition, you will want to remove all of the garnishes and décor from the tier. Then, wrap the cake tightly with plastic and seal it in an airtight container before placing it in the freezer.



cake terms For most of us, the only professional baking experience we have is binge watching The Great British Bake Off while eating cake. So, navigating the process of finding a cake can be difficult with so many unfamiliar terms. Refer to this guide to help you order your perfect wedding cake!

icing options

Buttercream: Smooth icing that can be made in different consistencies, colors and flavors. It will melt in extreme heat. Crumb Coat: A thin layer of icing, put on before other layers, that catches crumbs. Fondant: A stiff cake covering that is used to give it a smooth and clean look. Fondant is not as tasty, so many couples choose to have a layer of buttercream or ganache under the fondant. Ganache: A rich chocolate icing that gives the cake a glossy finish. It will melt in hot or humid weather. Marzipan: A paste with similar consistency to fondant made from almonds, eggs and sugar. It can be used as the icing or molded to make cake decorations.

cake decorations

Gold Leaf: Edible thin gold strips applied to the outer layer of the cake. Gum Paste/Sugar Paste: Made from gelatin, cornstarch and sugar, this paste is used to mold decorations. Pearls: An edible decoration that is similar to hard candy. Piping: A decorating technique that bakers use to add patterns, swirls, and lettering.



decorating techniques

Airbrushing: Coloring is sprayed onto the cake to add a more interesting coloring to the icing. Basketweave: A crosshatch pattern made on the outermost layer of the cake using buttercream or fondant. Chevron: A horizontal zigzag pattern added to the cake using fondant. Cornelli: A delicate, lace-like pattern made using an elaborate piping technique. Damask: Geometric, animal or botanical patterns usually made using fondant. Marble: Used when the interior cake has multiple flavors, in which the flavors are swirled together. Petal Dust: A dust-like mixture that gives cake decorations deeper matte colors with a shine. It can be used to make cake decorations more realistic. Swiss Dots: Small pearl-like dots piped on the outermost layer that resemble the Swiss dot pattern on wedding attire.


Cake Board: A piece of cardboard that is used as a base. Cake Topper: Decorations on the topmost layer of the cake. Pillars: Usually made of plastic and used as separators in a tiered cake. Groom’s Cake: A specialty cake made with the groom in mind. Often it is themed around the groom's interests and served at the wedding reception on a table separate from the wedding cake. This old Victorian tradition is popular in the American South. Miniatures: Small individual wedding cakes served to each guest. Torte: A dense type of cake that does not use ingredients like baking powder or baking soda.


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reception & entertainment

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time to celebrate Where to hold your wedding reception is a big decision. Not only does the venue make up a large portion of your budget, but also it sets the scene for your celebration of a lifetime. To help narrow down options, it’s best to have a plan.

Saturday nights and summer holiday weekends are popular for wedding dates and fill up fast. If you’re interested in these times for your celebration, book your venue immediately.

first things first

Start by creating your vision. Whether it’s from all the pins you’ve gathered or photos you’ve seen in magazines, you will start to see a theme emerge. From rustic settings with old-time charm to large event spaces that have a contemporary feel, your options for venue styles have limitless opportunity. Next, it’s time to talk about the other “m” word – money. As hard as this may be, it is important to allocate your funds before starting your wedding arrangements. Although it is a large portion of your budget, you won’t want to spend every penny on your venue to find out that you can’t afford your ideal DJ. Review our budget basics in the back of this book to get started.

before you call

Have an idea of your guest-list numbers. No, this doesn’t have to be the final, setin-stone list – but it does give you a good idea of how many people you will need to fit into your venue. Sites have maximum capacities; having an estimate of the number of guests will allow you to narrow down your list right off the bat. You’ll also want to have a timeframe in mind, as well. The best suggestion is to start with a season of the year and then pick three dates that work for you, your fiancé and close family and friends 100


involved in the wedding. By having more than one date to choose from, you will be more flexible for venue availability and work schedules.

last but not least

When you are ready to sign on the dotted line, be sure to negotiate your contract. When discussing costs, especially for food and beverages, make sure to get the price inclusive of tax and gratuity. All details of your reception should be written in a contract signed by you and the venue representative. setting your sites discover your theme The various types of venues are endless, ranging from a hotel ballroom with stunning interior design to rustic-chic vineyards. form a search strategy Browse through this magazine and use our website to find local venues for your vision. have a phone interview Ask a few basic questions about your date, prices and guest list. If a venue fits your initial criteria, then book a tour of the

site. If you are using a wedding consultant, then go together. inspect the venue You will want to meet the staff and spend ample time touring the entire facility to ensure that the site’s ambiance will complement the style you have envisioned for your big day. Don’t be afraid to ask questions!


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what to ask: • What is included in the price? Are there overtime charges? • What are the gratuity and sales tax to be added to these fees? • When are the deposit and payment due? • What is the cancellation policy? • Are there reduced rates for off-season, off-hours or off-days? • Are we able to hold the ceremony at the venue? Is there a fee? • Does the facility provide security and additional staff, if needed? • What are the fees to decorate the reception site? • Can we decorate the venue ourselves? If so, when are we allowed to set up? What is the teardown deadline? • Where can our guests park? Are there extra fees? Is there valet parking? • Is there a list of approved vendors? Do you allow outside catering?



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At the planned time, announce the cake cutting. You and your groom complete the traditional cutting of the cake.

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Take a moment and breathe it all in. You’re married! Now, enjoy your day.

The couple’s first dance may be followed by father-daughter, mother-son and other special dances. Then, the floor is opened for everyone.


Gather all the single guests in attendance for the bride’s bouquet toss and groom’s garter throw. You're married! Now let the party begin! Before your big day, talk to your DJ about your reception's timeline of events.


The emcee (usually your DJ) introduces the bridal party as they enter the room. Be sure to plan the path between the banquet tables, so you can easily navigate back to your table.


The bride’s father will make a short speech to the couple, as well as welcoming and thanking everyone for coming to celebrate.


Each table will move through the buffet line or will be served by wait staff. Don't forget: you need to eat, too!


The maid of honor and the best man present toasts to the newly married couple.




Some couples will take this time to thank their parents, guests and anyone who helped make their wedding day possible.

keep the kids smiling At an outdoor location, set up yard games such as beanbag toss and yard golf. If there is room, bounce castles, kites and obstacle courses are another big win in children’s hearts. a gift of their own Offer favors such as an activity booklet with word search, tic-tac-toe and coloring pages to keep them occupied at the table.

on the dance floor When the music starts, ask your DJ to play songs that the kids will know every once in a while. get a sitter Adding a few experienced babysitters in the room next door will ensure parents and kids alike will enjoy the celebration.


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welcome Sometime between making your guest list and ordering your invitations, you will need to make arrangements for your out-oftown guests. No, you won’t need to foot the bill, but securing a couple of hotels where your guests can choose to stay is a nice touch as they come to celebrate your wedding day. When you are searching for the hotel, consider more than the price tag. Look at the hotel reviews, staff, amenities and the location in relation to your venue. Most hotels will offer you a better rate if you are blocking a group of rooms. Include the hotel information and a “book-by” date on your invitations for your guests to refer to. Have a welcome bag waiting for your guests when they arrive in their hotel rooms. Some things you may want to consider including in the package are simple items such as toiletries, food

(especially locally-made), mints and gum. Be sure to include a local tourism publication, maps and written directions to all events that guests are invited to attend. Having a list of close ATMs and gas stations is also a good addition. While it’s not necessarily expected, it is a nice gesture to invite guests who have made the journey to your wedding to attend the rehearsal dinner. For the day of your wedding, assign a friend (someone local) whom guests can contact should questions or needs arise. Hospitality and generosity toward your wedding guests will go a long way to ensure your wedding is a weekend for everyone to remember.

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• Is there a minimum number of nights? • Will you let me know who has reserved rooms? • Is there a fee for parking? • Does your facility offer shuttle? • What are the check-in and check-out times? • Will guests have a choice of a single or double room? • Can we access the rooms prior to our guests’ arrival to distribute welcome bags?


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fill the floor You spend months making sure every little detail is set, and now it’s time for a little fun. Music sets the tone for your wedding by elevating emotions, filling awkward silences and getting guests on the dance floor. Follow these tips and work closely with your musician or DJ to ensure an amazing celebration.

If your vendor will play your ceremony’s entrance music, ask him or her to attend the rehearsal to practice timing for both of you.

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The best DJs for wedding reception entertainment have the ability to go with the flow and are quick on their feet. You will want yours to be flexible if any changes to your playlist or set-up arise. If your DJ is acting as the master of ceremonies, discuss his or her level of involvement and work closely with your vendor in planning to keep your reception on schedule.

playlist variety

After the formalities of the ceremony, you and your guests are ready to get the party started! Ask your DJ or band for a playlist so you can choose songs you would like played at the reception. This is a great way for you to select specific dance music, rather than expecting the DJ to guess your preferred genre.

booking a musician

Live music at a wedding celebration is a great touch that can really personalize your event. Musical styles vary, so choose a performer that will best suit your occasion. Instrumentalists are a classical choice



and bring a more traditional sound to the ceremony. Vocalists and small ensembles are another great option for the musical sound of your wedding. Set up your entertainment’s section in a location that works best for both you and them, but consider the sound of the performance in the location you choose. Most musicians bring with them what they need to perform – they will simply need a place to sit at your venue. Still, it doesn’t hurt to ask if they have any other needs, such as bottles of water or proximity to electrical outlets. Professional DJs and musicians are knowledgeable and will have quality equipment, including a back-up system to avoid the chance that you could be without music.

tips to know If you are having a musician or a vocalist, be sure to purchase the sheet music for them to practice ahead of time When you are looking for vocalists, bands or DJs, ask to attend a performance or view video links of demos of their style and sound. To build your playlist, compile titles during different days, times and moods for a good variety of your favorite beats. However, the

vendor you select is a professional and will have good insight into reading the crowd at your reception celebration. Your reception venue may have time or volumelevel restrictions, as well as limited electrical usage. Address these issues before your wedding. start the dance Well-known songs from top music charts and upbeat rhythms will get guests on the dance floor.


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what to ask: • What type of music is your specialty? • Will you learn new pieces to perform? • May I see/hear a performance? • Can you provide ceremony music? • Are you willing to be the announcer/MC at the reception? • Will you accept from us a playlist of songs to both play and avoid? • Will you accept special requests from our guests during the reception? • How many breaks do you require? What is the time length? • Will you allow us to control the volume? • Have you performed at our venue? Do you require any amplification? • Do you provide your own sound system/ equipment? • How much space will you need? • What is the set-up time? • What will the DJ or musicians be wearing? • Is there a backup DJ/musician as a Plan B?



a clinking glass

Whether you think it’s obnoxious or fun, the tradition of guests clinking glasses to get the newlyweds to kiss is immensely popular and is an entertaining way to include your guests. If you choose to omit this ritual, put a note on the program or a sign on your reception tables that you respectfully won’t be partaking.

raise a shoe

This is a reception ritual that has gained traction over the years. The shoe game starts after dinner and dancing, and you are seated back-to-back with your husband. Remove your shoes and exchange one with your spouse. The host of the game (often the DJ) reads off questions about the relationship and the newlyweds’ personalities, like “who is cleaner?” or “who asked the other out first?” After the question, the couple must put up a shoe to indicate who they think it best describes. Be ready for lots of laughs with “awws” in between.

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dance for a dollar

This interesting wedding tradition happens at the reception when everyone is dancing. Male guests can dance with the bride or female guests can dance with the groom… for a price! With each dance, the guest must donate a dollar. It is usually pinned on the newlyweds or thrown in the air around them. Tip: keep the partner time per person limited so you can dance with as many people as possible during this time. You will be able to earn more money by dancing with more guests.

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Looking for songs to get your guests on the dance floor? Start here and find even more on “Marry You” by Bruno Mars “Brown Eyed Girl” by Van Morrison “Single Ladies” by Beyoncé “Man! I Feel Like a Woman” by Shania Twain “Shut Up and Dance” by Walk the Moon “I Gotta Feeling” by The Black Eyed Peas “Sweet Caroline” by Neil Diamond “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC “Uptown Funk” by Mark Ronson “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey “Sweet Home Alabama” by Lynyrd Skynyrd “Cupid Shuffle” by Cupid "You Make My Dreams" by Hall & Oates #BlackHillsBride


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Your ceremony or reception site may need a little (or a lot) of help to give it a look that will take your guests' breath away. Lighting will enhance the beauty of your event design and transform your space into a unique and flattering environment. Ask your wedding consultant, venue or DJ if this service is offered. Adding lighting design to your event will take it from ordinary to extraordinary. Light decoration is an art form, and an experienced professional will know where to place the lights to create the effect you are looking for. These vendors can transform a room and make it magical by using personalized monograms, uplighting, lighted backdrops and so much more. Opt for colors that accent skin tones; consider using softer lighting during dinner and darker shades during your dance. These subtle changes can smooth the

transitions between cocktail hours, dinner and dancing. Pay attention to where you can add some much-needed light to improve the space. Adding to your head table, the dance floor, your cake table and the caterer’s set-up are always great ideas. Check if your venue has dimmers, allowing the brightness to be adjusted. Make sure the venue has enough power to handle extra lighting. Blow a fuse and it is lights out (literally)! Schedule a time to visit the venue to work out the technical details. Items such as windows and house-light locations will be factors for your lighting professional.

terms to know pin spot A focused beam of light that shines directly onto an object, like a centerpiece or wedding cake, to create a highlight effect. color wash A blanket of colored light covering an entire area to create a mood or to change the look of built-in décor. gobos Circular stencils that are put over a light to project a design or pattern onto a wall, ceiling or floor.

Monograms, dates and wedding motifs are popular gobo designs. LED Short for “lightemitting diode,” LED lights use much less electricity than (and don’t get as hot as) regular incandescent lightbulbs. They can also be wireless, which makes them even more discreet. LEDs are great for color changes and vibrant hues.


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Capture the moments your guests enjoy at your wedding with a photo booth. Not only will you get to see all the fun your family and friends had on your big day, but also this unique form of entertainment will add instant fun for guests both young and old. Before you book with a professional vendor, here are some tips you may want to consider. Check out the equipment. See what your vendor has to offer and test it out. You’ll want to make sure the cameras are working and determine how much space you’ll need at your venue to give plenty of room for all the fun. Add some props. The options are endless when you think of fun props! From cut-outs and chalkboard signs to hats, mustaches and glasses – props add an entirely new dynamic to the entertainment. Ask your vendor what is

available, or add your own custom props that express your wedding day theme. Dress up the strips. Many photo booth vendors allow the option to customize your photo strips from the booth. This turns a generic memento into a perfect wedding favor for family and friends to remember your big day. You can also arrange the strips into a scrapbook with signatures alongside for a guestbook. If you are ready to step outside the box – or rather into one – then this is a great idea for your wedding reception entertainment. A photo booth is an amazingly fun way to ensure all of your guests will walk away from your event with a smile and a memory they will cherish for years to come.

what to ask: • Do you have my time available? • How long have you been in business? • How many hours are included in the rental fee? • What is the payment schedule? • How much is the deposit? • What is included in the price? • How much space do you need for set-up? • Can you set up outdoors? • How long does set-up take? • What does the booth look like?

• Can the booth fit multiple people at once? • Do you provide an attendant? • Are you insured? • What props and costumes are provided? Can I provide my own? • Will I get a copy of all the photos taken at the event? • Can you customize the photo strips to my wedding theme? • What is your cancellation policy?


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Transportation is an important aspect of wedding arrangements that shouldn’t be put on the back burner. From wedding party travel to shuttles for your guests – and, of course, your grand exit from the reception – transportation plays a big role in your wedding day. Include the cost of your ride in your overall wedding budget and research your local options early to ensure that your date will be available for the transportation service you choose. After you have a price point in place, take these ideas into consideration when booking your ride.

a ride for everyone

Most couples will provide transportation for their wedding party and both sets of parents the day of the wedding – especially if they are not riding with you from your ceremony site. Typically, the best man is in charge of getting the groom and the other groomsmen to the ceremony site on time. After the ceremony, the groom will then join his bride on the way to the reception venue, so as to arrive together. If you have several out-of-town guests without their own transportation, consider providing a ride to get them to and from the ceremony and reception locations. Providing a shuttle service is a nice touch and ensures that they won’t be late to your ceremony. It’s a good idea to have cab information or the same shuttle service available to

your guests following the reception. This is especially true if alcohol has been served.

ask questions

Talk to several rental companies, and do not book a vehicle or carriage over the phone — ask to see it first to make sure it is what you are looking for. Find out how many people will fit in each vehicle. It will be uncomfortable when 14 people from your wedding party squeeze into a vehicle meant for 10.

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Get a written contract outlining all the details, including the specific vehicles for each purpose and all financial information, including rates, deposits, gratuities, taxes and any other fees.

the options carriages Take a page out of a fairy tale and arrive in a horsedrawn carriage. These romantic rides can typically accommodate two to six passengers. vintage/luxury cars Although you may immediately think of a Rolls Royce, consider cars that embody your personal style. Some couples may want a classic pickup truck or a vintage sports car.

stretch limo/SUV Take a classic approach to your arrival and exit and opt to ride with your wedding party to your locations. This ride is sure to turn heads, and can fit six to ten passengers. party buses Start the party on the road! Hire a bus, which can fit a substantial number of passengers and is often equipped with party lights and a great sound system


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what to ask: • Do you have our date available? • Are you licensed and insured? • What are your rates? What is included (e.g., mileage, gratuity, etc.)? • Do you offer discounted rates for wedding packages? • When is payment required? • What are the features and benefits of each service option? • Will the vehicle be cleaned beforehand? • Are we reserving the limo for just a few hours or the entire day? • Will the driver wait for the party throughout the event? • Do you have a backup vehicle available in case of a breakdown? • Do you have a beverage license? • Are beverages included in the pricing? • How will the driver be dressed? • Can we choose our own music? If so, how do we get you the playlist?



en route to the wedding

It’s bound to happen: someone is going to get lost on the way to your venue. Fielding calls from extended family asking which turn to take on the morning of your wedding is the last thing you need to be worried about. Whether you’re providing a complete shuttle service or letting guests drive themselves, this scenario can be avoided by communicating transportation with guests, getting the word out if transportation is being offered and making maps and timelines available.

talk through the details

When hiring a transportation company to carry your guests, you will want to communicate the fine print so everyone – vendors, wedding party and family – is on the same page for your big day. Timelines specifying when the wedding will begin and confirming the location of the venue are two important details you will want to talk through with your vendor before the wedding day. Give your driver the best man’s, your personal attendant’s or a close family member’s contact information, for last minute questions the day of the wedding.

get the word out

While you are planning your wedding timelines, add a buffer time between guest drop-off and the beginning of your ceremony. A general rule of thumb is to have guests there and seated 10 to 15 minutes prior to starting. Be sure your guests know the options that are available to them for your wedding transportation. If you are offering a shuttle, trolley or bus, give your guests the pick-up times and boarding information so they can get to your venue. To share this information with your guests, add your options to your wedding website, or include a short memo with a map in your RSVP being mailed out. Another great way to confirm guest transportation is including maps, pick-up times and cab numbers in their hotel rooms with your welcome gifts or explaining the options at your rehearsal. 124



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Carter and Kaitlyn were married on June 1, 2019, at Prairie Berry Winery in Hill City. They added fun twists to their wedding like a trivia game and karaoke. They invited 100 of their favorite people and everybody booked cabins for the whole weekend. Carter and Kaitlyn met in 2015 at Badlands Ministries, a camp in Medora, ND. When they ran into each other again at a gas station in Buffalo, SD, they believed Fate was sending them a signal that they belonged together. Hints for Brides Be true to yourselves as a couple and work together!

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Matt and Haley’s love story began at SDSU, where he was a teacher and she was his student. After completing coursework together, they decided to start dating. Matt proposed to Haley on the Hogwart’s Express at Universal Studios. For their wedding at Spearfish Canyon Lodge, Haley wore a ring made of Black Hills Gold, with a diamond inset from her mother’s earrings. Hints for Brides Use online planning services like Black Hills Bride and be sure to contact everybody early. It can be difficult to find a venue and available dates to accommodate large families.

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Billie and Bryan were originally supposed to get married on September 14, but Bryan—who is in the Army National Guard—learned he was going to be deployed on that date, so they bumped up the ceremony to June 22 at Shade Valley Camp Resort. The forecast threatened rain so they had a backup plan, but it only sprinkled a little, so they went ahead with the ceremony outdoors. Billie knew exactly what she wanted for her big day and was able to put it together with a lot of help from her photographer, Sandra Nichols. Hints for Brides Be in the moment and don’t stress out about too many things! Focus on you and your husband on the big day.

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Sage and Vanessa met at a bar called Frosty’s Christmas Lounge in Orlando, Florida. Little did the couple know that snow would almost derail their wedding plans. They chose an October date in order to have a perfect fall wedding, but a surprise snowstorm forced them to move the ceremony from Lover’s Leap to Sylvan Lake. They are glad everything happened the way it did because it was gorgeous and many of their Florida friends experienced their first snowfall. Hint for Brides Go with the flow! You won’t be able to control everything and guests won’t know the difference.

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Victoria and Andrew’s wedding day was sunny and bright, the perfect backdrop for the lush greenery and forested hills of the K Bar S Lodge in Keystone—even if the temperature was a little on the hot side. Getting married outdoors any time of year in the Black Hills is like rolling the dice, so the fact that everything went off without a hitch suited this easy-going pair just fine. The couple met on a party limo in downtown Rapid City while Tory was out with friends and ended up dating for five years before getting engaged. Hints for Brides Utilize your family and friends as much as possible! They want the best for you and are happy to lend a hand.

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ticket to paradise keep your budget

Mix adventure and relaxation, explore your destination and participate in exciting activities. But take time to recharge and soak in the atmosphere, before heading back to reality.

Weddings can quickly grow costly, and it’s tempting to short-change your honeymoon. Think about it, though! This is your opportunity to put a pause on life and celebrate the commitment you made to each other. Be realistic when setting your budget, and remember that you will more than likely need extra cash to spend on your vacation for keepsakes and souvenirs.

create a honeymoon registry

Growing in popularity is a honeymoon registry. This allows guests to help with your out-of-pocket expenses while also providing an awesome, easy gift to give you for your wedding. Send a note in your savethe-date cards mentioning that you have a honeymoon registry wish list. Items can include everything from lodging costs to activities you would like to do on your trip.

choose your destination

Start by writing independent wish lists. Take note of what you would like to see, what you would like to spend time doing and any dream trips you’ve always wanted to go on. Once you’ve made your lists, share them with each other and compare. Will your vacation be relaxing or active? Will it be on a resort or a ship? Planning your trip together will ensure that both your wishes are met.

look for hidden fees

Be aware that “all” doesn’t always mean all. If you are booking a honeymoon on a cruise ship or an all- inclusive resort, make sure you know exactly what’s included before you make your payment. Double-check transfers, taxes and gratuities, too.



prepare beforehand

You may know you need your passport, but have you checked your medical needs and vaccination requirements? Some countries have illnesses that we don’t see in the United States, and it is better to be safe than sick during your honeymoon.

use a pro

Make those dreams of romance and bliss a reality by hiring a certified travel agent. A professional is familiar with “everything travel” and will save you time and money by avoiding hidden fees, poor service or unpleasant surprises. Travel agents know all the ins and outs of multiple destinations, and will have invaluable, local advice to make your honeymoon as safe and enjoyable as possible.

know the climate

Consider the weather, as well as possible activities you will be doing. Start making a list of the items you will need so when the time arrives to pack your bags you don’t have to rush for forgotten items.

be financially prepared

Carry enough cash to get you through airports and unplanned purchases. If you plan to use your credit card, be sure to contact your provider at least one week before you leave.

talk to your agent

Check with your travel agent a few days before the wedding to confirm your plans and keep all contact information on hand. Then prepare to have an amazing first vacation as husband and wife. It doesn’t matter where you decide to go for your honeymoon, just go. Even if it’s simply a few days near home, it’s time spent together you will not regret. #BlackHillsBride

what to ask: • Are you available to help us plan our honeymoon trip? • How long have you been in business? • Do you have a license? • What is the cost of your services? • Do you offer a payment plan? • Are you familiar with the best places to travel during the time of year we would like to go? • Where have your other couples gone? • Do you get discounts at certain resorts? • Have you visited the resort we are interested in? Or worked with someone there before? • Can you recommend activities while we are visiting? • Do you coordinate the transportation? What does that process include? • What information do you provide us prior to our departure? • Do you offer trip insurance?



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The wedding is over, but you need to take care of a few more things before turning your dream day into a memory. Plan the wrap-up details with your family, friends and fiancé before your wedding celebration. This will make it possible to have everything in order before scrambling after your celebration to get things returned, cleaned and packaged. Here are a few things you won’t want to forget.


Many reception venues give couples the opportunity to gather personal items, such as picture frames, guest books and centerpieces, on the day following a wedding. If that is a possibility with your venue, you can avoid the worry of packing the car after a night of celebration. This arrangement can contribute to a stressfree wedding night. However, you should still make a list of other, normally disposable décor items that you would like to keep. Ask a family member or friend to collect them before leaving the wedding. This will allow helpers or vendors to toss any remaining items during normal clean-up.

create an album

After the wedding, you will need to take on the task of selecting your photos. Allow yourself some time – there will be hundreds to sort through! Check your wedding photography packages to see if prints and albums are included. If not, you will need to decide how you would like to preserve them.

If you have rentals, such as tables, chairs, linens or décor, designate a family member or friend to gather them and return the items on the first business day following your wedding. Check your contract for cleaning instructions. If your groom’s and groomsmen’s suits were rented, these will need to be returned. Often, policies require that all rentals be returned the next day. Make certain to check pockets for any personal items including keys, credit cards, cash, mints or gum before giving rentals back.


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local vendors after “i do”

Gene Hufford Agency Inc. American Family Insurance pg. 140 2127 Jackson Blvd., Rapid City 605.342.7757


A Mouse & Rose Bridal 605.786.2200

pg. 43

pg. 51

pg. 43

Monument Health pg. 47 2805 5th St., Rapid City 605.755.6000 Quintessence Salon and Spa 512 Main Street, Suite #230, Rapid City 605.716.6780 Willow Salon pg. 43 5312 Sheridan Lake Rd, Ste. #109, Rapid City 605.718.3797

bridal shows Love2 Bridal Fair August 29, 2020


Bake Works Bakery pg. 97 724 St. Joseph St., Rapid City 605.791.1713

beauty, hair, massage, nails & skin Heather Rupp Beauty 605.786.7071

Belle Joli Winery pg. 1 594 Main St., Deadwood 3951 Vanocker Canyon Rd., Sturgis 605.347.9463

Black Hills Wedding Market April 25, 2020

Audra’s Bridal Gallery pg. 40 601 St. Joseph St., Rapid City 605.348.8816 Main Street Menswear Rushmore Mall, Rapid City 605.341.4446

beverage services

Sweet Secrets Bakery 605.791.2253

pg. 95

decorating & rental

Black Hills Receptions & Rentals pg. 107 10400 West Hwy 44, Rapid City 605.342.8888 Haggerty’s Musicworks Downtown pg. 62 2520 W. Main St., Rapid City 605.348.6737 Table 4 Décor pg. 62 3104 W. St. Louis, Rapid City 605.341.6705 Timeless Weddings & Events pg. 21 605.342.8966


Angel’s Catering pg. 89 605.721.9229 or 605.381.9229 Catered Two 5734 Sheridan Lake Road, Suite 207, Rapid City 605.645.8866 or 605.341.8696 Cheyenne Crossing 21415 US Hwy 14A, Lead 605.584.3510

Qdoba Mexican Eats pg. 88 741 Mountain View Rd., Rapid City 605.341.9900 1745 Eglin St., Ste. 550, Rapid City 605.791.1555

pg. 91

Old West Dutch Oven Catering pg. 88 7211 Black Hawk Rd., Black Hawk 605.390.6843

dj, music & lighting

Complete Weddings + Events pg. 83 605.348.8869 Doctor Dance 605.391.3612 Ken Petersen’s Milestone Event 605.791.4232 877.614.4232

pg. 112

pg. 119



Perfect Wave Productions pg. 117 605.415.4554 PowerHouse Dance DJ’s & Sound Production pg. 119 605.415.1188 West River Weddings pg. 19 15 E Chicago St., Rapid City 605.786.2559


Copy Country 1026 Main St., Rapid City 605.342.0425

jewelry & accessories Riddle’s Jewelry 202 Disk Dr., Rapid City 605.341.2055 Rushmore Mall, Rapid City 605.342.8406

dry cleaning & gown preservation


event planning

Mary Maisey-Ireland 605.484.8464

French Cleaners pg. 42 1320 Mt. Rushmore Rd., Rapid City 605.342.6440

Audra’s Bridal Gallery pg. 41 601 St. Joseph St., Rapid City 605.348.8816


Changing Seasons pg. 69 323 S Chicago St., Hot Springs 605.745.4836 Roots Wedding Florals pg. 69 6908 Eastridge Rd., Black Hawk 605.787.5050 or 605.484.4475

gifts, favors & registry Mind Blown Studio pg. 35 73 Sherman St., Deadwood 605.571.1071 Sand Scripts pg. 33 410 Maple Ave., Rapid City 605.716.7263 Your Amazing Gifts by Vanway 3120 West Main St, Rapid City 605.341.2929



pg. 29

pg. 3

Black Hills Photo Bus pg. 121 605.389.2092

Provet Photo Booth pg. 121 605.431.6458 pg. 56

party supplies & novelties

Say Cheese!, LLC 605.391.2518 or 605.519.8106

rehearsal dinners

Dick and Jane’s Naughty Spot pg. 33 1141 Deadwood Ave., Rapid City 1543 Lazelle St., Sturigs 605.720.0049

Chutin Flicks

photo booth rental

Complete Weddings + Events pg. 83 605.348.8869

Dudeist Ministries 605.415.2712


Sundance Girl Photography PO Box 271, Sundance, WY 307.231.0462

Alpine Inn 605.574.2749

pg. 93


Black Hills Tour Company pg. 125 605.389.2092

pg. 27

Complete Weddings + Events pg. 83 605.348.8869 Glasser Images

pg. 79

IndigoBlue Photography

pg. 81

Giddy-UP Shuttles 10041 Ventura Ln. Summerset 605.430.6366 or 605.484.6592 Legendary Limousine 605.430.0610

pg. 125


Legacy Photo and Design pg. 77

Belle Joli Winery pg. 1 594 Main St., Deadwood 3951 Vanocker Canyon Rd., Sturgis 605.347.9463

R. Becker Creative 605.209.3207

Besler’s Cadillac Ranch 605.391.6791

pg. 13

pg. 2


Black Hills Receptions & Rentals pg. 107 10400 West Hwy 44, Rapid City 605.342.8888 Comfort Suites pg. 17 1333 N. Elk Vale Road, Rapid City 605.593.9400 Copper Canyon Lodge pg. 58 12855 Nemo Rd., Rapid City 605.342.5528 Courtyard by Marriott pg. 59 580 WaTiki Way, Box Elder 605.593.8971 Custer State Park Resorts 605.255.4672 Dahl Arts Center 713 7th St., Rapid City 605.394.4101 Deadwood Gulch Resort & Creekside Convention Center 304 Cliff St., Deadwood 605.717.6939

pg. 8

p. 104

pg. 17

High Country Guest Ranch 605.574.9003

pg. 109

Hotel Alex Johnson pg. BC 523 6th St., Rapid City 605.342.1210 K Bar S Lodge 434 Old Hill City Rd., Keystone 605.716.7971

pg. 17

The Homestead at Prairie Berry Winery pg. IFC 23835 Hwy 385, Hill City 605.574.9631 The Joy Center 605.642.6335

Ruby’s Garden at D.C. Booth Fish Hatchery pg. 58 423 Hatchery Circle, Spearfish 605.642.7730 ext. 221 pg. 106

Spearfish Canyon Lodge pg. 103 605.584.3435 SpringHill Suites 322 Main St., Deadwood 605.631.0141

The Farmhouse Barn 21305 Harp Rd., Sturgis 605.209.5161

pg. IBC

Muley Hill Lodge pg. 113 20829 Mattson Lane, Sturgis 701.206.0198

Southern Sonder 605.673.7859

Elk Creek Resort pg. 106 8220 Elk Creek Rd., Piedmont 605.787.4884 800.846.2267 Elkhorn Ridge Resort & Golf Course Exit 17, Spearfish 605.722.1800

Holiday Inn Rushmore Plaza 505 N. 5th St., Rapid City 605.399.7039

pg. 110

Spur Creek Saloon & Ranch pg. 6 17698 SD Hwy 79, Newell 605.391.8282

pg. 105 Spur Meadows pg. 106 2305 Elk Creek Rd., Piedmont 605.389.8880

pg. 65

The Rushmore Hotel & Suites pg. 144 445 Mt. Rushmore Rd., Rapid City 605.348.8300 Woodlands Receptions and Rentals pg. 57 13121 Lincoln Tarken Lane, Piedmont 605.393.7340


Complete Weddings + Events pg. 83 605.348.8869 R.Becker Creative 605.209.3207

pg. 13

West River Weddings pg. 19 15 E Chicago St., Rapid City 605.786.2559 See more Premium Black Hills vendors Online at #blackhillsbride

pg. 111 Summer Creek pg. 112 23204 Summer Creek Dr., Rapid City 605.574.4408






your wedding planner bride groom wedding



timeline 6 or more months ahead

n Submit engagement announcement on n Take engagement photos n Think about the style of wedding you want­–formal or informal, big or small–and the season it will take place n Set budget n Hire wedding coordinator, if desired n Compile guest list and organize addresses n Finalize wedding date and time n Choose color, theme and size of wedding n Reserve ceremony and reception sites n Choose attendants n Order dress and accessories, including veil and shoes

n Book officiant n Book caterer n Book florist n Book music for ceremony and reception n Book photographer and videographer n Meet with clergy or officiant for pre-marital counseling requirements and begin classes, if appropriate n Arrange transportation for the wedding day n Book honeymoon, apply for passport if needed n Send save-the-dates, if using n Set up honeymoon registry

n Purchase or reserve groom’s attire n Choose attendants’ attire n Help mothers choose their dresses n Book hair, nail and makeup appointments n Order wedding cake n Choose favors n Book a room for wedding night n Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests n Sign up for dance lessons

4 to 6 months ahead

n Reserve rental equipment, such as tables, chairs and tents n Order stationery, including invitations and thank-you notes n Register for gifts/honeymoon n Purchase wedding rings and arrange engraving, if needed





2 to 4 months ahead n Select songs for ceremony, dinner and dances n Finalize details with florist, DJ, photographer, caterer n Finalize menu with caterer n Discuss service with officiant n Choose readings for ceremony n Try out makeup and hairstyle n Schedule a session with your videographer to film video for the rehearsal dinner/reception n Mail invitations n Finalize honeymoon details

1 to 2 months ahead n Buy guest book, unity candle, toasting glasses, cake knife and server, flower girl/ring bearer accessories n Confirm ceremony details n Prepare printed program for ceremony n Schedule rehearsal time and rehearsal dinner n Invite wedding party and guests to rehearsal dinner n Complete documents for change of legal name and address, if needed n Obtain marriage license and request certified copies n Pick up rings and check engraving

n Confirm details with the florist, caterer, entertainers and officiant n Buy gifts for attendants, flower girl, ring bearer, fiancĂŠ(e), parents

2 weeks ahead

n Have final dress-fitting with shoes, accessories and lingerie n Have fittings for tuxedos and attendants’ dresses n Submit list of must-take shots to photographer and videographer n Follow up on missing RSVPs n Arrange seating chart and place cards n Create wedding-day schedule; share with wedding party and vendors n Notify caterer of final guest count n Find out where your guests will be staying if you plan to deliver welcome bags to their rooms

1 week ahead

n Pick up dress n Pick up rings n Write rehearsal dinner and wedding toasts n Finalize seating plan n Get manicure and pedicure n Pack for honeymoon n Write thank-you notes as you receive gifts n Verify transportation to and from ceremony

day before

n Deliver out-of-town guest gift baskets to hotel n Attend ceremony rehearsal n Hold rehearsal dinner and give gifts to wedding party n Prepare tip envelopes and arrange for someone to distribute them

wedding day

n Eat breakfast n Get hair and makeup done n Get dressed n Relax and enjoy the day n Give your vows to your Maid of Honor n Exchange a note/gift with your groom




sharing the costs

The most useful approach for a bride and groom to take with their families is to be communicative, realistic and courteous. Weddings are expensive and there are times when tradition should bow to practicality. Below is the customary division of expenses.

bride’s family

• Invitations, announcements and postage • Bride’s wedding attire and trousseau • Cost of the ceremony, including rental of sanctuary, chapel or other facility, organist, soloist and sexton fees, aisle carpets, flowers and any additional decorating costs • Bridesmaids’ bouquets • Cost of the reception, including food, wedding cake, beverages, flowers, decorations, music, rental equipment and gratuities for bartenders and waiters • Engagement and wedding photographs • Transportation • Wedding gift for the newlyweds • Wedding consultant • Any welcome parties for out-of-town guests





• Groom’s ring • Gift for the groom • Gifts for her attendants • Lodging for her out-of-town attendants (optional) • Bridesmaids’ luncheon • Gift for parents

groom’s family

• Their own wedding attire • Wedding gift for the newlyweds • Rehearsal dinner • Their travel expenses and hotel bills • Shipment of wedding gifts to the bridal couple’s new home


• Bride’s engagement and wedding rings • Gift for the bride • Marriage license • Fee for officiant • Gifts for best man, groomsmen and ushers • Bridal bouquet and going-away corsage • Boutonnières for all men in wedding party • Mothers’ and grandmothers’ corsages • Lodging for his out-of-town attendants (optional) • Honeymoon • Bachelors’ dinner (optional) • Gift for parents

attendants & ushers • Their wedding attire selected by the bride • Travel expenses and lodging • Parties for the bride and groom • Wedding gift for the couple


budget development

Developing a realistic wedding budget is essential and should be one of the first things you do. Below are a few questions you may want to discuss before developing your final budget. Once your budget is set, stick to it by using our handy budget worksheets to keep you on task.

overall budget

How much do you want to spend? Are the necessary funds available? What is the size of wedding party? How many guests will be invited?

ceremony, reception 45%

Where will you hold each? Indoors or outdoors? Church or other venue? Reception formal or casual? Ballroom or hall?

food, catering, & cake

(included in reception percentages) is the caterer independent of your venue? Sit-down service or buffet? Will appetizers be served during cocktail hour? Will there be alcohol? Full bar or limited to beer, champagne and wine? Do you want a custom-designed cake or something smaller with sheet cake service?

attire 8%

Do you want a designer gown or off-the-rack? Will you purchase or rent formal wear?

photography, video 18%

What style do you prefer, posed or photojournalistic? Do you want a leather-bound photo book or something less expensive? What style of videography do you want? How many copies of the video will be needed?

transportation 2%

How will you travel from your venues? Will you provide rented transportation for the entire wedding party? Does your venue require valet parking or shuttle service?

entertainment 4%

Will you have an orchestra, band or musician at the ceremony? Band or DJ at the reception? What other entertainment is needed?

floral & décor 12%

Are desired flowers in season? Which attendants and guests will have flowers? Will you use flowers for your cake and décor? How far in advance do you need your flowers?

Are you preserving your bouquet? Will you need to rent tables, chairs, linens, etc.? Are you going to be purchasing tablescape materials and décor?

stationery 3%

Are you looking for a certain color, paper type, font or ink? How much text would you like to include? Are you going to include a picture or graphic on your save-the-date card or announcement? Custom-designed or just customized stationery? Will you be mailing your invitations? How many guests will need invites? Will you be ordering programs, table placeholders, signs and thank-yous? Invitations: letterpress or printed? What inserts will be required with the invitations?

honeymoon 8%

Will you be leaving the country and need an updated passport? Have you received vaccinations? Are you going to have a professional create your travel itinerary? Would you prefer an adult-only resort? Will you work with a travel agent?



money management wedding rings Engagement ring __________________ Bride’s ring __________________ Groom’s ring __________________ subtotal __________________

photography Photographer’s fee __________________ Engagement portrait __________________ Wedding album __________________ Parents’ albums __________________ Additional prints __________________ subtotal __________________

attire Bride’s dress __________________ Headpiece and veil __________________ music Bride’s shoes __________________ Ceremony music __________________ Lingerie, hosiery, garter __________________ Cocktail-hour music __________________ Jewelry and accessories __________________ Reception music (DJ) __________________ Hair, makeup, manicure __________________ subtotal __________________ Dress preservation __________________ Groom’s tuxedo or suit __________________ stationery Groom’s shoes __________________ Save-the-date cards __________________ Groom’s accessories __________________ Invitations and envelopes __________________ subtotal __________________ Map inserts __________________ Announcements __________________ ceremony and reception Response cards __________________ Ceremony location fee __________________ Thank-you notes __________________ Officiant fee __________________ Ceremony programs __________________ Organist / musicians / soloist __________________ Calligraphy / addressing __________________ Marriage license __________________ Postage __________________ Aisle runner, decorations __________________ Place cards __________________ Candles, misc. __________________ Printed napkins __________________ Reception location fee __________________ subtotal __________________ Catering fee __________________ Cake __________________ transportation Bar __________________ Limousine or carriage __________________ Decorations __________________ Guest transportation __________________ Rentals __________________ subtotal __________________ Tips __________________ subtotal __________________




gifts, favors, and extras flowers Maid of honor’s gift __________________ Ceremony __________________ Bridesmaids’ gifts __________________ Altar / church __________________ Best man’s gift __________________ Bride’s bouquet __________________ Groomsmen's gifts __________________ Bouquet preservation __________________ Bride’s parents’ gifts __________________ Attendants' bouquets __________________ Groom’s parents’ gifts __________________ Flower girl accessories __________________ Flower girl __________________ Mothers’ corsages __________________ Ring bearer __________________ Boutonnières __________________ Favors __________________ subtotal __________________ Ring pillow __________________ Guest book __________________ reception Cake knife / server __________________ Cake table __________________ Toasting glasses __________________ Buffet table __________________ subtotal __________________ Head table __________________ Centerpieces __________________ rehearsal dinner Decorating __________________ Site rental __________________ subtotal Caterer __________________ Taxes and gratuities __________________ helpers (total): Other __________________ Wedding coordinator __________________ Bridesmaid’s luncheon __________________   Cake-cutting / subtotal __________________ gift-table attendant(s) __________________   Guest book attendant __________________ videography   Officiant __________________ Videographer fee __________________   Soloists / musicians __________________ Extra copies of video __________________ subtotal __________________ subtotal __________________ total __________________ honeymoon Transportation __________________ Accommodations __________________ Daily budget __________________ subtotal __________________




compare venues Where to hold your reception is one of the most complex decisions to make. Use this comparison chart to help you decide what your priorities are, and how the costs will enter into your overall plan.

Amenities Available Formal / informal dĂŠcor Decorating restrictions Distance from ceremony Disabled access Capacity Air-conditioned Dance floor / stage Sound system / piano Head table # of guest tables / chairs Guest book table Gift table Cake table Linens China, flatware Stemware / glassware Wedding coordinator Catering service Wait staff Bar / bartender Champagne cost Cork fee Cake-cutting charge Clean-up charge Adequate parking Other Head count deadline Hours available Early set-up availability Taxes and gratuity Deposit amount Deposit deadline Final payment deadline Est. Cost to Budget 152






payment records Date

Payment Made To


Method/Check #

Balance Due

Date Due




ceremony details

Date_____________________Time____________________ Location________________________________________________________________ Officiant_______________________________________________________________________________________ Officiant fee_______________ Address_______________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Rehearsal date________________________________________________________________________________ Rehearsal time____________ Rehearsal dinner location____________________________________________________________________ Reservation time__________ Number of guests__________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Site requirements__________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Seating capacity___________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Site fee________________________________________________________________________________________ Other fees_________________ services Photographer_________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Videographer_________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Florist_________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Decorator_____________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Wedding coordinator_________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Transportation________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ music Soloist_________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Soloist_________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Musician______________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Musician______________________________________________________________________________________ Phone______________________ Processional Song_________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Recessional Song__________________________________________________________________________________________________________

reception details

venue Location______________________________________________________________________________ Seating capacity____________________ Address______________________________________________________________________________ Phone_______________________________ Manager_________________________________________ Rental cost_______________________ Deposit_____________________________ Final payment due date______________________________________________________________ Equipment rental fee_______________ Date / time room is available for decorating______________________________________________________________________________ Tables and chairs provided

n Yes

n No

Quantity needed___________________

Linens provided

n Yes

n No

Quantity needed ___________________

Clean up requirements ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ food Caterer_______________________________________________________________________________ Phone ______________________________ Meal description___________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Baker_________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ______________________________ Cake description___________________________________________________________________________________________________________ entertainment DJ / Band_____________________________________________________________________________ Cost_________________________________ Contact person______________________________________________________________________ Phone_______________________________ Arrival time__________________________________________________________________________ Hours of music_____________________ songs Father / daughter dance_____________________________________________________________________________ Mother / son dance First dance___________________________________________________________________________ Parents’ dance_____________________ _ Throwing bouquet___________________________________________________________________ Garter toss_________________________ Wedding party dance________________________________________________________________ Dollar or traditional dance_________ Last dance____________________________________________________________________________ Other_______________________________

bridal party

sequence of events

attendants Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________ Name_____________________________________________ Phone_____________________________________________ E-mail_____________________________________________

wedding day 6:00 am _____________________________________________



7:00 am _____________________________________________ 8:00 am _____________________________________________ 9:00 am _____________________________________________ 10:00 am ____________________________________________ 11:00 am ____________________________________________ Noon ________________________________________________ 1:00 pm _____________________________________________ 2:00 pm _____________________________________________ 3:00 pm _____________________________________________ 4:00 pm _____________________________________________ 5:00 pm _____________________________________________ 6:00 pm _____________________________________________ 7:00 pm _____________________________________________ 8:00 pm _____________________________________________ 9:00 pm _____________________________________________ 10:00 pm ___________________________________________ 11:00 pm ___________________________________________ Midnight ____________________________________________


photography checklist bride’s photos n Full-length n Back of dress n Bouquet n With both parents n With parents separately n With grandparents n With siblings n With maid / matron of honor n With all attendants n With groomsmen n With flower girl and ring bearer n Pre-Wedding n Bride getting ready n Bride putting on veil n Candid shots of bride preparing n Groom getting ready n Attendants getting ready n Front of ceremony location n Guests arriving and being seated groom’s photos n Full length n With both parents n With parents separately n With grandparents n With siblings n With best man n With all attendants n With bridesmaids

bride and groom photos n Bride and groom together n With each set of parents n With entire wedding party n Close-up of hands displaying rings n Signing the marriage certificate ceremony n Musicians / Vocalists n Attendants waiting to enter n Parents being seated n Candids of parents n Attendants walking down aisle n Child attendants walking down aisle n Groom coming down the aisle n Clergy, groom and best man at altar n Bride and father walking down aisle n Father giving bride’s hand to groom n Vow exchange n Ring ceremony n Candids of bride’s / groom’s faces n Unity candle ceremony n Groom kissing the bride

recessional n Guests throwing seeds, petals, etc. reception n Guests signing guest book n Place cards, favors n Centerpieces, place settings n Bride and groom listening to toasts n Candids throughout room n Bride and groom’s first dance n Bride-and-father dance n Groom-and-mother dance n Guests dancing n Cake, cake table n Cake cutting n Bouquet toss n Garter removal and toss n Departure vehicle n Newlyweds departing




day of checklist bride attire n Gown (be sure it is steamed /pressed) n Headpiece and veil n Lingerie (bra, bustier, slip, petticoat) n Hosiery and garter n Shoes n Jewelry and accessories n Wrap / jacket n Gloves groom attire n Coat, shirt, vest, trousers n Neckwear n Cufflinks n Socks and shoes don’t forget n Rings n Marriage license n Ring bearer’s pillow n Flower girl’s basket n Wedding programs n Cake knife and server n Toasting glasses n Favors n Guest book and pen n Unity candle n Payment for officiant and vendors n Assign someone to collect and transport gifts



wedding day emergency kit n Brush / comb n Bobby pins n Styling products n Cotton balls n Q-Tips n Tissues n Makeup kit n Makeup remover n Baby powder n Hand mirror n Hair dryer n Curling / flat irons n Ponytail holder n Clear nail polish n Deodorant n Toothbrush n Lotion n Dental floss n Breath mints n Tampons n Pain reliever medication n Band-Aids n Upset stomach remedy n Eye drops n Antacids n Tweezers n Nail File n Pen n Notebook

n Safety pins n Crazy Glue n Extra button n Mini sewing kit n Double-sided tape n Stain releaser pen n Static-cling spray n Scissors n Lint roller n Extra earring backs n Bottled water n Energy drinks n Music n Cellphone n Charger n Straws (so you don’t smudge your lipstick) n Snacks n Lighter n Flat shoes honeymoon n Airline tickets / app (note flight number and departure / arrival times) n Cruise tickets (note cabin number and departure / arrival times) n Resort / Hotel (address, phone and confirmation numbers) n Passports / Visas n Digital camera n Credit cards / pre-paid cards n Medicines / prescriptions n Extra contacts or glasses n Toiletries n Electrical plug adapters #BlackHillsBride



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