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Find your village in your own street Space Clearing for Kids

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Discover your Childs Learning Style Helping your Teen to get their Ideal job.

October 2018

From the Editor

♥ Your Child in Monash is Overview monthly for the published mums, dads and grandparents of the Monash and surrounding areas. ♥ 5000 copies monthly are distributed in the Monash and surrounding areas. ♥ Estimated readership of 15,000. ♥ If you would like to contribute an article or products for competitions feel free to contact us.

The past month was such a busy one.

Everything crowded and asked for a solution.

New tasks kicked in before old ones were done.

Like a camera rolling: action, action, action!

I prayed for holiday yet holiday is so far away.

Well think twice, holiday is never a real break Kids, instead of going to school, want to play.

It seems the wheels of life will never brake.

I am exhausted but am still happy for this chance To play and stay with my children.

Angels they are doing the best dance, And with them I am more than human.

Rachel and Kirill

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Thank you for taking Your Child into your home and please support local business Editor Rachel Blake Call 0425 30 1986 Design & Layout Kirill Blake Email info@yourchildinmonash.com.au Ad Sales Rachel Blake and visit our Facebook page facebook.com/YourChildInMonash www.yourchildinmonash.com.au Your Child Areas Available for Advertising in VIC: Banyule & Nillumbik l Boroondara l Casey & Cardinia l Manningham l Monash l Whitehorse l Whittlesea l Yarra Ranges 4

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What’s on in Monash

October 2018 Garden for Wildlife workshop 18 October 6:30pm - 8pm Learn from our very own Monash bushland crew how to select indigenous plants for your garden and create crucial habitat for our wildlife.

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23 October 10am - 12.30pm Jells Park, near the Waverley Netball Centre (enter from Waverley Rd through the gate to the Netball Stadium)

Come along to Jells Park for a FREE fun day out with the kids!

The annual Fun in the Park and Family Expo is back with lots of great entertainment and children's activities on oer, including face painting, an animal farm, a performance by Paul Jamieson, story time and exercise activities.

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Maria Montessori Preschool Member of the Montessori Australia

751 - 755 Ferntree Gully Road, Wheelers Hill, 3150 www.mariamontessori.com.au

Give your child the best foundation for future learning and living. Maria Montessori Preschool provides firstclass care and education for children from 3 to 6 years of age in a stimulating environment.

With over 30 years experience the qualified Montessori teachers will give your child the opportunity to experience enjoyment in learning and achieve a strong educational background.

“The most important period of life is not the age of university studies but the first one, the period from birth to the age of six. The more fully the needs of one period are met the greater will be the success of the next”.

Dr. Maria Montessori (1870 - 1952)

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Kids Corner

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USEFUL INFORMATION Emergency Numbers

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Hospitals Monash Hospital.................................................

Austin Hospital......................................................

Royal Children’s Hospital (Parkville).......................

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Crisis Centres Poisons....................................................................

Kids Help Line..........................................................

Lifeline.....................................................................

Suicide Helpline - (Victoria only).............................

Nurse-on-Call..........................................................

Child Protection - (After Hours Service)..................

Domestic Violence Crisis Centre.............................

Sexual Assault Service (After Hours).......................

Centres Against Sexual Assault................................

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Your Local Police Station 9566 1555 Glen Waverley ........................................................

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Find your village in your own street

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More than just child’s play

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Space Clearing for Kids

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Dear Mum,

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Discover your Childs Learning Style

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Are there benefits in embracing Halloween?

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Helping your Teen to get their Ideal job.

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儿童故事：竹林七贤 古风

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“竹林七贤”指的是晋代七位名士:阮籍、嵇康、山涛、刘伶、阮咸、向 秀和王戎。他们放旷不羁，常于竹林下，酣歌纵酒。 一. 刘伶：醉后何妨死便埋 刘伶，字伯伦，他长相比较丑陋，且嗜酒放纵，有时喝醉了在屋中脱衣 裸形，有人取笑他，他还理直气壮：“我以天地为栋宇，屋室为裈衣，诸君 怎么跑我裤子里来了？” 《晋书》里有一个很有名的典故：（刘伶）常乘鹿车，携一壶酒，使人 荷锸而随之，谓曰：“死便埋我。”后世辛弃疾有“醉后何妨死便埋”句， 曹雪芹的朋友敦诚也曾经这样悼念曹雪芹：牛鬼遗文悲李贺，鹿车荷插葬刘 伶。 二. 阮咸：与猪共饮亦逍遥 阮咸，字仲容。阮咸有两件很著名的事儿，第一件是“阮咸晒裈”。阮 家是大家族，但阮瑀这一枝（阮瑀，建安七子之一，子阮籍，孙阮咸）比较 穷，住在道南，七月七流行晒衣服，人家北边的都晒绫罗绸缎，阮咸可好， 把自个儿的粗布大裤子晒到院子里，故意跟对面分庭抗礼。 第二件是与猪共饮。说这阮家都比较能喝酒，阮咸纠合族人一起饮酒， 不用小杯用大瓮，有时候这猪也闻着酒味儿过来喝，阮咸也不在乎，直接与 猪共饮。 三. 阮籍：礼法岂为我辈订 阮籍，字嗣宗，诚为一代名士，学识渊博、才华横溢。阮籍还是很恪守 礼法的，始终没有做出什么扰乱人家家庭的事情来，虽然他叫嚣“礼法难道 是为我们这类人制订的吗？”，但这个礼也只是俗礼罢了，并非指真正的礼 义。 阮籍至孝，只是表现出来与常人不同。两则以佐之。其一：阮籍在给母 亲出殡时，蒸了一头小肥猪，喝了两斗酒，然后去和母亲诀别，他只说了一 句：“完了！”大号一声，随即口吐鲜血，昏厥过去，很久才醒来。他祭奠 他的母亲不用眼泪，而是用酒，用血，无怪司马昭都说他“毁顿如此”。 嵇叔夜在《与山巨源绝交书》中，说“阮籍嘴里不议论别人的过失，我 常想学习他但没有能够做到；他天性淳厚超过一般人，待人接物毫无伤害之 心，只有饮酒过度是他的缺点”。 四. 嵇康：广陵散惜于今绝 嵇康，字叔夜，与阮籍并称当世。嵇康可称当世美男子。刘义庆这样写 道：嵇康身长七尺八寸，风姿特秀。见者叹曰：“萧萧肃肃，爽朗清举。” 或云：“肃肃如松下风，高而徐引。”山公曰：“嵇叔夜之为人也，岩岩若 孤松之独立；其醉也，傀俄若玉山之将崩。” 但嵇康不像阮籍那样谨言，他为人十分直率。山涛想推荐嵇康当官，这 本来是好事儿，结果嵇康不仅不领情，还要跟山涛绝交。 钟会来拜访他，他一直在树下锻铁，就是不搭理人家，钟会终于要走 了，嵇康这时候给人家来了一句“听到了什么才来的？看到了什么才走

钟会由此记恨，在吕氏兄弟案中，终于借机杀掉嵇康。嵇中散临刑东 市，神气不变。索琴弹之，奏广陵散。曲终曰：“袁孝尼曾请求跟我学此 散，我坚持不肯教他，广陵散于今绝矣！” 五. 山涛：璞玉浑金长者风 山涛，字巨源，在七贤中年岁最大，也颇有长者之风。竹林七贤中最 小的王戎这样称赞这位老兄长：山巨源如璞玉浑金，人皆钦其宝，莫知名 其器。 山涛的行止风度与刘伶等人可谓大不相同，他虽然也很能喝酒，据说 八斗不醉，但他更可以说是治世能臣。 当然，山涛最令人称道的地方是养育嵇康遗孤嵇绍，并举荐嵇绍为 官。嵇绍因为父亲的缘故不想出仕，山涛安慰他：“我为你考虑很久了， 天地四时尚有变化，更何况人呢。”山巨源，是竹林七贤中最适合当朋友 的人。 六. 向秀：物是人非入世俗 向秀，字子期，嵇康锻铁戏弄钟会的时候，向秀在旁边给嵇康拉风 箱。朋友遇难后，向秀很是思念他们，还写过《思旧赋》。但他最终还是 出来做官了。竹林七贤，自嵇阮死后，盛景不复矣。 七. 王戎：清逸可赏抠门男 王戎，字濬，王戎很黠慧，也很抠门，人有“钻李”之说：王戎有好 李，卖之，恐人得其种，恒钻其核。就是说王戎卖李子，怕别人把优良种 子拿去了，所以在卖之前，把所有李子的核都挖出来。王戎后来宦海沉 浮，更多的还是明哲保身。在谨慎方面，颇类阮籍，却不像阮籍那样不 羁。

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编者随笔

私以为，古风很美。带上耳机，在油管上听古风歌，几丝缱绻，几缕 侠情，被古风一吹，抚过心间最柔软的丘壑。此时，若是油管在曲与曲之 间插入广告，欢快的西方音乐乱入，那种不和谐犹如雷霆一般，撼在心 头，十分不是滋味。原来，在西方国家待了这么久，能感动心间的，还是 那些由萧和筝，唐诗和宋词，落花和微雨描出的一纸丹青。 古风歌的作曲者未必有多高的音乐造诣，曲调简单，反复无新意；作 词者未必有多高的才华，刻意拼凑的痕迹有时很明显，追求词藻的华丽多 于真正的意义。当西方国家的团队在质问破坏环境原子弹的危害人类的自 私时，古风歌还停留在男女之间说不清道不明的那次初见和曲终人散。可 是那又怎样。高唱是节操，难道浅吟就不是真诚的情感吗？我们这个柔和 的民族，不习惯反抗，不爱侵略，烹一壶茶在林间看云起云落，给自己的 感思寻得安身之处，也是对自己和其他人的一种尽责，不是吗？ 古风歌敲裂几层冰霜暖入灵魂角落的本事，深究？我们一边歌颂着这 个时代的前无古人后无来者，心底却明白最好的时代，可能在春秋，可能 在盛唐，却一定不是今时今日。这大概就是原因？我们手中握着各种能让 我们整日整夜都不合眼的娱乐设备，心底却贫瘠得开不出一朵小野花；我 们说着爱情自由睡过谁都不用负责，可是听着愿得一心人白首不相离心里 还是会有一丝悸动；我们吃着西餐觉得可口拍成照片发到朋友圈忒有面 子，可是看着《舌尖上的中国》却还是悄悄想有天要回国都尝一遍。 出来得久，或许我们都知道心底最美的乡，是近不得的，怕那无什痛 痒的怯足以让我们几年都不敢再回去。浮萍在湖上飘啊飘，蒲公英在风中 荡啊荡，却都是无根的魂，大可默认这种状态，毕竟也是逍遥，只要能忘 我，这世中便再也无界，你可以幻化成任何你想的形状，以你想要的心态 活着。只是啊，这样的一两首古风歌，却让我们记起，我们从来不是无根 的魂，我们扎根的土地，不是实物的那一片既熟悉又陌生的山川河流，也 不是现在寄居的这个外邦。这么几千年，延续我们的，从来不是实际存在 的什么。若真有什么，或许就像是这样几首歌，几句小调，几句醉生梦 死，衣袂带百花，归去不复返？ 虽然粗糙，毕竟是小憩之所；斯是陋室，惟吾德馨。

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