“Give your life meaning and purpose and you will find motivation and strength to conquer just about anything in life. ”
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elcome to July’s edition of the Women Thrive Magazine
In this issue of the magazine we are talking about all things motherhood, entrepreneurship, money and business.
All my life I thought, I am not ready for motherhood, because I need to have my life in order, I have to have my business, home, career in a specific place, and then I got pregnant last year and it changed everything.
I never knew how much becoming a mother would motivate me to pursue bigger and bolder dreams I never knew how much it would motivate me to grow and scale my business until her little heartbeat was inside of me.
From the moment I found out I started to make different decisions in my life and I found more strength, motivation, energy and commitment to do the things I never got to do before. It made me realise that we do not need to choose one or another, career or parenthood, we can have it all. We can do it all in parallel not exclusively
Recently I watched a documentary about a woman who lifted 2600 pound car and held it in the air for 10 minutes to save her son being crushed. It goes to show that mother’s strength is immeasurable and we can withstand the most unimaginable circumstances when we tap into our innate motherly instinct
Whether you are a mother or not, I encourage you to tap into your inner strength and know that you have immeasurable untapped potential to do anything you dream of in life. Give your life meaning and purpose and you will find motivation and strength to conquer just about anything in life
Mompreneur Success Through Vulnerable Storytelling
Motherhood: The Unspoken Truths
Dating 101 For Single Moms
Become a Women Thrive Author
Embracing Equality in Parenting
Women Thrive Author’s Summit
The Hat of Motherhood
Women Thrive Summit 2024 Applications
Financial Smarts for Busines
LIFESTYLE
Dating 101 For Single Moms, Emily Sanders / P12
The Labor of Love
Practice Creative Leadership to Pivot Business
Women Thrive Networking Events
When my voice saved me
Embracing Your Authentic Self
Women Thrive Retreat
Empowering Minds, Unlocking Potential
Women Thrive Podcast
Embracing Ambition Without Guilt
What does it take to be a Mompreneur?
A Road Less Traveled To Motherhood
so we can have both the emotional resilience and emotional intelligence to lead with love, at home, at work, and in our entrepreneurial endeavors.”
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When my voice saved me during our intense and sweet childbirth/ P34
Mompreneur Success Through Vulnerable Storytelling
by Dr. Elayna Fernández
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us about your journey as a mompreneur
I was on the ground, in the fetal position, contemplating suicide, when suddenly, I had a rush of inspiration come over me The image came to my mind like a flash: pictures I saw as a 7-year-old in a magazine I found in the landfill while searching for trinkets to play with This was the vision that inspired me to learn English as a second language and opened up countless opportunities for me before moving to the United States.
As I faced homelessness, as an immigrant and single mom of two toddlers, I remembered how my entrepreneurial endeavors launched me into a new life, where my dreams came true. I learned at that early age that I could use my gifts and skills to serve others and achieve my goals, even while living in extreme poverty. I decided to get up and start my platform, the Positive MOM ®.
This year marks the 20th anniversary of my platform and I am in awe of its evolution. My blog continues to inspire millions of moms in over 168 countries and I’ve been blessed to partner with over 500 brands, speak internationally, and support thousands of clients in becoming successful storytellers
I love sharing with others that it all started with a commitment to work on my business ten minutes per day and 10 dollars per month, amidst great emotional turmoil, so it is possible for anyone to become a heart-centered messenger and profitable digital entrepreneur
“As I faced homelessness, as an immigrant and single mom of two toddlers, I remembered how my entrepreneurial endeavors launched me into a new life.”
Why do you call yourself a Student of Pain?
At age 19, I had two experiences that shaped my life and have been the focal point of my five TEDx talks In March of that year, I was kidnapped, assaulted, and almost murdered by a stranger At the end of October, I was in a coma for eight days due to a car crash, in which I was a passenger
What I learned through those experiences and that I’ve confirmed in over 25 years of research is that we must sit with our emotional pain with compassionate curiosity in order to process it and find the blessing in it I call these “The Gifts of Pain,” which is the title of my book series, where I feature diverse people who use my S T O R Y System to share their painful experiences with the purpose of inspiring others and providing empowering tools for transformation
Surviving tragedy, turmoil, and trauma throughout my life has taught me that when we downplay, dismiss, and deny our pain, we sabotage our purpose, possibility, and potential
However, when we have the courage to process our pain - revisit it, call it by its name, and meet it with compassion, we can learn something precious about ourselves, others, and life itself.
I live by these seven fundamental truths:
Pain is the common thread of humanity. 1. Pain demands presence, and in presence 2. we find love.
Pain can be a portal to peace, purpose, 1. and positive growth.
When we give ourselves permission to feel 1. our pain, we can end our suffering.
When someone is in pain, don’t be positive, 1. be present.
Your vulnerability will liberate others. 1. Validation is the prerequisite of vulnerability 2
Being a Student of Pain means to embrace pain as an opportunity, because when we transform our pain, we stop transmitting it >>
I always talk about my first business: a cardboard puppet theater in the slum where I grew up In school, I would ghostwrite letters, poems, and songs for my classmates, and I even wrote school plays However, I remember using expressive writing to process my suicidal thoughts as early as five years old I discovered that storytelling and story-listening are simple, yet brave rituals that help us feel seen, safe, and supported even in the hardest of times. As I grew up, I noticed that hiding my story meant I was hiding my authentic self. We do this because of fear - fear of judgment, fear of rejection, fear of failure. I’ve also experienced the miracle of sharing my emotional, vulnerable, raw stories, which has sustained me through so much adversity over the years. Every time I publish a new book that tells my truth, whether poetry or memoir-style, I shed a layer of shame and access a new level of peace. Over time, I have studied the art and science of storytelling, and I teach and train individuals and organizations to harness its power to create sacred connections, thriving communities, and firm conviction.
Our brains are wired for storytelling It is not only a powerful business tool, but it helps us combat false shame and stored trauma and encourages intentional action toward deep personal transformation Stories allow us to get back to the essence of who we are, as we define who we will be in our own story
“I believe that the first rule of being a leader and mom entrepreneur is to have grace for ourselves.”
What wisdom can you share for moms to thrive as leaders and entrepreneurs?
I believe that the first rule of being a leader and mompreneur is to have grace for ourselves Even though it is definitely challenging to add more tasks to the already long list of responsibilities that come with motherhood, and that means we can end up feeling exhausted, most of the obstacles we will face in this journey are “between our ears”.
Our struggles come from limiting beliefs such as imposter syndrome, perfectionism, a sense of defeat because of comparison and competition, and, sometimes, extreme loneliness.
I don’t think the secret to succeeding as a mompreneur is in time management - it is in mindset management. That’s why I recommend that we all set a daily date with pain. I developed this 2-minute, evidence-based practice to help us validate our own pain:
SEE
Visualize the images, past or future, that cause you pain
SENSE
Scan your body to find the emotions you feel SAY
Address yourself by name and say words that validate your pain
My vision is that we all learn to validate our pain so we can have both the emotional resilience and emotional intelligence to lead with love, at home, at work, and in our entrepreneurial endeavors
Elayna Fernández
Founder of the Positive MOM®, award-winning Storyteller, and Student of Pain. As the creator of the S.T.O.R.Y. System for Transformational Storytelling and a Story Strategist, Elayna Fernández supports heart-centered messengers in turning their stories into meaningful impact and sustainable income
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Motherhood
TheUnspokenTruths
by Gabrielle Hayes
Isat on the floor of my closet, one hour into my sob fest, and questioned if I had it in me anymore. It had been one of those parenting weeks where I was ready to throw in the towel. Then reality kicked in. My kids needed me, and more importantly, wanted me to be the person to dust off their falls or celebrate the first time they read a book by themself. And I wanted that too – for them, and for me. But I also wanted to love and want the version of me that wasn’t so triggered, touched out, and full of guilt for wondering if I ever made the right decision.
“Wondering if it really was in alignment with the perfectionist workaholic I was at my core.”
I'm going to share a motherhood perspective that often carries a lot of taboo, but I wish there was more space to talk about motherhood as something that isn't always rainbows and sunshine We've created socially acceptable narratives to talk about how our work drives us crazy, or our spouse who knows exactly how to push our buttons, or our parents' lack of boundaries that make us feel like we have to parent them
But when it comes to saying that motherhood didn't bring out the best in us and it's harder than we ever imagined, there's an unspoken expectation that we're supposed to love and be endlessly grateful for those tiny humans who turned our world upside down.
I've been a mom for 13 years, many of which I questioned if I made the right decision to have kids. Wondering if it really was in alignment with the perfectionist workaholic I was at my core.
Being a mother has been one of my greatest joys in life. As a consultant, it’s one of the very few projects I actually have the privilege of seeing through. Watching my children grow into the incredible, unique human beings they are becoming each and every day feels like a front row seat to the greatest play.
Yet it's also one of the things that has completely and totally turned my world upside down, over and over again. Just when I feel like I'm getting the hang of it, we enter a new parenting phase When I feel like I've done the inner work that helps me show up as the best version of me, another toddler meltdown or bout of teenage laziness triggers me like no one's business
It took me a decade to stop judging myself so hard for not always loving motherhood I now realize that's okay
They have helped me become a version of me that my inner child never thought I would see I know they are incredible members of the community because I put so much pressure on myself to model a good life to them
But I also think it's completely natural – and human – to sometimes dream about our future and play the "what if" scenarios of what a different family size would look like. To wonder if things would be easier with one less child, or to miss the freedom we had before becoming parents.
These thoughts don't make us bad mothers. They make us honest.
There's no "wrong" answer when it comes to how we feel about motherhood. It's a complex, multifaceted experience that brings both immense joy and immense challenges. And it's important to give ourselves permission to process all of those feelings – the good, the bad, and the ugly.
It’s okay if you're feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or even a little bit resentful about motherhood. It's okay to have moments (or weeks) where you feel like you do not love it You're not alone in these feelings, and you're not a bad mom for having them You're simply a human being navigating one of the most challenging journeys life has to offer
“Motherhood is a messy, beautiful, and often contradictory experience.”
For the mom who needs to hear that it's okay to not be okay. I see you, I hear you, and I'm celebrating you for taking the time to process your feelings, whatever they may be.
Because in doing so, you're not only honoring your own needs, but you're also setting a powerful example for your children. You're teaching them that it's important to always be honest with ourselves and others.
Motherhood is a messy, beautiful, and often contradictory experience. And that's the truth we need to be talking about.
*If you're finding motherhood challenging, please remember you're not alone Reach out to loved ones, a trusted therapist, or support groups for the understanding and guidance you deserve Motherhood was never meant to be a solo journey
Gabs Hayes
Gabs Hayes is a Mindset & Lifestyle Strategist, author, and speaker
She's the founder of the Balance is Bullsh!t movement, empowering women globally to ditch the overwhelm of life's messy seasons and create space for what truly matters Gabs empowers women through engaging podcast episodes, personalized 1:1 strategy sessions, and dynamic workshop facilitation She equips women with powerful strategies to tackle the "not enough" feeling, replace self-doubt with unwavering confidence, and craft a life full of intention and fulfilment. Beyond her career endeavours, Gabs cherishes time spent travelling with her kids, getting lost in books, and revitalizing her spirit at music festivals.
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Of course I never envisioned myself a single mother, navigating this journey alone - meeting the needs of my son and daughter solo, while juggling a job that would barely cover my financial obligations Every penny is stretched so I can provide for them, from putting food on the table to funding their extracurricular activities All priorities revolve around them, with little consideration for my own needs in life It's my assertion that the shocking realization of this financial burden often propels many to rush into finding a new romantic partner, hoping to alleviate some of the strain
Certainly, seeking a new relationship solely to alleviate the burdens of single parenthood is far from the ideal motivation. After the end of a relationship, embarking on the journey of rediscovery amidst life's chaos can indeed pose challenges. I vividly recall a moment a month into my separation. While building a LEGO set with my seven-year-old son, he glanced up at me and remarked, "Mom, you've been smiling a lot more lately. I like it." My heart just stopped as that simple statement highlighted his remarkable sensitivity to the energy I exuded.
Dating 101 For Single Moms
“Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.”
~ Coco Chanel
by Emily Sanders
It was evident that he had previously sensed the stress and unhappiness that permeated my being prior to the separation Tears welled up in my eyes as I realized the profound importance of redirecting my energy towards positivity. I started reprogramming my mindset and raising my energy to attract positive influences into my life, including the love of my life. I like to playfully call this process “creating your Love Life Self 2.0 to 5.0”. It's about gradually evolving into new versions of yourself that align more closely with your true desires and understanding your worth.
So, your career is thriving as you're making big waves in the business world and now, you think you are ready to venture into the challenging terrain of the dating world. You're truly courageous because it’s rough out here! Right now you may be “swiping” left and right on the dating app of choice, watching YouTube videos on “raising your vibration”, and clicking through the multitude of personal development channels watching relationship coaches teach you all about the “4 attachment styles” and “the 5 things he will do when he secretly loves you”
“To reach that 5.0 version of yourself, you must open your heart and embrace vulnerability.”
While these steps can be empowering, the truth is that our journey of growth and evolution comes from within, it must be intentional and ongoing. So much so, that by the time we reach the 5.0 version of ourselves, we may finally find that perfectlyimperfect partner we have been longing for. Only to realize they might still be navigating their own growth, perhaps only at the 2 0 version of themselves This is where it gets complicated
Single parents often approach relationships with emotional barriers and guarded hearts, stemming from past hurts What I've learned is that allowing past heartbreak to dictate your present will hinder your chances of finding the deep connection you crave Being emotionally unavailable and shutting yourself off out of fear of reliving past pain will rob you from finding true love To reach that 5 0 version of yourself, you must open your heart and embrace vulnerability Express your feelings and clearly communicate what you want from the relationship Yes, you might face rejection, but sometimes perceiving their response as rejection is the wrong way to look at it
I know, it’s easier said than done In my ten years of dating as a single mom, encountering only two men who truly stirred genuine feelings inside me speaks to the rarity of authentic connections in this modern dating world. In fact, the latter of the two men has only been in my life for the past eight months. When we met, I immediately found myself deeply enamored with him. Intuitively, I know we have a very special connection and I have “all the feels” for him.
But, alas as a single dad, I feel that he is in the midst of rediscovery and finds himself closer to that first stage of the 2.0 version of his Love Life Self. And the 5.0 version of myself is not allowing that old version to surface. That girl would have made a lot of excuses as to why he isn’t calling and texting back, or making valiant efforts to spend time with me >>
While his inconsistencies and inaction towards me are painful, they clearly indicate that he is not ready for the type of relationship I desire He’s just not as invested and that is alright, it doesn't make him a bad guy; his 2 0 version is simply not compatible with my 5 0 version You have to make the decision as to whether or not their limitations and the way in which they keep you at arms length will be something that you can tolerate. Every situation is different, but if you have empathy and patience, all will be revealed in time.
Despite having deep feelings for him, all signs point to the fact that he simply does not share the same feelings for me at this time. Does that make me sad? YES - have I cried? OH YEAH. Just because you are a 5.0 version, doesn’t mean you are made of steel. Process the loss of someone you truly felt was your person. But, I urge you to look at my situation not as rejection, but more of an opportunity for growth and know that when this happens to you, you can be strong enough to respect yourself first and foremost to move on from something you truly wanted, but wasn’t reciprocated. This is when you know you are at your 5 0 version It will bring you closer to the relationship you want when you are confident in your resilience and have an open heart I hold onto the belief that everything unfolds for a reason, and people come into our lives for a purpose Sometimes, they're here to teach us valuable lessons, while other times, they may be the very person we've been searching for The higher power that you believe in, has your back, don’t doubt that What is meant for you will not pass you by
As a single mom, you are undeniably relevant in every aspect of your life, and you don't require anyone else to validate that truth for you You are the remarkable individual whom your children admire and rely on, and your strength is a beacon of hope for them We carry a profound responsibility to set an example for our children, not just through our words but through our actions as well By demonstrating self-respect and advocating for what we deserve in relationships, we install invaluable lessons about the importance of boundaries, self-worth and mutual respect. Remember, they are sensitive to our energy.
“I hold onto the belief that everything unfolds for a reason, and people come into our lives for a purpose.”
I've begun incorporating this sentiment into all of my “love” conversations because it always resonates with the energy I inhabit when speaking of finding love As Whitney Houston so eloquently put it, “I want to dance with somebody, with somebody who loves me ” That somebody is out there, somewhere, waiting to meet you In the meantime, focus on becoming the woman you aspire to be when they arrive, you’ll be irresistible Embrace your strength, cherish your independence, and continue to inspire those around you, especially your children, as you navigate dating with grace and resilience
Emily Sanders
After years of developing her client base and gaining expertise in medically focused massage therapy, Emily has now owned and run her own practice for 11 years. Additionally, she founded Ilaria Entrepreneurial Investments LLC, with the aim of supporting and guiding independent contractors in business development and establishing their practices, inspired by her journey in 2013. In June 2021, Emily competed for and won the Miss Colorado for America title and has collaborated with the Blue Bench Organization to promote rape prevention education in middle and high schools. Furthermore, Emily has discovered a passion for writing, with her work featured in Women Thrive magazine and proudly serving as a co-author in Women Thrive Volume III, Inspiring True Stories of Women Overcoming Adversity.
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Embracing Equality in Parenting Rewriting the Rules
by Kim Blythe
Ialways knew I wanted to be a mom, but I also wanted a career Could I do it?
Growing up in the ‘70s and ’80s, my mother assumed the only role she knewplanner, cook, maid, and glorified taxi driver She could also add landscaper, painter, and general fixer to her resume She did it all and did not seem happy in the slightest My stepfather worked outside the home and provided financial support He did pay the bills, but I learned later that Mom had no idea about the finances While he was napping on the weekends, my mother continued her daily routine She clocked in about 80 to 90 hours per week He worked 40 to 50 I told myself, “hell no,” quite often!
“I firmly believe that women are superheroes in many ways, but to think you can do it all well is not sustainable.”
I was not a bit interested in my mother's role. I was a dreamer, adventurous, and more career-oriented, and I often questioned whether raising a family and having a career as a woman was possible.
I remember my first conversation with my parents about male and female roles. I was 17. I was acutely aware I would not win the argument about my plan to have a family and career. I shared my vision of the man I would marry and our partnership I argued that the roles appeared unbalanced and the man I married would support my career There was a sarcastic chuckle and a comment, “Good luck with that ” he said “I can't wait until you have kids and get married!” she said
I could have walked away with my head down, feeling defeated, but I did not I felt empowered to prove them wrong I'm convinced this was the day my mantra: “she believed she could, so she did,” was born Fast forward to the present
Ladies and gentlemen welcome to modern motherhood! It's 2024, and we are doing it! If you haven't embraced the new, blurry gender roles and buried the old ones it's time
Besides carrying and delivering a baby and breastfeeding, I cannot think of any other tasks in raising a family and managing a household that a man cannot do I know a few men in my social circle who are exceptional in the kitchen, and my girlfriends are not! I also have a girlfriend who never runs away from a DIY project, but her husband does. The gender roles continue to blur.
I firmly believe that women are superheroes in many ways, but to think you can do it all well is not sustainable. No one can, without mental and physical fatigue. But for some reason, we still try even though, like myself, we want an equal partnership with our spouse.
I married my husband later in life. I was 45, and he was 56 a baby boomer who married a younger woman determined to insist on change and bury the traditional gender roles. My husband was married for 26 years before we tied the knot His experience was very conventional in his first marriage, and just like most other men, he spent very little time raising his children He regrets those missed years immensely Men can't do it all, either >>
YOur marriage has always been a partnership Our roles are somewhat defined to create order and organization but are flexible Our rules are simple We share our schedule for the week and make a plan to divide and conquer We both have a career, a business to run, children, grandchildren, pets, parents and household chores
We take turns running the kids around We both shop for groceries.
We both cook (I'm a better griller, and he's better at making breakfast).
We both participate in school conferences and meetings.
He prefers to handle the finances, but I know what is happening with our money.
We both have a career and run our business together.
He is present for our children.
He does not wait until I collapse before stepping in to help me, no matter what it is.
The last four years have been a season of change in our home. My husband assumed the role of mom and dad, educator, nurse, banker, and counselor. With all that life has hit him with, he handled it with grace and strength He took care of our family in so many ways
He is a fantastic father and partner He is present for all of us I have learned to let go and allow him to take the wheel when I cannot
“Welcome to modern motherhood and fatherhood, where you can do more of what you love because you are in it together as partners.”
After three years of trauma therapy, I have shed shame, anger, and control. That last word is significant. Let it go - the dishes, the laundry, etc. You will be happier! And ask for help when you need it. You will be a better mom now because he is a better father and husband.
Welcome to modern motherhood and fatherhood, where you can do more of what you love because you are in it together as partners. Be present for your children and, most of all, for each other!
“Our marriage has always been a partnership. Our roles are somewhat defined to create order and organization but are flexible.”
Kim Blythe is a highly accomplished sales visionary, empowerment expert, business trailblazer and author with over 30 years of experience in real estate and franchise sales She is a passionate, authentic woman who loves hard and laughs often, embodying a unique blend of strength and warmth Kim’s mission is twofold; to diffuse the stigma that makes sexual trauma a taboo topic while helping women of all ages realize trauma is not a life sentence
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November 16th 2023, I stood on stage at a demonstration meeting for a prospective Toastmasters club. That night, I delivered an icebreaker speech with a twist. Instead of the usual who I am, where I’m from and what I do for a living, I decided to introduce myself with the label I have carried with me for almost twelve yearsmother.
The Hat of Motherhood
The speech title was a play on words from a Toastmasters International training series entitled “A Toastmaster Wears Many Hats”. The purpose of the training series is to underscore the various roles a Toastmaster can take on during the course of a regular meeting As a dedicated Toastmaster, I shared that while I change hats every week, sometimes wearing more than one at any given time, the one hat that remains a constant is that of being a mother
“Despite the drama surrounding his appearance in the world, London is thoughtful, curious, intelligent and affectionate.”
One week before Mothers Day 2013, my doctor confirmed via ultrasound that I would wear the hat of motherhood for the very first time Unexpected and unplanned, I spent the next nine months preparing for life as a duo If there was ever any indication of what this journey would look like for me, it was evident in my labor. Two days of contractions and stalling at a 6 cm dilation for three hours, London Elijah Nathaniel was born via Cesarean on December 24th, 2013 at exactly 40 weeks. I often joke that he was stubborn even in the womb. Never one to be rushed, he will emerge when he is ready
Despite the drama surrounding his appearance in the world, London is thoughtful, curious, intelligent and affectionate. He makes motherhood a joy. As I began my personal evolution in pursuing my life goals, I realized London was evolving too He was no longer the preschooler who refused to speak in class. Today, London is an honor roll student and leader, he demonstrates care for the environment and has his own list of personal goals
When my experience in public speaking and leadership blossomed, I fielded a constant question: Where do I find the time to do it all?
“Think about what your hat of motherhood looks and feels like.”
Linda Clarke
Linda Clarke is a Real Estate Manager with an asset management company based in New Providence, The Bahamas. She has been a fixture in the financial services industry for twenty-five years including a stint in the Bahamas Government sector with the Ministry of Finance She holds an LLM in International Finance and Banking Law from the University of Liverpool She also holds an LLB (Hons) from the University of Huddersfield. Linda later obtained her Project Management Certification from the International Business Training Association. Linda’s professional accolades include: Lean Six Sigma Practitioner designation, two-time Royal Performance winner for operational soundness and excellence, employee of the year and three-time top sales performer In addition to her professional accolades, Linda is a passionate and accomplished public speaker
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How do I maintain a 9-5 while working on my personal ventures? I want to share with other mompreneurs how I manage to keep my mommy hat intact, while being an active public speaker and aspiring life coach:
Communicate your non-negotiables Missing London’s honor roll assemblies, or not shuttling him to his extra curricular activities are not options
Compromise where you can There are times London attends my Toastmasters meetings when childcare falls through. He actually has developed an appreciation for the program. Call on your tribe. No matter how it looks, I can’t do it all. There are times I travel for conferences or conventions that are not child friendly. Those are the moments I strengthen my co-parenting muscle and lean on extended family.
Carve out one on one time. Whether it’s spending a Saturday at the movies, or those moments during school commute, it’s important for me to be intentional about the time I spend with London that doesn’t involve being a super school mom or star speaker. Just Mommy moments are key.
Think about what your hat of motherhood looks and feels like My hat is like a tam - very close to my scalp, sometimes uncomfortably hot and itchy Yet, it’s always there keeping my head covered and warm when life gets icy
I wouldn’t trade my hat for anything in the world!
1. Keep a Separate Business Bank Account for your business income and expenses.
Separating your personal and business finances by maintaining a dedicated business bank account is crucial for several reasons:
Clear Financial Tracking: A separate account makes it easier to track business income and expenses, ensuring accurate record-keeping and simplifying tax preparation
Professionalism: A business bank account enhances your professional image, making it easier to handle transactions with clients and vendors
“Even as a sole proprietor, mixing personal and business funds can lead to potential legal issues.”
Empowering Solopreneur Moms
Financial Smarts for Business Success
by Tajni Diller
Hey there, solopreneur moms! I see you - balancing the demands of running a business and raising a family! It can be tough, but with some planning, a little financial savvy, and a few good resources, you can thrive. Let’s dive into four essential tips that will help you keep your business finances in check and set you up for long-term success.
2. Keep Detailed Financial Records of incomes and expenses.
One of the cornerstones of a successful business is meticulous financial record-keeping Keeping accurate records of your income and expenses is vital for several reasons:
Tax Preparation: Detailed records simplify the process of filing your tax returns at the end of the year It ensures you can claim all eligible deductions, reducing your taxable income and ultimately your tax bill
Legal Protection: Even as a sole proprietor, mixing personal and business funds can lead to potential legal issues and loss of tax deductions Separate accounts provide a clearer distinction between personal and business finances, which can be crucial in case of an audit or legal dispute
3. Obtain a Federal EIN.
Even if you are operating as a sole proprietor and you have no employees, obtaining a Federal Employer Identification Number (EIN) is a smart move An EIN is a unique number assigned to your business by the IRS, you will need this for your business bank account and it offers several benefits:
Privacy Protection: Using an EIN instead of your personal Social Security number helps protect your identity and reduces the risk of identity theft.
Professionalism: An EIN can enhance your professional image when dealing with clients, vendors, and financial institutions. You will be sharing this number with your customers when you provide your W-9 form that they will need for their annual reporting requirements.
“Work with your tax professional and discuss your income levels and make a planned, educated decision.”
Applying for an EIN is straightforward and free through the IRS website It’s a small step that can have significant benefits for your business operations and personal security Don’t be scammed into thinking you have to pay hundreds of dollars to obtain your EIN And an added bonus: your EIN is attached to your personal Social Security number for life, and can be reused if you start another sole proprietorship in the future, simplifying your future administrative tasks
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Tajni Diller is a Certified Tax Coach, Fractional CFO and the visionary founder of Boutique Books LLC, a revolutionary bookkeeping firm designed to empower small and medium-sized businesses. Her leadership extends into her community where she serves as a pastor and an international speaker, sharing her insights and inspiring others to overcome their financial challenges.
4. Embrace the Sole Proprietorship for as long as it’s tax beneficial to you. Operating as a sole proprietor has its advantages, especially for solopreneur moms:
Simplicity: Sole proprietorships are the simplest and least expensive business structure to set up and maintain There are no state franchise fees, and the compliance requirements are minimal compared to other business entities.
Legal Recognition: A sole proprietorship is a legally recognized business structure where you and the business are one entity. This means you have full control and responsibility for the business.
Tax Benefits: Business income is reported on your personal tax return, which simplifies the tax filing process. As a sole proprietorship you are also eligible for various business deductions, such as home office expenses, which can reduce your taxable income.
Liability & Asset Protection: While a sole proprietorship does not come with the corporate protections of an entity structure, it also does not come with the added annual expense and compliances required Look into a good liability insurance policy to get equal or better liability and asset protection for your business, protecting your personal life from your business world
Work with your tax professional and discuss your income levels and make a planned, educated decision about when it may be the right time to incorporate your business
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The Labor of Love
The heartfelt journey of single motherhood.
Being a single mother and the sole provider for your children is a path filled with challenges, sacrifices, and immeasurable strength. This journey is a testament to resilience, determination, and unconditional love. The role of a single mother extends far beyond traditional parenting, encompassing responsibilities that test emotional, physical, and mental limits daily. Despite these hurdles, single mothers embody a unique blend of fortitude and nurturing, crafting a life that ensures our children not only survive but thrive.
I am a living example of single motherhood. I had 2 kids that were my responsibility to raise and support. I embraced motherhood as a labor of love. I don’t want to say that was easy, but it was possible. Through thick and thin, I was there everyday as the loving mother, financial support, educator, disciplinarian, etc The roles of a single mother vary each day Single mothers can’t give up Giving up is not an option
The day begins early for a single mother From the moment the alarm rings, a cascade of tasks unfolds, each one demanding attention and energy Preparing breakfast, packing lunches, and ensuring everyone is ready for school or daycare sets the tone for the day Yet, these morning routines are merely the prelude to the myriad responsibilities that follow Single mothers often juggle multiple roles - caretaker, provider, and sometimes even student - striving to create a balanced and nurturing environment for their children.
Financial stability is one of the foremost concerns for single mothers. With only one income, the pressure to provide for the family can be overwhelming. This often means working long hours, sometimes holding down multiple jobs, to make ends meet. Every dollar earned is meticulously planned, ensuring that basic needs like food, shelter, and clothing are met. This financial tightrope walk requires meticulous budgeting and sacrifices that often go unnoticed. For many single mothers, the luxury of personal time or self-care is a distant dream, as their primary focus remains steadfast on their children's well-being
Despite these financial strains, single mothers exhibit remarkable resourcefulness They become adept at finding creative solutions to stretch their budgets, from couponing and thrift shopping to meal planning and home-cooked meals This ingenuity not only ensures the family's survival but also teaches children the value of resilience and adaptability Single mothers demonstrate that even in the face of adversity, there is always a way forward
“For many single mothers, the luxury of personal time or self-care is a distant dream, as their primary focus remains steadfast on their children's well-being.”
Emotional resilience is another cornerstone of single motherhood The weight of responsibility can be isolating, often leading to feelings of loneliness and exhaustion
Single mothers must navigate these emotional landscapes while maintaining a positive and supportive atmosphere for their children This requires a deep well of inner strength and the ability to compartmentalize personal struggles to ensure their children's emotional and psychological needs are met Single mothers often become their children's primary source of comfort and stability, creating a bond that is both profound and enduring
Single mothers persevere, driven by an unwavering commitment to their children's futures They rely on support networks, whether through family, friends, or community resources, to build a village that reinforces their efforts. These connections provide crucial support, reminding single mothers that they are not alone in their struggles. >>
Education and self-improvement in my case were vital aspects of my single mother's journey I pursued education to enhance my career and professional options, driven by the desire to provide a better future for my children by obtaining higher paying jobs This pursuit of personal growth came along with the chaos of daily life My effort exemplifies the extraordinary dedication single mothers have toward securing a stable and prosperous future for their families. I always wanted to become an example that my children could follow.
“Being a single mother and sole provider is a journeymarked by extraordinary resilience and unwavering love.”
The legacy of a single mother is one of strength, sacrifice, and unconditional love Their children grow up witnessing firsthand the power of perseverance and the importance of hard work These lessons, ingrained through daily experiences, shape them into resilient and compassionate individuals The journey of a single mother is not defined by the challenges faced but by the triumphs achieved despite those challenges I feel proud of the 2 honest and hardworking adults I get to call my son and daughter I deep down had a guiltiness for not being able to provide more, love more, be more present Until one day I realized that I did the best I could with what I had
In conclusion, being a single mother and sole provider is a journey marked by extraordinary resilience and unwavering love. It is a testament to the strength of women who, against all odds, create nurturing and thriving environments for their children. Their stories are a powerful reminder that even in the face of adversity, the human spirit's capacity for resilience and love knows no bounds.
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Practice Creative Leadership to Pivot Business Strategy
by Natalie Lowe
“IF YOU HOLD ON TOO TIGHTLY TO TRADITIONAL IDEAS AROUND CONTROL, YOU MIGHT FIND THAT YOU BECOME LOCKED INTO A MINDSET OR SITUATION WITHOUT MUCH FLEXIBILITY.”
Does controlling targets, strategies, and measurable outcomes feel intuitively right to you? Do you have a business persona and a personal one that are poles apart? How much do you let controlling your life control you? To truly evolve, you need to take creative leadership to pivot business strategy
If you hold on too tightly to traditional ideas around control, you might find that you become locked into a mindset or situation without much flexibility What should be moving parts that are malleable to changeable drivers and influencers, become rigid and unwieldly Instead of bending to evolving demands, your business plans can break at a crucial time, leaving you activating damage control rather than progress Creative leadership, on the other hand, enables you to ride the peaks and troughs of running a business far more smoothly and fluidly Embracing creativity leadership connects pivotal moments and gives you the mobility to create them, too
“Creative
leadership enables you to change direction, transform, and ultimately seize new opportunities. To attain it you have to let go of control.”
Creative leadership begins with EQ
Creativity isn’t just a buzzword for creatives It’s a sound principle that also acts as a catalyst for business opportunities through creative leadership It intrinsically means approaching business with an open-minded core philosophy that creates space for innovation to take root and ideas to evolve
To embrace this ethos, you need to look beyond stats and facts, channel your EQ, and use a more personal, and personable approach. You need to not only read the room but feel connected to it. This leads you to find your unique style. Once you lock into this, you can channel your individuality through greater awareness, empathy, and communication.
Female entrepreneurs are regarded as being more intuitive than their male counterparts. It could be that they are simply more practiced in tapping into this superpower.
“AS WELL
AS MOTIVATING INDIVIDUALS AND TEAM DYNAMICS, AND POTENTIALLY BOOSTING PRODUCTIVITY, CREATIVE LEADERSHIP
ACTS AS A CATALYST FOR CHANGE.”
As you connect with this power, possibilities grow because you are broadening your networks You are also challenging self-limiting beliefs This brings a wider landscape of business strategy routes and the navigation skills to explore them If one road closes or turns into an uphill struggle, you have better access to alternative ways forward
“Creative leadership taps into a more fluid momentum that you can mobilise more easily than with a fixed journey. As a result, you can pivot more easily and change direction, speed, and scale more efficiently.”
By following your gut, along with your professional experience, you can craft more organic and authentic business strategies. For brands, this ability to pivot in multiple directions in various spaces at different times is essential. Consumers are seeking branding messaging that resonates with them.
As well as motivating individuals and team dynamics, and potentially boosting productivity, creative leadership acts as a catalyst for change. The process, or strategy, becomes an important part of business goals. Creativity opens the doors to taking calculated risks and left-field thinking which oil business strategy mechanisms It informs relationships within corporate culture, as well as with B2B clients and stakeholders, and also consumers Methodology and results are also impacted by the ease with which you can pivot >>
How creative leadership enables you to pivot
How to access creative leadership
Once you have made the connection between creativity and unfolding business strategy this will guide you as to when to pivot. Beyond this, you can know how to manage change, too. Here’s how you can access this leadership style: Be present and mindful in the moment. Do not multitask. Women are used to spinning several plates at the same time in every aspect of life. Take moments of pause and dedicated focus, too.
Let your instinct and intuition have a voice and learn to listen Value creativity as a business asset rather than an add-on Unleash your imagination with a vision board
Be more people-focused and communicative to improve corporate culture and respond more naturally to clients and/or consumers in different ways
Check in with business strategies and your visceral reactions at a macro and micro level is key Your experience, skills, and EQ-inspired creativity are valuable so do not ignore them
Keep in mind that a creative approach does not negate tying down fundamental elements of strategies or defining goals Creativity may illuminate the way but do not forget to map out the direction
Expressing yourself differently in business does not equate to losing sound principles such as accountability, sustainability, and measurability These support a sense of balance and keep business strategies in check
Often one of the biggest obstacles to any type of change is unwillingness. This isn’t born out of stubbornness, but more that taking that first step toward doing anything difficult isn’t the easiest. It is the most important, though. Fear, pride, or a mixture of the two can keep you in the habit of following the same patterns. To let go of control, you need to take control of it first.
Natalie Lowe
Natalie Lowe is the CEO and Founding Partner of The Orangeblowfish, an independent award-winning creative and branding agency, with headquarters in Shanghai, China and teams in Hong Kong, and Sydney. A TEDx speaker, Natalie runs Creativity Workshops to inspire creative leadership, including a specialisation in Fortune 500 brands across APAC.
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“ I wanted to give up at times, but I kept going. The roar of the lioness within me was stronger than anything.”
The midwife said that our daughter was as strong as me and that she was moving well, collaborating alongside my body throughout the labour journey We enjoyed every single moment of this sailing together, every single breath and push, each moment of calm and furious wave I still remember my inner voice guiding me through the process: “breathe it in, gather energy and then go Breathe it out Push with all the force of the universe, ride that wave!” My older sister encouraged me during my labour journey by saying: “You are greater and stronger than this pain ” At certain moments, I felt like one of the indigenous Waorani women I met while volunteering as a teacher in the Ecuadorian Amazon rainforest four years ago – so indomitable and fierce.
I wanted to give up at times, but I kept going. The roar of the lioness within me was stronger than anything. That roar was with me all the way through the whole birthing dance! I wanted to see our daughter's little face so badly. I wanted to cross the transcendental boundary: life-death-birth.
Happily, while playing the yogic song Sa-Ta-Nam (Blessings for a New World) at the final moment, on the night of 15 August 2021, she jumped out and cried for the first time I shouted “Vittoria, vi voglio bene a tutti” (Victory, I love you all!”) to all the delivery room staff My daughter was already wide-eyed and curled up on my chest >>
Despite the physical pain of our birth process, I carry with me wonderful images and no lacerations in my physical and emotional memory
However, I have recently recovered from a hard postpartum, as I experienced those famous baby blues moments and other health unbalances I was able to rise above my fragmented version after my post-delivery There are still several taboos about childbirth and postpartum Let's unmask them and give more loving care and support to women, goddesses who have generated life
Women are wired to give and nourish cyclically
We also need to be properly nourished If I nourish better myself, I will become a better parent and servant of peace in my family, which is the first rung on the ladder of the whole society.
Our children are miracles, spiritual beings who come through us. They are the hand by which we take hold of heaven. That’s why I’m embracing conscious parenting and raising my daughter following the positive discipline and Montessoriinspired pedagogy. That’s why I love sharing and teaching yoga to her and other kids. They embody the holistic, raw, natural energy of the Universe and are aligned with the yogic ancient roots.
Our kids are not a burden that holds us back; they are a unique source of inspiration that pushes us to thrive and rise above our challenges. Motherhood empowers you as an instrument of self-fulfilment and spiritual evolution. While I am not the same woman I was before I became a mother, the journey with my daughter has made me stronger, more mindful and creative, while deepening my spiritual connection with the Universe
“I’m embracingconscious parenting and raising my daughter following the positive discipline and Montessori-inspired pedagogy.”
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Anna is a dynamic force for social change She has dedicated two decades to international education, advocacy, health and social issues Working with UNAIDS, UNICEF, and other NGOs, she has journeyed across the globe, leaving a trail of impact in the field of youth and children’s rights As a passionate educator, she crafted innovative programs addressing contemporary social issues for middle and high school students in Spain and Italy Now, as a new passionate mother, she's embracing entrepreneurship and health-life coaching She is transforming her healing journey into a mission to promote body-mind awareness and bring holistic education to life Anna's mission? To ignite human potential, reshape narratives, and inspire conscious, joyful living–from the inside out
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Escaping the Trap of Comparison Culture
Embracing Your Authentic Self
by Emma Lewis
Women supporting women We hear that phrase so frequently in society, yet in reality, it often feels like we're pitted against each other That comparison culture can be one of the most toxic traps we fall into as women
Every time I log onto Instagram, I'm bombarded with reminders of all the things I'm not doing, should be doing, or could be doing better. So many posts disguise put-downs as motivational messages. Striving to be the “best version” of myself ends up feeling futile when the benchmark keeps shifting.
Why does comparison culture give me “the ick” as the kids say these days? It's simple – no matter what you're doing, what career you have, what relationship you're in, what house you live in, or what car you drive, comparison does one of two things. It either makes you feel inferior or superior to other women. Neither of those should appeal to the modern-day woman looking to lift others up.
As a mother of seven, soon to be eight children, I vividly remember sitting in a mom’s group with my first baby, feeling somewhat confident in my new role as a mother That is, until someone asked if my daughter was sleeping through the night yet I casually answered, “No, she's up every hour ” The smug response? “Oh really, my son has slept through from 6 weeks ”
In an instant, I felt utterly inferior, like I was failing at this whole motherhood thing The doubts and questions came crashing in The comparison felt like an instant pressure dumped on my shoulders
That's just one example, but society and social media (quite literally driven by comparison culture) seem to thrive on pitting women against each other. We get drawn into pointless debates over whose life is more demanding – the working mom or the stay-at-home mom. The homeschooling moms depict these idyllic slow mornings with their kids, making those of us who send our children to mainstream schools feel like we are throwing them into the lion’s den.
Social media feeds off of our incessant insecurities. You follow accounts that inspire you, maybe it's larger family accounts in my case, only to end up feeling let down when your life doesn't perfectly mirror what you see portrayed online. So you unfollow. But then the cycle repeats with new accounts, new comparisons.
It's an unhealthy, self-sabotaging cycle But the answer can't just be throwing our hands up in despondency, can it? Very early in my motherhood journey, I made the conscious decision to step away from comparison culture and just embrace my life for what it is Here's how I've done it:
1 I recognize that people's portrayals on social media are carefully curated and not telling the full story You might see someone’s career highlights but not the struggles to get there or the ways it doesn't live up to the glossy image
2 I remind myself constantly that I am enough As a mother, this is integral to how I navigate my life If I make decisions that sit right with me and my family's values, what everyone else is doing becomes irrelevant. I don't need to mimic others’ schedules or approaches because I know what works for us, so I don’t need to be concerned with what everyone else is doing or seek validation from others.
3. I set my own benchmark for success that has nothing to do with social media's unrealistic standards. For me, success is investing in self-care daily, having happy kids with full bellies who feel safe and loved, having time for my creative pursuits. As long as I'm meeting those personal goals, I'm succeeding.
4. I support other women unconditionally. I don't judge someone's choices to work or stay home, to follow particular parenting approaches, or to live their life differently than I do We're all just doing our best I make an effort to champion other women knowing that all women in their efforts want to do their best
5 I am true to who I am Trying to keep up with what I see online is exhausting and fruitless By society's standards, I'll never be enough But by embracing my unique self, my strengths and my path, I can live freely and boldly I set my own standards to strive towards
“I want them to grow up recognizing their self-worth based on their authentic selves.”
I can't tell you how liberating it is to be unmoved by what anyone else is doing. When I catch myself drifting over to the comparison culture trap, I actively swerve and get back in my own lane. It's given me such a profound sense of freedom, confidence and security.
I instill these values in my children too. I want them to grow up recognizing their self-worth based on their authentic selves – their qualities, achievements and happiness. Not based on society's checklists or others’ curated depictions. I try and instill the same values into my children. I want them to grow up in a world where they recognize their value based on their self-esteem, happiness, achievements and not from the validation of others
So, I'll continue embracing all that I am today rather than wasting energy on comparison My unique journey inspires, motivates and sparks my creativity I set my own benchmarks for success, entirely separate from the illusion on social media Don't just survive, thrive on your authentic path When it comes to comparison culture, I've learned the hard way that the answer is simple: don't take a seat at that toxic table
Emma Lewis
Emma Lewis is a regular contributor at Women Thrive, is a busy mother of 7 children under 12 and a voluntary motivational speaker She encourages women to reject the negative depiction of motherhood being fed to women daily on social media and aims to inspire women to live life on their own terms and be authentically themselves
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I am an accredited Psychotherapist, NLP Master Practitioner and Emotional Intelligence Coach I am passionate about creating inclusive, supportive, and empowering environments for women to thrive in their careers
“As a woman, mother and executive for many years, I have a deep understanding of the challenges women and female leaders experience in their careers.”
Q. It's an honor to speak with you today. Why don't you give us some details about you and your story. How did you get to where you are today?
I have over 14 years of experience providing coaching, career development and employment services to women from diverse backgrounds My teams and I currently deliver multiple tailored Women’s Coaching programs globally and my consulting practice supports leaders and organizations to create more diverse, inclusive, equitable and psychologically-safe workplaces for women
As a woman, mother and executive for many years, I have a deep understanding of the challenges women and female leaders experience in their careers, and I have a proven track record of supporting women in achieving their professional goals
Q. Everyone has a story behind the beginning of their business. Why did you start your business?
I lost myself in my last job. I was burnt out and I no longer felt connected and aligned with the company’s mission and values. I realized that I needed to do more work that was aligned to my purpose of supporting people to reach their full potential and thrive. I wanted to do more meaningful work, like leadership development, coaching and empowering women and people from marginalized groups in the community I also wanted to use my experiences in toxic and harmful workplaces and leverage my leadership and HR skills to make a positive change in organizations and elevate business and leadership practices I want to be a part of the solution in minimizing the psychological injuries sustained by employees in the workplace, and I do this by educating, building awareness and empowering leaders and teams
Q. What inspired you to become a business owner / entrepreneur / speaker /author?
I wanted to make a difference in the lives of those I serve, whether that be women, leaders, corporates, nonprofit clients or our community of coaching clients globally. I was and am determined to be a part of the social impact and change I want to see in the world. As a speaker, author, coach, consultant and facilitator, I realized that telling my story was incredibly powerful and inspired and empowered others to make changes in their lives and careers. If I can positively impact one person’s life every day, I am doing my job!
“I want to be a part of the solution in minimizing the psychological injuries sustained by employees in the workplace.”
Q. I'm sure your success has not come easily. What challenges have you had to overcome along the way?
I have experienced workplace bullying, sexism, and discrimination, and been overlooked for promotions because I am a mother Achieving the right work/life integration or balance has been the biggest challenge throughout my career, especially when my daughter was young, as I was a single mother balancing a demanding leadership role and precious time with her.
“Despite the setbacks and challenges, I have had to remain resilient and tenacious every day.”
I realized in my career and as an entrepreneur that no one is coming to save you, you have to save yourself. You have to be your number one cheerleader You have to dig deep and regain your confidence, and self-belief and know your worth as a professional Despite the setbacks and challenges, I have had to remain resilient and tenacious every day And the biggest gamechanger for me has been how I perceive setbacks and challenges Shifting my mindset to a growth mindset has enabled me to view setbacks and challenges as opportunities for growth and reflection
Q. What's your best piece of advice for readers who desire to find success in their life?
Dedicate time to reflect on your work, your life and your purpose Identify your core values and what ignites a spark in your belly and go after it! When you discover your purpose and find that alignment with your work you will never work a day in your life! My other piece of advice is to feel the fear and do it anyway! So many people allow their fears and limiting beliefs to hold them back from the very things that can propel them to success and fulfillment. Reframe how you view fear, feel it and take a leap of faith, because on the other side of fear is often everything you have ever dreamed of!
Q. What has been the most impactful decision in your career?
Being courageous enough to leave my job, launch my company in 2021, expand it into the US a year later, and then relocating to the US with my family on July 4 this year!
Q. Who inspires you every day?
My daughter, making her proud and being a positive role model for her I want to leave a legacy by creating social change so hopefully the world will be a better place as she grows up
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Mom Entrepreneurs Embracing Ambition Without Guilt
by Stacie Snadon-Ford
n today's dynamic world, more and more women are stepping into the role of entrepreneurs while balancing the demands of motherhood. Mom entrepreneurs are forging new paths, building businesses from the ground up, and pursuing their dreams with passion and determination. However, this journey is often accompanied by an unwelcome companion: guilt. Many mom entrepreneurs struggle with the feeling that their ambitions might detract from their role as mothers. It's time to shift this narrative and recognize that pursuing dreams and being a dedicated parent are not mutually exclusive.
The Guilt Trap
Redefining Success
Societal expectations have long dictated that mothers should prioritize their families above all else, often at the expense of their own aspirations This expectation can lead to a profound sense of guilt for mom entrepreneurs who are striving to achieve their professional goals They may worry that their business endeavors will take time away from their children or that they are not fulfilling their traditional role as a mother.
This guilt is not only unproductive but also unwarranted. Pursuing one's dreams does not diminish one’s ability to be a loving and present parent. In fact, by following their passions, mom entrepreneurs can set powerful examples for their children, teaching them about resilience, hard work, and the importance of following one's dreams.
“Research shows that authentic self-expressiononline is linked to a greater sense of wellbeing.”
One of the first steps in overcoming guilt is to redefine what success means For mom entrepreneurs, success might not look like the traditional corporate climb Instead, it could mean building a business that allows for flexibility, enabling them to be present for their children’s important moments. It could mean creating a legacy of entrepreneurship and innovation that their children can be proud of and inspired by. Success for a mom entrepreneur is deeply personal and multifaceted. It’s about designing a life that reflects her values and priorities, balancing professional ambitions with family commitments. By redefining success on their own terms, mom entrepreneurs can release the guilt associated with not fitting into a conventional mold.
The Power of Role Modeling
Children learn by observing their parents When a mother pursues her dreams, she is modeling crucial life lessons for her children She demonstrates the value of perseverance, the importance of hard work, and the courage to pursue one's passions By witnessing their mother navigate the challenges and triumphs of entrepreneurship, children learn that it is possible to dream big and achieve those dreams, even in the face of obstacles
Involving children in the business in ageappropriate ways can also foster a sense of family unity and pride Simple tasks like organizing supplies or brainstorming ideas can make children feel involved and valued, turning the entrepreneurial journey into a family affair
Building a Support System
No one can do it all alone For mom entrepreneurs, having a robust support system is essential This includes enlisting the help of a spouse, family members, friends, and professional networks. A reliable support system can alleviate some of the burdens and reduce the feelings of guilt associated with trying to manage everything independently. Support can also come from mentorship and networking with other mom entrepreneurs who understand the unique challenges and can offer guidance and encouragement. Online communities and local groups can provide a sense of camaraderie and shared experience.
Prioritizing Self-Care
In the whirlwind of managing a business and a household, self-care often takes a back seat
However, it is essential for mom entrepreneurs to prioritize their well-being Self-care is not a luxury; it is a necessity It allows them to recharge, maintain their health, and approach both their business and family life with renewed energy and focus
Self-care can take many forms, from physical activities like yoga and walking to mental and emotional practices like meditation and journaling By carving out time for themselves, mom entrepreneurs can reduce stress, improve their mental clarity, and ultimately become more effective in their roles
The journey of a mom entrepreneur is filled with highs and lows, successes and setbacks. Along this journey, it is essential to let go of the guilt that often accompanies the pursuit of personal dreams. Guilt serves no productive purpose; it only hinders progress and diminishes joy. Instead, mom entrepreneurs should celebrate their achievements, no matter how small, and recognize the positive impact their endeavors have on their families. By embracing their ambition without guilt, mom entrepreneurs can create a harmonious blend of personal fulfillment and family life. They can demonstrate to their children that it is possible to dream big, work hard, and achieve success while still being a loving, dedicated parent. In doing so, they not only enrich their own lives but also inspire the next generation to follow their dreams with confidence and courage
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I“Women are expected to work, create their businesses, become financially successful, AND keep it all rolling perfectly at home. ”
What does it take to be a Mompreneur?
’m sure you’ve heard the word “mompreneur”. It doesn’t sound as exciting as “entrepreneur”, it sounds like a made-up situation to justify a mom trying to create work while raising a family Mom-pre-neur (mum-pre-neur) British origin from the 1990s that defines a woman who sets up and runs her own business in addition to caring for her young child or children: it's no coincidence that the rise of the mompreneurs comes as more highly educated women are choosing to stay at home with young children.
Now, that may not sound like a big deal, but it truly is So much of what a mother does goes unnoticed and unacknowledged, but there’s also no pay Women are expected to work, create their businesses, become financially successful, AND keep it all rolling perfectly at home
by Tanya Newbould
There are groceries to shop for, schedules to create, school functions to attend to, doctor’s appointments to keep, and the list goes on In business, there are companies to run, clients to serve, meetings to attend, Zoom calls to be on while dressed in your finest business blouse and sweat pants all while balancing the books, paying taxes, and the list goes on.
So how does a mompreneur balance this outside of the nightly wine, martini, or Mint Chocolate Chip ice cream? There are many ways and the most important is self-care Did you know women have a much higher amount of heart disease and heart attacks than men? This is based on stress in their daily lives and lack of self-care You cannot run a car without checkups and maintenance, and the human body is no different, except, there is a mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional factor.
In order to flourish, maintain as well as succeed, the mompreneur must find balance and this starts with self-care Like the saying at the beginning of an airplane flight, you must put the oxygen mask on yourself before your child Self-care is the same, you must care for yourself first and foremost to show up for your family and your business
So how do you find time to do this? It may be as simple as starting with a five-minute morning meditation, journaling, standing outside in the grass or sand and grounding yourself, hydrating with water, exercising and spending time in nature. Maybe it entails a nice bath or shower, a phone call with a friend or lunch, and lastly, if your married, or involved with a mate, a date night outside of the family. Lastly, creating family time with no devices and choosing to be present with your family when together. As a mompreneur, it’s easy to work all day every day, because there is and always will be work to do, whether it be in business or family.
“Creating family time with no devices and choosing to be present with your family when together. ”
Choosing the road less traveled is not the easiest one, but it is incredibly rewarding You are a hero on your hero’s journey You get to choose your path on your terms and be present to your children’s daily experiences and love them, but even more importantly, you get to be a shining example of creating a life that you love, a legacy to leave to them and the opportunity for them to learn how to show up for themselves and teach them that they too have the opportunity to create a life they love.
None of us get to skip the steps and thank God we don’t. Through our hero’s journey, we learn, grow, and evolve. But with clarity, focus, ease, and grace, we truly do get to have it all, I celebrate each of you.
To every mom (mum) out there, Cheers and well done!
Tanya Newbould
After 20+ years in the entertainment industry, Tanya Newbould transitioned to her true passion: being a Life Transformation Strategist, Executive Coach, Entrepreneur, and Jewelry Designer She manages five businesses and helps others unlock their potential with power, passion, and purpose.Tanya is an ACC Coach with the International Coaches Federation (ICF) and a Licensed Academy Trainer (LAT) for the Academy for Coaching Excellence (ACE Coaching). A strong advocate for Postpartum Depression, she holds advanced certifications from Postpartum Support International (PSI) in Perinatal Mood & Anxiety Disorders (PMADs). Her personal PPD journey led her to co-create and co-produce "When the Bough Breaks - A Documentary about Postpartum Depression," narrated by Brooke Shields.
Diane Gilman Fashion Pioneer, Designer & Founder of DG2 Jeans
I am not a biological mother.
Yet I feel I have exercised my maternal instincts all my life. From the time I can remember, around 3 years old, I felt I was very different from other little girls. It was the late 1940’s and the prize girl’s toy was a rubber babydoll that peed when you pressed its tummy (after filling it up with water). I was fascinated with this anatomical feature, but little else about carrying around a rubber babydoll interested me.
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While other girls my age were already exhibiting maternal instincts, like swaddling their babydoll, pushing it around in a baby carriage, singing it lullabies… I was only interested in dressing it. I used anything on handembroidered tea towels, random bits of fabric or fur. I was already displaying what would be my lifelong love affair with fashion design. All I talked about were my dreams to have a career designing fashion. My mother and father were horrified!
My parents would wonder who put those deviant thoughts in my brain. What was wrong with me? Proper girls did not work. Period. Good girls, raised properly, aspired to marriage to a “good provider” and fulfil their female role in society through motherhood. There were not many choices for females back then. Yet I was determined to start my life journey down the road less travelled. I wanted to pursue my dreams.
Even as a child, I had absolutely no emotional or familial support. I recognized I had a talent, a special talent for fashion. And it was so necessary to nourish it, to protect and grow it. To cherish and guide it, and to be proud of it as another woman would be of her child.
It’s hard to explain, but you do give birth to ideas. From the core of your talent, that can become the foundation of your adult life.
From my point of view, talent is exactly like a child It needs nurturing, love, protection and supervised growth. Although conventional motherhood was not for me and still, I am a “helicopter mom” with my talent. I set lifestyle limits to always put talent first. So while others around me were into wild partying and general self-destruction, my late nights were spent in my sewing room, working solo and honing my skills. I would not allow anyone or anything to diminish or supersede me or the importance of what I love!
Although, at times, it was difficult, I always believed in my talent and myself. Particularly when others did not. I fed my talent in inspirational and aspirational environments to nourish and nuance it And just as a mother would, I never deserted my support for my talent even in the toughest of times, of which there were many.
To this day, I still revere and thank God for my most cherished feature, my highly developed love of fashion design, which has led me to so many fascinating places and experiences and became such a forever piece of my personality. Exactly like devoting your female life to raising a child.
Recognizing that talent was simply manifesting my destiny, very much the same driving need to give birth and raise a child who is and forever will be a proud part of you.
So ladies, listen to your heart, mute the external noise about what you should and shouldn’t do, and recognize you have choices. I used my maternal instincts in a unique way that suited me, which was hardly ordinary or conventional, but deeply maternal nonetheless. I chose the road less traveled to motherhood with no regrets!
