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Your partner caught you oggling at another woman... What's your excuse? Not a new story, is it? Women often catch their men staring at other women. So what happens next? What ‘ingenious’ excuse does he come up with to soothe her raised brows and ruffled feelings? Read on to learn how some men manage to calm their partners after being caught ogling at other hotties…
Lava Kafle
solutions architect, Deerwalk Inc Since the universe is created by physics, it makes several attractions possible. It happens all of a sudden and there is no question on why attractiveness, beauty, a certain outlook or personality creates desire in human beings. So my excuse would go something like this: “Darling, my beloved one, love is not for slavery but for sharing. Human beings are created to express love, solidarity, friendship
Saurav Dhakal,
storyteller at storycycle.com I would have two options if I am caught checking out an attractive woman: 1. I will tell her I know the lady but I am having a hard time placing her, so that was the reason I was staring at her. I can’t remember her but I am sure she has some interesting STORY. 2. I will tell my partner that the lady is my childhood friend but now we do not speak to each other.
But honesty is the best policy and most times, I would tell her what I like about the lady. If you tell the truth, it probably won’t be so bad and she might just nod and let it go. A lie, on the other hand, can be caught and she might have a false impression of the whole situation, landing you in deeper trouble. She will definitely notice when something is fishy, so it is just better to tell her the truth and to try and make light of the situation. It also saves you a whole lot of time and trouble. 34 | VOW | January 2012
Little Star Shrestha, CEO, Little
Star Records
The possibility of this kind of situation only comes under the critical cyclone of human feelings, and I believe such things take place only in sensitive cases. If I face this situation I would initially love to watch my partner’s reaction. And while being a Virgo, I do believe that I have a great power of tolerance regarding any circumstances, but in case she goes aggressively out of limit, instead of doling out any excuse I would prefer to say “She could be my future girlfriend”. I am honest and I always speak my mind… I don’t want to be taken lightly and I want to be known as “a man of my words” forever.
and positive feelings with each other. Love is not contained in one small pocket or heart, it’s boundless. There are no chains in love, but freedom, liberty and philanthropy. It is a human need, dignity and desire to crave for more love. You and I certainly respect each others’ love, but we are not bound together like sodium chloride. This bonding is temporary. Please see nothing in this world as permanent. Everything is temporary. We have to leave everything that we thought ours – wealth, love, partner and friendship! I will always love you honestly… forever. I would never ever find a partner so compassionate, kind and forgiving for my universal demonstration of love that I share with other attractive ones. Please forgive me and understand that I still love you, more so now that I have learnt from others how to love you better. I am always at your disposition, your heart soul and existence…”
Dr Bikal Shrestha dental surgeon
It is perfectly normal for our eyes to get automatically attracted to beauty. I am sure almost all men tend to at least glance when we pass an attractive woman. So it’s no surprise that I have such moments too! And since I know that just looking at someone from afar does not mean I’m betraying my partner, I admit to doing so if she happens to notice it. Also I would casually tease her in such situations and try to have fun. And anyway, it so happens that most of the time I ask her to check out that cool lady around! By» Pramila Rai Photos» Nibendra / Sanu Raja