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Victorious Woman

Women of Excellence

An Exclusive Interview with Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D.

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Inside this Edition Meet A

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Mighty Man of Valor

The Real You

Never Give Up on Your Dreams

Spring Hair Care & Fashion Tips

Spring 2014 FREE FRE E ISSUE

Word Of Oasis

A Place of Refreshing Victorious Woman, Women of Excellence is published quarterly by Word of Oasis Ministries International, Inc., a non-profit corporation, 4034 Inner Perimeter Rd., Valdosta, GA 31602. Phone: 229-2449625 or 1-866-479-2909, Fax: 229-293-9370. Š2014 Word of Oasis Ministries, all rights reserved. May not be reproduced in whole or part without written permission from the Publisher. Victorious Woman, Women of Excellence Magazine has no subscription price and is supported through contributions worldwide. All advertisements are assumed to be accurate.

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Bishop Henry R. Williams, D.D. & Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D. Teaching & Preaching God’s Word Through The Power of One!

Victorious Woman, Women of Excellence Magazine Spring 2014 Publisher Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams

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Editorial Team Cynthia Jordan Lisa Hamilton Rashonda Williams Shakira Williams

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Contents Spring 2014 Issue

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28 Let Go

Never Give Up On Your Dreams By: Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D.

By: Charlene Melvin

22 Discovering the

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Passion You Have Inside of You By: Lisa Hamilton

An Exclusive Interview with Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D.

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Hair Care Tips: "Is Your Hair Under the Love is Everything And Weather?" By: Master Then Some Cosmetologist, By: Bishop Henry R. Williams, D.D. Elaine Bennett

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30 Recipes

By: Evangelist Mary Johnson

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Loving The Real You By: Shakira Williams

34 Going Through The

Process: Being Healed And Whole Take Back Your Life and By: Cynthia Jordan Become a Healthier You By: Earleen Thomas

16 Let's Talk Fashion 26 By: Rashonda Williams Visit www.wordofoasis.org

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NEVER Give Up On Your

Dreams

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adies, it has always been in my heart as a woman, wife, mother, Co-Pastor/Spiritual Mother figure to inform, encourage, inspire and uplift women of all ages through a newsletter/magazine… Well! My dream has come to pass “Praise the Lord!!!” Dreaming is God’s idea! He would never give them if He wasn’t planning to bring them to pass. Acts 2:17 says, “young men/women will see visions and old men/women will dream dreams.” Why does He say “old men/ women?” Because we are to never stop dreaming!

When we “Dream Big” we give “God” something to work with. Ephesians 3:20 says, “Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly, abundantly, above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us.” According to Habakkuk 2:2; we must write the vision/dream on the table of our heart; so the ones who read it may run with it; be inspired, uplifted and encouraged to pursue their dream. Never limit God! Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” I want to encourage all of my beautiful sisters/daughters to never settle with just surviving in life; Dream Big… It’s God’s will for us to live our life, enjoying it and have it in abundance, to the full, till it overflows. St. John 10:10b. Therefore, we must seek God’s will for our life. He’s given all of us talents, gifts and abilities. We are blessed to be a blessing!!! Never doubt in your heart!!!

You may ask; can God use me? Can my dreams come to pass? Absolutely Yes!!! St. Matthew 6:33

says, “But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you.” Dreaming big is God’s idea and it enables Him to do what He longs to do in and through us for His glory!!! Now, decree and declare along with me by saying: I will think big, ask big, believe big and dream big. I will fill my heart with God’s promises, creating His dreams for my life. In Jesus’ name amen!!! In closing, much love and appreciation goes out to Sister Lisa Hamilton and Sister Cynthia Jordan, for believing in my vision/ dream; taking hold of it, running with it and bringing it to pass! Our very first VWOE Women’s Magazine!!!

You both are very beautiful and brilliant, spiritual daughters of Word of Oasis. For that, Bishop and I are very grateful!!! I give double honor to the world’s greatest husband, father, Senior Pastor/Founder of Word of Oasis, Bishop/ Dr. Henry R. Williams; my amazing husband! Thank you for believing in me, praying and supporting my vision and dreams.

I would also like to acknowledge my son, Aaron and my two gorgeous daughters, Rashonda and Shakira; who love, pray for and encourage their mom. I love you all to life!!! Last but not least, to my Word of Oasis family; remember this is our year of “Supernatural Recovery” in 2014!!! “Our past has passed.” (Nahum 1:9) You are greatly loved and appreciated!!!

Never Limit God!

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Because of Him,

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What impact do you want this magazine to have on women in

the church and in the community?

Pastor Gwen: Through your transformation of knowing who you really are in Christ, it will cause you to begin to love yourself and your sisters. It will have an impact in the church, the community and the world.

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Some women may look at you

An EXCLUSIVE Interview with Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D.

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The magazine actually started

are single, married, or a mother, again I

as a newsletter, when I became

want the magazine to inspire them to be

editor of the newsletter, you told me you had a vision of the newsletter eventually becoming a magazine. What was your vision for the magazine? How did

all that God has predestined them to be.

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What made you decide to call the newsletter and now maga-

zine, Victorious Woman, Women of

you envision it impacting the women of

Excellence? Is there a story behind this?

Word of Oasis Ministry and then women

Pastor Gwen: Yes, there is. The

within the community?

reason why I decided on the name is

Pastor Gwen: My vision and heart

because we serve an excellent God. My

for the magazine for the women in

aunt used to tell me when I was young,

Word of Oasis and the community and

we didn’t know the word of faith back

I’m believing to spread abroad, is to

then as we do now, but she used to tell

inspire women to become all that God

me I was a poor girl with a rich spirit.

predestined them to be. Whether they

I liked everything that was nice. If it

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and think perhaps you can-

not relate to what they may be going through. Those who are wise know the saying “If you don’t know my story, you don’t know my glory” is so very true.

What words of advice would you give the women out there who may look at you and see the blessings and not know the story behind the blessings?

Pastor Gwen: As I stated, I had to learn a lot of things. Speaking from a Pastor’s wife/Co-Pastor perspective, I had to learn a lot through trial and error.

It was very hard to the point where I lost myself. I was existing. When I was raised, I was raised in a traditional Holiness church. It was a small congregation. It was a store front church.

It was a small family setting and I saw love. When I joined the domination and

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the Lord blessed me with my wonder-

shine so bright, that it should almost

ful husband, Bishop Williams and he

blind them.

felt it was God’s will to lead us to pastor, I didn’t realize what we were actually accepting. I was young and naïve. I

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What allows you to keep the passion and fire that you have

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for women in general?

Why are you so passionate not

Pastor Gwen: What makes me

only about the women of Word

of Oasis, but women in the surrounding

keep the passion is as a young wife and

realized that everyone that cries Lord,

communities?

mother/pastor’s wife; I didn’t have that

Lord, does not live it. The mess I had to

Pastor Gwen: Growing up as an

mentor figure, so I learned a lot through

encounter from messy people (church

African American, we struggle with a

trial and error. When I did go to other

folks, women, some extended family and

lot of issues such as low self-esteem or

pastor’s wives per say, they acted like

in-laws), it caused me to go into a shell.

feeling like you don’t compare or come

they couldn’t relate to the things I was

I lost who I was. It affected me even who

up to others or just the way a person

challenged with. They weren’t being real.

I was as a wife. It was to the point where

was raised, it influences your mindset.

That’s why you will hear me say, come

I said “Lord Jesus, I didn’t know people

Because of that you compare yourself to

on you all, let’s take off the mask and

could be so mean”. The things that were

others and you don’t really know who

be transparent. From that experience it

said and the sacrifices we made seemed

you are in Christ until you really accept

provoked me to say I’m going to become

unappreciated. It was to the point where

the Lord as your personal Savior, build a

that mentor figure, that spiritual mother,

I got depressed. My temperament is up

relationship with Him and believe who

co-pastor that I did not have as a young

tempo and encouraging. I’m normally

He says you are.

woman and pastor’s wife.

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they are, you don’t need to covet or have

is the stigma that we have because of

inely mean it?

a jealous spirit. You really need to pray

jealousy, which causes us to compare

Pastor Gwen: Because some women

and hear the words that are coming out

ourselves to others in a negative way.

don't know who they are. When you

of their mouth when they are willing

A lot of relationships are destroyed or

don’t know who you are for real in

to open up about their wounds and be

will never develop. When we compare

Christ Jesus, then you can’t really love or

transparent. Guard your heart and stay

ourselves to other women, the bible says:

compliment a sister because you’ll have

in your lane because if you’re not willing

we are unwise, (2 Corinthians 10:12b)

this thought that if I tell her that, she will

to go through what they went through,

Because, when we do that we either

get a big head or I’m not telling her that

don’t covet it.

think more highly of ourselves or we

because she already thinks she’s cute.

What does it mean to be a Vir-

put ourselves or (others) down too low

But when you are free, then you can love

tuous Woman of Excellence?

and this is where jealousy comes in or a

and compliment others.

an optimist, but I was just existing. From that prospective, if you don’t know what a person has gone through to get where

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Pastor Gwen: Being beautiful from the inside out. There are a lot of women who are attractive on the outside, but because of their nasty disposi-

Why do you feel it is "perceived” that women can’t get along?

for some women to give another

Pastor Gwen: As girls/women there

woman a positive compliment and genu-

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competitive spirit.

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Why do you feel it is so difficult

You often say how important

What do you believe Christian

it is that we guard our hearts.

women especially; can do to let

Can you explain this to a woman who

the world see that women can get along?

might be reading this that might not

tion and attitude, it makes them ugly. We

Pastor Gwen: Exemplify real genu-

understand how to guard her heart and

are supposed to be lights to this world,

ine unity. Where there is unity, there

why it’s so important that she guard her

and salt to this earth. When people come

is strength, oneness and singleness of

heart?

to church, they should see our light

heart.

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can. How can women apply this prin-

another sister can’t beat you being you.

as a man thinketh, so is he. If you

ciple to their lives or in a situation they

You’ll try acting; dressing and talking

really don’t feel good about yourself

may currently be in?

like someone else. It will escalate into

through having a personal relationship

Pastor Gwen: I’m going to use

something ugly because you want to be

with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,

this example; we just came back from

that other person. Remember no one can

and you really don’t get into the word in

Hawaii. This was the second trip for

beat you being you!

your own personal time to know who

Bishop and me, but for our daughters it

you are in Him, you will become a very

was their first trip. Back in the day we

negative person. How you perceive your-

couldn’t afford it. I had to bring Hawaii

self is how you perceive others. From a

to Bishop and me in our bedroom. I al-

ence was like for you, and for some of

different aspect, God says bad company

ways share start where you are. You may

the women who shared their experiences

corrupts good manners. We need to get

not be able to afford to go to Hawaii, but

with you? Will there be more retreats in

to know people after the spirit and not

every working adult deserves a vacation.

the future?

the flesh. In our flesh dwellth no good

You may go to Orlando to Disney World,

Pastor Gwen: It was absolutely

thing. Messy women will always form

but start where you are on your level.

an awesome time. What really stood

cliques, Who don’t have a personal re-

Then work towards going to Hawaii or

out with me the most was the bond of

lationship with God that have a form of

wherever you desire your dream vaca-

sisterhood. Every lady that went, we

godliness, but denying the power there

tion to be.

knew they were meant to go. The love

Pastor Gwen: The word of God

says

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This past year, the women of Word of Oasis went on their first

retreat. Can you tell me what this experi-

Another one of my favorite say-

was there and they were really able to let

ings you say is that “No one can

their hair down. They were very trans-

everything that comes out of a person’s

beat you being you”. Why is it important

parent. We cried, we laughed and there

mouth is negative. A person that doesn’t

that we just be ourselves?

was excellence in the women that work

have anything good to say. Everything

Pastor Gwen: We have to believe if

along with me. The girl’s club coordina-

about them is negative. Don’t override

we read the bible, we need to believe the

tor and counselors served us with such

it, especially as a daughter of WOO. It

bible. We have to believe what God says,

excellence. You always say I’m your

will begin to affect your spirit to the

you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

spiritual mother, but I was treated like

point where a person will come and join

He didn’t make you to be a carbon copy.

royalty, like a queen. Everything was

the church and came with a sweet spirit

You are an original. It’s an indictment to

done with excellence. There will definite-

and free and all of a sudden they start

God when you try to be like someone

ly be more retreats in the future!

getting distant and they get to the point

else. Nobody can beat you being you! I

where they are a totally different person

admire a lot of women, but I never lose

and then we wonder what happened to

who I am. I share that with sisters who

that person. If a person isn’t happy with

join our ministry when they compliment

Pastor Gwen: Going back to the

being a part of the ministry, then they

me and I do appreciate the compli-

question of the stigma of women not get-

need to seek God for guidance on where

ments. You have to be careful not to go

ting along. Some sisters said the reason

they should be.

from admiring to coveting because then

they were a little leery of going because

One of my favorite quotes that

envy will set in then jealousy will come

I’m going to have to be with sisters from

you often say is start where you

in. Don’t lose who you are. You can’t

the church, that I don't really know for

beat another sister being who she is and

two days and my friend wasn't able to go,

of, the bible says from such turn away.

Breaking it down a little bit so it’s plainer,

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are, use what you have and do what you

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What do you feel was the greatest accomplishment from this

retreat?

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but then expressed that after they got out of the box and came, they were so happy.

They met new sisters and they saw they

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We meet every third Sunday

surprised at how fluently she expressed

of each month for the Virtu-

herself and they were tremendously

ous Women of Excellence Fellowship

blessed! Our VWOE fellowship is life

can be vulnerable and felt we relate in

and I enjoy this time so much that I

changing, you will not leave the way you

so many areas. We really do need one

never want to miss this time. Can you

came. Through being loved, encouraged,

another.

enlighten women on what they miss out

uplifted, informed, and inspired your life

Are there any upcoming events

on when they don’t attend? For those

as a woman will never be the same. We

that the Virtuous Women of Ex-

women who weren’t aware of our fellow-

also would like the women in our com-

cellence can plan to look forward to that

ship can you inform them on what they

munity to know they are welcome. Bring

you are able to share at this time?

can look forward to by attending?

a love one, neighbor, or friend!

Pastor Gwen: Twenty –fifteen

Pastor Gwen: Our VWOE fellow-

(2015) we have something fabulous

ship is a time of refreshing for women of

coming up, but at this time I can’t share

all ages!!! It's my heart for the women to

details with you.

build a bond of sisterhood. We enter into

Pastor Gwen: My response is

What are some of the outreach

"God's Presence" with prayer, praise, and

based on our scriptures for the Virtu-

ministries that the women in the

worship. Afterwards, I always encourage

ous Women of Excellence. St. Matthew

church can get involved in?

the sisters to loose some WOO (Word

22:37-39; 37. Jesus said unto him (her),

Pastor Gwen: Of course there’s the

of Oasis) Love. A hug can go a long

thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all

Virtuous Women of Excellence if you

way! Revelation 12:11 says, "And they

thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with

have a heart for women and out of that

overcome him (Satan) by the blood of

all thy mind. 38. This is the first com-

we birthed the Daughters of Destiny.

The Lamb and by the word of their testi-

mandment. 39. and the second is like

If you have a heart for young girls and

mony." Each month I always ask a WOO

unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as

teenagers, then you can help out with

daughter of the house to partner with me

thyself. When we as women don't know

the Daughters of Destiny. We have the

by being transparent with other sisters

who we are through a personal, intimate

single parent ministry. Sister Daphne

and share their personal challenges and

relationship with the "Lord", loving

Pope is the coordinator. If you have a

their testimony. When we as women are

Him and accepting His love for us, as

heart for older people, we have the nurs-

willing to share our testimony, it gives

well as, believing who we are in Him

ing home ministry. Minister Johnson

other women hope to know: if God

through studying the Word we will never

is the coordinator. We have the media

brought her through trials and tribula-

love ourselves the way "God" intended,

department. We also have the Youth

tions, He will do the same thing for me.

and the enemy will use that against us.

Department, which Evangelist Rutland is

That sets an atmosphere for our sisters

Which causes women to struggle with

the acting coordinator right now. If you

to really bond, when we as women are

low self-esteem, when women have low

have a sweet beautiful smile, you can be

willing to be vulnerable by being trans-

self-esteem they will always compare

a greeter. We have our outreach missions

parent. For example, a lot of the sisters

themselves to other women. That's when

and Minister Taylor is coordinator. If

of WOO thought Sis. Charlene was very

the spirits of competitive jealousy, envy,

you have a voice and can sing, we have

quiet because in church she always stays

strife, covetousness, ect., will manifest

our praise team. We also have the inter-

to herself. During our very first awe-

and destroy the covenant bond of sister-

cessory prayer team, which is headed by

some retreat, she had an opportunity to

hood. That's why it is imperative for us

Minister Taylor.

share her heart. Many of the sisters were

as women to love ourselves!

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Why is it so important for us as women to learn to love our-

selves?

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Love Is Everything And Then

Some

Bishop Henry R. Williams, D.D., A True Mighty Man of Valor!

o love and be loved; the very thing that most people desire and the very thing that some refuse to give. Love, the very thing that some say that they fall into but somehow so easily fall out of!

It’s been said that “Love is what makes the world go round.” Love: the very quintessential character trait of a person who calls themselves Christians. Our Head and Founder, Christ Jesus, said it's what’s required so that men will know that we are His disciples.

However, in the world today and even in the community of the church, it seems to be just a thing of the distant past. Jesus said in Matthew 24:12; “And because iniquity shall abound, the love on many shall wax cold.” The amplified version says, “And the love of the great body of people will grow cold because of multiplied law-

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lessness (without restraint) and iniquity (twistedness or moral crookedness). In the Greek the word “wax” is: psoo'-kho; which means, reduction of temperature by evaporation to chill. The word cold in the Greek is the same word for wax. So, here it is, a double negative, being projected and the prophets hang on these commandments. You may ask; why is love so important to God?

Love is the person and personality of the only, One, true and living God! This is something Adam and Eve didn’t know and believe. Had they believed in God’s love for them, the devil would not have been successful in tempting them.

Jesus answered this in His prayer for us in John 17:23, “I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.” God’s love for us is equivalent to the same love that He has for His Son,

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Jesus. John 15:13 says, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” Love is important to God because He Himself is the very essence of Love. Love is God. When we choose to walk in God, love becomes who we are because He is Love. What Love got to do with it? Tina Turner said that “it’s just a second hand emotion.” Well, she was limited to her perspective at the time this song was written due to her environment. And secondly, she apparently didn’t know that love is not an emotion; Love is the person and personality of the only, One, true and living God! This is something Adam and Eve didn’t know and believe.

Had they believed in God’s love for them, the devil would not have been successful in tempting them. Joseph Prince said this in his book, “The Power of Right Believing,” “the real reason believers are still entangled with sin and the world is because the love of the Father is not in him.” He based his assessment on 1 John 2:15, “If anyone loves the world, Visit www.wordofoasis.org

the love of the Father is not in him.” Notice that it is the love of the Father, not the love for the Father.

So people who love the world and are trapped by worldly pursuits are actually people who don’t know or don’t believe in their hearts the love of the Father for them.” The scripture tells us that “faith worketh by love.” So, in order for my faith to work it means that I have to walk in love. We understand from the Word that “faith pleases God.” Ephesians 2:4–5 says, 4

But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love

wherewith he loved us, 5Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;)” So then, I need faith in order to receive salvation. In order for me to operate in faith I must have love at work in my life. The dimensions of God’s love for us is past finding out. Hum! So then, I conclude: what’s really important in life is that “Love is everything and then some;” because love not only keeps us in this life but will sustain us in the life to come.

P.S. I would like to express my love and devotion to the love of my life, and MY WIFE FOR LIFE, PASTOR GWEN. Thank you for standing by me and undergirding me for 32 YEARS in marriage and ministry!

I congratulate you on the launch of your new VWOE Magazine and the vision that you have for women at-large.

Bishop Henry and Pastor Gwendolyn Williams

Bishop Henry and Pastor Gwendolyn Williams

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•These are some of the many

nuggets our Bishop has shared with us, and now we would like to share them with you. They were such a blessing to us, and we know they will be a blessing to you!• e eopl P w ll lo u Al They Wi o Y n Whe fine You u! o e To D Limit Y

Nothing is Happening To You, but It Is Happening For You!

Lea play rn by Fa it the hand h how T o yo deal t in u’ve bee life! n

“You are a new person equipped for life and satisfied in God. Take some risks-God will guide you. Give more generously-God will supply. Love more freely-God will energize you.

Say “Can Do” more often-God will amaze you!”

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• Bishop and Pastor Gwen, thank you for taking the time out to teach us the word, and showing us how to as well take time to relax and just enjoy life!

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The Virtuous Women of Excellence Invites You Out to Enjoy an Awesome Time of Fun, Food, and Fellowship. They Meet every 3rd Sunday from 6 PM to 8 PM at Word of Oasis Church. Like Pastor Gwen always says, if you are ever in the beautiful city of Valdosta we encourage you to attend!

In 2013 they studied from this must read book by Joyce Meyer Do Yourself a Favor... FORGIVE. This book was a blessing to the women, and we encourage you to get a copy for yourself.

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Rashonda’s

Top 3

Favorite Trends for Spring 2014

Let’s Talk Fashion Upon graduating from high school with honors in 2004, Rashonda L. Williams was accepted into the International Academy of Design and Technology of Tampa, Florida. There she graduated Magna Cum Laude with a degree in Fashion Design and Marketing in 2006. Knowing that she would desire to start her fashion line and one day have a fashion empire, she later went on to attend Georgia Military College where she obtained her Business Administration Magazine Rashonda’s creative purpose is to enlighten women on Fashion and Beauty.

It's her desire, to help you as a woman bring out the best you. David says it best in Psalm 119:73a (NKJV) which reads, “Your hands have made me and fashioned me;” Psalm

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degree. In this segment of the VWOE

139:14 (NKJV) reads, “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.” When you grasp these two verses, as a child of God, it will provoke us as women to present the best us in every area of our lives to this world. We are the salt of the earth, and just as salt contains flavor; being your best, looking your best, and feeling your best will cause other people to want to know the awesome Creator Father God that we serve!

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ast year tribal looks were reintroduced to the fashion

sector. Well, they are back this season and are one of the key fads. Many designers’ inspirations targeted towards Europe, Asia, and Africa. These countries set the tone for many collections this season. While shopping you will observe the global mindset each designer has put forth this spring.

Expect to see various prints in stores this season.

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his past year you may have seen a few selections of

Art Pop in various stores such as, Target’s Phillip Lim Collection.

Fine art spin along with painters’ prints and bold brush strokes Source: Style.com, Isa Arfen

illustrates the true Art Pop form.

Expect Spring Pantone colors to be intertwined to give an artistic approach to various garments.

Traditional art painters will also appear tastefully on clothing this

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THE PERFECT HEEL FOR SPRING Source: Pinterest, Gianvito Rossi

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he designers approach with metallic’s has taken a shift this season by introducing daytime metallic’s. Yes, I know you may be thinking, how can I make a metallic work during the daytime? Well various designers have defied all odds and have made the true metallic look work for this season. Be aware of the silk lame’, gilt brocade, and chain metals, they have been repositioned this season.

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Daughters of Destiny Trip May 11, 2013 To

World of Coca-Cola & Georgia Aquarium

Learn to Enjoy One Another, and Have Healthy Fellowship!

Discover the Passion You Have Inside Of You

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inding a passion of yours can sometimes feel like a never ending journey. I don’t know about you but I was on that journey.

I would always hear Pastor Gwen share her heart on wanting to see our newsletter evolve into a magazine. It hit my spirit one day when I heard her say it again. I began to wonder how I could be a part of making her desire for a magazine come to life. I began a search on the Internet on how to do a magazine cover, and the rest is history.

I would get so caught up in learning how to do things for this project that I would not realize how much time I had been on the computer. Now talk about a passion for something; I had discovered one for sure. I have participated in several departments at church, but I started feeling I wanted to give more in another area in which I could share things I learned to do in my spare time on different computer programs. Pastor Gwen sharing her heart about this magazine pulled something out of me that I did not know was locked up inside of me. She helped me discover one of my passions. My question to you is have you discovered the passion you have inside of you? The passion you have locked up inside of you might have you thinking I want to do this, but I just don't know how or I am not an expertise at it. However, I heard Bishop Williams say one service that when you have a passion for something God will equip you with everything you need.

Sometimes it may take doing a little more research, going back to school, or God just placing those prominent people in your path, but there are a ton of resources available to help you fill that passion. I know I truly had found one of my passions when I shared with

my husband that I wanted to help with this magazine venture. He listened to me go on and on about this magazine and what I had learned to do each time, I discovered something different in the computer programs. He said to me, I know you have found a passion inside of you because you should see the way your face lights up and how excited you get when you talk about this magazine. He was so happy for me. This melted my heart, and I am so grateful for how patient he and my children were with me while learning this new task. It wasn’t easy, but although you may not believe it sometimes when things are easy they don’t give the opportunity for things locked up inside of you to come out. When something is challenging it draws stuff out of you, and pushes you to want to learn more, especially after you have made it over that first hurdle. I can share with you that when I first started school to learn more about doing a magazine I got to class and my teacher wanted us to get right to work. My entire life I had always worked on a Windows PC, and had never operated a Mac computer. I wanted to cry the first day of class because I didn’t even know where to enter the disc that came with my book. I looked around the classroom and saw all these students operating these computers and programs like they were pros. I thought to myself what in the world have I gotten myself into. However, God always places people in your path. I just swallowed my pride and asked a guy sitting next to me, and he helped me.

Then I was informed that the students who looked like pros to me really were kind of pros because they were in their last semester to graduate, lol. I was further informed that the classroom we worked in was also used for other classes, and any student was able to work on the computers even if a class is being taught. You can’t allow fear and intimidation to grip your heart.

I sure wanted to walk out after seeing how much these students knew, but if I would have walked out, I would have never known that these students

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weren’t even in my introductory class.

Also there are times when the first door that opens seems so perfect but then it might end up not being the final door. I started off in school, but it didn't work in my favor. You actually sometimes know more than you think you do. You will be surprised what you can teach yourself. Then God has a special way of placing special people in your life to enhance what you've already learned. God did that just for me. God blessed me to be able to meet an individual that would be willing to give of his time to answer any questions that I had on this road to creating and designing a magazine. What an awesome God we serve. Whatever it is you have a passion for I support you by saying go for it and allow God to be in control. I want to thank Pastor Gwen for allowing me to be part of something so dear to her heart. Thank you to Bishop and Pastor Gwen for allowing me as you both taught us to bloom where we are planted. Words cannot express how truly grateful I am that we have such wonderful pastors that allow us to discover what God has called us to do and be in life. Thank you both for the countless hours of counseling and teaching that helped direct me in the right path. Thank you to your children, my spiritual siblings, Aaron, Rashonda, and Shakira. You all sacrifice so much as well to allow Bishop and Pastor Gwen to do all God has called them to do even if that takes a little away from you all. Thank you to Sister Cynthia Jordan who was in charge of our newsletter, and was so willing to allow me to be a part of helping to upgrade our newsletter into a magazine. Thank you again to my wonderful husband, Noel, and our three beautiful children, Alyssia, Makinzie, and Dylan for the sacrifices you made along with me to help me fulfill this passion of mine. Thank you to Word of Oasis for being the World’s Greatest Church!

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You Are A Virtuous Woman of Excellence, Know Who and What You Are in Christ Virtuous Women of Excellence Who/What I Am in Christ By: Pastor Gwendolyn L. Williams, D.D. I am reigning in life by Jesus Christ (Romans 5:17) I am not looking at the things that are seen, but at the things which are not seen (I Corinthians 4:18) I am walking by faith and not by sight (II Corinthians 5:7) I am casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God (II Corinthians 10:5) I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus (II Corinthians 5:21) I am rooted and grounded in love, because Christ dwells within me (Ephesians 3:17) I am the workmanship of God, created in Christ Jesus for good works (Ephesians 2:10) I am a partaker of God’s divine nature (II Peter 1:4) I am prosperous and in good health, because my soul prospers (III John 2) I am being transformed by the renewing of my mind to prove the perfect will of God (Romans 12:2) I am healed by the stripes of Jesus Christ (I Peter 2:24) I am more than a conqueror through Jesus Christ (Romans 8:37) I am the salt of the earth, and the light of the world (Matthew 5:13a, 14a) I am complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10) I am strong in the Lord and in the power of His might (Ephesians 6:10) I am taking the shield of faith and quenching all of the fiery darts of the enemy (Ephesians 6:16) I am praying my desires and receiving them (Mark 11:24) I am like a tree planted by the rivers of water and everything that I do prospers (Psalms 1:3) I am a temple of the Holy Ghost (I Corinthians 6:19) I am given exceeding great and precious promises, and by them I partake of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust (II Peter 1:4) I am led by the spirit of God; therefore, I am a son of God (Romans 8:14) I am not walking after the flesh, but after the Spirit (Romans 8:1) I am receiving all of my needs met according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19) I am casting all of my cares upon Him, because I know He cares for me (I Peter 5:7) I am blessed with all spiritual blessings in Christ Jesus (Ephesians 1:3) I am blessed when I come in, and blessed when I go out (Deuteronomy 28:6) I am an heir of God and a joint-heir with Jesus Christ (Romans 8:17) I am increasing and abounding in love (I Thessalonians 3:12) I am being made perfect in every good work to do God’s will (Hebrews 13:21) I am showing forth the praise of God (Psalms 51:15)

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“Is Your Hair Under the

WEATHER?”

Vivian Elaine Bennett Owner/Master Cosmetologist

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pring is upon us and summer is fast approaching. Although it is a time for “fun in the sun”, the salt and chlorine along with warm weather, increased humidity,

sun-exposure and outdoor activities can cause the softest hair to become brittle. Chlorine and salt water can dry, discolor and damage hair. The mineral deposits in salt water can make hair brassy.

I thus stress the importance of choosing the right products and

services as well as a protective style during these seasons. Is your hair natural or chemically processed? What are your plans for the spring and summer? Do you work out? These are some of the questions that your stylist should ask you when choosing a service or style. For example, I would not suggest any chemical services during the months of May, June, and July if your plans involve any swimming, trips to the beach or vigorous workouts because style retention would be difficult as well as time consuming. A protective style such as cornrows,

individual plaits, or twist would be a better choice being that you will have to wash your hair more frequently with a SULFATEFREE, clarifying shampoo followed by SULFATE-FREE hydrating shampoo and then a leave-in conditioner. NEVER let sweat, chlorine or saltwater sit in your

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hair overnight. Whether you are natural or chemically processed, it is important that you DO NOT use grease. Use a light oil, such as jojoba, almond, coconut, or carrot

oil along with a daily GLYCERINFREE moisturizer. On humid days, the use of any product containing glycerin will only pull in more moisture and cause the shaft to swell and frizz. Avoid products containing mineral or petro oil because they block any moisture from penetrating the shaft. Avoid the use of heavy creams. Apply a light hair dress to your ends to prevent them from splitting. If you are going to be in the sun for an extended period of time, twist it up, or wrap it up with a beautiful scarf or wear a hat to prevent overexposure to the sun. If you are natural, I would not suggest any pressing during the summer because the heat causes sweat, Visit www.wordofoasis.org

from the inside. Water is the main source of energy for hair cells.

Water clears the body of any pollutants which can also cause hair loss. When there is dehydration, you will also see dryness in your hair. So it is crucial that we drink 8 to 10 glasses of water a day.

WEATHERPROOF YOUR HAIR, LADIES‌ sweat prevents style retention and too much pressing can permanently press out your curl pattern. For those of you who may opt-out of a protective style it is recommended that you DO NOT wash your hair more than once a week. Wear a swim-cap when swimming to protect your hair. If necessary, you may co-wash your

hair with a conditioning rinse in between shampoos. A conditioning rinse will lift any build-up and deposit moisture without stripping your hair. Last but not least, DRINK MORE WATER!!!!

Did you know that your hair is one quarter water. Water carries vital vitamins to the hair root and hydrates the entire hair strand

from the staff of Creative Illusions Hair Gallery

Creative Illusions Hair Gallery offers a variety of services and they will also educate you on how to care for your hair in between salon visits. They offer "a healthy approach to beautiful hair and style." There is also Licensed Massage Therapist, Tangie Preaster available. Please see her ad.

Creative Illusions Hair Gallery located at 2533 N. Ashley St. Ste. E, Valdosta, GA 31601.

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LIFE

Take Back Your and Become a Healthier You!

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y name is

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wanted to give back by en-

neighborhood, or workouts

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279, and I was borderline

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in your home will jump

Thomas,

to becoming a diabetic. By

to lose weight. A life style

start your metabolism. Any

and I would like to share

deciding to make a life style

change starts in the mind,

amount of time exercising is

my weight loss journey.

change, both my choles-

you make the decision to

a plus. I’ve maintained my

After giving birth to my

terol and glucose levels are

become a healthier you and

weight loss for eight years,

daughter 23 years ago, I

normal. I became a Zumba

start your journey. Adding

and I feel absolutely great. I

gained a significant amount

instructor, and teach at the

exercise enhances weight

have kept a pair of my blue

of weight over the years. I

jeans which is a size 24 as a

did not keep track of what I

reminder of my journey. I

ate, or of the portion sizes.

have included before and af-

Some people eat because of

ter pictures of myself for you

depression, stress, or self-

to view. It took 16 months

esteem issues; I ate because

to lose the weight. When I

I loved food. Unfortunately,

decided to lose the weight I

the passing of my husband

did not focus on how long

helped me make the deci-

it would take. In my mind

sion to take control of my

I seen myself a certain size

life and loose the weight.

and started on my journey

My children had one parent

to reach that goal. I allowed

and I wanted to be there for

nothing to distract me. Now

them as long as possible. I

that I’ve learned how to

first prayed to God, asking

eat, I have great respect for

Him to give me the endur-

food. I hope I have encour-

ance to start this journey. I

aged all who want to take

began to change my eating

back their life and become a

habits, watched my portion

healthier you. The last thing

sizes and added exercise.

I would like to say is never

After losing the first (24 lbs),

take pills or starve yourself

I joined Weight Watchers

to lose weight. Thank you

and lost an additional 96 lbs,

for allowing me to share my

for a total of 120 lbs loss. I

YMCA six days a week. I

loss, and you don’t have to

journey with you and God

originally was 269 lbs, wear-

also work for Weight Watch-

join a gym or take Zumba

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ing a size 24, now I am

ers, because the program

classes. Walks in the park,

currently 149 lbs, wearing

helped save my life, and I

on the track, around the

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I first prayed to

God, BEFORE AFTER AFTER

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asking Him to give me the endurance to start this journey.

BEFORE AFTER

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rials and tribulations, Jesus did say they would come, yet He loved us so much that He conquered them before we were confronted with the challenges they bring. I want to share the importance of letting go of past or present hurts and how it blesses your life. Please keep in mind that I’m just a single parent and grandmother, I’m no expert on any subject matter. However, I don’t mind sharing my experiences to help defeat darkness in someone's life. I have had some challenges. Some made

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me angry, bitter, resentful, mean, although I told myself that I forgave the ones involved, I discovered the problem was that I never let go. I found out that forgiving someone is only half the battle, but to experience the true freedom of victory comes when you release that individual or situation.

Then, you can take advantage of the promise Jesus gave us in John 16:33, letting us know we can triumph over challenges and receive a peace in being victorious. For over twenty years every time I would pray about peace and challenges in my life the Lord would always take me back to Romans 12:1-2. As always I would

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just say man, Lord what are you saying I know what that scripture says, I can quote it without even turning to the page.

Then, one day after hearing a message that Bishop preached, the light came on in my heart and I had to go home and read it again. Not only that but it also prompted me to send him and Pastor Gwen an email and come clean about some issues that were unresolved in my heart. It was that founded revelation given to me in love by our Bishop that has inspired me to share what I have learned. "Release means to allow or enable to escape from confinement; set free" (wordhippo.com). I had to set Visit www.wordofoasis.org

everyone in my past and present free, and stop holding them hostage from the pain and hurt that I had suffered. Now, Praise God that we don’t have to hide our scars, the scars of the event whatever it maybe is not who you are. But rather look at it as a reminder of where God has brought you from. This is what God showed me in Romans, and I just sat there in His glory as the tears of healing locked under my chin. All the while the Lord was admonishing me to allow the Word and the teachings under the ministry where I was now set to renew my way of thinking and transform my way of living so that I can see change. This is the part that truly blessed me, He showed me in Romans that when I do this, then I can see, what is that good and acceptable will of God for me in my life. Isn’t that a wonderful thing to

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know? Releasing the past and present of people, and things that have hurt you is not for them but for you, that my SISTERS makes the fight worthwhile. At some point in our lives, we have to suck it up and move on. Now, have I ar-

really and truly want to be blessed by testimonies like this come to women's fellowship on 3rd Sunday nights. This is where you get the uncut version of testimonies by other real women just like you and myself. You can also see first-hand how the Word at WOO is changing lives for the better. I can truly testify that my life although, interrupted by some wrong decisions made on my part, has never ever been the same after hearing this life changing word of faith that the Lord has placed in the heart and mouth of our leaders.

This is how you walk in the Supernatural Turnrived yet? No, I’M A TRUE around. Thank you for listening and be blessed.

WORK IN PROGRESS. But, guess what I know and believe that my name is VICTORY, and if my testimony can help do anything let it be to free you and bring light in a dark situation in your life. If you

MY NAME IS VICTORY,

Your Sister, Charlene

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Evangelist Mary Johnson shares some of her FAVORITE RECIPES Enjoy At Home, She Encourage You To.

Mary’s Chicken Salad What you will need: 3 ½ cups of 1/3 cup of boneless skinchopped less chicken pecans breast Lemon juice (add to your 1/2 cup of taste) fresh chopped celery 1/3 cup of kraft salad dressing in a jar Directions:

1/2 cup of light mayo Peaches, strawberries red grapes, and green grapes (or your choice of fruit)

Mary’s Fruit Casserole

4 packs of Honey Graham crackers 2 ½ sticks of butter (softened)

What you will need: 1 ½ quart of Blackberries, Heavy Whipblueberries, ping Cream strawberries, and peaches 3/4 cups of (or your sugar choice of fruit)

Directions:

Season chicken with salt, pepper and garlic. Season to your taste. Boil chicken breast till tender. Drain chicken, and put in the refrigerator to chill. After it has chilled, chop it up into fine pieces or chunks. Place in a large bowl, add the chopped celery, chopped pecans, lemon juice, salad dressing, and light mayo. Mix all ingredients and place to the side.

Spray a decorative bowl with light cooking spray. Take a flat tray and place bib leaves around the edges of the tray. Take the bowl of chicken salad and flip it in the middle of the platter. Decorate with red grapes, green grapes, strawberries and peaches or your choice of fruit. You may serve with your choice of crackers or make sandwiches.

Yields: 20-25 servings.

Crumble 1 pack of graham crackers and set to the side. Take 3 packs of graham crackers and put in a food processor. Once crumbled, add the softened butter.

After you finish mixing this in the processor, place it in a casserole dish and mold it as the bottom layer into the casserole dish. Take a mixing bowl and pour the whipping cream and whip until it is very thick. Add the sugar and whip again for about five more minutes. Then spread a layer of this on top of the first layer you already did for the crumbled graham cracker mix. Next place a layer of fruit. Repeat the layered steps for the number of layers you desire. This recipe shows two layers. After you complete your layers top it of with a circle of whipping cream in the middle of the top layer and place fruit on top.

Yields: 25-30 servings

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Pastor Gwen, The Daughters of Destiny and Chaperones had an awesome outing in Atlanta, GA at the World of Coca-Cola.

The Daughters of Destiny is an outreach ministry designed for girls grades K4 through 12th. It is a mentoring program designed to help girls understand the importance to love themselves and become all God has predestined them to be. If you have a girl in the grades mentioned above please feel free to bring her out during our quarterly meetings.

For more information please contact Word of Oasis Church Office at 229-244-9625.

LOVING THE REAL YOU Written By: Shakira R. Williams

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ebster defines love as being an “n. 1. feeling of strong attachment induced by that which delights or commands admiration; preeminent kindness or devotion to another; affection; tenderness….v. 3. To take delight in; to have a strong liking or desire for, or interest in, to be pleased with, to like.” Love is the highest and most sacred form of devotion to God, ourselves and others. However, living in today’s society, love is undermined to meet a stipulation which in turn has distorted its true meaning. For example, love is at its greatest only when you feel and look your best, your relationships are tighter than ever, your spiritual clout is at its highest and everything is going great. Although, we all wish that were true for everyday life, sadly this picture of perfection is one-sided to an unrealistic standard. But the good news, as believers, we do not have to accept what the world says love is limited to because we know that love does not have any conditions. Love remains the same through the good, bad, and the ugly. God is love and He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. According to James 1:17(CEB), “Every good gift, every perfect gift, comes from above. These gifts come down from the Father, the creator of the heavenly lights, in whose character there is no change at all.” Our heavenly Father gave us His Son, Jesus, as a gift to signify His unfailing love for humanity and once we recognize who we really are in Christ Jesus then our love for ourselves and others will begin to reflect His unchanging love for us. Love is like a chain reaction, if you love God the way that you are supposed to then you will know how to love yourself and others. In order to embark on the journey towards loving the real you, you must reexamine your relationship with God, your thought life, and daily confession. It is imperative to have a personal relationship with God because you will begin to find out who you really are in Him and start loving the real you. Growing up, my mother always told me how important it was to build an intimate, personal relationship with God, but I did not come into that realization until I reached middle school. For most people, middle school age is when your eyes come open to a world of pressures from a mental, emotional, physical, social, and spiritual perspective. You become cognizant of various insecurities, such as physical features, due to the metamorphic process that takes place during the time of puberty. Oh yes, the process seems like a horrific time where

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you feel, look, and act like a mutant; but thank God for deliverance. The saying, “this too shall pass”, definitely described my pre-teen years. If it was not for my personal relationship with God, the spirit of mild-depression would have had a strong grip on my life. I had to get serious about my walk with Christ at an early age because that is when the enemy starts to throw his detrimental darts of discouragement.

Once I totally surrendered my life over to Christ that is when I recognized that I had the greater One within me and His love helped me get through the awkward phases of pre-teen and teenage years. Moreover, once you accept the love of God into your heart, in turn you will learn to accept yourself for who you really are. I agree with Joyce Meyers when she stated that, “once you realize you are loved by God, not because of anything you are or anything you have done, you can quit trying to earn His love and simply receive and enjoy it.”

Building a personal relationship with God is just the foundation towards loving the real you; however, you must become transformed and renewed in your mind through the washing of the Word of God. A negative thought life can prevent you from freely receiving the unconditional love of God and stagnant the love for yourself. It is human nature to want to take matters into your own hands and sort out issues within yourself. However, God did not design us to take on the cares of life because He knew it would eventually begin to weigh on our brains which in turn will affect other areas in our lives.

Love drives out fear which is caused by various negative factors such as stress, anxiety, doubt, and unbelief. That is why Jesus commanded us in Matthew 22:37-38(AMP), “….You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind (intellect). This is the great (most important, principal) and first commandment.” At times, you may feel like you do not measure up to what society may call beautiful or successful, but know that God created you for specific purpose, plan, and destiny that only you can fulfill which sets you apart from everyone else. We are always on the mind and heart of God, according to Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome.” God loves us so much that He already prearranged for us since the beginning of time to experience the good life which also includes wholeness of mind. The only way you can receive this peace is through reading, meditating, and applying His Word to your life. God’s

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WE WILL NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH GOD LOVED US UNLESS WE UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH HE LOVED JESUS BUT YET GAVE HIM UP TO RESCUE US".

BISHOP HENRY R. WILLIAMS Word brings truth, light, and healing to any circumstances you are confronted with; however, you must be willing to allow His Word to lead, guide and direct your paths. Speaking from a personal perspective, if you are like me, being logical and realistic about situations can seem like the fair route to take toward the highway of being right. However, coming from that perspective all the time will be a conflict of interest when you need to trust and rely on God. The line between being logical, realistic, and pessimistic is very fine; therefore, Philippians 4:6-7(NLT) brings clarity to how we should conduct ourselves through the highs and the lows. “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” I know, I know, easier said than done, right. Wrong! In order to keep your mind steadfast on the Word of God, it takes discipline and selfcontrol, it takes practice, but most importantly, you must be willing. That is why Philippians 4:8-9 (NLT) takes it a step further by saying, “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me, everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.” Moreover, God not only wants us to meditate on His Word day and night, but He also wants us to hide His

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Word into our hearts because our Heavenly Father knows that whatever is in the abundance of the heart the mouth will speak it. Whatever is in your heart and mind will line up with what you are speaking on a daily basis. Words do have power! It can set atmospheres in a room, break up relationships, discourage future endeavors, cause low self-esteem, and sadly, prevent the blessings that God have in stored for you. Your words can help or hurt you! That is why I love, honor, and respect the world’s greatest pastors, Bishop Henry and Co-Pastor Gwendolyn Williams, because they lead and direct Word of Oasis (WOO) according to the Word, and not only do we get the Word but we speak the Word. My dad would always say, “don’t just read the Bible, believe the Bible, and take it a step further, live the Bible.”

Daily confessions are like weapons of mass destruction to counteract the lies that the enemy may plant in your head concerning your true identity in Christ.

It is pivotal that you know who you are in Christ Jesus because the enemy uses your insecurities against you to make you fall prey to his tactics of destruction which is another form of bondage. That is why I love Jesus because He laid His life down so that we may have life and life more abundantly. According to 2 Corinthians 5:19-21 (AMP), “It was God [personally present] in Christ, reconciling and restoring the world to favor with Himself, not counting up and holding against [men] their trespasses [but cancelling them], and committing to us the message of reconciliation (of the restoration to favor). So we are Christ’s ambassadors, God making His appeal as it were through us. We [as Christ’s personal representatives] beg you for His

sake to lay hold of the divine favor [now offered you] and be reconciled to God. For our sake He made Christ [virtually] to be sin Who knew no sin, so that in and through Him we might become [endued with, viewed as being in, and examples of] the righteousness of God [what we ought to be, approved and acceptable and in right relationship with Him, by His goodness].” As believers, we are the righteousness of God. Now say, I am the righteousness of God, I am the righteousness of God; I am the righteousness of God! This is a simple daily confession that can be utilized in any situation. Just believe it and receive it! Your daily confession coupled with the Word of God will help you not only think but know the love God has for you which will force you to start loving the real you and others the way God intended. Moreover, just as I stated earlier in the article, love is like a chain reaction. You will only love others the way that you love God and yourself.

They all work hand and hand. You cannot say that you love God and yourself, if you do not love your neighbor. Therefore, Matthew 22:37-39 (AMP) states, “…. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind (intellect).

This is the great (most important, principal) and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as [you do] yourself.” I love my mother’s motto, “no one can beat you at being you!”

NOW, START LOVING THE REAL YOU!!!!

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Going Through The Process: Being Healed and Whole M any people look over their lives especially as they move into a new decade of life.

That’s what I had been doing for a couple of months prior to celebrating my 50th birthday. I must admit that turning 50

in January was a wonderful blessing.

Thinking back 10 years ago I was in the military and my family and I had just moved to Valdosta. Our lives were going well. My husband and I were happy in our marriage, we had just purchased a new home and our children were doing well. Then, life took a turn. I was diagnosed with leukemia in March 2004.

I didn't even know what it was but I knew it was cancer and it was bad. In July 2004, I came down with pneumonia which put my life at an even greater risk.

As my mother arrived from Connecticut in time to see me being transported to Shands Hospital in Gainesville, Florida, a nurse told my mother it would be a miracle if I lived to see the next day. I was placed on life support and put in the ICU because I was not breathing on my own.

The doctors did not know if I was going to live, but God knew my future. Once I got over the crisis of almost dying, I was told that I needed a bone marrow transplant to increase my rate of survival. At that time, they had done a worldwide search to see if there was a donor match for me. Not having siblings, an unrelated donor was my only option. However, They couldn’t locate an unrelated match for me. I started maintenance chemotherapy and was told if they could keep

the leukemia away for two-years, I had an 80 percent chance of surviving, but if it came back, it would be more aggressive and I would die. I heard what they had shared with me, but I didn’t accept it. I prayed, Isaiah 53:5, "But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our guilt and iniquities; the chastisement [needful to obtain] peace and well-being for us was upon Him, and with the stripes [that wounded] Him we are healed and made whole. (Amplified Bible)." I was told in October 2004, there was a match for me to have a stem cell transplant. My stem cell transplant consisted of donor cells coming from a baby’s umbilical cord. I have to be honest; I was shocked and scared when the doctor told me this information.

The doctor was throwing out so much information and it just didn’t seem real or register with me at the time. I passed all the tests to receive my transplant, and was scheduled to have my transplant in November 2004, but it was delayed.

My dad passed away in the midst of what was going on. I was already going through so much and then to have my father pass away seemed to be too much, but I kept my mind and focus on the Word of God. I was getting ready to go down to have a procedure done that was required for my transplant. I was praying and asking God to be with me.

I remembered hearing a voice that told me I was going to be fine, this was just a process. As I looked around, I thought someone was in the room with me talking. I realized it was God telling me that I was going to be fine. When I got back from the procedure, I began to praise God because I believed and received what He told me. This process was part of my healing and being made whole. I received my transplant on December 20, 2004. I will always remember my two nurses (Nurse Lois and Nurse Barbara).

They prayed over those donor cells that my body would accept them and not reject them. Then they sang Stevie

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Wonder’s version of “Happy Birthday to You” while those donor cells were flowing from the bag into my body. I had been through so much physically and mentally to get to that point, but God was faithful and like He had already told me, by His stripes I was already healed and made whole. I was going through the process to get to what God through His son Jesus Christ had already done for me and all mankind. Throughout my process God placed so many Christians in my path. Nurse Lois ministered to me one day while I was going through the preparation to have my transplant.

I began to cry because I was in pain.

Through her care and compassion she started to witness to me. We found out we were both Christians. Countless other medical personnel prayed for me and encouraged me. I can never forget my great spiritual parents, Bishop and Pastor Gwen Williams. They prayed for not only me, but my family during this process. They came to Shands Hospital to visit with me. They sacrificed time for me, and I am so thankful for the prayers and so much support along with my Word of Oasis family. We truly do have the world’s greatest pastors who give so much of themselves and never look for anything in return. I look back over my life and it makes me smile. I thank God for all that I have gone through to get to this point in my life. Yes, you read that right, I thanked God for all that I have gone through in my life. It was not easy, but I now realize it all has worked together for my good. I remembered telling my husband with God’s help, I was going to be healed from this leukemia, and declared I was going to live a long life. I was determined to do what Psalm 118:17 stated, "I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord (KJV)".

Cynthia R. Jordan

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