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THE PUBLISHER DENISE & WELDON LILES

Welcome to the Fall/Winter issue of Veil Magazine! On behalf of the entire Veil family, we want to say congratulations.

Being in love is an extraordinary feeling, and this is an exciting time of your life as you plan your wedding and venture into matrimony.

14 years ago I met and married the love of my life, the man of my dreams, my soul mate. As we planned our wedding—which I wish I could do every year—I felt that my passion for the weddings could culminate into something creative and valuable to other Wisconsin bridal couples.

Veil Magazine exists because of the support of my husband, Weldon, our loving families, our exceptional Veil team and our incredibly talented advertisers. Each year I fall in love over and over again with my Veil family and everything we have accomplished. It is a place for us to share what we love about weddings, what inspires us and to show local Wisconsin couples like you that there is more to telling your unique love story than all the bells and whistles.

Wisconsin couples have a unique sense of style. To help nurture that flair, we have produced a stunning magazine that engages with local bridal trends, sophisticated product features, beautiful weddings of local newlyweds and expert advice. Veil Magazine is also designed to connect wedding venues, businesses, retailers and planners to our readers: Wisconsin’s most discerning couples.

We hope you enjoy this issue of Veil Magazine. Among the many wedding artisans featured here that are personally invested in your day, we have some timely articles about Building a Marriage, For the Love of Dogs, Transforming Spaces, What to Do Before “I Do” and an array of Love Stories featuring newlywed Wisconsin couples you can closely relate with. We hope this experience helps you feel close to our team and our advertisers, with an underlying understanding of your unique tastes.

Cheers to the incredible journey that is marriage! Let us join you for the ride, and don’t be shy about giving us feedback along the way. You can connect with us on our website, on social media and through our blog for where people can interact with us.

May your future together be filled with love, happiness and family, leaving you feeling joyfully fulfilled.

I’m lucky that Veil Magazine keeps the romance of weddings alive for me every single day.

DENISE M LILES president & publisher theveilmagazine@wi.rr.com

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TERRI BLAHNIK Creative Director I got an amazing opportunity to design pages for Veil Magazine three years ago. Now I get to design the whole magazine with Denise, design miscellaneous collateral, and help plan and work at photo shoots. Being part of Veil and the wedding industry, talking to brides and working with advertisers, I have learned so much and could not imagine doing anything else.

Favorite Wedding Movie: Runaway Bride Favorite Wedding Song: Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran Favorite Flower: White Daisy Favorite Wedding Memory: Being the Maid of Honor and seeing my twin sister/best friend get married.

MICHELLE DREWEK

CLAIRE SWINARSKI Writer

LAURA VIETMEYER

ALYSSA LABARBERA

Managing Editor/Writer

I began with Veil in 2011 after graduating from UW-Milwaukee with a Journalism degree.

Writing has always been my passion, and combining that with the innate allure of the wedding industry has been beyond fulfilling. Being happily married myself, I love this opportunity to help couples plan their dream wedding and write about newlyweds’ Happily Ever Afters.

As a writer for Veil, I get to research and write stories on upcoming trends in floral arrangements, baked goods, fashion, and more. I love interviewing top experts in the wedding industry to provide the best information for our brides. I enjoy learning about every aspect of weddings, from the planning to the pictures, and I feel so lucky to get to work with Veil!

I’m a Chicago-native who moved to Milwaukee for college to study English. After moving around a bit, I’m back in Milwaukee and have been lucky to write and edit for Veil! Sharing love stories and advice to couples for such an important event in their lives is very gratifying work!

Favorite Wedding Movie: 27 Dresses

Favorite Wedding Song: Lucky by Jason Mraz feat.

Colbie Caillat

I’ve always loved weddings — you usually can catch me watching Say Yes to the Dress or obsessing over wedding pins on Pinterest. When I saw the gold sequin bridesmaid dresses on Veil Magazine’s cover, I knew 1) I needed my bridesmaids in them for my wedding 2) I needed to work with this magazine. Getting to combine my love of social media and the wedding industry has been such a dream come true!

Favorite Wedding Movie: My Big Fat Greek Wedding Favorite Wedding Song: Crazy Love by Michael Bublé Favorite Flower: Pink Rose Favorite Wedding Memory: At the beginning of our ceremony, my husband held my hands, rubbed his thumbs over the tops of them and whispered, “So pretty” to me.

Favorite Wedding Song: Forever Like That by Ben Rector Favorite Flower: Anemones Favorite Wedding Memory: Our giddy toast with the wedding party right after the ceremony!

Writer

Favorite Wedding Movie: The Wedding Planner

Favorite Flower: Tulip Favorite Wedding Memory: Taking trips to attend weddings!

I’ve been to Portland, Oregon and Xalapa, Mexico to attend friends’ weddings.

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Favorite Wedding Movie: Father of the Bride Favorite Wedding Song: Then by Brad Paisley Favorite Flower: Tulip Favorite Wedding Memory: Getting engaged in front of the Eiffel Tower!

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Amid some of Mequon’s most immaculate land lies a sanctuary that, like most everything at The River Club, was created with romance and magic in mind.

The spectacular Grand Ballroom is the very manifestation of contemporary elegance and can accommodate receptions from one hundred to over five hundred guests. The River Club features $1.5 million in programmable theme lighting that compliments an array of stunning vistas overlooking the golf course and countryside.

An expansive outdoor covered veranda called The Sunset Deck further enhances a sensory experience that justifies The River Club of Mequon’s standing as a dream destination for receptions aiming to be remembered forever.

Dining at The River Club features the kind of contemporary American Cuisine that becomes a buzz unto itself. Whether it’s a sumptuous entree or a lavish buffet, you can be assured that your meal will be one to savor from the start to a finish that longs to be prolonged.

Brides are fast to embrace The River Club’s warm and welcoming Bridal Suite, replete with comfortable appointments, private bathroom and flattering mirrors. Should you want to dazzle-up your evening with waterfall fireworks cascading across the western wall of windows or have a helicopter deliver a bride or groom or both, simply ask.

Weddings at The River Club have a reputation for converting the blur of accelerating events into an indelible memory of a storybook evening. As invaluable as anything is the peace of mind that comes

from knowing every detail has been covered by a gracious staff committed to delivering in ways that exceed your dreams.

“At The River Club, it is our privilege to deliver a wedding that will surprise and delight the senses and swell the hearts of our guests. Moreover, it is our never-ending quest to uncover new ways to sincerely touch the souls of our brides.”

From its inception, The River Club of Mequon has been the home of the redoubtable wedding maestro, Larry Kreiner.

Mr. Kreiner grew up in Cape Town, South Africa, and graduated with a Masters degree Larry Kreiner Event Sales Director in Communication and Hotel Management from the University of Johannesburg.

Now in the US and loving life on Milwaukee’s north shore, Larry has been cultivating his own brand in the banquet arts by delighting bridal parties with his enlightened and singularly exquisite special event design and execution.

That reputation speaks to why Larry Kreiner has played a large part in orchestrating galas for VIPs ranging from former Presidents to Hollywood starlets. Just ask the man whose accent never sleeps; he’ll tell you stories that’ll make you glad you asked.

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BE INSPIRED 148 Wedding Cakes & Pastries 159 Invitations & Stationery 168 F loral Bouquets

FEATURES & FASHION 52 Balancing Family Demands with your Dream Wedding Plans 56 Extraordinary Table Décor 58 What To Do Before "I Do" 70 Bringing Your Space to Life 90 Planning a Wedding, Building a Marriage 98 J'adore Boudoir 108 Mom's Perfect Dress 120 What I Love About Me 128 Dressing Your Bridal Party 136 For the Love of Dogs 188 Aww, Snap!

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5 Potawatomi Hotel & Casino 6 River Club of Mequon 8 Lyle Husar Designs 10 Heidel House Resort & Spa 12 Dynamic Events By David Caruso 14 Marcus Hotels & Resorts 16 Sound By Design 20 The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel 22 événement planning 24 Saz's Hospitality Group 26 White Dress Bridal Boutique 28 Historic Pritzlaff

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Ali Blanck

HEIDEL HOUSE RESORT & SPA

WEDDINGS at the Heidel House are the essence of Wisconsin: fun, light-hearted and absolutely beautiful. Thanks to Catering Sales Manager Ali Blanck, brides can feel completely at ease and know that their dreams for their big day will be fulfilled. As the point of contact for brides getting married at the resort, she’s well-versed on all aspects and details of each bride’s dream wedding. Ali’s passion for hospitality helps her to go the extra mile for her clients, and any bride who’s had the pleasure of working with her knows they’re in good hands.

How did you wind up at the Heidel House?

Since I was a young girl I always dreamed I would have a career based around events and weddings.

With my dream in hand, I pursued a business management degree along with a minor in communications at West Virginia University.

While in college I served at Red Lobster for

4 years. I really enjoyed serving and taking care of guests. The fact I could personally make someone’s day better just by good service and a smile was empowering. Through serving, I knew I was on the right track emphasizing my education in the hospitality industry.

But it wasn’t until my last internship at Nemacolin Woodlands Resort in Farmington, Penn., that I truly figured out what career path I wanted to take. Weddings were always the most fun to work and be a part of. The resort taught me how guests are a number one priority and nothing, in terms of an event, is impossible if you keep an open mind. A couple of episodes of the Bachelorette were even filmed there! All of these experiences led me to become the Heidel House’s Catering Sales Manager.

Why is the Heidel House ideal for beautiful Wisconsin weddings? The Heidel House is right on Green Lake. Our venue offers a realm of diverse reception and ceremony spaces.

Waterfront ceremonies on Grey Rock Lawn is a very popular option for wedding clients.

The bride and groom say “I do” 6 feet from the water’s edge. Not only is the view gorgeous, the serene atmosphere and beautiful landscaping make Grey Rock Lawn the perfect waterfront ceremony location.

The Heidel House offers a venue where the wedding couple, family and friends can park their cars and not get back into them until their stay is

over. We offer everything a wedding couple needs to make their stay special and relaxing. Star Irvin, our Wedding Events Manager, contributes to the success of the wedding weekend in an amazing way. The rehearsal dinner can take place in multiple areas throughout the Heidel House. A popular rehearsal option is to take out the Escapade Yacht for dinner or a fun booze cruise with the bridal party. Then end the night with a welcome reception, back on shore, for all guests. When it comes to the wedding day, we have the Evensong spa and salon for the bridal party to be pampered while enjoying a round of mimosas. Since the Heidel House offers every aspect of the wedding weekend, the couple can really take time to enjoy their special day with friends and family. Not to mention the photos always turn out amazing with our gorgeous backdrops.

Do you have any words of wisdom for brides and grooms? Always remember there is no right or wrong way to host your wedding.

It’s your day. Make the venue, food and style resemble you and your partner. If you love lake life and want to have a cookout wedding reception, serving brats and hamburgers, you should do it! This day is meant to be fun. It’s okay to say “No” to others’ opinions and suggestions.

You get one day to call yours, so make it all about the two of you.

your perfect BACKDROP Imagine saying “I do.” along the shoreline or under a canopy of majestic oaks.

Celebrate in a tent near the gardens or in the ballroom with a lake view veranda.

Take a private yacht cruise or be pampered at the spa. Rest assured, our goal is to create lasting memories for you and your guests.

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30 lauren & michael 54 emily & kyle 68 sarah & matt 80 tessa & jake 94 lindsay & josh 104 holly & michael 126 sarah & andy 140 jennifer & michael 150 jessie & austin 154 kristin & andrew 160 christa & al 174 sarah & ryan 184 taylor & nick

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32 Venue & Food Pairings 43 Prepare, Party & Plan 47 Party in Brew City 48 Perfect Custom Cocktails 50 A True Coffee Obsession 60 Covered in Quality 62 Choose Canopy Rentals 66 Wedding DĂŠcor & Design 76 The Show Experience 82 Let the Planning Begin 86 Love Banded Together 88 Making it Official 100 Breathtaking & Beautiful 106 Dresses for the Mothers 114 Dressed in Love 116 Inside Brandi's Bridal Galleria, ETC. 118 The Anatomy of a Wedding Gown 132 The Art of Manliness 142 Wrapped with Love 144 Truly Sweet Endings 152 Personally Penned Mementos 156 Wild About Words 162 Every Petal Counts 167 Bridal Blooms 172 A Living Keepsake 176 Secrets Behind the Lens 186 Explore New Horizons

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Though the wedding day may be “The Big Day,” a wedding is an event spread over weeks and months for many brides and grooms. Bachelor parties, wedding showers and rehearsal dinners require excellent locations, and none are better than those from Marcus Restaurant Group: Mason Street Grill, Kil@wat, Milwaukee ChopHouse, Miller Time Pub & Grill and SafeHouse®.

Though helping shape a wedding is never a simple task, having great restaurants certainly makes the work of Kerry Doyne, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Private Dining Sales Manager, a little easier.

“Our restaurants offer different experiences for brides and grooms looking for special ways to celebrate,” Doyne said.

“Their private dining rooms, unique in décor and size, create a personal setting for a memorable experience that is truly ‘theirs.’”

For pre-wedding parties and postwedding receptions, The Pfister Hotel— Milwaukee’s premier hotel—has plenty to offer. Located adjacent to the hotel, Mason Street Grill has three private dining rooms that can fit up to 40 guests. For spectacular sights, nothing beats Blu, The Pfister’s 23rd floor lounge. “Mason Street Grill’s private dining rooms are equipped with complimentary flat screen TVs and menus everyone will enjoy,” Doyne said. “Follow dinner with cocktails in Blu to enjoy the best views of the city.” Next to Hilton Milwaukee you’ll find Milwaukee ChopHouse, which is tailor-made for one last night with the guys.

“The private dining room seats up to 30 guests and is perfect for a pre-bachelor party dinner,” Doyne said. “Our chef can even create a special menu for you featuring your favorite beer pairings.”

Looking for a spark? Look no further than Kil@wat, located on InterContinental Milwaukee’s second floor. “’The Loft’ [at Kil@wat] is perfect for a reception or casual brunch,” Doyne said.

“Its location makes this a great venue for a wedding shower, the complimentary flatscreen TV is perfect for pictures or videos of the couple-to-be and the sunny décor makes a great daytime setting for a gift-opening brunch.”

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Venue Options Aplenty in Downtown Milwaukee For a wedding you’ll cherish, look to Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Milwaukee properties. From the historic Pfister Hotel to the stylish InterContinental Milwaukee and classic Hilton Milwaukee, each goes the extra mile to ensure a flawless wedding.

For more than 115 years, The Pfister Hotel has established a tradition of elegance. Spectacular architecture, luxurious accommodations, unrivaled venues and a sense of grandeur position this historic hotel for an unforgettable event. A storybook backdrop highlights its Imperial Ballroom while The Grand Ballroom combines old-world sophistication and contemporary appointments.

Charming weddings are the specialty of Hilton Milwaukee, a city landmark located in the heart of downtown. In its Crystal Ballroom, your wedding will be as timeless as the room itself, which defines grace through art-deco details, high ceilings and brilliant mirrors. Every bit as impressive is the Empire Ballroom, a tiered space boasting rich woods, gold-leafed adornments, gorgeous carpets and textured window treatments in deep russets.

For a sophisticated affair, look to InterContinental Milwaukee, which brings contemporary style to the downtown business and theatre districts. Its Grand Salon is spectacular with the warmth of the chocolate brown suede walls and contemporary lighting. For an intimate setting, choose The Lobby Salon, which is located across from InterContinental Milwaukee’s art gallery—guests can browse art and enjoy cocktails before entering.

“Our hotels offer a variety of style options which suit the needs of traditional brides and modern brides alike. Your wedding can be part of the rich Pfister history, a timeless celebration at Hilton Milwaukee or a chic affair at InterContinental Milwaukee,” says Sydney Waisanen, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Market Director of Catering Sales. “Your event will be created with the utmost care as we work with you to transform your dream wedding into a reality. Let us worry about the details while you enjoy celebrating with family and friends.

We look forward to welcoming you and your guests with our gracious Marcus hospitality.”

You’ve been dreaming about your wedding your whole life. Start planning it today with Marcus Hotels & Resorts. For package information and more on each property, visit MarcusWeddings.com.

“Our hotels offer a variety of style options which suit the needs of traditional brides and modern brides alike.”

Sydney Johnson Waisanen MARCUS HOTELS & RESORTS MARKET DIRECTOR OF CATERING

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Sound By Design: Entertaining on Every Level THE NAME SOUND BY DESIGN (SBD) immediately conveys a sense of creativity. Something that is designed specifically is, by name, customized. Personalized. Suited specifically for you. That entire concept is exactly what the team behind Sound By Design aims to do: give you a completely customized entertainment for you, your guests, and your senses. And because entertainment is such a gigantic part of your wedding day, you want to make sure the people you hire to make that happen are intensely genuine about you, your day, and your desires. Creating an exhilarating experience for you and your guests is paramount to the team inside Sound By Design, and they each have their own specialties that have been cultivated to perfection to make sure your day is seamlessly perfect.

When Paul Hackbarth, owner and president, started Sound By Design, he curated a group of loyal, honest, and passionate people to learn, and then grow, the business with him. They began by providing

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stylish and present disc jockey music and Master of Ceremonies services for weddings - an award winning service that continues to be what drives couples to speak with Sound By Design. What many brides and grooms don’t expect is a DJ service that comes with many entertainment options rolled together in one package. Torie Gamez, the Director of Operations at SBD, spends a lot of one-on-one time with couples who come in looking for said amazing DJ entertainment. “Even after 13 years in the industry, I still love hearing about couples’ wedding days when I first meet them,” he admits. “And I get to share with them how SBD can help with so many aspects of entertainment.”

Once you’ve received an overview of Sound By Design’s capabilities from Torie, you’ll establish a very full, personal and warm relationship with Josh Erickson, the Director of Client Services. “I provide couples with a carefree experience once they come on board with us,” he explains.

“Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, and my goal is to make

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the entertainment side as easy as possible, from helping the Lighting Division design the reception room or recommending vendors.” With the family oriented baseline that is SBD’s mantra, Josh strives to make couples feel like part of that family as well. “You should never feel like a number,” he says. “We’ll stay away from the gimmicks and let the music do the talking.” Paul, looking at the business from over 17 years in the industry, also advises couples to be budget conscious about your wedding at all times, “But make sure you allocate your funds to the most important areas. Make sure you invest in the entertainment because that truly is the backbone of the reception.”

But sometimes entertainment for your wedding reception needs to be even more interactive, because entertaining is most definitely a myriad of dynamic pieces beyond music. “We do an open concept photobooth or standard inclosed one,” Torie says. “But we have a modern approach that uses a backdrop and allows for more movement, bigger groups, and

Make sure you invest in the entertainment because that truly is the backbone of the reception..

- Paul Hackbarth

We don't do the gimmicks or the games but instead help you throw an amazing party.

- Torie Gamez

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Each and every person has so much pride and passion for this company that it really shows in the end result - Josh Erickson

Lighting is a compliment and a statement to illuminate the most important aspects of a wedding and it's design - David Hackbarth

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can let guests leave video messages for the couple.” Josh agrees. “People love them and the quality is great.”

With that evolving, unique, modern approach to entertainment, Sound By Design really does customize a wedding package to help create a day with all the elements handled. Entertaining your guests is of course important - providing a killer sound and music experience is what can make a reception memorable. But there are the other parts of entertainment that all come together to make the overarching day that much better. David Hackbarth is the Director and Founder of Sound By Design’s Lighting Division. He works to create lighting design that is customized to your colors, your overall wedding vibe and be smashingly gorgeous all without breaking the bank. “I help clients put together lighting packages that will make the most impact for the budget they can afford,” he explains. “And I love problem solving and learning how to make things happen in some of the most impossible lighting situations.”

This, once again, is how SBD’s team strives to entertain you and your guests - lighting can be a feast for the eye, and give an entirely new meaning to a space that might have usually been quite ordinary.

Plus, the product is top notch and plays with the newest up and coming options. “We are very careful about selecting the lights,” David says.

“By buying the newest equipment in uplighting, we’re able to provide a lot of light with very little hassle.” Some of those ideas are whole room washes, which almost ‘paint’ a room with an intense wash of color, or using creative cording to light the interior of a tent with unique

chandeliers. “Lighting is a compliment and a statement to illuminate the most important aspects of a wedding and it’s design,” describes David.

Lighting is essential to creating that high energy entertaining vibe, which dovetails nicely into Sound By Design’s overall prerogative for your wedding; they want the whole room to feel the music, get caught up in the party atmosphere, and feel as though they’ve been transported into a wedding fantasy exclusively yours.

And what better way to make sure that entertainment vibe is exactly what you wish for yourselves, your memories, or your guests than with an extraordinarily professional and warm group of individuals, who together make a seamless team? Sound By Design will have worked with, and followed you, through the whole wedding process - from lighting decor, planning photobooths and coordinating speeches and introductions, to

the dance party itself. They have an innate understanding of who you are and what makes your love story special. How more personal and customized to your style can it get? Plus, everyone is invested in your entertaining experience from Day One, which is a huge part of why Sound By Design is so well loved in Wisconsin.

“Each and every person has so much pride and passion for this company that it really shows in the end result,” reveals Josh. “We are so much more than the guys who push play.” Paul, who makes the big management decisions at Sound By Design, agrees wholeheartedly.

“SBD’s backbone is our amazing staff. We continue to employ only those that are closest to us, who are willing to look forward to how to make SBD better, so that we can continue to guarantee premier quality in every avenue of entertainment we offer.”

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W E D D I N G S AT T H E K I M P T O N JOURNEYMAN HOTEL Looking for a wedding venue that is perfect for you? The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel in Milwaukee’s Third Ward has the flair that you’ve been imagining since the day you said “Yes!” From a fun-loving rooftop bar and restaurant to a beautiful chandelierbedecked lobby, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel focuses on giving Midwest brides their dream day.

A big part of their recipe for success lies in Kim Casey, their Director of Catering, and Heather Terhune, their Executive Chef.

Kim focuses on the couple’s story as the main ingredient for an amazing celebration.

“This is the first big party they will host together as a couple. No other one will be quite like it, which can create pressure,” Kim says. “I encourage them to stay true to their personalities individually and as a couple, which can keep their vision from straying.”

If delicious food is high on your list of musts for your wedding day, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel has an expertise for cuisine. The bride and groom work together with Kim and Executive Chef Heather Terhune to create a menu that will wow their guests. It can include anything from family recipes to elegant, multicourse dinners. After a conversation with the couple, Heather will give them a food and wine tasting to ensure the meal will meet their expectations and suit their tastes. No two weddings are the same, and the staff at The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel knows that your wedding–and its menu–needs to be unique to you and your guests.

Heather has been with Kimpton for over 18 years. After working at The Watergate Hotel’s famed Jean Louis restaurant under three-star rated Michelin chef Jean Louis Palladin, she fell in love with French cooking and its tendency towards simple-yet-scrumptious food.

“Weddings give us the opportunity to make a special day even more memorable,” Heather details. “We pride ourselves on restaurant-quality appetizers, entrees and desserts just served on a larger scale. Although this venue is not a freestanding restaurant, we can still achieve the same results.

We do this by using our techniques and high quality of ingredients.”

In terms of photo-ready locations, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel boasts a fantastic collection of spaces and views. Some of their reception venues include the Assembly Hall, a stunning ballroom fit for beautiful events, or the Atelier and Heirloom Rooms, which overlook Broadway Street and can be used for cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, as well as rehearsal dinners, bridal showers and post-wedding brunches. The hotel also offers the Founders Room, a ninth floor venue with an outdoor terrace that features sweeping views of the lakefront and Third and Fifth ward landscapes.

Onsite restaurant Tre Rivali is also perfect for rehearsal dinners and breakfast.

Guests can also stay onsite at the hotel, making transportation as easy as their own two feet. From the rehearsal to the gift opening, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel will serve as the perfect venue for your wedding weekend festivities.

“Our goal is to exceed expectations for this oncein-a-lifetime moment whether it be one event or multiple events during their wedding weekend,” Kim says. “We want you and your celebration to be the center of attention. Let the experts take good care of you and embrace all that can happen when in their hands. Our team is the catalyst for this. We may be a new hotel, but our staff is rich with an extensive history and background in hospitality.”

With all of these options afforded to you, along with Kim’s background in hospitality and Chef Heather’s flair for food, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel and their staff make this the perfect place to help your wedding sail smoothly.

“What I truly enjoy is the big picture aspect of the day,” Kim said. “All of the work that goes into planning a wedding is not for the faint of heart. But when one sees everything start to unfold and all of the joy and energy starts to swirl–it really pulls at my heartstrings. I love stepping back and seeing the end results knowing that I have poured as much into a couple and their wishes as I can.”

Heather focuses on serving food that’s in season, which gives it the utmost quality flavor.

“The best part of my job is having a vision on the cuisine and seeing how that translates to our guests. When someone loves what I am doing, that is when I know if have done the right thing for them. It is validation of all of our hard work.”

Guests are welcomed to their room by a friendly ceramic pup of varying breeds and names.

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While the definition of the French word for “event” may seem simple, the namesake for événement planning evokes a reputation for sensational event planning and styling. “It shows some personality, which we have tons of to go around!” Janelle Meyer-Brown, owner of événement planning explains.

In the beginning, événement offered event lounge rentals, but about one month after leaving her Director of Catering and General Manager position at Pier Wisconsin, Janelle was getting many calls from industry people and past clients asking her for help with events, she decided to add planning to the mix.

As business grew, Janelle began to grow her team as well, seeking out talented individuals with great spirits, personality and who truly care about the clients. And, she wanted them to be willing to get their hands dirty. Now in their 5th year of business, Janelle has two seasoned planning professionals—Amanda Bird and Anne Radtke—who dedicate every ounce of their passion into their events. The group has recently welcomed Erin Hochevar, from local restaurant group Hospitality Democracy, selling and planning corporate dinners, rehearsal dinners, weddings and more, and Elizabeth Neupauer who adds an interior design background and exciting new and young ideas and so much attention to detail. Together, the team has 40-plus years of experience to offer clients.

“When we work with you, we enter into a partnership,” Janelle says.

This proves true in reading through some of the many testimonials from past clients: “My first phone call solidified my desire to work with événement, as they were honest, straight forward, funny and seemed to have a clear understanding of what I envisioned for the big day.”

“We never imagined having a planner when we first started our wedding journey, but now I can't imagine what it would have been like without événement.”

From weddings and corporate events, to photo/TV shoots and design consulting, to customization of lounges and unique touches, to everything they do, événement’s team will work tirelessly for their clients. “We become family in the planning process, and we care about our families!”

Janelle elates.

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CATERING TO ROMANCE

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Saz's Catering offers an especially diverse selection of authorized venues for your wedding reception, rehearsal dinner, and showers. Our broad array of location choices include 1451 Renaissance Place, the Historic Pritzlaff Building, Villa Terrace, John Michael Kohler Arts Center, Schlitz Audubon Nature Center, Miller Inn & Caves, Milwaukee County Zoo Peck Pavilion, and many more.

Whether your dream wedding is the most elegant celebration imaginable or a more casual gathering, we can pair the perfect setting and our creative menus to make your day absolutely sublime.

SAZ'S CATERING 5420 WEST STATE STREET MILWAUKEE, WI 53208 414.256.8765 | SAZS.COM

THE STATE ROOM - CASUAL ELEGANCE THAT IS PERFECT FOR BRIDAL SHOWERS AND REHEARSAL DINNERS Saz's State House Restaurant is located in a charming historic building on State Street in Wauwatosa. The State Room is an ideal setting for bridal showers and rehearsal dinners. It is a beautifully designed private dining room with rich wood architectural accents, etched glass windows, and a custom designed bar that is reminiscent of the great pubs of Europe. There is an attached coat room and a separate entrance for your convenience.

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Saz's Catering Lake Country calls the beautiful banquet facilities at Western Lakes Golf Club home, but also caters to choice locations and private homes throughout Waukesha and Pewaukee, and west to Madison.

You will find many beautiful settings for your wedding photography, and the golf course offers a stunning backdrop for your reception through the expansive floor-to-ceiling picture windows in the banquet room.

Sazama's Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts will make your wedding day spectacular and stress free, with exceptional cuisine, impressive service and attention to detail.

The Marcus Center for the Performing Arts offers an outstanding setting along the Milwaukee River and has a variety of spaces that can accommodate almost any size guest list. For a special touch, enjoy cocktails and appetizers al fresco on the Fitch Garden Patio, Riverfront, or Colonnade.

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Constructed in 1875 and recently renovated, the Pritzlaff has been transformed into a breath taking example of not only what was, but what can be.

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Above, you’ll find industrial age beamed ceilings curiously supported by elegant wood beams.

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UNITY CANDLE Lauren’s mother lit a candle in honor of her late father, and Michael’s mother lit a candle to honor all of those who had gone before them. Together, the candles were lit to represent their families.

Until the End of Time

by Michelle Drewek

Lauren and Michael were professional friends for a few years before dating. As athletic trainers, Lauren for Marquette University and Michael for the Green Bay Packers, they remained in contact to bounce ideas off one another. This ultimately led to them planning to go back to Physical Therapy schooling together. After finally asking Lauren on a date, they knew that what they had in front of them was so much more than a friendship.

Michael originally planned to propose in May, but as soon as he got the ring he couldn’t wait and proposed a month earlier instead. He picked up Lauren from work and on their front door was an envelope. Inside was a note that prompted her to open the door. On their floor were individual roses with a card at each one with quotes from their favorite songs. The last rose was in a vase, and when she turned around Michael was on one knee.

“Growing up you always think that choosing who you are going to marry and deciding to get married is supposed to be the biggest decision of your life,”

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Michael reflects. “You’re supposed to sit there and debate it, and weigh all the pros and the cons. I discovered it’s actually the opposite. It was the easiest decision because there was no debate. I was 100% sure that if this wasn’t it then I don’t know what would be.”

Not wanting to wait long to become husband and wife, the couple planned their wedding day for just over a year from the day of the proposal. With how busy they both were, they knew they needed to enlist the help of an expert. Once they found David Caruso and his team at Dynamic Events, they knew they were

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in the best hands.

“David Caruso and his team were incredible!” Lauren elates. “There was no way we could have pulled off something like what David did. It was such a seamless process and he did an amazing job of selecting vendors and putting together a wedding that was a true representation of who we were.”

Their wedding theme was modern vintage, an experience that David captured by envisioning an evening in a garden. Beautiful, full flowers were placed throughout the space at the Historic Pritzlaff, with tea light candles hung from the chandelier over the head table.

“For the room, we went with a variety of neutral palettes and used texture to add depth to it,” Lauren describes. “I feel that the flowers truly pulled it all together, and they did a beautiful job building on the neutrals theme with the highlight of these lovely apricot and varying hues of pink peonies. The room came together exquisitely.”

The design also took a cue from the dress Lauren donned. Her Matthew Christopher gown from Zita’s Bridal Salon was lace, but with a modern approach to how it was utilized. It was unique, with just the right amount of elegance for her taste. She complemented the stunning gown with a fingertip length veil that a seamstress added some lace from her dress to, and framed her face with chandelier drop earrings. When Michael saw her at their first look, he was taken away.

One of the most important details for their wedding day was the vow they were

going to make to one another. They each made a list of things that were important to them in a marriage and brought them together to come up with their vows together based on those aspects they wrote down. It was the foundation of their relationship that they wanted to promise to each other now and forever.

Following their beautiful union, the newlyweds had their loved ones joined together for good food and music. “We wanted a caterer that could accommodate food allergies, as funny as that sounds,” Lauren laughs. “Lee John did an astounding job making sure everyone would be taken care of. The food was fabulous and full of flavor, which is not always common when you have food allergies! And the music was worth every penny. The Larry King Orchestra are incredible musicians.

People are still talking about their performance over a year later.”

Michael and Lauren are also grateful to have had the breathtaking camerawork of Front Room Photography capturing all that went into that day. The couple describes them as “true artists who you really get the feeling of a personalized experience from.” Together, they look back over their photos and videos together with the same twinkle in their eye for each other as the moment they said, “I do.”

“So much went into that day and it all represented us as a couple.” Lauren says. “That’s my biggest piece of advice. Make your wedding what you and your fiancé want it to be. The more genuine the wedding is, the more enjoyable the experience is for both you and your guests. They will know that they were a part of something special.”

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Venue & Food

PHOTOGRAPHY Top and Bottom Left:: Studio 29 Photography & Design, Bottom Right: Heather Cook Elliott Photography When you first get engaged, the first thing people do is ask to see that gorgeous rock on your finger. The first question asked is what date you’ve selected for the nuptials. And then everyone usually wonders where you might be holding the big celebration. If you’re like most brides, selecting a venue can be a daunting process, especially if you have very little notion about all the options available in your area and are not quite sure what to consider when finding your reception space.

First of all, consider the date you actually have chosen. Did you pick a date in the middle of the summer - high season - or in the traditionally chilly time that has become more popular due to the great designs now available in the cold months? You both need to discuss what you want for your day: a hotel ballroom, a warehouse loft, a vintage barn or a swanky tent. Some of your choices may be limited due to weather if you’ve chosen a time period during the year that is not conducive to an unheated - or non-air conditioned - tent or barn. Sometimes those locations can be accommodating and can bring

in either option if weather necessitates it., but you’ll have to weigh cost with practicality then.

Once your date is selected, you’ll want to book a venue that matches the aesthetic you desire as well as your estimated guest list. It’s important to realize how quickly locations book in advance.

Many venues start to book two years out - so be sure to make inquiries early. You may also find it easier to select a time of year and, armed with several dates that work for your particular ceremony venue or church, go to the most popular and heavily booked locations with many options open instead of just a single date to try and match together. Or, you may not care so much about an exact venue as you do a particular caterer or service level. If that is the case, you’ll want to encompass all the properties covered by that vendor to better understand your options regarding room and capacity size as well as style.

Even if you are set with a single date, or you started a bit late and most of the locations you were considering are all booked up throughout the season, all is not entirely lost. There are many vendors, especially here in Veil Magazine, that

have multiple locations with the same high level of service, food design and host in a variety of settings sure to fit with your wedding hopes in some manner. So while sometimes it is important to choose an interior vibe that best describes your personal style, when food or some other element is equally important to you, it can help to open your horizons to include other venues you may not have initially added to your list.

Remember, a reception is where you can get creative about your tastes and offer up dishes that can be a memorable part of the evening. This is also an important part of your guests’ experience, beyond the venue surroundings itself. If you choose a location that can provide a culinary and gastronomic memory, it will be something guests remember for a long time.

Therefore, once your venue and caterer are selected, you will want to go over the type of service that you’ll be providing your guests.

Here’s a brief summary of your options.

Heavy Appetizers: This option for food service is best used for midday events, morning brunches or cocktail receptions. A combination

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Buffet: While this is another more informal way to feed your guests, you need never worry about guests being hungry later, as everyone can fill their plates with however much food they think they need.

You can also create a very familiar, cozy environment with guests getting served in a ‘family style’ way at each table, which is a step up from the traditional long buffet line but still allows for bulk food options.

There is a myth that buffets can be less expensive than a plated meal, but that is not true. Buffets require extra amounts of food to be bought by your caterer to ensure that they don’t run out as people fill their own plates and portion sizes cannot be controlled.

Carving Stations: This is truly a culinary experience for your guests - getting to select, point and watch as their food is being cut and served. Carving stations do not even need to be confined to meat.

You can have potato bar stations, pasta bars, sauteed vegetable and seafood bars, or even an omelette bar if you’re hosting a brunch reception. Carving stations tend to end quicker, so while this is a buffet type of serving style, be sure that your guests are aware that there is an end time to the food being available.

Small Plates: A classy step up from carving stations and ‘help yourself ’ bars, small plates are exactly what they sound like: small plates of pre-served food that guests can grab. There are usually several small plate stations throughout a reception room, but they can be fancier items, such as lobster, scallops, certain types of beef cuts or specialized pastas. The pates are expedited by whatever chef is manning the station, so they have the finished appeal of a plated meal but in smaller portions. This is an elegant way to still create the movement in the room you’d get with a buffet or carving stations but offers a more delectable cuisine.

Plated: This is the traditional way to serve a wedding meal. Whether you allow your guests to choose their entree table side, on the RSVP cards, or offer one single dish, plated meals are the most formal way to feed your guests at the reception. You will have several servers on hand to make sure tables are served relatively at the same time, allowing guests to dive into a fully created and executed meal with proper proportions and final design. It is still possible to have unique dining experiences with a plated meal. Offer an amuse bouche, sorbet before the entree, or have a cheese and fig course before offering cake. You are the masters of the menu at your reception: have fun, even when doing something traditional.

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decor, lighting and the food service, so don’t feel completely edged in by your theme. Select what fits all pieces of your wedding and your personality the best and you won’t be left with any questions about your final decision.

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Jennifer Wallner WAR MEMORIAL CENTER CHOOSING THE IDEAL CEREMONY AND RECEPTION VENUES is overwhelming. You desire beautiful, convenient and impeccable.

Enter the War Memorial Center, located in the heart of Milwaukee.

Boasting breathtaking views of Lake Michigan and the city’s skyline, the War Memorial Center

proves it’s perfect for both your ceremony and reception. “The value of this venue is unmatched in the city,” says bride-to-be Jennifer Metz, also the Center’s events manager. “Our weddings and events are true celebrations of the lives and freedom we have in part due to the sacrifices our military and veterans have made.”

The War Memorial Center houses Fitch Plaza, used typically for outdoor ceremonies and social hours, and Memorial Hall, an indoor space.

Fitch Plaza offers a lake view that’s second to none. “Paired with the backdrop of our building, which is an architectural landmark, and the city skyline, you cannot find a more beautiful location for your wedding ceremony,” Jennifer

“PAIRED WITH THE BACKDROP OF OUR BUILDING… AND THE CITY SKYLINE, YOU CANNOT FIND A MORE BEAUTIFUL LOCATION FOR YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY.” says. The Plaza can also host your outdoor reception. And due to Wisconsin’s unpredictable weather, Jennifer and the event staff monitor it the morning of your event, moving any outdoor festivities inside if necessary.

The large Memorial Hall accommodates 260 guests, yet is wonderfully intimate. Its west wall features floor-to-ceiling windows, where your guests will enjoy Milwaukee’s skyline at sunset.

When renting the War Memorial Center, you get the entire venue — indoors and out — and your event will be the only one of the day. Rental also includes use of one area for six hours, tables, chairs, staff setup/teardown, dance floor, head table risers and sound systems. And, the Plaza has an arch you can decorate. Guests may also visit the Center’s many memorials and displays.

After years of working in the restaurant industry, Jennifer turned her talents to catering and weddings. Loving her job, meeting engaged couples and a knack for planning led to events and weddings and, ultimately, the War Memorial Center. “I personally work with each and every couple to make sure all details are in place for your special day,” where she is present at most weddings, handling setup and vendor coordination. Event and maintenance staffs are present throughout your event, ensuring a flawless night — your night to remember for a lifetime.

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Tracy Bredl YOU’VE ACCEPTED HIS PROPOSAL and see your fairytale wedding begin. A Milwaukee wedding has always been in the cards—it’s just a matter of where. Turn to Hyatt Regency Milwaukee for personalized service, high-quality food and spectacular views guaranteed to wow.

Heading up all social events, including weddings, is Tracy Bredl, Senior Event Sales Manager. In 2014, Tracy brought her wedding planning experience to Hyatt, where she works with each couple from start to finish.

Tracy will work with your vendors, assist with Hyatt’s wedding packages that are “easy to navigate and also completely customizable,” and be on site for the big day to ensure flawlessness.

This Hyatt experience delivers a destination for all, even guests from the Milwaukee area.

“We are truly a one-stop shop,” Tracy says of the 481 guest rooms and 33,000 square feet of event space. Guests can stay overnight in Hyatt’s

lavish rooms while enjoying the simplicity of one location for your ceremony and reception.

Quite often, ceremonies are held in the Executive Ballroom, where 300 of those near and dear can view the vow exchange. Receptions also occur here, in which the room transforms into an intimate setting with dinner service for 150.

Need a larger space? The Regency Grand Ballroom seats up to 600 guests and may be split in half for smaller weddings. But if you’re longing for breathtaking views of Milwaukee, you’ll be smitten with Hyatt’s VUE rooftop ballroom, a space consisting of a cocktail-hour ballroom and a second hosting up to 170 for dinner.

VUE opened in October 2015 as a new, modern space complete with 360 degrees of windows.

Formerly the rotating Polaris restaurant, the now-private event space offers views of Lake Michigan, downtown, the Allen-Bradley clock tower, Miller Park and many other skyline and

“WE WANT YOU TO FEEL AT HOME EVERY TIME YOU WALK THROUGH THE DOOR.”

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well-known landmarks.

From plated dinners to buffets, vegetarian cuisine to desserts, Hyatt’s chefs prepare farm-to-table food and beverages with expert precision. Even your rehearsal dinner or morning brunch will contain delicious morsels to delight guests. “I truly feel that couples will not only have a great event for their wedding but also will find a long-lasting relationship with us and the staff at Hyatt,” Tracy says of the highly customized experience couples receive. “We want you to feel at home every time you walk through the door.”

Weddings are more magical with a VUE. HYATT REGENCY MILWAUKEE 333 W. Kilbourn Avenue Milwaukee, WI 53203 414.276.1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com The HYATT trademark and related marks are trademarks of the Hyatt Corporation or its affiliates. © Hyatt Corporation. All rights reserved.

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PARTYLOCATOR : Banquet Space : Country Club

Average Price per person

: Lounge/Bar/Food : Restaurant : Warehouse

bacchus

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925 E. Wells St. Milwaukee WI 414.765.1166 • www.bacchusmke.com

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Milwaukee

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American, Steak, Seafood

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3133 E. Newberry Blvd. Milwaukee WI 414.962.6300 • www.lakeparkbistro.com

bartolotta ' s lake park bistro Milwaukee

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French

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camp bar

Contemporary American Cuisine in a sleek downtown space. Featuring a variety of private rooms, including a glass - enclosed conservatory over looking Lake Michigan.

Situated on a bluff overlooking Lake Michigan, Lake Park Bistro offers rustic French cuisine in a beautiful park setting.

Perfect for any event, from small gathering to large weddings.

525 E Menomonee St, Milwaukee, WI, 4044 N. Oakland Ave, Shorewood WI & 6600 W. North Ave Wauwatosa WI (Milwaukee) 414.930.9282, (Shorewood) 414.962.5182, (Wauwatosa) 414.763.3793 • www.campbarmke.com

Milwaukee

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Camp Bar is Milwaukee's only "up North" tavern.

Specializing in old fashioned's, a wide beer selection, and cozy atmosphere. Camp Bar has been voted one of America's "best new bars" by Details Magazine.

550 N. Harbor Dr. Milwaukee WI 414.395.4900 • www.harborhousemke.com

harbor house Milwaukee

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$$$

Milwaukee's only lakefront dinning experience offering the freshest seafood and unparalleled views of Lake Michigan and Milwaukee's skyline.

All Attire

heidel house resort

643 Illinois Ave. Green Lake WI 800.444.2812 • www.heidelhouse.com

& spa

Contemporary American

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any

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Resort & Spa

historic

Green Lake

Our catering team will customize a memorable experience, for groups of all sizes, in one of our many private event spaces.

Whether a pig roast & bonfire by the tent, hors d’oeuvres on the yacht or fine dining in Grey Rock.

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PRE & POST NUPTIAL PARTY LOCATIONS

Prepare,

by Michelle Drewek

PHOTOGRAPHY The Paper Elephant Weddings are more than just a one-day event. Parties from bridal showers to bachelor/ ette parties, rehearsal dinners to receptions, a lot of venue considerations come into play.

Before you jump into planning these events, you need to come prepared. We’ve compiled a Party Directory to help guide your search for the perfect venue, no matter the occasion, but first read on to learn more about what you should be considering along the way.

First, consider how many people will be in attendance. You want to make sure that the space that is chosen to host the event will comfortably fit the guest list. Comfortably means making sure there is not only enough space to seat everyone, but also enough room for mingling and any activities that may take place.

If you are having a bridal luncheon, for example, people will mostly be sitting at their tables or casually standing nearby to chat with other guests. At a bridal shower, however,

space for a gift table will also need to be accounted for, as well as enough space for the gift opening to take place in.

Likewise, a wedding reception will need to not only accommodate for guests and a gift table, but also a bar and dance floor. Go into

at opposite ends of the spectrum. You want to have a location that no only is conducive to the atmosphere you want your party to have, but that your party is also conducive to that space.

A third thing to consider is the amenities.

Things like bar service, entertainment and food offerings may be what makes or breaks your decision to opt for or against a location. Venues all have their own rules when it comes to caterers and bartenders.

Before hiring a catering company, find out the rules of the venue you are using.

They may require you use their in-house catering/menu or a caterer they directly contract with. If you are keen on having a particular caterer, then your search for a location knowing what you you may need to look at a different location if will need to accommodate for so the venue can your first choice has specific regulations. tell you what will and will not work.

Bartenders are a similar topic to discuss. Do Next, consider the atmosphere. The type of they have specific bartenders you can hire, or mood you will be setting with a bridal luncheon do you need to hire outside bartenders. What versus a bachelorette party will most likely be types of fees are associated with using the bar

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333 W. Kilbourn Ave. Milwaukee WI 414.276.1234 • www.milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com

hyatt regency milwaukee Milwaukee

Contemporary American

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139 E. Kilbourn Ave. Milwaukee WI 414.291.4793 • www.kilawatcuisine.com

kil @ wat Milwaukee

Contemporary American

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Kil@wat combines an inventive interpretation of contemporary American cuisine, a vibrant yet comfortable setting, and inspiring views of downtown Milwaukee to create a thoroughly enjoyable dining experience.

310 E. Chicago St. Milwaukee WI 414.291.3970 • www.journeymanhotel.com

kimpton journeyman hotel , the Milwaukee

Mediterranean & American

We are thrilled to offer various sized venues for small to large groups that are outside of the big day, including your rehearsal dinner or brunch the morning after your wedding.

new varies

varies

Exquisite indoor/outdoor space with sunset views for intimate ceremonies, rehearsal dinners, and post-wedding brunches — there's nothing else like it in the city.

All Attire

425 E. Mason St. Milwaukee WI 414.298.3131 • www.masonstreetgrill.com

mason street grill Milwaukee

American, Steak, Seafood

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Mason Street Grill, in downtown Milwaukee, is a classic American Grill, serving high-quality wood grilled steaks, amazing sandwiches and house made desserts.

Comfortable booths, a welcoming staff and warm atmosphere.

633. N. Fifth St. Milwaukee WI 414.390.4562 • www.chophouse411.com

milwaukee chophouse Milwaukee

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A traditional steak house with contemporary flair, specializing in tender steaks and fresh seafood, and an extensive wine list.

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service? How long do you need bar service for? Have these questions answered ahead of time so when you visit the venue, you are prepared to cover all of your bases.

Finally, come in with a budget. It is easy to get carried away planning an unforgettable night. The budget will keep you levelheaded so you don’t leave having spent more than you can afford. If price becomes an issue, see what types of suggestions the venue has. Depending on their years of experience, they have probably seen and heard it all by now. They are experts in the area of party planning, so voice your concerns ahead of time before they become an issue.

Planning a party is something to take seriously because a lot gets invested into making sure your guests have a good time.

By preparing yourself before diving in head first, you will eliminate a lot of unnecessary stress and end up with an unforgettable event. Let our Party Directory help get you get the party started!

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18280 W. Capital Dr. Brookfield WI 262.790.7005 • www.mrbssteakhouse.com

- a bartolotta steakhouse

Brookfield

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Steaks & Chops

A classic italian steakhouse, Mr. B's offers wood fired prime steaks & chops in a warm, spacious setting.

Enjoy a private room or outdoor patio.

$$$

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saz ' s state house restaurant the state room

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5539 W. State St. Milwaukee WI 414.453.2410 • www.sazs.com The State Room provides a special blend of casual elegance, privacy and amenities; rich wood accents, etched glass a private entry and a custom designed wooden bar.

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Casual

131 W. Seeboth St. Milwaukee WI 414.841.9374 • www.theseeboth.com

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shully ' s cuisine

146 Green Bay Rd. Thiensvill WI 262.242.6633 • www.shullyscuisine.com

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Our charming Thien Room is perfect for smaller groups up to 65 guests to enjoy sit-down dinners, buffets and luncheon receptions, or up to 80 guests for cocktail/hors d'oeuvres receptions.

1038 North Fourth St. Milwaukee WI 414.763.1490 • www.turnerhallrestaurant.com

turner hall restaurant

Gastropub Fish Fry

call

The Seeboth is a dramatic urban special event venue located in the heart of Milwaukee's Historic Walker's Point neighborhood. With its exposed Cream City brick and beams along with its rustic urban setting, it is sure to please the modern bride.

2

250

$

Exceptional Food. Great Beer. Legendary Fish Fry. We celebrate the spirited heritage of Wisconsin with our fresh, locally sourced and masterfully prepared food. Our fish fry is an honored Milwaukee tradition.

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BREW CITY MILWAUKEE HOSTS YOUR NIGHT ON THE TOWN

Heather Cook Elliott Photography

REHEARSAL DINNER

by Carolyn Hartnett Located on the beautiful shores of Lake Michigan, Milwaukee offers a fantastic selection of arts, entertainment, and architecture. You have numerous options for an unforgettable celebration here, including brewery tours, riverboat cruises, and ethnic festivals. Whether you want a simple, low-key night on the town with a few girlfriends, or a high=energy, fist-pumping extravaganza, there's something here for everyone. What better place to host your bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or wedding after party than the city featured in the recent movie Bridesmaids?

The rehearsal dinner is meant to be an intimate gathering for your wedding party and closest family members. Just like your reception locale, the place you choose for this event can help spark conversations and make a huge impact on the tone of the evening and later events to come.

Looking for a casual outdoor setting where you guests can feel comfortable and at ease? Consider renting a tent from Canopies and hosting a fun, catered barbecue, right in your own backyard.

Prefer a more formal outdoor rehearsal dinner? Try the tent at Pier Wisconsin, or the Fitch Plaza at the Milwaukee War Memorial for a breathtaking view of Lake Michigan.

Looking for something unique and different? The historic Miller Caves at MillerCoors are an excellent choice.

Leaning towards a modern, trendy locale? Milwaukee Art Museum, Cuvee, or Bacchus may be perfect for you.

See Veil's Reception and Party Locator on starting on page 32 for many other great local options for your rehearsal dinner.

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Perfect Custom

by Sara Dahmen

PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography Some of the most special moments of your wedding are the toasts given by all the people who love you both. But before your guests raise their glasses, make sure that the champagne in their stemware is as tasteful as the well wishes you receive.

Over ten and a half years ago, Gary Ozuna started Bartenders On The Go when he realized there was a need for a serious enthusiastic bartending and beverage specialization service in Milwaukee.

Having lived and worked on the East Coast, as well as Houston and Austin, Gary has insight to the latest hot trends, creative cocktails and newest themes.

Europe is also an extensive research and informational guide for him, and Gary travels there often. In Wisconsin, Gary Ozuna’s staff of licensed and energetic professionals not only get excited about their work, but they also strive to create a memorable experience for your guests. “I believe in hiring fun,

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qualified employees who really want to be there,” Gary divulges. Bartenders on the Go is more than just a bartending service, and in fact, is practically a one-stop shop for your event, offering wedding consultations and menu design in addition to guaranteeing your

guests will be served a properly mixed martini with the same suave service you’d find at a high scale bar.

Gary recommends that couples look for several key factors when vetting options for beverage services. Check if the company is licensed and

insured, and find out whether the bartenders are capable, outgoing, and professional in demeanor and appearance. Will the company you’re hiring actually provide you and your guests with great service all throughout the preparing process?

Gary knows goes amazing service goes beyond serving a good drink.

“Recently a couple ran behind the bar to give me a hug. It took me a second to realize that I had organized their daughter’s wedding years ago and they were still complimenting my company. That’s when I know that what I do is all worthwhile.”

Gary also customizes drink menus for your event, and creating specialty cocktails is something of an art form; one that Gary has perfected. “It’s a custom craft,” he explains. “And it’s why we do custom beverage packages as well - no two weddings are the same.”

Couples can pick their preferred types of liquor, wine and beer to be served according to their budget and personal preferences.

PHOTOGRAPHY Top Middle: Craig John Photography, Bottom Middle & Right: Front Room Photography

Bartenders On The Go works with you to uncover the details that make your event unique.

In addition, Gary’s team of servers can even dress in theme for your wedding, or simply don their standard uniform of a classy black vest, white dress shirt and a tie.

Bartenders on the Go is so well known for providing high quality service that the Historic Pritzlaff, Marquette University, the Pfister Hotel, and various others choose Gary’s experienced and talented staff to fill positions for major events. But whatever the occasion

is for a celebration, Gary declares, “A fun and professional bartending service is one important piece that can help make an event extremely memorable.”

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COFFEE CATERING

A True Coffee

by Sara Dahmen

PHOTOGRAPHY Manning Photography Coffee and cake go together, a bit like strawberries and champagne. They compliment each other, and make the whole experience just that much better. But so many times, the coffee served at a wedding is not much more than an after thought. Now there’s a way to change that.

Roast Coffee Catering is the premier coffee and espresso bar catering company in Wisconsin and has taken the wedding scene by storm. However, their services are still relatively unknown by wedding guests, making a specialty espresso bar with onlocation baristas a huge unexpected and special treat for your guests.

The Roast Coffee Company opened 10 years ago by owner Ryan Mason as a retail coffee location. In 2009, they were asked to provide espresso bar service for a corporate event, and from there the notion took off.

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guests talking, and a coffee bar serviced by professional baristas with made-to-order drinks and specialty concoctions is always a huge hit.

As everything is about the details, Roast

Roast also makes sure there are no hidden costs on the paperwork. This means every couple knows that their mocha infused drink is included, as is delivery and set-up, all in one bill. That kind of level and attention to detail is required when handling many people while still keeping the orders straight and the quality of the product perfect.

With the option to have an espresso bar on location for the whole evening, or for a three-hour stint, there’s something for every budget. Some couples like having this alternative for guests who will not be drinking alcohol, but more importantly it’s about the experience: to order a coffee drink in the middle Coffee Catering uses local ingredients of a wedding reception and have it made just whenever possible. The baristas at the Roast the way you like it. It feels personal, luxurious Coffee Catering have been trained in the art and special – every couple wants their guests of espresso preparation, how to properly steam to feel that way! milk and offer the best customer service.

Ryan Mason ROAST COFFEE CATERING WHEN Ryan Mason was twelve, he wrote a paper about ‘How to Make a French Press Better’ – not exactly what every 8th grader is going to discuss. “I don’t know many kids that were thinking about how to make coffee taste better,” Ryan muses.

It is still obviously a passion for him, because 10 years ago he started the Roast Coffee Company and hasn’t looked back. When the opportunity to break into the wedding market unfolded in 2009, Ryan invested in the more mobile pieces of special equipment and bookings have exploded since.

“I’m often asked why to have a specialty coffee and espresso bar at a wedding,” Ryan says. “Coffee at weddings is usually pretty stale,

and people are surprised and delighted when they have the opportunity to order a drink made by a professional barista off of a customized coffee menu. It’s hard to beat that quality.” The

Ryan reveals. “We take a culinary approach to the drinks we develop with every couple.”

This means educating his barista staff to handle the inflow and flux of hundreds of people ordering coffee in a short amount of time – no easy feat. Ryan takes great pride in this, as he knows service is a huge part of the puzzle when it comes to offering a catering piece to a wedding reception. Plus, it’s all about the details. “Having an espresso bar is a way to stand out to your guests,” he reminds. “Offer hand crafted coffee drinks in a ceramic cup. It’ll be the best latte they’ve ever had!”

“OFFER HAND CRAFTED COFFEE DRINKS IN A CERAMIC CUP. IT’LL BE THE BEST LATTE THEY’VE EVER HAD!” company is completely coffee focused, using local vendors to source their coffees and milk, and offers two different reception packages to couples, all of which can be personalized to fit the season or couple’s preferences. “We’ve done coffee drinks with fresh ingredients like lavender, blueberries or certain chocolates,”

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BALANCING FAMILY DEMANDS

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By Carolyn Hartnett

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For better or for worse, you are not only marrying your fiancé on your wedding day. When the two of you join together in matrimony, you are also combining two families. Wedding planning is exciting yet challenging in many ways. Everyone has an opinion about what you should and shouldn’t do, and you are bound to receive advice and input from many sources.

If your parents or future in-laws are contributing to the budget, you will need to bridge the gap between what you desire as a couple versus your family’s wants. This can be a sensitive issue.

How do you strike a balance between your family’s expectations and your own wishes for your wedding? Here are a few tips for curbing any potential drama:

COMMUNICATE

First, talk with your fiancé about your desires for the wedding. Create a list of the most important things that you can’t live without on your big day. Next, discuss which parts are not as crucial that you are willing to compromise on if necessary. Also, decide together how you will handle disagreements that may arise when your families become involved. Once you two are on the same page, broach the wedding planning topic with your family on a united front. Serve as each other’s support system during any times of stress and conflict that may arise throughout the process.

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BE RESPECTFUL

Listen to and acknowledge the opinions of your family, and think carefully about their requests before you react. Whenever you disagree, take a deep breath and craft your response with a level head. Remain calm, acknowledge the other person’s opinion, but be assertive and stand your ground on the things that are important to you. Thank them for their feedback and explain as gently as possible that you only get to do this once, and you want your wedding to reflect your personalities as a couple. Maintain a level of respect and consideration for your future in-laws at all times. Remember, these are the people who raised the man you love. They will be sitting across the table from you at family dinners in the future. Choose your battles wisely.

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COMPROMISE

Your wedding is not only a celebration of your love for each other; it is about the joining of families. Weddings are a time of major transition for both families. It can be difficult for parents to accept that you are starting a new life. Mothers may feel especially vulnerable and often just want to be needed by you. Therefore, try to keep your mom and future motherin-law involved and informed. Consider handing off some decisions and tasks to alleviate your own stress. Give in to their wishes occasionally to keep the peace.

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KEEP THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE

It can be easy to lose sight of the big picture when dedicating all of your time, energy and effort to wedding planning. Enjoy the process, but never forget what really matters. Maintaining a positive relationship with both each other and your families is the key to a happy life together.

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Bridesmaids Dresses: David’s Bridal Ceremony Location: Holy Spirit Catholic Church Ceremony Music/Musicians: Mary Zuleger (accompanist), Jen Boots (cantor), Anne Schreiber (violinist) Flowers: Milwaukee Flower Company Hair & Makeup: Salon Bold Honeymoon Location: Smoky Mountains and Nashville, TN Reception DJ: Yo DJ Entertainment Reception Location: Trolley Square Waterfront Banquets Wedding Cake: Manderfield’s Bakery Wedding Gown: Erika’s Bridal

DIY MOMENT Emily, Kyle and her mom picked strawberries, raspberries and blackberries, then made and canned 190 jars of jam as favors in one day! They also stamped and tied the “thank you” on them.

The Perks of Being in Love

by Michelle Drewek

Emily and Kyle were high school sweethearts with a love of the outdoors and BBQ chicken pizza. Having met at a young age, they helped each other grow through many years of schooling and physical time apart before Kyle arranged for a picturesque sunset proposal on a state park hike. This union was a decade in the making, but that’s nothing compared to the beautiful forever they have ahead of them.

WEDDING STYLE Our wedding was inspired mostly by nature. We both love being outdoors and love natural colors, with blue being our favorite color. So, we stuck with a natural palette with ivory, blues and greens, with a touch of gold, because who doesn’t love gold?

MUST-HAVE DETAILS Emily: First and foremost, I knew I wanted our ceremony to be at the church I grew up going to. Also, I think Kyle and I knew we wanted something non-traditional for dessert. We did have a small cake, but we also had a variety of donuts and cinnamon rolls for desert. Actually, Manderfield’s

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Bakery made a special donut just for Kyle, a chocolate donut with peanut butter crème filling. That man has a soft spot for anything sugar, and I have a soft spot for that man, so we had so much sugar on our dessert table!

Kyle: The most important thing was just knowing Emily was going to be happy with how everything turned out, which with our photographer and other vendors how couldn’t she be?

WORTH EVERY PENNY Studio 29 photography! Ren is outstanding and so

emily & kyle

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incredibly talented. She and Caleb did such amazing work on our wedding day.

We are in love with every single picture, and we will have those forever to look back on and remember every detail of our day.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE My dress was Enzoani Emporia. I went dress shopping with my mom and cousin and had in my mind I wanted all lace, so at first I sort of dismissed my dress. My cousin, who was my maid of honor, wanted me to try on the dress again, so I did. And I’m so glad I did! The more time I spent in my dress, the more in love with it I became. The veil I chose was cathedral length with scalloped lace detail at the end to give an extra lace detail to the bottom of my dress. I was so in love with both! My jewelry was mostly borrowed, with the exception of my earrings being new, I wanted something simple and classic. My shoes were harder to find, I thought I wanted something gold, but didn’t like anything I found. I’ve always had a wilder taste in shoes, so when I saw these blue gold studded shoes, I knew I found my match!

SOMETHING OLD, SOMETHING NEW, SOMETHING BORROWED, SOMETHING BLUE My something old was my mother’s wedding band. My something new was my gorgeous veil. For my something borrowed, I wore two bracelets; one was Kyle’s late aunt’s and the other was my sister-in-law’s that she wore for her wedding. I also had a patient of mine let me borrow a beautiful beaded purse that her mother, herself and both daughters used

for their weddings, which was so unique and special — my patients are such a large part of my life! My something blue was my shoes.

SPECIAL TOUCHES It was important to Kyle to see me for the first time walking down the aisle, which was such a special part of the day! Also, Kyle’s family dog, Trigger, and my family dog, Sasha, were both able to come to the church after the ceremony for a few pictures. It was so fun!

FIRST LOOK Kyle: My ushers did not hear the cue to open up the doors so I felt like I was staring down the aisle for an eternity before she finally came out.

When she finally did come out I’m not sure I could really describe the thoughts or emotion. I was so happy/overwhelmed when I saw her and just kept thinking how this moment felt so right and that I’ve never seen a more beautiful sight.

PLANNING ADVICE Emily: Take help from those who offer! People will extend offers to assist, and you’ll think you don’t want to bother people or that you’ll have no problem doing it yourself. However, you’ll stress yourself out trying to take on every project alone, and it gives you the opportunity to spend extra time with that person. Grab a bottle of wine and make a date out of it.

Kyle: Know ahead of time all the small details that need to be planned out.

Unfortunately I think a lot of guys think that when all the big stuff is finalized there is not much more to do and forget about all the small stuff.

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by Laura Vietmeyer

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Imagine the moment that your guests enter your reception space with their place cards in hand. What will they see when they take their seats?

What is the overall feel of your space and how does your wedding décor speak to that atmosphere? Your choice in wedding décor can bring unexpected touches to make your reception memorable for you and your guests by exhibiting your personal style or by tying together a theme or feel for your entire day. This comes from a collaboration of wedding planning and design along with the bride and groom and their families.

We’ve pulled together four looks from four wedding planners from real-life weddings that were inspired by the unique requests of the brides, grooms and their families. The décor speaks to each venue, creating a look and experience to fit the theme and space. From opulent, over the top designs to a rustic, antique feel, or from a romantic, elegant feel to a vintage meets modern look, each design is unique and befitting the couple. There is no limit to how detailed elements such as flowers, candles, menus, and linens can be implemented and tailored to create a seamless look and feel.

A professional can help you reach your ultimate design goals.

Wedding planners and event designers can work directly with you and your family using their skills to create a design to meet, and often exceed, your expectations. They have a repertoire of style ideas to tailor the look of your venue. Almost any space can be transformed, so never let your venue limit your design ideas for the look of your reception. With the right amount of creativity and teamwork, your venue can be transformed into something truly magical.

If you don’t already have ideas for what you want your venue to look like, choose a starting point to get the creative juices flowing. Oftentimes, a color or two, or a pattern, can be a good place to begin. A planner can take the color or pattern and come up with detail ideas to infuse into the tables, the chairs, the lighting, the flowers, and even the cake. If you have an item or heirloom that you want incorporated into the design, a wedding planner can make that happen. If you wanted to incorporate your grandmother’s napkins from her wedding into your design, for

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Design #1

By Dynamic Events by David Caruso

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Photography Cassie Rosch Photography Drawing inspiration from the chandeliers down to the tabletops, guests were delighted with pops of color throughout the décor. Warm oranges and yellows were bundled with earthy greens and rich reds, juxtaposed by whites and neutrals in the linens and candles. Various vase heights made the tabletop dynamic and playful, eye-catching in all the right ways.

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Photography Robyn Vining Photography Simply elegant is the best way to describe this garden-set wedding.

Although open to the elements, it felt cozy and warm—a true representation of the love shared by those in attendance. Ram horns were tied in throughout, uniquely unifying each tabletop along with the florals and greenery. Gold etched plates with aged silver and miss-matched glassware added the cozy quaintness of the ambiance.

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Photography Jenna Kutcher This vineyard inspired setting took wedding guests into the French countryside. The red brick of their classic home was brought to life on the tabletops through the rich colors of the flowers against the unassuming wood tables, chairs and canvas colored tent. Simplistic in design, yet bold in execution. The entire setup was light, airy and absolutely breathtaking.

example, but you only have eight, you can use them at the head table and your wedding planner can work with the linen company to procure a design that is comparable. Wedding planners are excellent problem solvers and can easily come up with solutions that you may never have imagined were possible.

Aside from being expert problem solvers, wedding planners also have a wealth of knowledge on who to hire in order to get the job done. In order to pull the entire look together, it’s necessary to work with multiple vendors. Wedding planners have the experience and expertise to know which Wisconsin vendors are reliable.

Wedding planners also will know which vendors work best with your style, making it much easier to achieve the look you desire for your reception.

The four very different but equally fabulous looks on the following pages can be used to help inspire your own ideas to pull unique details into your design. Take your time to notice the little details that make up the overall atmosphere of the space as you peruse the designs on the following wedding décor pages from Cherry Blossom Events, Dynamic Events by David Caruso, événement planning, and Let’s Have An Affair.

Which elements really speak to you?

Use those elements as a starting point to begin brainstorming your own ideas to make your wedding decor speak to your overall vision.

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Photography Boutique Photographer Gold inspired the bride in the creation of this dazzling design.

Each attendant had their place set with a special "to have and to hold" plate atop sparkling rose gold linens.

Various shades of gold set the tone throughout every detail from the mercury glass vases and chargers, to the lavish cloths. Elegant, approachable, and absolutely fabulous.

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Before "I Do"

by Michelle Drewek

It’s official—you’re engaged! No amount of chick flicks or fantasies could prepare you for that moment your beloved got down on one knee. Your new bling has hundreds of “likes” on Facebook, and you can’t help but stare at it whenever the light catches it just right. As you scroll through Pinterest and bombard your wedding board with dozens of ideas, you think you have this planning game in the bag…until you realize you have no idea where to start. Don’t hit the panic button! We’ve got you covered.

KNOW YOUR FINANCES

It’s easy to get swept up into the excitement of planning a wedding. Before you dive in, lay out your budget. Family may be helping pay for portions of the day, and if that is the case you’ll want to have a candid conversation at the onset about what they have budgeted for you and what that budget is intended for. For example, traditionally the groom’s parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, but that doesn’t mean you should expect that of them. Communicating

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your needs with their expectations will alleviate tension early on and keep you and your fiancé within your means so you can enjoy this day instead of having it financially cripple you. Once you have a budget determined, you’ll want to set aside a “safety net” for any unexpected costs that may come up, as well as a small reserve for tips for your vendors.

MANAGE EXPECTATIONS

Let’s face it, you’ve probably been envisioning your wedding day far longer than your fiancé. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t have ideas for what he would like your celebration to look like. Sit down with your budget and discuss what areas are most important to each of you. From there, consult one another before any final decisions are made. His input may be “it doesn’t matter to me” for some details, but giving him the chance to be included sends a strong message to him about how much you value him.

WHO, WHEN & WHERE

Now that you’ve communicated expectations, you can begin digging into planning. Your guest list will be important in knowing what venues you can consider based on capacity size of the space. You don’t need an exact number, but know what your maximum head count will be so each location you visit can help decide if they can accommodate your needs. Many venues book up well in advance, so you’ll want to find your location as soon as possible. You may have a specific date in

mind you’d like for your big day, but be willing to be flexible if you dream location is already booked on that date. Likewise, you may need to veto a venue if the date is a deal breaker. Know which is more important to you—the date or the place—and proceed accordingly.

MEMORY MAKERS

When it comes to making memories, the caterer and entertainment set the mood for the evening and will be talked about for years to come, and the photographer/videographer will be the ones capturing it all through their lens. Visit with at least three vendors in each of these areas so you can not only do a cost comparison, you also feel confident that whomever you hire doesn’t just fit your tastes but is someone you trust.

DÉCOR & MORE

You likely already have a theme in mind for your wedding, but now is the time to plan out the finer details of how it will all come together through things like flowers, décor, centerpieces, color palettes, etc. Finding a florist who can help you create a lot of these elements through their knack for design and talented vision will bring a sense of cohesion to everything else you incorporate. We have great tips for finding vendors that will match your style in the pages of Veil Magazine, as well as our online resources.

BRIDAL PARTY ATTIRE

The gowns and tuxes should be planned out about 9 months in advance to allow enough time for ordering and alterations. While you will likely take the lead on a lot of the planning initiation, having your groom take ownership of menswear will eliminate a lot of undue stress to you. Plan a day that you can go with him to come to an agreement on colors and styles, and then let him coordinate the men from there.

INVITATIONS & REGISTRIES

Once you have your guest list and date set, you can send out Save the Dates so your loved ones can plan ahead to celebrate with you. Actual invitations don’t need to go out until about 45-60 days prior to your date. It’s inevitable that you’ll have a handful of guests that will forget to send back their RSVP by the due date. Plan in an extra week for you and your fiancé to be able to follow up on any unknown RSVPs before your final guest count numbers are due to vendors.

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When it comes to the registry, starting early on isn’t a bad idea as some people will want to buy you a gift as early as your engagement party, but don’t feel pressured to create a more complete registry until the bridal shower invites are ready to go out. You’ll want to revisit your registry after your bridal shower to make sure wedding guests have enough of a selection of items at various price points to browse through.

For ideas about what to register for, visit the Veil Magazine website.

DAY-OF CHECKLIST

Plan as you may, there will be the inevitable surprise or two that comes up during the wedding day. However, you can help alleviate a lot of that unnecessary stress by creating a list of things to remember to bring with you on your wedding day, having an agenda printed for your bridal party, and noting any final payments or other vendor-related items that may require your attention. Having a bridal attendant in charge of keeping track of this list and your wedding day needs is a great way to incorporate an important member of your family or friend who couldn’t be a part of the bridal party while allowing you to relax more knowing someone there to help you through the day.

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If you feel lost or in need of some guidance, we offer page after page of valuable information and quality vendors within the pages of Veil Magazine. You can also find us online at VeilMagazine. com and follow us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest for hundreds of articles, advice and daily inspiration to carry you through from “Yes” to “I Do.” We would love to hear about your wedding day and all the wonderful details that went into it. Learn how to enter our UnVeiled Love Story contest online, and you could be featured in a future issue of Veil Magazine!

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Covered In

by Michelle Drewek

PHOTOGRAPHY By Erika Dufour for Debi Lilly/A Perfect Event and Windy City Linen Windy City Linen opened its doors in 2008 with just 2,500 square feet and three owners at the helm. They had no sales reps but themselves, and fulfilled deliveries in their cars until they hired their first full-time rep.

Not long after their humble start, they moved to a new location in 2009 to meet client demands, but quickly outgrew that space and within two years had to obtain a new section bringing their total square footage to 15,000. And, they are still growing! More recently they have expanded into a larger space that includes a beautiful showroom, as well as a sewing room so they can fabricate their own linens.

Kathy Carlson, a sales rep at Windy City Linen, worked in the hospitality industry prior to joining the team. She formed relationships and transitioned through several roles over the course of her career before coming full circle to where she is today. This extensive background, along with her abundant

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knowledge of the special events industry, has made her a valuable addition.

“Commitment to excellence is what we live by,” says Kathy. “We try to be as efficient as possible because our clients have so many other things they are working on and linen

or small. And although they are based in the Chicago area, Windy City Linen has recently begun to move business into Wisconsin.

The goal wasn’t just to grow business, but to reach out to a unique market with a beautiful product at a very competitive price, which will work within all budgets.

Despite not being based in Wisconsin, they are no more expensive for a couple as a result. In fact, they have local production crews that can set up and strike events, and delivery trucks are in the area twice each week. If anything, this expansion of their market from the Chicago area into Wisconsin has made their inventory grow should be the least of their worries.” due to the volume of events they can provide Windy City Linen has been trusted with a linen for. variety of well-known clients: Make-A-Wish “With clients’ ideas for personalizing their foundation, Lollapalooza and Cars.com, to events brings us an opportunity to collaborate name a few. Their team has experience to and select items that are one-of-a-kind and handle any event, wedding or corporate, big will also enhance and pair nicely with our own

Kathy Carlson WINDY CITY LINEN, LLC product offerings,” Kathy says.

To assist out-of-town clients, they’ve set up a helpful, convenient swatch request tool on their website for brides interested in the fabulous Windy City Linen selection of colors and textures.

“Some people want to see the fabric before they rent,” explains Kathy. “They can go on our website and select colors and fabrics they are interested in, and we will mail them swatches to use with the linen selection as well as for them to use for color matching and contrast will all of the other wedding decisions and details.”

Windy City Linen offers many beautiful and seasonal colors in their Classic, Lamour, Bengaline and Shantung Lines. They also carry the much-requested Pintuck and Crush fabrics. Last year they added a new Jute line, which is a softer version of burlap and natural-like fabrics. And, they are constantly adding new items to their already sensational inventory. This spring brought on new pattern cloths — Sanibel, Regency, Metropolitan, Silhouette and Savannah. And, their newest addition for the bridal market is Sequin Table Runners and cloths in blush, gold, silver and white.

Their products aren’t the only boast-worthy part of what they do. Windy City Linen has been told time and again by clients that their customer service is the best amongst their competitors. Their knowledgeable staff and friendly nature lend to that stellar reputation.

“A couple can expect to be assisted by a knowledgeable representative that can give them ideas on how linen will accent their event,” Kathy explains. “Sometimes the smallest things can be forgotten with so much planning to do, and we want to make that planning easier by being the expert on options, sizing, layouts, color combinations and any other assistance we can provide.

“We can do full cloths, overlays, napkins and runners. Custom does not have to be a full cloth. It may be something, likes napkins, to compliment an existing cloth. And, we can also print an image onto fabric. This can be a less expensive way to get a pattern you are wanting without paying for the expensive fabric. The depth and texture show up nicely on our Shantung, Jute or standard classic linens.”

As far as day-of service, you will be taken care of by their fabulous on-site staff that will assist with the setting up of the linen and chair covers for the event. They also add that when ordering chair cover, they include the chair tie at no additional cost. From start to finish, they have you covered!

“We enjoy what we do and we value each of our clients,” Kathy emphasizes. “We want to provide you with options, pricing and service that will exceed your expectations for you perfect day!”

Embrace perfection for your special day with our high-quality linens.

From Elegant patterns to classic solid colors, we make it easy for you. windycitylinen.com

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Choose Canopy

by Laura Vietmeyer

PHOTOGRAPHY Top and Bottom: Front Room Photography

Close your eyes and begin to imagine your wedding day. You can see how your color palette translates through each detail, hear your family and friends laughing, smell the amazing floral arrangements; every sight, sound and smell is distinctive. No one knows distinction better than Canopies Events with Distinction. With 26-plus years of industry experience, these experts in party rental equipment are more than just a tent and furniture company, they are creators, with a large assortment of offerings.

They can take your venue or outside event and work with you to create an unbelievable day.

The family-owned company was founded by the Hudak family in 1995. Since its inception, Ken’s charming wife, Joan, has been managing the tabletop side of things, making sure everything is in pristine condition, properly stored and ready for your big day. Joan’s talents extend beyond the business into her role as mother and grandmother. Joan raised her six children to treat others as they would like to be treated, a philosophy that shines through in her successful family business. The Canopies women include Joan and her daughters, Margo, Shelly, Danielle, Jackie and granddaughter Martha, all of whom greet customers with a contagious enthusiasm. Ken and Joan’s sons, David, who has perfected the technical side of event planning, and Steve, who handles the

production schedule, delivery teams and truck fleet, as well as Doug, Ken and Joan's nephew, who is responsible for sales and numerous front office duties, round out this brilliantly successful team. Together, Joan, Margo, Dave, Steve, Ken and the rest of the Canopies team can turn any outdoor area into a grand affair.

Throughout the years, Canopies has worked with many planners, venues and vendors.

Because of these relationships, they know what can be done and will go above and beyond their call of duty for you, working alongside your wedding day team. Their experience and respected reputation within the industry is another testament to not only how brilliant their work has been, but also how transcendent they can make your event. And, Canopies brings more than exceptional knowledge to the table. As your guests sit down to dinner, they will be wining from stemware and dining from high-end china thanks to their large, eclectic collection of glassware and china. But, an event with distinction wouldn’t be complete without a floor to dance the night away on. Canopies will make sure that from first bite to last dance, you and your guests are taken care of. They truly are the culmination of your wedding’s foundation. Best of all, their undying passion for their work makes every event not only one of detailed execution, but beautiful splendor.

What brings it all together is their unsurpassed customer service. It begins and ends with you, and they aren’t satisfied until they know they have gone above and beyond to make your once-in-a-lifetime happily ever after a complete success. They will work with you to see that each of your requests are taken care of, be it through them or with the help of one of their many industry connections. Canopies will always recommend the best fit for each event.

For them, it’s not about selling. Rather, it’s about what’s best for the final results.

Margo Hudak is one of the first people you will meet when booking a rental. Her pleasant, outgoing personality makes her a natural at her job of fielding phone calls and directing customers to the appropriate person at Canopies to assist them, or working with them herself if the event is a smaller one, for example, a rehearsal dinner or baby shower. Margo is happy to assist customers in whatever method they prefer, whether it is a personal meeting, call, email or even a text. The most rewarding part of her day is interacting with her clients to deliver them great customer service and quality rentals that go above and beyond what they could have imagined.

Another friendly face you will see at Canopies belongs to Jackie Kachelmeyer. She grew up around Canopies and handles a variety

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stemware

pink colored stemware

elegance gold dinnerware havana weave white china Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Baroque Gold Flatware, Glass w/ Gold Beads 13"

Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Manhattan Flatware, Black Marbella Glitter Charger

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Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Spencer Flatware, Vegas Charger Plate 13"

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square white China

Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Baquette Flatware, Square Dinner Plates 10"

During your interactions with Canopies, you’ll also likely meet Doug Barzyk, who works in sales for Canopies, bringing with him over 20 years of experience in the Milwaukee event rental industry. He’s also a graduate of UW-Milwaukee and served for two years of active duty in the Army and 19 years in the Army Reserves. In sales, Doug meets a lot of people, measures a lot of yards, and is familiar with many venues. He’s customer focused and driven to give you the best results!

Doug has worked on many events over the years, and no two events are alike. “What I like about my job is that because no two events are the same, no two days for me are the same,” he says. From May through DAV ID HU DAK MARGO HUDAK JACKIE KACH E LM E YE R October, he spends more time out of the office than in as he meets clients, of services—everything from working in the office to working in the inspects job sites, completes walk-throughs and supervises installations. warehouse. She might even be out for your delivery as the event is set up. Doug does hands-on work to reach his goal, which is for each customer “I really enjoy working with the people, meaning both my coworkers and to be completely satisfied with their rental experience and to help them customers. I know that planning a major event—or even just throwing a navigate through the planning and execution of an event with as little house party—can be stressful, so it's fulfilling knowing that we can help stress as possible. When asked what advice he has for clients, Doug says make things amazing, or just easier for the client,” Jackie says. that it’s best to get started sooner than later. “It is never too early to begin When it comes to event planning and choosing what you want out of the rental process or to place your rental order. The sooner you begin, a venue, Jackie says it’s important for clients to decide what they truly the more likely what you are looking for will be available,” Doug says. want, and then the Canopies staff will make their event special for both Canopies Events with Distinction is focused on making the best them and their guests to be remembered for years to come. “I think we memories for you and your family and friends. do a good job of getting to know the specific needs or desires of our clients. If you take the time to come in and talk with us, we do our very best to make your vision a reality,” Jackie says.

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Wedding Décor

by Jon Murrish

SKETCHES AND PHOTOS COURTESY OF Kathy Maersch - Barking Pony Studios By the time you contact us, you have made one of the most important decisions of your lifetime. In celebration of this commitment, you both will treasure the company of those people most important to you. Once that special day arrives, you will have made dozens of additional decisions about how you wish it to be, perhaps hundreds.

Not surprisingly, you may be new at this. You probably have friends and family members offering assistance with the details of your wedding day.

Take it, but do so cautiously. These people know you best, and may have insight into your personal style that goes unnoticed to you.

They may, at times, need to be reminded that this is your day. Be patient and hear them out, gently reminding them that your wishes and vision need to remain their priority.

Every venue, whether for a service, reception, or both, will offer opportunities as well

as challenges, not always in equal measure. For over 20 years, the artists of Barking Pony Studios have met these challenges and developed these opportunities in all manner of spaces.

Your individual style can grace any place you choose. Among the possibilities are tents, hotel

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ballrooms, private residences, museums, country clubs, restaurants, warehouses, barns, and even open fields. We work closely with your venue staff in determining what the facility will

allow, as well as provide, in the way of flexibility to make your plans work.

Once you have established the where and when, it is time to think about what it is you wish to accomplish with your decor decisions.

Having a vision, as well as a budget in mind is paramount at this point. Our experience in assisting couples in focusing that vision has served to make each aspect of the experience as simple and straightforward as it must be. Over the years we have incorporated fabrics, crystals, and an array of natural materials into our work, and will offer samples of these for your consideration. We only get one chance to make this day spectacular, which does not mean that it has to be difficult. You have plenty to do, and we know that.

When your guests walk in, you want them to remember what they see at that moment, forever. This is where their experience begins,

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and it should be nothing short of captivating. We urge our clients to use as much of the available space as possible. A few large signature focal points is usually more desirable than a scattering of small objects that ultimately get overlooked, and forgotten. Large rooms or tents with high ceilings offer great possibilities for stunning fabric treatments, as well as beautiful custom light fixtures, of which we have made many. There are times that a particular feature of a room should be covered, perhaps eliminating an unsightly painting or object that you’d rather not see in your photographs.

Online resources, such as Pinterest, can be helpful in developing your vision, and they can at the same time cause great confusion. We urge you

to use your best judgement, and narrow your focus toward those aspects of your personalities that will best translate into a stunning visual experience for you and your guests. Our experience has shown us that these websites tend to make novices into experts almost overnight, at least in the minds of some people who have never had to “make it happen”.

Combining the ideas you have collected with our artistic portfolio is an efficient and cost effective way to put your priorities in order.

Excellence requires preparation. With that in mind, we offer a unique set of services that will help set your wedding day apart from those that simply occupy the memories of your families and friends. Would you rather follow a trend, or set one? It’s your call.

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We Made It

by Laura Vietmeyer

Matt is from Wisconsin, and Sarah is from Virginia. After meeting at Marquette University, the relationship weathered summers apart, a two-year long distance relationship after college, and a proposal that didn’t go exactly as Matt had planned. Through it all, the couple bound their lives together and were wed before 122 guests at the Church of the Gesu, located on the campus where they first became a couple.

Sarah and Matt met at Marquette on her very first day of class. She was shadowing one of the weekly radio shows and was brought on the air, which meant that their first conversation was on Marquette Radio. After a year as friends and classmates, they began dating.

In the beginning, they had to spend summers apart, but that didn’t stop them from realizing that they would be married one day. “I was pretty sure he was ‘The One’ within a few weeks of dating, but I knew for sure around two and a half years

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in. We took a trip to San Francisco and had a blast. After that, we knew we were going to get married,” Sarah says.

Matt adds, “I knew pretty early on that Sarah was the one. She wasn’t like any other girl I’d ever met. I knew right away we would be together a long time, and it wasn't long after that I figured out she was the woman I was going to marry.”

After college, Sarah moved to New York City for work. Matt had been thinking of different ways to propose throughout the relationship, but he was waiting until

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he knew where they would be after college. Knowing that they would be settling in New York, he researched places to propose and even hired a photographer to capture the moment. Things didn’t go as planned, however.

“I was going to tell her I was going to be running late at the airport and for her to meet me at brunch in Long Island City, which is just east of Manhattan. I would get there early, talk to the photographer I hired, and then the surprise would happen. It seemed simple enough,” Matt says. “But on my flight from Milwaukee, I saw a friend from high school. We both had some time to kill before getting to where we needed to go, so we decided to get breakfast at the LaGuardia. Sarah decided to surprise me at the airport, though, and it was pretty obvious I'd been lying to her, so she naturally got upset.”

Matt quickly came up with an alternate plan. He recruited his friend and two guys who were eating breakfast at the table next to them, and they went to find Sarah. “I told her, ‘I hope you know you ruined everything,’ and went on to propose to her at LaGuardia Airport,” Matt says.

The couple started calling family and friends from the airport to share the good news. They tried to tell as many people in person or over the phone as they could before posting a photo on Facebook a month later. Then it was time to start planning.

Photography was most important to the couple in the planning process. “We knew we wanted to have the day documented so we could look back at the wedding. We’re

so excited to hang the pictures up in our new apartment,” Sarah says.

Sarah found her dress unexpectedly. “I went to a store in New York with my mom, just to try on dresses for fun, and ended up finding my dress!” She had a veil made by a friend, some comfortable nude heels, pearls, and her mom’s diamond earrings.

When Sarah walked down the aisle, Matt through to himself, “Wow, this is finally happening.” He further explains, “We spent a lot of our relationship apart, in different cities, different parts of the country. I kept telling Sarah we needed to be patient and we’d finally be together. We were in the same city prior to the wedding, but it clicked when I saw her that day. We made it.”

Through the whole experience, Matt says the people who attended the wedding were the most important part of the day. “We were able to get so many people that are close to us there, and it meant the world to me to share our special day with them.”

“Seeing everyone there at the church and the reception, was a little overwhelming, in a good way,” Sarah adds.

Looking back on the wedding day and planning process, Sarah recommends that brides keep at least one save the date, invitation and program. She also offers the following advice: “Don’t listen to other people about what would make a fun/great/cool wedding. Choose what you and your husband enjoy and let your personality shine through.”

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by Claire Swinarski & Michelle Drewek Finding the perfect wedding venue can seem like a daunting task. You’ve been dreaming of this day for ages, and the location will set the stage for the best day of your life. But when you’re on the hunt for that perfect space, remember that with the right team of experts, any space can become the setting for your fairytale.

Take The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel in Milwaukee’s Third Ward, for instance. The hotel offers an array of options for everything from the bridal shower to the morning-after gift opening, all with the Midwestern charm of Milwaukee built right in! Above you can see the

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breathtaking views offered to guests in this ideal pre- or post-wedding event space, and inside are exciting opportunities waiting to be unlocked.

Brides and grooms are afforded flexibility to make it exactly what they’ve envisioned by incorporating an orchestra of florals, a delicious menu, and decorations to die for. By utilizing a team of professionals that can work together to showcase the colors, textures, shapes and unique features of your space, you are able to elevate your expectations to those that exceed your wildest dreams. Put simply, the pros have the picture-perfect recipe for design success!

The following spread demonstrates just how transformative a vision can be with the right eyes working on it. Some of the best vendors in Wisconsin—including événement planning, Jane Kelly Floral, Windy City Linen, Sound By Design, Front Room Photography, Canopies Events With Distinction, and Miss Molly’s Pastries—came together to transform The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel into a fabulous, gorgeously designed space. To see more about how this all-star artisan team worked together, visit our website and Facebook to check out our behind the scenes video shot by Sound By Design Films.

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The Lounge:

The Ballroom Foyer:

Janelle Meyer-Brown from événement planning was inspired by the eccentricity of the Third Ward and wanted to incorporate the elements found outside to the indoors of this beautiful 2nd floor ballroom space. The colors of the light posts on the streets were utilized, along with accents of brass like those you see throughout the hotel. Janelle was inspired by how simple the room can be, and yet how dynamic you can make it with all the right details. Golden florals worked well atop a tabletop set with items paying homage to Wisconsin favorites—brews, cheese boards and Miss Molly’s Pastries’ delectable apple pie, all of which pairs perfectly with the bustling Third Ward and Hoan Bridge just outside the windows. The copper accents add another level of depth to the sophisticated color palette, going perfectly with pops of color in the downtown-inspired pillows and room décor. The lounge transforms from a modest hotel lounge to the ideal place for guests to mingle in merriment.

In the foyer of the ballroom, the design team used tans, ivories and vibrant arrangements to give the room an elegant ambiance that complemented the bright red carpet. There’s no window in the room, so votive candles were used to brighten up the space and add a touch of formality. The copper and glass details provide a wonderful juxtapose for the bright accents that were brought into the space, along with those already in place. The neutral tones provided the opportunity to feature a lot of lively colors to fit the palette tastes of the wedded couple. Within the design, Kathy Carlson of Windy City Linen selected the Sanibel and Regency cloths, ideal for this space, as they are neutral colors that emanate elegance with dimension, texture and geometric details. She purposefully gathered and pinned the cloths in a random fashion to show the undercloths in a more whimsical approach then the typical uniform swaging method.

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The Ballroom: The design team was bubbling with excitement at the possibilities this raw space held. Kelly of Jane Kelly Floral said the goal with the flower arrangements was to go bright. The color palette is quite neutral in nature, so bringing in a punch of pigment is exactly what this space was calling for. Different hues of pinks and oranges were incorporated into the florals, and Kelly used a variety of blossoms—such as peonies, snap dragons, larkspur and roses—along with intertwined vines and green hanging amaranthus to encapsulate an enchanted aura. Keeping with the copper elements of the hotel, accents were added in the candleholders and custom-made geometric copper florals stands inspired by the geometric chandeliers in the ballroom. The Sound By Design lighting team created a dazzling ambiance, which inspired Kelly to suspend round orbs from the chandelier to sprinkle candlelight down to the table. Kathy once again added her imaginative approach to draping the linens in a playful swag, but this time reversed the fabric setup from the Ballroom Foyer to beautifully transition between the two spaces.

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Get The Look: FLORAL DÉCOR & CUSTOM DÉCOR PIECES: Jane

Kelly Floral INVITATION & STATIONERY: Terri Blahnik, Veil Magazine LIGHTING: Sound By Design LINEN & NAPKIN RENTALS: Windy City Linen LOUNGE FURNITURE RENTAL: événement lounge event rentals PHOTOGRAPHY: Front Room Photography TABLE, CHAIRS & STEMWARE RENTALS:

Canopies Events with Distinction VENUE LOCATION: The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel VIDEOGRAPHY: Sound By Design Films WEDDING CAKE & DESSERTS: Miss Molly's Pastries WEDDING PLANNING & DESIGN: événement planning

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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography Most brides have been thinking about their wedding day since they were little girls.

Dreams of the perfect dress, delicious cake and ornate décor dance around in our heads for years before we meet “the one.” When the day comes that the love of our life asks us to marry them, the idea of planning a wedding seems so natural.

But as easy as it was for our childhood fantasies to take flight, reality quickly grounds a bride as the list of to-dos begins to grow.

Before you press the panic button, take a step back from jumping headfirst into intensive planning and look to the ultimate wedding resource available to the modern-day bride.

Bridal shows are the best place to let your eyes and intuition guide you. Instead of having to spend countless hours of time and energy researching, calling and meeting with a myriad of vendors separately, a bridal show gives you the opportunity to meet with numerous experts for every facet of your wedding day under one roof in a single afternoon.

Once you determine which show(s) you want to attend, take time to prepare so you can make the most out of this incredible opportunity. Start by printing off a list of vendors that will be there so you can highlight those you absolutely want to speak with. Then, come up with a general list of questions you can ask each vendor for a specific need (i.e. florists, ca-

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terers, DJs, etc.). After the show, filter through all of the information that was handed out to you, keep those you want to learn more about, and review the notes you took when speaking with vendors.

You can easily compare their answers to figure out what you like and don’t like, discover new ideas you never would’ve thought up on your own and figure out whom you want to do a follow-up meeting with. By now you will most likely have a good grasp on who you “clicked” with, and can drastically narrow down the field of vendors you will take the time to have an individual meeting with post-show.

Besides doing your due diligence to collect information while you are at the show, it’s equally important to let your intuition guide you. Vendors will have a display set up showcasing their unique styles and services. It can be visual overload, but if you stay focused you can begin to see what you are drawn to and better envision what you want your wedding day to look and feel like.

Don’t be afraid to tell them when something doesn’t match the style you are going for. A true professional will be accommodating and have a different sample to show you, or perhaps even give you a recommendation of someone they feel is a better match for the specific need you are looking to fulfill.

If you are too intimidated to talk to vendors right off the bat, try easing your way into the process by speaking with other brides in attendance. You can gain insight from someone that is in the same boat as you, and get advice from their own time spent researching. Who knows, they may be doing something unique at their wedding that you might consider for yourself as well.

Finally, make sure you stop by the Veil Magazine booth or check your gift bags for the latest issue of Veil Magazine. Wedding magazine publishers have been in the business for a while and more than likely have worked with many of the vendors in attendance (or showcased weddings that used featured vendors). They’re in this business to provide information for brides and would love to meet and speak with each and every one of you!

Bridal shows truly are the time to stop around and meet various artisans under one roof, which can save you time. Best of all, you are the #1 priority of every professional in attendance. In a room full of brides-to-be, everyone will make sure you feel truly exceptional and important. It’s an unbelievably positive experience that not only takes a layer of pressure out of the planning process, but also allows you to embrace the special feeling that comes along with being a bride.

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“You’ll feel empowered, inspired, informed and better prepared for the planning that lies ahead. This is a must attend show!”

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Canopies Events with Distinction WEDDING PLANNING & DESIGN

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Bridesmaid’s Dresses: Gigi’s of Mequon Calligraphy: Jan Harland Ceremony & Reception Location: Milwaukee Country Club Ceremony Music & Reception Band: Ron Bedel Orchestra and Suzuki Strings Flowers: Esther Flemming Hair: Harpo’s Classical and Innovative Invitations & Stationery: Three Wishes Lighting: Majic Productions Linen Rentals: BBJ Linen Makeup: Blush Men's Formalwear: Men's Wearhouse Officiant: Dr. John Zimmermann Photo Booth Rental: Shutterbooth Photography & Videography: Artist Group Wedding Cake: Dina’s Cakes Wedding Gown: Zita Bridal Salon

PERSONAL TOUCHES Tess and Jake had a close family friend perform a solo during the ceremony, and her best friend’s father married them.

All of the Lights

by Laura Vietmeyer

Tess and Jake were best friends for three years before everything finally fell into place. Their relationship took them overseas and back, and led to a fairytale wedding before nearly 400 guests. They were even surprised with a recreation of Love Actually when the band played “All You Need Is Love” at the end of the ceremony. “There wasn’t a dry eye in the house.”

OUR LOVE STORY Tessa: Jake and I met our freshman year of college. We were both dating other people but he quickly became one of my best friends. It took us three years to both be single at the same time! We’ve had so many special moments. About 10 months into our relationship, we moved to Florence, Italy, for six months. Fast forward three years to Valentine’s Day 2016, I woke up to find that Jake had recreated our living room from Florence in our home here. Needless to say, there were a lot of happy tears that day.

Jake: I knew this was “it” pretty quickly into the relationship. I remember waking

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up one morning and thinking, “Wow, I am really happy!” It didn’t take long to trace my happiness back to Tess.

THE PROPOSAL He proposed after running his first marathon in Rome, Italy.

He had an elaborate plan but things kept getting in the way, so he asked me in our apartment after the race. It was simple, just us, and perfect.

We texted and called our closest friends and then announced it on Facebook with a photo of us wearing Florentine soccer jerseys. The back of his said “Meier” and

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the back of mine said “Meier-To-Be.” KEY RESOURCE Our wedding planner, Janelle Meyer-Brown! She is ABSOLUTELY incredible. We could not have done this without her!

BRIDAL PARTY Tessa: Jake had nine groomsmen, I had six bridesmaids and my two brothers stood on my side as “bridesmen.”

Jake: Including friends and family was most important to me, which is why I had nine groomsmen. I knew it wouldn’t be easy for people to travel to us from out of state, so I did what I could to help out the groomsmen with their suits and overnight stays.

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Twinkle lights! I wanted the ceiling of the tent to be entirely covered in twinkle lights. Majic Productions said they had never before used this many lights. It was stunning.

shoes. I wore earrings and a bracelet borrowed from my mom, and my veil was specially made to match the tone set by the dress.

FIRST LOOK Jake: I definitely cried right away. Then I remember thinking, “Wow, she is absolutely gorgeous!”

BIG SURPRISE My mom knew that Love Actually is my favorite movie and I’ve always been in love with the wedding scene. She worked with Janelle and our band, and had musicians stationed in the seats with the guests. Right before we were going to walk back down the aisle at the end of the ceremony, they recreated that scene from the movie and sang/played “All You Need Is Love”. It was spectacular. There wasn’t a dry eye there.

FUNNY MOMENT We got married outside on a golf course, and at the beginning of the ceremony my nephew, who was 18 months old at the time, took off down the fairway to play in the sand traps. TOO cute.

FIRST DANCE We worked with our amazing band, The Ron Bedel Orchestra, and used the intro from “I Won’t Dance” and blended it with the beginning of “It Had to Be You,” both by Frank Sinatra. I stood in front of Jake with my hand extended, asking him to dance, to which he replied with a shake of his head. The music blended the two songs, “I won’t dance, madame, with you. It had to be you.”

And he stood up and spun me onto the dance floor.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE My dress was called Skyler by Augusta Jones. It was a beautiful mermaid gown covered in lace. It had a scalloped neckline, cap sleeves and a gorgeous V back covered in lace. My shoes were Manolo Blahnik’s Swan

ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES It’s actually good luck if it rains on your wedding day, and chances are you won’t even notice because you’ll be too focused on how happy you are. If you’re having the time of your lives, your guests will too!

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PHOTOGRAPHY Robyn Vining Photography Are you obsessing over venues, menus, flowers, décor and everything wedding-related? Do you have a list of to-dos without the slightest clue about where you should begin tackling it?

So many details go into planning a wedding that it can be difficult to manage event coordination along with your career and personal life. Save time and eliminate anxiety by hiring a professional to guide you through the process.

The ideal wedding planner is reliable, stylish, personable, professional, organized and detailoriented. It is vital to choose the right person so you can enjoy the excitement of your wedding day without worry. Because this person will be such a vital part of successfully planning and executing your wedding day dreams—as well as avoiding potential pitfalls and costly mistakes—you’ll want to do your due diligence in finding your perfect planner that will provide you with confidence and composure during this whirlwind of excitement and anticipation.

When vetting a planner, look for someone with experience. Be sure they have references and known their industry background. The caliber of wedding planners varies, and beware

of hiring a friend as a planner. Even if someone managed to successfully plan their own wedding, that doesn’t mean they have the ability to orchestrate other people’s events. Professional planners are prepared for any situation, as they have encountered many challenges throughout their years in the business. There is no substitute for experience and reputation.

Experienced planners embrace opportunities to network with vendors and uncover trends.

They attend educational seminars to keep upto-date on what’s hot from coast-to-coast. But just because something is trendy doesn’t mean it will automatically fit your particular event.

That’s why it’s important for a planner to know how to help the bride and groom find their own style and apply it in a way that provides a timeless and beautiful event.

When interviewing planners, it is important to determine their business acumen. Ask how payments to vendors are made, how the planner charges, what exactly the planner does on the wedding day, what paperwork the planner provides, and to see an updated portfolio of work. You should receive a clear, direct answer

to these questions.

Finally, it's always best to hire a planner that you ‘click’ with. This is so important because you will be working closely with this person and it’s such a personal and momentous occasion in your life. You want it to be fun and enjoyable along the way. Having a planner that you can be open and honest with is important.

Planners absolutely love their personal connections with the couples, and they foster that by spending a lot of time with them, even hosting dinners in their homes just to hang out. They remain in touch with most of their couples long after their big day.

Great wedding planners love what they do, and this enthusiasm carries through to your event. The best thing a couple can do for themselves is to hire a qualified wedding planner that can maximize their budget, create their ultimate fantasy experience and have fun while doing it. Afterward, you will look back on the months leading up to your wedding day with true fondness, knowing you planned the wedding you always wanted with the true calm only a professional can provide.

Planning Tips What vendors do you have a good working relationship with?

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What is your involvement in the setup, takedown and day-of activities, as well as your time during the entire planning process?

Can I see a portfolio of other weddings you've planned?

Do you have anyone else help you, like an assistant, or are you a one-person show?

Chris Albrecht LET'S HAVE AN AFFAIR

CHRIS ALBRECHT and Let’s Have an Affair are no longer Southeastern Wisconsin’s best kept secret after winning The Knot’s, Best of Weddings. With a tag line like, “We listen, We create, You celebrate” she is a clients dream come true for planning the perfect wedding day. All of the pressure of planning and executing the wedding is shifted from the bride and her family to Chris allowing everyone involved

to enjoy a stress free event.

From the time a bride gets engaged until they are on their way to their honeymoon there is an overwhelming and cumbersome amount of details and planning involved. Chris will alleviate that making the planning experience one that is smooth, organized, relaxing and fun. Her vendor contacts locally are extensive and she will effortlessly guide you to whoever best meets your needs best through the planning process.

There is nothing too small or too big for Chris as she has covered a wide range of parties over her many years of being in the special events industry.

When asked about her experience with Chris, a client noted that, “Throughout the entire planning process, Chris will dazzle you with her devotion to detail. She has the uncanny knack with staying five steps ahead of everything. Her

persistent follow-through allows you to sit back and enjoy the planning process.”

Chris informs all of her clients to “Be a guest at your own wedding.” Clients can be assured every detail will be attended to throughout the planning process. Behind the scenes she will be covering all the fine particulars so that everything runs seamlessly from start to finish.

Let Chris be your one stop shop for all your wedding and planning needs. Save yourself time, money and stress by selecting Let’s Have an Affair to partner with you to create memories that will last a lifetime and allow you to truly cherish each moment of your memorable day.

For more information, contact Chris Albrecht at 262-691-3303 or visit her website www. letshaveanaffair.com

“CHRIS INFORMS ALL OF HER CLIENTS TO ‘BE A GUEST AT YOUR OWN WEDDING’”

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Andrea VandeBerg & Sarah Sarbacker CHERRY BLOSSOM EVENTS

ANDREA VANDEBERG AND SARAH SARBACKER of Cherry Blossom Events are passionate about creating beautiful and cohesive weddings that truly express each couple’s unique personality. They take great pride in planning elegant events filled with rich meaning for both newlyweds and their guests. Your wedding day is an incredibly special occasion, and you deserve only the best as you celebrate your love and commitment to one another. Their goal is to make you the priority on that unforgettable day by providing you with the expert guidance you need. All you have to do is enjoy the wedding of your dreams.

“From the very beginning I felt extremely at ease and comfortable with Cherry Blossom Events. You can immediately tell how passionate they are about what they do. As a bride, I was so pleased that they were as concerned as I was about pulling together the entire wedding.

The amount of passion and hard work they put into events is truly impressive. If you want to work with individuals who are experienced, organized, detail oriented, creative, passionate, hardworking, and FUN, I HIGHLY recommend the Cherry Blossom Events team.” — Amanda Kastner (Bride)

vow to take the time to get to know you, because your wedding should reflect YOUR tastes. Every couple is different, and therefore, each one of our celebrations is one-of-a-kind. We love melding our experience in design with our sense of style and attention to detail, in order to turn your dreams into a reality.

“We had vendors who have been in the wedding industry for 20 years tell us that they had never seen more hard-working or organized coordinators – quite a compliment, and very well-deserved.

On top of it all, they are genuine, caring women and really just wanted to make sure that we were happy with everything.”

— Christine Khosropour (Bride)

“EVERY COUPLE IS DIFFERENT, AND THEREFORE, EACH ONE OF OUR CELEBRATIONS IS ONE-OF-A-KIND” At Cherry Blossom Events, our designers treat each wedding as if it is our own.

We pay meticulous attention to every detail, because we are completely devoted to making sure your event is absolutely perfect. We believe that understanding and identifying the needs of every client is the key to creating beautiful experiences. We

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If the two of you could be satisfied with average, you wouldn’t be with each other. For this reason, brides and grooms who view their relationship as unique are choosing to have their wedding rings custom made to reflect their personal tastes, lifestyles and experiences.

Contrary to popular belief, custom made jewelry costs no more than common, ready-made styles. Getting exactly what you want doesn’t mean spending more; it just means your wedding rings are one of a kind with style with choices along the way to fit your budget.

At David Liska, a Custom Jeweler in Milwaukee, David makes the custom design process easy and non-intimidating. As a professional goldsmith and award-winning jewelry designer with 25 years of experience, David feels there is no greater thrill than helping customers to design their special piece.

“There are literally thousands of style combinations out there,” David said. “I have a simple, systematic series of questions to help determine style and design elements.”

One example of a couple that loved their custom

rings is that of Mary and John. The first time Mary saw John, they were in St. Robert Church in Shorewood, which has a beautiful round window above its confessionals. This light-filled, enchanting window became a symbol of their

love. When planning their wedding, which was held in that same church, they asked David Liska, a Custom Jeweler in Milwaukee, to create custom wedding bands carved with the window design.

The artwork created for the rings was also used in their wedding program.

The resulting church window-inspired rings were perfect for the couple.

By setting a private appointment and discussing some basic parameters up front regarding diamond selections, you can view diamonds in the right quality and size to fit your budget. Most diamonds are brilliant by themselves, but comparing them side-byside, with differences pointed out, can help you to arrive at a confident decision. If you’re planning to go the custom route, take some time flipping through the pages of Veil to get a grasp on what kind of look you’re aiming for. David can then use basic design elements

Planning Tips What style do you want for your ring? Classic/Traditional, Contemporary/Modern, Renaissance/Antique, or something else?

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Are there any special details you want incorporated?

What kind of stone and shape do you love?

Do you and your husband want matching rings, or do you want something a little different?

to create a 3D wax model incorporating your specific requests. For really complex designs and convenience, he uses highly advanced technology to create photos of what the piece will look like prior to carving the mold.

David loves incorporating special design elements to rings to make them extra special to the couple. Often, these special elements are symbols, such as the couple’s initials, a design element that symbolizes an ethnic upbringing, or special interests such as the sun, Spanish fans, architectural influences. One of David’s favorite custom designs was for a Marine who, with his girlfriend-an architect by trade--was very fond of sunrises and touring famous architectural buildings. The Marine proposed to her during a sunrise at the Vatican in Rome. For this special rose gold ring, David discreetly incorporated a sunrise design carved out between two Corinthians columns, a favorite architectural design of hers, supporting the halo of diamonds that contained the center stone, a deep blue sapphire.

A fabulous piece of jewelry will never go out of style. David said some current trends in rings

include rose gold engagement rings followed by a mix in metals with rose and white gold. The halo style is still popular, as is using gemstones as center stones. If you’re designing a custom ring and want to be a little outside-the-box, David suggests looking into sapphire, which comes in all colors, or morganite or aquamarine. For the guys?

Serinium is a popular material for wedding bands; it’s hypo-allergenic and majorly scratch resistant.

If you aren’t planning to help pick out your ring, it can be nerve-wracking to trust your man to choose something you’ll love. When it comes purchasing an engagement ring, sometimes the couples come in together, but when the man comes in alone, he is often in need of guidance on many levels. Some girlfriends will leave subtle clues or give specifics, but when the man truly wants to surprise her but has no idea what to do, jewelers like David can help provide the confidence! David can help him recognize her tastes through a series of simple questions to provide clues to determine her style. David spends many hours getting to know his clients and likes to know how they met and what type of activities they enjoy together.

This establishes a more personal connection and is the type of relationship building that puts a person at ease and fosters friendship. Through this trust and David's process, his rings become an integral part of the couple’s relationship.

Considering purchasing a ring online? David suggests you think again. With precious metals, rings may look similar, leading you to believe you’re getting a great bargain. Rings may have the same width but vary in thickness or weight. But similar-looking alternative metals can have major long-term issues. With regard to diamonds, even if they’re certified, colors and clarity, can look very different. There’s no way to tell how accurate the descriptions are without comparing them in person and viewing the diamonds side by side.

So whether you’ve had your ring picked out since you were a little girl or you’re looking for something completely unique, David Liska has you covered. Your dream can become a wearable reality, and every time you glance at your finger, you’ll be reminded of how much love was put into such a small piece of jewelry!

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Making it

PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography For many brides, the choice is an easy one: marry inside the church. Whether it’s the local place of worship you attend every weekend, or where your parents were wed years earlier, there’s usually a sentimental or traditional reason to share your wedding vows where you often say your prayers. However, for some couples, a house of worship doesn’t make sense. Perhaps you come from two very different faiths, and to choose one over the other would offend family or feel odd for both of you. Maybe you are outdoor adventurers, and saying “I Do” on a cliff overlooking Lake Michigan makes far more sense than under a roof. Whatever the case for the significance of your more unusual, outdoor, or unorthodox

ceremony locale, finding an officiant to oversee which means they are able and willing to properly and legal sanction your vows is both a marry brides and grooms of various faiths, personal and necessary piece to your wedding traditions and backgrounds. While he or she will come equipped with a long list of activities that can occur within the ceremony, they are always open to interpretation of traditions that may be special to you as a couple, or incorporating new ideas that would not be allowed in a more traditional setting.

An officiant will also usually come with a “bare bones” script, which is the minimal that must happen and be said during a ceremony to make day. it legal and binding. However, there is also a Usually, officiants who marry couples outside huge amount of leeway and room for addition of a church environment are nondenominational, within that script, allowing couples to add one

Planning Tips Attendants are a great help. Ask them to run errands – this way, you don’t look stressed or worn out.

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Walk down the aisle imagining what you will be thinking when you kiss your groom; this will help you maintain your confidence even if you are nervous.

Never drink anything colored.

Abstain from drinking alcohol until after the photographer is finished.

Don’t lock your knees at the altar; it can cause you to faint.

or multiple readings or write their own vows, for instance.

Officiants can be lawyers or judges, practicing or retired. They can be nondenominational ministers, rabbis or ordained through online services such as those offered through Universal Life Church. It’s especially important to vouch your officiant. Ask for references and actually speak to past couples about their experiences with the officiant in the planning stages and during the actual wedding day. Meet with your intended officiant before booking to see if you feel comfortable with him or her and where they are open to unique additions to your wedding day. Veil Magazine also offers options for you to consider.

A professional officiant will be able to offer information that will help you coordinate your wedding ceremony so that it runs smoothly and appropriately. Below are some pointers to help you get started in the planning of your own vows.

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Things can get a little crazy as you plan your wedding. This is a special time, a good time and an exciting time! But even special, good and exciting times can bring with them stress. Being engaged is a dreamy, emotional, sometimes panicky and stressful roller coaster.

It isn’t long after you make your first calls to loved ones to tell them the great news that people will begin to ask if you have a date set, if you found a dress, where will it be, etc. In a split second, you go from the proposal to planning a wedding and, if you're not careful, preparing for the actual marriage can very quickly get left behind.

It’s important to take a step back and remember the engagement is not forever. It has a beginning and an end, both of which include those moments you depict on top of fancy cakes. And there is a lot of planning in the middle that can bring about a lot of busyness, and sometimes a lot of stress. The closer that you are to the end, the sooner you want it to be over. And then it is.

On the other hand, it is important to keep sight on what the engagement helps you work toward. Your relationships, including your relationship with your partner, continue long after your engagement is complete. In your

engagement, you and your fiancĂŠ are, by the very nature of relationships, building your marriage. You are getting to know one another and are defining your priorities.

You are also setting your communication patterns and establishing how you navigate conflict. Planning a wedding brings to light how you are (wonderfully) different. You are learning to work as a team. And your engagement officially ends the moment you walk down that aisle and out in to the world together as a brand new team.

So, we've put together a guide on how to help you plan your new life together.

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WALK TOGETHER DOWN THE marriage is just the two of you. People will 4. COMMUNICATE. AISLE AND INTO THE WORLD. have advice for you—good advice, healthy Planning a wedding can squeeze out a lot of There is this moment that I, as a photographer, see often. I see the faces of our couples right after that "You may kiss the bride" moment.

I see your eyes shift toward all of your family members and friends. I see your shoulders turn toward the aisle. I see you standing there, hand in hand, with all the excitement in the world on your faces. And then I watch you take your first steps as a husband and wife, down the aisle and into the world.

You are a team, a freshly minted team ready to face the world…together.

No marriage is like your marriage, no dynamic like yours. Each of you is a distinct individual, and together you will create a unique team. You will walk down the aisle and into the world together, with a marriage the world has never seen before.

And it's going to be fantastic! But first, you will need to figure out who you are and how you’ll work together on this team.

advice, helpful advice. And people will also get too close, infringe on your space or climb into your world. No one else is a part of your marriage. Not in-laws, not friends, not pets.

Your marriage is set apart from the rest of your lives. Of course you have other people in your lives, but now there are parts of your lives that are just for the two of you.

On your wedding day, you are choosing to give yourselves to each other. There is no a

2. CREATE THE CENTERPIECE OF YOUR HOME. As you plan your wedding, you'll likely think about centerpieces. And to think about centerpieces, you'll likely think about who you are as people. Centerpiece design if often a reflection of the couple; what you love and what you love to do. This type of reflection is similar in marriage. As you merge your lives together you will create a home, and you get to decide what will be central to it. Comfort? Peace? Fun? Adventure?

Will your newly minted life together be built on traditions? Spontaneity? Both? Will your home be open to hospitality or kept intimate?

Your home will be built on certain foundational blocks that will support these centerpieces of who you are as individuals and who are you are as a team. Talk through the kind of home you want to create together. Ask questions, design together and figure out how to mix together what you each love, as well as what you hope for in your future.

greater gift that you can give and there is no a greater gift that you can receive. On your wedding day, you make the choice to give and receive that greatest gift with one person. You choose them above all others, trusting them with all that you have and accepting all that they are. In marriage you give and receive, and continue to give and receive with your spouse in ways that are unique and sacred.

This changes life. All of a sudden best friends take a different role. Parents take a different role. Your marriage rises up above all your other relationships, and at least initially 3. FIND THE SACREDNESS that can be challenging. Give yourselves room OF MARRIAGE. for the adjustment. Expect to fail as you settle Whether or not marriage is religious to in. Extend grace to each other as you shift into you and your fiancé, marriage is sacred. Your this new world as a married couple.

chatter about your relationship and your future marriage by the mere fact that there are so many details involved in planning and only so many words that can be spoken in a day. Don't let this happen. Carve out time to work on communication now, and work on how you want communication to evolve as you get married.

One of the best things you can do for communication in your relationship is to talk.

Sounds elementary, doesn’t it? Yet so many times we forget to keep talking with one another and take for granted that our loved one knows a lot about us. We tend to assume that means we can talk less over time, but in reality we need to continue the conversation. And one of the best ways to talk through life each day is to ask questions. Sometimes you ask questions of your spouse, sometimes of yourself.

Here are some questions we have found helpful: • Am I clearly and accurately expressing myself?

• Am I listening to understand my fiancé (spouse)?

• Is it worth an argument?

• Am I acting in love?

• Is it just about winning?

•A m I giving my fiancé (spouse) the benefit of the doubt?

Engagement can be stressful, but it is a special time set aside for nurturing your relationship before you make your marriage vows. Don't let all of the wedding planning prevent you from building a marriage that starts right with that first kiss.

We'll be continuing this series on Building a Marriage with the hot-button topics of Sex and Money. Stay tuned by following us on Facebook and Instagram, as well as our blog and digital edition. Cheers to your newlywed year!

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Destination Amor

by Michelle Drewek

Lindsay and Josh met on the job in 2007, but not long after found new career opportunities 2 hours apart. For 3 years they continued to fall in love with hours between them, and as their relationship grew Josh decided he couldn’t live apart from his beloved Lindsay anymore. The pair moved in together in Milwaukee. 5 years and a home purchase later, Josh proposed during an incredibly thoughtful, orchestrated night out.

THE PROPOSAL I was at a bachelorette party, and needed to collect a phone number from a Josh called me in the early afternoon of April 17th and asked when I could be home, as he had an evening planned for us. When I got home from work, he told me to go put on something that made me feel beautiful and pack a bag. I knew something was going on, but wasn’t sure if “this was the day” or just Josh being sweet for our anniversary, which we usually celebrate early April. Once ready, he told me in the car that we were staying at the Pfister Hotel and going to dinner at Lake Park Bistro. At dinner, he received a text stating that Torie,

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his business partner, and Cory Coffman, the curator of the Pritzlaff, needed his assistance with lighting on the roof. He apologized that we had to leave dinner early, but said he had another surprise after we made our quick stop at the Pritzlaff.

When we got to the venue, Cory explained how sorry she was that she needed Josh’s insight on the lighting, and as we made our way up to the roof of the Pritzlaff she opened the main doors and all I could see was the glow of candle light and hear the clicking of cameras. Josh took my hand and brought me to a gorgeous set up, which I later found out was put together by our dear friend, Tiara, from Events to

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a T. Josh got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife. After saying “Yes,” a few of our closest friends appeared from their hiding places, including Neil and Carl from Front Room Photography who captured every moment of the proposal.

LENGTH OF ENGAGEMENT Our engagement was very short compared to most couple. From our civil ceremony, we were only engaged for 4 months, but from our destination wedding, we were engaged for 9 months.

WHERE TO WED As you can see in these beautiful photos, we had both a civil ceremony and a destination wedding. The civil ceremony was only supposed to be a small gathering, but quickly grew when we made plans to use the new patio space at our best friends’, Paul and Natalia Hackbarth, bar, Camp Bar in Wauwatosa. We wanted the ceremony to be simple, but have a similar feel to a typical wedding day.

The 20-minute ceremony in front of the large, outdoor fireplace was followed by a celebration of music and an appearance by a local Mariachi band, heavy appetizers and small plates by Chef Jack’s, mini cupcakes by Classy Girl Cupcakes, and an open bar!

The Destination wedding was — in our eyes — the real wedding day and had every aspect of a typical wedding itinerary. Josh and I love to travel and also wanted something different than a wedding in Milwaukee, Wis. We love to vacation in

Mexico and knew that would be the perfect place to have our closest friends and family join us for our wedding. The resort, Excellence Playa Mujeres, was a recommendation from friends and after learning more about the resort, amenities, and the wedding packages, we knew this would be the place to get married. The ceremony took place on the beach and our reception was at their CECO Terrace, which was surrounded by water. It was absolutely breathtaking!

ESPECIALLY US Lindsay: I knew Josh was the one because of qualities I had never found in anyone else I had ever dated. He is very patient, easy going and truly wants to make me happy. He has a lot of similar interests as I do, which made it easy to go on dates, travel and plan for our future. Josh is my best friend, and I could not imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else.

Josh: I am not sure that there was one given moment that I knew I wanted to marry her, but more so all things she is and does made me want to be with Linds for the rest of my life! The way she is always there for me and has always been there for me. She is the most caring and thoughtful person I know, and always wants to make sure that the people in her life feel loved. Also, just knowing that without the support and encouragement of Linds I may not be where I am in my life and knowing how much she has motivated me in my life — I never want to be without that!

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DESTINATION WEDDING: Excellence Playa Mujeres (Mexico) WEDDING STYLING Because the civil ceremony was set at Camp Bar in Wauwatosa, the theme revolved around rustic woodland. The colors were gold, sage, cream and woodland greens with succulents, gold metal tapers and moss table runners as the largest inspiration.

The destination wedding was elegant and romantic with a whimsical twist. The colors were champagne, blush, sage and sugar, and the gold tapers were once again an inspiration in for our styling. After finding my wedding dress at Bella Bianca in Chicago, it motivated other destination wedding details and the overall bridal party’s look.

KEY RESOURCE Tiara Gamez, owner of Events to a T and personal friend, was a tremendous help with questions I had about proper etiquette, décor and fine details. Her day-of service for both my civil ceremony and destination wedding really made both days perfect and gorgeous. She also kept me focused on getting married rather than organizing details of the day.

DIY The major aspects were my table settings. I found all the items between Goodwill, Etsy, JoAnn Fabrics, Michaels, Target, Pier1 and Home Depot. It sounds like a crazy combination, but the overall themes for each wedding were exactly what I envisioned. I also put together all of the welcome bags for the

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destination wedding. A majority of the items came from Amazon, and I found the beach bags at Hobby Lobby.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE Civil Ceremony: My wedding dress was a ChiChi London high-low dress that I found on ASOS. I accented the dress with a Gorgeous Jaxie belt and headpiece. The earrings were a custom piece from Elan Couture Jewelry.

Destination Wedding: My destination wedding dress, which I found at Bella Bianca in Chicago, Ill., was a Midgley and Sottero (Lola) sheath, which we had altered to a fit/flare. Even though my dress had quite a bit of beading, a Jaxie belt completed the overall look. My Swarovski Crystal headpiece was made custom

by Gadegaard Design out of Dublin, Ireland, and my earrings and Swarovski barefoot beach sandals were also custom pieces made by Elan Couture Jewelry.

My favorite accessory was my Christian Louboutin Crystal-Embellished Follies Strass Pumps. I had always wanted a pair, and thought getting married was a justifiable reason to purchase them. I wore them at the civil ceremony, bridal shower, destination rehearsal and wedding.

BIGGEST PLANNING SURPRISE How difficult it was planning a destination wedding. Finding out what was really included in your package, and what you would need to rent if we wanted more than an ‘out of the box’ wedding was

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surprising. About 85% of our wedding; tables, chairs, floral, additional headcount for dinner, etc. was an additional cost above the highest wedding package. In the beginning of my planning process, the communication between the resorts on-site coordinator was a little frustrating. I wanted to start planning early for details, and what I didn’t know is most resorts will not look into specifics for your wedding until a few months before the actual date. However, regardless of the challenges, I would do it all again in a heartbeat; It was an absolutely perfect day.

FUNNY MOMENT At our civil ceremony, when our officiant asked us to repeat our vows, which stated that we would take one another as husband and wife in front of God, a huge gust of wind blew through. Everyone then smiled and cheered, as we all felt it was God’s way of letting him know he was there and truly blessed our commitment to one another.

IMPORTANT DETAILS Lindsay: For the civil ceremony, succulents and moss table runners. For the destination wedding, floral centerpieces and the head table garland runner.

Josh: This is easy for me — the entertainment, DJ and lighting! But on a serious note, getting all of our closest friends and our families to come together and get to know each other. To have that special time with each other in beautiful paradise of Mexico!

BRIDAL PARTY We had three men and four women stand up in our wedding, four of which were the best men and matrons of honor (two best men and two matrons of honor).

GUEST LIST Our civil ceremony had close to 70 attendees, and the destination wedding was 35 including Josh and myself.

PERSONAL TOUCHES At both of our civil ceremony and destination wedding, we had friends (who were ordained via the Internet) marry us; Torie Gamez, best man and close friend, at the civil ceremony, and Ben Grob, Lindsay’s co-worker and friend, at the destination wedding.

ADVICE FOR COUPLES Lindsay: Try as much as you can to enjoy the planning process and ask for help when you truly need it. Create a budget and learn to compromise on what is important to have on your day and what isn’t. Hire a wedding planner, whether to assist in all stages of planning or just the week-/ day-of. It was so wonderful knowing Events to a T was getting everything set up for each ceremony and that everything would be perfect.

Josh: Your soon-to-be wife will never stick to “the budget.” Also, try not to sweat the small things. Planning a wedding is a difficult task and it really does require you to come together on things. It can be hard at times, but in the end it is all worth it.

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by Michelle Drewek

PHOTOGRAPHY The Paper Elephant

Are you looking for a knockout gift for your fiancé, but just don’t know what to get him? Are you stressed out from planning and looking for a moment of respite? Are you feeling less than fabulous right before the day in which you are supposed to be feeling your absolute best? If these ring all too true, then boudoir may be the answer you never thought you were looking for! Before you crawl into a hole and cover yourself with the blanket sitting next to you, hear us out. Boudoir doesn’t have to be scary or intimidating, in fact it is quite the opposite! It is an opportunity to let an artisan take what comes naturally to you and highlight it in a sensational way. Best of all, it gives your husband-to-be a keepsake he will never want to take his eyes off of.

Boudoir photography is more than just scantily clad pictures; it is an experience. From the staging and lighting to the outfits and atmosphere, every session is uniquely tailored to the desires, comfort level and persona of the bride. Tegan Jae, owner of The Paper Elephant, believes in the boudoir experience so much that she includes it in her wedding photography packages. “I love that boudoir photography combines fashion and editorial with empowerment and dressing up. It allows me to play around with fun lighting techniques and poses for all different body types, and to connect with my clients on a deeper level. They leave a session looking and feeling amazing, radiating confidence that many didn’t even know they had in them before we started.

I have grooms pull me aside on the wedding day and thank me not only for the gorgeous gift I helped create, but for the confidence boost it gave their bride. That, to me, is priceless!”

The photo shoot itself isn’t limited in scope. It can take place at the photographer’s studio, in the client’s home, or somewhere completely unexpected. “I have had brides book a night at a hotel before the wedding to surprise their fiancé,” Tegan details.

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“The bride and I arrive early, take the photos, and then she surprises him later on with the photos we took before he arrived. Wedding planning can be stressful and time consuming, so this gives them a chance to spend more quality time together.”

If doing boudoir is already well outside of your comfort zone, doing the session in the comfort of your home may be a more ideal setting. In your home, you have the benefit of having certain places that you can turn from ordinary to extraordinary for your man — his favorite chair, your bathtub and, of course, the bedroom! And of course, the photographer’s studio is ready to accommodate you and your vision: soft, romantic and playful or sexy, daring and dramatic.

One of the benefits of doing a boudoir photo shoot is the shameless excuse to go shopping. It’s the perfect reason to treat yourself — and your man — to some eye-catching new wardrobe items. Before you go shopping she can help provide recommendations of what works best for body types and comfort levels, all with your needs in mind. You can also incorporate items like his favorite dress shirt or part of his work uniform to really catch him by surprise. Whatever ensembles you decide on, Tegan’s number one tip is high heels.

“Even if your feet aren’t showing in a standing photo, high heels will give you better posture.” While it helps to have your own options along for your shoot, like a good friend Tegan always has extra outfits and shoes in her studio for a bride in need.

In order to help you look and feel your best, there are several accommodations Tegan says are available to her clients. First and foremost, she strongly suggests using the hair and makeup team she has on set. It is an extra fee, but so worth it! “Trust me, your eyes will sparkle. I work with an amazingly talented team that will make you look and feel amazing.” Additionally, Tegan includes retouching on all ordered images. Skin requests, scuffs on the bottoms of heels, and distracting labels are all within her editing powers. She does not reshape the body in any way during the editing process and for good reason. “I use nothing but the best in terms of flattering lighting and posing that will highlight your best features and diminish your insecurities.”

Boudoir doesn’t automatically mean nude or almost nude. You can do something more playful in a tank top and pajama shorts if that is where you feel most at ease. Tegan encourages you to try to break out of that comfort zone to see just how amazing you can look and feel in your own skin but will never discourage a bride from how she feels sexiest. “I will work with all comfort levels to help you feel amazing and create imagery that we are both proud of.” And, if it helps, Tegan says to bring along a great friend to keep the mood light and bring an added level of familiarity.

The biggest concern most brides have when planning for a boudoir session is the concept of privacy. Will anyone see my images? Tegan said this is always a question and she is completely adamant about not breaking that trust with her clients. “Nothing is shared online or in print without written consent, and always after any gifts are delivered. If my brides want the images kept private, then the only person who will see them is me during the editing process. And I NEVER post any nudity anywhere online. I believe those should be strictly private … always.”

As can be seen, there truly is no one way to embrace the boudoir experience. Let your imagination run wild, and leave the rest to your photography artisan to help your vision take life. And, be prepared to pick your fiancé’s jaw off the floor when he sees your sexy, fabulous, fearless self encapsulated in a gift just for him. Be empowered … be daring … be you!

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by Laura Vietmeyer

PHOTOGRAPHY Robyn Vining Photography From the runway to the aisle, high fashion often influences bridal fashion trends, and hair and makeup trends for you and your bridal party are no exception to this inspiration. This year is all about natural beauty, highlighting the best attributes of your and your bridesmaids to create a look that is uniquely beautiful.

This year’s runways showcased bold brow, pink or coral lip color that goes with your skin tone, flushed cheeks and fresh, glowing skin with makeup that does not appear heavy or cakey, but rather dewey and light. The key to healthy, radiant skin starts before the big day by keeping skin clean, exfoliated and moisturized.

In addition to glossy lips in pinks and corals, nude lips are a hot trend at the moment.

Natural makeup is also a great way to balance out a formal dress, veil and shoes.

In hair, natural waves or braids are on trend right now. For an effortless look, hair can be worn down and free flowing, or in a less constructed updo. For a romantic updo, a braid

can be woven in to add detail and intricacy to your bridal look or to that of your bridal party’s hair. However, if the loose, bohemian style isn’t for you, more polished styles were also featured in bridal styles on the runway this year, including sleek ballerina-esque buns and classic chignons.

When planning your hair and makeup for your wedding day, look at the big picture of how these elements will fit into the overall look and feel of your wedding. The bridesmaids’ hair should complement the theme of the wedding. They should let the you determine the style. Hairstylists and makeup artists who are experienced in the field will have a wealth of knowledge to share to help shape your vision. Artists who focus on working with brides and bridal parties will understand your needs better than an artist who primarily works in other areas. Artists who are good at collaboration will love you bringing in photos or other pieces of inspiration. Just keep in mind that some styles that are done for a photograph might not hold up well all day. Be

open to suggestions from the professionals.

When it comes to makeup that will photograph beautifully, a good makeup artist knows all the tricks. Using airbrush makeup or HD makeup prevents a white face and tan body, which can be caused by a camera flash.

Ask to see a portfolio of any makeup artists and hairstylists you are considering, as it showcases what they are capable of in terms of style and ability. If you like the portfolio, meet with the artist to get a sense of whether or not your input will be executed the way you envisioned. Ensure that the people who do your trial looks will be there on your big day.

Most salons guarantee this, but it shouldn’t be assumed. Speak up and ask for peace of mind.

Also, find out what will happen if the artist isn’t able to make it to your wedding day. It’s always ideal to have a plan in place to keep things running smoothly.

And last, but certainly not least — embrace your natural beauty. That’s something that’s always on trend.

Planning Tips Will hairstylist or Will the artist doing makeup artist show your hair or makeup up on time and have during the trial run everything they need be the artist you will to create your style? be working with on your wedding day?

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What type of makeup is being used? Will it translate well in photos?

Can the makeup How will the hair and artist and hair stylist makeup artists work work with you to together to help bring your vision for your prep time day your big day to life? of go smoothly?

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Diane & Leroy HALO SALON BEFORE OPENING HER FIRST SALON, Halo Salon’s owner Diane trained in New York and Boston. She was one of ten chosen to represent the United States in the World Hair Show at Wembley Hall, London, and she also won first place in the hair cutting competition at the Midwest Hair Show in Chicago. Diane opened her first salon on Milwaukee Street in 1982.

Then, in 1994, she and Leroy Buth became partners, acquired a building on Brady Street, and created the space for Halo Salon. They chose Brady Street because of its history, vitality and unique energy.

Diane, Leroy and the staff pride themselves on creating elegant hair and makeup in a beautiful workspace. With sleek, modern décor and an abundance of fresh flowers, Halo Salon provides a beautiful backdrop for photographs of wedding preparations. Halo is known for its expertise and talent. The staff keeps up with current global fashion, hair and makeup trends.

A bridal trial is very important, as it can help

“OUR STAFF IS SMALL AND RECEIVES HIGHLY SPECIALIZED TRAINING. WE CHOOSE TO WORK ONLY WITH ARTISTS THAT ARE COMPLETELY COMMITTED TO THEIR CRAFT.” eliminate any uncertainty on your big day. The day of the trial, they will dress your hair and design your makeup, giving you options to find a look that will enhance your beauty. They recommend bringing any photos of inspiration that are close to your natural skin tone and hair color.

They also advise brides to stay away from anything overly trendy, so photographs look classically beautiful for years to come. Lash extensions translate beautifully in wedding photos and compliment any makeup choice, while airbrush makeup gives a flawless natural finish that needs no touch up. Your photographs will look timeless for years to come.

For color range and hair care lines, Halo Salon uses Davines, a privately owned company out of Parma, Italy. Sustainable beauty is at the heart of Davines’ philosophy. An ecological position is fundamental for the ethics of an attentive, pioneering company with a cosmopolitan, open attitude towards new trends and change. Jane Iredale is Halo Salon’s primary cosmetics line.

Classic looks, with a touch of modern style, are a specialty of Halo Salon. Brides will find that the staff is there to accommodate their every need and can rest assured that they will give close attention to detail to create a look that is a personal signature for this most important day!

414.272.4256 1221 E Brady Street Milwaukee WI 53202 www.halomilwaukee.com

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Holly made a paper garland backdrop for their guestbook/Polaroid photo booth.

The Perks of Being in Love

by Carolyn Hartnett

Holly and Michael grew up in the same small town, but their paths didn't collide until a bit later. Holly dared to approach Michael at a bar, and the rest is history. Their relationship developed effortlessly over shared meals, drinks and memorable experiences, including a first date Whitney Houston sing-along. At Anodyne Coffee on April 30, the two vowed to share their lives, and their morning coffee, together forever.

OUR LOVE STORY I was at a bachelorette party, and needed to collect a phone number from a stranger to complete a “dare.” I walked up to a group of guys and requested some digits. When the taken gentlemen pointed to Michael, we recognized each other. We grew up in the same small town and went to high school together. We spent some time chatting, and when we parted ways we agreed to catch up sometime. Several months later, we met for craft beers at Sugar Maple and spent hours talking about our lives and all of the things we had

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in common. Drinks turned into dinner, and then we ended up doing a Whitney Houston sing-a-long together. We spent the course of the next two years getting to know what made each other tick, celebrating our successes, and taking comfort in each other when needed.

ESPECIALLY US Loving Michael is effortless. He is my best friend and support system, and he always encourages me to be myself. He loves me for exactly who I

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am, and we are not afraid to act weird together. Nothing is better than finding that one person who you can just be weird around without fear of judgment.

THE PROPOSAL We were heading to northern Wisconsin for a weekend trip.

Michael and I planned to go a day early to prepare the cabin for my parents, sister and brother-in-law to join us. Michael wanted to propose while we were alone at the lake, but after picking up the ring from the jeweler, he couldn’t stand the idea of keeping it in his pocket for the 5-hour drive. Instead, the night before we left, I walked into our condo to find a picnic blanket spread out on the kitchen floor with a bottle of champagne on top, surrounded by flickering candles. It took me a minute to realize that Michael was behind me on one knee, asking me to marry him! After I said yes, we were both so excited; we drank the champagne in no time.

There are few better feelings than being giddy in love and full of bubbly.

WEDDING THEME Vintage Minimalist.

PLANNING INSPIRATION We began our planning process by selecting a venue. We wanted the location to be meaningful to us, so we chose our favorite local spot. We love Anodyne Coffee and always visit their shop in Bayview for a Honeybee latte before our Saturday Farmer’s Market trip. Therefore, it was a beautiful, personal space for us to hold our ceremony and reception.

COLOR PALETTE Antique pink, navy and gold.

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Food! Michael and I love spending time together in the kitchen, so providing a delicious, local, family-style meal was very important to us.

WORTH EVERY PENNY Our amazing photographers: our friends Ren and Caleb from Studio 29 Photography.

FUNNY MOMENT While exchanging rings at the ceremony, I had the hardest time putting Michael’s ring on his finger. We should have practiced that!

PERSONAL TOUCH Michael and I wrote our own vows, which we exchanged in front of our guests before dinner because we had a very intimate ceremony.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE I wanted to be comfortable and feel like myself. My dress was lace, three-quarter sleeve, and tea length. I felt amazing in it! Same with the shoes. I chose a modest, one-inch heel so I could wear them all day and still dance the night away!

ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES Don’t drive yourself insane over the little details. Remember that you have wonderful vendors who will help think of everything for you, and it will all come together beautifully. Trust them!

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by Claire Swinarski

You’ve got your gown. You’ve dressed your bridesmaids. You found the cutest outfit for your flower girl, and everyone looks great. But there’s still one very important person who needs your input.

Picking out a mother of the bride/ groom dress can be stressful for moms.

They want to feel comfortable and look amazing, but they also want some direction from you. They’ll be greeting all of your guests, and a lot of eyes will be on them. However, as a bride, you may have so much on your plate that you don’t even know where to start!

That’s where Bruce Paul Goodman comes in. The shop, which has been around since 1979, is a one-stop shop for mothers, aunts, or grandmothers.

Carrying everything from dresses to jewelry to shoes, Bruce Paul Goodman meets women’s fashion needs from head to toe.

They’re also known around town for a variety of charity work, and even won the Waukesha County NCAAP 2006 Community Service Award. Customers flock from all over the

Midwest to shop the store’s affordable-yet“We work hard to help all of the women who stylish fashions. The store’s beautiful gowns, come into our shop,” said Bruce. “We do our best twinkly shoes and elegant jewelry sets attract to understand all kinds of concerns, and we’ve a wide variety of clientele, but Bruce Paul heard them all many times. Most women who come to us leave very happy.”

Bruce inherited his love of fashion from his grandfather, who was a tailor.

He graduated with a Bachelor’s and Master’s Degree from University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee with degrees in education, but after graduation he followed his passions and went straight into retail. He’s spent the last few decades tackling an everso-stressful wedding attire scenario: gowns for women of all ages.

When most mothers, aunts or grandmothers are beginning their dress search, they have a few common concerns. They turn to the Goodman specializes in helping mothers and bride for input, but you may not know what grandmothers of the bride and groom find their they like or would feel comfortable in. It’s perfect look. Whether it’s the wedding, the best to give your mother or mother-in-law bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner, the shop a few guidelines and then let their boutique has looks for every bridal occasion. consultants work some magic.

Planning Tips Does your wedding have a particular theme or style?

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Do you want a more embellished look for your mom or motherin-law, or a more elegant, simplified look?

What’s your wedding venue and season?

Indoors or outdoors ceremony and reception? Will you be in a church?

What are their concerns, like trouble areas?

First, consider your venue and climate. This is obviously a great starting point for women to go on — if you’re having an outdoor wedding in the middle of July, heavy satin gowns may be nixed.

If you’re having a church wedding, they may desire a bit more modesty. Have your mother or mother-in-law prepared with that key piece of information when they go shopping.

“If you’re having an outdoor wedding in Nashville, your mother doesn’t want a heavilylined dress with thick material,” explained Margaret Wendt at Bruce Paul Goodman. “You need a dress that’s light and travels well. We’ll have mothers ask about brides getting married in Maui or Mexico. So those are the kinds of questions we’ll ask.”

Another question to consider is your wedding vibe or theme.

“One thing we’re hearing a lot right now is that brides are having vintage or Gatsby-inspired themes for their wedding,” said Margaret. “That’s good information for us to know, because that would be a more uniquely styled dress — which we offer.”

Next, assure them that their consultants can help them find a great fit.

“One thing we hear often from moms is that they don’t want to look matronly. They don’t want to look more mature than they are,” said Margaret.

What they may not realize is that a lot of looking and feeling your best comes down to fit. At Bruce Paul Goodman, mothers can have dresses custom fitted so they look flattering instead of unfashionable. The store has dresses that range from size 2-18, even carrying one designer that makes dresses up to 3X. There’s something for everyone to look fabulous in.

“A lot of women simply are not aware of what cuts and styles will be most complimentary for their body type, and that can make a huge difference when you’re trying to look your best,” Margaret said.

Margaret added that many women also appreciate some kind of jacket or sleeve to cover the upper-arm area.

Another concern is color. Mothers want to look superb in pictures, but they don’t want to look as if they’re trying to sneak their way into the bridal party!

“When someone comes in looking for a mother-of-the-bride or mother-of-the-groom dress, we always ask if the bride knows the colors of the wedding. We like to know the color of the bridesmaid’s dresses as well as the colors of the

men, since it’s not just black anymore. We also like to ask about what color the flowers are, since we need to take into consideration whether or not the bride has a very vibrant palette of colors,” Margaret said.

Let the important women in your life know this information so that when they go shopping, they’ll be prepared. Pictures or color swatches are very helpful.

If there’s a grandmother that needs a gown, take into account her comfort level and mobility.

Many grandparents may prefer a skirt and top or pantsuit instead of an elaborate gown. Margaret said Bruce Paul Goodman is very accustomed to dressing all ages of women and has many options and styles for grandmothers of the bride or groom.

It may be your big day, but you wouldn’t be there without a woman in your life raising you.

Make sure the mothers of you and your groom look and feel their best!

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STYLING, GOWNS, SHOES & ACCESSORIES Bruce Paul Goodman MODELS Abby, Angila, and Margaret MAKEUP Margaret Wendt, Mary Kay As VIPs at the wedding, it’s the mothers’ chance to shine as well. The mother of the bride and the mother of the groom should wear dresses that complement each other nicely and have similar textures. Color trends this season include champagne, plum, pewter, navy, and blush, and you should choose a color that goes well with your bridal party without being the same shade. Whether it’s your mother, stepmother, grandmother or aunt, the women in your life who have helped to raise you all deserve to look and feel great. Offer them guidance, but allow them to make a selection that they’ll truly love!

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As the mother of the bride, your mom wants to look lovely without looking like she tried to outshine the bride or the wedding party. Assure her that she has nothing to worry about; after all, you’re the one in a wedding gown! Mom deserves her moment in the sun as well without worrying about how her dress style fits in.

Also, don’t forget the mother of the groom — she has an added layer of not wanting to upstage your mom! Make sure she feels included and valued by showing her a picture of your mom’s dress. She can show it to the Bruce Paul Goodman consultants and go from there; they’ll direct her to a similar color in a different hue. Tastes and styles of mothers of the bride and groom vary greatly, and a shop like Bruce Paul Goodman has many incredible choices for them. Many women will appreciate a long gown with some coverage on top. Another popular length trend right now is a hemline that hits just above the knees, as well as tea length or mid-calf. If they’d like some embellishment, encourage them to choose a pattern and fit that accentuates their best features. Your mom, grandmother or aunt wants to find the perfect balance between being appropriate while still feeling stylish, and there are plenty of options for her to feel gorgeous in.

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by Laura Vietmeyer

PHOTOGRAPHY Studio 29 Photography & Design The bride-to-be has many important decisions to make for her wedding day, especially when it comes to her wedding dress. Brides demand a lot from this special dress. She might want to feel absolutely beautiful, or comfortable, or sexy. To find the dress that fits into her wedding vision and makes a statement, the bride has to begin by finding the style that will allow her to strut her stuff. On top of finding her perfect dress, she has to keep the bridesmaids in mind, too! Showcasing everyone’s personalities within the bridal party while fitting into the scope of the wedding’s overall style can easily be achieved with the perfect bridal attire.

When searching for the perfect dress, there are multiple styles for the bride to consider. And the best place to get dress advice? From the bridal boutiques in Veil Magazine: Bella Bridesmaids; Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc.; Gigi of Mequon; and Stone Manor Bridal. Each boutique helps brides figure out exactly what they are looking for in bridal party fashion.

The fashion mavens at bridal boutiques will sit down and listen to what the bride wants in a gown and they will also inquire about the details of the wedding. Knowing those little details about the wedding can help the dress stand out even more. Brandi

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Nehmer from Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. explains, “The location of your ceremony and reception will help set precedence for what you will want with your gown.” Once the backdrop has been set, it’s about the dress and the accessories.

Soft and whimsical romantic looks are always classics for bridal style. “One of the most important trends we see in bridal right now is romance,” Kate Iggens of Stone Manor Bridal says. “If a bride wants to acquire that soft and romantic feel to her wedding, it can start with the fabric of the dress. Having a dress made of silk, chiffon, organza or tulle will give the bride an effortless look.” To see these romantic styles in action, check out page 118 for our bridal shoot showcasing beautiful looks from the boutiques mentioned above.

Art Deco styles create a vintage twist on the romantic look, with beading, sleeves, and interesting necklines.

Once the dress has been chosen, accessories are a bride’s next stop. According to Gigi of Mequon, for bridal jewelry, a lot of sparkle in all shapes and sizes is always on point. Earrings and bracelets are more popular than necklaces at the moment, but the right necklace with the right dress can make the whole look really pop. In veils, cathedral veils and blushers are definitely in! With all of these choices to make, the

staff at any of these bridal boutiques can assist you in finding the perfect fit for your big day.

Shoes are another important accessory!

You can find a comfortable shoe to wear all day without having to resort to a flat, if that’s the not direction you are looking to go. You can also find a comfortable shoe that is flattering. At Gigi of Mequon, they are looking into new shoe lines to offer a wider variety of styles, keeping in mind that their customers will be in them all day. Bridging style and comfort is important! At many bridal boutiques, shoes can be dyed various shades or colors. You can even dye your ivory shoes black after the wedding day! These shoes are also the perfect fit for a variety of social occasions.

The romantic look can apply to the bridesmaids as well. Ombre colors are on trend for bridemaids dresses at the moment.

Create interest by pairing different colors and styles together. Subtle or bold, there’s no right or wrong way to incorporate color.

Your bridesmaids don’t have to look like clones from every other wedding. Dresses with tiered bodices, glamorous fit-andflare skirts and whimsical gauzy overlays are just a few ways to give your bridal party a fresh take.

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Inside Brandi's Bridal Galleria, etc.

“I had a great experience at Brandi’s! Love the new salon… like stepping onto a TV show, really!”

by Laura Vietmeyer

Where can you strut your stuff on the runway to get a 3-D view of your wedding dress? The savvy bride knows that the answer is Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. in New Glarus. With a new 12,000 square foot showroom and 10 years in the business, Brandi’s is the bridal salon to go to for exceptional prices, exceptional service and an exceptional experience.

Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. offers a wide selection of bridal fashions brought to you from around the world. With over 500 handpicked bridal gowns and 1,000 bridesmaids’ dresses, Brandi’s offers you and your bridal party the opportunity to explore your options in a space that helps you relax and have fun. The state-of-the-art space has edgy, metallic, silver, black, and mirrored decor. “I wanted to create a salon where the bride felt relaxed so she could enjoy herself and her bridal party could have fun!” said Brandi. She continued, “Combining technology and intimacy was a challenge, but we are thrilled with the results.” As a bride at Brandi’s, you have the opportunity to use technology in the form of touch screens and runway videos to help you choose the perfect gown. The runway experience allows you to see yourself as your groom & guests will see it on you on your wedding

day. That day, you’ll be focused on your groom, but at Brandi’s you can focus on finding your dream gown.

Brandi herself travels the world to bring the best bridal fashions to the Midwest, traveling as far as Barcelona, Spain to bring the Pronovias brand to the salon. The new salon was even honored with a visit from the Director of US Operations for Pronovias, Lluis Sole, who was impressed by the new store. He stated, “Brandi’s Galleria represents perfectly the values of bridal and Pronovias: love, passion, beauty and joy. It is an honor to have Brandi’s Galleria to represent our brands.” Brandi’s also offers exclusive fashions from Martina Liana and Anaiss Bridal, and more traditional lines from LaSposa, Allure, Maggie Sottero, Stella York and many more.

Once you select your perfect gown, you and your bridal party can celebrate with a champagne toast and photo op on the red carpet runway. Brandi’s is “The Home of the Original” Champagne Toast and they know how to properly pamper you and your party. Visit Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. website at www.brandisbridal.com.

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Kate Iggens STONE MANOR BRIDAL STONE MANOR BRIDAL has been located in Grafton since the fall of 2013, but its roots date back to the spring of 2002. Its name was inspired by the original space in Cedarburg, a stone house built in the early 1900s. Owner Kate Iggens was met with success the minute she opened the doors and Stone Manor Bridal quickly outgrew its first location.

When you step into the new store, you won’t be disappointed!

Stone Manor’s loft setting, with walls made of Milwaukee’s signature cream city brick and warehouse windows that let in gorgeous natural light, offers an extensive collection of unique gowns for both brides and bridesmaids. Additionally, Kate says the large space allowed her to add tuxedo and prom lines too. The Wingman Formal Wear area is dedicated to the dashing grooms and their groomsmen.

Kate, a University of Wisconsin grad with a background in buying and retail, knew she found her perfect fit as a business owner in the bridal world. She is proud of both the knowledge and customer service levels she and her staff can offer

wonderful staff are there to assist you along the way.

They’ll help you navigate the wide array of beautiful dresses, many of which come from vendors that are unique to the Milwaukee area and are not offered in other stores. Once the dress has been selected, your consultant will work with you to add the perfect accessories from their collections of headpieces and veils, shoes, and jewelry.

From start to finish, the bridal consultants at Stone Manor Bridal are there to help. They’ll work one-on-one with you, listening to your likes and dislikes and tailoring your dress selections to meet your needs. “When you find the dress you will know,” Kate says. “It’s a lot like finding your fiancé—you know when it’s the right one!”

“WHEN YOU FIND THE DRESS YOU WILL KNOW. IT’S A LOT LIKE YOU FINDING YOUR FIANCÉ—YOU KNOW WHEN IT’S THE RIGHT ONE!” to clients. When first visiting Stone Manor Bridal, Kate offers this simple piece of advice to brides, “Come with an open mind.” She notes that it’s okay for you to love a look online or in a magazine, but later change your mind when you see it in person.

For some brides, this process can be overwhelming, which is why Kate and her

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THE ANATOMY OF A WEDDING GOWN GOWN SILHOUETTES

A-line - Narrow at the bodice, with vertical seams that flow right down to a slightly flared-out skirt.

Ball Gown- A fitted bodice that comes in at the waist and then flares out to a full, floor-length skirt with lots of volume.

Trumpet Silhouette - A style of gown that features a gradually-flared skirt and a close-fitting bodice that skims the lines of the body, through the hips.

Sheath - A close, form-fitting dress from bodice all the way down to the skirt. May have a slit at the legs for easier walking.

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Bateau - Straps are at mid-shoulders with the fabric reaching in a gentle dip across the chest and back, like an eye shape if viewed from above.

Halter - Ties around the back of the neck.

Sweetheart - Rounded fabric over each breast, meeting in a V-neck point in the middle. Its heart shape is the basis for its name.

V-neck - The fabric extends downward in an angled V-shape at the top of the chest or lower to show some cleavage.

GOWN LENGTHS

Floor length- The skirt reaches just to the floor, the hem extended for a gentle glide obscuring the view of your shoes.

Knee-length - The skirt reaches to or just below the knee.

Tea-length - Also called a cocktail-length dress, the skirt reaches to mid-shin.

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SLEEVES

Cap - A short extension to a sleeveless look offering a ‘pouf ’ of fabric over the shoulder, gathering under or against the very top of the arm.

Illusion - Sheer netting-type material that forms a see-through sleeve, yet offers ‘the illusion’ of coverage.

Three-quarter - Extending from the shoulder to mid-forearm.

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TRAINS

Cathedral - Attached at the waist and extends dramatically behind the gown.

Chapel - Attached at the waist and extends 3 to 4 feet behind the gown.

Sweep- A few inches beyond the gown.

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VEILS

Ballet - Falls to a length between the knee and the ankle.

Blusher - A single layer, shorter veil that is worn over the face during the ceremony and then flipped back over the head after the ceremony. It can be worn alone and then removed after the ceremony, or paired as a layer to a longer veil.

Cathedral - Is usually paired with a cathedral-length train. As such, the veil extends 3 ½ yards from the headpiece, with a significant amount trailing behind you as you walk.

Fingertip - Should just graze your fingertips when your fingers are extended and falls below the waist.

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Ariel Tobin BELLA BRIDESMAIDS IN THE QUEST FOR THE PERFECT DRESS, don’t forget your supporting ladies who will stand beside you on your big day! With the largest selection of dress designers available to you, as well as sashes, flower girl dresses and jewelry, Bella Bridesmaids is the premier shopping experience for bridal parties.

In 2007, Erin and Kathleen Casey, mother-daughter duo and current co-franchisors, opened their first Bella Bridesmaids showrooms in Chicago and Milwaukee. When Erin got engaged, her mom, Kathleen, came across an ad for Bella Bridesmaids in a bridal magazine. They hoped to find the store near home in Chicago, but couldn’t find any place like it. Kathleen knew she wanted to open a Bella and was relentless in pursuing the idea throughout Erin’s wedding planning process. On Mother’s Day, they decided they would go into the business of bridesmaids!

Ariel Tobin, the Milwaukee showroom manager, joined Erin and Kathleen after a move from Atlanta with her husband and puppy, Snoop.

“The moment I stepped into the beautiful Bella showroom, I knew Bella was the PERFECT match for me,” Ariel says. At Bella Bridesmaids you’ll have an hour-long appointment that will pair you and your bridesmaids with an expert

bridal party can expect to receive exceptional customer service and one-on-one attention while choosing their gowns.”

Each year, Ariel heads to the New York City Bridal Market to search out the latest and greatest in bridesmaids’ fashion to bring back to Milwaukee. “One of the biggest trends we are seeing right now is beading and sequins galore!” Ariel offers the following advice to brides: “Wedding planning can seem like a lot, so keep it simple and start with your attire. What you wear will help guide the style and formality of your bridesmaids' dresses, so focus on yourself first! After you have the dress of your dreams, that's where we come in.

Believe me--there are A LOT of choices! Choosing your general color scheme and preferred dress length before visiting will ensure you leave your appointment feeling accomplished, not confused.

We can't wait to shop with you!”

“ONE OF THE BIGGEST TRENDS WE ARE SEEING RIGHT NOW IS BEADING AND SEQUINS GALORE!" stylist to ensure the best possible experience with each visit. “During this time, I am able to assist in choosing the best color for the maids’ gowns that will blend with the rest of the wedding colors, find a style and fabric that will complement her wedding dress and lead the party through our streamlined sizing and ordering process,” Ariel says. “The bride and her

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WEDDING GOWN, JACKET & VEIL Stone Manor Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography PERFECT FOR apple, hourglass, pear & rectangle shape bodies.

This fitted bodice, full-length gown glides gracefully over the hips giving brides the perfect blend between form and flow.

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WEDDING GOWN Stone Manor Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography PERFECT FOR hourglass, inverted triangle, pear & rectangle shape bodies.

Capped sleeves lend dimension to the upper body, while the full skirt provides a voluptuous appeal.

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WEDDING GOWN Bucci's Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography PERFECT FOR inverted triangle & pear shape bodies.

Sheer long sleeves trim and elongate the bride's arms, complemented by a sweeping skirt falling naturally over the lower body.

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WEDDING GOWN & VEIL Bucci's Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography PERFECT FOR hourglass, inverted triangle, pear & rectangle shape bodies.

The jeweled bodice drapes over the hips to add beautiful form to the bride's figure, which is further accented by captivating chiffon.

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WEDDING GOWN & VEIL White Dress Bridal Boutique PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography LOCATION Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum FLOWERS Belle Fiori LTD. PERFECT FOR hourglass, inverted triangle & rectangle shape bodies.

Understated elegance showcases the bride's sensational shape, further lended by the long, flowing train.

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WEDDING GOWN, JEWELRY & VEIL White Dress Bridal Boutique PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography LOCATION Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum PERFECT FOR apple, hourglass & pear shape bodies.

The depth of the skirt provides shape in the mid-section while the high neckline and single straps highlight the shoulders and elongate the neck.

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Ceremony Location: St. James Catholic Church Flowers: Pteris Floral Design Hair: La Belle Rue for the Bride; Inspire Salon for the Bridesmaids and Mothers Invitations & Stationery: Wedding Paper Divas Makeup: La Belle Rue for the Bride; Inspire Salon for the Bridesmaids and Mothers Men's Formalwear: Men’s Wearhouse Officiant: Fr. Bernie Sippel Reception DJ & Lighting: Platter Chatter Reception Location: Muskego Lakes Country Club Wedding Cupcakes: Classy Girl Cupcakes Wedding Gown & Bridesmaids Dresses: Eva’s Bridal Center

DIY MOMENT The couple created homemade sugar cookies decorated like mini wedding cakes as their favors. They were a hit!

Love and Chemistry

by Carolyn Hartnett

Sarah and Andy knew they had chemistry together from the very first day they met. Sarah, the new girl at school, happened to sit next to Andy in science class, and both immediately felt the sparks. The two became high school sweethearts, then long distance lovers in college.

Soulmates for life, Sarah and Andy tied the knot 11 years later, and look forward to spending the rest of their lives together.

OUR LOVE STORY I met Andy in our high school Chemistry class. I walked in and sat in the last available seat in the classroom, right next to him. Not long after, we began dating and navigated the halls of high school for the next year and a half together.

Andy is a year older than me, so I was stuck in high school when he went to college. We decided to try a long-distance relationship. Despite a few bumps in the road and learning curves along the way, we successfully made it through the

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next five years. This experience helped us to grow as a couple, and the light at the end of the tunnel was worth it.

ESPECIALLY US Sarah: Andy is truly the most patient and comforting person I have ever met. He is my biggest fan and life partner. I knew Andy was the one shortly after I met him. There was something about him that just made me feel like he was put into my life for a purpose.

Andy: I knew Sarah was “The One” when I met her in Chemistry class. She is

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the woman of my dreams. She always puts others first and is caring, forgiving and compassionate. I cannot imagine my life without her and truly feel blessed to have such an amazing wife.

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Sarah: Hydrangeas! I love that flower because it is structured enough to serve as a bouquet or centerpiece, but soft enough that it didn’t look too formal.

THE PROPOSAL Andy: I decided to propose in April 2015 after many weeks of secrets and planning. I wanted it to be the perfect surprise for Sarah. I arranged for Sarah and I to go out to dinner, and asked a family friend and my dad to help set up our house for the big moment.

Andy: 1. Making sure my bride got everything that she wanted.

Sarah: Andy took me out to dinner on Saturday. I didn’t think anything was out of the ordinary because it’s not unusual for us to go out to eat. Afterwards, as we were driving back to our house, I noticed that our living room lights were on and the entire room was filled with pink balloons. When we walked in, I saw that each balloon had a picture of us from throughout the last 10 years. I began to cry when I noticed flowers everywhere, along with champagne and cheesecake. There was a little pink box tied with a pink bow. Inside was a gold balloon with a note on the cover of the box that said, “Pop me!” with a tiny safety pin attached. I used the pin to pop the balloon, and my ring was inside the balloon. Andy took the ring, got down on one knee, and asked me to marry him. It was truly an unforgettable surprise!

WEDDING STYLE Our wedding style was rustic romantic. We used soft colors mixed with touches of wood, chalkboards and fairy lights sprinkled throughout the room.

2. Cold beer and good music!

SPLURGE WORTHY Our photographer. We will cherish our wedding pictures for the rest of our lives.

PERSONAL TOUCH We used Kewpie dolls at our dessert table that were Andy’s family heirlooms since 1933. Andy’s aunt restored them and made their colors coordinate with our wedding style.

DIY I freehanded two chalkboards at our reception. One was a “Thank You” message to our guests in calligraphy style handwriting. We also filled vases with fairy lights to brighten up the room. We made the centerpieces and table numbers with scrapbook punches and skewer sticks. We also made the place cards with name tents and watercolors along the edge for food choice.

ADVICE FOR COUPLES Keep dating each other, even when you’re married.

The butterflies should never stop!

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by Claire Swinarski PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography BRIDESMAID'S DRESSES Bella Bridesmaids GROOMSMAN FORMALWEAR Harleys The Store For Men HAIR & MAKEUP Halo Salon LOCATION The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel, Crowsnest FLOWERS Headpiece and Boutonniere by Belle Fiori LTD & Wedding Cake Flowers and Greenery by Jane Kelly Floral WEDDING CAKE Missy Molly's Pastries WARDROBE STYLING Ariel Tobin STYLING Terri Blahnik MODELS James and Kurt from Ohlsson Model & Talent, and Ariel and Alexandra When it’s time to get your bridesmaids and groomsmen dressed, a lot of thoughts may be flying through your head.

You want them to look amazing, feel comfortable enough to rock the dance floor, be OK with the price, and complement you! But the old stereotype that brides prefer to dress their maids in something that won’t surpass them is totally outdated.

You want your girls — and your groom’s guys — to look and feel great.

Once the color scheme is selected, one of the first things a bride will do is explore how to infuse her chosen hues into the attire of her bridal party. Whether it is with one consistent shade or variations of a single color, she’ll search high and low for bridesmaid’s dresses and groomsmen attire that bring her vision to life while being comfortable and affordable.

As for trends, Ariel Tobin, the showroom manager at Milwaukee’s Bella Bridesmaids, says she’s seeing a big beading and sequin trend in bridesmaid’s dresses, as well as the color ‘cerise’ or any metallics. Another trend you’ll see a lot in the coming months? Mixing and matching various hues to create a dreamy aesthetic.

“Brides are loving that designers have created styles that allow them to mix and match different fabrics and textures, while still be able to keep everything unified,” Ariel said.

However, if you’re mixing and matching, remember a few basic rules. All bridesmaid’s dresses should be within the same color scheme and also the same length to look unified in group pictures. According to Ariel, brides have been particularly drawn to longer gowns as of late for their bridesmaids.

Before you go shopping, have a basic idea of what you want in mind. Spend some time in the pages of Veil Magazine or on our website looking at different colors, cuts and styles. Once you have a rudimentary idea, head to the boutique — that way, you won’t be overwhelmed by the rows and rows of choices.

In terms of men’s styles, Tim Ryan, the president of Harley’s: The Store for Men, said colors continue to run the gauntlet.

“Navy is becoming quite popular, black is making a resurgence, and any shade of grey is still appropriate,” Tim says.

Select the attire for your bridesmaids first, so that you’re able to choose something for the men that complements them nicely. That will give your group photos a cohesive look and help your ceremony look pretty and put together. The level of formality should be complementary as well.

When it comes to hair and makeup, even if your girls are low-maintenance ladies, you’ll still want them to at least apply minimal makeup.

“Women that don’t wear makeup in everyday life definitely need to wear some on their wedding day, or they’ll be disappointed with the pictures,” advises Diane Mouse of Halo Salon in Milwaukee. “Using airbrush or HD makeup will prevent the white face and tan body combination that happens with a flash.”

In terms of hair styling, Diane is seeing trends that are either soft and undone, or very polished, sophisticated styles.

She suggests bringing in pictures for the makeup and hair artist of how the bride would look their bridesmaids to look.

You can gather a lot of polished, picture-perfect looks in the many styled shoots we do. See pages 129-131 for some inspiration!

No matter what you dress your wedding party in, they are there to make you and your groom look spectacular. So whether it’s a long satin gown with tuxedos or a chiffon sundress with simply styled suits, make sure your bridal party is ready to shine!

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PHOTOGRAPHY Top: Front Room Photography, Bottom Left & Right: Studio 29 Photography & Design, Bottom Middle: Robyn Vining Photography When it comes to wedding attire, the first thing most people think of is the gown or the bridesmaids’ dresses. But what about the groom and his guys? It’s time for them to take center stage as well.

The first step to making your way through the complex world of men’s attire is to consider the vibe of your wedding. Are you throwing an over-the-top, 500-person soiree in an elegant ballroom? Or, are you having a backyard affair?

Will you be tying the knot in a church, a barn, or a fabulous museum? Your venue and your general feel will contribute a lot to what you wind up dressing your men in. Tuxedos are certainly the most formal selection, but it certainly isn’t your only option. Suits are perfectly acceptable attire as well, and in the case of a low-key affair or beach wedding, perhaps a simple button down top and light-fabric bottoms are the better fit.

There’s really no right and wrong when it comes to which style you prefer, keeping in mind the other elements of the day.

Once you determine the style for your men, you should next consider your options in fabrics and fit. Climate and comfort are your two key

details for guiding these decisions. For example, tight-knit fabrics would be uncomfortable on a beach, whereas khakis and polos or a fabric like linen wouldn’t quite match a wintery New Year’s Eve wedding! Your menswear consultant can help you narrow in on the ideal options for where and when your big day will take place.

Menswear trends currently popping up include pleats; pleated shirts and pleated pants are both popular right now. Slimmer fitting styles that feel modern and sleek are also on trend; they look great on a wide variety of figures. Your body type will matter when it comes to a flattering fit and menswear experts, like the vendors in Veil Magazine, will be able to help you find a fit that flatters your shape. Small details like the number of buttons or the fitting in the waist can help you look your best.

What about the wedding colors? There are plenty of accessories in menswear that can help bring your wedding colors to the guys’ side of the aisle. Consider a tie or vest in the same swatch your bridesmaids will be donning. You could also incorporate the color into their boutonnieres for a subtler touch. Accessories aren’t just for the

girls; let the guys in on the fun by gifting your groomsmen monogrammed cufflinks or socks from their favorite sports teams to wear on the big day. You can even add fun details like bowties or suspenders, or refined touches like pocket squares. Men’s accessories are a subtle way to inspire some great photos and get your men excited for the big day!

Guys, when you begin the search for your attire, trust your experts. They’ve done this a million times before and if you’ve done your due diligence in terms of research, menswear consultants will be able to help your groom look his best. They’ll also know details like how to achieve an impeccable fit or the proper length of sleeves and pants. Working with trustworthy professionals will give you peace of mind and prevent you from overthinking or feeling overwhelmed.

What the men in your wedding party wear will help your ceremony look even more beautiful. Make sure to take the time to pick out proper attire so that when the day comes, all eyes are where they should be — on the bride!

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Do you want a very traditional look, or something that will stand out?

How can you incorporate your wedding colors?

Is there a way to inject your personality into the outfit with accessories?

Wardrobe Wisdom To help you decide on what to wear, and to make sure you know what details you can consider, we’ve compiled a list of questions to consider as you ponder your wedding day attire.

1. W hat color suit / tux should the men wear? Blue, black, navy, grey, charcoal, khaki, white or striped?

2. A ccessories for the chest can be vests, cummerbunds, suspenders, or even sweaters.

3. W hich tie style would best match the wedding’s mood? Among other options, there’s the cravat, bow tie, skinny tie...and then choose a color or fabric pattern. Remember, some couples don’t rent this - they buy them as groomsmen gifts.

4. A re there other fabric pieces we want to consider? Colored or patterned socks shoes or shirts?

5. W hat about jewelry or other accessories? These can be as traditional as cuff links and watches or as unusual as bolero hats with a brim band to match the wedding design.

6. D o you want props? Top hats, canes, belt buckles or other elements that will add to our wedding vibe?

7. H ow should the groom be slightly different from the other men in the wedding party? He is, after all, the man of the hour.

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(Pictured left to right) John Carbonell, Robert Norris, Tim Ryan, and Jeff Brand

Tim Ryan HARLEYS THE STORE FOR MEN

IN 1968, a stockboy named Tim was working at Harold and Stanley Dubman’s store, Harleys: The Store for Men. After getting involved in sales and buying, he worked his way up to co-owner of the store in 1987. While the other owner, Tom Brill, retired in 2000, Tim Ryan, President/CEO of Harleys, is still hard at work.

Harleys is an industry leader in menswear, and strives to make sure that every customer is priority number one the instant he walks through the door.

“Our mission is to provide quality apparel, exceptional customer service and an enjoyable shopping experience,” Tim emphasizes.

While many people tend to put emphasis on the wedding dress, the groom’s attire shouldn’t be a last-minute detail. Tim recognizes that finding a wedding day ensemble can be intimidating for grooms, but Harleys is fully prepared to help any groom find what he is looking for.

“Being both a retail and rental store gives Harleys staff a unique perspective to give proper advice to the groom to ensure he makes the right choices for his wedding,” reassures Tim. “Tuxedo rentals are provided by Jim’s Formalwear, and we are an Elite dealer within their network, which allows Harleys to do whatever might be necessary to ensure the wedding party looks their best. We also have an in house tailoring staff to take care of any last minute adjustments.”

This past July, Harleys’ quality reputation was honored by the menswear industry at MR Magazine’s annual Uptown Downtown awards ceremony for retail innovation. It was a huge honor for Tim and the Harleys team who strive every day to do what they do best.

“We were honored to be recognized by our industry as one of the top retailers in the country, but what’s more important is

that our customers like the product selection we offer. They receive exceptional customer service, and they have an enjoyable shopping

“Harleys is very involved in the community supporting numerous charities, Shorewood schools and our own Teeing Up for Charity golf outing to benefit the Great Lakes Hemophilia Foundation,” Tim explains.

Whether it’s business or charity, experience at Harleys,” says Tim. Harleys provides nothing short of exceptional Beyond being leaders in the industry, service and unparalleled dedication. As “The Harleys is a leader in the community. Harleys Store for Men in Shorewood,” Harleys is looking moved to its current Shorewood location in to uphold its reputation and exceed your harleys veil ad feb 2010:Layout 4 2/5/10 1:33 PM Page 1 2009, and since then has been giving back to expectations. the neighborhood and other great causes.

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by Michelle Drewek PHOTOGRAPHY Studio 29 Photography & Design

As your wedding plans begin to come together and the larger details of the day fall into place, your mind will begin to swirl with ideas for other items to incorporate. If you have a dog, there has no doubt been consideration of involving them in your wedding. Your loved ones will all be included, and your pup is very much a big piece of your heart.

There are a number of ways to include your dog in this monumental day. Here are some ideas that are sure to wow your paws off!

One of the most significant ways to include your fur baby is to have them there for the “I Do’s.” Ren Davis of Studio 29 Photography adores working with couples and their pups, and says there are a number of ways to have them physically be a part of your special day.

“Some couples choose to have their dogs present in part or in whole on their wedding day. Depending on your venue and the limitations that may (or may not) be in place, you can have your dog as a member

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of your bridal party — like a groomsman or ring bearer — or be watching on as one of your loved ones in attendance. You may even have him/her walk you down the aisle!”

Your wedding day will be captured in numerous ways through many different sets of eyes. From the photographer and videographer to your friends and family, all eyes will be on you. If your dog will be at your ceremony and/or reception, perhaps you should consider an option for capturing the day through their unique perspective.

“Our dog, Kenzo, will be wearing a GoPro all day for our July wedding,” Ren details. “We are staying in a cabin in the woods and are getting ready in the morning together. He will be videotaping all of it!

He will also be joining us for a mountain hike after our first look for our bride and groom portraits, as well as be involved in the wedding party photos following the ceremony. During the ceremony, I can’t

Planning Tips Does your venue allow for dogs?

Will you have your dog dressed in any attire?

Do you have a plan should your dog become overly anxious or excited by the events of the day?

Do you have a handler on-site for the day?

Do you have a plan in place for escorting your dog to and from the location(s) they will be in attendance?

Do you have overnight arrangements set up for your dog?

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wait to see him in his handsome garland collar!”

Having your beloved canine with you on your wedding day may require some additional planning assuming they are only going to be with you for part of the day, or at the very least will not be going home with you that night. You’ll need to organize how your dog can be transported to and from where necessary and to have a handler that can make sure they are well taken care of. Most of the people you would readily trust with this responsibility will be a guest, and you don’t want to impose on their enjoyment of the festivities.

If a family member or friend isn’t an option, having a professional dog care specialist that can meet you at your venue to pick up your dog and take them to their care facility will ease the stress of not only making sure your pet is well taken care of, but that you can still enjoy your wedding day without the added hoops to jump through.

Whatever route you choose, be sure to establish a set plan so when the wedding day comes around there is no question or confusion about your fur baby’s needs being met.

Sadly, as much as you may want to have your pup by your side on your big day, it may not be feasible for one reason or another, and not every venue will be OK with 4-legged attendees. But that doesn’t mean you can’t include them “in spirit.” Throughout the years, Ren

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has seen many unique ways people have incorporated their dog into their wedding day.

“Feature them in the décor, like your cake topper or on the table numbers, if they can’t be in attendance,” Ren suggests. “A few of my couples have set up a donation bucket, and if their guests want them to kiss, they had to donate money. The couple then donated all the money to an animal shelter.”

Additionally, you can take time during your engagement photo session or wedding day photos to bring them in for a few Kodak moments. Ren says that couples can also plan a post-wedding day session where you can get dressed in your wedding attire and snap some photos with your pup at a better time. There are many pictureperfect moments to be had. Check out the Spring/Summer 2016 issue of Veil Magazine for more photo ideas to consider!

This day is monumentally special and being able to share it with everyone you love, be they 2-legged or 4-legged, is beyond compare. Don’t be afraid to ask questions of your venue and photographer to see what options you have for involving your cherished canine. As excited as you will be to have them be a part of this day, they will be even more excited to share in your happiness. Besides, they are just too doggone cute!

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It is important to be certain that your photographer captures the most important moments of your wedding and reception. To insure this, provide them with a list of specific event times, locations and names of important guests to photograph. It is also a good idea to designate a close friend or relative as a point person in-case the photographer has any questions.

Pre-wedding: Bride and attendants getting ready Bride leaving for ceremony Groom and attendants getting ready Groom leaving for ceremony Mother and Maid-of-Honor Helping

bride get ready Details of the bride and groom's

attire, shoes, jewelry, stationery, flowers, etc.

Reception site set up Wedding Party: Bride & Groom together Bride and bridesmaids Groom & groomsmen's Bride & Groom with their pets

Ceremony: Signs directing guests to wedding Wedding programs Guests arriving Ushers escorting guests to their seats Both sets of parents entering Groom walking down aisle; awaiting bride Child attendants walking down aisle Bride walking down aisle Groomsmen lined up for ceremony Special guests watching ceremony Wedding kiss Bride/Groom leaving recessional Guests throwing rice or flower petals Signing of the wedding certificate Bride/Groom's hands displaying rings

Reception: Friends signing guest book Guests at cocktail hour Reception site set for dinner Seating cards display Centerpieces Place settings Favors Wedding cake and/or desserts Stationery and Invitations People giving toasts Bride and Groom listening to toasts Group pictures of guests at each table Bride and Groom's first dance Bride dancing with her father Groom dancing with his mother Guests dancing Bride and Groom cutting cake Bride and Groom departing

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Caterer: Chef Jack’s Catering Ceremony Location: Best Place at Historic Pabst Brewery- the Great Hall Ceremony & Reception DJ: All-Star Music Décor Rentals: Something Borrowed and More Flowers: Creative Floral Designs Hair: Tease Salon Invitations & Stationery: Heather Duffey Art & Graphic Design Makeup: Taylor Buth Men's Formalwear: NL Suits Officiant: Judge William Domina Overnight Guest Accommodations: Iron Horse Hotel Photography: R & R Photographic Imaging Reception Location: Creative floral - the Great Hall Wedding Gown: Monirose Bespoke Gowns

DIY MOMENT Jennifer and Michael chose to go DIY for her bouquet and his boutonnière. “I didn't want to spend the money on flowers that would just get tossed and liked the idea of making something that would be a little more special,” Jennifer says.

Keeping the Perspective

by Laura Vietmeyer

Jennifer and Michael knew marriage was in their future early in their relationship, even as soon as the night they first met. With their eyes on their future marriage, rather than just their wedding day, the couple planned a ceremony and reception that was a perfect fit for them.

Both had a hand in the planning, and they were wed in a “short and sweet” ceremony before 100 guests.

OUR LOVE STORY Mike and I met through mutual friends. We had known each other for a few years, but never really talked much. One night we went to a Bucks game with a group of friends. We spent the night chatting and making a connection. Our first date was a romantic dinner at Smyth at the Iron Horse Hotel. Neither one of us can remember much about the night, other than having the perfect time.

ESPECIALLY US Jennifer: Mike's a dreamer, and I love that about him. He

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wants the best for himself, his life, and our life together. And to compliment that, he is also a do-er. He goes out and finds a way to accomplish his dreams. It's an amazing quality to find in a human being.

Michael: Jen likes to plan, and while I don't always appreciate her scheduling things out in advance, the fact that she takes the time to make sure things get taken care of makes me so appreciative of her and the master plan that she has to keep me on track.

jennifer & michael married 02-06-2016

THE PROPOSAL Michael: She had given me the diamond from her late mother's ring, and also the card of a custom jeweler. I hung onto the diamond for a while — not because I wasn't sure, but because I didn't want her to think it was coming right away. I planned a Sunday evening proposal in my (now our) backyard, but Jen took a nap instead, so I postponed until Monday morning.

Jennifer: We were enjoying coffee in our backyard early on Monday morning.

Mike went inside to get a refill and when he came back he was visibly nervous. He actually spilled some coffee on me.

Michael: I was nervous! It was the biggest question I was ever going to ask anyone!

Jennifer: He told me how much he loved me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and before he even got to open the ring box I was saying “yes” with tears in my eyes.

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Michael: Amazing food. That was all I cared about.

Jennifer: That's totally true; he really dove in when it came to selecting a caterer.

PERSONAL TOUCH Michael: I wanted everything to be "us" — nothing that we didn't both have our hands in. Jen asked her sister to create a monogram for

us, since she is a graphic designer and designed our invitations. Even though I knew she would do an amazing job; I wanted us to be the ones who designed our monogram, and I think we did a pretty great job. It was perfect.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE My dress was custom made. Since I’m petite, I was correct in assuming that having a custom-made dress would cost less than a dress off the rack with alterations. I found Monica of Monirose Bespoke Bridal in Madison, and she was a dream to work with.

My earrings were diamond studs that Mike had made at the same time he had my engagement ring made. He also had a pendant made in the likeness of our monogram and my engagement ring, and gave it to me the morning of our wedding.

FIRST LOOK Michael: Jen had us do a first look, which I really liked. It took a lot of the nerves out of the ceremony. She looked so perfect in that moment.

PLANNING ADVICE Michael: I would advise anyone to communicate, plan ahead and be sure to not spend all of your time on the wedding plans. It's one day — a great one — but you're working toward the rest of your lives. Keep the perspective.

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by Jessica Pairrett

PHOTOGRAPHY Robyn Vining Photography One part of the wedding-planning process that shouldn't be stressful: your gift registry. After all, it's window-shopping and choosing items that fit your lifestyle. Plus, wedding guests will love to glimpse through your impeccable style.

To create that perfect registry or find just-right gifts for wedding attendants, think about future needs: Will you be hosting large holiday gatherings? And precisely how formal will those place settings be? Since 1870, Milwaukee's George Watts & Son, Inc. has been assisting brides-to-be with personalized service from highly trained registry consultants who are industry experts and will guide you to the right selections for life now and well beyond the wedding.

By working with a Watts consultant, you won't accidentally choose a beautiful dinnerware pattern that is not dishwasher safe—especially when you despise washing dishes.

Consultants also know trends. Take gold, for instance. Jessica Piorier, buyer and web administrator at Watts, has tuned in to this trend, ensuring

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the store offers trend-right patterns.

Besides adding beautiful dining patterns to the registry, you'll need stemware, barware and serveware. Competing with big-box retailers, the Watts offerings include other items ideal for your home like crystal, frames, candles, figurines and even

The showroom offers something for everyone in your wedding. Thank your maid of honor or best man with a sentimental dish or flask. Other ideal wedding party gifts you'll find: decanters, pin trays, money clips, trinkets and jewelry boxes.

Items can even be engraved, allowing you to add a touching yet simple note of thanks.

After the wedding, don't forget those discounts on remaining items. "Your consultant can even call your husband in the future to remind him of anniversaries and birthdays!" Jessica says.

So stop over to Watts when it's time to create your registry and find a unique, different and utterly convenient time at their "fabulous restaurant, stunning bridal salon and art baby gifts! Among 250 top brands are Waterford, gallery," says Sam Watts, president and store Wedgewood, Baccarat, William Yeoward and manager. "Brides and grooms will find more than Simon Pearce. "We offer the same brands as places just a perfect registry... and the future has even like Macy's and Bloomingdales but also carry lines more exciting prospects on the horizon." That's for that you can't get at those stores—smaller, more both Watts and the happy couple. upscale or exclusive offerings," notes Jessica.

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by Claire Swinarski

PHOTOGRAPHY Top & Bottom Left: Studio 29 Photography & Design, Bottom Middle: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Right: The Paper Elephant The most delicious aspect of your wedding?

The dessert! Wedding cakes are a fun tradition that makes your wedding day that much sweeter.

These days, wedding cakes no longer need to be tiered, white masterpieces with a bride and groom cake topper. Lots of different trends are popping up, like assortments of mini pastries with a smaller cake for the bride and groom to cut. Since guests love sampling different treats, varieties of cupcakes or other mini desserts are very popular. More homestyle desserts, like pies or chocolate chip cookies, are also seeing a sweet surge.

If you’re still hoping for the hand piped, multi-tiered wedding cake, don’t fret—that’s still a very popular option. You can still offer variety within the cake as well. For instance, you can have different flavors for each layer of your wedding cake.

As for texture, there are a lot of options when it comes to decorating your wedding cake. Fresh flowers (instead of frosted!) can

be a beautiful touch. You can also bring in any heirlooms, brooches, ribbons, etc. that you want incorporated into the décor for a Pinterest-perfect dessert. There are tons of cute cupcake toppers or pie forks on sites like Etsy.

Bakeries aren’t like what you see on The Food Network. It’s a lot less glamour and a lot more work! The price of your baked goods will coincide with the level of elaborate details you’re aiming for. For instance, watercolor cakes are a big trend this summer, but to make a cake resemble a watercolor painting is going to be a very labor-intensive process.

Consider this when selecting how important your dessert table is.

One popular tradition to discuss with your partner is a groom’s cake. Groom’s cakes are special, smaller cakes that can be decorated to the groom’s taste. For instance, if he’s a huge fan of a certain sports team, you can have the cake decorated in those colors as a nod to one of his passions. Groom’s cakes are often eaten at the rehearsal dinner. Another tradition?

Saving the top layer of your wedding cake for your anniversary. However, some couples opt to just buy a smaller version of their wedding cake to save, eliminating the hassle of preserving a layer.

Before you book your bakery, make sure to schedule a sampling appointment so you’re sure your wedding cake is up to your taste buds’ standards. Sampling appointments should be made 6-8 months before your wedding date, and as soon as you’ve confirmed that bakery is the one you’d like to go with, you can put down a deposit to lock in your wedding day. It depends on the bakery, but your final balance will often be required a week or two before the wedding. One reason that you might have some wiggle room in terms of booking is that unlike other vendors, like an officiant or photographer, a bakery can often do multiple weddings per day. So depending on your bakery, don’t panic if you still haven’t decided and your day is creeping closer!

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Can you accommodate allergies (for example a gluten-free cake)?

Do you deliver on the day of our wedding, or will someone need to come and pick our dessert up?

Are you able to use an old family recipe for my cake?

Mark & Peggy Carollo SIMMA’S BAKERY

ALTHOUGH YOUR HUSBAND-TO-BE may not have been interested in the finer details of wedding planning up to this point, you mention “cake” and he’s all in! Your beloved wouldn’t miss a cake tasting, especially if it involves Simma’s whose highly specialized wedding

consultants are here to help you customize a one-of-a-kind cake.

For more than 30 years, Simma’s Bakery has been creating cheesecakes, wedding cakes, pastries and so much more. These treats feature the finest-quality ingredients and are

baked by dedicated, highly trained pastry chefs, many of whom have been with Simma’s for more than 20 years.

Current owners Peggy and Mark Carollo say their mission “is to continue to be that small, family run bakery on the corner with a focus on quality and customer service just as Simma demanded when she started the bakery.” At its heart are original, time-tested recipes, although many new sweets have been added to the mix. While Simma’s has changed hands over time (passed from Simma to her daughter, and now to Mark and Peggy), many of the bakery’s employees and its operations have changed little since 1979. In fact, the Carollo’s note that the bakery’s award-winning cheesecake recipe has remained unchanged

“THESE TREATS FEATURE THE FINESTQUALITY INGREDIENTS AND ARE BAKED BY DEDICATED, HIGHLY TRAINED PASTRY CHEFS.”

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over the years — and is a secret recipe known to only a select few.

A trip to Simma’s, located on 68th Street in Wauwatosa, reveals the bakery’s recent expansion. Its larger retail area offers an increased product selection. And as a result of the expansion, it will be much easier to keep up with the ever-increasing orders of wedding cakes, cheesecakes, cakes and pastries.

Working with hundreds of brides and grooms each year was a driving force behind the expansion. This gave the bakery necessary, dedicated space for personalized, one-on-one meetings with Simma’s experienced wedding consultants, making it easier to assist couples when planning their special day.

To design your own Simma’s cake, you may bring in photos that illustrate your ideas. Plus, you can count on a consultant to guide you through many delectable choices, including award-winning cheesecake and divine yet conventional cake that may be dressed up with mousse, fresh fruit and even liquor fillings.

While the traditional cake is still the go-to for brides, others request a sweets table of mini pastries, cupcakes and sheet cakes.

No matter the style or flavor, your wedding guests will take delight in delicious cakes baked from heirloom recipes that promise excellence bite after heavenly bite.

Molly Sullivan MISS MOLLY’S PASTRIES Molly Sullivan, owner of Miss Molly’s Pastries, always knew baking was her passion. She attended culinary school for Baking & Pastry, and has built a successful career for herself in the industry. She worked at Braise Restaurant as a pastry chef for four and a half years, where her responsibilities included creating and implementing seasonal and local desserts.

Her new position is the head pastry chef for Black Shoe Hospitality, which owns popular local restaurants, including Maxie’s, Blue’s Egg, and Story Hill BKC. Molly’s responsibilities are menu creation and overseeing the pastry staff at each of the locations.

Her current role as head pastry chef affords her the opportunity to solidify and grow her skills, which helps her to best serve the brides she works with. Molly’s passion is weddings, and this shows in her work. “I started my business about four years ago doing small orders for family and friends. I am so excited by how much the business has grown, especially in the wedding industry of Southeastern Wisconsin. I have met so many other small business owner who have been truly supportive of my business; it is a community of people who really want to see each other succeed!” Molly says.

What are you known for in the industry and why? I am known for the different types of petite desserts that we do. I also take pride in the fact that we make everything from scratch and use locally sourced ingredients. I think that the variety of different desserts we do appeals to brides because it gives guests so many options to choose from. I take pride in the fact that we make everything from scratch and use locally produced ingredients.

Supporting local farmers and artisan producers is important to me and carry that through to my business practices.

How many weddings do you handle a weekend? Currently, we take up to 4 weddings in one weekend.

What are some unique requests you’ve had over the years? A couple of years ago I did a cream puff wedding where I filled cream puffs to order at their reception! People loved it because it was so fun and unique! I also did a pie pop wedding last year. The bride wanted three different types of pie pops. Her fiance made special stands where he drilled holes into logs the exact size of the pie pop sticks. It wound up looking like a little forest of pie pops!

What trends are most popular among the brides you work with? Many brides work with us because they are looking for a dessert option that is fun and different. We do a lot of dessert tables that have three to five different bite-sized desserts and a small cutting cake.

We also get many requests for simple and

elegant tiered cakes made with buttercream frosting and decorated with fresh flowers.

What are your words of wisdom for brides? Try not to stress too much! Leave the worrying to the professionals — we got you!

scratch-made desserts and cakes using all-natural, locally-sourced ingredients missmollyspastries.com / 414.530.1065

What is your process when working with a prospective client? Typically, I will schedule a tasting with the client in which she/he chooses five different items from our menu to taste. The tasting costs $25 and accommodates two people. There is an additional charge if the couple wants to taste more than 5 items or bring additional people.

If the client does book us for their wedding the $25 tasting fee will be deducted from their final bill.

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Bridesmaids' Dresses: J.Crew Ceremony Duo: Gabriel's Horns Ceremony Location: The Abbey Resort & Spa Event Planning: LOLA Event Productions Floral Design: Frontier Flowers Hair: Mobile Makeup & Hair Invitations & Stationery: Chena Design Makeup: Sonia Roselli Men's Formalwear: Formally Modern Tuxedo Reception DJ: Toast and Jam Reception Location: The Riviera Ballroom Transportation: DMI Limousine and Badger Bus Wedding Cake: Lakeland Bakery Wedding Dress: Robert Bullock

FUN FACT Our Save the Date was actually an old postcard I found on eBay of our venue! We had our Stationery vendor — Lindsay at Chena Designs — turn it into 100 postcards for Save the Dates.

Love was in the Cards

by Carolyn Hartnett

Jessie and Austin met at law school in Chicago. On Tuesday nights, they partnered up to play Euchre on a league together. Soon, that partnership turned into love, which led to a proposal and the promise of a lifelong partnership. Wisconsinites at heart, the couple selected Lake Geneva as the destination for their romantic summer event. The two couldn’t have been dealt a more perfect day to take each other’s hands in marriage.

ESPECIALLY US One thing we love about each other is our love of the great state of Wisconsin. Austin grew up in Madison, and, though I am from Illinois, I spent my summers as a kid in Manitowish Waters in the North Woods. To us, being in Wisconsin means fantastic times with friends and family. I love going to Madison with him and he loves going with me up to the cabin. When we are in Wisconsin we are always happy. So, we just knew we had to get married there.

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THE PROPOSAL Austin proposed right before Christmas in downtown Chicago. We went ice skating at the outdoor rink at the Peninsula, and he proposed afterwards. It was so beautiful!

KEY PLANNING RESOURCES I absolutely loved my wedding planner, Daniela Saporito at Lola Events. She completely rocked. I also had a few planning books and I made some very serious spreadsheets. Between my spreadsheets and

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lists, and Daniela’s amazing skill at her craft, I think we were actually over prepared.

COLOR PALETTE Yellow, gray and blue. The lake was supposed to be blue, but it was a pretty gray day. Fortunately, the gray skies made the pictures wonderful!

INSPIRATION One of the absolute best things about Wisconsin — after its people — is its lakes, especially Lake Geneva. Therefore, I tried to incorporate water into as many elements as possible.

SPLURGE WORTHY We wanted our guests to have a great time all weekend, so we splurged on activities the day before the wedding. We had a boat cruise for out-of-town guests around the lake on Friday afternoon, followed by a rehearsal dinner for about 150 people. It was definitely worth it to be able to spend so much time with our guests.

WORTH EVERY PENNY Our DJ, Caitlin from Toast and Jam, was the best.

Our dance party was so much fun! It was almost 4 hours of non-stop dancing.

BIGGEST SURPRISE I was surprised by how wonderful so many of our vendors were. On the whole they were extremely professional and on top of everything.

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Jessie: After deciding that we had to get married in Wisconsin, the next detail was definitely flowers. My parents are avid gardeners,

so they instilled a love of flowers in me. Renee at Frontier Flowers was the absolute best. Meeting with her was one of my favorite parts about wedding planning. !

FUNNY MOMENT The violin/cello playing only pop music at the ceremony was pretty hilarious. I didn’t really get to hear it because the bride comes in at the end, but it was perfect. The older generation had no idea what it was, but our friends were cracking up. Austin worked hard for that. The musicians had to learn “With You” by Chris Brown specifically for us. But Aus made it happen. He’s just the best.

PERSONAL TOUCH We included a deck of cards with one of our engagement photos in the welcome bags at the hotel. Euchre did so much to bring us together, so we thought we’d pass it on.

ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES Wedding planning is really fun, so make sure to enjoy the ride. Don’t stress too much. It is only the beginning of something that gets even better every day.

Because you know what the best part is? Being married. It really is wonderful to wake up everyday and know you have a partner in your corner for tough times, good times, and wonderful times.

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CALLIGRAPHY

Personally Penned

by Michelle Drewek

PHOTO COURTESY OF Jennifer Johnson Photography It’s not uncommon to spend many waking hours planning each part of your wedding, and then spend your remaining hours dreaming of what that day will look like. With so much time dedicated to day-of details, it’s easy to overlook the first impression your guests will have of your big day.

In a time when electronic communication has taken precedence over written letters, your wedding invitation is an opportunity to bring joy to ever y guest who opens their mailbox. Captivate them in that instant with an individually hand-written envelope and beautifully scripted invitation that will hang proudly in their home in anticipation of your wedding day, and cherished for a lifetime as a keepsake.

Debi Zeinert, the extraordinarily talented owner of The Blooming Quill, has been in love with letters since she was a little girl.

She’s always loved to paint and draw, and to use her creativity to bring joy to others.

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“When I found out that I could actually make people happy with lettering, I was beside myself!” Debi elates. “I’ve been lettering for commissions since 1984, but it was in 2001 when I was doing calligraphy as much as working my full-time job that I made

chalkboards, as well as lettering on glass and metal with an engraver. And, very soon, The Blooming Quill will be offering Letterpress!

Calligraphy isn’t limited to one style, either. You can choose to embrace a traditional approach, which is reminiscent of a black-tie event with few embellishments.

Another option is something more contemporary that is less about the “frills” and is more edgy. Newer to her calligraphy repertoire is a whimsical style that looks vintage and feels playful.

Whatever style you chose, Debi assures all of her couples that she is fully invested in every person she works with. “I will help them all along the decision to make wedding calligraphy my the way; etiquette, style suggestions, making only job. That’s when The Blooming Quill sure everything is right! I do beautiful work, I was born.” can work quickly if I need to, and I treat each Debi puts her pen to work in a number customer like they are my best friend.” of ways from place cards and signs to menus and programs. She also does hand-lettered

Debi Zeinert Discuss the types of calligraphy. There are two categories of calligraphy. The first is broad pen, which is the kind that was first used by the monks and scribes. It is still highly practiced and is used for certificates, wall art, and some invitations. It’s commonly known by the names ‘Italic,’ ‘Uncial,’ and ‘Old English,’ to name a few.

Then there is pointed pen calligraphy, which is American calligraphy and more commonly follows cursive handwriting. Common types of pointed pen are ‘Copperplate’ and ‘Spencerian.’

I do pointed pen calligraphy.

What are trends you've seen in how calligraphy is used? While the traditional formal styles will always be in fashion, contemporary pointed pen styles have become all the rage.

They can look very cool and fun if the lettering artist is trained in letterforms, but can be a mess if they are not!

A lot of couples are cost-conscious. Can you explain how pricing works to benefit any wedding budget? Calligraphy is not for the budget bride. If a bride is looking to save money, she may choose to have just a few special calligraphy touches like her place cards or some signage. But when a bride spends a fair amount on her invitations, she really needs to have the envelopes match the quality of what’s inside.

That’s where I come in.

Tell us about some of your memorable experiences over the years. I’ve done the calligraphy for the Kuwaiti Ambassador to Great Britain, for the owner of the Red Sox, for Neicy Nash (reality TV star), and for the CEO of NASCAR, just to name a few. I do some funky things too! This past fall I had to letter a party invitation on the side and bottom of 20 pink stilettos for Jamie Foxx’s sister’s birthday party.

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What are your words of wisdom for brides and grooms? Do-it-yourself is not always cheaper. Sometimes the timesavings alone to have a professional do the job are worth it. I think this holds true in all aspects of a wedding.

Calligraphy is truly a timeless art form.

What does that statement mean to you?

Beautiful hand calligraphy cannot be dated.

What I do now will still be in fashion in 20 years, as it was 20 years ago. There is nothing more exciting than when you open your mailbox and see an envelope addressed beautifully to you.

It’s the first impression most of your guests will have of your wedding—make it one they will remember and get excited about!

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A World of Love

by Laura Vietmeyer

After a year and a half engagement planning their travel themed international nuptials, Andy and Kristin’s officiant asked them to close their eyes and take in the moment during their ceremony, which became an especially memorable moment for Kristin. From the ceremony and reception in Wisconsin to a Blessing in England, Kristin and Andy’s love and marriage brought two families from across the world together to celebrate the future.

ESPECIALLY US Andy and I met online. I was in Houston for my residency and told my friends that the only thing that would prevent me from moving back to Wisconsin would be if I met the man I was going to marry. Towards the end of my residency, I joined Match.com just as Andy joined after moving from England for work.

THE PROPOSAL Andy took me on my first trip to Europe to meet his family. He planned a whirlwind tour of the most popular places, including Paris.

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We spent an amazing day visiting the Louvre, Notre Dame and placing a padlock on the Love Lock Bridge. He suggested a nice dinner after our long day to relax. When the taxi dropped us off at the Trocadero, my jaw dropped at the amazing view of the Eiffel Tower. After taking a few pictures I turned to ask Andy which restaurant we would be eating in and he pointed at the tower itself.

When dessert was served, I was instructed to open an intricately wrapped box and inside was my amazing engagement ring. I was speechless! To top it off, our waiter captured it all on our camera.

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THE BLESSING Andy took my parents out to eat during one of their visits to Houston to get their blessing. I actually asked him to take them out while I was working an overnight shift, so I set it up without even knowing what was happening.

PERSONAL TOUCH British tradition is for the groom to go to the Pub before the wedding, which Andy did with his friends. For the recessional we followed British custom and had the father of the groom exit with the mother of the bride and vice versa.

SPLURGE WORTHY The venue was the most important. In England, the buildings have a lot of character and most weddings are in beautiful castles.

In Madison, the options aren’t quite the same, but The Madison Club was absolutely perfect because it has a lot of character.

SOMETHING OLD, SOMETHING NEW, SOMETHING BORROWED, SOMETHING BLUE The “Something New” was my wedding dress, shoes and earrings. The “Something Old” was antique napkin rings from England that I used for my bouquet handle. One of these was the napkin ring from Andy’s christening. My “Something Borrowed” was my grandma’s broach, which has been used by all the grandchildren in our wedding bouquets. My “Something Blue” was a pearl incorporated into my bouquet.

FUNNY MOMENT One of the most memorable moments was having Bucky and the UW Marching Band come to the reception. It was a surprise from my parents since I’m a UW alumni and it was fantastic! It was definitely a culture shock for our British guests, but they loved it and it was great to see them taking photos with Bucky.

WORTH EVERY PENNY Andrea, our wedding planner with Cherry Blossom Events. Andy and I were able to enjoy the entire wedding weekend without having to worry about any details.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE My wedding dress was actually picked out by my mother. I had wanted a simple lace dress, but decided on the opposite. It had exquisite beading on the upper bodice. I wore a cathedral length veil for the ceremony and a headpiece at the reception that was made by a family friend out of my grandmother’s wedding dress.

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by Michelle Drewek & Gabrielle Loomis

PHOTOGRAPHY Top: Studio 29 Photography & Design, Bottom Left: Front Room Photography, Bottom Middle: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Heather Cook Elliott Photography The first impression guests will have of your wedding are your save the dates and invitations.

Guests learn more than just where the hotel accommodations are and what time the “I Do’s” take place. Color schemes, the wedding theme and the atmosphere of the entire day can all be encapsulated on this single keepsake.

Because many couples decide to frame their invitation, it’s important to take time to put serious consideration into what message you want to convey before your guests arrive on the big day.

Wedding invitations help to set a tone and theme that gives guests an idea of what to expect. For a more elegant affair, you may use calligraphy and a heavier stock. A beachfront wedding may have a sandpaper texture and stamped printing. When you opt for a true paper artisan, like those scattered throughout the pages of Veil Magazine, you are getting a custom experience so that your invitations are a distinct representation of you, your partner and your wedding day.

There is no right way to decide what will guide the look and feel of your invitations.

A typical starting point for couples is to incorporate their color scheme from other elements of the wedding. If you go this route, try playing with a variety of color options and see how they look with other facets of the printing process like the typeface and possible

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embellishments. You may end up deciding to base other decisions about your invitations on the colors you choose, or you may choose a different color scheme altogether to highlight a different element.

You’ll also need to decide the type of material you want to print on. While cardstock has been the traditional choice because of its versatility and durability, you have an opportunity to break from tradition by choosing something a bit more diverse.

Wood veneer, for example, is paper-thin and eco-friendly. You could also opt for something more dimensional like Jacquard.

Your invitation specialist will have first-hand knowledge and samples of what you can create with, so feel free to explore beyond a sheet of paper.

Once you decide on the type of material you will print on, you need to figure out what type of printing and typeface you are going to use. The material will often help guide the print type because of texture, delicacy or quite simply that certain typefaces and printing methods work better with certain materials.

There are many varieties to choose from, as your invitation designer will discuss with you (i.e. laser, letterpress, engraving, calligraphy). If you plan on printing onto any other items in the wedding like cocktail napkins or your favors, you may want to pick something similar so you have

cohesion among your various wedding elements.

Of course, feel free to break the mold a bit!

Probably one of the most fun considerations when designing invitations are the embellishments. Including something currently in your wedding décor or fashion can take it the next level of astonishing. Try a fabric accent like a ribbon that matches the sash from your gown, or a ruffle accent from the bridesmaids’ dresses.

Add some rhinestone bling to make your invitations dazzle. Or go a step further by mixing a few types of elements together—chiffon from your gown with crystals from the chandeliers or the print from the groomsmen’s’ ties with the feathers from your centerpieces. Let your imagination run wild and see where that takes you and your paper artisan!

Understandably so, your budget may end up being the guide for a lot of these decisions.

Let your invitation maven know where you stand up-front so they are able to guide you where you can feasibly go right from the getgo. There are endless options available to make your invitation dreams come true, so don’t let your wallet discourage you before you consider your options.

And most of all have fun! This is your chance to make a lasting impression and get your guests excited well in advance for your wedding celebration. This is one of your special keepsakes of this truly extraordinary life event.

Ellen Albertson PAPER PLEASERS, LLC ELLEN has a unique knack for executing inspiring and breathtaking designs. Her sixth sense of creativity started at a young age, as a result of dreaming up craft projects with her mother. In college, as the only girl in her dorm equipped with a glue gun, Ellen’s ingenuity was requested by many. It was her own wedding, however, that launched her into the world of wedding invitations

and all the paper accessories that can be used to set and express the mood, atmosphere, and personality desired for an individual event. From there, endeavors for friends quickly led to referrals and now include dedicated clients who trust Paper Pleasers to design never-seen-before, handmade goods for all their life events.

“I love the process of working with engaged couples and their families. They usually come with an initial source of inspiration for their big day, whether it’s simply a color, a general theme, or a more specific vision. The challenge to make a vision into reality sparks my creative juices.”

If you are looking for a particular style with unique touches, Paper Pleasers can customize to your liking. If you have a dream, but it is something you’ve never seen before, you’re in Ellen’s specialty.

She takes your vision and ends up with an invitation

“THE CHALLENGE TO MAKE A VISION INTO REALITY SPARKS MY CREATIVE JUICES” concept that will exceed expectations and take your guests by surprise. Every outcome is 100% unique to the couple, from the carefullyselected paper features (thickness, texture, pattern, shine, color, etc.) to the ornate detail of a custom designed monogram or a hand-tied twine wrap.

Ellen’s degrees in Mathematics and Business from Marquette University and experience as a small business consultant are a contrast to her creative side, but have fed her entrepreneurial spirit to the benefit of her clients. She understands the demands of managing a project, like a wedding, and the communication, coordination, budgeting and timelines required to ensure a smooth process for the bride.

“I’ve had countless people say to me, ‘I can tell you really love what you do!’ I think it’s because they see that I work very hard yet enjoy every minute of it. I feel very lucky to have found what I love to do and have a talent for at such a young age.”

Ellen’s easy going nature will leave you wanting to share a cup of coffee (or tea) while feeling confident that she understands exactly what you are looking for to create the perfect wedding stationery suite and paper accessories for your big day.

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DIY MOMENT Reception Candy Table: Christa’s mom bought a variety of apothecary jars and 80 lbs. of pink/coral candy.

Coqui made labels, and the couple tied ribbons on all the jars and set it up.

We Always Knew

by Michelle Drewek

Christa and Al always knew they were meant to be together. Even though they both went to Valparaiso University, it wasn’t until after Al moved to Chicago that the two crossed paths.

In 2010, he returned to visit a friend and met his future bride-to-be at a party. They hit it off immediately, and although living states apart, their connection continued to grow and kept them close together at heart. Love prevailed, and led to their 2016 Wisconsin wedding.

ESPECIALLY US We are both quirky in our own ways. Al is an “old soul” and is very calm and collected. He enjoys older movies and music, and keeping up-to-date with recent news and politics. Meanwhile I can get more anxious about things, and I enjoy the pop music on the radio, movies made after 1990, and what’s happening on The Bachelorette. I don’t think there was a specific moment where we knew. We have been together for 6 years, have always complimented each other well, and always enjoy being with one another.

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THE PROPOSAL Al: I proposed during Christa’s family ski trip to Big Powderhorn Mountain in the Upper Peninsula. The perfect moment came when we stopped in the middle of a ski run to help Christa’s nephew, who had fallen. After he was on his way I stayed on one knee, pulled out the ring, and popped the question!

BEST WEDDING PLANNING RESOURCES My mom. She helped with

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the vision and organization of everything. Also, my sister got married 2 years ago, and we went with many of the same vendors because everyone was so helpful.

were quickly able to find a new location, the Miller Room, and it could not have been more perfect.

WEDDING STYLE As we were planning everything just kind of fit together.

First, we did the dress and bridesmaids’ dresses. I got a sparkly belt to go with my wedding dress and since the bridesmaids’ dresses were a neutral “latte” color, we knew the flowers should be bright; pink, orange, coral and a little yellow. From there, we stuck with sparkles/bling and bright colors. Our wedding invitations were neutral with a silver sparkle background. Table runners were gold sequin.

BRIDAL ENSEMBLE I wore an A-line ivory dress with a big tulle skirt. There were two layers of tulle at different heights that were lined on the bottom with “horse hair” style, and the veil was matching and had sparkle. I had a thin silver sparkly belt and wore a necklace and dangly earrings. The shoes were sparkly as well and went perfectly with the dress, plus they were very comfortable!

SPLURGE WORTHY We were very fortunate to have my parents pay for the wedding… While we had the traditional wedding musts – formal invites, cake, DJ, flowers, photos, etc, we carefully chose highly rated/recommended vendors who we knew would help make the planning and wedding day perfect.

WORTH EVERY PENNY All the vendors we worked with. We worked with some really great people who went above and beyond for us. We really felt like it was their priority to make our day perfect, which it was!

BIGGEST PLANNING SURPRISE The biggest surprise, by far, was when we found out a few months in advance that our wedding venue (the Milwaukee County Domes) was unexpectedly closing for emergency repairs! Fortunately we

THE CEREMONY Christa: We had the ceremony at the church where I grew up, which was important to me. I also walked down the aisle to the same hymn that my mom did at my parent’s wedding. What made our service great was the focus on God, family and our union to each other.

Al: When I first saw Christa walking down the aisle, I thought, “Finally!” Seriously though, it was a very special moment to have her dad be so happy to hand his little girl over to me.

ADVICE FOR COUPLES Don’t sweat the little things while planning your wedding. No one even notices! Also, communication is so important. I often assume that Al can read my mind. We’re married now, and he still can’t read my mind.

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by Claire Swinarski

PHOTOGRAPHY Top & Bottom Middle: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Left: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Front Room Photography Wedding flowers can be a major source of confusion for brides. It’s hard to know how many you need, how much things will cost, what’s in season when, and how to make photo-worthy centerpieces. Luckily, your wedding flowers don’t have to be complicated, as long as you find a great florist to work with!

Your florist is an important part of not just your wedding day, but the entire weekend. You may want to incorporate centerpieces at your rehearsal dinner or a gift-opening brunch.

Florists can work with you to make sure your entire wedding weekend is decorated to perfection. They are also sometimes able to provide décor items, such as vases or table runners.

In terms of budgeting, a t ypical recommendation is that florals will take up about 15 to 20% of your overall budget.

However, your florist knows the ins and outs of the industry better than anyone. If you go in with a concrete number, they’ll be able to offer plenty of suggestions for keeping the price

down. For instance, hydrangeas are a great “bouquet stuffer” because they’re beautiful and very full, but affordable. Also, they’ll have tips and tricks to offer, like using your bridesmaids’ bouquets as centerpieces. Think about other wedding details, like the number of guests and the look of your venue. Those will impact things like the number of centerpieces and the amount of décor you need.

It’s important to think about the season when planning your flowers. Not every flower is available in every region every season, so take that into consideration when you’re surfing Pinterest. Also, avoid last-minute change requests—florists will typically get your flowers in on Monday of your wedding week, and then allow them a couple of days to open before designing your bouquets and centerpieces. Rushing a last-minute type of flower will be either impossible or very pricey.

This season, bouquets that are loose and natural feeling are the most-requested look.

Foliage like olive branches, bay leaves and

eucalyptus is becoming an important element.

Even non-botanical items like brooches or feathers are very popular at the moment.

Flower crowns are making a comeback as well, or buying roses or other florals to incorporate into braids or updos.

In general, you should try to book your florist by 6 to 9 months, but the earlier the better. That gives you ample time to learn what florals will be in season and work together with your florist to create the vibe you’re going for. However, having your venue booked first is essential: that way, you’ll have a much better understanding of what you need and you can convey that to your florist.

If you’re still not sure where to start, wedding shows can be a great place to meet florists.

Consider grabbing a friend and hitting up a wedding expo with a camera. Lots of florists will be there with beautiful displays or photos to demonstrate their style and skillsets.

Planning Tips What flowers will be in season on my wedding day?

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What colors do you suggest to go with my overall wedding color scheme?

If I want to preserve my bouquet after the wedding, do you do that, or do you have a recommendation?

Would you be able to provide organic or pesticide-free flowers?

Melissa Maas BANK OF MEMORIES & FLOWERS

LOVE IS OFTEN DESCRIBED like a flower, blossoming and flourishing. It’s no wonder flowers play such an important role in a wedding. With all of the colors, varieties, heights and arrangements for brides to choose from, why not have someone who has a long-standing relationship with flowers to create something magical for your big day?

Melissa Maas, owner of Bank of Memories & Flowers, can’t remember a time when her life didn’t include flowers. From her

childhood days of arranging flowers in her mother’s and grandmother’s vases (including her favorite—the romantic, lush peony) while begging her father to build her a greenhouse, to today as the owner of two shop locations (Pewaukee and Menomonee Falls), Melissa is nothing short of a floral mastermind. “One of my first floral jobs was

soaking up everything she could about the flowers, plants and business.

After graduating from UW-Oshkosh, Melissa journeyed to Seattle, Washington., to the Floral Design Institute where she received her Advanced Floral Certificate.

“I wanted to experience the West Coast floral ways,” Melissa explains. “There were students from all over, and even one from Alaska. It was interesting to see how things are different from the Midwest.”

After the Floral Design Institute, Melissa worked at the TV ABC affiliate in Madison with her degree in Radio-TV-Film, but that didn’t keep her from her first passion.

A flower shop nearby hired her to help during Valentine’s season, and she stayed on afterward to work nights and weekends after her day job.

Then, she learned that Bank of Memories & Flowers in her hometown of Menomonee Falls was going up for sale. “So at the age of 24, I followed my dream and put everything I had into the shop,” Melissa elates. “That first year I worked 10-plus hour days, 6 days per week, and I loved it! I loved it so much that a year later I started another shop in Pewaukee.”

Melissa loves to continue learning and as a member of the Teleflora Board of Wisconsin and Upper Michigan, she has an unlimited pool of talent and resources to draw from. “I love learning new tips and tricks—anything I can bring back to the shop and show the girls,” she says.

With a passion as deep as Melissa’s, you can be sure that your wedding day—a day she is overjoyed to share with you—will be nothing short of sensational. “I love weddings; my eyes light up,” Melissa says. “I am in the moment, excited about your wedding and wanting to hear more. The consultation is an experience of personalized attention—creating a customized design just for you.”

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How did you get into floral design? I was a high school student that needed an after school job, and I have never left.

so many of the best wedding venues right in our backyard. It's like we have home field advantage every weekend.

Are there specific influences you draw upon when you are in the creative process?

At Belle Fiori, we try to find inspiration in many of the same places as our brides. We love Instagram and Pinterest. Other florists inspire us, as well as the new flowers that are available with each changing season.

Where do the flowers you use come from? It is wonderful how small the world has become in terms of shipping. We source flowers by the best location for each variety. We get flowers domestically from warmer states all year through, and internationally from South America, Holland, Israel, New Zealand and Australia. Our favorite source is right here in Wisconsin! We work with a fabulous flower farm for sustainably grown local flowers from April to November.

Where did the name Belle Fiori come from? The original owner selected the name. It is Italian, loosely translated to mean “Beautiful Flowers.” I apologize to anyone who speaks Italian; I know the grammar is incorrect!

What do you like most about where you are located? I love all of Milwaukee; it is the best small, big city around. Our exact location on the East Side, just north of downtown, makes

Besides flowers, what other elements can you incorporate? We love to include the unexpected: feathers or fruit, succulents and air plants. We’ve also incorporated sentimental items like family heirloom jewelry or modern elements like a GoPro!

What are some unique experiences and requests you’ve had over the years? A wedding from just a few years ago had a very detailed Harry Potter theme where we filled potion bottles with flowers. We also worked with a bride who was an artist that had a Day of the Dead theme. We included hand-made paper flowers from an Etsy vendor.

What can a couple expect from you as their wedding florist? We always customize the designs for each couple. We take pride in each creative design and paying attention to even the smallest detail.

What are your words of wisdom for brides and grooms? Don't expect the day to be perfect; there is always something that happens. At my wedding our cake was the wrong shape and icing pattern, but the yummy flavors were correct.

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JANE KELLY FLORAL NO WEDDING would be complete without beautiful florals. Choosing your flowers can seem daunting, but one tip we suggest is to find a florist who’s an expert in their field.

Kelly Stueber of Jane Kelly Floral fits that bill perfectly.

Kelly Stueber’s mother, Jane, turned her love of florals into a business when Kelly was in grade school. Kelly grew up working alongside her mom and familiarizing herself with the world of flowers. In 2014, Kelly took over after a 10-year background in interior design and changed the name to Jane Kelly Floral, marrying together her mother’s longstanding reputation with her knack for design. Ever since, they’ve been known for providing high-quality blooms to Wisconsin brides.

Kelly’s recipe for a perfect palette? Getting the right amount of glowy candlelight, metallics,

coordinated vases and varied textures. Flowers are only one part of creating gorgeous floral arrangements. Some items Jane Kelly Floral integrates into floral arrangements have been feathers, pearls, fruit, photographs or herbs.

This season, Kelly said Jane Kelly Floral has been seeing a lot of copper as the up-and-coming metallic to integrate into

When working with Jane Kelly Floral, brides schedules a private wedding consultation to go over their vision for their big day. From there, Jane Kelly Floral follows up with a quote and continues to make adjustments with brides as needed. Known for their customer service and impeccable attention to detail, Jane Kelly Floral’s goal is for brides to actually enjoy their floral planning process and have a stress-free wedding day. Jane Kelly Floral can supply brides with everything they need, like rented vases and complementary pinning of corsages and boutonnieres the day of the wedding. They’ll even deliver and install all of your floral arrangements at the ceremony and reception.

Selecting beautiful flowers doesn’t have to be stressful. If you go with a florist like Jane Kelly Floral, everything will come up roses!

“JANE KELLY FLORAL’S GOAL IS FOR BRIDES TO ACTUALLY ENJOY THEIR FLORAL PLANNING PROCESS AND HAVE A STRESS-FREE WEDDING DAY.” tablescapes. She’s also meeting with quite a few brides that want to embrace a timeless floral palette of white floral and a variety of green foliage. Kelly works directly with a Milwaukee floral supplier that sources all of her flowers and greenery from different farms throughout the world.

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BRIDAL BLOOMS As a bride, there are many considerations when taking on floral design. If flowers are of high importance to you, think about the kinds you like and the colors you prefer. Build your theme and style around the ambiance suggested by your personal favorite flower.

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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography When looking at your budget and scheduling vendors, you may begin to talk yourself out of hiring what some people consider “add ons” to the wedding day. It is easy enough during planning to say that having a videographer is an unnecessary cost, after all you have a photographer, right?

But looking back brides and grooms alike will echo that having a videographer was the best decision they made (or a big mistake if they decided not to). Your wedding will go by quicker than you can image, and as time goes by you will wish you could relive the day over and over again. There is no better way to capture this incredible day and make it livable long after the last dance of the evening than to have this keepsake you can cherish for the rest of your lives. Tony Lopez from Sound By Design Films gives us an eye-opening look at how a videographer can enhance your wedding.

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Every wedding has it’s own love story that deserves to be made into a film. Some of the best moments of a wedding can only be retold through the lens of a videographer’s camera. The video captures the raw emotions of the day that simply cannot be recreated

through pictures or memories. One thing that is often overlooked is how moving vows or speeches from your friends and family can be. We overlay those audio clips in our final films, which is sometimes the most powerful aspect. To hear what a father has to say about

his daughter, all while watching them dance together, is always emotional.

2. What can a couple expect from their videographer? I am there all day to capture as much as possible to re-tell the story of the wedding. Some of the best moments happen at unexpected times of the night. I also feel that our videos can complement the story photographers tell in a distinctive way. I like giving a couple something completely different from their photos that allows them to get a whole different perspective on their wedding. In addition, we try to be as unobtrusive as possible when capturing the day.

3. What does a couple that hires you get? Sound By Design Films has one all-inclusive package designed to give you everything you need for a great videography experience. We work with our couples to find exactly what they are looking for from their video, and then try to tell

their wedding story in a fun and enthusiastic fashion. Our videos really capture those moments and emotions that pictures can’t always tell. We try to limit posing so the films capture the energy that comes from the natural nerves, emotions and celebration making up the beautiful day we are lucky to share. The result is a 20-minute feature film that allows you to relive the biggest moments from the day. In addition, we create a 3to 5-minute film they can share on social media. I even take requests from bride and grooms to make a special package for them.

Anything works for me; I just want to make an exciting film!

4. Talk about the videography experience.

We try to get to know our couples and connect as much as we can throughout the planning. It’s important for our couples to feel comfortable with us so they are natural on the wedding day. I try and learn exactly what the couples are looking to get out of the video so I can capture and create a film that is perfect

for them. On the day of the wedding I just like to have fun with the couple. Everything is professional, but we keep things relaxed.

After the wedding, couples can choose to have a “viewing” with their loved ones at our bar, Camp Bar, when the film is finished. It’s a cool way to celebrate that no other videography company can offer.

5. What happens after the filming is complete? The editing is where all of the magic happens to tell the story. We take all of the captured footage to create a film that is entertaining to watch for everyone. There are hours of footage that we comb through to find the best moments. All weddings have a natural love story, which is important to portray. Throughout the film we use different editing techniques that tie in with the various emotions of the day. During the ceremony and details, you will see scenes and shots that are longer and more dramatic. Later when we are showing the celebration, there is more energy and faster editing. The different techniques and

styles work together to create an amazing film.

6. Why is a videographer valuable to a wedding? Ask recently married couples and you will hear a common regret: “I wish I would’ve hired a videographer.” It’s a different way to experience your wedding. You have all this build up to one day, and it goes by so fast when it’s over. Photographers are a must, but a video complements what you get from those photos in such a unique way. Videos immerse you in your wedding years after it’s over. There is no better way to relive the day than live motion. When you first watch the films after your wedding, you will be excited to see how it turned out. But as your memory fades of the day and years go by, you will love being able to relive your biggest day. You’ll be amazed at the things you forgot happened, how different your friends and family look, how emotional you’ll be to see and listen to a parent’s or friend’s speech, or simply to show your kids someday. You will never regret having a video, but you may regret not having one.

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Sarah always knew she wanted a winter wedding. Her vision would come to fruition five years after meeting Ryan at work. The couple’s 14-month engagement allowed them to plan their “Classic Romantic” celebration. A focus on cozy and rustic elements set the scene for a day full of love as Sarah and Ryan took the next step in their life together.

Ryan and Sarah love to take their fluffy golden doodle, Bailey, on long hikes.

When Ryan told Sarah to get ready for a hike one Sunday in November, the hike, as it turns out, would be anything but typical. Sarah waited in the car while Ryan looked for his phone in the house. “He was in there forever!” Sarah recalls. “I tried to go inside to help him find it and he told me I needed to stay in the car, which was strange at the time.”

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the top of a ravine, Ryan said he needed to rest. He called Bailey over and told Sarah she had a slug stuck in her fur. “As I bent over, I noticed there was a ring hanging from her collar! Ryan got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.

I said yes and then asked if I could keep the ring!” They got in the car and called their family and friends. When they arrived home, Sarah discovered Ryan had lit candles and chilled their favorite champagne. “It was perfect!”

Ryan had asked Sarah’s father for permission prior to proposing. “Apparently

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he was so nervous that he had written a speech to give to my dad. On our wedding day, before the ceremony, we exchanged letters and in my letter he had included the speech he had written and given to my father,” Sarah says.

The inspiration for the big day came from cozy and rustic elements tied together with cream and gold tones. Sarah and Ryan incorporated amazing textured linens to add to the elegance of the Grain Exchange and used “petal” type linens and sparkly linens as complements. Also, as homage to their surname, Buck, they incorporated deer antlers as a rustic twist on the cozy, classic, romantic vibe. They used a huge, white antler centerpiece for their card table and Melissa, from Bank of Memories, incorporated beautiful flowers to compliment the antlers and the linens.

Sarah and Ryan were wed before 183 guests. Sarah wore her dream dress, which was a French lace bodice, Italian silk organza skirt Reem Acra Spring 2014 dress.

It had a high neck and cape sleeves in this dreamy lace. Her something old and something borrowed were two pieces of jewelry from her paternal grandmother.

Sarah also carried her paternal great-great-grandmother’s gold-chained watch.

“It is over 100 years old and is inscribed with an ‘S’ for her last name, which is ironically my first name!”

The ceremony had some traditional elements, including a unity candle. In honor of Sarah’s maternal grandmother, Sarah and her sisters had a tribute to the Virgin Mary as a celebration during the ceremony. This part of the wedding day

did have some funny moments, too. “Ryan and I forgot to kiss!” Sarah says. “We have been so conditioned to hear ‘you may now kiss the bride,’ that when it didn’t come during the ceremony (we had a Catholic ceremony), we totally forgot. Our priest had to remind us.”

At the reception, the couple had their best friends, Mandy and Casey Stang of “The Stangs,” play their first dance acoustically. “It was one of the best and most personal parts of the day to dance to them singing,” says Sarah.

Guests were treated to seating from Bowery & Bash, which came through to create the most luxurious and chic groupings of furniture that Sarah feels really contributed to the coziness of the room. Sarah and Ryan also splurged on the food, as their families and friends are huge foodies. “We landed on The Grain Exchange in large part because of The Bartolotta’s Catering Company,” Sarah says. “This restaurant group is famous in Milwaukee for some of the best (and consistent) food. If it meant sacrificing a little on décor, we insisted on having amazing food that was piping hot to each and every guest, as if they were the only ones being served.” Guests were also able to enjoy a s’mores bar to top off the evening.

Looking back on the process of planning the wedding, Sarah offers the following sage advice: “Very few people are fortunate enough to have an unlimited budget— we were not one of them. As such, when wedding planning begins, take a moment to really think about the top items that are most important to you and your fiancé.”

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PHOTOGRAPHY Top Left: Front Room Photography, Top Right: Robyn Vining Photography, Bottom Left: Studio 29 Photography & Design, Bottom Middle: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Heather Cook Elliott Photography Out of all of the pieces of your wedding day, only two will remain after your day has passed: your marriage, of course, and your photos.

Wedding photography is often one of the biggest pieces of a bride’s budget pie. After all, it’s your photographer that you trust with the essential task of preserving your wedding memories. These aren’t just any photos. They’re the ones that will be on the mantle and in the album for years and years; long after Instagram filters have faded away.

One popular trend this year is styled photoshoots after the wedding. More and more, couples are deciding to do shoots the next day, or even later, in their wedding attire instead of spending precious hours on their actual wedding day posing for portraits. Another is that brides are bringing Pinterest boards of photography ideas to meetings. This is a great way for your photographer to understand what kind of photos you’re aiming for, whether they’re traditional and sweet, a little silly, or a mix of both!

Being a wedding photographer is an exhausting job, but it’s also a true passion. After

spending all day at a huge party on Saturday, they’re then editing photos, taking meetings with new clients, and snapping engagement sessions throughout the week. Since photographers have been to many weddings, they can also be helpful when it comes to planning your timeline.

After all, they’ve been to a wedding almost every weekend for the past year! For instance, many photographers suggest doing a first look so there’s plenty of time for photos before the ceremony so the couple can get to cocktail hour on time. Your photographer can help you plan small details like that to help you achieve the best flow for your day.

You should meet with your photographer as soon as you have your wedding date set.

Photographers tend to book very early on, sometimes as early as two years! Once booked, you’ll work together with your photographer to explain the look and feel of your wedding.

Most photographers now require engagement sessions as part of their packages; they’re not only great for Save the Dates and your wedding website, but they’re a time for the photographer

and you to get to know each other and the photographer to learn what you’re comfortable with in terms of angles and poses. Then, you’ll typically meet with or speak to your photographer once more as your wedding date approaches to finalize the details.

Don’t discount a photographer just because they’ve never been to your venue! Most wedding photographers like checking out new venues. Just ask them if they’ll scout the location beforehand, or bring along photos to one of your meetings. They’re professionals— they’ll be able to make do in a new setting! You can also Google “Your venue name + wedding photos” to see other shots brides have had done at your venue and send them along to your photographer for inspiration.

Last but not least, don’t forget about what happens with your photos after the wedding.

Think about whether you want sneak peaks on Facebook, a slideshow viewing party or some simple files sent to your email, and ask what the photographer’s typical post-wedding photo reveal process is.

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Ren Davis STUDIO 29 PHOTOGRAPHY & DESIGN REN AND CALEB make up the extraordinarily talented (and newly engaged!) Studio 29 Photography team. Having originally met at a wedding and re-finding each other years later at The National concert at Red Rocks, this duo has been inseparable ever since.

Ren has been photographing weddings since 2005 and is excited to be using all of her knowledge to plan her own wedding. Together they have worked throughout Wisconsin, Chicago, Pittsburgh, Atlanta, Dubuque, Minneapolis, Baltimore, Michigan, Washington D.C., Florida, and a few events out of the country in Mexico and Jamaica.

In 2014 Ren was selected as Editors Choice Photographer on Bp4u Photography Resources.

She has had "A" rating with the BBB since 2010.

Studio 29 has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings 2013, 2014, 2015, and 2016 Pick. Ren also won the WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Award for 2015.

Their work continues to be published nationally, and it’s no wonder why the wedding industry loves her. Beyond the public recognition, Ren’s clients have nothing but the highest regards for her role in their wedding.

“Studio 29 is the best!” raves Chris and Gwen Musche. “Ren is not only the sweetest person you'll meet, but her talent and artistic eye for photography is unmatched. The second my husband had me look at her photos, I knew she would be our photographer. Her service is

impeccable! The amazing thing about Ren is that she cares so much about your special day, she listens to what you like and don't like, and she gets to know you as a couple. Ren was able to capture everything we were feeling throughout the day.

Our pictures don't just say one thousand words; they captured the words that our hearts were speaking too.”

Ren and Caleb’s favorite part of being your photographer is that they gain two new friends and get a front-row seat to your raw love story.

To them, photography is not just taking photos; it is about building relationships and playing a special part of milestone moments in others’ lives. Together they specialize in modern, quirky, and unique coverage for creative and inspirational couples, with a style best described as soft, timeless, and genuine.

Beyond photographing love stories, Ren enjoys working on paintings and calligraphy projects and Caleb is a full-time sales engineer. Together, they love spending time with their Akita, Kenzo, and their two cats, Yoshi and Lamar, taking long walks, cooking, amateur gardening, renovating their home, motorcycle rides, and traveling.

If you are looking for someone who cares as much about telling your love story as you do, will go above and beyond to establish and maintain a relationship with you, and will be an integral part in your wedding day, then check out Ren and Caleb of Studio 29 Photography. It will be love at first sight!

“OUR PICTURES DON'T JUST SAY ONE THOUSAND WORDS, THEY CAPTURED THE WORDS THAT OUR HEARTS WERE SPEAKING TOO.”

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Robyn Vining ROBYN VINING PHOTOGRAPHY

I'M LUCKY IN THAT I GET TO DO WHAT I LOVE. I go to work each day in the art + people world, and that makes my heart sing. I love my job, my clients, my studio, my staff, and I love working to push any boundary I can to push our work better, deeper and further. And then I go home, sit in my favorite corner of the couch, snuggle my kids, rest with my brilliant husband, and break for things like a good long run and a great glass of wine. It is a good life, for which I am very thankful!

You seem to break from the traditional portraiture mold. Tell us more about that. I do! There aren't two people in the world who are the same, and thoughtful portrait artists will convey the uniqueness of the individuals and couples on the other side of the lens.

When I go out to shoot, I ask myself, “Who are my clients?” I love how my clients leap out of molds, and I want to be sure to capture that in my photographs.

As a photographer, you get to be a part of some of the most wonderful (and intimate) moments in people's lives. What feeling does that bring to mind? Honor. Not a wedding goes by that I am not humbly aware that I have been invited in to some of the most private, precious moments in people's lives. This is a privilege and I feel honored to be invited in.

How do you help a couple decide if you’ll be the right fit for them as their wedding photographer? I try to be a pretty open book online, so I think people get a sense for me and my work before they ever walk through the door. At that point I am excited to meet them, learn who they are, what they love, and give them the chance to decide if they want to spend 10 hours with me the day they get married!

pose or "un-pose" you, I will. And if you don't, I won't. But the starting point isn't whether or not I pose you; it's who you are as individuals and as a team.

What specifically about weddings do you love to photograph? People. Details are fun, and they can be special in many ways. But more recently I’ve become aware how often I have a camera pointed at a centerpiece or shoe while someone is hugging, laughing or crying, or a grandmother is looking across the room and her face speaks to the decades of love that have led up to this day. So, I've had to do a self-check on what I think is central to weddings. We'll grab beautiful images of

details as we go, but for me the people and emotions are central.

Can you speak a bit about your passion and how it translates into your work? I absolutely love being a photographer. My favorite part of it all is having a couple find me, and then I get to fall absolutely in love with them. My clients inspire me: the individuals they are, the unique teams they create, and how they see the world unlike any other two people. And yes, atmospherics, textures, color, timing and composition play a really big role in my work, because my background is in fine art, but that is all very much married to my love for people. People are my favorite.

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Tegan Jae THE PAPER ELEPHANT

TEGAN JAE IS THE ARTISTIC VISION behind The Paper Elephant, a business dedicated to creating genuine, romantic and timeless imagery for the modern couple. The namesake is a throwback to when she was a little girl creating silly knock knock jokes about elephants. Tegan’s clients attest to her aesthetic talents and ability to capture the raw emotion and heart-warming moments throughout their special day. "The pictures are breathtaking!” raves her bride, Sarah. “Tegan and her team captured the most intimate, beautiful moments of our wedding day. It’s amazing how I can look at the photos and genuinely smile and remember how I was feeling in that moment.”

Tegan’s approach to weddings is a melding of documentary and lifestyle photography. She draws on her academic background in design and architecture to produce classic imagery, deliberately applying the principles of design and inspired by leading lines, depth and rich colors. She strives to remain an observer of your wedding day and only intervenes when necessary to achieve the artistic vision.

Tegan believes that photographs should

timelessly reflect your love, with a focus on the special moments that make your wedding day unique. She explains her philosophy, “The settings and details of a wedding day are important in telling the story and setting the scene, but the moments are the real story.” She loves photographing the raw emotions, whether it be tears shed from the bride's father as he dances with his little girl, laughter as the maid-of-honor reminds everyone of the bride’s childhood antics, or excitement from the groom as he kisses his bride for the first time.

awkward (unless it's cute awkward) or like posed cake toppers smiling on command. I want them to relax, laugh and remember the experience and excitement every time they look at the images.” She will subtly guide you with prompts and posing that fits your style and makes you look glamorous while allowing your personality to shine through in your photographs.

You can expect to become more than just a client to Tegan. With the hands-on, personal attention that she provides, Tegan treats her brides as friends from the first meeting until far beyond the final product delivery. She wants to get to know you as an individual and as a couple. Like any good friend, she will be available to discuss wedding ideas or find creative ways to fit photography into your wedding day, encourage you to be yourself, and make sure that you look and feel amazing on your special day. After all, the more comfortable and confident you are, the more beautiful you will look in front of the camera, and the happier you will be with your photos and overall experience.

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Not only is Tegan a talented photographer in demand throughout the Midwest, New York, Florida, California and Nevada, she is also a designer, educator, bacon lover, wife and cat cuddlier. Easygoing and fun, she will make sure you feel comfortable and at ease in front of the camera. Tegan encourages her clients to relax and interact with each other to create genuine moments and real reactions. “I never want my couples to look

Heather Cook Elliott HEATHER COOK ELLIOTT PHOTOGRAPHY LOVE. A four-letter word that brought you two together. It's also the foundation of the breathtaking photographs captured by Heather Cook Elliott Photography: "For those who love love."

Heather Cook Elliott is the principal force behind her namesake company, which allows her to practice one of her passions. Noting her background in architecture and sociology in addition to photography, it's that combination that drives Heather's shooting style—a rather undefined style. Imagine photojournalistic meets eclectic, then hooks up with artsy and sensual. And don't forget contemporary, timeless and vintage. Heather sums it up best: The results are real. "My job is built on a skillful understanding of how families and traditions work and being able to discern who and what is important."

personal touch as table centerpieces. "Exactly the kind of detail we love to photograph."

With Heather Cook Elliott Photography, every detail will be captured—none too small and no love story too big to capture as timeless snippets of art.

“MY JOB IS BUILT ON A SKILLFUL UNDERSTANDING OF HOW FAMILIES AND TRADITIONS WORK AND BEING ABLE TO DISCERN WHO AND WHAT IS IMPORTANT.” When Heather arrives to capture your magical day, you'll also meet one of her associates (Carolina, Emily or Sara) or colleagues. "We always shoot in pairs because I believe the groom is as important as the bride, the family as important as the décor details, guest portraits as important as bridal portraits." The four leading women collaborate, challenge and inspire one another. In fact, they're so simpatico it's nearly impossible to know who captured what shot, although Heather is the final editor for all photos.

Heather and her associates act as discreet wedding party members, quietly leading your group to settings with the best light, the most striking backgrounds around Milwaukee—or anywhere from Door County to northern Illinois, and even to destinations such as Hawaii, Ireland and the Bahamas.

If your wedding party needs to loosen up a bit, the photographers joke and become a little playful.

However, couples typically say that Heather and her shooter are so happy and calm that the couples pick up the Zen mood. And speaking of personalities, make sure you really love your photographer and their artistry, as he or she will be your constant companion all day.

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Veil Advertisers CATERER & RECEPTION LOCATION

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Let's Have An Affair WEDDING MUSIC & LIGHTING

Sound By Design

Bridesmaids Dresses: VIP Occasions Ceremony Location: Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum Guest Favors: Grand Wine Cellars Hair & Makeup: Creative Beauty Agency (CBA) Invitations & Stationery: QB Check Designs Men’s Formalwear: Men’s Wearhouse Photo Booth Rental & Photography: Yazy Jo Photography Videography: Watermark Studios Wedding Cake: The Cake Lady Wedding Gown Salon: FiFi’s Tailor & Custom Design

DIY MOMENT Taylor’s sister-in-law created and designed the wedding monogram from start to finish. The couple used her creation throughout the day.

“It represented our wedding perfectly,” Taylor says.

“Classic and elegant.”

A Night to Remember

by Laura Vietmeyer

Taylor knew Nick was the one from the day they first met at the University of Iowa. After six years building a life together, Nick surprised Taylor with a picture perfect proposal. It was time for the couple to set about planning their dream wedding. During their 17-month engagement, they worked with the best vendors in Milwaukee to plan a meaningful ceremony and a stunning reception.

SHE’S “THE ONE” Nick: It was early September during our junior year of college and Taylor had just begun rush week for her sorority. I ended up getting very sick and went home for the weekend. Hours after arriving home, Taylor came walking into the room to be by my side. That is the first time I told her I loved her.

THE PROPOSAL Nick wanted to celebrate the one-year anniversary of us owning our first home while I was trying to plan a surprise party for his 25th birthday. He insisted we go out to lunch to celebrate, but I tried to think of

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every excuse not to go because I had so much to do before his party. Thankfully, he convinced me to go. After eating at one of our favorite spots, we went for a walk. Nick stopped and I had no idea what he was doing. He gave a romantic speech, got down on one knee, and asked me to marry him. I was completely surprised. Immediately after, a local photographer who Nick hired to catch the entire engagement greeted us. Then we met up with our parents. I found out that Nick knew about his surprise party for weeks. We surprised our closest family and friends with our engagement news instead.

taylor & nick

married 07-09-2016

MUST-HAVE DETAIL Delicious and fun food! We both come from Italian families and we all love to eat. The Grain Exchange did an amazing job of creating a menu that contained classic dishes, but elevated them in a way that made everyone say, “That was the best wedding food we have ever had!”

SPLURGE WORTHY We had to splurge on the flowers. We also added “pin lighting” to the centerpieces. They made the room so romantic and lush! I wish I could be surrounded by those Belle Fiori flowers every day.

WORTH EVERY PENNY The photographer and videographer were definitely worth every penny and then some. Our videographer from Watermark Studios created a “same day edit” video that was shown during our reception, which our guests loved.

FUNNY MOMENT Nick went to get me a drink from the bar, so his brother sat in Nick’s chair next to me for a few minutes. Nick and his brother look a lot alike, so our guests started to clink their glasses for us to kiss, thinking that it was Nick!

belt. During the ceremony I wore blush Badgley Mischka heels and then rocked Kate Spade white glittered Keds for the reception. Nick gave me the most stunning diamond earrings minutes before the ceremony.

FIRST LOOK Nick: When I first saw Taylor come around the corner and begin to walk down the aisle, the world went still. I just stared at her, as she was the most beautiful woman in the world. I couldn’t wait to say, “I do.”

SPECIAL TOUCH Our ceremony at the Villa Terrace was extremely special from start to finish. I put the entire ceremony together and Nick’s aunts officiated everything. Two of my aunts read short readings, Nick and I wrote our own vows, and our parents stood during the ceremony to bless our rings.

CHERISH FOREVER If you write your own vows, DO NOT throw those away. Since you will be so emotional during the actual ceremony, you might completely forget what the other person was saying.

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HONEYMOON & TRAVEL

Explore

by Jessica Pairrett

Pause for a moment, close your eyes and let your mind wander. Imagine the two of you standing together on a beach, dressed in your wedding day's finest. An intimate gathering of loved ones is before you, awaiting the official "I now pronounce you husband and wife."

A destination wedding on the beach, or at any other extraordinary spot in the world, can be yours. Not only does a destination wedding offer a spectacular experience but also it's a chance to leave your ceremony and start your honeymoon straight away. The memories you and those closest to you create will be cherished forever.

Sure, this sounds wonderful, but a destination wedding is so expensive, right?

Surprisingly not so, says Lisa Hoppe of Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting. Choosing a destination over a traditional wedding can save quite a bit of money. "The average wedding today costs over $20,000, whereas a bride and groom could spend less than 25-50% on a destination wedding and

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have an incredible ceremony and honeymoon vacation." A travel consultant, like Lisa and her team, can create a just-for-you, upgraded package for under $5,000. Depending on your plans, some resorts might even provide a ceremony and reception for free.

As for location, you may prefer a popular locale like Jamaica, St. Lucia, Mexico or the Dominican Republic at an all-inclusive resort. Hawaii is beautiful and ideal to avoid passport hassle. Or for something a bit different, Lisa suggests New Zealand, the Maldives, Tahiti or Fiji.

Depending on preference, the experience may include hiking in a rainforest, exploring local hot spots, scuba diving or relaxing on a beach.

In particular, Fiji offers an exceptionally unique ceremony. The bride, on a decorated raft, floats to a beach location. Wearing garlands of fragrant flowers around their necks, the couple exchanges vows as the sun sets. "It's absolutely magical!" Lisa says.

Once the location is picked, you're almost set! Your travel consultant can assist with any extra details you need help with, such as any necessary government paperwork that needs filling out.

The team can also refer the couple to tour operators for activities and wedding planners for help with amenities, regulations or customs in the destination of choice. With a variety of experts assisting with your wedding plans, you're all but guaranteed to have a beautifully fabulous wedding of a lifetime.

Lisa Hoppe LISA HOPPE TRAVEL CONSULTING FIRSTHAND KNOWLEDGE, VIP service and pure passion are at the heart of Milwaukee's Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting, where you're sure to plan that perfect honeymoon or destination wedding. Owner Lisa Hoppe has traveled to 81 countries herself, lending her personal experience and insight to create that dream getaway for brides- and grooms-to be.

Lisa's passion for travel and learning new things grew from childhood. Translating that into her business, Lisa says she works with couples, truly listening as she helps select the right destination and a resort fitting both needs and budget. Then Lisa's expert travel agent team assists the couple with anything from selecting flights, choosing activities in and around the destination, booking relaxing spa treatments and any other special adventures that'll make for a trip of a lifetime.

Lisa has "cultivated relationships with managers of resorts and destinations all over the world," and she's proud to say the same about Sandals and Beaches resort managers in the Caribbean, who welcome guests with VIP treatment. Additionally, Lisa is an exclusive Sandals Chairman's Royal Club member and for each of the past 14 years, she's earned Sandals STAR Awards.

If you're looking for something other than a resort stay, you'll find plenty of suggestions here. As Lisa's done, visit Tahiti, Jean Michel Cousteau's resort in Fiji, or scuba dive Australia's Great Barrier or Mexico's Palancar reef. Or, glimpse pink dolphins in the Amazon! And if you’re leaning toward a romantic destination wedding and honeymoon all in one, Lisa's team will ensure every detail is precisely planned.

Because traveling to the unknown may leave

“I CAN OFFER A LOT OF INSIGHT TO EASE ANY FEARS OR ANSWER QUESTIONS FOR A COUPLE”

you wondering "What if?" Lisa's extensive travel experience will calm those nerves. "I can often say 'I've been there' or 'I've done that,' so I can offer a lot of insight to ease any fears or answer questions for a couple." Is travel insurance really needed? Or is the water safe to drink? Let Lisa guide you.

You'll soon realize how fast your wedding day passes, and the day should be cherished among one another, family and friends. But after, relish your honeymoon, Lisa says, as "it's the start of many wonderful years together."

Expert planning for the perfect

Destination Wedding

or Honeymoon.

Destination Weddings, Honeymoons, Luxury or Value Vacations 6005 W. Wisconsin Avenue, Wauwatosa, WI 53213 (P) 414-258-8715 | 800-966-8715 lisa@hoppetravel.com | www.hoppetravel.com

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ST RY

Aww,

SNAP!

By Michelle Drewek

Picture this; you are getting ready to enter your wedding ceremony.

Family and friends are gathered together, and your handsome groom is anxiously awaiting your entrance. As the doors open you look down to meet his gaze, only you can’t quite meet his eyes with the flashes of cameras flickering left and right, all while guests peek in and out of the aisle to take that Instagram-worthy shot of you on their phone.

You may have seen the viral photograph on social media an Australian wedding photographer shared. It’s a picture of a groom as he sees his bride for the first time, only he is leaning to look around several guests with their phones up taking pictures of her. What was supposed to be an unforgettable moment between the groom and his bride on their wedding day became a tainted portrait.

Bride-to-be Crystal Halliday cringes at the thought of her groom finding himself in this same scenario after experiencing technology overload first-hand.

WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE AN UNFORGETTABLE MOMENT BETWEEN THE GROOM AND HIS BRIDE ON THEIR WEDDING DAY BECAME A TAINTED PORTRAIT.

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“I was sitting at a friend’s wedding and couldn't even see the couple because of all the phones raised up taking photos,” Crystal says. “The only sounds I could hear were the constant shutter snaps of the cell phones and cameras instead of the amazing, hand-written vows my friends were saying to each other. In that moment I knew, without a doubt, I wanted an unplugged ceremony.”

An unplugged ceremony is when a couple asks their guests to leave all phones and cameras tucked away during the ceremony, giving them the opportunity to be present in the moment and allow for your photographer to do their job to the best of their ability. From a practical standpoint, an unplugged ceremony helps to ensure that the pretty penny you put towards finding and hiring the best photographer to capture this special day is well spent. The last thing any bride or groom wants in their wedding photographs are cell phones and camera lenses distracting from what could have been a beautifully capture moment.

“I WAS SITTING AT A FRIEND’S WEDDING AND COULDN'T EVEN SEE THE COUPLE BECAUSE OF ALL THE PHONES RAISED UP TAKING PHOTOS,”

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“WHEN I LOOK OUT TO MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I WANT TO SEE THEIR SMILES, NOT THEIR PHONES.”

While the concept itself is an understandable request to make, you may wonder how to politely execute the unplugged ceremony in a tactful, tasteful manner. Thanks to apps like Pinterest, plenty of ideas already exist online for classy ways to publicize your unplugged ceremony to guests. Create a cute sign that can be posted at the entrance of your ceremony asking guests to please turn off their devices and enjoy this special moment with you. You can also add it to your wedding website and include a note on the wedding invitations as a way to make sure guests have advanced notice of your expectations. Finally, the officiant can make an announcement prior to the ceremony starting as a final reminder before you make your entrance.

A photograph is worth a thousand words, and creating a plan to ensure that quality shines through with every snap of your photographer’s camera is well worth your attention. It’s an often overlooked detail that could save you and your photographer a lot of headaches while bringing the focus back to what is most important—the intimate union of you and your love.

In the words of Crystal, “When I look out to my friends and family, I want to see their smiles, not their phones.”

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ADVERTISERS INDEX BAKERIES

COFFEE CATERING

Simma’s Bakery 414-257-0998 simmasbakery.com

146

Roast Coffee Catering 414-828-2030 roastcoffeecatering.com

Miss Molly's Pastries 414.530.1065 missmollyspastries.com

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ENTERTAINMENT - DJ’S Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

BARTENDING SERVICE Bartenders On The Go 414-899-6151 bartendonthego.com

49

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Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, ETC. 608-527-4436 brandisbridal.com

116

Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

Bucci's Bridal 262-691-9963 buccisbridal.com

118

Stone Manor Bridal 262-377-5334 StoneManorBridal.com

117

26-27

107

BRIDAL SHOWS Bridal Show at Overture, The overturebridalshow.com

79

Milwaukee’s Magnificent Bride mmbshow.com

78

CALLIGRAPHY Blooming Quill, The 262-268-0525 bloomingquill.com

153

CATERERS Sazama’s Fine Catering 414-276-2030 sazs.com

24-25

Saz’s Hospitality Group 414-256-8765 sazs.com

24-25

Saz's Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com

24-25

16-19, 173 Back Cover

24-25, 36

Shully’s Cuisine & Events 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

36, 37, 46

Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

16-19, 173 Back Cover

Front Room Photography 414-294-0080 frphoto.com

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Robyn Vining Photography 414-581-0700 robynviningphotography.com

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Studio 29 Photography & Design 414-335-4031 foto-29.com

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Belle Fiori LTD 414-272-2234 bellefioriflorist.com

165

The Paper Elephant 262-923-8343 thepaperelephant.com

Jane Kelly Floral 414-640-0204 janekellyfloral.com

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PRE & POST NUPTIAL PARTY LOCATIONS

GIFT REGISTRY George Watts & Son 800-747-9288 georgewatts.com

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HONEYMOON & TRAVEL Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting 414-258-8715 800-966-8715 hoppetravel.com

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INVITATIONS & STATIONERY Paper Pleasers LLC 414-301-1751 paper-pleasers.com

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JEWELERS 87, David Liska Inside Back Cover Custom Jeweler 414-278-6000 DavidLiskaCustomJeweler.com 8 Lyle Husar Designs 262-789-8585 lylehusardesigns.com Harleys The Store For Men 414-332-3404 888-797-SUIT harleys4men.com

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Wingman Formalwear 262-377-5334 StoneManorBridal.com

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Heather Cook Elliott Photography 414-944-1475 HeatherCookElliott.com

Bank of Memories & Flowers 262-253-9111 262-695-9911 bankofflowers.net

MEN’S FORMALWEAR

Saz's Catering Lake Country 262-691-9796 sazs.com

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FLOWERS

BRIDAL DRESSES FOR MOTHERS Bruce Paul Goodman 262-781-6083 brucepaulgoodman.com

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EVENT DÉCOR AND DESIGN

Bella Bridesmaids 414-270-0344 bellabridesmaids.com

Two-Gether We Wed 414-813-7498 TwogetherWeWed.com

PHOTO BOOTH RENTALS

Barking Pony Studios 414-302-0778 BarkingPonyBrides.com

BRIDAL BOUTIQUES

White Dress Bridal Boutique 414-897-7208 whitedressmilwaukee.com

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Bacchus – A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 bacchusmke.com Bartolotta’s Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com

40-41, 42

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Camp Bar Milwaukee 414-930-9282 Shorewood 414-962-5182 Wauwatosa 414-763-3793 campbarmke.com

42

Harbor House 414-395-4900 harborhousemke.com

40-41, 42

Heidel House Resort & Spa 800-444-2812 heidelhouse.com

10, 34, 42

Hyatt Regency Milwaukee 414-276-1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com

39, 34, 44

Kil@Wat 414-291-4793 kilawatcuisine.com

14-15, 44

Kimpton Journeyman Hotel, The 20-21, 34,44 414-291-3970 journeymanhotel.com Mason Street Grill 414-298-3131 masonstreetgrill.com

14-15, 44

Milwaukee ChopHouse 414-390-4562 chophouse411.com

14-15, 44

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Mr. B’s – A Bartolotta Steakhouse 262-790-7005 mrbssteakhouse.com

40-41, 46

Hyatt Regency Milwaukee 414-276-1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com

39, 34, 44

Saz’s State House Restaurant – The State Room 414-453-2410 sazs.com

24-25, 46

InterContinental Milwaukee 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com

14-15, 34

Seeboth, The 414-841-9374 theseeboth.com

36, 46, 47

Shully’s Cuisine & Events Thien Room 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

36, 37, 46

Turner Hall Restaurant 414-227-0457 414-763-1490 turnerhallrestaurant.com

45, 46

40-41, 42

Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at Pier Wisconsin 34, 40-41 414-765-8610 bartolottacatering.com Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at The Grain Exchange 34, 40-41 414-727-6980 bartolottacatering.com Bartolotta's Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com

Milwaukee Art Museum 414-224-3287 mam.org

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Pfister , The 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com Potawatomi Hotel & Casino 414-PAYSBIG (729-7244) paysbig.com/meetings

RECEPTION LOCATIONS Bacchus - A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 bacchusmke.com

Kimpton Journeyman Hotel, The 20-21, 34,44 414-291-3970 journeymanhotel.com

34, 40-41, 42

Grand Geneva Resort & Spa 800-558-3417 GrandGeneva.com

34, 35

Heidel House Resort & Spa 800-444-2812 heidelhouse.com

10, 34, 42

Hilton Milwaukee City Center 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com

14-15, 34

Historic Pritzlaff 143 Historic Pritzlaff 325 Historic Pritzlaff 333 Historic Pritzlaff 414-433-6088 pritzlaffevents.com

28-29, 34

Ramhorn Farm 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com

14-15, 36

5, 36

22-23, 36

War Memorial Center 414-273-5533 warmemorialcenter.org

36, 38

RENTALS-LINENS Windy City Linen 224-279-1500 x7 windycitylinen.com

61

RENTALS-PARTY/RECEPTION EQUIPMENT 65 Canopies Events with Distinction 414-760-0770 canopiesevents.com 22-23, 36 événement planning 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com Beauty 414-276-5054 beautymilwaukee.com

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Sazama's Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts 24-25, 36 414-276-2030 sazamas.com

Halo Salon 414-272-4256 halomilwaukee.com

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Saz’s Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com

Sound By Design Films 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

River Club of Mequon 262-242-1400 riverclubofmequon.com

Saz's Catering at the Country Inn & Suites - Port Washington 414-256-8765 sazs.com

6-7, 36

24-25, 36

24-25

Saz's Catering Lake Country Western Lakes Golf Club 262-691-9796 sazs.com

24-25, 36

Seeboth, The 414-841-9374 theseeboth.com

36, 46, 47

Shully’s Cuisine & Events The Watermark 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

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Turner Hall Restaurant 414-227-0457 414-763-1490 turnerhallrestaurant.com

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WEDDING & EVENT PLANNERS Cherry Blossom Events 608-497-0133 cherrybevents.com

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Dynamic Events by David Caruso 12-13 414-283-0050 dynamiceventsinc.com 22-23, 36 événement planning 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com 84 Let’s Have An Affair 262-893-1808 LetsHaveAnAffair.com

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