Inspirational Moments
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SHINE, But Stay Woke
Business & Entreprenuership pg. 13 Thankful for My Businesses That Fuels My God Given Purposes
Health & Wellness pg. 16
Contents
Elevation Nutrition: “The right attitude breeds high altitude”
Political Awareness pg. 20
A Front Row View with Candidate Dr. Remi Duyile
Education is Key pg. 24 COVID-19 on Education Two Years Later
Community Outreach pg. 38
“Community is EVERYWHERE!!” Community Hero pg. 10
Community News Flash pg. 28 Birthday Shout-Outs pg. 56
Monthly Commemorations Disenfranchised and Often Unrecognized
Authors Speak pg. 40 The Youth Mess: Sharing Her Gifts with the World
All Things Fashion pg. 44 Spring is Here Celebrate Women’s History Month
Arts & Media pg. 50 The Man and His Sax
Cover Story pg. 30
Contributing
Writers
March/April 2022 Issue Marjorie Middleton Karen McConnell-Jones Jason Greene Belinda Stevenson Antonio “Tony T” Turner Martina Turner Seth Washington Michelle DeMarcia Davis Krystal Glenn Laila Cunningham
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Inspirational Moments
he devil is a liar…and crafty, and slick, and even smart. But, you are smarter! The worse lie of the enemy is to try to convince you to believe him over God. God loves and believes in us, so the devil is defeated and no match for the glorious, matchless power of our Father. Always listen for the voice of the Lord in good and not so good times. The adversary’s agenda is to destroy you and ruin your relationship with God. But, remember, there is no need to be afraid, because God is readily available and will lead us to victory. With this knowledge we can only be successful. Shine! And, stay woke. Show your best assets to the world and let the Lord know you trust Him because you’re not afraid of being shiny and new. Every day you are a new creation because of the breath he supplies you with. People say life is short, but take your time to learn all you can glean, do your very best in all you choose and are called to do, and, most of all… shine, Shine, SHINE!
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SHINE, But Stay Woke By Marjorie Middleton
Be your fabulous self, Queen. Show the world you are formidable, King. Make a difference in your home, in your workplace and community. Trust God and know that while you’re shining, the enemy and the world are always waiting to trip you up and devour your successes. “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I come that they may have life and have it abundantly.” John 10:10. Recently, I went through a workplace situation that began as discouraging. I have always stood up for myself, and others, in unfair or wrong situations. About 2 months ago I was asked by a work superior to donate to a gift cause. I did not mind and gave what cash I had (if you know me you know I rarely carry cash), $8. My plan was to give $2 more, when I had it. A couple days later I approached with my $2 and was told, “The Team decided we are giving $20.” I felt offended and confronted. My money, my choice. I wanted to say how I felt, but I also treasure the SHINE. I took the high road. And, as my co-worker for many days tried to shame me for not giving more, I chose to shine…I was kind, generous and a supportive team member. That was more important than the “full court press” of intimidation I was being faced with. I spread love, encouragement and a good attitude and eventually that created a workplace “shine.” No matter the situation we are equipped to overcome. Stay woke. We should always jump into life with both feet. Do and be your best. Keeping your eyes on the enemy should become easier and easier as we strive to become more like Christ. Don’t ever let anyone stop you from being who you are called to be. I’m reminded of a recent powerful and shiny story. On February 13, 2022, Erin Jackson became the first Black American woman to medal in speed skating in the Olympics, ever. Not only did she medal, she won the shiniest of all…gold. The year before she won the 500 meters in the Speedskating World Cup race, also the first Black American woman to win. Stereotypes exist. Erin faced disbelief and criticism because she is Black and competing in a cold weather sport that many still reserve for white people. And, she lives in Florida. But, Erin worked on her gifts and talents and became the best in the world. She turned her back on the naysayers, stayed woke and eventually outshined the world.
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Do not fear the enemy whether it’s the devil, someone at work, or this world and its’ inhabitants. Choose to live a victorious, shiny life. That’s what I choose. I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance, to live so that which came to me as blossom goes on as fruit. There are so many stories about perseverance that you and I can relate to. At times we are roughed up in life but as we go through our journey we actually find blessings. A friend recently had the anniversary of the day he had 3 heart attacks and survived. On that day, he reflects and ensures that he remains grateful, focused and woke. He was on the brink of death and God spared his life. After healing, he gave back to others, becoming involved in the volunteer program at the hospital. He visits those who have heart ailments and tells his story providing encouragement, a realistic view on what to expect and a few jokes. God is good and has a purpose for our blessings, our shine.
Some good take aways:
Keep on shining. Do you. Do your very best! Be mindful of the enemy, maintain eyes on the Lord in order to stay focused. Haters are going to hate; shine anyway!
Be Blessed.!
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Community Hero
We Honor You!
Evelyn Betancourt
Vision & Purpose Community Magazine (VPCM): Tell us about our Community Hero? Evelyn Betancourt (EB): During my humble beginnings my mother used to remind me that your faith in God is everything and it is first and foremost in life. Be kind and always help others along the way. I became very passionate in learning and developing myself as well as helping others to find their undiscovered talents. God has given each of us a special gift, so share that gift in life with others. VPCM: What is your greatest strength/asset? EB: My greatest strength is my compassion for people. I am always willing to take time to help and listen to others.
Thankful,
VPCM: How do you use your gift/talent to give back to the community?
Compassionate,
Adventurous
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EB: I use my gift/talent to give back to the community by mentoring youth in afterschool programs and community service initiatives. I also volunteer through different charity organizations such as American Heart Association, American Cancer Society, and being a part of local community outreach initiatives. VPCM: The Community is Priority Group is made up of business owners and/or business leaders. Why are you a member of this organization? EB: The Community is Priority Group allows me to get involved with our community. Being up close and personal, and very hands on. To see the smiles on the people’s faces and the love that they give us is all worth the efforts given by the organization. Blessed to be a member. VPCM: What does community mean to you? EB: Community means togetherness, unity, coming together as one in finding peace and understanding. VPCM: Who/what inspires you and why? EB: I am so inspired by Rosa Parks. She was a very smart woman. She had many jobs of expressing unity throughout the community. She went on her own decision in life of what she felt was right, not accepting how things were done but being bold enough to help with CHANGE! VPCM: What does Vision and Purpose mean to you? EB: Having God’s grace to direct my life and fill me up with purpose.
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Business & Entrepreneurship Thankful For My Businesses That Fuels My God Given Purposes By Karen McConnell-Jones
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usiness and entrepreneurship: What does it really mean? For some folks it could mean all the same and for others it could mean something totally different altogether. For our talented Angela L. Bryant, it means allowing herself to be a vessel for God and permitting His spirit to flow freely through her which has truly directed her path in all that she does in life. So, she asks, “is it really business or am I just extremely thankful to God for blessing me with His many purposes that allows me to do His business throughout our community?” After spending much time with Angela and getting a chance to see her inner beauty that shines through so clearly, I can only say that the V&P team is pleased to present to our readers the beauty of a WOMAN that moves through life with the grace of doing God’s purpose.
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She truly enjoys working with people and helping them find their “humble abode”. Two of her goals for the next couple of years are to self-tour across the USA in a RV to share hope and inspiration to souls in need as well as to set up single-mom meet-ups throughout the DC Metro area.
A Woman’s Work Angela L. Bryant, is a Realtor, Singer, Songwriter, Speaker, and Author. She has an MBA with a concentration in Human Resources and she’s a proud graduate of a HBCU (Oakwood University, Huntsville, AL). Angela has produced and recorded three CDs and toured the USA with a nationally known singing group, Morning Song Music Group. She has had the honor of sharing the stage with musical greats such as Clifton David, Stevie Mackey, Virtue, Aeolians, John Stoddart, Tamela Mann, and Byron Cage. She is an author and is now working on the books, Keeping Christ Center Stage and Tell Me (children’s book soon to be released). In 2006, Angela founded a non-profit organization, By Your Side Ministries, Inc., fulfilling her goal to establish an organization that provides young, single moms mentorship to help them accomplish their career and personal goals. Using her terms, she cut her teeth as a speaker for youth coaching and continued as a keynote speaker at women’s and youth conferences. She has conducted seminars and workshops regarding “purpose”. In 2019, she became a Realtor with Realty One Group (Excellence and Capital) in Maryland and Virginia and established “Abodes by Angela”. 14 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Angela is a rebel by nature, but for the right reasons… equal justice for all and liberty in Christ. She’s an innate cheerleader for others regardless of their background, culture and ethnicity. She likes to share through singing, writing and speaking and is part of the reason why Angela headed up Ellington’s Café in her church, established Sounds 4 the Soul Entertainment—Uplifting spirits… Inspiring souls, and hosted a podcast, Life Happens: Now What? Her heart beats for the youth and young adults, including young single mothers. She volunteered as a youth coach in her church, Community Praise Church, for over ten years. Her mission then and now is to help people identify, embrace, and live their purpose. Most importantly, Angela is a Christian woman who strives to live her life like Christ and treat everyone the way that she wants to be treated, regardless of who they are.
Still Not Done Yet When asked, what led Angela to become a Professional Gospel Singer? Angela replied that she considers herself an Inspirational singer which encompasses gospel. Her mission is to infuse hope and inspiration into the lives of her audience and that hope is only found in Jesus Christ as one’s Lord and Savior. She sings for secular events but always with an inspirational theme. Her rule is if the song doesn’t reflect the principle of Christianity (i.e., love, hope, and peace), she won’t sing it. As a Christian (which is a lifestyle), Angela feels that she has a short time to get a message across and the message she leaves the audience with has to be everlasting and that message is Jesus. Nothing else in this world matters. Angela feels she owes that to her audience and most importantly to God who gave her these talents. In addition, this is why her heart was led to start her own non-profit organization and to be a giver to her community. “I was a teen mom at the age of 19 and know first-hand the challenges—mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually—they face. I want to help teen moms; help navigate them to live their life’s purpose while accomplishing their dreams. If I can do it, so can they. As a Christian, it is my obligation to give back to my community. But also, as a youth, I watched my parents look out for those in need so it comes second nature to me.”
As we celebrate Women’s History Month and as a Black women owned business, Angela is proud of the progress we have made as women. Yet says, as Black women, there is still much work to be done. So, let’s celebrate our milestones, achievements and progress but let’s not get complacent. Let’s look at how we can do the next decade better. Let us have a closer network of allies. As women who work together to pave the way for upcoming Black women entrepreneurs, we must include and provide resources (mentoring and funding) that promote sustainability. Angela leaves us with these final words, “Who am I and what do I see? I am a loving mother, devoted wife, people-person, encouraging, and I am resilient. Nevertheless, the love of Christ is forever in my heart and in my walk. You see, if our goal as a woman or man is to be rich at all costs, we have got it all wrong. Being rich means more than financial prosperity. It includes enriching the lives of others with all of our resources. I challenge every reader to consider your motivation and plans for your financial goals and successes. Ask yourself, are they self or community serving. It’s never too late to do the right thing until you take your last breath.”
“For all of the aspiring entrepreneurs and purpose driven people just remember to know who you are first. Get the help (training, mentoring, counseling, prayer, etc.) you need to develop and hone yourself and your skills. Discover your “why” and “purpose”. Embrace them and use them to fuel your efforts to accomplish your goals and dreams. And NO unnecessary compromises and NO excuses! And to top it all off, trust the one who gave you your gifts, purpose and life.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 15
Health & Wellness
Elevation Nutrition: “The right attitude breeds high altitude” By Jason R. Greene
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t is truly something to experience when you receive the honor of witnessing two amazing individuals walk and live in their Vision & Purpose. Now me being a card-carrying member of that same special group, I am able to connect, empathize and completely understand the incredible growth and story of success in the overall health and wellness of Mrs. Charisse Johnson, Mr. Keith Dockett and the creation of their business, Elevation Nutrition. Vision and Purpose Community Magazine had the pleasure of sitting down for a special interview with Mrs. Johnson and Mr. Dockett, where we discussed their history of health and wellness from becoming Herbalife Distributors to opening their own community-based health and wellness club called Elevation Nutrition. It was truly an honor to sit down with the owners in preparation for their interview and later attend their family and friends/grand opening day back on Saturday, February 19, 2022. The V&P team and I were in attendance. Thank you, Charisse and Keith, for entrusting me and the V&P team with your vision and with your story. This is undoubtedly a health and wellness success story built on the slogan “The right attitude breeds high altitude”. Here is How it All Started Before Herbalife, Keith Dockett weighed 288 pounds. He had been trying to lose weight for years but did not have consistent results. He had given up on the goal of weight loss. He figured he would look like Cedric the Entertainer; a big guy who looked good in his clothes, but on the inside, he really wanted more for himself. Keith had been playing flag football for years when an individual came out and introduced Herbalife to the team. He ended up getting started with a friend of his and the rest was history. The first year of his journey, Keith was able to drop 50 pounds and it took him 2 1/2 years to lose 100 pounds. The biggest shift for Keith came when he made a change in his nutrition. He came to the conclusion that weight loss is 20% exercise and 80% nutrition and he had it backwards. He talks to people all the time about these amazing products that helped him retrain his focus, but what’s been the most important to him was not the weight that he lost, but the person he had become as a result. 16 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Charisse was the young lady who ensured that she was always presentable no matter the case, making sure her hair and clothes fit the part of her job and social life. As she gained weight over the years, she bought more clothes to fit her size. Charisse’s doctor advised her that she would become diabetic if she did not lose weight. Unknowingly the days of stopping at Dunkin Donuts and Chick-fil-A for breakfast, lunch and dinner daily were becoming hazardous to her life. She managed to lose some weight. Two weeks after her last appointment acknowledging the weight loss, her brother-In-Law (Eric Stoner) who was also a great friend of Keith’s as well, passed away at the tender age of 45 due to diabetic complications. Her whole world completely froze as she reflected. At the funeral, she ran into an old friend from college who just so happened to be Keith and he introduced her to Herbalife shakes and teas. She got on her program and as a result lost an additional 43 pounds. Charisse consistently makes sure that her health is a priority. Her life is filled with healthy mindsets, workouts and daily habits. She loves the community and focuses on reinventing herself. Creation of Elevation Nutrition What is Elevation Nutrition? Elevation Nutrition is a community-based health and wellness club created by Keith Dockett and Charisse Johnson with a comfortable lounge type atmosphere accompanied with entertainment and media access, where one can come and learn how to live a healthy daily lifestyle with snacks and meal replacements served for a fee. Think of it as a Health & Wellness Starbucks. Keith & Charisse’s main focus and purpose is a constant Elevation of knowledge for health and wellness for men and women in the Community. Being seasoned Herbalife Distributors, the duo found a creative way to provide a comfy sanctuary to house and distribute health and wellness products as well as coaching. Memberships and coaching programs within Elevation Nutrition provide men and women in the community with what they affectionately call a ‘Wellness Profile’. During the process of creating a new client’s Wellness Profile Keith uses a method that is broken down into three sections. First, he provides them with a questionnaire to determine the client’s physical body measurements, short term goals as well as long term goals pertaining to health and wellness, information of current diet to include daily alkaline water intake, what foods are eaten and when, along with your daily cost of eating out. Second, he creates a simple diet program to follow with Elevation Nutrition Meal Replacements included. Finally, third, he creates a progress tracker so the client can monitor their own wellness statistics. Charisse provides clients with an economical enlightenment on health and wellness due to the strong myth that eating healthy or maintaining a healthy lifestyle is expensive. She explains it in this sense; hypothetically, say a person spends $20 a day for 5 days a week on eating fast food, that’s $100 a week and $400 a month spent on unhealthy eating. At Elevation Nutrition, there are wellness plans that include meal replacements and a diet structure to match your Wellness profile. These programs range between $6 to $8 per day and provides you all the nutrients needed for the body to function properly which directly contradicts that myth so when you think about it, it actually changes the perception and creates a fact that it’s more expensive to live an unhealthy lifestyle because it can cost you your life. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 17
Keith and Charisse explained that their own personal growth is the key component to their success within Elevation Nutrition. Charisse, currently embracing her own personal medical challenges, feels that if she wasn’t living and walking within her vision and purpose of leading a complete healthy lifestyle, she would be totally vulnerable and unprepared to deal with the worst of what she is currently going through. She utilized the isolation time spent during the height of COVID-19 to self-reflect and solely focus on her personal growth. Keith, becoming a prominent leader in wellness coaching and mentorship, attributes accepting change in his own perception of himself to reflect the things he has been through as well as the goals he sets and conquers. The reconnection of these two individuals in the setting of a funeral for a very close friend that succumbed to complications of a deadly disease known as diabetes was the specific ingredient to the creation of the recipe that we all now know as Elevation Nutrition. The “E” in elevation also represents a tribute to their fallen friend Eric Stoner. What the Future Holds! Charisse courageously wants Elevation Nutrition to become a staple in the community, creating alliances with other local businesses in numerous markets such as real estate, local townships, schools, healthcare, insurance and political activism. She believes that Elevation Nutrition can be a household name and a club for everyone in the community to gather and receive a new lease on life. Keith, being the visionary that he is, has plans of elevation and expansion. He is steadfast on increasing the growth of the brand and creation of multiple locations so that he can provide leadership and management opportunities to people in other communities. With all the information provided to me by Keith and Charisse, I have come to a realization that the educational wellbeing of health and wellness lies at the doorstep of places such as Elevation Nutrition. It is vital that I spread the word as well as utilize this business for my own personal growth and nourishment of a healthy lifestyle. Along with being a fan and a voice for Keith and Charisse and Elevation Nutrition, I have also become a consistent customer because I am ultimately convinced that the “right attitude breeds high altitude”. I hope and pray you will do the same.
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Political Awareness
A Front Row View with Candidate Dr. Remi Duyile by Karen McConnell-Jones
Local elections, yes, they are here and yes, it is time to let our vote be our voice. This is the time where we vote/ select office-holders into local government. They can hold such seats as mayors, senators, councilors, delegates and many other local elected positions. It has been stated that the local elections are the lowest tier of our government, therefore, have not often had the same turnout of voters as our Presidential elections. Statistics have shown that women are the biggest turnout of voters, yet we are constantly voting to put men into office. Here we are in year 2022 and women are still fighting just as hard to have a seat at the table and not to be judged by the biological and physiological characteristics that defines the sex of a person. Women are still looked upon as objects, we must look a certain way, dress a certain way, not to appear to be too smart as you will then come acrossas confrontational and wearing your smarts on your shoulders. All we have to do is ask Stacey Abrams and our Vice President of the United States, Kamala Harris, who are our changemakers and paving the way for more “women of influence” to follow. V&P Community Magazine has the honor of bringing to you our newest changemaker and candidate, Dr. Remi Duyile.
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Meet Candidate Dr. Remi Duyile Dr. Remi Duyile was born in Nigeria to the best home and family any child could wish for. She migrated to the United States in a quest to join her brother and to seek higher education for herself. Dr. Remi’s foundational years shaped and strengthened her narratives and outlook on life. She is the youngest of her family, clothed in unconditional love especially by her exemplary highly cerebral father, who demonstrated hard work and caregiving, gracefully. Alongside, were her compassionate prayerful mother who persevered through it all to be close to her as she grew in years. Dr. Remi is blessed with a close-knit family support system that inspires her to strive to be better and bolder as she lives her life fully. Dr. Remi graduated with flying colors from the University of the District of Columbia with her undergraduate and MBA. Upon receiving her MBA, she joined Sovran Bank (now Bank of America) as a teller and rose very quickly through the ranks to become Vice President in a span of just seven years. In addition to Dr. Remi’s duties as a VP, she made it a priority to involve herself by volunteering in community outreach and engagements. It was through these interactions and seeing the disparity in the financial literacy of underserved communities that Dr. Remi developed a passion for advocacy. Her consistent community presence, ability to listen and willingness to champion financial literacy allowed her to use her influence to bring necessary resources and educational materials into schools and community centers.
Her time working throughout various roles and sections of Bank of America gave her a strong sense of duty to ensure that young people begin to learn how to properly manage money early in life and strategically plan for their futures. Running for Office to be a Changemaker When asked why she was running for office, Dr. Remi replied “I am running for office because I believe I am uniquely positioned to serve and advocate for the residents of District 23. I have been an engaged and active member of the Prince George’s County community for over thirty-nine years. Over these years, I have had the opportunity to listen to the issues and needs of residents. As a former Banker and the leader of the non-profit Legacy Premier, which I founded, fighting for policies, legislation, and resources concerning economic development is of particular importance to my campaign and deals directly with my professional experience.” “I want to take my 30+ years of corporate and community service to advocate for resources to uplift community members who are struggling. I want to empower the owners of small and minority-owned businesses. During the Covid-19 pandemic, already struggling residents and businesses (especially black-owned businesses) represented the most vulnerable groups and were severely impacted. Black businesses across the nation experienced a 41% decline, according to an April ‘20 New York Federal Reserve report. This should not have been the case, and I want to ensure it never is again in District 23B by making certain that I can be a voice for those most at risk of being underrepresented.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 21
Dr. Remi continued “Another reason I want to run for office is to inspire others, especially more women, to get involved in politics. Often people believe that they must reach a certain level of success or have a specific background before making a difference. However, I believe people should seek to serve in areas where their experience and informed connections to voters’ issues can make the most significant difference. I hope my example creates a pipeline of leaders who realize the impact they can have when they serve and engage in the political process at any level.”
“As a resident of District 23, I am intimately aware of the issues my fellow residents are facing. Along with having a clear vision on improving living standards for the residents of District 23, I am a team player with the depth of professional and community service experience along with working relationships with many civic leaders in the district that qualifies me as the strongest advocate in this race. In me, our residents have a Delegate who will go to bat for them in Annapolis with laser focused determination to score home runs that will bring home more equity for them and their families.”
What We Should Know About A State Delegate’s Role
Celebrating Women’s History Month with Candidate Dr. Remi Duyile
Dr. Remi is a candidate that is very involved with her community and in the process of what is required of a state delegate. She was quite passionate about wanting the constituents to know the role of a delegate and how they work for them. A State Delegate is a legislator elected by the citizens which allows up to three delegates to each senator to the Maryland General Assembly. In total you have 188 members, with 47 senators and 141 delegates. A delegate helps to write and approve laws, establish executive departments, levy taxes, and propose state constitutional amendments.
This is the month we celebrate women around the world and Dr. Remi was elated to add that she sees a brighter future ahead for women as we live our power fearlessly and faithfully. Women’s narratives are so needed to achieve desired developmental results. Dr. Remi strives to live her life fully on a daily basis and to push herself to DO MORE and BE MORE for humanity. As we see women making history every day, Dr. Remi just wants us all to know, with faith, hard work and perseverance, that we can achieve and be all that we are destined to be.
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Celebrating Women’s History Month!
ISSUES THAT MATTER: Economic Inclusion Community Safety Support Services for Seniors and Veterans Financial Literacy
Vote June 28, 2022 www.voteremiduyile.com
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Education is Key
arch 2020 COVID-19 pandemic came in like a storm forcing a technical and emotional upgrade to our education systems. Now it’s still here with variants two years later in March of 2022 requiring masks and mindfulness as a “Key” to in-person “Education”. I’m amazed and impressed how differently our education system continuously evolves, forming “new norms” due to the dilemma of educating with this vexing communicable disease. There were already many education challenges to be mindful of: poverty, safety, mental and physical health, and racial equality just to name a few. The pandemic shines light on educational needs, how we’re connected and must engage as a united front. Since the beginning of the pandemic, state and local public education employment fell by nearly 5% overall, with much larger declines in some states, according to establishment data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Household survey data indicate that the number of employed public K–12 teachers fell by 6.8%, school bus drivers by 14.7%, school custodians by 6.0%, and teaching assistants by 2.6%. Education support staff tend to be older—and thus more at risk of severe COVID—than the average U.S. worker. Less than a third (31.6%) of U.S. workers overall are age 50 or older, compared with 66.2% of bus drivers, 55.4% of custodians, and 50.4% of food service workers in the K–12 public education workforce. COVID-19 is spread from one person to another through a variety of ways that include; contact with blood and bodily fluids, breathing in the contaminated air, or by being bitten by an insect. We can do our best to avoid contact with blood, body fluids and insects. The fact we must breathe to live and schools are an environment of shared air brings us all together as a community to find a resolution. Positive things one person does make a collectively monumental difference.
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COVID-19
on Education Two Years Later by Michelle DeMarcia Davis
NOTES! ”I have never cared too much what people say. What I am interested in is what they do.”
This quote speaks volumes to prioritize how we must focus on keeping in-person education as safe as possible by masking and being mindful of how we treat each other. Whether you are vaccinated or not vaccinated it’s life saving, respectful and courteous to wear a mask. Since either party could be asymptomatic it just makes sense for everyone to wear masks and social distance as much as possible. Especially when you don’t know the people you are interacting with. The CDC states masks are made to contain droplets and particles you breathe, cough, or sneeze out. If they fit closely to the face, they can also provide you some protection from particles spread by others, including the virus that causes COVID-19. Being mindful has two definitions that apply 1. the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something. 2. a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique.
– Shirley Chisholm
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School districts are tasked continuously with ensuring they are making sound choices to keep the community educated and safe with the option of virtual versus in-school learning. There are many aspects to appreciate and be concerned with both options. We all know the great benefits and effectiveness of in-school learning. The additonal challenges to in-school learning are safety and staffing. Since there is only one teacher for many students, we must ask them how they need to be supported because needs vary. When teachers and staff are mentally and emotionally stable, they give that good energy to students. If interested in helping as a substitute teacher you can visit this link about how to become a substitute: https://www.publicservicedegrees.org/how-to-become/teacher/substitute. Virtual benefits allow educators, students and parents/guardians to become more technically savvy. Text, email, video lessons and communicating via the web are enhancements that also assist with accountability, responsibility, timing and scheduling. A few downsides are potential internet glitches/connection issues, keeping children focused, background noises, etc. Some people may think they are fine because they are vaccinated, however the longer this goes on the more I realize none of us fully understand the verdict on how well the vaccine works and/or how long it lasts. Boosters are being given, variants are circumventing the vaccination process and vaccinated and unvaccinated people are passing away. “To the world it may just be one person however that one person may be someone’s world.” By wearing a mask and being mindful, we’re being a community heroes by stopping the spread and protecting each other physically and mentally. As one of my favorite quotes that rings true states, “we will get through this together”.
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Community News Flash
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by Marjorie M. Middleton
n our Black community we have recently lost 3 bright lights, Moses Mosley, Ian Alexander and Chelsie Kryst. In the short time that each of them lived they left a mark on society with their contributions and accomplishments, but their lives ended in debilitating depression and heart-wrenching suicide. At Vision & Purpose Community Magazine, not only do our thoughts and prayers go out to the families and others, which is all of us, affected by the loss of such precious lives, we also commit to being a part of the information –giving, thought provoking, conversation-needed, prayer-lifting beginning of possible solutions and support for a community in pain. The past couple of years have been more difficult than usual in our community, our country, our world. The Pandemic has altered our lives and we have all suffered mentally and/or emotionally in some way. Our voting rights and safety continue to be threatened and food deserts exist in the place we call our nation’s capital. All are crucial obstacles that exist to stop us in our tracks, especially in the Black community, which is why conversations must be had in our homes, schools, churches and neighborhoods about mental health concerns, depression and the threat of suicide.
Moses Mosley was an actor who portrayed one of the zombies in the television show The Walking Dead. He was 31.
Ian Alexander, son of actress/ producer Regina King, was a successful disc jockey. He was 26.
Chelsie Kryst, television personality and former Miss USA was also an accomplished attorney. She was 30 years old.
There is a feeling of increased pressure to succeed by the age of 30 that exists amongst our young adults. Let’s change that narrative, from a very young age teach your children and children you may have some influence over that self-care, mentally and physically, comes first. Secondly, family and friends should be a priority. Build upon those relationships rather than putting undue pressure upon oneself. Success should be accomplishing goals in the least pressure-filled way that provides satisfaction in completing a goal in a gentle way. Unfortunately, the sense of urgency to destigmatize therapy and self-care, build community and hold space to remove the taboo that inhibits healing remains. We, as a community, must do better, demand better. If you are a parent, don’t push children so hard to succeed at so many things, being happy and well-balanced is more important. Demand mental health professionals and wellness checks in schools. If you are a family member or friend to someone who may be struggling, call them and offer support. Offer an ear, offer respite. Take the time to inform yourself about mental health issues and then offer resources.
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If you, or anyone you know, needs to be heard please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text STRENGTH to the Crisis Text line at 741-741 or go to suicidepreventionlifeline.org. We, at V&P Community Magazine, are committed to helping however we can. 28 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
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or the start of Women’s History Month (March), V&P Community Magazine bestows a huge congratulations on Kentanji Brown Jackson, first Black woman nominated to the Supreme Court in U.S. history. Well done.
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If confirmed, 51 year old Jackson would become the high courts’ first Black female justice. She was sworn in as a federal judge for the D.C. district court in 2013. When she was sworn in as federal judge, Supreme Court Justice Stephen Breyer administered the oath of office. She’d clerked for him 13 years earlier. Seems sometimes things come back to where they started; Jackson has now been nominated to succeed her former mentor .Also, WHEN Kentanji Brown Jackson is confirmed, it will be the first time ever that two Supreme Court Justices will sit on the bench together. Clarence Thomas is the only Black man to serve on the Court since Thurgood Marshall. That information gives one pause…it’s way past time to have another Black person on the Court, and definitely time for a woman of color. Kentanji will fight for the changes we need to see! There are many firsts about Jackson. She’d be the first Justice who served as a public defender which shows her dedication to the people served by our government officials. She’d also be the second youngest on the court; Amy Coney Barrett just turned 50 this year. Jackson is a supporter of the Democratic progressive movement. She supports labor-friendly rulings and served on the U.S. Sentencing Commission, the agency that makes federal sentencing policy. As a part of that during the Obama administration she voted to allow thousands of federal inmates serving time for crack related offenses to get long sentences reduced, never one to forget that racial equity is far from existing. Kentanji was born in Washington, DC and grew up in Miami, Florida. Her parents named her after an aunt in the Peace Corps stationed in Africa sent them a list of powerful African girl’s names. Kentanji Onyika means “lovely one.” It certainly will be a lovely one to see her confirmed. Kentaji and her husband have 3 daughters, two in high school and one in college. In 2016, her name was floated around as a possible replacement for Justice Scalia after his death left a Supreme Court vacancy. Obama would go on to nominate Merrick Garland. But, she was just honored to be considered. Now it’s your turn, Kentanji Brown Jackson. Well wishes, congratulations and Happy Women’s History Month! Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 29
One of the Most Acclaimed Women of Politics
The Honorable Carol Schwartz by Karen McConnell-Jones
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he scene is set and we are center stage at the HEART of the Nation’s Capital. Yes, Washington, D.C. and its’ politics. No matter where you live in the Washington Metropolitan area, whether it’s DC, Maryland, or Virginia, the great DMV as we call it, or across the world for that matter, everyone’s eyes have and will always be dead focused on DC politics. Not to mention being focused on who is rotating in and out of the BIG house. Yes, that’s right, I’m talking about the White House, as the President.
Okay, (side note), not just a woman, but a Republican white woman who sat on the D.C. Council , when it was known as Chocolate City and was definitely a Democratic City. Yes, I am reflecting upon none other than the resilient, tenacious woman, with a big personality, who possesses a controlled presence of strength. She is, of course, the Honorable Carol Schwartz.
DC’s politics have always been the center of attention and for decades there is no other area that can top the political arena of Washington, D.C. No matter who you are and no matter where you live, you gotta love the politics of DC. The thrills, excitement, entertainment, the ups and downs of it all just draws you in, yet more importantly the LEGENDS who have held those seats that we have come to love.
Carol Schwartz has had a highly successful career in the District of Columbia, where she was in public office over a span of five decades. Often the only Republican in office, where the Democratic to Republican voter registration is 11-to-1, Carol had impressive victories. She served on the Board of Education for two terms and was elected to the D.C. Council four times, and ran for mayor several times, including against Marion Barry in 1994, which remains the closest general election in the 46-year history of D.C. home rule.
Here are the facts! There is one name that will be the most memorable of them all when it comes to the mayoral seat of Washington, D.C. and we all know who that is, the Honorable Marion Barry. Yet, in the same breath, when we talk of the most memorable person of the Council’s seat in Washington, D.C. and a woman, only one name comes to mind. And if I am being quite honest here, this woman always came with a side note.
Meet the Woman of Influence
Carol is now a registered Independent and has been for the last nine years. As she says, “I did not leave the Republican Party, the Republican Party left me.” Carol has been the recipient of many prestigious awards over the years, including the Whitney M. Young Community Service Award from the Greater Washington Urban League, the National Capital Area Leadership Award from the Human Rights Campaign, the Three Decades of Leadership Award from the Metropolitan Washington Council of Governments, and was voted in as a member of the Washington D.C. Hall of Fame.
D.C. Council on January 2, 1985.
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In Her Spoken Truth As I sit with Carol, I can only replay all the things in my mind of what I read, what I heard and all the stories that were told about her over the years. Now, I’m sitting here about to interview Carol and write my own story about her. I am also reflecting on my own personal encounters that I’ve had with her. It became so surreal for me once I got the preliminary questions out of the way: What is your full name and how would you like your name to appear in the story? As always, I like to start the first interview question off by asking who are you and what would you like our readers to know about you? I was humbly surprised by Carol’s response and again this is when it became so surreal. Carol allowed herself to be very vulnerable with me right from the start as she spoke her real truth. “Personally, I’m sort of the opposite of what I appear to be. strong and confident. Actually, on the inside I am a bunch of mush. As a child, I grew up with no confidence, getting very little attention and ignored because my parents worked full time. I had a brother who was intelligently challenged that I had to take care of who required a lot of attention. My mother relied on me a lot to help with the care of my brother. She would always tell me that I was very responsible and she knew she could depend on me. I didn’t grow up with any real confidence or good feelings about myself. In fact, I had an inferiority complex. We were poor. We lived on the poor side of town. Everybody reminded us that we were one of the few families that were Jewish in this whole big town.”
Carol in 1946 with her mother and older mentally challenged brother in front of their home in Tennessee.
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Carol with her late husband David and her children Doug, Stephanie, and Hilary (from left to right) and the family dog.
“I grew up with a lot of prejudice, so there was no reason to feel really necessarily good about myself and my parents were too busy working and providing for me and my brother to reinforce any good feelings. At times, my father could be a little brutal towards us, due to the pressure and the times we were living in. The outside world wasn’t so open armed, you know, towards me and my family. So, I didn’t feel good about myself at times. I really did have an inferiority complex for a very long time in my younger years and my young adult life.” “It was hard. However, I stayed focused. I went on to college and then I moved to Washington, D.C. because of its beauty and diversity. I got myself a place uptown, I dressed pretty nicely, and most people probably believed that I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth, but not the case at all. I have come to learn, as I’ve met so many people in my interesting life, whether it’s congressmen or even presidents some of them don’t feel any better about themselves than I do. I feel that most of us feel inadequate in some way or another. This is why I will tell your readers and the community you can’t necessarily tell a book by its cover. Push past your fears, inferiority complex, your inadequacy and know that you can do it.”
Carol in 1957 in front of her parents’ mom-and-pop clothing store (where she started working at age eight) in Texas.
Carol, The Political Figure After relocating to DC, Carol started her career in the school system until she had her first child (she is a mother of three). As a young mom, she devoted herself as a volunteer in the Department of Recreation preschool programs as well as a drug counselor at the Blackman’s Development Center. While working in the school system, Carol shared how the women she worked with were all African Americans and they elected her to be the officer of the program. They also encouraged her to run for School Board. “Remember, I’m still this person that had little to no confidence in myself but my colleagues kept telling me that I should run. I can truly say that they saw something in me that I didn’t see for myself at the time. They were telling me how well organized I am and how I was always speaking up for them and for change. They believed that I had the ability to get along with people, that I have such a seriousness about myself and my passions and wanting to improve situations. At the time, I was doing a lot of volunteering and I didn’t have much money. And at the time, I was married and my husband would always tease me and say who do you think you are? You’re doing all this volunteer work like your Lady Astor but he supported me wholeheartedly.” Carol was elected for two terms to the Board of Education during the first home rule election in 1974 and then was elected by her peers to be vice president for a then unprecedented three years. She brought much needed change to the school system, including promoting early childhood education, bringing Banneker Academic High School to fruition and improving test scores citywide. In 1974, she was also appointed by President Ford to be on the National Advisory Council on the Education of Disadvantaged Children where she was elected vice president and was reappointed by President Carter.
While on the School Board, she also tutored students at Malcolm X Elementary School. In 1992, she was named vice chair of the National Education Commission on Time and Learning. A strong believer in public education, Carol is proud that her three children went nowhere but the D.C. public schools from pre-K through 12th grade. Carol left the school board during 1982, in order to become a full-time consultant at the U.S. Department of Education at the request of Secretary of Education, Terrel Bell. She then spent a year as press secretary to a member of Congress. In 1984, Carol ran for an at-large seat on the D.C. Council and beat out a popular 16-year incumbent. Carol went on to be elected to the D.C. Council for four terms which was unprecedented as a Republican in a Democratic city. As we know, Carol went on to run for mayor several times while in the Council seat. Yet, the mayoral race she was most known for are the two times she ran against her good friend Marion Barry. “I knew Barry well before we both came to DC. It’s funny how we both moved to DC around the same time and we both had successful political careers. Yes, I ran against him twice and one of those times I got, I think, 41% of the votes. I believe 1 out of 3 votes came to me even with it being a 11-1 Democratic to Republican ratio. Barry was a great mayor yet when asked why I was running against him, we all knew of Barry’s wellknown problems but no one would say anything. We all saw it headed for self-destruction. So, yes, I ran against him and wanted to stop the problem before it all played out in the public’s eyes.” “Even after both election races we still remained friends and I used to call him up or go to his office to get on him when needed. I will say this, Barry was one of the smartest people I knew and had great charisma. In my political life, I have met three men that had such great charisma. First Barry, then Bill Clinton and believe it or not Ronald Regan.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 33
In 2008, Carol lost the Republican primary in her fifth race for her seat because she wrote and orchestrated the passing of the first “state” non government employee sick leave bill, which became the model for President Obama’s federal contracts and has now been passed into law in multiple jurisdictions throughout the country just as Carol wrote it. Despite losing her seat, Carol is proud of that effort and would do the same thing again in the same way—even with the same results. Carol at her swearing-in ceremony as an at-large member of the D.C. Council on January 2, 1985.
“I knew Barry well before we both came to DC. It’s funny how we both moved to DC around the same time and we both had successful political careers. . .”
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I can see that Carol was still so emotional and passionate about this whole situation and how it all played out. I just had to ask Carol to explain her emotions. She replied “Karen, I should have not ever received this bill that came across my desk. This was not my department and as you know in many cases when something ends up in the wrong department it tends to get overlooked. Well, not on my dime. I was not going to overlook this. I knew how important it was especially for single parents to be able to take off when they are sick or their child was sick and not have to worry about not having enough leave and losing their jobs for taking off without leave. I had too many colleagues that could benefit from this. Again, I had a chance to make a stance and so I did. This bill had a chance to help out so many people. Here I was once again the white Republican woman who worked with majority African American women who believed that I could do this and I knew the change would be a great benefit to them, better job security and being worry free when needing to take leave.”
Carol was elected for two terms to the Board of Education during the first home rule election in 1974 and then was elected by her peers to be vice president for a then unprecedented three years. Carol also shared with me at the time she got the bill passed that only 13 other states had this bill in place and now there are 47 states since then. How incredible is that? I said to Carol this is something to be proud of and your political career ended just the way it got started, how the women in her office encouraged her to run for the School Board and later getting a bill passed that helped out so many people, yet she did it mostly for the women that were around her.
Carol at an event in Anacostia during her last run for mayor in 2014.
In 2008, Carol lost the Republican primary in her fifth race for her seat because she wrote and orchestrated the passing of the first “state” non government employee sick leave bill, . . .
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The Women of Influence Final Message from Carol “As we celebrate Women’s History Month, I’m honored, Karen, that you chose me to be on the front cover of your magazine and I want you to know to keep up the good work that you are doing in the community. I just wanted to say that before we end the interview.” “I will end with this; there have been so many trailblazing women that have done a lot for the people of our communities. I am glad to say that I am one of them. I respect those of the past and those of the present time. Our Vice President Kamala Harris is one of our trailblazers. I like what she is doing and Carol with her friend and role model Dorothy Height yes, I voted for her. Karen, there are so many others, at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial groundbut I definitely would have to say that I admired and was inspired by Dorothy Heights. Dorothy and I became great breaking in 2006. friends and she told my son that I was one of her favorite people in the world. I would also have to say I admired Susan B. Anthony, she was a true trailblazer back in her days.” At the conclusion of our interview Carol summed up her life’s vision and purpose.“I have been inspired by so many people that I have read about in history. I always wanted to be a do- good-er. I was just doing what I do. I wasn’t doing it for any laudatory reasons. I am just living my life. This makes me think of a gospel song I know, and yes, I am Jewish and I am proud of it. But, back where I lived in Midland, Texas, I used to visit my friends church, some Baptist, some Pentecostal. I can say that I have lived a full life and I am proud of the people I have touched, “my living has not been in vain.”
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The Women of Influence Carol & Karen
Celebrating Women’s History Month And V &P Community Magazine Second Year Anniversary
“Inspiring Communities Everywhere” Recognizing Our Women Of Purpose Making Great Strides Across Our Community March 2022
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Community Outreach Awareness` V&P COMMEMORATIONS OF THE MONTH FOR MARCH/APRIL Women’s History Month: Is a celebration of women’s contributions to history, culture and society and has been observed annually in the month of March in the United States since 1987. Ribbon color is purple.
Financial Literacy Month: Which was created to highlight the importance of financial literacy and teach Americans how to establish and maintain healthy financial habits. No ribbon color found.
International Black Women’s History Month: Black and Minority Women are a lot like Black orchids. Black Orchids are a symbol of power and absolute authority. It is generally known that black is an imposing color, symbolizing authority and submission and, combined with the luxurious beauty of the Orchid, the Black Orchid came to symbolize great power. Ribbon color is purple.
World Autism Month: Beginning with United Nations-sanctioned World Autism Awareness Day on April 2. Throughout the month, we focus on sharing stories and providing opportunities to increase understanding and acceptance of people with autism, fostering worldwide support. Ribbon color is blue.
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March 2022
April 2022
Days: 2nd Read Across America Day (United States) 3rd World Wildlife Day 8th International Women’s Day 14th World Kidney Day 15th World Consumer Rights Day 15th World Sleep Day 21st International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination 21st International Day of Forests 21st World Down Syndrome Day 21st World Poetry Day 21st International Day of Nowruz 22nd World Water Day 23rd World Meteorological Day 24th World Tuberculosis Day 26th Purple Day – Epilepsy Awareness Day 30th Earth Hour
Days: 1st Fun at Work Day 2nd World Autism Awareness Day 7th World Health Day 12th International Day for Street Children 13th National Sarcoidosis Awareness Day 14th World Dolphin Day 15th World Art Day 17th Easter Sunday 19th, 20th, and 21st Global Youth Service Days 20th Volunteer Recognition Day 22nd Earth Day 22nd Administrative Professionals’ Day (United States) 23rd World Book Day 25th World Malaria Day 25th World Penguin Day 26th World Intellectual Property Day 29th International Dance Day 30th International Jazz Day
Month Long: Brain Injury Awareness Month Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month National Women’s History Month (United States) Red Cross Month National Umbrella Month (United States) Ethics Awareness Month (United States) National Caffeine Awareness Month (United States) National Nutrition Month (United States)
Month Long: International Black Women’s History Month Alcohol Awareness Month Financial Literacy Month Autism Awareness Month National Youth Sports Safety Month (United States) Parkinson’s Awareness Month Stress Awareness Month National Poetry Month Testicular Cancer Awareness Month World Habitat Awareness Month Sexual Assault Awareness Month Donate Life Month Math Awareness Month National Volunteer Month Jazz Appreciation Month
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Community Outreach
Disenfranchised and Often Unrecognized By Belinda Stevenson
Whatever it is you’re seeking won’t come in the form you are expecting. ~ Haruki Murakami
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uring Women’s History Month we want to highlight the true rulers of the world, the ones who make the world go round. As women’s history is celebrated immediately after Black History month it is only befitting that we honor African-American women known and unknown. Women who were/are trailblazers; the first to make history. They paved the way and provided the blueprint for those who are blazing their trail. We pay homage to them not today nor this month but every day. African-American women have shaped civilization with respect, empathy, dignity and against all odds. I have chosen to honor three women, the symbolic number that is considered the number of completion. The beginning, middle and end. The beginning are our ancestors, the middle are those that are still doing the work, and the end is never-ceasing. Highlighting African-American women is not to divide or even allude that our contributions are greater than those who are not of African descent. However, I will profess that our plight to be contributors in this society is found along the road less or never traveled by others.
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There are so many “HER story” makers that are known and unknown but one of my alltime favorites is the honorable Ms. “Unbossed and Unbought”, Shirley Chisholm. The tenacious Shirley Chisholm was the first Black woman to be elected to Congress in 1968 and campaigned for the Democratic presidential nomination in 1972. She never gave up her fight for justice for women and minorities during her terms in the U.S. House of Representatives. Before her death in 2005, it was documented that Chisholm once said, “I want to be remembered as a woman … who dared to be a catalyst of change”, she walked in her purpose. In 2005, she was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom.
Mary Church Terrell is the perfect example of selflessness and humility. She was the daughter of former slaves but her father, Robert Reed Church, became one of the South’s first African American millionaires. Mary, an activist and suffragist, was the epitome of “reaching back.” She grew up in an affluent household and could have lived a comfortable life but leveraged her status to fight racial injustice. After the lynching of a close friend, her only focus was to change the trajectory of African Americans lives through education and community activism. She was true to her words, — “Lifting as we climb”— which became her motto from the National Association of Colored Women (NACW) group she helped found in 1896. Her words are ones we all should live by. Last but not least and because our impact spans across the globe, I would be remiss if I did not mention an African woman.
Let me introduce the unrelenting Ellen Johnson Sirleaf representing the country of Liberia in Africa. Living in a country where women are second class citizens, Ellen’s journey was far from easy. She did not come from wealth or have any family connections to politics. She rose to power in 2006 and became the 24th president of Liberia and the first Black woman to win a presidential election in Africa. She was re-elected and received a Nobel Peace Prize in 2011. Her life’s work to advance the role of women in Liberia is being done in a country of over 5 million people, women have little to no rights, boys have preferential treatment over girls to go to school, genital mutilation is still a common practice, and where squatting is the norm because women can’t own land or a home.
The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain ~ Dolly Parton These women are my She-roes. They defied the unimaginable and didn’t relent in the face of adversity. As African-American women we embody the tenacity of Shirley Chisholm, the humility of Mary Church Terrell, and the fortitude of Ellen Johnson Sirleaf! Be intentional; galvanize and support one another; make a difference in the lives of others and always serve in the spirit of love. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 41
Authors Speak
Meet the Youth Messenger Meo by Krystal Glenn
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eoshia “Meo” Burgess is a young leader in our community from Charlotte, NC. who is inspiring people from ages 2 to 92 and she’s only 15 years of age. Her resume includes speaker, host, model, advocate and AUTHOR! Vision and Purpose Community Magazine had the pleasure to sit down for a special interview with the Charlotte Princess, Meo where we discussed her story of becoming an author, her new book project and being known as the voice of the youth aka the “Youth Messenger”. It was truly an honor to listen to how to young lady discovered her purpose and the vision she has for the future. Meoshia Burgess fell into her purpose. At the age of eight, she passed out during track practice and was rushed to the hospital. She was literally laying on her death bead. Doctors had no clue what happened or why she passed out. She underwent a series of tests and examinations to help doctors figure out what was wrong with her. They told her mom that there was not much they could do for young Meo but keep her comfortable. That didn’t sit well with her mom. While her mother pushed the doctors to find out what was wrong, she also made sure Meo was encouraged. She would bring her inspirational quotes daily. This simple daily exercise inspired her first book, 60 Days of Hope & Inspiration. This is where the journey of becoming an author started for Meo.
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Krystal Glenn (KG): Thank you so much Meo for sharing how you started out as an author. That is truly amazing how you were able to turn that experience around and launch into a whole new direction. Your current book is called “A Modern Day Black History ABC” Tell us your inspiration for that one. Meoshia “Meo” Burgess (MB): So, basically in school, we don’t really learn about our culture, and it’s mostly about the experiences of the British people. We learn about the same people over and over. People that we already know what they do. I wanted other people, other kids to know that there’s more people out here, of our color who have done amazing things just like they have done. And so with that book, it’s just to inspire everyone about our culture, to learn more about us because people don’t know about African Americans. We just know about people that we learned in school. Each letter of the alphabet is a different person that has done things and created history, but didn’t get the recognition they deserve while they were alive. That’s basically what that book is all about. KG: Who is your target audience for that book? MB: Um, I’ll say everybody because everyone needs to learn a little history every now and then. No one knows about everything and each year we learn new stuff, new generations learn different things, so I would basically say everybody could be a target. Some adults out here don’t know the first person to invent different things. So that’s who it’s for. It’s for every age, every culture.
MB: Youth messenger came from a bunch of friends and my mom. People tell me, ‘Meo, you’re a messenger, you’re a messenger.’ My mom put it together. Oh, we can call you the Youth Messenger now. And that’s why I got that name. Basically the meaning behind it is just to inspire kids, to always be themselves, to always use their voice, because as youth we get judged, we get looked at different. I just want them to know that no matter what, they have a voice at the end of the day. God gave us a voice, and if He didn’t want us to use it, he wouldn’t have made us able to spread kindess.. It’s not even just me. I’m not the only youth messenger. I feel all the youth out here are messengers at the same time. So that title is for all the youth all over the world.
KG: When was the book officially released? MB: It was released in November 2021 KG: Where can people find the book online? MB: They can find it on Amazon, search Meoshia Burgess or they can order from me on IG, Facebook or the website KG: Let’s talk about you the “Youth Messenger”. How did you get the name and how does being an author help you spread your message? Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 43
KG: I appreciate you spotlighting all youth. You recently hosted the Empowerment Youth Awards and are planning more events like it around the country. Can you tell us about that?
MB: I plan on attending Howard University. Getting my law degree and then open up my own law firm. My big goal is to sit on a Supreme Court one day and I will go from there.
MB: The Empowerment Youth Awards is a day on December 11th, that we will have every year to honor the ones that don’t get recognized as much. They may need the confidence to show them that they are doing, you know, amazing things, that they’re not overlooked, that we understand them, that we see them and we want them to know to keep going and keep doing what they do best. So that is what the Youth Empowerment Awards it’s all about. I’m just empowering everybody, not only the youth, but also the adults because they may need some empowerment as well. So, we just want to empower everybody on that day, December 11th. We want it to be a day that everybody remembers, no matter what.
KG: Well I know that’s right. How do you feel that all the things that you are doing now are going to help you reach your goals?
KG: With all that you do, how are you taking care of yourself? MB: I basically just balance everything out. My mom always told me to remember to listen to my body, and if my body’s telling me that I need a break to always take a break. I never push myself too hard to where I go into a crisis again. I haven’t really had any major crises in a while. Being in home school really helps because it’s easy for me to incorporate my schoolwork at the same time as business, going out into the community, doing interviews, going on different shows and stuff like that, especially with my tour season coming around for me and going to different colleges, is really helpful. So, it’s just basically, I just have to listen to my body and I’ll just remember to put my health before anything else and I’m able to do it with my family. They always are supportive, allowing me to push my limits and always remind me to take it easy at times and listen to what my body is telling me to do. VPCM: What’s next for Meo? What do you plan on doing after high school? 44 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
MB: I think they’re going to help me reach them because people see that I’m doing it at the age of fifteen and they should know that I can do anything. Especially when I’m an adult, I’ll be looked at different than what I’m looked at now as a kid. A lot of people don’t take me as serious because I’m a youth. So I know, once I get in the door, people will take me more seriously and it’ll help me be able to become a lawyer because people can look at my name and see that I have done amazing things to help the youth. And so hopefully that helps. KG: What advice do you have for other youth out there who are looking to become authors? MB: I would tell them to go for it! Never stop, if they have a dream, not even just of becoming an author, if they want to make music or be an artist or dancer or anything they can do it, no matter what, always follow their dreams and always let God guide them in the right direction. Just continue to pray and continue to just believe in themself because I know in this world we live in, we get a lot of criticism. So don’t listen to that because it’s not about what the world says, it’s about what you want for your future and what you want to do. So just love yourself, continue to just grow and continue to show the world that you are what you want to be and deciding what your title is and what you dedicate your life for. VPCM: Thank you Meoshia! Your words are inspiring to me. Make sure you grab a copy of A Modern Day Black History ABC. Visit www.theyouthmessenger.com for more information about all the phenomenal things the “Charlotte Princess” Meoshia is doing!
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All Things Fashion
Spring Is Here! by Laila Cummingham
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pring is here and we are so ready for it! The perfect time to put away your winter clothes and take out your spring gear. Flowers are going to start to bloom and trees will be greener, there’s still a bit of a chill in the air in the beginning of this season, so grab a light hoodie or a soft leather jacket and enjoy the briskness. A brightly colored cardigan with a favorite dress or well-worn jeans and some funky boots can create a whole seasonal mood. Enjoy yourself.
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Boots are excellent accessories, but shoes work, too. How about…sneakers? They are very versatile and go well with a casual or a dressy outfit. They bring the flavor. A friend recently told me about an Art/Sneaker show in Baltimore. She said the vibrant colors of the paintings were paired with hand-painted sneakers, which were also works of art! They were in colors reminiscent of springtime. Yellows, oranges, light blues and tree colored greens. The concept of showing off both art forms is appealing and an added bonus is that both businesses are Black owned. Be as daring as possible this spring. Use accessories to further showcase your personality. During the covid 19 pandemic I have found that it’s ok to be daring and show off the pieces you love more than you did pre-coronavirus. Three of my favorite accessories are masks, earrings and hair “things.” Masks have become an unexpected accessory. But, since we have to wear them, be cute with them! Buy a springtime mask with bright, yellow daffodils on it or your favorite spring flower. You could also design your own mask. Springtime is for new beginnings. How about a picture of your new puppy or a colorful drawing you completed?
Use your hair as a showcase for spring. Flowers, small or big in your hair work…a rose, a gardenia, smaller violets or pansies work, too. And they smell great. How about a pink fedora made out of a very light, airy material? What a statement! How about a sparkly bobby pin or hair clip? And, don’t forget your umbrella for the rain or the sun…be a little fancy! S
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spring is NEVER late (comes when we need it) spring is GO GREEN
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the start of this season)
Enjoy the new season and dress to impress!!
Earrings are definitely a great accessory. The bigger and brighter the better. Hoops, flower shaped and dynamic colors/shapes are all bold looks for the season. Feathers work, beads dominate and wood earrings with paintings of Black experiences are bomb. Be bold.
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All Things Fashion
National Women’s Month
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y sisters, this is the month that the nation recognizes you! I see it as, kind of like Black History Month. The reason I say this is because you need more than a month to celebrate the contributions women have given to the world. Every child that enters this world is conceived by a woman. That is a fact. No woman, no mankind. You’re the portal which brings souls into this world. Without you, mankind would cease to be in existence. That’s heavy. With that being said, it’s hard to rationalize women in America not being able to vote. It is also hard to rationalize women receiving lower wages than their male counterparts. It shows how much women have been unappreciated in the United States of America. Even some religious organizations don’t recognize women pastors. Which is absurd because Jesus’s first teacher from the womb was his mother. Wisdom in the bible is spoken of as a woman because she teaches and protects those who seek her. Without her you are sure to add folly to your life and eventually perish. Even the church is considered the bride of Christ in the New Testament. What is ministry without women, an abomination. We even speak of the Earth and its complex systems as Mother Nature. Mother Nature can be tamed by no one except The Most High! Notice, I have said nothing about how beautiful our women are,this being the All Things Fashion section of the magazine. That’s because I think the most appealing thing about a woman is her spirit and her wisdom. Her psyche is kissed by the mind of The Most High God. Soft, yet strong; gentle, but resilient. Able to make war and babies. Even as a temptation she has been known to make heads roll and cause nations to go to war.
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Some say women rule the world. It is a fact women run the finances of the household. Like it or not she directly or indirectly dictates how money is spent in the home. Which ultimately means she holds the world economy in her hands. That’s a lot of power!
No wonder men see women as conquests. If we could ever really appreciate the value of a woman’s love we’d be formidable. Maybe it’s when we lose it, we then realize how much we have lost. When a true queen lends her power to a man, he is anointed to achieve supernatural accomplishments. Like Beyonce said,”let me upgrade ya!” From projects to billionaires, these are the results of having a true queen on your side. A force to be reckoned with is a woman who knows who she is.
I thank The Most High for all the amazing women in my life who have supported me and nurtured me. Thank you for the education and patience. Thank you for your love! From my mom to my wife and all those in between. Thank you! This is your month nationally, but in my heart every month should be filled with thank you’s and acts of kindness. Women, you all deserve it. God Bless.
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Women’s History Month
s we celebrate Women’s History month, it’s so amazing to spotlight the strength, intelligence, talents, dominance, but also nurturing traits that a woman stands for. When it comes to her children and family she will make sure they are all taken care of before she takes care of herself. She is that strong woman that supports that strong and iconic man that is a part of history. She’s even that woman who stands up for women’s rights and equality. Her determination and purpose is so divine that she has been chosen to fulfill a task that breaks records and also becomes that iconic woman that helps change history. Women need to celebrate this month and be uplifted as well as supportive of one another. Our younger ladies are watching and being inspired to step up and become the next in line. As we encourage them by example we need to make sure we take time for self- care. Mind, Body and Soul. Just to name a few of our black women that are breaking records: Erin Jackson, wins historic gold medal in speed skating (2022 Winter Olympics); Jennifer King, first black female position coach in NFL history (Washington Commanders); Jessica Watkins (NASA), was announced to be the first black woman who will completed a long term mission on the International Space Station in April 2022. Now that’s Black Girl Power!!
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As great as these women are, they all have a few things in common and one is definitely the health of their hair. Yes, we all need a hair care regimen. Now that the seasons are changing, our hair and scalp tends to become dry. This is a great time to make sure you give yourself deep conditioning treatments. It helps to prevent damage, reduce split ends, improves elasticity, adds shine and moisture to your hair strands. There are definitely so many health benefits that only take 20 minutes of your time. After shampooing your hair, rinse the hair thoroughly and apply your conditioner. Use a good conditioner that benefits the texture of your hair. Look for natural plant extract ingredients such as Jojoba oil, Moroccan argan oil, Coconut oil and Aloe extract. Apply conditioner to your hair thoroughly and cover with a plastic cap. Sit under a heated dryer for 20 minutes. The heat helps to penetrate within the hair shaft, leaving the hair feeling softer and more manageable to detangle. Section the hair in four sections or smaller if needed, start from the ends and work your way up to the hair root of the hair strands. Use a big tooth comb, or detangling brush. After rinsing thoroughly, continue with desired styling. If you are dealing with damaged, color-treated or chemically-treated hair try a protein deep conditioning treatment and follow the same steps. Deep conditioning is just as important as shampooing your hair, and keep your ends trimmed. Make time for healthy hair care. You are so worth it and your hair will thank you!
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Arts & Media
THE MAN & HIS SAX By Marjorie M. Middleton and Karen McConnell-Jones
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iving us the art of music, the man and his sax, instrumentally played. Music, that universal language that brings us all together. The song that plays from a saxophone will captivate our minds, move our spirits, vibrate our bodies and touch us deep down in our souls. Music, it has a way of speaking to us without ever uttering a word. Yes, the man and his sax, or should we say the Incomparable Langston Hughes II, gives us inspirational vibes that just capture our hearts. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine team had the honor of being in front view seating for the Artists in Residence program, sponsored by Cathy Bernard/ Bernard Family Foundation which was held at the AMP by Strathmore, in downtown Bethesda, Maryland. The Strathmore Institute for Artistic & Professional Development program helps the artists with transitioning into their professional careers. A class of six artists were chosen from this intense competition. One of our own favorites, Langston Hughes II, is the featured artist who thrills us with his saxophone. He gave us such a treat!
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Meet the Man Behind the Sound Langston Hughes II is a multi-instrumentalist, composer, and bandleader based in the Washington D.C. metropolitan area. As his name would suggest, Langston, attempts to create beauty. However, rather than a pen, his tool of choice is music. He’s been recognized for various prestigious competitions and achievements, including being a featured soloist for the United States Army Blues Orchestra, winning a gold medal in NAACP’s National ACT-SO Competition, and earning multiple soloist awards and accolades from organizations such as Howard University, Berklee College of Music, The John F. Kennedy Center, and DC Jazz Festival. Langston has also been selected as a current Strathmore Artist in Residence for the 2021-2022 performance season. His sound radiates beauty, passion, and positivity. With each piece he performs or composition he writes, he invites us to share in his life experiences. Langston is now a Junior in college at Howard University in Washington, DC studying Jazz performance under esteemed professor Charlie Young III and other faculty such as Sais Kamalidiin and Cyrus Chestnut. Above all, Langston is a follower of Christ and his mission is to create a dynamic sound and develop a musical voice that has a profound spiritual and emotional impact on its listeners. The Instrument The saxophone is a type of single-reed woodwind instrument with a conical body, usually made of brass. The distinct and beautiful sounds are made when a reed on a mouthpiece vibrates, producing a soundwave inside the body of the saxophone. The sound can be sultry, eerie, and, always, beautiful. It’s a wind instrument invented in Belgium, by Adolphe Sax, in 1846.
Behind the Scenes It was such a treat to have a chance to be behind the scenes as we were able to see Langston in his element before the big performance. Langston and his crew were just taking in the moment. Surprisingly, the atmosphere was relaxed, calm, and peaceful. When asked how he feels about having a residency here at the Strathmore, Langston replied he has “immense gratitude and appreciation for a lifetime opportunity granted.” He continued with “I am thankful for this opportunity. This is something that will stay with me throughout my career. They paired me with a mentor, someone who is actively working professionally in the industry. I have a wonderful mentor, Dr. Leigh Pilzer, who has been great through this whole process and helps in guiding me through career decisions and all that type of suff. They do a series of workshops from filing your taxes, entertaining a crowd while on stage, to public speaking, a lot of great stuff. I even had a chance to teach a workshop on sounds. Basically, I am learning a lot of things that you don’t learn in school. This allows me to get real hands-on experience.” “Also, they give you a like to their audience, to a lot of people who follow the Strathmore. They expose you to, at least for me, an entirely different audience. Again, this has been great. As a Junior in college at Howard University, I want to take this experience and finish up my schooling so I can keep expanding myself and my career. I really and truly just love playing music. So, for me, I just want to keep playing and making music. I think music offers such freedom at least in a career path. It gives me the opportunity to play and express myself in a way that really cannot be expressed by words and if I can do that consistently and make a living by doing so then I am truly being blessed.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 53
The Performance The opening performance began with a powerful rendition of Just the Two of Us by Bill Withers and Grover Washington, Jr. . Each part, each note and each song carried feelings. The audience tapped their feet, clapped their hands and called out “Go ‘head.” It was wonderfully done! Langston shared bits and pieces of his journey along the way, and humbly thanked Strathmore and the community members who sponsored him. Langston ended the night by playing three of his original songs in which two of the them were written during the COVID-19 Pandemic: The Leap, Be Still and The Journey. Each original piece had a message that really came through in his music. We all were enthralled. As explained by Langston, THE LEAP is based on his own personal journey. After graduating from high school, Langston’s plan was to study engineering, but the call to music persisted. So, he took a chance, the risk, and he made the leap. BE STILL, he explained, had to do with the inevitable experience we all had during the pandemic. Always moving, always doing, Langston was admonished to slow down, take some “me time,” and reflect. Be still, definitely was a time of replenishment and renewed creativity. And, lastly, THE JOURNEY. This piece, Langston says, “reflects on the importance of appreciating your journey. Do the best you can and be grateful for the journey, not just the destination.” Powerful and profound words from someone much younger than everyone in the audience; we all could relate to his message as we appreciated his wisdom and candor. During the performance, Langston’s parents Candra Hughes and Langston Hughes, Sr., sat in front of us. After the performance, Mrs. Candra shared with us the meaning of a phone call she received from Langston. “I remember so well the call on his first day of college telling me he decided to change his major. Instead of studying engineering, he was going to study music. He knew that music is his calling. I embraced the call, and now, I am enjoying his journey. His father and I are ever so proud of him. We are blessed.” The look in Langston’s mom’s eyes told the story, two parents delighted in their son’s success, of his choice to walk in his purpose. Langston’s performance was simply sensational.
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Birthday
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Shout-Outs
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