Inspirational Moments pg. 6 Press On, Sis!
Business & Entrepreneurship pg. 15 Women Who Lead
Contents
The Young Professionals Corner pg. 24 Rising Above The Circumstances
Business & Finance pg. 27 Business Credit Scores Six Things Every Entrepreneur Should Know
Education is Key pg. 38 The Golden Door of Freedom
Health & Wellness pg. 42 You Get to Decide Start - Grow - Expand
Community Outreach pg. 46
Cover Story pg. 30 "Community is EVERYWHERE!!"
All Things Fashion pg. 50
Community Heroes pg. 10
National Women's History Month
Community News Flash pg. 48
Arts & Media pg. 54
Authors Speak pg. 57
Media, A Party of One for All
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Inspirational Moments
Press On, Sis! By Marjorie Middleton March is Women’s History Month and Vision and Purpose Community Magazine is very supportive of women. Women of color are an intricate part of the triumphs and successes in our homes, communities, this nation and the world. God has placed us on this earth with a passionate vision and for a remarkable purpose. I honor and applaud that sisterhood and give greater homage during this Women’s History Month. When I began writing, I thought about what it means to be a woman in 2023, and also wondered, what does God think of Black women as we navigate the world? How do we measure up to the expectations he has for us? After all, we are created in his image. How are we doing? Well, my sisters, Jesus thinks we are fabulous and he wants us to walk in that fabulousness. He wants us to believe in ourselves and soar! So, hold your heads high and walk that walk with a sassy strut, throwing caution wherever the wind blows, because we are bold, beautiful and in charge. We have plans and God is very much a part of them. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11. Knowing our history, as Black women, keeps us prepared for anything. We are equipped to handle whatever life offers. We are ready to claim our successes and recreate our losses. There are many stories in the Bible that illustrate the strength and tenacity of Black women.
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The story of the Queen of Sheba and her visit to King Solomon starts out as an uninteresting story of a visit and a gift for the king. But, there is more to the story about the strong, Ethiopian queen. Seeking knowledge, Sheba went to visit Solomon because he had information she craved to know. She was wealthy and wise, but craved to know more. She is also intrigued by Solomon’s close relationship to God. The Queen of Sheba brought King Solomon many gifts and riches in order to glean his ability to be used by God. The strength of Sheba is that although she is in awe of Solomon she presents her own anointing as she learns more from the king. Trade (exchange of gifts), wealth, wisdom and anointing are shared throughout the tale and what is most interesting is the Queen of Sheba’s unabashed strength in rejecting the attitudes that still somewhat exist, as to where a woman’s place is. She should have been at home minding her family, not out seeking position and knowledge. A strong Black queen, indeed. Black women are the most beautiful ever seen, admired worldwide; other women scamper to recreate the fullness of our hips, the natural pout of our mouths. They pay exorbitant amounts to be us while in many cases treating us unfairly. No matter the unfairness of this world, Black beauty is undeniable, unfailing. Under the created umbrella of oppression, poverty, weariness from striving and even success – still our beauty is unwavering. God created us to stand as tall as a tree, yet bloom as beautifully as a fragrant, colorful orchid. The most alluring faces I have ever seen are those of a Black woman. The beauty is steadfast, even as God allows our journey’s paths because he trusts our strength, our resilience. A Black woman as a slave persevered beatings and abuse as she illustrated that the melanin God gifted her with healed and hardened those wounds to birth the beauty of the richness of her soul and power. No matter the struggle, her caramel skin glowed. No matter the fight or the obstacle, her mocha skin glistened. No matter the barriers created to stop her, her taupe…umber…cocoa…onyx…charcoal skin goes on towards greatness. We are descendants of survivors, we stand up. We stand out.
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Protesting prejudice and inequalities, hands uplifted during a march, singing and praising God, her face shines with triumph, with faith that our society can change, can progress. She is on the frontlines for her children, for her family, making a way for a better life. She uses her weapons, tirelessly, to make change for generations to come. “For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds.” 2 Corinthians 10:4. A Black woman giving birth, a beautiful grimace, pain bringing forth new life. Sweat and tears of joy and triumph. A new life to teach, to nurture, to love. A new life that will memorize her face as sacred, revered. Remarkable. Amazing. Beautiful. A new generation has been brought forth. “I am black, but comely, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Kedar, as the curtains of Solomon.” We reach out to God, we know where our help comes from. We persevere. We overcome. Black women, we are resilient and hopeful. We carry life. Let’s do a few things in honor of Women’s History Month: Make it a point to learn something new about a Black woman pioneer and teach-it-forward Donate your time or funds to an organization that assists women of color that are in need Organize a class and teach something you know that is useful - yoga, budgeting, bible studies These are just a few suggestions, add to the list and pass it on. I am proud to be a Black woman in these times. Press on, Sis!
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Community Hero Vision & Purpose Community Magazine Celebrates Our Community Hero!
Mirinda Jackson
Responsive Motivated Timeliness
Vision & Purpose Community Magazine (VPCM): Ms. Jackson tell us about yourself? Ms. Mirinda Jackson (MJ): I serve as the MBE Compliance Manager for Prince George’s County and Former Deputy Associate Administrator for the Office of Enterprise Development, GSA, and currently, I sit on the Board of Directors for FSC First. I became passionate about the need to ensure that small businesses, particularly minority businesses, received a fair proportion of the agency’s procurement dollars. I had nation-wide responsibility for the agency’s small business programs and a procurement budget of $20+ Billion. I received numerous awards, accolades and other special recognition for my work, including initiatives for increasing procurement dollars with women and minority businesses. Prior to retirement from GSA after 34 years of service, working for seven (7) Presidential Administrations, I received an award from the White House during the Clinton Administration. I have now put my focus on the MGM National Harbor and other select Major Development Projects in the County. My passion is working with the small business community, as I recognize that when small businesses have colds, minority businesses have pneumonia.
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VPCM: What is your greatest strength/asset? MJ: My greatest strength is being a people person and approachable. I have always had the natural ability to interface with individuals at all levels of an organization or political spectrum. I have worked with Congressional and White House staff along with agency officials throughout my federal career and still have some of those relationships in place which makes it easy to obtain information on almost any subject. I am also passionate about the work I do with the small business community. VPCM: How do you use your gift/talent to give back to the community? MJ: I join and become active in organizations that are focused on promoting and assisting small, minority and women business owners such as FSC First, BiCounty Roundtable, South County Economic Development Association and the Business Resource Coalition. VPCM: What does community mean to you? MJ: A group of people living in the same space or having a particular characteristic in common. One that shares common interests, goals and attitudes. It also means being a true neighbor and helping those in need whenever possible. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 11
VPCM: Who/What inspires you and why? MJ: Allie Latimer inspires me. She was the first female and African American General Counsel for a major Government agency (GSA). She continues to spend her life advocating for equality and justice. She was the go-to person for any situation at the agency. She worked with both Republicans and Democratic Administrations. She started the first chapter of the Federally Employed Women and GSA’s Chapter, which is named in her honor. She mentored numerous women at GSA and paved the way for many others. I still remember her stories about her interactions with Former Presidents Kennedy and Johnson. VPCM: What do Vision and Purpose mean to you? MJ: Vision and Purpose means anticipating future trends, creating a compelling vision and communicating that vision to a diverse audience. VPCM: Give an affirmation quote and/or biblical scripture to live by? MJ: Love your family, work hard, and live your passion.
Community Hero Dedicated
Vision & Purpose Community Magazine Celebrates Our Community Hero!
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Vision & Purpose Community Magazine (VPCM): Tell us about the nominee? The Hall’s Family (HF): We are pleased to nominate our mother, Jessie Lesane Hall, as a V&P Community Hero. Jessie, a mother of 6 children and 12 grandchildren. Her love for children began over 50 years ago. While raising her own children, she opened her home to the need for childcare to neighboring families. For over 40 years, Jessie has successfully owned and operated Hall’s Family Child Care as a licensed childcare provider in Prince George’s County, Maryland. VPCM: What is the nominee's greatest strength/asset? HF: Our mom’s level of patience has been exemplary. We have watched her have patience with herself as she set and reached every goal. As a lifelong learner, she has remained current with the latest technology, endures countless hours of studying, and applies her knowledge branding a successful business. She does all of this to ensure she meets the Maryland Child Care laws and requirements.
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VPCM: How does the nominee use their gifts/talents to give back to the community? HF: Jessie is a leader within the childcare community who enjoys sharing her gifts and talents with the community. Jessie has served over 30 years as a board member for the Prince George’s County Family Child Care Association. She serves as a referral for parents of neighborhood schools and emergency drop ins. Jessie offers volunteerism opportunities to students in the early childhood program. As an evening licensed childcare provider, she provides care to parents who work evening hours in public safety. VPCM: What does community mean to the nominee? HF: As a home-based business woman, community is key to partnering, serving, and being a resource. Jessie understands engaging community partnerships leads to healthy and strong communities, creating a more stable and supportive society. For instance, networking with the public library has been a major community resource for Hall’s Family Child Care reading curriculum. Interacting positively can expand community partnerships. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 13
VPCM: Why should your nominee be a V&P Community Hero? HF: Jessie has made selfless contributions to many. As stated, she has provided childcare and has planted positive seeds in the lives of many children, who now have children of their own that are in “Hall’s Family Child Care. Young mothers have found a safe place in conversations with her as well as wise counsel for training their children. She was a part of the Templeton Knolls Civic Association and avidly supported her husband, in his tenure as a Board Member. She has always been concerned about the welfare of others. She has opened her home to many, prepared meals for neighbors, provided transportation to those needing a ride to worship services and encouraged countless people in their Christian faith. She demonstrated impeccable strength as she cared for her husband and daughter as they simultaneously battled sickness and passed away within two months of each other. During this time, she continued to build her faith on the Rock, Christ Jesus, and doing what she loves caring for children. VPCM: Who/What inspires your nominee and why? HF: Jessie’s inspirations have been two Women Entrepreneurs. Her mother, Ethel LeSane, who laid the foundation in her life for motherhood, faith in Jesus, and strong womanhood. Her mother was a creative seamstress creating whatever she envisioned. Former childcare provider and Childcare Association Board Member, Geraldine Lyons was a great source of encouragement in the business. After developing a relationship, they realized that they went to the same school as children. VPCM: What does Vision and Purpose mean to the nominee? HF: The words vision and purpose are essentially interwoven. Purpose is the reason or intention for existence. Vision is seeing or conceiving something. To put this together, purpose is the intention God has for our existence and vision is what God gives as a power to see and conceive His purpose along with step-by-step direction to fulfill His purpose. In this case, God's purpose for our mother, the nominee, is to be a Childcare Provider and the vision to fulfill His purpose has expanded many decades. Our mom is honored to be a Community Hero nominee. She applauds all of the efforts and dedication Vision & Purpose has demonstrated to this work. Most heroes live and work without much notice. However, you have found a way to use your gifts and talents to partner and recognize the people of Prince George’s County and beyond. Again, thanks for all you do. VPCM: Give an affirmation quote and/or biblical scripture that the nominee lives by? HF: Jessie stands on Proverbs 22:6 - “Point your kids in the right direction; when they’re old they won’t be lost.” She takes this God given assignment seriously; teach, train, direct children on how to live. She has watched a few of them from infancy develop as adults due to her guidance. There have been a few that brought their children to receive that same training. 14 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Business & Entrepreneurship Women Who Lead By Karen McConnell-Jones National Women’s History Month allows us the opportunity to recognize and celebrate so many amazing and phenomenal women, who are making great strides in our community and in business. Women are truly the trailblazers in their own right. We are willing to take risks and go in a path that sometimes is not right in front of us. Being the FIRST to set the bar. We blaze a trail and leave a path so others can follow through with great pride and determination, while continuing to carry the baton of righteousness for us all. Women Who Lead is a sisterhood of women who are influencers. We are in a place where we celebrate, connect, and develop every woman in her leadership journey. Women are great leaders, as we have a natural ability to dream big, challenge assumptions and inspire teams. We know how to translate big ideas into concrete action and results. We truly are a community or society of sisters, the solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experiences, and/or concerns. Vision & Purpose (V&P) Community Magazine is honored to be able to share with our readers the stories and work of two beautiful-spirited “women who lead” in business and in our community. Kathryn Clay and Shelly Gross-Wade we honor you for National Women’s History Month! Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 15
Women Who Lead Part One
Meet Kathryn Clay Kathryn Clay is a chosen leader selected by her community as being one of the best at what she does. This chosen leader has something about her that cannot be defined nor measured. She always exudes an indescribable energy that her followers can easily feel through her words and actions. “Having parents who demonstrated the benefits of community engagement, I have spent the bulk of my life engaged in activities which serve to uplift individuals, families and communities. I’ve been a Banker for the last 45 years, with the last 27 being as a Community Development professional. Giving back, especially to communities of color, is my vocation AND my avocation. I am blessed to be living and working in my GOD purpose,” said Kathryn. Kathryn has been involved with several community-serving organizations over the years and her involvement with FSC First has spanned more than 20 years. From January 2012 through December 2018, Kathryn served on the board of directors for FSC First, the first four years as treasurer and the last two years as Board Chair. she was very honored to be the first woman to serve in this capacity. From 2018 to the present, she serves as a member of FSC’s Bankers Task Force. Kathryn describes FSC First as a US Department of the Treasury designated (Non-Bank) Community Development Financial Institution (CDFI), established to foster economic opportunity by providing technical assistance, access to capital and other services for small and minority owned business in Prince Georges County, and other areas in the State of Maryland. Currently, FSC First offers more than twelve unique programs in the furtherance of their goals and mission. “I became familiar with FSC First when a Bank for whom I previously worked, became an inaugural participant in FSC’s then newly launched loan pool. I met Shelly soon thereafter and I was impressed by her knowledge and her passion to ensure minority owned businesses in Prince Georges County had the tools needed to survive and thrive.”
Kathryn goes on to share with me one of her most memorable moments where FSC First helped someone. A friend of Kathryn asked if she would assist his daughter, who was interested in opening a diagnostic lab. She was already working as a RN and had some experience with running the lab where she worked. Kathryn assumed she was at the very beginning of her endeavor. However, upon Kathryn speaking with the young lady, she had so much in place (a site identified, a solid business plan, equity available, equipment identified, staff identified etc.) that Kathryn called Shelly and asked if she would speak to young lady, which Shelly did the very next day. Then Shelly had FSC’s Business Development Officer work with the young lady on an application for startup financing. Kathryn feels, this is a fond memory that she will always treasure because it demonstrated the responsiveness FSC First provides for all who seek assistance. “Yes, this is just one example of many in which FSC First helps small businesses to get started. I am also eager to say that when FSC obtained their CDFI status back in October 25, 2013, that was huge. The application process is rigorous and this status allows FSC First to receive resources which otherwise would not be available to them. These are resources which directly benefit the small businesses served by FSC First. Kathryn’s community outreach involvement has been phenomenal and still standing strong as of today. Yet, during Kathryn’s banking career she has had the pleasure of providing training and technical assistance on a variety of issues which impact low resourced individuals and/or communities and has served as a guest speaker and/or panelist for a number of organizations, including: American University’s Washington School of Law, Southeastern University’s School of Entrepreneurship, The DC Chamber of Commerce Business Resource Center, the National Community Investment Fund Annual Development Banking Conference and for a number of other community based organizations. In addition to Kathryn’s career responsibilities, she currently serves the Greater Washington community directly via her service on various community non-profit boards and working groups includes; The Affordable Housing Conference of Montgomery County (board member), Bank on DC (founding member of the working group), United Communities Against Poverty (board member) and DC REACH (access to credit sub-group). As the interview comes to a conclusion, Kathryn shares her final remarks by giving honor to her parents. “My parents are/were my inspiration. They gave me the courage to soar, knowing the safety net of their love and support was always underneath me. Though they are no longer physically with me, their love, wisdom and example continue to guide me.” Always HOPE (Hold Onto Positive Expectations)! Kathryn Clay
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Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Women’s History Month, what does “Women in Leadership” mean to you? Kathryn Clay: Leadership by Women is manifested in a variety of ways and takes many forms. Whether as the leader of a Nation (i.e., Denmark, Ethiopia, New Zealand, Sweden et al), the leader of a corporation, the leader of a congregation, or the leader of the local scout troop, Women bring attributes to Leadership which are not always demonstrated by men. When I think of Women in Leadership, I think of Proverb 31:11-31. Not from a “domestic” point of view because the leadership skills detailed in Proverbs are applicable to Leadership in general. Women leaders are more likely to be people oriented, embrace a cooperative and inclusive leadership style, understand the value of and the need for “emotional intelligence,” prefer to operate in truth and transparency. Of course, my thoughts here are based on my personal experiences and my own leadership style. The Strength of Kathryn’s Character: Creative, Committed, Charitable.
Women Who Lead Part Two Meet Shelly Gross-Wade Shelly Gross-Wade is the outgoing President & CEO of the Prince George’s Financial Services Corporation (FSC First) and for more than two decades serves as an economic development finance policy advisor to the Prince George’s County administration, now led by County Executive Angela Alsobrooks. She is a visionary and legendary -- often creating long-term solutions by collaborating with others. As a legendary economic development professional, Shelly aspires to share her experiences and knowledge, in which she has more than four decades of public and private services in non-profit management and economic development. Shelly will use her wisdom and expertise to help others achieve their vision, mission and goals. “For more than 24 years I served as the first woman and African American to lead the non-profit, economic development finance organization. It has been truly a blessing.” Shelly explains how FSC First plays a big role in helping undeserved businesses get a fighting chance. “FSC First can provide direct loans to under-banked and unbanked businesses with more flexible interest rates, terms and conditions. Typically, these businesses have been denied access to traditional banking services to fully meet their needs. However, they may have a viable business that provides a niche product or service in their community or industry. Typically, these businesses employ local residents. Therefore, FSC First will evaluate their financing needs holistically and make a commitment to lend with flexible terms and conditions. In addition, FSC First will provide training, mentoring/coaching and access to other business resources and market opportunities to strengthen the businesses’ probability for success. In many cases, FSC First will engage a participating lender to help meet the financing needs of the business.” 20 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Shelly’s time with FSC First has allowed her to witness great achievements by their clients and by great people of our community, as she shared one that truly stands out. “Ten years ago, FSC First was approached by a retired Federal employee who wanted to be the first to own and operate The Goddard School franchise in Prince George’s County. She had done her research and presented a well-documented business plan, including cash flow projections and reasonable assumptions on how she would operate it. This required her to acquire land, design and build the facility. Needless to say, this also required additional debt financing to leverage a substantial financial commitment she had made from personal resources. Today, I am proud to share that Anita Armstrong has successfully operated The Goddard School in Bowie and has paid in full her financial obligations to acquire the land and facility. She was recently appointed to the FSC First Loan Review Committee. It goes without saying that when you help aspiring entrepreneurs to achieve their dreams, friendships evolve and in many cases you become a trusted confidant. I am delighted that so many of the business owners financed by FSC First have a trusted relationship with me and the team at FSC First.” As a result of the successful turnaround of FSC First and the revolving loan fund, FSC First has become a Lender Service Provider – extending subject matter expertise to other organizations to administer and manage financing programs that have a shared mission to FSC First. Therefore, the economic development financing toolbox has multiple distinct loan programs that allows FSC First to provide diverse, innovative and creative financing solutions to small and minority-owned businesses primarily in Prince George’s County but also throughout the State of Maryland. Partnering with these organizations attracted a significant amount of additional funding from public and private institutions. 2022 Maryland Black Chamber of Commerce – Outstanding Partner of the Year Award 2022 Bi-County Business Roundtable – Community Partner of the Year Award 2022 Prince George’s Chamber of Commerce – Trailblazer of the Year Award 2020 Prince George’s Chamber of Commerce – Financial Relief Business of the Year Award Newly retired, Shelly shares her thoughts on community involvement, and what that looks like for her now. “Retirement for me is transformative. In my new chapter of life, I am pursuing my entrepreneurial aspirations to share my decades of experience in economic development and business lending. In March – Women’s History Month, I will officially launch my consulting practice – www.baycrossingconsulting.com. As the Principal Consultant & CEO, I will consult with economic development organizations, nonprofit organizations and private businesses to provide advisory and consulting services that results in them achieving increased performance/impact and funding. I am thankful that FSC First decided to become my first client. Their continued confidence in me to assist with the CEO and Board transition is a testament to the mutual level of integrity and respect we’ve enjoyed. Of course, I will continue to volunteer on various Boards and Commissions such as The Hospice of the Chesapeake, the Maryland Economic Development Association, Leadership Maryland, and the Queen Anne’s County Economic Development Commission, to name just a few.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 21
As the interview comes to a close, Shelly leaves us with loving blessings to her family. Shelly starts out with thanking her husband, Lou Wade of more than 30 years; he truly inspires her, as he is always in her corner, no matter what. Her sisters (Cynthia and Crystal) believe she can achieve anything when she has a well-documented plan. Shelly is also inspired by her youngest granddaughter, Kyleigh, who absolutely has no inhibitions. She is smart, focused and courageous in everything she pursues. Of course, Shelly’s work ethics are inspired by her 89-year-old mother, Gladys Randall, who still works and has remained her biggest cheerleader in everything she does in life. Shelly is one of nine siblings and her mother has always treated every single one of them as if they are her only priority. Shelly visits her mother by phone daily and in person weekly, so her mother can know and understand, no matter how busy (or where) she is, as the matriarch of the family Shelly draw her strength from her mother and she is greatly appreciated. Lastly, Shelly thanks her extended family in FSC First. “More than two decades ago, I came to FSC First as one of a handful of women who were leading SBA 504 CDCs in the country, and I believe one of only two African American women led CDCs. As a trailblazer, there were not many women in economic development leadership, so much of what I was able to accomplish was innate. There were not many women in leadership to call upon for guidance. I was thrusted into a male dominated industry simply by my desire to make a difference for small and minority-owned businesses. I was bold enough to accept advice and guidance from reputable leaders, who offered their support and guidance. I aspired to be different in my approach as I made a difference in the lives of those that were unaware of the myriad of resources available to help them start, grow and thrive in successful businesses. I am grateful to God for being able to be a servant-leader to my community.” Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Women’s History Month, what does “Women in Leadership” mean to you? Shelly Gross-Wade: To me, Women in Leadership means that as we climb the latter of success, we reach back to empower and inspire others to achieve their aspirations. I have experienced that women leaders operate from a position of purpose, strength and awareness as opposed to their emotions. We tend to be solution-oriented for the greater good versus the bottom line. The Strength of Dr. Goldson’s Character: Visionary, Trailblazer, and Results-driven.
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The Young Professionals Corner
Rising Above the Circumstances By Jayden Ford
A problem with many young people is that they can struggle to find themselves. Many have no idea what they want to do and that can be discouraging for many to explore options. When you don’t come from a family of wealth, being exposed to different activities can be hard. This is the story of 26-year-old Brianna Walker. Brianna, like many, grew up in a home where money wasn’t always there. Growing up she wasn’t able to join clubs and activities that could expose her to what’s out there in the world. Her community around her wasn’t able to motivate her or help her to see herself as a future professional. “The lack of funds decreases your way of thinking. You don’t think that you can do things.” Briana had said when asked about her hardships. Brianna's parents however made sure that she focused on her studies and was a good student. The efforts worked as she was able to go to University of the District of Columbia on scholarship. However, the scholarship she received still wasn’t enough as she struggled to find a place to stay while in college. Sometimes she would think what’s the point in going to class when I’m facing all the hardships I’m currently facing. She never let that deter her. Her mindset was if I’m not going to class and doing my schoolwork, I’m not going to be doing anything at all and she let that motivate her to keep working to improve herself.
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She ended up getting her undergraduate degree in music education. When she got her degree, she wasn’t sure what she was ready to do yet. She took multiple jobs from doing hospitality work at hotels and working at banks. None of these jobs made her happy. She even made a joke saying “I'll just live in a cardboard box because I can’t wake up to go to work every day.” The jobs she had previously were not bringing her happiness. Later she found a job doing aftercare with kids. She had never had the opportunity to be around kids growing up and she learned that she loved working with kids. She enjoyed the work and decided this is what she wanted to do. Brianna became a teacher's aide at Thomas elementary school and decided to go back to college to get her master’s degree. She went from someone who used to hate waking up to becoming someone who proudly tells her friends she’s going to work. This spring in 2023 she will be getting her master’s degree which she was also on scholarship to receive and will be getting her teaching certification. After her master’s she wants to go and get her PHD. At Thomas elementary she has been a part of a couple of community programs such as community helpers which helps students to learn what's in their neighborhood. They have brought in police, firefighters, even bakers in the area so that students can be exposed to what's out there.
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When asked what she would tell young students who come from similar backgrounds that may not have confidence to pick themselves up she said “You have to start small and go step by step.” She compares herself to her friends who she grew up with and many are still struggling. Most didn’t go to college and never laid the foundation for themselves to be successful. While getting her PHD will take time because she has worked so hard over the years her goals have become achievable. Success rarely comes quick and she talked about how she saw herself grow with the work she has put in. The first time she got paid was under the table at her high school working in a library doing somebody else's job then she got a job for herself getting paid $12 then $15 then $25 an hour and so on. She says that to say it’s a process to get where you want but if you want to succeed keep laying the foundation that will make your goal achievable. While working for herself is important, she appreciates her family for helping her through her journey. She said it's the little things her family does that she truly appreciates. Brianna at one time lived alone and she realized how hard it is to work and be at school all while having to take care of yourself. Being at home she appreciated her family who is there for her and does the little things. She doesn’t have to always worry about dishes or laundry. Having a support system is something that she truly appreciates and not having to do everything on your own is priceless. Brianna wants to rise to the top of education with her ultimate goal being to be the dean of a university.
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Business & Finance Business Credit Scores Six Things Every Entrepreneur Should Know By Tracy C. Brown Do you have a side hustle you're looking to grow? Are you a small business owner wondering if you should use your personal credit for your Business? Before you do, consider your business credit score. Whether it's a modest side gig or looking to expand your small business into a full-time, multi-person venture, it's important to understand your business credit score and how it can help you. Haven't Heard of a business credit score? You're not alone. "What is a business credit score?" It is the top question we get at VantageScore from small-business owners. Our goal is to expand understanding about credit scores for everyone, and when it comes to businesses, helping empower owners with helpful information to help them make smart financial decisions. The credit experts at VantageScore Solutions must know information about business credit and how small-business owners can establish and grow their business credit score:
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Consumer and Business Credit Reports are Different. A consumer credit report is for an individual, while a business credit report is for an organization, even if it's just one person. What's on the report varies: A business credit report has different number ranges for credit ratings, such as zero to 100. You won't see a list of creditors on a business credit report like a consumer credit report. A positive Business Credit Report Matters. A business credit report shows credit-related data a credit reporting company (CRC) has gathered about an organization from different qualifying sources. This includes records of credit card balances and payments and public records, such as bankruptcies. A rich business credit report can help you get better terms on business loans and other financial relationships needed to manage and grow your business, including lower interest rates. Be Proactive in Strengthening your Business Credit Report. If you get a consumer loan, that information may be reported to all three bureaus for your consumer credit report. On the business side, there needs to be more data consistency and more chance your lender is going to report to all the commercial credit bureaus. Be proactive by using strategies that include reporting to the bureaus, such as utilizing small-business credit cards. You can also work with vendors that knowingly report to the bureaus. Finally, pay all bills on time and keep debt low. Separate Yourself and Your Business. Like with consumer credit, building a rich credit history takes time. Business owners should start building good credit as soon as possible and begin by establishing a business entity. Most small-business owners in the United States operate as sole proprietors, which means they don't have a formal business structure such as an LLC, S-corporation, or C-corporation. Having these types of designations separates you and your business and therefore separates your business and personal credit. Avoid tapping Personal Assets. When starting or growing a business, many people use personal assets such as savings, retirement funds, or home equity for funding. Before you do this, exhaust all other possibilities for business financing. There are over 6,500 different companies lending products for small-business owners, so it's worthwhile to research and find one that fits your needs so you don't have to put your personal finances at risk. Plus, many of these other options come with the opportunity to build your business credit report. Check your Business Credit Report Regularly Just because you pay your bills on time doesn't mean you should assume your credit report is good. You want to respond quickly if something negative occurs, such as financial fraud or identity theft. Visit VantageScore.com to access a list of free credit score providers for both your personal and business credit reporting purposes. I’m Tracy C. Brown, your Startup Strategist and I hope you have enjoyed this new featured column. You can expect more nuggets to be shared on what you need to know before starting your business or to sustain your existing business. All the Best! 28 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Cover Story The Love of Family, Community, and Business By Karen McConnell-Jones Vision & Purpose (V&P) Community Magazine is proud to have one of our own, the Oliver’s, featured on the front cover of our magazine, as we celebrate three years of publication. Wesley and Sha’Meca are the husband-and-wife team that brings so much joy to V&P. Their energy is amazing and their faith shines with happiness and gratefulness in everything they do. We are blessed to have them to be a part of the V&P family as we are truly honored to be featuring their LOVE STORY!!! Meet the Oliver’s Wesley and Dr. Sha’Meca Latai’ Oliver are a fun, loving, creative, God-fearing couple that has been happily married for over twelve years. They were raised in the inner city of the Southside of Chicago, IL, in which they were exposed to the Arts, mentorship and even the hard-knocks of life. Their upbringing taught them both how to survive, thrive, and dream bigger than what was against them. After four years of marriage and two children, they decided to take a leap of faith to leave everything they knew behind (family, friends and even their condo) to move to the DMV to start new careers and build their family from scratch; with no family, no friends, no connections. Their only resource was God, their gifts and each other. After eight years of living in the D(M)V, their family grew from a family of four to a family of seven. Their careers evolved as they developed a clear understanding of their purposes, and their purposes have opened doors of opportunities that help other people bring their dreams to life. 30 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Wesley Oliver is the CEO of Dreams Alive Production, a full video production company that uses the eye of the camera to bring the visions and missions of corporations, organizations, small businesses and individuals dreams to reality in unparalleled ways. Wesley has worked with artists such as Kierra Sheard, Mali Music, Fred Hammond, Kirk Franklin, and Deitrick Hadden to name a few. He has worked on Indy films, documentaries, commercials, music videos, and live events for local and international talent. He holds the IMDB title of Assistant Director in the featured film, Blessed and Cursed. As a professional in the Media and Technology Field, Wesley’s great character and leadership skills have allowed him to lead as a Media and Technology Director for mega churches. By training and helping them to build strong ministry teams, all while reaching a global audience to build the Kingdom of God, Wesley states that his work is not a job, it’s purpose.
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Dr. Sha’Meca Latai’ Oliver, known as the “Root Coach”, is not just a wife and a mother, but a “Builder of Leaders.” She pastors a ministry called Pneuma Breathe Ministries, where their mission is to RTT; Reach, Train and Transform the lives of others through the wisdom and power of God. She is the Founder and CEO of Women Who Lead Connect, a professional organization of women in leadership. She helps women discover and understand their purpose and build their businesses and personal brands, for the glory of God. She not only helps women build themselves and their brands, but turn their ideas into purpose, and in return, she helps them to turn their purposes into platforms that generate multiple streams of income. In the midst of building women, she doesn’t forget that her first priority is building her family. Not only is Sha’Meca an avid supporter of her husband’s purpose, she is a devoted homeschool mom to all five of their children. She committed to the education and wellbeing of her children, mentally, spiritually, physically and emotionally. She believes that “before you build the world, you must build your home first.”
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Sha’Meca was asked about her gift zone and how she applies it to her business “As a Founder, Pastor, Coach and Consultant my gift aligns with the gift of prophecy. “The Bible states in 1 Corinthians 14:12 that our gifts are to edify the church (the body of believers in Christ Jesus). The Bible also states in 1 Corinthian 4:13 “But he who prophesies speaks edification and exhortation and comfort to men.” My business not only thrives off building up the hearts of others for the glory of God, but it is also built on the foundation of the Word of God. It is my daily work to build up, provide comfort and celebrate women in leadership, therefore they not only build a successful business, but a successful and healed person inside before out. My business model is to “Build my business around my life, not my life around my business. I desired to remain true to my faith without compromising who I am while leading in my business. Therefore, my clients, customers and community have a clear understanding that as the founder I am the same in business and in my home. This has provided great employee morale and it has built great personal and business relationships,” said Sha’Meca. Yes, said Wesley “I must agree with my wife, and personally, my gift aligns with the gift of faith. Many people that know me, know that I am not a person that needs to be at the forefront of things. I work best behind the scenes, which allows my work to shine through the person or project that I am in charge of. Most people say if there is one word that can best describe me it would be modest. I am not the kind of person who needs to be in crowds. I just enjoy serving. However, my passion pushes my purpose and puts me in rooms before great men and women. When my clients encounter me, it is all about faith. Faith to believe that someone like me, who wasn’t reared to be who I am today, can do what I can to produce; therefore, anything that they want to achieve is also possible. When my clients ask me to create something for them, even if it seems untouchable or never done before, I listen to them and produce the impossible. Yet, I know the quality of services that I am able to produce is not out of me, but truly from God. My motto is “We Bring Dreams To Life.” Through my skill as a production professional, it is my faith in God to produce quality work that always trumps what I can do out of my own strength. I believe this is a strength I possess without speaking a word, but it is truly expressed through my actions.”
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The Oliver’s shared as a marriage, one of their biggest challenges in business has been learning to understand what it takes to work together. This does not mean that they don’t work together. Actually, from the first day they met, they were both operating in their gifts. Wesley was operating as a camera man and Sha’Meca was the lead choreographer and dancer for a Christian Music Artist. During their first conversation, Sha’Meca was locking in a proposal with Wesley to shoot her first workout video. Ever since that day, they have been supporting each other in background roles helping each other build their dreams. Though it looked admirable on the outside, there were inner struggles that no one knew but them. Wesley had to learn to understand that the capacity in which Sha’Meca leads does not need to be limited to time, yet Sha’Meca had to understand that her time had to be considered and valued. She had to understand how Wesley leads is by taking risks and sometimes those risks will not be understood, but must be trusted. For years it was a day to day challenge, because their responses to how they operated in business was a direct reflection of who they were as individuals. And, they were not wrong for operating by faith. They learned that it is not their job to change the other person, but to understand who God has called them to be. Once they understood and accepted how they both comfortably operated, they learned to trust and focus more on the expected outcome that assures them that they cannot fail. The scripture that reminds them of winning together is Jeremiah 29:11, “For God has a plan to prosper you and not harm you, but to give you a hope and a future.”
Their biggest business growth is not money, it is their family. They believe that the wealth of a man is family. As parents and educators of their children, their job is to instill in them the principles of God which unlocks unmatched opportunities. As they operate as adults and complete their daily business responsibilities, they are more focused on how they successfully behave in front of their children. They desire to be more than just parents, but great examples that their children can follow. Therefore, they have tools and resources that they can apply to be the success they need to be. “Our reward is when we come together at the dinner table as a family and listen to each other's feelings, thoughts, comedic responses, and perspectives of life. We allow moments like these to be opportunities for constructive criticism, celebrations and building up each other.” “We love the fact that our family dynamic is like a 24-hour firehouse at times. Our workdays are unconventional. With five children, three girls and two boys, ranging from the ages of two to twelve years old, we are always on call. We learn everyday how to manage so many personalities and fields of thought. Sometimes, while we are working, literally, a child might be on our back, in our shoes or pouring milk on the floor. Every day there is some type of fire to put out. The only time we get quiet is when everyone is asleep, and getting everyone to sleep at one time does not always happen. But when it does, it is like being on an exclusive dinner date for us. We both share in the responsibilities of cooking dinner, cleaning and upkeeping our home. Sometimes it is a seventy-thirty split, sometimes it's fifty-fifty and sometimes, it is whomever has the energy to do it, and get it done. We laugh and cry about the challenges of raising our family without family members helping to share in baby-sitting duties. However, we realize that because God allowed us to be these 700 miles away from our hometown Chicago, we are equipped to effectively complete this assignment, even on days when it feels impossible.”
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They both feel that the sustaining of their marriage is “purpose.” They believe that getting married is something that they did, but being married is something that they are. It is more than the act of being married, it is “Covenant.” They have an understanding that when they gave their vows before God and agreed to be committed to each other, they were no longer individuals accomplishing their own agendas. They become “One” before God.” And being in total agreement before God, together, their assignment is to produce the will of God and build the Kingdom of God with their gifts, talents, and abilities. Sha’Meca says, “this allows us to demolish opportunities to think dividedly. Understanding that we are purposeful reminds us to deal with the painful and difficult conversations, but to give more attention to the plan and purpose of God. It keeps us having dominion over our situations, instead of being dominated by adversity.” Wesley expresses, “we stay spiritually connected by praying together. We spend time in the Word of God together, whether it is reading the Bible, listening to biblically sound audibles and asking each other questions. Somedays, it is saturating our home or car rides with worship music, or sharing the revelations the Holy Spirit reveals in our hearts. We live daily not just being spiritual beings but also respecting and understanding our humanity. We allow each other to be human, but also remind each other not to forget to see God in all situations. We just grow, daily.”
Taking their blessings and giving back to the community is a must do for the Oliver’s. They shared that they have always been givers. Their work ethic is “always over deliver.” They believe in fully pouring out, so God can fill them up with new and innovative ideas. They both participate in annual food and clothing drives in partnerships with organizations serving underserved communities. Wesley mentors’ young men and women in media teaching them how to operate the camera and build a media career. Sha’Meca teaches dance fitness to senior citizens in Charles County, helping them to build their confidence and cardiovascular system, in return strengthening their bodies and their minds. They both help build up the community through their ministry, Pneuma Breathe Ministries, exists through online church services, physical outreaches, and platform opportunities. They have donated their time, money and resources to local and national organizations that also create change for Kingdom Building. They also provide resources and leadership training to their mentees in Kenya and Lagos, Nigeria.
The Oliver’s leave us with these kind words. “We thank V&P Community Magazine for featuring our story and we are excited for the partnership and what God will purpose us to do. Bringing positive stories to life through the media is a blessing. Just remember, don’t just follow your dreams, produce your purpose. Every day you are writing your obituary. What will you be known for? What story are you writing? What legacy are you leaving behind? Who will know how to carry your mantel. Lead always with integrity and never lead without God. The road will not be conventional, but it will be a road designed for you to travel. Don’t give up!”
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Education Is Key
The Golden Door of Freedom By: Michelle DeMarcia Davis
I am so excited to celebrate my one-year Anniversary of writing Education Is Key! It is such a blessing to be able to write for this positive platform reminding us of the importance of vision and purpose. All seasons delight me in some way, however, Spring is my favorite. It may be because March is my birthday month and true new year. After taking the time to reset, realign and restart my mindset in January and February; I now think about how we currently L.I.V.E (Lead, Invest, Visualize and Evolve), versus how we want to L.I.V.E. “Education is the key to unlock the Golden door of Freedom” (George Washington Carver). Education is something no one can take from us. It is a gift we can use for many purposes of our Spiritual, Emotional, Physical, Financial and Social freedom. The dictionary definition of freedom is the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint. The definition of wellbeing is the state of being comfortable, healthy, or happy. Wellbeing is my freedom, so education is also the key to unlock my wellbeing. When we think about life and education, we must constantly consider who, what, when, where and why we are doing what we do. Who am I doing this for? What am I doing? When am I doing this? Where am I doing this? Why am I doing this? Every stage of life requires us to learn. The Bible says “study to show thyself approved,” 2nd Timothy 2:15. Every action starts with a thought and a decision. This is why it is very important to guard our hearts and minds. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (NIV). 38 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
One of the best books I’ve read is The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. He states “The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It’s far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God. You were born by his purpose and for his purpose.” World Teen Mental Wellness Day is observed across the globe on March 2 every year. It is a day that aims to raise awareness about the mental health issues that teenagers deal with. This Day is about making efforts to educate everyone and destigmatize something that is becoming increasingly common. I am blessed to mentor an awesome group of students at the high school I graduated from. My mentees are working on mental health/self-care activity and workbooks that will benefit them now and in the future. Hopefully they will be able to share it and bless others, also. Redoakrecovery.com states emotional health is the ability to cope with and manage emotions. It's also the ability to have positive relationships. Mental health is the ability to think clearly and make good decisions. It's also the ability to cope with stress and manage emotions. Spring allows us to get outside more for physical activity. As my twins online Learning Coach, we must do at least 30 minutes of physical activity each day. We research to get creative so we don’t get bored. AARP.org states “One of the world's largest studies on physical activity has found that doing household chores can be just as effective as running or working out when it comes to cutting your risk of heart disease and extending your life.” I agree because I totally count things like running around the house picking up tree limbs, raking leaves, etc… as their physical activity. I even try to make it fun as a competition to see who can pick up the most sticks and cardio dance parties.
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April is National Financial Literacy month recognized to raise public awareness of the importance of financial literacy and maintaining smart money management habits. Financial Literacy Month evolved from Youth Financial Literacy Day, introduced by the National Endowment for Financial Education. It is important to save for emergencies, retirement, education and other important goals. Life insurance is a good investment for coverage in case something happens until you are financially fit enough to cover incidents yourself. Wills and Trusts overlap with several differences between the two. Both are ways to say who will receive your assets. They do it in different ways having its own advantages and disadvantages. A few good financial books I recommend are: Al Riddick’s The Uncommon Millionaire: Financial Success Begins With Behavior; Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University and one of my smart mentees reminded me of Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki and Sharon Lechter. The authors of Rich Dad Poor Dad states “Financial intelligence is made up of these four main technical skills: 1. Accounting is financial literacy, or the ability to read numbers. This is a vital skill if you want to build businesses or investments. 2. Investing is the science of money-making money. 3. Understanding markets is the science of supply and demand Alexander Graham Bell gave the market what it wanted. So did Bill Gates. A $75,000 house offered for $60,000 that cost $20,000 was also the result of seizing an opportunity created by the market. Somebody was buying, and someone was selling. 4.The law is the awareness of accounting corporate, state and federal regulations. I recommend playing by the rules.”
Once we have our spiritual, intellectual, emotional, physical and financial wellbeing it allows us to focus on and enjoy our social and environmental wellbeing. We are then socially and environmentally evolving as our authentic self. I originally didn’t have these in a particular order. After speaking to my wise business coach, it makes sense how they flow as Spiritual, Emotional, Intellectual, Physical, Financial, Social and Environmental wellbeing. Writing this article is an enjoyable part of my social and environmental wellbeing.
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YOUR VOICE MATTERS The Impact of a Writer’s Voice By Cortland Jones
My sincere gratitude and appreciation are expressed to Karen McConnell-Jones for the privileged invitation and opportunity to be a contributing writer of the Vision & Purpose (V&P) Community Magazine and this quarterly article, Author Speaks. I am honored to be a part of the V&P Community Magazine family and look forward to being a positive contributor to this esteemed magazine and to the extended community of Prince George’s County and beyond. I am recently retired from Prince George’s County as a classroom teacher with 30 years of service teaching art, graphic design, and creative writing. I am a seven-time published author and I provide empowerment coaching services that have aided seven clients in publishing books and four others in launching their own businesses. Through our nonprofit organization we are currently helping a middle school student and young adult professional model publish books, along with one local school community. Literacy and writing have been a passion of mine that began when my 5th grade teacher published a poem I had written in the school newsletter. It was the first moment in my life, I later recalled when I published my first book in February 2014, when I recognized an interest in writing and the world reinforced to me that my voice mattered. Later in high school, I remembered two friends who asked if the poetry I had written could be written for their girlfriends, that affirmed my writing abilities and continued to reinforce to me my voice mattered and my ability to write was valued and appreciated. In college, at the Corcoran College of Art & Design, my passion for writing poetry was fueled by a freewriting activity we were invited to engage in at the beginning of every class. This activity of freewriting allowed me to participate more in the development of my creative self-expression involving writing and involving the exploration of my thoughts and feelings. ‘The world is too big for you not to have a platform,’ is the wisdom I received from God after the release of my first published book that inspired me to recall how my journey and passion for writing and literacy began. By the time I graduated from college I realized what began as an unsuspecting interest in writing in elementary school, suddenly, became one of my life goals in desiring to write and illustrate children’s books. Two of my seven published books are children’s books with the second one being released in the Summer of 2022. My first children’s book was actually a collaboration between a group of my after-school book club students and I beginning in the Fall of 2017-2018. During that time, I was also heavily involved in the promotion and celebration of literacy within my school community and the community of Greenbelt, Maryland.
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‘The world is too big for you not to have a platform.’ It wasn’t until I released my first published book I realized, through recalling my experiences with writing in childhood, that God was facilitating within me and through me a passion to share my voice with others through writing. The final four years of my career as an Educator allowed me to teach creative writing where multiple students received awards and recognition for their writing. It was during this time I identified myself as a storyteller. I began making connections to the manner in which I engage in public speaking by naturally wanting to tell a story related to the concepts and content of the topics I spoke on and in teaching my students how to write. We engaged in a lot of freewriting activities, journaling, poetry writing, and writing short stories. I enjoyed teaching writing just as much as I enjoyed teaching art and writing myself. Learning how to paint with words was a simple strategy I reinforced to my students and clients as a writing instructor and coach. This ongoing growing passion for writing ultimately allowed me to coach others and establish a community partnership with the Howard County Arts Council to teach creative writing to youth during the summer. ‘Learning how to paint with words was a simple strategy I reinforced to my students and clients as a writing instructor and coach.’ Since receiving the invitation and opportunity to be a contributing writer to V&P Community Magazine, it has allowed me to envision the opportunity to highlight various writers and authors I admire and fond of who influence my love for literature. I am excited and enthused about the opportunity of sharing with the community various authors such as Maya Angelou, whom I had the privilege of reading selections of her poetry and her famous memoir I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings. In what I learned through teaching and coaching others to write, I saw firsthand the manner Maya Angelou wrote with such descriptive detail and the use of poetic elements that captured my imagination as I became engrossed in her amazing ability to tell a story. Her story as a child and survivor of childhood trauma resonated with me, along with how she rediscovered her voice and discovered the platform by which she would demonstrate her voice mattered and shared it with the world. The life and legacy of Maya Angelou reminds me of a verse that includes the part that says, ‘Since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses.’ As she does for so many others, Maya Angelou represents to me one of a great cloud of witnesses that inspires, moves, and motivates me to demonstrate my voice matters and make use of my platform to share with others what God has gifted me the ability to do, to bless and help others. Writing is one way I am inspired by grace to be a positive contributor to add value to the world around me.
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God’s Flower In His garden God has an array of beautiful flowers A varying collection and assortment of flowers Each representing His splendor, majesty, grace, and goodness Women of all kinds Throughout our history And within our communities Represent God’s splendor His strength, grace, power, kindness His compassion, generosity, and love His relentless pursuit His tenacious yearning for those he loves Women are God’s flowers The nature of who they are in what makes the world beautiful
Health & Wellness Finding The Joy In Your Journey “You Get To Decide” Candice Camille
Things may not have turned out quite the way you planned. But, at any given moment you have the authority to say “this is not how my story ends.” You have the power to turn your pain into purpose which will lead you to a better plan. You must learn how to define your situation in a way that will empower you instead of it overwhelming you. Now is the time to “lean not” unto your own understanding. Let go and let God. We are responsible for our choices and actions however; God chooses the consequences and outcomes. Be careful of your choices especially in times of sadness, anger and disappointment. Your consequences and rewards are one choice away.
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Choose wisely! Feelings are not facts, they are moments in your life. Don’t make a permanent decision on a temporary moment or situation. No matter what happens, with God’s help and your actions you will rediscover pleasure and joy. Make the decision to do and be better for yourself by taking care of you. Now is the time to work on your wellbeing, body, mind and spirit. When life happens and knocks you down, you can depend on your faith and your body’s equity to stand up for you in your moments of weakness.
Remember that you are not being tested to show your weakness but to discover your power and strengths “God gives power to the weak and faint, and to those who have no might he increases strength.” Here's what I know for sure, better is always available if you want it and willing to do the work to get it. So, when life knocks you down you now have the power to get back up. Give yourself some compassion, create your happy, laugh out loud and remember to breathe. You get to decide.
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Health & Wellness Start - Grow - Expand By Kyonna F. Brown
Yes, you can. Yep, I’ve been trying to figure out a way to start this article. We have been together for many years. Sharing stories. Encouraging you to become better mentally, physically, and emotionally. In this season I want to remind you, yes you that you can. This message is specifically for the women this month. It’s our time to celebrate. Okay men, I’m not gonna leave you out, so your job is to share this article with as many women as possible. This is where all of my laughing and smiling emojis go. Yes, men you are to encourage and uplift the leading women in your life and all the women in your hemisphere. March is the time of month that we celebrate women’s achievements all over the globe. We set aside time to share stories, bring awareness, and most importantly lift one another up. Women’s month did not always start out having an entire month committed. It started with just one single day. March 8th was the day selected to celebrate women all across the globe using the title International Women’s Day. Then in 1978 Santa Rosa, California came the birth of Women’s week. The word spread and other cities and states adopted the same week growing their Vision and Purpose to celebrate women for all of their contributions to this beautiful place we call earth. Then the expansion of this great effort grew into an entire month. Between 1988 and 1994, Congress passed additional resolutions requesting and authorizing the President to proclaim March of each year as Women’s History Month. Since 1995, each president has issued an annual proclamation designating the month of March as “Women’s History Month.” 46 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
I’ve shared this factual history lesson to allow you, me, us, that yes you can. You can have your desires. You can have your dreams. The gifts that God has placed inside of you can see the light. The biggest issue is believing in ourselves. Too often we see someone else creating something similar to what our ideas are. Guess what, don’t count that as an empty promise. See it as facts that your dream can come true. Don’t judge yourself by others. That only puts a limitation on yourself. Remember, you are limitless. There is nothing that you can’t do. Nothing will come overnight. For some odd reason we live in a society that wants microwaveable success. Anything worth having or achieving undoubtedly comes from steps and processes. You can’t put a cake box in the oven and expect a cake. You have to follow the list of ingredients and instructions. My grandmother passed away and everyone loved her pound cakes. My mother and I have the list of ingredients and instructions. Well, we tried to bake grandma’s prize pound cake recipe. We had everything we needed, but we did not follow the instructions to a “T”. It was not an epic fall, but it was most definitely not grandma’s pound cake. With creating goals there are steps you must take. Just like women’s day turned into a month, and grandma's cake turned into our own creation, you can do great things. You have to start with an idea. Do the research. Grow in your concepts. Start trial and error. Expanding is inevitable if you put all the pieces in place. I just want to remind you before your eyes depart this paper that YES, YOU, CAN. Sis I Believe In You!
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Community Outreach Awareness V&P COMMEMORATIONS OF THE MONTH FOR MARCH Women's History Month: Is a celebration of women's contributions to history, culture and society and has been observed annually in the month of March in the United States since 1987. Ribbon color is purple. International Black Women’s History Month: Black and Minority Women are a lot like Black orchids. Black Orchids are a symbol of power and absolute authority. It is generally known that black is an imposing color, symbolizing authority and submission and, combined with the luxurious beauty of the Orchid, the Black Orchid came to symbolize great power. Ribbon color is purple. National Disabilities Awareness Month: The United States has recognized and celebrated March as National Disability Awareness Month! On February 26, 1987 President Ronald Reagan officially declared Proclamation 5613 making March National Disabilities Awareness Month. Ribbon color is orange. March 2022 Days: 2nd Read Across America Day (United States) 3rd World Wildlife Day 8th International Women’s Day 14th World Kidney Day 15th World Consumer Rights Day 15th World Sleep Day 21st International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination 21st International Day of Forests 21st World Down Syndrome Day 21st International Day of Nowruz 22nd World Water Day 23rd World Meteorological Day 24th World Tuberculosis Day 26th Purple Day – Epilepsy Awareness Day 30th Earth Hour
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Month Long: Brain Injury Awareness Month Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month National Women’s History Month (United States) Red Cross Month National Umbrella Month (United States) Ethics Awareness Month (United States) National Caffeine Awareness Month (United States) National Nutrition Month (United States) National Disabilities Awareness
V&P COMMEMORATIONS OF THE MONTH FOR APRIL
Financial Literacy Month: Which was created to highlight the importance of financial literacy and teach Americans how to establish and maintain healthy financial habits. No ribbon color found. World Autism Month: Beginning with United Nations-sanctioned World Autism Awareness Day on April 2nd. Throughout the month, we focus on sharing stories and providing opportunities to increase understanding and acceptance of people with autism, fostering worldwide support. Ribbon color is blue. National Poetry Month: U.S. National Poetry Month, April, is a marvelous opportunity to celebrate the expressiveness, delight, and pure charm of poetry. It is a special occasion that reminds us of the integral role of poets and poetry in our cultures.
April 2022 Days: 1st Fun at Work Day 1st April Fools’ Day 2nd World Autism Awareness Day 9th Easter Sunday 7th World Health Day 12th International Day for Street Children 13th National Sarcoidosis Awareness Day 14th World Dolphin Day 15th World Art Day 19th, 20th, and 21st Global Youth Service Days 20th Volunteer Recognition Day 22nd Earth Day 22nd Administrative Professionals’ Day (United States) 23rd World Book Day 25th World Malaria Day 25th World Penguin Day 26th World Intellectual Property Day 29th International Dance Day 30th International Jazz Day
Month Long: Alcohol Awareness Month Financial Literacy Month Autism Awareness Month National Youth Sports Safety Month (United States) Parkinson’s Awareness Month Stress Awareness Month National Poetry Month Testicular Cancer Awareness Month World Habitat Awareness Month Sexual Assault Awareness Month Donate Life Month Math Awareness Month National Volunteer Month
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Community News Flash Byllye Avery, Reproductive Trailblazer Women’s History Month By Marjorie M. Middleton Marginalized communities of women, most notably women of color, continue to suffer as the battle for reproductive rights continues. Included in that marginalization, all women living in poverty who are less likely to have healthcare, let alone access to affordable birth control. So, in the ongoing fight for those rights, women unite in the fight now, and, most assuredly, during Women’s History Month. Women’s History Month is observed yearly in March. The month focuses on the contributions of women throughout history and during modern day. The United States, the United Kingdom and Australia celebrate women during the month of March. And, International Women’s Day is observed on March 8th. Black women have long been a productive, life-changing part of the advancement of women in all categories imaginable, so we celebrate our Sister’s this month and every month of the year. Thank you, trailblazers. Black women are in the front in this battle for reproductive justice. We have been at the forefront, fighting for equality and equity in reproductive rights by running for public offices, organizing and leading marches, leading voters by educating them about our disparities and our rights. So, this Women’s History Month, we celebrate those who contribute to the cause by honoring a Black woman who has been involved in the cause. BYLLYE AVERY: Byllye Avery is a women’s health care activist who tirelessly works for reproductive justice to come to pass. She has worked to develop healthcare services and provide education to Black women, also addressing their mental and physical health stressors. Avery is fully aware, foremost as a Black woman, that traditionally women of color have experienced generational neglect in the area of healthcare. The National Black Women’s Health Project was founded by Avery and is the first national organization to specialize in Black women’s reproductive health issues. At 85 years old, Ms. Avery has been awarded many times for her work. 50 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
In the early 1970s Avery began participating in raising awareness about the lack of access to abortion and reproductive health care needs being met in the Black women’s communities. Along with some partners in this venture, she opened the Gainesville Women’s Health Center in 1974. It was the first abortion and gynecological care clinic in the city. The clinic was opened after Planned Parenthood refused to open a clinic in the predominantly Black community. The clinic provided safe abortions, contraceptives, sexuality workshops and reproductive education. She continued her work by providing birthing centers equipped with certified nurses and midwives. In 1981, Avery started a two year long project, the Black Women’s Health Project. During that time, at Spelman College a conference was held addressing topics such as domestic violence, diabetes, sexual abuse and holistic wellness. Through her work she encouraged Black women to take charge of their health physically and mentally. In 1984 Byllye Avery founded the National Black Women’s Health Project now known as the Black Women’s Health Imperative. It is the only national organization solely dedicated to improving health and wellness in the Black women’s community. Avery has written and spoken about how race, class and sex impact women’s healthcare. She has called the health discrepancies between African American women and white women “a conspiracy of silence.” To make the silence loud, we must work. Much awarded for her community service and activism, I say thank you on behalf of Black women. There are many things we can do to further the cause of eradicating health disparities in the Black women’s community. Educate yourself Become involved Ask questions at each health appointment you go to Choose Black women doctor’s, but do your research first Educate your daughter Educate your community In honor of Women’s History Month, we honor Byllye Avery and other women who have fought and continue to fight for women’s rights, reproductively, and otherwise. Thank you, trailblazers!
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All Things Fashion
National Women's History Month
My sisters, this is the month the nation recognizes you! I see it as, kind of like Black History Month. The reason I say this is because you need more than a month to celebrate the contributions women have given to the world. Every child that enters this world is conceived by a woman. That is a fact. No woman, no mankind. You're the portal which brings souls into this world. Without you, mankind would cease to be in existence. That's heavy. With that being said it's hard to rationalize women in America not being able to vote. It is also hard to rationalize women receiving lower wages than their male counterparts. It shows how much women have been unappreciated in the United States of America. Even some religious organizations don't recognize women pastors, which is absurd because Jesus's first teacher from the womb was his mother. Wisdom in the bible is spoken of as a woman because she teaches and protects those who seek her. Without her you are sure to add folly to your life and eventually perish. Even the church is considered the bride of Christ in the New Testament. What is ministry without women, an abomination. We even speak of the Earth and its complex systems as Mother Nature. Mother Nature can be tamed by no one except The Most High! Notice, I have said nothing about how beautiful our women are, this being the All Things Fashion section of the magazine. That's because I think the most appealing thing about a woman is her spirit and her wisdom. Her physic is kissed by the mind of The Most High God. Soft yet strong, gentle but resilient. Able to make war and babies. Even as a temptation she has been known to make heads roll and cause nations to go to war.
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No wonder men see women as conquests. If we could ever really appreciate the value of a woman's love. Maybe it's when we lose it, we then realize how much we have lost. When a true queen lends her power to a man, he is anointed to achieve supernatural accomplishments. Like Beyonce said,"let me upgrade ya!" From projects to billionaires are the results of having a true queen on your side. A force to be reckoned with is a woman who knows who she is. I thank The Most High for all the amazing women in my life who have supported me and nurtured me. Thank you for the education and patience. Thank you for your love ! From my mom to my wife and all those in between. Thank you! This is your month nationally but in my heart every month should be filled with thank yous and acts of kindness. Women, you all deserve it. God Bless. Tony T.
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All Things Fashion National Women's History Month As we celebrate Women's History month, it's so amazing to spotlight the strength, intelligence, talents, dominance, but also nurturing traits that a woman stands for. When it comes to her children and family she will make sure they are all taken care of before she takes care of herself. She is that strong woman that supports that strong and iconic man that is a part of history. She's even that woman who stands up for women's rights and equality. Her determination and purpose is so divine that she has been chosen to fulfill a task that breaks records and also becomes that iconic woman that helps change history . Just to name a few of our black women that are breaking records: Erin Jackson, wins historic gold medal in speed skating (2022 Winter Olympics). Jennifer King, first black female position coach in NFL history (Washington Commanders). Jessica Watkins (NASA), was announced to be the first black woman who will complete a long term mission on the International Space Station in April 2022. Now that's Black Girl Power!! Women need to celebrate this month and be uplifted and supportive of one another. Our younger ladies are watching and being inspired to step up and become the next in line. As we encourage them by example we need to make sure we take time for self-care. Mind, Body and Soul.
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As great as these women are, they all have a few things in common and one is definitely the health of their hair. Yes, we all need a hair care regimen. Now that the seasons are changing, our hair and scalp tends to become dry. This is a great time to make sure you give yourself deep conditioning treatments. It helps to prevent damage, reduce split ends, improves elasticity, adds shine and moisture to your hair strands. There are definitely so many health benefits that only take 20 minutes of your time. After shampooing your hair, rinse the hair thoroughly and apply your conditioner. Use a good conditioner that benefits the texture of your hair. Look for natural plant extract ingredients such as Jojoba oil, Moroccan argan oil, Coconut oil and Aloe extract. Apply conditioner to your hair thoroughly and cover with a plastic cap. Sit under a heated dryer for 20 minutes. The heat helps to penetrate within the hair shaft, leaving the hair feeling softer and more manageable to detangle. Section the hair in four sections or smaller if needed, start from the ends and work your way up to the hair root of the hair strands. Use a big tooth comb or a detangling brush. After rinsing thoroughly, continue with desired styling. If you are dealing with damaged, color-treated or chemically-treated hair try a protein deep conditioning treatment and follow the same steps. Deep conditioning is just as important as shampooing your hair and keeping your ends trimmed. Make time for healthy hair care. You are so worth it and your hair will thank you! Martina C Turner
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Arts and Media Media, A Party of One for All By Marion M. Swingler and Karonna J. Hosey The power of today's various media avenues has put the world's influence in the hands of those who have put themselves in the driver's seat of marketing. These self-made influencers leverage their expertise with tools such as television, blogs, podcasts, YouTube, and a growing number of social media platforms to promote people, products, and services to consumers. One who paved the way and is still blazing trails like no other is Ms. Oprah Winfrey. Her instinct, influence, and impact continue globally, transcending cultures, languages, races, religions, ages, and gender. She is most known for her self-titled super popular talk show broadcast from 1986 to 2011. Over those years, The Oprah Winfrey Show (OWS) syndication expanded, captivating over 42 million viewers worldwide. Oprah earned her title as the Queen of Daytime Television through hosting and producing the OWS. In 1988, Oprah took charge of The Oprah Winfrey Show through her company Harpo Productions. During this transition, OWS facilities shifted to the new Harpo Studios on the New West Side of Chicago. In the next several years, Harpo Productions grew to about 200 employees and about $150 million in revenue. Oprah would go on to produce films and television series, and in 2000 launched her magazine elegantly titled O. The Oprah Winfrey Show had massive popularity and spurred an entire lane of business. Books and articles were released promising to teach dreamers how to get on the Oprah Winfrey show. People were clamoring for their shot on this global platform. The mere chance for Oprah Winfrey to speak your name or mention your business was a dream come true, but to be a guest on her show was life-changing. Anyone with an idea wanted to make it to that stage. It did not take very long for anyone with a pulse to notice that once Oprah Winfrey spoke of you or your product or service, exponential growth followed. Oprah's powerful impact became known as The Oprah Effect. Oprah herself embraced her influence and consciously used her power on purpose and with purpose. The Oprah Effect can carry negative weight as well. In 1996, the OWS aired an episode where Oprah swore off eating beef again, citing Mad Cow Disease. The beef industry endured huge losses as the purchases of meat plummeted. A group of cattle industry executives sued Oprah with allegations of causing a loss in profit of $10.3 million. The court found no negligence on Oprah's part. Oprah won! Depending on which side of the spectrum of the Oprah Effect you landed, your life could and most certainly would change overnight. Good or bad, your life would change. 56 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
The Oprah Winfrey Show had massive popularity and spurred an entire lane of business. Books and articles were released promising to teach dreamers how to get on the Oprah Winfrey show. People were clamoring for their shot on this global platform. The mere chance for Oprah Winfrey to speak your name or mention your business was a dream come true, but to be a guest on her show was life-changing. Anyone with an idea wanted to make it to that stage. It did not take very long for anyone with a pulse to notice that once Oprah Winfrey spoke of you or your product or service, exponential growth followed. Oprah's powerful impact became known as The Oprah Effect. Oprah herself embraced her influence and consciously used her power on purpose and with purpose. The Oprah Effect can carry negative weight as well. In 1996, the OWS aired an episode where Oprah swore off eating beef again, citing Mad Cow Disease. The beef industry endured huge losses as the purchases of meat plummeted. A group of cattle industry executives sued Oprah with allegations of causing a loss in profit of $10.3 million. The court found no negligence on Oprah's part. Oprah won! Depending on which side of the spectrum of the Oprah Effect you landed, your life could and most certainly would change overnight. Good or bad, your life would change. One wildly popular segment of OWS was called My Favorite Things, where the Queen would preview products and gift them to the audience, and more often than not, the items soon sold out. Spanx Shapewear, ENELL Sports Bras, and Garrett Popcorn are a few companies blessed by The Oprah Effect that expanded beyond products. Several well-known professionals can credit their successes to Ms. Winfrey. Rachel Ray, Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, Iyanla Vanzant, and Oprah’s best friend Gayle King can stake their claim to fame on having been introduced to the world through The Oprah Winfrey Show. Oprah continued to expand her media empire by producing films under Harpo Studios, including The Women of Brewster Place, Beloved, The Great Debaters, and Selma. In 2000, Oprah launched O magazine and vowed that only she would grace the cover of every issue. Perhaps the most profound result of The Oprah Effect displayed Oprah's influential reach to the highest seat of service in the United States. Oprah expressed her worry about our country and proclaimed her support for the candidate she believed had "a new vision for America." Oprah lent her profound sphere of influence to the Illinois state senator from Chicago, helping to secure his position as our 44th President of the United States, President Barack Obama. The estimation of additional votes due to her involvement is about one million.
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Her impact is unmatched. The Oprah Winfrey Show was extremely popular and is still the United States highest-rated daytime talk show. In January 2011, Oprah launched The Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN). OWN continues to be a media powerhouse bringing her loyal-public shows like Queen Sugar, Greenleaf, and Iyanla Fix My Life. Oprah continues to be honored for her brilliance as a talk show host, media executive, actress, billionaire philanthropist, and humanitarian. Some of her honors include the Academy Awards (winning one award and receiving two nominations), 17 Daytime Emmy Awards, the Golden Globe Award (winning one award and receiving one nomination), the Jefferson Awards, 25 NAACP Image Awards, the Peabody Award, the People’s Choice Awards (winning four awards and being nominated four times), Tony Awards (winning one award and receiving one nomination), and the prestigious Presidential Medal of Freedom. None of what Oprah has accomplished and given to all has been easy. She has lived her life before the world on her terms. She met every challenge with an unwavering determination to attain her goals. Oprah is relentless about living out her dreams, helping others to do the same, and sharing success wisdom keys to help people find their way to their dream. Waiting to see the reality she dreams up next!
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