Inspirational Moments pg. 6 Seasons
Business & Entrepreneurship pg. 12 And Justice For All
Political Awareness pg. 16
Contents
Law Enforcement to Politics Health & Wellness pg. 20 Move Your Beliefs
Education Is Key pg. 24 Realign-Reset-Restart
Inside The Community pg. 27 Christmas Toy Drive
Community Outreach pg. 46 Monthly Commemoratives
All Things Fashion pg. 50 What Are We Doing
Arts & Media pg. 54 Soundtrack for our Future
Cover Story pg. 30 "Community is EVERYWHERE!!" Community Hero pg. 10 Community News Flash pg. 48 Birthday Shoutouts pg. 57
Contributing Writers January/February 2023 Issue Marjorie Middleton Karen McConnell-Jones Kyonna F. Brown Michelle DeMarcia Davis Antonio “Tony T” Turner Martina Turner Marion Swingler
Editor-In-Chief Marjorie Middleton Deputy Editor Karen McConnell-Jones Director of Graphics & Design Michelle DeMarcia Davis Director of Sales Karen McConnell-Jones Photographer Photos Provided By: Michael Lyles Senator Michael Jackson Sheriff John Carr Layout & Design Michelle DeMarcia Davis
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Inspirational Moments
Seasons By Marjorie Middleton
During the last month of any departing year and for the first couple of months of a new one, many of us reflect on choices made and decisions deferred. We evaluate, we contemplate, we celebrate, and we mourn. A multitude of feelings are experienced during this transition period. A new year, new hope. God has provided us with seasons. Those seasons provide change in weather, in temperature and even time. Our lives and temperaments are loosely based on these changes in time, in weather. We experience spring, summer, fall and winter in our lives.
“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” I Corinthians 13:11. (KJV) Life is about growing and maturing in relationship with self and others. Life is about nurturing one’s relationship with Christ… savior, friend, father and confidant. What a wonderful savior!
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During the springtime of life, you are born. So much beauty and childlike innocence. A time for learning and growth. Springtime is the early part of something, the beginning. I have three beautiful granddaughters and another coming in one month's time. They are each a springtime creation; beings created to blossom, grow and learn right in front of me. The oldest is eight and is asking questions about her ancestry. She is already willing to glean from summer, fall and winter. Springtime. Next, a two year old. She laughs in delight every time she learns a new word or tastes a new food. Springtime. The baby of the three, two months old. Curiosity at this age is experienced through her ability to see, hear, taste, touch and smell. Springtime. That’s how she navigates, understands and perceives the world. And, my daughter is in her last month of pregnancy. Growth of a tiny human nurtured in her mother's womb. Magical springtime. I’m blessed to be included in the journey. During the summertime, everything that possesses life has bloomed. The heat of summer makes all things new even more lush and abundant. In the Summertime of life we are naïve, but we are learning and growing as humans. During this season, we choose who we are as members of a society that has good and evil. “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2. (NKJ) We have free will and choices. Fall is the season, I believe, where it all comes together. Life begins to make sense. The unfolding of lessons learned in youth, words you heard from elders and how now there is an “I get it” moment. We use our acquired knowledge, impart some wisdom to our children and also continue to grow and learn. A principle my parents always taught me, treat others as you want to be treated…especially because you know not what they are going through. I strive to operate that way, daily. I choose to operate in empathy. Take the time each day to pray for your village and those outside of it, too. Create a smile on someone's face with a kind gesture or word. Just be a light. Wintertime. The season we strive to reach. We see and hear about so many negative reasons why we don’t want to age. But, age is a privilege. If we have reached this milestone we’ve made it through spring, summer and fall successfully, with our choices. At this point, our lives are on display for others to say “well done”…or not. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 7
God has always given us a choice, from the springtime down to the wintertime. My father lived to be eighty-five. During his lifetime he lived to the fullest in each season and taught valuable lessons along the way. My mother is ninetythree years old and I celebrate her existence. One of my favorite times of the week is our family weekly Zoom gettogether. My Mom truly looks forward to it. Like many, Zoom gatherings developed during the Covid-19 Pandemic. As life began to be more ordinary we slacked on Zoom, as did others. My family and I quickly realized, as the pace of the world picked up after months and months of being still, we would miss that time of connection. So, we resumed. My Mom watches the news, knows and watches every sport offered on television, still prepares me a meal each time I go over to share my computer for Zoom time…and has timeless words of wisdom or instruction to impart during every Zoom call. One week we spoke about how people perceive that you treat them. In this case, the person perceived that you were treating them badly.
My Mom said, “even if you believe you’ve been treating them fairly and know you’re doing your best, do more. That person is the one with an issue, not you. Giving away more kindness will not harm you.” Thank you, Lisa Middleton, my Mommy. I cherish these days, moments with my mom. We never shy away from conversations about there being less days than there were. She tells me when she’s weary, when her legs feel weaker or her hands more painful. I appreciate this season of her life. If you have chosen good over evil in every season it will come through as a shiny and bright life’s tool.
Mommy has always strived to be the best she can be, and is an example to her children, grand and great grandchildren. Her seasons have been peppered (and salted) with love, good food, lessons for all, God, good words, friends and family. To be given life is the single greatest gift every person and living creature has received from God. Life is years of opportunity, in every season, to develop a relationship with God, with others, and to serve the Lord and other people. Make good use of your seasons. Peace! 8 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Community Hero Vision & Purpose Community Magazine Celebrates Our Community Hero! Visionary
Christian
Supporter
Tracy C. Brown
Vision & Purpose Community Magazine (VPCM): Tell us about yourself and what would you like our readers to know about you? Tracy C. Brown (TCB): I am a transformational leader, fulfilling my passion and purpose to empower individuals and communities. I am a mother, teacher, author, mentor, yet most importantly, I am a worshiper. I have dedicated my life to living by example. My experience in leadership training and as a teacher have allowed me to have a platform to coach others with warmth, transparency, and with strength. VPCM: What is your greatest strength/asset? TCB: My greatest strength/asset is my ability to coach an individual to see beyond their dream into the limitless possibilities and opportunities available to them. VPCM: How do you use your gift/talent to give back to the community? TCB: Community Partnership Foundation is a nonprofit arm of the Startup Strategist; this is how I give back to my community. Through this organization, I provide educational training and support to individuals who desire to start a business or nonprofit organization by equipping each with the necessary tools to start, grow or sustain their dream. Also, our mentorship program for women, "Strong Women Operating Together," teaches the value of being from all walks of life and how to work towards a common goal and benefit our community. 10 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
VPCM: Tell us about your experience working on a campaign and your role. TCB: For the past fifteen years, I have served as the treasurer for Senator Michael A. Jackson and Sheriff John D.B. Carr. It was only during this last election cycle that I discovered how much I learned about running a campaign throughout the years. This year I had an opportunity to step in and run the Sheriff's campaign. This experience allows us to see and experience this statement "Together, Everyone Achieves More." It was because of our ability to work well together that got our candidate across the finish line with a win. VPCM: How does it feel to have the victory? TCB: The truth is it was never about me, but the citizens of Prince George's County. They deserve the best person with the most experience to be leading an agency that I have grown to love. VPCM: What can you tell our community about the importance of voting? TCM: Your Vote is your Voice, and when you choose not to vote, you give your power away. Our ancestors fought for the right to vote; why do you want to give your power away? "Voting Counts and Your Voice Matters." VPCM: Who/What inspires you and why? TCB: The unspoken heroes inspire me in our community. The ones that get up every day and see the positives of life despite their circumstances. VPCM: What do Vision and Purpose mean to you? TCB: Your Purpose is "Your Why," and your Vision comes from understanding the why. VPCM: Give an affirmational quote and/or biblical scripture that you live by? TCB: "I am the Architect of my life; I built its’ foundation and choose its’ contents"
Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Black History Month, what would you like to share about our history and/or our culture as a Black female? Tracy C. Brown: As a teacher and a coach, who helps people to start their own nonprofit organization, it is important to know we are coming from a place of passion. We help to fulfill a need in our community. So, for Black History Month, I would like to recognize Anthony Benezet, who was a FrenchAmerican abolitionist and educator. He was first to start a nonprofit organization. He was the founder of the Society for the Relief of Free Negroes Unlawfully Held in Bondage, which was founded in 1775 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 11
Business & Entrepreneurship And Justice for All By Karen McConnell-Jones
And Justice for All could be referred to as the last four words of the Pledge of Allegiance as an expression of loyalty to the country and flag of the United States of America. Yet, in the eyes of a lawyer these same four words could mean something different. It could be The Justice “For All” Act which now helps to identify, remediate, and prevent wrongful convictions nationwide. A lawyer for the people is someone who is definitely highly driven and has a heart for his or her community. They truly are our difference makers. They accept the responsibility of representing the people that are in need, making sure their voices are being heard and that they are receiving a fair shake. They go on to reach higher heights and achieve great things while practicing law, but yet they are still within reach for the people of their community.
D. Michael Lyles, Esquire, thank you for being that person that the community has come to rely on, as we are proud of the great things that you have accomplished and will continue to fulfill.
D. Michael Lyles was appointed as the City Attorney for the City of Annapolis in December 2019. In this position he leads a team of lawyers and administrative staff in defending the city against a vast array of lawsuits in state and federal court, providing sound legal advice to city leadership, negotiating and completing myriad transactional matters, drafting legislation, securing and memorializing the City’s legal and political documents and papers. Since assuming the position, Lyles and his team have advanced the legal position of the City by successfully defending and advocating for the City in virtually every matter brought since his appointment. Prior to Lyles service as The Annapolis City Attorney, he was in private law practice in Maryland and the District of Columbia. Lyles’ practice focused on representing business clients in a range of corporate matters, including complex Commercial Litigation, Insurance Defense, Intellectual Property Disputes, Real Estate Transactions, Employment Law, Food and Beverage and Government Relations. Lyles also was able to assist in the establishment of Prince George’s County’s anti-human trafficking task force, a first of its kind in Maryland and one that was a model in the region. Lyles was appointed its first Chair and in two years was able to secure over a million dollars in grant funding from the U.S. Department of Justice to further the Task Force’s regional mission to end sex and labor trafficking. 12 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Lyles humbly shares “I’m just a kid from Southeast DC of humble beginnings, surrounded by lots of love, with a heart for books, puzzles and science fiction movies. One who can grow up to live a good life, meet wonderful people and do some pretty awesome things to help others. I even can recall wanting to become a lawyer as a result of a conversation with some of my Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Brothers, back when I was about twentyfive years old, talking about what else we could do to make a difference. We all chose practicing law. Next thing I knew we were all in law school, and I would like to think that each of us has, in our own ways, made this country and our world a little better for people in need.” “Which brings me to my most memorable case as a lawyer which happens to be my first trial case and my first chance to actually be in court. I was in need of income so I took cases by appointment from the court for a low fee. I was assigned to help a young brother accused of possession with intent to distribute drugs. It is memorable because I studied and studied that case, and the facts, I walked the streets of the alleged crime, I talked to the actual drug dealers and folks in my client’s community. They all spoke highly of him. And, I talked with my client and found out that he was wronged by the police and the system. As a result of the arrest, he had lost his job, his girlfriend, his apartment and had been in jail waiting on a trial for over six months. The police just scooped him up one day as he was coming home from his job and took him to jail and he sat there. I pressed the county government to prove its case as I found witnesses for his defense and wanted to go to trial right away. Once I told the County what I had and that I wanted to go to trial, they dropped the case and my client was set free. He was very appreciative and went on to get his life back together. I will never forget that young man and I hope he is still doing well.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 13
Lyles goes on to share, one of the factors that led him to run for State's Attorney in 2018 was the case he just talked about. The fact is, there are countless people needing folks to hear them. Not only victims of crime but families and those accused of crime, even the lawyers working hard in court. Lyles knew that he could address the broad problems of criminal justice in Prince George’s County, that he could do what was right, get things done, reduce crime and solve problems of justice in the County better than anyone before him, he felt that strongly. He lived enough of real life that he knew the issues and how we could do better in every way. Lyles and his family were committed to the work. His takeaway from the whole experience of running for office was the bond he made with his community and not wanting to let them down. “The truth of the matter, I felt that I let a lot of good folks down and I really hate that. I am a winner and I hate losing. Yet, I also took away from the experience that there are a lot of people, who like me, really want good, smart, and dedicated leadership. Who can get things done for real and who are tired of letting those who don’t live in our county, or the “old guard” or some guy in office somewhere, act against our interests in favor of their own.”
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Lyles' most recent accomplishment is the recognition by his law school. Catholic University of America-Columbus School of Law in Northeast Washington, D.C., awarded him with an Alumni of the Year award by the Black Law Students Association on the campus. As a former leader of that particular group, it meant a lot to Lyles to receive the recognition from them. Lyles feels that running for office, serving in public office, accepting great public service jobs, like Executive Director of the Prince George’s County Human Relations Commission where they protected people from discrimination, and, also City Attorney to help folks get a fighting chance brings him great joy. This is how he can best use his talent to serve and give back to his community. “I have always been inspired by my god-parents who raised me, Janie and Robert Thompson. They helped me thrive as a boy into a young man. Although they have been gone for many years, they still inspire me to always think about others and do my very best. So, I will say to the aspiring young professional that wants to become a lawyer, study hard, think about what you want to do in the law and always think about how to help others with your legal knowledge.” As we bring the interview to a close, Lyles wishes everyone blessings for the new year, light, life and love. He hopes that the memories of friends and loved ones here and gone, keep us ever more focused on doing what is right for “right’s sake” and to help those in need year-round. Lyles sends love to his wife Deneen, their beautiful daughters, granddaughters, his siblings, large extended family, and friends.
Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Black History Month, what would you like to share about our history and/or our culture as a Black male? D. Michael Lyles, Esq: We as Black people in America have come a long way since 1619 and we have a long way to go. In the past couple of years, we have been reminded of the nagging nature of bigotry and race prejudice and it appears that we are fighting old fights once more. Let us take heart in the fact that young people are doing an awesome job shunning that nagging problem and creating a world of life and acceptance. We as adults need to help them. We must be prepared to stamp out once and for all this monster called race, ethnic hatred, prejudice, and build a society that respects all, appreciates all cultures and one day makes reparation to Black people for all we have endured in this country of our great grandmother’s and grandfather’s birth. The Strength of Lyles’ Character: Determined, Resilient, and Competent.
Political Awareness
Law Enforcement to Politics By Karen McConnell-Jones
It has been said that law enforcement and politics are two exceptional fields of work to pursue. It takes servant leadership and perseverance to have a successful career in either field. However, to be able to do both successfully, one must have a mindset or desire to selflessly and sacrificially serve others, which requires you to have a servant heart along with great tenacity and a sense of understanding the people in which you serve. Without further ado, Vision & Purpose (V&P) Community Magazine gives you the man who has achieved both, The Honorable Michael A. Jackson. A lifelong public servant, Michael A. Jackson gained executive management and leadership experience during his twenty-two years with the Prince George’s County Sheriff’s Office. These skills sustained him while serving over five years as Fraternal Order of Police Lodge #112 President and through his eight years as the elected Sheriff for Prince George’s County (2002-2010).
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Jackson was elected to the Maryland General Assembly in 2014, he served as the State Delegate for Legislative District 27B from 20152021. While a member of the House of Delegates, Jackson sat on the Appropriations Committee and ascended to the position of Vice Chairman in 2020. In January 2021, Jackson was appointed to the State Senate for Legislative District 27 where he now serves as Chairman of the Senate Veterans Caucus and as a member of the Senate Budget and Taxation Committee. He was elected to a full fouryear term as Senator in November 2022. Jackson expresses “I am a husband, father, and grandfather who serves Calvert, Charles, and Prince George’s Counties in the Maryland State Senate. I pursued a professional career in the public safety field which culminated in my election and tenure as Prince George’s County Sheriff from 2002-2010. I believe in servant leadership and strive every day to serve the interests of my constituents, who have placed their trust in me. After my time as Sheriff concluded in 2010, I thought that my time in elected office had ended. Prior to the 2014 election, former Senate President Mike Miller encouraged me to become a part of his team and asked that I consider running as a candidate for Delegate. I agreed and was fortunate to be elected to the Maryland House of Delegates where I served from 2015 until I was appointed to replace Senator Miller following his resignation in January 2021. I also served as a United States Marine. I was taught the importance of service at a young age and becoming a Marine helped me to mature and to further my personal goals.” As far back as Jackson’s childhood, he had an interest in the law enforcement profession. Following his military service, it seemed like a natural progression for him, as he was able to transfer many of the skills that were ingrained in him in the Marine Corps, and take that into his career in the public safety field and in the political arena. While serving as the Sheriff, Jackson was the first to create a 24 hours domestic violence unit in the State of Maryland. Jackson saw firsthand the impact that domestic violence has on our communities and the necessity to better respond to victims in need. The recognition received for this accomplishment is a source of great pride, but he has a greater sense of pride in knowing that they were able to help countless vulnerable individuals overcome difficult circumstances.
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Jackson is a recipient of numerous honors and awards; his name was entered into the Congressional Record for having established the first 24/7 Domestic Violence Intervention Unit in the Mid-Atlantic Region. He has also directed the Maryland Community Crime Prevention Institute, the Leadership Development Institute, and the Maryland Sheriffs’ Association. “I’ve been fortunate to be recognized with numerous awards and honors in my professional career, yet my greatest accomplishment will always be the family that my wife Kim and I created. My family is my source of inspiration. I’m blessed to have a wonderful wife, son, daughter-in-law, and three grandchildren. I strive every day to make the world a better and safer place for each of them.” When asked, what advice can he give an aspiring young professional who wants to get into law enforcement and/or politics? Jackson states that law enforcement and politics are two intense fields. They must be completely dedicated to the success and willing to put in the work necessary to achieve their goals. Success in both fields isn’t attained easily and they must be willing to make sacrifices to make the positive change that they desire. In closing, Jackson believes that he brings a unique perspective to the Maryland Senate because of his personal and professional background. Jackson always believed that talent is buoyed by hard work, and he strives daily to work as hard as possible to promote and protect his Southern Maryland community in the Maryland Senate. He considers public service a great privilege and he is humbled to be the voice of his community in the Maryland Senate. If he can ever be of assistance in any way, please do not hesitate to contact him directly by email at michael.jackson@senate.state.md.us or by phone at (301) 858-3700.
Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Black History Month, what would you like to share about our history and/or our culture as a Black male? Senator Michael Jackson: Throughout my professional career in public safety, I believe that I have brought a unique perspective to a field that has often lacked representation and understanding of the Black community. Great progress has been made but much more remains to be done. I look forward to continuing to work to promote understanding and reaching a place where we attain Dr. King’s vision of living in a society where all people are judged not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. The Strength of Jackson’s Character: Leader, Listener, and Facilitator 18 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Health & Wellness
Move Your Beliefs By Kyonna F. Brown
So, it’s the new year and we have so many resolutions that we are planning to fulfill this year. We are hitting the ground running at full speed. This time of the year we are excited about our next year. Unfortunately, the fire never makes it past February. Instead of fulfillment the goal becomes forfeited. I can remember many goals that I desired and they just went sailing in the wind. I would like to discuss with you the most important tool you’ll need to obtain the goals in your life that you desire. Belief is what you’ll need to get there. You have to move your beliefs in order to reach your greatest potential. What you believe impacts your life in a powerful way. What we choose to believe can limit or grow us. It plays a major role in our mental health as well. When we think less of ourselves, we are more inclined to go into different states of depression. We feel that we are incapable of producing and suicidal thoughts become the meal that we feed our lives. We may even go into hiding from the world, alienating ourselves because we feel that we don’t line up with those in our environments. Today is the day that the shift happens. You will take control of your limiting beliefs. Sometimes we will want to achieve a goal that we have seen others complete. Losing weight, becoming a business owner, writing a book, getting out of debt, these are all things that you have seen others accomplish. Let me let you in on a little secret. Many have attempted these goals therefore there is proven fact that this can be your portion. You may have some limited thoughts about how to do this. You may not know where to start. Mark Twain has a powerful quote, “The secret of getting ahead is getting started.” You see thoughts never become a reality unless you do something with them. If we allow ourselves to only let them live in our thoughts, they will never have life. I know, your goal seems too big. You must break your goal down into smaller achievable tasks. The amazing part about that is, if you keep doing them, eventually you’ll see the goal manifested. During my weight loss journey, which I’m still on, I noticed that over the months if I do the small thing every day it leads to the bigger goal. So far, I have come from 294 to 210 in one year. I’m not at my goal but closer than I was last year when I started. I share this because some goals require more work. If you just keep doing the next right thing you will get there. 20 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Make sure your vision is clear and that it compels you completely. A goal that you are not passionate about will seem like work and that can nag at your mind as well. Don’t think that you have to go at it alone. We often make the mistake of thinking that because we want to achieve something we have to be the one who does all of the work. There are professionals, mentors and friends that might have the magic pill to help you along the way. Don’t be afraid to get help. We don’t know everything.
What are you willing to give up? Sometimes we have to release things in order to obtain our goals. As a business owner I had become burdened with debt. I had become withdrawn and stressed out. I sometimes showed up as an extra in my business. One day I knew in order to reach my goal of getting out of debt and being happy in business I had to give up something. I had to essentially move from a large space to a smaller one. I had to have difficult conversations with employees and believe that change would come. I fastened my seat belt and prepared for the roller coaster ride of many emotions. I did it, step by step and was able to give up what was drowning me without giving up. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 21
Lastly, I want you to know that the company you keep is important for the growth of your beliefs. Motivation is important to move you. Being around less enthusiastic people can drain your dream. They can literally suck the life out of you. In your belief goal chamber there are two types of people you’ll want to surround yourself with. People who are ahead of you and have more knowledge than you. Learning from others is a way to help build your confidence. Having confidence matures what you believe. What you have a strong and clear belief in has an awesome chance at becoming a reality. Also, surround yourself with those who are where you are. You all will be able to feed each other with encouragement.
Community is everything and everywhere. Don’t limit yourself to connections that will help you thrive in this world. I’ll leave you with this. The Bible tells us that we are more than conquerors. If you learn to move your beliefs you can accomplish anything. I BELIEVE IN YOU!
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Education Is Key
By Michelle DeMarcia Davis Resolute Happy New Year, I’m so excited for 2023! As we step into a new year a lot of us reset, which means to set again or differently. With resolutions this is a great time to evaluate our lives to see how we are going to engage, schedule, evaluate and time manage. “A goal without a plan is just a dream.” The definitions of resolution are: a firm decision to do or not to do something and the quality of being determined or resolute. Resolute is such an awesome word I just added to my daily affirmations. The dictionary meaning of 'Resolute' is 'being admirably purposeful, determined, and unwavering.' A resolute person has the courage to act with conviction in the face of uncertainty and risk. Wow, that is a way to start off a day and live a lifetime. Our vocabulary is full of wonderful words. The Bible states in Job 11: 13 If you make your mind resolute and spread your palms to him, 14 if you throw out the sin in your hands and don't let injustice dwell in your tents, 15 then you will lift up your face without blemish; you will be secure and not fear. Engage Schools are using an amazing program called PBIS. Pbis.org states Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports (PBIS) is an evidence-based, tiered framework for supporting students' behavioral, academic, social, emotional, and mental health. When implemented with fidelity, PBIS improves social emotional competence, academic success, and school climate. My twin's old school focused on Trust, Respect and Responsibility. Their new school focuses on Trust, Respect and Engaging. Engage definition: participate or become involved in. As we are all still healing from Covid-19 isolation and losses we must remember the benefits of getting together safely. “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” (Matt. 18:19–20.) Prayer, then, is the vehicle whereby we invite His Spirit to be with us. When struggling, I'm reminded “not to worry about anything and pray about everything.”
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Scheduling Scheduling definition: arrange or plan (an event) to take place at a particular time. With so many opportunities to do an array of things in life, scheduling helps set us up for success. I recently switched my sons to online school which I’m still praying on daily to see if this is really where God led me. As their learning coach we would not have survived if we didn’t figure out how to schedule. It is still a work in progress however creating blocks of time for their classes that don’t have live lessons, our personal time and my professional time to accomplish what we need to each day helps calm the chaos. It also allows us to look back to see what we have accomplished and what we didn’t. If we didn’t allot the proper amount of time, we are able to set a better time frame going forward. Online school is definitely entrepreneurship in the making and/or working from home preparation. After years of telling my children school is their job, it is now more evident than ever. As a corporate manager and substitute teacher being in the building verses online requires more self-control and regulation. My grandson is into Spiderman and it says “with great freedom comes great responsibility.” I know this is our test to see what works best for our personalities and what we can handle. I love my school and really wanted them to graduate, however, I respect that they are on their own journey. When Covid-19 hit it opened up the world of virtual learning and I am glad we are continuing to explore it. When they don’t feel well, we have something fun to do or if the weather is bad they love online. When the system is down or they feel the work is too hard they don’t like it. Pretty much equivalent to going in the building ups and downs. Some moments we take turns saying, this is crazy we are going back in the building. Good days and bad days, I’m so blessed that even being with them every day overall we are grateful and enjoy being with each other.
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Evaluate Time to mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually evaluate. The United States is spread across six time zones. From west to east, they are Hawaii, Alaska, Pacific, Mountain, Central, and Eastern. We must constantly evaluate and stay mindful of all our time zones and personal zones. I love that V&P, although it's based out of Maryland, has the same time zone as my company based in Ohio. The owner always says “Community is Everywhere” which is so true and we just have to match our timing and schedules to accomplish our many visions and purposes together. We must also match mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually. If you are able to do it yourself, great, if not, this is a great time to start off the year with a coach, mentor, therapist or any other professional. If you thought about it, now is the time. I’m sure, “2023 all about God & me”, “2023 all about God in me” and “2023 FREE” etc…are going to be huge because it’s ringing in my head.
Time Years, days, hours, minutes and seconds are fleeting. “Forever is too short with you” is one of my favorite quotes and how I interact with people. I stay in my feelings like I just woke up from the movie “It’s a Wonderful Life.” I used to think it was the worst, however as I’m blessed to get older, I see it as a sweet reminder of the value of my personal and professional relationships. With this knowledge I do my best to enjoy every moment that is not promised and add positivity when I can. When I can’t, I think back to the 2016 movie “This Christmas” when the mother shared the wisdom “if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.”
Once you take the time to reset you are now able to realign and restart.
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Cover Story There’s A New
in Town
And His Name Is John D. B. Carr By Karen McConnell-Jones
When we hear the saying “There’s A New Sheriff in Town,” it comes with great authority. The excitement of someone new taking office can be life changing and even historic. But simply put, it means a new person has come to power and is going to make changes. Ideally, these changes will enhance what is already working, as well as implement new ideas, new appointments and create a new team that will work under the ever-vigilant leadership of the new Sheriff. Sworn uniformed Sheriff’s officers have law enforcement, security, and other court-related responsibilities under the direction and supervision of the Office-in-Charge. In Prince George’s County, the Sheriff is the top-ranking officer in a county’s police force. Unlike police in a city or town, the Sheriff is an elected official, voted by the people to serve a four-year term and beyond a shadow of a doubt, the people of Prince George’s County have spoken overwhelmingly — John D. B. Carr is the new Sheriff in town.
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Carr, a proud native of Prince George’s County, graduated from Bishop McNamara High School. Later, he attended the University of Maryland where he earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Criminology & Criminal Justice. Carr then took his passion for community service and launched his career in law enforcement and became a member of the Office of the Sheriff for Prince George’s County. Accumulating more than 20years in law enforcement, Carr served the County in a variety of positions, including stops in the Warrants & Fugitive Division, and the Domestic Violence Intervention Division. Carr earned a promotion to the rank of Lieutenant Colonel, serving as one of three Assistant Sheriffs, and having command over the agency’s Bureau of Field Operations. While serving as a Deputy Sheriff, Carr continued his education at Norwich University, where he earned a master’s degree in Public Administration.
“Yes, I am a proud native of Prince George’s County and I love to serve others,” Carr said. “My motivation to make an impact into the lives of others is what has driven me to this career in law enforcement.
I had an interest to serve my community in the federal government as an agent, in which I did serve in one of the federal agencies, but after joining the Prince Georges County Office of the Sheriff, I knew I had found my home to make a real impact in the community. I also coach youth sports and participating in various community activities, are among the many things I enjoy. There is so much I could say, but I am just grateful to be able to serve the people of my community.” As he continued to serve the community, then Deputy Sheriff, Carr saw the need to build on the legacy of the agency and the elected Sheriffs before him. Motivated by his passion to serve and address the growing social issues of domestic violence, mental health, youth and senior engagement, Carr decided to run for Sheriff of Prince George’s County. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 31
Throughout Carr’s career he saw the need to address long-term care for those suffering with mental illness and the need for additional domestic violence resources. If elected Sheriff, Carr knew he could ensure that the Office of the Sheriff will do its duty to serve court processes in these areas, and educate the public of the resources provided by county government and non-profit organizations. Carr admitted that running for office was one of the most challenging tasks he had ever done in his life. Although he truly enjoyed meeting and speaking with the people in the community, he felt the gravitas of addressing the social issues of the county and how the Office of the Sheriff, with him in the lead position, could better their lives. Due to the size of Prince Georges County, a candidate must always stay on the go to get their messages out to the citizens that they want to serve. Carr continued his service as a Deputy Sheriff and, simultaneously, as a political candidate. At times, this made it difficult not only for himself but also for his family. Nevertheless, he accepted the fact that great sacrifice had to be made in order to secure the victory and his sacrifice paid off. Carr, a first-time candidate for Sheriff in the 2022 Gubernatorial Primary Election, earned more than 49% of the County’s vote, enroute to a General Election win in November of 2022.
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At the celebration of his swearing-in ceremony, he said it was truly a magnificent moment in his life, one that he will never forget. “My most memorable moment of being sworn in was looking out into the audience of citizens, supporters, family, dignitaries, and deputies, and seeing all the happy people not just for me but for what I am confident we will achieve as partners in making Prince George’s County stronger,” Carr said. “I even took a moment to reflect on the memory of Sheriff Melvin High. I will take with me Sheriff Melvin High’s legacy of unwavering ethics and drive, all for the purpose of serving the community.” Carr said, “The citizens of Prince George’s County demand that those who serve them in public safety be transparent and honest at all times. I will take with me those values, to continue building positive relationships between law enforcement and the community. You can expect to see high visibility and community engagement from the Office of the Sheriff. I also will be creating new programs that bring together community resources.”
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One of the most notable early decisions was truly historic when Sheriff Carr appointed the first Black female Chief Assistant Sheriff. “The Office of the Sheriff has many great women and men that serve as deputy sheriffs. I selected my Chief Assistant Sheriff Elizabeth Crumb because of the great work she has been able to accomplish throughout her career. Chief Assistant Sheriff Crumb started her career as a District of Columbia, Metropolitan Police Officer. After starting her career in D.C., she transitioned to the Prince Georges County Police Department before coming to the Prince Georges County Office of the Sheriff. Her work ethic to serve the community and the agency matched my own and her ability to mentor and develop those around her made my decision easy. She is not only one of the agency’s best, she is one of the best in the State of Maryland. Also, my three Assistant Sheriff appointments represent the diversity and inclusion of the county and the Office of the Sheriff. Each of them has ties to the county growing up in different areas within the county. All of them have served at the Office of the Sheriff in varies roles, making them to be well-suited for the appointment. I can honestly say that I have pulled together an incredible team of experienced women and men who have proven their commitment to serving the people of Prince George’s County. The Office of the Sheriff will be diverse, equitable, and accessible, which is the best way to serve all our county’s people.”
Carr wants the Sheriff’s Office to be more up close and personal with the community. This is why it is important to Carr that he has a team that understands this mission. Carr personally feels that in addition to his field-related experience, serving as a certified instructor for the International Association of Chiefs of Police (IACP), teaching leadership principles will give him and his team a great advantage. Carr also is an active member of the IACP, the National Organization of Black Law Enforcement Executives (NOBLE), the National Association for Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), and the National Tactical Officers Association (NTOA). He currently serves as the elected District 27 At-Large Member of the Prince George’s County Democratic Central Committee and as a member of the Board of Directors of the Maryland Crime Victims Resource Center.
As inspirational as he is, Carr proudly admits his true inspiration comes from his family. In fact, his mother Joyce Simpson-Turner is his greatest inspiration, always pushing him to be the best that he can be. His grandfather James Simpson and grandmother Deloris Simpson, along with his aunts and uncles who also played a huge role in making Carr the man he is today. “My wife and kids keep me grounded and inspire me to make a positive impact to the community in which we live. The love and influence of my family has allowed me to achieve great things, in life and in my career. I am blessed and thankful to God as there’s nothing like family to share along the journey that God has purposed me to travel.” Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 35
Bonus Question from V&P Community Magazine: As we celebrate Black History Month, what would you like to share about our history and/or our culture as a Black male? Sheriff John D. B. Carr: Truthfully, as a first-time candidate and running for an elected position, I can appreciate the voting process even that much more. Earning the trust of the voters is something I do not take lightly. This whole process had me appreciating a moment in history, as Black men did not get the right to vote until 1870 and our Black women still had to fight for decades later before earning the right to vote in 1965. Thomas Mundy Peterson of Amboy, New Jersey is reported to be the first Black man to exercise his right to vote. We must continue to build the trust of our voting power in the Black community. The Strength of Carr’s Character: Patient, Kind, and Determined
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John D.B. Carr Newly Elected Sheriff of Prince George’s County, Maryland
To my constituents and the community of Prince George’s County, I thank you for trusting me. I will not let you down. I am here because of you and I promise to serve you with the dignity and respect you deserve. Always remember: We are stronger together!
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Chief Assistant Sheriff Elizabeth E.M. Crumb Elizabeth E.M. Crumb is the Chief Assistant Sheriff for the Prince George’s County, Office of the Sheriff. She took the oath of office on December 6, 2022, and became the first female Chief Assistant Sheriff (CAS) in the 326-year history of the agency. CAS Crumb is responsible for the overall daily operation and administration of the agency, providing leadership, direction and oversight, and ensuring the Sheriff’s vision is accomplished.
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CAS Crumb works closely with the Sheriff in developing agency strategy and formulating processes to achieve the mission of the agency in service to the citizens, courts, and public safety. She collaborates with the community; the Federal, State, County Government; and law enforcement agencies to deliver exemplary service to the citizens of Prince George’s County. As CAS, she is “second in command” and serves as the Sheriff in the absence of Sheriff John D. B. Carr. She shares Sheriff Carr’s commitment to the development of agency personnel and to an active role in civic and community interests.
She oversees the creation and management of the budget, assuring that both manpower and financial resources are utilized efficiently to meet the responsibilities of the agency. She facilitates professional development, implementation of model policies, and advancing technology improvements to deliver engaged and transparent constitutional law enforcement. CAS Crumb has been a Deputy Sheriff for 18 years, attained several ranks, and had many assignments within the Sheriff’s Office prior to her appointment to the position of Chief Assistant Sheriff. Prior to the Sheriff’s Office, CAS Crumb served as a Police Officer in both Washington, D.C. and Prince George’s County, Maryland – for a combined total of 30 years of experience in this field. CAS Crumb has served in various capacities from School Officer, Burglary Prevention Officer, Community Empowerment Officer, Juvenile Court Deputy, Intelligence Unit Deputy to team memberships with Crisis Negotiator’s, and the Prince George’s County Circuit Court’s Problem-Solving Courts – Re-Entry Court Team, a preeminent program within the State of Maryland that involves the reintegration of persons incarcerated as a result of a guilty finding within Prince George’s County’s Circuit Court system.
While CAS Crumb holds many certifications in the Public Safety field, as well as a degree in Criminal Justice, it is her experience in Peer Support and her mentorship of which she is most proud. CAS Crumb is known to identify new members of the agency and subsequently set up meetings to speak with those persons, laying a foundation of support and providing an insight from her decades long background. CAS Crumb has a saying, “All you have is your name! So do the right thing.” It is this mantra that has allowed her to be able to practice a lifetime of service to the community while representing female law enforcement professionals in the state, in the nation, and around the world.
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Assistant Sheriff William R. Milam
Assistant Sheriff William R. Milam oversees the Bureau of Administration, the logistical and administrative support component of the Office of the Sheriff for Prince George’s County. An executive-level law enforcement official, his career spans more than 20 years, serving as a sheriff’s deputy in Calvert County and Prince George’s County. He has held various ranks, and has been assigned to numerous posts over his career: K-9 Explosives Detection; Public Information Officer; Patrol Officer; elected President of the Fraternal Order of Police Lodge 112; and elected Vice President of the Maryland State Fraternal Order of Police.
Assistant Sheriff Milam currently serves as part of a core managerial team leading more than 200 deputy sheriffs and 100 civilian employees serving over 900,000 residents across a diverse demographical area located within the National Capital Region. Assistant Sheriff Milam holds a B.S. in Criminal Justice from the University of Maryland Global Campus and he has completed the Police Union Leadership Program at Harvard University Law School. Among the vital components currently under Assistant Sheriff Milam’s command are the Budget and Finance Division; Personnel Division; Planning, Research and Development Division; Training Division; Public Affairs Division; and the Special Operations Division. As a guest lecturer, Assistant Sheriff Milam delivers annual presentations on police union/management relations to national audiences of public safety officials. Vision & Purpose Community Magazine 41
Assistant Sheriff Steven L. Upathambhakul
Assistant Sheriff Steven L. Upathambhakul oversees the Bureau of Field Operations, the largest operational component of the Prince George’s County, Office of the Sheriff. As a 19-year veteran, he has served in numerous ranks and commands throughout the agency. As part of the Sheriff’s executive staff, he assists in the management of more than 200 deputies and 80 civilian support staff that serve over 950,000 residents and business owners. Assistant Sheriff Upathambhakul is a graduate of the FBI Law Enforcement Executive Development Association, Trilogy Leadership. The vital Divisions under Assistant Sheriff Upathambhakul’s command are: Domestic Violence Intervention Division, Landlord/Tenant, Civil Process, Child Support Enforcement Unit, Warrant/Fugitive Division, Crisis Negotiations Team, and Specialized Services Team. (SWAT). The day-to-day direction and oversight specifically focus on areas of Emergency 911 calls for service for Domestic Violence, Peace and Protective orders, Evictions, Criminal Summons, Child Support Writs and Summonses, Criminal Warrants, Extraditions, and Mental Health Emergency Petitions. Assistant Sheriff Upathambhakul’s memberships include, but are not limited to, FBI Law Enforcement Executive Development Association (LEEDA), Metropolitan Washington Council of Governments (MWGOC), and National Tactical Officers Association (NTOA).
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Assistant Sheriff Ronald J. Oliver Jr.
Assistant Sheriff Ronald J. Oliver Jr. is a 39-year Public Safety Professional, with 33 of those years serving the Office of the Sheriff and the Sheriff’s FOP Union Lodge 112. As a Retired Bureau Commander for Court Services and Field Operations, Assistant Sheriff Oliver has stepped back into an Executive role as a part of Sheriff Carr’s new Administration. He oversees the day-to-day operations for the Upper Marlboro and Hyattsville Courthouse complexes. His tasks include the safety and security of all Judges, staff, inmates and visitors In a separate role, Assistant Sheriff Oliver has recently completed the agency Critical Incident Stress Management training, to assist on the Peer Support Group Team. He is a firm believer in all deputy’s mental health and providing whatever resources they may need. His commitment to continuing education, keeps him constantly striving to stay on the forefront of changing polices within the law enforcement field. He obtained his Criminal Justice Degree and has attended numerous college level leadership/management courses. Among his many passions within Public Safety, Assistant Sheriff Oliver has been a member of the Morningside Volunteer Fire Department since 1983. He has served as the departments Fire Chief and spent many years on the Board of Directors. He is currently the District Six Director for the Prince George’s County Volunteer Fire and Rescue Association. In this role, he helps facilitate any concerns that the stations he is assigned need. He is a huge supporter of the Toys for Tots drive each year where the Volunteer Association partners with other Public Safety Agencies to collect bicycles, helmets and a host of other goodies for the children.
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Community Outreach Awareness V&P COMMEMORATIONS OF THE MONTH FOR JANUARY January 11, National Human Trafficking Awareness Day. In recognition of this important day, and throughout the month of January, Blue Campaign hosts several special events and educational activities. One of the events includes wearing blue and posting on social media your photo with the #WearBlueDay to raise awareness of this heinous crime. Blue is the ribbon color. National Hugging Day is an annual event dedicated to hugging. It was created by Kevin Zaborney and occurs annually on January 21st. No ribbon color given for this awareness. January is National Healthy Weight Awareness Month; Americans are encouraged to get moving during one of the most sedentary months of the year to improve health and to reduce their risk of cancer. No ribbon color given for this awareness.
January 2023 Days: 1st New Year’s Day 11th National Human Trafficking Awareness Day 15th World Religion Day 16th National Religious Freedom Day 16th Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service 21st National Hugging Day
Month Long: Cervical Health Awareness Month Dry January National Blood Donor Month (United States) National Glaucoma Awareness Month (United States) Thyroid Awareness Month Healthy Weight Awareness Month (United States) National Mentoring Month (United States)
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February V&P COMMEMORATIONS OF THE MONTH FOR FEBRUARY Black History Month is celebrated in the month of February. Black History Month is an annual celebration of achievements by African Americans and a time for recognizing the central role of blacks in U.S. history. Also known as African American History Month, the event grew out of “Negro History Week,” the brainchild of noted historian Carter G. Woodson. Black History Month is an annual observance originating in the United States, where it is also known as African-American History Month. It has received official recognition from governments in the United States and Canada, and more recently has been observed in Ireland, the Netherlands, and the United Kingdom. Red, black, and green are the colors for Black History Month. According to a book published by the UNIA, 'Red is the colour of the blood which men must shed for their redemption and liberty; black is the colour of the noble and distinguished race to which we belong; green is the colour of the luxuriant vegetation of our Motherland. Valentine’s Day, the holiday is on February 14th, when lovers and loved ones express their affection with greetings and gifts. The holiday has origins in the Roman festival of Lupercalia, held in midFebruary. Red is the color for this day which is also called Lover’s Day.
Month Long: Black History Month Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month American Heart Month. AMD/Low Vision Awareness Month
Days: African Heritage and Health Week (First week of Feb) 2nd World Wetlands Day 4th World Cancer Day 7th Safer Internet Day — #SID19 13th World Radio Day 14th Valentine’s Day 17th Random Acts of Kindness Day 19th World Whale Day 20th President’s Day (United States) 20th World Day of Social Justice 21st International Mother Language Day 27th International Polar Bear Day 28th World Spay Day 27th International Polar Bear Day 28th Rare Disease Day 23th Digital Learning Day National Eating Awareness Disorder Week, starts the week of the 20th-26th
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Community News Flash Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler By: Marjorie M. Middleton
Black History Month is celebrated in the United States in February. It began as a way to celebrate important events and people in the history of the African diaspora. Notably, it is celebrated in February in Canada and October is the observance in Ireland and the United Kingdom. It was first named Negro History Week in 1926, created by Historian Carter G. Woodson and the Association for the Study of Negro Life and History. Black families should bear the responsibility of teaching our history to our children and families, which also should include lobbying for better representation in our schools and history books. We are more than the minimally allotted lessons on Martin Luther King, Jr. and Rosa Parks. At home, also include the rich heritage of your own family! Do you know where your people originated from? Do you know what skills and strengths they created or learned after slavery times, things that kept families alive and thriving? Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler was the first female Black physician in the U.S. She faced the usual obstacles of racism and sexism but used her platform to encourage others and to write and publish “Book of Medical Discourses in Two Parts” in 1883. She was author of this book, a first for an African American to publish as medical text. She focused on maternal and child health, at such an early time, when still in 2023 racial disparities in equitable healthcare for Blacks, and specifically women and unborn children, still exists. She also wrote about the treatment of Black physicians in this country. She practiced throughout Boston and Virginia caring for freed slaves after the end of the civil war. Dr. Crumpler was born February 8, 1831 in Delaware. She was raised by an aunt who cared for sick neighbors in their community, which persuaded Rebecca to seek medical knowledge. She became a nurse in the early 1850s. There were no Black women doctors then. In 1860, she gained acceptance to the New England Female Medical College, a new school, first in the country to train women doctor’s. She graduated in 1864 becoming the first African American female doctor! Dr. Crumpler treated returning soldiers after the Civil War and those in the community who were unable to obtain proper care from white doctors, let alone the ability to secure a visit. Many of her patients were poor. She treated them anyway. After a life of honorable service Dr. Crumpler passed away in 1895. Her life and work tells the story of talent, dedication and service in the midst of the storm of prejudice and gender discrimination. A story that is shared in order to remind us we can do anything we deem possible in a world purposefully stacked against us. What an inspiration!
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Community News Flash SPIKE LEE – Visionary By Marjorie M. Middleton
“I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to express the views of Black people who otherwise don’t have access to power and to the media. I have to take advantage of that while I’m still bankable,” said Spike Lee. And, over the years Spike Lee has used the industry to his advantage on behalf of what is right and what is true. He has used his platform to tell our stories in many different, original, funny, poignant ways. “I think it is very important that films make people look at what they’ve forgotten.” We, as people of color, can never forget that the struggle still exists and in some way or another, be it film, books, podcasts or social justice initiatives, we have to stick to the goal. Freedom and fair treatment belong to every human. The message is the same, the avenues run different. Shelton Jackson Lee, known as Spike Lee, is a 65 year old producer, screen writer and actor. He has produced more than 35 films since 1983, beginning with the iconic She’s Gotta Have It. Crooklyn, Clockers and Malcom X are just a few of his groundbreaking films. In his films he is the voice for a community that is continuously having to vie for a seat at the table. In his works of art race relations, urban crime and poverty and political issues are not forgotten. Successes and people in places of power amongst us are not forgotten either as we are reminded that we are our brother’s keeper. Lee is a young man when it comes to the term history, but he certainly has made history. He has won the BAFTA Award for best adapted screenplay for BlacKkKlansman, and the Berlin International Film Festival award for Get on the Bus, just to name a couple. An inspiration to upcoming Black artists trying to make their mark in this revolution called life, Lee remarks “I’m just trying to tell a good story and make thought provoking, entertaining films. I just try to draw upon the great culture we have as a people, from music, novels, the streets.” In 2015, at 58, he became the youngest person to be awarded an Honorary Academy Award. He was given the award for being a champion of independent film and an inspiration to young filmmakers.
In honor of Black History Month… keep inspiring, keep soaring, Spike Lee.
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All Things Fashion What are we doing It's the first of the year! It marks a fresh beginning. Some of us have been working on our long-term goals. Some are planning to start on a new venture. Either way there are a lot of unanswered questions, like how are we going to finance our dreams or what are the next steps we need to take. It could be something as simple as a new look or as complex as a geographical move. For us, The Turners, we are continuing on our journey to building our brand Tony Turner Unleashed Hair Care Products.
"Everything you need is already in you!"
I saw a quote today that said "Everything you need is already in you!". I would have to agree. We have the talent, the know-how, and the connections. The real issue is having the discipline to execute the plan and the wisdom to move at the right times. I think fatigue has us in a place of complacency. My team has been on the hunt for thirteen years. There have been some incredible highs and lows but one thing for certain, it has been a nonstop adventure. I must say we have been very consistent throughout our journey. Our faith in The Most High has been our anchor. We have reinvented ourselves, repackaged ourselves, and kept our quality control consistent. We have almost zero waste. Every piece of product we have, we either use it or sell it. 50 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
We made it through the pandemic and we have built a reasonable amount of demand. But yet we are still in need of more capital. I have always wanted us to be self-sufficient. As the visionaries of our brand, we are forced to create new streams of revenue as well as keeping our bread-and-butter income flowing, which is the salon. This year we will have to launch into the deep. We must create new content and build new contacts. That means getting back on the road and in new virtual spaces. We are refreshing our look down to our uniforms, to just working on getting in shape. No lie, it can sometimes feel overwhelming. But once we get started, it starts to feel like second nature. I'm excited and optimistic about our future. The blessing is Marti and I have exceptional teamwork in play. Only The Most High can give you that. I think that alone sets us apart from our competitors. Our love for one another keeps us flowing no matter where we are. Every architect starts with a vision then comes the paper or medium and then comes the mud. Putting the work in is a must. I realize some foundations take years to build, that will be us. Part of the success is enjoying the journey. So, from time to time, we will be posting some of our successes and lessons in our writing in hopes of inspiring and educating you. Maybe some of our wisdom may help you along the way in your endeavors. Let's Go! Tony T.
All Things Fashion What are we doing
It's a new year, time to let go of our old ways, especially those that keep us coming up with the same outcome which pushes us further away from our goals. What is it that you are working towards and still haven't achieved? Could it be weight-loss, starting a new business or just enrolling in that class to get your certification for that promotion. Time is moving and we need to be in a state of action and discipline! Life can sometimes throw a curveball in our plans. That's okay, just start all over, make some changes and push forward. This is a good time to go over your to do list and goals. It can be as simple as starting to journal daily, cleaning out your closets or making time to take better care of yourself and your beauty needs. Journaling daily helps you to write down how you are feeling and that can be a good way of releasing anything you could be going through. It can also help you stay on track with achieving your goals. It’s a great outlet for your mental health as well as motivation. Cleaning out your closets helps you to declutter and make way for something new. It can be clothes, shoes or even an open space to be a creative area to walk into that brings you joy. You can also share that joy by donating your old clothing and shoes to someone in need. When it comes to your hair care regimen, where do we start? Always at the basics, a good shampoo that fits your hair texture and type. Sulfate and Paraben Free, quality ingredients that help cleanse and hydrate the hair and scalp. Deep conditioner that helps moisturize and soften the hair cuticles which can prevent dryness and breakage. Keep up with your hair trims, split ends do not equate to healthy long hair. The longer you put off your trims the more you will need to cut. 52 Vision & Purpose Community Magazine
Chemical relaxers, color-treated and if you're natural using heating tools hair trims should be done every 6 to 8 weeks. Natural hair every 10 to 12 weeks. Hair should be treated and trimmed after every braid or weave install. Do not leave hair extensions in over 8 weeks, your hair can begin to loc up or get matted. That can cause breakage and hair loss. When using heat styling tools make sure to use a heat protectant hair spray product to protect your hair from heat damage and breakage. I highly recommend that you go to a professional hair stylist that specializes in healthy hair so you can get a consultation on how to get your hair back to a healthy state and locate which hair products that best meet your hair needs. A good shampoo from a professional is always a treat. Walk into this year with your head held up high, make time for self-care and finish what you started. This is the year to see your dreams come to fruition!
Take the time to read or go to a museum and celebrate Black History Month.
Martina C. Turner
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Arts and Media
Soundtrack for our Future!
By Marion Swingler
Borrowing a few lyrics from an anthem of the late 1980’s, which reached Top 20 of music charts in most countries and was sung to inspire during most events of that time because of inspiring hope, dedication, and great expectation for the future. The lyrics of this song are a call to our responsibility to the future which lies in our investment in children. Due to a lack of value and funding, our public-school systems are stripping away what our children need to learn about the performing arts. The lyrics of “The Greatest Love of All” causes me to ask, do we “believe the children are our future?” Do we desire that “we should teach them well?” Do we understand that it is part of evolution that there will come a time that we will “let them lead the way?” Do we want to “show them all the beauty they possess inside?” Are we determined to “give them a sense of pride,” to make life easier? When we hear their laughter, do we remember how it used to be for us and do we want to make it better for them? All of this can be cultivated through this great pathway of teaching one subject that motivates positive energy and interest in learning. This one subject is something that most around the world enjoy, but over the years it has been devalued and removed from the educational curriculum. Research has found that learning this one subject taps into several educational and life skills that at times, operate simultaneously. This one subject is music. There was a time when music played a more active role in our educational system, but that is drastically changing and having an adverse affect on our youth in our communities now and into our future.
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Music has proven to remain a vital foundational component of education. “The Alphabet Song,” copy-written in 1835, is usually the first learning tool children receive, and today it remains the tool we use to teach small children their ABC’s, because it works. For nearly two centuries, through the process of teaching young children this little song we create the foundation for the rest of their lives. The repetition of singing this song branches beyond the enjoyment of singing to speech, reading, writing, memory, recall, and a sense of pride for what they learned to do.
Music education in inner-city schools is being cut short and in some schools being cut out altogether. Classes where you were free to learn the skill of singing or playing an instrument through structured music courses like Chorus and Band. Budget cuts to music education in the public school system impacts children’s opportunities to better themselves in music and beyond to enrich their education and lives.
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For example, students in most of the District of Columbia Public School (DCPS) system attend school six hours a day, that's thirty hours a week. Elementary School students receive a minimum of forty-five minutes of music and visual arts instruction each week. Middle School students receive a minimum of one semester of both music and visual arts instruction each year. High School students receive a minimum of half credit in both music and visual arts to graduate. With this limited music curriculum structure, children are not afforded an impactful opportunity to delve into music because this is not enough of a consistent investment in them.
Elementary School students are full of energy and their attention spans are being challenged and formed in their early years of education. By the time they enter the classroom and receive instruments and lesson instructions, the time left does not give them the space they need to strengthen their understanding, discipline, and ability to apply what was taught. Music education is a much-needed component for the future of our children. Let us work together to give the youth of today all they need to be the best that they can be. We as the parents and the community can start by getting involved with our local School Board of Education and advocating for Music Education to our Superintendents. Each state may have different Government Agencies responsible for funding the school systems, but with a little research we can get involved in the process of deciding how the budget is used to educate our children, who are our future.
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Tia 01/03 To my Goddaughter Tia, Godmother love you so much! I am forever proud of you!
Jayden 01/11 Happy 16th birthday Jayden. I'm so proud of you and the young KING you're becoming. I love you son. Keep shining.
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Camille Cipollone 02/03 God blessed me when he gifted me with you, I love you. Happy Birthday Camille Love, Mommy
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Happy birthday Freda! You are so special to me, and I love you so very much! Love Karen
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I'm beyond proud of you and happy to see your light shine as God designed. Love Uncle Jermaine
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