Jewish News - July 14, 2025 Edition

IRS says religious institutions may endorse candidates, undoing a longstanding ban

Philissa Cramer

(JTA) — Rabbis and other clergy members in the United States may endorse candidates from the pulpit without jeopardizing their house of worship’s tax-exempt status, the Internal Revenue Service has decreed.

The policy change reverses a ban on endorsing or opposing candidates by religious organizations known as the Johnson Amendment, enacted in the 1950s. The IRS made the change in the course of settling a lawsuit brought by two churches and a Christian broadcasting network in Texas that sought to undo the ban for all nonprofit entities.

The IRS said endorsements by houses of worship to their congregations are akin to “a family discussion concerning candidates,” according to the New York Times, which was the first to report the policy change.

“Thus, communications from a house of worship to its congregation in connection with religious services through its usual channels of communication on matters of faith do not run afoul of the Johnson Amendment as properly interpreted,” the agency said in a legal filing.

President Donald Trump vowed during his first term to do away with the Johnson Amendment, calling it “very, very unfair,” and issued an executive order prohibiting the IRS from prosecuting violations. But a full repeal would have required an act of Congress, and the ban survived a 2017 legislative effort to repeal it.

Many Jewish leaders have sought to comply with the prohibition despite the lack of enforcement. In the recent New York City mayoral primary, for example, some rabbis and synagogues emphasized in their communication with congregants that they could not endorse a candidate, even as they urged voting. Now, they will be allowed to make an endorsement in the general election — a shift that could liberate them to articulate their values in new ways but also put pressure on them to wade into electoral politics.

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David Leon, UJFT immediate past president and Mona Flax, UJFT president, at the Biennial meeting. Photograph by Steve Budman.

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Unilever cuts funding for Ben & Jerry’s foundation

Ben & Jerry’s parent company Unilever is cutting off millions in funding to the ice cream company’s charitable foundation after a probe begun in part due to the company’s donations to pro-Palestinian organizations.

Unilever, ahead of plans to spin off Ben & Jerry’s along with its other ice cream brands, says the ice cream maker was impeding an audit of the foundation, which funds hundreds of left-leaning groups.

Peter ter Kulve, who runs Unilever’s ice cream business, told Ben & Jerry’s executives in an email that the foundation’s trustees “have continued to resist basic oversight” and allegedly refused to provide audit documents.

“It represents a marked departure from the norms of charitable organizations, for whom transparency is typically a bedrock operating principle,” ter Kulve wrote.

The Ben & Jerry’s foundation distributed more than $5 million of Unilever’s money in 2022. The audit focused in part on its grants to pro-Palestinian groups, including the Oakland Institute, a California-based nonprofit whose founder is a trustee of the Ben & Jerry’s Foundation.

The company, founded but no longer owned by two progressive Jews, has long wed the ice cream business to its left-wing politics. The cut to Ben & Jerry’s charitable donations marks the latest in a saga of tensions between the ice cream company and Unilever which escalated in 2021 when Ben & Jerry’s announced that it would stop selling its desserts in “Occupied Palestinian Territory.” Last month, the board of Ben & Jerry’s called Israel’s war in Gaza a “genocide” in a statement.

In April, Ben & Jerry’s co-founder Ben Cohen attempted to gather investors for a potential buy-back of the company ahead of its spin-off, but Unilever rebuffed Cohen’s efforts, saying that it would not sell Ben & Jerry’s as a stand-alone business. (JTA)

DHS releases $94 million of security grants for Jewish institutions; remainder of funding stalls

The Department of Homeland Security announced it would award $94 million in security grants to 512 Jewish organizations Friday, June 27.

The agency cited the recent string of violence against Jewish groups, including the attacks in Washington D.C. and Boulder, Colorado, in its announcement, writing that the funds would “help protect Jewish faith-based institutions from further attacks.”

“DHS is working to put a stop to the deeply disturbing rise in antisemitic attacks across the United States,” said DHS Assistant Secretary Tricia McLaughlin. “That this money is necessary at all is tragic. Antisemitic violence has no place in this country. However, under President Trump and Secretary Noem’s leadership, we are going to do everything in our power to make sure that Jewish people in

the United States can live free of the threat of violence and terrorism.”

The grants mark the release of around half of the funding still tied up from a Trump administration review of federal spending.

The funding, which is distributed by the Federal Emergency Management Agency through the Nonprofit Security Grant Program (NSGP), was expected to include the full $220 million that has yet to be released to recipients.

NSGO provides funding for faith-based institutions including synagogues, schools, and Jewish community centers to pay for security measures to protect their buildings. In May, FEMA lifted the Trump administration’s twomonthslong freeze on funding reimbursements.

“We welcome the Administration awarding $94 million in Nonprofit Security Grant Program (NSGP) funding to help protect over 500 Jewish institutions amid the historic levels of antisemitic threats that ADL is tracking,” said Lauren Wolman, director of federal policy and strategy at the Anti-Defamation League. “But the job isn’t done. DHS must urgently release the additional NSGP supplemental funds Congress appropriated to meet overwhelming demand and save lives.” (JTA)

Australia cancels Ye’s visa over controversial ‘Heil Hitler’ song

Incendiary rapper Ye, who was formerly known as Kanye West, has had his visa cancelled in Australia over a recent song release titled Heil Hitler.

The announcement came Wednesday, July 2 after Home Affairs Minister Tony Burke said officials had reviewed his visa status following the controversial song’s release in May.

Ye is currently married to Bianca Censori, an Australian architect, and had been “coming to Australia for a long time,” Burke told national broadcaster ABC. “He’s got family here and he’s made a lot of offensive comments that my officials looked at again.”

“It wasn’t a visa for the purpose of concerts. It was a lower level, and the officials still looked at the law and said you’re going to have a song and promote that sort of Nazism, we don’t need that in Australia,” Burke said of the visa cancellation.

“We have enough problems in this country already without deliberately importing bigotry,” Burke continued.

The announcement comes as Australia faces an increase in antisemitic incidents. In Australia last year, according to the Executive Council of Australian Jewry, there were 1,713 antisemitic incidents, compared to 1,200 in 2023.

Last December, a synagogue in suburban Melbourne, Australia was set ablaze and two synagogues in Sydney were defaced with swastikas and other antisemitic language in January.

Following the release of the song — which includes the chorus line “All my n****s Nazis, n***a, heil Hitler” — Ye appeared to repent for his previous antisemitism.

Ye’s Australian visa cancellation also follows the

cancellation of the U.S. visas for Bob Vylan, a British punk band that led thousands of concertgoers at the Glastonbury music festival in chanting “Death, death to the IDF” in June.

Far-right pundit Candace Owens also faced visa cancellations from Australia and New Zealand last fall, with Australia rejecting her request for a visa over remarks in which she denied Nazi medical experimentation on Jews in concentration camps during World War II. (JTA)

Acting Columbia president Shipman apologizes for texts suggesting removal of Jewish trustee

The acting president of Columbia University apologized to the school community Wednesday, July 2 after leaked text messages showed she had suggested the removal of a Jewish trustee.

“The things I said in a moment of frustration and stress were wrong. They do not reflect how I feel,” Claire Shipman wrote in a private email obtained by Jewish Insider, referring to an exchange that occurred before she was named acting president.

The apology comes after the House Committee on Education and Workforce sent a letter to Shipman lambasting her for leaked correspondences in which she criticized Shoshana Shendelman, a Jewish member of Columbia’s Board of Trustees and vocal critic of the university’s handling of antisemitism allegations.

Columbia faced intense pressure from the federal government to address allegations of discrimination by some Jewish and Israeli students.

In the messages, which were dated from 2023 and 2024, Shipman also suggested the appointment of an “Arab on our board.”

“I have apologized directly to the person named in my texts, and I am apologizing now to you,” Shipman wrote in an email. “I have tremendous respect and appreciation for that board member, whose voice on behalf of Columbia’s Jewish community is critically important. I should not have written those things, and I am sorry. It was a moment of immense pressure, over a year and a half ago, as we navigated some deeply turbulent times. But that doesn’t change the fact that I made a mistake. I promise to do better.”

“One thing I hope salacious headlines will not obscure — my deep commitment to fighting antisemitism and protecting our Jewish students and faculty. Board members who have worked with me for more than a decade know that antisemitism, and the culture on our campus, was a priority well before October 7th, as do colleagues at the university, and personal friends,” the email continued.

Shipman also included a link to the steps the school was taking to address antisemitism on its campus as the school enters its fourth month of negotiations with the Trump administration after the federal government cancelled $400 million in grants to the school over campus antisemitism in March. (JTA)

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UJFT joins more than 100 Jewish communities to urge Congress to adopt 6-point security plan

Nearly 400 Jewish leaders representing more than 100 Jewish communities across the nation gathered in Washington, DC on Wednesday, June 25 for the United for Security Emergency Leadership Mission to advocate for policies that enhance security for the Jewish community.

Jewish Federations of North America and the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations came together with 50 national organizations to lead the mission, in which advocates held more than 200 meetings on Capitol hill and reiterated a consistent message: Jewish security cannot wait.

Betty Ann Levin, executive vice president/CEO, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater; Robin Mancoll, UJFT’s chief program officer and senior director, Jewish Community Relations Council; and Mike Goldsmith, regional security advisor, Tidewater Secure Community Network, participated in the Mission and meetings with Tidewater’s elected officials.

“We are appreciative of the time our elected officials dedicated to meet with us,” says Levin. “We were able to discuss the threats to our community and Jewish communities around the country, the urgent need to increase the Nonprofit Security Grant Program, the need for additional federal support, and other opportunities to advance the full six-point policy plan endorsed by both Jewish Federations around the country and numerous other Jewish organizations.”

insist that the safety and security of the Jewish community and the battle against domestic terror be at the very top,” Eric D. Fingerhut, Jewish Federations CEO and

“We are here to speak with one voice. We know there are many things on the nation’s agenda, but we must

president told the crowd before heading to lobby members of Congress. “Whatever other issues the Jewish community may care about, whatever

Congressman Bobby Scott with Steve Marks, president of United Jewish Community of the Virginia Penisula and Eric Mauer, CEO at UJCVP.

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differing opinions we may hold on some of those issues, we are united for security.”

Like the threat Iran poses in the Middle East and around the world, domestic terror in the United States is on the rise with Jewish Americans as the target. The broad representation from across the country and across the organizational spectrum of the mission reflects the universal nature of this crisis and the urgent need for the government to take strong and aggressive action to stop the antisemitic murders, attacks, violence, and harassment.

In meetings with Congress, leaders advanced a six-point security policy plan to secure the Jewish community:

Support for Israel is not negotiable, Jewish safety in America is not optional, and the silence in the face of antisemitic incitement–whether it comes from Iran’s Ayatollahs or American campuses–is unacceptable,” said William Daroff, president and CEO of the Conference

• Increase the Nonprofit Security Grant Program to $1 billion annually.

• Provide federal support for security personnel costs that Jewish communities are forced to bear.

• Expand FBI resources to fight the domestic and global war on terror.

• Provide federal assistance to local

of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations. “Support for Israel’s security is not a partisan issue. It is a moral imperative, a strategic interest and a Jewish responsibility.”

Israel’s Ambassador to the U.S. Yechiel Leiter delivered a strong message to the group, as the United States prepares to meet with Iran: “The basis of any agreement pursued with Iran has to be: there is no more attempt to annihilate the Jewish state, the Jewish people.

law enforcement to protect Jewish institutions.

• Regulate social media hate speech and incitement of violence.

• Enforce and prosecute existing hate crime legislation.

“Our message is simple and united:

“The Middle East has the potential to change, and we’re going to continue to move towards an Abraham Accords 2.0. There’s no reason why we can’t have a Middle East, which is calm, quiet, cooperative, normalized and peaceful.”

The day’s mission, however, focused on security. With that in mind, UJFT’s Levin says, “We were and are unified in our message that our security is non-negotiable.”

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Betty Ann Levin, Rep. Jen Kiggans, Robin Mancoll, and Mike Goldsmith.

United Jewish Federation of Tidewater held its Biennial meeting on Wednesday, June 11 at the Sandler Family Campus.

The Fleder Multi-Purpose Room was packed with people from throughout the Jewish community who had come to cheer on award winners, to support new officers and board members, and to hear from UJFT’s leadership about the current state of the Jewish world – globally, and especially, locally.

David Leon, outgoing president, spoke

about the past two years – just four months into his term, Oct. 7 took place – and Betty Ann Levin, UJFT’s executive vice president/ CEO, spoke about the Federation’s myriad activities, challenges, and successes.

In her remarks upon being installed as UJFT’s president, Mona S. Flax said, “We see and hear an epidemic of hate in our country and around the world. We see it on our streets, our college campuses, and our places of worship.

“We no longer just talk about security.

It is a part of our lives and our pocketbooks,” said Flax, noting the desire to begin a security endowment fund.

“I know it's difficult to have hope and to feel optimistic right now. And to be honest, some days, I find it to be a personal struggle. However, I do have hope and optimism. Why?

“It’s because we can and we will do what Jews have done for thousands of years. We unite, we pull up our sleeves, and we do the work. Last year, we raised

over $5 million for our Israel Emergency Campaign. That is the size of our regular campaign. We are a small community. Raising 10 million in one year is staggering, but we did it.

“And by the way, not to brag (but you know I will!) we (UJFT) are ranked highest in per capita giving for communities our size in the United States!”

Even with the presentation of awards, the meeting concluded in less than one hour – just as Betty Ann Levin promised.

Officers installed, awards presented at UJFT’s Biennial Awards

Joseph H. (Buddy) Strelitz Community Service Awards

Agency/Synagogue Recipient

Beth El Deb Segaloff

B'nai Israel Marcy Mostofsky

Jewish Family Service

Anne Kramer

KBH Charlie Firestone

Ohef Sholom Temple Carol Brum

Strelitz International Academy Babbi Bangel

Temple Emanuel Terry Blevins

Temple Israel Dr. Megan Lord

Tidewater Jewish Foundation Charlie Nusbaum

William and Mary Hillel Yeela Mimrod

The Tzedek Award

Linda Spindel

Harry Graber Jewish Communal Professional Award

Debbie Mayer, Jewish Family Service director of Clinical, Older Adult & Adoption Services

Recognition of Outgoing Committee Chairs

Gail Flax – Holocaust Commission

Laura Gross – Sandler Family Campus

Janet Mercadante – Israel and Overseas Committee

Jason Hoffman – Finance Committee

Mona Flax – Campaign

Recognition of Outgoing President

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1. David Leon, outgoing UJFT president, with his gift of a photograph by Israeli photographer Shakar Dekel.

2. Jason Hoffman and Betty Ann Levin.

3. Joseph H. (Buddy) Strelitz Community Service Awards winners: Deb Segaloff, Charlie Nusbaum, Dr. Megan Lord, Anne Kramer, Charlie Firestone, Carol Brum, Babbi Bangel, and Marcy Mostofsky.

4. Jay Klebanoff presents Tzedek Award to Linda Spindel.

5. Laura Gross and Betty Ann Levin.

6. Mona S. Flax, incoming UJFT president, delivers her remarks.

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Jewish Family Service and Beth Sholom Village continue their support of Jewish seniors

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Beth Sholom Village’s Auxiliary recently awarded Jewish Family Service a gift that makes it possible for 20,000 meals to be provided to hungry people in Tidewater. Collaborative projects between Jewish Family Service and Beth Sholom Village have taken place for generations and both agencies have a long-standing mission to help seniors.

“Thirty-three years ago, when I worked for JFS, I oversaw the Food Pantry,” says Sara Jo Rubin. “Now, as a member of the Beth Sholom Village board of directors, I am thrilled to see that the Beth Sholom Village Auxiliary group is helping carry on the mission with this gift to JFS. It is so wonderful to see the continued collaboration of two fantastic agencies, both of which have served seniors in the Jewish

community for decades.”

Beth Sholom Village Auxiliary has about 450 members, with 12 serving on the Auxiliary board. Edie Schlain, who has been board president for nine years, says, “The Auxiliary has always cared about seniors. If anyone needed anything, we were right there. We’ve always been there, and we will continue to be there through our foundation. We look forward to our continued work with JFS.”

The gift of $10,000, which was made on Tuesday, June 24, was donated directly to Jewish Family Service’s account at the Food Bank of Southeastern Virginia.

“Having our account replenished in this way is so fantastic!” says Kelly Burroughs, CEO for JFS. “People may not realize that JFS purchases food from the Food Bank; it is not given to us. The prices are greatly

reduced, so we can make a dollar stretch so much farther by shopping at the Food Bank than when we must buy retail.”

“Hopefully, the money that was donated represents enough meals to keep the JFS pantry stocked until Thanksgiving,” says Brooke Rush, JFS director of development. “The pantry is busier than ever. Just this morning we had 19 people come in need.”

The demographic at the pantry is primarily older people who live on fixed incomes which may not last throughout the month. One senior, Martin (pseudonym), recently called the pantry for help. “I’ve been living on saltine crackers and water for five days,” he said. “And now I am out of crackers.” He explained that his daughter will help him when she visits in a couple of weeks. Of course, he could not wait for his daughter to arrive. Rush packed a box of groceries and brought them to him on her way home. “He was waiting on his porch,” she says. “I would love for JFS to develop a Pantry on Wheels so that we can reach more people who don’t have access to the pantry due to limited transportation.”

Jewish Family Service already provides home-delivered meals to seniors.

Now, JFS wants to expand its ability to serve more home-bound seniors with the new Pantry on Wheels model. The food pantry, located at the Sandler Family Campus, is open on Tuesdays and Thursdays, 10 - 11 am, and is available by appointment.

Chris Tan, CEO for the Food Bank of Southeastern Virginia, expresses his appreciation for organizations such as Beth Sholom Village and Jewish Family Service. According to Tan, 70% of every food donation goes back to the community through partner agencies’ food pantries. “We are so happy to have partners who do such good work for the community,” he says.

As Beth Sholom Village 2.0 continues to evolve, and they move to the Sandler Family Campus (see article on page 21), Jewish Family Service “is thrilled to welcome them to the shared office space.”

Stephanie Peck, JFS board president, says, “Having Beth Sholom Village’s staff here in the offices at JFS just makes sense. Both agencies have a long history of providing high quality services to seniors. We can only get better when we work together.”

Christopher Tan, CEO of the Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia; Edith Schlain, Virgi McCall, and Sandy Mendelsohn, Beth Sholom Auxiliary members; and Brooke Rush, JFS director of development.

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USING AN IRA TO LEAVE A LEGACY: A CONVERSATION WITH WENDY GOLDBERG, CPA

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Wendy Goldberg has spent nearly 30 years helping clients make smart financial decisions. As a CPA and founder of her own practice, she brings a personal and practical approach to advising clients—especially when it comes to aligning financial planning with philanthropic intent.

One tool she often discusses is the Individual Retirement Account (IRA).

“For many people, their IRA represents one of the largest pools of untapped charitable potential,” Goldberg says.

“Especially as people reach retirement age and face required minimum distributions (RMDs), they ask how to do something more meaningful with these funds.”

Goldberg regularly partners with Tidewater Jewish Foundation to help clients make charitable gifts from

their IRAs. These qualified charitable distributions can be sent straight from a financial institution to a nonprofit such as TJF, allowing donors to reduce their taxable income and increase the impact of their giving.

“People don’t always realize this is an option,” Goldberg notes. “But once they understand the tax benefits and the opportunity to support causes they care about—without ever touching the money—it’s a game-changer.” She explains that IRA distributions can be directed during one’s lifetime to create or grow an endowment fund, providing ongoing support to a specific organization or cause. Plus, individuals can name a charitable beneficiary for their IRA, and after their lifetime, those funds can be used to establish a donor-advised fund for their children or grandchildren—allowing the next generation to carry

on their philanthropic values.

Goldberg also emphasizes that charitable conversations shouldn’t wait until retirement. “If we begin talking about legacy early—when people first open their IRAs—it helps shape a philanthropic mindset,” she says. “You can even include charitable beneficiaries in your estate plan now and update it later.”

Her advice to those feeling overwhelmed by the process is to start simple. “Define what you want your legacy to be. Then talk with your family and professional advisors,” she says. “You don’t have to figure it all out today. Just take the first step.”

For Goldberg, philanthropy is personal and rewarding. “It’s one thing to advise people on giving,” she says, “but to actually see how a gift changes lives and strengthens community—it’s beautiful.”

To learn how to use an IRA to support the Jewish community now and for future generations, contact Tidewater Jewish Foundation at foundation.jewishva.org or 757-965-6100.

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NETANYAHU IN WASHINGTON,

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Netanyahu leaves White House without fanfare or announcements

Philissa Cramer

(JTA) — Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu left the White House after two days of meetings with the Trump administration — but without the public appearances or breakthrough announcements of his previous trips.

Instead, Netanyahu released multiple statements emphasizing his commitment to continuing the Gaza war until Hamas poses no threat to Israel — a sign that he remains less eager than President Donald Trump to reach an agreement with Hamas over ending the war.

He also said he had spoken again with Trump about their “great victory” against Iran, a day after his office released footage of him presenting the president with a

mezuzah in the shape of the B-2 bombers that Trump dispatched to bomb Iranian nuclear sites last month.

Israeli media is reporting that officials there believe as much as 90% of the issues that separated Israel and Hamas over a ceasefire deal had been resolved. And Steve Witkoff, whom Trump has charged with negotiating peace, said that he believed 90% of the gaps had been closed and that a deal could come soon. But a plan for postwar governance — and whether Hamas could continue to play a role in any form — reportedly remains an obstacle.

The deal being negotiated would allow for about half of the 50 Israeli hostages in Gaza — of whom 20 are thought to be living — to be released within 60 days. It

would also require the two sides to continue negotiating toward a permanent conclusion of the war.

Trump is eager to achieve peace and told his Cabinet on Tuesday, July 8, according to Axios, “We have to get this solved.” But Netanyahu faces pressure from key coalition partners not to end the war, particularly if it leaves Hamas in place in any way.

As he left, Netanyahu released a statement alluding to the deaths of five soldiers early on July 8 in Gaza and signaling that he was not pulling back on the military campaign in the enclave. It echoed the notes he struck in a public statement before he arrived.

“We focused on the efforts to release our hostages. We are not relenting, even for a moment, and this is

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made possible due to the military pressure by our heroic soldiers,” he said. “Unfortunately, this effort has exacted a painful price from us, the loss of the best of our sons. But we are determined to achieve all of our objectives.”

Netanyahu also met with other

officials in Washington, D.C. He spoke to reporters after one of them, with Speaker of the House Mike Johnson.

“We need both sides to agree,” Netanyahu said. “I hope we will pass the finish line. The less I speak about this publicly the better.”

Netanyahu nominates Trump for Nobel Peace Prize

(JTA) — Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu presented President Donald Trump with a letter he had sent to the Nobel committee, nominating him for the prestigious prize as the two met at the White House Monday, July 7.

Trump has made no secret of his ambition to secure the prestigious prize and is pressing Netanyahu to end the war in Gaza.

The letter Netanyahu sent did not mention Gaza, instead citing Trump’s “pivotal role” in negotiating diplomacy between Israel and several other Arab countries including the United Arab

Emirates, Bahrain, Morocco, and Sudan in 2020, during Trump’s first term. Trump has vowed to expand the accords, with Saudi Arabia and Syria likely additions seen as dependent on an end to the war in Gaza.

“President Trump has demonstrated steadfast and exceptional dedication to promoting peace, security and stability around the world,” read the letter from Netanyahu, which was dated July 1 and sent to the Norwegian Nobel Committee.

Presenting Trump with the letter, Netanyahu said, “It’s well deserved, and you should get it.”

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“This I didn’t know. Wow,” Trump replied, reading the text. “Coming from you in particular, this is very meaningful.”

During the meeting, Netanyahu and Trump met to discuss their selfproclaimed victory in the military campaign against Iranian nuclear sites, and Netanyahu restated his long-held position that a ceasefire in Gaza should not give way to Palestinian statehood.

In June, Pakistan also nominated Trump for the Nobel prize for his diplomacy in stopping the fighting between India and Pakistan earlier this year.

Trump has long vied for the Nobel Peace Prize, and wrote on Truth Social last month, shortly before announcing a ceasefire in the Israel-Iran war, that he believed he would not get the prize “no matter what I do.” That ceasefire came shortly after Trump took the unprecedented step of bombing Iran’s nuclear facilities.

“No, I won’t get a Nobel Peace Prize no matter what I do, including Russia/ Ukraine, and Israel/Iran, whatever those outcomes may be, but the people know, and that’s all that matters to me!,” Trump wrote.

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Leading, learning, and looking ahead

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Shinshinim supervisors from communities supported by the Zeff Family Foundation gather each year with Diana Zeff, along with staff from the Jewish Agency for Israel and The Adelson Shlichut Institute.

For the second time, I had the privilege of serving on the planning committee for this meaningful conference. Working alongside a group of dedicated, talented ShinShinim supervisors, whom I proudly call friends, we designed a program that would educate, inspire, and empower our colleagues.

Over a few days, we facilitated workshops, explored the program’s impact with Diana and Ron Zeff, engaged with thought leaders such as Rabbi David Ingber and Rabba Sara Hurwitz, toured the iconic 92Y, and shared some incredible Israeli meals.

Tidewater is viewed as a model for this program.

I shared the success story of Tidewater’s ShinShinim program and expressed my deep gratitude to the dedicated staff at Jewish Agency for Israel, whose tireless work makes this program possible. Thanks to the unwavering support of our community, Tidewater is viewed as a model for this program.

I left the conference energized and eager to bring new ideas home to our program. As we approach our fourth year of hosting ShinShinim, I remain grateful for the warm embrace of our community, the extraordinary Shinshinim past and present, the host families who open their homes and hearts, the generous funders who help us plan boldly for the future, every community member who makes Tidewater feel like home to our emissaries, and for United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, which gives me the privilege of leading this work and staying connected to my beloved homeland.

As the program continues to grow in Tidewater, there are several ways to get involved: connect a school, organization, or community group that might benefit from a visit by these Israeli emissaries, become a host family, or explore other ways to engage, by visiting JewishVA.org/Shinshinim or contact Nofar Trem, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Israel Engagement manager, at NTrem@UJFT.org.

Be A Reader: Volunteer Mentors needed for 2025–2026 school year

Robin Ford

Heading into its 26th year, the Be A Reader (BeAR) Literacy Project is growing, adding two new partner schools to the BeAR family: Newtown Elementary in Virginia Beach and Suburban Park Elementary in Norfolk.

The growth translates to more second graders to support, more smiles to share, and more volunteers needed.

BeAR connects caring adults and second grade students in local Title I schools with a straightforward goal: to help kids fall in love with reading, build confidence, and help develop the literacy skills they need to thrive.

Mentors commit just one hour each week to read one-on-one with a student throughout the school year. Teaching experience is not required—just a genuine interest in helping these amazing second graders, a bit of patience, and a commitment to showing up each week.

Being a mentor is a simple way to make a real and lasting difference.

Mentors give an hour, and the BeAR program, powered by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Jewish Community Relations Council, takes care of the rest. That means books to build each child’s personal home library, high-quality school supplies, and other essentials to help these students grow and thrive.

Mentors often say they get just as much out of the experience as the kids do. There’s nothing like seeing a child light up when they realize, “Hey, I can do this!”

Whether retired, a college student, working part-time, or just looking for a meaningful way to give back to the community, there’s a place for volunteers at BeAR. It only takes an hour a week, but the impact lasts a lifetime.

Want to learn more or sign up to volunteer? Contact Robin Ford at 757-321-2304 or rford@UJFT.org.

BeAR mentors at work.

Conference attendees, staff, and the Zeff Family.

Senior Living

Dear Readers,

2025 marks milestones for two programs that transformed aging in America: Medicare is 60 years old, and Social Security is 90. Happy anniversary to them!

These cherished American programs aren’t alone in crossing milestones. The very active seniors featured in this section have reached many of their own milestones and continue looking to their next. While these members of Jewish Tidewater are formed by their myriad life experiences, their focuses tend to be on what’s ahead. . . what new project to conquer, what new group to facilitate, how to spend time with their families, what new trip to take. Inspirations all. Their stories begin on the next page.

Caring for area seniors has long been a central component of Jewish Tidewater’s mission. The article on page 21 about Beth Sholom Village’s move to the Sandler Family Campus highlight’s the agency’s evolution. On page 25, another piece showcases many of the programs offered by the Simon Family JCC and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater for area seniors. The programs and events range from debates to games to field trips to nearly everything in between.

The ability to take advantage of these programs and live the full lives of those profiled in this section most often depends on good health. An article on page 20 explains the difference between having a positive health span and just a long lifespan. The tips on achieving a positive health span are worth considering for everyone – no matter one’s current age.

Mark Twain said, “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.” Is “age just a number” for you?

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Celebrating every moment and every year

Stephanie Peck

What do Barry Manilow, Barbra Streisand, Mel Brooks, Charlie Firestone, Susan and Jim Eilberg, and Alice and David Titus have in common? Aside from the first three not living in Tidewater, all are Jewish, more than 80 years old, active in a variety of pursuits, and serve as inspirations to legions of followers. While the first three may have more global audiences than the Tidewater group, they are all celebrities to their fans of friends, colleagues, and loved ones.

Jewish News spoke with the locals about why they chose Tidewater as their home and their long lists of activities and accomplishments.

Charlie Firestone

Charlie Firestone still says, “She (Arlene, his wife) is the best thing that ever happened to me.” Their marriage of 66 years has produced four children, nine grandchildren, and eight great-grandchildren (with another on the way).

The Firestones were one of the seven founding families of Kehillat Bet Hamidrash Synagogue (KBH) in Virginia Beach. Currently serving his second term as facilities chair of the building, Firestone has held positions as board member and board president. “I’ve done it all,” he laughs. This fall, KBH moves its home to the Sandler Family Campus, celebrating its first official Shabbat on campus on Saturday, Sept. 6.

Originally from Atlanta, the young family moved to Virginia Beach in 1971 when Firestone took a sales position with Zep Manufacturing Company, specializing in industrial chemicals. He retired in 2011, after being with the company for 40 years. The couple sold their home in Oceana two years ago to move into an independent living setting.

In recognition of his KBH volunteerism, Firestone was a recipient of the Joseph H. Strelitz Community Service Award at the 2025 United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s

Biennial meeting. Beyond KBH, Firestone’s volunteer activities have included serving as a member of the Rotary Club of Hampton Roads for 38 years; being involved with Destination Imagination, a nonprofit that aims to “inspire young people to imagine and innovate today so they become the creative and collaborative leaders of tomorrow;” and also serving as a commissioner on the Virginia Commission for National Community Service under Governors Tim Kaine and Mark Warner. Firestone has also judged for STEM (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) and DECA competitions during his involvement with the Virginia Beach school system. DECA

prepares emerging leaders and entrepreneurs for careers in marketing, finance, hospitality, and management in high schools and colleges around the globe.

At home, Firestone enjoys reading and doing crossword puzzles, and “being a nuisance to my wife,” he muses. Firestone says he is grateful for his family and adds that daughter and son-in-law Mindy and Jim Harvel have helped the couple complete two moves. Firestone recounts a conversation with Mindy, when she said, “You took care of us when we were little and now it’s our turn to take care of you.” At 89 years old, he has earned it.

The Firestone family at the wedding of their grandson, Zach, in Georgia in 2022.

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Susan and Jim Eilberg

Now 90 years old, Jim Eilberg has officially retired from years of professional life and volunteer activities. That doesn’t mean, though, that he and his wife, Susan, have retired from life. . . they continue to attend Old Dominion University basketball games and Virginia Symphony concerts as season ticket holders. “Susan is far more active.” he says.

Originally from Brookline, Mass., Jim served 31 years in the Navy, both in active duty and the reserves, moving from line officer to supply officer. For him, “logistics was more engaging than driving destroyers,” he says. For 24 years, he owned a scrap metal business which he had purchased from his first wife’s father.

After retirement, Jim volunteered at Jewish Family Service for 20 years, delivering Meals on Wheels, and at B’nai Brith, he served as financial secretary for more than 20 years.

Susan hails from Manhattan, attending Goucher College and William & Mary before receiving her PhD from Old Dominion University. Working in education for 40 years, Susan was a French teacher in the Norfolk public schools and a guidance officer at Norview High School. She also held the position of assistant director at Governor’s School for the Arts and now serves on its board. She says they both enjoy attending many of the Governor’s School’s offerings.

In her spare time, Susan keeps busy as a docent at Virginia Aquarium & Marine Science Center and as a Sentara volunteer, where she chats with patients, explains their rights, listens to their grievances, and reports back to her supervisor.

“My wife is terrific. Our marriage is solid. We’re grateful just to be here, enjoying one another,” Jim says.

Married since 1973, the Eilbergs have two sons and six grandchildren. While the Eilbergs raised their family in Norfolk, they now live at The Oceans in Virginia Beach. Since their sons and their families live out of town, the Eilbergs travel often to visit them.

Jim says that he and Susan are lucky. “Our kids have been successful, their marriages are intact, and we have beautiful grandchildren.”

Susan and Jim Eilberg surrounded by grandchildren.

Senior Living

Alice and David Titus

“I was a substitute blind date,” says Alice Titus when sharing how she and David met.

“Roommate number 1 arranged it (the blind date) for herself and roommate number 2, but roommate number 2 got sick. C’est la vie! We celebrated the 60th anniversary of that serendipitous meeting this past February.”

Before moving to Tidewater, Alice and David lived in Indiana, Rhode Island, and then in the Albany, New York area for 40 years. The couple decided that retirement called for a change of climate. Looking to escape the long, cold winters and having vacationed in Virginia Beach for many years, this area offered both an appealing climate and (as David is retired from the Naval Reserve) many military retiree benefits.

Not knowing anyone when they first moved here, the Tituses joined Ohef Sholom Temple where they feel they have been nurtured both spiritually and intellectually.

“We attend services every week, I sing in the wonderful OST choir, and we both taught in the Religious School. We both serve on the Archives and Library SubCommittee and Adult Education Sub-Committee, Alice is a member of OST’s Sisterhood, and I am a member of Men’s Club,” says David. “In 2020, I converted to Judaism,” he continues.

Tidewater has been their home for the last 10 years, where they have enjoyed boating, swimming, the rich cultural life, the warm welcoming community, and the friendships developed through the synagogue, as well as through their condominium association.

Born and raised in New York City, Alice graduated from the State University of New York at Albany and earned a bachelor’s degree in English and two master’s degrees – one in public history and the other in public affairs and policy with an emphasis in science policy. She spent most of her professional career as a teacher, teaching English for 20 years in middle school, high school, and college, as well as social studies to middle school students.

Working for the archives of the State University, she processed the papers of a scientist involved in the World War II nuclear weapons program known as the Manhattan Project and later served as an analyst for insurance legislation as part of the central staff of the New York State Assembly.

David was raised in a suburb of Albany and also graduated from the State University of New York at Albany with a bachelor’s degree in English. He earned a master’s degree in English from the State University and a Master

of Library Science degree from the University of Rhode Island.

As a college instructor and librarian, David taught English at the University of Rhode Island and was a librarian at The Albany Academy in Albany. Also in Albany, he administered library and media programs at the Capital Region Board of Cooperative Educational Services and was an instructor and librarian for Bryant & Stratton College, both in person and online. After active duty in the United States Navy and nearly 30 years in the Naval Reserve, David retired as a Chief Petty Officer in 1991.

In retirement, David is extremely busy as a volunteer. At Ohef Sholom, he spends time in the Ohef Sholom Temple Library and the Ohef Sholom Religious School Library. He is particularly focused on developing the Bonk-Rivin Holocaust Collection, which holds one of the largest collections in the world of Holocaust-related graphic novels and comic books.

Alice previously served as a part-time OST archivist, and she now volunteers there and in the archives of the MacArthur Memorial Museum. She helps in the OST soup kitchen and at WHRO Voice, where she reads the newspaper over the radio for those who are blind or visually impaired. In addition to volunteering in the OST library, David volunteers in the library of the Hampton Roads Naval Museum and sings with the Symphonicity Chorus in Virginia Beach. They both volunteer in their condominium’s garden.

“I can spend hours playing the piano,” Alice says. A recent OST bat mitzvah, Alice celebrated the simcha along with 22 other adults of various ages, genders, and backgrounds. Alice explains that, while she was raised Jewish and married by a rabbi (“He was the only rabbi in New York City who would officiate at a wedding of a Jew and non-Jew at the time,” she says), she grew up as a “cultural” Jew, identifying as Jewish but not knowing much about the religion. “Although we raised our children in a Jewish home and belonged to synagogues where we

lived before, it wasn’t until we came here and became members of Ohef Sholom Temple, that I felt comfortable in the religion into which I had been born,” Alice says. At OST, she has studied Hebrew and the history and ethics of Judaism. “It has been a joy in the good times, a comfort in the hard times, and a beautiful journey,” she says. “Becoming a bat mitzvah was my opportunity to publicly declare my commitment to and love for the values and spirituality of Judaism.”

With a son and daughter-in-law in Japan, the Tituses have toured the Asian country six times. They spend as much time as they can visiting their daughter, son-in-law, and grandson in Pennsylvania, and a granddaughter in northern Virginia. With cousins in North and South Carolina, Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania, New York, and California, and nieces and nephews not too far from Tidewater, Alice and David are often on the road. Most summers include travel to Upstate New York, visiting with old friends and enjoying the concerts and theater both there and in neighboring western Massachusetts.

For fun, they love visiting museums and the Norfolk Botanical Garden, attending concerts and theater, and spending time with friends. The Tituses belong to several book clubs and are members of the Norfolk Historical Society.

Married for 58 years, that chance blind date in 1965 turned out to be much more than just a happy accident.

Alice and David Titus.

Senior Living

Striving for ‘healthy longevity’

Stephanie Peck

Balance and moderation in eating increases the chances of living a longer and vital life.

“A lifetime of making healthier food choices and maintaining an active lifestyle contributes to a positive health span, not just a long lifespan,” says Judy Mitnick, Registered Dietitian/Certified Diabetes Care and education specialist, at Jim White Fitness and Nutrition Studios.

Mitnick refers to this concept as ‘healthy longevity,’ where nutrition plays a role but is not the only factor. Limiting excessive fried foods, high sodium, and processed foods, as well as excessive caffeine and alcohol intake, all contribute to dietary benefits. “I always tell my clients to look at their overall intake and habits instead

of strictly eliminating everything they may enjoy in an attempt to age healthfully,” Mitnick says.

Longevity isn’t about checking every box. It’s about living in a way that brings vitality, joy, and meaning.

As people age, fewer calories are required, primarily due to decreased activity and lower lean muscle mass.

Mitnick advises focusing on the nutrient density of foods consumed.

“With lower calorie needs, older people need to ‘make most calories count’ and there is less wiggle room for extras.”

Lean protein sources, healthy fats such as olive oil, fruits and vegetables, low-fat dairy or dairy alternatives, and moderate whole grains provide the necessary protein, vitamins, and minerals without the excess calories.

To significantly decrease sugar intake, Mitnick suggests making simple substitutions, such as flavored seltzers and fruit juice seltzers instead of soda, and whole grain cereal.

“Especially as we get older, we don’t have a surplus of extra calories to play with,” Mitnick says.

It is natural to lose some muscle mass as one gets older, so maintaining lean muscle is key to healthy aging.

Mitnick recommends

incorporating strength training into workout routines, such as simple exercises using resistance bands, light weights, or even wearing a weighted vest on walks.

Quality of life is also important at this stage of life, which means that including an occasional treat, in moderation, can be part of this healthy lifestyle.

In his article, What an Octogenarian Aging Expert Does Daily to Stay Healthy, Dr. Richard Besdine shares one piece of advice: Do what feels good mentally and physically. An 81-year-old, renowned geriatrician and professor at Brown University, he says, “Longevity isn’t about checking every box. It’s about living in a way that brings vitality, joy, and meaning.”

Besdine goes beyond diet and exercise when discussing his recipe for healthy longevity. Reducing stress and nurturing relationships play a role, too.

“Social bonds are not just emotionally fulfilling, they are biologically protective, boosting immunity and reducing inflammation.” Regarding stress, he adds that “techniques like mindfulness, journaling, therapy, or gentle movement can all help reduce cortisol levels and protect long-term health.”

The article concludes that, while these “specific habits might not fit everyone, they offer a refreshing lens through which to view longevity.”

Judy Mitnick

Senior Living

Beth Sholom Village charts bold future with new home and renewed mission

Lauren Krajesky, LNHA, CDP

Taking another step forward, Beth Sholom Village is relocating its offices to space within Jewish Family Service at the Sandler Family Campus. This move represents more than a change of address; it reflects a deepened commitment to area seniors and a renewed vision for the future.

“We are thrilled to be making this strategic move,” says Fay Silverman, chair of BSV’s board of directors. “It better aligns Beth Sholom Village with our community and positions us to continue supporting Jewish seniors in impactful and innovative ways.”

Beth Sholom’s board’s new direction, guided by the infamous “2.0 Committee,” aims to transform the organization into a funding and grant foundation, serving the needs primarily, but not exclusively, of Jewish seniors through outreach and strategic initiatives. This relocation is the first step in a broader plan to expand impact, deepen partnerships, and deliver more care to more seniors over more years.

That mission is already alive and well at Aviva Pembroke, Beth Sholom Village’s new senior living community. Residents Steven and Nancy Rosenberg say they found more than just a new place to live – they found a place where

they feel truly at home.

“I knew it was time to make a change,” Steve Rosenberg says. “I was looking for community and social opportunities—places to connect, engage, and enjoy this next chapter of life. I’ve found all of that and more here at Aviva.”

For Nancy Rosenberg, the decision was deeply personal. “I was drawn to Aviva because of its strong foundation in Jewish values,” she says. “You can feel those values in the way the community operates, and it gives me a sense of comfort and belonging.”

Now settled in, the Rosenbergs say it’s the people who make Aviva Pembroke so special. “The people who live here are the heart of this community,” says Nancy Rosenbrerg.

With the move to Jewish Family Service and the continued growth of Aviva Pembroke, Beth Sholom Village is building a future where seniors are not just cared for—they’re celebrated.

“This is only the beginning,” says Silverman. “We are grateful to care for our seniors and grow a community that is safe, rooted in our values, and reflective of our mission.”

Lauren Krajesky, LNHA, CDP is vice president of administration at Beth Sholom Village.

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A first Bissel of Yiddish

A bit of Yiddish has managed to slip into everyday language. It’s not uncommon to hear people of all backgrounds talk about shlepping and shmoozing. And most who fling words such as glitz and shtick, have no idea they’re speaking Yiddish, a language historically spoken by Ashkenazi Jews.

A combination of High German and Hebrew, efforts are underway to keep the language alive through clubs, Youtube videos, classes, books, and performances.

Even in Tidewater, the Yiddish Club is making a comeback. Attendees at the monthly meetings are embracing Yiddish culture, language, and history with music, film, poetry, and literature. The next meeting will take place on Tuesday, August 5 at 1 pm at the Sandler Family Campus. For more information, go to www.Jewishva.org/YiddishClub.

In this spirit, Jewish News is embarking on a new feature, A Bissel of Yiddish to introduce and remind readers of a few Yiddish words and phrases. Bissel is Yiddish for ‘little,’ by the way. We hope the section brings smiles and memories to those who recall grandparents speaking the language, as well as intrigue to those interested in learning a few words.

Yiddish word Mensch

Based on the German word for person, in Yiddish, a mensch is used to describe someone with highly regarded qualities such as honor, integrity, and kindness. A mensch doesn’t hesitate to perform mitzvot. Being called a mensch is considered an extreme compliment.

Yiddish phrase

Mir geben en mir veisen shtark koved far unzer tyerer en baleibt elter menschen fun undzer klal

We give and we show strong respect for our valuable and dear older people of our community.

Senior Living

Marc Pollack: Immersed in Jewish community

Sam Nossen

Originally from Manhattan, Marc Pollack moved to Norfolk, Virginia in 1952 with his mom and dad. He was four years old at the time. Pollack quickly ingratiated himself with the Tidewater JCC family. “I’ve been a part of the community for 73 years. I went to summer camp at the JCC when it was still in Norfolk,” he says.

After earning his degree, Pollack began working for the City of Norfolk as a Deputy High Constable. Throughout his 27-year-career working for the city, Pollack also worked as an HR eligibility specialist, helping families and those in need get food stamps and social security. Throughout this time, he also served with the Army Reserve National Guard. Although he retired in 2008 from his job with the city, he has continued to

work as an umpire for softball games at all levels. Pollack says, “Many people stop being active after retiring and can become sedentary. My goal has always been to stay active and enjoy life.”

Since retiring, Pollack has been heavily involved with the Simon Family JCC’s Senior Club and works out daily, alternating between attending aquatic classes and working out in the gym. As the treasurer for the Senior Club, Pollack and the club’s executive board “try to encourage seniors in the club to stay involved and help the board make decisions regarding events and how money is used.” As part of his duties as treasurer, Pollack has trees planted in Israel for community members who have passed away. “Helping others be fulfilled makes me happy, and I try to do so in every way possible.”

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Not your average 88-year-old, Bob Low plays poker multiple times a week and volunteers in the local Jewish community – activities he attributes to helping him stay mentally and physically spry.

Moving to Norfolk with his wife, Honey, in 1960, Low served in the Navy for three years before leaving and becoming a CPA. At 65, Bob retired from Goodman and Company, a CPA firm he helped build, and began his life as a retiree.

Low did not grow up very religious, saying, “My mom and aunt went to temple for 30 minutes every year.” His involvement and love for the Jewish community can be traced back to his wife, Honey, who passed away two years ago. In fact, Low credits Honey for his involvement in the Jewish community. Honey volunteered with Jewish Family Service and Toras Chaim school throughout her life. Low says her love for the community “rubbed off” on him.

In recent years, Low has started two round table groups that discuss myriad Jewish-centered and current events-centered topics. One of these groups meets twice a month on Thursday at the Simon Family JCC, and the other meets weekly at Atlantic Shores, where Low now lives. “My role as moderator is to make sure nothing gets too political, to keep order.”

A gracious contributor to Tidewater Jewish Foundation, the Low family’s donations helped fund the Low Family Playground in 2023. The playground, located on the grounds of B’nai Israel in Norfolk, serves as a place where the next generation can form bonds and play.

Low’s generosity, however, is not limited to Tidewater. Founding the Honey Foundation, Low aims to “empower the spiritual leaders Israelis need now for the benefit of Jews everywhere.”

“Though I may not be the most religious of Jews,” Low says, “I’m committed to helping non-Jews see the Jewish sides of different topics.”

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Programming for seniors abound at the Simon Family JCC

Trips, Yiddish, debates, games, and so much more are available for seniors to explore at the Sandler Family Campus. Seniors are generally considered to be anyone 55 years old and above.

For specific days and times and to learn more, go to jcc.jewishva.org or call 757-321-2338.

Yiddish Club for everyone

The Yiddish Club meets on the first Tuesday of each month to discuss Yiddish music, culture, and classic literature. Members share insights, stories, and songs – celebrating a vibrant cultural heritage. Open to all, the club welcomes anyone interested in exploring the richness of the Yiddish tradition.

Seniors Club takes first trip of the year

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Roundtable Conversations

A collaborative discussion group where all participants contribute equally, Roundtable Conversation is guided by facilitator Bob Low. Members share ideas, ask questions, and

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Celebrating life’s treasured memories.

actively listen. This format encourages respectful dialogue, diverse perspectives, and deeper understanding, making it ideal for exploring complex topics in educational, professional, or community settings.

JCC Book Club

To celebrate Pride Month, the JCC Book Club selected

Kissing Girls on Shabbat as its June book. The discussion was engaging and heartfelt, sparking meaningful conversations among participants.

Mah Jongg Mondays

Mah Jongg Mondays launched last month at the Simon Family JCC. Held on the second, third, fourth, and occasional fifth Mondays each month, games begin at 1 pm in the Fleischmann Lounge on the Sandler Family Campus. Used complete sets are gratefully accepted as donations.

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S. Daniel Abraham, Slim-Fast creator and Israel peace advocate

Grace Gilson (JTA) — S. Daniel Abraham, an American billionaire who grew his fortune on his diet company Slim-Fast Foods and spent his life advocating for peace between Israel and its neighbors in the Middle East, died on June 29 at 100.

Abraham was born in New York in 1924 and went on to serve as an infantryman in the U.S. Army in the 1940s before building his fortune on the Thompson Medical Company — which his father, a dentist, bought for $5,000 in 1947.

That company would later introduce Slim-Fast Foods, a weight-loss product popular in the 1980s that served as a supplement for breakfast and lunch by combining a powder with skim milk. By 2025, Abraham had built a net worth of $2.4 billion.

“What I wanted to bring to market was a meal replacement in liquid form, composed of protein, carbohydrates, vitamins and minerals, and even a little healthy fat,” he wrote in Everything Is Possible, a memoir written with Joseph Telushkin, an American rabbi and bestselling author, and published in 2010.

Beyond Abraham’s entrepreneurial success, he also spent much of his life advocating for peace between Israelis and Palestinians and was a major funder of Middle East peace initiatives.

Middle East Peace, wrote in a statement after Abraham’s death. “When peace comes to the Middle East — and it will — we will have Dan Abraham to thank. Dan, though, never sought any thanks or recognition. Mr. Abraham was righteous and just — a tzadik,” Wexler wrote, using the Hebrew term for a righteous person.

Abraham also donated extensively to Israeli and American universities, endowing chairs at Harvard University Medical School and Princeton University. He also funded two programs bearing his name at Yeshiva University as well as a business school at Bar-Ilan University in Israel.

Mr. Abraham’s life was guided by purpose, generosity and a deep love for the Jewish people and the State of Israel

Between 1988 and 2002, Abraham made more than 60 trips to the Middle East alongside Rep. Wayne Owens, a Utah Democrat, to meet with Israeli and Arab leaders, and in 1989 he founded the S. Daniel Abraham Center for Middle East Peace, a nonprofit aimed at peacebuilding between Israelis and Palestinians.

“A brilliant, humble businessman who experienced the destruction of war as a combat soldier in World War II, Mr. Abraham exhibited a tireless and selfless dedication to achieving peace, security and prosperity for all peoples of the Middle East,” Robert Wexler, the president of the S. Daniel Abraham Center for

“Mr. Abraham’s life was guided by purpose, generosity and a deep love for the Jewish people and the State of Israel, and his influence will be felt by current and future generations,” Yeshiva University’s president, Ari Berman, and its board chair, Ira Mitzner, wrote in an obituary.

Abraham also donated millions to American and Israeli political movements, giving $3 million to a super PAC supporting Hillary Clinton’s presidential bid in 2016. He was a major donor to the movement to unseat Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu ahead of the 2015 elections in Israel.

“The obituaries will call him ‘billionaire founder of SlimFast.’ But we, first congregants of the Palm Beach Synagogue (1994) knew him as a funny, approachable man,” wrote Elaine Rosenberg Miller, a member of Abraham’s congregation in Florida, in the Times of Israel. Abraham lived for eight years with his family in Netanya, Israel, and has 20 grandchildren and great- grandchildren living in Israel, according to a biography for Abraham in the Times of Israel. His marriage in 1963 to Estanne Weiner ended in divorce in 1993, and he married Ewa Sebzda in 1996. She survives him, along with four daughters from his first marriage, two children from his second marriage, 27 grandchildren and 34 greatgrandchildren, according to the New York Times.

She gave with purpose. She planned for permanence.

For Susan Alper, giving is about securing the future.

A lifelong champion of Jewish causes, Susan formalized her UJFT Lion of Judah Endowment through Tidewater Jewish Foundation.

“Throughout my career I have been privileged to help facilitate significant gifts that will continue supporting the Jewish Community in Tidewater and abroad for many generations. Having witnessed the power of our Community’s support in the FSU, Hungary, Ukraine, Israel and, of course, here in Tidewater, I knew I wanted to add my support.” — Susan Alper

Through her legacy gift, Susan ensures the values she lives by will continue to shape and sustain the Jewish community long into the future.

It all started with a conversation.

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Jewish Tidewater’s Graduates

Graduations are a time to recognize achievements, formally bid farewell to a valued educational institution, prepare for the next steps along life’s journey, and of course, to celebrate!

In the June 2 issue of Jewish News, nearly 40 area graduates were featured. Here more are celebrated with notable awards, impressive degrees, and outstanding plans. Jewish News wishes all these graduates and their families the heartiest of Mazel Tovs!

Blake Aaron Brown

Duke University

Magna Cum Laude

Next: Gap year working on his start-up company and then applying to medical school.

Blake is the son of Beryl and Steven Brown and the grandson of Gloria Brown.

Eitan Haas

Frank W. Cox High School

Master’s in clinical social work

Next: Old Dominion University

Eitan is the son of Nachama Haas and David Haas and the grandson of Ruth and Ludwig Sternlicht.

Gracie Sybil Eilberg

The Hill School

The JT Moore Jr. ’41 Special Recognition Award for outstanding leadership in enhancing the morale, spirit, and character of the class. Major H Blanket Award for nine varsity letters

Next: Haverford College

Gracie is the daughter of Donna and Seth Eilberg and the granddaughter of Susan and Jim Eilberg.

Max Benjamin Pollio

Kenyon College

BA, Political Science; National Football Foundation Hampshire Honor Society member

Next: Public service/policy work in Washington, D.C.

Max is the son of Heidi and David Pollio.

Amelia Fox

Loyola Marymount

University Sociology and Women’s and Gender Studies

Delta Zeta Sorority (VP Finance), Belles Service Organization (focused on domestic violence awareness and prevention in the Los Angeles area)

Mallory Rose Gerstein

Virginia Wesleyan University

Bachelor of Arts, Criminal Justice December 2024

Next: Community director at The Washington Center in Washington DC where she will provide housing supervision, programming, emergency assistance, and community facilitation services for undergraduate students attending internships and seminars in D.C.

Amelia is the daughter of Colleen and Andy Fox.

Member of VWU Camerata traveling choir which performed at Carnegie Hall Honor Societies, Iota Alpha Tau: Choir Honor Society, Alpha Phi Sigma: Criminal Justice Honor Society

Next: Mortuary Science program at Tidewater Community College.

Mallory is the daughter of Beth Gerstein and William Gerstein and the granddaughter of Dorothy and Edwin Salomonsky.

SIA CELEBRATES CLASS OF 2025

Carin Simon

Graduation is always a meaningful and emotional milestone at Strelitz International Academy. For the fifth-grade students, some of whom have been part of the SIA community since infancy, it marks a moment to reflect on their growth and prepare to spread their wings as they head to middle school.

We’ve grown, not just in height, but in our minds and hearts. Over the years, we’ve become more like a family, sharing laughter, challenges, and so many exciting moments together.”

On Wednesday, June 5, SIA hosted its annual graduation ceremony, celebrating the accomplishments of the Class of 2025. Head of School Heather Moore opened the program with reflections on the past year’s successes and shared some future plans, including the launch of a special Endowment Campaign.

Emma Belman, president of the Student Government Association, delivered a heartfelt tribute on behalf of her classmates. She reflected on their International Baccalaureate Final Exhibition Project (which focused on health and wellness) and expressed gratitude to all the teachers, past and present, who guided them throughout their journey.

“As we move on to middle school,” Emma said, “we take with us the lessons we’ve learned, the friendships we’ve made, and the memories we’ll always treasure.

This year’s Commencement Speaker was Tamir Zach, an SIA Class of 2018 alum and a recent graduate of Norfolk Academy’s Class of 2025. Offering heartfelt wisdom and encouragement to the graduates, drawing on his own experiences and fond memories of SIA, he said, “I always have a place here, a home and a family. Every time I walk through the doors of the school, I’m welcomed by smiling faces and warm hugs from the teachers I know and love, followed by meaningful conversations with Mrs. Rodriguez and Ms. Moe. It’s a feeling I can’t describe in words. SIA is not only a place of learning, but a place of connection.”

The graduation ceremony was a powerful reminder of the lasting impact of an SIA education—grounded in community, compassion, and a love of lifelong learning.

Members of the SIA Class of 2025 will attend:

Academy for Discovery at Lakewood (IB Middle Years Program)

Cape Henry Collegiate

Great Neck Middle School

Greenbrier Middle School

Landstown Middle School

Norfolk Academy

Plaza Middle School IB Middle Years

Program

The Williams School

Strelitz International Academy alumni return for Annual Senior Sendoff

Carin Simon

When the SIA Class of 2018 received their invite to attend a Senior Year Reunion in May, they were hesitant to respond. Many had not recently seen each other. As they arrived, welcomed by their fifth-grade graduation picture, they immediately reconnected and reminisced about their fond memories during their time at SIA, which was then Hebrew Academy of Tidewater.

The students were thrilled to reconnect with each other over pizza and an Edible Arrangement generously donated by the Rivera Family. While many of the grads had visited the Sandler Family Campus since graduation, most had not seen each other or teachers in some time. The excitement was palpable as they observed the changes in the school, shared memories, and enthusiastically greeted former teachers while exploring their old classrooms.

Current SIA students enjoyed the opportunity to interact with the visiting alumni, asking questions about their experiences in middle and high school. The alumni, now recent graduates from Cape Henry Collegiate, Norfolk Academy, Norfolk Collegiate, Tidewater Collegiate Academy, and First Colonial High School, were quizzed by students to see if they remembered their Hebrew and math facts.

The once young students have grown into accomplished and well-spoken adults with bright futures ahead. SIA is immensely proud to have provided these students with a strong Jewish and academic foundation.

SIA (HAT) graduates are entering the following programs:

Allegheny College following Gap Year in Israel

American University

Christopher Newport

University

Florida Atlantic University

George Mason University

James Madison University

Massachusetts Maritime Academy

Old Dominion University

Radford University

Carin Simon is director of advancement for Strelitz International Academy.

Ilan Rivera, Nate Simon, Aaron Alofer, Jack Poorman, Tamir Zach, Ariana Dail, Ophir Newman, and Emily Leon.

Class of 2025 Class: Zeeva Cooper, Emma Belman, Micah Kass, Charles Claudius, Jaxon Gordon, Zane Uduaghan, William Salyer, Calanit Warren, Benson Cost, Abby Walker, Grayce Burnette, and Ari Smith.

Community celebrates lifelong learning

Jewish Tidewater gathered on Thursday, May 29 to celebrate Jewish learning across the lifespan. Bringing together clergy, educators, and organizational leaders from across denominations and institutions, the evening was a powerful display of unity and a shared commitment to Jewish education.

Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg of B’nai Israel Congregation opened with a D’var Torah centered on Shavuot and the giving of the Torah, emphasizing how the Jewish people became the “people of the book,” continually returning to study, reflect, and seek meaning in the sacred texts.

The event also spotlighted the growing reach of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Konikoff Center for Learning. Over the past year, 138 adults participated in multi-week classes, hands-on workshops, and discussions rooted in Jewish values, history, and identity.

Alene Jo Kaufman, chair of the Jewish Innovation Steering committee and longtime educator, spoke about her personal journey. “To learn is to stretch oneself… To teach, though, is a sacred responsibility.” After years of participating in nearly every Konikoff Center class, Kaufman recently taught her first Melton course. “We come for the learning, and we stay for the community.”

Keynote speaker and devoted learner Zibby Robertson reinforced this theme. “One important aspect of being

Jewish is to be a lifelong learner. As a Jew by choice, every class I take is a new adventure to learn more. I encourage even the lifelong Jews here to continue taking classes and learning, because there is always so much more to learn.”

Children were also part of the evening, an intentional reminder that Jewish learning doesn’t end with a bar or bat mitzvah. Instead, it continues through life, inviting curiosity, critical thinking, and a connection to timeless values.

Local synagogues and day schools shared a glimpse into the learning shaping the next generation of Jewish leaders.

“At Strelitz International Academy, our learners are not just students in the classrooms,” said Ally St. Pierre, admissions and marketing manager. “They are thinkers, questioners, creators, and future leaders.”

Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz, Head of School at Toras Chaim, shared, “Students are going home ready to read a siddur, open a Chumash, and navigate the Talmud... With a strong partnership between the school, the home, and the shul, we are ‘all in’ to inspire lifelong learning.”

At BINA High School, Jewish and general studies go hand in hand. Head of School Aviva Harpaz reflected, “From Trigonometry to Earth Science, from Torah to leadership, BINA girls are prepared to be leaders in any professional field and in their communities.”

“We are so lucky to have the luxury to freely practice, to teach and inspire,” said Sarah Davis, Temple Emanuel’s Religious School director. “We must not take that opportunity for granted. We must give our children every opportunity to be loved and cherished by our community, to raise them with knowledge and pride so they never apologize for who they are—so they never feel like they have to shrink.”

“Our job as educators is to encourage our students to be curious; to ask questions, to develop their own thoughts and feel safe to express them,” said Sharon Serbin, director of education at Congregation Beth El and the Patricia Sarah Ashkenazi Religious School. “At PSARS this past year, we started studying Jewish people around the world. We want them to know that almost anywhere they go in the world, they can find a Jewish community and be welcomed.”

Ohef Sholom Temple’s director of Lifelong Learning, Alyson Morrissey, acknowledged the donors who make this work possible. “To every donor who chooses to invest in Jewish education—you are helping strengthen the future of our people, one learner at a time. Jewish learning is alive and well here.”

As the evening closed with celebratory ice cream sundaes, one message was clear: from early childhood to adulthood, Jewish learning in Tidewater is vibrant, expanding, and rooted in community.

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Rabbi Eisenberg delivers the D’var Torah. Art Sandler and David Konikoff.

Sierra Lautman, UJFT’s senior director of Jewish Innovation, (right) and her original teacher and mother, Sharon Serbin.

Learners and educators from Ohef Sholom Temple.

Alene Jo Kaufman, chair of UJFT’s Jewish Innovation Steering committee.

Rabbi Michael Panitz of Temple Israel and Rabbi Ari Oliszewski of Temple Emanuel.

Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz, Toras Chaim Head of School.

Mah Jongg Mondays are serving up more than bams and cracks

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every 2nd, 3rd and 4th Monday (except holidays), Sandler

Linda Ausch

Mah Jongg Mondays are going strong.

Family Campus

Stephanie Calliott and Amy Levy have presented and entertained at some fantastic teaching sessions—with more to follow. Nearly 30 enthusiastic women have joined in to learn the game, and the energy has been nothing short of fun, dynamic, and contagious.

Those who weren’t available for the summer sessions might have another opportunity, as there’s talk of evening classes in the fall.

The dynamic duo—Calliott and Levy—have been guiding their students through the game one step at a time, including teaching The Charleston like pros. It’s been laughs, learning, and the occasional case of Mah Jonggnesia (that moment when you forget what tile was just picked up).

In addition to the teaching group, more than 100 women are signed up for open play—109, to be exact!

Jokers are flying, tiles are clicking, and someone may or may not have hit the Joker Jackpot (you know who you are).

The concept of Mah Jongg Mondays started a couple of months ago with an idea from Amy Levy—and thanks to her spark, it’s blossomed into exciting and successful gatherings at the Sandler Family Campus. Every week, more players are pulling up a chair.

The word is out—Mah Jongg Mondays is the place to be.

Got Maj envy and want to join on the fun?

1. Sign up on the TEAM REACH App (it’s a red square with a T in the center)

2. Enter the group code “BamCrack2025” and click “join.”

3. Click on the “JCC Mahj Group” to open the page and you’re in.

4. Click the “settings” icon in the top right corner (looks like a spiked wheel) and enter your experience level in the “role/also known as section: seasoned, intermediate, beginner).

5. Then, click the “calendar” icon to select the lessons (available in the fall) and games you’re interested in. RSVP (yes, no, maybe) when you’re available. You may change your response at any time. You may also view the other participants by clicking on the “people” icon. EASY as that.

For additional information, contact Amy Levy at momofjnsb@cox.net, Stephanie Calliott at sacinva@aol.com, or Linda Ausch lausch@ujft.org.

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UNITY CONCERT IS ALL ABOUT JEWISH PRIDE AND COMMUNITY

Gilah Ford

More than 450 people joined B’nai Israel to welcome the Maccabeats to the Sandler Family Campus for the Unity Concert last month.

The concert was made possible by a Tidewater Jewish Foundation Community Impact Grant and organized in partnership with the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, with additional support from Maimonides Health Center of Virginia Beach. Speaking at the concert, Naomi Limor Sedek, president and CEO of Tidewater Jewish Foundation, said, “I would like to recognize Gabi Kocerha, who worked from conception to implementation on the vision for this unity concert bringing so many collaborative partners to the table on behalf of B’nai Israel Congregation as well as her committee of dedicated volunteers.”

release of the hostages. Plus, they taught the crowd how to beatbox.

People gathered and united for an afternoon with friends, families, and extended community to celebrate being Jewish. The Shawarma, which was available at the concession stand, and a rock wall that was climbed by children before, during, and after the concert, added to the festive atmosphere.

to write their thoughts and share their opinions. The adults’ first reaction tended to be that they “needed to think about it.”

The youngest, who didn’t know how to write, made pictures of the Jerusalem stone and tried their best to make the shape of Israel.

connect and the courage to support and take action.”

Community is “togetherness.”

A recurring theme emerged:

The Maccabeats, an a cappella group originally formed in 2007 as Yeshiva University’s student vocal group, began with a traditional Jewish song, Am Yisrael Chai. They also sang about Hanukkah and Purim, and the Acheinu prayer for the

Outside of the ‘concert hall,’ attendees were attracted to a small station comprised of two screens, each with a prompt. One said, “I am proud to be a Jew because…” and the other, “Community means…” Everyone had the opportunity to write their response to the prompt on a sticky note and post it on the screen.

Initially, it was the children who jumped at the chance

Older children wrote: “I am proud to be a Jew because I get to learn two languages,” “My BFF and I get to learn Hebrew.” They wrote about community –meaning that they love everyone and being one big family. They wrote they were proud to be Jews and that “we have the Torah and the mitzvot.” They summed up community in one Hebrew word: Achdus, the Hebrew word for unity or unification. Eventually, the adults started to participate. They wrote that community is “Everything.” It “gives my children the ability to question, to discover the resources to

“We are proud to be Jews because we are HaShem’s chosen people, an Am segulah (a unique people).” “We are unified through our love of G-d and our connection to the holidays and Shabbat.”

“We enjoy getting to know more Jews and learning about their traditions, as well as sharing meals together with so much food. When Shabbat is over, we honor its completion with Havdalah.”

“This afternoon’s concert is a testament to what we can accomplish when we gather in joy and celebration,” said Limor Sedek. “The Maccabeats, with their harmonies and heartfelt melodies, remind us of the power of music to inspire and connect us. They show us that Jewish pride is something to sing about—a light to share with the world. In times like these, when our Jewish pride may sometimes be tested or questioned, the community becomes a beacon of light and hope. It’s here that we find belonging, purpose, and resilience.”

Shalom, Tzvi, and Aharon Markman with the Maccabeats.

Maccabeats perform at the Sandler Family Campus.

More than 450 people attended.

Community members contribute to a conversation about being Jewish.

JFS celebrates employees and 30th anniversary of the PAM program

Brooke Rush

Jewish Family Service of Tidewater recently hosted an Employee Appreciation event, honoring the dedication and long-standing service of its staff and highlighting a landmark anniversary for both the agency and one of its most impactful programs.

This year marks the 30th anniversary of JFS’s Personal Affairs Management program, a unique and essential initiative that has grown into a statewide model of care and advocacy for vulnerable adults. At the center of this milestone is Dorothy Salomonsky, PAM’s program director, who was also celebrated for her 30 years of service with JFS.

Salomonsky founded the PAM program in 1995 with the support of Harry Graber, then JFS executive director. What began as a small-scale service has grown exponentially under Salomonsky’s compassionate and visionary leadership. Today, the PAM program serves more than 1,700 clients across the Commonwealth of Virginia, providing guardianship, conservatorship, and case management services for adults deemed incapacitated and unable to care for themselves.

The PAM program was created in response to the increasing exploitation, neglect, and abuse of elderly and vulnerable individuals throughout the community. Many clients, declared incapacitated by the courts, were found in tragic circumstances—abandoned, exploited, or simply forgotten. PAM became their safety net. Recognized by the Governor’s Advisory Council on Aging as a Model Program, PAM ensures that every individual receives the dignity, advocacy, and oversight they deserve.

The event also honored the long-standing commitment of several other JFS team members:

• Lloyd Clements, PAM clinical director – 25 years

• Irina Kvitko, insurance and billing coordinator – 25 years

• Nikcole Gerhardt, community and client relations manager – 20 years

• Debbie Lubaton, banking and benefits supervisor – 15 years

• Brenda Parson, trusts & assets assistant – 15 years

• Gail Andrews, administrative assistant – 15 years

• Cara Vickers, state hospital relations manager – 15 years

• Diaka Keita, guardian representative – 10 years

• Regina Riddick, guardian representative – 10 years

• Lisa Hood, guardian representative – 5 years

• Fletcher Neville, human resources director – 5 years

These anniversaries represent more than just time served—they reflect the enduring commitment of a team that works tirelessly every day to uphold the JFS mission of compassion, care, and justice.

JFS staff go above and beyond throughout the year, providing critical services to some of the region’s most vulnerable individuals. Whether managing complex client needs, navigating court systems, coordinating care, or advocating for those without a voice, the JFS team stands as a beacon of support and humanity.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

Ohef Sholom Temple’s Sisterhood Rummage Sale

Friday, August 15 and Sunday, August 17, 9 am – 2 pm

Jewelry, Judaica, artwork, and picture frames are just a few of the categories of items that will be available at Ohef Sholom Temple’s Sisterhood Rummage Sale. Linens, furniture, hobby-related items, books, movies, and so much more are already packing the shelves for the sale.

Donations are still being accepted for the sale, which always is filled with surprising merchandise.

Cash and credit only.

For additional information, contact Ellen R. Hundley at erhundley2010@gmail.com.

Dorothy Salomonsky, Lloyd Clements, Kelly Burroughs, and Andrei Niazdoimin.

Six-week

Hebrew Course Aims to Bring the Language to life

Tuesdays

August 12September 16

5:30 pm

Sandler Family Campus

The Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater is offering Hebrew for Beginners – An Introductory Course, to give students the essential tools to read and write in Hebrew. Taught by Rabbi Ari Oliszewski of Temple Emanuel, this new six-week course is for those just starting out or anyone who wants to brush up on the basics.

Classes will focus on interactive, practical learning, helping participants build foundational skills in a welcoming and supportive environment. Whether preparing for deeper Jewish study, planning a trip to Israel, or simply interested in connecting more fully with Jewish heritage, this course is a meaningful first step.

Rabbi Ari brings a warm and inclusive teaching style shaped by his diverse experiences as a rabbi in Brazil and his education from the Seminario Rabinico Latino Americano and Haifa University. Guided by the belief that tradition must meet the modern world, he helps learners approach Hebrew not just as a language, but as a living connection to Jewish life and identity.

The course is $28 for JCC members and $36 for nonmembers.

To learn more or register for this course or other Konikoff Center for Learning classes and programs, visit JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation at SLautman@ujft.org.

Bagels & Balance: A Positive Parenting Series with Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz

Thursdays

July 24 and 31 and

August 7,

8:30 am Sandler Family Campus, Free

Sierra

Lautman

The Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater invites parents to Bagels & Balance: A Positive Parenting Series, a three-part morning mini-series designed to nourish both body and spirit.

Over breakfast and coffee, Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz will lead thoughtful conversations on how to build strong, healthy, and lasting relationships with their children. Each session will focus on a core theme of positive parenting, including understanding the parent-child dynamic, effective communication, and positive discipline.

Rabbi Kravetz brings more than a decade of experience in education and family support. As Head of School at Toras Chaim, he works with students and families across all stages of development and is known for his warm, personalized approach to parenting guidance.

Breakfast begins at 8:30 am, and discussions start at 9 am.

For more information or to register for this course or another class or program offered by the Konikoff Center for Learning, visit JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@ujft.org.

Pavers available for JMCC’s garden

David Goodman

The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center is selling pavers to honor loved ones who have passed away or those who have perished in the Holocaust.

The pavers will be placed in the garden adjacent to the museum where thousands of daffodils have been planted. In the fall of 2022, The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center introduced The Daffodil Project to Hampton Roads. The goal of The Daffodil Project is to plant 1.5 million daffodils worldwide to remember the 1.5 million children who lost their lives in the Holocaust, as well as to recognize children everywhere who are victims of violence. A list of children’s names who perished in the Holocaust is available at the museum for those who would like to buy a paver to honor the life of one of these children.

The daffodil was selected because the flower’s yellow color symbolizes the armbands Jews were forced to wear during the Holocaust, and the petals represent the six points of the Star of David. These flowers are recognized as symbols of hope and encourage the world to “Never Forget.”

Daffodils for this project have been planted on Portsmouth municipal property, as well as at several Portsmouth churches, Norfolk synagogues, the Sandler Family Campus, The Moses Meyers House, and the Norfolk Botanical Garden.

The Eastern-European-designed Orthodox synagogue, Chevra Thelim, built more than 100 years ago, is the home of the Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. The museum needs Tidewater’s Jewish community’s help to preserve its existence. Aside from Toras Chaim, which operates in Gomley Chesed’s old building, the museum is the only surviving Jewish presence in Portsmouth. To visit the museum, call and arrange a tour.

Pavers are $144 each and can be purchased online at www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org. After accessing the website, click on the Daffodil Project tab and then click Donate to Friends of Chevra Thelim.

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CALENDAR

CALENDAR

JULY 16, WEDNESDAY

JCC Seniors Club learns Mizrahi Dance with Jackie Dratch. The Seniors Club, for adults 55+, meets the third Wednesday each month. Membership $15 per year. 12 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: www.jewishva.org..

JULY 17, THURSDAY

The Tzofim Friendship Caravan’s Community Performance. Israeli teens bring the spirit of Israel and the Israeli Scouts to life through music, dance, and personal stories. Presented as part of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, the Simon Family JCC, and Community Partners’ 15th Annual Israel Today Series. 5:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/Friendship or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

JULY 20, SUNDAY

Ohef Sholom Summer Pool Party. Join OST for a splash-tastic summer pool party. Poolside Mah Jongg, family games, and refreshing drinks. Optional sandwich box orders available for purchase. 5 – 7 pm. Simon Family JCC. Information and registration: Rebecca Sitrin at rebecca@ohefsholom.org or 757-625-4295.

JULY 21, MONDAY

JCC Book Club discusses Ethel Rosenberg: An American Tragedy by Anne Sebba. Book Club meets the third Monday of each month. Open to the community in-person or Zoom. 1:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org.

BEGINNING JULY 24, THURSDAYS

Bagels and Balance: A Positive Parenting Series. This 3-part mini-series, led by Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz, will discuss positive parenting and how to develop strong, healthy, and enduring relationships with children, guiding them towards independence. Breakfast and coffee: 8:30 am; discussion: 9 am. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@Ujft.org.

YAD Happy Hour. Unwind, connect, and build community with other young Jewish adults, ages 21-45-ish. First round of appetizers provided by YAD. Free. 6 – 8 pm. Location available after registration. Information and registration: Amy Zelenka at azelenka@ujft.org or 757-965-6139.

JULY 30, WEDNESDAY

Pianist Francesca Hurst presents Reflections, a program featuring various composers from traditional, classical Japanese Haiku, nocturnes, and jazz. $30. 7:30 – 9:30 pm. The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. Information and tickets: Jennifer Priest at jmccportsmouth@ gmail.com or 757-391-9266 or jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.

AUGUST 1, FRIDAY

Active Adult Birthday Celebration. Celebrate community birthdays for those 55+, every Friday through December 31. 1 - 3 pm. Simon Family JCC.

Shabbat Shenanigans at Temple Israel. A monthly event for children 12 and younger and their families. Kid-friendly kosher dinner and activities, 6 – 6:30 pm. Family-focused Shabbat service, 6:30 – 7 pm. Membership not required. Free. Information and registration: Megan Lord at templeisraelva1954@gmail.com or 757-489-4550.

AUGUST 5, TUESDAY

Yiddish Club –Embrace Yiddish culture, language, and history through music, film, poetry, and literature. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: www. Jewishva.org/YiddishClub.

AUGUST 6, WEDNESDAY

The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center presents the Trio Niche (violin, cello, and fortepiano) performing The Music of Jefferson’s White House. This fortepiano trio formed from seasoned baroque musicians, brings historical sensibility to repertoire from the turn of the 19th century. Dessert reception following concert. $30. 7:30 – 9:30 pm. Information and tickets: jmccportsmouth@gmail.com or 757-391-9266 or purchase tickets at jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.

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VIRGINIA BEACH - Beril Macy Abraham, 87, died June 16, 2025. Born in Norfolk, he was the son of the late Fred Abraham and Sarah Ferstman Abraham.

Beril was married for 62 years to his dear wife Barbara. He was an attorney who enjoyed practicing in the Tidewater area and a proud graduate of the University of Virginia and UVA Law School. During his younger years, he was on the board and several committees of Congregation Beth El in Norfolk.

Beril was a passionate golfer and avid reader, and a devoted Washington Nationals fan. He enjoyed spending time with family, including grandchildren, grand-nieces, and nephews.

Survivors include his wife Barbara, his sons Brian (Corrin) and Jules (Dana), and his grandchildren Alec, Izzy, and Jake, as well as his sister-in-law Shirley Levine Handelsman.

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Norfolk chapel of H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments. Burial was at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk. Contributions in memory of Beril should be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Germaine Clair

NORFOLK - Germaine Clair passed peacefully at home on June 13, 2025, after a battle with cancer. She approached her disease as she did everything in life: with dignity and courage. She was a very young 73.

Born in Pittsburgh, Germaine found her way to Norfolk as a young woman, put herself through college, earning a BFA from Old Dominion University, and soon established herself as a significant graphic designer and community advocate. She was warm, generous, elegant, graceful, spirited, and unforgettable to her circle of family and friends.

She met her best friend, soulmate, and husband, Brooks Johnson, 43 years ago, settling into life together as ardent supporters of the Stockley Gardens Arts Festival,

programs for people with disabilities, and animal welfare organizations, especially the Wildlife Center of Virginia in Waynesboro. Attending Bald Eagle releases were her favorite event. She loved these birds for their magnificence and lifelong bond: Eagles mate for life.

So, too, Germaine and Brooks. From the day they met, they supported each other fully in their individual endeavors. No one ever saw an eye roll or heard an unkind word. The two embarked on a home renovation, creating a sophisticated, contemporary interior in an old 1901 Norfolk home to showcase their photographs collected around the world from both established and emerging art photographers. They immersed in cultural experiences through travels to Paris and New York often, but also to Japan, Alaska, Canada, Italy, Germany, Portugal, the Great Lakes, and, recently, Egypt.

Among friends, Germaine set the bar for “hip,” with fashion and accessories, most particularly remembered for her signature black, white, and red, and her favorite zebra, leopard, and cheetah prints. She accessorized with her own jewelry designs. Friends recall her walking through the Stockley Gardens show with a bouquet of peacock feathers. Even sick, she wore makeup to receive friends. She was always “on her game.”

Professionally, she produced books and catalogues for the Chrysler Museum of Art and other independent art books, collaborating with Bulfinch Press, Boston; W.W. Norton & Company, Aperture and Takarajima Books, New York. For 18 years, she art directed Jewish News for the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, and selflessly produced pro-bono designs for her favorite causes. She also worked briefly for Bebe in Norfolk, the store brand synonymous with fashion trends of the late 1990s and early 2000s. She set high expectations for her life and expected that of others.

In addition to Brooks, her passing leaves an enormous void in the hearts of her daughter, Megan Chermer Dombroski, of Rochester, N.Y., and grandchildren Evan and Eden; her brother, Bruce C. Brickner (Brenda), nephew Jeremy Brickner (Sophia) and Kelly Dunn (Andrew), of Pittsburgh; brother-in-law Page S. Johnson, Virginia Beach; sister-in-law Rebecca J. Lydens, Chesapeake, as well as many, many friends.

She was predeceased by parents Gilbert and Lois Brickner.

Per her wishes, a private celebration of life is scheduled at a later date. Memorial contributions can be made to Hope House Foundation and the Elizabeth River Project.

Jane Leterman Frieden

NORFOLK - Jane Leterman Frieden, born in Norfolk, Virginia, on September 19, 1928, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 24, 2025, at the age of 96.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband of nearly 76 years, Leonard S. (“Lenny”) Frieden; her parents, Jack and Louise Leterman; her cherished sister and best friend, Barbara Leterman Fletcher; and her great-nephew, Jeffrey Spindel.

A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, Jane lived a life centered on love, family, community, and compassion. She is survived by her loving children, Jack Frieden (Jodie), Bruce Frieden (Jeannie), and Cat Frieden Lineberry (Charlie); eight grandchildren, Jessica Frieden Shultz (Brian), Laura Frieden Gibbons (Jonathan), Katie Frieden Moss (Joe), Anna Frieden Schabacker (Brandon), Chris Lineberry (Lynne), Cate Lineberry (Tim), David Lineberry (Alyson), and Jeff Lineberry (Lizzy); and 10 great-grandchildren, including the newest addition, Vivienne Isabel Moss, born in April 2025. Jane was so grateful to be present at Vivienne’s birth—one of the greatest joys of her life—and holding baby “Vivie” filled her heart with pure happiness.

Affectionately known as Mum, Grandmum and GiGi, Jane will be remembered for her radiant warmth, her fierce devotion to family, her quick wit, and her ability to show up with love and loyalty in both joyful and difficult times. Her marriage to Lenny, which spanned nearly eight decades, was a living testament to their loving and enduring partnership.

A proud Norfolk native, Jane graduated from Highland Manor Junior College in New Jersey and later worked for John Hancock Insurance and The Frieden Agency for 17 years, alongside her husband and two sons and many other family members.

Jane was a lifelong member of Ohef Sholom Temple. Her community service endeavors included serving on the board of the Florence Crittenton Home for unwed

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mothers, volunteering as a “Pink Lady” at DePaul Hospital, and tutoring children with reading challenges at Granby Elementary.

Jane had a rare gift for making others feel truly known and valued. She embraced family and friends alike with warmth, curiosity, and genuine acceptance. With an open heart, she offered friendship without boundaries—welcoming all, regardless of race, religion, or circumstance. Her grace, sincerity, and compassion left others feeling deeply understood and unconditionally loved.

Their house in Corolla Light was Jane and Lenny’s dream come true, and Jane’s warmth made it a place of laughter, love, and lasting memories and friendships that will be forever treasured.

Animals were another source of deep affection. Jane rescued many beloved family pets over the years—long before “rescue” became a common term—and passed that same love of all things furry on to her children and grandchildren.

The family wishes to acknowledge Jane’s cherished relationship with Madeleine Jordan, her hairdresser and dear friend of more than 60 years. Their weekly visits, which continued up until Jane’s passing, were a treasured constant, full of warmth, laughter, and love and meant the world to Jane.

A memorial service led by Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg took place at Ohef Sholom Temple. A private burial was held prior to the service.

The family kindly requests donations be made to one of the following organizations: Ohef Sholom Temple, Norfolk SPCA, and Duke University Cancer Center.

Harriet Yvette

Golombek

VIRGINIA BEACH - Harriet Yvette Golombek, 79, passed away in Chesapeake, Virginia on June 27, 2025.

She was born to Maurice and Sadie Lazarus in 1946 in Norfolk, Va. She met her husband, Steven Golombek, in college at Old Dominion University. They had a wonderful 53 years of marriage together.

Harriet was a life-long animal lover. She was a member of the Greyhound Adoption Association in the 1990s and adopted many pets over the years, totaling over 32 dogs and cats.

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and by her brother, Lewis Lazarus. Harriet is survived by her husband, Steven; daughter, Jennifer Henahan; daughter, Stacey Golombek; and by her granddaughter, Morgan Henahan.

A graveside service was conducted by Rabbi Dr. Michael Panitz at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens. Memorial donations may be made to an animal charity of the donor’s choice.

Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

Dr. Barry L. Kurzer

MIDLOTHIAN - Dr. Barry L. Kurzer, retired Chesterfield dentist, died on June 25, 2025, during a diagnostic heart procedure, following several years of heart problems.

Dr. Kurzer graduated from the University of Richmond in 1974 and from the Medical College of Virginia School of Dentistry in 1978. He practiced dentistry in Richmond and Chesterfield from 1978 to 2015, serving thousands of patients. He was a member of the Virginia Dental Association and the American Dental Association. He was a member of Temple Beth Ahabah in Richmond, Virginia.

Barry was born in Norfolk, Va. on February 28, 1952. He attended Granby High School and worked at the naval shipyard to help put himself through college.

He was a wonderful, loving family man who enjoyed reading, photography, birding, fishing with his many friends, and walks with Paddington and the “dog dads” of Woodlake. He was an avid conservationist, especially in the Sandbridge area. He was a current board member and past treasurer of the Back Bay National Wildlife Refuge Society and won the

Volunteer of the Year Award in 2023.

Dr. Kurzer was preceded in death by his father, Samuel Louis Kurzer; his mother, Minnie Cohen Kurzer; and his sister, Elaine Graves. He is survived by his wife of over 45 years, Dr. Lisa Lynne Syrop; his son, Jacob Kurzer; and cousins Alan Kurzer, Ben Kozak, Ellen Federman, Joanne Goldstein, Steve Kurzer, Ellen Eisenberg, and Beverly Frieden. He was a beloved and caring brother-in-law and uncle to many generations of his family including Evelyn Jonas and her husband R. Kirk Jonas; nephew Kevin Jonas and his wife Blair Jonas and children Autumn and Charlie; niece Wendy Imura, and her husband, Yusuke Imura and sons, Taiga and Raigo; Dr. Craig Syrop and his wife, Dr. Anne Sadler; Roger Richardson and his wife Elizabeth Richardson; niece Lauren Richardson; niece Erin Carver, and her husband, Ashby Carver and their children, Lucy and Henry, and Mary Ryan Kreiger and her husband Bill Kreiger and their children, Grey and Jane.

The family received visitors at Woody Funeral Home. A memorial service was held in the chapel at Woody Funeral Home with Rabbi Scott M. Nagel presiding. A reception followed. A private inurnment of ashes at Beth Ahabah Cemetery will be held at a date to be determined.

Donations can be made to the Back Bay National Wildlife Refuge Society: Back Bay National Wildlife Refuge Society, 1324 Sandbridge Rd. Virginia Beach, VA 23456

Burke W. Margulies

VIRGINIA BEACH - It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Burke W. Margulies, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and esteemed attorney,

whose life was marked by unwavering dedication to his family, profession, and community.

After earning his law degree, Mr. Margulies began his legal career as a Trust Officer at two local banks, where he managed estates and trusts. In the mid-1970s, he joined a predecessor firm of Pender & Coward, where he would spend the remainder of his distinguished legal career. A specialist in trusts, estate administration, property law, and estate planning, Burke’s integrity and leadership left a lasting impact on the firm and the legal community. He served six terms as CEO of Pender & Coward, a testament to his guidance and respect among his peers.

Beyond his legal work, Burke was deeply committed to serving the broader community. He received the 1998 NorfolkPortsmouth Bar Association Pro Bono Award and the 2003 Virginia Beach Bar Association’s Community Service Award. A highly respected figure in his field, he was recognized multiple times by Super Lawyers Magazine, Hampton Roads Magazine, and included in the 2018–2025 editions of Best Lawyers in America and Top Lawyers of Coastal Virginia. He was designated an Accredited Estate Planner by the NAEPC and was a member of The Order of Marshall-Wythe, celebrating the 50th anniversary of his law school graduation.

Mr. Margulies was deeply involved in civic life. He served as chairman of both the Virginia Beach Community Trust and the Virginia Beach Trust for Persons with Psychiatric Disabilities and was one of three trustees of the Ames Charitable Foundation. He also helped to establish and served more than three decades as a trustee of the Chesapeake Assistance

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Trust. In 2024, he was added to the Pro Bono Service Honor Roll by the Virginia Access to Justice Commission of the Virginia Bar.

Burke was the loving and devoted husband of 35 years to Vivian, and a cherished father to Shelley (Marcus) Gordon, Michael (Meghan) Margulies, Stephen (Elizabeth) Glick, and Lori (Jake) Pasternak. Known affectionately as “Papa Burke,” he was adored by his grandchildren Levi, Zoe, Quinn, Lexi, and Zev, each of whom brought immense joy to his life.

He is survived by his brothers Dr. Alfred (Bonnie) Margulies and Richard (Karen) Margulies, sister-in-law Sharon Margulies, and stepsister Mrs. Beverlee Tiger. He was predeceased by his brother Stephen Margulies and by his beloved parents, Irving and Sarah Lou Margulies.

Burke W. Margulies lived a life grounded in purpose, generosity, and wisdom. He leaves behind a powerful legacy of legal excellence, selfless service, and deep familial love. He will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

A memorial service took place at Ohef Sholom Temple followed by a reception.

In keeping with his lifelong commitment to service and compassion, the family requests that donations be made in Burke’s memory to the Virginia Beach Trust for Psychiatrically Challenged, Make-A-WishFoundation or Virginia Beach Community Trust, organizations close to his heart.

May his memory be a blessing.

Isadore “Izzy” Meizlik

VIRGINIA BEACH - Isadore “Izzy” Meizlik, 84, passed away on June 20, 2025.

Born in Brooklyn, N. Y., Izzy was a proud Jewish man and a retired NYPD police officer.

He was married to his beloved wife, Mary Cornwell, for 47 years. She was his life partner and constant companion. Izzy is survived by Mary, his stepson Ron Cornwell, and a host of extended family and friends.

Izzy loved playing golf—he was a dedicated member of Honey Bee Golf Club and played the game he loved up until his final day.

He was a great man—steady, kind, and deeply respected by all who knew him.

Memorial contributions may be made in Izzy’s honor to the American Cancer Society.

Arrangements are in the care of Altmeyer Funeral Home – Southside Chapel. To share a memory or leave condolences, visit www.altmeyerfh.com.

Dolly Pachter

VIRGINIA BEACH - Ethel Jane “Dolly” Pachter (nee Rothbart) passed away peacefully on June 17, 2025.

The moment after delivering her on October 10, 1924, their devoted family physician said, “That’s our Dolly.” The name stuck.

Having lived beyond 100 years, her spirit—filled with light and grace—is at rest.

Mrs. Pachter was preceded in death by her mother, Helen (nee Poll) Rothbart/ Rosenbaum, her father, Edward Rothbart, and her brother, Michael Rothbart. She is survived by her three beloved children, Rosalyn Pachter, Dr. Abbey Pachter, and Ralph Pachter (Sandi), adored grandchildren Madeline Szul (Scotty), Amy Hooper (Dan), and Samantha Prendergast (Sam), six amusing great grandchildren, and her well-loved personal attendant, Adrienne Young, who kept Dolly laughing during her waning years.

Dolly was a native Chicagoan through her early adult years. She loved literature, poetry, and French, lettered in basketball, and graduated from Faulkner High School. During World War II, she worked as an aide with her girlfriends at Cook County Hospital’s “bedpan brigade,” which afforded her rare gasoline coupons. Dolly supported the USO by “rolling bandages” with her mother. After the war, she worked for a railroad company and at her father’s corporate law practice.

Meeting a dynamic young man named Louis Pachter changed all that, and in 1947 they were married and moved to Miller Beach in Gary, Indiana. Dolly was “a good sport” about moving to the “country.” Louis built them a beautiful custom house on Lake Michigan where they raised their children. He said, “Dolly made it our home.”

Dolly and Louis were a match made in heaven. The couple loved to entertain, made many life-long friends, travelled the world, and enjoyed the fun and pace of family life.

In Gary, her philanthropic endeavors included raising record-breaking donations in 1957 as chair of the Mother’s March of Dimes polio vaccine drive—over a quarter

million in today’s dollars. She was president of the Temple Israel Sisterhood and demonstrated living a Jewish life to their children.

After they had grown, Dolly and Louis moved back to Chicago to a bespoke condo overlooking the lake. Dolly was back in her element absorbing the culture, food, and beauty of the city while maximizing time with her family.

Dolly and Louis were foils for each other—the sum of them together was always greater than the two strong individuals. Deeply respectful and playful love was easy to see between them, and they shared 66 adventurous years of marriage before Louis passed away in November 2013.

Dolly was busy in the ensuing years keeping up with her extended family and making new friends across several generations. Her kindness, patience, generosity, and caring kept her in the loop of so many lives.

Dolly exuded class and had flawless style. She was a great listener and confidant and possessed an understated sense of humor with great comedic timing. The guidance she provided to family and friends always exemplified her selfless concern for others. Finding ways to help people and staying in tune to the world around her made her later years rich and fulfilling.

Dolly had the rare qualities of being genuine and authentic. She was special to all who knew her—they often mentioned how much she meant to them. Love, loyalty, integrity, family, and a quiet strength defined the arc of her life. We mourn the loss of this wonderful woman’s remarkable life and revel in the memories of our time with her.

Donations may be made to a charity of the donor’s choice. Alternatively, remember Dolly with “a random act of kindness” to reflect her spirit and perpetual grace.

Delle Elaine Rayner

CLEVELAND, OHIO - Delle Elaine Rayner, aged 75, passed away on July 3, 2025. She was born and raised in Cleveland, Ohio to Irv and Zerda Malikin. The Malkin family had three children, including Delle’s brothers Greg and Robert.

Delle is survived by her two children, Howard “Hal” (Heather) Lange of San Diego and Leah (Michael) Hadley of Parma. She was the proud grandmother

of Harrison “Alex” and Hanna “Aurora” Lange as well as Jeremiah, Sonya, and Christopher Villalobos. Her legacy of kindness, quiet resilience, and love for her family will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Delle received a BA from Ohio State and an MBA from Xavier University. She spent most of her career working as an accountant and retired as the Director of Financial Aid for Sanford Brown College. Delle was a member of the Cleveland Museum of Art, the Maltz Museum of Jewish Heritage, and the Cleveland Botanical Gardens. She was a strong believer in life-long learning and generously shared her time and expertise volunteering with the Cleveland Metropark, the Parma Animal Shelter, and the Institute for Learning in Retirement at Baldwin Wallace College.

A graveside funeral took place at Workmen’s Circle Cemetery in Parma, Ohio. Contributions in Ms. Rayner’s honor can be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital (www.stjude.org).

Jacklyn Flum Richels

VIRGINIA BEACH - With profound sadness and deep love, we announce the passing of Jacklyn Flum Richels, who died on June 22, 2025, at the age of 78.

Born on May 16, 1947, Jackie was the heart of her family as a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and treasured friend. She shared nearly 60 beautiful years of marriage with her beloved husband, Benn Lewis Richels, who passed just three months earlier. Their enduring partnership was a remarkable testament to love, faith, and shared purpose.

Jackie lived a life defined by grace, strength, and unwavering devotion to those she loved. She cherished her role as a mother to Elise and Asher Wolf, David and Natalie Richels, and Ira and Ellen Richels. She was the proud grandmother of 11 and great-grandmother to 14, each of whom brought her immeasurable joy and were nurtured by her wisdom, warmth, and gentle guidance.

Throughout her life, Jackie stood faithfully with Benn. Together, they were pillars of B’nai Israel Congregation, active members of their community, and true partners in every sense, where Jackie’s quiet

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strength and boundless compassion left a lasting mark.

She found joy in every moment spent with family and friends, whether through meaningful conversations, sending heartfelt cards, sharing stories of generations past, or preserving family traditions. Time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren was her greatest pride and delight.

Jackie will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by her sister Sheri, her brother Henry and his wife Anthula, and her brother and sister-in-law Richard and Clare Richels, along with countless other friends and family. Her presence enriched the lives of all who knew her, and her legacy is one of enduring love, faith, and devotion.

A graveside service took place at B’nai Israel Cemetery.

Albert Charles Selkin

NORFOLK - Albert Charles Selkin died peacefully at home on June 26, 2025, at the age of 83.

He was a graduate of Granby High School, Old Dominion University, and the University of Virginia Law School. Albert was a dedicated and well-respected attorney and a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and brother. He is survived by his beloved wife of 59 years, Robbie; his daughter, Michele Sotkin; his son, Brandt Selkin; his brother, Howard Selkin; and his grandchildren, Alexi and Reid Sotkin.

Albert was a lover of the arts and a sports enthusiast, but his greatest loves were his family and many friends.

There was a private memorial service. Donations can be made in Albert’s memory to Temple Israel.

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Annette Charlotte Spivak

VIRGINIA BEACH - Annette “Honey” Spivak passed away peacefully on June 15, 2025.

Born January 23, 1933, in Chelsea, Massachusetts, Honey lived to bring joy, love, comfort, compassion, and kindness to the people in her world, the Jewish value of “tikkun olam.” Honey’s life’s journey was focused on family, friends, and faith. This was reflected in her marriage of 67 years to Dr. Maurice Spivak and her devotion to her children and grandchildren.

An outstanding student, Honey

attended both the University of Maine and Brandeis University before her marriage. She was an avid reader who also enjoyed painting, theater, music, and the culinary arts. She delighted her students, children, and grandchildren with her storytelling, singing and playful nature.

Honey’s proud profession was homemaker. But, over the years, she also worked in a variety of positions that allowed her to keep close to home. These ranged from Montessori teacher, independent baker, professional gourmet ice cream maker, Avon lady, and Tupperware saleswoman.

Honey was very connected to Jewish faith and values. For many years, she was a member of Temple Israel in Norfolk and enjoyed Jewish social groups such as Brith Sholom and JCC Seniors. She was a lifelong student of Jewish history and literature, comparative religions, and archeology.

In 1979, with the signing of the Camp David Accords, events conspired to give Honey her lifelong dream of living in the Jewish homeland. In the peace agreement, the State of Israel agreed to return the Sinai Peninsula to Egypt. Dr. Spivak was selected senior engineer for the massive infrastructure transition, and in 1980, the couple moved to Israel. During this time, Honey studied archeology at Tel Aviv University.

Honey is preceded in death by her beloved husband Maurice “Murray” Spivak; her parents, Mack and Esther Mann; and her brother, Richard Mann. She is survived by her loving children, Michelle Spivak Melinger (Joseph Melinger), Myra Spivak and Jonah Spivak (Karen Takane); her cherished grandchildren, David Lessans (Mallory Lessans), Aaron P. Kelley, Ari Melinger-Cohen, Emily LaPane (Christina LaPane), Asher Spivak, Miranda Spivak, and Eden Melinger; and her great-grandson, Merlin Ostrom. She leaves behind many dear extended family members and beloved friends who will forever hold her memory in their hearts.

A funeral service was held at Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel with Rabbi Dr. Michael Panitz officiating. Memorial contributions in Honey’s memory should be directed to Temple Israel, Norfolk or by going to www.tmcfunding.com.

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Dr. Stanley Weinstein

CHESAPEAKE - Dr. Stan Weinstein passed away peacefully in his sleep at home surrounded by loved ones on June 10, 2025, after a lifetime of meaningful impact on family, friends, mentees, colleagues, strangers, everyone who met him, and, of course, Mathematics.

His legacy will live on in his family – his loving wife of 25 years Elaine Comess, his daughter Victoria Cash, his

grandchildren Ethan Cash and Jordan Cash, his extended family, cousins, nieces, friends, and countless students who generally thought he was the greatest professor ever and/or hardest professor ever. He will be known for all of this, plus his amazing wit, dad jokes, support, love, his racketball trophies back in the day, the Downtown Racketball Club (later the Downtown Athletic Club, now the Norva), his extensive knowledge of random trivia about all sorts of subjects, his love of sports, family and traveling.

His absence will be profound, and his memory shall be of a blessing.

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