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Antisemitism in U.S.

Anti-Jewish hate crimes reach record high in the U.S., according to FBI

Grace Gilson

(JTA) — Hate crimes against Jews in the United States reached an all-time high in 2024, accounting for 70% of all religiously motivated hate crimes, according to FBI data.

The new FBI report released Tuesday, August 5 found that hate crimes against Jews accounted for over 17% of all reported hate crimes in the United States in 2024, marking a 16% rise from 1,998 anti-Jewish hate crimes in 2023 to 2,321 in 2024.

More than half of the incidents were related to vandalism, with “intimidation” the second-largest category. But about 200 were assaults of varying degrees, and 260 of the total incidents took place in synagogues.

The new data set adds to others showing that the number of antisemitic incidents has continued to rise since Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023, attack on Israel. The Anti-Defamation League’s annual audit recorded 9,354 antisemitic incidents across the country in 2024, marking a 5% increase from the previous year and a new all-time high for the group. (The group’s tally includes both criminal and non-criminal incidents.)

“The record-high number of anti-Jewish hate crime incidents tracked by the FBI in 2024 is consistent with ADL’s reporting and, more importantly, with the Jewish community’s current lived experience,” ADL CEO Jonathan Greenblatt said. “Since the Hamas-led Oct. 7 massacre in Israel, Jewish Americans have not had a moment of respite.”

The FBI’s report does not stipulate how many of the antiJewish hate crimes were convicted in court and also did not include statistics for some major cities that do not report hate crimes.

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‘Death to the IDF’ grafﬁti and arson outside St. Louis soldier’s home

Philissa Cramer

(JTA) — Police in Clayton, Missouri, are investigating after finding what they said was “antisemitic graffiti” alongside three cars that were set on fire in the St. Louis neighborhood.

The street was graffitied with the phrase “Death to the IDF.” The police department said it believed that the victim was “specifically targeted” and it was investigating the incident as a hate crime.

According to public records, the block is home to a family whose son recently completed two years in the IDF and has spoken in the area about his service in Gaza and Lebanon. At least one public appearance was targeted by protesters.

Six major Jewish organizations in St. Louis condemned the arson incident in a joint statement.

“This is more than vandalism,” they said. “It is a hateful act of intimidation and only the latest example of what happens when antisemitic and anti-Israel rhetoric are normalized.”

Jordan Kadosh, the local director of the Anti-Defamation League, says that he saw the incident as an inevitable outgrowth of messaging used in pro-Palestinian protests.

“When you hear somebody say, ‘globalize the intifada’ this is what it looks like,” he said. “It looks like burned out cars on suburban streets on America. This is not confined. When somebody says they want to take this fight to Jews around the world they mean everywhere.”

The phrase “Death to the IDF,” meanwhile, has grown more prominent in pro-Palestinian demonstrations; crowds chanted it at recent concerts in England and Australia.

The incident in Clayton marks a rarer example of such incidents in the United States.

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BRIEFS

Gallup poll: Americans’ support for Israel in Gaza plummets to record low

Just a third of Americans say they now support Israel’s actions in Gaza, and almost all of them are Republicans, a new poll finds.

The poll by Gallup is the latest in a series by the polling firm about U.S. attitudes about the war. Early on, in November 2023, it found that half of Americans approved of the actions Israel was taking in Gaza, and fewer disapproved. (Some said they did not know.) By last June, more Americans disapproved than approved, Gallup found, but there was still 42% approval.

Now, the proportion of Americans who say they approve of Israel’s war in Gaza has fallen to 32%, according to the poll. Among Democrats, who started out at 36% approval, the proportion has fallen to just 8%.

The proportion of Republicans who approve of Israel’s actions in Gaza is at the same level today — 71% — as it was in November 2023, Gallup found. The gap was the largest partisan divide on the issue that the poll has ever found.

The poll was conducted July 7-21, starting when Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu was in Washington, D.C., and continuing during a period when concerns about a humanitarian crisis in Gaza were simmering but had not reached their current level. The results add to mounting signs that Israel is losing the support it has long enjoyed among Democrats.

The poll also found both a plummeting approval rating for Netanyahu and sharp disapproval for Israel’s military actions in Iran among Democrats. (JTA)

In a first, Arab League countries condemn Oct. 7 attack, call on Hamas to disarm

The 22-nation Arab League has signed onto a declaration that condemns Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023 attack on Israel and calls on Hamas to disarm.

The league includes Qatar and Egypt, which have served as mediators in talks between Israel and Hamas during the subsequent war in Gaza. It also includes Turkey, which has adopted a stance of overt hostility toward Israel during the war.

The league joined the entire European Union and 17 other countries in backing the declaration at a United Nations meeting hosted by Saudi Arabia and France. The meeting’s goal included discussion of a two-state solution in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, an objective that not all Arab League states had previously endorsed.

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu opposes a two-state solution, and his government panned the U.N. confab as a form of appeasement. The United States also boycotted the meeting, held in New York.

The declaration comes amid growing signs that world leaders are increasingly willing to jolt the conflict’s quagmire in new ways. Last month, France, the United Kingdom, and Canada all said they would unilaterally recognize a Palestinian state at the U.N.

General Assembly in September, in some cases attaching conditions to their vow. (JTA)

American Jewish Committee donates $25K to Gaza church

The American Jewish Committee is giving $25,000 to the Archdiocese of New York to aid in repairs of Gaza’s Holy Family Church, which was damaged by an Israeli strike last month.

The donation is notable because it marks a rare if not unprecedented donation by a mainstream U.S. Jewish group toward Gaza Palestinians while Israel is at war in the enclave. It also responds to damage caused by Israel’s operations, which the AJC and other major Jewish groups have refrained from criticizing.

The damage to Holy Family drew widespread condemnation last month, with critics of Israel alleging that its army was attacking Christians in Gaza and that it had destroyed the enclave’s only Catholic church. The pope lamented the incident, in which three people were killed and others injured.

It soon became clear that while there was damage to the church during the July 17 incident, it was not destroyed. Israel said the damage was caused by “stray ammunition” from a nearby operation and the church was not targeted.

The AJC’s announcement of the donation notes Israel’s explanation and says the organization was seeking to demonstrate that the Jewish-Catholic alliance, which the group has sought to nurture for decades, can withstand the war.

“In the wake of this tragedy, we want to be there for Catholic partners who have been there for the Jewish people in our times of need,” the AJC’s director of interreligious affairs, Rabbi Noam Marans, said in a statement. (JTA)

Mamdani holds wide edge among Jewish voters in new NYC mayoral race poll

Zohran Mamdani leads among Jewish voters by a 17-point margin in the race to become New York’s next mayor, according to a new poll.

The survey from Zenith Research and Public Progress Solutions predicted that Mamdani would dominate all four of his opponents combined, with 50% of the vote. The Democratic nominee shifted the landscape of New York politics with his primary victory over former Gov. Andrew Cuomo in June.

The poll found that 43% of Jewish voters said they would vote for Mamdani, including 67% of Jewish voters aged 18 to 44. Cuomo trailed with 26% of Jewish voters, followed by Mayor Eric Adams with 15%.

The poll is the latest in a series to project a Mamdani win but the first to assess the attitudes of Jewish voters specifically ahead of the general election. A poll before the Democratic primary found that Mamdani was the second choice of Jewish voters at the time, behind Cuomo. Mamdani’s vocal criticism of Israel has raised

questions about his support among New York’s Jewish population, the largest outside of Israel. During the race, Mamdani has said that Israel is committing genocide in Gaza, affirmed his support for the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement against Israel and said that he would arrest Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu if he visited New York, citing the International Criminal Court’s arrest warrant.

This poll suggests that many younger, less observant Jews are not deterred by his views from planning to vote for Mamdani. Another survey found that Mamdani’s pro-Palestinian advocacy motivated a majority of his primary voters, including 83% of new voters.

The poll found that Jews over 45 and more observant Jews constituted some of the largest blocs for Cuomo and Adams — but that neither candidate could prevail in a head-to-head match against Mamdani.

Several Jewish real estate tycoons and hedge funders are forming super PACs to defeat Mamdani, who says he will raise taxes on the wealthy and corporations to fund social services. Jewish hedge funder Ricky Sandler has pledged $500,000 to tank Mamdani; Jewish billionaire Bill Ackman said he will give “hundreds of millions of dollars” to a competitor.

Many of these donors plan to consolidate funding around “anybody but Mamdani,” said Marty Burger, the Jewish chief executive of Infinite Global Real Estate Partners, in an email seen by The New York Times. But even if all Mamdani’s rivals but Cuomo dropped out, the new poll still forecasted Mamdani to win 52% to 40% in a direct matchup, with 8% undecided. (JTA)

Trump policy lets federal employees proselytize at work

The Trump administration released new guidelines for federal employees expressing their religion in the workplace, protecting activities ranging from displaying religious objects to recruiting coworkers to their religion.

The guidelines namecheck tefillin, Jewish prayer phylacteries, as an example of a religious item that federal workers may leave on their desks and use during breaks.

In a memo titled “Protecting Religious Expression in the Federal Workplace” sent by the Office of Personnel Management, the office said federal workplaces should be “a welcoming place” for employees who practice religion — or want to proselytize, within limits.

“During a break, an employee may engage another in polite discussion of why his faith is correct and why the non-adherent should re-think his religious beliefs,” the memo says before adding, “However, if the nonadherent requests such attempts to stop, the employee should honor the request.”

The new policy comes amid a concerted effort by the Trump administration to erode the separation of church and state, a goal of many on the Christian right that has drawn criticism from some Jewish groups and leaders. (JTA)

JEWISH TIDEWATER

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Nossen

In these trying times, advice from a security professional can go a long way to assuring personal and community safety in public, as well as, in private spaces. Mike Goldsmith, SCN regional security advisor, will offer a couple of easy-to-follow tips here, and in the next several issues of Jewish News.

Situational awareness, Goldsmith says, is an important part of personal security strategy. Being aware of one’s surroundings allows the possibility of detecting potential threats earlier, and “that gives us extra time to react and protect ourselves and may deter potential attackers as they generally want to take a victim by surprise, thereby reducing the chance of resistance,” says Goldsmith.

Steps to take to increase situational awareness:

• Keep your head up and eyes out. Scan your environment for potential issues.

• Do not get distracted by electronic devices. Wait until you are in a safe spot before checking your phone. Also, realize that earbuds or headphones will mask noises that might alert you to an issue.

• Have a plan. Do not dally when transitioning from one area to another. Move with purpose and direction.

As always, contact Tidewater’s SCN Regional Security Advisor, Mike Goldsmith, with any questions or concerns.

See something wrong? Report it!

Report an antisemitic incident at www.Federation.JewishVA.org/IncidentReporting

In an emergency, always call 9-1-1 first.

If online reporting is not practical, contact local law enforcement and/or the relevant suspicious activity reporting authority.

Also contact Mike Goldsmith, Tidewater’s SCN Regional Security Advisor, at MGoldsmith@ujft.org or 844-SCN-DESK.

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ISRAEL

Holocaust survivors say latest hostage videos recall their own condition 80 years ago

Philissa Cramer

(JTA) — Holocaust survivors say the hostage videos published in recent days recall for them their own torture and deprivation under the Nazis eight decades ago.

“Their bodies are painfully thin—nearly Muselmänner—their eyes terrified and vacant, their faces marked by despair and hopelessness. These images take me back to those dark days—to the hell, the hunger, the orphanhood, and the fear,” Israel Shaked said in a statement released by the International March of the Living, which brings Jewish teens to concentration camps in Europe.

Shaked, who was liberated from the Matthausen camp, was referring to the condition of Evyatar David and Rom Braslavski, young men abducted on Oct. 7, 2023, from the Nova music festival in southern Israel. In new videos, which their families authorized for publication, the men can be seen emaciated and tearful.

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David is shown digging what he says is his own grave, in a cruel echo of a tactic deployed by the Nazis.

“I know hunger up close. In the camps, we were given rations of bread and watery soup. We were so hungry, we would even eat grass if we could find it,” says Naftali Hurst, who survived Auschwitz and Buchenwald. “I remember the humiliation—the complete stripping of human dignity. I know the fear, the terror.”

The videos have sowed horror among Israelis, and they were a focus of the Saturday night rallies by Israelis who want the war brought to a close with a deal to release the remaining hostages. There are 50, including 20 thought to be alive.

“Evyatar is my little brother, a kind, gentle soul whose only ‘crime’ was celebrating at a music peace festival,” his brother Ilay said at one rally. “The thought of his pain, his hunger, his fear in those dark tunnels — it haunts my every waking moment.”

2025.

Israel broadcasts Hamas’ video of hostage Evyatar David in Times Square

Grace

Gilson

(JTA) — The Israeli government bought a billboard in New York City’s Times Square to showcase the video released earlier this month by Hamas of one of its Israeli hostages, Evyatar David.

The campaign, which was sponsored by the Israeli Foreign Ministry and the Consulate General of Israel in New York, showed new footage of David released Friday, August 1 by Hamas in dire physical condition inside a tunnel.

Its goal was to call attention to the plight of the hostages who remain in Gaza — and strike out at those who have

expressed concern for hungry Gazans but not the hostages.

“Hamas is starving the Israeli hostages,” text alongside the video said. “Ignored by the media too busy echoing Hamas propaganda.”

In recent weeks, images of emaciated Palestinians have drawn global outcry over allegations of widespread starvation in the besieged enclave as well as some criticism from some pro-Israel groups who believe the photos falsely depict the aid crisis in Gaza.

The critics include the Israeli government.

“We will fight the blood libel that Hamas is spreading about ‘starvation’ in

Gaza. They use fake images and cynically exploit young children suffering from completely unrelated illnesses, presenting them as if they are starving,” Ofir Akunis, Israel’s consul general in New York, tweeted about the ad campaign.

David, 24, was taken hostage at the Nova music festival on Oct. 7, 2023, along with his best friend, Guy Gilboa-Dalal, who also remains in captivity. The release of the video of David shortly followed another video released by Palestinian Islamic Jihad of Rom Braslavski, 21, who was abducted while working as a security guard at the Nova music festival during a break in his army service.

NATION

A rabbi walked into a convention of Lutherans — and rebuked their ‘one-sided’ debate on Israel

Grace Gilson

(JTA) — Rabbi Rick Jacobs, the president of the Union for Reform Judaism, arrived at the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Churchwide Assembly with decades of experience building ties between the Lutheran and Jewish communities.

But on Wednesday, July 30, as Jacobs listened to attendees debate a memorial titled “Stand of Palestinian Rights and End to Occupation of Palestine,” Jacobs said he felt compelled to speak out over what he saw as a “onesided” narrative.

He tore up the speech he planned to give the next day, instead telling the hundreds of Christians gathered in Phoenix that he had hoped for something different — and that the stakes were high.

“Friends, I fear that the resolution you affirmed last night will make our community less safe,” Jacobs told the assembly. “I feel it will embolden those who do not envision a peaceful future for Palestinians and Israelis.”

Jacobs said in an interview that he had been startled by how little the statement seemed to acknowledge calls for peace that have come from Jewish communities, including the Reform movement. In May, Jacobs was one of the first denominational Jewish leaders to urge Israel to abandon what he said was a policy of “starving Gazan civilians” in an op-ed for the Washington Post — previewing the collective outcry over the humanitarian crisis in Gaza that has galvanized sharp criticism of Israel in recent weeks.

perspectives of Israelis and Jews were reflected in the statement. He brought his concerns to the church’s presiding bishop, Rev. Elizabeth Eaton, who invited him to formulate a response.

“There are some specific references to Israel in D4 but I felt like the empathy was entirely to the Palestinian narrative, which on one level I can understand,” said Jacobs. “But there really is a deep relationship of the church and Jewish communities locally, and I felt it from the senior

leadership of the church, especially Bishop Eaton.”

The war in Gaza has caused some longstanding interfaith alliances to fray, as progressive churches and clergy were in some cases quick to condemn Israel’s response to Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023, attack and sharply judgmental of those who did not share their perspective.

demonstrators drawing attention to the remaining hostages in Gaza in Boulder, Colorado.

He also recounted several moments of unity between him and the Lutheran community, including one instance during the second intifada, a Palestinian uprising from 2000 to 2005 that was marked by a series of suicide bombings, in which Rev. Munib Younan, the bishop emeritus of the Evangelical Lutheran Church of Jordan and the Holy Land, drove Jacobs home for his safety.

And he emphasized that he and many liberal Jews share some, if not all, the beliefs underlying the approved statement.

“We share your commitment to a free Palestine, free of tyranny and exploitation by Hamas, and free of Israel’s occupation,” he said. He also spoke about the murder of Vivian Silver, the founder and leader of Women Wage Peace, an Israeli organization that supports a peace agreement with Palestinians, on Oct. 7.

“The brutal massacre on Oct. 7 included extraordinary people like Vivian,” said Jacobs. “It was as if Hamas was trying to murder not only people, but also the possibility for coexistence, and we, dear church, we must not allow them to kill the hope for a better tomorrow.”

In the conclusion of his address, Jacobs urged the Lutheran community to continue “working together” with the Jewish community, emphasizing a shared commitment to “bringing peace everywhere, everywhere and especially in the Middle East.”

“Challenges facing our faith communities and our nation can feel overwhelming, but facing them together gives us the possibility of transforming for good the tide of hate, demonization and anti-democratic attacks that threaten our freedom, our lives and our future,” he said in the speech. “But working together, oh yes, working together, we can, and we will overcome.”

“We have the largest movement in Jewish life, and we love Israel, and we work closely with the church, and we also care about the rights and dignity of Palestinians,” Jacobs said. “I felt like they just didn’t in any way acknowledge all of those things that are also true, and it made me sad, to be honest.”

Memorial D4, which the assembly passed, outlined a list of stances for the Lutheran Church, including that the office of the presiding bishop “petition U.S. leaders to recognize and act to end the genocide against Palestinians, halt military aid to Israel used in Gaza, and support Palestinian statehood and U.N. membership.”

Jacobs said he was startled by how little the

But Eaton, Jacobs said, was receptive to his concerns, telling him to “take the time you need” to think about how to broach them.

That night, he revised his speech, and on Thursday, he took his qualms to the lectern — rebuking the assembled crowd.

“It is possible to strongly support the State of Israel and at the very same time to fight for the dignity and rights of Palestinians,” he said in his remarks. “Last night, I was hoping to hear more of that kind of ‘both and’ thinking, but I didn’t.”

Jacobs then cited the violent attacks on Jewish gatherings in recent months, including the deadly shooting of two Israeli embassy staffers at an event in Washington, D.C. and the deadly firebombing attack on a group of

At the end of his remarks, Jacobs was met by a standing ovation, which he said left him feeling “very embraced and supported.”

Jacobs says that he felt his strategy of confronting the assembly over his concerns in real-time was “successful,” and he hoped that “what I planted were seeds of deeper relationship.” He said he didn’t necessarily see his audience as just the Lutherans in the room.

“I’m not naive. I don’t think one talk and one gathering changes everything, or maybe changes most things,” he says. “But I want it to be appreciated, and I want my clergy colleagues, particularly my Jewish leader colleagues, to realize that you don’t have to agree with a community on every point to work with them and to find ways to be in community with them.”

Rabbi Rick Jacobs at Ohef Sholom Temple in 2018.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

Super Sunday, reimagined Sunday, September 14

Amy Zelenka

For decades, Super Sunday has been a flagship event in the lifecycle of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s community campaign. It’s been a day of community mobilization – bringing volunteers together in a room buzzing with energy, armed with phones, stacks of pledge cards, and the shared mission of raising vital funds for Jewish life locally and abroad.

But when the world changed, so did Jewish Tidewater.

In response to shifting realities, the Super Sunday community phonathon made a bold transition from live and in-person

to hybrid and virtual. UJFT is trying something new this year – a completely virtual event using various communication platforms to reach donors.

What began as a necessary pivot during the pandemic has evolved into a powerful new model for engagement, connection, and fundraising. So much has been learned in the past few years as tools and technologies

have evolved – allowing for new and creative methods.

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Like many legacy events, Super Sunday has faced some hurdles in a postpandemic world: health concerns, scheduling conflicts, and a broader cultural shift toward remote and hybrid gatherings. Rather than seeing these as obstacles, leadership and staff saw them as opportunities.

“We didn’t want to lose the spirit of Super Sunday,” says Jason Hoffman, UJFT Campaign chair. “So, we asked ourselves: How can we preserve the energy, the impact, and the sense of community, while also meeting people where they are?”

The virtual solution

Enter virtual Super Sunday: a new way of reaching current and prospective donors. Volunteers can now join from their homes, making calls or sending texts to their assigned prospects. And instead of a one-day blitz, Super Sunday is expanded into a full “Super Week” of flexible calling, texting, and even a good old fashioned direct mail campaign. The aim is to be more inclusive and more impactful

– to reach even more members of Tidewater’s amazing Jewish community than in the past.

Looking ahead

This is a new way of doing things. And while elements of an in-person Super Sunday may return in the future, this year should offer many lessons on the best and most effective ways to reach donors.

A look at other Federations and nonprofits around the country suggests that this may well be the future of community engagement—hybrid, flexible, and inclusive. Walls are now optional.

Keep those cell phones close on Sunday, September 14 and in the days leading up to it. Donors may receive a call from an assigned solicitor or another volunteer… maybe there will be a text message with a short video and link to donate a 2026 campaign gift. Check mailboxes in the days leading up to Super Sunday for a letter requesting gifts also be made in a more traditional way.

No matter how one is asked, the community hopes people will support the Tidewater and global Jewish community with a gift that touches many, many lives.

Super Sunday may look different today, but its heart remains the same: a community coming together, one call at a time, to strengthen Jewish life for generations to come.

Amy Zelenka is United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s chief development officer.

On Monday my son was sworn into the IDF. I spent that afternoon protesting the Israeli government.

Rabbi Daniel Gropper (JTA) — On Monday, July 28, my son was inducted into the IDF. He started thinking about joining as a hayal boded, a “lone soldier” (someone who makes aliyah alone with the intention of serving) while in high school. After his friend was murdered by Hamas terrorists at the Nova Festival, his decision became clear. The time was now. As a Zionist, a rabbi, and a father watching my son come into his own as an adult, I’m deeply proud of him.

On the same day as my son was handed a rifle and a Bible and sworn in, I made my way down from Westchester County into Manhattan, to join hundreds of other concerned rabbis, American Jews, and Israeli Americans to protest outside the Israeli consulate. We called for Israel to let a surge of food and other aid into Gaza now, for the hostages to be released unconditionally and immediately, and for an end to the war. I had never spoken at a rally before, but when Rabbi Jill Jacobs of T’ruah: The Rabbinic Call for Human Rights invited me, the time felt right.

This might seem odd. But in fact, it makes perfect sense to me that I was (and am) publicly criticizing the Israeli government when my son is serving in the IDF. My stake in the future of Israel as a democratic state with a moral army is greater than ever.

This month, we began reading from the book of Deuteronomy. It is Moses’ swan song. In his final days, he imparts wisdom to the people of Israel. Yet it is a book of contradictions. Moses takes credit for things suggested to him in the Book of Exodus. And events that took place in Numbers are recalled differently than how they originally occurred. Things are not quite as they seem.

The same seems to be true in Gaza. Photos are shared without their full context; reports of Hamas stealing food are later revised by the IDF itself. In this blizzard of ideological fiction, how are any of us supposed to know what’s true? How are any of us to know what is

the right thing to do? Here is what we do know. There is hunger and starvation in Gaza. We need to state this loud and clear. We know that even when aid makes it in, it’s often only fit young men who have any shot at fighting for it. The aid isn’t reaching many who need it. Too many have not eaten in days. Hospitals in Gaza say they have cut meals from three a day to one.

I expect my son to uphold the concept of purity of arms that is at the heart of the IDF’s moral code. I pray that the words in the Torah, upholding the ideal that each person is made b’tzelem elohim, in the image of God, will guide him. I pray that the most often quoted sections of Torah, to care for the powerless and to love your neighbor — all neighbors — remain forefront in his mind. Everyone, especially innocent victims caught in the crossfire of this quagmire now over 660 days long, deserves freedom from want and freedom from fear.

So, standing outside the Israeli consulate in New York City, I called on the government of Israel to do all they could to avert a deterioration of the crisis. I called on the government of Israel to abandon the mistaken idea that withholding aid weakens Hamas. I called on Israel to do that which is counterintuitive: Flood Gaza

with food. It’s the right move morally. It’s the right move strategically.

I spoke as a rabbi who loves Israel, who wants Israelis to be safe, and who desperately wants this war to end — a Jew who desperately wants the hostages home. Finally, I spoke as a father, who wants my son, and everyone’s children, to be safe, which I know will only happen when there is a just peace and a long-term political solution that protects the human rights of everyone in that land, no matter their ethnic, religious or national origin.

This is my prayer for Israel, and for my son: Bring the hostages home. Surge aid into Gaza. End the war.

Achshav. Now.

Rabbi Daniel Gropper is the spiritual leader of Community Synagogue of Rye in Rye, N.Y., where he has served since 2003. He is the immediate past president of the Westchester Board of Rabbis, serves on the executive committee of Repair the World, and is a founding member of the Rye Interfaith Clergy Association.

The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of JTA or its parent company, 70 Faces Media, or of Jewish News.

Rabbi Daniel Gropper.

NATION

NEA board rejects members’ proposal to sever ties with ADL

Grace Gilson

(JTA) — The board of directors for the National Education Association, the United States’ largest teachers union, rejected a proposal by its delegates to sever ties with the AntiDefamation League.

The rejection on Friday, July 18, came after the delegates’ proposal earlier last month to bar the union from using, endorsing, or publicizing any materials from the ADL, drew condemnation from prominent Jewish organizations across the country.

In a statement announcing the board’s rejection of the proposal, Becky Pringle, the president of the National Education Association, emphasized that the decision was not a statement of support for the ADL. She also called on the Jewish civil rights watchdog to “support the free speech” of students and educators, in an apparent allusion to criticism of the ADL for opposing some forms of pro-Palestinian advocacy in schools.

“NEA opposes efforts to shut down debate, to silence voices of disagreement, and intimidation. … Not adopting this proposal is in no way an endorsement of the ADL’s full body of work,” wrote Pringle. “We are calling on the ADL to support the free speech and association rights of all students

and educators.”

The initial proposal approved by the NEA’s delegates offered a striking example of a growing shift away from the ADL by progressives who have soured during the war in Gaza at the organization’s staunch pro-Israel activism and advocacy that treats much criticism of Israel as antisemitism.

The board’s rejection took place one week after the ADL spearheaded a letter signed by 400 Jewish organizations and congregations across the country that called on the NEA to reject the proposal and condemn and address antisemitism within its union.

“The effort to exclude ADL’s voice from educational spaces at a time of skyrocketing antisemitism — including in K-12 classrooms — speaks volumes about the climate within NEA that allowed this measure to pass, and the lack of understanding, if not outright hostility, behind it,” the letter read.

Following the ADL’s letter, the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, which coordinates advocacy for Jewish community relations, also sent a letter to Pringle urging the NEA to reject the ban.

“One does not need to align with the ADL on every issue;

but choosing to cut off all engagement and dialogue runs counter to our shared goals of countering antisemitism and broader hate and bias,” wrote JCPA CEO Amy Spitalnick.

In another letter following the NEA’s original vote to approve the ADL ban, Jeremy Ben-Ami, the president of J Street, a liberal pro-Israel lobby, also condemned the decision but rejected the ADL’s claims that the decision was fueled by antisemitism, writing that it “demeans the meaning of antisemitism and runs the risk of fanning its flames.”

Following the NEA board’s rejection, the leaders of the ADL, American Jewish Committee, Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, and Jewish Federations of North America issued a statement welcoming the decision and calling on the union to communicate to its members how their proposal was “harmful to educators, students, and families concerned about the rise of antisemitism and hate.”

“While teachers’ unions have little power to dictate curriculum, divisive campaigns to boycott reputable, centrist Jewish organizations and educators normalize antisemitic isolation, othering, and marginalization of Jewish teachers, students and families in our schools,” the statement read.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

FIRST PERSON

Five years in: A reflection on resilience, readiness, and relationship

Naomi Limor Sedek

When I began my journey with the Tidewater Jewish Foundation in July 2020, I walked into a world unlike anything we had known. It was the height of the pandemic. Introductions were made over Zoom and relationship-building required more persistence, patience, and heart than ever before. In a time when it was difficult to be together physically, our community found ways to remain spiritually and philanthropically connected. That resilience became my first glimpse of what makes this Jewish community so extraordinary.

With the unwavering support of the TJF board, partners, and professional team, and anchored by a clear strategic plan, we began to build. Year by year, step by step, we expanded grantmaking opportunities, introduced new programs, and created innovative ways for people to give with meaning. Our fund balance remained strong, even as the markets fluctuated. And then came October 7, 2023.

When crisis struck Israel, this community mobilized like I have never seen before. Within hours, TJF was not just ready; we were built for this. Our systems, our people, and our mission aligned in real time to support the homeland and provide security, dignity, and care for our people in need. It wasn’t just about responsiveness. It was about readiness. And that readiness came from years of legacy-building, fueled by values that have guided the Jewish people for centuries. Looking back, I am in awe, not of what I’ve done, but of what we’ve done together.

Over these five years, I’ve had the privilege to witness something remarkable: the philanthropic journey in action. From a baby naming to a bar or bat mitzvah, through weddings, business transitions, and memorials, we’ve walked alongside families at every milestone. I've seen parents, children, and even grandchildren work together across generations to create

legacies that reflect their shared values and vision for the Jewish future. These are not just transactions. They are moments of intention, of memory, of purpose. We have worked hard to meet our donors on their timeline, with no pressure. Just open doors, open hearts, and honest conversation.

As we look ahead to the years to come, our focus remains clear: to build and deploy exponentially greater resources that empower Jewish life in Tidewater and beyond.

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VIRGINIA’S COLLEGE CAMPUSES

Hamas’s attack on the Nova Music Festival on October 7, 2023, caused a massive surge in anti-Israel and antisemitic sentiments across the United States, and notably, on college campuses. Virginia’s university and college campuses were not immune to protests and encampments, in which protesters espoused antisemitic rhetoric such as “From the river to the sea,

Palestine will be free.”

Virginia’s Attorney General Jason Miyares and Governor Glenn Youngkin have diligently worked with lay and religious leaders in the Commonwealth to craft executive orders aimed at combating the increase in antisemitism after October 7. One such act, signed on May 19, 2025, directs state leaders and universities to develop resources that will help track instances of antisemitism and

bigotry. Miyares and Youngkin have been strong supporters of the Jewish communities and have cracked down on universities that have allowed antisemitism to fester.

In conjunction with state and local governments, Jewish student organizations have worked to combat antisemitism and create safe places for Jewish students to study, socialize, and go about their lives.

the students also have a safe haven at the Shenkman Jewish Center, where Hillel is housed. “Feeling supported, cared for, and listened to has been the recipe for success at William & Mary,” he says.

When asked about the steps their universities have taken to combat antisemitism, Old Dominion University’s Hillel advisor references a focus on inclusion, while the Hillel directors at William & Mary, Virginia Tech, George Mason, and University of Virginia cite their schools’ commitment to the safety of students and willingness to participate in Hillel International’s Campus Climate Initiative. The initiative’s stated goal is to “create a campus climate where Jewish students feel comfortable expressing their identity.”

Rabbi Gershon Litt, who serves as the Hillel director for William & Mary, says that he was proud of President Catherine Rowe and the administration’s commitment to Jewish students.

“W&M has been an exemplar in how to make Jewish students comfortable,” he says.

W&M has seen few antisemitic incidents on campus, but when they have happened, the administration has taken swift and decisive action. "Taking decisive action is imperative to showing a marginalized population that you care,” Litt says.

Jewish students on campus know that they have a supportive and caring administration, according to Litt, saying that

Meanwhile, Virginia Tech has struggled with antisemitism, with allegations of antisemitism being levied against the Students for Justice in Palestine organization, as well as the school itself. The tension between students came to a head during a multi-day pro-Palestine encampment in late April 2024, resulting in 82 people being arrested, 53 of whom were students. Since then, the school, along with Virginia Tech’s Hillel, has taken steps to prevent future acts of antisemitism.

President Tim Sands participated in Hillel’s College and University Presidents Summit on combating antisemitism, the goal of which was to share best practices and learn from peer institutions about how to create a safe campus for all students. “The safety of students and staff is our highest priority—first, foremost, and always,” says Amanda Herring, Virginia Tech’s Hillel director. Herring works with students and staff to create an environment where Jewish students can thrive.

Northern Virginia’s George Mason has had issues with antisemitism and is one of four schools in the DMV that are having their federal funding threatened by the Trump Administration due to antisemitism. But Rabbi Daniel Novick, GMU Hillel director, says, “Mason Hillel has worked hard to ensure that George Mason is a community where Jewish students can thrive.”

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officer, notes that the threats to GMU’s funding stemmed from an incident where GMU students participated in an encampment on George Washington University’s campus in 2023.

“The university has been present at Jewish communal events to show allyship and support and has offered free security resources and personnel when requested,” says Novick. George Mason has taken large steps to counter antisemitism and create a large and diverse campus community, he says.

At University of Virginia, Annie Wienberg, Hillel director, emphasizes communication and coordination. In conjunction with Hillel, “UVA organized an antisemitism training day” and “committed more of their academic programming to focus on the conflict,” she says.

Expressing a place where she believed UVA’s administration could help improve conditions on campus, Weinberg says, “It is my belief that student-led groups are oftentimes the spaces where exclusion can occur.”

Weinberg says she is eager to work with UVA to help educate student leaders on what real inclusion entails. UVA Hillel cultivates a welcoming environment for all Jewish students by having a “menu of experiences that allow students to choose their own adventure,” creating a space that can meet “a diverse set of student needs and interests.”

In a joint statement co-written by 40 Jewish faculty members at UVA and published in the Cavalier Daily last month, faculty members admonished the Trump administration's weaponization of antisemitism. The faculty noted that they have “heard the word antisemitism used more in the last 18 months than we did in the immediate aftermath of August 11 and 12, when President Donald Trump called the neo-Nazis who marched on our campus ‘very fi ne people.’” Homing in on the dismantling of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) programs across America, they wrote that “Dismantling this programming will only make antisemitism worse, as Jews are a minority globally and at the University.” The Jewish faculty and staff emphasized that although they are wholeheartedly opposed to antisemitism, they believe it has been weaponized as a means to

suppress “politically disfavored speech.”

The Jewish people are a diverse and inclusive group and Dr. Amy Milligan wants Old Dominion University’s Hillel to represent that inclusivity. In addition to serving as ODU’s Hillel advisor, Milligan is the Batten Endowed Associate Professor of Jewish Studies and Women’s and Gender Studies and director of ODU’s Institute for Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding. She details this diversity, saying, “There is no singular way to be Jewish, therefore, it is important to create a welcoming space. We know that, just like a family, we may not always agree, but we are always there to support each other.”

Jewish students at ODU are encouraged to support their fellow Jewish students and pick the activities with the group that they find fun or meaningful.

Multiple Jewish organizations provide resources and tools for Jewish students and their families to help them prepare for life on campus and stay safe during an important time in their life.

RESOURCES FOR STUDENTS AND PARENTS

Support for students and their parents is available in various forms and from several experienced organizations, in addition to each university’s Hillel or Jewish department.

• ADL: ADL provides resources to help families prepare their children for school at all levels. adl.org

• Campus Antisemitism Legal Line (CALL): ADL, Brandeis Center, Hillel International, and Gibson Dunn offer the Campus Antisemitism Legal Line, which allows students to report an antisemitic incident and pro bono legal counsel from legal professionals. legal-protection.org

• Hillel International: Campus for All, a program of Hillel International, aims to educate and empower college students, leading to a safer, more welcoming, and more inclusive “campus for all.” hillel.org

• United Jewish Federation of Tidewater: UJFT’s Jewish Community Relations Council offers a Back-to-School Antisemitism Toolkit which provides links and information aimed to help prepare Jewish students for possible antisemitism on campus. federation.jewishva.org

YOUR DOLLARS AT WORK

JDC’S PRESIDENT REPORTS ON GLOBAL INITIATIVES

It’s now been 18 months of “on the ground” visits since I began my presidency of JDC. One of my personal goals when I took office was to visit the global communities we serve, especially those I had not previously visited. In my first year I visited Israel three times, and traveled to Romania, and then to Bulgaria, England, Hungary, and Georgia— which I had never visited before.

I’ve always believed that personally “showing up” to meet clients we serve through our Heseds, our community building programs, young leadership, and volunteer initiatives is critically important to our roles as board members. Another key element is recognizing, in person, our field professionals who work tirelessly to

carry out our mission. To witness the strong relationships these teams have built together over many years and to experience the respect and love the people we serve have for them is inspiring.

Dan Senor and Saul Singer speak of an Israeli concept in their book The Genius of Israel called Gibush, a Hebrew word which roughly translates to “solidifying,” but is a concept which emphasizes collaboration, team-work, and experiential learning.

I recently took part in a truly galvanizing set of trips. The first was a fly-in to Moldova and Ukraine. It was followed by a study trip to Berlin and Paris to learn about new Jewish vulnerabilities arising from a rising antisemitism. These trips were built on Gibush, bringing people

together cohesively to deepen their bond to JDC and to each other while contributing to the health and future of the Jewish communities we serve.

Here are some key snapshots from my experience visiting these communities.

A Jewish future in Moldova

Our fly-in started in Chisinau, the capital of Moldova. JDC has worked in Moldova for more than 100 years supporting vulnerable Jews in need and working to rebuild a community that has weathered a challenging history, both during the Holocaust and Communism. Moldova is one of the poorest countries in Europe and has drawn focus since the conflict in Ukraine began, especially with many needy

Ukrainian refugees fleeing there. Despite these challenges, the Jewish community is thriving in living color painted by the young Jewish leaders and robust Jewish institutions that are aiding the neediest and bolstering Jewish life. We had an incredibly heartwarming time visiting the homes of our elderly Hesed clients, bringing a warm smile and gifts of food supplies. The gratitude and love we received in return was immeasurable.

The visit’s highlight was marking the Kedem Jacobs JCC’s 20th anniversary, celebrating its remarkable founder, Irwin Jacobs, and his family from San Diego. Irwin expressed his passion for funding “opportunities” for a community he felt held true promise, and as his partner in

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Home visit to a Holocaust survivor in Moldova.

The JDC group had kiddish with Elana, a 90-year-old Holocaust survivor, who then changed her dress and accompanied them to a conservative Kabbalat Shabbat service and dinner in Ukraine.

Inna Vdovichenko, a JDC professional on the ground with Annie Sandler in Ukraine. She visited Tidewater in January to update the community on JDC’s efforts in Ukraine.

Annie Sandler with Baron Eric de Rothschild who hosted a lunch for the JDC delegation. The Rothchild Foundation has been a strong supporter of JDC’s work since WWI. Memorial for Ukrainian Jews lost since war started.

Packing “Healthy Food Baskets” at JCC for community members who suffer from food insecurity in Moldova.

this work, we all felt immense pride. The JCC is home to a series of meaningful programs and an enthusiastic group of young leaders. These budding leaders are motivated, innovative, engaged, and dedicated to ensuring their Jewish community’s future. We also met several young refugee families from bordering countries who are now engaged with the JCC and building a new future for themselves.

Shabbat joy in Ukraine

From Moldova we traveled to Chernivtsi, Ukraine for the first overnight JDC trip inside Ukraine since the conflict began in 2022. And it was not just any night—it was Shabbat! Our group was dispersed to different Hesed clients’ homes to bring greetings before reconvening for services and Shabbat dinner at the Aviv Conservative Jewish community’s synagogue. I visited Tsilya Kanarskaya, a charming 90-year-old recipient of JDC’s home health care services and humanitarian assistance, who was deeply moved when we arrived. With the help of her homecare worker who loves and dotes on her, Tsilya joined us to attend services at the shul. Lev Kleiman, head of the Jewish Community, has built a vibrant group of young adult community leaders who provide vital relief and service to the entire community. Our Shabbat challah and dinner was prepared by young volunteers who also helped get the elderly to and from services – highlighting their care and great sense of responsibility for community members in need. The experience left us all moved, grateful for the connection, and eager to continue supporting JDC’s life-saving work at a time when it is needed most.

Hope in Berlin

Germany is home to one of the largest Jewish communities in Europe. The fall of the Berlin Wall dramatically reshaped the community, creating a diverse population of over 275,000. Since 2022, 30 German Jewish communities have taken in Ukrainian refugees who are reshaping communal life. After October 7, a surge in antisemitic attacks spread fear throughout the community. Our study group covered such topics as, “What Fragility Means in Our Communities Today” in discussions led by our senior professionals Stefan Oscar, Sam Amiel, and Amos Lev-Ran,

who have worked for many years with this community. We were joined by Professor David Hirsh, academic director of the London Centre for the Study of Contemporary Antisemitism, who added depth and a much broader understanding of what members of this community are experiencing. We learned that older members were concerned about rising hostilities against Jews while younger 20 - 30-year-old Jewish leaders stated, “We live here,” “we are working to develop leadership pipelines for a stronger future.” Their collaboration with JDC and many of our leadership programs have greatly empowered them: Hillel Germany, Regional Council, JSUD (Student Union), Keshet, Entwine, and JDC Junction Alumni. We also visited the Fraenkelufer Synagogue. The historic shul was severely damaged during Kristallnacht and now functions as a vibrant Conservative synagogue with regular services, educational programs, and cultural initiatives supported by JDC. Seeing all of this restores your hope for the future.

Resilience in France

France’s Jewish community is the largest in Europe with 750,000 members. Our first stop was the Bluma Fiszer Senior and Cultural Center in Paris, a place that fosters social connections and community amongst seniors. I’m always struck by how excited community members are to see us – representatives of the JDC from America. These seniors, most of whom were women engaged in a variety of different games – bridge, hearts, and canasta – had just recently met. It was crepe day, so an intense smell wafted through the center.

October 7 has shaped the day-to-day life of this Jewish community. Antisemitic attacks in Paris during the first half of 2024 increased by 200% compared to the year before. Many elderly living in unsafe areas are targeted, causing increased isolation due to fear of leaving home. The largest social institution in France for 200 years, Foundation Casip-Cojasor is a partner of JDC’s and supports more than 30,000 elderly through these uncertain times.

Early the next morning we visited the Lucien Hirsch school located in one of the three most challenged arrondissements. As

Local Relationships Matter

MEET: Karen Joyner

As the Chief Executive Officer at the Peninsula Foodbank, she believes the Foodbank not only distributes food but is also the spokesperson for those who otherwise don’t have a voice.

“There are so many low income individuals who haven’t received any benefit from the recovering economy and those who because of their life circumstances need help every now and then. We are there to help ensure their voices are heard.”

“Since 2004, when I started with the Foodbank and got to know Payday Payroll, I have always felt that Payday has been involved and helped to build it’s business through positive support for others in the community, both non-profits and start up businesses. I particularly appreciate the generosity that Payday has shown to the nonprofits in our community.”

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relationships are anything but transactional. We are long-term partners, dedicated to the success of our clients, and most importantly, their people.

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we stood on the sidewalk in front of the school that educates 1,200 Jewish children, joined by the principal and the head of security, I noticed the heightened security measures and collective effort to ensure the safety of students and faculty. The consequences of antisemitism were glaring.

Lunch with Baron Eric de Rothschild at his residence was a particular highlight, tying together JDC’s past and future. Baron Rothschild had invited our delegation to personally thank us for the outstanding work of JDC. Eric and his cousin, David, have a long and deep history as philanthropic partners of JDC. He was thrilled to

recount years of the family’s ties with JDC both before and after WWII.

Many things during my visit to Berlin and Paris cemented for me the importance of our JDC 2035 initiative. And one theme prominently ran through all the communities we visited: the development of talented, resourceful young leaders, and the importance of JDC to the future of their communities.

Annie Sandler is president of JDC, the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, one of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’ s overseas partners.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

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Virginia Kehillat Bet Hamidrash (KBH), also known as Kempsville Conservative Synagogue, is entering a transformative new chapter as it prepares to relocate its synagogue from Indian Lakes Boulevard to the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community in Virginia Beach.

This move marks a milestone in KBH’s more than 45-year journey of Jewish worship, education, and community-building in Kempsville. Established in 1978 through the merger of Kehillat Yisrael and Bet Hamidrash, KBH has long been recognized for its warmth, commitment to Conservative Jewish tradition, and spirited lay leadership.

We welcome all who seek meaningful Jewish connection.”

The move allows KBH to cut expenses and welcome those who may have previously found synagogue membership out of financial reach. With a renewed commitment to affordability and outreach to the community, the congregation aims to make traditional Conservative Jewish practice more accessible than ever.

“This is a transformative step forward for our congregation,” says Cantor David Proser, who serves as KBH’s leader. “Our new home will give us the ability to focus even more on what truly matters—prayer, learning, and community.

“Our goal is to make it easier for more people to experience the joy and meaning of Jewish community,” says Rona Proser, co-president. “By reducing financial barriers, we’re opening the door wider to anyone seeking connection, tradition, and belonging.”

Alene Jo Kaufman, KBH’s first vice president, says, “With this move and the expanded facilities available on the Sandler Campus, we’re optimistic and hopeful that more young families will join us to celebrate Shabbat and Jewish holidays, educate their children, form meaningful

relationships, and find their spiritual home. It’s an opportunity to grow a vibrant future together.”

KBH will continue to offer regular Shabbat and holiday services, Bar and Bat Mitzvah training, adult learning opportunities, and will work with families to create new educational programs for the youth.

“Our Bar/Bat Mitzvah preparation is custom tailored to each child’s learning and each family’s needs. Never a one-fits-all experience,” says Cantor Proser. “We fi nd children’s ongoing participation in weekly Shabbat services from their early years creates a comfortable and low-stress synagogue setting. Young families will fi nd us a welcoming place.”

Kehillat Bet Hamidrash—Kempsville Conservative Synagogue’s first service at the Sandler Family Campus is scheduled for Saturday, September 6, at 10 am. All are welcome. The congregation is a member of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism and collaborates with sister congregations across the region.

For more information, visit www.kbhsynagogue.org or @KempsvilleConservativeSynagogue on Facebook.

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JEWISH HOLIDAYS 5786

Rosh Hashanah

Jewish New Year

September 22-24, 2025

Yom Kippur

Day of Atonement

October 1-2, 2025

Sukkot

Feast of Tabernacles

October 6-13, 2025

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Eighth Day of Assembly October 13-14, 2025

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Festival of Rededication, also Festival of Lights December 14-22, 2025

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New Year for Trees February 1-2, 2026

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March 2-3, 2026

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April 1-9, 2026

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Seven weeks from the second night of Pesach to the day before Shavuot

April 2- May 21, 2026

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33rd day of counting the Omer

May 4-5, 2026

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Festival of Weeks, commemorates the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai

May 21-23, 2026

Tish’a B’Av

The Ninth of Av, commemorates destruction of the two Temples

July 22-23, 2026

Tu B’Av

Jewish holiday of love July 28-29, 2026

MODERN HOLIDAYS 5786

Yom HaShoah

Holocaust Memorial Day April 13-14, 2026

Yom HaZikaron

Israeli Memorial Day April 20-21, 2026

Yom HaAtzma’ut

Israeli Independence Day April 21-22, 2026

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COMMUNITY RESOURCES

UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF TIDEWATER/ SIMON FAMILY JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER

UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF TIDEWATER

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

757-965-6100

Contact@UJFT.org

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United Jewish Federation of Tidewater fosters a vibrant, committed, inclusive, and caring Jewish community by supporting and preserving Jewish life locally, nationally, and globally. Each year, nearly 1,200 donors contribute to the UJFT Community Campaign, with hundreds more supporting additional programs, services, and emergency campaigns. These funds are allocated to trusted Jewish agencies and organizations through a rigorous prioritization and allocation process.

UJFT’s impact includes:

• Supporting Jewish communities in Tidewater, Israel, and worldwide

• Addressing emergencies and crises as they arise

• Combating antisemitism and strengthening Jewish security

• Enhancing Jewish education, culture, healthcare, and human relations

• Building a strong Jewish future through leadership and engagement

UJFT is proud to be one of 146 Jewish Federations in North America, making a global difference for Jewish people everywhere.

SIMON FAMILY JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

757-321-2338

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Simon Family JCC welcomes the Jewish and greater Tidewater communities, offering programs and activities for every age and interest, including:

• A state-of-the-art fitness center, three indoor pools, 40+ group fitness classes, and personal training

• Year-round youth athletics, recreation, and aquatics programs

• Cultural arts, Jewish holiday celebrations, lectures, and community events

• Educational and social programs for children, teens, adults, and seniors Membership and day passes are open to everyone, regardless of faith. The Simon Family JCC is open and welcoming to all in the community.

COMMUNITY CAMPAIGN & FUNDRAISING EFFORTS

Chief Development Officer: Amy Zelenka 757-965-6139, AZelenka@UJFT.org

UJFT runs an organized community fundraising campaign each year to help meet the needs of Jews locally and around the world. More than 100 local volunteers help raise funds for the Campaign in partnership with a small staff of development professionals.

Campaigners strive to engage all community members in meaningful discussions about Jewish values, priorities, and concerns. In addition, the Federation provides opportunities for donors to “follow their campaign dollars” to see how their generosity impacts the Jewish community.

Locally, the Federation offers events, programs, and displays throughout the year – many at the Simon Family JCC – which allow donors to experience their dollars at work. Federation also leads missions to Israel and elsewhere abroad.

The Community Campaign runs July 1 through December 31 each year. At the end of each campaign year, UJFT’s board of directors reviews and approves the allocation of funds raised during the campaign to local Jewish agencies and organizations, pursuant to the recommendations of the UJFT Finance Committee. Additional funds are earmarked for distribution to UJFT’s overseas service delivery partners – the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC); the Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI); and World ORT.

Its strong fundraising infrastructure has also enabled UJFT, over the years, to spearhead EMERGENCY campaigns as needed. Recent Emergency Campaigns have included: funding for COVID-19 needs in the community; funding Jewish communities in war-torn Ukraine; Israel Emergency Fund (rolled out on October 8, 2023 to help those in Israel impacted by the horrific events of October 7); and a special Security Campaign – which is being used to fund the security needs of the local community – its buildings and institutions, during a time of unprecedented antisemitism.

Donations to the UJFT Community Campaign are welcome at any time and can be made by cash, check, securities, distributions from donor advised funds, or online at JewishVA.org/Donation. Donors have opted in recent years to gift their mandatory retirement distributions to the Federation as well, to help offset income taxes.

MEN’S DIVISION

Chief Development Officer: Amy Zelenka 757-965-6139, AZelenka@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/mens-division

UJFT’s Men’s Division is dedicated to engaging the community in support of UJFT’s Community Campaign. The Men’s Division is comprised of more than three dozen volunteer campaigners who serve the Tidewater Jewish community by soliciting gifts of support. These volunteers help ensure funding is available for Jewish education, health, and social welfare, the fight against antisemitism, enhanced security, emergency services, and crisis relief.

The newest addition to the Men’s Division is the NADIV young men’s group (formerly Giving Circle), which likewise supports the Community Campaign, while continuing to build community through social programs and special fundraising events designed to grow their constituency and ultimately benefit the entire Jewish community.

WOMEN’S DIVISION

Development Director - Community Campaign: Linda Ausch 757-965-6105, Lausch@UJFT.org

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UJFT’s Women’s Division is the women’s fundraising arm of the Federation’s Community Campaign, providing local Jewish women with opportunities for empowerment, leadership development, volunteerism, and philanthropy at all levels.

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At the helm of the Women’s Division is the Women’s Philanthropy Group (formerly Women’s Cabinet) – a committee which meets regularly throughout the year to learn what’s happening in Tidewater’s Jewish community and around the Jewish world. They then put that knowledge to use, informing donors as they engage in conversations around philanthropic giving and community involvement.

Members of the Women’s Philanthropy serve as ambassadors and role models, taking a lead role in volunteer fundraising for the Community Campaign and engaging women throughout the Jewish community through social, educational, and cultural events and activities.

ADDITIONAL COMMUNITY FUNDRAISING EFFORTS

Development Manager: Heather Nevins 757-452-6925, HNevins@UJFT.org federation.jewishva.org/ sponsorship-opportunities

UJFT also raises funds to support diverse, creative, and important programs which take place throughout the year. Sources of funding for these programs include private and public grants, corporate and individual sponsorships, and the direct solicitation of donors for programs such as Patron of the Arts, Konikoff Center of Learning, seniors programming, youth league basketball, and countless others.

Several specific programs rely almost entirely on these grants and sponsorship; several new programs have been able to “take flight” as a result of receiving this kind of funding. A growing number of grant and sponsor funders reside outside the Jewish community, and it is UJFT’s goal to continue growing these partnerships with the broader Hampton Roads commercial and granting community, to not only broaden its giving base, but also to build and strengthen relationships with the broader community.

ACTIVE ADULT PROGRAMMING

Director: Hunter Thomas 757-965-6137, HThomas@UJFT.org

Coordinator of Arts and Lifelong Engagement: Shyanne Southern 757-452-3184, SSouthern@ujft.org

JewishVA.org/Adults

Active Adults of all backgrounds are invited to enjoy enriching programs at the Simon Family JCC. With weekly opportunities for learning, movement, and connection, the program fosters wellness and community through educational, cultural, spiritual, and social experiences. Whether it’s joining the Seniors Club, playing cards, or diving into Book Club, there’s something for everyone.

ARTS + IDEAS

Director of Arts + Ideas: Hunter Thomas 757-965-6137, HThomas@UJFT.org

JewishVA.org/BookFest

JewishVA.org/FilmFest

JewishVA.org/Gallery

Arts + Ideas celebrates Jewish creativity and culture through visual arts, literature, film, and live performance. Signature events include the Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival, which highlights Jewish authors and ideas, and the Virginia Festival of Jewish Film, presented by Alma & Howard Laderberg, showcasing powerful stories from Jewish and Israeli perspectives. The Leon Family Gallery features rotating exhibits from local and international artists exploring Jewish or Israeli themes and perspectives. Additional programming includes partnerships with local theaters, artist talks, culinary events, and more.

BE A READER (BeAR)

BeAR Coordinator: Robin Ford 757-321-2304, RFord@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/BeAR

For more than 25 years, the Be A Reader (BeAR) literacy program, an initiative of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, has helped young students build confidence and a love for reading. BeAR pairs volunteer mentors with students in Title I elementary schools for one-on-one weekly sessions focused on reading, vocabulary, and encouragement.

Each volunteer mentor is paired with the same student for the entire school year, creating a meaningful relationship that often becomes the most stable and impactful part of a child’s week. Whether giving time, donating supplies, or supporting the program financially, the involvement helps shape a child’s future.

CAMP JCC

Director of Camp and Teen Engagement: Dave Flagler 757-321-2306, DFlagler@UJFT.org CampJCC.org

Camp JCC is where memories are made. The enriching day camp experience invites children to explore new interests, build friendships, and grow in a safe, inclusive environment.

• Summer Camp: For rising kindergarteners through 8th grade, running mid-June to early August.

• Last Blast: Camp-style fun for rising K–5th graders between the end of summer camp and the start of school.

• Spring Break Camp: A week of themed activities and outdoor fun during local school spring breaks.

• Winter Break Camp: A festive and engaging program offered during the winter holiday break.

• School Days Out: Full-day care with creative programming on days when schools are closed.

• CIT Program: Leadership development for rising 9th and 10th graders during the summer season

CHILDREN AND FAMILY PROGRAMS

Kate-Lynn Cipolla 757-321-2306, KLCipolla@UJFT.org

These programs offer a wide range of engaging experiences for children, teens, and families to connect, learn, and grow.

• After-School Programs: Activities include soccer, art, STEM, and more.

• Kids Night Out: Held monthly on Saturdays, 5 – 9 pm (November–May) for ages 4 to 12, offering a fun evening for kids while parents enjoy a night off.

• Family Sunday Fun Days: Seasonal weekend events filled with interactive activities, crafts, and community bonding for all ages.

• Middle School Programs: Designed to bridge PJ Library and Jewish youth movements, these programs foster Jewish identity, leadership, and connection for tweens.

HAL SACKS JEWISH NEWS ARCHIVES

Editor: Terri Denison 757-965-6132, news@UJFT.org JewishNewsVA.org

Research, laugh, remember, and browse through the Hal Sacks Jewish News Archives, an online site to access past issues of the newspaper since 1947.

THE HOLOCAUST COMMISSION

Director: Elka Mednick 757-965-6112, EMednick@UJFT.org HolocaustCommission.org facebook.com/holcommission

The Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater brings the lessons of the Holocaust into today’s world through education, remembrance, and community engagement. Guided by dedicated volunteers, the Commission offers impactful programs including the Elie Wiesel Writing and Visual Arts Competition and a Yom Hashoah commemoration. Its podcast, Stars Among Us, and the book, To Life: The Past is Present, share powerful stories of local survivors, liberators, and rescuers. Both are available with companion lesson plans for classroom use.

ANTISEMITISM

EDUCATION & RESPONSE

Contact: Elka Mednick

757-965-6112, emednick@UJFT.org

Through community-wide education, advocacy, and coalition-building, the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater works to equip individuals and institutions to recognize, respond to, and prevent antisemitism. From professional development for educators to resource toolkits, it strives to foster resilience, awareness, and allyship across Tidewater.

ISRAEL EDUCATION & ENGAGEMENT PROGRAMMING

Israel Engagement Manager: Nofar Trem 757-321-2334, NTrem@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/IsraelToday

From expert speakers and student workshops to cultural celebrations and community learning, Israel programming brings people together to explore Israeli life, history, and current events. Signature programs such as the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, all area synagogues, and Community Partners’ 15th Annual Israel Today series help deepen understanding and strengthen Tidewater’s connections to Israel through dynamic conversations.

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JEWISH COMMUNITY RELATIONS COUNCIL (JCRC)

Senior Director JCRC: Robin Mancoll 757-965-6120, RMancoll@UJFT.org

JewishVA.org/JCRC facebook.com/JCRCUJFT

The Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC) of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater serves as the voice and advocate for a strong, secure, and vibrant Jewish community locally, in Israel, and around the world. Through education, advocacy, and coalition-building, the JCRC promotes Jewish values and fosters a just and democratic society. The JCRC:

• Leads and convenes community conversations on critical issues

• Educates the public and policymakers on matters of Jewish concern

• Advocates for Israel and combats antisemitism and hate

• Builds bridges across faiths, cultures, and communities to promote mutual understanding and respect

• Uplifts Jewish values through consensus-driven action and inclusive dialogue

Editor: Terri Denison 757-965-6132, TDenison@UJFT.org

JewishNewsVA.org facebook.com/JewishNewsVA

Published 18 times annually, Jewish News connects Tidewater’s Jewish community with news of Jewish interest from local, national, and global spheres. Jewish News is delivered to thousands of mailboxes each month and reaches tens of thousands through its easy-to-navigate website. Electronic editions of Jewish News are available online.

KONIKOFF CENTER FOR LEARNING

Senior Director of Jewish Innovation: Sierra Lautman 757-965-6107, SLautman@UJFT.org

JewishVA.org/KCL

The Konikoff Center for Learning is Tidewater’s vibrant hub for Jewish education and engagement. Powered by the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC, KCL offers dynamic programs, classes, workshops, and symposia for all ages and interests. Whether deepening one’s Jewish knowledge or exploring new traditions, KCL is ready to engage, educate, and inspire.

PJ LIBRARY IN TIDEWATER

Senior Director of Jewish Innovation: Sierra Lautman 757-965-6107, SLautman@UJFT.org

JewishVA.org/PJLibrary

PJ Library and PJ Our Way bring Jewish stories to life by sending free books to children each month, thanks to the Simon Family Foundation, Harold Grinspoon Foundation, and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. Programming takes place at the Sandler Family Campus and throughout Tidewater, helping families connect with Jewish values and each other.

• PJ Library: For children ages 6 months to 8 years

• PJ Our Way: For ages 9 to 12, with monthly book selections

SHALOM BABY

Senior Director of Jewish Innovation: Sierra Lautman 757-965-6107, SLautman@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/ShalomBaby

Shalom Baby delivers curated gift bags to families celebrating the arrival of a new child, whether it’s their first or fourth, born or adopted. This initiative is a collaboration between United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, Strelitz Early Childhood Education Center, and PJ Library in Tidewater. Each bag is filled with thoughtful gifts and helpful resources to support Jewish families during this special time.

SHALOM TIDEWATER

Development Manager: Heather Nevins Development Director - Community Campaign: Linda Ausch 757-452-6925, HNevins@UJFT.org 757-965-6105, Lausch@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/Welcome

The Tidewater Jewish community is a hub of activity, spanning five cities: Norfolk, Chesapeake, Portsmouth, Suffolk, and Virginia Beach. Shalom Tidewater offers newcomers a wealth of resources to help them find their place – affiliated or unaffiliated, Jewish by birth, Jewish by choice, or interfaith.

For newcomers under 45, UJFT’s Development Manager, Heather Nevins, will take them on a tour of the beautiful Sandler Family Campus, provide a Shalom Tidewater basket (which includes informational pamphlets about events and programs taking place throughout the community), a complimentary JCC Day Pass to the JCC and even a few special treats (especially if meeting near Shabbat!). Nevins can explain all about the activities and events taking place which are geared toward the Young Adult community.

For those arriving in town over the age of 45, UJFT’s Development Director, Linda Ausch, will conduct a tour of the Sandler Family Campus and provide a Shalom Tidewater basket and JCC Day Pass. She can also speak to the classes, programs, and other social opportunities taking place in the community, which might better appeal to those whose demographic sets them outside the Young Adult community.

SOCIETY OF JEWISH PROFESSIONALS

Interim Program Directors: Amy Zelenka and Linda Ausch 757-965-6139, AZelenka@UJFT.org JewishVA.org/S O P 757-965-6105, Lausch@UJFT.org

The UJFT Society of Jewish Professionals (SOP) is an affinity group dedicated to educational, social, and philanthropic activities, and providing opportunities for its members to network, socialize, and engage with one another and the community. Through a series of unique program offerings, the Society of Professionals introduces its members to local and visiting authors, speakers, and thought leaders – subject matter experts in their fields – offering exclusive out-of-the box educational opportunities. Past events have included: how to balance personal retirement portfolios; wine tastings and pairings; panel discussions on what’s happening in Hampton Roads and how it can impact individuals and businesses; medical ethics; and a virtual mission to Israel. Through their campaign gifts, SOP members serve as role models to their peers, and they help to build and strengthen local and global Jewish communities.

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SPORTS, RECREATION, AND AQUATICS

ATHLETICS

Athletics Director: Tom Edwards 757-321-2308, TEdwards@SimonFamilyJCC.org

From swim lessons to sports leagues, the Simon Family JCC offers a wide range of youth and adult athletic programs. Enjoy basketball, soccer, volleyball, tee ball, tennis, pickleball, fi shing, and youth swim team.

Fitness swimmers can use indoor lap lanes, and families love the outdoor water park. Programs are designed to build skills, teamwork, and fun at every age.

FITNESS + WELLNESS

Wellness Director: Tom Purcell 757-321-2310, TPurcell@UJFT.org

The Simon Family JCC offers a state-of-the-art fitness experience, featuring a fully equipped fitness center, gymnasium, three indoor pools, an outdoor water park, and indoor pickleball courts. Members can take advantage of free group fitness classes including Spin, water fitness, Pilates, Zumba, and more. Stay motivated with JFit Challenges and reach goals with personal training available both in-person and online. Certified, expert trainers have experience working with individuals of all fitness levels, whether just starting out or looking to enhance a routine. Members also enjoy exclusive discounts on personal training and specialty fitness programs.

JCC MACCABI GAMES AND ACCESS® – TEAM VB

Tidewater Delegation Head: Tom Edwards 757-321-2308, TEdwards@SimonFamilyJCC.org

The JCC Maccabi Games and Access® are an Olympic-style event for Jewish teens, combining sports, service, and Jewish values in an unforgettable week. The Access Games are designed for participants ages 12–22 with developmental challenges.

Each summer, thousands of teens from around the world come together to compete, connect, and celebrate Jewish pride. Team VB represents the Simon Family JCC and Tidewater Jewish community, offering teens (ages 13 – 17) the chance to compete in sports like basketball, soccer, swimming, and more, while building friendships and Jewish pride that last a lifetime.

YOUNG ADULT DIVISION (YAD) AND YOUNG LEADERSHIP CAMPAIGN (YLC)

Interim Director, Young Leadership Division: Amy Zelenka, AZelenka@ 757-965-6139, JewishVA.org/yad facebook.com/YAD

UJFT’s Young Adult Division offers a variety of social, cultural, leadership development, and philanthropic opportunities for young Jewish adults in the community. Both YAD and its campaign counterpart – the Young Leadership Campaign (YLC) – foster Jewish identity, involvement, and responsibility among young Jewish adults (ages 25 – 42) through programs designed to strengthen and enrich Jewish community at home, in Israel, and around the world.

YAD aims to cultivate relationships, build networks, and strengthen the young adult Jewish community. YAD hosts many programs throughout the year, including happy hours, holiday parties, community service projects, business networking, and Shabbat dinners.

YLC seeks to engage young philanthropists and campaign advocates to serve as ambassadors within their peer group – encouraging others to support the Jewish community through involvement and giving. Through formal and informal Leadership Training Programs, YLC also aims to develop highly skilled leaders to ensure the next generation of Jewish community leaders.

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TIDEWATER JEWISH FOUNDATION (TJF)

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

President & CEO: Naomi Limor Sedek

nsedek@tjfva.org

757-965-6111 foundation.jewishva.org

The Tidewater Jewish Foundation (TJF) believes that anyone, at any stage of life, can create a meaningful legacy. From birth to bar or bat mitzvah and beyond, TJF supports individuals and families as they explore how their values can shape and sustain Jewish life, now and in the future.

TJF partners with donors at every stage of the philanthropic journey, from those just beginning to think about giving, to seasoned philanthropists seeking to formalize or expand their impact. Whether establishing a first fund or planning a lasting endowment, TJF provides the tools, guidance, and community connection to help give with purpose.

Founded in 1984 with a single endowment fund, TJF has grown into a trusted philanthropic partner with more than $160 million in assets across 700+ active funds. Over the last three decades, TJF has distributed nearly $263 million in grants to support Jewish organizations, synagogues, and community initiatives in Tidewater, across the U.S., and in Israel.

TJF’s role is to serve as the central financial resource for philanthropic giving in the Jewish community. TJF works with individual donors, families, professional advisors, synagogues, and Jewish agencies to implement strategies that align with donor intent and meet evolving community needs.

The LIFE & LEGACY PLUS initiative, relaunched in 2024, strengthens the long-term sustainability of local Jewish institutions by encouraging after-lifetime giving. More than $21 million in future endowment commitments have already been secured through this effort, reflecting the power of legacy-minded generosity across all generations.

Through donor-advised funds, charitable bequests, charitable trusts, IRA distributions, and other tools, TJF offers customized philanthropic pathways that allow donors to support the programs, causes, and institutions they care about most. TJF does not run programs, it fuels them.

Every dollar of fees collected is reinvested locally, ensuring that shared resources stay in the community and work for the community.

To explore how a legacy can support Jewish life in Tidewater and beyond, contact TJF’s team, which is ready to guide the conversation – wherever an individual or family is in their giving journey. Together, it’s possible to secure a stronger, more vibrant Jewish tomorrow.

SYNAGOGUES

B’NAI ISRAEL CONGREGATION

420 Spotswood Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-627-7358, fax: 757-627-8544 bnaiisrael.org office@bnaiisrael.org

Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg

ORTHODOX

B’nai Israel Congregation is an exciting, family-oriented, full-service Orthodox synagogue in the heart of a diverse and dynamic Jewish community in the Ghent neighborhood of Norfolk. It offers daily morning and evening prayer services. The synagogue houses the Norfolk Area Community Kollel, BINA High School for Girls, and the Norfolk Community Mikvah. It is affiliated with the Orthodox Union and the National Conference of Young Israel.

• Adult classes

• Children’s programming

• Teen programming

• Weekly kiddushes

CHABAD LUBAVITCH OF TIDEWATER/CHABAD HOUSE

Serving the entire Hampton Roads community since 1979

1920 Colley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-616-0770, fax: 757-616-0772 www.chabadoftidewater.com rabbilevi@chabadoftidewater.com

Rabbi Aron and Rychel Margolin

Rabbi Levi and Rashi Brashevitzky

Established in 1979 under the direct guidance of The Lubavitch’s Rebbe, Chabad Lubavitch of Tidewater is dedicated to increasing the awareness, knowledge, and observance of Judaism in Chesapeake, Hampton, Norfolk, Portsmouth, Suffolk, and Virginia Beach by reaching out to all Jews, regardless of age, affiliation, or level of observance.

Chabad participants experience the joy and celebration, the intimacy and compassion, the wisdom and knowledge that are inherent in Jewish life and learning. Chabad of Tidewater responds to both the material and spiritual needs of the Jewish community through classes, counseling, Shabbat and holiday celebrations, and innovative programming for children and adults.

• CTeen and CTeen U

• Women’s Rosh Chodesh Society

• JLI - Jewish Learning Institute

• Holiday guides

• Jewish Art Calendar

• Meaningful and uplifting Shabbat and holiday services for youth and adults

• Holiday programming for adults, youth, and families

COMMODORE URIAH P. LEVY CHAPEL

Corner of Maryland Ave. and Gilbert St., Naval Station Norfolk Norfolk, Va.

757-444-7361

Rabbi Gershon Litt, contract chaplain UNAFFILIATED

The Commodore Levy Chapel is the oldest land-based Jewish chapel on a Naval Station in North America. Established in 1942 and named for Commodore Uriah Philips Levy in 1959, the Commodore Levy Jewish Chapel celebrated 50 years of service to God and Country in 2009.

Access to worship services is available to Active Duty and Reserve Military, their dependents, military retirees, and Civil Service employees. Guests are allowed when accompanied by sponsors or by special permission from the Base Chaplain’s Office.

CONGREGATION BETH CHAVERIM

www.bethchaverim.com

temple.office@bethchaverim.com

Cantorial Soloist: Jim Hibberd

President: Chad Bornstein REFORM

Founded in 1982, Beth Chaverim has been affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism since 1984.

• Religious School

• Services at Temple Emanuel and on Zoom

• Friday Night Services take place at 7 pm

CONGREGATION

BETH EL

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-625-7821

bethelnorfolk.com

ada@bethelnorfolk.com

Rabbi Jacob Herber

Rabbi Emeritus: Rabbi Arthur Ruberg

Executive Director: Lynette Andrews

Education Director: Sharon Serbin

CONSERVATIVE

The heart and soul of Congregation Beth El is its loving and welcoming congregation. The congregation boasts a diversified mix of members: families that reach back generations, recent additions to the area, active-duty military, and Veterans from all services. The congregation welcomes and encourages diversity and members of all ages, backgrounds, and interests.

Beth El values both tradition and change. The congregation provides dynamic and fun educational programs for all ages, religious and cultural events, and participation in social action projects within the Jewish community and beyond. Beth El holds weekly morning and evening services, as well as weekly Shabbat services every Friday evening and Saturday morning. Everyone is welcome to join the congregation for services and other events in person, on Zoom, or livestream.

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JEWISH VIRGINIA BEACH

3400 Holly Road, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451 757-208-3696

Rabbi Meir Lessoff office@jewishvb.org www.jewishvb.org

CHABAD

Judaism with heart in Virginia Beach, Jewish Virginia Beach is warm, joyful, and open to all. It offers meaningful Jewish experiences for every background with no membership, no pressure, just community.

High Holiday services by the oceanfront are free to attend with reservations required. Details will be posted in early September on its website.

KEHILLAT BET HAMIDRASH/ KEMPSVILLE CONSERVATIVE SYNAGOGUE (KBH)

Reba and Sam Sandler Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community 5000 Corporate Woods Drive Virginia Beach, Va. 23462 757-495-8510

kbhsynagogue@gmail.com kbhsynagogue.org

Facebook: www.kbhsynagogue.org/facebook.com/kbhsynagogue

Cantor David Proser

CONSERVATIVE

Kehillat Bet Hamidrash (Kempsville Conservative Synagogue) is a place for traditional, yet egalitarian Jews to celebrate all things Jewish in a comfortable and inviting atmosphere.

KBH was established in 1978 and is centrally located in Tidewater, not far from Town Center at its new location at the Sandler Family Campus in Virginia Beach. As a small congregation, members have the opportunity to play an active role in the life of the synagogue. The synagogue strives to provide opportunities for prayer, learning, socializing, celebrating life cycle events, and supporting its local and greater Jewish and general community.

Kehillat Bet Hamidrash continues to enjoy its long-standing relationship with Temple Israel as a programming partner and looks forward to expanding participation in the area’s Masorti Congregations' collaborative events.

• Shabbat and Holiday services and celebrations

• Weekly Shabbat Kiddush luncheon

• Tikkun Olam projects

• Affiliated with USCJ - United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

• Support of, and participation in, Jewish community events

• Services and programs are offered in-person and via Zoom

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OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

530 Raleigh Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23507 757-625-4295, fax: 757-625-3762 information@ohefsholom.org ohefsholom.org

Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg

Cantor Jennifer Rueben

Executive Director: Jennifer Levin-Tavares

Director of Lifelong Learning: Alyson Morrissey

Music Director: Charles Woodward

Rabbi Emeritus: Rabbi Lawrence A. Forman REFORM

Founded in 1844, Ohef Sholom Temple is the largest and oldest Reform congregation in Tidewater. Shabbat Services take place Friday at 6:30 pm in-person and via Facebook Live and Saturday at 10:30 am always via Facebook Live and often also in person.

Ohef Sholom Temple is committed to welcoming all who are in search of a spiritual home, including young families, interfaith families, singles, empty nesters, and LGBTQ+.

A Union for Reform Judaism congregation, Ohef Sholom offers innovative worship and deep Torah learning, fosters meaningful relationships, and Tikkun Olam (bettering the world through social action).

• Religious School for preschool through grade 10

• Programming for infants and toddlers, children, teens, families, and adults

• Intro to Judaism and Adult Hebrew courses

• Diverse adult education opportunities

• Torah study

• Dynamic, musical worship services

• Social justice and social action initiatives

• Extensive library and archives

• Judaica shop

• Youth group (NFTY partnership)

• Men’s Club

• Sisterhood

RODEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

401 City Center BLVD., Newport News, Va. 23606 757-826-5894

office@rodefsholomtemple.org

rodefsholomtemple.org

Rabbi David M. Eligberg

rabbi@rodefsholomtemple.org

Office manager: Radie Maye

CONSERVATIVE

Rodef Sholom Temple, a Conservative synagogue, was founded in 1913 with the current building, its third location, dedicated in May 2018.

The congregation celebrates Shabbat each Friday at 6 pm and Saturday at 9:30 am. Morning Minyon is held Mondays and Thursdays at 7:45 am.

RST is open and welcome to all. The fabric of the congregational family is woven from a wide array of religious backgrounds, ranging from traditional Jewish upbringing to conversions to a range of stages of Jewish living. All families are welcome, from the traditional to interfaith families, LGBTQIA+, singles, and empty nesters. The congregation customizes the spectrum of participation for each individual who is on a personal unique journey.

• Sunday School programming: K – 10th grade Confirmation

• Bar/Bat Mitzvah training

• Adult education

• Family and congregational education programs

TEMPLE EMANUEL

424 25th Street, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451

757-428-2591

rabbiari@tevb.org office@tevb.org www.tevb.org

Rabbi Ari Oliszewski

Office Manager: Taylor Bailey CONSERVATIVE

Temple Emanuel is a thriving oceanfront Jewish community located in Virginia Beach. It is intimate, accepting, and open to all. Temple Emanuel embraces the many ways to express Jewishness and spirituality, welcoming people of all family situations, ethnicities, and sexual orientations. Located at the beach, the congregation offers a relaxed, informal atmosphere with uplifting worship services, as well as cultural programming for all. TE is proud of its religious school (free to members) that provides a wonderful educational and cultural experience for children ages 5 through high school.

TEMPLE ISRAEL

7255 Granby Street, Norfolk, Va. 23505

757-489-4550, fax: 757-489-3425 templeIsraelVA1954@gmail.com templeisraelva.org

Rabbi Dr. Michael Panitz Executive Director: Nancy Tucker CONSERVATIVE/MASORTI

Temple Israel is a vibrant, egalitarian, full-service synagogue that has served the local Jewish community for more than 70 years by meeting the spiritual, educational, life cycle, and social needs of its diverse membership. In the past year the congregation has enjoyed meaningful growth and rejuvenation and looks forward to continuing to serve.

The congregation is strengthened by many from outside the Jewish community who have made their way into the faith and the people with its

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help. Temple Israel has a regular seminar on basic Jewish topics, open to both seekers and veteran members of the faith, each Friday at 4:30 pm. The seminar is conducted via Zoom videoconferencing. (Contact the synagogue office for details.)

Through the fulfillment of mitzvot, the congregation provides opportunities for meaningful Jewish living for its members. Shabbat morning worship is the high point of the week. That service is in-person; all other days the congregation convenes for worship via Zoom, bringing its geographically widespread members together. Two in-person services were added in the past year: its denomination’s signature “late Friday night” Shabbat worship and community-building “oneg shabbat” gathering and a new “Shabbat Shenanigans” gathering, a special Friday night dinner, activity, and worship program for children, 12 and under, and their families.

Temple Israel seeks to be a good congregational neighbor to other local houses of worship, regularly participating in inter-congregational programs. It maintains a full schedule of joint programs with Kempsville Conservative Synagogue.

Children receive Jewish education at the Strelitz parochial school, the Ashkenazi Sunday religious school, and other venues, as approved by the rabbi. Adult education is one of the hallmarks of Temple Israel, with plans to open a new adult bar and bat mitzvah class for the year 5786.

Temple Israel enthusiastically embraces tikkun olam (repairing the world). Each month the congregation adopts a “mitzvah of the month” and focuses its charitable giving on that cause.

With a perspective embracing both tradition and the challenges of today’s world, Temple Israel welcomes innovative ideas and new voices into its family. Its facilities are more fully accessible. Prospective members are welcome to visit:

• Worship gatherings

• Congregational cultural and community-building programs

• Library

• Gift Shop

TEMPLE LEV TIKVAH (HEART OF HOPE)

1593 Lynnhaven Parkway, Virginia Beach, Va. 23453

757-617-0334

jzobe@aol.com

Rabbi Israel Zoberman

REFORM

The newest Jewish congregation in Hampton Roads meets in The Church of the Holy Apostles in Virginia Beach. The church is the world’s only Episcopal and Roman Catholic congregation. Now, it is the only place in the world where Episcopalians, Roman Catholics, and Jews meet under one roof. Rabbi Dr. Israel Zoberman is the founder and spiritual leader.

EDUCATION

LOWER, MIDDLE, AND HIGH SCHOOLS

BINA MIDDLE AND HIGH SCHOOL

425 Washington Park, Norfolk, Va. 23517

757-627-BINA (2462) Fax 757-627-2461

binahighschool.com

Menaheles: Aviva Harpaz aharpaz@binahighschool.com

Norfolk’s first and only Orthodox Jewish Middle and High School for young women, BINA opened in 2007. The BINA experience enables each student to develop her love for Hashem, His Torah and the Jewish people. In a supportive and challenging academic environment, students are given the skills to excel in both Judaic and General studies.

BINA’s knowledgeable and professional faculty foster a love of learning and pride in achievement. A BINA student is taught to be proud of her heritage, concerned for her community, and prepared for her future.

STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY

Early Years and Primary Years Programs, Infants–Grade 5

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

757-424-4327

strelitzinternationalacademy.org

facebook.com/strelitzacademy @strelitzinternationalacademyInternational Baccalaureate® World School Head of School: Heather Moore hmoore@strelitzacademy.org

Admissions Manager: Ally St. Pierre astpierre@strelitzacademy.org

Strelitz International Academy is the community’s progressive Jewish Day School welcoming students ages six weeks through grade 5.

SIA is the only International Baccalaureate® World School for the Primary Years Program in the area.

SIA students are guided by four core Jewish values: Kehillah (community), Kavod (honor), Tikkun Olam (repairing the world), and Torah v’Lishman (love of learning). Starting with the infant care program, Strelitz offers parents a nurturing and safe place to ensure the growth and development for their baby. The infant curriculum focuses on sensory activities and exploration, stories, songs, and floor time.

As an International Baccalaureate® World School, the Early Years students are seen as inquirers of the world around them. Students experience the joy of learning through hands-on activities and nurturing teachers. SIA students learn math and literacy skills and experience Jewish holidays and global learning through books, arts and crafts, songs, games, and creative play. Students also enjoy enrichment classes such as swimming, PE, music, and library time.

Primary Years (K–5) students are recognized for their strengths and benefit from small classes and individualized instruction when needed. Students thrive in a setting of a caring community of learners. The SIA curriculum includes Language Arts, Science, Mathematics, Social Studies, Jewish Culture, Hebrew, Music, Violin,

Art, P.E., and more. Through its inquiry-led, transdisciplinary framework, the International Baccalaureate® Primary Years Program challenges students to think for themselves and take agency in their learning as they explore local and global issues and opportunities in real-life contexts.

Graduates are ready to meet the challenges of today’s fast-paced world, as evidenced by their acceptance and seamless transitions into the top independent schools, International Baccalaureate Middle Years Program, and high school academies.

TALMUDICAL ACADEMY

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh

612 Colonial Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23507 757-623-6070

dwilson@yeshivasaishkodesh.com www.yeshivasaishkodesh.com

Executive Director: Rabbi Shmuel Katz

Judaic Principals: Rabbi Ezra Stettin and Rabbi Avrohom Weinreb

General Studies Principal: David Rowzie

Administrative Director: Debbie Wilson

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh is geared toward the student striving for excellence in Limudei Kodesh and General Studies. The school aims to facilitate the spiritual, personal, and academic growth of talmidim, with an eye toward producing wellrounded bnei Torah. Yeshivas Aish Kodesh meets these goals with a full, balanced schedule. The curriculum features Gemara shiurim in both Iyun and Bekius, as well as regular classes in Chumash, Navi, Halacha, and Tefi llah. Yeshivas Aish Kodesh offers a General Studies program taught by state-certified instructors.

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh’s facilities feature a Beis Medrash, state-of-the-art classrooms, a well-stocked library, and a recreation/workout room. The students can participate in varsity and junior varsity basketball, as well as intramural football. The students have regular opportunities to participate in pick-up basketball games, swimming, ice skating, and other activities.

Yeshivas Aish Kodesh views experiential learning as an integral part of the Yeshiva’s approach. Visiting and interacting with Gedolei Yisrael, an energetic Oneg Shabbos, and a heartfelt kumzitz—are ways in which the special ruach and warmth that characterizes Yeshivas Aish Kodesh are extended.

TORAS CHAIM OF VIRGINIA

3110 Sterling Point Drive, Portsmouth, Va. 23703

757-686-2480 office@toraschaim.net toraschaim.net

Menehel: Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz

General Studies Principal: Andie Pollock

Toras Chaim provides a high-level Judaic and General Studies education ranging from Early Childhood through 8th grade, fostering a strong Jewish identity and an enduring commitment to the Torah and its values.

Toras Chaim is dedicated to the belief that Jewish children and their families can partner together to create a nurturing environment which builds the foundations of a lasting, proud and active Jewish identity for every child. From the very beginning, the school’s Early Childhood Center maintains a developmentally appropriate and loving environment which fosters individuality, creativity, respect for others, and a love for Torah. As students grow, they learn how to ask deep questions, think analytically, and apply their knowledge to life. Under the leadership of its dedicated teachers and administration, Toras Chaim strives to maintain a balanced dual curriculum

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which challenges students to reach their full potential and to take pride in their accomplishments.

With a commitment to every child and an emphasis on academic excellence, enthusiasm for learning, and positive character traits, Toras Chaim graduates emerge proud of their Jewish identity and with a love for learning which propels them forward to continue their education.

UNIVERSITIES

CHRISTOPHER NEWPORT UNIVERSITY

757-594-7000

Bertram and Gladys Aaron Endowed Professor of Jewish Studies: Dr. Vered Sakal vered.sakal@cnu.edu CNU.edu

www.facebook.com/people/Jewish-Studies-in-CNUs-Philosophy-and-ReligionDepartment/61569537975154/#

Christopher Newport University is dedicated to building a vibrant program in Jewish Studies. Dr. Vered Sakal, an internationally renowned scholar of Jewish Studies, is leading the effort as the Bertram and Gladys Aaron Endowed Professor of Jewish Studies. Sakal is passionate about teaching and bringing Jewish Studies to life in the classroom. Her interdisciplinary approach fosters students’ ability to connect to the material and makes her classes engaging and vibrant.

Sakal grew up in Israel and is an ordained rabbi.

Christopher Newport is a public university that champions small class sizes, dynamic faculty, and a tight-knit community focused on ensuring students are prepared to lead lives of significance.

CHRISTOPHER NEWPORT UNIVERSITY HILLEL

Under the direction of Jewish Peninsula

RosenbLatt, P.L.L.C.

attoRney & CounseLLoR at Law

•Family Law

•Divorce

• Property Settlement

•Child Custody

• Estate Administration

• Estate Litigation

757-930-1422

Director: Julia Downer jdowner@ujcvp.org

The Institute for Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding (IJIU) is an interdisciplinary academic program at Old Dominion University dedicated to creating strong, inclusive learning experiences that deepen understanding of Jewish thought, history, and culture. IJIU sponsors research, academic programs, engagement activities, Judith L.

Rabbinic Advisor: Rabbi Gershon Litt 757-559-1836 rabbilitt@cnuhillel.org

CNU Hillel is open to all students, Jewish or Jewish-curious, and is the premiere Jewish organization at Christopher Newport University. Hillel offers social, religious, cultural, and Israel-related events led by both student leadership and professional staff.

OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

INSTITUTE FOR JEWISH STUDIES AND INTERFAITH

UNDERSTANDING AT OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

2024 Batten Arts and Letters, Norfolk, Va. 23529

757-683-6816

Director: Amy Milligan, PhD www.odu.edu/jewish-studies www.facebook.com/ODUJewishStudies www.instagram.com/ODUJewishStudies

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and collaboration with community partners to promote diverse Jewish perspectives about significant local and global issues, address antisemitic acts and other forms of hatred, and encourage dialogue between people of all faiths and beliefs.

HILLEL AT OLD DOMINION UNIVERSITY

Advisor: Amy Milligan, PhD

757-683-6816

amilliga@odu.edu

@ODUJewishStudies

Hillel is the home to the Jewish student community with social activities, educational events, and holiday celebrations on and off campus.

VIRGINIA WESLEYAN UNIVERSITY

5817 Wesleyan Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23455

757-455-3250

Eric Michael Mazur, PhD, Gloria & David Furman Professor of Judaic Studies, Religion, Law, & Politics Fellow, Robert Nusbaum Center (formerly the Center for the Study of Religious Freedom) emazur@vwu.edu

The Jewish studies minor at Virginia Wesleyan University provides students with the opportunity to enhance their chosen major with a course of study that includes traditional classes, independent study, and internships. Directed by Eric Mazur, Gloria & David Furman Professor of Judaic Studies, students enrolled in the minor enjoy the flexibility to develop their own course of study in a supportive intellectual environment.

Virginia Wesleyan University—a small liberal arts university on a 300-acre campus that is just minutes from the Atlantic Ocean and the Chesapeake Bay— inspires students to build meaningful lives through engagement in Coastal Virginia’s dynamic metropolitan region, the nation, and the world. The University has been named the #1 college in Virginia for LGBTQ+ students and has been recognized by the Princeton Review as one of the most environmentally responsible colleges. It is an inclusive community dedicated to scholarship and service grounded in the liberal arts and sciences.

WILLIAM & MARY HILLEL

SHENKMAN JEWISH CENTER

PO Box 8795, Williamsburg, VA 23187

757-559-1836

Director: Rabbi Gershon Litt rabbilitt@wmhillel.org

William & Mary Hillel is open to all Jewish students and is the Jewish organization at William & Mary. Hillel offers social, religious, cultural, and Israel-related events led by student leadership and professional staff. The Shenkman Jewish Center is the home for W&M Hillel offering kosher meals, programs, and services.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS

CONGREGATION BETH EL’S PATRICIA SARAH

ASHKENAZI RELIGIOUS SCHOOL, HEBREW SCHOOL, AND BOGRIM PROGRAM

Director of Education: Sharon J. Serbin sharonj@bethelnorfolk.com

All three schools or programs are open to all students regardless of synagogue affiliation or not affiliated at all.

PATRICIA SARAH ASHKENAZI RELIGIOUS SCHOOL (PSARS)

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

Congregation Beth El’s PSARS meets on Sundays, 9am - 12 pm at Congregation Beth El. The student body consists of classes from Pre-Kindergarten/Kindergarten through 7th grade. The curriculum includes Judaica, Hebrew, Brachot, Israel studies, and Mitzvot. Arts and crafts, holiday programs, creative drama, music, and more provide for a well-rounded education. The program includes a hands-on exploration of Jewish People and Cultures Around the World, with four new countries to focus on. Students learn about similarities and unique differences of Jewish life in various countries. Activities include cooking Jewish food and creating art from those countries, learning how holidays and Shabbat are celebrated, languages used, and other cultural Jewish folklore. PSARS focuses on ‘experiencing’ education. The school’s mission is to educate, nurture, guide, and encourage students to embrace the joy in Judaism.

WEDNESDAY HEBREW SCHOOL

500 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

Hebrew School meets on Wednesdays, 5:10 - 6:50 pm at the Simon Family Jewish Community Center in Virginia Beach. Classes are for third through sixth graders. The focus is on various aspects of Hebrew, including but not limited to reading, writing, root words, brachot, and conversational modern Hebrew. The curriculum includes fun and engaging methods such as arts and crafts and educational games. Students develop a strong foundation of Hebrew and learn how it connects to Jewish culture.

THE BOGRIM PROGRAM

422 Shirley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517

Open to eighth through 12th graders, Bogrim meets once a month on Sundays at Beth El. The focus for the Bogrim Program is Leadership, Knowledge, Action and Advocacy. The Bogrim Program helps students grow as Jewish young adults through discussions, social actions, mitzvot (good deeds) and middot (values). Some lessons are paired with fun activities/field trips to put knowledge into action, as well as time in the community to do Mitzvot. Experts in various fields are guest speakers. Students explore who they are individually as a young Jewish adult, who they are in the community, and what their responsibilities are in the world.

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OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

509 Raleigh Ave., Norfolk, Va. 23507

757-625-4295

ohefsholom.org

Alyson@ohefsholom.org

Director of Lifelong Learning: Alyson Morrissey

At Ohef Sholom Temple Religious School, students go beyond learning Hebrew, exploring Jewish holidays, and preparing for their b’nai mitzvah. They are taught to embrace their Jewish heritage, take pride in their culture, and contribute to building a strong community. Ohef Sholom is committed to cultivating individuals who embody lifelong Jewish values, firmly rooted in Torah and Jewish teachings, while maintaining strong connections to Israel, Jewish history, culture, language, and traditions.

Meeting most Sundays from September through May, 9:30 am to noon, the school offers a dynamic Jewish educational program for students in Pre-K through ninth grade.

OST welcomes and supports diverse learners. Hebrew is taught during the regular Sunday program and supplemented by personalized weekday one-on-one Zoom sessions for students in grades four through seven.

Younger students engage in hands-on learning experiences through art, music, Hebrew Through Movement, and weekly T’filah (prayer service). Teens take part in project-based learning that encourages them to explore and deepen their own Jewish identity. These sessions are guided by OST educators and guest teachers from the community who share how their Jewish values and experiences have shaped their personal and professional lives.

A comprehensive special education program, led by licensed special education

professionals, ensures that every student’s needs are met. This includes crafting Jewish Individualized Education Plans for nearly a dozen students, tailored to their specific learning styles and goals. A sensory room is also available for students who may benefit from a quiet break when feeling overwhelmed.

Throughout the year, OST Religious School hosts family programs centered on Jewish holidays, fostering community and intergenerational engagement in Jewish life. Beginning in fifth grade, families also participate in the congregation’s B’nai Mitzvah Pathways program—a multi-year journey that supports students and their families in exploring the meaning and purpose of becoming b’nai mitzvah. Ohef Sholom is deeply committed to partnering with families, creating meaningful shared experiences that strengthen Jewish identity and connection across generations.

Religious School begins on Sunday, Sept. 7. All interested individuals and families are invited to join that morning for an Open House, alongside the first day of classes.

On a one-time basis, families have the opportunity to enroll in the Religious School for one year before becoming synagogue members.

TEMPLE EMANUEL RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

424 25th Street, Virginia Beach, Va. 23451 757-428-2591 tevb.org

davis.sarahlynne@gmail.com @templemanuelvirginiabeach Director of Education: Sarah Davis, EdD

Temple Emanuel’s Religious School meets on Sundays, 9:30 am - 12 pm, September through April. Students begin with 30 minutes of Tefillah with Rabbi Ari, and then break into their class, differentiated by age group. In a new component this year, the school will meet on five Saturdays in lieu of Sundays. The Saturday component is a teacher-led family Shabbat service where students will participate in kid friendly services and join the community service for part of the morning. Parents are encouraged to attend Shabbat services on those Saturdays.

The student body consists of classes from Pre-Kindergarten/Kindergarten through post B’nei Mitzvah. The curriculum includes reading and writing Hebrew, learning Judaic history, and developing a strong connection to Israel and Jewish holidays. Through interactive lessons, meaningful rituals, and hands-on experiences, the school aims to instill a strong sense of Jewish identity, values, and community in students. It is committed to empowering students to become compassionate leaders, critical thinkers, and active participants in shaping a better world guided by Jewish principles.

Third graders and up have individual, online Hebrew classes once a week, which focus on reading, writing, and brachot.

Post B’Nei Mitzvah students meet every other Sunday at Temple Emanuel to engage in stimulating, teacher-led discussions on Jewish morals and ethics. Teenagers have opportunities for open minded discussion in a safe and welcoming space. Follow the school on Instagram @templemanuelvirginiabeach or on Facebook to see bios of the faculty.

COMMUNITY PROGRAMS

JEWISH ART EDUCATION

301-775-1687 info@jarted.org jarted.org

Myrna Teck, PhD, president

Jewish Art Education is a non-profit organization whose mission is to educate the wider world on the contributions of the visual arts to Jewish civilization. JAE’s program catalog includes more than 60 presentations, which can be enjoyed in person or via livestream. Selected programs are available via DVD or downloadable video from its web store.

Programs are enjoyed by senior living communities, houses of worship, community centers, and other organizations that provide programs for lifelong learners. In July 2025, JAE piloted its first virtual public program and plans to have these Zoom-based presentations on an annual basis.

SERVICES

AND ORGANIZATIONS

AMERICAN ISRAEL PUBLIC AFFAIRS COMMITTEE (AIPAC)

786-390-4416

atischler@aipac.org

AIPAC Southeast Regional Director: Alisha Tischler

The mission of AIPAC—the American Israel Public Affairs Committee—is to strengthen and expand the U.S.-Israel relationship in ways that enhance the security of the United States and Israel. The national organization engages with and educates about the bonds that unite the two countries, and how it is in America’s best interest to strengthen those bonds and help ensure that the Jewish state remains safe, strong, and secure.

AIPAC’s mission is to encourage and persuade the U.S. government to enact specific policies that create a strong, enduring, and mutually beneficial relationship with its ally, Israel. For more than 60 years, AIPAC has worked to make a difference, building a better tomorrow for the United States and Israel.

AMERICAN JEWISH COMMITTEE (AJC)

202-785-5475

Regional Office Director: Alan Ronkin washington@ajc.org; AJC.org Facebook.com /AJCGlobal x.com/AJCGlobal

American Jewish Committee’s Washington regional office serves as the local gateway to AJC’s global Jewish advocacy network. It works to shape a brighter future by taking on the toughest challenges and pursuing the most transformative opportunities.

Through the organization’s unparalleled global network of offices, institutes, and international partnerships, AJC engages with leaders at the highest levels of government and civil society to counter antisemitism, open new doors for Israel, and advance democratic values.

Wherever the Jewish people need AJC, it is there. Join them. Together, it is possible to drive meaningful change today and for future generations.

ADL (ANTI-DEFAMATION LEAGUE)

Regional Coordinator, ADL Washington, D.C.: Emma Kretchmer ekretchmer@adl.org adl.org

ADL is the leading organization fighting antisemitism, extremism, and other forms of hate. Founded in 1913, ADL’s timeless mission is “to stop the defamation of the Jewish people and to secure justice and fair treatment to all.” ADL protects the Jewish community and others targeted by hate through a comprehensive strategy, responding

wherever antisemitism and hate arises and leveraging global expertise to safeguard and empower communities worldwide.

ADL combats antisemitism and hate through a comprehensive approach:

• ADL is on the ground, responding to incidents of antisemitism wherever and whenever they occur, supporting targets of hate and working with its partners to keep communities safe.

• ADL advocates for effective policy solutions and the passage of legislation at the local, state, and federal levels.

• ADL analyzes data and produces cutting-edge research on trends in antisemitism and extremism and provides information to law enforcement and other partners.

• ADL litigates in order to hold people accountable for their actions and provide justice for individuals who have been targeted by hate.

• ADL speaks out strongly against hateful rhetoric in the media, in the news, on the streets and wherever it occurs.

• ADL provides valuable antisemitism education, tools, and resources to schools and workplaces.

• ADL is dedicated to fighting antisemitism and hate and protecting communities every day. Join ADL in Fighting Hate for Good.

B’NAI B’RITH OF TIDEWATER

Arnold Gamsey Lodge #1195 https://www.bnaibrith.org

Founded in 1843, B’nai B’rith is dedicated to building a strong sense of Jewish identity and unity within the Jewish community.

BRITH SHOLOM CENTER OF VIRGINIA

Secretary: LeeAnne Mallory 757-461-1150

Brith.sholom1@gmail.com

When life’s events require extra care, Changing Tides can help you or your loved one safely remain happy and at home

“Recently my mother required 12 hour per day personal care assistance. On short notice, Changing Tides Home Care provided the necessary assistance. They have been responsive to my mother’s needs and have kept the family informed by telephone, text and portal. I am very pleased with their services.”

—Andrew H. Hook President of Hook Law Center

Brith Sholom Center of Virginia, Inc. is a nonpolitical organization which aims to foster and perpetuate the spirit, ideals, and traditions of Judaism. Membership is currently 250.

Applications for men and women 21 years and above are available for new membership. Activities include dinners, dances, trips, entertainment, and cultural events. Its philanthropic endeavor is to support Jewish education and community organizations that provide services, plus international groups that assist needy causes.

Brith Sholom meetings take place on the first Sunday of each month (except July and August) at 11 am at Aviva Pembroke, 373 Constitution Dr., Virginia Beach, Va.

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BOARD OF RABBIS AND CANTORS OF HAMPTON ROADS

kbhcantor@gmail.com

President: Cantor David Proser

The Board was originally organized as the Board of Rabbis. About 20 years ago, it expanded its membership to include cantors. The Board provides an opportunity for local Jewish clergy to meet on a regular basis to address, discuss, and answer the challenges facing the Jewish community of Tidewater, as well as plan events for continuing professional development. The Board also provides a clergy presence and leadership whenever necessary.

FRIENDS OF THE IDF (FDIF)—VA CHAPTER

(MidAtlantic Region)

Vice President, MidAtlantic Region: Jennifer Scher, jennifer.scher@fidf.org

Sr. Associate Director, MidAtlantic Region: Ronit Greenstein, ronit.greenstein@ fidf.org www.fidf.org

Virginia Chapter Development Associate, Alex Haskel, alex.Haskel@fidf.org

Virginia Chapter President: Joel Nied

If ‘Virginia is for lovers,’ Friends of the IDF (FIDF) seeks to make ‘Virginia is for ISRAEL lovers!’ FIDF is a 501c3 not-for-profit corporation, established in 1981 by a group of Holocaust survivors. It is a non-political, non-military organization that provides for the well-being of the soldiers of the Israel Defense Forces (IDF), veterans, and family members.

IDF soldiers risk their lives to maintain Israel’s security, and FIDF is committed to providing these soldiers with love, support, and care to help ease the burden they carry on behalf of the Jewish community worldwide. FIDF provides life-changing assistance to IDF soldiers, veterans, and their families in a variety of categories:

• Financial support, education

• Lone soldier support

• Wounded soldiers, mental health, and bereaved family support

• Spiritual and heritage programs

• Construction projects

Follow FIDF via social media to remain in close contact with FIDF and bolster Israel’s courageous soldiers.

HADASSAH

Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region President: Sharon Goretsky 757-535- 9633, sgoretsky@hadassah.org hadassah.org

In New York in 1912, the first group of Hadassah was chartered after its founder, Henrietta Szold, returned from Jerusalem. The second chapter of Hadassah was chartered in Norfolk, Va. Now, 113 years later, Hadassah’s Norfolk-Virginia Beach chapter is reenergizing and excited to serve all of Tidewater.

Hadassah is the largest Jewish women’s organization in the United States. With almost 300,000 members, associates, and supporters across the country, Hadassah brings Jewish women together to affect change and advocate on critical issues such as medical care and research, women’s empowerment, domestic advocacy in the United States, and the security of Israel.

Through the Hadassah Medical Organization’s (HMO) two hospitals, the worldrenowned trauma center, and the leading research facility in Jerusalem, Hadassah supports the delivery of exemplary patient care to more than one million people every year. HMO serves without regard to race, religion, or nationality and earned a Nobel Peace Prize Nomination in 2005 for building “bridges to peace” through equality in medical treatment.

HEBREW LADIES CHARITY SOCIETY

jfshamptonroads.org

The Hebrew Ladies Charity Society (HLCS) was established in 1902 by nine local Jewish women who banded together to help address the unmet needs of the community.

In 1925, the Ladies Hebrew Charity Society and the Council of Jewish Women merged to avoid duplicating efforts. In 1946, they established the Jewish Family Welfare Bureau, which was renamed and incorporated in 1948 as Jewish Family Service of Tidewater (JFS).

JFS honors and remembers the ladies who helped settle Tidewater and has a fund established to provide food and financial assistance to local Jewish people in need. Contributions in honor of the Hebrew Ladies Charity Society can be made to jfshamptonroads.org.

JEWISH MUSEUM AND CULTURAL CENTER

607 Effingham St. Portsmouth, Va. 23704

Board President: Karen Plotnick 757-642-5753 benben158@verizon.net 757-391-9266 jmccportsmouth@gmail.com www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org

The Jewish Museum and Cultural Center is housed in the beautifully restored Chevra T’helim Synagogue, the interior of which is a rare surviving example of Eastern European Jewish Orthodoxy. The Museum offers lectures, exhibits, a summer music series, and a winter cinema series, as well as school programs, adult programs, and tours.

JEWISH WAR VETERANS OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

JWV Post 158

Post Commander: Adam Goldberg 831-917-3996, jwv.post158.se.virginia@gmail.com facebook.com/JWVPost158VA/ Join at: jwv.org/membership/explore-membership

The oldest active veteran’s organization in America, chartered in 1896 by an act of Congress, the Jewish War Veterans brings together citizens of the U.S.A. with joint ties of a common Jewish heritage and the experience of serving in the U.S. Armed Forces. It is the organization’s goal to apply experiences in the military as civilians to “be of greater service to our country, our community, and above all to our fellow veterans.”

JWV Post 158 works to instill the tenets of the National HQ’s mission within the local community by imparting true allegiance to the U.S.A. and love of country and flag, combating bigotry and darkness wherever originating and defending whomever it targets, preserving the spirit of comradeship to fellow veterans and their families, honoring the memory and shielding from neglect the graves of the community’s heroic dead, and most importantly preserving memories and records of those men and women of the Jewish faith who “did us proud by bearing the brunt of battle in the patriotic service of our great country.”

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NORFOLK MIKVAHS

417 Washington Park, Norfolk, Va. 23517

Mailing address: 420 Spotswood Ave., Norfolk, VA 23517

Mikvah Director: Leah Rivka Griffin norfolkmikvah@yahoo.com mikvahnorfolk@gmail.com (for calendar and appointments)

Three mikvahs are located adjacent to B’nai Israel Congregation. Mikvah Taharas Chaya (left side entrance), inaugurated in 2022, is exclusively used by women observing Family Purity laws. It is also used by new brides to immerse before their wedding day.

The Norfolk community mikvah conversion (right side entrance) is designated for men’s immersions.

An outdoor mikvah is used for immersing new vessels (keilim).

NATIONAL COUNCIL OF JEWISH WOMEN

Established nationally in 1893 and locally in 1905, NCJW is the oldest Jewish women’s organization in the U.S. The group’s educational and legislative efforts have helped bring about action in areas of concern to women and children. The local Endowment Fund functions as the Tidewater Council of Jewish Women under Jewish Family Service Foundation Philanthropic Fund Agreement.

Donations may be made to the TCJW Fund through JFS, 5000 Corporate Woods Dr., Virginia Beach, VA 23462.

ORT AMERICA

770-856-8590

Southeast Region/Atlanta Director: Kenny Silverboard ksilverboard@ortamerica.org ortamerica.org

ORT America supports educational opportunities for more than 200,000 Jewish students, teachers, and families in 39 countries, including 18,000 plus students in Israel.

Students are enrolled in the ORT network of schools and training programs, which include comprehensive and vocational high schools, colleges, apprenticeship programs, and teacher training institutes.

SOCIAL SERVICES

AVIVA PEMBROKE

373 Constitution Avenue, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

Executive Director: Lauren Krajesky 757-963-8423

lkrajesky@avivapembroke.com avivapembroke.com

Aviva Pembroke is a senior living community located in the Pembroke Square area of Virginia Beach. The community offers a mix of independent living, assisted living, and memory support, with 116 independent living apartments, 25 assisted living residences, and 12 memory support suites.

Floor plans include one-bedroom, one-bedroom with den, two-bedroom, and three-bedroom layouts. Each apartment features a private terrace, walk-in closet, and a full kitchen with modern appliances.

Residents have access to a variety of on-site amenities, including a rooftop bar, indoor pool, fitness center, wellness programming, dining services, housekeeping, salon services, pet-friendly areas, and Wi-Fi throughout the community.

Located in a walkable, urban setting, Aviva Pembroke offers residents convenient access to some of the best dining, shopping, and entertainment options in Virginia Beach.

A collaboration between Beth Sholom Village and Pembroke Square Associates, Aviva Pembroke was created to support older adults in leading active, connected, and fulfilling lives.

BETH SHOLOM VILLAGE

bethsholomvillage.com

For more than 40 years, Beth Sholom Village (BSV) has been a cornerstone of senior care and residential living in Tidewater, grounded in Jewish values, customs, and traditions.

In response to the evolving needs of today’s senior population, BSV has launched a new strategic mission focused on expanding its impact throughout the Greater Hampton Roads Jewish community. As part of this transformation, BSV is actively working toward becoming a grant-making organization that supports Jewish seniors across the region.

In partnership with Pembroke Realty Group, BSV recently opened Aviva Pembroke, a modern senior living community located in Virginia Beach’s Pembroke Square. This project reflects BSV’s broader commitment to reimagining what Jewish senior care can look like for future generations.

As it evolves, BSV remains dedicated to enhancing the quality of life for Jewish seniors, serving as a trusted resource, connector, and advocate for care, community, and well-being.

JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE OF TIDEWATER

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suites 300 and 400, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

Chief Executive Officer: Kelly Burroughs

Administration: 757-321-2222

Counseling Services, Food and Financial Assistance: 757-459-4640

Personal Affairs Management/Guardian & Conservator Program: 757-938-9130 jfshamptonroads.org

Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Inc. is a social service agency providing a continuum of solutions to those in need throughout Tidewater, regardless of religion or financial status. The Hebrew Ladies Charity Society began this work in 1865, which

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continued through the 1900’s until Jewish Family Service was established in 1946 and incorporated as Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Inc., in 1969.

The agency has earned a national reputation of responding to community needs by the creation and expansion of programs for children, youth, families, older adults, persons with developmental disabilities, and persons who experience chronic mental illness.

JFS depends on the generosity of the Jewish and the broader Tidewater communities for support. Local funding sources include United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Tidewater Jewish Foundation, United Way of South Hampton Roads, and many generous foundations and donors.

COUNSELING FOR ALL AGES/EMBRACE COUNSELING

JFS provides individual, couple, family, and group counseling services to people of all ages, regardless of affiliation. JFS offers grief counseling through the Dozoretz Center for Family Healing, a community resource center established to help people of all ages cope with the death of a loved one, family illness, relocation, divorce, separation, or remarriage.

The Jessica Glasser Children’s Therapeutic Pavilion at JFS offers an engaging play therapy room, which provides a comforting place for children and teens to learn to cope with life issues. Therapists are highly trained, master’s level, Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), many of whom hold special training in grief, child/teen issues, family stress, and gerontology.

JFS counseling services are covered by Medicare and Medicaid, and by many private health insurance companies. Services may be provided on a sliding scale fee basis to those without insurance who qualify.

FOOD AND FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE

In Virginia, more than 170,000 families live below the poverty level. Many of these families are unable to obtain nutritious food. To combat this growing problem, JFS partners with the Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia to operate a Community Food Pantry. Individuals and families, regardless of affiliation, can receive food assistance once a month. The Pantry is open on Tuesday mornings and by appointment. Hunger happens in Jewish households, too. For Jewish individuals in need of kosher food, JFS operates its Milk and Honey Food Program and is open by calling in advance.

Financial assistance is available for Jewish families coping with unplanned fi nancial debt and obligation. Case managers help with budgeting, fi nancial planning, and payment arrangements. This program is made possible by the generosity of the Pincus Paul Fund of the Jewish Family Service Foundation and the endowment fund of Hebrew Ladies Charity Society, along with the support of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and generous donor contributions.

Individuals and families fund special projects, including holiday food baskets, Hanukkah gifts for children, grocery certificates, and assistance with utilities and rent. JFS receives food from many generous donors throughout the community. Families or organizations interested in a food drive or bringing food or other household supplies to support the pantry, should contact JFS. Restocking shelves is always needed and assistance with shopping is always appreciated.

PERSONAL AFFAIRS MANAGEMENT/GUARDIANSHIP & CONSERVATORSHIP

The Personal Affairs Management (PAM) Program at JFS safeguards the personal and financial affairs of vulnerable, incapacitated adults with physical, cognitive, and/or mental disabilities. Guardian and/or conservator services are provided based on court order. The PAM Program has been recognized as a Model Program by the Governor’s Advisory Council on Aging and is approved as a Regional Public Guardian and Conservator Program by the Virginia Department for the Aging and Rehabilitative Services. On-call case management is available 24 hours a day to improve clients’ quality of life and manage personal and medical care.

• Family owned and operated since 1917

• Affordable services to fit any budget

• Advance funeral planning

• Professional, experienced, caring staff

• Flexible burial options

• Flexible payment options

Approved by all area Rabbis and Chevrah Kadisha

SERVICES TO PERSONS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

JFS offers a variety of services to support persons with special or differing needs and is grateful for funding for these services from United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, United Way of South Hampton Roads, and private donors who care about the social and emotional inclusion of persons with special needs.

TRANSPORTATION SERVICES

Limited transportation is available for medical and other necessary appointments.

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GU i DE TO JEW i SH L i V i NG i N T i DEWATER

CAMPS

CAMP JCC

Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus

5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200, Virginia Beach, Va. 23462

757-321-2306

DFlagler@UJFT.org

CampJCC.org

Director of Camp and Teen Engagement: Dave Flagler

Camp JCC at the Simon Family JCC offers a fun, enriching day camp experience for campers to explore their interests, try new activities, and build friendships in a safe, supportive environment.

Programs are available for children entering kindergarten through 8th grade, with CIT (Counselor-in-Training) opportunities for 9th and 10th graders.

Summer camp runs mid-June to early August, followed by “Last Blast” sessions to bridge the gap before school begins.

Camp JCC isn’t just for summer, it is also a year-round home for fun, growth, and community!

• Winter and Spring Break Camps

• School Days Out

• Kids Night Out — monthly evening programs starting in October

CAMP GAN ISRAEL - GAN IZZY

1920 Colley Avenue, Norfolk, Va. 23517 www.ganizzy.org

Director: Rashi Brashevitzky 757-616-0770, rashibrashi@me.com

Camp Gan Israel (“Gan Izzy”) is part of the largest worldwide network of Jewish day camps.

At Gan Izzy, campers’ days are filled with games, crafts, field trips, sports, swimming, and more—all with a Jewish twist! Each day of Gan Izzy also includes prayers and a Jewish lesson delivered in a child friendly and relevant fashion. The Gan Izzy experience is filled with great spirit and a love for Jewish heritage. Campers have been known to wait all year long to return to Gan Izzy and start the fun all over again.

CAMP SABABA BEACHAWAY

Directors of Camp: Danny Mishkin and Lynn Lancaster 516-499-5349 info@sabababeachaway.org

Sababa Beachaway is a co-ed residential summer camp for rising fifth through 12th graders, located in Virginia Beach.

Sababa immerses campers in the magic and majesty of the beach, adds the right amount of spiritual practice, and provides a fun, non-competitive yet challenging camp experience.

The camp’s two-week sessions invite campers to escape the grind in order to ride the wave, catch the wind, explore the sea, and capture the moment. Whether on a surfboard, in a sailboat, or under the sea, Sababa campers learn exhilarating new skills, build lifelong relationships, grow a stronger sense of self, and stoke an innate spiritual flame.

YOUTH GROUPS

BBYO

ckrutoy@bbyo.org

City Director - Tidewater: Courtney Krutoy

BBYO provides meaningful Jewish experiences for teens within their AZA (boys) and BBG (girls) chapters. Teens meet regularly at the Simon Family JCC for programs. Activities involve community service, socials, athletics, social action, and Judaics. BBYO also has several conventions each year as well as summer leadership programs and trips to Israel. BBYO is open to all teens in 8th through 12th grade.

NFTY: THE REFORM JEWISH YOUTH MOVEMENT

Mid-Atlantic Region—NFTY-MAR REFORM nfty.org/mar, nftymar@urj.org

NFTY MAR Regional Mentor: Lindsey Fleishman

Reform Jewish teens from North Carolina (excluding Charlotte), eastern West Virginia, Virginia, Maryland, and Washington, D.C., comprise NFTY-MAR. Members come together for learning, fun, worship, community service, and fellowship to help Jewish teens build and strengthen lifetime ties with each other and Reform Judaism.

OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE YOUTH (OSTY)

OSTY Advisors: Hannah Cooper and Hunter Thomas 757-625-4295 osty@ohefsholom.org

OSTY (Ohef Sholom Temple Youth Group) is for students in grades 9 - 12, and JOSTY (Junior OSTY) is for grades 6 - 8. Together, these youth groups offer meaningful opportunities to connect, grow, and have fun in a welcoming Jewish community.

Members take part in a mix of community service projects, social events, holiday celebrations, and regional or national gatherings. Whether it’s volunteering, sharing Shabbat together, or just enjoying a night out with friends, there’s something for everyone.

Along the way, participants build leadership skills, form lasting friendships, and create memories they’ll carry with them for years to come.

OSTY is affiliated with NFTY, the Reform Jewish Youth Movement of the Union for Reform Judaism.

GU i DE TO JEW i SH L i V i NG i N T i DEWATER

CEMETERIES

B’NAI ISRAEL CEMETERY

2710 Cromwell Road, Norfolk, Va.

757-627-7358

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CHEVRA T’HELIM

Shell Road near Frederick Blvd. and George Washington Highway Portsmouth, Va.

757-965-6130

FOREST LAWN CEMETERY

8100 Granby Street, Norfolk, Va.

757-441-1752

GOMLEY CHESED CEMETERY

Shell Road near Frederick Blvd. and George Washington Highway Portsmouth, Va.

757-965-6130

HEBREW CEMETERY

Princess Anne Road and Tidewater Drive, Norfolk, Va. 757-441-2576

MIKRO KODESH

2295-2355 Berkley Avenue, Chesapeake, Va.

757-965-6100

PRINCESS ANNE MEMORIAL PARK 1110 North Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach, Va. 757-481-1097

ROSEWOOD MEMORIAL PARK CEMETERY

631 N. Witchduck Road, Virginia Beach, Va. 757-497-8925

WOODLAWN MEMORIAL GARDENS

6329 E. Virginia Beach Boulevard, Norfolk, Va.

757-461-4054

WORKMEN’S CIRCLE

Railroad Avenue, Chesapeake, Va.

757-965-6100

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IT’S A WRAP

Zionism class provides deeper understanding of Israel for participants

Sam Nossen

The Konikoff Center of Learning aims to “inspire individuals to deepen their Jewish knowledge and connection.” As part of this goal, KCL offers courses by the Florence Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning.

One such course is “Understanding Zionism: The Return to the Jewish Homeland.” The course, recently taught by Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, spanned six sessions. Participants analyzed texts covering Zionists’ struggle for a Jewish Homeland and Israel’s place in modern Jewry.

During the fi rst class, Lautman and participants discussed the theoretical forms of Zionism and issues that led Jews to seek a Jewish nation. The three main groups were Labor Zionists, who spoke of returning to the holy land and creating a type of socialist commune;

Religious Zionists, who believed Jews were destined to return to Judea and renew Jewish religious life; and Political Zionists, who wanted Jewish statehood to be recognized by world powers.

During classes two and three, the learners continued to read through texts and discuss the evolution of Zionism from early Jewish settlers in the late 1800s to the creation of Israel in 1948. Focusing on the practical aspect of creating a Jewish state, learners spoke about the struggles Jewish migrants had with farming, and the evolution of Zionism after the British took control of Mandated Palestine and subsequently ceded control to the UN.

The ideas discussed in the first three sessions culminated in class four; participants discussed Israel’s declaration of independence and the controversial nature of legislation that declares Israel to be a Jewish nation-state while also being a democracy.

Sessions five and six focused on the Jewish diaspora’s relationship with Israel and what the future holds for Israel. A major takeaway was the importance of the Jewish Diaspora in the continued existence of Israel and the rift that has seemingly grown between Israel and the Diaspora resulting from the varying opinions held by Jews around the world regarding Israel and Gaza.

At the end of the class, participants expressed how the course provided them with “a deeper understanding of the yearnings for a Jewish homeland from the first calls for a homeland in the 19th century to the fulfillment of a nation-state in 1948 to the modern 21st century world.”

To learn more about programs and classes offered by Konikoff Center for Learning, go to JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, at SLautman@UJFT.org.

Seniors Club installs 2025–2026 board, celebrates culture and community at July meeting

The Simon Family Jewish Community Center’s Fleischmann Lounge was filled with warmth and excitement as members of the Seniors Club gathered for their July meeting, which included the formal installation of the club’s 2025–2026 Executive Board.

The new officers are:

• President / Senior Focus – Patsi Walton

• Financial Secretary / Membership –Philip Liebman

• Treasurer – Marc Pollock

• Recording Secretary / Book Club –Adrienne Royes

• Corresponding Secretary / Sunshine Corner – Evalyn Horowitz

Led by Sherry Lieberman, the new officer installation was filled with reflection and festive camaraderie—a celebration of leadership and community spirit.

Following the installation, members were treated to a spirited cultural program led by Mizrahi music and dance specialist Jackie Dratch. Her engaging presentation combined history, rhythm, and movement, drawing enthusiastic applause and joyful participation.

Patsi Walton, the Club’s new president, extended warm wishes to those unable to attend. “You were missed,” she said. “If illness or transportation challenges are keeping you from joining us, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We’d love to help however we can.”

The Seniors Club will take a field trip to the Chrysler Museum of Art on Wednesday, August 20. The group will meet at 11 am for lunch at the Simon Family JCC, earlier than the usual noon meeting time, before departing by bus to arrive at the museum by 12:30 pm. Space is limited, and members are encouraged to RSVP as soon as possible.

The Seniors Club welcomes all adults 55 and older who are looking to connect, learn, and enjoy time together. For more information, contact Robin Ford, interim seniors coordinator, at rford@ujft.org or 757-321-2304.

Robin Ford

Who says seniors can’t groove? Mizrahi music had the entire club dancing!

Nadiv visits Camp JCC, celebrates record fundraising total

The men of Nadiv visited Camp JCC on Friday, July 25 to spend the afternoon with campers and see firsthand the impact of the group’s fundraising efforts.

Nadiv, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s young men’s fundraising group, donated more than $25,000 to assist with Camp JCC camper scholarships for the 2025 summer. Nadiv raised the money by hosting two signature events, March Madness NCAA basketball bracket challenge and the first-ever Nadiv Poker Night.

At Camp JCC on July 25, Nadiv members assisted with a tie-dye shirt activity and participated in Shabbat festivities as camp concluded for the week.

Dave Flagler, Camp JCC director, orchestrated the visit, which was a perfect ending to a record-breaking year for Nadiv. The group boasts 45 members, all of whom contribute to the UJFT annual campaign (the suggested ask of Nadiv members is $365 or greater).

Nadiv is open to men ages 22 to 50 in Tidewater’s Jewish community. To join, contact Amy Zelenka, UJFT’s chief development officer, at AZelenka@ujft.org.

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Nadiv Chair Sam Molofsky (right) and Nadiv member Klaus Gaba (left) do a tie-dye activity with campers at Camp JCC.

Members of Nadiv spend time at Camp JCC: Danny Rubin, Sam Rachelson, Klaus Gaba, Adam Walker, Sam Molofsky, Yoel Lev and Seth Lubaton.

FIRST PERSON:

ShinShinim say goodbye to Tidewater

Over the past year, we have had the privilege of creating a second home in Tidewater, through the open arms, hearts, and doors of the amazing people we have met. We eagerly seized the incredible opportunity to engage with everyone we could, knowing that we would learn from them as much as we had to offer in knowledge and experience.

We met with community members of all ages at schools, universities, synagogues, organizations, retirement homes, and more, educating on everything Israel, from culture and traditions to history and current affairs. We were delighted to discover how curious and excited everyone was, how thirsty for knowledge they were, their courage and ability to ask important questions, and their passion to learn and share what they already knew.

We were able to experience

American Judaism and how it differs from the ingrained Jewish mentality prevalent in Israel. We learned a great deal about the various streams of Judaism, prayers, and different ways of belief. We explored how there are numerous interpretations, opinions, and ways to analyze religion and scripture, yet despite these differences, they manage to unite us and connect us all to Israel. Emily was fortunate to celebrate her Bat Mitzvah at Ohef Sholom Temple, thanks to the warm and generous guidance of Rabbi Roz and Cantor Jen.

We spoke with various groups in the community throughout the year about the tragic, important, and historic events that happened in Israel while we were here and their impact on Jews in the diaspora. We discussed many topics, such as Israeli society and society in general, Israel’s multi-front war, antisemitism on

campus, and more. We managed to have deep and fascinating conversations while dealing with disagreements and different perspectives that opened our eyes to all sides. We created meaningful connections and earned lifelong friends.

One of the greatest gifts we received during our Shinshinim year was the opportunity to live with our host families. From the very first moment, we felt like part of the family. Around the Shabbat table, on trips, at events, during holidays, and in everyday life – these families surrounded us with warmth, attentiveness, generosity, and a true sense of belonging. The connection with our host families was an inseparable part of our experience. Every conversation, every meal, every little smile left a meaningful mark on us. We learned so much from them, and more than anything, we felt loved, appreciated, and truly welcome.

We would be remiss not to mention the amazing travel opportunities we received this year. We explored the Blue Ridge Mountains, Shenandoah, New York City, Washington D.C, California, Florida, Tennessee, Boston, Chicago, Kentucky, and even Hawaii! It would be an understatement to say that our bucket lists were checked.

We closed the year with the amazing kids and counselors and Camp JCC, providing us the quintessential experience of a Jewish Day Camp.

We would like to conclude by expressing our gratitude. Thank you for the opportunity you gave us to make an impact. Thank you for the opportunity to enter your institutions, classrooms, community, and hearts. Thank you for entering our hearts and strengthening the invisible string between Tidewater and Israel.

Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk

Emily Patyuk, Nofar Trem, and Danielle Hartman at Norfolk Academy. Emily Patyuk and NADIV on an aircraft carrier.

Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk with ODU Hillel students.

Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk at Tidewater’s Yom Ha’Atzmaut celebration. Danielle Hartman and Emily Patyuk with Rabbi Roz Mandelberg (right) and Cantor Jen Rueben (left) Ohef Sholom Temple.

Emily Patyuk with her host family, the Portnoys.

Girls’ Night Out –Round 2 is another big success

Ellen Rostov Hundley Women’s Philanthropy proved again that when you mix limoncello with purpose and a passionate group of women, magic happens.

Held last month in the Sandler Family Campus’ Fleishman/Moss Lounge, Girls’ Night Out – Round 2 brought together a vibrant group of women for an uplifting evening of friendship, inspiration, and community spirit. From start to finish, the atmosphere was filled with energy and meaningful connections.

Signature cocktails by Linda Ausch (yes, her famous limoncello!), a celebrated highlight that complemented the evening’s festive spirit, a delicious spread from The Cardo Café, and the casual joy of summer set the perfect tone. Still, it was the voices that brought heart to the evening.

The program opened with a video message from Hava Levene of Neve Michael Children’s Home in Israel. Her words transcended distance and touched everyone in the room:

“We have been together over 30 years with the Tidewater Jewish Federation. WE ARE FAMILY. Your love and support are making our lives a little easier now. . . with your love and support, we are able to take care of the children. I cannot wait to see you in person and hug you and let you know how much you mean to all of us.”

Throughout the evening, a variety of

speakers connected their stories to the greater mission of Women’s Philanthropy.

• Rachael Feigenbaum, a new Women’s Philanthropy member and past chair of the Holocaust Commission, spoke with conviction about the Commission’s mission to educate and inspire: “to foster understanding of the Holocaust’s magnitude and uniqueness—while inspiring students, educators, and community members to uphold human dignity in a changing world.”

• Elka Mednick, representing the Jewish Community Relations Council, shared how the JCRC stands for dialogue, justice, and Jewish values. She also highlighted the impactful Be A Reader (BEAR) program, which for more than 22 years has promoted literacy in local schools through weekly volunteer reading sessions. “Through leadership, education, advocacy, and collaboration, we address key issues with Jewish values and respect for diversity at our core.”

• Hunter Thomas, Arts + Ideas director, spoke of the power of Jewish cultural expression—from books and film to exhibitions, performances, and signature events such as Yom HaAtzmaut. His remarks underscored how the arts can deepen understanding and bring the community together.

• Kelly Burroughs, CEO of Jewish Family Service, closed the evening by spotlighting the critical support JFS

provides—from transportation and care management to counseling, special needs services, and food assistance. Guests helped support JFS by bringing pantry staples such as baby food, cereal, and pasta—underscoring the night’s commitment to giving back. Burroughs also mentioned an upcoming celebration of the Hebrew Ladies Charity Society, to be held January 11, 2026, at Ohef Sholom Temple. “If you have any memorabilia from your parents or grandparents that were involved back in the day we would love to hear from you,” she said. Between speakers, attendees enjoyed

time to schmooze, sip, and savor the evening together—making new connections and strengthening old ones.

Linda Ausch says, “We’re already planning our next Plus 1 event for the fall — because let’s face it, everything’s better when shared – the laughs get louder, the stories get better, the night gets more fabulous — and it’s the perfect chance for friends to learn more about who we are and what we’re all about.”

Ellen Rostov Hundley is outreach chair of Girls Night Out Round 2 Event for Women’s Philanthropy.

Alicia London Friedman, Jody Laibstain, Arlene Soussan, Mona Flax, Ellen Coley and Ellen Rostov Hundley.

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Tidewater’s new Shinshinim set to arrive

Nofar Trem

Tidewater is entering its fourth year of collaboration with the Jewish Agency for Israel to host Shinshinim (Israeli Emissaries) on their mission to share Israeli culture, knowledge, and experiences with community members of all ages. Shinshin is an acronym for Shenat Sherut—a year of service by an elite group of kids between high school and their mandatory army service in Israel.

On Monday, August 18, Jewish Tidewater will welcome Noga Yaniv and Yarden Lahan to the community.

Noga Yaniv is 18 and lives in Kfar Saba with her parents and older sister. She loves spending time with her family and attending musicals and plays with her sister. In high school, she majored in cinema and geography with a focus on Geographic Information Systems (GIS). She says she loves writing, directing, and creating films. In her free time, she reads, cooks, bakes and participates in physical activities. For the past two years, she has been a counselor at Ruach Amiti, where she instructed grades 4 through 8.

Yarden Lahan is 18 years old and lives in Kiryat Ono, near Tel Aviv, with her younger brother, parents, and 19-year-old cat Gooey. Following in her mom’s artistic footsteps, she majored in arts and design and literature. She has been interested in art her entire life and loves learning new techniques in it, as well as writing. In her free time, she enjoys drawing, reading, and attending concerts. For the last three years, she has been a scout leader, helping mentor middle school-age kids.

Excerpts from a recent interview with the Shinshinim:

Nofar Trem: What made you apply for the Shinshinim program?

when I first heard about this program. I think it is such an important and amazing job to maintain the connection between Israel and the Jewish communities around the world.

NT: What previous experience do you have in America?

Noga Yaniv: I was introduced to this program by my youth movement coordinator, and since then, it has been my goal to be a part of it! I believe this role plays a vital and inspiring part in strengthening the bond between Israel and Jewish communities worldwide.

Yarden Lahan: It has been my dream since I was in 9th grade,

NY: As a gift for both my sister’s and my bat mitzvah, we traveled to the United States.

In 2016, we visited California and the West Coast, and in 2019, we went to New York and the East Coast. I loved everything about these trips, and I can’t wait to be back very soon!

YL: I have never been to America, but I do have some family in San Francisco. I am so excited to see with my own eyes all the wonderful things I’ve heard about!

NT: Is there anywhere you would like to visit while you are in America?

NY: I want to see the small towns and unique spots that most people overlook.

YL: I really want to see the beaches, the mountains, and of course, Sephora!

What would you like the community to know about you?

NY: I am so eager to arrive in Tidewater! I can’t wait to meet everyone, explore, engage, and learn.

YL: I am not the best at English so if at first, I stutter a little bit or ask you to repeat what you said, please be patient with me, I promise I’ll get used to it!

The community is encouraged to meet Noga Yaniv and Yarden Lahan at PJ Library in Tidewater’s End of Summer Shabbat on Friday, August 22. Register and purchase tickets at JewishVA.org/ EOS-Shabbat.

Those who are interested in taking the girls out on an adventure, hosting them for a meal, bringing them to an organization, or getting to know them better over coffee, go to JewishVA. org/Shinshinim or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org. Keep up to date on the exciting things they have in store for Tidewater on the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Facebook page.

Noga Yaniv.

Yarden Lahan.

SIMON FAMILY JCC

Families of Lifeguards at the Simon Family JCC

Sam Nossen

The summer of 2025 is a special year for the swimming pool at the Simon Family JCC, with a record number of 40 guards, enabling the pool to remain open throughout the summer without closures due to staff shortages. But what is truly unique about the summer of 2025 is the multitude of siblings and familial relations on staff.

One pair of siblings is Tom Edwards and his brother, Michael Lapinski. When asked about what it was like to work with his brother, Edwards, the Simon Family JCC’s athletic director, says, “I communicate really well with him, [and] we also laugh a lot with each other.” Lapinski, who has been a lifeguard and first responder for much of his life, joined Edwards at the JCC after COVID and became a trusted colleague and important member of Edwards’ staff.

In addition to four groups of siblings working together, two parent-child pairs are also collaborating. In 2024, Paul Mulcahy and his son Quinn worked as lifeguards at the JCC, and this year, Mulcahy’s daughter Grace is joining the JCC family as a swim instructor. Mulcahy, now 63, started his lifeguarding career in high school and continued throughout college, after which he worked as a helicopter rescue swimmer for 10 years. About working with his kids,

Mulcahy says, “It's fun; I like seeing them take charge, and my son Quinn was hired first, so I guess he’s my boss.”

Tara Clark and her daughter Mia are also working together at the JCC this year. Although Clark has yet to have a shift with Mia, she says that she “was excited by the idea of working with my daughter.”

Working with family is special, and this year, the pool at the Simon Family JCC is a place where families can work, play, and enjoy the summer weather together.

The Metzger Outdoor Aquatic Center opens most days at 11:30 am and offers activities ranging from swim lessons to aquatic workout classes and plenty of free swim and frolic time. The Dreyfus Family Indoor Aquatic Center, which features a heated therapy pool and more, opens most days at 5:30 am. For specific times and to get the pools’ current temperatures, go to simonfamilyjcc.org.

Paul Mulcahy.

Books come to life at the JCC Seniors Book Club

Next meeting: Monday, August 18 1:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus

Explore the many meanings of “God is One” Thursdays,

September 11November 20

A BISSEL of YIDDISH

A bissel of community Yiddish

A bit of Yiddish has managed to slip into everyday language. In fact, it’s not uncommon to hear people of all backgrounds talk about chutzpah. And most who do, have no idea they’re speaking Yiddish, a language historically spoken by Ashkenazi Jews.

A combination of High German and Hebrew, efforts are underway to keep the language alive through clubs, Youtube videos, classes, books, and performances.

Looking to add something fun and thought-provoking each month? The JCC Seniors Book Club, led by the always enthusiastic Adrienne Royes, might be the answer. Each month, the group explores a compelling book (sometimes two) – and occasionally gets to chat with the author.

11 am, Sandler Family Campus

Rabbi Michael Panitz

The club offers lively discussion, fresh perspectives, and a welcoming community of fellow book lovers. Several authors have even been known to pop in via Zoom to share insights into their characters, creative process, and inspirations. It’s a unique opportunity to engage directly with the minds behind the stories.

Rebecca of Ivanhoe by Alison Bass is this month’s book. Known for her investigative journalism and rich storytelling, Bass brings historical depth and emotional nuance to her work. Bass will join the club via Zoom on Monday, August 18. Then, on September 16, the club will dive into The Man Who Sold Air in the Holy Land by Omer Friedlander, a collection of beautifully crafted short stories that capture the complexity of life in Israel. Whether a seasoned reader or just looking for something new, the JCC Seniors Book Club is a place to “come for the books and stay for the conversation.”

For more information, contact Robin Ford, interim seniors coordinator, at rford@ujft.org or 757-321-2304.

The fundamental lesson emphasized about Judaism is the belief in One God. In fact, Judaism’s most important prayer is an excerpt of a speech from Moses to Israel, repurposed as a declaration made to God. That is, of course, the Shema Yisrael, which is understood as a ringing affirmation of monotheism. Some of the best-known rabbinic stories fill in what the Bible leaves out— how the young Abraham began the march of Jewish history by coming to believe that instead of the many gods worshiped in his society, there was only one. The monotheism of the rabbis, it turns out, is based on that of the Bible but is not identical to it.

Throughout history, Judaism’s core beliefs continued to develop. The religion’s greatest philosophers, from Maimonides in the Middle Ages to the leading theologians of today, have explained the meaning of monotheism in contrasting ways. Their differences are the result of the Jewish people adapting to the changing intellectual climate of the varied societies in which they lived. In addition, Jewish mystics, from Kabbalists to Hasidim to proponents of the Jewish Renewal movement, have explored what monotheism meanings in their traditions.

It turns out there are many meanings of “one.” What is meant by, “God is one”? As so often in Jewish life, it depends on which Jewish answers are being accessed.

Offered by the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, this 10-part course will be taught by Rabbi Michael Panitz, a specialist in the history of Jewish ideas and a veteran teacher in United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s adult education programs. The course costs $60 for Simon Family JCC members; $72 for guests.

Learn more or register at JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at SLautman@ UJFT.org.

Even in Tidewater, the Yiddish Club is making a comeback. Attendees at the monthly meetings are embracing Yiddish culture, language, and history with music, film, poetry, and literature. For information, go to www.Jewishva.org/YiddishClub.

Through A Bissel of Yiddish, Jewish News hopes to introduce and remind readers of a few Yiddish words and phrases. Bissel is Yiddish for ‘little,’ by the way.

Harry Graber is researching and compiling each installment.

Yiddish word

Chutzpah

From Chabad.org, Chutzpah is a Hebrew word that has been adopted into Yiddish and then English. Chutzpah can be defined as audacity, insolence, impudence, gall, brazen nerve, effrontery, incredible guts, presumption and arrogance.

Chutzpah is a kind of attitude, “as though there’s nothing really there stopping you from doing whatever you want.” It can be good or bad.

Yiddish phrase

Since this issue contains the Guide to Jewish Living in Tidewater, “Community” is the topic for some Yiddish phrases.

Alleh Yiddin zenen farantvotlekh eyner far dem adnderen.

All Jews are responsible for one another.

Mir zolt nit tzesheiden zikh fin der kehilla.

Do not separate yourself from the community.

Bamerken vi gut an vi ahongenem dos is far brideren un shvesteren tzi voynen tsuzamen.

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.

Ich darf nit as di misn mit mir ober ich darf as di misn zorgen vegen mir!

I don’t need you to agree with me, I need you to care about me!

Robin Ford

WHAT’S HAPPENING JEWISH TIDEWATER

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JCRC shares Jewish Holiday Calendar and letter to promote inclusion

As summer transitions into fall, the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater annually takes deliberate steps to ensure Jewish students, families, and professionals are recognized and respected in their schools, workplaces, and cultural spaces.

Part of this ongoing effort includes the annual distribution of a letter and a five-year Jewish holiday calendar (JewishVa.org/5-year) to public and private school principals, college and university faculty, civic leaders, arts administrators, and other key partners throughout the region. This outreach encourages inclusive scheduling practices that account for major Jewish observances and promotes broader awareness of Jewish life within the diverse community.

By initiating these conversations and sharing educational tools, the JCRC continues its mission of building bridges across sectors while actively supporting Jewish visibility and belonging. A logistical aid, the calendar is also a reminder of the importance of cultural respect, accommodation, and allyship in public life.

Through this work, the JCRC reaffi rms its commitment to advocating for the Jewish community while fostering partnerships rooted in mutual understanding and shared values.

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BeAR gears up for 26th year with books and big dreams

Robin Ford

Surrounded by stacks of colorful books, the BeAR team is deep into preparations for the 2025–2026 school year, which is BeAR’s 26th year of inspiring young readers.

Be A Reader (BeAR) partners with Title I schools to support second grade students who need a little extra help reaching grade-level reading skills. Through weekly one-on-one mentoring and a steady supply of engaging books, BeAR helps open doors for children who might otherwise fall behind during this crucial learning year.

When a child becomes a confident reader, it changes how they experience school – and how they see themselves.

Tidewater BBYO plans 2025 Fall Kickoff at Top

Sunday,

Golf

September 7

10 am – 12 pm

Courtney Krutoy

Teens in 8th through 12th grade are invited to join Tidewater’s BBYO for its fall kickoff event.

The $10 registration fee includes two hours of play and drinks (soda, lemonade, and water). Light snacks will be provided, and additional food will be available for purchase.

Registration is required and closes on September 3. Go to JewishVA.org/ BBYOFallKickoff.

Members and prospective members of Simcha BBG and Old Dominion AZA are invited to the first chapter meetings and programs of the school year.

Simcha BBG will make memory boxes and OD AZA will play basketball (dress accordingly) after their chapter meetings. Brunch will be provided. The fun starts Sunday, September 21 at 10 am at the Simon JCC.

Courtney Krutoy is Eastern Region BBYO’s Tidewater city director.

As BeAR begins its 26th year, new volunteers are signing up, returning mentors are reconnecting with schools, and fresh, carefully chosen book selections are being added – stories designed to spark curiosity and reflect the lives and imaginations of young readers.

With dedication, heart, and a strong community of volunteers, BeAR is ready to help another class of second graders discover the joy and power of reading – one child, one book, one page at a time.

Consider becoming a BeAR mentor by committing just one hour a week in a Norfolk or Virginia Beach school. Contact Robin Ford, BeAR coordinator, at 757-321-2304 or RFord@ujft.org for more information.

Last chance to join Hebrew for Beginners: A 6-week course Begins:

Tuesday,

August 12

5:30 pm

Sandler Family Campus

Have you always wanted to read and speak Hebrew but didn’t know where to start?

Whether completely new to the language or looking to refresh skills, Hebrew for Beginners is a place to begin the journey.

Presented by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Konikoff Center for Learning and taught by Temple Emanuel’s Rabbi Ari Oliszewski, this engaging six-week course is designed to offer the foundational tools to read and write in Hebrew. Through interactive lessons and a supportive classroom environment, students will gain confidence in recognizing Hebrew letters, vowels, and basic vocabulary—essential building blocks for prayer, study, and connection to Jewish life.

Classes will be held weekly. The course is open to all adults and teens, and no prior experience is necessary. Cost is $28 for JCC members / $36 for potential members.

Space is limited. Register at JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@ujft.org for more information.

Robin Ford with new books for the 2025-2026 school year.

AUGUST 11 - OCTOBER 31, MONDAY - FRIDAY

JCC 3x3x3 Fitness Challenge. Sign in for an average of 3 group fitness classes per week (36 total) to win a JFit water bottle and bragging rights. Free with JCC membership. JFit Gym at the Simon Family JCC. Registration: MyJ app: JewishVA.org/new-app.

BEGINNING AUGUST 12, TUESDAYS

Hebrew for Beginners: An Introductory Course. Learn to read and write Hebrew in this 6-week course taught by Rabbi Ari Oliszewski. 5:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. $28 JCC members. $36 potential members. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@Ujft.org. See page 50

AUGUST 13, WEDNESDAY

Jae Sinnett Trio. Performance features pianist Dr. Weldon Hill and bassist Terry Burrell. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $30 in advance. $35 at door. Information and reservations: 757-391-9266 or jmccportsmouth@gmail.com.

AUGUST 15 AND 17, FRIDAY AND SUNDAY

OST Sisterhood Rummage Sale. 9 am – 2 pm. Ohef Sholom Temple. Information: Ellen R. Hundley at erhundley2010@gmail.com.

AUGUST 20, WEDNESDAY

Bagels and Fraylox Klezmer Band. These six band members, Roger Schultz, clarinet, Lance Pedigo, drums, Andy Petkofsky, bass, Howard Bierenbaum, clarinet and saxophone, David Gussman, accordion, and Jonathan Rathsam, vocals, play songs from 19th century Eastern European to American pop, folk, jazz, and bluegrass. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $30 in advance. $35 at door. Information and reservations: 757-391-9266 or jmccportsmouth@gmail.com.

AUGUST 22, FRIDAY

End of Summer Shabbat Dinner & Pool Party. Celebrate Shabbat with PJ Library, PJ Our Way, and NADIV. Pool games, BBQ dinner, welcome Rabbi Jacob Haber, and meet new ShinShinim. 5 pm. Dinner 6 pm. Simon Family JCC Outdoor Waterpark. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@Ujft.org.

AUGUST 23, SATURDAY

YAD Cookout and Havdalah. 7:30 – 10 pm. Location offered upon registration. Information and registration: Amy Zelenka at 757-965-6139 or azelenka@ujft.org.

AUGUST 24, SUNDAY

Jewish Military Welcome Pool Party. Join PJ Library military families for a pool party welcoming friends new and old. A great way to meet other Jewish military families in Tidewater. 9:30 – 11 am. Location at a private residence. Information and registration: Jackie Dratch at pjtidewater@gmail.com.

SEPTEMBER 2 – OCTOBER 25, TUESDAYS

JCC Youth Soccer League for children 6 - 9 years old. Learn basic soccer fundamentals, including dribbling, passing, shooting, throw-ins, defense, and teamwork. Practices encompass the first half, second half will be for playing games. Open to members and guests. 4:45 – 5:45 pm. Simon Family JCC. Registration: JewishVA.org/YouthSoccer.

BEGINNING SEPTEMBER 11, THURSDAYS

GOD: Many Ideas of “One” – Ten Jewish Views of the Divine. Explore evolving Jewish understandings of God in this 10-week course with Rabbi Dr. Michael Panitz. 11 pm. Sandler Family Campus. $60 JCC members. $72 for potential members. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@Ujft.org. See page 48

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Robert Sanford Cohen

VIRGINIA BEACH – Robert Sanford Cohen, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and respected attorney, passed away peacefully at the age of 96, leaving behind a legacy of deep integrity, enduring friendships, and unwavering commitment to both his family and community.

Bob was born in Troy, New York, on September 23, 1928, to Israel John (“Johnny”) Cohen and Elizabeth (“Betty”) Weinstein. From a young age, he demonstrated natural leadership, a keen sense of humor, and a love for spirited competition.

A proud graduate of Troy High School, Bob balanced academic achievement with sports and work—selling shoes and assisting in his father’s store, The Tower Shop. He played on a traveling basketball team and served as president of Alpha Beta Gamma, his high school fraternity.

Bob attended Siena College while helping to care for his younger brother, Davey, after the early death of his mother. Though he initially studied premed at his father’s suggestion, Bob quickly realized that his true calling was law. He was accepted to Brooklyn Law School after three years of undergraduate work, graduating from law school at the top of his class.

While in college, he met the love of his life, Joan Lee Schrager, who invited him to a Sadie Hawkins Dance. Joan was 15 and the co-chair of the dance for her sorority, Delta Psi. After dating for four years, they were married on June 3, 1951 at Temple Beth El in Troy, N. Y.

Bob began his legal career with the U.S Army Judge Advocate General’s Corps during the Korean War—an assignment that would ultimately lead the newlyweds to Norfolk, Va. where they built a beautiful life together.

Over a period of 60 years, Bob built a thriving legal practice and held leadership positions in numerous professional organizations, serving as president of the Virginia Trial Lawyers Association, the Norfolk/Portsmouth Bar Association, and the Tidewater Association of Claimant Attorneys. Bob took great pride in mentoring many up-and-coming lawyers in Hampton Roads. In addition to practicing law, he also served his community as a substitute judge before retiring well into his 80’s.

Bob was an accomplished handball player, still winning tournaments well into his

later years. He enjoyed competition not only for the sport but for the friendships and camaraderie it brought into his life. He also loved to swim, whether in a pool or the ocean, and was still swimming laps into his early 90’s.

By far, Bob’s proudest achievement was the life he built with his beloved “Joanie,” with whom he recently celebrated 74 years of marriage. Together, they raised three children—Beth, Bari, and Adam—instilling in them a deep love of family, learning, and community. He adored his six grandchildren, four great- grandchildren and took immense pride in watching the next generations grow, always eager to share a story or offer a guiding word. The love of his family was the foundation of his life.

Bob Cohen will be remembered for his quick wit, principled leadership, and generosity of spirit that touched everyone who knew him. He stayed sharp well into his 90’s and was always deeply curious about the world around him, reading voraciously, following politics, sports, and world events.

He is survived by his wife, Joan Schrager Cohen, his children, Beth Jaffe (Nathan), Bari Kraus (Chris), and Adam Cohen (Janet); his grandchildren: Zachary Lewis (Courtney), Alyson Lewis (Emily), Emilee Maxwell (Jake), Cohen Kraus, Davis Cohen, and Max Cohen and his great grandchildren Carrington and William Lewis and Avery and Cameron Maxwell.

A Memorial Service, led by Rabbi Michael Panitz, was held at HD Oliver Funeral Home. A private burial took place.

Memorial donations to the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund at Temple Israel or a charity of the donor’s choice. Online condolences may be offered at hdoliver.com.

Jonas Michael Goldman

VIRGINIA BEACH – Jonas Michael Goldman, born on April 26, 1989, in Norfolk, Va., passed away on July 13, 2025, in Virginia Beach, Va., at the age of 36.

From an early age, Jonas was a comedian, athlete, music lover, doting son, and everybody’s friend. Jonas was deeply passionate about surfing, cherished spending time with his family, and nurtured his Jewish faith.

Jonas always had a concert to look forward to, a pint of ice cream to finish, a witty cheerful text or story to share. He was an eternal optimist. Jonas's lighthearted wit

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and playful spirit touched everyone he met. Those who knew him will carry forward countless moments of shared laughter as part of his enduring legacy.

Jonas was a lifelong Virginian; he graduated from Frank W. Cox High School and earned multiple degrees in accounting from Coastal Carolina University. He spent most of his career in sales as a dedicated professional, advancing to regional management where he oversaw both sales and operations. His career was marked by diligence, deep relationships, and an unwavering commitment to excellence.

He is survived by his loving parents, Edward and Kathleen Goldman; his devoted sister, Claire Garrison, and her husband, Charles; his beloved nieces, Cassidy Grace and Charlotte “CC” Marie Garrison; his paternal uncle, Michael Goldman of Atlanta, and paternal aunt, Anne Goldman of Virginia. He is also survived by his maternal aunts, Ann D’Auria, Janet O’Hanlon and her husband, Jack, and Patsy LaPlante and her husband, Jack.

Jonas was lucky to have a large extended family of cousins and second cousins to share strong bonds and many family milestones. In addition to his relatives, his friends were family. From an early age, Jonas built relationships with friends that became pillars of his life.

A celebration of Jonas’s life for family, friends, and well-wishers was held at the Delta Marriott Virginia Beach Waterfront. A paddle out in Jonas’s honor took place from the Delta’s shoreline. Share memories and offer condolences online at EverLoved. Memorial contributions to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research.

Elaine Dobken Lichty

VIRGINIA BEACH - Elaine Dobken Lichty passed away peacefully on July 3, 2025, at 89 years old. She was born in New Jersey on October 29, 1935.

Elaine is preceded in death by her loving husband of 61 years, Sherman “Sherm” Lichty, and her two brothers, Phillip and Harold Dobken. Elaine is survived by her sons, Jeffrey (Stephanie) and Michael (Kerri) Lichty as well as six grandchildren and one great grandchild.

Anyone who met Elaine was an instant friend. Elaine had an electric personality, timeless humor, a quick wit, and

compassionate heart. She spent her days traveling with her husband Sherm, playing mahjong with her friends, or enjoying a show at the theater.

She was loved by many and will be remembered fondly by her sons Jeff and Mike and her grandchildren Jamie (Shaun), Ryan, Jay (Kara), Abby, Molly, and Josh as well as a great grandchild Brayden.

A day with Elaine meant a day of laughing, singing, sound advice, whatever cookies she had in her pantry and memories that span generations. Elaine had one prerogative in life and that was to have a good time and to share that good time with others. She found great success in this, and she will be deeply missed.

The family held a small graveside ceremony at Forest Lawn cemetery.

The family requests that donations be made in Elaine’s memory to a local animal shelter.

Altmeyer Funeral Homes Southside Chapel. To express condolences, visit www.altmeyerfh.com.

Barbara Friedman Schechter NORFOLK - A resident of Harbor’s Edge in Norfolk, Barbara passed away April 29, 2025, surrounded by family.

Born with a congenital heart condition known as Tetralogy of Fallot (Blue Baby disease), she lived “way beyond years she thought possible,” with the advances of medicine and the medical savvy of her physician father and then her physician husband. Barbara thrived and was probably the oldest living Tetralogy of Fallot patient.

At 10 years of age, she was within the fi rst group of 100 children to have the Blalock/Taussig Shunt procedure when it went beyond laboratory experiments at Johns Hopkins University. Then at 39 years of age, Barbara survived the fi rst attempt at total correction at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn. Her fi nal, successful total correction was achieved at 72 years of age at Boston Children/Brigham Women’s Hospital in Boston, Mass.

Barbara was born in Los Angeles, Calif., during her father’s medical training. Her parents then returned to their childhood village of Freeport, Long Island, N.Y. Her fl ight surgeon father was drafted in WWII.

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family moved to Texas, where Barbara joined other “Army brats” in her early school years. Returning once again to Freeport, Barbara completed her schooling.

A prominent artist in high school, Barbara attended Syracuse University School of Art for two years, before marrying pre-med student Gary Lee Schechter. Barbara’s educational desires varied. She went to the New York School of Interior Design, obtaining an interior design license. When her children started high school, Barbara went back to school, attending Old Dominion University and falling in love with English. She graduated

with a BA, then an MBA in English. Barbara then went on to do freelance medical editing and writing. She was a recognized medical editor in textbooks and was an award-winning author in sailing magazines. All her life she continued with art, enjoying most success with palette knife oil painting.

Reading was her passion, especially British Literature.

Barbara deeply loved her husband Gary, and spent 60 years with him camping, sailing, and enjoying country life in their special farmhouse in Mathews County, Va. Upon retiring to Florida, Barbara and Gary

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enjoyed the beautiful weather and traveling with their motor home until Gary’s death in September 2018.

A true dog lover, she cherished each one of the nine rescues she had throughout her life.

Barbara leaves behind her adored three children, Jordana Schechter Efland (Michael), Stefan Schechter Rosenberg (Paul), and Rick Schechter (Sandy), 10 grandchildren, Jessica Efland, Matthew Efland (Brittany), Elizabeth Rosenberg Levy (Joe), Jacob Rosenberg (Hannah), Kristina Skeen, Kaitlyn Schechter, and Jack Schechter, three great grandchildren, Rose, Noah and Jonah, sister Karen Stapf, and several nieces and nephews.

A memorial service was held at Altmeyer Funeral Home in Virginia Beach. Burial was private.

Donations to WHRO at www.tmcfunding.com or the Norfolk SPCA at www. tmcfunding.com. Please also consider being an organ donor. Condolences may be left online at www.altmeyerfh.com.

Richard Allen Schechter

NORFOLK - Richard “Rick” Allen Schechter, born on August 18, 1965, at Norfolk General Hospital in Norfolk, Virginia, departed this life on July 18, 2025, in Norfolk, Virginia. He was 59 years old.

Rick was a man of many talents and passions. An avid woodworker, he possessed an extraordinary ability to work with his hands, which he demonstrated both as a maintenance engineer for Norfolk Coffee and Tea and through his own business, Anything That’s Wood. His craftsmanship and dedication to his work were admired by all who knew him.

Beyond his professional life, Rick had a deep love for the outdoors. Whether fishing, woodworking, or simply being out on the water, he found solace and joy in nature. He was also an enthusiastic gardener and enjoyed cooking for his loved ones. His favorite color was pink, and he had a particular fondness for the music of Ozzy Osbourne, the “Prince of Darkness.”

Rick was more than his skills and hobbies; he was a remarkable person known for his personable and outgoing nature. He had a knack for making everyone feel at ease and was always happy and positive. Known affectionately as the “MacGyver” of

the family, he could fix anything and had a great sense of humor that brought laughter to his nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his beloved parents, Barbara F. Schechter and Gary Lee Schechter, M.D. Rick leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories with his devoted wife, Sandra, and their three children, Kristina, Kaitlyn “Drum,” and Jack. He is also survived by his two sisters, Jordie Efland (Michael) and Stefan Rosenberg (Paul), along with numerous nieces, nephews, and a host of family and friends who will forever hold him in their hearts.

Funeral arrangements were entrusted to Altmeyer Funeral Home and Cremations, Southside Chapel.

Rick’s family and friends will remember him as a loving husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend, whose spirit of generosity and humor touched the lives of all who knew him. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who loved him dearly.

Allen Arthur Steckenberg

VIRGINIA BEACH - With heavy hearts and profound respect, we commemorate the vibrant life of Allen Arthur Steckenberg, affectionately known as “Steck,” who passed away on July 19, 2025, in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

Born on August 28, 1941, in New York, Steck lived a full and inspiring 83 years.

Steck was a proud New Yorker who carried the spirit of his beloved city wherever life led him. Over 30 years ago, he ventured south to Virginia Beach with his late parents, where he continued to spread his infectious enthusiasm for sports. Known for his unwavering love of baseball, he cherished the thrill of attending live games, often choosing to watch an exciting match over other commitments.

Beyond his love for sports, Steck thoroughly enjoyed Chinese food and the presence of familiar friends and support staff.

Steck's life was a testament to embracing one’s interests wholeheartedly. Though he is no longer with us, his enthusiastic attitude for sports will continue to inspire all who knew him. May his memory be a blessing.

A graveside service, under the direction of Altmeyer Funeral Home, was officiated by Rabbi Dr. Michael Panitz.

Tom Lehrer, satirist who sang about ‘Hanukkah in Santa Monica’

Philissa Cramer (JTA) — Tom Lehrer never identified closely with his ancestral Judaism. But the famed satirist and mathematician, who died Saturday, July 26 at 97, wrote one of the first popular songs about a Jewish holiday.

(I’m Spending) Hanukkah in Santa Monica debuted in 1990, well after Lehrer’s peak as a performer, on a come-from-retirement performance on Garrison Keillor’s radio show.

Keillor commissioned the new song from Lehrer because, he observed, Jews had written many popular Christmas songs but none for their own holidays.

“There was thus a deplorable lacuna in the repertoire, which this song, a sort of answer to White Christmas. was intended to remedy,” Lehrer said on air.

The resulting song — which also mentions spending “Shavuos in East St. Louis,” “Rosh Hashanah in Arizona” and “Yom Kippur in Mississippi” (try saying it out loud with a Southern accent) — has grown more popular in recent years. The writer Sarah Weinman attributed its rise to the New York City nightclub impresario Michael Feinstein, whom she said had turned the gossip columnist Liz Smith, composer Marvin Hamlisch, and writer Nora Ephron on to the song.

Notable recent covers have included an arrangement by the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles, a jazzy version by the singer Deborah Silver, and a Yiddish rendition that spells the title Khanike in Santa Monica.

The song was a departure for Lehrer, who was born in Manhattan in 1928 and grew up in a secular Jewish family. He rarely spoke about his personal life, but in the liner notes of a compendium album released in 2000, he addressed his family’s relationship to Judaism.

“More to do with the delicatessen

than the synagogue. My brother and I went to Sunday School, but we had Christmas trees, and ‘God’ was primarily an expletive, usually preceded by ‘oh’ or ‘my’ or both,” he said.

Lehrer enrolled at Harvard University at 15, where he studied math before joining the U.S. Army and then returning to Cambridge for a graduate degree. He gained renown locally for his parodies, which often took aim at divisive political issues and pushed the boundaries of propriety. His first album, which he paid to record in 1953 and sold at his performances, became a cult hit that ultimately propelled him to multiple world tours, a shoutout by England’s Princess Margaret and, in 1965, a spot in the Billboard Top 20 for his album That Was The Year That Was (it peaked at No. 18).

Lehrer retired from touring in 1967 but continued to write songs for TV shows and dabble in musical theater intermittently for some time. But he spent the bulk of his time in the classroom, teaching math and, at one point, musical theater, at Harvard, the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and the University of California, Santa Cruz.

Famously private, Lehrer never married or had children. He died at his home in Cambridge, which he kept while dividing his time between the coasts.

While (I’m Spending) Hanukkah in Santa Monica was the Lehrer song that put Judaism in the title, at least one other famous song contained Jewish content as well. The 1965 song National Brotherhood Week, which pilloried an event promoting togetherness at a time of rising tension over race, drew laughs when he got to the verse about religion.

“Oh, the Protestants hate the Catholics, And the Catholics hate the Protestants,” he sang. “And the Hindus hate the Moslems, And everybody hates the Jews.”

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in June Saved from the rubble: the story of Israel’s PhotoHouse

Hunter Thomas

In May 2023, the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater hosted Ben Peter, owner of Tel Aviv’s PhotoHouse and grandson of its founder Rudi Weissenstein, for Tidewater’s community celebration of Israel @ 75. Weissenstein was one of the preeminent photographers in pre-state Israel, and the PhotoHouse contains tens of thousands of his negatives in its archive. Prints of some of his photographs are now on permanent display at the Sandler Family Campus.

In June, the PhotoHouse was struck by an Iranian missile and was severely damaged. The article below was originally published on The Librarians, the National Library of Israel’s official online publication. The National Library of Israel is a UJFT partner, and its collections have been featured in multiple exhibits and events at the Simon Family JCC.

More of the library’s content is available at www.blog. nli.org.il/en. Support the PhotoHouse by visiting https://www. thephotohouse.co.il/en. Product orders and donations will help support its speedy restoration.

Yael Ingel, June 30, 2025

The historic PhotoHouse shop on Allenby Street in Tel Aviv was severely damaged in a recent Iranian missile attack. But what exactly was the life’s work of photographer Rudi Weissenstein, and why does it hold a special place in so many hearts?

The treasures of the PhotoHouse were saved by sheer luck. The missile that destroyed the historic storefront on Tel Aviv’s Allenby Street landed in the early morning, when the shop was empty. It happened on Monday, June 16, 2025. Mai Masarwa, the shop’s manager, shared that she was horrified when she arrived to find the store shattered and in ruins. By chance, the store and the priceless archive it houses, containing tens of thousands of negatives capturing rare images from Israel’s early years, did not catch fire. Mai estimated that the missile fell just 50 meters from the shop.

But the beloved establishment didn’t remain in ruins for long. Friends and relatives nearby helped assess the extensive damage and begin clearing the chaos inside. A civilian command center set up by the Tel Aviv municipality quickly dispatched volunteers eager to lend a hand. Equipped with gloves, they arrived and began removing debris and shards of glass scattered everywhere. To Mai’s great relief, she discovered that the true treasures had survived unscathed.

The PhotoHouse, also known as “Pri-Or,” is a cultural gem that has stood in the same location since the British Mandate era. This is the legendary shop of photographer Rudi Weissenstein, home to his vast archive of hundreds

of thousands of historical photos. Although the building underwent renovations, completed just two years ago, its original location has been preserved. The PhotoHouse is a treasure trove of Israeli history, especially from the time of the state’s founding and its first few decades. Several years ago, the National Library of Israel began digitizing Weissenstein’s work, and today tens of thousands of photos from his extensive, rare collection are preserved at the Library and accessible to all.

In recent years, the PhotoHouse has become not only a destination for photography enthusiasts and lovers of paper products who want to bring a touch of Rudi’s unique perspective into their homes, but also a cultural hub, hosting lectures, workshops, events, and exhibitions by Israeli artists. Today, Rudi’s grandson, Ben Peter Dagan, leads the PhotoHouse’s activities. Mau has managed the shop for the past seven years, and it feels like a second home to her. Rudi (Rudolf) Weissenstein was born in Czechoslovakia in 1910. At the age of eight, he received a camera from his father, an amateur photographer, and from that point on he never parted with it. He studied graphic design and photography at Vienna’s Higher Federal Institution for Graphic Education and Research, along with humanities courses. When Rudi began his career as a photojournalist for the Czech Foreign Ministry magazine in Prague, he quickly understood the value of a negatives archive and the importance of preserving and documenting it. This principle guided him throughout his career. One of the greatest strengths of the collection Rudi left behind is its meticulously organized archive, with detailed records of when each photo was taken and who and what appears in it, making it easy to navigate and search.

established. Over the next 45 years as an Israeli photographer, Weissenstein seemed to visit every corner of the young country, documenting its growth through both historic events and everyday moments. His work journals, kept with his photo collection, testify to his tireless dedication and consistent activity from the 1930s through the 1970s.

Weissenstein’s sharp and compassionate eye for the people of his time shines through his many photographs. His connection with the builders of the new nation, from every community and background, and his respect for the country’s Arab residents, are evident throughout his work. He documented not only Tel Aviv, where he lived, but also the development of communities across the country, capturing the daily struggles during the years of austerity with striking honesty. He worked for the British Mandate authorities and later for various institutions in the new state. His love for and appreciation of Israel’s diverse society can be seen in every frame he captured. Even after Rudi’s death in 1992, and Miriam’s passing in 2011, the PhotoHouse has continued to thrive as a vibrant business, preserving and celebrating this rich family and historical archive.

Weissenstein photographed the moments all want to remember, from the declaration of Israel’s independence and the establishment of kibbutzim, cities, and towns, to the founding of important projects in Zionist history. His photographs are exceptional in capturing the full sweep of Israel as a young state. He managed to document not only striking portraits of national leaders, but also ordinary people, from dockworkers and farmers to children playing on the beach.

A Zionist upbringing at home, combined with a number of antisemitic incidents, led Weissenstein to immigrate to Israel in 1935. It was then that he met his wife, Miriam, who became his partner in life and in the photography business he

This article was originally published on The Librarians, the National Library of Israel’s official online publication dedicated to Jewish, Israeli, and Middle Eastern history, heritage and culture.

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The PhotoHouse (HaZalmania) on Allenby Street in Tel Aviv, after an Iranian missile struck just a few dozen meters away, June 2025. Photo: Lior Horesh