UNEXPECTED GIFTS by Anne Hurt, Director of Development tough calls. It wasn’t easy those first few years, but Shands was up to the task. He believed in Trinity then and still does today. Trinity was founded on the perseverance of those who believed what could be. When I asked Shands what he thought about Trinity today, he simply said, “unbelievable.” And so are you, Mr. Shands!
Trinity moms from left to right: Hope Bolger, Ruby Jane Robertson, Marilyn Kern, Virginia Goodman, Patricia Brady, Brenda West, Marilyn Stewart and Martha Singdahlsen
During my time at Trinity and through my work in nonprofit fundraising, I have quickly learned that gifts come in many shapes and forms. It’s a kind word. A new friend. A listening ear. A smile. An introduction. A hand written note. It’s the unexpected.
Billy Shands, Bob Goodman and the Rev. Robert Steilberg break ground for Trinity’s first building.
On the next page you will read about our upcoming capital project for a sports turf field in Aycock Stadium. Just like so many of our campus enhancements, this project all began because families and individuals came forward and wanted something better for our students. What was once a dream for our athletics program is now becoming a reality because of the generous spirit from the Trinity community. These bonds and selfless acts are the foundation of Trinity. I am thankful for those who each day choose to give in some way to the Titan community. We are made better, stronger and kinder because of you.
Trinity’s history is steeped in generosity. This fall I had the pleasure of having lunch with a group of moms whose children attended Trinity together. Started by Susan Manning ten years ago, this group gathers the first Wednesday of every month for free pie and laughter at one of their favorite local restaurants. It was almost like their children had graduated from Trinity just last year from the way they were reminiscing! I so enjoyed the conversation and stories shared with this group of women who were brought together because of Trinity. It was an instant connection that turned into lifelong friendships — a gift that has spanned over four decades. Billy Shands was — and still is — a true gift to Trinity. I met Mr. Shands and his wife, Lynneth, a year ago upon learning about his involvement in Trinity’s founding. Shands was Trinity’s first board chairman and worked tirelessly those early years when a new independent school south of the James River was nothing but a dream. Shands rallied the troops. He sought out the funding. He hired Trinity’s first headmaster, Bob Goodman. He made the
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Billy Shands and Anne Hurt during a recent visit
