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Minds, or introducing his new project MENtality with Ebuka, his calm presence and clarity continue to set him apart. A lawyer turned media personality, Ebuka studied law at the University of Abuja and graduated from the Nigerian Law School in 2005 before earning a Master of Laws in Intellectual Property and Communications Law from the American University in Washington DC. Nigeria first met him in 2006 as one of 14 housemates on the debut season of Big Brother Nigeria.
very October, the world goes pink — but how much has really changed? The ribbons, hashtags, and charity walks return every year like clockwork. But behind the colour and the campaigns are real women whose stories don’t end with awareness posts. That’s why the article “Beyond the Ribbon: What Breast Cancer Awareness Should Mean in 2025” feels like one of the most important reads in this edition. When the movement first began, the goal was clear: to get people talking, to encourage regular check-ups, and to end the silence that once surrounded breast cancer. And for a while, it worked. Women began getting screened, survival rates improved, and conversations about breast health became less awkward. But somewhere along the line, awareness started to look more like branding. The pink ribbon became a logo. The campaigns became annual events. And yet, for many women, especially in Africa, real help still feels out of reach.
The truth is, awareness alone isn’t saving lives anymore. Access is. In too many places, women still die not because they don’t know the risks, but because they can’t afford the cure. Mammograms are too expensive or simply unavailable. Hospitals are miles away. Chemotherapy costs a fortune. For these women, the issue isn’t ignorance; it’s inequality.
So maybe the next phase of awareness should focus less on slogans and more on solutions. We need affordable screenings, better-equipped hospitals, and community health programs that reach every woman, from cities to small towns. Yes, the Government must do more, but the rest of us aren’t bystanders either. It starts with conversation, asking your mum when she last checked, reminding your sister or friend to schedule an exam, or offering support to someone in treatment. And let’s not forget, men aren’t excluded from this story. Breast cancer in men is rare, but it happens. The earlier it’s detected, the better the chances. Awareness should include everyone, because silence helps no one. So, wear your pink this month if you want to, but make it mean something. Book that appointment. Talk about it. Show up. Because the real message of awareness isn’t in the campaign, it’s in the care we give and the attention we pay.
And it’s not all seriousness, we’ve also added something tender, “The Tiny Green Flags in Love We Often Miss.”
It’s the kind of story that softens you a little, reminding us that love isn’t always about grand gestures. Sometimes it’s in the way someone listens, remembers the small things, or makes you feel safe without trying. It’s a quiet kind of love — steady, calm, and real.
This issue is full of reminders to care, check, and notice. Whether it’s your health or your heart, the same gentle truth applies: pay attention.
There are a few unspoken laws that hold the sisterhood together — the ones that don’t need to be written down because every woman instinctively knows them. They’re the foundation of female friendship, the reason your best friend knows exactly what to say when your heart’s in pieces, and why you’ll never let your girl walk into a room looking anything less than her best. Welcome to Girl Code — the unofficial rulebook every woman should live by.
1. Always tell her the truth (especially about her outfit). It’s simple. If she asks, “Does this look good on me?” — be honest. You’re not helping anyone by letting her step out looking questionable. Deliver it with kindness, of course, but never betray the trust that comes with being her mirror. Girl Code honesty means
protecting her image and her confidence. Sometimes that means saying, “Maybe try the other dress,” even when you know it’s her favourite.
2. Never date her ex. Ever. No amount of justifying makes this okay. Even if he’s suddenly “changed” or “it wasn’t that serious,” the answer is still a
hard no. Out of all the people in the world, he’s the one person who should remain permanently off-limits. Because this isn’t just about him — it’s about loyalty. Some boundaries are sacred, and crossing this one says more about you than it ever will about him.
3. Support her when she’s not in the room. True loyalty isn’t about loud declarations on Instagram or matching friendship bracelets. It’s about standing up for her when she’s not around to defend herself. When someone tries to twist her story or throw shade, shut it down.
4. Don’t compete — collaborate. The world already pits women against each other often enough; your friendship shouldn’t be another battleground. Her success doesn’t threaten yours. It proves it’s possible. Real queens fix each other’s crowns, not knock them off. When you help your friend win, you’re helping yourself too — because the energy you give out always finds its way back.
5. Check on your strong friends. You know the one who always has it together? The one everyone runs to for advice, but rarely asks how she’s doing? Yeah, check on her. Strong friends often carry silent battles behind confident smiles. Be the friend who asks how she really is, not just out of habit, but from the heart. Sometimes, “I’m fine” really means “I’m exhausted.” And sometimes, your text or call is the thing that gets her through the day.
6. Keep her secrets safe — always. If she confides in you, treat her words like they came with a security clearance. No gossip, no “I only told one person,” no accidental slips. Once you break that trust, it’s nearly impossible to rebuild. A true friend is a vault — the kind that doesn’t rattle when shaken.
7. Celebrate her wins like they’re your own.
When she gets the promotion, the engagement, or the apartment with the perfect city view, cheer loudly and sincerely. Don’t let envy dull the joy — it’s not a competition. Pop the champagne, post the selfie, scream her name. Your friend’s glow-up doesn’t take away from yours; it just means the group chat got a little shinier.
8. Be honest about the red flags she’s ignoring.
Love can make even the smartest woman temporarily blind. We’ve all been there. But if you see something that doesn’t sit right — the controlling texts, the subtle disrespect, the way her light dims when he’s around — say something. It’s uncomfortable, yes, but silence is not kindness. Sometimes love means risking a little tension for her peace of mind.
9. Don’t let her go through things alone. Whether it’s heartbreak, a bad day at work, or a total life meltdown, just show up. Bring snacks, wine, tissues, or all three. You don’t need to fix her problems; you just need to sit with her in them. Friendship isn’t always about advice — sometimes, it’s about presence.
10. Be the friend you’d want to have. At the heart of it all, Girl Code is about reciprocity — giving the same loyalty, laughter, and love you hope to receive. Be dependable, be kind, be real. Don’t ghost when life gets busy, don’t disappear when things get hard. Show up the way you want others to show up for you. Because genuine friendship is rare, and once you find it, it deserves to be protected like the treasure it is.
The Premiere, a luxury wealth preservation company providing individuals and families with global access through investment immigration, international real estate, and wealth advisory services, has officially commissioned its state-ofthe-art office in Victoria Island, Lagos.
The grand opening signifies a major milestone in the company’s mission to redefine client experience through elegance, exclusivity, and world-class service delivery.
Commissioning its flagship office during the globally recognised Customer Service Week further reinforces The Premiere’s unwavering commitment to service excellence and bespoke client solutions — a perfect reflection of this year’s theme, “Mission Possible.”
The event drew high-profile dignitaries, captains of industry, business leaders, international partners, and clients who gathered to celebrate this remarkable beginning.
Delivering the keynote address, Dr Jane Kimemia, Chief Executive Officer of The Premiere, described the launch as “a day of joy, gratitude, and new beginnings.” She emphasised that the timing of the event — coinciding with Customer Service Week — symbolises The Premiere’s dedication to service as the cornerstone of its values.
A standout moment of the ceremony was the goodwill message from Chief Austin Albert, Chairman of The Premiere, whose visionary leadership continues to drive the company’s global ambition.
In his address, Chief Albert reaffirmed that The Premiere is “positioned to be a global company that will expand into other African countries, ready to serve Africans in their pursuit of global access, luxury international real estate, and diversification of wealth portfolios.”
Another highlight of the event was the ribbon-cutting ceremony led by Mr Elias Igbinakenzua, Managing Director and CEO of Globus Bank, who served as the Special Guest of Honour. “With such exceptional leadership, I have no doubt that The Premiere will stand out as a trusted leader in investment immigration and wealth management,” he remarked.
The Premiere specialises in Investment Immigration, Professional Permanent Residency, and International Real Estate, offering bespoke solutions that enable individuals and families to achieve global access, diversify wealth, and secure lasting legacies. Supported by a robust network of international partners, The Premiere serves as a bridge connecting ambition to global opportunity.
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In a first-of-its-kind move for Nigeria’s premium cardholders, Visa has introduced the Visa Affluent Rewards Program, a curated collection of local rewards, elite privileges, and lifestyle benefits designed to bring luxury closer home for its users. From fine dining and shopping to spa escapes and staycations, the program connects affluent Nigerians to experiences that match their ambitions and elevate everyday living.
Speaking on the launch, Andrew Uaboi, Vice President & Cluster Head, Visa West Africa, said: “Affluent Nigerians are sophisticated, globally connected, and proud of their local heritage. They want programs that not only match international standards but also speak to their everyday lifestyle in Nigeria. The Visa Affluent Rewards Program aligns with our broader strategy to connect cardholders to experiences that matter, driving meaningful impact in the way they pay and enjoy life. By partnering with leading Nigerian merchants, we are delivering tailored offerings that bring lasting value to our premium customers while reinforcing Visa’s role as a trusted lifestyle partner.”
The launch forms part of Visa’s broader strategy to deepen relationships with affluent consumers, increase domestic transaction volumes and strengthen brand equity in Nigeria’s premium card segment.
Participation in the Visa Affluent Rewards Program is open to holders of Visa Infinite, Visa Signature, and Visa Platinum cards issued by partner banks in Nigeria.
Some people walk into a space, and it feels like the air shifts. Heads turn, conversations pause, and all eyes land on them—not just because of who they are, but because of how they carry themselves. Dressing like you own the room isn’t about being the loudest or most overdressed; it’s about being confident and comfortable. It’s about mastering the subtle alchemy of style, confidence, and presence. Here’s how to do it.
Start With Fit— Always
No matter how expensive the fabric or trendy the brand, if your clothes don’t fit properly, you’ll look unpolished. The secret weapon of every welldressed person is tailoring. A blazer that hugs your shoulders just right, trousers that graze the top of your shoes, or a dress that skims your frame perfectly—these are the details that make you look intentional rather than accidental.
People remember a statement. A signature piece—whether it’s red lipstick, a sleek pair of glasses, or a stack of gold bangles—creates consistency and gives you a recognisable aura. It doesn’t have to be loud, but it should feel authentically yours. Over time, it becomes a visual shorthand for your presence.
Master the Art of Neutral with a Twist
There’s a reason black, navy, grey, and white dominate boardrooms and red carpets alike—they exude authority. But the people who own the room rarely stop at the basics. They throw in something unexpected: an emerald green silk blouse under a black suit, metallic shoes with an otherwise muted look, or a perfectly draped scarf in a bold print.
The trick is to anchor your outfit in timeless neutrals while letting one element speak louder.
Accessories are silent storytellers. Scuffed shoes or an overstuffed handbag can undo an otherwise polished look.
The person who looks like they have it together is usually the one who pays attention to the details.
Invest in good shoes— polished, comfortable, and seasonless—and a structured bag that instantly elevates your outfit.
You Want to Command
Clothing is psychological
armour. A well-cut suit makes you stand taller, a silk dress makes you glide differently, and crisp white sneakers give you an air of ease.
Ask yourself before leaving home: What energy do I want to bring into the room? If it’s authority, lean on power dressing—sharp lines, bold shoulders, strong fabrics. If it’s creativity, experiment with textures, layers, or statement jewellery. The point is to let your outfit amplify the mood you want to project.
Confidence Is the Ultimate Accessory
The truth? Owning the room is less about the clothes and more about how you wear them. You can be in the most understated outfit and still command attention if you walk with purpose. Eye contact, a poised stance, and the assurance that you belong in the space will elevate your look more than any designer label. Think of your outfit as the stage, but your confidence as the performance.
Keep It Effortless, Not Overdone
People notice when you’re trying too hard. Over-accessorising, wearing every trend at once, or layering on too many luxury logos can scream insecurity rather than power. Effortless style suggests you have nothing to prove—your presence is enough.
Remember Coco Chanel’s rule: “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off.” Owning the room is about striking a balance between intentional and easy.
The Subtle Extras
A hint of fragrance that lingers as you walk by. Perfectly groomed nails. A watch that feels timeless. These finishing touches don’t shout, but they complete the story. They’re the reason someone leans over and whispers, “Who is that?”
Every few months, the beauty industry throws a new buzzword our way—something that promises to be the miracle in a bottle we’ve all been waiting for. Sometimes it’s marketing spin; other times, it’s genuinely transformative. The truth is, not every hyped skincare ingredient is a hero, but there are a few that deserve all the attention they’re getting. If you’ve been wondering which ones live up to their superstar status, let’s decode the heavyweights actually worth a spot in your routine.
There’s a reason Vitamin C serums have practically become a staple on every beauty shelf. This antioxidant is like your skin’s morning coffee: brightening, energising, and protective. It helps to fade dark spots, even out skin tone, and defend against environmental damage caused by pollution and UV rays. Think of it as a shield that also adds a glow. The trick is consistency—daily use over time gives you that lit-from-within radiance people keep talking about.
If there were a hall of fame for skincare ingredients, retinol would be front and centre. Derived from Vitamin A, retinol is the
gold standard for tackling fine lines, wrinkles, and uneven texture.
Dermatologists swear by it because it speeds up cell turnover, revealing fresher, smoother skin. However, here’s the catch: it can be quite intense, especially for beginners. Starting slow—maybe two nights a week—before working up to more frequent use is the sweet spot. Pair it with moisturiser, and you’ll see why it’s been hyped for decades.
Not all acids sting.
Hyaluronic acid is a humectant, which means it pulls water into your skin like a sponge, making it look plump and dewy.
What’s beautiful about this ingredient is that it works for practically everyone, no matter your skin type. It’s lightweight enough for oily
skin, yet deeply hydrating for dry or sensitive skin. On days when your face feels tight or tired, a good dose of hyaluronic acid will quench it instantly.
If skincare had an overachiever award, niacinamide would win. It minimises pores, strengthens the skin barrier, regulates oil, and soothes redness. Basically, it’s like a best friend who has an answer to everything. It also plays well with other ingredients, making it easy to slot into almost any routine. For those who don’t want a complicated 10-step regimen, a product with niacinamide is a smart one-and-done addition.
Peptides – The Builders
Peptides are fragments of
proteins that signal your skin to produce more collagen and elastin— the very stuff that keeps skin firm and bouncy. While they don’t give the overnight drama of retinol, their quiet, steady support makes them worth the hype. Think of peptides as the construction crew rebuilding your skin from within, brick by brick. Over time, they help maintain firmness and smoothness, keeping your complexion youthful.
AHAs & BHAs – The Exfoliation Experts
When it comes to exfoliation, chemical beats physical. AHAs (like glycolic and lactic acid) work on the skin’s surface to brighten and smooth, while BHAs (like salicylic acid) dive deeper to clear out pores. Together, they keep dullness, rough texture, and breakouts at
bay. Unlike scrubs, which can be harsh, these acids give controlled, even exfoliation. They’re the difference between tired skin and that fresh-faced glow.
Here’s the truth: no matter how many serums and creams you pile on, if you’re not using sunscreen, you’re wasting your time. Sunscreen is the ultimate anti-ageing ingredient, period. It protects against UV damage, which is the number one cause of premature ageing, hyperpigmentation, and even skin cancer. The best part? Sunscreen technology has come a long way—there are formulas now that are lightweight, invisible, and won’t leave that dreaded white cast.
We’ve all become amateur detectives in the dating world, scanning every move for red flags like it’s our second job. And sure, spotting trouble early saves us heartache. But sometimes, in all that vigilance, we miss the quieter signals—the little assurances that love isn’t just safe, it’s good. These green flags don’t scream for attention. They’re subtle, often overlooked, but they’re the building blocks of the kind of relationship that feels like home. Here are ten tiny green flags in love that often slip under the radar:
1. They actually show up when they say they will. Forget the endless excuses or disappearing acts. A person who respects your time by keeping their word is showing you something deeper than punctuality—
they’re showing reliability. And in the messy, unpredictable world of modern dating, consistency is one of the sexiest foundations of all.
2. They listen—and remember.
It’s not about grand gestures, it’s about the tiny details. You casually mention you hate cucumbers, and suddenly, every salad they order for you is cucumberfree. They ask how your big presentation went because they remembered the exact date. These little acts whisper, “I’m paying attention. You matter.”
3. Respect isn’t a special occasion.
A true green flag is steady respect. They don’t pressure you to overshare before you’re ready. They don’t sulk if you need space. They don’t act wounded when you set boundaries. Respect is woven into their everyday actions, so natural you almost forget to notice it. But that quiet respect? It’s oxygen in a relationship.
4. Watch how they treat the waiter.
Or the cab driver, or the cleaner, or the security guard at the mall. The way they interact with people they don’t “have” to impress is a direct window into their character. If kindness flows naturally in those moments, you can be sure it will spill over into how they treat you, too.
5. Your joy excites them.
A real partner isn’t just present when you’re down; they shine with you when you’re up. They’re the cheerleader at the finish line, the loudest clap in the room. They don’t compete with you; they celebrate you. They see your wins as shared victories, and when you lose, they hold the belief that better is coming. That rooting energy is priceless.
6. They make ordinary moments fun.
Not every romance is written in candlelit dinners and surprise getaways. Real love shows up in the ordinary.
Cooking dinner together while laughing at burned onions, bingeing bad reality TV, or trading silly memes no one else would find funny.
When someone can make the mundane magical, it’s a sign you’ve found something that lasts beyond the highlight reel.
7. They apologise— and mean it.
A genuine apology is gold.
Not the half-hearted “sorry you feel that way,” but one that acknowledges what went wrong and makes space for healing. It’s humility wrapped in care, and it’s rarer than we admit.
When someone can say, “I messed up, I’ll do better,” and actually follow through, it’s a true green flag waving.
8. You feel calm, not anxious.
It’s easy to mistake intensity for love—the stomach knots, the butterflies that feel more like stress. But green flag love doesn’t feel like a rollercoaster; it feels like exhaling. The right person makes your body relax, not tense. You don’t dread their
texts; you look forward to them. Love that brings calm instead of chaos is the kind worth keeping.
9. They include you in their world.
Not as an afterthought, not as a weekend convenience, but as part of the bigger picture. They want you to meet their friends, know their family stories, and share in their rituals. Whether it’s being introduced to a sibling or being invited into their weekend plans, that inclusion signals a relationship that’s building roots.
10. They grow with you. The ultimate green flag? Someone who doesn’t just fall for the version of you that exists right now but stays willing to evolve alongside you. People change, life shifts, and love that’s built to last has to bend and stretch with it. A partner who’s ready to grow with you—through seasons, struggles, and triumphs—is the kind of partner who turns tiny green flags into a lifetime of love.
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
There’s something quietly powerful about stepping out in a single colour from head to toe. It’s simple yet commanding, minimal but impossible to ignore. The one-tone look has always held a special place in fashion — but lately, it’s made a bold return, taking over red carpets, street style feeds, and runways from Lagos to Paris.
Wearing one colour isn’t just a fashion choice, it’s a mood. It speaks of confidence, control, and clarity. It’s the visual equivalent of saying, know who I am. Whether it’s an all-white suit that radiates quiet confi-dence, an all-black dinner ensemble that whispers understated glamour, or a deep plum moment like the Ajibades pulled off at fashion week, monochrome dressing exudes sophistication without saying a word. It’s style with conviction.
What makes this look so effortlessly striking is how balanced it feels. On the surface, it looks simple, just pick one colour and wear it everywhere, right? Not quite. Pulling off a monochrome outfit requires an understanding of texture, tone, and proportion.
That’s where the magic hap-pens. Pair a crisp linen shirt with a soft silk skirt, or mix light and dark shades of the same hue — that interplay keeps the look alive. The goal isn’t to drown in a single colour, but to let fabric and layering add quiet drama.
Monochrome dressing is that rare mix of calm and command. Modern yet timeless. It’s one of those looks that tells people you’ve mastered the art of doing more with less. And perhaps that’s why stylists, celebrities, and designers love it — it photographs beautifully, flatters every body type, and always looks intentional. From Eku Edewor’s elegant allwhite ensembles to Ini Dima-Okojie’s soft pink moments, the monochrome trend continues to prove that simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
If you’re new to the monochrome game, start easy. Neutrals like white, beige, black, or grey are fail-safes. They’re effortless to pair, endlessly chic, and transition seamlessly from day to night. Once you’ve found your rhythm, move on to bolder tones — olive green, cobalt blue, burgundy, or mustard. These shades feel fresh yet refined, and when worn head to toe, they make just the right kind of statement. Accessories, too, play a quiet supporting role. The trick is to stay in the same colour family. Nude shoes with a beige outfit, burgundy heels with a wine-toned dress, black-onblack for sharp sophistication. For con-trast, use texture instead of colour — a structured bag, a suede heel, or a glossy lip can add dimension without breaking the spell. And the beauty of monochrome? It works for every mood and occasion. It’s polished enough for the boardroom, relaxed enough for brunch, and dramatic enough for an evening event. It adapts effortlessly — and that’s the true genius of it. You don’t need to overthink or overstyle. When you wear one shade with confidence, you’ve already won the fashion conver-sation.
At its heart, monochrome style is about focus. It lets you shine through. It strips away the distractions and highlights personality, posture, and poise. It’s for the woman who has nothing to prove — because she already knows she’s the statement.
Few figures in Nigerian media command quiet respect like Ebuka Obi-Uchendu. Whether hosting Big Brother Naija, leading discussions on Rubbin’ Minds, or introducing his new project MENtality with Ebuka, his calm presence and clarity continue to set him apart.
A lawyer turned media personality, Ebuka studied law at the University of Abuja and graduated from the Nigerian Law School in 2005 before earning a Master of Laws in Intellectual Property and Communications Law from the American University in Washington DC.
Nigeria first met him in 2006 as one of 14 housemates on the debut season of Big Brother Nigeria.
Though he didn’t win, his wit and composure made a lasting impression and launched a career that has spanned nearly two decades. Since then, he has hosted several major shows including Friend or Foe, Guinness Greatness TV, Rubbin’ Minds, Men’s Corner, Judging Matters, The Spot, and Big Brother Naija. As a host, Ebuka has interviewed some of the most notable names across music, fashion, and politics while maintaining a balance of intelligence and warmth. His work has earned him several awards, including the Nigerian Broadcasters Merit Award for Outstanding TV Presenter of the Year, as well as recognition by the World Economic Forum as a Global Shaper.
Beyond television, Ebuka’s influence extends into culture and fashion. His distinct sense of style has become a defining part of his public identity, inspiring designers and shaping modern Nigerian menswear.
In this exclusive interview with Funke Babs-Kufeji, Ebuka talks about growth, authenticity, and the evolving idea of what it means to be a man.
You have been on Nigerian television for nearly two decades, yet you continue to reinvent yourself without losing your calm. When you look back at your journey so far, what moments stand out as turning points for you?
I think three moments stand out for me as turning points. First was becoming a contestant on Big Brother Nigeria in 2006. It was something I never thought was going to do. I was a trained lawyer and had no business being on television, but I found myself there, and I think that exposed me to the possible talents I had for presenting. My second turning point would be my first TV show ever, which was also in 2006. It was a game show called Friend or Foe. had no experience, but the producers had faith in me, and I think that was the beginning of my journey as an actual TV host. The final turning point would probably be getting on Rubbin’ Minds, and that was my introduction to being a live television host, which transformed my view of what it meant to be a host. It’s one thing to shoot a show, record, and edit it, but hosting on live television is a different beast, and Rubbin’ Minds definitely gave me that experience.
You began your career on Big Brother Nigeria as a contestant in 2006, and years later, you returned as the show’s host. How does it feel to have come full circle in that way?
Becoming a host of Big Brother Nigeria was very humbling. It was something I hoped would happen one day. I mean, it’s the biggest TV show on the continent. So, if you start a career on television in this part of the world, it’s probably the one thing you hope you can get on. It’s sort of the pinnacle of hosting for a lot of people. So, when I got the call 11 years after being a housemate, it was very humbling. But it also made sense to me because had prepared myself for the opportunity with years of working and putting myself out there. So, while it was humbling, it also made sense and was a perfect fit for a housemate who had loads of years on TV.
People see you as one of the most composed figures on screen. Has that calm confidence always been part of your personality, or did you learn it through experience?
I’ve always been calm and composed, but I haven’t always been the most confident person. I have siblings who are much older and another who’s much younger than me, so grew up almost on my own — using that very loosely, of course. I learned how to look out for myself, but I was also very shy. So, while I was calm and composed, I wasn’t very confident around people and had a very shy personality, which had to work on later in life. My nickname
from many of my uncles when was young was “social gentleman.” I don’t know why that is, but guess it makes sense now. Over time, experience has taught me that owning my space, my work, and my worth is very important, and I’ve learned to make that a big part of my personality.
You studied Law at the University of Abuja and later obtained a master’s degree in Intellectual Property and Communications Law from the American University in Washington D.C. How has your background in law influenced the way you handle conversations, especially on Rubbin’ Minds, where difficult topics often come up?
It’s interesting because I studied Law at the time simply because wanted to do something that didn’t involve mathematics. wasn’t sure what was going to do with it, but it has definitely become a huge part of my life. I got my master’s degree in Entertainment Law as well as Communications Law. For a long time, had no management, but even when did, was still able to handle my own business and situations with a clear eye. And yes, with my work, it has definitely helped. I’ve always been the kind of person who likes to know something about everything. I’m very interested in a wide range of topics, but I guess the Law background also helps me hold conversations and have opinions can argue and defend if need to. It has definitely helped me. It hurts a little that I’m not using the degree as much as I’d love to, but TV is also a big love of mine, so can’t complain too much.
Hosting Rubbin’ Minds requires tact and emotional intelligence. How did you prepare for those conversations that touched on sensitive or controversial issues?
used to be very nervous when I started hosting Rubbin’ Minds in 2013. Because it’s live TV, I knew I couldn’t make any mistakes. had a diverse range of guests from politicians to doctors, to celebrities, and anyone relevant that week. was always nervous, but it made me prepare a lot. However, I’ve found that when I’m overprepared, the nerves show because I’m trying too hard to remember what rehearsed. What works for me now is keeping my finger on the pulse of things generally. Of course, if have a guest, I’ll research the person or topic, but over time, knowing a range of topics makes it easier to have a natural conversation instead of sounding like I’m reading notes or repeating talking points. I’m not the over-prepared guy anymore. I go in, have a genuine conversation, and get information from whoever the guest is or what the topic is about. I also hold my own and stay open to learning from my guests. I’m very intentional about learning daily, and I think that’s what works for me.
Your career has evolved from being a television host to a cultural voice. At what point did you begin to see your platform as something bigger than entertainment?
I’ve always been a huge lover of my culture and of Nigeria. I think it comes from my father, even though he was a career banker before he retired, he was very traditional. went to my village three or four times every year. I come from that background where culture and Nigeria were important parts of my upbringing. My dad and would discuss newspaper articles when was barely ten years old and have conversations about them. So, I’ve always had it at the back of my mind, but never really had the platform to express it. Big Brother gave me the opportunity to do that on the largest scale possible. From the first day I got the gig as host, one of the first things knew I wanted to do was to be proud of where I’m from, showcasing the culture, the tradition, and staying true to my identity. I don’t know if it was ever a conscious decision, but it’s always been something I wanted to do, and I’m glad it resonates with a lot of people. just hope don’t make too many mistakes because culture can be very dicey. You want to make sure you’re doing the right thing every time. For the most part, think I am. But it wasn’t a particular moment when it happened.
You’ve often said that your family keeps you grounded. How has fatherhood changed your outlook on life and success?
Fatherhood has done more for me on a personal level than on a career level, because I like to separate both. On a personal level, it definitely made me realise what life is really about. I loved my family growing up, my parents and siblings, so I always knew wanted to start my own family at some point. Doing that made me realise what truly living is about. Being responsible for another human being is probably the biggest task anyone can have, and the fact that have two of them now, who I owe everything to, has shifted my idea of what it means to be human, being more selfless, more loving, living not just for yourself, and learning to give more. It’s definitely changed me as a person. had a great time as a single man in my twenties and early thirties, but since got married, it’s become more about what I’m doing for them and for others. Fatherhood has definitely changed my outlook on that level.
Balancing fame, family, and privacy is not easy. How do you manage to stay present at home while still maintaining such a visible career?
don’t want to say it’s very easy, but for me, it works perfectly now. When I’m at work, I focus on work and try to leave it outside the home. That’s the biggest thing for me. When I’m home, it’s time to be home, and look forward to that. I work in an industry where it’s easy to be everywhere attending events, hosting shows, doing a lot of things but I try to cut back on what doesn’t really matter anymore. Just showing up for the sake of it doesn’t do anything for me.
So, when I’m not working, I’m home. My kids and my wife are my priority at that moment. It works perfectly in my head because I’m able to separate both clearly. Of course, it’s impossible for work not to follow you home once in a while, but for the most part, keep work away from home so that when I’m present, it feels like haven’t been anywhere because of how involved am with my family.
Let’s talk about MENtality with Ebuka. What first inspired the idea, and why did it feel like the right time to start these conversations about manhood? Like we all know, there’s a whole manosphere happening on podcasts and social media now. A lot of it is fuelled by right-wing conversations about what a man should be, and I’ve always wondered, there should be something different to say about this. I’m sure not all men agree with those conversations on the right. also felt there weren’t enough of these conversations happening in this part of the world, whether on the right, on the left, or anywhere in between. People have opinions but not necessarily conversations. That was what fuelled MENtality with Ebuka. It was also driven by what I saw among young people being influenced by online discussions and gaming culture. It was an opportunity to have honest
conversations because people always say men don’t talk enough, and that’s what this was about for me, hearing what people really think, seeing what needs to change, and figuring out how to help men be who they truly feel they should be, not what they’re told to be. While I was thinking about that, it was great that the team from SheTank were also exploring the same idea, and we aligned perfectly.
The show gives men space to talk about identity, pressure, and vulnerability subjects not often discussed openly. What kind of reactions have you received or hope to receive from men who watch the series?
Personally, just hope people watch it and take away the fact that it’s okay to be vulnerable. Men should talk. Men can be emotional. Men have emotions, and there’s probably not just one way to be a man. There is nuance to a lot of things. I think those are some of the key things hope viewers take away from it and most importantly, that they go away and have those conversations on their own.
Do you think Nigerian men are becoming more open about their emotions and personal struggles, or is there still resistance to that kind of honesty?
Yes, think so. Social media has definitely helped people become more open to certain conversations, but I’m not sure they’re having those conversations one-on-one. We also have a generation that’s dominant now, Gen Z, who are much more vulnerable than previous generations. They’re shaping narratives and mindsets, whether in small ways or not. It’s a slow process. We’re not where we should be yet, but men are becoming a bit more open about their concerns, worries, and issues generally. I’m hoping there’ll be even more of that happening — hopefully a lot of it on MENtality, but also beyond it.
What do you personally hope viewers take away from MENtality with Ebuka?
Honestly, more than anything else, just want people to talk. I’m not looking for any particular reaction. I just want conversations to be had. I’m hoping people watch the series and ask questions, like, “Hmm, I didn’t think of it that way.” Just opening up the mind and talking more. Call your friend, husband, brother, or uncle and say, “Oh, did you see this? What did you think of that? Is that what you were going through when this was happening?” Starting conversations, honestly, is the key thing for me. I’m not here to change anybody’s mind or convert people to anything. I just want people to talk.
Your style has become almost as famous as your voice. From your agbadas to your tailored suits, you’ve created a look that is distinct yet effortless. What does style mean to you today compared to when you first started out?
I guess today most people see my style as a huge part of my brand, and that was very intentional. When I started on TV, was just trying to be a good host. But once I felt comfortable in that space, it was time to express myself more. I always felt TV presenters weren’t seen as artists or actors, so we didn’t come across with much of a celebrity vibe. wanted to make it more exciting. didn’t want to just be the guy who goes on stage or TV in a grey suit, like most presenters were known for. So, for me, style is a huge part of my work, my brand, and my professional life. More importantly, I’m glad I can use it to express my Nigerian-ness, my African-ness, and my personality as a whole.
In this new age that often rewards noise over substance, how do you stay true to yourself without getting lost in public perception?
It goes back to self-worth and confidence. You have to know who you are, what you want, and what you stand for. Once you have that, a lot of the noise doesn’t matter. I’ve never been one to chase blog clout, trends, or attention. prefer my work to speak for me, not my personality. That’s always been my focus. don’t worry about whether I’m trending or what people think. My work does enough, and it’s gotten me this far. It really comes down to how much worth you place on yourself and how confident you are in expressing it.
Looking back on your career, from Big Brother Naija to Rubbin’ Minds and now MENtality with Ebuka, what has been the most important lesson about growth and authenticity?
Looking back, from all the shows I’ve done sports, a children’s quiz show, entertainment, politics, podcasts, the first lesson is to try everything. You never know what you’re best at, and that’s what I’ve done before realising I’m a great interviewer. The most important lesson about growth and authenticity is consistency. It sounds cliché, but that’s what it’s been for me. There were many times I could have stopped. It took me eleven years to go from being on Big Brother to hosting it. was working and earning, but people still asked, “Is this really going anywhere?” stuck with it because I always felt there was more to do, and I still believe that. don’t think I’ve reached my peak. The goal has always been to stay consistent and keep my eyes on whatever the next goal is.
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
Art collecting often sounds intimidating — like something reserved for the ultra-wealthy, the wellconnected, or those who can drop big names at gallery openings. But here’s the truth: collecting art isn’t about having deep pockets or an art degree. It’s about curiosity, taste, and a willingness to explore. Over the last decade, Nigeria’s art scene has exploded — with more young people attending exhibitions, visiting art fairs, and buying works to brighten their homes. What was once considered a luxury has now become a lifestyle.
For most Nigerians, collecting starts with emotion. You see a painting or sculpture that stops you in your tracks — maybe it’s the colour palette, the story it tells, or simply the way it transforms a space. That spark of connection is where it all begins. Art collecting isn’t just about investment; it’s about living with something that speaks to you every day.
You don’t need millions to begin. Many emerging Nigerian artists sell incredible works at accessible prices. Art fairs like Art X Lagos, Lagos Art Auction, and The Affordable Art Sale by SMO Contemporary Art often feature pieces starting in the low hundreds of thousands of naira. And thanks to Instagram, discovering talent has never been easier — many artists now showcase and sell their works directly online.
The best rule? Buy what you love. If a piece moves you, that’s reason enough to own it. Trends will fade, but the emotional connection you feel will remain timeless.
Part of the joy of collecting art is getting to know the mind that created it. Before you buy, learn about the artist — what inspires them, where they’ve exhibited, and who collects their work. That backstory adds a layer of meaning and deepens your appreciation. Many galleries and artists are happy to share their stories if you ask. Attend exhibition openings, talk to curators, and visit artist studios when you can. The more you engage, the clearer your preferences become — whether it’s abstract art, portraiture, or works that explore identity, politics, and culture.
Like any passion, art collecting can become addictive (in the best way). That’s why it helps to set a budget — monthly or yearly — to guide your spending. Start small: invest in sketches, prints, or photographs before diving into larger, more expensive pieces. Over time, your collection will grow naturally, evolving with your taste and confidence. Think about how and where you’ll display your art too. A sketch can transform a hallway; a bold painting can anchor your living room. Even a sculpture in your office can shift the atmosphere.
Collecting art isn’t just a personal journey — it’s a way to give back. Nigeria is full of extraordinary artists whose work deserves recognition. By buying directly from them or from reputable galleries, you’re investing in creativity and contributing to the growth of the country’s cultural economy. Spaces like Rele Gallery, Terra Kulture, Omenka Gallery, and Bloom Art are great starting points. You can also follow online platforms such as Art Twenty-One and Retro Africa, which often highlight emerging artists and make collecting more approachable.
Every art collector starts somewhere — usually with one piece that changes everything. Over time, your collection becomes a reflection of your personal story, taste, and cultural awareness. You might start collecting out of curiosity, but you’ll soon realise you’re also preserving a piece of Nigeria’s creative history.
BY KONYE CHELSEA NWABOGOR
Not too long ago, success was marked by quiet milestones—buying a home, sending children to school, or building a business. Today, even those moments are often incomplete unless they are documented and validated online. Likes, comments, and reposts have become the new applause, and many people now chase them with the same intensity previous generations reserved for tangible achievements. The catch is that this applause doesn’t come cheap—it is often financed through designer bags, luxury holidays, flashy cars, and extravagant dinners, even when the bank account tells a different story. Social media has transformed lifestyle into performance art. In the same way actors need applause, many of us now need engagement to confirm that our lives are “on track.” That validation, however, isn’t free. It comes wrapped in designer bags, vacation photos, luxury cars, or extravagant dinners. A Lagosbased banker, who preferred not to be named, put it bluntly: “I know people who take loans just to celebrate birthdays at the most expensive lounges. They need the videos for Instagram—because if no one saw it, did it even happen?”
This pursuit of applause can often blur the line between aspiration and recklessness. Overdrafts and digital loans are becoming the invisible sponsors of curated lifestyles.
to Nigeria; in the U.S., surveys show millennials spend an average of $500 a month on “non-essential” purchases influenced by social media.
Psychologists point to the dopamine rush associated with likes and comments. Dr. Femi, a behavioral psychologist, explains: “Social validation taps into the same pleasure centers as gambling or drugs. When you receive likes on a luxury post, your brain rewards you. Over time, some people begin to crave that validation and justify any expense that can get them there.” This explains why someone might forgo saving for rent just to buy an iPhone or luxury sneaker—because the online payoff feels immediate, while the consequences are delayed.
There are countless viral stories of people who push too far. One young man in Accra allegedly rented a car and staged a “soft life” photoshoot that went viral—until the rental company repossessed the car mid-party. Another case in South Africa saw a university student under investigation after using scholarship funds to bankroll a lavish lifestyle showcased on Instagram. These stories don’t just highlight poor judgment; they expose how the desire for validation can spiral into financial fraud.
Nigeria’s vibrant party culture, especially weddings, has also collided with Instagram in an interesting way. Outfits aren’t just stitched for the dance floor anymore—they are stitched for the explore page. The pressure to show up in head-to-toe luxury has fueled what some tailors and makeup artists describe as an “asoebi economy.” One fashion stylist in Abuja said, “Clients will come in with Pinterest images of celebrities, knowing they can’t afford the look, but they’ll insist. Many put outfits on credit because they want that one viral photo. It’s not about the party, it’s about the post.”
From “outside life” hashtags to “chop life before life chops you,” flex culture has found a home online. What used to be rare indulgences are now weekly rituals. For some, it’s Friday nights at high-end clubs, for others, it’s spontaneous trips to Paris. Financial institutions have noticed. Digital lenders now advertise aggressively, subtly tying financial products to lifestyle. “Don’t let money stop your weekend fun,” reads one campaign from a popular fintech app. While access to quick credit can be empowering, it also feeds into impulsive spending habits. According to a 2023 report by SBM Intelligence, over 40% of young Nigerians admitted to borrowing money to keep up appearances, particularly for social events or social media moments. This isn’t unique
Celebrities are, of course, complicit— though not entirely to blame. When an Afrobeats star posts a luxury private jet selfie, they are feeding into a culture that equates visibility with wealth. The difference is, celebrities often have the resources to sustain these lifestyles— or at least the brand endorsements to fund them. The problem arises when everyday individuals try to mirror that same standard without the backing. As one social commentator quipped: “The influencer economy has tricked regular people into thinking they need a PR budget just to exist.”
Not everyone agrees that social media is the culprit. Some argue it’s merely a mirror reflecting existing desires. Before Instagram, people still borrowed money for big weddings or flashy cars. The difference now is the audience size. A party used to impress 200 people in a hall; today, it can impress 20,000 online. In fact, some influencers are flipping the script. Pages dedicated to “living within your means” or “budget luxury” are gaining traction. They show followers how to thrift stylishly, travel smartly, and enjoy life without breaking the bank.
The bigger question is how individuals and society adapt. Financial literacy is becoming a critical tool. Some fintech startups are already integrating “financial health scores” and savings nudges into their apps. Meanwhile, a few influencers are openly posting about debt, savings goals, and the less glamorous parts of adulting. This shift may seem small, but it matters. It signals that audiences can reward authenticity just as much as they reward extravagance. At its core, financial recklessness driven by social media validation is about identity. We are trying to prove—to friends, strangers, and sometimes to ourselves—that we are successful, worthy, and living well. The danger lies in outsourcing self-worth to an algorithm. As author Alain de Botton once wrote, “Wealth is not about having a lot of money; it’s about having a lot of options.” Yet, in the pursuit of likes, many are losing those very options, trapped by debt and insecurity. Social media isn’t disappearing, and neither is the desire to be admired. But perhaps the new form of luxury is balance—the ability to enjoy life without bankrupting the future. After all, the loudest flex might just be financial stability.
Every October, the world turns pink. We see ribbons on shirts, social media posts, billboards, and even coffee cups. The pink ribbon has become a global symbol of hope and unity in the fight against breast cancer. But in 2025, it’s time we ask a bigger question — what should breast cancer awareness really mean today?
When the movement first began, the goal was simple: to get people talking, encourage regular check-ups, and end the silence around breast cancer. And it worked. More women began to get screened, survival rates improved, and conversations about breast health became more open. But over the years, awareness has started to feel like a brand campaign. The pink ribbon is everywhere — yet, for many women, real help still feels far away. The truth is, awareness alone isn’t saving lives anymore. Access is. In many places, especially across Africa, women still die from breast cancer — not because they don’t know the risks, but because they can’t afford the cure. Mammograms are too expensive or unavailable. Hospitals are far away. Chemotherapy costs a fortune. For these women, the problem isn’t ignorance; it’s inequality. So maybe the next phase of awareness should focus less on slogans and more on solutions.
Real awareness in 2025 should mean that every woman — no matter where she lives or how much she earns — can get tested, treated, and supported. It should mean funding community clinics, making mammograms free or cheaper, and training more doctors who understand women’s health. It should mean turning “early detection saves lives” into something everyone can actually access.
Education is another part we often overlook. Too many myths still surround breast cancer — that it’s
caused by witchcraft, that only older women get it, or that it only happens to those who’ve had children.
Misinformation keeps women silent and scared. Awareness in 2025 should include teaching girls and women about their bodies, their risks, and their options. It should happen everywhere — in schools, on social media, in churches, and at markets.
And what about survivors? Once the campaigns end and the pink lights go out, they’re often forgotten. Many women struggle with body image, medical bills, infertility, and fear of the cancer returning. True awareness should include them, too, with more emotional support, better insurance coverage, and programs that help them rebuild their lives. Surviving breast cancer isn’t the end of the journey; it’s a new beginning that deserves care and attention.
Even brands and celebrities who join the pink wave every October can do more. Wearing pink is good, but funding research, donating to hospitals, or sponsoring free screenings is better. Imagine if every pink product sold in October actually helped a woman get a mammogram. Imagine if every influencer post came with real resources, helplines, survivor stories, or clinic locations. Awareness should inspire action, not just applause.
Governments also have a role to play. Cancer treatment should not be a luxury. It should be part of national health plans, with dedicated budgets and accessible centres. Hospitals should communicate better, and policies should focus on prevention, not just cure. Because after the ribbons are packed away and the hashtags fade, the fight continues, quietly, every single day. It’s in the woman who checks herself in the shower, the doctor volunteering at a rural clinic, the survivor mentoring others, and the friend who reminds another to get tested. That’s where real awareness lives.
So yes, wear the pink ribbon proudly. But let it remind you that the goal isn’t just to be aware, it’s to make a difference.
Dear Reader,
BY DR. KEMI DASILVA-IBRU AND GLORIA JOACQUIM
Welcome to the WARIF Survivor Stories Series, a monthly feature where stories of survivors of rape and sexual violence are shared to motivate and encourage survivors to speak their truth without the fear of judgment or stigmatisation and to educate the public on the sheer magnitude of this problem in our society. The Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) is a non-profit organisation set up in response to the extremely high incidence of rape, sexual violence, and human trafficking of young girls and women in our society. WARIF is tackling this issue through a holistic approach that covers health, education, and community service initiatives.
WARIF aids survivors of rape and sexual violence through the WARIF Centre a haven where trained professionals are present full-time, 6 days a week, including public holidays, to offer immediate medical care, forensic medical examinations, psychosocial counselling, and welfare services, which include shelter, legal aid, and vocational skills training. These services are provided FREE of charge to any survivor who walks into the Centre.
My name is Ifesowapo, and am a 19-year-old girl. came to the WARIF Centre for medical assessment, treatment, and counselling after my brother reported a case of child sexual abuse to the police.
About six months ago, I relocated to Lagos to live with my elder brother and his wife following the death of my mother—my only surviving parent—who passed away after a long battle with cancer that depleted our family’s savings. My brother, who is my only sibling, lost his job during that period and began selling akara (bean cakes) by the roadside to support his family and me.
Determined to secure a better future for me, he enrolled me as an apprentice at a tailoring shop in our neighbourhood while he saved towards my higher education. We shared an apartment with one of his friends, Michael, who often came home late at night, so I barely knew him.
A few months later, during a public holiday, Michael offered to take me out to explore the city, and my brother consented. While at the mall, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I declined, explaining that I was still a minor. He assured me that it would only be a platonic friendship, so I agreed. Over time, Michael became friendlier whenever he was around, and gradually became more comfortable with him. During the Yuletide season, he brought me a few items as Christmas gifts, which happily showed to my brother. Since they had been childhood friends, my brother thanked him for his thoughtfulness.
A few days later, we hosted a small house party. After some time, my brother and his wife retired to bed, leaving Michael and me chatting in the living room. He offered me a drink, assuring me it was non-alcoholic. Shortly afterwards, began to feel light-headed and decided to retire to my room, while he also went to his. I woke up to feel something heavy on my body, and it was Michael. He forcefully raped me while tried to push him away. I screamed for help, and my brother and his wife rushed into my room, finding him trying to put on his robe. My brother was furious. Michael pleaded, claiming he was tipsy and did not know how he entered my room or removed his clothes.
brother’s absence. No amount of pleading could change his mind. We went to the police to report the incident, and Michael was subsequently arrested. The police referred us to the WARIF Rape Crisis Centre for medical assessment, treatment, and psychosocial support.
The case was charged in court, and the last hearing went well. remain hopeful that justice will be served and that the perpetrator will be held accountable for his actions.
At the WARIF Centre, received comprehensive medical care — including assessment, treatment, laboratory tests, and counselling services — all at no cost. am deeply grateful for the support received, especially the counselling sessions, which were truly life-changing. My counsellor reassured me that it was not my fault and helped me rebuild my confidence and sense of self-worth. also learned valuable coping strategies that supported my healing journey.
My brother refused to accept Michael’s excuses, firmly telling him that such reasoning would imply he could also claim to be tipsy and harm his wife in my
Through group therapy, I connected with other survivors and found comfort in knowing I was not alone. These sessions gave me strength, resilience, and a renewed sense of belonging. Looking back, can proudly say that I have made remarkable progress — emotionally, mentally, and psychologically.
It has now been a year and six months since that traumatic incident. have written my JAMB exams, surpassed the cut-off mark for my preferred course, and gained admission into one of Nigeria’s prestigious universities to study Pharmacy. am excited to begin this new academic journey and determined to make my brother and everyone who supported me proud.
During my most recent followup visits to the Centre, I felt truly balanced — emotionally, mentally, and psychologically. My goal now is to become the best version of myself and to stand as an advocate against gender-based violence.
To the entire WARIF Team — thank you. Your compassion, care, and unwavering support changed my life. I wouldn’t be here today without you. You are truly the best.
* Real name of the Survivor changed for confidentiality
Dear Survivor, please know that you are not alone, and it is not your fault. Help is available. If you have been raped or know someone who has, please visit us at:
The WARIF Centre 6, Turton Street, off Thorburn Avenue, Sabo, Yaba, or call our 24-hour confidential helpline on 0800-9210-0009.
There’s something undeniably grown-up about having a little corner of your home dedicated to wine. Not a bar that screams excess, but one that quietly says I appreciate the finer things. Whether you’re a dinner party regular, an occasional sipper, or simply want to elevate your hosting game, building your first home wine bar isn’t about having a cellar filled with expensive bottles—it’s about creating a personal ritual of relaxation, taste, and discovery. Think of it as the adult version of a candy jar—except instead of sweets, it’s bottles of red, white, and rosé that make you smile at the end of a long day. The good news? You don’t need to be a sommelier or own a mansion with a marble countertop to start one. What you need is a little knowledge, a touch of style, and a sense of curiosity.
By Aliyah Olowolayemo
Start with the Basics
A good home wine bar starts with the right foundation. Begin with a modest selection—three to five bottles that represent different moods or moments. A crisp Sauvignon Blanc for light lunches or afternoons, a bold Cabernet Sauvignon for red meat and hearty dinners, a Pinot Noir for almost anything in between, and a sparkling Prosecco or Champagne for when life hands you something worth celebrating (or when it doesn’t, but you want to celebrate anyway). You don’t need to spend a fortune— there are fantastic wines in every price range. Focus instead on quality over quantity.
The beauty of a home wine bar lies in the experience, not the extravagance. If you have space, a small wine rack or credenza works beautifully. Otherwise, a sideboard, kitchen corner, or bar cart can easily transform into a chic setup. The key is to keep your bottles away from direct sunlight and heat. A cool, dark corner is your best friend. Next, add personality. Wine bars are an extension of you—so style it up. Add a few crystal glasses (or even modern stemless ones), a decanter, and some elegant bar tools. A candle, a bowl of corks, or a vintage tray adds charm. The goal is for your wine corner to feel like an invitation—to slow down, pour a glass, and unwind.
Good glassware doesn’t just look elegant—it transforms the wine experience. For beginners, you only need two main types: a set of universal wine glasses that work for both red and white, and a pair of flutes or coupes for your sparkling wines. Once you get more confident, you can branch out into Burgundy bowls or Bordeaux glasses, but don’t overcomplicate it at the start.
You don’t need a professional’s arsenal, but a few essentials make a difference. A waiter’s corkscrew (trust us, it’s better than those fancy electric ones), a wine stopper to preserve unfinished bottles, and a wine chiller sleeve or bucket for white and sparkling wines. If you’re feeling fancy, add a decanting carafe—it’s not just aesthetic; it actually improves the flavour of most reds. And yes, always keep a bottle opener nearby. You’d be surprised how many people forget that part.
Pairing 101: What Goes with What
No home wine bar is complete without a little food pairing magic. The general rule? Red wines love bold flavours— think steak, lamb, or grilled mushrooms. White wines pair well with lighter dishes like seafood, pasta, and creamy sauces. Rosé is a social butterfly—it goes with almost anything, from spicy food to picnics. And sparkling wine? It’s your wildcard—it pairs beautifully with salty snacks, fried food, and laughter. You can even turn wine pairing into a fun weekend ritual—pick a bottle, invite a friend, try new cheeses, and rate your discoveries. Wine isn’t meant to intimidate; it’s meant to be enjoyed.
Make It Yours
The best part about building a home wine bar is that it evolves with you. As you explore, you’ll find what you love—a grape, a region, or a ritual. Maybe you’ll fall for South African Pinotage or discover that Italian whites make you happy. It’s less about building a bar and more about building a relationship—with taste, with time, with yourself.
