2023 TUV MAGAZINE MAR-APR EMPOWERMENT ISSUE: TENNESSEE BURNING!

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Reclaiming

hinking of women’s

history, I was recently

researching the pay inequity between women and men

with the hopes of seeing the gap narrowing. As the most recent and disappointing data appeared on my

screen, the stern voice

of Maxine Waters saying,

“Reclaiming my time,” rang in my ears. Although she

was speaking on another

subject, she was putting up

a similar fight in resisting the “mansplaining” happening

in Congress that day nearly six years ago. Everyone remembers seeing this

woman of great conviction unfazed, speaking truth to injustice. This pay gap is a glaring injustice, too, and

seeing that it STILL exists, well, there must be some

serious mansplaining going

on to justify these numbers. It is time women speak up

like Maxine has and demand to be heard. It is time for

women to reclaim our time, our talent, and our value. The US Census Bureau,

Pew Research, and the US Government Accounting

Office all report that in 202021, there was still nearly a

20 percent gap in women’s pay versus men’s for the

same jobs. Women continue to earn only 83 cents on the dollar compared to

their male counterparts.

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that you could be great at – can be hugely empowering in itself.

Building on those strengths, and

By Beth Trouy

For women in management, it

and the XX, XY distinction. How

come from the bosom of Eve

receive 23 percent less than men,

blame Genesis and the writers of

from Satan? Truth be told,

gets worse. Female managers and for women who own their

own businesses, it’s the worst

at 31 percent less. Apparently, the more assertive, ambitious, and driven a woman might be, the more it will cost her. Oh,

and if that woman has darker

skin, it becomes 37-42 percent less. Women, and yes, men as

well, should be disgusted with

this data. I include men as well

because we are their mothers,

sisters, wives, and daughters, and surely, they agree that it should be equal pay for equal work!

Why are these pay gaps still

present? Why, or more precisely, “Y”? In my view, it’s because

we women do not have one, I

suppose-a Y that is, in our DNA.

There does not appear to be any other answer other than genes

did this happen? Personally, I

the silly creation story (and it is just a story, you know!).

It was hardly 100 years ago that we women could finally vote in the United States and only 60 years ago that we could have

their own bank account without a man co-signing. If only Eve

had not been created from the

generously donated rib of Adam

behind men, possibly because of Eve’s failure to resist temptation. I doubt we would be having this

gender pay discussion today had

the story been written differently. Think about it: what if Adam had

of emotional intelligence, a key skill in the workplace. Developing your

emotional intelligence allows you to

and it was a man who wanted

see how your emotions and behavior

to be like God. But history

affect the people around you. This

is always written by the

will likely make it easier for you to

winners, and since the Bible

get others "on board" to help you to

was completely written by

achieve your goals.

men, here we are with women

So, now is the time to get to know

still trying to find our rightful

yourself because before things

place of equality.

voice to get someone’s

placed as second-class citizens

yourself better is a core aspect

that men came from women,

have been branded as the fallen beginning of time, women were

bigger boost. Understanding

the story makes more sense

Like Maxine Waters, it takes

and weaker sex. From the very

limitations, can give you an even

and he had taken the apple

and then eaten that apple to ruin it for all mankind, she might not

knowing how to deal with your

a clear, persistent, and firm

attention. Let the world hear our collective voice that

we are reclaiming our time and our story. We reclaim

the right to be paid as much as our male coworkers. We also reclaim the right to be

will get worse before they will get

Know Yourself

any better and if you are not sure self-empowerment in different ways, depending on our personalities

and our circumstances. With all of the circumstances surrounding

our LGBTQ+ people we must stand strong and tall knowing who’s and

whose you are! When you feel that

Dr. Davin D. Clemons

you lack power, your confidence and

labeled as a bitch or too

As I sit and ponder on how

Developing your self-awareness

right to be leaders by our

“Empowerment Edition of The

feel this way, and to take charge of

assertive, ambitious, and

outspoken without being emotional. We reclaim the own merit without the rumor that we must have slept with

the boss to get our titles. We

reclaim the right to be treated with the same respect and

dignity regardless of whether we have a Y chromosome or not. You can keep that

apple and the rib, too; we

refuse to be second-class citizens in the country we helped raise. And if I can pick our spokesperson,

I’d say that Maxine Waters can do the talking.

to express myself in this

Unleashed Voice Magazine” with

over 340 Anti-LGBTQ+ Bills at the State Level, 150 of which target transgender people highest

number on record. Currently in

my home State of Tennessee the legislators have passed the first law in the country banning drag shows and a proposal on the

state floor of Tennessee House attempting to require a license for Drag performers. The word

“Empowerment” is more important

than ever because we all experience

self-esteem can take a knock, too.

can help you to understand why you your emotions and actions. Start by

considering your locus of control the extent to which you believe that you are the master of your own

destiny, or that your outcomes are determined by external forces,

people or events. Understanding

this distinction can enable you to take responsibility for your own

empowerment, and to adopt a mindset that fosters learning and growth. Then, analyze your strengths and weaknesses. Listing all of the

things that you're good at – and

about whose you are then you will

be vulnerable to the attacks of the enemy. For the bible declares in Ephesians 6:12, “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against

powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high

places.” Christian warfare consists of a spiritual strategy fought with

supernatural weapons against an unseen enemy. The opposition is

real but not visible to the naked eye. Beneath the surface, an invisible

spiritual battle is raging. We fight

this war not with tangible weapons like guns and ammunition, nor with bodily defenses such as kicks and

punches, but by daily putting on the

whole armor of God, always praying, standing firm in the Word of God, and staying alert.

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