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Dear Readers,
In the spirit of love and celebration, Bainbridge Living is proud to present a special issue dedicated entirely to weddings and couples embarking on their future together. Few moments in life are as cherished and transformative as the day two people vow to build a future together. With this in mind, we’ve curated an edition that not only captures the beauty of these special occasions but also serves as an invaluable resource for couples embarking on their journey to “I do.”
This issue celebrates the heart of community by showcasing real weddings and the talented vendors that make it all possible. Their stories are not only inspirational but a testament to the warmth, creativity, and love that flourishes.
To further support couples in the planning process, we’ve included a comprehensive wedding guide filled with practical advice, inspiration, and etiquette tips. From crafting a guest list to choosing the perfect venue, we’ve gathered insights to help turn your wedding dreams into a beautiful reality.
Our community offers a wealth of resources to make each couple’s big day extraordinary. Within these pages, you’ll find a spotlight on local venues, talented vendors, and unique services that Southwest Georgia has to offer. Whether it’s a historic location for an intimate ceremony or creative vendors who bring visions to life, we aim to connect you to the best of what our region has to offer.
It is our hope that this special edition of Bainbridge Living becomes a cherished companion to couples planning their wedding and a celebration of the love and community that define us. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your journey.
Anna Kinchen
Anna Kinchen General Manager
Bainbridge Media | The Post Searchlight
The Old Post Office in Bainbridge, Georgia was built in 1914 and designed by architect Oscar Wenderoth, and anchors the corner of West Street and Broughton Street overlooking the beautiful downtown Willis Park.
Step into an time of sophitication and class when you enter this historic building featuring, terrazzo stone floors in the lobby, original windows, hardwood floors, doors, hardware, wainscoting, two original safes and two vaults.
The Main Floor holds our Ballroom, full service bar and lounge, as well as our private Postmaster’s Parlor.
Upstairs the postal inspector’s secret walkway traverses the ballroom’s ceiling connecting two newly created suites with original character and modern comfort.
The speakeasy basement “The Mailroom” features an additional full-service bar and cigar lounge. The 8,200 square-foot building’s amenities can be rented separately or together for a variety of special events.
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With two decades of experience, Christy McCoy has mastered the art of transforming weddings into dreamlike celebrations. Beginning her career as a wedding photographer, she transitioned into florals and decor, earning her reputation by designing stunning bridal bouquets—pieces she believes are the heart of wedding florals, destined to be cherished for generations.
McCoy specializes in all aspects of wedding design, including decor, ceremony, reception, and bridal flowers. Each arrangement is tailored to the bride’s vision, theme, and season, ensuring it enhances rather than overwhelms the bride’s presence. While roses remain timeless, McCoy loves working with Dahlias, Anemones, Juliet Roses, and Peonies, appreciating their distinct beauty.
She stays current with bridal trends through magazines, Pinterest, and social media, noting a shift from rustic styles to elegant English garden aesthetics. To help brides refine their floral choices, she recommends creating a Pinterest board, allowing her to personalize designs through artistic color pairing. McCoy’s work blends love, beauty, and artistry, ensuring each wedding is as unforgettable as the blooms she creates.
Bainbridge native Kim Jeter crafts floral arrangements rich in family history and cherished memories. Her inspiration stems from her grandmother, Hazel Gainous, who uniquely incorporated heirlooms and sentimental objects into floral designs. Witnessing the joy these arrangements brought, Jeter was inspired to weave personal touches into wedding florals, ensuring each bouquet represents beauty and family unity.
Jeter believes marriage is more than just a celebration—it is the blending of families. She explains, “Marriage and weddings shouldn’t be just an event, and it’s more than spending money. Marriage should be about joining families.”
Her process begins by understanding a couple’s ability to afford floral arrangements. While purchasing flowers is straightforward for some, Jeter is committed to creating meaningful designs for couples with limited means. To achieve this, she asks the bride, groom, family members, and in-laws about sentimental items that can be incorporated into bouquets.
Jeter fondly recalls designing wedding bouquets with memorable and special objects and items from both
families, placing them at the center of the table so each family member could recognize their origins. She reflects on hearing the aunties of the bride or groom’s family members say, “My grandmother gave me that flower” or “My husband bought me that for Valentine’s Day,” turning simple florals into lasting treasures.
Exploring back roads and fields, Jeter finds wildflowers and hidden botanical gems—florals that many overlook but hold natural beauty and sentimental value. Her dedication to creating one-ofa-kind arrangements reflects each couple’s love, family, and personal journey. For her, Genesis 2:24 captures the essence of marriage: “And the two shall become one.”
Bill Cooper: Elegance and Timeless Blooms
With 43 years of experience and over 1,000 weddings, Bill Cooper has perfected the art of floral design, crafting breathtaking arrangements that embody love and elegance. His approach transcends simple flower arranging—his hands speak in blooms, creating memorable and meaningful designs.
Cooper observes a shift from traditional cascade bouquets to modern clutch bouquets, while roses remain the ultimate symbol of love. Drawing inspiration from magazines and bridal preferences, he meticulously matches each floral arrangement to the venue’s atmosphere, ensuring harmony between setting and design.
One of his most frequently styled locations is Mablewood Farm, a wedding venue where his floral artistry enhances the space. Whether designing for a rustic barn or an elegant garden, Cooper’s dedication ensures that each wedding is adorned with beauty, meaning, and creative precision.
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Capturing the perfect day through the lens with photographer, Kendi Austinson
Capturing the perfect day through the lens with photographer, Kendi Austinson
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Kendi Austinson is a Bainbridge native with exceptional skills as a wedding photographer, renowned for capturing enduring moments that beautifully narrates a couple’s love story. Austinson’s love for photography came from having a deep appreciation for meaningful connections, and the beauty found in everyday moments,” She shares. “Photography became a way for me to blend that love with creativity–capturing genuine emotion and preserving memories through an artistic lens.”
Austinson has eight years of photography experience and documented 150 weddings and elopements. Her work has taken her to breathtaking locations such as the lush landscapes of Hawaii, the dramatic Taft Point cliffs in Yosemite, and the stunning red rock terrain of Arches National Park in Utah. While she enjoys the beauty of destination weddings, Austinson stated, "I also have a deep appreciation for South Georgia weddings, where the charm of moss-draped oaks and Southern hospitality creates the most beautiful, heartfelt celebrations.”
Austinson’s unique photography style is described as a “blend of light and storytelling that captures both the artistry and emotion of each moment.” Her ability to manipulate light and texture—whether golden hour glow, dramatic shadows, or soft, diffused tones— adds depth and mood to her images, creating a sense of timeless elegance. She thrives on the fast-paced nature of weddings, crafting detailed timelines for her couples to ensure that every critical moment is anticipated and seamlessly captured. “My experience allows me to capture the best images and create a stress-free, enjoyable experience. My goal is to be a photographer and someone they can rely on throughout the day,” Austinson explains.
For Austinson, lighting is the cornerstone of wedding photography. She strives to utilize natural light to enhance the beauty of each setting, be it “soft window light during a ceremony or ambient lighting at the reception.” Austinson particularly enjoys using direct flash for dancing photos during receptions, adding energy and vibrancy to her images. “It adds a fun, dynamic vibe that captures the energy of the moment and brings a sense of excitement to the images. Direct flash also freezes motion, giving her photos a playful and high-energy feel,” she stated.
To ensure every wedding is tailored to a couple’s unique vision, Austinson begins her process well before the big day. She sends detailed questionnaires to her clients, asking about specific requests and priorities, which allows her to align her photography with their vision. Austinson encourages couples to share all their ideas, big or small, and dives into their love story to truly understand their
dynamic. On the wedding day, she works tirelessly to capture the unfolding magic, adapting to the day’s pace while keeping her focus on the couple’s special moments.
Wedding days often bring unpredictable challenges, such as weather changes, but Austinson remains prepared and unfazed. She relies on her technical expertise and a fearless approach to deliver stunning results under any conditions. Her wide-angle lens i
Understanding that weddings can be financially demanding, Austinson offers complimentary engagement sessions with her wedding photography packages. These sessions not only help couples feel comfortable in front of the camera but also give Austinson the opportunity to observe their unique chemistry and refine her directing techniques. “It’s during these sessions that I learn what makes them laugh and what type of prompting helps their personalities shine,” she shares. “By creating a fu
“By creating a fun, relaxed atmosphere—where nerves “By creating a fun, relaxed atmosphere—where nerves quickly fade away amid laughter and playful moments— quickly fade away amid laughter and playful moments— we’re able to craft photos that are as genuine and heartfelt we’re able to craft photos that are as genuine and heartfelt as their love story.” as their love story.”
KENDI AUSTINSON
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With every delicate stitch, Deborah James weaves dreams, love, and promises into stunning wedding gowns, ensuring each bride’s special day is nothing short of magical. A proud resident of Bainbridge, James discovered her passion for sewing at the tender age of five. Her mother, Alberta Flanders, passed down an extraordinary gift—the ability to transform simple fabric into meaningful, breathtaking creations.
Flanders possessed a rare talent—a photographic memory for fabric. Reflecting on her childhood, James recalls, “My mom was the type of seamstress who could look at items displayed in a store window and recreate them perfectly. If we wanted something, she’d go home, cut the pattern out using newspaper, and we’d have it within a day or two.” Inspired by her mother’s ingenuity and skill, James began sewing for others at just nine years old, crafting her first men's suit by sixteen.
James pursued an education in Design, Merchandising, and Business at The American College of London – Atlanta on Peachtree Dunwoody. However, a family emergency led her back to Bainbridge, where she contemplated finding a job. Seeing her hesitation, her husband, Bruce James, encouraged her, asking, “Why don’t you just sew?”
Though excited by the idea, James lacked a dedicated workspace—so Bruce took the initiative to add an additional room to their home, giving her th perfect space to reignite her passion. She credits as her “push” to restart her sewing career.
Without advertising, James built her reputation sol through word of mouth, earning the trust of clients delivering exceptional craftsmanship. Her first maj request came from Shirley and Shirelle Clark in 200 when Shirley reached out at midnight, needing a pageant dress altered by 6:00 AM. James worked tirelessly through the night, delivering the perfec altered gown by 5:00 AM.
Another unforgettable moment came when Carla Smith of Southwind Plantation reached out at midnight on a Friday, needing an urgent dress repai for her daughter’s pageant the following morning. B 8:00 AM, James had flawlessly completed the alteration, earning admiration and further establis her growing clientele.
James' talents also caught the attention of Cathy Bridges, a former classmate and mother of Maggie Bridges, Miss Georgia 2014. Their collaboration began when Cathy sought help with a pageant dress, leading James to alter Maggie’s gowns throughout her pageant career and even Cathy’s wedding dress. James has remained a trusted seamstress for Maggie, continuing to serve individuals from both t past and present while solidifying her name in the community.
Known for her speed and precision, James explains, “What might take a typical seamstress days or weeks to complete, I can finish in much less time. On a good day, I can complete wedding dress alterations in a day—or even less—if I work consistently.”
Her perfectionist approach sets her apart. “If something doesn’t look right, I won’t let it leave hands. Either you’ll look like what you envisioned better—never anything less.” She prioritizes a single fitting, ensuring that garments are wearable, press and ready to go immediately.
Through her work, James has developed a deep appreciation for wedding gowns, describing them as “significant pieces of fabric that embody artistry, craftsmanship, and personal meaning.” One of her most remarkable projects was for Abigail Smith, whose gown incorporated elements from three generations of wedding dresses belonging to her mother and grandmother. “Altering a dress from three different generations involves adjusting the design fabric, and fit while respecting the original aesth James explains.
Having crafted and transformed countless wedding dresses, James believes each gown tells its own unique story. Reflecting on her own wedding day, sh recalls the rush of emotions she felt.
A Seamstress Beyond the Fabric
James’ dedication goes beyond sewing—she personally assists brides in putting on their weddi dresses, ensuring that each gown transforms into a symbol of love, new beginnings, and commitment. To her, the craft is not merely a profession—it is a profound privilege to be part of a bride’s most cherished moment.
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BAND AND DJ LIST SUGGESTIONS FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY
Marry Me -Train
Canon in D - Johann Pachelbe
A Thousand Years - Christina Perri
All of Me - John Legend
Ava Maria - Franz Schubert
Sparks - Evan Jacobson
Kane Brown - Thank God
Stargazing - Myles Smith
Cover Me Up - Morgan Wallen
To Love Somebody - Ray Lamontagne
I’m Gonna Be - Sleeping At Last In Your Love - Tyler Childers
Thinkin’ Bout You - Frank Ocean
Dance With My Daughter – Jason Blaine
My Girl – The Temptations
I’ll Be Your Man - Zach Brown
Half the Man - Jennifer Hart
Simple Man - Lynard Skynard
Never Alone - Lady Antebellum
Days Like This - Van Morrison
Pink Pony Club - Chappell Roan
Uptown Funk - Bruno Mars
Little Boo Thang - Paul Russell
I Wanna Dance with Somebody - Whitney Houston
Dixieland Delight - Alabama
Sun to Me - Zach Bryan
At Last - Etta James
Joy of My Life - Chris Stapleton
19-90 - Muscadine Bloodline
Lover - Taylor Swift
Ends of the Earth - Ty Myers
Beyond - Leon Bridges
In My Life - The Beatles
Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder
God Bless the Boy - Cody Johnson
It Won’t Be Like This For Long - Darius Rucker
Thought You Should Know - Morgan Wallen
Carry You - The Teskey Brothers
You Are My Sunshine – Chris & Morgan Stapleton
Tennessee Whiskey - Chris Stapleton
Don’t Stop Believing - Journey
Texas - Beyonce
Let’s Stay Together - Al Green
Shut Up and Dance - Walk The Moon
“I love creating fully customized items that become the bride and groom’s wedding “brand” – things that show not only their personalities as individuals but their life together as a couple.”
ALLISON POWELL
WORDS BY MAHALIA GRIER
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Bainbridge resident Allison Powell specializes in creating customized wedding designs, crafting everything from personalized invitations to elegant decor that reflects each couple’s unique style.
Her passion for art and design started early participating in art lessons as a child and throughout her teenage years. In college, Powell designed t shirts and banners for sorority events and campus activities, later using her creativity in the marketing field. “I found a true love for graphic design— anything from promotional materials to logos, helping customers bring their vision to life,” she shared.
Powell had long been the go-to friend for planning baby showers and weddings. “I’m always the host who offers to handle invitations, decorations, and party goods. I’m the queen of ‘I can make that’—and most of the time, that’s exactly what I did,” she said. When COVID and social distancing emphasized the importance of meaningful gatherings, she was inspired to launch Social Studio, LLC in May 2021. “Social Studio, LLC was created to help others celebrate any and every social occasion—big or small. It’s been a wonderful creative outlet that I truly love!”
Initially, Powell focused on party goods for holidays, birthdays, wedding showers, and baby showers. Her first wedding project came in Spring 2022 when she designed wedding items for a friend’s ceremony in Alys Beach, Florida. From there, she expanded her work, collaborating with numerous couples.
Powell’s approach to wedding design begins with gathering key details. She asks couples about their vision—whether they have a wedding monogram, crest, dog portrait, or other personalized
elements they’d like to include. She also collects details such as flower colors, venue, bridesmaids’ dress colors, inspiration photos, and more.
With this information, Powell creates a digital style guide that outlines the color palette, fonts, and design motifs, describing it as her “north star” throughout the process. If couples purchase wedding-related products elsewhere, she requests images to ensure consistency. Once the designs are completed, she shares them for approval and feedback before finalizing orders with a trusted supplier. Depending on the couple’s location, items are shipped directly to them, their wedding planner, or Powell herself. For couples who need guidance, she enjoys the freedom to explore multiple creative directions.
As weddings evolve, Powell has noticed a shift toward personalization and bold colors. “Couples are thinking outside the box, creating authentic elements that reflect their love story,” she explains. Some of her favorite recent trends include custom watercolor envelope liners, full-color floral crests featuring the couple’s monogram, and uniquely shaped invitations and detail cards.
Powell’s favorite part of her work is getting to know the couple and designing wedding elements that reflect their personalities and journey together. “I love creating fully customized items that become the bride and groom’s wedding ‘brand’—things that showcase their individuality as well as their life together,” she shares. These personal touches range from koozies featuring the alma mater where they met, to monogrammed welcome boxes or drink stir sticks adorned with a sketch of their pet—small details that enhance the guest experience and create lasting memories.
A wedding speech is a beautiful way to celebrate love, share heartfelt memories, and honor the newlyweds. Whether you’re the father of the bride, a bridesmaid, a groomsman, or one of the newlyweds, here’s how to write a memorable and meaningful speech for this special occasion.
When preparing your speech, consider weaving in fond memories and personal experiences that highlight the connection you share with the couple. Adding meaningful scripture, poems, or quotes can offer heartfelt inspiration and depth to your message. Don’t hesitate to include personal advice drawn from your own life—it’s these moments of sincerity that resonate most deeply with the audience. For additional guidance, you can explore online resources or even tap into AI assistance for creative ideas and structure.
As the father of the bride, your speech should be a mix of sentiment, pride, and a touch of humor. Share heartfelt memories of your daughter, perhaps reflecting on milestones in her life or her character. Welcome her partner into the family and speak warmly about their relationship. Conclude with words of wisdom and a toast to the couple’s future.
Tip: Keep the tone loving and supportive—it’s your chance to shine as a proud dad.
Your role as a groomsman involves balancing humor with sincerity. Open with a lighthearted story about the groom, sharing a memorable or funny moment. Compliment the bride and their relationship before wrapping up with well-wishes and a toast to their happiness.
Tip: Aim for tasteful humor that suits the celebratory atmosphere.
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As a bridesmaid, celebrate your bond with the bride Start with a fun or touching anecdote that showcases your friendship or sisterhood. Highlight the love and partnership between the couple, expressing admiration for their connection. End with encouraging words for their journey ahead and a celebratory toast.
Tip: Keep it upbeat, personal, and focused on the happiness of the day.
Your speech as newlyweds is a heartfelt opportunity to thank your guests and each other. Share a brief version of your love story, highlighting special moments that brought you to this day. Take time to express gratitude to family, friends, and one another, ending with a toast to everyone who made your celebration possible.
Tip: Let your emotions shine through—this is your moment to celebrate your love and commitment.
You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late-night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.” Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same. For after today you shall say to the world – This is my husband. This is my wife.
You have etiquette questions. She has answers.
Invitations, flowers, dresses and menus and other decisions characterize wedding planning. Some choose simple and small and others prefer grand parties. But all of these seemingly small myriad decisions can muddle the real end goal. Challenges abound when engaged couples must make decisions regarding details both small and large. As an etiquette consultant, I teach both students and business professionals that simple consideration lies at the heart of good manners.
The first set of hurdles engaged couples encounter can be directly after the engagement itself. It’s important to notify immediate family of the engagement first. The couple should carefully consider whether to tell immediate family together or separately, keeping in mind that some family members might have doubts or questions. If this is the case, listen to their concerns, stay calm and try to answer in the best way possible. Remember that it’s natural for families to have different perspectives Pushback is normal and natural. Stay calm and stay kind.
After families have been notified, the couple should take time to sit down and consider when they’d like to marry. Communicate with each other and both sets of parents on who will pay for what. Set a budget. Make sure to communicate to one another any parts of the ceremony or reception for which one might have ideas or preferences. For example, one person might want to splurge on the food instead of lots of flowers. Decide which decisions merit financial priority and which do not.
In our modern society couples now have the freedom to plan and execute a wedding day that reflects their own style. Budget and chosen venue might help define one’s parameters a bit, but it is possible to put on a wedding that reflects your individuality while staying within a budget. Couples should, however, keep guests in mind when choosing venue and attire. Guests and members of the wedding party will be spending their own money to attend the wedding, so considering them is kind.
Those invited to the wedding in turn should do their best to be good guests. An invitation to a wedding whether it’s a mailed, emailed, or open invitation in the local newspaper is an honor. A wedding marks a milestone in a family’s history and should be viewed with respect and reverence. Dress appropriately for the time of the wedding and factor in time needed to park and walk to the venue. Remember that most couples hire professional photographers to document the ceremony. Please turn phones off or on silent so as not to distract. Gifts can be sent before or after the ceremony, but avoid bringing a gift to the event. Newly married couples tend to leave straightaway for the honeymoon. Gifts at the ceremony could prove a complication, albeit well-meant.
Whether you find yourself on the planning side or attending side, most etiquette questions can be answered by asking oneself what action would put others’ needs above oneself. Good manners are after all just that: considering the feelings of others above one’s own. In a society that tends to encourage the selfish and petty always strive for love and consideration.
Building a Thoughtful Registry: Planning a Future Together with Love and Practicality
Creating a wedding gift registry is more than a fun activity—it's an opportunity to thoughtfully plan for your future together as a couple. As a bride, it’s important to step back and think about the life you and your fiancé are building. Consider items that align with your shared goals and lifestyle, whether it's hosting friends and family, exploring hobbies, or upgrading everyday essentials. Don't forget to include items that reflect his interests and needs, ensuring the registry truly feels like it’s designed for both of you. It’s not just about assembling a wishlist; it’s about setting the foundation for a home and life you’ll create together.
“Reeves in Bainbridge is the primary location that many couples do their wedding registry. We have been in business for 52 years so we have a variety of selections for couples to choose from.” - Shae Brouillet
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“Newlyweds register at Flint River Outfitters because there are different items we provide that they would like. We have items for both the bride and groom to enjoy.” - Madison Jones
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"Creating a wedding registry is an opportunity for couples to thoughtfully select items that will enhance their lives and bring joy to their everyday moments. It's a way to invite loved ones to be part of their story, helping them build a foundation for their new chapter."
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“Newlyweds register with 229 Gifts at Bainbridge Pharmacy because they offer Charming Southern Tradition They blend Southern hospitality with modern convenience by offering personalized items, unique and local finds in home goods and on trend china dinnerware patterns in Spoke, Juliska, and Vietri.” - Anna Payne
Mad Rose
“Mad Rose provides unique pieces that make any couple’s home stand out. I offer a Southern Funky charm through an eclectic mix of accessories, dinnerware, candlesticks, and more. The store features items that are truly one-of-a-kind, unavailable anywhere else in Bainbridge. Visitors from Thomasville, Tallahassee, and beyond are consistently drawn in by the shop’s distinctive offerings, while being charmed by its curated selection that adds personality and warmth.” - Allison Betts Cantley
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TRENDING THEMES
"That's Amore"
Celebrate love with an Italian-inspired gathering featuring rustic charm and delicious fare. Picture twinkling fairy lights, checkered tablecloths, wine tastings, and a pasta bar where guests can create their own culinary masterpieces.
"Caddyshack Celebration"
Perfect for golf enthusiasts or fans of the classic film. Think miniature golf challenges, tartan prints, and whimsical décor. Guests can wear fun golf attire while enjoying themed activities like a "closest-to-the-pin" competition and cocktail stations with names like "The Mulligan Martini."
"Bridal Bows"
Delight in a shower full of feminine charm where bows reign supreme. Decorate with satin ribbons, and elegant florals. Activities could include bow-making stations or guests designing bow-themed gifts for the bride.
"Chinoiserie Blue and White"
Exude timeless elegance with a chinoiserie-inspired theme. Focus on intricate blue and white patterns for table settings, vases, and décor accents.
“Garden Party Elegance"
Surround yourself with blooming flowers, vintage teacups, and soft pastel hues. An afternoon shower featuring tea tastings.
A Southern wedding shower is not just a celebration—it's an expression of warmth, love, and creativity. From playful themes to cost-effective solutions, planning a memorable event requires a mix of thoughtful touches and savvy decision-making. Here’s your guide to throwing a fabulous wedding shower that’s as charming as it is practical.
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressure to host a grand, over-the-top celebration. But take heart—the days of intimate and tasteful wedding showers with close friends and family are not lost. In fact, there’s a certain nostalgia in embracing simplicity and charm, where heartfelt moments and meaningful conversations take center stage. Sometimes, less truly is more.
Themed showers are a staple in the South, and choosing one that resonates with the couple's personality adds a layer of intimacy to the celebration. Popular ideas include “Southern Charm” with monogrammed décor and sweet tea stations, “Backyard Barbecue” for a casual vibe, or even “Around the Clock,” where guests bring gifts based on assigned times of day. Remember, Pinterest and Etsy are treasure troves for inspiration—think custom invites, unique décor, or handmade party favors to bring your vision to life.
While Southern hospitality is known for its grandeur, a wedding shower doesn’t have to break the bank. Start with a clear budget and prioritize must-haves For invitations, consider digital options like Evite or beautifully designed email templates, which save on both cost and postage. When it comes to décor, DIY centerpieces like mason jar flowers or rustic burlap accents can evoke Southern charm without draining your wallet.
The best wedding showers are those that reflect the couple's interests and personalities. Is the bride a book lover? Host a “Literary Love” shower with vintage books as decorations. Do they love traveling? Create a “Jet-Setters Shower” with travel-themed games and food from their favorite destinations. The goal is to make the day uniquely theirs while allowing the guests to enjoy the experience.
Keeping the guest list reasonable not only makes the event more intimate but also more manageable. Start by consulting the bride and groom to ensure close friends and family are prioritized. A smaller gathering fosters meaningful connections and allows the host to focus on creating an unforgettable experience.
Getting more bang for your buck is all about creativity. Host the shower at a free or low-cost .
location like your backyard, a local park, or someone’s living room. Instead of hiring a caterer, organize a potluck where guests bring a favorite dish. This saves money while adding a personal touchFor favors, think simple yet meaningful: homemade jam, mini succulents, or personalized candles are all affordable crowd-pleasers.
As the host, your role goes beyond planning—you’re the conductor of this joyful orchestra. Ensure the invitations are sent out well in advance, communicate any special instructions (like themed attire), and coordinate with the couple to make sure the event feels authentic to them. On the day of the shower, greet guests warmly, keep the schedule running smoothly, and be prepared to assist with any lastminute hiccups.
As a host, it’s important to embody the gracious and generous spirit that makes Southern hospitality so beloved. This means keeping the couple’s preferences front and center while ensuring guests feel welcome. Hosting can also come with financial responsibilities, but sharing costs with co-hosts or friends can help lighten the load. Simple apps like Splitwise make it easy to divide and track expenses, ensuring everyone contributes their fair share without awkwardness. Clear communication about shared costs ahead of time keeps the planning process smooth and stress-free.
No Southern wedding shower is complete without a delectable spread. Consider serving finger foods like mini chicken and waffles, shrimp and grits bites, or pimento cheese sliders. Sweet treats like pecan pie bars, red velvet cupcakes, and sweet tea or lemonade are a must. A grazing table with local cheeses, fruits, and crackers is another elegant yet simple option.
Your invitations are the first impression of the shower. Whether you opt for traditional paper invitations or digital ones, make sure they match the theme and clearly convey important details, such as the date, time, location, and any special instructions (like bringing a favorite recipe to share). Sites like Canva or Etsy offer customizable templates that can be tailored to your event.
Don’t forget the little extras that make a big impact, like a photo booth with props for fun memories or personalized thank-you notes for guests. Games like Southern trivia or “Guess the Love Story” provide entertainment and keep the atmosphere lively. With a mix of thoughtful planning, budget-friendly creativity, and a splash of Southern charm, your wedding shower is sure to leave guests—and the happy couple—smiling. Let love and laughter rain down, y’all!
The Ultimate Bainbridge-Decatur County Wedding Planning Guide: From Engagement to 'I Do'. Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but it can also feel overwhelming at times. This guide is tailored for couples in Bainbridge and Decatur County, offering a step-by-step approach to help you navigate the process with ease and joy. Let’s make your special day truly unforgettable!
12-18 Months Before the Wedding: Dream Big and Start Planning
Set Your Budget: Determine how much you’re willing to spend and discuss priorities with your partner and families.
Choose Your Date and Venue: Bainbridge offers beautiful venues like the Firehouse Gallery or the Flint River Event Center for a local touch of charm.
Create a Guest List: Start drafting a list of must-have guests to estimate numbers.
Hire a Wedding Planner: Consider hiring a professional to help coordinate the details, especially if you're planning a larger event.
Pick a Theme or Style: Rustic, modern, vintage—think about what reflects your personality as a couple.
Months Before: Bring Your Vision to Life
Secure Key Vendors: Book your photographer, florist, caterer, and band or DJ. Look for local talent to support the community!
Say Yes to the Dress: Visit bridal boutiques to find your dream dress, and don’t forget about your groom’s attire.
Plan the Wedding Party: Choose your bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other key participants.
Save the Date: Send out save-the-date cards to give your guests plenty of notice.
6-9 Months Before: Finer Details and Creative Touches
Design Invitations: Choose or create invitations that match your theme.
Register for Gifts: Create a registry that reflects your future as a couple—local shops might be a great resource for unique items.
Plan Your Honeymoon: Research destinations and make reservations.
Think Décor: Work with your venue and florist to create stunning table settings and backdrops.
3-6 Months Before: Double-Check and Fine-Tune
Menu Tasting: Finalize your catering menu and taste-test options.
Order Wedding Favors: Find memorable gifts for guests, perhaps with a local touch like custom-made Bainbridge keepsakes.
Hair and Makeup Trials: Schedule sessions to perfect your bridal look.
Marriage License: Check local requirements and apply.
1-3 Months Before: Countdown to the Big Day
Send Invitations: Mail formal invitations with RSVP details.
Create a Timeline: Outline the flow of your ceremony and reception to share with vendors and the wedding party.
Finalize the Playlist: Work with your DJ or band to plan the perfect soundtrack.
The Week of the Wedding: Focus on the Details
Confirm Arrangements: Check with vendors to ensure everything is on track.
Pack for the Honeymoon: Have your bags ready to go.
Relax and Enjoy: Treat yourself to a spa day or a special dinner to unwind.
The Big Day: Celebrate Your Love
Take a deep breath, savor every moment, and let the day unfold as it’s meant to. The memories you’ll create in Bainbridge and Decatur County will be cherished for a lifetime.
Couples who have been married for 50+ years are a testament to enduring love, resilience, and deep companionship. Through decades of shared experiences-raising families, weathering hardships celebrating milestones-they often develop a profound understanding of each other that goes beyond words. Their bond is rooted not just in romance, but in friendship, patience, compromise, and unwavering support. These longstanding partnerships reflect a commitment to growing together, adapting through life’s changes, and choosing one another, day after day. Their stories offer wisdom and inspiration, reminding others that love, when sustained, can truly stand the test of time. Congratulations to these locals on their golden anniversaries.
WORDS BY ANNA KINCHEN
Building a strong financial foundation as newlyweds isn’t just about balancing the numbers— it’s about creating a life of shared dreams and stability. From merging incomes and expenses to aligning priorities, thoughtful financial planning allows couples to strengthen their bond while preparing for the future. A financial advisor can provide valuable insights, helping newlyweds navigate challenges such as debt management, long-term investments, and goal setting. By developing a cohesive financial strategy, couples can empower each other, turning their partnership into a confident journey toward financial independence and success.
Keith Lyle Jr., a Bainbridge local and Financial Advisor with Brannen and Lyle Investment Company, shared his expert insights and actionable strategies, offering newlyweds a dynamic roadmap to confidently navigate their financial future together.
“One of the best things newlyweds can do is sit down and talk about what they want life to actually look like—5, 10, 20 years from now,” says Lyle. “It’s not always an easy conversation, especially when you come from different financial backgrounds, but getting on the same page early helps turn your goals into a shared roadmap instead of a guessing game.”
Every couple starts with unique financial histories. “A good budget isn’t just about balancing expenses—it’s about learning each other’s habits and priorities as well,” explains Lyle. “The goal isn’t to control each other, but to create a plan that reflects the life you want to build together.”
Lyle emphasizes the importance of an emergency fund. “It’s a small step that makes a big difference. Knowing you have a financial safety net in place brings peace of mind and takes pressure off the relationship when life presents something unexpected.”
“Marriage changes more than your name and address —it shifts how you plan, save, and make decisions together,” Lyle says. “A good advisor brings clarity to those changes, helps you focus on what matters most, and gives you the space to start asking the kinds of questions that help you feel more certain about what’s ahead.”
Keith Lyle Jr. is a Financial Advisor and Vice President at Brannen & Lyle Investment Company, a privately held advisory firm in Bainbridge, GA. With deep roots across the Southeast, Brannen & Lyle has a long history of guiding families, business owners, and communities with trusted financial expertise.
WORDS BY EDWARD JONES
Marriage is more than a ceremony — it’s a union of families and finances. When you and your partner are honest with each other about money and financial goals, it can help build trust, leverage your strengths and help pave the way for a financial happily ever after.
Since talking about money can be difficult, begin with conversations not so much about money itself but about the things that matter to you. You’ll find these are also your financial priorities and a good way to see if you’re on the same page, or how far apart you might be.
Here are a few conversation starters:
Make a list of short- and long-term goals — from buying a house to retiring early. Do you want children? Will one of you change careers or go back to school? See where your lists overlap and where some goals may be more important to one partner.
Ease into the financial implications. If you plan to grow your family, would one of you like to stop working or reduce your hours to provide child care? If more schooling is a priority, what kinds of changes might that require?
Share your feelings about money. How did your family treat money while you were growing up? What does money mean to you — security, freedom, stress or something else? Are you both spenders or savers, or is there one of each?
Before your big day, or early in your marriage, decide how you’ll blend your financial lives.
Fully disclose your current financial situation. Discuss each partner’s assets and debts and how, or if, you’ll combine them. There’s no one right answer — the key is for you both to agree. In nine community property states, all assets and debts are shared 50/50 after marriage regardless of individual or joint account status. Check to see whether yours is one of them.
Align on your budget and spending. This can empower you to spend within your means while moving toward your financial goals. Determine who will handle the various tasks of managing money. Who is responsible for which bills, who files the taxes and when will you consult each other on financial decisions like major purchases — a car, perhaps, or a major household appliance?
Once you're married, there are a few things to address right away. You may want to consult with financial, tax and legal professionals to help avoid pitfalls and identify opportunities.
Employer benefits. Newly married employees usually have a 30-day special enrollment period to update certain benefit elections — such as health and life insurance.
Adjust the W-4 tax withholding on your employee forms to reflect your marital status and ask your tax professional which tax-filing status makes sense for you.
Insurance policies. Combine and update policies and beneficiaries, including adding each other to auto insurance policies if you drive each other’s cars.
Estate documents. Now with a family, prepare for the unexpected. Create or update a will, medical directive, and financial and health care powers of attorney, and you may want to explore whether a revocable trust is appropriate.
Getting married is perhaps one of the most exciting times of your life. As you commit to a lifetime together, make sure that includes a financial commitment. By starting a habit of financial discussions now and returning to them periodically, you can help set yourselves up for a lifetime of financial compatibility, stability and freedom.
This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Edward Jones Financial Advisor, Rolie P. Handcock.
WORDS BY MAHALIA GRIER
Buying a home as newlyweds is an exciting milestone, but it can also be a complex and overwhelming process. Misti Kelley of ERA Simpson, Lacey Shepherd of First & Main Real Estate Group, and Tyler Inlow of Premier Group Realty offer expert guidance to help couples make informed decisions and approach the journey with confidence. Laying the Foundation for a Smooth Home-Buying Process.
Lacey Shepherd emphasizes that securing preapproval from a lender is the critical first step in the process, giving buyers clear expectations about their purchasing power. Equally important is choosing a trusted realtor who provides informed advice and personalized assistance. Once the right professional is on board, they help clients navigate financial preparations, connect them with mortgage lenders, and conduct market research to identify properties within their target price range. With professional support and financial planning, Shepherd reassures buyers that purchasing a home can be stress-free and rewarding. "Building Love and Laying
Misti Kelley advises newlyweds to begin by finding the right realtor, someone they trust to guide them through financial preparations and ensure they get pre-approved for a mortgage. Once pre-approval is secured, couples should prioritize their needs and wants, creating a must-have list to help their realtor narrow down properties that align with their budget and lifestyle. A thorough evaluation of finances— including income, expenses, and debt—will clarify how much couples can comfortably spend on a home. With these foundational steps in place, a realtor can help identify suitable areas, negotiate offers, coordinate inspections, and manage paperwork to make the journey seamless.
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Key Considerations for Newlyweds Buying a Home
Tyler Inlow highlights the importance of discussing whether to purchase a starter home or a forever home, a decision that shapes long-term financial and lifestyle goals. Newlyweds must also balance preferences with financial limitations, prioritizing what truly matters while staying within budget. Inlow outlines several factors to consider when selecting a home:
Location: Proximity to work, family, and amenities
Future Growth: Adequate space for children, pets, and evolving lifestyle changes
Resale Value: Long-term investment potential in a desirable area
Home Condition: The importance of inspections to avoid costly repairs
Additionally, Inlow warns against common mistakes such as skipping pre-approval, overlooking additional costs, rushing the process, and waiving inspections. He also highlights various loan options, including FHA, VA, USDA, and conventional loans, helping newlyweds make informed financial decisions.
The home-buying process includes several essential steps:
Get pre-approved for a mortgage
Find a trusted real estate agent
Search for homes within budget
Make an offer on a suitable property
Conduct a home inspection and appraisal
Finalize financing
Close on the home
With stabilizing mortgage rates and a wider selection of homes available, 2025 presents a great opportunity for newlyweds to invest in homeownership. However, strategic planning is crucial to ensure affordability and long-term financial stability. By carefully considering each step and working with a knowledgeable realtor, couples can navigate the process with ease and excitement.
While the home-buying journey may have its challenges, having a trusted guide makes all the difference. With thoughtful preparation and expert support, newlyweds can turn their dream home into a reality.
Theme: Traditional
Venue/Location: St. Augustine Green
Dress Designer: Danielle Frankel
Florist: Florals by the Sea
Cake Baker: Sisterly Sweets
Band/DJ: Young Hearts
Wedding Party Attire: Black Tie
Invitations: Bash in Thomasville
Makeup Artist: Rolland’s Beauty Bar
Photographer: Rachel and Noah Raye
Videographer: Fleur House Social
Registries: Mad Rose, The Pharmacy, The Knot
First Dance: “Sweet Symphony” by Chris Stapleton
The Introduction
Ryan and I met at UGA! He was a passionate Tennessee fan, and I was equally devoted to FSU. Our shared love for college sports quickly became a fun connection.
Seaside is our favorite place, full of cherished memories. After a perfect day of running, strolling to lunch, visiting the farmers market, and enjoying happy hour, we walked back along the beach. At our usual stairs, a surprise awaited—champagne, flowers, and photos. He proposed, and our families, who had been hiding, joined us to celebrate. We ended the day with dinner surrounded by loved ones.
We debated between Bainbridge, St. Simons (Ryan's hometown), and ultimately chose the beach! The location played a key role in determining the date, and we decided on our favorite time to visit—during the off-season.
The flowers were absolutely breathtaking, surpassing all expectations and perfectly complementing the intimate and comfortable atmosphere. Ryan's uncle officiated the ceremony, making it incredibly personal and heartfelt—an especially meaningful touch. From start to finish, the entire day was beyond anything I could have imagined.
Having a first look with my dad and then with Ryan was such a special experience. Both moments were incredibly sweet and emotional, and I’m so grateful I got to share those private, meaningful moments with them before the festivities began.
Try not to get bogged down in the tiny details. As cliché as it sounds, focus on enjoying the process and trust that everything will turn out beautifully Easier said than done, I know—haha!
The Details
Theme: Christmas
Venue/Location: Simmons House at Greenwood
Dress: Miss Aurora
Florist: Lesley Taylor
Cake Baker: Christy Harrell Watson
Caterer: Mural City Cakes Catering
Band/DJ: The Loose Chain Band
Wedding Party Attire: Formal
Invitations: Seaborn Printing
Makeup Artist: Chandler Heard & Niki Nixon
Hair: Kym Moore and Niki Cox
Photographer: Havgood Photography
Videographer: Blueprint Films
Registries: Mad Rose, Bainbridge Pharmacy, Flint River Outfitters, & Reeves
First Dance: “How Sweet It Is” by James Taylor
The Introduction
Kyle and I grew up members of First Baptist Church in Bainbridge. We both went off to college and moved back home over time. Our paths crossed one Sunday leaving church in late 2023, and we instantly reconnected.
The Proposal
Kyle proposed in the most magical setting—my mother’s blooming backyard, where I had always loved to stroll among the camellias and azaleas. As we walked under the jasmine-covered arbor, I turned to find him on one knee with a ring, creating a surreal and unforgettable moment that felt like a dream come true.
Setting the Date and Location
After getting engaged in March, I decided on a ninemonth engagement, knowing a Christmas-time wedding would be lovely and provide just enough time for planning. Being from Bainbridge, we chose to marry at First Baptist Church, with the reception at The Simmons House, a new venue that perfectly fit our December vision.
Favorite Details
Some of my favorite wedding details included the beautiful Christmas trees, poinsettias, and bows decorating the venue, alongside touches of blue and white. From my grandmother's hand-painted wedding crest and invitations to Ashley Long live-painting our wedding portrait, and the mayhaw jelly favors made from my great-grandmother’s recipe, each element felt incredibly special and meaningful.
Favorite Moments
My favorite moment of our wedding day was right after the ceremony, when the photographer captured us outside the church at sunset. Kyle and I, now officially Mr. and Mrs. Wilkinson, took a quiet moment to soak it all in before heading to The Simmons House on the trolley.
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The Details
Theme: Garden Disco
Venue/Location: The Reynolds Home & Simmons House at Greenwood Triangle
Dress Designer: No Clue!
Florist: (Friends) Lesley, Gwen, Carolyn, Jan, Becky
Cake Baker: Shirah Brown and Cindy Henry
Band/DJ: Flavor ATL
Wedding Party Attire: Rivers and Bridge
Invitations: Seaborn Printing
Makeup Artist: Alicia Meadows & Renee Fisher
Hair: Olivia Reynolds & Ryan Phillips
Photographer: Wild Heart Visuals
Bar: Well on Wheels
Registries: Mad Rose, Bainbridge Pharmacy, & Flint River Outfitters
First Dance: “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You”
The Introduction
He was the mysterious Pizza guy...I was a cute little bartender. Joe is a quiet person and i am loud and very outgoing. I knew was I charming the customers with my personality, but I was also winning his heart. I honestly knew he was the one when I met him.
The Proposal
Joe proposed to me after my first Turkey Trot. We were spending the rest of the Thanksgiving weekend at Santa Rosa Beach or as joe calls it “Beachgivin’s”. He proposed during sunset.
Setting the Date and Location
I wanted the date to be an angel number...222 signifies balance, harmony, and trust in God’s plan, encouraging you to focus on relationships and your inner voice.
Favorite Details
I wanted something different that truly reflected my personality. Everything about my day was perfect. I loved the colors, the disco balls, the second line, and food!
Favorite Moments
My wedding day began with a yoga class led by Patty Hamilton. I wore my veil and we sipped mimosas—a perfect way to start the day and remind myself to be mindful. Instead of a traditional exit, we embraced a New Orleans-inspired welcome second line. Members of the BHS band guided our guests around the circle driveway in front of the Simmons House, and my partner and I led them to the reception in the back. To add a fun twist, I ordered a gladiator sword for cutting the cake.
Advice for Other Brides
This is your day. Do not feel like you have to invite everyone. Remember this season isn’t about how many showers you have/gifts you get - its about celebrating your love.
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