The People's Press December 2008 Issue

Get Happy With It!

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190 Center Street. 203.265.1514 December 2008 • Volume 9, Issue 110

Photo Art & Story By Ernie Larsen

A season for sharing…..2008 Christmas - by the time you read this it will be just a couple of weeks away; doesn't it seem that the advertising or the hype for the season started a lot earlier this year? I remember while shopping at a local chain pharmacy seeing Christmas items on the shelves just after Labor Day - that's the first week in September folks, ridiculous in my mind. Anyway, that's neither here nor there; this was long before the government's generous bailout of Wall Street and the announcement of companies closing with the expectation of hundreds of thousands of jobs being eliminated. And of course our new President, wouldn't want to be him with all those big decisions to make, you know, what kind of dog to get the kids and all that truly important stuff. Absurd what the press focuses on when the economy is going to hell in a hand basket. By the way, what is a hand basket? And now the economy - you have to watch where you are walking these days, don't want the stock market to fall on you! Well, at least there was a little glimmer of hope this week when Barry made some Cabinet/Department head announcements and the stock market had a brief rally. But the doom and gloom is sort of overtaking the joy this season should be radiating. With many business cutting back and the whole scenario in general how can anyone be happy. I think you just have to put everything aside and keep a positive attitude. Well, that's just me, hope others are thinking the same way. Give it a shot, it wouldn't hurt. Getting back to what I feel is pertinent and reality, those who have lost or are going to lose their jobs; really no way to celebrate the holidays. I can't imagine being in that situation during this season. I have had personal experience in the job loss area, a couple of places where I was employed went under whilst I was employed; never thought it would happen - the most notable being The International Silver Company, once Meriden's largest employer and the premier manufacturer of silver flatware and hollowware in the world. And the place I ended up after that, after working there 10 years they sold out and I had a chance to move to Rhode Island or hit the bricks; bricks it was. Fortunately my spouse was employed and I made do, for several years, with some freelancing until I was offered a full time position. So I truly can relate to someone who is or is about to lose their position, many may receive some type of severance package, however the stigma of job loss certainly outweighs any monetary compensation that may accompany the pink slip. Speaking of pink slips, I never received anything pink in my walking papers - wonder where that came from? If it is a mass closing, you might feel somewhat relieved that you weren't singled out, that feeling may last for a couple of days and then you realize you aren't going back to work. You are now a statistic and like many others in the job market. So what does all this have to do with the holidays, nothing really, however I think that we all should realize that if we are in a stable employment, family situation, we should take the time out of this all too extended season to share our good fortune, even a small amount, with others. A good way to help others is to support a local food kitchen, they provide meals all year to those

who do not have the means to fend for themselves….this is an ongoing program so the feeling you get by giving will offer a great feeling for some time. This is my choice for a donation this year; while it is my first venture into this sort of thing I called the director and asked what I could do, I had an idea and he thought it was fine. And after meeting with this enthusiastic group I realized they need donations all year round and as long as I'm able I'm going to try and donate on a regular basis, not just during the holidays. Then there are the local organizations serving holiday dinners on Thanksgiving and Christmas my daughter and I volunteered for a few years at the local YMCA and the last time the vols almost outnumbered those dining; they always could use either food or monetary donations. But do call to see what they specifically need, no use donating something that will not be used. We also used to bring holiday dinner leftovers to the local homeless shelter until they could not accept them due to health regulations. There are ample opportunities for giving - check with the shelter, used clothing is always in demand, especially in the winter, outerwear is a much needed item. Whatever you choose to do, do something! The opportunity to give is endless; almost every nonprofit organization runs on a shoestring and the holiday season taxes their resources to the limit. Another option, churches often collect non-perishable food to give to families who may need to supplement their pantries - a call to a rectory or church office may set you on the right track. And if all else fails, cash certainly is always a welcome alternative. If you have the means, consider sharing, you never know when you may be the recipient of someone else's largess. Do you think the foot soldiers working at Lehman Brothers or Bear Stearns ever thought they'd be on the unemployment lines this holiday season? Not for a minute and now the "generals" who got themselves into this mess are showered with billions in bailout cash, what gives? And closer to home, DHL Express, a local high end appliance distributor, Circuit City and what next? I saw news story about SPAM (the luncheon meat) this week - I know it hasn't gotten that bad but that's the way some people think, doom and gloom touting this low cost food…sort of silly, I thought, but the economy is predicted to get worse before it gets better. Keeping a positive vibe is certainly better than looking on the down side with such nonsensical news stories. Think positively, keep smiling and have a happy thought for everyone you come in contact with. Please, think outside the box this holiday - while you gather in the convivial company of friends and family, if you are able, why not help provide someone in a situation that may not be of their own doing experience a holiday that will take their mind off their circumstances, if only for a few hours. You can make a difference.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

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The Wallingford Family YMCA wishes you and yours Happy Holidays and a New Year filled with Health & Happiness!

WALLINGFORD FAMILY

Listen To What Our Members Have To Say And Then Join Today!

Collene Villano I love the Wlfd. YMCA because everyone, staff and members are so supportive of each other. Belonging to the YMCA is a privilege and a place I am proud to be associated with.

Daniel I love swimming and exercising. My whole family comes and we have fun! I love the climbing wall and I make friends. I like to play basketball and watch movies too.

Robert Najarian The variety of classes with instructors who care about your welfare. The friendly Welcome Center staff who “know your name” and take care of your needs.

What can a Y membership do for you? Take the first steps to leading a healthy life-style! Learn and have fun with personalized training sessions with our professional staff! Get energized with aerobics, indoor cycling, cardio & weight training! Check out our two pools and do some laps, or just take a dip. Socialize and make new friends in a friendly environment! It’s more than just that though. It’s about your entire family. That’s why we have FAMILY in our name. Spend some time together and take advantage of programs designed for your entire family. Looking for the perfect gift - Give the gift of health - A Gift Certificate To The Wallingford YMCA. The will love it!

Winter Program Registrations

December 8th- Current participants in swim lessons who are facility members December 15th- Facility Members December 22nd- Community Participants

Just A Sample Of What We Offer You! Preschool and School Age Child Care Preschool and Youth Sports: Parent-Tot Gymnastics Munchkin Basketball Munchkin Soccer Youth Basketball Youth Floor Hockey Dance Sport & Splash Youth Indoor Soccer Youth Basketball

Y Aquatics: Ages 6-38 months Classes Preschool Classes Youth Classes Adult Classes Lifeguard Training Swim Teams Aqua Fitness Classes Y Arts: Pee Wee Picasso Messy Fun Y Personal Fitness: Zumba™ Cardio Dance

Irresistaball Extreme Kickboxing Tai -Chi Indoor Cycling Pilates Yoga Gliding Personal Training Healthy Balance Program Teen Programs Friday Family Nights AND SO MUCH MORE!

The Wallingford YMCA All Day Kindergarten in Now Accepting 2009 Applications! 81 So. Elm Street, Wallingford 203-269-4497 www.wallingfordymca.org

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Holiday Community Dinner: GENEROSITY Makes It Happen" A traditional holiday dinner will be enjoyed be everyone at the 27th annual holiday dinners, noon to 2:00 PM Thanksgiving and Christmas Day at the First Congregational Church, 23 South Main St., Wallingford. The dinner, sponsored by Parents & Kids Foundation, Inc. and the church, is free and open to all who want to spend the day with others. Transportation will be provided to those needing rides. Meals and visits will also be delivered to the homebound. Food baskets are sent out ahead of time. These dinners happen every Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter and are fully dependent on donations of food, time and money to be successful. In addition to the dinner at the church, baskets will be sent out ahead of time to families in Wallingford, Meriden and Cheshire. Meals and visits are also delivered to the homebound who are unable to participate in the dinners at the church. At Christmas, we "adopt" many children and adults, some who are differently abled, those who are alone, nursing home residents without family and other entire families as we learn of their particular circumstances. We provide them with food, clothes and gifts. We write cards and send letters to cheer people. It is incredible to be part of this effort and to see all the good that comes when people give and share. As this effort has become so large, it is necessary for us to collect food and other items as early as possible. We start cooking three days before Thanksgiving and need folks who can offer their time and help with that as well. We are in need of everything! Individuals and businesses that would like to volunteer their time, talents, food, gifts, money or services are encouraged to call Nancy Freyberg at Parents & Kids Foundation, Inc., 284-8299. There will be an organizational meeting Saturday 10-11:30am at the First Congregational Church kitchen area. Come and find out how you can be involved. Together we can do so much for so many.

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Celebrations of Life and Home

What is MERG?

The Micro Enterprise Resource Group (MERG) was originally established by CEDF of CT and other local partners in the fall of 2004 in response to a need for advocacy on behalf of micro business owners throughout the state of Connecticut. MERG is a group of concerned companies who recognize the positive impact micro enterprises have on Connecticut's economy and to the individuals who operate them. MERG's mission is to advocate for and promote the interests of micro enterprise in Connecticut. On September 23rd, The Micro Enterprise Resource Group held its first Annual Meeting since incorporating a year ago. We had a great mix of micro entrepreneurs and supporting sponsors in attendance. Our keynote speaker, Secretary of the State Susan Bysiewicz, outlined several issues that will be on her agenda in the next legislative session and also answered many questions from the attendees. MERG members and guests completed a survey on issues that impact their businesses, and elected a new Board of Directors. A news team from Fox 61 covered the event, and interviewed members Shirley Bloethe and Peg Groth, CPA. Ms. Bloethe also presented MERG's 2008-2009 Goals and Objectives. MERG hosts a three day event at the Capitol in the spring with well over 75 micro businesses on display for the visitors to the Capitol and the legislators from each district in CT. We encourage our members to contact their legislators when a bill is presented to hear the micro business opinion on how that bill would affect them. MERG also participates and informs at trade shows, business showcases and chamber events. If you are the owner of a micro business (under 10 employees) we encourage you to contact MERG of CT at 888.835.2333 or http://www.mergct.org Our business office is located at 965 East Main Street, Meriden,CT 064506006 Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love. - Hamilton Wright Mabi Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful. --Norman Vincent Peale

Westville Artists Co-op hosts Laurie Beth Maffeo, a budding artist. Friday, November 1st-December 31st , 2008 - A local artists Co-op located in the heart of the Westville Arts District is graciously hosting emerging painter Laurie Beth Maffeo from Wallingford throughout November and December. Laurie's work mainly consists of unique acrylic-on-canvas works inspired by original photographs. The canvas sizes vary greatly, from 16" x 20" all the way up to 3' x 5'. She is dabbling in mosaics, and will likely include a few pieces in her exhibited works. Laurie is contributing her work to the Westville Art Expo and Co-op, located in the ArLoW gallery on the corner of Whalley Ave, and West Rock Ave. in New Haven, CT. She is joined by many other talented artists from all walks of life. The Co-op was organized by the neighboring Jennifer Jane Gallery, which has been an advocate of emerging photography talent throughout Connecticut. For more information on the artist, or events noted here, contact Laurie Maffeo, or visit www.groupX20.com.

Holiday Tree & Item Display Silent Auction Saturday, November 15, through Monday, December 15, 2008 Trees will be on display at all Events at the Center

Come out and see this beautiful display of trees, wreaths, and centerpieces donated by local businesses and non-profit organizations all over the City of Meriden. Bid on your favorite item for yourself or a special gift for the Holidays, if you have the winning bid items from the Holiday Auction can be picked up on Dec. 15th & 16th. Come and view the display just to get into the Holiday spirit and bring some friends!!! Support your local non-profit by bidding on their tree, wreath or centerpiece. They get half of the proceeds that there item brings in... There is no admission fee to view the trees.....Center will be open daily Viewing times are Nov. 28th through Dec. 3rd 11am to 7pm for viewing. All other days please call for times.

175 East Main Street in Meriden 203.639.2856 www.curtisculturalcenter.org

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Brush, Cut, Donate! By Kristin R Kovacs Last month I donated my hair for the third time in five years. Some of you are reading this and know exactly what I'm talking about, while others of you may be asking yourselves what this means. What is she talking about? Where do you donate your hair? Who wants your old hair anyway? Some years ago I heard of an organization called Locks of Love. This organization provides wigs to children suffering from long-term illnesses that cause them to lose their hair. A few years later when I was a sophomore in college, I decided to participate in the program. I had been dating Sean (who later became my husband) for just a few months, and I told him that I was planning on doing it. His reaction was one of surprise. He said that he had only ever dated girls with long hair and he wasn't sure if he would like it. Needless to say, I cut my hair anyway. When he first saw my haircut he was so excited and absolutely loved it. I have since grown and donated my hair two times and every time I am growing it out he begs me not to. The two more recent times I have donated my hair it was to a different organization. Beautiful Lengths, which is affiliated with the hair product brand Pantene, is partnered with the American Cancer Society. This organization provides cancer patients with real-hair wigs. Generally, you will need to have at least 10 inches of hair available, however different organizations have varying requirements. Shortly after I donated my hair for the first time, I went back to school and hadn't gotten around to getting the hair to the post office. I asked my mother if she wouldn't mind sending it out for me. Things got busy at home and a few weeks went by and it wasn't sent. One day she came home to find that our dog, Tibby, had climbed up onto the counter and clawed through my bag of hair! Luckily, she only pulled out a few strands and we were able to send the ponytail (right away!) to Locks of Love. We joke that Tibby missed me so much while I was at school that she was trying to find something with my scent on it! If you are thinking about donating your hair, but are nervous about cutting so much at one time, I encourage you to research the organizations online. My second time donating I had let it get very long and was able to cut a foot of hair and still have some left over on my head! The most recent cut yielded my shortest haircut since I was a child. Luckily, when you have a hairdresser as talented as Vanessa, you don't worry at all about how your hair will come out. It is daunting to think about cutting that much hair, but I can't describe how great it feels after a completely new look is unveiled that was hiding under all that extra hair. So here I am now, with my new haircut and the most recent bag of my hair sitting in a Ziploc bag on the counter waiting to be sent off to its second life. Beautiful Lengths has a statement on its website: One wig takes six ponytail donations. Based on the rate that I have been donating, it would take me ten years of donating my hair to have made one complete wig. That is a lot of hair! This act of kindness doesn't cost anything except a little bit of bravery and willingness to better an individual's life through a selfless act. Your hair is a part of what makes you feel beautiful, why not give it a chance to help make someone else feel the same way. If you have any questions regarding my experiences, the organizations, or my fabulous hairdresser Vanessa, please do not hesitate to contact me at Woofus56@aol.com.

Join us New Years Eve for an eXtReMe Family Bowling Party at Wallingford Bowl! Party of up to 5 per lane - includes 3 Hours of Bowling, Pizza, Soft Drinks, Shoes, Party Favors, Music, Surprises and more - all for only $74.50. Affordable FUN for the whole family! Call to reserve your lane now!

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Happy Holidays

I would like to wish Rachel and Richard Birmingham a very happy holiday greetings. love you very very much. Love Mom XOXOXOXOX!

From Our Home To Yours...

Meditation The word meditation comes from two Latin words: Meditari, which means to think or dwell upon and Mederi, which means to heal. In Sanskrit, the word meditation is derived from Medha, which means wisdom. Meditation is not a form of worship or prayer but is a technique that helps to develop awareness or a state of consciousness in which the mind is free from scattered thoughts. Whatever is done to reach a level of awareness is called meditation. Published scientific and medical research have supported the benefits of meditation, although much still needs to be understood. Some of the known benefits of meditation include: * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Improvement in general health Increased immune function Increased serotonin production Reduction in heart rate Reduction in blood pressure Lowered stress and anxiety levels Relief of insomnia Improvement in concentration Decreased muscle tension and pain due to tension Decreased frequency of headaches Improvement in chronic diseases Improvement in post-operative healing Reduction in pre-menstrual syndrome Relief of phobias, fears and conflicts Increased self-confidence Increased joy and happiness Self discovery

wishing you and your family a truly festive season filled with lots of love, laughter and celebration.

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Three Aunts, Eighteen Cousins, and One Very Special Tradition

By Bill Mercuri "Okay, everyone. Time to eat!" These are the much-anticipated words my cousins and I have looked forward to every New Year's Day for more than a quarter century. The words are clear and crisp, just like the January day on which they're spoken. They ring from the mouth of a small, silver-haired Italian woman who proclaims this good news standing in the wood framed doorway that leads from the dining room to the kitchen of her Grove Street home. Her name is Violet; with her sisters Madeline and Rose, together they have always been known to us all as "the aunts." The aunts gave birth to a family holiday tradition, which we have come to call the annual niece and nephew dinner. While I've never asked any of them why they decided that it would be a good idea for them to bring together 18 or so of their brothers' and sisters' children and their spouses once a year for an afternoon of family fellowship, I have a theory. There has always been a very strong and loving bond among the aunts and all of us cousins. I include the husbands and wives as part of our direct relationship because this family is so close that there can be no distinction. The relationship that the aunts have always had with us goes well beyond the obligatory birthday card or Christmas present. These extraordinary women immersed themselves into our lives and were active participants in our childhoods and as we became young adults. They helped mold us into the people we are today. As we grew up and started lives and families of our own, the cousins drifted a bit apart and didn't see each other as much, if at all, during the year. The aunts, in their usual selfless manner, wanted to see us all together at least once a year to catch up with one another and share life's ups and downs. And, while this certainly isn't their motivation, it provides us all a chance to express our thanks and love for these special ladies. This mini family reunion is carried out in the usual aunts' fashion meaning that everything is carried out with extreme care right down to the smallest detail. There is no mistaking that this event is about the affection that they have for their family. There are handwritten invitations and individually wrapped favors at each place setting. Homemade ravioli and meatballs and wine served in a small carafe highlight the meal. Auntie Rose's world famous dessert and fresh perked coffee serves as a reminder for us to save room. "Come on, eat! We've got plenty. Bill, you'll have more, right? Sure, you'll have more!" The wine flows much like the Sinatra and Bing Crosby coming from the old-style radio sitting on the shelf in the kitchen where it's always rested. As the afternoon progresses, I become absorbed in the picture of which I'm very fortunate to be a part. I look around the small but comfortable room and think of the many rich memories we all have of this house. I take in this scene with all of my senses. I see smiles and hear laughter. There's no bickering or hard feelings. I feel the warmth of what a genuinely loving and caring family is; and I can taste the wonderful food, not only that which is before us but all of the meals we've enjoyed here over the years. Most memorable are gramma's Sunday macaroni lunches after church, complete with fresh Bonazinga bread. Much has changed over the years. We've lost loved ones in our lives, even auntie Rose. I can't believe that it's been ten years. I think of her often, not only on the day of our annual dinner but whenever I'm at the house with aunts Vi and Mal. The three of them were inseparable, making it nearly impossible to see the two without my thoughts turning toward the third. A fourth sister, and just as special of an aunt, Faith, now shares New Year's Day with us. She takes a good-natured ribbing from us as she tries to keep our "orders" straight while playing the part of waitress. In the end, this dinner is so much more than a meal. It's a celebration of family and tradition in an age where those two things are nearly extinct. It's about the remarkable giving spirit of these aunts who themselves live life to the fullest and in many ways are people for others, bringing light to the lives of the many they touch throughout the year. So from all of us to you, aunts Vi, Mal, Faith and Rose, much love and thanks for all that you have meant to us and continue to mean to us and our families, now and always. Boun Natale!

CROCHET CLASSES IN DECEMBER AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY

Would you like to learn to crochet? Join us on Saturday December 6 and 13 at 3:00 in the Friends Room at the Meriden Public Library for a beginner crochet class taught by Meriden resident Mary Ann Reyes. Learn how to properly hold the crochet hook, make a foundation chain, single, half double, and double crochet stitches. You will need to bring any color or ounce size of Bernat holiday yarn and one size H8 crochet hook. The class size is limited to the first 10 people. Contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349 to reserve a place.

I wish we could put up some of the Christmas spirit in jars and open a jar of it every month. - Harlan Miller (Better Homes and Gardens)

Celebrations of Life and Home Happy Birthday Joseph John Albanese Born December 22, 2001 Son of Olivia and State Police Master SGT. John J. Albanese

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Rufus the red nosed Holstein sings in the holiday

Sara J's Restaurant in Wallingford will be celebrating the Christmas holiday December 20th 2008 from 8 AM til 10 AM with Rufus the red nosed Holstein Mascot. Bring the kids, have some breakfast, and enjoy the company of friends as Rufus sings many holiday favorites. A limited supply of books from local Children's Writer & Illustrator Michael J. Citak will also be for sale, just in time for those last minute Christmas shoppers looking for the perfect gift for their son/daughter/niece or nephew. Come join in on the fun! Sara J's, 7 Ward Street. Wallingford, CT. December 20th, 2008 from 8 AM til 10 AM.

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What you need to know!

What is your favorite thing to eat with your latkes -applesauce, or sour cream? By Joan Goodman Since The People's Press likes to have polls, I thought I would have one too. Do you like applesauce or sour cream with your latkes? Or both? (like me) If you are scratching your head saying "What's a latke?" let me explain a delicious tradition that is part of the Chanukah celebration in December. A latke is a potato pancake, fried in oil, that Jewish people eat during Chanukah. The oil symbolizes the cruse of oil that the Talmud says miraculously lasted for eight days when the Jewish people rededicated their temple in Jerusalem in 165 B.C.E., after the ouster of the Syrian-Greek army by a small band of Jewish fighters called the Maccabees. (Maccabee is said to have been the battle cry of the Jewish forces, and also derives from the Hebrew word for hammer, denoting great strength.) There is also an Israeli custom of eating sufganiyot (doughnuts), another food fried in oil. In our family we learned this custom from one of my Israeli friends, and gladly added it to our celebration by indulging in jelly doughnuts. There are several other Chanukah traditions. First, we light candles in a special candle holder called a menorah and say blessings. On each of the eight nights, another candle is added until on the last night eight candles burn brightly. Well, really nine because we light a candle called the "shamash" (helper) which we use to light the other candles. The candles are lit to symbolize light and faith, carrying on the legacy of Chanukah of hope and religious freedom. Another custom is to play with dreidels (also spelled draydel) which are four-sided tops with a hebrew letter on each side. The letters are nun, gimmel, hay, and shin which stand for the first letters in the words of the phrase 'nes gadol haya sham' which means a great miracle happened there. The person spins the dreidel and takes an action depending on what letter it lands on. You play with a "pot" of nuts, candy, or pennies in the center. Nun is for "none" or the player takes nothing from the pot. For Gimmel think "give me" and the player gets what is in the pot. For Hay, the player takes half of the pot. And for Shin the player puts a piece into the pot. If nothing is left in the center and the players want to keep the game going, they can all put in a couple of pieces and keep playing. Chanukah is actually considered a minor holiday in the Jewish calendar. It is okay to go to work and school. Chanukah became a "bigger holiday" culturally as Jewish and Christian people mingled more. Gift giving is one example. Originally, this was part of the Purim tradition (a spring holiday) and not part of Chanukah. Later, in Eastern Europe, families gave children chanukah gelt ( money) on the fifth night. And with Chanukah falling in December near Christmastime, gift giving gradually became part of the Chanukah custom although it varies among families. Some give small gifts each night, some for just one night, some give a check for a certain amount and let the child decide who the check should go to (e.g. a charity of their choice). If you are looking for the perfect Chanukah gift, you can shop at Temple B'nai Abraham's Chanukah Fair from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. on December 14th and 21st. We have everything you need for family and friends: cards, cd's, candles, creative crafts, fun toys, kitchen items, cool mezzuzahs for kids, menorahs, adorable stuffed chanukah bears, and much more. Gift wrapping is available. And if you want to find out what a latke tastes like, join us for a Latke Party on Sunday December 21st, at 12:00 p.m. I'll be the one with the big plate loaded with latkes, applesauce, and sour cream - yum! Happy Chanukah, Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa, and Feliz Navidad. About Temple B'nai Abraham Temple B'nai Abraham is a Conservative synagogue which provides religious, educational and social programming for all age groups in a warm, extended family atmosphere. Services are egalitarian, and feature congregational singing. All are welcome. Temple B'nai Abraham is located at 127 East Main Street in Meriden. For more information call (203) 235-2581. Sources: The Jewish Book of Why, by Aflred J. Kolatch; The Jewish Home Advisor by Alfred P. Kolatch; and Jewish Family & Life by Yosef I. Abramowitz & Rabbi Susan Silverman

Memories of Holiday Past By Debra Belancik

An Afternoon of Beauty-Thank You Brio Academy! Brownie and Junior Girl Scout Troop 66070 of Israel Putnam Elementary School enjoyed a day of beauty in November. Brio Academy of Meriden sent their freshmen class to our Troop meeting for mini-makeovers. Brio students were professional and very good at their trade as they curled hair, painted and designed finger nails and put make-up on our Girl Scouts. It was amazing to watch the skillful hands of the Brio students do what they do best. We are very grateful to our local cosmetology students for sharing their craft with our girls as some are working on a Looking Your Best badge. Thank you Brio!

I can remember total family gathers at my both grandparents homes, They were very festive and bright, It was lots of food and just old time fun. Presents were not a big issue. There were so many of us that you ate in shifts, In today's world, most every one gets caught up in the shopping and competition of the holidays, What we all need is just come together as a family and enjoy and make memories to share, Give kids the gift of your time. Thanksgiving day was a day to recount your blessings, not what you want but what is needed.

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Our Christmas Eve Tradition… I want to first say that this message is intended to be a happy one, but I do need to explain why, for the past 16 years, Christmas Eve & Christmas have become "bittersweet", and the importance of maintaining traditions even after experiencing a loss, whether it be an expected or unexpected one. Each Christmas Eve my family has a celebration at Mom's house. Some of us attend the early mass at St. Joseph's, while others stay back to greet early guests or keep an eye on the food. The guests include family, extended family, friends, neighbors, and once even a limo driver (more of that one in a bit). We all enjoy food and drink and conversation, probably with "A Christmas Story" playing on one of the tv's. While, growing up, my parents were not big gift givers, they always remembered the 5 children with a gift of cash and a lottery ticket; not a lot of cash as we were by no means wealthy (in that way anyhow - but wealthy in many other aspects - family, closeness, etc.), but a nice gift regardless. Which brings me to two of my favorite memories… 1. The year when I was totally surprised with a Cabbage Patch Doll; it was in a big box and I was probably 10 and everyone else knew of course, but I was very surprised! 2. And, imagine the shock back around 1990, the year when my dad totally surprised the whole family when he gave my boyfriend (now my husband) a HUGE, industry size bottle of A-1 Sauce - also in a large box. One year, Darren (my husband and I) ended up taking a limo to the Giants vs. Dallas game - we were so tired when we got home that Christmas Eve that we went into my bedroom to take a nap and mom invited the limo driver in for dinner! Apparently he stayed for quite some time! In December 1992, everything changed. That had to be the absolutely WORST Christmas ever. A week prior, on December 16th, 1992, we found my dad dead in his bed after having a massive heart attack at the age of 56. I, the "baby" of the family was 20, a sophomore at University of New Haven. While much of that time is a blur, there are moments I distinctly remember, like what I was wearing to bed the night my sister woke to tell me what had happened. I recall what I was doing before I came home that night. I remember calling my advisor at school explaining what happened - I did return right after the Christmas break. And, the procrastinator that I am, I had done NO shopping for my family - or for anyone. I recall walking through JCPenney that year in an absolute daze trying to pick gifts out just days before we were to bury Dad. But, we continued our Christmas Eve tradition that year and I'm glad we did. It definitely helps to try to get back into the swing of things no matter how hard it may be. It was not the most fun Christmas Eve that I remember, but our family was all together and for that we are truly blessed. I remember how I felt thinking, "why bother", but again, I'm glad we did. I think it helps in the grieving / healing process. So, through the years, the tradition continues and we have fun and laughs and a good time. We are trying to get into the habit of "picking names" rather than buying for everyone: To sister Pam: please jump on this - no need to buy a gift for all of us! Last year a special memory was born when Darren totally surprised me with a beautiful ring in front of the whole family - he even had a little speech planned which was rudely interrupted by the vulgar talking parrot that Pam bought as a gift for her boyfriend, Bobby. …Merry Christmas to All and Best Wishes for a Bright and Happy New Year. - Rosanne P. Ford

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AT THE HEART OF IT ALL! By: Staci M. Roy, Executive Director of the Augusta Curtis Cultural Center It really is the most wonderful time of the year and I would like to send out a big Thank You to all of you who participated in some way at our Annual Augusta Auction held in November. By placing an ad in the program, donating and item, buying tickets to the preview party, attending the auction, volunteering time or bidding on an item you enabled the Center to raise over $17,000 to continue our programming and events. The ACCC is beautifully decorated for the Holidays and we have Tony DeFelice, hairdresser at Catherine & Co., and Jacob Moss, decorator & designer of Jacob Moss Floral Design to thank for donating their time, expertise, & decorations. The Arts & Cultural Center (Meriden's first Library) never looked grander, it is a must see! We are currently hosting our Annual Holiday Display and Silent Auction through Dec. 15th. All viewing times for the display and our upcoming events can be found on our web-site www.curtisculturalcenter.org or by calling the Center at 203-639-2856. There will be many events to enjoy at the Center in the month of December and we hope to see you at one of the following: Hartt Guitar Dept. performing on Sunday Dec. 7th at 3pm, Augusta Curtis Concert Band Holiday Concert Monday Dec. 8th at 7pm, Hartt 20/20 performance group performing Tuesday Dec. 9th at 7pm, and "A Very Murray Christmas" by the Murray Brass Quintet Sunday Dec. 21st at 3pm. Looking for a Holiday gift for that hard to buy for person, why not give them a gift membership to the ACCC? Memberships, donations, grants, and fundraisers are how the Center affords to keep the doors open so we could use all the Community support we can get. We hope you will come out and enjoy the Center during the Holidays, after all this is a gem in the Meriden Community. The Board of Directors and I would like to wish you and yours a Very Happy Holiday and we hope to see you at one of our December events or in the New Year at the Augusta, 175 East Main Street, Meriden. The ACCC is in the heart of it all and in the heart of the arts!!

December Dog Park Meeting Announced The Cheshire Dog Park group will hold its next meeting on Thursday, December 11 at 7 p.m. in the Tabor Room at the Cheshire Park and Rec. Volunteers are needed to help in the areas of planning, fundraising, publicity, design and website construction. The Cheshire Dog Park group encourages all those interested in the construction of a dog park to attend these meetings for further information. To be added to the Dog Park mailing list please send your name, e-mail, and phone number to emoryjack@yahoo.com. The Dog Park group is moving forward with a plan to install the park adjacent to Artsplace on Waterbury Road. There are numerous benefits to dog parks including allowing dogs to exercise and socialize. Dog parks help to promote responsible dog ownership and public safety and also provide a social environment for dog owners. Donations are currently being accepted. All checks can be made payable to Cheshire Park and Rec. Gift Fund with "Dog Park" in the memo line. Checks can be mailed to: Cheshire Park and Rec. Department, 559 South Main Street, Cheshire, CT 06410. A Dog Park infoline has also been created and can be reached at 203-430-5552. Christmas Eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl. But it warmed more than your body. It warmed your heart... filled it, too, with a melody that would last forever. - Bess Streeter Aldrich

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Happy Holidays to the readers of The People's Press and Andy and Dawn the best editors and publishers of this terrific paper. The Greatest Gift Of All By: Maggie Griffin Once upon a time there was a Mom and Dad to be, They were due to have a baby, a blessing star to share their with their special Christmas Tree. Anxiously they waited, the baby was overdue. The Mom to be got big like a cow, So big she could have said Moo. She made a wish upon the mid night star to Heaven up above, Shouting "I wish my baby is born before Christmas" as her eyes glowed with love. Forgetting that the Dad to be had a lucky number, He was in for a surprise yet to be seen by another. Through the wish upon a star from the new Mom to be, It turned out the baby's arrival came on the day of the new Dad's lucky number, seventeen. The new Mom couldn't believe her eyes, her wish came true.

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South Meriden Volunteer Fire Department News and Advice South Meriden Volunteer Fire Department is its 100th year of service to the Village of South Meriden and the City of Meriden. The Officers and Members wish all of our friends and family member's health and prosperity this holiday season. We thank you all for your continual financial support over this past year. We look forward if necessary to serve you any way we can this up coming year. Now its time for a several safety tips for our neighbors. We hope you all have working smoke detectors in your home. Working Smoke detectors save lives. Please make sure that you changed your batteries in the detectors. The best time to remember to change the batteries is when day light saving time comes. When you change your clocks back or forth change the batteries for safety. Also if you do not have carbon monoxide (CO) detectors in your home please purchase them. CO is a colorless, odorless, highly poisonous gas that is produced by inefficient burning and incomplete combustion of fuel products in heating appliances, furnace, hot water heaters, and stoves. If you do not have efficient burning appliances in the home, over a period of time CO could be building up in the home which if unchecked could lead to medical conditions and even Death. Having your furnace cleaned and serviced each year will help keep the units running more efficiently. CO is the silent killer, please protect your family and yourself and purchase CO detectors for your home. CO is also produced by normal operation of your vehicles and comes out of the vehicles exhaust systems. Running your vehicle in the garage could cause CO to seep directly into the home. With winter right around the corner we are asking for your assistance with a little maintenance item. If you have a fire hydrant near the front of your property we need your help. When it snows it would be helpful; if you could clear the snow and ice away from the hydrant. In a fire emergency it is very important that we can hook our hoses to the hydrant as quickly as possible in case we need additional water to extinguish a fire. During and after snow storms we do try to get out and clear hydrants, but we do not always have time to get to them all. It would be very beneficial to all our neighbor to have clean and clear fire hydrants. If you can help us out with this maintenance item we would appreciate your assistance. Another health Tip. We urge all our residence to be careful during the winter months with shoveling snow. (That's If we ever get any) Take it easy do not over do it. Use a good shovel and do not over load it when you lift it. Also for those of you that have snow blowers please be extremely careful not to put your hands near the blades of the blower unit while it is running. You might say who would do that, but each year Meriden's emergency service responders respond to several of these calls each year and it isn't a pretty sight so please take precautions. If you can and have the time and the energy may be you can help a neighbor who is a little older or might be ill, give them a hand clearing away the snow from their walkways or driveway. It feels real good to be able to help them out during the winter months. Each year we lose friends and neighbors to heart attacks during the winter months from over exerting themselves shoveling snow. We also want to thank all of our friends that have been helping clearing snow and ice a way from fire hydrants during storms. This allows the fire department during fire emergencies to hook up to fire hydrants quicker to gain access to a water supply if the fire is one of a substantial size. And one more health tip. If you are under a doctor's care and take certain medications keep a list of these medications handy just in case you have the need to call 911 for during a medical emergency. Also with this list you might want to give a little history of any medical conditions that you also might have. These are important things for emergency responders to have just in case you are unable to respond to our questions when we arrive at your home. A good place to keep this information is in an envelope on you refrigerator and note that it is Medical Info. Information about Membership application process: We are currently accepting applications for membership for individuals who live in Meriden over the age of 18 in good health and have a clean police records and can pass the application process. We are also accepting application for those individuals who might all ready be certified as a State of CT Firefighter/EMT and do not live in Meriden but are willing to fill night crew positions at our station. These individuals will need to meet our by-law requirements for drills, weekly night crew and duty crew assignments. We are one of the only Volunteer fire stations in the State that have sleep-in crews at our fire station we presently cover 6 out of 7 nights. Our nightly in-house status allows us to service our customers you our neighbors quicker. Being a volunteer fire fighter takes a lot of commitment and time. Our members make a lot of personal sacrifices to belong to our department, but they get great satisfaction of being part of terrific tradition of saving lives and property. We train and work hard but we love serving and protecting our friends and visitors. Applications can be picked up at our station at 31 Camp Street, South Meriden in the evenings. We are a DRUG FREE Department and we TEST all applicants. Good-bye for now, talk to you soon . Stay Safe and healthy Keith Gordon, Chief South Meriden Fire

Beth Israel in Wallingford to Celebrate Chanukah with Communal Menorah Lighting and Latkes

On December 26th, Beth Israel Synagogue in Wallingford will celebrate with a communal menoral lighting service, followed by delicious potato latkes (to commemorate the historic role of burning oil). Bring your own Chanukah menorah and join us as every family lights their own menorah for an amazing sight of community candles burning together. Non-members are welcome to join us. A small, historic, unaffiliated conservative congregation, Beth Israel, founded in 1901, is undergoing a renaissance. A dedicated team of congregation members has been involved for over two years with the national STAR Synagogue initiative, injecting new energy and focus into the congregation. Programming highlights the direction the Congregation is moving towards, encompassing all the elements of Judaism - prayer, learning and gathering - into fun filled events. Beth Israel warmly welcomes all Jewish individuals and families, interfaith and non-traditional. For more information, please contact the synagogue at 269-5983, or s_alida@hotmail.com (ask to be put on our synagogue mailing list). Information can also be found on our new website, www.bethisraelwallingord.org. You can also follow our updates at www.twitter.com/BethIsrael. We Frame Jerseys, Tickets, Photos, Cards & More! We have New York Final Season, Boston & New York Championship Collectibles

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Meriden Health Department News and Events Total Cholesterol Screening Do you know what your total cholesterol number is? If not, the Meriden Health Department will be holding a total cholesterol screening on December 16, 2008 from 9:00-11:30am. Screenings are held at 165 Miller Street. The cost is $10.00 (cash only), and includes the screening and cholesterol tracking card. Call 630-4234 to make your appointment. This is the last screening for 2008; 2009 dates will be in the January issue of the People's Press.

Keeping the Weight Off During the Holidays: Tips from the Meriden Health Department If calendars had a place for calorie counting, what would December look like for you? Friday: School holiday party with assorted baked goods-1,000 calories Saturday: Office holiday party with buffet dinner-1,900 calories Sunday: Neighborhood caroling with hot chocolate and cookies-800 calories Monday: Fruitcake arrives in the mail-600 calories Food is an important part of the holiday season. Whether your taste runs to old standbys or to something new, it's easy for normal eating patterns to take a backseat at this time of year. By following a few tips on holiday eating, you and your family can enjoy special foods while keeping a balanced and healthy diet. Taking Control - Before a holiday event, eat a snack or light meal. Foods high in protein, like chicken or cottage cheese, help you to eat less later. Fasting ahead of time to leave room for a big meal or extra trips to the buffet may lead you to overeat. It's important not to let kids eat whatever they want during this festive time of year. In particular, limit the number of sodas your children drink. Soda has little or no nutritional value and is loaded with caffeine and sweeteners. These ingredients, which are found in many holiday goodies, can make your child hyper. Besides, weight gain isn't just an adult issue. Too many children are obese, so don't let your child's holiday fun add excess weight. If you are hosting a holiday event, do your guests a favor by including nonalcoholic beverages and healthier items such as vegetables, salad, and fruit on the menu. Use low-calorie and fat-free salad dressings. Put these items out before the sweets, meats, and soufflĂŠs to give everyone a better chance of not overdoing it with high-fat, high-calorie choices. Look for healthy substitutes for ingredients when you whip up your favorite holiday fare. You may be able to use low-fat or skim milk products instead of whole milk products in some dishes. In some baked goods, you can swap applesauce for oil. Switching ingredients can create tasty results without the high calories that often come with rich foods. Washing It Down - What you drink during the holidays can add calories. Look at all of your options. Alcoholic beverages and many fruit punches can be long on calories but short on nutrition. Instead, look for hot cider, diet sodas, and flavored waters.

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Pedro M. Montijo Feb. 3, 1938 - Jan. 30, 2007 RIP It nas been almost two years Since God has called you home. It broke our hearts to lose you. You did not go alone. For part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories. Your love is still our guide. And though we cannot see you, You are always at our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same. But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again. Love always, your wife Sherry, Daughters Angie and Tanya, Sons - Kimba, Eddie and Angel (Pedro) and your great grandaughter Tyana.

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Remember Our Furry Friend's This Christmas Lori Peck, MHS Dedicated Volunteer (Theme to "Oh Little Town of Bethlehem") Oh Little town of Meriden, How many we still lie. Left on the streets or dissed by "Peeps" Oh please, please hear our cries." Yet on our shelter shineth an everlasting (no kill) light. The hopes and tears from all our years Please find us here tonight. And as I think about the true meaning of Christmas. I can't help but to envision baby "Jesus" in his manger, surrounded by his loving parents (Mary and Joseph), the compassion of perfect strangers (the wise men and shepherd boy) and the warmth and comfort from yes, the animals in the stable. Please stop by the MHS to visit with our wonderful animals. You can also view our animals, hours and fundraisers by visiting www.meridenhs.petfinder.org. Our annual "Pictures with Santa" event, will be held on Saturday, Dec. 6th. We will also be offering raffles, a bake table and many holiday items for purchase, so please join us. Happy Holidays to All! See you at the Shelter. Christmas ... is not an eternal event at all, but a piece of one's home that one carries in one's heart. - Freya Stark ("The Wise Men" Time and Tide)

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MAX E. MURAVNICK MERIDEN SENIOR CITIZENS' CENTER News and Events The Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Citizens' Center is open to all Meriden residents age 55 and over. Membership is free of charge and new members may sign-up any weekday between 8:30 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. by presenting a driver's license or other proof of age. New members receive an information package about senior services and a coupon entitling them to one complimentary lunch in our Senior Community Café. Sign-up today and find out about all that is offered for Meriden seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center! Our 2008 Senior Center Holiday Fair and Bake Sale will be held on Wednesday, December 10 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM in the main hallway of the Senior Center. Handmade items will be available for sale by the knitting, sewing and ceramics classes and bake sales and raffles will also be held. The fair is open to the public and people of all ages are invited to attend! Northeast Utilities will present an Energy Bingo at the Senior Center on Wednesday, December 3 from 12:45 - 1:45 followed by our regular bingo from 1:45 - 3:15. Prizes will include energy efficient light bulbs, energy saving information and other gifts. Energy Bingo is presented as a free community outreach and public education program and all prizes are compliments of Northeast Utilities. Free hearing aid assistance will be offered on Tuesday, December 9 from 9:30 AM to 12:00 noon. Hearing Aid Specialist Nick Wills from Miracle Ear at the Meriden Square will provide free hearing tests, ear examinations, hearing aid cleaning and checks, general assistance and answer any questions you may have about your hearing aid. This service will be offered on a first come, first served basis. Manicures by students from Wilcox Technical High School will be offered at the Senior Center on Wednesday, December 10 from 9:30 - 11:00 AM. This complimentary service is done on a first come, first served basis and newcomers are always welcome. Special thanks to the students from Wilcox Technical High School who provide this much appreciated free service for Meriden seniors! On Wednesday, December 17 from 10:00 AM to 12:00 noon ProShred will have their paper shredding truck parked in the Hanover Street Parking Lot for a free paper shredding event for Senior Center members. Protect your identity and the security of your old records by disposing of old bank statements, bills, financial documents and other personal papers at this free paper shredding courtesy of ProShred. Just drive into the Hanover Street Parking Lot and look for the big truck to safely dispose of those unwanted papers you no longer need! Holiday entertainment at the Senior Center will include performances by Middi & the Country Gentlemen on Thursday, December 18 at 10:30 AM, Jill Riggles for a Holiday Sing-a-Long on Tuesday, December 23 at 11:00 AM for our Holiday Celebration Luncheon and the Christmas Show with Dean Martin and Marilyn Monroe on Wednesday, December 24 at 10:30 AM! The Christmas Show is sponsored by Health Net who will also provide complimentary popcorn! The Holiday Celebration Luncheon will feature roast turkey with gravy, stuffing, whipped potatoes, cranberry sauce, mixed vegetables, dinner roll and holiday ice cream for dessert. Sign-up for the Holiday Celebration Luncheon by calling our Senior Community Café at 235-8052 by December 16. Our Holiday Dinner Dance will be held on Thursday, December 18 from 5:00 to 9:00 PM. Entertainment will be provided by the Vinnie Carr Band. The dinner menu, served from 5:00 to 6:00 PM, will be roast beef with chef's special sauce, baked potato with sour cream and chives, peas, dinner roll and strawberry layer cake. Tickets are available now at the Senior Center for $6 per person for Meriden residents. Get your ticket today and join us for our Holiday Dinner Dance! During December Senior Center members are asked to help those in need in Meriden by contributing non-perishable food items to our collection box at the Senior Center. Our volunteer receptionists will be accepting donations of canned goods, pasta, coffee and other staples at the reception desk in the front lobby. We will then donate this food to a food pantry in Meriden to help those less fortunate than ourselves during the holiday season. Please consider making a donation of a non-perishable food item to help others here in Meriden during this special time of the year! Our friends at the Meriden Kiwanis Club generously donated 100 free tickets for senior citizens for this year's Kiwanis Kapers Show at Maloney High School on November 7 & 8. We distributed the tickets to Senior Center members and, on their behalf, I would like to thank the Meriden Kiwanis Club for this outstanding donation - we appreciate your support! Save the date for our next Weather Show with meteorologist Art Horn, "Weatherwise: Myths and Misconceptions of Weather" on Wednesday, January 14 at 10:30 AM in the First Floor Meeting Room at the Senior Center. Art will examine the many sayings, folklore and myths of weather and climate in this entertaining and educational program! Best wishes for a happy holiday season from the members and staff of the Max E. Muravnick Senior Citizens' Center! John F. Hogarth - Senior Center Director

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My Favorite Holiday Memory By Maria R. Tralongo In order to tell the story of my favorite holiday memory, I first need to tell the story of a wonderful man and a friendship that spanned 14 years. That's me in the photo with my old boss, J. Michael Purcell, CPA. On February 12, 2008, my friend and mentor, the man who made it possible for me to return to school and the one who delivered coffee to me every day (especially when prompted by the photo of an empty coffee cup sent to his cell phone) went into the hospital with an abnormal brain MRI. Suddenly, the boss of fourteen years, who always stopped what he was doing to say thank you every single night as I left the office, was not there. Michael was diagnosed with metastatic adenocarcinoma of the lung. It had traveled to his brain. James Michael Joseph Purcell passed away on June 10, 2008. This seems to be a sad start to a favorite holiday memory, doesn't it? But, the thing about Michael is that he didn't die a sad death. He lived his life joyously right until his last days, reveling in the first tax season in 35 years where he could sit in the sun and read a book. He savored his friends and most of all, his children, Danielle and Wellesley. He sent letters and made phone calls to tell all of us how much we'd meant over the years. Even in facing death, Michael had lessons to teach and gifts to give. So I reach into my memory which is laden with special Michael moments for a favorite - the Christmas Day I spent with Michael and his family. My family is large and noisy. We're of Sicilian heritage. A holiday means lots of food, lots of yelling, lots of kids…did I mention lots of food? I knew what our holiday celebrations were like but had no idea what to expect at Michael's house. What I found was love, warmth and pure insanity. Michael and the family welcomed me right into the fold. I entered the house carrying giant boxes of calorie laden Italian pastry which immediately curried favor with everyone in the house. It was a brilliant decision on my part. I also carried in dog treats and cat treats which made me the target of much furry love. By midday, I sat in a wing-backed chair with a cat on my head, a cat on each shoulder and three dogs vying for leaning space against my body. I was in a perfect position to watch a delicious day unfold. Michael's brother-in-law Harvey, an orthopedic surgeon, was wearing a sombrero, shaking maracas and teasing all the kids. Harvey's wife Carol was in her traditional (and horrid) red holiday sweater. The kids were in cousin heaven and every fireplace in the house was lit and warm. Their tree was the largest I had ever seen and was placed on a stair landing as it spanned more than one floor in height. Michael loved to string the lights every year. He was the epitome of Mr. Christmas. Much to my surprise, as gifts were passed around to the family, I found that Santa had a lovely basket under the tree for me. I knew that Michael was my Santa. The dining table was a thing of beauty. Incredible place settings, candles and a very formal presentation in a room with a blazing fire set the stage for a warm, intimate feeling. Conversation flowed and Harvey, seated next to me, constantly reached across to stab things off my plate as he was dieting and wouldn't take helpings of everything. Michael sat at the head of the table, carving and serving, making sure we all had whatever we needed or wanted. The trappings of the day were amazing, but much like the story of the Grinch, there was a greater lesson to be learned. If the maracas, the fireplaces, the expensive place settings and the supersized tree chock full of lights disappeared taking along all the presents, it would still have been a perfect Christmas. The reason? There was love present. It showed in the inclusive nature that welcomed four of us from outside the family as if we were a natural part of the proceedings. It was revealed in the genuine hugs and kisses that welcomed us all. It was in the laughter and joy at a wonderful day. Every year of my tenure, Michael extended a holiday invitation to me. I accepted only that one magical time, but it forever remains in my memory as a perfect day. Michael taught me many lessons in our fourteen years working together, but the most important thing is that love is magical. James Michael, thank you for all the memories and that special vantage point from the wing-backed chair which allowed more than a window into your life. That day really showed me how lucky I was to know you and have the benefit of your friendship. Rest in peace, old friend.

SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL TO HOST FIRST CHRISTMAS CARNIVAL Saint Joseph School will host its first-ever "Christmas Carnival," featuring games, crafts, baked goods, food and more December 12-13 in Rosary Hall at Saint Joseph Church, West Main Street and Lewis Avenue. The Christmas Carnival will run from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. on Friday, December 12, and from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, December 13. The event promises fun for the whole family. It will bring together the best features of the "Holiday Happenings" bazaar, a longtime staple of the Christmas season in Meriden, as well as a host of new events, including many games for children. In addition to games galore for children, the Christmas Carnival also will offer baked goods, crafts, delicious food, a visit from Santa Claus, poinsettias and wreaths for sale as well as crafts for children and musical performances. The two day event will conclude with a pasta dinner following the 5 p.m. Mass on Saturday, December 13. Tickets for the pasta dinner are $7 per person or $20 for a family and can be obtained by calling dinner Chair Ralph Bonfiglio at 238-0311.

MERIDEN-ATTENTION ALL PARENTS, GRANDPARENTS, AND CARE GIVERS CHECK OUT ALL THE FREE UPCOMING PROGRAMS AVAILABLE FOR YOUR CHILDREN AT THE MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY. December 8th at 6:30 PM. "Scrap Booking " with Kitt Dunk. Come and make a memory book with your child to keep for yourself, save as a child's treasure, or give as a gift. Bring in your favorite photos, recipes, or keepsakes you'd like to transform into a book. Be creative with your child! Sign up for this FREE program is required. December 29th at 10:30 AM. "Booktime with Ronald McDonald". Come and enjoy spending time laughing, watching and learning as Ronald McDonald tells everyone about booktime. FREE tickets available December 1st. December 30th-Movies, Movies, Movies 10:30 AM. Come enjoy this heart wawrming classic movie rated (G) for all ages. 2:00 PM. For the older children we have a (PG) rated movie that everyone will be sure to enjoy. Come watch these movies on our large screen and listen to the surround sound. Bring a drink, blanket and pillow. We will provide the popcorn. For more information on any of our FREE programs please feel free to call us in the Children's Library (203)630-6347

"FOOD FOR FINES" MONTH AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY

Meriden Public Library will hold its annual "Food for Fines" month beginning Friday, November 28 through Wednesday, December 21. If you are returning late items, bring in at least one non-perishable food itemfor each item you are returning late. If you have overdue fines already, these can also be "paid" with a non-perishable item. Sorry, but food donations do not cover lost or damaged library materials. Bring in those long overdue DVD's, cd's, books, etc. and clear up those fines. Borrowers must visit the Circulation Desk in person to take advantage of this opportunity. All food collected will be delivered to local food pantries. Food items most needed are tuna, dry milk, boxed pasta products, tomato items, juices, and cereals. Contact the Meriden Library at 238-2344 or 630-6349 if you have questions. What is Christmas? It is tenderness for the past, courage for the present, hope for the future. It is a fervent wish that every cup may overflow with blessings rich and eternal, and that every path may lead to peace. - Agnes M. Pharo

CCCYO CONCERT DECEMBER 6 AT MERIDEN LIBRARY The Meriden Public Library is pleased to host a concert by the Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra on Saturday, December 6 at 2:00 pm in the Griffin Room. Come and enjoy this wonderful orchestra. The program is free but seating is limited. Contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349, email comsvc@hotmail.com, or visit our homepage at www.meridenlibrary.org and click on "Adult events" to reserve a seat.

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Event to Benefit Gemma E. Moran United Way Labor Food Center in New London Discover the true spirit of the holiday season during the Festival of Lights at Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration on December 12 from 5 to 8 p.m. Hosted by the Friends of Mystic Aquarium (FOMA), this free, festive event benefits the Gemma E. Moran United Way Labor Food Center in New London. The enchanted evening includes a special sea lion show at 6:30 p.m. (for the first time ever at the festival), carolers, bell choirs, holiday music, storytellers, photos with the Eastern Connecticut Ballet's Sugar Plum Fairy, costumed characters, face painters and a visit from Santa - all against a backdrop of more than 20 uniquely decorated trees, fish and invertebrates on the main exhibit floor, as well as hundreds of luminaries. Entertainers throughout the evening include the Fitch High School carolers, Cutler Middle School band, Ledyard High Sax Quartet, Waterford High Flutes, Mystic Middle School band, ISAAC Swing Choir, Mrs. Brown and Friends, Dara Blackstone and Friends and the Winter Lady with Ice Brites and Frosty. Admission to the Aquarium's indoor exhibits is free that evening with the donation of one canned food item per person. "Dig It! Prehistoric Creatures of the Sea," an interactive exhibit where children can dig for authentic sea creature fossils, will be open. Admission to the exhibit is $3 per child. Festival of Lights is made possible by FOMA and Mystic Transportation Company. Across the street, Olde Mistick Village will provide complimentary refreshments and holiday music amidst luminaria from dusk to 9:30 p.m. WHAT: Annual Festival of Lights, featuring hundreds of luminaries, music performances, face painting and a visit from Santa - all free with the donation of a canned food item. This event, hosted by the Friends of Mystic Aquarium, benefits the Gemma E. Moran United Way Labor Food Center in New London. WHEN: Friday, December 12 from 5 to 8 p.m. WHERE: Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration, 55 Coogan Blvd., Mystic, CT 06355 COST: Free with the donation of a canned food item per person For more information, call (860) 572-5955 or visit mysticaquarium.org. About Sea Research Foundation, Inc. Mystic Aquarium, Institute for Exploration and Immersion Presents are divisions of Sea Research Foundation, Inc., a private, non-profit, charitable organization incorporated in the State of Connecticut. The mission of Sea Research is to inspire people to care for and protect our ocean planet through education, research and exploration.

Healthy Balance, the First Steps The Wallingford Family YMCA is pleased to present Healthy Balance, the First Steps, a free, hands-on workshop that's open to YMCA members and the general public. In this workshop, discover why diets don't work and what does work. Learn how to take the first steps towards improving your eating habits. Learn how to easily incorporate more effective, calorie-burning activity into your already busy lifestyle. In this workshop, you'll learn how to take the first steps towards a healthier lifestyle. Healthy Balance, the First Steps is an introduction to the YMCA's full 8-week Healthy Balance Program that addresses the health of the mind, body and spirit through hands-on learning about nutrition, fitness, and stress reduction. Call 203-269-4497 to reserve your spot in this free workshop. Space is limited, please call or stop by the Welcome Center to register. Monday, December 8th, 6:00-7:00 pm at the Wallingford Family YMCA, 81 S. Elm St, Wallingford, CT.

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Mayor's Corner - Wallingford

Dear Citizens: The poem 'Twas the Night Before Christmas describes how "visions of sugar -plums" danced in the heads of children. While growing up I often wondered about sugarplums and how delicious they must be when tasted. Part of the magic of this time of year is the delight and wonder and awe associated with light displays, and parties, and laughter, and family togetherness, and the deep spirituality of religious services. Good ideas and wishes should be dancing in our heads. It is a time to make sure that those ideas become wonderful realities for the people in our lives. Take some time to contribute and help Holiday for Giving, or the Salvation Army, or a neighbor who needs to see a friendly face. Of course, sugarplums are not plums. They were originally sugarcoated coriander (a spice). But that doesn't mean they don't dance. We all hope that they continue to dance in the heads of children of all ages. Sincerely, William W. Dickinson, Jr. - Mayor

Mayor's Corner - Meriden Dear Friends: I hope all had an enjoyable Thanksgiving Holiday with family and friends. We were fortunate to have family visiting from California and Massachusetts and we took the opportunity to take the visiting children to Hubbard Park to explore the new boundless plays cape which included the new climbing wall and climbing tower. This kept them busy for over two hours. We also took in the sights of the dazzling Holiday Lights display at the Park. Meriden is blessed to have these free, community attractions. Thanksgiving Day also featured the 51st Platt / Maloney Stoddard Bowl and the first played at the new Falcon Field complex. A huge crowd witnessed a hard fought game eked out by the Platt Panthers. The large, enthusiastic, and orderly crowd enjoyed the new stadium. The Meriden Parks Department and Police Department combined to make a smooth day for parking, traffic, and game logistics. Congratulations to the students and faculty of both Platt and Maloney High schools for a terrific event. Meriden Fire Chief James Trainer and Fire Marshall Steve Trella visited the Mayor's Mic recently to inform our residents of fire safety issues for the holiday season. They advised residents to be careful of not leaving candles unattended, using only approved lighting decorations, and not to overload electrical outlets. We want to ensure that all have a fun and safe holiday season. Also, Larry Elliot of New Opportunities of Greater Meriden paid a visit to the Mayor's Mic and shared information about the many energy assistance programs available to eligible residents for help with their heating bills. This includes gas heat, fuel oil, and other heating fuels including propane and wood. Call Larry at 235-0278 to see if you may be eligible for some energy assistance help this season. Finally, at the November 17th City Council Meeting, the Council recognized Gary Shamock and his fellow volunteers with a Spirit of Meriden Award for their work to clear away overgrowth and spruce up the sadly forgotten East Side Cemetery. We are indebted to Gary and his supporters for their unselfish work on this project. All best holiday wishes to our Meriden residents and their families. Michael S. Rohde - Mayor

The Yalesville Volunteer Fire Department is hosting our Annual FILL A FIRE TRUCK WITH TOYS event. All toys and proceeds will be donated to and distributed by the Wallingford Holiday for Giving Committee. Please bring new unwrapped toys to the Yalesville Volunteer Fire Station at: 143 Hope Hill Road, Yalesville. Friday December 12 from 4-8PM Saturday December 13 from 8AM-4PM Also, look for our Fire Truck at the Frosty the Snowman Parade Event on December 6, where we will also be collecting toys!! During the Yalesville Volunteer FD's annual Fill the Fire Truck with Toys event, we will also be hosting an open house for new members. Visit our station at 143 Hope Hill Road on Saturday December 13 or call 203-294 2745.

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Christmas by the Fire at the Wallingford Public Library Tuesday, December 16th at 7:00p.m. Join us for a special evening of Christmas stories by the fire. Cozy up with your loved ones for some holiday magic in the Children's Library. This is a drop-in program for all ages.

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NATURE AS A MIRROR

BITTERSWEET Lovely Bittersweet Clusters of bright orange-red Noxious vine. There is a special beauty in the fall and winter days of the year as trees have become festooned with colorful Bittersweet vines. Throughout the earlier seasons, the vine flourished unobtrusively as it wound its tendrils along fences and other plants. Several vines may have twisted together creating an intricate look and a stronger vine. The small violet colored flowers with cone like yellow anthers began blossoming in late May and throughout the summer. Yellow fruits began forming and gradually turned orange, then red and darker. By the time the leaves have fallen we can see the beauty of the Bittersweet as its fruits burst open to reveal the clusters of small, bright orange-red berries; each berry framed with three creamy husks. These pea-sized fruits are poisonous to animals and people, but the birds relish them and will add to nature's beauty with their song and presence among the bittersweet. New vines will emerge in the spring, either from seeds dropped by birds, or spread laterally from orange root suckers. We usually don't consider these suckers welcome as some plants may become strangled by the vine. If left to mature, a thicket of entangling woody vines becomes almost impassable. Bittersweet's dark side of being poisonous has a bright side too: a liquid produced from the twigs is used in medicine as a pain reliever and also to treat skin diseases. Our favorite use is to harvest these colorful branches of beauty and use them in flower arrangements or lovely wreaths to grace the fall season's festivities, and then later place them outdoors for the birds to enjoy as a wintertime feast, creating another lovely sight. When the ground becomes covered with snow and the landscape becomes drab in color, it's such a pleasure to see the red berries of bittersweet dancing cheerily above the snow-covered ground. There are times in our lives when prospects seem as bleak as winter's weather when we are cheered by the unexpected help of a kindhearted friend. It is heartwarming to know that a smile, friendly greeting or phone call may brighten a troubled heart, much as the colorful bittersweet brightens the harsh bitterness of a stormy day. Kindhearted cheeriness is welcome year-round, so let's look for it and pass it on to all whom we meet. Have a good day!

My Dear Paula

I will never forget you. It will be five years on January 8th that you parted this life form here on earth, but you are not forgotten. It was through The People's Press that I was contacted by a very dear friend of yours recently, and we have shared a lot of memories together. We have not yet met in person, but we have shared many emails between us. I hope we can meet someday. I was thinking about you tonight because of Christmas approaching. I so miss the visits at your shop. After almost five years, your shop sign has been taken down and the closed sign in the doorway that was in your handwriting. I cannot tell you how many times in these years I have gone down Center Street and seen your shop windows decorated the way you left them and your sign on your shop which read Paula's Place: Antiques and Collectibles. It is so strange to suddenly not see those things there. I always had this strange and irrational thought that as long as your shop remained there, that perhaps one day it would open again and you would see me and say, "Hi, Babs." I know that is illogical, but the hope remained. Jack told me almost five years ago that he thought you would live about a week, maybe less. All I could say was, "What?" I could not believe it then, and I still have a hard time believing it now. You made a huge impression on my life. I miss you, Paula. "To be continued," that was the phrase you used every time we parted. I believe our friendship will continue in the time beyond my reality now. I still feel connected, but I wish we could be sitting on my porch with those fresh eggs you delivered and sharing stories and you making me laugh. I'll never forget those days, Paula, never. I miss you today as much as I did almost five years ago. You live on in my heart and in many hearts, believe me. We will see each other one of these days. Thank you for giving me Christmas in my heart every day that we knew each other. You were a treasure that I am grateful I found. But I wish it could have been longer. Babs I am not alone at all, I thought. I was never alone at all. And that, of course, is the message of Christmas. We are never alone. Not when the night is darkest, the wind coldest, the world seemingly most indifferent. For this is still the time God chooses. - Taylor Caldwell

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ROTARY MITTEN TREE AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY Meriden Public Library will be hosting the Rotary Annual Tree of Warmth throughout the month of December. A small tree with paper mittens is on display near the main entrance of the library. The public is encouraged to replace the paper mittens on the tree with new gloves, hats, scarves, socks, or mittens. These new items are then distributed to various local agencies. The public may also drop off these items at regular Rotary meetings and the Friends of the Library Bookstore on West Main Street.

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News from Wallingford Public Library

Garden Club Tea - Join us on Tuesday, December16th from 1:00-3:00 p.m. in celebrating the spirit of the season at a Holiday Tea, presented by the Wallingford Garden Club, in cooperation with the Wallingford Public Library. Enjoy delicious homemade treats as you marvel at the splendid display of holiday decorations designed and made by Garden Club members that adorn the walls of the Library Community Room. Bring your neighbors, family and friends to share the warmth and beauty of this traditional holiday tea, and learn more about the Garden Club from members of this78-yearold community organization. Book Discussion: The Road by Cormac McCarthy - Read anything good lately? Like to talk about books? What's the last thing you read? Did you love it, loathe it, or really not care either way? Did you like any of the characters? Do you think the book had a message? Was there any moment in the book that was especially memorable to you? These are just some of the ways to get people started talking about books. If you'd like to be part of the conversation, pick up a copy of Cormac McCarthy's novel The Road (available at the Information Desk), and join us for an informal book discussion on Thursday, December 11th from 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. in the Collins Meeting Room. Published in 2006, The Road is set in the smoking ashes of a post-apocalyptic America, and tells the story of a man's and his son's journey toward the sea and an uncertain salvation. The world they pass through is a ghastly vision of scorched countryside and blasted cities. This is an unflinching meditation on the worst and the best that humans are capable of, from ultimate destructiveness to desperate tenacity, and the tenderness that keeps two people alive in the face of total devastation. Cormac McCarthy received the Pulitzer Prize in 2007 for The Road. His 2005 novel No Country for Old Men was adapted as a 2007 film of the same name, which won four Academy Awards including Best Picture. All are welcome to attend the discussion. Copies of the book are available from the Library's Information Desk. This program is cosponsored by the Connecticut Humanities Council. Jingle Bell Rock! - All Teens are invited to ring in the holiday season with a Wii Guitar Hero Tournament on Wednesday, December 10th at 6:00 p.m. Registration is required and these events fill up quickly, so sign up today! Hope to see you there! Call the Library at 265-6754 or visit us online to register. Teens, help us decide the next Wii event! The January Wii event is up to you! Cast your votes by participating in the online poll on our blog. The Wallingford teen blog can be accessed by going to www.wallingfordteens.blogspot.com. It is also easy to find on our web site (www.wallingford.lioninc.org). Let us know if you would rather play Tennis, Mario Kart Wii, or maybe we should get the new Wii Music? Feel free to use the blog anytime you have a suggestion or concern. You may remain anonymous if you choose. We hope you will have fun exploring the teen blog and the gorgeous new Teen Zone on our website. Remember, you can always use a library computer with your Library card. Please call the Information Desk (265-6754) if you need any help accessing our web site or teen blog! Freedom Road Essay Contest - The Wallingford Public Library and the Wallingford Coalition for Unity invite 10th grade students living in Wallingford to participate in an essay contest combining United States History and English literature. The purpose of the contest is to help raise awareness of the delicate balance of race relations in this country following the Civil War, and what relevance this might have in our country today as we struggle to integrate many ethnicities into our society. Guidelines are as follows: Students will be asked to read the novel Freedom Road by Howard Fast (available at Information Desk), then write an essay discussing ways in which groups of people deal with one another, both post-Civil War and present day, and how we might move toward understanding in a global society. Essays should be approximately two typewritten pages (8 ½ x 11") double-spaced. All essays must be turned in to the Wallingford Public Library Information Desk no later than 9:00 p.m. Friday, January 30, 2009. Winners will be announced on Friday, February 13, 2009. Essays will be judged by a panel of community members who will look for clarity of expression and good writing skills, and, more importantly, a depth of insight into relations between human beings and a genuine desire to foster understanding. The first-place winner will receive $500, the second-place winner will receive $300, and the third-place winner will receive $200. For The Kids - On Tuesday, December 9th, bring the family, bring the candy decorations, and make a gingerbread house to remember! This program is for all ages, but children under twelve must bring an adult with them. Sign up begins November 19th. To register, stop by or call the Children's Library at 284-6436, or register online. Two sessions: Tuesday, December 9th: 4:00-5:00 p.m. Tuesday, December 9th: 7:00-8:00 p.m. Hanukkah program, on Friday, December 12th at 4:00 p.m. come to the Library and learn about the tradition of Hanukkah: the food, songs, and stories, in this family program. Hanukkah is observed for eight nights, and usually occurs from late November to late December on the Gregorian calendar. Light refreshments will be served. Join us for a special evening of Christmas stories by the fire on Tuesday, December 16th at 7:00p.m. Cozy up with your loved ones for some holiday magic in the Children's Library. This is a drop-in program for all ages. Movies at the Library Cinema Club, Tuesday, December 2nd at 6:30 p.m. presents The Maltese Falcon--still the tightest, sharpest, and most cynical of Hollywood's official deathless classics. Humphrey Bogart is Dashiell Hammett's definitive private eye, Sam Spade, struggling to keep his hard-boiled cool as the double-crosses pile up around his ankles. This is the role that made Bogart a star and established his trend-setting (and still influential) antihero persona. Join us for a screening of this great movie, followed by a discussion. Refreshments will be served. Unrated.Tuesday January 6th, 6:00p.m. (Note early start) Cinema Club presents Schindler's List. Adapted from the best-selling book by Thomas Keneally and filmed in Poland with an emphasis on absolute authenticity, Spielberg's masterpiece ranks among the greatest films ever made about the Holocaust. It's a film about heroism with an unlikely hero at its center--Catholic war profiteer Oskar Schindler (Liam Neeson), who risked his life and went bankrupt to save more than 1,000 Jews from certain death in concentration camps. The movie is brilliantly acted, written, and directed. Individual scenes are masterpieces of art direction, cinematography, special effects, and crowd control. Neeson, Kingsley and the other actors are devoid of acting flourishes. There is a single-mindedness to the enterprise that is awesome. Join us at the earlier time of 6:00 p.m. for the film, a discussion, and refreshments. Rated: R. Family Movie Night - Thursday December 11th, 6:30 p.m. Join us for a big-screen showing of The Dark Knight. The movie reunites director Christopher Nolan and star Christian Bale, who reprises the role of Batman. Rated: PG:13. Favorite Holiday Movie Come to the Library Dec. 1st-12th and vote for your favorite from our list of holiday movies. You can also enter your vote on our website: www.wallingford.lioninc.org. Just follow the link from our home page. Pick from the following list of movies: A Christmas Story, Elf, Home Alone, It's A Wonderful Life, Miracle on 34th Street (original version), National Lampoon'sChristmas Vacation, Scrooged, and White Christmas. We will tally the votes and show the most popular selection on our big screen in the Library Community Room on Saturday, December 20th at 2:00 p.m. with refreshments to follow. Poetry Society Meeting - Saturday, December 6, 2008, 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. From the restroom to the Board Room, our Library is focusing on poets and poetry! Many of you have commented on our daily poetic offerings posted in the Library's restrooms. Now we are inviting you to the Board Room on the first Saturday of each month to meet with the Meriden Poetry Society, where writing exercises, poetic form and style discussions, and sharing poetry and poetry resources will be the focus. Look for additional poetry programming at the Library in the weeks and months to come! Celebrate Italian Style - Thursday, December 18th 7:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Celebrate Italian cooking and growing up in an Italian kitchen with cookbook author Jacqueline Miconi. The wonderful, authentic flavors of real Italian cooking have been a part of Ms. Miconi's life since childhood. Her love of traditional Italian cuisine and her passion for Italian culture are evident in her cookbook, Celebrate Italian Style. Ms. Miconi's book will be available for signing and purchase at the conclusion of the program. Refreshments will be served. Advance registration is requested; please call the Library for more information at 265-6754. December Computer Class - Learn how to make a simple spreadsheet at our introduction to Excel 2007. We'll cover essential tasks like calculating totals and adjusting formatting. The class will be held on Monday, December 8, 2:00-3:30 p.m. in the Board Room. Seating is limited to 6 students, so be sure to sign up early. You may register online, in person, or by phone at 265-6754. Greening the Library - In an effort to do our bit for the environment, the Library will no longer be offering disposable plastic book bags to our patrons. Instead, we have some lovely new, reusable book bags (with nice long straps for over the shoulder) for sale at $2.00 each. The new bags are available in a choice of 2 lovely colors, and come printed with the Library logo on the side. We also still have a few of the heavy-duty $7.00 book bags left for sale behind the Circulation Desk.

Library Bookshop The Bookseller is getting ready for the holidays with new displays of seasonal books and other materials in addition to their usual great offerings. Consider giving nearly new gifts this season from our little gem of a shop. A special thank you to Jeanette and Wayne Beach for the book case they made for the shop and to Jim and Linda Mercuri for the bench cushion. We are now more inviting than ever! Volunteers and substitutes are still needed to work in the shop. Call the library at 265-6754. The Book Seller Hours are Monday & Wednesday: 10:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. Friday: 10 a.m.-4:00 p.m. Saturday: 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Happy Holidays! Merry Christmas Julia Hope you enjoy it and get alot of Batman toys! Love, Your Dad and Jess

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Acts of Kindness

By Kathy Carroll It's no secret that many families are having a difficult time surviving. We are living in a difficult time. Many people are forced to struggle to put food on the table and pay the bills. There simply isn't enough money to do both. They are forced to make a very difficult decision every day‌Do they pay the bills to keep heat, electricity, and a roof over their head, or do they buy food, clothing, and necessities for their family? There are many organizations that will help low income families with their difficult times. They are invaluable to the many communities that they serve. What happens to the families that aren't considered low income? I personally know a family that is considered middle income but have so many bills that it is impossible for them to make ends meet. Every week is a struggle. "Mary" must go to charitable organizations to ask for food for her family. While she does get help many of the times she asks, she is told that she doesn't qualify for assistance any longer because of her income. She is forced to look for another place to help her. This continues every week. She asks for help, is told she doesn't qualify, then is on her way to find another option. "Mary" feels extremely foolish and embarrassed to have to do this every week. I am always looking for something to help "Mary" with her financial difficulties. One day, while I was at work, I asked friends if they had any ideas. I explained "Mary's" problem and what she needed. As we were speaking, a customer heard what was being said. Without hesitation, he took money out of his pocket and handed it to me. He said it was for my friend. He wasn't looking for recognition or a pat on the back. The knowledge he was helping someone in need was all he wanted. I immediately called "Mary" to come to my job. When I handed her the envelope with the gift she was speechless. She simply couldn't believe that anyone would do that for a stranger. Thankful doesn't come close to describing her emotion. "Mary's" thoughtful stranger did this for her not just once, but twice! He handed me money the following week for her as well. Even though I can't divulge his name, I can tell you this-Wallingford is lucky to have a selfless guardian angel working in it. I hope that everyone that reads this will take a hint from his unselfish act. If you know a family that is struggling, help. Put a small bag of groceries at their front door, slip a grocery store gift card in their mailbox. Even a small gift will let the struggling people know that someone cares. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Giving Tree at Wallingford Public Library The Wallingford Public Library's Giving Tree is in need of decorating! Now through December 22nd please bring newly purchased hats, mittens, gloves and scarves to adorn the branches of the tree. Items can be for any age, child through adult. Donations of non-perishable food items are also welcomed and will be placed under the tree. All donations will benefit local community charitable organizations. For more information, please call the library at 203265-6754 or email bdevlin@lioninc.org.

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What is the best thing to give your grandmother for Christmas? A list of everything you want. Merry Christmas to the best grandmother in Wallingford. Yes, Roz Gallagher, we mean you (xoxo). Lots of love, Jameson and Charlotte

What Im Thankful For To my sons (Sean & Brandon), I am blessed and thankful for the experience of motherhood and watching you both grow into fine young men that makes me so proud. You will always be my angels rich with love no matter how old you are. May the spirit of the holiday season bless you both with peace and happiness. Love & Hugs, Mom

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Merry Christmas Garrett, Connor & Ethan on your first Christmas with us together as brothers! We love you so much! Love, Daddy (Vance) & Mommy (Charlotte)

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"Sheltering an Animal's Perspective" by Gregory M. Simpson This is my first column about a book. Redemption, by Nathan J. Winograd, certainly warrants one. The subtitle for this fine edition is "The Myth of Pet Overpopulation and the No Kill Revolution in America." Published by Almaden Press in 2007, it needs to be read by every person concerned with making Connecticut a no kill state, and the U.S. a no kill nation. Connecticut is well on the way to becoming no kill, as outlined in the ten steps described by Winograd. Trap-neuter-return (TNR) feral cat groups are one of these ten components. TNR deals humanely with cats that are generally one generation or more from being household companions and are wary of humans. TNR has come to national attention in such publications as USA Today in May 2008 and through the ongoing work of the national Alley Cat Allies. Another ingredient cited by Winograd in his no kill solution is the availability of high volume, low cost spay/neuter services. In Connecticut, the mobile T.E.A.M. program (1-888-FOR-TEAM) provides these services along with a number of Connecticut veterinarians who accept vouchers from Spay/USA (1-800-248-SPAY) and Friends of Animals (1-800-321-PETS). Studies have shown that the #1 reason people do not spay or neuter is lack of access to affordable spay/neuter services. Rescue groups working together to find adoptive placements free up scarce space in shelters for more animals. Connecticut is already in position for these efforts with the Animal Welfare Federation of Connecticut (AWFCT), a coalition of no kill organizations cooperating to advance animal placement in Connecticut. Volunteer foster programs relieve space issues in shelters, as well. They are also the best place for orphaned or feral kittens, sick or injured animals, dogs needing on-on-one behavior rehabilitation, or animals needing a break from shelter life, notes Winograd. Volunteers are also invaluable in socializing animals, promoting adoption and helping with day-to-day shelter operations. Comprehensive adoption programs are explained in detail in Redemption, including the statistic that only 15% of people obtain their dogs from shelters and less than 10% for cats. To increase those percentages, Winograd encourages aggressive adoption campaigns including weekend and evening hours and off site adoption venues. This can result in shelters literally adopting their way out of killing, as he demonstrated was possible while director of Tompkins County SPCA in New York state. Winograd emphasizes that animal shelters should also focus on pet retention, i.e., the preventable reasons that animals are surrendered to shelters. He offers instructive ideas, including maintaining pet care and behavior fact sheets for distribution, free in-home dog behavior problem solving, low-cost dog training, pet friendly rental programs, dog walker referrals, pet behavior classes, and public education through the media for problem animal behavior. Paying attention to medical and behavior rehabilitation is paramount, writes Winograd. He suggests creating a shelter fund dedicated solely to medical and behavioral rehabilitation, and establishing a relationship with a veterinary college to elicit volunteer veterinary care. Public relations and community involvement are other building blocks that he points out bring more money, volunteers, adoptions, and community good will. Redemption describes volunteers as the backbone of a successful no kill effort. The no kill shelter for which I am a board member, Protectors of Animals, runs entirely with volunteers, as is typical of no kill groups across Connecticut. Winograd believes that a compassionate shelter director is the most important ingredient of all. He points out that achieving a no kill community, state, and nation are not possible without rigorous implementation of all of the above services and programs. He concludes his book with this charge, "We are the generation that questioned the killing. We are the generation that has discovered how to stop it. Will we be the generation that does?" Redemption eloquently outlines how to implement a no kill solution in America. It should be the guide for all those striving for a no kill state and country. For the animals, Gregory M. Simpson Gregory Simpson's animal welfare involvement spans over 25 years, having provided leadership for several Connecticut organizations, as well as having served as state advisor to the national Friends of Animals. Currently a Board member of Protectors of Animals, Inc., he was chosen by CAT FANCY magazine as one of the ultimate cat lovers in the U.S. He is also a member of the Cat Writers' Association.

Releasing a Leaf

Old leaf, orphan of your prime, suspended in space and time, debating where to go, I am your secret friend.

In the past, you green waved to squirrels when breezes blew through your arboreal home. Your curved edges still sweep from one to another, but your ochre back is bent due to loss and separation. When I rub your bowed back, you feel brittle, rock-ribbed, unbreakable, but I could crumble you, release you to living in the shadow of your past. However, I, an orphan of my prime, also fragile but rugged, also vulnerable but strong, also debating, will hold you gently, release you into winds also carrying you to a new home. Alfred Mueller Poetry 811.54, a group of local poets, invites other aspiring poets - high school students to seniors - to attend bi-weekly Saturday morning workshops in Wallingford and Meriden featuring readings of favorite poems, writing one's own poems and sharing them in a non-critical, supportive setting. For locations, dates and other details, contact Al Mueller at 265-2445 or argusargus@sbcglobal.net.

Christmas Eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl. But it warmed more than your body. It warmed your heart... filled it, too, with a melody that would last forever. - Bess Streeter Aldrich There's nothing sadder in this world than to awake Christmas morning and not be a child. - Erma Bombeck (I Lost Everything in the Post-Natal Depression)

Wallingford Garden Club Resumes Annual Holiday Tea Dec. 16th

Wallingford residents are invited to the Wallingford Garden Club's Annual Holiday Tea and Decoration Exhibit on Tuesday, December 16th from 1-3pm in the Wallingford Public Library's Community Room. You are welcome to enjoy homemade pastries, sandwiches and sweets from a festive tea table and get into the spirit of the season by viewing a creative display of holiday decorations made by Garden Club members. The holiday wreaths and decorations will adorn the walls of the Library Community Room and reflect the spirit of Christmas past. Some garden club members have provided on a wreath with a musical theme. Another club member, Carol Golitko, has designed a wreath with limelight hydrangeas, which turn purple when dried, and clear glass balls sprayed with sparkles. Shirley Lagerstrom is making a shell wreath, and Caryl Ryan is designing a wreath made of Artemisia, a fragrant, old-fashioned herb-like plant with silver-green foliage. Adding to the holiday spirit will be Wallingford's Paul Barbuto at the piano, who will play Christmas carols and songs that have become classics over the years.

SUPPORT THE ARTS!

With the holidays coming, what better way to honor the spirit of the season than to support the Arts and Crafts Association and its artists, by giving a unique, hand crafted, gift to all the special people in your life! Don't miss out on the fabulous hand crafted holiday items including original oil paintings, pottery, sculpture, jewelry, accessories and more! The Arts and Crafts Association of Meriden/Gallery 53 invites you to share the joy of the season at their ANNUAL HOLIDAY FAIR, Dec 6 thru Dec 24. The reception is Dec. 6th from 2:00 to 4:00 pm and open to the public. Come share the fun and enjoy the hors d'oeuvres! Gallery 53/The Arts and Crafts Association has been serving the community for over 100 years, is a non-profit organization committed to promoting and encouraging the arts through educational programs, exhibits, workshops and lectures. Gallery hours are from 12:00 to 4:00PM, Tuesday - Friday and Saturday from 10:00 to 2:00PM. Free parking is available across the street and there is easy access from I84 and I91. For more information visit their website: www.gallery53.org or call 203-235-5347.

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The Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce NETWORKING, PROMOTION, EDUCATION, AND LEADERSHIP

Last month we shared some information with you on Education - one of the four principles that drive the work of the staff and volunteers of the Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce. We described this organization's commitment to lifelong learning for those in our community - for both students and Chamber members and we highlighted upcoming workshops and SCORE counseling sessions. Always check www.meridenchamber.com for up to date community and business events! Continuing on with the theme of Education, we remind People's Press readers that each year the Chamber awards thousands of dollars to area students in the form of education awards. Funds for these awards are raised through the Chamber's Annual Golf Tournament (June) and additional fundraisers throughout the year by the Chamber's Hispanic Member Outreach Committee. Some of the 2008 recipients are pictured here.

2008 Education Award Winners are shown above. Pictured (l-r): Chamber President Séan W. Moore, Kayla Robles, Steven Lopez, Christine Stewart, Katherine Moore, Rebekka Chenard and HMOC Co-Chairwoman, Melonie Cancél.. Not pictured: Brian Cofrancesco, Nicholas Ryan Green. The Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce will again offer the Sanford S. Shorr Education Awards to area residents in pursuit of higher education. Awards are given to Meriden residents graduating from area high schools. Another award is available for a student returning to college for another year. Additional awards are available from the Chamber's Hispanic Member Outreach Committee that was formed in October 2005. Applicants must be Hispanic Meriden students graduating from high school or returning to college. Over the past 21 years, over 65 awards have been presented to area residents, totaling over $60,000. The Sanford S. Shorr Chamber of Commerce Education Awards in honor of Sanford S. Shorr who served as an Executive Vice President of the Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce for 29 years. The winners exemplify the high values, outstanding character and dedication to the community that have epitomized the life of Mr. Shorr. Thus, the essential criteria consist of high character, service to school, community and others, and scholastic achievement. Applications have already been distributed to the area high school Guidance Offices. They may also be downloaded from the Chamber web site: www.meridenchamber.com; Click on the Resources tab, then Community Services. The completed applications must be returned to the Chamber no later than January 30, 2008. The recipients will be presented with certificates at the 113th Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce Annual Meeting & Dinner to be held in April 2009. The four principles of networking, promotion, education, and leadership are the basis of the plan of work for the Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce. We will continue to highlight one each month so that readers may become more aware of what the Greater Meriden Chamber is doing for its members and the communities that it serves. For more information on joining The Greater Meriden Chamber (all businesses who are located in the city, or do business, or plan to do business, in the Greater Meriden area, are eligible to join…call 203.235.7901.)

Upcoming Events at The Augustis Curtis Cultural Center! Chorale CT Holiday Concert & Reception First United Methodist Church & ACCC Saturday, December 06, 2008 The Chorale CT Holiday Concert will be held at the Church and then the reception will be held immediately after the concert at the Cultural Center. "Classical Guitar Program " Music From Around the World & A Few Holiday Surprises" HARTT Guitar Department & ACCC Sunday, December 07, 2008 3:00pm to 4:30pm Guitarist from the HARTT School Guitar Department will be performing and afternoon of classics. Admission Free, donations appreciated We are proud to announce our newest colaboration with the HARTT School Guitar Department and we hope to be bringing many more groups from CT to Meriden to perform the various arts. Visit our beautiful Holiday Display while you attend the concert... August Curtis Concert Band Holiday Concert At the Augusta Monday, December 08, 2008 7:00pm to 9:00pm Holiday Music to be performed "AT the AUGUSTA" by the ACCB. Tickets $5.00 at the door. - Come and enjoy this multi-generational group perform tunes of the Holidays..........

Hartt School 20/20 Perfomance Group At the Augusta Tuesday, December 09, 2008 7:00pm The ACCC is proud to present the second concert of many musical performances by the Hartt School of the University of Hartford that will take place throughout the next year. The muscicians involved in the 20/20 program are the best of the best enrolled at Hartt.... - Program to be announced. Save the date and join us for this wonderful afternoon of the best performers the Hartt School has to offer. Instrumentals of violin, viola, cello, double-bass, & harp...Donations appreciated.

LOCAL ELEMENTARY SCHOOL HIGH-ACHIEVER TO ATTEND NATIONAL LEADERSHIP PROGRAM National Young Scholars Program Honoring Nation ~ Most HighlyAcclaimed Students Held this Summer This summer, local elementary school student, Miss Keatyn Rish, took part in an extraordinary program sponsored by the National Center for Early Academic Excellence (NCEAE). Miss Keatyn Rish was personally selected to attend the Center's National Young Scholars Program (NYSP), which honors and recognizes young scholars for their academic achievement and leadership potential. Requirements to attend the Program are strict, mandating that every scholar who attends must be personally nominated by a teacher. The aim of the National Young Scholars Program is to recognize students who, even at a young age, demonstrate a high level of maturity, as well as focus on and dedication to their scholastic achievement, and to enhance the leadership skills of these future leaders. The NYSP curriculum was designed to stimulate the creativity of these young leaders through Discovery Strands, which are comprised of highly interactive knowledge building exercises and hands-on projects and activities. Each scholar chooses the Discovery Strand in which he or she wants to focus throughout the Program and is also presented with an extensive Leadership Strand that introduces them to and increases their skills in five key leadership areas: Communication, Team Work, Character Development, ProblemSolving and Self-Awareness. The National Center for Early Academic Excellence hosts the National Young Scholars Program. The Program is held in seven states across the nation on the campuses of prestigious universities, colleges and conference centers. NYSP enjoys the tremendous support of teachers, principals and educators from around the United States.

CHRISTMAS - HOLIDAY EVENT When: Sunday, December 14, 2008 4:00pm What: "Christmas Candlelight Concert", featuring the Senior Choir, Celebration Singers, and Heart in Hand Bell Choir of First Church of Christ. Where: First Church of Christ, 190 Court Street, Middletown, CT. Exit 15 off of Rt. 9, left at light, right onto Court Street. Fee: Free. Donations accepted. Information: 860-346-6657 THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND SERVICE. Shari Lucas, Minister of Music, First Church of Christ, Middletown.

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Red Cross Blood Drive ACCC & The Red Cross 175 East Main Street Meriden Thursday, December 18, 2008 1:00pm to 6:00 pm Join us for our 2nd Blood drive at the Center this year..... Please contact 1-800-GIve-LIFE (1-800-448-3543) to schedule appointment. www.bloodct.org The Murray Brass Quintet At the Augusta........175 East Main Street, Meriden Sunday, December 21, 2008 3:00pm More info to follow - For more information call Tom Lemak at 914-2628483

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Dear Housewives - Central Connecticuts Know It All Gals!

Dear Readers, Do you have a question regarding family life, budgeting, customer service issues, DVD or book reviews, or home organization? We will give you our candid advise from a family perspective. Contact The Peoples Press by e-mail or phone with your confidential question and we will answer it in the next issue. Be blessed to be a blessing this holiday season. And, have a Merry Christmas, happy holiday and fabulous New Year! - June and Flora

Dear Housewives, Is there really a difference (besides price) between generic and name brand groceries? Not quite sure in Meriden FLORA: For some groceries there is not difference at all. In fact, many come of the same production line. Marketing wizards are paid a lot of money to lure us to a certain 'name' and package design. You also see it with cosmetics and even medicine. As for food, I say most is the same except for soda, I do notice a difference in taste. June? JUNE: I guess that most things are the same whether they are generic or not. Sometimes a name brand company makes a generic brand themselves giving the consumer the feeling of competition. They figure those who are price conscious will buy their generic brand and those who want a name will pay more for their "other" item with the brand name. Either way, the profit is theirs for the taking. You can look at the ingredient list and compare the two for almost anything. I feel that there are some things that are better quality when you get the brand name and even though companies want to create competition the generic is made cheaper so they can sell it cheaper. It comes down to personal preference all the way. And, when food is involved, taste matters. Dear Housewives, I have been getting invitations to various parties. The ones that sell jewelry, candles and more. I can't afford to spend $30 for a votive and a holder or $70 for some random necklace made somewhere and so not worth it. Ladies-Help me decline these invites graciously. Signed, All invited out in Xville. FLORA: It is nice to have friends to be invited to these parties. But why can't we all just get together for tea/coffee a light snack and hang out? Why does it have to revolve around some tiered marketing event? Maybe we can start a movement right now, inviting friends for game night or just hanging out. Let's start a 2009 event. Dear Reader, you can name it and start this. Maybe if June is into this, she will come up with some fun ideas, she is quite the hostess and knows how to plan events! June? JUNE: Oh, thanks Flora for the hostess "shout out". We often get together with friends for "drinks and games" night. I think it is a great idea. I think for this reader the proper way to decline is to just say that she has other plans or that money is tight. Frankly, there is no danger in going since most friends that invite you should invite you on the premise that you may not buy anything. It is okay to go and look. Your hostess is making the food and getting the drinks anyway and you never know when you will see something you really want or something that is a good deal. If you can't buy tell your friend up front and if she says come anyway go and have fun socializing. If you are still uncomfortable just politely say you have plans that night. GOOD THINGS JUNE: Hi Flora, it is that time of year again. Some good things that I remember around this time are this: getting the fresh Christmas tree that will be in your home for a month, making a list for Santa, getting what was on my list for Santa, getting what is on my kids list for Santa, decorating with my parents, decorating with my kids, singing Christmas Carols as a kid (an now no matter how bad my voice is), the Christmas shows and movies, ice skating and snow. And, finally, saying Merry Christmas to friends and strangers alike so Flora......Merry Christmas friend! FLORA: It is that time again, indeed. I too am grateful for so much.The older I get, the more I appreciate the things I spent my life taking for granted. I love the Christmas movies (especially the old ones like: White Christmas, Holiday Inn, Bishop's Wife- I do need my annual fix of Elf though!), shows and this year I will go to NYC for a glimpse of Christmas, NY style. I am looking forward to see the stage production of It's a Wonderful Life. I love the smell of evergreen, it could put me into a trance. Merry Christmas, friend and to all that read Dear Housewives. We appreciate you very much.

My Uncle Hugo Bandecchi, The Last of a Generation

By his niece, Ruth M. Petrucci My grandparents Nello and Edvige Bandecchi had four children, Miris, Iris, Hugo and Edward. As life goes there is a beginning and an end to everything. On July 7, 2008 my Uncle Hugo passed away at the age of 87, he was the last of a generation. He was pre-deceased by his sister, my mother Miris in June 2003, his sister Iris, my aunt in August, 1985 and a younger brother Edward my uncle in April, 1978. Uncle Hugo was born on May 11, 1921 in Wallingford where he grew up. He graduated from Wilcox Tech in Meriden where he worked as a silversmith, doing chaser designing. This is an intricate work done on copper. He was also an apprentice at Elmore Silver Company in Meriden. He joined the National Guard and was in Florida when he was called to duty on February 28, 1941 when World War 2 began. He was a Tech Sergeant in the Army Infantry with KC 102 43rd Division. He also spent some time in Africa where he contracted malaria. He was discharged from the Army on October 6, 1945 at Camp Adair, Oregon. He worked at Wallace Silversmith in Wallingford, where he was the manager of the hollow ware division from 19601983 when he retired on May 30th of that year. After he retired he enjoyed working at home doing chasing designing. He made many beautiful plaques of Jesus, Mary, praying hands, roses and other too numerous to mention. I always admired the great talent he had. I was fortunate to be given a wood carving of the Pieta by him just before he passed away. He also had a talent of playing the guitar and the accordion. Eleanore said he got out of helping with the dishes every night by serenading her after their dinner. She also said it was worth it to hear the beautiful music while she worked. He also had a talent of playing the guitar and the accordion. Eleanore said he got out of helping with the dishes every night by serenading her after their dinner. She also said it was worth it to hear the beautiful music while she worked. He enjoyed working in his yard and knew just when to plant the herbs and tomatoes each year. He made many delicious Italian dishes; one was tripe that I truly loved. He cured ham, made anchovies, parsley and garlic in olive oil that was magnificent on Italian bread, tomato sauce, but when he married Eleanore he didn't have to do much cooking, since she was also a terrific cook. I have many wonder memories of my Uncle; he spent many Fourth of July's and Memorial Days my house with his wife Eleanore, we always ended up playing jarts in the back yard. They spent Thanksgiving with us and we would always end up reminiscing about the olden days and have many good laughs. Setback was one of our favorite card games. Tom and I also spent many good times with them at their house in Southington. He was great for remembering and telling jokes. Whenever we would speak on the phone he always had a joke to tell and had a good sense of humor. We went to many Apple Festivals in Southington, it was a yearly event that we look forward to. We also enjoyed a cold beer while watching the parade. He was a member of the VFW in Southington where he played bocci. He was well liked and a good friend to everyone. He would have been married to Eleanore 28 years on July 18, 2008. He missed that milestone by 12 days. He is the last of the generation, he is gone but will not be forgotten, his memory will live on in all our hearts.

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On Friday November 21, 2008, members of the Wallingford Rotary Club visited Master's Manna, of North Colony Road in Wallingford, surprising the volunteer staff with gifts for the less fortunate. These gifts included 600 rolls of toilet paper, 600 small boxes of cereal, 240 cans of tuna fish, rice and plastic bags for packaging. Given the recent cold weather such giving was much appreciated by all, and led to an outpouring of emotion. The Wallingford Rotary Club is made up of local business people and residents and meets at Brother's Restaurant every Wednesday at 12:10p.m.. Pictured in the attached photo are: Wallingford Rotary President Matthew Bailey, Wallingford Rotary Vice-President Elect Craig Fishbein, President of Master's Manna Cheryl Avery, Wallingford Rotary Board Member Lori Cooke-Marra, and Wallingford Rotary Board Member Jim Comeau.

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The Story of Hairy Dog by Wanda Ball I tell you, when he came to me, he was all broken and shut down. He was just a mess. He was dumped on the side of the road in TEXAS, in the summertime. His little will to even take another breath was almost gone. His little body was covered with those horrible 1-inch burrs. The people that found him took three days to try to catch him. Finally they cornered him and caught him. They took him to their home and started his healing. They cut burrs out of his fur for days and tried to feed him, but it was very hard, too. To try to feed or water him was definitely a trick. He would cower down at the thought of eating or drinking without constantly being told, "It's okay, eat baby" or "It's okay to take a drink. It is here for you, precious." He would follow, but run when they turned to talk to him. It was a terrible time. They worked with him for three weeks, and finally Steve's wife said she was going to bring home a shot to put him down that last day. Steve called my husband and told him the story. He knew I desperately wanted a poodle. My husband told him to bring the poodle over to me because, "If anyone can help him, it will be Wanda." It took me three weeks of constant petting and reinforcing him that "The human touch does not have to hurt, little fellow." I cried and petted him until I thought my arm would fall off, but I knew he was in there somewhere, and was worth the effort. He started to respond to me. He weighed around 6 pounds when I received him, and he gained pound after healthy pound until he finally reached his normal weight, 14 pounds!! It took two years of reinforcement for him to finally walk up to the food bowl and take his first bite, without fear, and then he drank. I, of course, cried...God love him. When I first got him, I couldn't just call him little fellow or boy, so I called him what he was...a Hairy Dog. So, his story of fun starts. Hairy Dog had many fur brothers and sisters there at my house in Texas. He learned how much love there is to go around. He made many human friends, too. Everyone that met him was so impressed with him. He'd come a long way. People always told me how well behaved he was. And Hairy Dog loved the limelight..He danced on his hinds legs like a ballerina, he fetched, he shook hands. He knew sit and lay. He knew how to go around that and come over here. He was amazing! He loved all the other fur brothers and sisters he had there, too. He would even comfort them and reinforce their ability to be happy there. We fostered many a dog back then. He welcomed them all. He loved to travel, too. We went from the Dallas area to Port Arthur and visited for six days. He made sure not to pee or poop anywhere people might walk. He went with me from down there in Texas all the way to Michigan, happily. Hairy Dog learned very quickly, once I got him to "wake up." He enjoyed being loved. He wasn't sure where all this good stuff was coming from, but he soon learned he could once again trust......me! He trusted me! I was so in love with this little black curly-haired dog I just could not imagine life without him. I still stood at his food bowl and water bowl patiently for two years. I did it because he was worth it. He opened up to me in ways I am sure he never had for anyone before. He was also not the only animal in this household. We had two to six dogs at any given time. Most I kept. I had two cats for a while. One passed at an old age (14), hurt bad; and the other adopted a family up the road from where we lived. That was all okay. Hairy Dog slowly began to trust other animals. We also had chickens, pheasants, doves, turkeys, and parakeets. Hairy Dog seemed to get along with everyone. He loved all the doggies I fostered. He learned tricks to just melt your heart. He walked on his hinds legs, he twirled like a ballerina. He sat up and begged, if I told him to. He knew sit, stay, lay down. He was more than happy to do any of them at any time. He loved the attention, and to please. We did get into an altercation one time, and we both learned a lesson from that! I had gotten some baby chicks. Aracannis. I found I had at least one young rooster, so I had to befriend him. I spent at least an hour a day with him. I called him My Buddy. Well, Hairy and another took to chasing the little bitties around in their coop. I told them to stop and not to kill any of them. I told Hairy Dog explicitly not to kill the one I called My Buddy. Well.....I came home to find Hairy Dog outside and My Buddy dead by him. I was livid and heartbroken. I found a lady that wanted a poodle dog and gave him to her. In a couple of weeks I had gotten Miss Cissy from the dog pound. She was so tiny and sweet. I was in love with her for sure. I came home from work one afternoon to find the police, animal control, and the vet clinic had all tried to get in touch with me as they had one of my dogs...hhhmmmm. I wasn't missing any dogs. Well, the vet clinic had told the police I reversed some of my dog tags in case someone stole one, they would recognize it and that it was stolen. Anyway, away I went to get my dog. It was Hairy Dog in jail! I went into the cells throwing the doors open, flying as I went. The animal control officer fell over laughing. He said, "Lady, there is no doubt in my mind, this is your dog. Give me $1 and take this poor little fellow home." I did...... We had many happy times there in Texas. Hairy and I traveled in Texas many times. We went from the Dallas-Fort Worth area to the gulf coast together and enjoyed just being together. He did not like to go potty in the yard there, so he held it for three days! Finally I took him into a local park where he did what he needed to. Poor baby. We moved from Texas with Miss Cissy in tow. Bless her heart, she was sick the entire trip. Boy, did she stink. We did the best we could and we pitied her. We finally made it to Michigan! What a wonderful sight -- our new home! We were so happy. He loved being on the lake, figuratively and physically. Hairy Dog learned about fish! He loved fish, too. He would steal a stringer anytime. He would jump up in the boat to get your fish right off the hook! He dragged in soft-back turtles and pike at two different times. He leapt off the dock to retrieve a 42-inch PIKE!! Wow, what a little giant he was. Another time he leapt into the lake and retrieved a 32-inch pike. I asked him what I was supposed to tell the vet if he got bit by a fish?! What a mother to let her boy get bit!! Lordy, he was a fun little guy. We went fishing one time with daddy on the boat and joined a neighbor. He sent me and Hairy Dog home saying he wasn't going to let us catch more fish than he!! What a delight to leave knowing we were better than him! LOL... Hairy Dog loved to meet new people and loved attention. He danced a lot. He, a friend, and his sister, Miss Cissy, went to Indiana to meet Rikki Moses and his mom. Rikki Moses was a raccoon. He really liked Hairy Dog. Hairy just made himself at home there and enjoyed all the raccoons looking at him and admiring him. We went on many boat rides. Hairy loved the paddleboat especially. I named a cove here after him. It was a shallow, small cove. It was the first place Hairy Dog discovered a dogfish. We would load up with our lunches and water and music. We would paddle all over the lake. We got blown into the reeds once because the wind came up too fast. That was no problem for him. He loved the lake. He would run out to his daddy ice fishing and check all the holes for fish - too cute to see. He did steal a fish still on the rod and ran as fast as he thought he could until the rod banged off his rear end, and he shot across the ice like the wind! He just knew "it" was going to steal his prize, and he couldn't let that happen! Lord, no. Continued on Page 25

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Page 25 December 2008

The Christmas Spirit

By Dorothy Gonick

Long ago and far away in a small village, the local priest Father Nicholas, sat watching the last rays of sunlight fade and then saw the first star glitter in the darkened sky. This star reminded him of that glorious star that shone many years before as it hovered over the stable where the Christ child was born. How he wished he could have been there to welcome and worship Jesus, he began wondering what gift he would have chosen for that honor? The time for celebrating the Christ mass was approaching and a longing formed in his heart to give a special gift to Jesus for His coming birthday. As he mulled over this question, he recalled the scripture verse stating that 'Whatsoever ye do to the least of these, ye do unto Me.'. There were many 'least persons' in his flock who were struggling with life's problems; who would he choose? In the days following, a decision was made to toss gold coins into the home of a certain poor family who couldn't afford the dowry for the daughters who wished to marry. Venturing out into that silent Christmas Eve while the villagers slept soundly, he gave a skillful toss to the coins and watched as they dropped into the yawning chimney. With a happy heart, Father Nicholas returned to his hearth silently singing a thankful greeting to Jesus, asking for His blessing to be on all his parishioners. Unbeknownst to Father Nicholas, the gold coins fell into one of the maiden's stockings that had been hung by the hearth to dry. Her surprise was great as she showed the treasure to her family. They made haste to attend the Christmas mass and give thanks for this Christmas miracle that morning. The wonderful news spread throughout the village and was often spoken about through the year. Each Christmas Eve, Father Nicholas chose wisely the Christ Child gift, and soon the parishioners began surmising that he was the secretive giver. The little children loved his cheery smile and friendly greeting whenever they met him. Some were audacious enough to call him Father Christmas. A name that children in far parts of the world still call him. As the years passed, his long beard and hair became snowy white and he became plumper in shape. When Father Nicholas left the little village to become the Bishop of Myra, the children became dismayed once again, believing there would be no more Christ-Child gifts on Christmas Eve. The parents were unhappy to see how downcast the children were and told them not to give up faith, all the while quietly anticipating the miracle they knew awaited. That next Christmas morn there was much excitement and rejoicing as the surprised children found gifts tucked in their shoe or stocking and they joyfully thanked the spirit of Father Nicholas. And so it went, year after year with the custom spreading throughout the countryside. When the time came for the beloved Bishop's spirit to leave his body, there was much sorrow, as he was loved throughout the country. Again the children were downcast, without hope of Christmas surprises. Yet, miracle of miracles, they awoke to find treasures awaiting on Christmas morn: The Spirit of Christmas lived! Ever since that day, children over the world look forward eagerly to the visit of Saint Nicholas each Christmas Eve. P.S. Try saying 'Saint Nicholas' 3 times as fast as you can-whose name do you hear? And now you know his nickname-Santa Claus! Merry Christmas! Dorothy Gonick

Hairy dog Continued from Page 24 As the years started to pass, cataracts built up in his little eyes, and he eventually lost his sight, along with most of his hearing. I called a vet and found it would take a $1,500 deposit to look into having them removed, with no guarantee it wouldn't happen again. Anyway, his eyes were completely covered and he could barely hear, but he was such a trooper, he just kept going, knowing I would take good care of him. For the last three years of his life, he had to be right with me every second. I felt spoiled by him. He loved me so much. Winter came, and he was lost in the snow. No more did he care to run and romp in the snow. When he was younger, we'd play in the snow for hours. He loved to run big circles and he'd stop quickly so I could throw a snowball at him, and he'd wag his tail, leap, and run another circle. Anyway, he would run into the side of the snow-blown path his daddy made for him. This was very frustrating for him as he didn't know which way was the right way. I had to leash him, but it only helped a little. He would get nabbed by his sisters because he could not see them coming. They would be so rude to him, it just broke my heart. The raccoons were mean to him, too. He did not deserve to be treated in such a manner. He got to where he'd just lay on the couch, and still he'd get bit and growled at. I could stand it no longer. He had to have some peace. He was telling me how tired he was, and I knew he was. Well, I made an appointment to have him put to sleep. I could not stand it. It truly broke my heart. I talked to him every day about what was going to happen. I came to a Yahoo forum, Animal Communication, and got support that I truly needed. The last day, Hairy Dog ran and played like he hadn't in years. He ran, jumped, and just plain romped in the yard. He smiled all the while. He truly lived his last full day to the fullest. Then it was the morning of.....and we all got up, and he went out to pee and poop. He ate a little and drank a little. He got up on the double recliner and laid by his sister, Miss Cissy (Jack Russell). They laid there together until it was time to go. I scooped him up and hugged him ever so tightly. We went to the vet clinic. Hairy Dog laid his head on my shoulder all the while we waited for our time. He never once tried to get out of my arms. We went into the office, and with his head still on my shoulder, he received the shot, and he went to sleep. Hairy Dog is buried beneath my kitchen window with his sister that went before him, Blaze. I talk to him daily and miss him so very much. My heart aches for him. I know he is so much better off now, and it seems like he left yesterday... This year will be the first Christmas without my little Santa Dog and Rein Dog in his sweet costumes. My sweet, sweet Hairy Dog. Hairy Dog: November/December 1993 - March 20, 2008 Wanda lives in Sherwood, Michigan, and Hairy Dog came to live with her at approximately nine months of age in Alvarado, Texas.

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Thankful for Thanksgiving

Dear Readers of The People's Press, Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday -- even this year when the times have been so difficult for so many. One hundred volunteers served 400 meals to folks who joined us in the dining room of the First Congregational Church in Wallingford on Thanksgiving Day. They delivered 350 meals and visits to the home bound in Wallingford, Meriden, Cheshire, Durham and North Haven. They wrote more than 300 letters and cards to service men and women to be delivered with the Christmas coffee care packages that the Church sends. We went from no desserts the day before Thanksgiving to a table full of homemade goodies Thanksgiving Day. The Girls Scouts, Boy Scouts, CCD classes, youth groups, senior citizens, Rotary, and so many individuals and organizations come together to make this holiday the best it can be for so many. I am blessed because I get to see it all from beginning to end. This year is tough. People are losing their jobs, homes and a way of life that once seemed so secure. We are at war on so many fronts. We are scared, angry and struggling with so many issues. I feel overwhelmed sometimes by the great need in almost every arena. I can't feed all the starving people here or in the Sudan and I am heartsick at the indifference, hatred and terrorism all around us. I am one person and I can't fix everything.

What do you call people who are afraid of Santa Claus? Claustrophobic. Merry Christmas Diamond, To the best daughter a mother can have. I love you! Hope your holiday with me is the BEST one ever. Love, Mom

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But, TOGETHER, WE CAN DO SO MUCH FOR SO MANY! Just one person at a time reaching out to another makes all the difference. Just listening to one person's story, just offering a hand or a hug when you don't have anything else to give, makes all the difference. Just taking a meal and visiting with a home bound person lets them know we care and caring makes all the difference. So, my thanks to all of you who come together year after year to cook turkeys; peel potatoes; set up; clean up; serve; bake; play guitar and sing; give your time, effort, money and most of all give your hearts to be there for, and to bring out the best, in each other. I am so thankful for the memories we make and the joy we bring to each other. See you Christmas Day and please call my office if you would like to make a donation of food or money, adopt a family or volunteer in any way. Thanks and God's peace.........Nancy

FRIENDS OF THE LIBRARY BOOKSTORE HAS MANY HOLIDAY BARGAINS The Friends of the Library Bookstore, 35 West Main St. in downtown Meriden, will offer several special book collections during the holiday season. The store features gently used books at friendly prices. It should be a first stop for holiday shopping in these hard economic times. With the recent demise of prolific authors Michael Crichton and Tony Hillerman, their books are being offered at half price during the holiday season. Crichton's hair-raising science fiction (think "Jurassic Park" and "Sphere") and Tony Hillerman's Navaho mysteries with reservation police maintaining tribal customs while stalking elusive law breakers, are surefire winners at only $1 each. Prefer romance to mystery; try one of Danielle Steele's annual offerings. Her books will also be on sale at $1 for hard covers and only 50 cents for paperbacks. Come in and browse our "like-new" special collections from cookbooks to new biographies and uplifting self-help books. All of these gift-quality books available at bargain prices. Our gift shop also has a large assortment of Edna Roberts' goat's milk soaps and lotions, gorgeous small quilts created by Noreen Belanger, historic Meriden sweatshirts and postcards and library mugs and tote bags. The bookstore is open weekdays from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. and Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Some students from Temple B’nai Abraham’s Hebrew School celebrate the holiday of Sukkot in the synagogue’s sukkah. Sukkot, the Festival of Booths, is a remembrance of the forty-year journey through the desert after God freed the Jewish people from slavery in Egypt, where they lived in temporary shelters (sukkot). From left to right are Sam, Griffin, Karrissa, Jake, and Julia. Temple B'nai Abraham, located at 127 East Main Street in Meriden, is a Conservative synagogue which provides religious, educational and social programming for all age groups in a warm, extended family atmosphere. Services are egalitarian, and feature congregational singing. All are welcome.

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Wallingford Senior Center DECEMBER 2008 Edition Our monthly newsletter can be read in its entirety the first of each month on our website at www.wlfdseniorctr.com LAKE VIEW CAFÉ HOLIDAY HOURS - Lake View Café will be open for breakfast only from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m., December 24 through January 2. Lunch will not be served. Also, the Café will be closed Friday, December 26. The regular schedule (9:00 AM-1:00 PM) will resume Monday, Jan. 5. RED HAT HOLIDAY PARTY - Wednesday, December 17, 1:00 PM Crimson Cuties: Get into the holiday spirit with a festive party complete with buffet luncheon and seasonal music provided by Gary Andreadis at the keyboard. Tickets are on sale through December 12. CHANUKAH PARTY - Monday, December 29, 1:30 PM Learn about the history and traditions of Chanukah on December 29, at 1:30 PM. Play the dreidel game, and enjoy delicious potato pancakes and chutney prepared by Harriet Wilson. All are welcome, but please sign up by December 22. GIRL SCOUT TROOP VISIT - Tuesday, December 30, 10:00 AM Members of Girl Scout Troop 60196 will join us in the Great Room to sing Christmas carols and other holiday songs. Come join in the fun and stay for dancing with DJ Donald! CELL PHONE ASSISTANCE - Stop by the AT&T table on Tuesday, December 9, 10:00-12:00 to have your questions answered about cell phones and cell phone services. Bring in your own cell phone if you need help operating it or using some of its features. This service is free to senior center members. NOTE FROM THE CREATIVE WRITERS - Our last publication of Mirrors of Life is now being read by members of the senior center. We will try again in the spring to enroll new people in the Creative Writing class. We hope you have enjoyed our endeavors. Thanks for your support! We wish everyone happy holidays! JUST FOR MEN BREAKFAST - Wednesday, December 17, 8:00 AM Come learn about a little known incident that happened on December 7, 1941, on a small island involving a Japanese fighter pilot and a Hawaiian cowboy. The internment of West Coast Japanese Americans during WWII was in great part due to this event. Historian Colonel Frederick Herbert will present this story following a delicious breakfast served by Lake View Café. Tickets are $2 for members and $3 for guests and are on sale through December 16. SOCIAL SERVICES CT ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (CEAP) 2008-2009 HEATING SEASON Appointments for all forms of heating continue to be scheduled at the Wallingford Senior Center. Anyone 60 years of age and over is encouraged to apply. Income limits for a single person is $29,272.36 and for a couple is $38,279.24. Asset limits also apply. Applicants MUST bring two (2) photocopies of the following to the appointment: 1. Most recent checking, savings, CD, Annuity, IRA, stocks or bonds statements or any other financial information. 2. Verification of Social Security benefits, Pension, dividend and/or interest income. 3. Four most recent pay stubs, if employed. 4. Rental Income: rent stub or copy of check deposited into bank account 5. Most recent utility bill. 6. Electric bill. APPLICATIONS BY APPOINTMENT ONLY To schedule an appointment, please call 265 7753. ENERGY ASSISTANCE DATES WALLINGFORD SENIOR HOUSING Applications will be completed on the following dates and times. Please see your Community Room bulletin board for information on documents needed to complete the application. Wednesday, December 3 McKenna Court 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. Southside Terrace 12:30 p.m.-2:30 p.m. Friday, December 5 John Savage Commons 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. Eastside Terrace 12:30 p.m.-2:30 p.m. Tuesday, December 9 McGuire Court 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. ANGEL FOOD MINISTRIES Where can you go to get $70-$75 worth of food for $30? The answer is Angel Food Ministries, based out of Good News Christian Church in Wallingford. This great program has been a huge success in helping families "make ends meet" all over the country. Angel Food Ministries offers restaurant grade food without meeting income qualifications or completing applications. Food Stamps are accepted. Look for menus and information at the senior center on the Member Interest Table. LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP No meeting in December. BENEFITS SCREENING Tuesday, DECEMBER 16, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 noon Only a few individuals age 60 and older have called for Benefits QuickLINK, a private, free and confidential program which quickly screens your eligibility for these available state and federal programs: * Medicare: Savings, Prescription Drug coverage, & Rx Extra Help * State Prescription Drug Assistance Programs * Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP) * State Property Tax Relief/Rebates * Supplemental Security Income (SSI) * Telephone Assistance (Link-up and Lifeline) Supporting Documents not required, but please bring the following information with you to your appointment: l. Monthly income (social security, pension, dividends and interest). 2. Monthly expenses (heating, fuel, gas, electricity, water, telephone, rent or mortgage payments and medical expenses note covered by health insurance). 3. Asset information (savings, estimated value of home and car, life insurance benefits). 4. A list of all current prescriptions. Pre-registration required. Call now 265 7753 to schedule an appointment. MEDICARE PROGRAMS &SOCIAL SECURITY - Tuesday, DECEMBER 9, 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. It's that time of year again when decisions need to be made regarding next years' Medicare. The Medicare RX Express will be at the Wallingford Senior Center to answer your questions and assist you. If you have any questions such as: Should I have traditional Medicare with a Supplemental or Medigap policy? If so, which Medigap policy is right for me? Is a Medicare Advantage Plan (HMO) right for me? Am I on the right Prescription Drug Program? Does the formulary list all of my medications? Am I eligible for ConnPACE Prescription Drug Program? Am I eligible for the Medicare Savings Program which pays part or all of my Medicare premium? If you have any of these questions or others, please call to schedule and appointment. Appointments are required and limited. Please call 265-7753 to schedule. SOCIAL SECURITY: On the same day, someone will also be available to answer any questions you may have about your Social Security. No Appointment is necessary. ELDER LAW ATTORNEY - Thursday, DECEMBER 11 Appointments are available to get free legal advice from Attorney Tully. Please call 265 7753 to schedule your appointment. INCLEMENT WEATHER NOTICE In the event of inclement weather, we urge you to watch WVIT-Channel 30, WTNH-Channel 8, or WFSB-TV Channel 3 for information on the cancellation of activities at the Wallingford Senior Center. If the Center should remain open in questionable weather and you are unsure as to whether you should venture out, we urge you to consider your own safety and well being and remain at home. We will make every effort to reschedule to a later date any event or activity that may have to be postponed. THINKING ABOUT . . . a donation or bequest? The Wallingford Senior Center (Wallingford Committee on Aging, Inc.) is recognized by the IRS as a non-profit 501(c)(3) and all donations are both greatly appreciated and fully tax deductible.

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People’s Press Crossword by Ruth Gordon Look for the answers in this issue. ACROSS 1. "The _____ the limit!" 5. To the same extent or degree; equally 7. Made a map showing coastlines, water depths, and navigational info 13. Close by 14. Shipboard greetings 16. Astonishing, breathtaking, extravagant, greatest: slang 17. Most famous Boston Bruins player 19. An index reflecting Wall Street activity 20. Large, broad, endless 21. December 21st , the shortest day of the year: 2 wds. 25. An elevated railway 26. In or near the position of 27. Pallid, colorless 29. Totaled 32. Denver is the capital of this state 33. International Falls, Minnesota, USA (Airport Code) 34. ____ Temelkovski, Canadian member of Parliament first elected in 2004 35. An African-American cultural festival, celebrated from Dec. 26 to Jan. 1. 37. A long narrow inlet of the sea in Scotland 40. Actor who received "best actor" Academy Award in 1996 for "Leaving Las Vegas" 41. To glide on ice 43. A large commercial ship 45. Gambino crime family boss, he was known as the "Teflon Don" 46. She was married to John Lennon 48. A series of motions and steps, usually performed to music 50. A wild, shaggy-haired ox of the mountains of central Asia 52. Opposite of off 53. Abdominal muscles: slang 54. Broccoli ____ , a vegetable plant related to the turnip and grown for its pungent leafy shoots; also called rapini 56. Section of hospital containing specialized equipment, medical staff, and monitoring devices to provide concentrated care 58. Goes with Boo to make a crying sound 59. Iwo ____, site of famous WW II American flag raising 60. To place in a grave 62. Small units of weight 64. Top officer of a Corp. 66. City located in Andrew County, Missouri, total population of 56. 67. Direction on a compass 68. Jewish Festival of Lights celebrated during 8

days in December Down 1. To grow rapidly in significance, importance, or size 2. ____ Lewis is the husband of Toni Braxton 3. A tall tale 4. Not a Jr. 6. A cartoon soldier character invented by George Baker in 1942: 2 wds. 7. Simon ____ , seen on "American Idol" 8. ___ Averback, director of the 1960's & 70's, directed many MASH episodes 9. To the same extent or degree; equally 10. An extremely small amount. 11. A state of rest, relaxation, or leisure 12. The widely used pesticide which was banned in the U.S. in the early 1970's 15. Large nocturnal predatory bird found in Eastern United States and Canada 18. Term for displays of players cards in Pinochle 20. Dec. 6th South Meriden will hold it's annual, "Christmas In The _______", a celebration which is free and open to all! 22. A small peg used in golf 23. Actor Michael J. Fox starred with Barry Bostwick and others in this ABC TV sitcom 24. A republic in eastern Africa 28. All the copies of a specified issue of a newspaper 30. Twosomes 31. Mayor of Wallingford 36. Air, atmosphere: prefix 38. Word to express surprise or triumph 39. Note on musical scale 42. Digit on a foot 43. Police officer one rank below a Capt. 44. Boise is the capital of this state. 45. A metric unit of mass equal to one thousandth of a kilogram 47. Capital city of New Caledonia 49. Approximately; nearly 51. A packaged set of related materials 54. To get out of bed 55. German composer, Johann Sebastian ______ 57. Largest county in Ireland 59. Prior to Brad & Angelina, it was Brad & _____ 60. An indefinitely long period of time 61. Part of Scrooge's favorite phrase 63. Initials of American tennis player who won women's singles titles at the U.S. Open (1975-1978, 1980, and 1982) and Wimbledon (1974, 1976, and 1981). 65. Being one of two or more considered individually: abbreviation

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"Maggie's Corner"

For The Love of a Mother and Father, Two People Who Create A Family, Who Are The Hearts That Bring You Back Home for the Holidays and Every Day In Your Heart And Memory of Memories. By: Maggie Griffin I have to admit, The People's Press is the only place where I can write about the true meaning of life rather than Real Estate. The publishers of The People's Press gave me a gift by creating Maggie's Corner. There is a reason they gave me this gift. You see, Andy and Dawn, who are the publishers, believe in making a difference to everyone who read this paper. Through them, many people have been inspired with the gift of Wisdom by reading The People's Press. As I said in a previous column, Real Estate is my job, which is what I love to do. To be successful at what anyone does in the employment arena, you truly need to have a passion for what you do for a living. As my Father once said to me, "all it takes is a dream and the courage to make it happen". But in my life, there is nothing that means more to me then my family. Where there is family, there is hope. Where there is family, there is someone there that always dries the tears from our eyes. Where there are sisters and brothers, somehow sisters and brothers help each other turn lies back into truth again. It's all because Family needs each other. People often wonder, with all the life challenges I faced, how I got through it all with more challenges to come I am sure. Life is a challenge; however, someone recently told me that all of us have the power to change, change to make our lives healthier and happier. This person is a success in the Medical Field. I am about to tell you what helps me get through my challenges in life in hopes it helps everyone who has faced challenges in one way, shape of form. Imagine all the people in the world, what if there is no Heaven, what if there is no hell? We all live for today, in a world of dreams, hoping to live life in peace and happiness. But as adults, we tend to forget where we came from and who taught us the meaning of life since birth. For the Love of a Mother and Father, I can't remember when my parents weren't there. They taught me everything I know. In my family, we've been through everything there is. But, we always stood high and strong together. My parents taught me to never be afraid. They always would say the only people you can trust are family. Looking back, remembering, I am glad I listened to my parents. They taught me how to pass on the Love of a Mother and Father to my children. Someday, my children will also pass on what I am teaching them today to their children and so on. When we pray, sometimes we have no proof nobody can hear, but someone up there is listening. That tells me there is a Heaven. Miracles do happen, all you need to do is believe and have faith. In due time, prayers are answered in trouble times. This is where I love the song Hero. Believe it or not, in our hearts, we are all heroes, all we need to do is look inside our heart, not be afraid, and any sorrow many of us face, will walk away. Stay strong through any challenges, keep having faith, then you will see the answer in time. When it comes to parents, our parents, no matter what, they are always there, alive or a parent who has passed away. You see, I learned, when I lost my Dad, he lives within me, my sisters and brothers. My Father and my Mother's teaching is what my siblings and I pass along to our children. A parent will always protect their child, with unconditional love. Kids today may not realize how important a parent's love is. But will realize it when they have children and understanding how the Love of a Mother and Father lives within our children. Parents have faith in what their children do, but no matter what they do, the Love of a Mother and Father will always be there with love that is so strong, a love that is unselfish, they will just always be there. With every moment in time, each day we live, we all want it to be a day to give the best of us to our children and to the world in general. We all had our hearts broken; we know how to rise above it. However, there is one thing that remains, what we learn from our parents, helps us as adults when in the bottom line; the answers are all up to us. As parents, it is normal to feel the hurt our children feel. It is also normal that the Love of a Mother and Father want to take that hurt away from our children. But the truth is, whenever we feel hurt, we have to remind our children, and ourselves, that when one door closes, another one does open. Understand that everything in life happens for a reason. That reason is because there is something else better in store for all of us. That is why it has been said "Life is a journey". This is something a parent already knows and comforts their children by letting them know, it's ok to feel hurt, but it is even better when the new door that opens has something more special in store for them when it's wide opened. We all try to live to be the very best, we all have made life's plans, and we all took every chance that was brought to our tables. When opportunities were taken from me, I rose above the hurt and disappointment, just by remembering what my parents taught me, leaving me making every moment, one moment in time to remember, moments that turned out even better. It is hard for parents to let their kids go as they grow too. Watching my children growing up so fast, I remind them how much I love them every day, and they know I never want to miss a thing they do. I am positive that goes for every Mother and Father out there. Time flies as our kids grow, there is only one moment of each moment we live for our children and watch them grow to be adults and parents themselves. In my daughter's eyes, everyone is equal. Everything became clearer to me the day she was born; she gave me the gift of motherhood the moment she was conceived. The minute I first held my daughter in my arms, I saw the light through her eyes. Now, I see the reflection of me through my daughter. In my son's eyes, I see if he can get through any challenge, I see a golden framed picture of when I took every opportunity that came across my table. Through my son, he shows me to never doubt miracles, just by listening to him and seeing his courage to make a dream possible. I can only imagine what my children's future will be like. But, there is one thing I know. For the Love of a Mother and Father, no matter what path my children choose, they know right from wrong and they have proven to me that anything is possible if you just believe and have faith. Funny, my parents told me the same thing my children show me today, that only proves I am passing on my parents teachings to my children. But they also know that home is not just a place to sleep, eat and shower, it is also a place in their hearts that has a place where Mom and Dad, Sister and Brother remain forever. My Mom is still alive and well. My Dad passed away. But there is one thing they both showed me, my sisters and brothers. They showed us how to live, love, laugh and cry. They showed us how to live every moment in time. Sometimes we take advantage of the ones we love the most. But when the time comes when we discover something is wrong or we move far away, that is when we realize what life is all about, our family. I am very happy for what my parents taught me. Through my parents, as a parent myself now, I continue to pass along all the advice, strength, love and happiness to my children as they grow, in every stage of their lives. Never assume how anyone raises their children and how children are being raised. What matters is a Happy Family who is there for each other, through good times and bad times, sickness and health, rich or poor. For the Love of a Mother and Father, sister and brother, our children, together, a family can only understand tears, fears and worries without making assumptions or accusations; two things that can hurt people. How we handle assumptions and accusations can be different in everyone. Understand, don't assume. Children, young and older adults - love your Mother and Father as your Mother and Father love you. You will understand the meaning of The Love of a Mother and Father, two people who dry your tears, clear your mind when you are confused, and are there for you unconditionally. Parents are the people who hold you up, give you dignity and strength and stand you on a pedestal, no matter how old they are, no matter how old you are. They are the ones that will hold your hand and take you home again when you are lost. Think about this phrase again….. "Take you home again". Home is not just a roof and four walls; it is a place in your heart that will remain forever no matter where you are or where you go. And Parents do hold children in their hearts too, no matter where their child is. Through Family, we live in each other's hearts more than we live in four walls and a roof. Through the toughest times, look back at every moment in time in your life with your Mother and Father, siblings and even grandparents. When you do that, you are home again with your family. This world is a challenging place to live in. Along with the bad, there is always the good. Remember the greatest of times with your family, the love you have in your hearts for your family. If you can do this, believe it or not, no matter where you are, remembering will keep you safe, sound and suddenly you are home again and that new door starts to open for you. Continued on Page 30

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Maggies Corner Continued From Page 29 Don't ever let anyone in this world take you down through their words, opinions and assumptions. Rumors and untruths about anyone is a terrible thing, we all know this. The good news about people who say such terrible things about another is they do that because they probably have their own issues they wish not to discuss or let be known. Stay strong and wise, show no fear and keep your head up high. That sets an example of strength and courage our children will learn from. Like my parents would preach to me, rather than giving up, give more. When anyone can do that, everything turns around in favor of you. As for family, every family has its ups and downs - that is why there is no such thing as the TV shows in the past called "The Brady Bunch" or "Leave It to Beaver"; if only our world could be that perfect. That leaves me to repeat a phrase in a previous column I wrote: "Nothing is perfect in This World". However, remember through ups and downs, families become stronger, live longer, laugh more and become closer. When you have morals, strength and courage, just remember where all that came from, it came from The Love of a Mother and Father. Remember the one thing that cannot be replaced in this world is Family. Believe it or not, when our parents pass away, they still live in their children and in the hearts of all other family members. The worse nightmare a parent fears is losing a child. If that ever happened to you, even a child still lives within the hearts of his or her parents. When life passes through your eyes during challenging times, it's because you are only human when feeling this way. Understand three words of wisdom; courage, love and faith - together, the definition of those three words will get anyone through any challenging time, a time where we all, as humans feel, has happened for an unjustifiable reason. Treat others with the same respect and sincerity you expect to receive. There are doors that open when other ones close, there is a higher power that hears us pray, there are reasons for every reason, there is the Love of a Mother and Father, no matter how young or old we are. People know me as "Maggie Griffin", the Realtor that goes above and beyond for her clients". That's true, and there is a reason why I go above and beyond for all people. It's called understanding, experience and care, been there and did that in my own life. When it comes to talking to cancer patients, I will run to take the time to talk to them, young or old, because I have been there and did that too. I know what it is like to fight for my life, battling cancer. When it comes to losing a family member or a friend, I understand the hurt of loss; it is hard to get through a loss of a love one. But I learned, in time, we get through a loss of a love one when we realize our love ones who pass on still live in our hearts. As a Mother, when it comes to my children, like my parents would say to me, "I will stop the world to protect my children and the world cannot stop me from doing so". Life begins at the moment of conception. And as a Mother, a Mother's love begins at the moment a child is conceived in a Mother's womb. Without a Father; life wouldn't begin in a Mother's womb. For the Love of a Mother and Father is for the love they have for their children. That love lives forever. Thinking about my Mom and Dad, sisters and brothers concludes me to write the following that is small example of what keeps my heart home with my children today. "I am proud to be a Della Rocco". My Mom is Florence; my Dad is the Late Domenic "Dom". My three older sisters, two older brothers and I understood as we were growing up, our famous phrase on Sunday dinners: "Una palla di carne è come una palla di carne", capiche?" Then Mom would always say - Aspet! My Grand Father, who lived with us, would make his own wine; it was one of his favorite hobbies. However, it took one of my older brothers and one of my older sisters to ruin our Sunday dinners for life. They just had to be curious and drink the wine, days before a Sunday dinner. (In this REAL LIFE story, their names have been changed to protect the innocent). To continue, Frick and Frack replaced Grand Pa's wine (that they drank) with Prune Juice. Let's just say they had to just put a spoil to Grand Pa's favorite hobby (and wine) for days. In later years, my father gave me the jug the wine was in (that miraculously turned into Prune Juice) to add to my glass bottle collection. Although valuable and sentimental, I had to do something with the jug because every time I looked at that jug, I felt the guilt in not telling Mom and Dad what my sister and brother did when they did it back in the 70's. I left it to my other sisters to be the tattle tails. What happened to the jug? I gave the jug to my cousin Matthew, whose hobby is making wine. Then there was always my favorite Uncle Tut, who said once; "If you are going to move to England, You Need to Learn the Language First". Funny, he gave that advice in English. He always knew how to make everyone laugh. Irony has it, when my Dad was riding in the Limo with me on my wedding day back in 1991, Dad said to me: "Why is it that an Irish guy has to marry my beautiful Italian daughter". My answer was: "Dad, Tom is not Irish, he's English". He still cried walking me down the aisle. And what a wedding that was. It was a huge wedding that turned into an Italian Festival. Later that evening, Tom and I thanked our parents for inviting us. But here is the best part of that day. Knowing my Dad and the "Envelope Bag" the Bride usually carries, it's a good thing the limo driver took me seriously when I asked him to stop at McDonald's between the Church and the Hall. That would have been a good promotion for McDonalds, even though my bride's maids were in the other limo and couldn't figure out why the limos stopped at McDonalds. This only goes to show I learned from my older sister's weddings that took place before mine. "Never mind cutting the cake, get to every table with the envelope bag". And like the other weddings, Mom never left home without her portable sewing kit. All the weddings in the Della Rocco Family, someone's gown would tear somewhere. To include, as always, when planning a wedding, the in-laws never agree on certain things. In our case, Tom's parents wanted a DJ, my parents wanted a Band. So to make both sets of parents happy, Tom and I hired a one man band. Continued upper left of this page

Looking at the pictures and watching the wedding video, there they are - my family, Tom's family, the 20 nuns my Mother invited - now that I think of it, it's no wonder the one man band had a hard time choosing certain songs to sing. My point is, no matter what your family heritage is, no matter where you live or where you go, the love of a Mother and Father brings together a family. Through challenging times, all you need to do is look into your heart, your memory of memories, and you are home again with the love of a Mother and Father, a family of families, living or passed away, it all remains in your heart, giving you courage, love and faith through your journey of life. Happy Holidays and Happy 2009! - Maggie Griffin

A Grateful Husband I am thankful that my wife's (Ruth) knee surgery went off like clock work without a hitch. I appreciate the skillful hands of Doctor Kolstad and the staff at his office, the staff in the pre-op, the OR and Pavilion B at Mid-State Hospital. She is receiving excellent care at her rehab and she is about two to three a head of schedule on her recovery. (Woman really can handle pain way better than man) or at least me. I am also thankful for all the kind thoughts from our friends. Thanks to all and she will be back doing the laundry soon. Since she says you should not wash all color and whites together. What's wrong with that? Have a safe and joyous holiday season. Keith Gordon - A grateful husband

The joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others' burdens, easing other's loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of Christmas. - W. C. Jones Happy Holidays

I would like to wish my children Rachel and Richard Birmingham a very happiest holiday ever. I love you. Love from Mom XOXOXOXO

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News from the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc., (MAT)!

Kwanzaa is an African holiday that is celebrated each year between December 26 and January 1. It was created by Maulana Ron Karenga in 1966.The term Kwanzaa is derived from the Swahili words meaning, "fruits of the harvest." Celebrants of Kwanzaa are encouraged to decorate their homes in the colors of Kwanzaa, which are black, red and green. Traditional African decorations, such as baskets and harvest items, can also add to the festivities. During Kwanzaa, gifts are mainly given only to children. What must be included in these gifts are books, which foster the Kwanzaa tradition of education, and a heritage gift, which denotes the connection to African history and culture. It is a wise father that knows his own child --William Shakespeare

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The Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra Plays Again! And Again! Our November 23rd concert at the Immanuel Lutheran Church was wonderful. Many, many thanks to Paster Perry and Mrs. Sally Beaver and the congregations of the ILC. CCCYO and MAT are very grateful for your assistance and your beautiful church space. The CCCYO is continuing to audition fine young area musicians. Our 43rd young musician will audition this Thursday. This means that the size of the CCCYO has almost doubled since last June. Just one more young musician to go before we are officially doubled in size in less than a year! This month we say a special "Thank You" to Staci Roy and the Augusta Curtis Cultural Center Board of Directors. December 4th will be the last regular Thursday rehearsal at the ACCC, because we have 'outgrown' the rehearsal space by our sheer size! Staci and the ACCC have been so kind and generous to the CCCYO. It shows that when a local program needs support- the Augusta Curtis Center Staff and Board will help. Thank you to you all, and we are looking forward to doing more innovative programming in 2009 and beyond! We hope to launch "Orchestra Summer" summer program at the ACCC this year. The Board of Directors of the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc. and the parents and musicians of the CCCYO wish to extend to you all a loving "Thank You". Our December 6th, 2:00 concert at the Meriden Public Library is still to take place as of this writing, but we anticipate a nice crowd. Thank you in advance to Alexis Burgess of the Meriden Public Library for the invitation and logisitical support. We'll still consider the ACCC 'home' for fund raisers and, of course, the Annual Memorial Day Concert (inside the Main floor of "The Augusta", right after the Memorial Day Parade speeches), which will benefit the ACCC, the CCCYO and "Operation Music Aid", which sends therapeutic musical instruments to our severely wounded soldiers, sailors and Marines in hospitals around our country. The Board of Directors of the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc. and the parents and musicians of the CCCYO also wish to extend a loving "Thank You" to our audience members. This season we will have played to over 300 people, and we wish you all a happy, healthy 2009. We'll be concertizing around Meriden, watch for our notices! CCCYO's next event will be our Valentine's Day Fund Raiser, at "The Augusta"! The evening will feature a lovely, catered, Italian dinner with musical entertainment by our wonderful CCCYO Soloists and Small Ensembles. All Valentines will love this event and it is a unique way to tell your Valentine how special he or she is. More information will be in next month's People's Press. For information, you may e-mail toKatrina S. Axelrod at meridenartstrust@yahoo.com or call (203) 235-7445. The CCCYO will begin rehearsing at the Lincoln Middle School on December 11th! Thank you to Mr. Leo Lavallee, LMS Principal and a friend of Music, and to Mr. Earl Cote, Co-Director of the Augusta Curtis Concert Band for his generosity in offering us the classroom that he uses! Civic and school Music are alive in Meriden- and we are truly grateful to all of the participants -- musical and supportive! Interested musicians and parents are welcome to come visit the CCCYO rehearsals, Thursdays from 5-7. Come see what the CCCYO can do for your young muscians. The Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc. is again co-sponsoring, with the Q. Walter Peabody Foundation, a scholarship fund raiser- "Music for a Summer's Night Gala"at the Immanuel Lutheran Church, on Saturday, June 13th, from 6-9pm. This event will raise scholarship money for Meriden students who apply to the Q. Walter Peabody Foundation's College Scholarship Program, and money for scholarships for young musicians who wish to join the Civic Youth Orchestra, but tuition cost would be an obstacle to joining. It is the policy of the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc., that NO successfully-auditioned musician will ever be turned away because the family in unable to afford tuition. So, your attendance at fund raisers such as this make it possible for young musicians to work together in Musicianship, Frienship and Leadership and for a gifted Arts student to realize his or her dream of college or university training. More details are forthcoming in the People's Press. Now, the most exciting news of all- The formal announcement of the forming of the Eastern Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra. The ECCYO will allow young musicians in the towns of East Hampton and surrounding communities, in grades 6-12 and homes schoolers of the same age who have two or more years of instrumental experience, the benefits of playing in a Classical Orchestra. Musicians must have at least two years of experience on his or her instrument, just as with the CCCYO. If you know of a young person who would benefit from this program in the East Hampton area, please spread the word and get in touch with the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc., at meridenartstrust@yahoo.com or call Mrs. Katrina S. Axelrod at (203) 235-7445. Happy Holidays from the Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc. and our 30 members families! Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. --Kahlil Gibran You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance. --Franklin P. Adams American journalist

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TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS

By Priscilla Reynolds I always wanted to know the meaning of the gifts presented in "Twelve Days of Christmas," so when I read the story or "legend" behind the production of this catchy melody, I wanted to share it. CHRISTMAS IN NOVEMBER is our annual Yalesville United Methodist Women's fair. This was my chance to share this legend. I made two wreaths and a wall hanging with the symbols glued on in a decorative way and typed up the song and one version of how the words were chosen, attaching the information to the back of my creations. The fair did very well but only one of my "Twelve Days Of Christmas" sold and that was to an empathetic co-worker for two dollars. I brought home one to hang on my backdoor and still want to share its meaning with you! The twelve days signify the days between Christmas and the Epiphany, Jan. 6. In the story I read, a man named Drennon is cited as the author. History tells us that during the period, 1558 and 1829, it was a crime to be Catholic in England. Drennon taught young Catholics the tenets of their faith in this song. Each of the gifts had a hidden meaning: "My true love" refers to God, Himself. The partridge in the pear tree is Jesus Christ, The Son of God 2 turtle doves= The Old and The New Testaments 3 French Hens=Faith, Hope and Charity-the Theological Virtues 4 Calling Birds=the Four Gospels and/or the Four Evangelists 5 Golden Rings=the first Five Books of the Old Testament 6 Geese A-Laying=the six days of Creation 7 Swans A-Swimming=the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit, the seven sacraments 8 Maids A-Milking= the eight beatitudes 9 Ladies Dancing=the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit 10 Lords A-Leaping=the Ten Commandments 11 Pipers Piping=the eleven faithful apostles 12 Drummers Drumming=the twelve points of Doctrine in the Apostle's Creed As you probably already know this melody, the lyrics partially repeat themselves as new gifts are presented in the twelve verses. The first and last verse follows: *On the first day of Christmas My true love sent to me A partridge in a pear tree *On the twelfth day of Christmas My true love sent to me Twelve drummers drumming, Eleven pipers piping, Ten lords a-leaping, Nine ladies dancing, Eight maids a-milking, Seven swans a-swimming, Six geese a-laying, Five golden rings, Four calling birds, Three French hens, Two turtledoves, And a partridge in a pear tree!

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Submitted by Carol Carbutti - Comfort Keepers of Wallingford For many families, the holiday season marks one of the only times of year that all members can gather together to celebrate and enjoy each other's company. The portrait before and after this joyous time, however, is often far less picturesque for seniors living alone or far away from relatives. As the aging population continues to grow - the U.S. Census Bureau projects over 88 million people age 65 and older in the U.S. by 2050 - memory loss and dementia in seniors are posing a major public health burden and it's often difficult for relatives to monitor that aging family members are getting the level of stimulation and socialization they want and need. But there's hope: According to a recent study by the Harvard School of Public Health, researchers have found evidence that seniors in the United States with active social lives may have slower rates of memory decline and lower mortality rates. Given these findings, Comfort Keepers®, in-home care services providers located nationwide, has provided the following tips for family members to address with their aging loved ones this holiday season to ensure a happy and healthy time is had by all. 1. Link Up with Like Minds: Senior groups plan activities like exercise, meals, games and trips for seniors wanting to get out of the house and expand their circle of friends. Look into these groups with your loved ones and find one what best fits their interests. 2. Pick Up a Pen: Sending holiday cards is a wonderful way to spark a new kind of relationship between family members. Once these lines of communication have been opened, seniors will be more inclined to keep up with the correspondence long after the holiday season ends. 3. Get in the Game: Brainteasers, memory games and mathematical puzzles are not only fun but can employ areas of the brain that aren't regularly stimulated. Try a few with your loved one while you are in town and leave them with a few books or games that they can continue using after you leave. 4. Make a List and Check it Twice: Send your loved one a list of possible gift ideas for other family members and friends and review their purchases upon your arrival while helping them with wrapping. If you have the luxury of arriving prior to the holiday, accompany your loved one on a shopping excursion to select the perfect presents. 5. Hire a Helping Hand: If you are still concerned about your loved one when the holiday season comes to a close, discuss the possibility of hiring an in-home companion. Not only will this person be able to help with basic chores and activities but the companion will be able to provide much-needed social interaction for your loved one on a daily, weekly or live-in basis.

MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY ANNOUNCES HOLIDAY CLOSING SCHEDULE Meriden Public Library will observe the following schedule of holiday closings: Wednesday, December 24 Library is open 9:30 am to 3:00 pm Thursday, December 25 Library is closed to observe Christmas Friday, December 26 Library is open 9:30 am to 5:00 pm Saturday, December 27 Library is open 9:30 am to 5:00 pm Wednesday, December 31 Library is open 9:30 am to 3:00 pm Thursday, January 1 Library is closed for New Years Day Friday, January 2 Library is open 9:30 am to 5:00 pm Saturday, January 3 Library is open 9:30 am to 5:00 pm The library's regular business hours are: Monday through Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. to 8:30 p.m. ; Thursday through Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. ; Closed Sundays.

It was always said of him, that he knew how to keep Christmas well, if any man alive possessed the knowledge. May that be truly said of us, and all of us! And so, as Tiny Tim observed, "God Bless Us, Every One! - Charles Dickens Christmas, children, is not a date. It is a state of mind. - Mary Ellen Chase

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WINTER STORY HOURS AT THE MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY

Our winter story hour registration will begin on December 15th. Story hours will begin the week of January 5th. All first time participants must show proof of age. Story will be as follows: Mondays at 6:30 PM. for kindergarten to 2nd grade (stories and crafts) Tuesdays at 10:15 AM. for independent 2 years old, 11:15 AM. for 3 to 4 years old, 1:15 PM. for 3 to 4 years old, and 6:30 PM. for 3 to 4 years old. Wednesdays at 10:15 AM. for 2 to 3 years old with parent or guardian, 11:15 AM. for 3 to 4 years old, and 6:30 PM. for 2 years old with parent or guardian. Our Start on Stories program for under 2 years old and their parent or guardian are invited to join us for stories, finger plays, music, and socialization. Registration for this program begins December 15th. These programs will be held on the following Thursday mornings at 10:30 AM. January 8 and 22, February 5 and 19th, and March 5, and 19th. All these programs are FREE. Please call us for more information or to signup at (203) 630-6347.

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The Meriden Kids Walk Safe Coalition

The Meriden Kids Walk Safe Coalition- a Safe Routes To School Initiative encourages you to make your child's walk to school during winter months a healthy & safe time for your children and your family by following simple pedestrian safety rules. After a snow or ice storm, pedestrian traffic increases significantly. But walking during winter months can create potentially fatal pedestrian safety problems that are often ignored or overlooked. Snow drifts can cover signs and landmarks, or block corners, crosswalks, and handicap access ramps. Walkways may not be cleared, forcing pedestrians to walk in the street. The snow and ice can turn familiar territory into strange territory for pedestrians and motorists. Everyone is a pedestrian, but there are things you can do to be a smart pedestrian - especially during the winter months. Before you take one step onto that slippery sidewalk, consider the following safety tips! Winter Safety Tips for Pedestrians *If the sidewalks and walkways are impassable and you have to walk in the street, walk against traffic and as close to the curb as you can. *Proper gear is a must, but wearing dark "winter" colors can make it hard for motorists to see you, especially if they aren't expecting you. Consider wearing a brightly-colored scarf or hat, or reflective gear, especially if you have to walk in the street. And don't forget gloves, and shoes or boots with non-slip soles. * Snow that has accumulated into drifts can muffle the sounds of approaching motor vehicles. Wearing hats and scarves that cover your ears can also distort or even eliminate these sounds. Keep warm, but make sure you can hear what's going on around you. *If you can, shop before the storm hits! If you have to shop, don't buy more than you can easily carry. Remember - the streets may be slippery and carrying heavy packages can impair your balance. *When traveling with babies or small children, make sure they are dressed in brightly colored or reflective clothing. If you have to push a stroller or walk in the street, the child should be in front of you and as close to the curb as possible. *Because of road conditions, motorists may not be able to stop at traffic signals or slow down for pedestrians. Before you step off of the curb into the street, make sure that any approaching vehicles have come to a complete stop. *Bending your knees a little and taking slower steps can greatly reduce your chances of falling. From the Meriden Kids Walk Safe Coalition - Have a happy and Safe Holiday Season www.meridenkidsafe.org

Home Country

By Slim Randles Herb is a retired businessman, which tends to make the rest of us think he is practical. That wouldn't be entirely accurate, however, as Herb has the silent soul of a romantic. How else can anyone explain his passion for archery? Most nice days he can be found out in his backyard, terrorizing a stack of hay bales with a target pinned to it. Many shooters do this, of course, but Herb is different. In this age of compound bows which resemble portable gym equipment, sights that glow in the dark, releases that resemble handguns, and arrows made of space-age materials, Herb is a throwback to the old days. He shoots a wooden recurve bow and uses wooden arrows. His fingers and bow arm are protected by leather rather than plastic, and he trusts his own eye and form to place the arrow in the paper plate affixed to the hay bales. Dud was watching him one afternoon. "You shoot very well, Herb." "Thanks." "Wouldn't you get more speed from a compound bow and some graphite arrows?" "Sure." "Well …?" Herb smiled at him. "Dud, if I judged the fun of shooting by how fast I could get something to the target, I'd go in the house and get my deer rifle. It'll shoot circles around any bow ever made." Herb hesitated a minute. "You see, Dud, if I hit the target, I want it to be mostly because I did it right and not some ammunition factory somewhere. I'm selfish. I want the credit … and I'm willing to accept the blame if I miss." If you enjoy these columns, invite someone home for dinner this month. Then let this paper know you did it.

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DOG & CAT TOYS - BUY 1 GET 1 50% OFF *With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

1107 Havover Avenue, South Meriden 203.634.9811 The Bronze Wash

$2.00 OFF!! Regular Price - $8.00 Includes: Exterior Wash and Towel Dry

DOG BEDS 20% OFF $2.00 OFF!! A M A Z I N G S AV I N G S ! Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08

The Gold Wash

*With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

BIRD FEEDERS & POLES 20% OFF *With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

GIFT CERTIFICATES FROM MERIDEN FEED MAKE THE PERFECT GIFT FOR ANY ANIMAL LOVER! *With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

SNOW SHOVELS 20% OFF *With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

ICE MELTERS 10% OFF *With this Coupon. All specials expire 12/31/08 or while supplies last. Cannot be combined with any other offer. Limit 1 coupon per customer. See store for details.

846 Old Colony Rd., Meriden 237-4414

Regular Price - $14.00 Includes: Exterior Wash, Under Carriage Wash, Wheel Brite, Sealer Wax, Triple Foam and Towel Dry

H U G E S AV I N G S !

Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08

The Silver Wash

$2.00 OFF!! Regular Price - $9.00 Includes: Exterior Wash, Under Carriage Wash and Towel Dry

I N C R E D I B L E S AV I N G S ! Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08

The Wheel Deal

$2.00 OFF!! Regular Price - $11.00 Includes: Exterior Wash, Under Carriage Wash, Wheel Brite, Sealer Wax and Towel Dry

FA N TA S T I C S AV I N G S !

Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08

Interior-Exterior Detail

$5.00 OFF!! Includes: Vacuum, Vinyl Cleaning, Shampoo Carpets and Window Cleaning

C A N ’ T B E AT T H E S AV I N G S ! Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08

Bumper to Bumper Detail

$15.00 OFF!! Includes: Exterior Wash, Wax, Vacuum, Vinyl Cleaning, Shampoo Carpets and Window Cleaning! Monday Friday Only

T H E W O R K S AT T H I S P R I C E ? Limit one coupon per customer. No other coupons or discounts apply. Coupon must be submitted for this offer. Coupon expires 12/31/08