Senior Life - Elko Edition - May 2024

Key Positions

Bose invites seniors to sit back and enjoy the ride

By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer

“I’ve always gotten along quite well with older people,” stated Richard Bose, Mentone. “I enjoyed spending time with my grandparents. My father and mother were both in their 90s when they died. So, transporting senior citizens through Kosciusko Community Senior Services is a good fit. Many people simply want to get out and see the scenery. My job is to help them sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.”

After retiring from RR Donnelley after 42 years, Bose spent six months taking life easy. “By the time New Years came along in 2013, I decided to go into KCS for an interview and got the driving job. It was great because I was looking for something I could do on a parttime basis.”

Bose enjoys helping people do things they can’t do inde-

pendently. “Most of my clients don’t drive anymore. Some of the women have never had a license and now are widows. I make sure they get to their destination.”

Meeting new people is what Bose likes the best. He also likes relating to the people he already knows. “Everyone has a story. They tell me about their families and what they enjoy doing. I have come to realize that I may be the only person they talked to that day.”

Driving seniors is not without challenges. “Everybody has their own way of doing things. I need to balance what they want me to do for them, what I can do for them, and explain the reasons I can’t do something for them. I might have other clients that day and have to reschedule their outing for another day. But somehow, we always make it work.”

If he can squeeze it in on a particular day, Bose will take

clients out for ice cream or a soft drink. “One of my clients always wants to go through the drive-thru for ice cream. I enjoy making people happy — making a difference in their lives.”

Of course, he does get the spunky clients every now and again. “One afternoon I was given the wrong address. I drove around for a long time looking for the residence. Finally, I found it. I also found a 95-year-old woman standing outside leaning on her walker.

‘Where the heck have you been?’ she greeted me. When she had trouble getting into the front seat of the bus, she plopped one leg up and said, ‘Just throw my butt into the vehicle,’” Bose laughed. “We compromised and I used a lift.”

Eventually it was discovered that the lady herself accidentally gave Bose the wrong address. Bose has clients who love to go grocery shopping weekly. “It’s good for them to get out and get some exercise, see the people and choose their items.”

When vacation time comes around, Bose and his wife Joyce like to travel. “They visit her brother in Florida. They’ve been on numerous cruises. “We’ve been to Alaska, Jamaica, Haiti and St. Thomas/ St. Martin islands.” However, there’s one excursion that Bose

calls the “trip of a lifetime.” “We flew to Rome to take a cruise ship to Naples and around Italy. When we went to breakfast before boarding our cruise ship

Joyce tripped on the marble floor and landed face first. She was rushed to the hospital with bruises and fractures. Needless to say, we had to go home.”

SERVICE WITH A SMILE Richard Bose, Mentone, loves driving seniors to appointments, the grocery store and even to drive-thrus to get ice cream or soft drinks. He works for Kosciusko Community Senior Services. Photo provided by Richard Bose.

Quilt Gardens, murals bring more beauty to Elkhart County

By MARISSA SWEATLAND Staff Writer

The Elkhart County Quilt Gardens will make its grand return for its 17th season this year. The Quilt Gardens have grown even more this year. In past seasons, community members were able to view about 10 gardens. However, this year, community members will have 13 gardens to enjoy.

“We could not do this year after year without the help of the volunteer community members that plant the flowers,” Terry Mark, director of communications and public relations at the Elkhart County Convention and Visitors Bureau. “The Quilt Gardens is our love letter to the community.”

The Quilt Gardens stretches across the Bristol, Elkhart, Goshen, Middlebury, Nappanee and Wakarusa communities. Depending on weather, the gardens are planted mid-May. Opening day for the gardens is May 30 and will run through Sept. 15.

“The Quilt Gardens are beautiful from the moment they are planted,” Mark explained. “But they are exceptionally beautiful after about two weeks.”

The Quilt Gardens and Murals are available to see for free. The Quilt Murals accompany some of the Quilt Gardens. Most of the Quilt Murals were painted by local Nappanee-based artist, Jeff Stillson. There are about 15 Quilt Murals for community members to enjoy.

The Quilt Gardens, along with the Heritage Trail, have been listed as an American Bus Association Best of the Best and Top 100 Event for over 10 years in a row and was only one of two honorees in Indiana in 2022.

The Quilt Gardens are planted along Heritage Trail. The Elkhart County CVB created a map that outlines the locations of each Quilt Garden and Mural and is available to download on the Elkhart County CVB’s website, visitelkhartcounty. com/things-to-do/attractions/ quilt-gardens/. Using the Quilt

Gardens Passport and visiting the Quilt Gardens and Mural can earn you free swag. By checking in at each Quilt Garden and Mural location, you will earn points that can be used to redeem prizes at the Elkhart County CVB. More information about the Quilt Gardens Passport is available at https://www. visitelkhartcounty.com/thingsto-do/attractions/quilt-gardens/ quilt-gardens-passport/.

The Quilt Gardens are best viewed from the walkways and lawns encompassing each garden. Some of the Quilt Gardens can be viewed from your vehicle, but Mark recommends stepping out of the car and closer to the garden for “full effect.” However, most Quilt Murals are visible from the car or sidewalk.

“The Quilt Gardens are a combination of two huge parts of our communities: quilting and gardening,” Mark explained. “We originally started with two test gardens to see how hard it would

be to care for and upkeep. Those gardens were incredibly successful and we have grown since.”

Heritage Trail offers an audio driving tour, complete with fun facts, fascinating history and must-see stops. The audio driving tour can be picked up from the Elkhart County CVB.

The Elkhart County CVB, 3421 Cassopolis St., Elkhart is open 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday to redeem your prize from participating or

completing the Quilt Gardens and Murals passport. For more information about the Quilt Gardens and Murals or the Heritage Trail audio driving tour, contact the Elkhart County CVB at (800) 262-8161.

Rice and Rice — What is probate — and how you can avoid it

Few things are as traumatic as dealing with the death of a loved one. Just as we’re experiencing pain, legal issues hit us.

Insurance companies, reading the will, investments — suddenly it’s overwhelming. And perhaps the most difficult issue is probate.

Probate? It’s crucial in tying up the deceased’s affairs. Preparing now for the possibility of probate early can lessen the emotional stress and strain on you and your family.

Probate is the process a court takes to conclude legal and

financial matters after death. The court will distribute your estate. If there’s a will, the court will go by what the will says.

But it’s often not that simple. For one thing, there may not be a will. So, the court appoints an administrator and the State of Indiana who decides how your estate will be distributed. You can’t assume that your spouse and children will automatically get everything or even an equal share.

Probate is lengthy and

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By CLIFFORD J. RICE Elder Law Attorney Granger

Experience the beauty of the watershed

The Watershed Foundation invites the community to visit a new exhibit celebrating the local watershed.

From now until the end of May, visitors are encouraged to stop by the North Webster Community Center, 301 N. Main St., to view the winning photo display from TWF’s 2023 Picture Your Watershed Photo Contest. The display is featured in the hallway adjacent to the TWF Office in the northwest corner of the North Webster Community Center.

“Captured by talented photographers from our very own community, these captivating images showcase the diverse landscapes, vibrant wildlife and serene waters that make our watershed truly special,” said Lyn Crighton, executive director of The Watershed Foundation. “Each photograph tells a unique story, offering viewers a glimpse into the awe-inspiring wonders that surround us.”

“Whether you’re an avid nature enthusiast, a photography aficionado, or simply someone

who appreciates the beauty of our natural world, this exhibit promises to inspire and delight,” said Crighton. “It’s an opportunity to connect with our

environment on a deeper level and gain a newfound appreciation for the precious resources that sustain us all.”

The North Webster Com-

What Seniors Think

munity Center is open to the public 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Friday and 8 a.m. to noon Saturday. Closed on Sundays.

“What is your favorite summertime memory from your childhood?”

ANN DAVIS MENTONE

Spending summers at my grandparents lake cottage in Wisconsin. I can still recall the scent of my grandfather’s pipe tobacco that he always smoked on the back porch after dinner.

MARK WILSON

ELKHART

BECKY BROWNLEE WARSAW

Going to the city pool with my friends. I grew up in a small town in Ohio and there wasn’t much to do in the summertime before we could drive.

PHIL DALE

GOSHEN

JAN WALSH

WINONA LAKE

The last day of school! It meant we all had the next three months to sleep in late and hang out with our friends.

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What is probate

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complex for folks not prepared for it.

No will? Many assets?

You don’t have to be rich to encounter problems, but being wealthy adds complications.

Here’s a list of problems and the ways to avoid them:

Time — Probate can take a long time. If heirs need their inheritance to pay for college or for medical bills, they may have a problem. The problem of time can add steeply to the costs. Expect probate to take from nine months to a year in court. Complex or contested estates can take even longer.

Cost — Even with a valid will, there will be court costs and fees. If there’s no will or it’s being contested, costs can

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be higher. Costs can consume thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars.

Lack of privacy — Probate court proceedings are public record.

Family squabbles — If a will is contested, heirs will have to go to court and retain lawyers. The probate judge appoints an administrator who meets with lawyers to see who has a valid claim. Problems cost time and money and may even go public.

How can you avoid this?

At Rice & Rice we focus on living trust-based estate planning because:

• Trusts afford the family privacy and control.

• Trusts allow individuals to put a solid disability plan

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in place effective during their lifetime.

• Trusts can avoid probate. If you set up a trust, all assets in the trust can pass to your loved ones probate-free. Trusts can include real estate and investment and bank accounts, as well as vehicles. A living trust can be an effective alternative to a will.

To find out more about how you can avoid probate and get your affairs in order, register to attend our Estate Planning/ Medicaid Planning seminar at 6 p.m. Monday, May 20, at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse, 902 E. University Drive, Granger. Reservations are required; seating is limited. Call now: (800) 303-7423 or visit our website at riceandrice.com.

’70s Flashback — Mann vs. Machine: A television classic

It was early 1971, and 24-year-old Universal Studios employee Steven Spielberg found himself champing at the bit. So far, he had directed a few TV episodes, but he was eager to make his mark in the movies and felt that all he needed to launch his career was the right vehicle for him.

“Vehicle” becomes the operative word here.

That April, Steven’s secretary showed him a Playboy short story called “Duel.” The riveting tale had been written by sci-fi author Richard Matheson, whom Spielberg admired for his scripts for Rod Serling’s now-classic “The Twilight Zone.”

Matheson based “Duel” on an actual incident from 1963, when an aggressive truck driver had tailgated him for miles on a freeway and left him terrified and exhausted. (Matheson would later write the screenplay that helped to rocket Spielberg into the Big Time.)

Steven saw “Duel” as being just what he wanted. “I thought it was a complete exercise in a cat-and-mouse game of classic suspense,” he said of Richard’s tale of milquetoast salesman David Mann in a vulnerable little sedan being chased — inexplicably — along desolate California desert roads by a psychotic tanker-truck driver, his machine belching smoke and his full-throttle diesel engine growling like an enraged animal.

The story, assigned to Spielberg as a low-budget ABC-TV “Movie of the Week” project, reminded him of a suspenseful Alfred Hitchcock work, sort of a “The Birds” on wheels.

For the crucial lead role, he chose Dennis Weaver, best known as Chester from the TV series “Gunsmoke.” Steven used dialogue sparingly, as he did with the screechy, “Psycho”-like soundtrack.

The young director “auditioned” several tanker trucks before settling on a 1957 Peterbilt, which he chose because of its seeming “face” — the split windshield became the eyes; the huge, protruding snout seemed menacing, the grille and bumper a sneering mouth. Grease covered the windows, and the truck’s body was streaked with oil and dirt.

The truck was driven by Cory Loftin, Hollywood’s finest-ever stunt driver. It was imperative to Steven that the driver’s face never be shown. (“The unseen is always more frightening,” he reminds us.)

At all times, the viewer is drawn into the grip of the looming threat of danger — or death — from Loftin’s steel monster in full road rage, a rolling time bomb ready to explode at any moment, an aggressor in high pursuit

and often close to bringing down its frightened, hapless prey.

Universal gave Spielberg a mere 10 days for the shoot (he went three days over) and had wanted filming to be done at their Hollywood sound stage; Speilberg, though, was adamant that everything be shot on desert roads in order to effectively capture the growing suspense and urgency necessary for the story to become a true nail-biter.

Today, “Duel” is regarded as one of the best — if not the best — TV movies ever aired. All of Spielberg’s greatest strengths are on display here, years before the many classic blockbuster films that made him the most successful movie director in Tinseltown history.

JUST WHAT HE WANTED Richard Matheson’s tale was just what Steven Spielberg wanted for his first movie. Spielberg’s low-budget ABC-TV Movie of the Week, that is regarded as one of the best TV movies ever aired.

Van Tilburg finds passion helping animals

By MARISSA SWEATLAND Staff Writer

“I grew up on the farm where we always had cats and dogs,” Sandy Van Tilburg, volunteer at the Humane Society of Elkhart County, said. “I had befriended Ann Reel, who became the director of the Humane Society. Since I love animals it seemed like a good place to help out.”

Van Tilburg has been volunteering at the Humane Society of Elkhart County since 2008. However, she has helped by donating her time and talent to other nonprofits, including the Bristol Opera House, Morris Civic Auditorium, Pet Refuge and Catsnip.

“People ask me, ‘Don’t you want to take all of the animals home?’ ‘How do you stand to work there?’” Van Tilburg said. “My answer is that I know I can’t take them all home! They will go to great homes and that is the satisfaction of working here.”

Although no two days look the same, Van Tilburg has a schedule of different tasks she does for the shelter. She socializes cats, does laundry, transports animals, helps with special events and orga-

nizes cats being showcased at stores to increase adoptions.

“For a while, I was the ‘go to’ if anything needed done, it seemed, but I was glad to help,” Van Tilburg reminisced.

“Nowadays I limit my time at the shelter to taking pictures of cats for the website. Every Wednesday, Michelle Schwindaman and I work a few hours trying to capture great photos of cats to help in getting them forever homes.”

Van Tilburg lived in the Elkhart area from age three to 24 when her and her husband moved to the Chicago area. She received her pilot’s license in January 1981.

“When the air traffic controllers went on strike and were subsequently fired in August 1981 there were 10,000 openings for that position,” Van Tilburg explained. “I thought that would be a good opportunity for me, a recently divorced young woman who loved aviation. After passing the initial tests and going through the 4 and a half year training program, I became a full performance level Air Traffic Control Specialist at Chicago Center.”

After she retired in 2003, she volunteered at many places in the Chicago area,

KITTY VOLUNTEER Sandy Van Tilburg has been volunteering since around 2003, after she retired from her career as an air traffic control specialist. She now volunteers at the Humane Society of Elkhart County helping animals find their fur-ever homes. Photo provided by Sandy Van Tilburg.

including the Field Museum, numerous theaters, a radio station, Fox Valley Folklore Society and the animal shelter in Aurora, Ill.

“People sometimes say animals don’t have feelings

or emotions. I remember a cat from several years ago named Darlene. I stood in front of her cage and she looked so depressed,” Van Tilburg remembered. “I felt so sorry for her and so I got her out to

pet and hold her. I socialized her. I truly felt that during visits in the shelter after that day, she never looked sad or depressed again. My imagination? I don’t think so. She was adopted soon after.”

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Seed library blooms at Warsaw Community Public Library

By SARAH NEEL Communications Manager Warsaw Community Public Library

Warsaw Community Public Library has cultivated a unique resource for our community: a Seed Library, which offers patrons the opportunity to grow their own produce, flowers and herbs.

I recently sat down with two library staff members, Erica Bennington and Leslie Jeffreys, to discuss the creation of the Seed Library and its current impact and offerings.

Bennington, inspired by a similar initiative in Springfield, Mo., brought the idea of a Seed Library to the library in 2018. Motivated by a desire to provide the community with more than just traditional library resources, Bennington saw an opportunity to address patrons’ needs.

“I started hearing from patrons that they were having problems paying for food and would like to learn how to garden, but they didn’t know where to start or how to find seeds,” she said.

With the support of library leadership, a proposal was

crafted and approved, leading to the establishment of the Seed Library in 2019. Through a generous donation from Baker Creek in Missouri, the library amassed a diverse collection of seeds, ranging from heirloom vegetables to vibrant flowers.

The following year, Jeffreys reached out to our local Lowe’s. She explained, “I sent Lowe’s a letter, and they ended up giving us three or four big boxes of seeds. It was huge. And then, this year, Tractor Supply Co. approached us with a large donation.”

The Seed Library also relies on smaller donations.

“We welcome the return of new seeds from the plants you grow. Just make sure to label what the plant is and when it was harvested — basic information if you know it,” Jeffreys added.

The Seed Library’s offerings cater to both novice and experienced gardeners, providing seeds suitable for all skills and tastes. Although some seeds should have already been started indoors, there’s still an array of vegetable, herb and flower seeds available for direct sowing.

When asked how she feels

about the Seed Library today, Bennington said, “I hope people have enjoyed it and that it’s been helpful to the community. And I hope people keep using it.”

For those inspired to embark on their gardening journey, the library offers many gardening books to complement the Seed Library’s offerings. Whether

you’re a seasoned gardener or a newcomer to the gardening world, the Seed Library at Warsaw Community Public Library promises opportunities for all.

Donate your solar eclipse glasses

Many people across Indiana had so much fun being able to experience the solar eclipse earlier this month. Neighbors Mercantile Co. wants to share this experience with children and students in Latin America who will be experiencing a solar eclipse in October.

If you still have your glasses, stop by 151 E. Market St., Nappanee, anytime until May 1 and drop them off so they can be used by those who need them.

Once the glasses are collected, Neighbors Mercantile Co. will ship them to Eclipse Glasses USA as part of the

Eclipse Give Back Program. After May 1, glasses can be shipped directly in an envelope via USPS first-class mail to: Eclipse Glasses USA, LLC, PO BOX 50571, Provo, UT 84605.

For further information about the local collection, call (574) 773-7039.

Ladies Night Out: Hands-on training for healthy herds

Purdue Extension is hosting a Ladies Night Out event for women in agriculture to grow their livestock skills.

Extension educators will be partnering with a local large animal vet to provide a handson livestock care workshop focusing on how to properly ear tag and give injections, while also discussing the importance

Elder Law

Q. Succession planning and retirement for your business entity

A. Many small business owners are great at building and growing a business. As we age, it becomes increasingly important to prepare for retirement and the transition of the business to other partners or family members. Small businesses must be prepared for retirements or the sudden death or illness of leadership.

One reason to have a plan in place is for the benefit of your customers or clients. Another reason is to protect your business and any employees from sudden undue hardship caused by your departure. Having a transition plan in place helps ensure that customers and clients are comfortable with the new leadership once you retire.

Long-term planning can provide security for the entire business and allow retirements

of vet-client relationships. The event is called “Ladies Night Out” to hopefully encourage women in the livestock industry to come but all individuals are welcome to join.

This event is scheduled for 6-8 p.m. Tuesday, May 21, at the Kosciusko County Extension Office, 202 W. Main St. Warsaw. The cost for the eve-

ning is $20 to cover supplies and dinner will be provided. To register, sign up at: bit.ly/ LadiesLivestock. Registration will end on May 14.

For additional information about this workshop reach out to Emily Evers, St. Joe County extension educator via email everse@purdue.edu or at (574) 235-9605.

should

your attorney to ensure that your estate plan and business succession plan is up-to-date and accurate for your specific needs and tailored to your requests.

Q. What is Estate Planning?

A. Did you know that “estate” is a Middle English word derived from the Latin term for status? Since the 13th Century, this archaic word has been used to describe a person’s social standing. Another definition for the word estate is a large house situated on an extensive area of land in the countryside.

Maybe it’s these exclusive definitions for the term “estate” that misled people into believing that estate planning doesn’t apply to regular people. The truth is that there is also a legal definition for the term “estate” and it simply refers to all the property you own. An estate plan defines who you want to manage or receive your assets in the

event of incapacity or death. Contact TCU Trust Services, we welcome the opportunity to discuss your estate and what plan is best to protect you and your loved ones.

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Social Security honors our military heroes

By MONA HARTER District Manager, South Bend Social Security Office

On Memorial Day, our nation honors military service members who have given their lives to preserve our freedoms. Families, friends, and communities come together to remember the great sacrifices of military members and ensure their legacies live on.

The benefits we provide can help the families of deceased military service members.

For example, surviving spouses and dependent children may be eligible for Social Security survivors benefits. You can learn more about those benefits at ssa.gov/benefits/ survivors.

We also offer support to wounded warriors. Social Security benefits protect veterans when injuries prevent them

from returning to active duty or performing other work. Both the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs and Social Security have disability programs. You may qualify for disability benefits through one or both programs. Read our fact sheet, “Social Security Disability and Veterans Affairs Disability — How Do They Compare?” at ssa.gov/pubs/EN-64-125.pdf.

Depending on your situation, some members of your family, including your dependent children or spouse, may be eligible to receive Social Security benefits.

Wounded military service members can receive quicker processing of their Social Security disability claims. If you are a veteran with a 100% Permanent & Total compensation rating from Veterans Affairs, we’ll expedite your disability claim.

Thinking about retirement

or know a veteran who is?

Military service members can receive Social Security benefits in addition to their military retirement benefits. For details, visit our webpage for veterans, available at ssa.gov/people/ veterans.

Please share this information with the military families you know. We honor and thank the veterans who bravely served and died for our country and the military service members who serve today.

OFFERING SUPPORT TO MILITARY HEROES The Social Security Administration provides benefits, and support to military members and their families through a variety of benefits. Photo provided by Social Security Administration.

Additional gas tax increase coming in May

An increase of the gas tax is coming in May.

A memo from the Indiana Department of Revenue re-

ports the state’s gas tax will be 20.4 cents per gallon in May, a 1.5 cent increase from April’s tax.

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If you make less than $1,9 0 per month (single) and are on Medicare, then you might qualify for assistance with prescription drugs and expenses for your medical care.

If you make less than $1,9 0 month (single) and are on Medicare, then you might qualify for assistance with prescription drugs and expenses for your medical care.

If you make less than $2,268 per month (single) or $3,080 per month (married) and are on Medicare, then you might qualify for assistance with prescription drugs and expenses for your medical care.

A formula is used each month by the department to define the gas tax rate. That formula is:

Statewide average retail price per gallon of gas without taxes, multiplied by 7%, then rounded to the nearest $0.001.

During a month period from March to April, it was determined the average retail price per gallon was $2.9202. The formula was then determined for May’s gas tax rate. It was in November 2023 the last time Indiana’s gas tax rate was above 20 cents. The tax reached 29 centers in July and August, 2022.

Extra help to pay for your prescription drug plan.

Extra help to pay for your prescription drug plan.

Extra help to pay for your prescription drug plan.

Medicare Saving Program to help pay for your Part A and B deductibles and co-pays.

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Medicare Saving Program to help pay for your Part A and B deductibles and co-pays.

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Meet the ‘napsters’: A point of pride

One Saturday, something happened that made me very proud of my family and I want to share it with you.

It was about three in the afternoon and my adult son had just stopped by after a boxing workout. My wife had returned from a long morning of shopping and running errands. I had just played two hours of pickleball. What was I proud of? Everyone took a nap. Right smack in the middle of the day. People in the neighborhood were not only taking down their holiday lights, but tossing around a football with the kids, gassing up the snow blowers, or taking a brisk walk in the nearby woods.

But the Wolfsies were all asleep. Brett sacked out on the couch, Mary Ellen in our kingsized bed, and I was tucked into my La-Z-Boy chair. Do I know how to pick a family or what?

I just wish I could have been awake to fully enjoy it. If I had not been napping myself, I would have run around the neighborhood bragging, “My whole family is taking a nap. My whole family is taking a nap.” But bellowing, “Two out of three people in my family are taking a nap” would have taken a bit of the shine off my bravado.

Of course, my son and wife are not experienced nappers.

They have not spent the years I have perfecting the art of the timely snooze.

NUTSHELL

DICK WOLFSIE

Unlike me, my wife has never slept through Paris on a bus or dozed through an entire baseball game. Unlike me, my son has never fallen asleep at his own surprise birthday party or while tutoring a student after class. They are novice nappers.

Churchgoing boosts your health

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

It probably hasn’t occurred to you, but going to church may be likened to group therapy — especially for senior citizens.

Studies and surveys are coming up with findings that indicate regular attendance at church services is not only good for your soul, but also soothes your health and spirits. The results cover all faiths and denominations from every corner of the globe.

There seems one small drawback. Religious folks have a tendency to be overweight, according to reports.

However, the benefits of attendance at and participation in religious services far

outweigh that seeming flaw in the outcomes. And the more often, the better.

One report indicates regular church attendance over one’s lifetime can add six or seven years to one’s life.

Older adults are more likely than most people to pray, attend services and feel religion is important to them, according to a report from the Pew Research Center, a Washington, D.C.-based think tank.

Part of the reason religious participation boosts one’s health is attributed to the social aspects of attending services with other folks. This gives one a sense of belonging to a group and lessens the feeling of being alone.

Prayer also is believed to bolster one’s sense of security

and sense of purpose because they feel connected to a higher power that is helping and supporting them through this life.

As part of your health maintenance program, you might discuss your religious views and values with your primary care physician. Let them know how church attendance helps and that you want a cleric at your side should you tumble near death’s door.

You should also discuss what your wishes are, based on your religious beliefs, should you become incapacitated and lifeor-death decisions have to be made regarding your condition.

Religion that plays such a prominent role in your life should also be a major factor when considering your death.

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But I was thrilled that there was hope.

Here it was Saturday afternoon, a gorgeous, crisp winter afternoon enticing every family in the neighborhood to go outside and enjoy the weather. But all the Wolfsies were napping.

Of course, there are some drawbacks to amateur napping. When my wife awakens, she apologizes for her lapse and then spends the next three hours worrying she is coming down with something. I’m no medical expert, but I don’t think you need to give yourself a COVID test if you doze off for 20 minutes in the middle of the afternoon.

When I doze off for an hour or so, I awaken with a renewed sense of purpose. Men and women place different values on a good daytime snooze. Women don’t like naps because

they are afraid they will miss something, like a sale or a sunset or the plot of a movie. But that’s exactly the reason I do nap. To miss things.

I do worry about my son, though. As a toddler, he showed great potential, often rivaling me. He’d fall asleep after a good meal and often snuck in a nap before going to bed. I had great expectations for him, but my hopes dimmed as he grew up. He once sat through an entire “Harry Potter” movie without snoring. And more recently, he watched three and a half hours of “Oppenheimer” without digging his nails into his thigh. You may think we wasted the afternoon. That we squandered valuable time and frittered it away by dozing off at three in the afternoon. You are entitled to your opinion. But I’m not going to lose any sleep over it.

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Five Medals at The Trace —

A living history experience, nearby

Where do you get to experience British, Colonial American, and French military camps, a Potawatomi native village, cannon and muskets firing, and 18th century artisans and shopping opportunities, all in one location?

Five Medals at The Trace, of course! Give your family a day they’ll always remember. Provide your home schoolers a one-of-a-kind history lesson they’ll never forget.

This year’s Five Medals at The Trace takes place 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, May 4, and 10 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Sunday,

May 5, with Friday, May 3, earmarked as school visitation day. The event is held at Stone’s Trace, a superb and relaxing privately-owned historical park located just south of Ligonier at the intersection of US 33 and SR 5.

Five Medals is a living history educational experience geared toward your entire family, allowing all to become totally immersed in this area’s exceptional history. The event spans the middle 1600s up through the War of 1812.

Five Medals at The Trace features nearly 200 reenac-

tors and demonstrators, including one-of-a-kind shopping opportunities with early American merchants, live Colonial music, penny whistle workshops, period-correct Punch & Judy Show, blacksmithing, tinsmithing, woodworking, flint knapping, rope making, open-fire cooking and baking, soap making, paper filigree, watercolor artistry, millinery, colonial beekeeping, natural fabric dyeing, spinning and wool carding, basket weaving, pottery, an oxen team and even a chocolatier, all ongoing throughout the event.

And if that’s not enough, feel your chest pound during the black powder flintlock and artillery demonstrations. Interact with participants in the woodland Native, French civilian and military, British military, and Colonial/U.S. military encampments.

HISTORY LESSON — Michael Dragoo. a foodways demonstrator, is one of many reenactors who participate at Five Medals at The Trace, which takes place May 3-5 in Ligonier. Photo provided by Five Medals at The Trace.

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You’ll appreciate the woodlands-to-grasslands transition areas, as well as several log cabins. Along with shopping opportunities and early American crafts galore, visitors will find several great food options, along with generous parking at West Noble High School. Five Medals at The Trace is presented by Five Medals Living History, Inc., a 501(C)3 non-profit organization.

Greenville, Ohio Country, a treaty of vital importance was signed. Present were familiar names: Anthony Wayne, Little Turtle, William Henry Harrison, Blue Jacket, William Wells, White Pigeon,

On August 3, 1795, at Fort

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Experience the beauty of the watershed

The Watershed Foundation invites the community to visit a new exhibit celebrating the local watershed.

From now until the end of May, visitors are encouraged to stop by the North Webster Community Center, 301 N. Main St., to view the winning photo display from TWF’s 2023 Picture Your Watershed Photo Contest. The display is featured in the hallway adjacent to the TWF Office in the northwest corner of the North Webster Community Center.

“Captured by talented photographers from our very own community, these captivating images showcase the diverse landscapes, vibrant wildlife and serene waters that make our watershed truly special,” said Lyn Crighton, executive director of The Watershed Foundation.

“Each photograph tells a unique story, offering viewers a glimpse into the awe-inspiring wonders that surround us.”

“Whether you’re an avid nature enthusiast, a photography

aficionado, or simply someone who appreciates the beauty of our natural world, this exhibit promises to inspire and delight,” said Crighton. “It’s an opportunity to connect with our environment on a deeper level and gain a newfound appreciation for the precious resources that sustain us all.”

The North Webster Community Center is open to the public 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday through Friday and 8 a.m. to noon Saturday. Closed on Sundays.

John Ingold stays fit through Goshen College

By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer

Those with any connection to Goshen College have probably come across John Ingold over the last 60 years. Not only did Ingold study at Goshen College, he played sports, coached sports, taught classes and volunteered at the school as well. Today he is walking example of how to stay fit at the age of 86.

“My doctor told me in I’m in the 99th percentile for my age. I already knew that,” Ingold said with a smile.

Ingold can be found regularly at the Roman Gingrich Recreation-Fitness Center on the Goshen College campus. His routine of weight machines followed by jogging is something very few his age are capable of.

“What I like to do with my free time besides watching basketball is I come here three to five times a week and I go in the weight room and do eight exercise machines. When I finish that I go out to the track and I jog,” Ingold said.

The facility has an indoor track where Ingold typically travels two miles a run at a pace under 15 minutes. He says he has pulled off a 10 and half minute mile. He keeps tracks of his steps too and has reached 16,000 steps in a day.

His passion for fitness goes back to playing basketball at Goshen College when he attended the school in 1955. He later began working as a professor of physical education at the school in 1964 and would start up a coaching tenure that expanded into coaching seven different men’s programs for a total of 75 different teams.

While coaching at Goshen College he won the Mid-Central College Conference Coach of the Year 13 times across five different sports. Today, the Mid-Central College Conference is known as the Crossroads League.

Ingold also developed and directed a community fitness program at Goshen College from 1977 to 1981. During those four years he worked with 64 faculty and staff plus 150 community members.

Once Ingold retired from Goshen College he was not done helping. He drove the team bus as a volunteer and also handles the maintenance on a 3-hole golf course on campus he created in 1978.

“When I go out there I play three balls. Twice around I have my 18 holes,” Ingold said. “About seven years ago all departments were asked to cut back a little bit. Later they said they were going to let the golf course go and I said I would maintain it as a volunteer. It’s in good shape. We have some outings out there. It’s open to the community.”

In 2008, Ingold was named as the winner of the Dr. Roman Gingerich Award, an annual honor to recognized a Goshen

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alumnus who is a champion of character. He and his wife, Margaret, make it a priority to still attend Goshen College sporting events. In 2015, the baseball, softball and soccer fields at the school were renamed the John Ingold Athletic Complex.

Ingold has no signs of slowing down his workout routine and offers some advice to area seniors who want to stay healthy.

“The best thing they can do is walk,” Ingold said. “You don’t

have to be a runner to get fit. Walk regularly each day. Eat well, try to get their weight down to a reasonable weight. That will do it. So many people in this country are overweight.”

One exercise he emphasizes is for his lower back.

“For my lower back I have an exercise for that,” Ingold said. “There is a lot of back problems in this country. That’s the most important exercise for me is doing that lower back.”

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William Clark, Topinabee, Meriwether Lewis, Winamac, and a highly-regarded chief of the Elkhart River Band of Potawatomi named Wonongaseah, or Wa-weeg-she, as his name was inscribed on the treaty next to his mark.

Wonongaseah is roughly translated as “Five Coins” or “Five Medals” and, combined with the numerous peace medallions he had accumulated, the chief became known simply as “Five Medals.” He

signed at least six treaties of either peace or land cession.

His village was located on the Elkhart River, northwest of present-day Ligonier. He traveled with Little Turtle to Philadelphia in 1796, where he met President Washington, and in 1801 to Washington DC, where he delivered an oration to President Jefferson. He worked tirelessly to improve relations with the westward expanding European-Americans, and made several efforts to bring modern

agricultural practices to his and other local villages.

The Battle of Tippecanoe on Nov. 7, 1811, ignited the entire region, and Five Medals, under the unavoidable influence of Tecumseh, found himself at the Siege of Fort Wayne in September, 1812.

General Harrison’s troops relieved the siege and immediately conducted retaliatory raids upon area villages. Five Medals’ village was partially destroyed in September 1812 and was attacked again in

June 1813. Five Medals and his people removed themselves to the Detroit area for the remainder of the war.

ON THE BUILDING — John Ingold stands by the athletic complex named after him at Goshen College. Photo by Nathan Pace.

PAR 3 CREATOR — John Ingold on the green of the small golf course he created and maintains at Goshen College. Photo by Nathan Pace.

INDEPENDENCE | DIGNITY | STRENGTH

Established in 1963, Older Americans Month (OAM) is celebrated every May. Led by the Administration for Community Living (ACL), OAM is a time for us to acknowledge the contributions and achievements of older Americans, highlight important trends, and strengthen our commitment to honoring our older citizens.

The theme this year is Powered by Connection, which recognizes the profound impact that social connections have on our health and well -being.

This May, join us as we challenge the narrative on aging. Here are some ways we can all be Powered by Connections :

Invite: Ask your friends and family to connect into your life by finding a new passion, joining a social club, taking a class, or try new activities in your community.

Engage: Stay engaged in your community by giving back through volunteering, working, teaching, or mentoring.

Invest time: Prioritize the people you’re close to, build new relationships, and discover deeper connections with your family, friends, colleagues, or neighbors.

Attend events: Promote and attend events such as cultural activities, recreational programs, and interactive virtual events.

Connect: If a friend needs help, connect them with local services that can help them overcome obstacles and provide access to a support system.

Celebrate: Host an event to celebrate Older Americans Month with friends and family and be proud of the power of aging!

Source: www.acl.gov

There is an on-going need for REAL Services volunteers. Would you like help your neighbors in need?

 Foster Grandparents in school help for children

 Adult Guardianship Advocate

 Meals on Wheels delivery driver

 Office/clerical

 Long-term Care Ombudsman

 REAL Friends telephone program

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Although focused on older adults, everyone is welcome! Come and learn while you enjoy a healthy snack. There is no cost for this program.

Although focused on older adults, everyone is welcome! Come and learn while you enjoy a healthy snack. There is no cost for this program.

The Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC)/InConnect can help with decisions big and small for older and disabled individuals in need of assistance.

The Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC)/InConnect can help with decisions big and small for older and disabled individuals in need of assistance.

Beacon Health System will present all May

Beacon Health System will present all May

May 9: Kroc Center (South Bend)

May 9: Kroc Center (South Bend)

May 16: OWLS Club (Elkhart)

May 16: OWLS Club (Elkhart)

May 24: 1Roof (South Bend)

May 24: 1Roof (South Bend)

You may be a caregiver seeking advice on what to do when a loved one is no longer able to live alone without assistance; an older adult simply seeking some ideas of where you might go for socialization; or a young person with a physical disability finding it hard to manage your life without additional assistance. Whatever your circumstance, the ADRC/InConnect has the information and resources to help you make the best choices for you and your well-being. The ADRC/InConnect can screen you for a variety of local, state, or national programs and services; listen to and understand the complexities of your situation; and offer valid referrals and informative counsel to support you in your decisions.

You may be a caregiver seeking advice on what to do when a loved one is no longer able to live alone without assistance; an older adult simply seeking some ideas of where you might go for socialization; or a young person with a physical disability finding it hard to manage your life without additional assistance. Whatever your circumstance, the ADRC/InConnect has the information and resources to help you make the best choices for you and your well-being. The ADRC/InConnect can screen you for a variety of local, state, or national programs and services; listen to and understand the complexities of your situation; and offer valid referrals and informative counsel to support you in your decisions.

Call us: (574) 233 -8205 Monday Friday

Visit www.realservices.org to learn more and register.

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County Elkhart:

Elkhart:

LaPorte County

LaPorte County Cambridge Square Apt. 1111

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(574) 848-7182

Division St. (574) 848-7182

Paul’s UMC 405 W. Beardsley (574) 302-5863

St. Paul’s UMC 405 W. Beardsley (574) 302-5863

Riverside Terrace 181 N. Elkhart Ave. (574) 320-5995

Riverside Terrace 181 N. Elkhart Ave. (574) 320-5995

Stratford Commons 2601 Oakland Ave. (574) 320-6016

Stratford Commons 2601 Oakland Ave. (574) 320-6016

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Greencroft Manor 1801 Greencroft Blvd. (574) 971 -6016

Goshen: Greencroft Manor 1801 Greencroft Blvd. (574) 971 -6016

LaPorte: Cambridge Square Apt. 1111

Longwood Dr Bldg B

Longwood Dr Bldg B

Kathy (219) 380 -1885

Kathy (219) 380 -1885

Salvation Army 3240 Monroe St

Salvation Army 3240 Monroe St

Marshall County

Marshall County

Argos: B & R Community Bldg.

Argos: B & R Community Bldg. 194 S. Michigan St.

194 S. Michigan St.

Becky (574) 892-9669

Becky (574) 892-9669

Bourbon: Senior Center on 194 S.

Bourbon: Senior Center on 194 S.

Donna (219) 380-1711

Donna (219) 380-1711

Maple Leaf 2926 Elkhart Rd. (574) 238 8760

Maple Leaf 2926 Elkhart Rd. (574) 238 8760

Michigan City: Simeon Square 1207 S

Michigan City: Simeon Square 1207 S

Woodland Jerri (219) 380 -1439

Woodland Jerri (219) 380 -1439

SMRT Center

SMRT Center

301 Grant Ave. (219) 872-0942

301 Grant Ave. (219) 872-0942

Michigan St., Jan (574) 342 -7031

Michigan St., Jan (574) 342 -7031

Bremen: Oakhaven Apartments

Bremen: Oakhaven Apartments

500 S Montgomery St

500 S Montgomery St

Gary (574) 993-2944

Gary (574) 993-2944

Plymouth: Garden Court West 400 W. Washington St

Plymouth: Garden Court West 400 W. Washington St

Linda (574) 935-0047

Linda (574) 935-0047

All meals are served with milk. Suggested donation $4.25

May Menu All meals are served with milk. Suggested donation $4.25

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Your donation counts. Even small donations make a big difference. We provide over 160,000 meals each year to seniors.

Your donation counts. Even small donations make a big difference. We provide over 160,000 meals each year to seniors.

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All donations support this program. Please donate what you can comfortably afford.

All donations support this program. Please donate what you can comfortably afford.

Chappell encourages

all ages to continue serving the Lord

By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer

“I teach at Grace College part time,” stated Chuck Chappell, Winona Lake. “I’m also pastor to the senior citizens at Community Grace Brethren Church, Warsaw. I stress to both groups, the young and the old, that God has a job for us. Retirement is not a Biblical construct. And even if we have a good job and are making great money, we need to also be doing the ministry God has given us as a Christ-follower.”

Chappell grew up in the church. “My parents, Paul and Marjorie, dedicated their lives to Jesus Christ in the first few years of their marriage. My mom was saved at the first Billy Graham crusade on the steps of the nation’s Capitol building.”

Marjorie hosted a Good News Club in her home for the neighborhood kids. “We were living on Sixth Street in Winona Lake. And she mentioned something I had never really given much thought

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about. She told us that we would stand before the Lord alone. We needed to make our own personal decision to follow Jesus. We couldn’t get in on the merits of our parents or family.”

As a child of 9, Chappell invited Jesus to be his personal Savior that day at the Good News Club.

In 1968, his father Paul attended Grace College to finish his schooling for a ministry degree. “He actually ended up as the business manager at the college.”

Chappell spent 37 years in the printing business. He has always been a natural mentor. He began leading and guiding individuals when he was in his 20s. He teaches part time at Grace College.

“Sometimes I teach online and sometimes on campus. Right now, I’m teaching a class titled ‘The Ministry of Reconciliation.’ I’ll be teaching a class on Biblical interpretation this upcoming school year. I like to think I help the students to have a firm founda-

tion in their faith walk. I want them to be critical thinkers.

“I never assume all my students have made a personal commitment to Christ, even though most of the students come from Christian homes. I continue to remind them that they can’t enter the Kingdom of God on their parents’ faith. They need to make a personal commitment to Jesus Christ.”

He takes his job as a teacher of God’s Word very seriously. “James 3:1 tells us, ‘Not many of you should become teachers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.’”

Two years ago, a ministry position came up at Community Grace Brethren Church, Warsaw. “There was a position for a pastor who works with senior citizens. My job also includes congregational care, hospital visitation, and counseling.”

The day of this newspaper interview Chappell had taken a senior citizen to a doctor’s appointment and to lunch. He also counseled a couple of

CUTTING EDGE — Chuck Chappell, Winona Lake, believes that everyone has a lifelong purpose from God. He is the pastor to the senior citizens at Community Grace Brethren Church, Warsaw. He also teaches part time at Grace College, Winona Lake. He teaches his senior citizens that their labor in the Lord is not at an end. Photo provided by Community Grace Brethren Church.

people in his office.

“My duties vary. That’s what I really enjoy about the job. No two days are alike.” Chappell enjoys working with seniors who believe their labor in the

Lord is not at an end. “I want them to know that God is not through with them yet. They are to become the mentors and guides for the next generation (Titus 2:3-8).”

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Physical exercise has many health benefits. It improves muscle, bone, and heart health. It also lowers the risk of some health conditions like diabetes. Did you know research shows that exercise has benefits for brain health as well?

Exercise Improves Memory and Thinking

A recent study looked at two different exercise groups over one year. One group did regular aerobic exercise, like walking. The other group did stretches. The group that did walking had more memory improvements.

Other studies agree that physical exercise increases blood flow to parts of the brain, which are important for memory. Physical exercise also promotes healthy nerves, which send messages in the brain.

There are also studies suggesting regular physical exercise can delay the start or progression of some memory conditions, like mild cognitive impairment, dementia, and Alzheimer’s disease. These benefits are seen even for those who start exercising later in life; however, it is better to start earlier.

Exercise Improves Mental Health

Exercise is a powerful tool to

feel better. A recent study from Harvard found running or walking every day reduces the risk of depression by helping brain cells grow and form new connections. Exercise also creates powerful pain-relieving and energizing substances in the brain.

Exercise can help if you feel stressed or anxious. Exercise relieves stress by improving brain chemistry and relaxing muscles to reduce tension. You can also use exercise to

distract yourself from upsetting thoughts. It can be overwhelming to take care of your loved one. It’s important to take care of yourself, too. Physical exercise is one of the tools you can use to help reduce stress and improve your overall well-being. Just 10 minutes of physical activity can improve your mood. It has even better effects if you do a physical activity that you love, such as dancing, gardening, or walking.

Other Benefits Of Exercise

Exercise helps the brain in other ways, too. Exercise helps to improve sleep and helps you relax. A well-rested mind is important for proper brain functioning and mood.

Exercise can also be a social activity. Try doing physical exercise you or your loved one enjoy in a small group. Studies show that older adults who socialize have better cognitive function and

better health overall.

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Leaders discuss returning passenger train service to Kosciusko County

By PATRICK WEBB Staff Writer

Two local leaders recently shared their thoughts on the potential benefits of returning passenger service to Kosciusko County.

The Midwest Connect Corridor Plan aims to establish a route from Pittsburgh to Chicago with a potential stop in Warsaw, and is currently being studied.

be a huge economic benefit in that it would allow for more individuals access to travel and enjoy our vibrant community.”

According to Kosciusko Chamber of Commerce Executive Director Rob Parker, “passenger train travel could

Goshen Physicians expands services with Mathias as new endocrinologist

Endocrinologist

DR. PRIYANKA MATHIAS

Priyanka Mathias, MD, has joined Goshen Physicians Endocrinology. Mathias is board certified and fellowship trained in endocrinology.

She specializes in caring for patients with diabetes, thyroid disorders and other hormonerelated problems.

“Diabetes is one of the top health issues we are addressing in our community,” said Randy Christophel, Goshen Health president and CEO.

“We are very fortunate to have Dr. Mathias join our endocrinology team. Her expertise in endocrinology and technology to manage diabetes is such a

Parker shared that the chamber has collaborated with the Northern Indiana Passenger Rail Alliance, based out of Fort Wayne, which led recent initiatives to restore passenger service.

valuable service for our community.”

Mathias earned a bachelor of medicine, bachelor of surgery at St. John’s Medical College, Rajiv Gandhi University of Health Sciences in Bangalore, India. She completed a residency at Jacobi Medical Center, Albert Einstein College of Medicine in Bronx, New York, and a fellowship in endocrinology at Montefiore Medical Center in Bronx, New York.

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“Getting people to destinations more easily improves quality of life, quality of place and is a driver of economic growth and activity,” said Parker.

Parker said the convenience of car travel has meant “more federal dollars are spent on keeping roads safe for our cars instead of subsidizing train travel.”

“With increases in vehicle costs, parking fees, tolls, and gas, more and more people would like the option to take a train where they can easily access an Uber, Lyft or cab to take them to their destination,” said Parker, along with people wanting to live in urban environments versus suburban sprawl.

Parker said access to transportation historically has had an impact on communities, and “many thriving towns

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have died when the pony express, canals, trains or roads bypassed their community or are no longer in use.”

“We are the orthopedic capital of the world, and one of the reasons that we are was because we had a train stop,” added Parker.

One benefit to returning passenger service is foot traffic. “Increased foot traffic brings increased revenue opportunities for our businesses,” he said.

“But more than anything, it expands opportunities for our citizens to experience more of our world,” said Parker. “And it casts a larger net on surrounding areas to experience our wonderful community, which is a great place to live, work, play and learn.”

Parker also saidhaving a train station in Kosciusko County would attract new people to the area.

“Imagine having a job in the Chicagoland area, but living in Warsaw,” said Parker. “With train travel, it would allow for ‘commuters’ to work on the train on their way to their job and be productive, versus being distracted while driving, without paying the tremendously high taxes associated with living in a large city like Chicago.”

Warsaw Mayor Jeff Grose shared that he rode on passenger services provided by Amtrak from Warsaw to Chicago during college in the 1980s, along with his family, and then girlfriend, now wife.

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Grose recalled he got off at Chicago’s Union Station, then used the Chicago ‘L’ elevated train system, operated by the Chicago Transit Authority, and walked to Evanston to reach his apartment at Northwestern University.

“It was always a little bit longer because of the stops, but the nice thing was that I didn’t have to drive,” said Grose.

Grose said he was in favor of exploring returning passenger service and to learn more about the “pluses and minuses for it.”

Grose recommended those who wished to see passenger service return should contact state and federal leaders, who he said might have the greatest impact.

“If you think about the railroads and regulating it, I would start with state governments,” said Grose. He also recommended that the public reach out to his office and “any stakeholder and leader.”

Moe Berg: The catcher was a spy

By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features

When baseball greats Babe Ruth and Lou Gehrig went on tour in 1934 in baseballcrazy Japan, some in the U.S. sporting world wondered why Moe Berg, a third-rate catcher, was included on the team.

Although he played with five major-league teams from 1923 to 1939, Berg was considered mediocre, but he was regarded as the brainiest ballplayer of all time.

New York Yankee’ manager Casey Stengel once said, “He (Berg) is the strangest man ever to play baseball.”

Morris Berg was a U.S. spy working undercover with the Office of Strategic Services, forerunner of the CIA. He spoke 15 languages, including Japanese. He had two loves: baseball and spying.

In Tokyo, garbed in a kimono, Berg took flowers to the daughter of an American diplomat being treated in St. Luke’s Hospital … the tallest building in the Japanese capital.

He never delivered those flowers. Instead, Berg ascended to the hospital roof and filmed key features of the harbor in Tokyo Bay, military installations, and railway yards. Eight years later, U.S. Army Air Corps Lt. Col. Jimmy Doolittle studied Berg’s films in planning his spectacular raid over Tokyo in 1942.

During his youth, Berg’s father disapproved of his baseball career and never once watched his son play. In high school, Berg learned Latin, Greek and French. As an adult, he read at least 10 newspapers every day.

Berg was undoubtedly the most educated ballplayer ever to don a major league uniform. To describe Berg as being smart would be an understatement. He graduated magna cum laude from

Iversity, having added Spanish, Italian, German and Sanskrit to his linguistic quiver. During further studies at the Sorbonne in Paris, and later Columbia Law School, he picked up Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Indian, Arabic, Portuguese and Hungarian … 15 languages in all, plus some regional dialects.

While playing baseball for Princeton, he would describe plays in Latin or the ancient language of Sanskrit to fellow players sitting on the bench.

The OSS quickly determined Berg to be the best of candidates for being a spy. During World War II, the ballplayer was parachuted into Yugoslavia to assess the value to the war effort of the two groups of partisans there.

He reported back that Marshall Tito’s forces were widely supported by the people and Winston Churchill ordered all-out support for the Yugoslav underground fighters. At the age of 41, the parachute jump undoubtedly was a challenge, but there would be more to come in that same year of 1942.

Berg penetrated Germanheld Norway, met with members of the underground and located a secret heavy water plant, which was part of the Nazis’ effort to build an atomic bomb. His information guided the Royal Air Force in a bombing raid over Norway, which destroyed that heavy water plant.

There still remained the question of how far had the Nazis progressed in the race to build the first atomic bomb. The problem was “…if the Nazis were successful at building the bomb, they would win the war.” Berg (under the code name “Remus”) was sent to Switzerland to attend a conference where leading German physicist and Nobel Laureate Werner Heisenberg was lecturing. Berg was to determine if the Nazis were close to building

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an A-bomb.

He managed to slip past the SS guards at the auditorium by posing as a Swiss graduate student.

In his pocket, Berg carried a pistol and a cyanide pill. If the German scientist indicated the Nazis were close to building an atomic weapon, Berg was ordered to shoot him and then swallow the cyanide pill.

Berg sat in the front row of the assembled scientists and quickly determined the Germans were nowhere near their goal. So, after complimenting Heisenberg on his speech, Berg walked with the German back to his hotel as they talked casually about the lecture. After the War it was determined by the OSS that Heisenberg, a Jew, had somehow blocked the Nazis from developing an atomic weapon. Most of Germany’s leading physicists had been Jewish and had fled the Nazis, mainly to Britain and the United States.

Berg’s report was distributed to President Franklin Roosevelt, Britain’s Prime Minister Winston Churchill and key figures in the “Manhattan Project” who working to develop the American A-bomb. Roosevelt told OSS director Gen. “Wild Bill” Donovan, “Give my regards to the catcher.”

After the war, Berg was awarded the Medal of Freedom, America’s highest honor for a civilian during wartime, but he refused to accept it because he couldn’t tell people about his exploits. After his death on

May 29, 1972, Berg’s sister accepted the medal, which now is displayed in the Baseball Hall of Fame, in Cooperstown, NY.

This little-known World War II story has been made into

a movie, “The Catcher Was a Spy,” starring Paul Rudd, which is available on Amazon Prime streaming service.

Seasonal savings

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Now that spring has sprung, it’s time to buy winter clothing, as well as other snow-time gear and equipment, such as skis and snowmobiles. Wait until summer is over to stock up on t-shirts, shorts and swim suits.

Post-season shopping can save you money and still keep your closet comfortably stocked with new clothing.

A simple example of this method of saving is the annual trip to the shopping mall the day after Christmas to stock up on wrapping paper for next year.

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Caregivers face difficult decisions

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Being sick sucks. Any sixyear-old knows that.

Taking care of someone who’s sick also sucks.

Some 40 million people in this country know that — that’s how many provide unpaid help and support

to someone.

This includes the spouses who have faced terrible truths with their loved ones who were told they had a deadly disease.

While the ill individual is the one who’s facing a death sentence, his or her partner also undergoes excruciating pain. They have to make criti-

Lights up for low vision

By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features

Eyesight can fade because of aging or an eye disease. There are several simple steps outlined in the Mayo Clinic Health Letter to help compensate for eroding eyesight.

Equalize interior and exterior light sources around the house by leaving some indoor house lights on during bright sunny days. Cover shiny surfaces, such as a polished table, with a cloth to reduce glare. Dark-colored place mats can help at mealtime, and choose furnishings with a flat or matte finish.

Light up dark spots by installing lights in dark areas,

such as inside closets. Keep flashlights handy for dark areas.

For better close-up vision, use bright, direct lighting. Position an adjustable lamp about four to eight inches from reading material or a close-up task. Keep the lamp slightly to one side to reduce glare. If possible, position the light over the shoulder on the side of the better-seeing eye.

To take advantage of natural light, position yourself so that windows are to the side or behind you.

When reading, reduce glare by using a piece of dark construction paper to cover areas of text you’re not reading at that moment.

cal decisions under ponderous pressure, which makes it difficult to maintain their own health.

Both can ease the strain by talking about their situation, asking each other how to keep each other comfortable and what they would like to do.

The couple may decide to make one last visit to the grandchildren. Or they could agree to spend their last time together as quietly and activity-free as possible. The “patient” may emphasize that they are willing to remain medicated as long as possible but does not wish to suffer any pain at any point.

It’s during this period that

details of their last wishes may be viewed and reviewed.

Family conflicts can erupt at such times.

The couple might agree that extending the patient’s life isn’t worth it if any chance of recovery from the disease is meaningless. They may have the incurable Lou Gehrig’s disease that drugs can put off for a year and the couple decide not to take that route. Some children or siblings may create problems by trying to pressure the caregiver into providing the prescribed medication.

The most difficult situation most people face at times like this is to determine when life is no longer worth lingering on.

The caregiver can feel frightened and alone during such times, but there’s help and support available. Hospitals have ethics committees that can help you and members of your family reach consensus on what should be done. Hospice organizations also offer experienced staffers to help navigate you through troublesome times. Many people lean on their church pastor for advice.

To avoid distractions throughout this process, keep focused on what the best fit is between your loved one’s wishes and well-being and the array of medical options available.

Crowd out loneliness

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

A facet of life many of us face as we get older is loneliness.

Social distancing and quarantining and avoiding crowds have opened the eyes of many folks to the affect isolation can have on our day-to-day lives.

Having to stay at home and being unable to go shopping or visit family and friends exacerbates the feeling of being alone and unable to have meaningful relationships with other human beings.

The use of social media apparently doesn’t overcome that. An AARP survey revealed one-third of adults 45 and older felt lonely, the same number as reported in 2010, despite the fact that the number of respondents who used social media had more than tripled in that time.

It seems social media al-

lows more people to communicate more readily but is not the same as sharing personal space and time.

Results of another AARP study revealed that only 25% of the people who knew their neighbors felt lonely while more than 60% who didn’t know any of their neighbors reported feeling lonely.

Living alone does not mean a person is lonely. Some individuals are comfortable and content with themselves, their surroundings and their lifestyles. A long-ago friend had an older brother who built a lakeside cabin in the northern woods and spent his life hunting, fishing and reading. He managed to earn an income from government agencies by monitoring animal activities and lake levels.

Loneliness was not part of his life. For those who feel lonely even in a crowd, it can be bad for their health and lead to depression and an as-

sortment of mental, emotional and physical conditions.

Loneliness strikes suddenly for those who lose a spouse. No longer is there a partner to discuss vacation plans, share shopping trips and stroll through the park with.

To avoid spiraling down into a permanent state of sadness, you can become proactive. Drop in on your son, granddaughter or any other family member who lives nearby. Do the same with a friend or colleague. Meet them for coffee or lunch somewhere of their choice.

If someone invites you to a gathering, go. Don’t make some excuse about the crowd being too young or you don’t have anything to wear. Just go.

Call or drop a line to a family member or friend who lives far away.

Getting out of the house is a key to kicking loneliness aside. Church services help many people feel connected. Volunteering is an excellent way to stay busy, feel worthwhile and make new friends.

Any hobby, from doing jigsaw puzzles to building birdhouses to repairing old cars, not only keeps you busy but offers opportunities to find other folks who do the same thing.

Check HOA rules before buying

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

The kids are raising their own kids, you no longer have to report for work, and yardwork is getting to be more problem than pride.

All of these thoughts lead to a major mental exercise: is it time to sell the old homestead and downsize? Should you buy a smaller house? Or maybe a condo?

Integral in your thinking has

to be the possibility that your new quarters could be governed by a homeowners association.

About three-quarters of the population live in communities ruled by HOAs.

This means their quality of life and aesthetic choices are dictated by outside forces.

Before you decide to gather a down payment for whatever residence you choose, find out if the development is ruled by a HOA and get a copy of its rules.

Their control can range from

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Don’t confuse these rules and regulations with a legal code. Any breach of these rules can lead to a fine, and you have to correct or stop what you’ve done.

HOAs control the exterior look of your dwelling. They can control or ban the type of trees and shrubs you can grow, order you how to maintain

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A new state archives building finally coming to downtown Indianapolis

By CASEY SMITH Indiana Capital Chronicle

Construction of a new Indiana archives building is slated to begin this summer after a yearslong search for a new site to house the state’s vast collection of historical records.

The $102 million building will be located on a narrow strip of land near the Statehouse in downtown Indianapolis, just west of the Senate Avenue Parking Garage on the Central Canal.

In June 2023, the State Budget Committee gave final approval to begin work on the five-story, 133,000-square foot building.

State officials — including Gov. Eric Holcomb — have maintained that the new building will provide proper storage, maintenance and restoration services for archival documents.

The state archives collection has executive, legislative and judicial records dating back to

Indiana’s territorial government of the 1790s, including the 1816 and 1851 state constitutions.

That collection has been stored in a warehouse on the east side of Indianapolis that lacks museumquality climate controls since being moved from the basement of the state library building during a 2001 renovation.

The move was meant to be temporary, given that the location is not equipped for longterm preservation of some of the state’s most important documents.

Matt Kent, chief financial officer at the Indiana Department of Administration, told the budget committee that the new facility will help “ensure the Indiana Archives has the adequate space they need to complete their agency mission.” The building will also “establish a safer environment for the archival records, and also make those records much easier to access for visitors,” he said.

Better Conditions For State Records

Kent said the new facility will include office space for state archives staff, as well as areas for processing and imaging state records using new technology, climate controlled storage for archive documents, and flexible space for meetings and events.

An underground tunnel connecting the new building to others around the state government campus is additionally planned.

The design and programming phases of the project are already completed.

Now, with funds approved, Kent said groundwork can begin in August at the site — currently an undeveloped plot of land. One lane each on Ohio and New York streets will be closed to facilitate construction.

Vertical construction on the new archives building is expected to start in Spring 2024, Kent said, and the facility will be

ready for occupancy in late 2025 or early 2026.

Years In The Making

The new project is coming to fruition eight years after former Republican Gov. Mike Pence failed to finance the proposal as part of the state’s bicentennial celebration.

Pence’s contested plan to pay for construction by leasing out state-owned cellphone towers through a public-private partnership was scrapped by Holcomb, Pence’s successor, shortly after taking office in 2017.

State archivists and researchers have since spent years advocating for the new facility.

But settling on a site for the new archives building has been complicated. Previous site considerations included other plots in downtown Indianapolis and the site that was formerly home to the Indiana Women’s Prison.

Authorization for a new state archives building was included

in the 2021 Indiana budget. An appropriation to cash-fund the construction was included in the latest two-year budget earlier this year.

State Budget Committee chairman Sen. Ryan Mishler, R-Mishawaka, expressed discontent in June about state spending on the new archive.

“Just for the record, I think we’re going way overboard on an archives building. But I think I’m the only one who feels that way, so I’m outnumbered,” Mishler said.

Also critical was Rep. Ed Delaney, D-Indianapolis, who said that — rather than cash-funding the building — the state could have used its highest-possible “AAA” credit rating to borrow $30 million to $40 million years ago at lower interest rates and completed the project for fewer dollars overall.

“That’s why we’re over the top,” Delaney said about the inflated spending costs.

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Grief and anger: Part of the healing process

Editor’s note: Tom Rose is the author of “Balloon in a Box, Coping with Grief.” The book is available on Amazon, Fables Books, Goshen, or at ThomasLRose.com. He is available for speaking engagements and as a grief group facilitator. He would love to hear your comments or questions, by phone (574) 5966256, or email: roseandrose@ comcast.net.

People generally associate grief with loneliness and sadness, but many may experience anger as a reaction to grief. It is not uncommon for someone who is grieving to experience anger and frustration. This anger and frustration can be difficult to process. It takes all of your strength and self-control to face this emotion. We have lost a loved one and are trying to adjust to the changes and are likely experiencing extreme frustration and emotional discomfort. We are angry with the world, our circumstances, God and even our loved one who died. We are angry that grief is so complicated to manage. Our world is suddenly different; it feels empty and very lonely. It can be more difficult when the loss is unexpected. With so much to process, anger may

provide us with an emotional outlet, allowing us temporary control of our environment by using aggression to avoid helpless feelings.

Your anger is natural. It’s like any other feeling and cannot be denied; it must be expressed. It may be as simple as saying,” I am angry,” and discussing your anger. Some of us may need to express it with some safe physical activity, like punching a pillow or, in my case, kicking a chair.

One morning, about two months after Joyce’s death, I woke up one morning very angry. I didn’t understand it, but I was just so furious. I yelled at God for taking her from me and at her for leaving me. I wanted to hit someone or something,

By TOM ROSE Guest Writer

so I kicked a chair, hurting my knee. I spent the rest of the day angry, frustrated and, I guess, embarrassed. That night, I had

to apologize to God and Joyce. But my knee was sore for several days.

Many will question their anger; they will feel ashamed of blaming their loved one for dying and leaving them alone. We humans are not always comfortable with anger, but we must understand that anger is natural and an emotion, a feeling like any other. Many people have not learned to accept anger as a natural part of the grieving process. Not coping with the anger won’t make it disappear. Unresolved, it can lead to anxiety and depression. This anxiety and depression can even lead to mental and physical health problems.

Most of us are ashamed of our anger, especially as a part of grief, but it is not you. Anger is a condition of the mind, like any other emotion. It comes and goes, and anything that comes and goes is not you.

But love doesn’t come and go. Our emotions can sometimes hide it, but it is always there, helping us along our life journey without our loved ones. Remember, it is not a journey of grief but a journey of love.

As I said, our society is not always comfortable with anger, but people get angry often when they are grieving and are not “bad” people. This is just one of many varied and intense emotions in response to losing someone you love. Allowing yourself to experience these feelings, including anger, is essential to coping with grief.

Travel through time

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

As you motor around the country, visiting the grandkids or getting to see the sites on your to-do list or heading back for a class reunion, you can also

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It’s a good way to see America, or whatever country your forebears were from, as well as trace your ancestors.

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Round barns — an endangered species

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If they haven’t already been included in the list of endangered species, round barns should be. Their numbers are getting smaller and smaller because of decay, weather, maintenance expenses and rising taxes.

Back in the middle of the 20th Century, there were more than 440 round and/or polygonal barns throughout the United States. Today, there are less than 100.

Fulton County had more of them (17) than any other

ARTSY APPEARANCE Light filtering through the cupola windows on top of the round barn gives the structural members an artsy geometrical look. These barns were considered easier, cheaper and faster to build than rectangular barns because they utilize one-inch lumber instead of one-foot-thick beams. In addition, nails could be used instead of wood pegs.

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ONLY EIGHT LEFT— Fulton County has just eight round barns left. At one time the county had 17. This barn, which was built in 1924, was donated to the Fulton County Historical Society and relocated to its present site in 1990.

county. In fact, it was known as the “Round Barn Capital of the World” until 1971, when it was discovered that a Wisconsin county had 20. They deferred to Fulton County, so it still holds the title and is still the place to see these magnificent structures. There are only eight left.

The best place is the Round Barn Museum, run by the Fulton County Historical Society, located on U.S. 31, just four miles north of Rochester.

The museum’s barn, which was originally on a dairy farm, has a diameter of 60 feet and is 65 feet tall. The main floor served as storage for hay, straw and grain and now houses a variety of 1900s farm implements. Light filtering through the cupola windows gives the structural members a sort of artsy, geometrical appearance.

Cows were fed and milked in the lower level. All the stalls face inward, making feeding more efficient, saving farmers lots of steps. Purdue University declared in the early 1900s that round barns were economical.

First, their capacity is larger

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Round barns

than rectangular barns. They’re faster, easier and cheaper to construct than a post-and-beam barn because they utilize oneinch lumber instead of one-footthick beams, and nails could be used instead of pegs.

This particular barn was built in 1924, with the last owner, Mr. Paxton, donating it to the Historical Society after a tornado ripped most of the roof off. It was moved to its present site and restored in 1990-91 for $65,000.

Some theories give the English credit for developing round/polygonal barns to protect horses walking in a circle to produce power to operate mills. The earliest one in this country belonged to our first president, George Washington. He had a 16-sided barn built in 1792 on his farm near Mount Vernon. It was torn down in 1870. A replica was erected in 1995-1996.

Shakers built the first true round barn in this country in

Massachusetts in 1824. They preferred round barns because there were no corners for evil spirits to hide in. The height of the roundbarn building boom was in 1910.

The first round barn to be built in the Hoosier state was in 1874 and the last one went up in 1936.

In addition to the round barn, the Historical Society has a large collection of historical memorabilia from the early 1900s and a living history village called Loyal, which existed a few miles away. It was originally known as Germany, but the name was changed to Loyal during World War I. It features structures built between 1900 and 1925.

There is no admission fee to visit the Round Barn Museum, 37 E. CR 375N, Rochester. It’s open from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Saturday. The museum is just four miles north of Rochester on U.S. 31.

For more information, visit fultoncountyhistory.org or call (574) 223-4436.

Nashville show trip in June

By DD RESALES

Don’t miss out on this exciting trip to Nashville, Tenn. Nashville is a hot spot for a good reason — the history, the music, the shows, the museums, and did I mention the music?

This luxury motor coach trip leaves Mishawaka Monday, June 10 for five days and four nights, returning Friday, June 14.

You don’t have to wait until we arrive in Nashville for the fun to begin. Dennis Donathen will be your trip host and this guy always makes traveling a party. You can join in the fun, or just relax as we make our way to Tennessee. Either way, you will find that Dennis takes care of all the planning and the small details to make your trip stress free.

He’s been doing this for a while now and his attention to the details makes each trip go smoothly, so you can enjoy without worry.

This tour includes:

• Motor coach transportation.

• Four nights lodging in the Nashville area.

• Eight meals: four breakfasts and four dinners.

• Two great shows: Grand Ole Opry and Nashville nightlife dinner theater.

• Guided tours of Nashville and Belle Meade historic site

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and winery.

• Admission to the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum.

• Admission to the Grand Ole Opry behind the scenes tour.

• Admission to the Madame Tussaud’s Wax Museum.

The rate on this trip is $830 per person double occupancy; add $180 for single occupancy.

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Nashville Show Trip

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Lunch, Oliver Mansion, Studebaker Museum

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Upcoming Tours

May 24 – Michigan

City Outlet Mall, Michigan City, IN

May 8 – Holland Tulip Festival, Holland, MI

May 8 – Holland Tulip Festival, Holland, MI

May 24 – Michigan City Outlet Mall, Michigan City, IN

May 24 – Michigan

City Outlet Mall, Michigan City, IN

June 1 – Hello Dolly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

June 1 – Hello Dolly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

June 19 - Cook’s Bison Ranch, Wolcottville, IN

June 1 – Hello Dolly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

June 24-28 - Mackinac Island & Sault Sainte Marie, MI

June 19 - Cook’s Bison Ranch, Wolcottville, IN

June 19 - Cook’s Bison Ranch, Wolcottville, IN

June 24-28 - Mackinac Island & Sault Sainte Marie, MI

July 18 - Murder on the Orient Express, Wagon Wheel, Warsaw, IN

June 24-28 - Mackinac Island & Sault Sainte Marie, MI

July 18 - Murder on the Orient Express, Wagon Wheel, Warsaw, IN

Aug. 29 - Love Comes Softly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

July 18 - Murder on the Orient Express, Wagon Wheel, Warsaw, IN

Aug. 29 - Love Comes Softly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

Aug. 29 - Love Comes Softly, Round Barn Theatre, Nappanee, IN

Sept. 18-24 - Boston & Salem, MA

Sept. 18-24 - Boston & Salem, MA

For full information on any of these tours, or to make a reservation, please call 574-537-4090

Sept. 18-24 - Boston & Salem, MA

For full information on any of these tours, or to make a reservation, please call 574-537-4090.

1820 Greencroft Blvd. Goshen, IN 46526 www.greencroft.org Festival, Holland, MI

For full information on any of these tours, or to make a reservation, please call 574-537-4090. Greencroft 1820 Greencroft

IN 46526 www.greencroft.org

FIRE DEPARTMENT WAGON Used by the Rochester firefighters between 1910 and 1917 was this horse-drawn wagon.

TABLE SET FOR DINNER In the Historical Society’s museum are numerous vignettes of life in the first half of the 20th century. This display shows typical tableware and dining room furniture of the period.

50 Years Ago Blast To The Past — ‘Hooked on a Feeling’ opening chant grabbed attention worldwide

Blue Swede

“Ooga-chaka ooga ooga

“Ooga-chaka ooga ooga

“Ooga-chaka ooga ooga

“Ooga-chaka ooga ooga”

These nonsense syllables kicked off Blue Swede’s “Hooked on a Feeling.”

George Jones and the session’s recording engineer.

Let’s jump nearly a decade, to 1968. Songwriter Mark James has composed “Hooked on a Feeling,” a tune he wrote for his friend, singer B. J. Thomas. (James wrote the song about the thrills of being in love with his childhood sweetheart.)

Thomas took James’s work to Number Five on Billboard’s Hot 100.

WORLDWIDE

A Boomer Blast To The Past

By RANDAL C. HILL

As absurd as the “words” are, this opening chant proved to be a goldmine gimmick for grabbing music-listeners’ attention worldwide.

It’s a meandering path that leads to the “ooga-chaka” we heard so often in 1974, so let’s do a little time-traveling.

In 1959, singer Johnny Preston topped the charts with “Running Bear,” a Big Boppercomposed tale of two Native Americans who love each other but are kept apart by their warring tribes. (Shades of Romeo and Juliet!) Preston’s millionseller started with “ugga-ugga ugga-ugga ugga-ugga uggaugga,” a chant provided by both uncredited country superstar

We come now to 1971 and to Jonathan King, a UK music star who had scored a Top 20 American hit in 1965 with the quirky “Everyone’s Gone to the Moon.” King, who realized the power of a “grabber” introduction on a record, took inspiration from the opening of “Running Bear” to create his own nonsense syllables — “oohachagga ooga ooga” — to open his cover version of “Hooked on a Feeling.” His recording did well on the English charts but went unnoticed in the United States.

This brings us (finally) to 1974. In Stockholm, Sweden, the seven-member band Blue Swede, fronted by Bjorn Skifs, recorded the most popular version ever of “Hooked on a Feeling.” Released on EMI Records, it reached Number One in several countries, including ours.

James’s lyrics had claimed that love is like a drug, that one

WINNER Blue Swede took Mark James tune he wrote for BJ Thomas to No 1 in several countries, including the United States.

can be “high on believin’” and that he wants to “stay addicted” to the girl who can turn him on. Pretty innocent stuff, really, but Blue Swede wanted to avoid any possible drug references, so they changed a few words:

B. J. Thomas had claimed

“I got it bad for you, girl

“But I don’t need a cure

“I’ll just stay addicted “If I can endure.”

But Blue Swede offered

“Got a bug from you, girl “But I don’t need no cure “I just stay a victim

“If I can for sure.”

That awkward change — which never made sense — didn’t hinder the song from becoming a worldwide winner.

P. S., Blue Swede is often dismissed as another “one-hit wonder,” having a lone high-

charting disc but no successful follow-ups. Actually, Blue Swede did release a second Top 10 single here, a cover of the Association’s 1967 work “Never My Love.” Peppy though it was, Blue Swede’s rendition lacked “legs,” as their version didn’t have the catchiness of the smash single that had made the Swedish guys a brief headliner in the world of popular music.

Jeff ‘JJ’ Shaw, Attorney at Law