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By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer
April is National Volunteer Month in the United States and one Warsaw organization has no shortage of opportunities for area seniors. The Baker Youth Club in Warsaw has been open for almost a full century and having volunteers in the community of all ages has been a consistent key to its longevity. Tamara Drake serves as director of development for the organization.
“We do utilize a lot of volunteers in a lot of different areas. We use volunteers in all the activities that we do,” Drake said. “We do have groups of seniors that will come in and they will provide and serve food for the youth; or they can sit and have dinner with the kiddos.”
The Baker Youth Club, currently located at 1401 E. Smith St., began as the Baker Boys Club in 1926. It continues to serve youth all over Kosciusko County 99 years later.
“We have a wonderful relationship with the Warsaw school system so we bus to and from every school in the Warsaw school district,” Drake said.
About 180 kids take part in the after school program and 90 kids are in the before school program. While the Baker Youth Club has staff members, mainly through Grace College, volunteers are still needed and Drake feels seniors can make a big impact.
“Read to kids, serve food, play games. There are a lot of physical games that we have. We have a lot of art projects,” Drake said. “Aside from the reading none of our school activities are mandatory because
By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer
Darrell Peterson came to be the executive director of Lifeline Youth Ministries by an indirect path.
Peterson was born in Cincinnati, Ohio, but grew up mainly in the Adirondack Mountains area of New York state. He graduated from the State University of New York with a degree in information systems in 1982.
From there, he moved on to consulting for an engineering firm in Philadelphia. His last project there was designing and building a maintenance management system for the country of Trinidad.
Peterson worked as the business manager for First Baptist Church of Elkhart for five years, then ran a construction company in the area for 10 years.
Wanting to work with youth, he returned to school for a teaching degree from Clark Summit University. Instead of pursuing teaching, however, he was contacted by Lifeline and became executive director in 2009.
“I had had the success in business,” he said of his motivation to switch careers. “I was always involved with youth at our church, from even before I was married.
When I was in college, I was a Sunday school teacher for fifth and sixth grade. ... I thought, ‘this is the way I want to end my life. I want my last run to be for youth.’”
Lifeline Youth Ministries is a faith-based nonprofit that provides after-school programs for elementary, middle and high school students, as well as summer day camp. The organization enrolls about 400 kids, who have a chance to get help with homework, play in the gym, eat snacks and receive a Bible lesson. High schoolers can also get job experience by working with Lifeline’s construction team or apparel business.
As executive director, Peterson said, his days never look the same. When he came to Lifeline, the nonprofit was $100,000 in debt and he was the only programming person on the staff.
In the years since, he and his staff have grown significantly and seen Lifeline through many changes, including a fire at their old building in 2012 and the acquisition of a new one, The Hub, in 2023. In the interim, Lifeline staff visited kids at their schools to hold programs.
Out of all Lifeline’s offers, Peterson said he is most proud of giving kids “a safe place that
they can be themselves.”
He also cites the diversion program as a point of pride. Kids from the Elkhart County Juvenile Detection Center come to a class at The Hub for six weeks, working with trust-based relational, intervention-certified teachers.
“When their six weeks is up they don’t have to come anymore, but over 70% stay full time, which shocked us. ... That speaks volumes to the program,” he remarked.
Of course, no line of work is without its challenges.
“When a student comes in here we really want them to succeed, and very often we want it more than they do. That’s the hard part,” he said. “You do see some really sad stuff. Kids are hurting because they’ve been deserted, they’ve been mistreated or abused. But through the program, we see there’s hope.”
According to Peterson, an accepting mindset is needed to succeed in youth development.
“If you come to Lifeline and say, ‘hey, I’m really going to help these kids be better kids,’ that’s a no,” he explained. “It doesn’t mean we don’t have rules and processes and procedures, but it means these kids know without a shadow of a doubt that we really
care about them.”
Even as he prepares to step down from his role as executive director, Peterson has no plans to stop being involved with Lifeline and will assist his successor, David Gaona, in adapting to
the role.
“We’ve been really intentional about building not just the next generation of youth, but the next generation of staff, and that’s why Lifeline will succeed,” he said.
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we do want them to have fun. The kids have been in school all day and we want them to let off steam in a safe place where they are developing social skills.”
Drake emphasizes Baker Youth Club will work with any volunteer to accommodate ones schedule or passion. She felt just having a different voice in the room can go a long way in impacting the youth.
“The kids see us every day. Having new faces in here that
are caring and nurturing and bringing a different perspective to things is actually really cool. We have some volunteers who come in and shoot baskets with the kids,” Drake said. “We are very flexible when it comes to volunteering.”
A key fundraiser coming up where volunteers will be needed is the Run for the Roses event on Friday, May 2. The Kentucky Derby theme event will offer dinner, an auction and bourbon tasting. Drakes
“We will need a lot of volunteers that day,” Drake said. “Last year was the first year with a derby theme. We had a lot of positive feedback so I am looking forward to this year’s event and see what comes of it. If we have attracted new people to the organization.”
Those wanting to volunteer can call Drake at (574) 267-8771 or contact the Drake online through the bakeryouthclub.com.
Freddy Fender
Freddy Fender had just one year of mainstream stardom, but, man, it was a humdinger!
it was something special.”
However, as he prepared to release a single of “Wasted,” Fender and his bass player were busted in Louisiana for marijuana possession. Sentenced to five years each in Angola Prison, both served fewer than four. The future, though, still seemed anything but bright for the San Benito singer.
creation had been around since 1967, but it was Fender’s fervent rendition — sung in both English and Spanish — that drew interest from recording powerhouse ABC/Dot Records.
“I was reluctant to cut country at first,” said Freddy. “I just wanted to do rock ‘n’ roll and rhythm-and-blues.” But when ABC/Dot leased Meaux’s disc, Fender was on his way.
By RANDAL C. HILL
It was also quite an achievement, considering all the times he had stumbled on his way to the top.
He was born Baldemar Huerta in 1937 in San Benito, Texas. Part of a poor, field-working family, Huerta left high school and joined the Marine Corps. Much of his military time, though, went wasted in an Okinawa brig, due to his drinking binges.
But, during that soul-crushing confinement, he learned of a new type of music that sometimes wafted through the prison corridors.
Music that would change his life. Early rock ‘n’ roll.
He returned to Texas, a goal of musical stardom now burning in his being. “I grew my sideburns, put 50 pounds of wax on my hair, and I thought I was Elvis Presley. That lasted several years. I was nothing but rhythm-and-blues and rock ‘n’ roll.”
At 19, he recorded a Spanish-language version of Presley’s “Don’t Be Cruel.” Huerta’s rendition earned airplay in Latin America, but north of the border nobody seemed to notice.
He soldiered on. In 1959, he adopted the stage moniker Freddy Fender, after the wellknown brand name etched on his electric guitar. (“I thought it would sell better with gringos.”) A year later, a pivotal moment occurred for him when he composed a catchy tune in the restroom of a Harlingen, Texas, joint called the Starlight Club.
The song was “Wasted Days and Wasted Nights.” Later, Freddy would proclaim, “I knew
Sometimes, he wondered if his past poor choices would, in time, condemn him to never rise higher than performing in smoke-filled joints while customers drank, talked, laughed and all but ignored him.
Back in San Benito, Fender worked as a mechanic before meeting Huey Meaux, a shady businessman who owned the record label Crazy Cajun. In 1974, Meaux had Freddy cut a countrified single called “Before the Next Teardrop Falls.” The
In early 1975, his signature tune reached Number One on Billboard’s pop chart. He followed with his own “Wasted Days and Wasted Nights,” a Top Ten single, and ended the year with a version— sung partly in Spanish — of Doris Day’s “Secret Love.”
Billboard proclaimed him Best Male Artist of 1975.
“I was just having fun,” Fender admitted later. “I never thought of becoming a great singer.”
This past week, I did a little shopping to find some warm apparel for our trip to Iceland. I don’t like buying new clothes because I always seem to spill something on them.
By DICK WOLFSIE
If I enjoy my meal at a particular restaurant, I wear the same shirt the next time I am there. When the waiter asks what I’d like for dinner and I have trouble remembering the great choice I made the previous time, I just point to the appropriate spot on my shirt. The server knows exactly what I want.
Mary Ellen also went shopping for our vacation. A woman’s shopping spree lasts longer than a man’s, so I was home for about two hours before Mary Ellen pulled into the driveway.
When she walked into the house, I was trying on a pair of pants I had purchased.
“You have a stain on your pants,” said Mary Ellen.
“That’s impossible. I haven’t even worn them yet.”
“They must really know their customers at Macy’s. They prestained them for you.”
“Well, I guess I can’t wear those to dinner,” I said, hoping to return them and get my money back.
“I think you should wear them, anyway,” said Mary Ellen. “You’re missing a few food groups in your collection. That may be something new you’ve never spilled.”
Then, I reached into the package and pulled out the flannel shirt I had also bought. This was perfect for our trip.
“That’s another bad choice,” said Mary Ellen.
“Why?”
“It has a smudge under the second button.”
Sure enough, once again I had purchased something brand new that had somehow anticipated its unavoidable
destiny to be dripped on.
“Wait a second, Mary Ellen, my tie will cover the problem.”
“That’s super idea, Dick, a tie with a flannel shirt. It’s too bad the Mickey Mouse tie you packed also has a stain on both his ears. Not that you need a tie in Iceland. Did you read the dress code for the trip? We’re going to Iceland, not Disneyland. And I know why you like flannel shirts. All the new drippings blend in together.”
On a previous cruise, Mary Ellen suggested not bringing any fancy clothing for dinner at all, maybe just a good raincoat. The truth is, it’s inappropriate to arrive at a formal meal in a soiled garment, but acceptable to stain it accidentally while eating. That first night, I ordered the shrimp cocktail and effortlessly completed my assignment on my pants.
“Those need to be soaked in
cold water,” said my wife when we were back in our cabin. So, I threw it overboard. After we returned home from our vacation, I washed my clothes and tried to remove the soiled areas, but what remained was evidence of some fine Italian wine and a delicious chicken parmigiana dish. Mary Ellen took more than 1,000 photos on that trip to create lasting memories. I had a better idea. Let’s just say my approach was spot on.
By CECIL SCAGLIONE
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While window seats offer a bit more privacy than an aisle seat and more comfort than a middle seat, it may not have a window at all because not all seating rows line up with the aircraft’s windows.
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Dealing with grief is one of life’s greatest challenges. Through the suggestion of a friend, I discovered that a grief journal can be a powerful tool for working through emotions, helping me reflect and confront my feelings.
Understanding why grief arises can shed light on the importance of expression. Bottling up emotions can lead to feelings of loneliness and depression, which can weigh heavily on the heart. A grief journal serves as a safe space to release, process and gradually let go of those feelings. Writing about grief allows for deeper understanding, promotes
Creating your journal can be straightforward. A basic composition book from a local store or a digital journal online can be perfect. While a formal structure may appeal to some, daily, free form writing about your feelings often yields the most profound insights. It doesn’t need to be polished; simply express what you feel and think in a way that feels right for you.
Don’t pressure yourself to be creative while navigating grief. The words may not flow easily at first, but as you commit to writing, inspiration will grow.
Revisiting past entries can ignite motivation and provide comfort.
To support your writing journey, consider these prompts to spark your thoughts and maintain focus:
• How do you feel today? Describe that feeling.
• Share a memory of your loved one.
• Write down all the things your loved one used to say.
• Write a message to your loved one.
• Find a quote that resonates with you.
• Find a song that resonates with you.
• Write about what you miss.
• Write about what you plan to do moving forward.
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By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer
Though retired, Kathy Kiern is still using her education and financial know how to help others through the Voluntary Income Tax Assistance Program at Grace College.
Kiern grew up in Mentone and graduated from Mentone High School in 1973. In 1975, she moved to Warsaw and got her associate’s degree in accounting from Ivy Tech University.
After working for the Bureau of Motor Vehicles for several years, she moved on to working as payroll manager for Lake City Bank, the position she retired from.
Fifteen years ago, Lake City Bank was doing some community reinvestment hours — service hours banks and other financial institutions use to better the community around them.
Through that initiative, Kiern got involved with volunteering for V.I.T.A.
V.I.T.A. is a program that provides free income tax preparation for low-income individuals.
“I was really nervous about preparing my first return,” she recalled.
She had her degree and, as a payroll manager, she was familiar with the forms but had never actually prepared taxes before. Still, she passed the federal income tax test all V.I.T.A. volunteers are required to take every year.
Once she got started, Kiern found confidence in her abili-
ty to help people.
“This one young gal, when I told her how much her refund was going to be, she cried, and I thought, ‘okay, I can do this,’” she recalled.
After 10 years volunteering with the program, Kiern retired from Lake City Bank but continued to give her time to V.I.T.A .because “it’s just about helping people out.”
“It’s so expensive to go to an accountant ... Some of these people have unemployment or three or four jobs in a year, and the more forms you take, the more expensive it is,” she explained. “When you see some of them come in and with the income they have and you’re able to say, ‘you’re going to get a refund,’ that’s really rewarding.”
While some people in the V.I.T.A. program are seniors, students taking a federal income tax class for their degrees at Grace are required to do 20 hours of V.I.T.A. volunteer work, so there’s a mix of age groups among the volunteers.
Kiern said she enjoys working alongside the students. She often bakes cookies and brings them in for her fellow volunteers to enjoy, naming chocolate chip as the group favorite.
Kiern is also involved with her community through local government. Since the 1980s, Kiern has been a precinct committeewoman with the Republican party in her district, Wayne Township 2. She works the polling center every election, but has been doing so since before she be-
came a committeewoman.
Her history of civic involvement actually began back in 1972, when she was 17 years old. She got to skip a day of school to work at the polling center during that year’s primary election.
“The precinct committee-
man at the time in Mentone knew I was going to be old enough and he called me up,” she said.
Later that year, she voted for the first time in the 1972 presidential election.
Outside her volunteer activities, Kiern likes to crochet afghans and a variety of other items. She also works in her garden, canning vegetables and making homemade sauces from what she grows.
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foster consistent practice. The more often you write, the easier it will become.
Reading your entries is an invaluable part of the process. Initially challenging, revisiting your words can deepen your understanding of your feelings. You may wish to share your
reflections with a trusted friend or family member or keep them for personal introspection.
A grief journal is an effective way to navigate the complex emotions of loss. While the stages of grief require time, writing allows you to express and heal. It keeps you connected to your loved one and
She and her husband have four children, eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.
preserves cherished memories. My greatest fear after my wife’s passing was forgetting those memories, but writing has helped keep them alive. My journal, which turned into a book called “Balloon in a Box,” will always be a part of me and a treasured memento for my family for years to come.
By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer
Being named to the Indiana High School Tennis Coaches Association Hall of Fame was one thing, but Fairfield High School tennis coach Michael Filbrun knew that meant he would have to give a speech. Those close to Filbrun know speeches are not something he looks forward to.
“I was nervous for about two weeks before that. I don’t look forward to public speaking. I had a lot of people to thank,” Fibrun said.
Filbrun had his induction ceremony in February and said the nerves from his speech did not impact the fun he had that night.
“It was really a nice evening. Had a number of family, assistant coaches and players who came to the event,” Filbrun said.
Filbrun has been coaching tennis at Fairfield going back to 1995 and has led the girls and boys programs. He stepped down from the girls program last year but is still coaching the boys 30 years later. He was one of six coaches inducted to the hall of fame
this year.
“This is an award that is not just for one person. This is a program award. I’ve been so lucky to have supportive parents of my players,” Filbrun said. “Been so lucky to have really good assistant coaches. Obviously lucky to have a lot of really good players. Of course, my family who has been supportive to me for so long.”
In his years of coaching, Filbrun has won almost 800 matches at Fairfield. In his 55 seasons he has won 453 matches with the boys and 339 with the girls. The numbers have added up for the Falcon tennis programs to make them the school leaders in conference and postseason championships. Given the track record of success, Filbrun says it would be impossible for him to single out one season in particular.
“No way I could pick a favorite season. Maybe its kind of cliche, but every year has been fun. Every year has its ups and downs. No season is perfect but every season has had its upside,” Filbrun said.
Back in 1995, Filbrun says the tennis job kind of “fell
into his lap.” He played tennis as a student at Fairfield and the program needed a leader when he began teaching at the school. He accepted the role two weeks before his first season.
As a player, Filbrun does not boast about his performance at Fairfield.
“My parents bought me my first racket when I was in the fifth grade,” Filbrun said. “I was never very good. I was the picture of mediocrity.”
One key to success for the Falcons and Filbrun was having his father, Lonney Filbrun, on his coaching staff. His father supported him at the hall of fame ceremony and was an assistant coach on the team.
“I got to coach with my dad for 27 seasons. I feel really fortunate that we got to do that,” Filbrun said.
The success of the tennis program has also led to higher interest in the area to play for Filbrun. The increased interest led the school district to improve the home tennis courts.
“We’ve got 10 new courts. For the majority of my career we had six. I appreciate the effort of the school and the community for getting the
number of courts up. That really helps a lot. We had 35 kids this season. That’s the most we’ve ever had. We wouldn’t have done that if we were still at the six courts.”
Q. When should I tell my family about my
A. Many people struggle with this question, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer. Each family dynamic is unique, and feelings about privacy and disclosure vary from person to person. Some individuals choose to keep their affairs confidential to avoid potential disagreements or unsolicited advice. Others believe transparency can prevent future conflict by clarifying roles and intentions.
However, even if you prefer not to share every detail, it is often helpful to let loved ones know at least the location of your critical documents. Knowing where to find your Will, Powers of Attorney, Appointment of Health Care Representative, and other estate planning records, can ease stress during unexpected events. This knowledge can also streamline the process of carrying out your wishes if something happens to you.
Ultimately, the decision about when and how much to tell your family depends on your personal comfort level and the nature of your relationships. Whether you opt for full disclosure or a more reserved approach, the most important goal is to ensure that your wishes are known and respected.
April brings not only showers that nurture May flowers but also two significant events for seniors in Michiana. We invite you to listen to the April episodes of the Senior Talk Michiana podcast.
A. On the April 7th episode, we welcome Malana Maher from Aging Connections of Michiana, who will provide insights into the upcoming 2025 Active Aging & Wellness Resource Fair, scheduled for April 17th at the Elkhart County Fairgrounds.
Our April 14th episode features Brock Rose, the director of the Wakarusa Chamber of Commerce, sharing details about the highly anticipated 2025 Wakarusa Maple Syrup Festival, taking place from April 25th to 27th. This year, the festival introduces the Senior Oasis, sponsored by Goshen Health and Senior Talk Michiana.
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“All the support she has given me over the years,” Filbrun said, “coach’s spouses have to go through a lot. A lot of behind the scenes things.”
Filbrun continues to teach math in the school district and is thankful for his wife, Jenna, for putting up with his athletic schedule.
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Honeywell Arts & Entertainment and The Lerner Theatre are excited to announce Air Supply — 50th Anniversary Celebration, coming to the historic Lerner Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Saturday, April 26.
Tickets for the concert are on sale now with prices ranging from $119, $99, $79, $69.00 and $59 (plus fees).
Become a Friend of The Lerner for access to all Lerner Theatre presales, by friendsoft-
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If it’s true that practice makes perfect, then Air Supply’s Graham Russell and Russell Hitchcock have had nearly half a century to master their craft. As they approach 50
years since meeting, they remain ever present on the road, nearing their 5,500th show in fall 2024. Their legacy includes hits like “Lost in Love,” “All Out of Love,” and “Making Love Out of Nothing at All,” with upcom-
Regulars and fan favorites from “Kill Tony,” the No. 1 live podcast in the world, bring their standup show on the road with “Killers of Kill Tony,” coming to The Lerner Theatre at 7 p.m. Friday, July 25. Tickets are on
sale now. Tickets are $65.75, $55.75, $49.75 and $39.75 (plus fees). Visit thelerner.com or The Lerner Box Office: (574) 293-4469
Building upon the success and energy of “Kill Tony,” “Kill-
ers of Kill Tony” showcases the diverse talent pool of comedians who have graced the stage of the original podcast with their wit, humor and unique comedic styles. “Killers of Kill Tony” will feature your favorite characters
The Lerner Theater recently announced Lunchtime Live Kimball Organ Concerts with Celia Weiss. Lunchtime Live is a non-ticketed, free event for the community of Elkhart to enjoy and all proceeds go to benefit the Lerner Volunteer Program.
The concert will take place 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Wednesday, May 21.
The Lerner is pleased to welcome an Elkhart favorite, Celia Weiss, back on piano and The Lerner’s 1924 Kimball Organ in this free community series.
Weiss is one of few musical artists who hold the enviable record of having served as a soloist on two different musical instruments. A pianist
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
When kaffeeklatsch conversation turns to telephone scams, most of us shake our heads and wonder how anyone can be gullible enough to fall victim to such obvious attempts to part you from your money.
Whether or not you feel you’re too smart to fall for such ploys, more than one out of 10 people around you lost money in the past year to just such a scheme. This number may be too low because many victims feel ashamed to admit they were duped.
Crooked callers take in more than $10.5 billion from an estimated 45 million people every year in the U.S.
When you get a call offering you the opportunity of a lifetime or announcing that you’ve won something or warning that you owe money and can eliminate a problem with your credit if you act right now — hang up.
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doing their longer standup sets, all in one night.
The current “Killers of Kill Tony” lineup includes Kam Patterson, Ari Matti, Martin Phillips and David Jolly. This lineup is subject to change. Become a Friend of The Lerner for access to all Lerner Theatre presales, including this event at friendsofthelerner.org/donate/.
ing projects including a biopic, Broadway musical, autobiography and their eighteenth studio album, “A Matter of Time.” VIP Packages Available
• Air Supply VIP Sound Check Meet & Greet Package
Package Includes: Premium ticket, photo meet and greet with Air Supply, attend sound check, Q&A session with Air Supply, and collectible VIP laminate.
• Air Supply On-Stage Viewing Experience Package
Package Includes: Watching the first three songs from a special viewing area on stage, premium ticket, photo meet and greet with Air Supply, attend sound check, Q&A session with Air Supply, and collectible VIP laminate.
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and organist well known to local audiences, the artist has appeared on numerous occasions with the Elkhart County Symphony Orchestra, the South Bend Symphony Orchestra, the IUSB Philharmonic, the Manchester University Symphony Orchestra and in recitals throughout the area.
Weiss is an adjunct assistant professor of Music at IUSB for the Raclin School of the Arts where she teaches organ. She is a past recipient of the IUSB Merit Status and Outstanding Alumni Awards. She holds a B.M.E from Manchester College and an M.M. in piano from Indiana University. An educator as well as a performer, she has taught music in the Elkhart and Goshen Community Schools and piano at Goshen College. Since 1975, she has held the position of director
of music and organist for the First Presbyterian Church in Elkhart. She is a frequent accompanist for the Elkhart County Symphony Orchestra and performs several piano and organ concerts for the Lerner Theatre’s “Lunchtime Live!” each year.
The 1924 Kimball pipe organ located in Elkhart’s Lerner Theatre is one of only two Kimball pipe organs currently installed in its original location. The organ was restored following the 2011 renovation of the theatre, which opened on Thanksgiving Day, 1924. After the restoration, a crew of nearly 20 from Bunn-Minnick Pipe Organs of Columbus, Ohio, spent three weeks hoisting equipment and filling the two pipe chambers with more than 1,000 pipes. The project absorbed nearly 10,000 manhours for the crew over a year. bit.ly/LunchtimeLive2025
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May 18, 2025, 4 P.M. Lerner Theatre, Elkhart, IN Soo Han, Conn-Selmer Endowed Music Director
Guests: rebel noire and the accomplices
The dynamic 77th season fi nale, rebelSYMPHnoire, features guest performers rebel noire and the accomplices—a local Eclectic Rock/Spoken Word ensemble that creates original songs exploring themes of power, resistance, and the complex textures of human love. The repertoire includes Ethel Smyth, Boatswain’s Mate Overture; Choi, Arirang Fantasy; Theofanidis, Rainbow Body; and works by rebel noire and the accomplices. For information and tickets, visit elkhartsymphony.org
By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer
“I was born and raised in Iowa,” stated Sheri Olson, Warsaw. “Our family went to the Baptist Church, and I came to know Jesus when I was only 3. My mother was reading me a Bible story and I decided it was time for me to trust Jesus and ask Him into my heart. Since we were living with my grandparents in between moves, my mother told me to run downstairs and tell them I asked Jesus into my heart. It’s important to share that decision with others.”
Olson has many fond mem-
ories of the church when she was growing up. “Church was a place where we sang and prayed together. We listened to sermons and learned in Sunday school. We had potlucks and fellowship.”
Olson attended Faith Baptist Bible College in Ankeny, Iowa. Even though she was still single, she attended a pastor’s wife class. “We were asked to write out our testimony. The teacher took me aside and we went through some verses together. It helped me to be sure of my salvation.”
She moved into the Kosciusko area in 1987. “I was working at Crystal Lake Camp outside
of Warsaw. I then started working at Warsaw Childcare Center. I’ve always loved working with kids.”
It was while going to Mentone First Baptist Church that Olson met her future husband. “In 1990, Joe Olson became pastor of our church. He came with his wife and four children. In 2001, he lost his wife, Brenda, to cancer.”
Since Sheri Olson had become a friend of the family, she knew the pastor and his family from years of serving together at the church. She married Joe Olson in May of 2002.
In 2004, Sheri and Joe Olson moved to Illinois and Joe became the director of the RHMA mission. Sheri Olson was the conference coordinator for five years.
Eventually, Joe Olson missed the pastorate. He took a pastorate at Checkrow Community Church, where Sheri Olson started a preschool program. They moved back into the area and are now going to Community Grace Church in Warsaw. This summer, Joe Olson will begin pastoring Faith Baptist Church in North Manchester.
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By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
Nobody’s saying much about Social Security these days thanks to the divisive and diversionary talk and tactics of the folks in Washington who should be attending to the problem.
What problem, you may ask, and that’s the point here.
Politicians palm off any prodding about the program by proclaiming the Social Security trust fund is solvent for the next half decade or so. This fund was built up during the years when withholdings from workers’ income exceeded what was paid to beneficiaries.
What is not mentioned is that there is no money in that fund. The cash that flowed in was diverted to various government programs and replaced with IOUs — government-issued bonds.
ing your retirement benefits at different ages.
We base your benefit on how much you earned during your working career. Higher lifetime earnings result in higher benefits. If there were some years you didn’t work or had low earnings, your benefit amount may be lower than if you had worked steadily. If you never worked and did not pay Social Security taxes, and have a spouse who worked, you may be eligible for spouse’s benefits. You must be at least 62 years old, and your spouse must already be receiving retirement or disability benefits. If you are a younger spouse, you may be eligible for benefits if you have a qualifying child in your care. By a qualifying child, we mean a child who is under age 16 or who receives Social Security disability benefits. You can learn more at ssa.gov/retirement. Share this information with family and friends to help them prepare for their financial future.
Withdrawals for payments to Social Security beneficiaries are funded by these bonds, which are a debt. The federal government raises money three ways: it prints it, it creates, raises and imposes taxes, or it issues bonds
that increases its debt.
Politicians do admit benefits will have to be lowered when the fund runs dry. Monthly benefits are expected to be cut by as much as 25 or 30% of the current level.
There are still folks who believe the money they’ve paid into Social Security during their working life has been diverted into a special account with their name on it.
Not so.
It’s a pay-as-you-go system. Today’s workers support today’s Social Security recipients and tomorrow’s beneficiaries will receive their benefits from tomorrow’s workers.
That unveils a serious problem. The source of income — workers — is diminishing while the phalanx of recipients — an aging population — is growing.
When Social Security went into effect in 1935, it was designed to provide economic security to retired workers. Four years later, the program was expanded to include their dependents and survivors, and several changes have been made since.
The full-retirement age of 65
Continued from page 8 at a time. People with cancer encourage me and I encourage them. It helps us make it through the treatments.” Her favorite song is “Living Hope” by Phil Wickham.
special education. I always try to look past their disabilities. I can’t do a lot of sharing about Jesus. But I can give them hugs and show them His love. I try to teach them in better and unique ways. I meet them in the cafeteria in the morning and dismiss them to the bus in the afternoon. I’m a friend who strives to always be there.”
Sheri Olson has been diagnosed with cancer three times.
“My word is hope. I hope and trust in Jesus. Only He can get me through the chemotherapy sessions and the fear that goes with the diagnosis.”
Her life’s verse comes from Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ Who gives me strength.”
“In my cancer battle I’ve learned to trust Jesus one day
was changed to 66 in 2009 and upped to 67 in 2023. Politicians are talking about extending that to 70 to ease the financial strain on the system.
During the mid-1940s, there were slightly more than 40 workers contributing to Social Security for every one recipient. In 2009, there were three contributors for every recipient. That ratio has tightened since and forecasters foresee the day approaching when there will be only two workers supporting each Social Security recipient. There are more than 71 million people receiving Social Security benefits now and, while everyone admits that number will grow, no one has set a ceiling on the maximum total.
Exacerbating the problem is that retirees are living longer than decades ago, meaning they require benefits longer than recipients a few decades ago. Pundits and politicians exude confidence that Social Security will remain in place. What they can’t tell you is how much benefits will be and at what age they will begin.
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Sheri Olson still plans on keeping her para job when Joe Olson starts his pastorate in North Manchester. “We’ll drive back and forth on Sundays and Wednesdays.”
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By CECIL SCAGLIONE
Mature Life Features
Helping each other is part of our genes, whether we know it or like it or not.
We help our aging parents, neighbors and friends as they become frail and their abilities to cope with the world around them fade.
Our children learn how to walk and cope with the world around them with our help.
But, whether it’s because of
macho or manners, there seems to be resistance to ask for help.
Just think about the cliché couple in a car looking for an address. They waste much time driving around proclaiming it should be just around the corner when all they would have to do is stop and ask directions from a passerby or shop owner who’s familiar with the neighborhood.
They claim they don’t want to look stupid, so they act stupidly.
As we age, many of us think we’ll look like we’re losing it if we
ask for help. You read of seniors dying of heart attacks shoveling snow from their driveway. And you hear oldsters complain about their aching back as they heft heavy grocery bags into and out of the trunk of their car.
They should be asking someone for help with these chores. For example, shopping trips can be coordinated with a family member, friend or neighbor who can help with the loading and unloading.
This means you should quit caring about whether or not you
look self-reliant or lazy.
While “Please” and “Thank You” should be atop your list of vocabulary used on a daily basis, you can slip “I need your help” right behind them.
Get used to this phrase. Use it when you walk up to a bank teller. Instead of telling them you want to make a deposit, you might say, “I need your help to make this deposit.”
You’ll find the teller’s attitude friendlier and much less business-like because you’re asking
By CECIL SCAGLIONE
Mature Life Features
The only normal thing about normal is that it constantly changes.
Life changed when Henry Ford initiated the assembly line so everyone could get a car of any color “as long as it was black,” he said.
The new normal of the 1950s was drastically different than the old normal of the 1940s as most of the globe was licking its scars after a massive war.
The normal also changed with the introduction of the telephone, then television and then the Internet and cell phones.
Some simple lifestyle changes emerged out of the corona-virus pandemic.
Having groceries delivered
after ordering online seems to have caught on.
Unlike many European shoppers, we don’t head out daily to shop for fresh victuals for dinner. We buy family-sized and frozen-food packages that we keep stocked up in our fridges and freezers. Many folks who made the weekly or twice-amonth trek to the supermarket discovered the convenience of delivery during the COVID-19 shutdown.
Store operators, including those that offered shopping service before COVID-19, found they could stock their shelves quickly while putting together orders to deliver to online and telephone shoppers.
Another entry into normalcy is the expansion of telemedicine. Visits to the doctor are being via
cyberspace with your computer or smart phone. This practice is catching on as the senior population grows and the supply of doctors diminishes.
Studies and surveys reveal that most of your time during an hour-or-so visit to your primary care physician or specialist is spent with aides and assistants who update your history and prepare you for a five- to 10-minute face-to-face chat with the doctor.
Most non-emergency visits can be managed by computer and medication can be delivered by the pharmacy.
Another interesting development is the wearing masks in public. While still sporadic on
this side of the Pacific, most of us have seen televised events from Japan revealing streets packed with people wearing masks.
The Japanese “germ mask” dates back more than eight decades as a safeguard against rising air-pollution that was a byproduct of industrialization.
High-tech pollution-barrier masks are a norm in China’s major cities. Philippine motorcycle riders wear masks to deflect vehicular exhausts in heavy traffic.
In Taiwan, older people add sunglasses and sun hats to masks to obscure their entire faces. The full blockade wards off sunburns.
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By CECIL SCAGLIONE
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When we’re sick, injured or close to dying, we look for aid and assistance from the medical community — doctors, nurses, pharmacists and medical technicians.
Yet as many as 400,000 people are killed every year by these same people, not on purpose, but because of errors in judgment and treatment. That’s 10 times more than the number that die in traffic accidents.
Medical mistakes are the third leading cause of death in this country, next to heart
disease and cancer.
While medical health-care personnel are dedicated to keeping the ill and ailng alive and well, errors occur simply because they’re human, and humans make mistakes.
Death due to medical error is defined as one that is caused by inadequately skilled staff, error in judgment or care, a system defect, or a preventable adverse effect. This includes computer breakdowns, mix-ups with the doses or types of medications administered to patients, and surgical complications that go undiagnosed.
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for their help — because studies reveal people actually do want to help each other. All they need is to be asked.
Asking for help most likely will start with members of your family — brothers, sisters, sons, daughters and in-laws — and expand to friends, colleagues, co-workers and neighbors.
You might be looking for someone to help with your taxes or get you to medical appointments or find the right kinds of plants to make your yard easier to maintain. Be very clear on what you need and when you need it.
Let the person you’re asking know right off that they can say no if they can’t help you. You don’t need or want an explanation.
Thank them for listening and ask if there’s someone they know who might be able help you. Then ask if there’s anything you can do to help them.
By JIM CARPENTER Guest Writer
Looking out the window, into a landscape, that is barren, desolate, and cold.
He somehow senses a comparison with his own season of getting old.
Though there is much that he is thankful for as he surveys his many years. It seemed that joy could always be found, even when it was mixed with tears.
His springtime was a special time.
Adventure on a fertile scale. The work of summer was met with passion.
Raising kids, potatoes, and kale.
Fall would be a defining season.
Reflecting on the harvest made.
A bounty of nourishing memories that would brighten winter’s shade.
The seasons will come and the seasons will go.
Growth and drought, sun and rain.
A mimic of what our lives will bring.
Some tempering loss among the gain.
The path is narrow, it may not be true.
It’s quite different for everyone.
The old man blinks and thinks of his life.
And realizes, he has already won.
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Imagine, for a few moments, that you are a fly on the wall.
By RANDAL C. HILL
It’s 1970 and you’re in the offices of a top-rated Chicago marketing and advertising firm. Folks there are listening attentively to Orville Redenbacher, a Purdue University-educated agricultural scientist with a somewhat goofy — almost cartoonish — appearance.
For three hours, Redenbacher has gleefully extolled the virtues of the “gourmet” popping corn he and his business partner Charles Bowman call Red Bow, a blending of their last names. “Reddy,” as he calls himself, is there to learn the
best marketing strategies for their product, which has never sold very well.
At the end of the meeting, Redenbacher is told to come back in one week for the recommendations.
What he is told later leaves him almost gasping in disbelief.
According to the Windy City wise men, he and Bowman should rename their product Orville Redenbacher’s Gourmet popping corn. And, even more importantly, that Redenbacher’s grinning “country bumpkin” image — wavy, snow-white hair; thick, horned-rim glasses and an absurdly oversize bow tie — should grace the front of every package.
Redenbacher is then handed a bill for $13,000 (about $105,000 in today’s currency).
Ouch!
He pays the fee while silently fuming and undoubtedly thinking, THIS is what we’re
being charged for seven days’ worth of collaboration from a highly recommended advertising team?
But, as it turned out, the unorthodox advice was akin to hitting a home run with the bases loaded. Before long,
America’s newest celebrity was appearing in national TV ads, smiling broadly and proclaiming, “You’ll like it better or my name isn’t Orville Redenbacher.”
As a result, the scrumptious snack flew off grocery shelves everywhere, and by the mid1970s the brand had captured one-third of the lucrative popcorn market — proof that snack-loving customers were willing to shell out more cash for popcorn that was larger,
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Living alone has its banes and benefits.
The single life allows you flexibility and freedom to set your own schedule and suit your own tastes.
On the other hand, folks who have been wed for decades and
lose their lifetime partner can have traumatic times learning how to cope with loneliness and finding diversions to keep themselves busy.
Lifestyle changes are economic as well as emotional. The surviving partner suddenly has to learn how to shop and save, especially when it comes to groceries.
lighter, more flavorful and left few, if any, unpopped kernels.
that they had reached popcorn paradise with what they felt was the ideal product.
Not only is it difficult to cook for one person, it’s difficult to shop for one person.
Like a multitude of other single and senior, citizens, you probably waste a lot. Many of you probably have learned how to cut back on shopping costs and the amount of food you toss into the trash.
One way to cut down on both
cost and waste is to shop more often. Many Europeans still drop by the local food counters daily to pick up fresh meat, fruit and vegetables for their daily meals.
This allows them to pick a few pieces of chicken, a fresh tomato, a small head of lettuce, a newly baked roll and a couple of eggs to go with the bacon and cheese and other longer-lasting victuals they have in their larder.
Popcorn had always fascinated Indiana-born Orville Clarence Redenbacher. Named after aviation pioneer Orville Wright, Redenbacher partnered with Charles Bowman, a fellow Purdue agricultural graduate. Together, they bought a small corn-seed company and set about toiling six long years and experimenting with over 30,000 popping-corn hybrids before declaring in 1965
Their original offering — Red Bow Gourmet popping corn — soon appeared on market shelves. When buyers saw the higher price, though, they pretty much ignored it.
Thanks, Mom. You did your part. Continued from page 14
In 1970, Redenbacher and Bowman decided they needed guidance from savvy marketeers. So Orville traveled to Chicago, where he met with the marketing team.
Were the Hoosier State partners charged too much for the unorthodox suggestions? Before you answer, consider this: In 1976, food giant Hunt and Wesson paid $4 million to buy the thriving company. ($4 million = $22 million in today’s cash.)
Yet Redenbacher always grumbled that he had been charged a fortune for the name that his mother had thought up when Orville was born back in 1907.
When you do your shopping, take a list of what you need for the meals you’ve planned until your next shopping trip. You won’t buy as much and you might not throw anything out.
If you’re able, take a basket instead of a shopping cart. This will curb your impulse to buy.
Paying cash also cuts down on your spending. The amount you pay has much more meaning than just inserting your credit or debit card into the machine at the cashier’s station.
Supermarket shopping may be the handiest, but not necessarily
the wisest or cheapest. A nearby bakery or butcher can help you eat better and fresher. You can work with each to enhance your daily menus while saving money. How you use your refrigerator can be as wasteful. Just tossing your salad fixings and fruit into the crispers expecting them to last until you’re ready to eat them is a sure signal some of it is going to wind up in the garbage can. It becomes part of the 20% of food we waste in this nation.
There’s a lot of waste sitting in many freezers. When left too long, “freezer burn” can affect the taste of many foods, which normally gets thrown out.
By following the shopping rules set out earlier, you can regulate the amount of food you freeze and for how long.
While gracing your table with fresh food you like, paying attention to your choices not only is more satisfying, it can save you money.
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The free Elkhart County Active Aging and Wellness Resource Fair will be from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Thursday, April 17, at the Elkhart County Community Center, Elkhart County 4-H Fairgrounds, 17746-D CR 34, Goshen.
Parking and admission are free, as well as health screenings and resources, information to stay active and healthy, veterans’ resources, entertainment and raffle prizes.
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People can speak with 75-plus local aging resources on site to help you transition seamlessly through the best phase of life. This is a “onestop-shopping” experience for community members looking to connect with valuable local resources.
Attendees will learn about the community’s various services, programs, and support. Whether you’re seeking health-related information,
legal advice, or social services, this event will offer a wealth of knowledge. Come for the resources, stay for the free entertainment.
“An event like this will help you foster connections. You can meet professionals, community members, and organizations working together to support our aging population,” said Malana Maher, president and founder of ACOM. “So, whether you’re a senior or assisting an older family member, this event will help you discover services you might not know exist.”
As the area’s leading aging resource organization, Aging Connections connects individuals with the services and providers that best meet their current needs.
“So, we encourage everyone to attend this free event to discover caring professionals who can help you navigate the continuum of care,” said Maher.
Founded in 2020, Aging Connections is a nonprofit, grassroots cooperative of individuals and organizations working together to catalyze and promote their work programs. Their programs include educational events, business promotion, community and relationship building, and serving the aging population, for the benefit of each other, other professionals, and communities.
Aging Connections currently serves northern Indiana and southwestern Michigan, including St. Joseph and Elkhart counties.
For additional information regarding Aging Connections or to see updated event information, visit agingconnections.org.
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
As you slow down with age — you and your colleagues don’t have coffee as often as you used to, you’re golf games aren’t as frequent and you don’t head out for dinner as many times as you used to — your demands on the family flivver lessen.
You probably could sell it and use other modes of transportation to get you where you want to go these days.
Keeping your vehicle handy offers an independence most of us enjoy and you might even be attached to it a bit, so you want to keep it from slowing down with age.
A mechanic’s advice from years ago still applies: “Keep it oiled and greased and it’ll run forever.” Add to that a weekly wash. And wax it regularly to protect its finish.
If you don’t have a garage or car port at home, park it in the shade when possible to keep it from baking in the sun.
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By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features
The most successful vice president who had any ambition was Teddy Roosevelt, but ...
The list of the American veeps is riddled with forgettable politicians who made little or no contribution to United States history other than taking up space on dusty pages that are not much of scholarly interest.
Consider Hannibal Hamlin, Charles Warren Fairbanks, Henry Wilson, Charles Curtis or George Mifflin Dallas. Sound familiar?
How about Schuyler Colfax and Henry Wilson who were both a heartbeat from the White House? They served as veeps for Ulysses S. Grant.
In 1992, history author Steve Tally penned “Bland Ambition,” a listing of our vice presidents. He begins with John Adams, who backed up George Washington, our first president and ends with Dan Quayle, who was the veep for George H.W. Bush, our 41st president.
Unlike tall and handsome General Washington, Adams was short, round, dumpy, peevish, a loudmouth and a frequent bore. He was not very well liked and saw no redeeming qualities to being vice president.
J. Danforth Quayle wasn’t exactly “Mr. Excitement.” He once was suspected of being a ladies’ man who had an illicit affair, to which his wife reportedly retorted: “Anyone who knows Dan Quayle knows that he’d rather play golf any day than have sex.”
Teddy Roosevelt was William McKinley’s veep. Before assuming the Oval Office upon
McKinley’s assassination, he had attended law school. As No. 2, Teddy was afraid he would not have a great deal to do.
Lincoln’s veep upon his re-election was Andrew Johnson, who was impeached and escaped conviction by one vote.
There was a time in the mid1970s when the name “Millard Fillmore” became a joke. Yet he rose from log-cabin poverty to wealth and life in the White House.
Fillmore attended one-room schools and, in 1823, was admitted to the New York bar. Seven years later he moved his law practice to Buffalo and was
a member of the U.S. House of Representatives for eight years. In 1848, Fillmore was elected vice president to Zachary Taylor’s presidency. Taylor died two years later, leaving the White House to Fillmore.
When Fillmore left office, Oxford University offered to give him an honorary degree, which he declined. He was afraid the students and faculty would ask, “Who is he and what has he done.” He said it would give people ample opportunity to make his name a joke. Ironically, he was prophetic.
America’s fifth veep was Elbridge Gerry, pronounced with
a hard “G,” who served under James Madison from 1813-1814. He brought about the term and tradition of “Gerrymandering,” an oft-times questionable policy of redrawing Congressional boundaries.
Gerry was one of the original signers of the Declaration of Independence and also was one of the delegates to the Constitutional Convention.
When John Adams became president, he appointed Gerry, John Marshall and Charles Pickney to represent America in France. Through some back-channel bargaining, Gerry got the French navy to stop
raiding American vessels on the high seas.
Later, after four tries, Gerry was elected governor of Massachusetts. During his first term as governor, he signed a redistricting bill that ultimately gained him the political immortality he has since enjoyed.
The stories are involved and interesting so it might be time to recall these famous last words.
They’re attributed to President Lyndon B. Johnson’s vice president, Hubert Humphrey, who said: “Where I stand depends on where I sit.”
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In the mid-1800s, the Eel River that starts in northeast Indiana and joins the Wabash River at Lafayette, had a total of 13 mills. Just one is still standing, still operates and is open for visitors to experience the intricate workings of a thriving enterprise of a bygone era.
The Stockdale Mill, which
is on the National Register of Historic Places, is just west of Roann in Wabash County. It’s open for tours Saturdays (May through October) from noon to 4 p.m.
Built in 1857, the mill is actually the second to operate on the site. The original mill was built in 1840 on top of a timber dam in the middle of the river. The first mill was a grist mill using grindstones. One was found buried on the property in 2008.
In 1852, flood waters severely damaged it and the dam and plans were made to construct a new one, on solid ground on the north side of the river with a new concrete dam. Water is
diverted from the river on a mill race that flows into the basement, where it turns three vertical turbines creating about 75 horsepower.
Farmers brought their wheat and corn by wagon onto a scale where it was weighed. The front end of the scale floor was manually lifted by ropes and pulleys so that the grain would fall out the back of the wagon into a holding bin in the basement. When empty, the scale floor was lowered and the wagon was weighed again to determine what the farmer would get for his crop.
In its heyday, the mill could turn out 50 barrels of flour a
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day. During the Civil War, flour from Stockdale Mill supplied the Union Army.
From the holding bin, the grain made its way to the fourth floor via elevators (belts with attached cups) where it went down chutes to the first floor to be run through iron rollers to break up the grain. It was then sent back up to the top for sifting and cleaning, and then returned for more refining. It went through a series of eight sets of rollers before it was finally bagged and pronounced ready for baking.
Be prepared to climb some pretty steep steps to get to the fourth floor, where wooden chutes crisscross each other going in every direction. Products made from wheat included middling’s (chicken feed), cereal (wheat germ), flour and bran. At that time, bran was considered a waste product and expelled from the mill by fan over the river. Legend has it that the fish became quite plump.
Stockdale Mill produced flour until 1964 and then animal feed until 1972, at which time it closed. It stood silent and decaying until it was purchased in 2002.
A foundation was established to bring life back into this splendid bit of history. A new roof was the first order of business, and turnbuckles were installed to straighten the sagging walls. It’s still an ongoing project that relies on a dedicated crew of volunteers.
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UP THE ELEVATOR Belts with attached cups took grain to the top floor. Then it went down chutes to the second floor for grinding. After going through eight sets of iron rollers and four trips to the top floor, it was bagged for sale.
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