Whitley County Country Quilters
SOCK QUILT — Members of the Whitley County Country Quilters are shown
the show-and-tell portion of a meeting. The quilt blocks were made by members at the 2024 annual quilt retreat and the finished quilts will be raffled off or donated.
left are Becky Ousley, Tammy Banks and Linda Jones.
Shown from left are Becky Ousley, Joyce Griffiths and Nanci Drudge, members of the Whitley County Country Quilters, at sewing day held at the Albion Public Library. “Sometimes putting a quilt top together is a group effort,” accordmember Jenny Draper. Photos provided by Whitley County Country Quilters.
The Lighthouse a beacon for men in addiction crisis
By ROD KING Feature Writer
The Lighthouse is much more than a residential addiction services center for men. It’s actually a place of restoration in northeast Indiana.
The Lighthouse also operates a highly successful food bank, family thrift store and a Biblical counseling service.
Dr. Brandon Bower, founder and executive director, started the organization with men’s recovery group meetings at a local fast food restaurant in 2014. He later transformed it into a residential program. During the height of the COVID pandemic, he purchased what is now referred to as the Community Center where its administrative offices are located. In addition, it is the headquarters for the food bank, Anchored Men’s Residential Program and counseling services.
The mission of The Lighthouse, which is faith-based, includes residential addiction services, mentorship, counseling service, drug testing and community training and education reaching men with life-altering addiction and/or are in crisis.
According to Volunteer Coordinator Allison Clark, the goals of the organization are in answer to the Mathew 25 call which says: “I was naked … ” and applies to the Family Thrift Store, “I was a stranger … ” referring to Lighthouse’s Transitional Living Center and Community Center, “I was hungry …” which is the Community Center’s feeding program, “I was sick…” involving the Community Center’s case
management and counseling program, and “I was in prison …” which is the Transitional Living Center and Prison Outreach program.
The Lighthouse’s 30-day, anchored residential program, food bank and case management counseling services are located at the East State Boulevard location. The Lighthouse Family Thrift Store is located at 6230 Lima Road and its six-month residential home is at 2021 Hobson Road.
In other words, The Lighthouse was very active in giving back to the community.
Last year, The Lighthouse served the community by providing $47,439 in financial assistance to men in crisis, held 2,080 group sessions, provided 750 hours mentorship and 5,578 volunteer hours.
In addition, it provided 7,285 residential days, wrote 905 jail letters, gave out $13,693 worth of clothing vouchers, and distributed 51,813 pounds of food.
Twenty-eight men are housed in its two programs. Men who graduate from the anchored program are invited to the six-month residential home and given two weeks to acquire full-time employment.
Clark said The Lighthouse Anchored Program has a success rate of 71% and the six-month residential program has a success rate of 83%.
She pointed out that The Lighthouse is supported through its fundraisers, donations from foundations and grants, churches, individuals, local businesses and the thrift store.
As volunteer coordinator, Clark is in charge of recruit-
ing, training, scheduling and supporting the volunteers to ensure their contributions align with the organization’s statement of faith.
“Our volunteer program,” said Clark, “is growing steadily. We now have 35 dedicated individuals who give their time and talents to furthering the goals of the organization. All is needed is to be available to spend two hours each time they volunteer and come with a cheerful heart.”
Individuals wishing to become volunteers can contact Clark at (260) 255-6413, ext. 2609, her e-mail address at aclark@lhfw.org or apply on its website at lhfw.org.
The Lighthouse is located at 3000 E. State Blvd., Fort Wayne.
“My personal goal for The Lighthouse is to see the volunteer program grow exponentially so that we can serve the community in greater measure as Matthew 25 instructs,” Clark stated.
April showers brings what?
By MICHELLE M. WALTERS, PHR, CHRS, CCWS, CSIS Executive Vice President Health Insurance Shop
Spring cleaning, of course. Sometimes in our zeal to get every nook and cranny dusted and polished, we discover that our bodies are not as nimble as they once were. We find ourselves soliciting the aid of topical analgesics and heating pads to relieve the telltale signs that we may have used muscles we haven’t conjured in awhile.
Strains and sprains are
common as we age. How can we avoid them? There is no perfect solution and everyone has their own limitations. But one good way to lessen the exposure is to warm up your muscles, joints and connective tissues before you start your home makeover.
Simple stretches of your neck, arms, back and legs can dramatically reduce the chance of strains and sprains. If you already have balance issues, you can do your stretches with the help of a kitchen chair.
Here’s some tips: Neck — Rotate your head
left and right, holding for five seconds on each side. Lower your chin to your chest, then up toward the ceiling holding for five seconds in each direction. Repeat 10 times as you are able.
Arms — Reach each arm across your body keeping it as straight as possible. Do not put pressure on your elbow with the opposite hand. Hold for five seconds on each side. Repeat 10 times as you are able.
Back — Sitting with your feet flat on the floor and knees together, rotate your upper body as far as you are able in a twisting motion. Hold for five seconds on each side. Repeat 10 times as you are able.
Legs — While standing, grab the top of one foot and raise it to your buttock, keeping your knee pointed toward the floor, and using your chair for balance. Hold for five seconds then switch legs. Repeat 10 times as you are able. Happy spring cleaning.
VOLUNTEER COORDINATOR Allison Clark, who has been associated with The Lighthouse for many years, said her personal goal for the organization is to see the volunteer program grow. Photo by Rod King.
Whitley County Country Quilters are passionate about projects
By CATHY SHOUSE Feature Writer
The Whitley County Country Quilters are going strong in their passion for a home art, which has been around since the Civil War and earlier.
Member Jenny Draper is co-president with her sister, Jill Western.
“I cannot tell you my favorite part of quilting because I enjoy it all, from buying the fabric, choosing a pattern, cutting the fabric and finally seeing it all come together,” Draper said. “To me, it is like a jigsaw
puzzle. I gather all the pieces and then put it all together to make something that will be used and loved.”
She’s far from alone in her devotion to the quilting group.
The Whitley County Country Quilters, formed in January of 1998, currently consists of 72 members.
They meet at 6 p.m. on the last Tuesday of the month at the Grace Lutheran Church in Columbia City. Visitors are always welcome.
“Club meetings usually consist of a speaker or program, demonstrations, sometimes a
make-and-take and always a show and tell when members show their latest projects,” Draper said. “The club also sponsors an annual quilt retreat and occasional one-day workshops.”
Giving back is important to them and they’re involved in making baby items for BABE, quilts for The Bashor Home, and place mats for Meals on Wheels, among others.
Draper began quilting in the 1980s.
“A friend of mine decided to try quilting and got a number of us young mothers hooked
When shirt happens
This past week, I did a little shopping to find some warm apparel for our trip to Iceland. I don’t like buying new clothes because I always seem to spill something on them.
By DICK WOLFSIE
If I enjoy my meal at a particular restaurant, I wear the same shirt the next time I am there. When the waiter asks what I’d like for dinner and I have trouble remembering the great choice I made the previous time, I just point to the appropriate spot on my shirt. The server knows exactly what I want.
Mary Ellen also went shopping for our vacation. A woman’s
Artificial tears soothe seeing
By CECIL SCAGLIONE
Mature Life Features
Dry-eye time stretches out over the entire calendar.
Hopefully, you aren’t crying a lot so you have to think about using artificial tears to protect your eyes from dust, smoke, heat, air-conditioning and all the other particles swarming in the air around you.
Blinking helps keep your eyeballs lubricated.
If your eyes continue to feel itchy or scratchy, check with your pharmacist for a handy over-the-counter eye drops that will soothe your seeing through the day. Some users suggest keeping the eye drops in a refrigerator so they’ll feel more refreshing when applied.
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shopping spree lasts longer than a man’s, so I was home for about two hours before Mary Ellen pulled into the driveway. When she walked into the house, I was trying on a pair of pants I had purchased.
“You have a stain on your pants,” said Mary Ellen.
“That’s impossible. I haven’t even worn them yet.”
“They must really know their customers at Macy’s. They prestained them for you.”
“Well, I guess I can’t wear those to dinner,” I said, hoping to return them and get my money back.
“I think you should wear them, anyway,” said Mary Ellen. “You’re missing a few food groups in your collection. That may be something new you’ve never spilled.”
Then, I reached into the package and pulled out the flannel shirt I had also bought. This was perfect for our trip.
“That’s another bad choice,” said Mary Ellen.
“Why?”
“It has a smudge under the second button.”
Sure enough, once again I had purchased something brand new that had somehow anticipated its unavoidable destiny to be dripped on.
“Wait a second, Mary Ellen, my
tie will cover the problem.”
“That’s super idea, Dick, a tie with a flannel shirt. It’s too bad the Mickey Mouse tie you packed also has a stain on both his ears. Not that you need a tie in Iceland. Did you read the dress code for the trip? We’re going to Iceland, not Disneyland. And I know why you like flannel shirts. All the new drippings blend in together.”
On a previous cruise, Mary Ellen suggested not bringing any fancy clothing for dinner at all, maybe just a good raincoat. The truth is, it’s inappropriate to arrive at a formal meal in a soiled garment, but acceptable to stain it accidentally while eating. That first night, I ordered the shrimp cocktail and effortlessly completed my assignment on my pants.
“Those need to be soaked in cold water,” said my wife when we were back in our cabin. So, I threw it overboard.
After we returned home from our vacation, I washed my clothes and tried to remove the soiled areas, but what remained was evidence of some fine Italian wine and a delicious chicken parmigiana dish. Mary Ellen took more than 1,000 photos on that trip to create lasting memories.
I had a better idea. Let’s just say my approach was spot on.
on quilting. Quilting is addictive but is only harmful to my pocketbook. It is my escape, my time to relax and to just have time for myself,” she said. Western is another long-time quilter.
“I began quilting around 2009 because my sister, Jenny, enjoyed it and offered to teach me and another sister the basics,” Western said. “I became more involved when we opened our candy and quilting store, and Jenny needed more assistance to make T-shirt quilts and quilt tops. From there, my involvement grew with quilt retreats and sewing with my sisters. I joined the quilt guild and encouraged Jenny to join as well. We are working on the third sister and her granddaughters.”
As with any skill, the tools they use can be important. Western has two sewing machines. One, a Bernina, is what she uses at home. But she has
a lighter one that is a Brother brand, for when she travels to the group’s retreats.
“I thoroughly enjoy the retreats for the fellowship of the attendees and to see other quilters’ projects,” Western said. “I have developed a full-blown fabric addiction and I blame it all on Jenny. I have learned so much from the guild and my fellow quilters.”
Draper said quilting is a family affair for many, although her five daughters haven’t taken up the craft.
“There seems to be a lot of interest in quilting today,” Draper said. “For many of us, it is a connection to the past as well as a contribution to the future. Just as my grandmother did, I make quilts to give to friends and family and that brings me joy. Those of us who have been quilting for a number of years need to be recruiting younger women to continue this tradition.”
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Senior Citizens Expo
Senior Citizens Expo
Senior Citizens Expo
Thursday, May 8, 2025 9 am – 2 pm
Thursday, May 8, 2025 9 am – 2 pm
Wells County 4-H Community Building 1240 4-H Road, Bluffton, IN
Wells County 4-H Community Building 1240 4-H Road, Bluffton, IN
• 69 vendors, free parking, admission, plus much more!
• 69 vendors, free parking, admission, plus much more!
• Breakfast – served 9 am – 10 am
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Provided Christian Care Retirement Community
• Breakfast – served 9 am – 10 am
• Lunch – served 11:30 am – 12:30 pm
• Lunch – served 11:30 am – 12:30 pm
Provided Christian Care Retirement Community
Provided by Ossian Health Communities
Provided by Ossian Health Communities
• Afternoon snack – served 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
• Lunch – served 11:30 am – 12:30 pm
• Afternoon snack – served 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
Provided by River Terrace Retirement Community
Provided by Ossian Health Communities
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• LIPID panel blood work–9 am/blood pressure checks all day
• Afternoon snack – served 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
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• Attorneys from Dale, Huffman & Babcock Lawyers and Sprunger Elder Law – presentations in dining area 10-11 am and 12:30-1:30 pm
• LIPID panel blood work–9 am/blood pressure checks all day (Blood work requires 12 hours fast, medications should be taken as prescribed with water)
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• Attorneys from Dale, Huffman & Babcock Lawyers and Sprunger Elder Law – presentations in dining area 10-11 am and 12:30-1:30 pm
• Non-perishable food giveaway by Peyton’s Northern Distribution / Kroger – 1:30 pm – must be present to receive
• Non-perishable food giveaway by Peyton’s Northern Distribution / Kroger – 1:30 pm – must be present to receive
• Attorneys from Dale, Huffman & Babcock Lawyers and Sprunger Elder Law – presentations in dining area 10-11 am and 12:30-1:30 pm
• Non-perishable food giveaway by Peyton’s Northern
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Audio Reading Service is a lifeline for visually impaired
By ROD KING Feature Writer
Senior Life newspaper has been presenting interesting and revealing stories about seniors and activities involving seniors for decades. The popular, free publication zeros
in on what interests seniors and succinctly gets to the crux of each story. Now, it’s possible to “have your cake and eat it too.”
Senior Life is one of the 80 publications you can have read to you. You just need to pick up a copy, sit back in your favorite
TAKING HER TURN Monica Hadsall, manager of Audio Reading Service, fills in for a reader who couldn’t make it. She first became affiliated with the service in 2016 and was named manager around the close of last year. Photo by Rod King.
chair, look at the photos and turn the pages while listening to Audio Reading Service read it to you.
According to Monica Hadsall, manager of Audio Reading Service, Senior Life can be heard on the service’s hour-long “Local Beat” program, which airs at 11 a.m. Fridays and 8 p.m. and 9 a.m. Sundays.
asking Alexa to enable Audio Reading Service. The device will list a menu of options, pick a specific program or listen to what’s being broadcast at the moment.
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“Thanks to a partnership with Northeast Indiana Public Radio, we can be heard on WBOI 89.1 HD 2,” she said. “However, a special radio is needed to receive HD stations, so we loan HD radios for free to anyone who requests one by signing up for the service. It’s actually a lifetime loan from the Allen County Public Library. Anyone can get a radio as long as they register with us so we can track how many radios we have and where they go.”
The radios are pre-programmed to ARS and bump dots are added to make the buttons easier to find.
Listeners can also hear it on Alexa-enabled devices by just
“We can also be found on a number of podcasts and even on your television set by tuning to PBS 39.4 and then changing the language in the settings to French to get a program,” Hadsall said.
The service, which was started in 1979 at the Little Turtle branch of the ACPL, is now located on DiSalle Boulevard off Cook Road near Northrop High School. Its primary purpose is to provide audio access to news and information for individuals who have visual, physical, learning or language challenges to reading traditional printed materials.
While most of its programs are recorded for playing at a later date, it broadcasts The Journal-Gazette live Monday through Saturday mornings.
More than 60 programs are broadcast involving around 80 publications.
Hadsall, who became manager at the close of last year, started in 2016 as a part-time administrative/control room assistant but stepped back to being a substitute reader because of other obligations.
“My passion, education and experience both in my career and with Audio Reading Service prepared me to be exactly where I am meant to be today,” Hadsall said.
The North Texas native earned a degree in visual communications from the Art Institute of Dallas and pursued a career in graphic design and marketing, which took her to Boulder, Colo. She later owned her own graphic design and marketing consulting business in Fort Wayne.
Individuals interested in becoming a volunteer, can call (260) 421-1376 or email audioreader@acpl.info. New volunteers must successfully pass an interview and audition, have a strong voice, good vocabulary and clear pronunciation so it can maintain high-reading quality, said Hadsall.
Looking out the window
Were Redenbacher and Bowman charged
Imagine, for a few moments, that you are a fly on the wall.
By RANDAL C. HILL
It’s 1970 and you’re in the offices of a top-rated Chicago marketing and advertising firm. Folks there are listening attentively to Orville Redenbacher, a Purdue University-educated agricultural scientist with a somewhat goofy — almost cartoonish — appearance. For three hours, Redenbacher has gleefully extolled the virtues of the “gourmet” popping corn he and his business partner Charles Bowman call Red Bow, a blending of their last names. “Reddy,” as he calls himself, is there to learn the best marketing strategies for their product, which has never sold very well.
At the end of the meeting, Redenbacher is told to come back in one week for the recommendations.
What he is told later leaves him almost gasping in disbelief. According to the Windy City wise men, he and Bowman should rename their product Orville Redenbach-
er’s Gourmet popping corn. And, even more importantly, that Redenbacher’s grinning “country bumpkin” image — wavy, snow-white hair; thick, horned-rim glasses and an absurdly oversize bow tie — should grace the front of every package.
Redenbacher is then handed a bill for $13,000 (about $105,000 in today’s currency).
Ouch!
He pays the fee while silently fuming and undoubtedly thinking, THIS is what we’re being charged for seven days’ worth of collaboration from a highly recommended advertising team?
But, as it turned out, the unorthodox advice was akin to hitting a home run with the bases loaded. Before long, America’s newest celebrity was appearing in national TV ads, smiling broadly and proclaiming, “You’ll like it better or my name isn’t Orville Redenbacher.”
As a result, the scrumptious snack flew off grocery shelves everywhere, and by the mid1970s the brand had captured one-third of the lucrative popcorn market — proof that snack-loving customers were willing to shell out more cash for popcorn that was larger, lighter, more flavorful and left few, if any, unpopped kernels.
Popcorn had always fascinated Indiana-born Orville Clarence Redenbacher. Named after aviation pioneer Orville Wright, Redenbacher partnered with Charles Bowman, a fellow Purdue agricultural graduate. Together, they bought a small corn-seed company and set about toiling six long years and experimenting with over 30,000 popping-corn hybrids before declaring in 1965 that they had reached popcorn paradise with what they felt was the ideal product.
Their original offering — Red Bow Gourmet popping corn — soon appeared on market shelves. When buyers saw the higher price, though, they pretty much ignored it.
In 1970, Redenbacher and Bowman decided they needed guidance from savvy marketeers. So Orville traveled to Chicago, where he met with the marketing team.
Were the Hoosier State partners charged too much for the unorthodox suggestions? Before you answer, consider this: In 1976, food giant Hunt and Wes-
son paid $4 million to buy the thriving company. ($4 million = $22 million in today’s cash.)
Yet Redenbacher always grumbled that he had been charged a fortune for the name that his mother had thought up when Orville was born back in 1907.
Thanks, Mom. You did your part.
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AGRICULTURAL SCIENTIST Orville Redenbacher was a Purdue University-educated agricultural scientist. Photo from Purdue University.
Sunny, spring weather brings out cyclist
By ROD KING Feature Writer
Retired DeKalb High School teacher Susan Zuber is a passionate bicyclist who has set a goal for herself of riding in each of the 50 states. She’s well on her way with 27 under her belt. She plans to bike in Utah this spring and in Alaska in the fall.
”Sometimes I’ll drive to my destination state and those further, I’ll go by air. I’ve done most of the neighboring states, so it’s getting harder and harder to reach my goal. I’m not in a big hurry, however. I’ll just keep plugging along for however long it takes,” Zuber said.
Her entry into the world of cycling came around 15 years ago when friends who were on a cross-country ride stopped at her house in Auburn.
“I made dinner for them and they stayed overnight, and I was absolutely enthralled by their stories of their travels. They were fascinating, and I decided right then and there that cycling was something I wanted to do,” she said.
The first thing she did when they departed for the west coast was to contact the Three Rivers Biking Club.
“Then I got out my old, heavy, slow cruiser bike with balloon tires and sold it. I purchased a light-weight bike. I recently purchased a 20-pound titanium bike that I have grown to love and is the one I take on most group trips with the club members,” Zuber said.
In fact, Zuber now has six bikes for different types of riding ranging from paved roads to rugged trails and mountains. The mountain bike is primarily for trail rides, and I have
an electric bike that doesn’t get much action. The different bikes are mainly for use with different groups.”
Zuber’s favorite group is the Monday morning gang led by Kathi Hayes.
“It’s not competitive or aggressive. It’s more of a social group, which I really enjoy,” she said.
Persons who want to join the group can check out the Three Rivers Velo Club to learn where and when the next ride will be.
“We like to load up and drive to Shipshewana to ride 30 to 40 miles on the Pumpkin Vine Trail,” Zuber said. “Our Tuesday group prefers peddling the River Greenway.”
To learn more about the Tuesday rides, check out the Trek the Trails listing in the Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation Department’s website for times and locations of rides.
She said it’s a good group for neophytes.
“I’m really excited to see that spring weather has finally arrived. I’ve been riding some already and the key is dressing for the cold,” she said.
Throughout the winter, Zuber does regular workouts at a local gym and if there’s enough snow (4 inches is ideal), she gets her exercise cross-country skiing on the fairways of local and area golf courses.
Her favorite condition is sunny with temperatures in the 70s and no wind.
“Unfortunately, that doesn’t come along every day so we really relish it when it does,” she said.
She added, “Yes, I’ve got a couple of colorful Spandex outfits I wear when on bike trips. You’ve got to look the part. It makes you look like a serious rider. We all wear helmets and
ENTHUSIAST Susan Zuber, who has been bike riding for the past 15 years, became interested in riding from friends who stayed at her home on a cross-country ride.
are vocal about people joining us without one. It’s just a matter of safety.”
Zuber added, “Biking for me
is a great way to keep in shape, remain healthy and meet other women who share my passion for riding.”
Local agency hosting volunteer expo
The Volunteer Center will host its annual “Get Connected Volunteer Expo” Thursday, April 24, at Glenbrook Square Mall, 4201 Coldwater Road, Fort Wayne, in the lower level near the food court. It is from 3-6 p.m.
The Volunteer Expo offers an opportunity for current volunteers or those interested in learning more about volunteering in the Fort Wayne community, to meet with area nonprofits and civic-based organizations. Attendees will speak directly with agency representatives, learn about their missions, goals and current volunteer needs all in one convenient location. Prospects for volunteering from home will also be available. As of this date, 45 organizations plan to be in attendance. Attendees are encouraged
to register at the event to be entered for a chance to win gift cards from local restaurants to be drawn every half hour. A new feature, a scavenger hunt, has been added as well.
“Volunteering offers many benefits, opening the doors to meeting new people, learning new skills and creating social connections, all while having fun and helping others. There is a perfect volunteer opportunity waiting for you. Don’t be left out. Come and find your perfect match at the expo,” Executive Director Ani Etter stated.
Volunteer Center is a nonprofit agency connecting volunteers with local community organizations that need help. The center’s Signature Programs, such as Coats for Kids, VITA Tax Assistance and the I CAN Service Team,
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address critical disparities affecting low to moderate income households and the most vulnerable in our community. For more information, visit volunteerfortwayne.org or call (260) 424-3505.
A write way to ease anxieties about health
By JAMES GAFFNEY Mature Life Features
Feeling stressed? Maybe you should be writing more.
Keeping a daily journal is a great way to relieve stress for both healthy persons and those with chronic illnesses or medical conditions.
You should not only record your daily activities but also
your feelings, problems, how you’re coping, and what makes you happy. And while you’re at it, congratulate yourself — in writing — on your successes.
Writing about all aspects of an illness can help patients suffering from autoimmune disorders, such as severe arthritis or lupus that can be exacerbated by stress.
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The History Center will present the next lecture of the 20242025 George R. Mather Sunday Lecture Series Sunday, April 6.
In this lecture, “Genealogical Research Using Church Records,” Curtis R. Sylvester will present guests with a guide to researching one’s family ancestors using the records of Jewish and Christian congregations and archives. This presentation will include a review of genealogy in the Old and New Testaments and a historical survey of Roman Catholicism, Eastern Orthodox,
Protestants, English Reformed and contemporary religious societies.
The lecture begins at 2 p.m. and admission is free to the public.
All George R. Mather lectures are made possible through the support of the Floyd and Betty Lou Lancia Family Foundation and Indiana Humanities. For more information, call (260) 426-2882 or visit fwhistorycenter.org.
The History Center is located at 302 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne.
206 S. Main St. Milford, Indiana 46542
The winner of the I Spy Contest for March is Kathy Edwards from Crown Point. The Party Dog was located on page 8 in Senior Life Allen; page 13 in Senior Life Northwest; page 6 in Senior Life Elko and page 9 in Senior Life St. Joseph.
CYCLING
Photo provided by Susan Zuber.
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Elder Law
Q. How do I get started on my estate planning?
A. The best way to start working on your estate plan is to make an appointment with an estate planning attorney. As part of your preparation for your upcoming appointment, the attorney may provide you with a questionnaire that asks you about your assets and your family. Even if the attorney does not provide you with a questionnaire, it is still important to create a list of all your assets and debts. Assets may consist of a home, car, bank accounts, retirement accounts and life insurance as well as other items. Debts could be loans that you have through a bank or credit union such as mortgages or a loan to purchase
The listing of assets will help the attorney identify what your possible goals may be. Some possible goals of an estate plan could be to help you avoid taxes or to figure out the best way to leave money to charity.
PLAN YOUR LIFESPAN
Q. My parents are getting older and I know they will need more care going forward. What can I do to prepare?
A. Each year, more than 13 million Americans aged 65 and over are hospitalized. Of those, 16.4% will not return to the community.* With proper planning, both the caregiver and care recipient can reduce stress from hospitalization.
Plan Your Lifespan is an evidence-based website that walks you through planning for some of life’s most common major health events, including: hospitalizations, falls and memory loss.
Plan Your Lifespan also provides practical information and online tools to create and share your planning with others and discusses some of the options you have for financing those plans so you are not blindsided by bills.
Once you have completed each of the five modules on the Plan Your Lifespan website, you can download and print a document outlining your plans.
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Senior Relocation
A. Several years ago, some friends whom had moved from their home to a local retirement community had an interesting conversation with me regarding their experiences in making their transition. One of the things that stood out in my mind was the fact that very little of the things they needed done was completed on a schedule that fit their needs. Also, coordinating all of the things that they needed to do was a bit overwhelming. And then it struck me that nearly everything that they needed accomplished were exactly what I was doing or had training in.
Having many years of experience in moving furniture in my younger years, a successful career in real estate, and a successful career in auctioneering and appraising, it didn’t take me long to see that all of my abilities were just what the doctor ordered for my friends. Hence the term “Senior Relocation” was born.
Our systems include professional and courteous moving services, real estate brokerage, real estate and antique appraisals, auctioneering services, floor planning assistance and climate controlled storage. These services are all geared to assist the mature adult market in helping make the transition to retirement living much easier.
Whether you need all of our services or just a few, you can feel free to call us for a free analysis. We can show you how to sell your home in 30 days for your price, coordinate a professional and courteous move, along with any other services you may need to help your transition be as simple and as worry free as possible. Call (260) 441-8636 for a free consultation. Tim McCulloch, Owner
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St. Rose Catholic Parish, 209 Mulberry St., Monroeville, is hosting a rummage sale from 8 a.m. to 7 p.m. Thursday, April 3 and 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Friday, April 4 and a bag sale all day
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“Lisa Heintzman: Innovative Abstractor,” until April 5, at Foellinger-Freimann Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. See paintings inspired by the energy and emotions Heintzman experiences. She is very observant of how one motion affects the next and how simple daily life has so many moments all compiled into one day. The artist paints abstract art with these emotions and perfect imperfections of each moment.
Time is suspended in the paintings. Heintzman believes beauty is necessary and the intent and purpose is to help view the imperfect world by bringing calmness, joy and serenity of the movements in the paintings.
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A winter showcase exhibit, “Floor is Lava,” until April 6, during public hours, at Foellinger-Freimann Botanical Conservatory, 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. It’s the hottest garden around as visitors to the botanical conservatory experience the daring feats of a favorite childhood game. Don’t miss your landing, as you navigate a challenging set of obstacles for all ages and abilities. Fiery hues of reds and oranges flood the challenge course amidst
towering tropical plants under the shadows of a roaring volcano.
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“A Stitch in Time: Embroidery and the Education of Women” is from 9-11:30 a.m. April 10, at the Historic Swinney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. This Settlers Inc. program will explore how needle-arts samplers played a crucial role in young girls basic education in the late 18th century. The $20 cost includes materials and refreshments. Registration due by April 3. For more information, call (260) 432-7314 or visit settlersinc.org.
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St. Joe United Methodist Church, 6004 Reed Road, Fort Wayne, will host its annual rummage sale to raise money
for its United Women in Faith mission work to support local and international projects. The sale times and dates are from 5-8 p.m. Thursday, April 10, 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Friday, April 11, and $3 bag day from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday, April 12.
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On Friday, May 2, Historic Swinney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., will have an open house from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets are free. There will be walk-thru tours, Settler memberships, and a preview of Settlers’ 2025-2026 historic hand-arts programs. A perennial plant sale is on the back lawn; parking is by the tennis courts.
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Senior Citizens Expo May 8
The Wells County Council on Aging-Senior Citizens Expo will be held on Thursday, May 8. The expo is from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Wells County 4-H Community Building, 1240 4-H Road, Bluffton. The expo is open to the public.
There will be free meals. Breakfast is provided by Christian Care Retirement Community and is from 9-10 a.m. Lunch is provided by Ossian Health Communities and is from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. An afternoon snack is provided by River Terrace Retirement Community. Peyton’s Northern/Kroger has donated a non-perishable food giveaway to be distributed starting at 1:30 p.m.
Bluffton Regional Medical Center will be doing free lipid panel blood work starting at 9 a.m. (requires a 12-hour fast) and medications should be taken as prescribed with water.
There will be blood pressure checks all day.
Presentations in the dining area include Attorney Michael Huffman with Dale, Huffman and Babcock Lawyers, who will do a presentation on Medicaid basics from 10-11 a.m. Mitch Sprunger with Sprunger Elder Law will do a presentation on “advanced elder law made easy” from 12:30-1:30 p.m.
There will be 69 vendors ranging from home health care, assisted living, elder law special-
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Richardville House with a program on Miami Indian history Thursday, May 8. It is from 9-11:30 a.m. and the house is located at 5705 Bluffton Road, Fort Wayne. Cost is $20. Registration due by May 5. For more information, call (260) 4327314 or visit settlersinc.org.
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OPS Adventures: Turning dreams into reality for low-income seniors
By SHERRI BERGHOFF Founder OPS Adventures
OPS Adventures, a remarkable nonprofit organization, is dedicated to granting bucket-list wishes for low-income seniors living in assisted living or skilled nursing centers. Founded by Sherri Berghoff, who serves as the chairperson of the board of directors, this organization is transforming the lives of seniors by fulfilling their cherished dreams.
Through the generosity of donors and sponsors, OPS Adventures has created unforgettable moments for many. Take Barbara S., for instance, who had never flown on a commercial plane. Thanks to OPS Adventures, she experienced her first flight to Florida to reunite with her passing brother, leaving her profoundly grateful.
“This was the best. I will never forget this for as long as I live. Thank you from the bottom of my heart,” she shared.
In another heartwarming instance, the organization fulfilled William’s wish in December 2021. William longed to escape the city and gaze at the stars. OPS Adventures partnered with the astrological society and arranged a magical evening at the Quest Observatory, where volunteers helped him explore the wonders of the universe through a telescope.
Stories like these demonstrate the profound impact OPS Adventures has on seniors’ lives; however, these meaningful experiences require the support of the community.
The organization’s upcoming spring fundraiser, “Denim and Diamonds,” scheduled for April 26, provides an opportunity to contribute to this noble cause through attendance or sponsorship. It is from 5-9 p.m. and will be held at the Wolf Family Center at Salomon Farm Park in Fort Wayne. Tickets are available on OPS Adventures’ website.
To learn more about OPS Adventures and how you can help make seniors’ dreams come true, visit opsadventures.org or call (260) 740-3220.
As a registered 501(c)(3) organization, all contributions are tax-deductible.
Together, we can continue creating memories that seniors will cherish forever.
“Comfort Keepers was an invaluable asset in my toolbox regarding my mother’s home healthcare requirements. I was able to go to work and concentrate on other aspects of my mother’s healthcare needs. It gave me a “peace of mind” feeling on a daily basis knowing that their qualified staff would handle things at mom’s house and keep me updated. Comfort Keepers is a local outstanding healthcare organization; I would recommend them for any in-home healthcare needs” Robert G.R. Son of client, Fort Wayne
The 18th Annual Japanese Cherry Blossom Festival is from noon to 6 p.m. Sunday, May 18, at Walb Student Union, Purdue University-Fort Wayne, 2101 E. Coliseum Blvd., Fort Wayne. Opening ceremony is at noon Sunday, May 18. Most events and activities are free (small charge for ball scoop water game); donations are accepted. Japanese merchandise and food is available for purchase and contests with prizes. Visit cherryblossomfw.com.
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Woodlands Senior Activity Center
For more information, call (260) 248-8944 or visit whitleycountycouncilonaging.org. The center is located at 710 Opportunity Drive, Columbia City.
9 a.m. Wednesday, pixie bingo.
9-10 a.m. Monday, Wednesday and Friday, line dancing.
9 a.m. Tuesday and Friday, 12:30 p.m. Thursday, euchre.
9 a.m. Tuesday, Bible study with Cheryl.
9 a.m. Thursday, craft and chat
10-11 a.m. Monday, Wednesday and Friday, chair exercise.
Noon Tuesday, dominoes. 12:30 p.m. Wednesday, hand and foot card game.
1 p.m. Tuesday, Bible study with Bob.
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McMillen Park Community Center
For information, visit fortwayneparks.org or call (260) 427-6000. The center is located at 3901 Abbott St., Fort Wayne.
Pickleball, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Monday to Friday.
Open gym, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m.
ists and financial information. Other vendors include travel agents, home improvement, numerous health agencies and much more.
The Friends of the Shelter will have a booth in the hallway and from 11 a.m. to noon the Bluffton Animal Clinic will be doing basic cat and dog vaccinations for $60 at its booth; pets must be kept on a leash or in a carrier and are not allowed in the food area.
Wells County residents may call Wells on Wheels at (260) 824-4969 to schedule free transportation to and from the expo. Contact Susie at the Wells County Council on Aging at (260) 824-1070 for more information.
Monday through Friday.
Adult open gym, 6-8 p.m. Monday through Thursday.
Adult yoga, 6-7 p.m. Tuesday and noon to 1 p.m. Wednesday. Volleyball, 6-8 p.m. Monday. Badminton, 6-8 p.m. Tuesday.
CardioFit, 6:30-7:30 p.m. Monday and Thursday.
Essential steps, 5:30-6:30 p.m. Monday and 6-8 p.m. Wednesday.
Yoga for seniors, noon to 1 p.m. Wednesday.
Yoga for adults, 6-7 p.m. Tuesday.
Men’s basketball league, 6-9 p.m. Thursday.
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MASQUERADE BALL Pictured are Angela Conner, Alli Morua, Raven Johnson and Sherri Berghoff at the 2023 Masquerade Ball fundraiser for OPS Adventures. This year’s fundraiser, “Denim and Diamonds,” is April 26. Photo provided by Sherri Berghoff.
Faith Michelle Corrao has ‘found’ faith is her rock
By CATHY SHOUSE Feature Writer
One of the defining moments of a person’s life can be a tragedy they survived. It can also serve to strengthen their faith. Such is the case for Michelle Corrao of Fort Wayne. Her faith is part of the fabric of her life, especially through the Easter season.
Corrao attends Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church. She is involved in Cornerstone, is an extraordinary minister of Holy Communion and helps with monthly grace meals.
“(At Easter) I try to continue to strengthen my relationship with God, attending weekly Mass and adoration, the sacrament of confession, reading daily Lenten passages, both nationally and a booklet put together by members of our church, and giving up so-
cial media during Lent,” she said.
Corrao doesn’t take her faith for granted and remembers how her beliefs helped in a very difficult time. In 1996, Corrao was kidnapped and suffered through an ordeal by her kidnapper until she was rescued. She wrote a book about the experience, “Found: Triumph over Fear with Grace and Gratitude: The Michelle Corrao Story,” which was released in 2020.
“My book, ‘Found,’ is my story that provides hope to anyone that finds themselves in a dark place, whether caused by trauma, illness, family struggles or anything else,” Corrao said. “I was very much a faithful person when this happened and without that foundation in faith, the outcome very likely would have been different. From the moment I was kidnapped, when I could feel
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Jesus’ presence there with me throughout my entire recovery, I leaned into my faith, giving the crosses I carried up to him.”
Corrao wrote the book, which is available on Amazon, with a co-writer. She’s not written other work, but often speaks about her experience and shares the book with others.
She shared her favorite verse and how her faith developed when she was young.
The verse is Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
“I was born into the Catholic faith, but it really blossomed in my late teens to early 20s,” she said.
What she has gone through has given Corrao a deep appreciation for the life she’s leading, especially for her family.
“I have been married to my husband, Chris, for 26 years. We have two beautiful children, our son, Christian, and daughter, Olivia,” she said. “Christian is married to Taylor and has one son, Peter, and they are expecting their second child,” Corrao stated.
In October, Olivia is finishing
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her junior year at the Barrett Honors College at Arizona State University, studying biomedical sciences and Spanish.
“Life does not get better than this,” she said.
She feels blessed to serve as executive director of The O’Connor House, a Christian home for pregnant women who are homeless.
“A favorite quote of mine is ‘Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn, or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with ‘love, grace and gratitude’ by Denis Waitley,” Corrao said.
During the interview, she was asked, “Do you have any particular ways of sharing your faith?
“I am not particular in sharing my faith. I just love sharing it,” she smiled.
BOOK AUTHOR Michelle Corrao has written a book, “Found: Triumph over Fear with Grace and Gratitude: The Michelle Corrao Story,” and often speaks about her faith and overcoming struggles and challenges. Photo provided by Michelle Corrao.
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Each meal is carefully crafted
to provide essential nutrients while accommodating medical restrictions, reducing the risk of malnutrition and hospital re-admissions. By offering balanced, physician-recommended meals, Homebound Meals plays a crucial role in improving quality of life, supporting overall health and promoting longevity.
Beyond nutrition, these meal deliveries also provide a vital source of connection. Volunteers not only bring meals but also offer companionship and a friendly check-in, helping to combat loneliness and isolation. This personal touch fosters emotional well-being, which is
just as important as physical health for seniors aging in place.
Homebound Meals is more than a food delivery service. It is a lifeline empowering seniors to maintain their independence while receiving the nourishment they need. Thanks to dedicated volunteers and community support, this program continues to make a meaningful difference in the lives of Fort Wayne’s most vulnerable residents.
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Mortal medical mistakes
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
When we’re sick, injured or close to dying, we look for aid and assistance from the medical community — doc-
tors, nurses, pharmacists and medical technicians.
Yet as many as 400,000 people are killed every year by these same people, not on purpose, but because of errors in judgment and treatment.
That’s 10 times more than the number that die in traffic accidents.
Medical mistakes are the third leading cause of death in this country, next to heart disease and cancer.
While medical health-care personnel are dedicated to keeping the ill and ailng alive and well, errors occur simply because they’re human, and humans make mistakes.
Death due to medical error is defined as one that is caused by inadequately skilled staff, error in judgment or care, a system defect, or a preventable adverse effect. This includes computer breakdowns, mix-ups with the doses or types of medications administered to patients, and surgical complications that go undiagnosed.
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Blast To The Past —
‘Before the Next Teardrop falls’ brought 1 year
Freddy Fender
Freddy Fender had just one year of mainstream stardom, but, man, it was a humdinger!
It was also quite an achievement, considering all the times he had stumbled on his way to the top.
A Boomer Blast To The Past
By RANDAL C. HILL
He was born Baldemar Huerta in 1937 in San Benito, Texas. Part of a poor, field-working family, Huerta left high school and joined the Marine Corps. Much of his military time, though, went wasted in an Okinawa brig, due to his drinking binges.
But, during that soul-crushing confinement, he learned of a new type of music that some-
times wafted through the prison corridors.
Music that would change his life. Early rock ‘n’ roll. He returned to Texas, a goal of musical stardom now burning in his being. “I grew my sideburns, put 50 pounds of wax on my hair, and I thought I was Elvis Presley. That lasted several years. I was nothing but rhythm-andblues and rock ‘n’ roll.”
At 19, he recorded a Spanish-language version of Presley’s “Don’t Be Cruel.” Huerta’s rendition earned airplay in Latin America, but north of the border nobody seemed to notice.
He soldiered on. In 1959, he adopted the stage moniker Freddy Fender, after the well-known brand name etched on his electric guitar. (“I thought it would sell better with gringos.”) A year later, a pivotal moment occurred for him when he composed a catchy tune in the restroom of a Harlingen, Texas, joint called the
Starlight Club.
The song was “Wasted Days and Wasted Nights.” Later, Freddy would proclaim, “I knew it was something special.”
However, as he prepared to release a single of “Wasted,” Fender and his bass player were busted in Louisiana for marijuana possession. Sentenced to five years each in Angola Prison, both served fewer than four. The future, though, still seemed anything but bright for the San Benito singer.
Sometimes, he wondered if his past poor choices would, in time, condemn him to never rise higher than performing in smokefilled joints while customers drank, talked, laughed and all but ignored him.
Back in San Benito, Fender worked as a mechanic before meeting Huey Meaux, a shady businessman who owned the record label Crazy Cajun. In 1974, Meaux had Freddy cut a
ONE YEAR OF STARDOM “Before The Next Teardrop Falls” brought Freddy Fender one year of stardom. Photo from Billboard.
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countrified single called “Before the Next Teardrop Falls.” The creation had been around since 1967, but it was Fender’s fervent rendition — sung in both English and Spanish — that drew interest from recording powerhouse ABC/Dot Records.
“I was reluctant to cut country at first,” said Freddy. “I just wanted to do rock ‘n’ roll and rhythm-and-blues.” But when ABC/Dot leased Meaux’s disc, Fender was on his way.
In early 1975, his signature tune reached Number One on Billboard’s pop chart. He followed with his own “Wasted Days and Wasted Nights,” a Top Ten single, and ended the year with a version— sung partly in Spanish — of Doris Day’s “Secret Love.”
Billboard proclaimed him Best Male Artist of 1975.
“I was just having fun,” Fender admitted later. “I never thought of becoming a great singer.”
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‘Glo Wild’ at the Fort Wayne Zoo
The Fort Wayne Zoo will transform into a wild and wonderful nighttime lantern festival with “Glo Wild” on select dates through May 26. Step into a land of glowing landscapes and stand toe-totoe with towering animals in larger-than-life 3D lantern displays.
The Fort Wayne Zoo is kicking off its 60th birthday celebration with 60 spectacular lanterns.
“We are thrilled to give guests the opportunity to stand with a pack of hyenas, sit in the petals of a flower, and see the zoo’s mission at work in a whole new light,” said Rick Schuiteman, zoo director. “With immersive activities and delicious food, the mile-long ‘Glo Wild’ path is designed to keep guests of all ages in awe throughout their experience.”
Glo Wild will be open from
GLOWING LANDSCAPES
The Fort Wayne Zoo will transform into a wild and wonderful nighttime lantern festival with “Glo Wild” through May 26. Step into a land of glowing landscapes and stand toe-to-toe with towering animals in larger-than-life, 3D lantern displays. Photo provided by the zoo.
6:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. on the following dates: • Through April 6, open daily.
• April 9- April 30, open
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Coping with grief by writing it down
Dealing with grief is one of life’s greatest challenges. Through the suggestion of a friend, I discovered that a grief journal can be a powerful tool for working through emotions, helping me reflect and confront my feelings.
Understanding why grief arises can shed light on the importance of expression. Bottling up emotions can lead to feelings of loneliness and depression, which can weigh heavily on the heart. A grief journal serves as a safe space to release, process and gradually let go of those feelings. Writing about grief allows for deeper understanding, promotes better sleep and aids in coping with pain.
Creating your journal can be straightforward. A basic composition book from a local store or a digital journal online can be perfect. While a formal structure may appeal to some,
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Don’t pressure yourself to be creative while navigating grief. The words may not flow easily at first, but as you commit to writing, inspiration will grow.
Revisiting past entries can ignite motivation and provide comfort.
To support your writing journey, consider these prompts to spark your thoughts and maintain focus:
• How do you feel today?
Describe that feeling.
• Share a memory of your loved one.
• Write down all the things your loved one used to say.
• Write a message to your loved one.
• Find a quote that resonates with you.
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aside time in the morning and evening can foster consistent practice. The more often you write, the easier it will become.
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You may wish to share your reflections with a trusted friend or family member or keep them for personal introspection.
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Take a step back in time at Stockdale Mill
In the mid-1800s, the Eel River that starts in northeast Indiana and joins the Wabash River at Lafayette, had a total of 13 mills.
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Just one is still standing, still operates and is open for visitors to experience the intricate workings of a thriving enterprise of a bygone era.
The Stockdale Mill, which is on the National Register of Historic Places, is just west of Roann in Wabash County. It’s open for tours Saturdays (May through October) from noon to 4 p.m.
Built in 1857, the mill is actually the second to operate on the site. The original mill was built in 1840 on top of a timber dam in the middle of the river. The first mill was a grist mill using grindstones. One was found buried on the property in 2008.
In 1852, flood waters severely damaged it and the dam and plans were made to construct a new one, on solid ground on the north side of the river with a new concrete dam. Water is diverted from the river on a mill race that flows into the basement, where it turns three vertical turbines creating about 75 horsepower.
Farmers brought their wheat and corn by wagon onto a scale where it was weighed. The front end of the scale
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floor was manually lifted by ropes and pulleys so that the grain would fall out the back of the wagon into a holding bin in the basement. When empty, the scale floor was lowered and the wagon was weighed again to determine what the farmer would get for his crop.
In its heyday, the mill could turn out 50 barrels of flour a day. During the Civil War, flour from Stockdale Mill supplied the Union Army.
From the holding bin, the grain made its way to the fourth floor via elevators (belts with attached cups) where it went down chutes to the first floor to be run through iron rollers to break up the grain. It was then sent back up to the top for sifting and cleaning, and then returned for more refining. It went through a series of eight sets of rollers before it was finally bagged and pronounced ready for baking.
Be prepared to climb some pretty steep steps to get to
the fourth floor, where wooden chutes crisscross each other going in every direction. Products made from wheat included middling’s (chicken feed), cereal (wheat germ), flour and bran. At that time, bran was considered a waste product and expelled from the mill by fan over the river. Legend has it that the fish became quite plump.
Stockdale Mill produced flour until 1964 and then animal feed until 1972, at which time it closed. It stood silent and decaying until it was purchased in 2002.
A foundation was established to bring life back into this splendid bit of history. A new roof was the first order of business, and turnbuckles were installed to straighten the sagging walls. It’s still an ongoing project that relies on a dedicated crew of volunteers.
The mill is located just one mile west of Roann on SR 16. For more information, visit stockdalemill.org.
Wagons full of wheat or corn were pulled onto the mill’s scale, weighed, unloaded and weighed again to determine the farmer’s payment. The grain went into a bin in the basement.
BAGGING MACHINE Flour from the final rolling machine went to the bagger where it was ready for sale.
BEVELED GEARS — Because of all the dust and concern over fires, wooden gears are used to drive the rolling machines.
GRINDSTONES — Stones like these were used in the original mill that was built in 1840. The one in the foreground was found buried on the property in 2008.
LOADED WITH GRAIN
ROLLING MACHINES Grain went through eight sets of rollers before it was fine enough for bagging. Visitors can purchase flour in the visitor center.
STOCKDALE MILL Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, the Stockdale Mill produced flour, animal feed and cereals from 1857 until it closed in 1972.
UP THE ELEVATOR Belts with attached cups took grain to the top floor. Then it went down chutes to the second floor for grinding. After going through eight sets of iron rollers and four trips to the top floor, it was bagged for sale.
STRAY CATS Spring is here and this means more pets are outside. For Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control, this leads to an increase in incoming stray animals, such as cats, and unwanted litters. Photos provided by Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control.
Spring temperatures are keeping staff busy at FWACC
The glimpses of spring are here, and that means more pets are outside. For Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control, this leads to an increase in incoming stray animals and unwanted litters.
Spring typically marks the beginning of warmer temperatures, which has everyone wanting to be outside, pets included. Historically, this means an increase in animals that are loose and roaming, and a higher number of intakes for the staff at Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control.
“We have already seen a significant increase in stray animal intakes this month, which is a common trend with warmer temps,” said the shelter’s deputy director of field operations, Lisa Cain.
If you lose or find a pet, people are asked to contact FWAC within 24 hours to file a report so it can scan the animal for a microchip. If you have Facebook, people are also encouraged to share the animal on lost dogs or lost cats in Fort Wayne.
Warmer weather also brings about a busy season for its foster team, something called kitten season.
“We are right on time with kitten season and already have 46 moms with babies in our foster program. Our fosters will be busy with babies through October,” said foster coordinator, Gina Thomas.
The foster department is made possible through donations and grants and with the help of families, who open their homes and care for these animals while they are too young to go into the adoption program. People can support the
Financial advice costs money
By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features
Free advice is easy to get. Everybody hands it out. You can be told readily what kind of car to buy, what movie to see, what foods to eat, and what stocks to buy without even asking. We all know that free advice is worth exactly what you pay for it.
That doesn’t mean paid-for advice is always worth the cost. But financial advice is at least
worth checking the price. Not every financial advisor is a shyster looking to suck your portfolio into his or her Swiss bank account. Nor is every financial advisor prescient and able to offer 100 % guarantees that every one of their decisions is fool proof.
When searching for a fiscal advisor, a key factor is fees — how they get paid for advising — and how to allocate the money you’re diverting into your retirement fund.
Some take a commission on
each transaction. Others charge an hourly rate for the time they spend with you and servicing your account. There are those who pocket a percentage of your portfolio as they work at making it grow.
After you’ve found somebody you think understands and supports your best interests and you’ve checked with other clients to check their experiences, make sure you know how and how much you’ll be paying for their advice.
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The ‘bland’ ambitions of US vice presidents
By TOM MORROW Mature Life Features
The most successful vice president who had any ambition was Teddy Roosevelt, but ...
The list of the American veeps is riddled with forgettable politicians who made little or no contribution to United States history other than taking up space on dusty pages that are not much of scholarly interest.
Consider Hannibal Hamlin, Charles Warren Fairbanks, Henry Wilson, Charles Curtis or George Mifflin Dallas. Sound familiar?
How about Schuyler Colfax and Henry Wilson who were both a heartbeat from the White House? They served as veeps for Ulysses S. Grant.
foster program by becoming a foster, volunteering or donating to the critter care fund.
Visit fwacc.org to file a lost or found animal report, to view the animals in its care, and for information on fostering, volunteering, and donating.
Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control is an open-access shelter and will never turn away an animal from within Allen County.
Anyone struggling to care for their animal can contact the shelter for assistance at (260) 427-1244.
After 8 p.m. and on weekends and holidays, call (260) 4493000 for assistance.
In 1992, history author Steve Tally penned “Bland Ambition,” a listing of our vice presidents. He begins with John Adams, who backed up George Washington, our first president and ends with Dan Quayle, who was the veep for George H.W. Bush, our 41st president.
Unlike tall and handsome General Washington, Adams was short, round, dumpy, peevish, a loudmouth and a frequent bore. He was not very well liked and saw no redeeming qualities to being vice president.
J. Danforth Quayle wasn’t exactly “Mr. Excitement.” He once
was suspected of being a ladies’ man who had an illicit affair, to which his wife reportedly retorted: “Anyone who knows Dan Quayle knows that he’d rather play golf any day than have sex.”
Teddy Roosevelt was William McKinley’s veep. Before assuming the Oval Office upon McKinley’s assassination, he had attended law school. As No. 2, Teddy was afraid he would not have a great deal to do.
Lincoln’s veep upon his re-election was Andrew Johnson, who was impeached and escaped conviction by one vote.
There was a time in the mid1970s when the name “Millard Fillmore” became a joke. Yet he rose from log-cabin poverty to wealth and life in the White House.
Fillmore attended one-room schools and, in 1823, was admitted to the New York bar. Seven years later he moved his law practice to Buffalo and was a member of the U.S. House of Representatives for eight years. In 1848, Fillmore was elected vice president to Zachary Taylor’s presidency. Taylor died two years later, leaving the White House to Fillmore.
When Fillmore left office, Oxford University offered to give him an honorary degree, which he declined. He was afraid the students and faculty would ask, “Who is he and what has he done.” He said it would give peo-
ple ample opportunity to make his name a joke. Ironically, he was prophetic.
America’s fifth veep was Elbridge Gerry, pronounced with a hard “G,” who served under James Madison from 1813-1814. He brought about the term and tradition of “Gerrymandering,” an oft-times questionable policy of redrawing Congressional boundaries.
Gerry was one of the original signers of the Declaration of Independence and also was one of the delegates to the Constitutional Convention.
When John Adams became president, he appointed Gerry, John Marshall and Charles Pickney to represent America in France. Through some back-channel bargaining, Gerry got the French navy to stop raiding American vessels on the high seas.
Later, after four tries, Gerry was elected governor of Massachusetts. During his first term as governor, he signed a redistricting bill that ultimately gained him the political immortality he has since enjoyed.
The stories are involved and interesting so it might be time to recall these famous last words.
They’re attributed to President Lyndon B. Johnson’s vice president, Hubert Humphrey, who said: “Where I stand depends on where I sit.”
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3 questions about Social Security that can help plan your retirement
By MONA HARTER District Manager, South Bend Social Security Office
Social Security benefits are part of the retirement plan of many American workers. If you’re among the many people paying Social Security taxes, you should get an estimate of what your future benefit may be. Our retirement webpage at ssa.gov/ retirement is a great place to start mapping out your retirement plan. These three questions will help to guide your planning: What factors may affect your retirement benefits?
When is the right time to start receiving your retirement benefits?
What documents do you need to provide when you apply for retirement?
We encourage you to use your personal my Social Security account at ssa.gov/myaccount to get an instant estimate of your future retirement benefits. You can also compare the effects of
starting your retirement benefits at different ages.
We base your benefit on how much you earned during your working career. Higher lifetime earnings result in higher benefits. If there were some years you didn’t work or had low earnings, your benefit amount may be lower than if you had worked steadily. If you never worked and did not pay Social Security taxes, and have a spouse who worked, you may be eligible for spouse’s benefits. You must be at least 62 years old, and your spouse must already be receiving retirement or disability benefits. If you are a younger spouse, you may be eligible for benefits if you have a qualifying child in your care. By a qualifying child, we mean a child who is under age 16 or who receives Social Security disability benefits. You can learn more at ssa.gov/retirement.
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Public Art Commission showing documentary
The Fort Wayne Public Art Commission, in partnership with local media producer William Bryant Rozier, invites the public to see the Harvester Neighborhood Documentary at 2 p.m. Saturday, April 5, in the theater of the downtown Allen County Public Library.
Doors to the theater open at 1 p.m. Rozier and neighborhood leaders will be on hand to talk about the making of the documentary after the showing.
The Harvester Neighborhood Documentary highlights conversations with residents, pastors and business leaders in the community. It also touches on the history of International Harvester and Zollner Corporation and recent efforts to renew neighborhood connections and business growth.
The documentary is part of the Public Art Commission’s SHOUTOUT: Fort Wayne program, which is designed to empower neighborhoods to develop and activate the unique identities through public art.
A local filmmaker, Rozier serves as the project manager for phase one of the SHOUT-OUT program. With his guidance, residents of the Harvester and East Central neighborhoods have created audio and video artwork showcasing conversations with residents and video of neighborhood activities.
The SHOUT-OUT program is funded by the Public Art Giveback contributions, which are managed by the Public Art Commission.