Glo - October 2023

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“Fall has always been my favorite season. The time when everything bursts with its last beauty, as if nature had been saving up all year for the grand finale.” — Lauren DeStefano, Wither

Get Spooky”

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Happy Autumn glo readers! Autumn in our region is the best, in my humble opinion, and here are just a few reasons why I think so.

Fall Foliage: In October, the trees transform into vibrant shades of red, orange, and yellow, creating a picturesque landscape. Take a drive or hike to experience it.

Mild Weather: October typically brings mild and pleasant weather. It’s a great time for hiking, biking, or simply enjoying the outdoors without the discomfort of extreme heat or cold.

Harvest Season: October is the peak of the harvest season. You can visit local farms and orchards to pick apples and pumpkins and enjoy various fall-themed activities like hayrides and corn mazes.

Halloween: October means Halloween, and our region embraces this holiday with enthusiasm. You’ll find costume contests, haunted houses, and spooky events throughout the region. Check out our To Do List on page 36 for events you should plan to attend.

Sports: If you’re a sports fan, October is an exciting month. It’s the heart of football season, and many college and professional teams have home games during this time. Tailgating and attending games can be a memorable experience.

Cozy Atmosphere: As the weather starts to cool down, October offers the perfect opportunity to enjoy cozy moments. You can indulge in warm beverages like apple cider and hot chocolate, snuggle up by the fireplace, and embrace the feeling of comfort that comes with autumn.

Photography Opportunities: Whether you’re a professional photographer or just enjoy taking pictures, October provides countless opportunities for capturing beautiful, seasonal shots. What do you love best about this season? I’d love to hear from you. Email me anytime.

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artist: Cheryl Ringler

Hometown: North Webster, IN

Current town: Syracuse, IN

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It is a photo from a trip to Lake Michigan. I loved the color and shadow of the leaf.

Where do you draw inspiration in general for your work? From nature.

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Watercolor

When did you first start creating art? When I was a young child.

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Summer to Fall Make Up Looks

By Amber Bouthot

Summer is in the rearview mirror, so that means it’s time to transition our wardrobes and our makeup to match the season. Transitioning your summer makeup look to fall involves adapting your routine to the changing colors and tones of the season. Here’s how you can achieve a seamless transition:

Switch Up Your Foundation and Base:

Opt for a foundation that matches your slightly lighter fall complexion. If you’ve been using a lightweight tinted moisturizer in summer, consider switching to a medium-coverage foundation or a BB cream for a bit more coverage.

Warm Up Your Complexion:

Use a slightly warmer blush shade to mimic the natural flush that the fall weather can bring.

Consider using a matte bronzer for a subtle sun-kissed effect.

Adjust Your Eye Makeup:

Transition from bright and pastel eyeshadow shades to richer, warmer tones like deep browns, warm oranges, and burgundies.

Incorporate matte eyeshadows for a more sophisticated look.

Experiment with smoky eye looks that are popular during the fall.

Embrace Deeper Lip Colors:

Swap out your summer lip glosses for deeper lip colors like plums, berries, and rich browns. Matte lipsticks and lip stains can give a more dramatic fall vibe.

Focus on Bold Brows:

If you’ve been rocking natural brows during the summer, consider filling them in a bit more for a bolder look. Defined and well-groomed brows can frame your face beautifully during the fall.

Highlight with Warm Tones:

Opt for warm-toned highlighters that give a subtle, radiant glow to your skin. Champagne and gold shades can work well for fall.

Experiment with Darker Liner:

Consider using a dark brown or deep plum eyeliner for a softer look compared to black. Smudging the liner slightly can create a smokier effect that complements fall makeup trends.

Set Your Makeup for Longer Wear:

As the weather cools down, your makeup might last longer, but you can still use setting sprays to lock in your look.

Don’t Forget Your Skincare:

Adjust your skincare routine to accommodate the changing weather. Make sure your skin is well-hydrated and moisturized as the air becomes drier.

Play with Textures:

Fall is a great time to experiment with matte finishes, velvety textures, and deeper, more intense makeup looks.

Remember, the transition from summer to fall makeup is all about embracing richer colors, warmer tones, and slightly more coverage while maintaining the overall style that you enjoy. a

Breast Cancer:

Prevention is the Cure

By Dr. Rudy Kachmann

Each year, in the United States, there are approximately 300,000 new cases of breast cancer. The rate has been going up, paralleling the type 2 diabetes epidemic. Approximately 50,000 people will die this year from Breast Cancer. Prevention of breast cancer is the cure, and 90% of cases can be slowed down and many stopped in their tracks. Most women don’t know that breast cancer is preventable 50% of the time.

The good news is that many of the cases could be prevented by proper lifestyle, which would also prevent the 20 to 30 diseases related to type 2 diabetes and prevent the viral diseases which are sugar dependent for their energy.

Eating a high sugar diet, which 70 to 80% of people do, is like throwing gasoline on the fire. By avoiding sugar, we can have a greater opportunity for preventing and reversing chronic diseases and cancers, especially breast cancer. Elevated blood sugars inhibit our immune system.

Type 2 diabetes with its elevated sugar and serum insulin are the cause of 80% of breast cancer and many other cancers. To avoid type 2 diabetes, I highly recommend getting a serum insulin test from your doctor. They are abnormal 10 to 20 years before the fasting blood is elevated. You should also order a serum insulin for your children. Insulins are elevated 10 to 15 years before blood sugar show diabetes; yet insulin stimulates inflammation and growth of ovarian cancers and breast cancers.

Breast cancers are also high in patients who have an inflamed body. The blood test CRP is an important blood marker. Principal causes of inflammation can be traditional western diet, refined sugar, red meat from industrial farms, white flour, oil rich Omega fats, smoking, and alcohol consumption. The World Health Organization says that 80% of cancer is inflammation produced by lifestyle, not the genetic code you inherit. We all make some cancerous cells every day, and our immune system kills them. That has been scientifically proven. Incidentally, 39% of autopsied women will have known early breast cancer cells. Your lifestyle is critical. Most people don’t know that breast cancer is 50 to 70% preventable. The medical community rarely discusses it in your medical visits. Only five to 10% of breast cancers have serious genetic components, the BRCA gene, which refers to the two BRCA genes. The acronym stands for breast cancer. Healthy BRCA genes suppress the growth of tumors by repairing or removing faulty cells before they can form masses.

Rudy Kachmann, M.D.

You can get the needed vitamins, phytochemicals, and minerals for good health by embracing a nutritional keto 16/8 diet. This is backed by scientific research in detail. Eating a diet low in sugary products that consists of 60 to 70% good fats, 20% good proteins, 15% vegetables and fruits is key.

The last thing to mention that is critically important is our genetic script at conception is about 25% written. During the mother’s pregnancy, what the mother is eating, drinking, and her lifestyle activities, such as music, sounds, and exercise can write the genetic script of the infant.

You have a golden opportunity to change your lifestyle to prevent breast cancer. Prevention is the cure. Please remember that getting your Breast Screening is so very important.

Please read my book: “Breast Cancer: Prevention is the Cure”. The information is invaluable to all people. Find me on YouTube, Facebook, and Amazon. a

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By Stacie Ball | Photo by Eva Toscos

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Fort Wayne native Dianne May has always adored the city of Fort Wayne. The CEO of Cancer Services attained her BA in Communications from Purdue Fort Wayne and is now married with two grown sons and four grand-dogs. Each year, she makes a difference for thousands of people touched by cancer in our region.

“Cancer Services is here to help anyone with cancer who lives in northeast Indiana,” May stated. Because everyone’s needs and situation are unique, a Client Advocate meets with each person, listens to concerns, and connects people with resources, such as equipment to help someone recuperating at home, insurance or financial assistance, a counselor, or yoga classes.

May said she focuses on the big picture by caring for people and upholding the mission. She meets with individuals (donors, funders, physicians, community partners, and staff) and listens to see how their ideas fit with the organization’s strategic plan. It’s her job to keep an eye on the daily happenings while always looking for the opportunity to make changes that will strengthen the programs and the organization’s sustainability. She works with a highly engaged board of directors and an exceptional staff committed to excellence in whatever role they serve. But one of her favorite parts of the job is a work of heart.

“I do have a special role that gives me great joy and satisfaction,” May revealed. “Last year, 228 women received wigs through Cancer Services, and my office is directly across from the wig room. Women are often nervous the first time they come to try on wigs. When they see the variety and possibilities, the mood lightens. They try some on, and they begin to laugh and play. When the door opens, I smile, give them a thumbs up, and tell them they look wonderful. And they do because they feel stronger and ready to face the journey ahead. Experiences like this inspire us to keep the mission growing and strong.”

When May joined Cancer Services twenty years ago, they served about 800 individuals in Allen County. Last year, they provided emotional support, practical help, and wellness activities to more than 4,400 individuals and their families dealing with cancer in all 11 counties of northeast Indiana. The organization now offers highly specialized professional services like therapeutic counseling and oncology massage and is always looking for more ways to have a meaningful impact on the lives of families experiencing health crises.

“Our community is rich with compassionate and generous people who care about their fellow human beings. Cancer Services is proud to be part of a network of human service organizations that help people in need in our city and region,” May said proudly. “The next time you consider making a charitable donation, volunteering, or seeking a new job, consider a local not-for-profit. These organizations provide a safety net for people in crisis and a ladder for those seeking to build a better life, and they may need your skills and passion!” a

By Lauren Caggiano |

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Jesse Kallechy has taken the helm as the 30th head coach in the Fort Wayne Komets’ storied history. The 33-year-old husband and father is ready for the challenges that lie ahead. You could even say the role is a lifelong dream that’s come to fruition. The Komets’ notoriety and longstanding presence in the community are second to none.

“The prestige of the Komets, being the second oldest franchise and professional hockey team going on their 73rd season year (drew me in),” he said. “It’s an amazing organization with a history of 10 championships. It’s really one of the best organizations in professional hockey. For me to even be considered for the job was a huge honor.”

Prior to joining the Komets, Kallechy spent the last three seasons as an assistant coach with the Florida Everblades, capturing Kelly Cup titles in 2022 and 2023. Before his time in Florida, he spent the 2018-19 and 2019-20 seasons as the head coach for the Fayetteville Marksmen of the Southern Professional Hockey League. Named the SPHL Coach of the Year in 2019-20, he secured an impressive 31-6-9 record.

But before he was making headlines, he was a boy in Canada with big dreams. Hockey being a national pastime, Kallechy found himself absorbed into that culture. In hindsight, he said the sport helped him build good habits and took him to places he never thought he’d

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go metaphorically and geographically. On that note, he’s played in rinks all around the United States and the world. He credits his parents and mentors for making that happen and encouraging him to develop and grow as a person and athlete.

“If you’d have told me when I was growing up, I’d get to [travel so much], I don’t know if I would have believed it,” he said in hindsight. “I’m very fortunate that hockey has [provided such rich experiences].”

And now he’s ready for the next chapter in his career. He shared his excitement about playing at the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, the Komets’ home turf. He’s greatly anticipating the fans’ excitement and “electric” energy on opening night. He’s also bullish on the season’s roster, noting that fans will get to meet some new and young talent who will no doubt bolster their poster on the ice.

Outside of work, Kallechy and his family just put down roots here. They recently purchased a house in the area and are excited to explore the city’s sights and sounds. He anticipates his job to be intense and he’s looking forward to balancing that with some leisure time. More than anything he’s trying to stay grounded.

“[My personal philosophy] is about attitude and effort,” he said. “Whether hockey or life, those are the only two things that you can really control. With a positive outlook and being somebody that shows up to do the job no matter what’s going on in your life [you can go far].” a

MARIAH WRIGHT

Age: 17

By Jennie Renner | Photo by Leaha Meinika

Mariah Wright is a senior at DeKalb High School. As a freshman, she had to choose a pathway to graduation and chose entrepreneurship. Her older sister, who graduated in 2020, went the same route and started a business focused on keeping plastic out of the ocean and rescuing sea life.

Inspired by her sister, Wright decided to start an eco-friendly business for her entrepreneurship class last year. She created Renovation Station, a trash-to-treasure business taking things that people throw away and upcycling them into useful items. Candles were one of her products. She collected used cans from various brands of soda and made candles with scents based on what the drink would taste like.

During her junior year, Wright entered her business into competitions and plans to compete more this year. She was nominated for Glo Girl by her business teacher Ashely Johnson. Johnson nominated her because she said out of all the students participating in business competitions last year, Wright was always coming out on top.

“She competed in a bunch of different competitions for us at Trine University and then here at the Baron Business Fair,” said Johnson. “She won the DeKalb Chamber Award… And I just know that this year she’s going to continue to grow her business and make it better and better.”

Through her experiences in competitions, Wright began to question the name she selected for her enterprise and has recently changed it to Pure Living. Along with a new name, she is expanding into eco-friendly cleaning products and will be working on developing a website soon.

Wright is currently in a small business operations class, a course offering dual credit at Ivy Tech Community College. She plans to go to college for business but is not sure yet where she will go. For now, she likes having the support of her teacher and the experience she is gaining through hands-on learning.

“I’ve always been super focused on figuring out what to do next and what to improve, and collaborating with people to decide how to fix things if things are broken, or how to move on with the next steps,” she said.

Wright has been interested in starting her own business for a while. In addition to being inspired by her sister, she watched her mom start a business of her own, too. Maybe the entrepreneurial spirit is in her blood.

Wright’s advice to others considering taking entrepreneurial classes and starting a business:

“I would tell them to be involved in it and to take the chance on creating a business. Because even if it fails, it’s still a good idea to get the chance to experience trying to start a business and learn the behind-the-scenes of a business.” a

Halloween Activities for the Whole Family

By Amber Bouthot

Spooky season is upon us from haunted houses to trunk or treat events and everything in between, Halloween is a fantastic time for family fun and bonding. Here are some Halloween activities that the whole family can enjoy:

Pumpkin Carving: Purchase pumpkins and have a pumpkin carving contest. Each family member can design their own unique jack-o’-lantern. Many stores carry pumpkin carving kits with design templates to help you create dazzling displays. You can also roast the pumpkin seeds for a tasty treat.

DIY Costumes: Create your own costumes as a family. This can be a creative and collaborative activity that lets everyone’s imagination run wild. Search on Pinterest for ideas or pull inspiration from your favorite movies or books.

Decorate the House: Transform your home into a spooky wonderland with Halloween decorations. You can make it a family project by designing and putting up decorations together, many of which could be fun DIY projects. Again, Pinterest is a great source for ideas.

Halloween Movie Marathon: Set up a cozy movie night with classic Halloween movies suitable for all ages. Prepare popcorn and candy for an authentic movie theater experience at home. If weather permits, consider setting up an outdoor movie experience to up the spooky factor.

Halloween Baking: Bake Halloween-themed treats like cookies, cupcakes, or spooky desserts as a family. You can have a decorating contest and enjoy the delicious results afterward. Many stores sell kits these days, making it easy and fun for all ages to get in on the action.

Haunted House Adventure: Create a DIY haunted house in your own living room or backyard. Design spooky scenes and have family members take turns guiding each other through the haunted experience.

Costume Parade: Organize a costume parade in your home or yard. Have each family member showcase their costume and strike a pose while the others applaud and cheer.

Bobbing for Apples: Set up a classic bobbing-for-apples station. It’s a traditional game that’s sure to bring lots of laughter and fun.

Scavenger Hunt: Organize a Halloween-themed scavenger hunt in your home, yard, or neighborhood. Hide small treats, clues, or Halloween-themed items for family and friends to find.

Glow-in-the-Dark Dance Party: Decorate a room with glow-in-thedark items and have a dance party with Halloween music. Wear costumes that are reflective or glow in the dark for added fun. Visit a Pumpkin Patch or Corn Maze: If available in your area, visiting a pumpkin patch or navigating through a corn maze can be a memorable family outing.

Remember to tailor these activities to the preferences and age ranges of your family members. The goal is to have a memorable and enjoyable Halloween experience together. a

Halloween Costume Ideas

- for adults

By Amber Bouthot

Don’t let kids have all the fun. Halloween is fun for adults too! There are many creative and unique Halloween costume ideas for adults. Here are some ideas that go beyond the usual options:

Punny Costumes:

Who doesn’t love a good pun? Try these on for size.

Cereal Killer: Attach mini cereal boxes to a shirt and carry a fake knife.

French Kiss: Dress as a stereotypical French person and carry Hershey’s Kisses.

Smartie Pants: Glue Smarties candy onto a pair of pants.

Spice Girls: Dress as different spices and carry microphones as a play on the music group.

Pop Culture Icons:

These make great costumes because they are easily recognizable and lend themselves to couple or group costumes.

The Queen’s Gambit Characters: Embrace the chess theme with outfits inspired by the characters from the TV show or even the chess pieces themselves.

Tiger King Cast: Dress as Joe Exotic, Carole Baskin, or other memorable characters from the documentary.

WandaVision Characters: Choose a costume that represents one of the eras from the show’s different episodes.

Classic Horror with a Twist:

Put the spooky in the event with these ideas.

Zombie Disney Princess: Take a classic Disney princess costume and give it a spooky, undead twist.

Vampire Hunter: Dress as a fierce vampire hunter with stakes, crosses, and other vampire-fighting gear.

Frankenstein’s Bride: Put a glamorous spin on the classic monster bride look.

Literary and Movie Characters:

If you’re a book nerd, this is your genre.

Sherlock Holmes or Nancy Drew: Embrace your inner detective with a Victorian-inspired outfit.

Jay Gatsby or Flapper from “The Great Gatsby”: Step back into the Roaring Twenties with style.

Mary Poppins: Channel the magical nanny with her iconic umbrella and bag.

Play on Words:

A close cousin to Punny, these clever costumes are sure to draw attention.

Freudian Slip: Wear a slip dress and attach famous Freudian slips (words or phrases that reveal hidden thoughts).

Identity Thief: Attach name tags from various people to your costume to be a literal “identity thief.”

Remember to add your personal touch and creativity to any costume you choose. Whether you’re aiming for humor, nostalgia, or a touch of elegance, the key is to have fun and enjoy the creative process! a

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On Her Nightstand

By Wendy Stein

Sylvia E. Hyndman

Sylvia E. Hyndman is 9 years old. She loves all animals (especially wolves), sushi, and macarons. She has one cat named Alice. She also has an older brother named Saul. Sylvia is in 4th grade at Irwin Elementary School, where she has been involved in theater, the chess club, and the weaving club and has served as a peer mediator. She plays the piano, takes horseback riding lessons, and participates in the swim team at Poco. When she gets older, Sylvia wants to be a veterinarian.

Let’s talk about books and reading! How long have you been a reader?

I was 3 years old when I started to read. My mom says that I never stop reading. It’s true that I read whenever I have free time. I read before bed, in the car, outside…basically whenever I can.

What kinds of books do you enjoy reading?

My favorite are fiction books about animals and mythical animals. Sometimes the books I read are written in third person, and sometimes they are written in first person with the animal as the narrator. I like to see how the authors think about animals. I also like non-fiction books about animals and plants. I am always eager to learn more about nature!

What are some books you love?

One of my favorite series is called “Warriors.” It is by a group of authors that write under the name of Erin Hunter. It is about cats that live in 5 different clans: ThunderClan, RiverClan, ShadowClan, WindClan, and SkyClan. Each clan has a Leader, a Deputy, a Medicine Cat, Warriors, and Apprentices. I like the authors’ writing style. They’re descriptive, and you can kind of understand what the cats are thinking. I have probably read eleven Warriors books and graphic novels. I even had a Warriors birthday party!

I like reading series. Once you finish a book, and you like it, the good times don’t end. You can just read the next book in the series.

I also keep four “Rebel Girls” books on my nightstand. They are about girls and women who have done awesome things. Since the stories only take up two pages (one for words and one for an illustration), you can learn about a lot of different people in one book. For example, I learned about Sylvia Earle. She was a marine biologist who loved the oceans and explained to people how important they are.

Is there a character from a book you wish you could be?

I would love to be a Warrior cat or a dragon from “Wings of Fire” for a day. That would be fun because I would get to be an animal, but instead of just communicating with body language, I’d be able to actually talk, or I could fly if I was a dragon.

Is there anything else you’d like to share about reading?

I never met a book I didn’t like. Even if I did find a book I didn’t like, I would still finish it because I love to read, no matter what the book’s about. I don’t want to give up on a book because they sometimes get more interesting. a

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How Childhood Trauma Can Lead to Addiction… And What You Can Do About It

By Mary Jane Bogle

It’s every parent’s nightmare: I’m going to do something that will ruin my child. That’s why conversations about childhood trauma and its link to addictive behavior can be so terrifying.

According to Colleen Kachmann, author and founder of Recover with Colleen, that unseen fear is precisely why we should be talking about this issue. She defines trauma as anything that causes emotional or physical pain that we can’t comprehend.

Trauma can include anything from big “T” trauma, such as physical and sexual abuse or catastrophic events, or it might be a little “t” trauma a time when we experienced pain that led to shame. And that’s something we’ve all encountered, no matter how good our parents are.

Let’s say your parents motivated you through shame. If you received a bad grade, the secret lesson of trauma you might have learned is that you’re bad if you don’t get good results. When your own children don’t get good results, you might respond the way you were raised. Even though you love your children, you might pass on the same lessons by shaming them.

Or you might swing the other way and give everybody a trophy. “We’re so afraid of making our children feel the same way we felt that we don’t respond appropriately to events in their lives,” Kachmann said. “Feelings reflect your own programming. You need to distinguish between trauma and truth, and then you have options to respond.”

Making that distinction is essential, according to Kachmann, because trauma creates emotional inflammation. “As long as you

are emotionally inflamed,” she said, “you can’t explore all your options.” In other words, parents need to understand that [fill in the blank] is not the problem. My thoughts and feelings about [fill in the blank] are the problem.

According to Kachmann, “awareness of trauma is the gateway to healing.” For big “T” traumas, healing might require professional help from a licensed, trauma-informed clinician. Other times, we might just need to create new understanding about traumatic events in our lives.

Instead of letting trauma corrupt our memory files, we can put things into a larger perspective. “What have I learned from that? How have I grown? What kind of wisdom have I gained?” These kinds of conversations give you the power to change the narrative of your story.

When it comes to our children, Kachmann recommends asking a simple question: “What am I making this mean? If your child isn’t doing well in school, what are you making that mean? Is it triggering fear in your body? If so, the more stressed and emotional you feel, the less likely you are to offer a big picture response.”

According to Kachmann, the only way to show up with objective, intelligence guidance for our children is to get our own feelings out of the way. Instead of thinking, “I need you to do better so I feel better about myself,” ask, “What else is going on here with my child?”

Any time a reaction seems outsized or undersized to a situation, trauma is in play. In that moment, you need to help your children realize that their feeling are caused by thoughts in their heads, and then allow those thoughts and feelings to be seen and heard.

By pulling those thoughts and emotions into consciousness, we can identify false beliefs and deal with them appropriately. Doing so can prevent further negative consequences, such as addictive behavior, from controlling our lives. a

By Cassie Beer, Director of Women’s Fund of Greater Fort Wayne

In Allen County, one in three women have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime: that’s significantly higher than the national average of one in four. October has been designated Domestic Violence Awareness month ever since 1989, when Congress passed Public Law 101-112 as a critical reminder of the urgent need to address and eradicate domestic violence in our society. You might see purple ribbons wrapped around trees or notice members of our community donning purple on Fridays this month.

Let’s pause to learn a little more about what this month means, how you can play a part in raising awareness, and why it remains essential in our collective efforts to combat this pervasive problem.

The Silent Epidemic

Domestic violence, often referred to as intimate partner violence, is a silent epidemic that affects millions of individuals, regardless of age, gender, race, ability, or socioeconomic status. It takes many forms, including physical abuse, emotional manipulation, sexual assault, spiritual abuse, and financial control. Despite its prevalence, domestic violence often occurs behind closed doors, making it difficult to detect and address. Domestic Violence Awareness Month aims to break the silence and provide a platform for survivors to share their stories and seek support.

Raising Awareness

One of the primary goals of Domestic Violence Awareness Month is to raise public awareness about the issue. Many people underestimate the scope and severity of domestic violence, and this lack of understanding can perpetuate the problem. By dedicating an entire month to education and awareness, society can begin to shed light on the often-hidden struggles of survivors. Awareness campaigns during October include educational events, workshops, and community discussions, hosted by amazing local organizations, such as the YWCA and Victim’s Assistance. These initiatives aim to inform individuals about the signs of domestic violence, how to support survivors, and where to find help. By empowering communities with knowledge, we can create safer environments for those affected by domestic violence.

Supporting Survivors

Another crucial aspect of Domestic Violence Awareness Month is providing support for survivors. Victims of domestic violence often feel isolated and ashamed, and they may not know where

to turn for help. This month offers a platform for survivors to share their experiences and connect with organizations and individuals who can help.

The Women’s Fund of Greater Fort Wayne is working to increase awareness of resources available to survivors during this time, including shelters, hotlines, counseling services, and legal aid. By connecting survivors with these resources, we can help them escape abusive situations and begin the journey toward healing and recovery.

Promoting Prevention

Preventing domestic violence is just as important as supporting survivors. Domestic Violence Awareness Month encourages communities to take a proactive stance against abuse. By promoting healthy relationships, teaching conflict resolution skills, and addressing the root causes of violence, we can work towards preventing domestic violence before it occurs.

Community Engagement

Domestic violence is not an isolated issue; it affects entire communities. Domestic Violence Awareness Month encourages community engagement and activism. This includes advocating for policy changes, supporting local organizations that assist survivors, and fostering a culture of respect and empathy. In Allen County, the Women’s Fund is advocating for the creation of Domestic Violence Problem Solving Court to increase survivor supports and perpetrator accountability.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month is a crucial opportunity to address a pressing societal issue that affects millions of individuals every day. By raising awareness, supporting survivors, promoting prevention, and engaging communities, we can work together to eradicate domestic violence from our society. October serves as a reminder that we all have a role to play in creating a world where everyone can live free from fear and abuse. Let us use this month to act, break the silence, and work towards a future where domestic violence is no longer a silent epidemic but a thing of the past. a

We Love Your Style

HARMONY AKE

By Amber Bouthot

Each month, we highlight someone whose style we admire. This month, it’s Harmony Ake, who is always finding new way to express her creative soul. From jewelry making to building furniture and organizing her life, she enjoys beautifying the spaces in which she, her partner Jodie, and their pets, live.

How would you describe your style?

I believe my design style continues to evolve as I do. It should be a blend of your interests and experiences to tell your life’s story. I always knew that my paternal grandmother was full Icelandic, but it wasn’t until our trip to Iceland in 2019 that I began to fully appreciate my Nordic heritage. I took from the breathtaking landscapes of dormant volcanoes and lava fields; waterfalls and rainbows; basalt pillars and black sand beaches and mirrored their layered textures and stark beauty of contrasts into my design style. Interestingly enough, our home already had many of the elements of Nordic design and that experience simply elevated it to a deeper and richer level.

We spend most of our time in the main living area. We love having friends and family over, whether for dinners, holidays, highly competitive game nights, or tossing dough in the air as we come up with interesting and delicious pizzas for our epic outdoor pizza parties. No matter the occasion; there is always amazing conversation and laughter within this space. Another room we enjoy is the 3-season room. We originally built it as a covered patio, but when Jodie’s mom passed away, we wanted to honor her by enclosing it. She would have absolutely loved it. This is our place to have morning coffee where we watch the ducks and an occasional blue heron swim out on the pond. We also enjoy watching the sunset spread across the sky as we binge a couple episodes from a favorite series on a crisp fall evening.

Tell us a little about each of the areas you chose to highlight. Why did you choose them? What makes them your faves?

We built our home with the primary desire for it to be open and welcoming for friends and family. As to which rooms to highlight; it is hard to pinpoint a specific room. I feel that the living area, kitchen, and dining area flow together seamlessly to envelope you with warmth and coziness.

Finally, a family favorite is our office. My mother calls it the Hemmingway room. It displays snapshots of our family history and little treasures we have found along the way. It also features a beautiful, canvased photo of the Wells Street Bridge by local artist Daniel Church. I could spend hours sharing about what each carefully selected piece means to us.

When you think of your home, what’s the feeling you hope your family and visitors have?

Many people of Nordic countries live by the concept of “Hygge”: It is a way to forget the stresses of everyday life by creating a cozy and welcoming sanctuary that brings a sense of togetherness by prioritizing the people you care about the most. I hope that when our guests leave our home, they feel refreshed, well-nourished, and comforted like they have received a long, warm hug.

What’s your favorite color?

My favorite color to wear is orange. My favorite color to accent my neutrals is blue. It reminds me both of the sky and the sea. a

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Seasonal style Upgrade your outdoor fall décor

By Julie Young

Autumn is a time of change, and there is no better way to begin the metamorphosis than by swapping out your traditional style for something new and fresh. If you are ready to kick your outdoor décor into high gear, we have the elegant elements that will take you from Halloween through Thanksgiving and beyond!

Avoiding orange

If every season has a signature color, then orange is synonymous with fall. However, orange (and its related hues) isn’t for everyone, and there is no hard and fast rule that says you must incorporate it. Why not consider an alternative color palate to welcome family and friends to your home. Blue, green, and grey plaids can warm up your outdoor living spaces while brown, sage, and ivory can give your front porch an added pop. Trade out orange pumpkins for white or metallic options and don’t forget to accent with forest green gourds for an elegant and understated look.

Go nuts!

If you are seeking a twist on traditional floral wreaths and swags that will look great and last longer, mother nature provides with pinecones, acorns, dried flowers, wheat shafts, and more! Homeowners can incorporate these items into stunning door décor that will not fade by the end of the month. Did you go to the beach this summer or miss your lake house? Don’t forget to add some shells or sand dollars to remind you of the warmer weather and cherished memories!

Think pink?

Cozy and comfy

Create cozy and comfortable corners throughout your property so that you can enjoy the crisp temps and treat yourself to a respite from the world. Think outside the box to include antique items that can be repurposed to add some warmth to a space. Drape flannel blankets to encourage guests to stay for one more cup of cider, and fit birch logs with votive candles (reals ones or battery powered) to light up an autumn night. Turn a small wheelbarrow on its side and layer gourds to look as if they spilled out enroute to the house.

Loving layers

When it comes to fall, too much is never enough! We want our cornucopias to be overflowing with a bountiful harvest and your fall décor should be plentiful and layered. Slip a throw rug under your door mat for an added layer of hygge. Place a large urn atop a hay bale so that you have multiple heights to work with. Your efforts will draw the eye to those details that might be lost in the shuffle.

It may seem counterintuitive, but pastel pink can offer a neutral base to your autumn décor and can showcase purple, ruby, and other jewel tones that can get lost in the shuffle. Not everyone will “fall” for pink, but it can be a non-traditional autumn shade that will add some grace and glamour to any space. It can also look great with a layer of moss or used with ferns. a

Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program

What is an Ombudsman?

An Ombudsman is… an advocate for residents of long-term care facilities, board and care homes, and assisted living. They are trained and certified to resolve problems, address complaints, advocate for improvements in the longterm care system, to have the responsibility to negotiate on a resident’s behalf, and to work with other state agencies for effective enforcement. All Ombudsman services are FREE to residents and/ or family members who seek our help.

The LTC Ombudsman Program is authorized by the Federal Older Americans Act. This act requires every state, through the Office on Aging, to create a statewide ombudsman program to investigate and resolve complaints made by, or on behalf of, individuals who are residents in long term care facilities. Our local office covers all nine counties in northeast Indiana and its services remain free and confidential. The LTC Ombudsman Program is the largest stand-alone ombudsman program in the state of Indiana. An integral part of its advocacy efforts is building its Volunteer Ombudsman Program, where community members are trained and certified to visit residents in nursing homes that may be having issues with their care.

Planting Spring Bulbs

By Bethany Beebe

All things fresh and new from the early growing season are nearing their end, but we can plan now for beauty to come. Spring bulbs, planted now, offer beauty that even a novice gardener can handle.

What to plant

Bulbs are either hardy or tender. Hardy bulbs are planted in the Fall, establish their roots before winter arrives, and grow leaves and flowers in the Spring(1). Tender bulbs cannot handle the cold and make their way outdoors after danger of frost.

Dormant at purchase, fresh bulbs have the best chance of life and should be purchased as soon as available. Whether making the purchase online or in a brick-and-mortar store, firm, large, plump bulbs are the ideal. Steer clear of any with signs of softness, bruises, blemishes, molding, or sprouting(2). Once purchased, the amount of time you have to get them in the ground can vary; those with paper-like brown skins can wait a few weeks, but more delicate options require more immediate installation(1). Snowdrops or fritillaria quickly deteriorate, for example, so ought to be planted shortly after obtaining them.

In this part of the Midwest, classics like tulips, daffodils, and crocus are tried-and-true selections. While many varieties are available and can handle differing soil types, the soil must be well drained. Proper amendments with compost or peat moss can create more-ideal conditions. One thing that cannot escape consideration but is necessary for the life of the bulb and forthcoming plant is the level of light. Full sun or partial shade, depending on the species, is an absolute necessity. Either reading the package or consulting Purdue Extension’s HO-86-W, cited here, offers this information and more for species common to

When to plant

Purdue Extension recommends bulbs be in the ground by the beginning of October. While the best bulbs may be gone earlier in the season, those purchased toward the end of the season can make their way to a winter home outdoors if the soil temperature stays above 40 degrees F, the temperature needed to stimulate root growth that acts as foundation for Spring success.

How to plant

Once the soil is amended to well drained and of good composition (as recommended by a soil sample), a trowel or bulb planter can be used to deposit the bulbs. A trowel is recommended for less soil compaction as the gardener places bulbs pointy end up. Larger bulbs go further apart and smaller closer together with specific recommendations in HO-86-W to avoid stunted growth that may otherwise occur. With a little advanced work, you will be anything but short on color when Spring has sprung again. a

(1) https://www.purdue.edu/hla/sites/yardandgarden/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2016/10/ HO-86.pdf

(2) https://www.purdue.edu/hla/sites/yardandgarden/still-time-to-plant-spring-floweringbulbs-this-fall/

HOME I am Rachelle Reinking & Daniel Church

By Beth Anne Brink-Cox | Photo by Kae Marie Photography

“Our love of performance and production brought us together,” Reinking said. “In 2016, I had recently joined the Fort Wayne Bombshells Burlesque troupe as a performer. Daniel is the production and technical manager and had been for a few years before I joined the troupe. On Halloween night in 2020, we were married at the Auburn Cord Duesenberg Automobile Museum. We got engaged in New Orleans in St. Louis Cemetery #1 at Marie Laveau’s tomb. We got married on a Full Moon. Our first anniversary trip was an overnight ghost hunt in a century-old infirmary. And last year, we finally got to go on our honeymoon after having a pandemic wedding: The Stanley Hotel in Estes Park, Colorado.”

Both Reinking and Church have roles in their primary jobs that focus on promoting community through creativity. As Director of Communications at Arts United of Greater Fort Wayne, Reinking gets to showcase the vast amount of arts and culture experiences in Northeast Indiana. In Daniel’s role as Creative Director at Visit DeKalb, he gets to highlight the history and small businesses that make the county unique as a destination.

They are both founding board members of Fort Wayne HeART of the City, which is a volunteer-run art collective focused on providing opportunities and connections for local artists. The organization hosts a non-juried art market during Three Rivers Festival, which is a great way to begin an artist’s work experience in vending. The event Picture This is a collaborative event of visual art and poetry, where a poet and visual artist are paired in a blind collaboration to be revealed at our event. Daniel is part of a photography collective at East Ende Eclectic, where he does most of his freelance work. Together, they’ve created an interactive Halloween experience called A Nightmare on Berry Street with photo ops, art vendors, and several spooky scenes happening on October 21.

“We’re animal lovers, and our house shows it. We have a full house with our pets, which includes our three Dobermans and four cats,” Reinking said. She and Daniel walk the walk: “For my 30th birthday last year, I held a pet food drive for the Pet Food Pantry program with a goal of raising 30,000 pounds of pet food. We hit nearly 28,000 pounds in the 30 days of the campaign. We also have been event photographers for their signature events and adoption photos, and I work in the canine kennels for playgroup.”

The arts are important to the couple, and Fort Wayne is so unique in this scene.

Reinking said, “There are many opportunities to connect with others and create your own experiences. The people who want to see change and make it happen are the reason Fort Wayne has continued to grow. There are so many amenities for entertainment and ways to get involved in the community. You can find your people here,” as Reinking and Church have obviously done. Get to know them! a

Rachelle Reinking and her husband, Daniel Church, live a rich and varied life in Fort Wayne.

Kitchen Renovation

By Amber Bouthot

Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine? Email ambouthot@the-papers.com.

This month’s Reader DIY comes from Kiley Tate Potts. Kiley and Martin met 13 years ago working as professional dancers for Carnival Cruise Lines. After nearly 10 years at sea, Martin left his home in England to move to Kiley’s hometown (Fort Wayne) where they wanted to put down roots. They have spent the last 4 years expanding their DIY skills on their 100-year-old home in the ’05 neighborhood. Martin now works as the winemaker at a local winery and Kiley works with individuals on their charitable giving at a local foundation. They share their 100-yearold home with 1 year old daughter Eloise and their dog Millie. They love to travel and are always up for an adventure!

How long did it take from start to finish?

I wish we could say this project was quick and easy, but it wasn’t. We started the demolition in April of 2021 and completed the project in October of 2021. 7 months total.

Was it easier or harder than you anticipated?

I think we both agree it was easier than expected given the scale of the project, but maybe we also feel that way since we didn’t fully know what we were getting into. It seemed to get easier as we kept going. Taking things completely down to the bare bones felt like we had a fresh place to start and the chance to bring something back to life based on our vision.

What was the total cost of the project

$20- $25k

What did you like best about the undertaking?

We love getting the chance to learn and be creative together. We viewed this project as an adventure. It was an opportunity to work hard together on something that we were both excited about and learn new skills that we had no idea we had. The experience of recreating and building a vision together brings us so much joy. Now getting to host friends and family in a space that we poured so much energy into is so fulfilling!

What was the most challenging aspect?

Hands down the hardest part of this project was living without a kitchen for 7 months. We used a microwave in our basement for the better part of a year for all our meals.

Where did you source the materials?

A combination of a few places:

White Cabinetry: Walcraft Cabinets, Wood Island: Built by us

Countertop: Wise Stone Choice , Flooring: Lowes, Lumber: Menards

Pendant Lights: Target, Appliances: Costco, Wooden Door: Thrifted from a garage sale and refurbished, Outdoor Windows and Doors: Pella, Mirror: Thrifted from our neighbor’s estate sale.

(Fun fact: this mirror is in the exact spot where we used to have a window. The window faced our neighbor’s house, and they would wave at us each morning. One of the couple has since passed away. This mirror was picked up at their estate sale and is always a reminder of our first neighbors who made us feel so welcome in our neighborhood.) a

What was your inspiration for the project?

When we moved into our home, we knew the kitchen had some serious room for improvement. The kitchen is the heart of the home! Have you ever noticed that people tend to gravitate toward the food and drinks at a gathering? We look at the kitchen as a space that brings people together. We love to host, so we tackled this project with that in mind knowing that spending time with those we love is an important piece of our lives.

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2 | Monday | Vaccination Clinic & Health Fair

Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation and the Aging and Disability Collaboration will host a Vaccination Clinic and Health Fair on October

2 from 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. at the Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation Community Center. This is designed for adults ages 18 and above and offers free vaccines (Shingles, Pneumonia, Flu, Covid etc.) and assessments. No registration is needed, but please bring I.D. and health insurance information. https://www.fortwayneparks.org/images/PDF/Youth_Centers/ Vaccination_Clinics.pdf

4 | Wednesday |

Hari Kondabolu at Summit City Comedy Club

Show time is 7:30 p.m., Tickets are $20. https://www.summitcitycomedy.com/ shows/233311

5 | Thursday |

Trashy Thursday

Volunteer to pick up trash along Smith and Engle roads. 10 a.m. to noon. Wear close-toed shoes and long pants. Safety vests, gloves, trash bags, trash grabbers and snacks provided. Cancelled if raining. https://www.lrwp. org/events

5 – 8 | Thursday - Sunday |

Lucky Duck Consignment Sale at Kruse Plaza

Recurring daily, https://luckyduckfortwayne.com/

7 | Saturday |

A Walk to Remember for Perinatal and Infant Loss at Huntertown Family Park Pavilion

10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. https://www.walktorememberfw.org/

7, 14, 21, 28 | Saturdays | Fort Wayne’s Farmers Market at the Franciscan Center on State Street across from Northrop High School. 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. For more information about the market and its vendors, visit the Fort Wayne Farmers Market’s website. ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com.

7 – 29 | Saturdays & Sundays | Wild Zoo Halloween

Visit the Zoo this October for spooktacular activities, including: Spooky Animal Enrichment, treats, and more! Costumes welcome! https://kidszoo.org/

12 | Thursday |

A Tale of One Talking Fromage – Book Launch

This event will introduce the book “A Tale Of One Talking Fromage” by Finnley St.Clair. Accompanying this launch, we will offer a raffle, a cheese tasting, music, and an engaging scavenger hunt. The North Manchester Public Library, 4:00 p.m.

12 | Thursday | Settlers, Inc. Program

“The Root Cellar” “Preserving, Cooking and Tasting the Fall Harvest”. Historic Swinney Homestead 1849 Log House, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne; 9-11:30 a.m.: Refreshments; $20; Reservations by Oct. 5; (260)637-6692 www.settlersinc.org.

13 & 14 | Friday & Saturday | Settlers’ Log House Harvest Dinner by Candlelight

Dinner served by costumed Settlers in the 1849 Log House at the Historic Swinney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd. $50/person; limited seating; prepaid reservations by October 1; (260)432-7314 or (260)432-4232. www.settlersinc.org.

14 | Saturday |

Heather Headley at the Auer Performance Hall at Purdue University Fort Wayne. Show time is 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $27. https://ticketing.fwphil.org/1016/1039

14 | Saturday | Mugs on the Marsh

The 2nd Saturday each month for a phenology hike. These hikes are FREE and will be led by knowledgeable volunteers from the Northeast Chapter of the Indiana Native Plant Society and Little River Wetlands Project. Meet at 10:30am in front of the LRWP offices, and then head out to hike. The hike will end at between 11:30 am and noon. https://www.lrwp.org/events

15 | Sunday |

Handmade Homemade Sale at Salomon Farm Park

It’s not too early to start you holiday shopping! Crafters and artisans will be selling their handmade homemade goods in the Wolf Family Learning Center and the Old Barn. Non-shoppers can enjoy an afternoon at the farm or walk the trail. 12:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. https:// www.fortwayneparks.org/facilities/ saloman-farm-park/upcoming-programs-events.html

19 – 23 | Thursday – Monday | Hobnobben Film Festival at the Cinema Center

Hobnobben attracts films and filmmakers from around the globe, as well as from the Hoosier state. Narrative features, documentaries and short films will be screened in Cinema Center’s main auditorium and Spectator Lounge all weekend. Tickets range from $5-15.

https://hobnobben.org/2023-festival

21 | Saturday |

Howl O Walkoween

Annual fundraiser for Animal Care & Control’s Humane Education Deparment. Promenade Park in the pavilion 202 W Superior St, Fort Wayne, IN 46802. Time: 2 p.m. – 6 p.m. https://www.cityoffortwayne.org/acc-upcoming-events/ howl-o-walkoween.html

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22 | Friday – Sunday |

Shino Shadows is Fort Wayne Dance Collective’s 14th annual Halloween Show! Tickets are $20.

https://fwdc.org/event/shinoshadows/

27 | Friday |

Fall Foliage Final Friday Hike at Lindenwood Nature Preserve

The final Friday of October for a final peak at fall foliage and some time outdoors before the winter cold arrives. The hike departs from the parking lot promptly as scheduled and is open to all ages so bring the whole family. There is no charge; however, pre-registration is required for planning purposes. Call 427-6000 to sign up. Registration deadline: October 24.

Botanical Conservatory

• Saturday, July 1, through Nov. 12, “An Herban Garden” exhibit, open during regular hours.

• Tuesday, October 3 through October 29, Pumpkin Patch Display. Enjoy fall surroundings in the outdoor Exploration Garden decorated in its seasonal best.

• Friday, October 6, Botanical Brew. Meet your friends downtown for a sampling of all things brewed: coffee, tea, cider, craft beer, and wine. $10 admission, all ages welcome. 4:00-9:00 p.m.

• Saturday, October 21, Rocky Horror Picture Show. Join the Botanical Conservatory for its 15th screening of this cult classic. Weather permitting, movie will be enjoyed outdoors. Admission is $10 for all ages. Doors open at 7:00 p.m., movie starts at 9:15 p.m.

• Saturday, October 28, Garden Trick or Treating. Regular admission applies. 12:00-3:00 p.m.

Adults $7, children (3-17) $5, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-4 p.m. Sunday; closed Monday. 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.

Fort Wayne Embassy Theatre

• Friday, October 13, An Evening with Ashanti. Spend the evening with Grammy Award Winning Artist Ashanti. Show time is 8:00 p.m. Tickets start at $59.

• Friday, October 13, Music Lovers Lounge. Get ready for the ultimate dance party as Music Lovers Lounge is back to celebrate DJ Barrage’s Birthday! Dance the night away with your fellow music lovers in the Embassy’s multi-tier ballroom with rooftop access (weather permitting). Show time is 10:00 p.m. Each table comes with 4 seats & 4 meal tickets. Tickets are $25.

• Saturday, October 14, Rupaul’s Drag Race: Night of the Living Drag. Sashay into The Twilight Zone this Halloween with the queens of RuPaul’s Drag Race for the 12th Annual Night of the Living Drag Tour! Show time 8:00 p.m. Tickets start at $35.

• Wednesday, October 18, Harry Chapin at 80. Harry Chapin (1942 – 1981) was one of our most passionate, political, prolific and inspiring songwriters. This Long Island icon has reached a milestone birthday – his 80th – and his family feels a celebration is in order! Show time 7:30 p.m., Tickets start at $45.

• Thursday, October 19, The Price is Right Live- On Stage. Get ready to experience the excitement of listening for your name to be called to “Come on Down” and play the famous pricing games direct from television’s longest running and best-loved game show! Show time 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $29.

• Friday, October 20, Nosferatu ft. Organist Dennis James! Show time 7:00 p.m. Tickets are $15 general admission.

• Saturday, October 21, Friday the 13th (movie) and First Jason (band). Join the Embassy Theatre for Fright Night! Start the evening off by watching the classic horror film Friday the 13th (7 p.m.) followed by a Q&A session with Ari Lehman the first actor to ever portray the role of Jason. Ari Lehman comes back on stage with his punk metal band First Jason (9 p.m.). Tickets are $20 general admission.

• Sunday, October 22, Menopause the Musical. This hilarious musical parody set to classic tunes from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s will have you cheering and dancing in the aisles. Show time is 4:00 p.m., tickets start at $29.

• Wednesday, October 25, Come From Away (touring). COME FROM AWAY tells the remarkable true story of 7,000 stranded passengers and the small town in Newfoundland that welcomed them. Show time is 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $35.

• Thursday, October 26, Spider-Man: Into the Spider-verse Live in Concert. Featuring a soundtrack that blends symphonic orchestral music with hip-hop, Spider-Man: Into The Spider-Verse Live in Concert pairs a screening of the Academy Award®-winning animated film with live musicians and turntables featuring a DJ scratcher live on stage. Show time is 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $30.

• Sunday, October 29, James “Murr” Murray. James Murray is a writer, executive producer, and comedian, best known as “Murr” on the hit TV show Impractical Jokers on truTV and The Misery Index on TBS. Show time is 6:00 p.m. Tickets start at $36.25.

NOTE: Ticket prices are subject to fluctuation based on demand. 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

Memorial Coliseum

27 | Friday |

Hopeloween at Baker Street Centre

Hopeloween is the annual Halloween-themed fundraising event for Hope’s Harbor. Community supporters gather for a night filled with live music, good food & drinks, auctions, costume contests, and more, all while raising funds and awareness towards our mission at Hope’s Harbor. 6:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. Tickets are $110.

• Saturday, October 7 Art of Scrap 7 MMA Fight Show. 6:00 p.m. Tickets: $133, $118, $108, VIP Tables $558 ($93 per ticket) – Must purchase 6 tickets, $61, $51

• Saturday, October 8, Fall Bridal Spectacular, 12:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. Tickets: $10; Kids 12 & Under FREE.

• Saturday & Sunday, October 14 & 15, Gun & Knife Show (EC). Saturday, 9:00am – 5:00pm; Sunday, October 15 @ 10:00am – 3:00pm. Tickets: Adults $7.00; Seniors 60+ $6.00; Kids 12 and under FREE.

• Saturday & Sunday, October 14 & 15, Brickworld Fort Wayne. Saturday 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m.; Sunday 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. General Admission $14 Day of Show ($12 Advance); Military Member & First Responder with ID $11 Day of Show ($9 Advance); Kids 3 and under FREE.

• Thurday, October 19, Cole Swindell “Twelve Tour 2023” w/ special guests Conner Smith & Greylan James. Show time is 7:00 p.m., Tickets $68.50, $58.50, $48.50, $38.50.

• Tuesday, October 24, Foreigner: The Historic Farewell Tour. Show time is 7:30 p.m. Tickets are $149.50, $89.50, $69.50, $59.50, $49.50.

Parking $8 main lot, $12 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

Fort Wayne Museum of Art

Exhibitions:

• Indiana Artists Club 2023 Annual Members Exhibition, September 16 - November 26

• Landfall Press: Five Decades of Printmaking, August 19 – November 12

• Planes, Trains & Automobiles: Classic Toys and Americana (ongoing)

• The Glass Wing of FWMoA (ongoing)

• Kaiyodo: Mini Artworks for the Modern Age (ongoing)

Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org.

The Clyde Theatre

• Saturday, October 7, The Righteous Brothers. Doors at 7:00 p.m., show at 8:00 p.m. Tickets start at $59.50

• Sunday, October 8, Pat Metheny: Dream Box Tour. Doors at 6:30 p.m., show at 7:30 a.m.

• Wednesday, October 18, 98.9 The Bear’s Growl-o-ween: Static X and Sevendust with Special Guests Dope and Lines of Loyalty. Doors at 5:30 p.m., how at 6:15 p.m. Tickets start at $39.50, general admission standing room.

• Friday, October 20, Larry Fleet Live: The Fall Tour with Special Guest Karley Scott Collins. Doors at 7:00 p.m., show at 8:00 p.m. Tickets star at $27.50.

• Saturday, October 21, The Mersey Beatles with special guest Clayton Anderson. Doors at 6:00 p.m., s how at 7:00 p.m., tickets starting at $25.

• Sunday, October 22, Kings Kaleidoscope with Mike Mains and The Branches. Doors at 6:00 p.m., show at 7:00 p.m. Tickets start at $25.

• Tuesday, October 24, Mania: The Abba Tribute. Doors at 6:30 p.m., show at 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $27.50.

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October 21, 2023

Doors open at 6pm Runway show begins at 7pm Allen County War Memorial Coliseum

Glo Magazine is proud to sponsor Humane Fort Wayne’s fundraiser Pawject Runway.

Join Humane Fort Wayne for a fantastic, red-carpet runway spectacular at the 9th Annual Pawject Runway! Watch as professional groomers transform their canine models into works of art and rock the runway in the area’s only creative grooming showcase.

Attendees can expect to make an entrance on the red carpet with photographers (pup-arazzi) snapping photos. Once inside, guests will be treated to hors d’oeuvres, cash bar, live and silent auctions, and a one-of-a-kind runway show.

All proceeds will benefit pets (and people) in need through Humane Fort Wayne’s lifesaving programs.

For more information, visit https://humanefw.org/runway/.

Photos by Rachelle Reinking

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