Glo - March 2023

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glo “Let’s Get Ready for Spring”

From the executive editor

Hi glo readers

There’s something in the spring air that instantly conjures memories of springs gone by my kiddos riding their bikes and jumping in puddles in our cul de sac last year; my first two Great Danes getting the zoomies in my back yard many years ago; all the way back to high school track meets and the nervous flutter I’d get in my stomach before my race. The memories are so vivid; tied to the way the air feels (slightly damp and still chilly) and smells (fresh and new). It also inspires me to throw open the windows to let the stale winter air out of the house as soon as it is remotely warm enough. What memories does spring evoke for you? What does this season of renewal inspire you to do? I’d love to hear from you. Email me anytime at ambouthot@thepapers.com.

This issue’s theme is “Let’s Get Ready for Spring,” so after you return from memory lane, we are here to help you do all the things needed to embrace the season. From our annual spring fashion preview to spring break planning and storm preparedness, we have you covered. We also recognize Women’s History Month with an article about the origins of this worldwide celebration.

Whatever your plans this season, we hope you make lasting memories and embrace what each day brings.

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Title of piece: Brynley

What inspired this piece?

I took a dual credit art course titled “Color” my senior year of high school. Through the course, I explored different color schemes and lace with watercolor paints. Recently, I have been going back to those explorations to create portrait work that balances loose and tight control of the watercolor medium. I used a reference image of my niece when she was three years old. I chose a triadic color scheme that uses yellow, red, and blue to create a bold statement.

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cover artist: Elisa Scheribel

Hometown: Three Rivers, MI

Current Town: Fort Wayne, IN

Where do you draw inspiration from in general for your artwork?

My more recent portrait work continues to explore color schemes, lace textures, and balancing the details of important and recognizable facial features with loose, lace texture. My usual focus is depicting ideas inspired by words and phrases either from messages or verses in the Bible. I choose the medium that best lends itself to the message I want to convey and explore.

What is your preferred medium?

Oil paint, watercolor, colored pencil, chalk pastels, and clay are all mediums I enjoy with oil paint being my favorite. However, I like to vary the medium I use based on my vision for the piece.

How long have you been creating art?

I have been creating ever since I was a young child.

What advice do you have for other artists?

I suggest taking different art classes to learn new materials or grow in a skill. Classes are also great opportunities to meet other artists and get inspired to explore a new direction.

Where can we find your work?

Instagram: scheribel.art. Etsy store: https://www.etsy.com/shop/scheribelart.

March 2-15, one of my paintings will be on display at the University of Saint Francis Area Art Educators Exhibition in the Goldfish Gallery. a

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Spring Fashion

PREVIEW

By Lauren Caggiano

It’s time to think about ushering out Old Man Winter and welcoming spring’s moderate temperatures with light and flirty styles

Sue Johnson of Susan’s Fashions in Fort Wayne is pleased to welcome inventory that reflects this shift in style and mentality.

“Spring brings lots of color and unexpected mixes of textures and styles,” she said. “The blazer is coming back, especially those with an oversized look. The matching pieces whether a pant, skirt, or shorts, with a head-to-toe look of the same color is coming back.”

Speaking of outerwear, Johnson said jackets of all kinds are hot this spring. She recommends pairing

which were on-trend in fall 2022, have carried over into this year. And on the bottom half, it’s time to unleash your inner wild child.

“Liquid leather leggings also known as pleather are still going strong for spring, especially in black!” said Johnson. “Pairing them with some fun tops with texture is important.”

If you need some inspiration in the texture department, think lace. Lace and laser-cut shirts offer a feminine touch, especially when worn under a well-tailored blazer. The same can be said of lace dresses and skirts. These are romantic with a modern aesthetic.

Equally as soft and fashion-forward ruffles have dominated the runways. Still, this bold trend can feel inaccessible to some women. If you’re not sure you can pull off a multi-tiered dress, opt for smaller ruffle detailing items, such as blouses and skirt hems. Sometimes subtle touches can make for big style statements!

Just as texture is an important element, color should also be a consideration in your spring wardrobe. According to Johnson, sneakers in bold colors accentuated by stars and embellished stones are sure to command the right kind of attention. These look great with everything from shorts, jeans, skirts, and capris. Johnson is confident that they’d add

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to anyone’s wardrobe, regardless of age. After all, you’re never too old to have a little bit of fun!

Not into sneakers? You can still be a fashion plate. Johnson said flats and wedge sandals are still classic looks that are very now. Or maybe you want to walk on the fun side. Cowboy boots are one way to capitalize on whimsy. “Cowboy boots, especially in white, look great with the shorts and blazer combinations,” said Johnson.

Speaking of color, Johnson said you don’t need to overthink spring colors.

“Black and white color combinations are always in, along with colors, such as coral, bright lemon yellow, aqua, fuchsia, royal blue, orange, and all the neon colors,” she said. “Florals, stripes, and color blocking are a lot of the trends for this spring.”

If you needed an excuse to buy a cute floral sundress for a spring wedding or graduation, this is the occasion. A print blouse will also add some pizzazz and you can easily dress it up or down.

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Resource:

Susan’s Fashions, Fort Wayne, 260.459.2828, susansfashions.com

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The Benefits of Working with a Personal Trainer

By Lindsey Sharp

Staying active is a key component of overall wellness–and working alongside a personal trainer may help maximize your active time and encourage you to make it a priority.

We talked with two personal trainers, Lauren Caggiano, owner of New Heights Fitness, and Audrey Andersen, owner of King’s Fitness and Nutrition, along with a personal training client, Christie Sprunger, to see how each viewed working with a personal trainer. Here’s how it went:

Q: Why should someone hire a personal trainer rather than trying it on their own?

A: “There are so many benefits to using a trainer!” Andersen said. “You have accountability: someone always checking your form and correcting you when needed. And when working with a trainer, you’re more likely to meet other members in the gym who are on the same journey as you, which is great for building community.”

“I had clients that learned … a more personal purpose as to why they’re working out, and they’ve gone on to do their own self accountability,” Andersen said. “Which is a beautiful thing! Personal trainers are amazing, and the benefits are great, but learning self-discipline and willpower will go far beyond.”

Q: So someone decides they want to hire a personal trainer–how do they find one who’s the right fit?

A: “The website acefitness.org has a directory of certified personal trainers,” Caggiano said. “Ask them about their certification and their

Lauren Caggiano

niche(s) some trainers pursue continuing education in other areas. “Interview your trainer as if it’s a job you’re hiring for,” Andersen said. “If you don’t get all warm and fuzzy or see that they’re invested in you personally, move on! It’s about you this time. Do it for yourself because you’re absolutely worth the work.”

“A friend of mine used my trainer, Tracy Yost, and recommended her to me,” Sprunger said. “I wanted someone to meet me where I was, who cared about my particular goals, and who was the right mix of flexible and empathetic while still giving me the push I needed.”

Q: Is hiring a personal trainer worth the money?

A: “Yes, it was worth it for me during that season of my life,” Sprunger said. “I think people are experts in their fields for a reason, and [my trainer] taught me a lot and helped me gain confidence. Additionally, she was able to show me correct form and ensure I didn’t injure myself while learning how to train.”

“It all comes down to realizing you’re worth the work,” Andersen said. “Having someone to hold you accountable is the absolute best way to get started–especially if there is a large buy-in via money and time commitments.”

Q: Any tips on making personal wellness and training a priority?

A: “This is tough for me, especially with two young kids,” Sprunger said. “That was part of the draw of a personal trainer: when I had sessions scheduled with her, it served as accountability for me to show up and do the work.”

“Schedule it just like you would a meeting with your boss,” Caggiano said. “If it’s important, you’ll make time.”

“If you’re doing this for someone else, you’re not going to be successful for the long term,” Andersen said. “Understanding how you got to where you are and working with a trained professional in and out of the gym is the way to get lasting results. Make yourself the priority and learn how to make it a habit, not a chore.”

Q: What’s the best advice you have for someone beginning their personal training journey?

A: “I learned so much from [my trainer],” Sprunger said. “Consistency and discipline are most important when it comes to training–she taught me that you aren’t going to see changes overnight, but if you keep showing up, you’ll see them over time. I came in as a beginner to get fit for my wedding, and before the big day, I was literally flipping tires! She helped me feel so strong and confident.”

“My own story drives my motivation. I was obese, sedentary, and at risk for developing preventable diseases,” Caggiano said. “Through diet and lifestyle modifications, I lost 50 pounds and gained confidence and the desire to help others do the same. I always recommend slow but steady. Lifting too much too soon is a recipe for injury and may cause reluctance to stay the course.”

The bottom line is, whatever route you feel is best for your physical fitness journey is what’s best for you. However, partnering with a personal trainer can increase accountability, maximize your efficiency in your training, and offer enhanced guidance on what’s best for you and your body. a

Christie Sprunger

she glows

By Mary Jane Bogle | Photo by Rachael Smith

“I was singing in the womb.” So says Rainee Perdue, local recording and performing artist with Audiences Unlimited, Inc. Whether she was serenading her family with “Sunshine on My Shoulder” as a toddler or belting out a Motown classic for her classmates on the playground, music has long been Rainee’s passion.

And while her love of music developed in the womb, her optic nerve didn’t. Blind at birth, Rainee has never placed much emphasis on her blindness. “My parents never coddled me,” she said. “As much as they knew how, they treated me like anyone else.” And so Rainee learned how to be independent in a sighted world.

“For years, I would get a little annoyed when people would say, ‘You’re so amazing,’” she said, referring to her ability to navigate in the sighted community so well. “Can’t I be amazing for some other reason?”

The answer to that question is a resounding, “yes!” Rainee’s musical repertoire is vast and includes her own compositions, as well as favorites from any number of genres—everything from R&B, funk and disco, even country. “I like to say that my style is eclectic with a lot of soul,” she said.

Rainee has performed in a wide range of venues, too, everything from churches and coffeehouses to schools and bars—even cat shelters! No matter where Rainee performs, her goal is to use her talents to bless others. That’s why she’s so thrilled to perform as a regular artist with Audiences Unlimited, Inc., a local organization celebrating 50 years of creating cultural experiences that enrich the lives of people with limited access to the arts.

“When my husband and I moved to Fort Wayne in 2014, I was at a place where I felt I wasn’t doing anything for anybody but myself. When I found Audiences Unlimited, Inc. online,” she said, “I knew it would be a great fit and said, ‘sign me up!’”

As a performing artist through Audiences Unlimited, she gives regular concerts for people in senior living communities, which is more of a ministry than a gig. “Music touches something deep down in the spirit that trumps the mind,” she said, describing music as the soundtrack of our lives.

“You never know what memories a song will conjure up,” she said. “It might be a time when someone danced with her husband or when the family was just having fun together.” It doesn’t have to be a specific memory, either. “Music can make people smile, cry, or stomp their feet. I wish every city had an organization like Audiences Unlimited,” she continued. “Our seniors deserve it.”

Above all, Rainee seeks to be inspirational in everything she does. “I want to use my voice to bless people around me and just show them who they are. We’re so much better and more loved than we could ever imagine!” a

Want to nominate someone for She Glows? Email Amber at ambouthot@the-papers.com.

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DOC WEST

By Stacie Ball |

Photo by Leaha Meinika

Doc West has been serving up rock and roll since 1979 as a radio personality. The Ohio State graduate devours music, movies, and old TV shows, making him known for his encyclopedia-like knowledge of rock music. Additionally, this local celebrity is passionate about helping the community and others in need worldwide.

West developed an interest in radio early. “My stepmother worked in management at WFUN in Miami, Florida,” he explained. “She introduced me to their staff and told me that most DJ’s enjoyed their gig for the status it gave them and the freebies of records, concert tickets, food, and new relationships.”

When he was working his way through college at the Limited Stores Warehouse in Columbus, Ohio, a fellow worker suggested that “I consider radio because I talk rock so much, and I had a different sense of humor,” West remembered. He loves Mel Brooks, Monty Python, Robin Williams, and Jonathon Winters.

On August 20, 1979, West completed his first on-air shift for WXKE Rock104 in Fort Wayne. He planned to stay here for six months but fell in love with the city and has been rocking our socks off for 43 years. He raised his children, Jazz (37) and Noah (39) (known as ‘The Rocktots’), with his wife, Jandy, who has been a nurse for 40 years. He plans to keep rocking, learning, and influencing others on and off the air.

“I believe we should learn something today that we didn’t know yesterday,” West said. The lifelong learner reads books that “rock” every day and enjoys passing on his knowledge to listeners.

West also pours his heart into creating awareness for those in need. He participates in many fund-raising events promoted by 963WKE, most recently an on-air rock-a-thon to benefit the Make a Wish Foundation. He has visited Jamaica 30 times with loyal listeners through the Friends of Jamaica charitable organization. Part of the trips shows people how Jamaicans live outside the resort. One favorite stop is the Pell River Primary School near Negril, where the students have stolen their hearts. The radio station has made monetary and sports equipment donations to the school to improve the quality of education.

The rock expert shared that his greatest accomplishment is seeing how people near and dear to him have grown and changed. “I hired passionate rock and roll lovers and watched them develop into rock and roll broadcasters,” he explained, referring to announcers he has hired over the years. “The high schoolers I met in the 80s are now grandparents. These three generations of rockers have developed their musical tastes because of WXKE,” he said.

West encourages readers to help Fort Wayne continue embracing the future by supporting the arts. Aside from radio, he believes the Clyde Theater, the Clubroom, and Sweetwater have positively impacted Fort Wayne and need our support.

Above all, the Monty Python fan leaves readers and listeners with this thought, “Always look on the bright side of life.” a

Want to nominate someone for He Glows? Email Amber at ambouthot@the-papers.com.

Parenting is life’s hardest job and sometimes we all need a helping hand. SCAN’s Community Partners program is here to walk alongside parents, giving them the support and connections to resources they need to be the best parents they can be.

It doesn’t matter what you are facing, you do not have to do it alone. Community Partners

These fire safety tips can help ensure you and your family stay safe:

• Create an exit plan with everyone in mind.

• Keep matches and lighters out of reach of children so they don’t get mistaken for toys.

• Do not sleep with a space heater on.

• Make sure your family knows to stay low to avoid smoke in case of a fire.

• Have a fire ladder or other method for leaving a second, or higher, story.

For more tips on Fire Safety go to scanfw.org/fire-safety

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Celebrate HERstory March is Women’s History Month

By Julie Young

For nearly 250 years, American women have shown time and time again that “we can do it!” Together with our brothers, we have worked to build this nation and make vital contributions to the global community. It is only appropriate that we take the time to recognize those contributions. That’s what Women’s History Month is all about!

The origins of what we now recognize as Women’s History Month are a little complicated and date back to February 28, 1909, with the establishment of “Woman’s Day” by the Socialist Party of America. It became a designated holiday on March 8, 1917, when women in Soviet Russia gained suffrage, but was typically celebrated by fringe movements and those who lived in communist countries. Eventually, it gained traction by feminist groups in the 1960s and became a mainstream celebration by the United Nations who re-named the event “International Woman’s Day”(IWD.)

A year later, a group of women in Santa Rosa, CA, organized a week-long, local celebration in conjunction with IWD, and it wasn’t long before other communities, civic groups, and feminist organizations created their own events to showcase women. As popularity in IWD festivities grew, the National Women’s History Project lobbied for national recognition, and in February 1980, President Jimmy Carter became the first U.S. President to declare that the week of March 8 was National Women’s History Week. Seven years later, congress passed Public Law 100-9, which expanded the idea to the entire month of March. National Women’s History Month was born!

Each year, the National Women’s History Alliance (formerly the National Women’s History Project) decides on a theme for the year. This year, the theme is “Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories.” This theme encourages the recognition of women, both past and present, who have been active in all forms of media, including print, radio, TV, screen, books, blogs, podcasts, and more! (Including the amazing women here at glo!)

“From the earliest storytellers, through pioneering journalists, our experiences have been captured by a wide variety of artists and teachers. These include authors, songwriters, scholars, playwrights, performers, and grandmothers throughout time,” the NWHA website says. “Women have long been instrumental in passing on our heritage, in word and in print, to communicate the lessons of those who came before us. Women’s stories, and the larger human story, expand our understanding and strengthen our connections with each other.”

Looking to celebrate Women’s History Month locally? Here are a few events to check out!

This year, the Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. will present the 11th Annual Women’s History Month Program on March 11, 2023 from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. at the Indiana Tech Andorfer Auditorium at 1600 E. Washington Blvd. Tickets are $35 for adults and $20 for youth 13 and under. Honorees and guest panelists include Lyndy Bazille, Synvoia Brown, and Porche Williams.

“We Are ” is a photo exhibit of 39 women that is on display at Creative Women of the World throughout the month in honor of IWD. Produced by Fort Wayne photographer (a woman who tells our stories) this exhibit showcases local women’s challenges, passions, achievements and the diversity they bring to Fort Wayne’s community. Creative Women of the World and it’s fair trade store is located at 125 W. Wayne St. a

SpringBreak Planner

By Amber Bouthot

Looking to get away for a week, or even a few days, over Spring Break? Looking for something a bit more economical? There are many family-friendly destinations within driving distance.

Smoky Mountains, Tennessee

Distance: 484 miles | Drive time: approximately 8 hours

This area has exploded in popularity over the last decade and now offers everything from touristy amusement park attractions to endless miles of hiking trails for nature enthusiasts. There are plenty of lodging options available too: from hotels and resorts to Air bnbs and cabins. If you have a large group, you can get a luxury cabin with awesome mountain views for a very affordable price.

MUST SEES: Gatlinburg Sky Bridge, www.gatlinburgskylift.com

The longest pedestrian cable bridge in North America. Offers nighttime experiences too!

Dollywood in Pigeon Forge, www.dollywood.com

Dolly Parton’s amusement park featuring rides, slides, music, food and laughter day and night.

The Island in Pigeon Forge, islandinpigeonforge.com

A new shopping, dining and entertainment destination, including a 200 foot tall Ferris Wheel boasting impeccable views.

Cades Cove Scenic Loop, www.nps.gov/grsm/planyourvisit/cadescove.htm

You can walk, bike, or drive this 21-miles loop through a picturesque and wildlife filled valley surrounded by mountains.

MUST SEES:

New River Gorge Bridge, www.nps.gov/neri/planyourvisit/nrgbridge.htm

The iconic steel arch bridge was once the longest in the world and welcomes travelers to this cherished region.

Fayetteville, fayettevillewv.gov

Located on the edge of the New River Gorge, the Town of Fayetteville has been voted one of America’s coolest small towns. It offers historic sites, picturesque parks, access to the New River Gorge, fine dining, shopping, and activities.

Thurmond, thurmondwv.org

Now an abandoned train town, from 1895 until the mid 1950’s, Thurmond was the hub of Gorge rail activity. The Thurmond Depot was a pivotal player in this busy coal town. The original depot was built in 1899, and like many great buildings of the era, it was destroyed by fire. The depot was rebuilt in 1904; that’s the same building that stands in Thurmond today.

The New River Gorge National Park, West Virginia

Distance: 386 miles | Drive time: approximately 6.5 hours

Home to more than 70,000 acres of public lands, this park has been a hallowed spot for locals for centuries. The recent designation as the nation’s newest national park invites travelers to visit, explore, and discover. It’s one of West Virginia’s most photographed areas. Widely known as the second oldest river in the world, the New River cuts through extensive geological formations that make way for diverse flora and fauna. Bald eagles and peregrine falcons call this park home, and you’ll often spot a few along your travels. Hiking trails here take you to spectacular overlooks and through remnants of old coal mining towns.

Book a full adventure with Adventures on the Gorge or ACE Adventure Resort, featuring white water rafting, horse back riding, guided hikes, kayaking, paddle boarding, zip lining, and more.

MUST SEES: Gateway Arch National Park, www.nps.gov/jeff/index.htm

The Gateway Arch reflects St. Louis’ role in the Westward Expansion of the United States during the nineteenth century. The park is a memorial to Thomas Jefferson’s role in opening the West, to the pioneers who helped shape its history, and to Dred Scott who sued for his freedom in the Old Courthouse.

St. Louis Aquarium at Union Station, www.stlouisaquarium.com

For years, St. Louis Union Station was one of the largest and busiest passenger rail terminals in the world. Now it’s home to more than 13,000 animals at the St. Louis Aquarium at Union Station, the 200-foot St. Louis Wheel, a carousel, an 18-hole mini-golf course, the mirror maze, a ropes course, the train park, and several restaurants. The Aquarium will take you on an aquatic journey like no other. From alligator snapping turtles and personalized interactive experiences to zebra sharks and communitybuilding activities, the aquarium has something for everyone.

The Magic House, www.magichouse.org

The Magic House engages all children in hands-on learning experiences that spark imagination, pique curiosity, enhance creativity, and develop problem-solving skills within a place of beauty, wonder, joy and magic. This is the perfect place for family fun. a

St. Louis, Missouri

Distance: 378 miles

Drive time: approximately 5 hours, 45 minutes

Looking

On Her Nightstand

By Wendy Stein

Kristan Donk

Kristan Donk spent more than 20 years in the defined benefit pension arena (lots of numbers for someone who would prefer to read) until she went back to school for her MLS. She will be happily placing Librarian in the occupation blank of her tax return for the rest of her life. She enjoys researching, genealogy, Woodstock (the bird), and RAOK (Random Acts Of Kindness).

What are you currently reading (and by whom)?

“The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot” by Marianne Cronin. It is about a fabulous friendship, dysfunctional family, struggles with faith, and forgiveness. It has been a delight (which is an odd thing to say about a book with a terminally ill character). But the characters are so well developed, even the secondary ones, that I am finding it difficult to finish the book, as I don’t want to let them go. The timeline does go forward and back, which some people do not appreciate, but I enjoy that type of plot development.

What’s a classic you started but never finished?

As an English major, I am ashamed to admit I have lost track. Let us just say it is an embarrassingly large number.

What books have you read that you want others to know about?

“Other Birds” by Sarah Addison Allen (go ahead and read “The Sugar Queen” and “Garden Spells” while you are at it), “The Midnight Library” by Matthew Haig, “Wordslut” by Amanda Montell, and “You Should See Me in a Crown” by Leah Johnson.

Is the movie ever as good as the book?

Not that I have found so far. “Ready Player One” by Ernest Cline and “The Martian” by Andy Weir were close.

What’s a book everyone loves that you secretly hate?

Hate is a strong word; however, you would have to pay me a very large sum of money to read another Nicholas Sparks book, and I still have no idea what all the fuss about “Where the Crawdads Sing” was about.

Real books or e-reader? Or audio books?

Ok, up on my soapbox I go. All reading is good. Classic, graphic novels, instruction manuals, pulp fiction, non-fiction, and cereal boxes are all wonderful things to read. How you get them is totally a personal choice and often depends on the circumstances. I love a book book for beach read, I love an eBook in bed because I can increase the font and read without my glasses. My commute is presently 25 minutes each way, so audiobooks keep me sane (when the narrators are good). So, yes! Yes is the answer. Getting back down now.

Anything else you’d like to share?

1. Use your library; it has books, eBooks and audiobooks for free.

2. If you are looking for a similar author to one you like, try www.literature-map.com

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New Infant Massage

Mission: Motherhood is proud to offer infant massage classes starting in early 2023.

Infant massage is an ancient therapeutic technique used around the world. For infants who experience painful procedures, are exposed to the stressful NICU environment, and are separated from their parents, infant massage has been paromoted as a method to reduce stress and promote bonding.

Introducing our new classes

Join our variety of classes with a Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI) through the World Institute for Nurturing Communication (WINC) to learn fundamental infant massage.

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This program is for ALL prenatal/postpartum mothers, parents and caregivers who are looking for encouraging and educational support in boding with their infant.

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What inspired this piece:

I am often inspired by moments or events in my life that cause me to reflect. This poem was written during a time of overwhelming uncertainty, which made simple tasks like assembling a daybed or doing my taxes seem like too much. My father came over during his lunch hour to help me and I made him lunch. After he left, it occurred to me that uncertainty can be unsettling but can also lead you into moments of unexpected beauty. Writing this poem allowed me to seal and archive both that understanding, and the time spent with my father. And now I am happily that “strong” and “independent” woman I was becoming at the time this poem was written.

What is your preferred style of writing?

I write poetry in contemporary free-verse, with influences of both ancient folklores and modern abstracts. I often use the natural world to find answers and connections to the themes in my work. My style developed from studying Native American and Asian American poetry, which I admire greatly.

Lunch for Daybed

By Lauren M. Davis

I left the front door unlocked, for him to enter as he pleased, so I wouldn’t burn the curry lunch

I was stirring for him at the stove with a wooden spoon.

I heard his leather shoes move up the steps to the foyer,

a week’s worth of mail underneath his arm, a collection I dreaded.

my father scattered the mail, he prepared for me, over the dark kitchen table. For a while, he disappeared to address the scattered parts

Name: Lauren M. Davis

Hometown: Sussex, New Jersey

Current town: Fort Wayne, Indiana

How long have you been writing?

Just about as soon as I learned to write, I started writing short stories in a little pink notebook. Later, I wrote throughout my preteen and teenage years to try to make sense out of experiences. I began to write more seriously after attending college at the University of North Carolina, Wilmington. The amazing writing program at UNCW encouraged me to obtain my terminal degree in writing from the University of Southern Maine.

What advice do you have for other writers?

Read a variety of content in the genre they wish to write in. Just as hearing music might inspire one to sing, reading can inspire one to write. You might try several different voices, writing styles, and subgenres. It also helps to have your drafts critiqued by senior writers who will provide constructive criticism. Just remember that their opinions are just suggestions and that other writer’s works are their own; find your own voice and stay true to it once you do find it.

Where can we find your work?

My book “Women Bones”, a poetry collection celebrating women’s resilience, can be found through Finishing Line Press at www. finishinglinepress.com/product/women-bones-by-lauren-m-davis. You can also visit my Instagram for a link to a list of my works in various publications: @junegarden. a

which lie on the floor like fawn legs.

Hours before, I was hysterically, comically, crying— curled over the disconnected segments, unable to properly connect the parts.

I called my wedding off some months before, and was struggling to become the strong, independent, twenty-first century woman I didn’t want to be.

But for now, a certain comfort rushes over me:

I’m a daughter cooking for my father as he assembles two things I cannot manage.

My new apartment is filled with the smell of cumin and eggs, bay leaf and cinnamon.

The windows are open. It is spring.

I hear a wrench turning inside of fresh wood.

My father eats the curry.

The steam, from the tomatoes, the onions, and spices, floats toward his chin and disappears.

I turn to walk down the hall to my bedroom to wriggle the backrest of the daybed.

I say it’s sturdy.

My father hums happily. I picture his face smiling at the table when he says his lunch is good.

D.O. McComb & Sons Annual Grief Seminar

Featuring Heather Stang

It is the desire of D.O. McComb & Sons Funeral Homes to offer assistance to everyone throughout the Fort Wayne Community who has been touched by grief. We will be hosting Heather Stang, founder of The Mindfulness & Grief Institute. This will be our 32nd annual grief and loss seminar.

CERUTI’S SUMMIT PARK

Tuesday, May 2, 2023 6:30 pm - 8 :30 pm (doors open at 6:00 pm)

Please join us for an evening of inspiration and hope that will help you cope with all types of loss. You will learn how to manage the painful symptoms of grief and adapt to the many changes through self -care, self -compassion and community.

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Raising Children

Resilient

By Mary Jane Bogle

Emotional intelligence is a concept that has gained a lot of traction in recent years. Most of the current advice focuses on adults, but what about our kids?

If the last few years have taught us anything, it’s that our children need that same kind of emotional intelligence now more than ever.

While we would all agree that our children need to develop resilience, the question remains: How can we equip them with the skills they will need in order to face whatever life throws at them?

Conventional wisdom has long suggested that people become resilient by learning to “tough it out,” shoving their feelings aside and refusing to cry. But what if everything we thought about this kind of toughness was wrong? What if, instead of encouraging kids to block their feelings, we created a place where they could talk about those emotions more, not less?

That’s the advice of speaker Sarah Moore, author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior. According to Moore, the most resilient children are the ones who know how to express emotions effectively, not the ones who learn to “suck it up.”

If you’d like to encourage your children to develop this kind of emotional intelligence, here are five ways to build it:

1. Create strong parent-child bonds.

“We want to be the types of parents whose kids run to them, rather than away from them,” said Moore. In other words, children “need to know that we’ll love them unconditionally and support them when they struggle. We’ll answer their questions with love and compassion. We’ll show up for them when they need us.” This type of parenting creates a strong foundation of trust, a relationship that children will seek as they struggle, even into adulthood.

2. Work with your children to solve problems.

According to Moore, the essence of positive parenting is working with our children rather than against them to solve problems. Instead of dispensing punishment for misbehavior, said Moore, “we [need to] get to the root of the problem. We [must] find out what’s driving their actions and … respond with empathy and solutions that work for all involved.”

3. Give voice to your children’s emotions.

Acknowledging and naming feelings gives your children power over their emotions. This power, in turn, increases children’s ability to self-regulate. Minimizing those emotions or telling kids they are overreacting harms them more than helps them. According to Moore, “toughness alone leads to emotional distance and a whole host of potential struggles. When we focus on resilience with support, however, that raises mentally strong children who thrive because they felt emotionally safe enough to overcome adversity.”

4. Offer children self-regulation tools.

Instead of solving children’s problems, offer them options for directing their emotions in a positive direction. Moore recommends using the phrase, “I wonder” to help children make good decisions. Consider saying, “I wonder if a hug would help,” or “I wonder if some fresh air or a cold cup of water would be a good idea” as tools for redirection.

5. Praise children when they “bounce back.”

One key aspect of resilience is the ability to overcome negative situations. Each time your children discover a way to “bounce back,” be sure to praise their courage. Instead of focusing on mistakes, shine a spotlight on their resourcefulness. In doing so, you’ll be helping your children create a narrative that tells them they are strong enough to handle what life throws at them.

For those of us raised to the contrary, this approach might seem counterintuitive, but it’s supported by neurological research.

“When [kids are] emotionally triggered,” said Moore, “the limbic system (a more primitive part of the brain) takes over and effectively shuts off the frontal lobe, where most of our rational thoughts live where we can think about others’ experiences, offer compassion, and understand the consequences of our actions.”

Creating a safe space for children to explore emotions calms the limbic system. “Our goal,” said Moore, “is to help the body feel safety so that our frontal lobe can come back and join the whole brain party.”

Want to learn more about this kind of positive parenting? Check out Moore’s website at https://dandelion-seeds.com. And look for her book, Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior, at your favorite bookseller today. a

By Amber Bouthot

We Love Your Style

Each month, we highlight someone whose style we admire. If you know someone we should consider featuring, email ambouthot@the-papers.com.

This month, it is Brandon Steffen. Brandon is a Realtor and Auctioneer. He and his partner Bradford, along with their 5-year-old giant schnoodle, Gus, live in the historic West Central neighborhood, located just west of downtown Fort Wayne.

BRANDON STEFFEN

How would you describe your style?

Our decorating style can be best described as traditional, which has been influenced by the era of our home. Built in the 1890’s, it has had a colorful life, to say the least. It was originally built as a single-family home by a wealthy Fort Wayne merchant. In the 1930’s, it became a church parsonage for about 20 years before being converted into sleeping rooms and apartments. Fortunately, through the years, most of the original woodwork and historic features were kept intact.

When we purchased the home, we instantly fell in love with all the charm, character, and the potential of restoring the home to its original grandeur. Throughout the renovation process, our style quickly became apparent as we wanted our home to remain somewhat formal, but updated with homey, unique, and comfortable

Tell us a little about each of the areas you chose to highlight. Why did you choose them? What makes them your faves?

Dining and Living Area

We chose to highlight our main living area, which combines our entry, dining, and living rooms. We love entertaining family and friends, and this is the perfect spot to do so. During our renovation, we were able to create an open concept, while still showcasing the historic features of the home, such as the original staircase, pocket doors, and uncovering an original brick fireplace in the dining room.

Kitchen

The kitchen is one of our favorite rooms in the home. We both love to cook. However, we knew when we designed the kitchen that this space would become one of our primary living areas. In the morning, the kitchen island makes the perfect place to drink coffee. Later, it sometimes transitions into our home office by day and ends as our gathering place at night.

Master bedroom

We love our Master bedroom. When we designed this space, we wanted a large comfy place to escape to at the end of the day. This space was previously two rooms and features a large seating area overlooking the street below. Gus, our giant schnoodle, spends his day sitting in the bay window guarding “his sidewalk” and waiting for us to return home.

When you think of your home, what’s the feeling you hope your family and visitors have?

When family and friends visit, we hope that our home is fun and inviting. We want them to join us for a glass of red wine by the fireplace in the winter or relax with a refreshing adult beverage on the front porch on a summer evening.

What’s your favorite color?

We love Agreeable Gray by Sherwin Williams. It is such a versatile color that goes great with any style. a

Tips for

HOME BUYING

By Lauren Caggiano

Like many consumers, you might be wondering if this is the year to buy a house or sit on the sidelines. Lisa Keirns, a mortgage banker, with STAR Financial, offered some insight into the current landscape and what potential buyers should keep in mind as they do their due diligence.

“Although inventory is increasing, it is still low. Pending sales are on the rise, so that shows us that there are still buyers out there ready to enter the market despite high rates,” she said. “The 10-year Treasury yield has risen quite a bit over the last year but peaked around October 2022, so we have seen rates come down a bit since then.”

If you were hesitant to make a move in 2022 because the market was too competitive or interest rates were too high, now might be the time to revisit those plans. Keirns said spring is a popular time to buy and sell. “So now is the perfect time to be sitting down with your lender to discuss your budget and planning out what loan program is a good fit for you,” she added.

Speaking of mortgage loan products, Keirns said it’s not a one-sizefits-all proposition. If you’re new to homebuying, it pays to do your homework so there are no surprises. You want to be in the best position going into the pursuit.

“There are great programs out there for first-time homebuyers,” she said. “Some offer as low as 3% down and some have credits toward closing costs. There are also down payment assistance programs that can help with down payment and closing costs, so talk to your lender about what your options are.”

Regardless of the programs, every buyer should have a clear understanding of their budget before getting too invested in a home. When looking for financing, it’s a good idea to leverage your current relationships. Your bank or lender can make you aware of opportunities. For instance, STAR launched a Home Hope Program this past year, which allows 0% down on a purchase. Regardless of where you go for financing, Keirns said potential buyers need to take the process seriously to save time, money, and frustration.

“My biggest piece of advice for a first-time homebuyer (or really anyone entering the market as a buyer) would be to go through the pre-approval process, so you are ready to make a solid offer when the perfect opportunity presents itself,” she said.

It’s important to know that some sellers will bypass offers that do not include a pre-approval letter. According to Keirns, having this letter shows a seller that you are a serious buyer and can afford to make an offer. It can mean the difference between landing the home of your dreams or losing it to a more prepared buyer.

Another consideration is that potential buyers shouldn’t feel unnecessarily stifled by a higher-than-ideal interest rate. Refinancing later is an option and can help buyers with a more attractive monthly payment.

Whatever you decide, know that you don’t have to go it alone. Whether STAR’s team or another financial institution, you can find a wealth of information and support as you look to achieve your financial goals. a

Resource: Star Financial Bank, Fort Wayne, starfinancial.com

Prep Your Home for Spring

By Bethany Beebe

Flowers bloom. The temperature rises. Green leaves start to emerge. Warm breezes come through open windows. The sounds of lawn mowers roar. Spring will soon be here. To make sure the season is as enjoyable as it can be, preparation is in order. Here are some projects to invest in now.

Outside

Tackle the tools.

The switch from snow blowers to lawn mowers should be a prudent one. Carefully look over all your tools to assure their status. Sharpening the blades on your favorite set of hedge trimmers, draining the old gas from the lawnmower, or taking it to the local shop for a tune up can be done now. While you are waiting to use those tools, look at Purdue Extension publication HO-91 for a reminder of how-to time garden tasks ranging from fertilizing to starting seeds to transplant.

An Eye for the Outside

Assess the exterior of the house structure for signs of winter wear. Caulk around windows and doors may need attention, boards may need replacement in a deck, sprinkler heads or mailbox parts may need to be addressed after being hit by snowplows, or the downspouts and gutters may require a good cleaning.

Powerful Cleaning

Some of that outdoor cleaning could be a little faster and easier with the use of a pressure washer. Siding, soffits, driveways, outdoor furniture, and decks might all benefit from the use of this time and elbow-grease saving tool.

Inside

The air in there

Maintenance on the HVAC unit can prevent headaches throughout the season. Changing the filter and checking the system will assure function and leave you ready as the mercury rises. While you are checking that system, make sure vents are without mold or other allergy-inducers.

Laundry

Checking dryer vents for lint buildup and washing machine lines for leaks is a prudent seasonal task.

Good to the last drop

Assure you sing in the rain rather than lament the presence of water. An early check of the sump pump is ideal to make sure it is ready, if need be. Checking basements and crawl spaces may uncover water in places it ought not be, giving you advanced time to seek repair in advance of the spring rains.

Screens

The rain will give way to beautiful days for picnics and play outside. Make sure that the ants and their friends stay in the great outdoors by repairing damaged or torn screens so only pleasant breezes enter your springready home. a

Spring Weather

By Cathy Shouse

The arrival of spring breezes in like a breath of fresh air.

weather is wise preparation. We caught up

Beier emphasized that weather preparedness is up to each individual. His department and other agencies will do their part, but awareness is not something anyone else can do for you.

“Be responsible for your own preparedness,” he said. “I believe preparedness is a state of mind. You must want to be prepared. You must take the time to learn about what severe weather hazards you may face and what you can do to prepare yourself, your family, your neighborhood, or your business for the impacts of severe weather.”

He listed questions to consider: Do I have small children? Pets? Senior adults in the home? Mobility-impaired or other special needs individuals?

The Indiana Department of Homeland Security’s Get Prepared website has information you can use to better understand the hazards and how to prepare for them. Get Prepared: Nature Safety (in.gov)

For those of us who are within the range of the warning system, Beier said there is important information to keep in mind. Sometimes the language used and even the sirens going off can be misunderstood, so education is the first step.

“We only activate the outdoor emergency warning sirens for an actual tornado warning,” Beier said. “If you hear the outdoor emergency warning sirens, you should act immediately. Take shelter, then seek additional information. We do not use them for thunderstorms, straight-line winds, or other levels of weather.”

On the other hand, not everyone will hear the sirens, so pay attention to other information you might receive. Keeping upto-date on current methods of how the public is informed of weather dangers is crucial. The systems will change and may undergo updating in the future. Beier expects the outdoor emergency warning sirens to become less of our warning system as mobile technology and other more-effective technologies become more widely used and available. The outdoor sirens will likely still be used as part of the overall alerting and communication toolbox, but their role will continue to diminish over the coming years.

A Watch means “get ready.” Consider how severe weather could affect your current schedule, then develop common sense courses of action. Do you take an umbrella? Start the grill earlier? Hold off or take a shorter bike ride? Do you monitor the weather

conditions more often during a watch? Where would you go for safety? Where are your family members? Can you communicate with them quickly?

Once the warning is issued, there is no time to plan and consider what you might do, could do, or should do. You get ready during the watch. A warning means the severe weather is in the county right now. You need to act now, then seek additional information throughout the event.

Beier shared a story to think about. “Following the F-3 Tornado that came through Eastern Allen County in August of 2016, I spoke with a young couple whose home was destroyed; leveled to the foundation. They knew severe weather was in the area, but their life experience told them, ‘It never happens here, we’ll be alright.’ They had a short conversation regarding whether to take shelter in the basement or just sit down and have dinner that was prepared and ready. They decided to eat. Before the first bite, they heard a noise, and went to the front window to see the roof being torn off of the building across the street. They ran to the basement, reached the second to last step before their home above them was wiped off the foundation. They were not seriously injured, they were lucky. Dinner can wait. A warning means ‘Act Now!’”

Just as organizations practice for unexpected events, families and businessowners may want to hold meetings to make plans in case of inclement weather. Remaining calm and making good decisions will be important, and assigning duties ahead of time may make all the difference. a

However, sometimes severe weather tags along. The best way to cope with the unpredictability of spring

with Bernie Beier, Homeland Security Director for Allen County, Indiana, for tips and tricks to enjoy this next season.

By Cassie Beer, Fort Wayne Women’s Fund Director

According to the World Economic Forum, it will take 100 years for the gender pay gap to close. March 15th will mark the day when, on average, women will have earned what their male counterparts earned from January to December of the previous year. Equal Pay Day was originally created by the National Committee on Pay Equity in 1996 as a public awareness event to illustrate the gap between men’s and women’s wages.

In Indiana, the average pay gap between a man and a woman is $12,460. For Allen County, that number is $15,590. The numbers get worse when we look at diverse communities:

• May 3rd: Asian American, Native Hawaiian, and Pacific Islander Women Equal Pay Day. AAPI women are paid 75 cents for every dollar paid to white men.

• June 15th: LGBTQIA+ Equal Pay Day: Without enough data to make calculations, this day raises awareness about the wage gap and economic inequity experienced by LGBTQIA+ people.

• September 8th: Moms’ Equal Pay Day. Moms are paid 58 cents for every dollar paid to dads.

• September 21st: Black Women’s Equal Pay Day. Black women are paid 58 cents for every dollar paid to white men.

• November 30th: Native American & Indigenous Women’s Equal Pay Day. Native women are paid 51 cents for every dollar paid to white men.

• December 8th: Latina’s Equal Pay Day. Latinas are paid 54 cents for every dollar paid to white men.

In the latest Bloomberg Gender-Equality Index, only 8% of companies had a woman chief executive, and only 24% of companies had women executives who were considered above

March 15

EQUAL PAY

the senior management level. Meanwhile, women comprised 50% of entry-level positions. The study found that the average gender pay gap was twice as large at companies that did not have a woman CEO. Even while more companies are adopting anti-sexual harassment policies, more inclusive cultures, and conducting pay equity audits, we are still far from gender equality being a national corporate standard. We know that there are many forces at work when we evaluate what causes the gender pay gap. Discrimination can occur in multiple ways, including bias embedded in hiring and promotion practices. Encouraging employers to adopt pay transparency policies, pay equity audits, and unconscious bias training to raise awareness are all ways that we can start changing workplaces to be more equitable environments. Researchers have estimated that simply adopting pay transparency could decrease the pay gap by 40%.

It is a sad realization that the Equal Pay Act of 1963, granting equal pay for women, became law 60 years ago, but a significant gender wage gap still exists in the U.S. today. Hopefully, as we all work together, the transparency of pay information required by more recent laws will reduce all wage gaps based on gender, race, gender, race, religion, national original, sexual orientation, age, or disability. a

Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine? Email ambouthot@the-papers.com and tell me about it.

REFRESH Dining Room

By Amber Bouthot

This month’s Reader DIY project comes from Rich and Rebecca Karcher. They’ve lived in their home for about 5 years and haven’t known quite what to do with their front room.

“It may have been intended as a dining room or an office, but we mainly stored mismatched furniture in it,” Rebecca explains. “I realized I had no place to host friends for dinner, so I dreamed of creating a space for that.”

What was your inspiration for the project?

As with many people who spent more time at home the past nearly three years, we started looking at how to make the space more usable. In the days when we shouldn’t have visitors (due to the pandemic), I daydreamed about having friends over for a nice dinner. Our house, built in 2000, doesn’t have a lot of architectural “character,” but I thought we could maybe add a little.

In the front room is one wall with no doorway and no window: nothing but a blank wall. I envisioned trying to add board and batten to that wall to add some dimension and a little interest. I showed Rich a few photos, and he found a couple of online videos. We did the math to figure out how to lay out the wood strips in an even pattern, about 5’ high. We chose just the “right” white paint and then used a dark navy (“Volcanic Ash”) for the upper part of the wall; a paint color we used on built in bookcases in another room of the house to try to give some consistency. We put a light bluishgray (“North Star”) on the rest of the walls. We switched out wooden blinds for white painted wood blinds to pick up on the white wall.

I was determined to add a large round dining table (found it on Wayfair) and comfortable leather chairs. Rich assembled a multiple-prism flush mount light fixture, and we are awaiting delivery of a French country style buffet. Eventually we’ll tear out the carpet and put in luxury vinyl plank flooring, but even while it’s still in progress we’re enjoying hosting dinners.

How long did it take from start to finish?

We started in early November and worked on it on the weekends. We finished just prior to Thanksgiving (approx 32 hours).

Was it easier or harder than you anticipated?

Easier, but Rich used a laser level and a nail gun, which helped immensely.

What was the total cost of the project

$50 wood, $20 caulking, $130 for paint, $10 for outlet and switch covers, $100 for blinds, $260 for light fixture.

What did you like best about the undertaking?

The best part is the sense of accomplishment and the happiness that it looks so close to how we envisioned!

What was the most challenging aspect?

Hanging the individual prisms on a light fixture that came without instructions! a

Jim Brubaker

Born to Bloom transforms the local landscape

By Julie Young

Jim Brubaker has been making the ordinary extraordinary for over 40 years. The landscape architect is owner of Jim Brubaker Designs, Inc. and JBD Home. He enjoys transforming the local landscape and is not planning to stop any time soon.

“I just turned 70, and I have no plans to retire,” he said. “My work is what keeps me alive, and I hope I can continue doing quality work for as long as possible.”

It certainly seems that Brubaker was born to make the world a beautiful place. A lifelong lover of the land, he grew up on a farm before taking a job at the Sandpoint Greenhouse where he served as a floral designer and buyer for the company’s small gift shop. Together with his late wife Vicki, he began his own company and eventually founded Jim Brubaker Designs, Inc. and JBD Home 14 years ago.

“I was the one in the office designing while Vicki stayed home and did the financials. Our daughter Courtney has picked up on that and she handles the administrative aspect of the business for me today,” he said. With Courtney overseeing the numbers, Brubaker spends his days creating landscape blueprints for both residential and commercial clients, contracting the labor out to firms he’s worked with for several years. He sources all the live material himself, making sure that it is up to his strict quality standards, and he’s often present at the jobsite and avails himself to his clients should any questions or concerns arise.

“It’s important for my clients to know that even though I use contractors for the install, they are still reporting to me,” he said.

Brubaker’s approach to landscape design is no different than the way he approaches interior design. He sees exterior areas as outdoor living spaces that have similar functions to their interior counterparts and must be treated the same way.

“The front porch is the first thing people see so it has to look great,

while the backyard is for entertaining and play, so it has to be more multifunctional,” he said.

Of course, when you are in such a seasonal business, it’s important to have something lined up during the other months of the year. Brubaker understands this and has worked tirelessly to expand his operations to include Christmas light installation, and holiday décor set up and tear down for both residential and commercial clients.

“I have a great group of part-time, seasonal employees who will take the hassle and stress out of holiday decorating so that a homeowner can relax and enjoy the season,” he said. “If you want to become a better company, you have to be flexible and there’s not much we will say no to.”

Brubaker says when you love what you do, you never work a day in your life and his long-time clients feel more like family than business contacts. a

Fort Wayne, 260.436.3639, jimbrubakerdesigns.com

Jim Brubaker Designs,

Headwaters Park East

333 S. Clinton St., Fort Wayne

Up to 20 Indiana wineries

Local food trucks

Spring craft market

Live music all day from Fort Wayne favorites

Free samples at each winery

Souvenir glass while supplies last

April 28-29

Designated Driver $15

March’s podcast features an interview with our She Glows: Rainee Perdue Listen

HOME I am Allie Lane

By Jennie Renner | Photo provided

Early in her life, Allie Lane wanted to play in the WNBA. Later, she dreamed of working in sports. “But I always thought I’d have to go away to a big city like Chicago or Pittsburgh,” she said.

Lane was born in Fort Wayne but grew up in New Haven. After graduating from New Haven High School, she attended Indiana Tech. There, she was a redshirt for the women’s basketball team and got her bachelor’s in business administration with a concentration in management.

In 2015, a job at the Fort Wayne Mad Ants opened. Lane had been going to a lot of games and was already a big fan of the team. “It was kind of a no-brainer for me,” she said. “I started about two weeks before that season started, so I kind of got thrown right into the fire.”

She spent eight seasons with the Mad Ants living her dream. And while it was fun to work in professional sports, Lane said her job was about more than just basketball. “It’s about the impact you’re able to have on your community and I’ve got a list of things I can name off where we did just that,” she said.

One of the projects Lane is most proud of is the basketball court renovation in Ivan Lebamoff Reservoir Park. She came up with the idea and had Fort Financial on board to be a sponsor. She went to Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation to see if they had a park in mind.

Local artist Andre Portee did three different designs for the basketball court and the neighborhood voted on which one he would paint. In July 2022, the newly

renovated court was unveiled. “It was just really exciting to see that project come to life,” said Lane.

Lane enjoys working for organizations that are committed to giving back. Last month, she started a new chapter in her career as the director of development for athletics at Purdue Fort Wayne. In this position, she hopes to have an impact on the student athletes now and into the future.

“What I’m looking forward to most in my new role is the opportunity to continue to grow and build relationships in our community,” she said.

Work and family keep Lane in Fort Wayne. She and her husband and their two children live on the northeast side of town. She cites affordability as one of the region’s strong points and that her children can get a quality education.

Lane is also interested in the continued growth of downtown and is excited to have a front row seat for what’s to come. I like “being a part of the big plays happening in town,” she said.

Even though there are many big projects in the works for Fort Wayne, Lane appreciates that it still feels like a small town. “It’s such a close-knit community. It’s one of those places where everybody knows everybody.” a

By Northeast Indiana Local Food Network

Do you know that even during the winter months, local produce is available? The Northeast Indiana Local Food Network has a seasonality chart on its website (neifood.org) to help you find local produce all year round. This time of year, you can find potatoes, garlic, onion, radish, beets, fennel, arugula, and more. This Microgreen Radish and Potato Soup utilizes tasty local ingredients and is sure to warm you up on a cold winter night.

Ingredients:

• 1 large yellow onion, diced

• 2 medium potatoes, sliced

• 1 cup microgreens

• 4 cups vegetable broth

• 1/3 cup heavy cream

• 2 tbsp butter

Preparation:

Melt the butter in a large saucepan over medium heat and stir in the onion. Sauté until tender. Mix in the potatoes and micro radishes, coating them with butter. Pour in the broth and bring the mixture to a boil. Reduce the heat once boiling and let it simmer for about 30 minutes.

Let the soup mixture cool before transferring it to a blender. Blend until smooth.

Return the mixture to the saucepan and mix in the heavy cream. Stir as it gets warm and well blended. Top with remaining microgreens. a

Microgreen Radish and Potato Soup

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By Ray Balogh

5 | Sunday |

Decatur Coin Show and Marketplace

Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. 8 a.m.-2 p.m. (year-round), Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, decaturfleamarket.com.

7, 14, 21, 28 | Tuesday |

Little River Ramblers

Nature hikes, dress for the weather, boots are recommended, bring binoculars for a closeup view. 9 a.m.-11 a.m. March 7, 14, 21, meet at Arrowhead Prairie Preserve, 8624 Aboite Road, Roanoke; March 28, meet at Button Bush, 8533 Amber Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

10-11 | Friday-Saturday |

Rummage Sale

Fort Wayne Sport Club annual rummage sale. Starts at 9 a.m., ending time TBA, 3102 Ardmore Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.432.6011.

11 | Saturday |

Nestwatch Monitor Training

Learn how to safely check on and record what’s happening in bird nests for a nationwide community service program. 10 a.m.-noon, Eagle Marsh Barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

15 | Wednesday |

Short Hikes for Short Legs: Signs of Spring

Look for signs of spring, such as birds and tree buds. Dress for the weather, boots are recommended. For children 3-5 with responsible adult. 9 a.m.-10 a.m. Meet at Eagle Marsh Barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.387.0399, lrwp.org.

to-do list . . .

16 | Thursday |

History Tour of the Swinney Homestead and Allen County Courthouse with Brunch

Tour of the Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., is followed by a brunch served by the Settlers. The tour then proceeds to the Courthouse, 715 S. Calhoun St., for commentary on history and artwork adorning the building. $25. 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Transportation not included. Information and reservations 260.747.1501 or 260.745.7512. Event proceeds support the Swinney Homestead. settlersinc.org.

19 | Sunday |

Historic Hand Arts Class: “Wear’n the Green”

History, instruction, and materials for the age-old hand art of needle felting a shamrock. $20. 9-11:30 a.m. refreshments and program, Settlers Inc., 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. Reservations at 260.637.6692. settlersinc.org.

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Saturday |

Civil War Garrison

Talk to soldiers about their daily life in a garrison in March 1864 and observe their daily duties and responsibilities. Morning parade, drills, guard mount. Free admission, donations appreciated. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., The Old Fort, 1201 Spy Run Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.437.2836, oldfortwayne.org.

Botanical Conservatory

• Now through April 16, “California Dreamin’” showcase exhibit, public hours, regular admission

• Tuesday, March 7, 14, 21, 28, Bones for Life exercise class, 5 p.m.-6 p.m., $59 for four sessions, registration deadline Wednesday, March 1.

• Friday-Sunday, March 10-12, The Great Train Connection, various displays, public hours, regular admission

• Sunday, March 12, Garden Railroading workshop, 11 a.m.-noon, $15, registration deadline Saturday, March 4.

• Saturday, March 24, Spring Equinox Blossoms class, 9 a.m.-11 a.m. Materials provided, call for class fee, registration deadline Saturday, March 18.

Adults $7, children (3-17) $5, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-4 p.m. Sunday; closed Monday. 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.

Embassy Theatre

• Saturday, March 4, Pops 4 “Go Now” Music of The Moody Blues, 7:30 p.m., $27 to $86

• Wednesday, March 8, Chloe Arnold’s Syncopated Ladies, 7:30 p.m., $35

• Thursday, March 9, Bluey’s Big Play, 6 p.m., $30/$40/$50

• Saturday, March 11, Masterworks: “Fanfare for the Common Man,” 7:30 p.m., $23 to $81

• Friday, March 17, Raheem Devaughn: “The Love King Tour,” 8 p.m., $49/$59

• Thursday, March 23, Riverdance 25th Anniversary Show, 7:30 p.m., $40/$55/$75

• Saturday, March 25, Pink Droyd Performs “Dark Side of the Moon,” 8 p.m., $10/$20/$30

NOTE: Ticket prices are subject to fluctuation based on demand. 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

Memorial Coliseum

• Thursday-Sunday, March 2-5, Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show, 11 a.m.-8 p.m. ThursdaySaturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday, $12/adult, $8/seniors, free/children 15 and under

• Friday, March 3, Cody Johnson with special guest Randy Houser, 7:30 p.m., $43 to $128

• Saturday, March 18, Full Throttle Monster Trucks, 1:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m., $14 to $44

• Thursday, March 23, Koe Wetzel “The Road to Hell Paso” with The Cadillac Three and Dylan Wheeler, 7:30 p.m., $33 to $78

• Saturday-Sunday, March 25-26, Shipshewana on the Road, 9 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday, call for ticket pricing

Parking $8 main lot, $12 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

Fort Wayne Museum of Art

Exhibitions:

• Indiana Waterways: The Art of Conservation (through March 19)

• Garden Party: Outdoor Sculptures by Dorothy Gillespie (through June 4)

Events:

• Friday, March 3, ArtRageous Gala and Auction, 6 p.m., $275 individual level, $325 patron level

• Saturday, March 11, Second Saturday with ASL interpretation family-friendly tour, 10:30 a.m., free with museum admission and pre-registration

• Wednesday, March 15, Print Room Talks: Lithography, 2 p.m., free with museum admission and RSVP

Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org.

The Clyde Theatre

• Thursday, March 2, Wishbone Ash, 8 p.m., $25 and up

• Sunday, March 5, Flogging Molly with Anti-Flag and Skinny Lister, 7:30 p.m., $37.50

• Thursday, March 9, Blue October: Spinning the Truth Around 2023 Tour, 8 p.m., $35 and up

• Friday, March 10, Sixteen Candles, 8 p.m., $15 and up

• Sunday, March 12, Eric Johnson, 7 p.m., $25 to $49.50

• Sunday, March 26, Jim Messina, 8 p.m., $35 to $65

• Tuesday, March 28, Ben Folds and a Piano, 8 p.m., $40.50 to $80.50

• Wednesday, March 29, Queensryche: The Digital Alliance Tour with special guests Marty Friedman and Trauma, 7:30 p.m., $29.50 advance, $35 day of show

• Friday, March 31, Static-X — Rise of the Machine 2023, 6 p.m., $30

The Clyde Theatre, 1808 Bluffton Road, Fort Wayne. 260.747.0989, clydetheatre.com.

Honeywell Center

• Friday, March 3, The Winery Dogs, 7:30 p.m., ET, $35/$45/$65; premium seating $95

• Friday, March 3, Pink Martini, 7:30 p.m., HC, $45/$55/$75

• Saturday, March 4, Space Oddity: The David Bowie Experience, 7:30 p.m., HC, $25/$35/$50

• Friday, March 10, Honors Band & Choir, 7:30 p.m., HC, free admission

• Sunday, March 12, Manchester Symphony Orchestra, 3 p.m., HC, $20/adult, free/18 and under

• Tuesday, March 14, Harriet Tubman, 10 a.m. and noon, HC, $10

• Thursday, March 16, Rhythm of the Dance, 7:30 p.m., HC, $35/$45/$65

• Friday, March 17, St. Patrick’s Day Dinner, 5:30 p.m.-7:30 p.m., Parkview Ballroom, ET, $24.95/ adult, $12.95/children 5-12, free/4 and under

• Wednesday, March 22, The Kenny Wayne Shepherd Band, 7:30 p..m., HC, $39/$49/$79; premium seating $99

• Thursday, March 23, Gourmet Dinner & Chamber Music with cellist Anita Graef and pianist Louise Chan, 6 p.m., HH, $65

• Thursday, March 23, Donnie Baker, 7:30 p.m., ET, $20/$30

• Friday, March 24, seafood dinner, 5:30 p.m.-7:30 p.m., Parkview Ballroom, ET, $33.95/adult, $16.95/children 5-12, free/4 and under

• Saturday, March 25, Ladies and Gentlemen in Training, 11 a.m., HH, $25/person, recommended for ages 6-12

• Saturday, March 25, Mitchell Tenpenny, 7:30 p.m., HC, $29/$39; premium seating $79

• Thursday, March 30, Israel Through Our Eyes, 7 p.m., HH, free admission

• Friday, March 31, Fairytales on Ice, 7:30 p.m., HC, $15/$25; premium seating $35 Honeywell Center/Ford Theater (HC), 275 W. Market St., Wabash. Eagles Theatre/Ballroom (ET), 106 W. Market St., Wabash. Honeywell House (HH), 720 N. Wabash St., Wabash. 13-24 Drive-In (Drive-In), 890 IN 13. Dr. Ford Home (Ford), 177 W. Hill St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellarts.org.

The Annual Fort Wayne

Home & Garden Show Celebrates its 50th Anniversary March 2-5, 2023

The Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show celebrates its 50th Anniversary this year. Presented by Windows, Doors and More, the show will bring over 650 exhibitors to the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum March 2-5, 2023.

“We are so excited to bring you our biggest and best show yet! We are celebrating our 50th anniversary with a bang! We are bringing in some of our best features from over the years and hosting our biggest giveaway ever! You won’t want to miss this!” says show owner Becky Williamson.

New features for the 50th Anniversary include: the $50k & More Giveaway, the unveiling of the official Show mascot, a virtual scavenger hunt, new and exciting community performances, and a special 50th anniversary celebration.

Attractions, entertainment, educational opportunities, and giveaways abound this year. For a full list, visit the website.

• Back by popular demand, Twiggy the Waterskiing Squirrel – World-famous for her skiing prowess and seen on too many TV stations, shows & movies to count... Twiggy has come out of retirement to amaze crowds and teach boating safety once again!

• Piglet Races – Witness the cutest things on 4 stubby legs as piglet races will be held each day!

• Petting Zoo & Indiana Wild – From farm to exotic, from baby ducks to snakes, you can learn about and interact with some wonderful animals at the show and pose for pictures!

• Gnome Scavenger Hunt – This kids challenge will have those 12 & under on the lookout for 12 gnomes hidden around the show. Those who can find all 12 can claim a prize at the info booth!

• Kids’ Day on Sunday – Featuring a stilt-walking balloon artists and other kids’ entertainment!

• Charitable Partner / Food Drive – We’re excited to announce our new charitable partnership with Community Harvest Food Bank! CHFB has been helping the community for many years and we’re excited to help them! Please bring a non-perishable food donation to the show with you to receive a $2 off general admission discount (cannot be combined with other discounts).

With over 650 exhibitors, the Home & Garden Show is the place to see the latest in contemporary home and garden products and services. Attendees can expect to find all the inspiration and help needed for all types of home improvement projects. Exhibitors feature products and services for kitchen, bath, landscaping, interior decor, bedding, windows, siding, roofing, gutters, patios, driveways, garden accessories, gifts, plants, fairy gardens, patio and landscape displays and hundreds of spring flowers. a

SHOW HOURS:

Thursday & Friday 11a–8p

Saturday 10a–8p

Sunday 11a–5p.

Ticket prices are $12 at the door, $8 for Seniors 62+ and free for kids 14 & under.

$2 off discount coupons are available online at Home-GardenShow.com.

Parking at the Coliseum lot is $8.

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DR. MULOKOZI LUGAKINGIRA, DMD, DDS, MS.

Diplomate, American Board of Oral & Maxillofacial Surgeons (ABOMS)

Fellow, Master, & Diplomate, International Congress of Oral Implantologists (ICOI)

Fellow, American Association of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons (AAOMS)

Fellow, American College of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons (ACOMS)

Fellow, International Association of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons (IAOMS)

Over 15 years’ experience in dental, medical, and surgical practice

DR. TREVOR TREASURE, DDS, MD, MBA.

Fellow, American Association of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons (AAOMS)

Fellow, American College of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons (ACOMS)

Over 30 years’ experience in dental, medical, and surgical practice

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