Glo - May 2024

“May the petals teach me the art of letting go”

“The Mother’s Day Issue”

Do you know that celebrations of mothers and motherhood can be traced back to the ancient Greeks and Romans? The origins of Mother’s Day as celebrated in the United States date back to the early 1900s. Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia helped start “Mother’s Day Work Clubs” to teach local women how to properly care for their children. Later, these clubs became unifying forces in a region of the county still divided over the Civil War.

From the executive editor

The official Mother’s Day holiday arose in the 1900s because of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, daughter of Ann Reeves Jarvis. After her mother’s death in 1905, she conceived Mother’s Day as a way of honoring the sacrifices mothers made for their children. She held the first Mother’s Day event in May 1908. Following the success of the first event, she started a massive letter writing campaign to newspapers and prominent politicians urging the adoption of the special day. In 1914, her persistence paid off and President Woodrow Wilson made the second Sunday in May the official date of Mother’s Day.

While versions of Mother’s Day are celebrated worldwide, traditions vary depending on the country. In Thailand, for example, Mother’s Day is always celebrated in August on the birthday of the current queen, Sirikit. Another alternate observance of Mother’s Day can be found in Ethiopia, where families gather each fall to sing songs and eat a large feast as part of Antrosht, a multi-day celebration honoring motherhood.

In the United States, Mother’s Day continues to be celebrated but it has become largely commercialized families present mothers and other women with gifts and flowers, and it has become one of the biggest holidays for consumer spending. The transition is fascinating, and one that Anna herself abhorred. She even went so far as to organize boycotts and petitions to rescind the very holiday she created. She didn’t want Mother’s Day to be a “burdensome, wasteful, expensive gift day”, she wanted mothers to be acknowledged in more simple, intimate, and meaningful ways: handwritten notes, visits, phone calls.

I don’t know about you, but as a mother, what I want most is a quiet, relaxing day at home (maybe even alone) to enjoy the things I love. Sure, flowers are nice, but I’d love it if we got back to the original sentiment around Mother’s Day: honoring (and acknowledging) the sacrifices of motherhood. What about you? What does your perfect Mother’s Day look like? Send me an email and let me know.

I hope all the mothers biological moms, adopted moms, stepmoms, and honorary moms have a wonderful Mother’s Day. And if you are looking for a gift for the special woman in your life, shop local. We have picked some of our favorite things and highlight them on page 14.

athe Cover

Title of piece: Carefree Days

Where did you draw inspiration from for this piece? This is a combination of my favorite things. We were in full-time children’s ministry for over 15 years. I was a chalk talk artist for many years. I love nature and being outdoors.

Where do you draw inspiration from in general for your work? The joy and wonder of childhood and nature.

cover artist: Angela Smith

Hometown: Plainwell, MI

Current town: Fort Wayne, IN

What is your preferred medium? Pastels

How long have you been creating art?

My whole life. As a child, I’d sit in the grass and draw our horses, trees, and flowers. Like so many others, the pandemic gave me the time to start creating on a regular basis.

What advice do you have for other artists?

”Don’t think about making art, just get it done. Let everyone else decide if it’s good or bad, whether they love it or hate it. While they are deciding, make even more art.” – Andy Warhol

Where can we find your work?

Instagram and Facebook as Washing the Soul. We also sell art, cards, journals, handmade paper, and cutlery sculptures at the YLNI Farmer’s Market.

What is your favorite quote?

“At the end of the day, your feet should be dirty, your hair messy and your eyes sparkling.” -Shanti a

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Stacie Ball, Mary Jane Bogle, BethAnne Brink-Cox, Gabby Hunnicutt, Jennie Renner, Cathy Shouse, Julie Young

2024

Trends Jewelry

By Gabby Hunnicutt

Whether your personal style is simple and sophisticated or funky and bold, there’s something for everyone in our 2024 jewelry trend forecast.

If you’re looking to make a statement with your accessories, estate jewelry is the way to go. Think keepsake engraved lockets, rings with unusual colored gemstones, and even brooches. Go even bolder by mixing styles and colors to layer necklaces and stack rings or bracelets. Antique stores and thrift shops are great places to find vintage-style jewelry with a lot of personality. Eichhorn Jewelry in Decatur is your local source for this type of vintage and estate jewelry.

Vintage style isn’t the only one to watch for this year. The coquette aesthetic, which can be described as feminine and romantic, is everywhere right now. The Barbie Mania that swept the nation last year is continuing to influence fashion, inspiring designers to keep thinking pink. Hearts and bows are the shapes taking center stage with this trend, keeping things delicate with simple chain necklaces and dainty earrings. Chokers are making a comeback, but it’s not the 90’s black velvet or jelly material you’re thinking of. Ribbon and pearls are giving a softer look to this style of necklace.

Another trend for 2024 is permanent jewelry. Permanent jewelry does not have a clasp, and is instead fixed on by permanent jewelry artists, typically through welding. This is completely painless and even safe to watch with appropriate eyewear. The process is customizable, from the chain to the charms and even the fit. The items are designed to withstand daily wear, so you never have to worry about taking them off. Although permanent is in the name, these jewelry items can be easily removed with wire cutters or scissors. You can usually find local permanent jewelry artists at pop-up events and markets.

Customizable pieces are always popular, and 2024 is the year of the charm necklace. While a charm bracelet invokes a strong sense of nostalgia for many, charm necklaces are an updated way to enjoy that same sense of uniqueness and storytelling. You can find charms for just about everything, from iconic landmarks to professions to hobbies. Charm necklaces can be as minimal or maximized as you want – making it the perfect accessory for any occasion. If you love the idea of a charm necklace but want a cohesive look, you can even find pre-designed pieces. From Juniper with Love is a local boutique that specializes in permanent jewelry and charms.

There are some jewelry items that seem to transcend trends and hoop earrings are one of those pieces. Hoops are a staple item for any wardrobe. Mid-size hoops are great for all occasions, while mini hoops are perfect to accentuate a simple look. A simple gold chain is also essential to any jewelry collection. It’s a perfect item to layer with trendier pieces. If you’re ever unsure about what jewelry would best complete your outfit, stick to the classics. Keep in mind that there’s no wrong way to accessorize. Letting your personal style shine is always in fashion! a

Resources:

Eichhorn Jewelry, Decatur, 260.724.2621, eichhornjewelry.com

From Juniper With Love, Fort Wayne and Goshen, fromjuniperwithlove.com

Eichhorn Jewelery

From Juniper With Love

From Juniper With Love Eichhorn Jewelery

By Jennie Renner

It’s May. The birds are singing, the grass is green, and there are more days of sunshine – sending many of us outside to soak it all up. That’s exactly why it’s the perfect time to be reminded of the dangers of too much exposure to UV rays and what we can do to protect ourselves from its potential harm.

May is Skin Cancer Awareness Month. Skin cancer is an abnormal growth of skin cells, often caused by the sun’s harmful rays, but it can develop anywhere on your skin, including areas that aren’t exposed to the sun. Skin cancer can also occur on any color of skin. The good news is that early detection increases the chances of successful treatment — potentially saving your life.

For starters, it’s important to ‘know your skin’ by becoming aware of any moles, freckles, or other skin markings and their usual appearance. Perform monthly selfexaminations to detect any changes or abnormalities. Use mirrors or ask a family member or friend to help examine areas that are difficult to see. Have any new or changing growths evaluated right away, but also schedule an annual skin exam, especially if you have a family history of skin cancer or a personal history of sunburns or using a tanning bed.

While any skin cancer is potentially harmful, melanoma is considered more dangerous because of its tendency to spread. That’s why dermatologists came up with an easy way to remember key warning signs of this type of skin cancer. When performing a skin check, look for the ABCDEs:

Asymmetry — One half of the mole or lesion doesn’t match the other half.

Border — The edges are uneven, notched, or blurred.

Color — The color varies or contains shades of tan, brown, black, white, red, or blue.

Diameter — The size is larger in diameter than a pencil eraser.

Evolving — The mole or lesion has changed in size, shape, or color over time.

If you notice any of the above signs or have spots that are itching or bleeding, the American Academy of Dermatology encourages you to make an appointment to see a board-certified dermatologist.

Besides doing skin checks and learning to identify potentially harmful lesions, there are measures you can take to prevent skin cancer, too. These include:

• Limiting your exposure to the sun, including seeking shade, especially during peak hours (10 a.m. to 4 p.m.) when the sun’s rays are strongest.

• Using a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or higher, and reapplying every two hours or more frequently if swimming or sweating.

• Wearing protective clothing, such as a wide-brimmed hat, long sleeves, and sunglasses.

• Avoiding tanning beds.

By being vigilant about monitoring your skin and practicing UV safety, you can reduce your risk of developing skin cancer and increase the chances of early detection and successful treatment if cancer does develop. a

* Information for this article was gathered from the American Academy of Dermatology website, aad.org.

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Do you have trouble hearing in groups?

Do you think others mumble?

If you answered “YES” to any of these questions, it is important to have a free hearing evaluation. Call today to schedule an appointment! 260-338-2942.

MEG DISTLER

she glows

By Julie Young | Photo by Eva Toscos

When Meg Distler says “yes” to something, she tends to meet wonderful people doing amazing things, working to make their little corner of the world a better place.

“I probably say ‘yes’ too often, but I don’t regret it because it has made for a wonderful journey,” she said.

As the executive director of the St. Joseph Community Health Foundation, Distler and her team award grants to groups in Allen County who are assisting vulnerable and underserved populations, collaborate with community partners to bring every resource to the table, and engage in transformative initiatives that promote a high quality of life to those in need.

“There are so many wonderful people in this community and that kind of encourages me to stay engaged whether it is through my role at the foundation, through my faith community, or just by volunteering,” she said. “There is so much kindness and goodness to see if you just turn off the TV and look around.”

After graduating from the University of Notre Dame with degrees in Economics and American Studies in 1982, she became the director of development for the Immaculate Heart of Mary High School in Westchester, Illinois before moving to the west coast to serve as the director of development for the McGeorge School of Law at the University of the Pacific in Sacramento. While there, she worked alongside a constitutional law professor who was nominated by then-President Ronald Reagan to the United States Supreme Court.

“Justice Kennedy is an incredible man and along with the various religious women I have worked with, I have been exposed to a lot of inspiring people who truly believe in the value of serving others,” she said.

And it’s those same service-minded people she seeks when she raises funds today. Distler says that much of her recent work revolves around helping the Burmese refugee and immigrant communities resettle and re-establish their lives in Fort Wayne. In addition to helping these new residents survive and thrive in the Midwest, she recently helped secure a $1 million grant from Indiana University Health to develop the Refugee Health Collaborative that will help Burmese refugees meet their needs for physical and mental health services, case management, transportation, healthy food, job training, and housing.

“We look forward to working with the talented staff of all our partners to overcome cultural and language barriers so we can welcome refugees and help them make our community home,” she said.

Distler’s work with the Burmese community has not gone unnoticed and in addition to other accolades, she was honored with the Citizen of the Year Award in 2010 by the Fort Wayne Journal Gazette for her efforts with the refugee population. This month, she will receive an honorary doctorate from the University of St. Francis.

“I have been recognized more times than I ever expected to be and that is really humbling for me because I don’t do the work…I work with the tremendous people who help people in the community enjoy a better quality of life,” she said. a

glo GIRL

Snider High School student, Amelia Rinehart dives headfirst into each day. The Junior doesn’t “splash” around about living life to the fullest and spending time with loved ones. Earlier this year, she won the state championship in diving, the first for her after a runner-up finish last year, and the first in Snider history. She shared some insight into how she keeps her head above water and reaches her goals with grace and enthusiasm.

How long have you been diving, and what do you love about it?

I have been diving for around six years and have always loved the perfectionist side of diving. I love the adrenaline rush I get while practicing and competing.

What is your most memorable experience from diving?

One of my most memorable experiences was competing in my first Winter Senior Nationals meet. I spent the entire competition watching the other women dive and talking with my coach with no expectations of making finals, but I ended up making it to finals and finishing tenth.

How do you spend your free time?

As hard as it is to find free time, when I do find it, I like to spend it reading or going for walks and bike rides. I also enjoy spending that time with my family and friends, whether that is just sitting and watching a movie or going out and playing football in the yard. I also really enjoy going to church on Sundays with my parents and grandparents. It is always a comforting environment, and it is always so great to worship and learn more about the word of God.

Are you involved in other activities?

Before deciding to focus solely on diving, I was in gymnastics and cross country. I also swim for Snider during the high school swim and dive season.

What do you hope to be doing in 5 years? In 10 years?

In future years I hope to be diving for Purdue University and training for the Olympics, but I truly don’t know what is in store for me. I just trust God will lead me on the path he has planned for me. a

Age: 17

By Stacie Ball | photo by Eva Toscos

Mothers Day GIFT GUIDE

By Amber Bouthot

Looking for a gift for that special woman in your life?

Here are some of my favorite local gifts.

$50 - $260

www.aspireplasticsurgery.com

eichhornjewelry.com

14K white gold Butterfly Pendant with various shades of Blue Sapphires, by Michael Couch, $1,980. Chain sold separately

Equal Exchange Chocolate from 3 River Food Co-op. Equal Exchange commits to sourcing from small farmer, fair trade coops, offering an ethical alternative to mainstream chocolate business models, 2 for $6 3riversfood.coop

LeVian Watch with Vanilla Diamonds ¼ carat from Will Jewelers, $1,780 willjewelers.com/levian

Beautiful Bougainvilla Hanging Basket from The Grainery, $34.99 www.thegrainerycompany.com

Dionis Goat Milk Skin care from A Perfect Blend, prices vary www.aperfectblendbluffton.com

Diamond Glow, a 3-in-1 advanced microdermabrasion treatment that exfoliates, extracts, and infuses customized serums to improve the health and appearance of skin.

Alpaca Blend Knit Ruana Wrap from Creative Women of the World, $72 gocwow.com

Making Moms of Littles glo!

By Mary Jane Bogle

Mother’s Day is a long-standing tradition in our country, one that shines a light on all the work moms do for our families. And while setting aside this special day is a great way to celebrate the family matriarchs—the ones who have built our families and poured into our lives in countless ways—it can sometimes be easy to neglect the newest members of the motherhood club.

on Mother’s Day

3 – Let the women celebrate each other on a girls’ day out. If the women in your family really enjoy time together, consider a Saturday celebration that pampers both generations of mothers. Group manicures and pedicures might be the perfect time for seasoned moms to pass on family wisdom without the children present.

Of course, it’s entirely appropriate to recognize the moms-turnedgrandmas in this new season of life. In the process, however, some moms of littles end up investing so much into the day’s preparations that they end up being overlooked themselves.

On top of the planning, baking, coordinating, or hosting, moms of littles also must care for their small charges, children who might not enjoy being carted from house to house or told to behave in restaurants that don’t really cater to little ones. And let’s not forget all the gear new moms need to pack and carry to keep the littles dry, fed, and entertained!

In short, on a day when most moms want down time with their own nuclear families (think breakfast in bed complete with sticky, syrupsmudged kisses and handmade gifts), they end up exhausted by catering to everyone else. So how do you strike the balance between celebrating grandmas while giving new moms the rest they crave? Here are five ways to make all mothers shine.

1 – Separate the celebrations. There’s nothing that says you must celebrate everyone all at once. Consider a relaxing morning for the new moms on Sunday, followed by a celebration for the grandmas later in the day. Or get together with grandmas the Saturday before.

2 – Don’t make new moms do all the work. If the family wants everyone together in one place, consider involving all the women in the planning and execution. Don’t assume the daughters-turnedmoms will do it all.

4 – Celebrate grandmas in new and creative ways. Sometimes distance and time constraints make group celebrations impossible. If you can’t celebrate in person with everyone, be sure to send grandmas heartfelt cards and gifts. And remember that they can always join in the fun virtually. Then plan an in-person visit for a later date.

5 – Invite grandmas to babysit the littles. Grandmas, if time with your sweet grandbabies is what you really want on Mother’s Day, why not offer to watch them while the new parents head out for a relaxing dinner for two? This option can give everyone what they most want or need.

However you choose to celebrate, remember that the younger generation who once planned all the days’ festivities are now parents in their own right and need recognition, too. With a little considerate planning and careful communication, this Mother’s Day can become a time when all mothers new and seasoned have a chance to shine! a

Could Private Banking Be For You?

By Jennie Renner

Have you ever wished there was someone who could provide personalized financial services on your schedule? If you qualify, private banking may be the solution for you.

Private banking is a concierge-style banking service that caters to the financial needs of executives and professionals who have busy schedules and unique needs. The service may be especially helpful for individuals who have difficulty conducting business during the traditional 9 to 5 retail banking hours.

Ryan Lepird, private banker with STAR Financial, has been in the banking and financial services Industry for more than 20 years. His clients consist of doctors, attorneys, CEO’s, business owners, and other affluent clients of the bank.

“My role as a private client banker is to manage my client’s relationships with STAR by taking care of all their personal banking and lending needs,” said Lepird. “For those clients that have business and wealth management relationships with STAR, I partner closely with our small business, commercial, and wealth management teams to provide our clients with a team approach to managing their overall financial relationship with STAR.”

While private banking does provide some perks that aren’t typically found with traditional retail banking, Lepird believes the relationship he builds with his clients is the most valuable benefit of this service.

“I provide a relationship approach to banking with my clients by being accessible to them at their convenience — learning about them,

their families, their needs, wants, and overall financial picture,” he explained. “This helps me be proactive with managing their banking relationship and helps with establishing myself as a trusted advisor my clients can turn to not only with their banking needs, but also advice in other areas where they may need assistance.”

So how do you know if private banking is right for you?

Lepird said it is hard to put a number on the assets needed to start a private banking relationship because all banks are different. One bank may require a client to have a minimum balance of $150,000, but another bank’s requirement could be much higher.

“I would say a prospective client would know they are ready for a private banking relationship if they are not happy with the current level of service/relationship they have with their bank and need more flexibility and personal touch to their banking,” he said. “I would encourage you to connect with a private banker, like me, and have that conversation to see if private banking would be a good fit for you and your family.”

And if you don’t qualify for a private banking relationship, it is still a good idea to seek out and build a relationship with a banker at the retail level.

“Banking relationships truly still matter,” said Lepird. “Having someone you can call and trust with your banking is key to helping you navigate your chosen financial institution.”

To learn more or see if private banking is right for you, contact Ryan Lepird at STAR Financial, 260-710-2345 or ryan.lepird@starfinancial.com. a

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“I LOVE NEW YORK” is not just a slogan.

By BethAnne Brink-Cox

When asked to describe her family, Shelby Schuh answered simply, “My husband, Aaron, and I have been married for 13 years and have a classic ‘his, mine, & ours’ family. We share three great kids: my daughter, Elliot, his son, Dylan and our daughter, Austyn.

Last summer they took a trip to the East Coast. “This trip was a REALLY BIG DEAL to us!” she said. “My oldest daughter graduated in May, and before she went to college, I wanted to do one big family vacation. I had been dying to get my family to the East Coast, but couldn’t decide between Washington D.C. and New York City. Suddenly, it hit me: Philadelphia was the perfect midway spot between both cities, so we could see them all.”

Would they do it again? Schuh explained, “Aaron has never been a fan of big cities, but we had such a great time that now he regularly

mentions how eager he is to go back. In Philadelphia, we loved walking the Riverfront area, and we peeped in on the Liberty Bell, but chose not to wait in line to see it. The biggest surprise was how much we all enjoyed the Museum of the American Revolution. We got to see George Washington’s tent that he slept in during the Revolutionary War.” And who wouldn’t want to do this: “My youngest daughter made sure to run up the ‘Rocky’ steps.”

They visited all the buildings you’d expect in Washington, D.C., including the Supreme Court, the Capitol, and several museums. “Many of the museums are free, so we went to the Smithsonian National Museum of Art and the Smithsonian National Museum of Natural History,” she said. “We walked the National Mall to see the monuments (the kids liked the Lincoln Memorial and the

Family in Central Park: Left to right--Aaron, Elliot, Austyn, Dylan and Shelby having the time of their lives.

Daughter Elliot sharing a moment with the portrait of former First Lady, Michelle Obama.

Daughter Austyn poses among the statues. Can you tell which is which?

Korean War Memorial most). We made sure to do the Holocaust Museum, which was the most powerful experience in D.C.”

“In New York, we also hit it as hard as we could! We checked out Times Square and then 30 Rockefeller Plaza,” Schuh said. “That night, my husband and son did the sites on their own, while the girls and I saw their very first Broadway show! ‘SIX: The Musical’ was a great choice. Thanks to my friend Wilson (a local), we learned you can wait outside the theatre, meet the cast, and have them sign your playbill afterwards, which made both of my daughters’ experience extra special.”

The next day, they headed to Battery Park and took the ferry to the Statue of Liberty. They visited Ellis Island to see what they could learn about their ancestors, then visited the 9-11 Memorial Museum, which was deeply moving for everyone.

“In all, we walked over 40 miles from Sunday through Friday. You definitely feel like a true New Yorker when you walk that much!” she said.

The best part of the trip, Schuh said, “was getting to experience all of the things that I loved about the East Coast with my family. I wanted my kids to get a real feel for American history and to experience our country in a way that they hadn’t before, and I feel very happy with how that was accomplished on this trip. In the moment, you would have thought that my children were being tortured and forced to sight see, but as soon as we got home, they could not stop talking about what an incredible time it was, how much they loved our adventure, and what they were looking forward to about going back.”

“It was a once in a life-time opportunity being able to see some of our country’s greatest landmarks,” said Austyn Schuh, age 12. That’s a stellar recommendation. a

In our service to you and our community, we’ve found we needed more space. Even though our location is different, our commitment to you and our community is the same.

Monday, April 29, 2024 is the first day we’ll be at this new location: 8528 Union Chapel Rd Fort Wayne, IN 46845 260-627-7104

The solemnity of this memorial led to an especially close moment for Elliot and Austyn.

How to Prepare

for Lake Season

By Cathy Shouse

The place where swimming is at your doorstep. A location to go boating with ease. A dream spot for those who love to fish. Where socializing and familiar foods are always on the menu.

Going to the lake is a favorite summer getaway for many of us in the region. Our fondest memories will often include time spent at the lake, a home away from home. But while waves splashing on the shore and spectacular sunsets and sunrises come with the territory, careful planning is what keeps the days running smoothly.

Putting your lake vibe on

Jan Moser and her husband, Tom, have been lake-lovers for decades, and now their grown kids, grandkids, and more keep up the tradition with them at Lake Tippecanoe.

“The kids were so excited,” Moser said of the early days. “The planning is like every other trip. The thing I like to do is cook so I was the cook. Games were always on the agenda.”

Practicalities, no worries

Get the boat out of storage a few days early, which many companies handle for you. Remember the fishing and tackle boxes. But bait shops abound if needed. Be sure to check into whether you will need fishing licenses, and what it will that cost.

Planning the menu

The scents and the flavors add more to the lake experience than we realize. Moser said her homemade berry pies were a preferred dessert. But S’mores can be tasty too. Just don’t forget the chocolate bars or the roasting sticks, and be sure to watch the little ones around the fire.

Safety

Life preservers are a must on the water and reviewing the general rules for safety can never be overdone. Swimming using the buddy system can be useful, or alerting adults on the deck when someone’s going into the water can work too. The younger the children, the more care needs given, as adults will sometimes mistakenly think someone else is on watch. Night swimming and boating, while relax ing and fun, requires extra attention, as well.

Rainy days and Mondays

Like the kids in The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss, sometimes “the sun does not shine” and it’s “too wet to play” — even at the lake. Moser remembered a “high water” time when no boats were allowed on the lake. Try to scout out short excursions, whether to a bison farm, a dis count outlet mall, or traipsing through a small town and settling in at a mom-and-pop restaurant until the skies clear.

4 generations of Mosers now enjoy the lake.

“Be Our Guest”

Karen L. Richards and her husband Steve and their family have routinely gone to the lake in the summer, including to Big Bear Lake for 18 seasons in Ontario, Canada, where the grocery store was 17 miles away. No running water or electricity, either.

Now they go to Jimmerson Lake in Steuben County.

“It’s a good idea to make some rules for visitors. Tell them, ‘don’t just drop in.’ Ask them to bring stuff like their beverages of choice,” Richards said. “It’s wonderful to share your lake home with friends and family.” a

CREATE A CHECKLIST (here’s a start)

c An abundance of beach towels helps!

c Load up on drinks, both for the younger set and those for adults-only

c Stock up on games for different ages and numbers of players

c Bring groceries or prepare a list for shopping when you get there

c Consider needed medicines, from sunburn treatments to allergy meds to prescriptions

c TV can help for cabin fever days

Living Room Storage

By Amber Bouthot

Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine?

Email ambouthot@the-papers.com.

This month’s Reader DIY comes from Amber Sherman. She is currently a stay-at-home mom learning the ins and outs of homeschooling. She and her partner of 14 years, John, have 4 boys, ages 3 to 22. They also have a 6-month-old granddaughter. Their home is just shy of 1,200 square feet and it’s filled to the brim with three of their boys and their dog, Sami. They have owned the home for 19 years, and while they have considered moving to a larger space many times, they always come back to loving the challenge of making their current home as beautiful and functional as they can.

“Vertical storage is our favorite,” she said. “I try and help inspire people who feel overwhelmed by their homes to take a step back and ditch what they THINK they need to do, and instead look outside the box to see what they can really accomplish if they are willing to learn and give it a shot.”

What did you like best about doing this?

The most gratifying part of this project is how much larger and intentional it makes the space feel. The fireplace has been a real focal point for us, both aesthetically and functionally with the heat it produces.

What was the most challenging aspect?

Life was throwing a lot of curves at us during this project and having to sideline it many times was a lesson in both humility and patience. I am so grateful for my family for how accepting they are of living in half-finished chaos and the trust they have in my vision of the final product. As with any house, walls not being square gave me a great opportunity to learn new skills.

What was your inspiration for this project?

Living in a small house with multiple kids requires some ingenuity and really stepping back to process what the most efficient and practical use of space would be. The built-in fireplace combination was a common feature that kept feeling like the most attractive and grounding storage option. This room is the room you enter from the front door, and it has been through many furniture rearrangements, and none felt right. We needed something to stand as a focal point to anchor the room, and really, the house. Once I knew what I wanted, I sketched a few ideas and headed to Pinterest for any details that might catch my eye.

How long did it take you to complete?

That’s a running joke…I am a firm member of the 85% club. I knew it should take approximately 2 weeks, but my attention to completing this ebbed and flowed so much so that it took close to 4.5 years to be finished. It sat with one single unpainted shelf for at least a year. I predict you will have two camps of readers when they get to this answer... those who squint and ask what my malfunction is and those who will laugh in solidarity.

Was the project easier or more difficult than you expected?

I for sure had a few moments of needing to call my dad for backup or lean on my partner as a level head. For the most part, it is a straightforward and basic project. The most challenging aspect was life taking precedence.

What was the total cost of the project?

This is one of my favorite questions. We are all in around $250. I have a small goal with any project to see how much we can source inexpensively or free. It can be amazing what you can accomplish if you start with an open mind. The fireplace and base cabinets were $50 each and the rest is in paint and lumber.

Where did you source your materials and supplies?

This would tie as my favorite question. The fireplace and bottom cabinets are from Facebook marketplace. The bottom cabinets are matching vanity bases that came from someone’s bathroom remodel, combined with two matching kitchen cabinets I found at the Habitat ReStore. The fireplace is vintage 1970’s and was in barn storage. It took some cleaning and maintenance, but that was basic and well worth it. I was raised by very budget conscious parents who modeled what you can accomplish when you are intentional with your money. That has an impact on me as an adult. The more prevalent reason I try and use as much repurposed materials as possible is to mitigate unnecessary waste and to strengthen community. When you work with your neighbors to get what you need, it helps everyone feel more connected. It is mind blowing that half of this project would have been in a landfill, compared to in our home as it is now. a

HOME I am Ron & Linda Buskirk

Ron and Linda Buskirk didn’t grow up in Fort Wayne, yet have had a love affair with the city for decades. Both were working in the city when they met, fell in love, and said, “I do,” in 1981. Over their years as Fort Wayne residents, they’ve served their adopted community through their careers, as well as through volunteering.

If the Buskirks were featured in a movie, it might be called, The Accidental Tour Guides. That’s because in 2005, Ron invited Linda to create a plan for taking visitors to highlights around Fort Wayne while their spouses were in meetings. Her effort was such a success that the idea snowballed and she found herself giving more tours, working with Visit Fort Wayne and individual sites.

“We love to show off our city,” Linda said.

Ron has a unique perspective since he joined the Fort Wayne Police Department as a patrol officer in 1970 and served all capacities of the FWPD, including creating the Crime Scene Management division. In 2000, he retired as Deputy Chief of Investigations, then worked as Ethics and Corporate Compliance Officer at St. Joseph and Dupont Hospitals for 18 years.

Her work at WOWO radio as a broadcast journalist brought Linda to Fort Wayne in 1978. Early in her career, she worked in county and city governments and higher education. In 2004, she founded Buskirk Solutions with a focus on not-for-profit and congregational development. Plus, she’s a writer and creates murder mystery games.

Ron and Linda live in the historic Wildwood Park Neighborhood just west of downtown Fort Wayne. They are the second owners of a home built in 1947. Previously they lived on Maple Place, Fort Wayne’s first cul-de-sac, conveniently located near Zesto on Broadway.

“Allen County has many nice housing additions, but you just can’t beat the beauty, diverse architecture, and unique characteristics of Fort Wayne’s older neighborhoods,” Linda said. “Historic and bustling parks add to the charm.”

Several years ago, the couple officially went into business as Fort Wayne Tour, to do something they love: showing off Fort Wayne to others.

“We love to hear tourists ‘ooh and aah’ when we explore the streets surrounding Lakeside or Foster parks,” Linda said. “And downtown has blossomed into a neighborhood with public art, cultural attractions, great restaurants, and accessible rivers.”

“We’ve given tours to class reunions, and family reunions,” she continued. “We’ve rented buses. It depends on the group. If we need it we get a trolley. Mostly what we do are tours coming in on bus coaches of the Midwest. We try to listen to what they want and provide that. It’s fun.”

Linda’s Fort Wayne favorites are endless, from the Tin Caps to Johnny Appleseed to the War Memorial Coliseum and the downtown décor at Christmas. She’ll showcase area restaurants for visitors, sometimes 50 people coming in for lunch.

Ron added, “It is a pleasure for us to use our knowledge of Fort Wayne and our many contacts to customize tours that match the interests of our tour clients... we know a lot of people who are excited to help us create unique tour experiences.” a

By Cathy Shouse | Photo provided

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1 & 2 | Wednesday & Thursday

Spring Rummage Sale

New Haven United Methodist Church, 630 Lincoln Hwy East, New Haven

New Haven United Women in Faith will be holding their annual Spring Rummage Sale to support their local and global mission works.

Time: Wednesday 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Thursday 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. with a $2 bag sale from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m.

1 | Wednesday

Law Basics for Small Business with Q&A SEED Fort Wayne, 1830 Wayne Trace, Fort Wayne

In this workshop, learn about basic legal entities and their implications for your personal and professional liability. Basic securities will also be covered so you know what to consider when thinking about taking on investors. There will also be time for Q&A, so bring your small business law questions.

Time: 6pm – 8pm

Cost: $5

https://gocwow.com/collections/events

3 | Friday

Historic Swinney Homestead Spring Open House

1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne

Settlers, Inc Memberships available. Park by the tennis courts.

Tickets: Free Friday: 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; www.settlersinc.org

3 & 4 | Friday & Saturday

Settlers, Inc. Herbs and Perennials Plant Sale

Swinney Homestead,

1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne Park by the tennis courts. Plants are in the basement and back lawn.

Time: Friday 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m. – noon www.settlersinc.org

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4 | Saturday

Cancer Services Ribbon Walk

6316 Mutual Drive, Fort Wayne

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– 12 | Friday – Sunday

The fundraising walk is an opportunity for the community to support local families affected by cancer. You are invited to form a team and ask your friends and family to support the mission of Cancer Services. We encourage participants to fundraise in honor or memory of someone in their life who has been impacted by cancer. Donate and register at https://give.cancer-services.org/ribbonwalk2024.

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11, 18, & 25 | Saturdays

YLNI Farmers Market

1501 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne

The YLNI Farmers Market provides a fun outdoor shopping experience and connects the community with local vendors. Customers can find select produce, baked goods, crafts, jewelry, honey, and so much more!

Time: 9am – 1pm

www.ylni.org/ylni-farmers-market

4, 11, 18, & 25 | Saturdays

Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market

Dynamo Alley, Electric Works, Fort Wayne

The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more!

Time: 9am – 1pm

ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/

5 | Sunday

Decatur Coin Show & Marketplace

Decatur Riverside Center, 231 East Monroe St.

Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available.

Contact Carla at 260.517.8182

Time: 8am – 2pm (year-round)

https://www.decaturfleamarket.com

9 | Thursday

Settlers, Inc. Historic Hand Arts Class: Behind the Scenes at the History Center

302 E. Berry Street, Fort Wayne

Refreshments and program.

Time: 9-11:30 a.m.

Cost: $20

Reservations by May 2, 260.637.6692, www.settlersinc.org.

Mother’s Day Plant Sale

McMillen Park Community Center, 3901 Abbott St., Fort Wayne

Just in time for spring planting, the Botanical Conservatory offers over 700 varieties of plants at the annual Mother’s Day Plant Sale. This annual fundraiser supports the Botanical Conservatory.

Times: Friday 1pm-7pm; Saturday 10am-4pm; Sunday 11am-2pm

https://www.botanicalconservatory.org/events/eventcalendar/eventdetail/10881/-/mothers-day-plant-sale

11 | Saturday

Noble Co. Master Gardeners 2024 Plant Sale

Corner of S. Riley and Diamond St., Kendallville Hanging baskets, flats, house plants, annuals, perennials, herbs, vegetables, dahlia tubers, natives and more.

11 | Saturday

Allen County Marketplace

Pathway Church, 1010 Carroll Rd., Fort Wayne

Visit Allen Co Marketplace, an open-air market in NW Fort Wayne, open the second Saturday of each month. Shop an array of vendors selling produce, baked goods, coffee, plants, pottery, art, boutique clothing, jewelry and so much more! You will also find food trucks with tasty treats and great musicians playing all day long. Don’t miss this family friendly community event! Time: 9am – 1pm

https://www.facebook.com/AllenCoMarketplace

18 | Saturday BuskerFest

Downtown Fort Wayne, corner of Wayne and Calhoun

Experience local, regional, and national acts from musicians, fire dancers, living statues, magicians, jugglers, and more during BuskerFest. Time: 3pm-9pm

Tickets: FREE BuskerFestFW.com

19 | Sunday

Summer of Self Care

The Bell Mansion, 420 W. Wayne St., Fort Wayne

Check out various holistic and alternative wellness vendors, listen to a variety of holistic professionals speak on self-care, learn about many different wellness resources, and walk around the beautifully preserved Bell Mansion.

Ticket pre-sale price: $6 (April 1-May 12); $11 (May 13 - day of event)