Be Happy With Your Choice
“If
I were a flower…I would be a sunflower. To always follow the sun, turn my back to darkness, stand proud, tall and straight even with my head full of seeds.” — Pam Stewart
“Back to School”
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From the executive editor
Happy August glo readers!
As you may know (because each August I write about it here), it’s my birthday month! This issue marks my 7th as editor and publications manager at glo during my birthday month. While allowing ideas to percolate for this month’s editor’s letter, I revisited my letter from August 2019, the year I turned 40. That seemed like such a BIG milestone, and it was, but now I am staring down 45, and 40 is a distant memory. That year, I made a bucket list of things to accomplish before my 41st birthday. I didn’t accomplish all of them that year, but I have continued to work on them.
Here are the ones I did/have accomplished:
• Travel to someplace I’ve never been. It could be near or far, but it needs to be new to me. Since 2019 I have traveled to places all over the country my favorites being Sedona and Denver. I have caught the travel bug and have several trips already planned. Next up: Montreal, Lake Tahoe, and Mexico…my travel bucket list is endless.
• Make a new friend. I find this much harder to do the older I get, but I am happy to report that I have an amazing circle of friends that is full of many women who came into my life since 2019 mostly through the bonds of motherhood.
• Read more. In previous years, my goal had been to read 26 books per year. Having kids slowed me down, so this was a stretch goal to kick start my reading. The past few years I have read over 60 books, so it worked!
And here are the two I am recommitting to:
• Start running again and complete an official race. I used to run a lot in fact, in my 30s, I participated in several half marathons. I don’t know if that distance is in the cards for me again, but I would like to get a few 5K’s under my belt.
• Take some time for me each month. It can be something as small as getting a pedicure, but I need to make a focused effort to take care of myself. Life with littles makes this nearly impossible, but it is a must!
Here’s to another trip around the sun I plan to make the most of my time. What’s on your birthday bucket list? I’d love to hear from you. Email me anytime!
As summer winds down, we planned this issue to help you make the most of the remaining days. Be sure to check out our Fashion article with advice on transitioning your wardrobe from summer to fall, our main feature on Surviving Back to School season, and our motherhood feature about Bullying.
athe Cover
Title of piece: Butterfly Girls
What inspired this piece?
For a series of butterfly paintings, I asked my friends to send me their butterfly photos. This painting is based on a photo I got from the mother of the child in the front. I loved the expressions on the faces of these little girls.
Where do you draw inspiration for your artwork in general?
I have always been driven by a profound sense of curiosity, depth, and perspective. My art reflects the human condition, exploring the intricate web of our thoughts and emotions. The depth of thought that I experience through books, music, and various forms of creative expression fuels my creativity. I am fascinated by the diverse perspectives of others, and how their views may differ from my own, enriching my understanding of the world.
cover artist: Natalee Wright
Hometown: Columbia City, IN
What is your preferred medium?
I don’t have a preferred medium; I use whatever I feel called to use to bring my artwork to life. Some of my favorites include colored pencils, acrylic paint, and oil paint.
When did you first start creating art?
Like many creatives, I started creating art when I was about five years old. I would paint on our picnic table in the kitchen and then sell my paintings at our roadside lemonade stand to friends and neighbors. Although I moved away from art for a long time, a walkout during my junior year of high school led to detention, where the ar t teacher spotted me. She commuted my sentence to joining the portfolio art class, where I began to explore, exhibit, and receive awards for my work.
What advice do you have for other artists?
My advice to artists is just like what I tell my psychology students: always stay curious. Curiosity teaches us a lot—it lets us explore, play, create, learn from failure, heal, and grow.
Where can we find your work?
My work can be found at Artful Transformations, Sage + Stone and TNT Floral Shop all in Columbia City, IN, as well as Butterfly Alley in Albion, IN, and on my website at www.artfultransformations.art. a
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The fashion transition from summer to fall is always fun. Who doesn’t love a cozy sweater or soft leggings? But, here in the Midwest, it can be fall in the morning and summer during the day, even in October. So, how do we transition our wardrobe so that we’re stylish and comfortable all day?
A great way to combat the changing temperature is of course, the old classic, of layering. However, sometimes it gets boring. Level up your summer maxi dress by adding a classic trench to keep you warm in the early mornings, but to allow you to cool off in the warmer afternoons. If you require a closed toe, trade in your sandals for a nice pair of ballet flats that won’t make your feet feel heavy and sweaty.
Blazers and denim jackets are also a great way to add a layer to your summer outfit that makes it more “fall approved.” Pair your blazer with a flowing tank or blouse so that you can remove the blazer while warm and still look professional. Denim jackets are great to have around as you can throw it over just about anything to keep your arms warm. A kimono is also a great option as its much lighter and airier for those warm fall days but gives you a bit of cover that maybe your tank or tee doesn’t provide.
Transitioning Your Wardrobe from Summer to Fall Embrace the Change:
By Holli Hattery
It’s hard to believe that we’re already thinking about fall, but sadly, summer 2024 is ending quicker than any of us would like. Before we know it, school buses will be on every corner and our tanks and shorts will be traded for sweaters and boots.
Ankle boots are also a great transition item to have, especially on those rainy fall days when ballet flats are not an option. They keep your feet dry but aren’t bulky and rising to your knees when it’s still hitting 75 degrees during the afternoon. A tee or blouse paired with a dark pair of jeans and ankle boots is a great summer to fall transition outfit. Throw a leather jacket over your top in the evenings for a sophisticated, yet casual look.
Vests are making a comeback and are another great foundational piece to have on hand. A sweater vest over a thin long sleeve can add a touch of style, while not making your arms feel too bulky or warm. Add a leather shoulder bag that’s big enough to carry the essentials, but not as large and bulky as your go to beach tote. It’s a perfect addition to any summer or fall outfit.
Transitioning your wardrobe from summer to fall doesn’t take a shopping spree or load of money. You can use foundational, basic pieces that you already own and layer them together to create a stylish, yet functional outfit that will keep you comfortable from the chilly fall mornings to the warm, sunny afternoons. a
Caring for Your Skin After Summer Restoration and Reversal:
By Gabby Hunnicutt
It’s August, which means you’ve probably spent quite a bit of time outdoors the past few months. It is difficult to achieve perfect protection all summer, even if you’ve been mindful of sun exposure and kept up with regular sunscreen application. Fortunately, there are plenty of ways that you can restore your skin and reverse damage after a season of outdoor fun. These interventions can change from products you incorporate into your skincare routine to skin treatments at a spa or cosmetic surgery office.
If you’re looking for simple ways to improve how you care for your sunkissed skin, the first step is sunscreen. A broad-spectrum sunscreen that protects from UV exposure is a good place to start, and it should be the last step in your skincare routine prior to applying any cosmetics. Another key element to that routine is a Vitamin C serum. It can be used every day after your normal cleanser to brighten and protect skin. To remove dead skin and encourage healthy new cells to appear, consider doing an exfoliating scrub once or twice a week. When not exfoliating, a retinol or retinoid at night is alternative way to boost creation of new cells, leading to clearer and fresher skin.
For those who are looking for ways to improve their skin’s texture and/or pigmentation, the best options are laser treatment, Intensed Pulse Light (IPL), and chemical peels. Lasers are used to target pigment through the various layers of skin. Because lasers vary in intensity, a more powerful laser would mean fewer sessions and faster results, but a longer healing period. Intensed Pulse Light is a treatment that doesn’t require any downtime for healing. IPL uses light energy to target brown and red pigment in the skin, and typically
requires several sessions over the course of a few months to achieve your clearest complexion.
Like the laser treatments, chemical peels vary in depth from superficial to medium depth peels repeated every few weeks to gradually reduce pigment in the skin’s layers. If your skin concerns are minimal, a mild lactic acid peel would be a great option. Those with greater skin concerns could benefit from a glycolic or trichloroacetic (TCA) peel. Chemical peels need to be handled by skin care professionals; if not done properly, they can cause damage and even worsen pigmentation.
As we age, fine lines and wrinkles become more prominent and sun exposure can play a significant role in that. Should you want to reduce the appearance of those, microneedling is one way to achieve it. While there are several different devices that can be used for microneedling, it works by creating micro injuries to the skin to encourage collagen production, improving texture and elasticity.
For many people, especially in the Midwest, summer feels like a break. It’s easy to get caught up in the fun and forget about protecting ourselves from sun exposure. As this season ends, consider incorporating skin care products or treatments into your routine that restore your skin’s health and reverse negative effects of the sun. Remember to always consult a licensed skin care professional to help determine the best course of action for your skin! a
Resource: Belle Sante Med Spa, Fort Wayne, 260.436.6900, bellesantemedspa.com
she glows ABBI RICHCREEK
By Jennie Renner | Photo by Eva Toscos
Abbi Richcreek is always eager to learn and try new things. “Whether it is investigating the possibilities of robotic dogs working in tandem with the school and police force or learning how to use a sand blaster… I know I absolutely glow when I push myself to conquer any challenge,” she said.
Richcreek is originally from Hartford City, about 90 minutes south of Warsaw, where she currently lives and works as a teacher. She studied Japanese in high school and declared it as a major in college but wasn’t sure what she was going to do as a career. Then she remembered something her aviation and industrial technology teacher said to her in high school.
“He always told me that I would be really good at being an engineering or technology teacher,” she recalled. Richcreek always liked handson learning, so she looked into industrial technology education and declared that as her second major.
After college, she got a job teaching high school in Marion, Indiana. A few years later, she began teaching in Warsaw and spent ten years at the high school and the last seven at Edgewood Middle School.
Working with guidance counselors, Richcreek identifies young people who are historically underrepresented in STEM (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) education and encourages them to try her classes. She teaches design and modeling, automation and robotics, medical detectives, and computer science for innovators and makers.
Outside of the classroom, Richcreek organizes extra-curricular project-based learning opportunities like Forget Princess, I Want to be an Engineer. This program encourages girls to pursue careers in engineering by providing them with role models, resources, and handson experiences. Futures in Manufacturing introduces students to the manufacturing industry and its various career opportunities through workshops, field trips, and mentorship programs. GoBabyGo! lets students adapt ride-on cars for children with mobility impairments, allowing them to explore their environment independently. Flotation Devices for Addy allowed students to design a water flotation device to enhance the safety and mobility for Addy, a young girl with a rare genetic disorder.
Richcreek also collaborates with Grace College on the Enable the Future project, which focuses on producing prosthetic hands for individuals in need. This partnership provides essential assistive devices while teaching students about the importance of community service and innovation.
All these extracurricular activities are not part of Richcreek’s teaching responsibilities; she does them because she is passionate about helping young people have fun while learning and exploring careers. She makes the opportunities available to students at no cost by securing funding and collaborating with organizations. For the Forget Princess program, she partners with a local chapter of the Society of Women Engineers.
“I just have too many ideas,” she said. “I want to show students that you can make an impact now, you don’t have to wait until you’re in college or until you are an adult to make an impact in people’s lives.” a
he glows
By Julie Young | Photo by Leaha Meinika
Stan Ziherl is a businessman with a big heart. In addition to serving as the president and CEO of Five Star Distributing in Columbia City, he believes it is important to give back to his community by donating his time, talent, and treasure to several local nonprofits, including Miss Virginia’s Food Pantry, Community Harvest Food Bank, and COR Vocational among others.
“It’s important to do what we can to help as many organizations as possible,” he said.
A native of Ohio, Ziherl graduated from the University of Notre Dame in 1978 and briefly worked at US Steel before taking a position with Community Bank in Valparaiso. There, he became acquainted with Indiana Beverage president Bruce Leetz who became his friend, father figure, and business mentor. Leetz brought him into the beverage distribution industry and gave him the leadership skills he needed to recruit and develop the talent that would help grow his company and enable him to work alongside those who believe in the power of altruism.
“I work alongside some of the most extraordinary people who like to be involved,” he said. “In fact, it’s part of our mission statement to support the communities that we serve.”
This spring, Ziherl’s commitment to philanthropy and community service was recognized with the 2024 Don Wolf Award from Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northeast Indiana. Established in 1999, the Don Wolf Award is named for the former CEO of Do It Best Corporation who was instrumental in bringing the Big Brothers Big Sisters organization to the region in 1972 and honors individuals for their exceptional commitment and contributions to the youth of the community. Ziherl called the award a huge, humbling surprise and one that he is very honored to receive.
“To be mentioned in the same breath as someone like Don Wolf just blows me away,” he said. “Big Brothers Big Sisters is an extraordinary organization and the work that they do nationwide is fantastic. The lives they touch and the way that they help young people is just incredible. If there is any way that I can help them out, I will.”
He’s certainly made good on that promise. According to a press release, Ziherl’s contributions to the organization include creating hundreds of matches for children on the waiting list over the past decade and in 2009, he provided a chance for Bigs, Littles, and their families to enjoy an evening of baseball at Tin Caps Stadium. His desire to make a meaningful difference inspires others to give back in their own unique way whether that is coaching a little league baseball/softball team, mentoring a recent college graduate, or simply listening and responding to the need.
“I have been a very blessed individual, and nothing gives me more pleasure than sharing those blessings with others, but it’s not always about the money,” he said. “Time and expertise matter too. The point is to do what you can.” a
STAN ZIHERL
glo GIRL ABIGAIL
Age: 12
By Stacie Ball | Photo by Eva Toscos
Seventh-grade Abigail Kloer is not the average 12-year-old. Her favorite color is purple, and she has one older brother named Alex, but what makes her unique is her helping spirit. While most middle schoolers concentrate on school, families, sports, and hobbies, Kloer balances it all
WHILE assisting those in need.
Kloer is passionate about the arts, movement, and volunteering. She loves crafting bracelets, swimming, and competition dancing. Her weekly dance classes in jazz, contemporary, musical theater, and production consume much of her free time, keeping her on her toes. It is paramount to the young dancer to leave time for volunteering with Community Harvest Food Bank and The Salvation Army especially with her mom around Christmas time.
In 2019, Kloer was crowned the Junior Miss Queen of Charities through The Salvation Army. The pageant ignited her spark for supporting others, and she began seeking more volunteer opportunities through Community Harvest Food Bank (CHFB). She found several options for helping others right here in our community.
CHFB is a food pantry that manages at least nine programs to help citizens in Northeast Indiana. One of the programs is called “SeniorPak Distributions,” described on their website as “in-house hunger relief programs for low-income seniors over 60.” Seniors can visit the Tillman Road location drive-thru to receive food bags on alternating Wednesday mornings.
Later that year, a leader of SeniorPak Distributions assigned Kloer a mission to collect and decorate 100 paper bags. She eagerly accepted the project and decorated over 100 bags. Since then, the project has grown by leaps and bounds. Kloer has been shaking a leg coloring bags with family, friends, Girl Scout Troops, classmates, and even local news anchor Linda Jackson! During COVID, the National Guard assisted in distributing the artistic bags. Today, more than 10,000 bags have been collected and decorated throughout the community.
“My proudest moment is seeing this project start so small and end up being huge!” beamed Kloer. She never dreamed her 100-bag project would blossom into 10,000 and keep growing. Knowing that some seniors may be sad or lonely, the kind-hearted youth hopes these decorated bags of groceries will bring smiles to their faces and brighten their days.
“If it’s fun, it doesn’t feel like work,” Kloer said when asked how she manages everything. With wisdom beyond her years, she added, “It’s not hard to manage everything when you love what you’re doing.”
“Volunteering is so fun,” Kloer explained, “I think everyone should find a place they like and start volunteering. It’s fun and feels good to do nice things for others.” Kloer hopes to continue helping the community and volunteering over the next five years. Eventually, she aspires to open and teach in her dance studio.
If you want to continue what Kloer has started, check out CHFB and see what donation or service options are available in your area. https:// www.communityharvest.org/. a
Late summer fun Things to do and see before the season changes Festivals
By Julie Young
Looking for some late summer fun in Northeast Indiana? Then you are in luck! With 15 counties offering something for everyone, there is no shortage of people to see, places to go, and things to do. From end-of-season festivals to food trails, road trips and recreation opportunities for outdoor enthusiasts, it’s time to check a few items off your 2024 bucket list before the weather changes.
Why not infuse a little international flair into your late summer plans by attending Fiesta Fort Wayne in Headwaters Park on August 10? Experience a glorious mosaic celebrating the diverse traditions of Latino and Hispanic culture. Featuring a mix of live music performances, as well as folk dancing demonstrations from various Latin American countries, and a fabulous feast of cultural flavors, this event is great for the whole family or a great date idea for couples looking for some sizzle. For more information, visit www.fiestafortwayne.com.
You don’t have to be a gear head to enjoy the Auburn Cord Duesenberg (ACD) Festival August 29-31 throughout downtown Auburn. Held annually the week/weekend prior to Labor Day, the ACD Festival includes a wide range of events that appeal to everyone. New this year, is the Ladies’ Tipsy ParTea on August 30, from 2-5 p.m. at the Bridgewater Golf Club. Featuring wine, refreshing beverages and charcuterie, you and your gal pals can let your hair down while watching a local style show. For more information, visit www.acdfestival.org.
Don’t forget to celebrate Fort Wayne’s favorite son John Chapman (aka Johnny Appleseed) at the Johnny Appleseed Festival September 21 and 22 at Johnny Appleseed Park. This time-honored familyfriendly event is a great way to welcome fall and pay homage to the past with 1800 period demonstrations, children’s games, antiques and collectibles, farmers market and plenty of food. For more information, visit www.johnnyappleseedfest.com
Fun Food Trips
As Indiana’s farm to fork destination, the Joseph Decuis Wagyu farmstead is a great getaway where you can enjoy an authentic 1884 experience. Offering both two and three-day packages, you will not only enjoy the farm’s quality cuisine, but also world-class overnight accommodations, and the opportunity to participate in farm chores while exploring the grounds. For more information or to book your stay, visit www.josephdecuis.com.
DeKalb County is the perfect destination for beer and wine enthusiasts whether you have a nose for a good bouquet or are just getting started. Sample the flavors at the family-owned Country Heritage Winery, which offers an extensive selection of wines in a gorgeous rustic setting. Don’t forget to stop by Acres Away Winery in the rural outskirts of Ashley, the Auburn Brewing Company, Mad Anthony Brewing Company, Cupka’s Bee Good Meadery, and the Byler Lane Winery all in Auburn to complete your wine/brewery trail.
Alcoholic beverages not your style? Then be sure to check out the Wabash County ice cream trail. With plenty of options for every taste, whether you prefer classic soft serve or mangonada (a Mexican sorbet treat), get your spoons and get ready to “scoop” up your favorites at Canal Cremery, Chillz Delights, for Goodness Shakes, Grands Ice Cream Shoppe, Kelly’s Ice Cream, and La Morenita to get started.
Outdoor Fun
If you want to enjoy the great outdoors one more time before the new school year gets underway or before the temps drop, then be sure to head to Lobolly Marsh Nature Preserve in Bryant, which offers a tree identification trail, about 3.5 miles of easy walking trails, and a bird sanctuary. You can also explore Pokagon State Park on horseback in Steuben County, or get your friends together to participate in a Columbia City Scavenger Hunt when visiting Whitley County. No matter what your interests are Northeast Indiana has plenty of ways to say goodbye to summer, so don’t let these dog days pass you by! a
8/7/2024 Center for Healthy Living (Whitley) 1260 E. SR 205, Whitley
8/8/2024 Cardinal Family Medicine 225 Hauenstein Rd., Huntington
8/9/2024 Pontiac Farmers Market 918 Pontiac St,m Fort Wayne
8/12/2024 PPG Pierceton 5 Matchett Dr., Pierceton
8/14/2024 Senior Expo Dekalb 5634 Opportunity Blvd., Auburn
8/19/2024 PPG New Haven 1331 Minnich Rd., New Haven
8/20/2024 Woodland Plaza (CHL) 1234 E Dupont Rd., Fort Wayne
8/21/2024 PPG Ligonier 1464 Lincolnway S., Ligonier
8/30/2024 Farrington Apartments 4931 Farrington Dr., Fort Wayne
La Morenita
Country Heritage Winery
Surviving the Bustle of Back-to-School Season: A Guide for Women
1. Get Organized Early
By Amber Bouthot
As summer winds down, the anticipation of a new school year takes over. The backto-school season is both exciting and overwhelming, filled with the promise of new beginnings and the challenge of getting everyone ready for the transition. Whether you’re a student, a parent, or a teacher, here are some tips to help you survive and thrive during this busy time.
5. Meal Prep and Plan
Nutritious meals are essential for keeping energy levels high during busy school days. Take some time to plan and prepare meals in advance. Batch cooking and freezing meals can save time during the week. Prepare healthy snacks that are easy to grab on the go and involve your children in lunch packing to ensure they have foods they enjoy and will eat.
Preparation is key to minimizing stress. Start by creating a checklist of everything you need to do before school starts. This includes shopping for supplies, updating wardrobes, and scheduling any necessary appointments. The more organized you are, the smoother the transition will be.
2. Plan a Shopping Strategy
Back-to-school shopping can be chaotic, but with a plan, it doesn’t have to be. Begin with a thorough inventory of what you already have, so you don’t buy duplicates. Make a list of essentials and set a budget to avoid overspending.
3. Create a Family Calendar
If you’re juggling multiple schedules, a family calendar is a lifesaver. Use it to track school events, extracurricular activities, work commitments, and family time. Color-coding each family member’s activities can make it easier to see who needs to be where and when. Keeping everyone on the same page helps ensure nothing falls through the cracks.
4. Establish Routines
Routine is crucial for a smooth transition back to school. Start adjusting sleep schedules a week or two before school begins to help everyone get used to waking up earlier. Establish morning and evening routines that include time for breakfast, packing lunches, and setting out clothes the night before. Consistent routines reduce chaos and help everyone feel more prepared.
6. Create a Homework Station
Designate a quiet, well-lit area in your home as a homework station. Stock it with necessary supplies like pens, paper, and a computer. Having a dedicated space for studying can help children focus and establish a productive homework routine. Ensure this area is free from distractions to maximize efficiency.
7. Prioritize Self-Care
With all the focus on getting children ready for school, it’s easy to forget about your own needs. Make self-care a priority by setting aside time each day for activities that relax and rejuvenate you. Whether it’s a morning workout, a quiet moment with a book, or a relaxing bath, taking care of yourself will help you stay calm and energized.
8. Stay Flexible and Positive
Despite the best plans, things may not always go smoothly. Be prepared to adapt and stay positive when unexpected challenges arise. A flexible attitude will help you manage stress and model resilience for your children. Celebrate small successes and remind yourself that perfection is not the goal progress is.
Surviving the back-to-school season requires a blend of organization, flexibility, and self-care. By planning and maintaining a positive outlook, you can navigate this busy time with ease and grace. Embrace the opportunities for growth and new beginnings that the school year brings and remember to take care of yourself along the way. Here’s to a successful and stress-free start to the new school year! a
Soapstone
Back-to-School Bullies –
What Parents Need to Know
By Mary Jane Bogle
It doesn’t seem possible, but school will be back in session in just a few short weeks (or days for some districts). Most kids experience back-to-school jitters, wondering who will be in their classes, how they’ll navigate changing schedules, and whether they have what it takes to succeed in their classes.
One group of kids, however, faces an even deeper challenge: what to do about bullies. Unfortunately, bullying is an epidemic in our nation, and your child might be a target. Some studies suggest that up to half of America’s children will face a bully at some point during their school-aged years, so parents have good reason to be concerned.
Want to know how to help your child face a back-to-school bully? Here are five tips for navigating those encounters.
1 – Know the Warning Signs. Many kids who face a bully don’t feel comfortable discussing their experiences, even at home. The embarrassment and shame are just too painful to share. But if you notice a change in eating habits or a loss of appetite altogether, frequent headaches, loss of sleep or recurring nightmares, a drop in grades or general lack of interest in school, or even torn clothing or damaged books or backpacks, a bully may be to blame.
2 – Understand that Bullying Can Take Many Forms. When most of us picture a bully, we see a large, menacing figure on the playground, intimidating a smaller or weaker child. And while physical bullying
is still a concern, bullying can also take on a verbal or sexual nature, especially in the case of cyberbullying, where kids use social media or private chats to intimidate and harass another child. Cyberbullying can be especially harmful since the bully can hide behind a screen. And with more children getting full access to apps on their phones at an ever-earlier age, cyberbullying can become an all-invasive presence in your child’s life.
3 – Take Steps Now to Build SelfConfidence and Trust. Bullies tend to prey on someone they consider an easy target. Building up your child’s confidence now will go a long way in helping them sending a clear message that they won’t tolerate the bully’s behavior. Talk about bullying as a family and help your children understand what bullying looks like and what to do if they see it happening. Roleplay different scenarios and encourage them to tell you if any bullying occurs. Phrases such as “You can’t talk to me like that” or even just “Stop!” can go a long way in throwing the bully off balance.
4 – Take All Reports of Bullying Seriously. Never brush off your child’s concerns or explain away bad behavior as “just teasing.” Instead, do your best to stay calm and gain as much information about the incident as possible, including any witnesses. In the case of cyberbullying, take screen shots of posts or chats for reporting purposes. Reassure your child that you are there to help, and remember that maintaining an open line of communication with your child and the school is vital if you want to be a true advocate for your child.
5 – Know Your Rights. In 2023, Indiana passed House Bill 1483, which requires schools to report bullying incidents to parents of all children involved within five days of a reported incident, so be sure to document and report all incidents as soon as possible. If your child is the victim of bullying, this law makes provisions for schools to move children to another school corporation if necessary.
Hopefully, the school year won’t bring the kind of heartache and trauma that bullying can create. But if it does, you need to take every step necessary to protect, defend, and advocate for your child. a
Job change?
Whether retiring or changing jobs, you’ll want to know your retirement account options.
There are four potential options for your 401(k) when leaving an employer:
• Leave it in your former employer’s 401(k) plan, if allowed by the plan.
• Move it to your new employer’s 401(k) plan, if you’ve changed employers and your new employer plan allows for it.
• Roll the account over to an individual retirement account (IRA).
• Cash it out, which is subject to potential tax consequences.
Carrie
Lamb Financial Advisor
8528 Union Chapel Rd Fort Wayne, IN 46845 260-627-7104
We can talk through your financial goals and find the options that works best for you.
LOCAL Sh p
By Amber Bouthot
Are distant shores and exotic locales calling your name? Traveling is fun, but expensive, so for those on a budget, we present: The Backyard Staycation! Transforming your outdoor space into a personal paradise can offer all the relaxation and rejuvenation of a vacation, without the stress (and expense) of travel. Here’s how you can create the ultimate backyard staycation experience, blending luxury, comfort, and a touch of adventure.
1. Design Your Dream Space
Embrace the Ultimate Backyard Staycation Experience
First, envision your perfect outdoor oasis. Do you crave a serene retreat surrounded by nature or a vibrant social hub for family and friends? Start by evaluating your space and planning a layout that fits your needs. Incorporate comfortable seating, such as lounge chairs, hammocks, or even a cozy outdoor sofa. Add a touch of elegance with a stylish outdoor rug and decorative pillows that reflect your personal taste.
2. Create an Outdoor Dining Haven
No staycation is complete without delicious food and drink. Set up a dining area that invites long, leisurely meals under the sky. A sturdy table with ample seating, perhaps under the shade of a pergola or umbrella, sets the stage for memorable al fresco dining. String lights or lanterns can add a magical touch as the sun sets. Don’t forget a well-stocked bar cart or a nearby grill to cater to your culinary whims.
3. Incorporate Nature’s Elements
Reconnect with nature by integrating its elements into your backyard. Lush greenery, whether through potted plants, a small garden, or vertical plant walls, can transform your space into a verdant retreat. Water features, like a small fountain or pond, offer soothing sounds that enhance relaxation. For a whimsical touch, consider adding bird feeders or a butterfly garden to invite local wildlife into your sanctuary.
4. Entertainment and Activities
Keep the fun flowing with a variety of activities and entertainment options. Create an outdoor cinema with a projector and a blank wall
or a large screen. Gather some cozy blankets and popcorn for the perfect movie night under the stars. If you’re a book lover, set up a reading nook with a comfy chair and a selection of your favorite summer reads. For those who enjoy games, consider lawn games like bocce ball, croquet, or a simple DIY cornhole setup.
5. Personal Wellness Retreat
Turn your backyard into a wellness retreat with a few thoughtful additions. A yoga mat and some essential oils can create a serene space for meditation or morning stretches. If you have the room, consider a small hot tub or inflatable pool for cooling off on hot days. Outdoor speakers playing calming music can enhance the ambiance, making it easier to unwind and recharge.
6. Enhance Comfort and Ambiance
Comfort is key to a successful staycation. Provide plenty of shade with umbrellas, pergolas, or shade sails. On cooler evenings, a fire pit or outdoor heater can extend your time outside, offering warmth and a cozy atmosphere. Ambient lighting, from fairy lights to solar-powered lanterns, can create a magical environment after dark.
By transforming your outdoor space into a personal retreat, you can enjoy the best of summer without the hassle of travel. So, light the tiki torches, fill your glass with something refreshing, and let the vacation vibes wash over you. This summer, the perfect getaway is just a few steps away right in your own backyard. a
Fall Gardening
By Bethany Beebe
We often associate the end of summer with the end of our garden bounty. In many ways, though, Fall is a mirror of spring here in Indiana. The fresh-from-our-backyard vegetables that we coveted after a long winter can return as heat subsides. We can also look forward to next spring by planting bulbs that will offer color when spring returns.
Vegetables
The cooler weather and increased moisture of late summer and early autumn are beneficial to plants like spinach and lettuce. Producing great outcomes in the spring, the heat of summer can cause them to bolt, or produce seed. In fact, for vegetables like cauliflower, broccoli, and Brussels sprouts, fall is a more ideal time for taste and quality than spring; our spring weather tends to warm up fast and these plants prefer reaching maturity in cooler temperatures. Fewer insect problems also tend to present themselves during the fall garden season.
Choosing the faster-growing cultivars gives you some advantage. Because many stores and nurseries run out of seeds or do not sell common fall growers, it is beneficial to keep in mind your fall garden wishes when purchasing for the spring season. The gardener may also find it necessary to start his or her own transplants, as they are not often offered at garden centers.
Establishing when to plant and still beat frost is easy. Simply count backwards from the frost date for each of the plants you consider.
Purdue publication HO-66-W offers a listing of common plants that might succeed and a last-recommended date for their introduction to the garden.
With all the basics in mind for a garden’s success, one can turn attention to the creative side, making plant selections. From seeds, options like carrots, leaf lettuce, collards, Swiss chard, spinach, peas, beans, and turnips can make the list. From transplants, you might consider broccoli, onions, and cabbage, to name a few.
Bulbs
Beautiful spring flowers start with beautiful fall bulb purchases. Only firm, healthy bulbs should be selected, and they can be found anywhere from catalogs to local retail stores. Those large bulbs, free from disease or mold, go in the ground in the fall so they have time to establish a root system, but stop short of advancing their life cycle to above-ground growth, which happens with the warmth of spring. They need the chill of winter as part of their lifecycle. Selections like tulips, crocus, and daffodils are classic favorites; for even more options and background information, check out Purdue publication HO-86.
Late September to mid-October is ideal timing in most of Indiana to plant spring bloomers. Depending on the bulb, various types of soil are preferred, but all bulbs need adequate drainage. To improve soil quality, one might add more compost or peat moss. A soil test can determine exact garden needs. Bulbs should be planted at a depth approximately 2.5 to 3 times the bulb’s diameter at the bulb’s widest point. Bulbs that have been purchased generally come with specific planting directions and Extension’s HO-86 is a great resource for more information, as well.
No matter when the peak bounty is realized, the cooler days are ripe with potentially great garden outcomes! a
(1) HO-66-W. https://www.extension.purdue.edu/extmedia/HO/HO-66-W.pdf
(2) Lerner, R. Autumn Time to Plant Spring Flowering Bulbs. https://www.purdue.edu/hla/sites/yardandgarden/ autumn-time-to-plant-spring-flowering-bulbs/ (3 )HO-86-W. https://www.purdue.edu/hla/sites/yardandgarden/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2016/10/HO-86.pdf
HOME I am Danielle Andersen
By Cathy Shouse | Photo provided
Many people dream of moving to the country. Danielle Andersen and her husband, Morrison Agen, have followed through on that wish. Last year they bought a farm. Andersen describes the couple and their kids as a “big, beautiful, blended family, sort of a Fort Wayne Brady Bunch.”
Above: Danielle Andersen and Morrison Agen
Plus, they are enjoying the advantages of both the country and the city life. Their farm is located on a rural property that is likely as close to downtown Fort Wayne as one can get.
“We actually live only 200 feet outside of city limits on South Anthony, so even though our three acres feels like we are in the middle of nowhere, we are actually downtown in under 15 minutes,” Andersen said. “The sunsets behind our house and the sunrises from our front porch are breathtaking almost every single day.”
The couple bought the farm at auction and between them, they have six daughters and one son, ranging in age from 12 to 25 years old. The youngest live at home and the others are grown, with two daughters living in a small house located next door on their property. Andersen is recording the family’s escapades online in a Facebook group.
“We are neighbors, and it is truly a family ‘homestead,” she said. “Sunia Homestead & Farm is the name of the farm Facebook Page. We don’t really have much time to maintain it very well though.”
Andersen grew up in Fort Wayne in the Historic South Wayne Neighborhood and graduated from South Side High School. Agen is originally from Chesterton, Indiana, and had lived in Fort Wayne for decades when they met in his record store and married in what was then the Tiger Room of Calhoun Street Soup Salads and Spirits in December of 2016.
Since marrying, they’ve experienced city living in Southwood Park most recently. Prior to that, they owned a home in Wildwood Park for four years.
“We absolutely loved both neighborhoods,” Andersen said. “I loved the south side of Fort Wayne as a kid and love it still. I cannot say enough wonderful things about the schools located there.”
Agen was running a record store when they met and currently owns a record and vintage clothing store on Broadway in the old
Left: From left to right, Tegan Dostal and Zoe Dostal, with the soon-to-be latest addition to the farm, a cow named Manuka.
Wildwood Liquors building called Welcome Back Records. He’s also a contract sound engineer and builds and sells customizable media furniture to order. Andersen is the Connected Community Coordinator for the Fort Wayne Urban League. She’s also selfemployed at DNA Empowerment as a consciousness coach, astrologer, and yoga instructor.
Their property holds a special place in their hearts for many reasons. For one, they bought the small acreage, which is part of a large property, at auction and discovered something in common with the previous owners.
“They raised four daughters in this house and so we all think it’s pretty wonderful that we are raising so many daughters here now,” she said.
How has the move changed them? “The main impact has been our ability to really spread out,” she said. “To learn and practice managing the land in a way that is beneficial for pollinators and is healing to the soil, which are passions of ours. I would say the only thing we miss would be the ability to take walks and bike rides around the neighborhood.”
They pop into town and ride the trails sometimes.
In describing their life, she summed up, “We are busy!” a
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By Amber Bouthot
1–4 | Daily
Local Food Week 2024
Various locations throughout Northeast Indiana
The Northeast Indiana Local Food Network created Local Food Week in 2020 as a way for families and farmers to connect around the food they both love. Hundreds of families and local food enthusiasts participate each year. The 5th Annual Local Food Week features 40 tours and events hosted by farms, markets, artisan food producers and organizations, with 20 new Local Food Week hosts joining this local food celebration for the first time.
https://www.neifood.org/news/local-foodweek-2024
1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 | Thursdays
Leo-Cedarville Farmers Market
15011 State Road 1, Leo
Get ready for a feast for the senses: the freshest local produce, flowers and unique handcrafted items with a focus on local farmers and artisans.
Time: 4 PM – 7 PM
https://www.visitfortwayne.com/event/ leo-cedarville-farmers-market/42665/
1 & 8 | Thursdays
Lunch on the Square
Friemann Square, 200 E. Main St. Lunch on the Square, presented by Downtown Fort Wayne and Edward Jones, will return throughout the summer for the 16th season in Downtown Fort Wayne. Take a break from the office or bring the family down to enjoy lunch at Freimann Square every Thursday from 11:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. in June, July, and August, beginning June 6. Enjoy a variety of unique foods and experience live music during one of Fort Wayne’s favorite lunch and entertainment series.
Time: 11:30 AM – 1:30 PM
https://downtownfortwayne.com/lunch-onthe-square/
https://www.thegardenfortwayne.com/events
2–3 | Friday & Saturday
Fort Wayne Dragon Boat Races
Promenade Park, Fort Wayne Riverfront Fort Wayne and Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation invite you to the annual Fort Wayne Dragon Boat Races. Dragon Boat Racing originates from China and features 21-person teams paddling down the rivers towards victory as the drums beat out their frenzied rhythm. The colorful competition offers the thrilling spectacle of racing along the riverfront. Don’t miss the lighting of the floating fire pit and festivities on Friday evening!
https://bit.ly/48QMYeJ
2 & 9 | Fridays
Downtown Live!
TriCore Porch off Calhoun, 800 Block of Calhoun St.
Experience live music all summer with the return of the third annual summer concert series, Downtown Live!, presented by Downtown Fort Wayne. Downtown Live! will host free entertainment from local performers every Friday evening.
Time: 6 PM – 8 PM
https://downtownfortwayne.com/events/ dtfw-live/
3, 10, 17, 24 & 31
Saturdays
YLNI Farmers Market
1501 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne
The YLNI Farmers Market provides a fun outdoor shopping experience and connects the community with local vendors. Customers can find select produce, baked goods, crafts, jewelry, honey, and so much more!
Time: 9 AM – 1 PM
www.ylni.org/ylni-farmers-market
3, 10, 17, 24 & 31
Saturdays
Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market
Dynamo Alley, Electric Works, Fort Wayne
The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more!
Time: 9 AM – 1 PM ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/
4 | Sunday
Decatur Coin Show & Marketplace
Decatur Riverside Center, 231 East Monroe St.
Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182
Time: 8am – 2pm (year-round)
https://www.decaturfleamarket.com
7, 14, 21 & 28 | Wednesdays
Farmer’s Market at Salomon Farm Park
817 W. Dupont Rd.
Salomon Farmers’ Market is a mid-week market focused on connecting the local community to farmers, producers, bakers and artisans that are within a 75-mile radius of Salomon Farm Park. We are committed to a “grower’s market,” where the majority of products that our vendors offer are grown, raised, and/or developed by the person selling them.
Time: 4 PM – 7 PM
https://www.fortwayneparks.org/facilities/ saloman-farm-park/salomon-farmers-market. html
10 | Saturday
Bloom Fest: Local Arts & Nature
Riverside Gardens Park, Grabill
Featuring local original artists, various artisans, indoor/outdoor plant starts, children’s activities, food trucks, live music, and so much more.
Time: 10 AM – 2 PM
https://www.bloomfest.org/
10 | Saturday
Fiesta Fort Wayne
Headwaters Park Pavilion, Fort Wayne
Fiesta Fort Wayne is an Hispanic Heritage Celebration, featuring live Latino music performances ALL DAY! Plus, traditional folkloric dancing! Tacos, pupusas and more!
Tickets - $7 (prior to 5pm) and $10 (starting at 5pm). Children 10 and under are free.
For more information on how to participate in this year’s festival please call Fernando Zapari at 260-704-0682 or email at f.zapari@hotmail.com.
https://www.facebook.com/ events/390857653445248
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| Saturday
Taste
of the Arts
Arts Campus Fort Wayne, 300 E. Main St. The festival, presented by Arts United and title sponsor 3Rivers Credit Union, celebrates the rich diversity of arts and culture in Northeast Indiana through live performances, kids activities, visual art, and food from local restaurants. This year, the festival footprint will include Arts Campus Fort Wayne, The Landing, Rousseau Plaza, and Promenade Park.
Time: 11 AM – 1 PM
https://artsunited.org/taste/
