The New Tri-State Defender - February 16-22, 2023

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February 16 - 22, 2023

VOL. 72, No. 7

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COMMENTARY

Sunset Canopy anchors Tyre Nichols’ memory, family to a place he loved

by Karanja A. Ajanaku kajanaku@tsdmemphis.com

Sunsets captured by a photographer hint at the renewal inherent in sunrises and bring to mind the cycle of life of which both are points of reference. Circumstances so tragic and seared in minds worldwide have people embracing Memphis amateur photographer Tyre D. Nichols and pondering a question: “Where is the humanity?” There is no way for Nichols’ family to bypass waves of pain as they process his brutish beating by five now-former Memphis Police Department officers and the complicity of a still undetermined and/or

yet-not-publicly released number of others. His parents, RowVaughn Wells and Rodney Wells, through their public demeanor, are pillars of strength for untold numbers of people, who never met their son but feel the pain of what happened to him on January 7th and his death three days later. On Friday (Feb. 10th), they dug deep into their reservoir of courage, resolve, grace and dignity to welcome the naming of the civic canopy at Tom Lee Park along the Mississippi River in honor of their sunset-loving, 29-year-old. The Hyde Family Foundation, sponsor of the canopy, and specifically Barbara and Pitt Hyde, made it happen. Barbara Hyde, chair and CEO of the Hyde Foundation, addressed her remarks

While thanking the Hyde Foundation for naming the Sunset Canopy in Tom Lee Park in honor of her son, Tyre D. Nichols, RowVaughn Wells showed the courage and grace that have moved so many. (Photo: Karanja A. Ajanku/ The New Tri-State Defender) directly to the Wellses. “We recognize, Pitt and I, that we’ve never experienced the fear that Black parents must feel when their children leave their homes and they have to wonder will they return home safely. And we know, be-

yond a shadow of a doubt, that we cannot imagine the unspeakable pain of the loss of a son,” she said. “We also know we can stand with you,

SEE CANOPY ON PAGE 2

Expressions of Love

Gale Jones Carson and her partner of seven-plus years. (Courtesy photo)

Rose and Richard Flenorl (Courtesy photo)

Pastor Dianne and Bishop William Young (Courtesy photo)

Enjoying a ‘committed and loving relationship’ without the paper

Still making each other laugh 41 years later

The way we were: ‘You and me against the world’

by Dr. Sybil C. Mitchell

by Dr. Sybil C. Mitchell

Second marriages are less likely than first marriages to end in divorce, according to the Marriage Foundation. However, many “committed and loving” couples after the age of 50 are choosing not to marry. For Gale Jones Carson and her partner, opting out of a second marriage is simple. “We are enjoying life as a couple,” said Carson. “At this point in my life, I know I will never marry again. I already did it once. (He) and I travel, spend quality time together, and love things just the way they are. We don’t feel that adding a piece of paper would enhance what we already have.” Carson, vice president of Community & External Affairs for

Valentine’s Day for The Flenorls started with a post on Facebook, stating, in part: “Richard proposed to me on Valentine’s Day…so this day has even greater significance…I can still make him laugh after 41 years together!” The assertion that laughter has been a special ingredient in the 41 years of marriage drew a flood of “likes” and affirmed comments to Rose Flenorl’s “Happy Valentine’s Day” wish to husband, Richard. Rose’s account of their love story over the years is intriguing. Just the mention of Richard’s name, and Rose cannot speak for laughing. Meeting her future husband for the very first time still is hilarious to Rose, manager of Global Citizenship-Signature Programs at FedEx, after all these years. Rose had recently graduated from the University of Mis-

For Pastor Dianne Young, Valentine’s Day was a day of quiet joy, filled with memories of her life with Bishop William Young. “We were married 46 years, and what a wonderful life we enjoyed together,” said Young. William went on to be with the Lord on Oct. 9, 2022 … So, Tuesday (Feb. 14) was my first Valentine Day without my husband. But love lives on when a sweetheart is gone. And they live on through memories. It was a good day.” Bishop William and Dianne Young led The Healing Center in Oakhaven together for more than four decades. Dr. Young’s legacy is his tireless work in connecting “The Black Church” with mental illness and suicide in the African-American community.

SEE COMMITMENT ON PAGE 3

SEE LAUGHTER ON PAGE 3

SEE MEMORIES ON PAGE 3

by Dr. Sybil C. Mitchell

Special to The New Tri-State Defender

Special to The New Tri-State Defender

Special to The New Tri-State Defender

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