W h a t a r e b o u n d a r i e s ?

Boundaries are a way of setting limits and establishing expectations in relationships. They are important for helping individuals establish healthy relationships and protect their mental, physical and emotional wellbeing. Boundaries can be physical, emotional, or both. They can be set with friends, family, coworkers, and romantic partners. It’s important to be direct and clear when setting boundaries. It’s also important to listen to the boundaries of others and respect them. It’s also important to be mindful of not only your own boundaries but those of the other person and not to cross them.

Enforcing boundaries can be done in a variety of ways. It’s important to be firm and consistent when communicating boundaries and to not be afraid to say no. It’s also important to be assertive and to use nonverbal cues such as body language to make it clear that the boundaries are not to be crossed. Additionally, if someone does cross a boundary, it’s important to be direct and clear in communicating that the behavior is not acceptable and to not be afraid to set consequences for the person who crossed the boundary.

This is why people in the feminine world tell you it's ok and imperative that you have both masculine and feminine energy, just more of the feminine obviously. Setting clear boundaries doesn't mean announcing them to world, it just means not to let anyone disrespect them, downplay it or continuously cross them when you clearly set them and verbalized a situation that you don't like or is making you uncomfortable. This can still be done without blowing up, getting physical or worse. But, if not than sis, do not be afraid to defend yourself! Boundaries can range from being touched, called after a certain hour, wearing your clothing (sisters understand this all to well), trying to make you go somewhere or do something you already said no to, etc. These are crossing your boundaries and it should be addressed. It's ok to cut people out of your life who do not respect you or these lines. Loving others from a distant saves you a lot of stress and heart break.

EVERY MOMENT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE.