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THE IRONMAN St. James Academy teacher races for education STORY BY OLIVIA MARTIN | PHOTOS BY JAY SOLDNER

Tyler Supalla runs through the water at the beach area of Lake Olathe. Supalla often swims laps from shore to shore in the lake, hours before school starts, preparing for the 2.4-mile open-water swim stage of the Ironman race.

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ENEXA — According to friends, family and various health care professionals, Tyler Supalla is either crazy, a cyborg or both.

On Oct. 14, Supalla, a Western civilization and Latin teacher at St. James Academy in Lenexa, will travel to Louisville, Kentucky, where he will participate in his first full Ironman race.

The race warrants every bit of its name.

To become an Ironman himself, Supalla will swim 2.4 miles, cycle 112 miles and top it all off with a marathon — a 26.2-mile run.

A cyborg, or not, there’s no doubt a lot of heart behind this ironman’s effort.

Supalla is using his training and race as an opportunity for prayer and to fundraise $10,000 — the cost of one year’s tuition at St. James Academy — for the first-ever St. John Bosco Memorial Scholarship in the hope of enabling students to attend the school he loves.

Human: 1, Cyborg: 0 St. James Academy president Andy Tylicki was both surprised — and not surprised — when Supalla came to him with the idea. >> See “RACE” on page 4

HELPING PRIESTS

Father Francis Hund’s new ministry has him lending an ear to his fellow priests.

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Tyler Supalla trains in the hills on 91st Street just northwest of St. James Academy in Lenexa. The bike portion of the Ironman consists of a 112-mile bicycle ride.

INSTALLATION

Father Jaime Zarse is installed as the youngest pastor in the archdiocese.

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KEELER CENTER

Keeler Women’s Center helps women succeed in all walks of life.

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ARCHBISHOP

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Court turmoil fueled by fear of overturn of Roe

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aving worked in the church’s pro-life apostolate for many years of my priesthood, I am not at all surprised that the confirmation process for Supreme Court nominee Judge Brett Kavanaugh has turned quite ugly.

As I write this on Monday, it is too early to tell whether there will even be a hearing later this week of the allegations brought forward by Dr. Christine Blassey Ford — much less, what it will reveal.

Whatever the results of the hearing and the fate of the Kavanaugh nomination, the bitter divisions in our nation will continue to rear themselves with each successive nomination to our highest court.

Abortion advocates, who used the court to impose abortion on the nation, fear a court that might return to state Legislatures the authority to determine public policy regarding abortion.

Proponents of abortion are fueled, therefore, by a fear that the Supreme Court might, by overturning Roe, permit state Legislatures to limit or even ban abortion.

Of course, there is no “right to abortion” in our Constitution. The Roe v.

Wade and Doe v. Bolton 1973 Supreme Court decisions were exercises in judicial activism and

LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN creative writing.

Both plaintiffs in these cases, Norma McCorvey and Sandra Cano, regretted very much that they were used by abortion activists to legalize abortion.

According to the diatribes of the pro-abortion advocates, the inability to authorize the killing of one’s child before birth will be taking the United States back into the Dark Ages. Of course, those supporting abortion — and in many cases, profiting from its legalization — posture themselves as protecting women.

Recently, I spoke at the McHenry County (Illinois) Catholic prayer breakfast. The program also featured Yvonne Florczak-Seeman, the founder of “Love From Above, Inc.” Yvonne shared that she had five abortions, the first at the

age of 16. In the midst of her fifth abortion at a Planned Parenthood clinic, the doctor stopped in the middle of the procedure to demand an additional $150 because of the gestational age of the unborn child.

Once her boyfriend, the father of the child, paid the $150, the abortion was completed.

Three days later, Yvonne wound up in a hospital emergency room because of an infection caused by half of the remains of her baby still in her uterus. The experience of her fifth abortion awakened Yvonne to the tragedy of every abortion.

Fortunately, Yvonne eventually reached out to Project Rachel post-abortion ministry, where she experienced God’s mercy and healing. Yvonne speaks to raise awareness that abortion not only destroys the life of a child, but also profoundly scars and wounds women. Yvonne seeks to connect other post-abor-

tive women with Project Rachel, as well as other post-abortion healing services.

For women experiencing an untimely or difficult pregnancy, there is an amazing network of abortion alternative services that stand ready to support and help you to choose life. For those who have had an abortion and now deeply regret it, Project Rachel ministry is eager to help you find healing.

Being a responsible man is not paying for the abortion of your child. Men are called to be protectors of women and children. Real men do not place the women they love in a position where they might contemplate an abortion.

For Catholics in the United States, October is Respect Life Month. We need to pray especially during this time that our nation will again allow our laws both to protect the lives of innocent unborn children, as well as mothers and fathers, from suffering the physical, emotional and spiritual wounds that inevitably result from abortion.

A culture that sanctions the killing of innocent children is barbaric — not enlightened. During this month of October, pray for our nation, for a renewed respect for the sanctity of each and every human life — no matter the

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Oct. 7 Holy Hour for healing — Queen of the Holy Rosary, Overland Park

Sept. 28 Donnelly College SHINE — Sheraton Crown Center, Kansas City, Missouri

Project Andrew — Mater Dei, Topeka

Sept. 29 Fellowship of Catholic Scholars — Benedictine College, Atchison Sept. 30 Installation of Father Scott Wallisch and 150th anniversary celebration — St. Joseph, Shawnee Commemoration celebration Mass — Sacred Heart Church, Atchison Oct. 1-2 USCCB Communications Committee meeting Oct. 3 Mass — Maur HillMount Academy, Atchison Curia meeting Confirmation — St. Joseph, Nortonville; Immaculate Conception, Valley Falls; and Corpus Christi, Mooney Creek Oct. 4 Religious Alliance Against Pornography conference call

Holy Hour for healing — Most Pure Heart of Mary, Topeka Oct. 8-9 Jesus Caritas — Wichita Oct. 10 Lawrence regional priests meeting — St. John the Evangelist, Lawrence Annual school boards formation Mass, dinner and program — Savior Pastoral Center Oct. 11 Catholic Bar Association Episcopal Advisory Committee conference call Confirmation — St. Aloysius, Meriden, and St. Theresa, Perry Oct. 12-13 Conception board meeting

Archbishop Keleher Sept. 30 Mass — Cork, Ireland

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BROTHER TO THE OTHERS

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Father Jonathan Dizon, pastor of St. Dominic Parish in Holton and St. Francis Xavier Parish in Mayetta since July, shares with Father Francis Hund some experiences from his first couple of months as the new pastor of two parishes.

Father Hund begins ministry to fellow priests

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Sometimes, you just need someone to talk to, someone who understands and relates.

But what if you’re the only priest in town?

“We’re people, too,” said Father Jonathon Dizon, pastor of St. Dominic Parish in Holton and St. Francis Xavier Parish in Mayetta. “We could use the presence of another person who understands what we’re experiencing.

“If I share my problems with my parishioners, they’d never understand what I’m going through. But another priest would.”

That’s where Father Francis Hund comes in.

His new assignment? He’s the archdiocesan minister to priests.

In other words, he’ll take care of the people who take care of all of us.

Father Hund’s new assignment was the result of a series of lunches Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann held with archdiocesan priests last year.

At these, said Father Hund, “[the archbishop] heard the need expressed by the priests to have someone who would reach out to them and listen to them. So, earlier this spring

the archbishop asked me to serve in that ministry.”

Father Hund will reside at Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe, where he will also help out.

“We wanted to have a priest dedicated specifically to minister to the priests of the archdiocese to make sure that they are healthy and their needs are being met,” said Father Brian Schieber, archdiocesan vicar for clergy.

Those needs will vary, depending on the priest and his particular situation.

Father Hund’s ministry could range from giving advice to a new pastor, to aid in retirement planning for an older priest.

It doesn’t require a problem or crisis for a visit from Father Hund. He’s just a brother seeing how his brothers are doing.

Sometimes, all they need to know is that someone is listening to their concerns.

“A big part of being the minister to priests is listening,” said Father Schieber. “We see Father Francis as someone who is very approachable and who listens well.”

Moreover, said Father Schieber, he holds the esteem of the clergy and is found very relatable.

“He is a senior priest with a lot of pastoral experience who brings much to the position,” he said. “The archbishop noted President

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that [Father Hund] is someone they can easily approach for the sacrament of reconciliation. He’s a very gentle shepherd.”

Father Hund will have visited 24 priests by the end of September. Usually his visits take an hour — longer if the priest wants more time. That fraternity and friendship can mean a lot.

A big part of this is the ministry of presence.

“I think [the minister to priests] is to make sure the archdiocese is taking care of the well-being of priests and make sure their concerns are being heard,” said Father Dizon. “Sometimes, they just need to be encouraged.

“Especially in the rural parishes, the closest other priest can be miles away,” he said. “Sometimes, it can be months before a priest out there can see another priest. If there is no meeting, there is no reason for them to leave their domain.”

It isn’t just distance that can isolate a priest; sometimes, it’s the job itself.

“We tend to be pretty independent, so we’re not going to necessarily call for an appointment unless there’s something really urgent,” said Father Nick Blaha, pastor of St. Catherine Parish in Emporia and director and chaplain of the Didde Catholic Campus Center at Emporia State University.

“That can mean we get a little distant from the official channels.”

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Father Hund’s role is to serve as that person to whom priests can speak frankly, and to offer them whatever assistance and resources will help them flourish as priests and as pastors, said Father Blaha.

Father Nathan Haverland, pastor of St. Gregory Parish in Marysville, found his visit with Father Hund to be very enjoyable.

“It’s always nice for brother priests to spend time together,” he said.

He expects that, as time goes on, the role of minister to priests will evolve, according to the needs of the priests.

“I think the archbishop hopes that this minister to priests will be able to connect us to different resources, maybe some sharing of ideas and what’s going on in ministry,” said Father Haverland.

As he is enriching the lives of his brother priests, Father Hund is finding that his, too, has been enriched.

“I have to say, I never imagined this ministry in this life,” he said. “After the first couple of months I realized . . . that not only do I have the opportunity to visit all around the archdiocese, but how blessed I am to spend time with my brother priests.

“I hope it’s an encouragement and blessing for them as well.”

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Race ‘no longer just about me’

no longer just about me, but about someone else.”

The experience of community is central to Supalla’s Ironman and has revealed deeper truths.

“People are really there to celebrate the chance to run and to cheer each other on,” he said, “[But] at the same time, you cannot run for somebody else. If somebody is struggling, you literally cannot do the running for them — but you can cheer them on and be there to support them no matter what.

“I see that in my profession as a teacher, [and] I’ve found the Christian life to be very analogous to the race.”

>> Continued from page 1 “For [Supalla] to go to the effort of training for an Ironman and thinking it’s something that could benefit our students is who he is,” said Tylicki.

Currently, 37 percent of St. James Academy students receive a form of financial aid, which is made possible through donations and memorial funds.

“Our hope is that we don’t lose kids because of finances,” said Tylicki, “but we know we do. We hope this will help students and encourage parents to come and talk to us.”

Audrey Hihn, a teacher at St. Michael the Archangel in Lee’s Summit, Missouri, graduated from St. James Academy in 2011 and attended the school thanks to financial aid.

“I grew up in a single-parent home and my mom worked very hard,” said Hihn. “I would not have been able to go to St. James if it weren’t for people who put aside money specifically for scholarships.”

As a former St. James Academy teacher herself, Hihn has experienced every facet of the school’s support for its students within its community. She sees Supalla’s scholarship initiative as a natural gesture of that community.

“Especially in today’s climate, students need community and support,” she said. “St. James [gives] that.”

A saint for students

How it started An avid basketball player, Supalla hadn’t intentionally run more than two consecutive miles until his sophomore year at Benedictine College in Atchison.

Desiring a more serious exercise regimen than intramural sports, Supalla started running, completing his first half-Ironman in fall 2014, and his second in June 2018, by which point he was teaching at St. James.

Realizing he was already halfway to completing a full Ironman in terms of training, Supalla decided to go all in.

“A lot of people discouraged the idea,” he said, “but my students were totally on board!”

Tyler Supalla trains for an Ironman triathlon. An Ironman is a series of long-distance races consisting of a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bicycle ride and a marathon (26.22-mile) run, raced in that order and without a break. Ironman Louisville will take place on Oct. 14.

Their enthusiasm made Supalla begin to see the Ironman as a teaching moment.

In addition to fundraising, Supalla

began asking for prayer intentions.

“There is a spiritual reality I find in racing and running,” said Supalla, “and the prayer intentions make the training

Archbishop to lead Holy Hours for church healing

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — At all times — but especially in times of crisis — Catholics the world over have taken to their knees in prayer to God, and have implored Our Lady’s intercession.

In response to the crisis of sexual abuse in the church, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann has invited Catholics to participate in one of two Holy Hours and rosaries for church healing and guidance on Oct. 7.

The Holy Hours, led by Archbishop Naumann, are offered for the healing of all affected by sexual abuse in the church, as well as for wisdom and guidance for the church’s leaders in response to the sexual abuse crisis.

The first Holy Hour will be held 2 p.m. at Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, located at 7023 W. 71st St. in Overland Park. The second will be at 7 p.m. at Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish, located at 3601 S.W. 17th St., Topeka.

These liturgies will include exposition of the Blessed Sacrament, a rosary and a brief catechetical talk about Mary as the mother of the church by Mike Scherschligt, CEO and president of the Holy Family School of Faith.

All those who have suffered abuse and all who wish to join in prayer for the purification and healing of the church are encouraged to attend.

October 7 is a date rich in meaning, said Father Bill Bruning, pastor of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish.

“That’s the feast of Our Lady of the Rosary,” he said. “It was established after the Battle of Lepanto.”

On Oct. 7, 1571, an outnumbered Christian naval fleet fought a massive Ottoman fleet that threated Europe with Islamic conquest and persecution.

The victory won that day by the Christians was attributed to the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary through the rosary.

In gratitude, Pope Pius V instituted the feast of Our Lady of Victory on the date of the victory. Later, it was changed to the feast of Our Lady of the Rosary.

With that same hope for assistance, these Holy Hours for church healing and guidance are being held on the feast day and at two Marian parishes.

“Mary is the mother of the church and our mother,” said Scherschligt.

“When children are hurting, they run to their mother, because many things only a mother can solve. I think we’re at a place in the church and the world where it’s only the triumph of the Immaculate Heart of Mary that can sort out and make things right.

“Our Lady, for 101 years since [the apparitions] at Fatima, has been asking to help bring about her triumph by prayer and penance. And this event is an invitation by Our Mother to help her. So, she’s calling all her children to her side to effect change — and we can effect change if we’ll do what she’s asking.”

For those who cannot attend either Holy Hour, Archbishop Naumann has asked that Catholics pray a rosary on Oct. 7 for the healing of victims of abuse and for renewal within the church.

In childhood, Supalla’s mother would read him stories about St. John Bosco. A priest in Turin, Italy, in the 19th century, St. John Bosco devoted his life to helping poor young boys of his city.

“He gave them the chance at a good education and a home with love and support,” said Supalla. “He wanted them to have a future in this life and in heaven.

“That had a big impact on me.”

That devotion to the saint has continued throughout Supalla’s life, as he chose St. John Bosco as his confirmation saint and now shares his profession as a teacher.

The training has also been a lesson for Supalla in the truth of prayer and Christ’s ongoing presence.

“I’m missing out on so much of my life if I think that good moments are only those when life is blissful,” he said.

“In the Ironman,” he continued, “I’ve learned that even my training and suffering can be an encounter with beauty because it can be a moment to relate more to another person who is suffering or offer up my own life for them in a way.

“It’s a big gift to be able to offer up my suffering.”

For more information, go online to: www.sjakeeping faith.org /announce ments/ironman.

Priest held hostage

by ISIS to visit SHAWNEE — When ISIS terrorists stormed a care home in the city of Aden in Yemen, they killed 16 people and took one hostage: Salesian priest Father Tom Uzhunnalil.

Father Tom, a native of India, will concelebrate the 6 p.m.

Mass on Oct. 2 at Good Shepherd Parish, located at 12800 W. 75th St., Shawnee.

After the Mass, Father Tom will talk about the attack in 2016 that killed 16 people, including four Missionaries of Charity, and how he endured 412 days of captivity.

The talk in the church will begin at approximately 6:45 p.m.

There will be a light dinner at 7:15 p.m., so please RSVP by email to: tektony@gmail.com, or by calling or texting Anthony Puthoor at (913) 568-4041. A freewill offering will be collected for Father Tom’s missionary work. Write checks to: “Don Bosco Missions Bangalore California.”

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Archbishop installs archdiocese’s youngest pastor

By Marc and Julie Anderson mjanderson@theleaven.org

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ABETHA — It’s the culmination of his entire life up until now.

Or, at least that’s how Father Jaime Zarse, the archdiocese’s youngest pastor, described his installation on Sept. 9 after the 10:30 a.m.

Mass at Sacred Heart Church in Sabetha. During the Mass, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann installed him as pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Sabetha, St. Augustine Parish in Fidelity and St. James Parish in Wetmore. A luncheon followed in the parish hall.

Calling the day one of “absolute joy,” Father Zarse said that, although he was nervous about the actual installation itself, he believes his entire life’s experience, particularly the years he spent in priestly formation, has led him to the opportunity to serve as spiritual father for the 220 families entrusted to his care.

Prior to being named pastor of the three parishes, Father Zarse served as associate pastor at Christ the King Church in Topeka and the chaplain of Hayden High School. He also served as a chaplain at a prison for women.

The archbishop formally installs every new pastor he names. The installation occurs weeks or months after the newly assigned priest has undertaken his new pastoral duties. But the visit gives the archbishop the opportunity to officially introduce the priest to the people.

The rite also includes a public profession of faith by the new pastor, in which he pledges to willingly serve the people of God within the context of his parish assignment.

“It’s also a time,” said the archbishop, “for me to hold up the importance of the priesthood in the life of the church and our need for priests, our need for vocations to the priesthood, our need for everyone in the church to support and encourage vocations to the priesthood.”

Referring to the current negative publicity about some priests, the archbishop

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Father Jaime Zarse — pastor of the parishes of Sacred Heart in Sabetha, St. Augustine Parish in Fidelity and St. James Parish in Wetmore — stands before parish representatives during the 10:30 a.m. Mass when Archbishop Joseph Naumann formally installed him as pastor. From left are: Evelyn Lierz, Ryan Wells, Matt Heiman, Scott Krebs, Kevin Broxterman, Dennis Osterhaus, Lori Lackey, Michaela Schultejans and Tim Schultejans. said it has been his experience “with our priests here in the archdiocese that they’re dedicated and committed to the best of their abilities to serve the Lord.”

This year, the archbishop said, the archdiocese has 35 seminarians in various stages of formation. Additionally, he looks forward to spring 2019 when, hopefully, he will ordain another six men to the priesthood.

Elsewhere, Archbishop Naumann discussed the Sunday readings, inviting those gathered to consider what it would be like to be completely deaf just as the man in Gospel.

The man’s friends, he said, brought

him to Jesus because they thought Jesus could do something for him.

“Jesus responds with compassion,” he said, taking the man off by himself for intense prayer.

“We’re told that immediately, the man’s ears opened and he could hear,” he added.

“On one level,” the archbishop continued, “this reading challenges us to have a greater compassion or concern for those who are physically deaf.”

But it also serves to remind us, he said, of the rite of baptism, in which the priest touches the ears and mouth of a newly baptized person as he prays the person will hear God’s word and be willing to

proclaim it.

“This ritual reminds us that Jesus came to heal all of humanity from a spiritual deafness,” he said. “Jesus came so that we might hear and understand the great love that God has been attempting to communicate to us for centuries.”

“As we pray today,” concluded Archbishop Naumann, “we pray in a very special way for Father Zarse as he begins his ministry here — that the Lord will anoint him and help him to be a good shepherd for God’s people, a good spiritual father who’s willing to do anything, to make any sacrifice, for the spiritual welfare of those entrusted to his care.”

Afghans for hospice patients are a labor of love

By Carol Cowdrey Special to The Leaven

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VERLAND PARK — Jane Godar Kreiter, a parishioner at Church of the Ascension here, learned to knit when she was 16 years old.

She taught herself to crochet when she was in her 20s, making afghans for family and friends.

She never imagined, however, that her hobby would become a meaningful gift for those at the end of life.

Twelve years ago, Godar Kreiter’s parents moved to the Veterans Affairs nursing home in Marshalltown, Iowa.

Her mom noticed the loneliness of those around her.

“She asked if I would make lap afghans that she could pass out to those who she felt needed their day brightened by a little act of kindness,” she said.

After her parents died, Godar Kreiter continued to make afghans for the VA hospital until she moved to Overland Park. Years later, she attended an informational senior fair and stopped by the Catholic Community Hospice booth.

After asking if they had any use for lap afghans, she was put in touch with the organization’s director of volunteer recruitment and training, Bonnie Krause.

Since then, she’s made more than 200 lap afghans for hospice patients. The

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Jane Godar Kreiter, a member of Church of the Ascension in Overland Park, has made more than 200 lap afghans for hospice patients. afghans are just the right size — wide enough across the middle to cover those sitting in a chair, and long enough to reach from mid-chest to feet.

Anytime Godar Kreiter is running short on yarn, Krause provides her bags of yarn donated to TurnStyles thrift stores.

“It’s a labor of love,” said Godar Kreiter. “Sometimes, I’ll start out with a color

in mind and then I’ll change it. Later, I’ll hear that the one I chose turned out to be a particular hospice patient’s favorite color.

“That’s what I call divine intervention.”

Godar Kreiter prays as she crochets each afghan.

“I think about the patient and their family, and I say prayers for them,” she

said. “I hope the afghan brings them comfort and that they enjoy it as much as I did making it.”

Godar Kreiter spends about 30 hours on average making an afghan a week.

Her husband, Mike Kreiter, who volunteers at one of Catholic Charities’ food pantries, delivers a handmade afghan to Catholic Community Hospice every Monday.

Volunteers Barb Riley and Sherman Zimmerman enjoy giving them out to hospice patients.

“It gives our patients comfort knowing that we thought of them to give them an unexpected gift,” said Riley. “When they receive it, they are elated and can get quite emotional about it.”

The hospice patients aren’t the only ones who appreciate the afghans. Family members cherish them as keepsakes following the death of their loved ones.

Godar Kreiter plans to continue making lap afghans for Catholic Community Hospice as long as her hands — and the yarn supply — last. But she is only one of the many volunteers who donate their time and talents to Catholic Community Hospice.

“We are blessed to have such generous volunteers from our parishes who use their God-given gifts to support our hospice ministry,” said Krause.

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FAMILY LIFE

Social media, the family and the desire for connection Preteens and social media You have an excitable toddler at a family restaurant and, not wanting to be the center of attention, you dial up YouTube nursery rhymes and place it into your child’s hands. Isn’t it amazing how quiet and engrossed they become? Screen time is OK for a break.

• Limit the time; set the timer on your phone.

• Take time to watch the nursery rhymes and sing the songs together.

• For real relationship-building, try video-calling grandparents or other family members.

SOURCE: PARVEN KAUR, KIDS N CLICKS

Teens and social media “Eighty-nine percent of teens have their own smartphones (compared with 41 percent in 2012).” Positives and negatives: • They do research papers on Google classroom.

• They find emotional support on teen forums, share poetry.

• They are more likely to text “I love you” before they’d ever say it to your face.

• Teens admit these digital distractions can interfere with homework, personal relationships and sleep.

• Thirty-three percent of teens say they wish their parents would spend less time on their devices, up from 21 percent in 2012.

SOURCE: “SOCIAL MEDIA, SOCIAL LIFE,” RIDEOUT, V., AND ROBB, M. B. (2018) COMMONSENSEMEDIA.ORG

TOOLS FOR FAMILIES

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Growing as Disciples of Jesus

Parents and social media Social media is here to stay. Good and bad, it touches all aspects of family life. We can be overwhelmed as with a tsunami or regulate its presence in our lives.

What makes social media so attractive is it allows us to connect with others. This desire for relationship is placed in our hearts by God. • How much time in a given day or week do I (we) spend on the smart devices? (Take an inventory — you might be surprised) • How much time each day do I (we) spend being present to my spouse and children?

• How much time do I (we) give to prayer each day?

Create a “family plan”: • Turn off and put away all devices in a basket until the end of mealtimes.

• Turn off and put away all devices during homework time.

• Permit no sources of social media in the bedrooms.

• Set a “lights-out” time for all social media to allow for proper sleep.

• Set a time for daily family prayer.

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LOCAL NEWS Bob and Barbara (Guza) DeBaere, members of Christ the King Parish, Topeka, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 28.

The couple was married on Sept.

28, 1968, at St. Edward Church in Minneota, Minnesota. They celebrated with family and friends this summer in Spicer, Minnesota, followed by a family vacation. Their children are: Pam McCartney, Sandy Allen, Robb DeBaere, Krista Plato, Lori Miller and Brandon DeBaere. They also have 18 grandchildren.

Melissa (Uhlenhop) and Ray Stolhand, members of CurĂŠ of Ars Parish, Leawood, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with their family at the JW Marriott San Antonio Hill Country Resort.

They also took a trip to the coastal gardens of Maine. The couple was married on Sept. 7, 1968, at St. Mary Church, Ponca City, Oklahoma. Their children are: Greg Stolhand, Geneva, Illinois; and Julie Homsey, Overland Park. They also have seven grandchildren.

Don and Pat Hanrahan, members of Mater Dei Parish, Topeka, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 14.

The couple was married on Sept.

14, 1968, at Assumption Church

by Father Ron Cornish.

They will celebrate their anniversary with a reception and dance with friends and family. Their children are: Shawna Meyer and Bryna Hanrahan. They also have four grandchildren.

Roslyn (Leach) and Robert Billquist, members of St. Paul Parish, Olathe, celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on Sept. 27. The couple was married at Holy Name Church, Topeka, on Sept. 27, 1958.

They will celebrate with a family dinner.

Their children are: Michael Billquist, Patrick Billquist, Pamela Robbins and Mark Billquist. They also have 16 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren.

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Martha (Lonergan) and Jim Allen, members of Sacred Heart-St. Casimir Parish, Leavenworth, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with a trip to Ireland.

They will also celebrate on Oct. 13 with family and friends. The couple was married on Oct. 5, 1968, at Immaculate Conception Church, Leavenworth. Their children are: Lon Allen, Dallas; and Meredith Thompson, Castle Rock, Colorado. They also have a granddaughter.

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Keeler Women’s Center: Where women go to help each other Sory and photos by JILL RAGAR ESFELD

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A N S A S CITY, Kan. — One hundred and eighty.

That’s the number of volunteers helping women learn, improve, engage and become empowered through the Keeler Women’s Center here.

A ministry of the Benedictine Sisters of Atchison, the center relies on volunteers to provide a wide array of classes, services and support.

“We have the best volunteers in Kansas City,” said director Sister Bridget Dickason. “They are the hands and feet of Christ to others.”

The center is considered a hidden jewel of Wyandotte County, but its services extend far beyond the neighborhood.

“Keeler Women’s Center is for all women in every walk of life,” said Sister Bridget. “We all need to be empowered or have the ability to empower.

“And it all gets done together here.”

Welcome!

The classes available at the center are as eclectic as the people you’ll find roaming its welcoming halls.

“The nice thing about Keeler is that there are so many partners we work with,” said Pat Callaghan, who joined the board 15 years ago when the center was first established.

A member of St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, and a Master Food Volunteer for Kansas State University, Callahan teaches a nutrition class at the center and facilitates the writer’s group.

“I just love being here,” she said. “It’s a haven – once you walk off that elevator, it’s like peace.”

She’s not alone.

“It’s a reflection of the Benedictines and their care for people,” said volunteer Alice Munninghoff, a member of St. Thomas More Parish in Kansas City, Missouri.

Munninghoff knows the Benedictine charism of hospi-

Join in the fun On Nov. 19, Keeler Women’s Center will be celebrating 15 years of empowering women in the Kansas City area. Check its Facebook page for more information about the event at: www.facebook. com/Keeler-Womens-Center.

Or check out the calendar for upcoming classes and other activities.

To donate or volunteer, contact Sister Bridget Dickason, director, at (913) 906-8990 or by email at: kwc@mountosb.org.

Visit the center to get a better understanding of the ministry and its needs, as well as to share your interests and skills.

tality well; her own sister is a member of the order.

“It’s the love, that comes from the mission that I think permeates the whole operation,” she said. “And this is a very mission-driven organization.”

In 2012, Munninghoff retired from 32 years in Catholic education at Notre Dame de Sion High School for Girls in Kansas City, Missouri — 22 of those years as its president.

Now she volunteers in the center’s office one afternoon each week.

Here she finds everything she loved about her former position, minus the stress.

“It’s a great change,” she said.

“But it still involves the things I really liked about my job — seeing people grow and seeing people being served well.”

Fellow volunteer Debbie Carmody is a product of Benedictine education through high school.

A parishioner at St. Joseph, Shawnee, Carmody worked in religious education programming for Good Shepherd Parish, Shawnee, for 28 years.

Now she embraces the Benedictine way of hospitality by helping make the Keeler Women’s Center a friendly environment.

In addition to answering the phone, Carmody makes sure the hospitality table is well stocked and ready to welcome visitors.

“I enjoy seeing how people from so many different cultures navigate through all of the

things offered here at Catholic Charities and Keeler,” she said.

“I get to go on little vacations around the world just by visiting with people.”

Carmody knows the minute a visitor steps off the elevator that whether she’s a business executive, a Myanmar refugee or a young woman recently released from prison, she’s part of the community here.

Comfort and support Counseling is one of the key components of support at the center.

This school year, Gabe Rickard is in the process of learning about the individual and group counseling available here.

Keeler Center is her practicum placement as she works on her master’s in social work through the University of Kansas.

“The counseling they provide here is so needed,” she said. “And it seems like they do a good job of resourcing professionals from outside.

“I’m meeting a lot of people from different agencies that are coming here to teach classes.”

She is most impressed by the considerate treatment of clients.

“I was a case manager in Chicago and this is not how it was there,” she said. “No hospitality.

“To give dignity to people who are walking in here, it’s very respectful. It’s a wonderful asset to the community.”

That’s what drew Jackie Tiggs to volunteer her time at the center.

A member of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park, Tiggs is a retired professional counselor licensed in both Kansas and Missouri.

She has been offering her services free of charge at the center for four years now.

“It’s part of what I’m called to do,” she said. “It’s a skill I have, and I not only want to share it, I need to share it.

Tiggs sees anywhere from eight to twelve clients a week and runs a support group for caregivers.

“It is extremely important,” she said of the service she provides. “Sometimes, people are asked to get reports when working with the courts and those

Cristo Rey student Alondra Estrada finds being bilingual is helpful in her work at Kee

During her practicum placement at Keeler Women’s Center, Gabe Rickard, left, helps director Sister Bridget Dickason with organizing individual and group counseling. are very expensive — they can’t afford it.

“Many times, there are marital issues, there’s depression, there’s anxiety, there’s work stress, parenting issues.

“These people don’t know where to go.”

A safe place One of the center’s greatest assets is being able to partner with outside agencies.

Sinead McDonough, an advocacy and outreach specialist with the Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault (MOCSA), has a support group for Spanish-speaking survivors of sexual assault at the center.

A member of St. Thomas More Parish, McDonough appreciates the safe, calm environment that welcomes her group members each week.

“If they didn’t feel safe coming forward to a group and disclosing a sexual assault,” she said, “they wouldn’t come to my group.

“And I’ve found the women are just incredible. They’re very supportive of each other. And they feel very safe. I’m very thankful.”

Alondra Estrada, a student of Cristo Rey High School in Kansas City, Missouri, has felt that support as she has just begun a work study job one day a week at Keeler Women’s Center.

“I was assigned here,” she said. “They asked me what kind of job I am interested in, and I like to help people.”

A member of All Saints Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, Estrada sets out fresh flowers every morning — a hallmark of the Keeler center — and helps out during the day, setting up for classes and sometimes

Volunteer Debbie Carmody makes sure the hospitality table is always stocked and ready to greet visitors to the center.

eler Women’s Center, especially when she cares for participants’ children.

Office volunteer Alice Munninghoff, left, shares a light moment with Sinead McDonough, an advocacy and outreach specialist from the Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault, one of many agencies partnering with Keeler Women’s Center.

A regular visitor to the Keeler Women’s Center, Lidia Gonzales looks over the many class offerings.

For more than three years, Peg Burns Kerbawy has facilitated a Gospel nonviolence group at Keeler Women’s Center. doing child care.

“I like what they’re doing here,” she said. “They have different kinds of classes throughout the day and it’s a safe place for everyone.

“I was raised Catholic and I’ve always gone to a Catholic school. These are the kinds of things we learned about doing.”

Variety and friendship The classes offered through Keeler Women’s Center cover an array of topics — from technology and parenting, to nutrition and knitting.

The center is always eager to consider new topics of interest.

Peg Burns Kerbawy, a parishioner of St. Francis Xavier Parish in Kansas City, Missouri, came on board three years ago with a curriculum she had developed for teaching Gospel nonviolence.

“We introduced the topic,” she said. “People who attended were asked: Do you want to spend a little more time on this?”

The answer was “yes,”’ and the group expanded to four sessions and beyond. The topic eventually evolved into listening to the retreats of Father Emmanuel McCarthy, the foremost authority on Gospel nonviolence.

“We’ve listened to retreat after retreat, pausing, discuss-

ing, praying and transforming ourselves,” said Kerbawy.

“We’re making a difference in our lives and the lives of the people around us.”

Linda Barker is involved in transforming lives also, by helping women improve their English.

She’s been involved in Keeler Women’s Center for five years.

“I spent 20 years teaching at Bethany Medical Center as the staff development person,” she said. “So, when I heard they had some teaching opportunities, I said, ‘This is right up my alley.’”

Barker is a fan of the whole Keeler Center approach, in fact.

“It’s a haven for women,” she said. “Whether they’re coming

to perfect a skill like English, or working on counseling, or the social aspect of doing the knitting or the book club.

“It gives them a place where they feel welcomed and they can interact with other people.”

Life changing Lidia Gonzales, a parishioner of the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas, knows the value of that interaction.

When she came to the center five years ago, she was looking for support as she grieved for her father and brother who had recently died.

An immigrant from Mexico, Gonzales spoke no English. But the welcoming atmosphere of the center easily crossed that language barrier.

“They helped me a lot,” she said. “I came to get counseling.

She told me life continues.

“I worked in the book with

writing and reading [English] and practiced conversation.

“I took a sewing machine class and learned to make a pillow case. Every day, I tried to learn something; every day, I tried to learn a little more.”

Gonzales speaks almost perfect English now and has a good job as a result of the skills she acquired at the center.

Volunteers are important to the Keeler Women’s Center, but so are participants.

“We seem to be the best-kept secret in Wyandotte County,” said Sister Bridget. “We just wish we had more people to attend our programs — anyone can come.

“It doesn’t matter where they’re from. You walk into the room and everyone is on equal ground.”

“Come and visit,” added Munninghoff, “Look at the classes that are available, look at the services offered.

“It will draw you in.”

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Third-party reporting on sexual abuse by bishops announced

By Julie Asher Catholic News Service

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — Pledging to “heal and protect with every bit of the strength God provides us,” the U.S. bishops’ Administrative Committee Sept. 19 outlined actions to address the abuse crisis, including approving the establishment of a third-party confidential reporting system for claims of any abuse by bishops.

It also instructed the U.S. bishops’ canonical affairs committee to develop proposals for policies addressing restrictions on bishops who were removed or resigned because of allegations of abuse of minors or adults.

It initiated the process of developing a code of conduct for bishops regarding sexual misconduct with a minor or adult or “negligence in the exercise of his office related to such cases.”

The committee also said it supported “a full investigation into the situation” surrounding Archbishop Theodore E. McCarrick, former cardinal-archbishop of Washington, “including his alleged assaults on minors, priests and seminarians, as well as “any responses made to those allegations.”

The statement, released by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, came out of the committee’s semiannual meeting held Sept. 11-12 at USCCB headquarters in Washington.

The Administrative Committee consists of the officers, chairmen and regional representatives of the USCCB. The committee, which meets in March and September, is the highest authority of the USCCB outside of the full body of bishops when they meet for their fall and spring general assemblies.

“This is only a beginning,” the committee said in its Sept. 19 statement.

“Consultation with a broad range of concerned parents, experts and other laity along with clergy and religious will yield additional, specific measures to be taken to repair the scandal and restore justice.

“We humbly welcome and are grateful for the assistance of the whole people of God in holding us accountable,” the committee said.

The committee acknowledged its members had assembled for their meeting in Washington at a “time of shame and sorrow.”

“Some bishops, by their actions or their failures to act, have caused great harm to both individuals and the church as a whole,” the committee said. “They have used their authority and power to manipulate and sexually abuse others.

“They have allowed the fear of

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From left, Archbishop Jose H. Gomez of Los Angeles, vice president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, gives the opening prayer Nov. 13 at the bishops’ fall general assembly in Baltimore. Also pictured are Cardinal Daniel N. DiNardo of Galveston-Houston, USCCB president, and Msgr. J. Brian Bransfield, USCCB general secretary. scandal to replace genuine concern and care for those who have been victimized by abusers,” it continued. “For this, we again ask forgiveness from both the Lord and those who have been harmed. Turning to the Lord for strength, we must and will do better.”

Full descriptions of the actions the committee took are as follows: • Approved the establishment of a third-party reporting system that will receive confidentially, by phone and online, complaints of sexual abuse of minors by a bishop and sexual harassment of or sexual misconduct with adults by a bishop. It will direct those complaints to the appropriate ecclesiastical authority and, as required by applicable law, to civil authorities.

• Instructed the USCCB Committee on Canonical Affairs and Church Governance to develop proposals for policies addressing restrictions on bishops who were removed or resigned because of allegations of sexual abuse of minors or sexual harassment of or misconduct with adults, including seminarians and priests.

• Initiated the process of developing a code of conduct for bishops regarding the sexual abuse of a minor; sexual harassment of or sexual misconduct with an adult; or negligence in the exercise of his office related to such cases.

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• Supported a full investigation into the situation surrounding Archbishop McCarrick, including his alleged assaults on minors, priests, and seminarians, as well any responses made to those allegations. “Such an investigation should rely upon lay experts in relevant fields, such as law enforcement and social services.”

As the initiatives get underway, the Administrative Committee asked all U.S. bishops “to join us in acts of prayer and penance.”

“This is a time of deep examination of conscience for each bishop.

We cannot content ourselves that our response to sexual assault within the church has been sufficient. Scripture must be our guide forward. ‘Be doers of the word and not hearers only,’” it said, quoting the Letter of James.

“In all of this,” no one — including the bishops — can “lose sight of those who have suffered from those who have acted or failed to act as the Gospel demanded,” it said.

“For survivors of sexual abuse, these days may reopen deep wounds. Support is available from the church and within the community,” it emphasized.

The committee reminded all in the church that victims assistance coordinators are available in every diocese to help victim-survivors and their

families find resources.

Since the bishops first adopted “the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People” in 2002, the committee said, “hundreds of dedicated people . . . have been working with the church to support survivors and prevent future abuse.”

It said anyone who has been abused must “never hesitate to also contact local law enforcement.”

“If you don’t feel comfortable for any reason with the church providing help, your diocese can connect you with appropriate community services,” the committee said. “With compassion and without judgment, the bishops of the United States pledge to heal and protect with every bit of the strength God provides us.”

The committee concluded: “Acting in communion with the Holy Father, with whom we once again renew our love, obedience and loyalty, we make our own the prayer of Pope Francis in his Aug. 20 letter to the people of God, ‘May the Holy Spirit grant us the grace of conversion and the interior anointing needed to express before these crimes of abuse our compunction and our resolve courageously to combat them.’”

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Cardinal beatifies 22-year-old Romanian as ‘martyr to chastity’

By Jonathan Luxmoore Catholic News Service

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Pope Francis lays flowers at a memorial to victims outside the Museum of Occupations and Freedom Fights in Vilnius, Lithuania, Sept. 23.

Pope in Lithuania: Don’t let anti-Semitism, hatred resurge

By Cindy Wooden Catholic News Service

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ILNIUS, Lithuania (CNS) — Outside the former KGB headquarters in Vilnius, Pope Francis ended a day of paying homage to victims of totalitarianism and of warning Lithuanians to be attentive to any signs of anti-Semitism or hatred.

The walls of the KGB building — a former jail and execution site — echo the cry of Jesus on the cross, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” the pope said.

Although thousands of people filled the square in front of the building, the mood was somber for the pope’s visit Sept. 23. And it was punctuated by long pauses for silent prayer.

He had toured the museum with 79-year-old Archbishop Sigitas Tamkevicius, whose photo is featured prominently on a wall display honoring the priests and bishops who endured imprisonment in the building’s basement.

The archbishop had been imprisoned from 1983 to 1988 for “anti-Soviet propaganda.” As a Jesuit priest, in 1972 he began publishing the Chronicle of the Catholic Church in Lithuania, an underground newsletter documenting communist repression of the church. Despite repeated questioning by the KGB, he managed to publish and distribute the chronicle for more than 10 years and, once he was arrested, others continued his work. St. John Paul II named him archbishop of Kaunas in 1996, and the archbishop retired in 2015.

The pope had gone to the museum after stopping to pray at a monument to more than 40,000 Jews in Vilnius killed by the Nazis.

The prayer coincided with the national commemoration of the 75th

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“DO NOT FORGET. REMEMBER. YOU ARE CHILDREN OF MARTYRS. THAT IS YOUR STRENGTH. THEY ARE SAINTS.” anniversary of the liquidation of the Vilnius Ghetto.

Standing by the former KGB headquarters, Pope Francis prayed that God would “keep us alert” and strengthen the commitment of Catholics and all Lithuanians to fighting all forms of injustice and defending the dignity of all people.

“Lord,” he prayed, “grant that we may not be deaf to the plea of all those who cry out to heaven in our own day.”

Juozas Jakavonis, 93, sat in a place of honor and told reporters the pope’s visit was important for reminding people of all those who suffered and died for the freedom they now enjoy.

Dressed in an old military uniform, Jakavonis said his nom de guerre had been “Tiger.” He was part of the resistance to Soviet domination and spent three months jailed in that very building. After Lithuanian independence in 1990, he helped bring to public attention what occurred there. Records now show 1,038 people were executed in the building between 1944 and 1947.

Pope Francis had begun the day in Kaunas, a city about 60 miles West. But the memory of the victims of Nazism and communism and the obligation of today’s Christians to fight all forms of hatred dominated there as well.

His last appointment was with

priests, religious women and men and seminarians, and he began with ad-libbed remarks.

“I want to share what I feel,” the pope said. “Looking at you, I see behind you many martyrs — anonymous martyrs, in the sense that we don’t even know where they were buried.”

“Do not forget. Remember. You are children of martyrs. That is your strength,” the pope told them. “They are saints.”

Earlier in day, before reciting the Angelus prayer after Mass in Kaunas’ Santakos Park, Pope Francis drew special attention to the anniversary of the destruction of the Jewish ghetto and to the evil of anti-Semitism. Before the Nazis invaded the country, at least 200,000 citizens were Jewish; fewer than 15,000 survived.

“Let us think back on those times and ask the Lord to give us the gift of discernment to detect in time any new seeds of that pernicious attitude, any whiff of it that can taint the heart of generations that did not experience those times and can sometimes be taken in by such siren songs,” Pope Francis said.

A visit to the famed Hill of Crosses near Vilnius was not on Pope Francis’ schedule, but he did point to it as a place where, especially during Soviet times, Catholics defiantly planted crosses to proclaim their faith.

He prayed that Mary would “help us all to plant our own cross, the cross of our service and commitment to the needs of others, on that hill where the poor dwell, where care and concern are needed for the outcast and for minorities. In this way, we can keep far from our lives and our cultures the possibility of destroying one another, of marginalizing, of continuing to discard whatever we find troublesome or uncomfortable.”

ARSAW, Poland (CNS) — A 22-yearold Romanian peasant has taken a step closer to sainthood as a “martyr to chastity,” six decades after she was murdered while resisting rape during the communist-era repression of the Catholic Church.

Cardinal Angelo Becciu, prefect of the Vatican Congregation for Saints’ Causes, said Veronica Antal’s fate was similar to that of persecuted Christians in ancient Rome, who had asked the same question: “Who will separate us from the love of God?” Antal, a lay Franciscan who died in 1958, was the first Romanian woman to be beatified and first Romanian layperson formally honored as a martyr from the time of communist rule.

Cardinal Becciu beatified her Sept.

23 at Assumption Church at Nisiporesti, Romania.

Born Dec. 7, 1935, the oldest of four children in Romania’s Moldavia province, Antal was taught the faith by her grandmother. Each day Antal walked five miles to Mass in the nearest church at Halaucesti. At age 17, she took vows of chastity as a Franciscan tertiary.

Unable to become a nun because all religious orders had been suppressed by the communists, she created a prayer cell near her parents’ house, from where she visited the sick and needy and helped prepare children for confirmation.

On the evening of Aug. 24, 1958, Antal stayed to sweep the church after a Mass. As she was walking home alone, praying the rosary, she was attacked by a neighbor, who stabbed her 42 times when she refused sex and left her to die in a cornfield.

Although her grave at Halaucesti’s cemetery immediately became a place of pilgrimage, a beatification process was launched by the Conventual Franciscans only after the 1989 collapse of communist rule, using material secretly stored by Franciscan Father Anton Demeter.

The televised beatification Mass, concelebrated by 350 priests and bishops from Romania, Italy and Hungary, was attended by Antal’s brother and sister and former neighbors.

Preaching to the congregation, which included a delegation from Romania’s predominant Orthodox Church, Cardinal Becciu said Antal had prayed for all persecution victims in her makeshift prayer cell and offered an example of “serenity and courage” to contemporary young people.

“The communist regime claimed to eliminate God; [it] destroyed churches and formed young generations for atheism, but could not erase faith from the hearts of many families,” the cardinal said.

“The beatification of this 22-yearold is a happy occasion to confirm the Catholic community’s mission in this country — to preserve and transmit the heritage of faith and attachment to human and spiritual values with new courage and missionary impetus.”

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Duties include coordinating all aspects of the VIRTUS program, including background screenings, implementation and compliance in parishes, and reporting. Ideal candidate will be a practicing Catholic in good standing and have a minimum of 3-5 years professional experience including proficiency in data management and organization. Application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s web site at: www.archkck.org/jobs.

Qualified individuals should submit cover letter, resume, and application (available on website) to: jobs@archkck. org, title safe environment compliance administrator. Position open until filled.

Job opportunities at Catholic Charities in Kansas City-St. Joseph - We are searching for some heavenly help. We’re looking for angelic job candidates who not only meet the professional requirements but also eagerly respond, “Here I am Lord, send me . . . into the battle to help feed, clothe, comfort, instruct and counsel my brothers and sisters in need.” Won’t you join our ranks? We are looking for the following: 1) deaf and disabilities ministries coordinator; 2) AmeriCorps peer navigator; 3) accounts payable clerk; and 4) a family development specialist.

HOME IMPROVEMENT Swalms organizing - downsizing - cleanout service - Reduce clutter – Any space organized. Shelving built on-site. Items hauled for recycling and donations. 20 years exp.; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. WWW. SWALMSORGANIZING.COM. Ceilings - Renew your old textured, yellowed ceilings!

Interior painting. No mess. Call Jerry at (913) 201-1144.

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hot mail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

Father-and-son home exteriors and remodeling - Celebrating my 15th year in The Leaven as a small business owner! We do decks, siding, windows, doors, tile work, floors, wood rot, and interior and exterior painting. We can remodel bathrooms, kitchens or basements. We also reface cabinets and redo pesky popcorn ceilings. Call Josh at (913) 709-7230.

Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling.

Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com.

Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., staining, wood rot, power wash, decks, doors and windows, masonry, hardwood floors, gutter cleaning, water heaters, toilets, faucets, garbage disposals, ceiling fans, mowing and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118.

HARCO Exteriors LLC Your Kansas City fencing specialists Family owned and operated (913) 815-4817 www.harcoexteriorsllc.com The Drywall Doctor, Inc. – A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.

SERVICES Gas log tuneups - We can do most brands. Email pictures of fireplace to: bbqinfo@smokenfire.com. Smoke ’n’ Fire, 8030 W. 151st St., Overland Park, KS 66223.

Water damage restoration - Framing, insulation, painting, Sheetrock, mold treatment and lead-safe certified. Insurance claims welcome. Serving Wyandotte and Johnson counties for 25 years. Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144.

Speedy Guzman Moving and delivery Licensed and insured Anytime (816) 935-0176 Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided.

Call (913) 940-2959.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within five days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

8 to Your IdealWeight Get Real, Get Healthy, Get Empowered.

Release your weight and restore your power in 8 weeks!

Certified coach: kathioppold.8toyouridealweight.com.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@ kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer. com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress.

Win disability benefits - Disabled and no longer able to work? Get help winning Social Security disability benefits. Free consultation. Eight years’ experience. No fee unless you win. Call (785) 331-6452 or send an email to: montemace2000@yahoo.com or visit montemace disability.com.

Clutter getting you down? - Organize, fix, assemble, install! “Kevin of all trades” your professional organizer and “Honey-do” specialist. Call or email me today for a free consultation at (913) 271-5055 or KOATorganizing@ gmail.com. Insured. References.

Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

Rodman Lawn Care Lawn mowing, aeration, verticutting, mulching, Hedge trimming, leaf removal, gutter cleaning Fully insured and free estimates John Rodman (913) 548-3002

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176

Quilted memories - Your Kansas City Longarm shop Nolting Longarm machines, quilting supplies and machine quilting services. We specialize in memorial quilts - custom designed memory quilts from your T-shirt collections, photos, baby clothes, college memorabilia, neckties, etc. For information or to schedule a free consultation, call (913) 649-2704. Visit the website at: www.quiltedmemoriesllc.com.

NELSON CREATION’S L.L.C. Home makeovers, kitchen, bath. All interior and exterior remodeling and repairs.

Family owned, experienced, licensed and insured.

Member St. Joseph, Shawnee. Kirk Nelson.

(913) 927-5240; nelsport@everestkc.net Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful.

Woodwork will glow. Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125.

DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time.

Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did.

Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com.

Tree Trimming Tree Trimming/Landscaping Insured/References Free Estimates/Local Parishioner Tony (913) 620-6063 Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover.

Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com.

FOR SALE Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC) For sale - Two side-by-side crypts; tier B, 13 and 15, located in the St. Joseph Chapel at Mount Calvary Cemetery, the only two left in the chapel. Call (913) 269-6176 for pricing.

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For sale - Double glass-front niche at Resurrection Cemetery, Holy Family section, tier C, niche 3. Paid $8625, Make an offer. Call (913) 558-0723.

CAREGIVING Just like family - Let us care for your loved ones in their homes. Two ladies with over 50 years’ combined experience. Looking for night shift coverage, some days. Great price, great references. Both experienced with hospice care.

Call Ophelia at (913) 570-7276 or Kara at (913) 343-1602.

Situation wanted - Last month, I cared for a client for over 300 hours. I detected sleep apnea, confirmed. Got equipment in the home. Detected a heart problem, confirmed. Got her a stress test, echo and heart monitor.

Detected a heart valve problem and cognitive problems, confirmed. She now has four doctors and superior personalized care. If you want this for your loved one, call me now. Call (913) 701-6381.

CNA - Professional caregiver provides quality private home care assistance for the elderly in the comfort of your home. Part-time or full-time assignments. Will consider live-in arrangements. 25 years seasoned experience. Dedicated to clients. Call (816) 806-8104.

Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefits ofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591.

Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities.

We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.

REAL ESTATE Whole Estates Need to sell a home and everything in it?

We buy it all at once in as-is condition.

Call (816) 444-1950 or send an email to: www.wholeestates.com.

We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family-owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house as is never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000.

I NEED HOUSES! - We are members of Holy Trinity Parish and we pay cash for any real estate without any realtor commissions or fees. We buy houses in any condition, including bad foundations. If you would like an easy, no-hassle sale at a fair price, please call me. We have 15 years of experience. Mark Edmondson, (913) 980-4905.

House for sale - Three bedroom, three-and-a-half bath ranch home in Roeland Park. This Fairway Manor home sits on a half-acre corner lot near the highway, downtown, the Plaza, Bishop Miege High School and St. Agnes Parish. The main floor features a formal living room/dining room, an eat-in kitchen with adjoining family room and three large bedrooms. Additional features include a two-car garage, enormous basement with rec area, hardwood floors, two fireplaces, sprinkler system and granite kitchen countertops. 5001 Howe Drive. Call (913) 677-0864. See the ad online at: www.Zillow.com.

WANTED TO BUY Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid.

Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.

Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

VACATION Branson condo - Newly updated. Perfect for couples or families. Sleeps six; fully furnished; Wi-Fi; no stairs; close to entertainment; pools; exercise room, tennis and golf available. Call (913) 515-3044.

Beech-front condo - One bedroom, fully furnished condo in Freeport, Grand Bahamas Island. Sleeps four. Wi-Fi, fully furnished kitchen, great beaches, local owner. More information and photos online at: www.coralbeach1602.com.

Wagner’s Mud-Jacking Co.

Specializing in Foundation Repairs Mud-jacking and Waterproofing.

Serving Lawrence, Topeka and surrounding areas.

Topeka (785) 233-3447 Lawrence (785) 749-1696 In business since 1963 www.foundationrepairks.com

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CALENDAR OPEN HOUSE Resurrection Cemetery W. 83rd St. and Quivira, Lenexa Sept. 30 - Oct. 28 from 1 - 4 p.m., (Sundays)

Learn more about the archdiocesan Catholic cemeteries. For more information, call (913) 344-7527.

ANNUNCIATION CHURCH PICNIC Cigna Center 402 N. Maple, Frankfort Sept. 30 from 4 - 7 p.m.

There will be a roast beef dinner with all the trimmings. The cost will be $10 for adults; $5 for kids 10 and under. There will also be a potof-gold, cakewalk, bingo, church poker, a quilt raffle, a silent auction, kids games and train rides. Takeout meals will be available (and meals delivered in Frankfort). Call the parish office during morning hours (M-F) at (785) 292-4462 to order delivery meals.

COMMEMORATION MASS AND RECEPTION Sacred Heart Parish 1429 Kansas Ave., Atchison Sept. 30 at 3 p.m.

Mass in commemoration of the closing of Sacred Heart Church will be celebrated by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann and Abbot James Albers, OSB. A reception will follow immediately in the parking area.

of the Divine through a lesson on baking pie crust. The suggested donation is $15; scholarship funds are available. Register online by Oct. 1 at: info@pbrenewalcenter.org, or call (816) 415-3734.

TRIVIA NIGHT Mater Dei School (Rossiter Hall) 204 S.W. 8th St., Topeka Oct. 6 at 7 p.m.

The cost to attend is $100 for an eight-person table. There will be prizes, a raffle, popcorn and more. Tables are filling up fast. Reserve your table now by calling the Mater Dei office at (785) 232-7744. Details will follow upon reservation. Proceeds will benefit the school.

BURGERS, BUCKS AND ’QUE Corpus Christi Parish 6001 Bob Billings Pkwy., Lawrence Oct. 6 at 2 p.m.

There will be a beer garden and snacks beginning at 2 p.m. There will also be a classic car show from 1 - 4 p.m. Mass will be at 4 p.m. with dinner, music, a reverse raffle and other activities. Dinner tickets cost $25 for adults; $10 for youths; and $5 for kids. Tickets are now on sale and can be purchased from parish staff or choir members. For more information, visit the website at: www. cccparish.org/2018bbq.

BLESSING OF THE ANIMALS Divine Mercy Parish 555 W. Main St., Gardner Oct. 6 at 10 a.m.

The blessing of pets will be celebrated in conjunction with the feast of St. Francis of Assisi. The blessing of animals and pets means that health, healing and life are being mediated from God for the benefit of the animal in its relationship with its human partners. Coffee and doughnuts will be served afterward.

FALL GOSPEL CONCERT Our Lady & St. Rose Parish 2300 N. 8th St., Kansas City, Kansas Sept. 30 at 3 p.m.

MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS WEEK St. Paul Parish 900 S. Honeysuckle, Olathe Oct. 6 at 8 a.m.

Plan to attend the fall gospel concert at Our Lady & St. Rose. Admission is a freewill offering. Your generosity helps our church community fulfill the Gospel and be a positive presence in a challenged area.

Celebrate Mass as we pray for a united and compassionate community and receive the sacrament of anointing to ease the burdens of stress, grief and loss, depression and anxiety.

FALL FEST Sacred Heart-St. Casimir Parish 1405 2nd Ave., Leavenworth Sept. 30 from 11:30 a.m. - 3 p.m.

RETREAT FOR ADOPTIVE MOMS: ‘A RETREAT FOR MOMS BY MOMS’ Sophia Spirituality Center 751 S. 8th St., Atchison Oct. 6 - 7

The cost for tickets for a turkey and ham dinner will be $10 for adults; $5 for kids.

There will also be a silent auction, a country store, games for kids, a DJ and raffles.

GOLF OUTING Heritage Park Golf Course 16455 S. Lackman, Olathe Oct. 1 at 8:30 a.m.

Holy Spirit, Overland Park, Knights of Columbus invite you to join in this golf outing. There will be a shotgun start at 8:30 a.m. Green fees, cart and two beverage tickets with prizes for long drive, long putt and closest to the pin are included in the price of $33 per golfer. Call Greg Davis at (913) 800-0581 to register.

SCHOOL OF FAITH PRESENTATIONS Divine Mercy Parish 555 W. Main St., Gardner Oct. 2 - 30 at 7 p.m.

Theology of the body classes will be held after the 6 p.m. Mass each Tuesday. The topic will be the Old Testament like you have never heard it before, but should.

THE SPIRITUALITY OF COOKING Precious Blood Renewal Center 2120 St. Gaspar Way, Liberty, Missouri Oct. 4 from 6:45 - 8:45 p.m.

Cooking connects us to people and challenges us to channel our energy and desire to discovering who we are. Come discover the power

The retreat begins at 9 a.m. on Oct. 6 and ends at noon on Oct. 7. If you became a mom through adoption, are you looking for a way to renew and recharge your spirit and have more to share with your family? Would you like to share with other moms who have similar stories? This is an opportunity to share with others in the same situation. The retreat fee is $75 (scholarships are available) and includes room and meals. Call (913) 360-6173 or visit the website at: www. sophiaspiritualitycenter.org.

FALL BAZAAR St. Boniface Parish 23393 N.E. Norton Rd., Scipio (Garnett) Oct. 7 from 11 a.m. - 2 p.m.

A meal of roast beef, chicken and noodles, sides, and homemade bread and pies will be served. The cost is: $10 for adults; $5 for kids 5 - 10; and kids under 5 eat free. Carryouts will be available until 1:30 p.m. for the cost of $11.

CENTERING PRAYER WORKSHOP Cathedral of St. Peter (chapel) 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kansas Oct. 7, 14, 21, 28 from 3 - 4:15 p.m.

Join Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth as they facilitate a four-session workshop on centering prayer. This type of prayer is often called the prayer of the heart and is a contemplative form of prayer. Register by Sept.

30 by email at: bs2wie@gmail.com; or by calling (913) 680-9251.

LIGHTED LIVING ROSARY Civic Center Park 250 E. Santa Fe St., Olathe Oct. 7 at 7 p.m.

Everyone is invited to join in praying a lighted living rosary for the healing of our world, our nation, our church and for the victims of abuse.

This event is sponsored by the Kansas City in Kansas division of the World Apostolate of Fatima. Call (913) 481-1745 for information.

SOUP SUPPER AND AUCTION St. Bede Parish 7344 Drought St., Kelly Oct. 7 from 4 - 8 p.m.

A supper of chili, vegetable beef soup and sandwiches, pie and cake will be served.

The cost is a freewill donation. There will be games and other activities from 5 - 8 p.m. and an auction of handmade quilts and many other items at 8 p.m.

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BEGINNING EXPERIENCE GRIEF SUPPORT WEEKEND Sanctuary of Hope 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Oct. 12 - 14

Beginning Experience is offering a healing weekend to men and women of all ages who have suffered the loss of a spouse through death, divorce or separation. It is a time to heal and begin anew. Reservations are required. For more information, visit the website at: www.beginningexperiencekc.org; send an email to: register.bekc@gmail.com; or call Lori at (913) 980-7966.

LINGER OVER BREAKFAST Avila University (Whitfield Center) 11901 Wornall Rd., Kansas City, Missouri

Oct. 13 at 8:30 a.m.

Join the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet as Sister Nancy Corcoran shares how we can embody faith in action in our everyday lives.

Doors open at 8:30 a.m.; the program begins at 9 a.m. The cost is $15, breakfast included. Register online at: www.csjsl.org, or call (816) 501-2944.

OKTOBERFEST DANCE St. Mary-St. Anthony Parish (basement) 615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kansas Oct. 13 from 6 - 10 p.m.

FALL BAZAAR St. Theresa Parish (hall) 209 3rd St., Perry Oct. 7 from 11 a.m. - 2:30 p.m.

A turkey and ham dinner will be served. The cost will be $10 for adults; $5 for kids 10 and under. There will be a silent auction, bingo, an old-fashioned cakewalk, baked goods and a country store. Carryout dinners will also be available.

BULL CREEK FAMILY 5K AND ONE-MILE RACE Wallace Park E. Osage St., & Wallace Park Dr., Paola Oct. 7 at noon (preregistration at 11 a.m.)

Register online at: runsignup.com/bull creek5K. The suggested donation is $30 for those age 13 and up. Registration forms are also available at Holy Trinity School or rectory. There will be a free lunch following the race. Awards/prizes will be given out at Holy Trinity School. For more information, send an email to: Jeanniefedor@yahoo.com.

OKTOBERFEST Boulevard Brewing Company 2501 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, Missouri Oct. 11 from 6 - 9:30 p.m.

The Rotary Club of Johnson County is sponsoring this fundraiser. A portion of the proceeds will benefit St. Mary’s food kitchen.

Fox 4’s meteorologist Joe Lauria will emcee the event. There will be an auction, a wine bucket raffle and a grand prize drawing for a seven-night, two-bedroom condo in Orlando over the 2019 Presidents’ Day week. Tickets cost $50 each and can be purchased online at: jocorotary.org.

HOLY WOMEN SERIES Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Oct. 11 from 1 - 2:30 p.m.

Learn more about the protector of books in the Auschwitz family camp: “The Librarian of Auschwitz: Dita Kraus.”

‘TOUR OF ASSISI’ Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish (hall) 106 Exchange St., Emporia Oct. 11 from 7 - 8:30 p.m.

Secular Franciscans at Sacred Heart of Jesus, Emporia, will host “Tour of Assisi,” presented by Father Mike Scully, OFM Cap.

The cost for admission is $20 for adults and includes dinner, drinks and dancing to The Willie Kirst Band. There are discount prices for young adults and children (under 5 are free); families are welcome. There will also be raffle prizes. The dance is sponsored by the Kansas City Kansas Edelweiss Society.

For more information, call Patty Orth at (913) 371-2468.

PUBLIC SQUARE ROSARY RALLY Divine Mercy Parish 555 W. Main St., Gardner Oct. 13 at noon

The public square rosary is sponsored by America Needs Fatima. Join us in offering reparation for sins and offenses committed against the Immaculate Heart of Mary and to pray for the conversion of the United States.

BAZAAR AND TURKEY DINNER Sacred Heart Parish 1100 West St., Tonganoxie Oct. 14 from 11 a.m. - 3 p.m.

A turkey dinner will be served. The cost is: $10 for adults; $5 for kids 6 - 12; and free for kids 5 and under. Takeout is available. There will be a country store, raffles, theme baskets, bingo and kids games.

WINE AND CHOCOLATE Avila University (Whitfield Center) 11901 Wornall Rd., Kansas City, Missouri Oct. 15 from 6 - 8 p.m.

Celebrate the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet’s Founders Day with an evening of specialty wines, gourmet chocolate, hors d’oeuvres and live music. Tours of the Martha Smith, CSJ, Archives & Research Center will also be available. The cost is $35 per person.

BREATHE RESPITE CARE PROGRAM Holy Cross School 8101 W. 95th St., Overland Park Oct. 20 from 4 - 8 p.m.

BREATHE respite care provides the gift of time away from caregiving for families who have a loved one age 5 or older with a disability. Volunteers are needed. Prayerfully consider offering your time. Contact Tom Racunas at (913) 647-3054 or send an email to: tracunas@archkck.org, or Audrey Amore at (816) 739-1197 or by email at: aamore@sjakeepingfaith.org if you have any questions. To register a loved one for the program or to volunteer, go to the website at: www.archkck.org/specialneeds and complete the online form.

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COMMENTARY TWENTY-SIXTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Sept. 30 TWENTY-SIXTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Nm 11: 25-29 PS 19: 8, 10, 12-14 Jas 5: 1-6 Mk 9: 38-43, 45, 47-48 Oct. 1 Thérèse of the Child Jesus, virgin, doctor of the church Jb 1: 6-22 Ps 17: 1-3, 6-7 Lk 9: 46-50 Oct. 2 The Holy Guardian Angels Jb 3: 1-3, 11-17, 20-23 Ps 88: 2-8 Mt 18: 1-5, 10 Oct. 3 Wednesday Jb 9: 1-12, 14-16 Ps 88: 10-15 Lk 9: 57-62 Oct. 4 Francis of Assisi Jb 19: 21-27 Ps 27: 7-9, 13-14 Lk 10: 1-12 Oct. 5 Blessed Francis Xavier Seelos, priest Jb 38: 1, 12-21; 40: 3-5 Ps 139: 1-3, 7-10, 13-14 Lk 10: 13-16 Oct. 6 Bruno, priest; Blessed Marie Rose Durocher, virgin Jb 42: 1-3, 5-6, 12-17 Ps 119: 66, 71, 75, 91, 125, 130 Lk 10: 17-24

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Getting holy with a little help from above

caught some movement out of the corner of my eye as my mom and I were heading out of Zaxby’s this past Sunday.

As we reached the door, a woman brushed past us. She was obviously in a hurry — not to leave, but to hold the door open so that I could easily maneuver Mom’s wheelchair. Once through one door, she proceeded to hold open the second.

Both Mom and I thanked the woman for her thoughtfulness. I said, “You can’t believe what a huge help that is when pushing a wheelchair.”

She replied, “Oh, I do know. I’ve pushed my share of strollers and always appreciated a little help with the doors.”

After wishing her a great Sunday, Mom and I talked about how many good people there are in the world.

Those little gestures of kindness mean a lot. Someone who understood that well was Marie Françoise Martin, better known as St. Thérèse of the Child Jesus, the “Little

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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

Flower.” Many people are familiar with her story, but here’s a refresher course in honor of her feast day on Oct. 1.

She was born in 1873, the youngest of five sisters. All would eventually become nuns, four of them at the Carmelite monastery in Lisieux.

When Marie was 4, her mother died. Consequently, she became very close to her sister Pauline, who left for the convent in Lisieux when Marie was 9.

Although she longed

to join her sister, Marie had to wait until she was 15, still such an unusually young age that she needed the permission of the diocesan bishop to do so.

Given the religious name of Thérèse, she was assigned the lowliest housekeeping tasks, to keep her from receiving any special treatment because of her age.

It was here that Therese developed her “Little Way,” believing “that every act, no matter how great or small, brings us as close to God as do heroic acts performed by spiritual giants such as Ignatius of Loyola or Teresa of Avila” (From the second edition of “Companion to the Calendar: A Guide

to the Saints, Seasons and Holidays of the Year”).

“To pick up a pin for love can convert a soul,” she once said.

Thérèse’s great desire was to join a missionary Carmel (or Carmelite monastery) in Vietnam.

Sadly, she was unable to do so because she developed tuberculosis, a disease that took her life at age 24.

We’d likely know little to nothing about Thérèse of Lisieux or her “Little Way” had she not been instructed to write down her story by the prioress of her Carmel — her sister Pauline. Her work has now been translated into 50 languages, inspiring readers from all walks of life to strive for holiness in their mundane, dayto-day activities.

How many times each day do we pass up opportunities to do good for others because we believe that our little gestures won’t make any difference? Or how often do we assure ourselves that we’ll get to living out our faith “a little later.” This poem captures that feeling well:

“I shall do so much in the years to come,/ but what have I done today?/ I shall give out gold in princely sum,/ but what did I give today?/ I shall lift the heart and dry the tear,/ I shall plant a hope in the place of fear,/ I shall speak with words of love and cheer,/ But what have I done today?

“I shall be so kind in the after while,/ But what have I been today?/ I shall bring to each lonely life a smile,/ but what have I brought today?/ I shall give to truth a grander birth,/ And to steadfast faith a deeper worth,/ I shall feed the hungering souls of earth,/ But whom have I fed today?”

(Found in Anthony Castle’s “More Quips, Quotes & Anecdotes for Preachers and Teachers.”)

In honor of the “Little Flower,” what little action can you do each day of October to brighten the life of someone?

Don’t put off this work of becoming a saint. Let St. Thérèse show you the way . . . little by little.

Are we leading others into sin with our tribalism?

oth within the political life of our nation and that of our church, polarization has reached an extreme.

Often, it seems to matter which group you belong to, more than what you believe about the issue at hand or what you plan to do about it. Affiliation means everything.

Whose side are you on? We have become tribal.

That appears to have been the case also in the early church. That is why Jesus speaks as he does in Sunday’s Gospel reading, Mk 9:38-43, 45, 47-48.

The disciples, with John speaking on their behalf, complain to Jesus about an exorcist who has been driving

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FATHER MIKE STUBBS Father Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

out demons in Jesus’ name. It does not seem to matter to them whether this exorcist follows Jesus or not, or

whether he has been successful in driving out demons. Rather, they try to stop him “because he does not follow us.”

In other words, “he does not belong to our group.” Notice, they say “follow us” — not Jesus.

St. Paul also appears to address this tendency toward cliquishness where he asks: “While there is jealousy and

rivalry among you, are you not of the flesh, and behaving in an ordinary human way? Whenever someone says, ‘I belong to Paul,’ and another, ‘I belong to Apollos,’ are you not merely human?”

(1 Cor 3:3-4).

Often, as St. Paul has pointed out, the group will coalesce around a charismatic figure. It can become a personality cult. But for St. Paul, if the group will focus on any one person, it must be Jesus Christ. Only he can unify us.

The extreme divisions in our country and in our church have led to a toxic atmosphere, especially on social media. It has become a means to spread hate.

Slander, personal attacks and crude language have become rampant. These can con-

taminate the hearts and minds of others.

In that case, the second half of Sunday’s Gospel reading becomes terribly pertinent. Jesus warns us that leading others into sin results in awful consequences: “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.”

This punishment by means of drowning may sound a bit bizarre to us, but evidently it was a form of capital punishment at the time of Christ.

Jesus is making the point that leading others into sin is so wrong that it merits the most extreme punishment possible.

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True followers of Jesus profess their faith not through prepackaged platitudes but, rather, through concrete actions of love for their neighbors, Pope Francis said.

When he asked the disciples who they think he is, Jesus wasn’t interested in “ready-made responses [or] quoting famous personalities of sacred Scripture because a faith that is reduced to formulas is a myopic faith,” the pope said Sept. 16 during his Sunday Angelus address.

After praying the Angelus prayer, the pope welcomed the pilgrims gathered in St. Peter’s Square and said he wanted to give them a gift to commemorate the Sept. 14 feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross.

Pope Francis said the gift, a silver crucifix distributed by the papal almoner’s office, wasn’t an “ornamental object” but a “sign of the love of God who, in Jesus, gave his life for us. I invite you to receive this gift and place it in your homes — in your children’s room or your grandparent’s [room] — in any place, but it must be seen in your home,” he said. “By looking at Jesus crucified, we are looking at our salvation.”

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Family ‘lens’ adds new perspective to ‘back to school’

ear friends of Catholic schools, In my mind, there is nothing quite like the excitement of the beginning of a new school year. This year, I have had the joy of experiencing the beginning of the school year from new personal and professional perspectives.

From the personal perspective, we had two firsts with our grandkids — a freshman in high school joined his older sister at school, and a brand-new kindergartner started school as the oldest child in her family.

My son and daughter-inlaw, who are the parents of

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it down with your spouse and write the answers to the following questions: What did you first find attractive about your spouse?

What was it about him or her that you first fell in love with? When did you know you wanted to marry him or her? Now, exchange your answers.

This exercise is the first written reflection engaged couples complete in our marriage preparation course, Preparing to Live in Love. The exchange of answers by the couples is always followed by smiles, loving looks, laughter and hugs.

Maybe you are married

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KATHY O’HARA Kathy O’Hara is the superintendent of archdiocesan schools.

the high schoolers, are veterans at this school thing, but my son and daughter-in-law with the kindergartner are

“newbies” to this world.

It has been so much fun to observe all the emotions of the kids and grandkids, especially from my lens as an educator! I am so grateful that I have family members that keep me in tune with what it is like to be a parent and

student today.

In the Catholic schools of the archdiocese, we have had “firsts” for more than 100 new teachers and counselors, as well as 15 school leaders. (Not all of the school leaders are new to our archdiocese; they are just new to a particular school.)

When we ask folks what has drawn them to our schools, teachers/ counselors talk about being alums who want to be a part of their alma maters because their own school experiences were so positive.

School leaders talk about knowing and/ or working with our current school leaders and desiring to lead and

serve in the manner their colleagues have the opportunity to do.

All mention the blessing of being able to integrate their faith and professional lives.

After both our school leader kickoff and new teacher/counselor orientation, we heard so many positive comments about how inspiring and reaffirming the events were, which, in turn, inspire the staff in our office.

Speaking of the staff in our office, we welcome a new associate superintendent, Allison Carney. Allison takes the place of Dr. Ann Connor, who is now leading St. Paul School in Olathe.

Allison came to the school office from Holy Cross School in Overland Park, where she had served in many roles, most recently as principal. Allison’s focus will be on all matters related to curriculum and instruction, and we are confident that she will be of great service to the staffs in the schools.

By the time you read this, a little more than 10 percent of the school year will be concluded.

I pray that all of the excitement and smiling faces will still be present in our classrooms and hallways! ¡Vaya con Dios!

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DEACON TONY ZIMMERMAN Deacon Tony Zimmerman is the lead archdiocesan consultant for the office of marriage and family life.

for a short time and the answers are fresh in your

memory. Perhaps you have been married for 47 years like me. Whatever the amount of time we have been married, we need to focus on what it was about our beloved that captured our heart, and then to share it with them.

Try these questions:

What do I find most attractive about you today? What is it that keeps me falling in love with you every day?

What dreams do I have for our future years of marriage?

Most — or all — of us have to admit we don’t often get the chance to stop and reflect on the great gift God has given us in our spouse.

Oftentimes, it is on an anniversary or a birthday that we get such a chance to reflect and share. What about the other 363 days each year? Shouldn’t there be more rejoicing?

Most married couples agree that it is worthwhile to spend time to rediscover the joy and

the gift present in their spouse. Enriching and strengthening their marriage should be a regular priority. Yet, with the demands of jobs and caring for children, where do we find time?

Here is the solution: Dr. Greg and Lisa Popcak, authors of “Just Married: The Catholic Guide to Surviving and Thriving in the First Five Years of Marriage” and “For Better . . . FOREVER!: A Catholic Guide to Lifelong Marriage,” and hosts of a daily radio call-in show on EWTN “More to Life” will present two talks: “Celebrating the Catholic difference in marriage” and “Building your marriage castle: 8 building blocks

for a lifelong love.”

The date is Oct. 6. The location is St. Michael the Archangel Church, Leawood. The day begins with Mass at 8:15 a.m., followed by coffee and doughnuts from 8:50 to 9:20 a.m. The first presentation runs from 9:30-10:30 a.m.; the second from 10:45 until 11:45 a.m. No registration is needed. There is a limited amount of child care available. Call the parish for this information.

All you need is four hours. The cost: free.

You get great hints on enriching your marriage from speakers recognized worldwide. Why wouldn’t you come?

(By the way, if you are engaged, come, too.)

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Parishioners filled the stands at Mirocke Stadium behind St. Joseph Church in Shawnee to celebrate the parish’s 150th anniversary on Sept. 15.

Father Scott Wallisch, pastor of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee, was the main celebrant for the outdoor Mass.

Students of St. Joseph School in Shawnee take part in the parish’s 150th anniversary Mass, which was celebrated outdoors in 93-degree heat.

Shawnee parish celebrates 150 in style

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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HAWNEE — There was a lot of excitement at Mirocke Stadium here at 4 p.m. on Sept.

15 as a crowd filled the seats and waited in anticipation for a historic event to begin No, it wasn’t a game.

Parishioners of St. Joseph Parish were waiting for the start of the 150th anniversary Mass.

The Mass in the stadium was a nod to what their grandparents and parents did on the same date in 1968 when they worshiped at an outdoor Mass for the parish’s centennial celebration in Bluejacket Park.

This time, however, the temps were a lot higher, and the cotton ball clouds and slight breeze did little to alleviate the 93-degree heat. People fanned themselves with programs and ushers handed out bottles of cool water.

After the opening procession came down the steps and traveled a short distance down the track to a temporary altar on a raised platform at the 50-yard line, new pastor Father Scott Wallisch greeted everyone and prayed the introductory rites.

“Brothers and sisters, it is a joy to gather with you on this cold and rainy day,” he said with wry humor. “We’ll sweat our way through it. But I’m so grateful that you are here, braving the heat to join us in a celebration of 150 years of St. Joseph Parish.”

Although the dress code for Mass was casual, the parish had gone all out to solemnize the liturgy with a Boy Scouts color guard, fourth-degree Knights of Columbus honor guard, a combined choir (along with brass instruments, bass guitar and electronic keyboard), assistance by the eighthgrade class during Communion, and descendants of founding families bringing up the gifts during the offertory procession.

A word to the future Patrick McAnany’s great grandfather came to Shawnee in 1858, and his own children are the fifth generation of parishioners. What would he say to future parishioners?

“As Father Scott said today, we recognize Jesus Christ as the Messiah and live that life. That is what is most important. Hopefully, they’ll see that we lived that life and passed the torch to them. My hope would be that they’d look back and say, ‘Yes, they had strong faith despite some difficulties, and they carried that on to future generations.”

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Father Scott Wallisch, pastor of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee, was joined by several former pastors and associates for St. Joseph’s 150th anniversary Mass on Sept. 15. They are, clockwise from left: Father Richard McDonald, Father Daniel Stover, Father Michael Stechmann, OAR, Msgr. Raymond Burger, Father Anthony Lickteig, Father Michael Hawken, Father Robert Pflumm, Msgr. Michael Mullen and Deacon Tom Mulvenon (kneeling).

Father Wallisch was the main celebrant and homilist. Concelebrating were former pastors Father Michael Hawken (Father Wallisch’s predecessor), Father Robert Pflumm and Father Anthony Lickteig; native sons Msgr.

Raymond Burger and Father Michael Stechmann, OAR, from Oxnard, California; senior associate pastor Msgr.

Michael Mullen; former associate pastor Father Daniel Stover; and Father Richard McDonald.

Deacon Tom Mulvenon assisted.

The heat-abbreviated homily was just shy of eight minutes.

“Who am I to be here to preside at this Mass?” asked Father Wallisch. “I feel like I stand on the shoulders of all of those men (nodding to those concelebrating) and many more — 23 pastors to be sure, and lots of associates.

“But the truth is, friends, that you are doing the same thing. We’re all standing on the shoulders of six, seven and maybe eight generations of people here at St. Joseph; standing on their shoulders, those who were willing to hand on the Gospel to the next generation.”

“Generation after generation,” he continued, “has been willing to answer Jesus’ question, ‘Who do you say that I am?’ They have called him Messiah, and have been willing to build the

St. Joseph Parish milestones • 1864: Father Anton Kuhls, from St. Mary Church in Wyandotte, made mission visits to Catholics in Shawnee Town. A few years later, he supervised the construction of a small residence and a simple 30-by-50 wood frame church.

• 1868: Father Rudolph Duesterman, the first resident pastor, was installed on July 28.

• 1894: The first church burned down on Jan. 6.

• 1906: A new church was built. The parish had 50 families.

• 1916: Father Hugh McDevitt arrived in a Model T Ford. During his 21-year pastorate, the parish increased from 75 families to 200. He built a new church, convent, school and rectory.

• 1918: A two-story stone rectory was built.

• 1921: A large, two-story stone grade school was completed and the old red brick school was torn down.

• 1926: The first Mass was celebrated in the new church on Christmas Day. • 1928: Bishop Frances Johannes dedicated the new church.

• 1968: The parish celebrated its 100th anniversary with a procession and outdoor Mass on Sept. 15 at Bluejacket Park.

• 1970: The present St. Joseph Church was dedicated by Archbishop Ignatius J. Strecker on June 14. The former church was demolished, and its cornerstone was found to contain: a stonemason’s business card, an 1867 nickel, an 1864 two-cent piece and nine names of the members of one family.

• 1993: Parishioners celebrated the 125th anniversary of the parish on July 25.

• 2018: Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann blessed the extensively renovated church on March 11 during a Laetare Sunday Mass.

parish and pass on the faith.

“So, we are here to celebrate that.

But let us not be the last link in that chain. Because Jesus is asking us that

same question, ‘Who do you say that I am,’ here in this stadium.”

A parish dinner followed the Mass.