THE BATTLES WE DON’T SEE
Do we honor our soldiers each Veterans Day — only to leave them facing their biggest battles alone?
By Marc and Julie Anderson
As Americans around the country celebrate Veterans Day with parades and patriotic speeches, the sacrifices of the actual soldiers involved rarely end when the crowds disperse.
For many, the battles continue quietly for years — through sleepless nights, unseen injuries and the haunting memories of war that can become too heavy to bear.
Right here in the archdiocese there are hundreds, if not thousands, of servicemen, women and veterans, thanks to the presence of Fort Leavenworth, two major US. Department of Veterans Affairs systems and Forbes Field Air National Guard Base in Topeka. Just outside archdiocesan boundaries lie Fort Riley and a Veterans Home.
Thus, the challenges veterans face weigh heavily on even those close to home as the nation prepares to honor them Nov. 11.
In preparation for this Veterans Day, The Leaven interviewed several Catholic veterans whose work found them ministering to their fellow soldiers in various capacities. What they learned about the trauma their fellow soldiers faced and how some still struggle to cope with its aftermath makes for challenging — but necessary — reading.
Warning: This article contains accounts of violence that some readers may find disturbing.
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St. Carlo Acutis display to visit Miege
By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
ROELAND PARK — Bishop
Miege High School here will display the eucharistic miracles documented by St. Carlo Acutis, as well as a first-class relic of the new saint, on Nov. 12 and 13.
On Nov. 12, Patrick Brueggen, who volunteered at the Eucharistic Miracles display at the National Eucharistic Congress, will speak on the documented miracles from 6:30-8:30 p.m. in the school auditorium.
Visitors are invited to view the display and attend the presentation.
Maureen Engen, principal of Miege, said her students started learning about Blessed Carlo last year and were
praying for his canonization.
“He was a teenager of their generation,” she said. “He wore tennis shoes, carried a phone, played soccer and used a computer.
“All the encounters of this generation were part of his — from his clothes to the project that he made on the computer. It helps teens understand that holiness is the here and now.”
She hopes the eucharistic miracles display will help students grow in friendship with St. Carlo and that his love of Jesus in the Eucharist will inspire them.
“It is our mission to help our students realize that sainthood is not out of reach — it begins with daily choices to stay close to Jesus,” she said.
Kansas Coalition Against the Death Penalty conference set for Nov. 22
OVERLAND PARK — The Kansas Coalition Against the Death Penalty (KCADP) will host its annual conference from 1 to 3:30 p.m. on Nov. 22 at Johnson County Community College in the Hudson Auditorium. The deadline for preregistration is 5 p.m. on Nov. 21. The event is free and open to the public. There is also a virtual option available.
“Repeal to Heal: Death Penalty Repeal Advances the Culture of Life,” is the theme of this year’s conference.
Speakers include: Nan Tolson, director of Texas Conservative Concerned About the Death Penalty; Rep. Bill Sutton, a seventerm congressman in the Kansas House of Representatives; and Krisanne Vaillancourt Murphy, executive director of Catholic Mobilizing Network.
For more information, go online to: ksabolition.org. To RSVP, head to: forms.gle/6ynKsgkmPY6rASA87.
For more information, contact KCADP at: info@ksabolition.org or call (785) 235-2237.
ARCHBISHOP MCKNIGHT
Nov. 7
St. Martin of Tours Mass — Curé of Ars, Leawood
Nov. 9-13
U.S. bishops’ fall Plenary Assembly meetings — Baltimore
Nov. 13-14
Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) retreat and board meeting — Georgetown University, Washington, D.C.
Nov. 16
Mass — Mount St. Scholastica Monastery, Atchison
Recently ordained priests dinner
Nov. 18
Priest Personnel board meeting and lunch — chancery
St. Cecilia Mass, blessing of musicians and reception — Holy Angels Church, Basehor
Nov. 19
Presbyteral Council meeting — chancery
Meeting with Mother M. Mediatrix Bexten, FSGM — chancery
Confirmation — Sts. Peter and Paul, Seneca
Nov. 21
Chancery staff Thanksgiving Mass and recognition brunch — chancery
Meeting with Krisanne Vaillancourt Murphy, Catholic Mobilizing Network — chancery
Meeting with Kansas Interfaith Action Group — chancery
Divine Winefest for St. Lawrence Catholic Campus Center — The Abbott, Kansas City, Missouri
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Nov. 7
St. Martin of Tours Mass — Curé of Ars, Leawood
Nov. 8
Kansas City Kansas Community College Mass
Depart for bishops’ meeting in Baltimore
Nov. 9
Pro-life Committee meeting — Baltimore
Nov. 10
NET Ministries reception — Baltimore
Nov. 11
Catholic Benefits Association — Baltimore
National Committee for a Human Life Amendment Committee board meeting — Baltimore
Nov. 15
Confessions and Mass — St. Matthew, Topeka
Nov. 16
Mass — St. Matthew, Topeka
Confirmation for Sacred Heart, Mound City; St. Philip Neri, Osawatomie; and Our Lady of Lourdes, LaCygne — Sacred Heart, Mound City
St. Philippine Duchesne Award — Sacred Heart, Mound City
MOST EXCELLENT Archbishop tours Our Lady of Unity School in KCK
By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Third graders at Our Lady of Unity School here were captivated as Archbishop Shawn McKnight walked into their classroom, sat down and began to read them a book.
“The Sour Grape” by Jory John had a particular effect when read by the archbishop, his enthusiastic interpretation delighting both the students and adults in the room.
Archbishop McKnight and a group of leaders from the Catholic Education Foundation (CEF) visited Our Lady of Unity as part of its selection as this year’s Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann CEF School of Excellence on Oct. 15.
“Our staff [and] our students were excited to meet him and learn more about him,” said principal Cally Dahlstrom of the archbishop. “We were honored to be able to show him our community and our students.”
Students and faculty gathered outside the school to greet the group as they arrived.
The children cheered boisterously, lifting signs of welcome and offering the archbishop fist bumps when he passed by. Music filled the parking lot as dancers from the group Itsï-asuli performed.
Our Lady of Unity then opened its doors to the group for a tour.
Vince Cascone, superintendent of archdiocesan schools, was all smiles as the scene unfolded.
He called Our Lady of Unity “a vibrant school community that has seen enrollment growth over the last several years.”
“When you walk through the doors of the school, you feel the sense of togetherness and family,” he added.
Vince Anch, executive director of CEF, was “thrilled that Archbishop McKnight got to tour OLU, interact with the students and teachers and learn more about a CEF school.”
“He really seemed to enjoy the experience and even took time to read
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ur Lady of Unity was honored as the Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann CEF School of Excellence at the annual Gaudeamus gala on Nov. 1 at the Overland Park Convention Center.
CEF also honored Msgr. Thomas Tank for his decades of service to the archdiocese. Deacon Dana and Deborah Nearmyer were honorary chairs, and Lisa and Michael Connor were gala chairs.
The gala raised more than $4.4 million for CEF’s scholarship program, which makes Catholic edu-
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Students and faculty at Our Lady of Unity prepare to greet Archbishop McKnight and a group of leaders from the Catholic Education Foundation, who toured the school on Oct. 15.
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From left, fifth grader Melanie Fernandez, first grader Aranza Montserrat Olivares Sanchez, Lugarda Rodriguez and Lidia Rodriguez perform a dance for the group from CEF.
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First grader Allison Sanchez-Gallegos signs the shape of a heart to Archbishop McKnight, who reciprocates, as Our Lady of Unity principal Cally Dahlstrom looks on.
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Archbishop Shawn McKnight shares a laugh with a group of CEF leaders after reading an excerpt from Jory John’s “The Sour Grape” to a group of third graders at Our Lady of Unity School in Kansas City, Kansas. He visited the CEF School of Excellence on Oct. 15.
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HONORING OUR LADY
Donnelly College held a special consecration of the school to Our Lady of Guadalupe Oct. 22, featuring a Mass and a brief ceremony that reaffirmed the institution’s deep spiritual commitment and cultural connection to the patroness of the Americas. The event honored Our Lady of Guadalupe’s central place especially in the Hispanic Catholic community, and symbolized the college’s embrace of her as a guiding presence in its mission to educate and uplift students from diverse backgrounds.
Catholic education a ‘vehicle for evangelization,’ says super
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Corrections
In the Oct. 17 issue, in the “School counselor’s actions avert a tragedy” story, The Leaven misspelled Ann McGuff’s last name.
In the Oct. 24 issue, in the “Lend a hand to Catholic Charities” story, it should have read: Volunteers are needed for all of our Family Support Centers and our Hope Distribution Center.
Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas’ Family Support Centers, which include food pantries, are located in Atchison, Leavenworth, Lawrence, Overland Park, Olathe, Topeka and Kansas City, Kansas. In addition, the agency operates Hope Distribution Center, a central food distribution warehouse and food pantry.
to students,” Anch continued. “More importantly, the school staff and students were very excited to meet the archbishop.
“You could feel their pride and joy that day.”
Our Lady of Unity has 184 students — all of whom receive some type of scholarship from CEF — and 138 of them are on tax credit scholarships through CEF, said Dahlstrom.
“CEF makes dreams come true,” she said. “Our families would not be able to consider Catholic education without the support of CEF.”
Our Lady of Unity has experienced significant growth in enrollment this past year and made strides in assessment tests and fundraising efforts, said Anch.
Those improvements, along with a deepening of its Catholic identity, earned Our Lady of Unity the School of Excellence award.
Principals apply for the award each year, and schools are graded on categories like academics, catholicity, enrollment management and financial strength.
Staff from CEF and the archdiocesan schools office review the applications, discuss the schools with the best scores, select three finalists and choose a winner.
“The winning school receives a $2,500 scholarship and is recognized at CEF’s annual Gaudeamus gala,” said
The archdiocese currently has 22 CEF schools — 20 grade schools and two high schools.
“Schools are considered CEF schools when their rate of poverty among their students reaches at least 15%,” said Anch.
“Currently, the 22 CEF schools average 40% poverty rates with some reaching over 80%. Our Lady of Unity was over 90% last year.”
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Anch. “The finalists also receive scholarships.”
Cascone said CEF’s ability to offer Catholic education to all families makes it “a vehicle for evangelization.”
“Much like teachers who often never see the full impact they have on a child’s life,” he said, “I am confident that CEF has a profound and life-changing effect on the lives of countless children.”
Cascone believes in the impact Catholic education can have on a child’s future.
“We have had the greatest blessing of hearing many young people share how the very trajectories of their lives have changed due to the partnership of CEF with schools such as Our Lady of Unity,” he said.
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Father Oswaldo Sandoval, pastor of Our Lady of Unity Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, and Archbishop McKnight talk with first grader Aranza Montserrat Olivares Sanchez as superintendent of archdiocesan schools Vince Cascone looks on.
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ALL LIFE IS SACRED
Rosary for Immigrants held in downtown Kansas City
By John Sorce john.sorce@theleaven.org
KANSAS CITY, Mo. — Last month, and across the street from Washington Park here, a woman was left stranded inside the walls of the Kansas City Immigration Court building — her husband dragged from her side.
Janet Schlake, a court watcher and a recently retired Catholic school educator, was an eyewitness. Court watchers observe and document court proceedings to promote transparency and hold the legal system accountable.
Schlake had just been sitting in the waiting room when she noticed two men walk up to a couple who were there for a hearing.
They were asked to go with the men, and the couple looked confused as to what was going on.
“As they were out in the hallway, you could hear scuffling and the wife was crying,” Schlake said. “That was hard to hear.”
It turns out that the U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) had detained the husband on the spot.
The couple is originally from Colombia and were living in St. Louis with their two children. The wife did not speak English or have a driver’s license, so she was stranded by herself in Kansas City.
Schlake recounted this event to some 70 people gathered at Washington Square Park for a Rosary for Immigrants on Oct. 22 across the street from the Immigration Court — the same building where that event took place.
“The biggest message I have from this is the way this woman was treated,” Schlake said. “I’m not sure what her husband did, but I know she didn’t do anything and was just stranded here.”
The rosary was part of a call to action that builds on the binational Mass held at the U.S.-Mexico border in San Luis, Arizona, on Oct. 12 where bishops from both the United States and Mexico called attention to the urgent crisis facing migrants.
Then, as part of a day of witness on the Nov. 13 feast day of St. Frances Xavier Cabrini — the patron saint of migrants — Catholics across the country are called to pray publicly for migrants as part of “One Church, One Family: Catholic Public Witness for Immigrants.”
The Oct. 22 event came together in a partnership of the Archdiocese of
Kansas City in Kansas and the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph.
“One of my mentors, Don Bakely, taught me, ‘When you don’t know where to start, anywhere will do,’” said Deacon Bill Scholl, the consultant for the social justice office of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. “We only had about a week to pull this together, so we thought let’s try this as a dress rehearsal — promoted by word of mouth — so we can be ready for an even bigger turnout on Nov. 13.”
Deacon Scholl noted that a rosary was chosen because it serves as a “nonviolent way of witnessing for the sanctity of life,
and it shows Catholics care for the sacredness of all life and will defend the helpless.”
“Plus, we want to ask for Our Lady’s intercession to bring God’s grace into this situation because that is the only way we are going to resolve the immigration issue,” he added.
Also part of the organizing team is John Gilchrist who with Tom Bickimer were trying to decide on the proper response to Archbishop Shawn McKnight’s pastoral letter on immigration. (See The Leaven, Aug. 22.)
The two then went to Deacon Scholl
IT’S IMPORTANT THAT WE GET PEOPLE IN THIS COMMUNITY TO VISIBLY DEMONSTRATE OUR CATHOLIC FAITH BECAUSE OUR TEACHINGS ARE VERY CLEAR ABOUT THIS ISSUE.
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with the idea of bringing attention to the indiscriminate deportation of immigrants.
“It’s important that we get people in this community to visibly demonstrate our Catholic faith,” Gilchrist said, “because our teachings are very clear about this issue.
“Hopefully, we give Catholics and other Christians the idea that this is what our faith is calling us to do.”
The rosary was recited in both English and Spanish, and a sense of peace could be felt among the crowd.
“That was very powerful,” said Trinidad Molina, program coordinator at Advocates for Immigrant Rights and Reconciliation (AIRR) in Kansas City, Kansas. “There’s such a powerful place Catholics can have on this issue to bring the presence of peace, and everyone in this crowd could feel that peace through the rosary.”
“I can’t tell you how pleased I am to see that we have gotten to this first step,” Gilchrist added. “I’m really hopeful that going forward we can maybe have a couple hundred people at something like this.”
Another rosary will be held at the same location on Nov. 13.
“Our Lord came to set the captives free,” Deacon Scholl said. “It seems right now in this nation, so many of us are chained up by our algorithms. So many of us are stuck in a perception that is fed to us by a computer, and we get into conversations where everyone has their own facts.
“We need to break those chains. We need to learn more about this issue and try to get our friends and neighbors to be open and have eyes to see so that we can come together and fix the problem.”
More information about Catholic Public Witness for Immigrants can be found online at: 1family.us.
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Demonstrators gather at Washington Square Park for a Rosary for Immigrants on Oct. 22 across the street from the Kansas City Immigration Court. About 70 people attended the event. A larger event is being planned for Nov. 13 — the feast day of St. Frances Xavier Cabrini, patron saint of migrants. Catholics across the country are called to pray publicly for migrants as part of “One Church, One Family: Catholic Public Witness for Immigrants.”
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Deacon Bill Scholl, the consultant for the social justice office of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, speaks at the Rosary for Immigrants on Oct. 22 in Washington Square Park in Kansas City, Missouri, across the street from the Immigration Court building.
Catholic Charities responds to potential loss of SNAP benefits
Editor’s note: The following is a statement by Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas.
With basic living expenses rising faster than wages, many Kansans are having to make difficult decisions between buying food for their families and paying utility bills to keep them safely housed. Adding to this already dire situation is the delay and only partial funding of the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP).
SNAP is a lifeline for nearly 42 million individuals, families, those with special needs and seniors across the United States. The program addresses food insecurity by providing eligible individuals with supplemental financial assistance for purchasing food items — an average per household member of $182/month or $5.98/day.
Eligibility for the program is determined based on factors such as income, monthly expenses and household size. Participants receive a benefits card (similar to a debit card) that allows them to purchase a wide variety of nutritional food items from fresh produce to dairy products, meats, poultry, fish and other pantry staples.
SNAP empowers recipients to make nutritious food choices for themselves and their families. Benefits cards may be used at traditional grocery stores and at farmers markets. They can also be used to purchase plants and seeds so that recipients can grow their own vegetables and fruits at home.
A ‘both/and’ issue.
SNAP benefits were distributed as planned in the month of October but those families who rely on these benefits are now highly concerned following the announcement that they will not receive full benefits in November due to the current government shutdown AND beyond, due to the proposed federal funding cuts to the SNAP program overall.
SNAP provides more than $34.4 million to more than 93,000 Kansas households. More than 65% of SNAP participants are in families with children and 44% are working families.
What impact will a delay or disruption on SNAP benefits have in Kansas?
• SNAP provides more than $34.4 million to more than 93,000 Kansas households — nearly 188,000 Kansans who depend on SNAP each month to help feed their families.
• More than 44% of SNAP recipients in Kansas are working families; more than 65% of SNAP participants are in families with children.
How will Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas be affected?
The delay and reduction of SNAP benefits places immense hardship on organizations like Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas who offer supplemental food assistance through our eight food pantries. Last fiscal year alone, Catholic Charities served over
74,000 people, with 16,000 of those coming for assistance for the very first time. The agency distributed over $11.2 million worth of food to hungry individuals and families through food assistance programs.
As SNAP benefits are delayed and reduced, Catholic Charities is prepared to act and offer affected families an additional visit to one of our food pantries. Traditionally, families can only visit once every 30 days.
“Our food pantries rely heavily on donations and are designed to supplement food assistance. Realistically, we can only provide about one meal for every nine meals provided through a safety-net program such as SNAP,” said Lauren Solidum, president and CEO of Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas. “Our concern is how we are going to meet and sustain this increased demand to feed the hungry in our communities.”
How the community can help
• Write or call your local elected officials asking them to continue to support families in need through SNAP.
• Catholic Charities relies on consistent volunteers to assist shoppers in our food pantries throughout our eight locations. Come volunteer with us!
• Donate shelf-stable food items and/ or monetary donations for the purchasing of food items for our food pantries.
• Start a food drive in your neighborhood with a friend or work group. Rallying a group for a little food drive competition among parishes, schools or community organizations is also a great option for those that really want to roll up their sleeves.
• Help share our needs via social media posts.
Go online to: www.catholiccharitiesks. org for more information or give us a call at (913) 433-2100.
Five Boy Scouts earn rank of Eagle
LENEXA — Five young men from Boy Scout Troop 181 of Holy Trinity Parish here received their Eagle Scout awards during a Court of Honor on Oct. 18 at St. James Academy.
The new Eagle Scouts are listed below along with their Eagle project:
Christopher Brune is a member of Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish, Shawnee. Brune constructed a picnic table that is 8 feet long for St. James Academy.
Parker Kreutz is a member of Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa. Kreutz built
benches for Johnson County Parks and Recreation at Big Bull Creek.
Zachary Meiers is a member of Holy Trinity Parish. Meiers led an effort to make 52 blankets for families at the Ronald McDonald House.
Ethan Peak is a member of Holy Trinity Parish. Peak built and installed 28 Noel Guards for bluebird houses at Shawnee Mission Park.
Elijah Taylor is a member of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Taylor made dog toys for an animal shelter using recycled T-shirts.
Dewaine and Mary Ann Heinen, members of St. Monica-St. Elizabeth Parish, Blue Rapids, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 15 with an open house from 2-4 p.m. with family and friends. The couple was married on Nov. 15, 1975, at St. Michael Church, Axtell. Their children are: Holly Chavez, Kyle Heinen and Colby Heinen. They also have four grandchildren.
John L. and Isla Faye (Lierz) Wegman , members of St. Columbkille Parish, Blaine, celebrated their
60th wedding anniversary with family and friends on Aug. 30. The couple was married at Sacred Heart Church in Sabetha on Nov. 6, 1965. Their children are: Lori Ann Ginzel, Cindy Hemman, Tom Wegman and Jolene Fox. They also have 23 grandchildren and three greatgrandchildren.
Martha (Birk) and Larry Schmitt, members of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary on Nov. 13. The couple was married at St. Mary Church in Evansville, Indiana. They will be returning there for a special blessing. The couple will celebrate their anniversary with family and friends on Nov. 8 at a location near where they were married. Their children are: Angela Richards and Brian Schmitt. They also have four grandchildren.
Linn and Elsie (Stuke) Beam, members of St. Francis Xavier Parish, Mayetta, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary with a family luncheon on Nov. 15. The couple was married on Nov. 13, 1965, at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church in Topeka by Father Richard F. Etzel. Their children are: Kevin, Eric and Kathy. They also have eight grandchildren and three great-grandsons.
Harold W. (Bill) and Paula (Moore) Barkman, members of Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with family this past July on Coronado Island. The couple was married Nov. 8, 1975, at St. Robert Bellarmine Church in Omaha, Nebraska. Their children are: Sarah, Michael, Will, Paul, Katharine and Anne. They also have two grandchildren.
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New Eagle Scouts from Boy Scout Troop 181 are: (back row from left) Christopher Brune, Parker Kreutz and Ethan Peak; (front row from left) Zachary Meiers and Elijah Taylor.
Veterans’ scars can range from physical to psychological to moral
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Between 2012 and 2022, an average of 17 veterans took their own lives each day.
Those numbers are official: They come from a 2024 report from the VA.
That same report said the country has lost at least 120,000 veterans by suicide since 2001 — more than total the number of Americans killed in all conflicts since the Vietnam War.
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A Vietnam veteran, Father Anthony Williams left the military in 1975 to enter the seminary, later returning to military service for 10 years as a chaplain prior to rejoining archdiocesan ministry. One challenge, he said, veterans face in their return to civilian life is a loss of closeness that is almost irreplaceable.
“They’re in a close unit, squadrons and so forth, the infantry, too, and they bond,” said Father Williams. “They travel, they have mission goals. . . . They’re always working to give their best in service to their country, and so they bond with military guys who are there.”
Sometimes translating their military training into civilian careers might turn out to be challenging. For example, an Army helicopter pilot might not find a job in civilian society as easily as a mechanic.
There can be relationship issues, too, Father Williams said, in coming back to a family that “may have moved on and done a lot of things without the military member there. Then, he or she comes back and there’s not that relationship.”
Recalling his days in Bahrain, the former chaplain said that once security
police came to the chapel where he was leading Good Friday services. He later learned an airman had jumped off a 10story balcony.
“This guy had gotten a ‘Dear John’ letter from home. And so, he went into his depression and thought the worst and [decided] there’s no reason to live anymore,” he said.
Besides relationship issues, Father Williams said, there’s the actual physical trauma of war for the veteran who has seen action.
He recalled one young man from Iraq whose vehicle was hit by an IED that killed his buddy who was driving.
“[W]hen he got into the hospital, he was basically just almost catatonic. That’s how he was,” he recalled. “I can’t
describe it. He laid there. He couldn’t talk. He was just existing.”
Besides physical injuries and emotional scars, Father Williams explained
veterans often experience regret, remorse and nightmares for years — even decades — later. In particular, the aftermath of the Vietnam War has been
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Ron Quigley, a member of St. Patrick Parish in Corning, served in the Army as a combat medic in the 1990s. On a dreary day in 1996, while preparing to leave Hungary and head into Bosnia, someone snapped this picture of him with an M16 rifle.
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Prior to serving in Vietnam, Roger Adams, the father-in-law of Quigley and a member of St. Patrick Parish in Corning, received basic training in the fall of 1970 at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri. Like his son-inlaw, he served as a combat medic. Adams’ father had also served as a combat medic in World War II.
Father Peter Jaramillo, SSA, pastor of St. Mary-St. Anthony Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, served in Operation Enduring Freedom and was deployed to Camp Bondsteel in Kosovo in 2014.
How to help veterans T
raditional ways for Catholics to honor and support their nation’s military abound. From mentioning deployed service members in the bulletin or in the prayer of the faithful, to planning “Welcome Home” events when they return, there are many ways to show a service member he or she is cherished by their faith community. But a ministry of presence is perhaps even more appreciated by this vulnerable population — and sometimes that takes raising awareness. See below for some suggestions from those who have been there.
1. Avoid prejudging someone who is living on the streets.
It might be a veteran, Father Williams said, who is experiencing homelessness. Buy the individual a sandwich or a cup of coffee instead.
2. Practice nonjudgmental listening.
Gabel said veterans sometimes avoid attending church because they feel guilty for actions taken while they were in the military. “Those are the nightmares, the terrors, the visions they see daily when they close their eyes. They don’t need a church to foster that judgment because they’re already feeling it themselves.”
3. Bridge the gap.
Steve Harmon, a parishioner at Sacred Heart in Emporia, said a good place to start is with the faith. As a traditional soldier and a citizen-soldier, his 38 years of service in the Army and the Kansas National Guard have included overseas service in Afghanistan, Kosovo and Kuwait. “We all know the [Nicene] Creed, and we have the saints and we have prayer, and we have the experience of a shared faith. That’s a huge way to bridge the gap,” he said.
4. Start small and listen.
“Sometimes just starting a benign conversation can segue into a larger conversation. I don’t know how to tell you how to listen for it, but you pick up on stuff,” Quigley said.
Moreover, intentional listening involves asking open-ended questions, being comfortable with pauses and avoiding asking emotionally-triggering questions like how many people did a veteran kill in action.
5. Form a volunteer pool of drivers to take veterans to appointments, the store or Mass.
6. Remember that a kind word or smile can make a difference.
“Research shows if between the time of the idea [to take one’s own life] and the act, if there’s five minutes that you can stop and call someone or someone notices, that is life and death,” Gabel said.
7. Normalize conversations about mental health.
Churches can help by offering mental health training for interested parishioners or inviting in mental health professionals as speakers — especially those trained to serve veterans. In one-on-one conversations with veterans in crisis, don’t shy away from the hard questions, like “Do you have a plan to kill yourself?”
8. Reach out to a veteran’s battle buddies.
“Veterans would much rather speak to a battle buddy than their spouse,” Gabel said.
9. Keep the 988 option 1 handy.
When calling 988, Gabel instructs military personnel and veterans to press 1. That way, they are transferred to a trained clinician with military experience, and that can mean the difference between life and death.
veterans, Father Williams said.
Father Peter Jaramillo, SSA, pastor of St. Mary-St. Anthony Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, agreed.
“The war was a learning point for our country . . . particularly to help our nation to understand these various issues,” he said.
hard on veterans who served there.
During that war, what seemed to be innocent Vietnamese children were sometimes used to kill American servicemen, throwing grenades or shooting at them, leaving soldiers split seconds to decide whether to return fire.
“The soldiers had to do things and see things that were so traumatic and harmful to their psyche,” he said.
“So, coming back with [the memories of] that, when the Vietnam War ended and they came into Washington, D.C., and so forth, they were . . . generally known as baby killers. And that was the welcoming they got coming back into this country.”
That “welcome” didn’t help those
Angie Gabel, a parishioner at Most Pure Heart of Mary in Topeka and a mental health professional who serves guardsmen and veterans, agreed that the military culture has learned much about mental health in recent years.
“It’s OK to not be OK, and it’s OK to seek help, and it’s not a career-ender,” Gabel said. But it has only been in the last decade or so that the military began offering more robust mental health resources.
That’s important, she said, as often veterans don’t want to burden their loved ones, especially if the veteran has seen fire. Veterans need to be surrounded by people who support them.
“If you’re not in an area that absolutely gets it, you are suffering alone. And so, you think about your suffering alone,” she continued. “You isolate. Then, all you have is your thoughts and
That’s why the military works through reintegration processes about two to three months before deployments end.
“And so, what does that mean?” asked Father Peter. “Well, what are some of the circumstances? If you’ve been out of your home environment for a year and you’ve been in a hostile environment, you’ve been geared to respond, react, etc., in a certain way.”
Ron Quigley, a member of St. Patrick Parish in Corning and an Army combat medic in the 1990s, agreed, saying his deployments caused a lot of stress, some of which he carried home.
When he returned home, Quigley said, and would go to restaurants, he’d always sit so that he could see the door.
“You’re checking things in the civilian world that you would do in the military,” he said. “Like, I would tell [my wife] Brenda that I don’t want to go there because it’s what you call a choke point or something like that or a field of fire or whatever.”
Quigley’s father-in-law Roger Adams, also of St. Patrick Parish in Corning, echoed similar thoughts. Adams was also a combat medic in Vietnam.
“Whenever things would start getting intense, somebody would get wounded and I’d have to take care of them,” he recalled. “I kept busy that way and didn’t, you know, think about it.”
Nighttime was different.
“The whole time I was over there at night when I would go to sleep, I would dream about being home,” he added. “When I came home, at night, I started dreaming about being back over there. When I’d wake up, I would recite the 23rd Psalm just to get my mind on something else.”
Retired veterans can sometimes struggle with not only psychological wounds, but with moral injuries as well, said Chaplain (Col.) John Potter, a member of the Kansas Army National Guard and the state command chaplain.
your trauma. You go down those rabbit holes. Then, you add physical pain on top of that with medical concerns.
“It’s all just a disaster waiting to happen.”
A chaplain in the Kansas Army National Guard for 20 years, Father Peter was deployed three times, serving in Germany, Iraq and Kosovo. He, too, said military culture has shifted with regard to mental health.
While deployed, he said, soldiers can experience loneliness, hopelessness, helplessness and guilt, among other emotions. They might be trying to navigate personal situations, too.
For example, a soldier’s marriage might be in crisis, but that doesn’t stop the deployment. Meanwhile, maybe the soldier’s mother is dying, too.
“We really need to be aware, and command [staff] needs to know, what’s going on because [soldiers have] got a lot on their shoulders,” he said. “They’re going to go into a danger zone. They’re going to be asked to defend the nation and they’re going to carry a weapon.”
While the military trains everyone on suicide prevention, some challenges don’t surface until veterans return home.
“A moral injury could be just carrying out an order that you had doubts or questions about,” he said. “It could be someone in a tank who’s told to fire, you know — to shoot a building because there’s a sniper on the roof. And he said, ‘Is the building clear?’ ‘Yes, no one’s there.’
“But then, you find out later that there may have been a family or kids playing in the building. So that could cause a moral injury. You’re just following orders, you did what you were told to, but you had no idea what the consequences may have been.”
Besides moral injuries, the chaplain said, there’s broken relationships, the death of loved ones, job losses and financial woes. A loss of mission or purpose, along with social connections, can compound the situation. Retiring veterans have to look for housing, jobs and belonging in ways that they’re not used to.
Adams agreed.
“When you retire,” he said, “you have more time to think. . . . I think that’s why you see a lot of alcoholism and drug use in veterans — so they can probably forget it.
“I think one thing that helped me is that I stayed in the Army four years after I got home and I was around people that had been through what I had. We used to sit and talk. And you know, that helped quite a bit.
“The worst thing a veteran can do is to keep it inside of himself.”
Left, Father Anthony Williams was a captain in the U.S. Air Force. In November 1994, he found himself in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, as part of Operation Uphold Democracy, an intervention designed to remove the military regime led by Raoul Cédras after the 1991 coup d’etat overthrew the elected President Jean-Bertrand Aristide.
Philly parish hands out food hours ahead of SNAP suspension
PHILADELPHIA (OSV News) — Volunteers were out in force at one Philadelphia parish Oct. 31 distributing food hours ahead of a funding lapse for a federal food aid program that serves millions — and helping those in need with a mix of determination and disbelief over the federal aid program’s looming suspension.
“They were calling the parish school to find out about this today,” said Joyce Ramsey, a longtime volunteer at the St. Benedict Church food pantry, part of St. Athanasius Parish in Philadelphia. The ministry saw an uptick in new clients as SNAP — the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program — was set to be suspended Nov. 1 amid the ongoing federal government shutdown. Speaking to OSV News on Oct. 29, St. Athanasius pastor Father Joseph Okonski — who oversaw the Oct. 31 distribution at St. Benedict — said that regular deliveries from the pantry’s main partnering food bank have shrunk due to cutbacks, tariffs and the federal government shutdown.
He also noted that a number of clients at the food pantry were reluctant
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Anthony, a volunteer at the St. Benedict Church food pantry in Philadelphia, hands out dried fruit to a client during an Oct. 31 distribution that took place hours ahead of the scheduled Nov. 1 lapse in funding for SNAP, the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, amid the federal government shutdown.
to speak with OSV News directly, due to fear of possible immigration detention. Yet amid the frustration and concern they expressed, the priest and his volunteer team pointed to
the joy of serving others in need.
“It’s a blessing, just helping people,” said a volunteer named Tina. “I can’t help everybody, but I would try if I could.”
Illinois Catholics appeal to governor after suicide bill passes
SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (OSV News) — Illinois Catholics and prolife advocates have turned their sights on Illinois Gov. JB Pritzker’s office after the state Senate in the early hours of Oct. 31 narrowly voted to legalize physicianassisted suicide.
The bill’s passage puts Illinois on track to being the 12th state, plus the District of Columbia, to have such a law.
“With all the assaults on human dignity and the growing number of vulnerable people we see every day, sadly the leaders and members of the General Assembly who voted for this, offer us suicide as its response,” said the Catholic Conference of Illinois in a statement.
The conference said it asked the governor “not only to veto this bill in totality, but also to address humanely the reasons why some view assisted suicide as their only option and to heed the impact of similar legislation on other states and nations.”
Robert Gilligan, the conference’s executive director, said his office is planning next steps with Pritzker “to make sure that we still have one, final chance at stopping this from becoming law.” Pritzker has 60 days to act (sign, veto or leave untouched, which results in automatic enactment) after receiving the bill.
New shepherd of Missouri diocese resolves to serve God and his people with gladness
JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. (OSV News) — Bells rang, incense billowed and Bishop Ralph B. O’Donnell let out a sigh, smiled at heaven and signed himself with the cross. His time as shepherd of the Diocese of Jefferson City was about to begin.
“In this Jubilee Year of Hope, Bishop O’Donnell and the people of this diocese now set out together as pilgrims of hope, trusting in the faithful love of God, who never abandons his church,” stated Cardinal Christophe Pierre, apostolic nuncio to the United States, at Bishop O’Donnell’s ordination and
installation Oct. 28.
Archbishop Mitchell T. Rozanski of St. Louis consecrated Bishop O’Donnell, with coconsecrators Archbishop Shawn McKnight of Kansas City in Kansas, formerly of Jefferson City, and Archbishop Michael G. McGovern of Omaha, Nebraska, the new bishop’s home archdiocese.
Bishop O’Donnell previously served as executive director for the Secretariat for Clergy, Consecrated Life and Vocations at the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops in Washington.
OSV NEWS PHOTO/DAN BERNSKOETTER PHOTOGRAPHY, COURTESY DIOCESE OF JEFFERSON CITY
Archbishop Shawn McKnight of Kansas City in Kansas, formerly bishop of Jefferson City, Missouri, imposes hands on his successor Bishop-designate Ralph B. O’Donnell, during his ordination and installation Mass at the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Jefferson City on Oct. 28. Bishop O’Donnell, who previously served as pastor of St. Margaret Mary Parish in Omaha, Nebraska, became the fifth bishop of Jefferson City.
OLDE WORLD CHRISTMAS
Strawberry Hill Museum
720 N. 4th St., Kansas City, Kansas
Nov. 7 to early January
Come see beautiful Christmas decorations and learn some of Strawberry Hill’s story at our historic location that overlooks downtown Kansas City. The museum is open for guided tours. Tickets are available online at: strawberryhillmuseum.org.
IGNATIUS BOOK FAIR
Corpus Christi School
6001 Bob Billings Pkwy., Lawrence
Nov. 5 through 9
Join us for our first Ignatius Book Fair. The book fair provides Catholic books and wholesome kids’ titles for students ages pre-K to eighth grade. It will be held in the school library. For information on how to shop in person or online, go to: cccs ignatiusbookfair.my.canva.site.
ICARE MINISTRIES MASS
Queen of the Holy Rosary
7023 W. 71st St., Overland Park
Nov. 8 and Nov. 22 at 6 p.m.
iCare ministries provides two adapted Mass opportunities per month for children and adults with developmental disabilities and their families. Send an email to: icarenek@gmail.com with questions. Visit the website at: icare-ministries.org for more information about this and other activities.
JUBILEE PILGRIMAGE
Sacred Heart Church
1405 2nd Ave., Leavenworth
Nov. 8 from 3 to 6 p.m.
Receive a plenary indulgence at this pilgrimage. Confessions will be from 3 to 4 p.m.; Mass and prayer for the pope is at 4:30 p.m. Light refreshments will be served in the hall.
SHAMROCK FUNDRAISING EVENT
St. Patrick Parish (center)
1080 N. 94th St., Kansas City, Kansas
Nov. 8 from 6 to 10 p.m.
Join us for dinner, drinks, music and an auction. Funds raised will be used for facility updates and student scholarships at the school. All are welcome to attend. Go online to: stpatrickkck.org/shamrocks-event for tickets and partnership opportunities.
LEAD WITH CONFIDENCE WORKSHOP
St. Ann Church
7231 Mission Rd., Prairie Village
Nov. 8 at 8:30 a.m.
This workshop, led by Father Daniel Brandenburg, includes Mass, a keynote address, two breakout sessions, discussion and closing address. The cost of $25 includes breakfast, lunch and snacks. To register, send an email to: janepeck1@gmail.com.
BINGO AND CHILI NIGHT
Holy Family Church
513 Ohio St., Kansas City, Kansas Nov. 8 at 5 p.m.
Join us for bingo and chili dinner! Each ticket includes one bingo card, chili and dessert. Dinner is served until 6:15 p.m.; bingo starts 6:30 p.m. Reserve in advance for $15 by calling (913) 413-0022. Drinks are available to purchase from the Holy Family Social Club. This is a 21+ only event.
CRAFT FAIR
Holy Angels Church
15408 Leavenworth Rd., Basehor
Nov. 8 from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.
There is free admission, food will be available for purchase and 25 vendors will be present. This is open to the public.
FORGIVENESS PRESENTATION
Holy Angels Church (St. Rose School)
530 E. 4th Ave., Garnett
Nov. 8 from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.
This presentation provides tools to help you or someone you know reach peace through healing. The class is free and open to all. Register with Pat Carter at (785) 220-0757 or online at: pcarter1223@ gmail.com.
PARISH MISSION: JON LEONETTI
Mother Teresa of Calcutta Church
2014 N.W. 46th St., Topeka
Nov. 9 & 10 from 6:30 to 8 p.m.
Jon Leonetti will help us close the gap between the Gospel and our everyday lives. Child care will be provided for children in second grade and younger. Register online at: mtcctopeka.org. Refreshments will be served in the parish hall each night after Leonetti’s talk.
FALL BAZAAR
Mater Dei School (gym)
934 S.W. Clay St., Topeka
Nov. 8 & 9 from 6 to 9 p.m.
Join us for a free family-friendly event with live music, live auction, concession stand, soft drinks and alcohol available for purchase.
OUR LADY OF UNITY CASH RAFFLE
Sacred Heart Church
2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, Kansas
Nov. 9 after 9:30 a.m. Mass
The drawing will occur after Mass. Tickets are $10 each. First place is: $1,500; second place: $1,000; and third place: $500. Call Sherry (913) 207-0900 for more information.
BASKETBALL GAME FUNDRAISER
University of Saint Mary Campus
(Ryan Sports Center)
4100 S. 4th St., Leavenworth
Nov. 9 at 2:30 p.m.
Cheer on the Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth as they play Granny Basketball against the Kansas Meadowlarks. Granny Basketball is a version of the game where players must follow 1920s-era rules. Entry is by donation. There will be concessions, a 50/50 raffle and more. All proceeds go to the Guardian Angel Fund, which supports USM students in financial need. Visit the website at: stmary.edu/scholarships/ angel-fund to donate.
TURKEY DINNER
Mater Dei Event Center
1114 S.W. 10th Ave., Topeka
Nov. 9 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Cost is $15 for adults; $8 for children 6 to 12 years old; children 5 and under eat free. There will be booths, a silent auction, homemade market, wheel of fortune, cakewalk, bake shop and children’s games. Raffle tickets will be available for purchase.
BREAKFAST WITH THE KNIGHTS
Divine Mercy Church
555 W. Main St., Gardner
Nov. 9 from 8:30 to 10 a.m.
Breakfast will include eggs, sausage, biscuits and gravy, pancakes, waffles and drinks. Join us for great fellowship. The cost is $6 for those over the age of 13 and free for ages 12 and under. Proceeds are used for charitable works, such as scholarships and other giving throughout the year.
FALL FESTIVAL
St. Matthew Church
2700 S.E. Virginia Ave., Topeka
Nov. 9 from 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.
A traditional turkey dinner costs: $15 for adults; $7 for children ages 3-10; and free for children 2 and under. The meal includes turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy, sweet potatoes, green beans, cranberry salad, coleslaw, roll and dessert. There will also be bingo, a silent auction, baked goods, religious items, cake spin and more. For more info, visit the website at: www.saintmatthews.org.
HOPS AND DROPS BENEFIT
Boulevard Brewery
2501 Southwest Blvd, Kansas City, Missouri
Nov. 11 from 6 to 9 p.m.
The dinner and auction will benefit the Redemptorist Social Services Center. Go online to: redemptoristcenter.org for tickets and details.
COFFEE AND TOUR
reStart Inc.
918 E. 9th St., Kansas City, Missouri
Nov. 13 at 10 a.m.
Come for coffee, conversation and a tour of reStart Inc. every second Thursday of the month at 10 a.m. This is an opportunity to meet reStart team members, tour our interim housing location and learn more about responding to homelessness in the local Kansas City metro area. Send an RSVP to: www.restartinc.org/coffee-andconversation-form.
ENCOUNTER SCHOOL OF HEALING
Sacred Heart of Jesus Church 5501 Monticello Rd., Shawnee
Nov. 14 from 6 to 9 p.m.
Nov. 15 from 8 a.m. to 10 p.m.
The Encounter School of Healing will teach you to partner with the Holy Spirit to experience healing miracles. Jesus’ healing ministry is at the heart of his Gospel of power and he expects his disciples to minister his healing on the earth (Mk 16:15-20).
Come experience the greater works Jesus has in store for you. Information and registration are online at: EncounterKC.com.
BEREAVEMENT MEETING
Curé of Ars Church (Father Burak Room) 9405 Mission Rd., Leawood Nov. 15 at 8:30 a.m.
The bereavement ministry will have a grief support meeting after morning Mass. The topic will be “Grief and Giving Thanks.” For more information, call (913) 649-2026.
FORGIVENESS PRESENTATION
Mother Teresa of Calcutta Church (hall)
2014 N.W. 46th St., Topeka Nov. 15 from 9 to 11 a.m.
This presentation provides tools to help you or someone you know reach peace through healing. The class is free and open to all. Register with Pat Carter at (785) 2200757 or by email at: pcarter1223@gmail.com.
‘A NIGHT AT THE OSCARS’ DANCE
Camelot Dance Studio 6635 W. 151st St., Overland Park Nov. 15 from 7 to 11 p.m.
Couples and singles are invited, no partner necessary. There will be line dancing, ballroom dancing and freestyle dancing with a DJ. Come as your favorite movie star or just dress casual. This event is sponsored by the Over 59 Meetup Group, Singles of Nativity Church Group and more. The cost is $20 per person. There is also a cash bar and hors d’oeuvres.
HOLY ROSARY RALLY
St. Mary-St. Anthony Church
615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kansas Nov. 16 from 3 to 4:15 p.m.
Join us to honor Our Lady of Fatima. We will pray the joyful, sorrowful and glorious mysteries of the rosary followed by Benediction and the opportunity for attendees to enroll in the brown scapular. For driving instructions or future dates for the Kansas City monthly rosary rallies, visit the website at: www.rosaryrallieskc.org.
ANNUAL GOLUMBKI DINNER
St. Casimir Church (hall) 715 Pennsylvania, Leavenworth Nov. 16 from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.
The cost is $14 for adults; $6 for children (12 and under). Dinner includes golumbki cabbage roll (or optional meatloaf), mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans, red sauce if desired, drink and dessert. This event is sponsored by the St. Casimir Men’s Society.
WIDOWED WOMEN OF FAITH LUNCH
Perkins (back room)
1720 S.W. Wanamaker Rd., Topeka Nov. 18 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Join other “Widowed Women of Faith” for lunch and companionship. No RSVP is needed; just come and invite others. We meet every month on the third Tuesday and will continue all through 2025. Questions? Send an email to: WidowedWomen ofFaith@gmail.com or call Julie at (913) 558-0191.
TAX STRATEGY LUNCH
Mater Dei Church (event center)
1114 S.W. 10th Ave., Topeka Nov. 19 from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Speaker Bill Eckert, AEP, CAP, will share how to sell appreciated assets tax free and increase your income with charitable giving tax strategies. Lunch will be provided at no cost. Register online at: cfnek.org/ events; send an email to: cfnek@archkck. org; or call (913) 647-3062.
CRAFT AND BAKE SALE
Mother Teresa of Calcutta Church (hall)
2014 N.W. 46th St., Topeka Nov. 20 and 21 from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.
There will be handmade gifts and decor for the holidays, plus jams, jellies and baked goods. Buy chances for the Christmas quilted throw raffle. Soups and cinnamon rolls will be available for lunch.
WILLIAM BAKER FESTIVAL SINGERS Church of the Nativity
3800 W. 119th St., Leawood Nov. 21 at 7:30 p.m.
Join us for this Thanksgiving Concert for Human Need. All proceeds will benefit Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas. This one-hour concert features favorite classics and spirituals by Kansas City’s beloved a capella choir. Donations will be gratefully accepted.
DEATH PENALTY REPEAL PANEL
Johnson County Community College Hudson Auditorium
11190 Quivira Rd., Overland Park Nov. 22 from 1 to 3:30 p.m.
Panelists include Krisanne Vallancourt Murphy (Catholic Mobilizing Network), Nan Tolson (Texas Conservatives Concerned) and Rep. Bill Sutton, R-District 43. This is a free event. Persons may attend in-person or register for a virtual link at: ksabolition. org. For more info, send an email to: info@ ksabolition.org or call (785) 235-2237.
TAMALE SALE
Our Lady of Unity Church 2910 Strong Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Nov. 22 from 6 to 8 p.m.
The cost is $20 per dozen for pork with red sauce and chicken with green sauce tamales. Pre-orders and pickup only; pay by cash or card. Call or text Sherry at (913) 207-0900 to order.
ST. CECILIA FESTIVAL
Immaculate Conception Cathedral
416 W. 12th St., Kansas City, Missouri Nov. 23 at 4 p.m.
The festival is sponsored by the Kansas City, Kansas, and the Kansas City-St. Joseph, Missouri, chapters of the National Association of Pastoral Musicians. It will feature choirs and instrumentalists from both dioceses. The festival is free and open to the public. A complimentary meal will follow the festival.
EMPLOYMENT
Office property manager - Edwardsville Court Apartments is seeking an office property manager. We are willing to train you. Inquiries, please call (913) 441-6007.
Teachers - St. Joseph Early Education Center is seeking passionate and dedicated teachers to join our team. The ideal candidates should have experience working with early childhood children and possess a strong background in child welfare, education, development, and be enthusiastic about creating a nurturing learning environment for young learners. Interested individuals should apply on the St. Joseph website or email/call Kristan Mora at: kmora@stjoe shawnee.org or (913) 631-0004.
Vice president of mission education and community engagement - Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas has an opening for a vice president of mission education and community engagement. As a member of the executive team, the vice president requires a robust combination of theological and ethical knowledge, an understanding of political systems and familiarity with the institutional structure of the Roman Catholic Church. This expertise is necessary to effectively translate Catholic social teachings into practical and impactful employee, volunteer and community education and formation activities as well as policy advocacy. The vice president provides collaborative, strategic partnership to other ministry-wide functions and key initiatives including, but not limited to, new hire employee and volunteer formation; volunteer recruitment; advocacy; and poverty education. The vice president coordinates and participates in the agency’s ongoing relationships with parishes, other Catholic organizations, civic organizations, businesses and interfaith groups who share a commitment to social justice. The vice president is directly responsible for increasing the volume of volunteers and other outreach activities like food drives through the building of external partnerships to mobilize others into the mission of Catholic Charities. Please go to: https://catholiccharitiesks.org/ careers/ for more information.
Parish business accountant - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas has an immediate opening for a parish business accountant, who is responsible for all aspects of the accounting for parish and school business: monthly accounting processing, including accounts payable; payroll; and reconciling balance sheet accounts. The position is full-time based on 40 hours per week and benefits-eligible, with a flexible schedule. This position is on-site in the chancery office. Please visit “Employment Opportunities” on the archdiocesan website for more info or to apply.
Parish office manager - St. Pius X Church in Mission is seeking to hire a parish office manager. This position will maintain accurate parishioner information; undertake sacramental coordination; manage office operations, calendars and events; provide administrative support; and be responsible for accurate and timely collection and recording of all parish revenue. A minimum of five years’ experience in an office environment, including staff management, preferred. Intermediate skill levels in office software products, Google products and database management is required. Visit: archkck.org, click “Employment Opportunities” and select “Chancery” to apply.
Music director – Come work to change lives through sung prayer! St. Joseph Catholic Parish in Shawnee is a dynamic, growing suburban Kansas City parish with many support groups for children, young adults and families. The director of music ministry leads and develops a robust program of choirs, cantors and professional keyboardists who minister at five weekend Masses. Strong choral, vocal, keyboard, liturgical, people and administrative skills are desired, but we will consider candidates with a solid music background willing to learn and grow. Contact: mthomas@stjoeshawnee.org.
Gift planning consultant - The Catholic Foundation of Northeast Kansas is seeking to hire a gift planning consultant. This position will build and maintain relationships with pastors, individual donors and professional advisers. A minimum of three years’ relevant work experience in professional management, planning and administering fundraising programs is preferred. Please visit “Employment Opportunities” on the Catholic Foundation of Northeast Kansas website for more and to apply.
Nurse manager - Full-time (32 hours/week), on-site in Overland Park. At Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, we know the heartbeat of compassionate care begins with those who lead it. We’re looking for a nurse manager — someone who brings not only strong clinical expertise, but the calm confidence and care it takes to lead a medical team with excellence, grace and purpose. This role isn’t just about doing the work of nursing — it’s about leading those who do. It’s about creating a steady, professional and peaceful atmosphere for both clients and staff. You’ll be the go-to for clinical operations, ensuring our services meet the highest standards of care, while also mentoring and supporting the nurses who serve on the front lines every day. This is a leadership role for the nurse who sees their calling not only in client care, but in caring for the caregivers. About you: You’re a licensed RN with a BSN and experience managing a nursing team. You’re organized, clear-headed and calm in busy or sensitive situations. You love supporting and developing others — especially in a mission-driven setting. You bring both high standards and a gentle spirit to your leadership. You’re passionate about walking with women in tender, life-changing moments. You’re a person of faith who leads from a place of humility and integrity. Send resumes to: AndreaC@twolineskc.com.
Birthright director - Birthright of Leavenworth is seeking to hire a new director. This part-time paid position requires approximately 20-25 hours per month with flexible scheduling. Our director must be pro-life and have a heart for loving service to pregnant women and families in challenging situations. Responsibilities include recruiting, training, and supporting volunteers and organizing and overseeing all operations of the center under the guidance of the board of directors. The director also maintains contact with the Birthright regional consultant, Birthright USA, and Birthright International and attends regional meetings and the international convention. Our charitable 501(c)(3) organization has provided compassionate, nonjudgmental care at no cost to pregnant women and families in our community for nearly 40 years. Please see our website at: birthrightleavenworth.org, to learn more about who we are. If you are a person who leads with love and needs more information, send an email to: birthrightks@gmail.com or call Margaret at (913) 991-7660.
Client intake coordinator - At Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic, we believe in unexpected care — the kind that shows up with compassion, insight and love when someone needs it most. We’re a faith-driven organization committed to serving women and families with dignity, excellence and hope. We’re currently seeking a client intake coordinator to join our team in Leawood. If you thrive in a fast-paced, meaningful environment where your work makes a tangible difference, this may be the opportunity you’ve been praying for. In this role, you’ll be at the heart of our client experience. You’ll welcome clients, guide them through the intake process and help ensure that every woman and family who walks through our doors is met with excellence, dignity and care. Key responsibilities: Greet and guide clients through their initial visit. Manage intake forms and scheduling with accuracy and care. Maintain a peaceful, professional and welcoming environment. Collaborate with team members to ensure seamless client services. Uphold the values and mission of Two Lines Pregnancy Clinic in every interaction. Ideal candidate: Strong interpersonal and communication skills. Highly organized and able to multitask in a dynamic setting. Compassionate, calm and confident under pressure. Experience in client services, ministry, or administrative roles is a plus. Bilingual a plus. A heart for serving others and a commitment to our faith-based mission. If you’re passionate about making a difference and want to be part of a team that shows up with love every day, we’d love to hear from you. To apply, email resume and cover letter to: AndreaC@ twolineskc.com.
Associate director of music - The Church of the Nativity Parish and School in Leawood seek a full-time associate director of music to join our team. The associate director of music collaborates with the director of music and our pastor to oversee the liturgical life of the parish and lead our community in song at Masses, sacramental celebrations and other liturgies and parish events. A deep love of Jesus Christ and an authentic desire to support our community’s full, conscious and active participation in the liturgy animate the ministry carried out by the associate director of music. Qualified candidates will possess strong organ and piano accompaniment ability, experience working with cantors and choirs, outstanding communication skills, a passion for excellence and a desire to collaborate with the director of music in all areas of the music ministry program. Competitive salary and benefits are offered commensurate with experience. For a full job description and application instructions, please visit: https://kcnativity.org/ employment-music-ministry.
In-home care assistant - We are looking for an engaging in-home caregiver for our son with special needs in western Shawnee. He loves music, interacting with others, reading books and is learning new life skills. Help needed on Wednesday and Friday evenings and on weekends at $17/hr. Please call (785) 393-1589.
Catholic elementary school principal - St. Matthew School in Topeka is seeking a dynamic and visionary leader with a passion for Catholic education. The principal will continue the school’s tradition of forming disciples, pursuing academic excellence and spiritual growth. The principal will lead by example and inspire a team of dedicated faculty and staff. Applicants must have or be eligible for Kansas licensure in educational leadership. Apply online at: archkckcs. org/apply. For more information, contact Vince Cascone at: vcascone@archkckcs.org.
Catholic financial planners - The Knights of Columbus Mahon Agency has openings throughout all of NE Kansas and western Missouri, including Kansas City, Topeka, Holton, Wamego, Lawrence, Gardner, Liberty and Chillicothe. We have much to offer professional, disciplined and determined men who would like to share needed life insurance, disability income, longterm care and annuity products with other Catholics. This is a full-time position with excellent, multi-tiered training and benefits, allowing the successful field agent to earn a professional level income. It’s an exciting career opportunity that may be the right fit at the right time for you, or someone you know. For more information, contact John Mahon at (785) 4088800, or john.mahon@kofc.org.
Staff job openings - Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kansas, a Catholic college offering higher education for those who may not otherwise be served. Job openings: English literacy instructor - P.A.S.S. (Preparing Academically Successful Students) - part-time. Find job descriptions and details at: www.donnelly.edu/careers.
Administrative assistant - COME JOIN OUR TEAM!
A small family-owned company located in Lenexa is looking for an assistant to answer phones, invoicing, vendor relations, some shipping/receiving and assist in the sales process. We need a team member who is organized, detail-oriented, self-motivated, trustworthy, has a positive attitude and, above all else, gives excellent customer service. Schedule flexibility. Send your resume to: YourCareer101@gmail.com or call (913) 6313000. Please call me with any questions.
Faculty and adjunct faculty job openings - Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kansas, is a Catholic college offering higher education for those who may not otherwise be served Faculty job openings - Nursing faculty, full-time evenings; nursing faculty, full-time M - F. Adjunct faculty job openings - Adjunct instructor nursing; Adjunct instructor Accounting; clinical adjunct instructor - nursing; - P.A.S.S. (Preparing Academically Successful Students) - part time. Adjunct faculty Lansing Correctional Campus - Adjunct instructor - math; adjunct instructor - accounting; clinical adjunct instructor - Find job descriptions and details at: www.donnelly.edu/careers.
Principal - Lead a school where hearts meet the heart of Jesus! Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish school in Shawnee, a vibrant Catholic pre-K-8th grade school of 400 students, is seeking a faith-filled, mission-driven principal to lead our community in partnership with the pastor and parish and school leadership teams. Rooted in our parish mission to put hearts on a collision-course with the Sacred Heart of Jesus and guided by our five foundation stones — eucharistic encounters, reconciliation, Scripture, fasting and the rosary — our school exists to form students in spiritual maturity, academic excellence and a life of joyful service. We strive to live our core values of being unapologetically Catholic, showing grit and serving as joyful servants. If you are ready to inspire faith, lead with vision, drive cultural change and form the next generation of saints and scholars, we invite you to apply at this link: http://archkckcs.org/apply. Full job description can be found at: https://shoj.org/ employment-opportunities.
Caregivers needed - Daughters & Company is looking for compassionate caregivers to provide assistance to seniors in their home, assisted living or in a skilled nursing facility. We provide sitter services, light housekeeping and light meal preparation, organizational assistance, care management and occasional transportation for our clients. We need caregivers with reliable transportation and a cellphone for communication. We typically employ on a part-time basis, but will strive to match hours desired. Contact Gary or Laurie at (913) 341-2500 if you want to become part of an excellent caregiving team.
Small equipment cleaning/repair - A locally owned family business is currently seeking part-time candidates to provide cleaning and repair services on microscopes. Expenses paid, work done in the field and each day is different! No previous experience necessary, on-the-job training provided. Needs to be detail-oriented team player, with good time management and customer service skills. Some travel with the team is required. Please contact us at: techneeded23@gmail.com or call (913) 631-3000.
SERVICES
Pure Touch Cleaning KC - Bringing warmth and comfort back into your home this winter! Locally owned • Women-led • Family-based care you can trust. Deep cleans • Regular maintenance • Move-in/out • Holiday prep. Call/text: Owner Nicole (913) 999-6267. Let us make your home feel fresh, cozy and ready for the season.
Pro Force Property Cleanout Services — Full home and property cleanouts: furniture, appliances, trash. Yard cleanup including trees or any debris. We do eviction or foreclosure cleanouts, move in, move out. Cleanouts throughout the Greater Kansas City area. Call Michael at (913) 565-5206 or email: MichaelMcMahan012@gmail.com.
Joe’s Decks & More Deck and fence repair, mowing and handyman services Member of St. Joseph in Shawnee (913) 449-9848
Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. Landscaping Design or Renovate! Light tree trimming/gutters Fall cleanup/leaf removal Free estimates; local parishioners. Call Charles or Emily (913) 605-8145.
Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, licensed clinical professional counselor, at (913) 909-2002.
Double A’s Lawn Service Lawn mowing, Mulching, Gutters, Leaf Removal Brush Removal & Hedge Trimming Free Estimates & Insured Alex Spoerre (913) 488-5195
Two men and a brush - Refresh, repaint, renew your home with painting you can trust! Call for a free estimate on your house, deck or fence! Call John at (402) 763-7244.
FREE CATHOLIC FAMILY EDUCATION
Pre-K to 12 classical Catholic philosophy St. Augustine’s “Confessions” and more. Please text (913) 259-4553.
Popcorn ceiling texture removal Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144. 30 years’ experience. Interior painting specialist. Member St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Jack Harrison Heating & Air Conditioning - Proudly serving Johnson County, Kansas, parts of KCK and KCMO, we’re your trusted local experts in residential and light commercial HVAC. Whether you need a repair, seasonal tuneup or full system replacement, we’ve got you covered — with honest advice, quality work and friendly service. We’re a family-owned and operated company, rooted in the community as members of St. Paul Parish in Olathe. Call Jack Harrison Heating & Air today at (913) 308-3131 or visit: www. JackHarrisonAir.com to schedule online. Let our family take care of yours!
Memory quilts - Preserve your memories in a keepsake quality quilt, pillows, etc. Custom designed from your T-shirt collection, baby clothes, sports memorabilia, neckties . . . Quilted Memories. (913) 649-2704.
GARAGE DOOR REPAIR EXPERTS New Garage Doors & Openers
A Total Door, Inc. Since ’83. Leaven Discount buffy@atotaldoor.com or (913) 236-6440 www.atotaldoor.com
!!Early 2025 painting discount!! - At Stone Painting we offer interior and exterior house painting services. Check out our work at: www.stonepaintingkc.com.
MIKE HAMMER MOVING - A full-service mover. Local and long-distance moving. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload. In-home moving and office moves. No job too small. Serving the KC metro since 1987. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee, parishioner. Call the office at (913) 927-4347 or email: mike@mikehammermoving.com.
TOTAL HOME REPAIR All aspects of interior home repairs. Retired master plumber. Professional interior painting, general repairs, tile work. Handyman services. Lifetime of experience. Army veteran. Ascension parishioner. (913) 488-4930
HOME IMPROVEMENT
Haus to Home Remodeling - Transform your space with affordable remodeling done right. Bathrooms, basements and everything in between — crafted with honesty and quality. Family-owned with free estimates. Haustohomekc.com | Cole (913) 544-7352.
Shepaint Cabinets - Looking for a stunning, high-quality cabinet transformation? Shepaint Cabinets is a women-owned and operated business. I bring precision, passion and a personal touch to every project. Detail-driven service with a personal touch, reliable, efficient and customer-focused. Your dream kitchen is just a coat of paint away! Call/text (816) 806-4375 for a free quote. Let’s create something beautiful together! Father and Son Home Remodeling - We specialize in kitchen/bathroom and basement remodeling, from start to finish. We also do decks, covered decks, porches, sun-rooms and room additions! If you’re not sure we do it, just call. From my family to yours, thank you for supporting my small business. To contact me, call (913) 709-7230 and ask for Josh.
FOR RENT
For rent - Brothers Share House/Transport. 10 min. walk to St. Paul, Olathe. Bed $500/mo. Text (913) 2594553.
FOR SALE
Small farm/business operation opportunity - STA Home Repair is moving to another state. Looking to sell property and business assets: 1955 Oregon Road, Princeton, Kansas. 3 buildings, 1 Barndo/Shop, RV hookups – 200 Amp service with portable heat and AC – office, kitchen area – 10-foot garage door and entry door, 1 cabin with wood stove and AC/shop, 1 pole barn, 2 sinks, 1 shower, 1 toilet, stocked pond, boat and equipment storage over half fenced, multiple gardens, minifarm, bring the horses. Great for contractor with trailers, 25-30 minutes to Gardner or intermodal facility; 35-40 minutes to Olathe and Overland Park; and less than 10 minutes to Ottawa. Close to the Hillsdale and Pomona lakes. Asking $290,000. Cash and/ or pre-approved financing. Showing by appointment only. Text name and number to (913) 579-1835.
For sale - Single plot for sale at Resurrection Cemetery 83rd and Quivira, Lenexa. Fee of $250 waved for transfer which will be paid by owner. Lot is in Queen of Heaven. Price drop also to $1800. Contact Jody at: jagstanton@gmail.com or (816) 591-0826.
For sale - Two cemetery plots at Johnson County Memorial Gardens in the Garden of Apostles, lot 213, spaces 1 and 2. Valued at $9750, asking $3750 per lot for a total of $7500 or best offer. Call Bailey at (913) 449-4699.
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For sale - Single plot in beautiful area, of Mt. Calvary, KCK. Section 9, lot 21, space 3. Valued at $2395, asking $1750. I pay $250 conveyance fee. Contact Ann at (913) 530-3490.
Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC)
For sale - Single plot at Gate of Heaven, KCK: Saint Gabriel, lot 74B, space 4. Prime location, asking $2,845. Includes transfer fee! Text Michael at (913) 424-4409 (please no calls) or email: mtaylor65020@aol.com.
For sale - Two plots in Resurrection North Cemetery, off of Cookingham Rd., in Kansas City, Missouri. Both plots are located in the Annunciation Garden, lot 185, section D, spaces 3 and 4. Beautiful location, shaded area with benches close by and easy access from the cemetery road. Value is $2095 each, selling both for $4000, which includes perpetual care. Please contact Chuck at (816) 519-9288 and leave a voicemail. I will return your call within the same day.
PILGRIMAGE
Mexico City Pilgrimage — Join Archbishop Emeritus Joseph F. Naumann on pilgrimage to Mexico City Feb. 27 to March 2, 2026. Four-day, life-changing experience! Stand before the miraculous image created by God on St. Juan Diego’s tilma at the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe and visit the Sisters of Mary Girlstown, where faith and education transform lives. Limited space! Register by Jan. 30 at: https://world villages.org/events/naumann/. Email: pilgrimages@ worldvillages.org or call 1 (800) 662-6316.
European pilgrimage - March 15-25, 2026, join our pilgrimage to Medjugorje, Lourdes and Paris. Celebrate Mass at Lourdes, Sacre Coeur overlooking Paris, and at the place where Our Lady gave us the Miraculous Medal. See the incorrupt body of St. Margaret Mary Alacoque and the updated Notre Dame Cathedral! Traverse the steps of millions who’ve climbed Apparition Hill. Email Grace at: mgracelegaspi@gmail.com for details.
WANTED TO BUY
Wanted to buy
Do you have a spare car or truck that you need to get rid of? If you do, CALL ME! I’m a cash buyer. We’re Holy Trinity parishioners.
My name is Mark. (913) 980-4905.
Wanted to buy - Antiques & Collectibles: jewelry, military items, railroad, sterling, OLD holiday/toys and more. Renee Maderak (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.
CASH PAID FOR COIN COLLECTIONS!
Silver dollar coins, half-dollars, quarters, dimes, old pennies. Cash in hand. Also paying cash for old paper currency. Cash in that old dusty box of coins! Call Kirk (913) 213-9843. Member of Holy Trinity Parish. Please sell to local people.
$$Paying Cash$$ - Antique Furniture, crocks, tin and cast iron toys, old tools, glassware, American coins, jewelry. Most anything old. Please call Patricia at (913) 515-2950. A member of Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa.
Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.
REAL ESTATE
Looking to buy or sell a home? - Buy or sell a home with someone who understands your values. We are a Catholic-owned, faith-driven team of Realtors, dedicated to helping fellow Catholics buy or sell homes in our community. We bring integrity, compassion and a commitment to your needs. Let us be part of your journey. Call Kevin Holmes (owner) at (913) 553-0539.
We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family-owned and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house has never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer, (913) 599-5000.
We are local people who can buy your house - Big companies from all over the nation come here buying houses, but that’s not us. We are parishioners of Holy Trinity Parish and we enjoy giving you personalized service. We can offer you a fair price and are flexible to your needs. If I can help, call me, Mark Edmondson, at (913) 980-4905.
CAREGIVING
PRIVATE DUTY LPN - 30+ years of skilled nursing. Experienced in all aspects of your needs. Caring Christian who is dependable and trustworthy. You will receive the best care ever! Travel to and from doctor’s visits. References available. Call (913) 6453779. Leave a message and I will call you back.
Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.
Caregiver - Homecare CNA with 15 years’ experience. Monday-Friday. Call (913) 526-0797.
Catholic Cemeteries to host Veterans Day observances
In tribute to veterans — living and deceased — Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas will host special ceremonies on Nov. 11 at two locations. The Veterans Day observances are scheduled at Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Topeka and at Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa.
Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Topeka
At Mt. Calvary Cemetery, located at 801 S.W. Westchester Rd., Topeka, the American Legion Band will perform a prelude of patriotic music, starting at 10:30 a.m. The program will begin at 11 a.m. in Holy Trinity Mausoleum Chapel with a welcome by Sharon Vallejo, president of Catholic Cemeteries. Father Anthony Ouellette, pastor of Christ the King Parish in Topeka, will offer the invocation. The presentation of colors by the Topeka Police Department Honor Guard and Pipes and Drums Band will follow. Sergeant Jayme Green, Topeka Police Department, will sing the national anthem followed by anthems honoring the five branches of the Armed Forces performed by the American Legion Band.
A guest speaker will make special remarks. The observance will close with attendees invited to join in a prayer for veterans.
Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa
Starting at 10:30 a.m. at Resurrection Cemetery, 83rd and Quivira Rd., Lenexa, patriotic music by the
For more information
Veterans, families and friends are invited to attend the Nov. 11 programs. Small U.S. flags will be available for placement at gravesites at both the Topeka and Lenexa locations. For more information about the programs or burial space for veterans, call Catholic Cemeteries at (913) 371-4040 (main number) or (785) 272-0820 (Topeka); send an email to: information@cathcemks. org; or visit the website at: www. cathcemks.org.
American Legion Band will precede the program. The 11 a.m. program in Prince of Peace Mausoleum Chapel will begin with a welcome by Bryan Alonzo, director of operations and sales at Catholic Cemeteries. Father Anthony Williams, U.S. Air Force veteran (chaplain captain), will offer the invocation. The Lenexa Police Department Honor Guard will present the colors. Victoria Irvin, civilian employee of the Lenexa Police Department, will sing the national anthem. The band will perform the “Service Songs of the Armed Forces” representing the different branches of the military. A guest speaker will make special remarks. The observance will close with attendees invited to join in a prayer for veterans followed by the honor guard playing taps.
DAILY READINGS
THIRTY-FIRST WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME
Nov. 9
THE DEDICATION OF THE LATERAN BASILICA
Ez 47: 1-2, 8-9, 12
Ps 46: 2-3, 5-6, 8-9
1 Cor 3: 9c-11, 16-17
Jn 2: 13-22
Nov. 10
Leo the Great, pope, doctor of the church
Wis 1: 1-7
Ps 139: 1b-10
Lk 17: 1-6
Nov. 11
Martin of Tours, bishop
Wis 2:23 – 3:9
Ps 34: 2-3, 16-19
Lk 17: 7-10
Nov. 12
Josaphat, bishop, martyr
Wis 6: 1-11
Ps 82: 3-4, 6-7
Lk 17: 11-19
Nov. 13
Frances Xavier Cabrini
Wis 7:22b – 8:1
Ps 119: 89-91, 130, 135, 175
Lk 17: 20-25
Nov. 14
Friday
Wis 13: 1-9
Ps 19: 2-5b
Lk 17: 26-37
Nov. 15
Albert the Great, bishop, doctor of the church
Wis 18: 14-16; 19: 6-9
Ps 105: 2-3, 36-37, 42-43
Lk 18: 1-8
ANNE LINE
c. 1565-1601
Anne is one of three laywomen among the Forty Martyrs of England and Wales canonized in 1970 by Pope Paul VI. Anne Heigham and her brother were disowned by their Protestant father for converting to Catholicism. She married another disinherited convert, Roger Line, who died in exile in Flanders in 1594. Left penniless and always in poor health, Anne began working with Jesuits in London, where she organized and operated safe houses for priests and embroidered vestments. She took voluntary vows of poverty, chastity and obedience. Within one month, February 1601, she was arrested, tried at the Old Bailey, convicted of hiding a priest, and hanged at Tyburn. Anne is a patron of the childless, widows and converts.
When’s the last time you jumped for joy?
Ah, November! I celebrate that you’re here. I always looked forward to this month because it meant celebrations, starting with the solemnity of All Saints and ending with the feasting of Thanksgiving. Sometimes, we even get to welcome the beginning of Advent with its joyful anticipation of Christmas.
November was a special time in my family because it was filled with birthdays and all that goes with them. My dad and a cousin started us off on Nov. 1, and another uncle and aunt followed later. A good number of friends were born in this month as well. Finally, always before Thanksgiving, I celebrate my birthday. The older I get, the more my birthday celebration expands. It’s now up to a whole month! This year, I even get the honor of marking a milestone birthday on Nov. 20: the 40th anniversary of turning 30. A parishioner and I were talking a few
FATHER MARK GOLDASICH
Father
weeks ago about the need to celebrate more — not just birthdays, but so many other things in life. It’s easy to become depressed and cynical in these days with the steady diet of bad news that comes into our homes through the daily news outlets or social media. This mindset can blind us to the abundant blessings that surround us every day. This old European legend can point us to an antidote, a different
MARK MY WORDS
way to live:
A traveler came across a barn where the devil stored seeds that he planned to sow in the hearts of people. There were bags of seeds variously marked “Hatred,” “Fear,” “Lust,” “Despair,” “Unforgiveness,” “Envy,” “Greed” and “Addiction.”
Out from the shadows, the devil appeared and struck up a conversation with the traveler. He gleefully told the man how easily the seeds sprouted in the hearts of men and women everywhere.
“Tell me,” the traveler asked, “are there any hearts in which these seeds will not sprout?”
Glancing about carefully, the devil whispered, “Yes. These
seeds will never sprout in the heart of a kind, generous, thankful and joy-filled person.” (Story found in Father Brian Cavanaugh’s “Sower’s Seed That Nurture Family Values: Sixth Planting.”)
As I anticipate another birthday, I’m overcome with emotion at how blessed I continue to be with so many things to celebrate: my wonderful parents, loving extended family, good and faithful friends, educational opportunities, caring educators, good health, nourishment and shelter, meaningful work and excellent coworkers, my Catholic faith and priesthood . . . and on and on.
I invite you to join me in making this month a litany of celebration. Thank God for the smallest things: the sound of crunching leaves under your feet, the feel of the crisp autumn air on your skin, the smell of popcorn or freshly baked bread, the touch of a hug from family or friends, the taste of steaming hot
chocolate.
Several years ago, Father David Knight gave a retreat at Sacred Heart in Tonganoxie. Among the many gems of wisdom he scattered, one has become a constant companion. He labeled it “rinkydink prayers.”
For example, if I’m in a rush to get somewhere and approaching an intersection and the traffic light stays or turns green, I utter, “Thank you, God!” If I’m exhausted and an appointment unexpectedly cancels, I say a quick, grateful prayer. When I’m privileged to spend time with close friends, I tell God thanks so much.
On my kitchen table is a small sliver of paper with a quote from the writer Ray Bradbury that reminds me to celebrate each day. It reads: “Stuff your eyes with wonder, live as if you’d drop dead in 10 seconds. See the world. It’s more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories.”
And if this created world is so wonderful, imagine what we’ll have to celebrate in heaven!
Lateran Sunday reminds us we are the church’s living stones
Happy Church Day! As feast days go, this Sunday is one of the more unusual ones on the church calendar.
We don’t commemorate a biblical event (say, the baptism of Jesus) or a saint. We don’t mark a new season (but be patient: Advent is coming soon). Instead, we celebrate a building — more specifically, the Dedication of the Basilica of St. John Lateran in Rome. It’s the oldest of the four major basilicas in Rome and serves as the official “home” of the pope — the seat of the bishop of Rome.
St. Peter’s Basilica gets all the attention, but it’s the Lateran that is really the “pope’s church.” During this
DEACON GREG KANDRA
Deacon Greg Kandra is an award-winning author and journalist, and creator of the blog “The Deacon’s Bench.” He serves in the Diocese of Brooklyn, New York.
Jubilee Year, it’s been flooded with pilgrims passing through its Holy Door.
But why does this matter? Why all the fuss
over a church?
History is part of it. The original Lateran was actually built by the emperor Constantine over an ancient Roman palace (the Lateran Palace) in the fourth century. The baptistry was dedicated to St. John the Baptist and the structure has been destroyed and rebuilt several times over the centuries. It is a testament to survival and endurance. It also contains some priceless relics. It is considered the “mother church” of all the churches in the world.
But this Sunday is about more than an important piece of Roman real estate. This Sunday actually goes to the heart of our identity as Catholics, as believers, as
Christians on a pilgrim journey of faith.
If you’ve ever attended the dedication (or rededication) of a church, it’s a profoundly moving experience. In so many ways, it echoes the sacrament of baptism. The church is sprinkled with water; the altar is anointed with oil; the walls are blessed. It is a moment of great promise and possibility, with a building, in effect, being commissioned for holiness.
Isn’t it that way for all of us? This Sunday, we are given a chance to remember the dedication of a great symbol of our faith — and to rededicate ourselves, too, to recall that our ultimate purpose is to strive to live as holy people of God.
So we hear again
the Gospel from St. John, recounting how Jesus drove the money-changers out of the temple, and we encounter the words of Ezekiel, describing the water flowing from the temple, nourishing everything around it.
But we also hear these words of St. Paul: “You are God’s building. You are the temple of God and the Spirit dwells in you.”
A church building is brick and mortar, wood and glass. But ultimately, it is people.
So this weekend, we are reminded that we are the “living stones” that make up the church; like the Lateran, we have been consecrated to stand before the world as landmarks for Christ.
Pope calls for unity among world’s religions to promote peace
VATICAN CITY (CNS) — At a time when so many people and the planet are suffering, the world’s religions need to come together to promote truth, compassion, reconciliation, justice and peace, Pope Leo XIV said.
“Today, we are called upon to rekindle that hope in our world, devastated by war and our degraded natural environment,” the pope
said Oct. 29 during his weekly general audience in St. Peter’s Square.
“Let us collaborate, because if we are united, everything is possible. Let us ensure that nothing divides us,” he said, addressing the many representatives of Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Jainism, Sikhism, Buddhism and other religions that were present at the audience.
Pope Leo set aside his ongoing
series of audience talks on the Jubilee theme, “Jesus Christ our Hope,” to dedicate the Oct. 29 audience to “Nostra Aetate,” which was promulgated 60 years ago on Oct. 28, 1965.
“The spirit of ‘Nostra Aetate’ continues to illuminate the path of the church,” which recognizes that all religions can reflect “a ray of that Truth which enlightens all men,” he said, citing the document.
Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.
Eliminating the death penalty in Kansas is pro-life
“For a greater respect of life, from conception to natural death, we pray to the Lord.”
This familiar petition frequently offered at Sunday Mass invites us to always pray for and value each human life at every stage. It is a core Catholic Church teaching. Pivoting to integrate church teaching into public policy — the law of the land — presents unique challenges.
There is a growing sentiment in the United States, including Kansas, toward legalizing assisted suicide and euthanizing the elderly or terminally ill. The despicably dishonest sales pitch for “compassion”
Fall is my favorite time of the year! After living on the Gulf Coast for two-and-ahalf years, where the seasons hardly changed, I missed the beauty of autumn. Now, I savor every moment of the brilliant colors of the leaves, the crisp air and even the earthy scent that signals the seasonal change.
CHURCH AND STATE
Chuck Weber is the executive director of the Kansas Catholic Conference.
or “choices” ending in death is spreading like a cancer throughout Western culture. Unproven and unnecessary experiments on
living human embryos, the so-called “leftovers” from the in vitro fertilization, were all the rage a decade ago. More than a million such lives are now suspended in a cryo-frozen state.
Billions of public dollars have been spent worldwide to facilitate the destruction of these forgotten lives under
the guise of curing diseases or other conditions. Still, not one patient has been cured because of embryodestructive research.
Perhaps the most obvious and horrific desecration of human life in our midst is that at least 60 preborn babies are now being lost to abortion in Kansas every day. This human rights catastrophe, deceitfully sold by the abortion industry as the solution to unwanted pregnancies, desecrates the dignity of the human person.
Catholics seeking a consistent viewpoint of human life should also consider the practice of the death penalty. Currently legal in
Kansas, no one has been executed for 60 years. There are nine people on death row in Kansas.
With the encouragement of the Catholic bishops of Kansas, the Kansas Catholic Conference is supporting legislation to eliminate the death penalty. This is an admittedly difficult position for many, especially those whose friends and family members have been victimized by violent crime.
Legislation known as SB 245 would eliminate the death penalty in Kansas prospectively, which means current cases and sentences would not be impacted.
Eliminating the death penalty in
Kansas is pro-life. It sends a clear signal that, even for the most abhorrent offenses, we are called to seek public policies that offer the chance for authentic redemption and rehabilitation over retribution and vengeance.
Open your heart to the death penalty discussion. Consider different viewpoints about how culture can address acts of evil and just punishment. Go online to: www. ksabolition.org, a website with solid information, including details of a special event in Overland Park on Nov. 22. We can be consistent supporters of human life.
Willing to give, but don’t know where to start?
LISA MCKELVEY
SPIRIT OF STEWARDSHIP
many parishes hosting gratitude nights for volunteers, thanking them for making ministry possible at their parish.
Lisa McKelvey is the executive director of the archdiocesan office of stewardship and development. You can email her at: lmckelvey@archkck.org.
I know someone reading this thought, of course the stewardship director loves this time of year — my parish is asking us to renew our stewardship commitment for the upcoming year. For many of you, yes, that is something that happens every fall at your parish. I know
that I have my own stewardship renewal form to fill out in the coming weeks.
As we review our giving for the year, it is an opportunity for us to thank God for the time, talent and treasure that he has given us. It is great to see so
Wouldn’t it be great if we did not have special nights only for volunteers because everyone was volunteering? In addition, what if we did not have to ask people for their financial support because they were already giving?
I am often asked, “What should we give if we have never given or aren’t regularly giving to our parish or the archdiocese?” I always share a few ways to think about
personal giving or how to discern an increase in giving. Biblical tithing is giving away 10% of your income. One common way to break that down is 5% to your parish, 1% to the archdiocese (Archbishop’s Call to Share, etc.) and 4% to other charitable causes like your parish school, Catholic high school, Catholic Charities, Catholic Education Foundation, etc. If you are not at a point to give away 10%, you can adjust those numbers proportionally to what works for your family.
Another way to get started is to review
what you have given this past year, calculate what percent of your income this is and then increase your giving by 1-2% for next year. I encourage you to take advantage of online giving and recurring gifts where you can set up your gifts to be deducted from your account automatically. Now is a great time to review these opportunities.
As always, I am only a call away, if you have questions about your giving or would like to hear more about the impact of your giving. Please reach out; I would be happy to chat.
Deacon saints offer wonderful models for diaconal service
November is the month of All Saints—even deacon saints! In that spirit, I thought I would offer my short list of favorite deacon saints.
1. St. Lawrence: This popular saint is remembered by name in the Eucharistic Prayer 1.
St. Lawrence was one of the deacons in Rome when Pope Sixtus was martyred in 258. At first, Emperor Valerian offered to spare his life in exchange for his handing over “the treasures of the church.”
St. Lawrence responded by presenting to the emperor the sick, the needy and the marginalized of Rome, which led to
DEACON LEON SUPRENANT
Deacon Leon Suprenant is the co-director of the office of the permanent diaconate. He may be reached at: leons@archkck.org.
his martyrdom four days after Sixtus and the other deacons.
ORDAINED TO SERVE
Like our beloved St. Lawrence, deacons must be faithful men who are exemplary in their love for the Blessed Virgin Mary and their care for the church, especially the poor and those who have no voice. And given his unique martyrdom on
a gridiron or “grill,” St. Lawrence is considered the patron saint of cooks. Here in Kansas City, we might also consider him the patron saint of barbecue!
2. St. Ephrem the Syrian: Of all the doctors of the church, St. Ephrem is the only one whom we would identify today as a “permanent deacon.”
St. Ephrem is known as the “Lyre of the Holy Spirit” because of the beautiful hymns he composed. In addition to these hymns, this famous fourth-century church father wrote many works of a biblical and apologetic character.
Despite the range
and volume of his writings, St. Ephrem is best known as the “Marian Doctor” because of his distinctively Marian hymns, which aided the church in its development of Marian doctrines, such as the Immaculate Conception.
3. St. Philip: Not to be confused with the apostle Philip, St. Philip (the deacon) was one of the seven “reputable men” chosen by the apostles (Acts 6:1-7). He converted Samaria to the Christian faith and baptized the Ethiopian eunuch. He evangelized all the cities through which he passed, until he came to Caesarea.
In fact, later in Acts
he was called “Philip the Evangelist” (Acts 21:8). We also read in Acts that he had four godly daughters and that his family offered hospitality to St. Paul and his companions during their missionary travels. What a great model he is for all married deacons who live out their ministry in the context of family and community life. Many deacon saints would qualify as “honorable mentions,” including Sts. Stephen, Vincent and, of course, Francis of Assisi. I am grateful for these intercessors and exemplary models of diaconal service!
CHUCK WEBER
Artist hopes portraits bring parishioners closer to the saints
By Jan Dixon Special to The Leaven
OLATHE — In the quiet space of her home studio, Patrice Walker of St. Paul Parish here prayerfully paints. She climbs a ladder, leans in close to the canvas and creates the serene expressions of the pictured saints.
For her, painting is not simply art — it is prayer, an offering of love for her faith and her parish family.
As Olathe parishioners prepare to move into their long-awaited new church, Walker is contributing a very special gift: hand-painted portraits of two saints who are important to the parish. St. Paul and St. Rose Philippine Duchesne will soon find a home on the church walls and will be a reminder that holiness is alive among us.
“St. Paul is our patron saint. We are the only parish in the archdiocese named after him,” said pastor Father Michael Hermes. “St. Rose Philippine Duchesne is important to us because she lived in our archdiocese at the Sugar Creek Mission in Linn County. Members of St. Paul Parish have made multiple visits over the years to the shrine and to Sacred Heart Church in Mound City. We have asked her to be an intercessor for both the St. Paul School and St. Paul Church capital campaigns and construction projects.”
For Walker, these portraits are both a labor of love and an act of faith. Her thoughtfully planned and carefully painted brushstrokes are guided by skill and by prayer.
“Before I start,” she explained, “I pray. My sister told me if you are working on spiritual art and you ask God for help, he’ll send a special angel to help. I am always asking for her to come help.”
Art has long been part of Walker’s life, but faith has given it deeper meaning. Before she began painting saints, she was drawn to still life and landscapes. Now her interest is in the quiet faces of saints and their stories of courage and grace.
When the parish announced plans for the new church, she began to pray about how she might contribute. She realized she could offer color and light through art.
Walker started her projects
by researching each saint’s life and thinking about his or her virtues.
Beginning each painting session with prayer, she paints when the light is best and often listens to
music as she paints. Using top-quality acrylic paints and linen canvas, she pays reverent attention to detail such as the folds of a robe or the look of calm in the eyes — even the rock where
St. Rose prayed.
“My hope is that these portraits evangelize and that people will come closer to knowing the saints,” she said.
As the portraits and construction of the church progress, excitement is growing within the parish. Associate pastor Father Agustin Martinez explained that for years, the parishioners have prayed, waited and sacrificed for a new spiritual home.
“We invited everyone to take part in building it — whether through large contributions or small offerings,” he said. “A church building, at its best, helps us pray, to lift our minds and hearts to God. Every detail — the art, the architecture, the light — is meant to draw us closer to him.”
A few months ago, the parish was presented with two renderings by Walker of St. Paul. Each portrayed the saint at very different stages of his spiritual journey — one as a young man and one later in his life.
Parishioners voted, and now excitedly await discovering which became the final portrait when the church is dedicated in the fall of 2026.
“St. Paul will be featured multiple times in the new church: a mosaic on the facade, the painting by Walker in the sanctuary, a statue of him in the narthex and in 24 stainedglass windows describing his life and ministry,” Father Hermes said. “The portrait of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne will be displayed in the east transept.”
Walker also serves on the interior design committee and has been the liaison with the artists who are providing other Catholic art for the new church. All who enter the new church will be greeted by this visual litany. Walker is humbled to know that her work will be part of people’s prayer for years to come.
And as the new walls of St. Paul Church rise, these portraits will help the space come alive — bringing light, love and the quiet presence of those who have gone before us in faith.
LEAVEN PHOTO BY JAN DIXON
Patrice Walker, a member of St. Paul Parish in Olathe, poses with her small rendering of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne. Walker is painting a large portrait of the saint that will hang in the new St. Paul Church.