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The water slide is a relatively new addition to Camp Tekakwitha, which celebrated it’s 20th anniversary this year. The camp has welcomed kids from all over the country to Prairie Star Ranch in Williamsburg with its unique combination of Catholic community and outdoor activities.

FIRE IN THE WHOLE

Through their energy, expertise and witness, it’s counselors that make the camp

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Kathryn Hurd has been a mainstay at Camp Tekakwitha for the past 17 years — first as a participant and now as a camp counselor.

ILLIAMSBURG — Kathryn Hurd was only 2 years old when she attended Camp Tekakwitha here for the first time.

But it’s her attendance each of the 17 summers since that sets her apart.

Hurd and her family, members of St. Paul Parish in Olathe, attended Family Camp when it was first offered in 2001. She continued going to Family Camp until she was old enough to go to camp on her own.

“It was my first exposure to young people living out their faith and having fun with it,” said Hurd.

There are people around who still remember that first visit.

“It’s been a remarkable experience,” said Deacon Dana Nearmyer, the founder and director of Camp Tekakwitha, “to watch [Kathryn] go from a toddler to this very incredible, vibrant young woman.”

“The Hurds as a family are definitely one of the few families who have been totally in from the beginning and continue to be a part of the camp’s story,” he added.

Hurd did not stop with camp attendance.

Last year she worked as a counselor at the camp, and this year serves on the vaunted Blue Team, on which detailed experience of camp is a requisite.

In addition to producing a total of three camp counselors — siblings Erin and Sarah have served as counselors, too — parents Marissa and Dennis Hurd have made the trip to Williamsburg each year to pray over the counselors and staff as they arrive at camp for the summer. >> See “COUNSELORS” on page 5

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Archbishop Naumann

U.S. bishops urge participation in novena for the legal protection of human life

Aug. 1-3 Seminarian pilgrimage Aug. 4 Installation of Father Adam Wilczak — Divine Mercy, Gardner Aug. 5 Installation of Father Nick Blaha — St. Catherine, Emporia Aug. 6-9 Knights of Columbus Supreme Convention — Baltimore Aug. 12 Installation of Father Jim Shaughnessy — St. Michael, Axtell, and Holy Family, Summerfield Religious Sisters appreciation day — St. Patrick, Kansas City, Kansas Aug. 13-14 Jesus Caritas bishops’ retreat — Wichita Aug. 15 Solemnity of the Assumption — Holy day

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — The U.S. bishops are urging Catholics across the nation to participate in a “Novena for the Legal Protection of Human Life” beginning in August.

Cardinal Timothy Dolan, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Pro-Life Activities, asked Catholics and all people of good will to participate in this prayer and education effort.

The call for prayer, fasting and education comes as the U.S. Senate prepares to hold hearings this fall to consider Judge Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination to a seat on the U.S. Supreme Court.

There has been much speculation that Kavanaugh’s addition to the high court could imperil the landmark 1973 Roe v. Wade decision that legalized abortion nationwide.

“As soon as Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy announced his retirement, pro-abortion groups

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began lobbying the U.S. Senate to reject any nominee who does not promise to endorse Roe v. Wade,” said Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas.

“We should certainly raise grave concerns about a confirmation process that is being grossly distorted by efforts to subject judicial nominees to a litmus test of support for abortion,” he added. “And we must pray.”

The U.S. bishops ask Catholics to pray the novena every Friday from Aug. 3 to Sept. 28.

“We’ll have the opportunity to join in a nine-week effort of prayer, fasting and education that a change in the U.S. Supreme Court will move our nation closer to the day when every human being is protected in law and welcomed in life,” said Archbishop Naumann, who is chairman-elect of the Committee on ProLife Activities.

To participate, go online to: www. usccb.org where the home page features the bishops’ Call to Prayer initiatives. Click on the “Join” button to

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sign up to participate in the novena and continuing Call to Prayer initiatives.

Those who sign up will receive weekly email or text message reminders to pray and fast, along with facts about the Roe v. Wade ruling that they can use to educate others — including their two U.S. senators.

Alternatively, participants can also scroll down to the “Novena for the Legal Protection of Human Life,” and click on the highlighted text to go directly to the novena.

There, click the “Join” button, and below, in the highlighted text, the option to go to prayers for each day of the novena can be found.

“In addition to the current fast on Fridays, participants will be encouraged to pray one Our Father, Hail Mary and Glory Be for this intention,” said Archbishop Naumann.

“May Our Lady of Guadalupe intercede for the healing of our nation and our people from decades of abortion on demand,” added the archbishop.

Mass — Bishop Miege High School, Roeland Park

Aug. 16 Vespers and dinner with priests ordained in the last five years

Aug. 18 Installation of Father John Cordes — Our Lady of Unity, Kansas City, Kansas Aug. 19 Installation of Father Jonathan Dizon — St. Dominic, Holton

Archbishop Keleher Aug. 3 Wedding rehearsal Aug. 4 Wedding — Cathedral Aug. 5 Mass — Federal prison camp Aug. 12 Mass — Federal prison camp Aug. 15 Mass — Federal prison camp

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HUMANAE VITAE

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50 YEARS OF ‘HUMANAE VITAE’ ‘Humanae Vitae’ said rooted in respect church has for human dignity

By Dennis Sadowski Catholic News Service

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — Fifty years ago, an encyclical was released affirming a long-held teaching of the Catholic Church, yet it became one of the most controversial encyclicals in recent church history.

Blessed Paul VI’s encyclical “Humanae Vitae” (“Of Human Life”), subtitled “On the Regulation of Birth,” reaffirmed the church’s moral teaching on the sanctity of life, married love, the procreative and unitive nature of conjugal relations, responsible parenthood and its rejection of artificial contraception.

Blessed Paul in “Humanae Vitae” said that the only licit means of regulating birth is natural family planning.

In the document, he asked scientists to improve natural family planning methods “providing a sufficiently secure basis for a regulation of birth founded on the observance of natural rhythms.”

At the time of its release, it was greeted with protests and petitions.

But the 50th anniversary has been marked by conferences, lectures and academic discussions as theologians, clergy, family life ministers and university professors have explored what its teachings mean for the 21st-century church.

Blessed Paul issued “Humanae Vitae” as artificial contraception, particularly the birth control pill, began to become commonplace. In the United States, the Food and Drug Administration approved the use of Enovid — the pill — in May 1960 after tests on nearly 900 women through more than 10,000 fertility cycles showed no significant side effects.

Initially, many thought the pope might support the use of artificial contraception, especially after a majority of members on a papal commission studying the issue approved a draft document in 1966 endorsing the principle of freedom for Catholic couples to decide for themselves about the means of regulating births.

The document proposed that artificial birth control was not intrinsically evil and said, under specific circumstances, Catholic couples could use contraceptives in good conscience. It was supported by 64 of the 69 commission members who voted on it, including nine of its 16 episcopal members.

The document was intended for the pope only, but it was leaked to the press, which heightened expectations of a major change in church teaching.

Blessed Paul rejected the majority’s recommendations and, instead, decided to uphold traditional church teaching on artificial contraception.

The text of the document thanked the commission experts but added that the

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“Humanae Vitae,” the 1968 encyclical by Blessed Paul VI (above), reaffirmed the church’s moral teaching on the sanctity of life, married love, the procreative and unitive nature of conjugal relations, responsible parenthood and its rejection of artificial contraception.

At right appears the cover of a 50th anniversary edition of “Humanae Vitae” with related papal texts that is published by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops.

pope thought its proposed solutions “departed from the moral teaching on marriage proposed with constant firmness by the teaching authority of the church.”

Opposition to the encyclical erupted throughout the church after the document’s release. Some clergy in the U.S. and Europe openly voiced disagreement and thousands of lifelong Catholics left the church.

For defenders of “Humanae Vitae,” however, the enduring relevance of the encyclical is a testament to the truth of its message. While it is not infallible teaching, it is still the official doctrine of the church, requiring assent by all

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e’re now in our sixth month of pregnancy, so people are starting to notice the bump expanding beneath my sundress. Folks are very polite and ask to touch my belly before reaching out. And usually the first question is, “Boy or girl?”

Especially out here in California, when I GUEST explain that we’ll wait to COMMENTARY find out the sex when the baby is born, I’m often met with a look of shock (and then I’ve still received the follow-up question of whether we’ll be having a gender reveal party).

I understand the surprised reactions. If you can find out if it’s a him or her, why wouldn’t you? It’s the logical choice for nursery planning purposes and perhaps for our own anxiety management. Yet, we do have our reasons for waiting, which I don’t mind explaining to people, and perhaps I can share another time.

But it’s another detail of our pregnancy that I often do dread sharing.

That is, my husband and I use natural family planning (NFP).

Still there? The above blog post title alone may have glazed some eyes. I get it, NFP seems to shout “only for married people” and “only for Catholics” and perhaps still “only if you don’t know better.” Essentially, it comes across as a little . . . irrelevant.

And it’s not like people are hostile, outwardly shocked or even disrespectful when I eventually divulge the secret. Rather, it’s a much more quiet event where I sense the other party coming to an understanding of sorts. Like, “Oh, so that’s why they got pregnant before their first wedding anniversary.”

And that’s kind of a bummer for multiple reasons, but here’s my top two.

First, NFP actually works to postpone pregnancy when used correctly.

And by that I mean precisely. So, somewhere between mindless and purposeful, my husband and I “cut a corner” and here we are. But, far greater than the worry over expediting the start date to our family was the worry that I just contributed to the stereotype that using NFP to avoid pregnancy is like using water to avoid bug bites.

For this reason, I once pleaded to friends, “No, really, NFP works! It was

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New director hopes to make pastors’ lives easier

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

Meet Michele Kooiman

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — When it came time to look for a new director of human resources for the archdiocese, the search committee knew what it was looking for.

The archdiocese needed a faithful Catholic, a fast learner, a dedicated professional and an all-around outstanding individual — with a proven record of competence.

Search committee members found that person in Michele D. Kooiman.

“She had a deep process background, and we knew that was essential,” said Carla Mills, chief financial officer for the archdiocese. “She had good qualifications in human resources in general.”

Just as importantly, continued Mills, “she’s a good fit for working in the chancery and with our parishes and institutions.”

That “good fit” means she has a certain personality suited to human resources: She is outgoing, a good listener, has the ability to process what she’s told quickly and approaches each situation with patience and empathy.

Kooiman thinks she’s found a good fit, too.

“It feels good to be here,” said Kooiman. “This is where I’m supposed to be right now. My prayer every day is, ‘Lord, let me be able to do the things that I’m supposed to do.’ There is a lot of work to be done. I hope that, every day, I can make positive impacts to accomplish those things.”

This is Kooiman’s first venture into the world of nonprofit organizations. She brings 30 years of experience working in telecommunications, mostly with Sprint Corporation of Overland Park.

“I have done a variety of things in human resources,” said Kooiman.

Kooiman is grateful for her career at Sprint and other companies, but she had reached a point in her life when she was looking for something new — hopefully, something that would involve her Catholic faith.

While at a professional event, a peer mentioned that the archdiocese needed a new human resources director and suggested to Kooiman she might be a good match.

“I told him I’d keep it in mind,” said Kooiman.

The next week she saw the notice in The Leaven and couldn’t stop thinking about it. She had to throw her hat in the ring.

“All the while praying I’d ultimately

Born and raised: Belton, Missouri.

Married to: Bill Kooiman Children: Two adult children, Joseph and Megan Parish: Prince of Peace, Olathe Education: Bachelor of arts in management and human relations from Mid-America Nazarene University; associate’s degree of applied science in marketing and management

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Michele D. Kooiman is the new director of human resources for the archdiocese. She brings 30 years of experience working in telecommunications to her new position. end up where I was supposed to be,” she said.

One step at a time, doors kept opening, until she got the nod. After attending a conference, her first day in the office as archdiocesan director of human resources was April 30.

“It’s a very broad job that covers a lot of topics,” said Kooiman. “We are here to ensure that policies and processes are in place and followed, according to federal and state employment laws.

That’s one of our responsibilities. But we’re also here to ensure that our employees have good benefits.”

Human resources also works with things people don’t think much about, like job descriptions, compensation, hiring, payroll, vacation and sick day policies — everything that touches employees personally.

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“It’s about protecting and supporting employees, our human resources, across the archdiocese,” she said. “We ensure that employees are treated fairly and consistently.”

Human resources can be an indispensable help to pastors, too.

“One of the thing that appealed to me about this job is helping pastors,” she said. “Priests, when they go to the seminary, do not learn about business administration. Their education is in theology. They’re not necessarily trained on how to run parishes, and that’s a big job.

“So, I view it as doing whatever we can do to make their lives easier, more streamlined, more efficient, so they can concentrate on ministry.”

One difference between the corporate world and working for the church

is the strong role faith plays in her work. Salvation of people — not the profit margin — is the greater purpose.

“What we do, every decision we make and every interaction we have with every person, our faith is on our heart, mind and souls,” she said. “There is lots of fulfillment in that.”

As she settled into her new role, Kooiman has come to appreciate the work of her predecessor Kathleen Thomas.

“She laid a phenomenal foundation in human resources here,” said Kooiman.

That foundation includes getting policies documented for the retirement and pension plans for both lay employees and priests, an employee handbook, job descriptions, pay grades, and sick and vacation policies.

“Her last big effort was moving us into automation of a standardized human resources system for pay and benefits, and that is no small undertaking,” she said. “She has done all that and built a great team. I’m so thankful every day for the staff we have.”

Kooiman deeply appreciates the relationships Thomas has built with pastors and administrators across the archdiocese, and she’s also appreciative of the way the handoff has been done. This sort of thing is rare in the corporate world.

“I am extremely grateful that I’ve had the benefit of having [Thomas] here for a couple of months during this transition before she retires,” said Kooiman.

The work of human resources is ongoing, and many challenges await Kooiman and her colleagues.

“I have a goal to continue evolving our policies and processes internally in human resources,” she said.

“One of our challenges is that we are resource-challenged, and there is so much work to be done.

“I feel it’s my responsibility to be as efficient as possible, while at the same time always remaining compassionate.”

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Artists invited to compete in juried competition

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Kathryn Hurd, right, is part of the camp’s Blue Team, responsible for the smooth running of many aspects of the operation.

Counselors model leadership for campers >> Continued from page 1 “They keep a journal of all the staff names,” said Deacon Nearmyer, “and pray for them every day during the summer and school year.

“It’s a pretty unique thing.”

Connections The life of camp has made such an impact on Hurd, she can’t help but follow her desire to give back to the place and the people that have impacted her so much — even those she knew while still quite small.

“When I was very little, I had this crazy friendship with a counselor named Jared Cheek,” said Hurd. “He was a seminarian for the archdiocese and was the complete opposite of my personality — he was very loud and boisterous!”

Hurd recalled the fun of riding on Cheek’s shoulders and writing penpal letters before Cheek, who became a seminarian for the archdiocese, was killed in a car accident in 2005 along with fellow seminarian Matty Molnar.

“All of my counselors have been amazing,” she said, although she found Cheek especially so.

Hurd attributes much of her knowledge of conflict management and different leadership styles to growing up watching her counselors handle those situations.

“My senior year cabin counselor . . . really opened my eyes to being present in conversations,” she said. “My cabin had two totally different personalities, but she realized that and helped us create bonds that bridged those personalities.

“That was very impactful for me.”

Spiritual food for the road Camp Tekakwitha is a place for youth to experience the truth

of Catholicism, receive the sacraments, participate in Bible study and enjoy time for reflection and prayer each day — not to mention have a blast at a camp renowned for its water activities, high ropes and more.

But for Hurd, it’s the spiritual component that has become indispensable.

Prayer at camp, said Hurd, is different from the rest of the year because of its magnitude and intensity.

“It re-centers me,” she said. “Witnessing other people praying and living out their faith gives me tools for the rest of the year — to reconnect with them and to imitate them and make that my own, too.”

Now a student at Kansas State University in Manhattan, Hurd spends nine months of the year as part of a Catholic community outside of camp.

“Camp, for a long time, was the only Catholic community that I saw really being on fire,” she said. “Luckily, I found the same [fire] . . . in college with St. Isidore’s Catholic Student Center.

“Camp gave me the ability to see and recognize Catholic communities that are on fire and ready to spread the news out in the world.”

A different way to lead Camp certainly has been a time of heightened self-learning for Hurd, requiring her to stretch herself in ways that haven’t always come naturally.

“One of the biggest things I’ve learned,” said Hurd, “is that there are a lot of different types of leadership.”

Hurd said that in high school she was hard on herself for not being an obvious leader because of her quiet, introverted personality.

However, she has come to see that leaders come in many shapes and sizes.

“Invest[ing] heavily in small groups of people is one of my strengths,” she said, “[and] being able to recognize my own gifts as a leader has empowered me to be a better leader.”

These leadership skills landed Hurd with a position on the Blue Team this

year. Blue Team members assist with many managerial tasks to ensure camp runs smoothly — a position that requires strong leadership, compassion and interpersonal skills.

Allie Foster, assistant director of Camp Tekakwitha, has known Hurd for eight years as a camper, counselor and now as a Blue Team member.

“Kathryn is an outstanding servantleader,” said Foster.

“When she interacts with campers, staff members and Blue Team,” she said, “she focuses on how she can help them, pray for them and support them in their mission at camp.”

Nicole Tubbesing, from Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa, has also known Hurd for years.

The two met during high school and their friendship blossomed at camp, leading them to work together as counselors and now as a counselor and Blue Team member.

Each week, Hurd meets with Tubbesing to discuss prayer life, potential improvements and to provide performance feedback.

Tubbesing never dreads these meetings because of the gentleness of Hurd’s quiet leadership and genuine desire to be helpful. She couldn’t be happier having a friend for a guide.

“It’s really easy to open up to her,” said Tubbesing. “If something is wrong, she can tell right away even if I don’t want to say it. “[Hurd] helps me with my prayer life . . . [by] showing me the ways she prays and the ways she finds God in moments throughout the summer.”

Tubbesing is also continuously struck by Hurd’s capacity to lovingly give constructive correction.

“Even though [Hurd] is on Blue Team,” said Tubbesing, “every interaction she has is as a friend — it’s not as a boss.

“She tells you things because she wants you to be better. It’s for the other person at all times and is always full of joy and love.”

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — The Catholic Fine Arts Council of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is calling for artists’ submissions to its annual Regional Juried Christian Arts Competition and Exhibition.

The competition, sponsored by the council, is offering six cash prizes for pieces of Christian art that employ evident mastery of their chosen medium and reveal the profundity of Christ’s presence in the church and the world.

This year’s theme is: “Duc in Altum: Put Out into the Deep.”

The entry deadline for the competition is Aug. 16.

The competition and exhibition, according to the CFAC webpage, seek to promote the continuation of Christian art in the Western tradition — though Christian art from other traditions will be considered, as well.

In 2017, the prestigious St. John Paul II Award went to “Ecce Homo,” a sculpture by Kate Marin of St. Francis — and with it, $1,500.

This year, Dr. Denis McNamara will act as juror. McNamara is an assistant director at the Liturgical Institute of the University of Saint Mary of the Lake/Mundelein Seminary in Chicago and an architectural historian by training.

To submit artwork for consideration and for more information, go online to: www.catholicfinearts.org/entry, or send an email to Lesle M. Knop with questions at: lknop@archkck.org.

Rural ministry tour coming to a place near you

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OSSVILLE — The rural youth ministry outreach’s “Perfectly Imperfect” summer tour will include stops in Horton on Aug. 12, Seneca on Aug. 18 and Scipio on Aug. 19.

Youth-focused and family-friendly outdoor rallies in Horton and Scipio will include dinner, inspiration, games, music and Mass.

An adult miniretreat will be held in Seneca from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. This will include a light breakfast and a catered lunch.

Sarah Swafford All stops will include inspirational talks by Sarah Swafford and music by Mikey Needleman.

Swafford is a graduate of Benedictine College in Atchison and author of “Emotional Virtue: A Guide to DramaFree Relationships.”

To register or for more information, go online to: www.archkck.org/ruraloutreach; send an email to: ruralyouth@ archkck.org; or call (785) 221-2644.

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LOCAL NEWS TOOLS FOR FAMILIES Growing as Disciples of Jesus

The bread of life This Sunday we hear that Jesus is the bread of life.

As followers of Jesus, we are called to be mindful of those who need bread — food — to sustain their physical lives.

During a family dinner talk about how you can, as a family, provide ARTWORK BY NEILSON CARLIN, 2015 food for the hungry: • Help serve a meal at St. Mary’s Food Kitchen through your parish • Prepare food items to be taken to St. Mary’s (check with your parish) • Contribute food items to your parish food pantry • Involve all family members — young and old.

— Deacon Tony Zimmerman, lead consultant for the archdiocesan office of marriage and family life

Our Lady of Fatima pilgrim statue will be at Holy Angels on Aug. 15 BASEHOR — The International Pilgrim Virgin Statue of Our Lady of Fatima, blessed by Pope Francis, will be at Holy Angels Church here, located at 15408 Leavenworth Rd., on Aug. 15. The main church will be open from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m.

The schedule will be as follows: 8 a.m. to noon — individual and small group prayer; 12:10 p.m. — Mass for the solemnity of the Assumption of Mary; 1 to 7 p.m. — individual and small group prayer; 7 p.m. — Mass for the solemnity of the Assumption.

The rosary will be prayed each hour.

The statue custodian will be on hand to answer questions and to touch rosaries and devotional items to the Our Lady’s mantle, in accordance with the custom at the shrine in Fatima, Portugal.

For more information, call the parish at (913) 724-1665. This event is sponsored by the World Apostolate of Fatima.

Vitae announces winners of essay contest JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. — Two seventhgraders from the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas are the winners in Vitae Foundation’s “Champions for Life” essay contest.

Ava Teply, a student at Christ the King School, Topeka, claimed the grand prize.

Julia Balino, a student at Prince of Peace School, Olathe, claimed the second prize.

In addition to receiving four Kansas City Royals dugout tickets, Teply threw out a ceremonial first pitch before the start of the July 24 Royals game.

Balino’s prize included Royals tickets, being on the field for batting practice, a radio booth visit and a stadium tour.

Vitae’s essay contest engaged seventh- graders from both the archdiocese and the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph in a discussion of “Encouraging a Culture of Life.” Teply’s essay was titled: “We Are the Voice of the Baby,” while Balino’s essay was titled: “I Love You, Mommy.”

To read the winning essays, go online to: www.vitaefoundation.com/blog.

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Benedictine College creates Byron G. Thompson Center

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ANSAS CITY, Mo. — Benedictine College has announced the creation of the Byron G. Thompson Center for Integrity in Finance and Economics at its main campus in Atchison.

Officially dedicated on July 22, Thompson’s birthday, the center will carry out the legacy of Thompson’s lifelong commitment to integrity in finance and economics, supporting the next generation of ethical leaders in the financial professions.

Thompson was a 1955 graduate of Benedictine and a former Country Club Bank chairman.

Thompson family members have given this leadership gift to Benedictine College, establishing the Thompson Center in honor of their late father. Country Club Bank and Platte Valley Bank also joined the family’s contribution in appreciation of Thompson’s critical leadership as chairman to each organization.

“Byron Thompson is the model of the kind of banker a Benedictine education creates: principle-centered leaders who thrive in the business world, in the community, and in their own family,” said Benedictine College

Lee and Lina Schneller, members of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with family. The couple was married on Aug. 10, 1968, at Church of the Magdalen in Wichita. Their children are: Christina Pokorny, Michael Schneller, John Schneller and Stephen Schneller. They also have 11 grandchildren.

Sandra and Charles Stallbaumer, m e m bers of St. Patrick Parish, Corning, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 12 with Mass and an open house from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Corning Community Center. The couple was married on Aug. 10, 1968, at Sts. Peter and Paul Church, Seneca. Their children are: Marsha Korber, Michael Stallbaumer, Jason Stallbaumer, Justin Stallbaumer and Sara Nordhus.

They also have 17 grandchildren.

Donna (Miller) and Bernard Heit, members of Holy C r o s s Parish, O ve r l a n d Park, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a family cruise this summer. The couple was married on Aug. 10, 1968, at St. Elizabeth Church, Kansas City, Missouri. Their children are: Andrew Heit, Amy Morfeld and Timothy Heit. They also have nine grandchildren.

Paul Thompson, president/CEO/chairman of Country Club Bank (left), is pictured with Stephen D. Minnis, president of Benedictine College in Atchison, at the announcement of the new Byron G. Thompson Center for Integrity in Finance and Economics at the college. president Stephen D. Minnis.

“The Byron G. Thompson Center for Integrity in Finance and Economics was formed in order to shape and inspire a new generation of financial leaders who follow in Byron Thompson’s footsteps and who will ‘do well and do good,’” he added.

Karla and Larry Rodehorst, members of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, To p e k a , will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 10. The couple was married on Aug. 10, 1968, at Holy Name Church, Topeka. They went on a Caribbean cruise in February to celebrate. They will also have a reception for family and friends. Their children are: Brian, Lisa and Kaari. They also have four grandchildren.

Mark and Judy (Ubert) C a r n ey, members of Good Shepherd Parish, Shawnee, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 12. The couple was married on Aug. 12, 1968, at St. Agnes Church, Roeland Park, by Father Lawrence Albertson. Their children are James Carney and Patrick Carney. They also have four granddaughters. The family will celebrate with a trip to Estes Park, Colorado, in August.

Charles and Michele (Wilbert) Wesonig, members of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 3.

They will go on a cruise to London then have a family dinner when they return. The couple was married on Aug. 3, 1968, at St. Pius X Catholic Student Center, Pittsburg. Their children are Angie Wesonig McGrath and Joy We-

When Thompson died in 2015, he was called “a Kansas City hero” and “no less than an icon to our town” in The Kansas City Star.

He left behind an incredible legacy of faith, family and community.

sonig Konnesky. They also have five grandsons.

Alice (Greenwood) and Walter Russell, members of Church of the Nativity, Leawood, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 3. The couple was married Aug. 3, 1968, at St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Ames, Iowa, by Msgr. James Supple. Their children are: Michael Russell, Charlotte, North Carolina; and Jeffery Russell, Philadelphia. The couple will celebrate with a late summer trip to Mackinac Island, Michigan, and Lake Geneva, Wisconsin.

Bill and Kathy (Rudolph) McDonald, members of Sacred Heart Parish, Topeka, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 10.

The couple was married by Father Albert Wietharn at Sacred Heart on Aug. 10, 1968. They have one daughter, Kerry Rose, and two granddaughters.

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HUMANAE VITAE

While others failed to, ‘Humanae’ took sex seriously >> Continued from page 3 Faith Alive! religious education series.

The law professor and pro-life advocate attributes this to the flaws of the birth control revolution and to a deeper appreciation of the “Humanae Vitae” message.

“Over time, as the sexual revolution played out and contraception failed to live up to its billing, fair observers began to note a positive or prophetic thing or two about ‘Humanae Vitae,’ along with its surprisingly accurate read of human nature,” she wrote.

Janet Smith, who holds the Father Michael J. McGivney chair of life ethics at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, told CNS the encyclical’s opening line — stating that “the most serious duty of transmitting human life” stems from the call of marriage — is the basis for church teaching on the family.

The difficulty facing the church is that young people generally view sex as a pleasurable experience shared among consenting partners, she said.

However, in talks around the country Smith has encountered young people who “see the meaninglessness of casual sex,” creating an opening to explore the message of “Humanae Vitae.”

“It’s a growing movement of young people who are interested in being 100 percent Catholic,” she said.

Alvare echoes this assessment: “‘Humanae Vitae’ took sex seriously, far more seriously than the contemporary world, for all of its talk about sex.”

In April, Philadelphia Archbishop Charles J. Chaput told a Catholic University of America symposium commemorating the encyclical’s anniversary that it is time for the church’s teaching on marriage, abortion, human sexuality and artificial contraception to be embraced as God’s will for the faithful.

He explained that the teaching is rooted in the same respect for human dignity that guides its work for social justice and care for poor people. “‘Humanae Vitae’ revealed deep wounds in the church about our understanding of the human person, the nature of sexuality and marriage as God created it. We still seek the cure for those wounds. But thanks to the witness of St. John Paul II, Pope Benedict, Pope Francis and many other faithful shepherds, the church has continued to preach the truth of Jesus Christ about who we are and what God desires for us,” the archbishop said.

“People willing to open their eyes and their hearts to the truth will see the hope that Catholic teaching represents and the power that comes when that truth makes us free,” he added.

More ready than we thought >> Continued from page 3 just a user error!”

Yeah, maybe not the best way to describe our first child. But I so desperately want to advocate for this beautiful means of building a family.

It’s completely organic, free, available to anyone and especially helpful to women (married or single) to understand their bodies and feel empowered.

But there is one thing I will admit that NFP is not: convenient. With its many rules based in the physiology of the female reproductive cycle, NFP is like that 25-ingredient recipe your aunt gives you that yields a fantastic chocolate chip cookie. It tastes great, but it’s a lot of effort and, with so much detail, there’s a larger margin of error.

Plus, there are much simpler, failproof recipes out there! (Honestly, the chocolate chip cookie I bake most often is a brand name which comes directly from the grocery store fridge that I simply arrange on a baking tray after separating the dough along perforated edges. So why bake from scratch?)

That brings me to the second thing I know about NFP. Like baking something from scratch, NFP forces me to confront and embrace the process.

No longer can I live in ignorance about what “ingredients” go into reproduction, like what my body is producing on a given day, where I am in my cycle, my stress level and even our desire for a baby. I am forced to connect these ingredients, including the act of sex

itself, with their ultimate “baked” good, which is life. In NFP, each act is a total self-gift with an openness to life, which is why the Catholic Church encourages this means of family planning.

My sister and co-author, married a week ago, describes it as “when the body speaks the wedding vows” — to mutually give of ourselves and remain open to fertility.

It’s also why I can say that our pregnancy was a surprise and that NFP works. It may have been unexpected, but it was always a part of the plan, ever since we exchanged vows. We wouldn’t be married if we weren’t open to it. And if we were truly, fiercely postponing pregnancy, maybe we would have been even more meticulous and conservative.

But that’s the magic of NFP, why I believe it “works.” It has forced the issue and enlightened us that perhaps we are more ready to start our family than we thought.

And, ultimately, it has allowed us to include God, who is ready for us to start our family. A tiny deviation from the instruction was all he needed to work.

So many things had to go right for us to be pregnant; so we can say with confidence that, although this miracle was unexpected, by no means was it a mistake.

And maybe I can even start to say with confidence that yes, we do use NFP. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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INVESTMENT OF HOUR A WEEK PAYS BIG DIVIDENDS FOR KIDS

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By Jill Ragar Esfeld

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — “I always tell people that Learning Club is why I love Mondays,” said Holy Trinity, Lenexa, parishioner Kelsey Finley.

“I genuinely look forward to going each week and working with the kids.”

Her brother Chris Nill agrees.

“The first time you go is for you,” he said. “After that, you don’t think twice about the why.

“You know you’re a part of something much bigger.”

Kelsey and Chris meet their dad Stan Nill at St. Margaret’s Community Center in Kansas City, Kansas, every Monday night.

There, the three Holy Trinity parishioners tutor underprivileged children who live in St. Margaret’s Park, an affordable housing community in Kansas City, Brad Grabs, who started The Learning Club in 2002, applauds his volunteers as they pray and Kansas.

It is one of five sites where volunteer reflect on another successful tutoring session. tutors donate an hour of their time each week to give disadvantaged children a from his own. hand up toward success.

“It just reminds me that, just like my The results are remarkable.

A former student told executive direc- own kids, they are beautiful creations tor Brad Grabs, who founded the organi- from God and deserve every opportunity that other children zation in 2002 in the enjoy,” he said. former Blessed SacHis son sees oprament School buildportunity as the key ing in Kansas City, component of the Kansas, “Learning Club has been a good “SEEING THE FACES OF THE equation.

“Everyone grows influence in my life, CHILDREN, WHEN YOU SHOW up with the same and it’s helped me and drive stay on a good path.”

UP FOR A SESSION — THEY ambition to be great and to “I think the impact succeed,” said Chris we have is really proMAKE YOU FEEL SO GOOD Nill. found,” said Grabs, a “Life circumstancWHEN THEY MAKE EYE member of Our Lady es change that drive & St. Rose Parish in CONTACT AND LIGHT UP for some at varyKansas City, Kansas. ing points in life,” “It’s really a very AFTER SEEING YOU.” he added, “but with direct ministry. the same opportu“The volunteer nities, these undertutors can make a significant, long-lasting impact on the life privileged kids can be just as successful as anyone else.” of a child.”

The Learning Club is in need of more volunteers wanting to develop these unlikely friendships — especially now that it’s expanding into Missouri and hoping to Most Learning Club volunteers are from reach out to more marginalized children in affluent neighborhoods in the archdiocese, Kansas. and Grabs sees them making what he calls “We’re looking to partner with some “unlikely friendships” with the children other organizations to find other kids,” they tutor. said Grabs. “The KCK school district says That’s his term for a friendship between they’ve got about 1,400 kids at any time two people who, superficially, seem to who are homeless. share nothing in common.

“We’d like to reach out to kids like that.”

“But they begin to realize how much they have in common in terms of things that matter,” he explained. “They form a human connection that’s not based on One of the most satisfying aspects of where you’re from or what you do or who volunteering with Learning Club is being you know. part of such an organized, supportive “I think a relationship like that is really program. life-giving.”

“It is a well-run organization with solid Through his volunteer experience with Learning Club, Stan Nill has come to see leadership,” said John Cotter, a member of St. the children he works with as no different Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood.

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Unlikely friendships

Just be a parent for an hour

“It will give you an opportunity to live your faith and make a positive difference in the life of a child,” he said.

Tutors work one-on-one with school children through fifth grade.

Volunteers attend a short training session to help them get comfortable with the tutoring process, which essentially involves being a parent for an hour —

helping a kid with homework.

“You don’t have to have a teaching background or be an academic whiz to volunteer,” said Cotter’s wife Kelly, who also tutors. “If you care for children and are willing to give your time, everything else comes naturally.”

And don’t worry if your math skills are subpar.

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After successfully completing a problem, student Amora high-fives her tutor Karen Camarata.

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Joel works with plastic letters to learn spelling as his tutor Kelly Cotter helpfully sounds out each word.

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Volunteer tutor Chris Nill shows his surprise at the number of points earned by his student Abdiaziz. Points are earned for effort and behavior and can be used to purchase prizes.

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Stan Nill quizzes Mykel with flash cards during a tutoring session at St. Margaret’s Community Center in Kansas City, Kansas.

“There is always someone to help when you don’t know the answer,” said Finley.

Indeed, Learning Club staff is always on hand to make sure the session runs smoothly.

“We really want to respect people’s time, especially volunteers that come,” said Grabs. “The tutoring session is about an hour; the kids come early for a snack and that adds on about 20 minutes.”

Kids bring their homework or do lessons provided by The Learning Club.

Tutors help and, in the process, experience a connectedness that makes the

effort worthwhile.

Holy Trinity, Lenexa, parishioners Larry and Kathy Ryan volunteer together and enjoy getting to know the children personally.

“A great reason to volunteer at The Learning Club is the hour spent with a child — talking with them, asking about their day, showing them that you do indeed care about them and their family,” said Kathy.

The couple also sees benefit in the time spent together.

“It is something for my wife and me to talk about,” said Larry. “It has added a richness to our relationship.”

Getting to know you Many children stay in the program with the same tutor for months or years, so relationships are formed.

“As long as the tutor and student have a connection and it’s working,” said Grabs, “we try to keep them together.”

“Seeing the faces of the children,” said Chris Nill, “when you show up for a ses-

sion. They make you feel so good when they make eye contact and light up after seeing you.”

For the last six months, John Cotter has been working with a young boy named Ishmail.

His favorite part of his tutoring session is seeing Ishmail’s smile when they meet.

“I feel like tutoring is one way to bring my faith to life,” he said. “My relationship with him grew slow but steady as we developed a trust and understanding of one another.

“I am excited he is happy to see me, as well as the fact that he is there to continue to learn and develop.”

Finley has been working with the same student for more than two years.

“My first day as a tutor was one of her first days coming to Learning Club,” she said. “I remember she was shy, quiet and behind in school.

“She struggled with math. And because English was not her first language, reading was also a challenge.

“Today, she’s like an entirely different girl. She can rattle off times tables, read chapter books and has made incredible strides, both academically and socially.”

Giving it to God Mentors are important to these children because their lives outside of The Learning Club can be hard.

It’s important for them to be able to share their difficulties, and volunteers understand that.

“I enjoy exchanging what has gone on in our day,” said Stan Nill. “That’s always interesting and often sad.

“I most love to encourage the children to dream of a brighter future by setting goals and working hard to achieve them.”

Volunteers often feel helpless to solve the hardships their students present and so each Learning Club session ends in a circle of prayer after the children have gone home.

“There are a lot of things that are out of our control,” said Grabs. “And it’s a great exercise in faith to just turn over

Volunteers needed A new tutor training session for The Learning Club will be held on Aug. 15 from 5-6:30 p.m. at Blessed Sacrament Family Center, 2215 Parallel Ave., Kansas City, Kansas.

To RSVP or for more information, visit the website at: www.learningclubkck. org; send an email to: bgrabs@learning clubkck.org; or call (913) 244-5838.

Other ways to help Tutoring is a huge need, but you can also help The Learning Club by providing healthy snacks or prizes that students earn for achievement.

To donate online, go to: www.learning clubkck.org and click on “Donate.”

Calling all Scouts Are you looking for a meaningful Eagle Scout project? If so, contact Grabs at: bgrabs@learningclubkck.org.

that concern and care we have for our students to God.” And those prayers often go beyond the circle.

“I truly see God in these kids every chance I get to work with them,” said Chris Nill. “I pray for them each week in Mass as well.”

Volunteers appreciate the opportunity The Learning Club gives them to live their Catholic faith.

“I have been truly blessed in my life through God’s grace — not by my own doing,” said Kelly Cotter. “The children who are served by The Learning Club live and attend school in impoverished neighborhoods through no fault of their own.

“As a Catholic and a Christian, I am called to serve those who are less fortunate.

“Volunteering at The Learning Club is just one way I can be like Christ to others.”

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McCarrick scandal rocks the church

McCarrick resigns as cardinal

By Cindy Wooden Catholic News Service

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Pope Francis has accepted the resignation from the College of Cardinals of Cardinal Theodore E. McCarrick, retired archbishop of Washington, and has ordered him to maintain “a life of prayer and penance” until a canonical trial examines accusations that he sexually abused minors.

The announcement came first from the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops and a few minutes later from the Vatican press office.

The press office said July 28 that the previous evening Pope Francis had received Cardinal McCarrick’s letter of “resignation as a member of the College of Cardinals.”

“Pope Francis accepted his resignation from the cardinalate and has ordered his suspension from the exercise of any public ministry, together with the obligation to remain in a house yet to be indicated to him, for a life of prayer and penance until the accusations made against him are examined in a regular canonical trial,” the Vatican statement said.

In late June, Cardinal McCarrick, the 88-year-old retired archbishop of Washington, said he would no longer exercise any public ministry “in obedience” to the Vatican after an allegation he abused a teenager 47 years ago in the Archdiocese of New York was found credible. The cardinal has said he is innocent.

In the weeks that followed the announcement, another man came forward claiming he was abused as a child by Cardinal McCarrick and several former seminarians have spoken out about being sexually harassed by the cardinal at a beach house he had.

Although unusual, withdrawal from the College of Cardinals in such circumstances is not unheard of. Just 10 days before then-Pope Benedict XVI retired in 2013, Scottish Cardinal Keith O’Brien announced he would not participate in the conclave to elect Pope Benedict’s successor because he did not want media attention focused on him instead of the election of a new pope.

Pope Benedict had accepted the cardinal’s resignation as archbishop of St. Andrews and Edinburgh after reports that three priests and a former priest had accused the cardinal of “inappropriate conduct” with them going back to the 1980s.

One week after the conclave that elected Pope Francis, the Vatican announced the new pope accepted Cardinal O’Brien’s decision to renounce all “duties and privileges” associated with being a cardinal. He died March 19.

Cardinal Daniel N. DiNardo of Galveston-Houston, USCCB president, thanked the pope for accepting Cardinal McCarrick’s resignation from the College of Cardinals.

In a July 28 statement he said: “I thank the Holy Father for his leadership in taking this important step. It reflects the priority the Holy Father places on the need for protection and care for all our people and the way failures in this area affect the life of the church in the United States.”

More accountability needed after abuse revelations, church figures say

By Mark Pattison Catholic News Service

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — The sexual abuse allegations surrounding now-former Cardinal Theodore E. McCarrick have prompted some church figures to call for a more thorough reckoning of the U.S. church’s clerical sexual abuse policies.

“We can — and I am confident that we will — strengthen the rules and regulations and sanctions against any trying to fly under the radar or to ‘get away with’ such evil and destructive behaviors,” said Bishop Edward B. Scharfenberger of Albany, New York, in a July 27 letter to clergy in his diocese.

“But, at its heart, this is much more than a challenge of law enforcement; it is a profoundly spiritual crisis.”

“In negative terms, and as clearly and directly as I can repeat our church teaching, it is a grave sin to be ‘sexually active’ outside of a real marriage covenant. A cardinal is not excused from what a layperson or another member of the clergy is not,” Bishop Scharfenberger said.

“A member of the clergy who pledges to live a celibate life must remain as chaste in his relationship with all whom he serves as spouses within a marriage.

This is what our faith teaches and what we are held to in practice. There is no ‘third way,’” he added.

Bishop Scharfenberger said, “Abuse of authority — in this case, with strong sexual overtones — with vulnerable persons is hardly less reprehensible than the sexual abuse of minors, which the USCCB (U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops) attempted to address in 2002.

Unfortunately, at that time — something I never understood — the ‘Charter’ (‘for the Protection of Children and Young People’) did not go far enough so as to hold cardinals, archbishops and bishops equally, if not more, accountable than priests and deacons.”

He said he believes the “vast majority of clergy — priests, deacons and bishops alike — live or, at least, are striving to live holy and admirable lifestyles. I am ashamed of those of my brothers, such as the cardinal, who do not and have not.”

With his resignation July 28 from the College of Cardinals, McCarrick retains the title of archbishop. However, “his prompt reduction canonically to the laity should be strongly deliberated,” said a July 28 statement by Bishop Michael F. Olson of Fort Worth, Texas.

“As each day passes, we learn that the former cardinal not only allegedly perpetrated abuse against minors but also against subordinates including priests, seminarians and members of the laity,” Bishop Olson said. “The evil effects of these actions were multiplied by the fact that financial settlements were arranged with victims without transparency or restrictions on the former cardinal’s ministry.

“Justice also requires that all of those in church leadership who knew of the former cardinal’s alleged crimes and sexual misconduct and did nothing be held accountable for their refusal to act thereby enabling others to be hurt.”

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Pope Francis has accepted the resignation from the College of Cardinals of Cardinal Theodore E. McCarrick, retired archbishop of Washington, and has ordered him to maintain “a life of prayer and penance” until a canonical trial examines accusations that he sexually abused minors. Cardinal McCarrick is pictured in a 2013 photo in Rome.

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THE EVIL EFFECTS OF THESE ACTIONS WERE MULTIPLIED

BY THE FACT THAT FINANCIAL SETTLEMENTS WERE ARRANGED WITH VICTIMS WITHOUT TRANSPARENCY OR RESTRICTIONS ON THE FORMER CARDINAL’S MINISTRY.” Trinity Washington University president Patricia McGuire, in a July 27 blog posting titled “Cardinal Sins,” reflected on the allegations against Archbishop McCarrick through the prism of her mother’s late-in-life dread that she may have exposed her young sons to abusive clergy.

“As the tawdry, tragic stories of priests committing appalling acts of abuse spread from Boston to Philadelphia and parishes and dioceses nationwide, the mothers of the altar boys, in particular, suffered silent grief and suspicion, leading to a sense of betrayal and then alienation from the church to which they had devoted unquestioning loyalty throughout their lives,” McGuire said.

“The church’s response to the massive sex abuse crisis has always seemed to lack a certain level of deep, urgent understanding of the gravity of the sin against children and other victims,” McGuire added. “Certainly, words have cascaded, gestures made, money paid out. But, somehow, the words and gestures and checks have all seemed more self-protective of the organization than truly penitential at the most profound level.”

“As a father, I am appalled and angry. As a Catholic, I feel ashamed and betrayed,” said a statement from John Carr, director of the Initiative on

Catholic Social Thought and Public Life at Georgetown University, who had worked closely with Archbishop McCarrick on various policy initiatives when Carr worked at USCCB headquarters in Washington.

“As a friend of former Cardinal McCarrick, I am devastated, especially for the victims and their families,” Carr added. “I pray that these horrific developments can help end this evil of clerical sex abuse and dismantle the culture that permitted it within our family of faith.”

Msgr. Owen Campion, former editor of the national newspaper Our Sunday Visitor and now chaplain of OSV Newsweekly, said he felt dismay, revulsion, heartsickness, anger and — for once — weariness upon learning of the accusations lodged against Archbishop McCarrick.

“I am weary of trying to make excuses, of trying to find something to say,” Msgr. Campion wrote July 18.

“I am tired of stepping away from restrooms in restaurants until a youth has emerged,” he continued. “I am tired of watching my every move and calculating my every word if a young person is present. I am tired of calling my diocese when I have been invited to preach in another location, asking for a letter stating that I have never been in trouble.”

He added that he is tired of making the point that “sexual abuse is a vast problem in our culture,” because he is “assailed for concocting excuses.”

“But I make it again,” he said.

Sexual abuse “hardly only involves clergy. Our society’s insanity when it comes to satisfying erotic desires in the most selfish of circumstances, and our increasing disregard for morality in any setting, is sickening and frightening because of where it is taking us,” Msgr.

Campion said. “We must face this fact.”

Monsignor Campion continued, “One excuse that I have offered with increasing lack of enthusiasm is the Dallas ‘Charter,’ a policy created by U.S. bishops to right the wrongs. The charter, whether it is followed or not, spoke of children, but attention must also be given to the wide sexual abuse of adults.”

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Catholics collect aid for victims of deadly Indonesian earthquake

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AKARTA, Indonesia (CNS) — Catholic groups have collected and are distributing aid for thousands of people affected by a deadly earthquake that struck Lombok, Indonesia’s popular tourist island.

The magnitude 6.4 quake struck the island July 29, killing at least 16 people, injuring 355 others and forcing more than 5,100 people from their homes, according to the country’s national disaster agency.

Through July 30, 276 aftershocks had hit the island and other areas in West Nusa Tenggara province, ucanews.com reported.

At least 1,400 homes, seven schools, five health facilities, and 22 places of worship were badly damaged.

West Nusa Tenggara Gov. Muhammad Zainul Majdi declared a five-day state of emergency, ending Aug. 2.

“Catholics have started to collect aid. Catholic schools have collected tents, and my parishioners have collected rice and instant noodles,” Father Laurensius Maryono of St. Mary Immaculate Parish in Mataram, the provincial capital, told ucanews.com.

“St. Anthony Catholic Hospital has sent teams of medical workers to serve those affected by the quake in Sembalun sub-district, the worst-hit area,” he said.

The parish’s emergency response team — along with teams from the Diocese of Denpasar and the Mataram chapter of the Union of Catholic

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A young earthquake survivor sits with his family inside a makeshift tent July 30 on the island of Lombok in Indonesia. At least 16 people were killed and hundreds injured July 29 in the magnitude 6.4 earthquake.

University Students of the Republic of Indonesia — went to the district July 31.

“We had to assess the current situation and what aid the victims really

need. We’re focusing on things government and other organizations tend to overlook,” Father Maryono said.

Father Evensius Dewantoro, who

Archbishop convicted of failure to report abuse resigns

By Carol Glatz Catholic News Service

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Pope Francis accepted the resignation of Archbishop Philip Wilson, who had been found guilty by an Australian court of failing to inform police about child sexual abuse allegations.

The Vatican made the announcement July 30.

Archbishop Wilson of Adelaide was sentenced to 12 months of house arrest by the Newcastle Lower Court July 3 with another hearing set for Aug. 14 to assess the location of his home detention.

The archbishop was convicted in May for failing to report allegations of child sexual abuse by a priest in the 1970s. He stepped aside from his duties in the Adelaide Archdiocese May 25 but at the time maintained his title as archbishop.

Archbishop Wilson had resisted calls to resign and had said July 4 he would do so only if an appeal of his conviction had failed. However, “there is just too much pain and distress being caused by my maintaining the office of archbishop of Adelaide, especially to

the victims of Father [James] Fletcher,” Archbishop Wilson said in a statement released July 30. “I must end this and therefore have decided that my resignation is the only appropriate step to take in the circumstances,” he said.

Archbishop Wilson said the pope did not ask him to resign, but he submitted his request to the pope July 20 “because I have become increasingly worried at the growing level of hurt that my recent conviction has caused within the community.”

The archbishop said he hoped and prayed his decision would be a “catalyst to heal pain and distress” and allow everyone in the archdiocese, including victims of Father Fletcher, to, according to the archdiocese’s statement, “move beyond this very difficult time.”

The Newcastle court found that, in 1976, then-Father Wilson had been told by a 15-year-old boy that he had been indecently assaulted by a priest, but that Father Wilson chose not to go to the authorities despite believing the allegations were true. Father Fletcher, the abusive priest, was convicted in 2004 of nine counts of child sexual abuse and died in 2016 while in prison.

Archbishop Wilson, who had led the Archdiocese of Adelaide since 2001, is the highest-ranking church official

to be convicted of covering up abuse charges. He recently was diagnosed with early stages of Alzheimer’s disease, and throughout the magistrate’s hearing he testified that he had no memory of the conversation with the 15-year-old.

Archbishop Mark Coleridge, president of the Australian Catholic Bishops’ Conference, said that “while the judicial process will continue, Archbishop Wilson’s resignation is the next chapter in a heartbreaking story of people who were sexually abused at the hands of Jim Fletcher and whose lives were forever changed.

“This decision may bring some comfort to them, despite the ongoing pain they bear,” he said in a written statement released July 30. “Archbishop Wilson has been praised by many for his work to support victims and survivors of child sexual abuse as bishop of Wollongong, archbishop of Adelaide and president of the bishops’ conference,” Archbishop Coleridge wrote.

However, he said, Archbishop Wilson has decided “that his conviction means he can no longer continue as archbishop because to do so would continue to cause pain and distress to many, especially to survivors, and also in the Archdiocese of Adelaide.”

heads the Denpasar Diocese’s SocioEconomic Development Commission, said the teams would stay on site for three days.

Pope surprises elderly friend

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — People in a quiet residential neighborhood of Rome were surprised when a blue Ford Focus came to a stop, and Pope Francis stepped out.

The pope arrived July 28 at an apartment building in the city’s Salario neighborhood just a few blocks from the parish of Santa Maria Addolorata to visit a friend who was bedridden and had repeatedly invited him to visit, reported the Italian news agency Dire.

Vatican and Italian police officers waited outside while the pope made his way to the apartment to visit his friend. The visit lasted nearly an hour.

Upon hearing that the pope was in his building, a resident who was sick for some time, raced downstairs, hoping to greet the pope.

Pope Francis, the news agency reported, blessed and comforted the man before he got back in the car and returned to the Vatican.

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EMPLOYMENT Board members - Santa Marta, Johnson County’s premier life care community, sponsored by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, is seeking board members for the term beginning January 2019. The board meets during the business day four times per year. Each board member also serves on a committee that meets at least four times per year. We are seeking applicants who have a concern for senior citizens, and who have a background in health care, business management, law, finance, etc., to serve a four-year term to be effective in Jan. 1, 2019, with the option to extend for a second four-year term. Those who wish to be considered for appointment to the board are encouraged to submit a letter of interest, including a resume or details of relevant experience, to Heidi Abeln, Santa Marta Life Care Community, 13800 W. 116th, Olathe, KS 66062. If you have questions, contact Heidi at: habeln@santamartaretirement.com or call (913) 3237106 by Aug. 31. Include your phone number and mailing address as well as your email address in your letter.

Additional information about Santa Marta can be viewed online at: www.santamartaretirement.com.

Drivers - Ready for the summers off? Join our school transportation division and live like a kid again! Our drivers have the opportunity to serve our community and still get those precious summer breaks. Assisted Transportation seeks caring and reliable drivers to transport K - 12 students in Johnson and Wyandotte counties in our minivans. CDL not required. $12 per hour. Retirees encouraged to apply. Learn more or apply online at: assistedtransportation.com or call (913) 262-5190 for more information. EOE. President - An enthusiastic, dynamic and visionary leader is sought to serve as president of St. Teresa’s Academy starting with the academic 2019-20 term. The president oversees the educational and spiritual direction of 600 students and the administrative activities of 100 full and part-time faculty and staff. This position offers a rewarding opportunity for the right educational professional to lead a premier all-female college preparatory school, equipped with the most advanced tools and spaces to learn, study, exercise and grow in faith.

To see the full job description and to apply go online to: stastars.org/jobs.

Volunteer engagement coordinator VISTA - To successfully promote and support the mission of Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas (CCNEK) as guided by Catholic social teaching, by serving the needs of people living in our community. All of our programs utilize volunteers in mission-critical roles. The volunteer engagement coordinator VISTA position will help build the capacity of all these programs by assisting in the recruitment, orientation, training and retention of volunteers. Applicants must be part of the VISTA program. For more details, go online to: www.vistacampus.gov/howapply-americorps-vista. Benefits are provided through VISTA and may include a stipend, relocation allowance, health coverage, choice of education award or an end of service stipend. For details about AmeriCorps VISTA health care benefits, visit the website at: www.vista campus.gov/healthcare. To apply for the position, go online to: catholiccharitiesks.applicantpool.com, scroll down to “Volunteer Engagement Coordinator-VISTA” and click on the link.

Do you enjoy driving? - The Kansas City Transportation Group is looking for chauffeurs to drive our guests to events, airport, dinner, etc. Business is growing and we are in need of workers with flexible hours, those who are retired, etc. Great pay and benefits. Send resume to: jkalbert@kctg.com or in person at Carey, 1300 Lydia Ave., Kansas City, MO 64106.

Customer support specialist - My Catholic Faith Delivered is seeking a full-time person to help with the day-to-day needs of our clients in the areas of online learning and Catholic education delivery. Responsibilities include helping customers by providing product and service information; implementing solutions; and resolving technical issues. For more information, visit the blog at: www.mycatholicfaithdelivered.com or call (866) 981-8964. Email resumes to: jfoster@mycatholic faithdelivered.com. Benefits include dental, medical and vision insurance, 401(k) and annual salary between $30,000 - $38,000.

Preschool teaching positions - St. Ann Young Child Center in Prairie Village is looking to fill staff positions for the 2018-19 school year. Seeking a part-time 3-year-olds preschool teaching position for Tuesdays and Thursdays from 8:45 a.m. - noon. A degree in education is required.

Also seeking a part-time preschool aide for Monday - Friday from 8:45 a.m. - 12:45 p.m. Experience preferred but not necessary. Finally, seeking an extended-day aide for Monday through Friday from 3 - 6 p.m. If you love working with children and are looking for part-time work at our distinguished Young Child Center, call Tati at (913) 362-4660.

Coach - Bishop Miege High School is in need of an assistant tennis coach. Contact Andrew Groene at: agroene@bishopmiege.com or call (913) 222-5802.

Sales position – Do you have sales experience? Are you well networked in the local community? J.S. Paluch Company, national publisher of church bulletins, has full- and part-time positions available. Excellent earning potential; medical benefits; 401(k); life and AD&D insurance available; excellent commission; compensation program. Interested? Call Kay Leane at (800) 621-5197, ext. 2823, or email resume to: Recruiting@jspaluch.com.

Teachers - St. Joseph, Shawnee, Early Education Center is seeking a teacher for a half-time three-year-olds classroom. The hours are from 7:30 - 11:30 a.m., Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Good benefits and great environment. Call (913) 248-4589.

Music minister/assistant youth minister - Holy Trinity Parish is seeking to fill this full-time role of leadership that integrates music into all aspects of youth ministry.

Responsibilities include leading worship; organizing and rehearsing the band for our Sunday night youth Mass; coordinating and implementing music into other aspects of the youth ministry (prayer meetings, core meetings, retreats, special events, etc.); assisting in the planning and implementation of weekly Life Nights and periodic adoration/song/prayer events; and participation in weekly staff meetings and monthly core meetings.

Applicants must have experience leading a band and be familiar with contemporary Christian music and the Catholic Mass. Sight reading skills, experience as a worship leader, and experience and knowledge of Life Teen a plus. College degree in related field preferred. Competitive compensation based on experience. Email questions and/or resumes to: kwalters@htlenexa.org.

Bus driver needed - The Goddard School, Olathe (northwest), is accepting applications for a part-time before/ after school care BUS DRIVER. Applicant must be professional, mature, responsible and punctual. Applicant must have a clean driving record and enjoy working with young children. Driver will be responsible for transporting school-age children to/from our facility each morning and afternoon to several local elementary schools. May consider a different driver for a.m. and p.m., if necessary.

Great position for a retired “grandma/grandpa.” Minimum qualifications and requirements: Must be at least 21 years old; have a valid Kansas driver’s license without indication of a criminal record; a clear background check; no driving-related convictions or citations in the last three years; be familiar with the area; be organized, punctual and a self-starter; have good communication skills; meet state licensing requirements for health history; participate in reporting and implementation of the child abuse and neglect policy; participate in any professional development activities (i.e., CPR, first-aid training); previous teaching and/or driving experience preferred; CDL not required - 14 passenger bus.

Associate director of planned giving - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking an associate director of planned giving for the office of stewardship and development. This position is responsible for advancing the mission of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas through professional stewardship and relationship-building activities, as well as developing, organizing and implementing a spiritually based archdiocesan planned giving program. Duties include developing operational and program goals, communication for all planned giving initiatives and managing planned giving programs within the office of stewardship and development. The ideal candidate will be a practicing Catholic in good standing and have a minimum of five years in planned giving, marketing or related field. Requires bachelor’s degree in finance, communications or marketing; master’s degree preferred in business, law or accounting. Position requires a strong knowledge of Catholic Church organization and procedures; principles and practices of planned giving; building and maintaining relationships with staff, parishes and potential donors; and strict confidentiality. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www.archkck.org/jobs.

Interested individuals should send cover letter, resume, application and pastor’s letter of support. Send via email to: jobs@archkck.org; or mail to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, Associate Director of Planned Giving Search, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109. Application deadline is Aug. 15.

Cafeteria worker - Nativity Parish in Leawood has an opening for a part-time cafeteria worker, approximately 15 - 20 hours per week for the 2018-19 school year. Prior experience working in a school cafeteria is preferred, but not required. Compensation is based on experience.

Applicants must have dependable transportation, be Virtus trained and pass a background check. Interested applicants should contact Patti Post, cafeteria director, at: patti.post@kcnativity.org with resume and work history.

Counselor - Keeler Women’s Center is seeking a fulltime clinical mental health counselor. Duties include supporting the mission of Keeler Women’s Center (empowering women in the urban core); supervising master-level interns; facilitating support groups and/or classes; scheduling approximately 20 clients per week; maintaining records; coordinating other volunteer counselors; and other duties as needed. Qualified candidates must have an LCPC license; experience working with women and men of all ages and life experiences; prefer bilingual (Spanish); strong interpersonal skills; being hospitable to a diverse population; self-starter; able to multi task, problem solve, detail oriented, compassionate and empathetic; guided by principles of Catholic social teaching and the ACA code of ethics; and pass a background check. To apply, send a letter of interest and resume to Sister Bridget Dickason at: KWC@mountosb. org.

Positions available - TurnStyles thrift stores, a ministry of Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas, is looking for people who want to make a difference in the community where they live. TurnStyles is currently hiring for the following full-time positions: 1) truck driver and merchandising coordinator at the Overland Park, 87th St. location; 2) donation coordinator at the Overland Park, 137th St. location; and 3) store manager for the new, upcoming TurnStyles store in Mission. These will be full time, Monday - Saturday, 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. For more information and to apply, go online to: catholiccharitiesks. applicantpool.com.

Retired nurse or CNA - Needed to care for elderly, homebound lady on fixed income who uses wheelchair.

Light housework and personal care. Call Rose at (913) 481-7694.

Music director and accompanist - St. Anne Catholic Church, Wichita, is accepting applications for a director or music and a Sunday pianist. These may be fulfilled by the same person or by two people. The director job may be full- or part-time. The director trains and schedules cantors and accompanists. The pianist accompanies the choir at 10 a.m. Mass on Sundays. If interested, send an email to: frdavid@stannewichita.org or call (316) 522-2383.

Custodian - Bishop Miege High School is has an immediate opening for a full-time evening-shift custodian, M - F from 3:30 p.m. - midnight, with occasional days and weekends. The custodian will maintain cleanliness of the school building and grounds and ensure a safe and pleasant learning environment for students, staff and the public. Duties include, but are not limited to, general housekeeping and sanitation duties; event setup; and light maintenance. The candidate must be able to navigate stairs; stand for extended periods; lift 50 pounds regularly; have good communication skills; be able to relate positively and cooperatively with staff, students and the community. Send resume to Mariann Jaksa, 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Shawnee Mission, KS 66205; or email: mjaksa@bishopmiege.com.

Teachers - Infant/toddler teachers needed for our growing child care needs at St. Joseph, Shawnee, Early Education Center. Good benefits, great environment. Call (913) 248-4589.

Lead pre-kindergarten teacher - St. Patrick Early Education Center in Kansas City, Kan., is accepting applications for a lead pre-kindergarten teacher for the 2018-19 school year. The hours for the position will be 6:45 a.m. - noon, M - F, August - May. The applicant should be a practicing Catholic who loves working with preschool-age children. Primary responsibilities include supervision of children, lesson plan implementation, parent communication, and cleanliness and organization of the classroom. The applicant must have an AA or BA in early childhood education, child development or elementary education. Experience is a plus. For more information or to request an application, send an email to: stpatearlyedcenter@stpatrickkck.eduk12.net.

Parish secretary - Must be bilingual and able to read, write and translate in English and Spanish. Hours are flexible. Call Our Lady of Unity Catholic Church at (913) 677-4621 or email resume to: oluparishbulletin@gmail. com.

HOME IMPROVEMENT Swalms organizing - downsizing - cleanout service - Reduce clutter – Any space organized. Shelving built on-site. Items hauled for recycling and donations. 20 years exp.; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. WWW. SWALMSORGANIZING.COM. Decked Out In KC - We fix decks. We repair, power wash and stain wood decks and fences. We power wash and seal concrete drives, walkways, pool decks and more.

Call Brian at (913) 952-5965. Member of Holy Trinity Parish.

Father-and-son home exteriors and remodeling - Celebrating my 15th year in The Leaven as a small business owner! We do decks, siding, windows, doors, tile work, floors, wood rot, and interior and exterior painting.

We can remodel bathrooms, kitchens or basements. We also reface cabinets and redo pesky popcorn ceilings.

Call Josh at (913) 709-7230.

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176 STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835.

Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dan deeconst@aol.com.

NELSON CREATION’S L.L.C. Home makeovers, kitchen, bath. All interior and exterior remodeling and repairs.

Family owned, experienced, licensed and insured.

Member St. Joseph, Shawnee. Kirk Nelson.

(913) 927-5240; nelsport@everestkc.net Handyman/Remodeler - Quality service with references. Kitchens, baths, tile, painting, garage doors and openers, decks and wood rot repair. Call Jeff at (913) 915-4738.

Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

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DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time.

Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did.

Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com.

Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful. Woodwork will glow. Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125.

Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., staining, wood rot, power wash, decks, doors and windows, masonry, hardwood floors, gutter cleaning, water heaters, toilets, faucets, garbage disposals, ceiling fans, mowing and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118.

HARCO Exteriors LLC Your Kansas City fencing specialists Family owned and operated (913) 815-4817 www.harcoexteriorsllc.com The Drywall Doctor, Inc. – A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.

SERVICES Water damage restoration - Framing, insulation, painting, Sheetrock, mold treatment and lead-safe certified. Insurance claims welcome. Serving Wyandotte and Johnson counties for 25 years. Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within five days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover.

Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com.

Speedy Guzman Moving and delivery Licensed and insured Anytime (816) 935-0176 Senior hairstyling - Haircuts, perms, roller sets.

Savvy Salon, 5910 W. 59th Terrace Mission, KS, one block south of Johnson Dr. $5 off any service on 1st visit. Bonnie (816) 769-8511.

Win disability benefits - Disabled and no longer able to work? Get help winning Social Security disability benefits.

Free consultation. Eight years’ experience. No fee unless you win. Call (785) 331-6452 or send an email to: monte mace2000@yahoo.com or visit: montemacedisability.com.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@ kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer. com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress.

Clutter getting you down? - Organize, fix, assemble, install! “Kevin of all trades” your professional organizer and “Honey-do” specialist. Call or email me today for a free consultation at (913) 271-5055 or KOATorganizing@ gmail.com. Insured. References.

Rodman Lawn Care Lawn mowing, aeration, verticutting, mulching, Hedge trimming, leaf removal, gutter cleaning Fully insured and free estimates John Rodman (913) 548-3002 Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided.

Call (913) 940-2959.

8 to Your IdealWeight Get Real, Get Healthy, Get Empowered.

Release your weight and restore your power in 8 weeks!

Certified coach: kathioppold.8toyouridealweight.com.

Quilted memories - Your Kansas City Longarm shop Nolting Longarm machines, quilting supplies and machine quilting services. We specialize in memorial quilts - custom designed memory quilts from your T-shirt collections, photos, baby clothes, college memorabilia, neckties, etc. For information or to schedule a free consultation, call (913) 649-2704. Visit the website at: www.quiltedmemoriesllc.com.

Tree Trimming Tree Trimming/Landscaping Insured/References Free Estimates/Local Parishioner Tony (913) 620-6063 >> Classifieds continue on page 15

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CALENDAR ROAST BEEF DINNER St. Casimir Parish 719 Pennsylvania, Leavenworth Aug. 5 from 11:30 a.m. - 3 p.m.

The cost for a roast beef dinner is $10 for adults; and $5 for kids 12 and under. Takeout will be available.

CHIPOTLE FUNDRAISER FOR CATHOLIC CHARITIES - LAWRENCE Chipotle 4000 W. 6th St., Lawrence Aug. 6 from 4 - 8 p.m.

Make dinner a selfless act by purchasing a meal and telling the cashier you are supporting this cause to make sure 33 percent of the proceeds will be donated to support the food pantry.

SILENT DIRECTED RETREAT Sophia Spirituality Center 751 S. 8th St., Atchison Aug. 7 - 12

Take time away from the noise and busyness of the world by making a silent directed retreat. The retreat includes a daily session with a spiritual director, opportunities to join the Sisters for Liturgy of the Hours, Mass and centering prayer. There will also be time for rest, personal prayer, journaling and reflection. For more information or to register, call (913) 360-6173 or visit the website at: www.sophiaspiritualitycenter.org.

MARGARITAS FOR MARGARITA: A BENEFIT FOR CENTRO HISPANO J. Wilson’s Restaurant 4821 W. 6th St., Lawrence Aug. 9 from 4 - 10 p.m.

J. Wilson’s Restaurant will donate 15 percent of all margaritas and food items sold to benefit Centro Hispano’s work assisting local immigrant families. This is an effort of the Lawrence Interfaith Refugee and Immigrant Ministry (LIRIM).

hosting the event. There will be cash prizes and concessions will be sold. For more information, call (913) 850-3349.

volunteer, go the website at: www.archkck. org/specialneeds and complete the online form.

PARISH PICNIC AND REUNION Immaculate Conception Parish 208 W. Bertrand, St. Marys Aug. 12 from 4 - 8 p.m.

DIVORCED: CALLED TO LOVE AGAIN Church of the Ascension (St. Luke Room) 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park 2nd and 4th Sundays from 7 - 8:30 p.m.

The cost for a chicken dinner with all the trimmings will be $10 for adults; and $5 for kids under 12. Takeout dinners may be picked up at 3:30 p.m. There will be kids games and rides, bingo, cash drawings and a garage sale. For more information, call (785) 437-2408 or see the website at: www. immaculateconceptionstmarys.com.

HEALING MASS Curé of Ars Parish (Father Burak Room) 9405 Mission Rd., Leawood Aug. 16 at 7:30 p.m.

A Mass with prayers for healing, sponsored by archdiocesan charismatic prayer groups, will be held. Father Tom Kearns will preside.

For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

‘GROWING IN AWARENESS OF WOMEN IN THE GOSPEL’ Precious Blood Renewal Center 2130 St. Gaspar Way, Liberty, Missouri Aug. 16 from 6:45 - 8:45 p.m.

The way in which the Gospels characterize women and their roles will be explored. A reflection on the culture of the day continues to invite and challenge. The suggested donation is $25. Register by Aug. 13 by calling (816) 415-3745 or by sending an email to: info@pbrenewalcenter.org. For more information, go online to: www.pbrenewalcenter. org/events-news.

CHARITY GOLF TOURNAMENT Ironhorse Country Club 12700 Overbrook Rd., Leawood Sept. 17 at 1:30 p.m.

This is a session on reflection of the Scriptures, contemplation and body movement.

Tee off is at 1:30 p.m. The cost of $125 per person, $500 per team, includes golf, driving range, dinner awards banquet and refreshments on the course. This is a four-person scramble with age-handicapped tee offs. Contact David Whitaker by email at: dwhitaker416@gmail.com or call him at (913) 626-2676 for registration information and corporate sponsorships.

ST. STANISLAUS PICNIC St. Stanislaus Parish (Dekat Hall) 701 S. Main, Rossville Aug. 11 at 4 p.m.

MEMORIAL LITURGY Curé of Ars Parish 9405 Mission Rd., Leawood Aug. 18 at 8 a.m.

PRAYER AND MOVEMENT Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Aug. 9 from 10 - 11 a.m.

A beer garden, bingo and silent auction will be available from 3 - 6:30 p.m. A dinner of pork loin or chicken with sides and dessert will be served from 4 - 6:30 p.m. Mass will be celebrated at 7 p.m. For more information, call (785) 584-6612 or send an email to: 7ststanislaus@gmail.com.

‘FINDING ADAM, FINDING EVE — AUTHENTIC LOVE IN THE HOOKUP CULTURE’ Aug. 10 at 6:30 p.m.

This honest discussion is for singles ages 19 - 35. For more information, including location, send an email to Michael or Katie Palitto at: calledtolove143@gmail.com or call them at (913) 488-7083. For information about the program, go online to: facebook. com/ giftofself143.

BENEFIT DINNER St. Joseph Parish 11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee Aug. 11 at 6 p.m.

The cost for an authentic Brazilian stroganoff meal is a freewill donation. The dinner is a benefit for the Fraternity the Poor of Jesus Christ mission in Nicaragua.

BINGO NIGHT Sacred Heart Parish 2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, Kansas Aug. 11 at 7 p.m.

Sacred Heart Knights of Columbus will be

There will be a memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones followed by a grief support meeting in the Father Burak Room. For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

CROATIAN FESTIVAL St. John the Baptist Parish 708 N. 4th St., Kansas City, Kansas Aug. 18 at 5 p.m.

Admission is free and activities begin after 4 p.m. Mass on the parish grounds. Traditional Croatian food and cold beverages will be available for purchase. There will be children’s and family booths. A free dance will begin at 9 p.m. For more information, go to the website at: stjohnthebaptistcatholic church.com; send an email to: ourcroatian parish@gmail.com; or go to “St. John the Baptist Croatian Parish” on Facebook.

BREATHE RESPITE CARE PROGRAM Holy Cross School 8101 W. 95th St., Overland Park Aug. 18 from 4 - 8 p.m.

BREATHE respite care provides the gift of time away from caregiving for families who have a loved one age 5 years or older with a disability. Volunteers are needed. Prayerfully consider offering your time. Contact Tom Racunas at (913) 647-3054 or send an email to: tracunas@archkck.org, or Audrey Amore at (816) 739-1197 or by email at: aamore@sja keepingfaith.org if you have any questions.

To register a loved one for the program, or to

What’s next after divorce/annulment? Join us for a formation series on the gift of self, which helps us fulfill the call to love again.

Visit the Facebook page at: www.facebook. com/giftofself143 or send an email to: calledtolove143@gmail.com.

LECTIO DIVINA Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton Mondays at 10 a.m.

Come be transformed by learning the sacred art of lectio divina. Participants are welcome to stay afterward and enjoy the peace and beauty of the grounds. RSVP by calling (913) 773-8255.

COPING WITH LIFE ALONE St. Patrick Parish (lower level) 1357 N.E. 42nd Terr., Kansas City, Missouri Sept. 9 - Oct. 21 from 2 - 4 p.m.

(Sundays)

“Coping with Life Alone” is a peer-to-peer grief support group that meets each week for seven weeks. The program helps those who have lost a love relationship due to death, divorce or separation move through the experience of grief and loss into a future with renewed hope. For more information and to register, call Donna at (816) 3053760.

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CATHOLIC WOMEN’S BIBLE STUDY Holy Trinity Parish (Father Quigley Center) 13615 W. 92nd St., Lenexa Thursday mornings beginning Sept. 6 from 9:30 - 11 a.m.

This Bible study will cover the books of John, Ephesians and the prophets. The Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is offered for kids ages 3 - 12 and kids under the age of 3 are welcome in the nursery or can stay with Mom in a “moms’ study group.” To register, go online to: www.htlenexa.org and click on “Catholic Women’s Bible Study.” Registration is due by Aug. 31. Mail to Kathryn Burditt. For more information, call Laura Haeusser at (913) 3419057 or Kathryn Burditt at (913) 451-3680 or send her an email at: tkburditt@hotmail. com.

Concrete Work

Any type of repair and new work Driveways, Walks, Patios Member of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish

Harvey M. Kascht (913) 262-1555

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COMMENTARY

Honestly, we’re all a little loopy

EIGHTEENTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Aug. 5 EIGHTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Ex 16: 2-4, 12-15 Ps 78: 3-4, 23-25, 54 Eph 4: 17, 20-24 Jn 6: 24-35 Aug. 6 THE TRANSFIGURATION OF THE LORD Dn 7: 9-10, 13-14 Ps 97: 1-2, 5-6, 9 2 Pt 1: 16-19 Mk 9: 2-10 Aug. 7 Sixtus II, pope, and companions, martyrs; Cajetan, priest Jer 30: 1-2, 12-15, 18-22 Ps 102: 16-23, 29 Mt 14: 22-36 Aug. 8 Dominic, priest Jer 31: 1-7 (Ps) Jer 31: 10-13 Mt 15: 21-28 Aug. 9 Teresa Benedicta of the Cross, virgin, martyr Jer 31: 31-34 Ps 51: 12-15, 18-19 Mt 16: 13-23 Aug. 10 LAWRENCE, DEACON, MARTYR 2 Cor 9: 6-10 Ps 112: 1-2, 5-9 Jn 12: 24-26 Aug. 11 Clare, virgin Hb 1:12 – 2:4 Ps 9: 8-13 Mt 17: 14-20 NINETEENTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Aug. 12 NINETEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME 1 Kgs 19: 4-8 Ps 34: 2-9 Eph 4:30 – 5:2 Jn 6: 41-51 Aug. 13 Pontian, pope, and Hippolytus, priest, martyrs Ez 1: 2-5, 24-28c Ps 148: 1-2, 11-14 Mt 17: 22-27 Aug. 14 Maximilian Kolbe, priest, martyr Ez 2:8 – 3:4 Ps 119: 14, 24, 72, 103, 111, 131 Mt 18: 1-5, 10, 12-14 Aug. 15 THE ASSUMPTION OF THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY Rv 11: 19a; 12: 1-6a, 10ab Ps 45: 10bc, 11-12ab, 16 1 Cor 15: 20-27 Lk 1: 39-56 Aug. 16 Stephen of Hungary Ez 12: 1-12 Ps 78: 56-59, 61-62 Mt 18:21 – 19:1 Aug. 17 Friday Ez 16: 1-15, 60, 63 (Ps) Is 12: 2-6 Mt 19: 3-12 Aug. 18 Ez 18: 1-10, 13b, 30-32 Ps 51: 12-15, 18-19 Mt 19: 13-15

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t’s the words that I love to hear: “OK, let’s finish strong!”

When they’re uttered, I know that my torture is at an end . . . and that I’ve survived once again. Of course, the “torture” is euphemistically called a “workout” by Jasper, my personal trainer. Twice a week — on Wednesdays and Saturdays —this patient person has worked to get me in better shape.

But it’s those words, “finish strong,” that truly are inspirational as well as encouraging.

I’m a great starter — of hobbies, books, projects and resolutions — but an incorrigible finisher.

Knowing this, my Leaven staff took bets when I started my exercise program on just how long I’d continue with it. That I’ve stuck with it for 19 months now has surprised even me. And that determination to “finish strong” is starting to ooze into other areas of my life.

Unfinished tasks are what business writer David Allen describes as “open loops” in his best-selling book “Getting Things Done.”

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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

Subconsciously, these items are constantly niggling our brain, zapping our energy. If you find yourself exhausted at the end of each day and can’t figure out why, it could be that “open loops” are doing a number on you.

“Finish strong” has become my new mantra, especially when I face something that I’ve procrastinated on for a long time. It’s then that feelings of guilt start to trickle in to strangle my motivation. That’s when I remind myself of this

little story: There was once a wise old woman who was a piano instructor.

Over the years, without fail, when she was preparing her students for a recital, she’d have them practice the conclusions over and over again.

And naturally, the kids would grumble over the constant repetition of the last few measures of music. When one would get the courage to complain out loud, here’s how the teacher would respond: “You can make a mistake in the beginning or you can make a mistake in the middle.

The people will forget it, though, if you make the ending glorious!”

(Adapted from Paul J. Wharton’s “Stories and

Parables for Preachers and Teachers.”)

Yes, there is a real sense of accomplishment when you finish strong, make the end glorious, close off some of those open loops. I’ll bet if you look around you right now, you can spot about a dozen open loops: a smudge on the refrigerator door; some item that belongs in another room; an unread Leaven; a plate that needs to go in the dishwasher; a pair of socks on a chair; an unanswered appeal from a favorite charity; a piece of paper to file; a dirty litter box; some trash on the floor; or a box filled with donated items waiting to be delivered.

Now that you’ve noticed these things, go ahead and grab a few minutes to close a few of these easy loops.

Really. I’ll wait . . .

OK, now that you’re back, I do want to warn you to be careful with the mantra to “finish what you start.” An internet meme says that a doctor advised people to always finish what they start if they want to discover inner peace.

So, the meme goes

on to say, “I looked around my house to find things I started and hadn’t finished. I ended up finishing a large bag of Doritos, a package of cookies, a gallon of ice cream, a six-pak of Bullevard, a bodle of wine and a fith of Skosh.

Yu haf no idr how fablus I fil rite now! I got inner peas.”

Seriously, we can all use a bit of perseverance to finish strong on those things that are the most important loops in our life and faith. And the best place to start is by asking for a little heavenly help: “Dear St. Joseph the Worker, help me to persevere and finish the work I have started. I am so easily distracted.

I think of you working steadily and silently in your workshop, an example of constancy for your foster son Jesus. I believe that if I ask, he will grant me the grace to follow your example as well.”

OK, this column is done: That’s one loop closed . . . just 700 more to go!

Jesus gives people the answer they need

oliticians can be very adept at not giving a direct answer to a question.

Instead, they will often use the answer as a vehicle to communicate what matters to them, not necessarily what matters to the listener.

We see a good example of that in Sunday’s Gospel reading, Jn 6:2435.

The crowd asks Jesus for the time of his arrival: “Rabbi, when did you get here?” They have been looking for him.

But Jesus’ answer does not address that issue. Instead, he points the crowd to another direction, to what they should be seeking: “Amen, amen, I say to you, you are looking for me not because you

THE GOSPEL TRUTH

FATHER MIKE STUBBS Father Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

saw signs but because you ate the loaves and were filled. Do not work for food that perishes

but for the food that endures for eternal life.”

Jesus wishes to raise their attention from the mundane matter of the time of his arrival to the far more important matter of their eternal salvation. He wishes to elevate their outlook.

In John’s Gospel, Jesus is constantly encouraging the crowd to look up to the things of

POPE FRANCIS

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ith the rising death toll of migrants and refugees attempting the treacherous voyage across the Mediterranean Sea, Pope Francis urged world leaders to act to prevent further tragedy.

“I make a heartfelt appeal to the international community to act decisively and promptly in order to prevent such tragedies from recurring and to guarantee the safety, respect for the rights and dignity of all,” the pope said July 22 after reciting the Angelus prayer with an estimated 25,000 people gathered in St. Peter’s Square.

heaven, rather than the things of earth.

That is why the symbol for St. John the Evangelist is the eagle, the bird which can soar up to the heavens.

Sunday’s reading is the perfect example of that.

The bread in Jesus’ day did not contain preservatives. It would turn stale within a day.

It was very perishable.

In contrast to that, Jesus offers the crowd food “that endures for eternal life.”

Of course, Jesus does not mean physical food, but spiritual food. That is the food that will keep forever. Not only will it last forever, it will enable us to last forever.

Jesus Christ himself is that food: “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me will never

hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.”

We identify the Eucharist as the bread of life, the food which is Jesus Christ.

In the next few Sundays, the Gospel readings delve into the meaning of this sacrament. Here, though, notice that Jesus does not mention the action of eating and drinking.

Instead, he talks about coming to him and believing in him. In other words, the physical action of eating and drinking the Eucharist is not enough. It needs to be accompanied by our belief in Christ and our desire to come to him.

Then, we have the food that endures for eternal life.

According to the International Organization for Migration’s Missing Migrant Project, an estimated 1,490 migrants have died in the Mediterranean Sea this year. The pope expressed his pain “in the midst of such tragedies” and offered his prayers “for the missing and their families.”

In Italy, Interior Minister Matteo Salvini has barred several rescue ships from docking and has vowed to stop any foreign boats carrying rescued migrants into the country. The move has hampered rescue efforts of migrants trying to escape war, violence, persecution and poverty.

Before making his appeal, the pope reflected on the day’s Gospel reading in which Jesus invites his disciples to rest after their first mission, but the gathering of a large crowd prevents them from relaxing and eating.

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TEA PARTY

offers up a cup of companionship

By Jill Ragar Esfeld jill.esfeld@theleaven.org

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LATHE — Cecile Rasmussen remembers “peregrinating” with her father when she was a very little girl back in Georgia.

A petite golden-ager with a gracious demeanor that recalls a time of mint juleps on the veranda, Rasmussen loves sharing her memories of long ago.

“He was an author,” she said of her father. “I don’t know if that’s a real word (peregrinating) or one he made up, but it meant we would go walking together.

“Dad loved to walk — and I was his partner.”

“Peregrinating” is a real word. And Rasmussen’s father LeGarde Doughty was, indeed, a prolific author and poet hailing from Georgia.

Rasmussen remembers him well. But when asked what brought her to Kansas, she isn’t sure.

Katie Zahner, who sits beside Rasmussen, helps out by suggesting, “You probably moved for your husband’s job — that’s the way things were back then.”

“Yes,” says Rasmussen.

“That must have been it.”

The gathering It’s a typical Sunday afternoon at the Ladies Tea and Talk held in the memory-care unit of Santa Marta Retirement Community in Olathe.

The brainchild of Church of Ascension, Overland Park, parishioner Barbara Chamblin, the teas are held twice each month.

They’re a way for women here, who are challenged with memory deficiencies, to bond and help one another recapture the past.

Chamblin takes notes at each tea and delights in the stories these women share.

Though participants have health issues and struggle with lapses in recollection, they are a lively group whose members haven’t forgotten how to laugh.

When it comes time to choose a tea, Zahner quips, “I’d like the one with the scotch in it.”

Called to serve Two years ago, Chamblin was reading her parish bulletin and saw a notice for the Santa Marta board of directors.

“And I thought to myself, ‘I don’t want to be on a board of directors,’” she said.

But Chamblin did feel the message was meant for her; she felt called to do something at Santa Marta.

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Barb Chamblin provides tea, dessert and topics of conversation for women attending her Tea and Talk parties in the Memory Care Unit of Santa Marta Retirement Community in Olathe.

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“IT’S AMAZING WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM THEM AND JUST THE COMFORT THAT COMES FROM BEING WITH THIS AGE GROUP.” “I knew no one over there,” she said. “I didn’t know who was in charge of the place, but I pursued it because I thought there was a purpose, something I could do.”

Chamblin has spent her life as a caregiver. She’d been married 44 years and raised three daughters while pursuing her career — first as a social worker and then as a registered nurse.

She’s always been active in the Catholic community and said her desire to help others is influenced by her pastor’s philosophy of service.

“I’ve always been inspired

by Monsignor Tom Tank,” she said. “I think his message to us as a parish is to serve others.

“And, so I’ve always thought, ‘What can I do?’”

Chamblin called Santa Marta and began volunteering there by calling the weekly bingo games.

But she wanted to do more.

“I was asked by the activities coordinator to help acclimate a new resident who was going through an adjustment phase,” she said.

That’s how she met Rasmussen.

“I developed a friendship with her,” she said. “And between the two of us and one other founding member, we developed the Tea and Talk group.”

The group consists of anywhere from six to 10 women from the memory-care unit.

Chamblin’s mother suffered from Alzheimer’s disease and, as she declined in health, lived with Chamblin and her husband.

“So, the memory unit, people who are declining and needing to be supported, is something I’ve always cared about,” she said.

Sharing and supporting Tea and Talk takes place every other Sunday afternoon and usually lasts about 90 minutes.

Chamblin brings a variety of teas and serves them in beautiful porcelain china cups, with pretty napkins.

“I just try to make it as girly as possible,” she said.

She also supplies sweet treats to share.

“I’ve always enjoyed the confection area of baking,” she said. “I try many recipes and they’re really good about giving me their opinions.

“They love to do that.”

Sometimes, the tea parties take place in a lounge area of the memory unit, but often one

of the women will offer to host the event in her small apartment.

“Some women, because they used to host their own parties, love to be the co-host,” said Chamblin. “Sometimes they’ve brought their daughters and one invited her son who happened to be up for a visit.”

Chamblin always supplies a topic for discussion, and she is so inspired by some of the conversations that she keeps a journal.

“The stories they tell are so rich,” she said.

Subjects are varied, and discussions range from politics to home life. The women find camaraderie in the many life experiences they share.

“Everybody is on a different level,” said Chamblin. “There are some very alert women that can speak and interact well.

“There are others who are a little withdrawn, they can’t recall, but they just put in whatever feels appropriate.

“The group supports them; everyone recognizes that we’re on different levels.”

Barbara Habib

Katie Zahner

Life lessons Often, the talk turns to faith.

And though not all the women are Catholic, they all share a deep belief in God and an afterlife.

“It’s amazing what I’ve learned from them and just the comfort that comes from being with this age group,” said Chamblin.

One insight Chamblin has gained from her experience at Santa Marta is that “it isn’t easy to be born, nor is it easy to grow old and die.”

But she values the life lessons she has learned from her Tea and Talk group.

“If I can grow old as gracefully as these women have,” she said, “then I’ll be fortunate.

“All of them seem to appreciate the next day, the little things in life. They find the richness in something.

“And they’re not complainers.

“They don’t dwell on regrets; they move forward.”

Tea and Talk is a fluid group and Chamblin is always checking with staff to see if any new women might be interested in joining them.

The group appreciates the effort Chamblin puts into their gatherings — though, at first, they weren’t sure why she sought their company.

“It took them a while to understand why I was coming here,” she said. “They wondered who in this group was my mother.”

“Now they know,” she added. “They’re my friends; that’s why I’m here.”

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