The Knot Missouri-Kansas Spring/Summer 2019

MISSOURI & KANSAS

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CONTENTS

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get the look theknot.com editor’s note wedding tools spring awakening ask the knot squad top picks venue scout expert advice the wed thread haute hues marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

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happy trails

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fashion & beauty 175

bridal beauty, debunked Pros bust the biggest skin, hair and makeup myths.

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marriage mantras Stay Zen and get through planning with these ideas.

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the knot beauty awards We tested hundreds of products to find the best buys for your beauty routine.

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maid for style Keep your girls looking fabulous without creating drama or breaking the bank.

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slice by slice

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dress codes decoded The right attire and accessories no matter your venue or style.

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stylist on call Shoe queen Tamara Mellon gives us the scoop on choosing the best wedding shoes, plus trends she’s loving.

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happy trails Put the “glam” in glamping and channel the boho vibe of the great outdoors with these fresh wedding day looks.

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rental reboot

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We suited up and got the info on four companies’ rental services.

stylist on call

style 122

morning matrimony A bright palette and plenty of personal details kick a daytime affair up a notch.

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slice by slice Every cake detail you need—and want—to know.

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destination décor Evoke the feel of a destination wedding locale with these stylish items.

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the main course Five totally unique catering trends.

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favors for every style Fresh ideas for your guests to take home—whatever your vibe.

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registry by room Products for every corner of your newlywed nest.

FROM LEF T: JADE + MAT THEW TAKE PICTURES; THERESA BRIDGET PHOTOGR APHY

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“St unning...Simply St unning! ” Award-Winning Floral Designs

For Truly Memorable Weddings, Breathtaking Receptions and Unforgettable Moments

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Call To Set Up A Consultation With Jenny Thomasson, AIFD PFCI EMC

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CONTENTS

real weddings 87

katherine & kayley october 20, st. louis

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leslie & tyler september 23, st. louis

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jenna & michael september 29, springfield, mo

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christa & lucas june 17, pacific, mo

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saturn & casey november 4, st. louis

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the year’s freshest venues

caylin & weston april 15, branson, mo

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kathleen & will october 7, st. louis

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emily & wesley

planning the year’s freshest venues

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The new twists on some old faves.

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emily & wesley 257

lauren & tim sophia & patrick

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october 7, manhattan, ks

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molly & dave 311

felisa & pablo

Creative and considerate gift ideas from real couples like you.

august 26, kansas city, mo

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personalized wedding day gifts

brigitte & sebastian

your prewedding jitters, solved Wade through nuptial nerves with this psych-backed advice.

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destination “I do” Must-have info to help you host a memorable far-flung affair.

picture perfect Use these photography tips for photos you’ll cherish for a lifetime.

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9 smart (and sneaky) ways to stay in budget Keep your funds in line while still having the wedding of your dreams.

september 23, kansas city, mo

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A breakdown of a few sweet sentiments you may (or may not) already know.

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Nail down your wedding vision.

march 17, kansas city, mo

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your style, defined

thoughtful wedding traditions

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how to pull off all those other parties Ensure every wedding-related bash is a (fun) success.

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krishelle & brandon may 27, kansas city, mo

REAL WEDDING BUDGET KEY

$ = $10,000 or less

We know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!).

Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

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$$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$$ = $75,001+

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The PERFECT Marriage of

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ABOUT THE COVER

get the look Love our boho-chic cover dresses?

Check out more fashion-forward styles for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

COVER Dress, $3,220, Leanne Marshall at BRIDE., BRIDEKC.com (Kansas City, MO); engagement ring, $2,815 (not including center stone), NoamCarver.com; earrings, $195, AlexisBittar.com

COVER Dress, $8,500, TemperleyLondon .com; engagement ring, $3,890 (not including center stone), Tacori.com; earrings, $575, JenniferBehr.com; shoes, $950, JimmyChoo.com

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COVER Dress, $3,300, RitaVinieris.com; vest, $1,450, shop similar styles at TSECashmere.com; earrings, $1,000, JacquieAiche.com

Scout’s Honor

We a sked these campers about their fave moments on set.

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SCOUT Luca AGE 8 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “I liked being outside, running toward the camera, dressing up and getting to meet a lot of new people.”

SCOUT Brett AGE 7 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “I love being outdoors, so I liked the camping theme of the shoot.

It was pretty cool exploring the woods.”

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SCOUT Tyler AGE 9 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “It was fun dressing up as a scout because I’m a Cub Scout in real life.

I’ve learned a lot about volunteering.”

A trendy way to do outdoor nuptials that combines glam amenities (think: tricked-out décor) with more traditional camping elements.

COVERS AND BOY SCOUTS: CHRIS CR AYMER; ICON: B FARIAS/NOUN PROJEC T

BEHIND THE SCENES

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Vineyard the

at riverbend chapel

Overlooking the Missouri wine valley and nestled within the wooded Missouri River bluffs, The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel is the perfect location for your outdoor wedding.

Or tie the knot inside our chapel where a cozy reception area allows guests to mingle by the fireplace. The formal ballroom in the lower level is adorned with chandeliers, stone arched bar and fireplace, generous cherry dance floor and large windows with sweeping views of the river valley and surrounding wooded area.

We’d like to invite you to come take a tour of the enchanting Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel.

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MISSOURI & KANSAS

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kristen Maxwell Cooper DESIGN DIRECTOR

DEPUTY EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

SENIOR DIRECTOR, REAL WEDDINGS

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Tracy Everding

Lauren Kay

Susan Berryman

Maria Bouselli

Rebecca Crumley

Jo Miller

SENIOR DIGITAL EDITOR SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR STYLE & PLANNING EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITORS ASSOCIATE ART DIRECTOR JUNIOR DESIGNER ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR, PHOTO ASSOCIATE DIGITAL EDITOR, PHOTO ASSISTANT EDITORS, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY CONTRIBUTING PHOTO DIRECTOR CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR, SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR, SOCIAL MEDIA MARKETING MANAGER, SOCIAL MEDIA SENIOR VIDEO PRODUCER VIDEO PRODUCER

Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Alyssa Longobucco Rachel Sylvester, Becky Murray Sarah Evans Emma Gray Pitt Katie Kortebein Rebecca Delman Jessica Kane Maggie Seaver, Sophie Ross Farah Prince Sarah Rozen Michele Parrella Whitney Little Sarah Hooper Trisha Tucker Jacquie Militano Jose Marmolejos

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PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier CONTENT EDITOR Lois Brunnert Bethune

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THE STUDIO @ XO VP, CUSTOM CONTENT & HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig EXECUTIVE PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR, SALES DEVELOPMENT MARKETING Chaucy Dixon SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelsey Paine SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan ASSISTANT SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR Stephani Schell SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Steve Pironti, spironti@theknot.com (650) 548-1307 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Britt Shelby, bshelby@theknot.com (314) 802-8392 SENIOR REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR SENIOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE SENIOR DIRECTOR, SHOWS & EVENTS DIRECTOR, PRODUCT MARKETING STRATEGY SPECIALISTS DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING SENIOR MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING COORDINATOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING COFOUNDER

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REAL WEDDINGS

get inspired Browse weddings from across Missouri and Kansas, including Tiffini and Travis’s St. Louis celebration that included a ceremony at Piper Palm House and a reception at NEO on Locust. “Delicious food and dance are how we celebrate and express joy,” Tiffini says. “It was only natural those items inspired our wedding style.” An ice cream truck from Pirtle’s Famous Ice Cream made for an unexpected, personal finish.

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Love is Stronger gowngallery.com 816.361.8111

Nick Allen Photo. Gown by: Lazaro.

Model: @bellefulani. Makeup: @carobenitezn

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I’m all about the idea of a brunch wedding. Cereal and mimosas? Yes, please. (p. 122)

EDITOR ’S NOTE

Casual themes, like glamping, are very on trend. (p. 214)

If a white dress doesn’t speak to you, find one in a color that does and just go for it. (p. 58)

ON THE APP WE’VE INCLUDED THIS ICON throughout the magazine to indicate whenever The Knot app can help with a planning or inspiration task.

When it comes to weddings today, the rules are simple: There are no rules! You can get married on a campground (p. 214), wear a colorful suit or dress (p. 58), or host a brunch celebration complete with cereal décor and everyone’s fave breakfast bites (p. 122). In other words, the options are truly endless. For all of the brides and grooms out there looking for a rule book ( hi there), the thought of “anything goes” could feel overwhelming—and you may not know where to start.

Whoever you are, and whatever celebration you’re throwing, begin by downloading The Knot app—it will help you determine your style, customize to-do lists and find vendors in your area. The next step? Look to your relationship for inspiration. Consider activities you like to do together, a location you frequent or a global tradition you both admire.

Start adding these bit by bit into your ceremony and reception, and you’ll soon have a celebration that feels just like you.

KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief

Follow me @kristenmax I want to hear from you! kristen@theknot.com

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COOPER: SAR AH LOVE PHOTOGR APHY; EMOJI: EMOJIPEDIA; BRIDE AND BOY SCOUTS: CHRIS CR AYMER; BRUNCH COUPLE: JESSIC A HUNT PHOTOGR APHY; COUPLE IN PINK: NERIPHOTO; CEREAL: ISTOCK

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WEDDING TOOL S

CONGRATULATIONS

you’re engaged!

Here are the big tasks from “yes” to “I do.” Turn the page for more, including the tools you’ll need and how to get your personalized checklist.

BOOK A VENUE Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.

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NAIL DOWN THE BUDGET Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and who else will be contributing).

GATHER YOUR CREW Ask your besties to stand by you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day.

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REGISTER & CREATE A WEBSITE Start a wish list and site on The Knot .com. Share the link so guests are in on all the details, like hotel room blocks.

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PLAN THE CEREMONY Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling if required.

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COMPLETE YOUR TEAM Book any outstanding pros like hairstylists, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.

BUY THE RINGS Shop for and purchase your wedding rings—don’t forget insurance (now it’s starting to feel really real, right?).

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PICK YOUR WEDDING PAPER Decide on invites, thank-yous and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag a discount.

FINALIZE OTHER PARTY DETAILS Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.

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GO FOR FITTINGS Have the final dress fitting and arrange for suit or tux rental pickup.

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CHOOSE A POINT PERSON If you don’t have a wedding planner or day-of coordinator, task a friend or family member to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.

BUY THE FORMALWEAR Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Decide what your wedding party will wear too.

GET THE MARRIAGE LICENSE You’ll find this must-have doc at the state registrar’s office in the county where you’ll wed.

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get married!

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The planning and hard work are behind you—time to celebrate your new status.

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ONCE IN A WHILE, RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF AN ORDINARY LIFE,

Love gives us a fairy tale.

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plan your wedding on your phone Organizing all those details and to-dos? There’s an app for that. The Knot Wedding Planner pulls together your vision, pros and guests to put planning in the palm of your hand.

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FIND YOUR WEDDING STYLE We know—you’re probably figuring out where you should even start.

We’ve got you covered. Once you download the app, the first thing you’ll do is swipe, swipe, swipe on images in our Style Quiz. It’s a fun way to help zero in on your wedding vibe. Once complete, you’ll have your very own Wedding Vision (more on that on the next page).

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What should we put in the welcome bags for our island destination wedding?

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In fact, these colors can work for almost any type of wedding. Pair inky-blue dresses with classic black suits and rich eggplant florals for an elegant, moody affair. If your signature style is a bit more vibrant, throw in a pop of color, like flamingo pink or kelly green. For a modern celebration, brighten the palette with scarlet accents.

Still not convinced? Consider choosing ties or vests in something other than black—that still coordinates with your wedding palette, of course—to lighten the overall look and shift the focus away from the tuxedos. And for your attendants, opt for a shade of navy closer to black than to blue. But trust us: You don’t have to worry about a color clash.

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It’s important to also consider the time of year you’re celebrating, so you can land on a drink that has the perfect balance of in-season flavors and colors—and is the right temperature too. When in doubt, go classic with a mojito, margarita or martini, and add a few ingredients to make it your own (think: lavender, herbs like basil or mint, edible flowers, jalapeño or fresh fruit like raspberries). These elements are also a great way to tie in your wedding colors. Then, just give your drink a creative name and you’re all set.

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THE CONSERVATORY ST. CHARLES, MO COST from $1,600 GUEST COUNT 100 STYLE Romantic & vintage ABOUT The all-glass garden

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THE EVENT SPACE AT THE JOHNSON COUNTY ARTS AND HERITAGE CENTER OVERLAND PARK, KS COST from $2,310 GUEST COUNT 300 STYLE Retro & modern ABOUT The former home of

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THE VENUE AT MAISON DU LAC PACIFIC, MO COST from $4,000 GUEST COUNT 300 STYLE Industrial & glamorous ABOUT The contemporary

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Ambassador Hotel Wichita shares tips for acing guest hospitality and your room block negotiations.

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Hotel contracts are riddled with legalese.

Can you define some need-to-know terms?

An attrition rate is a guarantee that a certain number of rooms will be booked by your friends and family. For example, if your contract reserves 20 hotel rooms at 80 percent attrition, you’re financially responsible for 16 rooms. If your guests only book 15 rooms, you’d have to cover the last one. Strike this clause if you can. A mitigation clause outlines the parameters for a hotel to resell any unreserved rooms and always includes the date your rooms will be released.

What are some other perks of working with a hotel?

Amenities and hospitality are our specialties. We offer complimentary welcome bag delivery from the front desk and a $3 per bag fee for in-room drop-off. We also provide shuttle service to and from the airport and are partners with Visit Wichita. They’ll create a discount card for guests valid at local museums, restaurants and stores, and provide booklets and Wichita gifts for your welcome bags too. As a boutique hotel, we also prioritize on-site cuisine, which is a major convenience for your friends and family. We’re known for our homemade bucatini, gourmet pastries like tiramisu and macarons, and craft cocktails.

Can you share some of your favorite Wichita haunts?

Our mom-and-pop stores are musts, as are Public or The Anchor for a bite. Send loved ones to Old Mill Tasty Shop, an old-fashioned soda shop, for amazing pie or dessert. For fun gifts and clothes, I recommend Lucinda’s in Old Town.

In between events, guests can check out the Wichita Art Museum (free on Saturdays) or take a ride around town on the Q-line trolley, which also doesn’t cost a dime.

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Most couples have never booked a room block before. What do they need to know?

Book your block directly with the hotel to get the best rate for your guests—up to 25 percent off a standard room fee. If you’re local, tour suites in advance to ensure you reserve the right rooms for your guest list, whether that’s pet-friendly, kid-proof or adults-only. Every hotel varies on its policies. Look for ones that operate with a courtesy contract, meaning they don’t require an upfront deposit to hold rooms. Instead, the hotel will hold an agreed-upon quantity of rooms for your guests until about 30 days before your wedding. Then, they’ll release any unreserved rooms to the general public at no cost to you.

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St. Louis–based 23 City Blocks Catering dishes on menu inspiration and spending savvy.

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For spring and summer, what ingredients are menu musts?

Spring is a great season for familiar ingredients such as morel mushrooms, wild onions and fava beans, plus vegetables that add bright pops of color to the plate, including English peas and asparagus. In summer, incorporate tomatoes and peppers as well as melons and stone fruits, like peaches, into your meal. We’ve been dying to give the typical salad first course a break in favor of a strawberry and beet gazpacho. In general, vegetable-forward dishes are becoming increasingly popular and are a hit at weddings.

Is buffet or station-style dining more economical than a seated dinner?

Not always. If a food station consists of three proteins, like chicken, beef and fish, you’d offer unique sides that complement each one. The result is a higher price tag than a plated offering of the same composed entreés, largely because we can’t control how much food guests will serve themselves.

Buffets and stations usually require more kitchen and service labor too. The same is true for family style. Though it’s our favorite, this dining type requires more food and serveware than other service styles because guests take the lead.

What are some ways a pair can save on food and beverage if they’re on a tight budget?

No matter how you dice it, catering is one of the most expensive parts of a wedding. One way we help couples save is by offering “chef’s selection,” meaning we’ll only use ingredients that are in season locally, allowing us to secure savings that we can then pass along to the client. The trade-off is that the couple won’t have full control over their meal, but we aim to honor all their likes and loathes regardless. Bottom line: If you need to stay within a budget, vocalize that. Most caterers can present a menu that may not have all the bells and whistles but is still going to be delicious.

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What do couples need to consider as they start to plan their wedding day meal?

No one is used to picking up the tab for even 50 friends at a fast food restaurant, let alone for 100 or more at a formal event. Be prepared for sticker shock, but remember: A successful meal is one that honors your vision, whether that’s a five-course meal with a wine pairing or a make-your-own omelet station at a brunch wedding. Serve food that’s significant to the two of you and your story. Lastly, compare at least three catering quotes before signing a contract.

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HOW DID YOU

WE BOTH ABSOLUTELY LOVE MOVIES, SO WE PLAYED AN ASSORTMENT OF SONGS FROM OUR FAVORITE FILMS.” —Meaghan F.

“Since we share a love for The Goonies, we gifted guests with Baby Ruth candy bars, and our officiant began our service by saying, ‘Hey, you guys!’ ” —Kaitlin J.

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“Our late-night snack was my husband’s favorite guilty pleasure: Domino’s thin-crust pizza and Peroni beer.”

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“My partner and I played Words With Friends against each other for months before we ever met in person. As a tribute to the game, we used Scrabble table numbers.”

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MY SPOUSE IS A CHEF, SO I HAD FRESH HERBS IN MY BOUQUET AND WE MADE INFUSED OLIVE OIL FAVORS.” —Caitlyn S.

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“Though our dresses were different, the lace backs complemented each other in a beautiful, romantic way,” Kayley (left) says.

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The brides watered a jade plant together as a symbol of love and growth.

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THEIR STORY Katherine Young (24 and a real estate agent) and Kayley Withers’s (23 and a marketing and media director) plum and green celebration brimmed with personality. At their rooftop “I dos,” Katherine’s brothers carried a sign reading, “Here Come the Brides,” then the couple wed under a copper arch. The brides’ matching touch was a pair of glittery Keds, and their favorite blooms filled their bouquets: Kayley’s included succulents, while Katherine’s featured calla lilies.

The night ended with pizza and a hotel room hangout with their bridesmaids.

—Becky Murray

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Calligraphed marble tiles marked places, while lyrics from The Proclaimers’s hit song reserved the brides’ seats.

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The phrase “whimsical garden” inspired Katherine and Kayley’s décor, paper goods and color palette of plum, green and gold. Their favorite item was the custom ceremony program, a lighthearted illustration of the bridal party. “We wanted the style of the wedding to match our playful personalities,” Kayley says.

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KATHERINE & KAYLEY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS Kayley’s nephew carried the rings down the aisle in a terrarium. At cocktail hour, guests sipped a signature drink named after the couple’s pup, Logan, and noshed on heart-shaped grilled-cheese sandwiches. A swing at the venue suspended the herbed blueberry and lemon semi-naked cake.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Caramel

Room at Bissinger’s, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Cindy Feraro/Cindy Lee Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Millennium Productions FLOWERS Snapdragon Studio GOWNS

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Leslie describes the bridesmaids’ silk wrap dresses as “classic comfort.”

Postceremony, Tyler surprised his guys with novelty bow ties.

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Leslie Goodrich (28 and a senior logistics integration manager) and Tyler Michels’s (29 and a senior underwriter) wedding was inspired by “a feminine take on fall,” Leslie says of their merlot, blush and goldfilled fete. The celebration called on two city landmarks, the Cathedral Basilica of Saint Louis, outfitted with gilded mosaic scenes, and the top floor of The Chase Park Plaza hotel, dubbed “The Starlight Room.”

As if stunning surroundings weren’t auspicious enough, guests made out with a real chance at luck too.

“Tyler’s family loves to gift lottery scratchers,” Leslie says. “To share the tradition with guests, we gifted freestanding lottery ticket holders that said ‘Lucky in Love’ and slipped lottery scratchers inside.” —BM

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At The Chase Park Plaza hotel, steel-blue accents, a color carried over from the stationery, popped against green, burgundy and oak. Three cakes rounded out dinner: lemon with raspberry filling, chocolate with espresso buttercream and, lastly, alternating tiers of pumpkin and caramel cake with cinnamon buttercream.

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Leslie and Tyler welcomed guests with Bissinger’s confections and weekend essentials.

The bridal bouquet included magnolia leaves and gardenias, a bloom that the bride’s grandmother has been known to float in crystal bowls at home.

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Gold foil napkins featured the pair’s two dachshunds.

LESLIE & TYLER’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Cathedral Basilica of Saint

Louis, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE The Chase “Removable cap sleeves provided just the right amount of coverage for the ceremony,” Leslie says of her convertible gown that she paired with wine-colored heels and a berry lip. Her mom’s amethyst ring doubled as “something old” and “something blue,” while a friend gave her a beaded bracelet.

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Champagne, gold and burgundy accents popped underneath the venue’s existing whitewashed pergola.

The raspberry-lemon cake was iced using fluted buttercream and topped with fresh flowers.

THEIR STORY On the eve of their two-year dating anniversary, Michael Pfeifer (23 and a credit analyst) proposed to Jenna Mitchell (22 and a human resources specialist) using only two words. “We were on the ninth hole of a golf course when I pulled a golf ball out of the cup that had the words ‘Will you?’ written on it,” Jenna says. Fifteen months after that, the two became Mr. and Mrs. with a poolside party alongside 150 guests at Haseltine Estate. —Rachel Sylvester

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JENNA & MICHAEL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Holy Trinity Catholic

Church, Springfield, MO RECEPTION SITE Haseltine Estate, Springfield, MO

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Food was a focus for the couple, who served signature sangria and rum and Coke cocktails paired with comfort classics like sliders and buffalo chicken dip. “A dip station and Italian food were two staples for us,” Jenna says. “We wanted to make everything feel as personal as possible.”

Photography PLANNER Mary Douglas/ Bringing It Together Events FLOWERS Artistry in Bloom GOWN & VEIL Essense of Australia, Normans Bridal, Springfield, MO HAIR Kelsey Cowan/ViVo Salon MAKEUP Makeup by Melissa Britt Rogers SHOES Nina ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Maxon Fine Jewelry BRIDESMAID DRESSES Sorella Vita, Normans Bridal MENSWEAR Renoir, Men’s Suit Mart,

Springfield, MO STATIONERY Shutterfly.com RENTALS Elegant Touch Linens CATERING

Simply Delicious Catering CAKE Simply Delicious Catering; groom’s cake: Who Wants Cake? by Julie OFFICIANT Fr. Fergus Monaghan MUSIC Kylie Wright; Spark Events LAWN GAMES All American Tailgate TRANSPORTATION J. Howard Fisk Limousines REGISTRIES Bed Bath & Beyond; Target HONEYMOON Playa Mujeres, Mexico GUESTS 150 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 10)

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High school sweethearts Christa Garcia (28 and a social worker) and Lucas Mizulski (28 and a financial analyst) knew they wanted to exchange vows in the great outdoors. “Lucas and I love to hike and camp,” Christa says. “We wanted a location that highlighted nature and provided a beautiful rain option if necessary.” That logic brought them to Silver Oaks Chateau.

After their “I dos” under an arbor built by Christa’s dad and uncle, and a tree planting ceremony, guests moved inside for fresh cuisine and summery sips among sage and mint surroundings.

The newlyweds shared the love locally too. Instead of handing out wedding favors, they made a charitable donation to the Ozark National Scenic Riverways to benefit the children’s area at the Pulltite Visitor Center. —BM

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Silver Oaks

“We wanted to complement the natural beauty of Silver Oaks and its acres of land,” Christa says.

White garden roses, peonies, succulents and greenery blended with ivory, gold and sage décor.

Each table number represented a different national park that the outdoorsy pair had once visited.

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Saturn personalized her look with a blush leather jacket, platform heels and a bohemian crown. “It ended up being 70 degrees that day, but I loved the way the jacket looked with my dress,” she says.

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While planning their November nuptials at Anew, Saturn Os (29 and a manicurist) and Casey Arcese (34 and an electrical engineer) recognized the need for a fuss-free fete. “Casey and I are really easygoing people, and we wanted our wedding to reflect that,” Saturn says of avoiding any element that felt too formal or traditional. One particular Vietnamese custom felt fitting though: “We served tea to our parents in a traditional tea ceremony as a way to thank them for everything they’ve done for us,” Saturn says. —RS

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After the newlyweds walked back up the aisle to the tune of “You Make My Dreams” by Hall & Oates, partygoers gathered for dinner in a room adorned with ruscus wreaths and ghost chairs. “We skipped a grand reception entrance so that we could personally greet our guests at the door,” Saturn says.

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The whitewashed venue served as a blank canvas for the envisioned “minimalist romantic” reception.

SITE North13th at The Knickerbocker, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Cassidy Parker Smith

Photography DAY-OF COORDINATOR Wendy Markum-Scanlan/The Savvy Bride EVENT DESIGN & FLOWERS Snapdragon

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THEIR STORY It only took Caylin Del Papa (25 and an event coordinator) and Weston Wiebe (27 and a professor) five months to pull off their wedding. “We ended up choosing Branson because it’s where we met, fell in love and planned to settle down,” Caylin says. The pair found each other while working at Kanakuk Kamps and called on connections from that close-knit community when planning their celebration— from the stationer they hired to the place where they wed.

After a Christian ceremony in front of a large sycamore tree, guests took part in a seated dinner, dancing, fruit pizza and late-night ice cream.

“The word for our wedding was ‘purposeful,’ ” Caylin says of their personalized party. “We didn’t do anything ‘just because.’ ” —BM

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A mix of uncovered wood farm tables, round tables covered in dove-gray linens and tables topped with greenery runners complemented Sycamore Creek’s natural atmosphere. The newlyweds opened the dance floor to Earth, Wind & Fire’s “September” in honor of the month they became a couple.

CAYLIN & WESTON’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Sycamore Creek

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Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Sam Boyette Productions PLANNER & EVENT DESIGNER Madison Sanders Events FLOWERS Amy Cason, Victorian Gardens GOWN Rivini, Ivory Bridal Atelier, Houston, TX HAIR & MAKEUP White Carpet Bride VEIL Cassandra Lynne HEADPIECE EnzeBridal, Etsy.com SHOES

Free People ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Lyles-Degrazier BRIDESMAID DRESSES

VowToBeChic.com MENSWEAR TheBlackTux.com STATIONERY Sizelove Letter Co. RENTALS

Marquee Event Rentals CATERING Simply Delicious Catering CAKE AND OTHER DESSERTS Sugar Leaf BARTENDING Shakers Mobile Bartending OFFICIANT Marvin Daniels (friend) MUSIC Ceremony: Sutton Davison (friend);

reception: Lost Wax REGISTRIES Anthropologie; Bed Bath & Beyond; Crate & Barrel HONEYMOON Cancún, Mexico GUESTS 300 (see key, p. 10)

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“We kept the décor simple in order to focus on the experience,” Kathleen says of exchanging vows amid the works at the Adam Aronson Fine Arts Center.

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THEIR STORY Kathleen Perniciaro (30 and a construction project manager) set her sights on a green gown while planning her modern gallery wedding to Will Duggins (31 and a geologist). “Green is my color—it makes me happy, and I knew I could find something elegant that would help me stand out,” she says of rocking not one but two bold ball gowns on the day of their “I dos.” Welded metalwork and wildflowers helped Kathleen and Will pull off a “stylish house party” that incorporated their shared love for artwork, Led Zeppelin and Italian cookies. “We integrated readings from the Bible and lyrics from Led Zeppelin’s ‘Thank You’ as a way to bridge the gap between seemingly unrelated works of art,” Kathleen says. “It was our way of showing that love can come in different forms.” —RS

KATHLEEN & WILL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Laumeier Sculpture Park,

Adam Aronson Fine Arts Center, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Boo Cat Club, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Jenna Elizabeth/J Elizabeth

Photography COORDINATOR Sabrina Torti, Proposing Dreams FLOWERS The Special

“It was important that our wedding party wasn’t separated by gender on either side of us,” Kathleen says.

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DIY OFFICIANT Raymond Hain (bride’s uncle) MUSIC Ceremony: Joe Fry the Guitar Guy; reception: Contemporary Productions TRANSPORTATION BEST Transportation;

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bold backdrop Couples portraits are more fun against an oversize Toucan Sam mural. How can you resist?

Dress by ChristianSiriano.com

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morning matrimony Take sunny daytime nuptials up a notch with a bright color palette and personality-packed details.

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When Leah Weinberg of Color Pop Events got the itch to reinvent the daytime wedding, there was no place more perfect (or colorful) to do so than Kellogg’s New York City café. But this isn’t your basic brunch bash. Infused with hues that pop, charming design accents and lots breakfast puns (win!), the inspiration packed into this playful scene will make for a meal, and marriage, you won’t forget. >>

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suite or savory Skirt tradition with wedding stationery that’s more fun than formal. Here, graphic fonts, bright colors and playful lingo all add up to an invitation suite that screams, “mimosas for all!”

Who wouldn’t want to attend that party?

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disco “I dos” For a space worthy of a celebration (your vows, duh), pump up the volume with colorful enamel stools, eye-catching florals and, of course, a ’70s-inspired disco ball.

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Three-stone rings— extra popular now thanks to Meghan Markle—represent the past, present and future. >>

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fruity favors For a cereal-ously awesome goodbye gift, package up your childhood favorite cereals and milk for guests.

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Play up the retro breakfast vibe with custom menus attached to bright red clipboards at each setting.

ah, sugar sugar sunny-side up Want your blooms to say “happy�? Opt for a zesty palette, like this red, orange, yellow and pink one.

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Have an especially cool venue? Be sure to ask your photographer to shoot portraits of you and your honey, honey around the locale. >>

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tasty topper Add a sweet finishing touch to your tiered confection with a playful doughnut cake topper, like this one from Treat House.

altar twist For a more modern ceremony scene, swap the traditional arch with two metal pillars draped in florals.

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Get guests laughing (and snacking) with made-for-each-other bacon and eggs sugar cookies.

dunk’n doughnuts No one will be able to resist sprinkle-covered treats. Milk for dipping is a must.

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We’re serving up every delicious cake detail you need to know.

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Your cake is probably one of the most anticipated elements of your wedding—after all, who doesn’t like dessert? And while it’s bound to be delicious no matter what you do, there are a few things you should know about your confection before you sit down with a baker or start sampling frostings. Allow us to fill you in. >> 131

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must-read wedding cake tips Keep these pointers in mind to get the tiered confection of your dreams.

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Nail down your style, then choose your cake.

You may love a rustic semi-naked cake, but if you’re hosting a black-tie ballroom wedding, the two styles may not jive. Before deciding on the look of your cake, figure out certain specifics about your event, like the venue, palette and vibe. That way, your cake will complement— and not compete with—your overall wedding look.

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Consider the size of your space (and guest list).

When deciding what size cake to order, first look to your guest count. Three tiers typically serve between 50 and 100 guests, so if your list is in the hundreds, increase your order. Second, consider your venue.

Hosting in a tent with a grand ceiling? Add Styrofoam tiers (yes, that’s a thing!) to up the height and make your cake proportional to your space.

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Budget for the flavor and details you want.

Cakes are generally priced by the slice and can range from $3 to a whopping $30 per slice (and beyond), depending on the flavors, filling and frosting you choose. If you have your taste buds set on an custom combo, put aside extra funds to cover it. This goes for decorative additions too. Fresh fruits and flowers can often be applied for a small fee, while delicate, hand-crafted sugar blooms or intricate detailing will take a baker more time to create—and cost you more money.

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Don’t forget to finish it off.

Before your event, pass off your cake topper to your baker, planner or catering manager so they can place it on your cake for its big reveal.

A classic figurine is a traditional choice, but more and more couples are using the cake topper as a moment of personalization in their day. Choose something that represents you as a duo, like a clay model of your pet, figurines of your favorite action heroes or a monogrammed acrylic sign.

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have your cake and eat it too (even a year later) The 411 on saving your sweet for your first anniversary.

There’s simply no way your cake will taste as good after spending a year in the freezer as it does on your wedding day, which is why our first suggestion to couples is always to sneak a slice (or two!) while at your reception. If you’re worried about getting a chance to sit down and enjoy it, ask your planner or caterer to set aside two pieces for you and your partner to enjoy later that evening. Then, set aside the top tier for a celebration soon after, like returning from your honeymoon or your one-month anniversary and opt to buy a fresh version (in a similar flavor) to enjoy on your one-year anniversary. If you simply must adhere to tradition, tightly wrap the tier in plastic wrap and place it in an airtight bag before freezing.

top it off Cake toppers didn’t become popular until the 1950s, when couples in the US started using them on their wedding cakes.

cut it right Cutting the cake—and feeding your spouse—is a timehonored wedding tradition. Here’s how it should go down.

The ceremonial cutting of the cake has remained popular with newlywed couples. In fact, according to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, 85 percent of couples include a formal cake cutting in their reception. Even if you think you’re a pro at cutting sweets, check with your baker or caterer for instructions on how to make the first cut—they may suggest you cut from the bottom tier or help you avoid a Styrofoam one. Once cut, the newlyweds usually feed each other the first slice, symbolizing their commitment to provide for one another. In some cases, this is replaced by a different tradition: smashing cake into each other’s faces.

How you feed each other is up to you, but remember—you don’t need to smear frosting on your new spouse simply because you think guests expect it. >>

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fresh trends Some of the “it” ways bakers are creating standout cakes this year.

Edible gold leafing (!!) is a luxe touch

3-D textures Even basic white buttercream feels fresh when the focus is on texture. Get inspired by fabrics you love, like a cozy fisherman sweater or delicate Swiss dot, then ask your baker to re-create the look on your cake’s exterior.

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Geometric detailing Interesting, architectural accents are in.

Ask your baker to echo any modern ones at your event space, like playing up your loft venue’s ceiling look in fondant or using a wire geode to hold up two individual tiers of cake.

Marbleized exterior Work several hues from your wedding day palette into your cake with fondant icing designed to look marbled. The result will be so smooth and sleek, guests may think it’s the real deal.

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Hand-painted patterns Delicate paintings (typically made on a fondant exterior using food coloring) can be pricey, but the payoff is big.

Use them to mimic details like the colors of your grandma’s heirloom china or the blooms in your bouquet.

Celestial details Look to the stars for the future of cake decoration— literally. Make this trend yours with a dramatic inky-blue fondant exterior that resembles the night sky or a goldflecked pattern of the stars the night you got engaged. >>

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Semi-naked Totally naked cakes had their moment—now it’s their slightly dressed-up counterpart’s turn in the spotlight. With a sheer outer layer of frosting, a semi-naked cake strikes a classy balance between rustic and refined.

local love: sweet dreams cake company The Kansas baker shares what trends are inspiring her, plus advice for to-be-weds.

ABOUT THE EXPERT

PLAY WITH TRENDS

MAKE IT YOURS

PREP AHEAD OF TIME

GO REFRESHING

Megan Odle is the owner, designer and baker behind Sweet Dreams Cake Company, based in Olathe, Kansas.

She’s worked in the wedding industry for over 15 years.

Textures are very popular in wedding cakes right now, and they can carry over to any style, whether you’re rustic or glam.

We’re seeing metallics, like rose gold and silver, on exteriors too.

Work with your baker to create a cake that’s truly unique to your day.

I once created a custom cake topper to match a sign that sits atop an old historic building in downtown Kansas City.

Show up to your initial consultation prepared to talk about everything from your overall vision to your theme and color palette.

Also think about the basics, like if you want a tiered cake or cupcakes.

For the summer months, we see a lot of berry flavors and lighter combinations. Two of my favorites that we offer are lemon blueberry and champagne blackberry.

Both are crowd-pleasers.

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We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter.

Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!

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A fanciful fruit cake takes center stage at British weddings. Typically made from cognac-soaked dates, prunes, raisins, currants and orange peel, the cake is finished off with a marzipan or fondant topping.

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Buttercream Perhaps the most ubiquitous type of frosting, thanks to its delicious taste and versatility. Made using butter and cream, it can be flavored with various extracts, fruits and more to garner a different taste.

Due to its ingredients, buttercream can melt quickly, so it should be kept out of extreme heat, humidity or direct sunlight until serving.

Italian couples opt for a millefoglie: crisp sheets of pastry dough layered with pastry cream, whipped cream, lemon curd, berries and more. Many couples even have a pastry chef prepare it on-site for their guests.

Ganache A decadently rich frosting with a fudgy texture. Ganache is made by combining chocolate and cream. Traditional chocolate will make it a dark brown hue that can’t be tinted, so ask your baker to make it wedding worthy with colorful fruit. Or opt for a white chocolate version, which can be dyed practically any shade.

Norwegians serve up brudlaupskling, a bread that became popular when white flour was rare in Norway.

The sweet bread is topped with cheese, cream and syrup, then folded over and cut into small squares before serving.

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Fondant A smooth sheet of sugar paste, often used for the polished exterior it lends. Pros love that it can be easily tinted and molded, making it a no-brainer for cakes that require impeccable detailing or a modern, smooth exterior. Most bakers will ice a cake with buttercream before finishing the exterior with fondant, as fondant alone isn’t as tasty.

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Swiss meringue Icing made by whipping egg whites together with sugar. Swiss meringue is a less popular choice for wedding cakes, but it has a light and fluffy appearance that makes it look instantly whimsical and romantic. The airy marshmallow flavor means it pairs great with fruit-based cakes and fillings, like lemon, raspberry or strawberry.

Indonesian couples will usually have a cake known as kek lapis at their wedding. Made from layers of chocolate and vanilla cake and spiced with cinnamon or nutmeg, this sweet dates all the way back to the Dutch colonial period.

To-be-wed couples in Bermuda top their confection of choice with a small cedar sapling. The sentiment is said to symbolize the couple’s growing love, and it’s planted by the newlyweds following their “I dos.”

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The French traditionally serve up a stunner of a dessert known as a croquembouche. The towering pyramid of cream puffs is drizzled with rich caramel and can be decorated with berries, fresh blooms or even sparklers.

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NOW BOOKING: Contact us at Events@BarnettOnWashington.com Receptions • Ceremonies • Rehearsal Dinners • Corporate Events • and more. . .

Extraordinary Space, Extraordinary Events 3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63103 1-844-GO-BARNETT • BarnettOnWashington.com

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Seven T Farms The perfect backdrop to say “I do”

From modern to vintage, Seven T Farms offers a unique setting for your wedding.

81 East Bacon Ridge Road, Sullivan, MO events@seventfarms.com 314.225.9734 | 314.225.9735 seventfarms.com PHOTOS BY BGI PHOTOGRAPHY

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destination décor

Use these stylish items to bottle the feel of five popular destination wedding locales—no matter where you’re actually saying “I do.”

BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO

THE LOCATION

MEXICO

THE LOOK Bold hues, playful details and a party-ready atmosphere make this one fiesta you don’t want to miss.

Inspired by the carefree, colorful attitude of a Mexican beach town, guests will be ready to celebrate the moment they enter your reception.

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Tile-inspired invitations set the scene, while a cheeky donkey piñata at each seat makes for a totally fun and unexpected place card. >>

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1 Rainbow tassel garland, $25, CrateandBarrel .com 2 Wood crossback chair, $10 to rent, PeterCorvallis.com 3 Roma wine glass in Aqua, $48 for 4, IMPULSE!, Wayfair.com 4 Melamine dinner plate in Sunshine Yellow, $8, Carmelo Collection, Pier .com 5 Seagrass charger, $16, Pier1.com ShopTerrain.com 6 Fiesta napkin ring, $60 for 4, KimSeybert.com 7 Talavera invitation in Azure, $163 for 100, Lagniappe Paper, Minted.com 8 Mini donkey piñata, $39 for 6, LulaFlora, Etsy.com 9 Otomi cocktail napkins, $63 for 6, Kim Seybert, NeimanMarcus.com

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THE LOOK 1 Aria napkin, $24 for 2, MarigoldLiving.com 2 L’Olivier olive oil gift set, $60, WilliamsSonoma.com 3 Barnacle two handle vase, $88, ShopTerrain.com 4 Danieli flatware collection, $16 for set of 4, WorldMarket.com 5 Verona charger in Antique White, $12 to rent, CasadePerrin.com 6 Gelato cart, catering price upon request, GorgeousGelato.com 7 Eucalyptus garland, from $45, Bloomers TradingCo, Etsy.com 8 Candlesticks, $79 for 2, Cole & Grey, Wayfair .com 9 The Laureate double ring box, $85, TheMrsBox.com 10 Italiano invitations in Olive, $234 for 100, Yolanda Mariak Chendak, Minted.com

Re-create the charm of the Italian countryside with accents that look like they could be found in an 18th-century castle. A neutral and green palette feels anything but boring when it’s done with a focus on texture and incorporates heirloom-worthy details.

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MAKE IT YOURS Celebrate among raw wood tables topped with sprawling eucalyptus garlands. Guests will enjoy twirling their pasta on intricate rental dishes and love their take-home olive oil favors. After dinner, friends and family can gather around a gelato cart to indulge in some sweet scoops.

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THE LOCATION

MONTANA

THE LOOK

1 Rum barrel aged maple syrup, $30, Republic ofVermont.com 2 Rustic Horizon invitation, $229 for 100, Éclair Paper Company, Shutterfly .com 3 Stein checks bow tie in Royal Blue, $19, TheTieBar.com 4 Hurricane lantern in Red, from $9, Stansport, Amazon.com 5 Heath Ceramics dishware in Moonstone, from $4 to rent, CasadePerrin.com 6 Sawyer flatware, $12 for 4, WorldMarket.com 7 Personalized wooden wedding sign, $22, TheKnotShop.com 8 Tinware coffee mug in Gray, $48 for 4, Canvas Home, Wayfair.com 9 Gingham napkins, $48 for 4, SerenaandLily.com 10 Glacier National Park blanket, from $219, Pendleton-USA.com

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Chill, casual and perfect for an outdoors-loving couple, this mountain-inspired bash is packed with rustic charm. A primary-hued palette and lots of wood accents will reinforce your vibe whether you’re celebrating in the great outdoors or inside a vintage barn.

MAKE IT YOURS Encourage guests to reconnect with nature at a camp-inspired ceremony, complete with a canoe altar and blanket-covered benches. When it comes to dinner, serve up BBQ bites at tables set with rustic dishware and red lanterns. Boozy maple syrup favors are the perfect farewell. >> 10

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Where rustic simplicity meets modern elegance in the heart of Missouri wine country.

WEEKEND RENTAL WITH EXCLUSIVE ACCESS NUMEROUS CEREMONY LOCATIONS, BOTH INDOOR AND OUTDOOR M U LT I P L E L O C AT I O N S F O R E X C E P T I O N A L P H O T O O P P O R T U N I T I E S CLIMATE CONTROLLED FACILITY FOR ALL SEASONS F R I E N D LY, F A M I LY- O W N E D A N D O P E R A T E D V E N U E S I T E

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THE LOCATION

SAVANNAH

THE LOOK Southern charm meets classic elegance in this made-for-romance scene. A super-feminine palette of pinks is offset by the insane greenery and wispy Spanish moss Southern garden weddings are iconic for.

1 Fellers cake/pastry server, $65 for 2-piece set, Alcott Hill, Wayfair .com 2 Vintage Frame invitation in Pink, $174 for 100, PaperCulture.com 3 Waterfall wine glass in Pink, $16, Anthropologie .com 4 Floral dinner plate set, rental price upon request, HostessHaven .com 5 Cheery garden napkin in Reds, $20 for 2, Lori Wemple, Minted.com 6 Triomphe chair, $95 to rent, PremiereEvents Online.com 7 Metallic lace cake stand in Gold, $32, Anthropologie.com 8 Dessert rose and gold charger, $15 to rent, Anna Weatherley, CasadePerrin.com 9 Gold pineapple place card holder, $35 for 12, Kate Aspen, Michaels.com

MAKE IT YOURS Pack in the pretty with tons of floral elements, like watercolor-patterned napkins, rimmed dishware, invitations and more. Once guests find their place at the table thanks to clever pineapple escort card holders (that symbolize Southern hospitality), treat them to live jazz and a meal full of classic comfort foods, like mac and cheese and shrimp and grits. >> 9

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It’s WAY better than a photo booth! info@FishEyeFun.com - 314-621-8638 FishEyeFun.com

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THE LOCATION

BROOKLYN

THE LOOK

1 Metropolitan Romance invitation in Cement, $234 for 100, Makewells, Minted.com 2 Luna flatware in Matte Black, rental price available upon request, BorrowedBlu.com 3 Galvanized metal charger, $13, PotteryBarn.com 4 Tolix bistro chair in Black, $11 to rent, BigDawgPartyRentals .com 5 Marquee letter in Brown Patina/Rust, from $98, SawandSteel, Etsy.com 6 Cubisme candle holder in Black, $95, L’Objet, JungLeeNY.com 7 Hash vase in Black and White, $20, CB2 .com 8 Stripe table runner in Gray, $18, Threshold, Target.com 9 Large NYC taxi cookie party favor, $10, Elenis.com 10 Modern Names wedding napkin, $33 for 50, ForYourParty.com 11 Black string lights, $104, PartyLights.com

Brooklyn celebrations are known for being sleek, sophisticated and pretty much the coolest out there.

Channel that feeling whether you’re celebrating in the city or country by incorporating edgy details and every New Yorker’s favorite color—black.

MAKE IT YOURS For a modern take on matrimony, hunt down a killer loft-style venue. From there, play into the industrial vibes with Edison bulb string lights, metal bistro chairs, and lots of ferns and greenery (no fluffy flowers here). Cool details like marquee light initials and matte flatware add personality and that undeniable “it” factor.

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A Special Place, A Singular Experience, Discover Defiance Ridge 2711 SOUTH HIGHWAY 94, DEFIANCE, MO 63341 • 636.798.2288 • DEFIANCERIDGEVINEYARDS.COM

Outdoor and Indoor Ceremony and Receptions Hilltop terrace, veranda, lakeside, gazebo, pavilion

Vineyard to Table Cuisine

We offer chef-driven, seasonal artisan cuisine

Experienced Event Staff

Meet and discuss your vision and wedding details

Private Bridal Suite

Two rooms, full bath, kitchenette, amenity baskets

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Tableware

Linens, china, flatware, water glasses and wine glasses provided

Complimentary

Menu tastings, cake cutting, champagne toasts

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Dance floors, special lighting, audio/visual capabilities

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the main course

These five totally out there (and obviously very cool) wedding catering trends are what’s for dinner.

BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGRAPH BY GIDEON PHOTOGRAPHY

Engaged foodies are transforming their wedding receptions into a must-eat event with countless creative takes on traditional catering. From fire and flames to custom curated menus and photo-worthy installations—a meal is no longer just a meal. Want in on all the delicious fun? Check out five of our favorite food trends happening now. >>

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Insta-worthy displays

On-the-move meal

If you’re looking for a standout moment that will leave guests ’gramming, hire a catering team with seriously creative display techniques. Companies like New York–based Pinch Food Design boast delicious food, sure—but for them it’s also all about the guest experience. The Pinch team focuses on one-of-a-kind displays that encourage party goers to interact with their surroundings and entertain them while they eat. Guests can choose a churro off a parasol, visit a “pop room” to fetch suspended bags of popcorn or formulate their own cocktail when they’re ready for a sip. The goal?

A way above-average food experience that will leave everyone talking. If you’ve already nailed down your own catering team, infuse your day with a little bit of that magic by dreaming up creative ways to package or pass some of your bites, like a pegboard wall of pizza slices or a late-night burger bar with a sign that reads “friends don’t let friends go home hangry.”

We’ve got news: The one-size-fits-all dinner reception structure is no longer the only option. If the idea of sitting down to a threehour formal meal isn’t your thing, try a roaming dinner instead.

Feed your friends and fam from an assortment of delicious passed appetizers and food stations, like waiters with barker trays for on-the-go oyster shucking, a guacamole bar or even a mozzarella pulling station. The goal is to keep guests moving, mixing and mingling so they don’t get bored or feel like they’re missing out on party time. Another perk? Without the need for traditional tables, chairs and place settings, you’ll save on rentals and possibly even staff count (as they won’t need to serve each table like at a sit-down reception). Just remember—guests will still need somewhere to perch, so make sure to set up several different high-top cocktail tables and cool lounge areas for added comfort.

Perfectly personalized picks

Local is in when it comes to weddings, and that fresh mentality extends from florals to—you guessed it—food. For a dining experience that encapsulates everything about your wedding locale, opt for a farm-to-table menu from start to finish. Of-themoment catering companies, like 24 Carrots Catering and Events in Southern California, are focusing on seasonal menus with sustainable and local meats, fish and produce for a wedding meal that represents both the couple and the region. If you’re getting married in a food-rich area or time of year, encourage your team to utilize veggies, proteins or spices unique to your spot, like fresh lobster in Maine or a well-known BBQ rub in Texas. Not only will you be scoring food in its best form (think: peak freshness and added color), but you’ll also be giving back to the local community.

It’s a very mindful, sustainable, 2019 way to wedding. >>

You and your partner want every inch of your wedding to reflect the two of you, so your food shouldn’t be any different. Couples are personalizing all aspects of their day, down to the menu they’re serving at their reception. For a fun twist on signature cocktails, why not try signature menus? Maybe bae is a bit more spicy, while you prefer rich, savory classics—you can each work to curate your own courses for the day and allow your guests to choose which side they’ll take. Or infuse a bit of family history and heritage into the eats by asking your pros to adapt a few of your favorite recipes.

Guests will love cocktail hour bites of Grandma Ruth’s mac and cheese or Mom’s famous chicken tikka masala. A menu reflecting both where you’ve come from and what you like as a duo is the perfect way to start your marriage off on the right fork.

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tomato soup is even more cozy in cute cans

questions for the caterer Here’s what to ask before booking your pro.

Experience

• Do you have a license?

• Are there any limits my reception site imposes on the menu?

• How many events will you handle during my wedding weekend?

• Can you provide references from previous clients?

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How many appetizer and entrée choices are included in each tier of catering packages?

Do you provide waitstaff? How many?

(Typically you’ll want one waiter for every two to three tables.)

Do you provide the alcohol, or do we need to handle the bar separately? If provided, what sorts of beverage packages are offered?

How many bartenders are included? (You’ll want to aim for four cocktail waiters for every 100 guests and two bartenders for around 80 guests.)

Can we supply a few of our own spirits? Is there a fee for that?

Do you provide a wedding cake, and, if so, do you have a portfolio of designs?

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If you’ve ever been wowed by a fishmonger filleting a catch right in front of you, or excited by the flames of a hibachi grill, then this idea may be for you. When planning out your wedding day catering, look for a crew that can essentially pop up a live restaurant on your event ground, like New England-based team Heirloom Fire. They transform outdoor spaces big and small into a legit working BBQ joint, cooking up spit-roasted pig, heirloom chickens, corn on the cob and strawberry cobbler, all over an open flame in front of your guests. The end result is an experience that’s somewhat akin to having a killer dinner at a close friend’s house—that is, if your close friend happens to be a crazy-talented chef, like Heirloom Fire owner James Gop. Not only will your friends and family get to enjoy fresh, local eats cooked to perfection, but they’ll be able to watch the cooking, interact with the pros and serve themselves from each fire station. The unique dining experience will keep them entertained long into your reception and create a one-of-a-kind event they won’t soon forget.

Not saying “I do” in an area that Heirloom Fire services? Check The Knot Marketplace for similar pros in your region, or talk with your own catering team to see what you can do with your menu and space to bottle the same experience. Maybe you can have them cook up a seafood boil beachside, roll out fresh handmade spaghetti for your first course or roast up a whole pig on a rotating spit for your casual reception.

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FAVO R S FOR E V E RY STYLE Whatever your wedding day vibe, we have a fresh favor idea that will help spread the love to your guests.

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YOUR STYLE ROMANTIC

F LO R A L S U G A R CO O K I E S Spread some extra sweetness with grab-and-go cookie bags that boast colorful blooms.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED Cookies, cellophane bags, hot glue gun, ribbon, gift tags STEP 1 Bake or buy floral cookies a week before your wedding day.

STEP 2 Using small cellophane pastry bags, package up one to two cookies per guest.

STEP 3 Fold a thank-you tag over top, securing to the bag with hot glue. Create a small bow using thin organza ribbon. Glue atop tag.

Flower-pressed cookies, $48 for 12, LoriAStern.com; cellophane bags, $6 for 100, TR318, Amazon.com; 5/8” organza ribbon in Lavender, $12 per roll, BagsandBowsOnline.com; tag printing, Staples.com

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PA I N T E D FA N S Outdoor weddings can get hot. Encourage guests to give themselves a Beyoncé-level breeze by placing these punchy-hued palm leaf fans at every seat.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED Painter’s tape, fans, acrylic paint, sponge brush, gift tags, ribbon STEP 1 Using painter’s tape, section off various lines and shapes to paint on fans.

STEP 2 With neon acrylic paint and a small sponge brush, add two layers of paint to your desired sections. Allow an hour of drying time in between each coat.

STEP 3 Once dry, peel away tape. Tie a thank-you tag onto the handle with ribbon.

Raffia fans, $16 for 4, Beistle, Amazon.com; neon glow acrylic paint, $2, FolkArt, Michaels .com; 1/4” satin ribbon in Shocking Pink, $5 for 50 yards, RibbonBazaar.com; Palm favor tag, $27 for 55, Kaydi Bishop, Minted.com

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3354 IOWA, ST. LOUIS, MO • 314-650-2462 • WWW.CASALOMABALLROOM.COM JASON WINKELER PHOTOGRAPHY

Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom” featuring a 5,000-square-foot “floating” dance floor and 30’ stage. With seating from 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day. Unique individual service provided by the owners.

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BBQ SPICE RUB Big foodies? Add a bit of flavor (pun intended) to your wedding day with these dinner-ready test tubes.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED Spice mix, test tubes, twine, gift tags STEP 1 Funnel store-bought spice rub (or your own personal recipe) into test tubes that have a cork or screw top.

baker’s twine adds a farm-to-table touch

STEP 2 Using striped twine, tie a narrow thank-you tag onto the top of each tube.

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these could be pizza slices, too— just sayin’

B O OZ Y WAT E R M E LO N P I Ñ ATA S Think of these as the adult version of your favorite childhood party game.

Only replace candy with vodka. Win! WHAT YOU’LL NEED Pink and green tissue paper, scissors, hot glue gun, cardboard triangles, vodka nips, gift tags, tape, hole punch, black paper STEP 1 Cut strips of tissue paper horizontally 1/2-inch thick, then fringe them by slicing vertically into the paper.

STEP 2 Using hot glue, attach fringed tissue paper onto the triangles, layering to create a piñata effect.

STEP 3 Cut flap in the triangle bottom, insert vodka with tag, and tape shut.

Using a hole punch, cut circles from black paper for seeds. Attach with hot glue.

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Rose of the Hill Event & Banquet Venue: 2300 Edwards, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-6003 | info@roseofthehill.com RoseoftheHill.com

& Rose of the Hill

Favazza’s On the Hill Catering: 5201 Southwest Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-4454 | info@favazzas.com Favazzas.com

Our gorgeous patio garden at Favazza’s accommodates up to 100.

No other banquet facility in St. Louis can match the history and authentic experience one can have at Rose of the Hill. We can accommodate up to 400 guests while maintaining the Favazza family’s care and service. Now one of St. Louis’ best Italian restaurants can bring “The Hill” to you! We specialize in Italian cuisine with our popular Italian gourmet menu.

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YOUR STYLE RETRO

LU G G AG E TAG S Capture the wanderlust of a destination bash with old-school tags.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED Cricut machine, iron-on transfer paper, luggage tags, dish towel, iron, gift tags STEP 1 Using a Cricut or other cutting machine, design and cut phrases out of white iron-on transfer paper.

STEP 2 Place each phrase onto a luggage tag, top with dish towel and iron for 30 seconds on low heat. Carefully remove adhesive back, ensuring the phrase has properly transferred onto the tag.

your suitcase will def be the cutest in the airport

STEP 3 Let cool, then insert a postcardinspired “thank you” into the luggage tag.

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Leather luggage tags, $8 for 2, Travelambo, Amazon.com; Cricut machine, from $150, Everyday Iron-on paper, $12 per roll, Cricut .com; A Faraway Destination favor tag, $27 for 55, Bumble Ink, Minted.com

COST

About $155 for 50 favors (excluding Cricut cost) DIFFICULT Y

Easy. As long as you don’t get distracted browsing travel Instas.

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prewedding stress? breathe in that lavender, girl

YOUR STYLE BOHO

SMUDGE STICKS Keep the good vibes coming with smudge sticks that are as pretty as they are (spiritually) potent. Sage cleanses and lavender relaxes, while calendula flowers promote success and renewal. We’ll take it.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED Sage wands, dried flowers, cord, gift tags STEP 1 Make a bundle of sage, dried herbs and flowers, packing together tightly.

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STEP 2 Wrap well using waxed cord twine.

Finish by tying on an organic gift tag.

Sage wands, $9 for 3, New Age Smudges and Herbs, Amazon.com; rosebuds, $13, ZaranSaffron.com; calendula flowers, $22, FeelGoodOrg.com; bamboo cord in Neon Pink, $6, Hemptique, Amazon.com; Floral Wreath favor tag, $27 for 55, Kelly Schmidt, Minted.com

COST

About $200 for 50 favors DIFFICULT Y

Easy. And may we say, even a bit relaxing.

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Think of your wedding registry as a chance to take your home to Pinterestlevel perfection. Not sure where to start? We’ve rounded up the prettiest products for every corner of your newlywed nest. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO

Thermal Pro Clad stainless steel cookware, $500 for 10-piece set, Breville, Overstock.com

Marcato pasta machine, $100, Atlas, SurLaTable.com

Salt mill in Marseille, $38, Le Creuset, Bloomingdales.com

Laundered linen stripe tea towel in White/Indigo, $56, AllModern.com

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Studio Blue cereal bowls, $120 for 4-piece set, Denby, Macys.com

Whether you’re a pro chef or takeout champ, you’ll feel like a boss cook with these picks.

Studio Blue dinner plate, $64 for 4-piece set, Denby, BedBathandBeyond.com

Rectangular baking dishes in Rustic Turquoise, $120 for 2-piece set, Staub, Wayfair.com

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Picardie marine glass tumbler, from $20 for 6, Duralex, Amazon.com

Gourmet kitchen knives, $130 for 3-piece set, Wüsthof, Amazon.com

Measuring cups, $9 for 4-piece set, Hearth & Hand with Magnolia, Target.com

$500 Novis, Vita juicer, $500, BedBathandBeyond.com

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Textured kitchen canister in extra large, $49, WestElm.com

The Newlywed Cookbook, $35, Anthropologie.com >>

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52 Lists for Happiness journal, $17, Anthropologie.com

Somneo Sleep and Wake-up light, $200, USA-Philips.com

Luminous velvet pillow in Fawn, $150, abcDNA, ABCHome.com

Brighton table lamp in Wicker, $278, Serena andLily.com Wicked Good Scuffs III, $79, LLBean.com

FOR YOUR

bed & bath

Smart 2.0 Diffuser, $200, AeraforHome.com

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Ultimate MicroCotton sculpted fashion bath towel in Glacier, $36, Hotel Collection, Macys.com Sleep mask, $50, SlipSilk Pillowcase.com “Rise” art print in natural raw wood frame, $89 for 11”x14”, Lorent and Leif, Minted.com Shagreen embossed nightstand in Ivory, $429, CB2.com Sonicare DiamondClean rechargeable toothbrush in Pink, $260, Philips, Kohls.com

Banded sheets in White/Dune, from $210 for set, BollandBranch.com

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Square stone slab photo frame in Tan Agate, $195, Kendra Scott, Bloomingdales.com

Acacia valet, $39, MarkandGraham.com

Hotel terry bathrobe in Grey, $96, Kassatex, BedBathandBeyond.com >>

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Enthen 10-light orb black chandelier, $202, Warehouse of Tiffany, Overstock .com

Clayton chair, $305, McGeeandCo.com

Harbour Drive napkin in Gold, $10, Kate Spade New York, BedBathand Beyond.com

Coupe bowl, $100, L’Objet, JungLeeNY.com

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dining room Host everything from business dinners to The Bachelor Mondays with serious style.

Pryce gold coupe glass, $15, Crateand Barrel.com

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Black Orchid dinner plate, $31, Michael Aram, NeimanMarcus.com

Guglielmo stainless steel flatware in Matte Gold, $160 for 5-piece set, Mint Pantry, Wayfair.com

Medium salad servers, $60, TinaFrey Designs.com

add an extra leaf for your first Thanksgiving Curly crystal decanter, $350, Riedel, Barneys.com

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Puebla marble serving board, $95, The-Citizenry.com

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Modern metal frame in Black, from $69, ArtifactUprising.com

Lubec pouf, $109, Beachcrest Home, Wayfair.com

FOR YOUR

living room Opt for date night on your home turf with items that embrace casual luxury.

Scrabble luxury edition, $220, BedBathand Beyond.com

Boda bar cabinet with wine storage in Dark Walnut, $370, AllModern.com

Velvet broad stripe pillow in Navy, $90, CaitlinWilson.com

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Jenson pharmacy floor lamp in Aged Brass, $100, LampsPlus.com

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bridal beauty, debunked

We surveyed the pros to uncover the truth about some of the biggest skin, hair and makeup myths. >>

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Let’s face it: Muddling through all the beauty advice out there is the last thing you want to add to your already-crazed to-do list.

And while some beauty myths are easy to spot (no, that pricey cream won’t really erase your pores), others are harder to figure out (does naturally oily skin really need a moisturizer?). We asked the experts to set the record straight on some of the most common bridal beauty misconceptions—so you can focus on the important stuff before your day.

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MYTH Committing to a solid skin care routine will instantly transform your skin.

FACT Slathering on new skin care products (even the expensive, super-fancy kind) is not a quick fix. Get a jump on perfecting your complexion and start your new skin care routine when you first start planning your wedding. “Most skin care products take six to eight weeks to work. You may even experience a purging effect, where skin gets worse before it gets better,” says Lian Mack, MD, a dermatologist and spokeswoman for Lumenis. And, if you’re looking to treat serious skin issues such as acne, wrinkles or uneven skin tone with more intense treatments (think: neurotoxins like Botox, peels or fractional laser resurfacing) you may need several weeks or even months to complete the suggested amount of treatments and fully recover in order to see results. “Give yourself enough time to be certain you have no complications and are totally happy with the outcome before you walk down the aisle,” Mack says.

keep it simple If you have a more natural approach to beauty, don’t feel pressured to go for an elaborate updo plus heavy makeup for your wedding.

MYTH More is more.

FACT Your wedding may seem like the perfect moment to pull out

all the stops, but it’s actually not the time to try something drastic where your hair and makeup are concerned. For example, if you typically have a more natural approach to beauty, don’t feel pressured to go for an elaborate updo plus heavy makeup. “You should still look and feel like yourself on your wedding day,” says celebrity makeup artist Wendy Rowe. “You don’t need to try anything new or extreme—you just need to enhance what’s already there.” Rowe suggests sticking to products you know will work for you. “If you want to take your makeup up a notch, flawless foundation, some concealer, and a pretty lip and cheek stain are little details that can really elevate your look,” she says.

FACT Collagen pills, powders and creams are all the rage right

now, promising smoother, firmer, more youthful skin—but are they the real deal? “Few reputable studies have been done on collagen supplements,” says Ted Lain, MD, a dermatologist.

“The claim that these supplements increase the collagen content of the skin, leading to improvement in wrinkling and texture, are unfortunately untrue.” Rather than stocking up on trendier formulas, Lain suggests using a moisturizer with hydrating ingredients like glycerin to boost your glow.

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FACT It sounds counterintuitive, but you shouldn’t skip moisturizer if you have an oily complexion or T-zone. Drying out your skin can actually increase its oil production, creating a vicious cycle of clogged pores and breakouts. “Moisturizers are used to improve your skin’s water content, not its oil content,” says celebrity facialist Cecilia Wong. “The right moisturizers or serums for your skin type won’t leave a greasy residue behind.” Wong suggests avoiding heavy moisturizers with mineral oil, petroleum, lanolin and coconut oil that won't absorb as easily, and instead seeking out lighter formulas with grapeseed and sunflower oils or hyaluronic acid. >>

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look to your celeb doppelgänger for makeup inspo

beauty to-dos before your “I dos” Five things to consider in the six months leading up to your wedding.

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Skin Visit your dermatologist to discuss any concerns. Six months is usually enough time to complete a treatment or regimen to deal with issues like acne or rosacea.

MYTH Dirty hair is easier to work with.

2 Hair Give yourself ample time to find the

FACT Do your strands and your stylist a favor and show up to both your hair trial and wedding day with clean hair. “Hairstylists don’t really like working with dirty hair,” says celebrity hairstylist Jon Reyman. “Dirty hair isn’t as sanitary, and we like the freedom to create hold with products that work best for the hair type we’re working with. If your hair is too oily, it may not hold the style as well.” Bottom line: Trust that a pro will know how to create a ’do that looks amazing and stays put—without any added grime.

Whether you’re going to do your makeup on

MYTH Pinterest is the best place to find makeup inspo.

this is the time to start trying out your look.

right stylist, and schedule two consultations prior to the wedding.

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Makeup

FACT While Pinterest does offer a wealth of fun beauty tutorials, what you see isn’t necessarily what you get—especially where makeup is concerned. “A lot of the beauty images on Pinterest are altered, filtered or way too dramatic for your wedding day,” says Ashlee Glazer, global artistic director of Laura Geller Beauty. “I always recommend finding your celebrity doppelgänger, looking to classic red carpet icons and other real brides as a source of makeup inspiration. That way, you can see how the looks you’re loving will photograph in real life—without lots of editing.”

MYTH High humidity will melt off your makeup.

FACT Even if you’re getting married in a tropical locale in the

middle of summer, that doesn’t mean your makeup will get messy—especially if you hire a pro to help you out. “While high humidity can affect the efficacy of some products, a professional makeup artist will know how to prep your face so your makeup stays put,” says Brittany Lo, founder and CEO of Beautini. “Just make sure you’re using primer, waterproof mascara and have a few blotting sheets on hand, and you’ll have nothing to worry about.”

4 Teeth Ask your dentist whether you’d benefit from an at-home whitening kit. Also, make a cleaning appointment for a week before your wedding so your teeth are extra bright.

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Brows It’s not a bad idea to seek out a brow specialist and see what they have to say about your arch. The shape of your brows really can open up your whole face.

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marriage mantras

When it comes to balancing planning and gaining a new family, wedding stress can make your mind race nonstop. But if you start a meditation practice (which is easier than it sounds—we promise), you’ll be ready to enjoy the small tasks and get through the overwhelming ones in stride. >>

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While fun and exciting, planning a day that’s reflective of you and your partner has its stressful moments. Pile on expectations of parents, new in-laws, family and friends, and the stress can go from manageable to overwhelming. When anxiety starts to get the best of you, it’s worth scheduling five minutes for yourself to sit quietly, be still, refocus your energy and take several full, long breaths. These steps are otherwise known as meditation.

“Not only can a meditation practice reduce and prevent stress while you’re planning your wedding, it can help you truly savor each moment of your special day,” says Colleen Carey, a yoga instructor and wedding officiant. “Practicing meditation is practicing presence and awareness—it’s learning to slow down your thoughts, feelings and experience.”

Here are six things meditating can help you do, so you can plan your dream wedding and #enjoythejourney along the way.

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Take a step back Organizing your guest list sounds like fun, but add in all of your future mother-in-law’s cousins (and their spouses) and the price per head, and this happy time can definitely make you a little anxious.

“Meditation can allow you to take a step back and enjoy the big picture with a bit of detachment,” says Lynne Goldberg, founder of OMG. I Can Meditate! and a meditation coach.

You’ll also be able to deal with others’ perspectives a little easier.

After all, getting to know how your families communicate (and realizing your own personal biases and perspective) can be helpful as you navigate all of the relationship dynamics you’re sure to encounter while wedding planning.

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Make better choices It can be hard to think clearly and make decisions that are true to your vision (even if they seem easy), especially when everyone is adding their two cents. But if you meditate for five minutes a day, you’re giving your mind a chance to settle down.

“When you shake a snow globe, all you see are flakes of snow. But when you let it sit for a minute, it clears up and you can see the landscape underneath—the true picture. Much in the same way, meditation gives us a bit more clarity,” Goldberg says.

Clarity also leads to creativity. With a clear mind, you can meet complicated topics with innovative fixes. “When the time comes to make the often-complex seating arrangements, for example, your brain will light up with all sorts of ingenious solutions,” says Will Schneider, a corporate mindfulness coach. >>

treat yourself Reward yourself for your wedding planning work with one (or all) of these total-body treatments.

You’ll slip into a bathing suit and unwind in a water-filled tub infused with ingredients that detoxify and remineralize the skin. The treatment uses water jets to melt away tension, and for extra-tired muscles, a massage therapist will give you a rub-down after your soak.

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Thai massage

Rooted in acupuncture, Ayurveda and yoga, Thai massage is all about flexibility and stretching to relieve any tension in your muscles and joints and create a balance within. A therapist will guide you—fully clothed on a floor mat—into yogalike poses to enhance your energy flow.

Mindfulness massage Feeling super stressed with all your to-dos? Put your worries at ease with a mindfulness massage. It’s a treatment to relax your body as well as your mind. A therapist will lead you through a guided meditation while also calming your muscles through massage techniques for maximum stress reduction.

Earthing

This spa offering refers to anything that gets you more in touch with Mother Nature, by allowing your bare feet to touch the earth’s surface to feel more grounded. Walking on stones promotes increased energy, while strolling meditations in forests calm the mind. Or enjoy a massage in an open-air hut.

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be present

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Remain in the now It’s no revelation that planning your wedding is all about the future—everything leads up to that day, which leads up to your life as a married couple. It’s so easy to get caught up in the anticipation of those exciting times in the future that the moments you’re experiencing right here, right now are often forgotten. You’ll never be engaged again, so enjoy this time with your fiancé, and relish those wedding planning moments and “firsts,” like your first Thanksgiving as an engaged couple or your first cake tasting.

“We’ve all heard from couples about how fast the wedding day comes and goes—and how quickly all that future planning turns into a memory,” Goldberg says. “Meditating during this time will help you enjoy it as it’s happening.”

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Have a daily reflection of intent An intent, which is a positive principle you set for how you want your surroundings and yourself to be, can be a very a valuable tool when it comes to tackling wedding planning. Think of a few intents you want to keep for yourself throughout the months leading up to your wedding day—and then make a commitment to keep them. Some intents could be: Approach any challenge with a calm and positive manner; be present and mindful in the decisionmaking process; and always look for the best in the people around you, whether it’s your partner, planner or parent.

“What’s the attitude and energy you want going into your wedding?” says Tara Brach, PhD, a meditation teacher and officiant. “Do you want to be openhearted? Mindful? Forgiving?

Focused? At ease? Each morning, take a few moments to reflect on your intention in moving through your wedding planning.”

It’s easy to get caught up in anticipating the future. You’ll never be engaged again, so enjoy this time with your fiancé, and relish those planning moments and “firsts” as a couple.

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Connect with your other half Meditating doesn’t have to be a solo activity—when you both have time, you and your soon-to-be spouse can take a few quiet minutes for yourselves to recharge.

“First, meditate together for 5 to 20 minutes to relax and quiet your minds, and then take turns sharing whatever is challenging, exciting or important to you,” Brach says. “Speak and listen from the heart.” This ensures you’re both being honest and that you’re on the same page throughout the entire process—no matter what situations may arise.

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Let go of resentment When you’re knee-deep in dress fittings, seating charts and welcome bags, it often takes just one word or look from a family member or your partner to set you off or make you feel anxious (we’ve all been there). Meditation can help you release any feelings of resentment. “Bring your attention and breath to whatever part of your body feels agitated, angry or vulnerable,” Brach says. “Take a minute to breathe in healing energy, and when you breathe out, release your unpleasant feelings.” And if you’re feeling anxious, quickly inhale and exhale.

meditate on the go These apps will help you get your meditation fix anywhere, anytime.

Headspace

This app is “meditation made simple,” and it’s especially great for beginners.

It’s easy to squeeze in its 10-minute meditation sessions.

Take a break!

These guided meditations offer music and nature audio. Choose from a 7-minute work-break relaxation or 13-minute stress-relief meditation.

Omvana

Omvana’s meditation can be tailored to your stress levels and what you want to accomplish, whether it’s sleep, relaxation, productivity or focus.

Calm

Calm’s mindfulness meditations range in length—from 3 to 25 minutes—and intents, including happiness, relationships and calming anxiety.

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PRESSED POWDER Not only does this setting powder give your complexion an airbrushed appearance, it also keeps your foundation in place while staving off dreaded T-zone shine.

Bye Bye Pores pressed powder, $29, ITCosmetics.com

MAKEUP These f inds stand up to happy tears, f irst kisses and daylong celebrations—plus, they’ll make you look flawless in high-def photos.

B LUS H There’s a reason why this blush is a cult classic (and no, it’s not just the suggestive name). Its sheer formula creates a natural-looking flush and has just the right amount of flattering shimmer. Blush in Orgasm, $30, NARSCosmetics.com

BRONZER Sweep this powder of superfine pigments where the sun naturally hits your face (forehead, cheekbones and jawline) to sculpt your features for a perfectly sun-kissed glow.

Shimmer Brick compact in Bronze, $48, BobbiBrownCosmetics.com

LIPSTICK A bridal beauty triple threat, this hydrating lipstick keeps your pout smooth and provides rich color that actually stays put, so you won’t have to worry about messy first kisses or lots of touch-ups. Boys & Girls lip color, $36, Tom Ford, Sephora.com

BROW DEFINER Not achieving your #browgoals is simply not an option with this wallet-friendly pencil that offers a precision tip, smudge-resistant formula and spoolie brush in one. Draw the Line eyebrow pencil, $8, FlowerBeauty.com

WA T E R P R O O F M A S C A R A This high-drama mascara coats lashes in an innovative shrink-wrapping formula that defines, curls and lengthens.

Plus, it will survive even the most emotional vows. The Curling Mascara, $28, KevynAucoin.com

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EYELINER A built-in brush takes the intimidation factor out of drawing the perfect cat eye.

And don’t worry—the long-lasting formula won’t crease or fade. Liquidlast liner, $21, MACCosmetics.com

PRIMER Whether you’re planning to wear a full face of makeup down the aisle or going more natural during your honeymoon, just a few pumps of this multitasker and your skin is primed and camera ready. One Step Prime, $36, StilaCosmetics.com

F O U N DAT I O N A buildable foundation works for all skin types and offers just the right amount of creamy coverage.

And added jojoba and sweet almond seed oils smooth fine lines for a flawless finish. Cream foundation, $68, KjaerWeis.com

S E T T I N G S P R AY If there’s a time to embrace a full-coverage look, your wedding day is it. Avoid a makeup meltdown for up to 16 hours (no matter how crazy the dance floor gets) with this weightless spray. All Nighter makeup setting spray, $32, Urban Decay, Ulta.com

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HAIR OIL Smooth a small amount through dry hair for brilliant shine that won’t make your locks lifeless. Can you say, “game changer”? Pure treatment oil, $39, EleniandChris.com

FA L S E EYELASHES It takes a few tries to perfect applying these reusable magnetic falsies, but they’re worth the effort. They add fluttery length and volume but look natural. Full Coverage original lash, $90, OneTwoCosmetics.com

HIGHLIGHTER Pull off the “lit from within” trend by mixing a few drops of liquid luminizer with your foundation.

It melts into your skin for a dewy finish.

Shimmering Skin Perfector liquid highlighter, $41, Becca, Ulta.com

CONCEALER Experiencing wedding-planninginduced dark circles or stress breakouts? We’ve got you covered. This waterproof concealer goes on smooth and gives serious coverage.

Bye Bye Under Eye concealer, $24, ITCosmetics.com

SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER A luxe, caviar-infused duo keeps your mane looking gorgeous and glossy.

Caviar Repair Instant Recovery shampoo and conditioner, $34 each, AlternaHairCare.com

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H A I R S P R AY This hair spray has strong hold but is still flexible enough to allow you to adjust your ’do. Air Control light hold hair spray, $29, Aveda.com

L I P G LOSS This versatile gloss leaves behind a unique, glassy sheen and just the right amount of sheer pigment. And with over 40 shades to choose from, it’s easy to find one that works for your skin tone.

Lipglass, $17, MACCosmetics.com

MAKEUP REMOVER This cleansing micellar water cuts through even the most stubborn mascara, eyeliner and lipstick, but won’t leave your face feeling irritated or stripped of its natural oils. We call that a skin win. Sensibio H2O, $15, Bioderma, Dermstore.com

ANTI-FRIZZ Silk protein and algae extract tame even the most unruly strands.

Frizz Ease Extra Strength hair serum, $12, John Frieda, Ulta.com

EYE SHADOW You’ll use this versatile mix of warmand cool-tone eye shadows well beyond your wedding day. Shade + Light eye contour palette, $48, KatVonDBeauty.com

“This is my go-to palette for brides because it offers a range of matte, neutral shadows that really last.”

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—Emily Miller, Emily Miller Makeup & Hair in St. Louis

VO LUM I Z E R Give your hair bouncy volume with an invisible spray that lifts and absorbs oil at the roots.

Dry texturizing spray, $46, Oribe.com

DRY SHAMPOO Keep your tresses looking fresh from your walk down the aisle to your morning-after brunch—sans any pesky white residue. Hair Goals dry shampoo, $19, Tarte.com

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HAIR

Whether you’re going with a classic chignon, boho braid or über-glam cascading curls, these are the products you can trust to lock in your best hair day ever.

HAIR MASK This wallet-friendly find leaves your hair just as silky as pricier picks.

PRO-V Gold Series repairing mask, $8, Pantene, Target.com

HAIR DRYER Save yourself time (and heat damage) with an innovative new hair dryer that splits open to dry your strands vertically. Salon 360 Surround styler, $27, Revlon, Walmart.com

EXPERT PICK

“Your hair will look just as good at the end of the day as it did in the beginning.”

—Megan Garmers, MG Hair and Makeup in New York City

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STYLING S P R AY A fine mist gives strands extra body but won’t weigh them down.

Session Spray Strong, $40, Balmain Paris Hair Couture, Net-a-Porter.com

S T Y L I N G WA N D Pull off the “just-left-the-salon” look with a heated round brush that doesn’t require the help of a blow-dryer. Blowout Babe thermal brush, $100, Amika, Sephora.com

CURLING IRON If round brushes aren’t your thing, an efficient iron with an ergonomic handle turns frizz into polished waves in a single pass. BodyWaver 1.75" styling iron, $149, T3Micro.com

F L AT I RO N Don’t fret if there’s rain, wind or high humidity on your wedding day.

This sleek iron is all you need to get straight, shiny locks. Platinum Styler, $249, GHDHair.com

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BODY

2018 WINNERS

Bathe, buff and bronze with these essentials to boost your confidence from head to toe.

DEODORANT

Swiping on this deodorant keeps you dry all day—even during the most nerve-racking moments.

Fresh Invisible Solid, $5, Secret, Target.com BODY BRONZER

Light-reflecting pigments create an airbrushed effect that subtly evens out your skin tone.

Body Blur Instant HD Skin Finish, $45, Vita Liberata, Ulta.com BODY SCRUB

A gently exfoliating combo of brown sugar and coconut shell leaves skin soft and polished. Coconut Crush scrub, $38, KopariBeauty.com

NAILS

S E L F - TA N N E R

Gradually build a bronze glow with this streak-proof, hydrating balm-to-oil formula. Coconut melting tanning balm, $35, James Read, BlueMercury.com

Are you ready for your ring close-up?

Get pristine digits with these nail necessities.

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B A S E COAT

CUTICLE OIL

A good base coat should do more than just make polish last. This one is full of antioxidants that protect and nourish nails. Nailkale base coat, $15, Nails Inc., Sephora.com

Basically a mani in a bottle, its blend of oils softens and conditions cuticles while strengthening nails.

Solar Oil nail and cuticle conditioner, $9, CND, Ulta.com

GEL EFFECT POLISH

Pair with the accompanying base and top coats for a highgloss finish that lasts, no UV lamp required.

Gel Lab Pro color, $20, DeborahLippmann.com

POLISH

It’s like your natural nail color, only better. This ultra-flattering shade hits the sweet spot between true nude and ballet pink.

Polish in Bare With Me, $9, Essie.com

B O D Y WA S H

An innovative foaming formula feels luxurious and makes it easy to lather up your whole body.

Shower Foam Deep Moisture body wash, $6, Dove, Target.com

EXPERT PICK EXPERT PICK

T O P C O A T Swipe on this pro

favorite for a durable, wet-looking sheen that dries almost instantly.

Dry fast top coat, $9, Seche Vite, SallyBeauty.com

“It seals polish for a chip-free manicure. It’s truly one of the best nail products out there.”

—Tamara Granath, Tamara Makeup + Hair Artistry in Chicago

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POLISH REMOVER

HAND CREAM

It may be a splurge, but this must-have removes even the darkest nail polish in seconds while moisturizing with aloe and lavender.

The Stripper, $19, DeborahLippmann.com

This cream leaves you with pictureperfect hands, and its scent makes you want to reapply.

Whipped Argan Oil hand cream, $22, Josie MaranCosmetics.com

E X F O L I A T O R Fruit enzymes slough away dead skin cells quickly and painlessly. Spritz on before applying self-tanner or body bronzer. SexAPeel instant exfoliation spray, $40, SoniaRoselli.com

“This spray even works for sensitive skin.”

—Mindy Orsak Fuller, Mindy Orsak Hair & Makeup Design in Austin, TX

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BODY MOISTURIZER

Slather on this body butter full of salmon enzymes (we’re not kidding) to smooth and firm skin. Retexturizing body butter, $120, Restorsea.com

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venues...

magical day!

One

Plan your wedding with us at: Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House In Chesterfield 15193 Olive Blvd. | 63017 butterflyhouse.org | (314) 577-0888

Shaw Nature Reserve In Gray Summit 307 Pinetum Loop Rd. | 63039 shawnature.org | (314) 577-9555

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Good skin is just as important as flawless makeup. Upgrade your skin care routine in the weeks leading up to your day with our must-haves.

ACNE FIGHTER Keep it on hand to dry up zits that pop up at inopportune moments (say, right before your wedding).

Drying lotion, $17, MarioBadescu.com

TONER A natural toner, complete with flower petals, cleanses pores without overdrying. Calendula Herbal Extract toner, from $21, Kiehls.com

SUNSCREEN Shield yourself from sun damage with this fast-absorbing formula that won’t leave a chalky residue. SPF 50 mineral sunscreen, $28, Clinique.com

FAC E M I S T Stash this soothing spray in your emergency kit and break it out when your makeup needs a refresh. Beauty Elixir, $49, Caudalie, Sephora.com

SERUM Believe the hype. This organic face oil evens out skin tone and protects against free radicals. Active Botanical serum, $185, VintnersDaughter.com

SHEET MASK Lie back, relax and allow this luxe cotton mask to totally rejuvenate your skin in under 15 minutes.

Facial treatment mask, $17, SK-II.com

E X F O L I AT O R A brown sugar and strawberry scrub buffs away dull skin and smells like dessert—what’s not to love?

Sugar face polish, $62, Fresh.com

CLEANSING MASK A drugstore gem with a 60-year legacy, this green mask obliterates blackheads. Mint Julep masque, $4, Queen Helene, SallyBeauty.com

CLEANSER Massage a dime-size amount of balm into your face for brighter, plumper skin. Vitamin C nourishing cleansing balm, $65, KatBurki.com

EYE CREAM Look like you got your beauty sleep with cream that combats fine lines and puffiness. The Eye Balm Intense, $205, CremedelaMer.com

M O I S T U R I Z E R The under-the-radar French beauty secret is trés hydrating but miraculously never feels greasy or sticky to the touch. And, due to its mild, unscented formula, it also works as a primer, makeup remover and body cream. Lait-Crème Concentrè, from $16, EmbryolisseUSA.com

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“I love how this product has multiple uses. I mix it with heavier foundation to make a great tinted moisturizer.”

—Perry Warren, Creative Hair & Makeup Design

by Perry Warren in Springfield, VA

FACE: TRUNK ARCHIVE

EXPERT PICK

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SPICY A unisex perfume with a devoted following of beauty influencers, this sultry, statement scent leaves a lasting impression in its wake. Santal 33 eau de parfum, $270 for 3.4 oz., LeLaboFragrances.com

F LO R A L This flirty, energetic blend of white flowers like jasmine and gardenia is perfect for a bachelorette weekend.

Wild Child eau de parfum, $65 for 1.7 oz., Pinrose.com

ROMANTIC Made from seven different types of roses from all around the world, this surprisingly clean scent unfolds like a fresh-cut bouquet. Wear solo or layer it over complementary fragrances (we like muskier ones) for an end result that’s all your own.

Red Roses cologne, $135 for 3.4 oz., JoMalone.com

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Scent has the ability to evoke a memory even years later. Choose a special new fragrance to remind you of your day every time you wear it.

SWEET Besides being a pretty addition to your nightstand, this scent is a delicious combo of vanilla and florals. Dolce Garden eau de parfum, $118 for 2.5 oz., Dolce & Gabbana, Macys.com

BEACHY A bottle of tropical sunshine, the exotic blend of orange blossom and herbs like basil is a no-brainer for a destination affair. Eau Papaguéna extrait de parfum, $210 for 1.7 oz., Elisire.com

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CLASSIC Powdery notes of rose, magnolia and amber, plus a cedarwood base, make for a balanced fragrance that’s appropriate for any wedding locale or time of year. Chloé eau de parfum, $105 for 1.7 oz., Chloé, Sephora.com

FRESH Perfect for the bride who typically goes au naturel, this crisp blend of citrus and peony is pleasant but never overpowering. Warm cotton eau de toilette, $40 for 1 oz., CleanPerfume.com

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WEDDINGS AND RECEPTIONS—LET THE CELEBRATION BEGIN

From weddings to anniversaries, holiday parties to birthdays and everything in between, Whitmoor Country Club, with its elegant clubhouse, lush golf course views and wonderful menu choices, offers you a superb location for all your celebrations. This is the place for festivities that your guests will remember forever.

1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO 63304 636.926.9622 | sputnam@whitmoorgolf.com

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maid for style Follow these fashion rules to keep your girls looking fresh and fabulous—without breaking the bank or causing any drama. >>

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You’ve probably heard, “But you’ll totally wear this again!” before shelling out for a bridesmaid dress in the past, only to have it collecting dust in your closet months later. Now that you’re the bride, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s budget friendly, universally flattering and works for your wedding style. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Stick to these fashion rules to find an on-trend dress that won’t cost a fortune, but will make your bride tribe feel gorgeous and confident.

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Shop accordingly Think about what kind of shopping experience will work best for your personality. If you tend to have strong opinions, it’s probably better to shop alone (or with one friend or family member). If you prefer more input, take the whole gang and give them guidelines, like color or fabric. To make the bridesmaid dress shopping experience enjoyable for your girls, make a day of it. Start off with a leisurely brunch (read: mimosas) to ensure everyone is relaxed.

And, when your girls give their opinions on the dresses they love—or don’t love as much—take them into consideration. Even if you disagree with their suggestions, it never hurts to make your besties feel heard. After all, they’re the ones wearing the dress.

Stick to a timeline It typically takes two to three months for orders to arrive plus another four to six weeks for alterations. A six-month cushion will give you and your friends ample time to find, order and fit the dresses. If you’re buying off the rack, either get your girls’ sizes and order their dresses all at once, or let them know they should purchase their gowns as soon as possible. Since off-the-rack styles aren’t made to order, there’s a chance they could sell out quickly, especially if they’re in more popular sizes or go on sale. >>

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figure flattery Styles for every body shape in your bridal party.

A-line

One of the most popular silhouettes, this style extends out from the waist in the shape of an A (no surprise there).

BEST FOR Every figure,

and those bridesmaids who prefer a classic silhouette.

Modified A-line A less dramatic take on the A-line, this style still hits at the waist but forms a smaller A. BEST FOR Girls with

larger hips may prefer the classic A-line, but this style is still über-flattering.

Empire

This forgiving style has a high waistline that sits just below the bust.

BEST FOR Girls with

smaller chests or larger midsections. It’s also a great option for pregnant bridesmaids.

Dropped-waist

This style sits below the natural waistline, so the skirt starts at the hips.

BEST FOR Shapely

bridesmaids—this silhouette will show off every curve.

Trumpet

Gowns with trumpetstyle skirts hug the body around the waist and mid-thigh, and then flare out toward the bottom.

BEST FOR Girls with

curves, since the flared skirt will draw attention to the hips.

Soft trumpet

This toned-down style has a more relaxed fit and flares out only slightly toward the bottom.

BEST FOR Fitted but not as body-hugging as a true trumpet, this style works for most shapes.

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If any of your friends have been in a bridal party before, they’ll know bridesmaids traditionally pay for their own dresses. But a gentle reminder is never a bad idea. When it comes to price, try to be considerate of your friends’ lifestyles—after all, a bridesmaid dress probably isn’t they only thing they’re paying for. If you’re concerned your wedding might be a financial burden for one or more of your bridesmaids, focus your search on dresses in a more affordable range, or select a specific color you like and let them pick their own style from off the rack. Another idea: Take a cue from the guys and consider renting your bridesmaid dresses. Rental sites like Rent the Runway let your girls choose dresses from high-end designers in a range of colors and styles for a fraction of the cost.

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Flatter their figures

Do a test run

Take your friends’ various body shapes into consideration before selecting silhouettes (read: crop tops, minidresses and super-fitted styles should be off the table if your girls make a point of avoiding them IRL). If your bridesmaids have an array of different body types and you’re having trouble finding one dress that will work for all of them, consider picking a color and allowing them to choose their own dresses. If your heart is set on a specific silhouette, try to be flexible where custom alterations are concerned if they make your girls feel more comfortable. Small tweaks like adding cap sleeves to a sleeveless dress, bringing up a plunging neckline or toning down a high slit can make a world of difference but won’t drastically change the overall look of your bridal party—trust us, your girl squad will thank you for understanding.

Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be heavily photographed and standing in front of a room full of people too. The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does it have an unflattering cut? Is the fabric itchy? Does the silhouette make moving around impossible? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one that you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board.

Find the right fit A bridesmaid dress is typically ordered using a person’s biggest measurements, so your friends will likely buy dresses at least a size larger than they normally wear. If a friend is shocked by the number on the tag or she’s in between two different sizes and she wants to buy a smaller dress, let her know it’s much easier to alter a bigger dress. It also doesn’t hurt to mention if the dress ends up being too small, she’ll have to order a new one and that would be a buzzkill, given most bridesmaid dresses are made to order.

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Select the right shade There are several foolproof ways to pick the perfect color. One of the easiest methods is to play off the color schemes of the venue and the season. For instance, if your wedding will be held at a rustic vineyard with burgundy décor, you’ll probably want to rule out bright coral dresses. Rich colors—marsala and emerald—work well in the fall and winter months, while lighter shades—French blue and lavender—are perfect for spring and summer. If you’re still at a loss for exactly which hue to choose, go for a general color, and let your bridesmaids pick their favorite shades for a mismatched look. Want to push the envelope even further?

Consider prints. Just remember: These work best in smaller parties.

Or, you could toss tradition altogether and go for an all-white bridal party à la Solange Knowles for a look that’s crisp and chic. >>

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WILD CARROT GATHER + CREATE wildcarrotstl.com SHAW STL

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Don’t dictate the footwear Insisting bridesmaids purchase a particular pair of shoes may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it also creates another expense—so think twice before you send photos of the red bottoms you’re in love with to the group text. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again, especially if they’re an uncomfortable height. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black or metallic shoes they’d be thrilled to reuse and can actually walk in. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own comfortable shoes means blister-free dancing.

Let them bring the baubles

Find complementary colors

Consider lingerie logistics Remind your girls to get the right undergarments. Depending on the style of dress (read: strapless or one shoulder), your bridesmaids may need some special support. Pro tip: Even the most amazing dress can look unflattering with the wrong bra. In addition to a new bra, each bridesmaid might also need a specific pantie or body shaper, especially if you choose a dress with a formfitting silhouette.

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Also, think about choosing a color that goes well with a variety of skin tones. Stonewashed colors, like blush and sand are universally flattering and right on trend. Jewel tones (amethyst, emerald and sapphire) complement fairer complexions, while bolder hues like yellow and magenta, pop against darker skin.

Want an edgier feel? Try flattering metallics, like champagne, or rose gold. If you do opt for a print, make sure the dominant colors work with your bridal party. Alternatively, deck out just your maid of honor in a print. We also love the idea of mismatched sequin dresses—that way your girls can choose a shade that suits them.

It may be tempting to ask your girls to wear identical necklaces, earrings and bangles, but a mismatched approach to accessorizing will give your party a more modern vibe. By having each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re also encouraging her to express her unique personality (that’s the reason you chose her in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid look and feel more like herself.

bridesmaid reprieve Here are a few things your girls shouldn’t have to worry about on your wedding day.

Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation to her bridal party for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner. Think of it as a “thank you” to your girls for supporting you on your day.

Hair and makeup

Your bridesmaids are already paying for dresses, travel, the shower and more. If you want your attendants to have their hair and makeup professionally done for the wedding, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for these services.

Otherwise, trust your girls to do their own hair and makeup if they’d prefer not to pay for a professional stylist.

Bouquets

You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want by your side. The bridesmaid bouquets (and groomsmen boutonnieres) should be factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other décor.

Transportation

While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area. You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask local guests to give them a lift.

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Bridesmaid luncheon

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FA SHION & BE AUT Y

So you booked the venue and figured out the general vibe of your wedding—congrats!

Now it’s time to find the right outfits and accessories.

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B L ACK T IE You locked in a grand location, hired the 24-piece band, splurged on over-the-top centerpieces and asked your bride tribe to wear floor-length gowns—all that’s left to do is make sure you and your SO show up looking snazzy. For the über-luxe event you’re planning, only a traditional tux and formal gown will do.

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patent lace-ups are a must-have for a classic tux

FOR THE BRIDE It’s your day—celebrate it. Make the most of your moment in the spotlight with a dramatic dress. We love a classic ball gown with illusion lace sleeves à la Kate Middleton, or a more fashion-centric style with a ruffled skirt or lots of bling. When it comes to accessories, don’t be afraid to indulge in more glitter. Pair drop earrings with a loose updo to play up the embellishments in your gown. Stash your lipstick, a compact and a tissue (or a whole bunch of tissues) in an equally glitzy beaded clutch, and step into some bejeweled heels or strappy metallic sandals for the finishing touch.

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FOR THE GROOM Though you’d certainly look dapper in any suit, a classic tux will guarantee you’ll be dressed for the part for your formal affair. To keep it modern, forgo contrasting studs (those little doodads that cover the shirt’s buttons), dated cummerbunds and shiny vests, and instead consider a trendy notch collar and a self-tie bow tie. Opting for a sleek satin lapel won’t hurt either. If you’re more daring, try a tux with a velvet jacket—they’re all over the red carpet.

Equally streamlined accessories, like understated cuff links and black patent leather dress shoes, complete the polished look. >>

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FA SHION & BE AUT Y

Your wedding is all about a killer setting with a modern feel.

Whether it’s a cool museum or an art gallery off the beaten path, your ideal affair is sophisticated without the strict formality of a traditional venue. When it comes to your look, opt for a wardrobe that’s as cutting edge as your celebration.

Hint: It’s all about structure and polished details.

a bedazzled clutch adds a glam touch

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

A minimalistic silhouette will work for your one-of-akind nuptials, without being too conservative.

A strapless, satin, mermaidstyle dress is fancier than your average cocktail look, but still more subtle than a full-blown ball gown. Want to create an unexpected contrast? Consider a style with a cowl back or oversize bow on the back. Not only are they all over the runways, but they make for one heck of a dramatic exit.

Finish off your look with sparkly earrings and a pair of elegant heels.

A classic black tuxedo might feel too stuffy. Instead, pair a charcoal or midnight-blue suit (darker hues are more formal than lighter ones) with standout accessories like a patterned tie or pocket square and statement cuff links. Another idea: Fun socks (like a classic argyle or a kitschy pattern) can bring in the theme and color palette of your wedding without overpowering the rest of your outfit. Keep your footwear simple—a pair of black leather oxfords or monk straps are polished without being too flashy.

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CO CK TA IL If it wasn’t already obvious from the swanky invitations, rooftop locale, gourmet hors d’oeuvres and signature martinis, your wedding wardrobe will surely solidify the fact that you’re hosting a hip wedding. You can’t go wrong if you stick with fitted silhouettes and statement accessories for both of you.

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

Find a gown that’s dressy but not totally over the top for your cocktail soiree.

Consider one of this season’s hottest silhouettes: a simple, fit-and-flare dress.

A formfitting style with a plunging neckline or daring low back still feels classy but will also show off your curves for just the right amount of va-va-voom.

Where bling is concerned, sleek ear crawlers or even a back necklace are fashionforward options. Complete your outfit with a graphic clutch (we love acrylic ones) and unexpected black heels.

Try a slim-cut gray suit for a look that’s sharp but still not trying too hard. A skinny tie works best with this style because it mimics the narrow shape of your suit (regular-width ties can appear too bulky or wide). You’ll look more pulled together if your tie and belt are the same solid color, but a fun, colorful or printed pocket square will give your ensemble unique appeal. Keep the modern look consistent with a pair of dress loafers.

They used to get a bad rap for looking dated, but new, trendier styles are actually the perfect in-between shoe. >>

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B E ACH FO R M A L Whether you’re jetting off to an exotic destination or staying domestic at your local seaside venue, you’re all about saying “I do” with your toes in the sand.

And while you aren’t into the idea of wearing anything too formal, you still want to dress to impress. Relaxed silhouettes, lightweight fabrics and novelty accessories are essential when it comes to pulling off a beach-chic wedding style.

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

Dramatic silhouettes (read: ball gowns or dresses with long trains) and heavy fabrics aren’t exactly compatible with a seaside locale, but that doesn’t mean your dress shouldn’t show some personality.

Beach wedding dresses can run the gamut from super-casual ones you could wear again to more romantic, Grecian-inspired gowns and lacy, boho numbers. As far as footwear is concerned, go barefoot to fully embrace your environment, or opt for metallic sandals or short wedges (heels will sink into the sand) for a fancier vibe.

Breathable fabrics like linen and cotton that will stand up to heat and humidity are a must where beach-appropriate formalwear is concerned. A darker suit could be too formal, but the same cut in khaki or light blue is a great option for more casual asual surroundings. (Depending on how low-key your wedding is, you may even want to lose the suit jacket and roll up your sleeves.) To take your wedding theme up a notch, opt for nautical- or tropical-printed accessories (anchors and pineapples FTW). For shoes, bare feet, sandals and boat shoes are all acceptable choices—just make sure you and your partner are on the same page.

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DAY T IM E While a luxe venue plus fussy attire isn’t your thing, you’ve been dreaming of a stylish, backyard ceremony (well, at least something more intimate and homespun) since the second you got engaged.

FOR THE BRIDE

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Keep it simple with a short, midi-length or high-low wedding dress and let your accessories do the talking.

After all, a flirty hemline is the perfect opportunity to show off killer shoes. If heels aren’t your thing, opt for embellished flats or more playful sneakers. For a whimiscal touch, add a birdcage veil or fascinator.

A light gray, light blue or khaki suit with a patterned bow tie and complementary pocket square (we love the idea of mixing gingham and polka dots) is equal parts preppy and laid-back. If you’re going for a slightly edgier and more personalized feel, consider ditching the jacket altogether for a vest, or adding colorful or patterned suspenders plus a custom lapel pin or bouttoniere— they’re all the rage right now.

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The footwear guru gives us the scoop on choosing the right wedding shoes, plus the trends she’s loving now.

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If anyone knows shoes, it’s Tamara Mellon. In 1996, she left her post as an accessories editor at British Vogue to cofound a company with an East London cobbler named Jimmy Choo (maybe you’ve heard of it?). Over the next 16 years, she built one of the most recognized luxury brands in the world, worn by fashion icons—both real and fictional—like Beyoncé and Carrie Bradshaw. She left Jimmy Choo in 2011 and launched her eponymous direct-to-consumer shoe brand in 2016.

Here, her tips on finding the best shoes for your day—without sacrificing your feet or the chance to dance the night away. >>

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make it personal “It’s a cute idea to get a professional calligrapher to personalize the soles of your shoes with your partner’s initials, your new monogram or your wedding date.”

WHAT’S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING A BRIDE SHOULD CONSIDER BEFORE BUYING HER WEDDING SHOES?

You’re probably going to be wearing these shoes from your ceremony to your reception, so choose a heel height you feel comfortable and confident in. For instance, my perfect heel height for walking all day is three-and-a-half inches, but it’s different for every woman. Go with whatever feels best to you personally.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE BRIDAL FOOT WEAR

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TRENDS? I love classic silhouettes with a modern twist.

My Belle shoe is a cross between a pump and an ankle boot, and my Siren pump has unexpected PVC (read: clear vinyl) details—both are standout, nontraditional options in white.

DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS FOR BREAKING IN NEW HEELS?

You should break in your wedding shoes at home so you don’t get them dirty or damage them. Wear them around the house at least a few times before your day. That way, there won’t be any unpleasant surprises, and you’re less likely to get blisters.

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WHAT ABOUT CHOOSING THE RIGHT SHOES FOR VENUES WITH UNEVEN TERR AIN, LIKE BEACHES OR VINEYARDS. ARE THERE KEY THINGS TO LOOK FOR? I recommend opting

for flats, block heels or wedges—anything but a stiletto heel, which will sink into the ground and throw off your balance. I especially love the idea of a block heel with a platform in the front that will evenly distribute your weight and take some of the pressure off the ball of your foot and toes. This style will give you some extra height, but won’t feel like you’re wearing a typical high heel.

strut your stuff A guide to Tamara’s favorite wedding-worthy shoes.

ALL THAT GLIT TERS

A CUT ABOVE

If embellishment isn’t your thing, keep it interesting with cutouts.

Belle pumps, $525, TamaraMellon.com

KEEP IT CLEAR

These pumps with PVC details are just made for a bridal pantsuit. Siren pumps, $450, TamaraMellon.com

Flashy heels work for a glam wedding or a night on the town.

Frontline sandals, $425, TamaraMellon.com

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easy livin’ Calling all bridechillas. An embellished crop top plus a curve-skimming skirt feels effortlessly chic. Top and skirt, $5,430, Rime-Arodaky .com; engagement ring, $2,775, LizzieMandler.com; earrings, $29,000, Sylva & Cie, ModaOperandi.com; bracelet, $1,095, Ippolita.com; shoes, $180, Schutz-Shoes.com

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flower child If you’re feeling bold, consider a vibrant gown with floral embroidery. It’s equal parts romantic and fashion forward.

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force of nature An oversize Mongolian fur vest takes a flowy frock from simple to striking. Dress, $3,300, RitaVinieris.com; vest, $1,450, shop similar styles at TSECashmere.com; engagement ring, $2,992 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry.com; earrings, $1,000, JacquieAiche .com; bracelet, $11,375, Sylva & Cie, ModaOperandi.com

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stunning site Turn some heads (without trying too hard, of course) with a dreamy combo of delicate lace and sheer bell sleeves. Dress, $5,625, ClairePettibone.com; earrings, $145, LuluFrost.com; opal ring, $3,940, JacquieAiche.com; boots, $199, MarcFisherFootwear.com

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perfect catch A bridal romper is a surprisingly versatile choice. Rock a sleek, belted style to your shower or morning-after brunch. Romper, $1,800, CatherineKowalskiBridal .com; engagement ring, $699 (not including center stone), NoamCarver.com; ear crawlers, $2,795, Ippolita.com; rain boots, $75, RomaBoots.com

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into the wild It’s all about daring details.

Lace-up shoulders and sleeves add an edgy tilt to an otherwise traditional silhouette. Dress, $3,220, Leanne Marshall at BRIDE., BRIDEKC.com (Kansas City, MO); earrings, $195, AlexisBittar.com

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An eyelet number with flutter sleeves is right at home in a rustic setting. Lose the shoes and go barefoot for an even more laid-back vibe. Dress, $240, DavidsBridal.com; engagement ring, price upon request, EvaFehren.com; earrings, $245, LuluFrost.com; cocktail ring, $4,315, JacquieAiche.com

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PHOTOGRAPHY Chris Craymer FASHION STYLING Shelley Brown HAIR AND MAKEUP Sacha Harford for Bumble and bumble and MAKE UP FOR EVER at Ray Brown Productions PROP STYLING Nassimos Studio

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It’s no secret tuxedo rentals have a bad rap for being ill fitting and outdated. Factor in the multiple trips to a rental shop to buy and later tailor your look (not an easy feat when you have an entire party to outfit) and the whole process can seem even more daunting. So what’s the good news? Brands like The Black Tux, Generation Tux, Men’s Wearhouse and Stitch & Tie are reinventing the rental game. With little more than a measuring tape, internet connection and spare half hour, you can pick out a tux or suit (plus shoes and accessories, if you’re so inclined) and have it all shipped directly to your doorstep. Below, our guide to the new way to rent formalwear.

The Black Tux THE SELECTION With the largest collection of the bunch, The Black Tux boasts 39 suit and tuxedo rentals guranteed to fit any and every wedding style with options in tried-and-true neutral shades, plus more fashion-forward colors and prints.

THE FIT Most styles come in a range of sizes, for a made-to-order look. If you don’t know your size, use their Fit Formula to help find what’s best for you based on answers to a few questions like your height and weight. You can also visit any one of their 21 showrooms across the country to be measured in person. Your outfit will ship two weeks prior to your wedding, so plan ahead and secure your

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a matter of time Avoid costly rush-shipping fees by starting the rental process at least three months ahead of your wedding date. That will give you enough time to choose your look, schedule an at-home try-on, coordinate wedding party rentals and make minor alterations.

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rentals at least three months in advance. That will give you enough time to make alterations (should they be necessary). The Black Tux will cover minor fixes to jacket sleeves and pants, up to $15 with a receipt. If the thought of renting a tux or suit without first seeing it in person makes you nervous, take advantage of The Black Tux’s free, at-home try-on. You’ll get to test drive one of its rentals for up to 48 hours for peace of mind before you commit.

THE PROCESS The six-step rental process takes about 25 minutes to complete, including adding your measurements. You’ll first choose your tux or suit, and a name for it (like groom). If you’re looking to differentiate your best man’s look from the rest of your groomsmen, this will help keep you organized. Next, build your outfit with a shirt, tie, shoes and accessories. Then add all your event details and enter your measurements. If you don’t know what your size is, use their guide. Shipping is free, unless you need it expedited, which can run from $20 to $40. Once your event is over, you have three days to return the rental with prepaid postage.

STANDOUT SERVICE If you’re looking to make a serious fashion statement at your wedding (after all, it’s your day too!), The Black Tux offers plenty of unexpected suiting options like mixed tartan prints, gingham, oversize pinstripes and rose-colored jackets.

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THE SELECTION While Generation Tux has a smaller lineup of

formalwear styles with a selection of 21 suits and tuxedos in classic shades like blue, gray and black, its extensive collection of accessories more than makes up for the difference. You can choose from an assortment of neckwear, socks, cuff links, pocket squares, suspenders, belts, tie bars and even satin flower lapel pins in a range of colors and prints—you know, the trendy add-ons that will guarantee you and your guys look extra dapper.

THE FIT Without a brick-and-mortar store, Generation Tux relies on its eTailor to determine your perfect fit with a few questions about your body profile, including height, weight and jean size.

Order your rental three months prior to your wedding date and you’ll have plenty of time to flag any fit issues. Generation Tux will cover minor alterations up to $20, and if your suit requires more extensive fixes, they will send you a free replacement.

THE PROCESS First order of business is creating an event on the website. Once that’s done, enter your measurements using the instructional videos. During this step, you can also set up a free at-home try-on if you want to touch and feel the suit you’re planning to order in person. Then you’ll pick out your tux or suit, add accessories and check out. The whole process takes under 30 minutes. Once you secure your own rental, you can then invite your groomsmen to get started on their orders. Generation Tux’s management system allows you, your partner or even your wedding planner to view the status of each groomsman. (So, if

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clean conscience Spilled some bubbly on your jacket? Lost a button while tearing up the dance floor? Don’t fret. Most rental sites cover dry cleaning and minor damages at no additional cost, so there’s no need to stress out or rush to the cleaners before returning your suit or tux.

one of your friends is seriously slacking and hasn’t been measured yet, you can follow up before it becomes a full-blown crisis.) And with friendly automated reminders of rental deadlines, all of the stress of managing (read: nagging) your wedding party is out of your hands. Another plus: When six or more of your groomsmen rent tuxedos through Generation Tux, your outfit is free. Your rental will arrive two weeks prior to your wedding. Once your receive your rental, you have 48 hours to flag any issues. After your event, return your rentals within three days with prepaid postage.

STANDOUT SERVICE In addition to killer accessories, Generation Tux also offers a pretty decent selection of suits and tuxes in boy sizes—so even the most pint-sized members of your wedding party will look polished in photos.

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THE SELECTION Men’s Wearhouse is the go-to for off-the-rack designer suits for every style, but it also slays at rentals. There are 38 options to choose from, including looks for junior groomsmen and ring bearers. The selection is more traditional, with two- and three-piece suit and tux rentals in black, gray, blue and tan, plus a variety of accessories.

THE FIT Men’s Wearhouse offers a range of sizes, lengths and styles in classic, modern and slim fits, depending on the suit or tux you choose. If you’re unsure of your size, you can use the site’s built-in Fit Evaluator or visit one of their nationwide locations to be measured by an in-store tailor.

THE PROCESS Your rental will arrive seven days before your event, but you should place your order at least 15 days in advance (if you’re cutting it super close). Start by selecting a pre-styled outfit, or build your own look by choosing a suit or tux and adding accessories. Then specify the type of event you’re renting for and the date before entering your measurements and checking out. Similar to Generation Tux and The Black Tux, Men’s Wearhouse offers an online group management tool to help you keep tabs on your wedding party. And, if five or more of your groomsmen rent suit or tuxedo packages, you get a $400 shopping credit toward the balance of your outfit. After your event, you only have one day to return your rental, but you can either use a prepaid shipping label or return it to any store location.

STANDOUT SERVICE Men’s Wearhouse hits the mark with their size-inclusive range of rentals, with jackets going all the way up to 70 long and pants that go up to a 70-inch waist.

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Stitch & Tie THE SELECTION Stitch & Tie has a collection of 27 suits and tuxedos in traditional shades, as well as a couple of bolder options like red and teal. Unlike other sites, they also have a classic black tuxedo rental specifically tailored for women too.

THE FIT Stitch & Tie offers a range of sizes in slim and modern cuts. To ensure an accurate fit, you’ll have to enter your specific measurements. If you’re not sure how to take your measurements, watch the instructional videos that make measuring yourself virtually fool proof. If your rental arrives and the fit is off, they’ll send you a replacement if you contact them within 48 hours or reimburse you up to $15 for minor alterations. For added peace of mind, try the at-home trial service and borrow a suit or tux for 48 hours for $40, which is later applied to your final costs if you decide to take the plunge.

find your fit Choosing the right cut for your suit or tuxedo can make your rental look and feel custom-made. If you want a little extra room, opt for a classic fit. For a slightly more tailored look, choose a modern fit. If an edgier style with narrow sleeves and pants is your thing, go for a slim fit.

THE PROCESS To avoid rush-shipping charges, start shopping for your rental at least 21 days before your event. After creating your account, build your custom look or choose from a selection of curated outfits, enter your event date and then your sizes before checking out. Their group management tool can save different looks for each groomsman and even send out friendly reminders to place their orders. Your rental will arrive a week before your event date, and you’ll have 48 hours afterward to return it. If you need to keep it longer (or forget to pop it in the mail), there’s an extra fee.

STANDOUT SERVICE No formalwear is complete without the right accents, and while Stitch & Tie offers the usual accessories to complete your outfit, its bespoke service is pretty innovative.

It works like this: Mail in your fabric of choice, and it’ll send you a custom bow tie, tie or pocket square within four weeks. Let your groomsmen choose their favorite print, or send in a swatch complementary to your bridal party’s dresses to match.

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If it feels like everyone you know is getting married in a barn or on a vineyard, you’re not alone.

According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings study, the two locales are consistently growing in popularity for couples who are tying the knot. And while we love us a good rustic barn celebration or refined vineyard affair, we’re also excited to introduce you to the new kids on the block. Score one of these venues and you’ll officially be that couple ahead of the curve. >> Dos Pueblos Orchid Farm, Goleta, CA

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Does the word “rustic” give you all the heart eyes? Well, you’re in luck because there’s a new “it” venue on the market to help you achieve that look. While barns aren’t going out of style anytime soon, to-be-weds wanting a fresh space to bottle up that same casual, outdoorsy vibe should look to greenhouses. Nature lovers will go crazy over the built-in décor (hello, plants, plants and more plants!), while the airy structure (think: floor-to-ceiling glass windows and so much light) makes it the perfect spot to host a fun party for a few hundred of your closest friends and family.

MAKE IT YOURS Go for custom botanical-inspired stationery to set the scene and give guests a sneak peek into your wedding location.

On the day of, reinforce the natural vibes by asking your florist to go heavy on the vines and greenery to incorporate your tabletops or ceremony space into the surrounding scenery. Wood farm tables and chairs will add refined texture to the place, while strings of bistro lights will make dinner under the stars feel magical.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Franklin Park Conservatory and Botanical Gardens in Columbus, OH // The Greenhouse at Driftwood in Driftwood, TX // Historic Shady Lane in Manchester, PA // The Greenhouses at Audrey’s Farmhouse in Wallkill, NY // Snow Avenue Greenhouse in Lowell, MI // Volunteer Park Conservatory in Seattle // Planterra Conservatory in West Bloomfield, MI >>

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fun plans for out-of-town guests Keep your crew entertained all weekend long with these out-of-the-box activities.

Treat them to a cooking class

Ask your favorite local eatery if they offer cooking classes and enroll your loved ones in some midday culinary fun ahead of your wedding day. Guests of all ages will enjoy getting a taste of the local food scene (and flexing their chef muscles), and a good meal always brings about good conversation and friendships.

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Host a cookie and coffee reception

Looking for a way to make all your guests feel included on the night of your rehearsal dinner without breaking the bank? Host a cookie and coffee reception afterward for a sweet end to the night. The casual yet intimate setting will be perfect for catching up before the busyness of the day.

Arrange for a group tour

Odds are if guests are traveling for your wedding, they’ll want to see the city while they’re there. Encourage everyone to play tourist by arranging a guided tour, like a coastal boat trip, bike ride or food crawl.

A unique experience will have your guests loving your city just as much as you do.

Host a postwedding brunch

End a weekend of celebrating on a high note with a farewell brunch. Guests will appreciate a hearty meal before they hit the road, and it gives you and your partner a last chance to connect with any friends and family you didn’t get to spend QT with the night before. Keep it casual and flexible to respect travel plans.

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smart questions to ask before you book What’s the driving distance from your ceremony space?

If you’re not providing transportation for your guests, you’ll need to know how long it’ll take them to get from the ceremony to the reception. Ask what the traffic is like around the time of your wedding to ensure your guests won’t get stuck bumper to bumper on a road for an hour.

Is the venue near hotels?

This could impact your decision to book if guests have to drive a long way to get from their hotel to the venue and back, especially if transportation isn’t provided. Usually, anything over 30 minutes is a big ask.

If you like a vineyard, try a ranch If you love the foodie vibe a vineyard lends (plus all that wine), think about looking into ranches. You’ll score a stunning private property with added perks like activities for your guests (think: kayaking or lasso lessons) and even live animals. The best part?

Some ranch venues are fully functioning and can accommodate overnight guests, so you and your whole crew can call it home base for the weekend and make the most of your time together.

MAKE IT YOURS Play up the surrounding scenery with accents that tie together the whole vibe of the joint, like terra-cotta pots overflowing with just-picked wild flowers and leather charger plates. For eats, this is the perfect time to go for high-end BBQ, so see if you can find a caterer who will grill up guest favorites right in front of you. Finish the night with dancing and toasting around a big bonfire. S’mores are optional but of course encouraged.

SOME OF OUR FAVES The Ranch at Rock Creek in Philipsburg, MT // Hofmann Ranch in Castroville, TX // Bayshore Ranch in North Fort Myers, FL // Rancho Dos Pueblos in Goleta, CA // Dunton Hot Springs in Dolores, CO // Tanque Verde Ranch in Tucson, AZ // Ironstone Ranch in Elizabethtown, PA >>

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This directly impacts your guest list and, therefore, your budget. If you love the space but it only fits 75, and your guest list is looking more like 200, you have to decide if the venue or your guest count is more important.

What kind of services do you offer?

You’ll want to know whether the venue has any all-inclusive packages for the site and food, if any rentals or pros are included (some venues may even ask that you hire specific companies), and whether there’s an on-site coordinator. Don’t assume that anything is included.

What restrictions do you have?

There are a few kinds of limits to be aware of. Ask if there are any alcohol restrictions or permits. Some venues may not have a liquor license, and some may not let you stock the bar yourselves. Same goes for vendors—your venue may only allow you to book pros from a certain list, while others will let you bring in whoever you want. Ask whether there are any décor restrictions, like confetti or open flames. Also check to see if there’s a noise ordinance after a certain time— many venues won’t allow you to play loud music past 10:30 p.m. or so, which won’t work if you want the option to dance until midnight.

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If you like a loft, try a distillery If your style is more industrial than glam, a loft wedding is probably at the top of your list. For a similar feel with added personality, seek out a whiskey or spirit distillery in your local area. You’ll get a lot of the same lust-worthy industrial features (like exposed piping, brick walls and metal windows), plus the added bonus of a space that isn’t totally a blank slate. Translation: You probably won’t have to worry about bringing in essential things like tables and chairs and can instead focus on the fun stuff, like what killer set of flatware goes best with the distillery’s copper equipment.

MAKE IT YOURS An oversize venue is the place to go big with high-impact design accents, so opt for a massive Lucite escort card display or statement-making suspended arrangement of graphic branches. Pair the raw feel of the space with hits of metallic gold, copper and inky black for a color palette as chic as it is sophisticated. At the end of the night, send guests packing with bottles of whatever spirit is the house specialty, customized with a signature wax seal featuring your wedding crest or monogram.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Journeyman Distillery in Three Oaks, MI // Westland Distillery in Seattle // McClintock Distilling in Frederick, MD // O.Z. Tyler Distillery in Owensboro, KY // Union Horse Distilling Co. in Lenexa, KS

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Couples looking for a classic or glam environment to host their wedding should look no further than an old manor or stately home.

The authentic space will pack in all of the opulence of a traditional ballroom setting, while still feeling unique and special to your event. Plus, a private home or manor means you’ll likely be the only duo saying “I do” on the property, so you won’t have to worry about running into other weddings that weekend.

MAKE IT YOURS Reinforce the refined dinner party atmosphere by sprinkling your reception tables throughout the main floor of the home so each guest gets their own unique dinner surroundings.

Old homes mean lots of vintage fabrics or wallpapers, so keep your other décor accents neutral and opt for streamlined tabletop textiles, flowers and paper goods. Work in lots of candlelight (real or fake) to set a romantic mood and hire a string quartet or jazz trio to fill the home with live music that sets a celebratory mood.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Rixey Manor in Rixeyville, VA // Lyndhurst Mansion in Tarrytown, NY // Decatur House in Washington, DC // The Twelve Oaks Bed & Breakfast in Covington, GA // Benachi House & Gardens in New Orleans // The Chanler at Cliff Walk in Newport, RI // The Manor House in Littleton, CO

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Now that you have the helpful visuals and words to describe your ideal wedding day look, it’s time to do a deep inspo dive. This is the “dreaming” phase of your planning, so don’t worry too much about the cost of an idea or whether it’s a good fit for a certain venue— your vendors can help you figure all that out. Right now just focus on getting a better idea of what you do (and don’t) want. Instagram and real weddings (like those on TheKnot.com) are crazy-valuable sources of inspiration, but don’t stop there. Practically anything can inform your wedding day vibe, so be on the lookout for unusual sources of inspiration. Love a pattern you see on a dress while shopping at Anthropologie? Snap a pic of it. Touched by the sweet china pattern on your mom’s plates at Thanksgiving? Model your invitation suite after it. The more unique places you can pull inspiration from, the more true to your DNA your wedding will feel.

Nailing down certain specifics for your day can make imagining it (and executing it) much easier. Once you think you’ve compiled a good amount of inspiration, start to narrow in on a few of the most important factors for your day, such as which season you prefer to get married in, a general radius or location, and the size and formality of celebration that feels right to you. A lot of times, your season or your setting can dictate your vision, so you want to firm this up ASAP. Have your heart set on a beachfront wedding? You’ll likely want to say “I do” during warmer months, and a sandy spot may mean a more casual feel overall. Likewise, the desire for a moody, glamorous affair may point you in the direction of a fall ballroom wedding. Once you have certain guidelines sketched out pertaining to your whole vision, it will be much easier to find vendors, details and products to help you execute it flawlessly. >>

fun ways to personalize your day Make your wedding truly feel like your wedding with these touches.

The invitations

Think beyond just coordinating your paper with your color palette. Instead, include unique details as well, like finishing the envelope off with vintage stamps from the states where you both grew up, shutting it with a custom wax seal depicting your initials or incorporating a favorite piece of poetry onto the back of your details card for guests to frame.

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Your vows

The promises you and your partner make to each other during your ceremony are the whole reason this party is going down, so put your heart into it.

If you’re too nervous or shy to do anything super personal, think about including a special sentiment in your wedding programs instead, like additional vows, a favorite poem, quote or inside joke.

The menu

Serve solely local cuisine, or a certain specialty dish you both love (like French pastries, if you got engaged in Paris). Midnight snacks are also becoming increasingly popular, so keep the dance floor packed by having waiters pass around your grandmother’s famous chocolate chip cookies or paper cones filled with “Nuts for Each Other” peanuts.

Your transportation

Leave your ceremony or reception in a vehicle that’s totally #couplegoals. Take a ride in a vintage cab to nod to your love of New York City, scooter away on a super-sleek mint-green Vespa if you’re honeymooning in Italy, or say your final farewells to your coastal reception venue aboard a luxe sailboat. It will be a farewell to remember.

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Figure out your priorities The key to making the most of your vision—and your budget?

Sticking firm to your list of priorities. Before you and your partner spend one dollar or hire one vendor, sit down and prioritize each aspect of your wedding in terms of its importance to you both.

Are you big foodies who couldn’t care less about wow-worthy floral displays? You do you, and allocate some of your floral budget toward a delicious catering team instead. Are over-the-top personalization moments your jam? Then splurge on that custom vinyl dance floor and save on something lower on your “must-have” list instead. You’ll find your dreams of a luxe venue, Michelin-starworthy meal or high-flying performing artists are more in reach than you think once you know what you’re willing to scale back on.

Tap your A-team One of your biggest assets when it comes to nailing down and pulling off your wedding day style is—you guessed it—your kickass vendors. Whether you’re working with a full-blown creative team (think: a planner, florist, photographer, stationery designer, glam squad—the works), or just a few essential members, trust your pros to help fine tune your style. Think of them as your inside look into the wedding industry—they know what’s trending and how to execute your biggest ideas in a way that feels fresh and doesn’t break the bank. Plus, real talk: If you’re going to a pro and just asking them to replicate a look you saw on Pinterest or their Insta feed, you’re not going to get their most creative work or an end result that’s unique to you. You’re hiring your team for a reason, so share your likes and dislikes, then leave them to rock it out and do their thing. Trust us, they’ll rise to the challenge.

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Gaudy chairs THE FIX: If you can’t justify spending to rent new

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between dance breaks by creating a lounge area at your reception. It’s the perfect way to keep everyone in on the party even when they’re resting.

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Something old. Something new. Something borrowed. Something Zoo. Make your special day even more memorable. Book your wedding festivities, ceremony and reception at the Saint Louis Zoo. You can choose from four exclusive venues that offer not only romance, but excitement as well—The Living World, Lakeside Cafe, River Camp and the Event Tent. Then let our staff of professionals help plan every detail, from catering to exquisite floral arrangements to animal greeters— and even private tours of many of the Zoo’s 90 acres of habitats. For more information, call 314-646-4855 or visit stlzoo.org to complete an online rental inquiry form.

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9 SMART (AND SNEAKY) WAYS cont.

4 details you can nix, guilt-free Wedding extras that’ll likely go unnoticed.

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Over-the-top stationery Your wedding invite is the first glimpse your guests get of your wedding style.

Have fun with small, unexpected elements, but don’t go crazy with thick card stock, 14-karat gold calligraphy and real peacock feathers. As long as your invites share essential information and look pretty, you’re good to go.

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Aisle décor Depending on your venue, you might not need much ceremony décor at all—especially if you’re exchanging vows in a house of worship or outdoors. If

Then, if you still need to size down, put a few hard-and-fast rules in place, like “no coworkers.” The tighter you keep your guest count, the more money you’ll have to put toward other perks, like a string quartet for the ceremony.

Opt for a roaming dinner If you’re looking to save on your catering, but a buffet dinner isn’t really your style, look no further than the roaming dinner.

Basically an all-night cocktail hour, an up-and-at-’em dinner consisting of all passed bites is a fresh (and a bit frugal) take on the traditional reception meal.

You’ll save some money since there’s less waitstaff needed, and guests will get to mix and mingle all night long instead of having to sit down for a formal plated meal. Just make sure the variety (and amount) of food guests would expect of a traditional dinner is still there, with plenty of options to choose from for those who have dietary restrictions.

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3 Monogrammed favors Guests will appreciate fun favors, but chances are, they won’t miss them either. Skip customizing favors with your monogram. You’ll save cash and even entice guests to take them home.

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Cake details Standout wedding cakes are stunning, but at the end of the day, your cake isn’t a sculpture—it’s dessert. As long as it looks as yummy as it tastes, and there’s a slice for everyone, there’s no need to go crazy.

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Hire a wedding planner This may sound counterintuitive, but hear us out: Spending up front on a knowledgeable wedding planner can pay off big time for your budget and your sanity. A skilled pro will help you navigate everything from vendor selections to contract negotiations, ensuring you’re spending smart throughout the process.

Another bonus? They’ll have a handle on venues and services in your area, so they can help you score insider-only deals and achieve coveted looks ($10-per-stem peonies, anyone?) for way less.

Play up your venue décor Choosing a party spot with good bones is a priority when looking to make the most of your money. It’s not cost effective if you get a great deal on a ballroom but have to spend big to cover up the ’80s wallpaper.

Make sure your chosen venue feels 85 percent of the way “there” without having to add anything extra. When walking through potential locations, pay attention to things you can’t tweak easily, like good lighting, an open space and decent flooring. Then, work with your vendors to come up with décor that accents the space’s best characteristics, instead of disguising them.

Skip the rentals Trust us, no one is going to remember whether they used silver or gold flatware on your wedding day. When it comes to rentals, it’s best to work with what your venue has to offer. While it may be necessary to rent some items, when it comes to purely stylistic choices, avoid upgrading unnecessarily if your budget doesn’t have the wiggle room. If you must elevate your venue’s basic dinnerware selection, opt for a high-impact item, like a wow-worthy charger plate or patterned tablecloth. Anything else will likely go unnoticed by your guests and isn’t worth the up-charge.

Go for greenery Good news: This last piece of advice is totally on trend. You can keep your floral budget in check by opting for a trendy, greenery-heavy look. Because big blooms are often what ups the price for your flower arrangements, ask your florist instead to focus on a textural mix of greenery for the larger moments, like a table runner, overhead installation or ceremony décor. Then, concentrate your flower usage to high-impact areas that will take center stage in the bulk of your photographs, like the bridesmaid and bridal bouquets.

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MARCH 17

• KANSAS CITY, MO

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Traditions were important to Emily, who describes their wedding style as “classic elegance.”

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THEIR STORY Emily Dague (35 and a pediatric nurse practitioner) and Wesley Hunt (36 and works in real estate) first set their sights on Union Station more than three years before they said “I do.” “We visited the station when we first started dating, and I remarked how amazing it would be to get married there someday,” Emily says. Her wish came true when 200 guests gathered at the historic train station to show their support for the couple as they exchanged vows in a personalized ceremony officiated by Wesley’s youth pastor. —Rachel Sylvester

Gold chiavari chairs, rose petals and clusters of white hydrangeas spoke to the day’s vibe.

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Emily and Wesley played up the venue’s ornate interior by minimally decorating dining tables with ivory linens, gold chargers and mercury glass votives.

Sugar flowers adorned a confection made from layers of cherry-almond, vanilla, chocolate and blueberry sour cream cake.

“I felt so lucky to walk by his side,” Emily says of Wesley, who sported a silk bow tie and velvet tuxedo jacket.

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The newlyweds made their grand entrance to Natalie’s Cole’s “This Will Be” before honoring Wesley’s New Orleans roots with a lively second line performance complete with handkerchiefs and umbrellas.

“Everyone was surprised,” Emily says. “It was a great way to bring all of our guests to the dance floor.”

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SEPTEMBER 23

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Lauren continued the family tradition of marrying at her parents’ home, Four Gates Farm, which is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.

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Lauren McClain (30 and a lawyer) got married extra-close to home, as in right on her family’s property, for her wedding to Tim Kingsbury (31 and a lawyer).

Beyond the location, familial touches filled the day. Lauren’s older sister spearheaded much of the planning, and all four sisters were bridesmaids. A staircase built from limestone slabs paved the way for a hillside ceremony surrounded by walnut trees. “It blended seamlessly with the existing landscape and architecture of the house, creating a natural amphitheaterlike setting,” Lauren says. One of Lauren’s younger sisters crowned the nuptials by singing, “Can’t Help Falling in Love.”

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Seven flower girls and two ring bearers processed ahead of Lauren and her dad.

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“Living” statues, a plein air painter and caricature artists kept guests entertained.

“We took cues from the setting to create a lush, formal garden party with art deco elements,” Lauren says. Gold, ivory and emerald-green accents filled the property and every last detail, like the programs featuring gold foil on velvet paper. Boxwood balls, acrylic décor and 10-foot-plus arrangements brought even more modern flair.

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Hydrangeas, roses, ranunculus, orchids, snapdragons, lisianthus and eucalyptus topped jewel-tone linens.

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“I wanted a sophisticated, elegant gown without any embellishments,” Lauren says of her silk slip dress with a draped cowl neckline. The reception ended with a gold and marbled buttercream cake flavored with vanilla, almond, cherry-almond, chocolate and salted caramel, plus a late-night round of Chipotle.

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• MANHATTAN, KS

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Beyoncé’s “Love On Top” played as the newlyweds exited the ceremony hand-inhand. “We wanted to let everyone know we were ready to get the party started,” Sophia says.

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For Sophia Tolentino (23 and a mentor support specialist) and Patrick Kenney (22 and a student), their castle venue was just as sentimental as it was scenic. “We got married at the home of a family friend,” Sophia says of hosting a garden party for 200 guests at an estate that’s more than a century old.

“I have many memories of running around the home as a child.” A rich palette of emerald green, blue and burgundy was a tonal fit for autumn-appropriate tablescapes finished with butcher paper runners and DIY wood coasters (which doubled as favors) branded with the couple’s initals. “I wanted our centerpieces to feel bountiful,” Sophia says of the fruit-filled arrangements. —RS

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With the help of her sister, a floral designer, Sophia worked café au lait dahlias into arrangements and traded in her veil for a bohemian flower crown postceremony. As a savory way to honor to the bride’s Brazilian heritage, signature caipirinha cocktails were served alongside churrasco barbecue and feijoada.

Strands of string lights illuminated the alfresco reception. “It truly felt like a fairy tale,” Sophia says.

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• KANSAS CITY, MO

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Bells of Ireland filled cut-glass vases— Molly’s one request to channel both her Irish heritage and the plant’s symbolic good luck.

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THEIR STORY Molly Bower (32 and a digital product director) and David Powell’s (33 and a anesthesiology resident) New Year’s Eve wedding was doubly celebratory because it marked the day they got engaged exactly one year earlier. Fittingly, their first dance song honored the coincidence—“What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve?” by Ella Fitzgerald. “The sentiment really translated to, ‘What are you doing for the rest of your life?’ ” Molly says. Minimal touches, including calla lily bouquets and jet-black accents brought understated glamour, as did Molly’s custom cape. —BM

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Cocktail hour featuring oysters and sparkling wine kicked off the food-filled reception that included an Irish coffee bar and a festive treat. “I designed the cake to look like someone had thrown confetti on it,” Molly says. A late-night delivery of a KC staple—Winstead’s cheeseburgers—was a true party-pleaser.

Church, Kansas City, MO RECEPTION SITE The Guild, Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Leigh Miller Photography PLANNER Events

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AUGUST 26

• KANSAS CITY, MO

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Heels weren’t an option for Felisa, who sported flat sandals throughout the evening. “I was all about comfort!” she says.

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Exactly one year to the day after Pablo Patino (29) got engaged to Felisa Li (29), the high school sweethearts made their union official in a Catholic ceremony followed by an ultra-personalized reception at the Berg Event Space in Kansas City’s Crossroads district.

“Being that Pablo and I are both from big cities, we wanted our theme to feel more urban and industrial,” Felisa says of outfitting the loft venue with an abundance of greenery and muted ivory and lavender accents. As a nod to the groom’s background, programs were written in both Spanish and English, and guests noshed on homemade Ecuadorian desserts. —RS

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Catholic Church, Kansas City, MO RECEPTION A few select friends surprised the newlyweds with a red envelope exchange—a good-luck tradition common in Chinese culture. “We incorporated certain Latin and Asian dishes into our menu too,” Felisa says of serving Ecuadorian menestra and fried plantains.

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NOVEMBER 11

• WICHITA, KS

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The bride’s bouquet of ivory and blush dahlias, white freesia and roses, and burgundy scabiosa captured the wedding’s color palette.

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THEIR STORY Brigitte Bose (32 and an architect) and Sebastian Arrazola (31 and a pilot) returned to wed in the place they met: Wichita, Kansas.

“The art museum appealed to me both because I’m an architect and because Sebastian and I have always had a great time at events there,” Brigitte says. “Similar to my professional style, I wanted the wedding to be simple and cleanly designed.” Brigitte DIYed the invitations to mimic modern art but opted for something playful for the escort cards: paper airplanes (created with Sebastian in mind). After a Catholic mass, music took center stage at the reception.

“Sebastian’s family is Mexican and Colombian,” Brigitte says.

“After a very successful conga line, our DJ realized Latin music might be the way to go.” —BM

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Marquee letters and bobble heads of the pair sitting on an airplane, a fun play on Sebastian’s job as a pilot, decorated the head table. Brigitte and Sebastian gifted koozies, their favorite collectible, as favors.

Elsewhere, white hydrangeas, burgundy astilbe and gold votives popped against the granite interior.

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“Gold dresses offered a dramatic yet elegant touch,” Krishelle says of outfitting her bridesmaids in sequins.

THEIR STORY The threat of torrential rain wasn’t enough to prevent Krishelle Ricketts (29 and a pediatric nurse) and Brandon Ivory (30 and an account executive) from saying “I do” in a rooftop ceremony high above Kansas City at The Terrace on Grand. “It literally rained all afternoon,” Krishelle says. “Our vendors kept calling to ask if we wanted to move everything inside, but our response was always, ‘No, the rain will pass.’ ” Once six o’clock rolled around, marking the start of the ceremony, Krishelle was proven right. “All of the rain cleared up,” she says. “We were just so happy.” —RS

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A custom topper coordinated with the cake’s ornate gold detailing.

Partygoers mingled on the rooftop with signature French 75 cocktails while the bride’s uncle’s reggae band performed live tunes nearby. To ensure their reception was nothing short of unforgettable, the newlyweds encouraged guests to wave personalized white handkerchiefs throughout the lively New Orleans–inspired second line. “The best surprise was watching Brandon and his groomsmen perform their New Edition routine for me,” Krishelle says. “It was amazing.”

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picture perfect Put these direct-from-the-pros tips to work during your engagement session and wedding day to get pictures you’ll love forever.

BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGRAPH BY THE POFFS

Your wedding day photos will ensure the memories of your “I dos” last a lifetime, so it’s important to hire the right pro and know how to get the most out of your time with them. We’ve tapped four industry experts to give you the lowdown on everything you should keep in mind for frame-worthy wedding shots. >>

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Don’t skip the engagement session Think of an engagement session as a second date with your photographer (the first date should be a get-to-know-you phone call or in-person meeting). This is your chance to get comfortable in front of the lens (it’s a bit different than snapping selfies, trust us) and get to know your pro and how they work. “Awkward always shows, so use this session to get out the nerves and figure out your best angles—we all have them,” says Elizabeth Fogarty, a fine art wedding photographer based in Washington, DC. Keep it casual by choosing one or two special-to-you locations, and ask your photographer to shoot you somewhere quiet if you’re especially camera shy. Otherwise, trust that they’ll warm you up and get you feeling like a natural. “Posing is very much a photographer’s job,” explains Jen Huang, a fine art photographer based in New York City. “There’s no need to practice before your session because you’ll want to be as authentic as possible. I try and direct couples so their natural moments can emerge.” >>

photography lingo 101 Learn these common phrases to talk the talk.

Digital photography

Digital is the most typical way of shooting. The biggest advantage? Time—depending on how your photographer works, you could see snaps just days postwedding.

Digital cameras can shoot in very low light, and thanks to a display screen, your photographer can preview shots and adjust accordingly. That means lots of images to choose from when putting together your album.

Film photography

Images shot on film will have a soft, organic quality to them, which may fit your vibe. But shooting with film is more work and, therefore, more money. In addition to the price of film, your photographer will also factor processing and development fees into your final cost.

Classic style

Like the ones in your grandparents or parents’ wedding album, classic images are those that stand the test of time—striking, gorgeous and a bit formal. These photos reflect reality, but they’re often infused with your photographer’s signature style or aesthetic.

Lifestyle

Think of lifestyle photography as the casual sister of classic photography. It’s candid, but with a dose of styling and direction. A good photographer will look for moments but also set the scene for a relaxed, approachable result.

Artistic style

Not all portraits have to be a couple in full frame looking at the camera. Think: unique angles, cool framing and contrast-y lighting and coloring.

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To start, hire a photographer who has the same vision for your day as you and your partner do. Whether you love a soft, romantic look, covet crazy candid dance floor shots or know you’ll want formal family portraits, partnering with a pro who specializes in exactly what you’re looking for will ensure you’re already off to a good start. “Intentionally seek out a photographer whose portfolio is filled with the types of moments you want to see reflected in your own wedding photographs,” explains Kate Ignatowski, a fine art photographer based in Richmond, Virginia. Ask to see full wedding galleries (not just what they’ve posted online) so you can scope out how they’ll capture your entire day, and schedule a phone call to ask more about how they operate and whether they’ll do things like pose you and curate moments, or just act as a fly on the wall.

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Dress like you’re out on a date Choosing a look for your engagement photos can be almost as hard as picking your wedding day outfit, so focus on a coordinating palette of solids for you and your partner that you both feel natural in. “I always tell my couples to wear something they’d pick out for a date night,” Huang says. “Everyone has a different look and style—just be sure your outfits ‘match’ in the sense that if one of you is wearing something casual, the other isn’t in formalwear.”

Worried you won’t know what to do when your photographer starts snapping? Set up a little wine and cheese picnic, go grab drinks at an outdoor bar or wander the streets of your city with ice cream cones in hand. Giving yourselves an activity will automatically make you more natural.

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Your pro has likely been in the wedding industry for a while, so use them like your own personal vetting tool when it comes to whom else to hire for your dream team. More than any other vendor, your photographer will encounter every person involved in your day (from your planner to your florist and the DJ), so it’s in both your best interests that they feel confident with your choices. After bringing your photographer on board officially, provide them with a list of who else you’re considering to get their take before signing on the dotted line. While their opinion doesn’t have to be the be-all, end-all of whom you choose, it’s a good place to start.

Create a solid timeline for the day of “Allowing enough time for each part of the wedding day is essential if you want amazing images,” Fogarty says. To ensure your photographer doesn’t miss out on a moment of the action, pass them along a detailed outline of your day from start to finish. (Not sure where to start? Download The Knot Wedding Planner app, and we’ll do the work for you.) Keep in mind, if you want pictures of everything from morning mimosas to the night’s last call, you may need to work overtime hours into your contract, which can increase your costs a bit. Another thing to consider? Whether or not you want to do a first look together. “I always encourage my couples to do one,” Fogarty says. “It allows them to have a bit of alone time together while taking it all in—the wedding day flies by so quickly, and this is a great way to slow it down. Besides getting more portraits in, it also means you can actually go to your cocktail hour and enjoy your guests.” Lastly, ask your photographer to shoot all those amazing details you spent months dreaming up, like your escort cards or your invitation suite (be sure to get and bring an extra copy). “Also allow your photographer time to capture a few reception details before the room is flooded with guests,” Ignatowski says. >>

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your picture-perfect kit Have these must-haves on hand the day of your wedding to set a pretty scene.

Ring box

Extra blooms

Ribbon

Sentimental extras

A beautiful ring box is a must for those up-close shots of your sparkler.

Choose a color or style that goes with the overall vibe of your wedding, like a rich burgundy velvet for a vineyard celebration.

Provide your photographer with a few extra spools or strands of the ribbon used in your bouquet or throughout your décor. It will make a great addition to your invitation suite photos.

Invitation suite

Speaking of your stationery—bring it!

You’ll want your photographer to get a shot of everything laid out nicely, so make sure you order an extra complete set for exactly that purpose.

Have your florist bring a few bonus stems when they drop off your bouquet and centerpieces for your photographer to work into styled photographs of your stationery or accessories.

Consider packing a few bonus items that are particularly reminiscent of you as a couple. Whether you wrote letters to each other your first year of dating, picked up a beloved brass figurine on a trip together or even want to include shells you’ve collected over the years, it’s a great way to add sentimental value to a shot.

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Plan for the light When plotting out your day-of timeline, it’s important to factor in the golden hour—that covetable time of day photographers love to shoot during to capture incredibly romantic, glowy shots.

“Shooting in the best light possible makes all the difference, both for your engagement shots and your wedding day portraits,” Ignatowski says. “Start shooting about an hour and a half before sunset for an engagement session, and begin couple’s portraits about an hour before sunset on your wedding day, depending on how much time you need to allot.” Your location, venue and day-of timeline can all impact how much time you’ll have during golden hour (if any), so loop in your photographer ahead of your wedding to plan out the most logical solution for your day.

From the moment you bring a photographer on board, encourage an open dialogue with them regarding everything from where you hope to shoot your couple’s portraits to how much communication you want to have with them in the months leading up to your wedding. Remember, you’re going to be spending the most time with your photographer on your wedding day (even more than your partner, honestly), so it’s important that you hit it off with them.

The more up front you are about your needs, the more you and your photographer can make sure you’re working together in a way that will surpass your expectations for the day. “I try to encourage my clients to tell me everything they need me to capture as soon as it pops into their head,” Huang says. “Figure out your priority shots—things that you really want captured versus things that are maybe a little less important. This way, if there’s a time crunch, I’ll know which types of images to focus on.”

But don’t try and control everything Listen, you’ve done all the right stuff, so once your wedding day rolls around, let it go. Relinquish control to your photographer and vendor team, and trust that you’re in good hands. Trying to get too prescriptive with your photographer’s work will mean they may miss out on more special, genuine moments, so just let them do their thing. “Trying to re-create that Pinterest-perfect image you love means we may be missing out on authentic moments, like your mom holding your veil or your bridesmaids tearing up,” Fogarty says. “Trust your photographer and their eye—if you let your story unfold naturally, your photographer will capture it beautifully.”

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local love: meghan savage photography The Missouri photographer shares what inspires her, plus advice for couples.

ABOUT THE EXPERT

PEEP THEIR GALLERY

LOOK FOR THE LIGHT

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MAKE TIME FOR YOU

Meghan Lopez is the owner of Meghan Savage Photography, based in Kansas City.

She specializes in photography that’s authentic and romantic, with an editorial touch.

When booking a photographer, ask to view an entire wedding gallery, not just the highlights.

Weddings can be busy and unpredictable, and you want to make sure they capture every moment.

I advise my couples to be aware of the lighting in the venues they pick—natural light is always best for photographers. Also look for clean, minimal backdrops in the space you’re getting ready in.

Invest in a good photographer. When it’s over, your images are all you have to look back on, so you want someone who can tell your story beautifully and make you feel comfortable.

I love doing a couples session after the ceremony. We usually head out to a beautiful location around sunset, and they’re always happy and relaxed. It makes for super-romantic photos.

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What you give your new spouse to commemorate your wedding day can be as unique as your love story itself.

Need some inspiration?

Read the deets of these 14 creative, thoughtful, swoon-worthy gift ideas from couples just like you. >>

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A Rolls-Royce getaway car “Jacob has always wanted to own a vintage car. He’d comment on any retro car that drove by us on the highway, so I thought it might be fun to surprise him by booking a vintage getaway car for our wedding. When he saw the 1958 Rolls-Royce outside our reception, he was so eager to hop in and didn’t want to get out—it was worth every penny to see him so happy and excited.”

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An embroidered handkerchief “Kerron’s grandfather passed away years ago. For our wedding, I wanted to give him something that acknowledged how much his grandfather meant to him, and how much we all missed having him there. The handkerchief was embroidered with his grandpa’s favorite biblical verse, and was a tangible way to remind him that he was with him on our wedding day.”

A live first dance painting “We had been taking dance lessons leading up to our wedding, and it was always a fun date night for us. At our wedding, my husband surprised me with a live painting of our first dance, done by the artist Tesh Parekh. It was a beautiful way to capture such a memorable moment, and it now hangs as a centerpiece in our living room.”

FLYING LESSONS ON A WW11 PLANE “When we first started dating, my husband shared many stories about his grandfather, and it was clear to me just how much he had meant to him. He had been a decorated pilot, and so many of Drew’s favorite times with him involved plane rides to Florida alongside his cousins and siblings. For our wedding, I wanted to give him a gift that tied in his family history and included a little fun and adrenaline for my fastpaced husband. We had agreed that instead of gifting a ‘thing,’ we were going to gift an experience. He had never actually flown a plane himself before, so I started there. I ended up finding a company called Cloud 9 Living that offered WWII plane flying lessons. I chose a flight path over Baltimore, since we have friends in the area and he could fly over the water.

Needless to say, he was pretty shocked. He even asked if I thought they’d show him how to roll the plane!”

Carson and Pete, North Carolina

Katie and Drew, Pennsylvania

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A box of letters “On the day of our wedding, my husband, Casey, gifted me a box that included 12 cards with instructions for when to open them. They were all tied to different life events—our wedding day, our first married Christmas, when he moved to start his

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residency, our first anniversary, our first child, our first big fight and more. He wanted to give me something that would remind me at little and big moments how much he loved me. With him moving away to start his medical residency and me being a year out from my doctorate, we knew we had some tough times ahead. It was so

special to have something from him to turn to when I was having a hard day. Reading the card titles, I found myself falling in love with him all over again in that moment, and, looking back on it now, the gift of these letters embodies so many of the reasons why I married him to begin with.”

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the gift

An engraved guitar pick “Sam and I are both musicians—we met in music school and started a band together, so it’s a big part of our story. He’s obsessed with guitar picks (he has hundreds of them) so gifting him a pick engraved with our initials and wedding date was a no-brainer!”

Three chickens “I’ve always wanted chickens of my own.

When my husband heard this, he was adamantly opposed—after all, he had worked on a 500-plus chicken farm and despised them. Unbeknownst to me, however, he had posted online in search of chickens before our wedding. The day of

Bridget and Sam, Ohio

our rehearsal dinner, I made an unexpected stop at home and found him hammering away on a surprise chicken pen, surrounded by three chickens in storage tubs. It was the best gift I’ve ever received. I named them Erma, Barbara and Queenie—each one has a different personality, and they’re so entertaining.

Since then, our flock has grown to 11 hens and one rooster!”

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Kalea and CameRon, Alaska the gift

A STAR WARS CAKE “My husband, Dave, is a huge fan of Star Wars—he actually wanted us to dress up as Princess Leia and Han Solo for our wedding, but I put my foot down and gave him a surprise groom’s cake instead. It was made by Something Sweet by Maddie Lu, and I loved the way it turned out. Plus, it was super tasty. Dave was really surprised and excited—he had a hard time deciding where he wanted to cut, if anywhere!”

A visit from a college mascot “My husband and I met while studying abroad in Spain through Michigan State University, so MSU has always been a huge part of our lives. When we walked down the aisle at the MSU Horticulture Gardens, it felt like everything had come full circle. I thought it would be amazing for our mascot, Sparty, to show up at our wedding, and Abdul’s groomsmen helped me pull it off. During the reception, our DJ announced we had a special guest arriving. Abdul looked confused until they started playing the fight song and Sparty came bounding into the reception wearing a tux. We even ended up having a dance-off with him—it was amazing.”

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A custom cigar box “In all the time we’d dated, I had never seen my now-husband Tim smoke a cigar. But he’d mentioned a couple of times that he likes to have one on special occasions, which is how I came up with the idea to gift him a bunch at our wedding and attach each to a special occasion. Some of them were tied to specific dates (like our wedding day and our one-year anniversary), others to goals (like finally taking a trip to Iceland) and others were simply funny—neither of us want kids, so one jokingly said ‘Our First Child (Better never smoke this one!).’ ” Ashley and Tim, North Carolina

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A $2 bill “A few years back, my grandma gave me some $2 bills for my birthday, and I’ve just held onto them because I know they are rare. The night I met my husband, Nolan, he offered to buy me a drink. The bartender got my order wrong so Nolan ended up drinking that drink and ordering me another one.

I felt bad, so I gave him one of my $2 bills to help cover the cost of the drink. Fastforward a year later and we are at dinner getting ready to pay. Nolan pulls out his wallet and I see a $2 bill. Forgetting I gave it to him, I remark that I have some of those too, to which he responds, ‘I know. You gave me this one the night we met. I kept it because it reminds me of you.’ I was at a loss for words. When planning our wedding, we joked about using the $2 bill as our ‘something old.’ You can imagine my surprise, then, when he sent it over with a groomsman on the day of our wedding, having written our wedding date on it. I put it in my shoe and kept it with me the whole day. We plan to pass it down to our kids so they can use it as their ‘something old’ at their own weddings someday.”

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HISTORIC BEER HOPS “One of Phil’s favorite hobbies is brewing beer. He reads books, does research, writes his own recipes and even makes custom labels for the really good batches. He’s also a history buff, and had expressed interest in making a more historic beer recipe.

Well it turns out, during the Colonial era, my hometown was the center of hop production. That’s when the pieces began to fall into place in my mind: What if I could give Phil a bit of my history and something he’d love? The hops wouldn’t be mature to pick until August or September (after our June wedding), so the plan became to gift him the plants, and go back to pick them together later. I printed out photos, wrote a note explaining the gift and folded it into the card I gave him at our wedding. Not only was it special because it was a historic variety of hops from my town, but it was also a new adventure for him in brewing.”

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the gift

A Slaughterhouse-Five book “I got Henry a Kurt Vonnegut–signed copy of Slaughterhouse-Five, his favorite book. When we met, he told me he lent his copy to a girl and she never returned it. I wanted to be the girl who gave it back—but even better.”

Paul McCartney tickets “T and I have been best friends since we were 12. There is only one man I have loved for longer, and that is Paul McCartney. So, the gift of the concert tickets was his way of honoring my ‘first love.’ ”

Whitney and Henry, New York

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thoughtful wedding traditions

Whether you’re already incorporating one of these touching traditions into your day or are on the hunt for a meaningful moment to add to your wedding, we’re explaining a few of the sweet sentiments you may (or may not) be familiar with. >>

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chuppah A chuppah is the altar that Jewish couples stand beneath to exchange their vows. Made up of four corners and a covered “roof,” it’s meant to symbolize the new home the couple is building.

Traditionally, the posts are held up by friends or family of the couple, but today, many duos simply have their chosen loved ones join them beneath it. The structure itself can be simple or fancy, ranging from a family heirloom fabric (like a tallit) to a large installation of blooms. >>

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tea ceremony A quintessential Chinese wedding ritual, the purpose of a tea ceremony is to show respect for family. Traditionally, after exchanging vows, a couple would serve tea to the groom’s family (with the bride’s family served later in the day after the bride’s home visit). These days, modern couples often choose to honor both sides of their family tree by hosting a joint ceremony for their whole crew, either post-vows or even the day after their wedding (think: a tea ceremony instead of a day-after brunch). Tea is served in order of seniority, with popular flavors being sweetened red or black tea. Those participating often bring a lai see, or lucky red envelope, usually containing money or jewelry, to gift the couple.

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While Hindu weddings incorporate many rituals, one of the most recognized is the saptapadi, or seven sacred steps around a fire. “Each step represents a hope or wish for the couple’s future,” says Eleni N. Gage, author of Lucky in Love: Traditions, Customs & Rituals to Personalize Your Wedding.

“The first is for the couple to provide nourishment for their household; the second, that they grow stronger physically, mentally and spiritually; and the third, that they prosper. The fourth is a petition to grow in joy, love and trust; the fifth, that they have children; the sixth, that they enjoy a long life together; and the seventh, that they remain lifelong friends and partners.”

Couples circle the agni (fire) together while reciting the vows and are pronounced officially wed after their final lap around the flames.

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veil and cord ceremony Filipino wedding traditions put a large emphasis on family (their processionals can sometimes include 50 people or more), and the cord and veil ceremony is no different.

Couples looking to work in these rituals will first have to choose sponsors for both the veil and cord traditions (as well as the unity candle, which takes place last)—often these are godparents or other close family friends or relatives. During the ceremony, two sponsors drape a white veil over the couple’s shoulders as a symbol of unity.

Another two sponsors then add a white cord (sometimes referred to as a yugal) atop the veil, further bonding the couple as they receive the officiant’s blessing. >>

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planting a tree Nature is symbolic in nearly every culture, which is probably why this ritual has gained such popularity among newlyweds. During their ceremony, couples can take turns covering a partially planted sapling with dirt—sometimes from a place that’s significant to them, like their joint alma mater or backyard. “To make it even more meaningful, pick a tree that’s rich in symbolism,” Gage says. “Orange trees represent fertility, olive trees symbolize peace and evergreens can remind you of everlasting love.” The rustic ritual is perfect for any couple hosting a nonreligious ceremony or outdoor affair—or really anyone who isn’t afraid of getting their hands dirty. Bonus points if you find cute gardening gloves.

What better way to start married life together than to jump right in? Jumping over a broom is a symbolic action, meant to sweep away the past and show a couple embarking on a new life together. “It became popular in the United States before the Civil War, when slavery prohibited African American couples from legally marrying,” Gage explains. “They would hold their own ceremonies that involved placing a broom on the floor and jumping over it together while holding hands. There’s also symbolism in the idea of sweeping away the past and stepping into the future.” Today many couples continue to honor that tradition, choosing to “jump the broom” right after they’re pronounced wed at the altar, or at the reception as the wedding party enters.

Make it your own by using a family member’s broom, decorating a new one to fit your wedding vibe or playing a signature song while you make the leap.

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burying the bourbon Whether you’re from the South or not, chances are you’ve got your fingers crossed for sunny weather on your wedding day.

Good news—you can think of burying the bourbon as a plea to Mother Nature. “The idea is to bury a bottle of bourbon upside down at your wedding venue in the hope of influencing nature to give you good weather,” Gage says. “It’s a tradition in the Southern US, and, like a lot of rituals, was developed to calm anxiety. It makes you feel like you’ve done what you can to influence the weather, so you can stop worrying about rain ruining your day and just enjoy the celebration.” Splurge on the good stuff, get the bottle monogrammed for a personal touch and get digging.

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A wedding is a loaded event—financially, emotionally and even spiritually—so it’s no wonder there can be a lot of anxiety surrounding both the actual celebration and the idea of marriage. There are certainly red flags you should pay attention to, but the majority of prewedding jitters stem from the expectation that this is supposed to be, unequivocally, the happiest time in your life. And while that can definitely be true (hey, it’s pretty darn fun!), it’s also okay to feel a bit thrown off by the whole thing. “We think of happiness as really binary,” explains Matt Lundquist, founder and director of Tribeca Therapy in New York City. “We tend to believe you can’t be both happy and stressed, nervous or worried, but that’s not true. Weddings are massive, expensive ordeals, so of course they’re going to be hard. Believing that the tough stuff means you’re doing it wrong makes the tough stuff even harder.” So, what is normal to feel leading up to the main event? Here are the top worries psychologists say are most common.

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The actual wedding We bet you’re not too surprised about this one, huh? Unless you’re an event planner, you’ve probably never organized something of this magnitude. And somewhere between your cake tasting, the third meeting with your florist and the fifth call from Great Aunt Valerie, you realize you’re a little overwhelmed. Totally understandable, says relationship therapist Aimee Hartstein. “We get so swept up in having the perfect event. It can help to realize that six months from now, you probably won’t care about the details that are keeping you up at night,” she says. Her advice? Take a step back. Instead of spending the night worrying over your ceremony schedule, call up a few friends and head out for margs or a movie—a quick reminder that your life consists of more than just planning a wedding will have you instantly feeling better. If your nerves are more about being the center of attention rather than a long to-do list, Hartstein suggests you take a moment to remember the loved ones that will be there on the day of. “Remind yourself that everyone there is someone who loves you and is happy to celebrate you,” she says. “Focus your attention on you and your partner, and know there will be so much adrenaline and excitement that day, you won’t be nearly as self-conscious as you think.”

Family dynamics Whether you’re besties with your future in-laws or simply cordial, your relationship with them has likely been the center of a few sleepless nights. “Dealing with in-laws is a very common premarital anxiety,” Lundquist says. “When I see couples for counseling, they’re usually in the middle of wedding planning, and dealing with one >>

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5 ways to stay chill while planning Keep calm and carry on through prewedding chaos with these stress-relieving tips.

Have a tech-free night

To disconnect with your tech and reconnect with your love, observe at least one tech-free date night a week (that means no phone, email or social media). Trust us, you’ll appreciate the extra attention and QT together.

Learn to meditate

These days, it seems like everybody’s trying to get Zen. Get in on the action by setting aside 5 to 10 minutes every morning to quiet your mind and set an intention for your day. Beginners can get acclimated with a meditation app like Buddhify or Headspace.

Pamper yourself

Indulge in a mud mask, light some scented candles (lavender is so soothing) and run a bubble bath to take your thoughts off planning for a little while. Your body and mind will thank you for the self-care and you’ll feel refreshed when you get back to the grind.

Make time to sweat

Being active is proven to boost your mood, lower stress levels and help your overall health, so make a point to maintain a consistent workout routine throughout the planning process. You’ll feel powerful and motivated— extra points if you include stress-combating yoga too.

Get crafty

Immerse yourself in a creative project that has nothing to do with your wedding (that means no DIY party favors allowed), like putting together a scrapbook, painting a watercolor or taking a pottery class.

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fight right another’s families is often at an intense place.” Whether you’re butting heads with your future MIL or are worried that dear old Dad will say something silly, be as straight forward as possible with your partner—and their family—about both your issues and expectations.

“Try your best to anticipate what it is you’re worried will happen and talk to your families about it,” Hartstein says. “No family is perfect, but most want the best for you. If you let them in on your fears, hopefully they’ll then do their best to make your day as stress free and happy as possible.” Laurel Steinberg, PhD, a clinical sexologist and relationship therapist in New York City, agrees. “If you feel the need to give someone a prewedding hint about your behavior expectations, feel free to do so,” she says. “Be smart about the table arrangements and where you seat people, but past that, don’t sweat it. The person who acts badly is the one who looks bad, not you.”

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Arguments and disagreements We’re going to let you in on a little secret—all couples fight. If you feel like you and bae are battling it out more than usual lately (especially while wedding planning), use it as a chance to talk about how (and why) you fight, instead of judging your relationship.

“Couples can be self-conscious about how much they fight or the fact that they fight period,” Lundquist says. “Use this time to talk about your boundaries for fighting and what it means to fight fair in your relationship.” He suggests conversations around things like what sort of words or behaviors are too harsh, and what to do when a line is crossed can be super beneficial to the health of your marriage in the long run. Having a hard time starting those conversations yourselves? Try downloading an app like Lasting,

Use the time ahead of your wedding to talk about what it means to fight fair in your relationship. Conversations around what words or behaviors are too harsh can be super beneficial to the health of your relationship in the long run.

which will walk you through science-backed exercises devised to help strengthen the health of your partnership. “Don’t forget that relationships are complicated,” Hartstein adds. “None of us are madly in love all the time, especially during times of high anxiety.

Even if you’re in a stressful place, it doesn’t reflect on the marriage you are embarking on.”

Lifetime commitment Pledging to spend your life with one person can be like whoa, right?

Whether you’ve had 2 or 20 relationships before your partner, it’s natural to wonder if you’re making the right choice. “The worry that there’s someone better out there for you usually comes from FOMO,” Steinberg explains. “Most people feel scared by a lifetime commitment at some point, but if you remember to care for your relationship and do the best you can to be kind, you will be fine.”

Hartstein agrees, suggesting that, like all big life choices (think: buying a house, starting a new job or, hey, even cutting bangs) getting married is a leap of faith. “If you love your partner, are happy and think you’re good together, that’s enough,” she says.

“None of us can know exactly where we will be and how we will feel 50 years from now. Right now, all that matters is you’re choosing to go on a journey with the person who you feel is right for you.”

4 convos to have before getting married Here are the crucial topics to discuss together—and what is okay to disagree on.

Raising kids

If it hasn’t already come up, now’s the time to discuss whether or not you envision yourselves having children.

But don’t stop there. It’s also important to talk over where you each stand on the many issues that will inevitably come up once you start trying to have kids and when the tykes are actually around, like infertility, adoption, discipline and more.

Money and careers

One of the biggest things couples fight about is finances, so talk now to avoid arguments.

Decide whether you’ll keep separate accounts, and determine where you’ll draw from for expenses and big investments. If one of you is a spender and the other is a saver, choose amounts to set aside for savings and personal spending that you’ll both be okay with.

Religion and values

Every marriage counseling expert brings up faith and moral values for good reason.

They might not seem like a big deal now, but religion and morals play a larger role in marriage success than some couples expect. Talk about your faith, general values you find important in a partner and how you see them affecting your shared life together.

Deal breakers

If there’s anything else you know will drive you nuts in a marriage, it’s better to chat about it sooner rather than later. You should also be up front about any life goals you’re dying to accomplish. Aiming to live in another country or own your own business someday?

Make sure your partner knows about that dream and is open to helping you achieve it.

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destination “I do” Add local touches to your day, like a mojiganga parade

Throwing a wedding away from home can be a great excuse to get your passport stamped with all your besties. Here, need-to-know info to help you pull off a wedding (and vacation!) to remember. >>

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Think of destination weddings as the new “it” way to pledge forever. More engaged couples are opting to say their vows and dance the night away at locations far (and even farther) away from where they call home. After all, nothing says “let’s party” like a public declaration of love and a vacation. Want to get in on the globe-trotting action? Read these important tips before you hop a flight and book your wedding day.

stores, restaurants and vendors that close up shop for a few months.

If, after crunching the dates, you decide that high season is the best option for you, just plan accordingly. Settle on your venue and pick vendors ASAP, then send out your save-the-dates 10 months to a year in advance to give loved ones plenty of time to book their travel and accommodations.

Pick the perfect spot

Trust us on this one—your life will be so much easier if you work with (nearly) everything your destination has to offer from the start.

Whether you select it for its stunning scenery or killer cuisine, plan to capitalize on all the characteristics that make your site unique.

Play up your surroundings with locally grown florals, serve up delicious drinks and food specific to the area (champagne and crepes in France or tequila and tacos in SoCal) and pass out favors that nod to the area (like Kona coffee beans in Hawaii). Not only will you save money by sticking local (a definite plus), you’ll also give guests the vibes your destination offers. After all, that’s why you chose it.

Maybe it goes without saying, but any place you choose to hold your wedding should feel totally you—especially for a far-off destination.

Whether it’s a luxury beach resort in Hawaii, Ireland’s Cliffs of Moher or the Arizona desert, put some real thought into where you’ll be asking your friends and family to travel. Another thing to note: Most, if not all, of your guests (you and bae included) will likely be turning the trip into a vacation, so be sure there’s plenty of fun for everyone during off hours. A remote island may sound über romantic, but if you’re planning on having your crew tag along, there may not be enough to do to entertain everyone for several days.

Choose the right time Like planning any trip, you’re going to need to take timing into consideration. Often, the best weather in popular vacation destinations corresponds with peak tourist season, which equals more crowds, fewer venue availabilities and higher rates all around.

If you can swing it, opt to throw your wedding during shoulder season (aka the few weeks right after high season), where you’ll likely still score great weather and save a bit of money. But while off-season can mean less crowds and less cost, you’re also opening yourself up to other issues (especially in more remote areas), like

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Embrace everything about the locale

Take a prewedding trip (or two) Plan to take at least one wedding-related trip to your chosen destination, but two or three is even better if you can swing it. You need a bit of time on the ground to get the lay of the land, meet with important vendors and cross off some to-dos. If you can only visit once, spend that time scouting and securing any key venues you still need to solidify, like your ceremony and reception spaces and hotels for your guests. Able to fit in a second trip? That’s a great time to hold face-to-face meetings your pros. Have a tasting with your caterer, view sample bouquets and arrangements from your florist, and even have your hair and makeup trials. >>

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Enlist help ASAP Even if you’re able to take a few prewedding trips, you’re going to want to know you have someone advocating on your behalf, so seriously consider hiring a planner. They’ll be able to shoulder much of the work when you aren’t available (given a time difference or just distance), plus their input will be invaluable—especially if you choose a spot where your vendors speak another language, have a foreign currency or conduct business differently than what you’re used to. Come the main event, your planner will be a behind-thescenes all-star, helping greet everyone upon arrival, organizing vacay-worthy activities, vetting any special requests and ensuring your day (or week) runs smoothly. Plan to set aside 10 to 15 percent of your total budget for a planner (more, if you’ll be needing them for other events than just a rehearsal dinner and wedding). Going with a local pro is your best bet, but if you prefer to stick with someone closer to home, inquire as to whether they have experience planning weddings in your chosen destination.

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Budget accordingly News flash: A destination wedding doesn’t have to break the bank.

In fact, depending on where you and your SO call home, a vacation bash may end up costing less than what you’d pay in a city like New York or Chicago. That said, there are a few budget busters you should keep your eye on when planning your “I dos” away. First and foremost, you should expect to pay for travel and accommodations for any key vendors you’ll be asking to make the trip to your destination, like an out-of-country planner, photographer or florist.

Another potential money pit? All those activities. You’re asking friends and family to shell out a lot of cash to travel, so you’ll want to make sure they have the best time ever while they’re there. That means you may have to budget for extra events, like a beachfront luau or zip-lining through the jungle.

Research local requirements The legal side of tying the knot in a different country can be complicated, so be sure to do copious research into what laws there are surrounding marriage and events in your chosen location. You may need to acquire additional permits to serve alcohol, play music or host guests at a private home, so get an early jump on that.

Another consideration? What makes marriage legal. Some spots have a residency requirement, which means you must reside in the country for a certain length of time before your ceremony.

Although this is usually just a few days, it can be longer, so plan accordingly. As an easy solution, many couples choose to hold an informal courthouse ceremony in the United States shortly before leaving for their destination, so there’s less to worry about. >>

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wedding week to-dos Check off these tasks for a smooth day of.

Over-communicate with your vendors To make sure everyone is on the same page, call your wedding vendors and confirm the arrangements you have with them, including final head counts, arrival times, delivery schedules and more.

Designate point people You don’t want your caterer calling while you’re getting your makeup done. To avoid that, designate a go-to person for every situation, like ceremony and reception setup, payments (and tips!) and guest inquiries. If you don’t have a planner, give the lowdown to your most trusted pal.

Pack properly Whether you need special undergarments for your wedding day look or are leaving for your honeymoon postreception, taking the time to pack thoughtfully for each event is crucial. Do you have your emergency kit? Your rehearsal dinner attire?

Your day-of present and note to your partner?

Knowing you’re on top of it will minimize stress.

Schedule glam time Make any minor beauty appointments you want done the week of, like a mani-pedi, waxing, massage, blowout or facial. Any experimental treatments (like facial peels, lasering, hair coloring and drastic cuts) should be done a few months in advance in case they don’t turn out as expected.

Hand off important items Be sure to pass your marriage license to your officiant, the wedding bands to a trusted wedding party member and any tabletop or décor items to your florist, caterer or planner.

Have your wedding attire ready to go Make arrangements at your bridal salon or local cleaners to have your outfit steamed—and don’t try it on afterward or else it’ll wrinkle again. Store it in a garment bag and hang it in a closet in a smoke-free and pet-free room, just to be safe.

Deliver welcome baskets Ahead of your rehearsal dinner (and your guests’ arrival), be sure to give any welcome baskets or bags to the hotel concierge. Provide a list of names, delivery instructions and any additional information you have to prevent mix-ups.

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leave it to the pros Avoid DIY overload with our picks for what you should skip doing yourself.

Your cake

Your invitations

Your photos

Your flowers

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Think about your guests (a lot) Like any good celebration, your guests’ experience will be paramount at a destination affair, and your wedding website will likely be a lifeline for those friends and family who will be making the trip. Take the time to fill it with all the need-to-know info that will make planning easiest on them, like group flight and accommodation information, transportation from the airport to the hotel, any passport requirements or travel restrictions, special clothing necessities and more. Upon arrival, do whatever you can to ensure your crew has a fun, seamless experience at your destination. This means stocking their welcome bags with trip essentials (water, bug spray, sun tan lotion and so on), connecting them with other wedding guests, providing a packed itinerary and list of suggested activities, and inviting everyone (yes, everyone) to the rehearsal or welcome dinner and goodbye brunch.

Dress the part Don’t forget to consider the climate when choosing your wedding day attire—and the dress code. You’re sure to be swimming in sweat if you pair a fairy-tale satin ball gown with tropical humidity, and asking the guys to wear full-blown tuxedos in the sun and heat is just not nice. Cater your outfit selection to the personality and weather of your location, and avoid anything that will be too difficult to travel with, too hot or too formal.

Photographs are one of the few tangible things you’ll have to remember your wedding. Loved ones may promise to capture every moment, but what happens if they get distracted?

It’s important to have high-quality images, so hire a pro. Then, corral guest photos with an app like Veri, which makes sharing and reliving your day easy.

Your catering

Catering a large party is a huge undertaking, even for a culinary whiz.

You’ll be hard-pressed to make enough food for 100 people and keep it hot. And you’ll need a reliable staff to serve it. Caterers are trained to make it happen—they have the support staff to serve you and your guests in a timely manner.

Your paper goods are the first look guests get of your celebration. While you might think you can easily create a suite by yourself, pro stationers or companies like Minted or Shutterfly have the resources to pull it off much more impeccably than you would be able to at home. Plus, you won’t end up going over budget to score the look you want.

A beautiful centerpiece sets the mood of your reception. From sophisticated to fun, you can create a setup that will wow guests—with a florist’s help, of course.

Although it’s a large part of the budget, it’s worth every penny. Your florist will ensure each wowworthy display is filled with fresh blooms.

Your music

It’s tempting to blast your favorite tunes on an iPhone, but here’s something to consider: Music pros, like a band or DJ, are trained to read the dance floor.

So they’ll speed it up or slow it down so your guests will be getting down well past midnight.

Plus, they can often emcee your event so the night flows smoothly.

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Whether it’s a missed teaspoon of sugar or a tilted tier, a wedding cake disaster is hard to fix. Yes, it would be much less expensive to buy a few boxes of cake mix and do it yourself, but in the end, the quality may suffer. Plus, decorating and transporting a cake is difficult and best left to someone with the knowledge of how to handle your dessert.

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pull off all those other parties Ensure every wedding-related bash is #goals with these foolproof planning and etiquette tips.

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We get it, you’re focused on planning the main event. And who could blame you?

Pulling together a party for 100-plus of your closest friends and family is a big deal.

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Shower For argument’s sake, we’re going to refer to this next category as a shower, but this can really include any event leading up to the wedding day where one or both sides of your family join together to celebrate your impending nuptials, like a bridal shower, couple’s shower and more. Remember, a wedding (and any related events) are all about what feels right to you and your partner, so if you’re not so thrilled by the idea of a shower, just skip it. If you’re looking to stick with tradition, plan to hold your shower anywhere from one to six months ahead of your wedding. Keep in mind that showers are often coordinated by someone other than the bride or groom (think: your MOH or future mother-in-law), so be sure to tap your party people early on to give them enough time to plan your event. For traditional bridal showers, women who are attending the wedding are the ones invited, while a couple’s shower or other celebration usually extends to include anyone on your wedding guest list and can be as big or small of a gathering as you’d like. Another important point: These events are when the majority of the gifting will happen, so stock your registry with plenty of options at least a month ahead of your party so guests have a variety of items (and price points) to choose from. Plus, you don’t want Aunt Sally going rogue, do you? >>

Depending on your preferences and how your engagement went down (think: a surprise dinner with your besties), you and your partner may decide to have an official party celebrating your new status as to-be-weds. According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings study, about 28 percent of couples have an engagement party.

Hosted by your parents, a close relative, your sibs or even the two of you, an engagement party is meant to act as a casual get-together where friends and family can pass along their congrats and toast you with bubbly. We recommend keeping it informal—trust us, there will be plenty of occasions for you to rock black tie and cover everything in blush, but this doesn’t have to be it. Consider a low-key backyard barbecue or beachfront clambake, where you and your partner can focus on mixing and mingling with everyone you’re looking forward to celebrating your marriage with. And that brings us to the guest list. There is no “right” amount of people to invite to your engagement party, but there are a few things to keep in mind. Whether you decide you want to keep it small and intimate or make it big and boisterous, steer clear of including any guests you won’t be inviting to your wedding (that is, unless you’re planning to elope). It may result in guests being confused as to where they stand, or having their feelings hurt once they realize they’re not receiving an invite for the actual wedding day.

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Bachelor/bachelorette party Is there anything more fun leading up to your wedding than a weekend partying with your besties? We think not. A longstanding tradition for both sides of the aisle, bachelor and bachelorette parties are a chance to let loose, hang with your pals and make some memories. While typically hosted by the maid of honor or best man, virtually anyone can pull together this party, so feel free to ask your most organized college roommate or Pinterestsavvy cousin to do the honors. Steer clear of celebrating too close to your actual wedding date so you can feel free to let loose and enjoy all the revelry that goes along with this prewedding bash. One thing to remember: Make your party preferences known. While you’re free to have a weekend that’s as low-key or over-the-top as you want, your friends aren’t mind readers, so if there’s something that’s truly off limits, say so. Beyond that, try and choose a location that has a lot to offer no matter what the budget or what your buds are into. Cities like Nashville, Tennessee, Charleston, South Carolina, and Portland, Oregon, all have a great mix of the classy, the rowdy and the understated. >>

who gives a toast (and when) Smiles, laughs and happy tears—toasts are guaranteed to bring out the “aw” moments at your reception. Here’s who gets a turn at the mic.

The parents

If one set of parents is hosting the wedding, they’ll usually speak first. If the bill is being split, both sets of parents should speak together. They welcome the guests to the celebration, thank them for coming, raise their glasses to the newlyweds and give some muchappreciated words of wisdom for the new couple.

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The best man’s tribute kicks off the wedding party speeches. He’ll make the crowd laugh with stories of the groom’s glory days and tear up with surprisingly heartwarming words about his love for the couple.

The maid of honor

Why should the groom’s best friend have all the fun?

The bride’s favorite gal (or guy) should take the stage to say a few sweet words as well, though if she feels like freestyle rapping instead, we say go for it.

The couple

While you can’t toast to yourselves, it’s always a good idea to take a moment to acknowledge the hard work of your wedding party and parents and thank your guests for sharing in this special day with you. You can each say your own words or give a joint speech.

Who shouldn’t give a speech

As much as everybody loves you two as a couple, constant toasting interrupting the party will get old fast—and your guests will appreciate you limiting the amount so they can hit the dance floor sooner. Keep the mic reserved for the honored members of your wedding party and family, and never pass it off to a guest who has indulged in one too many signature cocktails.

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Rehearsal dinner The night before your wedding is bound to bring a few jitters, and there’s no better way to distract yourselves than wining and dining alongside your loved ones. Rehearsal dinners have become a pretty standard wedding weekend event, and are traditionally held the evening before the “I dos,” after the couple and their wedding party have walked through the run of show for the following day with the officiant. It’s a great opportunity to spend time with your VIP guests in a relaxed environment, so keep the vibe fun, festive and comfortable. No matter who the official host is (it can be your or your partners’ parents, you two or even grandparents or godparents— whoever’s up for it), you should aim to book and solidify your rehearsal dinner plans four to six months in advance. As for the guest list, that should include your immediate families, members of your wedding party and their spouses or significant others, the parents of any child attendants and your officiant (they may not come, but it’s a kind gesture to invite them). Looking to see everyone coming to town? Host a traditional dinner, then open up the celebration to anyone already in the area for your wedding with a few hours of welcome drinks or some other night-before festivities (like s’mores and bonfires). While the structure is pretty loose when it comes to a rehearsal dinner (you do you!) there are a few things you may want to include, like passing along any gifts to your wedding attendants and hearing any toasts that won’t take place during the main event.

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twice as nice Fit in face time with everyone who’s in town for your wedding weekend by following up your intimate rehearsal dinner with a few hours of welcome drinks or another fun festivity, like s’mores around a bonfire.

time it right Stressing out about the ideal date? Here’s how to pick the perfect day to walk down the aisle.

Symbolism

How romantic would it be to marry on the date you first met or your grandparents’ anniversary? If you have a special day for you and your partner, search for venues with that in mind. Then, share any significance of the timing with your guests by including it on your savethe-dates or in your ceremony programs.

Season

Weather can affect not only your wedding’s style and location, but also the mood. Consider what personality you want your wedding to have, then choose your season accordingly. The summer months are perfect for a free-spirited and fun day, while the cozy winter months are well-suited for an opulent, sparkly affair.

Price

Seventy-eight percent of weddings take place between the months of May and October, so prices are inevitably higher during that time. If you’re looking to save money, choose an off-peak month (like January or February) or even consider marrying on a Friday or Sunday.

VIP guests

Swap stories over waffles with a postwedding brunch—the perfect way to wind down the weekend. Usually held at or nearby whatever hotel you and the majority of your guests stayed at, you can cast a wide net with your invite list, including anyone who spent the night and doesn’t have to sneak out too early the next morning. Don’t feel like you have to send formal invitations unless you want to—this info is fine to put on your wedding website, or on the details card within your invitation suite. You just threw a killer party the night before, so don’t overcomplicate this. The only things you need are hearty breakfast eats, lots of coffee and goodbye hugs.

Holidays

If you’ve always wanted a winter wonderland wedding or you’d love a heart-covered cake, you may be a holiday wedding couple. Plan your wedding around a specific time of year to bottle the holiday spirit already in the air. One thing to consider: Some guests may not want their actual holiday weekends upended by a wedding, so take that into consideration as well.

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Farewell brunch

Ahead of choosing your date, consider your can’t-getmarried-without-them guests and try to plan around their availability. Be forewarned that this is a slippery slope if you ask anyone outside your essential circle of parents, siblings and honor attendants. Keep it simple and don’t budge once the date is set.

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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details.

WHERE TO APPLY MISSOURI

Greene County

St. Louis County

Leavenworth County

Wyandotte County

Madison County

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Recorder of Deeds 940 Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65802 (417) 868-4068 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.

Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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Miami County

ILLINOIS

Sangamon County

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District Court 120 S. Pearl St. Paola, KS 66071 (913) 294-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.

Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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Recorder of Deeds 207 N. Main St. Plattsburg, MO 64477 (816) 539-3719 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Jackson County Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Lafayette County County Recorder 1001 Main St., Rm. 207 Lexington, MO 64067 (660) 259-6178 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Platte County Recorder’s Office 415 3rd St., Ste. 70 Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 858-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.

Jefferson County District Court 310 Jefferson St. Oskaloosa, KS 66066 (785) 863-2461 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Johnson County District Court 100 N. Kansas Ave., Fl. 2 Olathe, KS 66061 (913) 715-3428 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Effingham County

Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Shawnee County Clerk of District Court 200 SE 7th St., Rm. 209 Topeka, KS 66603 (785) 233-8200 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

St. Clair County

Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

County Clerk #10 Public Sq., Fl. 2 Belleville, IL 62220 (618) 277-6600 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m., M–F; 8:30–11:30 a.m., Sat. Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@ theknot.com.

make it known Publications GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

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Lawrence Journal-World

(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044

Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.

Topeka Capital-Journal

(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607

Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.

Wichita Eagle

(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202

Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.

Form: Optional

Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.

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Must submit info two weeks prior to the desired publication date.

Form: No

There is no charge for this service.

(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050

Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.

Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net

$24.95 for an online announcement.

The Independent

(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111

Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.

Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.

Fees range from $100 to $300.

Kansas City Star

(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd.

Kansas City, MO 64108

Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.

Springfield News-Leader

(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept.

651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806

Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.

Form: Yes

Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.

St. Louis Post-Dispatch

(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept.

900 N. Tucker Blvd.

St. Louis, MO 63101

Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.

Form: Yes

Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.

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Belleville News-Democrat

(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220

Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.

Form: Optional

Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).

Effingham Daily News

(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com

There is no charge for this service.

Mount Vernon Register-News

(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Yes

The photo fee is $10 for blackand-white and $30 for color.

The Southern Illinoisan

(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902

Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Photos returned with SASE.

The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.

State JournalRegister

(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701

Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.

Form: No

Fees vary by word count and photo.

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(816) 221-4747 902-A Southwest Blvd.

Kansas City, MO 64108

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brick walls, five elegant chandeliers, polished concrete floors and glass garage doors, The Abbott is a sight to see. The venue is complete with two bars, adjoining lounge, bridal suite, prep catering kitchen and rooftop terrace with fire features.

downtown view and unique details—Italian-bulb string lights, picture window seating, exposed brick, salvaged architecture, custom bride’s and groom’s rooms and handmade, artisan furniture. capacity 250 | price $$

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anew—rooftop venue the 9th street abbey

1808 S. 9th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 | andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Located at in historic Soulard, this former church and schoolhouse was built in the 1870s. Today, it’s a destination for wedding celebrations, corporate events and holiday parties. The beautiful patio garden is unsurpassed with fountains, lush greenery and an outdoor bar. capacity 210+ | price $$$$

21c kansas city

(816) 443-4212 | jgale@21chotels.com 21c Kansas City offers a luxury event experience within contemporary art galleries that seat up to 130 guests.

Guests can enjoy 21c’s plush rooms and suites, while the couple can enjoy our exclusive 21c Suite. The Savoy at 21c will treat your guests to a remarkable food and beverage experience. capacity 130 | price $$$

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28 event space

1300 W. 28th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8368 | sales@28event.com 28Event.com In 11,000 square feet, 28 Event Space is an all-inclusive urban setting with top-notch amenities, modern style and impeccable service, complete with catering kitchen, sound system, stage, two-bedroom suite and high-end bar, near downtown KC. Make your vision a reality at 28 Event Space. capacity 350 | price $$

612north event space + catering

612 North 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0612 | events@612north.com 612North.com Located next to the St. Louis Arch in the historic Laclede’s Landing Cutlery Building, 612North encompasses three gorgeous spaces: VUE, KOR and ARC—each unique in their own styles. Modern meets history here. Our extraordinary team is committed to helping you create the perfect backdrop for your celebration.

519 N. Grand, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-1047 meetanew@meetanew.com MeetANEW.com Here, under the sky, prepare to be inspired. By the view. By new opportunities and experiences. By our resident chefs. The rooftop is what you make it: a wideopen space for simple gatherings, once-in-a-lifetime celebrations and more. We’re now booking rehearsal dinners, ceremonies and small receptions. capacity 80 | price $$$

atomic cowboy

events@atomic-cowboy.com AtomicCowboySTL.com The Atomic Cowboy is a unique, all-season private venue located in the heart of the Grove. We specialize in diverse entertainment options, award-winning cuisine and innovative cocktails. Our event manager will work with you to meet all of your event needs. capacity 100 | price $

the barn at lone eagle landing

12719 State Route F, Ste. Genevieve, MO thebarnatloneeaglelanding@gmail.com BarnatLoneEagleLanding.com Off a twist of backroads, a mere 10 to 15 miles out of town, lies a little slice of heaven located on 400-plus acres in the heart of Missouri wine country. Built on family values, The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing ensures top-notch hospitality and a personal connection with each and every event. capacity 200 | price $$

barnett on washington

3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO (844) GO-BARNETT events@barnettonwashington.com BarnettonWashington.com Barnett on Washington is a beautiful event venue that provides a rich, vibrant experience for all guests. Our inviting atmosphere is perfect for weddings, corporate events and other special celebrations. The Barnett on Washington looks forward to helping you plan an extraordinary event in an extraordinary venue. capacity 200 | price $$$

the berg event space

1525 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4488 | info@bergeventspace.com BergEventSpace.com The Berg Event Space is an urban contemporary loft with city views overlooking downtown, hardwood floors, skylights, exposed brick and more! Plan your rehearsal dinner, ceremony or wedding reception with our experienced staff. Located one block from P&L and the Sprint Center. capacity 250 | price $$$

beyond broadway

112 Sidney Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Formerly the site of the A.E. Schmidt Billiards Factory, this building dates back to 1847 and stands close to the original banks of the Mississippi River. Upgrades, improvements and a name change has turned this venue into the wellknown and popular venue Beyond Broadway. capacity 350 | price $$$$

big cedar

190 Top of the Rock Road, Ridgedale, MO (417) 339-5159 BigCedarWeddings.com Whether you’re imagining an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, your wedding day will be an unforgettable experience. Choose from rustic, luxury venues including intimate patios, charming chapels, a perfectly manicured lawn or a grand ballroom—all with breathtaking views of Table Rock Lake. capacity 400+ | price $$

black on burlington

1327 Burlington St., Kansas City, MO (816) 581-4340 kayla@blackonburlington.com BlackOnBurlington.com The neutral palate of brick and concrete makes the perfect backdrop to create any style! Add in the Cable Building’s historic 60-foot cable stack, and you get the ultimate urban event. In-house catering, ample parking and venue setup flexibility lend to a stress-free experience! capacity 300 | price $$$

capacity 700+ | price $$

the abbott

1901 Cherry St., Kansas City, MO (816) 982-1014 | kelly@theabbottkc.com TheAbbottKC.com With stunning vaulted ceilings, whitewashed original

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the bauer

115 West 18th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 984-8533 TheBrideandTheBauer.com Host your special day in our updated, historic art space, and experience our vintage-style patina, spectacular

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bogey hills country club

1120 Country Club Rd., St. Charles, MO (636) 946-6250 | sendres@bogeyhillscc.com BogeyHillsCC.com From the golf course and waterfall backdrop to the brand-new clubhouse and exceptional food, there is no better location for your celebration. Recently rebuilt, Bogey Hills features hardwood flooring, floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the landscape and more. Our service will exceed your expectations. capacity 300+ | price $$

bourgmont winery

(913) 832-0814 | info@bourgmont.com Bourgmont.com Bourgmont Winery is a locally owned and operated organization that provides Midwestern hospitality to our guests. Our facility overlooks a 15-acre lake, which provides the perfect pastoral backdrop for photos.

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1228 Baltimore Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 221-8986 | deb@thebrassonbaltimore.com TheBrassonBaltimore.com Deciding to host your ceremony and wedding reception at The Brass on Baltimore will allow you to choose from our uniquely historic and modern accommodations for several hundred guests or a smaller, more intimate group. Let our talented, expert staff work to provide you with the day of your dreams. capacity 300+ | price $$$

the brownstone

4020 NW 25th Street, Topeka, KS TheBrownstoneTopeka.com Fusing touches of rustic elegance with the conveniences of modern accommodations, The Brownstone is a one-of-a-kind venue with premier amenities, personal coordination, ceremony packages, bridal lounges and historic architecture. If you are looking for a charming site, then The Brownstone is for you! capacity 200 | price $$$

busch stadium

700 Clark Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 345-9630 | specialevents@cardinals.com Cardinals.com/events Busch Stadium’s iconic field and distinct venues offer guests a variety of elegant settings, gourmet dining and panoramic views that can’t be found anywhere else.

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the caramel room at bissinger’s

1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | caramelroom@23cityblocks.com CaramelRoom.com Beaming natural light, hardwood floors and an outdoor terrace with river and skyline views in a chocolate factory is just the beginning of a sweet addiction with The Caramel Room.

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casa loma ballroom

St. Louis, MO (314) 650-2462 CasaLomaBallroom.com Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom,” featuring a 5,000-square-foot floating dance floor and 30-foot stage. With seating for 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day and unique individual service provided by the owners. capacity 850 | price $$

catering st. louis events

2141 59th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 961-7588 | CateringStLouis.com At Catering St. Louis Events, we focus on your entire event, creating the wedding day magic you’ll remember long after the plates are cleared. We offer many spectacular venues for wedding receptions, ceremonies and rehearsal dinners. Visit our website to see where you’d like to celebrate.

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cedar creek

1401 Olive Rd., New Haven, MO (855) 778-7222 | weddings@cedarcreekcenter.com VisitCedarCreek.com Located in the rolling hills of Missouri’s Wine Country outside of St. Louis, Cedar Creek’s stunning natural beauty provides a romantic setting for an unforgettable wedding. We offer picturesque options for everything from rehearsal dinners to receptions, along with overnight accommodations for 125 people. capacity 400+ | price $$

cedar lake cellars

11008 Schreckengast Road, Wright City, MO (636) 745-9500 | clcevents@cedarlakecellars.com CedarLakeCellars.com Cedar Lake Cellars winery and event venue offers year-round ceremony and reception options including the breathtaking Barrel Room, the rustic Big Red Barn and many other exquisite on-site locations. This hidden gem features gorgeous lakes and vineyards, award-winning wine and a full-service restaurant. capacity 350+ | price $$$

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chandler hill vineyards

596 Defiance Road, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2675 events@chandlerhillvineyards.com ChandlerHillVineyards.com With over 100 weddings a year, it’s clear why Chandler Hill Vineyards is “First in Missouri Wine Country.” Our delicious food, award-winning wine and spectacular vistas create an unforgettable experience. We are open year-round and just minutes from St. Louis, Chesterfield and St. Charles. capacity 250 | price $

the charles f. knight center

Washington University, St. Louis, MO (314) 935-8881 bmueller22@wustl.edu ACCKnightConferenceCenter.com Located on the campus of Washington University Center, your special day will be a celebration to remember. From the formal grand dining room to the outdoor courtyard, the Knight Center will make your day perfect. All-inclusive wedding packages and special guestroom rates are available.

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clayton plaza st. louis

7750 Carondelet Ave., Clayton, MO (314) 727-7434 | CPClayton.com What’s your wedding fantasy? At the Clayton Plaza Hotel, we make it happen! Many of our bridal packages include a champagne toast, ice sculpture, a complimentary honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, and many more fabulous options for your own happily ever after. capacity 500+ | price $$

the coronado

3701 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4346 | TheCoronado.com For an event you’ll always remember, and one your guests will never forget, The Coronado is the perfect wedding venue! We look forward to providing you with unparalleled service and creative cuisine in a landmark setting. Recently renovated, The Coronado is the epitome of opulence and an absolute must-see! capacity 350 | price $$$

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the chase park plaza royal sonesta hotel

212 N. Kingshighway, St. Louis, MO (314) 633-3050 Sonesta.com/chaseparkplaza Our legendary ballrooms offer a graceful, romantic atmosphere worthy of your special day. Say your vows under the soft glow of vintage chandeliers in the Empire Room, celebrate the grandiosity of love under the famed Khorassan Ballroom’s arched ceilings, or enjoy a rooftop view of the city blending classical elegance with art deco style.

covo stl

401 Pine Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 455-6313 | eventsstl@hellocovo.com HelloCovo.com/saint-louis Soaring ceilings and a spacious layout within a historic downtown St. Louis building make Covo perfect for any size gathering. Our events team helps create your big day your way in our multilevel coworking space dedicated to community, diversity, connection, creativity and embracing life to the fullest. capacity 200 | price $$

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the cheshire

6300 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 932-7853 sheckemeyer@cheshirerestaurant-stl.com CheshireSTL.com With rich wood accents, vintage stained glass and rustic charm, we provide an intimate setting at a historic venue that marries old and new. Upstairs events are defined by exceptional service and a culinary experience that celebrates seasonal flavors and fresh ingredients from the finest local purveyors. capacity 150+ | price $$$

circle s ranch & country inn

3325 Circle S Lane, Lawrence, KS (785) 843-4124 events@circlesranch.com CircleSRanch.com Located in the rolling hills of Lawrence, the Circle S Ranch boasts both indoor and outdoor ceremony venues and a 3,000-square-foot Party Barn that can accommodate all sizes of weddings. Whether your

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crown valley winery

23589 State Rt. WW, Ste. Genevieve, MO (866) 207-9463 | CrownValleyWinery.com Please consider Crown Country when planning your wedding day. We offer several locations: our winery overlooking lush vineyards, a rustic and elegant outdoor brewery, and Crown Pointe with a beautiful view of the golf course. Local lodging is also available. It’s a destination wedding yet close to home! capacity 200 | price $$

deer ridge estate

21107 Donahoo Rd., Tonganoxie, KS (913) 709-8909 | celebrate@deerridgeestate.com DeerRidgeEstate.com The new Deer Ridge Estate is an exclusive, luxury, romantic, private setting to celebrate your marriage with those you love. With 10,000 square feet of indoor space, 160 scenic acres of outdoor space and spacious bridal and groom quarters, plus guest lodging, celebrate your wedding Deer Ridge style!

defiance ridge vineyards

2711 South Highway 94, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2288 DefianceRidgeVineyards.com Our 42-acre property boasts a vineyard, tranquil lake and lush garden landscape. You and your guests will enjoy breathtaking views of the sweeping Missouri River Valley from the terraces, veranda and pavilion at one of the most versatile and adaptable venues in Missouri’s Historic Wine Country.

dodson orchards

1778 Madison 507, Fredericktown, MO (573) 561-3093 | steved314@gmail.com DodsonOrchards.com Travel back to one of Missouri’s most uniquely historic venues nestled in the hidden glades. Be immersed in the tranquil setting overlooking the mountain range, and get lost in the charm of the 100-year-old barn. It’s real, it’s exclusive and it’s yours to be had if you contact us to snag your date! capacity 250 | price $$

drury hotels

(888) 324-1691 groups@druryhotels.com DruryHotels.com Drury Hotels Company is a family owned and operated hotel system with 130 hotels in 21 states. Guests enjoy award-winning friendly service, clean rooms and free amenities including free hot breakfast, free hot evening food and cold beverages, free wireless internet and more. The Extras Aren’t Extra!® capacity 200 | price $$$

eighteen ninety

Platte City, MO (816) 584-1890 1890KC.com Plan the wedding of your dreams, where you’ll find acres of gorgeous landscape that blends the best of nature and architecture in a sophisticated style. From intimate to large gatherings, wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and parties for any occasion, we can make any event a memorable one. capacity 300 | price $$

events by panorama, saint louis art museum

One Fine Arts Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 655-5387 gabriel.kveton@cafebonappetit.com SLAM.org/dining Make a St. Louis memory. Showcasing stunning works of art, the Saint Louis Art Museum is an elegant setting for your wedding reception. Events By Panorama executes all details, including catering, bar services, rentals and parking, and Executive Chef Ivy Magruder leads the culinary team to brilliance.

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executive hills polo club

10018 NW Skyview Ave., Kansas City, MO (816) 215-1118 | events@ehpoloclub.com EHPoloClub.com This privately owned 7,000-square-foot mansion sits on a 15-acre estate in the heart of KC. Our location has views of a two-acre pond, waterfront gazebo, registered helipad and so much more. We offer the perfect blend of rustic elegance, state-of-the-art amenities and natural perfection you deserve. capacity 250 | price $$

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forest park golf course

St. Louis (314) 367-6648 | amilne@arcisgolf.com With award-winning architecture featuring vaulted ceilings, 16-foot beams and floor-to-ceiling windows with panoramic views of the course, this venue provides the space, time and amenities for a stunning wedding.

Located in picturesque Forest Park, you will create lasting memories with family and friends. capacity 250 | price $$

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520 N. Main Center, St. Charles, MO (636) 255-0270 EXT. 111 events@foundryartcentre.org For your special event, surround yourself with great art and architecture at the Foundry Art Centre. Located in beautiful, historic Saint Charles, the Grand Hall is a stunning setting for weddings and receptions of up to 400 seated guests. capacity 400 | price $$$

the franklin room

816 Allen Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7706 | franklinroom@sbcglobal.net TheFranklinRoom.net Built in 1905, The Franklin Room is a mix of old-world charm and city vibes, boasting 30-foot ceilings, 10foot windows and original maple wood floors. With exceptional cuisine prepared fresh in-house and an attentive service staff, you have everything under one roof to help get the party started! capacity 300 | price $$

the gallery

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Featuring panoramic skyline views, dramatic finishes and a private balcony overlooking the city, The Gallery is fully customizable, making it the ideal venue for your reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. Our craft cocktail lounge, The Kill Devil Club, is one of the Top 150 Bars in the United States. capacity 600 | price $$

gamlin whiskey house

236 N. Euclid Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 875-9500 | info@gwhstl.com GamlinWhiskeyHouse.com Gamlin Whiskey House is the perfect spot to host your guests for a spirited celebration! Enjoy modern steakhouse fare paired with our extensive whiskey collection in The Barrel Room or Wine Cellar for a truly unique dining experience. Call us today to begin planning your event—cheers! capacity 55 | price $$$

gather

1325 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 896-3860 | contact@stlgather.com STLGather.com Gather will be St.Louis’s most premier event space.

Every component plays into making this the event of your lifetime. The hospitality of our staff, the culinary brilliance of our food and the sites of our city all lay the foundation for an unforgettable experience. capacity 350 | price $$

genesis banquet center & catering

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2651 Telegraph Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 894-7073 | info@cateringbygenesis.com CateringByGenesis.com We are proud to announce that Genesis Banquet Center & Catering has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We cater receptions of all sizes and budgets at various venues.

Please inquire for recommendations and menu tastings. capacity 400 | price $$

the grand hall at power & light

1330 Baltimore Ave., Kansas City, MO info@thegrandhallkc.com TheGrandHallKC.com From custom banquet chairs to original art deco lanterns, every detail has been artfully chosen and carefully restored to exude classic glamour. With space to seat up to 500 guests, you’ll also have access to our beautifully furnished bridal and groom’s suites and plush seating areas on the mezzanine. capacity 400+ | price $$$

grand hall on chouteau

2319 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 427-6771 | kathy@russosgourmet.com RussosGourmet.com The Grand Hall on Chouteau features a beautiful foyer providing ample entry into our award-winning, LEED-

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the guild

1621 Locust St., Kansas City, MO (816) 471-8550 | info@theguildkc.com TheGuildKC.com The Guild is a unique venue filled with elegance and vintage charm. Featuring timeless architecture, a dazzling chandelier and a secluded garden, it’s perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The Guild is undeniably the place to create your one-of-akind celebration.

downtown KC, Lenexa, Liberty, North Kansas City and Westport. capacity 350 | price $$

hilton ballpark

1 South Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 641-8837 | nwenzel@hiltonstlouis.com HiltonStLouis.com There’s a style for every bride at Hilton at the Ballpark.

The Arch View Ballroom (320 capacity) boasts 16-foot floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the St. Louis Arch, Old Courthouse and Kiener Plaza, while the Grand (650 capacity) and Ballpark (175 capacity) ballrooms offer sophisticated, elegant spaces. capacity 175+ | price $$$

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guymon petro

301 4th Ave., Dodge City, KS (620) 371-7500 | mvanosdol@guymonpetro.com GuymonPetro.com We bring your vision to life with our dedicated events team and array of private and semi-private options.

For groups of up to 200 sit-down guests, the second floor features brick walls, exposed rafters and original hardwood floors. With elevator access, this is the perfect venue for all of your guests.

8801 NW 112 St., Kansas City, MO (816) 801-4014 | kfosnaugh@hiltonkci.com KansasCityAirport.Hilton.com Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated ballrooms! All of our wedding packages include waived room rental, linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, stage, servers, special room rates and more! We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages! capacity 400+ | price $$

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hawthorne house

6008 Northwest Bell Road, Parkville, MO (816) 505-1224 | TheHawthorneHouse.com Hawthorne House is Kansas City’s premier wedding and special event facility. Located on 11 beautiful acres in Parkville, Missouri, Hawthorne House has been specifically designed with your wedding needs in mind.

We offer both chapel and outdoor ceremonies, as well as receptions for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$

heart events

1410 South 5th Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 947-8270 | events@hscballrooms.com HeartEventsSTL.com We are the leaders in wedding, event and banquet planning in the St. Charles and St. Louis areas. Our venues are unique and beautiful, and can accommodate 100 to 500 guests. Come see why Heart of St. Charles, the Old Stone Chapel and Le Belle Coeur are the most sought-after venues in St. Louis! capacity 500 | price $$$

heritage event spaces

117 W. Kansas St., Liberty, MO (816) 935-7904 | info@heritageeventspaces.com HeritageEventSpaces.com We offer nine locations throughout the Kansas City area, allowing you to create an event that will be uniquely yours and unforgettably special. Locations include venues in Briarcliff, Brookside, Crossroads -

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hilton president

1329 Baltimore, Kansas City, MO (816) 303-1628 | marissa.pope@hilton.com PresidentKansasCity.Hilton.com We make your big day unforgettable. The Hilton President is one of Kansas City’s most beautiful venues.

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the historic rumely event space

1222 West 12th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4280 | events@fullmoonprod.com HistoricWestBottomsEventSpace.com The priceless history of the Rumely Tractor Historic Event Space, with its original tin ceiling, wood floor, exposed columns and antique fixtures, is joined seamlessly with all the amenities one would want in a modern venue. These unique qualities enhance your event’s character and create lifelong memories. capacity 400 | price $$

the home place at valley view

35920 W. Hwy. T, Camden, MO (816) 550-5798 TheHomePlaceatValleyView.com Surrounded by the breathtaking landscapes and overlooking the Missouri River bottoms, The Home Place at Valley View is the ideal mix of rustic beauty with elegant accommodations. The newly restored barn and picturesque property has a lot of amenities to make the wedding of your dreams. capacity 250 | price $$

hotel saint louis, autograph collection by marriott

705 Olive, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4300 | info@hotelsaintlouis.com HotelSaintLouis.com | MarriottRewards.com Hotel Saint Louis offers so much more than classic elegance. From the contemporary touches of our historic property and rooftop pool and restaurant to private rooms for bridal showers and brunches, we are here to serve you with attention to detail and experienced staff to create an unrepeatable event. capacity 300 | price $$$

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hilton st. louis frontenac

1335 South Lindbergh Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 993-1100 | StLouisFrontenac.Hilton.com Your wedding will be nothing less than spectacular!

Situated in the heart of St. Louis, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac offers classic charm and perfection for your special day. Our team of wedding professionals is devoted to exceeding your expectations and making your wedding dream come true! capacity 400+ | price $$$

the historic post office

122 East Second Street, Ottawa, KS (913) 305-7172 | info@historicpostoffice.com HistoricPostOffice.com Whether your event is an intimate celebration or a lavish one, The Historic Post Office is ideal for wedding ceremonies, receptions and rehearsal dinners. This historic building combines classic restoration with stateof-the-art modern amenities. See it today. Remember it always. capacity 250+ | price $$$

hyatt regency st. louis at the arch

315 Chestnut St., St. Louis, MO (314) 342-4655 HyattRegencyStLouis.com As the closest venue to the Gateway Arch, our hotel is perfect for your wedding. Our venues range from a rooftop terrace with an illuminated dance floor under the Arch to the Grand Ballroom with elegant chandeliers. Each couple enjoys a customized experience from planning to wedding day assistance. capacity 400+ | price $$$

innsbrook resort

1 Aspen Circle, Innsbrook, MO (636) 928-3366 EXT. 9884 weddings@innsbrook-resort.com Innsbrook-Resort.com Create a wedding that is yours and yours alone, starting with our customizable packages that are tailored to you!

Innsbrook is the best combination of convenience (as it’s located close to St. Louis) while giving your guests the feeling of being a world away. capacity 300 | price $$

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intercontinental kansas city at the plaza

401 Ward Parkway, Kansas City, MO (816) 756-1500 pwelborn@kansascityic.com KansasCityIC.com There is no other wedding like yours and no other venue like the InterContinental Kansas City. Nestled on the edge of the Country Club Plaza, the hotel provides the ideal setting for the wedding couple to begin their new life together in style. capacity 300+ | price $$$

joule

1419 Carroll, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4300 | joule@palladium-stl.com Palladium-STL.com/joule Joule (pronounced Jewel) is a venue that stands alone or adds additional ambience to Palladium Saint Louis.

Once the machine hall for the city hospital’s power plant, an original crane, exposed brick, aged iron and 19-foot windows create a raw, modern, industrial space ideal for any type of event. capacity 100 | price $$

the journey home

18993 SE 65th Road, Dearborn, MO (816) 501-6350 | info@journeyhomeretreats.com JourneyHomeWeddings.com You will love The Journey Home’s estate, with a large colonial home, rustic barn, beautifully landscaped property, overnight accommodations and flexible outdoor and indoor space for a variety of guest sizes and styles. Just north of the KCI airport, The Journey Home is ideal for your wedding day! capacity 300 | price $

775 Brasilia Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 243-1270 joy.winningham@marriott.com Our newly renovated lakeside ceremony site is the perfect backdrop for your “I dos.” The outdoor Patio and Pavilion provide a unique setting, and for a larger affair, our Grand Ballroom will entertain up to 350. Marriott is pro marriage equality. We offer discounted rates for overnight guests and smaller spaces for rehearsal dinners and more.

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kansas city marriott downtown

200 W. 12th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 855-4465 | weddings@kcmarriott.com KansasCityMarriottDowntown.com Kansas City Marriott Downtown is the ideal place for your event. Whether a lavish celebration or a more intimate affair, Kansas City Marriott Downtown has the flexible spaces, world-class amenities and expert planners to seamlessly bring every detail of your wedding dreams to life. capacity 300+ | price $$$

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kuhs estate & farm

13080 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake, MO (314) 226-0709 | info@kuhsfarm.com KuhsFarm.com Our award-winning, secluded and private, client-adored historic estate and farm on the bluffs overlooking The Confluence is 25 minutes from Midtown St. Louis.

On-site wedding and event design is available. By appointment only, please. capacity 400+ | price $$

la perla

312 N. 8th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 488-0607 | champagnewishesstl@gmail.com LaPerlaStLouis.com Our many years of experience can help streamline your wedding planning. La Perla is a renovated early 1900s bank that has both charm and character. From the original hand-carved wood pocket doors as you enter to the original bank vault turned lounge on the lower level, your event is guaranteed to be unique! capacity 165 | price $

lachance vineyards

12237 Peter Moore Lane, DeSoto, MO (636) 586-2777 | events@lachancevineyards.com LaChanceVineyards.com Whether you choose to relax in the casual elegance of our indoor tasting room or outside on our courtyard patio, partially covered deck or large event tent, we offer guests the best of both worlds: a charming, intimate winery experience with first-class amenities. capacity 300 | price $$

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12580 Rott Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-5276 | slayne@laumeier.org Laumeier.org Laumeier Sculpture Park offers one-of-a-kind indoor and outdoor rental spaces set among the Park’s 105 acres and 60 large-scale sculptures, perfect for wedding receptions, ceremonies, showers, rehearsal dinners and similar affairs. Photo opportunities are endless! capacity 400+ | price $$$

(816) 204-1629 events@thelegacyatgreenhills.com TheLegacyatGreenHills.com We offer various options to have your wedding, right in the heart of Kansas City. We are located on 38 beautiful acres, lined with trees and a lake, plus an amazing house from 1912 that allows you to spend the day getting ready in a convenient setting. capacity 200 | price $$

lemp mansion restaurant and inn 3322 Demenil Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-8024 | patty@lempmansion.com LempMansion.com/banquets.html The Lemp Mansion offers the largest privately

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. owned gazebo and tented patio in the city that can accommodate ceremonies for up to 300 guests and receptions of 225. Lemp’s Grand Hall has a beautiful 40x40 rooftop deck for up to 300 guests. The new Lemp’s Loft is an industrial space for events of 50-130.

chiavari chairs, stainless steel bar with chandeliers, updated hardwood floors are just the beginning. No worries—guests still awe over floor-to-ceiling windows and a state-of-the-art LED lighting system. capacity 220 | price $$

elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom or the new Plaza Terrace with spectacular views of the Country Club Plaza. Let us create the perfect wedding destination for you. capacity 350 | price $$

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the little theatre

301 W. 13th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 513-5046 KCConvention.com The Little Theatre is an intimate room of stunning elegance, with a gleaming marble façade and jeweled art deco fixtures. With theater seating for up to 400 people and banquet seating for 225—with balcony alcove seating adding up to 36 people—it creates an exquisite setting for your unforgettable day.

mad art gallery

2727 S. 12th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-8230 | info@madart.com MadArt.com Mad Art Gallery is housed in the former Third District Police Station, a wonderfully renovated example of 1930s Art Deco architecture in the historic Soulard neighborhood. The gallery is award-winning and, without a doubt, St. Louis’ most spectacular venue for art exhibitions and weddings alike! capacity 250 | price $$

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the lodge of four seasons

Lake of the Ozarks, MO (573) 365-8051 | shoffman@4seasonsresort.com 4SeasonsResort.com/weddings The Lodge has a setting of natural beauty, perfect for celebrating your love. Offering 358 guestrooms, an impressive array of wedding venues and unparalleled amenities, The Lodge of Four Seasons will orchestrate an exceptional experience and lasting memory from “yes” to “I do” and beyond! capacity 400+ | price $$$

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lone summit ranch

28701 East Old US 50 Highway, Lake Lotawana, MO (816) 582-8013 LoneSummitRanchEvents.com Established in the early 1900s, LSR sits on 128 acres of gorgeous farmland featuring historic buildings and barns. We provide a beautiful country setting while entertaining with unique wedding sites, delicious catering and a one-of-a-kind honeymoon cottage. We’d love to show you our property! capacity 300+ | price $$$

lost hill lake events

783 Lost Hill Lake Road, St. Clair, MO (314) 599-3690 | losthilllakeevents@gmail.com LostHillLakeEvents.com We welcome you to experience our gorgeous Meramec River view and memorable walnut grove. Take photos near our lake or in our fields that shine with the sunset.

Dine with guests under our pavilion and dance under the stars. Family owned and operated, we provide customized services for each client. capacity 275 | price $$

lumen private event space

2201 Locust Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | lumen@23cityblocks.com LumenSTL.com Lumen’s modern style, premium service and contemporary flair just stepped up the game! New silver

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marriott st. louis west

660 Maryville Centre Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 514-6120 | jselby@stlmarriottwest.com Marriott.com/hotels/travel/stlwe-marriott-stlouis-west Discover the peaceful urban retreat that is Marriott St. Louis West. Our venue adjacent to a scenic lake is perfectly complemented by 14,000 square feet of fully renovated, versatile event space, along with topflight catering and certified planning services for your Chesterfield-area wedding. capacity 300+ | price $$

the magic house

516 S. Kirkwood, St. Louis, MO (314) 822-8900 MagicHouse.org From its striking Victorian-style architecture and the whimsical, interactive exhibits to the enchanting gardens that surround it, The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique wedding, reception or rehearsal dinner! capacity 200+ | price $$

magnolia venue & urban garden

601 Walnut, Kansas City, MO (816) 876-1742 | info@magnoliavenuekc.com MagnoliaVenueKC.com The Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden offers the best of both indoors and out for your wedding with details including two custom-made wood bars, sliding barn doors and stunning crystal chandeliers. The garden provides a beautiful backdrop for your ceremony or a place for guests to gather under the café lights. capacity 300 | price $$

main street abbey

340 S. Main Street, Columbia, IL (618) 612-7206 | dustin@mainstreetabbey.com MainStreetAbbey.com A historic staple for over 130 years, The Abbey has since been renovated into one of the area’s premier event spaces. Your guests will be amazed by the striking arched ceilings and radiant original stained-glass windows. Complemented by a gorgeous courtyard, the Abbey is the perfect all-inclusive venue. capacity 220 | price $$$

marriott kansas city country club plaza

4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO (816) 303-4581 anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com Marriott.com/mcipl Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers,

the martin event space

13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO (816) 739-0804 themartineventspace@gmail.com TheMartinEventSpace.com The Martin is Kansas City’s newest event space. The original Martin City Church has been completely renovated and restored with an outdoor patio. The Martin is more than a venue; it is where memories are made. It is the perfect place for a corporate event, family celebration, wedding or reception. capacity 200 | price $$

meadowview gardens

Serving Greater KC (816) 697-2743 | MeadowviewGardens.com Meadowview Gardens offers everything you ever dreamed of nestled in a beautiful rural setting, just 30 minutes east of Kansas City. A wedding and reception venue with on-site flowers, cakes, catering, linens, centerpieces, chocolate fountain, tuxedo rental, fireworks and DJ. capacity 300 | price $$$

mellon acres event center

32384 Hwy. D, Lawson, MO (816) 721-9808 | mellonshall@gmail.com MellonAcres.com Mellon Acres is a 30-acre private rustic estate, offering a scenic country backdrop with modern comforts and conveniences. From elopements to extravaganzas, we personally handle your wishes and make sure your event is a memorable one. You are the compassionate and fun staff’s number one priority. capacity 250 | price $$

missouri athletic club

405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 539-4470 | MAC-STL.org Wedding celebrations at the historic Missouri Athletic Club combine two families: elegance and fun, and intimacy with festivity. The MAC boasts an ornate

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ballroom capable of comfortably seating up to 400 guests, an award-winning on-site culinary staff, more than 75 hotel rooms and shuttle service. capacity 400 | price $$$

moulin events and meetings

2017 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4949 | ann@moulinevents.com MoulinEvents.com We are honored that you are considering Moulin to host your wedding reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. You have chosen experienced wedding planners that will deliver unparalleled personal service and menu selections prepared by our professionally trained culinary staff. capacity 300 | price $$$

neo on locust, llc

Metropolitan St. Louis, MO (314) 570-9218 | info@neostl.com NEOSTL.com Located in Midtown St. Louis, NEO on Locust offers spectacular views of Downtown St. Louis and Grand Center with two private event spaces designed to accommodate custom-designed events for larger groups. capacity 500 | price $$$

new town at st. charles

capacity 350 | price $$

noboleis vineyards wedding

100 Hemsath Road, Augusta, MO (636) 482-4500 | weddings@noboleisvineyards.com NoboleisVineyards.com Looking for your dream wedding in a vineyard? Noboleis Vineyards offers panoramic views of rolling hillsides, while the surrounding vineyards offer the backdrop to an outdoor ceremony and/or a reception for up to 200 people in our tented pavilion. Catering and bar options are available upon request.

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3420 Civic Circle, Saint Charles, MO (636) 288-7332 weddings@newtownatstcharles.com NewTownEventPlanning.com With simple elegance and graceful appeal, the venues at New Town provide a unique option for that special day. The true town setting will take guests back in time, allowing for a charming atmosphere. Call today to book an appointment to see what our venues have to offer!

Ceremonies . Receptions . Special Events Historic event space in Liberty featuring hardwood floors, vintage pressed-tin ceilings, and bride and groom suites.

capacity 200 | price $$

the old post office

815 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 436-0101 | OldPostOfficeSTL.com A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. capacity 300 | price $$

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Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers or within the elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom. Additionally, the new Plaza Terrace features a spectacular view of the Country Club Plaza. Imagine your gorgeous suite with breathtaking plaza views, a bottle of bubbly and chocolate-covered strawberries. Attractively located on the Country Club Plaza, let us create the perfect destination for the most important day of your life.

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overland park convention center

6000 College Boulevard, Overland Park, KS (913) 339-3000 mywedding@opconventioncenter.com OPConventionCenter.com We do weddings! But not just any weddings—your day, your way. You control the vision, and we create a breathtaking experience. Our capabilities are limitless, with more complimentary offerings than anyone else— plus an on-site coordinator and catering manager to work with you from start to finish.

Where Rustic Charm Meets Modern Elegance

capacity 4,500 | price $$

overlook farm

16095 Hwy. W, Clarksville, MO (573) 242-3838 | info@overlookfarmmo.com OverlookFarmMO.com Nestled in the rolling hills of Missouri is the ultimate place for an elegant country wedding. We offer farm-totable catering and luxurious lodging. The Overlook, the gardens and the meadow are just a few of the multiple locations at Overlook Farm. We feed the soul in more ways than one.

Your story. Your style. Your forever.

Create a custom wedding experience at The Brownstone. We’ll work with you every step of the way to ensure every detail of your dream wedding is perfectly planned and achieved.

capacity 300+ | price $$$

palladium saint louis

1400 Park Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4301 Palladium-STL.com A piece of history brought back to life, Palladium Saint Louis is a fusion between old world and contemporary design. An uncommon private event space with room for up to 700, Palladium Saint Louis is the distinctive choice for weddings and events of all shapes and sizes. capacity 700 | price $$$

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pennway place at studio dan meiners

2500 West Pennway, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-7244 DanMeiners.com We are unique in the fact that our entire space can be changed to be the perfect venue. With 8,000 square feet to work with, everything can be arranged to create the exact feel the couple wants for their big day. Round tables with linens, glass top tables and even lounge furniture are all included. capacity 400 | price $$

piazza messina

5535 State Highway N, Cottleville, MO (636) 232-0109 | messina@russosgourmet.com PiazzaMESSINA.com Piazza MESSINA will offer a destination-type setting without traveling hours away. Lakeside wedding sites will be offered on the property, as well as a cottage for the bridal party to use before the wedding. In historic downtown Cottleville, our property is conveniently located and very secluded. capacity 350 | price $$

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pinstripes

13500 Nall Ave., Overland Park, KS (913) 681-2165 | op-events@pinstripes.com Pinstripes.com/events Celebrate sophisticated fun in our warm and inviting 33,000-square-foot indoor/outdoor facility, complete with 16 bowling lanes, 10 bocce courts, exceptional Italian-American bistro and wine cellar, outdoor patio and fireplace that can accommodate groups from 20-250+.

(816) 429-6488 events@restoration1894.com Restoration1894.com Located in the heart of the Historic Liberty Square, Restoration 1894 is the premier Northland venue for your event needs. Features include an open floor plan for up to 275 guests, vintage pressed tin ceilings, exposed brick, chandeliers as well as the beautiful private bridal suite and groom’s room. capacity 275 | price $$

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the piper palm house

4256 Magnolia Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-4454 PalmHouseSTL.org The Piper Palm House, with its distinctive architecture, soaring ceilings and stately windows, is the perfect venue for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or engagement party. Constructed in 1878, the Palm House is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. capacity 250 | price $$

piropos event space

4141 N. Mulberry Drive, Kansas City, MO (816) 741-9800 PiroposKC.com Piropos in Briarcliff Village offers a unique combination of elegance and location that makes it the perfect place for your wedding reception, ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch or other special event. You can have all your wedding celebrations in one location, saving time and money. Your guests will love the convenience and of course, the great food.

the rhapsody

2322 East R.D. Mize Road, Independence, MO (816) 795-0777 TheRhapsody.com Affordable elegance. Beautiful floors and archways enhance the Tuscan décor. Indoor/outdoor weddings with beautifully landscaped gardens, waterfall and pergola provide a memorable setting for photographs.

Keep costs down by bringing in your own alcohol and using the caterer of your choice. capacity 275 | price $$

rock creek lodge

(316) 350-9277 rockcreeklodgeks@gmail.com RockCreekLodgeKS.com A no-hassle event awaits you and your guests at Rock Creek Lodge and Venue. From our beautiful venue to the stunning views, the possibilities are endless in creating your indoor or outdoor dream wedding. With so many options, we have packages to fulfill your yearround needs and to meet every budget. capacity 200 | price $$

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prairie hill vineyard

21421 W. 37th St. N., Colwich, KS (316) 461-5445 | prairiehillvineyard@gmail.com PrairieHillVineyard.com We invite you to experience for yourself the Prairie Hill Vineyard at Stockemer Farm, one of the most beautiful venues in Kansas. Our vineyard, a working garden, two small lakes and the largest willow tree in Kansas provide the perfect backdrop for your special event! capacity 350 | price $$

public media commons

3653 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 512-9021 | acarr@ketc.org PublicMediaCommons.org This is an award-winning venue perfect for one-of-akind weddings and receptions. The 9,000-square-foot outdoor space is flanked on two sides by two-story digital screens for creating extraordinary settings, with a performance stage and outstanding sound system.

Catering and rental services are available. capacity 500 | price $$$

restoration 1894 event space 1 East Kansas Street, Liberty, MO

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rose of the hill by favazza’s

2300 Edwards, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-6003 info@roseofthehill.com RoseoftheHill.com Rose of the Hill, located in St. Louis’ classic Hill neighborhood, maintains many historical features such as the original 35-foot dark wood bar in the bar room, chandeliers adorning the dining areas and the original coat check room. Explore the tradition and history that makes Favazza’s so special. capacity 400 | price $$

the rotunda at town pavilion

1111 Main Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 701-5038 TownPavilionKC.com Allow the dramatic architectural details of the Rotunda at Town Pavilion to provide the backdrop for your reception. Classic marble floors, a grand double staircase and modern details comprise a truly unique venue. Easy access and convenient amenities will make your event exceptional. capacity 300 | price $$$

saint louis zoo

One Government Drive, St. Louis, MO

(314) 646-4855 | STLZoo.org/events Make your special day even more memorable. Book your wedding festivities at the Saint Louis Zoo. Choose from four romantic venues, then let our staff plan every detail, from catering and exquisite floral arrangements to animal greeters—and even private tours of many of the Zoo’s 90 acres of habitats. capacity 300+ | price $$

scape american bistro

48 Maryland Plaza, St. Louis, MO (314) 361-6944 | privatedining@scapestl.com ScapeSTL.com Our atmosphere is sophisticated, and the menu is creative yet approachable. We have four private event spaces to choose from. You and your guests will enjoy European flair with warm hospitality, impeccable service and sophisticated cuisine to make your special event truly memorable. capacity 200 | price $$$

seven t farms

81 East Bacon Ridge Road, Sullivan, MO (314) 225-9734 | (314) 225-9735 events@seventfarms.com | SevenTFarms.com This 400-acre farm has all the amenities you would ever want for your wedding. Nestled in picturesque Sullivan, just an hour from St. Louis, this premier venue has on-site catering, heating and cooling, state-of-the-art restrooms, new bridal suites with overnight stays and so much more. capacity 350 | price $$

silver oaks chateau

1168 MO-100, Pacific, MO (314) 280-8890 | info@silveroakschateau.com SilverOaksChateau.com Silver Oaks Chateau is one of St. Louis’ most sought after wedding venues. Located on 28 acres, the estate is ideal for outdoor ceremonies, stunning receptions and more! capacity 280 | price $$$

sophia m. sachs butterfly house in chesterfield

Faust Park, 15193 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 577-0888 | bhevents@mobot.org ButterflyHouse.org The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House in Chesterfield is the ideal location for the wedding of your dreams.

Choose from a number of settings for up to 150 guests including the stone-pillar gazebo in the garden, a deck positioned over a babbling brook, or the tented pavilion near the picturesque lake. capacity 150 | price $$

spazio westport

12031 Lackland Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 576-0400 | emily@russosgourmet.com SpazioWestport.com Spazio Westport is not your typical banquet space.

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Your Wedding is Our Pleasure The Bistro, The Garden Room and Ballroom all have unique features and offer versatile options. Spazio is the perfect venue for your next occasion, with the convenience of an adjoining hotel and ample private parking. Spazio Westport is your space to enjoy! capacity 275 | price $$

the st. louis carousel at faust park 15189 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 615-8344 | StLouisCo.com/parks St. Louis Carousel can accommodate a wedding ceremony inside and/or outside the building on our patio. We provide a staff person to run the carousel and allow outside caterers. Call to make an appointment to view.

Our 20-foot floor-to-ceiling windows are sure to amaze your guests upon entry, providing a panoramic view of the Kansas City skyline.

While your guests are marveling at the picturesque scenery, they will be dining on innovative cuisine prepared by our Executive Chef and dancing and celebrating the night away in our stylish 7,200-square-foot ballroom.

capacity 200+ | price $

st. louis community foundation at #2 oak knoll

#2 Oak Knoll Park, Clayton, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com/venues/the-st-louiscommunity-foundation-2-oak-knoll-park An elegant manor nestled in a park, the St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll is one of two stone mansions built in the early 20th century that resides conveniently in Clayton. Entertaining here really conjures the charm of entertaining in one’s home. This is truly a mansion for your memories! capacity 150 | price $$

st. louis union station hotel

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1820 Market Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 802-3452 kbourgeois@stlunionstationhotel.com STLUnionStationHotel.com World-class architecture creates a one-of-a-kind atmosphere with sweeping archways, gold leaf detailing and art glass windows. Be announced as newlyweds to a spectacular ceiling light show before indulging in a custom menu created by our chef. We offer an elegant wedding venue and legendary service. capacity 300 | price $$$

the stanley historic space and aspen room

Serving the Greater KC area (816) 600-2065 TheStanleyEventSpace.com All our venues combine modern touches with vintage design. At The Stanley, we strive to give every guest the ultimate experience for memories that will last a lifetime. With the addition of The Kingston Room, The Stanley Event Complex is the place to hold your complete function.

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stifel theatre

1400 Market St., St. Louis, MO (314) 499-7620 StifelTheatre.com

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Celebrate the happiest day of your life at the Stifel Theatre (formerly Peabody Opera House). Majestically located in downtown St. Louis, the art deco elegance of Stifel Theatre has played host to some of the biggest events in the entertainment industry—but none bigger than your unforgettable wedding. capacity 350 | price $$$

stone house of st. charles

4401 McClay Road, St. Charles, MO (636) 317-1222 | ruth@shofsc.com SHofSC.com Have a beautiful outdoor wedding. The Stone House is for the bride and bridesmaids for hair, makeup and photos. The guesthouse is for the groomsmen, with a kitchen area designed for men and a rustic knottypine billiards room that overlooks the courtyard. The Sycamore Hall is a spectacular timber-framed structure. capacity 400 | price $$$

sunflower hill farm

Augusta, MO hillary@sunflowerhillfarm.com SunflowerHillFarm.com Sunflower Hill Farm is the perfect location to host your special day. Situated on 24 acres, our property offers stunning features that will assure your wedding day is breathtakingly beautiful and unforgettable. capacity 250 | price $$

sunset bluffs venue

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the terrace on grand

1520 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 527-0026 TerraceonGrand.com Kansas City’s most exciting event space, The Terrace on Grand is conveniently located in the heart of downtown. The Terrace offers 5,000 feet of classy, urban, indoor event space, with an exciting roof deck.

Our contemporary, elegant, versatile space will provide the ideal backdrop for your wedding.

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1775 Bieker Rd., Washington, MO (314) 660-2210 | fredrick@sunsetbluffs.com SunsetBluffs.com This private, natural setting is nestled in the scenic countryside of some of Missouri’s favorite wineries.

Our weekend wedding package includes housing for up to 20 people, breathtaking views and more. Your fully customizable special day awaits.

Beautiful rustic charm for your dream wedding  This elegant space provides a timeless experience for any special day  Indoor & outdoor ceremony locations 11184 Lackman Road, Lenexa, KS | (913) 477-7100 mdanler@lenexa.com | Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn

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thompson barn

11184 Lackman Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 477-7100 mdanler@lenexa.com Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn The Thompson Barn is an exquisite, intimate space, perfect for those looking for a unique blend of modern and rustic for a wedding or reception. A regal historic POND PHOTOGRAPHY

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three barn farm

20955 Missouri W, Clarksville, MO (314) 961-7588 | CateringStLouis.com Crystal-blue country skies or a million twinkling stars provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding celebration at this rustic-chic venue! A 1914 dairy barn, a horse barn and a New England–style farmhouse grace the 16 acres nestled among the rolling hills just one hour north of Chesterfield Valley. capacity 250 | price $$$

Your name in lights • Receptions, rehearsal dinners and weddings • Four unique rooms • 25 to 1,200 people • Custom designed banquets, buffets and beverages • Abundant parking • Central location near Westport between the Country Club Plaza and Crown Center capacity 400+ | price $$

the venue at willow creek

Kansas City, KS (913) 568-9535 | venue@willowcreekkc.com WillowCreekKC.com This sweet setting is the perfect spot you’ve been wishing for! Our creekside garden ceremony flows seamlessly to our moonlight patio. Guests are invited into our venue for dinner, dancing and so much more. capacity 250 | price $$$

tiffany greens golf club

6100 NW Tiffany Springs Pkwy., Kansas City, MO (816) 880-9600 EXT. 224 lschrick@tiffanygreensgolf.com TiffanyGreensGolf.com/clubhouse-info /banquet-info Tiffany Greens Golf Club is perfect for your Kansas City wedding ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner!

Come tour our beautiful venue, featuring incredible views of one of Kansas City’s top golf courses and located just minutes from Kansas City International Airport and hotel accommodations. capacity 200 | price $$

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top of the met and kemoll’s italian restaurant

One Metropolitan Square, St. Louis, MO (314) 421-0555 Kemolls.com Dazzling views of St. Louis’ skyline and riverfront from the 42nd floor, fine food and gracious, friendly service make your wedding memorable and beautiful. Garage parking, all-inclusive packages and reduced-rate dates are available. Kemoll’s, founded in 1927, is family owned and operated. capacity 300 | price $$$

union horse distilling co.

11740 West 86th Terrace, Lenexa, KS (913) 492-3275 | events@unionhorse.com UnionHorse.com The Event Space at Union Horse Distilling Company is a unique destination that will serve as an elegant backdrop for your event. At 6,500 square feet, our venue can accommodate anything from rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions. Our three event rooms can be transformed to suit any style or need. capacity 350 | price $$$

uptown theater

3700 Broadway, Ste. 300, Kansas City, MO (816) 753-8665 uptowneventskc@gmail.com UptownTheater.com

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the venue in leawood

4800 W. 135th Street (913) 681-8368 TheVenueinLeawood.com Elegant and Intimate....The Venue In Leawood. capacity 300 | price $$$

venues at 061: heritage center at mahaffie & olathe community center

Olathe, KS (913) 971-5501 | (913) 971-8753 Two exclusive venues are situated along a bricklined road. The Heritage Center at Mahaffie has a timber-frame design, charming farm grounds and tree-lined paths. The country club setting of the Olathe Community Center features floor-to-ceiling windows framing the stunning fountains and oak trees. capacity 175 | price $$

the view at briarcliff

Inside the Courtyard by Marriott – Briarcliff 4000 N. Mulberry Dr., Kansas City, MO (816) 841-2361 | TheViewatBriarcliff.com The View at Briarcliff’s 20-foot floor-to-ceiling windows are sure to amaze your guests upon entry, providing a panoramic view of the Kansas City skyline. Whether your reception includes an intimate party or a sizable 500, our elegant ballroom can be divided to suit your needs. Contact us today! capacity 400+ | price $$

villa antonio winery

Hillsboro, MO (636) 475-5008 | maddy@villaantoniowinery.com VillaAntonioWinery.com Our elegant vineyard venue provides a stunning and romantic setting for your wedding! Your family and guests will have an enchanting experience to remember for years. Enjoy our award-winning wines and exquisite cuisine at your rehearsal or day-after brunch with special and out-of-town guests! capacity 300 | price $$

the vineyard at riverbend chapel

827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO (636) 390-8600 | riverbendchapel@hotmail.com RiverbendChapelInc.com Imagine exchanging your vows overlooking the picturesque Missouri River bluffs with one of the best views of the river itself! Or, tie the knot inside Riverbend’s beautiful windowed chapel. Indoors or outdoors, the beauty of your wedding will be a lasting, treasured memory for many years to come! capacity 300 | price $$

visions reception hall

6320 Manchester Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 358-2606 | psolomon@iaff42.org VisionsReceptionHall.com For sophisticated celebrations our banquet room is available for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations, accommodating up to 500 guests.

Convenient central location! capacity 400+ | price $$

voce

212 S. Tucker Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 570-8715 | VoceSTL.com Voce can accommodate 150 guests with banquet rounds and in-house linens. Decorate however you like to make your day memorable. Voce has a state-of-the-art, in-house sound system for your reception band, with a stage that can transform into a dance floor. Don’t want the party to end? Celebrate until 3 a.m.! capacity 150 | price $$

whitmoor country club

1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO (636) 926-9622 EXT. 143 sputnam@whitmoorgolf.com WhitmoorGolf.com Our three main dining spaces can be combined to handle up to 400 people. The Trophy Room will seat up to 300 and features a fireplace. You can combine the Trophy Room with The Eagle and Whitmoor Rooms to handle an additional 100 guests. capacity 400 | price $$

wild carrot

3901 Shaw Blvd., St. Louis, MO info@wildcarrotstl.com WildCarrotSTL.com Our vibe is different, starting with our location! We are in our favorite neighborhood in the city—in an old theatre from 1915. Picture an industrial shell (steel girders, brick walls, cement floor) with charming retro and eclectic décor. The venue includes a front patio, gangway and outdoor green space. capacity 250+ | price $$$

willow

321 North 10th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0430 events@baileysrestaurants.com

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WeddingsinWillow.com Willow is a gorgeous new event space from Baileys’ Restaurants featuring floor-to-ceiling windows, stunning branch chandeliers and two floors of seating. With a commitment to unparalleled catering and service, our team is passionate about tailoring each wedding to the couple’s unique taste and style. capacity 300 | price $$$

windows on washington®

1601 Washington Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 241-5555 mpayne@wowbanquets.com WOWBanquets.com From the champagne greeting to the chocolate mint departure, Windows On Washington creates events that are more than memorable. Featuring uniquely styled loft spaces, open-air verandas and city views, our experienced coordinators help you design the event of your dreams with the style and panache you deserve! capacity 499+ | price $$

xavier grand ballroom

3628 Lindell Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 427-6771 brenna@russosgourmet.com RussosGourmet.com The Ballroom at the College Church has gone by several names for more than a century. In 1997, more than 5,600 square feet of function space was transformed to rival any ballroom in the city. In the warm light of day or delicate glow of evening, it will frame your memorable occasion with elegant style. capacity 300 | price $$

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(314) 533-0367 EXT. 103 becky@kranzbergartsfoundation.org At .ZACK we have everything under one roof. Share your vows on our rooftop deck, and then move to the Urban Ballroom for your reception featuring exposed brick and panoramic views of downtown. End the evening with an after-party at Sophie’s Lounge. Bridal suite, in-house catering and parking available.

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all my heart bridal

1551 NE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 600-0651 | hello@allmyheartbridal.com AllMyHeartBridal.com AMH is KC’s premier boutique with curves, servicing

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mia’s bridal & tailoring

2235 E. Kansas City Rd., Olathe, KS (913) 764-9114 | sales@miasbridal.com MiasBridal.com Mia’s Bridal is a full-service bridal boutique offering designer dresses and accessories for all members of your wedding party. We also offer tuxedo and suit rentals and sales, plus an all-inclusive bridal package.

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nolte’s bridal

Overland Park, KS (913) 345-1122 NoltesBridal.com As Kansas City’s most experienced wedding coordinator, Michael Nolte will personally coordinate the details of your rehearsal, wedding and reception.

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savvy bridal boutique

1804 Central Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 859-5699 SavvyBridalBoutique.com Savvy Bridal Boutique is Kansas City’s premier offthe-rack bridal boutique, carrying designer gowns at 30 to 60 percent off retail prices. We sell off the rack as well as ordering brand new from our curated lines.

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cakes & caterers

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(314) 615-2480 23CityBlocks.com 23 City Blocks Catering’s Executive Chef Nicholas Miller crafts from the freshest local ingredients, presenting plates with artistic flair. Serving clients from 20 to 300plus, 23 City Blocks Catering is the preferred caterer at many venues in the St. Louis region. Catering has never tasted so pretty.

the blue owl bakery

1 Ponder Executive Plaza, House Springs, MO (884) 448-4340 info@theblueowlbakery.com TheBlueOwlBakery.com The Blue Owl Bakery provides the perfect options to fit your wedding day! From artistic custom wedding cakes to grand dessert buffets, we can provide something delicious that perfectly fits your wedding style.

brancato’s catering

5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-4707 | sales@brancatoscatering.com BrancatosCatering.com Brancato’s Catering provides not only fine food, but service customized to the special event needs of our customers. From corporate functions to weddings; from backyard picnics to elegant soirees; from hors d’oeuvres to full service meals, Brancato’s Catering offers the finest in event coordination and execution.

butler’s pantry

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(314) 664-7680 info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com From the moment we begin listening to your vision, to the “thank you” of the last guest, Butler’s Pantry is committed to planning and executing your unforgettable wedding. Our sales managers, culinary team and event staff sincerely enjoy collaborating to ensure you can be a guest on your big day!

the cakery & the cup

(314) 647-6000 | info@thecakerybakery.net (314) 367-6111 | weddings@cravethecup.com TheCakeryBakery.net | CraveTheCup.com The Cakery and The Cup are sister bakeries that share award-winning recipes. The Cakery focuses on one-ofa-kind wedding designs and exquisite beauty. The Cup offers an assortment of cupcake flavors or the option to create your own custom combinations. A delicious choice either way!

ces & judy’s catering

10440 German Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 991-6700 info@cesandjudys.com CesandJudys.com With unlimited options for menus and venues, including St. Louis’ newest premier event space, The Venue at Maison du Lac, now open, we will achieve an event unique to you. Our talented team of chefs and creatives will design a lasting memory your guests—and your taste buds—won’t soon forget.

championship catering

3354 Iowa Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 606-9520 ChampionshipCatering.com Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in St. Louis! We serve quality, phenomenal food at a great price. We cater fantastic venues including 3rd Degree Glass Factory, Casa Loma Ballroom, AERIE’S Terrace, NEO on Locust and many more. Call Chef Larry G to discuss your big day!

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patty long catering

1804 S. 9th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Our passionate chefs hold decades of experience in regional and international cuisine. Our dedicated, innovative event team will partner with you to accomplish your vision. Contact us and you will see how enticing cuisine, impeccable service and breathtaking venues create an unforgettable event.

russo’s catering

(314) 427-6771 RussosGourmet.com Russo’s Catering is family owned and operated. We have dedicated ourselves to preparing foods of the highest quality using the freshest ingredients. Our experienced staff will offer you the quality service that you expect and our reputation demands.

sugaree baking co.

1242 Tamm Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 645-5496 pat@sugareebaking.com SugareeBaking.com We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter. Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!

flowers & décor

gregory’s creative cuisine

4700 Adkins Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 481-4481 gmchef@yahoo.com GregorysCreativeCuisine.com Since 1989 Gregory’s has been creating memorable dinners for weddings and special events. Gregory and staff source local foods and create your dinner by hand with skill and enthusiasm. We at Gregory’s will work to ensure that all of your needs are within your budget and all expectations are exceeded.

mcarthur’s bakery artisan cakes

3055 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 894-0900 weddings@mcarthurs.com McArthurs.com/weddings.asp Since 1956 McArthur’s Bakery has used only the finest

alex waldbart florist

7801 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 644-3566 waldbartflorist@sbcglobal.net AlexWaldbart.WeddingPortfolio.net At Alex Waldbart Florist, you will experience friendly designers, creative ideas, magazine-quality bouquets and service beyond compare. Thank you for choosing us!

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ken miesner’s flower shoppe

9723 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 567-6650 accounting@miesnersflowers.com MiesnersFlowers.com Since 1971, Ken Miesner’s Flower Shoppe has been the destination for discerning brides looking to find the finest flowers anywhere in St. Louis. Our traditions of excellence, superior design and service continue to be our defining hallmarks. We would be happy to set up a consultation!

schnucks florist & gifts

St. Louis, MO (314) 997-2444 SchnucksFloral.com At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life!

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stems florist

210 Saint Francois Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 972-7836 Stems4Weddings.com Stems Florist, an award-winning professional florist, creating wedding bouquets that are works of art, centerpieces that will keep your guests talking and wedding florals to celebrate your day—for wedding flowers as “unique” as you!

entertainment

american bands entertainment agency

105 North Main Street, Suite 300, St. Charles, MO (636) 265-0500 info@abeagency.com ABEAgency.com ABE Agency manages over 35 bands and partners closely with our clients to put the utmost care into every wedding to make sure your day is perfect!

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contemporary productions

Serving Kansas City, St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 721-9090 ContemporaryProductions.com Having a high-energy wedding band that meets your demands is a must. At Contemporary, we always cater to your specific needs. Let us help you discover the entertainer that will keep your family and friends together on the dance floor for the most memorable night of your life.

house dj services + entertainment

(314) 856-8522 | cole@housedjstl.com HouseDJSTL.com We not only provide incredibly stunning entertainment, but we focus and train on reception management, ensuring that you and your fiancé go into autopilot as soon as you enter the room. You pay a professional for a reason. We learn the psychology behind a dance floor and will be sure everyone has a blast!

wedding consultants

a bride’s ally

Serving St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 560-4138 | victoria@abridesally.com ABridesAlly.com We specialize in day-of coordination and supporting your planning process on your own terms. We’re here when you need us and step back when you don’t. We’re your partner in design and details, your confidant when things get sticky. We are your ally.

ella event planning

St. Louis, MO (603) 848-1257 hello@ellaeventplanning.com ellaEventPlanning.com Let us help you plan a wedding of your dreams—one that aligns with your personal tastes, your creative style and your budget. At ella Event Planning, we pride ourselves on our sincere and timely communications, meticulous planning and creative resources. An exciting new choice for St. Louis area couples!

events by elle

11651 East 350 Highway, Raytown, MO (816) 215-0566 theellegirls@eventsbyellekc.com EventsbyElleKC.com You’re dreaming of your big day that’s full of joy and creativity, a day full of memories for your family and friends to talk about for years to come. We are here to help you plan your wedding with confidence and, of course, personality.

photography & video

arndt photo & cinema

Call/text (618) 920-6039 paul@arndtphotography.com ArndtPhotography.com We are family-owned—all brothers and one sister! Arndt Photo & Cinema’s work has been featured on Bravo TV and in US Weekly, and the Arndt family has personally been followed for shows on TLC and the NRB Network.

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beau vaughn photography, videography, photobooth and dj

(866) 918-BEAU (2328) weddings@beauvaughn.com BeauVaughn.com Beau Vaughn is your one-stop shopping experience for quality photography, videography, photo booth, slow motion video booth and DJ services. We will create the perfect package for your wedding, so please email us to schedule a free consultation. Check out our unbeatable pricing and services on our website!

molly kuplen lifestyle blog + photography

(785) 424-0107 MollyKuplen.com We pride ourselves on capturing the real moments and help you live in the moment for years to come when you look back on your special day. We have a team of five photographers who are fun, flexible and creative! Print release is included in all packages, and we’re available for travel/destinations.

noire studios photography

(816) 875-0114 NoireStudios.com My focus for your wedding day is to capture all the moments of love, laughter and fun! I build a special bond with all my clients, which I feel is very important!

Don’t be surprised if I tear up during the ceremony, hug you before you go down the aisle or laugh along with you. I can’t wait to meet you!

sara reed studios

Kansas City, St. Louis, destination weddings (636) 399-1785 sara@sarareedstudios.com SaraReedStudios.com We produce fine art wedding photography, specializing in film and digital photography for the truly and madly in love. Wedding photography packages start at $2,600.

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sara rieth: romantic storytelling wedding photographer

(316) 648-2621 | SaraRiethPhotography.com Hey, gorgeous! I’m a natural light lover, a hopeless romantic and a coffee advocate. Located in Kansas, I travel nationwide telling America’s best love stories in happily ever after form. Yours truly, Sara.

still standing photography

(816) 699-4471 jenna@stillstandingphotography.com StillStandingPhoto.com You are my inspiration! I love people and love taking photos. I put my heart and soul into each wedding. My photography style can be summed up in two words: timeless and quality. I only accept a limited number of weddings each year because I take the time to invest in real relationships with my couples.

tower studios

(636) 448-9131 info@towervideophoto.com You’ve picked a dress, a caterer, a reception hall, a DJ—picking a wedding videographer should be easy!

That’s why, at Tower Studios, we’ve designed full-day, no-time-limit packages that will cover your entire day, and paired them with our best editors for a polished, cinema-worthy movie!

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jewelry

mazzarese

4850 W. 135th St. Leawood, KS (913) 491-4111 | info@mazzarese.com Mazzarese.com Our family has been in the jewelry business for four generations. Today, we proudly serve Kansas City with one-of-a-kind pieces not available anywhere else in the Midwest. Whether it’s imported or designed in-house, craftsmanship and quality will always be at the core of the Mazzarese tradition.

invitations & details

things remembered

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ThingsRemembered.com From personalized bridesmaid and groomsmen gifts to wedding essentials, put your personal touch on every part of your happily ever after at Things Remembered.

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yellowbrick graphics

(913) 309-7889 yellowbrick.graphic@gmail.com YellowBrickGraphics.com YellowBrick Graphics specializes in luxury, handmade wedding invitations and event stationery. From design to full-service assembly, invitations are customized to set the tone for any special event.

Contact us today for a consultation to start your event on the right road!

specialty services

Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a traditional photo booth. With our open-air booth design, fisheye lens, professional studio lighting and unique image processing, you’ll see that Fish Eye Fun really is way more than a photo booth!

grand rental station

570 Rudder Road, Fenton, MO (636) 343-PARTY (7278) info@grandrental-stl.com This is your best stop for all your wedding and party rental needs. We rent tents, tables, linen, specialty linen, spandex linen, chairs, chair covers, centerpieces, dance floor, staging, china, glassware, grills, chafing dishes, lighting and concession machines (popcorn, frozen drink, cotton candy), and more.

innovative lighting & design

1632 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 421-6999 in_light@mac.com InnovativeLightingDesign.com Lighting can make a room pop, and for your special day we pay attention to detail, offering custom fabric backdrops and unique lighting solutions to create spectacular results—making your event unforgettable.

Innovative Lighting & Design, in the Crossroads Arts District, is just that: innovative.

alobar’s lighting and sound

716 Hanley Industrial Court, St. Louis, MO (314) 781-7600 | diane@alobars.net Alobars.com Alobar’s is there to help a bride choose the right lights for her big night, a planner realize her client’s vision for the event of the season or a DJ configure the right party sound. In business for over 27 years, Alobar’s makes an ordinary event extraordinary.

arthur murray dance studio

9217 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 599-4444 info@kcarthurmurray.com KCArthurMurray.com Let the professionals at Arthur Murray create the dance you envision. With over 100 years of experience, we’ve taught everything from a romantic first dance to an unexpected mash-up. The possibilities are truly endless.

Call today to set up your complimentary sample lesson and bridal consultation.

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5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-1444 | infokc@marqueerents.com MarqueeRents.com Marquee Event Rentals—Kansas City is the area’s premier event rental company. Offering specialty event elements, tableware, tents, tables, chairs and more, we are 100 percent committed to every event, every day.

weinhardt party rentals

5901 Elizabeth Ave., St. Louis, MO 11601 Manchester Road, Des Peres, MO (314) 822-9000 inquiries@weinhardtpartyrentals.com WeinhardtPartyRentals.com Weinhardt Party Rentals is a full-service event rental company dedicated to providing quality equipment at an affordable price. Weinhardt Rentals has been a family owned and operated business since 1946. An experienced, established St. Louis tradition—why trust your event with anyone else?

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The Chase Park Plaza

51

9th Street Abbey

45

The Cheshire

107

9th Street Loft

45

Circle S Ranch

337

21c Museum Hotel Kansas City

335

Clayton Plaza Hotel

237

28 Event Space

52

The Coronado

34

612North Event Space + Catering

159

Covo STL

185

The Abbott

307

Crown Valley Winery

255

Anew Rooftop Venue

253

Deer Ridge Estate

333

Atomic Cowboy

239

Defiance Ridge Vineyards

147

Barn at Lone Eagle Landing

143

Dodson Orchards

232

Barnett on Washington

137

Drury Inn & Suites

253

Berg Event Space

302

Eighteen Ninety

372

Beyond Broadway

45

Events by Panorama, Saint Louis Art Museum

148

Big Cedar Lodge

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Executive Hills Polo Club

271

Black on Burlington

301

Feasts of Fancy

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Blue Vista

351

Forest Park Golf Course

227

Bogey Hills Country Club

240

Foundry Art Centre

251

Bourgmont Winery LLC

305

The Franklin Room

60

The Brass on Baltimore

275

The Gallery

295

The Bride & The Bauer

318

Gamlin Whiskey House

243

The Brownstone Wedding & Event Venue

365

Gather

112

The Caramel Room

55

Genesis Catering & Banquet Center

247

Cardinals Special Events

193

The Grand Hall at Power & Light

324

Casa Loma Ballroom

157

The Guild

315

Catering St. Louis

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Guymon Petro Bar & Grill

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Cedar Creek

63

Hawthorne House

29

Cedar Lake Cellars

118

Heart Events

49

Chandler Hill Vineyards

31

Heritage Event Spaces

66

The Charles F. Knight Center

258

Hilton Kansas City Airport

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Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden

361

Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark

115

Main Street Abbey

171

Hilton St. Louis Frontenac

153

The Malthouse Cellar

117

The Historic Post Office

17

Marriott Kansas City Country Club Plaza

364

The Home Place at Valley View

310

Marriott St. Louis West

229

Hotel Saint Louis

133

The Martin Event Space

368

Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch

259

Meadowview Gardens

309

Innsbrook

99

Mellon Acres Event Center

329

InterContinental Kansas City

330

Missouri Athletic Club

111

Joule St. Louis

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Moulin Events and Meetings

117

The Journey Home

296

NEO on Locust

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KAF Kranzberg Events

103

New Town at St. Charles

204

Kansas City Convention Center

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Noboleis Vineyards

207

Kansas City Marriott Airport

379

The Overland Park Convention Center

345

Kansas City Marriott Downtown

341

Overlook Farm

43

Kemoll’s/Top of the Met

225

Palladium St. Louis

4, 35

Kuhs Estate and Farm

11

Pennway Place at Studio Dan Meiners

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La Perla

235

Piazza Messina

81

LaChance Vineyards

179

Pinstripes

356

Laumeier Sculpture Park

255

Piper Palm House

34

The Legacy at Green Hills

299

Piropos

343

Lemp Mansion Restaurant & Inn

203

Prairie Hill Vineyard

355

The Little Theatre

14

Public Media Commons

263

The Lodge of Four Seasons

71

Restoration 1894

363

Lone Summit Ranch

289

The Rhapsody

327

Lost Hill Lake Events

195

River Market Event Place

323

Lumen Private Event Space

57

Rock Creek Lodge

264

Mad Art Gallery

165

Rose of the Hill by Favazza’s

161

The Magic House

173

The Rotunda At Town Pavilion

321

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Hilton President Kansas City

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RESOURCE INDEX CONT. The Rumely Tractor Historic Event Space

357

Voce

245

Saint Louis Zoo

261

Whitmoor Country Club

196

Scape American Bistro

263

Wild Carrot

201

Seven T Farms

138

Willow

86

Shaw Nature Reserve

191

Windows On Washington®

21

Silver Oaks Chateau

97

World’s Fair Pavilion

35

Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House

191

St. Louis Carousel

259

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St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll

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23 City Blocks Catering

59

St. Louis Old Post Office

251

The Blue Owl Bakery

261

St. Louis Union Station Hotel

177

Brancato’s Catering

375

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34

Stifel Theatre

75

The Cakery & The Cup

84

Stone House of St. Charles

141 Ces & Judy’s Catering

22

Sunflower Hill Farm

163 Championship Catering

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Sunset Bluffs Venue

169 Gregory’s Creative Cuisine

260

The Terrace On Grand

290

Thompson Barn

369

McArthur’s Bakery

129

Three Barn Farm

91

Olive Events

76

Tiffany Greens Golf Club

373

Patty Long Catering

44

Union Horse Distilling Co.

7

Russo’s Catering

174

Uptown Theater

12

Sugaree Baking Co.

135

The Venue at Maison du Lac

22

The Venue at Willow Creek

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The Venue in Leawood

317

Alex Waldbart Florist

183

Venues at 061

377

BUDS

209

The View at Briarcliff

367

Ken Miesner’s Flower Shoppe

231

Villa Antonio Winery

210

Mille Flores

277

The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel

18

Schnucks Florist & Gifts

166

Visions Reception Hall

293

Stems

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Sara Rieth Photography

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All My Heart Bridal

78

Still Standing Photography

364

Bliss Hair Studio

360

Tower Studios

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Emily Hart Bridal

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The Gown Gallery

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ENTERTAINMENT

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Mia’s Bridal

269

American Bands Entertainment

38

Nolte’s Bridal

37

Contemporary Productions

180

Savvi Formalwear/The Ultimate Bride

93

Elite Sounds

377

Savvy Bridal

281

House DJ Services + Entertainment

260

JEWELRY

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INVITATIONS & DETAILS

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Things Remembered

83

YellowBrick Graphics

368

SPECIALTY SERVICES

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Alobar’s Lighting and Sound

72

Arthur Murray Dance Centers

352

Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

27, 69

Fish Eye Fun

145

Grand Rental Station

213

Mazzarese

41

WEDDING CONSULTANTS

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A Bride’s Ally

199

Ella Event Planning

121

Events by Elle

360

Madison Sanders Events

338

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Arndt Photo & Cinema

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Beau Vaughn Photography

313

Innovative Lighting & Design

356

Molly Kuplen Lifestyle Blog & Photography

285

Marquee Event Rentals

375

Noire Studios Photography

353

Weinhardt Party Rentals

130

Sara Reed Studios

347

Wish Upon a Wedding

127

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PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

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