The Knot Missouri & Kansas Fall/Winter 2018

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2018

BEST OF WEDDINGS WINNERS Venues, Florists, Photographers

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get the look theknot.com editor’s letter checklist chic summer soiree ask the knot squad top picks inside scoop expert advice haute hues big question marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

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fashion & beauty 145

the get-real guide to dress shopping Truths you should know before your first bridal salon appointment.

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maid for style Get inspired by the hottest dress trends to ensure your bridesmaids look, and feel, flawless on your day.

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bling on a budget The insider ring shopping tips you should definitely know.

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best hair day ever How to hire the best pro for your gorgeous bridal ’do.

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a matter of time Let the season of your wedding influence your bridal makeup.

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bridal beauty, debunked Pros expose some of the biggest beauty myths.

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love sweet love

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shades for every season

style 111

shades for every season

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The prettiest color palettes for any time of year.

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your perfect venue Find the ideal setting for your day with our personality-based guide.

all in the details These tiny touches are the key to hosting a one-of-a-kind celebration.

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the language of flowers Put together a meaningful bouquet.

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a matter of time

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FROM LEF T: REBECC A YALE PHOTOGR APHY; KENNETH WILL ARDT/ TRUNK ARCHIVE

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Craving a standout gown? This season’s dresses are fun, flirty and (almost) good enough to eat.

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real weddings 75

myleen & an july 15, kansas city, mo

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megan & anthony

your just engaged to-dos

september 3, kansas city, mo

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danielle & michael september 2, parkville, mo

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jennifer & zach september 16, kansas city, mo

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lisa & kelly september 9, kansas city, mo

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elaine & joe october 14, kansas city, mo

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october 7, belleville, il

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katie & mike 269

brittany & jacob tiffini & travis

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esther & stephen

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june 24, st. louis

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may 19, st. louis

real wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less

for better or for verse Tips on writing the most important words of your life.

janeé & tommy

own the spotlight Use our psych-backed advice to banish any center-of-attention jitters.

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marriage mantras Learn how to use meditation to help get you through planning.

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The Knot registry awards Over 50 must-haves for your registry to complete your newlywed nest.

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insta-worthy bachelorette spots Show your squad a good time with these five ’grammable trips.

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top 10 honeymoon destinations We surveyed thousands of newlyweds for their favorite locales—plus our picks on where to stay.

We know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!).

Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

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picture perfect The right photography style for you and your celebration.

june 24, st. louis

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7 details guests won’t notice Stay on budget by skipping these quickly forgotten wedding accents.

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inspiring eats Some of our favorite catering trends to make your day one to remember.

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how to throw a daytime wedding Host an afternoon bash that’s just as fun as any evening event.

september 3, st. louis

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What to do if disaster strikes, and how to insure your wedding from the start.

the new (and old) etiquette rules All the protocol you’ll want to follow.

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protect your day

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get the look

1 Dress, $2,995, cape, $1,725, Monique Lhuillier at Berrybridge, BerrybridgeBridal.com (St. Louis); earrings, $1,660, Mastoloni.com; ring, $495, VictoriaSix .com; shoes, $1,245, ChristianLouboutin.com

Check out more fashion-forward dresses for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

With its colorful interior and enormous selection of candies, Dylan’s Candy Bar in New York City felt like the perfect location for our fashion and cover shoot full of fun, confectionary dresses.

3 Dress, $8,990, Carolina Herrera at Berrybridge, BerrybridgeBridal.com (St. Louis); earrings, $2,300, cocktail ring, $2,750, VictoriaSix.com

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L O V E S W E E T L O V E We pulled an all-nighter to take over the Dylan’s Candy Bar flagship store in New York. Below, a sneak peek at our crazy, candy-fueled shoot.

8:30 PM Call time.

9:40 PM Prop stylist Martha Bernabe knows finding the perfect backdrop sometimes means taking the search to new heights.

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11:10 PM Photographer Ari Michelson regroups with the team before getting down to business.

1:17 AM Our model poses in one of our cover looks.

2:50 AM WE NEED CANDY.

4:35 AM 5:18 AM Digital tech One shot Louise Kahn keeps to go. us awake in the early morning hours by making us laugh.

6:12 AM Ten hours later, and we finally got the last shot. That’s a wrap!

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PHOTOGRAPHY Ari Michelson FASHION STYLING Shelley Brown HAIR Mark Anthony using Phyto Paris for Exclusive Artists MAKEUP Daniella Shachter using NARS Cosmetics for Workgroup PROP STYLING Martha Bernabe LOCATION Dylan’s Candy Bar Third Avenue Flagship, New York City

2 Dress, price upon request, Marchesa .com; engagement ring, $20,000, wedding ring, $850, ApresJewelry.com; earrings, $190, CZby KennethJayLane.com; bracelet, $36,675, EffyJewelry.com

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C I T Y

Love is Stronger

Nick Allen Photo. Gown by: Lazaro. Accessories: Lindsay Marie Design.

Decor: Ultrapom. Model: Bayleigh Dayton of Exposure Model and Talent.

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EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kristen Maxwell Cooper DESIGN DIRECTOR

DEPUTY EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

REAL WEDDINGS DIRECTOR

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Tracy Everding

Lauren Kay

Susan Berryman

Maria Bouselli

Rebecca Crumley

Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR DIGITAL EDITOR SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR STYLE & PLANNING EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITORS ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR, PHOTO ASSOCIATE DIGITAL EDITOR, PHOTO ASSISTANT EDITORS, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR, SOCIAL EDITOR, SOCIAL CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS SENIOR VIDEO PRODUCER VIDEO PRODUCER EDITORIAL & MARKETING COORDINATOR

Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Alyssa Longobucco Becky Murray, Rachel Sylvester Katie Kortebein Rebecca Delman Jessica Kane Maggie Seaver, Sophie Ross Farah Prince Whitney Little Jessica Molinari Michele Parrella Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter Jacquie Militano Jose Marmolejos Toni Franchini

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier CONTENT EDITOR Lois Brunnert Bethune

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THE STUDIO @ XO VP, CUSTOM CONTENT & HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig EXECUTIVE PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSOCIATE COPY EDITOR Kelsey Paine SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan SOCIAL MEDIA COORDINATOR Alexandra Ramey SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Steve Pironti, spironti@theknot.com (650) 548-1307 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Britt Shelby, bshelby@theknot.com (314) 802-8392 SENIOR REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR SENIOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE SENIOR DIRECTOR, SHOWS & EVENTS DIRECTOR, PRODUCT MARKETING STRATEGY SPECIALISTS DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS SENIOR MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS

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REAL WEDDINGS

get inspired Browse weddings from across Missouri and Kansas, including Gagan and Alex’s St. Louis nuptials at Windows On Washington. Despite tying the knot in an Indian ceremony just one week prior, the couple said “I do” once more in a chic celebration marked by luxe gold details and a memorable playlist. “Our DJ played only the best and most danceable songs,” Gagan says of getting down to ’90s hip-hop and David Bowie.

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ONCE IN A WHILE, RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF AN ORDINARY LIFE,

Love gives us a fairy tale.

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EDITOR ’S LE T TER

CANDY GIRL Yes, that’s me cheesing for the camera at our shoot—I couldn’t resist playing with the oversize candy props!

“What the world needs now is love, sweet love.” Burt Bacharach’s song kept popping into my head as we worked on this issue—especially when we locked ourselves in a candy store overnight to shoot our fashion feature (p. 192).

It’s no secret we live in a tough world right now, and at times, it’s hard to see the love—but I’m here to tell you, it’s there and there’s a lot of it. After all, in the 21-year history of The Knot, we’ve helped over 25 million to-be-weds bring together family members and friends to throw epic celebrations of love. And when it’s all said and done, we get to share those moments of laughter, happy tears and pure joy in our magazine, online and on social media to help inspire couples just like you. So thank you for allowing us to guide you on this incredible journey, and for proving that the world is still full of love, sweet love.

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CONGRATULATIONS

you’re engaged!

Here are the big to-dos from “yes” to “I do.” Turn the page for more, including the tools you’ll need and how to get your personalized checklist.

book a venue Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind.

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hire your vendors Research and book pros—anyone you have to have should be locked in ASAP.

gather your crew Ask your besties to stand beside you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day.

register & create a website Start a wish list and site. Share the link with guests so they’re in on all the details, like hotel room blocks.

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plan the ceremony Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling if required.

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complete your team Book any outstanding pros like hairstylists, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.

buy the rings Shop for and purchase your wedding rings—don’t forget insurance (now it’s starting to feel really real, right?).

choose a point person If you don’t have a wedding planner or day-of coordinator, task a friend or family member to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.

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buy the formalwear Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Decide what your wedding party will wear too.

choose your wedding paper Order invites, thank-yous and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag a discount.

finalize other party details Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.

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get the marriage license Pick up this must-have document at the state registrar’s office in the county where you’ll wed.

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The planning and hard work is behind you—time to celebrate your new status.

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find your wedding style The first thing you’ll do in our app is take an image-based style quiz to help zero in on your wedding vibe (more on that on the next page). Once complete, you’ll have your very own Wedding Vision that you can easily share with family and local pros with one click. This way, everyone knows exactly what you mean when you say “romantic garden party.” keep organized You’ll find all of your planning to-dos, and when to do them, in the app’s checklist. Best of all, it’s customizable to your celebration. If you’re not hiring an officiant because your uncle is doing the honors, that to-do disappears off your list. Worried about staying on budget?

The app’s budgeting tool tells you how much to put toward individual tasks, and tracks overall spending. compile your dream team We’ll take the info you share with the app and provide you with personalized vendor suggestions. You can also browse thousands of awardwinning pros, including planners and photographers, through The Knot Marketplace. manage your registry Keep an eye on your registries straight from the app. Your wedding day isn’t the only time you’ll receive gifts (there’s the engagement party and shower too), so make it easy on guests and keep your wish list full of options. And check out The Knot Newlywed Fund—you can ask for cash to put toward things like a down payment on a home. think of your guests Give guests all the info they’ll need, like hotel details and registry links, in one pretty package with the app’s wedding website feature. We’ll guide you as you design your site. You can also sync it with your phone contacts (to save time address hunting) and use it to stay on top of RSVPs. get your day-of timeline As you check off your to-dos, the app creates a day-of timeline behind the scenes to ensure everything goes off without a hitch on your wedding day. Share it with your vendors, wedding party and parents. This way, everyone will be on the same page—and you can focus on your walk down the aisle and making it the best day ever.

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Your dream wedding in Wine Country is just minutes away! As the region’s finest winery facility, Chandler Hill is a magical setting. We offer a spectacular tasting room, majestic reception hall, expansive deck with memorable vineyard sunsets, rolling hills and a scenic lake. Our full-service amenities are tailored to your wishes including in-house catering, private bride’s room, event planning, fireworks and much more.

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DISCOVER YOUR ST YLE No couple is just one set style—instead you’ll get a series of words that describe your wedding vibe.

Bonus: You can use this lingo when talking with your pros.

CREATE YOUR VISION All that swiping right will leave you with tons of inspo, which you can add to anytime. Plus there’s room for personalized must-haves (think: late-night taco truck, dog-friendly ceremony space or room for a sangeet).

SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your vision board to your besties and the people bringing your day to life.

A series of images will help to convey your “romantic garden party” style and theme.

PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALET TE Check out the colors that best match your wedding style.

And the best part—you can always change them up as you plan.

GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget—starting with your venue.

SAY “I DO” WITH EASE As you check off your to-dos, we’ll create a personalized day-of timeline to help you pull off the best day ever.

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“The party was inspired by summer soirees and the feeling of visiting friends while enjoying refreshing beverages on a warm summer night. Willow was selected for its beautiful floor-to-ceiling windows, which evoke the feeling of being outside.”

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TREND WE LOVE The Knot editors are traveling the country, reporting on the hottest wedding style and tech trends brought to life by local wedding pros. St. Louis’s top trend comes from Ices Plain & Fancy, Sarah’s Cake Shop and The Fifth Wheel Catering, who created a curated dessert spread that included butter cookies, an ice cream bar and a pink lemonade drink station.

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CARLEY RONEY Cofounder, The Knot

BRITTNY DRYE Founder and editor in chief, Love Inc. Mag

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SHAWNA GOHEL Founder and editor in chief, Maharani Weddings

MARK INGRAM Owner and creative director, Mark Ingram Atelier

BRITTANY LO CEO and founder, Beautini

HARMONY WALTON Founder, Jet Fete and The Bridal Bar

ST YLE

I’m not ready to commit to invitations, but I want to send out my save-the-dates.

Do they have to match?

CARLEY RONEY: Not at all. It’s important to think about the big picture, but not if it stresses you out (and takes the fun out of planning). Lots of couples send out extra-fun save-the-dates that speak more to their personalities than set a style statement for what’s to come. Send photo save-the-dates using your engagement pictures, or if you’re having lots of guests from out of town, mail personalized luggage tags with your wedding info. If you have a special furry friend, use this as an opportunity to include them in your wedding with a cute photo or illustration, or even incorporate your proposal. If you said “yes” in front of the Eiffel Tower, have a sweet Parisian twist, or if it was during a quiet game night at home, replicate the board game with the basic info for the wedding day.

PLANNING

How can I tell if possible vendors are LGBTQ friendly?

BRIT TNY DRYE: No one wants to have that conversation of, “Oh, by the way, I’m a woman marrying a woman, are you cool with that?” To avoid that awkward, and possibly heartbreaking, exchange, there are ways to determine if a wedding pro is equality minded before even sending an initial inquiry email.

Do a deep dive into their online presence.

Does their website contain same-sex couples?

Do they use gender-neutral language? Do their social accounts proclaim excitement for same-sex marriage or have photos of same-sex couples? You can always go back to June 2015 to see if they posted about marriage equality too.

And you can also see if they’re a preferred vendor of, or have had work featured on, equality-minded sites like The Knot or Love Inc.

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PLANNING

What are some budget-friendly activities to keep guests entertained at the cocktail hour or reception?

MARY CHATMAN: If you’re having an outdoor wedding, include games like ring toss and Jenga. They’re fun and interactive, plus you can keep them for future backyard parties with friends. For the reception, Mad Libs or crossword puzzles at tables can be the perfect icebreaker to get your guests engaged in conversation. Don’t stress too much about providing entertainment during the reception— let your DJ or band take the lead and do what they do best.

Remember: Dancing doesn’t cost a thing, and doing something like a soul train line is a great way to get guests on their feet and on the dance floor. You can even come up with your own routine to a specific song and teach your friends and family members as a way to ensure they’ll remember your wedding every time they hear that tune. >>

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I’ve tried on so many different dresses and I’m feeling really overwhelmed—what should my next step be?

MARK INGR AM: Relax! Sometimes women put too much pressure on themselves to find “the one.” You already found your perfect person, so finding the dress should be a joyful part of the planning process. Start by recalling the styles you were first drawn to—did you love every cap-sleeve dress you tried on? Focus on this silhouette next time you shop, and plan to go with just one or two people whose opinion you really trust, as too many can confuse you. A lot of brides actually find it easiest to make their final decision while shopping alone. Beyond that, consider your venue and what will work with the location, style and theme you’ve planned.

Most importantly, focus on what makes you feel good.

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PLANNING

My fiancé and I come from two different cultural backgrounds and are planning a fusion wedding. What’s the best way to honor traditions from both sides?

SHAWNA GOHEL: There are so many ways to combine traditions, so have fun and think outside the box—whether that means choosing fashions from both cultures or choreographing a dance to music from each background. Start by looking at your families’ heritages to see if there’s any overlap between the two. If so, this can be a sweet shared ritual to showcase on your wedding day. Or choose one of your favorite customs from each side. Practice both or combine the two with a modern twist for a unique spin all your own. If you’d rather keep it simple, include a cultural element in traditional “I dos,” like adding Indian kundan jewelry to a classic white gown. Don’t be afraid to break the rules—do what feels right for you both.

I’ve heard a lot about airbrush makeup— should I consider it for my wedding?

BRIT TANY LO: Airbrush is a popular option for bridal makeup, but it’s not for everyone. It really depends on your skin type. Consult with your makeup artist during your trial and see if they would recommend it for you. Then use your trial as a way to test the look. How do you feel about it initially? How do you think you look in it? How does it wear throughout the day? Both traditional and airbrush foundation should last all day, so try both to figure out which is best for you. In general, if you have normal to oily skin, airbrush may be a great choice, but if your skin tends to be dry, the makeup could get flaky. Another thing to consider is while airbrush application can be quicker, it can be harder to touch up after all those emotional happy tears.

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What’s a US spot for my bachelorette party that isn’t been there, done that?

HARMONY WALTON: While the tried-and-true boozy bachelorette weekend is always a hit, for a unique trip, seek out a locale that can pamper your group and offer fun activities a bit different from the typical beach day. For instance, Park City, Utah, and Beaver Creek, Colorado, have summer and winter activities that mix spa treatments and shopping with a bit of adventure. Skiing and snowshoeing will get your heart racing (and make a decadent hot chocolate taste even better), while an afternoon spent rafting and horseback riding is a good reason to enjoy a massage.

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4256 Magnolia Ave., St. Louis; (314) 771-4454; TowerGrovePark.org Talk about historic: This distinguished St. Louis haven is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River.

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24345 State Rte. WW, Ste. Genevieve, MO; (573) 747-1000; Chaumette.com Just 75 miles from St. Louis in idyllic Ste. Genevieve, this award-winning vineyard offers some of the best vistas (and local wines) in Missouri. Start by exchanging vows in the charming, hillside, all-faith chapel, St. Vincent’s-inthe-Vineyard (seats 80). Then, move indoors for a rustic reception at the Barn at Chaumette (seats up to 250). As a bonus, the space also offers views of the surrounding vineyards and the hills of the Saline Creek Valley. >>

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Pennway Place 2500 W. Pennway St., Kansas City, MO; (816) 842-7244; DanMeiners.com Glass tables, black wooden chairs and Lucite bar stools provide the makings for a modern party at Penway Place (seats 350).

Studio Dan Meiners, the on-site floral and event design team that doubles as venue owner, exclusively partners with couples to reinvent the location each time around.

For example, you might try filling the 8,000-square-foot industrial site with lounge furniture and abundant fabric draping (both are offered in-house).

815 Olive St., St. Louis; (314) 436-0101; OldPostOfficeSTL.com The Old Post Office may be more than a century old, but don’t let its name fool you. Contemporary updates, including floor-to-ceiling windows and a glass roof in the second floor atrium (seats 250), along with an iron staircase and stone walls in the first floor gallery (seats 150), complement the historic charm of the original landmark located in the heart of downtown St. Louis.

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Venue at Willow Creek 3150 N. 91st St., Kansas City, KS; (913) 568-9535; WillowCreekKC.com If a down-home wedding is your vision, then consider tree-lined, 10-acre Venue at Willow Creek. A partially covered patio strung with Edison lights, the surrounding lawn and an indoor space with sky-high ceilings (and abundant natural light), are all available for ceremonies and receptions for up to 250. Stained wine barrels, wood farm tables, mahogany chiavari chairs and an optional barn door round out the rustic décor.

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901 W. 48th Place, Kansas City, MO; (816) 753-8800; TheFontaineHotel.com Situated in Kansas City’s bustling Country Club Plaza sits The Fontaine Hotel. This swanky yet intimate spot boasts 132 rooms, meaning you can host out-of-towners right on the property.

Exchange vows poolside on the rooftop terrace among 25 loved ones, then celebrate indoors with up to 65. Carved wood paneling, marble floors and Rennaissance artwork lend the space a Venetian twist, but locally spun cuisine and cocktails, served up by on-site Parker restaurant, showcase true Kansas sprirt.

17624 Santa Fe Trail, Leavenworth, KS; (267) 210-5041; SchwinnProduceFarm.com Nestled in the verdant countryside of the Salt Creek Valley sits The Barn at Schwinn Produce Farm, a 4,500-squarefoot space that fits up to 250 guests. Prep for your day in the detached bridal cottage, where you’ll find full-length mirrors and a private bathroom, before retreating to the limestone terrace for a first look and ultra-scenic preceremony portraits.

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What’s the one dessert trend you wish couples would skip?

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What are some creative ways to save money on a wedding cake?

One creative way to save money on a cake without sacrificing beauty is to use silk flowers in place of real or sugar flowers.

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Bakers can book up pretty quickly, so if you find a cake designer you love, put a deposit down to save the date, even if you’re not quite ready to finalize the details.

Educate yourself on standard cake prices for your area, as it helps to walk into a consultation with an idea of your budget.

Which of your studio’s inventive cake flavors are couples currently coveting?

Salted caramel with French vanilla cake is one of my most ordered flavors, but amaretto black cherry comes in as a very close second.

Lastly, what’s one pro tip you wish all to-be-weds would know?

When working with a custom cake artist, don’t be afraid to give them free rein to design a cake they think you’ll love. Some of my most recognizable cake designs started out as one of these cakes.

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REAL WEDDINGS

KANSAS CITY, MO + KANSAS From one couple’s Vietnamese nuptials to an unforgettable soiree at an art museum, these scenes from local fetes will leave you with wedding envy.

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• KANSAS CITY, MO

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Myleen’s verdant bouquet featured seeded eucalyptus and ranunculus, her favorite bloom.

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THEIR STORY

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“I wanted the day to be visually appealing without it feeling overdone,” Myleen Nguyen (25 and a cardiovascular perfusionist) says of pairing Vietnamese tradition with an organic-elegant aesthetic during her wedding to An Pham (28 and an ob-gyn). The California-based couple wed in the same church where all five of the groom’s siblings previously said “I do,” before shifting the celebration to The Bauer in Kansas City’s Crossroads district. “The venue was beautiful on its own and very easy to complement, so that’s just what we did,” Myleen says. —Rachel Sylvester

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MYLEEN & AN K ANSA S CIT Y

The bride’s breezy silk chiffon and Chantilly lace gown boasted cap sleeves for added interest.

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Groomsmen looked dapper in wood watches and bespoke leather suspenders engraved with their initials. In lieu of traditional bouquets, bridesmaids accessorized with ranunculus corsages. “I did that so their hands would be free to eat, drink and party,” Myleen says.

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In addition to their Western vows, Myleen and An hosted a Vietnamese tea ceremony, where they wore traditional garb for the occasion. Once the reception was underway, the newlyweds cut into a vanilla confetti cake and shared a first dance to Johnny River’s “Swayin’ to the Music (Slow Dancin’).”

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CEREMONY SITE Curé of Ars Catholic

Church, Leawood, KS RECEPTION SITE The Bauer, Kansas City, MO

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SEPTEMBER 3

• KANSAS CITY, MO

megan & anthony

Megan gifted Anthony a tie clip engraved with his late father’s signature.

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THEIR STORY Eight years after they first met in med school, Megan McDonald (31 and a gynecologic oncologist) and Anthony Swatek (36 and a surgeon) wed in a traditional Catholic ceremony, but nixed other rituals. “We’re both superlaid-back and wanted our wedding day to reflect that same relaxed feeling.

We got rid of some of the formal wedding traditions such as a grand entrance and just focused on spending time with friends and family,” Megan says. —RS

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“I loved the feeling of unstructured bouquets and wanted something that felt uninhibited,” Megan says. “Our florist and good family friend captured that essence perfectly. He incorporated personal touches, including the addition of wheat, to remind me of the wheat fields I grew up near in western Kansas.”

The navy blue and gold cake provided a pop of color against the neutral palette.

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MEGAN & ANTHONY K ANSA S CIT Y

Since they’re both surgeons, the pair used a 100-year-old human anatomy textbook as their guest book.

MEGAN & ANTHONY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE The Cathedral of the

Megan’s mom handcrafted paper flowers that were displayed behind the live band. “Our wedding guests had the time of their lives dancing the night away,” the bride says. Instead of brunch the next day, the couple took their guests to a Kansas City Royals baseball game and enjoyed beer and hot dogs.

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Immaculate Conception, Kansas City, MO RECEPTION SITE 2016 MAIN, Kansas City, MO Photography

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HISTORIC SETTING  DOWNTOWN KANSAS CITY  DESIGNER AMENITIES

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• PARKVILLE, MO

danielle & michael PHOTOGR APHY BY

MARISSA CRIBBS PHOTOGR APHY

Danielle sewed a heart into the lining of her dress using fabric from her late father’s favorite sweatshirt.

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THEIR STORY

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Romantic florals and a vibrant palette of pink and white turned Danielle Chadbourne (23 and a nursing student and a CNA) and Michael Hotujac’s (24 and a student) September nuptials into a picture-perfect affair.

“I wanted our design to have a ton of personality,” Danielle says of infusing the day with sequined linens, watercolor signs and a showstopping boxwood escort card display. —RS

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DANIELLE & MICHAEL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Hawthorne

House, Parkville, MO The newlyweds made their grand entrance to the tune of Beyoncé’s “Crazy in Love,” signaling the start of the reception. Guests had the option to choose between slices of white-chocolate-raspberry buttercream cake or a decadent display of pink-champagne- and cookie-dough-flavored cupcakes.

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RENTALS Marquee Event Rentals; The

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The DeLeon Event Space & Chapel

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• KANSAS CITY, MO

jennifer & zach PHOTOGR APHY BY DARBI G. PHOTOGR APHY

Jennifer’s lace fit-and-flare gown featured a high neckline and fabriccovered buttons.

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THEIR STORY

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Fragrant eucalyptus filled the air as Jennifer (31 and a dental hygienist) and Zach (35 and an attorney) tied the knot in front of an organic altar crafted from a dozen foliage-wrapped rings.

Zach pinned a single olive leaf to his lapel, while Jennifer carried a verdant arrangement of ferns and ruscus wrapped in her great-grandmother’s heirloom handkerchief. “The smell of eucalyptus will forever remind me of our wedding day,” she says. —RS

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In addition to frozen treats from a gelato cart, savory wheels of ricotta, gouda, brie and blue cheese were stacked and paired with figs and grapes for dessert. “I wanted an alfresco feel to dinner,” Jennifer says of decorating dining tables with beaded chargers, tapered candles and punchy striped linens.

JENNIFER & ZACH’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE River

Market Event Place, Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Darbi G. Hebrank and

Rachelle Becker/Darbi G. Photography PLANNER Belle & Bows

Bella Chic Floral

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Australia, Belle Vogue Bridal, Overland Park, KS

HAIR Katie Welch

Gina Ciaccio-Holmberg Koesler

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VEIL Erica

SHOES Badgley Mischka

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Mon Ami Jewelry JEWELRY Bracelet: Freida Rothman; earrings: Swarovski BRIDESMAID DRESSES Azazie

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Eric Barlow Studios Event Rental

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• KANSAS CITY, MO

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The musuem’s iconic shuttlecock statues inspired the save-the-dates and gold-foil envelope liners.

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THEIR STORY A mere 10 months after their engagement and 12 years into their love story, Lisa Carpenter (30 and works in investor relations) and Kelly McKee (31 and a film producer) returned to their hometown of Kansas City to say “I do.” The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art was fitting for the event due to its date-night signifiance for the pair. “We used to go on dates there during college,” Lisa says.

“It was neat that we could open some of the galleries for viewing after dinner.

It gave guests an activity if they wanted a break from dinner and dancing.” —RS

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A refined palette of white, gold, green and coral brightened up the museum’s interior.

LISA & KELLY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Second Presbyterian

Church, Kansas City, MO RECEPTION SITE The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, Kansas City, MO

PHOTOGRAPHY Cassandra Castaneda

Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY Moonrock Films

PLANNER Holly Davidson/Simple Elegance FLOWERS Branches & Twigs

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Barge, Little White Dress Bridal Shop, Denver, CO; Lela Rose, Little White Dress Bridal Shop, Denver, CO

HAIR Jackie Wilkes Hairstylist

White Carpet Bride

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Veils, Little White Dress Bridal Shop, Denver, CO SHOES Emmy London

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MUSIC Brookside Strings; DJ Mike Scott; KC FLO TRANSPORTATION Showtime Transportation ACCOMMODATIONS The Fontaine;

InterContinental Kansas City At The Plaza REGISTRIES Amazon.com; Bloomingdale’s;

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The newlyweds linked arms and recessed back up the aisle to the tune of Hall & Oates’s “You Make My Dreams” before selecting “Can’t Help Falling in Love” for their first dance. “We picked that Elvis song after I found an old mix CD I burned for Kelly back in 2006,” Lisa says of their sentimental choice.

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Pottery Barn; Sharyn Blond Linens; Williams Sonoma

HONEYMOON Newport Beach, CA;

Hawaii GUESTS 285 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8) Lisa swapped her timeless Anne Barge gown (pictured) for a slightly more bohemian Lela Rose design prior to the start of the reception.

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“It’s very difficult to find a person you’ve never met before in a crowd,” Elaine jokes of their first date at Kansas City’s Plaza Art Fair.

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THEIR STORY With their sizeable 230-person guest list in mind, Elaine Bishop (29 and a foreign trade zone specialist) and Joseph Boch (28 and works in motor sales) planned the ultimate fall fete. Guests received a custom comic book inviting them to the affair, where copper accents, wood signs and tufts of greenery spruced up the massive, 5,000-square-foot ceremony space. “The comic book’s storyline was based off of Point Break—the first movie we watched together,” Joe says. “Most of our guests didn’t pick up on the reference, but Elaine and I laugh a lot at each other, so our invitations were just another inside joke.” —RS

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“A late-night food truck was essential,” Elaine says. “The food gave everyone an excuse to break from dancing to eat Kansas City’s best street tacos.” Additional treats included mid-party popsicles, miniature cheesecakes and a seafood station to celebrate the groom’s Boston roots.

ELAINE & JOE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Guild,

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PHOTOGRAPHY Bek

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VIDEOGRAPHY Brett Taylor

PLANNER Confetti Events

Sammy Sue Designs

Wedding Gallery, St. Louis

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Shop MAKEUP Ramon Stewart Etsy.com York

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GOWN Jacquelin Bridals, HEADPIECE

SHOES Keds x Kate Spade New

ENGAGEMENT RING Long’s Jewelers

WEDDING RINGS Tivol DRESSES Lulus.com

BRIDESMAID

MENSWEAR Jos. A. Bank

STATIONERY Paper Source; Ultrapom

Event Rental; Wedding Paperie; WeddingLantern, Etsy.com

RENTALS Marquee Event

Rentals; Platinum KC; Ultrapom Event Rental CATERING Olive Events; Taco Republic

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CAKE Polkadotte DESSERTS Huey’s

Deluxe Catering

MUSIC Platinum KC PHOTO

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Kansas City Transportation Group REGISTRIES Amazon.com; Honeyfund.com HONEYMOON New Orleans, LA GUESTS 230 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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A romantic private estate for you to celebrate your marriage with those who you

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THEIR STORY Brandi and her maid of honor carried keepsake brooch bouquets made from vintage pins.

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Home is where the heart is for Brandi Tharp (30 and a veterinarian) and Adam Houdashelt (32 and a production supervisor), who tied the knot in a pasture behind their Fredonia residence. “We wanted a country setting with a relaxed atmosphere,” Brandi says of outfitting their home with wood, wildflowers, lace and burlap. Guests looked on from church pews as the couple braided a unity rope in front of a bespoke altar made from recycled tin—just one of dozens of repurposed details that made their day truly unique. —RS

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Family-owned vintage quilts, wood slice centerpieces and whimsical flower-filled mason jars were scattered throughout the pastoral space. In lieu of a traditional cake, the newlyweds cut into a pineapple upside-down cake before serving s’mores, champagne and pink lemonade to partygoers.

BRANDI & ADAM’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE A private

residence, Fredonia, KS

PHOTOGRAPHY

Joee Seibel/Moments of Grace Photography FLOWERS Heartstrings A Flower Boutique GOWN David’s Bridal

HAIR Wilson

County Hair & Spa MAKEUP Track Side Salon

VEIL David’s Bridal

The Branding Pot

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT &

WEDDING RINGS Helzberg Diamonds JEWELRY Heartstrings A Flower Boutique BRIDESMAID DRESSES David’s Bridal MENSWEAR Barb’s Fabric & Etc. STATIONERY Kathy Monfort

SIGN-IN

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Association

CATERING & DESSERTS

Stockyard Restaurant

MUSIC Another

Dimension Entertainment Cutting Edge Graphics Bath & Beyond; Target

FAVORS

REGISTRIES Bed HONEYMOON

Montana; Nevada; Oregon GUESTS 250 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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shades for every season Sunny or crisp, colorful or muted, we’ve got pretty palettes for any time of the year.

BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO

The season when you’re hosting your wedding can determine a lot about the event— your outfits, your location, your vibe and even your color palette. We’ve done part of the planning prep for you, combing through hundreds of color swatches to dream up eight fresh and festive combinations perfectly suited for whenever you hold your celebration. >>

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fall feminine and moody wine, lavender, petal, clover

Saturated burgundy offset with light pink and lavender results in a balanced palette perfect for a romantic and feminine autumn affair. The softer pastel shades keep the fall-favorite wine hue from feeling too dark or dramatic.

HOW TO USE IT There’s simply nothing prettier than rich oxblood florals, so bring in the deep shade by working burgundy buds (like fluffy peonies, oversize dahlias or unique scabiosa) into your bridal bouquet, altar display or table arrangements. Your wedding party will look stunning in shades of lavender and petal (dresses for the gals, ties or pocket squares for the gents), while a vibrant clover green can be captured through an outdoor venue’s surroundings.

This is the perfect palette for a late-September alfresco affair, where you can still host a fete outdoors but want to bring in color pairings that are a bit more seasonally appropriate. >>

fall fresh and rustic pumpkin, blush, french blue, forest

WHY IT WORKS Think of these hues as a tribute to the season’s prettiest shades. A rustic orange strays from its Halloween counterpart thanks to the addition of cool gray-blue and rich forest green. Add a few touches of soft, understated blush and you have a fall-inspired palette that’s anything but expected.

HOW TO USE IT This quartet of colors is so versatile, you can find them a home among virtually any aspect of your wedding day.

Team pumpkin and pink florals together in terra-cotta vases for eye-catching centerpieces, or work the rich orange hue in a whiskey-based signature cocktail (cheers to that!). Bridesmaids will be absolute knockouts in über-flattering deep green, but it could also be an unexpected color for a groom’s jacket. Reinforce your chosen hues with scenic outdoor couples portraits to naturally work in these shades with help from the fall foliage.

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winter dramatic and daring slate, mauve, eggplant, ink

If a glam evening affair is what you and your partner are envisioning, then these picks are for you. Shades of purple and an almost-black blue may not be what first comes to mind when you think of drama and elegance, but trust us when we say this mix of mauve, eggplant and ink will lead to a jawdropping affair. Offset by a slightly industrial slate gray, you won’t need much else to make this posh palette stand out.

HOW TO USE IT Up the impact of your stationery suite by pairing dusty mauve and eggplant with delicate gold foil accents (a watercolor motif goes a long way in making it feel modern).

Then, carry the shades into your day with details that pack a design punch, like elegant draping in your reception venue, velvet table linens and overflowing centerpieces that feature glam flowers like roses and ranunculus. Guests won’t know what to Instagram first. >>

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winter refined and natural emerald, peacock, tropical green, gold

WHY IT WORKS A mix of green shades lets you bring the vibrancy of the outdoors in, even if it’s the dead of winter. Traditional emerald green comes alive with the addition of party-ready teal and gold, resulting in a fun yet sophisticated palette that will look stunning in your photographs—and in person too.

HOW TO USE IT Swap the idea of florals for a greenery-packed wedding (good news—it’s totally in), complete with fern bouquets and a sprawling vine table runner. Play up the festive atmosphere with hits of gold in your tabletop accents (think: a gilded leaf charger, gold-rimmed wine glasses or even gold-plated flatware) and encourage your girls to rock accessories in the shiny metal. An ombré display of emerald, peacock and tropical green escort cards would surely make a statement, as would day-of paper goods, like your dinner menu or program, in the same hues.

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spring sweet and sophisticated plum, violet, orchid, haze

Pantone named Ultra Violet its “it” color in fashion and design for 2018, so think of this palette as our wedding-ready take on that saturated shade. Slightly toned-down purple picks like plum, violet and orchid team together for a monochromatic look that certainly isn’t boring or bland.

HOW TO USE IT Everywhere! Quiet colors like these will feel formal and intentional when sprinkled throughout your event, so try to work them into a bit of everything. Fresh lavender pairs with a variety of menu options, like an infused honey for the cheese platter or pale lavender-colored (and flavored) macaron favors.

When it comes to your ceremony and reception, look for slightly more structured ways to work in these shades to keep it from skewing too sweet. Shapely florals, like orchids, or crinkle taffeta tablecloths add just the right amount of visual interest. >>

spring pretty and preppy sand, buttercup, blossom, breeze

WHY IT WORKS Quintessentially spring in appearance, these stunning selects go together as naturally as you and your soon-to-be spouse. A barely there blue and grounding neutral taupe successfully balance out saccharine butter yellow and pale pink for a just right palette that practically screams romance.

HOW TO USE IT Pastels are inherently sweet, so don’t try to fight that feeling. Instead, play up the fluff factor with over-the-top accents like a rose-covered ceremony backdrop and aisle runner arrangements. You’ll easily find florals you love in soft yellow and pink, so use décor accessories to bring in the breezy blue and sandy cream. Sky-tinted glassware and charger plates work as a pretty tabletop addition, while a combination of sand and breeze would make for a seriously beautiful wedding party look (your bridesmaids can even double as your “something blue”).

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summer organic and wild pistachio, sage, grass, olive

These picks are so adaptable, it doesn’t matter where you’re hosting your wedding day—they’ll feel just as at home against a tropical Floridian backdrop as they will in the lush forests of Maine. Keeping the saturation level of the greens more muted ensures the combination isn’t too in-your-face or overwhelming.

HOW TO USE IT Sticking within a single color range is all about playing with textures, so incorporate a variety of them throughout your day. When it comes to a wedding day backdrop, the great outdoors is your friend, so opt for simple accents that serve to reinforce, not disguise, the organic vibe it creates. Greenery-centric floral displays (coupled with white blooms) and a focus on farm-to-table food helps hammer home the one-with-nature theme.

For a final touch, have your bridesmaids add sprigs of a hearty green, like rosemary, to their updos.

summer fiery and fresh poppy, lipstick, coral, persimmon

WHY IT WORKS Bright, bold shades will bring the energy, so if you and your partner want to throw a party-til-you-drop bash where guests barely leave the dance floor, these hues are the perfect picks.

Lipstick pink feels way less juvenile when matched with a punchy poppy, juicy persimmon and vivacious coral. Basically, fun is pretty much a given when these shades show up.

HOW TO USE IT Don’t be afraid to combine all four of these personality-packed colors onto one item—the bolder, the better.

Try asking your baker for painterly frosting brushstrokes on your cake, or work with your stationer to combine the hues on an attention-grabbing invitation suite. Bridesmaids will also look fab in a mix of the pigments. Tie the whole look together by having each of them carry a bouquet filled to the brim with lush and colorful florals like coral charm peonies, poppies and tulips.

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BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY BR ANDON KIDD PHOTOGR APHY

The most memorable weddings are ones that truly reflect the couple throwing them, and incorporate thoughtful details and special touches that really speak to who they are. When it comes to planning your dream day, you’ll want to make each decision with an ultra-personalized mind-set. This includes, selecting the menu, choosing the favors and deciding on the venue where you’ll host all your loved ones. To help, we’ve narrowed in on the top locations for your personality type to ensure you and your partner throw a bash that’s totally you. >>

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YOU ARE COASTAL COOL A relaxed, effortless duo who loves all things sun, sand and surf. Your ideal wedding day is a no-frills affair with good old Mother Nature lending most of the décor.

YOUR SPOT A BEACH When seeking out your ideal wedding venue, look to the water. A beach bash will give that effortless vibe you and your partner crave, and guests will love toasting your union among swaying palm trees and a salt-strewn breeze. Host just your vows directly on the shore for added ease, then move onto a beachfront pavilion or club for the reception. If you prefer the whole party take place on the coastline, book the stretch of sand ahead of time with the city and check local ordinances to get the lowdown on what is (and isn’t) allowed when it comes to catering, alcohol, rentals, noise and more.

Soon-to-be spouses who seek elegance at every turn. Your dream wedding is heavy on the shine, glitz and glam, and would probably give the royal wedding a run for its money.

YOUR SPOT A BALLROOM Get everything you want in one pretty package with a chic ballroom wedding. Nearly every formal party space is outfitted with luxe chandeliers and glam accents like crown molding or a mirrored dance floor, so your need for sparkle will be more than met. Add some overflowing vessels of high-end blooms (garden roses or peonies) and metallic accents (chiavari dining chairs and gold charger plates) to pack in the drama. To ensure your guests have a once-in-a-lifetime experience, tee up some jaw-dropping moments for them, like flame-throwing mixologists or roaming ballerinas toting dessert bites. When it comes to an event this over-the-top, the sky’s truly the limit.

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FUN FOODIES

YOU ARE FUN FOODIES A couple whose love for food and entertaining is eclipsed only by your affection for one another.

Your aim: to throw a boisterous, delicious and memorable affair where the wine is flowing and the food is unforgettable.

YOUR SPOT A VINEYARD Look into hosting your family and friends at a nearby vineyard for an event that feels like pretty much the best (and most fun) dinner party ever. The bucolic setting will deliver big on the ambience, so you’ll likely have to bring little in the way of décor (a few strings of bistro lights to make the wine cask room glow). Most vineyards are well versed in hosting weddings, but inquire about their harvest season when booking your date—a late August wedding may be your dream day, but if that’s when the team at the vineyard harvests their grapes (as many do), then you’re in for a lot of added commotion on the grounds.

Past that, bottle the charm of your venue (literally) by including special vineyard-themed add-ons to your reception, like a “wine flight” cocktail hour or special pairing menu for dinner. >>

go green The bucolic setting of a vineyard will deliver big on ambience, so you’ll likely have to bring in little décor (a few strings of bistro lights to make the cask room glow).

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Call & ask for Melody or Kellie to schedule your free tour today!

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As a twosome unafraid of making a statement, you eschew tradition in place of unexpected aesthetic choices that are all your own. You want a wedding that’s anything but the traditional “I dos” and reception.

YOUR SPOT A LOFT Surprise and delight guests by transforming an industrial loft into a totally cool event space. While this bare-bones venue isn’t for the faint of heart (there’s a lot of planning that needs to happen to make it suitable for guests), it promises big payoff in the cool department, thanks to exposed brick walls and factory-like piping and windows. Make sure any venue you choose has the modern comforts necessary to host an event, like electricity, plumbing and bathrooms. Play up the edgy vibe with moody accents like black flatware and industrial furniture. Want to really wow? A statement-making extra, like a neon sign or marquee lights in your initials, will really push the envelope.

YOU ARE NATURE NUTS

An adventure-loving team always on the hunt for the next fun weekend activity. Your dream day (make that weekend) involves treating your loved ones to a few of the heartthumping adventures that had you falling in love in the first place.

YOUR SPOT A CAMP Steal away to summer camp for your event.

Often a whole weekend affair, a wedding on the grounds of a summer camp (or a spot dedicated to adults-only weekends) means

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one thing for your guests: fun. Traditional wedding events are replaced with childhood favorites, like a capture-the-flag welcome party, a wedding day spent on the lake or a morning-after kickball game. When it comes to throwing a successful camp wedding, communication with your guests is key. Your choice of venue may mean modifications in attire (heels and mulch don’t mix) or accommodations (Aunt Sue is going to want to know if she’s sleeping in a tent, so she can look for nearby hotels) are necessary, so be clear from the start regarding what the weekend entails. >>

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5 questions to ask before booking your venue These must-asks leave nothing to chance.

What’s the driving distance from your ceremony space?

If you’re not providing transportation for your guests, you’ll need to know how long it’ll take them to get from the ceremony to the reception. Ask what the traffic is like around the time of your wedding to ensure guests won’t be stuck bumper to bumper on a road for an hour.

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YOU ARE POSH PREPS A classy pair who appreciates the finer things in life. You imagine your day having a refined elegance and ageless appeal that will be just as “in” 10 or 20 years from now.

YOUR SPOT A COUNTRY CLUB Book a country club locale to bottle a preppy meets timeless vibe. From immaculately maintained greens to tailored interiors, a country club is a posh and practical choice.

Not only will you have a beautiful blank slate to work with aesthetically, but country clubs often have the added perk of having everything you need for your wedding day already included (an in-house catering team, tabletop rentals, bar setup, dance floor and so on), so you can dedicate less time to planning the nitty-gritty (must-have) details of your day and more time concentrating on the fun stuff, like coming up with signature sips and fun signs, or ways for you to work in your family’s tartan. You can reinforce the country club feel by hiring an artist to draw up your own couples’ “crest” and put the insignia on everything from cocktail napkins to your dance floor (and use it throughout your home postwedding).

Is the venue near any hotels?

This could impact your decision to book if guests have to drive a long way to get from their hotel to the venue and back, especially if transportation isn’t provided. Usually, anything over 30 minutes is a big ask.

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How many people does the space accommodate?

This directly impacts your guest list and, therefore, your budget.

If you love the ballroom but it only fits 75 comfortably, and your guest list is looking more like 200, you have to decide if having the dream venue or your guest count is more important to you.

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What services do you offer?

Don’t assume that anything is included.

You’ll want to know whether the venue has any all-inclusive packages for the site and food; if any rentals/ pros are included; and whether an on-site coordinator can help.

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What restrictions do you have?

There are a few kinds of rules to be aware of. Ask if there are any alcohol limits or permits—some venues may not have a liquor license, and some won’t let you stock your own bar. Same goes for vendors—your venue may only allow you to book pros from a certain list, while others will let you bring in whichever vendors you want. Ask if there are any décor stipulations, like no confetti or open flames.

Lastly, check to see if there’s a noise restriction after a certain time— many venues won’t allow you to play loud music past 10:30 p.m. or so, which won’t work if you want the option to party until midnight.

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MAKE IT YOURS Post up a stylish jazz trio at the doorway to your tented beach reception to get guests moving before they even hit the dance floor, or task your florist with creating a lush statement wall to double as an entry photo booth. Big or small, you want to dream up something that gets your guests energized and ready to keep the celebration going all night long. >>

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disguise these venue eyesores Quick fixes for your décor problems.

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Terrible flooring THE FIX First, keep in mind that your dining tables will likely cover much of the less-thanstellar floor in question.

If it still bothers you, consider pricing out the cost of outfitting the space in the same material as your dance floor. Another solution?

Roll out several neutral carpets to create a blank-slate backdrop.

An oversize space THE FIX You can up the cozy factor of a sprawling room in a few ways. First, ask your planner and venue to use rectangle tables for dining—they’ll take up more space than round tables, which will go a long way in making the room feel more intimate.

Past that, consider setting up different lounge areas to put the extra square footage to work and give guests a spot to chill out.

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Gaudy chairs THE FIX If your venue’s chair offering is really cramping your style, you may have to resort to rentals. If you can’t justify such a large added expense, make the current style work with a few clever solutions, like picking out a fabric to have sewn into cushions or tasking your florist with creating swags of greenery for the backs.

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Jarring columns THE FIX Disguise any posts with a clever greenery addition. This is a great moment to go big, so ask your florist to bring a few small-scale trees or amazing branch arrangements to place in front of the poles and distract guests from seeing what’s beneath.

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Too-bold wallpaper THE FIX Create another world within the room by covering the walls in glam drapery. Select a fabric that fits well with your wedding palette, or choose white for a clean, neutral look. Then, have the venue hang it from the walls (and even the ceiling) to neutralize the space.

Clashing colors THE FIX Instead of fighting the present palette, embrace it. Pull one or two of the less offensive hues into your current color scheme with pretty napkins or a seat cushion to make it all coordinate.

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Wedding planning can be overwhelming—between the cake tastings, floral appointments and venue tours, it can be hard to remember to also plan for those little moments that make an event feel truly like you and your partner. We’ve rounded up seven can’t-miss details that will leave guests talking about your amazing wedding (and your love story) for weeks to come.

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An escort card display Having all the seating arrangements in one spot will simplify things for your guests (no roaming around the ballroom or playing musical chairs) and ensure your reception starts on time.

MAKE IT YOURS Pros and their clients are getting more creative when it comes to escort card displays, using them as a moment to inject a bit of playful personality into the day. Set up a scene of wooden sailboats with guests’ names for your beachside “I dos,” or have your display double as your favors with jars of honey tied with each loved one’s name and table number. >>

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Make your wedding truly feel like yours with these creative touches.

The invitations

Your paper goods are your first chance to introduce your event, so think beyond simply including your color palette. Add a map of the area where you’re getting married, trivia about you and your soon-to-be spouse or even a fun RSVP card.

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The promises you make to your partner are the reason the wedding day is happening, so put your heart into it. If you’re unable to pen your own promises, write something together and have your words printed on the programs.

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Your ride

Customize your wedding wheels by leaving your event in something that speaks to you as a couple, like a vintage city cab, a sleek mint-green Vespa or a stunning sailboat.

Your first dance

Think about your song choice and go for one that really means something to the two of you—but don’t stop there. Your wedding dance can be even more meaningful if you put a little tango into that two-step. Take dance lessons and have an instructor help you choreograph a unique first dance that’ll be a true showstopper.

The menu

Make your meal true to you by serving local cuisine or a certain specialty dish you both love (like French pastries if you were engaged in Paris). As a lasting impression, pass around a personalized treat at the end of the night, like your grandmother’s famous chocolate-chip cookies or paper cones filled with “Nuts for Each Other” peanuts.

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WHY You’ll want to make sure guests can easily find their way from the ceremony to the reception or navigate the grounds on the way to the restrooms, so clear signage is a no-brainer.

MAKE IT YOURS Practicality aside, signs are a great way to reinforce the overall vibe of your day. Hosting a rustic affair? Opt for reclaimed wood signs. Looking for a modern feel? Sleek acrylic or Lucite pointing the way is sure to get noticed.

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A posh powder room WHY Comfort is key for your guests, and while having enough bathrooms is a must (typically one bathroom per every 35 guests), an extra bit of attention paid to the facilities, like flowers or a lightly scented potpourri, is never a bad thing.

MAKE IT YOURS Reuse your bridesmaid bouquets in a vase in the powder room and stock a basket full of necessities (feminine products, mints, deodorant and more) alongside it. Want to go the extra mile? Include a fun personal touch, like a sign, favorite lotion or decal on the mirror that says “Get back on the dance floor!”

Luminous lighting WHY Lighting is one of the most valuable tools you have when it comes to transforming your space. Use it to evoke a certain mood, warm up a cavernous room or give guests a glow in photos.

MAKE IT YOURS When deciding how to light your reception, look for styles that suit your overall vibe. Strands of vintage-inspired Edison bulbs would look right at home in an industrial loft space, while candlelit Moroccan lanterns are well suited for a boho bash.

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A beautiful bar Once party time hits, the bar is probably where the majority of your guests will be spending their time (besides the dance floor, of course). Make sure it doesn’t feel like a forgotten moment by dressing it up like the rest of the venue.

MAKE IT YOURS Pile on the florals, task a vendor with creating a backdrop that will add a fun pop of color or rent furniture to mimic the look of a real watering hole (like a sleek wood bar and high-top tables where guests can perch). If you’re stuck with your venue’s plain style, look into having vinyl stickers made for it, or use a peel-and-stick wallpaper pattern to decorate the facade.

Personal touches You want your wedding to be memorable, right? Well, in a sea of vows and garden roses, it’s the unique, couple-inspired moments that will truly make your day stand out from the crowd.

MAKE IT YOURS While you’re planning, dedicate some time brainstorming a few of your favorite things to do as a pair and figure out a way to work them into your wedding day. Love spending Saturday nights playing board games at home? Create an oversize Scrabble board for guests to duel on during cocktail hour.

Are you self-described bookworms? Name every drink on your menu for one of your favorite fictional characters. Whatever aspect of your love story you choose to play up, the goal is the same—you want guests to leave your bash exclaiming, “That was so them!”

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the language of flowers Put together a perfect-for-you bouquet with added meaning thanks to these sentimental blooms.

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When choosing the flowers for your wedding bouquet and centerpieces, you’ll want to pay attention to what’s in budget, in palette and in season. But why not add an additional layer of significance to the blooms you surround yourself with on your wedding day? We’ve chosen some of the prettiest picks out there, all with touching meanings that are just made for weddings. They’ll be the perfect addition to your bouquet and centerpieces on one of the most important days of your life. >>

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Known to symbolize lasting affection and daily remembrance, zinnias are a natural favorite for weddings thanks to the variety of available colors, sizes and shapes.

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prim and proper A tight, round bundle of blooms in an ombré of blush shades is perfect for the traditional bride.

Romantic peonies go well in style and meaning with equally chic ranunculus, which symbolize radiant charm.

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peony Brides love peonies for their lush, fluffy petals. They stand for love and a happy marriage, the perfect sentiment for the most romantic day ever.

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Admired by gardeners and professional florists alike, hydrangeas represent “heartfelt emotions.”

rich and saturated While hydrangeas are well known for their use in preppy affairs, they’re very versatile blooms. For a moody, autumn-inspired bouquet, combine an antique plum hue with dahlias.

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orchid The symbol for beauty, refinement and fertility, orchids are both a delicate and eye-catching choice.

refined and elegant A standout bouquet of pure white orchids becomes even more graceful when arranged in a traditional cascading shape. The sweeping style was made famous in part by Princess Diana, who carried a 42-inch long cascading bouquet of white orchids, roses and myrtle on her wedding day. >>

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playful and pretty Use accessible (and inexpensive) dusty miller leaves to add softness and a touch of sage green to any bouquet. Here, they offset a colorful display of pink spray roses, white ranunculus and scabiosa.

Representing happiness and delicacy, dusty miller is a well-loved filler thanks to its sage hue and velvety soft leaves.

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astilbe

lush and luxurious THE FLOWER

garden rose singular and sweet Gorgeously delicate and available in a range of pretty pink and burgundy shades, astilbe is a great (and inexpensive) stand-alone flower for your bridesmaids to tote down the aisle.

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Roses are an iconic wedding bloom for good reason. As a symbol of love, honor and beauty, they’re right at home on a day of celebration.

The great thing about the large variety of roses available nearly year-round is mixing and matching a few types to get exactly the look you want. Pair your rose picks with equally glam ranunculus and stock flowers for a truly unforgettable arrangement.

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Also known as false goat’s beard, it stands for dedication to a loved one, making it totally wedding worthy.

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A perennial favorite thanks to their stunning shape and range of hues, dahlias are packed with a variety of meanings, including strength and grace under pressure.

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For a combo that’s so you, try an everyday pick, like sunflowers, with an “out there” variety, like orange pincushions or a king protea. Bonus: The spiky tropical stem stands for change and transformation— kind of like going from Miss to Mrs.

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sunflower Standing for adoration and dedication, a bouquet filled with cheery yellow sunflowers practically says your vows for you.

local spotlight: victorian gardens The Missouri florist shares what trends are inspiring her, plus advice for to-be-weds.

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Amy Cason is the owner and designer behind Victorian Gardens. She specializes in a free-form, organic style and loves creating events around her clients’ vision and helping making their day unique.

My favorite book, The Secret Garden, inspired my love for flowers initially. Now, I look to nature, gardens, architecture and other industry creatives for fresh floral inspiration.

Most couples no longer shop around for vendors.

They come to us because they’ve already chosen the design and style. We’ll then get to know them and figure out together what best suits them.

Garlands are so popular— we love the different textures and greenery that you can work in. We’re also seeing more couples ask for unique backdrops and architectural forms for their wedding day.

If you’re on a tight budget, consider trimming down wedding party extras, like the number of corsages for various guests of honor. You can also ask to repurpose your ceremony flowers at the reception.

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Eat breakfast Feeling “hangry” is no way to begin your dress search. You probably don’t need to wolf down a short stack of pancakes moments before you try on gowns, but make sure you have a meal with some protein before you head to the salon. Trying on gowns can be draining (you’d be surprised by how much some dresses weigh) and you’ll be on your feet for a while, so definitely fuel up.

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Choose your companions wisely Most bridal salons are happy to welcome you and a few guests—but not your entire entourage. Enlist one or two of your closest friends or family members to join your dress shopping journey. This way you can find the gown that best suits you and your style and not feel pressured by too many opinions.

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Prepare to strip down Full disclosure: A stranger may catch glimpses of you naked.

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Trust your consultant They may be older than your mom or young and single, but that doesn’t mean they’re not qualified—would they be doing this if they weren’t? Your consultant knows the dresses and sees hundreds of brides with varying body shapes try them on every day. Make sure you share your wants (think: lace, ball gown silhouette, off-the-shoulder sleeves) but also be open to their suggestions. You may end up loving something completely different from the dress you originally envisioned, and that’s totally okay. >>

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Wear makeup Buying your wedding dress is not an everyday occurrence— it’s going to be a tricky decision. Not to mention the potentially unflattering lighting typical of most fitting rooms. Do yourself a favor and wear a touch more makeup than your usual look (we’re talking blush, black eyeliner and a pop of color on your lips) to your appointment. You’ll look more like you will on your wedding day, which will ultimately make it easier to pull the trigger on a gown.

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Michael J. Nolte is the founder of Nolte’s Bridal in Overland Park, Kansas.

The salon carries Michael’s eponymous line and a variety of designers like Oscar de la Renta, Naeem Khan and Rosa Clará.

If you shop for a dress online, you may find the dress quality and fabric is disappointing in person. You also lose the personal touch that comes from working with an experienced consultant.

If you have a specific dress in mind, contact the store to request a loaner sample for your appointment.

There’s typically a fee to cover shipping, but it’s applied to the total balance of the dress.

Start shopping for your gown at least eight months before your wedding date. Remember: The more high-end the designer, the longer it will probably take to make and deliver your dress.

Limit the amount of people shopping with you. Too many opinions in the room can cause unnecessary stress and confusion. Trust that your consultant is an expert, and keep an open mind.

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Bridal sizes are different Don’t panic—wedding gowns typically run one to two sizes smaller than street clothes. If you wear an 8 in your favorite summer dress, there’s a good chance you’ll be wearing a 10 or 12 down the aisle. Play it safe and order the size that fits your body— don’t plan on losing drastic amounts of weight in order to squeeze into a smaller gown. Focus on how you awesome you feel in the dress and how it fits your body shape, not the number on the tag.

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Experiment a little Even if you have your heart set on a satin mermaid-style gown, or think you can’t wear silk, try on a variety of dresses. You’re only going to do this once, and you may surprise yourself by choosing something completely different than the pins on your inspiration board. And try the dress that your mother (or grandmother or mother-in-law-to-be) is just sure is “the one”—she’s been looking forward to this day too. She’ll either see you were right about the skirt swallowing you whole, or you may shock yourself by actually liking the dress—we call that a win-win.

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You might have to share “your” dress Let’s get real: You’re not the only bride planning a classic ballroom wedding, so it’s entirely possible someone else will be trying on your dream dress. Or, you may see someone wearing a gorgeous illusion-back gown you hadn’t considered and want to try it on immediately. Be courteous and play nice with other brides— share the mirrors, pedestals and even the gowns.

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Make moves Sure, there will be moments when you’re standing still at your wedding (like when you pose for photos and say your vows).

But you’ll also be sitting, mingling and getting down on the dance floor. If you think the dress is a serious contender, take a walk around the salon, sit down and practice your dance floor moves.

You may feel a little silly in the moment, but you’ll be glad you gave the gown a test-drive when you’re comfortable on your day.

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You may not cry (and that’s okay) Maybe emotion will overcome you when you decide on your dress. Maybe your mom will get choked up too. But it’s totally fine if no one cries. It doesn’t mean you picked the wrong gown.

Every bride is different, so don’t put pressure on yourself to react a certain way once you choose the dress. Also, your consultant may not pop a bottle of champagne (some can’t due to liquor laws) like you see on TV. If that’s the case, take your shopping companions out for a celebratory drink instead—you all deserve it!

ways to customize your dress Wedding dresses certainly aren’t one style fits all.

On a day when all eyes are on you, let your personality shine in a gown as unique as you are.

1. Add sleeves

Fell in love with a strapless dress but looking for more coverage or support?

Ask your stylist about adding sleeves or straps.

Bonus: They’re on trend.

Most gowns can be customized with cap sleeves or straps, and many silhouettes can even be altered with long sleeves. Or if you’re looking for a less permanent option that you can switch out between ceremony and reception, consider a jacket, capelet or dress topper. Some are even designed to look like part of your dress.

2. Customize your bustle

Every dress with a train needs a bustle, but not many brides know that each bustle is custommade to suit her gown and preferences.

These tricky systems of hooks, buttons and ties are designed to pull your train off the floor so you can dance all night, and they need to be carefully planned and sewn in a pattern that works with each individual silhouette.

3. Modify embellishments

Depending on your personal style, you might feel like your dress could use a little more, or even a little less, embellishment.

The easiest way to up the wow factor is to add a sash. See how much control you have over the existing details on your dress—can you add more to or remove from certain areas?

4. Lace it up

Swapping out a zipper for a corset closure adds a romantic touch for brides looking for a dramatic back, and they can be added to most silhouettes. But a corset-style closure isn’t only for looks. If you feel like you might need a little extra breathing room, a lace-up back gives you some leeway in the bodice.

5. Make it personal

There are also sentimental details you can add to make your wedding dress extra meaningful. Find a creative way to add your “something blue,” or sew a charm with a special meaning into the hem of your dress.

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Once you figure out what you’re wearing down the aisle, it’s time to focus on outfitting your bridal party. Whether you decide to go matchy-matchy, fun and eclectic, or something in between, finding dresses that pair well with the theme, season and location of your wedding (not to mention everyone’s various body types and personalities) can be a challenge.

Not sure where to begin? Jump-start your search by reading up on the prettiest new dress styles. Here, eight hot trends to know before your first shopping trip. >>

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Halter necklines This ’90s throwback is back and better than ever. The perfect balance of sultry and modest, a halter-neck bridesmaid dress is a chic way for your girls to show some skin. The mix of a conservative collar and bare shoulders and arms instantly works for any outdoor spring or summer affair. But don’t think this style is just for warmer months; you can also pair it with a wrap or faux-fur bolero once the temperature drops.

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A dress doesn’t need a ton of embellishments to make an impression. A flowy, layered bodice on a streamlined silhouette adds visual interest and elevates a simpler design. This trend is also the perfect solution if you want the fashion-forward look of a longer crop top but don’t feel comfortable asking your girls to show off their mid-sections. If you’re considering this style, ditch heavier fabrics in favor of lightweight options like silk and chiffon.

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If lots of shimmer isn’t for you, skip the beading and opt for dresses with lace details instead. This fabric may be a classic bridal staple, but when done in new and unexpected ways, it feels fresh and modern. For a fun take on the mismatched bridal party trend, have your bridesmaids choose dresses with different lace elements (think: lace bodices or lace cap sleeves). Just keep the type of lace the same throughout for an overall cohesive look. >> From left: The Dessy Group; Bari Jay; Jasmine Bridal; Theia

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High slits Floor-length bridesmaid gowns are taking on an edgier vibe this season with thigh-high slits. Whether in the front or on one or both sides (for the truly daring), this sexy style is the perfect way to show off just the right amount of leg—and a killer pair of heels. To keep this sultry style from going too over the top, opt for dresses with more modest bodices, and skip curve-hugging fabrics like jersey. A flowy chiffon gown works best for casual nuptials, while more structured satin is perfect for a formal ballroom affair.

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Move over skinny straps—the one-shoulder neckline is the new look of the moment. This versatile silhouette works for every wedding style and dress code. Another plus: It draws the eye upward, creating a slimming effect while flattering the neck and shoulders (what’s not to love about that?).

Choose sleek satin for a modern vibe, or go with black for a red-carpet-inspired feel your girls can wear again. >> From left: David’s Bridal; Jenny Yoo; Bari Jay; Watters

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5 to 6 months ahead

Once you know the color and style of the dress you want your bridal party to wear, it’s time to start shopping. It takes two to three months for designer dresses to be ordered and delivered—and don’t forget about factoring in alteration time. To simplify the shopping experience, scout dresses ahead of time, so you don’t waste hours trying on lots of options.

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2 to 4 months ahead

Once the dresses have arrived, alterations can take up to six weeks, depending on the type of changes needed. Remember, the more embellished the dress, the more time it will take to alter, and the more it will cost.

If you’re renting dresses, you should start as early as two months out. They may take up to two weeks to arrive, so give yourself a cushion just in case.

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With only a few weeks left, it’s time to start finalizing details. Finish up any final fittings, and make sure you have your girls’ accessories picked out. This includes jewelry, shoes and any headpieces. If you’re letting your bridesmaids pick their own, give them guidelines (preferred colors, metals and styles) so your crew has a cohesive look in photos.

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Remind your girls to steam and hang up their dresses the night before so they don’t wrinkle en route to your venue. They should also show up with the appropriate undergarments, plus all of their accessories in tow. Put your maid of honor in charge of an emergency kit with safety pins, fashion tape and a handy stain-removing pen in case of wardrobe malfunctions.

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Power red There’s no denying that red is a statement color. You can have all of your ladies don the same red gowns, or take on the mismatched trend with a gradient of shades (we recommend sticking to darker hues for an elegant effect). But before you land on a red dress, it’s important to note that not every shade of this color will work for everyone in your bridal party.

For lighter skin tones, opt for jewel hues like cranberry, while darker tones look best in orangey or plum reds.

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Have a larger bridal party with a variety of different body types? It might be hard to style them all in the same silhouette, but any dress with ruching (read: pleated or gathered fabric) is a universally flattering option. Dresses with a gathered waistline de-emphasize the tummy and draw attention to the slimmest part of the body, while ones with a gathered bodice work for bustier body types. The best part?

This detail works with every dress silhouette and style.

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Allover sparkle You’re the star of the show on your wedding day, but that doesn’t mean your bridesmaids can’t shine too. Gold sequin bridesmaid dresses have been hot for a while, but gorgeous shades of blue, silver and pink are our new favorites. If you’re throwing an evening wedding, nothing says “glam” like a bridal party decked out in dark navy sequin gowns. For a daytime affair, choose blush, rose gold or copper hues for a romantic feel. Since sequins are quite a statement on their own, it’s best to have your girls pare down their accessories— stick to strappy sandals and simple earrings.

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It’s common knowledge engagement rings are pricey. According to The Knot 2017 Jewelry and Engagement study, the average ring costs $6,351. While that sparkler is an investment, shopping smart can lower the cost. Read on to get the most bang for your buck—without sacrificing your style. >>

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Go for gold There are plenty of pros when it comes to platinum: It’s an extremely durable, natural white metal, so it won’t change color or fade, and it gives off a gorgeous white shine and silky polish. But all those good qualities unfortunately come with a price. “Platinum is 30 times more rare than gold and more difficult to extract from mines, which makes it more expensive,” says Amanda Winters, spokeswoman at Blue Nile. To get the same fashionable look as platinum, consider a ring with a white gold setting.

While white gold is an alloy (read: a mixture of yellow gold and a white metal) and may need to be replated over time, it’s still a beautiful option.

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Try minimalism The more elaborate the setting, the more a ring will cost. “If you’re on a tight budget, look for rings with daintier settings,” says Angela Karaguezian, vice president of Kirk Kara. Less metal means a lower price tag, so opt for a prong setting (which secures the diamond like a tripod above the band) over a bezel one (a metal ring that encircles the sides of the center stone to hold it in place). “If you still want to achieve a more glamorous look, consider design work like hand engravings, scrollwork or milgrain edging over adding extra diamonds,” Karaguezian says.

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Add a halo Don’t fret if your budget won’t allow for the giant diamond you’ve been eyeing.

You can fake the look of additional carats by choosing a halo setting (a circle of small pavé stones around the center stone).

“Halo settings continue to be a popular way to add more sparkle to an engagement ring because they create the illusion of a larger center gemstone,” says Beth Gerstein, cofounder of Brilliant Earth.

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While adding a halo to your setting will increase the cost of your ring, it’s far less expensive than opting for a larger rock.

And, depending on the kind of halo you choose (think: round, square, hexagonal, colorful) it’s also a pretty way to further personalize the design.

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Buy shy As you might have heard, shopping for a diamond centers around the “4 Cs”— cut, carat, clarity and color. When it comes to the carat size, you can save quite a bit of money without dramatically changing the look of a stone by buying a loose stone just shy of a half-carat or a whole-carat weight.

For example, instead of a two-carat diamond, look for a 1.8-carat one. Just a slight difference in carat weight can equal a potential savings of nearly 20 percent— but the difference in the diamond will hardly be noticeable, if at all.

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Find the sweet spot Similar to carat size, as clarity (how “clean” or free of internal inclusions and external blemishes a stone is) grades improve, diamonds go up in price. But the naked eye can’t tell the difference between flawless and near-flawless stones.

“We often advise value-conscious customers to focus on cut grade and color, with clarity as the last consideration,” Gerstein says. For excellent value, choose a near colorless, “eye clean” diamond—it will look perfect to the unaided eye while offering substantial savings.

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“Fancy shapes typically cost less per carat because there isn’t the same demand for them in the marketplace,” says Sylvie Levine, CEO of Sylvie Collection. If you have your heart set on the look of a round diamond, Levine suggests opting for a similarly shaped cushion, elongated cushion or oval stone.

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Opt for a shallow cut If having a center stone that looks large is more important to you than one with lots of sparkle or a perfect cut grade, choosing specific shallow-cut fancy shapes, like marquise and emerald diamonds, will create the illusion of a larger rock—without the hefty price tag.

“These fancy shapes often appear bigger than other diamond shapes, like round or cushion, of equal carat weight,” Gerstein says. “This is because the elongated shape of these stones maximizes surface area, resulting in a larger appearance.” While opting for a shallower cut diamond does mean some light will “leak out” of the sides of the stone, reducing its overall brilliance, you’ll still get a beautifullooking stone for a much lower price tag.

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Shop with your band in mind Adding even a thin diamond eternity band to your stack will create megawatt shine—for a fraction of the cost of a blinged-out engagement ring. “We love the idea of mixing a simple solitaire ring with a diamond-accented band,” Gerstein says.

“This allows you to save on the engagement ring while adding all the sparkle you need.”

Another thought: This may not work if you want to be surprised, but if you and your partner are going to shop for rings together, sometimes you can score a deal if you buy the engagement ring and the wedding band at the same time. You might even be able to get their wedding band as well for an even bigger discount. >>

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Choose an alternative stone Colorful gems have long been the favored betrothal gift for royal families—we’re all familiar with Kate Middleton’s 18-carat oval sapphire and diamond ring. Today, hued stones are even more on trend, catching on with celebs like Blake Lively, Carrie Underwood and Jessica Simpson. Another bonus of going with a sapphire or other vibrant gem?

They tend to be less expensive than diamonds, so you can afford a larger stone.

Each gemstone also has its own special meaning (blue sapphires symbolize loyalty and honesty, while rubies signify passionate love), which is another fun way to personalize your engagement ring.

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Go lab grown If the symbolism of a naturally mined stone isn’t all that important to you or you’re interested in reducing your carbon footprint, consider a lab-grown diamond. Created from a tiny diamond “seed” in an extremely hot, vacuum-sealed chamber they’re virtually indistinguishable from natural diamonds but cost much less. “Lab-grown diamonds are an excellent option for couples who want a larger stone at a discount,” says Nick A. Pirie, COO of Bare Diamond.

“In fact, they’ll typically get 30 to 50 percent more carat weight for their budget, with the same qualities and specifications as a naturally mined diamond.” This environmentally friendly route can also be helpful if you’re searching for a super-specific diamond. Since lab-grown stones are created on command (without the waiting period of 1 billion to 3.3 billion years you find in nature), you can have your rock cut to the exact shape, cut, clarity and carat weight you prefer.

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A wedding day ’do that falls flat—or short of your expectations—is simply not an option. Here’s how to seek professional help to get gorgeous bridal tresses. >> PHOTOGR APH BY OFF BEET PRODUCTIONS

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When it comes to choosing the right bridal hairstyle, the possibilities are endless. And unless you’re a hair aficionado, all of those choices might make your head spin (no pun intended).

Hiring a professional hairstylist will help take the stress out of getting photo ready on your wedding day. Not only can they help find the perfect style, they’ll also handle the hair-related questions you didn’t think to ask, like how to switch up your look for your reception quickly, or how to keep your hair perfectly coiffed once you remove your veil. Below, a foolproof guide to finding, hiring and working with a hair pro.

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Before you hire a stylist, you need to decide a few things: Do you want them to come to you on your wedding day, or would you rather go to the salon? Will they only do your hair or your bridal party’s as well? Do you want them to stay with you all day to do touch-ups before the photo session and reception? Discuss these options with your stylist. Of course, how long you hire a professional to stay with you depends on your budget and their time limitations. Once you’ve decided who you’re going to hire, put down a deposit to save the date, and request a receipt. You should also create a formal contract with your stylist. List everything you expect on the wedding day, including the agreed upon time of arrival, the location, pricing and any other pertinent details like a contingency plan if something comes up.

In the event of an emergency, you should also have their cancellation and refund policy in writing. Pro tip: Your hairstylist may also be a helpful resource for other pros you’ll need for your wedding. Don’t forget to ask if they know or work with any makeup artists. Chances are, they’ll have a couple of awesome recommendations. >>

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Halter Showcase a high neckline with a style that pulls the hair off your face and shoulders completely, like a classic chignon, boho halo braid or high ballerina bun.

Strapless Whether it’s a twisted low bun, high volume ponytail, or effortless, beachy waves, this versatile neckline will work with virtually any ’do you want to try.

One shoulder Sideswept styles, like a Brigitte Bardot–inspired French twist, curly low ponytail or retro finger waves with a asymmetrical gown.

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elongates the neck and torso, so choose a hairstyle that does the same, like long, loose waves or a romantic fishtail braid.

Off-the-shoulder Dresses that highlight your neck, collarbone and décolletage are more impactful when paired with swept-back hair, like in a tousled half-updo or sleek topknot.

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As experienced as your hairstylist may be, just describing what you want won’t be enough for them to properly execute the style. Bring multiple inspiration images of hairdos you like from magazines, Pinterest and Instagram. You can even bring photos of yourself with a look you’d like to re-create—anything that will give them a clear picture of the kind of style you’re after. And while it might be tempting to try a drastically new style for your wedding, choosing a trendier ’do can result in a dated look down the line.

Another idea: Wear a shirt with a neckline similar to that of your gown to your trial, since different hairstyles lend themselves to particular necklines. Bring along any hair accessories you plan to wear, whether it’s an elaborate headpiece or veil, or at least show your stylist some photos so they know what to expect the day of.

Document it Once the stylist finishes your requested looks, ask them to snap photos from four different angles: front, back and both sides. That way, you’ll get a 360-degree view of your hair and a better idea of how it will look in your wedding photos.

If there’s one particular style you like, ask them to write down exactly which products and techniques were used. Since your hair trial can take place months before your wedding date, it’s important to take notes and photos so you both remember what worked.

Clock it Pulling off great hair on your wedding day comes down to proper timing. Schedule your appointment too early and your ’do could start to look stale just as the festivities are getting started, but do it too late and you’ll feel rushed as you try to make it to the ceremony on time.

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Prairie Hill Time your initial hair trial to see how long it takes to get your hair looking perfect, then allow that amount of time plus a half hour of leeway on the day of.

And schedule your hair appointment for as late in the day as possible. For example, if photos are scheduled for 4 p.m. and your hair takes an hour, make your appointment at 2:30 p.m. Don’t forget to factor in your bridal party if they’re also having their hair done. We recommend 30 to 45 minutes for each bridesmaid. If you can, look for a stylist who has an assistant or two. The assistants can work on your bridal party at the same time your stylist is getting you aisle ready.

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When your wedding day arrives, put your undergarments on under a button-down shirt so you’ll be ready to slip on your dress once your hair is done and your veil or headpiece (if you’re wearing one) is in place. If your stylist is coming to you, set up a place for them next to a low table and sit in a chair with a low back so they’ll have easy access to your hair. Make sure there are electrical outlets nearby for appliances like hair dryers, curling irons and electric rollers. If necessary, have an extension cord handy. If you start to worry about how the stylist’s vision for your hair is different from your own, calmly and respectfully suggest an alternative. You need expert help—that’s why you hired a professional—but you shouldn’t be afraid to voice your concerns. Don’t forget to also ask for some upkeep tips. They should let you know how to remove your veil or headpiece without disturbing the rest of your hair, keep your ’do in place while getting down on the dance floor and refresh your look for photo ops.

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Between Instagram, Pinterest—and websites catering to beauty—there’s no lack of makeup inspo out there to inform your wedding day look. Instead of focusing on trends like heavy contour or overdrawn lips, try something more general, like the time of year you’re getting married. (Pro tip: This will also keep your makeup from being dated down the line.) With the help of beauty expert and celebrity makeup artist Kimara Ahnert (who’s worked with A-listers like Gwyneth Paltrow and Catherine Zeta-Jones), we’ll show you how to use your wedding season as a base for your bridal beauty look.

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Fall is a transitional time—not as bright and cheerful as summer, but also not as glam as winter. “Darker days mean your makeup will require more definition and color,” Ahnert says. “Start wearing bolder eyeliner and more dramatic mascara, fill in your brows (they probably lightened up over the summer) and add a full-coverage foundation back into your beauty routine.”

The eyes are the perfect canvas for playing with colors and textures in this season.

Start with a matte base in a neutral hue and add just a touch of gold glitter at the inner corners of your eyes—it’s glam but also works for daytime nuptials. For a fun evening look, swap out shimmery black shadow for an unexpected pop of cobalt blue or dark green. To take it up a notch, smudge a dark green, blue or chocolate liner along your waterline. If you opt for darker hues, Ahnert advises to keep the rest of your look minimal—think: fluttery lashes and soft washes of color on the lips and cheeks. You can also build your makeup around an array of colors in the same color family—like monochromatic shades of red, orange or copper—for an end result that’s both autumnal and subtle.

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Fall skin concerns mirror wintertime woes (low humidity plus lower temperatures mean drier skin), but you shouldn’t break out the heavy formulas just yet. Stick to a personalized approach and switch your products based on individual concerns, like an illuminating eye cream for dark circles, an exfoliating toner for dull skin or a luxurious night cream for dry spots.

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The festive nature of winter sets the perfect backdrop for an über-romantic wedding and makeup with a particularly luxe feel. Frosty temperatures and festive holidays mean this season lends itself to deeper colors. “Your makeup should adjust to stand up to the darker décor colors common during this time of year,” Ahnert says. Swap bright reds and pinks for their richer counterparts, like cranberry and raspberry, and switch out neutral eye shadows for smokier hues. You can determine whether warmer or cooler tones work for you by looking at the veins on the inside of your wrist. If your veins are blue, cool tones are more flattering; green ones mean warmer tones will work best for you.

Lipsticks, blushes and eye shadows in richer hues tend to have matte finishes because they contain more pigment. For this reason, it’s important to use a light touch while applying them—you don’t want to end up looking overdone. For instance, if you’re considering an intense smoky eye, create balance by sticking to lighter colors on your lips and cheeks. If you want to rock a vampy lip, keep the size and shape of your lips in mind, as darker colors can actually make them appear smaller. If you have a more petite pout, try a berry-hued lipstick with a glossy consistency over a super-dark, matte one. >>

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Antioxidants + sunscreen Amp up your protection from the sun by applying an antioxidant-rich moisturizer or serum before your sunscreen.

Antioxidants protect your skin from cellular damage caused by sun exposure, while sunscreen blocks UV light from penetrating the skin. We call that a skin care double whammy.

Facial oil + night cream Skin feeling exceptionally dry? Mix a couple drops of your favorite facial oil into a cream-based moisturizer (silicon-based ones will break down) for an ultra-hydrating effect. Stick to using this skin care cocktail at night,

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Hydrating mask + clay mask If your complexion tends to get oily around your T-zone but is dry everywhere else, cater to all of your skin’s needs by multimasking, or using two face masks at once. A hydrating mask will soothe irritated skin, while a clay mask will absorb excess oil and purify any clogged pores.

Vitamin C + retinol Boost your retinol’s antiaging properties with the addition of a vitamin C serum. Vitamin C helps to stabilize retinol, extending its effectiveness. To ensure your skin doesn’t get irritated by the combination of these strong ingredients, look for a serum with a lower concentration of vitamin C.

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As color palettes shift, the types of products you choose should change with the season as well. “Winter skin is usually paler, so switch to a heavier foundation or powder that will even out your complexion,” Ahnert says. To combat the dry winter air and ensure your beauty look lasts the entire day without flaking off, focus on prepping your skin prewedding for a smooth makeup application. “Prepare for your day with a series of hydrating treatments like oxygen facials,” Ahnert says. “Using a mask suited to your skin type the night before your wedding will give your skin a boost, which will help your makeup look even better.”

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Spring is a time of renewal, when flowers start to bloom and temperatures gradually heat up, so your makeup palette should get lighter and brighter. Use nature to complement your look, like floral-inspired washes of pastels or earthy hues. To put a wedding-worthy spin on this more muted array of colors, start with a classic makeup trend, like a dramatic cat eye, and soften it with a light brown liner, or make a smoky eye less severe by pairing nudes with warmer, golden tones. But don’t be afraid of more vibrant colors either. “Teal and plum eyeliner and bronze or coral lip gloss are fun alternatives for spring,” Ahnert says. Bolder liners are best when paired with neutral makeup everywhere else (think: liquid highlighter over heavy blush). Warmer temperatures mean you won’t need a heavy foundation, so switch to a tinted moisturizer and sheer setting powder for a dewy finish. Prep your complexion for the lighter spring air with products aimed to slough away dull skin and clogged pores. >>

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Summer Sunny weather and warmer temperatures make summer the best time to experiment with more color, especially since weddings during this season tend to incorporate brighter hues too, like bold bridesmaid dresses or tropical florals. The key to wearing more vivid colors is to focus on one or two shades at a time in varying intensities.

For example, if you’re rocking a cherry-red lipstick, your lids and cheeks should have a lighter wash of nude or bronze. Brighter shades work beautifully with a glowing complexion (as opposed to a more matte one), so swap heavier creams for lighter gel formulas. Warmer temperatures and humidity also mean you should take extra precautions to make sure your makeup stays put. “Summer brides may need more touch-ups depending on the climate, since high humidity will make skin absorb makeup more quickly,” Ahnert says.

“To get the most out of your look, use a foundation primer, eye shadow primer and setting spray, and stick to waterresistant mascara.” This balmy season is also the perfect time to switch to cream bronzers, blush and highlighters that won’t cake or crease when mixed with a little bit of perspiration.

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Bright reds with blue undertones warm up ivory skin. Skip the super-dark hues, which can look more goth than glam. Another plus: Cool shades of red also make teeth appear instantly whiter.

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Let’s face it: Muddling through all the beauty advice out there is the last thing you want to add to your already-crazed planning to-do list. And while some beauty myths are easy to spot (no, that pricey cream won’t really erase your pores) others are harder to figure out (does naturally oily skin really need a moisturizer?). We asked the experts to set the record straight on some of the most common bridal beauty misconceptions— so you can focus on the important stuff before your day.

MYTH Committing to a solid skin care routine will instantly transform your skin.

FACT Slathering on new skin care products (even the expensive, super-fancy kind) is not a quick fix. Get a jump on perfecting your complexion and start planning your new skin care routine when you first start planning your wedding. “Most skin care products take six to eight weeks to work. You may even experience a purging effect, where skin gets worse before it gets better,” says Lian Mack, MD, a dermatologist and spokeswoman for Lumenis.

And, if you’re looking to treat serious skin issues like acne, wrinkles or uneven skin tone with more intense treatments (think: neurotoxins like Botox, peels or fractional laser resurfacing) you may need several weeks or even months to complete the suggested amount of treatments and fully recover in order to see results. “Give yourself enough time to be certain you have no complications and are totally happy with the outcome before you walk down the aisle,” Mack says.

keep it simple “You don’t need to try anything new or extreme on your wedding day—you just need to enhance what’s already there.”

MYTH More is more.

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all the stops, but it’s actually not the time to try something drastic where your hair and makeup are concerned. For example, if you typically have a more natural approach to beauty, don’t feel pressured to go for an elaborate updo plus heavy makeup. “You should still look and feel like yourself on your wedding day,” says celebrity makeup artist Wendy Rowe. “You don’t need to try anything new or extreme—you just need to enhance what’s already there.” Rowe suggests sticking to products you already know will work for you. “If you want to take your makeup up a notch, flawless foundation, some concealer and a pretty lip and cheek stain are little details that can really elevate your look,” she says.

FACT Collagen pills, powders and creams are all the rage right now,

promising smoother, firmer, more youthful skin—but are they the real deal? “Few reputable studies have been done on collagen supplements,” says Ted Lain, MD, a dermatologist. “The claim that these supplements increase the collagen content of the skin, leading to improvement in wrinkling and texture, are unfortunately untrue.” Rather than stocking up on trendier formulas, Lain suggests using a moisturizer with hydrating ingredients like glycerin to boost your glow.

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FACT It sounds counterintuitive, but you shouldn’t skip moisturizer if you have an oily complexion or T-zone. Drying out your skin can actually increase its oil production, creating a vicious cycle of clogged pores and breakouts. “Moisturizers are used to improve your skin’s water content, not its oil content,” says celebrity facialist Cecilia Wong. “The right moisturizers or serums for your skin type won’t leave a greasy residue behind.” Wong suggests avoiding heavy moisturizers with mineral oil, petroleum, lanolin and coconut oil that won't absorb as easily, and instead seeking out lighter formulas with grapeseed and sunflower oils or hyaluronic acid. >>

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Skin Visit your dermatologist to discuss any concerns. Six months is usually enough time to complete a treatment or regimen to deal with issues like acne or rosacea.

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FACT Do your strands and your stylist a favor and show up to both your hair trial and wedding day with clean hair. “Hairstylists don’t really like working with dirty hair,” says celebrity hairstylist Jon Reyman. “Dirty hair isn’t as sanitary, and we like the freedom to create hold with products that work best for the hair type we’re working with. If your hair is too oily, it may not hold the style as well.” Bottom line: Trust that a pro will know how to create a ’do that looks amazing and stays put—without any added grime.

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MYTH Pinterest is the best place to find makeup inspo.

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FACT While Pinterest does offer a wealth of fun beauty tutorials, what you see isn’t necessarily what you get—especially where makeup is concerned. “A lot of the beauty images on Pinterest are altered, filtered or way too dramatic for your wedding day,” says Ashlee Glazer, global artistic director of Laura Geller Beauty. “I always recommend finding your celebrity doppelgänger, looking to classic red carpet icons and other real brides as a source of makeup inspiration. That way, you can see how the looks you’re loving will photograph in real life—without lots of editing.”

MYTH High humidity will melt off your makeup.

FACT Even if you’re getting married in a tropical locale in the

middle of summer, that doesn’t necessarily mean your makeup will get messy—especially if you hire a pro to help you out. “While high humidity can affect the efficacy of some products, a professional makeup artist will know how to prep your face so your makeup stays put,” says Brittany Lo, founder and CEO of Beautini. “Just make sure you’re using primer, waterproof mascara and have a few blotting sheets on hand, and you’ll have nothing to worry about.”

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couture confection opposite Indulge your inner fashionista by opting for a statement ball gown with a tiered skirt.

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marshmallow dream Cascading layers of tulle put a fantastical spin on a traditional ball gown.

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fabulous frosting opposite An off-theshoulder ruffle adds whimsical flavor to a simple sheath. Dress, $2,495, Watters at Altar Bridal, AltarBridal.com (Leawood, KS), Mia Grace Bridal, MiaGraceBridal.com (Chesterfield, MO); engagement ring, $7,990 (not including center stone), Tacori.com; earrings, $390, Oscar delaRenta.com; bracelet, $5,738, EffyJewelry.com

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“We normally never like wedding favors,” the couple says of gifting guests with individually addressed vintage postcards that doubled as escort cards.

Two friends dressed in drag kept the energy high during cocktail hour, and revelers refueled with slices of Imo’s Pizza once the party was well underway.

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Memorable menu items included oysters and champagne, cheese from California’s Cowgirl Creamery and passed tapas from the couple’s favorite San Francisco restaurants, even an appetizer from their first date. Seven different cakes made the cut too, ranging in flavors from German chocolate to tart lemon.

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Michelle Huesgen/Untamed Heart Photography and Farm

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• BELLEVILLE, IL

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THEIR STORY Despite the size of their 257-person guest list, newlyweds Kate Pietroburgo (29 and an account executive) and Charlie Effinger (32 and a senior financial analyst) manged to make their ceremony at a St. Louis cathedral feel cozy.

Large brass urns flanked the altar, and clusters of fragrant eucalyptus lined the length of the aisle. “I’ve always been in love with the Old Cathedral,” Kate says of the recently renovated parish. “Its size made our somewhat large wedding feel intimate.” Postceremony, guests made the short trip to the couple’s hometown of Belleville, Illinois, where the revelry continued on the bride’s family’s 15-acre estate and vineyard. Metallic candlesticks, marble slabs and repurposed clawfoot bathtubs added interest to the tented reception, where partygoers indulged in homemade limoncello bottled by Kate’s aunts. —RS

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Kate’s mother upholstered the newlywed’s dining chairs with custom monograms. “It was such a cool, special touch,” Kate says. Antique sofas and velvet wingback chairs were arranged into cozy lounge vignettes, and whiskey and cigar bars were set up as another reprieve from the busy dance floor.

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• ST. LOUIS

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A floating acrylic stand displayed a marbled fondant cake layered with lemon buttercream and raspberry jam.

THEIR STORY For Katie Zimmer (25 and a development manager), her hunt for the perfect wedding dress mimicked that of her mother’s nearly 30 years before. “I bought my gown at the same Chicago shop where my mom bought hers in 1988,” Katie says of her A-line design, which came equipped with a detachable 10-foot train.

Katie wore it throughout the day during her nuptials to Mike Kellar (31 and a Morning Drive host on Q104), who donned a dapper gray suit for the occasion.

“Mike and I both have larger-than-life personalities,” Katie says of their decision to seal the deal at The Caramel Room at Bissinger’s. “We needed a showstopping venue that would leave people talking.” —RS

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Clusters of peonies and succulents dotted dining tables, where guests sipped signature chocolate martinis. For their first dance as Mr. and Mrs., the couple swayed to Ed Sheeran’s “Perfect.” “Mike worked with a radio friend who played hits from every genre,” Katie says of the unforgettable playlist.

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• RIDGEDALE, MO

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Gerbera daisies and vibrant sunflowers played up the lush, Secret Garden– inspired design.

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For their June nuptials, a picturesque venue was at the top of Brittany Nicklas (26 and a teacher) and Jacob Keeney’s (25 and a US Army officer) priority list, along with one another warm-weather necessity. “We got to enjoy the beauty of Big Cedar Lodge while also enjoying the air conditioning,” Brittany says of preceding their rustic reception with a ceremony at the on-site chapel. Another must-have: daisies—and lots of them.

“Daisies were my GrandLu’s favorite flower. I wanted it to feel like she was present,” Brittany says of the nod to her late grandmother. —RS

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A decadent display of homemade rhubarb and apple pies was accompanied by one sentimental Italian cream cake. “Jacob is an amazing baker—no one could recreate my GrandLu’s cream cake recipe until he came along,” Brittany says. “We plan to make it together on our wedding anniversary.”

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Big Cedar

Lodge, Ridgedale, MO

PHOTOGRAPHY

Christine Bonnivier Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Pollock Pictures PLANNER Alison Petit/Big Cedar Lodge;

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“We were lucky that Piper Palm House is such a beautiful space on its own—we didn’t have to add a thing,” Tiffini says of their ceremony venue.

JUNE 24

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THEIR STORY Food was the focus for Tiffini Hyatt (24 and a kindergarten teacher) and Travis Hamilton (24 and a doctoral student), who treated their guests to Korean-Mexican fusion fare followed by a spread of vegan and gluten-free desserts. “Delicious food and dance are how we celebrate and express joy, so it was only natural those items inspired our wedding style,” Tiffini says. But the memorable menu didn’t end with the couple’s cream-cheese-frosted cake. “We brought in an ice cream truck from Pirtle’s Famous Ice Cream,” Tiffini says of the local treat. “My grandmother used to take my sister and me there growing up, so it was a sweet way to invoke her memory.” —RS

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Shortly after sharing a dance with his mother, Travis and his groomsmen surprised Tiffini with a choreographed routine to the tune of Bruno Mars’s “Marry You.” “I thought we’d do a grand exit at the end, but we were having so much fun that we danced until our venue closed,” she says.

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CEREMONY SITE Piper Palm House,

St. Louis RECEPTION SITE NEO on Locust, St. Louis

PHOTOGRAPHY Stephanie Kaloi

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FLOWERS Afloral.com;

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JUNE 24

• ST. LOUIS

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Drawing inspiration from a colorful Ted Baker clutch the bride spotted while shopping, Esther Wolf (25 and an account manager) and Stephen Sharr (27 and works at Anheuser-Busch) planned a personalized fete filled with soft shades of sage, gold, lavender and pink. Succulents paid homage to the groom’s home state of Arizona, while gilded hops and a growler guest book symbolized Stephen’s career in beer. “I wanted him to feel just as included in the wedding planning as I was,” Esther says. “Our focus was on hospitality and fun.” —RS

With the help of their wedding guests, Esther and Stephen planted a lemon tree as a symbol of their commitment.

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PHOTOGRAPHY Ashley

Fisher Photography As a playful nod to the couple’s initial encounter on Tinder, guests sipped signature “Swiped Her Off Her Feet” cocktails of lavender vodka and champagne. A bar stocked with Anheuser-Busch beer was a must for the groom, who had a craft beer called “His Wolf Pup,” in honor of Esther’s maiden name.

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THEIR STORY For longtime loves Janeé Mitchell (25 and a nanny) and Tommy Haas (25 and an engineer), there was no better site to say “I do” than the oldest building in the city of St. Louis. “We instantly fell in love with the cathedral’s charm and beauty,” Janeé says. “Its downtown location alongside the Arch was perfect, since we invited several out-of-town guests.” The reception that followed at Lumen Private Event Space was just as memorable, thanks to the venue’s sprawling floor plan and dramatic floor-to-ceiling windows. “During our first tour, we were taken aback by the size of the space,” Janeé says. “It was easy to imagine our dream wedding in such a beautiful venue.” —RS

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Lucite accents lent modern appeal to the light-filled loft, where partygoers sampled oysters, crab cakes and a French vanilla confection before taking home indulgent treats from a local candy shop.

“I have a huge obsession with candy,” Janeé says. “A candy bar was a sweet way to end the night.”

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CEREMONY SITE Basilica of St. Louis,

King of France, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Lumen Private Event Space, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Andy Carretto/Carretto

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your just engaged to-dos

You’ve said yes—so now what? Kick off your trip to the altar with these tasks. >>

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There’s nothing more exciting than the first few weeks post-engagement. You’ve got that to-be-wed glow, something sparkly on your finger, and you and your partner are dreaming up all the ways to make your wedding day one to remember.

Start your planning journey with these items and you’ll be ready for “I do” in no time.

Insure your ring No matter how careful you are, you’ll want the peace of mind that comes with knowing your engagement ring is protected, so look into insuring it as soon as possible. There are two basic ways to go about it. The first, you can add it as an extension of your renter’s or homeowner’s policy, which will reimburse you for a set amount of cash in relation to its worth should anything happen to it. The second option is to seek out a company that specializes in jewelry insurance, like Jewelers Mutual, which can offer customizable policies or provide more coverage than a homeowner’s one. >>

engagement party planning 101 You don’t need an excuse for a bash—you’re engaged! Get party ready with these tips.

Take time to breathe

An impromptu gathering the weekend after your partner has proposed is the perfect time to break out the bubbly, but don’t schedule an all-out affair during the first month of your engagement. You’ll want (and need) time to revel in your new status. Plan to have an engagement party two to four months after the question was popped.

Figure out your guest list

Everyone invited to the engagement party should be on the wedding guest list as well. Otherwise, guests may wonder what they did at the engagement party to insult you. If you decide to keep your wedding guest list small but want to throw an extravagant engagement party, go for it. Just let people know the main event will be intimate so no feelings will be hurt.

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Register for gifts beforehand

Guest aren’t traditionally required to bring presents to an engagement party, but there’s always the chance someone will want to. It’s smart to stock your registry early and provide those wishing to gift you something with a bit of guidance. Register for gifts in the low to middle range and save the bigger ticket items for closer to the shower and wedding—after all, a $500 cappuccino machine is not your typical engagement present. If some guests arrive bearing gifts, unwrap them after the party, so people who came empty-handed won’t feel bad.

Remind yourself there’s still a wedding to enjoy

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Every host wants to plan an unforgettable affair, but you never want to upstage the main event. Try to create a different mood for your engagement party while maintaining a style that’s true to you and your partner.

You won’t want to force a casual cookout if you (and your guests) favor formal parties, and vice versa.

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find your “I do” locale

Download The Knot All-In-One Wedding Planner app Our app is an essential ingredient in making these next few months as stress free as possible. You’ll start by taking an image-based style quiz to help you zero in on your wedding vibe and give you a personalized inspo board you can share with vendors, like your florist or planner. From there, we’ll help you stay organized with our step-by-step checklist, land your dream team with custom vendor suggestions based on your budget and location, manage your registry, keep tabs on your guest list and RSVPs, and, finally, construct a foolproof day-of timeline that will keep everything running smoothly. It’s the pocket-size planner you simply can’t head to the altar without.

Map out your budget While it’s not the most fun conversation, a budget talk is important.

Sit down with your partner (and families, if they’re contributing) and figure out how much you’re comfortable spending. It’s helpful to have a general idea of where you’d like to get married and what time of year, so you’ll be able to easily picture how far your budget will go. Once you’ve landed on a number, talk through your day-of priorities to clarify where you envision most of your money going (like you’re willing to splurge on a pricier photographer but sacrifice a bit on your paper goods to make up for it). The more on top of your finances you are before you start planning, the less likely you’ll end up over budget as your day gets closer.

Your venue is the key to all other wedding-related decisions, like your exact guest list count, catering menu, time of year and even décor. Make it one of the first things you book (at least nine months to a full year ahead of time) to ensure you get the look, price and date you really want.

Book your venue Your venue is the key to all other wedding-related to-dos, so it should be one of the very first things you book. Where you decide to host your wedding will likely determine other heavy-hitter decisions, like your exact guest list head count, catering menu and even the vibe of your décor. To ensure you get the look, price and date you want, start browsing The Knot Marketplace or our in-app suggestions at least a year to nine months ahead of your anticipated wedding date (but possibly even earlier, depending on your location, desired date and the venue’s popularity). As you review your options, keep an eye out for sneaky budget busters, like a spot that doesn’t include furniture or tabletop rentals, or rules that could possibly become an issue later on, like an especially early noise ordinance that will end the reception early, or a preferred vendor list that doesn’t permit you to hire your dream caterer. >>

5 times not to wear your engagement ring Keep that rock bright, clean and safe.

1 At the beach

If you lose your bauble in the sand or surf, it’s as good as gone. The second and lesser known reason to avoid bringing it to the beach is because of sand.

The tiny grains can wedge themselves in the ring setting or get under the diamond. Also, don’t apply sunscreen while wearing your ring—it can cloud your stone right up.

2 At the gym

Wearing your ring during cardio won’t do it any harm, but it’s the weightlifting that can take a toll on your hardware.

The pressure of the weight’s bars can bend it, which is especially bad for a pavé setting because the smaller stones can fall out.

Take off the ring during any contact sports, or risk a serious injury.

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3 In the shower

Similar to sunscreen, many soaps, hair and beauty products can cause a cloudy buildup to collect on your stone, or worse, under your stone (which is much harder to clean at home). Shampoos and body washes are all a no-go, as are any hair serums, styling products and lotions you apply throughout the day.

4 In a pool

Losing your ring in a swimming pool (or hot tub) isn’t as big of an issue compared with the open ocean. After all, filters can be checked and, in the worst-case scenario, the pool can be drained. The real issue here are the chemicals often found in pools, like chlorine, which can do major damage and discolor metals over time.

5 While cleaning

Washing your car on the weekend? Cleaning the oven? Bleaching the shower? Take that rock off, please. It’s good practice for anyone (particularly if you’ll be using chemicals), but especially important if your ring has a colored gemstone, as many cleaning astringents can erode the finish and polish on specialty gems.

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Hire your priority vendors

Set up your wedding website

If you can’t imagine your first dance without the acoustics of a certain local band, or you love the portfolio of a hard-to-get photographer, do yourself a favor and act now. Many top vendors are hired more than a year in advance and once they’re booked, you’re out of luck. Figure out what your biggest vendor priorities are and find out their availability as soon as you have a date and venue locked in. That way, you can relax a little and enjoy the rest of the planning process knowing key members of your dream team are already on board. A bonus to booking early: Your primary vendors can recommend other A+ pros they enjoy working with, so ask them for direction on any outstanding hires. They may have insight into the perfect calligrapher for your day-of signage or the florist that will really make your venue come to life.

You’ve nailed down the basic details, so now’s the time to create your (free) personalized wedding website on TheKnot.com. It’s the ideal place to house need-to-know info for your guests, like directions to your venue, a schedule for the weekend, registry links and hotel suggestions. In addition to these practical details, consider adding a few charming customizations to give guests insight into your event (and you as a couple). Provide background on yourself and your soon-to-be spouse, like how you met, your proposal or why your reception locale is special to you. Engagement photos or a who’s who of the wedding party can’t hurt either.

Choose your wedding party Now it’s your turn to propose. Once you and your partner have settled on who you’d like to include in your wedding party, think of a creative or meaningful way to ask. A little thought goes a long way here—you’re asking these people to spend a lot of their time and money celebrating you and your partner in the next year, so treat them to a fun night out, trip to the spa or home-cooked meal before you pop the question. Another perk: The sooner you ask your pals, the sooner you can rally the troops to help with any lingering to-dos, fun projects or planning conundrums that arise.

Create your wedding registry If you’re worried you’ll look greedy or inconsiderate if you set up your registry too early, don’t. With all the parties and well-wishing relatives in your near future, guests will appreciate your foresight.

Have a registry started before the first big wedding event (like an engagement party) or at least before your save-the-dates go out.

Register for more gifts than there are guests on your invite list, and make sure they fall within a variety of price points. Aim for a mix of the practical (a stainless steel cookware set), the pretty (a gorgeous throw for your bedroom) and a few off-beat items (like bikes to enjoy on the weekend or a Newlywed Fund cash registry for your first house). Share the links on your wedding website, and don’t forget to check back in on them periodically.

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the new (and old) etiquette rules The look of weddings may have changed a lot over the years, but proper etiquette never goes out of style. Here, all the ways you need to mind your matrimonial manners on your way to the altar. >>

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Whether it’s about dishing out plus-ones or hunting down missing RSVPs, there are tons of hidden etiquette rules you should follow while on your planning journey. We’ve simplified every scenario to keep your next few months drama-free.

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Cutting your invite list is a common planning pain point—follow this guide to help condense your head count (and minimize stress).

Make an A-list and B-list

You’re probably bursting at the seams to share your engagement with the world. While a social media post may be the most efficient and far-reaching way to get the news out, it’s not the most personal. Before you hit “publish,” make sure you and your partner have told everyone in your inner circle. You likely already have a good idea as to who would appreciate to hear the news directly, but as a rule of thumb, your parents, grandparents, siblings and close friends should all be clued in before your ring hits Instagram.

Your A-list consists of the must-have invites you can’t imagine not being at your wedding, like family members and close friends. Anyone not essential should be added to the B-list. These are people you’d enjoy having at your wedding but who cannot be extended an invite in the first round. If you start getting RSVPs and it turns out you have enough “regrets,” then start sending invites to your B-list in order of importance.

Keep the ring details private

If neither you nor your spouse has ever spoken to, met or heard a person’s name before, don’t invite them.

Second, leave out anyone neither of you has spoken to in three or more years. Finally, if there’s anyone on your list who’s only included because you feel guilty, cut them.

Posting a ring selfie is totally fine, but when it comes to the nitty-gritty details of your new accessory, keep those to yourself.

It’s in poor taste to boast about the size of your stone or how much your fiancé spent—or worse, comment on your dissatisfaction with the chosen bauble. Share a few pictures, but if anyone inquires as to how much it cost or the carat size, politely change the topic.

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pick paper A tangible paper invitation is so much more special and exciting for your guests to open in today’s tech-based world.

If there’s one occasion that calls for a splurge, it’s a wedding.

Send out traditional invites It’s fine if you and your partner would rather send out digital mailings for any of your prewedding festivities (like an engagement party or shower), but when it comes to the main event, paper invitations are a must. In today’s tech-based world, your guests are likely inundated with hundreds of emails each week, so your virtual wedding invite could easily get lost in the shuffle of a packed inbox. Plus, a tangible paper invitation is much more special and exciting for your guests to open—if there’s one occasion that calls for a splurge, your wedding is surely it. But with so many options out there these days, choosing to go with paper wedding invitations doesn’t mean you have to break the bank. From one-click stationery sites to custom, hand-painted suites, there’s a paper solution out there for every couple and every budget. >>

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Set cutting rules (and stick to them)

Go adults only

Don’t feel bad about having an adults-only wedding, whether it’s a budget issue or more a matter of atmosphere. Just be careful to not make exceptions and allow family or close friends bring their kids to the reception while others can’t. Guests might get offended if it looks like you selected which children to invite.

Exclude coworkers

Even if you’re close to your colleagues, you might consider cutting them from the list if you’re in a pinch.

The easiest way to avoid a headache is to not invite any at all, but if you’re close to just a few of your coworkers (you socialize outside the office and regularly text or call them) and everyone knows it, it’s fine to invite them.

Just don’t hand them their invites at work.

Be firm about plus-ones

You should offer plus-ones to anyone who’s married, engaged, living together or in a long-term, committed relationship. Extending a plus-one to everyone in your wedding party is a courteous move they’ll definitely appreciate. Guests who are casually dating, coworkers or single friends whom you’re not especially close to (and will know other guests) don’t require a plus-one.

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Invite (and respond) in a timely manner You’ll want to give loved ones ample time to plan for your day, so be conscious of sending out both your save-the-dates and invitations in a timely manner. Send your save-the-dates out between six to eight months ahead of time, giving guests plenty of time to clear their schedules and make any necessary travel arrangements.

As for invitations, they traditionally go out six to eight weeks before your wedding. If you’re a guest at upcoming nuptials, pay the couple the same respect and send in your RSVP in a timely manner (preferably a few days before the “RSVP by” date). Be sure to answer any prompts on the reply card (like what you’d like to eat) and refrain from texting or emailing the couple about whether or not you’ll be attending. The RSVP cards are there for a reason.

You’re bound to ruffle a few feathers in your planning journey, but make life a bit easier by coming up with some hard-and-fast rules to apply to all guests, no matter the circumstances. If you’ve decided on an adults-only bash, don’t make an exception for the children of one or two close friends—other guests will notice and end up feeling like you singled them out on purpose. The same concept goes toward plus-ones. If a guest isn’t married or in a serious relationship, it’s perfectly acceptable to invite them solo. Most will understand that the absence of “and Guest” or another name on the invite means they don’t have a plus-one, but if they send back an RSVP for two, call and explain that due to budget and/or space constraints, you were not able to invite everyone with a guest.

Create a reasonable registry Gifting is a huge part of the to-be-wed experience (trust us, your guests want to buy you things!), but it can also come with its fair share of uncomfortable moments. You’ll want to set up your registry pretty soon after you’re engaged, especially if you’re planning on having an engagement party. As you get closer to your wedding, check back in on your list and update it periodically to ensure it’s stocked with enough options to suit different price points.

It’s good to have a healthy mix of items in the $100, $50 and under categories, as well as a few splurge pieces for those guests who really want to treat you.

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out-of-the-box activities for out-of-town guests Keep family and friends entertained all weekend long with these fun ideas.

Odds are if guests are traveling for your wedding, they’ll want to see the surrounding city while there. Encourage everyone to play tourist by arranging a guided tour to some of the town’s best landmarks. Whether it’s a coastal boat trip, bike ride or walking tour, a unique experience will have them loving your destination as much as you do.

Treat guests to a cooking class

Ask your favorite local restaurant or café if it offers cooking classes and enroll your loved ones in some midday culinary fun during your wedding weekend. Guests of all ages will enjoy getting a taste of the local food scene, and a good meal is almost always guaranteed to bring about conversation.

Host a cookie and coffee reception

Looking for a way to make all your guests feel included on the night of your rehearsal dinner without breaking the bank? Host a cookie and coffee reception after dinner for a sweet end to the night. The casual yet intimate setting will be perfect for mingling and catching up with everyone before the wedding.

Plan a postwedding good-bye brunch

Extend the celebration one more day and bid guests adieu with a morning-after brunch.

They’ll appreciate a hearty meal before hitting the road, and it gives you a chance to connect with anyone you didn’t get to spend time with the night before. Keep it casual and flexible to respect travel plans (and serve lots of coffee!).

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Whether you’re looking to save a little bit on your budget or just really love the views at your reception spot and want to give guests more time to appreciate them, a sun-filled morning or afternoon event may be something for you to consider. And before you worry that “daytime wedding” is synonymous with “boring,” “bland” or even “brunch,” think again. Like everything else, a daytime wedding is all what you make of it—and we’re here to help you make it awesome.

Analyze your timeline While exact timing may depend on your venue, daytime wedding receptions usually take place somewhere between 11 a.m. and 4 p.m., with your ceremony happening beforehand. When sketching out your timeline for the day, there are a few important factors to consider.

First, inquire with all your vendors what an early start may mean for their costs. If your florist needs several hours to set up and your ceremony starts at 10 a.m., they’ll likely have to get up early to prep or set up the night before, which can cause you to accrue additional costs (same goes for vendors like your caterer, furniture rentals or even your photographer). Past that, try and ensure your early start is reasonable for most guests—the ceremony should begin no earlier than 10 a.m. to give your loved ones who are traveling in a chance to get there on time without waking up at the crack of dawn. Keep in mind, you, your partner and members of your wedding party will also need to set an early alarm in order to get ready in time for a morning ceremony.

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Choose the right venue A daytime wedding has its own unique feel, so when searching for a venue, seek out spots that fit that vibe. A bright greenhouse, refined topiary garden or beachside patio that boasts a seaside view can all feel more properly suited to a sunlit affair than, say, a ballroom. That being said, no space is off-limits, so if you do fall in love with a traditionally evening venue, work with vendors like your florist and planner to bring in decorative touches that make it feel a bit more daytime appropriate.

light-filled locale A daytime wedding has its own unique feel, so seek out a venue that fits a playful, vibrant vibe.

A bright greenhouse, refined topiary garden or beachside patio are all suited to a sunlit affair.

Inquire about pricing breaks If budget is the reason you’re considering a midday celebration, ask about any available pricing breaks as you negotiate your contracts.

Many venues may abide by a lower minimum head count or offer a daytime pricing model. You can also save on things like rentals or catering fees depending on what you serve guests. >>

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Go as formal (or as casual) as you’d like Just because you’re not hosting an after-dark affair doesn’t mean you can’t opt for a formal dress code and aesthetic if that’s the vibe you and your partner prefer. You don’t have to completely forgo any of the more traditional evening wedding additions—just rethink them a bit. If a multicourse sit-down dinner or true cocktail hour is what you’re envisioning, go for it, but make the meal a dynamic lunch feast or brighten up the cocktails with freshly squeezed juices. Hoping to have live music for your guests? A typical 10-piece band and rowdy dance floor may not feel totally right, but a suave jazz quartet, bluegrass crew or playful doo-wop group will be charming and equally as entertaining. When it comes to your colors, vibrant daylight hours call for an equally energetic palette, so play around with adding some saturated hues into your scheme.

Bright pinks, blues, yellows and greens feel right during the day— no matter the time of year. >>

Here’s where to save costs on your wedding.

Decide your priorities

Pick your top three areas of importance (like your gown, catering, and flowers) and allocate a little extra money toward them. Likewise, choose the three things that come lowest on your priority list, and budget accordingly.

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Also consider your wedding party size: Gifts and transportation are cheaper for 2 than 10.

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Reduce costs by choosing flowers that are in season, and pick from locally grown varieties rather than buds that need to be flown in from afar. For example, if you exchange Black Magic roses for deeply colored dahlias in all your bouquets and table arrangements, you could save about $4 a stem.

Simplify your dinner menu

Reduce the number of overall dinner courses (making three fabulous courses costs less than serving five individual courses) and keep your menu simple. Stick with the specialties of the season and region.

Pare down the extras

There are plenty of ways to cut corners that won’t even be noticed by your guests. Have the caterers bring out the fancy Dom Pérignon for the toast, but pour a less expensive champagne the rest of the day— no one will ever see the bottle or know the difference. Likewise, you can order a small, fabulous cake that’s exactly what you want, and have several sheet cakes in the kitchen of the same flavor, cut and plated for your guests.

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Rethink the after-party

If the first thing that comes to mind when we say “daytime wedding” is a steamy buffet of pancakes, eggs and bacon, you’re not alone. It makes sense that a bounty of breakfast foods have become the go-to menu items for an early event, but don’t feel like you’re stuck with all things sweet and syrupy if you’re hosting a daytime wedding of your own. You’ll still want to stray from anything too heavy, as guests typically don’t want to stuff themselves just hours after waking up, but meat carving stations, freshly made pasta, savory flatbreads and veggie-packed frittatas are all great dishes to add to the menu to mix things up a bit. If a traditional brunch is what you’re really craving, look to upgrade some of the classics so they feel a bit more wedding worthy and special. A do-it-yourself waffle station can be a fun (and interactive) addition, while a breakfast sandwich or yogurt parfait bar will also be big hits. And, before you even ask: Yes, you can definitely still serve a cake—trust us, it goes with everything.

With your main event ending in the afternoon, you’ll have plenty of time for partying postreception. Instead of a traditional after-party, plan something unusual for guests, like a poolside cabana bash back at the hotel, a casual barbecue or a bar crawl. If you’d rather spend the evening just you and your new spouse (a night of room service does sound pretty amazing), give guests a few suggestions of what to do after your event on your wedding website, the detail card in your invitation suite or your ceremony programs.

Take advantage of the extra sunlight One of the biggest benefits to a daytime wedding is the extra daylight hours. Work activities into your day that encourage guests to soak up the sun, like a variety of outdoor lawn games. Another perk? Gorgeous light means you’ll luck out with your photos too.

Ask your photographer to stick around for a few “golden hour” couples portraits once festivities wrap up.

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Compatibility with your planner is key. You’ll be spending more time with them than any other vendor, so you want to feel comfortable both with them and their style of working with couples.

Work to find inspiration that’s unique to you as a couple, whether it’s a favorite vacation spot, a beloved heirloom or special literary selection.

Then, carry it through as many details as possible.

Prioritizing your budget will ensure you don’t try and do everything halfway.

Instead, splurge on the things most important to you, like stationery, even if it means trimming back in other areas.

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Daring displays Give partygoers something to feast their eyes on with a wowworthy food display. “Clients are always looking for fresh ideas, and the more visual, the better,” says Peter Callahan of Peter Callahan Catering. Better yet, get guests up and interacting with their surroundings to create a memorable food moment.

MAKE IT YOURS Work with your vendors on an idea that marries charm with an activity, like picking candied apples off a faux tree or choosing a delicious doughnut from a pegged wall.

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Get the party started early by offering beverages before the ceremony while guests await your “I dos.” Refreshing mixers or alcohol-free sips, like sweet tea, will set the mood for your reception and evoke a celebratory atmosphere.

MAKE IT YOURS Have servers pass out mini bottles of champagne (with pretty striped straws, of course) as guests take their seats so they can pop the cork and cheers when you’re officially wed.

Ask these important Qs before you book your pro.

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Roaming dinner Instead of a traditional seated meal, feed guests from a plethora of delicious passed apps, filling small plates and interactive stations.

“Our staff serves guests from barker trays that are tied behind their necks for a fun stadium feel,” says Alison Awerbuch, executive chef and partner at Abigail Kirsch.

MAKE IT YOURS Hire a few expert servers to interact with guests and delight them with everything from oyster shucking and on-site guacamole making to mozzarella pulling on the go. >>

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How many appetizer and entrée choices are included in each tier of catering packages?

Do you provide waitstaff? How many?

(Typically you’ll want three waiters for every six tables.)

Do you provide the alcohol or do we need to handle the bar separately? If provided, what sorts of beverage packages are offered?

How many bartenders are included? (You’ll want to aim for four cocktail waiters for every 100 guests and two bartenders for around 80 guests.)

Can we supply a few of our own spirits? Is there a fee for that?

Do you provide a wedding cake, and if so, do you have a portfolio of designs?

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Cultural cuisine

Family style

Celebrate your dual heritages with a unique menu that fuses both your cultures together (think: Indian cocktail hour meets Southern dinner). You could even go one step further and pair each specialty food with a sip, like mini margs and tacos or sushi rolls and sake.

MAKE IT YOURS The team at Paula LeDuc Fine Catering in California often takes requests to re-create family-favorite recipes.

Ask your caterer if they’d be willing to do the same, then surprise guests with Grandma’s legendary mac and cheese during dinner.

Serving up the main meal of the evening family style (every table passes dishes of mains and sides among themselves) in lieu of a buffet or plated dinner makes for a casual vibe that will get guests interacting. Your reception will take on the effortless, relaxed feel of a dinner party, and guests can sample a bit of everything without having to narrow their selection to one dish or protein.

MAKE IT YOURS Get the best of both worlds with a “European” family-style spin. Every guest selects their main protein (like a traditional beef, chicken, fish or veggie dish), which is plated for them, but the sides are passed around the table for sharing.

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Specialty bars

Take the signature cocktail to the next level by setting up a special spot at your reception (also known as a satellite bar) where you can serve a favorite brew or spirit, like whiskey, gin or trendy Aperol.

Or hire a flair bartender to wow guests with some mixology magic.

MAKE IT YOURS Try a spin on fresh seasonal sips. Paula LeDuc’s staff treats clients to their From the Garden bar, which pairs popular spirits, like vodka and rum, with fresh herbs, edible flowers and house-made juice blends, like strawberry-rhubarb.

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High-end tastes

Lend a luxe feel to your meal with a multicourse (five or more) menu, complete with wine pairings. Complex flavors and intricate plating are surefire ways to impress your guests.

MAKE IT YOURS Tasting menus are known for their unique dish names, so work with your caterer to dream up a personalized menu full of cleverly named dishes that act as a tribute to your story. >>

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Locally sourced

Center your meal around farm-to-table ingredients unique to your reception locale for a fun way to give your loved ones a culinary tour of the area with each bite. Not only will it help you trim down your catering costs by choosing local, in-season fruits and vegetables, you’ll end up with dishes that are more interesting, flavorful and colorful too. To execute, hire a caterer who is willing and committed to serving up a locally focused menu.

MAKE IT YOURS Go for an all-veggie meal. It’s a gutsy choice for a crowd, but when your picks are that fresh, even the most die-hard meat lovers won’t miss their beef. Hire a caterer who specializes in veggie-based dishes—they’ll be able to plan a well-balanced and filling meal that will leave guests satisfied.

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Guests will work up an appetite on the dance floor, so treat them to a second round of bites featuring your fave comfort foods. Casual items like mini sliders and grilled cheese with tomato soup will delight the crowd, and are a great way to cap off the celebration.

MAKE IT YOURS Serve an oldie but goodie: pretzels. The salty treat is the new “it” snack, and even high-end caterers are getting in on the fun. The team at Abigail Kirsch serves them up dangling from clear umbrellas—really! Offer yours alongside a slew of sauces, or package them in wax paper sleeves so guests can easily tote them from the dance floor to the after-party.

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Foodie favors Edible gifts are one thing you can guarantee won’t get left behind.

Thank guests with a beautifully packaged treat reminiscent of your reception locale. Luxe chocolates, homemade limoncello or regional olive oil are all total crowd-pleasers.

MAKE IT YOURS Go for a breakfast theme with baskets of essentials like jam and biscuits, coffee, cinnamon buns and more.

It’s a sweet solution for guests leaving early the next morning.

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keep it in check Four surefire ways to stay on budget with catering without sacrificing taste.

Instead of opting for a premium open bar with every spirit imaginable, offer guests a tailored selection of sips. Beer, wine and two or three batched cocktails will keep everyone happy and help cut down on your bar tab. When deciding what your signature drinks will be, include one or two that have a well-loved alcohol, like vodka or whiskey.

Plan to self-serve

Skip the passed hors d’oeuvres altogether during your cocktail hour and instead pile tables high with beautiful spreads of crudités and dips, plates of artisan cheeses, baskets of gourmet crackers and fresh breads, and mouthwatering bowls of fruit. You’ll save money by cutting back both on food preparation and serving staff— and guests won’t go hungry.

Trim the guest list

We know it’s tough, but one of the fastest and most effective ways to lower your wedding cost is to pare down the invitees (so get out that red pen!). At $100-plus a head for food and beverage costs, taking even just 10 guests off your invite list can save $1,000 or more. Just check with your caterer first—some have a head count minimum you must reach.

Let the chef choose

Your caterer is a pro, so trust they’ll know the best (and most inexpensive) cuts and variety of proteins to choose. Instead of insisting they serve up filet mignon or a pricey branzino, let them lead the way and select the main proteins that will be served up at your wedding. Not only will you end up with the freshest options, you’ll save on costs too.

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We’re going to let you in on a little secret: There are wedding details that aren’t worth losing sleep (or money) over. At the end of the day, the only thing your guests truly care about is celebrating your marriage without going hungry, getting thirsty or feeling bored, so if you’re looking for permission to save some money, we’ve got you covered. Scaling back on these details will help you stay on budget and still throw a bash your loved ones will be talking about for months to come.

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Aisle décor Depending on your chosen venue, you might not need much in the way of ceremony décor—especially if you’re choosing to say “I do” in a pretty house of worship or outdoor space. If you’re dead set on decking out your ceremony space, stick to highlighting the focal point: your altar or arch, not the aisle. The attention of nearly everyone will be on you and your soon-to-be-spouse at the head of the room, so they likely won’t notice (or even be able to see) the hundreds of rose petals intricately lining the aisle. Feel free to disguise an unattractive floor with a jute or silk runner, or light the way to an evening ceremony with lanterns (then use them again at the reception)—but leave it at that. The money you save from not going overboard on the aisle can be put toward giving love to a space your guests will spend more time in.

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Most people don’t know enough about paper goods to appreciate over-the-top selections, so stay away from anything extreme. Instead have fun with smaller elements like stamps or wax seals.

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Over-the-top stationery Your invitation suite is the first glimpse your guests get into your wedding’s style, so it’s important to give a little love and attention to it. However, most people don’t know enough about paper goods to appreciate over-the-top (and expensive) selections like heavy-weight card stock, 14-karat gold calligraphy or real peacock feathers, so skip anything too extreme or indulgent (and remember, the heavier the invites, the more you’ll pay in postage).

Instead, have fun incorporating smaller unexpected elements into your paper goods, like personalized stamps, a wax seal closure or a brightly colored envelope liner. As long as your invites share all the essential information your guests need to know and look pretty enough to hang on their fridge, you’re good to go. >>

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Ceremony programs The simple is better rule applies to ceremony programs too.

If you do opt to hand out programs (a great idea if you’re having a religious ceremony guests may not be familiar with), then keep the design simple. You can even try to order them with your invites or menus to get a bulk discount. Guests will likely glance at them while they wait for the ceremony to begin, then leave them on their seats once it’s time for cocktail hour.

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seat guests drama free The secret to a successful reception is making the perfect seating chart. Here’s how to keep the peace and where to place your invitees.

Start early

Don’t be one of those couples left panicking the morning of because you still haven’t finished your seating chart.

It’s fine to make some last-minute adjustments but try to have it done at least one week before the wedding day.

Break it down

Categorize your guest list by relationship: your friends, your family, your partner’s friends, your partner’s family, family friends and so on. This way, it will be easier to sort guests into the most logical table.

Placing parents

Traditionally, both sets of parents sit at the same table, along with the grandparents and siblings that weren’t in the wedding party.

But, with divorces, stepparents and family drama, some family members might be uncomfortable sitting next to each other. If there are any awkward feelings, consider letting each set of parents host their own table of close family and friends. Place everyone wherever it feels best to you.

Enlist your wedding party

To make all of your guests feel special and included, feel free to place your wedding party strategically throughout the room, focusing especially on the outlying tables. It will make your guests feel like they’re in the center of the action, no matter where they’re seated.

Tame tensions

There may be situations where certain invitees do not get along. Consider these relationships (or lack thereof) before you start making the seating chart, and strategically place any contentious attendees on opposite sides of the room— for everyone’s sake.

Offer some reunion time

Your high school and college cliques will be psyched to see each other again. Place all of your old friends at the same tables, and give everyone an opportunity to reminisce and catch up with each other.

Who knows when you’ll all get the chance to be together again.

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5 ways to keep guests entertained Ensure your bash goes down as the most fun event ever with these easy ideas to keep friends and family engaged the entire weekend.

Kick off your wedding weekend with a casual prewedding mixer. It’s a great opportunity to introduce any guests who don’t know each other yet—this way, they’ll feel like old friends by the time your wedding rolls around.

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Monogrammed favors Fun favors are an added bonus, but something guests won’t miss if they’re not around. This is especially true if you’re planning to monogram the parting gift. Chances are, guests won’t feel like breaking out shot glasses that have your and your partner’s names all over them. When deciding on favors, skip customizing them with your initials or wedding date and instead opt for something edible (it’s the most popular with guests). You’ll save a little cash and entice your guests to actually take them home.

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Elaborate centerpieces The photos of full, towering arrangements look stunning on your inspiration board, but in real life they can be both pricey and potentially difficult to pull off (not to mention conversation stoppers, if guests can’t see each other over them). If all you can swing is tablecloths, farmers market flowers, a little greenery and some twinkling votive candles, no one will bat an eye. Your guests just want an inviting place to sit, eat, sip and laugh.

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A detailed wedding cake Just because you splurge on cascading sugar flowers doesn’t mean your cake will taste good. Intricate designs are stunning, but the flavor of your cake should be the priority. Plus, guests often miss out on getting a good glimpse of the towering sweet due to being on the dance floor or hitting up your photo booth. As long as it looks as yummy as it tastes and there’s a slice for everyone, there’s no need to take out a loan for a crazy confection.

Create a swag suite

Take the welcome bag up a notch by transforming it into a welcome lounge.

Instead of stuffing and delivering gifts for your guests, let them do the work by setting up a room full of goodies and allow guests to choose their favorites.

Supply icebreakers

Help guests get to know each other with simple icebreakers, like party crackers at each place setting with questions hidden inside, or “bride” and “groom” buttons they can grab and wear. The goal: Make conversation and camaraderie easy to come by for a reception that will have everyone feeling appreciated and included.

Hire interactive vendors

Encourage guests to engage with their surroundings throughout your wedding night by hiring a few standout vendors to interact with the group while they’re serving, feeding or pouring for them. Food carts are another great way to get guests up and moving around, so consider doing a four-wheel dessert display or cocktail hour.

Designate a conversation corner

Give guests a place to take a load off during dance breaks by creating a lounge area at your reception. It’s the perfect way to keep everyone in on the party, even when they’re resting or uninterested in dancing—plus it helps to use up any extra space in an especially large venue.

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picture perfect Choosing who will photograph your day is a major style decision for your wedding, right alongside picking your palette or landing your dream venue.

Learn what your options are to help you decide on the right look for you.

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The photography field can be a complicated one to navigate as a newly engaged couple.

With so many unique options out there—and so many talented pros to choose from—it’s hard to decide what look suits your celebration best. We’ve rounded up our best advice to help you figure out your style and make selecting a true-to-you photographer a cinch. >>

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Gather inspiration

Do your research

The first step to finding your dream photographer is a fun one—just get inspired! Spend some time pouring over any and every kind of imagery you love, such as sunny home décor shots, a fashion blogger’s Instagram feed or moody avant garde French movie posters. Once you have a good collection of inspiring photographs, take a step back and try to narrow in on what draws you to them specifically. Is it the soft pastel color palette? The off-the-cuff happy grins of the people in the picture? The interesting angles and perspectives? The more you familiarize yourself with what you like photo-wise, the easier it will be for you to identify that same quality in a potential photographer’s portfolio.

Now’s the time to hit the web to find the pro who will bring your day to life. Browse The Knot Marketplace for photographers in your area and price range, then peruse their portfolios and social media channels to identify if they’re a good fit. How do they capture the moments that are important to you? Have they shot in a venue similar to yours? Do they seem friendly and personable with their online audience? If available, check out the reviews of past couples as well. Then, go ahead and send an introductory email with a bit about you and your soon-to-be spouse, your event and the vision for your day—you can even attach a few inspiration images you love from their portfolio. Be sure to spend some time chatting and getting to know each other on a personal and professional level.

You’ll be spending the most time with them on your wedding day, and you’ll want to feel comfortable as they capture some of your and your family’s most emotionally intimate moments.

Decide on a “feeling” When you’ve figured out what inspires you, dig deeper and dissect what feels most authentic to you and your partner, and how you envision your album looking. If you’re a timeless couple that has their heart set on formal portraits, you may gravitate toward a more classic photography style. If your inspiration was fly-on-thewall images that bottle an authentic moment in time, then lifestyle photography may be the right choice for you. If you fell in love with the sharp and contrast-y editorials of a favorite blogger, then maybe you’ll want to seek out a photographer with a flair for the dramatic.

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Finesse the contract To get the most out of your photography investment, consider several points when choosing your package and reviewing your contract. Most photographers offer a variety of services—including day-of coverage, digital proofs, second shooters, tangible prints and gorgeously assembled albums—and it’s easy to get overwhelmed. >>

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Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom” featuring a 5,000-square-foot “floating” dance floor and 30’ stage. With seating from 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day. Unique individual service provided by the owners.

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4 tips from real photographers Put these direct-from-the-pros tips to work to get pictures you’ll cherish forever.

1 Don’t skip the engagement session

Present your photographer with your budget and see how far it will take you. The number of hours they spend at an event or shots they provide you with may be flexible, so see if you can find a middle ground that works for both of you. Now’s also the time to inquire about the cost of any add-ons you’re envisioning, like retouching services or an engagement session. Ask about any additional fees that could accrue, like having to pay for your photographer’s travel and lodging. Finally, settle on an image delivery date so you know exactly when to expect your shots.

2 Put their knowledge to good use

Prep for the day of

3 Plan for the light

Instead of putting together a detailed shot list for your photographer, pass along your day-of timeline, give them an idea of what images you’d like captured (like a picture with each of your bridesmaids or the flower girl) and let them do their thing. Ahead of the wedding is also the perfect time to give them a heads up on any familial or friendship intricacies they should be aware of, like divorced parents, a grandmother that needs to remain sitting for portraits, or a groomsman and bridesmaid that don’t get along (hey, it happens). If you’re hoping to get your wedding day published online or in a magazine, relay that to your photographer. This way, they’ll put extra emphasis on snapping shots of all your amazing details and will likely come armed with gorgeous styling accessories, like ribbons, linens and more—all with the goal of helping your wedding aesthetic truly stand out.

Be relaxed and ready You’ve put a lot of work into finding the right photographer so, like with all your pros, put your faith in them come the wedding day. In the week leading up to your wedding, confirm all the important details (your venue location, day-of timeline and any surprises you’ve planned for your guests or partner), then chill out. It’s time for you and your partner to enjoy yourselves and get married.

Use your pro as your personal vetting tool and take their advice on who to bring on board. Your photographer will be encountering everyone involved in your day, so it’s in your best interest (and theirs) that they feel confident about your picks. “To make sure my clients will receive the best images they can, I advise on all aspects of the wedding,” explains Jen Huang, a fine art photographer. “This includes helping select their team of vendors—if I know how the other vendors will operate on a wedding day, I can work seamlessly with them.”

When making your day-of timeline, it’s important to factor in the golden hour, that coveted time of day when photographers love to shoot to capture incredible, romantic shots. “Shooting in the best light possible makes all the difference, both for engagement shots and wedding day portraits,” says Kate Ignatowski, a fine art photographer. “A foolproof tip is to schedule about an hour and half before sunset for an engagement session and to start portraits about an hour before sunset on your wedding day.”

4 Don’t try and control everything

All prep work aside, come your wedding day, you’ll need to relinquish control to your photographer and trust you’re in good hands. “Trying to re-create that Pinterest-perfect image you love means we may be missing out on authentic moments, like your mom holding your veil or your bridesmaids tearing up,” Fogarty urges. “Trust your photographer and their eye—if you let your story unfold naturally, your photographer will capture it beautifully.”

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Think of an engagement session as a second date with your photographer. This is your chance to get to know your pro and how they work. “My biggest advice to couples is not to skip the engagement session,” says Elizabeth Fogarty, a fine art wedding photographer.

“Awkward always shows, so this is your time to get comfortable in front of the camera and figure out your best angles—we all have them!”

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Writing your vows may seem intimidating, but the emotional payoff of speaking your own words at the altar is worth it. Here’s how to get your most important speech right. >>

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Unless you and your partner are professional orators, chances are your wedding day will be one of the first times you speak in front of a crowd. And while the spotlight alone may be enough to make you shiver, layer on the fact you’ll be saying some very personal things and you’re bound to put off writing your vows for as long as possible to avoid the stress. Here’s the good news: We’ve got foolproof tips sure to make things a bit easier on you both. (You should have some tissues at the ready, just in case.)

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First things first: Do a bit of reading of other vows or ceremonial speeches to get the creative juices flowing. While we don’t recommend ripping your vows from another couple’s wedding video word for word, it can be helpful to see what others include in their promises to each other. Read traditional, by-the-book vows from your faith or others to see what strikes a chord with you emotionally. You can also keep your ears peeled for meaningful passages or phrases in books, movies or song lyrics (Johnny Cash, Elvis, Beyoncé or even Taylor Swift—we won’t judge). Anything that makes you go “aw” can serve as a jumping-off point for your writing. Once you’ve found a few pieces you love, consider what it is about them that draws you in.

Are they especially sweet or a great mix of funny and heartwarming?

Analyze both the words and the context to come up with vows that feel natural and true to you as a couple.

Agree on a format or tone Before writing your vows, sit down with your partner and discuss how you want your words (and your ceremony) to come across.

Do you picture a laughter-filled event that has your guests rolling?

Or would you rather things take on a more poetic and romantic note? No matter what the two of you envision, it’s good to start writing from that same mind-set so your vows have a similar feel and tone. Now's a good time to go over several important logistics too. Consider whether you’ll be writing your vows separately or together, as well as whether they’ll be completely different or if you’d like to make some of the same promises to each other.

Have a brainstorming session Even professional writers have to take time to collect their thoughts, so you should plan on doing the same. Set aside a few quiet hours (no one writes well in front of Sunday afternoon TV, trust us) to reflect on your history with your fiancé. Think about how you felt when you first met, the silly quirks that made you fall in love and when you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your lives together. Listing it all out, will get your creative gears turning and put you in a loving, appreciative mood perfect for writing. >>

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include your crew There aren’t always enough formal roles in your wedding party for all your buds, so make sure your loved ones feel included with these VIP tasks.

Officiant

If you’re not particularly religious or are planning on a nondenominational ceremony, consider asking someone close to you to do the honor of pronouncing you wed.

This role is best suited for a friend or family member who feels at home in front of crowds.

Bonus: A close pal or relative already knows you well, so you won’t have to worry about the ceremony feeling scripted or impersonal.

Musician

Have a friend who is a virtuoso on the violin or particularly savvy on a set of ivories? See if they’ll share their talents on your wedding day.

You don’t want them as the “entertainment”— that’s no fun for them— but a song or two during the ceremony is the perfect addition.

Readers

No matter what type of ceremony you and your partner choose for your day, it will likely include readings, religious or otherwise. This is a great place to work in a few guests you want to feel special by giving them “face time” in front of the crowd. Make it even more personal by asking them to choose what to read at the ceremony.

Ushers

While the role of an usher is typically reserved for male groomsmen, there’s no rule that says you can’t ask whomever you want to take it on. You’ll want guests to know the ushers are their point of contact before the ceremony, so make them feel special with a standout boutonniere.

Unity “helper”

If you’re planning on doing a unity ritual in your ceremony, task a friend or family member with bringing those items up to the altar and presenting them.

Chuppah holder

In Jewish culture, the chuppah a couple marries beneath represents the home they'll build together. It’s a privilege to be asked to hold or carry a couple’s chuppah, so consider asking loved ones to do the honors.

License witness

After “I do,” you’ll need to sign on the dotted line and make it legal, so think about who you want to act as a witness and give their best autograph on your marriage license.

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Come up with a few meaningful promises Vows are all about making promises, right? So it makes sense to incorporate a few, however serious or playful, into what you write.

Focus on what the union of marriage means to you, and how you can translate upholding that standard into promises you make to your partner, like vowing to always support them, or to be there to lend a sympathetic ear. You can also vow a few silly but significant things to lighten the mood, like promising to make your partner’s favorite peanut-butter-banana shake or watch at least one Star Wars flick a year together.

Give yourselves plenty of time Leaving your vows until the eve of your wedding is a no-no for a few reasons. First off, you and your partner are the guests of honor, and you should be focused on enjoying yourselves throughout the weekend, not scrambling to come up with (and potentially memorize) something special to say in front of 100 of your closest friends and family. In addition, the last thing you want is your partner to sense that your vows aren’t as well thought out or meaningful as they could be. Start the process of brainstorming and writing at least a month ahead of time so when the wedding day arrives, you have nothing to do but speak from the heart.

More and more, couples are looking to incorporate their friends and family into the vows they read aloud at their wedding ceremony. This is especially great if the two of you are particularly close with your loved ones and even credit them with some of your relationship’s success. Get everyone involved by passing around the wedding rings at the beginning of the ceremony and asking guests to imbue them with well-wishes before you present them to each other. Or opt for a “we do” moment during your vows where your officiant can ask those present to promise to love and support you both on your marriage journey. Sharing vows with one another and your closest crew will make the ceremony even more special.

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Keep it short and sweet

Once you’ve settled on the exact words and don’t anticipate any additional changes, create a day-of copy for yourself and tuck it away safely until your ceremony. The reason: Whatever you’re reading your vows from on the altar will likely be photographed, and a paper with a ton of tears, folds or crossed-out phrases just won’t look as nice as a clean, printed copy. You could even take it one step further and invest in beautiful vow books that match your wedding vibe or color palette (like a leather booklet for an industrial bash), or hire a calligrapher to write both your vows in script you can then display proudly for years to come.

The vows are often the most important and anticipated part of any wedding ceremony, but that doesn’t mean they should drag on. If yours are running longer than two minutes, consider putting some of the more personal thoughts into a letter to gift to your fiancé on the morning of your wedding. In addition, be careful not to include anything that feels too “insider” in your vows. If the majority of the people witnessing your union won’t get the joke or something feels a bit too intimate to speak aloud, you’re probably better off including it in the personal card to your spouse-to-be instead.

It might seem a little awkward, but saying your vows aloud a few times ahead of the actual wedding day is really the best way to prep (and get out any lingering nerves). As you recite them, focus on speaking slowly and loudly, and be sure to listen for any tongue twisters or super-long sentences that trip you up, so you can adjust them ahead of time. This is also the time to practice your delivery, so focus on standing up straight and maintaining eye contact with your spouse (if you’re planning on keeping your vows a secret until the day of, practice speaking to your reflection in a mirror).

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No one wants to imagine something going wrong at their wedding they’ve spent months planning, but the fact of the matter is, it can happen. Whether your area has been hit by raging wildfires or your dream venue unexpectedly goes out of business, you and your fiancé will want to do all you can to protect your investment. Prep ahead of time with our wedding insurance primer and you’ll be ready for anything that comes your way.

Wedding insurance 101 Just like you’d insure your car or home, a wedding is something you’ll be putting a lot of money toward—and, therefore, something you should insure in case of any incidents beyond your control.

Having wedding insurance can protect you against everything, including a lost dress on the way to your destination wedding, a major hurricane that unexpectedly destroys key parts of your venue, or a baker who suddenly gets sick and can’t fulfill their duties. In addition to insurance covering your and your partner’s investment in your wedding day (and setting your mind at ease), it can also sometimes be deemed a legal necessity by the venue you choose. Many locations are already self-insured, but may require couples to take out an additional liability insurance policy (in case there’s a medical emergency or damage occurs during your wedding) to rent the space for their event. Before signing on the dotted line, ask your venue (or any major vendors) if insurance is required—and plan accordingly.

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prep ahead Wherever you opt to get your insurance from, go into the conversation armed with essential information, like your budget, approximate guest count and venue. This way, you can obtain a quick and accurate quote for coverage.

How to shop Consider several key things when seeking out your day-of coverage.

First, look for a company that’s well versed in offering true wedding day insurance. The more familiar they are with to-be-weds, the more likely they can help you choose a comprehensive package that leaves you without worry. Wedding-centric companies, like WedSafe, cater specifically to couples on their way to the altar and have policies like cancellation insurance that protect against occurrences like a sudden illness or vendor bankruptcy. If you already have an insurance policy on your home or physical property through a company like Allstate, you could also add wedding insurance via a rider or additional liability policy. No matter where you opt to insure, go into talks armed with a general idea of your budget, guest count and venue so you can obtain a quick and accurate quote. Policies can start as low as $200, so it’s an easy (and affordable) way to safeguard all the time, energy and, yes, money you’ve put into your day. >>

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What can it cover?

Before purchasing a policy, check in with each of the outside companies you’ve hired for your day to see how well they’re covered. Ask your vendors for a copy of their policy, then work with an insurance pro to figure out where you aren’t fully covered or where you’d like to expand your coverage. A few common scenarios that wedding insurance often encompasses include: SITE OR VENUE MISHAPS Cover the cost from an unavoidable cancellation, such as damage or inaccessibility to the ceremony or reception site. If your venue is unable to honor your booking because it has experienced a fire, a power outage or just closed down, you’ll want to know your investment is covered.

INCLEMENT WEATHER The majority of policies protect against

VENDOR NO -SHOWS You trust your team of experts—and that’s essential—but life happens, and if an integral vendor (think: your caterer or officiant) fails to show up, wedding insurance can cover the cancellation or postponement of the wedding for this reason.

Couples can also take out supplemental policies to defend against various other vendor-related “damages” that may occur, such as the loss of original photography negatives before delivery.

GIFTS Whether they’re mailed to your home or handed to you at your shower or on your wedding day, valuable items like gifts (hello, KitchenAid mixer!) are something you may want to consider insuring. Gift coverage pays to repair or replace nonmonetary gifts that are lost, stolen or damaged, with a few stipulations. A police report is usually required to make a claim on any stolen gifts, and the damage or theft in question generally has to have taken place within a limited time period before or after the wedding in order to be covered (so your shower six months before may not count).

AT TIRE Coverage on your wedding attire pays to repair or replace your gown, suit or other special items when they are in your possession and are lost, stolen or damaged. Special attire usually includes clothing and accessories bought or rented that the couple and their attendants wear at the ceremony. You can also look into insuring your wedding bands and engagement ring, if you haven’t done so already. (Hint: You should do that ASAP!)

Prep beyond insurance coverage Electing to have insurance coverage is a huge step toward a safe and secure wedding day, but it’s smart have a few “doomsday” procedures in the back of your mind just in case disaster (man made or nature made) strikes. First and foremost, you should always have a good handle on every wedding-related contract you’ve signed. Keep them all at the ready so you can reference them at a moment’s notice if necessary. The fine print will lend insight into stipulations like whether your venue is allowed to reschedule your day with little-to-no notice, or if your photographer is required to provide you with a backup vendor in the case of a cancellation. If you’re afraid Mother Nature may rear her ugly head and force the cancellation of your wedding day, save yourself the headache of answering 100 phone calls from guests and designate a phone number your “wedding weather hotline” for the weekend. That way, you can keep guests up-to-date on the wedding plans via voice mail message. Send out a mass email to your guests letting them know they can call that number at any time over the weekend for info on the wedding plans. Lastly, if you haven’t already, consider hiring a planner (or at least day-of coordinator) to act as your human insurance policy. While they can’t provide you monetary coverage, their expertise in any and every type of wedding situation is invaluable, and they’ll often be able to solve problems big and small without you even knowing (or worrying) about them in the weeks leading up to your day.

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Being the focus of attention doesn’t always come naturally to everyone. If the thought of a few hundred of your closest friends and family watching and celebrating you fills you with the bad kind of butterflies, you’re not alone. Instead of letting social anxiety ruin your wedding day (and let’s be honest, the months leading up to it) tackle it head on with these easy and actionable tips from psychologists. We’ll promise you this: There’s none of that “picture people in their underwear” advice in here.

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Go easy on yourself Your first order of business when it comes to wedding day anxiety?

Cut yourself some slack. Whether it’s the first time you’re experiencing this level of social anxiety or it’s a problem you’ve dealt with for years, know that what you’re going through is extremely common. “Anxiety is very prevalent, with 20 percent of the population experiencing it at some time or another,” says Jennifer Shannon, licensed therapist and author of Don’t Feed The Monkey Mind. “Social anxiety and a fear around public speaking is the most common way anxiety manifests itself for most people.”

The days and months leading up to your wedding day are sure to be packed with a lot of decision-making, a lot of commitment and a lot of opinions, so it’s only natural they stir up feelings of anxiety or fear. “Weddings push the anxiety hot buttons of public speaking fears, body image anxiety, performance pressure and more, as well as the fact that you’re making a lifelong commitment,” adds Alice Boyes, PhD, author of The Anxiety Toolkit. “They’re also incredibly expensive, so people want the money spent to be worth it.” Before you do any of the work to get a handle on your social anxiety, it’s important you stop fighting yourself (or worse, punishing yourself) for it. Accept it’s a natural reaction to this stage in your life and taking steps to control it will become much easier.

Check your expectations It’s unrealistic to think you’ll head into your wedding day without a trace of nerves, especially if you’re someone who’s typically vulnerable. Instead of setting lofty expectations for your day, Shannon suggests anxious to-be-weds should aim to hit the target, not the bullseye. “People with social or performance anxiety have what I call ‘social perfectionism,’ ” Shannon explains. “Instead of holding yourself to unreasonable standards, make a list of realistic, not perfectionist goals.” Swap the thought that you will need to look completely poised and confident on the day-of and not stutter over your vows with the more realistic (and human) goal of showing up and allowing signs of anxiety or nerves to show, and just focus on making eye contact with your loved ones and smiling.

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5 ways to keep your cool while planning Keep calm and carry on through prewedding chaos with these actionable, stress-relieving tips.

1 Have a tech-free night

Between emails from vendors, calls from your wedding party and constant Instagram inspiration, escaping the stress of wedding planning can seem impossible. Chill out and reconnect with your spouse-to-be by observing at least one tech-free date night a week—no phone, no email and no social media. Trust us, your partner will appreciate the extra attention and quality time together.

2 Learn to meditate

These days, it seems like everybody’s learning meditation to get Zen. Get in on the action by setting aside 5 to 10 minutes every morning to quiet your mind and set an intention for your day. Beginners: Get accustomed to the practice by using a guided meditation app (like Buddhify or Headspace) until you’re a relaxation pro.

3 Pamper yourself

Instead of splurging on a day at the spa, treat yourself to some at-home pampering. Indulge in a mud mask, light some scented candles (lavender is soothing) and run a bubble bath to take your mind off of the chaos of planning for a little while. Your body and mind will thank you for the self-care and you’ll feel refreshed when you inevitably get back to planning.

4 Make time to sweat

Being active is proven to boost your mood, lower stress levels and help your overall health, so make a point to maintain a consistent workout routine throughout the planning process. You’ll feel powerful and motivated— extra points if you include stress-combating yoga.

5 Get crafty

Satisfy your inner artist by immersing yourself in a creative project that has nothing to do with your wedding (that means no DIY party favors allowed!). Put together a relationship scrapbook, paint with watercolors or take a pottery class—anything that helps get your mind off everything wedding-focused. Adult coloring books are another great option that can help you zone out and scribble away the stress.

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perfect from the get-go, you’ll remove a lot of the pressure that could cause you to ruin your own day. “The cost of perfectionism is your wedding will be disappointing on some level, as perfect is impossible,” says Eric Goodman, PhD, a clinical psychologist, anxiety disorder specialist and author of Social Courage: Coping and Thriving with the Reality of Social Anxiety. “The more you’re willing to allow expectations to fall away and anxiety to be just another guest at your wedding, the less of a threat it has to be. Focus on what you want the day to be about, rather than making it about trying to chase off anxiety.”

Set yourself up for success Half the battle of dealing with anxiety of any kind is setting yourself up for success along the way. One of the best ways to do that is decreasing your stress with a series of mindful exercises in the months leading up to your wedding. “Consider developing a meditation or yoga practice,” suggests Marra G. Ackerman, MD, a clinical assistant professor of psychology. “It doesn’t matter whether it’s a deep breathing exercise, mantra or progressive muscle relaxation—knowing what works for you and having practiced ahead of time is key.” Boyes agrees, noting that two to three minutes of slow breathing per day can develop the skill into something you’re able to tap into day-of if anxiety starts to bubble up. “Slowing your breathing is the fastest way to slow down your heart rate and control the other body systems involved in an anxiety response,” Boyes says. Another good idea? Tap a friend familiar with your anxiety struggles to be your go-to throughout the wedding. Having a least one person (beyond your spouse) that’s aware of your struggles can give you a reliable support system.

Plan a right-for-you affair Weddings aren’t one size fits all, and that rule rings even more true when one of the to-be-weds suffers from anxiety. Just because your parents envision a boisterous affair with 200 guests, doesn’t mean that’s what’s right for you, so decide what will make you both comfortable and plan accordingly. “You, not anxiety, plan your wedding and make all relevant decisions,” Goodman explains.

“Plan a wedding based on you and your fiancé’s core values, like a small intimate gathering with your closest friends.” That “us first” mentality can extend to lots of decisions, like the venue you choose (a private garden is more closed off than the grounds of a hotel, which can have unwanted onlookers) and your pros. “Surround yourself with a photographer, makeup artist or officiant whose vibe you find calming,” Boyes says. You’ll feel good about your picks and take one more step toward managing anxiety from the get-go.

Practice ahead of time Experts agree exposure can help improve your day-of anxiety, so do what you can to “call to mind” anxiety-inducing scenarios leading up to your wedding as a way to test your response. “Seek out opportunities to practice being the center of attention, like hosting dinner parties at your house and making the toasts,” Goodman suggests. “By facing your social fears ahead of time, you’ll see that, despite what anxiety tells you, nothing catastrophic happens if you’re imperfect socially. Plus, you’ll build up your anxietytolerance muscles with practice.” Tackling everything from public speaking and displays of affection to dancing in front of a crowd ahead of time will help those anxiety-ridden elements lose their power ahead of your wedding day.

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While fun and exciting, planning a day that’s reflective of you and your partner has its stressful moments. Pile on expectations of parents, new in-laws, family and friends, and the stress can go from manageable to overwhelming. When anxiety starts to get the best of you, it’s worth scheduling five minutes for yourself to sit quietly, be still, refocus your energy and take several full, long breaths. These steps are otherwise known as meditation.

“Not only can a meditation practice reduce and prevent stress while you’re planning your wedding, it can help you truly savor each moment of your special day,” says Colleen Carey, a yoga instructor and wedding officiant. “Practicing meditation is practicing presence and awareness—it’s learning to slow down your thoughts, feelings and experience.”

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Take a step back Organizing your dream guest list sounds like fun, but add in all of your future mother-in-law’s cousins (and their spouses), and the price per head, and this happy time can become a little stressful.

“Meditation can assist you in taking a step back and enjoying the big picture with a bit of detachment,” says Lynne Goldberg, a meditation coach and founder of OMG. I Can Meditate!

You’ll also be able to deal with others’ perspectives a little easier.

After all, getting to know how each other’s families communicate (and realizing your own personal biases and perspective) can be helpful as you navigate all of the relationship dynamics you’re sure to encounter while wedding planning.

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Make better choices It can be hard to think clearly and make decisions that are true to your vision (even if they seem easy), especially when everyone is adding their two cents. But if you meditate for five minutes a day, your mind has a chance to settle down. “When you shake a snow globe, all you see are flakes of snow. But when you let it sit for a minute, it clears up and you can see the landscape underneath—the true picture. Much in the same way, meditation gives us a bit more clarity,” Goldberg says.

Clarity also leads to creativity. With a clear mind, you can meet complicated topics with innovative fixes. “When the time comes to make the often-complex seating arrangements, for example, your brain will light up with all sorts of ingenious solutions,” says Will Schneider, a corporate mindfulness coach. >>

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You’ll slip into a bathing suit and unwind in a water-filled tub infused with ingredients that detoxify and remineralize the skin. The treatment uses water jets to melt away tension.

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Rooted in acupuncture, Ayurveda and yoga, Thai massage is all about flexibility and stretching to relieve any tension in your muscles and joints and create a balance within. A therapist will guide you—fully clothed on a floor mat—into yogalike poses to enhance your energy flow.

Mindfulness massage Feeling super stressed with all your to-dos? Put your worries at ease with a mindfulness massage. It’s a treatment to relax your body as well as your mind. A therapist will lead you through a guided meditation while also calming your muscles through massage techniques for maximum stress reduction.

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“We’ve all heard from brides and grooms about how fast the wedding day comes and goes—and how quickly all that future planning turns into a memory,” Goldberg says. “Meditating during this time will help you enjoy it as it’s happening.”

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Have a daily reflection of intent An intent, which is a positive principle you set for how you want your surroundings and yourself to be, can be a very a valuable tool when it comes to tackling wedding planning. Think of a few intents you want to keep for yourself throughout the months leading up to your wedding day—and then make a commitment to keep them. Some intents could be: Approach any challenge with a calm and positive manner; be present and mindful in the decisionmaking process; and always look for the best in the people around you, whether it’s your partner, planner or parent.

“What’s the attitude and energy you want going into your wedding?” says Tara Brach, a meditation teacher and officiant. “Do you want to be openhearted? Mindful? Forgiving? Clear? Focused?

At ease? Each morning, take a few moments to reflect on your intention in moving through your wedding planning.”

“We’ve heard from couples about how fast the wedding day comes and goes. Meditating during this time will help you enjoy it as it’s happening.”

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“First, meditate together for 5 to 20 minutes to relax and quiet your minds, and then take turns sharing whatever is challenging, exciting or important to you,” Brach says. “Speak and listen from the heart.” This ensures you’re both being honest and that you’re on the same page throughout the entire process—no matter what situations may arise.

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Let go of resentment When you’re knee-deep in dress fittings, seating charts and welcome bags, it often takes just one word or look from a family member or your partner to set you off or make you feel anxious (we’ve all been there). Meditation can help you release any feelings of resentment. “Bring your attention and breath to whatever part of your body feels agitated, angry or vulnerable,” Brach says. “Take a minute to breathe in healing energy, and when you breathe out, release your unpleasant feelings.” And if you’re feeling anxious, quickly inhale and exhale.

meditate on the go These apps will help you get your meditation fix anywhere, anytime.

Headspace

This app is “meditation made simple,” and it’s especially great for beginners.

It’s easy to squeeze in its 10-minute meditation sessions.

Take a break!

These guided meditations offer music and nature audio. Choose from a 7-minute work-break relaxation or 13-minute stress-relief meditation.

Omvana

Omvana’s meditation can be tailored to your stress levels and what you want to accomplish, whether it’s sleep, relaxation, productivity or focus.

Calm

Calm’s mindfulness meditations range in length—from 3 to 25 minutes—and intents, including happiness, relationships and calming anxiety.

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MASTER MIXER Add a juicy pop of color to your countertops with the do-it-all stand mixer that every home cook deems an essential kitchen appliance.

CLINK, CLINK! These elegant crystal flutes make for a lovely reception toast.

Artisan Series 5-Quart Tilt-Head stand mixer in Watermelon, $460, KitchenAid.com

Carina Essence champagne flute, $80, Waterford.com

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CHEF STATUS Stainless steel plus aluminum serves up even heat distribution and

a cook surface that’s forever food safe. And the sleek design is easy on the eyes too.

D5 Brushed Stainless Steel cookware, $1,286 for 10-piece set, All-Clad.com

This suitcase boasts techy add-ons, like Bluetooth tracking, a built-in charger and a handle that doubles as a scale.

TRAVEL BUDDY

A22 Carry suitcase, $295, Raden.com PRETTY PLATES An always-in-style metallic

pattern makes date night in feel special.

Palmetto Bay china, $139 for 5-piece place setting, Kate Spade New York, Lenox.com BOWLED OVER A swirl treatment gives

this staple a modern update. Plus, it’s dishwasher, microwave and oven safe.

Watercolor Collection Blue Lagoon mixing bowl, $10, Pyrex.com

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FANCY FLATWARE Sterling silver is a family-heirloom-worthy splurge.

18th Century sterling silver flatware, -piece setting, Reed & Barton, $850 for 5-piece BedBathandBeyond.com

HOME BREW Your morning cup of joe

will feel even more indulgent when it’s made with an old-school French press.

French press, $50, Chambord, Bodum.com

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FRESH AIR This two-in-one device pumps out hot or cool air and removes over 99 percent of allergens and pollutants in the process. Control it using your phone or Amazon Echo.

Pure Hot+Cool Link air purifier heater and fan, $620, Dyson.com

SWEET DREAMS Sleep Number’s newest mattress model boasts updated SleepIQ technology, which adjusts your mattress position, firmness and temperature for a dreamy night’s sleep.

Sleep Number 360 i7 smart bed, from $3,299 for queen, SleepNumber.com

SMART ASSISTANT Your favorite household helper, Alexa, just got a visual upgrade. Echo’s latest version touts additional screen-savvy features like recipe browsing, video calls, camera monitoring and more. Just say the word.

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Echo Show, $230, Amazon.com

GUARD GADGET Fit this smart lock over your existing dead bolt and control your door via a smartphone, Amazon Echo and more. You can even grant virtual keys to guests, and an activity log tracks who’s coming and going.

Smart lock, $229, August.com

PICTURE PERFECT A modern aesthetic makes this digital frame one you won’t be embarrassed to display. Bonus: It holds unlimited photos and will create and update albums of people and places you shoot most frequently.

Digital photo frame in Ivory/Rose Gold, $399, AuraFrames.com >>

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HOUSE WARMING Live a bit greener with help from this thermostat. It studies your home life, then adapts temps to reflect common habits, like turning the heat down when you leave for work.

Learning thermostat, $249, Nest.com STANDOUT SCREEN Paper thin and with picture quality you have to see to believe, this television is a total splurge gift that sports fans and Netflix addicts can both agree on.

LG Signature OLED TV W-4K HDR Smart TV, from $8,000, LG.com

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Mini smart plug, $35, Wemo, Belkin.com

CHORE TRIMMER Bid farewell to weekends spent mowing the lawn. RoboMow gets the job done for you and avoids destroying your garden beds along the way. Which is more than you can say, right?

CLEVER COOKER Try your hand at the new “it” way of home cooking with this sleek, smartphonesynced sous vide tool. It will make dishes like steak and creme brulee perfectly every time.

RS622 mower, $2,199, RoboMow.com

Joule sous vide tool, $199, ChefSteps.com >>

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GAME NIGHT CLASSIC We’re calling it now—chic board games are the new coffee table accessory.

Swap your usual stack of books for a cool-looking game set, like backgammon, chess or checkers, in a more sleek, modern style. Bonus points if Grandma taught you how to actually play.

Lacquer backgammon set in Emerald, $395, JonathanAdler.com

LET IT GLOW Translucent capiz shells give these candleholders a romantic, intimate light.

Scalloped capiz hurricane pillars, from $88 each, SerenaandLily.com

CHEESE, PLEASE Hosting a wine and cheese night for your wedding party? Break out this pretty marble board for a restaurantworthy presentation.

Scalloped marble serving board, $108, ShopTerrain.com TIP YOUR GLASS These double old-fashioned glasses make for an especially stylish happy hour.

They’re dishwasher safe, so cleanup is a breeze.

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PICNIC ESSENTIAL Use these customizable cornhole boards at your outdoor reception.

Then, break them out later in your backyard.

Cornhole set, $229, Dash and Ash, DenyDesign.com

RETRO TOUCH Spin tunes like your parents did with this record player, which has built-in shock-absorbent feet in case the dance party gets rowdy.

C10 turntable, $430, CrosleyRadio.com

PARKING LOT HERO Achieve tailgate master status with this cult favorite cooler, which has plenty of space for beverages and food.

It will keep everything cold until the final touchdown and beyond.

STATEMENT VASE This glass-and-copper vessel will make even grocery store blooms stand out.

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DO-IT-ALL CART Channel your inner Don Draper with a tiered gilded bar cart that gives any spirit top-shelf status.

Terrace bar cart, $399, WestElm.com STYLISH SERVER This oversize bowl is the perfect place to display fresh fruit or serve up an impressive pasta salad to guests.

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LIGHT THE FLAME Cuddles come easy alongside this cozy portable fire pit. It’s equipped with a sizable copper bowl, where you can burn wood or charcoal—perfect for roasting s’mores.

PREPPY POUR Mix up predinner cocktails for two in style with this timeless nickel-plated and embossed saddle leather cocktail shaker.

Crimson copper charcoal fire pit, $270, BirchLane.com

Cantwell cocktail shaker, $350, RalphLauren.com

DECADENT DECANTER Pour your favorite spirit into this art-deco-inspired piece to class up cocktail hour.

Ford decanter, $35, CB2.com INITIAL IMPRESSION Show off your new monogram on this acacia wood tray.

NAMESAKE NAPKINS These linen cocktail napkins come embroidered with your initials in cool thread colors. They’re the ideal housewarming gift—to yourselves.

Striped square wood tray, $69, MarkandGraham.com

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From weddings to anniversaries, holiday parties to birthdays and everything in between, Whitmoor Country Club, with its elegant clubhouse, lush golf course views and wonderful menu choices, offers you a superb location for all your celebrations. This is the place for festivities that your guests will remember forever.

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TOASTY TOES Treat your feet to a pair of cushy slippers.

Cashmere slippers, $99, RestorationHardware.com

SOFT SHEETS Minimalistic and modern, these simple banded sheets (made from 100 percent organic cotton) are bound to become a bedroom staple.

Banded sheet set in White/Shore, $250 for queen, BollandBranch.com

BLOOMING ACCENT Add a pop of pattern with a watercolor floral throw pillow.

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SCENT-SATIONAL The key to getting a good eight hours may be in this essential oil diffuser.

Add it to your bedroom to diffuse a relaxing oil blend and fall asleep to its built-in sound machine.

Aria ultrasonic diffuser, $297, YoungLiving.com BATH TIME Plush doesn’t even begin to describe these iconic towels from Matouk.

Paola bath towel, $89, Matouk.com

SPRITZ THIS Keep everything, from clothing to bedding, smelling fresh (like clean laundry, to be exact) with this refreshing fabric mist.

Classic linen spray, $16, TheLaundress.com

GET SOME SHUT-EYE Personalized sleep masks are a charmingly cheeky way to get some shut-eye.

Bonus: The kit comes with ear plugs in case your sweetie happens to be a snorer.

Mr. Jet Set travel kit, $58 each, JonathanAdler.com >>

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Willow bicycle in Columbia Blue, from $600, BrooklynBicycleCo.com

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Dinner made easy. Each recipe comes with only what you need, so there’s no waste, and recipes aren’t repeated within a year, so you won’t get bored.

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Coffee lovers, rejoice—you’ll get a box of beans each month from some of Seattle’s best roasters, plus brewing tips and tasting notes.

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CRAFT BEER CLUB

Sip brews from hundreds of craft breweries around the United States.

You’ll get up to 24 beers a box from indie brewers, so whether you like stout or IPA, you’re sure to find a new fave.

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LUXE LOUNGER Available in over 60 gorgeous shades and a variety of fabrics, this stunning sofa will quickly become your favorite spot to chill out.

Caitlin sofa, from $1,800, InteriorDefine.com

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BITTERS AND BOTTLES

Show off your mixology skills at home with this monthly cocktail box, packed with full-size bottles of craft spirits, quality cocktail ingredients (like bitters), plus 10 or more recipes.

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Weekly, biweekly or monthly deliveries of beautiful blooms will keep your home continuously happy.

PICTURE THIS Capture each second of your unforgettable honeymoon (and beyond) with this compact digital camera.

It’s light enough to tote anywhere you go, but delivers super-detailed shots that will look great on your Insta feed.

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QUARTERLANE

Alpha a6000 Mirrorless camera, $650, Sony, BestBuy.com

Stay on top of the latest hot reads with this lit-lover box, which sends the most anticipated fiction books to your doorstep every three months.

QuarterlaneBooks.com

DATE BOX MUSEUM WORTHY Bold art is the perfect finishing touch.

Keep newlywed life exciting with this monthly date-in-a-box that will help you plan a fun, fresh evening at home.

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Have it all for your Big Day at the Missouri Athletic Club.

Don’t leave anyone or anything out from your wedding celebration. The Missouri Athletic Club’s timelessly elegant ornate ballroom can comfortably seat up to 400 guests for ceremonies or receptions. Select from delicious menu options ranging from fine dining to wedding cakes and late-night snacks prepared onsite by our award-winning culinary staff. Stay all night; the MAC boasts 75+ hotel rooms to accommodate the newlyweds and their guests. Shuttle service is also available.

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Half the fun of choosing a vacation destination is dreaming up all the gorgeous Instagram shots you’ll take while there. So why should planning your bachelorette party be any different? We’ve rounded up our favorite cities around the country for your getaway, as well as what to do while you’re there. Get ready for a great time (oh, and those likes). >>

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Charleston, South Carolina Why you’ll love it For a trip that bottles quaint Southern charm with all the perks of a modern city (think: shopping, delicious food and good nightlife) look no further than the Holy City. Charleston is made for a weekend away with your pals, and the beauty around the city ensures it will look great on your feed too.

Where to snap a shot In front of the iconic and charming colorful Georgian pastel homes on Rainbow Row or The Battery.

What not to miss The gorgeous 86 Cannon inn is the perfect home away from home for your weekend—if its cozy rooms don’t convince you, the wraparound porch, light blue bikes and resident pups Sully and Gus will do the trick. Peruse the local farmers market at Marion Square, then roam King Street for shopping and dining (Callie’s Hot Little Biscuit is a must-stop). If you’re craving a bit of sand and sun, nearby Sullivan’s Island and Folly Beach promise just that, while a more Zen crowd will love spending the afternoon at the serene spa at Belmond Charleston Place. When it comes to delicious dishes and cocktails, plus a swoon-worthy atmosphere, you can’t go wrong with a night spent at The Ordinary, Husk, The Darling Oyster Bar or FIG. Come morning, sweat out the night before with a class at Urban Yoga Charleston, followed by a true Southern brunch (biscuits and all) at Hominy Grill. Pro tip: If there’s a wait, grab a Bloody Mary from its walk-up window bar.

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Why you’ll love it Plan a trip to vibrant ATX and get ready for all the Country crooners and barbecue you can handle. The hip locale is packed with killer food, great nightlife and enough street art to keep your Insta feed full for months.

Where to snap a shot Pose alongside one of the city’s iconic murals, like the “Greetings from Austin” wall or the “Love is the question love is the answer” wall at 12th and West Lynn.

What not to miss Pile your party into a hip rental house, or go with one of the many boutique hotels, like the colorful Austin Motel, sleek South Congress Hotel or upscale Hotel Saint Cecilia.

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Why you’ll love it If a quaint weekend of R&R is your jam, then this New England island escape is for you. A few days in Nantucket and your feed is sure to be awash with all things navy and white, blooming hydrangeas and charming cedar-shingle homes. May we suggest your group buy matching boat shoes for the trip?

Where to snap a shot On a sunny sail with your best mates.

What not to miss Once you settle into your rooms at one of the island’s sweet hotels (21 Broad, 76 Main, White Elephant and The Pineapple Inn all pack in the charm), head right to local favorite eatery Black-Eyed Susan’s for a hearty breakfast and some people watching. The island is only 48 square miles, so rent bikes from Young’s Bicycle Shop postbreakfast and pedal your way to some of ’Sconset’s most beautiful locations, like Sankaty Head Lighthouse, Cliff Road and Surfside Beach. If the ocean is your preferred method of travel, charter a sailboat through Endeavor Sailing, pop some bubbly and take in the Atlantic coastline from your ride.

Once lunch rolls around, an outdoor spot like Cisco Brewers is a great place to enjoy the afternoon sun and snack on a lobster roll.

Follow that up with a bit of shopping at popular mom-and-pop stores like Current Vintage, In the Pink and The Lion’s Paw, or opt for ice cream in a homemade waffle cone from The Juice Bar. For a delicious dinner, Cru, Galley Beach (ask your waiter to take a group photo during sunset) and The Proprietor’s Bar & Table will be crowd-pleasers whether your pals prefer surf or turf.

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Stroll through SoCo to do some shopping, and get a quick pick-me-up treat from nearby Voodoo Doughnut. For dinner, a big boisterous group will feel right at home at Second Bar & Kitchen, while Eden East promises a farm-to-table meal your girls won’t soon forget. Cap off your night with drinks at Easy Tiger, Whisler’s or Garage, or catch a live show at Broken Spoke. And if you’ve been sipping enough bubbly, you and your crew could even become the stars of the show during karaoke at The Highball.

Why you’ll love it If the thought of whitewater rafting, hiking or craft breweries gets your heart thumping, then Portland should be on your must-visit list. Adventure buddies will go crazy over Portland’s great-outdoors-geared activities, while those seeking a more chill experience will love the hipster scene the city offers.

Where to snap a shot Grab a cone outside local legend ice cream stop Salt & Straw for #foodporn everyone will be jealous of.

What not to miss The centrally located Ace Hotel is an everpopular bachelorette spot, while The Society Hotel and Kimpton RiverPlace Hotel have their own cult followings. Kick off your weekend with a little bit of green time at Tom McCall Waterfront Park, Mount Tabor or Washington Park, where you can catch a glimpse of the internationally acclaimed rose garden (and get some inspo to send to your florist). No trip to Portland would be complete without a little coffee and beer imbibing, so hit up local giant Stumptown Coffee Roasters before taking part in a few brewery tours. Can’t pick from the 60-plus spots in Portland? Book an experience through Brewvana, which gives you a VIP look into stops around the city with their all-access bus tour. If your group isn’t into IPAs, take a pottery or paint class through Carter & Rose, or indulge in a luxurious foot soak and massage at Soakology. Once your stomachs start rumbling, hit up Pok Pok for unique Thai Portland, OR

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dishes, Farm Spirit for a veggie menu that will blow your mind or Departure for some local favorites. End your night with another sweet-tooth fix at Blue Star Donuts or a trip to Multnomah Whiskey Library for the best spirit selection in Portland.

Palm Springs, California Why you’ll love it For a weekend packed with color, personality and sunshine, Palm Springs is your place. Picture this: You and your girls sipping coladas poolside out of cups with flamingo koozies (obviously), then hitting the streets to take in all the food, fun and culture this desert town has to offer.

Where to snap a shot Head to The Saguaro hotel, where guests, day visitors and locals alike can spend time sunning themselves at the playful and crazy-colorful rainbow pool area.

What not to miss Palm Springs has some of the coolest hotels around—Ace Hotel, The Saguaro and the iconic Parker Palm Springs, to name a few—so you’ll definitely want to splurge on a fancy suite as your home away from home for the weekend. Fuel up with a morning iced cold brew from Ernest Coffee, then take in some local mid-century modern architecture with a tour through the Palm Springs Mod Squad. If your group prefers succulents to stylish interiors, then a jaunt through the Moorten Botanical Garden may be more your scene. Follow up with lunch at one of the retro-inspired spots in town, like Cheeky’s, Frankinbun (yes, hot dogs) or King’s Highway. Then, treat your squad to a little pampering at the luxe Palm Springs Yacht Club inside the Parker Palm Springs. Nightfall should find you at Workshop Kitchen & Bar for one of the best meals in town (and enviable interiors), followed by tropical libations at Bootlegger Tiki.

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WHEN TO TR AVEL November to mid-December offers the best weather, and you can usually snag a deal too. You’ll have more competition for pool lounges January to March—its busy season.

WHERE TO STAY Settle into a lagoon cottage at the GoldenEye (from $425, GoldenEye.com) complete with clawfoot tubs, private outdoor showers and unbeatable views of the Caribbean Sea and nearby Santa Maria Island. If you’re seeking a bit of adventure, explore the neighboring Blue Mountains (where Jamaica’s famous coffee beans grow) or take a complimentary sail on the resort’s glass-bottom boat. >> WHY GO

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WHEN TO TR AVEL November to April is peak season but also the best time to visit.

Summer can be warm, and you’ll want to avoid hurricane season (June to November).

WHERE TO STAY Experience the world’s largest open-air marine habitat at The Atlantis Paradise Island (from $399, AtlantisBahamas.com). If you’re looking for activity, there’s no shortage here—play a round of golf, go for a river ride or enjoy a snorkeling adventure. Refuel at one of the property’s 21 restaurants and 19 bars, or try your luck at the resort’s state-of-theart casino.

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The city comprises over 100 small islands and is teeming with history.

WHEN TO TR AVEL September to October brings about comfortable temperatures and fewer crowds, while spring offers some of the best weather.

WHERE TO STAY Located across the water from famed St. Mark’s Square, The Belmond Hotel Cipriani (from $828, Belmond.com/hotel-cipriani-venice; closed mid-November through mid-March) is the lap of Venetian luxury. Enjoy views of the lagoon from pastel-colored suites, or take a dip in central Venice’s only swimming pool. Get pampered at the Casanova Wellness Centre (in the gardens % where the author once wooed of couples want his lovers). For dinner, don’t miss rest, relaxation and Michelin-starred restaurant Oro, the occasional which offers regional specialties activity on their like risotto with sardines. honeymoon WHY GO

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WHY GO This Caribbean island offers equal parts relaxation and adventure with a warm climate year-round. Listen to world-class music during the Jazz Festival in May, or explore the underwater landscape of coral reefs, volcanoes and historic shipwrecks.

WHEN TO TR AVEL May and June offer virtually perfect temperatures and great rates at even the best hotels.

WHERE TO STAY The lush grounds of Sugar Beach, A Viceroy Resort (from $435, ViceroyHotelsandResorts.com/ sugarbeach) are located on a former sugar plantation, within 100 acres of rain forest. Check in to a beachfront bungalow and enjoy a private outdoor shower, Jacuzzi and personalized butler service. Spend your days sailing, scuba diving, hiking or zip-lining. Or simply unwind with the Sulphur Seduction couples treatment, which includes a tour of the island’s active volcano, a sulfur mud bath and a shower from Mother Nature in the breathtaking Toraille Waterfalls. >>

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WHERE TO STAY If you’re looking to relax after your wedding, check in to Zoëtry Agua Punta Cana (from $251, ZoetryResorts.com/agua), an all-inclusive wellness property on the northern coast.

This secluded enclave offers oceanfront suites with sunken tubs and over-the-top service (like a welcome bottle of tequila).

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Punta Mita is home to some of the most beautiful white-sand beaches and crystal-clear turquoise waters—talk about a postcard destination. This low-key fishing village is the perfect spot for a relaxing escape, sans crowds.

WHEN TO TR AVEL Visit January through April to avoid extreme heat and the rainy season (June through October).

WHERE TO STAY The exceptional service at the Four Seasons Punta Mita (from $375, FourSeasons.com/puntamita) sets it apart from other luxury resorts on the island. Take the Ultimate Tequila Tour, where you’ll fly via private helicopter to the Jose Cuervo distillery for a behind-thescenes tour and tasting.

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WHEN TO TR AVEL Summer brings daily rain showers, so plan to visit between November and May. Winter can be cool.

WHERE TO STAY Book the Sky Suite at the Pelican Grand Beach Resort (from $179, PelicanBeach.com), and cozy up in a monogrammed robe. Relax on the nearby private beach, charter a catamaran or enjoy some steamed pork buns and a daiquiri at the oceanside lounge.

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WHEN TO TR AVEL You’ll find friendlier rates and it will be less crowded during shoulder seasons—April, May and September through November—but there’s really no bad time to visit.

WHERE TO STAY The Westin Princeville Ocean Resort Villas (from $265, WestinPrinceville.com) is home to 346 private villas loaded with amenities (think: oversize whirlpool tub and full kitchen) and private lanais. Catch the sunrise at the Na Pali plunge pool, situated 200 feet above the Pacific Ocean, or learn the art of lei making. Two golf courses and a full-service tennis club provide plenty of choices for active travelers.

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WHEN TO TR AVEL Time your visit for July or August for the best weather.

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WHEN TO TR AVEL Palm Springs is a perfect winter and spring getaway. Plan to visit between January and April, when temperatures are warm but bearable.

WHERE TO STAY La Serena Villas (from $289, LaSerenaVillas.com) is the ideal home base. Located in the shadow of the San Jacinto Mountains and minutes from Palm Canyon Drive, the main street is lined with restaurants and boutiques. Pedal into town on one of the resort’s bikes— % that is if you can of couples plan tear yourself to return to their away from your honeymoon destination at a beautiful later date bungalow. Each

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festive fete Having your wedding over a holiday weekend lets you maximize time with loved ones and gives far-flung guests a buffer day (or two) to travel and recuperate.

Plus, it’s perfect for hosting a full weekend of festivities, especially at a resort or in a lively city. Just make sure to offer enough activities and amenities to entertain everyone—they may have turned down other plans to celebrate with you, after all. “If done right, a holiday weekend celebration gives you so many more priceless memories than a one-day party would,” says Lisa Pleasant of Lisa Pleasant Events in Charlotte, North Carolina. Just give guests plenty of notice (it’s wise to send out save-the-dates at least eight months in advance) so they can arrange their trip.

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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details.

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Greene County

St. Louis County

Leavenworth County

Wyandotte County

Madison County

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Recorder of Deeds 940 Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65802 (417) 868-4068 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.

Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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District Court 120 S. Pearl St. Paola, KS 66071 (913) 294-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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Jackson County Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Lafayette County County Recorder 1001 Main St., Rm. 207 Lexington, MO 64067 (660) 259-6178 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Platte County Recorder’s Office 415 3rd St., Ste. 70 Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 858-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.

Jefferson County District Court 310 Jefferson St. Oskaloosa, KS 66066 (785) 863-2461 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Johnson County District Court 100 N. Kansas Ave., Fl. 2 Olathe, KS 66061 (913) 715-3428 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

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Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Shawnee County Clerk of District Court 200 SE 7th St., Rm. 209 Topeka, KS 66603 (785) 233-8200 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.

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Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

County Clerk #10 Public Sq., Fl. 2 Belleville, IL 62220 (618) 277-6600 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m., M–F; 8:30–11:30 a.m., Sat. Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@ theknot.com.

make it known Publications GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

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Lawrence Journal-World

(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044

Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.

Topeka Capital-Journal

(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607

Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.

Wichita Eagle

(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202

Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.

Form: Optional

Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.

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Form: No

There is no charge for this service.

(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050

Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.

Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net

$24.95 for an online announcement.

The Independent

(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111

Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.

Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.

Fees range from $100 to $300.

Kansas City Star

(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd.

Kansas City, MO 64108

Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.

Springfield News-Leader

(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept.

651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806

Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.

Form: Yes

Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.

St. Louis Post-Dispatch

(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept.

900 N. Tucker Blvd.

St. Louis, MO 63101

Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.

Form: Yes

Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.

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Belleville News-Democrat

(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220

Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.

Form: Optional

Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).

Effingham Daily News

(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com

There is no charge for this service.

Mount Vernon Register-News

(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Yes

The photo fee is $10 for black-andwhite and $30 for color.

The Southern Illinoisan

(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902

Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Photos returned with SASE.

The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.

State JournalRegister

(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701

Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.

Form: No

Fees vary by word count and photo.

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(816) 221-4747 902-A Southwest Blvd.

Kansas City, MO 64108

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1808 S. 9th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Located at in historic Soulard, this former church and schoolhouse was built in the 1870s. Today, it’s a destination for wedding celebrations, corporate events and holiday parties. The beautiful patio garden is unsurpassed with fountains, lush greenery and an outdoor bar. capacity 210+ | price $$$$

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the abbott

1901 Cherry St., Kansas City, MO (816) 982-1014 kelly@theabbottkc.com TheAbbottKC.com With stunning vaulted ceilings, whitewashed original brick walls, five elegant chandeliers, polished concrete floors and glass garage doors, The Abbott is a sight to see. The venue is complete with two bars, adjoining lounge, bridal suite, prep catering kitchen and rooftop terrace with fire features. capacity 500 | price $$$

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big cedar

190 Top of the Rock Road, Ridgedale, MO (417) 339-5159 BigCedarWeddings.com Whether you’re imagining an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, your wedding day will be an unforgettable experience. Choose from rustic, luxury venues including intimate patios, charming chapels, a perfectly manicured lawn or a grand ballroom—all with breathtaking views of Table Rock Lake. capacity 400+ | price $$

blue vista

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the bauer

115 West 18th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 984-8533 TheBrideandTheBauer.com Host your special day in our updated, historic art space, and experience our vintage-style patina, spectacular downtown view and unique details—Italian-bulb string lights, picture window seating, exposed brick, salvaged architecture, custom bride’s and groom’s rooms and handmade, artisan furniture. capacity 250 | price $$

the berg event space

1525 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4488 info@bergeventspace.com BergEventSpace.com The Berg Event Space is an urban contemporary loft with city views overlooking downtown, hardwood floors, skylights, exposed brick and more! Plan your rehearsal dinner, ceremony or wedding reception with our experienced staff. Located one block from P&L and the Sprint Center. capacity 250 | price $$$

beyond broadway

112 Sidney Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com

bogey hills country club

1120 Country Club Rd., St. Charles, MO (636) 946-6250 gbroders@bogeyhillscc.com BogeyHillsCC.com From the golf course and waterfall backdrop to the brand-new clubhouse and exceptional food, there is no better location for your celebration. Recently rebuilt, Bogey Hills features hardwood flooring, floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the landscape and more. Our service will exceed your expectations. capacity 300+ | price $$

boo cat club

812 Union Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5521 hello@boocatclub.com BooCatClub.com You’ve been looking for something with a little more personality, intrigue and surprise. We’re glad you found us. Boo Cat Club is devoted to bringing people together in unexpected, extraordinary ways in a space that’s unlike anything you’ve seen before. We’ll give your event a little extra spark. Promise. capacity 250 | price $$

the brass on baltimore

1228 Baltimore Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 221-8986 deb@thebrassonbaltimore.com TheBrassonBaltimore.com

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Deciding to host your ceremony and wedding reception at The Brass on Baltimore will allow you to choose from our uniquely historic and modern accommodations for several hundred guests or a smaller, more intimate group. Let our talented, expert staff work to provide you with the day of your dreams. capacity 300+ | price $$$

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brooklyn hall at enright gardens

2351 North 400 Road, Edgerton, KS (913) 927-2217 | (913) 927-2218 BrooklynHall.com This perfect, romantic wedding and reception location is located in a beautiful rural setting with picturesque, lush gardens abundant with flowers and babbling streams. The pristine Brooklyn Hall is complete with ambient lighting, a bride’s dressing room and serving kitchen. We can make your event just that much more special! capacity 250 | price $$

the brownstone

4020 NW 25th Street, Topeka, KS TheBrownstoneTopeka.com Fusing touches of rustic elegance with the conveniences of modern accommodations, The Brownstone is a one-of-a-kind venue with premier amenities, personal coordination, ceremony packages, bridal lounges and historic architecture. If you are looking for a charming site, then The Brownstone is for you!

Californos hosts receptions and ballroom or courtyard wedding ceremonies in a stunning 1903 Trolley Barn venue in the historic Westport neighborhood, with professional planning, open bars, full-service catering, custom bakery, bistro and bar, saloon and inclusive packages. Hotels are across the street. capacity 488 | price $$

the caramel room at bissinger’s

1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 caramelroom@23cityblocks.com CaramelRoom.com Beaming natural light, hardwood floors and an outdoor terrace with river and skyline views in a chocolate factory is just the beginning of a sweet addiction with The Caramel Room. capacity 300 | price $$$

casa loma ballroom

St. Louis, MO (314) 650-2462 CasaLomaBallroom.com Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom,” featuring a 5,000-square-foot floating dance floor and 30-foot stage. With seating for 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day and unique individual service provided by the owners. capacity 850 | price $$

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brunswick ballroom

427 East 4th Street, Tonganoxie, KS (785) 462-0110 brunswickballroom@gmail.com BrunswickBallroom.com The Brunswick Ballroom is a beautiful wedding and event venue located in historic downtown Tonganoxie, just minutes away from Kansas City and Lawrence.

The historic building has been newly renovated and showcases an over-100-year-old antique Brunswick Princess Bar. Our elegant venue hosts up to 250 guests. capacity 250 | price $$

busch stadium

700 Clark Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 345-9630 specialevents@cardinals.com Cardinals.com/events Busch Stadium’s iconic field and distinct venues offer guests a variety of elegant settings, gourmet dining and panoramic views that can’t be found anywhere else.

Let our experienced and professional staff make your wedding event a once-in-a-lifetime celebration for everyone! capacity 400+ | price $$$

californos westport

4124 Pennsylvania, Kansas City, MO (816) 531-1097 californos1988@gmail.com Californos.com

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catering st. louis events

2141 59th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 961-7588 CateringStLouis.com At Catering St. Louis Events, we focus on your entire event, creating the wedding day magic you’ll remember long after the plates are cleared. We offer many spectacular venues for wedding receptions, ceremonies and rehearsal dinners. Visit our website to see where you’d like to celebrate.

cedar creek

1401 Olive Rd., New Haven, MO (855) 778-7222 weddings@cedarcreekcenter.com VisitCedarCreek.com Located in the rolling hills of Missouri’s Wine Country outside of St. Louis, Cedar Creek’s stunning natural beauty provides a romantic setting for an unforgettable wedding. We offer picturesque options for everything from rehearsal dinners to receptions, along with overnight accommodations for 125 people. capacity 400+ | price $$

cedar lake cellars

11008 Schreckengast Road, Wright City, MO (636) 745-9500 clcevents@cedarlakecellars.com CedarLakeCellars.com Cedar Lake Cellars Winery and Event Venue is surrounded by gorgeous cosmopolitan countryside and

pristine lakes. This hidden gem features two beautiful event spaces, award-winning wine and a full-service restaurant. Just 45 minutes west of St. Louis, it’s the perfect setting for a wedding with rustic charm. capacity 400+ | price $$$

chandler hill vineyards

596 Defiance Road, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2675 events@chandlerhillvineyards.com ChandlerHillVineyards.com With over 100 weddings a year, it’s clear why Chandler Hill Vineyards is “First in Missouri Wine Country.” Our delicious food, award-winning wine and spectacular vistas create an unforgettable experience. We are open year-round and just minutes from St. Louis, Chesterfield and St. Charles. capacity 250 | price $

the charles f. knight center

Washington University, St. Louis, MO (314) 935-4668 jurgensen@wustl.edu Olin.Wustl.edu/knightcenter Located on the campus of Washington University Center, your special day will be a celebration to remember. From the formal grand dining room to the outdoor courtyard, the Knight Center will make your day perfect. All-inclusive wedding packages and special guestroom rates are available. capacity 165 | price $$$

the chase park plaza royal sonesta hotel

212 N. Kingshighway, St. Louis, MO (314) 633-3052 Sonesta.com/chaseparkplaza Our legendary ballrooms offer a graceful, romantic atmosphere worthy of your special day. Say your vows under the soft glow of vintage chandeliers in the Empire Room, celebrate the grandiosity of love under the famed Khorassan Ballroom’s arched ceilings, or enjoy a rooftop view of the city blending classical elegance with art deco style. capacity 500 | price $$$

the cheshire

6300 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 932-7853 sheckemeyer@cheshirerestaurant-stl.com CheshireSTL.com With rich wood accents, vintage stained glass and rustic charm, we provide an intimate setting at a historic venue that marries old and new. Upstairs events are defined by exceptional service and a culinary experience that celebrates seasonal flavors and fresh ingredients from the finest local purveyors. capacity 150+ | price $$$

circle s ranch & country inn 3325 Circle S Lane, Lawrence, KS (785) 843-4124 events@circlesranch.com

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CircleSRanch.com Located in the rolling hills of Lawrence, the Circle S Ranch boasts both indoor and outdoor ceremony venues and a 3,000-square-foot Party Barn that can accommodate all sizes of weddings. Whether your perfect day is rustic, elegant, vintage or anything in between, we have everything you need.

The new Deer Ridge Estate is an exclusive, luxury, romantic, private setting to celebrate your marriage with those you love. With 10,000 square feet of indoor space, 160 scenic acres of outdoor space and spacious bridal and groom quarters, plus guest lodging, celebrate your wedding Deer Ridge style!

Make a St. Louis memory. Showcasing stunning works of art, the Saint Louis Art Museum is an elegant setting for your wedding reception. Events By Panorama executes all details, including catering, bar services, rentals and parking, and Executive Chef Ivy Magruder leads the culinary team to brilliance.

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clayton plaza st. louis

7750 Carondelet Ave., Clayton, MO (314) 727-7434 CPClayton.com What’s your wedding fantasy? At the Clayton Plaza Hotel, we make it happen! Many of our bridal packages include a champagne toast, ice sculpture, a complimentary honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, and many more fabulous options for your own happily ever after.

defiance ridge vineyards

2711 South Highway 94, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2288 DefianceRidgeVineyards.com Our 42-acre property boasts a vineyard, tranquil lake and lush garden landscape. You and your guests will enjoy breathtaking views of the sweeping Missouri River Valley from the terraces, veranda and pavilion at one of the most versatile and adaptable venues in Missouri’s Historic Wine Country.

the coronado

3701 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4346 TheCoronado.com For an event you’ll always remember, and one your guests will never forget, The Coronado is the perfect wedding venue! We look forward to providing you with unparalleled service and creative cuisine in a landmark setting. Recently renovated, The Coronado is the epitome of opulence and an absolute must-see!

the deleon

(816) 377-3932 | (816) 812-3333 yourweddinginkc@yahoo.com TheDeLeon.net The DeLeon is Kansas City’s most unique event space and chapel, with the charm of a Southern mansion but moderately renovated with all of the suites you need for your special day. The outdoor courtyard is now open for ceremonies. Tables, chairs, linens, centerpieces and two planners are included. capacity 200 | price $$

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covo stl

401 Pine Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 455-6313 eventsstl@hellocovo.com HelloCovo.com/saint-louis Soaring ceilings and a spacious layout within a historic downtown St. Louis building make Covo perfect for any size gathering. Our events team helps create your big day your way in our multilevel coworking space dedicated to community, diversity, connection, creativity and embracing life to the fullest.

10018 NW Skyview Ave., Kansas City, MO (816) 215-1118 events@ehpoloclub.com EHPoloClub.com This privately owned 7,000-square-foot mansion sits on a 15-acre estate in the heart of KC. Our location has views of a two-acre pond, waterfront gazebo, registered helipad and so much more. We offer the perfect blend of rustic elegance, state-of-the-art amenities and natural perfection you deserve. capacity 250 | price $$

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dodson orchards

1778 Madison 507, Fredericktown, MO (573) 561-3093 steved314@gmail.com DodsonOrchards.com Travel back to one of Missouri’s most uniquely historic venues nestled in the hidden glades. Be immersed in the tranquil setting overlooking the mountain range, and get lost in the charm of the 100-year-old barn. It’s real, it’s exclusive and it’s yours to be had if you contact us to snag your date!

feasts of fancy

1427 West 9th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 841-0166 jperkins@feastsoffancy.com FeastsOfFancy.com Looking for urban elegance? The Hobbs Building is for people who want a cool, more urban and less traditional location for their wedding, with an outdoor, secluded courtyard large enough for your ceremony.

Visit us in historic West Bottoms – the new Kansas City destination. capacity 300 | price $$$

foundry art centre

520 N. Main Center, St. Charles, MO (636) 255-0270 EXT. 111 events@foundryartcentre.org For your special event, surround yourself with great art and architecture at the Foundry Art Centre. Located in beautiful, historic Saint Charles, the Grand Hall is a stunning setting for weddings and receptions of up to 400 seated guests.

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crown valley winery

23589 State Rt. WW, Ste. Genevieve, MO (866) 207-9463 CrownValleyWinery.com Please consider Crown Country when planning your wedding day. We offer several locations: our winery overlooking lush vineyards, a rustic and elegant outdoor brewery, and Crown Pointe with a beautiful view of the golf course. Local lodging is also available. It’s a destination wedding yet close to home!

Platte City, MO (816) 584-1890 1890KC.com Plan the wedding of your dreams, where you’ll find acres of gorgeous landscape that blends the best of nature and architecture in a sophisticated style. From intimate to large gatherings, wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and parties for any occasion, we can make any event a memorable one. capacity 300 | price $$

816 Allen Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7706 franklinroom@sbcglobal.net TheFranklinRoom.net New owners. New menus. Same beautiful room. We are dedicated professionals with extensive experience in catering and banquets. Our eclectic events and menus will reflect your personal style. We love our brides, our grooms, their families and their friends! capacity 300 | price $$

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deer ridge estate

21107 Donahoo Rd., Tonganoxie, KS (913) 709-8909 celebrate@deerridgeestate.com DeerRidgeEstate.com

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events by panorama, saint louis art museum

One Fine Arts Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 655-5387 erica.stone@cafebonappetit.com SLAM.org/dining

the gallery

61 E. 14th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 216-4798 TheGalleryEventSpace.com Featuring panoramic skyline views, dramatic finishes and a private balcony overlooking the city, The Gallery

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Overlooking the Missouri wine valley and nestled within the wooded Missouri River bluffs, The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel is the perfect location for your outdoor wedding.

Or tie the knot inside our chapel where a cozy reception area allows guests to mingle by the fireplace. The formal ballroom in the lower level is adorned with chandeliers, stone arched bar and fireplace, generous cherry dance floor and large windows with sweeping views of the river valley and surrounding wooded area.

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and vintage charm. Featuring timeless architecture, a dazzling chandelier and a secluded garden, it’s perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The Guild is undeniably the place to create your one-of-akind celebration. capacity 300 | price $$$

gamlin whiskey house

236 N. Euclid Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 875-9500 info@gwhstl.com GamlinWhiskeyHouse.com Gamlin Whiskey House is the perfect spot to host your guests for a spirited celebration! Enjoy modern steakhouse fare paired with our extensive whiskey collection in The Barrel Room or Wine Cellar for a truly unique dining experience. Call us today to begin planning your event—cheers! capacity 55 | price $$$

guymon petro

301 4th Ave., Dodge City, KS (620) 371-7500 mvanosdol@guymonpetro.com GuymonPetro.com We bring your vision to life with our dedicated events team and array of private and semi-private options.

For groups of up to 200 sit-down guests, the second floor features brick walls, exposed rafters and original hardwood floors. With elevator access, this is the perfect venue for all of your guests. capacity 250 | price $$

genesis banquet center & catering

2651 Telegraph Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 894-7073 info@cateringbygenesis.com CateringByGenesis. com We are proud to announce that Genesis Banquet Center & Catering has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We cater receptions of all sizes and budgets at various venues.

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the grand hall at power & light

1330 Baltimore Ave., Kansas City, MO info@thegrandhallkc.com TheGrandHallKC.com From custom banquet chairs to original art deco lanterns, every detail has been artfully chosen and carefully restored to exude classic glamour. With space to seat up to 500 guests, you’ll also have access to our beautifully furnished bridal and groom’s suites and plush seating areas on the mezzanine. capacity 400+ | price $$$

hawthorne house

6008 Northwest Bell Road, Parkville, MO (816) 505-1224 TheHawthorneHouse.com Hawthorne House is Kansas City’s premier wedding and special event facility. Located on 11 beautiful acres in Parkville, Missouri, Hawthorne House has been specifically designed with your wedding needs in mind.

We offer both chapel and outdoor ceremonies, as well as receptions for up to 300 guests.

2319 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 427-6771 kathy@russosgourmet.com RussosGourmet.com The Grand Hall on Chouteau features a beautiful foyer providing ample entry into our award-winning, LEEDcertified banquet room. Our eco-friendly space includes natural light and is centered by a custom stage. We also provide state-of-the-art audio/visual capabilities for memories you may wish to share. capacity 500 | price $$

heart events

1410 South 5th Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 947-8270 events@hscballrooms.com HeartEventsSTL.com We are the leaders in wedding, event and banquet planning in the St. Charles and St. Louis areas. Our venues are unique and beautiful, and can accommodate 100 to 500 guests. Come see why Heart of St. Charles, the Old Stone Chapel and Le Belle Coeur are the most sought-after venues in St. Louis!

heritage event spaces

117 W. Kansas St., Liberty, MO (816) 935-7904 info@heritageeventspaces.com HeritageEventSpaces.com We offer nine locations throughout the Kansas City area, allowing you to create an event that will be uniquely yours and unforgettably special. Locations include venues in Briarcliff, Brookside, Crossroads downtown KC, Lenexa, Liberty, North Kansas City and Westport. capacity 350 | price $$

the guild

1621 Locust St., Kansas City, MO (816) 471-8550 info@theguildkc.com TheGuildKC.com The Guild is a unique venue filled with elegance

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hilton kansas city airport

8801 NW 112 St., Kansas City, MO (816) 801-4014 kfosnaugh@hiltonkci.com KansasCityAirport.Hilton.com Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated ballrooms! All of our wedding packages include waived room rental, linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, stage, servers, special room rates and more! We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages! capacity 400+ | price $$

hilton president

1329 Baltimore, Kansas City, MO (816) 303-1628 marissa.pope@hilton.com PresidentKansasCity.Hilton.com We make your big day unforgettable. The Hilton President is one of Kansas City’s most beautiful venues.

Call, email or stop by for a tour. capacity 300 | price $$$

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grand hall on chouteau

There’s a style for every bride at Hilton at the Ballpark.

The Arch View Ballroom (320 capacity) boasts 16-foot floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the St. Louis Arch, Old Courthouse and Kiener Plaza, while the Grand (650 capacity) and Ballpark (175 capacity) ballrooms offer sophisticated, elegant spaces.

hilton ballpark

1 South Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 641-8837 nwenzel@hiltonstlouis.com HiltonStLouis.com

hilton st. louis frontenac

1335 South Lindbergh Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 993-1100 StLouisFrontenac.Hilton.com Your wedding will be nothing less than spectacular!

Situated in the heart of St. Louis, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac offers classic charm and perfection for your special day. Our team of wedding professionals is devoted to exceeding your expectations and making your wedding dream come true! capacity 400+ | price $$$

the historic post office

122 East Second Street, Ottawa, KS (913) 305-7172 info@historicpostoffice.com This century-old building will add elegance to your wedding day, combining classic restoration with modern amenities. Soaring ceilings, natural light and warm hardwood floors provide a backdrop for any celebration.

A memorable event begins with an unforgettable venue.

See it today. Remember it always. capacity 300 | price $$$

the historic rumely event space

1222 West 12th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4280 events@fullmoonprod.com HistoricWestBottomsEventSpace.com The priceless history of the Rumely Tractor Historic Event Space, with its original tin ceiling, wood floor, exposed columns and antique fixtures, is joined

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the home place at valley view

35920 W. Hwy. T, Camden, MO (816) 550-5798 TheHomePlaceatValleyView.com Surrounded by the breathtaking landscapes and overlooking the Missouri River bottoms, The Home Place at Valley View is the ideal mix of rustic beauty with elegant accommodations. The newly restored barn and picturesque property has a lot of amenities to make the wedding of your dreams. capacity 250 | price $$

edge of the Country Club Plaza, the hotel provides the ideal setting for the wedding couple to begin their new life together in style. capacity 300+ | price $$$

the jayhawk club

Lawrence, KS (785) 842-2929 TheJayhawkClub.com The Jayhawk Club has multiple event spaces and amenities. The Sunflower Room offers golf course views, and The Jayhawk Club has venues for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies and receptions. With exceptional on-site catering menu choices and a picturesque setting, your day will be nothing short of perfect! capacity 300+ | price $$$

hyatt place kansas city/ lenexa city center ballroom

8741 Ryckert Street, Lenexa, KS (913) 742-7777 brooks.sosna@hyatt.com KansasCityLenexaCityCenter.Place.Hyatt.com Whether we’re hosting your wedding reception or just family and friends, guests will appreciate comfortable, functional amenities. Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center will provide a perfect mix of style and service that will exceed guest expectations and create a sensational wedding weekend! capacity 400 | price $$$

your event. Whether a lavish celebration or a more intimate affair, Kansas City Marriott Downtown has the flexible spaces, world-class amenities and expert planners to seamlessly bring every detail of your wedding dreams to life. capacity 300+ | price $$$

kuhs estate & farm

13080 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake, MO (314) 226-0709 info@kuhsfarm.com KuhsFarm.com Our award-winning, secluded and private, client-adored historic estate and farm on the bluffs overlooking The Confluence is 25 minutes from Midtown St. Louis.

On-site wedding and event design is available. By appointment only, please. capacity 400+ | price $$

joule

1419 Carroll, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4300 joule@palladium-stl.com Palladium-STL.com/joule Joule (pronounced Jewel) is a venue that stands alone or adds additional ambience to Palladium Saint Louis.

Once the machine hall for the city hospital’s power plant, an original crane, exposed brick, aged iron and 19-foot windows create a raw, modern, industrial space ideal for any type of event. capacity 100 | price $$

la perla

312 N. 8th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 488-0607 champagnewishesstl@gmail.com LaPerlaStLouis.com Our many years of experience can help streamline your wedding planning. La Perla is a renovated early 1900s bank that has both charm and character. From the original hand-carved wood pocket doors as you enter to the original bank vault turned lounge on the lower level, your event is guaranteed to be unique! capacity 165 | price $

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hyatt regency st. louis at the arch

315 Chestnut St., St. Louis, MO (314) 342-4655 HyattRegencyStLouis.com As the closest venue to the Gateway Arch, our hotel is perfect for your wedding. Our venues range from a rooftop terrace with an illuminated dance floor under the Arch to the Grand Ballroom with elegant chandeliers. Each couple enjoys a customized experience from planning to wedding day assistance. capacity 400+ | price $$$

the journey home

18993 SE 65th Road, Dearborn, MO (816) 501-6350 info@journeyhomeretreats.com JourneyHomeWeddings.com You will love The Journey Home’s estate, with a large colonial home, rustic barn, beautifully landscaped property, overnight accommodations and flexible outdoor and indoor space for a variety of guest sizes and styles. Just north of the KCI airport, The Journey Home is ideal for your wedding day! capacity 300 | price $

innsbrook resort

1 Aspen Circle, Innsbrook, MO (636) 928-3366 EXT. 9884 weddings@innsbrook-resort.com Innsbrook-Resort.com Create a wedding that is yours and yours alone, starting with our customizable packages that are tailored to you!

Innsbrook is the best combination of convenience (as it’s located close to St. Louis) while giving your guests the feeling of being a world away. capacity 300 | price $$

intercontinental kansas city at the plaza

401 Ward Parkway, Kansas City, MO (816) 756-1500 pwelborn@kansascityic.com KansasCityIC.com There is no other wedding like yours and no other venue like the InterContinental Kansas City. Nestled on the

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kansas city airport marriott

775 Brasilia Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 243-1270 joy.winningham@marriott.com Our newly renovated lakeside ceremony site is the perfect backdrop for your “I dos.” The outdoor Patio and Pavilion provide a unique setting, and for a larger affair, our Grand Ballroom will entertain up to 350. Marriott is pro marriage equality. We offer discounted rates for overnight guests and smaller spaces for rehearsal dinners and more.

lachance vineyards

12237 Peter Moore Lane, DeSoto, MO (636) 586-2777 events@lachancevineyards.com LaChanceVineyards.com Whether you choose to relax in the casual elegance of our indoor tasting room or outside on our courtyard patio, partially covered deck or large event tent, we offer guests the best of both worlds: a charming, intimate winery experience with first-class amenities. capacity 300 | price $$

laumeier sculpture park

12580 Rott Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-5276 slayne@laumeier.org Laumeier.org Laumeier Sculpture Park offers one-of-a-kind indoor and outdoor rental spaces set among the Park’s 105 acres and 60 large-scale sculptures, perfect for wedding receptions, ceremonies, showers, rehearsal dinners and similar affairs. Photo opportunities are endless! capacity 400+ | price $$$

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kansas city marriott downtown

200 W. 12th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 855-4465 weddings@kcmarriott.com KansasCityMarriottDowntown.com Kansas City Marriott Downtown is the ideal place for

the legacy at green hills

(816) 204-1629 events@thelegacyatgreenhills.com TheLegacyatGreenHills.com We offer various options to have your wedding, right in the heart of Kansas City. We are located on 38 beautiful acres, lined with trees and a lake, plus an amazing house

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Dine with guests under our pavilion and dance under the stars. Family owned and operated, we provide customized services for each client.

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lemp mansion restaurant and inn

3322 Demenil Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-8024 patty@lempmansion.com LempMansion.com/banquets.html The Lemp Mansion offers the largest privately owned gazebo and tented patio in the city that can accommodate ceremonies for up to 300 guests and receptions of 225. Lemp’s Grand Hall has a beautiful 40x40 rooftop deck for up to 300 guests. The new Lemp’s Loft is an industrial space for events of 50-130. capacity 300 | price $$$

lumen private event space

2201 Locust Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 lumen@23cityblocks.com LumenSTL.com Lumen’s modern style, premium service and contemporary flair just stepped up the game! New silver chiavari chairs, stainless steel bar with chandeliers, updated hardwood floors are just the beginning. No worries—guests still awe over floor-to-ceiling windows and a state-of-the-art LED lighting system. capacity 220 | price $$

the little theatre and grand ballroom at the kansas city convention center

301 W. 13th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 513-5099 | (816) 513-5015 KCConvention.com We have the perfect downtown space for your special day. The Little Theatre is classically beautiful with Italian marble floors and columns and an ornate ceiling from the art deco era. The Grand Ballroom features beautiful views of the city skyline and the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts.

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liuna event center

4532 South Lindbergh Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 226-1010 LiUNAEventCenter.com Share your dreams with us, and we’ll start making them come true. Our room accommodates up to 350 guests.

Whether your dream is for an intimate dinner or a lavish gala for everyone in town, our sterling service sets the tone. Our professional planners will help assist with every detail.

the magic house

516 S. Kirkwood, St. Louis, MO (314) 822-8900 MagicHouse.org From its striking Victorian-style architecture and the whimsical, interactive exhibits to the enchanting gardens that surround it, The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique wedding, reception or rehearsal dinner! capacity 200+ | price $$

magnolia venue & urban garden

601 Walnut, Kansas City, MO (816) 876-1742 info@magnoliavenuekc.com MagnoliaVenueKC.com The Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden offers the best of both indoors and out for your wedding with details including two custom-made wood bars, sliding barn doors and stunning crystal chandeliers. The garden provides a beautiful backdrop for your ceremony or a place for guests to gather under the café lights. capacity 300 | price $$

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lone summit ranch

28701 East Old US 50 Highway, Lake Lotawana, MO (816) 582-8013 LoneSummitRanchEvents.com Established in the early 1900s, LSR sits on 128 acres of gorgeous farmland featuring historic buildings and barns. We provide a beautiful country setting while entertaining with unique wedding sites, delicious catering and a one-of-a-kind honeymoon cottage. We’d love to show you our property! capacity 300+ | price $$$

lost hill lake events

783 Lost Hill Lake Road, St. Clair, MO (314) 599-3690 losthilllakeevents@gmail.com LostHillLakeEvents.com We welcome you to experience our gorgeous Meramec River view and memorable walnut grove. Take photos near our lake or in our fields that shine with the sunset.

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main street abbey

340 S. Main Street, Columbia, IL (618) 612-7206 dustin@mainstreetabbey.com MainStreetAbbey.com A historic staple for over 130 years, The Abbey has since been renovated into one of the area’s premier event spaces. Your guests will be amazed by the striking arched ceilings and radiant original stained-glass windows. Complemented by a gorgeous courtyard, the Abbey is the perfect all-inclusive venue. capacity 220 | price $$$

majorette

7150 Manchester Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5775 hello@majoretteevents.com MajoretteEvents.com If you’re looking to put on a show, then you’ve come to the right place. Majorette is a brand new event space in St. Louis where all of your ideas are possible. Put on

marriott kansas city country club plaza

4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO (816) 303-4581 anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com Marriott.com/mcipl Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers, elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom or the new Plaza Terrace with spectacular views of the Country Club Plaza. Let us create the perfect wedding destination for you. capacity 350 | price $$

marriott st. louis west

660 Maryville Centre Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 514-6120 jselby@stlmarriottwest.com Marriott.com/hotels/travel/stlwe-marriott-stlouis-west Discover the peaceful urban retreat that is Marriott St. Louis West. Our venue adjacent to a scenic lake is perfectly complemented by 14,000 square feet of fully renovated, versatile event space, along with topflight catering and certified planning services for your Chesterfield-area wedding. capacity 300+ | price $$

the martin event space

13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO (816) 739-0804 themartineventspace@gmail.com TheMartinEventSpace.com The Martin is Kansas City’s newest event space. The original Martin City Church has been completely renovated and restored with an outdoor patio. The Martin is more than a venue; it is where memories are made. It is the perfect place for a corporate event, family celebration, wedding or reception. capacity 200 | price $$

meadowview gardens

Serving Greater KC (816) 697-2743 MeadowviewGardens.com Meadowview Gardens offers everything you ever dreamed of nestled in a beautiful rural setting, just 30 minutes east of Kansas City. A wedding and reception venue with on-site flowers, cakes, catering, linens, centerpieces, chocolate fountain, tuxedo rental, fireworks and DJ. capacity 300 | price $$$

missouri athletic club

405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 539-4470 MAC-STL.org Wedding celebrations at the historic Missouri Athletic Club combine two families: elegance and fun, and

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intimacy with festivity. The MAC boasts an ornate ballroom capable of comfortably seating up to 400 guests, an award-winning on-site culinary staff, more than 75 hotel rooms and shuttle service. capacity 400 | price $$$

moulin events and meetings

2017 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4949 | ann@moulinevents.com MoulinEvents.com We are honored that you are considering Moulin to host your wedding reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. You have chosen experienced wedding planners that will deliver unparalleled personal service and menu selections prepared by our professionally trained culinary staff. capacity 300 | price $$$

neo on locust, llc

Metropolitan St. Louis, MO (314) 570-9218 | info@neostl.com NEOSTL.com Located in Midtown St. Louis, NEO on Locust offers spectacular views of Downtown St. Louis and Grand Center with two private event spaces designed to accommodate custom-designed events for larger groups. capacity 500 | price $$$

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3420 Civic Circle, Saint Charles, MO (636) 288-7332 weddings@newtownatstcharles.com NewTownEventPlanning.com With simple elegance and graceful appeal, the venues at New Town provide a unique option for that special day. The true town setting will take guests back in time, allowing for a charming atmosphere. Call today to book an appointment to see what our venues have to offer! capacity 350 | price $$

noboleis vineyards wedding

100 Hemsath Road, Augusta, MO (636) 482-4500 weddings@noboleisvineyards.com NoboleisVineyards.com Looking for your dream wedding in a vineyard? Noboleis Vineyards offers panoramic views of rolling hillsides, while the surrounding vineyards offer the backdrop to an outdoor ceremony and/or a reception for up to 200 people in our tented pavilion. Catering and bar options are available upon request. capacity 200 | price $$

the old post office

815 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 436-0101 | OldPostOfficeSTL.com A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. capacity 300 | price $$

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overland park convention center

6000 College Boulevard, Overland Park, KS (913) 339-3000 mywedding@opconventioncenter.com OPConventionCenter.com We do weddings! But not just any weddings—your day, your way. You control the vision, and we create a breathtaking experience. Our capabilities are limitless, with more complimentary offerings than anyone else— plus an on-site coordinator and catering manager to work with you from start to finish.

pennway place at studio dan meiners

2500 West Pennway, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-7244 DanMeiners.com We are unique in the fact that our entire space can be changed to be the perfect venue. With 8,000 square feet to work with, everything can be arranged to create the exact feel the couple wants for their big day. Round tables with linens, glass top tables and even lounge furniture are all included.

16095 Hwy. W, Clarksville, MO (573) 242-3838 info@overlookfarmmo.com OverlookFarmMO.com Nestled in the rolling hills of Missouri is the ultimate place for an elegant country wedding. We offer farm-totable catering and luxurious lodging. The Overlook, the gardens and the meadow are just a few of the multiple locations at Overlook Farm. We feed the soul in more ways than one.

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piazza messina

5535 State Highway N, Cottleville, MO (636) 232-0109 messina@russosgourmet.com PiazzaMESSINA.com Piazza MESSINA will offer a destination-type setting without traveling hours away. Lakeside wedding sites will be offered on the property, as well as a cottage for the bridal party to use before the wedding. In historic downtown Cottleville, our property is conveniently located and very secluded.

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1400 Park Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4301 Palladium-STL.com A piece of history brought back to life, Palladium Saint Louis is a fusion between old world and contemporary design. An uncommon private event space with room for up to 700, Palladium Saint Louis is the distinctive choice for weddings and events of all shapes and sizes. capacity 700 | price $$$

pavilion 75 event space

7435 Nieman Rd., Shawnee, KS (913) 738-9639 info@pavilion75eventspace.com Pavilion75EventSpace.com Beautiful, personal and unique, the Pavilion 75 Event Space has been serving couples for more than 16 years.

Offering 6,000 square feet of customizable room space, we provide tables, chairs and linens, staffing, full-service bar and dance floor. Come in and see Johnson County’s best-kept secret. capacity 300 | price $$

peabody opera house

(314) 499-7620 PeabodyOperaHouse.com Celebrate the happiest day of your life at Peabody Opera House in the heart of downtown St. Louis. The classical elegance of Peabody Opera House has played host to some of the city’s greatest moments, making it the perfect place to host your unforgettable event. capacity 340 | price $$$

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public media commons

3653 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 512-9021 acarr@ketc.org PublicMediaCommons.org This is an award-winning venue perfect for one-of-akind weddings and receptions. The 9,000-square-foot outdoor space is flanked on two sides by two-story digital screens for creating extraordinary settings, with a performance stage and outstanding sound system.

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palladium saint louis

21421 W. 37th St. N., Colwich, KS (316) 461-5445 prairiehillvineyard@gmail.com PrairieHillVineyard.com We invite you to experience for yourself the Prairie Hill Vineyard at Stockemer Farm, one of the most beautiful venues in Kansas. Our vineyard, a working garden, two small lakes and the largest willow tree in Kansas provide the perfect backdrop for your special event!

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pinstripes

13500 Nall Ave., Overland Park, KS (913) 681-2165 op-events@pinstripes.com Pinstripes.com/events Celebrate sophisticated fun in our warm and inviting 33,000-square-foot indoor/outdoor facility, complete with 16 bowling lanes, 10 bocce courts, exceptional Italian-American bistro and wine cellar, outdoor patio and fireplace that can accommodate groups from 20-250+.

the reserve event space

2000 Grand Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 585-7757 info@thereserveevents.com TheReserveEvents.com The Reserve is a beautiful, urban event space in the heart of the Crossroads Arts District that features wall-to-wall sliding garage doors with stunning views of the downtown skyline. This ideal venue is located just above The Rockhill Grille with two floors of private event space. capacity 200 | price $$

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the piper palm house

4256 Magnolia Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-4454 PalmHouseSTL.org The Piper Palm House, with its distinctive architecture, soaring ceilings and stately windows, is the perfect venue for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or engagement party. Constructed in 1878, the Palm House is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. capacity 250 | price $$

restoration 1894 event space

1 East Kansas Street, Liberty, MO (816) 429-6488 events@restoration1894.com Restoration1894.com Located in the heart of the Historic Liberty Square, Restoration 1894 is the premier Northland venue for your event needs. Features include an open floor plan for up to 275 guests, vintage pressed tin ceilings, exposed brick, chandeliers as well as the beautiful private bridal suite and groom’s room. capacity 275 | price $$

piropos event space

4141 N. Mulberry Drive, Kansas City, MO (816) 741-9800 PiroposKC.com Piropos in Briarcliff Village offers a unique combination of elegance and location that makes it the perfect place for your wedding reception, ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch or other special event. You can have all your wedding celebrations in one location, saving time and money. Your guests will love the convenience and of course, the great food. capacity 150 | price $$$

the rhapsody

2322 East R.D. Mize Road, Independence, MO (816) 795-0777 TheRhapsody.com Affordable elegance. Beautiful floors and archways enhance the Tuscan décor. Indoor/outdoor weddings with beautifully landscaped gardens, waterfall and pergola provide a memorable setting for photographs.

Keep costs down by bringing in your own alcohol and using the caterer of your choice. capacity 275 | price $$

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ritz charles overland park

9000 West 137th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 685-2600 ritzadmin@ritzcharlesop.com RitzCharlesKC.com With more than 16,000 square feet of banquet space, Ritz Charles has the ability to accommodate anything from a small rehearsal dinner to an extravagant reception. Our facility provides an in-house executive chef to meet all your needs for your day. We ensure that your event will be a memorable one. capacity 800 | price $$

rose of the hill by favazza’s

2300 Edwards, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-6003 info@roseofthehill.com RoseoftheHill.com Rose of the Hill, located in St. Louis’ classic Hill neighborhood, maintains many historical features such as the original 35-foot dark wood bar in the bar room, chandeliers adorning the dining areas and the original coat check room. Explore the tradition and history that makes Favazza’s so special. capacity 400 | price $$

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seven t farms

81 East Bacon Ridge Road, Sullivan, MO (314) 225-9734 | (314) 225-9735 events@seventfarms.com SevenTFarms.com This 400-acre farm has all the amenities you would ever want for your wedding. Nestled in picturesque Sullivan, just an hour from St. Louis, this premier venue has on-site catering, heating and cooling, state-of-the-art restrooms, new bridal suites with overnight stays and so much more. capacity 350 | price $$

silver oaks chateau

1168 MO-100, Pacific, MO (314) 280-8890 info@silveroakschateau.com SilverOaksChateau.com Silver Oaks Chateau is one of St. Louis’ most sought after wedding venues. Located on 28 acres, the estate is ideal for outdoor ceremonies, stunning receptions and more! capacity 280 | price $$$

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sophia m. sachs butterfly house in chesterfield

Faust Park, 15193 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 577-0888 | bhevents@mobot.org ButterflyHouse.org The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House in Chesterfield is the ideal location for the wedding of your dreams.

Choose from a number of settings for up to 150 guests including the stone-pillar gazebo in the garden, a deck positioned over a babbling brook or the tented pavilion near the picturesque lake.

stillhouse farms

8521 S. Stillhouse Rd., Oak Grove, MO (816) 301-3306 StillhouseFarms.com This wedding and event space is nestled among treelined rolling hills and sits on over 150 acres. Our venue was a 12,000-square-foot horse barn and riding arena built in 2012, and we have several locations around the property for outdoor ceremonies and events. We offer a full list of preferred vendors.

12031 Lackland Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 576-0400 | emily@russosgourmet.com SpazioWestport.com Spazio Westport is not your typical banquet space.

The Bistro, The Garden Room and Ballroom all have unique features and offer versatile options. Spazio is the perfect venue for your next occasion, with the convenience of an adjoining hotel and ample private parking. Spazio Westport is your space to enjoy! capacity 275 | price $$

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15189 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 615-8344 StLouisCo.com/parks St. Louis Carousel can accommodate a wedding ceremony inside and/or outside the building on our patio. We provide a staff person to run the carousel and allow outside caterers. Call to make an appointment to view. capacity 200+ | price $

st. louis community foundation at #2 oak knoll

#2 Oak Knoll Park, Clayton, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com/venues/the-st-louiscommunity-foundation-2-oak-knoll-park An elegant manor nestled in a park, the St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll is one of two stone mansions built in the early 20th century that resides conveniently in Clayton. Entertaining here really conjures the charm of entertaining in one’s home. This is truly a mansion for your memories! capacity 150 | price $$

the stanley historic space and aspen room

Serving the Greater KC area (816) 600-2065 TheStanleyEventSpace.com All our venues combine modern touches with vintage design. At The Stanley, we strive to give every guest the ultimate experience for memories that will last a lifetime. With the addition of The Kingston Room, The Stanley Event Complex is the place to hold your complete function. capacity 300 | price $$

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spazio westport

(913) 477-7100 mdanler@lenexa.com Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn The Thompson Barn is an exquisite, intimate space, perfect for those looking for a unique blend of modern and rustic for a wedding or reception. A regal historic farmhouse with a gorgeous garden shares the grounds with the renovated barn and spacious, multi-colored brick patio.

stone house of st. charles

4401 McClay Road, St. Charles, MO (636) 317-1222 | ruth@shofsc.com SHofSC.com Have a beautiful outdoor wedding. The Stone House is for the bride and bridesmaids for hair, makeup and photos. The guesthouse is for the groomsmen, with a kitchen area designed for men and a rustic knottypine billiards room that overlooks the courtyard. The Sycamore Hall is a spectacular timber-framed structure. capacity 400 | price $$$

sugar creek vineyards & winery

125 Boone Country Lane, Defiance, MO (636) 987-2400 sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com SugarCreekWines.com Sugar Creek Winery is ready to create your ideal wedding celebration. Our winery offers the perfect venue, and our expert staff will help you add your personal signatures to our spectacular winery overlooking the Missouri River Valley. capacity 200+ | price $$

sunset bluffs venue

1775 Bieker Rd., Washington, MO (314) 660-2210 fredrick@sunsetbluffs.com SunsetBluffs.com This private, natural setting is nestled in the scenic countryside of some of Missouri’s favorite wineries.

Our weekend wedding package includes housing for up to 20 people, breathtaking views and more. Your fully customizable special day awaits. capacity 300 | price $$$

the terrace on grand

1520 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 527-0026 TerraceonGrand.com Kansas City’s most exciting event space, The Terrace on Grand is conveniently located in the heart of downtown. The Terrace offers 5,000 feet of classy, urban, indoor event space, with an exciting roof deck.

Our contemporary, elegant, versatile space will provide the ideal backdrop for your wedding. capacity 220 | price $$

thompson barn

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three barn farm

20955 Missouri W, Clarksville, MO (314) 961-7588 CateringStLouis.com Crystal-blue country skies or a million twinkling stars provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding celebration at this rustic-chic venue! A 1914 dairy barn, a horse barn and a New England–style farmhouse grace the 16 acres nestled among the rolling hills just one hour north of Chesterfield Valley. capacity 250 | price $$$

tiffany greens golf club

6100 NW Tiffany Springs Pkwy., Kansas City, MO (816) 880-9600 EXT. 224 kfrewin@tiffanygreensgolf.com TiffanyGreensGolf.com/clubhouse-info /banquet-info Tiffany Greens is perfect for your Kansas City wedding ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner! Come see our beautiful, newly renovated banquet room, featuring incredible views of one of Kansas City’s top golf courses in a desirable location minutes from Kansas City International Airport and hotels. capacity 200 | price $$

top of the met and kemoll’s italian restaurant

One Metropolitan Square, St. Louis, MO (314) 421-0555 | Kemolls.com Dazzling views of St. Louis’ skyline and riverfront from the 42nd floor, fine food and gracious, friendly service make your wedding memorable and beautiful. Garage parking, all-inclusive packages and reduced-rate dates are available. Kemoll’s, founded in 1927, is family owned and operated. capacity 300 | price $$$

town pavilion

1111 Main Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 701-5038 TownPavilionKC.com Allow the dramatic architectural details of the Rotunda at Town Pavilion to provide the backdrop for your reception. Classic marble floors, a grand double staircase and modern details comprise a truly unique venue. Easy access and convenient amenities will make your event exceptional. capacity 300 | price $$

union horse distilling co.

11740 West 86th Terrace, Lenexa, KS

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(913) 492-3275 events@unionhorse.com UnionHorse.com The Event Space at Union Horse Distilling Company is a unique destination that will serve as an elegant backdrop for your event. At 6,500 square feet, our venue can accommodate anything from rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions. Our three event rooms can be transformed to suit any style or need. capacity 350 | price $$$

uptown theater

3700 Broadway, Ste. 300, Kansas City, MO (816) 753-8665 uptowneventskc@gmail.com UptownTheater.com Your name in lights • Receptions, rehearsal dinners and weddings • Four unique rooms • 25 to 1,200 people • Custom designed banquets, buffets and beverages • Abundant parking • Central location near Westport between the Country Club Plaza and Crown Center capacity 400+ | price $$

the venue at willow creek

Kansas City, KS (913) 568-9535 venue@willowcreekkc.com WillowCreekKC.com This sweet setting is the perfect spot you’ve been wishing for! Our creekside garden ceremony flows seamlessly to our moonlight patio. Guests are invited into our venue for dinner, dancing and so much more. capacity 250 | price $$$

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4800 W. 135th Street (913) 681-8368 TheVenueinLeawood.com Elegant and Intimate....The Venue In Leawood. capacity 300 | price $$$

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Olathe, KS (913) 971-5501 | (913) 971-8753 Two exclusive venues are situated along a bricklined road. The Heritage Center at Mahaffie has a timber-frame design, charming farm grounds and tree-lined paths. The country club setting of the Olathe Community Center features floor-to-ceiling windows framing the stunning fountains and oak trees. capacity 175 | price $$

the view at briarcliff

Inside the Courtyard by Marriott – Briarcliff 4000 N. Mulberry Dr., Kansas City, MO (816) 841-2361 TheViewatBriarcliff.com The View at Briarcliff’s 20-foot floor-to-ceiling windows are sure to amaze your guests upon entry, providing a panoramic view of the Kansas City skyline. Whether your reception includes an intimate party or a sizable

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villa antonio winery

Hillsboro, MO (636) 475-5008 maddy@villaantoniowinery.com VillaAntonioWinery.com Our elegant vineyard venue provides a stunning and romantic setting for your wedding! Your family and guests will have an enchanting experience to remember for years. Enjoy our award-winning wines and exquisite cuisine at your rehearsal or day-after brunch with special and out-of-town guests! capacity 500 | price $$$

the vineyard at riverbend chapel

827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO (636) 390-8600 | riverbendchapel@hotmail.com RiverbendChapelInc.com Imagine exchanging your vows overlooking the picturesque Missouri River bluffs with one of the best views of the river itself! Or, tie the knot inside Riverbend’s beautiful windowed chapel. Indoors or outdoors, the beauty of your wedding will be a lasting, treasured memory for many years to come! capacity 300 | price $$

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visions reception hall

6320 Manchester Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 358-2606 | psolomon@iaff42.org VisionsReceptionHall.com For sophisticated celebrations our banquet room is available for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations, accommodating up to 500 guests.

Convenient central location! capacity 400+ | price $$

voce

212 S. Tucker Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 570-8715 VoceSTL.com Voce can accommodate 150 guests with banquet rounds and in-house linens. Decorate however you like to make your day memorable. Voce has a state-of-the-art, in-house sound system for your reception band, with a stage that can transform into a dance floor. Don’t want the party to end? Celebrate until 3 a.m.! capacity 150 | price $$

whitmoor country club

1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO (636) 926-9622 EXT. 143 sputnam@whitmoorgolf.com WhitmoorGolf.com Our three main dining spaces can be combined to handle up to 400 people. The Trophy Room will seat up to 300 and features a fireplace. You can combine the Trophy Room with The Eagle and Whitmoor Rooms to handle an additional 100 guests. capacity 400 | price $$

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willow

321 North 10th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0430 | events@baileysrestaurants.com WeddingsinWillow.com Willow is a gorgeous new event space from Baileys’ Restaurants featuring floor-to-ceiling windows, stunning branch chandeliers and two floors of seating. With a commitment to unparalleled catering and service, our team is passionate about tailoring each wedding to the couple’s unique taste and style.

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windows on washington®

1601 Washington Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 241-5555 jcornwall@wowbanquets.com WOWBanquets.com From the champagne greeting to the chocolate mint departure, Windows On Washington creates events that are more than memorable. Featuring uniquely styled loft spaces, open-air verandas and city views, our experienced coordinators help you design the event of your dreams with the style and panache you deserve! capacity 400+ | price $$

woods fort restaurant & banquet center

1 Country Club Drive, Troy, MO (636) 462-1628 hcooper@woodsfortgolf.com WoodsFortGolf.com On your wedding date at Woods Fort, you will be surrounded by rolling hills of lush green grass and sparkling lakes. Our newly renovated, modern Fireside Banquet Room is complete with a dance floor, and our excellent in-house culinary staff and seasoned bartenders will accommodate all your catering needs! capacity 150 | price $$

xavier grand ballroom

3628 Lindell Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 427-6771 brenna@russosgourmet.com RussosGourmet.com The Ballroom at the College Church has gone by several names for more than a century. In 1997, more than 5,600 square feet of function space was transformed to rival any ballroom in the city. In the warm light of day or delicate glow of evening, it will frame your memorable occasion with elegant style. capacity 300 | price $$

.zack

(314) 533-0367 EXT. 103 becky@kranzbergartsfoundation.org At .ZACK we have everything under one roof. Share your vows on our rooftop deck, and then move to the Urban Ballroom for your reception featuring exposed brick and panoramic views of downtown. End the evening with an after-party at Sophie’s Lounge. Bridal suite, groom’s room and parking available. capacity 400 | price $$$

all my heart bridal

1551 NE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 600-0651 hello@allmyheartbridal.com AllMyHeartBridal.com AMH is KC’s premier boutique with curves, servicing brides sizes 14-plus. Our intimate setting will provide an unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones.

Our goal isn’t to sell dresses. Our goal is to empower women to feel beautiful and confident on their big day.

We can’t wait to meet you!

amoré bridal and tuxedo llc

18900 Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO (816) 373-7400 amorebridekc@gmail.com AmoreBride.com Exclusive designers, intimate appointments, unique accessories, exceptional service. Awakening the beauty within you…Experience Amoré.

bliss hair studio

12517 S. Rogers Road, Olathe, KS (913) 235-5722 hairbytayloryoung@gmail.com Facebook.com/hairstudiobytaylor I’m in the business of making people feel beautiful, whether it’s on your big day or just every day. I specialize in color and special occasion styling. I also offer hair extensions. There’s nothing like finding the right stylist for you, and I’m hoping to have made that easier for you!

bridal parlour

3630 Green Mount Crossing Dr., Shiloh, IL (618) 622-0880 info@bridalparlour.net BridalParlour.net Enjoy a personalized experience with an expert stylist.

Share your look with your loved ones in a luxurious, laid-back viewing area. This space is filled with gorgeous, one-of-a-kind gowns—made by the most creative designers we could find—exclusively found at our boutique to match your personality.

emily hart bridal

12450 Blue Valley Parkway, Overland Park, KS (913) 681-1500 EmilyHartBridal.com Picking a dress for your special day should be fun and enjoyable. Between our large selection of beautiful designer gowns and the option of having a customdesigned bridal gown by Emily, you are sure to find

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1701 S. LINDBERGH #3 PLAZA FRONTENAC • FRONTENAC, MO 63131 • (314) 569-2111 Stonewater Spa & Salon is conveniently located in Plaza Frontenac next to Saks Fifth Ave. MENTION THIS AD AND RECEIVE A FREE GIFT BAG!

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Crown Country is your perfect all-inclusive wedding destination. Choose from multiple breathtaking locations and have the convenience of lodging on site. Crown Country has the view and qualified experience to make your day “perfect”.

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CAKES • DESSERT BUFFETS • FAVORS

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A W E D D I N G T H A T I S U N I Q U E LY Y O U The award-winning Public Media Commons, located in the Grand Center Arts District, is perfect for unique, one-of-a-kind wedding ceremonies, receptions and rehearsal dinners.

Two-story screens provide a digital canvas for videos and images that can enhance the urban feel of the venue or transform it into an exotic “destination.”

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the gown gallery

1901 Main Street, Loft, Kansas City, MO (816) 361-8111 info@gowngallery.com GownGallery.com Celebrating 25 years of style. The Gown Gallery flaunts a wide and ever-changing array of bridal, bridesmaid, mothers’ and special occasion gowns from leading designers. Follow us on Facebook @thegowngallery and Instagram #gowngallery for what’s fabulous in bridal!

mia’s bridal & tailoring

2235 E. Kansas City Rd., Olathe, KS (913) 764-9114 | sales@miasbridal.com MiasBridal.com Mia’s Bridal is a full-service bridal boutique offering designer dresses and accessories for all members of your wedding party. We also offer tuxedo and suit rentals and sales, plus an all-inclusive bridal package.

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Your questions of “Where do I begin?” and most importantly, “What are my options?” and “Who will see that all this happens correctly?” and more are answered.

spas and located in beautiful Plaza Frontenac. Our 9,000-square-foot facility holds 16 stylist stations, 4 aesthetic rooms, 4 massage rooms, 7 manicure stations, 4 pedicure units and a sanctuary for our spa guests to relax.

white carpet bride

1625 Oak Street, Suite 203, Kansas City, MO WhiteCarpetBride.com We are on-location hair and makeup artists that specialize in weddings. We love weddings! Have a stress-free day and let us come to you to help make you look amazing on the day you’ve been dreaming of since you were born.

white traditions bridal house

827 N. 2nd Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 939-6005 hello@whitetraditionsbridal.com WhiteTraditionsBridal.com We have personally selected our designer bridal gowns and have a friendly staff that is excited to help you look great on your wedding day! You will always remember how beautiful you felt and how your groom’s jaw dropped the moment he saw you! We want to help you find that oh-so-perfect gown.

cakes & caterers

savvi formalwear

10 convenient locations (800) TUXEDO-4 stlservice@savviformalwear.com SavviWedding.com We were voted Best Formalwear Specialist in St. Louis four years in a row. With our local warehouse, you can feel confident your attire will fit perfectly. Schedule a free groom’s try-on in all styles, fits and colors including the Michael Kors tuxedo and Black Label suits! Prices start at $89.95.

savvy bridal boutique

1804 Central Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 859-5699 SavvyBridalBoutique.com Savvy Bridal Boutique is Kansas City’s premier offthe-rack bridal boutique, carrying designer gowns at 30 to 60 percent off retail prices. We sell off the rack as well as ordering brand new from our curated lines.

Savvy Bridal works by appointment. Visit our website to schedule a time!

stonewater spa, salon, & boutique

1701 S. Lindbergh Blvd. #3, Plaza Frontenac, Frontenac, MO (314) 569-2111 admin70097@purebeauty.com PureBeauty.com/stonewater Stonewater is a part of the pure beauty salons and

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23 city blocks catering

(314) 615-2480 23CityBlocks.com 23 City Blocks Catering’s Executive Chef Nicholas Miller crafts from the freshest local ingredients, presenting plates with artistic flair. The Caramel Room and Lumen Private Event Space’s team assures that you and your guests are impressed at every bite. Catering has never tasted so pretty.

the blue owl bakery

1 Ponder Executive Plaza, House Springs, MO (884) 448-4340 info@theblueowlbakery.com TheBlueOwlBakery.com The Blue Owl Bakery provides the perfect options to fit your wedding day! From artistic custom wedding cakes to grand dessert buffets, we can provide something delicious that perfectly fits your wedding style.

brancato’s catering

5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-4707 sales@brancatoscatering.com BrancatosCatering.com Brancato’s Catering provides not only fine food, but service customized to the special event needs of our

customers. From corporate functions to weddings; from backyard picnics to elegant soirees; from hors d’oeuvres to full service meals, Brancato’s Catering offers the finest in event coordination and execution.

butler’s pantry

1414 Park Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7680 info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com From the moment we begin listening to your vision, to the “thank you” of the last guest, Butler’s Pantry is committed to planning and executing your unforgettable wedding. Our sales managers, culinary team and event staff sincerely enjoy collaborating to ensure you can be a guest on your big day!

the cakery

1420 Tamm Avenue in Dogtown, St. Louis, MO (314) 647-6000 info@thecakerybakery.net TheCakeryBakery.net We specialize in cakes, cupcakes and cookies skillfully decorated to your specifications. Our luscious madefrom-scratch buttercream tops all of our creations, making your wedding dessert as delicious as it is beautiful.

ces & judy’s catering

10440 German Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 991-6700 info@cesandjudys.com CesandJudys.com With unlimited options for menus and venues, including St. Louis’ newest premier event space, The Venue at Maison du Lac, opening 2018, we will achieve an event unique to you. Our talented team of chefs and creatives will design a lasting memory your guests—and your taste buds— won’t soon forget.

championship catering

3354 Iowa Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 606-9520 ChampionshipCatering.com Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in St. Louis! We serve quality, phenomenal food at a great price. We cater fantastic venues including 3rd Degree Glass Factory, Casa Loma Ballroom, AERIE’S Terrace, NEO on Locust and many more. Call Chef Larry G to discuss your big day!

gregory’s creative cuisine

4700 Adkins Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 481-4481 gmchef@yahoo.com GregorysCreativeCuisine.com When selecting a caterer for your wedding, you want to be sure that the food will be creative and delicious, the décor will be amazing and your guests will be impressed. At Gregory’s Creative Cuisine, we don’t just create an event, we create an experience.

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• Enjoy our spectacular view from our new hilltop pavilion • Seating 250+ guests • Each guest will have special memories of your day • Take unique engagement photos in our vineyard or on barrels in our wine cellar For a personalized tour or more information please contact Lisa today at sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com

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We’ll help you celebrate.

Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch is the perfect setting to write an exciting new chapter of your personal love story, complete with all the details important to your celebration. Our team of wedding experts offers a fully customized experience for each couple—from service specialists who provide planning support and wedding-day assistance to our award-winning culinary staff who will work with you to create a custom menu and the wedding cake of your dreams. For more information, call 314 342 4655 or visit hyattregencystlouis.com.

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(314) 894-0900 weddings@mcarthurs.com McArthurs.com/weddings.asp Since 1956 McArthur’s Bakery has used only the finest ingredients to craft mouthwatering wedding cakes. We will bake and decorate your wedding cake to your specifications. We want to help make your wedding day the most memorable day ever.

patty long catering

1804 S. 9th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 andrea@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Our passionate chefs hold decades of experience in regional and international cuisine. Our dedicated, innovative event team will partner with you to accomplish your vision. Contact us and you will see how enticing cuisine, impeccable service and breathtaking venues create an unforgettable event.

tivol

Kansas City, MO, and Overland Park, KS (816) 531-5800 | (913) 345-0200 TIVOL.com With locations on the Country Club Plaza and in Hawthorne Plaza, TIVOL has provided an unmatched selection of jewelry and fine timepieces since 1910.

Family-owned for four generations, TIVOL is known for its friendly, approachable, white-glove customer service as Kansas City’s premier jeweler. Financing and layaway options available every day. Apply for the TIVOL credit card on our website.

flowers & décor

russo’s catering

(314) 427-6771 RussosGourmet.com Russo’s Catering is family owned and operated.

We have dedicated ourselves to preparing foods of the highest quality using the freshest ingredients. Our experienced staff will offer you the quality service that you expect and our reputation demands.

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sugaree baking co.

1242 Tamm Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 645-5496 pat@sugareebaking.com SugareeBaking.com We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter. Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!

jewelry

mazzarese

4850 W. 135th St. Leawood, KS (913) 491-4111 info@mazzarese.com Mazzarese.com Our family has been in the jewelry business for four generations. Today, we proudly serve Kansas City with one-of-a-kind pieces not available anywhere else in the Midwest. Whether it’s imported or designed in-house, craftsmanship and quality will always be at the core of the Mazzarese tradition.

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alex waldbart florist

7000 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 644-3566 waldbartflorist@sbcglobal.net AlexWaldbartFlorist.com At Alex Waldbart Florist, you will experience friendly designers, creative ideas, magazine-quality bouquets and service beyond compare. Thank you for choosing us!

buds floral design

St. Louis, MO (314) 371-4646 | hello@budsstl.com BUDSSTL.com It might be an intimate occasion with just close family and friends or a grand wedding with guests arriving from near and far. However large or small the wedding will be, make it beautiful and unforgettable with stylish bouquets, romantic ceremony flowers and fabulous centerpieces from BUDS.

ken miesner’s flower shoppe

9723 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 567-6650 accounting@miesnersflowers.com MiesnersFlowers.com Since 1971, Ken Miesner’s Flower Shoppe has been the destination for discerning brides looking to find the finest flowers anywhere in St. Louis. Our traditions of excellence, superior design and service continue to be our defining hallmarks. We would be happy to set up a consultation!

les bouquets

7905 Big Bend Blvd., Ste. 102, Webster Groves, MO (314) 395-8335 melinda@lesbouquets.com LesBouquets.com Known for our creativity and unique style, we are passionate about providing you beautiful flowers as well as the attention you deserve.

roses & mint

3767 New Town Blvd., St. Charles, MO (314) 502-9950 info@rosesandmint.com RosesandMint.com As a wedding florist, we give each couple a fun, personal and beautiful flower experience. We’re based in St. Charles, and we love working with clients all over the St. Louis area. Learn more about Roses & Mint on our website!

schnucks florist & gifts

St. Louis, MO (314) 997-2444 SchnucksFloral.com At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life!

Our special event coordinators will help you with everything including colors and trends. From elegant to extravagant, you are our top priority when planning your special day!

stems florist

210 Saint Francois Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 972-7836 Stems4Weddings.com Stems Florist, an award-winning professional florist, creating wedding bouquets that are works of art, centerpieces that will keep your guests talking and wedding florals to celebrate your day—for wedding flowers as “unique” as you!

invitations & details

lola louie paperie

St. Louis, MO laura.iffrig@hotmail.com LolaLouiePaperie.com Etsy.com/shop/lolalouiepaperie Lola Louie Paperie is a St. Louis–based paper goods company. Our design aesthetic is clean and modern with romantic touches. All designs are customizable to perfectly represent your unique wedding. We look forward to working with you!

yellowbrick graphics

(913) 309-7889 yellowbrick.graphic@gmail.com YellowBrickGraphics.com YellowBrick Graphics specializes in luxury, handmade wedding invitations and event stationery. From design to full-service assembly, invitations are customized to set the tone for any special event.

Contact us today for a consultation to start your event on the right road!

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entertainment

american bands entertainment

St. Louis, MO (636) 265-0500 info@ambandsentertainment.com AmBandsEntertainment.com At American Bands Entertainment, we don’t just love music—we live it! We live to play it and listen to it— especially live! Our exclusive, premier party bands, artist tributes and decade tributes perform the hit music you want to hear in a dynamic live stage show customtailored to delight your guests.

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Serving Kansas City, St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 721-9090 ContemporaryProductions.com Having a high-energy wedding band that meets your demands is a must. At Contemporary, we always cater to your specific needs. Let us help you discover the entertainer that will keep your family and friends together on the dance floor for the most memorable night of your life.

events by elle

11651 East 350 Highway, Raytown, MO (816) 215-0566 theellegirls@eventsbyellekc.com EventsbyElleKC.com You’re dreaming of your big day that’s full of joy and creativity, a day full of memories for your family and friends to talk about for years to come. We are here to help you plan your wedding with confidence and, of course, personality.

kat gaines events

St. Louis, MO (314) 602-6951 kat@katgainesevents.com KatGainesEvents.com Our services receive praise and raved-about reviews, as we ensure that nothing is left undone and no detail is overlooked. Our events are full of unexpected moments and surprises—which will leave a lasting impression on your guests. This is what makes the Kat Gaines experience unique!

visions kc event services

Lenexa, KS (913) 220-2271 VisionsKC.com You have a vision; we have the décor, staff and coordination expertise to make your event incredible!

Having operated a venue, we have the unique insight of how a facility operates. We have developed close relationships with vendors and are able to guide you through the decision-making process.

photography & video

Don’t be surprised if I tear up during the ceremony, hug you before you go down the aisle or laugh along with you. I can’t wait to meet you!

sara rieth: romantic storytelling wedding photographer

(316) 648-2621 SaraRiethPhotography.com Hey, gorgeous! I’m a natural light lover, a hopeless romantic and a coffee advocate. Located in Kansas, I travel nationwide telling America’s best love stories in happily ever after form. Yours truly, Sara.

still standing photography

(816) 699-4471 jenna@stillstandingphotography.com StillStandingPhoto.com You are my inspiration! I love people and love taking photos. I put my heart and soul into each wedding. My photography style can be summed up in two words: timeless and quality. I only accept a limited number of weddings each year because I take the time to invest in real relationships with my couples.

tower studios

(636) 448-9131 info@towervideophoto.com You’ve picked a dress, a caterer, a reception hall, a DJ—picking a wedding videographer should be easy!

That’s why, at Tower Studios, we’ve designed full-day, no-time-limit packages that will cover your entire day, and paired them with our best editors for a polished, cinema-worthy movie!

specialty services

a bride’s ally

Serving St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 560-4138 victoria@abridesally.com ABridesAlly.com We specialize in day-of coordination and supporting your planning process on your own terms. We’re here when you need us and step back when you don’t. We’re your partner in design and details, your confidant when things get sticky. We are your ally.

ella event planning

St. Louis, MO (603) 848-1257 | meghan@ellaeventplanning.com ellaEventPlanning.com Let us help you plan a wedding of your dreams—one that aligns with your personal tastes, your creative style and your budget. At ella Event Planning, we pride ourselves on our sincere and timely communications, meticulous planning and creative resources. An exciting new choice for St. Louis area couples!

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beau vaughn photography, videography, photobooth and dj

(866) 918-BEAU (2328) weddings@beauvaughn.com BeauVaughn.com Beau Vaughn is your one-stop shopping experience for quality photography, videography, photo booth, slow motion video booth and DJ services. We will create the perfect package for your wedding, so please email us to schedule a free consultation. Check out our unbeatable pricing and services on our website!

noire studios photography

(816) 875-0114 NoireStudios.com My focus for your wedding day is to capture all the moments of love, laughter and fun! I build a special bond with all my clients, which I feel is very important!

alobar’s lighting and sound

716 Hanley Industrial Court, St. Louis, MO (314) 781-7600 diane@alobars.net Alobars.com Alobar’s is there to help a bride choose the right lights for her big night, a planner realize her client’s vision for the event of the season or a DJ configure the right party sound. In business for over 26 years, Alobar’s makes an ordinary event extraordinary.

arthur murray dance studio

9217 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 599-4444 kcarthurmurray@gmail.com KCArthurMurray.com Surprise your friends and family with a spectacular first dance! Let the pros at Arthur Murray help you make this the most treasured day of your life!

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fish eye fun

St. Louis, MO (314) 621-8638 | info@fisheyefun.com FishEyeFun.com Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a traditional photo booth. With our open-air booth design, fisheye lens, professional studio lighting and unique image processing, you’ll see that Fish Eye Fun really is way more than a photo booth!

grand rental station

570 Rudder Road, Fenton, MO (636) 343-PARTY (7278) info@grandrental-stl.com This is your best stop for all your wedding and party rental needs. We rent tents, tables, linen, specialty linen, spandex linen, chairs, chair covers, centerpieces, dance floor, staging, china, glassware, grills, chafing dishes, lighting and concession machines (popcorn, frozen drink, cotton candy), and more.

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innovative lighting & design

1632 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 421-6999 in_light@mac.com InnovativeLightingDesign.com Lighting can make a room pop, and for your special day we pay attention to detail, offering custom fabric backdrops and unique lighting solutions to create spectacular results—making your event unforgettable.

Innovative Lighting & Design, in the Crossroads Arts District, is just that: innovative.

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5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-1444 infokc@marqueerents.com MarqueeRents.com Marquee Event Rentals, formerly All Seasons Event Rental, is Kansas City’s premier event rental company.

We know what it takes to execute a successful event and are 100 percent committed to every event, every day.

We offer free event planning, so relax—we’ve got this.

weinhardt party rentals

5901 Elizabeth Ave., St. Louis, MO 11601 Manchester Road, Des Peres, MO (314) 822-9000 inquiries@weinhardtpartyrentals.com WeinhardtPartyRentals.com Weinhardt Party Rentals is a full-service event rental company dedicated to providing quality equipment at an affordable price. Weinhardt Rentals has been a family owned and operated business since 1946. An experienced, established St. Louis tradition—why trust your event with anyone else?

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The Chase Park Plaza

263

9th Street Abbey

62

The Cheshire

288

9th Street Loft

62

Circle S Ranch

144

28 Event Space

50

Clayton Plaza Hotel

339

612North Event Space + Catering

311

The Coronado

30

The Abbott

136

Covo STL

260

Anew Rooftop Venue

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Crown Valley Winery

361

Ball Conference Center

167

Deer Ridge Estate

106

Barnett on Washington

275

Defiance Ridge Vineyards

285

Berg Event Space

119

The DeLeon

91

Beyond Broadway

62

Dodson Orchards

282

Big Cedar Lodge

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Eighteen Ninety

191

Blue Vista

177

Events by Panorama, Saint Louis Art Museum

281

Bogey Hills Country Club

238

Executive Hills Polo Club

147

Boo Cat Club

300

Feasts of Fancy

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The Brass on Baltimore

105

Foundry Art Centre

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The Bride & The Bauer

95

The Franklin Room

337

Brooklyn Hall at Enright Gardens

176

The Gallery

81

The Brownstone Wedding & Event Venue

160

Gamlin Whiskey House

287

Brunswick Ballroom

170

Genesis Catering & Banquet Center

268

Californos

153

The Grand Hall at Power & Light

87

The Caramel Room at Bissinger’s

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Grand Hall on Chouteau

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Cardinals Special Events

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The Grandel

271

Casa Loma Ballroom

279

The Guild

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Catering St. Louis

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Guymon Petro Bar & Grill

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Cedar Creek

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Hawthorne House

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Cedar Lake Cellars

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Heart Events

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Chandler Hill Vineyards

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Heritage Event Spaces

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The Charles F. Knight Center

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Hilton Kansas City Airport

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Main Street Abbey

313

Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark

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Majorette

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Hilton St. Louis Frontenac

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The Malthouse Cellar

257

The Historic Post Office

115

Marriott Kansas City Country Club Plaza

190

The Historic Rumely Event Space

174

Marriott St. Louis West

333

The Home Place at Valley View

103

The Martin Event Space

189

Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center Ballroom

99

The McPherson

259

Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch

366

Meadowview Gardens

125

Innsbrook

231

Missouri Athletic Club

319

The InterContinental Hotel

117

Moulin Events and Meetings

257

The Jayhawk Club

113

NEO on Locust

1

Joule St. Louis

15, 30

New Covenant

259

The Journey Home

188

New Town at St. Charles

243

Kansas City Marriott Airport

187

Noboleis Vineyards

241

Kansas City Marriott Downtown

109

The Overland Park Convention Center

127

Kemoll’s/Top of the Met

249

Overlook Farm

29

Kuhs Estate and Farm

9

Palladium St. Louis

14, 31

La Perla

291

Pavilion 75 Event Space

188

LaChance Vineyards

273

Peabody Opera House

57

Laumeier Sculpture Park

363

Pennway Place at Studio Dan Meiners

39

The Legacy at Green Hills

150

Piazza Messina

59

Lemp Mansion Restaurant & Inn

251 Pinstripes

185

179

Piper Palm House

30

The LiUNA Event Center

357

Piropos

155

Lone Summit Ranch

143

Prairie Hill Vineyard

169

Lost Hill Lake Events

228

Public Media Commons

363

Lumen Private Event Space

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The Reserve Event Space

110

The Magic House

345

Restoration 1894

172

Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden

163

The Rhapsody

100

373

190

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The Little Theatre and Grand Ballroom at the Kansas City Convention Center

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123

Visions Reception Hall

133

Rose of the Hill by Favazza’s

265

Voce

252

Scape American Bistro

299

Whitmoor Country Club

315

Seven T Farms

293

Willow

234, 237

Shaw Nature Reserve

276

Windows On Washington®

17

Silver Oaks Chateau

297

Woods Fort Restaurant & Event Center

353

Slate

233, 237

World’s Fair Pavilion

31

Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House

276

Xavier Grand Ballroom

259

Spazio Westport

259

.ZACK

271

St. Louis Carousel

367

St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll

31

CAKES & CATERERS

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St. Louis Old Post Office

367

23 City Blocks Catering

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The Stanley

79

The Blue Owl Bakery

362

Stillhouse Farms Wedding and Event Space

74 Brancato’s Catering

181

Stone House of St. Charles

227 Butler’s Pantry

30

Sugar Creek Winery

365 The Cakery & The Cup

246

Sunset Bluffs Venue

341

The Terrace On Grand

85

Ces & Judy’s Catering

18

Thompson Barn

166

Championship Catering

309

Three Barn Farm

355

Gregory’s Creative Cuisine

371

Tiffany Greens Golf Club

162

McArthur’s Bakery

323

Town Pavilion

176

Patty Long Catering

62

Union Horse Distilling Co.

5

Russo’s Catering

259

Uptown Theater

10

Sugaree Baking Co.

222

The Venue at Willow Creek

40

The Venue in Leawood

135

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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Venues at 061

182

Alex Waldbart Florist

267

The View at Briarcliff

173

BUDS

317

Villa Antonio Winery

351

The Crimson Petal

342

The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel

349

Ken Miesner’s Flower Shoppe

255

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Les Bouquets

207

Lacy Branch Events

221

Roses & Mint

200

Madison Sanders Events

157

Schnucks Florist & Gifts

335

Visions KC

120

Stems

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Beau Vaughn Photography

131

All My Heart Bridal

61

Noire Studios Photography

161

Amoré Bridal and Tuxedo

49

Sara Rieth Photography

178

Bliss Hair Studio

185

Still Standing Photography

191

Bridal Parlour

47

Tower Studios

2

Emily Hart Bridal

55

The Gown Gallery

13

ENTERTAINMENT

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Mia’s Bridal

68

American Bands Entertainment

67

Nolte’s Bridal

37

CJ’s Disc Jockey Service

366

Savvi Formalwear/The Ultimate Bride

211

Contemporary Productions

225

Savvy Bridal

71

Stonewater Spa, Salon & Boutique

361

INVITATIONS & DETAILS

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White Carpet Bride

182

Lola Louie Paperie

359

White Traditions Bridal House

73

YellowBrick Graphics

187

JEWELRY

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SPECIALTY SERVICES

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Mazzarese

25

Alobar’s Lighting and Sound

34

Tivol

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Arthur Murray Dance Centers

179

Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

23, 65

WEDDING CONSULTANTS

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Fish Eye Fun

213

A Bride’s Ally

245

Grand Rental Station

294

Ella Event Planning

205

Innovative Lighting & Design

189

Events by Elle

178

Marquee Event Rentals

181

Kat Gaines Events

217

Weinhardt Party Rentals

347

375

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