The Hood Magazine September 2021

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Birthday Directory Party planning just got easier!

baby 8 Baby’s First Birthday

Top themes and photos from local families.

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in every issue 10 Snack

Mouse Ears Cookie Pop Learn how to make a great treat for a birthday party or even a fun surprise for after-school!

12 Craft

School Bus Frame The perfect spot to display those new school photos!

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14 Expanded Family Fun

29 Back-to-School

Opportunities at Yogi Bear Jellystone Park ™ Fall activities close to home.

teen 16 Get the Facts about Concussions

Learn how to spot a concussion and what to do if your child has one.

17 Tech Tip: Giving Tech as a Gift

Things to consider as you are buying their first phone.

Co-Parenting Tips Five tips to have a smooth transition back into the school year while co-parenting.

30 Celebrating a Child’s Birthday after their Death

A local mom shares her family’s story on keeping her daughter’s memory alive.

32 How to help your child when they are not invited to parties

Here are some tips to use the opportunity to build coping and resiliency skills, turning what could have been a social setback to social growth.

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Breathe Inside Better Tips on improving indoor air quality.

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Party Time It is hard to believe another summer is almost over and fall is here! I love having my kids home with me during the summer months, but I am ready to get back to routines! And nothing helps me get back into a routine better than working on our 11th annual birthday and party issue!

I know party planning, especially birthday parties, can be a lot of work as a parent! My kids both have summer birthdays, and we did two types of parties this year! Jaxson was all about heading over to Galaxy Gaming and having Pizza Ranch delivered while Khloe wanted a big backyard birthday bash with an inflatable from Bounce Around Inflatables and Snow Cone Machine from ABC Rentals. In this issue, we created a list of the best party venues and party services that can make your event extra fun! Whether you are planning something simple or going for an over-the-top party this year, we have the resources here to help! If you are looking for something fun to do for a party or a memory maker as a family, check out SelfieWrld in the Empire Mall. The cover girls (along with Miranda and I) had so much fun checking out all the backdrops!

If you don’t have a party to plan in the next few months, don’t worry! The great thing is you can keep our September issue on hand or you can head over to thehoodmagazine.com to find the Party Planning Directory on our website all year long. No matter what month your birthday is in,

we will have the ideas to make it a success waiting here.

Last but certainly not least, it was so much fun seeing all the families on the Familyfest Fun Cruise!

Fancy the Unicorn was busy this year traveling around to all our amazing stops. I hope you were able to stop by a few businesses to learn what they have to offer for families. We couldn’t do the cruise without all our vendors and sponsors – thank you!

The Familyfest team is working on some fun things for 2022! Make sure to follow the Familyfest Facebook Page for our announcement this fall.

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Art & Design Director Ally Vogel

SIOUX EMPIRE’S FAMILY RESOURCE

President & Publisher

Steffanie Liston-Holtrop 605-366-1479 steff@thehoodmagazine.com

Copy Editor Miranda Ochocki

Digital Media Director Jaclyn Small

Contributing Photographer Michael Woolheater Photography

Cover Photo by Miranda Ochocki, Beyond Social Location courtesy of SelfieWrld Sioux Falls

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‘Hood Online We are so much more than a magazine. We are here to meet you where you’re at in life.

You’ll find us in the community, online and in our printed issues, which are always FREE! If you haven’t visited thehoodmagazine.com yet, you’ll want to check it out. There, you’ll find exclusive content not available in print! Here is what you’ll find this month:

Activities to Get Your Kids Involved in this Fall

Check out this list of organized activities to get your kids involved this fall and winter. It’s not just football and volleyball anymore!

6 Ways to Prepare for a Smooth Sale

Selling your home is a big step and requires some planning to make the process go smoothly. When getting started, keep in mind these six tips for selling your home from HouseMaster.

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So much content, so little space! ‘Hood has a lot of great content that doesn’t fit into every issue, so we have created an Online Bonus Feature to fill that gap. August was our Back-to-School edition and September will be full of Fall Fun. Sign up for our newsletter on the ‘Hood website to get this delivered straight to your inbox.

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Why Your Kids Should Have a Savings Account

Put their birthday money to work!

Getting a savings account for your child is a simple process and is something you can do at any age. Learn about its benefits from Voyage Federal Credit Union.

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Back to School Recipes

Take the stress out of meal planning with these family friendly back to school recipes from Beefiswhatsfordinner.com.

‘Hood Community Directories at Your Fingertips:

Did you know that our ‘Hood Childcare Directory and Birthday Party Directory are available to you by just scanning this QR Code and going directly to our website? Resources for your busy life at your fingertips...courtesy of ‘Hood Magazine!

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baby by ‘Hood Magazine

Baby’s First Birthday

It seems like just yesterday you were bringing home your bundle of joy. The sleepless nights and endless diaper changes all blur together and suddenly you realize you need to start planning their first birthday party. Thankfully, we have access to hundreds of ideas with a quick search on Pinterest, Etsy, or good-old Google to help us with planning. Here are a few top themes, along with some photos from our readers!

Wild One Donut Grow Up How Time Flies Hole in One Par-tee First Trip Around the Sun One-derland / One-derful One-deer-ful year

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Empowering You on Your

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QUALITY

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for your preschooler

Our preschool room is one of the first steps in helping your child be prepared for kindergarten. We follow the South Dakota Early Learning Guidelines and we strive to offer the children creative and fun ways of learning.

Stop in and check out our programs and teachers anytime! No appointment necessary.

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craft & snack

Mouse Ears

Cookie Pops Here’s a great treat for a birthday party or even a fun surprise for aft er-school! Kids love this adorable Disne y character!

supplies Regular size Oreos Mini Oreos Melted milk chocolate Candy or skewer stick Wax paper Baking sheet or cutting board

instructions Insert skewer stick into regular Oreo and lay on wax paper.

(Place paper on cutting board or baking sheet for ease!)

Lay mini Oreos above regular Oreo to make ears.

Melt chocolate and scoop a small amount onto “ears” to hold them in place. Once chocolate has hardened and you can pick up with stick with ears attached, dip or cover the whole treat with melted chocolate. Lay on wax paper to set.

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Buy one museum admission, get one FREE* available through the month of September

School is in session but the fun never stops at your Washington Pavilion! Enjoy our daily events and activities like Avera Stage Science demonstrations, workshops, art projects, scavenger hunts, fun exhibitions and movies in the Wells Fargo CineDome.

Experience all this and more at your Washington Pavilion! *Free admission for equal or lesser value.

Experience Your Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Sioux Falls, SD 605.367.6000 | washingtonpavilion.org

Exceptional childcare with more personalized care.

Better Nutrition. Broadened Education. Christian Principles.

• Providing Christ-centered infant, toddler and preschool care.

• Certified teachers with low student-to-teacher ratio to ensure individual interaction.

• Nutritious, low-sugar meals prepared fresh daily, on-site kitchen and chef.

Featuring the area’s only Noah’s Ark indoor play splash pad.

• Innovative building concept includes indoor splash pad, interactive play, art studio and gallery, tree house library, and large outdoor play area.

Accepting applications!

To apply, visit CreatorsKids.com or call 605-231-5520

Exceptional Childcare 77th & Lyncrest Avenue

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teen & snack craft

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supplies Popsicle sticks Markers Glue Stick on gems (optional)

instructions Lay out two popsicle sticks going the vertical direction. Glue on 5 sticks (2 on top, 3 on bottom) going the horizontal way.

Color all the sticks yellow, except the bottom of the vertical sticks- color those black for tires!

Add stick on gems for lights and bus detail, or if you don’t have any handy; you can use colored paper or even just draw them on with markers.

Now all that is left to do is display that new smiley photo!

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SPONSORED FEATURE

Expanded Family Fun Opportunities

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The new school year might be right around the corner, but that doesn’t mean the end of summer fun. Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park has experienced a record year due to recently expanded family fun opportunities and easy access.

The Corn Maze at Jellystone Park™ has continued to improve on the existing maze complex to create an all-day experience that is right for any family in addition to mini-golf, outdoor pool, and the area’s only jumping pillow.

“New amenities allow us to expand our offerings during the corn maze season,” said Ray Aljets, General Manager of the campground and corn maze complex. “We will continue to offer the same great maze experience including several family-friendly add-ons that can fill your whole day.”

A new mining attraction that gives kids a hands-on experience has been added to an already packed facility featuring an outdoor laser tag arena with 16 state-of-the-art laser tag guns and multiple game modes for all ages. There is also an expanded merchandise and snack area, new restrooms, and additional activities in the heated and cooled recreation center.

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Paint your own ceramic figurine, choosing from a wide variety of designs including the one and only Yogi Bear™ himself.

They even have custom fall-themed t-shirts that you can tie-dye at the park “The variety of packages and price points available mean there is an option for every family and budget,” Aljets said. “We’re also a destination for those that are traveling in from other states or just making a quick trip from the Sioux Falls area.”

For the last 28 years, Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park has focused on quality, family-focused entertainment. Speaking with the park manager and part-owner, Ray Aljets, ‘Hood staff learned he is a 3rd generation owner-operator of the park he co-owns and operates with his parents, Bruce and Donna, and his sister, Christina Lien. Built by his grandparents in 1989, the park continues its family focus, employing extended family including three of Christina’s children and her son-in-law. Aljets is proud of the park’s ability to retain and hire new employees during a tough hiring year. “Despite the employee hiring challenges other businesses faced this year, we were able to quickly fill our workforce needs,” said Aljets. “This is a testament to our employees’ appreciation of our family-focused activities and the interaction with our guests.”

If you are looking to get your camper out for one last weekend, be sure to check into the Halloween-themed weekends through the end of September. There are magic pumpkin patches, site-to-site Trick-or-Treating, Halloween crafts, and much more! Be sure to bring your Halloween costumes for a fun-filled weekend.

While pets are welcome in the campground, the corn maze has teamed with the Sioux Falls Area Humane Society to open the corn maze to pets for one day only. Bring your pet for a trip through the corn maze on Sunday, October 6th and 20% of your admission fee will go to the Humane Society!

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Get the Facts about Concussions

A concussion is a mild traumatic brain injury caused by a blow to the head or body. It can happen in any sport – even if the athlete is wearing a helmet. It’s estimated that four million sports-related concussions occur each year. Many of these dangerous brain injuries go unrecognized.

Concussions can be difficult to prevent, but there are some steps athletes can take to better protect themselves. Proper gear and playing techniques can offer protection. Athletes should also avoid unnecessary contact in order to minimize their risk of injury.

Symptoms of concussions Because a concussion is a brain injury, it can change an athlete’s thinking, behavior, and physical function. Signs of a concussion include: • Memory and concentration problems • Headache • Dizziness • Confusion • Sensitivity to light and noise • Nausea and vomiting • Loss of consciousness If a concussion is suspected, an athlete should be pulled from a game immediately. They’re at greater risk of further brain injury if they continue playing.

Some athletes will avoid reporting their concussion-like symptoms in order to keep playing. That’s why it’s important to educate players about selfreporting if they feel something is wrong. One of

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the worst things any athlete can do for their health is to keep playing after a concussion, but most players don’t need to see a doctor right away.

After a concussion, athletes need plenty of rest in the first 24 to 48 hours. Players can safely sleep after a brain injury if they’re able to follow a conversation. They should go on walks on the second or third day after their injury and slowly introduce modified activities, depending on their symptoms.

When to seek emergency services An athlete needs medical help as soon as possible if they have these red flag symptoms: • Loss of consciousness for more than 30 seconds • A headache that dramatically worsens over time • Won’t wake up • Can’t recognize familiar people or places • Seizures • Uncontrollable vomiting • Slurred speech As the school-sponsored sports season returns, you can help your child enjoy the game by having important conversations about safety and recognizing the signs if they need to take a break. l

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Has your child asked you for a phone yet?

Chances are they will soon if they haven’t already with 53% of kids having a smartphone by the age of 11 in the US. While technology can be exciting, helpful, and makes a great gift, there are several steps we recommend taking prior to taking the plunge.

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There isn’t a single perfect age to give your child a phone. We recommend talking to your child and making a list of how he or she can make good use of a phone. Make another list of potential problems and concerns. Then, compare the two lists together. As your child grows, be prepared to revisit this again in the future as needs change.

• P ick an appropriate device.

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We recommend an entry level device such as the Samsung Galaxy A42 or the iPhone SE. Available at a reasonable price and loaded with all the features kids need, they can grow into a premium device when the time is right.

• S et boundaries with Verizon Smart Family. To keep your kids tech

use healthy we recommend using Verizon Smart Family. It helps you limit screen time, filter content, track location and more. It’s your parenting app for the new normal.

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Untreated cavities can cause pain and infection, making it harder to eat, speak, play and learn. Schedule your child’s dental checkup today!

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PARTY SERVICES

ABC Rentals Special Events www.abcrentalsmidwest.com Phone: (605) 332-4222 Location: Sioux Falls and surrounding areas Ages: All ages Price: Varies We rent everything you need for a party! We have tents, tables, chairs, linens, dishes, and even concession equipment such as: cotton candy machine, popcorn machine, snow-cone machine, chocolate fountains, hot dog rollers and more!

Check out our website or stop by our showroom to see everything we offer.

11th Annual Birthday & Party Planning Issue Big party or small gathering? We know it’s been a roller coaster year, so we searched out the best services and venues to help you plan an epic party, regardless of the size of the guest list or the number on the candle.

Sign Gypsies Sioux Falls www.signgypsiessf.com Phone: (605) 789-4646 Location: Serving Sioux Falls and surrounding areas Ages: All Ages Price: $65 and up Sign Gypsies is a yard greeting rental company spreading JOY in the Sioux Falls area! We do all the work— design a personalized yard greeting tailored to the recipient’s interests, set up the greeting, and take it down when the celebration is over. Let us help you celebrate BIG!

Brandy’s Custom Cakery www.facebook.com/brandyscustomcakery Phone: (605) 360-1949 Location: 235 N. Main Ave., Parker Ages: All ages Price: Varies Here at Brandy’s, I strive to make your sweet treat ideas come to life without breaking your budget. I offer curbside delivery to anywhere in the Sioux Falls area. Let me help “Bake Your Day” with more intimate size party planning. Cakes, Breads, Cookies, Desserts and More!

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Sweet Cheeks www.sweetcheeks605.com Location: 3609 W Avera Drive, Sioux Falls Ages: All Ages Price: $2.00-$10.00 Sweet Cheeks is a brand-new ice cream shop opening on the south side in September 2021!

We offer a self-serve ice cream and topping bar, cotton candy, and other frozen treats! We will have gluten free and dairy free options as well.

Come check us out when we open!

Bounce Around Inflatables www.BounceAround-Inflatables.com Phone: (605) 310-9529 Location: 46903 Cody Trl. - Suite E, Tea Ages: All ages Price: $179 for up to 8 children* Reserve your private indoor party space, including a sitting area and playspace! You can bring in your own food, beverages, and decorations or we can set them up for you! Hosting an at-home party? Give us a call and your guests will be jumping for joy! *$10/additional child

VENUES

605 Ninja www.605ninja.com Phone: (605) 360-4988 Location: 2101 W 41st Sioux Falls (Behind Best Buy) Ages: 5+ Price: $169 and up Call us party experts. We know how to host fun parties! Boys & girls love the obstacles, warped walls, and courses. Parents love our staff and simple party options. Kids will leave sweating and smiling, guaranteed!

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Children’s Museum of South Dakota www.prairieplay.org Phone: (605) 692-6700 Location: 521 4th St., Brookings Ages: 1–10 Price: Varies Choose a theme and be whisked off on an experience that offers playful exploration and hands-on fun! Age-appropriate themes such as Canvas Creations, Arty Party, Science Party, and Dinosaur Party are fully facilitated by guides trained in education. We do all the prep work, set-up, and clean-up! Member discounts available.

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Code Ninjas www.codeninjas.com Phone: (605) 679-6960 Location: 513 West 85th St, Sioux Falls Ages: 7 - 14 Price: $229 Party Like A Ninja! Build video games while learning to code. Learn the basics of game building in Roblox. Create your own mods in Minecraft®. Play your favorite video games with friends. Includes pizza, soda/water & invites for 10 kids plus a birthday gift from Code Ninjas. $15/additional child.

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Color Me Mine Sioux Falls www.siouxfalls.colormemine.com Phone: (605) 362-6055 Location: 3709 W 41st Street, Sioux Falls Ages: All ages!

Price: Starting at $20 per person We are the cool place to party! You bring the guests, and we will do the rest! They select their piece and paint it how they want. We glaze and fire the pieces, so they are ready in a week. The perfect party for children and adults of any age!

The Country Apple Orchard www.countryappleorchard.com Phone: (605) 743-2424 Location: 27249 SD-115, Harrisburg Ages: 3yr and up Price: $13/person: $130 to reserve Hit the easy button and be the best parents ever by booking our birthday party tent! Our private birthday tent is reserved in two-hour increments. $130 deposit to reserve (non-refundable) will be put towards your admission tickets. No outside food or beverage except bring your own birthday cake.

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BIRTHDAY WISHES & BUTTERFLY KISSES

Eastway Bowl www.eastwaybowl.com Phone: (605) 336-0468 Location: 3201 E. 10th St., Sioux Falls Ages: All ages Price: $109.99+ Come relax and enjoy your child’s birthday while we take care of the rest! We have multiple party packages to accommodate your party style and ensure it’s a party to remember. Birthday party packages start as low as $109.99 and accommodate up to 10 people.

Host your explorer’s next birthday party at the Butterfly House & Aquarium. With guided tours and ambassador animal encounters, the best birthday ever begins here.

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• One hour in an exclusive party area.

• All-day admission to the Zoo and Museum.

• One bucket of animal feed for the group.

• A gift bag and birthday cupcake for each guest.

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Galaxy Gaming www.thegalaxygaming.com Phone: (605) 212-4972 Location: 3120 S Mayfair Drive, Sioux Falls Ages: depends on attraction type Price: $5-$9 Your Ultimate Laser Tag destination. A Junglethemed multilevel arena with advanced laser tag guns, light show, sounds effects and 30 player capacity Social Gaming experience unlike any other and Virtual Reality await. Gaming section offers Xbox One X, PS4 Pro and custom gaming computers for you to game on.

Great Plains Zoo www.GreatZoo.org Phone: (605) 367-7003 Location: 805 S Kiwanis Ave., Sioux Falls Ages: 2–12 Price: Packages starting at $169 for 10 kids* Parties include one hour in a private party area, allday admission to the Zoo and Museum, one bucket of animal feed per group, one gift bag, drink and birthday cupcake per guest, and more! *Deluxe packages with animal encounters and more are available.

Pizza Ranch & Fun Zone Arcade on 41st St www.pizzaranch.com Phone: (605) 271-8646 Location: 2717 W. 41st St, Sioux Falls Ages: All ages Price: $10-$20 Fun Zone gift/play cards BOGO OFFER- Purchase our $20 Fun Zone card (80 credits) for only $10 or purchase our $40 Fun Zone card (160 credits) for only $20. No Limit.

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Selfie WRLD Sioux Falls www.selfiewrldsiouxfalls.com Phone: (605) 361-4994 Location: Empire Mall in the Applebee’s wing Ages: All ages Price: $10+ single; $150+ party Welcome to the #1 trending selfie museum!

Our studio allows you to immerse yourself into our fun, interactive art installations. Experience many unique themes knowing we had your best picture in mind. Bring guests or come yourself and have an unforgettable experience.

You’ll leave with the photos to prove it!

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Sioux Falls Skyforce siouxfalls.gleague.nba.com/skyforcebirthday-party/ Phone: (605) 332-0605 Location: 2131 S. Minnesota Ave., Sioux Falls Ages: All ages Price: Call for pricing CELEBRATE WITH THE SKYFORCE! Skyforce Party Packs presented by Brandon Martens Real Estate Team are the best way to celebrate your big day! Every party pack includes tickets to the game, food, drinks, goodie bag, and special in-game recognition for the birthday child! Party add-ons and additional discounted tickets available.

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Skate City www.skatecitysd.com Phone: (605) 332-7915 Location: 2901 W. 3rd St., Sioux Falls Ages: All ages Price: $95-$280 Skate City is the perfect place to hold a celebration! We offer a variety of public and private party package as a fun & safe way to party!

We have options starting at $95 for public and $280 for private! Pick your package, date, and reserve online.

Sky Zone www.skyzone.com/siouxfalls/parties-andevents/parties Phone: (605) 553-9910 Location: 5129 S Solberg Ave., Sioux Falls Ages: All ages Price: Packages range from $169 to $449 When you book your birthday party at our Sky Zone Sioux Falls Park, we handle all the details so you can join your guests in the celebration!

It’s all fun and no stress as your dedicated party host will take on the decorations, food, beverages, and clean up.

Thunder Road Entertainment www.ThunderRoadSiouxFalls.com Phone: (605) 334-4181 Location: 201 N. Kiwanis Ave. Sioux Falls Ages: 2-102 Price: $200-$290 packages Thunder Road Entertainment has awesome food at Rev it up Grille, 2-story Laser Tag, Mini-Bowling, Bumper Cars, Arcade, 7D Theater, Axe Throwing, and Hyper-Bowling. Seasonally, we have Go-Karts, Mini-Golf, Batting Cages, Tilt-a-Whirl, Euro-Bungy, and Laser Maze. There is something for everyone!

Private party and event rooms available.

Washington Pavilion www.washingtonpavilion.org Phone: (605) 367-6000 Location: 301 S. Main Ave, Sioux Falls Ages: Recommended for ages 7+ Price: $185+tax Choose your own birthday learning adventure from our selection of awesome activities. Parties include a 30-minute activity with a party host, private party room, admission to the Kirby Science Discovery Center, gift for the birthday child, decorations, setup, and clean up. NEW: Video gaming parties in the Wells Fargo CineDome!

Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park www.jellystonesiouxfalls.com Phone: (605) 332-2233 Location: I–90 exit 402 (Located near Brandon) Ages: 3 and up Price: Packages starting at $150 for up to 10 Whether you are staying at the park or just an afternoon visit, we have a package for you! At Jellystone Park, you’ll find activities like mini-golf, swimming, laser tag, the Jumping Pillow, and visits from Yogi Bear. Call or check out our website for a variety of birthday party options.

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by Amanda Engel, The Duncan Law Firm, LLP

Back to School Co-Parenting Summer is over and the school year here! Here are some tips to help have a smooth transition back into the school year while co-parenting: 1. Put your child(ren) first. Effective co-parenting requires the parents to put their personal differences aside and put the needs of the child first. When co-parenting, it is important to focus on what the children need and not what you as the parent want. Doing this can make the child feel loved and supported regardless of which parent they are with.

track and help both parents stay in the loop about what is going on at school. It can be used to track school events, pick-ups, drop-offs, holidays, extracurricular activities, lesson plans, homework, and parenting time. This will also allow each parent to coordinate with the other and can help eliminate controversies and keep everyone on the same page.

2. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

Communicating with the other parent is essential to co-parenting. Both parents need to be on the same page. This does not mean you have to agree about everything. It simply means you need to keep each other in the loop, have civil conversations, discuss issues regarding the child, and communicate about schoolwork, activities, and schedules. The more communication that happens between parents, the smoother things will be for your child.

4. Attend important school events with the other parent. It is in the best interest of your child to attend events, such as teacher conferences or performances, together. By attending together, it demonstrates to your child that you care about them first and foremost.

3. Work together to coordinate schedules. Between the day-to-day schoolwork, school events, activities, pick-ups, drop-offs, and your individual work schedules, things can become very hectic.

Using a shared calendar, co-parenting application, or other like technology can keep everyone on

5. When conflicts arise, put your child’s interest first. Co-parenting is hard and issues do arise. It is important to go directly to the other parent about the issue. Do not put the child in the middle. Try to avoid discussing the issue in front of the child.

The hustle and bustle of school, and all the activities related to it, can make co-parenting hard. Using the above tips can help have a smooth transition into the new school year. l September 2021 | thehoodmagazine.com |

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by Jessica Woehlhaff

Celebrating a Child’s Birthday After Their Death Ivy Addison was born into Heaven on June 15th, 2019. With no medical reasons as to why her heart stopped beating hours before her delivery, June 15th has been a difficult day to navigate for my family.

I can remember the anticipation leading up to her first birthday; not knowing what would trigger me and have me on my knees. The anxiety was almost too much to bear, however, I put on a smile and planned a first birthday party with our immediate family. We ate cake & released balloons. Nevertheless, the exhaustion kicked in shortly after, and I was thankful I had taken the week off from work, so I could rest.

I started out the morning with a solo two-mile run to clear my head and honor Ivy’s two years in Heaven. We then spent the next few hours on the golf course, as that is a place that flutters with dragonflies and is a reminder to us that Ivy is never far away. We went out to eat, sang her “Happy Birthday”, had cake & bought balloons and yellow roses. We tried to do all we could to find true joy in a day that causes us much heartache and grief.

We will always celebrate our little girl and will do whatever feels right in that moment.

Everyone journeys through grief at their own pace.

Things you may find comforting this year can evolve into different things next year. Keep a fluid mindset and follow what is on your heart, there is no right or wrong. l

I am a person driven by routine and tradition; I initially wanted to continue the same celebration from Ivy’s first birthday for years to come but I quickly remembered how drained it made me feel. For her second birthday, I decided to handle it a little differently; we get to make that decision. There is no playbook for how to handle grief. There isn’t a step-by-step instruction manual telling us how to celebrate the birthday of our child who is gone from our arms.

For Ivy’s second birthday, my husband, our fiveyear-old daughter, and I planned a day for just us.

Until we meet again, sweet Ivy! Fly high, dragonfly!

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try it: fit Fall Fun Jar!

Scan me!

Make a Fall Fun Jar! Cut out the activity ideas below and put them in any jar you have at home. Whenever you need an activity idea, draw a slip out of the jar! Scan the QR code above anytime you see an activity with to find the resource online. Or visit fit.sanfordhealth.org to download the Fall Fun Jar decor kit and find more activity ideas!

cut me out!

Take a nature walk

Play the fit songs

Write a letter to yourself

Attend a fit Class

Try a Mindful Moment Visit a museum Put on a play or musical Create a bedtime routine Go on a scavenger hunt

Adventure Jar

Build a blanket fort Try a grounding activity Visit the farmer’s market Try a fit Marathon Have a screen-free day

Rainy Day Jar

Calming Jar

Have extra time? Separate the activities into three different jars based on the color categories above!

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by Karissa Jensen, PhD, LifeScape

How to help your child when they are

Not Invited to Parties Although we’d like to shield our kids from the hurt of not receiving a birthday party invitation, events like this can provide unique learning opportunities. Pause and then use the situation to model and teach adaptive coping and resiliency skills that are necessary for building and maintaining social relationships.

As part of the validation, you might find it beneficial to first help your child determine the reasoning behind her feelings. If the hurt stems from believing the other child was her friend, use the opportunity to discuss and validate how your child is feeling confused, disappointed, and/or hurt.

This also provides an opportunity to teach your child how to use and practice appropriate coping strategies. An adaptive coping strategy can include teaching your child positive self-talk, such as “I am kind,”“I have friends that like to play with me,” or “I’m fun to be with.” This positive self-talk emphasizes her strengths that she can use to build relationships with new and current friends.

Additionally, consider motivating and supporting your child’s friendship development in various activities. This could include encouraging your child

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to invite a neighbor or a friend from daycare or extracurricular activity over to play.

In some cases, your child may benefit from direct social skills instruction to learn how to interact with peers more effectively. This can include providing parent-directed play as a model of good play skills with similar-age peers. This can also include role-playing with your child(ren) on how to meet a new friend, ask to join a group, or play with another child.

Comparatively, if your child is sad because she is worried about missing out, consider planning a fun event with your child while praising the adaptation to the change in plan. This encourages future flexibility when other plans don’t work out.

Altogether, your child will likely gauge her response using your response as a guide. Therefore, remember to monitor your overt reactions to the event and provide a calm, positive model of these suggested strategies. This will help to encourage your child to utilize adaptive coping styles in similar situations. l

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Adaptive coping skills include identifying emotions, regulating emotions, and determining appropriate responses. Validating your child’s feelings while modeling an appropriate response is important to building resiliency.

! s t n e r a P 4 Things Our

Calendar Can Do for You! You are busier than ever right now adjusting to new schools, routines, and activities. The last thing you have time to search for are events happening in the community. But don’t worry, our ‘Hood website is loaded with events, classes, and activities just for you! Haven’t visited before?

Well, here are four things to know about the ‘Hood “Things to Do” Event Calendar.

1. S earch function! If you want to know if something specific is happening, type in our search bar and hit enter – or use our advanced search function – to find just what you are looking for. You can even tailor your search by age and location to find the perfect outing for your family.

2. F riends or family in town? Find things to do with your guests to allow them to experience our great community.

3. A dd in your own events! It may be the ‘Hood Calendar, but it’s for the community, by the community. If you have something going on that you want our readers to know about, add it to our calendar.

4. D on’t have time to visit our website? Sign up for our newsletter and get our top picks delivered right to your inbox each week. l

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by Foley’s Heating & AC, Inc.

Make the Air You

Breathe Inside Better When people think of air pollution, they tend to think of the air outside. But air pollution also affects indoor air. Given that most people spend, on average, 87% of their time indoors, it is important to ensure the air you breathe most often is better.

In our part of the world, we might even spend more time indoors given our two seasons of Hot and Cold. While we benefit from fewer pollutantcausing factors than more populated areas, i.e., traffic, manufacturing, mining, etc., we still suffer the drawbacks of airborne pollutants resulting from those factors and others like wildfires and wildlife.

Other factors can include dangerous gas leaks and contaminants brought into the home by pets. Older homes may contain asbestos, lead particles, and radon. Be sure to consult a professional if your older home may have these contaminants present.

Here are some other ways to improve the quality of your indoor habitat.

• Change the AC filter. We’re a broken record on this, but it is a simple, affordable, HUGE step you can take in bettering your indoor air quality.

• Change other filters. Huh? Think about other appliances that have a filter...vacuum cleaner, clothes dryer, bathroom vents, kitchen vents.

Speaking of kitchen vents…

•U se it whenever you cook. Gas stoves emit carbon monoxide and nitrogen dioxide, as do electric ranges in lower levels. If your kitchen is ventless, crack a window.

• Clean rugs and carpets regularly. Contaminants love to hang out in rugs and carpets. Vacuum (with that clean filter) your floor coverings once a week to minimize contaminant spread.

• Check and clean air ducts, especially in older homes. Make a point to have them professionally cleaned periodically.

• Humidity breeds mold and mildew and the presence of both can cause respiratory issues. Invest in a dehumidifier if your HVAC system does not include one.

• Place plants around the home to freshen the air.

Plants are nature’s air filters and they enhance the decor of your house.

If you feel your home is particularly challenged when it comes to air pollution, contact an HVAC professional. l

THANK YOU for joining us for the 2021 FUN Cruise!

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