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The Haverford School · Haverford, PA 19041 · December 2021· Volume 89, No. 4 · thsindex.org
Community wrestles with gender and sexuality Jeffrey Yang ’22
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rologue: “Respect and value people of different genders, backgrounds, and opinions, and live as a cooperative and engaged citizen of the global community,” the first of our principles of community, as listed in the Strategic Vision. Now, enter the “Gents’ Club”—the upper school students’ group chat named after strip clubs designed for men—where a thread rallies for “wife-beaters,” a slang term for sleeveless white shirts, i.e. tank tops. Jorts complete the requested outfit. Now, two Notables singers perform on stage, they act out an embrace: jabbing chuckles proceed. Now, a female actor enters from stage-
A theme runs through our culture, but many students lay entranced, perhaps innocently, unexposed to and unaware of the show that it puts on. right: whistles hail her entrance. A theme runs through our culture, but many students lay entranced, perhaps innocently, unexposed to and unaware of the
Basketball season preivew, p. 20
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show that it puts on. On Wednesday, December 1, 2021, the Honor Council met with members of
“Our goal was to bring people together as a community, and we would not have put anything in the video unless it was meant to do that.” ANONYMOUS SIXTH FORMER ’22 the Character Mentorship Program and the Diversity Alliance to discuss the state of our community. During two sessions of the meeting over lunch, one point commanded the conversations: the EA Day video, even though it premiered three weeks before. A developing tradition coordinated by a group of Sixth Formers, this video intends to unite the community before the athletic matchup against the Episcopal Academy. One Sixth Former involved in the video said, “Our goal was to bring people together as a community, and we would not have put anything in the video unless it was meant to do that.” Thus, coordinators of the video searched
Adam Marshall ’23’s costumes, p. 13
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for inspiration in a platform that many students would be familiar with: TikTok. “There is a viral trend on TikTok that girls make that is “POV when a [insert any descriptor] boy picks you up,” another Sixth Former involved in the video said. This trend was a satirical joke directed towards the general “awkwardness” of boys on a first date with girls. And this was the understanding of the clip that many students received when initially watching it in Centennial Hall. “My initial reaction to the video was that it was funny. I just thought of it as a joke or as playful banter. I didn’t really look much
Were you offended by elements of the EA Day video?
89% No
“[My reaction] was more or less utter shock.”
11% Yes
CHASE NELSON ’24 con’t on p. 4
Google Forms poll of 141 respondents, Between December 12-14, 2021
Arcane, p. 19
into it,” Sixth Former Jahmon Silver said. Upper School Dean of Students Mr. Luqman Kolade shared a similar perspective and described how the video that was shown, having undergone some edits, on initial glance appeared to be typical of a high school student production. “It was typical. It was fine. There were some parts that I found that were kind of funny, and there were some parts that I didn’t find as funny at all,” Mr. Kolade said. In fact, around ninety percent of 141 students polled felt that the video was not offensive, or at least not to them. But, not everyone understood the playoff of the “viral TikTok,” with members of the community interpreting the date as happening between two male students, instead of the intended roleplay. But, with the version that was in fact presented, those with the latter interpretation viewed the video with a starkly different response than many students.
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Hockey looks to revitalize, p. 20
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