SpeakUpSis! - 2024 Spring

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LEGACY: INVENT PATHWAYS FOR OTHER WOMEN FINDING MY PLACE IN THE SUN

A MOTHER’S TESTIMONY CHILDHOOD CANCER: CARMELLA'S STORY

SMOOTHIE SURPRISE

TRAVELLING THROUGH: EXPERIENCE THE ALLURE OF ADVENTURE.

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TABLE OF CONTENTS Editor’s Note

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SpeakUpSis Stories

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Family Matters

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Chef’s choice

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Get to know Her

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Community Events

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Women in Business Spotlight

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Sis Columns

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Lynn Out Loud

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Body, Spirit and Soul

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Creative Corner

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But God! Testimonies

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EDITOR’S NOTE

Editor’s Note

As always, our beloved regular columnists have outdone themselves, offering thought-provoking articles that touch on a variety of subjects pertinent to our lives. Their words aim to inspire, challenge, and comfort, providing a wellrounded reading experience that aligns with our magazine's ethos.

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elcome to the Spring 2024 edition of SpeakUpSis Magazine, a special edition that tugs at the heartstrings and celebrates the unbreakable bond between mothers and daughters. As we step into the season of renewal and growth, we delve deep into stories that define, challenge, and enrich these pivotal relationships.

In this 6th edition, we unfold a tapestry of narratives through our SpeakUpSis Stories where mothers share their heartfelt testimonies about rearing daughters. These stories are not just accounts; they are windows into the soul, offering insights as they navigate the complex yet rewarding journey of motherhood.

This edition is a tribute to the mothers and daughters out there who are writing their own stories every day. Whether in moments of quiet understanding, in the lessons passed down through generations, or in the simple yet profound acts of love, these relationships shape us in ways we often can't articulate.

So, dear readers, I invite you to dive into the pages of this edition with an open heart. May you find reflections of your own relationships, inspiration for your journey, and a community within these stories.

Thank you for joining us on this journey. Here's to celebrating the essence of motherhood and the indelible marks of love and guidance that mothers imprint on their daughters.

With warmth and gratitude.

We are thrilled to include coverage of a Community Event, the Spring Vendors Expo in Jenkins County, GA, in this edition. This community event not only showcased the entrepreneurial spirit thriving within their community but also served as a gathering of minds and hearts, strengthening the community's bonds and shared experiences.

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JUST ONE OF THEM DAYS

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JUST ONE OF THEM DYS Excerpt from Speak with Chic: One woman. Ten truths.

By: Angel Charmaine

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omedays, I get a fullness in the center of my chest – dab smack in the middle of my breast. There's something stuck in my windpipe; it's not a tangible thing like food or water, but it cuts off my ability to effectively talk and communicate. Something presses down against my shoulders; it's not strong enough to render me bedridden but heavy enough to ensure my efforts are unproductive.

My pulse is racing, but I'm standing still.

Hundreds of insightful, useful, elaborate words prance around in my head, but I lack the stamina it takes to exercise the facial muscles needed to allow my mouth to formulate such hefty words, therefore, effortless, monosyllabic, emptiness trickles out as I attempt to communicate with my children.

My children. My babies. My boys. There are four of them. Four teenage boys, well, one of them is what some folks call a tween, but this year, he will be a teenager too. I love my handsome, mighty men of valor. My boys are rather amazing and not just because they are mine. Ask anyone who's spent any time with them, and they will tell you the same. They are funny as all get-out. All are athletic, artistic and academically astute. The eldest is a senior in high school; the twins are freshman, and my baby boy is in the 7th grade. Teachers adore them, church people love them, random folks praise them, yet their mother is utterly overwhelmed trying to rear them.

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A typical day in the life of Char – the single mom. The alarm clock on the phone sings at 5:30am. On good days, I get a 30 – 45 minutes workout and cook hot breakfast for my boys before they leave for school by 7:25am. Yes, I'm a working mom, so I'm off to work shortly after they are out of the door and headed to school. After a day of paid work ends, mommy Uber is on duty for free. I drive to pick-up children from school to take home for snack and to change clothes. I drive from home to sport practice and back home to cook dinner. By the time dinner is cooked, it's time to pick-up from practice and return home for showers, homework, dinner, discussion, play, arguments, fights, tv, games, clean-up and bedtime.

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These are not seamless activities. There is often some crying and yelling spread throughout the evening events, and we try diligently to have it all done by 10:30pm. Who needs more than 7 hours of sleep – give or take an hour. When the day is done, and night begins, the real work happens - the behind the scenes stuff. I sit at the computer to pay the bills. I sift through the trailer load of papers sent home from teachers for my signature and my money. I rob and beat-up Peter to pay Paul to ensure my children can participate in the activities that will give them an opportunity to live to their fullest potential and be great. Finally, I dig deeply into the middle of some unseen place and extricate the necessary thing, whatever the thing is at the time – hope, love, strength, courage, energy, sanity – that will help me have just enough peace to fall asleep and do it all over again tomorrow.

Every now and then, that day happens. You know the day. The day the fullness in your chest seems unbearable and you feel like throwing the baby away with the bathwater, the tub, the potty, hell, the whole damn bathroom. Each child is exerting his temperament in his own way. Each child has an issue with another child in the house. None of the children seem to be able to do anything they're supposed to do; all are being rebellious, and everyone hates me – mom.

If you are expecting me to give a five-step process on how not to be overwhelmed by your kids, don't wait for it. I have no clue. I have a Master's Degree in Counseling and Psychology. I have taught other people's children for 15+ years, but I have yet to figure out how to not lose my shit with my own kids. I have no profound insight to share. What I can tell you is I have accepted that sometimes there will be days like this. Days when I want to get in my vehicle and just drive – no specific destination - somewhere, anywhere away from the chaos that is my life. I can tell you some days I am going to feel full and heavy and unproductive. Some days, I am going to yell at my kids and send them to bed with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for dinner. There will be days when I sit in front of the television, watch romantic movies on Netflix that make me feel good about life and love, drink wine and eat popcorn. I can also tell you that these days don't last forever and having one every now and then is not going to kill my kids and does not make me a bad mom. That last part, the part about not making me a bad mom, is the most difficult concept to embrace.

After four years of undergrad, two years of graduate school and a couple years under my belt as a teacher, I was confident that I was competent in my profession. Sure, I had different students every year and worked within different schools and systems, but with a little adjustment and professional development here and there and the help of other educators, I believe I was a good teacher. On the contrary, after 17 years of motherhood and four children, reading books and articles, and listening to sundry advice from other parents, I still feel I was doing this thang wrong. However, on “lose your shit days,” I sit myself down and say, “Self, they are alive and healthy. They are excellent students.

They are great friends. They are talented athletes and musicians. They are kind and considerate.

They are good humans.” Then, I say, “Self, they didn't get that way alone. You play a major part in shaping them. You are doing something right.” After that little pep talk with myself, I resolved to just let it go.

Let go of the fear of failure as a mom. Let go of my thoughts of what I think other people think of my parenting skills, and I embrace the fact that I am going to get overwhelmed from time to time, but I have the power to change the course of any day at any time as soon as I choose to take dominion over my thoughts and speak words of power and life. Then, I commence to marathon watch Netflix movies, eat popcorn and drink wine until tomorrow comes, and I get back to the business of doing my best to give the world the best me possible along with four other good humans.

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A MOTHER’S TESTIMONY

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By: Maria Richardson Photos submitted by Maria Richardson

hen you think you don't have the strength to overcome, God will test us to the realness of our faith. In February 2023, my daughter Carmella showed signs of what would become my worst nightmare. My baby came to me showing a lump on the right side of her neck and asked me what I thought it was? I glaringly looked at it, trying to figure out what it could possibly be, and the first thing that came to mind was something non-threatening like a boil.

The pediatrician wasn't sure what the growths were and suggested that she be examined by a hematologist. She was referred to a specialist in Baltimore near John Hopkins and during the exam the hematologist, like Carmella's pediatrician, wasn't sure what was causing the lumps but determined a biopsy was necessary to get an accurate diagnosis.

Carmella had her biopsy performed at Children's National Medical Center, D.C. The procedure was successful and quick. I was told the results were being fast tracked, and we could expect to hear from the pediatric surgeon within a week. Sure enough, the phone call came through to bring Carmella to Children's National Medical Center to go over the results immediately.

Carmella, as a baby, would often get boils, so I didn't think much of it at first. I just told her that we would keep an eye on it and notify the doctor should it get bigger. After some days, maybe a week at most, the lump started to grow larger, eventually more lumps appeared above and below her torso. They were small, quarter-size, but one grew to almost the size and shape of a golf ball underneath her right breastbone. It was then I got worried and scheduled an appointment with the pediatrician.

On March 27th, my baby girl was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma Large Diffuse B Cell of the Lymph Nodes. As you can imagine, the shock of hearing this news put us in a scared and seemingly hopeless state. The tears began to fall; however, I pulled it together and put on my armor of strength because my daughter needed me! There was a reason God brought this to our doorstep but at that moment the reason was not made visible.

The one thing I asked my daughter to do for me was to fight, to fight as hard as she could.

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There was a reason God brought this to our doorstep but at that moment the reason was not made visible.

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he promised me she would; she would fight, and it just made me cry harder. s, especially during the night when things got a little too quiet, I listened to my gospel and leaned on Isaiah 3:55. I needed God more than ever to hear my pleas, prayers to keep me sane, gripping on faith that much harder.

Many times, I wanted to scream at the top of my lungs but couldn't. The hardest thing there is to see is your child suffering in pain, and there is nothing you can do but hold them tightly, tell them you love them for it will be okay.

At the end of June 2023, Carmella completed four cycles of chemotherapy and was declared cancer free! To God Be to Glory! I asked God why he allowed this to come to my doorstep?

His response to me was He knew we could handle this crisis and be a light for others, and Carmella's story was a testament of His grace.

He wants us to be pillars of hope for families going through as we did, and now, that is exactly who we are and what we do.

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RAISING INTENTIONALLY TOUGH, HAVING NO REGRETS

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aising a girl in today's world, to me, meant I had to raise her to stand on her own, make tough decisions, and work hard for what she wants. There are so many distractions with undesirable consequences for our youth. As much as I would like to coddle my daughter and be sensitive to all of her needs and desires, I had to be real.

Amaya faced many tough days in her childhood, including losing her loving dad at nine years old. We both struggled to deal with this loss and continue to live on. In order to ensure I could continue to take care of her, I took a job in another state which meant

Amaya had to adjust and adapt. I felt bad, but I knew I was doing what I was asking her to do, adapting to a new normal. We made it work.

Her upbringing was not like most seen on TV. Amaya experienced some difficult moments, but I also saw her reach inside herself and find her strength.

I try not to second guess myself and how I raised my daughter because what is done is done, and I have done my best. The good news is that I have seen my baby girl grow into a beautiful young woman. As I see her standing, independently, facing the challenges of life, I have no regrets.

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BEING A YOUNG MOTHER

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Being a Young Mother didn't stop me from getting to my better By: Trivia Payne Photographer: Shaniya Harris

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ecoming a mother at the age of 17 was challenging, to say the least. For most young girls, 17 is a time of preparation for high school graduation. However, for me, it meant preparing to deliver my first daughter with a guy whom I was no longer in a relationship with, but had stopped seeing months before. Within three years, I found myself preparing to have my second daughter, conceived on my 20th birthday. This pregnancy was different. After a dinner party with a few friends, my daughter's father stayed behind. Shortly after everyone had left, he began taking advantage of me. The next day, I confided in a neighbor who had attended the dinner as well. Unsure of what to do, I brushed it off as if nothing had happened.

In short, I knew it would be challenging, but I chose to carry my baby full term. The night before my baby shower, while on the phone with my two sisters and a friend I was trying to set up with my oldest sister, tragedy struck.

My oldest sister returned to the phone to inform me she had been shot (thankfully, she survived). However, by the end of that ordeal, I

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found myself dating the same guy I had tried to set my sister up with.

To condense a long story, a year after my second daughter was born, I married this young man and subsequently became pregnant four more times, experiencing a miscarriage with the first of those four pregnancies. Ultimately, I gave birth to five daughters who are now all over the age of twenty-one. The early years of motherhood were challenging. I spent many days and nights trying to embody the ideal image of a mother. I began as an overprotective parent, but as my daughters grew and began making their own decisions, I learned to ease up. I navigated single motherhood, trying to figure it all out.

When my daughters were very young, my mother advised me never to leave them and to spend as much time as possible with them in school. I took her advice to heart. I continued my education to better myself, bringing all five of my daughters with me. I spent my spare time in their classrooms and daycare facilities.

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In short, I knew it would be challenging, but I chose to carry my baby full term.

I became deeply involved in their schools, serving as PTO President, class parent, and volunteer of the year, even through their college years.

In 2015, my world was shattered when my second oldest daughter was placed in an induced coma just a week before her high school graduation. This event brought about significant changes in our family dynamics. In my second marriage, our family experienced a major breakdown. While we haven't fully recovered, we work together daily to rebuild what was lost in our family structure.

My greatest joy as a parent has been witnessing my children graduate from high school and attend college, embracing the values I tried to instill in them, such as volunteering, serving, and giving back.

Despite the many challenges we've faced, my children and husband remain my driving force to grow, succeed, and become a better version of myself for all of us.

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MY DESIRE MANIFESTED

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My Desire Manifested By: Connie Riggs

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n the tapestry of life, few threads are as profound and transformative as the bond between a mother and her daughter. My journey with Lindsay has been a testament to the power of love, faith, and resilience, guided by the timeless wisdom of Psalm 37:4—"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." There are joys, challenges, and profound lessons to be learned as we navigate life's twists and turns together.

From the moment Lindsay entered my life, I knew she was destined for greatness. Her name, meaning "a tall tree in Lystra," spoke to the strength and resilience I hoped she would embody. Yet, our path to parenthood was not without its challenges. Fertility struggles and medical hurdles threatened to dim our hopes, but through unwavering faith and steadfast prayer, Lindsay's arrival was a testament to God's faithfulness and the manifestation of our deepest desires.

As Lindsay grew, so did our bond. We shared moments of laughter, tears, and triumphs, with music serving as the backdrop to our shared journey. Psalm 37:4 became more than just a verse; it was a guiding principle, reminding us to delight in the Lord's presence and trust in SPRING 2O24 EDITION

His plan for our lives. Together, we stood on the promises of scripture, finding solace and strength in moments of uncertainty.

Throughout her teenage years, Lindsay faced physical challenges that tested her resilience and determination. Orthopedic issues and surgeries threatened to derail her dreams, but she faced these setbacks with courage and grace. As her mother, I grappled with feelings of guilt and regret, wondering if I could have done more to shield her from pain. Yet, through it all, Lindsay remained steadfast in her faith, her spirit unbroken by life's trials.

As she ventured into adulthood, Lindsay's journey took her to distant shores, where she

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MY DESIRE MANIFESTED

SpeakUpSis! pursued her passion for music and her career as a Speech Therapist. In Japan, she found a new sense of purpose and belonging, her voice echoing through the streets of Tokyo as she shared her love for music with others.

Though miles may separate us, our bond remains unbreakable, rooted in love, faith, and the shared experiences that have shaped our lives.

We talk daily, bridging the gap of different time zones with laughter and love. It's funny how I'm still getting used to the time difference, but our conversations span everything from finding love to navigating friendship issues and drawing closer to God. I am blessed that Lindsay grew up seeing God through her dad and me, but I am even more blessed that she has found Him for herself.

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As her mother, I grappled with feelings of guilt and regret, wondering if I could have done more to shield her from pain.

As I reflect on our journey together, I am filled with gratitude for the blessing of being Lindsay's mother. Psalm 37:4 reminds me that our desires are not ours alone but gifts from a

loving and faithful God. As Lindsay continues to navigate life's twists and turns, my prayer is that she never loses sight of the dreams that have guided her thus far. With faith as her compass and love as her guide, I am confident that she will continue to shine brightly, illuminating the world with her grace, strength, and unwavering spirit.

In every triumph, every setback, and every moment in between, Psalm 37:4 serves as a beacon of hope and a reminder of God's faithfulness. As we embrace the journey ahead, I take comfort in knowing that His love will always be our guiding light, leading us through life's uncertainties with grace, courage, and unwavering faith.

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FAMILY MATTERS

FAMILY MATTERS Doing Time With My Son By: Peggy Thompson

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y name is Peggy Thompson and I'm from a small town called Chocowinity.

My family and I reside in Fayetteville, NC at the moment. I'm a mother to one son and two daughters. I've been diagnosed with all sorts of mental illness disorders throughout my life. My family members and two of my children have been diagnosed with certain mental illnesses as well. In my past I've attempted suicide a few times. I know how it is first hand to battle the thoughts in your mind, deal with depression, have anxiety attacks, or to have an emotional breakdown. I've been in and out of therapy while on all sorts of medications until I learned how to cope without being drugged up. Suicidal signs aren't always visible, that's why I share my stories and fight for my son.

I'm currently fighting for my teenage son to get the help he needs. Things got so bad at home that he's been sent off to two different group homes over the last two years. Every time I involuntarily committed him to the local hospital, they'll say he was ok and release him back home. The first time my son assaulted me

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and broke my laptop, I didn't press charges after calling the cops. They asked me if I wanted to after seeing the cellphone imprint on my thigh from the impact when my son threw it at me. I eventually pressed charges on him when he jumped on me and choked me during another situation.. He then hit my youngest daughter in the face with a baby doll.I thought seeking assistance through the courts was going to help my family, but it's been an emotional roller coaster ride!

We've been in and out of court since 2022. I had a group home director call the police on me last year after I told him I wasn't coming to get my son. I had filed numerous complaints and expressed my concerns about my son's regression. I noticed it just by the phone conversations we had. He was sent home without any resources in place and almost a month later, his destructive behaviors kicked in. I had to quit my job. I've had to lock my daughters in their rooms to protect them while walking on eggshells. I've had my son destroy the whole house, rip off the window screens, verbally abuse us and more. www.speakupsismagazine.com | 11

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I told the agency and probation department what my family needs, but nobody seems to listen.

We're still going to court and my son has ended up with five stitches in his head while in secure custody of a youth detention center. I've been advocating for mental health treatment and disclosed that my son tried to overdose, as well as burned paper after returning home the second time. I feel as if we're doing time with my son when we were the ones abused. My daughters and I have sat in the hallway during court proceedings from 8:30-4pm some days. They are now talking about sending him back home, even after saying it wasn't safe to.

I share my journey with my neighbors, on facebook, and with random strangers at times. I've had some to share with me their own personal stories of being abused by their teens. Their child has instilled fear in them, punched holes in the walls, stolen, and tried to control the parent. Not many families talk about parental abuse. We hear about the physical, emotional, verbal and domestic violence abuse. Let me be the one to share since I was ashamed at first and scared of my son.

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CHEF’S CHOICE - PREMIUM RECIPES

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elebrate the special bond you have with your Mom in a most delightful way with a Mother's Day Sweet Potato Pie Smoothie! This lovingly crafted recipe combines the comforting flavors of sweet potato pie with a touch of heartwarming sweetness, making it the perfect treat to honor Mom on her special day. Picture creamy sweet potatoes, blended with fragrant cinnamon, nutmeg, and a hint of vanilla, all swirled together with luscious almond milk. Each sip is like a hug, evoking memories of cherished moments shared with your Mama. Whether you're serving it for breakfast in bed or as a thoughtful midday surprise, our Sweet Potato Pie Smoothie is sure to bring a smile to Mom's face and fill her heart with joy.

INGREDIENTS 1 large cubed sweet potato 1 frozen banana or 1 cup of ice ¾ cup almond milk ½ cup plain Greek yogurt 1 tablespoon almond butter 1 teaspoon vanilla extract ½ teaspoon ground cinnamon ½ teaspoon brown sugar ½ teaspoon nutmeg 1 tablespoon of french vanilla protein powder Optional - ½ cup of oats for thickness

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Zykia McCoy Recipe found in 15 in 15 Minutes or Less Cookbook

To contact Zykia McCoy zykiamccoy@gmail.com

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Place bananas in the freezer overnight, skin on. In a small pot of water boil your sweet potato until potato softens and skin is easy to come off. Allow the sweet potato to cool, then peel. Cut both banana and sweet potato into cubes. Add all ingredients to the blender, and blend until smooth. Top with a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar and enjoy!

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GET TO KNOW HER: MEET ELIZABETH MCGUIRE

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Capturing Resilience, Creativity & Community: MEET ELIZABETH MCGUIRE By: Angel Charmaine Photography: Connie Jordan | April 3, 2024

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n the vibrant tapestry of life, some threads shimmer with a resilience and creativity that catch the eye and inspire the soul. Elizabeth McGuire, the visionary behind the PinUp Photographer and founder of the CSRA Youth Photography and Fine Arts Society, is one such thread, weaving a story of perseverance, passion, and purpose that transcends the ordinary.

Elizabeth's journey into the world of photography and entrepreneurship is as textured as the images she captures through her lens. It began in the echoes of her high school halls, where a young Elizabeth yearned to join the yearbook club. Hindered not by lack of ambition but by the financial constraints that made a camera an unattainable dream, she waited patiently until her senior year when her parents gifted her a modest camera. This camera, albeit not the most advanced, was her gateway into the world of visual storytelling, allowing her to capture the world around her and translate it into sketches and memories.

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Get To Know Her But Elizabeth's narrative is not just about the pursuit of a passion; it's deeply intertwined with her role as a mother. "I think failing makes you a good mom," Elizabeth shared, reflecting on the early years of raising her first child. At 19, she embarked on the journey of motherhood with her first daughter, Brooklyn, a path that taught her the intrinsic value of embracing imperfection. She believes the difference between having Brooklyn and then having her younger daughter, Abby, is maturity. Since she was a teenager when she gave birth to Brooklyn and an adult with far more life experience when she had Abby, there are things she does with Abby that she would have done with Brookly. Now, Brooklyn has a daughter of her own, and Elizabeth is proud to see her be a better mom in her twenties. She smiles as she says, “Even though I wasn't the best mom, it made her a better mom, and I get a second shot at it with Abby.” Her candidness about the challenges of young motherhood, from the sacrifices made to the lessons learned, lays bare the reality that there is no blueprint for being the perfect parent.

Considering this “second chance” at rearing a daughter, Elizabeth sees the creativity in Abby, something she struggled with early in her own life. Therefore, she finds moments and opportunities to encourage the development and foster the growth of her creativity through the camera lens. With technology literally being at children's fingertips, Elizabeth redirects Abby's focus from idly watching videos on a phone to encouraging her to find things to capture in a picture. Recently, this strategy helped Abby to win first place for an original photograph she took and entered into the Columbia County State Fair.

Although Elizabeth began her love of photography by taking photos of nature and objects outside and eventually was asked to photograph people, she has become a much

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Get To Know Her sought after photographer in the CSRA (Central Savannah River Area) while cultivating this artistry in her own daughter. However, Elizabeth's entry into entrepreneurship as a photographer was catalyzed by personal trials, including the premature birth of her youngest son, Jace.

He was born at 24 weeks, so she didn't get the same experience of leaving the hospital and taking him home. Jace remained in the hospital for six months. When he did go home, machines and home health care became part of their lives, too. Then, Elizabeth's youngest child, Abby, came along thirteen months and three days later. She said it was like they were twins. Jace's developmental delay meant he and Abby learned to walk and do everything together. Her husband stepped in with vital support that helped her get through this difficult time with motherhood and helped to reignite her passion for photography.

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The fragility of Jace's early days and the ensuing battle with depression and anxiety she faced were monumental challenges that could have deterred a weaker spirit. Yet, it was through this crucible of personal hardship that Elizabeth's resolve was forged stronger, giving rise to the PinUp Photographer. Her work, characterized by an emotional depth and an unerring eye for the beauty in fleeting moments, became a means of connection and healing, not just for herself but for the families she photographed.

The inception of the CSRA Youth Photography and Fine Arts Society marks a significant expansion of Elizabeth's vision to make a meaningful impact on her community. Aimed at empowering underserved youth and children with autism and learning disabilities, the society introduces these young individuals to the world of photography and visual arts.

Through this pioneering program, Elizabeth is

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GET TO KNOW HER: MEET ELIZABETH MCGUIRE

Get To Know Her Elizabeth's advice to aspiring entrepreneurs is a mélange of her own experiences, imbued with wisdom and pragmatism. "Don't get discouraged... you've got to network," she advises, emphasizing the importance of perseverance and the value of building relationships within one's community. It's a reminder that the entrepreneurial journey is as much about forging connections and learning from others as it is about individual effort and resilience.

But perhaps the most poignant aspect of Elizabeth's story is the legacy she's building,

providing these children with a platform to express themselves and engage with the community in meaningful ways. In fact, she shared an exclusive announcement with me regarding the organization. The young people in her program will begin producing a podcast, The Youth Huddle: A Community Podcast, that serves as a conduit for discussing various projects, from community food drives to other initiatives, thereby amplifying their voices and fostering a sense of inclusivity and belonging.

This is a perfect opportunity for the community to partner with the CSRA Youth Photography and Fine Arts Society to positively impact growth and development of local children through photography. Elizabeth says she's looking for and accepting help from donation of equipment to sponsoring programs.

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Get To Know Her not just through her business and community work, but in the life of her youngest daughter, Abby. Abby's creative spirit and unique approach to learning mirror Elizabeth's own journey, showcasing the generational transmission of values and passions.

Elizabeth's pride in Abby's accomplishments, like winning first prize at the Columbia County State Fair, is a testament to the nurturing environment she's created, one that celebrates creativity and individuality.

Elizabeth McGuire's narrative is a compelling mosaic of entrepreneurship, artistry, and maternal love, underpinned by an unwavering commitment to community and personal growth. Her story, rich with challenges, triumphs, and invaluable lessons, serves as a beacon of inspiration for anyone standing at the crossroads of doubt and aspiration.

Through her lens, we are reminded of the enduring beauty of resilience, the transformative power of creativity, and the profound impact of extending a hand to uplift those around us.

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Spring Vendors Expo: A Celebration of Community and Culture in Millen, Georgia.

By: Angel Charmaine Photography: Kajel Wright

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n a bright and sunny Saturday, April 6, 2024, the small town of Millen, in Jenkins County, Georgia, became a vibrant hub of community spirit and cultural celebration. The occasion was the Spring Vendors Expo, an event organized by Krystal Coney, the dynamic owner of Roxy Enterprises.

Krystal's vision was clear and compelling: to foster community togetherness in her beloved hometown by creating spaces that bring people together in a positive and engaging manner.

The Spring Vendors Expo drew an eclectic mix of vendors from the Central Savannah River area (CSRA), each bringing a unique flavor and flair to the event. Vendors lined the grassed lot positioned directly on Hwy 25, offering a taste of the South that was as diverse as it was delicious. From mouthwatering barbecue to traditional southern delicacies like pigtails and crab boils, the air was filled with the enticing aromas of home-cooked goodness. But the culinary delights were just the beginning. The expo also featured vendors showcasing an array of goods, from sparkling jewelry to nourishing body butters. In the spirit of community, some generous souls even distributed free clothing, making sure everyone had something to smile about.

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But what set the Spring Vendors Expo apart was more than just the food and wares offered. It was the palpable sense of community spirit that pervaded the event. The SpeakUpSis Podcast, serving as the media sponsor, captured this spirit beautifully by interviewing local residents, community leaders, and even public figures like a local commissioner and the sheriff, all of whom had come out to support the event. When asked their favorite part of Millen, almost everyone interviewed gave a resounding response, “The people!” These interviews, broadcast to a wider audience and highlighted the tight-knit

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community fabric of Millen and the shared commitment to the people and its overall wellbeing.

Krystal Coney's efforts to build community togetherness were evident in every smile, every conversation, and every exchange at the expo. The event was more than just a marketplace; it was a celebration of Jenkins County's community spirit, a testament to the power of coming together to support one another.

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As the day drew to a close, it was clear that the Spring Vendors Expo had achieved its aim.

Not only had it provided a platform for local vendors to showcase their products and talents, but it had also strengthened the bonds of community in Jenkins County. The success of the event has left an indelible mark on the hearts of those who attended, and Krystal Coney looks forward with optimism to collaborating with other community leaders to host more much needed events in the future.

The Spring Vendors Expo was not just an event; it was a beacon of hope and unity, proving that even in a small town like Millen, Georgia big dreams can bring people together and create lasting change.

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WOMEN IN BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT

WOMEN IN BUSINESS

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aTonya Carthen is the visionary founder of Imperfect Optionz Scented Goodies, a beacon of creativity and resilience in the face of adversity. LaTonya embarked on her journey in the beauty industry in 1991 as an aspiring hair care professional at Chris Logan Cosmetology School.

However, unforeseen financial challenges forced her to abandon her dreams prematurely. Her passion for hair care was further tested in 2003 when she hired someone to perform a hair treatment, which led to severe chemical burns, leading to irreversible hair loss. Despite exploring numerous medical and over-the-counter remedies to no avail and enduring the discomfort of weaves and the struggle to find suitable wigs, LaTonya's indomitable spirit shone through.

Turning her trials into triumph, LaTonya leveraged her innate talent to craft her own wigs, thereby addressing a deeply personal need while empathizing with countless others facing similar challenges. Imperfect Optionz Scented Goodies was born out of this empathy and a heartfelt mission to empower individuals dealing with hair loss. LaTonya's venture transcends the mere creation of wigs; it is a sanctuary for those who yearn for understanding, acceptance, and beauty without judgment.

Moreover, LaTonya found solace and joy in candle making, which became a therapeutic outlet for her. Through Imperfect Optionz Scented Goodies, she shares this joy with the world, offering fragrances that uplift and bring happiness to others.

Her journey is a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and the human spirit's capacity to find beauty in imperfection.

LaTonya's story and her mission with Imperfect Optionz Scented Goodies inspire and remind us all that we are not defined by our challenges but by how we rise to meet them.

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SIS COLUMNS

SIS COLUMNS

FINDING MY PLACE IN THE SUN Finding Peace Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. -John 14:27

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od led me to a place of higher learning that lifted me. In particular, attending a historically black college gave me the tools I needed to face my fears of inadequacy and low self-esteem. I was no longer an “other,” but I was uniquely me and simultaneously part of a family of “us.” I could be Satricia, shy, intelligent, strong, humorous, without apology. I was given the space to grow into who God wanted me to be even though I didn't quite understand how all of me would come together. I found a family at Paine College. We ate together, worshiped together and worked through college life with all of its highs and lows.

Of course, it wasn't all roses. I learned some hard lessons about relationships and deadlines but my greatest high was finding peace in being me. Oddly, that peace began with a series of presentations required for a Chemistry class. I felt overwhelming anxiety and didn't think I could make it through my well prepared presentation, but I did with a stellar grade and loads of compliments. My anxiety began to lessen, and with each presentation, I became more confident in my ability to speak in front of others and my ability to conduct scientific research.

apology. I learned that I didn't have to fit someone else's idea of who I should be or change my personality to please others. God began to show me what He put in me was enough, and I could rest in the work He had done and would continue to do in me.

Satricia Moore A writer, educator and mentor

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SIS COLUMNS TA LVA ’ S W R I T E AWAY

TRAVELING THROUGH NEW DOORS IN 2024 H

ot girl summer has come and gone, but as the world turns, it's sure to make its way back around and onto our 'lavish' social media timelines. I've upped my travel game and have been putting my passport to good use for the last couple of years. It has been well worth the lengthy flights, whisking Uber drivers, and small talk with complete strangers. One distinct fact has caught my attention as I travel from state to state or country to country. Despite the constant fear of America spiraling into an all-out economic collapse, a lot of movement that requires leisure money is still happening. Seeing this made me wonder where everyone gets all this traveling money? Then, I thought, “Well, everybody ain't broke!”

Despite the uncertainty and traumatic remnants left behind by the pandemic, people have managed to snap back and persevere, and that's because we are an adaptive species. I wondered, though, about the motivating force behind everyone's travel. Is playing it safe a thing of the past, and are people now more interested in living their best life at all costs?

People may use traveling to symbolize a fresh start or to push themselves out of their comfort zones and break away from reality. It could be to experience new adventures or to grow their social media following.

Whatever the reason, traveling is undoubtedly alluring and exciting. It can broaden perspectives and boost thought.

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So, if you're ready for excitement, allure, and adventure, then break out those passports, submit those time-off requests, and let the summer of 2024 be the year you travel through new doors. #NewDoorsIn2024

Talva Writer / Visionary A writer of all things; where I keep it tight from left to write.

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Thoughts to Ponder H

ave you ever thought about your life and the decisions you've made? This journey called life takes us through all kinds of different paths.

Your outcome is usually the result of the path you choose. Decisions can be made based on facts or emotions. Either way, there are consequences. As you reminisce over the good times and shutter at the bad ones, don't forget the lessons.

Life is about learning from our experiences, and growth is necessary for forward movement. Think about how potatoes grow under the ground. It has been engulfed in dirt.

While it is in the dirt, the miracle of life and growth is happening, and at the end of the growth cycle is harvest time. Then, there's a fully grown potato with many benefits.

Have you gone through a period in your life where you feel dormant or at a standstill?

Don't look at it in a negative light. Focus on the endgame and look at what you have accomplished and what you're working towards. You may feel dirty and ashamed of what you went through but don't. Some things had to happen in order for you to grow into your purpose. Deuteronomy 8:2 (NIV) says, “Remember how the Lord your God led you all the way in the wilderness these forty years, to humble and test you in order to know what was in your heart, whether or not you would keep his commands.”

Deborah Jefferson Writer / Visionary A writer of all things; where I keep it tight from left to write.

Could it be that God was growing you during the hard times? He knows what you can withstand. He just needs for you to know and believe in yourself and the power that you have through His son Jesus Christ.

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GROWING MINDS, GUARDING HEARTS Y

ou know, sometimes we think others have perfect lives and perfect children.

We get lost in the glamorous social media posts of tea parties, fancy material belongings, and happy, smiling children living their best lives. But, if we back up a second and get real, we have to realize people often post only their best, the treasured moments and the rare events they feel may set them apart and gain views. We see people proclaiming their love for their spouse, who may be sitting on the couch next to them, and exclaiming “Happy Birthday” to a child who doesn't even have a Facebook account. We seek approval from perfect strangers, which somehow validates whether we are doing a good job raising our children. If we don't happen to get enough “engagement” or the right “responses.” It can often lead to feelings of inadequacy and depression.

Our modern lives and dependence on social media will put us in big trouble. After all, the Bible clearly says, “If you want to boast, boast only in the Lord.” 2 Corinthians 10:17 NLT. I think about this every time I post on social media. It affects my soul significantly, yet I do it every day. Because if I fail to make a post, my business will disappear, and I will slowly disappear from the world. Awful, isn't it? And what example do I model for my growing children? I can't even count the times I have looked up from my Facebook page to yell at them to get off Instagram. They don't know a life in which social media wasn't a thing. Our children see a world where you are only as SPRING 2O24 EDITION

good as the number of likes and views you can collect. After all, you are who Facebook says you are, right?

These things keep me up at night. What about you?

Love to you, Lisa

Lisa Taylor Follower of Jesus, Wife, Homeschooling Momma, Multi-business Owner Surviving Grief Jaden's Mommy 06/25/07 - 03/04/2008 Let's talk.

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LYNN OUT LOUD

By: Lynn Gladney

The Cinderella Effect UPENDED: The Gift of Having a Loving Step-Mother That Speaks Blessings Over My Life

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magine this….Growing up in the early 70's as my mom and dad's only child. In my opinion, I wasn't spoiled but life was pretty “Dy-no-mite” (in my JJ Evans voice)! I was disco roller skating every week with my friends, watching Saturday morning cartoons in the living room while eating my favorite cereal before I would head outside to hop on my pink bike for a trip to the corner store with the neighborhood kids to grab a candy necklace and a dill pickle. Doing all the things “Gen Z'ers” absolutely loved to do during our childhood era.

Now, fast forward some years to a time when life got really interesting. My parents were divorced; they lived in different cities, but I was fortunate to have both of my parents in my life.

I even had a bonus family. Although I hadn't met my new step-mother Betty, I knew my father had remarried. My mother had told me many stories about his new wife as well as my siblings. I was excited about this new family dynamic – at first. After all, up to this point, I was an only child and always had to catch up with my friends when I wanted to play. For the first time, I would have someone to ride bikes, play school and dress-up games, and be the SPRING 2O24 EDITION

BIG sister! Amazing right!?

Well, the newness wore off more sooner than later for me and probably for everybody else, too. I got real tired - real quick of not having my independent, autonomous environment.

For example, now, a simple visit to the local theater was an outing and an expense for the whole family. Instead of just me, I had to make considerations and ask for movie money for all three of us (me and my sisters). When I wanted McDonalds, oftentimes, the response I received was, “We got food at the house!” I remember the first time, that I can recall, I experienced my own personal “blended family” meltdown when the reality that the world did not revolve around me finally settled in. Mom Betty knew I was having a difficult time with the adjustment, but she remained patient, fair, firm and ever so gracious to me.

More than I even deserved at times. I didn't realize all the things I had been “told” about Mom Betty were interfering with my perspective of getting to know her for myself until I was at a crossroad of my own.

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physical the Athletic Department required. That following Saturday morning, I was in my room watching Soul Train when the phone rang, and I dashed to answer it. I remember being so naive, thinking maybe it was one of my classmates calling me to do something cool like hang out at the mall. “Hello,” Mom Betty and I answered the phone at the exact same time. It was a nurse from the Dr's office, and she proceeded to advise one or both of us that whoever had taken the physical the day before was pregnant. All I can remember after the word “pregnant” was the rest of the voices on the call sounded like Charlie Brown's teacher, “Wha wha wha wha,” in my head. I slipped into a dark, quiet tunnel. Still in my room after what felt like hours, Mom Betty walked into the room and gently removed the phone from my hand and returned it to its cradle. She sat down on the bed beside me. Without judgment, criticism, anger or anything remotely close to rebuke, she hugged me and with a heart of the purest unconditional love, she said, “You're going to be ok. We'll get through this.” She shared her own personal testimony of having been met with a similar circumstance in her family. The blessing that she spoke into my life through her vulnerability and transparency changed my life forever! She is the living example of Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

I am beyond grateful for her sacrifice, encouragement and support for our family through the best and worst experiences of our lives. I love you Mom Betty, and I'm so blessed that God picked you!

Lynn Gladney Mother, Veteran, GA Representative District 130 Empowering women, veterans, and professionals while fostering progress and unity within communities.

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BODY SOUL SPIRIT THE PROMISE By: Latoya Washington

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ver the years, there have been countless prophetic dreams and promises made in each of our lives.

You excitedly shared the dreams and visions with family and friends. The joy from anticipation slowly subsided, as minutes turned to days, days turned to months, and months turned to years. One's heart begins to strain under the pressure of reality. There seems to be no sight of the promise ahead. As a result, many stop believing the promise will come to pass.

The word of God is full of stories of believers who waited for the promise to come to pass.

We find in the book of Genesis 17: 4, “As for me, behold, my covenant is with you, and you shall be a father of many nations” (KJV). This promise was made at a time when Abraham and Sarah were not able to conceive. Their current reality was barrenness, but God spoke to Abraham's future. A fatherless man will be a “Father of many nations” and a barren wife will be “Mother of many nations”.

The pages of scripture reveal an infinite and timeless Father who speaks beyond the barriers and walls of impossibility. His word speaks truth and brings life to the barren places in our lives. 2nd Corinthians 2: 20, “For

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all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us.

Now, he who establishes us with you in Christ and has anointed us is God, who also has sealed us and given us the Spirit in our hearts as a guarantee” (KJV).

No matter how many days, months, and years have passed, His word will never fail. Don't forget the promises of God spoken over your life. Our God is faithful to forgive and mighty to save. He is a covenant-keeping God. He is faithful to His Word and His word will never fail.

I am a witness; the Promise is sure to come!

Contact Latoya Washington via email at brokenvesselspodcast@gmail.com.

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BODY SOUL SPIRIT LEGACY By: Dr. Mayah Wood

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admire the plight of the many women before me as well as the women surrounding me. I admire the quintessential legacies of strength and peace that surpass all understanding which are in the DNA of poets like Maya Angelou and Gwendolyn Brooks, billionaires like Oprah and Rihanna, writers like Harriet Jacobs and Zora Neale Hurston, singers like Billie Holiday and Aretha Franklin as well as unsung heroes like my grandmothers, Estelle and Otelia, and mother Marietha. These amazing women, and many like them, climbed mountains so that other women can dream and fervently live out those aspirations.

It is true that women in all walks of life have overcome obstacles as a whole for generations, and embedded in the whole are individual testimonies, many of which we will never know. As I see the women who surround me embrace their journey, I thank God for my own. God kept me through unfavorable circumstances, and His grace and mercy afforded me the opportunities to obtain a doctorate degree, teach, coach, mentor, trademark an organization, own a boutique, but one that I am most proud of, becoming a wife and mother.

God assured me a future, and because of that I

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have always created goals for myself.

Accomplishing my goals is my way of honoring all that God has given me. Without question, God has provided me with everything I have including opportunities I believe will come to fruition. Therefore, I continuously dream of my legacy: a legacy of success, wisdom and preparedness, all of which requires consistent prayer, discernment, planning, effort, and faith.

The legacy of preparedness is afforded through the wisdom of planning for life and financial fitness. I plan to leave behind a prepared path for my children and others to obtain personal success.

I have come far and recognize the blessings in my life, but there is more to do. As women we can choose to be selfish with our success or invent pathways for other women to originate a legacy. I choose to inspire, uplift, and encourage as many women as possible.

Women have come too far; you, too, have come too far. Join me in preparing a legacy.

Let's aspire, affirm and accentuate our success.

Contact Dr. Mayah Wood via email at iaccentuatetoo@gmail.com

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BODY SOUL SPIRIT NEVER GO WITH THE FLOW GROW WITHTHE FLOW By: Jessica Sunflower

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ork, obligations, and life consumes our attention and can easily make us feel like we are drowning. In modern society, it's easy to drift along like our lives are out of control, so we just go with the predetermined current. But as the saying goes, "only dead fish go with the flow. ''It is easy for our waters to become polluted with unfocused energy and flooded by anxiety, worry, overwhelm and grief. We have to remember we are not drowning. Just slow down and breathe. We have control of our lives. We are the captains steering our vessels toward our dreams.

While charting a course that aligns with our passions and aspirations, the waves of worry versus planning can creep in suddenly. It's crucial to discern between the two. Worry, like a turbulent current, consumes us with possibilities, yet fails to offer solutions.

Worrying fixates on potential scenarios that often never even come to fruition. Planning the route for the journey of your vision to happen has nothing to do with controlling every aspect of life, but rather mastering how to respond to the bends and blockages it throws our way.

The trick is to be grounded and anchor ourselves in planning, where we navigate the

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waters of uncertainty with a steady hand, a clear mind, and a peaceful confidence. It becomes our life jacket in the turbulent sea. By anticipating challenges and devising strategies, we empower ourselves to weather any storm that may come our way. Remember, you are always the captain of your life. If you do not like what is happening, change direction! No one can take your power from you. Embracing a proactive action-based approach involves planning for contingencies, ensuring that even in the face of adversity, there's a roadmap to navigate through challenges with ease and grace. Issues and road blocks are like waves, some small, some medium and some large. All will rock the boat but with faith nothing can flip you over.

So, let us remember, water always finds a way, sometimes slow or fast, but moving regardless.

As the masters of our own vessels, we hold the power to navigate these waters with purpose and clarity. As we sail onward, always remember that the waters may be unpredictable, but our inner compass guides us to our destinations.

Contact Jessica Sunflower via email at info@sunflowercabana.com.

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Black Woman Bloom Springing into bloom is this black woman's life.

She's beginning to stand tall, rooted in strength, yet suffered through strife. The essence of her beauty resonates from within.

Sunkissed by God's touch and forgiveness of sin.

Life had shown her no mercy as she weathered the storm.

Disrespected by both men and women with intentional harm.

But because she is rooted in strength, she heeds destiny's sounding alarm. She's beginning to understand her worth through the passing of the storms.

Embracing the power from each passing day as others witness the phenomenon. Her petals of wisdom unfurl through all the trials she has already won. No longer to be defeated by the world nor trampled on.

Spring has come, and her greatness is in full bloom.

A masterpiece of faith that astounds a multitude each afternoon.

Oh, they see this black woman blossoming in full bloom!

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Creative Corner Take the Compliment Sis I like your dress Sis a beautiful girl says to you Your reply, girl I could never rock this dress the way that you do Ma'am your smile is a big as the sun You say thanks young man, but I need to get some dental work done Hey Ms., your curls are popping, your afro is on fleek You say oh really, I felt like this style made me look like a geek Miss Mama I love how you walk like a model You say thanks I guess, but I am not shaped like a coke bottle Oh, girl I love those shoes on your feet You say girl these cheap things I got them from the consignment boutique Ma'am your whole persona is really a vibe You say is that what you see, all I want to do is hide Chic I see you are slimming down You say girl I am so fat I feel like a clown Pretty lady I am so proud of you You say thanks but it can never measure up to the things you do That lipstick color really matches your skin tone You say girl I am a novice I don't know how to put makeup on That brown shirt really matches your eyes You say, my eyes, that is a part of my face that I despise.

Why is it so hard for me to simply say thank you Why can't I just say I appreciate the love boo Why can't I see that I am a light in this world From the way my hips sway to the way my hair curls Why can't I just allow others to show me love Because I know I am a precious gift from above Why am I so hard on me simply being me For some reason I can't see the beauty others see Sister you're as bold as the sun in the sky Your brilliance, your spirit, your aura can't be denied Every compliment that you received you earned The words are yours to enjoy and can't be returned Take the compliment, Sis. Author: Allaina Maria

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BUT GOD! TESTIMONIES

But GOD! Testimonies

It was terrifying standing at the edge of the diving board. My heart began to pound loudly through my chest. My knees began to buckle at the fear of jumping into the deep end.

Instead of succumbing to the fear of drowning, I closed my eyes and jumped. But God gave me the strength to swim through deep waters.

- Latoya Washington

I failed to move from areas where the devil played with my spirit. I became ill for 6 months. But God gave me a second chance to write His word for His people. God said move. I followed God. I am healed, and I am a best-selling author.

- Dr. LaToya Geter-McElroy

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