Irving Bienstock, Beloved Holocaust Survivor and Charlotte Jewish Leader, Dies at 98
By Lori Semel
Irving Bienstock’s life traced a remarkable path from Nazi Germany to a long legacy of service and leadership within Charlotte’s Jewish community. A Holocaust survivor, U.S. Army veteran, longtime Temple Israel leader, and dedicated educator, Irving spent his life sharing lessons shaped by hardship, service, and faith. He died peacefully on May 12, 2025, at the age of 98.
Born in Dortmund, Germany, on June 15, 1926, Irving experienced firsthand the rise of Nazi persecution. At age twelve, he witnessed the violence of Kristallnacht, including the destruction of his neighborhood synagogue and the ransacking of his family home. Within weeks, his mother arranged for him to escape to Holland with only a suitcase, ten German marks, and no travel papers. After a brief detention, he was helped by members of the Jewish community and reunited with his sister, Sylvia. In 1940, the family immigrated to the United States, where they began a new life in New York.
Determined to contribute to his adopted homeland, Irving was eager to enlist in the U.S. Army at age 17. However, out of respect for his mother’s wishes, she had told him, “I saved your life once, I don’t want to lose you now”—he waited until his 18th birthday. He served with the 10th Mountain Division in Italy
during World War II. Upon his return, he completed high school with special permission to attend both day and night classes and went on to earn a degree in engineering from Pratt Institute. This launched a 50-year career in textile engineering, culminating in a move to Charlotte in 1975 when he helped relocate the Singer plant from Queens, New York to Monroe, North Carolina.
Charlotte quickly became home for Irving and his wife, Lillian, whom he had met at a synagogue dance in Brooklyn in 1947. Their bond lasted 69 years, until her passing in 2019. The two built a rich life rooted in Jewish tradition and community service.
At Temple Israel, Irving be-
came a familiar and steady presence. He served on the Executive Board and Board of Trustees, co-led the Temple Israel Social
Club, and was a member of the Ritual Committee. As gabbai, he frequently led Minyan services and stepped in whenever clergy were unavailable. In recognition of his decades of service, he received the the Shofar Award in 2020.
After retiring in 2000, Irving devoted himself to Holocaust education. What began as a few classroom visits evolved into a core role with the Levine JCC’s Butterfly Project starting in 2008. Through weekly workshops and talks, he shared his personal story with thousands of Charlotte-area students and adults, helping to ensure that the events of the Holocaust would not be forgotten. “Once I’m gone, nobody will know what the Nazis did to us,” he often said, underscoring his commitment to being a living witness.
Dana Kapustin, a close family friend, wrote, “Irving had a heart of gold. He carried himself with dignity and kindness, and there was something deeply grounding about being in his company. His love for people was evident in every interaction—whether it was through a warm smile, a helping hand, or a gentle word. He had a way of seeing people, really seeing them. His absence leaves a space that can never be filled.”
Howard Olshansky, executive director of Jewish Family Services, noted, “Irving’s passing represents the loss of an era of Holocaust survivors in our community. Irving was devoted to his wife Lillian, his Judaism, and to sustaining the message of ‘Never Again’ through Holocaust education. Even though
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Second Annual Mishpacha Memories Tour Celebrates Jewish Legacy
By Sandra Goldman, Hebrew Cemetery Director
On a pleasantly cool morning in early May, more than 100 guests gathered at Hebrew Cemetery for the Second Annual Mishpacha Memories Tour — a moving tribute to the Jewish families whose lives shaped the city’s communal and cultural foundation.
Created by Hebrew Cemetery director, Sandra Goldman, the program seeks to preserve the voices of those buried at the cemetery, ensuring their stories continue to inspire future generations. This year’s tour honored eight individuals whose lives embodied resilience, community spirit, and the rich diversity of Charlotte’s Jewish past: Bessie and Jacob Rintels, Rosa Drucker, Nahum Arbell, Henry Hirschmann, Sonia Luski, Berta Kaplan, and Jeffrey Poelvoorde. Their legacies came alive
through monologues performed by actors stationed at each gravesite, some dramatic, others humorous, all rooted in historical research and family memories. Performers were costumed in period attire, their portrayals curated by the Levine JCC’s Department of Art and Culture under
the direction of Michelle Rusgo, director, and Randi Seffinger, coordinator.
Rabbi Judy Schindler led attendees along the cemetery’s winding paths, offering historical and spiritual insights that
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A horse drawn hearse, provided by McEwen Funeral Home and Chapel Pineville, circled the Hebrew Cemetery grounds.
Lillian and Irving Bienstock, 2018
Editor’s Corner
Summer Tech Reset: Reclaiming Balance, Rediscovering Presence
It has become a bit cliché, telling our kids and grandkids how we spent our summers staying out until dark with no cell phones — no adults knew where we were — and drinking water straight from the garden hose. But that’s exactly how I remember it. Texas summers meant swimming lessons at the Walnut Hill Recreation Center and grabbing a carpet square at the public library to claim my spot for story time. And, of course, epic backyard adventures complete with cardboard-box forts and horse apple projectiles to
defend against imaginary aliens.
Typically, when we reminisce about our summers to a younger generation, there’s a hint (or more) of judgment about how “kids these days” are attached to their phones. Every generation tends to believe their approach was best. But if we’re honest and examine our own phone use, are we truly any better? I’m certainly not passing judgment on how others use their phones or guide the young people in their lives. I can’t imagine the challenges of parenting in this digital age, and I admit I love my phone and the ways technology enriches my life.
Yet, I’ve started noticing the subtle ways my phone shifts the rhythm of my days. It’s my companion first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Often, I glance up after a 10-minute scrolling session, realizing I intended only to check the time. It’s much like those moments when we drive down a familiar highway and suddenly realize we’ve been on autopilot —
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So, this summer, I’m trying a personal “Summer Tech Reset,” inspired by Tiffany Shlain’s “24/6,” which suggests a “Tech Shabbat”— one screen-free day per week. I’ve bought an analog alarm clock so I can charge my phone in another room, and I’ve begun to turn off my phone rather than just flipping it over when working or spending time with someone. I’m sure our circumstances differ — but perhaps you’ll feel inspired to consider your own reset, personally and with your family, if that feels appropriate. It’s not about the specific decisions — maybe it’s a certain time each day to put
the phone down, or choosing one day a week — but rather approaching the reset intentionally. As summer unfolds, perhaps we’ll discover how much attention and energy we can reclaim and carry that intentionality forward into the fall and beyond. Even as times change, many summer traditions endure. Kids today can still stake their claim at the library through programs like the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s Center for Education Sweet Reads Summer Reading Challenge, running from June 4 through August 22. Children ages 2-12 track their reading by coloring ice cream cones, earning prizes and even a TCBY frozen yogurt coupon after completing ten books. And kids still splash around at the Levine JCC pool, strengthening friendships formed in religious school, Charlotte Jewish
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he wasn’t born and raised here, he took great pride in his life in Charlotte. When I would drive him around, he always pointed out where he and Lillian first lived and the buildings that had changed over the years. And we always ended up at Phil’s for lunch. For Irving, the Charlotte Jewish community became his family. He was also a true philanthropist—always asking how his support could help the
most in need but never wanting recognition. Most significantly, Irving was about his religion. He scheduled his life around Minyan and Temple activities.”
Irving also served on the board of Jewish Family Services and its President’s Advisory Board. He and Lillian established legacy gifts supporting Temple Israel, the LJCC Butterfly Project, and numerous Jewish and secular causes.
He is preceded in death by his wife, Lillian; his sister,
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Sylvia; and his parents, Ida and William. Irving’s story, rooted in survival and service, became a touchstone for the values he lived by: education, remembrance, and quiet generosity. His final message was clear: “Keep the memory of the Holocaust alive to ensure something like it never happens again.”
In his memory, the family asks that donations be made to Temple Israel or the Levine JCC Butterfly Project.
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Federation Welcomes New Team Members
By Jessica Goldfarb, JFGC Communications Specialist
The staff of Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte (JFGC) is growing, with the addition of three talented professionals who bring a range of skills, passions, and experiences to the organization’s mission-driven work. Federation is pleased to welcome Katharyn Beatrice as accounting assistant, Shivani Raclaw as campaign assistant, and Shelby Robinson as social media manager.
These new team members join Federation at a time of strategic growth and renewed investment in infrastructure, storytelling, and community engagement. Together, they will strengthen the organization’s ability to support and sustain Jewish life in Charlotte, in Israel, and around the world.
Katharyn Beatrice, Accounting Assistant Katharyn brings a background in financial services, a sharp eye for detail, and a calm, communicative presence to her part-time role on the finance team. After stepping away from the workforce for several years, she returns to nonprofit work with a renewed passion for mission-focused service, supporting Women Living Well Ministries Inc. in addition to Federation. “I count (no pun intended) it a privilege to work for Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte,” she shared.
Outside the office, Katharyn enjoys Sudoku, experimenting in the kitchen, and being a dedicated listener to her family and friends. Her professionalism, precision, and warmth make her a valued addition to the operations team.
Katharyn’s contributions will help ensure the organization’s financial foundation remains steady, responsive, and ready to meet the needs of the community.
Shivani Raclaw, Campaign Assistant Shivani brings more than a decade of experience in executive support, financial services, and corporate administration. In her new role, she will support the development team’s administrative operations and help drive initiatives that strengthen local Jewish engagement and philanthropy. “I
am honored to join Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte and contribute to its valuable work,” Shivani shared. “I look forward to supporting the team and helping to further Federation’s commitment to philanthropy, education, and community-building.”
Her organizational and strategic strengths will bolster the success of the Annual Campaign, Federation’s primary fundraising effort for Jewish programs in
Growing the Next Generation of Jewish Leaders
By Jessica Goldfarb, JFGC Communications Specialist
Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s newest Bernstein Leadership Group (BLG) cohort is making strides on their 18-month journey of growth, connection, and leadership development within Jewish Charlotte. Over the past few months, participants have begun laying essential groundwork for their time together, focusing on building relationships, identifying individual strengths, and preparing to dive deeper into their leadership potential.
In March, the group gathered for “Kehilah Kedosha—Building a Sacred Community,” where they explored themes of Jewish identity, leadership, and the power of community. This opening session, led by Federation leaders, set the tone for a year of reflection and connection. It emphasized that leadership begins with personal growth and a commitment to nurturing and strengthening the community
around them.
In their second session, participants turned inward during a StrengthsFinder workshop led by Karen Blankenship of Duke Energy. By identifying and understanding their individual talents, the cohort is learning how to leverage their unique abilities, both personally and collectively. The exercise challenged each member to recognize that true leadership begins with knowing who you are and understanding how to lift others alongside you.
The cohort is now preparing for one of the most transformative milestones of the program: the Shabbaton retreat. Over three days, participants will explore what it means to lead through a Jewish lens, drawing from ancient texts, modern stories, and their own lived experiences. Sessions will include interactive conversations about Jewish identity; leadership models rooted in figures like Moses, Miriam, and Nachshon; and respectful dialogue around complex topics
Charlotte and across the globe. Shivani’s expertise will help ensure these vital efforts continue to have a strong and lasting impact.
Shelby Robinson, Social Media Manager
With more than 15 years of experience in social media, public relations, marketing, and brand strategy, Shelby steps into her new role with deep enthusiasm for community storytelling and digital outreach. A longtime Charlotte resident, originally from Los Angeles, she lives with her husband, Sam, and daughter, Morgan. “I am passionate about using digital platforms to strengthen Jewish identity and foster community connection,” she said. “I’m especially inspired by Federation’s mission to sustain and support a vibrant
Jewish future, both locally and globally.”
Shelby will lead Federation’s social media and digital content efforts, helping to elevate visibility and increase engagement with the broader community.
Her expertise will help ensure the organization’s programs reach new audiences and resonate across generations.
Together, Katharyn, Shivani, and Shelby reflect Federation’s commitment to investing in both people and purpose. As the organization continues to grow, their diverse talents will help strengthen its operational foundation, amplify its message, and deepen its impact, ensuring a vibrant Jewish future in Charlotte and beyond.
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wove each personal story into the larger fabric of Jewish life in Charlotte. At each stop, visitors paused to hear tales of immigration and entrepreneurship, education and faith, devotion to synagogue life, and service to both community and country. Adding a striking visual to the morning, a vintage black horsedrawn hearse, provided by McEwen Funeral Home and Chapel Pineville, circled the grounds. The evocative image served as a poignant reminder of Jewish funeral traditions from a bygone era.
One attendee, Lynne Goldsmith, said, “ I found Michpacha Memories to be both engaging and enlightening. As a relative newcomer to Charlotte, I was eager to learn more about the roots
such as Israel. Rituals like Shabbat candle lighting, Havdalah, and communal meals will create space for spiritual reflection and shared joy. By the end of the weekend, participants will leave with a renewed sense of purpose, stronger ties to their cohort, and deeper insight into their Jewish journeys.
Megan Harkavy, Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s director of education and engagement, described the retreat as “an opportunity not just for reflection and learning, but also for strengthening the bonds that will carry them through the rest of the program and beyond.”
As the cohort continues to learn, grow, and lead, their journey reflects the heart of Federation’s and BLG’s mission: preparing the next generation of Jewish leaders, rooted in identity, purpose, and a commitment to building a vibrant and resilient community. Stay tuned for more updates as these rising leaders take their next steps!
of the Jewish community and of the people who made such important contributions. The quality of the acting was just first class! It was a most enjoyable and educational morning “ Mishpacha, Hebrew for “family,” is at the heart of the program’s mission: to honor those who came before us and to build connections across generations. As the tour concluded, the final words rang out among those gathered: “May their memory be a blessing.”
Through storytelling, shared memory, and sacred space, those lives continue to guide the community they helped build — one family, one moment, one memory at a time.
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Sue’s Bookshelf
By Sue Littauer
Having just finished my third novel by author Jacqueline Friedland, I cannot recommend her books highly enough. Each of the books I’ve read, “He Gets That from Me,” “The Stockwell Letters,” and “Counting Backwards,” tackles a contemporary issue, a period of history relevant to today’s world, or both. Additionally, each novel incorporates legal themes, adding authenticity to the reader’s experience.
“Counting Backwards,” published in March 2025, is especially intriguing. Goodreads describes the novel this way: “Inspired by true events revealing America’s troubling past involving Pre-War eugenics practices,
this emotionally riveting dual timeline novel brings together the lives of two inspiring women while exploring the timely and important themes of immigration, fertility, and motherhood. A revelatory tale of heartbreak and hope, it is an unputdownable story that will stay with readers long after the final page.”
“The Stockwell Letters,” published in 2023, is based on the true story of female abolitionist Ann Phillips and her connection to Anthony Burns, a young man who briefly escaped American slavery and rocked the nation
with his astonishingly heroic story. Unfortunately, the book’s themes remain strikingly relevant today, particularly the suppression of women and the fight for Black lives.
“He Gets That from Me,” published in 2021, won several awards, including Best Indie Book of the Year, the Reader’s Favorite Award, and Best Book Club Pick. Contemporary topics such as same-sex marriage, surrogacy, and the bonds of family are featured prominently. According to Kirkus Reviews: “It is hard to imagine a better novel for a book club discussion … A thoughtful and gripping family tale that will haunt readers long after finishing it.”
I’ve been so fascinated by Jacqueline Friedland that I watched a couple of online interviews with her to learn more about where she gets her inspiration. She has quite an impressive background, having graduated magna cum laude from both the University of Pennsylvania and NYU Law School. She practiced as a commercial litigator at a prestigious New York law firm before pursuing a Master of Fine Arts at Sarah Lawrence College, graduating from the program in
2016. And she managed to accomplish all this while being the mother of four children! If you’re interested in discussing thought-provoking books with like-minded individuals, please consider joining Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s Center for Jewish Education Book Club. We meet on the second Wednesday of each month at 10:30 a.m. on Main Street in the Levine JCC at Shalom Park. On June 11, we will discuss “The Escape Artist” by Jonathan Freedland, and on July
11, “The Long Island Compromise” by Taffy Brodesser-Akner. All of these books are available in the collection of the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Blumenthal Resource Center at Shalom Park. For more information, contact: sueb.littauer@ jewishcharlotte.org
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Federation Announces Retirement of Susan Stafford
By Jessica Goldfarb, JFGC Communications Specialist
It is with deep appreciation and warm wishes that we at Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte announce the retirement of Susan Stafford, who has been an integral part of Federation for the past 25 years.
Susan began her journey at Shalom Park in 1993, joining Levine JCC’s bookkeeping department. From the very beginning, her attention to detail, strong work ethic, and genuine kindness made her a trusted member of the team.
In 2000, Federation was fortunate to welcome Susan as campaign assistant. For 25 years, she has been the quiet force behind much of Federation’s success, offering steadfast support to the Annual Campaign and ensuring that the critical behind-thescenes work was handled with care, precision, and grace.
With Susan’s help, Federation’s Annual Campaign has grown from $2.1 million in 2000 to $6.3 million, raised in 2024. As Federation has evolved, Susan has remained a constant — guiding staff, leaders, and volunteers through decades of change with unwavering dedication.
Sam Bernstein, JFGC chief development and marketing officer, says, “ Susan has been a tremendous asset to me in my
Federation work as both a volunteer and professional. Her retirement marks the end of an era for Federation, and a well-deserved new chapter for her.”
Throughout her tenure, Susan’s contributions extended far beyond her job description. She brought to the office not just her talents and expertise but also her warmth, humor, and deep sense of community. Always ready with a smile, a listening ear, or a witty remark, Susan became more than a colleague, she became a friend and confidant to many.
While Susan will be deeply missed at Federation, Susan’s quiet leadership and unwavering commitment leave an indelible mark on our community. We thank her, and celebrate her enduring legacy with heartfelt gratitude.
Center for Jewish Education Book Club Schedule
The CJE Book Club meets the 2nd Wednesday of the month at 10:30 am in Room A110 at Shalom Park. All books are available at the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library at the Center for Jewish Education.
Jun. 11
The Escape Artist, Jonathan Freedland
Jul. 9
Long Island Compromise, Taffy Brodesser-Akner
Aug. 13
Kantika, Elizabeth Graver
Sept. 10
The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern, Lynda Cohen Loigman
Oct. 29
The Rest of Our Lives, Judy Goldman
Nov. 12
Small World: A Novel, Laura Zigman
Dec. 10
Like Mother, Like Mother, Susan Rieger
Contact sueb.littauer@jewishcharlotte.org for questions
FEDERATION
As a means of bettering our greater Charlotte Jewish community, Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte allocates donation funds to local Jewish organizations who embody Jewish values and overall better our community. In recognition of their work, we at Federation wish to bring attention to these organizations and the good that they do.
Since 2001, the Mindy Ellen Levine Day Camp, affectionately known as Camp Mindy, has offered Charlotte-area children more than just a place to spend the summer. Serving campers from kindergarten through fifth grade, it’s a place where kids try new things, make new friends, and gain confidence in a nurturing, inclusive environment.
Camp Mindy is one of many local programs supported by Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s Annual Campaign. By investing in experiences that build identity and connection from a young age, Federation helps ensure the next generation is grounded in Jewish values and community.
“Being part of Camp Mindy
since it opened has shown us what it truly means to build community,” said Mark DiDonato, senior director of programming, and Mitch Ormand, director of youth and family. “With Federation’s support, we’ve seen
generation after generation of campers grow and thrive. This summer marks 25 years, and we’re excited for what’s still ahead.”
The impact of Camp Mindy lasts well beyond the school break. Campers carry with them memories, friendships, and a strong sense of belonging—cornerstones of a vibrant Jewish future. Federation is proud to help make that possible, one summer at a time.
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The Power of Words
Chaverim and the Strength of Connection
By Jessica Goldfarb, JFGC Communications Specialist
In Hebrew, several common words and phrases carry profound meaning for Judaism, for Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, and for our community, encapsulating the values that shape the essence of Jewish life. Whether you are familiar with these words and phrases or have never heard them, their significance within the context of our community is worth exploring further.
ing us of the importance of chaverim ( םירבח)—friends. Whether it’s catching up over backyard barbecues, reuniting with camp friends, or simply spending more time outdoors together, these moments help build the friendships that sustain us long after the season ends.
The word chaverim shares its roots chet, bet, resh ( ר-ב-ח)— with the Hebrew words chibur ( רוביח), connection, and chevra (הרבח , society. In Jewish tradi- ) tion, chaverim means more than just “friends.” It speaks to deeper bonds of trust, support, and shared experiences. Being a chaver—a friend—is about being connected in a meaningful way. These connections turn neighbors into community, and gatherings into something lasting.
At Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, building community through friendship is at the heart of what we do. Every PJ Library playdate, every NextGen
form and grow. It’s through these connections that Jewish Charlotte becomes stronger, more welcoming, and more resilient. Summer may be short, but the friendships made and strengthened during these long, sunny days can last a lifetime. In a world that often feels divided, chaverim reminds us that we are never alone—we have each
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Celebrating Women’s Wellness at the Inaugural Levine JCC Women’s Health Fair
By Summer Simpson, Levine JCC Wellness Programs Manager
Each year, May is recognized nationally as Women’s Health Month — a time to spotlight the importance of women’s well-being and empower them to take charge of their health at every stage of life. On May 4, the Levine JCC (LJCC) proudly hosted its first-ever Women’s Health Fair, creating a vibrant and engaging space where women in the Charlotte area could explore the many facets of their physical, emotional, and mental wellness.
Held from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., the fair transformed the Foundation of Shalom Park into a hub of discovery, learning, and celebration. Led by the Department of Fitness & Wellness, the event was thoughtfully designed to connect women with local healthcare providers, specialists, and businesses offering resources and services tailored to the unique needs of women, from adolescence through post-menopause.
With an emphasis on education, empowerment, and community connection, the fair fea-
tured a wide array of vendors and organizations. Attendees had the opportunity to meet professionals specializing in women’s health, including pelvic floor therapists, nutrition experts, skincare consultants, life and wellness coaches, and more. Guests could learn about offerings and sample select services, making the experience both informative and interactive.
A highlight of the day was a dynamic lineup of presentations
from medical experts and wellness leaders including, “Aging Gracefully,” “Common Cancer Sites in Women,” and “The Importance of Lifting Heavy,” which addressed the growing conversation around strength training and bone health for women of all ages.
Beyond health-focused content, the fair also featured a curated shopping experience with local artisans and small businesses showcasing artwork, jew-
elry, sporting goods, and unique gifts — perfect for those looking to find something special ahead of Mother’s Day. Attendees also enjoyed a silent auction, with proceeds supporting the LJCC Scholarship Fund, which ensures access to LJCC programs for all members of the community.
“We wanted this to be more than just a health fair; we wanted it to feel like a celebration,” said the organizers from the Fitness & Wellness Department. “Our goal was to bring together a wide spectrum of offerings that reflect the many dimensions of women’s health and wellness, and to do it in a way that felt welcoming, inclusive, and fun.”
The success of this free community event was made possible thanks to the generous support of sponsors and donors. The LJCC extends deep gratitude to our presenting sponsors: Novant Health, Action Plus Ideas, Craft Body Scan, Pivotal Weight Loss and Longevity, and Cigna Healthcare. Their partnership was instrumental in making this vision a reality.
We also recognize and thank our in-kind donors, whose contributions helped elevate
the event experience: Allycia Brown, Diamonds Direct, Diana Barnes, Greg O’Connor, Levine JCC Massage, LJCC Membership, Perry’s Diamonds & Estate Jewelry, RaeLyn Hamilton, Starr Vitality and Wellness, The Village on Morehead, and Wilson Sporting Goods.
As the inaugural event, the 2025 Women’s Health Fair was a true celebration of what’s possible when a community comes together around a shared purpose. With overwhelmingly positive feedback and enthusiastic participation, the LJCC is already looking ahead to the future, with hopes to expand and grow this signature event in the years to come.
Nadav Eyal, award-winning Israeli journalist, will bring his deep insights on Israel’s evolving role in the world to our community. With decades of experience covering global affairs, Nadav has reported on conflicts, political shifts, and the forces shaping democracy and globalization.
In his upcoming masterclass, Nadav will explore how Israel’s global relationships and strategic challenges have been reshaped by the ongoing war, regional tensions, and broader geopolitical trends—offering a vital perspective on Israel in a time of profound change.
Visiting different vendors at the inaugural Levine JCC Women’s Health Fair
A New Chapter for the Greenspon Center: Expanding Holocaust Education and Global Leadership
By Mary Eshet
The Stan Greenspon Center is entering a new era: sharpening its focus on Holocaust education and Jewish studies, expanding its global partnerships, and laying the foundation for a permanent educational presence in Charlotte.
Founded in 2016, the Center has grown significantly in its programming, reach, and impact. At the same time, the need for education and resources to combat antisemitism and hate has intensified. The Anti-Defamation League (ADL) recorded the highest number of antisemitic incidents nationwide in 2024 since it began tracking in 1979, and North Carolina saw a 16% rise in incidents. The Greenspon Center’s expertise is increasingly in demand, and its Certification in Holocaust Pedagogy (CHP) program has gained national and international recognition, drawing interest from organizations eager to collaborate with its graduates and incorporate its approach.
Looking ahead, Greenspon director Judy LaPietra envisions a more focused future. The Center will dedicate its resources and energy to strengthening two core pillars: Holocaust Education and Jewish Studies. These will include programming, training,
and research related to the Holocaust, genocide, Israel, Jewish culture, and antisemitism; Jewish Studies signature classes; and the Black Jewish Alliance.
As part of this renewed focus, the Social Justice and Community Organizing initiatives will transition to Queens University’s Lifelong Learning program. Rabbi Judy Schindler will continue to lead this work, including its certification track, under the Queens umbrella. She will also continue in her role as Queens’ Sklut Professor of Jewish Studies.
In alignment with this shift, the Center will also change its name to the Greenspon Holocaust Education Center, reflecting its clarified mission and expanded educational leadership.
“We are deeply honored by the growing recognition of our work and the number of esteemed organizations eager to collaborate with us,” said LaPietra. “In addition to our treasured local partners like Federation, the Butterfly Project, and the temples, we are now working with national and international organizations to share our expertise in Holocaust education.”
Examples of the Center’s growing partnerships include:
- ADL: CHP graduates are being recruited to participate in Ho-
locaust education research, and assistant director Katie Cunningham serves on the advisory board for the ADL Campus Report Card, which assesses antisemitism and Jewish student support on college campuses.
- The Weitzman National Museum of American Jewish History: Cunningham is a Weitzman Fellow, contributing to antisemitism education research and curriculum development. Charlotte will host the Institute’s first Professional Development session outside of Philadelphia. CHP graduates are also being recruited as pilot educators and fellows.
- Brandeis University: La Pietra, Cunningham, and four CHP graduates are participating
in Brandeis’ inaugural Middle & High School Educators’ Institute on Israel and Antisemitism. The partnership includes a residency at Brandeis, a study tour in Israel, and a regional day of learning in Charlotte this fall.
- North Carolina Department of Public Instruction (NCDPI): The Greenspon Center continues to partner with NCDPI to offer statewide Holocaust and genocide education and antisemitism training, including participation in the North Carolina Center for the Advancement of Teaching.
- Echoes and Reflections at Yad Vashem: Through Cunningham’s connection with the program director, representatives will provide free training in Charlotte on the aftermath of the Holocaust to over 100 educators on June 2.
- North Carolina and South Carolina Councils on the Holocaust: The Center maintains strong partnerships with both councils, co-sponsoring and leading professional development for educators. LaPietra was recently nominated to the N.C.
Council on the Holocaust, reinforcing the Center’s leadership in regional Holocaust education.
“These relationships are true partnerships,” said Cunningham. “These organizations are eager to learn from us and our CHP graduates — and at the same time, we gain so much from their expertise and resources.”
“Judy LaPietra and Katie Cunningham are gifted leaders of the Greenspon Center, and their work brings to life the vision we had when creating it,” said Schindler. “It’s incredibly gratifying to see the success of our Holocaust education and Jewish studies programs. I’m honored to continue growing the social justice program at Queens while staying involved with the Center’s evolving mission.”
With national recognition growing and momentum building, the Greenspon Holocaust Education Center is already dreaming bigger for Charlotte.
“We’re building a future where our impact will be permanent,” said LaPietra. “This is about more than a name change — it’s about sharpening our focus, honoring the legacy of Holocaust education, and ensuring that Charlotte becomes a center for remembrance, research, and resilience. We’re working with a national consulting firm to bring the best ideas and discipline to the creation of a permanent Holocaust exhibition and education center here. We’ll have more to share in the coming months.”
Katie Cunningham, assistant director; Stan Greenspon, benefactor; and Judy LaPietra, director of the Greenspon Holocaust Education Center
Temple Beth El Brotherhood Supports Holocaust Education Across North Carolina
By Fred Valfer
As we commemorate the 80th anniversary of the liberation of concentration camps and the end of WWII, the Temple Beth El (TBE) Brotherhood is reaffirming its commitment to Holocaust education in North Carolina. At a time when the number of survivors able to tell their stories grows fewer, the Brotherhood has raised over $3,500 for the North Carolina Holocaust Foundation. This donation will support the Foundation’s critical mission of funding Holocaust education efforts across the state.
The North Carolina Holocaust Foundation serves as the vehicle through which funds are directed to the North Carolina Council on the Holocaust. The Council uses these resources to support essential educational initiatives, including teacher training, classroom resources, and study trips for educators to Washington D.C. and to Holocaust sites in Poland. These efforts are part of the ongoing implementation of the Gizella Abramson Holocaust Education Act enacted in No -
vember 2021, which mandates Holocaust and genocide education in North Carolina public schools for grades 6 through 12.
For Fred Valfer, president of the TBE Brotherhood and a member of both the North Carolina Council on the Holocaust and The North Carolina Holocaust Foundation, the work is deeply personal. His parents survived deportation to Terezin
during World War II, while other members of his family, including his great-grandmother, were lost in the Holocaust.
“As the son and grandson of survivors, I feel a deep responsibility to help ensure these stories continue to be told,” Valfer said. “Educating students is one of the most powerful ways we can combat rising antisemitism.”
In addition to his work with
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the Council and Foundation, Valfer serves on the Council’s Holocaust Speakers bureau and shares his family’s story in schools and community settings across the region. In the past year, he delivered 16 presentations across six school districts, in addition to civic and student groups.
The funds raised by the TBE Brotherhood have been used to help provide Holocaust-related books, webinars, exhibits, and in-person workshops to students in the greater Charlotte area, supporting the state’s implementation of the Gizella Abramson Holocaust Education Act; a mandate that the North Carolina Council on the Holocaust works hard to fulfill with limited State and public funding.
But for Valfer, this is just the beginning. He hopes Temple Beth El’s model will inspire other affinity groups — brotherhoods, sisterhoods, book clubs, youth groups — to find creative ways to get involved.
“The Brotherhood isn’t a major foundation with a grant,” he said. “We are a group of individ-
uals who simply decide to act. That’s something any community group can do.”
Through collective action and unwavering commitment to Holocaust education, we ensure that future generations will not only learn about the past but also carry forward the responsibility to recognize and combat hate and prejudice in all its forms.
To learn more about the work of the North Carolina Holocaust Foundation and Council—and to explore how your group can make a difference, contact Fred Valfer fmvalfer1@gmail.com.
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The Leadership We Walk With
By Rabbi Asher Knight, Temple Beth El
We Jews love to say “we.” Not just because it binds us to each other, but because it binds us to responsibility. We stood at Sinai. We wandered the wilderness. We sinned. We built. We dreamed. We returned. Ours is not a tradition of solo journeys. Even our ancestors, standing at the edge of liberation, found themselves stumbling—not because they were weak, but because they were no longer walking Pharaoh’s path. They were now walking their own path. And freedom, unanchored by
purpose, can feel like being lost in the woods.
This is the soul work of leadership—not just to guide others, but to walk with them through the wilderness between what was and what might yet be.
It’s tempting to imagine that leadership comes from titles or formal roles. But we know better.
At Temple Beth El—and across the sacred shared spaces of Shalom Park—we are shaped by a deeper truth: that lay leadership is an act of spiritual courage. It’s the practice of showing up— again and again—with clarity, compassion, humility, and conviction. It’s saying “we,” when it would be easier to say “they.” It’s helping a community discern its direction, even when the road ahead is unclear.
For three years, Alan Kronovet’s presidency at Temple Beth El has been a model of that sacred presence. Through seasons of challenge and possibility, he has led with vision, steadiness, deep listening, and enduring commitment. He has helped us stay rooted in who we are, while keeping us moving toward what we must become. Alan has re-
minded us that leadership is not just about decisions—it’s about holding the soul of a community with grace, care, and hope.
And now, as we prepare to welcome A-J Secrist as our next president, we don’t simply pass the torch—we renew our covenant. A-J brings insight, strength, and a passionate commitment to Jewish life. She understands that leadership is about service, not spotlight. It is about cultivating trust, embracing responsibility, and helping a community thrive, not just for today, but for the generations to come.
Our mission at Temple Beth El is clear: to cultivate connected, proud, meaningful Jewish living that inspires change in our world. Our vision is bold: a Jewish community of deep roots, sacred responsibility, and daring hope. That mission and vision only become reality through partnership between clergy, professional staff, and lay leaders who bring their whole selves to the work of building Jewish life.
And we don’t build alone. Temple Beth El’s annual meeting on June 3 is one of many across our community this season, as
Jewish organizations throughout Shalom Park mark transitions in leadership and honor those who help guide our shared future. Across Shalom Park and throughout the greater Charlotte Jewish community, we are lifted by extraordinary leaders—those who lead congregations, agencies, schools, and service organizations. Those who step forward with their wisdom, time, and heart. Our community is strong not because of any one institution, but because of the shared belief that Jewish leadership is sacred work—and that it belongs to all of us. As a rabbi—and as part of a larger Jewish ecosystem—I am profoundly thankful for the leaders who give their time, vision, and presence to sustain, guide, and grow our community; their work strengthens not only Temple Beth El, but the entire fabric of Jewish life across Charlotte. We are deeply grateful for all they do to strengthen and sustain our community.
Today, the need for leadership is greater than ever. In a world that often pulls us toward isolation or cynicism, Jewish leadership calls us back to connection
and purpose. It asks us to be learners and builders, listeners and doers, visionaries and caretakers. And it invites each of us to step forward—not because we have all the answers, but because we are willing to walk the path together.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you could lead, the answer is: yes. Step in. Speak up. Bring your questions, your courage, your voice. The future of Jewish life is not something we watch unfold. It’s something we create.
May we honor those who have led.
May we bless those who now lead.
And may we each take our place on the journey, not just as participants, but as stewards of something greater than ourselves.
Because the journey is not theirs alone, it is ours.
And we walk it together.
Where Strength Begins: A Sacred Pause at Wildacres
By Madeline White, TBE Communications Coordinator
Each Labor Day weekend, our Temple Beth El (TBE) community travels to Wildacres Retreat for more than just a getaway. It’s a chance to slow down, take a breath, and reconnect with each other and with what it means to live Jewishly.
Tucked into the Blue Ridge Mountains, Wildacres has always been a place of rest, reflection, and renewal. When we gathered there in 2024, we welcomed Shabbat surrounded by trees and mountain air, joined in heartfelt conversations, and embraced the joy of simply being together. We ended Shabbat with a joyous songfest, lots of homemade desserts, and a renewed sense of purpose. It was a powerful and peaceful weekend—one that became even more meaningful in the months that followed.
In the fall, Wildacres suffered major damage from Hurricane Helene, followed by wildfires across western North Carolina. Roads were washed out. Trees
came down. Staff were cut off from the outside world for days. And still, this place we love so deeply persisted, thanks to the resilience of its people and the strength of its foundation. That kind of resilience reminds us of what we can hold onto when so much feels uncertain. Each year, our clergy lead a healing service that many consider the heart of the weekend.
In a time of rising antisemitism and constant change, Wildacres offers something rare: a place where we feel safe, connected, and whole. It’s where strength begins—not from controlling the chaos, but by reconnecting with what grounds us.
Our youth embodied that spirit beautifully last year. With guidance from Rabbi Beth Nichols and Rachel Glazer, assistant
director of youth education and engagement, they created Shabbat travel kits for every attendee. These kits became a reminder that the calm and sacredness of Wildacres can travel with us, no matter where we are.
Founded in 1946 by I.D. and Madolyn Blumenthal, beloved members of Temple Beth El, Wildacres was built on the values of learning, connection, and
community. That legacy continues in every conversation, every hike, and every shared meal.
For many, this weekend away becomes a kind of cheshbon hanefesh—a spiritual check-in before the High Holidays. Wildacres gives us time to reflect, recalibrate, and begin the work of returning to ourselves. It’s a rare kind of stillness that helps us listen inward and come home with open hearts and renewed clarity.
It’s also full of fun—from karaoke and s’mores to the sound of kids laughing through the woods.
We can’t wait to return this fall, from Aug. 30 to Sept. 2. We invite all TBE members to join us. Learn more and register at www.templebethel.org/wildacres.
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Building a Brighter Future: The Rebbe’s Legacy in
By Rabbi Levi Cohen, Chabad of Charlotte
Each year on 3 Tammuz, this year falling on June 29, Jews around the world pause to remember the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory. Though the Rebbe’s physical presence left this world in
1994, his leadership, vision, and teachings continue to shape Jewish life across the globe—and perhaps nowhere more tangibly than right here in Charlotte.
When Rabbi Yossi and Mariashi Groner moved to Charlotte in 1980 at the Rebbe’s personal direction, they arrived in a city where the Jewish community
was growing but still small. One of the Rebbe’s first instructions was simple and powerful: make sure there is a working mikvah. The Rebbe understood that Jewish life thrives when it has solid foundations—and that even one act, even one mitzvah, can anchor a community for generations to come.
From those humble beginnings — small Torah classes in living rooms, fledgling Hebrew school programs, Shabbat dinners that felt more like family gatherings than institutions — Chabad of Charlotte grew steadily, hand in hand with the city’s broader Jewish community.
The Rebbe’s vision wasn’t about building organizations for their own sake. It was about building people: giving every Jew, regardless of affiliation, observance, or background, a place to grow, to connect, to celebrate, and to belong.
Today, when we look around the greater Charlotte area, we see a flourishing Jewish community: thriving synagogues, schools, organizations, and cultural institutions that enrich our city. Chabad of Charlotte is proud to be a vibrant part of this broader fabric, offering Jewish education for children and adults, joyful holiday celebrations, outreach programs, and a beautiful mikvah that continues to serve the community—all inspired by the Rebbe’s call to make Judaism accessible, meaningful, and alive for every Jew.
The Rebbe taught us to see opportunities where others saw obstacles. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, of blessed memory,
wrote, “The Rebbe taught not despair, but hope; not defeat, but renewed courage; not resignation, but responsibility.” Even when challenges seemed great, whether rebuilding Jewish life after the Holocaust or reaching Jews in distant cities where community infrastructure was just beginning, the Rebbe believed in the strength of each individual to make a difference.
Elie Wiesel captured it beautifully: “The Rebbe created a climate in which it became not only acceptable but beautiful to be a Jew.” Here in Charlotte, we strive to live that ideal every day.
More than institutions, the
Rebbe built people.
As Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz put it, “The Rebbe did not build a movement. He built people. And people, in turn, build the world.” Each child learning Torah, each Shabbat table filled with guests, and each mezuzah placed on a new home are the true monuments to the Rebbe’s legacy.
This 3 Tammuz, as we mark 31 years since the Rebbe’s passing, we reflect on how his vision has taken root around the globe and right here in Charlotte, and how it calls us to continue building.
The Rebbe’s leadership did not end; it continues through each of us, every time we add a little more light to the world.
To commemorate this special date, Chabad of Charlotte will host a community Shabbat dinner on Friday night, June 27, 2025. The evening will feature inspiration, joy, and reflections on the Rebbe’s enduring vision and will celebrate the vibrant and growing Jewish life that we are all privileged to be part of.
To inquire about attending the dinner, please reach out to Chabad of Charlotte at (704) 366-3984 or email mackenzie@ chabadnc.org.
All are warmly invited to join.
Temple Israel Launches New Paths to Belonging
By Samantha Fultz, TI Director of Membership and Engagement
As Jewish communities continue to evolve in the wake of isolation and change, Temple Israel is stepping into the 2025–2026 year with a renewed focus on connection — not just to tradition, but to each other.
This year, Temple Israel is introducing several new initiatives designed to bring members together in meaningful, mission-driven ways. Among them is a redesigned committee structure, offering congregants the opportunity to lead, serve, and shape synagogue life around core areas such as ritual, music, social action, engagement, and Jewish learning.
Also launching this year are Chavurah Circles — small groups formed around shared interests, values, or life stages. Whether it’s baking challah, hiking on Sunday mornings, playing Mah Jongg, or studying Torah in a relaxed setting, each circle offers a chance to build relationships through the rhythms of Jewish life.
“For some people, synagogue connection begins on the bimah.
For others, it might start on a hiking trail or in a kitchen,” said Samantha Fultz, who recently completed her first year as Temple Israel’s director of membership and engagement. “Our goal is to help people find belonging in ways that feel natural, joyful, and deeply personal.”
After several quieter years, Temple Israel is also revitalizing its Young Professionals group, creating new space for leadership, friendship, and Jewish community for those in their 20s and 30s.
These efforts reflect a broader shift in how the congregation sees membership: not just as an annual renewal, but as an ongoing relationship between individuals and community.
“Temple life looks different for everyone,” Fultz said. “What matters is knowing there’s a place for you when you show up — whether that’s for a class, a celebration, or a quiet moment of prayer.”
Now entering her second year in the role, Fultz says her first twelve months have been filled with conversations — stories of what draws people to Temple Is-
rael, what keeps them connected, and what they hope to build together.
It’s this sensory richness — the melodies of Shabbat, the smell of fresh challah, the laughter during holiday celebrations — that she believes defines Jewish communal life.
“We want to create spaces where people feel seen, supported, and inspired,” she said. “Where every individual can make Judaism their own — and
where tradition feels both rooted and alive.”
As Temple Israel prepares for the coming year, the invitation is simple: whether you’ve been a member for decades, are new to Charlotte, or are simply seeking a deeper connection, there’s a place for you here.
Membership isn’t just for those who attend services every week or volunteer on committees. Membership is for every-
one:
The one who finds peace in the quiet moments of prayer.
The one who wants to dance at Purim and light up Chanukah. The one who needs a community to lean on during life’s hardest moments.
The one who is searching for deeper connection, meaning, and friendship.
As membership renewal approaches, I invite you to renew not just your membership, but your connection to something bigger: to tradition, to community, and to a place where you are truly seen and valued.
For more information about membership, programming, or upcoming Chavurah Circles, contact Samantha Fultz at samantha.fultz@templeisraelnc. org or (980) 960-2380.
The Morris and Sylvia Speizman Sanctuary at Temple Israel
Your Hadassah Summer: Dive into Books, Gather for Fun, and Learn for Life
By Aileen Greenberg-Kriner
Summertime and reading go together like peanut butter and jelly — or a good friend and laughter. Hadassah has many options for you to engage with books during the summer and throughout the year.
One Book, One Hadassah is Hadassah’s national online book series featuring interviews with female authors about their current works of Jewish-themed literature. It is hosted by Lisa Hostein, executive editor of Hadassah Magazine.
Recent One Book, One Hadassah events included a panel discussion with actor and neuroscientist Mayim Bialik, who is profiled alongside dozens of remarkable leaders in “Chutzpah Girls: 100 Tales of Daring Jewish Women.” Co-authors Julie Esther Silverstein and Tami Schlossberg Pruwer also participated.
Before Passover, the series featured an interview with three-time National Jewish Book Award winner, Dara Horn, about her new and first graphic novel, “One Little Goat: A Passover Catastrophe.” The delightful story includes a lost afikomen, a time-traveling talking goat, and a never-ending seder.
One Book, One Hadassah sessions are open to everyone. You do not have to be a Hadassah member to join the events. If you are a member, you should receive emails about registration. You can also find upcoming sessions on the national website, www.hadassah.org, by clicking “Get Involved” and selecting “Virtual Programming.”
Locally, Hadassah Charlotte Metro also offers opportunities for book lovers. Two book clubs for members meet monthly: Short Story Discussion Group and Hadassah BookTalk.
Short Story Discussion Group
Short Story Discussion Group meets on the second Friday of each month. The group is currently reading from “Frankly
Feminist: Short Stories by Jewish Women,” from Lilith Magazine, edited by Susan Weidman Schneider and Yona Zeldis McDonough.
Upcoming meetings:
- Friday, June 13: “Sound Effects” by Michele Ruby - Friday, July 11: “The A-Train to Scotland” by Ellen Umansky
Meetings begin at 11:45 a.m. on Zoom.
Hadassah BookTalk
Hadassah BookTalk meets on the fourth Tuesday of each month. Selections include books with Jewish content or by Jewish authors.
Upcoming meetings:
- Tuesday, June 24: “Who Loves You Best?” by Marilyn Simon Rothstein — the author will join us for the discussion - Tuesday, July 22: “Button Man” by Andrew Gross
Both meetings begin at 7 p.m. on Zoom. Visit our website for more information.
Summer Events
Hadassah Charlotte Metro Game Day
Make time to play. Join us for Hadassah Charlotte Metro Game Day on Saturday, June 22, from 1 to 3:30 p.m. Enjoy snacks and drinks while you play your game of choice (bring your own games). Come with your team, or we can find game partners for you. For details and the sign-up form, visit our website or call (980) 553-1880.
Location: Dilworth area (exact address provided upon registration)
Hadassah Wine & Schmooze
Hadassah Wine & Schmooze will not meet in June due to Shavuot. Join us on Tuesday, July 1, at 7 p.m. at Vintner Wine Market in the Arboretum for a relaxing evening with friends. Holocaust Education Program with Judy LaPietra
Mark your calendar for Sunday, Aug. 10, at 2 p.m., when Hadassah Charlotte Metro will host Holocaust educator Judy LaPietra, director of the Stan
Greenspon Holocaust and Social Justice Education Center.
Her presentation will explore the enduring significance of the Holocaust in today’s world and examine the dangers of hatred, prejudice, and intolerance.
Location: Queens University campus
Admission: Free and open to all LaPietra has more than 30 years of experience in Holocaust education. She served as adjunct professor at UNC Charlotte from 2010 to 2022, where she developed and taught courses in Genocide and Human Rights Studies. She has also worked with the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum, the Anti-Defamation League, and the USC Shoah Foundation, facilitating teacher training and youth leadership programs.
Meetings and Contact Information
Hadassah CLT Metro Board Meetings
- Monday, June 16 — in person at the Levine JCC or via Zoom
- Monday, July 21 — Zoom only
Time: 7 p.m.
Interested in Membership?
We’d love to welcome you. Contact Laurie Sheinhaus at the email or phone number below, or attend one of our events to learn more.
Stay Connected
Website: www.hadassahcltevents.org, includes details and links for events.
Email: HadassahCLT@gmail. com
Phone: (980) 553-1880
Facebook: Hadassah CLT Metro
At 45, Jewish Family Services Looks to the Future Through Legacy Giving
By Susan Meyer, JFS Development Manager
As Jewish Family Services (JFS) of Charlotte celebrates its 45th anniversary this year, the agency is marking the milestone by looking ahead. At the heart of its future vision is a renewed effort to strengthen its legacy giving program , a form of planned giving that allows individuals to make a lasting impact on the community.
Legacy gifts may not carry the public visibility of annual campaigns or special events, but their importance is far-reaching. These planned contributions, often made through wills, estates, or insurance policies, offer longterm stability for JFS, ensuring the continuation of essential services like mental health counseling, food assistance, and support for families in crisis.
Create Your Jewish Legacy is an initiative of the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community (FCJC) to build a strong, vibrant community, now and in the future through planned giving and bequests for permanent endowments. It promotes the message that all of us, regardless of
age, wealth, or affiliation, have the ability to make a difference for future Jewish generations. As the central source for promoting and facilitating long-term philanthropy for Jewish Charlotte, it makes sense for FCJC to lead this program on behalf of the entire community.
The call for legacy giving comes at a time when JFS, like many others, is experiencing rising demand. Social service needs have surged in recent years, and sustainable funding is crucial.
For JFS, building a stronger base of planned gifts is key to preparing for the challenges ahead — not only for today, but for generations to come. The Create Your Jewish Legacy program offers essential guidance and support, fostering a deeper understanding of how to leave a legacy that reflects personal values and community priorities. Donors can ensure that their support for Jewish Family Services (JFS) continues to flourish long after their lifetimes, allowing their commitment to our community to endure for generations.
“Planning a legacy gift is a unique opportunity for individ-
uals to align their philanthropic dreams with the future needs of the agency and the community. These gifts empower donors to create significant change without affecting their financial well-being today,” says Howard Olshansky, executive director of JFS.
Those who participate in the Create Your Jewish Legacy program often describe their decision in deeply personal terms.
Andrew Bernstein, current JFS board president, traces his legacy commitment back to a family tradition of community involvement and responsibility. “My Jewish roots are deeply embedded in Charlotte. Since my grandmother became one of the first members of Temple Beth El, the Bernstein family has actively participated in our Jewish community. My father taught us the importance of improving our community and being actively involved. Serving on the Board of Jewish Family Services allowed me to appreciate the organization’s role in ensuring everyone is seen and heard. For me, the Create Your Jewish Legacy program is a natural way to express my admiration for our community and my
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wish for it to remain significant for my great-grandchildren, just as it is for my granddaughter, my children, my parents, and my grandmother.”
Though often quiet and behind the scenes, legacy gifts have a real and visible impact. At JFS, they fund therapy sessions for those navigating grief, provide meals to homebound seniors, and help families access vital support systems during their most difficult moments. These contributions allow JFS to maintain its mission — to ensure that everyone in the community is seen, supported, and valued.
Sarah L, a JFS donor, says, “I chose to make a legacy gift to Jewish Family Services because I believe in the mission and values it upholds. Knowing that my contribution will help provide mental health support, food assistance, and counseling for families in need gives me immense satisfaction. It’s heartwarming to think that my commitment will continue to support our community long after I’m gone. I encourage others to consider leaving a legacy that reflects their values and invests in a brighter
future for generations to come.”
As the organization looks to its next 45 years, it’s inviting the community to think about the kind of future they want to help create. For those who choose to make legacy commitments, it’s about more than philanthropy — it’s about connection, purpose, and hope.
“Supporting JFS through a legacy gift is a chance to be part of something bigger than yourself,” Olshansky said. “It’s a chance to ensure this work continues — for the next 45 years, and beyond.” If you are interested in learning more about legacy giving, contact Susan Meyer at susan.meyer@jfscharlotte.org.
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Easing Summer Parenting Stress
By Howard Olshansky, JFS Executive Director
Summer often evokes images of carefree fun—sunshine, barbecues, beach days, and children playing late into the evening. But for many parents, especially those juggling work, caregiving, and household responsibilities, the summer months can also bring stressors that aren’t talked about enough.
When school lets out, so does the structure that keeps many families grounded. Suddenly, routines vanish, childcare becomes a logistical puzzle, and there’s pressure to create lasting memories—often with limited time and energy.
Here are strategies to ease summer parenting stress and find moments of connection along the way:
- Shift Expectations
Summer doesn’t have to be packed with Pinterest-worthy activities. Letting go of the idea that you need to constantly entertain your kids can be freeing. Simple moments—popsicles on the porch, catching fireflies, or
reading together—often leave the biggest impact.
- Create a Flexible Daily Rhythm
Children thrive with routine, even when school is out. A loose daily flow—morning outdoor time, quiet afternoons, and consistent meals and bedtimes—can offer stability without feeling rigid.
- Don’t Overschedule
Camps and enrichment programs can be great, but too many activities can lead to burnout— for kids and parents. Downtime encourages creativity, independent play, and gives everyone space to breathe.
- Keep a “Boredom Buster” Toolkit
Instead of planning elaborate outings, keep a jar or list of easy ideas on hand: build a fort, go on a nature walk, make a sidewalk chalk mural. These low-effort activities can bring quick joy with minimal prep.
- Make Space for Yourself
With kids home more often, it’s easy to forget your own needs. Take small breaks when you can—a walk, a coffee with
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Bob Abel
Paul and Lynn Edelstein
Leonard and Karen Fox
Shel and Ellen Goldstein
Stanley Greenspon
Florence Jaffa
Gary Silverstein
Mark Damon
Andrew and Julie Dermack
a friend, or ten quiet minutes alone. Caring for yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential.
- Practice Self-Compassion
Some days will be messy. There may be more screen time, sibling squabbles, or takeout dinners than you’d prefer. That’s okay. Perfection isn’t the goal— presence is.
- Include Kids in the Planning
Give children a say in what summer looks like. Ask what they’d like to do or create a family bucket list together. When kids feel ownership, they’re more likely to engage—and less likely to resist.
Summer stress is real, but it doesn’t have to steal your joy. With a bit of planning, permission to let go of perfection, and a focus on connection over control, parents can navigate the season with more ease. You don’t need to do it all—you just need to show up.
Jewish Family Services
Acknowledgements April 2025
Volunteers: Brian Ablitz, Jessica Alfandary, Marcia Arnholt, Mike Arnholt, Daniel Benjamin, Andrew Bernstein, Jonathan Collman, Andrea Cronson, Julie Dermack, Elayne DeMaria, Joni Deutsch, Sheryl Effren, Jamie Fram, Rachel Friedman, Robert Friedman, Meredith Gartner, Marty Goldfarb, Blair Goldsmith, Richard Goldsmith, Joann Goldstein, Jennifer Golynsky, Gail Halverson, June Hirschmann, Rebecca Hockfield, Tara and Liat Hubara, Bob Jacobson, Jodie Joseph, Rikki Kinitsky, Jennifer Koss, Stephanie Kreitman, Glenn Kunkes, Eric Lerner, Kim Levy, Adina Loewensteiner, Matt Luftglass, Frada Mozenter, Deb Perelgut, Wendy Petricoff, Barbara Rein, Nina Rose, Cindy Siesel, Stuart Singer, Lisa Somerson, Lauren Stark, Lorin Stiefel, Steve Teich, Gail Vogel, Nancy Wielunski, Bob Weinstein, Amanda Zaidman, Jeff Zaleon
Passover “Taste of the Holiday” Deliveries: Jessica Alfandary, Bonnie Bonomo, Charlotte Jewish Day School, Dan Coblenz, Erica Davison, Scott Gilbert, Richard Goldsmith, Jodie Joseph, Marcia Lampert. Alison Lerner, Kim Levy, Ana Silverstein, Harry Sparks, Lauren Stark
Special Thanks: Shai Fargian and Yafo Kitchen for donation of Passover meals
Hadassah Meal Preppies: June Hirschmann, Paul Hirschmann, Penny Krieger, Judy Kaufmann, Betsy Olinger, Geneva Boxer, Denise Abadi, Yvette Jacobson, Kim Maguire, Judith Goodwin, Andrea Schewitz, Sara Friedman, Gabriel Allen
Shalom Green: Thank to all Shalom Green volunteers for providing fresh produce to our pantry clients.
Food Pantry Donations: Thank you to our generous community for continuing to donate to the food pantry. We continue to collect donations every other Wednesday at the portico entrance to the Blumenthal Center for Jewish Education Building at Shalom Park.
Jill Newman
Shel and Ellen Goldstein
Marshall Rauch
Shel and Ellen Goldstein
Nathan Rose
Leonard and Karen Fox
Rachel Green
Mona Radiloff
Jacob Swimmer
Shel and Ellen Goldstein
Mazel Tov
Amanda Levine & Kevin Pietrick, on their marriage
Howard Olshansky
The Hebrew Cemetery joins with the community in remembering the names of those who have been buried in the cemetery in the month of April, 2025
Alexander Vishnev 1/27/1964 - 3/30/25
Jeanne Lecker
2/15/1930 - 4/25/2025
Bal Tashchit and Beyond: Green Getaways
By Rochelle Carney
As summer approaches, travelers are planning vacations and looking forward to well-earned breaks. Charlotte Douglas International Airport (CLT) experienced record-breaking passenger numbers in 2024, rising one spot from the previous year to become the sixth-busiest airport in the world in takeoffs and landings, and the seventh-busiest in North America in terms of passenger volume.
Many of us are mindful about making eco-friendly choices, such as recycling and composting, in our homes, but it’s just as important to carry that same awareness with us when we travel. There are several ways travelers can enjoy their summer vacations while minimizing their environmental impact.
Strategies for traveling inten-
tionally fall into two broad categories: The choices we make when planning, preparing, and executing travel plans, and the choices we make once we reach our destination.
Traveling to Your Destination
The portion of travel with the greatest environmental impact, air travel, can seem difficult to manage, but even this stage offers choices that yield positive results, both in the air and on the ground.
Vacation and its environmental impact begins as soon as you head to the airport. As with any discussion of impact mitigation, the first recommendation is to use public transportation. While that can be tricky with luggage, especially in a city like Charlotte that does not offer train service to the airport, other good options include rideshare services and
carpooling.
Air travel itself significantly contributes to carbon emissions. While it’s unrealistic to avoid flying altogether, travelers can take steps to reduce their environmental footprint. Choosing nonstop flights reduces the time spent in the air, and flying directly to your destination minimizes takeoffs and landings—the most fuel-intensive parts of a flight.
American Airlines (AA), which operates most flights out of CLT, has committed to reducing greenhouse gas emissions intensity by 45% by 2035 and achieving net-zero greenhouse gas emissions by 2050. To meet these goals, AA is acquiring newer, fuel-efficient aircraft and investing in alternative energy sources. The airline also offers customers the option to offset carbon emissions associated with their flights through Cool Effect (www.cooleffect.org), which supports high-quality, verified carbon reduction projects worldwide.
At Your Destination
While green-certified hotels are ideal for the eco-conscious traveler, they’re not always available. Here are ways to make
sustainable choices, even in standard accommodations:
- Reuse linens and towels: Decline daily housekeeping services to conserve water and reduce detergent use.
- Power down your room: When you go out, adjust the thermostat (or turn it off), close the shades, and turn off lights and electronics.
- Avoid single-use plastics: Bring reusable water bottles and toiletries to minimize plastic waste.
- Support local businesses: Choose locally-owned hotels or bed-and-breakfasts, which often have smaller carbon footprints than large chains.
- Return plastic key cards: Policies vary, but many hotels can reuse key cards. Turning them in helps reduce plastic waste.
- Advocate for change: Encourage your hotel or tour guides to adopt more sustainable practices. Your voice matters.
- Engage in low-impact activities: Opt for walking tours, biking, or kayaking instead of motorized excursions.
- Dine locally: Eating at local restaurants supports the community and reduces the emissions
from transporting food.
- Respect natural habitats: Stick to marked trails and avoid disturbing wildlife.
- Consider volunteering: Spend part of your trip contributing to local environmental or community projects. Even a morning of service can help offset your impact.
A Pledge to Travel Better
We encourage you to take the Travel Better pledge from sustainabletravel.org and voice your commitment to responsible tourism:
I am committed to protecting and preserving our planet’s most vulnerable destinations so that future generations of residents and visitors can continue to experience their splendor for years to come. I pledge to “Travel Better” by making a conscious effort to:
- Lighten the footprint of my travels
- Conserve the wild places I explore
- Support the people and communities I visit
- Respect the wildlife I see
- Celebrate cultures authentically and respectfully
- Advocate for sustainable tourism
Our carbon footprint can grow quickly if we’re not intentional about making environmentally conscious choices. However, travelers can reduce their impact without making drastic changes. As CLT continues to grow and evolve, incorporating sustainable practices into our travel plans becomes increasingly important, especially when departing from one of the world’s busiest airports.
As always, even a little effort can go a long way when it comes to protecting our planet.
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I Scream, You Scream, We All Scream for Ice Cream!
I love ice cream. There’s truly nothing better on a hot summer day than a cold, creamy ice cream cone — especially when it’s choc olate, my favorite flavor!
Did you know there’s a rich Jewish history behind some of your favorite ice cream brands? Reuben Mattus began selling ice cream in the 1920s in New York City. When sales were slow, he dove into learning the craft of ice cream making and revamped his recipe. He also rebranded his product with a name that sounded distinctly European: Häagen-Dazs. As Mattus explained, “The only country which saved Jews during WWII was Denmark, so I put together a totally fictitious Danish name and registered it.”
You’re probably also familiar with the iconic duo Ben Cohen and Jerry Greenfield. In 1978, they opened the first Ben & Jerry’s scoop shop in Burlington, Vermont — and the rest is delicious history.
More recently, in 2009, a mother-daughter team founded Chozen, a Jewish-inspired ice cream company featuring flavors like rugelach, matzah, halva, and babka. Talk about a sweet way to celebrate culture and tradition!
June is the perfect time to enjoy a scoop (or two). We begin the month with Shavuot — a holiday traditionally celebrated with dairy treats. What better excuse for ice cream?
I’m also thrilled to share that Jewish Federation of Greater Char lotte and the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library are teaming up for a sweet summer reading adventure! Starting in June, children ages 2–12 are invited to join our Sweet Reads Summer Reading Program. Stop by the library to pick up your game board. For every book you read, color in an ice cream cone. After 8 books, you win a prize — and if you read 16, you’ll earn a grand prize (a free TCBY frozen treat!).
Reading and eating ice cream? I can’t think of a better way to spend the summer! ~ Miss Sara
Color the Banana Split! What flavors would you choose?
Help the ReachPenguin the Ice Cream
How to Make Ice Cream in a Bag
Ingredients: 1 cup half-and-half
2 Tbsp. granulated sugar
1/2 tsp. pure vanilla extract
1/3 cup kosher salt
Toppings of your choice
Directions:
In a small resealable plastic bag, combine half-and-half, sugar, and vanilla. Push out excess air and seal.
Into a large resealable plastic bag, combine ice and salt. Place small bag inside the bigger bag and shake vigorously, 7 to 10 minutes, until ice cream has hardened.
Remove from bag and enjoy with your favorite ice cream toppings.
Across
1. Judah Maccabee or Avigdor Kahalani or Amir Tibon, e.g.
5. Does a little cutting
10. Young rascal
13. “The Aviator” Oscar nominee Alan
14. Home to fly into 15. Nada
16. Chutzpah, to Aretha Franklin?
18. Jewish King for 41 years
19. Fill
20. Jellyfish attacks
22. Next or Z
25. Redmi ___ (smart phone)
27. Thoughts
28. Came up, in conversation
30. Chutzpah, to the Cowardly Lion?
32. Oral Torah redacted by Rabbi Judah ha-Nasi
34. Actress Kurylenko of “Black Widow”
35. Bounce back sound
36. Chutzpah, to the bladder?
38. Vegan’s protein, sometimes
42. Weathers of “Rocky”
44. Kings and Senators play in them
46. Chutzpah, to a chiropractor?
50. ADAs and TAs
51. Ghost costume, more or less
52. Daf follower
54. “... ___ the land of the free...”
55. Elements and Pilots
57. They’re certainly not served at kosher Shabbat tables
59. Esses’ predecessors
60. Chutzpah, to a chubby baby?
65. Sch. with a Phoenix campus
66. What Marge (lovingly) calls her husband
67. Musical masterwork
68. Stags and bucks, e.g.
69. Actors McGregor and Stewart
70. He broke Batman’s back
Down
1. Owned
2. Jewish leader who had prob-
VILLAGE
lematic sons
3. Some GPS displays
4. Angler’s needs, maybe
5. Esthetic discernment
6. Observe Yom Kippur
7. It’s all the rage?
8. They might be muted on Zoom
9. Bed for a gem
10. More foolish
11. Kibbutz ___ Am
12. Comic actor Christopher Mintz-___
17. All finished, as dinner
21. Comes up with plans
22. Basketball, for one
23. Stonestreet of “Modern Family”
24. Snack
26. Last syllable of Havdallah
29. In awe
31. Cinder follower
33. Home of the Taj Mahal
37. Israel, to the US
39. It works ___ many levels!
40. You might say it’s bashert
41. Former USA foe
43. Diplomatic mission member
45. “Spider-Man” series director Sam
46. ___ tova
47. Richard III offered his king-
dom for it
48. Big count
49. One blessing the congregation daily in Israel
53. Brings in, as salary
56. Look pregnant
58. One looking down on others
61. Jewish mom (Var.)
62. Green org.
63. It’s kind of a big, hot deal
64. Erez to Sderot dir.
(Answers on page 22)
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Newspaper archives are a treasure trove of collective memories, providing a snapshot of our history. The following in an excerpt from the article in The Charlotte Jewish News, May, 2014. To read the rest of the article and other issues of The CJN, visit the archives at https://www.digitalnc.org/newspapers/charlotte-jewishnews-charlotte-nc/.
Looking Back: Year 2014
A Bar Mitzvah for Irving
By Irving Bienstock
I was born in 1926, on the 3rd day of the Hebrew month of Tammuz. My Bar Mitzvah was scheduled for the Shabbat of June 24, 1939. I attended cheder for my Hebrew education in Dortmond, Germany in the fall of 1938 where I started to learn about the laws pertaining to putting on tefillin. My parents were busy with their own preparations such as creating a special tablecloth for our dining room table and ordering the fabric for my Bar Mitzvah suit. It all came to a halt on September 28, 1938, when my father had to flee to Belgium to avoid arrest by the Gestapo. My schooling came to an end on November 9 after Kristallnacht, the Night of Broken Glass. On January 15, 1939, my mother put me on a train to Holland, where I wound up in a Children’s Home in Wijk an Zee. Miraculously, I was reunited with my younger sister,
Sylvia, and we stayed there for three months. I was then sent to the Burger Weeshuis, the municipal orphanage in Amsterdam, which housed other Jewish children who had arrived there via the Kindertransport.
After I had been there a week, I asked the Director, Zuster Van Der Elsakker, if I could go the synagogue on Saturday. When I lived in Germany, I always went to shul on Shabbat with my father. The answer was “yes.” Along with a member of the staff, I joined three boys my age on a walk to the main Ashkenazi Synagogue in Amsterdam. After that Shabbat, we were allowed to attend weekly, now without escort. On my second Shabbat, I approached the Chief Rabbi of Amsterdam and told him I had a problem: I was to have a Bar Mitzvah on June 24 and I would like to have my Bar Mitzvah on that day. The Rabbi was very kind and
sympathetic, and told me not to worry. Не scheduled my Bar Mitzvah and sent a teacher to the Burger Weeshuis to teach me what I needed to know. The teacher, Mr. Mansbach, came and taught me to read the minimum lines required from the Torah since our time was limited. I was fortunate to have others help make my Bar Mitzvah possible. Mevrau (Mrs.) Wijssmuler, a Dutch lady, used to visit us at the orphanage. Although she was not Jewish, both she and her husband were very good to us. One day she came and took me out and bought me a new suit for my Bar Mitzvah, complete with knickerbocker pants. My aunt, through marriage, had a sister who lived in Amsterdam whose name was Insdorf. Mrs. Insdorf invited me to spend my Bar Mitzvah Shabbat at their house, and we all went to the synagogue together. My sister, who now
lived in the Jewish Hospital of Amsterdam (because of her diabetes) was also able to attend. At my Bar Mitzvah, I was called to the Torah where I read a portion from the Sedra Chukas (Chukat). The Rabbi made a wonderful speech about me. After Hagbah and Gelilah, I was given the honor of placing the silver crown and breast plate on the Torah. At the end of the services, I went to the Insdorfs for a Shabbat meal. That evening, I returned to the Burger Weeshuis and my sister Sylvia went back to the hospital.
I received some wonderful and unexpected presents. On Sunday, I returned to the synagogue where I was presented with my Bar Mitzvah certificate. It now hangs on the wall of our dining room. The Moses family, who owned a Jewish bookstore in Amsterdam, gave me a pair of Tefillin, a Siddur, and a Chumash, which I still have.
My Grandmother, who had been deported to Poland on September 28, 1938, sent me a Tefillin bag. These were all wonderful, kind people. The Insdorf family, my Aunt, along with my Grandmother, all perished in the Holocaust. I do not know what happened to the Rabbi or Mrs. Wijssmuller. Nor do I know what happened to the many other good people who helped me. I do know that I will always be grateful to them for their many kindnesses and for making my Bar Mitzvah possible. For more information about, to schedule participation in, or to volunteer at a Butterfly Project workshop, please contact Dana Kapustin, Butterfly Project Coordinator at butterflyproject@ charlottte.or or 704-944-6833.0
