That Girl At The Party | February 2020 | The Love Issue #2

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THE LOVE ISSUE

Vo l . 5 : F e b r u a r y 2 0 2 0

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Let’s Fall In Love!

Enjoy these 130 pages of the best of the best for Valentine’s Day and Winter 2020.

You’ll find gifts, recipes, and all the things you need to create a wonderful Valentine’s Day.

Ed i tor ’s L e tte r

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Welcome to the second annual That Girl At The Party Love Issue! Having founded TGATP, one of NYC’s first true lifestyle blogs in 2009, I am now proud to present you with a digital magazine version of my content.

Love Is

Like the blog, the digital flip book version will include more of the lifestyle products, spa services and destinations that I know you will love. My motto has always been “all the lifestyle it’s fit to print.” Thus, you will only find the very best in lifestyle including beauty, travel, home, food, wellness, entertainment, books and tech picks in my pages. Coupled with a movie guide, recipes, interviews and features stories on spirituality, business, and life in general, each monthly issue of TGATP The Magazine, is a primer on all the best that life has to offer.

This issue, is all about Valentine’s Day, so there is an extensive gift guide. There are also plenty of beauty products to see you through the rest of the winter months, great home items, two yummy but healthy recipes, the most romantic books ever, and my movie guide for February 2020.

y e n t r u o C xoxo

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“Love is the whole thing. We are only pieces.”

- Rumi

Ephesians 4:2

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in Love."

Love Is All You Need

Fun Valentine’s Day Facts from Smilebox.com

Gifts For Her Jewelry, chocolates, flowers and lingerie are always great choices for Valentine’s Day gifting for every gal on your list. Check out my favorites in these categories for 2020!

Show your love with these gorgeous pieces from Talis Elements.

2-in-1 Lemon and Carved Mother of Pearl Earrings | $375

Bokaro Ring In 18K Gold Vermeil, Raw and Pave Champagne Diamonds | $355

Fluorite Green Onyx and Amethyst Ring | $325

Luxurious with magical effects, I could wear a Talis Elements dragon piece every day!

Fast and Furious Dragon | $585

Dragon Choker | $1245

Yellow Triple Cuff Energy Dragon | $325

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Champagne Citrine Ring $345 I am mad for Citrine, which is my birthstone so I am fiending for this Talis Elements ring! It is gorgeous on and also brings abundance and prosperity.

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Tiffany’s Love Ring from Paloma Picasso $550 Made of 18k gold and featuring Paloma’s own handwriting this expressive collection was inspired by graffiti scrawled on New York buildings.

This ring is the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for every single gal you know.

I am mad for these customizable pieces from Capsul Jewelry

Custom Wide Classic Ring | $190

Custom Wide Cut Cuff | $550

Custom Wide Classic Cuff | $350

Custom Cut Out Ring | $190

Custom Signature Necklace | $220

Custom Classic Hingle Bangle | $435

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Rings…and bracelets…and necklaces…oh my!

Custom Thin Double Ring | $275

Custom Double Signature Ring | $190

Custom Heart Necklace | $220

Custom Signature Cuff | $485

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Swarovski Last year I gifted myself with a lovely piece for Valentine’s Day from Swarovski. Here are this year’s picks:

(Clockwise from top left)

1. Lifelong Heart Pierced Earrings | $89 2. Attract Soul Heart Ring| $99 3. Infinity Pierced Earring | $99 4. One Bracelet | $119

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Pandora Pandora always offers a great array of sparkly gifts for every female of every age on your list. This year, start her off with a bracelet and a Frozen charm. I love to mix the rose gold and the silver.|
 (clockwise from left to right) 1. Kiss Pave Charm | $115 2. Clear Heart Solitaire Ring | $50 3. I Love You Script Charm | $25 4. Freehands Heart Ring | $55

The Lingerie

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Savage by Fenty Eye Heart U Unlined Bra $22 The Eye Heart U Unlined Bra features cute embroidered tulle fabric, adjustable straps, and a satin bow at center front in a print, hilariously called “cute AF”, which it is.

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Evelyn Bobbie Comfort is always sexy. I love these sporty, yet elegant looks from Evelyn Bobbie. The EB panties are all I want to wear as they leave no line, yet stay up all day. The brand is available at nordstrom.com.
 (clockwise from left to right) 1. Assorted 3-Pack Bikinis | $60 2. Defy All Day Comfort Bra | $68

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Triumph Triumph has been adorning women in elegant lingerie since 1886!

These two sets are must-haves.
 (clockwise from left to right) 1. Style Spotlight Demi | $48 2. Peony Floral Underwire Bra | $72 3. Peony Florale Maxi | $35 4. Style Spotlight Frenchie | $28.50

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Victoria’s Secret For many years, I was anti-Victoria’s Secret due to their failure to embrace all body shapes. But a recent visit to the store made me fall in love with the brand again. (clockwise from left to right) 1. Dream Angels Long Line Bustier | $119 2. Bondage Teddy | $99 3. Hi-waist Thong Panty | $29.50 4. Snake Charmer Teddy | $39

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Fragrances Fragrances are such a great Valentine’s Day gift for the women in your life. These are my three affordable favorites for this year.

(Clockwise from top)

1. Othus Turquoise | $45 2. Caswell Massey Canyon | $25 3. Fragonard Lavande | $24

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““Love is not an emotion, it’s your very existence” - Rumi

The Flowers

Bloom Passion Roses and Calla Lilies | $200

Urban Stems The Rosa | $95

“Send her your love with a dozen roses. Make sure that she knows it, with a flower from your heart� - Stevie Wonder

The Bouqs Co. Yours Truly | $69

Venus et Fleur Blush Eternity Roses | $299

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Ode A La Rose Charlotte $199 - $299 The color white has many notable symbols: innocence, youthfulness, loyalty, purity, honesty, and perfection. Express your love in its purest form with this elegant arrangement.

Flowers: Patience garden roses, White hydrangeas, White spray roses, White ranunculus

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“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right doing there is a field. I'll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.�

- Rumi

The Chocolates

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Spicy Dark Chocolate Truffles Makes 28

My dark chocolate truffles make a lovely Valentine’s Day gift. So I am re-publishing my recipe once again this year. I stopped eating diary a couple years ago, so I have modified my recipe to a vegan version.

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INGRIEDIENTS • 1 8 ounces of vegan unsweetened dark chocolate (70% or more cacao) • 2 3 TBSP of full-fat coconut milk • 3 1/4 cup organic refined coconut oil • 4 1 tsp vanilla extract • 5 Hot chili powder of choice • 6 Assorted toppings and/or middles of your choice (nuts, sprinkles, or unsweetened shredded coconut are good options) • 7 1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder for coating

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DIRE CTIO NS

Find some lovely boxes and make these for your friends and family this Valentine’s Day. • 1. Melt the chocolate and the oil and the coconut milk over a low heat Stir in the vanilla and chili peppers to taste. Refrigerate in a bowl until the mix is set but still soft enough to roll into balls about an hour and a half.

• 2. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper • 3. Scoop the chocolate with a tablespoon or 1-inch ice cream scoop and roll into balls. Coat with the cocoa powder and or your toppings and place your truffles on the parchment paper lined baking sheet. Refrigerate for 10 to 15 minutes • 4. Transfer to your boxes or an airtight container iand store n the fridge.

• 5. Let stand at room temperature for 30 minutes before serving.

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La Maison Du Chocolat The Magical Hatbox $650 One of my favorite chocolatiers, La Maison Du Chocolat has knocked it out of the chocolicious park this season, with a massive hatbox loaded with chocolatey treats! This is the ultimate Valentine’s Day gift for all chocolate lovers.

Sweets For My Sweet, Sugar For My Honey

Godiva Valentine’s Day Mini-Heart Box | $6.95

Treat House Rice Krispies Treats | $49

Maggie Louise Confections Kiss & Tell | $48

The Chocolate Covered Co. Belgian Chocolate Dipped Oreos | $49

Sugar Plum Heart Shaped Chocolate Pizza with Mallet | $55

Norman Love Confections 15-Piece Signature Box| $35

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Vosages Cosmic 
 Ensemble $150 Vosages is one of my favorite chocolate companies. The Exotic Truffle Collection has a purple box hand-tied with a satin bow and includes an enclosure booklet describing the flavors and their unique truffle stories.

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Whitman’s Sampler Boxes $15 - $19 When I was little, my Dad always gave me a Whitman Sampler for Valentine’s Day. You can now purchase a classic version or a sugarfree box for the loved ones on your list who, like me, have eliminated sugar from their diets.

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Le Saint French Chocolate Le Grand Ballotin $200 With an assortment of all of the delectable Le Saint French Chocolates, this is the ultimate in luxury. It weighs over 2 pounds and containing nearly their entire collection - 4 layers of Assorted Barks & Brittles, Bonbon & Pavé Assortment, Crispy Royaltines and French Turtles. When you want to impress with a gourmet chocolate gift, size matters.

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Jacques Torres Lovebirds BonBon Game $69 A sweet way to get to know your lover better!

You may be truly passionate about your partner, but how well do you really know each other? Get to know your Valentine on a much deeper level with this fun game. Pick up a bonbon, match the color to the question card, share your answer, and enjoy!

Bonbons include: Raspberry in White Chocolate (Blue & Green hearts) Yuzu in Milk Chocolate (Pink & White hearts) Passion Fruit in Dark Chocolate (Red & Orange hearts) Dark Chocolate soft center in Dark Chocolate (Yellow & Brown hearts)

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Chequessett Chocolate The Bar Collection $50 I discovered this yummy brand at NY Now. Chequessett Chocolate has the very best Vegan bars I have ever tasted. Buy a set for yourself and everyone on your Valentine’s Day List!

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Louis Sherry Chocolates $10 for 2-piece $35 for 12-piece I also discovered this brand at NY Now. Louis Sherry is a 101-year old brand offering delish chocolates in vintage keepsake jewel boxes.

Get the 12-piece for loved ones and the 2-piece mini box for work colleagues.

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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.�

- Rumi

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Spring Fashion

Once the holidays are over I am ready for warm weather! Here are some super cute spring pieces to get now in anticipation of the sunnier days ahead!

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Dooney & Bourke Dillen Pocket Sac $228 Dooney & Bourke have always been one of my favorite brands for classic bags.

Right now, I have my eyes on this beauty!

With pebbled leather of gorgeous rich blue in a timeless hobo bag with two convenient outside pockets and a lovely soft pink lining, it’s handbag perfection.

For an extra Valentine’s Day surprise, hide a piece of jewelry in the pocket!

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Fred Perry Amy Winehouse Shirt Dress $125 This is top of my Spring must-have list! This adorable line gives back too.

A portion of the sales goes to the Amy Winehouse Foundation.

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Wilde Vertigga Wilde Cognac Boots $390 I just discovered this unisex line at their recent Showfields preview. Made of the finest Italian leather with an asymmetric cut, this boot is a Spring must have.

While I don’t traditionally like matchy couples, just imagine JLo in the high boot and Alex in the lower one. HOT!

DRESSES

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Anthropologie 
 Rosalita Sheer Maxi Dress| $168

Anthropologie Taliyah Abstract Tunic | $198

Anthropologie Martha Mock Neck Tunic | $148

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“I choose to love you in silence, for in silence I find no rejection. I choose to love you in loneliness, for in loneliness no one owns you but me. I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain. I chose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips�

- Rumi

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Winter
 Beauty

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Carol’s Daughter Wash Day Delight $10.99

I have been a fan of Lisa Price and her Carol’s Daughter line since its inception. Long before wannabe brands, like Camille Rose, she helped us embrace our natural curls. Her newest product provides easy scalp access with its tipped nozzle as it instantly flows through hair and transforms into a gentle foam lather without harsh friction that wrecks hair. With no sulfates, parabens, silicones or artificial colors, it gently detangles, lifts away product build-up and cleanses.

Beauty for Two Baby, it’s cold outside! Time to stay in and pamper yourself (and your partner) with a candlelit Valentine’s beauty night.

Ardor Bin Botanic Sea | $36

Peter Thomas Roth Pumpkin Enzyme Mask | $45

The Body Shop Peppermint Foot Rescue | $18

Theragun G3 Pro Percussive Massager | $599

Bed Bath & Body Works

Sleep Lavender & Cedarwwood | $16.50

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Plant-Based Beauty $11.99 After a lifetime of using products that are unhealthy, I am currently trying to be as clean with my beauty as possible. Plant-Based Beauty is a practical companion to your daily routine, helping you to truly understand the ingredients you are putting on your skin and replacing them with self-care rituals to look forward to.

Jess Arnaudin helps to de-code the language, myths and science surrounding natural ingredients and shares recipes and her favorite beauty foods as part of her philosophy of 'Inside Out Beauty'.

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Barefoot Scientist Sleep On It $22 Winter boots and socks can dry our feet out.

Make sure to plan now for summer by conditioning your feet throughout the cold months. The Barefoot Scientist Sleep On It Socks can typically be reused approximately 12 times before the moisturizing formula has been fully released. They are infused with Argan oil, rose oil, shea butter, jojoba oil and can be hand washed.

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10+Free 
 Nail Polish $11.99 I have tried tons of vegan nail polishes. Most of them are gloppy and smudgy. 10+Free is the very best of the best. It glides on and stays for up to a week! I have thrown out every just about every other polish in my house since discovering this brand.

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Kitten Cherry Matte Liquid Lipstick $22 Red lipstick is my go-to and perfect for Valentine’s Day! The Kitten Cosmetics Cherry Matte Liquid Lipstick is rich and luxurious. Best of all, it’s also vegan and cruelty-free.

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“Love is an emerald. Its brilliant light wards off dragons on this treacherous path.�

- Rumi

On Having Healthy Relationships

With the current world political situation causing anxiety coupled with fast dating apps, like Tinder, romance has taken a serious hit. Gone are the days of courting. Nowadays, most people are hooking up based solely on looks and swiping to express interest in each other. Here are my tips most of which I learned the hard way - for forming healthier relationships:


Identify Your Patterns Do all of your relationships end the same way? Are

a lot of your friendships shallow? Many of you have unhealthy romantic and relationship patterns that are making you miserable and you would like to change. Identify yours. 


Access ALL of Your Connections Even having just one unhealthy love

relationship or friendship can have a seriously detrimental effect on your mental health. Because you will ruminate on it over all others. If you have more than one, your life will become a misery. Make sure that ALL of your relationships are actually grounded in Love and not mutual co-dependency.

Step Back You can only attract healthy, fun relationships if you are in a

healthy, fun Spirit space. The people you form relationships with during times of strife will often not be the best choices as you are not in your right mind.

And these people will make you miserable for years to come. So if you are going through any kind of strife, step back a bit and allow yourself to heal before heading into a new relationship of any sort.

On Having Healthy Relationships

Forgive But Do Not Forget I have a bad habit of allowing repeated bad

behavior and repeatedly ghosting people. Then I take them back again, only to have the bad behavior continue. One of my resolutions for this year is to permanently eliminate toxic people rather than expecting them to change. As Maya Angelou famously said “when people show you who they are, believe them the first time!” Should you forgive them? Absolutely. But should you forget? No. Don’t let there be multiple hurtful incidences when you have already been shown someone’s true character!

Enjoy Your Own Company

Many people have toxic relationships because they do not want to be alone. But you are better off alone than in relationships that suck positive energy from you. The quickest way to improve the quality of people around you is to uplift your own spirits. This will ensure that you are emitting energy that will only attract the people, who you actually want in your Life.

And most importantly

Form A Strong Bond With God Too many people are looking for God in

other people only to be repeatedly disappointed. I know. I did it. For years.

But no one will ever be able to fulfill your Soul. The only way to do so is to connect to the Godly force that created you and is within you. Only when you do this will your Earthly relationships be healthier.

The Toys

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Smile Makers Vibrators $149 These perky little vibrators truly are smile makers! Vibrantly colored with goofy names, like “The Tennis Coach” and “The Fireman”.

I also love that the brand gives back. The founders work with organizations, like the UN, to promote sex education worldwide.

And instead of being sold in sex shops, which are often intimidating for women, Smile Makers are sold in mainstream shops, like Urban Outfitters and Free People.

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We Vibe Chorus | $199

Bondage In A Box | $25

Secret VIII Provocative Adult Foreplay Game | $35

12 Sexy Days | $99

Spark Romance Deck | $12.95

Eva II | $135

Elva Remote Control Bullet Vibrator | $69

Liberator Wedge | $95

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Plus One Air Pulsing Arouser $35 Plus One seeks to bring affordable adult toys to the masses. Their air pulsing arouser offers a unique sensation, harnessing delicate air pressure to gently, yet powerfully, stimulate the clitoris. Whether you’re a total newbie or sex toy expert, this arouser is a great pick. Made with body-safe materials and a rechargeable lithium ion battery, it provides hours of fun with just one charge. And, thanks to its waterproof exterior, it’s easy to clean — and the perfect companion for some bath time fun.

Key Benefits: • Gentle air pulsing through air pressure waves, creating an arouser sucking simulation • Five levels of intensity • Fully waterproof for enjoyment in the bath or shower • High quality body-safe silicone • Ultra-hygienic and easy to clean • Long lasting rechargeable lithium ion battery

Royalle Rabbit $79 Update your toy drawer with the Royalle Rabbit in the 2020 color of the year, Pantone Blue!

This classic twice-as-nice rabbit vibrator sports a satin-smooth silicone exterior plus a sevenfunction flickering bunny-ear-shaped clitoral stimulator.

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“A life without love is of no account. Don’t ask yourself what kind of love you should seek, spiritual or material, divine or mundane, Eastern or Western. Divisions only lead to more divisions. Love has no labels, no definitions. It is what it is, pure and simple. Love is the water of life. And a lover is a soul of fire!

The universe turns differently when fire loves water.”

– Rumi

Books!

Books!

Books!

There is nothing hotter than a well-read companion! Smart is sexy, especially in these severely dumbed down times. Gift these books on Love and read them together in bed.

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The Essential Rumi 
 $12 I am so amazed that Rumi lived over 800 years ago! His teachings on Love and Life are still so meaningful that they should be mandatory reading for every human! Gift this book of his essential teachings to everyone that you love.

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Cozy up and read these romantic books together with your companion!

1. The Notebook | $8.99 2. Me Before You | $11.99 3. Love In The Time Of Cholera | $8.99 4. Outlander | $5.99 (Kindle prices)

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“Whenever we manage to love without expectations, calculations, negotiations, we are indeed in heaven.”

– Rumi

e m o H I had a blast at this year’s International Housewares Association’s NYC press preview! Here are some of my favorite products and I will be featuring and reviewing more of the 40 brands that exhibited in future issues!

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Betti Bossi (prices tba) Swiss company Betti Bossi is brand new to the US market.

The company produces great timesaving kitchen solutions.

(clockwise from left) 1. Veggie Sheet Slicer 2. Batter Maker 3. Wonderbox Dough Cutter 4. Veggie Drill

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Brill Baby Cup Catcher $4.99 The Brill Baby line features adorable functional products for every baby. I have often watched as wee ones toss their cups on to the floor. The Brill Baby Cup Catcher is an awesome and smart innovation that will surely sell millions!

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Bialetti Smart Fit Cookware (price tba) Bialetti pots were the first home products that I ever wrote about back in 2009.

This elegant set of stackable pots are a wonderful option for city dwellers with very little space in our kitchens.

Smartfit is a 10-piece nesting cookware set that comes with a 5-piece Halo ring system, which is labeled and used to organize and protect the cookware.

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dbest Stair Climber Laundry Trolley Dolly
 


$72 For the entire 28 years I have lived in NYC, I have been struggling with a big red metal cart! Thus, I was so happy to be gifted with this handy trolley solution to apartment stairs. Featuring 6 oversized heavy tread wheels that rotate to take on stairs, the trolley holds up to 110 lbs and folds in half for storage. This invention is ingenious!

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Negg Egg Peeler $14.95 The Negg, hard-boiled egg peeler, provides a solution to disastrous egg shell scenarios. Just feel it up with water and shake the jar and the egg pretty much peels itself. And the brand has also released a new line of seasoning packages that allow you to make flavored deviled eggs!

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Crane Top Fill Ultrasonic Cool Mist Humidifier $69 I just found out that you cannot put essential oils in most humidifiers! So thank God for the Crane! This is the perfect humidifier with optional color changing nightlight and essential oil compatibility.

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“You cannot hide love.

Love will get on its way To the heart of someone you love Far or near, it goes home To where it belongs to the heart of lovers�

- Rumi

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GAIA Health Product of The Month

HOLY BASIL LEAF I have been a fan of GAIA herbal supplements for years now. Thus, I have decided to partner with them to present one of my favorite products each month.

This month, I have been under a lot of stress, so I am trying out their Holy Basil Leaf!

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Holy Basil Will Leave You Blisssfully Relaxed Holy Basil is one of the most revered adaptogenic Ayurvedic herbs that helps you respond to stress in a healthy way.* Our formula is made with Certified organic Holy Basil, traditionally used for maintaining emotional well-being and supporting a positive mood.

Also known as Tulsi, an adaptogenic Ayurvedic herb .

• The word Tulsi translates to “balance”.

• This herb is a popular choice for overcommitted adults struggling to balance work and personal obligations and anyone dealing with ongoing stress.

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“Whenever we manage to love without expectations, calculations, negotiations, we are indeed in heaven.”

– Rumi

Gifts For Him

01 Logitech Ultimate Ears 600vi NoiseIsolating Headset Dark Silver • Delivers a noise-isolating, 3D soundstage experience so real it feels live.Connectivity Technology: Wired • Allows crisp, noise-reducing talk with an integrated microphone • Answers calls from accessible on-cord controls for your iPhone, BlackBerry* • Plays, pauses, changes tracks, and adjusts volume from on-cord controls.

02 HIFIMAN RE400 in-Ear Monitor-Hi Fi Earphone/Earbud Advanced ergonomics 8.5mm Titanium driver Neodymium magnet Crystal and Copper Cabling • Driver designed and manufactured by HifiMAN • • • •

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London Sock Company Shaken and Stirred Kit $119 Keep his feet warm and toasty through the remaining cold weeks with these elegant socks that also give back. The Shaken & Stirred collection is a contemporary twist on a traditional English Houndstooth.

Featuring: Red, Mustard, Grey, Navy Russet and Espresso

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The Ridge Wallet $85

The Ridge Wallet is a minimalist, RFID-blocking wallet. The main cardholder uses elastic to expand to hold up to 12 IDs and credit cards.

The typical leather bi-fold gets packed with faded receipts and unnecessary cards, resembling something more like a suitcase rather than a wallet. It’s minimalist without being limiting. It’s about carrying less but always having what you need.

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Kay Jewelers Men's Bracelet 1/6 ct tw Diamonds Stainless Steel

$219 How gorgeous will this look on your man’s wrist?! Links of silver-tone stainless steel are adorned with blue stainless steel cable and diamonds to create this standout men's bracelet. The bracelet has a total diamond weight of 1/6 carat, and secures with a box clasp.

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Craft Beer Club Beer Subscription (prices vary) Melt his heart by signing your guy up for a monthly, bimonthly, or quarterly craft beer subscription. And if he's the regular host for game night, opt for the 24-beer option.

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Personalized AirPod Case $29 While it used to be said that the way to his heart is through his stomach, it is actually through his ears!

Gift this case and he’ll remember you every time he reaches for his AirPods. For an extra special gift, pair this case with a new set of AirPods and a special Spotify playlist!

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“It’s one thing to fall in love. It’s another to feel someone else fall in love with you, and to feel a responsibility toward that love.”

— David Levithal

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Book Of The Month Nancy by Olivia James I have loved Nancy since I was a little child. This update from Olivia James is hilarious and had me laughing out loud! It’s fun for all ages.

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Year of The Rat 4717 Predictions from Judith Wendell of “Sacred Currents” I am mad for Judith Wendell the founder of SACRED CURRENTS, a company dedicated to creating vital and thriving environments. I asked her could I run her amazing article forecasting what the Year of The Rat 4717 has to offer each of the 12 Animals of the Chinese Zodiac!

For those of you less familiar with the Chinese Zodiac, it is made up of 12 animal signs and 5 elements, comprising a 60-year cycle. The first day of Chinese New Year begins on the new moon that appears between January 21st and February. 20th. In 2020, the first day of the Lunar New Year will be on Saturday, January 25th, initiating the Year of the Metal RAT which ends February 11th, 2021.

Ancient lore says, the Jade Emperor invited all of the animals in the world to join him for the New Year celebration, but only 12 animals bothered to turn up. As a great reward, he named a year after each one of them and they run in the order that the animals arrived to celebrate. The Rat tricked the Ox into giving him a ride. Then, just as they arrived at the finish line, the Rat jumped down and landed ahead of the Ox, becoming first. This parable should start to offer you some insight of the charm and entrepreneurial spirit of the Rat.

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Crystal Chu Rinpoche says in her yearly almanac, “According to Black Sect Esoteric Buddhism’s perspective on the study of folk culture, bees collect nectar from myriads of flowers and humans eat the honey; oxen till the field and rats chew on the grain. The Rat has the good luck of achieving results without having to work for them, thus we must take advantage of the Rat’s good fortune to prevent any adverse circumstances that may arise this year.”

As you read below and in your individual forecast, our own efforts and actions will ultimately create the foundation for our protection and success.

General Indicators for this Year: • This year’s heavenly stem is Metal and the earthly branch is Water in the 60-year cycle. As Metal creates Water, on the surface 2020 should be a smooth year. (Read about the qualities of the 5 Elements“ Water, Wood, Fire, Earth, and Meta’” here: SacredCurrents.com/about-feng-shui/about-elements).

• In Chinese culture, Rats were seen as a sign of wealth and surplus. Because of their reproduction rate, married couples prayed to them for children.

• Rats have a split personality because the hours of the Rat encompass both Yin and Yang (11PM-1AM).

They also have four front fingers (Yin) and their back paws have five toes (Yang) making them versatile and adaptive. As the first of the zodiac animals, the Rat ushers in a cycle of renewal. As Water is the natural element of the Rat, it can purport pessimism and fear. . Hence, there may be uncertainty for

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global investors in 2020 in what may become a bearish market.

•As the elements of Fire and Earth are not represented by this year’s zodiac they will be the ones to be in demand and succeed. This is because Fire conquers Metal, and Earth overcomes Water. Thus industries represented by Fire and Earth, including energy, entertainment, real estate, land development, mining, insurance and technology, will have the greatest chance to profit.

•The industries represented Water and Wood elements have less fortunate luck. These include the Water industries of shipping, transportation, and communication and the Wood industries of fashion, media, books, and the environment.

•Conditions between countries may not improve much this year. In fact, some of the world’s most offensive leaders, as well as areas of conflict and natural disasters, may, unfortunately, worsen during 2020.

Each zodiac animal has its own qualities that are consistent year to year. However, every sign will be influenced by the Rat’s energy this year. Below are some insights for each zodiac animal in 2020. Please note that fortunes can be reduced or enhanced with Feng Shui, rituals, meditations and transcendental adjustments and that all people have their own karma to consider. Remember too that even the luckiest signs (the Ox, Monkey, and Dragon this year), have their cautions and the unluckiest (the Horse, Ram, and Rabbit) have their bright spots.

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INSIGHTS FOR THE 12 CHINESE ZODIAC ANIMALS

RAT – 1912, 1924, 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020

Rats are charming creatures with a large dose of intelligence. They are independent and have a sharp eye for detail, making them well suited to the fields of art and writing, as well as engineering and architecture. They are warm-hearted and opportunistic and at times stubborn perfectionists. Rats have a great ability to be adaptive problem solvers. Although one’s own zodiac year is traditionally the most unfortunate (due to the fact that you’re ‘sitting atop of the year god’), 2020 will go reasonably well for the Metal Rat. Keep a low profile knowing that success will come to your career. Yet, your health and relationships will prove to have challenges. Take a preemptive approach with your health and establish an open environment for all of your relationships. The year will have its issues, but doing the Golden Cicada Ritual on 3 consecutive nights starting on New Year’s Eve – the 24th of January, will turn misfortune into auspiciousness. Carrying either your best friend the Ox or your 3 harmony companions the Monkey & Dragon talismans, will help support your good fortunes this year. All three are your most compatible signs.

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OX – 1913, 1925, 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009 The Ox is dependable, earnest & conservative. They work logically and hard to accomplish the goal.

They generally don’t form many close relationships but are reliable, loving partners. They can be conservative, logical, yet sometimes display tempers. This is a good year to develop better communication skills to benefit all of your professional and personal relationships. Being in six harmony with and the closest friend to the Rat, brings good professional opportunities in 2020, as well as financial gains and unexpected gifts. However, be mindful of your health as to not become exhausted. You’re also compatible with the Rooster and Snake. Carrying a talisman of your best friend the Rat, will keep you in good stead in 2020.

TIGER – 1914, 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010 The wonderfully intense vitality of the Tiger makes you both passionate and optimistic. Tigers can easily sway a crowd but its best if they avoid extremes. They are born leaders but need to listen as much as they take charge. The year of the Rat should be mostly auspicious for your career and finances by keeping impulses and temper under control. Paying careful attention to your communications will bode well for both interpersonal and business relationships. Take especially good care of your health and wellbeing. Carrying a talisman of an Ox – the Rat’s best friend – will keep you in his good graces. The most compatible signs for the Tiger are the Pig, Dog, and Horse.

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RABBIT – 1915, 1927, 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011 Rabbits are kind, graceful and sensitive. Sometimes overly sensitive to criticism. They have good judgment in business and in general. In 2020, there may be some confrontation from what the Chinese refer to as ‘scoundrels’. The luck of female rabbits is better than their male counterparts. Avoid risks, gossip and rumors to guard your reputation. Overall, it could be a good year for social interactions and new love, but be watchful of emotional stressors. The best partners for the Rabbit are the Rams, Dogs and Pigs. It is suggested you carry an Ox to be in the good graces of the Rat this year.

DRAGON – 1916, 1928, 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012 The intelligent, energetic Dragon has high standards for themselves and others and when they are not too demanding, they have the potential to accomplish great things. They don’t accept defeat easily and will come to your rescue when in need. As you are in 3-Harmony with the Rat and Monkey in 2020, it should be a good time to fulfill your dreams, be happy, travel and excel in your career. Although strong and healthy, make sure you take time to recharge at home to avoid exhaustion. A romantic relationship is not the focus this year, as this is a time of independence. Use your energy for inner focus and remain humble while helping others. Your most compatible signs are the Monkey, Rats and Snakes. Carry a Rat or Rat & Monkey this year for good luck.

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SNAKE – 1917, 1929, 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013 The Snake is known for its passion, talents, tenacity, and is fortunate in having most of its needs met. They are always planning and are known for being alert and observant. Your luck is stable in 2020. It should be a creative year with many opportunities. Yet pay close attention to your finances and be flexible in your career. It will be a happy time with family and friends and may be a good year to find a romantic partner, if you are single. Take time for your health maintenance. The best partners for Snakes are Oxen, Roosters, and Dragons. The Rat, Monkey & Dragon, and Ox, are all your talismans this year and will protect you.

HORSE – 1918, 1930, 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014 The Horse is a social, optimistic and non-conforming animal. Their changeable nature needs plenty of stimulation. Happiness is more of a motivation than wealth or fame. They can anger quickly but quick to forgive and forget. Your luck this year is less than good due to the fact that you are in a direct clash with the year god or Rat. It will be a restless and demanding year for life lessons. Careful planning and emotional prudence are helpful for a feeling of control. Rely on helpful advice from friends and coworkers. Know that your inner strength will allow you to overcome most difficulties.

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RAM – 1919, 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015

The Ram is a sensitive, good-natured and creative animal. The good seminarian of the zodiac yet can also be uncommunicative. They preserve through difficulties, having high tolerance and motivation. The Ram and Rat are not the best of friends, however, some lucky stars help you to divert most difficulties. There may be lots of accomplishments this year if things are handled in an organized manner. It is not the best year of marriage or partnership however family life is positive. Take especially good care of your health this year.

It is recommended to do the Golden Cicada Ritual (see above) on 3 consecutive nights starting on New Year’s Eve.

MONKEY – 1920, 1932, 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016 Versatile Monkeys use their lively, clever and ambitious personalities to their advantage. They can do most things well and no challenge is too great for them. As a result, they can be arrogant – yet, they view everyone as a teacher and willing to listen to critique and learn from their mistakes. The new year brings both good luck and misfortune to Monkeys. It is an outstanding year to regain enthusiasm and determination, Your inspired ideas can yield recognition and financial gain. Share worries and problems in order to release anxieties. Meditate and exercise to manage stress and maintain good health. Your good friends are the Dragon and Rat but Monkeys are very much in demand, only the Snakes and Tigers do well to avoid them.

So carry a Rat, or Rat & Dragon to take advantage of your 3 harmony relationship for good fortune this year.

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ROOSTER – 1921, 1933, 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017

The Rooster is a talkative perfectionist who is known for directness and hard work. They need to keep their emotions in check especially around other Roosters as they can be terrifying if angered. This year has some mixed blessings. Your career could flourish with focus and determination. Although it is not a good year to change jobs or professions. Your social life and family time will be very satisfying. Stay level headed and peaceful in all situations. This will help to maintain your health and career. Your compatible signs are the Snake, Ox and Dragon. You should carry an Ox or Dragon & Monkey for good fortune and protection.

DOG – 1910, 1922, 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018 Dogs are loyal and likable, intelligent and morally sound. They are diplomatic in all their dealings but if that fails you may get to see their lovely teeth. Dogs are not materialistic but always provide for their loved ones. Although there are some ups and downs this year, in general, your career advances and with careful planning finances are good. Stay watchful for good opportunities as they will appear quickly and pass.

Love, marriage and pregnancy are all well aspected this year. Dogs are compatible with the Horse, Rabbit and Tiger. Carrying a Rat will keep you in good stead.

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PIG – 1911, 1923, 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019

The intelligent, generous and likable Pig is a pleasure seeker who is not opposed to hard-work. Pigs seek universal harmony, and sometimes can be overly generous or promise more than they can deliver. As one’s own zodiac year is known to bring misfortune, it is a big relief to be past 2019. This year your career and/or business could get a boost and there will be benefactors around to support you. Hard work in the first half of the year will certainly pay off. It is an excellent year for romantic partnerships. You are most compatible with Rabbits, Rams and Tigers. Carrying a Rat will keep you protected.

About Judith Wendell

Judith offers her expertise to corporate and private clients alike. She is equally at home advising on large business premises or small studio apartments – working comfortably from architectural drawings or on-site. Judith holds a 3-year accredited degree from the BTB Feng Shui Professional Training Program, formed at the request of Professor Lin Yun, a distinguished philosopher and foremost authority on Feng Shui. When working with a client she incorporates her knowledge of Flying Star Feng Shui, Space Clearing, Bau-biologie, Nine Star Ki, The I-Ching and Chinese Astrology, which she has studied with some of the world’s most renowned teachers in their field. Judith particularly focuses on clearing and blessing rituals, which are so important for the effectiveness of any Feng Shui adjustments. Judith has completed courses of study in Neurosensory Development with the Downing Institute in San Francisco, and advanced courses at the Academy of Sound, Color and Movement in Domaine des Courmettes, France. Judith attended the School of Practical Philosophy in New York for 16 years, where meditation and study of the great spiritual traditions are emphasized. She holds a BS in Fashion Merchandising and has enjoyed a prosperous career in marketing and product development. Judith brings her lifelong interest in interior design and architecture to her work, recognizing that beauty and order are integral to well-being. She is available for residential, corporate and retail consultations worldwide. Judith holds Red Ribbon Professional Status from the International Feng Shui Guild, which upholds the highest standards for Feng Shui Professionals by distinguishing excellence in training. For consultations contact her at: (212) 410-1832

Foods

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Eat To Live With Jackie Newgent (author of “The Clean and Simple Diabetes Cookbook”) TGATP is delighted to partner with nutrition expert and dietician, Jackie Newgent to offer these recipes from her recently published book, “The Clean And Simple Diabetes Cookbook”.

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All-American Portobello “Cheeseburgers” Makes 4

Burgers are one of the few things I miss as I transition to vegnanism.

Jackie’s delectable portobello burgers are helping me make that change!

INGRIEDIENTS

• 1 4 large (5inch) portobello mushrooms, stems removed • 2 2 teaspoons extra virgin olive oil • 3 thin slices vegan cheese (3/4 ounce each) • 4 4 sprouted whole grain or whole wheat hamburger buns, split • 5 1/2 medium red onion, thinly sliced • 6 2 cups packed fresh spring mix or other salad greens • 7 1/4 cup fruit sweetened or no sugar added ketchup

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Burgers don’t have to be beef Enjoy this yummy healthier alternative, DIRE CTIO NS • 1.

Preheat a grill or grill pan over medium high heat. (Hint: If using a grill pan, grill in batches.)

• 2.

Rub the rounded side of mushrooms with the oil. Do not remove mushroom gills • 3.

Grill the mushrooms, rounded side down, until grill marks form, about 4 minutes. Flip over the mushrooms, top with the cheese, and grill until softened, about 4 minutes. If desired, transfer cooked mushrooms to a cooling rack and allow excess liquids to drip off for 2 minutes.

• 4.

Place cheesy portobellos on the bottom bun portions. Top each with the sliced onion, 1/2 cup salad greens, and the bun tops. Or stuff the buns in any order you prefer. Serve with the ketchup on the side.

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Three-Minute Skillet Beans And Greens Serves 2

This dish provides tons of nutrients all in one pan in just three minutes! Make up a large batch and you can save for a few days worth of sides.

INGRIEDIENTS

• 1 1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil • 2 1 (5-ounce) can no-salt added garbanzo beans (chickpeas), drained (do not rinse) • 3 1 teaspoon curry powder • 4 4 1/2 teaspoon ground ginger • 5 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper • 6 1 (5 ounce) package fresh baby spinach • 7 1/4 teaspoon sea salt

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Whip up this yummy & healthy one-skillet dish in minutes!

DIRE CTIO NS • 1.

In a large skillet, heat the oil over medium heat.

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Add the garbanzo beans, curry powder, ginger, and pepper, and stir to coat.

• 3.

Add the spinach and salt, and cook while gently stirring until the beans are heated through and the spinach is just wilted, about 2 1/2 minutes.

Serve.

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Best Face Creams for Winter Though my skin is usually combination, by the dead of winter, my skin becomes very dry.

Check out these three great go-to moisturizing facial creams in every price range.

The Splurge: La Mer | $180

The Mid-Range: Kielh’s Ultra Facial Cream | $32

The Affordable: Neutrogena Hydro Boost | $13

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“The minute I heard my first love story,I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.They’re in each other all along.”

- Rumi

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AT THE MOVIES 


Although this is usually a slow time of year for films, there are some great films opening this February. I am particularly looking forward to all the horror film releases. It is also a great time to catch up on the films you have missed, particularly the ones that have either already won or are up for awards.

TGATP February Film Guide Birds Of Prey Joker’s gal and badass villain Harley Quinn gets her own film. It’s a far more comedic take than the recent “Joker” film with kickass action and a hilarious script.

I LOVED it!

The Lodge

This film was what I call a “FUS” - a f**ked up situation film! More disturbing than scary, it’s a cross between “The Visit” and 70’s cult classic, “Let’s Scare Jessica To Death.”

Sonic The Hedgehog

Based on the Sega video game and featuring James Marsden and Jim Carey with Ben Schwartz as the voice of Sonic the Hedgehog, this is fun for the whole family.

Fantasy Island The concept for this remake is ingenious. A horror version of the classic TV show, this is a February must-see.

Downhill A remake of the 2015 Academy Awards nominated Swedish film “Force Majeure” from “The Descendants” director, Alexander Payne with Will Ferrell with Julia Dreyfuss in the leads, Downhill offers both great comedic and poignant dramatic moments.

Ordinary Love A instant classic love story about a couple going through the nightmare of cancer. Liam Neeson and have wonderfully believable chemistry. Bring tissue.

The Photograph Issa Rae and Lakeith Stanfield sizzle in this Valentine’s Day romance. I am so happy to see black people in love portrayed properly on screen.

Buffaloed Zoey Deutch shines in this comedy about a hometown hustler, who becomes a debt collector to take on the local loan shark.

The Call Of The Wild

I prefer animals to most people. So this is the film I am most looking forward to seeing this month. Harrison Ford and Dan Stevens star in this adaption of Jack London’s classic dog tale.

Emma

No matter how many times this story gets cinematically retold, I love every single version. Anya Taylor-Joy is perfectly cast in this latest take on the Jane Austen novel.

Brahms: The Boy ll

The first film was cheesy, great horror fun. The filmmakers have elevated the series by casting Katie Holmes in the sequel.

Once Were Brothers: Robbie Robertson and The Band Produced by the powerhouse filmmaking trio of Martin Scorsese, Brian Frazer and Ron Howard, this is the the story of The Band, one of the most influential rock groups of all time.

The Night Clerk

I have loved Tye Sheridan since I first saw him in “Mud.” This thriller features Sheridan as a hotel clerk who is suspected of murder but must stop the actual murderer before he strikes again.

The Invisible Man

The ultimate scary concept - a woman has to fight against an invisible domestic abuser.

Guns Akimbo

Daniel Ratcliffe - a.k.a “Harry Potter”- in an action-packed thrill ride about a video developer, who inadvertently becomes the next participant in a real-life death match that streams online.

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“Love is the bridge between you and everything.”

- Rumi

That Girl At The Party | On the Scene

With Ron Johnson at the Innovation Mansion

Truvia Event with D’Arcy Corden

D’Arcy has a Zen moment with Truvia

AKC Meet The Breeds 2020 I am mad for all animals so the AKC annual event is one of my favorites of the year.

“Fall in love with a dog and in many ways you enter a new orbit, a universe that features not just new colors but new rituals, new rules, a new way of experiencing attachment.”

–

Caroline Knapp

“Dog is God spelled backward.” – Duane Chapman

"My fashion philosophy is, if you're not covered in dog hair, your life is empty� - Elayne Boosler

"“The bond with a true dog is as lasting as the ties of this earth will ever be.”

– Konrad Lorenz

"A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself."

Ready for the New Decade

Christmas Time at C3 Church

At the NY Times Travel Show

UNTIL NEXT TIME.

I hope you enjoyed this second issue of the magazine version of That Girl At The Party.

Have a blessed Valentine’s Day. March is my Home issue featuring the best new housewares, furnishings and other household products. So see you then!