Springmill Sentinel November 2018 by Sherwin Rausch

www.springmilldelaware.org Volume XVI Issue 11

A NEWSLETTER FOR THE SPRINGMILL COMMUNITY

November, 2018

Origin of Taps

THANKSGIVING AROUND THE WORLD

One of our Springmill family sent me a story connected with taps, the 24-note melancholy bugle call, used to signal the end of the day or played at funerals. She wasn’t sure of the story’s accuracy, so I did a bit of research before sharing with you. I would say the story is “factional,” based on fact with a bit of poetic license. First the poignant story.

When we think of Thanksgiving, we picture a uniquely American holiday begun by the Pilgrims in 1621. We celebrate it annually on the fourth Thursday of November. Modern Thanksgiving celebrations in this country include parades, sports events and feasts. Although strictly not a religious occasion, American Thanksgiving is centered around gratitude. But harvest and thanksgiving celebrations have long been practiced in every culture all over the world. Most have a religious foundation and celebrate a successful harvest season. Let’s look at a few.

“Reportedly, it all began in 1861 during the Civil War, when Union Army Captain Robert Elli was with his men in Virginia. The Confederate Army was on the other side of a narrow strip of land. During the night, Captain Elli heard the moans of a wounded soldier. Not knowing if it was a Union or Confederate soldier, he decided to risk his life to bring the man back for medical attention.

The ancient Romans had a fall celebration at which they paid tribute to Ceres, the goddess of corn. (Did you ever wonder where the word “cereal” came from?) The Romans celebrated then much the same way we do now, with displays of athleticism and feasts.

When the Captain finally reached his own lines, he discovered it was actually a Confederate soldier, but the soldier was dead. The Captain lit a lantern and went numb with shock…the face he saw was that of his son, who, without telling his father, had enlisted in the Confederate army.

Even earlier, the Greeks dedicated a three-day gala to Demeter, their goddess of grain and the fertility of the earth. What initially was a humble feast evolved into a sumptuous festival for all citizens. Every five years, the holiday honoring Demeter was particularly grand.

The heartbroken father asked permission to give his son a full military burial, and to have the Army band play a funeral dirge. The request was turned down, but out of respect for the father, they allowed one musician to play. The Captain chose a bugler. He asked the bugler to play a series of musical notes he had found in the pocket of his son. It was the 24 notes in Taps.”

The popular Thanksgiving symbol of the cornucopia, the horn of plenty, also dates back to ancient Greece and Rome. We fill it with fruits and gourds for a symbolic centerpiece.

Snopes.com said this was a false story, but as you read on, some of the facts mesh. The factual part of this story is that the present-day taps was created during the Civil War by Union General Daniel Adams Butterfield, heading a brigade camped near Richmond, VA. (Continued on page 29)

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Neighbors Helping Neighbors Doll Sewing Group – Carol Geiger Carolyn Rifino Family Emergency Numbers: Sunshine – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Pat Howe, JoAnn Stump Faith Altman Library - Julia Hambrecht, Nancy Shannon

2 Windmill Lane, Middletown, DE 19709 302-376-5466 Board of Directors Don Thompson - President Carolyn Bodden - Vice President Bob Collins - Secretary Carolyn Fausnaugh - Treasurer Jerry Steskal - Director Board Recording Secretary Tracey Lund - Community Manager: Tracey.lund@associa.us

Bocce – Don Thompson Book Clubs 1 – Debra Kupper 2 – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads 3 – Lydia Olson 4 – Mary Jo Starrett 5 – Joan Gross Bowling – Larry Daigle Bridge Thursday 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th Joan Gross Friday a.m. – Beginners & refreshers Marie Rigg Bunco 1 – Deb Kupper Bunco 2 – June Stemmle Computer Resources – Dick Rausch Cribbage – John Oppelt Dance Party Group – Bonnie Silva Dinner Group First Thursday Danese Collins Dominos – Jo Verni Golf – Joe Tomasetti (Men’s) Joann Stump (Women’s) Gourmet Club – Deb Kupper Hand and Foot – Jo Verni Hand/Knee/Foot Mon. p.m./Tues. p.m. – Carolyn Bodden Mah jongg – Pat Wiedermann Meditation – Cynthia Frank

Committees Charity Committee: Pat Kolbay Clubhouse Committee: Joe Grippo Communications Committee: Tom Rigg Community Events (CEC): Peggy Andrews Finance Committee: Bob Lhulier Maintenance & Repair Committee: Georgieanna Anderson Property Committee: Julia Hambrecht Springmill Website: Stan Heer Welcome Committee Person: Joann Campbell Groups Activity Group: Claudia Garrett, Ann Hullinger Dance Group: Bonnie Silva Fun With Neighbors: Riggs and Mlodzinskis Travel: Betty Freeman, Anne Lucas, June Stemmle Anyone wishing to join a Committee or Group should contact the Chairperson of that Committee. Note: All committees, groups and activities using the Clubhouse must coordinate dates and times with Tracey Lund. Calendar: Tracey Lund

Chairman of Communications Committee Tom Rigg Sentinel Editor - Joan Gross, Tom Rigg Treasurer - Sharonlynn Tassone Secretary - Sonya Comstock Design and Production - Joan Gross and Marie Rigg Business Manager - Dick Rausch Advertising - Carol Geiger, Janet Herner, Jerry Ryan, Pat Steskal Editorial - Sonya Comstock, Wilma Feinberg, Carol Geiger, Dick Rausch, Lee Rosenson, Jerry Ryan, June Stemmle, Harry Weinheimer, Helen Weinheimer

Men’s Hearts – Len Brussee Men’s Poker – Tom Ferrara Men's Pool – Bob Cohen Men’s Cards ”31” – Len Brussee Music Appreciation Club – Roy Peters Pickleball - Jane Kimmins Red Hats (listing open groups only) Classie Lassies – Dolores Bille Crimson Belles – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Happy Hatters – Kathy Kobus Old Bats in the Red Hats Peg McMullen Scarlett O’Hattas – Phyllis Torgersen Romeos – Art Lamb Rummikub – Tues. – Carolyn Rifino Thurs. – Jo Verni Fri. – Tiny Farquhar Senior Exercise – Geri Abel Social Singles – Bridget McGrath/ Kathy Cioffi Tennis – (Men’s/Women’s) Jerry Ryan Texas Holdem – Stan Heer Try Me - Ann Hullinger, Diane Daigle Water Aerobics – Ann Raymond/ Sandy Corrozzi Yoga – June Stemmle

If you wish to join a service group or an activity, contact the leader (Contact info is in the Directory)

Calendar - Joe Grippo, Julie Hambrecht, Tracey Lund Distribution - Harry and Candy Bush and their team

Notes From Your Board

Fred Bodden Remembered

When it is my turn to write this article, I like to divide it into two areas – first is information from the Board as a whole; second is information as Treasurer.

We mourn the passing of our friend and long time neighbor, Fred Bodden, who passed away on October 11, 2018. Fred very actively served this community as a member of the MRC committee and accepted its chairmanship in October, 2008. He served as chair of the committee until October, 2010 when he was elected to the Board of Directors. He then served as a Board member for two years. He rejoined the MRC committee in January, 2015 and was actively involved until 2017.

As Board Member: When Board members change, the whole process of functioning as a board goes through a transition. We are well into the transition and quite busy deliberating Property Committee Landscape Guidelines and the 2019 Budget. Volunteering is a major aspect of life as a Springmill resident. Over and over, you hear an invitation to volunteer with an emphasis on the fact that our volunteer system of selfmanagement saves each of us many dollars in monthly fees. Since I’ve been involved with, first the Finance Committee, and now the Board, I have often wondered just how many hours of volunteer service go into our operations. To be able to make such an estimate the BOD compiled a list of who is volunteering for what. The list is up to 157 names! And we need more volunteers! The committees that have the hardest time recruiting members are the Property Committee, the Maintenance & Repair Committee (MRC), and the Finance Committee. Please consider visiting these committees to learn about their work.

Fred is survived by his wife, Carolyn, and four children. I think all who knew him would say he was a “gentleman’s gentleman”. He will be sadly missed. Joan Gross

A motion was made by John Rutt and seconded by Cal Reuss to approve the Property Committee’s recommendation to accept Page Precision Cut’s Landscape and Snow Removal proposal. Motion was approved (5-0)

All of our committees are extremely important to our way of life here at Springmill and our appreciation is extended to everyone who volunteered in 2018!

Carolyn Fausnaugh made a motion for the BOD to approve a five year management contract with Associa Mid Atlantic. The motion was seconded by Cal Reuss and approved (5-0)

Tom Rigg, Chair of the Communications Committee and Editor of the Sentinel, is concerned that not every Springmill resident is aware of the $500 per residence available for minor repairs to home exteriors. There are very specific limitations on how these funds can be used and who does the work. If you have a minor exterior repair to your roof or siding due to storm damage, please contact Tracy Lund to determine if it qualifies for repair by the HOA.

Sentinel Table of Contents Thanksgiving, Veterans Day…….….…….………..… Page 1 Notes From Your Board, Fred Bodden, Board Motions,……………………….…….………. Page 3 Committee, Group and Activity Reports Clubhouse, Charity, Communications…..….…. Page 5 Property, Website, Dance Group, Activities…… Page 7 Community Events, First Thursday Dinner, Fun With Neighbors, MRC, ROMEOS……… Page 9 Music, Recipes……………….……………………. Page 11 Odessa Holiday Events…………………..……....…… Page 13 Daytripping - Naval Academy…………….……….…. Page 15 Octoberfest, Volunteers, Bingo…………….…..…… Page 16 Halloween Dance, Stockings for Soldiers, Pickleball, Dr. Abel, Out and About…………… Page 17 Stockings for Soldiers, Eye Seminar………………. Page 19 Middletown News, Advertiser Spotlight…………. Page 21 Flu Shot, Welcome, Clock Change, Thanksgiving cont….….…………………………. Page 23 Book Review, Book Club Choices…….……………. Page 25 Time to Vote…………….…….….………….…………. Page 27 YOGA, In Memoriam, New Card Game……………. Page 29 Springmill Library, Storage Facility, Springmill Community Property……………….. Page 30 Page 31 Travel Log - Classic Germany

As Treasurer: The Reserves Task Force met on October 11. At their recommendation, the composition of this task force going forward will include a member from each of the committees who oversee work funded through the Reserve Funds. In addition, the task force recommended and the BOD approved a new reserve study for the fall of 2019. The most recent reserve study was conducted in October 2015. On September 26 the chair of each committee receiving operating funds from the monthly assessment of members met with the BOD to explain their operations and project requests for funds for 2019. The BOD expects to complete its budget deliberations by the end of October and to hold a community meeting presenting the 2019 budget in November. The BOD approved the engagement of Book & Associates, Certified Public Accountants, to audit the 2018 financial operations once the year has ended. Carolyn Fausnaugh

Calendar Table of Contents

Springmill Needs You!! Volunteer!!

Appo Library Update, MOT Area Events Springmill Event………………………………….. Page 1 Cultural Events, …………………………………….…… Page 4

Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Clubhouse Committee

Communications Committee The Communications Committee held its regular monthly meeting in the clubhouse on October 8, 2018. Minutes of the previous meeting were approved.

The Clubhouse Committee met on Thursday, October 11th. Carolyn Fausnaugh was the BOD representative. After the acceptance of the September minutes and the Treasurer's report, we proceeded to the election of officers. All officers were re-elected: Joe Grippo, Chair; Jerry Ryan, Vice Chair; Frank Basler, Treasurer; Carolyn Rifino, Secretary.

Sharonlynn Tassone gave the Treasurer’s Report. Dick Rausch reported that we currently have 38 advertisers. There are a lot of renewals needed and new advertisers sought out. We will have to start obtaining advertisers for the 2019 Directory as it will go to press in December. In the 2018 Directory there were 16 advertisers.

The coping around the pool was repaired, the pool was tested for leakage – none was found, and the pool was covered. All the furniture was put away for the winter and many thanks for all who helped. The motor for the pump was taken for winter maintenance.

Joan Gross reviewed the editorial plan for the November Sentinel. The cover page will include a salute to veterans, Thanksgiving traditions around the world and reminders to vote and change clocks back.

Tennis/Pickle Ball Court wind screens and Bocce coverings will be taken down around the end of October.

The committee had an election of officers. Chairperson, Tom Rigg, Secretary Sonya Comstock, Treasurer, Sharonlynn Tassone.

Our budget was approved for 2019 and our projects will be sent to the Board for their approval in 2019.

The Seminar sub-committee has made some plans for future seminars. Some of the seminars already booked are; Senior Driving on November 7, presented by Dr. Ellison, See Insert Audioligy and Hearing Devices - December 6 - Christiana Care Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate? on February 6, Safe Gardening on March 21. Mark your calendars now so you don’t miss these informative programs. There are other seminars that are in the works and we will let you know about them when plans are finalized.

Our Next meeting will be November 8th at 10 a.m. in the Craftroom. All are welcome. Joe Grippo

Charity Committee On Oct. 1st, 68 Springmill households gave many bags of needed groceries to the M.O.T. Senior Center. They are grateful for your support.

The Communications Committee has been trying to determine the best way to implement the use of the equipment for hearing impaired . Since we have been unable to solve the issues, the BD is considering having a tech person look at it.

We will be collecting for Neighborhood House Nov. 5th.

Dick Rausch is continuing to coordinate the History of Springmill project. We have an outline and members of the committee are writing per their assigned tasks. We will meet again later in the fall to assess progress and make changes.

“Stockings for Soldiers” is very appreciative of the over $700.00 you contributed, along with your donated food, toiletries, books, and K9 items that filled many boxes and bags for our troops! Isabel Aviles and her busy sewers, handmade over 100 stockings which the organization will personalize and fill with some of those goodies! Many thanks to all in Springmill from the “Stockings for Soldiers” organization. (See article page 19)

Julie Hambrecht discussed the slow return of contact information changes and requests for extra copies of the Community Directory There was discussion of a proposal made to the Town of Middletown, at its last council meeting, to erect a two story self-storage facility behind Dunkin Donuts. There was concern about how it would affect property values of those homes that back up to the basin and Dunkin Donuts. There was also concern about how it might affect all property values. It was decided to pass the information on to the BOD to ask for a community meeting with the developer and the mayor.

From now until November 21st, we ask you to help us fulfill Christmas wishes for seniors, families, our military and veterans. Your donations will provide wrapped gifts and monetary assistance to those who are less fortunate at this special time of year. “Toys for Tots” can be brought to the Trim the Tree Party, Dec. 2nd at 3 P.M. in the clubhouse.

We discussed plans for a Communications Committee Holiday Party at our December 11 meeting.

Thank you for all you give to our extended community!

Carolyn Bodden was supposed to be our BOD liaison at this meeting, however, by my error, she was not notified of the date and time. Tom Rigg

Pat Kolbay

See follow-up to storage facility on page 30

Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Website

Property Committee

www.springmilldelaware.org

The Property Committee met on Thursday, October 18th, 2018. We welcomed Tex and Diane Morton as new members. Jerry Steskal was welcomed as our liaison for the next 3 months.

What's new on the Website? There is a new link on the Visitor Home Page: “Contact Webmaster”. I have always felt that there needed to be a way for the general public to make contact with certain people in the Community, such as “Webmaster”, without the need to share a real email address. This has not been possible using the Contact Us Feature built into our Hosting Software, since one must be Registered and Logged in order to use it. But by using an Off-Host facility, the same one that was used for the last questionnaire, this is now possible. Anyone, such as an interested new resident or real-estate agent can send an email to the Webmaster (me) and they will never know the identity of the actual recipient.

The September agenda was approved. Election of officers was held: Julia Hambrecht, Chairperson, Mark Herner, Vice Chairperson, Janet Herner, Treasurer and, at this time,the Secretary position will be shared monthly by the members. The revised landscaping guidelines were approved by the Board of Directors and a copy is inserted in this month's Sentinel. Please read them carefully as there have been some revisions since the past year. Weed, Inc was out treating the storm retention ponds this month and they are showing significant improvement. There is also an article regarding the common areas, wetlands, ponds, etc that is important for every resident to read.

Partly as a result of this new feature, we have eliminated the Contact Us Feature, which had been located under the “Resident Interactive Pages” navigation link. It was rarely used, and basically unnecessary, since everyone's contact information was already elsewhere on the Website.

The 2019 Property budget was reviewed at the last BOD work session and, with some revisions, is on its way to being approved by the Board. We listened to the residents and are anticipating doing many of the projects that were put on hold the past year. We ask that everyone be patient as we try to accomplish our goals in 2019.

Thanks to George Matz, there is a new Photo Album, complete with video from the recent Oktoberfest. Find it under Resident Photos … Parties/Dances … Oktoberfest 2018. If any one has a photo of their own from this event that they are willing to share, you may click on “Submit Your Own Photo” on the Album page, and upload it to the Website. Don't forget to fill in the “Title” field before uploading; this will be the Caption for the photo.

Also, inserted in this month's issue is the new pruning/trimming policy that was approved by the Board.It is important that you read this as we are going back to the original policy of “all or nothing” trimming to avoid any confusion on part of the landscaper resident.

At our last meeting we welcomed our newest Task Force member, Pat Kolbay as Charity Committee Chairperson. Our next meeting is November 13 at 10:00 in the Great Room. We would be pleased to have you join us.

Carl Rifino gave a brief description of the tree work that was done by Davey this past month. 115 common-area and frontlawn trees were treated as of this writing with more work to come during the end of October.

Stan Heer

The next Property meeting will be held on Monday, November 12th at 6:30 PM in the Craft Room.

Activities Group

Julia Hambrecht

Dance Group COME JOIN THE FUN WITH FRIENDS & NEIGHBORS BYOB + a Snack to Share 7 P.M. - 10 P.M. at the Clubhouse The busy holiday season is approaching and we will continue the coffee get-together with one event for each month.

Dance Party Schedule NOV 10th DEC 8th DEC 31st - New Year’s Eve

Mark your calendar for November 10th and December 8th. Come with your coffee mug, and $1.00. Enjoy bagels with cream cheese, pastries, and holiday treats

50's-70's - Rock n Roll Line dancing - Slow dancing

Claudia Garettt and Ann Hullinger

Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Community Events

Fun with Neighbors

FRIDAY NIGHT BINGO. Prize money from $35.00 to $135.00 was paid out to the many winners, some even won twice. Ed Bullock won the 50/50 and Becky Bullock won a bingo. LOTS OF LUCKY PEOPLE!! You too can be a winner and enjoy a fun night with friends & neighbors on Friday night January 25, 2019 when we play BINGO! Sallie Midash & Phyllis Burris will again be hosting. The flier will be in the January, 2019 Sentinel.

After a one-month break, we are ready to go again!! November 3 Game Night will be a Scavenger Hunt. Do not worry, you do not have to be able to run all over to gather the answers. Each team will be divided in two. Part of the team will do a “Memory Scavenger Hunt” in order to locate or identify things in the clubhouse or neighborhood. The other half will be more active in locating items existing or hidden within the clubhouse. Come and join us for an evening of fun at no cost!! Bring a table snack to share and your own beverage. November 16 will be the Pizza – Social Hour. We start at 4 – order the pizza about 4:30 – and all share the cost, the calories, and the social time. Bring your own beverage. See You Soon!!

OCTOBERFEST was something new for Springmill. We had 82 residents in attendance. All enjoyed a delicious roast pork dinner along with chocolate cake for dessert. The Alpenlanders performed authentic music from the Alps, including the alphorn. The audience participated in dances led by the band. Many thanks to Michele Wiener, CEC committee and so many of you who helped at the evening’s end. “TOMMY ZITO “Friday, November 2nd “THE PIANO MAN” will have the audience singing, dancing and laughing throughout the evening. As I write this on October 17, 2018 there are a few seats remaining. Tommy’s shows are always terrific and not to be missed.

The Riggs and the Mlodzinskis

MRC Committee Report

“THANKSGIVING DINNER” Saturday November 17, one of our most popular and well attended affairs that residents look forward to each year. NO SHOPPING, NO COOKING, NO CLEAN-UP, JUST ENJOY. Deadline for replies Is November 9th

The MRC Committee members are working on 3 initiatives: Replacement cement work needed for sidewalks, driveways and the surrounding walking area at the clubhouse based on the community walk of May 2018; Energy efficient lighting for the tall lights located in the clubhouse parking lot and the swimming pool area, and repair or replacement of walking paths that are located throughout our community. Some of these initiatives will take time and effort so the expectation is to have them ready for the Spring of 2019.

“TRIM THE TREE” Sunday, December 2nd The Community Events Committee truly appreciates the support given to our many events throughout the year. We thank you and cordially invite you to be our guest at our Holiday Party. Invitation in Sentinel.

Good news, we have been given the approval by the Springmill BOD to have some replacement cement work done this year. We have met with a contractor and the estimated start date is November 1, 2018. The Homeowners affected would be notified in advance if driveway apron work is to be done.

The CEC meets the first Wednesday of every month at 9:30 a.m. in the craft room. Our next meeting will be November 7th Please come and observe one of our meetings (like to see some of the Newcomers I met at the brunch) as we start to plan 2019. We are very social and welcoming. Peggy Andrews.

We welcomed new members: Jackie Laucirica and Tex Morton. A reminder – our committee meets the second Thursday of the month at 7 p.m. in the craft room at the clubhouse. We welcome guests and give the opportunity, especially to our new residents, to attend one of these informative committee meetings. Georgieanna Anderson

First Thursday Dinner Group Greetings! Here’s hoping you are enjoying this beautiful weather and that all is well with you and yours. Well, it’s that time again and we are going to dine where we have never dined before as a First Thursday / Early Birds / Newbies or whatever name you may refer to when talking about us.

ROMEOS We meet at a different restaurant for lunch on the third Thursday of every month. This is a group of men who get together to share food and conversation.

Our hostess / host this month (Michelle and Carl Wiener) have selected Trattoria Di Napoli located at 1222 Pulaski Highway in Bear, Delaware. Our date will be November 1 and the time is the same as always – 4:30. Please RSVP by phone to the Wieners (See Springmill Directory for contact information.) All are Welcome – Bring a Neighbor

All are welcome to attend. Contact Art Lamb to be put on the email list.

Blessings, Danese Collins

Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Music Appreciation Features the Carpenters The November Music Appreciation session will feature videos of the Carpenters, a musical group featuring Richard and Karen Carpenter. Richard was born in 1946 and began music studies at an early age. He was very serious about having a music career; so serious that his parents moved from Connecticut to California to be closer to music opportunities. He played the keyboard and was an excellent arranger. He formed a band in 1965, but was not very successful. The 1960's and 1970's were dominated by rock bands like the Beatles, Rolling Stones, Beach Boys, Fleetwood Mac, Led Zeppelin, and many more. Richard kept searching for a special sound. It was only when he realized that his kid sister, Karen, who was 5 years younger, had a terrific voice. She had a 3-octave range, perfect pitch, played the drums and was always on beat. Richard's band began to feature Karen more and more. His arrangements were quite good, and he borrowed a technique developed by Les Paul and Mary Ford called overdubbing, which electronically produced Karen singing 3-part harmonies. Their first album was not well received, but their second album in 1970 featured "Close to You". It was a smash hit. The Carpenters’ terrific recordings continued for almost 10 years. But Richard became addicted to Quaaludes, which he finally overcame. Worse, Karen suffered from anorexia. She kept losing weight and was very thin. She died in 1983, at age 32. She weighed only 80 pounds. A tragic end to a lovely songbird. Come to the Clubhouse Great Room on Tuesday November 13 at 2:00 PM for a treat. Roy Peters

Springmill Recipes Egg Bites You can go to Starbucks and pay $5.00 for two of these little breakfast delights, or you can follow the simple directions below to customize and cook them in your microwave…in just 70 seconds! Pam spray or a bit of butter to grease your Need 6 oz. ramekin or small bowl the size of a teacup ramekin ¼ cup of Egg Beaters (or beat one whole egg) A small flat plate, pot holder, fork Fillings are optional; diced cheese, herbs, bacon, veggies Directions: Lightly spray the ramekin for easy removal. Pour in the ¼ cup Egg Beaters and add filling Put in microwave for 30 seconds, stop & stir with your fork…you’ll see it puff up like a soufflé. Continue in microwave, watching it and stirring as it puffs up…don’t want it to go over…usually another 20-30 seconds. After one last stir (you’ll see a bit of liquid) do the last 10 seconds .Now, it will settle down. Take it out with the potholder, put a plate over the top and carefully flip it. Gently lift the ramekin and you will have a perfect egg bite. My grandson LOVES them with cheddar cheese (If an 8-year-old can do it, so can you), and so did Pat Kolbay after we exchanged recipes in the pool this summer! Hers were like a mini frittata. Bon Appetit. June Stemmle

Sweet Potato Casserole This sweet potato casserole is a perfect side dish for Thanksgiving dinner. It is easy and can be made in advance up to the marshmallow step. The recipe can be doubled or tripled, adding a little time for the increased volume. It’s one of our favorites. 2 c. mashed sweet potatoes ¼ c. brown sugar ¼ c. orange or pineapple juice

½ teasp. Cinnamon ¼ teasp. Nutmeg 1/8 teasp. Cloves

¼ c. melted butter 1 c. miniature marshmallows

Preheat oven to 350* F. Combine all ingredients except marshmallows. Beat well until combined and fluffy. Spoon into buttered or sprayed casserole. Bake 30 minutes uncovered. Arrange marshmallows over top and bake uncovered 15 min. more. Serve immediately. Note: If you prefer this casserole without marshmallows, bake for a total of 45 minutes. Helen Weinheimer

Note To Readers: In the October Sentinel, we published a recipe for stuffed peppers using green bell peppers. Several people have asked me if they could use other colors, such as red or yellow. Certainly! Any color (or several colors) can be used to add visual appeal.

Springmill Resident Specials

Odessa Holiday Events Once again the holidays arrive in time for Thanksgiving at the Historic Odessa Foundation in Odessa. This year the holiday exhibit: “A Christmas Carol, In Prose, Being a Ghost Story of Christmas” opens on Nov. 13 from 10 a.m. 4:30 p.m. in the Corbit-Sharp House, where it will be transformed into scenes based upon the classic novel by Charles Dickens. In addition, you are invited to see this year’s Storybook Tree Exhibit located in the rooms of the Wilson-Warner House. All of the trees are decorated to the themes of favorite children’s books from schools and local community groups. These exhibits will be open through Dec. 30 with the exception of Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. After opening day, the tours will operate Tuesday - Saturday from 10 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. and Sunday 1:00 - 4:30 p.m. Fees for the tours are collected at the HOF Visitor’s Center on the corner of Main & 2nd Street in Odessa. Adults, $10; Senior and students, $8; Children 6 and under, free. For more enhancing of the holiday season, the Historic Odessa Foundation will host candlelight tours of their holiday exhibits on Tuesday, Nov. 27 and Thursday, Nov. 29 at 7 p.m. These tours are $15 a person and will continue in December. Reservations are needed and can be made by calling the office at 302- 378-4119. Dates for the December tours will be announced in next month’s Sentinel.

Picture taken from website of Historic Odessa Foundation

Christmas in Odessa December 1, 2018 For all Springmill residents, and especially our newcomers, we hope you will put this event on your calendars for a “must attend” holiday experience. “Christmas in Odessa” started 54 years ago for the Women’s Club of Odessa with the purpose of funding scholarships for local high school seniors. Over the years, with the cooperation of Odessa homeowners, 150 scholarships have been provided to students. It has also aided the Women’s Club in their contributions to many worthwhile groups and projects. This once-a-year holiday event begins at 10 a.m. and ends at 5 p.m. on Saturday, Dec. 1. It is a self-guided walking tour of private homes and public buildings, many dating back from the 18th and 19th centuries that have been decorated for the holidays. Besides the house tours, there are many special events included in the ticket price. These include: a visit to Santa & Mrs. Claus; a concert by First State Bell Ringers at Old Saint Paul’s; Christmas Music played on the historic Tracker Organ by Jeanne L. Hatton at Old St. Paul’s; Christmas carols sung by the choir of St. Paul’s United Methodist Church; a Colonial Holiday Greens Demonstration in the Old Barn behind Wilson-Warner House and a Festive Food Demonstration at the Collins-Sharp House. These are only a few of the events that take place during the day, in addition to the house and HOF building tours. So plan to come this December, but especially if it will be your first “Christmas in Odessa”, and have an enjoyable day of getting into the holiday spirit. Advance tickets for the event go on sale at the Historic Visitor’s Center on the corner of Main & 2nd Street on Nov. 1. Advance sale prices are Adults $20; Children 6-12 $5 and Children under 6 free. Ticket sales on the day of the event, Dec. 1, will start at 9:30 a.m. at the Old Academy Building, Corner of 4th & Main St. and HOF Visitor’s Center, Corner of 2nd & Main Street. Adult tickets are: $25, Children 6-12, $5; Children under 6, free. Rita Ryor

Day-Tripping – U.S. Naval Academy In mid-September, on what turned out to be a beautiful fall day, Marie and I decided to take Keith and go to the U.S. Naval Academy. It was about an hour and a half drive down Rt. 301. We wanted to get there between 10 and 10:30 a.m. so that we could get the tour and also see the noontime parade of midshipmen. We made it without a problem. We signed up for a 11 a.m. tour in the Visitor Center, that we were told would include the parade. First, we saw the introductory film on what it means to be a midshipman at the Naval Academy. It described the process that all midshipmen go through in order to be admitted. The recruiting staff look not only at the recruit’s grades but also, their experience with extra-curricular activities, sports, leadership and physical ability. The Academy receives about 16,000 applications each year and of those accepts 1200 per year. The Visitor Center also serves as the Admissions Office. Once the recruit is accepted he/she is expected to attend Plebe Summer, an eight-week indoctrination to the Navy held from the end of June to mid-August. According to their official literature “the purpose of Plebe Summer is to lay the foundation of the Academy’s four-year professional development curriculum. Each Plebe class shall: • be indoctrinated in the traditions of the Naval Service and the Naval Academy; • understand basic military skills and the meaning behind them • appreciate the high standards and obligations inherent in service as a Midshipman and Naval Officer • be dedicated to excellence in a competitive atmosphere that fosters leadership, teamwork, character, and a passion for winning • appreciate the importance of mental, moral, and physical toughness in all aspects of duty and service; • be prepared to execute the rigorous academic year routine. If this sounds daunting to you, think how it must sound to a wet-behind-the-ears recruit. The introductory film showed recruits going through rigorous physical training and academic education. I was tired just watching them. The tour then stopped at the Bill the Goat statue – to remind all who passed by that he was the Navy mascot. We were told the story of how he was acquired many years ago. (The original has been replaced several times.)

Following that, we were told the story of Tecumseh as we stood in front of the statue of him. The original wooden image was sent to the U.S. Naval Academy in 1866 from the wreck of an old ship of the line “Delaware.” In 1930 it was converted to a bronze statue and placed on a pedestal in front of Bancroft Hall. He serves as the idol to whom midshipmen give prayers and offerings, so that they may get a good grade. The midshipmen paint Tecumseh in bright colors for special occasions (homecoming, parent’s weekend, and all home football games). Next it was off to the Main Chapel, where we saw the interior, its large organ and Tiffany stained-glass windows. We were told that it is a very popular place for weddings, both Catholic and Protestant. On weekends the weddings follow a tight schedule and if you are late for your wedding, you may be marrying someone else. We also saw the Crypt of John Paul Jones, a famous Revolutionary War hero, in his marble casket under the chapel. The tour was over and, since we were starving we elected to go to the nearest restaurant – the Naval Academy Club. Maybe we caught them on a bad day, but we were not impressed. We did manage to fill ourselves up, however. Following lunch, we toured the U.S. Naval Academy Museum located in Preble Hall. It contains a collection of antique ship models, paintings and various historic artifacts. It also has a first floor exhibit telling the history of the U.S. Navy. We decided it was time to head home after having an enjoyable but tiring day there. The U.S. Naval Academy and its sights are only a part Annapolis. As I mentioned in a previous Day Tripping article about Annapolis, there is much to see in the town itself since it is the capital of Maryland and dates back to pre-revolutionary war days.

Tom Rigg

Next, we walked past the residences of the Commandant, Superintendent and other officers of the Academy. Amazing homes. Each contained at least 24 rooms and many bathrooms It was now time to move on to Bancroft Hall, (rotunda pictured on left) the residence of all 4400 midshipmen. We stood at the edge of Tecumseh Court in front of Bancroft Hall to watch as they did a noontime formation, roll call and parade to the mess hall.

Noon Formation, U.S. Naval Academy The entire Brigade marches by company into King Hall, within Bancroft Hall, for lunch. All 4400 plus midshipmen can dine here at one time in probably less than 30 minutes.

Octoberfest â&#x20AC;&#x153;Wunderbar!â&#x20AC;? No other word can describe the German ambience and music at Octoberfest. We danced the chicken dance and a vigorous polka. We ate German specialties and toasted with beer or a glass of Riesling. Nancy Shannon won the 50/50 raffle. If you closed your eyes, you were transported back to the old country. Photos and text: Helen Weinheimer

Bingo

Don & Bev Strong called the numbers while Bernadette Hnat posted them

Bingo!! That was the sound that resounded throughOUT the Great Room on Friday October 5th. A full house (or almost) played 14 rounds of Bingo with over $700 in prize money being distributed. A 50/50 generated another big winner. We thank Sallie Midash, Phyllis Burris and all the CEC for this event. Fun was had by all (or at least by the winners) and we look forward to the next one.

Round 1 Winners Lana Fuhrmeister, Jean Sweeney, Jim Fron, Dick Rausch, Becky Bullock, Heather Prall, Louise Sommer

50/50 Winner Ed Bullock

Round 2 Winners Phyllis Burris, Claudia Garrett, Ann Hullinger, Lana Furhmeister, Sheila Rausch, Sallie Midash, Jean Sweeney, Jim Fron

Halloween Dance The Dance Party Group held a scary night of fun, dancing and music on October 27th at the clubhouse. Marion and Tom Smith hosted the games and the evening. The costumes were outrageous! We planned for a delightful night and many of you came to join us. The games were lots of fun and we danced to great music, including the “Monster Mash”, “ Black Magic Woman” and “Witchcraft”. As ever, the snacks and treats were very creative as well as delicious. Couples' egg toss The guy side: Tony Silva, Bill Noyes, Dick Belber, Carl Rifino, Sam Merrick.

Bill Noyes and Bobbie Kauffman

Kathy Uranko, Dick Belber

Tony Silva Joe and Ida Nelson, Tony and Bonnie Silva

Stockings for Soldiers

Pickleball

One hundred handmade stockings by Isabel Aviles and her group of sewers.

On October 19th, Spring Arbor hosted the pizza party marking the end of the pickelball season. Players were from Springmill, Spring Arbor, Maple Dale and Odessa.

Sprngmill donates! Thank You!!

Out & About Everett Film Festival

Eye Seminar - Dr. Abel

Approximately 50 residents attended the eye seminar sponsored by the Communication Committee. Dr. Abel’s talk was most informative, not only covering eye care ,but how nutrition and exercise affect our total health.

Jessie Crisfield, Dick Rausch, Sonya Comstock, Ilene Lipstein, Sheila Rausch, Joan Gross, Barbara Smith, Maureen Maxwell

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Stockings For Soldiers

Eye Seminar

The mission statement of Stockings for Soldiers-Delaware, Inc. states it “was founded to help improve the morale and welfare of members of the armed forces of the United States of America deployed in harm’s way”.

About 12,000 years ago, a meteor hit the sand of the Sahara Desert, creating the first glass. It also led to the creation of the field of ophthalmology, an eye discipline that has evolved and become more sophisticated and of increasing benefit to us today. So began Dr. Robert Abel’s talk to a packed house in Helen Weinheimer the multi-purpose room at the clubhouse.

The volunteer work for Stockings for Soldiers begins early in the year, with handmade stockings, polar fleece blankets and hand-knitted caps, all made to very specific instructions. Then within an 8-week window, in donated commercial space, the task begins in earnest! Most of the stockings, 10,000 of them, have each recipient’s name put on with glue and glitter. Volunteers must sort out all the donated goods as they arrive. Items in short supply are bought with donated funds. Once the items are sorted, the stockings are filled. This is done with great time and space efficiency. The personalized stocking is bursting with the items that were listed on the flyer you received in October, topped off with a new pair of socks. The stocking is then put in a 2 gal. Zip lock (useful to the soldier), with a paperback, a can of tuna, ramen noodle packets, and a greeting card. For many troops this is the ONLY gift they receive! Boxes will now be filled to the top. More boxes will then be packed with larger items to be shared by groups. Not forgotten are the K9 soldiers who save lives. Boxes are stuffed with treats and care items for them. Trucks are then loaded and sent off to the mailing facility.

As any good teacher knows, a good lesson starts with background information to introduce new material. Dr. Abel opened his PowerPoint presentation and mesmerized us with his knowledge and warmth. He is certainly a good teacher, as he led us through the origins of eye science, the conditions that affect the eye, and current methods to repair, control and correct those conditions. Dr. Abel then methodically looked at what the future holds for us. Forty percent of what the brain does starts with the eyes. The hypothalmus, a small but important part of the brain, receives images and, working as a control center, influences the heart, thyroid, blood cells, lymphatic system, intestine, etc. So, the eyes have a tremendous influence on body functions. This eye-body connection is critical to our well-being. Dr. Abel mentioned that the incidence of myopia (nearsightedness) is greatly increasing due to our prolonged focus on electronic devices. Many of us spend hours in front of computer monitors or texting. Evidently, when our grandmothers warned us not to sit so close to the television, they were wise before their time. Dr. Abel advised us to do crossword puzzles and to multitask as a way to exercise our eye-brain functions.

In past years, the boxes have traveled to many parts of the world-Afghanistan, Iraq, Egypt, Israel, Qatar, Kuwait, Jordan, Kosovo, Romania, Poland, Djibouti, Chad, South Korea and parts unknown. Each year a total of 10,000 stockings, in 1,300 large boxes weighing 40,000 lbs., let our troops know that they are appreciated and not forgotten.

He also mentioned that the sclera, the white part of the eye, could be evaluated for mental illness, dreams and hallucinations. Even hypnosis is done through the eyes.

For a number of years, Springmill has been very generous in giving to this volunteer-driven organization. This year we have donated over $800.00, 12 boxes and 8 large shopping bags of goods and 100 handmade stockings.

We have a preferred (dominant) eye, similar to handedness, where we rely more heavily on visual input from one eye over the other. This is a normal visual state.

There are more ways we can help. Written messages of encouragement and support on cards or notes are included in the stockings. The holiday cards you receive with the personal message cut off are useful for this. “Snowman soup” (a sandwich baggie with a hot chocolate packet, one small unopened candy cane, three Hershey kisses-wrapped, a few mini-marshmallows and a special poem) is a great project to do with your grandchildren. The special, hand-knitted caps used as helmet liners in frigid weather would be a great winter project for Springmill knitters. A worn-out American flag with embroidered stars can be re-purposed to honor our active troops. Very respectfully the stars are removed and put in a small pack with a message “to carry the star, from a home in the USA, as a reminder that YOU are not forgotten”.

There are many risks for eye disease, Dr. Abel pointed out. They include environmental factors and light, nutritional deficiencies, lifestyle issues, insomnia and general stress.

Cards can be left in my mailbox. I have the instructions for Snowman Soup, the knitted caps and the flag for anyone interested.

Dr. Abel informed us that there is much research being done in the field of ophthalmology. Many conditions are being restricted or reversed today that, just a few years ago, would have led to certain blindness. There is much more to be done, but Dr. Abel said he remains in the profession because the advances are so exciting. We agree, wholeheartedly, and look forward to learning more.

To avoid cataracts, Dr. Abel suggested we drink lots of water to wash impurities out of the body. This is why treating a condition known as dry eye is so important. He also advised that we supplement with vitamins A, C and E, and eliminate unnecessary medications. Macular degeneration affects 13,000,000 people worldwide. It can be treated to control. Stem cells are being studied to reverse this terrible condition. Glaucoma particularly affects thin, anxious people and has become a chronic disease; it can also be controlled. Sunshine (vitamin D) and B vitamins are particularly effective in treatment.

Pat Kolbay

Helen Weinheimer Photos on page 17

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Middletown News Town Meeting The meeting opened with information on Main Street events coming up for the holidays. Daneya Jacobs announced the Christmas parade on Saturday, December 1, at 10 a.m. followed by the tree lighting ceremony in the evening. The Lamp Posts will be decorated by local merchants with a contest on the best holiday post. On Saturday, November 24, Middletown will host “Small Business Day” asking residents to visit and support local merchants. A Conditional Use Permit was approved for the opening of a State Farm Insurance office at 102 Sleepy Hollow Drive, Suite 103. A Conditional Use Permit was approved for the opening of an automotive repair shop (Apex Automotive) at 128 Patriot Drive, Unit 3. A revised Land Development Plan for 27 single family home lots and improvements on 22.94 acres was approved. Location – Middletown Village. Construction will begin next year. Approval was given to the State of Delaware for the SR299 Improvement Project which will begin in the summer of 2019. A speaker from DelDOT explained the project in detail. Approval was given to Jerome Heisler (Reybold Group) to build two, two-story self-storage buildings (45,940 sq.ft. and 42,030 sq.ft.) at the back of Dunkin Donuts. The project will be started within a year. Mr. Heisler stated he would be willing to speak to Springmill about this project and how it will affect our community. Sonya Comstock

Advertiser Spotlight - Technitune A recent visit with Technitune owner Brian Cooper and his daughter, Leanne, has clearly shown how the expansion and growth seen in Middletown over recent years has had a definite benefit on small businesses, including his auto repair shop. Starting in 1997, Brian has expanded his shop from a modest two-bay garage to a highly equipped four-bay facility with access to multiple major manufacturing databases including both foreign and domestic vehicles. Because of this surge, Brian has indicated that more major renovations of the business, both indoor and outdoor, is underway. Over the last few years, the business saw a need to expand the parking lot in response to the growing number of customers’ cars. For example, one of the renovations that has been completed is the widening of the driveway to a two-lane entrance and exit to accommodate traffic. Other plans for renovations include a new larger lit sign that is being scheduled to replace the outdated sign, assisting new and returning customers with finding the business location. Technitune has also diversified its advertising methods, acquiring a commercial that is currently playing at the Westown Movie Theater, as well as the added bonus of a Loyalty Card that allows customers to receive a free oil change after nine changes are purchased. Technitune’s staff includes his daughter, Leanne, who has been with the business since graduating high school and has attained extensive knowledge on many different vehicles. Along with his daughter, Technitune employs two full time mechanics, Jason and Tom, who have a combined 30 years of automotive experience and are training the newest addition to the company, Chris, a full-time apprentice. The business has grown over the past couple years that three full-time mechanics are necessary in maintaining the services that

Technitune has offered and continues to offer. Even with the growth in business, Technitune continues to offer free local shuttle service, knowing that seniors living by themselves might not be able to find a ride to and from the business. Technitune appreciates the business they have received from the Springmill residents over the years, noting that the men and women of the community do their best to keep their cars running in optimum condition. Newer cars require less routine maintenance and are more sophisticated than the vehicles that have come before them. However, they still depend upon regular service intervals to keep them in good running condition. For instance, there has been steady increase in the purchase of SUVs and light duty trucks, especially among women. The auto industry has responded to this demand by incorporating luxury options into the trucks while also retaining their original and rugged nature. In 2020, Ford will cease manufacturing of all sedans except for the Mustang and will only offer SUVs and trucks. Technitune and its employees understand the full value of a satisfied customer and once a car is serviced with Technitune, a customer can rest assured that he/she can drive with peace of mind. Technitune Auto Repair is open five days a week, Monday thru Friday, from 9-5. and is located just across the street from Springmill, but if you need a ride, don’t hesitate to call them at 376-3554. Sonya Comstock

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Thanksgiving around the World (cont. from page 1) In Canada, Jour de L’Action de Grace is observed on the second Monday in October. This holiday originated even earlier than the American Thanksgiving and celebrated safe passage to America. Today, Canadians celebrate the harvest and other blessings of the previous year by spending time with family, at religious practices and by feasting.

Flu Vaccines are available at your doctor’s office as well as at most pharmacies and local clinics. It is not important where you get it - Just get it! Tom Rigg

Did you ever eat Chinese moon cakes? They are part of an ancient Chinese harvest festival called Chung Ch’ui. To celebrate the harvest moon, Chinese families get together to eat the round yellow cakes and thank their ancestors.

Louise Sommer and Sonya Comstock. Doing paper work before getting the vaccine at St. Paul’s

Jews around the world just concluded the 3,000-year-old harvest festival of Sukkot. They build a sukkah, a hut out of branches, and, for seven days, eat their meals in the hut while watching the night stars. The hut symbolizes the temporary shelters the freed Israelites built as they traveled across the desert. Even the Egyptians of that time worshiped Min, the god of vegetation and fertility, and celebrated with parades, music and sports.

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On the first Sunday of October, Germans observe Emtedankfest, a religious holiday. They, too, give thanks for the gifts of the harvest. All of Germany celebrates, and people flock to the big cities for a carnival-like atmosphere.

There Are Newcomers in Springmill!! Say hello, invite them to go to an event or a committee meeting with you.

In India and Sri Lanka, the holiday of Pongal was observed this year on January 14. It ended four days later on January 17. Crops like rice, sugarcane and turmeric are harvested. The Hindu Sun God, Nature and Living Beings are thanked.

We welcome John and Mary Gibadlo - Patience Way

In Korea, the holiday is called Chuseok, literally translated as “autumn eve”. It is a three-day Buddhist and Confucian holiday and is celebrated on the full moon of the eighth month of the lunar calendar. Koreans visit the graves of ancestors and drink rice wine.

Elsie Gibson - Springmill Drive

Just before you retire for the day on November 3, remember to turn your clocks back one hour as we return to EST on November 4. Take back that extra hour you gave up in March.

In Ghana, The Homowo Festival is observed. In The UK, London’s Harvest Festival is celebrated. In Vietnam, Tet Trung Thu is their thanksgiving festival. Most harvest festivals are held around the autumn equinox at the very end of summer or in early autumn. Some form of Thanksgiving is observed in almost every culture, in almost every country, and in almost every religion. We are fortunate to have so much in common to celebrate with our neighbors around the world. Helen Weinheimer

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Book Review Option B by Sheryl Sandberg Sheryl Sandberg first came to my attention as the author of Lean In, which encouraged women to be more fearless in the work world. At the time she was best known as Facebook’s CEO, but was also a mentor and a mother. Then in 2015, when her husband, Dave Goldberg, suddenly died while they were vacationing in Mexico, her world went out of control…she was a single mother and her husband of eleven years, who was her “rock,” was gone. Her second book Option B takes us on her journey, and her children’s journey, of dealing with the trauma of death, learning how to let people know what you need, being able to accept help, and learning how to feel joy again. We all experience adversity during our lives; break-ups, assault, addiction, serious illness, abuse, divorce, job loss, death of a loved one, etc. I guess this non-fiction book, that relates true stories of people who have gone through various traumas in their lives, is a “how-to” that shares various techniques to get us through the worst of times in the best way and on our own timetable. She draws on the advice of psychologists, philosophers, religious mentors and family to build resilience and strength. We learn that these two qualities can be learned…it’s called “pretraumatic growth.” I think it’s something we need to teach our children and grandchildren…life can be tough and it’s good to know how to bounce back without resorting to fighting, drugs, alcohol, or suicide.

list things they’re grateful for, that’s more passive. Listing things you did well is more active and a verbal pat on the back, which in turn builds selfconfidence. This is a quick read at only 169 pages, but it reminds us to be empathetic. It also teaches us the “three P’s;” that tragedy does not have to be personal, pervasive, or permanent. While she mourned her husband’s death, she had to realize she didn’t cause it and couldn’t have prevented it, that his passing did not have to affect everything she did, and that her pain did not have to last the rest of her life. And those are truisms no matter the circumstances; a lost game, bad test grade, financial difficulties or death of someone close to you. It’s the things you do when Option A isn’t possible…when you have to move to Option B. While this book may not be your cup of tea, it is worth reading. Life is ever-changing and unpredictable…be thankful for the good times and have Option B ready for the bad. June Stemmle

Book Club Choices

As you read, you’ll find helpful ways to deal with any difficult situation that might overwhelm you and how to help friends or family get through their trials with more self-confidence and resilience. I know I’ve been in positions where neighbors are dealing with serious illness, and it’s hard to know what to do or say that will “make it better.” Sheryl tells us that there are some things, like death or terminal illness, which will not get better. In those cases it’s best to just listen or hold a hand or just do something to make their life easier. She talks about the “elephant in the room.” Friends, family, or co-workers who don’t mention the problem, which just leads the person to think they don’t care, when they just don’t know what to do or say to support them. (At one point, Sheryl actually carried around a stuffed elephant at work to encourage conversation.) To help her cope, she also started journaling and eventually went on Facebook to share her experiences. Those posts elicited worldwide comments, reaching out, and sharing. Two things that rang true for me were learning “selfcompassion”…forgiving yourself for any transgressions/mistakes in the same way you would forgive someone else. It’s also been called self-love. The other big one was reminding yourself at the end of the day about three things you did well. While we always tell people to

Book Club 1 (Deb Kupper/1st Wed.) We will be reading “Rescue,” by Anita Shreve. Book Club 2 (Mary-Elizabeth Rhoads/4th Tues.) This month our group will look forward to reading “Flight of the Sparrow,” by Amy Belding Brown. Book Club 3 (Ginny Grippo/3rd Mon.) This month we will enjoying “Leaving Time,” by Jodi Piccoult. Book Club 4 (Mary Jo Starrett/1st Wed.) Our group will be discussing “Educated: A Memoir” by Tara Westover. Book Club 5 (Joan Gross/3rd Tues.) When we meet, we will be talking about “Vanishing Acts” by Jodi Picoult. June Stemmle

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It Is Time To Vote Living in the United States we often forget what a great privilege our founding fathers gave us by allowing our citizens to vote for their governmental leaders. In many countries this is not allowed, and the government continues under a dictatorship or some other type of non-representative government. It is important for all citizens of the United States to vote for their upcoming leaders. If we don’t vote, we could be allowing others, whom we disagree with, to run our lives. This is important on all levels of government – federal, state, county, town and even Springmill. Tuesday, November 6 is the election for many levels of government.

2nd Election District Representative District Polling Place: Appoquinimink High School, Bunker Hill Rd. Hrs. 7 a.m. – 8 p.m. 8th

Sample Ballot Candidates

Democratic Party

Republican Party

Green Party

Senator

Thomas R. Carper

Robert B. Arlett

Demitri G. Theodoropoulos

Representative in Congress

Lisa Blunt Rochester

Scott Walker

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Attorney General

Kathleen Jennings

Bernard V. Pepukayi, Sr.

State Treasurer

Colleen Davis

Kenneth A. Simpler

David B. Chandler

Auditor of Accounts

Kathleen K. McGuiness

James Spadola

State Rep. Dist. 8

Quinton Johnson

Daniel Zitofsky

Ciro Poppiti, III

Recorder of Deeds

Michael E. Kozikowski

County Council-Dist. 8

David B. Carter

Sheriff

Scott Phillips

Daniel Rappa

For residents who need transportation to the polls, Please contact Neighbors Helping Neighbors. Carol Geiger - Contact info in Springmill Directory A Springmill resident will take you to the polls. Information compiled by Sonya Comstock

Springmill and Odessa Legacy Pickleball players attended a pizza party which has become an annual event at Spring Arbor. The party was hosted by Spring Arbor, Bayberry and Silver Maple individuals who play at the Springmill and Odessa Legacy facilities. (Picture on page 27) The 2018 Pickleball season will officially ended on Friday, October 25th. Over the winter we will go to places like Elkton Tennis facility, the Glasgow YMCA and the Kent Recreation Center in Dover to play. For individuals who may want to take lessons or who just want to play, the Glasgow YMCA (302-836-9622) has a program. If you have United Health Care as your supplemental medical insurance for $24 a month you can use all that the Glasgow YMCA has to offer including swimming, yoga, exercise equipment, etc. For those who would want to take lessons, the Kent Recreation Center in Dover (302-744-2495) gives lessons on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 10 a.m. to 12 Noon. It doesn’t take very many lessons to get you going, so please take the time to look into these programs so that you can join us. Meantime, have a healthy winter and we hope to see you on the courts in the Spring. Jane Kimmins

Story of Taps Cont. From page 1 One day in July of 1862, he recalled the tattoo music and hummed a version to an aide, who wrote it down in music. Butterfield then asked the brigade bugler to play the notes, which were eventually shortened while keeping the original melody.

Chair Pose Well, it’s that time of year when reporting on the outdoor sports is ending, so you get to learn some yoga poses. This month we’ll try one that you can use every day, as a matter of fact you do…and several times a day, it’s called the Chair Pose or Standing Squat. Many people have difficulty getting out of a chair, or standing up after sitting for a while. (Bet that sounds familiar!) This move energizes the entire body, stretches the back of the legs and calves, and strengthens the Achilles tendons, ankles, calves, and thighs.

Thereafter, the new call was played at the end of each day instead of regulation call. The music was made the official Army bugle call after the war, but not given the name “taps” until 1874. The first time it was played at a military funeral was when Union Capt. John Tidball, head of an artillery battery, ordered it played for the burial of a cannoneer killed in action. It was substituted for the traditional three rifle volleys, because the Captain didn’t want to reveal their position.

BASIC CHAIR Stand with your feet under your hips, arms held straight out from the chest, palms facing down. Exhale and slowly lower your body into a squat position as though sitting on an imaginary chair. Keep your feet flat on the floor, knees over ankles. Now hold for a count of 10. Lower your arms and relax. Repeat…I Mark Verni usually do five to ten squats each day. When you begin you may feel more comfortable using a chair and just pretend you’re sitting, but don’t touch the seat. Hold for the count of ten.

Taps is now played by the military at burial and memorial services and is accompanied by the lowering of the flag and to signal “lights out” command at dusk. June Stemmle with an assist from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs

ENHANCED CHAIR If you want to enhance this position, raise your heels off the floor, while remaining in the squat position. Hold for a count of 5. Then lower your heels to the floor. Lower your arms and relax. Squats are one of the most important positions to do on a daily basis. Without Sharyn Fagone strong legs, life gets more challenging. So, start slowly, but try the chair for the next 30 days to give your legs a boost. June Stemmle

New Card Game Comes to Springmill A new card game is being started on Thursday nights in the Great Room from 7 P.M. -9 P.M. The game is “Pay Me” (a version of “3 Crowns”). All are invited to play. Just bring 11 dimes and 1 quarter and join in this fun game. Ann Hullinger and Diane Daigle 29

The complete list of books in the library can be seen on the library section of the website. Also any new books listed on the website has a small paragraph describing the book. You can find it on the library page. We encourage everyone who uses the library to use the website. The back shelves between the windows and also the the book rack on the table have the newest books. We also have quite a selection of jigsaw puzzles that residents enjoy and we will gladly take contributions. Magazines can be found on the table outside the library. Julie and Nancy

PAPERBACK Baldacci, David

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(Lawns, common areas, retention ponds and wetlands) The Springmill Property Committee (PC) and Board of Directors (BOD) have established contracts for maintaining our ‘community property’, specifically our lawns, common areas, retention ponds and the wetlands. Lawn care and industrial weed control companies, as well as the Town, have specific responsibilities and guidelines, as outlined in Board approved agreements, to provide Springmill the best services possible. Additionally, monthly meetings are scheduled with Page Precision Cuts and Forever Green, and as needed with Weeds, Inc., to discuss scheduled events as well as community concerns and issues relevant to maintaining a beautiful landscape. For the Property Committee to successfully carry out its responsibilities requires community cooperation. Therefore, we encourage our residents to respect the property guidelines, and the professionals under contract, to exercise their functions and responsibilities. And, we are asking that no one take any individual action to cut, plant, trim, dig, spray or discard anything in the areas listed above (with the exception of the resident’s own lawn). Our contracts clearly state specific times throughout the year when community maintenance is required, and is closely monitored by the Property Committee. As a resident, should you have concerns or questions about our community maintenance agreements, please feel free to contact the PC Chairperson, the Springmill Property Manager or attend a PC meeting, scheduled the 2nd Monday of each month. We value our residents input, and we make an effort to respect your concerns. Janet and Mark Herner

On October 27, Don Thompson, President of Springmill BOD, brought the Reybold plot plans to the clubhouse for review. The proposed storage units (two) are two story buildings, situated behind two new retail strip malls on 301. (Next to Rita’s Water Ice) Both the retail stores and the storage units will have an access road from Rt. 301 (near the Rt, 71 intersection) and it will run behind the storage units. This road will be along-side (there is a proposed easement) the pond that is located behind Dunkin Donuts, Poets way and Springmill Drive. The drawings of Reybold are posted in the clubhouse Concerns/comments should be emailed to Don Thompson. Please send concerns by November 9. Tom Rigg

Travel Log - Classic Germany Our tour was billed as “Classic Germany”, promising a look at the history and culture of this country in the middle of Europe and in the middle of so much that consumes historians from the Middle Ages to the present time. We heard of great (and not so great) men and women, music and literature, we tasted regional food and wine specialties, Some in our group of sixteen sampled the local beers. We saw beautiful rivers: the Main, the Elbe, the Spee, and the Rhine (including a half-day cruise). Crossword puzzle fans will recognize those names from many clues “River in Germany”. We learned about the Fredericks, Wilhelms, Ludwigs, and Augusts of royal lineage. (Don’t ask me who did what!).

We saw a memorial to the Sinti and Roma (gypsies) murdered during WWII and one to the members of the LGBTQ community who were among the first targets of the Nazis. I even saw a memorial in the small town of Waldkirch for the victims of the actions of one of its citizens who was a commander of the SS and responsible for murdering over 130,000 Jews in Lithuania between June 1941-January 1942. We saw the courthouse where the trials of the WWII criminals took place (“Judgment at Nuremburg”) and the bridge where Russian spy Rudolf Abel was exchanged for two Americans; pilot Francis Gary Powers and student Frederic Pryor (“Bridge of Spies”).

We saw examples of architecture over the centuries including Baroque, Rococo, half-timbered, pre-war and post-war modern. Many cities that were bombed in WWII are still rebuilding, some using material salvaged from the ruins.

We saw remnants of the Berlin Wall that had separated that city for many years under the Soviet regime. We saw Checkpoint Charlie, the entry/ exit point of the American sector of Berlin.

In the Black Forest, we saw the world’s largest cuckoo clock and a museum devoted to their evolution over the years.

The memorials that had the most emotional impact for me were the smallest we saw. They are called Stolpersteine (Stumbling Stones). They are about 4” x 4” squares of brass covered bricks set into the sidewalk in front of the last chosen residence or work-place of the victims of the Holocaust. The artist Gunther Demnig started this project in 1992. As of March 2018, there were over 67,000 stones placed in 22 countries. The inscription on the stones details the name, life dates, and where the person was imprisoned and murdered by the Nazi’s. Some people escaped or were freed and those details are inscribed as well. Stones for whole families as well as individuals are placed in front of the buildings. We initially saw them in Frankfurt on our first day there as we were walking to the Jewish Museum. We saw additional stones in Heidelberg, Freiburg and Berlin; over four dozen, in total. Besides the Jewish people, the names of other victims of the Nazi regime are also memorialized on these stones.

We saw a porcelain statue of Saxonia in the Meissen Porcelain Factory, the representation of the state of Saxony, and learned about the process of creating porcelain in Germany that began in 1705. We saw a statue of Germania, commemorating the unification of the German states in the 19th century. We saw castles, including Neuschwanstein, which was Disney’s inspiration for Sleeping Beauty’s castle. It was also one of the sites used to store confiscated and looted art during WWII (“The Monuments Men”). We saw castles dedicated to queens and mistresses and where the decision was made regarding the post-war partition of Berlin in Potsdam. We saw a museum with collections of ancient Egyptian artifacts including a bust of Nefertiti in its original colors, preserved behind glass. Another museum, The Topography of Terror, depicted the massive administrative details of the build-up of the Nazi regime and how those plans were implemented all over Europe.

On Yom Kippur this year, during the Yizkor (memorial) service, I read the names of the people whose stones we saw, a very moving experience. I wanted to remember them as individuals, not just part of the 6 million Jewish people and 5 million others who perished in the Holocaust. Our Talmud says, “A person is only forgotten when his or her name is forgotten”.

We saw places where books were burned and a camp where people were warehoused, tortured, gassed and cremated. We saw rally grounds where thousands had gathered to listen to a dictator rant for hours at a time. We saw the buildings where the horrific decisions of the Nazis were formulated and put into effect.

A classic trip indeed, to a beautiful country I had been reluctant to visit for obvious reasons. I was encouraged by the number of younger people visiting the monuments, memorials and museums around Germany that tell of the Holocaust - its causes, beginnings and effects on the world. Germany as a county seems to take full responsibility for what happened. Teaching about this horrendous time is a mandatory part of the curriculum in German schools. For this, I am glad.

We saw cathedrals where coronations of kings took place, memorials and monuments to synagogues that had been destroyed during the violent pogroms of Kristallnacht in 1938. We saw a magnificent synagogue in Berlin that had been saved by the quick thinking of one brave police officer who claimed he had a letter from Hitler to spare it because it was historic. We saw other cities that had built new synagogues to serve their congregations.

Ilene Lipstein