www.springmilldelaware.org Volume XVII Issue 1
A NEWSLETTER FOR THE SPRINGMILL COMMUNITY
Springmill “Auld Lang Syne” The coming new year calls for lots of reflection Making plans for the future to find a good direction. We consult those for whom we have affection and identify the values for which there is connection. This past year, 2018, was one of great review, extenuating circumstances were certainly very few. Let’s look at the past year to find out what’s taboo and look ahead with creative plans to know what we should do. In January, a powerful blizzard provided quite a storm and on MLK Day we watched a video of Victor Borge perform. The Community Events Committee sponsored a bingo night enorm while Springmill’s Gold Star designation was renewed as a form. In February, we met the presidents in a history presentation while the Communications Committee began planning seminar narrations. Women’s History Month highlighted Delaware women for ovation and Fun with Neighbors held a Pictionary evening after which we needed sedation. In March, the covered dish dinner brought many together and the Dove’s Nest Pollinator project plan should sustain flora forever. The Hospice Presentation informed and made us clever and the Property Committee planned the greening of the homes that we treasure.
In April, the Mystery Dinner had us wondering who done it while the Garage Sale helped get rid of stuff rather than just shun it. Tax day rolled around and to the bank we did run while Joan Gross competed in the Hula Hoop contest and handily won. Kentucky Derby Day opened the May calendar of social events, while Memorial Day opened the pool and summer athletic achievements. We honored our veterans on Memorial Day and enjoyed being grandparents, while wondering if the Monkey Puzzle Tree was for real or had some crazy scents. The Charity Committee welcomed June with a food drive and the Saturday Bagels and Coffee were so fresh for our energies to revive. The 50’s Rock ‘n Roll show was a blast and good memories did arise while the Dinner Club celebrated Italian food at a feast where we did thrive. In July, folk singer John Allen Frink took us back to the sixties and the CEC held our nation’s birthday party to please us old hippies. The ice cream social in the Great Room plunged us back into the quick freeze, as the first-Thursday dinner group took us cruisin’ past woodland beauties. Ken McBride came back in August to accolades and delight, the Fun-with-Neighbors group led us in a participatory trivia night. The new FOB system ensured our entry and kept our clubhouse tight while the finance committee worked on our budget to keep our finances bright. Labor Day marked the end of summer and a celebration we did hold, the Newcomers Brunch officially welcomed new residents shy and bold. A new Board of Trustees we voted in and their duties soon did unfold, The Jewish High Holidays were observed for our Jewish neighbors to behold. Continued on page 13
January 2019
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Notes From Your Board
Board Motions
In the short time I have been on the BOD, I have been impressed with several things. First of all, the many residents who volunteer their time and talents to make this community such a great place to live are more numerous than I had ever realized. The party held recently to honor these individuals was well attended and well deserved. Every committee contributes in its own way offering many events and activities for the residents and/or work to keep the community looking good and things working as they should. The BOD does understand and appreciate all that you do.
November 12, 2018 Meeting of the Board Finance Committee Mission Statement: The BOD reviewed the proposed Mission Statement submitted by the Finance Committee. C Fausnaugh made a motion to approve the Finance Committee’s Mission Statement. Motion 2nd: J Steskal. Motion approved (4-0) The BOD discussed the duties and responsibilities of the Finance Committee. Landscape Guidelines/ mowing: C Fausnaugh made a motion for this revision: • All trees in the garden beds are to be the home owners responsibility. • All trees in the garden beds to be trimmed/pruned so that they do not exceed 7 feet, at full maturity. Motion 2nd: C Bodden. Motion approved (4-0)
Another impressive adventure for me was that of going through the budget process with the Committee Chairs. A sincere desire to make sure the money coming from the monthly dues is used efficiently and effectively was evident from every committee. The Springmill budget is a detailed document that, I believe, should make all residents feel secure in their investment in Springmill.
C Fausnaugh made a motion for this Landscape revision: Ref: page 5 of Landscape Guidelines dated October 2018; that the words “which also include front lawn trees” be redacted from the last paragraph on the page. Motion 2nd: D Thompson. Motion approved: (4-0) HVAC Contract renewal for clubhouse: The Clubhouse Chairman submitted the proposed Air Temp Services HVAC contract renewal for the BOD to review and sign. Carolyn Bodden made a motion to accept the proposed HVAC contract renewal by the Clubhouse Committee. Motion 2nd: J Steskal. Motion approved (4-0)
Included in the budget this year is a Recumbert Step Thru Exercise Bike (already installed) for the fitness room and some much needed warming ovens for the kitchen. Thanks to Tom Rigg, hearing assisted software has been installed in the community center computer. Hopefully, everyone will be able to hear or read what is happening in general meetings now. The BOD, with three new members, has developed a good working relationship over the past two months. We are determined to work in a transparent way to meet the needs of all Springmill residents. Recently, a survey was distributed by email and in the lower mailboxes to all residences. Please take a few minutes to give sincere feedback on the various topics listed.
At the December 17, 2018 meeting of the Springmill BOD work session, the following policy was adopted:
On a more personal note, I have had the privilege of visiting the regular meeting of the MRC Committee twice, and am scheduled to meet with the Property Committee in January. As you may know, each member of the BOD attends committee meetings on a rotating basis. This process gives us a chance to stay up to date on the many things the committees are doing to make Springmill an even better place to live.
Homeowners' obligations: It is the responsibility of the homeowner to pay their monthly HOA fee by the due date. If the homeowner is mailing the payment using their bank's on-line system, they should allow 3-5 business days for the payment to post. Best method to ensure timely payments of HOA fees is by Direct Debit. This method can be established by contacting our Community Manager or on-line Associa website.
In the October issue of the Sentinel, President Don Thompson encouraged all residents to consider becoming a member of an existing committee or group. If you are someone who is not involved, I would like to add to Don’s invitation to you to find a group to check out or start a new one. As Don pointed out, all are welcome.
Methods of payment: The following methods can be used to make monthly payments of association fees: 1. Mail check to Associa's lockbox 2. Payment by using credit card (service fee charged) 3. Direct withdraw from your bank account 4. Use your banking system for on-line payments
An Important Message from your Board
Have a great holiday season and stay warm.
The grace period of 10 days before applying a late fee is very lenient. Starting March 1, 2019, the late fee for payments that are posted beyond the 10th of the month will not be waived.
Bob Collins
This change will ensure that all homeowners are treated equally and exceptions are not to be made.
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports 2 Windmill Lane, Middletown, DE 19709 302-376-5466 Board of Directors Don Thompson - President Carolyn Bodden - Vice President Bob Collins - Secretary Carolyn Fausnaugh - Treasurer Jerry Steskal - Director Board Recording Secretary Tracey Lund - Community Manager: Tracey.lund@associa.us Committees Charity Committee: Pat Kolbay Clubhouse Committee: Joe Grippo Communications Committee: Tom Rigg Community Events (CEC): Peggy Andrews Finance Committee: Open Maintenance & Repair Committee: Georgieanna Anderson Property Committee: Julia Hambrecht Springmill Website: Stan Heer Welcome Committee Person: Joann Campbell Groups Dance Group: Bonnie Silva Fun With Neighbors: Riggs Travel: Betty Freeman, Anne Lucas, June Stemmle Anyone wishing to join a Committee or Group should contact the Chairperson of that Committee. Note: All committees, groups and activities using the Clubhouse must coordinate dates and times with Tracey Lund. Calendar: Tracey Lund
Chairman of Communications Committee Tom Rigg Sentinel Editor - Joan Gross, Tom Rigg Treasurer - Sharonlynn Tassone Secretary - Sonya Comstock Design and Production - Joan Gross and Marie Rigg Business Manager - Dick Rausch Advertising - Carol Geiger, Janet Herner, Jerry Ryan, Pat Steskal Editorial - Sonya Comstock, Wilma Feinberg, Carol Geiger, Dick Rausch, Lee Rosenson, Jerry Ryan, June Stemmle, Harry Weinheimer, Helen Weinheimer
Clubhouse Committee The Clubhouse Committee met on Thursday, December 13th. Carolyn Fausnaugh was our board liaison. December was a very busy month for the Committee. We had the new StepOne bike delivered and we had a few hours of training from the Heartline sales person. We had an intercom security system installed which allows Tracey to see, speak to, and permit entry to all visitors from her desk. Concrete was poured in the Pool area taking care of a large patch which needed redoing. All holiday decorations were put up in and outside the clubhouse. Carolyn Rifino led the way and to her we all say Thank You for a job well done. A big Thank You to all on the Committee who helped. Also, a thank you to Dick Belber, Jerry Ryan and Joe Speno who helped bring the tree down and set it up. Finally, a special thanks to Sam Merrick who replaced bulbs and sockets in the clubhouse ceiling. Our meeting was very short. The main concern was the taking down of the Christmas decorations, which will happen on January 7th. From a housekeeping point, please remember that if you want to donate something to the clubhouse, please call Joe Grippo. Please do not consider the Clubhouse as a “dumping ground� for all unwanted goods. Anything left in the Clubhouse will be considered trash and will be disposed of immediately. Also, please remember to turn all thermostats back to 66 degrees when leaving the clubhouse. As you all well know, there are three thermostats; two in the Great Room and one in the Pool Room. When finished with an activity, please take a minute to lower the thermostats to 66. Also, please leave the thermostats on heat at all times in the winter and the fan on automatic. If you are not able to read the thermostat, please get someone who can. Thanks in advance for your cooperation. Joe Grippo
Carbon Monoxide Monitors There are 4 carbon monoxide monitors in the clubhouse. These were not placed in the clubhouse because of a problem, but for your protection. We placed one in the corridor by the Fitness room, one in the Great room, one in the Pool room and one in the Card room. Should the alarm go off, you should evacuate the Clubhouse immediately.
Calendar - Joe Grippo, Julie Hambrecht, Tracey Lund
Joe Grippo
Distribution - Diane Morton and the distribution team
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Neighbors Helping Neighbors Doll Sewing Group – Carol Geiger Carolyn Rifino Family Emergency Numbers: Sunshine – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Pat Howe, JoAnn Stump Faith Altman Library - Julia Hambrecht, Nancy Shannon
Springmill Activities Bocce – Don Thompson Book Clubs 1 – Debra Kupper 2 – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads 3 – Lydia Olson 4 – Mary Jo Starrett 5 – Joan Gross Bowling – Larry Daigle Bridge Thursday 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th Joan Gross Friday a.m. – Beginners & refreshers Marie Rigg Bunco 1 – Deb Kupper Bunco 2 – June Stemmle Cribbage – John Oppelt Dance Party Group – Bonnie Silva Dinner Group First Thursday Danese Collins Dominos – Jo Verni Golf – Joe Tomasetti (Men’s) Joann Stump (Women’s) Hand and Foot – Jo Verni Hand/Knee/Foot Mon. p.m./Tues. p.m. – Carolyn Bodden Mah jongg – Pat Wiedermann Meditation – Cynthia Frank Men’s Hearts – Len Brussee Men’s Poker – Tom Ferrara
Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Charity Committee December started with picking up your donations to Neighborhood House. They gratefully accepted the contributions from 78 Springmill homes! Monday, January 7, 2019 at 8:30 a.m, we will collect for the MOT Senior Center. Paper goods and soup are high on their list.
Men's Pool – Bob Cohen Men’s Cards ”31” – Len Brussee Music Appreciation Club – Roy Peters Pay Me - Ann Hullinger, Diane Daigle Pickleball - Jane Kimmins Red Hats (listing open groups only) Classie Lassies – Dolores Bille Crimson Belles – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Happy Hatters – Kathy Kobus Old Bats in the Red Hats Peg McMullen Scarlett O’Hattas – Phyllis Torgersen Romeos – Art Lamb Rummikub – Tues. – Carolyn Rifino Thurs. – Jo Verni Fri. – Tiny Farquhar Senior Exercise – Geri Abel Social Singles – Bridget McGrath/ Kathy Cioffi Tennis – (Men’s/Women’s) Jerry Ryan Texas Holdem – Stan Heer Water Aerobics – Ann Raymond/ Sandy Corrozzi Yoga – June Stemmle
Many thanks to all for their generosity in our Holiday Fundraiser! Your gifts and many caring hours by our members brightened the holidays of 70 people in the MOT area and many veterans in Delaware. There are 2 projects to start now for “Stockings for Soldiers”. One is recycling your holiday cards with the personal message cut off. They and any unused cards can be put in my lower mailbox. This will help provide enough cards to hand sign for each of the 10,000 stockings. The second is a call to knitters to make wool hats to wear under cold metal helmets. There are requirements as to color and type of yarn and specific directions for the hat. Contact me and I will be happy to leave these instructions in your mailbox. Many thanks, Springmill, for your gracious support throughout the year and particularly during our special projects! Very special thanks to all who kindly and willingly volunteered their time and energy for this committee during the past year. I am also immensely grateful for the advice, help and patience they gave me as the new chair. Happy New Year everyone! Pat Kolbay
If you wish to join a service group or an activity, contact the leader (Contact info is in the Directory)
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Property Committee
Website www.springmilldelaware.org Last month I wrote about Photos. This month's topic will be Videos. There is a new Resident Videos section on the Website. This new section is located on the navigation menu right below Resident Photos.
The Property Committee did not meet in December. It would have been Jerry Steskal's last meeting as our liaison. Thank you to Jerry for his 2 months of meeting with us. Page Precision Cuts, our new landscaper, did the last mowing of the year and the leaf removal. Residents commented that they were happy with the results. Unfortunately, there are still trees with leaves on them, but the work had to be done before any bad weather. Zach Page, the owner, said that residents would come out and speak to them and offer them water and tell them that they were doing a good job. He feels that they will have a good relationship with the community.
At this time, there are 3 videos there. Two are contributions from Roe Lamb of events held in 2006. As you view these, hopefully you will have fond memories of those friends and spouses who have since passed on. The third video is a brief glimpse of the Alpenlaenders at our Oktoberfest party. We hope we can add more videos, but for that we will need your help. If you have a video you would like to share, please contact me via email (Stanheer43@gmail.com) or you can use the Contact Webmaster link on the Main Home Page. Unlike photos, videos are actually uploaded and stored on YouTube, since our Website does not have the technology or bandwidth required to stream videos. Although any Google (Gmail) account holder is allowed to post videos to YouTube, only a Webmaster can create the link on our Website to a YouTube video.
We will resume our meetings on Monday, January 14th at 6:30 P.M. in the Craft Room. Anyone wishing to join the committee or wanting to be put on the agenda please notify me by January 10th. The Property Committee wants to wish everyone a very happy and healthy 2019.
One video in particular I would like to find: Back in the early days of Springmill, a popular social event was Karaoke. Channel 6 TV actually came down to the Club House for one of those evenings and broadcast a brief segment on the evening news. Many of us at the time had our own copy of that segment, but I have since lost track of the one I had. I am hoping somebody can still locate theirs, and would be willing to let me borrow it. Please don't hesitate to contact me if you can help!
Julie Hambrecht
First Thursday Dinner Group Greetings! Where did the time go? 2019 is standing at the door waiting to step though in just a matter of days now. Ready or not, here it comes. But, the big question is, “Are you ready for our first dinner of the New Year?” Our appreciation for hosting this month goes to Linda and Bob Stewart who have selected Pat's Select Pizza and Grill located at 311 North Broad St. (Route 71) – right here in Middletown – as our first place of the new year. Pat’s will be especially nice and close should we be dealing with colder weather.
We did not have a meeting in December, but in November we welcomed another new Task Force member, Eileen Bogel. And since then, sadly, we accepted the resignation of 2 other members, so we remain a small group of 8 people. Our next meeting is scheduled for January 8 at 10:00 a.m. in the Great Room. Any one is welcome.
The time is as usual -- 4:30 PM and the date of the first Thursday is January 3, 2019. RSVPs may be made by email or home phone to Linda and Bob Stewart (See directory for contact information)
Stan Heer
Activities
As always, if you would like to invite a neighbor to join us, please feel free to do so, but just make sure that either you or the neighbor RSVPs so that all are included in the count. Also, if you need a ride, let us know and we will connect you up with one.
Many thanks to Ann Hullinger, Claudia Garrett and their hard working group for all their coffee hour socials.
Peace, Danese Collins
ROMEOS We meet at a different restaurant for lunch on the third Thursday of every month. This is a group of men who get together to share food and conversation. All are welcome to attend. Contact Art Lamb to be put on the e-mail list.
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Community Events
Communications Committee
Wonderful holiday party!! The appetizer tables were full with the most delicious food. The food was plentiful but disappeared quickly. To celebrate the first day of Hanukah, Ilene Lipstein lit the first candle on the Menorah and performed a song. Helen Moffatt organized our “Springmill Carolers” and they were fabulous. Who knew we had so much talent in Springmill!! After joining in the singing, the buffet was open to serve Baked Ham. Au Gratin Potatoes and a fabulous Winter Salad. There were quite a variety of delicious desserts (the party attendees out-did themselves) With the tree finally decorated, many empty wine bottles and the third bowl of eggnog gone, it was time for the Community Events Committee to thank everyone for their support of our events and wish all a happy, healthy New Year! “BINGO” January 25, 2019 Flier in Sentinel “SEAN REILLY” February 23, Sean was the 2009 winner of the FRANK SINATRA contest to see who is the best “OL’BLUE EYES”. Sean performs a production called ”SINATRA 101” in which he sings the songs and tells the tales behind the songs. Flier in February Sentinel The CEC meets on the first Wednesday of every month at 9:30 a.m. in the craft room. Our next meeting will be on January 9. Try to attend one of our meetings. We are a welcoming and fun committee to be part of. Come and just observe or join in with new ideas or suggestions as we begin to plan events for 2019. Peggy Andrews
Fun With Neighbors First of all, we would like to thank Lori and Lou for helping get this group started. They will be missed. At the December game night, Ilene Lipstein taught the group how to play a dice game. It was a nice low-keyed and enjoyable evening. As I write this, we have not yet had our Friday night pizza, but I am sure it will be a great time to share stories as well as pizza. On Saturday, January 5, (7:00 p.m.) Helen and Harry Weinheimer will lead the group in Pictionary. Bring your creative juices as well as any “juice” you wish to drink and have fun!! Pizza social will be Friday January 18th at 4 p.m. Bring a snack to share while we wait for delivery, money for the pizza, and your own beverage and cup or glass. See you then!!
Tom and Marie Rigg
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The Communications Committee held its monthly meeting in the home of Tom and Marie Rigg on December 10, 2018. The meeting was followed by a Holiday celebration. The meeting was called to order at 4:30 p.m. Minutes of the previous meeting were approved. Sharonlynn Tassone gave the Treasurer’s Report. Dick Rausch, as Business Manager, reported that we currently have 39 advertisers in the Sentinel. There are renewals needed and new advertisers sought out. In the 2018 Directory there were 16 advertisers. We had some discussion about providing a copy of the 2019 Directory to advertisers. A motion was made that the Directory will not be provided to outside vendors, advertisers or individuals. The editorial plan for the January Sentinel was reviewed. The cover page will be an article that reviews the activities that took place during 2018. There will be an article on the Hearing Seminar “I Can’t Hear You.” Also there will be a spread of photos of resident homes decorated for the holidays. Sonya will follow up on the opening of Connection Church. She will follow with an article about the new “Town Church” being erected near Westtown movies. The Seminar sub-committee has made some plans for future seminars. Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate? on February 6, and Safe Gardening on March 21. Mark your calendars now so you don’t miss these informative programs. There are other seminars that are in the works and we will let you know about them when plans are finalized. The Communications Committee has been trying to determine the best way to implement the use of the hearing impaired computer. I believe we have it solved and will present the solution to the BOD on Dec. 17 at their monthly BOD meeting. Dick Rausch is continuing to coordinate the History of Springmill project. We will meet again in the spring to assess progress and make changes. Carolyn Bodden was our BOD liaison. She spoke to us about being on the Board and its plans for the future. Our next meeting is Monday, January 14 at 10 a.m. in the Clubhouse. Come and join us if you think you can contribute to our efforts. Tom Rigg
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Appreciation
Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Music Appreciation Features Big Band Sounds The Music Appreciation Group will meet at 2:00 p.m. on Tuesday, January 8, 2019 in the Great Room. Walt Angney will present a CD-based program centered on Sketches and Portraits by Stan Kenton. Stan Kenton preceded Benny Goodman, Artie Shaw, Tommy Dorsey and all the other Big Bands of the late 1930's and the 1940's. It is fair to say that Stan Kenton started the Big Band era. Time permitting, we may also get to hear a bit from Louis Prima (with Keely Smith). And as a special treat, Walt will bring his trumpet to show us how it is done. Roy Peters
Our Daily Bread's Expression of Appreciation to Springmill Volunteers Our Daily Bread Dining Room wishes to express our sincerest appreciation to all the Springmill community volunteers this holiday season. It is your spirit of giving and caring that enables the Middletown Soup Kitchen (ODB) to provide a valued service to those in need. We are hopeful that our partnership with you will continue for many years to come. The rewards of helping those less fortunate is a blessing to all. We encourage others from the Springmill Community to get involved with your current serving team, or talk with us about other areas of service as well. Our continued efforts, together, will go a long way in providing hope to many in the Middletown and surrounding area. Should you have any questions, or you simply want to know more about Our Daily Bread, please contact Mark or Janet Herner. Making Spirits Bright, one person at a time. Mark and Janet
Dance Group Because of the poor response from the community, the New Year's Eve Gala was canceled. Only 27 people responded, and so it was decided that there was not enough interest in the event that was to feature a covered dish dinner and live entertainment to bring in the New Year. There will be no dance in January. The next scheduled event will be a Valentine's Dance on Saturday, February 9th. Watch for more information in the February Sentinel. Eileen Bogel
Springmill Auld Lang Syne
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Octoberfest was lots of fun with The Alpenlanders’ show and dance, The Senior’s Eye Problems seminar gave us facts, leaving little trouble to chance. Resources from Our Daily Bread fundraiser their offerings did enhance, while the travel group explored The Finger Lakes, fall foliage sure to glance. As November came in, we filled stockings for soldiers and purchased toys for tots, Tommy Zito, the Piano Man, had us singing, laughing and dancing fox trots. Thanksgiving Dinner was delicious and symbolic of what God allots, and the adjacent self-storage facility plan had us all tied up in knots. In December we adopted needy seniors from the senior center, at the Trim-the-Tree Party we sang high like soprano and tenor. The Romeos wandered to lunch in their usual manly nature while the New Years Eve party is fast becoming part of Springmill’s culture. So that was our year, not in whole but in good part. It gives us an idea in the new year where to start. It’s a hard act to follow with good intentions to heart, but we will research hard and plan long and certainly work smart. If we all get involved the coming year to plan, we will have great programs, all tastes they will span. Come join a committee to contribute all you can, the secret of our successes since Springmill began. Written by Helen Weinheimer
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Budget Meeting The Board of Directors held their budget meeting on November 28th. Carolyn Fausnaugh, Treasurer, had handouts for residents showing the expenses through September, 2018 and the proposed budget for 2019. She also gave an explanation of the difference between the operating and replacement funds. She said that, as the community ages, there will be more spending from the replacement fund, but does not anticipate that in 2019. The monthly fees will remain at $150.00 per month for the year 2019. Joan Gross Photos: Lee Rosenson
Don Thompson President, BOD
Carolyn Fausnaugh, Treasurer
Tom Rigg, Carolyn Fausnaugh
Proposed Storage Facility Don Thompson introduced Jerry Heisler as a representative of the Reybold Group. The Reybold Group intends to build a two story storage facility with a possible retail center fronting on route 301 and abutting Springmill property. Mr. Heisler showed a detailed map of the proposed construction. There were multiple questions from residents asking about various concerns - when the project would begin, construction noise, and debris, the traffic impact, lighting, water runoff, landscaping, etc. Heisler answered with the knowledge he had, but deferred on studies that had not been completed yet. He said that he would be happy to come to another meeting to answer questions after those studies had been completed and his plan was approved and recorded.
Can You Hear Me?
Photos: Lee Rosenson
Hearing loss means losing out on many of life’s pleasures. Communicating with family and friends becomes difficult as a person struggles to participate in conversations and eventually withdraws starting a downtrend of isolation. As we age, hearing loss is evident in all of us. What to do about it becomes an important issue so that we stay active in our daily lives. (Continued on page 27)
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Annual Trim A Tree
Photos: Lee Rosenson 2nd.
The CEC held its annual trim-a-tree party and Toys for Tots collection on December The buffet meal was provided by the CEC at no charge to residents. The plentiful appetizers and desserts were provided by attendees. All this and entertainment too? Of course, provided by the Springmilll Singers, accompanied by Helen Jackson and directed by Roe Lamb.
Toys For Tots Carolyn Rifino, Pat Kolbay, Betty Freeman, Ilene Lipstein
Connie Alexander, Tex Morton, Helen Moffatt, George Ryor Twelve Days of Christmas Springmill Style
Light Up the Night
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The CEC Committee Thanks you for a year of great parties!
Photos: Dick Rausch
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222 Carter Dr., Suite 104
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There Are Newcomers in Springmill!! Remember Martin Luther King, Jr.
Say hello, invite them to go to an event or committee meeting with you.
January 21, 2019
We welcome Frank and Debbie Weber On Daylilly
Springmill Library The complete list of books in the library can be seen on the library section of the website. Also any new books listed on the website has a small paragraph describing the book. You can find it on the library page. We encourage everyone who uses the library to use the website. The back shelves between the windows and also the the book rack on the table have the newest books. We also have quite a selection of jigsaw puzzles that residents enjoy and we will gladly take contributions. Magazines can be found on the table outside the library. Julie and Nancy
Alexander, Bevin Bauman, Jeff Binchy, Maeve Brooks, Karen Buckley, William Child, Lee Cleave, Chris Coben, Harlan Cornwell, Patricia Doer, Anthony Hannah, Kristin Hodges, David Lamb, Cathy Ludlum, Robert Palmer, Diana Patterson, James Roberts, Nora
PAPERBACK How Wars Are Won Stronger A Week In Winter The Locksmith's Daughter Happy Days Were Here Again The Affair Little Bee Don't Let Go Body of Evidence All The Light We Cannot See Magic Hour Requiem Such a Pretty Face The Scarlatti Inheritance Untamed Black Book People vs Alex Cross A Little Fate Stars of Fortune Island of Glass Bay of Sighs Night Shade Night Smoke
Rosenberg, Joel Serling, Robert Taylor, Brad Woods, Sherry
Barker, Bob Giffords, Bagrielle Hamill, Dorothy Henderson , Florence Kidder, Tracy Mason, Daniel Owen, Randy Walters, Barbara White, Betty Wynette, Tammy
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The Third Target Something's Alive on the Titanic The Insider Threat Home at Rose Cottage Return To Rose Cottage Flirting with Disaster The Backup Plan Waking Up in Charleston HARDCOPY Priceless Memories Gabby A Skating Life Life Is Not A Stage Strength in What Remains The Winter Soldier Born Country Audition A Memoir Here We Go Again Tragic Country Queen
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GriefShare Group
Town Meeting At the last meeting of the year, the Mayor and Town Council approved a minor subdivision plan for the former Promenade area soon to become the town’s new library.
The GriefShare group would like you to know that we still have open spots and open hearts for anyone who would like to check us out. Our meeting time has changed, so we are now beginning at 5:30 p.m. and running until 7:00 p.m.
Approval was given to the Middletown Auto Park for the Crooked Hammock Brewery on 2.64 acres comprised of an 8,000 sq.ft. restaurant, 650-sq.ft. screened porch, brewery and associated amenities. Approval was given for a revised record plan for Spring Arbor at South Ridge converting the landscaped median and traffic circle area of Spring Arbor Drive from Public Open space to Private Open Space. A preliminary Major Land Development Plan proposing an 11,200 sq.ft. general purpose retail building was discussed. The area is the Middletown Market Place (near Food Lion). This plan would expand the area with new stores and additional parking. Approval was given to adopt a policy for the administration of a Lodging Tax in the town. Sonya Comstock
New Businesses
Each week, along with our discussion and sharing, we watch a video seminar on DVD that covers topics essential to recovery from the hurt of grief and loss. A snapshot of key themes for our January sessions is shared below. January 6 -- The Journey of Grief continued • You’ll learn why it’s important to put effort into your healing • How the events surrounding your loved one’s death affect your grief • The best ways to deal with your loved one’s belongings January 13 -- Grief and Your Relationships • You’ll find out how the death of a loved one affects your friendships • Why solitude can be a blessing and a curse • How to deal with friends who don’t understand your grief January 20 -- Why? • This session deals with your “Why” questions -– especially, “Why, God?”
Poke Bros. just opened and offers a Hawaiian-style sushi-in-a-bowl food to all. Build your own dish which includes tuna, salmon and wholesome veggies. Location is next to Food Lion. Open seven days a week – 11 a.m. – 9 p.m. Cuzino’s Family Restaurant is now open – casual Italian eatery serving pizza, pastas, sandwiches and wings – Open 7 days a week – 464 W. Main St. – 302-449-0911 (formerly Nino’s)
January 27 -- Guilt and Anger • You’ll learn how to deal with false guilt • How to grieve conflicted relationships • How to handle grief-related anger Please contact me if you would like more information. Danese Collins
Sonya Comstock
All were treated to a wonderful experience recently as the Choral Society presented its annual concert to residents of Springmill and Middletown. The festive Christmas carols we all enjoy hearing were performed beautifully by the large choral group. A medley of Christmas music entertained the audience for almost two hours. Added to the voices was a performance by the String Ensemble which was outstanding and added to the concert. We thank Bethesda United Methodist Church for sponsoring the special event and inviting residents to partake in this special performance. Special gratitude to Kevin Wekke, Director of CCCS since 2001, who has guided this group toward performing a memorable event for all to experience. The concert set the stage for the holidays for all of us. Sonya Comstock
Suzanne Bilinski, Jim Spede, Jane Kimmins. Joe and Ginny Grippo, Peggy Spede
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Travel Log - Iceland - Part I An Autumn Adventure This destination has been on my “go to” list since my son, who is now 47, did a report in the sixth grade on “The Land of Fire and Ice.” Iceland is about the size of Kentucky. It is located along the Mid-Atlantic Ridge where the North American and Eurasian tectonic plates are splitting apart with volcanic force (think back to 2010) and so is considered one of the “newest” places on Earth and is still growing…just like Hawaii. It is situated in the North Atlantic Ocean between Greenland and Norway. With about 340,000 inhabitants calling Iceland home, much of the countryside is wide open, boasting canyons, geysers, glaciers, moss-covered lava fields, black sand beaches, mountains, waterfalls and beauty at every turn in the road. It has also been ranked on the Global Peace Index as the safest destination for the past 10 years! Temperatures for this late September to early October visit ranged from the 40’s to the 60’s. Since I was told it was the “windy, rainy season,” compounded by fickle weather, layering was the key, along with lightweight waterproof/windproof outerwear, hats, hiking boots, woolen/hiking socks, scarves, and gloves. It was definitely a two-suitcase trip…mostly due to the hiking boots, Sporto “town” boots, and Mukluks. I wore ALL of them depending on the activity… all were waterproof and insulated. Luckily, we had sun and good weather almost every day, but keep in mind, having the right clothing can make or break your vacation plans! Icelanders speak English, so no problem there…good thing as the Icelandic language is next to impossible. Visa and MasterCard are accepted in the city, but you need krona for some bathrooms and gratuities for tour guides. I found $10 was enough “pocket money”, because American dollars are also accepted. When I went to change my money in the airport, the person there gave me an excellent suggestion…to get a Visa debit card, called the Arion Currency Card, with krona on it. The minimum was $215. I took her suggestion and that card lasted me almost the whole trip for lunches, postcards, and small souvenirs. I think if I had done $300, it would have lasted the full ten days. The best thing about the debit card, was there were no transaction fees like the regular credit cards AND at the end of the trip there were no fees to change it back to American $$ in the airport. If you plan to travel here, you will need your passport, but not a visa. The trip is surprisingly short…only about five hours, which is like traveling to California. The electric current is different (2 pin plugs), so you will need an adapter. I brought an adapter from previous trips, but it didn’t fit. Not to worry, you can get them in any store and they are under $10.00. North American phones are useless here unless you have international service. Wi-Fi is EVERYWHERE, so it’s still easy to stay connected. One great thing is there is NO tipping (It’s included in your bill.), and it’s considered an insult if you do tip, so just enjoy the respite. Now that you have the basics, it’s time to travel the Golden Circle and check out all the highlights.
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We flew Icelandair into Reykjavik where we were to meet our Collette tour director, Geoff Harrison. The airport isn’t huge and the signage is pretty good, but after picking up my luggage in baggage claim and going through customs and immigration, I still had to ask where the Arrivals Hall was before finding it. It seems incoming and outgoing flights use the same areas, so it gets a bit crowded. My best advice is, when in doubt ask. Fellow travelers are always willing to help. Luckily, Geoff greeted us with a nice big Colette sign. Our first stop was to drop off bags at the Hotel Reykjavik Centrum, which is right in the center of town, with comfortable rooms, a good-sized bathroom and shower (It seems showers are tiny most places in Europe, so I’m always happy for a U.S.-sized one.) You can walk the whole of the inner city in an hour or two. I would definitely recommend a guided tour your first time walking around. You’ll get an historical perspective as you visit the city’s old section featuring Hallgrimskirkja Church (a combination of the Empire State Building and the Chrysler Building), the city hall, the harbor, as well as finding the best restaurants, shopping, and cultural sights. If you’ve taken an overnight flight, it’s probably a good idea to walk around as you adjust to the time difference…then just get a good night’s sleep because there’s a LOT to see once you travel outside the city. And that’s what we’ll do next month…board our bus and follow the route encompassing many of Iceland’s most renowned natural wonders, as well as check out Forheimar greenhouse (amazing and one of my favorites), Hellisheioavirkjun Geothermal Power Plant built right next to a volcano, visit three unique museums, stay in a variety of accommodations, take two cruises, bathe in the Blue Lagoon, taste a variety of unusual foods, and even travel 100 feet underground through a lava tube. How exciting…bet you can’t wait!
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Book Club Choices
Book Review Beartown by Fredrik Backman This book is one of the reasons I love being part of a book group. Having a hockey theme, it’s not one I would have chosen on my own, but then neither was Backman’s other book, A Man Called Ove, and I loved that…and the reason I was willing to be open-minded about this one. This one also seemed a perfect match for the winter season.
Book Club 1 (Deb Kupper/1st Wed.) Our group is hoping for a good movie to be available, so that we can enjoy dinner and a movie.
I have to admit the first thirty pages were slow-going, but before I knew it I was drawn into the characters, the hockey culture, and the broader theme of diversity that the author was offering me as a reader. You will learn quite a bit about the passion and excitement of the sport…a character on its own, but more about the human character and spirit, which is what makes this book a winner.
Book Club 2 (Mary-Elizabeth Rhoads/4th Tues.) Our group will be gathering for lunch or dinner and a movie to celebrate the New Year. Book Club 3 (Ginny Grippo/3rd Mon.) Our selection this month is “Still Me,” by Jojo Moyes. Book Club 4 (Mary Jo Starrett/1st Wed.) We will be starting the year by joining together for lunch.
Book Club 5 (Joan Gross/3rd Tues.) When we meet, we will talking about “Educated” by Tara Westover, a non-fiction The novel, all 600+ pages of it, takes place in Beartown, an book, highly recommended by every reviewer...NY Times, insulated forest community in Sweden, whose communal Washington Post, Amazon, etc. heart is held by hockey. Beartown has all the attributes of small-town life, and also the challenges that a town faces June Stemmle when there is an economic decline. It is timely in that many of our small, rural communities, lacking industry or tourism to sustain them, have fallen into despair. I mentioned characters…there are a multitude of them, and sometimes hard to keep track of until they become “neighbors” in your mind. You find yourself judging each until you learn more of their story. Two fibers are woven together to create this novel…the single-minded effort to resurrect the town by winning the junior hockey championship and the town dynamics when a terrible act, rape of the coach’s daughter, wreaks havoc on that dream due to peer pressure, sexism, politics, power and homophobia. The story gets very dark before glimmers of hope, thanks to individual acts of personal integrity, love, friendship and forgiveness help carry you through. I’ll let you find out who the “good guys and bad guys” are on your own…some will surprise you. (That’s one thing it has in common with Ove…characters are not necessarily who they seem to be on the surface.)
Meat Lasagne 1 # Italian sausage (pork or turkey) 1 clove garlic, minced 1 tabl. crushed basil 1 ½ teasp. Salt 1 28-ounce can tomatoes, broken up 2 6-oz. cans tomato paste 8-10 lasagne noodles 3 c. fresh ricotta ½ c. grated parmesan or romano 2 eggs, beaten 1 teasp. salt ½ teasp. pepper 1 # mozzarella, thinly sliced
There’s no “happy ending,” but there is a kind of justice and redemption. Hopefully, once you’ve read Beartown, you will start to internalize the “price of belonging, acceptance, loyalty, herd instinct, and the lengths parents will go to in the name of protecting their children.”
Brown and drain meat, discarding fat. Add next 5 ingredients, through tomato paste, and simmer over low flame 30 min., stirring occasionally. Cook noodles according to package directions. In separate bowl, combine ricotta through pepper.
I will end this critique with a quote from Amat’s mother: “If you are honest, people may deceive you. Be honest anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfishness. Be kind anyway. All the good you do today will be forgotten by others tomorrow. Do good anyway.”
Place ½ noodles in 9” X 13” sprayed pan. Spread ½ cheese filling, ½ mozzarella and ½ meat sauce. Repeat. Bake covered for 30 minutes at 375*F.
While each of the characters in Beartown is important to the storyline, Amat and his mother became two of my favorites. I’ll be curious to hear what you think of this novel and which characters left an indelible memory. Do I care about hockey? No, but I do hope you take the time to read Beartown.
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June Stemmle
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Let stand 10 minutes before serving – filling will “set.”
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Meet Your Neighbor Kathy Kobus, of 152 Springmill Drive, has a long family association with Middletown. She was born here and always knew she would come back to her hometown and she has. I can’t interview Kathy without mentioning Tony, who I got to know well when he was Chairperson of the Communications Committee, and who passed away eleven years ago. Kathy and Tony met at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. He was majoring in English, and she was working toward a nursing degree. Georgetown was an all-male school; the only females on campus were the nursing students, so the odds of meeting someone were definitely in one’s gender favor. Kathy’s roommate introduced them at a luncheonette across from their dorm. Things must have gone well because they dated for four years before marrying in 1957. They were married almost 50 years before he passed away in 2007. A sweet story that Kathy related was that JoAnn and Bill Stump were married on the same day and year as Kathy and Tony. So Kathy ordered flowers for their 50th anniversary at Elana’s Flower Shop. She started tearing up and shared the story with Elana, who it turns out had also lost someone. On the day of her anniversary, Joe Tommasetti rang her bell and presented her with a bouquet. Kathy explained that the flowers were to go to the Stumps. But it turned out that this bouquet was for Kathy, a sweet gift from Elana to remember her special day as well. To continue with Kathy’s story, after she and Tony were married, they lived and worked on Long Island for about two years before moving back to Middletown, Delaware in 1960. When the couple both found employment in Wilmington, they decided to set up housekeeping there in 1974. They resided in the Wilmington area for 27 years, adding to their family in 1958, 1960, 1962, and 1967. At a certain point, the couple was just waiting for “something” to make the move back to Middletown, where they still maintained friendships. That something turned out to be Springmill.
Kathy’s former occupation was as a nurse for about 38 years. The last 33 years were spent at A.I DuPont Hospital for Children in the child diagnostic clinic. Since retiring, she enjoys bridge, reading, doing needlework, and being in Mary Jo’s Book Club. She has stepped back from many of her volunteer projects and now just enjoys attending the numerous activities Springmill offers. Her favorite vacation spot has always been the family’s summer cottage in Charlestown, MD. She also enjoyed her trips to Europe and still travels now and then. We mentioned that the couple has four children. They are Mary (VA), Kevin (DE), Mark (GA), and Karen (DE). Each of her children has two children of their own; Sam (30), Anne (26), Chris (30), Sara (27), Jenna (28), Conner (25), Elsa (21) and Nina (19). Kathy had a few thoughts to share about life. She tries to have a positive attitude. She likes talking to, listening to, and being around people. She enjoys being involved and having something to do each day. Volunteering on various committees has been very fulfilling, and she hopes you all take the opportunity to join one of the many in Springmill. Lastly, Kathy finds that friends make life better. That all sounds like the path to a productive life in retirement, so I’ll join Kathy in suggesting that you reach out, reach in and reach up to new friends and new experiences. June Stemmle
It seems Kathy had been chatting with a co-worker at A.I. DuPont, when the woman mentioned her sister was considering a move to Middletown in the Springmill development. Kathy and Tony checked it out. After they signed their contract, Kathy asked the sales rep if she knew where the Moody’s were living…turned out it was right next door to the lot they chose…yet another “small world” moment. The features that influenced their move was that it was in the Middletown town limits, it was a single family home, outside maintenance was included in the association fee, and it basically had everything they needed and wanted in a retirement home. The features that have kept Kathy here are the friendly neighbors and all the activities. She and Tony became involved in volunteer activities in Springmill and Middletown from the very beginning. Tony was chairperson of the Communication Committee, involved with, and president of, the Rotary as well as taking part in St. Joseph’s church. Kathy was on the Property Committee and Finance Committee, on Springmill’s BOD, is currently on the board at the MOT Center, is a member of AAUW, was its president twice, and has also participated with the Historical Society.
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Standing Forward Bend (Can also do with a chair) This relaxing pose stretches the spine and legs…it’s great if you’re feeling tension in those areas, because, while the legs are active, the back can fully relax. Starting Position Stand in Mountain pose; standing straight up with feet parallel, pointing forward, and slightly apart. Now, hold your elbows above your head, so your trunk lengthens. Remember to breathe. If you have back problems or cannot bend forward very far, use a chair for the next posture. Bending and Stretching Forward From the starting position, bend forward from the waist, keeping your legs straight. Keep your trunk, head and neck relaxed as you bend…breathe comfortably. If you are using a chair (or ledge), choose one that is hip height if possible. Place your hands on the chair (or ledge), leaning forward and adjusting the distance of your feet, so that your legs are vertical and your arms are straight. Keep your head level with your arms. Keep the back of your spine straight…no sagging. Either way, try to stay in the posture for 30-60 seconds. IMPORTANT: When you come up, place your hands on your knees, bend the knees slightly, then place your hand on your hips as you raise your trunk, keeping your spine straight and your legs firm. IF you are using a chair, slowly adjust your position by moving closer to the chair (or ledge) until you are standing upright again. June Stemmle
Hearing Seminar Dr. Gary Marencin, Audiology Program Manager, Christiana Care Health Services, came to our community to speak about hearing loss and how we can adapt to it. He has been an audiologist for over 30 years and has seen huge progress in hearing aids over the years. Some statistics he mentioned were that 48 million people suffer hearing loss and that one in 10 Americans experience some degree of hearing loss. Many more babies are born deaf or with some form of hearing loss than we are aware of. However, 60% of people with hearing loss are still in the work force or in educational settings. Hearing loss can be caused by a number of factors, such as heredity or medical conditions related to extremely loud noises – power tools, loud music such as at rock concerts or normal age-related wear and tear. The chief symptom is an inability to hear sound that might be corrected with surgery or a hearing device. However, as we get older, we naturally become more susceptible to hearing loss because of changes to the delicate mechanics of our ears. Hearing loss can lead to dementia, and it is important to act now on prevention, thus improving living for all of us and the future of our civilization. Dr. Marencin says the average person waits about seven years before visiting an audiologist for testing. Why? No one wants to admit that hearing aids may play a large role in their life going forward. It is important to visit an audiologist for evaluation and see what steps are next. He also says that older citizens should have an annual hearing evaluation. An audiogram shows the quietest sounds you can just hear. A person loses higher pitch first. An audiologist must consider the lifestyle of the patient – how
active – how much social contact – before deciding on the best procedures to follow. Hearing aids are not inexpensive, and new levels of technology can range from basic to premium, depending on the patient’s needs and budget. The newest technology allows a person to connect his hearing aids to his phone and TV. Everything can be customized if price is not a consideration. Dr. Marencin spoke about cochlear implants, which require surgery. A person with severe hearing loss might consider this procedure, which replaces normal acoustic hearing process with electric hearing. Another less invasive option would be the Bone Anchored Hearing Surgery, which uses a surgically implanted abutment to transmit sound by direct conduction through bone to the inner ear. There are also non-surgical procedures. Today’s technology offers many choices to patients with increased battery life, wireless connectivity - TV, Smart Phone, Blue Tooth compatibility - and these are not limited to the most expensive hearing aids. We were reminded that the brain does the hearing for us and that many solutions are available to us to make our life more enjoyable and less complicated. Dr. Marencin ended the seminar by asking the audience for questions. His responses were well received and what we all learned that it is up to each one of us to take control of our health by visiting the medical world and asking what can be done to improve our lives. A physician can only help us achieve good health if we ask. Visiting an audiologist should be on our list for the New Year. Sonya Comstock
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