www.springmilldelaware.org Volume XVII Issue 5
A NEWSLETTER FOR THE SPRINGMILL COMMUNITY
May 2019
What is a Wetland? According to the EPA, wetlands are areas where water covers the soil, or is present either at or near the surface of the soil all year or for varying periods of time during the year, including during the growing season. Water saturation largely determines how the soil develops and the types of plant and animal communities living in and on the soil. Wetlands may support both aquatic and terrestrial species. The prolonged presence of water creates conditions that favor the growth of specially adapted plants and promotes the development of characteristic wetland soil.
Springmill Open Space Wetlands Enhancement Project 2008 – 2011 The focus of this project was to enhance what is known as the ‘Springmill Wetlands.’ From 2008 - 2011 Springmill’s project coordinator, John Pope, and the Property Committee Chairperson, Carl Rifino, along with several resident volunteers, committed over 900 hours of labor to this project. Their efforts contributed significantly to such things as environmental impacts to the Appoquinimink River watershed, removal and control of invasive plant life, pollution control, and the overall quality of the one-acre wetland. A cost and labor share arrangement was put in place with the New Castle County Conservation District to implement the initiative, which included guidance and technical assistance from the Appoquinimink River Association DNREC and the USDA Natural Resources Service. For their commitment and dedication to this Wetlands Enhancement Project, Springmill was awarded the Delaware Governor’s ‘Urban Conservation Award’ in April 2011 for excellence involving conservation activities in New Castle County. Today, our wetlands continue to be a valued part of our community and we are grateful to all the resident volunteers and our industrial weed control company for their support in maintaining a vital natural resource. We encourage all Springmill residents to be respectful of the accomplishments of those volunteers previously mentioned, and the established guidelines for the wetlands. Janet and Mark Herner
Photos by Jessie Crisfield
Update on Wind Power For Springmill In case you have not heard, that was an April Fool’s Joke. Gotcha!!
Memorial Day Celebrate Memorial Day with Friends and Neighbors May 27th at the Clubhouse See insert from CEC
Neighbors Helping Neighbors Doll Sewing Group – Carol Geiger Carolyn Rifino Family Emergency Numbers: Sunshine – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Pat Howe, JoAnn Stump Faith Altman Library - Julia Hambrecht, Nancy Shannon
2 Windmill Lane, Middletown, DE 19709 302-376-5466 Board of Directors Don Thompson - President Carolyn Bodden - Vice President Bob Collins - Secretary Carolyn Fausnaugh - Treasurer Jerry Steskal - Director Board Recording Secretary Tracey Lund - Community Manager: Tracey.lund@associa.us
Springmill Activities Bocce – Don Thompson Ann Lucas Book Clubs 1 – Debra Kupper 2 – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads 3 – Lydia Olson 4 – Mary Jo Starrett 5 – Joan Gross Bridge Thursday 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th Joan Gross Thursday 1st – mixed Marie Rigg Friday a.m. – Beginners & refreshers Marie Rigg Bunco 1 – Deb Kupper Bunco 2 – June Stemmle Coffee Hour (Saturday) – Pat Frail Cribbage – John Oppelt Dance Party – Bonnie Silva Dinner Group First Thursday Danese Collins Dominos – Jo Verni Golf – Joe Tomasetti (Men’s) Eileen Bogel (Women’s) Hand and Foot – Jo Verni Hand/Knee/Foot Mon. p.m./Tues. p.m. – Carolyn Bodden Horse Shoes – Rob Bishop Ladies Cards – Carolyn Rifino Mah jongg – Pat Wiedemann Meditation – Cynthia Frank Men’s Cards ”31” –
Committees Charity Committee: Pat Kolbay Clubhouse Committee: Joe Grippo Communications Committee: Tom Rigg Community Events (CEC): Peggy Andrews Finance Committee: Open Maintenance & Repair Committee: Georgieanna Anderson Property Committee: Julia Hambrecht Springmill Website: Stan Heer Welcome Committee Person: Joann Campbell Groups Fun With Neighbors: Riggs and Weinheimers Travel: Betty Freeman, Anne Lucas, June Stemmle Anyone wishing to join a Committee or Group should contact the Chairperson of that Committee. Note: All committees, groups and activities using the Clubhouse must coordinate dates and times with Tracey Lund. Calendar: Tracey Lund
Chairman of Communications Committee Tom Rigg Sentinel Editor - Joan Gross, Tom Rigg Treasurer - Sharonlynn Tassone Secretary - Sonya Comstock Design and Production - Joan Gross and Marie Rigg Business Manager - Dick Rausch Advertising - Carol Geiger, Janet Herner, Jerry Ryan, Pat Steskal Editorial - Sonya Comstock, Carol Geiger, Dick Rausch, Lee Rosenson, Jerry Ryan, June Stemmle, Harry Weinheimer, Helen Weinheimer Calendar - Joe Grippo, Julie Hambrecht, Tracey Lund Distribution - Diane Morton and the distribution team
Len Brussee Men’s Hearts – Len Brussee Men’s Poker – Tom Ferrara Men's Pool – Larry Daigle Music Appreciation Club – Roy Peters Pickleball - Jane Kimmins Ladies Lunch/Red Hats Classie Lassies – Dolores Bille Crimson Belles – Mary Elizabeth Rhoads Happy Hatters – Kathy Kobus Old Bats in the Red Hats Peg McMullen Scarlett O’Hattas – Phyllis Torgersen Night n’Gals – Ann Raymond Red H’attitudes – Peggy Andrews Lunch Bunch Jean Sweeney Romeos – Art Lamb Rummikub – Tues. – Carolyn Rifino Thurs. – Jo Verni Fri. – Tiny Farquhar Senior Exercise – Geri Abel Social Singles – Bridget McGrath/ Kathy Cioffi Tennis – (Men’s/Women’s) Jerry Ryan Texas Holdem – Stan Heer Water Aerobics – Ann Raymond/ Sandy Corrozzi Yoga – June Stemmle
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Notes From Your Board
Board Motions Work Session 3/25/19
Greetings Springmillers, Spring is here at last....I think daffodils are my favorite flower as they herald winter is done and here comes spring.
Joe Grippo presented the Security Plus proposal for an automatic front door opener to the BOD for their review and approval. C Bodden made a motion to accept the Security Plus proposal to install an automatic front door opener. 2nd: B Collins. Motion approved (4-0).
The Springmill Web site is still active. To receive current updates on occurrences (snow removal, mowing, etc.) please take a moment to register your e-mail address with the web site. Need help or any questions, call Stan Heer for assistance in registering. Even I managed to do it. A note from Stan Herr is that the newly updated version of the Springmill governing documents are now on line.
Joe discussed his Berry HVAC contract proposal for the BOD to review and sign. BOD discussion followed on terms and a/c unit descriptions. D Thompson made a motion for the BOD to accept and approve the Berry HVAC contract with the one provision that the page listing a/c unit information be corrected to reflect the exact a/c make and model information of units at Springmill. Motion 2nd: C Bodden. Motion approved. (4-0)
A reminder from Tracey Lund, Property Manager, that Associa offers E-Statements that take the place of regular US post office mailed statements. This statement comes immediately and eliminates worry over slow mail delivery, Contact Tracey in the management office to sign on for this free service.
Joe addressed the proposed Allegiant Fire Protection contract. D Thompson made a motion to accept and approve the proposed fire protection contract with Allegiant. Motion 2nd by C Bodden. BOD discussion followed. Motion approved (4-0).
Recently with the help of Kathy Christie, Tom Rigg, and Stan Heer a thorough research is being made to explore new, technical methods for communication with some residents who suffer from a profound or slight hearing loss. Thanks to Kathy for the many, many hours spent experimenting with various devices. We hope to be up and ready to go forward with an enhanced auditory or communication apps.system.
The BOD discussed roof algae and mold. D Thompson made a motion to suspend inspection for roof algae and mold removal. Motion 2nd: J Steskal. BOD discussion followed. Motion approved 5-0. MRC Variance approval for double-hung porch windows. C Bodden made a motion to approve the MRC’s recommendation to approve. Motion 2nd: B Collins. Motion approved (5-0).
Carolyn Bodden, BOD Vice-President Sentinel Table of Contents Wetlands.….…….……………………..…..……..…..… Page 1 Notes From Your Board, Board Motions, Message From Your Property Manager………. Page 3 Committee, Group and Activity Reports Clubhouse, Dance, First Thursday Dinner Group, Music Appreciation………… Page 5 Charity, Coffee, Travel, Romeos, CEC .….…… Page 7 Website, Communications, Fun With Neighbors…………………………… Page 9 Property, …………………………………....…… Page 11 Springmill Contributes………………………………. Page 11 Travel Log………………..…………………….……….. Page 13 Preplanning a Funeral May Trivia, Beware of Hornets………………………………. Page 15 Mother’s Day, Coffee, Board Meeting, Page 16 Horseshoe Pits, South American Cruise, Spring………………………………………………. Page 17 MOT Senior Center……………………………………. Page 19 Travel Log (cont’d.)……….…………………………… Page 21 Middletown News, New Business, Page Precision Cuts……………………..….….. Page 23 Nurses Week, Welcome, Meet Your New Neighbor, ……..…….………… Page 25 Book Review, Book Clubs, Correction - Y Dues… Page 27 New York City - Hudson Yards, Thank You……… Page 29 Sports Roundup…………….…………………………. Page 31
A Message from Your Property Manager Associa Mid-Atlantic Management Now Offers E-Statements If you don’t wish to wait for the regular US Mail to receive your monthly statement, please consider signing up for E-Statements, which will be e-mailed to you. Please visit https://mamc.opt-e-mail.com and enter your account information, as prompted. Please note, if you opt for e-statements, you will no longer receive paper statements. WOW!! How easy was that?!!
Calendar Table of Contents Cultural Events, Our Daily Bread BBQ, TriState Bird Rescue…………………………….. Appo Library, Springmill Library………..……..
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports First Thursday Dinner Group
Clubhouse Committee
It is that time again – time to think about our May Newbies / First Thursday Dinners / Early Bird Dinners / Y’all Come Dinners – time together. Our hostess & host this month are Marie and Tom Rigg, and they have selected the Wellwood Restaurant, 523 Water St., Charlestown MD.
The Clubhouse Committee met on Thursday, April 11th at 10 a.m. Bob Collins was our Board Liaison. We spent the majority of our meeting on the opening of the pool. Chuck Ruh mentioned that the pool will be uncovered the week of May 13th. However, the pool will not be open to the residents till Memorial Day which will give the chemicals enough time to clean the pool.
The Wellwood, according to The News Journal, will be well worth the 40-minute drive. Located on the water, a nice after-dinner or before-dinner stroll may be something one might want to keep in mind. In addition to the stroll, we are promised a historic restaurant, with dining rooms featuring antique tables and lamps that have been donated to the Wellwood. Along with those, a bust of George Washington, a lithograph of Abraham Lincoln and a hand-carved eagle donated by President Theodore Roosevelt have homes there.
On May 15th, we will be setting up the pool furniture at 10 a.m. We could use some volunteers that Wednesday. The Committee is asking that all read the Pool Guidelines. There is a copy in the May Sentinel, a copy on the Website, a copy on the Bulletin Board and two aluminum signs in the pool area. Please pay special attention to grandchildren in the guidelines.
If you have never dined with us, May 2, at 4:30 may be the time to give us a try. No matter what table you end up at, you are guaranteed a fun and lively conversation and lots of laughs. I’ve never left not feeling uplifted and I have never sat with the same folks more than two times. Usually, I meet at least one There will also be a sign up sheet on the Bulletin Board for individual I have never met before. Just make sure you RSVP cleaning the pool area. With two or three volunteers working to mariesrigg@gmail.com or call their number listed in our together to clean and straighten up the tables and chairs and directory. RSVPs should be provided by Tuesday, April 30. blowing leaves away from the pool area, it should not take more Here is looking forward to a wonderful evening with a great than fifteen or twenty minutes per day. Please volunteer. turn out.. Thanks again to all the past volunteers. Peace, Danese Collins Joe Grippo
Music Appreciation
Dance Group COMING SOON! The Dance Group will again be sponsoring a dance and barbecue on the veranda of the clubhouse on Saturday evening, June 8th beginning at 6 p.m. MARK your calendars and be sure to complete the sign-up form that’s included in this month’s Sentinel. We will be providing hot dogs and burgers (even turkey burgers!) plus all the fixin’s, watermelon, ice and water. This year’s price will be $7 per person. You need to bring a side dish (serving 6-8) to share. BYOB. No glass containers are permitted outside near the pool. Last year’s event was well-received, so we decided to do it again. Music will be played outside and in the clubhouse. The event will be held inside if it rains, but we’ll be expecting clear skies and lots of happy dancers. We hope for another great turn out. Turn in your forms ASAP to Bill and Eileen Bogel. The deadline for responding is May 30th. We hope to see you at the “Veranda Barbecue and Dance” for an evening of fun and friendship. Anne and Sam Merrick, Sandy Maguire and Tony Silva, and Bill and Eileen Bogel enjoying last June’s dance and barbecue.
Showcases Victor Borge The May Music Appreciation will be held on Tuesday May 14 at 2 P.M. in the Clubhouse Great Room. It will feature a video performance by Victor Borge. Born in Copenhagen, Borge Rosenbaum was Jewish. His father was a violist in the Royal Danish Orchestra and his mother was a pianist. Borge began piano lessons at age two and it was soon apparent that he was a prodigy. He played his first major concert at age 17, and studied at the Royal Danish Academy of Music. He was an accomplished pianist, but he also had a flair for comedy and satire and toured extensively throughout Europe, first as a classical pianist, then as a pianist who told anti-Nazi jokes. When German armed forces occupied Denmark on April 9, 1940, Borge was playing a concert in Sweden. He managed to escape to Finland, and caught the last neutral ship to make it out of that country. Borge arrived in the United States in August, 1940. He spoke no English, learning the language by watching movies. The rest, as they say, is history. Come join us at 2:00 p.m in the Great Room for a 1 1/2-hour video performance of the great pianist/funny man. Who knows, the Great Dane might even play a number all the way through. Roy Peters
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Community Events
Charity Committee
“KENTUCKY DERBY” Saturday May 4, 2019 We will have our own Churchill Downs in the Clubhouse. Watch the derby, enjoy the appetizers sip on Mint Juleps (non-alcoholic) followed by dinner of pulled pork, pulled turkey, potato salad, macaroni salad, baked beans, coleslaw, Italian pasta salad, and dessert. Derby Divas hat contest. Then the SPRINGMILL PONY RACES with our own Springmill Jockeys. FUN! FUN! FUN!
MOT Senior Center was very appreciative of the many bags of groceries donated to them April 1st . Their pantry shelves were generously filled by 60 Springmill households! Well done, Springmill volunteers and donors! On Monday May 6th, at 8:30 AM, we will be collecting goods for Neighborhood House. Their needs this month are all grocery items and especially shelf milk, cereal, deodorant and shampoo. “Springmill Contributes” is an Informative set of articles appearing in the Sentinel with a brief, inside look at the organizations Springmill donates to through the Charity Committee. This month is Neighborhood House. See page 15. If you are interested in the volunteer grandparent program sponsored by MOT Senior Center and the Appo Early Childhood Pre-School Center, reported in the April Sentinel, please leave your name with Meg Myers at 302 378 4758 or senioroutlookmot@outlook.com. She will then notify you of an upcoming information meeting on the program. There will also be a notice in the May M.O.T. Newsletter. Thank you for all you give.
Pat Kolbay
“MEMORIAL DAY” Monday, May 27, 2019 Come join us for our Annual Memorial Day Get-Together as we recognize all who have served this great country. If you have served, please bring a photo of yourself in uniform or a military item we can display on our memorabilia table. We will be serving appetizers, fried chicken (3 pcs.), potato salad, coleslaw, cornbread and a yummy dessert. BYOB! We will be selling 50/50 tickets, the CEC ‘s half will be donated to “Flags For Heroes” in honor of our Springmill Veterans. The flags will be waving the week before and after Memorial Day and again the week of Veterans Day. This is always a wellattended event. Get your RSVP in on time. Flyer in Sentinel. “THE SENSATIONS” Saturday June 15, 2019. Back by Popular Demand! Performing music of the 50’s 60’s and 80’s for your listening and dancing pleasure. Sing-along with the music we know so well, enjoy the banter of Vic & Mick for a very entertaining evening. BYOB drinks and snacks. Flyer in Sentinel.
Travel HAMILTON COMING TO PHILLY!!! The Travel Group managed to snag just 40 tickets for this once-in-a-decade show. Sign up is MAY 3. Look for the informational flyer in the Sentinel. Don’t let this be a “woulda, shoulda” moment.
UPCOMING EVENTS “JULY FOURTH CELEBRATION” July 4, 2019 “CARD & GAME PARTY July 17, 2019
If you have REALLY wanted to see the show this is your opportunity. Join us for “Hamilton” and dinner… transportation is, of course, included. And since it’s in Philly, we won’t be paying the astronomical Broadway prices.
“BINGO” August 2, 2019 Cynthia Frank has resigned from the CEC. She was a long-time member and will be missed. The CEC welcomes our new member Michaelene Whelton. Welcome, Michaelene, we know you will enjoy joining the CEC
Betty Freeman, June Stemmle, Anne Lucas.
ROMEOS
We meet at a different restaurant for lunch on the third Thanks to Charlotte Smith for conducting the April meeting Thursday of every month. This is a group of men who in my absence and Bob Collins our Board Liaison get together to share food and conversation. The CEC meets the first Wednesday of the month at 9:30 a.m. in the craft room. Our next meeting will be May 1, 2019 All are welcome to attend. Contact Art Lamb to be put on the e-mail list.
Peggy Andrews
Saturday Coffee Hour The Saturday Coffee Hour will be the second Saturday, May 11 from 10 A.M. to noon at the clubhouse. Bring your own coffee, a snack for yourself and enjoy the fellowship with your fellow Springmillers. There won't be a coffee hour the 4th Saturday (May 25) as that is Memorial Day weekend. Phyllis Burris/Pat Frail 7
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Website
Communications Committee
www.springmilldelaware.org
The Communications Committee held its monthly meeting, Monday, April 9, 2019 in the Clubhouse.
I am currently researching a tool that has been available to Web Site managers for some time. It is called Google Analytics. As I write this, I only have several days of data, but already it is providing some interesting insight. For example, I can see that about 2 out of 10 visitors get to our web site via a Search Engine ( Google, Bing, and such). We can assume that most of these visitors are from outside the community, so in the future we will be discussing how to add more content for public access.
Our Board liaison was Don Thompson. We welcomed two guests - Cynthia Frank and Anita Viets Minutes of the previous meeting, held on March 11, 2019, were approved. Sharonlynn Tassone, Treasurer, gave the Treasurer’s Report for March 2019. Dick Rausch, Business Manager, reported that we currently have 42 advertisers in the Sentinel. There are renewals needed.
One new feature that I think would be very worthwhile for non-residents is a page showing the homes that are for sale in the community. If you have any thoughts about this, pro or con, please share them with our Task Force by using the Springmill Message Board on our web site. Click “Website Feedback”, then click on the Topic “Homes for Sale?” Click on “Add Reply” in any message to add your comment to the bottom of the message list.
Joan Gross, Co-Editor, reviewed the Editorial plan for the May Sentinel. We sponsored a seminar, presented by Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, on April 11. They recently had a ribbon cutting ceremony for their new funeral home located on Main St. in Middletown. See article on page 15.
Regarding the Message Board, I want to remind residents that it is not necessary to login to the website in order to see if someone has posted a new message; instead just ask the website to send you an email when someone posts something new. You do this by “subscribing” to the “categories” you are interested in. Here is how: On the Springmill Message Board, above and to the right of the list of “Categories”, click on “My Subscriptions”. In the new page that opens, I recommend that you click ”Select All”, but you may check individual categories if you prefer. In either case, be sure to click “Submit” to save your changes. One caveat; if you chose “Select All” and a new Category is created later, you will have to visit here again and check the box for the new Category.
As an important follow-up to the seminar presented by Spicer- Mullikin the Communications Committee sponsored an Elder Law seminar presented by Kathleen DeLacy, an elder law attorney, on April 24. See article on page 16. The Communications Committee has decided not to sponsor any seminars during the summer months. The next one will be in September. Some of the future seminars we are considering are a follow up on the Dove’s Nest Pollinator Site, fall prevention, recycling, a visit from our Mayor. If you have any suggestions, please send them to me for our review. We discussed the new, expanded and improved Springmill Annual Handbook and Directory for 2020. It will include not only the Directory but also a handbook of the various committees, groups, sports and activities in Springmill. It should serve as a handy reference for all residents, particularly our new residents. It will have contact information for each of the groups, meeting times and places and a description of what they do. Where appropriate, the rules of the game will be summarized.
Our May meeting is on May 14 at 10 AM in the Great Room. Any one is welcome to come. Stan Heer
Fun With Neighbors Charades brought about 20 people and lots of laughter. Herb Frank should have gotten an award for his little charade dance. Another award should have gone to Shawn Lynch. He knew the answers before the charade was played out!! Whenever you come to Trivia or Charades, I suggest you try to sit with either Shawn or Tex Morton (another good contestant!!) Come on out and join us next time.
Our next meeting is Monday, May 13 (second Monday of the month) at 10 a.m. in the Clubhouse. Come and join us if you would like to be part of the Communications Committee. Tom Rigg
There will be no Game Nite in May because of the CEC’s Kentucky Derby. Come to the Kentucky Derby and play the ponies with the CEC. Our pizza social will be May 17. Come at 4 with your own beverage, a snack or dessert to share, a smile, and, of course, money for the pizza!! Our next game night will be Friday June 1. Mark your calendar now for a very special evening presented by your neighbors!! More information to follow. See you then!
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Committee, Group and Activity Reports (cont.) Property The Property Committee met Monday, April 15, 2019 . Carolyn Bodden is our BOD liaison. The March minutes were approved and are in the Property notebook in the library. The mulching was completed in the beds and around the street trees. The responses from the community were favorable. A couple of glitches, but this was the first time Page was doing this work and everything was taken care of. Some selective common-area trees were also done. Again we ask that residents do not speak to the contractors about doing personal work while they are working. If you wish to have additional work done call Tracey and she will give you the phone number. Carl Rifino is working with Davey Tree and you may have seen their trucks in the neighborhood. Pruning of holly trees among others and fertilization of trees in the common areas have been completed. As the year goes on you will be seeing Davey out and about with Carl. The goal is to protect the trees that we currently have in the common area from disease and to keep them healthy. By the time you read this Tracey and the Property Committee will have done the community walk through for any possible violations. We are hopeful there are none. We will be looking at all common area trees to determine which are dead or dying so that a list can be made to have
them all removed at the same time. Carl Rifino has walked the common areas many times and has started making the list. If you see a tree in the common area and aren't sure of its state, give Carl a call and he will check. We would like to get this part of the project done by June if possible. This will help the appearance of the community. Replacement of trees will be discussed in the coming months for fall planting. This includes all tree stumps that may have been missed in the past. As the nice weather approaches, it is time to think about landscaping. We suggest that you look around your yard and if you have any dead or dying plants or shrubs, they should be removed. Also take a look at your lawn and if you are interested in having any additional work to revitalize it call Tracey and she will give you information on contacting landscapers. Although our houses sell quickly, it is still important to have all our landscaping kept up to the standards of how it looked when we moved in many years ago. If changing your bed landscaping, remember to fill out a landscaping request form available outside Tracey's office. Several residents are removing the old overgrown shrubs for small and easy to care for plants. Take a ride around the community and see some of the newer landscapes and perhaps it will help you decide if you want to change yours. Again if you are not registered on the website we encourage you to do so since a lot of information is provided. Our next meeting is Mon., May 13 at 6:30 in the Craft Room. Julia Hambrecht
Springmill Contributes Neighborhood House is a faith based, non-profit community center. Its mission is to provide programs that educate, enlighten and empower people to improve their lives. In a caring, friendly, structured and safe environment their services for children include an Early Learning Center, After School Homework Help, Extended Hours Programs and Summer Enrichment Camp. At the Center children have access to computers and safe socialization. The Family Services program first helps families and individuals to meet their basic needs of food, heat and electricity in a crisis situation, while, second, helping them to become more stable in the future.Comprehensive housing counseling includes credit building, first-time homebuyer’s support and foreclosure prevention and rental assistance.
The Neighborhood Empowerment Center, their newest service, facilitates workforce development programs, credit building workshops and computer skills classes. Neighborhood House is working to make our community stronger and more vital by guiding people to find their own paths of awareness, self-sufficiency, hopefulness and success. The Charity Committee donates to Neighborhood House in several ways. Six times a year Springmill generously helps to fill their pantry with grocery items for those in need. In July, with your donations, we will buy 50 bookbags and fill them with all the items the school list requires. In the fall, your donations will provide wrapped gifts from the wish list of individuals and families for the Holidays. Marilyn Hendershot is the Middletown Coordinator of Neighborhood House, located at 219 W. Green Street, Middletown. Give someone a fish, it is food for a day. Teach them to fish, it is food for a lifetime! Pat Kolbay
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to play classical music several times each day and there was a separate band that accompanied the evening entertainers.
Hola! Harry and I recently embarked on a 21-day cruise around the tip of South America, starting in Lima, Peru, sailing down the Chilean coast, around Cape Horn, past the Falkland Islands, Uruguay, and winding up in Buenos Aires, Argentina, from where we flew home. We sailed on the M/S Sirena, part of Oceania Cruise Line, with 684 of our newest friends from around the world. The Sirena has Harry and Helen recently been completely refurbished, stopping at the Rio Simpson Reserve in the and it is classy! Chilean Andes What’s not to enjoy? There is a Mountains for bird casino, an auditorium, several lounge watching and to admire areas, 24-hour room service and 6 the waterfalls. restaurants (more on that later). Fantastic food, featuring lots of seafood and desserts (my major weakness). Our cabin was small, but cozy. I had trouble turning around in our bath, though…it was that tiny. Our strategy was to spend little time in our stateroom as we had the entire ship as our playground.
What do we do when we have a full day at sea? Read, eat, talk with fellow passengers, listen to the classical string quartet, crochet, shop at the grossly overpriced boutiques, eat some more. Some passengers patronized the hair salon or had massages. Some gambled at the casino. On most nights, there was entertainment in the lounge. There were needlepoint sessions, bridge lessons, dance classes, and, of course, an expansive library (everyone walked around with book in hand). Then we ate some more. The highlight of one day was when someone spotted dolphins on the starboard side and everyone ran to see. I swear the ship nearly tilted. I found it very hard to live life so leisurely and it took me a full week to slow down and enjoy. The temperature got colder as we sailed south and the seas got rougher. “Barf bags” were discreetly placed around the ship. We held on to railings when the seas got rough, and servers in the dining rooms carried our plates to our table and offered supportive elbows. I had occasional nausea. Although I had trans-dermal patches with me, I hesitated using them for fear of not having any left if seas got really rough. Harry was not bothered at all by the rolling motion of the ship. Lucky guy!
The food onboard was superb. I mentioned the six dining rooms, from an informal poolside café for hamburgers and ice cream, to a Victorian dining room with white-glove service. There were two specialty dining rooms, The Tuscan Steak House and Red Ginger Asian cuisine that required advance reservations. And we could have room service on a whim any time of day. We ate sea bass and the most tender lamb chops; we enjoyed regional specialties such as Patagonian King Crab Pie to Carbonada Criolla (spicy beef stew). Every menu offered fruit salad and incredible pastries. I would like to know where the chief pastry chef studied and then enroll there myself. On two of our days at sea, there were cooking demonstrations, complete with folders of recipes that were given away so we could replicate some of the specialty dishes when we got home. And, on several nights, there were cocktail parties with open bar and hors d’oeuvres. Normally, a glass of wine was about $12 with dinner, so we limited our imbibing.
Entertainment is a big part of a 21-day cruise. We enjoyed a dancer, a tango-dancing couple, a Liberaceimitator, a slightly off-color comedian, a musical review by members of the crew, a musician who played different instruments with an ad-hoc band, a recent movie and more. Our ship docked in Santiago, Chile, so we could see the stunning architecture and natural beauty. We crossed the central valley and the dramatic Andes Mountains. Other tours offered a Chilean rodeo, a visit to Valparaiso and lunch at a winery. Chilean wines are well-respected. There were many incredible optional excursions. We could kayak the Straits of Magellan, ride the Tierra Del Fuego Southern Railway through a national park, horseback ride in Ushuaia, Argentina, and enjoy the natural beauty. One day, we made port in Puerto Chacabuco, in southern Chile. We took a motor coach through the Simpson Valley to Coyhaique, a town known for outdoor adventures such as fly fishing in the local rivers. Across from the Coyhaique town square, surrounding a modest church, were Monkey Puzzle Trees! The natives call them pinonero and it is the national tree of Chile. Who knew our Springmill Monkey Puzzle Tree was known so well in other parts of the world? People on the cruise from Oregon told us the tree is common there, too. Its conservation status is “endangered,” so our tree at Springmill is helping this species survive.
Most of the sailing between destinations took place overnight. We moved down the Peruvian coast to Pisco, known for the Nazca Lines. These are more than 300 prehistoric figurative drawings carved into the desert floor. The best way to see them is from above by plane, an adventure that is both thrilling and terrifying. No one knows the intent of the carvings, whether religious or spiritual, or just aesthetic, but the effect is awe-inspiring. Pisco is also home to the Pisco Sour, a strong alcoholic drink similar to a whiskey sour, but much more delicious. One drink has drastic consequences. I can attest to that.
One of Patagonia’s most striking features is its incredible glaciers, which ultimately end up tumbling into the ocean to melt away. Glaciers are formed when snow gathers, gradually becoming heavier and heavier, and compressing. In most parts of the world, glaciers are shrinking; in Patagonia, they are temporarily still growing and expanding. We spent two days sailing Glacier Alley, a navigable channel
Sometimes the distances between sites are such that it takes a whole day of sailing. There are several of these days when the ship doesn’t dock and we have to entertain ourselves. There was a string quartet that popped up around the ship
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Seminar Report - Preplanning a Funeral Cemetery fees are different from funeral home fees, and would be charged separately. These could include purchase of a burial plot and opening and closing the grave. Clergy costs are also separate.
Life is a journey and, at some point, the journey reaches an end. Life is finite. What happens then can be planned in advance to make a difficult time more bearable for all surviving relatives and friends. What do you envision being done when you pass away? Do you want a small, intimate religious service in a house of worship? Or a New Orleansstyle party with parade? Better plan ahead and put your wishes on paper so that there are no misunderstandings. This advice was recently shared by two representatives from Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, Thomasanne Diver, a preplanner, and Mary Etta Russum, a funeral director. They presented information at a Communications Committee seminar about planning your funeral. They shared information that we need to know. There are several common funeral models today. Many funerals are two-day events, where a viewing takes place one evening and then, on the second day, there is another visitation and service. This can also be consolidated to one day, a viewing followed by a meaningful service. There can be a graveside service or there can be a cremation. In some cases, there can be a private funeral (or cremation) followed by a memorial service at some later time.
If the deceased is a veteran, the nearby Delaware Veteran’s Cemetery is available. Approval is necessary prior to death by submitting an appropriate form (DD214). Spouses of veterans may also qualify for burial next to their loved ones in a veterans’ cemetery. Members of the appropriate branch of the military will attend a funeral to salute the deceased. Medicaid assistance with funeral expenses is available if the deceased’s remaining assets are less than $2,000. In some cases, assets can be “spent down” so individuals qualify for this government aid. Pre-paying for a funeral might be one such way. Cultural and religious customs are strictly observed by funeral homes. Deceased individuals can be transported to other areas for a variety of services and/or burial. But the pre-planning is very important to make sure your wishes are recorded and followed. There is no time like the present to make arrangements! Helen Weinheimer See photos on page 16
“Green” burials are gaining popularity, where no preservatives are used and the casket is biodegradable. For this type of funeral, the deceased is dressed in a plain shroud rather than formalwear in an open casket. By pre-planning, you communicate with family members so that what you want is observed. No matter what type of funeral is planned, there is a fee for each service in addition to a comprehensive basic-services fee. This fee covers professional staff, use of facilities, general overhead, etc. The funeral home also provides death certificates.
Editor’s Note This Seminar was not intended to be an endorsement of Spicer and Mullikin by the Communications Committee or the Springmill Board of Directors. We look forward to another seminar in the future presented by Daniels and Hutchinson. Tom Rigg
May Trivia The birthstone for May is the emerald which represents success or love. The zodiac signs for May are Taurus (Bull)(April 20 - May 20) and Gemini (Twins) (May 21 - June 20) The birth flower for May is the Lily of the Valley. On May 1, 1931, the Empire State Building was officially opened. The month May was named for Maia, the Greek goddess of fertility. In any given year, no month ever begins or ends on the same day of the week as May does. May was once considered a bad luck month to get married. There is a poem that says "Marry in May, you’ll rue the day The international distress signal, "mayday," has nothing to do with the first of May. It derives from the French venez m'aider, meaning "come help me." Compiled by Marie Rigg
Beware – Hornets in Mailboxes Not exactly what you expect to find in your mailbox and definitely not welcomed either. By adding some moth balls toward the back, hornets will not visit your mailbox. These can be purchased at the Dollar Store (4 oz bag - $1) and will probably last the season. Save your mail carrier and yourself the possibility of being stung by adding a few balls. Sonya Comstock 15
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A Visit with Kathleen DeLacy, Esq. Estate Planning & Elder Law Kathleen DeLacy welcomed a full house of eager listeners who want to be sure their estate is handled the best way possible for their heirs. She spoke about writing your own will, stating this sometimes can be very costly to the heirs. Having a will properly done by an attorney puts everything in order and helps the heirs with the settlement of the estate. Trusting others to respect your wishes, if not in writing, is a dangerous path to take. Laws change over the years, and an old will or trust should be carefully reviewed again just to be on the safe side. Having lived in one state for many years and then moving to Delaware means having your will checked by a Delaware attorney. Every state is different. The excuse of not being wealthy and leaving much to heirs is not a reason to avoid having a will prepared by an attorney. DeLacy mentioned the benefits of a Revocable Trust which avoids probate and costs less than 2% of your estate. It controls your funds even after death. A revocable trust can be amended during a person’s lifetime. It can also establish one or more trusts to carry on after the person’s death. It can be structured to minimize Federal and State Estate Taxes, but while it avoids probate, it does not avoid or eliminate Federal or State Estate Taxes. However, revocable trusts typically cost significantly more than does a will. DeLacy spoke about the benefits of a Durable Power of Attorney. It also lists a specific person to make decisions for you rather than a court. It also avoids the necessity of a guardianship. There should be a great deal of consideration given in creating a comprehensive power of attorney. Who will serve as the agent is also important. As people age, their needs change and their power of attorney should reflect that. Allowing an agent to administer such tasks as long-term care, applying for government benefits to pay for care and providing the proper care providers saves time and money for all. DeLacy spoke about updating your will as you age making necessary changes as to heirs. A Living Will is another important document that sets forth your preference for treatment in the event of your inability to direct care. How you want to end your life and stop taking medications and treatment needs to be put into a legal document. Brought to our attention was that a person who has served in a war on active duty can qualify for health benefits perhaps eliminating the need to use Medicaid. The war had to be a declared war. Many questions were asked by the audience and answered. DeLacy asked those who had other questions to contact her at her office. There is no charge for answering these questions. She also makes it easier for all of us at Springmill by coming to our homes and inspecting the legal documents we now own. Having been an Elder Attorney for many years, she is knowledgeable in what we seniors need to know and should have in our possession. She reminded all of us not to leave everything to chance and to have everything in place before we pass on. She can be reached at 302-477-7100. The audience thanked Kathleen for speaking to us and answering so many questions.
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March Board Meeting
Chilean fjords, from different sides of the ship with different light reflections
Photos by Helen Weinheimer
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Photos by Joan Gross
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Monkey Puzzle Tree in front of the town church in Coyhaique, Chile.
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For many seniors 50 and older, the M.O.T. Senior Center offers a wonderful place to go for socialization, activities and moderately-priced luncheons. The Center has two buses, seating 16 passengers, which are offered at a modest fee of $3.50 one way. For seniors living alone and unable to drive, having bus service to and from the Center is crucial to their lives. What else does the Senior Center offer? Over the years there has been a strong increase in membership and many new programs. The afternoon receptionists are all volunteers. Very popular with seniors are the Exercise Programs offered four days a week. Tai Chi is offered twice a week with a low fee of $2 per session. For newcomers to the program, the first session is free. Line Dancing is another popular recreation offered to beginners and advanced dancers. Both classes are free and well attended. Cecilia Rozumalski, Ex. Dir., continues to provide services and entertainment for seniors. She and her staff work tirelessly to make sure all MOT seniors have an opportunity to live life to the fullest by providing a multitude of services and recreation activities. For many seniors, their main meal of the day is the daily luncheon at the Center. The cost is $2.25 for members 60 years or older. Under the age of 60, the cost is $5.25. A notice of 48 hrs. Is required to attend by calling 378-4758. Need a ride to and from a doctor’s office – call the Center to reserve a ride on the bus. For the MOT area, a fee of $8.00 is charged. Outside the area, the cost is $17. An Early Memory Loss program has been well received by seniors. The cost is $20 per session. For those seniors interested in saving on car insurance – sign up for the four-hour Defensive Driving class that the AARP offers for a low fee of $15 for members. Attending this class and forwarding your certificate to your insurance company reduces your annual insurance cost. Reservations are necessary to attend the class. Fun and fund raising activities for all include the annual Peach Festival. Appreciation is extended to all the volunteers who participate to make this event so successful. Over 800 peach pies are baked and sold requiring many volunteers to help with pie making. Enjoy the senior ladies who present a dance routine on the Square every year to the delight of spectators. They are volunteers from the Center who practice many hours before performing. All deserve recognition and applause for their effort.
Want to know more about the latest news and development in Middletown? Attend the annual Mayor and Town Council Picnic offered free to seniors. Date is Friday, May 10 – 11-1 p.m. Call ahead for reservations. Enjoy visiting the Candlelight Theater but hesitate because of the driving. Just make a reservation at the Center and ride on the bus. The Rainbow Theater is also another worthwhile day out without the hassle of driving. Tickets - $60 pp includes transportation. Seniors no longer have to forgo vacations to foreign lands. Meet other seniors enjoying these trips, and this year a trip to Cuba has been added. Transportation to and from the airport is included with your ticket. The Senior Center has lost $55,000 in state grant-in-aid funding. How to make up that loss meant increasing annual membership fees by $5 and running more fund-raisers. Membership fee - $20 pp. and receive the monthly newsletter which lists all the activities and programs available. The annual loss means Senior Centers must find innovative ways to provide many services to needy seniors. For many older folks, the Senior Center keeps them in the spirit of life allowing them to make new friends and enjoy many activities at a modest cost or sometimes at no cost of all. The building has been modernized courtesy of the late Tony Kobus (a former Springmill resident) who served on the Board of Directors from 2003-2007 and was instrumental in the planning and construction. The large reception a, which can be divided, is available for rental. The Center celebrated its 50th anniversary in 2017. It’s your place to go when you want to leave Springmill for a day or many days, meet and make new friends and enjoy life as it was meant to be for those of us in our golden age. One phone call – 378-4758 – could change your life for the better in many ways. Have time on your hands – volunteer at the Center. Sonya Comstock
Editor’s Note Many residents from Springmill participate in events at the Senior Center. Travel, bridge, Mahjongg, and Tai Chi are some of those events. Our Charity Committee also contributes food for MOT as well as the holiday gift for seniors program. Tom Rigg
The Winter Festival held just before Thanksgiving Weekend is another fund raising event offering a variety of gifts for the holidays. Again, volunteers step in to make this event successful. 19
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South American Cruise continued from page 14) between splendid coastlines, and watching the glaciers glide by. This area is home to varied wildlife, including dolphins, sea lions and a wide array of seabirds. While there are still glaciers, they should be on everyone’s bucket list. On most afternoons, we got back to the ship in time for afternoon high tea at 4 p.m. This was served in the Horizon Lounge on the 10th deck. Imagine sitting in a chic lounge with its panoramic views of the harbor or seascape. The string quartet is playing Grieg or Mozart, we’re sipping herbal tea and nibbling tea sandwiches and fruit tarts. High tea was followed by happy hour, and then dinner. What more does life need? We were not able to sail around Cape Horn, the southern-most point of South America, because there were two threatening storms. Our captain carefully steered the ship through the Straits of Magellan from the southern Pacific to the South Atlantic, avoiding the danger. As disappointed as we were, we appreciated the captain’s concerns (and the fact that my queasiness was limited). Our first stop in the Atlantic was the Falkland Islands, or the Malvinas as the Argentinians call them. Both England and Argentina lay claim to the collection of small islands in the middle of nowhere. These relatively barren rocks are home to 3,000 people, 30,000 sheep, and many thousands of smelly, noisy penguins. But the penguins are cute and are a big tourist draw. The human population looks stark, strong and determined, the way you imagine pioneers lived, and tourism is a growing industry. When cruise ships dock, the human population can double. Our tour took us past peat bogs (a fuel some still burn for heat) and ship skeletons from ancient wrecks. We left with a good feel for a pioneer population that seemed sheltered from modern life. In Punta del Este, Uruguay, we walked along the beach past homes that could rival Beverly Hills. It is known as the “St. Tropez of South America.” Museums, designer shops and luxury restaurants seem the ultimate indulgences. In Montevideo, Uruguay, we visited two synagogues, one Sephardic (Mediterranean and Near Eastern) and one Ashkenazic (European). Historically, Montevideo has been a haven for Jews since the 15th century. There is a Holocaust memorial along the beach, made the more dramatic by its ocean backdrop. And in Buenos Aires, we visited Evita Peron’s grave and learned of her life and influence. She is still a legend in Argentina. The craft markets and historic pedestrian walkways attest to Argentina’s tourist attractiveness. Cruising is the ultimate indulgence in travel. My only complaint about this vacation was its length…23 days (including flights) is a long time to be away from home. South America is becoming a major attraction in travel, and has not yet been over-commercialized. We heartily recommend such a vacation with all the historical and natural attractions and the pleasures of cruising. Have fun! Life is to enjoy now!
Helen Weinheimer
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Our new landscaping company, Page Landscaping, is already preparing our community for the spring and summer season. Zack Page, owner, began with small projects in Springmill about three years ago before becoming our primary landscaping company. He had his beginning in the landscaping business, which started about thirteen years ago, while working for a property management company. He soon realized he enjoyed this type of work and felt confident enough to go out on his own. At first, he took on small projects at various communities, working his way into becoming a full landscaping company. By acquiring a skillful staff and instructing them on how to keep property looking its best most of the year, he proved that he was ready to become our primary landscaper.
The April meeting began with a report from Daneya Jacobs, Middletown Main Street Director, on improvements for Main Street. Suggested was adding park-like benches to the downtown area so that seniors could walk about but yet be able to rest when needed. Also suggested was adding permanent signs on corners to direct residents to nearby businesses. A presentation was made to add an additional building, patio area and parking improvements to the lots of 118 and 119 on Swansea Drive in The Legacy at Deep Creek. Plans proposed a 2,063-sq.-ft. clubhouse, a 386 sq.-ft. equipment/storage building, a pool, a pavilion and a court area. Also to be included would be a pickle ball court for active seniors. The plan was approved by the Town Council. A Conditional Use Permit was approved for a dog-training business (House of Watson Kennels) on Patriot Drive. This would not be open to the public.
His full-time staff consists of 16-22 men year round who meet his expectation of keeping our property in first-class condition. Zack says he appreciates the condition of Springmill presently which he intends to preserve going forward. Working with Julie Hambrecht and Mark Herner, Property Committee, has been a pleasure, as both work together to achieve a first-class community.
A conditional Use Permit was approved to allow alcohol sales via a tap license at Camp Hatchet-Project Escape located behind Royal Farms. Approval was granted with the stipulation that a particular area be completely closed off so that minors could not enter.
In addition to landscaping chores, he is also proficient in landscape design, installation, and hardscaping. He will perform extra services for the residents such as additional mulching and weeding along with dead shrubbery removal.
A Conditional Use Permit was granted to Volunteer Brewing Co. to locate a food truck at 116 W. Main Street. Also approval was given for the expansion of the current Volunteer Brewing Co. located at 120 W. Main St. to include the adjoining property at 116 W. Main Street.
Page Landscaping is located about a mile from Springmill on Summit Bridge Road and finds this to be a distinct advantage should any problems arise that need immediate attention. By now, all residents should have received Page’s list of services available along with costs. Without hesitation, Zack says all lawns need water constantly. No matter what is applied to the lawn, growth and improvement will not take place without proper watering. Weeds will not become a major problem either. He is aware that not all homeowners have irrigation systems because of the expense, so watering by hand is the next best friend for your lawn. Investing in a small sprinkler that can be attached to a hose and watering periodically will make all the difference in lawn appearance.
Additional information was presented to the Council for the demolition and construction of a new Everett Meredith Middle School on S. Broad St. The parking area will be reconfigured to provide additional on-site parking. The new school will open in 2022. An update on the proposed development of a Wawa Gas Station and Convenience Store was that there would only be an entrance on Summit Bridge Road, but customers must exit on Armstrong Corner Road. A vehicle charging station is under consideration. The station will have 16 multiple pump dispensers.
Wednesday has been set as the day of mowing, allowing for possible rain that day and mowing the next day or day after. Edging will be done every other week. Shrubs will be trimmed twice a year. Mulching for gardens begins in April. Should residents have questions while the crew is working, they should contact Tracey Lund at the clubhouse and not the working crew.
Sonya Comstock
New Business/Closed Businesses Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home & Crematory, 275 E. Main St., Owner Matthew C. Smith 302-378-0300
Zack says he is a working owner, and his one goal is to please the residents, so do not be surprised to see him working alongside his crew making our community one of the best in the area. His primary goal is to have a community that is outstanding in its overall appearance – where residents and non-residents can be proud of it all year long.
Closed – Vino Vita at Fromage Culinaria, S. Ridge Ave. Sonya Comstock
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Our neighbor, Anita Viets, of 104 Dawn Court, was in transition when we got together. She was still deciding on furniture to keep, what to get rid of, and where to place accessories and pictures. Anita comes to us from Elkton, Maryland, in a downsizing move from a large piece of property and home. She was pleased with all the trees behind her home and happy she was not responsible for their care. She also liked the fact that she was within walking distance of the professional buildings behind all those trees and all the services provided within; doctors, dentists, podiatrists, ophthalmologists and accountants. Honoring nurses has become an annual tradition. Dates to recognize the importance of nurses in our lives are from May 6 until May 12. These are permanent dates because the founder of professional nursing, Florence Nightingale, was born on May 12. May 8 was designated as National Student Nurses Day in 1998, and in 2003, National School Nurse Day is celebrated on the Wednesday within National Nurses Week each year.
Springmill first came to Anita’s attention years ago when she came to “take a look.” At the time, she liked the style selection of homes and the location of our community. So, when it came time for her to downsize, she visited us again and purchased. This new neighbor has many interests, and is planning on joining some of our numerous activities. At this time, Anita, who is a nurse, is still working two days a week. She would also like to volunteer at some point.
When nursing began, the role was simply to assist the doctor in a minor capacity. Today, that has all changed. More than likely, the first person you will see when visiting a doctor is a nurse and probably a Physician Assistant who will ask and answer many questions you have. Nurses are well educated today taking on responsibilities that only your doctor had years ago. Most nurses continue their education going beyond the basic AA Degree continuing with a Bachelor’s Degree and even a Master’s Degree. With this advanced degree, nurses can examine, diagnose, issue prescriptions and treat patients with a solid degree of confidence and knowledge. Doctors recognize the importance of nurses with advanced degrees and value their input, saving them time for other issues.
Having already met some of her neighbors, Anita is delighted with her Springmill and Dawn Court choices. Welcome, Anita, and we look forward to seeing you at the Clubhouse. June Stemmle
Nurses are still very compassionate and supportive with patients as they recuperate from surgery or serious illnesses. The journey back to good health always begins with the special care of nurses. Let’s recognize all nurses and the ones that live in Springmill. They are Carolyn Bodden, Maria Corvino, Marcy Florendo, Marge Flynn, Carol Foley, Leslie Freeman, Carol Geiger, Annie Hall, Bernadette Hnat, Helen Jackson, Nancy Jaeger, Kathy Kobus, Joann Kurych, Christine Laphan, Jackie Laucirica, Peg McMullen, Fran Mills, Ann Newswanger, Marie Rigg, Nancy Shannon, Anita Viets– did I forget anyone? Please let me know.
There Are Newcomers in Springmill!! Say hello, invite them to go to an event or committee meeting with you.
We Welcome Marian (Molly) Clatterbuck On Springmill Drive
Thank you for being part of Springmill. Sonya Comstock
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Springmill Discount: $3.00 off every car wash!
10% Senior Discount
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“Small Great Things” Jodi Picoult, one of my favorite authors for the amount of research she puts in to make a story “authentic,” has produced another wonderful novel…this one based on a story pulled from the headlines that also pulled on her heart, until she put pen to paper. The title comes from Martin Luther King Jr., “If I cannot do great things, I can do small things in a great way.” Ruth Jefferson, our heroine, had been a labor and delivery nurse for more than 20 years, and is the only black staff member in the maternity ward. She’s a light-skinned African American living in a white, upwardly mobile part of Connecticut. She is a single mom, having lost her husband while he was serving in Afghanistan. Her son, Edison, is in a prestigious white high school, where he is an honor student. Ruth’s mother is a maid for a wealthy white family, a household that Ruth felt an accepted part of since childhood, so she never felt that “race was an issue in her life.” But life has a way of changing on a dime, and it does when Turk and Brittany Bauer, white supremacists, come to the hospital for the birth of their son…but refuse to allow Ruth to care for it, and the hospital notes their “No African personnel” preference on the baby’s file. The stage is set. You just know, reading on, that something bad is about to happen, and it does…something that turns everyone’s life upside down. When the Bauer baby dies, and Ruth is the only one in the room, through no fault of her own, (remember, the hospital gave strict orders to stay away.) the Bauers bring charges against her for murder. When she is dismissed from her job and jailed, Kennedy McQuarrie, a well-intentioned white lawyer, takes the case. She gets to know Ruth and her family, but realizes she has to deal with her own “prejudice.” When the two women go shopping (a memorable scene that made me think) racial discrimination is brought to the forefront for Kennedy and reawakens racial awareness for Ruth. Meanwhile Edison is dealing with his own issues when his mother is jailed…anger and rebellion (another good scene when he visits Kennedy’s house).
We are also introduced to Ruth’s sister, Adisa. Because Adisa, is darker skinned, she became aware of prejudice early in life. In her 20’s, Adisa embraced her African roots, changed her name and moved to Harlem. Whereas Ruth negotiated her way into a white world, Adisa became more militant against the challenges of black discrimination, the welfare system, the justice system and segregation. As the story unfolds, she also becomes her sister’s staunchest ally in her fight against “the system.” Because Ruth does fight the murder charges…the court scenes are riveting. Along the way we learn a LOT about white nationalism and, through Turk, get some insight into why supremacists might feel the way they do…disenfranchised. Jodi Picoult’s research comes to play because it enables a white audience to better understand the black experience and the multi-faceted faces of white nationalism. All the characters change in the course of the novel. You will be surprised at how the story unfolds and be taken aback by how it ends. It is a story that is introspective of what we see in the headlines every day as it tackles today’s issues through its relatable characters who narrate the tale. It might change your perspective on racism and white privilege. It will definitely have you looking at inequality through different eyes … at least it has for me. June Stemmle
Book Club Choices For May Book Club 1 (Deb Kupper/1st Wed.) We will be reading by “Until You” by Judith McNaught.
CORRECTION – REDUCTION – “Y” MEMBERSHIP DUES Last month I wrote an article about applying for a 50% reduction in Y membership dues. If you are a member of AARP and also a member of their supplemental plan under United Healthcare Insurance, you qualify for a 50% reduction in membership dues. Monthly membership at the Bear-Glasgow YMCA is normally $56 for seniors, but by applying to AARP Supplemental Plan (1-888-887-5963), your monthly fee is reduced by 50%. A great savings and more reason to take advantage of a plan that is good for your health. The Y offers so much in the way of exercise and fun and meeting new people, while costing a nominal amount for seniors. Sonya Comstock 27
Book Club 2 (Mary-Elizabeth Rhoads/4th Tues.) This month our group will be critiquing “Storm Clouds Rolling,” by Ginny Dye. It is the first in a series of ten volumes of the Bregdan Chronicles, historical fiction ranging from 1860-1869. The series is available on www.ebook.bike and can be downloaded FREE! Book Club 3 (Ginny Grippo/3rd Mon.) This month we will enjoying “Educated,” by Tara Westover. Book Club 4 (Mary Jo Starrett/1st Wed.) Our group will be discussing “Handling Sin” by Michael Malone. Book Club 5 (Joan Gross/3rd Tues.) When we meet, we will be talking about “The Vengance of Mothers” by Jim Fergus. June Stemmle
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New York City Hudson Yards / The Vessel and more Park, creating a continuous chain of open spaces on the West Side from Gansevoort Street to Times Square. It's the largest network of public spaces developed in Manhattan since Central Park. It's one part of the 14 acres of open space at Hudson Yards.
Some Springmill residents may not realize how close we are to New York City. We are just an easy two and a half-hour drive, up the NJ Turnpike, to the midtown area. About a month ago Sheila and I drove to New York on a Sunday to have brunch with some family members. After a long Mimosafueled meal, we decided to see Manhattan’s newest attraction, which had opened to the public just couple of weeks before. The attraction is a $16 billion neighborhood that was constructed above an active train yard on Manhattan’s west side near the Javits Convention Center and the very popular High Line Park (which was built on existing elevated train tracks.
The Edge Observation Deck, open later this year. The moment you step out onto the highest outdoor deck in the entire Western Hemisphere is a moment you’ll never forget. Rise above the clouds, the birds, the city itself. Go out of the building and walk 65 feet straight out into the sky on the highest public balcony in New York. Take in the iconic skyline like never before, in full panorama— with dramatic sunsets to the west. Go forth and stand on the large glass floor, gasping as you impossibly look straight down at the bustling neighborhood 1,100 feet below.Go further and lean out over Manhattan, literally, on the nine-foot wall of boldly angled glass—if you dare.
New York City’s newest neighborhood is a whopping 14-acre, $16 billion real estate project with 6 skyscraper buildings,100 retail stores called Hudson Yards. This is just Phase 1 of the project. The full 28-acre development, which will include an additional $9 billion investment, more towers and a school, will be completed by 2025. Hudson Yards covers the area from 30th to 42nd Streets and between 10th Avenues and the Hudson River.
You can spend the entire day at Hudson Yards doing things Looking Down you have never done before in New York. Manhattan is easily and inexpensively accessible by bus from Newark (Megabus fare averages about $25 each way), and New Jersey Transit from the Hamilton Station near Trenton NJ which is about an hour and a half drive with another hour and half on the train. The round-trip fare for seniors is only about $15.00.
It features: The Vessel, the centerpiece of the Hudson Yards Public Square and Gardens, and the City’s new urban landmark. Comprised of 154 intricately-interconnecting flights of stairs, 2,500 individual steps and 80 landings, Vessel offers the public a one-mile vertical climbing experience and some of the most unique views of Manhattan’s West Side. Free entrance with timed ticketing is available .
Dick Rausch
The Shed, the most exciting new building at Hudson Yards. It is a shape-shifting performing arts center. The building can be accessed at street level without entering the rest of the neighborhood. The building can physically transform to support artists’ visions and the work they create. It can grow into a theater environment, outdoor environment, gallery environment. It can be light-filled and even completely black. The Shed, which has two gallery spaces and a versatile theater, can even double in size thanks to a shell that can expand from the base of the building onto the plaza. When the shell is deployed, the theater can accommodate an audience of 1,250 people sitting–or over 2,000 standing. The Shops & Restaurants, New York City’s premier shopping and dining destination located at 20 Hudson Yards. The one-million-square-foot retail center brings more than 100 diverse stores, including the city's first Neiman Marcus, and culinary experiences across all food and price points The Public Square and Gardens, one of the signature spaces at Hudson Yards, containing five acres of public plazas, gardens and groves. The new park space connects to the High Line, Hudson Park & Boulevard and Bella Abzug 29
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The days are longer and with milder temperatures, we can look forward to spending more time outdoors enjoying our favorite sports and fitness activities. Yay, the pool will be open in less than 30 days.
adjusting. The aches will be gone in a few days but the fun and laughs will continue every day you play. So, if you aren’t already committed to this fun sport, come on down after play at 10 AM. for some minor instruction before we turn you loose on the various courts around the area.
Horseshoes: After several years of lying dormant, Rob Bishop took the “bull by the horns” and asked for approval to get the horseshoe pits into playable condition. Rob did all of the hard work and the Clubhouse Committee provided the funds to purchase sand, etc. Rob has posted a sign-up sheet on the Clubhouse Bulletin Board. One pair of pits is open and ready for play, and once we see who is interested and what day is best, we will try some kind of a league/competition. Now we just need some players and Springmill gains a new activity. Thanks to Rob for taking the initiative and for all of his hard work. We’ll keep you posted on progress here each month.
Tennis: Bill Gurnee reports: The good news is weekday weather over the last 3 weeks has allowed us to play. Unfortunately, Saturday weather not so much. Anyway, we’re out there whenever the weather permits. Word on the street is we have 2 new players joining us. Right now, we begin at 9 AM Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturday and Sunday. All are welcome. The Bocce and Tennis/Pickleball courts are always open, weather permitting. Whenever the mood hits you get some people together and start playing. Bocce equipment is in the closet in the Craft Room. Middletown Ladies Golf League: Eileen Bogel reports: The Middletown Ladies Golf League is off to a great start! We meet each Thursday morning at Back Creek. Groups of 9-holers and groups of 18-holers (who continue to stay for lunch) all tee off together. We begin at 9AM in April and May. For the month of April, there is open play for everyone. After that, some weekly events are scheduled to make play more fun for everyone. The league is open to all ladies in the area. Call Eileen Bogel for more information.
Bocce: Don Thompson reports:The 2019 season will commence on May 7, 2019. This season we will be playing on Tuesdays and Wednesdays with play starting at 9AM. We have 5 teams registered for each day. However, only four teams can play on any given day. So, each week we will schedule a team to have a bye for that week. The 2019 teams are as follows: TUESDAY DIVISION TEAM CAPTAIN EASY ROLLERS (23) ANNE LUCAS BOCCE BALLERS MARIE RIGG EVERGREENS HELEN WEINHEIMER THE HAPPY ROLLERS JOAN QUIGLEY BOCCE PALS RUTH RUDLOFF WEDNESDAY DIVISION TEAM CAPTAIN HOLY ROLLERS ANN HULLINGER ROLLING THUNDER DICK RAUSCH BRU’S PAT BURNEY PARSEEKERS DORIS MOSCARIELLO FORZA ILENE LIPSTEIN A special thank you goes out to Anne Lucas for establishing and completing the teams. Anne’s efforts resulted in an increased participation of Bocce players for the 2019 season. Remember substitute players are always needed. Contact Anne Lucas to be added to the sub list. Come out and cheer on the teams.
Springmill/Spring Arbor Men's Golf League (SMGL): This year we will be playing 4 courses: Back Creek (our home course), Odessa National, Garrisons Lake and Frog Hollow. Our season has started and runs until October 31st. We currently have 52 members and average about 28 players per week. Most leagues collect money for weekly competitions. We do not, except for an occasional competition. We are a play for fun and social interaction league. Our yearly dues are $10.00. Anyone interested in joining this residence-based league, contact Joe Tomassetti at j.tomassetti@verizon.net. Water Aerobics: Ann Raymond will provide a complete report on the plans for Water Aerobics in the June Sentinel. The 2019 pool opening is just weeks away. Yoga: June Stemmle reminds everyone that a Yoga session is held in the Clubhouse Great Room every Monday morning at 9:00 AM. Meditation follows Yoga from 10:00 – 10:30 AM. Cynthia Frank will help you to learn to de-stress, relax, and find peace and serenity. All are welcome. Fitness: Staying fit should be a goal that will help us to age gracefully. Springmill offers several ways to help everyone stay fit. With Senior Exercise, Yoga, Meditation, the Gym (try the new recumbent stepper), Water Aerobics, and miles of scenic paths and streets for safe walking, jogging and bicycling, it is easy to get out and help stay fit at your own pace and ability.
Pickleball: Jane Kimmins reports: The Spring, Summer, Fall Pickleball season began on April 22nd at 8:30 AM for experienced players. Pickleball will continue to be played through the season every Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 8:30 to 10 AM. Hopefully, we have new players on the courts. For those who are new to the game, please ignore the aches and pains of your first couple of days playing. Different muscle groups are used and your body is just
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