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It’s spring, and that means all of Wichita has headed outdoors. There are patios to be enjoyed, live music to be heard, bike trails to be traversed and golf to be played. Sign us up!
Speaking of golf, we are ecstatic to announce that we are partnering once again with the Wichita Open as one of its 50 Ambassadors. The Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas Wichita Open is a favorite in our book, and it always has been. The 72-hole competition features 156 of the Korn Ferry Tour’s top golfers competing for a $1 million purse and points to obtain their PGA Tour card.
With a week full of events, it’s the best sporting and social event in the city. It leaves its mark not only on Crestview Country Club where it’s held but also on the community, adding $7.2 million of revenue to the local economy and generating nearly $3 million for local youth causes and charities since its inception.
This year’s event runs June 15–18, and there are more places than ever for fans to gather — like the new Fan Zone for only $30 a ticket (it even includes complimentary beer!). Now, that’s a steal. We can’t wait to see who wins this year’s tournament.
We have a winner of our own we’d like to congratulate. Katie Regier won the SPLURGE! Heart & Seek contest and received a beautiful “XO” diamond pendant from Mike Seltzer Jewelers. She was one of many who found the hidden Heart Diamond on page 42 of the March issue (hidden beneath the foot of one of our models in the fashion section), and her name was pulled from among the successful diamond
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Meet Dusty Buell, the new tournament director for the Wichita Open. His whole career has led to this moment, from fundraising and marketing to his work with nonprofits and winning record as a soccer coach.
54 National Bubble Tea Day
Whether you call them boba, pearls or bubbles, these tapioca gems revolutionized the way we drink tea, beginning in Taiwan in the 1980s. With all the boba shops in town, you’ll never have to drink plain tea again!
62 Biker Dogs
These two lucky pups get to coast around the ’Ta on their Harley — and sometimes even bring their human, Jesus Carrasco, along for the ride. Nothing like the open road and the feel of wind on your fur.
Wichita Open Director Dusty Buell
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64 Shockers Baseball
Interim baseball coach
Loren Hibbs is leading the Shockers through one of the toughest schedules in the country. Hibbs, who served as assistant coach under the legendary Gene Stephenson, welcomes the challenge.
Spring Into DIY Easter
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“Have you ever tried walking in the shoes of a giant?” That’s how the incoming Wichita Open tournament director Dusty Buell put it when asked his thoughts of filling the void left by retiring tournament director Roy Turner. Like his predecessor, the new tournament director of the Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas Wichita Open has long devoted his life to keeping the wheels of opportunity turning for residents of Wichita and surrounding communities.
As a team player whose fundraising prowess has raised millions of dollars for nonprofit organizations in Wichita through organizing and marketing some of the city’s premier special events over the past two decades, it may have seemed a foregone conclusion for board members to choose the 41-yearold to replace community pillar Roy Turner in his retirement. But before anything else, Buell is a devoted family man and will be the first to tell you that his wife is the real hero of the family. “Being a nurse practitioner and on the front lines and having someone’s life depending on her, she also serves this community selflessly on a daily basis,” he said. Dusty and Rebecca are the proud parents of three children, Cooper, 17, Grace, 13, and Daxx, 9.
Hailing from Augusta, Kansas, Buell had both name recognition and a history of relevant relationships forged locally in his favor when he assumed the position in May of 2022. But it wasn’t his casual involvement in golf-related activities through the years that made him the clear choice to succeed Turner as the face of Wichita’s signature event. Rather, it was those numerous local business connections forged through his nonprofit interactions, combined with a keen understanding of sports gained as a successful soccer coach and college baseball player, which has positioned him to lead a team of like-minded tournament Ambassadors and officials devoted to making the tournament a memorable experience for players, fans and sponsors alike.
“My entire career I’ve been part of nonprofits and relationship-building in Wichita,” Buell said. “I’ve spent the past 15-plus years building and stewarding trusted relationships. Those relationships have forged the path that has brought me here.”
A standout athlete at Augusta High School in baseball and soccer, Buell garnered a baseball scholarship to Cloud County Community College as a center fielder in 1999. After obtaining his bachelor’s degree from Emporia State University in 2004, he launched his career in marketing and fundraising, and ultimately in organizational leadership.
After assuming the director of marketing role at Heartspring and then CEO roles with Kidzcope and Sunlight Children’s Services, he is certain he has landed the perfect position as
‘I’m going into this to make sure Wichita is known throughout the world, and especially throughout the Korn Ferry Tour and the PGA.’ — Dusty BuellWichita Open Hole 17
president and tournament director to implement his inclusiveminded leadership philosophy. “I feel like I was raised with a locker room mentality, which meant I was always a part of something bigger than myself,” he said. “Many of those lessons learned being a part of those teams translated into my leadership style, which is why this position has been so attractive to me. The Wichita Open is the biggest team I have ever been a part of. Pairing that with professional sports, it’s like I’ve dressed for this job my whole life — it feels I have found where I truly belong.”
In this year of transition where Buell and Turner are working together in the Wichita Open office, Turner said he has learned to step back and hand Buell the reins, making himself available as needed. “I think the succession has worked as well as it possibly could, and it feels like we now have a common bond,” said Turner, who will end his lengthy tenure on July 1. “I think it was time for me to leave with my age and everything. It’s been fantastic, obviously, and my interest hasn’t wavered in any way. But Dusty is going to be really great for the Wichita Open and its future.”
Turner joked that he’ll probably stop by the Wichita Open office each morning for a cup of coffee.
Buell said that passion is the common thread between him and Turner. “He’s been an incredible mentor to me, and I have had a front row seat to watch one of the greatest to ever do it. I know I just have to keep this thing going and ensure we can continually improve this golf tournament for the sake of our community and the Ambassadors. I don’t want to come in and change anything that’s not broken, but I do want to continue to find areas where we can give our fans, sponsors and Ambassadors added value.”
The tournament’s Ambassador Program keeps area businesses engaged year-round in activities that benefit both the tournament and member businesses. SPLURGE! is among the select 50 businesses driving the program. “If it wasn’t for these Ambassadors and their love of this community, we would not have this golf tournament in Wichita today,” Buell said. “They play a crucial role in everything that we do. Every single person in that group wants to see us raise even more money for local charities while showcasing Wichita on a big stage.”
Adding Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas as its title sponsor this year has already given a “boost of adrenaline” to the tournament’s fundraising climate going forward, Buell said. Funds raised from the tournament benefit KU Wichita Pediatrics, which all leads back to the focus of Buell’s career, helping children that need it the most.
The Wichita Open remains one of only four original Korn Ferry Tour events still in swing today. Established in 1990, the annual June tournament attracts between 50,000–55,000 spectators, generating an estimated $7.2 million in economic impact for the Wichita community. The 72-hole competition features 156 of the Korn Ferry Tour’s best golfers competing for a $1 million purse and points to obtain their PGA Tour card.
Ever the competitor himself, Buell has also coached the Augusta High School Orioles boys soccer team for the past 9 years. He has brought regional championships, the first ever league championship and the school’s only appearance at the State Championship. Buell has racked up accolades such as All-League coach of the year in 2019 and 2020, and 4A All-State Coach of the Year honors in 2021. His aim is to bring the same winning philosophy driving his soccer program to his role as tournament director. “We have to build this the right way, taking that same blueprint to my team here at the Wichita Open,” he said. “This is not foreign territory. This is an extension of what I’ve already been doing for all these years, and that’s what gets me excited. I’m here to win. I’m here to build wins on top of wins. I don’t lose. I either win or I learn.
“I’m going into this to make sure Wichita is known throughout the world, and especially throughout the Korn Ferry Tour and PGA. There are only 28 Korn Ferry Tour Tournament Directors in the world, and I feel very privileged I’m one of them. This job is 1 of 1 here in Wichita, and I am here to make sure the world knows what we already know — that this community is special.”
Wichita Open AmbassadorsRepresentatives from the 50 Wichita Open Ambassadors attended a breakfast sponsored by FORVIS in Wichita. The Ambassador Program is a way for community and business leaders to assist in diversifying the sponsorship base and solidifying the future of the Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas Wichita Open. The event, which runs June 8-18, 2023, at Crestview Country Club, draws around 55,000 spectators and generates an estimated $7.2 million in economic impact for the Wichita community. For more information visit wichitaopen.com.
Will a recession rob you of your retirement? Even before Russia invaded Ukraine, high inflation and economic fallout from the Covid-19 pandemic caused concern that the risk of a recession was growing. When a recession hits, much more is at stake than stock market shares. During the “Great Recession” that occurred between December of 2007 and June of 2009, not only did Americans lose over $19 trillion in net worth, the unemployment rate doubled to 10 percent and over 8 million jobs were lost. When economists start pointing to signs of a recession, it is natural to feel anxious. Retirees on a fixed income or those getting ready to begin retirement can feel especially vulnerable.
Recently, higher costs for everything from gasoline to agricultural products have trickled down to consumers, helping push inflation to a 40-year high. Consumer debt is on the rise again because inflation has cut into budgets. This is a dangerous precedent. During times of higher expenses, it is better to tighten your budget and do without some luxuries or indulgences than to borrow money. You also should try to avoid cutting back on your saving and investing. Continue to save for your retirement — if the market falls further, you can take advantage of the lower prices by continuing to invest.
Recessions often lead to job cuts. If you had to stop working sooner than you planned, would your retirement plan still be on track? If you are younger than 65, one of the toughest challenges to overcome is the cost of health insurance before you can get on Medicare. Take a close look at your monthly expenses to see if you can eliminate unnecessary expenditures and increase your savings to be prepared for a potential job loss.
Where are your investments? If you’re like many, your assets are spread out in things like 401(k)s, mutual funds and company stock options. All of those are tied to the market, so during a recession, they could
significantly decrease in value. The stock market lost an average of 37 percent in bear markets since 1928. Have you evaluated your risk tolerance lately? Maybe you set your investment style years ago and never got around to updating it as you got older. You should stress test your portfolio to see what would happen to it if we go through another recession. Financial products exist today to mitigate market losses, while still providing reasonable opportunities for growth. It might be a good time for a fresh perspective on your portfolio.
While the economy is largely unpredictable, your retirement income doesn’t have to be. By getting a clear picture of where your finances stand and creating a plan that takes worst-case scenarios into account, you can feel confident about retirement — even in a recession. You don’t need a bull market to guarantee a great retirement. One of the keys to a comfortable lifestyle in any economy is planning ahead. If the thought of building a plan on your own is overwhelming, there’s help available. A qualified financial planner can help you assess where you are and help guide you to where you want to be. You worked hard for your retirement. Don’t let a recession rob you of a comfortable lifestyle.
Randy Yeisley is a local, independent investment advisor and is the founder and president of Yeisley Financial Group, Inc., located in northeast Wichita. He can be reached by emailing advisor@yeisleyfinancial.com or by calling 316.719.2900.
Popularized by TikTok and seen in the news almost daily, semaglutide, sold under brand names like Ozempic and Rybelsus, has been successful in the treatment of type 2 diabetes as well as weight management. But Wichita-area researchers are investigating a more convenient option for administering the drug that is currently given by weekly injection or by daily pill.
The Alliance of Multispecialty Research (AMR) is studying an injectable device that would administer semaglutide automatically over a three-month period. “Because of its proven safety and efficacy, we’re now looking at different ways of delivering it,” said Dr. Terry Klein of Wichita, a partner at AMR.
Semaglutide belongs to the class of medications called GLP-1 agonists. They work to help the body distribute insulin more efficiently, slowing down the transport of food through the gut and helping the body feel full faster.
Klein said semaglutide is a breakthrough drug that achieves what researchers have long been after: helping lower the blood sugar in diabetics. “The objective is to lower blood sugar, and that’s what we measure,” Klein said. “But the real objective is to save the cardiovascular system — whether that is the heart, or the head in the case of stroke, or the eyes, the kidneys or the legs — all of those things that can be compromised when diabetics’ blood vessels narrow and impede blood flow.”
When Klein first began practicing family medicine, drugs for type 2 diabetes didn’t provide effective cardiovascular protection. “Cardiovascular risk is how the preponderance of people with diabetes die, and it certainly is how they’re infirmed,” he said. But semaglutide, approved by the FDA in 2017, has shown to provide effective cardiovascular protection thanks to its ability to treat both diabetes and obesity.
In the past, many agents used to control diabetes actually caused weight gain. “The search was on for something that controlled cardiovascular disease and also facilitated weight loss,” Klein said. Researchers seem to have found what
they were looking for in GLP-1 agonists like Ozempic. “They’re gaining favor across the weight loss industry as well as across the diabetic treatment industry.”
The study being conducted by AMR researchers will look at the effectiveness of an implanted device to deliver the GLP-1 agonist. “They’re studying the dissipation rate of that medicine and observing what the variability is,” Klein said. “So over three months they’ll be checking levels of insulin, blood sugar and things like that to make sure you’ve got a good flow of medicine. It’s been calibrated at a rate that we believe will be most beneficial for everyone.”
AMR is looking for male and female candidates ages 18 to 70 who have type 2 diabetes, have an A1C (average blood sugar level) of 6.5–10, and have a BMI of 40 or less. Participants will receive the GLP-1 agonist, either via the implant or by weekly injection. While weight loss isn’t being studied, it will certainly be monitored, Klein said.
Participants will receive the medication for free and will also be compensated for taking part in the study.
For more information on clinical trials or to participate, visit heartlandresearch.com or call 316-689-6635.
Thirteen women and a Wichita family were honored at the annual Shine Awards in conjunction with International Women’s Day. The annual awards, sponsored by Storytime Village, celebrate Kansas women who are shining examples for others. The event also raised funds for Storytime Village’s early literacy efforts. For more information, visit storytimevillage.org.
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Amazing Grace Discipleship Ministries has a saying: You can’t heal what you don’t reveal. With that wisdom in mind, the ministry’s goal is to help women heal from trauma and find their identities so they can move forward in freedom. That means supporting those coming out of domestic violence, addiction or unthinkable circumstances and giving them a safe place to live while teaching them essential job and life skills. With those resources and a foundation in Jesus Christ, women can start to heal from trauma.
Amazing Grace, formerly Grace Multiplied, was founded in 2018 and opened its first residential home in 2019. This month it celebrates its five-year anniversary. The ministry focuses on heart transformation instead of behavior modification. Most women who have entered the outreach or residential program come with some form of trauma either from childhood or as an adult. “If we try to deal with the behavior only, then we miss the reason behind the why,” said Rebecca Billups, Amazing Grace founder.
The ministry deals with the heart of the matter or root issue that had them choose to stay in a domestic violence situation or use drugs or alcohol as a coping mechanism. “If we’re honest, no one wakes up and says, ‘I want to be an addict or alcoholic,’ ” Billups said. “Sometimes the trauma leads people to numb themselves so they don’t feel the pain or remember the traumatic event. So Amazing Grace utilizes curriculum and counseling that directly focuses on trauma and helping women heal and find their identity, so they can move forward in freedom. The program has truly transformed lives.”
In 2019, Amazing Grace began offering an outreach program both for women who are unable to live at the residential home as well as those receiving help from other nonprofit ministries in the community. The outreach program offers all services, classes and resources to women who can’t live at the residence, and also has taught classes at Hope Ranch, 2nd Chance Industries, Carpenter Place, Youth for Christ and WIN.
Billups is passionate about helping others in need and unifying ministries and nonprofits to collaborate and create an atmosphere of growing in grace for the greater good. She was first shown this kind of compassion by Wichita TV host Sierra Scott. When Billups had a vision for a ministry, she reached out to Scott, who didn’t hesitate and graciously offered introductions and contacts to help with resources to start a nonprofit. “Sierra is truly an unsung hero who humbly serves the community,” Billups said.
What does the future hold for Amazing Grace? Billups says that the outreach program, with its massive expansion, will be a big focus in the future, as will the continued growth of the residential program. Amazing Grace will hold its “Come to the Table” fundraiser April 20 to share its vision for the future.
April 20, 6:30-8:30 pm
The Highlands in Valley Center
Dinner, program, and silent and live auctions
For information, visit Facebook: @Amazing Grace Discipleship Ministries or call Rebecca Billups at 316.619.3932
Do you have loose skin and more volume around your tummy than you’d like? Have you thought about having a tummy tuck, but you don’t want to have an invasive surgical procedure? If so, you may be a good candidate for our newest procedure: minimally invasive, FDAapproved Renuvion for both women and men. It’s a revolutionary new procedure with little downtime and less scarring.
Renuvion uses plasma energy to contract the tissues under the skin, causing it to tighten. It has many benefits, and one of them is the “scarless tummy tuck.” At PSC, we usually use Renuvion with liposuction for fat loss and skin tightening benefits. It can also be used without liposuction.
Let’s look at our most asked questions.
Renuvion and liposuction together are perfect for people who want to remove fat from specific areas of the body, have loose skin after pregnancy or weight loss, or have lost elasticity with age. We can remove fat and tighten the skin on your tummy, hips, thighs, arms, buttocks and neck with Renuvion.
Renuvion further augments your liposuction procedure. This way, we remove excess fat while tightening the skin. By harnessing the plasma energy and radio frequency of Renuvion, you get fat removal and dramatic skin contraction for contoured results.
Many people see results right away. However, you will see the most significant results between six to twelve weeks after treatment and once your swelling subsides. Your skin continues to improve during this time due to increased remodeling and collagen production.
Renuvion is a single treatment. The results are dramatic. You may see your results in a few days or weeks. Your results will continue to improve throughout the healing process.
We’ll choose the right amount of anesthesia to ensure you’re comfortable during the procedure.
Compared to a tummy tuck, the recovery process is very mild. You will use a compression garment for about a month to six weeks. You may also have some minor pain and swelling for a few weeks. We will discuss how to care for your skin as it heals and your overall recovery process in detail at your first appointment.
Renuvion provides energy-assisted liposuction, so Renuvion with liposuction gives a patient permanent removal of fat cells.
We can use Renuvion for skin tightening on the face and as a skin resurfacer to soften lines, wrinkles, pores and hyperpigmentation. This is best on the face and neck for tightening, brightening and improving skin texture.
Renuvion: The Bottom Line
One of our board-certified plastic surgeons can help you decide if Renuvion is right for you and can help you meet your goals. Your first step is a consultation with one of our three board-certified plastic surgeons. Please give us a call at 316.688.7500 to schedule your appointment.
Plastic surgery involves many choices; the most important is selecting a
Patient: 42-year-old mother of two Procedure Type: Liposuction
Amount of Fat Removed: 175cc Renuvion used subdermally on the entire abdomen
*Individual results may vary
Patient: 53-year-old female Renuvion used on full face
results when you have your procedures performed by plastic surgeons certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery, like Dr. Sprole, Dr. Biskup, and Dr. Spaniol. These specially trained doctors have at least six years of surgical training and experience, with a minimum of three years of plastic surgery.
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Comprehensive Disease Management (CDM) is a proactive, holistic approach, and one that Phoenix Home Care and Hospice nurse, Melissa Newby, RN, takes when guiding patients through the complex and turbulent journey that is living life with a serious illness. The CDM program serves as the foundation for Phoenix to support families through emotional, stressful and difficult times. The goal of CDM is to improve quality of life for both the patient with a chronic or life-limiting illness and their families. Phoenix Home Care and Hospice believes this program is an integral part of a person’s healthcare journey. As true advocates for patient care, the core of the CDM program is centered around providing the right care, for the right patient, in the right place at the right time.
Newby states, “As a nurse, I’m not just there to treat the physical health of a patient, to help them navigate the emotional highs and lows. Good patient care stems from the genuine care and compassion one has for others,” and she believes the CDM program epitomizes that.
Phoenix Home Care and Hospice believes in providing the full continuum of care to patients on their journey, which is why the CDM program can be utilized in conjunction with home health, hospice and other palliative care programs. This integrated care approach empowers individuals to advocate for their health needs, understand how to implement selfcare strategies to minimize effects, and improve the care they receive for chronic conditions. Appropriate individuals who could benefit from CDM services include patients with:
• Significant diagnosis, chronic or life-limiting illness
• Multiple co-morbidities
• Multiple recent hospitalizations
• Unmanaged pain and symptoms
Key components of a CDM program include:
• Assisting in advanced care planning and helping coordinate care options
• Education on available resources and providing practical and emotional support
• Navigating complex medical decisions
• Minimizing the decline of disease progression
• Optimizing patient care through proactive interventions and incorporating patient self-management
• Unexpected changes such as: weight loss, significant change in health condition, increased weakness or fatigue
Phoenix CDM is a free service available to any patient who qualifies; they do not need to be on Phoenix services. If you’re interested in learning more, or have a loved one who may benefit from this program, contact the Phoenix CARE Team at 866-396-0493 or by email at CAREteam@phoenixhomehc.com.
‘As a nurse, I’m not just there to treat the physical health of a patient, to help them navigate the emotional highs and lows. Good patient care stems from the genuine care and compassion one has for others.’
– Melissa Newby, RN
Marissa Botello tries to find the silver lining in every situation. It’s a coping mechanism she’s learned after years of turning to drugs to deal with hardship in her life. And there have been plenty of hardships: She and her little brother moved constantly with their unstable mother. At age 13 she learned the man she thought was her dad actually wasn’t. Four years ago her little brother committed suicide. And there were lots of other trials and tribulations in between.
They were all seemingly good reasons to turn to pills and other drugs, trying to make the pain go away. But with four children of her own and a desire to get clean, Marissa decided in 2020 to get help. She found it with Dr. Greg Lakin and the staff at Center for Change in Wichita.
“If it wasn’t for Dr. Lakin I think I’d be dead, with all the stuff they’re putting in these pills,” said Botello, 42. “Going to the center was a scary thing at first, and the first few times I was terrified. But after I got comfortable with everyone it was a lot easier than chasing those pills.”
Botello was born in Newton but moved to Idaho when she was 2 with her mom and little brother. It was an unstable environment with an absent, codependent mom. “We moved seven times in one year; she was running from man to man,” Botello said. “I decided enough was enough and moved in with my grandma in Newton.”
It was a slap in the face for the young teen to learn that the man she thought was her father wasn’t. She was suicidal and spent time in treatment at Prairie View. When her grandma died, she and her brother were left to fend for themselves. Then at age 17 Botello underwent a surgery in which she was prescribed pain pills and became addicted.
The addiction was short-lived, though, because Botello became pregnant and decided to get clean. “After she was born I did the whole good person thing and was a good mom. But I got hooked up with the wrong crowd and I started dabbling with meth,” she said.
Over the years she waffled between using and getting clean. In April 2019 she was prescribed pain pills after a hysterectomy and was determined not to become an addict again. But a month later her brother committed suicide. “Then I got hooked pretty hard on them; it made everything
else feel better,” she said. “That whole year of 2019, it was worse than I’d ever been addicted. I was pretty good at hiding it.”
She made up excuses to get new pain pill prescriptions, including having her back teeth pulled. It was while trying to bum pills off a friend that she learned about Center for Change. “She told me, ‘I’ve been going to this place and it saved my life,’ ” Botello said. One morning when Botello was completely out of pills and resources, she decided to heed her friend’s advice and went to Center for Change.
It took a lot of courage, she said. She had been hiding her addiction from her husband, her children and her friends. “You feel like you’re the only one on the face of the earth who has that problem,” she said. “My biggest fear was, what are people going to think? But I realized I wasn’t alone; there were so many people like me.”
Treatment included both counseling and prescription Suboxone, used to treat opioid addiction in adults. This summer she will celebrate three years of sobriety. She does things with her husband and kids she never would have before, like the spring break road trip the whole family took in March and the house remodeling projects they’re undertaking.
Botello stays busy with her job making headstones at a monument shop in Newton — something she loves but never imagined herself doing. And her four children, two stepchildren and three grandbabies keep her on her toes. “Life itself is completely different. There’s no way if I were doing the pills that I would have a saving grace to deal with all of the things in my life,” she said. “There are a lot of things to be thankful for and a lot of reasons to stay sober. I have Dr. Lakin and the staff at Center for Change to thank for all of it.”
If a good friend or family member passes away, the situational sadness is not a mental illness. But even this natural, emotional response may merit talking to a professional. Why? Because a mental health issue that starts as an understandable reaction to a normal life event may lead to an illness if not properly treated using healthy and sustainable coping mechanisms.
Someone who moves to a new state to undertake a career change following a divorce is simultaneously dealing with three of the most stressful events adults experience. And while they may be able to cope with these situations over time, talking through their feelings with a mental healthcare provider would lessen the strain of all three situations, allow for quicker integration, and reduce the likelihood of long-term effects from the resulting anxiety or
depressive symptoms. Talking to a therapist does not mean you have a mental illness. It means that you are making a responsible and mature decision to avoid the risk of incurring a mental illness that might result from trying to deal with these stressors on your own.
Mental Health Association (MHA) employs therapists with a broad range of expertise in family dynamics, sexual health, sleep disorders, substance use, LGBTQ+ issues and much more. And their bios are listed right on our website. Much like our prevention programs for children that help to stave off potential mental illnesses later in life, seeking pro-active therapy to deal with adult concerns helps to ensure a healthier family unit and overall community for the Wichita metro area as well.
Companies like Mariner Wealth Advisors, Murphy Tractor, and P.B. Hoidale are stepping up to ensure that our programs continue to be available to serve their staff and families, and we hope you will as well. Call our communications office at 316.651.1241 to learn how you can help.
Thank you to Angel Culver, Realtor with JP Weigand & Sons, for her gracious support of this column and the MHA mission.
Bob Gress of Wichita made the most of what he learned in Boy Scouts – so much so that some of it became his life’s work. Gress, the former Director of the Great Plains Nature Center and a respected wildlife photographer, has made his career around nature and wildlife. For over 30 years his photographs illustrated wildlife programs presented throughout Kansas to kids and adults at Scout meetings, schools, civic groups, clubs and church groups. He has published over 5,000 bird and mammal photos in a variety of magazines, posters, interpretive signs and books (around 80 books and counting).
“In the beginning I was more known as a mammal photographer, but later got hooked on photographing birds too,” said Gress, whose amazing images can be seen at birdsinfocus.com.
Growing up in Axtell, Kansas, Gress’ father was the Scoutmaster, and he and his two brothers earned the rank of Eagle Scout. “Earning Nature, Wildlife Management, Soil and Water Conservation, and Forestry Merit
Badges exposed me to things in Scouting that I didn’t know about,” he said. “Scouting exposed me to a wide variety of real-world possibilities.”
Gress was a naturalist for the city of Wichita and became the founding director of the Great Plains Nature Center, raising funds for its construction and overseeing its operation for 16 years. Today he leads nature and wildlife tours in Africa, Central America and South America, and takes part in conservation efforts in Kansas. On the day of this interview, Gress was surveying active bald eagle nests in south central Kansas as a volunteer for the Kansas Department of Wildlife and Parks.
Fifty-some years after his own Scouting experience, Gress says the program is still valuable. “Like so many other parts of life, how well you apply yourself to it is a reflection of what you get out of it,” he said. “Our parents taught us to take it seriously, and it opened some doors and laid some groundwork for the rest of our lives.”
Quivira Council and Morgan Stanley are proud to bring you Eagle Scouts in Action, a monthly showcase of community leaders who are banding together to make a difference in our community!
If you are interested in joining Scouting or have an Eagle Scout in Action you think deserves honoring, call us at 316.264.3386.
Hired to Lead The Martin Financial Group’s Portfolio Management and Advanced Planning
The Martin Financial Group excels at serving the financial needs of successful families and businesses, and with the hiring of Dan McCoy of Omaha, Nebraska, they will continue to build the firm’s expertise and capabilities. Dan has 15 years experience within the wealth management and investment management industries, and comes from a firm with over $1 million in assets under management. He has an immense amount of experience in advanced wealth and estate planning for HNW and UHNW families, private foundation investment management, portfolio management, and multi-generational and legacy planning.
Dan has achieved multiple advanced designations and degrees throughout his career and is a regular thought leader and speaker at conferences and private engagements. Outside of the financial industry, he has founded and built several firms across multiple industries, facilitated three successful exits, and continues to serve as a board member on the remaining firms. In addition, he is a combat veteran and Purple Heart recipient. Dan and his wife Sarah have 2-year-old twins, and enjoy creating experiences with them every chance they get.
Begin by removing all clothing, shoes and accessories from your closet. PRO TIP: While you remove the clothing from the closet, throw them down strategically by separating your piles by clothing type. Tops in one pile, bottoms in another pile, and so on. This is important to see everything you own in one place, and will help you make better decisions about what to keep and what to let go of.
It’s finally time to switch out the fur for the floral and conduct a deep-cleaning closet edit. Taking the time to clean out and organize your closet for spring is about more than just tidying up. It’s an opportunity to rejuvenate your wardrobe, simplify your daily routine, and positively impact your mood and mental health. This is because you remove the friction of getting ready in the morning by having a curated, wellorganized closet you love. Here’s a step-by-step guide to the process I use when conducting a closet edit for my clients.
Grab your AirPods, tune into your favorite podcast and put your device on “Do Not Disturb,” because for this process you’ll need to keep up the momentum, distraction-free to get it done. Clear a large and clean workspace where you can spread out your clothes and really see what you’re working with. Your bed or floor will work perfectly. Once you’ve got your workspace set up, it’s time to get started.
Now that your closet is empty, it’s time to sort through your clothing and start making some tough decisions. This can be the most challenging step, but it’s worth it. Sort your clothing into four piles:
• Keep: These are the items you love, wear regularly and fit the season.
• Donate/Sell: These items are still in good condition, but you no longer wear or need them.
• Recycle: These are worn-out, damaged or stained items that aren’t suitable for donation or resale. Instead of just tossing them in the trash, consider repurposing the fabric. They can serve as cleaning rags or possibly be redesigned by a tailor.
• Tailor: These are items that may need a little TLC, but you still love to wear them.
To help you decide which pile an item belongs in, ask yourself the following questions:
• Did I wear this item last spring or not? If you didn’t wear it last year then consider removing it from your wardrobe.
Lauren “L” Mercado is a stylist and owner of Social Style. Follow her on Instagram at @styleby.elle• Does it fit me well? Be honest with yourself here. For example, imagine a tank top with straps that constantly slip off your shoulders. It’s annoying, and you always remember that once you put it on for the day. So get rid of it.
• Is it in good condition, or can it be easily repaired?
• Do I feel confident and comfortable when I wear this?
• If you’re unsure about an item, try it on and see how it makes you feel. Trust your instincts and be honest with yourself about whether you’ll actually wear it again.
• Hang up and organize your closet to make it easy to find coordinating outfits. Hang them up in category order: tops, bottoms, skirts, dresses, then outerwear. I like to organize closets from left to right, starting with crop tops or tank tops, and then as I work to the right I add outerwear. This makes it easy to build grab-and-go outfits.
• Hang items that are prone to wrinkles such as blouses and dresses on hangers. Fold heavier items like jeans and sweaters and store them on shelves or in drawers.
• Arrange your clothes by color and sleeve length to make them visually appealing and simple to locate specific items.
• Check for any missing pieces that complete outfits. Maybe you notice that you need a new cardigan, maxi skirt or pair of jeans.
• Always do a quick “once over” when you’re finished to see if there are any pieces that made it through the edit that maybe shouldn’t have.
Lastly, a step that is missed pretty often is to make sure to wash or dry clean your winter clothes before you store them away for summer. This will prevent odors and make sure your items are fresh and ready for next season.
Closet editing is about creating a functional and stressfree space. Remember that your wardrobe is an everevolving expression of you, so don’t get too attached to the clothing you part with, and think about what new pieces you can bring in to replace them, pieces that represent who you’re blossoming into this spring.
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Brandi Warden, B.S.N., R.N., and partner, William C. Simon, D.O. opened Haus of You last August and the demand for services and client base continues to grow because of its popular menu of medical spa offerings.
Located in east Wichita, Haus of You helps clients reverse visible signs of aging through aesthetics services, including fillers and PDO threads, plus they offer the popular Morpheus8, which is a device that combines microneedling with radiofrequency technology for fractional resurfacing and collagen production. As a certified Biote provider, Haus of You also offers hormone replacement pellet therapy and, exclusively, Pretty Plum vaginal rejuvenation and female incontinence treatments. Other services include laser hair removal, tattoo removal, waxing, facials, brow and lash tint, as well as lash extensions.
Q. How did your career lead you to aesthetics?
A. My early career was in banking and finance underwriting loans. My mother needed long-term care at a very young age, so in 2007, I made a career change to the healthcare industry. Based on my own personal experiences as a medical spa client, I began planning for my business in the field of aesthetics. My experience with injectors showed me that not only did I know very little about what they were putting in my face, but there was little patient education available to those of us using these products. I was not always satisfied with answers provided to questions I had and began to absorb every class, seminar and education offering I could get my hands on. From Las Vegas to Denver to Kansas City, what I learned was amazing! I was hooked. I chose the name “Haus of You” because it really should be all about you, the client. What will make you more confident? A small enhancement? A big one? As women, we feel most confident when we feel we look our best.
A. My favorite part about my work is education, both learning new things and educating my clients and staff. The aesthetics industry is constantly changing and new information unfolds almost daily. The more my clients know about our services and how they can work for them, the more confidence they will have in us as providers. Some of our services offer immediate results, like a 50-yard dash; others are more reminiscent of a marathon and take time to achieve the goals of the client. It’s very important to me that my clients have confidence in our experience and training, and know what to expect from their treatments.
Q. What do you feel is the most amazing service offered at Haus of You?
A. Without question, our most amazing service is our exclusive Pretty Plum treatment. The device is FDA cleared to treat female incontinence, as well as tightening and toning of the vaginal structures and the pelvic floor. It is not a laser but is a radiofrequency device. It’s non-surgical, virtually painless, and the results are nothing short of amazing. There are three separate treatments that make up the Pretty Plum, each targeting specific areas. These treatments have been a complete game-changer for our Pretty Plum clients, who have seen a stark improvement in incontinence, laxity, pelvic floor strength and vaginal wall toning. Women have become accustomed to the havoc that age and childbearing wreak on our bodies as just normal, but it doesn’t have to be that way. There is a better quality of life waiting and it is called the Pretty Plum.
To learn more about Haus of You services, call 316.260.4100. Or visit their website at hausaesthetics.com.
April 30 is National Bubble Tea Day, and with new bubble tea spots popping up across town, now is the perfect time to sample them all and find your favorite! For those who haven’t had the chance to try it, bubble tea, also called boba tea, is a dark-brewed tea with some kind of milk, a sweetener, and the trademark “bubbles” visible in the bottom of the drink. This sweet drink is a popular beverage choice for many, but the origins are a source of mystery. Known around the world as boba tea or pearl milk tea, bubble tea originated in Taiwan in the 1980s. According to the website National Today, there are two Taiwanese shops that claim its origins: Chun Shui Tang tearoom in Taichung, Taiwan, and Hanlin Tea Room in Tainan, Taiwan.
National Today explains that the version created in the Chun Shui Tang tearoom in 1988 was accidentally produced by product development manager Lin Hsui Hui: “While playing with her glass of iced tea during a meeting in 1988, on a whim she dropped some pudding with tapioca balls into her glass of cold tea.” Her coworkers loved her concoction, and it was immediately added to the menu of the tearoom, and was an instant hit with the customers.
In contrast to Lin Hsui Hui’s accidental discovery, the owner of the Hanlin Tea Room, Tu Tsong, created his version of pearl tea with intention in 1986. Tu Tsong garnered inspiration from “white tapioca balls that looked like pearls in the Ya Mu Liao day market.” He added some of the “pearls” to cold tea, resulting in the first pearl tea. Regardless of who can truly claim the origin of this tasty confection, it has certainly placed its stamp on the United States.
For those wondering how to recreate this wonderful combination, the ingredients are relatively accessible. The little bubble-shaped balls in the bottom are made from tapioca, or cassava flour, which is “mixed with boiling water, cut, and rolled into spherical shapes of different sizes,” according to National Today. The bubbles, or bobas, are then added to a basic recipe of your choice of fresh brewed tea, milk, sweetener (honey or sugar) and other flavorings, and of course ice. Recipes are plentiful online for both the bubbles and for the tea proportions and combinations. It would be fun to craft your very own version of bubble tea!
Or, if you would rather leave it to the professionals, there are plenty of excellent options for bubble tea in Wichita. Be sure to find a way to celebrate this fun holiday with a sweet treat!
Boba Zone Inc.
Boss Tea ICT
Dolphin Tea 3570
Feng Cha Wichita Boba Tea
Kung Fu Tea
ICTea
Panda Boba
Joy Tea
Leaf Teahouse
The Teahouse at Clifton Square
Dolphin Tea
Sweet Pops
Mad Boba Gallery
Crafted: Coffee, Tea, Poke
Kimlan Sandwiches
The Bean Scene
Kratomict
Source: nationaltoday.com/national-bubble-tea-day/
The Air Capital Wichita Chapter of Jack and Jill of America gathered to network with members and to recruit new members to the nonprofit group whose goal is to support emerging leaders ages 2-19 in cultural, civic/legislative, social, health and education arenas. With a focus on community service, the group heard from its new community partner, Community Blessed, and its founder and CEO Jeri’ Greer. For more information email acwjjinc@gmail.com or visit their Facebook page.
The brutal Kansas heat is almost here! Get a jump start on building the pool of your dreams or even refreshing your existing pool this season with Wichita Pools.
With over 40 years of combined experience, Wichita Pools has built a reputation for transforming customers’ dreams into reality with innovative designs and cutting-edge construction for new custom residential and commercial gunite and vinyl pools and spas. Serving Wichita and surrounding areas, Wichita Pools is also the premier San Juan Fiberglass pool dealer and installer in the state, providing quicker installation times and extensive design options to suit any budget.
In addition to new pool construction, Wichita Pools offers a wide variety of other pool-related services including new equipment sales, existing pool renovations, ecoFINISH coatings, liner and cover repairs and replacement, seasonal opening and closing services, weekly or bi-weekly pool maintenance cleanings, and leak detection services. Even though pool design is their specialty, the team also creates unique outdoor kitchen areas, pool houses and cabanas to complete your custom backyard oasis.
The owners of Wichita Pools, Danny Lang and Chad Allen, strive to provide a meaningful customer experience, providing customers with the quality service they deserve. “Experience and quality matter,” Danny said. “We are committed to serving our customers with the best possible experience without sacrificing quality by cutting corners.” That promise along with quality craftsmanship has made Wichita Pools a leading contractor and pool builder in Kansas.
Nothing beats relaxing by the pool or taking a nice swim on a hot summer day. Contact Wichita Pools today for your complimentary new project consultation or to inquire about service and maintenance for your existing pool. Be sure to ask about financing options and discounts for military, veterans and first responders. Your backyard oasis is one call away!
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Riding a Harley Davidson motorcycle around Wichita with his two chihuahuas in tow, Jesus Carrasco is one of the few dog owners who understands why dogs feel the urge to stick their heads out of the car window when going for a drive. For the past three years, the 33-year-old Wichita father of two has escorted his helmet-clad brown-on-reddish-brown chihuahuas, Momma, 7, and Butters No. 2, 5, pretty much everywhere on his Harley Sportster Iron 883, inducing smiles and much amusement along the way. His social media sites with the handle @two_chihuahuas89 feature video footage of the two easy-riding dogs in tow. With close to 2 million followers on TikTok — his most-viewed video has 6.4 million likes — and nearly 160,000 followers on Instagram, Carrasco’s pups are both a sensation on social media and in real life, where they turn heads as they run errands and go for joy rides about town.
Carrasco’s virtual “petting zoo” of animals at home includes two more dogs, a cat, and a tortoise. “I’ve always been an animal lover,” the longtime Walser BMW salesman said. “I grew up an only child in a Hispanic family in El Dorado where you either liked animals or you didn’t. We didn’t have pets, so when I was able to be out on my own, I got a few. That’s how I ended up with my chihuahuas.”
It was during the pandemic that Momma and Butters joined Carrasco on the open road. “When Covid happened, everybody was super bored and didn’t know what to do,” he said. “My fiance, Robyn, and I had the dogs with us whenever we were together. We used to take them everywhere in our Jeep. When I got a motorcycle, Robyn said, ’Why don’t you take the dogs with you (on the bike)?’ I thought she was crazy. She bought me a carrying pack for them and we started by putting cheap goggles on them.”
At Robyn’s suggestion, Carrasco purchased a GoPro camera kit and began posting their riding adventure videos on TikTok. After dressing them in novelty helmets modified by Carrasco, their online presence became a viral sensation almost overnight, necessitating the addition of a second site on Instagram.
Visitors frequenting the sites include fans of all ages and pet product manufacturers looking to benefit from the novel footage. A line of merchandise that includes helmets custom designed by Carrasco is currently in the works.
Never did Carrasco imagine his novelty videos would generate such intense interest among viewers. Answering the barrage of questions posed daily on his two sites has become an arduous and time-consuming task. “I’m not really sure how I feel about it,” he said. “Obviously, we’re grateful and excited, I just never thought I would be a dog influencer.”
Carrasco said that commenters often ask how they can get started with motorcycle rides for their dogs. “You have to listen to what your dog is telling you,” he said. “If he’s scared or skittish, obviously that’s not going to be something your pet is going to be comfortable doing. If they do seem to enjoy it, make sure you get a comfortable bag and protect their eyes with a helmet or goggles.”
Modifying the novelty helmets to fit over the dog’s noses took more than a dash of trial and error to accomplish, Carrasco said. The finished products worn by the dogs today required several prototypes to perfect. “A chin strap keeps their noses from coming up,” he said. “At first, I used elastic from an old pair of underwear and hot-glued things together, putting stuffing in and drilling air holes. Later I used different elastics from craft stores and redid them.”
While most comments left on the two social media sites are positive, Carrasco concedes there are visitors who regard the idea of dogs riding shotgun as pure exploitation and cruelty. He dismisses such accusations as outright rubbish. “Honestly, I can’t leave them at home anymore,” he said. “As soon as they see me grabbing my motorcycle helmet or their motorcycle bag, they are excited to go. People ask, ’Why would you do this?’ I don’t force them. They just took to it. I was surprised they weren’t afraid of the motorcycle noise. They’re pretty fearless little animals.”
Of the two, Momma proved the more receptive passenger from the get-go, he said. With Butters No. 2, that matter of trust seemed to take a bit longer to establish. “Momma was always the more outgoing dog,” Carrasco said. “Butters (No. 2) was skittish going in the car at first, but took to the motorcycle with no convincing. Now he’s probably more excited to go on the motorcycle than Momma.”
The riding pair continues to generate smiles and laughter from strangers and familiar faces alike as they make their usual rounds about town to pubs, restaurants, stores, Sedgwick County Park lakes and other destinations. And while such cheerful responses are certainly welcome, Carrasco said they have little to do with why he includes the dogs on rides whenever possible.
“It’s something we would do if the cameras weren’t rolling,” he said. “A lot of times we don’t even film. It’s a lot of fun. That love instinct your pets give you is hard to find. You try to spend as much time with them as possible. This is just a next step for us to spend time together.”
Interim Shocker baseball coach Loren Hibbs hopes small-town values will help him return the program to the big time. Hibbs grew up in Wellington, where his dad was a coach and he was a four-sport star athlete known as “Scooter” prior to playing at Wichita State 1982–84. “When you grow up in a smaller community, you learn a lot of good core values,” Hibbs said. “You learn work ethic, you learn how to deal with people in the community.”
Hibbs took over the program in December after the abrupt resignation of former coach Eric Wedge for what was termed “personal healthrelated reasons.” The Shockers went 21–36 last year and haven’t reached the NCAA tournament since 2013, legendary coach Gene Stephenson’s last year at the helm.
Hibbs served as an assistant coach under Stephenson from 1985–92, then spent 27 years as head coach for the Charlotte 49ers at the University of North Carolina before returning to work under Wedge for two years. Hibbs was the Charlotte program’s all-time winningest coach, with 15 seasons of 30 or more wins and five trips to the NCAA tournament.
For 2023, the Shockers’ best player last year — slugging second baseman Brock Rodden — is back and was named Third Team Preseason All-American by Collegiate Baseball. Seven position players and four pitchers who started also return along with 19 newcomers.
“We’ve got three or four position players who played a lot last year,” Hibbs said. “But we’ve also got some newcomers we think are going to help out.”
Hibbs called this year’s schedule “very, very challenging,” with games against Oklahoma, Oklahoma State, Kansas, Kansas State, Oral Roberts, Long Beach State and UMass on the bill, along with American Athletic Conference foes such as East Carolina, Houston and Central Florida.
“It’s going to be one of the toughest (schedules) in the country,” he said. “But man, we welcome that.”
The first month of that schedule produced mixed results, with the Shockers going 9–7 through mid-March. Opening the season out west, the squad lost all three opening games against a trio of opponents, but bounced back to win two of those series (against Utah Tech and Oakland). Other highlights included a 6–2 home win against Oklahoma — last year’s College World Series runner-up — and a memorable two-way performance by sophomore Payton Tolle, who struck out 10 batters while getting five hits himself in a game against Oakland.
The Shockers’ conference season kicks off in April with road games against Cincinnati and Tulane and home contests against Houston, East Carolina and Memphis. Sandwiched between nonconference games against Kansas, K-State, Oklahoma and Oklahoma State, it’s easily the toughest four weeks they’ll face.
Despite his success in Charlotte, Hibbs said the lure of returning to WSU was too much to pass up. As a player, he set an NCAA record for runs scored in a year that still stands (125 in 1982).
“Even during those 27 years I spent in Charlotte, I was a Shocker. Hopefully the Wichita fanbase can relate to that because I’m a product of the program here.”
His wife, Lisa, who worked as director of athletic academics in Charlotte, has taken a similar job at Friends University. Two of the couple’s grown children stayed in Charlotte while their youngest daughter is working for WSU and “living in our basement for free,” Hibbs noted.
Hibbs, by the way, wouldn’t mind if the “interim” tag was removed from his job title at some point, but said that’s not his primary goal.
“I love doing this. The reality is the focus is really on this year and trying to bring stability to this program. It’s been really about a decade since there’s been stability here.”
“It’s going to be one of the toughest schedules in the country. But man, we welcome that.”
— Loren Hibbs, interim baseball coach
In early February a line snaked down the 500 block of east Douglas — women waiting their turn to experience the grand opening of Hush Intimates. “It was very exciting! Almost half of the store inventory was gone,” says store owner Kayleigh Vestring. “I will be having a huge restock coming.”
Once inside, Wichitans found an upscale environment alongside attentive and supportive customer service. Hush Intimates prides itself on catering to all women, sizes small to 4X, with high-quality yet affordable lingerie sets, bustiers, teddies, garters and more, in addition to loungewear, pajama sets, candles and slippers. In the back of the space, future goddesses find everything they need to create a magical evening, thanks to the nail techs, lash artists and estheticians of Hidden Gem Salon.
As a full-time boudoir photographer and owner of Boudoir by Kayleigh, Vestring was in a position to see an opportunity in the local market for intimate wear. “It is so important for me to make every single woman feel beautiful no matter her size, shape, color, etc. Being a mom of two, I know the struggles of body image issues after having kids.”
At the back of the boutique, swashy lettering surrounded by dramatic dark wood and hanging Edison light bulbs proclaims, “Embrace Your Sexy.” It’s an affirmation that Vestring brings to customer service every day in both of her businesses.
“I have fallen in love with showing women they are beautiful just the way they are!” says Vestring. “The confidence on a woman’s face after she leaves the store or a session with me is unmatched.”
For more information on Hush Intimates find them on Facebook @HushIntimates or Instagram @HushIntimatesBoutique. To book boudoir photography with Kayleigh Vestring go to boudoirbykayleigh.com.
Whether you’re a serious golfer working on your game, or want to check out a high-tech game of Angry Birds with golf clubs, or just enjoy a hand-crafted meal and a sports game in front of an 11-by-26-foot screen, Topgolf has something for everyone. The international company brought their unique brand of sportsinspired entertainment to the area of K-96 and Greenwich at the end of last year.
“We are thrilled with the response from the community so far with Topgolf opening in Wichita,” says Steven Schulte, director of operations. “The feedback from players has been great.” He explains that players can choose from 12 different golf-inspired games catering to all skill levels, plus virtual golf courses, all made possible by Toptracer driving-range technology that shows realtime ball flight and data. Smashing targets during games like Angry Birds is a favorite among both children and adults.
Topgolf features 52 climate-controlled outdoor hitting bays, a nine-hole miniature golf course, an outdoor patio, family-friendly programs, plus a full-service restaurant and bar, and private event rooms. “We say that Topgolf is golf, but not golf,” says Schulte, “meaning that whether you are an avid player or someone who picked up a club here for their first time, you’re going to have fun!”
Even if you can’t “be the ball,” you can certainly have a ball at Topgolf.
For more information or to plan your visit, go to topgolf.com.
Many holidays are rooted in the changing of the seasons. Some are secular while others are steeped in religious tradition or faith-focused. Centuries ago in Ireland, Easter marked the beginning of spring. In the past and present, Christianity invites celebrations of the Easter season, calling to mind with reflection and renewal, the Resurrection. Regardless of its origins, preparing our homes and hosting gatherings seems to be an enduring source of joy and tradition.
Easily designed wreaths welcome family and friends to our homes and our gatherings. Wooden trays create beautiful centerpieces or tablescapes. Round, multi-tier trays or large rectangular ones serve as decoration limited only by imagination. Glass or white porcelain dishes or mason jars can be filled with various Easter candies: chocolatedipped almonds, robin’s eggs, jellybeans and white coated pretzels make beautiful displays. The jars can also be filled with flowers, branches or grasses to add a natural element, while candles lend a warm, inviting aspect to the table.
Materials: One wire wreath, two rolls of mesh, two rolls of ribbon, a package of chenille stems (pipe cleaners) and a pair of scissors. Choose a combination of vibrant and pastel spring colors.
Prepare materials: Cut up all of the mesh into 5–6 inch pieces. This is to have enough to cover the wreath. Cut ribbon into 6-inch strips. Dovetail or slant the ends of the ribbon. A combination of cuts can look cool as well. Once cutting is accomplished, assembly can begin. Create bundles consisting of three strips of mesh, one or two strips of ribbon and one chenille stem. The bundles can be identical or have unique combinations of color.
Roll a single mesh strip at a time. Pinch the middle to hold the roll in place while rolling the others. Then roll two more. One will be straight up and down, the other two will be at opposing 45-degree angles and together resemble the letter “v.” Remember to hold each roll in place by pinching the middle.
Now, add the ribbon. When using one ribbon, align it with the vertical mesh strip. If you’re using two, cross them like a lowercase letter “t.” To complete the bundle, secure mesh and ribbon with three twists of a chenille stem, ending up on the back side of the bundle.
Repeat this process until there are enough bundles to completely fill the sphere. In total, 40–45 bundles will complete a wreath. Begin attaching the bundles to the wreath. Cross each stem three times to secure the bundle to the wire circle. Now, push that bundle to the top of the section to make room for the others. Repeat this process until you have reached a desired fullness. Finally, scrunch and fluff the mesh, shaping the pieces however you like. This step also hides any flaws. Make sure all chenille stems are tucked toward the back and out of view. Trim any loose threads or strings.
Mason jars boast endless uses and decorative possibilities. They can be enhanced quickly by a coat of chalk paint, slightly sanded to appear vintage or distressed, and detailed easily with twine or ribbon around the mouth of the jar. Sea glass paint gives the inspiring impression of sea glass and creates an elegant look and a beautiful contrast to the wood of the tray.
Hard boil two dozen eggs. Allow to cool completely. Place the eggs in a bowl and pour vinegar over them. Allow the eggs to soak in the vinegar for 5–10 minutes. Carefully dry the eggs with a paper towel. Set aside. Fill the wells of a standard muffin tin with whipped cream and add drops of food coloring to the whipped cream. Using a knife, carefully swirl the food coloring into the whipped cream. Add one egg to each well and roll the egg in the whipped cream to coat. Allow the egg to sit in the whipped cream for 5–10 minutes.
Remove the egg from the whipped cream and wipe clean with a paper towel. Alternatively, you can rinse under cold water and pat dry. Use to decorate or enjoy as a snack.
20 oz. pineapple (mini) chunks
15 oz. Mandarin oranges
12 oz. jar of maraschino cherries
¾ cup of vanilla Greek yogurt
1 cup coconut (optional)
1 cup mini marshmallows
8 oz. container of extra creamy Cool Whip (thawed)
½ cup chopped pecans (optional)
Drain the Mandarin oranges, pineapple, and maraschino cherries and mix together in a bowl. Add vanilla Greek yogurt, coconut and mini marshmallows. Mix well. Fold in whipped topping with a spatula. Cover and place ambrosia salad in the refrigerator for at least one hour prior to serving. If topping with pecans, sprinkle them on top just before serving.
At Sierra Pacific Mortgage Company, not only are we one of the nation’s largest private lenders, but we are also exclusively focused on mortgage lending. As local loan officers with over 20 years of experience, we have several helpful tips for homebuyers going into the spring season. These tips will apply to anyone looking to buy real estate in the next six months to a year.
An early prequalification will allow you to do any credit cleanup or repairs. Your lender can also recommend paying down debt if that would help increase your scores. The higher your credit score is, the better the loan terms will be.
As a buyer, it is very important to work with a local Realtor that you trust. They will show you homes and help you submit any offers, and give expert advice to help you make your offer stand out in a competitive environment. Also, if you are selling a house first before buying the next home, they’ll help you coordinate both transactions, resulting in a smoother moving process.
Your lender can run several price points and down payment options. You should review these before you even start looking for homes, so that you can be sure you’re in a price range you’re comfortable with
If you must carry a balance on your credit cards, aim to keep revolving debt below 30 percent of your total credit limit.
Most loans require a minimum down payment of 3 to 5 percent. However, underwriters like to see that homebuyers have money in savings left over after the purchase, in case of an emergency.
Some options here are savings, 401(k), gifts from relatives, or sale of an asset. Sierra Pacific Mortgage currently offers three down payment assistance programs and can determine qualifications and benefits for each borrower on a case-by-case basis.
The local real estate market is still very competitive. Getting prequalified up front will help you understand your financing options and prepare you for a successful real estate purchase. If you have any questions or would like to see loan options for yourself, please reach out to Lauren Brown, NMLS #454673, or Michelle Post, NMLS #251542, at Sierra Pacific Mortgage.
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• Post-surgical rehabilitation
• Sports rehabilitation
• Orthopedic rehabilitation for: shoulders, elbows, wrists, hands, hips, knees, ankles, feet, back, neck, & pain.