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Pages 22-25 Meet the Hevelone Family: Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance
• Page 27 A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words! Celebrating Global Developmental Delays Day
Pge 29 Chapters of Change: “And We’re Testing Your Son for Down Syndrome” By Kathy Woodard Jutte
• Paes 30-31 Professional Expert Spotlight: J.D. Angels Family Care, LLC
• Page 32 Sensory Blurb! Freeloader Child Carrier
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Meet KADEPatterson
Born from a Dream: The Nest Where Healing and Hope Take Flight
BY KADE PATTERSON, CO-FOUNDER AND PRESIDENT, THE NEST CO-OP INC. 501(C)(3)
MY NAME IS KADE PATTERSON.
I’m a disabled Army veteran, recreational therapist, founder of Get Rec’d, and co-founder and president of The Nest Co-op Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. My story—and the story of The Nest—didn’t begin in a boardroom or during a strategy meeting. It began with brokenness, resilience and, eventually, a dream that woke me in the middle of the night.
Years ago, I suffered a catastrophic injury that changed my life forever. During my time in rehabilitation, I met a recreational therapist—but to be honest, I wasn’t impressed with the care I received. Her approach felt generic and impersonal, consisting of art projects that didn’t reflect who I was or what I truly needed as a brand-new wheelchair user. There was no connection, no customization and no dignity in the experience. I left that program determined to never let someone feel that unseen or misunderstood again. Everything changed when I attended a healing retreat for disabled veterans in Sun Valley, Idaho, hosted by Higher Ground. That’s where I discovered adaptive sports and met a recreational therapist named Bert Gillette. Bert didn’t just introduce me to recreational therapy—he redefined it. He didn’t see
me as a diagnosis or a limitation. He saw potential. That moment planted a seed that would eventually grow into Get Rec’d and, later, The Nest.
When I returned from that retreat, I became determined to figure out how to become a recreational therapist. It took time to even discover the correct term—”recreational therapy”—but once I found it, there was no turning back.
After working with another organization in community-based care for a year, I launched Get Rec’d. I had a vision: to revolutionize how we support individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities through tailored, meaningful therapy. More than anything, I wanted to create a work environment where staff felt seen, heard and appreciated.
At first, it was just me. Then I hired my first employee, Erin Eaton. Right away, I knew she was special. We worked seamlessly together. She brought structure, organization and a quiet fire to our growing business that perfectly complemented my own creative and passionate drive. Within the first year,
Erin became my business partner. She now owns 20% of Get Rec’d, and together we’ve grown the company to employ 30 dedicated professionals across Indiana, offering recreational and music therapy to those who need it most.
BUT WE BOTH KNEW WE WERE CALLED TO DO MORE.
One night, I woke up from a vivid dream. In it, I saw a place—a sanctuary—where individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities and disabled veterans could live, work and thrive together. Not a facility. Not a program. A community. I got out of bed and began writing down everything I saw in that dream. That was the beginning of The Nest Co-op Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. I shared the vision with Erin, and she immediately jumped in—not just with encouragement, but with action. As co-founder and vice president of The Nest, Erin is instrumental in bringing our vision to life. She holds a dual major in recreational therapy and philanthropy and nonprofit
management, along with a minor in animal-assisted interventions. With nearly a decade of hands-on experience in recreational therapy and a natural gift for connecting with the community through social media, fundraising and storytelling, Erin ensures our mission doesn’t just live in our hearts—it reaches the hearts of others.
Erin’s focus is on building additional programs, securing grant funding and ensuring the hard work of our team is amplified. She keeps us grounded while helping us dream bigger. Her heart is in every part of this project.
Together, we are leading The Nest with the belief that everyone deserves to belong.
The Nest will be a permanent, thriving community built on more than 80 acres of land—where individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities and disabled veterans can access housing, employment, recreational and music therapy, and meaningful connection.
We envision 70 mini homes—tiny but dignified, functional and, most importantly, accessible. Of those, 50 will serve individuals with ID/DD, and 10 will house disabled veterans. At least half of the homes will be wheelchair accessible. This isn’t just about roofs over heads— it’s about creating real lives, real jobs and real independence.
WE PLAN TO CREATE COMMUNITY SPACES THAT NOURISH BOTH BODY AND SOUL. IMAGINE A VIBRANT TOWN SQUARE THAT INCLUDES:
• A community cafeteria where residents can dine together
• A coffee shop and bakery operated by residents, offering dignified employment and a place for connection
• An art and music studio for expression and therapy
• An education center, library and computer room to support learning and digital inclusion
• A fully equipped fitness center with adaptive equipment for inclusive health and movement
• Equine therapy facilities and organic farming areas will offer opportunities for physical healing, responsibility and access to fresh, healthy food
Through these resources, The Nest will create over 50 jobs for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities—from the bakery to the gym to the farm. These aren’t token jobs. These are dignified, meaningful roles that build skills, confidence and community. The entire campus will be fully wheelchair accessible, because accessibility isn’t a bonus—it’s the baseline.
As a disabled veteran, I know what it feels like to be forgotten. And as a recreational therapist, I’ve seen that same look in the eyes of so many clients with intellectual and developmental disabilities. The Nest is our answer to that. It’s a loud and loving declaration that you are not forgotten.
The need in Indiana is staggering. Over 100,000 Hoosiers rely on Medicaid Waiver programs like the Family Supports Waiver (FSW) and the Community Integration and Habilitation (CIH) Waiver. Yet, housing options for higher-functioning individuals who still require support are severely lacking. There are virtually no communities that combine affordable housing with employment and recreation for this population— or for disabled veterans seeking independence. The Nest fills that gap.
But it won’t happen overnight. This dream requires meticulous planning, tireless community outreach and significant funding.
OUR GOALS ARE CLEAR:
• Secure the land: 80+ acres of hope
• Build 70 mini houses: Designed through Incredible Tiny Homes, each unit (with solar energy systems) costs $44,200. Our total housing budget: $3,094,000
• Create the community: Repurpose existing buildings, construct new ones and fill them with life, learning and laughter
In addition, The Nest will:
• Provide housing for 50 individuals with ID/DD
• Provide housing for 10 disabled veterans
• Create employment for 50+ residents
• Launch adaptive sports programs (including Special Olympics and Paralympic initiatives)
• Develop sustainable agriculture and green living models to reduce our carbon footprint
At its core, The Nest is about more than services. It’s about belonging. It’s about waking up each day and knowing you’re a part of something. That someone expects you. That you have a purpose.
Over the past decade, I’ve had the honor of being named Recreational Therapist of the Year by our national certifying body, awarded the Frank Basile Clinician of the Year through NCTRC 2022, Entrepreneur of the Year by a national CEU organization, and most recently, Recreational Therapy Entrepreneur of the Year for 2025 by the Smart CEU Hub. I’ve also been nominated for the 2025 Veteran Entrepreneur of the Year. But all of that pales in comparison to seeing one individual regain their voice, their autonomy or their joy through our work. That’s what matters most.
I’m also proud to share another way I stay connected and empowered as a disabled veteran—I play on the Indy Steel Sled Hockey Team as a left defenseman. Get Rec’d is a financial sponsor of the team. We pay for every disabled veteran’s hotel stay for travel tournaments, purchased jerseys for the entire youth and adult team, and covered half the hotel costs for every player to attend the national
championships this year in Florida. It’s another way we ensure veterans are seen, valued and supported in doing what they love.
I’m not doing this alone. Erin Eaton is with me every step of the way. Her leadership, empathy and sharp vision keep us moving forward when the road feels impossible. Together, we dream of reaching 100,000 people through the programs and opportunities we plan to launch at The Nest—and we believe we can do it.
We’re building more than a nonprofit. We’re building a future. A future where no one is too different to belong. Where veterans are honored, not hidden. Where individuals with disabilities are celebrated, not sidelined.
So to our community, our donors, our future partners: we invite you into this dream. Let’s make a world where healing, purpose and joy don’t just visit—but take root.
LET’S BUILD THE NEST.
If you have any questions, ideas or feel called to support this mission, you can reach me at kade@getrecd. care and Erin at erin@getrecd.care We’re always open to collaborations, partnerships and the wisdom of others who believe in this work.
Thank you for believing with us.
- Michelle
A Joy-Filled Inclusive Fun Day with Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum
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Date: Sunday, April 13th
Location: We Rock the Spectrum
Kid’s Gym – Carmel, IN
Hosted by: Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum
On a bright Sunday afternoon, the spirit of community, connection, and inclusion came alive at We Rock the Spectrum Kid’s Gym in Carmel, where Uniquely You teamed up with the gym to host an Inclusive Fun Day —a celebration of every child’s uniqueness and a day devoted to purposeful play.
From the moment families walked through the doors, there was a shared sense of excitement, belonging, and joy. Children of all abilities eagerly bounced from trampolines to crash pits, zipped through the air on zip lines, and enjoyed the calming spaces of sensory rooms—all designed with care to meet the diverse needs of neurodivergent and neurotypical children alike.
The facility, part of a global franchise, is a shining example of what’s possible when spaces are created with inclusivity at the core.
We Rock the Spectrum offers a sensory-safe environment filled with specialized equipment like climbing walls, swings, and tunnels—each one intentionally chosen to support development in motor skills, strength, social interaction, and sensory integration.
Beyond the physical play, the heart of the event was in the connections formed among families. Parents and caregivers had the opportunity to share stories, encouragement, and laughter, knowing they were in a judgmentfree zone where every child could be
Beyond the physical play, the heart of the event was in the connections formed among families.
themselves. It was a beautiful reflection of Uniquely You’s mission—to connect, celebrate, and impact the special needs and disability community in meaningful ways.
In addition to the open play, the event served as an inspiring introduction for many families to the broader range of services offered by We Rock the Spectrum, including therapy support, inclusive classes, birthday parties, and sensory-safe camps. Their commitment to creating a welcoming and accepting space for all children, regardless of ability, aligns perfectly with the work Uniquely You continues to do in the community through storytelling and celebration.
As the laughter and playful energy filled the gym, it was clear that this was more than just an afternoon event—it was a reminder of the power of inclusion, and a celebration of each child’s unique strengths, abilities, and joy.
We’re incredibly grateful to every family who joined us and to our wonderful hosts at We Rock the Spectrum – Carmel for making this day so special.
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Black Autism Support Society
BY ANGIE ARLINGTON
BASS (pronounced like BASE as in music), is a 501c3 tax exempt resource support agency that addresses the intersection of race and autism. Support is addressed through four pillars: Social Justice, Individual/Family, Education, and Spirituality.
“Our mission is to address support gaps and challenge the narrative in supporting autism in the black community. Our vision is to provide individuals and families in the black community as well as those who serve them the tools and connections needed to increase quality of life,” Founder Kimacka Randle explains.
“Autism diagnosis is delayed 2-3 years in brown and black communities. This delay is due to the following factors: disparities in healthcare, stigma in the black community, and lack of parent education. Currently we are continuing to raise awareness, build community, and normalize autism in black spaces. By doing so, we help to improve outcomes. Our annual Autism Family Fun Day and Community Healing Circles help
to create community, combat the stigma, and connect families to resources. Our partnerships with other organizations to host parent training sessions also help to improve parent advocacy and overall outcomes.
Social Justice:
BASS supports research studies that examine the intersectionality of race and autism. We also work with local social justice organizations to engage first responders and ensure they are better equipped to deal with individuals living with autism.
Individual/Family:
We also hold Community Healing Circles for caregivers. The circles run approximately 10 weeks and provide a space where caregivers can process their experience caring for someone with autism and how that has impacted their emotional, mental, financial, physical, and spiritual wellbeing. Circles
Katie and Iris
help us heal, release our grief, and embrace the journey while reconnecting with the core of who we are outside of autism. BASS holds an annual family fun day every year where we connect families with one another as well as with community resources. The family day is designed to normalize what it means to have autism in the black community while providing parents access to resources they may not know are available.
Education:
We also partner with other organizations such as SpedActs and TIIBA to host events and offer parent education. We have also partnered with educational institutions to host formal parent Individual Education Plan training sessions to ensure parents are well equipped to advocate for their children in educational settings.
Spirituality:
We work with faith-based communities to increase autism awareness in predominately black churches to ensure
families are included and to secure the overall health of the black church. Our founder has also been a guest lecturer/ presenter at a local seminary, addressing current and future clergy, ensuring they are aware of the importance of including neurodivergent congregants in the worship experience and sharing more helpful ways healing can be shared during the sermonic moment.
Supporting BASS:
“I can be contacted directly at krandle@blackautismsupport. com. You can also visit our website at www. blackautismsupport.com to sign up as a volunteer or for donation information. We are currently accepting sponsors and partners for our Autism Family Fun Day to be held in August.”
HEVELONE Family
Meet the Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance
BY CHRISTINA MCGAIRK: EDITOR-IN-CHIEF • PHOTOS BY MAGDALENE A.R. MASTIN
In recent years, there has been growing awareness of neurodevelopmental disabilities, shedding light on many lesser-known profiles. One such profile is Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), a behavioral profile, often considered within the autism spectrum that can be difficult to grasp, both for those diagnosed and for those interacting with them. According to PDA North America, PDA individuals
experience an intense resistance to delay everyday demands and expectations, even those that may seem routine or enjoyable. Despite gaining more recognition, PDA continues to be underdiagnosed and misunderstood.
Ruth Hevelone, Director of Strategic Growth & Marketing for PDA North America, is a late-diagnosed AuDHD mom of 2 twin boys, age 5, who are both PDA and autistic.
“Parenting through the lens of caring for a disabled nervous system is no small feat,” said Hevelone. “It takes more patience than you can even consider, the most mental gymnastics you can imagine, and as my friend Zach Morris says, it’s LEGENDARY level parenting.”
Recognizing the signs of PDA can be difficult, but involves behaviors such as:
• Extreme resistance to everyday demands like eating, drinking, getting dressed, and sleeping.
• Use of social strategies such as distraction and negotiation.
• Sudden mood swings ranging from hyper-vigilance to intensity of emotions.
• A strong anxiety driven need to control their environment, which can lead to struggles with sticking to a routine or schedule.
Diane Gould, Founder and Executive Director of PDA North America and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, believes that PDA behaviors are misunderstood.
“PDA at its core is both a nervous system disability and an invisible one, said Gould. “This isn’t defiance or manipulation, but a survival-based reaction. Understanding this is crucial for offering the right kind of support.”
Although there is no universal approach, certain strategies have proven effective for PDA individuals. The key lies in recognizing and adjusting to their specific needs.
Ruth Hevelone and her family
“There are many different coping strategies for supporting PDA people but one of the biggest ones is reducing perceived demands through collaboration and autonomy.” said Hevelone. “This is a strategy to helps lower their stress and anxiety levels.”
According to Hevelone, conventional parenting, teaching, or behavioral strategies (like rewards/punishments) usually don’t work—and can even backfire. “Telling a PDA child “no” or giving them a direct demand will only increase their anxiety and lead to more behaviors. Many PDA people are master negotiators - and we see that as a strength, not a weakness. Most PDAers use negotiation as a coping strategy in order to comply. Some PDAers escape into role-play to lower their anxiety. Engaging in roleplay or adopting a different persona can make tasks feel less demanding, providing a psychological buffer.”
PDA awareness is vital to ensure that individuals with this disability receive the support they need. “There needs to be better diagnostic tools for assessing PDA,” said Hevelove. “More research on PDA so we can get more providers & educators on board to supporting
this population in ways that doesn’t increase their stress/behaviors.” Gould, who is late-diagnosed autistic herself, is concerned about how PDA minorities are misunderstood.
“PDA children with disabilities, Black and Brown children especially, are disproportionately affected by exclusionary discipline like restraint, seclusion, or suspension,” said Gould, “this is very unfortunate.”
In the effort to increase awareness, Hevelove urges more schools and workplaces take a compassionate, informed approach. “By embracing flexibility, understanding, and inclusion, society can create an environment where PDA people and their families feel supported and empowered, not ashamed and judged.”
As our understanding of neurodiversity increases, it’s important that we acknowledge and support the distinct challenges faced by PDA individuals. Through increased awareness and implementing personalized strategies, we can support PDA individuals live fulfilling and successful lives.
Pathological Demand Avoidance may be a complex condition, but the key is to raise awareness to provide better
support for PDA individuals. This includes educating school staff and professionals such as social workers and therapists, and PDA North America does just that.
Hevelone also stresses the importance of caregivers finding community. “Community is everything. Parenting through a PDA lens can be really transformative for your child, but can also be extremely lonely as it goes against everything you’ve likely ever been taught about how to parent and we are often harshly judged.” She suggested finding PDA Facebook groups and PDA affirming providers who can support caregivers and their families. PDA North America also offers peer support groups, weekly webinars, tons of free resources and trainings about every aspect of PDA.
To learn more about Pathological Demand Avoidance, visit https:// pdanorthamerica.org. Diane Gould has also published a book with Ruth Fidler entitled “Navigating PDA in America.”
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This is Jackson celebrating the National Angelman Syndrome Walk day in May. They told us when he was diagnosed he would not walk. Well, he proved them wrong!
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CP doesn’t keep me from celebrating Junior prom with my family and friends! Fragile X Awareness and Cerebral Palsy Awareness
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Feelin’ Fine, the newest fashion boutique in downtown Indianapolis is now open!
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“And We’re Testing Your Son for Down Syndrome”
By
Kathy Woodard Jutte
The Journey from Diagnosis to Living Joyfully: A Mother’s Memoir
BY DEBRA BADER
One falls in love with the focus of this beautiful story on the very first page. A “Gift of God” is in a photograph revealing his handsomely formed face with a pleasant smile. The birth of a baby brings on quite an array of emotions for its mommy. For this mommy, God had already started preparing her for motherhood of her son with Down syndrome through her experience of teaching students with special needs. Mom, turned author, takes us on her roller coaster ride of emotions from the time her son, Matt, is born until his demise.
Jutte begins by explaining the daily challenges that come with the birth of her infant with Down syndrome. Even though this was her second child, it was her first born with special needs.
Therefore, there would be sacrifices ahead for the family. As any parent of a child with developmental disabilities can attest, the role comes with another seemingly full time job. Not only are the parents trying to keep their own careers and health in balance, there are a variety of medical and therapeutic appointments prescribed or recommended for their infant. Then, there is the ongoing discernment of these specialists. “You want to make sure what they are saying is really true” Says Jutte.
The author does an excellent job of giving the reader information and cites resources about Down syndrome throughout the story. Here are just a couple of examples:
“Research has shown that sign language is beneficial to babies, especially children with Down syndrome.”
Throughout this oscillating narrative, the author provides testimonies of how her family’s faith and rituals helped them stay positive. With the help of good friends and family, Matt prepared for and received his sacraments of first communion and confirmation just like the rest of his Catholic family. (Catholics are baptized soon after birth.) Their faith helped them know Matt was truly a “Gift of God.”
“Down syndrome leaves people with an increased risk of some medical conditions. These conditions include congenital heart defects, respiratory issues, hearing problems, Alzheimer’s disease, leukemia and thyroid disorders…..”
“And We’re Testing Your Son for Down Syndrome” The Journey from Diagnosis to Living Joyfully: A Mother’s Memoir is a wonderful short story that anyone who knows someone with Down syndrome would surely enjoy. Parents of a child with Down syndrome will especially savor it. In reality, any family with a child with special needs would benefit from reading about the struggles and sweet times of the Jutte family. Kathy Jutte gives us a gift by sharing so much of her heart and her son.
This book was given to me to read by my good friend, Shirley Ketron. She is also a good friend of the author Kathy Jutte. Shirley is the mother of Tori who is a part of Matt’s story. Tori and my daughter have participated in Special Olympics together for over a decade. Therefore, we had often heard little tales of Matt Jutte. Being somewhat aware of Matt’s spirit from witnessing the sparkle in Tori’s eyes when Matt was mentioned in casual conversation, I was more than eager to read his story. It did not disappoint!
An autographed copy can be acquired by emailing the author, Kathy Jutte at: teachjutte@hotmail.com
J.D. Angels Family Care, LLC
J.D. Angels Family Care is a dedicated and compassionate presence in the field of disability and special needs care. A key leader at J.D. Angels Family Care has drawn on extensive medical experience to help create a supportive environment for individuals with intellectual disabilities. The organization’s journey, marked by a strong commitment to care, has transformed the lives of its clients and made a lasting impact on the broader community.
A Legacy Rooted in Compassion
The professional journey of J.D. Angels Family Care is closely tied to its core values. With years of experience in the medical field, the founders recognized a pressing need for quality care tailored to individuals with intellectual disabilities. That realization led to the founding of J.D. Angels Family Care, which offers luxury housing and essential resources to its clients. Under the organization’s leadership, J.D. Angels Family Care has flourished and become known for excellence in care.
Engagement with the Disability and Special Needs Community
Our involvement with the disability and special needs community is both meaningful and hands-on. We have spent years dedicated to this work, ensuring
that J.D. Angels Family Care not only meets but exceeds the expectations of its clients. The organization’s role as a Medicaid provider highlights its mission to offer luxury housing along with essential resources, delivering holistic care that supports both the physical and emotional well-being of those it serves.
Inspirations Drawn from Service
J.D. Angels Family Care has a longstanding, hands-on commitment to the disability and special needs community. With years of dedicated service, the organization strives to exceed client expectations. As a Medicaid provider, J.D. Angels Family Care offers luxury housing and essential resources, delivering holistic care that supports both the physical and emotional well-being of its clients.
Guiding Principles for Care Providers
The care philosophy at J.D. Angels Family Care is rooted in a strengths-based approach. The team encourages fellow caregivers to focus not on an individual’s disabilities, but on their well-being, abilities, living conditions and mental
health. With an emphasis on community integration, the organization promotes helping clients build friendships and connect with others who can positively impact their lives. This approach fosters a sense of belonging and improves the overall quality of life for those in its care.
Cherished Memories and Milestones
Throughout its tenure, J.D. Angels Family Care has built a collection of meaningful memories. The team takes great pride in witnessing positive changes in clients’ mental health, personal appearance and overall well-being. Seeing individuals accept their disabilities, gain confidence and celebrate their achievements is a testament to the transformative power of compassionate care.
Stories of Transformation
J.D. Angels Family Care proudly reflects on the remarkable journeys of its clients. From early challenges to thriving in their daily lives, clients have participated in a wide range of activities under the organization’s guidance. Experiences such as horseback riding, dining out, bowling,
school, riding pedal boats and making new friends are just a few examples. These stories underscore the organization’s commitment to providing a holistic and enriching life for those in its care.
Overcoming Challenges in Care
The path hasn’t always been smooth. We acknowledge challenges such as low selfesteem and confidence among clients due to their disabilities, making adaptation to new programs and lifestyles daunting. Additionally, there were instances where the lack of appreciation posed emotional hurdles. However, by recognizing the inherent difficulties individuals face in adapting to change, our team has developed strategies to support and uplift their clients, ensuring they feel valued and understood.
Family: The Pillar of Strength
Our endeavors are deeply rooted in family values. We as a family have collectively addressed the need for generational wealth by leveraging each member’s expertise to make a lasting
impact on our children. Together, we are building empires and reshaping the economy for the benefit of our children and the broader community. This familial approach ensures that the legacy of care, compassion, and community support continues to flourish.
Community Impact and Support
Under our stewardship, J.D. Angels Family Care has significantly impacted the community. By providing housing for individuals with intellectual disabilities and offering resources that enhance their well-being, social skills, and daily living abilities, the organization empowers clients to lead more independent and fulfilling lives. This empowerment not only benefits the individuals but also enriches the community by fostering inclusivity and understanding.
A Vision for the Future
We envision a future where individuals with disabilities are seamlessly integrated into the community, leading lives filled with dignity and purpose. We are committed to expanding the services of J.D. Angels Family Care, continually adapting to the evolving needs of their clients. By fostering partnerships, advocating for policy changes, and promoting awareness, our team aims to
create a society where every individual, regardless of their abilities, has the opportunity to thrive.
Conclusion
Our journey with J.D. Angels Family Care is a testament to the profound impact that dedicated care and genuine compassion can have on individuals with disabilities. Our holistic approach, rooted in family values and community support, has transformed countless lives and set a benchmark in the field of disability care. Through challenges and triumphs, our unwavering commitment continues to inspire and pave the way for a more inclusive and supportive society, community, leading lives filled with dignity and purpose. We are committed to expanding the services of J.D. Angels Family Care, continually adapting to the evolving needs of their clients. By fostering partnerships, advocating for policy changes, and promoting awareness, our team aims to create a society where every individual, regardless of their abilities, has the opportunity to thrive.
FREELOADER CHILD CARRIER
Because no two people are alike, and neither are their needs.
Not everyone processes their surroundings the same way. This can cause overwhelming situations for some individuals. Our team at Specialized Home Care Services is here to help you find the right solutions.
The air you breathe within your home can have a great impact on your overall health. Indoor pollutants and air particles can have an influence on the condition of your lungs and respiratory function. Adding an air purifier to your home can reduce the particles and improve the air quality. Although air purifiers don’t necessarily remove all particles from your residence, they can reduce the amount of potential allergens and harmful particles in the air. The biggest benefit of this is creating a cleaner environment and improving your respiratory health.
Contact us today
Our team at Specialized Home Care Services carries a great selection of air purification systems.
(888) 506-4182 | specialized4u.com 621 N Central Ave, Connersville, IN 47331 specializedhomecareservices@gmail.com.
“Ditch the wheelchair. Leave the leg braces behind.” Heart and health conditions don’t have to stop the adventure when you can carry your child safely & comfortably on your back.
The Freeloader holds between 25 & 80 pounds, so you can invite your toddler or child to see and go farther in the world.
The Freeloader Child Carrier can be covered through Indiana waiver programs including the Family Support Waiver and the Community Integration Waiver (CIH). This item can be great for community outings where wheelchairs may not be easily accommodated. If you have a child who could benefit from this carrier, please let us know if we can assist!
Ruth Roberts
Outreach
Specialist
Phone - 317-348-0708
Email – ruth@ specialized4u.com
Text – 317-506-3143
Spelling to Communicate is an innovative method of communication that starts with presuming in the cognitive competence of non, minimal and unreliably speaking individuals. It is believed that all individuals can and want to learn and communicate despite their perceived limitations. S2C empowers said individuals to overcome communication barriers through the motor movement of pointing to letters on a letter board and thus promoting synchrony between cognitive and motor systems. It is through the repeated practice (pointing to letters) that new neural pathways become formed and myelinated. The end result being a viable means of communication and the ability to show the world their cognitive prowess.
Local Events
BY CHRISTIA WOODFORD
Note: Don’t forget to apply for the Access Pass! The Access Pass Program allows families that meet the specific requirements listed below, to visit The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis and all participating locations for $5 per family member per visit for up to two adults and all dependent youths living in the household. You qualify if you receive:
• Hoosier Healthwise Insurance (Indiana’s health care program for low-income families, pregnant women and children)
• SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program)
• TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)
• Apply here: https://www. childrensmuseum.org/visit/ hours/access-pass.
MUSEUMS
The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Museum My Way An adaptive museum experience July 15, Oct. 14, Dec. 9, This special event is an opportunity for visitors with disabilities and/or sensory sensitivities to experience the museum in a new way. Families and groups of all abilities are welcome to play and learn together!
• Limited capacity
• Quiet area with sensory items.
• Some music is turned down or off.
Edited lighting effects in some areas. Tickets go on sale 6 weeks before events. https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ museum-my-way
First Thursday Night- First Thursday every month
June 5, 4:00 pm
On the first Thursday of every month, we open our doors from 4–8 p.m. for just $6 admission per person! Why should you visit?
• Admission is just $6 per person for the entire museum. That’s a savings of more than 75% per ticket!
• It’s the ONLY time the museum is open to the public in the evening, so it’s a perfect after-hours night for your family.
• It’s not as crowded as you might think! We have limited capacity on First Thursday Nights.
• Parking is always free!
• Our Food Court is open, so you can grab a quick and easy dinner for the whole family. Low cost. Low crowds. Late night play! https://www.childrensmuseum. org/visit/calendar/event/273 Various Events
June 1 through June 30, Opens at 10 AM 3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, 317-334-4000 https://www.childrensmuseum.org
Conner Prairie — Indiana’s Living History Museum
Sensory-Friendly Hours
The second Sunday of every month, from 10 AM to noon, are sensoryfriendly hours at Conner Prairie! Enjoy a calm environment.
Check-in with Guest Relations, stating that you are here for sensory-friendly hours. You will get free admission and may stay as long as you wish.
Various events
June 1 through June 30, 10:00 am- 10:00 pm
13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers, IN 46038. Phone: 317-776-6000 or 800966-1836 https://www.connerprairie.org/ events/list
Indiana State Museum
Sensory Friendly Afternoon
June 15, 3:00 pm- 6:00 pm
650 W. Washington St., Indianapolis, IN 46204
Experience the Indiana State Museum in a sensory-friendly way! Each month, we’ll lower the lights and reduce distractions to give children and adults with sensory processing differences a chance to enjoy an interactive learning experience in a comfortable and accepting environment. Social narratives will be available at the ticket counter and sensory–based activities will be spaced throughout the museum. Plus, check out a Sensory Bag to make your experience even more
enjoyable. Check calendar for dates https://www.indianamuseum.org/ calendar/
Various events
June 1 through June 30, check website for events and times. https://www.indianamuseum.org/ calendar/
FAMILY FUN
Tangram Social Clubs
5155 Pennwood Drive,Indianapolis, IN
Tangram offers a variety of social clubs for everyone to enjoy! Whether you’re into games, books, or advocacy, there’s something for everyone—and it’s all free!
• Bingo - 1st & 3rd Mondays @ 6PM: Play a classic game of bingo and connect with friends!
• Self Advocates - 3rd Thursday @ 6-7PM: Discuss self-advocacy topics and empower yourself with like-minded peers.
• Game Night - 3rd Tuesday @ 6PM: Card games, board games, and more! Feel free to bring your favorites too!
• Book Club - 2nd & 4th Mondays @ 6PM: Read and discuss books with a fresh pick each quarter!
Check out the schedule below and join us for some fun, learning, and great conversations. We can’t wait to see you there! For more information about Tangram’s clubs, please email jrice@thetangramway.org.
#TangramClubs #CommunityConnection #InclusiveFun #JoinUs #TheTangramWay
Sensory Friendly Play at Urban Air Noblesville June 1, 9:00 am- 11:00 am 14450 Mundy Dr, Noblesville, IN 46060
Urban Air’s Sensory Friendly Play day is typically held on the first Sunday of the month. Check the Noblesville calendar for the latest info. https://calendar.google. com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=hi8j9brk94jgnc71kmslc13js8@group.calendar. google.com
Sky Zone South Sensory Play
June 2, 5:00 pm- 7:00 pm Every month first Monday of the month
Sensory Fun Fridays runs every Friday from 9:00am-10:00am.
4150 Kildeer Dr, Indianapolis, IN 46237
Jump and socialize in a comfortable, friendly environment. Enjoy the freedom of jumping. Sensory hours provide a quieter, toned-down jumping experience for those with special needs. https://www.skyzone.com/programs/ sensory-hours/
Indianapolis Zoo
Various events scheduled daily. June 1 through June 30 1200 West Washington St. Indianapolis, IN 46222
https://www.indianapoliszoo.com/
AMC Theatres
Check website for location, date and times.
AMC is proud to partner with the Autism Society to offer unique movie showings where we turn the lights up, and turn the sound down, so you can get up, dance, walk, shout or sing! Our Sensory Friendly Film program is available on the second and fourth Saturday (family-friendly) and Wednesday evenings (mature audiences) of every month.
Please check your local theatre listings for specific showtimes, and don’t forget to share your family fun with #AMCSensoryFriendly. https:// www.amctheatres.com/programs/ sensory-friendly-films
THE ARTS
Beef and Boards
The Little Mermaid May 22- July 13 9301 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46268
https://beefandboards.com/Online/ default.asp
Jubilate Choir
Butler University, Lilly Hall, Room 133 Wednesdays, 6:45-7:30 PM
The Jubilate Choir is for singers with special needs in grades 3-9. Singers with varying abilities meet each week to grow musically. This tuition-free choir focuses on proper singing techniques, music theory and sight-reading, partsinging, and social skills involved in being a member of a musical ensemble. Though Jubilate has, at its core, the same goals as other choirs in the Indianapolis Children’s Choir (ICC),
singers in Jubilate engage in additional activities like visual and tactile experiences that are catered specifically to the current members of the choir. Director: Lauren Southard For more information, contact Lauren Southard at 317-940-8065 or lsouthar@icchoir.org. https://icchoir.org/special-needs/
Gigi’s Playhouse
Various classes during the week. 5909 E. 86th St., Indianapolis, IN 46250 317-288-8235
indy@gigisplayhouse.org https:// gigisplayhouse.org/indianapolis/ sfcalendar/
EVENTS
Center Stage: Fort Wayne’s Premier Talent Show
June 3, 7:00 pm- 9:00 pm
1808 Bluffton Rd, Fort Wayne, IN 46809
Back by popular demand for its fourth year, “Center Stage: Fort Wayne’s Premier Talent Show” at the Clyde Theatre, will feature local performing artists of all talents and abilities. Turnstone Center believes in a people-first approach to empowerment and celebrating talentfirst opportunities. “Center Stage” is a first-of-its-kind talent experience in our community, elevating talent and performing arts for all people with and without disabilities.
All proceeds from this event go towards Turnstone’s mission of empowering people with disabilities. https://turnstone.org/about/events/ center-stage-fort-waynes-premiertalent-show
Babies and Blooms: Celebrating Babies with Down syndrome!
June 7, 10:00 am- 12:00 pm Zionsville CoHatch, 75 N Main St, Zionsville, IN 46077
New parents (prenatal diagnosis thru 2 years) are invited to attend Babies & Blooms with Down Syndrome Indiana and The Lucky Mama Project. Enjoy gifts for mom and baby, make new friends, and snack on delicious food!
Learn more and register at: https:// forms.office.com/r/Nf0ynSvK7M
Our Ask The Arc webinar series will provide information and discussion on timely topics relevant to people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, their families, and their support systems.
Webinars take place on the 2nd Thursday of the month at 6:00 p.m. EST. Past webinars will be recorded and posted to view on your own schedule in The Arc of Indiana Academy and on our YouTube channel.
Registration is for the complete webinar series. You can pick and choose which ones you want to attend without having to register each time. https:// us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/ WN_hTnwxka_S--MknIpiQoNrA#/ registration
22nd Annual DSI D.A.D.S.®
Golf Outing!
June 22
Eagle Creek GC Eagle Creek Golf Club 8802 W. 56th Street Indianapolis, IN 46234
Schedule of Events: 10:30 – 11:30 am – Registration and Lunch, Pre-Golf Activities
12:00 pm – 18 Hole, Best Ball scramble 5:00 pm – Dinner and Raffle License Number 013304
Golf Brochures Available online at the link or print: https://dsindiana.org/ wp-content/uploads/2024/12/2025_ DADS-Golf-Brochure.pdf
Register online today at: https:// dsindiana.org/calendar-of-events/golf/
Is there a local event for the special needs community you would like us to promote in an upcoming issue? Email us at SpecialNeedsIndy@n2pub.com.
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ABA & COMPREHENSIVE SERVICES
BehaviorWorks ABA (317) 731-7777
behaviorworksaba.com
K1ds Count Therapy (317) 520-4748
ABA / RESIDENTIAL & COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Sycamore Services (317) 745-4715 sycamoreservices.com
Tangram www.TheTangramWay.org
ABA/COMPREHENSIVE SERVICES
The Hope Source (317) 578-0410
ATTORNEY-WILLS/TRUSTS/ ESTATE PLANNING
Law Office of Elizabeth A. Homes LLC (317) 660-5004
Stinson Law Firm (317) 622-8181
www.stinsonlawfirm.com
BEHAVIORAL SUPPORT/PAC
New Beginnings BIS (317) 366-3432
www.newbeginningsbis.com
CASE MANAGEMENT
Connections Case Management (317) 440-0637
CLEANING: RESIDENTIAL & COMMERCIAL
The Dust Devils (317) 709-6120
COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Achieve Community Services (317) 918-0337 acssupports.com/
AID of Indiana (765) 273-3999 aidofindiana.com/
Carters Play Place (317) 836-5510 cartersplayplace.com
LEL Home Services (317) 387-1443 lelhomeservices.com
Noble (317) 375-2700
Phoenix Community Services LLC (765) 622-7808 www.Phoenixcommser.com
EMPLOYMENT/ COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Hopewell Center (765) 642-0201 www.hopewellcenter.org
FINANCIAL
WestPoint Financial Group
Gordon Homes (317) 567-2005
HOME CARE & TRANSPORTATION
ABC Community Services LLC (317) 516-1178
www.abccommunityservices.com
HOME HEALTH SERVICES
ComForCare Home Care (317) 575-3983 www.comforcare.com/indiana/ north-metro-indianapolis
HOME MODIFICATIONS /
SPECIALTY EQUIPMENT
Specialized Home Care Services (888) 506-4182 www.specialized4u.com/
HOUSING/TRANSPORTATION/ PAC/RESPITE
JD Angels Family Care (317) 654-2609
ICE CREAM
Howdy Homemade Ice Cream (317) 397-0008 www.howdyindy.com
INSURANCE
State Farm John Cole (317) 430-1958
KID’S SENSORY GYM
Rock the Spectrum (317) 764-6607 werockthespectrumcarmel.com/
MEDICAL EQUIPMENT & PHARMACY
George’s Pharmacy & Medical Equipment (855) 600-6251
www.georgespharmacy.com
MICROSCHOOL / TUTORING
Sunrise Learning Academy (317) 245-7052
www.sunriselearningacademy.org
NEUROFEEDBACK THERAPY Indy Neurofeedback (317) 888-8500
PEDIATRIC HOME CARE Guardian Care www.myguardian.care
SCHOOL
Dynamic Minds Academy (317) 578-0410
SPELLING TO COMMUNICATE
Exceptional Minds LLC (317) 408-3990
SUPPORT SERVICES
My Quillo (317) 626-4387 myquillo.com/
WAIVER PROVIDER & EMPLOYMENT
Putnam County
Comprehensive Services (765) 653-9763
www.pccsinc.org
WAIVER PROVIDER / HOUSING
Frontida Community Living (463) 309-1006
www.frontidacommunityliving.com
JD Angels Family Care provides exceptional services and resources that enhance the overall well-being of our clients. We aim to make a meaningful impact on the communities we serve by offering programs that support personal growth and transformation.
Our focus is on improving residential living, building self-confidence, and promoting structure in daily routines. We work to eliminate challenging behaviors while helping clients embrace new experiences. At JD Angels Family Care, we prioritize the individual, focusing on their strengths rather than their disabilities.
Our services incorporate holistic healing strategies designed to enhance the mind, body, and spirit. Through activities like visits to salt caves, pet therapy, gardening, meditation, and promoting healthy eating habits with nutritious meals, herbal teas, fruits, and vegetables, we create opportunities for clients to
improve their daily health and well-being. These experiences are aimed at fostering a sense of belonging, trust, and companionship, which allows our clients to build a strong foundation of support and engage in meaningful relationships. We believe in encouraging our clients to accept their disabilities, engage with others, and lead fulfilling lives free from judgment. Our holistic approach has proven effective in addressing anxiety, PTSD, and depression, while also mitigating many side effects that contribute to ongoing health issues.
At JD Angels Family Care, our mission is to provide a family-oriented environment that offers love, companionship, and valuable resources, all while ensuring safety and stability. By focusing on behavior improvement, we help clients transition from isolation to social engagement, building happiness and self-worth.
