Uniquely You! Indy October 2025 Digital Issue by Uniquely You

MEET

LINDA

MCCORD,

DOWNTOWN INDY WOMAN

Happy, Relaxe d and Engage d

Implementing Today’s ABA at K1ds Count Therapy

Alyssa Hay, MA CCC-SLP, BCBA

At K1ds Count Therapy, it is our goal to promote and provide a joyful, encouraging and safe environment for our clients to learn and our therapists to teach. We work to achieve this by following and implemen�ng Today ’s ABA, created by Dr. Gregory Hanley

Today ’s ABA is a trauma informed prac�ce centered around crea�ng joy for the child and ensuring that learning is a fun and mo�va�ng experience. Our team works to empower clients by iden�fying the items, ac�vi�es and environments that are most meaningful to them and recrea�ng them within our therapy se�ng. This knowledge helps to ensure the feeling of Happy, Relaxed and Engaged or HRE.

When clients achieve the feeling of HRE, therapists are encouraged to follow the child’s lead, keep the space open to allow movement and to share in the experience without controlling the situa�on or narra�ve. Today ’s ABA promotes teaching clients that they are seen and heard and their therapist is empathe�c to their individual needs.

To begin a teaching session with the client, it is important to signal to them the experience and expecta�ons are about to change for a moment and to encourage transi�on to a new loca�on of “high expecta�ons ” If problem behavior is observed in this a�empt to transi�on between ac�vi�es and expecta�ons, it is important for the therapist to display empathy and to immediately remove the demand. This process can be completed mul�ple �mes un�l the client understands that they have a choice. This also helps to build trust between the client and therapist. The occurrence of requirements for the client should be presented at ambiguous intervals within rich therapeu�c contexts with intermi�ent periods of reinforcement.

Hanley says, “Ours is not to dominate but to de-escalate or better yet prevent escalation in the ﬁrst place. Ours is not to coerce but to listen, learn, guide, and coach. Ours is not to redirect, restrain, or merely manage and modify Ours is to understand, share, and shape. Ours is to prioritize safety, rapport, and the televisibility of what we do above all else. We have proven that meaningful outcomes can follow when we prioritize these things ”

Resource:

Hanley, Dr. G. (2021, September 9). A Perspective on Today ’s ABA from Dr. Hanley Prac�cal Func�onal Assessment. h�ps://prac�calfunc�onalassessment.com/2021/09/09/a-perspec�ve-on-todays-aba-by-dr-greg-hanley/

K1ds Count Therapy, LLC Brownsburg, IN 1 (317) 520-4748 kctherapy.com

Meet the Uniquely You! Team

Publication Staff

and Local Events

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Staff Writers

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Christina McGairk Editor-in-Chief

Tanya Sood

Lindsey Watson

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Susan Graham

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Dorie Zipperle

Rebecca Parten

Isaac Roman Writer and Photographer

Katie Mendez Photography

Faith Miller Community Engagement

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Magdalene A.R. Mastin

Photography is where beauty, reflection, and journey converge. Through her lens, Magdalene captures authentic, heartfelt portraits and lifestyle imagery. Specializing in lifestyle and commercial work, she brings a soulful and intentional approach to every session, whether commemorating a family moment or elevating a brand. Based in north-central Indiana, Magdalene’s work mirrors her broader practice as a life coach and spiritual director. She guides her clients toward mindful living and deeply resonant storytelling through both image and experience.

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I live with my wife in Northeast Indiana. I work at the local YMCA and do outreach for Relay Indiana and TMobile

Accessibility services. As a person who stutters I enjoy sharing my experiences and spreading awareness of telecommunication services available to deaf, hard of hearing and speech impaired individuals. In my spare time you will find me snow skiing in Michigan and on or in Steuben County’s 101 lakes the rest of the year.

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ISSUE PREVIEW

• Page 5 Welcome to the Team

• Pages 8-9 Publisher’s Note:Celebrating 5 Years of Uniquely You Indy

• Page 10 SAVE THE DATE: Celebrate 5 Years of Impact with Uniquely You Magazine!

• Pages 12-14 Your Story Matters!: Meet Linda McCord, Downtown Indy Woman

• Pages 16-18 Sponsor Spotlight: ABC Community Services, LLC

• Pages 20-21 A Bike That Brings the Whole Family Along

• Page 22 You’re Invited: Inclusive Fun Day with Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum

• Pages 24-25 Event Recap: Uniquely You Community Connection Day – Ice Cream Social in the Park

• Pages 26-28 Single Mamas Seen: Meet Erica Robertson

• Pages 32-34 In Honor of Down Syndrome Awareness

• Page 36 A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

• Pages 38-39 Financial Fitness: Reporting the Existence of a Special Needs Trust to Government Agencies

• Pages 40-42 Event Recap: Uniquely You Indy Connection Day at The Busy Bee Play Café

• Page 44 Beyond Timers: Rethinking Transitions for Neurodivergent Minds

• Pages 46-49 Local Events

A Bike That Brings the Whole Family Along

Sponsor Spotlight

In Honor of Down Syndrome Awareness

Your Story Matters: Meet Linda McCord, Downtown Indy Woman

Single Mamas Seen: Meet Erica Robertson

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Autism Society of Indiana Blind and Visually Impaired Services (BVIS) Bureau of Developmental Disabilities Services (BDDS)

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Indiana Governor’s Council for People with Disabilities (GPCPD)

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Celebrating 5 Years of Uniquely You Indy

Five years ago, Uniquely You Indy was born out of a vision and a deep desire to create something that I knew our community needed—a place where families touched by disability and special needs could find encouragement, resources, connection, and belonging. Looking back on this journey, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for the way this magazine has grown and how it has touched lives throughout Indianapolis and beyond.

From the very beginning, Uniquely You has never been just about publishing stories—it has been about building bridges. Every issue is filled with stories of strength, resilience, and love. We’ve been able to celebrate milestones, highlight incredible organizations, share valuable resources, and spotlight the journeys of individuals who remind us that disability does not define a person’s worth or potential. These pages are more than print; they are a lifeline of hope, encouragement, and connection for families and individuals navigating unique challenges.

None of this would have been possible without our sponsors and partners. Your unwavering support has been the foundation of this publication. Each month, because of you, families across Indiana are able to open their mailbox or log in online and find a trusted source of information and inspiration. You have allowed us to keep Uniquely You Indy free to our readers, ensuring that cost is never a barrier to access. Thank you for believing in this mission and for investing in the disability and special needs community in such a tangible way.

To our readers—you are the heart of what we do. Thank you for inviting Uniquely You into your homes and for allowing us to share in your journeys. Every email, every note, every hug at

a community event reminds me why this work is so important. When you tell us that a resource you found in our pages changed your family’s life, or that a story we featured gave you the courage to keep moving forward, it is confirmation that this magazine is doing exactly what it was created to do.

To our writers, contributors, and photographers—you bring the words and images that inspire. Your voices give

life to the vision, ensuring that every issue reflects the diversity, strength, and beauty of this community. Whether it’s a parent sharing a hard-won lesson, a self-advocate raising their voice, or an organization highlighting the impact of their work, each of you has helped shape Uniquely You into a trusted and cherished resource.

Over these past five years, we’ve been able to share countless resources

and events that connect families with support, therapies, programs, and opportunities they might not have otherwise discovered. We’ve had the privilege of celebrating graduations, birthdays, achievements, and milestones of children and adults in our community—big and small victories that deserve to be seen and celebrated. Together, we’ve created a space that lifts up and honors individuals for who they are—uniquely themselves.

As a mom raising a son with special needs, I know firsthand how isolating and overwhelming the journey can sometimes feel. That’s why this magazine is more than a job for me—it is a calling and a blessing. Each month, when I sit down to work on a new issue, I think of the families like mine who are searching for connection, hope, and encouragement. I think of the mom who just received a diagnosis and doesn’t know where to turn. I think of the dad who is working hard to advocate for his child in school. I think of the young

adult with disabilities finding their place in the world. It is for each of you that we continue to do this work month after month, year after year.

And now, as we celebrate five years of Uniquely You Indy, I am also looking forward to the future. This magazine started in Indianapolis, but the need for this kind of resource exists everywhere. Our dream is to see Uniquely You expand into other communities across the country, offering the same encouragement, resources, and stories of hope to families nationwide. If you or someone you know would be interested in bringing Uniquely You to your local community, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can spread this mission and ensure that no family ever feels alone on their journey.

At the heart of Uniquely You is a simple truth: we are stronger together. When we share our stories, we remind one another that we are not walking this path alone. When we celebrate successes and highlight resources, we lift each

other up and create a more informed, more compassionate community. When we connect, we heal, we learn, and we grow.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Thank you to our sponsors, readers, contributors, and every single person who has been part of this journey over the last five years. Thank you for allowing me, as a mom, a publisher, and a member of this community, to bring this resource to you each month. It is a blessing and an honor to serve you.

Here’s to five incredible years of Uniquely You Indy—and to the many more ahead. May we continue to share stories, celebrate milestones, spread resources, and remind every person in our community that they are seen, valued, and uniquely themselves.

With deep gratitude,

Jamie Olson

Publisher, Uniquely You Indy

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MEET LINDA MCCORD, DOWNTOWN INDY WOMAN

BY DR. DAROLYN “LYN” JONES

When Linda McCord was born and growing up in Indianapolis, there was very little understanding of autism. Although she received special education, she went undiagnosed and underserved. It took even longer for her to receive a diagnosis of obsessive-compulsive disorder, or OCD.

From ages 9 to 21, Linda lived at a residential school for individuals with disabilities in Ohio. The school did not provide much education and was not a positive experience overall. However, she made friends and learned to crochet from a “Grandma,” a skill that has become a lifelong hobby she continues to enjoy.

Linda returned to Indianapolis at age 21, where she learned many lifelong skills through an “apartment living” training program, which she credits as having been significant in helping her live independently. With the help of Noble’s sheltered workshop programs, she developed new job skills. Supported by a job coach from Noble and by The ARC of Indiana, Linda was able to work and live independently. She now has her own debit card and pays her own bills with support from The ARC of Indiana.

Linda has worked continuously since returning to Indianapolis, except during the COVID-19 pandemic, and her jobs have steadily improved over the years. She credits Noble and the job coaching she received there for making that possible. Linda recalls that her first job outside of the sheltered workshop was in a book bindery as a case maker, where she worked almost full time for 11 years. It was hard work, and she did not enjoy it, but she stuck with it.

Linda’s next job was at a department store, which she describes as a better position, though the hectic holiday environment was stressful. She now loves her current job. “It’s my favorite job!” she says. Linda works at a large consulting firm in downtown Indianapolis, where she cleans conference room tables, straightens chairs, refills supplies, and composts coffee grounds. She looks forward to her afternoon iced tea at work.

Linda can walk from her apartment to the bus stop

to take the bus downtown to work, and she even does her banking while in the city. While working downtown, she enjoys grabbing lunch and some chocolate from her favorite chocolate store, and she can now visit Starbucks every day.

Linda enjoys living on her own in her apartment, where she has lived for more than 20 years. The space was recently remodeled and, according to Linda, looks awesome and swanky. She has staff who help her with grocery shopping and medical appointments, and a job coach who continues to support her. Linda also loves her neighborhood because it is close to Target, Great Clips, and her favorite, Starbucks.

While Linda loves Indianapolis, where she is close to family, she does not enjoy the winters. She hates being cold. Summer is her favorite season, and she prefers to be warm and in the sun.

One of Linda’s biggest challenges has been managing her OCD to avoid repeatedly calling or asking people for reassurance. She keeps herself from worrying by engaging in her favorite hobbies, which include crocheting gifts like scarves for friends, watching HGTV, getting a new haircut, and taking walks to Starbucks.

Linda was diagnosed with breast cancer this past fall. She underwent numerous tests and a lumpectomy. At a follow-up appointment,

doctors discovered more cancer in the tissue, and Linda learned she would need a mastectomy. Her surgery went well, but she had to stay in the hospital and then attend rehabilitation. Linda embraced the therapy and worked hard to regain her strength so she could return home. Everyone was very proud of her progress. Not only did she get back to her apartment and work, she is now cancer-free.

Linda wants readers to know that she encourages others to access job coaching, learn new skills, and try new things. She is living proof that individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities can lead full and rewarding adult lives.

A Legacy of Compassion: THE STORY OF ABC COMMUNITY SERVICES, LLC

In the heart of Indianapolis, Indiana, a modest office at 6801 Lake Plaza Drive, Suite A108 houses a powerful mission: to uplift individuals with intellectual, developmental, and physical disabilities, along with their families. That is the home of ABC Community Services, LLC, an organization dedicated to fostering independence, dignity, and quality of life for people with special needs.

ORIGINS AND MISSION

Founded with a vision of enabling individuals living with disabilities to “Live Your Best Life,” ABC Community Services has grown into a trusted partner in residential habilitation, day habilitation, family caregiver support, escort and respite services, and more ABC Community Services+8ABC Community Services+8ABC Community Services+8ABC Community Services+6members.iahhc.org+6ABC Community Services+6.

Rooted in Indiana, their mission centers on supporting each client’s unique goals—whether mastering daily living skills, accessing the community, or relieving a caregiver through trusted respite care.

MILESTONES AND EVOLUTION

ABC began as a small provider serving Marion County, focused on meeting the needs of individuals and families with compassion and care.Through consistent growth, they expanded into multiple counties across central Indiana including Boone, Hamilton, Hancock, Hendricks, Johnson, Madison, Morgan, Shelby, Vigo, Jay, Dubois, and more ABC Community Services.

Over time, they introduced new programs:

• Residential Habilitation: Personalized one-to-one care in home

settings—help with daily living, medication reminders, household tasks, and community integration ABC Community Services.

• Day Habilitation: Structured group activities to promote skill-development and social engagement abcinc.org+3ABC Community Services+3MapQuest+3.

• Structured Family Caregiver Programs: Workshops, educational resources, and peer support to empower caregivers and build a sense of community ABC Community Services+7ABC Community Services+7MapQuest+7.

• Respite Care / Participant Assistance Care: Flexible short-term relief options provided in-home, at adult day centers, or elsewhere, on a schedule that fits the family’s needs indeed.com+2ABC Community Services+2AgingCare+2.

• Transportation Services: Access to healthcare and community events via Chariots Await partnership—ensuring clients can keep appointments and access social opportunities ABC Community Services.

SERVICES THAT EMPOWER

Residential Habilitation

Each participant receives individualized support tailored to their personal goals: household routines, personal hygiene, meal preparation, money management, medication reminders, and community inclusion. The goal: independence while ensuring safety and well-being ABC Community Services.

Day Services and Group Inclusion

Day habilitation provides group-based programming—creative, movement, life-skill learning—that fosters social interaction, self-esteem, and meaningful routines within a welcoming community environment ABC Community Services.

Family Caregiver Support

ABC recognizes the emotional and physical toll that family caregivers shoulder. Their Structured Family Caregiver program offers workshops, educational events, peer support groups, and respite options to help caregivers recharge and stay informed ABC Community Services.

Respite & Participant Assistance

Available on an as-needed basis, respite care is offered for hours, days, or weeks. Offered at home, adult day centers, or other safe settings, it allows primary caregivers to rest or meet other responsibilities without worry ABC Community Services.

Transportation & Wellness Access

A standout element of ABC’s support is their arranged transportation service, provided via local partner Chariots Await. This service ensures reliable rides to medical visits, social events, etc.—reducing missed appointments and promoting normal routines ABC Community Services.

Additionally, wellness support is built into their home care model— nurses conduct weekly visits to monitor health, coordinate care, and offer peace of mind to families and clients alike ABC Community Services.

TESTIMONIALS: VOICES

FROM THE COMMUNITY

What Makes ABC Stand Out

Tailored, Person-Centered Care

Rather than a one-size-fits-all approach, ABC begins with individual assessments—understanding strengths, goals, and areas for growth—to craft personalized plans for each client.

Holistic Wellness Approach

The combination of health-monitoring nurse visits, robust transportation, and integration with community services means medical, social, and emotional needs are addressed in concert—not in isolation.

Broad Local Reach

Serving over a dozen counties around Indianapolis, ABC enables clients in suburban and rural areas to access consistent care and support when they

While ABC’s website does not publish direct client stories, reviews on trusted aggregator platforms offer glimpses into their impact:

One AgingCare listing described how ABC helps “support you and your loved ones to live independent and socially active lifestyles … building selfconfidence” and highlighted assistance with daily tasks like hygiene, mobility, light exercise, and emotional support AgingCare+1A Place for Mom+1.

Additionally, job listings for drivers and direct support professionals describe a workplace culture rooted in dignity, compassion, and reliability—suggesting staff are deeply invested in the lives they support indeed.comindeed.com.

“Their team provides residential habilitation, day habilitation, and attendant care … compassionate staff dedicated to promoting independence and well-being” MapQuest+1ABC Community Services+1.

Each participant receives individualized support tailored to their personal goals

otherwise might be isolated by ABC Community Services.

Staff that Feels Like Family Caregivers are chosen not only for competence—but for empathy. According to their own materials, staff treat clients “like family,” offering regular check-ins and updates so families feel included and informed by ABC Community Services.

DETAILED SPOTLIGHT:

TRANSPORTATION SUPPORT

One of the most critical services for many clients is transportation. ABC partners with Chariots Await, a specialized transportation organization that provides wheelchair-accessible vehicles and trained drivers. Through this arrangement, clients receive safe, reliable rides to:

• Medical or therapy appointments

• Community or social events

• Day habilitation or group programming

• Family visits or errands

This support removes a systemic barrier—lack of reliable transit—often preventing individuals with disabilities from accessing essential care or social opportunities. Coupled with wellness nursing visits, it ensures clients stay on track with appointments and health monitoring ABC Community Services.

WHAT IT’S LIKE: A DAY IN THE LIFE

Morning: A caregiver arrives to assist with ADLs—help with dressing, breakfast prep, and medication reminders. The team records progress and updates the nursing staff.

• Midday: The client is taken via Chariots Await to a day habilitation session, where they engage in social activities, skills workshops, and peer interaction.

• Afternoon: After returning home, the caregiver supports household tasks or helps prepare for afternoon medical visits. If a ride to a doctor is needed, transportation is scheduled.

• Evening: Respite care might step in, giving family caregivers time for themselves. Meanwhile, the team ensures continuity and comfort— meal prep, evening routines, and wind-down activities.

• Weekly: A wellness nurse checks in at home—monitoring health indicators, preventive care, and ensuring medical plans are on track.

• Family Support: Caregivers attend workshops or support meetings organized through the Structured Family Caregiver program.

FEEDBACK AND COMMUNITY TRUST

Although ABC doesn’t widely publish client testimonials, local directories and home-care review platforms share consistent indicators of trust and satisfaction:

• Reliable in-home support (mobility, hygiene, emotional care)

• Structured programming that promotes independence

• Compassionate staff who treat clients with warmth and dignity

• Transportation arrangements that reduced missed medical visits and increased participation in daily life on AgingCare and A Place for Mom listings A Place for Mom

LOOKING FORWARD

ABC aims to expand its reach and deepen its community connections, with enhancements such as expanded digital tools for scheduling and partnerships with vocational and recreational programs.

In addition, ABC is opening a new office in Terre Haute soon to better serve that community, and will also begin offering services in Northwest Indiana—further extending their legacy of compassionate care across the state.

SUMMARY: AT-A-GLANCE Program / Service Purpose

• Residential Habilitation

• Personal care, life-skills support, household routines

• Day Habilitation

• Group programming, social engagement, skill-building

• Structured Family Caregiver

• Workshops, peer support, caregiver education

• Respite / Participant Assistance

• Short-term relief in-home or at adult centers

• Transportation via Chariots Await

• Safe, accessible rides to healthcare, events, community activities

• Wellness Nurse Visits

• Weekly health check-ins and coordination

Real Words, Real Impact

“ABC helps support you and your loved ones to live independent and socially active lifestyles … building self-confidence.” members.iahhc. org+6ABC Community Services+6ABC Community Services+6ABC Community ServicesA Place for Mom+2AgingCare+2carelistings.com+2

Staff are described as treating “your loved ones like family,” with regular updates that bring peace of mind to caregivers ABC Community Services. While not verbatim client stories, these insights paint a portrait of consistent, compassionate service that empowers clients and supports their circles.

JOIN THE COMMUNITY & BEGIN THE CONVERSATION

If your family is seeking trusted, experienced support for someone with disabilities or special needs, or if you’re a caregiver in need of a compassionate team or trusted respite services, ABC Community Services, LLC may be the partner you’ve hoped to find.

CONTACT INFORMATION

ABC Community Services, LLC

6801 Lake Plaza Drive, Suite A108

Indianapolis, IN 46220

Phone: 317-978-2033

Fax: 317-978-2034

Email: admin@ abccommunityservices.com

Website: https:// abccommunityservices.com

Tangram's Employment Services Program

Tangram is committed to helping individuals ﬁnd competitive, sustainable employment where they can use their individual talents and skills to succeed.

This service supports individuals who are not yet employed but want to enter the workforce. Whether you’ve never worked before, are unsure of your career direction, or have years of experience and want to re-enter the job market, Tangram’s Vocational Rehabilitation team helps:

Explore Interests & Strengths: Through assessments and hands-on, community-based discovery activities

Prepare for Employment: With coaching, resume building, and mock interviews

Find the Right Fit: We match your skills and goals with meaningful job opportunities in the community

Success in the Workplace: With on-the-job support that gradually fades as you grow more conﬁdent and independent

A Bike That Brings the Whole Family Along

LINDSEY WATSON

For Families Raising Children with Complex Medical Needs

For families raising children with complex medical needs, even something as simple as a bike ride can feel impossible. Oftentimes, one parent stays behind with a child while the rest of the family pedals away. A solo parent has to keep an eye on other able-bodied siblings as well as their child who has a disability, which can be a difficult task.

Packing up the necessary medical gear, along with snacks, water, and siblings, can leave parents exhausted before they’ve even left the driveway. Errands feel mundane and the kids get bored and complain. Outings that should be joyful become logistical marathons.

That’s where the Bunch Bike rolls in. This electric-assist cargo bike features a roomy front compartment designed to carry multiple kids, gear, and even specialized medical equipment, making it possible for the entire family to ride together.

From Europe to Shark Tank

The Bunch Bike company began when owner Aaron Powell visited Europe and fell in love with cargo bike culture. He found that North America lacked any similar products, and launched Bunch Bikes in 2017. He later appeared on Shark Tank in 2021, which quickly accelerated the growth of the cargo bike company.

Today, the bikes come in three configurations with the largest model able to carry up to six children (or 600 pounds). The battery lasts 20–30 miles per charge depending on load and incline. Bringing an optional spare battery extends the adventure.

Custom Comfort for Every Rider

Families can tailor the Bunch Bike to fit unique needs. Benches can be added or removed, and accessories range from shoulder straps and ride-safe vests to nap nets, front entry doors, sunshades, and locking buckles to keep riders secure.

What sets Bunch apart? Inclusion is built into their mission. The company’s Director of Community & Inclusion, Lelac Almagor, explained that families never pay for adaptive equipment. If a child needs a special seat, safety harness, or other medically necessary modification, Bunch covers it—no doctor’s note required.

Through their Inclusion Program, the team works with each family to determine what’s needed and installs it at no extra charge. Some popular options include a Firefly or Special Tomato seat for extra support. Every year, Bunch even gifts a fully customized bike to a family in need.

Real Families, Real Rides

Rachael Linford, mom of four, says the bike has transformed family outings. Her five-year-old daughter Clara, who has Rett syndrome, loves the movement and fresh air. “What I love most is that we can do the same thing all at once,” Rachael says.

The family uses the Bunch Bike as a way for everyone to get outside. Their bike is tricked out with a sunshade, speaker, and phone mount for playing music. The younger twins ride in toddler seats, while Clara prefers just a lap belt so she can feel the turns. And because they live in California, it’s easy for the family to ride year-round.

Rachael said the bike is stable, safe, and the brakes work great. The family uses it daily for school drop-off and pick-up.

Brittlyn Riley-Meade is also a mom of four whose children are all under the age of 8. The family lives in Bloomington, Indiana, and speaks very highly of the bike. Brittlyn’s son, August, who is 2 and has Down syndrome, uses a foam seat with a slight incline to keep him comfortable inside the cart.

In his early life, August was also using oxygen, and Bunch Bike incorporated bags for his oxygen tanks. His mom says he enjoys napping in the cart while his siblings play next to him at the park. His sister also enthusiastically shared her love for going “super fast” while riding down hills and watching her little brother’s cheeks shake as they rolled over a bridge with slats.

The family has August’s seat positioned facing the bike rider so that a parent can keep an eye on him. Their bike also includes the sunshade, which offers a double benefit by blocking the sun and keeping August from throwing out his bottles.

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When comparing the Bunch Bike to other adaptive outdoor equipment, one perk of the bike is that just about anyone can use it. Users don’t have to depend on their strength or ability to push or pull anything. Power comes from the rear wheel, and the bike pilot can control how much assistance the bike is providing.

Brittany Fisher Frank is a mom of two and a once-avid runner who became paralyzed at the age of 21. Brittany, who uses a wheelchair, said on social media, “Even though I don’t have leg strength I’m still able to cycle my legs and use the throttle. All of this improves my circulation, calms my spastic muscles. And bonus -- it’s so fun to sit up high!” (@brittanyfisherfrank)

There are many ways that the Bunch Bike can accommodate families with varying challenges. Individuals who are a flight risk can safely be contained. Loved ones who use a wheelchair can bring along their equipment in the cargo hold to use at their destination. Seating can be modified to accommodate different ages of riders, including a parent alongside them if necessary.

Test Before You Buy

Ready for a ride? Curious riders can rent Bunch Bikes for parties, park trips, or trial runs. Bunch Bike has a “Bunch Squad Map” on their website where you can search your area for bike owners. Potential buyers can easily ask

questions, test ride the bike, or even rent it in some locations.

And thanks to a new partnership with Pedego Electric Bikes, the largest e-bike network in North America, test rides are easier than ever.

In Indianapolis, for example, Pedego offers free trials right on the scenic Monon Trail. You can visit a local Pedego shop in downtown Indy or Carmel.

Whether for fun, function or freedom, the Bunch Bike is more than just a ride. It is a way to bring everyone along for the journey. Siblings, friends and even pets can be included in a whole new way.

Visit bunchbike.com/inclusion to connect directly with support for medical and adaptive needs and to see how you can get the adventure rolling.

Inclusive Fun Day with Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum

Date: Sunday, October 26th, 2025

Time: 2:00 PM – 4:00 PM

Location: We Rock the Spectrum 13644 N Meridian St, Carmel, IN 46032

Hosted by: Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum

Join Us for an Afternoon of Inclusive Fun, Connection, and Community! Get ready for an unforgettable day where families and children of all abilities can play, create, and connect in a safe, supportive, and joyful environment.

WHAT’S HAPPENING:

• Open Play Adventures – swings, trampolines, zip lines, sensory rooms, and crash pits

• Pumpkin Bucket Coloring Craft – creative fall fun for all ages

• Crafts & Activities – designed for both fun and skill-building

• Howdy Ice Cream Treats –sweet refreshments to enjoy

• Connect with Uniquely You Partners – discover resources to better support your family or loved one

• Community Connection – meet other families, caregivers, and friends in an inclusive, welcoming space

This event highlights the mission of We Rock the Spectrum: to provide purposeful play and support for children of all abilities—including those with autism, ADHD, and sensory integration challenges—while welcoming siblings and friends, too.

https://buytickets.at/ uniquelyyou/1829269

Space is limited and no cost thanks to We Rock the Spectrum —reserve today and join us for a day full of joy, creativity, and inclusion!

We can’t wait to see you there!

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Event Recap: Uniquely You Community Connection Day – Ice Cream Social in the Park

On Saturday, July 19, 2025, families and community members gathered at Independence Park in Greenwood, Indiana — the state’s first all-accessible playground — for an uplifting afternoon of connection, play, and celebration at the Uniquely You Community Connection Day – Ice Cream Social in the Park.

The event brought together children, parents, and community partners for two hours of fun, laughter, and meaningful connections. Families enjoyed the freedom of an inclusive playground designed for all abilities, while also meeting local organizations and resource partners dedicated to supporting the disability community.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THE DAYINCLUSIVE

Play: Guests explored Independence Park’s thoughtfully designed features, including wheelchair-accessible surfacing, sensory-friendly music areas, a zero-grade paved trail, and an interactive Yalp SONA arch — all made possible through the vision and care of Johnson County Parks and Recreation Community Support: Local resource partners and organizations shared valuable information and encouragement, helping families connect with tools, services, and

friendships in a warm and welcoming environment.

A Sweet Spotlight: One of the most memorable moments was the FREE ice cream served by Howdy Homemade Ice Cream (howdyindy.com), a missiondriven local shop that provides employment opportunities for adults

with developmental disabilities. Their team came out to serve delicious treats and plenty of smiles, demonstrating the beauty of inclusion in action.

SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSORSACHIEVE COMMUNITY SERVICES, INC.

Founded in 2020, Achieve Community Services offers personalized, community-based support through Indiana Medicaid Waiver programs like CIH (Community Integration and Habilitation) and FSW (Family Support Waiver) (acssupports.com). Their services include residential and day habilitation, behavior management, caregiver training, transportation, respite, and community transition — empowering individuals of all abilities to achieve their goals. They recently earned a three-year CARF accreditation, demonstrating their ongoing commitment to quality and accountability.

NEW BEGINNINGS BEHAVIOR INTERVENTION SERVICES (NEW BEGINNINGS BIS)

New Beginnings provides compassionate, evidence-based behavioral support for individuals facing behavioral challenges (newbeginningsbis.com). Their programs include behavior support,

participant assistance and care, community integration, skill development, and caregiver training. With a person-centered approach, they work to empower individuals and families under Indiana’s Medicaid Waiver programs.

Their generous sponsorship not only made the free ice cream possible, but also reinforced the values of empowerment, inclusion, and community integration.

Behind the Scenes: Venue & Park StewardshipIndependence Park, a 13.5-acre gem in White River Township, opened in 2000 through the collaboration of more than 200 businesses, civic groups, and individuals. The park underwent major upgrades in 2020 to maintain its accessibility and inclusivity, ensuring that families of all abilities can continue to enjoy its trails, play areas, and outdoor spaces.

Johnson County Parks and Recreation (jocoparks.com) oversees Independence Park as part of its mission

to develop, operate, and maintain outdoor spaces and programs that enrich lives while preserving green space for future generations.

IN SUMMARY

The Uniquely You Community Connection Day was a heartwarming celebration of inclusion, filled with joyful play, community partnerships, and delicious ice cream — all in a space designed with accessibility at its core.

A heartfelt thank you goes to Achieve Community Services, Inc. and New Beginnings BIS for sponsoring the ice cream, to Howdy Homemade Ice Cream for serving it with purpose, and to Johnson County Parks and Recreation for providing such a welcoming and inclusive venue at Independence Park

Together, you helped create not just an event, but a stronger sense of belonging. We are excited to continue building on these connections in the months and years ahead.

SINGLE MAMAS SEEN

MEET ERICA ROBERTSON

BY CHRISTINA MCGAIRK

After nearly 10 years of marriage, Erica Robertson became a single mother to two children, one of whom has complex medical and developmental needs. But the truth is, she had been carrying the weight of motherhood long before the divorce.

In this candid Q&A, she opens up about the realities of solo parenting, navigating life after a difficult co-parenting split, and the daily challenges of raising a neurodivergent child. Through it all, she shares what keeps her going: faith, community and the unwavering love she has for her kids.

Q: Can you tell us a bit about your journey into single motherhood and what life looks like now with your two children?

Wow, where do I even start? Technically, I became a single mom in 2021 when I got divorced after nearly ten years of marriage. But truthfully, I felt like a single mother long before the papers were signed. Their dad was physically there, but emotionally and practically, I carried everything. He’d sleep all the time, and when I needed help, like being short on childcare or asking for support, I’d get a response like, “Okay, well I’ll need it back.” Everything always fell on me.

I found out I was pregnant with my youngest, David, in 2020. When I told his dad, he barely reacted. He said, “Oh, okay. What do you want me to do about it?” That moment told me everything. David’s pregnancy was difficult, and once he was born, it became clear he had unique needs. He’s since been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, a chromosome deletion, two holes in his heart, and a few other medical concerns. I believe my daughter may also be neurodivergent, and I plan to have her assessed soon.

Being a single mom of two, especially with one child who needs constant redirection and supervision, is incredibly hard. David requires so much emotionally, physically, and mentally, that I sometimes feel guilty for not being able to give my daughter the same level of attention. I love both of them deeply, and I try to double up on the love just to make up for what they’re missing from the other parent.

Co-parenting hasn’t really worked for us. Their father doesn’t believe anything is “wrong” with David, and his parenting style hasn’t changed, with yelling, screaming, and even hitting. That’s part of why I left. Now I try to create a safe and nurturing environment at home, but it’s a lot. Some days I battle with depression. It’s hard when you can’t go out unless it’s to a sensory-friendly event or a space where your child is accepted as they are. The isolation is real.

Even dating feels impossible. Babysitters are hard to find. People don’t always understand David’s behaviors. Today, for example, he was screeching loudly, and people stared or asked,

“Why is he doing that?” Sometimes I just want to say, “He’s autistic. He’s expressing something. He’s not hurting anyone.”

I’ve even been told to stop praying for patience because “God already gave you what you asked for.” I don’t know what to pray for anymore—peace? Strength? Clarity?

It’s not an easy life. But even with all the hard, I wouldn’t trade my kids for the world. I do wish there were easier paths, just one magic switch to make things smoother for him. Sometimes I second-guess every decision: Am I doing the right thing as a mom? Am I helping him grow into who he’s meant to be?

The financial burden is heavy. Everything falls on me. But at least I don’t have anyone telling me what I can or can’t do. There’s a kind of freedom in that. If I want to take them to the circus tomorrow or the zoo next week, I can. Sure, I may worry later that the money should’ve gone to bills, but seeing that joy on their faces? It’s worth it. It reminds me why I do this.

There’s a lot of love in our home. There’s also exhaustion, frustration, and loneliness. But I’m grateful. I’m grateful for the freedom to raise them my way. And I’m proud of us, even on the hard days.

Q: How did your divorce impact your parenting—especially with one child being autistic?

Oh boy... where do I even begin? Honestly, the divorce made parenting much harder, mostly because of the kind of person their dad is. He’s manipulative, emotionally abusive, and has narcissistic tendencies. A lot of my parenting, especially with my daughter who’s older, has involved unlearning the harmful things he’s tried to plant in her mind.

He creates a negative narrative about me in her head. For example, we’ll go out and do something fun, like visit the aquarium, and afterward he’ll tell her, “Your mom is a manipulator. You don’t have any freedom with her.” So now I’m not just parenting, I’m having to rebuild her trust, her mindset, and how she sees the world and me.

He’s not involved consistently. He’ll pop up online or call for two minutes, say a few things to stir things up, and disappear again. He still tries to parent like it’s 1995, telling them what to do, yelling when they don’t, expecting instant obedience, with zero understanding of autism, ADHD, or sensory needs.

He doesn’t know how to meet our son where he is. When David doesn’t follow directions right away because he literally can’t process them, his dad will just yell or even lash out. That is not discipline; that is harm. One time I noticed a knot on top of David’s head and asked what happened. He said his dad hit him because he was “disrespectful.” That was the last time they saw him, on Mother’s Day weekend.

I’ve had to draw boundaries to protect my children, especially David. Co-parenting is nearly impossible when the

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other parent doesn’t believe there’s anything different about your child and refuses to change how they interact with them. At this point, my support system has gotten really small. My circle has shrunk down to almost nothing, and I’m doing most of it on my own. It’s lonely. It’s painful. And it’s exhausting. But at the end of the day, I know I’m making the right choices to keep my children safe, especially my son, who can’t advocate for himself yet.

Q: What has been the most unexpected challenge of solo parenting, and what’s helped you through it?

Honestly, the biggest challenge for me has been not having a solid support system. There’s no real “escape” from our dayto-day, it’s constant. When you’re parenting alone, especially kids with high needs, you don’t get breaks. My kids are often in fight-or-flight mode, and over time, I’ve realized my own brain has started to live in that mode too. It’s like I’m always bracing for the next meltdown, the next struggle, the next hard thing. It’s isolating. And after a while, it made me question myself. Like, do I have undiagnosed ADHD? Autism? Anxiety? Should I get tested too? But then there’s also that stigma in the Black community, where people will say, “Don’t let them label your child,” or “They’ll grow out of it.” It’s confusing, and there’s a lot to untangle, not just for your kids, but for yourself too.

What’s helped me most has been connecting with other moms who get it. I was part of the first cohort of the MentorMentee program with Mom Mentors Indy, and honestly, it changed everything. My mentor has been incredible. Just being able to call someone and say, “Hey, did your child go through this too?” or “This just happened, what would you do?” makes such a difference. Her child is a little older than mine, so she’s already walked part of this road.

Stick to your routines when you can. Stick to your values. And let go of the idea that you have to do it all perfectly.

And then there are the friendships I’ve built with other moms in similar situations. Women like Pam, my neighbor, and some of the local moms I’ve bonded with. We have safe spaces now, places where the kids can just run and be themselves, and we don’t have to apologize for every noise or meltdown. We don’t have to say “Oops, sorry!” over and over again. That alone is healing.

Being surrounded by people who don’t judge you or your child, who aren’t constantly trying to “fix” your kid or question your parenting, is a game-changer. It clears your mind. It gives you space to breathe. And in a life where almost everything feels heavy, that kind of space is everything.

Q: How do you balance the needs of both your children while still showing up for yourself?

Can I be honest and just say, I don’t. I haven’t figured it out yet. It’s really hard, and I often feel like I’m just surviving from one moment to the next.

Most of my day revolves around David. He only sleeps in my room even though he has his own bed. So I try to bring my daughter, Tamar, into the room with us after he’s finally asleep, just to have some one-on-one time with her. But by then, it’s already late. She usually stays for maybe an hour or two, then heads to bed herself.

Tamar has gotten used to not having much of my attention, which breaks my heart. She’s in her room most of the time, watching TV or on her phone. I know she needs me, too, but she’s so used to not getting it that she doesn’t even ask anymore. That’s what hurts the most.

Everything in our world is structured around keeping David safe and calm. We can’t leave him unattended for long because his needs can quickly turn into situations

that are unsafe for him or the rest of us. So I’m constantly alert, constantly on edge.

And showing up for myself? I honestly don’t know what that looks like right now. My life is centered around meeting both of their needs, but David’s needs are so intense that they take up almost everything I have to give.

I try to create small moments, just a few minutes here and there, with Tamar when I can. I’m still learning how to balance things, but most days, it feels like I’m just doing the best I can with what I have.

Q: What do you wish people understood better about divorced moms raising children with special needs?

I wish people understood that we’re still human. We still have needs, dreams, and emotions just like anyone else. But the world doesn’t always make room for us. Being a divorced mom raising a child with special needs feels like you’re stuck in a constant game of catch-up—emotionally, financially, spiritually. And people often judge us without understanding the weight we carry.

It’s like we don’t get to exist as full people anymore. The focus is always on the child, or the diagnosis, or the fact that we’re not married. But we’re more than that. My marriage ended, yes, but that doesn’t make me less of a woman or less deserving of love or support. Sometimes, leaving was the only path toward peace. And while it’s not easy, it was necessary.

When you’re trying to rebuild your life, whether in your career, in church, or even socially, it’s hard not to feel invisible or misunderstood. Especially in faith spaces, divorce can still carry a stigma. But I believe some relationships are seasonal. Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever, and sometimes letting go is where healing starts.

As a single parent of a child with special needs, you’re carrying two or three lifetimes of responsibility. You’re not just mom—you’re therapist, advocate, teacher, and provider. You don’t have backup. You don’t have weekends off. I’ve had people ask, “Why can’t their dad do it?” or assume I have the same kind of help others do. But often, I don’t. It’s all on me. And that takes a toll. It’s easy to lose yourself, to become a shell of the person you once were. But somehow, you zip up your jacket, push through the fatigue, and do what needs to be done. Every single day.

Q: What supports—people, routines, or resources—have made the biggest difference for your family?

Honestly, it’s the people. That’s made all the difference. I still remember the very first person who looked me in the eye at a Mom’s Group event—you. We gravitated toward each other immediately. And then there was TiTi, whose like, ‘I don’t like people, and I laughed because I said, “I don’t like people either!” That moment stuck with me. It was small, but it made me feel seen.

You and TiTi have both made such a lasting impact on my life. Even when we don’t get to spend a lot of time together, just knowing I’m not alone means the world. And then there’s Pam and a few other moms I’ve connected with who’ve become part of my support circle. It’s not a big group, but it’s a meaningful one.

Mentorship has also been a huge blessing. Through the Mom Mentors program, I found someone I can text or call when something new happens—whether it’s a tough day, a weird behavior, or even a small win. Just having another mom who understands, who’s been there, and doesn’t judge—that kind of support is everything.

It’s also about having safe spaces. Places where our kids can just be themselves without all the constant apologies, no one staring, no one whispering. That kind of space lets us breathe. It gives us clarity. It gives us rest.

Even with all the chaos, I’ve found community—and in this journey, that’s been one of the biggest gifts.

Q: What would you say to another mom in the thick of it— feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or uncertain? I would say: hold on. Just hold on. If you don’t have a spiritual foundation, I encourage you to find one. And if you already have faith—lean into it. Because in those lonely, heavy moments, when it feels like no one sees you or understands what you’re carrying, that’s when your faith shines the brightest. That’s when God, or whatever higher power you believe in, shows up. That’s when the weight begins to lift, little by little.

Cry through it if you need to. Sit in your car, scream, lock yourself in the bathroom for ten minutes just to breathe. Whatever it takes. That release is necessary. Weeping may last for a night, but joy truly does come in the morning.

There were moments I thought, What would my life look like if I didn’t have these kids? And I want other moms to know: it’s okay to think those thoughts. It doesn’t make you a bad mom. It makes you human.

When you’re finally able to come up for air, even just for a few minutes, you’ll be stronger. You’ll be more grounded. And from that place, you can handle the next thing, and then the next. Because when you’re raising kids with high needs, you don’t get to live day-by-day. You live second-by-second. And that’s a pace only other moms like us truly understand.

I used to be a yelling mom. I was angry. I was overwhelmed. But over time, I realized yelling wasn’t helping anyone. It wasn’t changing behavior—it was just exhausting all of us. So I had to find a new way. I had to slow down, breathe deeper, and give myself grace.

Stick to your routines when you can. Stick to your values. And let go of the idea that you have to do it all perfectly. You don’t. You won’t.

Also, find your people—whether it’s another mom your kid connects with, a neighbor, a support group, a mentor, a friend. Blood doesn’t always make family. Sometimes it’s the people who show up, who listen, who stay, that matter most.

And whatever you believe—hold onto that. Let it carry you. You are not alone, even when it feels like it.

It took me a long time to get to this place. But I promise: there’s hope on the other side of the hard.

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Volunteer Opportunity: DISABILITY WRITING PROGRAM

Tangram & Uniquely You are launching a disability writing program focused on self-advocacy, and we’re looking for passionate volunteers to join us! We would love to connect with individuals who:

• Have a heart for coming alongside the disability community

• Have lived experience, family connections, or friendships within the disability community

• Have professional experience working with individuals with disabilities

This is in person and virtual so we are looking for in person and virtual volunteers.

KEY DATES:

• Kickoff call for volunteers: Jan. 8 at 6 p.m.

• Writing courses (all from 6–7:30 p.m.): Jan. 15, Jan. 29, Feb. 5, Feb. 19, March 5, and March 19

As a volunteer, you’ll help support individuals with disabilities as they develop their self-advocacy stories, encourage their writing process, and celebrate their voices.

If this sounds like you—or someone you know—we’d love to hear from you!

If Interested in learning more please email Joni Rice jrice@thetangramway.org

ADHD & Autism Resources Parents & Teachers Love

•Shift from constant frustration to more calm, connection, and confidence. popsugarcafe.com I make it

Simple, realistic strategies that help parents and teachers:

• Cut down daily chaos (especially mornings + homework).

• Build routines that neurodivergent brains can actually stick with.

Spelling to Communicate is an innovative method of communication that starts with presuming in the cognitive competence of non, minimal and unreliably speaking individuals. It is believed that all individuals can and want to learn and communicate despite their perceived limitations. S2C empowers said individuals to overcome communication barriers through the motor movement of pointing to letters on a letter board and thus promoting synchrony between cognitive and motor systems. It is through the repeated practice (pointing to letters) that new neural pathways become formed and myelinated. The end result being a viable means of communication and the ability to show the world their cognitive prowess.

Writing Your Advocacy Story

Led by Lyn Jones & Joni Rice

DO YOU HAVE A STORY TO TELL?

This 6-week writing program is designed for members of the disability community to explore and share their self-advocacy journey.

Through guided prompts and supportive discussions, you will have the chance to:

• Write your own advocacy story—independently or with the help of a volunteer.

• Reflect on important moments in your life.

• Gain confidence in sharing your story with others.

• Present your finished story to the group and/or at a local community event.

Some of the questions we’ll explore together:

• Tell me a story about a time when you stood up for yourself.

• Tell me a story about a time when you wished you had advocated for yourself.

• Who are you, and how do you see yourself?

• Why is advocacy important to you?

PROGRAM DETAILS:

Dates: Jan 15, Jan 29, Feb 5, Feb 19, March 5, March 19

Time: 6:00 – 7:30 PM EST

Options: In-person & Virtual Limited Spots Available

Email: Jamie.olson@uniquelyyoumag.com

Call: 248-882-8448

In Honor of Down Syndrome Awareness

KYLE, MEGAN, ZOLA, AND VIOLET CHAFFEE

When we chose our daughter half way across the world, we didn’t know how Down syndrome would change our lives for the better.Violet has taught us that despite multiple disabilities not much can slow her down by enjoying this beautifulworld. The way she reminds us to slow down and takein the things we love, is like no other. Violet loves to hike, be with family and neighbors,and loves going to school. Social butterfly at its finest. We try to be part of our community so everyonecan learn what it’s like to fully acceptevery person who shows up for the world just by being in it.

MIA FRANCESCA ACCINELLI

This photo captures just a glimpse of who she is: cheerleader, student, fashionista, and most of all, a shining light in our lives. She shows us every day that ability is greater than limitation, and joy is found in celebrating each unique gift. For our family, this month is about more than awareness. It’s about honoring her strength, her laughter, and the countless ways she inspires everyone around her. She is proof that every person has something incredible to share with the world.

WESTLYNN AND KESLEY SHEPHERD

Westlynn, right, is pictured with her big sister, Kesley, left, during a recent trip to Holiday World and Splashin Safari. Westlynn loves riding rides and playing in the water. Being born with Down syndrome doesn’t stop her from being just like her older sister or other kids her age. She can still have fun and ride all of the rides that she is tall enough for (she’s eagerly waiting for the day she can ride a big roller coaster with her sister and aunts). We are so proud of her willingness to try anything new, and we certainly don’t let being born with Down syndrome slow her down.

We are so proud of her and so grateful to share her story as a reminder that inclusion, acceptance, and love matter.

CREE CAUGHMAN

Because of him, my world has completely changed. Because of him, I founded an organization dedicated to supporting families and celebrating people with Down syndrome who look just like him. Because of him, I’ve connected with families across the world and built a community of love and strength. Because of him, I’ve attended conferences, learned from leading professionals, and grown as an advocate. Because of him, I’m a better teacher to my kindergarten students, a better mother, and a better person. Because of him, our household is filled with more patience, joy, and understanding. Because of him, I see the world differently with more compassion, hope, and purpose.

WESLEY KNUEPPEL

Wesley doesn’t let Down syndrome hold him back. He loves to cheer and show his team spirit! If you need some words of encouragement, he’s your guy. We love that he can find the good in all situations!

AIDEN GEHRES

We feel so blessed to have Aiden in our lives. While he faces some challenges, he brings endless joy and laughter to our family. To us, he is perfect in so many ways.

DOMINIC

Dominic is our blessing. He gives our family light, laughter and life! He is going to Pre-k this year and we are extremely proud of him! We are grateful for the opportunity he gets to go to school!

NATHAN SPRINGER

Nathan was being goofy at the Fort Wayne Zoo before he grabbed a drink. It

LILY GARNER

Lily is enjoying a Unified Basketball game with her friends!

KAIDEN, KEARSLEY & TRENIN DUFF

“Celebrate uniqueness, spread kindness.”

PHOTO BY MATT EDWARDS

CASON SMITH

Cason brings so much fun and joy to life! He’s nothing like I expected when I learned of his diagnosis. He’s so much more!

SOPHIE JOHNSON

Sophie makes her own path, and we encourage her to pursue what she loves. And she does! She enjoys music, basketball, swimming, bowling, baseball, makeup, fashion, her brothers, and her cousins. She has a lot of friends, and we

LAYNE KLEBER

Layne is full of life, curiosity, and is constantly learning! Watching her figure out the joy of stopping to smell the flowers has taught us all to take the time to do the same.

KELLY LYONS

Kelly loves to sing karaoke. This summer she spent months off her feet due to leg surgery. But as soon as she was up in a boot, she was back to singing. Here she is performing at “Belt It Out,” a local karaoke contest. She went on to win the perseverance award.

AJ WITHERSPOON

PHOTO BY DSANWI & REAL VIDEO PRODUCTION CO.

This is the year of CONQUER for AJ. Through his determination and support from his community & medical team, he

BRIANNA GALYAN

PHOTO BY EK BRAND COLLECTIVE

My daughter, Brianna, after being crowned “Miss Social Media” in the 2025 Monroe County Fair Queen contest after her introductory post on Facebook received over 1,400 likes and more than 100 comments, the most on any post ever from the Monroe County Fairgrounds.

JD Angels Family Care – Community Volunteer Program

At JD Angels Family Care, we are dedicated to making a positive impact in our community by volunteering our time and services to assist senior citizens, the elderly, retired individuals, people with disabilities, and other residents in need.

Our volunteer activities include:

• Yard work, such as raking leaves and general outdoor clean-ups

• Providing companionship to those who are lonely, depressed, or without family support

• Preparing and delivering meals to those in need

• Organizing outdoor activities like swimming and water aerobics to encourage time in the sun and physical movement

The purpose of our volunteer work is to support and uplift our community by creating a clean, safe, and welcoming environment for individuals who are no longer able to maintain their properties or socialize on their own.

In addition to practical support, we offer emotional and spiritual care by visiting different locations to pray with residents, play games, and simply spend meaningful time together.

A core part of our mission is to help individuals, particularly those with disabilities, focus on their abilities rather than limitations.

We provide structured volunteer opportunities that help clients:

• Develop part-time work habits

• Strengthening social and communication skills

• Engage in teamwork and build a sense of purpose

• Practice decision-making and responsibility

• Learn to follow directions and complete assignments

By promoting life skills and character development, we aim to reduce behavioral challenges and help participants feel empowere valued. Our goal is to show each individual that they can play an important role in the community and make a real difference. We are committed to continuing this work and expanding our outreach to anyone who can benefit from our support. Our focus remains on serving those in need and building character and confidence in individuals with disabilities through meaningful, community-centered activities.

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A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

In honor of world cerebral palsy day, ADHD awareness month and national disability employment awareness month

BEKAH NIXON

JAMEY ROWE

This photo of Jamey Rowe proudly holding his diploma from Berklee College of Music represents the power of perseverance, purpose, and passion. As an individual with Autism, Jamey has overcome barriers that once seemed insurmountable. He was one of 1,600 graduates who walked across the stage in May, 2025, earning his Bachelors of Arts degree in Piano Performance, a dream he accomplished in just two years.

JAYLAH

Jaylah is such a strong, smart girl who beats the odds everyday! She has been through so much in her 11 years of life and has excelled through it all! She is blind, autistic and has ADHD. She is a musical genius and I’m so proud of her!

This photo is a representation of hope for our family! With all she goes through with Cerebral Palsy, Autism, ADHD, epilepsy among others, she is still able to smile after a tough day!

NOEL DOOGS/

PHOTO BY OPTIMAL ACCESS / ACCESS ACADEMY

Noel Doogs is a nonspeaking autistic individual with neuromotor apraxia and cerebral palsy. He was underestimated and segregated for many years, but in 2023, at the age of 22, he got his wish to start earning his HS diploma. With the help of his letterboard, his communication regulation partner (CRP), and an innovative education program in Indiana, ACCESS Academy, Noel earned his 21 HS credits and graduated with an accredited diploma in 2025! He’s got his sights on college next!

Reporting the Existence of a Special Needs Trust to Government Agencies

BY: SHIRLEY B. WHITENACK, ESQ.

Does the existence of a special needs trust have to be disclosed to agencies such as the Social Security Administration (SSA) or Medicaid? The answer depends on the type of special needs trust, whether it is funded or unfunded, and whether federal or state law requires disclosure of the trust.

Basically, there are two types of special needs trusts. A trust which is funded with assets owned by the beneficiary must be irrevocable and is often referred to as a “first party” or self-settled special needs trust. It may also be called a (d)(4)(A) or payback trust because it is governed by federal law found at 42 U.S.C. §1396p(d)(4)(A). This law requires a provision in the trust that assets remaining in the trust upon its termination must be paid back to the agency that provided medical assistance. This type of trust must be funded prior to the time the beneficiary reaches the age of 65 and is established for the sole benefit of the beneficiary by a competent adult beneficiary or the beneficiary’s parent, grandparent, legal guardian or a court. Such trusts may be funded with the proceeds of a personal injury settlement or jury award, a direct inheritance by the beneficiary, or other assets that belonged to the beneficiary prior to the establishment of the trust.

The other type of special needs trust is known as a “thirdparty” special needs trust because it is funded with assets owned by individuals other than the trust beneficiary. A third-party special needs trust may be a “stand-alone” or “living” revocable or irrevocable trust or it may be a testamentary trust embedded in the last will and testament of a person other than the beneficiary.

A testamentary trust cannot be “activated” prior to the death of the person creating the will.

There is no Medicaid payback requirement for third-party special needs trusts. An individual receiving Supplemental Security Income (“SSI”) or Medicaid benefits is required to advise the SSA and the state Medicaid agency about changes in his or her financial circumstances as a condition of receiving such benefits The individual also may have an obligation to disclose a change in financial circumstances to an agency that provides subsidized housing to the beneficiary. Such programs benefit adults and children with disabilities who have limited income and resources and therefore are “means-tested.” Although the beneficiary of a special needs trust cannot compel a distribution from the trust, the assets and income may be distributed to or on behalf of the beneficiary and therefore, the funding of a special needs trust is deemed to be a change of financial circumstances. Absent an express provision in a special needs trust, the trust beneficiary or his or her representative payee, guardian or conservator generally is responsible for reporting the existence of a change in financial circumstances to the government agencies.

An unfunded special needs trust need not be disclosed because there has been no change in financial circumstances due to the existence of the trust. A special needs trust that has been funded, however, will need to be disclosed and, in most cases, the trust instrument will have to be submitted for review by the agency to ensure that it was properly drafted. In some states, a self-settled special needs trust must be pre-approved by the Medicaid agency prior to its funding. A funded special needs

trust for the benefit of an SSI recipient should be transmitted to the District Office of the SSA along with a cover letter and the beneficiary’s Social Security number. The trust should be sent via certified mail, return receipt requested to prove that the trust was delivered. It’s also prudent to make a copy of the letter and retain it with the proof of mailing in case the agency asserts that it did not receive a copy of the trust. If the trust is approved, the SSA is unlikely to acknowledge its approval other than to continue to pay the beneficiary’s SSI benefits. A special needs trust that was previously approved by the SSA but later is determined to be a resource by that agency may be amended within 90 days to conform with the current SSA policy. The 90-day period begins on the day that the SSA informs the individual or representative payee that the trust requires an amendment. During that time period the assets in the trust will not be considered countable. The time period may be extended for good cause if requested and the individual or his or her representative provides evidence that the disqualifying issue cannot be resolved within the 90-day period.

For example, there may be a need to have the trust amendment approved by a court that is unable to decide the matter within the 90-day period. If the 90-day period does not apply because the trust is either new or had not previously been determined not to be a resource, then any future trust amendments will take effect the month following the month of the amendment. If a trust was previously established but was not previously submitted to the SSA, the federal agency will reopen its prior resource determination back to the date of the trust establishment date. There is no duty to disclose the existence of a special needs trust to the SSA if the beneficiary is receiving Social Security benefits pursuant to a program that is not means-tested such as the Social Security Disability Insurance (“SSDI”) program. This program pays benefits to an “insured” worker and certain family members if the worker worked long enough and recently enough and paid Social Security taxes on his or her earnings. Similarly, there is no duty to disclose the trust if the beneficiary is receiving Medicare but not Medicaid benefits. If the SSA or the state Medicaid agency notifies the trust beneficiary or the trustee that the assets and income in the special needs trust are countable and benefits will cease, there is a short window to appeal the determination. The time in which to appeal the loss of benefits should appear on the notice from the agency.

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Event Recap: Uniquely You Indy Connection Day at The Busy Bee Play Café

On Friday, August 15th, families gathered at The Busy Bee Play Café for a special evening designed just for the special needs and disability community. From 4:30 – 6:30 PM, the space was filled with joy, laughter, and meaningful connections.

Kids had a blast exploring the indoor play structure, playhouses, and mini town—immersing themselves in imagination, creativity, and fun. The inclusive, sensoryfriendly environment allowed every child to feel welcome and supported.

Parents and caregivers relaxed in the cozy café seating, sipping gourmet coffee and enjoying snacks while connecting with one another and meeting local support partners who shared valuable resources for families.

This event wasn’t just about play—it was about community and connection. Families discovered new supports, made friends, and experienced the warmth of an environment designed with all abilities in mind.

A huge thank you to everyone who joined us, our wonderful partners, and The Busy Bee Play Café for hosting and creating a space where inclusion and joy come together

We’re already looking forward to the next Uniquely You Connection Day—stay tuned for more opportunities to gather, celebrate, and grow together!

THE

BUSY BEE PLAY CAFE – THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS

Are we an indoor playground with a coffee shop, or a coffee shop with an indoor playground? The answer is a resounding yes. We’re 100% of both—and that’s exactly what makes The Busy Bee Play Cafe such a unique and beloved spot for busy kids and busy adults alike.

Here, the comforting aroma of freshly brewed coffee mingles with the sound of giggles, the thud of little feet on the play floor, and the occasional, “Mom, watch this!” yelled from across the room. Our space hums with life—sometimes calm and cozy, usually buzzing with energy (and maybe just a touch of joyful chaos). Parents know that life with kids isn’t perfectly quiet, and we embrace that, offering a place where playtime and downtime can happen at the same time.

A Space for Play and Connection

Our indoor playground is safe, clean, and thoughtfully arranged so parents can easily keep an eye on their children— even when one is halfway up the climbing structure and another is enthusiastically “cooking” in the playhouse kitchen. From dress-up costumes and building toys to open spaces for running, spinning, and jumping, every corner sparks imagination. We keep our space shoe-free and nut-free, ensuring a safe environment for everyone, and we rotate toys and props so there’s always something fresh for our little regulars to discover.

A Cafe That Stands on Its Own

While kids are busy making new “best friends” or inventing elaborate games, grown-ups can enjoy a coffeehouse experience that’s more than just an afterthought. Our baristas craft rich espresso drinks, calming teas, kid-approved hot chocolate, and seasonal specials that bring a smile to your day. The baked goods and snacks keep everyone fueled—whether you’re savoring your latte in peace or juggling it one-handed while helping your toddler back into their socks.

MORE THAN JUST A VISIT

We’re also a destination for life’s joyful milestones. Our birthday parties are designed so parents can actually breathe—yes, really. We take care of setup, hosting, and cleanup, while kids make memories that will be talked about long after the cake is gone. We also host community favorites like parenting groups, nanny meet-ups, and festive holiday events. Our special classes, like Ashley’s Music Circle, are lively, musical, and full of giggles—perfect for little ones who learn best when they’re moving, laughing, and making a joyful noise.

Your Neighborhood Gathering Place

At The Busy Bee Play Cafe, you’ll always be greeted with a smile—even if we’re dodging a runaway balloon or gently redirecting a toddler who’s “borrowing” someone else’s toy. We believe in embracing the beautiful mess of family life, creating a space where both kids and grown-ups feel at home. Whether you’re here for a quick coffee, a playdate, or a celebration, you’ll leave with tired kids, happy hearts, and maybe a few goldfish crackers in your bag you didn’t know were there.

LOCATION & CONTACT INFO

Address: 5635 W. 96th St., Suite 200 Indianapolis, IN 46278

Phone: (317) 456-7898

Website: thebusybeeplaycafe.com

Beyond Timers: RETHINKING TRANSITIONS FOR NEURODIVERGENT MINDS

BY JESSICA WILLITS,

Freelance

“TRANSITIONS ARE HARD.”

It is a phrase we hear a lot, especially in neurodivergent spaces. Shifting from one activity to another, leaving a favorite place, starting something new, it can all feel overwhelming.

So we do what we are told helps: we bring out timers, count down, use visual schedules, give reminders. And sometimes those things do help. But other times, they just do not.

Maybe the bigger question we should be asking is: why are transitions so hard in the first place? Instead of focusing only on surface-level strategies, it can be helpful to look a little deeper at how neurodivergent brains actually work. Two things that don’t get talked about enough in this conversation are episodic memory and gestalt cognitive processing.

Let’s start with episodic memory. This is our brain’s way of remembering past events, often with a lot of sensory and emotional detail. For many autistic individuals, these memories can be incredibly vivid and sticky. If a transition once felt scary, rushed, or confusing, that memory may come rushing back the next time—even if the situation is totally different (or at least seems that way to us—a neurotypical person). It’s not about being “overly sensitive” or “stuck in the past.” It’s about the brain saying, “Last time this happened, I felt unsafe.”

Then there’s gestalt processing, which is taking in and understanding things as a whole picture in “chunks” instead of step-by-step. So a transition isn’t just “first we clean up, then we go outside.” It’s experienced as one big shift, and if something about that shift changes—like the weather, or the person leading the activity—it can throw off the entire plan.

It’s not always about resisting change. Sometimes it’s about trying to make sense of a world that suddenly feels different and unfamiliar.

SO WHERE DOES THAT LEAVE US?

There’s no quick fix, and transitions may always be tricky for some folks. But when we understand what’s really happening, we can show up with more empathy—and support that actually meets someone where they are.

THAT MIGHT LOOK LIKE:

• Building trust, not just structure. When someone feels emotionally safe and understood, transitions often can feel less overwhelming.

• Sharing context, not just instructions. Instead of only saying what is happening, talk about why and how it might feel. Even a quick “This part might be loud, but we can cover our ears and step outside if it’s too much” can help. (Or heck, have headphones at the ready!)

• Offering space and choice. Letting someone move at their own pace, bring something comforting, or (when possible) choose how they transition can make a big difference.

At the end of the day, supporting neurodivergent individuals through transitions isn’t about making them fit into a mold—it’s about being flexible ourselves. About understanding that what looks like resistance might actually be self-protection. And about remembering that connection and compassion go further than any countdown ever could.

NEURODIVERSITY CONNECTION, BY JESSICA WILLITS, NEURODIVERSITY CONNECTION

Autism mom. Creating inclusive spaces.

writer by day, neurodiversity advocate always

Local Events

BY CHRISTIA WOODFORD

NOTE:

Don’t forget to apply for the Access Pass! The Access Pass program allows qualifying families to visit The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis and participating locations for $5 per family member, per visit, for up to two adults and all dependent youths in the household. Eligible families must receive one of the following:

• Hoosier Healthwise Insurance (Indiana’s health care program for low-income families, pregnant women and children)

• SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program)

• TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)

• Apply at: https://www. childrensmuseum.org/visit/ hours/access-pass

MUSEUMS

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Museum My Way An adaptive museum experience Oct. 14, Dec. 9, This special event is an opportunity for visitors with disabilities and/or sensory sensitivities to experience the museum in a new way. Families and groups of all abilities are welcome to play and learn together!

Limited capacity. Quiet area with sensory items. Some music is turned down or off. Edited lighting effects in some areas.Tickets go on sale 6 weeks before events. https://www. childrensmuseum.org/museum-my-way

The Children’s Museum Guild’s Annual Haunted Bewitched BOOseum. Oct. 10 through 31

Something magical—and a little mysterious has happened. Guilda, your friendly resident witch of The Children’s Museum Guild, wanted to celebrate the museum’s 100th birthday and decided to bring our beloved exhibits and icons to life. A magical mishap happened instead. Explore a creepy mashup of your favorite exhibits and iconic museum moments, all brought eerily to life in one haunted adventure—Bewitched BOOseum There’s so much more that has gone wrong! https://www.childrensmuseum. org/visit/calendar/event/165

First Thursday Night- First Thursday every month

Oct. 2, 4:00 pm

On the first Thursday of every month, we open our doors from 4–8 p.m. for just $6 admission per person! Why should you visit? Admission is just $6 per person for the entire museum. That’s a savings of more than 75% per ticket! It’s the ONLY time the museum is open to the public in the evening, so it’s a perfect after-hours night for your family. It’s not as crowded as you might think! We have limited capacity on First Thursday Nights. Parking is always free!

Our Food Court is open, so you can grab a quick and easy dinner for the whole family. Low cost. Low crowds. Late night play! https://www.childrensmuseum. org/visit/calendar/event/273

Various Events scheduled through the month Opens at 10 AM 3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, 317-334-4000 https://www.childrensmuseum.org

Conner Prairie — Indiana’s Living History Museum

Headless Horseman

Oct. 2 through 26

Throughout the month of October, immerse yourself into a world of mystery and seasonal thrills at the Headless Horseman Festival. Explore fall family traditions throughout the festival grounds, including fun activities and rides, seasonal treats, specialty drinks,

and entertainment to delight everyone. Wander into a new story surrounded by the ghosts of Indiana circus history. Throughout the journey, try your hand at axe-throwing, marvel at how fire becomes art with Circle City Fire, and dare to venture into the haunted corn maze. There, you will investigate the folklore involving an Indiana circus train accident. The hayride will be waiting to take you out into the woods and into Sleepy Hollow that puts you into the story and the legend of the Headless Horseman. Make sure you stop by the Apple Store and help celebrate their 40th anniversary. https://www.connerprairie.org/explore/ things-to-do/headless-horseman/

Sensory-Friendly Hours

Oct.12, 10:00 am to Noon

The second Sunday of every month, from 10 AM to noon, are sensoryfriendly hours at Conner Prairie! Enjoy a calm environment. Check-in with Guest Relations, stating that you are here for sensory-friendly hours. You will get free admission and may stay as long as you wish.

Various Events scheduled through the month 10:00 am- 10:00 pm

13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers, IN 46038. Phone: 317-776-6000 or 800-966-1836 https://www. connerprairie.org/events/list

Indiana State Museum

Sensory Friendly Afternoon

Oct. 19, 3:00 pm- 5:00 pm

650 W. Washington St., Indianapolis, IN 46204

Experience the Indiana State Museum in a sensory-friendly way. Each month, the museum lowers the lights and reduces distractions to create a welcoming environment for children and adults with sensory processing differences. Guests can enjoy interactive learning in a comfortable, accepting setting. Social narratives are available at the ticket counter, and sensory-based activities are spaced throughout the museum. Sensory Bags are also available to enhance your visit. https://9529a. blackbaudhosting.com/9529a/ tickets?tab=3&txobjid=ec16dc0b45af-4c86-987b-2150481851de

Check the calendar for upcoming October Fun! and various events through the month: https://www. indianamuseum.org/calendar/

FAMILY FUN

Indianapolis Zoo ZOOBOO

Sept. 24 through Nov. 2, Wed, Thur, Sun 2 pm-7 pm | Fri & Sat 2 pm-9 pm No ZooBoo Mon-Tues 1200 West Washington St. Indianapolis, IN 46222

Is regular October too humdrum, but haunted houses too creepy-crawly? Come to the Zoo for Halloween activities, amazing animals and pumpkins galore! ZooBoo is a fun family experience for itty-bitty ghouls and goblins as well as the bigger kids. October weather means active animals, colorful foliage and a new season to explore. Combine that with engaging, hands-free activities, spooktacular costumes and trick-or-treating, and you’ve got an unforgettable family tradition! Many more activities! https://www.indianapoliszoo.com/zoo-events/zooboo/ Various events scheduled daily through the month https://www.indianapoliszoo.com/

Sensory Sensitive Saturdays at Smiley Indoor Play

Oct, 4 and Oct. 18, 9 am-11:00 am 5729 E. 86th St., Indianapolis, IN 46250 Smiley Indoor Playground in Indianapolis offers Sensory Sensitive Saturdays, a special playtime for children with sensory sensitivities, autism, or other special needs. Held on the first and third Saturday of each month

During Sensory Sensitive Saturdays, several adjustments are made to create a more soothing experience: Reduced Sensory Stimuli – Music, certain lights, and air compressor guns will be disabled or set to minimal levels. Play Areas Open – All play areas inside the facility will be available, except for the arcade. https://www.smileyindianapolis.com/.

Sensory Friendly Play at Urban Air Noblesville

Oct. 5, 9:00 am- 11:00 am 14450 Mundy Dr, Noblesville, IN 46060 Urban Air’s Sensory Friendly Play day is typically held on the first Sunday of

the month. Check the Noblesville calendar for the latest info. https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/ embed?src=hi8j9brk94jgnc71kmslc13js8@group.calendar.google.com

Sky Zone South Sensory Play

Oct. 6, 5:00 pm- 7:00 pm Every first Monday of the month Sensory Fun Fridays runs every Friday from 9:00 am-10:00 am. 4150 Kildeer Dr, Indianapolis, IN 46237 Jump and socialize in a comfortable, friendly environment. Enjoy the freedom of jumping. Sensory hours provide a quieter, toned-down jumping experience for those with special needs. https://www.skyzone.com/ programs/sensory-hours/

Tangram Social Clubs

5155 Pennwood Drive,Indianapolis, IN 46205

Tangram offers a variety of social clubs for everyone to enjoy! Whether you’re into games, books, or advocacy, there’s something for everyone—and it’s all free!

• Bingo - 1st & 3rd Mondays at 6 PM: Play a classic game of bingo and connect with friends!

• Self Advocates - 3rd Thursday at 6 PM-7 PM: Discuss selfadvocacy topics and empower yourself with like-minded peers.

• Game Night - 3rd Tuesday at 6 PM: Card games, board games, and more! Feel free to bring your favorites too!

• Book Club - 2nd & 4th Mondays at 6 PM: Read and discuss books with a fresh pick each quarter!

Check out the schedule below and join us for some fun, learning, and great conversations. We can’t wait to see you there! For more information about Tangram’s clubs, please email jrice@thetangramway.org. #TangramClubs #CommunityConnection #InclusiveFun #JoinUs #TheTangramWay

Autism Community Connection Truck or Treat Oct. 18, 10:00 am to 2:00 pm 5307 W Fairview Rd, Greenwood, Indiana FREE! Trunk or Treat for all attendees at the parking lot at New Hope Church Autism Community Connection will be hosting a special event featuring

first responders with a Touch-a-Truck experience and a medical helicopter on site. Families can also enjoy a food vendor, along with character appearances from princesses and superheroes throughout the day. There will be an Autism Resource Fair as well. For more information contact: info@autismcc-in.org

Monster Bash presented by DDSI & FUSE- New Palestine Oct. 18, 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm 2615 S 700 W, New Palestine, Indiana DDSi and FUSE are hosing Monster Bash! This will be held on Saturday, October 18 at the Borgmann Farm. We will have a petting zoo, bounce house, crafts, hayrides, trick or treating, costume contest, dinner and lots of fun and fellowship. This is an inclusive evening of fall fun for all ages and abilities.

Dinner by Park Place Catering: $1 for ages 14 & Under $5 for 15 & up Dinner tickets must be purchased in advance. Get your tickets at fuseinc.org

Inclusive Fun Day with Uniquely You & We Rock the Spectrum Oct. 26, 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm

We Rock the Spectrum, 13644 N Meridian St, Carmel, IN 46032

Get ready for an unforgettable day where families and children of all abilities can play, create, and connect in a safe, supportive, and joyful environment.

What’s Happening:

• Open Play Adventures –swings, trampolines, zip lines, sensory rooms, and crash pits

• Pumpkin Bucket Coloring Craft

– creative fall fun for all ages

• Crafts & Activities – designed for both fun and skill-building

• Howdy Ice Cream Treats –sweet refreshments to enjoy

• Connect with Uniquely You Partners – discover resources to better support your family or loved one

• Community Connection – meet other families, caregivers, and friends in an inclusive, welcoming space

• This event highlights the mission of We Rock the Spectrum: to provide purposeful play and support for

children of all abilities—including those with autism, ADHD, and sensory integration challenges—while welcoming siblings and friends, too.

Space is limited and no cost thanks to We Rock the Spectrum —reserve today and join us for a day full of joy, creativity, and inclusion! We can’t wait to see you there!

AMC Theatres

Check website for location, date and times.

AMC is proud to partner with the Autism Society to offer unique movie showings where we turn the lights up, and turn the sound down, so you can get up, dance, walk, shout or sing! Our Sensory Friendly Film program is available on the second and fourth Saturday (familyfriendly) and Wednesday evenings (mature audiences) of every month. Please check your local theatre listings for specific showtimes, and don’t forget to share your family fun with #AMCSensoryFriendly. https://www.amctheatres.com/ programs/sensory-friendly-films

THE ARTS

The ARC of Hancock County Adaptive Dance ( Adaptive Ballet Coming Soon)

Oct. 2, 5:00 pm

Hancock Wellness Center, 8505 N Clearview Dr, McCordsville, IN 46055

Join us for an adaptive dance class every 1st Thursday of the month at Hancock Wellness Center, McCordsville! This program is designed for individuals with disabilities of ALL ages. Siblings are welcome to join. To Register: https:// thearcofhancockcounty.com/ adaptive-dance. Parents/Guardians must stay for the duration of the class. FLOW (Fueling Life On Wheels),

KDO’s Adaptive Dance Program

5-day program held Tuesday, 10/7; Thursday, 10/9; Tuesday, 10/14; Thursday, 10/16; Friday, 10/17 (Final Showcase)

IU Indy (formerly IUPUI) Campus

A collaboration between Kids Dance Outreach (KDO) and Skill on Wheels (IU + Riley Hospital for Children), FLOW offers children who use wheelchairs a joyful and empowering dance experience. Designed for young people ages 6 to 17 who use manual or power wheelchairs, FLOW encourages participants to explore movement, build confidence, and express themselves through dance— celebrating each child’s unique abilities and creativity. The program is tuition-free and prioritizes accessibility, inclusion, and fun in a safe, supportive environment led by experienced instructors.Visit KDO’s website at the link below for more information: kidsdanceoutreach.org/ dancers-with-disabilities/ Any additional

part-singing, and social skills involved in being a member of a musical ensemble. Though Jubilate has, at its core, the same goals as other choirs in the Indianapolis Children’s Choir (ICC), singers in Jubilate engage in additional activities like visual and tactile experiences that are catered specifically to the current members of the choir. Director: Lauren Southard

For more information, contact Lauren Southard at 317-940-8065 or lsouthar@icchoir. org. https://icchoir.org/special-needs/

Gigi’s Playhouse

Various classes during the week. 5909 E. 86th St., Indianapolis, IN 46250 317-288-8235 indy@gigisplayhouse.org https://gigisplayhouse.org/ indianapolis/sfcalendar/

EVENTS

28th Annual Buddy Walk Indianapolis [In-person ]

Oct.4, 9:00 am to 12:00 pm Celebration Plaza at White River State Park, 801 West Washington Street Indianapolis Indiana Registration begins at 9:00am with opening ceremonies beginning at 10:00am.

Since 1995, the Buddy Walk® has been the premier advocacy event for Down syndrome in the United States. It is also the world’s most widely recognized public awareness program for the Down syndrome community. The Buddy Walk® attracts thousands of participants from coast to coast each year.

To express interest in learning more about FLOW, please complete the following form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAI pQLSdjJWomwU2qJr26qQ8SiVjwsoM1 m93ZdQcXXDMODIfyaKlQcA/viewform

Butler University, Lilly Hall, Room 133

The Jubilate Choir is for singers with special needs in grades 3-9. Singers with varying abilities meet each week to choir

focuses on proper singing techniques, music theory and sight-reading,

A day of inspiration and celebration, the walk brings together the Down syndrome community all while raising funds to support the mission of Down Syndrome Indiana. Down Syndrome Indiana is a onestop-shop for information and resources on Down syndrome. The programs it offers are intended to promote the inclusion of individuals with Down syndrome in their greater community, as well as to offer support and information to families, caregivers, educators, employers and the professionals who serve individuals with Down syndrome. For more information and to register https://dsindiana.org/buddywalkindy/

Ask The Arc Webinars Series

Oct. 9, 6:00 pm- 7:00 pm

Our Ask The Arc webinar series will provide information and discussion on timely topics relevant to people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, their families, and their support systems.

Webinars take place on the 2nd Thursday of the month at 6:00 p.m. EST. Past webinars will be recorded and posted to view on your own schedule in The Arc of Indiana Academy and on our YouTube channel.

Registration is for the complete webinar series. You can pick and choose which ones you want to attend without having to register each time. https:// us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/ WN_hTnwxka_S--MknIpiQoNrA#/ registration

Disability Days at Science Central

Oct. 18, 9:00 am- 9:00 pm

1950 N Clinton St, Fort Wayne, IN 46805 Disability Days is our program for people with developmental, intellectual,

and emotional disabilities. Topics explored include botany, physics, chemistry, and astronomy.

Sessions are free to attend for those individuals, along with their caregivers.

Sessions feature these modifications:

• Lower ambient sound levels

• Increased light in areas that are usually dark

• Access to listening devices

• Less-crowded environment (Tuesday sessions)

• Extra staff on hand

• Access to a sensory room

• Access to a private changing table

• Additional demonstrations with extra tactile stimulation https://tickets.sciencecentral.org/ DateSelection.aspx?item=2705

SibShops

Oct, 23, 5:30 pm to 8:00 pm

Shirley Brothers Irving Hill Chapel,5377 East Washington Street,Indianapolis, IN Creative Pathways Sibshops are celebrations of the many contributions

made by brothers and sisters of kids with special needs. Sibshops acknowledge that being the brother or sister of a person with special needs can bring challenges. They reflect a belief that brothers and sisters have much to offer one another – if given a chance.

Sibshops for Siblings of Kids with Special Developmental and Learning Needs includes, but is not limited to, autism, Down syndrome, ADHD, and developmental delays.

Sibshops for Siblings of Kids with Developmental Needs and/or Special Health Concerns includes, but is not limited to: diabetes, cancer, cystic fibrosis, muscular dystrophy, heart, kidney, liver, gastrointestinal or lung disease; autism, cerebral palsy, Down syndrome, ADHD, and spina bifida. https://www. creativepathwaysindy.org/sibshops/

Is there a local event for the special needs community you would like us to promote in an upcoming issue? Email us at jamie.olson@n2co.com.

Sensory-friendly play where children can move, explore, and be themselves— without having to explain or defend their needs.

Imaginative spaces where they can feel confident. A judgment-free community with parents who get it.

Access to therapy support for the entire family.

A moment of peace for the parent—not at the expense of children’s joy, but in harmony with it.

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Law Office of Elizabeth A. Homes LLC (317) 660-5004

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The Dust Devils (317) 709-6120

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Hollis Adams (463) 206-1032 www.hollisadams.org

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Noble (317) 375-2700

Phoenix Community Services LLC (765) 622-7808 www.Phoenixcommser.com

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Retrain the Dyslexic Brain by Dr. Rebecca Troy (218) 393-2423 www.DrRebeccaTroy.com

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WestPoint Financial Group

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Specialized Home Care Services (888) 506-4182 www.specialized4u.com/

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JD Angels Family Care (317) 654-2609

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State Farm John Cole (317) 430-1958

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George’s Pharmacy & Medical Equipment (855) 600-6251 www.georgespharmacy.com

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Sunrise Learning Academy (317) 245-7052 www.sunriselearningacademy.org

NEURODIVERSITY SUPPORT TOOLS

Pop Sugar Cafe (260) 237-2377 www.popsugarcafe.com

NEUROFEEDBACK THERAPY

Indy Neurofeedback (317) 888-8500

ORGANIZATIONAL EMPLOYEE DEVELOPMENT

Team Sylvester (317) 691-9000 teamsylvester.com

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Guardian Care www.myguardian.care

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Dynamic Minds Academy (317) 578-0410

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Prana Play (317) 653-0444 www.pranaplaycarmel.com

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Exceptional Minds LLC (317) 408-3990

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Putnam County Comprehensive Services (765) 653-9763 www.pccsinc.org

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Call or text with questions

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Our Services

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