South Florida Family Life November 2020

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LOCAL RESOURCES TO KEEP KIDS HAPPY AND HEALTHY

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Celebrations CREATIVE WAYS TO MAKE BIRTHDAYS SPECIAL

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GRATITUDE HOW KIDS BENEFIT FROM GIVING TO OTHERS

Freddy, 100th kidney transplant recipient, with several members of his transplant care team

CELEBRATING

100+ Kidney Transplants Freddy, 17 and a talented high school football player, wasn’t feeling like himself.

A referral to Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital revealed a kidney was failing. He needed a transplant.

Freddy became the 100th kidney transplant for Memorial Transplant Institute.

With care from transplant team members at Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital, he’s already at home recovering and dreaming of getting back to football.

“My doctors and their staff, they were a lot of help. They were another support system that I needed,” Freddy said.

Every transplant means a second chance for our pediatric and adult transplant patients, and we thank our donor families for sharing the gift of life with patients like Freddy.

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COMMUNITY CLOSE-UP Our special section takes a look at some local businesses and how they’re connecting with the community.

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UNCONVENTIONAL CELEBRATIONS Parents find unique ways to make birthday parties memorable.

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ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE How the act of giving can boost children’s health and happiness.

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OPEN DIALOGUE Talking to kids about disabilities and ways we are all the same.

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SPECIAL NEEDS RESOURCE GUIDE From expert assessments to adaptive activities, South Florida has many resources to help your child reach his or her full potential.

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SOUTH FLORIDA SPOTLIGHT

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Staying in touch with the people, places and events in our community.

Skip the table leaf, this Thanksgiving calls for a table for two.

Tag, you’re it!

Deciding who’s cooking the turkey this holiday.

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Keep Your Family Safe This Flu Season This year it’s especially important to make sure children are protected from the flu.

TEACH YOUR CHILD TO: 1. Wash their hands frequently at home and at school

Help STOP the Spread

2. Cover their coughs and sneezes with their elbow 3. Not touch their eyes, nose or mouth 4. Not share straws, cups, masks or items that come in contact with their mouth or face

Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital encourages you to continue to see your pediatrician to stay on schedule with well-child visits and immunizations, including flu shots, and give your child flu antiviral drugs if their doctor prescribes them.

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Taking Flight FORT LAUDERDALE AIR SHOW IS BACK IN FULL THROTTLE

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fter a six-month delay, the Fort Lauderdale Air Show will take over the skies above Fort Lauderdale Beach on Nov. 21-22.

The two-day show, which was originally scheduled for May 2-3, will include all four of the U.S. Air Force fighter jet demonstration teams: the F-22 Raptor, the F-35 Lightning II, the A-10 Thunderbolt II and the F-16 Viper.

Civilian performance teams are also

PAYING IT FORWARD From health services and education to animal rescues and the arts, nonprofit organizations strive to enrich the lives of families by serving the community day in and day out. In turn, the Miami Foundation hosts Give Miami Day, one of the nation’s largest 24-hour annual giving events, to support local charitable organizations.

This year, the online initiative takes place on Nov. 19. A one-stop-shop of sorts, contributors can sign on to www.givemiamiday.org to explore hundreds of nonprofit profiles using a broad-based search or by entering a specific keyword.

Profiles give comprehensive details about the organization, including its mission, an overview, contact information and operating budget. If you choose, you can give a donation through the online campaign simply with the click of your mouse.

Since 2012, Give Miami Day has raised more than $61 million. The Miami Foundation partners with donors in an effort to champion their causes and improve local quality of life. To learn more, visit www.miamifoundation.org.

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scheduled to attend.

Air Show officials will implement a series of “Stay Safe and Separate Initiatives” to help keep guests safe.

“The stage for the Fort Lauderdale Air Show is 2 miles wide and 500 feet high,” said Chris Lagerbloom, city manager for Fort Lauderdale, in a news release.

“Spectators can watch from their backyard, balcony, boat or the beach, making it the ideal event for our community to host in

the era of social distancing.”

Although the Air Show is free, VIP and premium viewing tickets are on sale. Tickets bought for the original date in May can be used at the November event or exchanged for the 2021 Air Show.

For more information, visit www.fortlauderdaleairshow.com or follow the event on Facebook.

MIAMI BOOK FAIR TURNS A NEW PAGE One of Miami’s most iconic family events, the Miami Book Fair, is entering a new chapter this year.

With the pandemic limiting social gatherings, Miami Dade College is transforming the event from a week-long celebration in downtown Miami to a free virtual event Nov. 15-22.

The new format will allow the fair to connect even more authors to their loyal fans and new readers through a digital format.

An incredibly diverse event, the Miami Book Fair will feature programs in English, Spanish and Haitian Creole for all ages, and represent genres from fiction, comics and poetry to politics, history, memoirs and more. It will also feature an online version of the fair’s popular Children’s Alley, providing fun learning activities for young readers.

Canadian poet, novelist and environmental activist Margaret Atwood (“The Handmaid’s Tale”) headlines this year’s growing list of more than 200 authors and moderators.

Science educator and TV host Bill Nye is also on the program, as well as YA powerhouse Maggie Stiefvater, the Nebula Award–winning Jeff VanderMeer, actress and activist Natalie Portman, and many more.

Registration is open for the various programs included in the Miami Book Fair.

Attendees can view the schedule and sign up to attend at www.MiamiBookFair.com.

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Kindness hasn’t been canceled For many, Thanksgiving is a time to gather around the table for an abundant meal, but for others — particular those who are food insecure — there may be little, or nothing, to serve.

That’s where The Harvest Drive steps in.

Typically, this is the time of year when students and other community members spring into action to collect food, gift cards, toiletries and other necessities for local families in need. Founded

by Renee Herman, The Harvest Drive is a school-based effort and has been a mainstay in Broward County for nearly three decades.

This year, the pandemic, school and business closures, and COVID-19 restrictions have created some unique challenges for the effort. Collection sites have been difficult to secure, and many students who otherwise would drop off donations at school are now schooling virtually.

However, that is not stopping the worker bees — students, teachers, administrators, social workers and community sponsors — who are the driving force behind the collection and distribution efforts that benefit numerous Broward Schools families.

Kids have become creative this year, organizers explained, by collecting individually and amongst groups they belong to, such as the Girls Scouts, or by forming groups specifically related to the cause. Students have also reached out to clubs within their schools to arrange outside collections, created Venmo accounts to garner donations to be used for food purchases, and have been “adopting” families by purchasing all the goods on a food needs list, bagging it up and donating it.

The goal of The Harvest Drive this year is to provide 2,000 families with bags of food and other supplies this holiday season.

A list of suggested non-perishable food and toiletry items can be found on the Harvest Drive website. The Harvest Drive also accepts monetary donations and gift cards. Contributions are tax-deductible.

For more information, visit www.harvestdriveflorida.com or contact Operations Coordinator Holly Stracquadaine at 954-465-0042.

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Historic Holidays at the Deering Estate This holiday season, visitors can tour the historic houses at the Deering Estate as they come alive with holiday accents and decorations. This year’s theme is “Vintage Florida.” The historic holiday décor is on display daily Nov. 27 to Jan. 8, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., and is free with Deering Estate admission: $15 for adults and $7 for children (ages 4-14).

Other holiday programs include: Storytime and (socially distanced) Photos with Santa on Dec. 12, and family-friendly Holiday Evening Strolls on Friday, Dec. 4, and Wednesday, Dec. 16.

Please note that the Deering Estate is closed Christmas Day, Dec. 25.

A Winter Camp will be offered for ages 6-14 in two sessions: Dec. 21-23 and Dec. 28-30. For more information, visit www.deeringestate.org or call 305-235-1668, ext. 233.

Nature’s Superheroes: Life at the Limits

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Discover nature’s most unusual, extreme and bizarre creatures in Nature’s Superheroes: Life at the Limits, a new special exhibition at the Phillip and Patricia Frost Museum of Science.

Offering a fascinating lens on the world’s most remarkable creatures, Nature’s Superheroes explores the remarkable “superpowers” that some extraordinary organisms have developed to survive and thrive, even under extreme conditions.

The exhibition features life-size and larger-than-life models, videos and interactive exhibits that highlight an array of organisms with surprising ways of thriving in harsh environments, finding a mate or their next meal, leveraging strength, endurance and speed, and more.

Nature’s Superheroes: Life at the Limits is on view now through April 11, 2021.

Admission to the exhibition is included with all museum admission tickets.

Frost Science is safely welcoming back visitors daily from 9:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

To plan your visit to Frost Science, visit www.frostscience.org/planyourday.

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Both in-center and virtual learning options available at participating locations Whether your child is back to school virtually, in-person or a mixture of both, the classroom undoubtedly looks and feels different. Many families have incorporated the Kumon Math and Reading Program as a supplement to their child’s education during this unfamiliar time.

Kumon is an after-school math and reading enrichment program designed to accelerate your child’s learning.

Kumon goes beyond tutoring by actively developing critical-thinking skills as children progress independently through a carefully crafted math and reading curriculum that supplements school learning. The learning method uses an individualized approach that helps students develop a solid command of math and reading skills, and aims to increase academic confidence, independence and ability.

Kumon’s time-tested program uses engaging worksheets and guidance from a certified instructor to present new concepts and materials, allowing children to develop self-learning skills. Through daily worksheet study and practice, many Kumon students advance to studying material years beyond grade level. Depending on the location, both in-center and virtual class options are available for children in preschool through high school. Locations that have opened for in-person class have implemented numerous safety measures to keep students safe.

The Kumon Method holds the key to unlocking the potential of students of all ages, regardless of the setting. Keep your child on track this school year with Kumon. By building confidence in students at an early age, they become motivated to reach their goals and learn to take on challenges both in and out of the classroom with ease.

To learn more about how the program can benefit your child, call 800-ABC-MATH or visit our website at www.kumon.com, where you can schedule an informational session virtually or in-person at a center most convenient for you.

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Step onto the stage with Miami Children’s Chorus

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Serving South Florida youth since 1965, the Miami Children’s Chorus is recognized as one of the nation’s top youth choral performance programs with ensembles for youth ages 8-22.

Children can participate by audition and meet in weekly rehearsals to learn the necessary skills to be practicing and professional musicians. These skills include healthy vocal technique, ear training, sight singing, stage presence, and singing in a wide range of musical styles and languages.

Concerts are presented throughout the year.

MCC has toured nationally and internationally and has sung with The Cleveland Orchestra, with Queen Latifah at the 44th NFL Super Bowl, with Barry Manilow, André Rieu, Gloria Estefan, Jon Secada, Nestor Torres and Raul Di Blasio, and has performed in numerous productions with the Florida Grand Opera.

There is still time to join the 2020-2021 season. Visit www.miamichildrenschorus.org to learn more and schedule a virtual audition today!

Children’s Services Council The Children’s Services Council of Broward County (CSC) funds programs that enhance school readiness and academic success. These initiatives strengthen early care and education programming in an effort to meet the comprehensive needs of child care centers, teachers and families. Activities include: • Providing training and technical assistance using the Positive Behavior Support (PBS) approach specific to infant/ toddler inclusion, family involvement, cultural sensitivity, and developmentally appropriate curricula.

• Assisting providers with development of Quality Improvement Plans based upon needs identified by the appropriate environmental rating/scale assessment and linked to positive child outcomes.

• Implementing evidence-based programming that helps support the PBS approach by focusing on training and support of preschool teachers, staff and parents to prevent and/or address behavioral problems in at-risk children.

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We can’t wait to see you — Come visit us!

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Most Broward County Parks are open and ready for socially distanced and responsible exercise, play, nature watching, boating and mindfulness. While there are current restrictions on park uses and activities, we still love to see members of the public enjoying themselves in our parks. COVID-19 has caused us to be more cautious than ever, and we sincerely hope you understand.

Simply put, we miss you! And it seems like you miss us, too. According to a recent National Recreation and Park Association (NRPA) Pulse Survey of more than 1,000 adult U.S. residents, 87 percent of respondents said it is important that residents have access to park and recreation programs for the overall betterment of their communities.

We haven’t heard this message only from the NRPA, we’ve heard it from you guys, too ... in our emails, messages, chats and phone calls. Since COVID-19 came into the picture, people are raving about how much they love and miss their parks, and how essential they are to maintaining one’s physical and mental health. We want to let everyone know that we’re still here, although with limitations.

Check our website to see which parks are open. Regional and neighborhood parks, nature center grounds, and natural areas are open seven days a week.

Regional park and natural area sites are open 8 a.m. to 7:30 p.m. Neighborhood parks and nature centers are open 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., except Anne Kolb Nature Center, which is open 8 a.m. to 7:30 p.m.

Please check our website for updates.

We can’t wait to see you stretching your limbs and enjoying safely distanced exploration of our parks’ flora and fauna.

Enjoy nature in our parks - just do it responsibly.

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CELEBRATIONS Parents get creative to make birthdays special

BY JENNIFER JHON

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irthdays have changed during the pandemic. Scenes of children and their parents crowded into a party room, arms around each other as they sing “happy birthday,” have been replaced with pictures of children posing alone with their cakes.

But South Florida parents have come up with plenty of ways to make the day special for their little ones.

Bruna Brandao, a mom of one in Deerfield Beach, went to a Zoom party in May. “It was super fun! The mom of the child did a scavenger hunt of the birthday boy’s favorite things,” such as his favorite fruit (banana), his favorite sport (baseball) and his favorite character (Spider-Man), she said.

“Then she had people share their favorite memories with the birthday boy.

Everyone had a turn. We sang happy birthday and took silly pictures together.

It was fun!”

Zoom painting parties are in fashion, as are Zoom cupcake and cookie decorating parties that allow friends to create together.

Drive-by birthday parades have also become very popular. Parents are making the event as fun for partygoers as it is for the birthday child, handing out goody bags, cake pops and juice boxes

and bringing in entertainment, such as bubble machines, magicians, princesses, superheroes and other characters.

Guests can be invited to decorate their cars to compete for prizes, or wear costumes to fit the theme. Drive-by games such as basketball and cornhole can add to the festivities, and ice cream or snow cone trucks can be called in to deliver birthday goods.

Some companies are offering their birthday packages for delivery or pickup, such as the Chuck E. Cheese Party Pack, which includes two pizzas, a cake, goody bags, cotton candy, party decorations and gifts for the birthday child.

Families can also order birthday gift boxes from online retailers such as Etsy, Amazon, The Popcorn Factory and flower delivery companies.

Don’t want to stay in? There are options to go out for birthdays while

maintaining social distancing. AMC and Cinemark Theatres are offering Private Watch Party packages, or you could take the party outside to the Swap Shop Drive-In in Fort Lauderdale, which allows friends to enjoy a movie together and sing happy birthday from the safety of their own cars.

Some small indoor activities are also open for private events, such as POD22 in Miami, Prissy Missy Spa in Weston and others.

No matter who is invited or how you choose to celebrate, making your child feel special is key to making good birthday memories.

With luck, you might just find yourself making a tradition of this year’s creative party plans.

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Attitude of THE SCIENCE OF GIVING AND HOW IT HELPS KIDS

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ant to really make your kids happy? Teach them the importance of giving

to others.

Contrary to common belief that kids need and want more “stuff” to be happy, science tells us that it is the act of giving to others that actually boosts happiness and can even improve health and other areas of life.

CHILDREN WERE BORN TO GIVE Children enter this world with a natural instinct to be compassionate to others.

Scientists at the Max Planck Institute discovered that infants help others even though they are too young to have learned about being kind and polite.

And a breakthrough study by psychologists at the University of British Columbia determined that young children are happier to give than to receive. Toddlers who were asked to give away their own treats expressed greater happiness when they shared with others.

The researchers interpreted the results to mean that anytime people participate in pro-social behavior, such as volunteering and giving charitable donations, we experience an increase in happiness.

Children have the foundation to be kind, but it’s our job as parents to continue to nurture this part of them as they grow. If we neglect to do so, negative life experiences can unfortunately tear down this instinct.

HOW GIVING TRANSFORMS OUR KIDS Numerous studies have uncovered several ways that giving enhances our children’s lives.

Boosts Happiness. When we make others happy by giving a gift or our support, we experience a physiological change called a “helper’s high.” It is a

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Gratitude euphoric physical sensation resulting from our brain releasing chemicals called endorphins. It makes us feel good naturally, giving us a rush that leaves us elated and excited, similar to how we feel after exercising.

Improves Health. Research shows that giving leads to better health. In his book Why Good Things Happen to Good People, Stephen Post, a professor of preventative medicine, explains that giving to others has been shown to increase health benefits in people with chronic illness.

In addition, a study led by Doug Oman of the University of California, Berkeley, suggests that giving may improve physical health because it helps reduce stress.

Promotes Social Connection. Several studies suggest that when we give, our generosity is ultimately rewarded by others. These positive actions promote a sense of trust and cooperation that strengthens our relationships. Moreover, we feel a bond toward those who we help.

All of this is important because having positive social interactions is central to good mental and physical health.

Encourages an Attitude of Gratitude.

When we give to those in need, we feel a sense of gratitude because it puts things in perspective. Volunteer work is a great opportunity for our children to appreciate what they have and gives them a glimpse of the broader world. Meanwhile, gratitude is another very important ingredient for happiness and good health.

Gives Children the Opportunity to Inspire Others. Those who are on the receiving end of a good deed typically want to pass along that positive feeling and help others. Researcher James Fowler at the University of California, San Diego, found that just one act of kindness can inspire several more acts of kindness by others.

BEST WAYS TO TEACH CHILDREN ABOUT GIVING Teaching our children how to pay it forward is easier than you may think.

There are many opportunities in South Florida to volunteer as a family and to give our children meaningful experiences that will enhance their lives and the lives of the people they help.

HandsOn Broward, an organization that connects nonprofits with volunteers in South Florida, has a very robust youth program for both teens and smaller ones, and the kids tend to grow up in the program, said CEO Dale Mandell.

The Kids Who Care program for 3- to 12-year-olds feeds into the Teen Service Squad, and those volunteers graduate to become youth leaders. The focus is leadership through service, she said. “Kids respond to that in a huge way because they enjoy it. The process of giving back, that euphoria you feel when you know you’ve done something good and you see it in the face of others, you don’t lose that.”

And it isn’t just about giving back, because there’s an element of learning in the projects, whether it is handing out boxes at a food distribution or building home gardens, Mandell said. “There is a learning component to everything we do; there’s always civic engagement … and it’s amazing to watch.”

TIPS ON HOW TO INCORPORATE GIVING INTO YOUR CHILDREN’S LIVES Discuss how they can help. Ask your children who they would like to help. Provide some options like babies, animals, people without homes, children who do not have families, students who need books or the elderly. Talk about the different types of projects you can do to help those in need. For some inspiration, read books about giving and kindness to your children.

Talk about the importance of charitable giving. If you choose to start a monetary collection for charity, consider creating or buying giving boxes for each child. Ask them to set goals about how much they would like to give throughout the year and which organizations they would like to donate to. Check in weekly or monthly

throughout the year to see how close they are to reaching their goal.

Help your children discover their passion. Our passion should drive how we give, because when we are excited about a project, we can put all of our heart and soul into it. Also, when we care about what we are working on, we will get more out of it and feel happier. Help your children identify their talents, skills and interests that they can put to good use.

Give as a group. Volunteering during a community service event with others accentuates the happiness boost because you are also building social connections.

Choose projects close to home. Giving to a place locally where you can actually see and experience the results is most effective. Studies have also found that we are happiest when we give to a charity through a friend, relative or social connection rather than simply making an anonymous donation to a cause halfway around the world.

Find ways to volunteer as a family.

By volunteering as a family, you make giving a priority and build it into your children’s daily routine. There are so many ways that you can give together, and if you don’t find something out there that you love, you can create a project yourself. Find volunteer opportunities for your family by checking your city website; asking friends and neighbors; or visiting sites like www.HandsOnBroward.org, www.HandsOnMiami.org, www.VolunteerMatch, www.UnitedWayMiami.org and www.UnitedWayBroward.org.

There is certainly no shortage of ways to help others. The next time you feel like your child’s playroom or bedroom closet is going to explode, ask them to fill a bag with items to give to kids who could really use them. By providing our children with opportunities to give, they will be happier and healthier and have the power to pass along that goodness to so many people.

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BY SARAH LYONS “Why do you talk like that?” I heard the question come from behind me as I helped another child in the Sunday school class. “It’s just the way I am.” I heard my sister-inlaw wisely answer the curious boy.

My sister-in-law, Kara, was born with cerebral palsy. She was helping me in the classroom that day when one of the kids noticed her speech is different. Kara has been taught to answer “It’s just the way I am” after years of questions about her differences.

Our kids have grown up around their beloved Aunt Kara and accept her as she is, but there came a time when each of them have asked about Kara’s disability and why it makes her different.

Chances are, at some point, your child will meet someone at school or in the community that has disabilities. It is normal for children to have questions about people who are different, which means parents should be prepared to answer their questions in an intelligent and appropriate way.

The key to talking about children with disabilities is to put the child first, said Tonya Ricker, the coordinator of Family Support Services with Arc Broward. “They are not their disability.

It’s not cerebral palsy and then the girl, it’s a girl with cerebral palsy.”

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Ricker said parents should model the acceptance they want their kids to have.

“Teach kindness and sensitivity,” she said. “Teach they are people before their disability. I think that really helps put it into perspective for a lot of children.”

Talking openly and honestly with your children is also important. Here are some tips to get the conversation started: Everyone is different but the same. All of us have unique gifts, personalities and challenges. No two people are the same, and this is a great thing because diversity makes life interesting and fun. While we are all different, everyone has things in common, too. All people, including people with disabilities, want to have friends, be shown respect and have the desire to be accepted. Encourage your child to embrace the differences of others and find common ground. If your child is interested in a popular television show, book, toy or game, chances are a person with special needs is interested, too. Ask them what they love to do. I would guess they would be happy to tell you.

Types of disabilities. Some disabilities are obvious, and some are not. Some people may need a walker or wheelchair to help them move around. Others may have a cognitive disability that is not as visible. Explain in simple terms that people struggle with different things and may need a little extra help from a physical tool (like a wheelchair) or help from others. People can have impairments with sight, hearing, walking, speech, cognitive or a variety of other things. It is important to note that just because someone is in a wheelchair, it does not mean they have a cognitive disability. Also, disabilities are not contagious, and children are not going to “catch” the disability. These things may sound obvious to adults, but children process things differently, and many have these questions.

Name-calling is never OK. Emphasize that people with disabilities have feelings, too. Name-calling is hurtful, disrespectful and is a form of bullying. People with disabilities need others to stand up for them when they cannot stand up for themselves. Encourage your child to tell an adult if kids are teasing another child.

Your child can be an example to others by being kind and respectful. Parents can set an example by using positive language and behavior toward others, as well.

A note about “rude” comments. Kids are curious and love to ask questions. Many times they will speak exactly what is on their mind, without thinking about whether the comments will be hurtful. This can be very embarrassing to parents. So what do you do if your child blurts out a rude and embarrassing comment? Start by answering calmly and matter-of-factly. If, for example, your child asks, “Why is that boy in a wheelchair?” Simply answer, “He needs it to move around. Why don’t you say hello?”

If the child is reluctant, say hello to him yourself along with something like “John likes trains. Do you like trains, too?” If the person accompanying the child responds, follow their lead. It is always better to treat others as you would like to be treated than to hurry away in an embarrassing situation. Later, when you are at home, you can ask your child if they have any other questions about others with disabilities and reinforce the value of treating everyone equally.

My sister-in-law, now 38, has been asked many questions over the years, some rude and some just curious. She has learned to handle them well because she knows that, just like anyone else, she has challenges to overcome and successes to celebrate. Kara loves watching movies, dancing to music and taking care of animals. She loves eating candy, pizza and tacos. She is fun to be around and loves to get out and explore new places. People with disabilities are just people. Sometimes that simple fact is all kids need to know.

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Learn More Learn more about programs to support people with disabilities at www.ArcBroward.com. Several organizations are built around fostering relationships among children with different abilities, including Best Buddies (www.bestbuddies.org) and The Friendship Circle (www.friendshipcirclemiami.org or www.friendshipfl.org).

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From expert assessments to respite care, South Florida has many resources to help your child reach his or her best potential

Adaptive Recreational Activities Best Day Foundation Provides children and young adults with special needs the opportunity to build confidence and self-esteem through adventure activities, including surfing, body boarding, kayaking and more.

1-800-309-2815 www.bestdayfoundation.org

David Posnack Jewish Community Center Through GibConnect enrichment programs, youth and adults with special needs can learn new skills, gain independence, build confidence and make new friends. Programs focus on fitness, arts, life skills and socialization. 5850 S. Pine Island Rd., Davie. 954-434-0499 www.dpjcc.org/gibconnect

Equine-Assisted Therapies of South Florida Therapeutic horseback riding and other equine-assisted activities for children and adults with physical, cognitive and emotional difficulties.

3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek.

954-974-2007 www.equineatsf.org

God’s Little Acres Provides safe and controlled recreational opportunities on a five-acre ranch for seriously ill and developmentally disabled children between the ages of 2-11 with their families. No fee.

4551 NW 39 Ave., Coconut Creek.

954-984-0787 www.godslittleacres.org

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Parkland Buddy Sports Nonprofit organization offers supervised and structured sports programs for special needs children and young adults. www.parklandbuddysports.com

Parks and Recreation Departments Broward County and Miami-Dade parks departments offer extensive programs for those with physical, developmental, intellectual, visual and hearing disabilities. Activities include social gatherings, tandem biking for the visually impaired, bowling, yoga and more.

Broward: 954-357-8170, TTY Line: 954-537-2844 www.broward.org/parks Dade: 305-755-7848, TTY Line: 711 www.miamidade.gov/parks

Pembroke Pines Special Population Programs City of Pembroke Pines provides recreational and educational programs to those with special needs. www.ppines.com

Special Olympics This global organization oversees year-round sports training and competition for developmentally disabled individuals ages 8 and up. Provides training through schools and individual programs in a variety of different sports. www.specialolympicsflorida.org

YMCA South Florida Through Special Needs Inclusion programs, the YMCA aims to increase each individual’s ability to take part in activities with their peers to create a mutual sense of belonging. Programs include adaptive sports, summer camp and more. www.ymcasouthflorida.org

Baudhuin Preschool at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center

ADHD

Located on the main campus of Nova Southeastern University, the preschool is an internationally recognized model for children with autism spectrum disorder. Offered in partnership with Broward County Public Schools at the Jim & Jan Moran Family Center Village, 7600 SW 36th St. Davie. msc.nova.edu/autism-institute

ADHD Assessment, Consultation & Treatment Program

Clinical Programs at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center

Provides assessment, testing and treatment for children and adolescents 2-22 years who are demonstrating behavioral issues consistent with ADHD. Nova Southeastern University Center for Psychological Studies, Maltz Building, 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale. www.nova.edu/healthcare/psychology/adhd.html

Autism Autism Society of America Support, resources and advocacy for parents of children with autism spectrum disorder. www.autism-society.org

Autism Speaks Promotes understanding and acceptance, advocacy and support, and research and screening of those with autism spectrum disorder and related conditions. 5805 Blue Lagoon Dr., Miami.

786-235-1165 www.autismspeaks.org

Housed at NSU, clinics provide a comprehensive spectrum of services for children and caregivers including developmental assessment of autism and related disorders, feeding disorders and challenging behaviors. 7600 SW 36 St., Davie. www.nova.edu/mscclinics

kindergarten that engages students who require an individualized education program focusing on social communication, behavioral self-regulation, and independent functioning. 7600 SW 36th St., Davie. msc.nova.edu/autism-institute/preschool/academy.html

The Victory Center Center provides children with autism and related disabilities comprehensive individualized treatment through specialized programming including Behavior Intervention, Academic Programs, Parent Training, Summer Camp and more. 18900 NE 25 Ave., North Miami Beach. 305-466-1142 www.thevictoryschool.org

UM-NSU CARD Based at the University of Miami and Nova Southeastern University, the Center for Autism & Related Disabilities (CARD) is a state-funded organization that offers free services for those with autism spectrum disorder, dual sensory impairment and related disabilities.

305-284-6563 www.umcard.org

Miami Autism Recovery Preschool MARP prepares young children on the Autism spectrum for a smooth introduction to school through therapies, developing social interaction through play, and customizing meals adapted to each child’s dietary needs.

1245 NE 201 Terrace, Miami. 786-251-4092 www.miamiautismrecoverypreschool.com

Bereavement Support Children’s Bereavement Center

The Academy at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center Located on the main campus of Nova Southeastern University, The Academy is a private preschool and

Grief support group for children, teens, young adults and families seeking support after the loss of a loved one. Free groups take place across Broward and Miami-Dade counties.305-668-4902 www.childbereavement.org

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Eagles’ Haven

Sunrise Community

A community wellness center created solely and mindfully for the MSD/Eagles community providing current, future and former students, families and faculty a place for support services including information and education, family strengthening services and wellness experiences.

5655 Coral Ridge Dr., Coral Springs. www.eagleshaven.org

Education and early intervention services, adult and pediatric therapy programs and childcare services are some of the programs offered to those with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Offices in Broward and Dade. www.sunrisegroup.org

Tomorrow’s Rainbow

Namaste Nourished

Program uses miniature horses and other animals to provide free grief support groups to children ages 3 and up, teens and their families who have experienced the death of a loved one.

4341 NW 39 Ave., Coconut Creek.

954-978-2390 www.tomorrowsrainbow.org

Diagnostic Centers Children’s Diagnostic & Treatment Center Nonprofit center provides medical care, therapeutic services, multidisciplinary evaluations, support groups, recreational events, and more to children with disabilities or chronic illnesses. Nurses, doctors, therapists, social workers, psychologists, nutritionists and specialists provide services funded primarily through federal, state, county and private grants. 1401 S. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale.

954-728-8080 www.childrensdiagnostic.org

Florida Diagnostic & Learning Resources System State-supported program provides support services and resources for those that have concern for and serve children with exceptionalities. www.fdlrs.org

Nicklaus Children’s Hospital Dan Marino Outpatient Center In partnership with Nicklaus Children’s Hospital, this not-for-profit center provides world-class neurological and developmental services and screenings for children. Also provides support groups, seminars and a resource center for parents.

Serves children with autism, Asperger’s syndrome, developmental disorders, dual sensory impairments and more. 2900 S. Commerce Parkway, Weston.

954-385-6200 www.nicklauschildrens.org

Early Intervention Child Find

Enhancing the lives of individuals with Down syndrome by helping them reach their full potential by providing family support, education & social activities.

Broward Gold Coast Down Syndrome Organization

954.825.0400

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Kapila Family Foundation Starting Right Program at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center An early intervention, parent-child class for children 18-36 months exhibiting delays in language and social skills. Program is designed to increase communication, social and school readiness skills.

NSU Mailman Segal Center for Early Childhood Studies, 7600 SW 36th St. Davie. 954-262-7117 msc.nova.edu/autism-institute/starting-right.html

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In coordination with the public schools, this program works to identify children who may be eligible for services under the Individuals with Disabilities Act. Provides early intervention and serves as an entry to exceptional student education services before children reach school age.

754-321-7200 www.browardschools.com

This high-risk infant delivery unit is specially designed for unborn children pre-diagnosed with a medical condition that will require advanced medical intervention after birth. 3100 SW 62 Ave., Miami. www.nicklauschildrens.org/fetalcare

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Eating Disorders Specializes in the treatment of eating disorders through nutrition therapy, group support and more. 2300 E. Commercial Blvd., Fort Lauderdale.

954-641-2210 www.namastenourishedllc.com

Renfrew Center Residential and outpatient treatment for eating disorders, including anorexia. For ages 14 and up. 7700 Renfrew Lane, Coconut Creek.

800-736-3739 www.renfrewcenter.com

Finding Friends Best Buddies Pairs people with intellectual disabilities in one-to-one friendships with middle and high school students. Also offers a program for adults. www.bestbuddies.org/florida

The Friendship Journey Fitness, art and music programs pair children with special needs with typical children to form friendships and learn from one another. www.thefriendshipjourney.org

Hearing, Speech & Vision Center for Hearing & Communication Multidisciplinary services for deaf and hard of hearing clients, including audiology services, assistive listening devices, specialized phone equipment, psychological assessments, counseling, support groups and educational and summer camp programs. Emergency interpreter services available 24 hours. 2900 W. Cypress Creek Rd., Fort Lauderdale. 954-601-1930, TTY: 954-601-1938 www.chchearing.org

Florida Division of Blind Services State-sponsored programs for those up to age 21 who are visually impaired or have a disease that will lead to blindness.dbs.myflorida.com

Hearing & Speech Center of Florida Nonprofit organization provides hearing and speech-language therapy services, hearing testing, dispensing of hearing aids and more.

9425 SW 72 St., Miami. 305-271-7343 www.hearingandspeechcenter.org

Lighthouse for the Blind and Visually Impaired Programs for blind and visually impaired adults and children include music education, braille music lessons, academics, summer camp, employment transition programs and more. Locations in Broward and Dade. www.lhob.org www.miamilighthouse.org

NSU Audiology Clinic Comprehensive assessment and treatment for hearing and balance disorders, including comprehensive audiologic assessment from newborn through school-age, and auditory processing evaluations for children with learning disorders and attention difficulties.

3200 S. University Dr., Davie. 954-678-2273 www.nova.edu/healthcare/hearingbalance

NSU Speech-Language Pathology Clinic Evaluation and treatment for speech, language and communication delays and disorders such as apraxia, articulation, dysarthria, swallowing difficulties, phonology, pragmatic/semantic language, receptive/expressive language, stuttering, fluency and voice disturbances. 6100 Griffin Rd., Davie.

954-678-2273 www.nova.edu/healthcare/slc

Schott Communities Education, socialization, counseling and case management for deaf or disabled individuals and their families or caregivers.

6591 Flamingo Rd., Cooper City.

954-434-3306 www.schottcommunities.org

Stuttering Foundation of America Provides free online resources, information, services and support to those who stutter and their families. www.stutteringhelp.org

UM Audiology/Speech/Language Services The Division of Audiology and Speech-Language Pathology at the Mailman Center for Child Development focuses on the communication needs of infants, toddlers and school-aged children including hearing screening for newborns, early detection of hearing loss, speech and language evaluations, hearing-aid dispensing and programming and more. University of Miami Health Systems. www.umiamihealth.org

Mental Health Healing Arts Institute of South Florida The Institute’s Awesome Kids program assists children with social, emotional, behavioral and anger management issues. 4699 N. State Road 7, Tamarac. 954-459-1473 www.healingartssfl.org

Henderson Behavioral Health Case management for children who are experiencing mental health problems. www.hendersonbh.org

Mental Health Association of Southeast Florida Prevention programs, community education, advocacy and opportunities for empowerment of persons with mental illness. Programs include services, support, mentoring, art and music therapy, and more. 7145 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Lauderhill.

954-746-2055 www.mhasefl.org

National Alliance on Mental Illness Support, advocacy and education for people with mental illnesses, their families and friends. www.nami.org

NSU Child, Adolescent & Family Services A full range of psychological services to assist families with emotional, cognitive, and/or behavioral difficulties — including ADHD, school and behavioral problems, childhood bedwetting and more. Nova Southeastern University, Maltz Psychology Building, 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale. 954-262-5730 www.nova.edu/healthcare/psychology/cafs.html

SEDNET (Severe Emotional Disorders) Multi-agency effort dedicated to improving services to children and adolescents with serious emotional disturbances. www.sednetfl.info

Respite Care ARCH National Respite Network National database provides state-by-state help in choosing family caregivers and resources to match specific needs. www.archrespite.org

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Deliver the Dream A respite and retreat program for families experiencing serious illness or crisis, allowing them to mend spirits, gain strength and reconnect. 3223 NW 10 Terr., Fort Lauderdale.

954-564-3512 www.deliverthedream.org

The Kidz Korner Respite program for medically fragile children in a home-like atmosphere with attentive nurses, therapists and respiratory practitioners.

Therapy programs include physical, dysphagia, occupational and speech-language. Location also offers a ventilator weaning program and transition programs. For preemies to age 21.

4250 NW Fifth St., Plantation. 954-587-3296 www.plantationkidzkorner.com

Special Education Ann Storck Center Developmental preschool serving children ages 3 months to 5 years with special needs.

Full-time nurse, occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech/language pathology, family support, and more. 1790 SW 43 Way, Fort Lauderdale.

954-584-8000 www.annstorckcenter.org

Arc Broward Support for those with developmental challenges and their families. Includes parent-training programs, full-day preschool, therapy and developmental training, summer camps, after-school programs, respite care and more.

10250 NW 53 St., Sunrise. 954-746-9400 www.arcbroward.com

Broward Academy Provides educational support and services to students with special needs to promote optimum self-sufficiency while addressing each student’s unique abilities and needs. 7601 SW 39 St., Davie.

954-401-2024

Broward Children’s Center This nonprofit center offers a wide range of programs, including licensed home health care, medical daycare, developmental preschools for special needs and typical children, in-home and facility-based respite care, and more. Also offers social services referrals and counseling, education for medically complex children, medical transportation, and physical, occupational and speech therapy. 200 SE 19 Ave., Pompano Beach.

954-649-7362 www.bcckids.org

Florida Diagnostic & Learning Resources System State-supported program provides support services and resources for those that have concern for and serve children with exceptionalities. www.fdlrs.org

Little Flowers of Hope A private school serving individuals with special needs in grades kindergarten-12. Continuing education is offered for those ages 22 and up.

Online and hands-on curriculum available.

2645 Executive Park Dr., Weston 305-298-9787 www.littleflowersofhope.com

The Arc of South Florida Organization serves more than 60,000 Miami-Dade County citizens with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Programs for children and youth include early intervention, educational opportunities and camp programs.

15280 NW 79 Court, Miami Lakes 305-759-8500 www.arcsofla.org

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Support Organizations 2-1-1 Broward A free, confidential referral and crisis helpline.

The hotline and website connect parents to comprehensive resources, including assistance for children with developmental and physical disabilities. 2-1-1 or 954-537-0211 www.211-broward.org

Agency for Health Care Administration Helps Medicaid consumers navigate the Medicaid system. Provides a list of doctors and specialists but does not determine eligibility. 888-419-3456 www.ahca.myflorida.com

Agency for Persons with Disabilities Supports people with developmental disabilities in living, learning and working in their communities. Provides Medicaid waiver services. www.apd.myflorida.com

Broward County and Miami-Dade Public Schools There are many resources available through the public schools, including family counseling, exceptional student education, Homebound program, psychological services and hearing impaired services. www.browardschools.com www.dadeschools.net

Broward Gold Coast Down Syndrome Organization This group aims to enhance the lives of individuals with Down Syndrome by helping them reach their full potential through family support, education and social activities. 9900 W. Sample Rd., Coral Springs.

954-825-0400 www.bgcdownsyndrome.org

Broward Regional Health Planning Council Provides a wide variety of programs to support families, including financially assisted childcare to eligible families of children with special needs.

200 Oakwood Lane, Hollywood. 954-561-9681 www.brhpc.org

Cerebral Palsy Guide Provides free educational materials, financial options and emotional support for those affected by cerebral palsy. 866-756-6035 www.cerebralpalsyguide.com

Children’s Medical Services Part of the Florida Department of Health, this agency provides early intervention as well as primary, therapeutic, specialty and long-term care to children under 21 with special healthcare needs. Deals with brain and spinal cord injury, craniofacial/cleft palate, orthopedic, genetic, neurosurgical, cardiac, renal, eye, sickle cell anemia and diabetes. 954-713-3100 www.cms-kids.com

Children’s Services Council Government agency created by voters to provide leadership, coordination and funding for children’s services. Check their website for a list of funded programs. 954-377-1000 www.cscbroward.org

Disability Rights Florida Assists people with disabilities in applying for and receiving services from rehabilitative programs.

800-342-0823 TDD: 800-346-4127 www.disabilityrightsflorida.org

Easterseals South Florida Easterseals provides services to help children and adults with disabilities and/or special needs as well as support to their families.

1475 NW 14 Ave., Miami. 305-325-0470 www.southflorida.easterseals.com

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Family Network on Disabilities of Broward County Part of a statewide network serving families with special needs. Provides tutorials, workshops and assistance for parents of children with developmental disabilities. Some eligibility requirements may apply. 754-444-6550 www.fndbroward.com

Florida Mentor Network Part of a national network of health and human services providers, this network offers community-based support for adults and children with intellectual and developmental disabilities as well as medically complex needs. www.fl-mentor.com

JAFCO Committed to serving all children, from birth to age 22, who have been diagnosed with a developmental disability including autism, intellectual disabilities, cerebral palsy, spina bifida or Prader Willi, the center provides individualized treatment interventions, enrichment activities and family support services. Also offers child enrichment services including social skills groups, a life skills program, various clubs and indoor and outdoor activities. 954-749-7230 www.jafco.org

Muscular Dystrophy Association Specialists provide one-on-one support with local chapters throughout the United States. www.mda.org

Parent to Parent of Miami Organization provides information, educational training and support to families, children and adults with disabilities and special needs.

Programs include workshops, online training, events and more. 7990 SW 117 Ave., Miami.

305-271-9797 www.ptopmiami.org

The Advocacy Network on Disabilities Assists individuals with disabilities and their families in need of support and services.

7990 SW 117 Ave. 305-596-1160 www. advocacynetwork.org

The Children’s Trust Provides children with special needs and those belonging to special populations with resources and support through a variety of programs and events. 3150 SW Third Ave., Miami.

305-571-5700 www.thechildrenstrust.org

United Community Options Formerly United Cerebral Palsy, this organization helps children with a range of needs and abilities maximize their intellectual, physical, social and emotional development through preschool and after-school programs and summer and transitional programs for children with special needs. In addition, UCO offers in-home respite care workers to give family members time for themselves. www.unitedcommunityoptionssfl.org

Therapy Centers Cadenza Center for Psychotherapy and the Arts Agency serves children, adolescents, and adults with developmental, emotional, cognitive, physical, and behavioral needs using active, creative, and enriching treatment interventions. 954-925-3191 www.cadenzacenter.com

Children’s Center for Development & Behavior Provides interdisciplinary developmental/ behavioral assessments, integrated therapy programs and training for parents of children with developmental delays, including autism.

Also available: clinical psychology, occupational therapy, speech-language pathology and applied behavioral analysis. 440 Sawgrass Corporate Parkway, Sunrise. 954-745-1112 www.childpsych.org

Nicklaus Children’s Hospital The Nicklaus team offers a full range of bilingual diagnostic and therapeutic services to meet the needs of infants, children and adolescents.

Specialists include audiologists, occupational therapists, physical therapists and speech language pathologists. The rehabilitative program includes both inpatient services and outpatient care. www.nicklauschildrens.org

Therapies 4 Kids Pediatric intensive fitness programs for children and adults with neurological disorders such as cerebral palsy, autism and stroke.

Multiple south Florida locations. 954-828-0425 www.therapies4kids.com

Transitioning to Adulthood Access Plus at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center Located at Nova Southeastern University, Access Plus is a supported college program for undergraduate students with autism spectrum disorder. This program provides services to academically capable students to support academic achievement, independent living skills, and campus life engagement opportunities.

Students in this program must meet the NSU’s admission requirements as determined by the program of application. www.nova.edu/accessplus

Center for Independent Living Peer support, programs and referrals to assist individuals with disabilities gain self-sufficiency.

Ages 14-22 years may participate in workshops, internships, training conferences, field trips, and leadership development. 4800 N. State Road 7, Fort Lauderdale. 954-722-6400, TYY: 954-735-0963 www.cilbroward.org

Joshua’s Path Free service provides educational seminars, resources and consultations for Broward County parents and caretakers of special needs adults or adolescents nearing adulthood. Topics include financial or legal arrangements, residential options, vocational assistance and social and recreation needs. Goodman Jewish Family Services of Broward, 5890 S. Pine Island Rd., Davie. 954-370-2140 www.jfsbroward.org

Living Inclusively for Everyone LIFE offers recreational outings for young adults with developmental disabilities, with focused efforts in the areas of housing, recreation and job opportunities. 954-817-4742 www.life-florida.org

Turning 18 A free, nonprofit service that helps parents of children with developmental disabilities navigate legal options as their child reaches adulthood. www.turning18.org

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Ages 6 & up

GibConnect offers virtual and in-person programs to foster socialization, inclusion and friendship.

Membership NOT required

Live, virtual classes · cooking · fitness · yoga · hip hop · music Swim sessions Family Sunday Social FOR INFORMATION OR TO REGISTER:

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FAMILY man

Thanksgiving traditions BEFORE THE PANDEMIC, WE PARTIED LIKE PILGRIMS

BY RICK EPSTEIN

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hen I was a little kid, I didn’t think much about Thanksgiving. In school, we’d trace around our hands to draw turkeys and learn about a Native American named Squanto who taught the Pilgrims how to grow corn or bake pumpkin pies or something like that.

Then around seventh grade, I had to do a report on the first New England Thanksgiving. I consulted my favorite source, the World Book Encyclopedia.

(I looked again just now as a refresher.)

Here’s a summary: Thanking God for the first harvest in the New World, it was a

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three-day extravaganza involving about 50 colonists and 90 Native Americans.

The menu included duck, goose, turkey, venison, eel, fish, clams, leeks, watercress, cornbread and plums. “Everyone ate outdoors at large tables and enjoyed games and a military review,” says the encyclopedia.

With the deadly winter of 1620-21 behind them and the travails of the Boston Red Sox centuries ahead of them, the colonists were feeling festive, and for a short time, Plymouth, Mass., was the party capital of the New World.

In fact, it seemed to my 12-year-old

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self that the original Thanksgiving set a standard that has been hard to live up to.

Certainly my own family’s observance fell dismally short. It featured good food, fine china and gleaming silverware, but what was that to a kid? I’d have traded all of it just for a close-up look at an eel. And as a holiday, it arrived empty-handed, offering no gifts, no Santa Claus, no fireworks, no songs, no candy, no costumes, no egg hunts — not even a dreidel! Just an endless dinner.

Because our relatives lived far away and my dad didn’t like company anyway, it was always just us. To Dad, privacy was more

delicious than ice cream. Whenever more than one of my friends visited, he would joke pointedly, “So, when did you decide to have the party?”

Once, Uncle Phil and Aunt Char came to visit, and we put them up in the guest room — at the Sleepy Hollow Motel. I could never understand my dad’s craving for privacy. I only wanted it when I was doing something wicked. But the worst thing Dad ever did was to send our relatives to the Sleepy Hollow Motel.

It’s not as though the tail lights of Uncle Phil’s Chrysler would fade in the direction of the motel and Dad would fire up the tiki torches, install two cold ones in his beer hat, and yell, “Woohooo! Party time!” No, he’d just put on his pajamas and go to bed.

I’ve been glad to follow my dad’s lead on a lot of things, but not on privacy. I want friends to drop in for dinner, and if they stay for a few days, so much the better.

Last Thanksgiving, my place was swarming with visitors. The guest list included all three daughters, two of their college friends, both of my brothers, a sister-in-law, a niece, and a lively terrier.

The coffee flowed like water. Bedtime?

Ha! Ten o’clock came and went unnoticed.

My wife got the help in the kitchen that she’d dreamed of all year, as the chatting multitudes peeled and chopped whatever she shoved their way. We added so many leaves to our dining-room table you could’ve landed an airplane on it. Each night, people slept on every flat surface. We had to borrow extra pillows from Grandma.

Laughter and affection abounded.

Thanksgiving 2020 will be different.

My wife and I want so badly to gather up my brothers and other loved ones we haven’t seen since last winter. We’ve all been in our separate quarantine bubbles, and even though the members of our extended family are good distancers and mask wearers, this is not the year to be congregating. Our Thanksgiving will feature just Mom, Dad, and three social animals pacing in the cage we call home.

Next year, hugs and laughter will mean so much more, and coughs and sneezes will mean so much less.

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WORDS of wisdom

Family feast WHO’S UP FOR THE CHALLENGE?

BY CHERYL MAGUIRE

“C

an we please host Thanksgiving dinner?” my 11-year-old daughter pleaded.

Since I hated cooking, cleaning and anything related to hosting a dinner party, I fought the urge to respond with, “Not if I can help it.” If I’m being totally honest about my feelings, going over to my sister’s house sounded much more appealing. But I knew that wasn’t the answer she was looking for. Instead, I responded like any mom would who is hoping to avoid a debate that could rival an experienced lawyer.

“Maybe.”

“YES!” My daughter screamed as she balled up her fist moving it in a downward motion like she just won the lottery.

“Why are you excited and responding yes?”

“Because maybe always ends up being yes,” she explained.

She had me there; usually her lawyer-level debate skills ended up turning a maybe into a yes.

“It isn’t a yes, yet. Now go get ready for school.”

Over the next week, I made a long list of all the reasons why going to Auntie’s house for Thanksgiving would be far superior than hosting at our house. And just when I thought I was ready for a debate… I won a turkey from a contest at the YMCA. If I didn’t know any better, I would have thought that my daughter somehow rigged the outcome.

“Guess who won a turkey?”

“YES!” my daughter exclaimed.

“There you go saying yes again. You didn’t even guess who.”

“I can tell that you won and that means we are going to host Thanksgiving.”

In addition to being a lawyer, it seemed like she may have some psychic abilities.

“Why do you want to host so badly anyway?”

“I want to decorate the house, bake and have everyone here.”

Sure that’s easy for her to say. She didn’t have to go to the grocery store, clean the entire house and spend days cooking and baking. Or did she?

“OK, but you are going to have to grocery shop, clean and help me every step of the way,” I told her.

She wholeheartedly agreed.

At the crowded grocery store, I felt frustrated trying to make my way over to the aisle with the cranberries.

My young Padawan was unfazed as she strolled along with a perpetual smile as if she was in Disney World. Come to

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think of it, there were some parallels, like the mobs of people and overabundance of food, but it was lacking in folks wishing you to have a magical day.

During the cleaning of our house, my daughter maintained a sunny disposition. She even played music and danced as she did it. And then, when I didn’t think it was possible to be any happier, she looked the most elated while cooking and baking.

When the big day came and we were all seated around the table, I thought about all the preparations. My daughter never complained and maintained a smile even when she did the less appealing things, like take out the garbage or clean the dirty dishes. Her enthusiasm was infectious, and I might even go as far as to say it was fun to host. The best part was spending time with her and realizing that something I thought was tedious could be entertaining.

“Mom can we host Christmas?”

Even though I enjoyed hosting, I thought we were getting a little ahead of ourselves by discussing this before dinner was over.

“Maybe.”

“YES!” she exclaimed with a big smile.

Looks like we will be hosting Christmas, too.

Cheryl Maguire is the mother of twins and a daughter.

Although she’s a reluctant dinner host, she’s thankful for the experience.

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