We are stronger TOGETHER PAUL DOPP ’48
Living a Life of Faith, Character, and Service ___ 12 ___
YOUR NEW
Alumni Association Executive ___ 10 ___
ARCHANGEL’S DEN Update ___ 14 ___
ALUMNI MAGAZINE
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ORDER OF ST. MICHAEL Inductions ___ 16 ___
WINTER 2019
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VOLUME 24
DOUBLE BLUE PICTORIAL: Class of 2018 ___ 18 ___
CONTACT DIRECTORY St. Michael’s College School: www.stmichaelscollegeschool.com Blue Banner Online: www.mybluebanner.com Basilian Fathers: www.basilian.org
The St. Michael’s College School alumni magazine, Blue Banner, is published twice a year. It reflects the history, accomplishments, and stories of graduates and its purpose is to promote collegiality, respect, and Christian values under the direction of the Basilian Fathers.
From the SMCS Archives You can help to tell the St. Michael’s College School story. Would you or someone you know consider donating those special mementoes from your high school days? This gift will find a secure and permanent home in our school archives and will be enjoyed by present and future generations. Our holdings include the complete run of yearbooks starting with the first published in 1910, most school newspapers dating back to 1944, early school mark register
megaphone from the 1950s and autographed pucks. We are continually seeking school memorabilia to add to our collection. For further information, please contact Michael De Pellegrin at md@smcsmail.com
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INTERIM PRESIDENT: Fr. Andrew Leung, CSB
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EDITOR: Gavin Davidson ’93
Communications Office: md@smcsmail.com
CO-EDITOR: Michael De Pellegrin ’94
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CONTRIBUTORS
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Joe Younder ’56, John P. O‘Neill ‘86, Ed Bridge ’59, Brandon Sousa ‘07, Robert Fantilli ‘94, Michael Bookman 99, Anthony Scilipoti ‘90, Stephanie Nicholls, Norah Higgins,
E-mail: info@smcsmail.com
books from 1875 to 1919, videos and thousands of images of teams, clubs and school activities. We also have artifacts like a football helmet from the 1920s, a
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• Admissions (ext. 200) • Advancement (ext. 118) • Alumni Affairs (ext. 273)
TABLE OF CONTENTS President’s Message
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Alumni Association Message
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Editor’s Letter
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Letters to the Editor
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Sergio Marchionne ’71 from Panoram Italia
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• Archives (ext. 457) • Arena (ext. 422) • Chief Operating Officer (ext. 239) • Communications (ext. 292) • Facilities (ext. 230) • Finance (ext. 117)
Executive Summary of your New Alumni Executive
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Living a Life of Faith, Character, and Service
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• Marketing (ext. 288)
Catching up with the Archangel‘s Den Winners
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• Mporium – School Store (ext. 431)
Order of St. Michael: Stories worth sharing
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• Interim President – Fr. Andrew Leung, CSB (ext. 180)
Double Blue Pictorial: Welcome class of 2018
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• Acting Co-Principal – Mr. Emile John ’87 (ext. 156)
Men of St. Michael’s: Dr. Jonathan Cardella ’93
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• Acting Co-Principal – Mr. David Lee ’94 (ext. 179)
Securing our Future by Giving Back:
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• Interim Dean of Students – Mr. Daniel Blaik (ext. 265)
Nothing Exceptional: Just the Ordinary Thing
• Main Reception (ext. 0)
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Where are they now
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In Memoriam
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The way we were: Remembering Doc Higgins ’42
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On the Cover: PAUL DOPP ’48 - Living a Life of Faith, Character, and Service
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ALUMNI ASSOCIATION MESSAGE
MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT My fellow alumni, Dear St. Michael’s College School Community, Welcome to the Winter 2019 edition of the Blue Banner
always easy to step forward. Your connection to
magazine. On behalf of the Basilian Fathers, we offer to
St. Michael’s College School will last a lifetime and we are
you our prayers for a safe and peace-filled new year.
dedicated to ensuring all generations of alumni are as proud of the school today as they were on the day of their
The terrible events that came to light last November have
graduation. Now more than ever we need to leverage the
been followed by a period of great heartbreak and
strength of our Alumni Association as we come together to
immense pain for our students and staff, families, and
heal and grow.
alumni. We remain dedicated to the path of discovering the truth and rededicating ourselves to both immediate and
I would like to congratulate and thank John P. O’Neill ’86
long-term change. Our resolve remains unwavering to
for taking on the role of president of the Alumni Association.
move forward together to grow and heal as a community.
As well, we offer up heartfelt thanks and well wishes to
I encourage alumni to follow the progress of our
Frank Di Nino ’80 for his three years as President and
independent Respect and Culture Journey and share your
nearly 30 years of service to the Association.
ideas at smcsrespectandculture.com. We hope you enjoy this edition of the Blue Banner. I am both proud of, and grateful for, the alumni of St. Michael’s College School. In both good times and bad, you have supported each other and the school with a sense of brotherhood and profound respect. We now look to our alumni for feedback and support, understanding it is not
Fr. Andrew Leung, CSB Interim President
I am both honoured and excited to serve as your Alumni President for the next three years. I want to thank Frank Di Nino ’80 for his dedication to the Alumni Association. Under his direction, the Alumni Association has established ties with the Parents’ Association and engaged new alumni to take on alumni director positions. Frank has also helped to continue the alumni mentoring programme, which remains an important focus for the new executive.
The Executive has enclosed a complimentary Winged M car decal in this edition of the Blue Banner. It is our hope that alumni – no matter where they are in the world – will display the decal proudly on their car. To help support our love of school, we are also encouraging alumni to tag us in social media posts using #SMCSfamily on any social media platforms referenced at the end of this letter (include where you are posting from!).
I am looking forward to working with the newly appointed Alumni Executive: 1st Vice President Matt Montemurro ’05, 2nd Vice President Gavin Davidson ’93, Events Coordinator Ron Scarafile ’05, and of course, Frank, our Past President. These gentlemen bring many years of experience within the Association. Gavin with his work as the co-editor of the Blue Banner, his involvement with Skate for Kids, and creation of the Archangel‘s Den. Matt and Ron have been Alumni Directors since 2012, and together they founded the Enzo Montemurro ’81 Touch Football Classic; which raises funds for the Enzo Montemurro ’81 Bursary and the Alumni Association. Two years ago, Matt also introduced biannual mentoring and networking events.
Your ideas and feedback are encouraged and we always want to hear from you. Please feel free to contact me at alumni@smcsmail.com or consider attending one of the alumni meetings. We meet five times throughout the academic year, and information pertaining to the meetings, along with meeting minutes, can be found at mysmcs.com.
In light of the recent tragic events, over the next three years the Executive will be focusing on helping the entire school community to heal. Especially the victims. It is imperative that we learn from these terrible events and quickly move forward in a positive way, while always remembering where we came from. Alumni will be vital to the healing process for the entire St. Michael’s College School community. As a first step, we are encouraging alumni to share their opinions on how we move St. Michael’s forward while also taking care of those who need our help. To share your ideas, please visit: smcsrespectandculture.com/share-ideas/. The alumni association recently gave all the students a small token of our support with the saying St. Michael’s Strong. It is with that sentiment of unbending love for our school that we want to offer you a gift from the Executive Alumni Association.
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Being part of the alumni community is a rewarding experience. Please stay connected, attend events, or get involved. Please also like the Alumni Association Facebook group @St. Michael's College School Alumni Association (SMCSAA) and follow SMCS on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram @SMCS1852.
John P. O'Neill
John P. O’Neill ’86 President, SMCSAA
PAST PRESIDENTS Frank Di Nino ’80
John McCusker ’57
W. Frank Morneau ‘59
Marc Montemurro ’93
William Metzler ’65
Frank Glionna ’53 +
Josh Colle ’92
John Bonvivere ’50 +
George Cormack ’49
Romeo Milano ’80
Michael Duffy ‘65
Richard Wakely ’64 +
Peter Thurton ’81
Ross Robertson ‘64
Gordon Ashworth ’45 +
Dennis Caponi Jr. ’86
William Rosenitsch ‘57
G. J. McGoey ’58 +
Rob Grossi ’72
Paul Tomson ‘65
Paul McNamara ’40 +
Paul Grossi ’69
John G. Walsh ’58 +
Joseph Primeau ’28 +
Daniel Brennan ’70
Frank Thickett ’57
Dick Foster ’30 +
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Dear Readers, Allow me to begin by apologizing for the delay in delivering this issue of the Blue Banner. In truth, the magazine was just about completed before the distressing events that gave us all cause for pause. While we have in response made a number of edits and additions to the issue, by and large, it remains unchanged. We feel it is important to continue telling stories of achievement regarding St. Michael’s alumni. We all know the good far outweighs the bad at this school. But now we all also know the bad exists and it is down to all of us to do a better job of ensuring it is eradicated. To that end, my co-editor, Michael De Pellegrin ’94, and I pledge to make space available in following issues of the Blue Banner – either in the Letters to the Editor section or as feature articles - for alumni who would like to share, respectively and constructively, their experiences related to bullying while at the school. While it will undoubtedly make for painful reading, we can only be stronger together if we heal together. One of the pleasures of working with Michael as my co-editor is the intense discussion surrounding, not just comma placement (we like lots) and acceptable use of the semi-colon (it does not exist, because it is 2019), but which stories should be included, how they should be positioned, and, often most contentiously, what should be on the cover. Cover story debates are often serious discussions. Such was the case with Issue 23, where we were sadly forced to mark the passing of two great St. Michael’s men, Fr. Cecil Zinger, CSB, OSM and Ed Santi, OSM. It is safe to say that nine times out of ten, Ed’s passing would have been our cover story. This was that tenth time, however, as we ultimately decided to feature the lovely black and white photo of Fr. Zinger. Although we had discussions about including both deserving men on the cover, in the end it was our joint editorial opinion that there are few, if any, people who embody St. Michael’s as much as as our beloved, departed Fr. Zinger. 6
LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
LETTERS TO THE EDITOR
For this issue, the original plan was to feature a picture of the new Alumni Executive on the cover. However, after reading Robert Fantilli’s ’94 wonderful yarn about Paul Dobb ’48 (p.12), which I hope you will find as marvelous and entertaining as I did, I was strongly convinced that needed to be the cover story. De Pellegrin, however, still needed some convincing – not on the merits of the story, but because the only picture fit for the cover included him!
DEAR EDITOR,
Mike is a journalist in the truest sense of the word in that he deplores being part of the story. In this case, however, it was unavoidable as he had made the trip to Kingston with his high school classmate Fantilli, thus already becoming part of the story. And what a tale it is, capturing not just of the memories of a grad from years gone by, but a snapshot of our school’s reach into the wider world. The newest additions to the Order of St. Michael have certainly made their mark in the wider world, as related by Michael Bookman ’99 in Stories Worth Sharing (p.16). Another grad making his mark in the wider world is this edition’s worthy Man of St. Michael’s, Dr. Jonathan Cardella ’93 (p.20). Sticking with the medical theme, school guidance counselor Norah Higgins provides a touching remembrance of her father, the late Dr. H.P. Higgins ’42, in The Way We Were (p.34). Also in this issue: Ed Bridge ’59 shows how a little over a period of time goes a long way (p.23), frequent contributor Brandon Sousa ’07 introduces us to the Alumni Executive (p.10), to which I was honoured to be elected earlier this year, and of course our annual welcome to the graduates of the past school year, the newest additions to our alumni community (p.18). Welcome, alumni! As a community we wish you all the best in your future endeavours. Know we are here to support you however possible.
The St. Michael’s College School Alumni Association (SMCSAA) would like to send a heartfelt thank you to
DEAR EDITOR,
Stephanie Nicholls (Advancement Officer, Alumni and Special Events) for her ongoing support and dedication
I had a wonderful time presenting with my teammate Nolan
toward alumni initiatives. Over the past few years, the
MacMillan ‘08 at the Archangel’s Den. We would love to
Alumni Association has launched a number of new initiatives
see our picture and have access to the archived video in
with a renewed focus on mentorship and networking. These
order to learn from our pitch and become better presenters.
events and this direction would not be possible without her hard work, attention to detail, and dedication. Stephanie is
How can we access the footage?
vital in planning and executing Homecoming, the Turkey Roll, Archangel’s Den, Alumni Networking and Mentorship
Thanks,
events, the Spring BBQ and Reunion, among many others.
Darcy Drury ’08
These initiatives have been positive contributors to the St. Michael's community and have enriched the SMCS
ED’S REPLY: That is an excellent question, Darcy; one to
experience for our alumni. Despite the demands of a young
which I do not have an answer. I will ask Stephanie!!
family, she can often be found at the school long into the evening making sure our alumni events are executed to perfection. Although obviously not an alumni, Stephanie
DEAR EDITOR,
truly lives her life with Goodness, Discipline and Knowledge. My business partner, Matthew Mazzuca ’13, and I are Steph - the SMCSAA would not be the same without you. We
building a company that allows patients to see doctors
probably don't say it enough but THANK YOU for everything
through their phone or computer. Matthew and I are SMCS
you do for us and for the St. Michael’s community.
Alumni and I think our story may be interesting to the community.
From all your friends in the SMCSAA Thank you, ED’S REPLY: Here, here!
David Del Balso ’12 ED’S REPLY: Sounds like a great business, David. I can’t wait to read about it in the next issue of the Blue Banner and to see you guys at the next Archangel’s Den!
Gavin Davidson ’93 Editor
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SERGIO MARCHIONNE ITALIAN-CANADIAN ICON Article written and originally published by Laura Guzzo, Panoram Italia
a lawyer from Vaughan who first befriended Marchionne at St. Michael's College School. "When you're a kid, you don't think in those terms. Looking back, he had the analytical skills and focus for success - more so than of us at that age." Marchionne began his career as an accountant with Deloitte & Touche in Toronto and started climbing the management ladder, becoming CEO at Algroup in Zurich from 1997 to 2000. He then took over the helm at Lonza Group in Basel. In 2002, Marchionne became CEO and managing director of SGS S.A. in Geneva. In 2004, the man who used to drive a Fiat in high school was offered the opportunity of a lifetime. Italian immigrants in Canada in 1960s were not groomed to be internationally renowned CEOs. Success was generally
Fiat was desperate to find a CEO to help turn its fortunes
measured in more modest terms: buy a house, have enough
around. Having run through a succession of top executives
money to raise a family, find (and keep) a steady job at a
with little to show for it, the company took a gamble on an
reliable company, and send your kids to school.
unknown Canadian with the trademark rumpled back sweaters, and blunt personality. As CEO, Marchionne used his lack
Sergio Marchionne ’71 - former CEO of the Fiat Chrysler
of experience in the automotive world to his advantage,
Automobiles (FCA) who died suddenly in July 2018 - turned
looking at the venerable industry with a fresh eye.
"I remember calling him his on his mobile phone. He'd answer in Switzerland and the next day he'd be in Russia, then in India. I don't know how he did it. He'd tell me "sono stanco" (I am tired) - because we spoke to each other in Italian - but then he'd be right back at it." In spite of his brilliance, he could be mercurial, though his ability to speak off the cuff was refreshing - especially in a world of overly media-managed CEOs."He hated to repeat himself", Beghetto says. "As a reporter you had to be on your toes to ask him a unique question." Vellequette has no shortage of words to describe him, calling him all at once brilliant, arrogant, temperamental, opportunistic, talented, captivating, infuriating, and stubborn. He could be quite the taskmaster too, with a laser-sharp focus on results; often making the tough decisions no one else wanted to make. "Sergio was an absolute pragmatist”, says Beghetto. "He would take the time he needed to ponder his decisions but, once he made up his mind, he never looked back. If he needed to deliver bad news, he'd always do it in person and without mincing words. He was pragmatic in his work and in his life right to the end. "Despite some of his harsher characteristics, his softer side often shone through. "What struck me about Sergio from the very beginning, when we met to talk about the possibility of him coming to work for the Group, even more than his management skills and unusual intelligence, were his human qualities, his
generosity and the way he understood people", wrote John Elkann, head of the Agnelli family-held holding company Exor, FCA's largest shareholder, in a statement. "He taught us to think differently and to have the courage to change, often in unconventional ways, always acting with a sense of responsibility for the companies and their people." Beghetto remembers his thoughtfulness and generosity. “When he would ask 'How are you?' he meant it. It wasn't just a platitude. I remember one time at an event where we ran into each other, he looked at me and said, 'Your tie is horrible.' Two weeks later, he sent me two Marinella ties from Naples". Though he was a global CEO, he never lost sight of Canada. "He always talked about how proud he was to have come from Ontario," says Vellequette. "Just to give you an idea of how Canadian he considered himself: every Italian I know pronounced his name the Italian way — Mark - e - owe knee. He didn't. He always Canadianized the pronunciation and called himself Marsheeon". "He came to Toronto as often as he could to visit his family, especially his mother, with whom he was very close, and to feel anonymous, which was impossible in Italy", says Beghetto. "His success was something to really be proud of", says Di Poce ‘71. He was someone you could hold up as a role model. Once he started being more of a public figure, people would point to him, see him as someone who was smart and did well and did Italian - Canadians proud".
that narrative on its head, becoming a unique and notable success story and an icon amongst Italian - Canadian
He was big on consolidation, believing that if companies
immigrants.
pooled their resources together in areas such as research and development spending, they could achieve results that
From studious young man to one of the most revered CEOs in
could benefit everyone. After Fiat received a 20 percent
the automotive business - The Economist described him as "one
stake in the Chrysler Group following its emergence from
of the all-stars of the car industry" - Marchionne forged a path
bankruptcy protection in 2009, he pushed to merge the two
to be admired, much like he was. "I've been a reporter for 30
companies - a move that many other auto CEOs never had
years and he was the smartest individual I have ever met,"
the guts to go through with.
says Automotive News journalist Larry Vellequette, who covered Marchionne's career extensively. "His annual press
The risk paid off, making FCA the seventh-largest automaker
conferences at the Detroit Auto Show were standing room
in the world. "He wasn't part of the old boys' club," says Di
only. Everybody wanted to hear what he would say."
Poce. "His detachment from the car business and his analytical intuitive skills made him able to step back and have a
He had the same humble beginning as many, immigrating to
clearer view of what was going on."
Toronto from Abruzzo when he was 13. He worked and
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studied hard, earning degrees in Philosophy, Law, and
His work ethic is now legendary. Journalist and friend
Business from University of Toronto, the Osgoode Hall Law
Giorgio Benedetto describes a man who would regularly
School of York University, and the University of Windsor,
wake up at 4 a.m. and bounce from to meeting to meeting
respectively."He was always smart," says Tony Di Poce,
and location to location with seemingly boundless energy. IN CHALLENGING TIMES, STORIES MATTER
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EXECUTIVE SUMMARY OF YOUR NEW ALUMNI EXECUTIVE Brandon Sousa ‘07
For many years, our Alumni Association Executive has been
“It opens up the meetings to all those who aren’t in Toronto,”
building a strong and stable foundation for more than 10,000
comments Montemurro. “We have alumni as far as Dubai.”
members worldwide. With new leadership at the helm, it is ready to build on the good work of previous administrations.
On connecting with the young alumni, Davidson says, “it’s about bringing value to them.”
Newly elected President John P. O’Neill ’86, joined 1st Vice President Matt Montemurro ’05, 2nd Vice President Gavin Davidson ’93, and Events Coordinator Ron Scarafile ’05 to lead the first Alumni Association meeting of their term on June 19, 2018. “Mentorship, re-engaging previously active alumni, and connecting with young alumni,” said O’Neill when asked what the focus of the executive team will be over its tenure. There’s a hunger for mentorship, both from young alumni looking for guidance and older alumni looking to share their wisdom. Montemurro, in his previous role as Events Coordinator, launched a series of popular mentorship events with larger than expected attendance. Current Events Coordinator Ron Scarafile intends to build on that success. Davidson launched the inaugural Archangel’s Den in 2018, a competition for alumni entrepreneurs, to not only feed that hunger for mentorship, but also to connect the younger
“It’s about trying to figure out what they are missing,” Montemurro continues. “Turkey Roll is great, but we need to find new ways to build that connection with the next generation of alumni.” O’Neill adds, “If we connect with these alumni while they are young, later, when they have the money to donate, they will donate.” He stresses that they’re taking a moderate approach
GETTING TO KNOW YOUR EXECUTIVE
to fundraising, leaving it to the school administration.
PRESIDENT
1ST VICE PRESIDENT
2ND VICE PRESIDENT
EVENTS COORDINATOR
Mentoring. Re-engaging. Connecting. These three major
John P. O’Neill
Matt Montemurro
Gavin Davidson
Ron Scarafile
Year Graduated
1986
2005
1993
2005
St. Mike’s
Hockey, Debate,
Basketball, Prefect,
Debate, Band, Drama,
Prefect, Football, Track
Co-Curriculars
Band, Yearbook
Camp Counsellor
Student Newspaper
and Field, Camp Counsellor
Professional
President, J.P. Logistics:
Director & Portfolio
Principal, RockPeel
President, Scarafile
Career
Global logistics company
Manager, BMO Global
Communications
Enterprises Inc.: Wholesale
priorities all feed into O’Neill’s singular goal for his term as president: renewing our pride in the school. “I want to turn every alumnus into an ambassador for St. Mike’s. That’s my mandate.”
Asset Management
alumni, and reconnect more established alumni, with our yellow bricks - providing value to all participants. When looking at re-engaging some of the lapsed members of the Alumni Association, the Executive is starting by making meetings more accessible and inclusive. The meetings, which are held on
“For the last 11 years,
airplane sitting
I have gone to a Notre
“I was the gold medalist in my MBA class.”
“I have the honour of
“The last five years we
co-editing the Blue
held the Enzo Montemurro
beside a stranger
Dame camp for old
Banner with Michael
’81 Classic Football
that you want to
people for a week. We
DePellegrin ’94”
Tournament to raise funds
impress… what’s
train with the coaches
for the Enzo Montemurro
the one thing you
and players, doing
Bursary.”
tell them about
two-a-day practices and
yourself you hope
into embracing technology such as a call-in line and video stream-
then play a game in
the rest of the
Notre Dame Stadium
ing to help reconnect with the dormant global alumni chapters.
plane overhears?
in full football equipment.”
the third Tuesday of every other month and are open to all alumni, have changed from 6 p.m. to 7 p.m. in order to better accommodate attendees’ work and travel schedules. They’re also looking
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You’re on an
and Distribution
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LIVING A LIFE OF FAITH, CHARACTER, AND SERVICE Robert Fantilli ’94
Always a St. Michael’s gentleman, Mr. Dopp called me two days prior to our meeting to let me know he had chosen a restaurant for lunch and he would be picking us up from the train station upon our arrival. In fact, he insisted on picking us up as our interest in his experience had truly touched him more than we could know.
In May of 2018, I travelled to Kingston, Ontario to purchase a new vehicle. While making small talk with the owner of the dealership, I revealed that I am a teacher at St. Michael’s College School. Coincidentally, the owner remarked that a client of the dealership was a graduate of SMCS and happened to be servicing his vehicle at that very moment. I looked over to see 90-year-young Paul Dopp ’48. We were introduced, and Mr. Dopp immediately began to share stories of his St. Mike’s days as a student and hockey player on the Junior B team. The joy with which he spoke was contagious as his eyes lit up. Listening to a gentleman filled with powerful emotion and fond memories of his time at the school more than 70 years ago captured me, and the experience has forwarded me a more in-depth glimpse into the legacy I am part of. I brought the news back to St. Mike’s and discussed it with Michael De Pellegrin ’94, a former classmate and the school’s Communications Director. Fast forward a month, and Michael and I are on a train to Kingston to visit with Mr. Dopp to gain insight into the experiences and influences of St. Michael's College School in his life to date. As we embarked on the excursion, we soon realized the substance in the saying ‘you can’t go anywhere without running into someone from St. Michael’s’. At the VIA Rail kiosk, the agent behind the counter noticed De Pellegrin’s SMCS shirt and commented that her nephew went to St. Michael’s. It turns out the colleague beside her also had a son who attended SMCS. It was truly remarkable that, en route to meet a fellow brother, we connected with two other St. Michael’s families before even leaving the train station! The St. Mike’s connections did not stop there. 12
Although we were well armed with a list of questions, that proved unnecessary, as Mr. Dopp was excited to meet and speak with SMCS family and had much to say. He came prepared with a folder full of photos of his hockey teammates, articles he had written under the banner ‘Tip Off Behind the Cue,’ and a vivid memory of almost every one of his high school mates. Mr. Dopp is an inspiration. He revealed that St. Michael’s was not necessarily his choice at first, but rather it was his father’s decision. While his intention was to attend Parkdale High School, his father enrolled him at St. Mike’s. His father was a world class Lacrosse player who also had a love of hockey and passed this passion to Paul. Soon after enrolling, Paul began to understand and share the awe and admiration his father had for St. Michael’s. In Dopp’s eyes, St. Mike’s had lower enrolment than community rivals such as De La Salle and UCC, but they had something special that made SMCS men succeed as the underdog. While at St. Mike’s, Dopp played for the Junior B team alongside the likes of life-long friend and Hall of Famer Leonard ‘Red’ Kelly OSM, ’46. As was tradition during that time, the best defenceman on the team usually wore the lowest number. Dopp proudly wore the number ‘2’, alongside partner, and number ‘3’, Pat Gravelle. Despite Dopp’s successful Jr. B career, it was the rival Toronto Marlies, not the Jr. A St. Mike’s team, that came calling. “I jumped at the chance,” recalls Dopp, “but, later regretted it.” While with the Marlies, Dopp realized he wasn't good enough to achieve his NHL dream so he decided to quit. Basilians were amazing role models who gave up so much to educate young men. Fr. Faught, CSB and Fr. David Bauer, CSB ’44 were amongst Dopp’s role models during his student days. In Fr. Bauer’s case, he was a talented student–-
athlete considered a prospect to play professional hockey but chose to answer the call to the priesthood and to teach and guide the young men at St. Michael’s. It was the pro hockey dream that Fr. Bauer was so well equipped for that Dopp wanted so very desperately. “I wasn't good enough, and it bothered me. It still does. I will take that to my grave,” remarks Dopp. “But, Fr. Bauer could have made it, and decided not to, that’s something!”
services, to owning a drive-in restaurant, to selling punch clocks. His career as an entrepreneur took him from great start up pains in Toronto to great success when forced to move to Montreal - where he ended up settling for most of his
Dopp has long believed that St. Mike’s was a game changer in his life. “I was saved by St. Mike’s; It saved me from myself” he says, believing the distractions of teenage life, and his passions for cars and girls, would have taken him down a less successful path. “The friends I had who didn’t attend St. Mike’s were missing that foundation.” Faith is the underpinning of his life. Faith was instilled in him through his experience with the Basilians, and further reinforced through school retreats, masses, and his time as an altar server. “I always talk to God. I talk to the Lord everyday,” Dopp passionately states. “I ask the Lord to make me a loving and genuine person and to give me health. Give me my health and I can do it.”
retirement. “When I finally established myself, I could have bought out my former partner’s business, but didn’t, because it wasn’t the right thing to do,” remembers Dopp. “I forgave all the people that treated me poorly early on in my career.
Following his time at St. Mike’s, Dopp attended McGill University with the intentions of becoming a veterinarian, while also playing for the university hockey team. However, he decided to leave and start his career with CP Rail. Dopp wasn’t long at CP Rail before his supervisor told him he could do better, and introduced him to a friend in biscuit sales, and so he was hired on as a salesman.
Dopp took no vacation for 10 years while all those around him were working normal hours, enjoying life, and vacationing. However, his relentless work ethic slowly began to pay off. “It was never about money, but about achieving something, creating your own business,” Dopp states. “Work ethic is most important. For students today, I would say even if you are behind the rest of the class, keep working at it.”
So started his long career as an entrepreneur, with its associated many early failures and later successes, selling almost everything from biscuits, to marshmallows, to car transportation
Dopp now enjoys spending his time giving his money to those in need. In fact, as we left the restaurant and walked across the street to take a photo together, he saw some young girls singing and remarked that he wanted to give them some money. While watching, one girl’s mom noticed Michael De Pellegrin’s SMCS shirt and exclaimed “Oh, St. Michael’s, my husband went to St. Michael’s!” A day of reminiscing with St. Michael’s connections never stopped unfurling. Regarding the power and presence of the St. Michael’s legacy in the community, Dopp adds, “I used to wear my St. Mike’s jacket, it was a beautiful jacket. I knew people were going to stop me either because they went to St. Mike’s or knew someone else who did. St. Mike’s always had a highest regard, and still has.” Dopp is clearly a St. Michael’s Man in every way. He has overcome great adversity with faith and character – successfully battling cancer three times – and enjoys the ability to serve. In retirement years, Paul and his wonderful wife Kathy, are focused on enjoying time with family, including eight grandchildren, all of whom Paul taught to play guitar. Paul plays still, as well as the harmonica, and even finds occasion to play in an April Wine cover band. IN CHALLENGING TIMES, STORIES MATTER
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As we approach the one year anniversary of Archangels’s Den, the Blue Banner thought the time was right to catch up with the winners of the 2018 edition. We asked the top three finishers for their thoughts on the inaugural Archangels, what we should add for the next edition, and how things are going with their businesses.
CATCHING UP WITH ARCHANGEL’S DEN WINNERS sales. The money was specifically used to
WHAT WAS YOUR OVERALL IMPRESSION OF ARCHANGEL’S DEN? Conor impressed
Ross: with
I
was
how
considerably
well
run
the
Archangel’s Den was, especially knowing it was a first time event. More importantly, I was very excited to see SMCS pushing forth an entrepreneurship initiative through the alumni community. In my opinion, it is something the school needs to continue to focus on and develop with both current and former students. David Harris: Overall impression was very positive! I think promoting entrepreneurship through the alumni network is something that should be strived for and the Den was an
1ST PLACE WINNER: Iris Technologies Conor Ross ’12 Iris Technologies’ secondary monitor reduces the negative health repercussions of using LCD screens for individuals recovering from a concussion. 2ND PLACE WINNER: SWFTCharge Greg Fedele ’13 Ben Caranci ’13 SWFTCharge provides a convenient, portable phone charging service for music festivals.
excellent way of doing that. The event itself felt like an episode of Shark Tank (minus O’Leary) and I was thankful to be a part of it. Greg Fedele: I thought it was well organized and that there were a lot of bright alumni with very innovative ideas!
pay a number of bills we had been worried about, including hiring a PR company and paying the fees for the publication of our journal article. It was also a great opportunity to refine and update a short pitch in front of a meaningful audience. At the time of Archangel’s Den, we were looking to start fundraising and begin speaking with investors, meaning we would constantly be pitching our business. This event helped us
WHAT CHANGES WOULD YOU MAKE TO IMPROVE THE
get into pitching shape and prepare us to
DEN MOVING FORWARD?
deal with these investors. David
Conor Ross: Going forward, I think the event could have
Harris: The Archangel’s Den
been more concise. It may not have been necessary to have
allowed me to build a business plan and get
the ‘rehearsal’ aspect and essentially sound check each
the ball rolling on my product. It showed me
contestant and it would have been nice to be able to use
that the potential to build something is
lapel mics. However, I spoke with most of the contestants
there, but you have to be willing to work for 3RD PLACE WINNER: Heerium David Harris ’11 Heerium is envisioned as an online platform that collects the emotions and feelings of the big moments in people’s lives.
HOW HAS PARTICIPATING IN
about the mentoring aspect of the pitch competition, and for
it.
the most part it was extremely well received. Mentoring is one of the most important aspects of growing your company and gaining success. My only suggestion for this portion of
WHAT PROGRESS HAVE YOU MADE WITH
the competition would be to place companies with a specific
YOUR BUSINESS SINCE THE DEN?
mentor you think they would gain the most out of.
David Harris: I’m currently working on a
David Harris: More networking after the presentations
trial product with my partner with the goal
could have been nice. If there was a social with the
of getting into an incubator in the fall.
judges/mentors/contestants after the pitches, that would
ARCHANGEL’S DEN HELPED WITH YOUR BUSINESS? Greg Fedele: Participating in the Den helped me make
Greg Fedele: We just hit our revenue targets and have
had the opportunity to travel to both China and Vancouver
have been nice, as opposed to everyone going their
brought on another full-time team member.
to solidify these aspects of our business plan. We can also
separate ways. Nonetheless, a great day!
proudly say that the journal article, from our study with Dr.
alumni connections who are currently helping our business Conor Ross: The last eight months have been quite positive
Charles Tator at the Toronto Western Hospital proving the
Greg Fedele: I think the Den could be an evening event
for Iris Technologies. Most importantly, we were able to
efficacy of our solution, was published in the Journal of
with more alumni and it could begin with a networking
Conor Ross: After putting in our biggest order of units, the
bring in our first batch of 50 units, generating 100k in
Neurotrauma in August. The article is also now available on
mixer. This can allow other students to meet fellow alumni.
pitch winnings were generous enough to help us fill a gap in
revenue. Throughout this process, we spent a long time
our website. Finally, we moved our patent application to the
Next, I think incorporating a mentorship into the prize
our cash flow while we waited for them to arrive. This was
refining our sales playbook, narrowing our sales channels,
next stage in the process with the United States Patent and
packages can be helpful – i.e. winners can get one month
the safety net we were looking for before we could begin
and creating an efficient end-to-end supply chain. We also
Trademark Office.
free at an incubator.
grow and scale.
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ORDER OF ST. MICHAEL: STORIES WORTH SHARING Michael Bookman ’99
On May 30, more than 500 members of the St. Michael's
only for their devotion to St. Michael’s College School; they
community gathered to welcome new inductees into the
are inducted to serve as role models for future generations of
Order of St. Michael, at the eighth Induction Ceremony. The
St. Michael’s men.
Order of St. Michael is the highest honour bestowed upon a member of our school community. Six accomplished and
Each of these men shared their personal
faithful members of that community, who are among the most
journey, all of which served not only to
influential and significant ambassadors of our great school,
honour our school, but also to provide
were inducted:
guidance and inspiration for future generations of St. Michael’s men, who
• Hon. Consiglio Di Nino (Honorary ’13) Canadian Senator
will be called upon to live with similar passion, grace, and charity. Before a
• Jerry Howarth - Broadcaster
packed house, hosted by Master of
• David Keon ’60 - NHL Hall of Famer
Ceremonies Leo Rautins ’78, the
• Regis Quinn - Businessman
inductees’ personal stories came to life and inspired our St.
• Armand Scaini ’58 - Businessman
Michael’s community. For those in attendance at the induc-
• Hon. Justice Bryan Shaughnessy ’68 -
tion gala, it was also an opportunity to reconnect with
to those gathered on May 30, these men are of such caliber, their life's work and commitment to St. Michael's College School of such significance, that they have in fact selected themselves through their dedication to our community. Those in attendance heard how each of these men have excelled in their chosen vocations — politics, finance, business, media, athletics — and they have done so with a deep, abiding faith in the mission of St. Michael’s College School and the Basilian Fathers. Such role models are rare and we, at any age and station, in the school and wider community, can and should find inspiration in their stories, strength in their character, and resolve to live our lives in similar ways. We were lucky to bear witness to their stories and their embodiment of our school’s values and mission. Take a moment to walk our school’s yellow brick halls and you will come upon
friends, family, and alumni of St. Michael’s College School.
a wall of photographs of all the inductees since the Order was founded 1996.
Our theme for this induction cycle was ‘Stories Worth
I had the honour and privilege of chairing the Order of St.
who embody the Basilian Fathers’ motto of Teach Me Goodness, Discipline, and
Sharing’. It was drawn from the very purpose of the Order
Michael selection committee that was tasked with reviewing
itself. Members of the Order of St. Michael are honoured not
nominations made by the greater community. As I expressed
Superior Court of Ontario Justice
Those photographs provide but a glimpse into the stories of the men and women Knowledge, through their contribution to the spiritual, material, or academic welfare of the school and the greater community. They are stories worth sharing. For more stories worth sharing, visit: stmichaelscollegeschool.com/alumni/order-of-st-michael
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DOUBLE BLUE PICTORIAL: WELCOME CLASS OF 2018
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Jonathan Cardella may not be the typical St. Michael’s Man, both in terms of the fact he is relatively young with much of his life’s work remaining ahead of him, and in the fact, that for those who went to school with him as I did, Cardella was known more for his boundless enthusiasm and infectious personality than his academic achievements. Now a leading vascular surgeon based in the Northeastern United States, Cardella’s story is one not just of goodness, discipline, and
MEN OF ST. MICHAEL’S: DR. JONATHAN CARDELLA ’ 93 Gavin Davidson ’93
knowledge, but also of drive, perseverance, and maximizing potential. Today’s Jonathan Cardella, a programme director and assistant professor of surgery at Yale University, is undoubtedly much different than the Jonathan Cardella of high school days, yet, like so many of us, still strangely the same.
LET’S BEGIN WITH A LITTLE BIT OF INSIGHT INTO YOUR TIME AT ST. MIKE’S AS A STUDENT AND YOUR RECENT INVOLVEMENT WITH THE SCHOOL. I was a busy kid – on the hockey team, on the baseball team, on student council, and I helped out with Meals on Wheels and Out of the Cold. Recently, I was lucky enough to be involved with Luciano Volpe ’93, who started Career Day at St. Mike’s, and was able to present at one of the early iterations. Unfortunately, the combination of work and geography has prevented me from returning, but I feel very lucky to have been involved. Of course, I get back for Turkey Roll whenever I can and whenever anybody reaches out in need of anything, I’m always happy to help.
HOW HAS YOUR OPINION ABOUT
which is a testament both to the Basilian Fathers and the lay
YOUR TIME AT ST. MIKE’S CHANGED
teachers. I learned quickly that anything short of your best just
FROM WHEN YOU WERE A STUDENT
wasn’t going to be good enough. That was true in the
COMPARED TO THE PRESENT?
classroom, that was true on the field, and it was true in any endeavour that was associated with the St. Michael’s name. I
It’s interesting because I didn’t know
learned a high standard that was measured not necessarily on
anybody who went to St. Mike’s before I
output, but on input. I try to take that high standard into every-
did. So I didn’t know a lot about the school
thing I do. By watching people around me, I learned that those
when I arrived there, but the one thing I
who were the best were the ones who worked the hardest.
remember was that you immediately
When you are surrounded by talented people, you start to learn
became aware that you were part of
the habits of those people: hard work, best effort, and high
something very special and something
standards. So basically what I tried to do was just copy them!
much greater than you, or anything you could bring to it. As you started to understand the tradition and appreciate what the people who came before you
WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR BEST MEMORIES OF YOUR
handed to you, it became a very special place. As time
TIMES AT ST. MIKE’S?
moved on while I was at the school, I realized how valuable my St. Mike’s education was and how privileged I was to be
There are a few things. From a personality perspective, I
receiving it, which made me want to make the place even
really enjoyed Eddie Narducci, God rest his soul. He was a
better. Now, as I look back as an adult, it is the one part of
real character and a truly good-hearted person. He treated
my life I would live again, not because I haven’t had lots of
us like adults, had a great sense of humour, and was a
good experiences in the interim, but because I can’t imagine
really positive person. I also enjoyed the intensity of Len
recreating the wonderful experiences I had during high
Chittle, which admittedly could be over the top at times, but
school with a better group of people.
I personally really enjoyed it, and his sense of humour. And then of course there is Fr. Zinger, CSB, OSM. Everybody
Dr. Jonathan Cardella is a vascular and endovascular surgeon who specializes in advanced endovascular and I had initially sent a Jonathan a series of questions, with the plan being to intertwine his responses with facts about him then and now, thereby creating a traditional Man of St. Michael’s story. Impressed with the questions, humbled by the honour, and conscious of striking the right note, Cardella spent an inordinate amount of time – despite the
open surgery for critical limb ischemia and diabetic atherosclerotic disease. He also has extensive experience in complex endovascular surgery for aortic aneurysms and lower extremity occlusive disease, as well as hybrid surgical techniques for PVD, varicose veins, and dialysis access. Dr. Cardella earned his
HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE
thoughtful guy. I always enjoyed talking to him because I
YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP
thought he had an ability to boil problems and issues down
WITH THE SCHOOL?
to their core. In terms of good times, one thing I really enjoyed, and this is going to sound weird, is cafeteria
I don’t get back there as often as
lunches. You got to interact with all the guys and talk about
I would like, but I still get calls
what was going on. And there was always something fun
from
going on. They were great!
students
and
former
students looking for advice or just
undergraduate degree at Wilfrid Laurier University and
wanting to talk about a career in
Benjamin, with his wife Nichola – crafting the perfect
his medical degree at the University of Toronto. He
the medical field, and I love that.
responses.
completed his endovascular surgery training at the
I still have a great relationship
Cleveland Clinic and fellowship training in vascular
with the school, one that I
dual pressures of saving lives and raising 10-month-old son,
Then he forgot to hit save.
surgery at the University of Toronto. After completing his training, he joined the University of Toronto as a staff
Realizing we were never going to catch that lightning in a
vascular and endovascular surgeon. Dr. Cardella’s
bottle again – and having made the same error more times
research interests include surgical education, simulation,
than I care to remember - I suggested we just record the
course design, and milestone skill training. He has
audio of my questions and his responses. The (printable)
written numerous research publications and given many
highlights of that conversation are included below, but what
presentations on his work. Previously, he chaired the
I wouldn’t give to catch a glimpse of those initial responses that are floating out there, somewhere in the ether, along with my year-end Grade 11 Geo assignment.
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talks about the pictures, but he was also a very smart,
Canadian Endovascular Skills Summits at the University of Toronto as well as served on its residency committee.
cherish, and I would like to do more. I think it is that special and it is important to give back for everything they have given me.
HOW HAS ST. MICHAEL’S HELPED PREPARE YOU FOR, AND PROPELLED YOU INTO LIFE? In two ways, the first being what I learned from what I was taught and the second being what I learned from watching,
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HOW DID THE STAFF AND TEACHERS CONTRIBUTE TO THAT ATMOSPHERE? I think the teachers really had a way of figuring out the difference between good people who had done some bad things and bad people doing bad things, and were able to bring out the good in the good people. They also meted out discipline that, while maybe harsh, was commensurate with the crime. The entire student body respected their authority because of that and I personally think it was a really important thing.
SECURING OUR FUTURE BY GIVING BACK: NOTHING EXCEPTIONAL: JUST THE ORDINARY THING By Ed Bridge ’59
WE’VE FOCUSED HEAVILY ON HOW THE SCHOOL SHAPES US DURING OUR FORMATIVE YEARS, BUT IN IF YOU HAD TO DISTILL IT, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY IT IS ABOUT ST. MICHAEL’S THAT MAKES IT SUCH A SPECIAL AND WELCOMING PLACE? The people that select the students are able to get a good cross-section of people from around the GTA to be representative of St. Michael’s men. And I think that’s what St. Mike’s
CLOSING I’D LIKE TO ASK YOUR OPINION, AS THIS EDITION’S MAN OF ST. MICHAEL’S, ON WHY IT IS IMPORTANT FOR US, AS ALUMNI, TO REMAIN CONNECTED WITH THE SCHOOL. Without the support of alumni, both in terms of money and time, one of the greatest institutions in our country could cease to exist. You can say how important St. Mike’s is and
guys are – they are everything, across the gamut. If you look
how great it was to you, but if you are not answering the call
at our graduating class (1993) as an example, it was an
when they need help, then was it really that important to
accurate cross-section of what you deal with in life. When
you? And that’s okay. But, if you don’t show that importance
you put people together who bring different things to the
with your deeds, you run the risk of not allowing that
table, but share a common goal to do great things, fantastic
tradition that we found so valuable to be passed down to
things happen.
future generations of St. Michael’s men.
When Kimberley Bailey recently mentioned to me that I had been a regular yearly donor to SMCS for twenty years, I was surprised. It seemed like just a few. Giving to the school had become ordinary behaviour. I have never considered myself to be anything like an alpha donor. I am not well off enough to be so, but I guess a little at a time over a span of
In my family and in these other places, morally and intellectu-
time starts to add up.
ally serious men had touched my mind; indeed, they touched my soul. It is a bit of a rhetorical overstatement, but G.K.
When I reached a stage in life when I was well established
Chesterton observed that original sin is “the only part of
in my work as a technical salesman, my mortgage was under
Christian theology which can really be proved.” And I
control, my house’s maintenance and renovations were up to
agree. I easily see what a total villain I could have turned out
snuff, my two daughters were in university on scholarships
to be but for God’s grace working on me through the
(so I no longer had private school fees to pay for them), and
influence of many good men.
my retirement savings were starting to shape up, I could take a portion of my year-end productivity bonus for donations.
I have tried to remember a single teacher I
The greatest influences on my life were my father and my
had at St. Michael’s
uncles. I did not know all the causes and institutions that
that I did not like, and I
mattered to them nor did I know the amounts given, but I knew
cannot. I can remem-
it was just ordinary behaviour for them to give to those causes
ber that I was not good
and institutions. It was tacitly assumed that one foundation of
at some subjects, but
a right way of life, for people who were able, was to give.
that did not mean I did not like the teacher. I
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After my father and my uncles, the most formative influences
was
on me were the Basilian Fathers, both at SMCS and at the
Algebra, but the math
University of St. Michael’s College, and a gentleman named
wizzes in the class
J.W. Smith, who was the camp director at YMCA Camp
have since told me that
not
good
at
Kitchikewana to which I went as a boy. I also worked as a
Fr. Whelan, CSB gave
leader there throughout most of high school and university,
them a good start in their mastery of the subject. I admired
as did Joe McCully, who was warden of Hart House when I
him for his deadly accuracy in firing blackboard brushes to
was an undergraduate and active on committees in ‘the
wake up students who nodded off after too full a lunch. Also,
House’, as we called it. So, it was natural for me to be giving
everyone in the school knew that he, as the faculty advisor,
back to, among others, the two St Michael’s, Camp Kitchik-
not the student editors, was the reason The Tower was so
ewana, and Hart House.
good a yearbook. IN CHALLENGING TIMES, STORIES MATTER
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wake, not having seen him in the intervening years, I said “Father, omnes boves domum reddeunt.” He replied, “I can’t remember; you’ll have to help me out.” I said, “Ed Bridge, Father.” He immediately said, “Ah yes, Bridge, Broadhurst, Birgeneau, Doyle, O’Regan...” I wondered if he could do that for every class he had taught since 1959. Fr. Williams, CSB, the librarian, inspired us to take books and reading seriously. He did make one mistake, though. If he thought the photos in a magazine were too racy, like the pictures in Life of Daisy Mae in her really short shorts in the Broadway musical of Little Abner, he would blank them out. All this accomplished, of course, was to send us straight over to United Cigar Store’s magazine stand to see what was so hot. I was lucky to have the great Fr. Norman Fitzpatrick, CSB, OSM for French. Every morning a new irregular verb As for strongest influences, Fr. Timmins, CSB, Grade 10 Latin, radiated seriousness. We knew he cared about providing us with a good education, but he also cared about us as people, despite the severe exterior he had to maintain as assistant principal. Not all the teachers were graced with nicknames, only the most esteemed. Fr. Timmins was ‘Shakey’. He did not shake. Can any reader of the Blue Banner tell me the origin of that sobriquet?
in all its parts was written across the top of the board and all
Alas, he died of a sudden heart attack when we were in Grade 11. I was at boarder at Tweedsmuir House that year. I was at Holy Rosary Church for an hour at 3 a.m. with my roommate Steve Lacroix ’59, as the boarders took turns on an all-night prayer vigil with Father’s casket. It is an experience I can still relive vividly.
the tradition of great theatre at St. Michael’s with his production
The other good nickname for a well-loved teacher was ‘The Silver Fox’ for Fr. Ronan, CSB. He was very handsome, and a full head of grey hair enhanced his good looks. He was the teacher designated by the Basilians to have earnest talks with boys approaching graduation about whether they had a vocation to the priesthood. “Look out; the Silver Fox is looking for you,” was a cry coming from Grade 13s often heard through the corridors.
when I replied, he said, “Oh yes, a lovely church; I have said
A teacher who made Latin fun was Fr. Owen Lee, CSB. He had been in Texas the year before he taught us, and his examples were sometimes Texan. For the optative subjunctive it was ‘Omnes boves domum reddeunt,’ that is, ‘May all your cows come home’. More than fifty years later, when I spoke to him upon leaving St. Basil’s chapel after Fr. Foy’s, CSB 24
the subtleties, peculiarities, and parallels to other verbs explained in ten minutes. Father was thorough and clear; and he inspired, if not a love of the all the literature we were reading, at least a respect. It is not all that easy to love Corneille and Racine, but you can be brought to admire the grace of the Alexandrine metre if the subject is taught well. When we were in Grade 13 in 1958-59, Fr. Fitzpatrick initiated of The Caine Mutiny Court Martial, featuring my classmates’ electrifying performances, notably Mike O’Regan ’59 as Barney Greenwald, Winston Nelson ’59, as Captain Queeg, and John Volpe ’59. Father was very much a priest as well as a teacher. I recall a conversation with him at a reception a few years before his death. He asked me what parish I was in, and mass there.” With all he had to do at SMCS, he would still get out into the parishes to help the diocesan priests with Sunday mass.
Great coaches were as important as great teachers. Fr. Bauer, CSB ’44 , Fr. Higgins, CSB ’45, Fr. Conway, CSB, Fr. Volpe, CSB ’48 come to mind. Everyone admired Fr. Bauer because we all knew he could have had an NHL career, but responded instead to God’s call to the priesthood. We also knew it was pre-eminently Fr. Bauer who imprinted on St. Mike’s athletes, and on the entire culture of the school, the ideal of the gentleman athlete. Fr. Conway was all intensity as a coach and made the Buzzers an exemplar of a team with great heart, and a team that sent many players on to be Memorial Cup champions and later NHL stars. I played St. Mike’s football over two seasons with the Juniors, apart from two games riding the bench with the Seniors at the start of the second season, and Fr. Higgins was the coach. I could not say today exactly what was so great about Father’s coaching, but I remember playing for his team was a great experience. When Fr. Volpe coached a house league team, he had a way of making every kid feel he was just as much a St. Mike’s athlete as if he were on the Majors, the Buzzers, or the Kerry Blues. I was at SMCS for Grade 10 through Grade 13, after my family moved from Windsor to Toronto. In Windsor, I had been at Assumption for Grade 9. When my parents knew the move was coming up, they asked Fr. Crowley, CSB, the principal at Assumption, where I should go to school in Toronto. My mother told me Father’s response was, “I will speak to Fr. Regan, CSB and the boy will be at St. Michael’s. There is no question of anything else.” When we moved, because our apartment was not ready for occupancy, my father, who had to be in Toronto for work, and I, who had to be here for school, were put up by his company in a hotel. I was about a month into the school term before we got into our apartment, which was on the west side at the top of
the Avenue Road hill. On my first morning walking up Avenue Road to get the St. Clair car westbound, I glanced to the right and across the street was a substantial institution right opposite my home. I wondered idly what it was. It was De LaSalle. Do you think that after a month at St. Mike’s, there was any chance that I would be switching to Del to have school closer to home? I spoke earlier about a stage of my life when it became ordinary to give to SMCS. I guess I am now at a further stage of life, when I contemplate more frequently its end, not to be gloomy, but just to be realistic. Incidentally, the first time I ever saw a memento mori was on Fr. Williams’s, CSB desk in his room in St. Clair House where he was the Master on the first floor. It was a rat peeking out of the eye socket of a skull. The students treated it partly as a lesson and partly as a joke. Something that one contemplates at this stage is legacy gifts. What are the estate planning strategies available to donate to the causes and institutions we care about, where the funds come out of the tax portion of an estate without taking anything from the inheritors? Legacy gifts -- just an ordinary thing for someone like a St. Mike’s Old Boy to be making provision for.
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WHERE ARE THEY NOW
MICHAEL BOYNTON ’09 and wife, Shawna, welcomed their son, Jordan on January 15, 2018.
ADAM TUNNEY ’08 and Christina Walters were married on June 2, 2018.
He cited as his accomplishments: enhancements to bus and streetcar service, the opening of the $3.2-billion Spadina subway extension, and the introduction of the policy allowing children 12 and younger to ride free.
MATT MONTEMURRO ’05 and Brittany Maia were married on
Roughly five hours after Josh Colle spoke, Mike Colle, a
June 7, 2018.
ANTHONY SCILIPOTI ’90 organized the 25th Annual Buddies Charity Golf Tourney for Cancer Research on June 24, 2018. He provides the following report: This year was special. An event that started out by accident has become an annual tradition for a quarter century. We designed a commemorative logo ‘b25’ to capture the event’s spirit: To bring together friends of all ages and economic status with a common goal – to just “BE”. Be yourself, be the best you can be, and share that well being for a great cause: to eradicate cancer.
former municipal councillor and long-time Liberal MPP, quietly arrived at City Hall to register for the race his son had just vacated. Mike Colle, said in an interview with the TTC chair JOSH COLLE ’92 leaves politics,
Toronto Star that Josh had made the decision to bow out of
ANGUS DINELEY ’03 and wife,
as former MPP, and father, MIKE COLLE ’69
the race of his own accord. He said he only decided to run
Krista, welcomed Audrey Helena
takes over council seat
at the city level when his son asked him.
Rose into their family on July 1,
Adapted from:
2018. Their son, Billy, is thrilled to
https://www.thestar.com/news/city_hall/2018/07/25/ttc
According to Mike, he initially hesitated, in part because
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only a few weeks had passed since he was narrowly
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defeated
in
the
June
provincial
election
in
MARTIN FOX ’02 and wife,
Eglinton-Lawrence. That defeat ended his 23-year run as a
Vicki, welcomed Lawrence Joseph
TTC chair, and former St. Michael’s Alumni Association
midtown MPP. He said he asked himself: “Do I want to get
Fox into their family on January
President, Josh Colle made the surprise announcement on
back into this thing?” He ultimately decided to enter the
18, 2018.
Wednesday July 25 that he was leaving politics after eight
ring because “…there are too many things that I care
eventful years on Toronto City Council. Hours later that
deeply about in the community.”
news was followed by another surprise when his father
MATT '00 and Stephanie Bannan
announced that he would be running to replace him. Mike
Political dynasties are not uncommon in Canadian politics,
welcomed Taylor into their family
Colle says he only decided to run in the municipal election
but Mike Colle acknowledged he couldn’t think of an
on July 14. Siblings Blake and
after Josh had already opted to bow out of the race.
instance in which a father took over for his son. The senior
Zoe, grandpa Don Bannan ’66
Colle, who also served as TTC chair in the early 1990s
and uncle Jack ’22 are thrilled.
Josh Colle, who served as the representative for Ward 15
when he was a Metro councillor, said his priorities would
Eglinton-Lawrence since 2010 and as Toronto Transit
be seeing the Eglinton Crosstown LRT and Lawrence
Commission chair since 2014, broke the news he won’t
Heights revitalization through to completion, as well as
seek re-election at a news conference at City Hall —
preserving the Columbus Centre, a cultural and community
flanked by his three young sons. The 45-year-old councillor
hub in North York. “I’ve fought many battles, and I’ve got a
told reporters he had decided to spend more time with his
few more to fight,” he said.
family and planned to take a job in the private sector. “It
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be a big brother.
has been my great privilege to serve the residents of Ward
And Mike will have the chance to fight those battles. On
15 over the last eight years, and I’m extremely proud of
October 22, he won the Eglinton-Lawrence city council seat
what I’ve accomplished in my time at City Hall and at the
vacated by Josh with more than 40 per cent of the vote,
TTC,” he said.
garnering more than twice the votes of his closest challenger.
BRIAN BANNAN '96 and wife, Vanja, welcomed Vivienne Sofia on August 1, 2018. Vivienne joins big brother, Theodore.
In the accompanying picture, you will see the group at the golf course. We also took a special picture this year of the original Buddies that golfed on that day back in 1994 at a golf course called Woodlands... now turned into a residential subdivision. Every year, during the planning stages I ask myself, “Why am I doing this?”. I find the answer when the first buddy calls or sends me an email asking “when is the Buddies this year?”. So before you ask - mark your calendars, the 26th annual tournament will be held on June 23, 2019. Hard to believe, but for the second time in as many years The Buddies Open was rained out. The day started out overcast, but by the second hole, the skies began to open and the rain continued to intensify. It turned out to be the worst rainfall of the month, if not the only. Although most foursomes succumbed to the elements after nine holes, one brave group completed the round. After considering the conditions, the marshals and I decided that the winners would be those who scored best over the most holes. This year we raised $6,585.00, which due to the conditions, is some $5,000 short of our prior year’s total. Anthony Di Iorio ‘94 and I have vowed to match donations up to $2,500 so that we beat last year’s record. Many thanks to those that donated on-line, golfed, and purchased raffle tickets or sports memorabilia. The Buddies has now raised more than $68,000. For those that didn't donate and wish to do so, here is the link - https://bit.ly/2RIHjkw Back at the house, we were shielded by the elements thanks to our tents, the hot sausages, and cold drinks. Pontune5 belted out the tunes as more 100 smiling Buddies danced, drank, and ate under the big tent. IN CHALLENGING TIMES, STORIES MATTER
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DANIEL MEDEIROS ’89 has been appointed Team
“St. Michael’s earned their 2012 championship by
undergraduate degree at Canisius College in Buffalo and
his St. Michael’s journey at the old school on Bay Street.
Canada General Manager by the Canadian Ball Hockey
focusing on work ethic, capitalizing on opportunities, and
then graduated from the University of Buffalo Law School
Gene excelled in sports, winning back-to-back MVP awards
Association (CBHA). Charged with putting together a roster
sending four solid lines over the boards every game,” says
in 1982. In 1984, he was named assistant general
in football. When he played for the Buzzers in 1950 his job
that
Medeiros. “In Slovakia, those will be essential traits in
manager of the Buffalo Sabres. He was promoted to
was to shadow a 170 lb. winger named Dick Duff ’55.
bringing Gold back home to Canada where it belongs.”
general manager in 1986, a position he held until his
When Gene’s brother in law, Bill Tattersall ’52, returned
retirement in 1994.
to Canada in 1981, after working for Boeing Aircraft in
will
compete
for
Gold
at
the
2019
World
Championships in Kosice, Slovakia, Daniel is no stranger to the world stage. Having competed at the CBHA Men's A Nationals as a top goaltender, Daniel has also managed
ROBERT TUNNEY ’81, long-time St. Michael’s Arena became
Singapore, Gene felt it would be a good time to celebrate
or played on numerous teams at International Street & Ball
manager,
an
“It is nice to be recognized,” said Meehan, whose name
the occasion by “bringing together as many of the old boys
Hockey Federation (ISBHF) events at the Men's and
Ordinated Deacon at St.
still appears in the Newmarket Minor Hockey Association
from 1948-52 as I could locate. It was amazing. Eighty
Master’s levels.
Michael’s Cathedral in
record book for scoring exploits in Novice playoffs in the
showed up at my house – fantastic! That’s how it all
Toronto, surrounded by
1956-57 season. “In these communities that have been a
started.” It has now grown to include grads and friends
“It is an honour and a privilege to represent Canada and
family,
on
May
26,
big part of our lives it is nice to see them grabbing on to
from the 60s.
the CBHA. Ball hockey has been my lifelong passion, so
2018.
It
was
the
their history.”
this opportunity is genuinely a dream come true,” said
culmination of a five-year
Medeiros in a press release. “I am looking forward to the
formation programme that
“My time at St. Mike’s gave me the perfect opportunity to
Streetsville Glen, until it was moved to Bloomington Downs
required
weekend
develop my athletic and academic capabilities,” continued
in Aurora in 1995. With grads coming from across
per month at St. Augustine’s Seminary in Toronto, and one
Meehan, who was the St. Michael’s Majors general
Canada and the US, Gene feels “those are the happiest
weeknight
discussion.
manger when the team was reborn in 1997. “Upon
days of my life”.
Daniel started playing ball hockey on the street with his
Candidates also were required to take ten courses through
reflection, I am convinced that St. Mikes and the Basilian
friends at 5 years old. He first played in the Ontario
the University of Toronto’s School of Theology. “The day I
teaching tradition laid the foundation for my athletic and
“To have the feeling that one counts for something with
Premier Division as an underage teenager and has since
knelt down in front of Cardinal Collins and he placed his
professional accomplishments.”
other people is one of the greatest joys of life,” says
participated in 20 Canadian National Championships and
hands on top of my head in silence, invoking the Spirit to
13 World Championships. Medeiros founded the St.
come down and ordain me, I felt this energy radiate
Meehan, who now resides in Aurora, was inducted at a
“What matters is not how many friends we have, but how
Michael’s Ball Hockey Club in the spring of 2008.
through my body,” remembers Tunney. “It was something
ceremony held at Newmarket's Town Hall on November 4.
deeply we are involved with them. We soon learn as we
Although the first few years were difficult, the team began
I’ve never experienced before.”
World Championships in Kosice and will give my best to continue Canada’s tradition of success.”
of
small
group
prayer
one
Gene and friends hosted the annual golf game at
and
age how personal relationships count far more than
to assert itself with a semi-final birth in the 2011 Winter Premier
Ball
Hockey
League
before
winning
the
Mike Lavelle ’54, who has passed on since quoted.
BOB MCKNIGHT '56, TOM MICALLEF ’58, GERRY MEEHAN ’65 has been inducted into the
BOB PALLANTE ’59, DAVE KEON
Newmarket Sports Hall of
’60,
Fame. Gerry was born in
organized the 40th edition of the golf
“In 2008 I approached school president Fr. Redican, CSB
Toronto in 1946, but was
tournament started by Gene Cuccia
about having a St. Mike's franchise in the Ontario Premier
raised
Newmarket.
’52, OSM. On Wednesday, September
Division and he approved. Four seasons later, in 2012,
During his time at St.
12, a group of 45 alumni from the 40s
St.
Ontario
Michael’s, he helped the
and 50s turned out at Bloomington
Champions,” recalls Medeiros. “The first day we distributed
school’s Bantam team win
Downs Golf Club in Aurora to take part
our St. Michael's jerseys to the players and took a team
the
Toronto
in the annual tournament. After a day on
photo in the arena - that was special. Thinking of all the
Championship. He suited
the course, the attendees gathered for
Alumni, NHL legends, and Hall of Famers who had worn
up with the school’s Midget Major team the following year,
dinner at Le Parc Dining & Banquet
the ‘M’ for more than 100 years was surreal.”
before transferring to Neil McNeil High School.
where
championship in 2012.
Michael's
Ball
Hockey
Club
became
in
City
of
anything else in life.”
OSM, and ED
they
ROSAR
continued
to
’65
enjoy
long-standing friendships. Special thanks
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Now Medeiros fills arguably the most important role in
Gerry played four years for the Toronto Marlies, winning a
go to Blair McArthur, the son of the late
Canadian ball hockey, tasked with choosing 25 players to
Memorial Cup in 1967. Drafted 21st overall by the
Leo McArthur '56, who has continued
represent their country from among the thousands that play
Toronto Maple Leafs in 1963, he played for the Leafs in
to support the event by opening his
the sport. He must ensure the players work together towards
1968-69 and then went on to play for Philadelphia,
course to St. Michael's alumni.
one common goal, while achieving buy-in for both the process
Buffalo, Vancouver, Atlanta, and Washington. Over his 10
and the team concept. In so doing, Daniel will draw heavily
NHL seasons he played 670 games, with 180 goals and
Where did this all start? This all started
on his experience running the St. Michael’s programme.
243 assists. He retired from hockey in 1979, obtained his
back in 1948 when a young Cuccia began
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IN MEMORIAM WARREN WINSLOW '45 died peacefully at Montreal General Hospital on July 17, 2018. Born in Montreal in 1927, Warren grew up in Toronto and graduated from St. Michael's College School, the University of St. Michael’s College, and Osgoode Hall Law School. In 1953, he joined the Law Department of Canadian National Railways. In 1967, he was named a Queen’s Counsel and was transferred to the CN headquarters law department in Montreal. In 1990, he retired as CN’s Assistant General Solicitor. Warren loved hockey and played with the 1945 OHA-champion Buzzers. He was especially proud to have been a member of the Majors, Memorial Cup finalists in 1946 and winners in 1947. The following year, he was with the University of Toronto Varsity Blues, coached by Ace Bailey. He was a natural athlete and enjoyed many sports, notably tennis, squash, and skiing. He was a long-time member of the Mount Royal Tennis Club and the Montreal Athletic Association, where he worked out almost daily until shortly before his death. In all of his 91 years, Warren remained grateful for his "good life". He was especially thankful for his happy youth, his interesting and fulfilling profession, and his wonderful family. He was the ultimate gentleman and will be remembered as a disciplined, honest, positive, and kind soul who reminded us daily to “keep smiling". Predeceased by his brother, Copley George, Warren leaves to mourn his beloved wife Janice, his daughters Karen and Christine, and grandchildren Benjamin, Jason, Nathan, Oscar, and George. LOUIS STEINER ’47 died peacefully on June 1, 2018 in his 88th year. He will be missed by his siblings Joe ’47 and Pat, his five children, Cathy, Karen, Peter ’77, David ’80, and John, their spouses, and his 15 grandchildren and four step-children, Margaret, Bill, Janet, and Mary, and their spouses and four grandchildren. Louis was predeceased by his beloved wives, Pat and Joan.
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DR. FRANK JOSEPH SKAIN ’48 MD, a fellow of the Royal College of Physicians, died peacefully at his home on March 18, 2018. Frank was the loving husband of Marilyn, brother of Mary (deceased), and son of Joseph and Theresa (both deceased). Frank is survived by his eight children and eight grandchildren and will also be missed by his many stepchildren and step-grandchildren in Solon, Ohio and throughout the United States. Born in Toronto on February 22, 1929, Frank was raised in North Toronto, attending St. Michael's College School and the University of Toronto. He graduated from the U of T's Faculty of Medicine in 1954. Frank then trained at St. Michael's Hospital, receiving his specialist certificate in 1960 and becoming a well-respected obstetrician/gynecologist in Toronto. He began his medical career at Northwestern General Hospital in 1961, also practicing at Branson Hospital and later at Humber River Regional Hospital. An avid skier and golfer, he spent many years enjoying those sports, and playing tennis, with his children and grandchildren. Frank was a student of history and loved to travel. He and Marilyn travelled the globe experiencing the cultures, scenery, and beauty of countries around the world. He loved to hear about the travels of his children and would give advice on where to go and what to see. Frank was a faithful member of the Catholic community in Toronto and Muskoka. He was a parishioner of Holy Rosary Church, Our Lady of the Assumption, and St. John the Baptist, in Muskoka. DR. WALTER BLAISE KRUZEL ’51 died on September 1, 2018 with family by his side. Walter is survived by Kristine, his devoted wife of 51 years, his sons, John, Adam, and Robert, and grandchildren, Victoria, Lauren, Kaden, and Alex. Born to John and Veronica Kruzel in Toronto, on April 11, 1933, Walter was raised in the Junction above his father's tailor business. Having accelerated two grades in elementary school, Walter attended high school at St. Michael's College School, playing hockey for the Buzzers and gaining lifelong friendships along the way. He attended the University of Toronto, earning his degree in Dentistry in 1956. Due to the demand for Polish-speaking dentists, Walter's practice in Bloor West Village flourished for 58 years until his retirement in 2014. Walter had a full and engaging life, a passion for golf, downhill skiing, and for the cottage on Lake of Bays - otherwise known as Niemozliwa Lodge - where family and friendships would be embraced. Walter will be remembered for his contagious laugh and his generosity toward his patients, friends, and family.
CARL MARKERTH ’54 died suddenly on January 30, 2018, at the age of 83. He is survived by his beloved wife, Shirley, and children, Carl, Diana, Lori, and Lisa. A loving grandfather of six and great-grandfather of eight, Carl was truly one of a kind in every aspect of his life: a family man, loving husband, devoted friend, proud father, loving grandfather and great-grandfather, and devoted Catholic. Carl loved hockey and played with the Schooners and UBC Old Timers. GEORGE MICHAEL BEGLEY ’55 died on April 14, 2018 at Southlake Regional Health Centre, at the age of 82. George was the beloved husband of Marilyn and loving father of Kevin (deceased), Curtis, Julie, and Keith. Proud grandfather of Katherine, Curtis Jr., Kyle, Taylor, Connor, and Liam, George will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
ROBERT BRATTI ’55 passed away suddenly on April 4, 2018. Beloved husband of Marjorie and father of Roberta Anne and Bruno ’94, Robert was the brother of Sandra and Mary Lynne, and uncle to his nephews, great-niece and great-nephews.
MSGR. JOHN CASWELL ’55 died July 1, 2018, at Maison McCulloch Hospice. Born and raised in his beloved North Bay, Msgr. Caswell studied at St. Michael’s College School in Toronto and St. Peter’s Seminary in London. He was ordained on May 19, 1962 in the Pro Cathedral in North Bay. His ministry began as an assistant at Precious Blood Church in Sault Ste. Marie. Msgr. John’s various ministries brought glory to God and enlightenment to His creation. He skated with the Flying Fathers, brought liturgy to the sick and shut-ins, enjoyed the camaraderie of the ‘men-in-black’
gatherings, and on a daily basis followed Jesus’ greatest commandment to love God and love your neighbour. He will be remembered for his wonderful wit and wisdom, which will be cherished by all who knew him. Msgr. Caswell spent a number of years in his retirement at Finlandia Village in Sudbury. Monsignor was the loving brother of William (deceased) and son of John Sr. and Francoise (both deceased) and will be forever loved by his family of nieces and nephews in Brampton and his Sudbury family. In Monsignor’s own words to one and all, “Thanks for the memories.” RUSSELL STACHIW ’57, a retired educator at the Toronto Catholic District School Board, died peacefully at Scarborough General Hospital, in the loving care of his family, on June 10, 2018, at the age of 80. Russell was the devoted and beloved husband of Jean for 57 years. He was the cherished father of Donald, David, and Peter and the proud and loving Papa of Andrew, Thomas Katherine, Christian, Patrick, Caiden, Terrin, Liam, Kayla, and Erica. Adored Big Papa of Emma and Logan, Russell will be fondly remembered by his extended family members, colleagues, students, friends, and neighbours. NICOLA ‘NICK’ TRIASSI ’69, died peacefully at home, surrounded by his family, on July 29, 2018. Nick was the beloved husband of 41 years to his best friend and soulmate Francesca and proud doting father of Maria, Rosa, Christina, and Angela. He was also the loving father-in-law of Jim Michalopoulos, Gogliardo Di Donato ’00, and Christopher Quattrociocchi. A determined, hard-working family man who never complained and loved life, Nick was a beautiful and loving light of joy. He lived life with a positive attitude and a smile on his face. Everyone who crossed paths with him instantly felt connected and drawn to him. He inspired all he met and will be deeply missed.
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CORRADO CANINO ’73 died at St. Michael’s Hospital on March 10, 2018, at the age of 63. Loving brother of Mara, father of Khristophe, uncle of Alissa and Alanna, and brother-in-law of Angelo, Corrado was predeceased by his loving parents, Carmela and Arturo. Corrado’s passion for making outstanding pizzas was heralded by all of Toronto and beyond. He always moved to the beat of his own drum, and at the same time, his loving heart had ready empathy for others. He will be remembered for his kindness, his generosity of spirit, and his infectious love for life. Owner of Vesuvio Pizzeria, a 52-year Junction favourite, Corrado will be dearly missed and remembered by all who knew him. MICHAEL JOSEPH SITKO ’73, a retired principal with the Waterloo Catholic School Board, passed away suddenly with his wife by his side on June 12, 2018, at Grand River Hospital, at the age of 64. Beloved husband of Carol for 38 years, Michael was the loving father of Jonathan, Matthew, Joshua, and Patrick. Proud papa of Elisabeth Stafford, Bella, Saydie, Sloane, and Bo Sitko, Michael was the beloved son of the late Joe and Pat Sitko and the dear brother of Janice Jackson, and Paul, Brian, and David Sitko. Son-in-law of Barbara and the late Alfred Nigul and brother-in-law of Emily, Diane, Al, and David Nigul, Mike was a dedicated educator and coach. He was a loyal friend to many. He loved Carol, their boys, and grandkids unconditionally. All who knew him have been blessed by his joy of life and laughter. ANDREW MOROZ ’79 died after a courageous battle with cancer on June 14, 2018, at Princess Margaret Hospital. Beloved husband of Olana Susan and dear father of Alexander, Andrew was the dearly loved son of Irene and loved brother of Mark and his wife Linda. Also remembered by brother-in-law, Myron Samila and sister-in-law, Tatiana, Andrew was the cherished uncle of Lidia, Tamara, Luke, and Chantal.
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JEFFREY LOCKE ’84 died in Regina on November 5, 2017, at the age of 52. His family had been by his side, surrounding him with love and care during his brave 17-month battle with brain cancer. Jeff was born in Toronto, in 1965, the eldest of two children raised by parents Mary and Gary Locke. He was predeceased by his mother and his sister, Patty. Proudly carrying on Jeff's enduring love of family and sport are his father Gary, wife, Rachelle Matic, daughter, Mateja, and son, Aiden. The principles of discipline, perseverance, and loyalty guided Jeff to become an accomplished athlete, to achieve academic and career success, and most importantly, to be a devoted husband and father. Raised in a family of professional and Olympic athletes, as well as sport enthusiasts, Jeff's interest in both individual and team sports started early and continued for his whole life. He represented St. Michael's in hockey, football, and wrestling. He later trained for and participated in triathlons across southern Ontario. After finishing Ironman Canada twice in Penticton, Jeff gained eligibility to partake in the Boston Marathon and the Ironman World Championship in Hawaii. Of all his titles and accomplishments, Jeff earned the most fulfilment from ‘Super Hero Daddy’. He devoted much energy coaching Mateja and Aiden in hockey and ball, as a spectator and cheerleader for their other sports, and simply in play. God could not have blessed them with a more attentive, loving father. THOMAS MALINOWSKI ’85 died on March 27, 2018, at home, at the age of 52. Beloved son of Janina and the late Joseph, and loving brother of Richard and Christopher, Tom was the cherished uncle of Maximilian, Katelyn, and Nathan. Tom loved hockey and baseball and was an avid golfer. He was a kind, caring, and thoughtful man who always made time for family and friends.
GREG O’NEILL ’86 died peacefully on September 5, 2018, aged 51, surrounded by his family. Greg’s enthusiasm for all of life’s small joys (like soft-serve ice cream), his radiant smile, guileless optimism, dry wit, sharp intellect, and generous love for friends and strangers alike will be forever missed by his beloved wife Anita Hattiangadi, his siblings Daniela and Brendan ’90, his nieces Taite, Dylan, Pony, and nephew Kiran, his
father John O’Neill, in-laws Villoo Hattiangadi and Nina Thomas, and many relatives in Canada, the U.S., and Switzerland. His family draws comfort from the thought that Greg joins his loving mom, Maria O’Neill, in the universe’s boundless energy. Greg grew up in Toronto and, in 1990, earned his BSc in Psychology and Biomedical Ethics from the University of Toronto. He received his PhD in Sociology with a concentration in Population Studies from Duke University in 1997 (Go Blue Devils!). In 1988, he joined the Gerontological Society of America, the oldest and largest interdisciplinary organization devoted to research, education, and practice in the field of aging. He was the Director of its National Academy on an Aging Society from 2001 until his passing. Greg’s love of his adopted city of Washington, DC was evident. In 2008, he founded the social events website GregsListDC.com, serving as its chief editor. Greg leaves behind a community of colleagues, close friends, and acquaintances touched by the warmth and humour of his amazing soul. MICHAEL ROBERT LYSENKO ’91 died on July 13, 2017, in his 45th year. Beloved husband of Kimberley and loving father of Anya and Bianca, Michael was the dear son of Sara and Mychajlo (deceased) Lysenko. Caring brother-in-law of Andrea and Tara, Mike was the cherished uncle of Wyatt, Sawyer, Brooklyn, and Briar. He is also survived and loved by his many family members in Mexico. Much loved by Kimberley's aunts, uncles, and cousins, Mike was an enthusiastic employee of the casino gaming industry, but found his true calling helping people through his work as a financial advisor with Freedom 55 Financial/London Life. Mike loved golf, tennis, and snooker. He was well loved and respected. A tree will be planted in his memory in the Beckett-Glaves Memorial Forest. CONNOR WILLAM GIBSON ’13 died on May 20, 2018 with his family by his side. Connor had a kind and gentle spirit and brought so much joy to all who had the pleasure to be a part of his life. Connor was in his last semester at the University of Sioux Falls in South Dakota and his faith, courage, and grace were an inspiration to all. Connor is survived by his proud parents Bill and Marjorie, his loving younger sister Meaghan, his grandparents Duncan and Margaret, and Geraldine Casey. Connor was predeceased by his grandfather Paul Casey and loved by his aunts and uncles. Connor enjoyed countless family celebrations shared with his cousins, and adored his girlfriend Amber Hennings and their dog Rhett. He will be missed by his many
friends especially his great group of friends from St. Mike's and his many friends in Sioux Falls. Connor was an all-round athlete having received a baseball scholarship to University of Sioux Falls and played for the Ontario Blue Jays. He loved hockey, was an avid golfer, and was a patient, enthusiastic fisherman. CONNOR JOHN LAWRENCE MCNAMEE ’16 died on August 13, 2018. Born in Toronto, Connor followed his eldest brother Daniel ’06 at St. Michael’s College School, where he won academic awards each and every year, while contributing to the school newspaper and the debate team. Connor was about to enter his third year at the University of Toronto where he had maintained an astounding 3.87 GPA in the Life Sciences, Human Physiology Program. Connor always liked to keep busy, initially finding work at the MPorium. Sadly, Connor’s work in the science field, like many other things in his life, had not yet had the opportunity to truly begin. He wrote the Pharmacy College Admission Test last year, and scored in the 94th percentile and was scheduled to write the Medical College Admission Test in September. Connor delighted in reading, video games, having intellectual conversations with his friends, and collecting and playing magic cards. He was very environmentally conscientious, just as he was socially conscientious. Connor was a loving son to his mother and a loving brother to his older siblings, Daniel, Laura, Phillip, and Rachel. Connor leaves behind numerous extended family and friends, and countless people whose lives Connor touched. In life, Connor was kind and loving to all and he was considerate and seldom selfish. Connor affected so many people’s lives in a positive way and will be remembered for the positive impact he had.
PLEASE ALSO REMEMBER FRIENDS AND FAMILY OF THE ST. MICHAEL’S COMMUNITY Luigi Melfi, father of Nick Melfi ’83, father-in-law of Orlando Sardellitti ’86, grandfather of Mark ’10 and Daniel Melfi ’13, and Luca Sardellitti ’17; Orazio De Fulviis, grandfather of Robert ’09 and David ’12; Bohdan Myndiuk, father of Roman ’03; Saverino Luchin, grandfather of Christian ’21; Carlo Liut, father of David ’93 and John ’94; Arthur James, grandfather of Hayden ’22; Gennaro Gismondi, grandfather of Derek ’20 and Gregory ’22; Kenneth Acton, grandfather of Trevor ’20 and William ’21; Alexander Mycak, father-in-law of Timothy Storus ’73, grandfather of Matthew ’02, Mark ’04, and Andrew Storus ’13; Maria Verrilli, grandmother of Michael ’08 and Mark Antolini ’11.
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THE WAY WE WERE: Remembering Doc Higgins ’42
look inward to find the balance between career, family, and relationships. He understood that the increasing demands of our individual daily lives often lead us to forget the importance of being part of a larger community. He believed that when we work together as a team with trust, kindness, and compassion we can be greater than merely the sum of our parts. One Sunday afternoon, my father took me with him on his rounds. My sister and I were looking forward to an English
On May 22, 2018, the St. Michael’s Hospital Department of
hard candy from the hospital tuck shop and a chocolate from
Medicine celebrated the 30th annual Higgins Day. This
the nurses' station when we came upon a homeless man who
event highlights the research of Internal Medicine residents
had settled himself in the stairwell of the hospital parking lot.
and its objective is to inspire creative
SAVE THE DATE
Join us on Monday, June 24, 2019 for the St. Michael’s College School Golf Tournament at Cedar Brae Golf Club All proceeds support the SMCS Bursary Programme.
thinking and clinical reasoning amongst the residents in training. Higgins Day also honours the excellence and commitment of the late Dr. H. P. Higgins ’42 to residency training and clinical research during his tenure as Physician-in-Chief at St. Michael’s Hospital (SMH) from 1979-89. The annual H. Patrick Higgins Memorial Scholarship Award of Merit, initiated in 2010 to recognize the resident with the best research presentation, was awarded to Rukia Swaleh. The keynote speaker, Dr. Larry Leiter, acknowledged the outstanding role Dr. Higgins played not only at SMH but also at the University of
My father crouched down beside the man, shook his hand
Toronto. To mark the occasion, eight of nine Higgins children
and greeted him by name. Transfixed, we watched as my
attended Higgins Day, including Peter Higgins ’74, Dr.
father asked the man if he had taken his medication, if he
Brian Higgins ’81, Dr. Kevin Higgins ’91, and Norah
had eaten that day, and if his family knew how he was
Higgins-Burnham, SMCS Guidance Counsellor. Portions of
doing. After we walked away with a wave and a promise
Norah’s address to the attendees are reproduced below.
from the man to keep his scheduled appointment, my father had the difficult task of trying to explain the plight of the
Dad would be so pleased that this residents’ research day
homeless and the painful stigma of mental illness to his two
has continued to celebrate advancements in health care and
young daughters.
medicine. He was a great believer in the potential of the next generation, which may be why he had nine children of his
As I watched him walk down the hospital corridor that day, I
own. All nine of us are very grateful for the opportunity to
realized then that he was more than just my wonderful dad,
give you this brief snapshot of our dad, H.P. Higgins, on the
but also a quiet kind of leader, one who taught, with infinite
30th anniversary of Higgins day.
patience and care, by example. Dad recognized the humanity of all people and the importance of forming
With our reliance on Facebook, Twitter, and instant messaging,
personal connections. By following his lead, we may better
and the need to complete all tasks in double time, I know my
understand our own worth, potential, and capacity for
dad would be urging the next generation to slow down and
compassion.
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