Shell Point Life May 2016

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Grand Slam

Grande Dame ONE WOMAN DOES DENNY’S PROUD WITH DECADES OF GOOD DEEDS

A HODGEPODGE OF GOODNESS

“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”

By Mary Kay Grimaldi I am hopeful that you will find something of interest

38), join the National Day of Prayer

and beauty on every page of this

volunteers who spend countless hours

May issue of Shell Point Life maga-

(actually 118,000 last year) to help

zine – whether it is eye-catching

their fellow neighbors and friends

photography that transports us

(page 35).

around the world, or images of the splendor

Plan ahead to attend the Summer

in our own backyard (pages 14-21).

on May 5 (page 39), and applaud the

Concert Series performances (page 3), and

Search for the nearest Golden Trumpet

spread your wings to learn a new skill at an

Tree (back cover), or stroll through the

Academy of Lifelong Learning class (pages

Orchid House on The Island, where I have

22-23), or Health Connection session

it on good authority the blooms are espe-

(pages 24-25).

cially rare and colorful right now. Treat the

While meteorologists won’t know more

lady in your life to a little pampering at the

until the current El Niño weather pattern

Shell Point Salon & Spa (page 36), then

plays out, predictions call for a below aver-

dine in glory for Mother’s Day brunch at

age 2016 hurricane season, which starts

the Crystal Room or Palm Grill (page 34).

on June 1. But don’t be caught by surprise;

Let me introduce you to two gifted and

save the hurricane planning and prepara-

giving ladies of Shell Point – Marcia York

tion guide, and attend the seminar on May

(Cellana) blended work and family life to

26 (page 37).

make a difference in so many ways (pages

Also remember, if you are leaving

4 – 11), and Dee Callahan (Royal Bonnet)

town this summer, be sure to complete

overcame personal obstacles to make a con-

a “Comings & Goings” form (page 37).

tribution that matters (pages 12 – 13).

We’ll keep you in our hearts while you’re

Welcome the new Assistant Pastor Don Pullen to The Village Church (page

ON

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away … but find us each month at www. shellpoint.net/shellpointlife.

Shell Point Life is published monthly for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community.

Editor Mary Kay Grimaldi Director of Marketing & Comm. Rich Cerrina Art Director Brad Blackburn Senior Graphic Designer Wendy Iverson Graphic Designer Kathy Grove Contributors Heather Battey, Teri Kollath, Bev Chandley, Ginny Miller-Plaza, Beth Crenshaw, Debbie Brewer, Katelyn Van Scoy, Keri Perkins, Robyn Church, Tom Frackenpohl, McKenzie Millis, Melody Desilets, Jeff Cory, Rev. Andy Hawkins, Scott Eding, Randy Woods, Morgan Clayman, Roy Nestor, Sarah Nadal, Claude Emler, Juliana Metzner, Steve Morton, Matt Whelan, Linda Rakos, Janine Hammond, Dotty Morrison, Mary Richard, Ann Erickson, and Peggy Zimmerman Do you have story ideas or photos to share?

Contact Mary Kay Grimaldi, editor, by calling (239) 454-2055 or emailing marykaygrimaldi@shellpoint.org Back Issues Available Online Is there an issue of Shell Point Life that you just have to have? Was your friend or family member in a recent issue but you lost it?

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COVER

Marcia York (Cellana) leveraged a Denny’s franchise into a lifelong mission to aid at-risk youth. “Children are our best natural resource, our future,” she said. “We need to build programs so they do not fall through the cracks.” Read her story starting on page 4.

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–Proverbs 31:26

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The Stardust Memories Big Band

Gulfshore Trio

Tuesday, June 14

Thursday, September 15

The Stardust Memories Big Band includes some of Southwest Florida’s finest musicians, and was created to carry forward the legacy of this true and original American art form. The group plays the original arrangements made famous by the great bands and band leaders, including Tommy Dorsey, Glenn Miller, Duke Ellington, Benny Goodman, Buddy Rich, and many more.

The ensemble is well-known throughout the area for presenting an appealing and diversified repertoire – from the chamber Masterworks of Mozart to music on the lighter side. Enjoy this evening with the Gulfshore Trio, comprised of accomplished violinist Reiko Niiya, celebrating her 32nd anniversary as concertmaster of the Southwest Florida Symphony; concert pianist William Dawson, soloist with the Boston Pops; and Shea Kole, a phenomenal young cellist.

Ethan Uslan, Ragtime Pianist Thursday, July 14 Ethan Uslan is a ragtime, jazz, and silent film pianist, and three-time winner of the World Championship Old-Time Piano Playing Contest.

He has appeared with symphony orchestras, large and small jazz bands, improv comedy groups, and even a clown show. Ethan is ideally suited for the demands of silent film accompaniment, shifting keys, styles, speeds, and harmonies to unite the sounds of the piano with the action on the silver screen.

Concerts will be held in The Village Church Auditorium at 7:30 p.m.

Special Bonus Concert

Southwest Florida Symphony Chamber Orchestra Thursday, August 25 Join the Southwest Florida Symphony and Maestro Nir Kabaretti as they kick off their 56th season a few months early at this Summer StaycationSM Concert, featuring Mozart’s Eine Klein Nachtmusik (A Little Serenade) and other light, popular, classical pieces for your enjoyment.

Advance tickets for all 3 concerts are available for just $50, or individual tickets can be purchased for $20 each.

Bonus concert tickets cost $25 each.

Residents can purchase tickets at either service desk or online at www.shellpoint.net/concerts, charged to your Shell Point account.

The general public may purchase tickets online at www.shellpoint.org/concerts or by calling the box office at (239) 454-2067.

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Marcia was honored as one of only five women chosen in 1998 for the Roundtable for Women in Food Service Pacesetter Award for small business owners. Her listed accomplishments included: working with at-risk children, both locally and nationally; authoring a book educating children about ecology and endangered animals, and how they can help; launching an innovative approach to their Denny’s franchise through healthier children’s menu choices, flavored coffee ideas, and the creation of the Classic Diner, as well as her executive role as chairperson for the Denny’s Franchisee Association.

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A Passion for Protecting, Empowering Young Minds

By Mary Kay Grimaldi

Born and raised in Iowa, Marcia Hopkins met Ron York, her husband-to-be,

on his 16th birthday when she stopped for a hamburger after church in Orlando, where her parents had relocated for her father’s health.

A member of the honor society, she was a harmonizing lifetime partnership

match for Ron, who graduated cum laude in finance and accounting from the

University of Central Florida (then known as Florida Technological University).

Combining their talents, they created a home, raised four boys (two of whom

followed a family tradition and served with honor in the U.S. military), and passed along a business legacy devoted as much to family values and community improvement as to serving up homestyle meals.

The following is a meandering account celebrating one woman of vision,

strength, and heart, as a tribute to all such mothers in May.

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Marcia and Ron York take full advantage of semi-retirement at Shell Point, with daily walks around The Island, kayaking the canals off the Caloosahatchee, and attending Academy classes.

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WAYFINDING FORT MYERS

“Shell Point was a good move for us; we enjoy our home here at Cellana,” Marcia York said, describing the painstaking detail she spent measuring wall space to the centimeter and trimming paper models to figure how to fit their furniture into their onebedroom garden home when they moved here in 2015.

“I put my career on hold to care for my parents, one living with Alzheimer’s and the other with cancer. Caregiving becomes your life, and while I was devoted to helping them, we didn’t want our children to have to give that kind of total focus to us when it came time for us to have care.

“So, we made a decision to search for the best healthcare retirement place. Ron and I took a month on a road trip to all of the possibilities in the Southeastern United States. We visited a lot of really nice communities, but it brought us right back to Shell Point for the absolute best offerings in 6

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independent and assisted living, skilled nursing, and memory care under one umbrella.”

Initially planning to keep their local beach home and rely on the assurance of Shell Point lifecare services only if needed, they found themselves on campus almost every evening for walks around The Island.

They became friends with many of their neighbors, conveniently stored their kayaks at the marina, and regularly attended Academy of Lifelong Learning classes.

“Professor Kerr is an amazing instructor,” Marcia said.

“We were empowered to select where we wanted to spend the balance of our years, and it is the greatest gift we could give to our children. One day they will realize that.”

“We were empowered to select where we wanted to spend the balance of our years, and it is the greatest gift we could give to our children. One day they will realize that.”

Gifts abound with this Wonder Woman. She is an artist, published author, experienced marketer, major brand restaurateur, and devotee of good deeds for the tiniest of humankind. While Ron tackled his daily CPA assignments for a “Big 8” accounting firm in Atlanta, Marcia owned and operated Advanced Designs, an advertising and marketing firm on North and Piedmont downtown.

Her real love, however, was the small horse farm she named First Century Farms.

“As a child, I was always entering raffles to win a pony,” she said, so the 23-acre farm became a childhood dream come true. She began to board, breed, and train horses, and soon, introduced riding lessons, leading to a program for children with disabilities.

“Horseback riding gives physically challenged kids freedom and control over movement,” Marcia said. “There are no words for the reward of their smiles!”

After the birth of their third son came an offer Ron couldn’t refuse, fulfilling his plan to retire at age 35. They sold his accounting practice, put that money into CDs to earn interest, then decided that the briefcase full of cash delivered in payment for the horse farm would be used to take them sailing around the world; they would go back to work when the money ran out.

The first step, however, wasn’t even to buy a boat, but rather to take sailing lessons.

“We were novices on the water. Ron liked to speed along with taut sails, but I preferred the quieter, peaceful aspects of sailing,” Marcia said. In any case, they got as far as the shores of Fort Myers on this watery voyage, and to this day their children remain enamored by the sea.

“At the time, we had a 24-foot fiberglass Morgan to continue our sailing practice. Out in the Gulf, we would see fish swimming by that were bigger than our boat. What would happen if one of the boys fell in?” This made a trans-oceanic journey out of the question, so it was back to work for the Yorks.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

By now, Ron was back as a CPA with his original Big 8 firm, but that all changed

when he was hired by an Immokalee farmer as Chief Financial Officer for Johnson Brothers, Tip Top Tomato, and various other entities. Over time, the organization gained ownership of 418 acres along I-75, with a vision to build a regional shopping mall near the two-lane, newly paved dirt road called Daniels Parkway.

To jump-start the project, the Yorks agreed to join in a partnership, and obtained a Denny’s franchise to open their first restaurant on that spot in Lee County.

Then as now, one major challenge was finding a talented labor pool, but with creativity, a solid financial plan, and maybe a little luck, the location became one of the top five grossing franchise operations during its first year open. They eventually grew to own six Denny’s restaurants, and now still own and manage three.

“It was the gateway to the beaches, and right near the airport,” Marcia said. “We promoted it as a taste of Southwest Florida, and designed the building with a long, wide front porch with rocking chairs and a copper roof. We collected antique fishing poles and golf clubs, and found limited editions and original works signed by local artists to decorate the interior.”

After opening this location, the Yorks’ franchise business won Le Grand Menu Award in the children’s category at

the Florida Foodservice and Restaurant Convention. The menu concept and design were created by Marcia, featuring healthy food choices and depicting images of native wildlife like ospreys, pelicans, manatees, and alligators.

In May 1997, Marcia and Ron, along with their sons Marc and Todd, opened the original Denny’s Classic Diner on Gladiolus Drive near Summerlin Road in Fort Myers. Resembling a 1950s style eatery, the 3,200-square-foot, modular stainless-steel concept was created by the York team to capitalize on America’s growing interest in retro styles; and it appealed to the Southwest Florida market.

SERVING UP NOSTALGIA

The 105-seat model, complete with checkerboard tiled floors, neon-rimmed exterior, chrome service counter, and replica 1947 jukebox, immediately outperformed franchisees’ other units. Approximately 49 Denny’s restaurants nationwide currently mirror this design, furniture and fixtures included, with refitted fryers and compact storage space.

“After less than a month of operation, the modular unit not only pulled in more traffic – particularly dinner guests – but

also generated a higher check average,” said Ron, in a story featured in Nation’s Restaurant News, confirming this franchise operator’s rank in the chain’s top five in the nation for unit volume and annual samestore sales increases.

Marcia confirmed that the land and construction cost, as well as labor, surprisingly was substantially less than the standard Denny’s restaurant model. “Forty days after we got the permits, it was up and running, including clearing and filling the land, and training staff,” she said.

Not surprisingly, Marcia was outspoken on certain franchise issues, and the only woman invited to serve on the chain’s advisory council. Denny’s corporate management endorsed and assisted with this new concept, but allowed the Yorks the freedom to take the lead and financial risk.

Denny’s created the Classic Diner logo and helped with menu development, incorporating the Yorks’ new items, such as open-faced hot sandwiches accompanied by mashed potatoes with gravy, thick malts and Coke floats, healthy choice options like lemon-pepper fish and rice, and even a daily manager’s special designed to appeal to local markets, with staff contributions of their own favorites like rice pudding.

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“For the Denny’s Classic Diner, we took the old familiar diner car idea and brought it into the current century; it’s like ‘Back to the Future,’” said franchisee Marcia York. “The building becomes a billboard in itself.”

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Marcia is finishing a second Captain Bowser Adventure Book, titled The Manatee Picnic, to teach children about preserving our natural resources.

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“This was an ‘eatertainery’ concept.

Our servers, dressed in newly designed uniforms, danced and sang as they worked, and the customers (old and young, especially foreign tourists from Germany, France, and England) loved it. When we first opened, it was standing room only, but the bridge flyover cut our business in half.”

A BUSINESS CONSCIENCE

At the conclusion of a 20-year franchise in Cape Coral, the Yorks attempted a conversion of a Denny’s location on Del Prado Boulevard to a new brand, called Sunny Mugg’s. Created to address “today’s market,” the 24-hour bar and grill was the first of its kind in the area.

“You’re supposed to smile when you come in.

It’s a fun atmosphere,” Marcia said in a report by the local Daily Breeze.

The focus of the restaurant was to provide speed, value, and quality, along with healthy food and vegetarian meals. Coffee was a staple in this short-lived experiment, ranging from options that were mild but rich in taste to a “stand up” 100% Columbian rainforest 8

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version. “A certain percentage of each cup of coffee will go back to the Rainforest Alliance to help the farmers,” Marcia was quoted at the time.

Seeking local authors and artists who could be showcased at regularly scheduled family nights in the restaurant to stimulate culture in the area, she also gave away copies of her own children’s book, A Turtle to Go! After two years, guests clamored for the return of the original Denny’s, so Sunny Mugg’s was no more.

A strong believer in the power of educating our country’s youth, Marcia strives to show children what can be done to save planet Earth and its endangered species. To that end, she launched the Captain Bowzer Adventure BookTM ecology-related series, with publication of A Turtle To Go! in 1991.

The 34-page book is “dedicated with love to the children of the world, God, and Ron, who said ‘Just do it!’”

Marcia would visit elementary schools throughout Florida costumed as the book’s character, Kitty Crew, to teach children about nature at risk of extinction. “Writing the book was actually a gift from God,” she said, describing how she woke up one night and completely outlined the inspiration for the story. She has a draft of a second manuscript, titled The Manatee Picnic, waiting to be published.

Geared for four- to eight-year-olds, it was a popular option offered through National Education Book Distributors. It was illustrated by an acquaintance she met along the docks, Geoffrey Schofield from Narragansett Bay, Rhode Island, who had a wooden peg leg. “I called him a pirate with a pen,” said Marcia, “and his artistic background was strengthened by his experience at sea and near the water.”

Writing and publishing by the name of Marcia Hopkins-York is a nod to her father who had two daughters. “He was sad that the family name would die with him,” Marcia said, “so I added his name to my signature for these books and my artwork.”

FLEXING CREATIVE CLOUT

A marketing wiz, Marcia had launched an advertising agency, designing bank logos and real estate promotions, and was honored by local trade groups for excellence in brochure design and copywriting. She is also an artist who can hold her own among gallery exhibitors. “My dream is to create a piece that will hang in a museum … and to write a best-selling novel,” she said.

Positive reinforcement came at an early age when Marcia won a first place ribbon in a second grade art contest for her landscape scene of a woodsy meadow with intricate

As part of Denny’s support of Feed the Children in the 1990s, Harlem Globetrotters offered clinics for youth from a local Big Brothers/ Big Sisters program.

Marcia earned Le Grand Menu Award in the children’s category at the Florida Foodservice and Restaurant Convention for her menu concept and design featuring healthy choices and native wildlife.

leaves on the prominent tree in the foreground, and an honorable mention for a captivating still life.

For the written word, her heartwrenching manuscript about the gruesome Atlanta child murders of 1979-81 (focus-

ing on a serial killer who targeted minority children) caught the eye of a Bantam Books editor.

“My favorite topics are murder and mayhem; this was fiction loosely based on the facts I collected through extensive research,” Marcia said, rising as a protective advocate for the plight of these helpless souls. “The editor gave me a contract with two years to rewrite it with a female heroine,

Many of Marcia’s paintings focus on social issues, such as the tragic killing of The Beatle’s singer-songwriter John Lennon, Global Warming, Teach Them To Read, Republic Red White & Blue, and Universal Woman. “My style is more expressionism, with hints of impressionism,” she said. “An artist’s style is always evolving, growing, otherwise it stagnates and dies a boring death.”

which is where the industry was heading then. But it just didn’t feel right, like unknitting a sweater, so I never published it.”

Years later at a writer’s conference at then-Edison Community College (now Florida SouthWestern State College), Marcia met John Katzenbach, who had authored a thriller, titled The Traveler, featuring a female detective with a personal interest in certain copycat killings.

“It was so similar to my original manuscript that I felt certain the Bantam editor must have shared it with him,” Marcia said. “He told me frankly there were no original ideas; what matters is who gets to the finish line first, as he autographed my copy of his book.”

Her professional international art debut occurred in 2009 at her “View of World” exhibition. Sponsored by Bloom’s Fine Art Gallery, it began at the top of the Trade Center in Dresden, Germany, and rotated throughout galleries in Germany.

The show featured “glimpses of current issues facing civilization today, through color, composition, and variety of medium and form … mixing emotion, issues, and artistry,” including her rendition of the abstract acrylic painting “Yesterday’s Kisses.”

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Over time, the Yorks and SWFRI scooped up national awards for Denny’s Operator of the Year, the (Florida) Governor’s Community Investment Award, excellence in various sales and evaluation assessments, and overall Champion of Children. Marcia shared key accomplishments through her own awardwinning newsletter, The Right Word.

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“Unique Interpretations: Beyond Color Shape,” calling her fine art originals and prints in acrylics, mixed media, and glass: “powerful, daring, brilliant.”

FOOD FOR THE SOUL

Back at the restaurants, as involved and proactive franchisees, Marcia and Ron eventually formed a corporation of affiliates to build their voice in ongoing operational decisions with the Denny’s brand. The purpose of Southwest Florida Restaurant Investments, Inc. (SWFRI), is to develop family-style establishments, based on excellent value, consistent food quality, and outstanding guest service.

“Our employees take pride in the organization and team effort to provide excellent guest service in a clean, pleasant restaurant environment,” according to the SWFRI business philosophy. Its motto: “Be Simply the Best.” Marcia also served as the first chairperson of the Denny’s Franchisee Association, representing almost 200 franchisees with more than 1,000 restaurants.

Recognized as a leader among franchise owners, Marcia was invited by Denny’s then-President and CEO Ron Petty to assist in developing the brand’s partnership with Save the Children.

Founded in England in 1919, the organization helps approximately nine million children in 40 countries through education, health and nutrition, emergency relief, and economic development.

According to the book, Common Interest, Common Good; Creating Value Through Business and Social Sector Partnerships, Save the Children pioneered the idea of child sponsorship: Individual donors provide funds to help selected children, who communicate with the sponsors by letter (as portrayed in TV ads featuring actress Sally Struthers, among others).

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BRINGING SUSTENANCE HOME

as a believer,” she said then, as she began approaching fellow franchisees and making speeches about this cause.

One creative tactic to raise visibility and funds characteristically involved an art contest; the winning entries submitted by children across the country were imprinted on neckties and t-shirts, which were then

To reinforce this initiative, the Denny’s corporate office unveiled a promotional video featuring a diverse group of young children dressed in uniforms of various restaurant jobs: “Children grow up regardless of us.

How they grow up is up to us. At Denny’s, we believe one of our biggest responsibilities is making sure every child is loved, nurtured, healthy, and educated. So we’re the largest corporate sponsor of Save the Children ... because children are 35 percent of our population, but 100 percent of our future.”

Marcia took this mantra to heart, and worked in Fort Myers with Judi Saint-Sommer at Big Brothers/Big Sisters of the Sun Coast to launch a program for at-risk children in the impoverished Pine Manor neighborhood. “We arranged safehouses and after-school care; provided education, meals, and immunizations,” said Marcia.

She described a special outing for the children to visit the beach on a rented school bus. “Imagine, this was the first time some of them had seen the Gulf,” Marcia said. “They splashed and played, then learned that the bar-be-cue lunch was a treat only after they helped by picking up trash left in the sand.”

Poignant portrayals of triumph abound in this relationship: Timmy, an 11-year-old who was sole caregiver to his disabled father, was hospitalized, so Marcia took him into her own home to recuperate. One young Denny’s employee named Sean applied to become a mentor with Big Brothers/Big Sisters after he joyfully played Santa at a

Poignant portrayals of triumph abound in this relationship: Timmy, an 11-year-old who was sole caregiver to his disabled father, was hospitalized, so Marcia took him into her own home to recuperate. worn by Denny’s servers and also sold in the restaurants nationwide.

Her passion for the charity helped convince a large group of owners to join the effort, and by the end of 1995, $750,000 had been raised by Denny’s restaurants across the country. Several years later, the amount had grown to several million dollars contributed, with promises that the funds would be used to help children locally with turnkey programs that were easy to implement.

Christmas party in Pine Manor.

“There are so many remarkable stories,” Marcia said, some of them referenced in the book published in 2004 to commemorate the 100th anniversary of Big Brothers/Big Sisters, Little Moments, Big Magic: Inspirational Stories of Big Brothers and Big Sisters, and the Magic They Create.

It’s a tale of support for at-risk children in Lee County. Among the touching, inspirational, surprising, and funny stories is Marcia’s dedication to the children of Pine Manor. “I’m proud of our business as a member of the community, and the ways we find to give back – looking for something that lasts, she said.” All these efforts earned her praise through Denny’s Champion for Children Award and the Florida Governor’s Award.

She talked about their Denny’s involvement in a girls’ foster program in Lee County.

“Many children who age out of governmentsupported foster care have no place to go, and with no job training, they cannot get jobs or support themselves,” Marcia said. “A high percentage end up homeless, into drugs or crime, or pregnant.”

Through a program started locally, many of these young women were given employ-

ment at the Yorks’ Denny’s. Marcia assisted by giving lectures on completing job applications and interviewing, how to dress, and wear make-up properly.

Marcia invited exchange students from Peru, Brazil, Argentina, and Chile to stay with her, and hopefully return to their home countries as leaders. “I had only one rule: They would learn to speak English,” Marcia said, as she worked to convert an abandoned hotel near Siesta Isles on San Carlos into a dormitory for more visiting exchange students to benefit.

WOMAN WITH A MISSION

Along the way came a gold-embossed, personal invitation from the White House to meet with then-First Lady Hilary Clinton. “They wanted me to submit my Social Security number,” Marcia said. “I thought it was a hoax, and threw it away.

Then I got a call from Denny’s CEO Ron Petty asking why I hadn’t RSVP’d yet.”

In reality, it was an opportunity with America’s Promise to showcase this Fort Myers collaborative as an example for other

communities to emulate. Formed through the Presidents’ Summit for America’s Future in 1997, America’s Promise frames its work around the belief that all children are capable of learning and thriving.

The alliance espouses that we all have a responsibility to meet five promises: caring adults, safe places, a healthy start, an effective education, and opportunities to serve.

“Children are our best natural resource, our future,” said Marcia. “We need to build programs so they do not fall through the cracks.”

An ardent American, she is applying to become a member of the DAR — Daughters of the American Revolution. Marcia is a descendent of George Mefford, who constructed one of the few forts used during the American Revolution, built at Mefford Station on a flat boat that crossed the river between Ohio and Maysville, Kentucky.

“I see apathy everywhere, and the American spirit is wallowing, but we should not be afraid to stand up for something we believe in,” she said. “There are so many social issues to tackle. We need to apply our American spirit and determination to keep these urban programs going to protect the children sitting alone on doorsteps.”

Marcia was a harmonizing lifetime partnership match for Ron, balancing creative skills in marketing with accounting and business acumen.

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Dee Callahan (Royal Bonnet) has used creativity to overcome various obstacles and follow her own LifeQuest goals. Some of her favorite abstract expressionist works are a result of her process of healing and overcoming life’s difficulties.

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Seeing things differently came naturally to Delores (Dee) Callahan (Royal Bonnet). Born with much less than the perfect 20/20 vision in her left eye, she is considered legally blind. Dee recalls drinking canned carrot juice and cod liver oil in an attempt to improve her eyesight, as well as daily eye drops regularly administered by her parents.

But she was able to creatively overcome this obstacle and follow her own LifeQuest through a love of art, specifically painting and music. Dee reminisced about her elaborate plan for creating a Christmas mural to beautify the windows of her grade school classroom. The joyful Santa and reindeer earned great praise, and Dee knew that henceforth she wanted to use art in important ways.

Dee easily expressed her talents at a young age by making her own paper dolls, complete with a paper wardrobe of dresses, and fashioning elaborate doll homes from boxes, using gift wrap as wallpaper and décor. She claims her grandchildren followed suit and are just as imaginative, using everyday objects to turn playtime into an adventure.

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For Christmas one year, her father bought her oil-based paints and encouraged her to design a piece for the wall in his restaurant, “French Gardens” in West Lake, Missouri. The scenic canvas remained on display for years until she removed it, revised it with a pallet knife, and sold it at an art show. “I was never that proud of it until I re-worked it,” she said.

The Path to Health

True to her strong spirit and creative soul, Dee worked through the six dimensions of wellness to overcome her diagnosis of coronary heart disease (CHD). CHD causes a waxy substance called plaque to build up inside the arteries, which supply oxygen-rich blood to the heart muscle.

Eventually, the decreased blood flow may cause chest pain (angina), shortness of breath, or other symptoms. A complete blockage can cause a heart attack.

“I started praying for God to show me a way to health,” Dee said. This path to health included taking vitamins, chelation therapy, and painting. Her personal LifeQuest is to continue painting, learning more to expand her techniques and use her

own inspiration for artistic growth.

Some of her favorite abstract expressionist works are a result of her process of healing and overcoming difficulties. One shows her own spirit as a butterfly before, during, and after the challenges she has faced.

Many have complimented her pieces, saying they reflect a thoughtful eye for color and beauty. One teacher believed Dee’s work would be well suited for those young at heart, and suggested she write and illustrate her own children’s book. Dee agreed, wishing to produce something that would teach children about values and character.

Shabby Abby and the Special Rainy Day Party is a whimsical story about building character, overcoming obstacles, learning to say sorry, and having the wisdom to forgive. “I suppose the book has some of myself in it,” Dee said, and looks forward to enhancing it.

Dee even submitted some entries for the Ageless Creativity art exhibition in February 2017. Watch and see what happens next!

LifeQuest Discussion Group Emotional Dimension

Physical, Mental, Emotional Benefits of Exercise Saturday, May 28, 10:00 a.m. • Grand Cypress Room/WDL Presented by Fitness Coordinator Hannah Hosterman Fitness Coordinator Hannah Hosterman will discuss the many roles a personal trainer plays, and how this can be beneficial when starting a new exercise program.

Learn about the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of exercise – weight loss, muscle toning, body

shaping, posture, energy, stress reduction, mental concentration, confidence, self-image, and social rewards.

Hannah will explain how personal trainers can provide practical support and information to help clients assess their

lifestyle and wellbeing, create appropriate exercise programs using correct form and technique, and improve health and fitness with a balanced diet for a proper fitness journey that works for your individual body and unique goals.

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Robert Homez “After the Rain”, 2nd place, Scenery

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this year. To better prepare Photo Club members for this style in the contest, Photo Club board member John Ippensen (Royal Bonnet) gave a lesson on the elements of abstract photography. The next month, new abstract photographs lined the Critics’ Wall in the studio as club members learned from each other’s ideas.

As a result, the judge deemed this the most difficult category to place ribbons because there were so many good entries and widely varying interpretations.

Don Adams (Junonia) won the accolades of the judge for the Birds, Bees, Bugs

and Butterflies category, with his image of “Parent and Child.” Don often accompanies his wife, Jane, on her Sanibel beach walks, where she volunteers as a monitor of the snowy plovers’ nests.

This particular snowy plover and chick had wandered out of the roped-off area, and Don was able to use his Nikon D3100 camera to capture the delightful family portrait.

This was his first entry in the contest and his first ribbon. He credits the Shell Point Photo Club as a source of his growth in photography.

Kirk Gulledge (Junonia) won two blue

Kirk Gulledge “Gourmet Delights” 1st place, Other Wildlife Pete Martin “Flowers Trapped in Drops” 2nd place, Reflections

John Abitz “Orange” Honorable Mention, Abstract

Don Adams “Parent and Child” 1st place, Birds, Bees, Bugs & Butterflies

Mary Hirsch “Big Baby,” 2nd place, Other Wildlife

ribbons with photographs taken during his trip to China last summer. “Here’s Looking at You” in the Travel category is a picture of backpacks with owls staring out from each one. “The owls are symbolic of some of the ethnic groups in China, but I was attracted to the color of the display and the many eyes looking out at me,” Kirk said. In the Other Wildlife category, Kirk won with “Gourmet Delights.” While visiting the Panda Base in Cheng Du, he took many photographs of giant pandas, trying to capture their personalities. He said the winning photo was “one of the simplest I took; I feel like I am eye-to-eye with him, looking into his big soul.”

Kirk has won ribbons in the annual contest before, and believes the Photo Club meetings and critiques have been helpful to give him a new understanding of photography as an art form, rather than just a way to take memory shots.

Lynne Couser won first place in the Architecture category, with her photograph, “Bridge on Barton Creek,” taken in a Texas park. She had stopped to study the arches that she said seemed to “pull me across the water to the other side.” She noticed a paddle boarder

Karen Hall, “The Twist” 3rd place, Abstract

Jan Drake “Patiently Waiting” 1st place, Pets

David Tompkins “My Slippery Fish” 2nd place, People

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“Here’s Looking at You” is a picture of colorful owl backpacks, although I initially thought they were puppet toys. I was out doing fun things on the streets in Xi’an, where I went to see the famous terracotta warriors.

There were lots of stalls in a strong ethnic area where small tribal groups setup shop.

“Another Day at the Office” was taken on a street in Beijing of a guy with red hair and tattoos (which is unusual in China). He was perched on a pole – I don’t know how he balanced there. He was engrossed, seriously concentrating on his iPad project, and not looking at me. Several Chinese friends considered him weird-looking; but I thought it was fun, and so different from everything else I saw there.

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What qualities make a good photo?

Roberta told us: I took photos a long time ago, when the kids were little, but got busy and away from it. I recently found out about digital and got interested again; I use a Nikon Coolpix.

Kirk Gulledge “Another Day at the Office” 3rd place, People

Carl Bowser “Aft Serenity” 3rd place, Travel

We had a get-together with friends last Christmas in St. Augustine, and decided to take a walk on the beach. It was a pretty day, half-foggy and just lifting. I saw the sea oats with my friends in the background, and it looked like a picture that had to be taken.

Roberta Young My friends now say “A Walk at the Beach” 3rd place, Scenery they’re famous!

I had never done a still life before, but chose it as a challenge. It was a topic for the Photo Club meeting one month, so this was a good time to learn. I also looked on the internet for ideas of what made a nice still life, and how to combine shapes and colors that look pleasing together.

Kirk Gulledge “Here’s Looking at You” 1st place, Travel

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floating into the scene, and shot the photo.

The judge agreed that the wonderful “leading lines” of the arches were enhanced by the presence of the small watercraft. Lynne joined the Shell Point Photo Club last month and is delighted to be with others who are so interested in photography. This is Lynne’s first contest ribbon.

Best of Show

When Fran Ippensen (Royal Bonnet) saw Wendell Shingler of Tellidora engrossed in a chess game with a boy who wanted to learn how to play the classic game of strategy, she couldn’t resist taking their picture. She ran to her apartment for her “point-andshoot” camera and was able to take only about three shots before the game ended.

When she realized that she had captured the intensity of the game in both the young and the old faces, she thought she had a photograph that depicted what Shell Point is all about. Fran’s photograph, “And the Winner Is…,” earned first place in the People category as well as the Ted Boynton Best of Show Award.

The judge said she had to choose it as the best overall because there was a Norman Rockwell-like quality that made it stand out above the others.

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Being in the right place at the right time, and taking the initiative to see its value and capture the image propelled Fran to a best of show ribbon: I came across the scene for my photo by chance outside the library, and it just jumped out at me as an opportunity for a good picture. I didn’t even have my camera with me, and had to run home to get it before the scene changed.

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John Abitz, “Preen” 3rd place, Birds, Bees, Bugs & Butterflies

John Abitz (Estuary) Sandy Ehlers “Sioux Marker by Way of Island” 2nd place, Travel Pete Martin, “Stripes” 1st place, Still Life

Fran Ippensen, “Red on Blue” 3rd place, Reflections

Birds are a common theme among the four ribbon-winning images taken

by John, who for several decades focused predominantly, and with enthusiasm, on the photographic elements in the monthly magazine he produced for an insurance company in Michigan before retiring to Shell Point: I would get right up in our dog’s face to take her picture, and remember learning to go in-in-in, big-big-big on things. When you get up close, you can see the juxtaposition, and you get more effect with the colors, rather than taking a long view from far away.

“Preen,” “Orange,” and “Friends” were all taken at Lion Country Safari in Loxahatchee, Florida, a year ago. It was really an incongruous image of the huge rhino and little white bird, who could just get stomped he was so close; it spoke something to me.

“Reflections” was taken right here out our window on the pond at Shell Point. I didn’t have to travel far for that one.

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Herb Sklar “Shell Point Friends” Juried Show

Les Davidson “Denali, Mount McKinley” Juried Show

Fran has been a member of the Photo Club ever since coming to Shell Point. “I have learned through experiences with the Photo Club to be more aware of the environment and the potential for interesting photos, even in unlikely places,” Fran said.

Juried Show

For photographers with many first-place ribbons to their credit, the Juried Show offers an opportunity for new challenges.

Each participant presents six photographs that are connected by a theme.

John Ippensen (Royal Bonnet) submitted a theme, “Abstracts in Nature.” “My interest in abstract photography has spanned a few years. I began to look at the environment to find examples of abstractions there,” he said. “My photographs for this exhibit come from locations on The Island at Shell Point to the Norway coast above the Arctic Circle.”

Dotty Morrison (Cellana) was inspired to try something new. The idea for “Our Hands” resulted in a walk to the Creativity Tunnel on The Island, then to the Osprey Room, a friend’s apartment, and Scotty’s Garage. All around Shell Point, she found experienced, skillful hands that are constantly working. Dotty hopes that her six photographs in this year’s show will turn into a larger project.

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Pam Blough “Blue Swirl” 2nd place, Abstract

portraits of a few of the speLes Davidson (Eagles cial people I met around Shell Preserve) had often imagined Point,” Herb said. His theme flight around Mt. McKinley, also was simply titled, “Shell Point called Denali, with an opportuFriends.” nity to land on a glacier. His Sallie Rich (Tellidora) theme, “Denali and the Alaska titled her series “Beauty at Range” are photographs taken John Ippensen “Abstracts in Nature” Shell Point.” “These phofrom a small plane. He described Juried Show tographs reveal Shell Point this up-close and personal experience as a “heart-stopping religious experi- beauty to which I respond many times a day,” she said. Sallie is thankful to God ence never to be forgotten.”

Herb Sklar (Eagles Preserve) decided for this amazing place where she can conto feature a concept that he believes the nect with the wild – wildflowers, wild birds, Photography Studio does well. “With so wild skies, and the wild, ever-changing many residents and staff requesting portraits, Caloosahatchee, flowing just a few feet it was a natural for me to create beautiful from her door. n

John Abitz “Friends” 3rd place, Other Wildlife

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Sallie Rich “Beauty at Shell Point” Juried Show

Phyllis Ingalls Pam Blough Karen Hall Pete Martin John Abitz

Beautiful Scum Blue Swirl The Twist Toucan Under Stress Orange

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Karen Hall “Great Grandma’s Wash Day” 3rd place, Still Life

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Lynne Couser Pete Martin David Tompkins Terry Hall

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Category 3 – Birds, Bees, Bugs & Butterflies 1st 2nd 3rd HM HM

Don Adams Al Williams John Abitz Roberta Young David Tompkins

Parent and Child I Love Sushi “Preen” Dinner Preening Pelican

Category 4 – Other Wildlife 1st 2nd 3rd

Kirk Gulledge Mary Hirsch John Abitz

Category 5 – People 1st 2nd 3rd

Fran Ippensen David Tompkins Kirk Gulledge

Category 6 – Pets 1st Susan H. Schmitt “Reflection Near the Sanibel Causeway” Honorable Mention, Reflections

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Gourmet Delights Big Baby Friends

“And the Winner Is…” My Slippery Fish Another Day at the Office

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John Abitz Pete Martin Fran Ippensen Susan H. Schmitt

“Reflections” Flowers Trapped in Drops “Red on Blue” “Reflection Near the Sanibel Causeway”

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Holly English Robert Homez Roberta Young

Island Sun After the Rain A Walk at the Beach

Category 9 – Still Life 1st 2nd 3rd

Pete Martin Roberta Young Karen Hall

Stripes Some of My Favorite Things Great Grandma’s Wash Day

Category 10 – Travel 1st 2nd 3rd Phyllis Ingalls “Beautiful Scum” 1st place, Abstract

Kirk Gulledge Sandy Ehlers Carl Bowser

Here’s Looking at You Sioux Marker by Way of Island Aft Serenity

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by Floyd Jamison (Parkwood), Dan Warner (Turban), and Frank Sevier (Harbor Court).

Phil Hilton (Lakewood) is offering Italic Calligraphy and Flourished Italics (FLL02) on six Tuesdays beginning May 3. This is a hands-on instruction and demonstration that, with practice, will enable you to give expression to your notes and personal greetings.

Writing Your Memoirs (FLL03) is a class for those who have thought about writing their memoirs, but never quite got around to it, as well as for those who are already writing. Join seasoned instructors Lucille Peterson (Lakewood) and Marty Gibson (Lakewood) every Tuesday in May. Award-winning maritime author, lecturer, and TV commentator Robert Macomber returns to the Academy this summer for more naval history as only he can share it. On Tuesday, May 3, he presents Behind the Scenes of The Assassin’s Robert Macomber Honor, and What’s 22

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Join author Robert Macomber on Tuesday, May 3, as he presents Behind the Scenes of The Assassin’s Honor, and What’s Next (FLL04).

Next (FLL04). Highlights from Macomber’s book focus on the exotic Mayan coast of Mexico, the shadowy world of Havana, the back alleys of Key West, and Tampa’s quaint Spanish quarter of Ybor City – and events that transpired there 120 years ago, changing world history.

Macomber returns on Tuesday, May 10, with The Great Armadas (FLL09), the fascinating story of Spain’s fabled Treasure Fleets that brought the riches of the world home to Sevilla 500 years ago, and made Spain the most powerful nation in the world.

Yachts that Went to War (FLL14) rounds out the Macomber series on Tuesday, May 17. In this presentation, he shares an incredible story of elegant yachts in the Gilded Age, which became warships in the U.S. Navy during the Spanish-American War. Professor Adrian Kerr brings us English History and Culture (FLL05, FLL10,

FLL15, FLL18, FLL20) on all five Tuesdays in May. Professor Kerr begins, as he always does in these sweeping histories he shares with us, right at the beginning with prehistory. Through all the wars, including the one giving birth to our nation, he finishes with the End of Empire, and Legacy.

Susan Willoughby gives us a new opportunity this summer to play Bridge for Beginners (FLL06) on all four Wednesdays in May. If you are a beginner, or have not played in years and would be willing to start again, this is the class for you. Also each Wednesday afternoon in May, Susan teaches Intermediate Bridge (FLL08), for those who wish to continue to learn while playing.

On two Wednesdays, May 4 and 11, Woodshop Supervisor Phil Nedeau offers the first opportunity of the summer semester to Get Crafty in the Shell Point Woodshop (FLL07). With his guidance, you will create a wood and sea urchin ornament.

Debbie Melchi (Periwinkle) shares another crafty idea that is fun to create, and most useful: Paper Bag Scrapbook Album (FLL11). Join her for three Wednesdays beginning May 11.

Karen Hubbard (Lakewood) shares how something we all did as children can be more fun (also relaxing and therapeutic) today, with Coloring for Adults (FLL12) on Thursday, May 12.

Ed Vanderhey (Coquina) teaches AARP Smart Driver Course (FLL13) on Monday, May 16. Come to tune up your driving skills, update your knowledge of Florida driving laws, and learn about age-

related physical changes and how to adjust your driving to allow for these changes.

“I’ve Been Wondering…” (FLL16) is a time to hear answers to your questions about the Bible and theology from Senior Pastor Rev. Andrew Hawkins, PhD. Submit your questions in advance to The Village Church, then join us on Wednesday, May 18, for the answers.

Author Charles Sobczak provides a thoroughly entertaining, beautifully illustrated discussion of birds, reptiles, and mammals that thrive throughout our corner of the world on Tuesday, May 24, during The Living Gulf Coast: Meet Your Neighbors! (FLL17). Drawing from his two “Living” guides, Living Sanibel and The Living Gulf Coast, you will learn how these creatures survive in the wild, and the dangers they sometimes pose for Floridians.

Author Charles Sobczak will present an entertaining discussion of birds, reptiles, and mammals in The Living Gulf Coast: Meet Your Neighbors! on Tuesday, May 24 (FLL17).

Try your hand at creating a floral arrangement with Yvonne Schneff (Sundial) on Wednesday, May 25, as she teaches Floral Design in a Teacup (FLL19). You may have seen Yvonne’s lovely arrangements throughout the Woodlands Commons. In this class, she provides tips and encouragement, and you will take home a small arrangement that you made!

Wally Yeager (Sundial), will answer your Apple questions during the Apple iPad/ iPhone/MAC Walk-in Clinic (T3-02). Just like an outpatient clinic, you will be able to sign in and be helped on a first-come, first-served basis. Be sure to bring your questions, your device, and your password with you.

Penny Modrich also offers three classes devoted to the Apple iPad this month. Join her for: Apple iPad: Why Do I Need One? Will It Replace My PC? (T3-01) on Monday, May 2 (1 session); Apple iPad: What Are the Basics? (T303) on two Mondays, May 9 and May 16; and Apple iPad: APPS! APPS! APPS! (T3-05) on three Mondays, May 23, June 6 and 13. Bob Jakubiec also teaches Basic iPad 1 (T3-04) on two Mondays, May 16 and 23.

Academy on the Go

On Monday, May 2, the Academy travels to the Holocaust Museum in Naples for At War’s End: The Nuremberg Trials (OTG01). This exhibit is a cooperative project between the Holocaust Museum, the Education Center of Southwest Florida, and students from the Florida Gulf Coast University Museum Studies class.

Our second educational field trip this month takes us to Ave Maria University on Tuesday, May 24, to experience the only program of study and service in America to honor Nobel Peace Prize winner Mother Teresa. Join us for The Mother Teresa Project at Ave Maria University (OTG02), and view the 3,000-square-foot displays showcasing memorabilia of her life.

Learn how to make a beautiful sea urchin and wood ornament in Get Crafty in the Shell Point Woodshop (FLL07) with Phil Nadeau, Woodshop supervisor, on May 4 and 11.

At a time when the world is rife with violence and riven among the world’s religions, the goal of the Mother Teresa Project is to produce graduates of Ave Maria University who will spread her compassion and teachings to a new generation of Americans who know little about this pious woman. In the process, they aim to spread peace in the same manner as she did – one person at a time.

Legacy Seminar

This financial seminar focuses on The Five Building Blocks of Successful Portfolio Construction (LS01) on Thursday, May 5, with Saul Mendoza, Vanguard Financial Advisors Services, and Eric and Sherri Hynden, Wealth Management and Strategy Advisors, Flint Financial Group, UBS.

Stay Tuned

Refer to the brochure for the Academy of Lifelong Learning available at either service desk, or online at www.shellpoint.net for more information, including any fees and registration requirements. There is also a calendar you can print online.

Please continue to confirm your class selections in the Weekly Reminder, as any last-minute changes will be posted there or on SPTV. We welcome ideas for future courses, and look forward to seeing you at an Academy class soon!

Academy on the Go heads to Ave Maria University to visit The Mother Teresa Project on Tuesday, May 24.

Technology Today and Tomorrow (T3)

Every Friday during the summer semester, Penny Modrich (Nautilus) and assistants Jean Gilman (Cameo), Bob Jakubiec (Lucina), Debby Kerr (Rosemont), Judith Krug (Eagles Preserve), Pat Schmidt (Turban), Wayne Wolfert (Lucina), and Shell Point Life | May 2016

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Please refer to the latest Health Connection catalog, note location changes posted at the Health Club, or confirm at either Service Desk when you register for the class.

on Tuesday, May 10, at 1:15 p.m. in the Social Center/IS. Join Registered Nurse Sharon Krispinsky for an informative presentation that reviews the prevaMoving to the music can make lence of chronic health conditions, you happier, smarter, and a whole and a discussion of prevention lot healthier. You don’t even need strategies. Preventing Chronic to know how to dance! Come jump Health Conditions – You Can Do with joy in this super-effective and It! is held on Wednesday, May 18, at super-fun Zumba Fitness class.

2 p.m. in the Oak Room/WDL. Session D is on Fridays starting May Do you ever wonder what hap13, and Session C on Mondays startLearn how to manage chronic health issues in Preventing Chronic pens after you call 9-1-1? Medical ing May 16. Try it once a week, or Health Conditions – You Can Do It!, presented by Sharon Krispinemergencies are among the most sign up for a combo session to dance sky, RN, on Wednesday, May 18. critical calls for service. Hear a repyour heart out twice a week for twice Coordinator Melanie Brod in this exercise resentative from the local Iona-McGregor the fun and fitness.

Add Advanced Strength and Condition- routine that will kick-start your metabolism Fire Department address this important ing to your routine, and learn techniques and flatten your midsection. This class uses topic. Carol Clark, EdD, ARNP, from the J. that increase muscle tone, endurance, and the ball in various ways to target your legs, Howard Wood Medical Center, and Margie strength. Even small changes in muscle thighs, glutes, and abs. You will feel the burn Pregent, RN, from The Larsen Pavilion, will also be on hand to answer questions regardsize can make a big difference in helping with these intense ball-focused workouts! ing your return home to Shell Point. Sign up improve your ability to do simple things, like for 9-1-1, Now What?, held on Thursday, get up from a chair or climb stairs. Session May 19, at 2:15 p.m. in the Social Center/IS. B is on Wednesdays beginning May 18 for Learn about The Aging Spine: Managesix weeks. It’s only $55 for this small group training that is sure to pack a big punch.

Older adults often have several chronic ment & Treatment on Wednesday, May 25, at If you enjoy slow movement classes, conditions that are managed by multiple 10:15 a.m. in the Social Center/IS. Clinical maybe you should try Beginner Martial medications; they have become the largest Liaison Christy Green will discuss manageArts. This class is an effective exercise regi- segment of medication users in the United ment and treatments for your ageing spine. men that includes a memorization compo- States. However, successful mediTake your fitness regimen to the next level in nent. A “form” is a series of choreographed cation management in this patient Beginner Martial Arts. This six-week session movements that the student must remember population is complicated by several begins on Friday, May 6. and execute to proceed through the levels factors. Nurses play an important of discipline. Learn about self-defense and role in assessing these factors, and blocking, while working at your own level. in developing strategies for optimal The six-week session is held on Fridays from health. Join nationally certified, May 6 – June 10, at 1:30 p.m. The cost for Aging Life Care Managers Dawn this total mind/body workout is $55.

Moore and Chris Austin for an Barre, Ball Edition – Session A is on important presentation, Medication Mondays and Wednesdays, starting May Safety and Management. Sign up at 16, from 11:30 a.m. to noon. Join Fitness either service desk for this talk held

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Refresh With Aroma Therapy on Tuesday, May 3, at 10:15 am. in The Social Center/IS with Robyn Church, Salon and Spa Manager. Cost of class is $5.

Sign up for this presentation to meet the Resident Support Services case managers, and learn more about the role of this

valuable resource for Shell Point residents.

Coffee with Your Case Managers is on Wednesday, May 4, at 2:15 p.m. in the Social Center/IS. Brain Boot Camp this month is held on Monday, May 9. The Fitness team will work your mind and boost brainpower. Will it be trivia, games, fact-finding, or puzzles?

You have to attend to find out what brain teasers they will throw at you.

Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network

(BCAN) promotes information, awareness, and support for those with bladder cancer.

Come hear Southwest Florida’s volunteer advocate Karen Godfrey on Thursday, May 12, at 1 p.m. at The Cove/EST to learn about this silent cancer and how you can join the fight.

Bladder Cancer Walk Raises Awareness

“We would like to thank Shell Point for the professionalism demonstrated in its sponsorship, promotion, and participation in the Southwest Florida Bladder Cancer Walk. A special thank you to everyone who walked and shared their personal stories. You made us proud to be associated with this community.”

–Will & Marcia O’Hara (Tellidora)

The local Bladder Cancer Support Group successfully launched its Amp Up 2016 campaign, with 29 Shell Point residents and employees joining almost 50 people for its fundraising event on March 5.

“We are so appreciative of the Shell Point group, which gave us a big boost in attendance,” said Karen Godfrey, Volunteer Advocate from the Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network (BCAN).

The local event helped raise $7,462 to fund education, a Genomics Consortium for bioscience medicine and biotech innovation, as well as research grants to find a cure for the disease. “Because Bladder Cancer has such little visibility, every opportunity to promote awareness is helpful. Marcia and Will O’Hara have been our top fundraisers, and their enthusiasm has truly set the pace for all of us,” Karen said.

“Thanks to the O’Hara’s leadership in sponsoring a country music concert, Fort Myers residents had the opportunity to learn about bladder cancer while enjoying a great night of music. The performers donated their time, and all proceeds went to BCAN.” May is designated as National Bladder Cancer month. Mark your calendars for 1 p.m., Thursday, May 12, at The Cove in The Estuary, when Karen will present a Health Connection program about bladder cancer and the progress made over the last 10 years.

“I encourage all to be vigilant when it comes to their own health,” said Karen. “Selfadvocacy can be a life saver.” For more information, visit www.bcan.org.

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Social Center/IS Join the Photo Club for its last meeting of the season, and an announcement about the summer lunch club meetings.

Come enjoy an informational video intended to inspire you to keep “clicking” all summer long. All residents are welcome.

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Mother’s Tea & Vintage Fashion Show Friday, May 6 2:30 p.m.

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This second annual event is held to celebrate all Shell Point mothers. This year, the fashion show will feature Titanic-era clothing, with at least 10 Edwardian-styled costumes complete with hats and accessories. Laurie Nienhaus, speaker, author, and playwright, will bring each costume to life by revealing facts about the Titanic and that period. A variety of gourmet teas and pastries will be served. Mothers are encouraged to invite their daughters to this elegant affair. Ticket is required.

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Monday, May 9 2:15 p.m.

Social Center/IS Returning entertainer, Gary Vidito, will perform his show entitled Remember When, which includes music from the 1920s – 70s, as well as a “Name That Tune” segment. Involved in music since the age of seven, Gary earned a music degree and is a published songwriter and playwright, as well as an accomplished actor/singer.

Endless Trails Horse Encounter

Legends & Legacies: The Women in Fort Myers History

of today is also the legacy of civic-minded and philanthropic women who fought for our first school, library, hospital, and performing arts center. Many of Fort Myer’s streets, buildings, gardens, and cultural centers bear the names of these remarkable women, whose achievements are all the more impressive because most of them lived in an era when women were not even allowed to vote. Come to meet these women in an intriguing presentation.

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Wednesday, May 11 1:15 p.m.

Island Park/IS The miniature horses from Endless Trails Horse Farm are returning to Shell Point.

These peaceful creatures will be sure to put a smile on your face as you greet them.

Don’t miss this enjoyable time to chat with your neighbors and to make some new fourlegged friends.

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Friday, May 13 8:30 a.m. Island 8:40 a.m. Woodlands 8:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve/EST 3:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $16 (lunch included, ice cream on your own) Celebrate one of the nicest months of the year by treating yourself to a day at the beach! The group will head to DelnorWiggins Pass State Park for fun, food, and friendship. A picnic lunch will be served, with a traditional stop for ice cream at The Royal Scoop on the trip back to Shell Point.

Saturday, May 14 2:00 & 7:00 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL Will Smith stars in this dramatic thriller based on the incredible true story of American immigrant Dr. Bennet Omalu. This brilliant forensic neuropathologist was first to discover CTE (chronic traumatic encephalopathy), a football-related brain trauma in a pro player. Dr. Omalu fought for the truth to be known, but his emotional quest puts him at dangerous odds with one of the most powerful institutions in the world.

Sunday Matinee: Breaking Away (1979)

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Sunday, May 15 2:00 p.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL Dave (Dennis Christopher) and his working-class friends Cyril (Daniel Stern), Moocher (Jackie Earle Haley), and Mike (Dennis Quaid), spend their post-high school days in Bloomington, Indiana, sparring with snooty students from the local university, chasing girls, and (in Dave’s case) dreaming of competitive bicycle racing.

The four friends face opposition from every side as they help make Dave’s dream come true in the university’s annual bicycle endurance race. This coming-of-age drama is a captivating story that shouldn’t be missed.

Performance by the St. Francis Xavier Student Chorus

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Monday, May 16 4:30 p.m.

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Jeff Jodice. Many of these students, ranging from 4 – 8 grade, take private voice and instrument lessons, and several perform in local theatre productions. This group will be performing songs from their upcoming revue, entitled “Soul Sisters,” which consists of classic girl-group songs of the 1950s and 60s, including well-known performers such as The Supremes, Shirelles, Crystals, Connie Francis, Petula Clarke, and more. No sign-up or ticket required.

Southwest Florida Hand Bell Ensemble Tuesday, May 17 6:45 p.m.

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This returning ensemble will dazzle you with their delightful performance of dances from around the world.

Their concert will have an international flair, with tunes like Lord of the Dance and Minuet. Don’t miss this special evening. No sign-up required.

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Wednesday, May 18 8:00 a.m. Island 8:10 a.m. Woodlands 8:20 a.m. Eagles Preserve/EST 2:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $18 (lunch on your own) Since the mid-1970s, Octagon Wildlife Sanctuary in Punta Gorda has been rescuing and rehabilitating exotic wildlife. Its mission is to provide a healthy recovery and living environment 28

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for abandoned and abused servals, ocelots, lions, and other wild cats; none have been taken from the wild. Bear, otters, primates, and more will get a visit from Shell Point residents this day. Typically the sanctuary is not open during the week, but special arrangements were made for our group, which will explore somewhat independently via self-guided tour. Lunch will be at a new Fort Myers restaurant called BJ’s, where lunch options are priced $6.95 and up. *There may be uneven walking surfaces that are not paved. This trip is not recommended for those using walkers or with balance concerns.

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Come join Mike Peterson for the last computer club meeting until October.

Mike will address general questions about computers and related technology, always a favorite topic since it covers a wide range of interesting issues. No question is too simple; come with a matter you want to discuss with Mike.

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Saturday, May 21 10:30 a.m. Island 10:40 a.m. Woodlands 10:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve/EST 1:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $7 (lunch on your own) Everything is handmade at Martha’s Cuban Café, which recently relocated to Fort Myers. Their reputation for authen-

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Monday, May 23 2:15 p.m.

Social Center/IS The capital of Massachusetts, Boston is a hub for iconic history, culture, music, and cuisine. The city was founded in 1630, making it one of the oldest in the United States.

Shell Point residents who have ever lived,

visited, or taken an interest in this place, are welcome to join in this fun social event!

Light refreshments will be served.

Movie Night: The King and I (1956)

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Monday, May 23 6:45 p.m.

Social Center/IS After the death of her husband, Englishwoman Anna Owens moves to Siam with her son, Louis, to serve as a school teacher to the Royal Court in the 1860s. She finds Siamese customs to be quite different from English

Sign-up required for this activity. Call Island (454-2282) or Woodlands (454-2054)

ones, which often brings her in conflict with the stubborn king. However, after some time, Anna and the king stop trying to change one another and begin to understand each other instead. Come enjoy this award-winning classic with some of the world’s best-loved songs, including “Getting to Know You” and “Shall We Dance?”

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Tuesday, May 24 2:15 p.m.

Social Center/IS Wayne Robinson (Palm Acres) will be reviewing the bestselling book, When Breath Becomes Air, a profoundly moving memoir by Paul Kalanithi, a young neurosurgeon faced with a terminal cancer diagnosis.

Discussion and refreshments will follow the presentation.

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Thursday, May 26 1:15 p.m.

Osprey Room/IS What was our nation doing during the Cold War to protect us from a possible Russian missile attack? John McCarthy (Oakmont) will share his experiences in the U.S. Air Force flying the B-52C Stratofortress bomber based at Westover Air Force base in Chicopee Falls, Massachusetts. His pri-

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will make lunch selections from the threecourse group menu, which includes sandwich, soup, and dessert for $13.95, plus tax and tip. There will be considerable standing and walking for this trip. The bus ride is approximately two hours in each direction. mary mission, as directed by the Strategic Air Command, was to protect the Ballistic Missile Early Warning Sites in Alaska and Greenland. Before the advent of the satellite, the U.S. kept B-52s flying around the clock; during the Cuban Missile Crisis, almost all were in the air simultaneously.

John will tell how two pilots “fell” out of their planes during these missions! All are welcome.

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Friday, May 27 7:30 a.m. Island 7:40 a.m. Woodlands 7:50 a.m. Eagles Preserve/EST 4:30 p.m. approximate return Cost: $11 (lunch on your own) Arcadia, Florida, is a bright town.

The downtown Historic District, built in the 1800s, has 20 antique stores, specialty shops, and restaurants, all within a four-block area.

Antiquing brings on a sense of nostalgia for many, so come enjoy lunch at a vintage-style teahouse to keep the mood afloat. Residents

Dinner: Fish Tale Grill, Cape Coral

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Tuesday, May 31 4:30 p.m. Island 4:40 p.m. Woodlands 4:50 p.m. Eagles Preserve/EST 8:00 p.m. approximate return Cost: $8 (dinner on your own) Voted best seafood restaurant in “Best of Cape Coral 2013,” Fish Tale Grill by Merrick Seafood offers everything from fresh salads, fried seafood baskets, and homemade soups, to delectable fresh fish entrees, such as cranberry macadamia sea bass. Prices typically run $15-$28.

Happy Mother’s Day “A mother is a person who, seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.”

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SUPPORT GROUPS Alcoholics Anonymous

CPAP Support

Thursdays, May 5, 12, 19, and 26 4:30 p.m.

Sabal Room/WDL This is a fellowship of those who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other to solve their common problem and help others recover from alcoholism. This “open” meeting of AA welcomes those who struggle with alcohol issues. For information, call the intergroup phone number, 275-5111.

This group meets every four months; the next meeting will be June 21 at 1:30 p.m., in the Oak Room/WDL. If you’ve been diagnosed with sleep apnea and use a CPAP device, consistent use can make a tremendous difference in helping you feel more energetic and healthy during the day. This group aims to provide education and support to increase compliance with use of the device. For more information, contact Larry Chrouch (Eagles Preserve) at 481-7188.

Cancer Support 1-on-1 Mentoring The goal of this resident-led program is to establish group mentoring connections between newly diagnosed cancer patients and cancer survivors. Contact Barbara Maruchi (Springs) at 333-0120.

Caregiver Support Tuesdays, May 3 and 17 Group 1: 9:15 a.m.

Group 2: 10:30 a.m.

Medical Center Conference Room/IS These therapeutic groups are aimed at helping residents deal with issues of being a caregiver for someone with a memory disorder, whether the resident is cared for in independent living, assisted living, or skilled nursing. Dr. Nancy Spencer facilitates the groups and can be reached at 4542043. Sign-up is required.

COPD Support This group meets quarterly; the next meeting will be July 26.

The objective of the group is to provide information and discussions that will be relevant to individuals with a range of breathing problems, as well as those dependent on supplemental oxygen. For additional information, call Ken Peterson (Oakmont) at 482-3779.

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Diabetes Support Friday, May 6 1:00 p.m.

Social Center/IS All diabetics are encouraged to attend this meeting, which features Christine Gulotta, Program Director of Rehabilitation Services, followed by open discussion.

For more information, contact Stephanie Devlin, case manager, at 454-8246.

Finding Joy (for Caregivers) Thursday, May 12 1:30 p.m.

Manatee Room/IS The focus of the programming is on you, the caregiver or former caregiver, to help you take care of yourself. We will be exploring ways to identify and reduce stress, improve communication skills, and understand and handle difficult feelings. Contact Jane Johnston (Lucina) at 464-5903 or jjejjohnston@gmail.com for more information.

Hearing Enrichment Wednesday, May 25 1:15 p.m.

Manatee Room/IS Poor hearing can affect many aspects of

one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help, and offer support to each other.

Friends and family are also encouraged to attend. For more information, call Katalin Carrow, case manager, at 225-2929.

Journey through Grief The Village Church This is a seven-week program that runs several times throughout the year. Participants have the opportunity to share feelings, or just listen and learn to navigate the process of grieving a loss, whether recent or long ago.

It is led by Jim and Judy Mayer (Junonia); call 454-3139 if you are interested.

Memory Care Tuesdays, May 3 and 17 Group 1: 9:15 a.m.

Group 2: 10:30 a.m.

Behavioral Health Conference Room/IS These groups are designed to provide education and support to residents who have some type of memory disorder. The objectives are to identify practical strategies to help residents better manage their memory loss, address long-range planning, and offer an environment that fosters a sense of purpose and heightened self-esteem. Note: Individual assessment is required before joining a group. Call Kathy Fratrick, LCSW, at 454-2073. Individual appointments are also available.

Parkinson’s Enrichment Monday, May 2 10:15 a.m.

King’s Crown Community Room/IS This group aims to provide support and education to those affected by Parkinson’s disease as a patient, caregiver, family member, or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions, and emotional support. For more information, call Janine Hammond, case manager, at 454-2186.

Vision Enrichment Tuesday, May 10 10:15 a.m.

Social Center/IS Join this month’s meeting featuring Linda Goodwin, Low Vision Occupational Therapist, who will speak about the program offered by Infinity Home Care.

Florence Putman (Turban) is the chairperson. For additional information, contact Angie Prichard, case manager, at 454-2134.

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Lucy Miller (The Arbor)

Dorothy and Robert Hagman (Arbor)

Myrtle Hearn (King’s Crown)

In April, assisted living residents enjoyed a fascinating trip aboard the Shell Point Suzy Q, giving residents a chance to spend time on the water, viewing the scenery and nature of Southwest Florida.

Many residents are experienced sailors, and this excursion returns them to their boating roots. Elvira Sasso (Springs) recalls many memories of the wonderful trips her family took on their boat each year.

The adventurous Captain Jim maneuvered for first-rate views of the impressive variety of local sea life and birds, including a new bald eagle nest. Volunteer Bill Saunders (King’s Crown) entertained and informed us with his knowledgeable narration of marine habitat.

An active birder, Bill pointed out more than a dozen species of birds for us to admire. We spotted dozens of dolphins and manatees, learned how dolphins can recognize boats that regularly pass through the area, and got a history lesson about the Calusa Indians.

Just when we thought the trip couldn’t get more interesting, we stumbled upon Jasper’s Bait Shop floating in the middle of the Caloosahatchee. This free-floating barge, decorated with nautical flair, sold ice cream bars with a side of sea life narrated by the owner. Anna Sontra (Springs) thought this vessel had “character.”

All are onboard for the next floating impromptu “Academy” class!

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Unfortunately, death is a real and common occurrence at this time of life – one that we may never be fully prepared to handle.

The grief one feels when a loved one dies, whether it is unexpected or the result of a lengthy illness, can be overwhelming.

We feel their absence intensely.

In addition to the emotional heartbreak, there is often confusion concerning the deceased’s financial affairs and how the survivors will carry on. Though your natural inclination may be to shut down while you grieve, there are a number of serious decisions that must be made soon after the loss of a loved one, some of which may have a lasting impact on your future wellbeing.

Nevertheless, there are steps you can take to more easily navigate through these legal and financial matters during this difficult time of personal stress. Your closest family, friends, and trusted advisors can help you with some details. We encourage you to lean on the help of others in your time of need.

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Tend to funeral arrangements.

Address sensitive family issues.

Contact an estate planning attorney to review the will and/or trust, and to handle the legal and tax aspects of your spouse’s estate.

Contact your financial planner and CPA to review your assets, and determine a financial plan to meet your current and future needs.

Notify former employers, banks, insurance companies, government offices, and financial providers.

Assess your financial picture.

In the weeks following a loved one’s death, you’ll be flooded with paperwork and likely feel pressured into making financial decisions quickly. It’s important to do things one step at a time, at a pace that feels comfortable for you. Remember, decisions you make now may have a significant impact on your future.

As you begin to experience your independent status, many financial issues may seem overwhelming, but with advice from trusted advisors, careful evaluation of your choices, and a well-thought-out plan, you can move forward with your financial life.

We’re here for you. The Legacy Foundation at Shell Point can help you organize your papers and evaluate your finances, find the right advisors for your needs, re-evaluate your financial objectives and explain your alternatives, and strategically plan for your future.

Our goal during this period of personal tragedy is simple: to help you move forward in life in a manner and timeframe that is comfortable for you. Contact Jeff Cory at 466-8484 to schedule a complimentary consultation.

Hope Hospice at Shell Point

Memorials and Tributes On Memorial Day, we honor loved ones who sacrificed for our country to protect our freedoms. Please consider making a gift in their name to acknowledge their life or death.

A memorial is a personal remembrance of love and hope. It provides a meaningful tribute to a friend, relative, or colleague.

By giving to Hope Hospice at Shell Point, you offer a helping hand to those who need it most – during the final stages of life, continuing the compassion and comfort provided through this unique partnership.

Call 466-8484 or visit The Legacy Foundation office on The Island to learn how you can make this tax-deductible contribution.

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THE LEGACY FOUNDATION IN CONJUNCTION WITH THE ACADEMY OF LIFELONG LEARNING PRESENT

The Five Building Blocks of Successful Portfolio Construction Thursday, May 5, 10:00 a.m.

Grand Cypress Room/WDL (LS01) Presented by Saul Mendoza, Vanguard Financial Advisors Services, and Eric and Sherri Hynden, Wealth Management and Strategy Advisors, Flint Financial Group, UBS. During this seminar, you will learn about: • • • • •

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Asset allocation: the importance of determining risk and return Sub-asset allocation: how to consider market weightings Active managers versus passive funds Asset location: taxable versus tax-advantaged Manager selection – the four Ps: People, Philosophy, Process, and Performance How this works – a practical application of portfolio construction principles Building a portfolio: considering risk, diversification, and cost

Use Effective Wireless Access Points to Connect Devices B

A wireless access point is a device that allows other remote devices, such as smartphones, tablets, and printers, to connect through the internet without the need for cables. While the ability to access the internet almost anywhere is useful, it does have limitations.

Some contributing factors to consider when using a wireless access point include location, building structure, line of sight, height, and the number of connected devices.

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The better the line of sight between a device and the access point, the better the connection will perform. Placing a modem in the center of an apartment or home will allow for optimal signal performance. The higher the access point, the easier it will be for devices to detect and connect to it. If an access point is near the floor or behind furniture, you may experience more connectivity issues than if it was placed on top of furniture in an open room.

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nection may be. This is because the transmitter is trying to “speak” to each of those devices at the same time. Have you ever tried conducting multiple conversations with multiple people at the same time? The more conversations, the less is understood; and this could result in lost information, or loss or slowness of the connection. This is exactly what an access point experiences when connecting to multiple devices.

If your devices seem to be losing connection or you have trouble loading web pages, call 454-2190 to place a work order with Technical Support Services; a technician can come inspect the setup of your access points.

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Mother’s Day Dining Sunday, May 8

Mother’s Day at the Palm Grill

Mother’s Day Brunch at the Crystal Room

11:00 a.m. until 2:30 p.m.

10:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m.

Join us at the Crystal Room for a delicious Mother’s Day brunch. The menu will feature an extensive salad bar and assorted brunch items, including eggs Benedict, omelets prepared to order, cheese blintzes with sour cream and strawberries, and assorted pastries.

Prime rib of beef and roast leg of lamb will be carved to order. Other entrée choices include poached salmon and chicken Marsala, all accompanied by a variety of hot vegetables and a large dessert buffet.

The cost is $26.95, and all ladies will receive a flower!

The Palm Grill will be serving a special Mother’s Day menu by Chef Todd, featuring starters of ice-cold shrimp cocktail or the popular Palm Grill cream of asparagus and crab soup.

For entrees, choose from filet mignon, Florida grouper, grilled salmon, Colorado lamb chops, or pan-seared sea scallops.

Entrees will include a May flower salad and warm bread.

Prices will range from $20 to $27, including the Palm Grill’s homemade desserts, made with Mom in mind! Reservations are not accepted, but call-ahead seating is available by calling 454-2059.

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Slower Summer Schedule

Shell Point Gift Shop

Community Thrift Store

Gulf Coast Model Railroad

Suzy Q Pontoon Boat

Beginning May 1, stop by to shop Monday – Saturday,

No change for the summer: open Tuesday – Saturday,

9:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.

9:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

Closed for the summer to build exciting changes for the fall.

Mark your calendar to return when the train room opens again on October 3!

Join other nautical fans for a waterway escape by boat. Regular outings are scheduled Monday – Thursday, and 1st and 3rd Fridays. Call (239) 454-2136 for information; summer office hours starting June 1 are Monday – Friday, 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.

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he simple definition of treasure, according to Mirriam-Webster, is “a person who is greatly loved or valued, especially because of being very helpful.” This year’s Volunteer Appreciation event, held on April 7, served as a way to say thank you to the 990 volunteer treasures who are greatly loved and valued by the entire Shell Point community.

Curtains of light led the way into the treasurethemed church auditorium, drenched in jeweltoned colors and balloons of gold, magenta, teal, and deep purple. A spread of delectable appetizers and bright desserts, served by the Shell Point management team, pleased both the eye and the taste buds. On stage, The Vanderbilt Strings quartet filled the atmosphere with beautiful compositions.

“This yearly social event celebrated the more than 118,000 hours contributed by Shell Point volunteers in 2015,” said Volunteer Coordinator Beth Crenshaw. “It was a relaxing, fun, and meaningful way for staff and volunteers to connect, and to acknowledge the dedication and hard work of our volunteers, who make Shell Point the gem of a community it is today.”

There is always a need for more hands to help. To learn more about this fun-loving volunteer group at Shell Point, contact Beth Crenshaw at 454-2290.

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DaniPro Nail Polish is the only doctor-formulated nail polish infused with undecylenic acid, an ingredient used to fight fungus. It is free of formaldehyde, DBP, and toulene.

Some podiatrists say DaniPro can help prevent a fungal infection from reoccurring after treatment or as a preventative.

We are dedicated to providing excellence in our services for you, and we now use DaniPro with all our pedicures at the Shell Point salons.

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Lou’s style is worn smooth by using a round brush during the blow dry, which also provides lift at the base for added volume.

Want a different look for a special occasion? Try adding some curl for a wavy style or added fullness to this versatile cut. Large pin curls set on damp hair with mousse or a lightweight gel will result in a loose, controlled curl. Yes, pin curls are back! Finish with a little shine spray and hairspray to combat the humidity.

If you like your eyes and lips but want to see a little less forehead, a cut with a full fringe bang, like Lou’s, is perfect. This cut puts the best facial features in the spotlight, while the forehead is disguised.

A bang, a little on the longer side, enhances the cheekbones, making them seem higher than they actually are. Soft side layers, slightly pushed back, enhance the eyes and open the face, exposing Lou’s “baby blues.”

Pure white and silver grey hair color can be beautiful but, if you’re looking to turn back the hands of time, light blonde to light brown shades will take years off. Lou has a youthful neutral blonde hue with golden highlights peeking through.

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NEW! Diamond Radiance from G.M. Collin

Diamond Radiance is an antiaging luxury cream formulated with a synergy of precious diamond powder, a peptide complex, and snow algae to achieve the ultimate state of radiance and rejuvenate your look.

This alluring cream leaves your skin beautiful and glowing through a subtle alliance of the most luxurious ingredients, with cutting-edge biotechnology.

Diamond Radiance from G.M. Collin Introductory Price $184 (20% off) while supplies last

Mother’s Day Massage Special

Buy one massage, get one of equal value 30% off Limit 2 per customer. Offer valid through May, to be enjoyed by the end of June.

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Each year, as the start of hurricane season approaches on June 1, the Shell Point management team begins its preparations, and reaches out to residents so they are aware and ready in case of a weather-related emergency.

The variety of tasks involved in an effective hurricane plan include stocking up on personal items for a shelter kit, gathering medications, arranging comfortable seating, and coordinating vehicle storage. Some residents need to make special plans for sheltering their pets.

New plans for Shell Point hurricane shelter locations If an evacuation is ordered during the 2016 season, residents in all healthcare

Comings & Goings

Keeping your home safe while you’re away

Completing a “Comings & Goings” form will help Shell Point staff know when to keep an eye on your home if you are away from the community for an extended period – whether it’s three days or three months. A weekly check on a vacant unit is wise.

Keri Perkins, Call Center supervisor, advises that completing and submitting “Comings and Goings” forms is well worth the effort, and provides residents with peace of mind during their time away from Shell Point.

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facilities (The Larsen Pavilion, King’s Crown, and The Springs) will shelter along with the residents who live at The Arbor assisted living facility, which will offer better accommodations in this modern healthcare facility. Independent living residents will continue to shelter at the main Shell Point garage located on The Island, as they have in the past.

All of these details will be shared at the annual Resident Hurricane Seminar, which will be held at The Village Church on Thursday, May 26, at 10:30 a.m. As in the past, the hurricane coordinator, Shell Point management, and our consulting meteorologist will be present to share important information about this year’s sheltering plan, and be available to answer resident questions.

If you cannot attend the seminar or would like to review the information, a DVD copy of the presentations will be

Be sure to read and save the 2016 Hurricane Preparation Guide.

The “Comings & Goings” form confirms how long you plan to be gone, provides alternate phone or email contact information, and whether you wish to have your monthly statement forwarded to another address. In addition, you can choose to continue having your home cleaned while you are away, and residents on the Morning Assurance program generally have this service placed on hold.

Shell Point staff works to assure the safety and security of your home and its contents, making periodic checks of the unit to monitor for leaks from rain, faulty plumbing, or other major issues, and to ensure that windows and doors remain closed and locked.

Over the years “away checks,” as the staff call them, have corrected such things as windows and sliding glass doors inadvertently left open, perishable food accidentally left out on the counters, and many other such irregularities. More importantly, on a grander scale, “away checks” simply prevent serious, expensive damage to the apartments and their contents by detecting

mechanical or plumbing issues before they develop into destructive, costly projects.

If you plan to be away for three weeks or more, staff will turn off the water and adjust the air conditioning to 76 degrees to control humidity. Power also will be turned off to all appliances, except the refrigerator.

Everything is turned on, of course, prior to your return. Any time a staff member enters your home, whether for maintenance or housekeeping, they will leave written notification on the kitchen counter, indicating the date they made the check.

Forms are available online at shellpoint.net/comingsandgoings.php, or in paper form from either service desk or your court representative. You can return completed paper forms at the service desk, or hand it to security at the gate as you leave.

Forms are filed at the Call Center, which can be reached at (239) 454-2190. Keri reminds residents to submit forms 24–48 business hours in advance of the departure date, whenever possible, to allow ample time to enter the information in the system.

available at the main resident library on The Island, or online at www.shellpoint. net/hurricane.php.

Also, learn more important information about care for your pet during an evacuation at the Pet Owner’s Hurricane Seminar to be held on Wednesday, June 8, at 10 a.m. in the Grand Cypress Room in The Woodlands.

Hurricane Hotline When a hurricane threatens, up-to-date information is available on the Shell Point Resident Information Hotline at (239) 3392541 (or toll-free at 1-866-551-6013).

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The Village Church is thrilled to welcome Rev. Don Pullen and his wife Eleanore to our staff and community. Don will be our new Associate Pastor, assuming his responsibilities on May 1. Eleanore is an English-Language Arts teacher in York, Pennsylvania, and will complete her school year before joining Don this summer.

In recent months, The Village Church has been implementing a new mission statement: “Building a community of forgiveness, purpose, and hope in Jesus Christ.” This mission provides focus for the Associate Pastor position.

Don will concentrate on the “community building” dimensions – developing and training small groups within the church, establishing points of connection between the church and community, and generally making connections among people who are growing in their walk with Christ, and together experiencing forgiveness, purpose, and hope in Christ.

Rev. Pullen has more than 25 years of pastoral experience, the last 20 of which have been as the Lead Pastor at the Valley View Alliance Church near York. Prior to that he was Associate

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Visitors to the Shell Point Library may ask questions such as, “Where can I find in-depth stock market information?,” “Do you have any of the recent bestsellers on your shelves?,” or “Can you suggest a good DVD?” Answers to these inquiries and many more are gladly provided by our library volunteers.

Happily, all these materials and services will continue for a long time, thanks to the generosity of our Shell Point residents. The 2016 Library Fund Drive, held

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Pastor at the Princeton Alliance Church in New Jersey, where he developed the community-building aspects of that ministry in a growing, professional community of faith. He has a master’s of Divinity degree from Columbia Biblical Seminary in Columbia, South Carolina.

Prior to God’s call to ministry, Don completed a bachelor’s degree in Plant and Soil Science at the University of Massachusetts, and began a career as a golf course superintendent. Eventually, however, God redirected him from growing grass to growing people, and he has had a fruitful ministry in the latter for more than two decades.

Don and Eleanore have three married children, all of whom are serving the Lord in various occupations in their respective communities. In addition to Eleanore’s calling as a teacher, she has been intimately involved in leadership in women’s ministries in their church, and will certainly make her own community-building connections as they transition to Fort Myers.

As you have opportunity, please introduce yourself to Don and Eleanore. They can’t wait to make your acquaintance as

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they discover the richness of the Shell Point community. The Village Church is privileged to have such an experienced ministry couple join our team. Welcome to Don and Eleanore!

A Resounding Success!

March 9 – 23, netted almost $25,000 … and we’re still counting!

More than 350 Shell Point households have shown their appreciation for our library’s resources at The Island location, at the Genealogy Library at the Woodlands Commons, and at the reading centers at King’s Crown and The Arbor.

We thank you!

The entire library staff of more than 60 volunteers is extremely grateful for your generous donations. And while the fund

drive may have come to an end, please remember that we welcome your support all year long.

Global Outreach

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Enter the dream world of a mom whose daughter is growing, and what do you find? Likely there will be visions of weddings, grandbabies, and the next generation living nearby, joining grandma at the dinner table on Sunday.

What would mom feel, then, to have that daughter announce that she was joining an organization that would necessitate a move – not across town or even across the country, but across an ocean to Africa!

Africa?

When Ruth Fitch heard those words from her daughter, Karen, in 1979, what images came to her mind? What fears weighed on

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her heart? Did she even then begin to realize how many months and years it could be between visits once her daughter left?

In celebration of Mother’s Day, join us for the Global Outreach meeting on Wednesday, May 11, to hear what it is like to send a child to another country to follow God’s leading. Ruth Fitch and her daughter, Karen, who worked in Congo and Gabon for 30 years, will share the journey their hearts have taken.

Bring a friend and enjoy refreshments at 10:00 a.m., followed by the meeting at 10:15 a.m. in the Hospitality Room of The Village Church.

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NATIONAL DAY OF PRAYER Multiple Locations Throughout the Community on Thursday, May 5 To join in this national effort, The Village Church will sponsor prayer gatherings throughout the Shell Point community. Beginning with a “Prayer and Praise” gathering in The Village Church on Wednesday, May 4, at 7:15 p.m., the gatherings then continue on Thursday,

May 5, the National Day of Prayer, when you are invited to “meet at the pole” at 8:00 a.m. to pray for students and schools.

Eight other gathering places are arranged on the hour throughout the day, using brochures from the coordinators of the National Day of Prayer as prayer guides. Residents and employees are

invited to join for prayer at any of these locations. Feel free to come late or leave early for as many as schedules permit.

Employee Chaplain Scott Eding and the new Associate Pastor at The Village Church, Don Pullen, both will attend at each location listed below.

Shell Point Prayer and Praise Locations JOIN THE NATIONAL EFFORT! The Flag Pole on The Island ............. 8 a.m.

The Estuary Chapel ........................... 9 a.m.

Employee Chaplain Scott Eding

Associate Pastor Don Pullen

The Buttonwood Rm/WDL ............... 10 a.m.

King’s Crown Community Rm .......... 11 a.m.

The Village Church Chapel ............... Noon The Larsen Pavilion Chapel............... 1 p.m.

The Arbor Chapel .............................. 2 p.m.

The Springs Conference Rm 111 ..... 3 p.m.

Friendship Point by The Island Amphitheater .................. 4 p.m.

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There is a tree at Shell Point that my mother would love. I can never know for certain if she had gazed upon the tree during her life, because she has since passed from this world. However, I am still quite certain it would be her favorite tree.

I can still recall her happiness when the Red Bud tree bloomed as a harbinger of spring in Eastern Missouri.

Perhaps I am biased about all things regarding my mother and my judgment is impaired.

I would not be the first son to be dazzled by his mother’s brilliance.

With his gift for the simplification of complex relationships, Mahatma Gandhi described all mothers in the world on behalf of all sons: It may be possible to gild pure

gold, but who can make his mother more beautiful?

Despite my emotions, I have some anecdotal evidence to support my assertion.

The mothers of Shell Point call me on the telephone every year during this season. It is a call I am pleased to take, because my answer can satisfy their need to better understand the beauty around us.

The questions are always a variant of: What is the name of that tree with the yellow flowers?

I could answer the question quite correctly with the proper scientific name, Tabebuia chrysotricha, but in this case the common name so perfectly

describes this beautiful specimen that I use it with joy – Golden Trumpet Tree.

Just as Gandhi described mothers, the tree seems as if covered in gold. Thousands of blossoms all appearing simultaneously is rare among flowering trees. In addition to the copious flowers, the Trumpet Tree also has graceful, curving trunks and branches that seem definitively feminine.

Welcoming and nurturing, the furrowed and fissured bark of the mother-like Trumpet Tree is the perfect place to cradle orchids, bromeliads, and air plants as they grow and mature. The Golden Trumpet Tree seems to epitomize motherhood.

Look for Golden Trumpet Tree on The Island at Shell Point Boulevard near the J. Howard Wood Medical Center, in the central courtyard of Tellidora, and in the east courtyard of Macoma. May this tree be a reminder to call (or recall) your mother!