Santa Fe New Mexican, March 1, 2014

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Expanded Family section brings Rosemond’s return, more Kid Scoop B-6

THE NEW MEXICAN

Saturday, March

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Saturday, March 1, 2014

Jeff Schinkel, Graphics

Vol. 31, No. 11

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Question: My 5-year-old is the youngest of my three children. Her ally doing — actually, older boy/girl twin siba common tendency in lings clearly outshine today’s parent culture. the remainder of the day her athletically. They’re From already very skilled at psychological perspective, my ironically nonto bed immediately after in her room and going wakeboardthe problem is not supper. ing and snow skiing, for The second phase of that because she can’t example. I her keep up with think my youngest has involves a change in your rehabilitation her older siblings your decided daughter has because she doesn’t measure that gesting” activities to her. behavior. Stop “sug“just decided to give up”; Find something you the problem would like her siblings, she will simply up to is that she’s often rude to do with her, and tell give and her, up. All she wants to do ful. She completely tunes disrespect- tively, “This is what I’ve decided you declarais hang out and I are out people s of doing today.” If she objects, with me. (I’m not athletic who are talking to her, g parrot either, but for example. choice in the matter. The tell her she has no everyone green hangin in the family except You think you need to down The tiny,one this “help” her. I tion should not involve activities in quesupside child roost is physically think you need to discipline her active.) Asia not be things they already siblings and should thermore, she is disrespectful FurSoutheast ever unwittingly and with her. Howexcel at. That will to anyprevent unfavorable comparisons. bats. good intenone like who John tries tions, you’re making excuses at night something to interest sher I’m talkin trying ing about mother-daugh in objects. for and Rosemond difference new. ter therefore enabling her and She ignores the similarities Take walks through parks things. Start slow. misbehavior. person, acting as if they weren’t Skill: Observe or Living on nature Her With rehabilitation trails, even begins with treat- for example. Graduate from there. When I suggest there to leisurely Children ing people with respect. activities, she I recommend bike rides. The key is finding activities becomes whiny and makes that you put her on my she can everyone enjoy without having celebrated miserable. I don’t know to compete. “Three Strikes You’re where to beginwto start By the way, there’s an with helping her, but “odd duck” child in She receives a strike whenever Out!” program. th Macaw something nearly every family. The Hyacin has to change thecrazy! she is disrebefore we long spectful or whines. When all go helping the child find challenge, always, is she is disrespectmany inches the numbers a pond she feels comfortAnswer: You’re ful toward others or whines obviously “psychologizin able swimming in. To find out how tail, add up disruptively, she g” yourtodaughter’s behavior receives a strike. Each from head be to on and of the responding first hunt hu grow two more re strikes of can theon dayaresults Family psychologist John treasu in 15 minutes of time out. t path. to your interpretation than to what she is actu- Go The third strike of Scoop page parents’ questions on his Rosemond answers along the correc whole numbers. website at www. in her spending today’s Kid the day results rosemond.com. the sum of member. Can Math. Find

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By Lisa A. Flam

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Family calendar

Saturday, March 1

SANTA FE FARMERS MARKET: 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Railyard Plaza and the Farmers Market Pavilion, 1607 Paseo de Peralta. ‘JEKYLL & HYDE’: St. John’s College presents musical, directed by artist in residence Roy the Rogosin; 7:30 p.m. at the Great Hall, on the St. John’s College Peterson Student Center, Cruz Blanca; no charge; campus, 1160 Camino de call 984-6000. ‘GREASE’: Santa Fe Preparatory School presents the musical at 7:30 p.m. in the campus auditorium; $10 at the door; 1101 Camino de Cruz Blanca; 982-1829. call DRAMA CLUB: Join this play theater games from improvisation group and 11 a.m. to noon at the Santa Fe Children’s Museum, 1050 Old Pecos Trail; call 989-8359.

Sunday, March 2

RAILYARD ARTISAN MARKET: 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Railyard Plaza and the Farmers Market Pavilion, 1607 Paseo de Peralta. JAMBO KIDS FOUNDATION BENEFIT: A dance party with live music to benefit the Jambo Kids Clinic tiative; noon to 3 p.m. Iniat Jambo Imports,

two doors down from Jambo Café, the door; call 474-5252. 2010 Cerrillos Road; $20 at ‘GREASE’: Santa Fe Preparatory School presents the musical at 2 p.m. in the campus auditorium; $10 at the door; 1101 Camino de Cruz Blanca; call 982-1829. JEWELRY MAKING CLUB: Try different jewelry techniques and take home your own treasures 12:30 to 2 p.m. at the from Santa Fe Children’s Museum, 1050 Old Pecos Trail; bring old jewelry to recycle something new; 1050 into Old Pecos Trail; call 989-8359. JAPANESE FOLK KITE MAKING: Hands-on kite making activity from 2 to 4 p.m. in conjunction the exhibit Kite Crazy with in New Mexico residents Japan; free admission to on Sundays, kids 16 and always free; Museum under of Camino Lejo, 476-1200. International Folk Art, 706 CELEBRATE CREATIVITY: Opening reception for exhibit of artwork from an El Dorado Community students from 5 to 7 School p.m., on view through April 4; Georgia O’Keeffe Museum Grant Avenue, 946-1000. Education Annex, 123

Monday, March 3

Tuesday, March 4

PRESCHOOL STORY TIME: Stories, rhymes, songs, crafts and more for 10:30 to 11:15 a.m.; Oliver children ages 2 to 5 from La Farge Branch Library, 1730 Llano Street; call 955-4860. BOOKS AND BABIES: Children ages 6 months 2 years can come and enjoy books, songs and to games from 10:30 to finger 11 a.m.; ington Avenue; call 955-6783.Main Library, 145 Wash-

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NATURE PLAYTIMES: Toddlers, preschoolers their caregivers are invited and to th Pajarito Environmental Education Center in Los Alamos to explore natural world from 10 the to tures a craft, story, and 11 a.m.. Each Playtime feaoutside activity; no charge; 3540 Orange St.; call 662-0460.

different kinds 4. How many there? More of parrots are . than __________

“It’s another thing on __________ the to-do list, and it seems less important than making sure they Lily Cherry, 8, cleans did ent her bathroom this intellig homework or get to soccertheir Kingwood, Texas. Cherry s aremonth as her mother, Andrea, hasParrot passed on her childhood supervises at their tice,” said Kennedy-Moo pracbelieving it gives them 6. home in practice of doing chores re, a sense of family co-author of Smart Parentinga to her own children, animals. responsibility. PAT SULLIVAN/THE for ASSOCIATED PRESS Smart Kids (Jossey-Bass, children chores.” 2011). bution to the family, and Miriam Arond, director Not Look firstthrough lady Michelle it’s imporof the Obama, to ask kids for at least for: tant because it teaches Good Housekeeping Research who the newspa talkedper them about about her daughthehas mum effort. “You don’t minitaking careimitate human Institute, notes a change ters having tothat of the family, want to set make their own family is over the canthey s and it up 3 words first, Parrot last two decades, with 7. White are Housee beds. responsible mem- guestwhere the kid is the honored parrots parents describ and the parents are the bers .of the family,” said feeling “tremendous pressure” now And not Andrea Cherry serCherry. “I’m vants,” to s that add of King-speech she said. proud of them.” enrich their children, wood,number Texas, who hiring tutors has passed on The best way to start is number before they fall behind, While Cherry feels that her childhood up to thepractice just for a of doing kids when they are young,to enlist a requires more of her kids she leg up. And with many choresof toinches her own children. As parents 2½, so it becomes a regularabout most parents in her area, than th Macaw working and kids busy toddlers, with their Hyacin part they began legsAndrea after with the game Cameron, short lives, Arond says. A toddlerof to be family time is more precious.school, of sock can grow s have a San Diego mother of sorting, and now, at ages 8. Parrot can clean up toys and girls ages 2 and 8 who 8 and 6, haveletters Yet kids should still be that to “extensort socks; works graduated occaexpected the make it fun with songs toes. sionally, five to pitch in, experts say. believes that she asks sive” daily chores. parrots or by makwhatLily less Through makes ing it a game. By elementary than most. Her third-grader, chores, children gain a bed and spell to say her prepares breakfast Siobfeeling of were taught for kids can hang up wet towels school, han, has been competence as they learn herself dancing since and they and little Rome brother. She ancient skills that s learn in her can dust. They can load 2, aspires to be a ballerina age cleans bathroom will .carry the dishinto parrot Some adulthood, and they or own sinksIdentify with cleanpeople not a washer by 8 or 9. Teens can a dance studio, and dances nces in the ing wipes, Reading: benefit by making do their tidies Skills: the floors with a to play with a contribution th Macaws areevery 10 differe own laundry. least Math: Calculate Hyacin after school 9.day Swiffer and to their words. and they like — weekends family. “It’s very important sums. is learning . Find at digitto vacuum. s. too, Whether kids’ household during performance one and two Aiden feeds to counter a sense of intelligent birds,or mimic, human speech ned specie season. The labor the dog and delivers threate entitlement,” should be rewarded is family copy, is always pressed for time, toilet paper to the bathrooms. says Arond. Parrots are highly a disputed point, with one camp Both driving back and on when they help with laundry and believing forth to school “It’s important emotionally can get attenti the dishes. that kids should get an and dance class. For Cherry, 38, who works allowance because it gives children above. full the two pictures “We try to throw in aArts: Use nouns, as payment for chores, and another time, having the kids s in objects. that they can do something, sense help makes and difference saying the work is for Link: Language few [chores]shere similarities it possible for her and. Then Standard the andcorrectly. they’re part of the family, that there, mainly her and verbs puzzle her husSkill: Observe of the family and should good the that we’re words in adjectives room, whatever band to have enough we can squeeze all in this together,” she Find the time to take without financial reward.be done says. “Emoin this week’s in,” says Cameron, 33. word the kids tionally, parents don’t to socceractiviti each “I’d rather let es.and practices realizelook Either way, experts say that itfor games. her do what she loves andimportant, Equally stories is very strengthening for giving and KidIt Scoop a child. looks at as her future careerwhat she kids a pass on chores is a disservice. them with the same idea it fills helps them feel secure, of fam“A child who is spoiled, they have take it away from her and than ily responsibility that it’s a role, they feel rooted. Cherry was to work against them whengoing Sometimes stay home and clean the make her raised with. parents feel apologetic they’re house.” adults,” Arond says. Employers about giving No matter how busy a can’t afford to hire divas, Kennedy-Moore advises family is, she said. parents Skills: Life places.

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Finding a pond for the ‘odd

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Family, B-6 & B-7

Wednesday, March 5

CHILDREN’S STORY HOUR: Readings from picture books for children up to age 5; 10:45 to 11:30 at Collected Works Bookstore, a.m. 202 Galisteo St.; no charge, call 988-4226. PRESCHOOL STORY TIME: crafts and more for children Stories, rhymes, songs, ages 2 to 5 from 10:30 to 11 a.m. at the Southside Branch Library, 6599 Jaguar Drive; call 955-4863. BOOKS AND BABIES: Children ages 6 months 2 years can come and enjoy books, songs and to games from 10:30 to 11 a.m. at the Oliver La finger Farge Branch Library, 1730 Llano Street; call 955-4863. FAMILY STORY TIME: Children’s librarian Walter Cook will select fun stories and hands-on activities for families from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Oliver Farge Branch Library, La 1730 Llano Street; call 9554860. WEE WEDNESDAY: Enjoy bilingual preschool songs and games from stories, 10:30 to 11 a.m. at the Fe Children’s Museum, Santa 1050 Old Pecos Trail; call 989-8359.

Thursday, March 6

Locally owned and independent

CHILDREN’S STORY HOUR: Readings from picture books for children up to age 5; 10:45 to 11:30 at Collected Works Bookstore, a.m. 202 Galisteo St.; no charge, call 988-4226. BOOKS AND BABIES: Children ages 6 months 2 years can come and enjoy books, songs and to games from 10:30 to 11 a.m. at the Southside finger Library, 6599 Jaguar Branch Drive; call 955-4863. BACKYARD ASTRONOMY: live presentation followed Monthly series includes a by outdoor viewing of night sky; 7 p.m. at the the Santa Fe Community Planetarium, 6401 Richards College Ave.; $5 at the door; 428-1744. call TRY IT THURSDAYS: Children 16 and under are free on Thursdays after 4 p.m. Museum, 1050 Old Pecos at the Santa Fe Children’s Trail; TEEN BOOK CLUB: Monthly call 989-8359. group for ages 13 to 18 from 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. at the Southside Branch

Saturday, March 1, 2014

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Leak raises questions over waste program

Gubernatorial hopeful drops suit Rael aimed to bump Morales from ballot, claiming his rival’s petition contained flawed signatures. PAge A-7

The entrance to the Waste Isolation Pilot Plant, where 13 workers were exposed to radiation during a Feb. 14 leak.

WIPP part of energy agency’s $5B nuclear cleanup plan

SFHS tops Española

Clinton papers out

The Associated Press

Demonettes rally to 51-48 win in OT to become tourney champs. PAge B-1

Documents show ex-president’s health care woes. PAge A-5

ALBUQUERQUE — The radiation exposure of at least 13 workers at a nuclear dump in a New Mexico salt bed more than 2,000 feet below the ground has brought

By Matthew Daly and Susan Montoya Bryan

new attention to the nation’s long struggle to find places to dispose of tons of Cold War-era waste. The above-ground radiation release that exposed the workers during a night shift two weeks ago shut down the facility as

Please see LeAK, Page A-4

COURTESY DEPARTMENT OF ENERGY

InSIde u Documents reveal defects in Hanford tanks. PAge A-2

3 CITY HALL 2014

State may extend health insurance enrollment

LONG LINES FOR FINAL DAY OF EARLY VOTING

Board says glitches in federal website led to low numbers By Patrick Malone The New Mexican

ALBUQUERQUE — Frustrated by flagging enrollment in the state’s online insurance marketplace and the problems that have suppressed it, the New Mexico Health Insurance Exchange board on Friday held informal discussions about extending the open enrollment period set to close in a month. “We’re trying to enroll as many people as possible, and we had glitches in the federal system,” said the board’s chairman, Dr. J.R. Damron of Santa Fe. “It’s been pretty dysfunctional on the federal side for getting people signed up.” The deadline to meet the requirement for

Please see HeALTH, Page A-4

State calls for more medical pot growers

ABOVE: City Clerk Yolanda Vigil walks Juan I. Gonzales of Santa Fe to the voting booth while people wait in line to vote early Friday at City Hall. RIGHT: Gonzales fills in his ballot while voting early. Friday was the final day for early voting for the March 4 municipal election.

By Phaedra Haywood

The New Mexican

PHOTOS BY LUIS SÁNCHEZ SATURNO THE NEW MEXICAN

The state Health Department announced Friday it plans to license more nonprofit producers to grow marijuana for the 10,600 patients enrolled in its Medical Cannabis Program, and it also will increase the number of plants licensed producers can grow. The change follows years of complaints from patients and would-be producers that the state’s 23 licensed growers were not producing enough cannabis to meet demand. It also comes on the heels of the Health Department’s own survey, released last fall, that indicated only about 20 percent of the demand for medical marijuana is being met. The agency proposes to add 12 more non-

COMIng SundAy u For a look at the mayoral and City Council candidates’ final campaign push and a list of polling places for the upcoming election, check out Sunday’s edition of The New Mexican.

On THe WeB u For more coverage of the municipal election, go to www.santafenewmexican.com.

Please see gROWeRS, Page A-4

Primaries offer test of voter ID laws By Thomas Beaumont

elections in November, when voters decide competitive races for governor and control of Congress. WASHINGTON — In elections that The primaries will be closely begin next week, voters in 10 states watched by both sides of the voter ID will be required to present photo idendebate, which intensified in 2011, the tification before casting ballots — the year after Republicans swept to power first major test of voter ID laws after in dozens of statehouses. years of legal challenges arguing that For months, election workers have the measures are designed to suppress been preparing new voting procevoting. dures, while party activists and politiThe first election is March 4 in cal groups seek ID cards for voters Texas, followed by nine other primaries running through early September who do not have them. that will set the ballot for the midterm The debut of the new laws in a The Associated Press

Index

Calendar A-2

Classifieds B-8

Comics B-14

Lotteries A-2

few smaller-scale elections over the past year already has exposed some problems, such as mismatched names, confusion over absentee voting provisions and rules that require voters to travel great distances to obtain proper documentation. In one case, voters had no recourse if their credentials were challenged. “Unless people are paying attention, and a lot of them aren’t, they don’t even know this law exists,” said Brian Schoenman, secretary of the elections

Opinion A-12

Obituaries Virginia Bertha Brown, Pecos, Feb. 23 Hermione D. Lynch ‘Hermie,’ Feb. 24 Robert ‘Bob’ Gregg, 71, Feb. 27 Christine Sandoval (Christy), 75, Feb. 25 PAge A-9

Today Cloudy and windy with showers. High 57, low 33.

Please see Id, Page A-4

Police notes A-9

Editor: Ray Rivera, 986-3033, rrivera@sfnewmexican.com Design and headlines: Stephanie Proffer, sproffer@sfnewmexican.com

Sports B-1

Pasapick www.pasatiempomagazine.com

Santa Fe Pro Musica Orchestra Featuring mezzo-soprano Deborah Domanski, music of Debussy, Mahler, and Shostakovich, 6 p.m., St. Francis Auditorium, New Mexico Museum of Art, 107 W. Palace Ave., $20-$65, discounts available, ticketssantafe.org, 988-1234.

PAge A-14

Time Out B-13

Family B-6

Main office: 983-3303 Late paper: 986-3010

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