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NATURE PLAYTIM ES: Toddlers, caregivers are preschoolers invited to the Pajarito Environm and their tion Center in Los ental Educa10 to 11 a.m. Each Alamos to explore the natural world from side activity; no Playtime features a craft, story and outcharge; 3540 KIDS NIGHT FOR FLAMEN Orange St.; call 662-0460. CO: on Mondays, and New Mexico Kids 12 and under are free at the door to adults get a $10 see EntreFlamenco, discount Santa Fe. 8 p.m. at The Lodge at
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SANTA FE FARMER S MARKET: 8 lyard Plaza and a.m. to 1 p.m. the Farmers Market at the RaiPeralta. Pavilion, 1607 Paseo de PRESCHOOL STORY TIME: Stories, rhymes, and more for children ages songs crafts 2 to Oliver La Farge Branch Library, 5 from 10:30 to 11:15 a.m.; BOOKS AND BABIES: Children1730 Llano St.; 955-4860. come and enjoy 6 months to 2 books, songs years can 11 a.m.; Main and finger games, Library, 10:30 to LIBRARY CRAFTS 145 Washington Ave.; 955-6783. : Kids ages 5-12 at the La Farge can decorate Branch Library, Southside Branch 1730 Llano St., flower pots and at the Library, 6659 Jaguar Drive, 3:40-4:3 0 p.m. Wedn
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PRESCHOOL STORY TIME: Stories, rhymes, and more for children ages songs, crafts 2 to the Southside Branch Library, 5 from 10:30 to 11 a.m. at BOOKS AND BABIES: Children6599 Jaguar Drive; 955-486 3. enjoy books, songs 6 months to 2 years can and finger games at the La Farge from 10:30 to Branch Library, 11 a.m. STORY TIME: For ages 3-5, 1730 Llano St.; 955-4863. 10:30 a.m. at Books, 328 Montezu Bee Hive Kids ma Ave. CHILDREN’S STORY HOUR: for children up Readings from to picture books Works Booksto age 5; 10:45 to 11:30 a.m. at Collected re, 202 Galisteo MUSIC ON THE St.; no charge, John’s College, HILL: Free live jazz perform 988-4226. 1160 ance at St. LIBRARY CRAFTS Camino de Cruz Blanca, 6 at the Main Library,: Kids ages 5-12 can decorateto 8 p.m. flower pots 145 Washington Ave., 3:40-4:3 0 p.m. Thurs
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CHILDREN’S STORY HOUR: for children up Readings from to picture books Works Booksto age 5; 10:45 to 11:30 a.m. at Collected re, 202 Galisteo BOOKS AND BABIES: Children St.; no charge, 988-4226. enjoy books, songs 6 months to 2 years can and finger the Southside Branch Library, games, 10:30 to 11 a.m. at TRY IT THURSD 6599 Jaguar Drive; 955-4863. Thursdays after AYS: Children 16 and under are 1050 Old Pecos 4 p.m. at the Santa Fe Children free on Trail; ’s Museum, call 989-8359. THE PHANTO M dren’s adventu TOLLBOOTH: A play based re on receives a magic novel by Norton Juster about the chila boy who dom of Wisdom tollbooth that transports him to the King; perform ed by Santa Fe Perform City Different Players, ages ing Arts’ 7 Arts Theater, 1050 Old Pecos to 12; 7 p.m., Armory for the Trail; $8, call 984-137 0.
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toiletries, jewelry temporary with and books, even if it’s bed should be a tablecloth over it. The made before the arrive so it looks guests like you’ve been ing for their arrival. preparLeave fresh towels
GARDEN SPROUT S: Stories and children ages hands-on activitie 3 to s for weather permitti 5 with a caregiver from 9 to 10 a.m., ng; sponsored Garden and Railyard by the Stewards. Meet Santa Fe Botanical cal Garden on at the Santa Fe Museum Hill, Botani725 donation; free to members and Camino Lejo. $5 suggested PRESCHOOL children under STORY TIME: Stories, rhymes 12. for children ages and 2 to 5 from 11 Library, 145 Washing to 11:30 a.m. at crafts the Main SUMMMER STORY ton Ave., 955-6783. stories and activitie TIME: Children are invited to enjoy s from 11 to 11:45 Grande Public a.m. at the Vista Library, 14 Avenida 466-7323. Torreon in Eldorado . Call WILDLIFE AT THE LIBRARY : Meet the animals Wildlife Center in Library’s Summer EspañolA as part of the Santa at The Reading Program Fe Public Farge Branch , 2:30 to 3 p.m. Library, at the La INTO THE WOODS 1730 Llano St. : A performance forming Arts bythe Santa Fe Teen Ensemb Perle. The Broadway” in this epic fairytale Brothers Grimm “go 7 p.m., Armory where worlds for the Arts Theater, collide; tickets $8, call 1050 Old 984-1370. Pecos Trail; ARTS ALIVE: Free, 3 to 103; children hands-on pottery worksho ps for ages must be accomp Auditorium at anied by an the Museum of Indian Arts & adult; Meem 0 Camino Lej Culture; 10 a.m.
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Victor Villalpando’s words, behavior leading up to his death at hands of police leave friends, family asking what signs they missed, what changes can result
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It’s been years the Decepticons since and the fate of the humans Autobots battled for the defenses against in Chicago, and human alien forces are time high. A governm at an allent branch of is targeting all humans Transformers, Decepticons alike, Autobots and with the help ing assassin. of a menacWhile all of this struggling invento is going on, Cade Yeager, a r from Texas, enough means tries to make to keep his property and his daughter, put Tessa, through looking for parts college. While stumbles upon to help his inventions, he and decides to a broken-down, rusted truck truck turns out fix it up. To his surprise, the to Cade fixes him the mighty Optimus Prime. and decides defeat the forces to help him once he realizes coming for Earth yet again, doing to Transfo what the government is entire human rmers. Now, the fate of the race lies in the mus and this hands of Optifamily of humans them, we might and, without just face extincti Transformers: Age of Extincti on. taining and visually on is very well-done an entertor Michael Bay film. Direccamera, making uses the first IMAX Digital 3-D the images more and stunning immersive than on the big screen anything that’s been seen be sitting in the so far. It’s very intense to 50-foot robots IMAX Theater seeing these captured in such way. a realistic If you’ve seen from this franchisany of the previous films e, you know nothing short of action-packed.that they are tography and The cinema CGI is able to show the intensebattle scenes and large scale breathtaking, edge-of-your-seattacks in a at way
Family calend ar Sunday, July 13 FOLK ART MARKE on Museum Hill; T FAMILY DAY: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. includes entrance$10, free for kids 16 and under. Art, the Museum to the Museum of Internat Ticket ional Folk of Indian Arts Wheelwright Museum of the and Culture and the the sale at holdmyt America icket.com or 886-125 n Indian. Tickets on 1.
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Detention center puts immigration spotlight on N.M. Town torn between compassion, costs of providing shelter
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By Milan Simonich The New Mexican
ARTESIA — Oil, farming and high school football are usually the hottest topics in this dusty town of 11,300 people. But now Artesia finds itself in the middle of the national debate on immigration policy. Between 400 and 500 immigrants accused of illegally entering the United States were being held last week in a government compound here that, ironically enough, trains every U.S. Border Patrol agent. All of the immigrants being detained in Artesia are moth-
ers and their children, a total of 191 families as of Friday. Artesia Mayor Phillip Burch says many of those in custody at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center paid thousands of dollars to immigrant smugglers who assured them that they would be accepted in the United States if only they made it to the border in South Texas. When these mothers with children in tow reached what they thought was a safe haven, a new world full of bright promise, many walked right up
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ABOVE: From left, Mary Shoemaker, Corrina Shoemaker, 12, and Patty Shure make their daily visit Friday to Victor Villalpando’s gravesite in El Rito. TOP: Family members hold their favorite photos of Victor. PHOTOS BY CLYDE MUELLER/THE NEW MEXICAN
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Artesia Mayor Phillip Burch talks Thursday about how the influx of immigrant women and children at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center has affected the southeastern New Mexico town. LUIS SÁNCHEZ SATURNO/THE NEW MEXICAN
Afghans to audit every vote cast Top two candidates back election deal brokered by Kerry By Carlotta Gall and Matthew Rosenberg The New York Times
KABUL, Afghanistan — Afghanistan will conduct an audit of the entire 8 million votes cast in the recent presidential election, Secretary of State John Kerry announced Saturday, a deal he brokered to resolve a tense power struggle between the top two presiden-
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tial candidates over allegations of widespread vote fraud. The audit, which will begin immediately, will be supervised by international monitors and its results will be binding, according to the agreement announced by Kerry and endorsed by the rival candidates at a news conference in Kabul, the capital. “Every single ballot that was cast will be audited,” he said. The breakthrough came on the second day of a visit that Kerry hastily arranged to try
We don’t know what happened to Victor that day. And I don’t know what we could have done.” Luis Peña, longtime mentor to Victor Villalpando
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ESPAÑOLA wo days before his death, Victor Villalpando posted a disturbing rant on his Facebook page. “HONESTLY I WISH PEOPLE DIDNT CARE ABOUT ME AS MUCH AS THEY DO,” he wrote in capital letters and without punctuation. “IM TIRED OF PEOPLE CARING ABOUT ME IM TIRED OF PEOPLE TRYING TO MAKE ME HAPPY.” A day earlier, the 16-year-old aspiring dancer called 911 from his cellphone and, identifying himself as “James,” reported a suspicious man “acting crazy.” On June 8, he called 911 once more, triggering the last of a series of erratic episodes that ended when, according to police, Victor pointed a toy cap gun at the responding officers and one of the officers fired a single, fatal shot into his chest. State police are continuing to investigate the shooting. But the circumstances surrounding Victor’s death, which some have described as a “suicide by cop,” continue to
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mystify Victor’s friends and family. Interviews by people who were closest to him, including his siblings, adoptive parents and his maternal grandmother, reveal a life that began in dire circumstances but was filled with hope. He had ambitious goals for his future in performing arts, family who loved him, and a close circle of friends and supporters. In the weeks leading up to his death, the people interviewed said, he never shared thoughts of depression, much less a desire to die. But along the way, he left clues hinting at his inner turmoil. Now, many of those who knew him best are at a loss, trying to understand what they missed. What warnings went unheeded? And what needs to be done to stop others from suffering the same fate? “Those are questions we could talk about all day long,” said Luis Peña, an Española muralist who had mentored Victor since he was a small child. “We don’t know what happened to Victor that day. And I don’t know what we could have done.”
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