Federation’s TV News Magazine Earns National Telly Award
For the second year in a row, Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County’s acclaimed TV news magazine and podcast, mosaic, has earned national recognition from the prestigious Telly Awards. The program received a Silver Telly Award in the General – Public Interest & Awareness category for its emotionally-charged episode featuring firsthand accounts from Israeli survivors of the October 7 terrorist attacks on Israel.
This award-winning episode highlights the moving stories of Nova music festival survivor Shye Klein, as well as Asher Levy, whose family members were murdered on October 7. Asher’s son, Itamar, also appeared in the episode, bringing an additional layer of poignancy to the episode. It also features insight from Brian Seymour, Federation’s Board chair-elect and recent chair of its Israel & Oversees Committee, who provided context on Federation’s vital response in the aftermath of the attacks. Both Shye and Asher were speakers at Federation’s community-wide October 7 commemoration event.
The episode was led by mosaic host Susan Shulman Pertnoy, longtime community advocate and leader, who has also represented Federation on several trips to Israel over the past 22 months.
“Since October 7, I’ve seen the physical, emotional, and psychological devastation of Israelis up close — yet I’ve also seen the strength of the human spirit and the life-changing
impact of Federation’s support in real time,” Shulman Pertnoy shared. “Sharing the stories of survivors like Shye and Asher is both heartbreaking and essential. I’m deeply honored that the Telly Awards judges recognized the courage of these individuals and the importance of amplifying their voices.”
Known for exploring urgent issues affecting Jewish communities in Palm Beach County and around the world, mosaic continues to serve as a platform for education, awareness, and action.
Last year, mosaic received a Bronze Telly Award for its season 45 finale, “Reflections of Trauma & Destruction,” featuring non-Jewish Palm Beach County leaders who
From Israel: Resilience and Fortitude
This article was written by Rabbi Alan Bell on June 18 from Israel.
My wife, Susan, and I traveled to Israel on June 8 to attend the wedding of an Israel Defense Forces soldier whom we befriended and to show our support for our relatives in the States and in our homeland. During our stay, Israel and the Jewish people made history. The Jewish nation was founded on the promise of “never again.” This phrase may be cliché to some, but faced with the threats emanating from the nation
of Iran the words of former Prime Minister Menachem Begin and Nobel Laureate Eli Wiesel, “When someone says they want to kill you, believe them.”
On June 13, the Jewish nation, on behalf of the world, set out to destroy the threat of a nuclear Iran. This is a task not only for today, but a multi-generational undertaking on behalf of the children and grandchildren of the people of the region and the world.
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What is it like here in Israel since the war started? Israelis are proud of the work of the IDF. The thousands of tourists, mostly Jews, currently in Israel are proud of their Jewish heritage and the nation that understands that “never again” means NOW. Everyone here will tell you they are tired. Iran is playing a psychological game by bombing us at night. On average, we are awakened twice a night to alarms on our phones and then begin to make our way down to safety shelters, underground subway stations, or safe rooms. The resilience of the people is unwavering and witnessing Israeli fortitude and determination is inspiring. Each day the streets are getting busier as more stores begin to open up. We will continue to move forward until we can live in peace in our homeland.
Am Yisrael chai!
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participated in a Federation-led study tour to Israel to witness the post-attack realities and better understand antisemitism. The Telly Awards are among the most competitive honors in video and television across all screens, including broadcast, digital, and social platforms, and in 2025 received over 13,000 entries from all 50 states and six continents. This award-winning episode and others can be viewed at jewishpb.org/mosaic or heard on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. The program is produced by Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County with LGW MediaWorks, and directed by Blue Sky Productions.
CTeens Learn CPR
CTeen at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens had a special CPR training at its weekly gathering.
The meeting started with teens connecting over kosher pizza, Jewish educational games, and community service missions.
The teens then learned that, with the rapidly growing young families contingent in the community, we often found ourselves at services and other events with young children in attendance. It is imperative that teens, the Jewish leaders of tomorrow, are trained with the necessary skills and protocols to manage possible tragedies.
Led by licensed CPR and AED trainer Ellen Shmueli, teens learned the standard protocols and even got to practice on one another and on CPR mannequins. They also received online portals and packages to complete the rest of the course before receiving a certificate.
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Has G-d Abandoned Us?
By Rabbi Dovid Vigler
It’s hard to ignore what we’re feeling these days.
From the streets of Paris to the campuses of New York, from government halls in London to protests that fill city squares around the world, the mask of civility has been torn away — and once again the Jewish people are being singled out, shouted down, and shamed for simply existing.
It’s no wonder that so many of us feel alone — surrounded by noise, yet starved for support.
And in the quiet of that pain, a haunting question surfaces: Has G-d abandoned us?
If we are truly the Chosen People, why does the world treat us like strangers? If G-d loves us, where is He when we feel most vulnerable?
To answer that, let’s travel back in time — nearly 1,000 years — to a story that continues to illuminate our darkest moments.
There once lived a rabbi whose very name was a message of hope: Rabbeinu Gershom Me’or HaGolah — Rabbi Gershom, the Light of the Exile. He served as chief rabbi of Mainz, Germany, living between the years 960 and 1040, and his legacy continues to shine with relevance today.
Just decades after his passing, in 1096, the First Crusade swept through Europe with unspeakable brutality, wiping out entire Jewish communities in the Rhineland. Cities like Mainz, Worms, and Speyer became blood-soaked testimonies to cruelty. The church, in a twisted attempt to rationalize its violence, declared that the suffering of the Jews was proof that G-d had abandoned His people. “You were once chosen,” they claimed. “But now G-d has moved on — to a more desirable bride.”
The abuse wasn’t just physical — it was theological. And yet, the Jewish people stood firm — not just in body, but in soul. Why? Because Rabbeinu Gershom’s legal revolution had changed everything.
Long before the Crusades, Rabbeinu Gershom enacted two transformative laws in Jewish life: a man could no longer divorce his wife without her consent and polygamy was banned entirely.
And here’s the brilliance: According to the Torah, rabbinic law is binding — on us and on G-d Himself.
So what did that mean? It meant that G-d could not have divorced His people — because we, the Jewish nation, never agreed to the separation. And He could not have taken another “bride” while still married to us. Divine commitment isn’t subject to public opinion or history’s mood swings. Once chosen — always chosen. No ifs, ands, or buts.
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Rabbeinu Gershom didn’t just protect Jewish women — he protected all Jews from the most dangerous lie: that G-d had walked away. And that’s why he was called Me’or HaGolah — the Light of the Exile. Because in the shadows of persecution, he reminded us of an eternal covenant that can never be broken.
On the first Shabbos after Shavuos, we stood beneath the mountain and entered into an eternal marriage with G-d. He was the groom. We were the bride. The Torah was our ketubah. And Sinai was our chuppah.
We didn’t just receive a set of laws — we entered into a relationship. Not a fleeting romance, but a sacred bond, sealed in fire and faith. A covenant that never expires, never wilts, and never walks away.
Our people have always known: G-d doesn’t love us because we’re perfect — He loves us because we’re His. Even when we let go of Him, He never lets go of us.
Yes, G-d’s ways are mysterious. He is infinite, and we are not. There will always be moments — painful, confusing, even infuriating — when we ask: Why? Where are You? But even then, deep down, we know: Even when His presence is hidden, His love never leaves. His love is not seasonal — it’s eternal.
One month after the miraculous victory of the Six-Day War, when Israel was still reeling from the trauma of near-annihilation, the Lubavitcher Rebbe taught something unforgettable.
In Jewish law, a get — a bill of divorce — is only valid if the husband gives it entirely into the hands of his wife. If even one corner remains in his possession, the divorce is invalid. But the Rebbe explained: The entire world is in G-d’s
possession. He re-creates it every single moment. There is no space that lies outside of His reach.
So even if He wanted to give us a get, He couldn’t. Because His love isn’t based on our record — it’s rooted in our relationship. His faith in us outlasts our faith in ourselves. He didn’t choose us for what we’d do — He chose us for who we are.
Faith isn’t a noun — it’s a verb. In Hebrew, emunah means exercise, but it also implies struggle.
Like Tevye, the beloved milkman in Fiddler on the Roof, we turn our eyes upward and say: “Sometimes I wonder, when it gets too quiet up there, if You’re thinking, ‘What kind of mischief can I play on My friend Tevye?’” He doesn’t question G-d’s presence — just His plan. And even after the hardest blows, Tevye still sighs and says: “Dear G-d, did You have to send me news like that, on today of all days?”
We’ve wandered deserts. Faced empires. Endured exile after exile. Not because we are weak — but because we carry something eternal.
The world may turn its back. But Hashem never has. And never will. Our isolation is not abandonment — it’s distinction. We are not forgotten — we are forever chosen.
And the same G-d who split the sea for us still walks beside us today — in every classroom where a child learns Torah, in every shul where a Jew lifts their voice, and in every soul that still dares to wear their Jewish identity with pride.
Rabbi Dovid Vigler is the spiritual leader at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens and host of the Jewish Schmooze Radio Show. Email him at rabbi@jewishgardens.com.
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Honors Local Holocaust Survivors
Ferd & Gladys Alpert Jewish Family Service celebrated about 100 Holocaust survivors from Palm Beach County during the fifth annual Holocaust Survivor Day. The event, which featured lunch, a tribute ceremony, proclamation from the Palm Beach County Commission, music, and dancing, was held at Temple Shaarei Shalom in Boynton Beach.
Created in 2021 to recognize and uplift Holocaust survivors with a day of joy and appreciation, Holocaust Survivor Day is now commemorated around the world. The event was hosted by Alpert JFS in partnership with Kavod Shef, Seed the Dream Foundation, and the Claims Conference.
Palm Beach County Commissioner Gregg Weiss presented a proclamation, naming June 11, 2025, as Holocaust Survivor Day.
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“Alpert Jewish Family Service is blessed and privileged to be able to provide Holocaust survivors with so many services, including 270,000 hours of inhome care,” said Marc Hopin, CEO of Alpert JFS. “We provide care management, financial assistance, help with medical and dental bills. There are so many things we are able to do to help improve the independence and living for Holocaust survivors.”
Alpert JFS currently serves over 200 survivors across Palm Beach County through its Holocaust Survivors Assistance Program, providing more than 270,000 hours of essential services such as in-home care, care coordination, emergency financial aid, mental health counseling, transportation, and more.
To learn more about Holocaust Survivor Day, visit www. holocaustsurvivorday.com.
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• Welcoming programs for individuals of all abilities
• Community events, holiday celebrations and travel experiences
• Philanthropic opportunities available at all levels
• Volunteer engagement for all ages
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• Emotional support and counseling
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Chabad PBG Raises Autism Awareness
Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens recently hosted a special event focused on autism awareness, featuring Dr. Steven Shore of Adelphi University, who has autism himself. As an internationally recognized expert who has spoken in 58 countries, Dr. Shore delivered a moving and informative presentation to a capacity crowd.
Rabbi Vigler spoke about the challenges of autism and shared the Jewish perspective that “G-d doesn’t make mistakes.” He emphasized that every challenge must be transformed into an opportunity, encouraging attendees to discover how this transformation is possible even in difficult circumstances.
Marc Pintel, a member of the shul who has struggled with autism throughout his life, was highlighted as a beautiful example of resilience. Despite his challenges, Marc has never
Commissioner Greg Weiss presents proclamation to Alpert JFS CEO Marc Hopin.
allowed autism to limit his ability to connect with people, organize events, and raise awareness for both autism and Judaism in his community. He gave a touching introduction to Prof. Shore, noting their common experiences with autism and shared love of faith, Yiddishkeit, and Chabad.
Dr. Shore began his presentation with a powerful exercise that allowed participants to experience the sensations of being autistic. This simulation helped attendees understand the distractions, confusions, and overwhelming sensory input that autistic individuals experience constantly. Many participants described the experience as painful, difficult, and unbearable, giving them newfound compassion for the daily struggles faced by those with autism.
He then shared his personal journey, including how his parents intuitively recognized that intensive early intervention at home was the best approach for his development. Throughout his life, Dr. Shore has maintained strong faith, viewing himself as being on a special assignment from G-d rather than feeling resentment toward his challenges. He sees himself as empowered to bring awareness, deeper love, and compassion to the world.
He emphasized that establishing a meaningful, caregiving relationship with an autistic person requires:
1. Connecting by focusing on abilities rather than deficits (viewing the person as different, not defective)
2. Building a mutually trusting pathway to communication
He explained that autistic individuals often have acute focus on their interests, which vary from person to person. These interests can be developed into skills that make them both happy and valuable to society.
Dr. Shore noted that autism is now understood as a spectrum of social and communicative behaviors and abilities. This perspective helps medical professionals focus on autistic individuals as they would any other person with their own unique set of physical, mental, and emotional characteristics.
He pointed out that autism involves a genetic predisposition, although environmental factors may influence which children develop autism. He shared the concerning statistic that autistic individuals have a life expectancy approximately 16 years shorter than the general population, largely due to limited medical understanding and communication challenges between patients and healthcare providers.
He also highlighted that symptoms such as digestive problems, immune system difficulties, and seizures are common in some autistic patients but can be challenging to diagnose and treat due to communication barriers.
The Four A’s Approach
Throughout his presentation, Dr. Shore outlined his four A’s approach to autism:
Awareness: Recognizing when a person is different
Acceptance: Embracing the person’s unique characteristics
Appreciation: Valuing the person’s individual qualities
Action: Taking steps to support these individuals in becoming the best versions of themselves
Rabbi Vigler reflected on the presentation through the lens of Jewish mysticism, noting that “Hashem doesn’t make mistakes; autistic people are the way they are supposed to be and, like all of us, they have the opportunity to reach their potential.”
Following Dr. Shore’s presentation, there was a lively Q&A session where he addressed questions from the audience. The event concluded with an evening service, with attendees deeply moved by the compassion and insights shared at this informative event.
The lecture provided valuable perspectives on autism and served as an important reminder of the value of inclusivity and respect for every human soul.
Young Couples of Jupiter Kick Off Summer with Heart, Connection, and Community
In a vibrant kickoff to the summer season, CYC, Chabad of Jupiter’s young couples group, hosted a memorable evening out, uniting young couples for a night of meaningful connection, elevated cuisine, and heartfelt inspiration.
Held at Malka in West Palm Beach, the event blended the best of community spirit with CYC’s focus on enriching marriage and Jewish life. With a four-course meal that had guests buzzing, the night was as much about savoring the moment as it was
about deepening bonds with each other and within the broader community.
More than just a social gathering, the evening was crafted to launch the summer with purpose, encouraging couples to enter the season with emotional awareness and spiritual openness.
The event was chaired by Natalie Zises, whose warmth, vision, and dedication brought the gathering to life. In her keynote remarks, Natalie reflected on the power of seasons in shaping our personal and relational growth.
“Summer, to me, is all about joy,” she shared. “It’s the time when the sun and light of Hashem shine so brightly on us, a time when our soul is the least concealed of any time throughout the year. It’s a season primed for connection and enjoyment. The Rebbe taught that everything Hashem created has a purpose, so we ask ourselves: What is the purpose of summer in our relationships?”
Natalie also expressed excitement about the future of the CYC community, referencing the anticipated opening of the new Chabad building. “We are so lucky that we get to create whatever we want from this community, with Sarah and Rabbi Berel Barash at the helm,” she said. “The next year is going to bring exciting moments.”
The spiritual depth of the evening was further enriched by Rebbetzin Sarah Barash, who offered a moving reflection tied to the Hebrew calendar.
“Tonight, as we gather on Rosh Chodesh Sivan, we tap into the same spiritual energy that surrounded our ancestors at Har Sinai, a moment of unity, humility, and open-heartedness,” she said. “This energy invites us to quiet the noise and tune into something deeper in our relationships. It’s a time to soften, to listen more deeply, and to reconnect with love and oneness.”
For attendees, the event was a welcome blend of fun and depth, a true celebration of love, growth, and community spirit. It marked the beginning of a season not just of sunshine and vacations, but of renewed intention in relationships and Jewish life.
Local Nonprofit Opens Application for Annual Art Grant
The Zoe Loren Make A Difference Foundation has opened applications for its annual grant of up to $20,000 to a Palm Beach County 501 (c)(3) that provides opportunities in the arts for children in kindergarten through high school seniors from low-income backgrounds.
The mission of the Foundation is to enrich the lives of Palm Beach County children by providing opportunities for exploration and inspiration, which they accomplish through efforts including grants and other fundraising efforts. The focus is to provide artistic opportunities to at-risk and under-served youth in our community.
The Foundation believes that art serves as a powerful form of self-expression, allowing young individuals to explore their identities, emotions, and experiences. This creative outlet can foster confidence and resilience, helping them navigate the challenges they face in their daily lives. In addition, engagement in the arts enhances critical thinking and problem-solving skills, which are vital in both academic and personal development. Exposure to various artistic
disciplines can spark interest and passion that lead to future educational and career opportunities.
The applicant organization’s mission and scope must align with the Zoe Loren Foundation’s mission. Grant projects must be completed within 12 months of receiving the funds. Applications are due by September 1, 2025.
For full details, eligibility requirements, and the application timeline, visit https://zoeloren.org/grant-application/.
For more information on the Zoe Loren Make A Difference Foundation, visit https://zoeloren.org/.
Federation’s Business & Professionals Hosts Summer Networking Event
More than 70 professionals across various business industries and career stages gathered last month for Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County’s Business & Professionals (B&P) Summer Networking Event in West Palm Beach.
The evening brought together a vibrant mix of professionals to connect, exchange ideas, and build relationships in a relaxed and engaging atmosphere. Whether new to the area or longtime residents, attendees shared a common goal: to grow their networks while deepening their connection to the local Jewish community.
Palm Beach County is one of the fastest-
growing Jewish communities in North America — with B&P creating meaningful opportunities for professionals to be a part of that momentum. Heading into the 2025-2026 season, B&P is planning additional networking events, as well as an impressive speaker series and other events that provide professionals with opportunities to grow their careers, lead with purpose, foster community, and help shape the future of
in the Palm Beaches.
Pickleball Fever: Why Everyone’s Playing the FastestGrowing Sport in America
If you haven’t yet heard the pop-pop-pop of a wiffle ball bouncing off a paddle, it’s only a matter of time. Pickleball — once a quiet pastime mostly enjoyed in retirement communities — has exploded into the mainstream and is now the fastest-growing sport in the United States for the third year in a row. And it’s not just for the over-60 crowd anymore. Everyone from teens to celebrities to serious athletes are picking up paddles and heading to the courts.
So, what’s the deal with pickleball — and why is everyone suddenly obsessed with it?
What Is Pickleball, Anyway?
Pickleball is a paddle sport that combines elements of tennis, badminton, and ping-pong. It’s played on a smaller court (about a third the size of a tennis court), with a paddle
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slightly bigger than a ping-pong paddle and a perforated plastic ball that looks like a whiffle ball.
Games are usually played as doubles, but singles games are popular too. The rules are easy to learn, making it a go-to activity for beginners. But don’t be fooled — once you get going, there’s plenty of room for skill, strategy, and yes, serious competition.
Pickleball’s accessible nature is part of what makes it so addictive. Within minutes of trying it, many people find themselves hooked. It’s social, active, and a good workout without feeling too intense, which means it appeals to just about everyone.
From Backyard Game to National Craze
Pickleball was invented in 1965 by three dads in Bainbridge Island, Washington, looking to entertain their bored kids. What started as a backyard improvisation using bits of different sports equipment is now a nationwide phenomenon with more than 13.6 million players as of 2024.
In fact, the Sports & Fitness Industry Association recently reported that pickleball grew by an astonishing 223 percent over the past three years. That’s faster than any other sport in the country, and by a long shot.
And the growth shows no signs of slowing down. New courts are popping up everywhere, in parks, rec centers, private clubs, and even repurposed department stores. In some cities, there’s even a waitlist to join a league!
Pickleball in the Jewish Community
One of the most beautiful things about pickleball is how it brings people together — and that sense of community is what makes it such a natural fit for Jewish institutions like the Mandel JCC.
Whether you’re 25 or 75, new to the game or an experienced player, pickleball offers an opportunity to connect, laugh, move your body, and enjoy some friendly competition.
At the Mandel JCC, we’ve seen firsthand how pickleball has become more than just a sport, it’s a social experience. People come for the game and stay for the community. It’s not uncommon to see multi-generational matchups, new friendships forged across the net, or players grabbing a coffee together after a match.
Why Everyone Is Playing
So why has pickleball become so popular, so quickly? Here are just a few reasons:
• It’s Low-Impact: The smaller court and slower ball mean less stress on joints, making it ideal for older adults or those with injuries.
• It’s Social: With short games and regular rotation, players get to meet and interact with lots of different people.
• It’s Affordable: Compared to golf or tennis, pickleball requires minimal equipment and can be played in a variety of settings.
• It’s Just Plain Fun: The learning curve is short, the laughter is constant, and the satisfaction of scoring a point is instant.
Fun Pickleball Facts
• The sport’s quirky name is said to come from one of the inventors’ dogs, Pickles, who loved chasing the ball around!
• Professional pickleball players now compete for sixfigure prize money in televised matches.
• NBA stars like LeBron James and Kevin Durant have invested in professional pickleball teams.
• It’s Easy to Learn: You don’t need a long athletic background or months of training to get the hang of it. Local Happenings on page 7
• There’s even a growing trend of pickleball vacations, where players travel to resorts that offer clinics, tournaments, and open play.
Tips for First-Timers
Thinking of giving pickleball a shot? Here are a few tips to get you started:
• Start with a lesson or clinic: Learning from a coach or experienced player can help you avoid bad habits and build confidence quickly.
• Get the right shoes: Wear court shoes, not running shoes, to avoid rolling your ankle.
• Warm up and stretch: Just because it’s fun doesn’t mean it’s not a workout!
• Respect the “kitchen”: That’s the non-volley zone near the net. You’ll learn to love (or fear) it.
• Be a good sport: Like any community activity, kindness and respect go a long way. Win or lose, say “nice shot!”
The Mandel JCC is proud to offer pickleball all year long. Whether you’re looking for a casual game, structured clinics, beginner-friendly lessons, or competitive leagues, they’ve got you covered.
The JCC’s indoor gym and outdoor courts mean you can play no matter the weather, and the welcoming community ensures you’ll always find someone to hit with. They even host special pickleball mixers and themed events throughout the year because, let’s face it, pickleball is more fun with music, snacks, and a little flair.
If you’ve been curious about the sport that everyone’s talking about, there’s never been a better time to jump in. Grab a paddle, meet new people, and see what all the fuss is about.
Because once you start — you’ll be hooked.
Want to Play?
Check out the JCC’s weekly pickleball schedule, upcoming clinics, and events on jcconline.com or stop by the Mandel JCC to learn more. Whether you’re playing for the first time or looking to up your game, the JCC is here to help you serve, smash, and score all year long.
Junior League of Boca Honors Title 1 Teachers
The Junior League of Boca Raton Raising Readers committee honored 26 teachers who were nominated from Palm Beach County Title 1 schools for their work in fostering a culture of reading in their classrooms. Each teacher received a refreshed classroom library with approximately 100 new books and was recognized at Kendra Scott in Boca Raton. Over eighty people attended the event.
Teachers from Citrus Cove Elementary, Orchard View Elementary, J.C. Mitchell Elementary, Banyan Creek Elementary, Hagen Road Elementary, Hammock Pointe Elementary, and Starlight Cove Elementary were recognized.
Speakers included Junior League of Boca Raton President Nikki Stelzer, Boca Raton Deputy Mayor Fran Nachlas, and
Literacy Coalition CEO Kristin Calder. The Raising Readers committee donated more than 2,600 books to the teachers selected for the Classroom Library Refresh.
The event was hosted by the Junior League’s Raising Readers Committee, chaired by Christina Seamster and Christa Siciliano. Twenty percent of all jewelry purchases during the event at Kendra Scott was donated to the Junior League.
“We are delighted to recognize the important work that teachers do in our Title 1 schools,” said Stelzer. “And we were thrilled to be able to provide additional books as a resource for each teacher’s classroom!”
Raising Readers Committee members include Nicole Arbucci, Lulis Camarena, Kristin Cardoso, Kimberly Chapman, Shayna Franco, Linda Golian-Lui, Debra Haym, Amy Phillips, and Bing Hwa Tai.
The Raising Readers Committee aims to create a culture of reading that helps improve children’s literacy development. The committee’s objective is to inspire children to become avid readers by providing books to Title 1 schools through local book drives, utilizing the Junior League of Boca Raton’s voluntarism network, and working with key community partners.
Exploring Women’s Role in Judaism
The monthly roundtable Q&A discussion with Rabbi Vigler was filled with thought-provoking questions and candid dialogue. Rabbi Vigler welcomed participants to bring their toughest questions, promising equally substantive answers in return. The evening’s inquiries delved into fundamental aspects of Jewish worship and practice, including why prayers are conducted in Hebrew, the requirement for a minyan in communal prayer, and the necessity of a synagogue for proper worship.
What emerged was an exploration of women’s roles within Judaism, especially regarding their participation in various religious contexts where they do indeed count as part of the minyan. This discussion evolved into a broader examination of the unique and multifaceted role that women play throughout Jewish faith and tradition. The rapid-fire format kept the conversation dynamic and wide-ranging, with participants raising questions that all contributed to an enjoyable and enlightening evening of Jewish learning and discourse.
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Christina Seamster, Raising Readers co-chair; Fran Nachlas, deputy mayor of Boca Raton; Victoria Matthews, president elect of JLBR; Christa Siciliano, Raising Readers co-chair
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Pediatrics, children can begin learning water survival skills as early as one year old, and formal lessons can significantly reduce the risk of drowning, which remains the leading cause of injury-related death for children ages 1 to 4 in the United States.
So how do you know if your toddler is ready to take the plunge? And why is early swim instruction so crucial? Here’s what experts and instructors at the Mandel Jewish Community Center of the Palm Beaches want you to know.
Top Five Signs Your Toddler Is Ready for Swim Lessons
1. They Enjoy Bath Time and Playing in Water
If your toddler lights up during bath time, splashes in puddles, or shows excitement around sprinklers or splash pads, these are early signs they’re comfortable around water. This familiarity helps reduce fear, laying the groundwork for learning formal swim skills.
2. They’re Curious About the Pool
A child who gravitates toward the pool, asks questions about swimming, or tries to mimic older kids in the water is showing a natural interest that can be nurtured through lessons. Curiosity, when paired with proper instruction, can help children learn quicker and with less resistance.
3. Basic Motor Skills Are Developing Swimming requires coordination, moving arms and legs together, floating, and holding your breath. If your toddler can walk steadily, climb stairs, or has started hopping and balancing, they’re developing the gross motor skills necessary for basic swim movements.
4. They Can Follow Simple Instructions
Can your child respond to basic instructions like “sit down,” “come here,” or “kick your feet”? This is a key indicator they’re ready to engage in structured swim lessons where they’ll be listening, imitating motions, and responding to instructors.
5. They’re Emotionally Ready
Children who separate well from parents, engage with unfamiliar adults, or show patience in group settings may thrive in a swim class. Emotional readiness ensures they can handle transitions and challenges during the learning process.
Why Early Swim Instruction Matters
Introducing swim lessons early is more than convenient, it can be lifesaving. The CDC reports that formal swim lessons reduce the risk of drowning by 88 percent in children ages 1 to 4. Beyond safety, early instruction builds a foundation for physical fitness, cognitive development, and social skills.
At the Mandel JCC of the Palm Beaches, instructors emphasize swimming as a lifelong skill. One parent shared, “Enrolling my child in swim lessons at the JCC has been one of the best decisions we’ve made. Not only is my daughter learning a skill that could one day save her life, but I have such peace of mind knowing she’s becoming more confident and safer in the water.”
Different Types of Swim Lessons
Swim instruction is not one-size-fits-all. Depending on your child’s age, comfort level, and swimming ability, different formats may be more appropriate:
• Infant Swimming Resource (ISR) – Typically for babies 6 months to 1 year, ISR focuses on self-rescue techniques like floating and rolling to breathe.
• Survival and Self-Rescue Swim – For toddlers and preschoolers, these classes teach how to float, kick to safety, and get out of the water independently.
• Basic Lessons – These classes introduce water acclimation, breath control, floating, and kicking, often through play-based learning.
• Advanced Lessons – For older children or those with more experience, advanced lessons focus on stroke development, endurance, and diving.
The Mandel JCC’s JSwim program offers all these formats
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starting at 6 months old, with group lessons, semi-private lessons, and a private lesson options available Sunday through Thursday.
Practice Makes Progress
Consistency is key when it comes to building swim skills. While the occasional dip in the pool with a parent is enjoyable, it doesn’t replace structured practice.
“It is recommended that children swim at least twice a week,” says a JSwim instructor. “This frequency helps develop endurance and ensures safety habits stick.” Learning in a familiar setting with consistent instructors also builds trust and confidence.
The JCC’s small class sizes, typically five students or fewer, ensure individualized attention and allow instructors to tailor each lesson to the child’s pace and comfort level.
Water Safety Starts with You
While swim lessons play a critical role, parents are the first line of defense when it comes to water safety. Active supervision is essential. That means putting down the phone, avoiding distractions, and staying within arm’s reach, especially for children under 5.
The National Drowning Prevention Alliance offers a sobering reminder: Drowning is often silent. It can happen in seconds.
Here are some key safety reminders for parents:
• Designate a Water Watcher, or an adult whose sole job is to supervise swimmers.
• Install barriers and alarms around pools at home.
• Keep rescue equipment and a phone nearby.
• Enroll in CPR certification.
• Model safe behavior in and around water.
Incorporating these habits into your family’s pool time reinforces the lessons your child is learning and helps them become not only skilled swimmers, but also safe ones. What the Mandel JCC Offers
The JCC of the Palm Beaches provides a nurturing and safe environment for children to begin their swimming journey. With a heated pool open year-round, JSwim instructors blend structure with encouragement, focusing on skill development and water safety at every stage.
Unlike some swim programs that take a rigid approach, JSwim is built around the child’s readiness. Instructors challenge children while respecting their individual pace. This helps kids develop trust in their instructors and a lifelong passion of swimming.
Whether your child is new to the water or ready for the swim team, JSwim has a class for all swimmer levels. Flexible scheduling, multiple formats, and experienced teachers make it easy for families to find the right fit for their needs.
Teaching your child to swim at an early age is one of the most valuable gifts you can give. It offers safety, confidence, physical development, and a lifetime of fun.
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Judea Sisterhood Meets for Tea & Cards
Temple Judea recently held a Sisterhood Tea & Cards gathering.
Chairwomen Marilyn Schwartz and Susan King organized the event. The tables were buzzing with laughter as everyone enjoyed spirited games of mahjongg, canasta, cards, and bridge, along with delicious tea and treats. There’s nothing quite like good friends, great games, and sweet conversations to make the perfect afternoon!
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Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens
6100 PGA Blvd., Palm Beach Gardens
624.2223, www.jewishgardens.com
Morning Services
Sundays, 9 a.m.
Monday to Friday, 7:30 a.m.
Evening Services
Monday to Thursday, 5 p.m.
Sundays
10 a.m., JKidz Summer Sundays
Mondays
8:30 a.m., Worldwide Wisdom
4 p.m., Talmud Study
Tuesdays
8:30 a.m., Worldwide Wisdom
11 a.m., Hebrew Literature
1 p.m., Ladies Mahjongg & Cards
4 p.m., Talmud Study
6 p.m., CTeen
Wednesdays
8:30 a.m., Worldwide Wisdom
4 p.m., Talmud Study
Thursdays
8:30 a.m., Worldwide Wisdom
4 p.m., Talmud Study
Fridays
8:30 a.m., Jewish Values Video
4 p.m., Talmud Study
7 p.m., Friday Night Services w. Beer & Biltong
Shabbos
9:30 a.m., Shabbos Service
11:15 a.m., Children’s Program
11:30 a.m., Rabbi Vigler’s Weekly Sermon
12:15 p.m., Community Kiddush Luncheon
Local Happenings from page 9
Giving and Receiving During a Spiritual Shavuos
The Shavuos festival at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens evolved into a three-day spiritual journey that brought community members together in meaningful ways.
The festival opened with a series of TED Talk-style presentations in which 10 community speakers each tackled one of the Ten Commandments that are traditionally read during Shavuos. The variety in presentation styles kept the large audience engaged throughout the evening. Some speakers brought humor and entertainment to their topics, while others took a more academic approach.
One memorable moment came when Andy Siegelstein noted that Shavuos is often called not just the festival of the giving of the Torah, but the festival of the receiving of the Torah. As he explained, while G-d gives us the Torah, the crucial question is whether we are prepared to receive it. The dedication and hard work demonstrated by all the speakers in preparing their presentations served as a beautiful manifestation of the community’s readiness to receive Torah.
During the presentations, participants enjoyed a dairy dessert table, perfectly aligned with the traditional dairy theme of Shavuos. After evening services concluded, community members returned home for their holiday meals before reconvening at Rabbi and Chana Vigler’s home for the traditional all-night Torah study session. Following a tradition that dates back 3,338 years to when the Torah was first given at Mount Sinai, approximately two minyans of community members gathered for an inspiring night of continuous Torah learning.
Perhaps the most moving moment of the entire festival occurred as the holiday drew to a close. Community members gathered once again at Rabbi Vigler’s house for a Shavuos farbrengen — a traditional chasidic gathering focused on spiritual inspiration and connection. The conversation centered on how Torah influences our daily lives, and participants took the opportunity to renew their commitment to Torah study and their pledge to fulfill God’s commandments.
July Round Table Discussion
Monday, July 7, 1 p.m.
Everything you’ve ever wanted to ask a rabbi and didn’t know who to turn to. We encourage you to ask tough questions as long as you are ready for tough answers. No topic is off the table.
Bereavement Group
Wednesday, July 9 & 23, 3:15 p.m.
Sadly, death is a part of life that we cannot ignore. As a community, we are grateful to have each other for support during difficult times.
Led by experienced psychotherapist Dr. Sandi Reiken together with Rabbi Dovid Vigler, our bereavement group is a safe and intimate setting to share your story with other like-minded individuals or just to listen and observe if that is more comfortable for you.
Women’s Tehillim Group
Shabbos, July 19 after Kiddush Luncheon
The power of women’s prayer is legendary in our tradition, particularly when they recite the Psalms of King David on the last Shabbos of the Jewish Month.
JKidz Summer Sundays: Fun Depot
Sunday, July 20, 10 a.m.
Interactive Jewish educational activities and mega outings every week. Make the summer a time for your children to love and learn about their Jewish heritage!
JKidz Summer Sundays: Mini Golf
Sunday, July 27, 10 a.m.
Interactive Jewish educational activities and mega outings every week. Make the summer a time for your children to love and learn about their Jewish heritage!
August
Tisha B’Av Men’s Club
Wednesday, August 3, 7 p.m.
Iron Man Competition
Since our bodies are on loan from G-d, maintaining a healthy body is a holy endeavor. On the saddest date of the Jewish Calendar, marked by fasting and prayer, we will be hosting an Iron Man Push- Up Competition to declare the winner as fittest in both body and soul!
Bereavement Group
Wednesday, August 6 & 20, 3:15 p.m.
Sadly, death is a part of life that we cannot ignore. As a community, we are grateful to have each other for support during difficult times.
Led by experienced psychotherapist Dr. Sandi Reiken together with Rabbi Dovid Vigler, our bereavement group is a safe and intimate setting to share your story with other like-minded individuals or just to listen and observe if that is more comfortable for you.
JKidz Summer Sundays: The Amazing Race
Sunday, August 10, 10 a.m.
Interactive Jewish educational activities and mega outings every week. Make the summer a time for your children to love and learn about their Jewish heritage!
Young Jewish Professionals: White Party Sunday, August 10, 7 p.m.
The Jewish Festival of Love
In the spirit of the Tu B’Av holiday, YJPs are invited to a white
summer soirée to mix and mingle with like- minded individuals in advance of the High Holidays. Good food | L’Chaims | LIVE DJ National Jewish Retreat in Washington, DC August 13 to 17
Heaven on Earth for the Mind, Body, and Soul
Demanding schedules and hectic days often leave little time to nurture your spiritual side. At the National Jewish Retreat, experience Judaism and community in its most exhilarating form. Nourish your mind, body, and spirit with meaning, selfdiscovery, and plenty of good laughter.
JKidz Summer Sundays: Ice Skating Sunday, August 17, 10 a.m.
Interactive Jewish educational activities and mega outings every week. Make the summer a time for your children to love and learn about their Jewish heritage!
Hebrew School Open House
Sunday, August 24, 10 a.m.
Educating the Leaders of Tomorrow
Join us for an Open House at Chabad Hebrew School! Experience our engaging program teaching Hebrew reading, Jewish holidays, traditions & culture in a fun atmosphere. Ages 1-18 welcome. Meet teachers, explore curriculum & register for the upcoming year. Kids will be captivated while learning!
Temple Beth Am
2250 Central Blvd., Jupiter 747.1109, www.templebetham.com
Tuesday, July 15
10 a.m., Yoga with Yael Lawrence MS BC-DMT. Cost is $12/class or $100/10 class card. All ages and abilities welcome. In person and Zoom option available. For more information or to register contact Yael at ylawrence@ templebetham.com
Tuesday, July 15
12 p.m., Sisterhood Lunch Out with Carole
While helping others is important, so is having fun—and for that, we thank Carole Levine. For years, she’s organized the Sisterhood’s Tuesday Lunch Outs, finding great restaurants and creating lasting memories for our members. RSVP to tbasisterhoodrsvp@gmail. com. Separate checks will be available.
For information about Temple Beth Am’s Sisterhood, email sisterhoodoftemplebetham@gmail.com
Wednesday, July 16
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments.Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, July 17
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Community Calendar on page 11
Community Calendar from page 10
Friday, July 18
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Tuesday, July 22
10 a.m., Yoga with Yael Lawrence. MS BC-DMT. Cost is $12/class or $100/10 class card. All ages and abilities welcome. In person and Zoom option available. For more information or to register contact Yael at ylawrence@ templebetham.com
Wednesday, July 23
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, July 24
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, July 25
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Tuesday, July 29
10 a.m., Yoga with Yael Lawrence. MS BC-DMT. Cost is $12/class or $100/10 class card. All ages and abilities welcome. In person and Zoom option available. For more information or to register contact Yael at ylawrence@ templebetham.com
Wednesday, July 30
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, July 31
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, August 1
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. Also streaming live.
Wednesday, August 6
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, August 7
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, August 8
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Saturday, August 9
6:30 p.m., Men’s Club Summer Dinner at Café Sole 4300 S. US Highway 1
Jupiter/Juno Beach (same shopping plaza as TooJay’s)
Please join us for a fabulous dinner. You will be able to order off their menu. All will receive individual checks. This event is open to the entire TBA membership; singles and couples are welcome.
Monday, August 11
10:30 a.m., Book Club: The Overstory
Written by Richard Powers is a novel about nine characters whose lives become intertwined through their shared connection to trees. The story spans multiple generations and explores the destructive effects of corporate logging on forests, environmental activism, and the interconnectedness of all living things. For more information or to RSVP, contact Edie at ediewolf@gmail.com
Wednesday, August 13
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, August 14
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, August 15
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Wednesday, August 20
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, August 21
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, August 22
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Wednesday, August 27
1 p.m., Mah Jongg
Enjoy an afternoon of play and light refreshments. Everyone welcome. No cost but donation appreciated. Mah Jongg set provided. Cards available for purchase.
For information about weekly Mah Jongg, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Thursday, August 28
1 p.m., Canasta
Bring your own cards, trays, score pads, and shufflers if you have them. Lessons available during regular meetings. No cost. Donations appreciated.
For information about weekly Canasta, contact the Temple Beth Am office at tba@templebetham.com or 561.747.1109
Friday, August 29
6:30 p.m., Shabbat Service
Join Rabbi Alon and Cantor Marcy, for an uplifting service to usher us into Shabbat, followed by a dessert oneg. To stream live visit templebetham.com/worship/livestream
Temple Beth David
4657 Hood Road, Palm Beach Gardens 694.2350, www.templebethdavidfl.org
Daily Minyan Services, Monday to Thursday, 6:30 p.m. & Sunday, 9 a.m. via Zoom.
Shabbat Services, Services are offered in-person and virtually.
Please visit our website for more information.
Canasta, Tuesdays, 1 p.m.; All levels welcome. RSVP Required. Saturday, August 2, 8 p.m., Erev Tisha B’Av Services
Temple Emanu-El of Palm Beach
190 North County Road, Palm Beach
832.0804, officesec@tepb.org
Friday Night Services at 6:30 p.m. followed by a Shabbat Oneg, Shabbat Bar or Shabbat Dinner
Saturday Morning services 9:30 a.m. followed by a Kiddush Luncheon
Minyan
Mondays & Thursdays at 8:45 a.m. followed by a Complimentary Breakfast
All are welcome
Rabbi’s Round Table
Monday mornings at 11 a.m. via Zoom. Join the rabbi for a spirited and informational class about the teachings of the Torah Support Groups
For more information, please call the Temple Office at 561.832.0804
Caregivers Support Group via Zoom
10 a.m. on 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month
Bereavement Support Group via Zoom
1 p.m. on 2nd and 4th Wednesday of each month
Wednesday, July 30, 9 a.m.
Kind Kitchen (located in North Palm Beach)
Each month our Social Action Committee brings volunteers to the Kind Kitchen to help pack and prepare meals for our neighbors going through challenging situations such as illness, financial hardship, and more. To donate food or volunteer to assist, please contact the Temple Office at 561-832-0804
Saturday, August 2, 8 p.m.
Tish’a B’av learning program (via Zoom)
Join Rabbi Resnick and Cantor Finkelstein via Zoom for our annual Tish’a B’av learning program including a moving commemoration, filled with music, readings, and chanting from the Book of Lamentations. Tisha B’Av - the ninth day in the Jewish month of Av is a poignant and powerful day in which we commemorate the destruction of the First and Second temples, as well as other tragedies our People have experienced over the course of our long history. Please contact the temple office to obtain the Zoom link if you are interested in joining.
Wednesday, August 27, 9 a.m.
Kind Kitchen (located in North Palm Beach)
Each month our Social Action Committee brings volunteers to the Kind Kitchen to help pack and prepare meals for our neighbors going through challenging situations such as illness, financial hardship, and more. To donate food or volunteer to assist, please contact the Temple Office at 561-832-0804.
Temple Judea
4311 Hood Road, Palm Beach Gardens 624.4633, www.gotj.org
Kindly contact the temple for a listing of worship, study, and social events.
ATTENTION READERS:
education
Would You Rather Be Alone?
By Andy Greenberg
Can you imagine going to preschool and kindergarten on your own, and then attending summer camp without any other campers, or a birthday party where you are the only one — or, even better, getting the best seat at a sporting event or concert because you’re the only one there? I think it would be safe to say that every one of us would reject that idea even if we were extreme introverts.
It is therefore a wonderful thing that Judaism focuses on and encourages group activities so we are not alone. This includes but is not limited to all the great organizations we have that require the attendance and participation of so many people. Hadassah, Brandeis, Ort, heritage clubs, men’s clubs and sisterhoods, the number of people required to start the Birkat Hamazon, and the number of people needed for a minyan.
Even non-Jewish people who study group dynamics will note the health and mental benefits of being surrounded by people who share your common interests and goals, who welcome you for who you are, and who share your values and ethics.
And yet in today’s world an overwhelming number of Jewish people indicate they in fact would rather be alone and do things by themselves without any of the benefits of socialization, camaraderie, and harmony.
At this point you’re saying to yourself: That’s not true.
When many Jewish people are asked if they prefer being alone or in a synagogue or watching a service on Zoom, since covid people say: I don’t need to pray with others, I can accomplish the same at home by myself.
I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say: I’m glad I was not invited to a seder this year, because I’d rather eat alone!
Every year millions of people fight traffic, crowds, lines, rude and impatient people just to get into a venue, and then repeat the trauma after the event. And what about the huge cost associated with it? Can you imagine going to Disneyland with your family and you’re the only one there?
Think about this: If you try a restaurant and nobody’s there, chances are you won’t return and the place will go out of business.
That’s exactly what is happening to our places of worship, our synagogues, our classrooms, our clubs and associations that are connected to Judaism.
The educational component of weekly Shabbat services is phenomenal and cannot and should not be overlooked. Billions of dollars are spent by citizens every year on self-improvement, self-awareness, how to achieve success, how to prosper, how to maintain friendships and relationships. The weekly d’var Torah, or sermon, extracts from every parsha not only the events of the week but how we can apply these experiences and other insights into our ever-growing, ever-expanding daily life — and it’s free! And comes with food!.
We all went through secular education in international, national, and local history and heroes who made us who we are today. Our Torah and related texts do that as well. For those who pray alone at home: Do you give yourself a daily or weekly sermon filled with insights that apply to each individual personally?
If you watch on Zoom: Do you get to challenge something you disagree with or probe deeper on something you do?
If it’s simple enough just to read a book, then why do we bother to have teachers to review the text in secular school?
Access to Jewish education is available to all on a weekly basis without all the tzuris involved in the pursuit of entertainment at other venues. Just like at a concert, we get to sing along with the cantor, we get to spend some time with people of similar interest, and of course there can’t be a good Jewish event without food and wine at the weekly kiddush.
Let’s conclude by saying: I wouldn’t rather be alone!
Andy Greenberg is a 25-year Conservative Jewish educator of grades 3-12 and a lecturer for adults of all ages.
aLL about Kids
JKidz Hosts Summer Sunday
The first 2025 Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens JKidz Summer Sunday was held last month. The theme of the day was Torah and Trampolines. With Shavuot beginning that evening, the Jewish educational activities were all focused on the power, importance, and relevance of receiving the Torah.
After enjoying a Shavuot card-making craft, a fun tefillah service, and breakfast, the kids set out for SkyZone Trampoline Park. The palpable energy of Am Yisrael Chai rang true for kids, parents, and counselors.
Upon their return to Chabad, the children were treated to dairy lunch and another Shavuot workshop in which they got to paint their very own Mount Sinai canvases.
Hebrew School Graduates 50 Children
Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens recently held a Hebrew school graduation ceremony to celebrate 50 children between the ages of 2 and 18 from local public schools who completed classes at the Hebrew school.
Each class prepared themed presentations showcasing what they learned this year about the Jewish holidays, prayers, customs, culture, and Hebrew language skills. Some of the classes also presented songs and dances.
The program began with an impressive display of Judaica artwork created by the students, showcasing Jewish festivals, holidays, and special projects made specifically for the graduation.
Rabbi Yisroel and Raizy Uzvolk led a ceremony where every child received recognition and honor. A highlight was the graduating CTeen class, where almost 18 Jewish teenagers
received the CTeen Empowerment Grant, acknowledging their dedication to deepening their connection to their faith throughout the year.
One class presented a creative Super Jew interactive dance party on a giant screen, allowing younger children to express their Jewish pride through dance that engaged all participants. All teachers received gifts and leather-bound prayer books in appreciation of their dedication. Following the graduation ceremony, families enjoyed a festive luncheon with kosher food, bounce houses, obstacle courses, and gourmet rolled ice cream.
Nonprofit Collecting Bike Donations to Support Back-toSchool Mobility
As families across Palm Beach County prepare for the upcoming school year, the Jack the Bike Man nonprofit is calling on the community to donate gently used bikes to support students in need. The organization shared that it is running particularly low on children’s bicycles, sized 24” and below, heading into the 20252026 year. Through community bike drives and its programs, Jack the Bike Man gifts students who otherwise might not have access to this essential mode of transportation. The organization also collects and donates bikes to adults throughout the year.
“For many, a bike means much more than a ride — it’s freedom, better access to school and aftercare, and a step toward independence for them and their families,” said Alejandro Hernandez, executive director of Jack the Bike Man. “As inflation and cost-of-living pressures mount, a working bicycle simply isn’t in the family budget for many. That’s where we step in —and where our community can make a real difference.”
Within the nonprofit’s Wheels of Hope program are three key initiatives — Character Counts, which, in partnership with Title 1 schools, provides bikes, helmets, and locks to students selected by their teachers and administrators. Those ages 14 and up can earn a bike through volunteer hours at the nonprofit’s repair and sales shop, and its Joyful Giving program provides bikes throughout the year in partnership with area organizations.
How to Donate
• Drop off bikes at Jack the Bike Man, which includes a repair and sales shop: 420 Claremore Drive, West Palm Beach
• Coordinate a neighborhood or organizational bike drive — the nonprofit can arrange pickup for five or more bikes throughout Palm Beach County, helping to keep transportation costs manageable.
All types of children’s and adult bikes in usable condition are welcome. Donated bikes are cleaned, repaired, and refurbished by the nonprofit’s trained technicians and volunteers before being distributed throughout the summer and fall.
For more information or to schedule a bike pickup, visit jackthebikeman.org or call 561.832.0071.
5 Reasons Uncle Bill May Not Make a Good Trustee
By Anné DesormierCartwright, JD, Esq.
If you’ve created a trust meant to last for decades, choosing the right trustee is vital to its long-term success.
You might initially consider a trusted family member — say, Uncle Bill — as the ideal trustee for your children. He knows their personalities and needs, he’s frugal, and you assume he’ll manage the trust responsibly while keeping costs down.
But while Uncle Bill may have good intentions, he may not be the best fit for such an important and complex role. Trustees have serious legal and financial duties that can require expert knowledge, significant time, and impartial judgment. In many cases, a professional or corporate trustee — such as a trust company or bank — may be better equipped to manage your trust effectively.
Here are five key reasons to reconsider Uncle Bill as trustee:
1. Stability and Continuity
Professional and corporate trustees don’t experience personal life disruptions that could affect their duties. Uncle Bill might get sick, move away, or pass away. He could also face personal distractions, such as family obligations or travel, that prevent him from dedicating the necessary time to trust administration.
Corporate trustees, on the other hand, offer continuity. If one employee becomes unavailable, another can step in seamlessly. This ensures that your trust is always administered without delays or disruptions.
2. Unbiased Administration
A professional trustee doesn’t take sides. Unlike a family member who might unintentionally favor one beneficiary over another, a corporate trustee will make fair and impartial decisions — following your instructions exactly as written in the trust document. That neutrality can help avoid family drama
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or accusations of favoritism, especially when tensions rise or difficult distribution decisions must be made.
3. No Conflicts of Interest
While Uncle Bill might have good intentions, being part of the family can blur the lines. Would he sell the family vacation home to a cousin at a discount? Could he resist pressure from other relatives?
Professional trustees are bound by strict fiduciary duties and internal policies to avoid self-dealing or conflicts of interest. They follow the trust’s instructions and make decisions at arm’s length, with the beneficiaries’ best interests — and the law — in mind.
4. Financial Expertise
Managing trust assets takes more than common sense. Professional trustees have access to experienced investment teams and use sound, diversified investment strategies. They understand how to balance the needs of current and future beneficiaries and avoid risky or speculative investments that might jeopardize the trust’s value.
In contrast, Uncle Bill may lack the financial background or knowledge to properly manage investments — especially if your trust includes complex assets like business interests or real estate.
5. Legal and Tax Knowledge
Trust administration involves complying with tax laws, filing returns, providing reports to beneficiaries, and interpreting legal terms in the trust document. A professional trustee stays updated on these requirements and can handle them in-house.
Uncle Bill may need to hire outside advisors for nearly every issue, driving up costs — sometimes exceeding what a corporate trustee would charge for full-service administration.
Final Thought
Trustee duties go far beyond distributing money. They include legal compliance, investment management, reporting, tax filings, and impartial decision-making. While Uncle Bill may have your trust and affection, he may not be prepared for the demanding and technical role a trustee plays — especially over the long term. Choosing a professional or corporate trustee may offer better protection, stability, and peace of mind for your loved ones. If you’re unsure about the right trustee for your plan, contact our office. We can help you evaluate your options and make the best decision for your family’s future.
If you have questions about your estate plan and what documents you should have in place to plan your estate to avoid having unclaimed funds, schedule a free consultation today by calling our office at 561-694-7827, Anné Desormier-Cartwright, Esq., Elder and Estate Planning Attorneys PA, 480 Maplewood Drive, Suite 3, Jupiter, FL 33458.
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Financial Focus
Should You Pay Off Debts or Invest?
By Sally Sima Stahl
Some financial decisions can be challenging — like whether to use your money to reduce your debt or to invest. If you already have a significant amount of debt and not a lot in savings or investments, it can be hard to figure out which issue should be a priority.
There’s no simple answer, and everyone’s situation is different, but here are a few suggestions for helping you make a good choice:
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Evaluate your cash flow. If you already have enough aftertax income to meet your monthly living expenses, you might lean toward investing any leftover cash, but if you are just getting by, possibly due to heavy debt payments, then you might be better off using your funds to reduce your debt load.
Build an emergency fund. Paying off your debt as fast as possible may seem like the responsible thing to do, but not having an adequate emergency fund or saving for your future could leave your finances at a permanent disadvantage. It’s a good move to have an emergency fund containing three to six months’ worth of living expenses, with the money kept in a liquid, low-risk account. Once you have such a fund, you could use it, instead of going into debt — or adding to your debt — to pay for unexpected costs, such as a new furnace or a major car repair.
Evaluate your debts. Some of your debts are actually more “expensive” to you than others. This expense level doesn’t necessarily refer to the size of the debt, however. You might have a large mortgage, for instance, but because your interest payments are typically tax deductible, your “after-tax” interest rate may be relatively modest. Therefore, you might consider investing rather than paying down your mortgage. But if you have consumer loans or credit cards that carry a high interest rate and whose interest payments are not deductible, you might be better off paying down or refinancing this debt.
Take advantage of any employer match. If your employer sponsors a retirement plan and offers a match, you will want to prioritize contributing at least what is required to receive the match. It’s essentially free money. So, if your employer matches up to 3 percent of your contributions, for example, you should contribute at least 3 percent of your income to this retirement account. Additionally, some employers will match a portion of your contributions to a health savings account. Eventually, you’ll likely want to get to a point of saving more than just the match, but you’ll have to weigh the benefit of additional contributions against the cost of any debt you’re carrying.
Make it easier on yourself. To make achieving these goals easier, automate as much as you can. For example, you can divert part of your paycheck into an emergency savings account or a retirement account through automatic payments for any debt reduction or savings needs.
While it may seem like a huge endeavor to pay off your debt while still saving for the future, it doesn’t have to be. Taking small, incremental steps is key to helping you get to where you want to go.
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Contact us at (561) 748-7600, Sally Sima Stahl, CFP®, AAMS™, 1851 W. Indiantown Road, Ste. 106, Jupiter, FL 33458.
The Singles Scene Column©
Five Types of Singles (The Sequel--Back by Popular Demand!)
By Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli
Summer loving had me a blast
Summer loving happened so fast
I met a girl crazy for me
Met a boy cute as can be.
~~ The Movie GREASE
Since January 2025, we have observed a happier clientele entering and pairing off in our club. Happy people are more magnetic, and therefore, they are coupling quickly. Many of our couples have been a “one and done” meaning their first date was the ONE. Summer is heating up for our clients and couples. We enjoy hearing about their lavish vacations planned this summer--which they would not have done as a single. As Matchmakers, this is the most incredible phenomenon to witness. You can’t measure the amount of joy we feel when we receive good news that the match was a hit. We are matchmakers because of all of you. You inspire us, and fortunately, we attract exceptional individuals who are far above settling for online dating. The cream rises to the top and we are blessed to be surrounded by so many leaders, doers, movers, and shakers here in our club.
The movie Grease said it best: “Summer loving can happen so fast.” It sure can but you need to be in the right place at the right time to meet the right person. Alignment and alliance are key. One of our female clients recently said: “Kelly and Miranda,
I can’t believe how much my life has changed in just 30 days. I never expected this to happen so fast.” She and her beau just booked their first vacation together. They will be spending two weeks in the Hamptons.
Matchmaking success is contingent on what type of person we represent. Self-awareness is a sign of a good client. We challenge you to diagnose yourself today. Discover “What type of single are you?” and/or “What type of person you are dating or have dated?” If motivated, you can change the trajectory of your summer in the very first meeting in our office.
Thank you for sharing your time with us today. Be sure to share this message of love and hope with your single family and friends. Someone you know needs this message. Pass it on!
The Curmudgeon Single: This person can rise from the ashes. Key traits: cranky, pessimistic, over-critical, bitter, and judgmental. There is a chronic dilemma with a desire to date out of their “league.” This individual may have been cheated on or suffered a significant financial loss in life and never recovered. This person could benefit from therapy and a change in attitude. However, they become less likely to have an awakening as they age. Address this issue promptly. SIDE EFFECT: We occasionally meet this type in our office, and they scoff at the thought of paying to meet people. They are too blind to realize that they have been paying their whole life in one way or another in the form of wasted time, dating the wrong ones, divorce settlements, and heartache. These clients are tough to manage, and we often opt-out depending on the level of curmudgeon. We don’t want them around you or us.
The HopeFULL Romantic: In our opinion, this is the only way to fly! Luckily, “most” of the people we meet in our office are this type ... which is WHY they came to see us. This person has felt love. They have felt heartache and possibly betrayal, but they continue to love again, and they always do. WHY? Because they believe in love AND they know they are lovable. This person has a high success rate, and the odds are in their favor (especially if they have a community of like-minded single candidates). Their life is good financially, physically, and emotionally, but their ultimate desire is to find a special person. They want a partner. They don’t need a partner. SIDE EFFECT: This is our typical client...thank heavens!
The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. She is desperate and can’t stand to be alone. Often found in bars or online dating sites, this woman tends to jump from one man to another. She confuses physical intimacy with love and is often left with feelings of rejection, insecurity, and jealousy because she is rarely the “chosen one.” She lacks discretion when she dates and will date “anyone” who pays attention to her. She has low standards. This woman’s motive can be financial gain. SIDE EFFECT: This type rarely comes into our office because she will settle for almost any man on a barstool or a dating site. She likely sees herself as unworthy of our caliber of gentlemen.
The Even Steven: Commonly divorced or never married. The male counterpart of Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy but can’t seem to shake off his past failures in life and love. He self-sabotages and is self-destructive. This man blames women for all his failings and suffers from great insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He also over-compensates for his weakness by seeking multiple notches on his headboard to get EVEN with the opposite sex. SIDE EFFECT: We meet very few of these men in our office because most men like this prey in bars and online. Typically, they don’t meet Revolution Dating requirements.
The Past Life Blessed: Here is where our heartstrings go. This is the most rewarding demographic to represent. Widow or widower of any age, although typically age 60 to 80 plus. This male or female has had a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately and are now ready to find a new companion. We have seen many widows and widowers find love again in our club. Like HOPEFULL ROMANTICS, there can be a chapter after the loss of a spouse. The generation of seniors today is different from that of our grandparents. They date without guilt. Our senior clients are having a ball (see below photos). SIDE EFFECT: We see it all the time in the club. Seventy is the new fifty. This is our favorite demographic because they know how to get along with others, which includes their matchmakers.
Whatever you are (or are not), seek out the best in others, and they will find the best in you! No one is perfect. Let’s all enjoy the Summer of Love 2025. Come together in person and offline. It’s the perfect time to join our movement. We have six months until 2026. Some call this month “Christmas in July.” Where do you want to be in two months or how do you want to spend the holidays? Find your person Pre-Fall Season by reserving your first appointment today. You are the CEO of your life and it is in your power to choose happiness. You deserve it, right? Wishing everyone a Happy Fourth of July…. I hope the passion of July stays with you forever. For priority scheduling, please mention Code: LOVEJULY when you speak to your matchmaker on the phone.
XOXO, Kelly & Miranda
Kelly Leary, M.S.© is CEO and Founder of Revolution Dating which she launched in 2014. Kelly has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and Miranda also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast Area. Do call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code to hold your place in the club. Why wait? Just Date!
Enjoy these Behind The Scenes photographs from the Corporate Headquarters of Love on PGA Boulevard where this landmark business has been for eleven successful years. Upscale single, divorced, and widowed clientele are attracted to the “love offline” approach to dating and the demand for quality matchmakers is soaring. Romance and opportunities are heating up at this matchmaking firm which is loved up and down the coast of the United States. Revolution Dating specializes in screening and representing clients from the Northeast to Palm Beach for decades. A picture is worth one thousand words, so jump on in and make some fireworks for yourself. Isn’t it time you did something for you? If so, secure your first interview today or you could miss out on the power of “summer loving” that truly “happens so fast” in our office. Every day clients are pairing off two at a time and every day new people are starting the process. Happy 4th of July from our family to yours! do #TellYourFriends #SummerLove2025
Red Hot Summer at Revolution Dating!
Kelly and Miranda Celebrate Our Country! #Happy4thOfJuly
Groomsmen, Groom, and Wedding Oh My! #TieTheKnot
New Hunk Dave with The Team!
It’s Wedding Season! #YoungProfessionals Kelly Shoots Her Arrow! #FairytalesExist
Never Too Young or Old for This Club! #Ages20s-80s
