8 | Education Set up a home study spot that will keep kids centered, calm, and ready to learn.
| Cover Feature
new approach to finding child care in New York City
| Fighting for Families
inside look at the Governor’s plans for New York families
| Health
your own birth story
STORIES
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6 | Editor’s Note
COLUMNS
whimsical getaway that’s as enchanting as it is close to
| Preschool Prep The skills little ones should have before school starts
| A Ballad for Bubby
musical ode to family and legacy
| Special Needs
AFTER-SCHOOL GUIDE
| Carousels
a spin on one of these classics
best family-friendly events in New York City this September
| Top Preschools & Montessoris
| Boarding Schools
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From F lip-Flops to Fresh Starts
Dear New York Families,
The start of a new school year in Manhattan always brings a mix of excitement and adjustment—new school supplies, new teachers, and the return of routines after a summer of late nights and long days outdoors. For families, it’s a season of new beginnings and a chance to set the tone for the year ahead. Whether you’re preparing your preschooler for their very first classroom experience or juggling the return of afterschool activities, September is the month where everything shifts back into motion. In this issue, you’ll find everything you need to kick off the school year with confidence: smart tips for preparing your preschooler for their first classroom experience, expert advice on creating a learning space at home to promote productivity, easing the transition back to school, and guides to after-school programs
GET IN TOUCH
that keep kids learning long after the bell rings. And since summer’s not quite over, we have plenty of ways to enjoy the city’s final golden days of fun with the family.
We’re also bringing you an exclusive conversation with New York’s Gov. Kathy Hochul, who shares candid thoughts on education, family policies, and what lies ahead for New York parents. As always, our goal is to provide you with a trusted guide for parenting in the city—whether you’re looking for weekend activities or thoughtful insight on the issues that matter most to families.
We wish all the children returning to school this month a smooth transition into the school year. Here’s to a new year of routines, opportunities, and discovery!
Happy new (school) year!
Tara
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Smart Tips for a Positive Learning Space at Home
Ideas to help homeschoolers — and all kids — stay focused
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
One of the biggest benefits of homeschooling is the flexibility to shape learning around your child’s interests, pace, and environment. However, creating a space where that learning really thrives takes a little intention. Still, a positive classroom environment at home doesn’t have to be complicated; it just needs to feel calm, inspiring, and tailored to your child’s needs.
We consulted K12.com, a leader in online education, for tips on how to best set up your kids to learn at home. These tips are especially great for homeschool families looking to make everyday life part of the curriculum. And they also work beautifully for kids who come home from school needing a quiet, supportive place to study
and do their homework.
From turning daily chores into hands-on lessons to weaving curiosity into everyday conversations, here are six simple ways:
1. Turn Everyday Chores Into Learning Opportunities
One of the best parts of at-home learning is that daily tasks can double as lessons. Watering the plants? Use this as an opportunity to discuss photosynthesis, explaining how plants convert sunlight into energy to grow. Measuring soil moisture can become a quick science experiment, tracking plant growth over time to teach patience and observation. Chores like cooking also provide endless opportunities. Ask your child to help measure ingredients and explain fractions while you cook. Folding laundry? Turn it into
a lesson on sorting, patterns, or basic math by counting pairs of socks. These simple, handson activities bring lessons to life, showing kids how learning connects to the real world.
2. Create a Learning-Rich Home
Making your home a learning-rich space means setting up areas where curiosity thrives and inspiration is woven into daily routines. Start by creating a dedicated, comfortable workspace with essentials like notebooks, pencils, and subject-specific tools. Surround this space with materials encouraging exploration, such as bookshelves filled with fiction, nonfiction, and educational games.
Go beyond the desk, too. Hang up maps in the hallway or display a calendar featuring daily facts. Create a “question corner” where kids can write down things they wonder about and set aside time each week to explore them together.
3. Encourage Curiosity Through Everyday Conversations
Kids are always learning, even during everyday conversations. When they mention something interesting, follow up with open-ended questions like, “Why do you
think that happened?” or “What would you do differently next time?” This keeps their minds active and encourages critical thinking.
Guide discussions toward discovery. If they talk about a favorite TV show, discuss the storyline, character motivations, or the science behind special effects. If you are walking the dog and notice changing weather, talk about seasons, climate, or how animals adapt. You do not need to turn every conversation into a lesson; just keep curiosity alive by letting kids explore ideas naturally.
4. Foster a Love for Reading
A love for reading is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. Reading boosts brain function, reduces stress, and strengthens comprehension skills. Creating this habit does not have to feel like a chore.
Allow children to explore different genres, like adventure, mystery, or nonfiction. Keep books within reach around the house and set aside family reading time, whether it is before bed or through audiobooks. Visit your local library. Make reading a natural
part of the day by discussing books over meals or during downtime.
5. Transform Screen Time Into Learning Time
Screen time is a big part of life, especially for students in online school. But it can be more than just logging into lessons or scrolling through apps. With a little creativity, screens can become powerful tools for learning and exploration.
Introduce educational content like
balance entertainment with learning. View or play educational games together to discuss what they are discovering.
6. Model Lifelong Learning
Children learn by observing the people around them, especially their parents. When they see you curious, engaged, and open to new experiences, they are more likely to adopt the same mindset. Share your interests and learning moments with them, whether reading a new library book, trying a recipe for the first time, or researching a topic online. Involve them in your learning process. If you are troubleshooting a project or picking up a new hobby, talk through the steps you are taking and the challenges you are facing. Let them see that learning is a lifelong journey.
Tips originally published on online learning solution, K12.com. K12 offers families a range of flexible education options, including tuition-free online public schools, personalized
Curated Care
New York’s creative babysitting app for back-to-school peace of mind
As New York parents juggle the whirlwind of back-to-school—afterschool pickup, soccer practice, back-to-school nights, late office hours, and the occasional date night—finding convenient and enriching child care is a top priority. That’s where Curated Care steps in.
This innovative platform, available as both an intuitive website and a newly updated babysitting app, blends the ease of a digital marketplace with the warmth and trust of a close-knit community of creative professionals.
Founded in 2014 by New York City moms Erin McConaghy and Marlene Veloso, Curated Care was born from a shared belief that child care should be inspiring, effortless, and creative. Drawing from their shared backgrounds in arts and education—and their experiences connecting families with specialized caregivers—they set out to fill the gap between standard babysitting services and enriching, skill-based child care.
“We were deeply inspired to create an enrichment-based marketplace where artists and teachers could market and share all their unique skill sets with families,” says McConaghy.
They imagined a space where artists, educators, coaches, and performers could be matched with children who share their interests—transforming ordinary babysitting into meaningful, enriching experiences.
A Standout Approach
Unlike care platforms focused on scale, Curated Care keeps its roster intentionally small and highly selective. Every “Kid Expert” is hand-selected and invited to join, with only 5–10% of applicants making it through the vetting process each month.
“Our goal isn’t to be the biggest marketplace, but it is to be one of the most curated and thoughtful,” McConaghy explains.
Today, the NYC roster includes 400–500 active “Kid Experts” serving more than 4,000
booking families. Many book consistent weekly schedules, while others use the app for one-off needs like a date-night sitter or a musician for a birthday party.
The streamlined booking system allows parents to send a single request to multiple team members, quickly and securely matching families with caregivers without sacrificing quality.
Designed for City Life
Currently available in New York City and Los Angeles, Curated Care is tailored to support busy families with flexible child care solutions—whether it’s last-minute backup care when school is closed, a dependable after-school pickup schedule, or consistent weekly sessions. Parents can search detailed “Kid Expert” profiles, message candidates, book appointments, and pay securely—all from the convenience of their phone.
“Launching in NYC meant we had the most creative, incredibly talented people right outside our door, and we wanted to inspire every extra-inspiring babysitter in the city to join our platform,” says McConaghy.
Meeting Families’ Needs
From its early days of structured, skill-based sessions, Curated Care quickly expanded to cover school pickups, after-school logistics, and tutoring—without losing the enrichment focus. The pandemic reinforced the need for consistent, trusted caregivers, and today the platform strikes a balance—providing
reliable child care that still sparks creativity and engagement.
“It could be so easy to transform runof-the-mill babysitting time into an actually valuable experience for our kids if parents could easily find and book these people on one platform or app, so we aimed to do just that,” says McConaghy.
Babysitting and Beyond
A key feature parents love is the ability to build a personal roster of go-to sitters. Beyond filling last-minute gaps or managing recurring schedules, Curated Care offers a range of enrichment services, from piano lessons to chess to Spanish, tutors for homework help, and party entertainers for special events.
Parents can browse detailed profiles, message candidates, book, and pay—all from the convenience of their phone—with every “Kid Expert” provided with a background check, reference verification, and a detailed application process.
For busy NYC families, Curated Care offers safe, dependable child care infused with the city’s unique culture of creativity and innovation. This flexibility benefits parents managing unpredictable schedules and creates meaningful opportunities for the city’s creative professionals, giving them flexible, rewarding work that uses their talents in new ways.
Find the perfect Kid Expert for your family by visiting curatedcare.com.
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SCHOOL SNACKS
that kids won’t want to trade!
BY SHARA LEVINE
Having the right snacks is almost as important as having the right school supplies. Some kids may argue that they are even more important. But even if your child has a go-to favorite now, we all know they will change their mind as soon as you buy it in bulk. So, check out our list of favorite kid-tested snacks to keep in your rotation—they will keep up the snackcitment! Our picks include great-tasting selections made with quality ingredients that will have their friends asking them to trade at recess.
New (Pretzel) Twist on a Classic
We love this ultra-crunchy take on the traditional knotted pretzel—it’s the same shape but flat. Snack Factory Pretzel Crisps are great for snacking on solo or as an alternative to crackers, perfect for dipping into lunchtime hummus and other favorite dips. Snack-size flavors include Original, Garlic Parmesan, and Buffalo Wing. Snack Factory Pretzel Crisps are available at all major retailers, including Target and Walmart.
Light as Air
Like Air is the perfect name for this snack, because the texture is so light and fluffy that it does, in fact, taste air-like. Like Air is available in five delicious flavors: White Cheddar, Classic, Pancake, Sour Cream & Onion, and Cinnamon Bun (a favorite!). Co-founded by a busy Mom to two, this school-safe snack is gluten-free, doesn’t contain artificial ingredients or eight of the major allergens, including wheat, soy, peanuts, tree nuts, eggs, fish, sesame, and shellfish, and made in a nut-free facility. Like Air is available online at likeair.com, amazon.com, and ShopRite stores.
Better-Baked Bites
MadeGood Chocolate Chip Soft Baked Mini Cookies are thoughtfully created to keep the familiar taste of chocolate chip cookies while also creating an organic product free from nine common allergens, artificial colors, or flavors. Soft-baked and bite-sized, these are a delicious alternative to regular overprocessed cookies. They are available at most retail stores and at madegoodfoods.com.
Sweet Energy!
Clif Kid Zbar is a great on-the-go snack packed with at least 10 grams of whole grains per bar and certified organic. This soft-baked goodness comes in a variety of flavors, including Chocolate Chip, Iced Oatmeal Cookie, Chocolate Brownie, and S’mores. With so many options to choose from, it will keep your kids from having flavor fatigue. Clif Kid Zbars are available online at clifbar.com and all major retailers, including Stop&Shop and Whole Foods.
Less Fat, More Flavor
Everyone loves a bag of potato chips, and our kid testers loved Cape Cod Kettle Cooked Potato Chips, specifically the 40% less fat version (40% compared to the leading potato chip). These gluten-free chips are made with just three ingredients that are easy to understand and pack a powerful crunch! Other flavors include Sea Salt & Vinegar, Sweet Mesquite BBQ, and Original. Find Cape Cod chips at all major retailers, including Key Food and Fairway Market.
Bite-Sized Bliss
Made with real fruit purees and juices, Pure Organic Twisted Fruit Bites is a new snack from Pure Organic that comes in two delicious flavors: Peach Mango and Blueberry Raspberry. Vegan and glutenfree, these soft and chewy little bites are bursting with flavor, making them a great addition to any lunchbox. Pick them up on your next Target run.
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Skip the Spoon
Squeeze some calcium into your kids’ diet with GoGo SqueeZ YOGURTZ . From the brand that brought you squeezable fruit blends, GoGo SqueeZ YOUGURTZ has grown with our kids to include another convenient way to fuel up with shelf-stabilized yogurt pouches in eight yummy flavors, including Strawberry, Blueberry, and Mango. No spoon or refrigeration is needed! Glutenfree and packed in BPA-free packaging, yogurt will never be the same! Find GoGo SqueeZ YOUGURTZ at Target and Walmart.
Better with Cheddar
If you have a cheddar-loving child, you’ll want to stock up on Pirate’s Booty Cheddar Blast ! Living up to its name, Cheddar Blast contains 50% more cheese than regular Pirate’s Booty Aged White Cheddar, but doesn’t have an overwhelming taste. This gluten-free baked snack is a great alternative to popcorn and just as snackable. Find Pirate’s Booty Cheddar Blat! on Amazon.
French-American school
The École is an independent, French-American bilingual school serving an international community of Maternelle-to-Middle School students in New York City.
IDEAL is a different kind of private school. Our inclusive mission, diverse and nurturing environment, and generous financial assistance foster a student body that represents a remarkable diversity of backgrounds, perspectives, and experiences. IDEAL’s strong and supportive arts program fosters creativity and self-expression in the visual arts, music, theater, and dance, enabling students to develop confidence, discipline, and an appreciation for cultural diversity.
Carousels in
New York City and beyond
Take a spin on a classic merry-go-round before the summer winds down. The Tri-State Area is home to a surprising number of indoor and outdoor historic and modern carousels that capture the magic of childhood and offer year-round fun for families. Whether set against the Manhattan skyline or tucked within a local park or zoo, these timeless rides featuring hand-carved horses and glowing sea creatures provide an enchanting escape for kids and nostalgic joy for grown-ups.
We’ve rounded up some of our favorite local carousels. Be sure to check ahead before you go—hours may vary by season and weather.
Manhattan
Friedsam Memorial Carousel/ Central Park Carousel
Central Park (mid-park at 65th Street)
212-452-0707
centralpark.com
Hours: Daily, 10 am-6 pm
(Hours are weather permitting)
Price: $4 per ride
Located in the heart of Central Park, this handcrafted carousel’s 57 horses run laps to vintage organ music. Note: There is often a long line to ride in the summer.
Le Carrousel
Bryant Park, West 40th Street between Fifth & Sixth Avenues, Midtown 212-768-4242
Price: $4 per ride, $30 ten-ride discount card Hear the sounds of Paris and the French Cabaret as you ride one of the 14 prancing animals. This carousel, designed to complement the park’s French classical style, was created by artists at Brooklyn-based Fabricon Carousel Company.
Pier 62 Carousel (Hudson River Park)
West 23rd St & the Hudson R iver
212-627-2020
hudsonriverpark.org
Hours: Friday through Sunday, 11 am–6 pm
Price: $5 per ride
This modern waterfront carousel features 33 hand-carved, Hudson River Valley animals and scenic views.
SeaGlass Carousel
Battery Park (entrance at State & Water Streets), Lower Manhattan 212-344-3491
seaglasscarousel.nyc
Hours: daily, 9 am-9 pm
Price: $6 per ride, $55 for 10 rides
This aquatic-themed carousel is made entirely of glass and steel and features 30 sea creatures under color-changing LED lights, making you feel like you are in an underwater garden.
Brooklyn
B&B Carousel
Luna Park, 1615 Riegelmann Boardwalk, Coney Island 718-373-5862
lunaparknyc.com
Hours: Check online for varying hours Price: 4 credits; all-day admission wristband starts at $43 per person; prices may vary depending on the day of visit.
This historic carousel, built in 1906, features 50 wooden horses and has been completely restored and moved to the Steeplechase Plaza. See the website or call for updates.
Jane’s Carousel
Brooklyn Bridge Park at the East River, Dumbo 718-222-2502
janescarousel.com
Hours: weekdays (closed Tuesdays), 11 am to 6:50 pm; weekends, 10 am to 6:50 pm
Price: $3 per ride
Named after artist and Dumbo resident Jane Walentas, the 1922 structure was refurbished and reopened in 2011. It has 1,200 lights, and the carousel is set into a pavilion designed by award-winning architect Jean Nouvel.
Prospect Park Carousel
40 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn, Prospect Park 718-965-8951
prospectpark.org
Hours: Thursday–Sunday, 12–5 pm
Price: $3 per ride
Nestled in the park’s Children’s Corner, this beloved, hand-carved 1912 carousel boasts 53 hand-carved horses and two dragon chariots
Bronx
Bug Carousel
Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd. at Fordham Road
718-220-5100 bronxzoo.com
Hours: Open year-round, but hours change seasonally. Check for up-to-date hours.
Price: $7 per ride plus general zoo admission. Free general admission on Wednesdays. This whimsical, oversized insect and butterfly-themed carousel is located next to the Butterfly Garden, where you can watch live butterflies in flight and flowers in bloom.
Queens
Flushing Meadows Carousel
Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Fantasy Forest Amusement Park, 111th Street at 55th Ave., Flushing 718-788-2676
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Hours: Closed Mondays, check online for varying hours on other days
Price: $5 per ticket
Moved from Coney Island for the 1964 World’s Fair, this classic carousel is located next to the Queens Zoo and about a 2-minute walk from the New York Hall of Science.
Forest Park Carousel
Northwest Entrance (Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive), Forest Park 718-788-2676
nycarousel.com/#forest-park-carousel
Hours: Thursday through Sunday 11 am-6 pm through August
Price: $5 per ticket
Created in 1890, this is the only designated New York City landmark of its kind—a beautifully restored, hand-carved treasure where families can ride one of 49 whimsical horses or relax in a chariot to the sound of vintage organ music.
Staten IS land Carousel for All Children
Willowbrook Park, Eton Place at Richmond
Avenue
718-677-2165
sigreenbelt.org/carousel-for-all-children
Hours: 11 am-5:45 pm; Thursday through Sunday in August
Price: $3 per person
Choose from the 51 hand-carved and colorfully painted animals that adorn this Victorian-style wooden merry-go-round next to the duck pond.
long I S land
Greenport Antique Carousel
Jess Owen Carousel House, Mitchell Park, Greenport
Hours: Specific days and hours vary; check the website for a full schedule
Price: Free admission to the park, $15 ride all day wrist bands.
Playland’s Grand Carousel, constructed in 1915, features 66 horses with jewel-studded harnesses and three handicap-accessible chariots, all of which circle a rare Gavioli band organ.
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Play On! StudiOS
Play On! Studios Brings the Magic of Theater to Upper West Side Kids
Play On! Studios on West 86th Street has been sparking creativity and confidence in kids since 2011. Founded by lifelong theater educator and mom of two Lena Moy-Borgen, this vibrant program offers drama classes and camps where young performers learn much more than just how to put on a show—they discover a lifelong love of the arts and themselves.
Moy-Borgen, who started teaching theater as a teenager, calls herself a “grown-up theater kid.” Her journey from middle school drama assistant to the helm of one of Manhattan’s most beloved youth theater programs is fueled by passion and purpose. “My favorite activity growing up was always drama class,” she says. “Now it’s my job—and
I feel like the luckiest person in the world.”
What truly sets Play On! apart is its deeply personal approach. “I’m not just the director—I’m also a parent,” Moy-Borgen explains. “I care about the experience of every child. My goal is for them to walk away with joy, growth, and an appreciation for theater.” That care is evident in every detail: performances are always free for families, and scholarships are available for students who need them.
The Play On! team is just as dedicated. From assistant teachers who lead games and choreography to musical directors who guide live performances (never a pre-recorded track in sight), the staff creates a nurturing, professional
atmosphere. Some team members are even Play On! alumni who return to help out after high school. Moy-Borgen gives special credit to her assistant director, Emily Viega, who plays a key role in teaching, stage management, and day-to-day operations. “She’s my righthand lady—I couldn’t run this business without her,” Moy-Borgen says.
Whether your child is a seasoned performer or simply curious, Play On! Studios is a place where imagination, teamwork, and confidence take center stage.
Play On! Studios
263 West 86th Street info@playonstudios.com playonstudios.com
Easing Kids into Back-to-School Mode
BY ROSDALY RAMIREZ
Do you remember what you felt leading up to the first day of school as a kid? I can recall the before-sleep thoughts, the morning excitement and worries that came with the idea of heading back to school. If you have little ones, their behaviors may look about the same: more tears than usual, some may find comfort in clingy to your leg, and others may have a sudden burst of joy. After working with children for many years and spending five of those years working with high school students, transitioning back to school for kids is a huge milestone. Transitions can bring up a lot of emotions and behaviors, and if you’re a parent, preparing your child for them sets them up for how these big milestones will impact them. I have some key pieces of advice for parents as a social worker and parent of three kids.
BEFORE SCHOOL STARTS
Establish a Routine
Begin a consistent bedtime and morning routine a few weeks before school starts. This will allow your child to mentally and physically start adjusting from the summer routine
to the new school year. If you have little ones, pictures are a great way to help your child identify what their daily life will look like.
Familiarize with the School Environment
Visit the school together to explore the classroom, playground, and other key areas. This is very important for all kids; it builds up their imagination, which can lead to conversations with you. If you have a child with sensory disabilities that thrives off routine, it’s especially important for them. Attend any orientation sessions or meet-and-greet events with teachers. Your child’s teacher is another adult who will play a role in your child’s life. Safety is a big thing for kids, and getting the opportunity to know them can really set the tone for how they transition into the classroom.
Discuss School Positively
Talk about the exciting aspects of school, such as making new friends and learning new things. Ask questions. Dinner time is a great place to have these conversations. I always invite parents to share some first-day school stories.
For little ones, read books about starting school to build anticipation and reduce anxiety.
Practice Independence
Encourage self-help skills like dressing, using the bathroom, and opening lunch containers. Assign simple tasks at home to boost their confidence in handling responsibilities.
DURING THE TRANSITION
Stay Calm and Positive
Your attitude can significantly influence your child’s feelings. Stay positive and calm. Your attitude affects your children’s mornings, and it spills over to the rest of their day.
Just like it’s their first big day, it’s also yours. Have a check-in with yourself. Write down some worries you may have or emotions that are coming up for you. Be prepared to navigate different emotions that morning, so get rest and also have a routine for yourself.
Create a Goodbye Ritual
Develop a consistent, quick, and positive goodbye routine. You know your child best; what will comfort them as you say goodbye?
If you have little ones, I highly
recommend getting them a comfort item. Each year, I give my son a soft heart. He takes one to school, and I keep one with me. It comforts him to know we’re connected, though I’m not with him.
Encourage Social Connections
Some kids thrive in seeking out relationships, while others may have anxiety even thinking about it. Making connections as kids get older can be hard, so encourage your kid from a lens of empathy and space.
After the pandemic, we’ve seen an increase in social anxiety, though as parents we want to encourage social connections. If you sense your child is feeling anxious, I would recommend having a teacher, counselor, or social worker check in with them at school.
Addressing Emotional Needs:
Acknowledge Feelings
Listen to your child’s concerns and validate their feelings.
Provide comfort and understanding without dismissing their worries.
Promote Problem-Solving
Encourage your child to think of solutions to any challenges they face.
Role-play different scenarios they might encounter at school.
Stay Involved
Maintain regular communication with teachers and school staff. Your child’s teacher is on your team, So communicate changes in your child, things you’re noticing about them or when big changes are happening in your family. They all impact your child’s behavior in school. It also leaves an open door for teachers to do the same.
Participate in school activities and volunteer opportunities to stay connected with your child’s school experience. As your child gets older, this will be important. I know they may be in a stage where you’re “embarrassing,” but showing up to activities they’re participating in builds your confidence and relationship with them.
After School StArtS
Establish a Post-School Routine
Create a calming routine after school to help
your child unwind and share their day. The first hour back home should be a time when they get to choose what they want to do. It’s also an important time for you to disconnect from work and other responsibilities to make room for your child to connect with you.
Monitor Progress
Keep an eye on your child’s academic and social progress.
Address any concerns promptly with teachers, school counselors, or social workers.
Celebrate Milestones
Acknowledge and celebrate your child’s achievements, both big and small.
Provide positive reinforcement and encouragement regularly.
I hope these tips will help you begin transitioning into the school year as you support your child for another exciting year this Fall. And remember, you’re learning just as much as they are about navigating parenthood. Give yourself some grace.
Travel
A Magical Family Resort in Rhode Island
Less than 3 hours from NYC!
By NÁosha GreGG
When I wanted to escape New York City and spend time with my family, I wasn’t quite sure where to go. I had already discovered most of the East Coast, from dining in D.C. to kicking it in the Carolinas. I thought I had seen it all until I discovered The Preserve Sporting Club and Resort in Richmond, Rhode Island.
Tucked away in the quiet, serene landscape of Rhode Island, I was stunned by how much the property had to offer. Aside from its vast acreage of lush greenery, nine sparkling ponds scattered about, and petite lights that gently caressed the lamp poles, the property offered many activities for adults and children, making me feel like a kid in a candy shop again.
The last time I took a family-friendly trip was when I was around ten years old. To be fair, I spent it at a local hotel chain that only offered a five-foot pool and twin-sized rooms. Now, over 15 years later, I was looking for an escape to spend with my mother as she entered her golden years. This resort offered everything we needed, from a luxury twobedroom apartment-like suite, complete with healthy snacks and a balcony overlooking their famous hobbit houses, to axe throwing, Bentley cruising, horse bonding, and more.
I learned some things about the property that any family, big or small, and of all ages can enjoy when looking for a little slice of heaven away from city life.
The Hobbit House
One of only four places licensed to use ‘The Hobbit’ trademark, The Preserve's tiny homes offer enchanting and picturesque scenery, from holiday magic to fields of flowers. Families can enjoy a thoughtfully prepared meal made in the finest Le Cruset cast iron cookware. Children sip on mocktails and enjoy the true-to-life Hobbit masterpieces nestled into hillside boulders, complete with round and quirky doors, an exact replica from the movie.
OH! Spa
If you’re looking to quiet down and step away from the kids to your own slice of serenity for a moment, the OH! Spa is there to help you out. I received a pore-minimizing facial that refreshed my skin. The dimly lit room is warm and welcoming, complemented by calming sounds of nature and a heated massage bed. My esthetician, Caroline, and I chatted as she performed my facial, a refreshing experience that cleansed my skin, opened and cleaned my pores with warm steam, and left me with a calming glow. The spa also offered warming whirlpool tubs that offered relaxation and an infinity pool overlooking Rhode Island's stunning, lush greenery.
Around the Campfire
What child doesn’t dream of making s’mores as they gaze upon the stars? When I was in the city, there was too much light pollution for me to see anything properly, but the skies were clear at the resort. Families can stargaze around a warm fire as they make toasted marshmallows and melted chocolate. Alternatively, if there’s still a nip in the air,
The Preserve offers family game nights, with family favorites Monopoly, chess, and Scrabble as you sip on warm hot chocolate.
Kids’ Craft Club
Led by experienced instructors, children ages 5-12 can explore their artistic creativity, from painting and crafting to birdhouses, fostering both skill development and a love for self-expression in a playful and supportive environment, creating a birdhouse as they soak in the beautiful nature of the property. There is also a workshop for kids to craft their own slingshot.
Horse Bonding
Being from the city, I have never had an up-close and personal experience with farm animals—definitely not horses. The property’s Equestrian Center is a child’s dream. At first glance, they can be a bit intimidating due to their massive stature, but thankfully, I was able to ask for a miniature horse named Sprinkles. Friendly and gentle horses graze the property and stand perfectly still as you brush their bodies and braid their
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manes. They will slightly tickle your palm as you feed them fresh grass or carrots, and children can enjoy an authentic bonding experience. Families can opt to stay at the center in a quaint home refurbished from the 1800s, and wake up to the quiet sound of sheep grazing on the grass or the soft trot of horses as they give carriage rides around the neighborhood.
The center also offers child-friendly horseback riding lessons and pony rides for children ages 3 and up. If your little one is still up for an adventure, they can participate in a farm scavenger hunt, culminating in a prize and a treat for an hour of wholesome fun.
Go For a Family Hike
It’s no secret that New York City is low on green space, which made me appreciate these trails even more. The property offers miles of trails through scenic and rugged landscapes. Families and children can enjoy a history lesson along the trail, which is scattered with Colonial-era foundations, root cellars, handdug stone-lined spring wells, and stone walls. Reconnect with nature and enjoy tranquility
as you breathe the fresh air of Rhode Island and explore the woods.
Bentley Cruising
If your little one is racecar-obsessed, take them cruising on a Bentley Off-Road expedition. Ride in the luxury cars and experience the rugged roads and wooded areas as you indulge your inner child and get a rush of adrenaline.
Outdoor Sports
There was still quite a chill in the air during my visit, so I wasn’t able to take a dip in the pool, but the property offers many outdoor sporting activities that aren’t water-based. If your
energetic child needs to burn off some energy and needs playtime, look no further. There’s a lush green tennis court, perfect for wide swings and plenty of running. Children can also enjoy archery with faux practice targets, show their strength with axe throwing, or learn coordination with rock climbing. If they’re still feeling a little froggy, they can head to the many property ponds for some fishing.
All in all, my stay was refreshing, energizing, and revitalizing. My mother and I spent quality bonding time together, from mornings on the balcony to hanging out with animals. If anyone is looking for a sliver of serenity in a gorgeous setting, The Preserve has everything you need.
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The Ultimate Guide to AFTER-SCHOOL
PROGRAMS & ACTIVITIES
How to Choose the Right After-School Program for Your Child’s Personality
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Veteran parents know that the backto-school hustle isn’t solely about academics. After-school activities can be just as stressful to navigate. Sports, dance, art, STEM clubs…the options are endless, and figuring out which ones will truly suit your child can feel overwhelming. How do you know what will click with their personality? And when is it better to gently encourage them to try something new versus letting them enjoy some downtime?
We spoke with Dr. Irina Gorelik, Psy.D., a licensed psychologist and parent coach
based in Brooklyn, to get her take on the subject.
Dr. Gorelik shares practical, developmentally informed tips for matching kids with after-school programs that help them thrive, whether they’re shy, high-energy, creative, or just need some unstructured time.
How can parents tell what kind of afterschool program will click with their kid’s personality?
Before considering personality, it is essential to ask yourself if the child is ready developmentally. Under age three, kids are
usually not yet developmentally ready for structured activities and can benefit more from programs such as Mommy-and-Me or exploratory/sensory programs that are openended. Once a child is enrolled in school, considering some personality/temperamentbased factors can be helpful to see what may be a good fit.
First, it is important to observe your child. Do they gravitate towards active movement (ball play, running, dancing, music) or quiet focusing? Do they prefer solo exploration or enjoy the energy of being in a group? Do they thrive in predictable play (gravitate towards the same types of play) or
lean towards novel things?
The answers to these questions may help you decide if the child would thrive more in open-ended or structured activities, or high-energy vs. calm. If you are not sure, that is okay! If you have some activities in mind, you can observe a few different types of classes with your child. Look to see if your child wants to join or looks overstimulated and hesitant. Of course, with some temperaments, there may be initial hesitation.
If your child is shy or tends to shy away from social situations, what kinds of after-school programs can help them build confidence without feeling overwhelmed?
For children who are more on the quiet side, or temperament-wise on the slowerto-warm-up side, it may be tempting to expose them to as much socialization as possible for practice. While there are ways in which practice can be helpful and necessary, throwing a child like this into many highenergy activities can backfire. These children often need a gradual approach, such as lowpressure settings that are somewhat openended, where kids can go at their own pace.
Another consideration is whether the class/activity and instructor help kids focus on their growth and development, and process-based learning, vs. one based solely on competition and winning/losing.
Things to look out for:
• Small groups of 6-10 kids
• A consistent instructor whom the child can get used to
• Less focus on audiences and performances early on
• Permission to observe one or two classes before deciding to join
• Routine of what to expect in the class
Depending on the child’s interests, this might be a class with open-ended projects or crafts, such as art or pottery, and music groups. If you are looking for an activity with movement, consider yoga for kids, martial arts (a class focused on self-improvement and growth-based mindset, less on competition), small group swim lessons, and improv-based classes in movement, dance, or drama.
What after-school options work best for high-energy kids or those with trouble sitting still?
Does your child gravitate towards active movement or quiet focusing? Do they prefer solo exploration or enjoy the energy of being in a group? Do they thrive in predictable play or lean towards novel things?
For high-energy kids, it is helpful to look for a program that allows them to channel that energy in a purposeful way that they can also enjoy! The choices often are between more structured programs vs. less structured programs, and each can have benefits depending on what you are looking for and the child’s personality.
It is also important to meet the coach to ensure that you align with their style. Coaches who help kids build confidence by focusing on their individual growth can be significant in keeping kids engaged and building their confidence in the skills.
Examples of more open-ended high-energy programs:
• Parkour
• Obstacle courses
• Nature programs
For more skill-building and structured classes:
• Sport-based extracurriculars
• Martial arts: discipline/focus and high movement
For creative or artsy kids who don’t always love rules or structure, how can parents find programs that keep them engaged without stifling their imagination?
For kids who don’t always do well with structure but are creative, it may be helpful to find programs and activities that are more open-ended.
These programs have guidance, but the child has a sense of agency over the finished product. When observing such programs, it may be helpful to notice if the instructor can help children focus more on process and curiosity versus “doing a good job” or completing the task accurately.
Some ideas:
• Maker spaces
• Pottery/clay building
• Open studio art
• Sensory play programs
• Drama/movement studios with a focus on improv
And what if your kid just flat-out doesn’t want to do any after-school activities? How do you know when to encourage them to try something new and when to give them downtime?
This is a great question! There is a lot of pressure to fill a schedule and keep kids occupied, especially if the child’s peer group is busy after school Monday through Friday. There is also often the added pressure of social media and parent influencers, where it usually seems that kids are always involved in soccer practice, dance, and every other imaginable activity, which can add to parental guilt of feeling that you are not doing enough. To relieve some of that pressure from a psychological and developmental perspective, I say that often, less is more when it comes to after-school activities.
While everyone’s circumstances, capacity, and schedules are unique, children do not always need to be occupied, and free time is critical to development across the board, especially for younger children. Downtime offers time to build creativity through independent play, builds autonomy and decision-making skills, and can help with self-regulation, as it offers time for quiet play.
Some things to consider when determining between allowing more downtime and a gentle push include energy levels when getting home, interest levels, socialization access, and level of physical activity.
Suppose a child shows interest in a particular activity or topic, does not have many days of the week when they are busy after school, is a bit socially isolated, and has not had experience with specific activities yet. In that case, it might be appropriate to give the gentle push.
A few things that might help:
• Offer to observe first or check it out together
• Try one-time activities, such as workshops or drop-in sessions, to gauge interest and fit
• Present it as “giving it a try” rather than a long-term commitment
After-School Programs that Teach Important Life Skills
By Náosha GreGG
As back-to-school season arrives, you may consider enrolling your child in an after-school program. New York City just announced 40 new afterschool programs, opening 5,000 new spots for K-5 students citywide. According to a 2022 YouScience study, 75% of high school graduates feel moderately, slightly, or not at all prepared to make college or career decisions, while another study found that nearly 60% of parents felt their teenagers lacked essential life skills, such as knowing how to make the bed, clean a toilet, or vacuum a room, when they left home.
After-school programs can vary, but they are a great resource for young children and teenagers, and are a great way for your child to explore their interests and develop essential life skills that can assist them later in life. From cooking to woodshop, here are some after-school programs that are sure to instill life-long skills into your child.
Cooking
What kid doesn’t like to get their hands dirty, especially when they can eat it after? Cooking classes are a great skill to embed in children. It is not only a great way to get creative and explore new flavors, but it can also open doors to learning about new cultures, increasing vegetable intake, and incorporating and practicing math and science skills through measurement and temperature gauging. A study from Tufts University found that 28% of Americans say they don’t know how to cook, while another study found that 54% of Americans admit they are not proficient in the kitchen. Cooking classes are an investment that will continuously serve your child and ensure they can prepare their own meals and produce independence while eating healthy.
Swimming
Drowning is the leading cause of unintentional injury death for children ages 1 to 4. However, while considered a life skill, knowing how to swim is not as common among Americans as you would think
According to the American Red Cross, 54% of American adults either can’t swim or don’t have basic swimming skills. Swim classes are not only a great way to stay physically fit and gain muscle strength, but also to prevent drowning.
Some additional benefits of swim classes include improved cardiovascular health, enhanced endurance and muscle strength, and improved posture, making it a great after-school program.
Dance
Creative expression is key for young children and adults as they progress into the real world. Dance classes provide many health benefits, including improved cognitive development by learning complex and different dance combinations, improved flexibility, and boosted confidence.
In fact, dance has such beneficial effects on the brain that it is now being used to treat
people with Parkinson’s disease, according to a recent Harvard study. Dance as an after-school program is also a great way to and to build discipline and explore the various genres from modern to ballet and contemporary.
Woodshop
While some may consider woodshop classes outdated or old school, they still have many benefits as an after-school program. They encourage creativity and problem-solving, and can lead to lucrative careers down the road, such as carpentry. Completing a project, such as a stool or chair, also provides a sense of accomplishment and integrates math and science for brain enrichment.
Chess
Chess classes are a great after-school program to keep your child engaged and sharpen critical thinking skills. Complex situations are grounds for strategic thinking as players decide what move to make next, and teach discipline and sportsman-like behavior. It can help your child later down the line when they need to use critical thinking to make deductions.
The Ailey School
405 West 55th St. 212-405-9000
info@ailey.org ailey.org/training/juniordivision
The Ailey School’s Junior Division offers a highly structured curriculum for conservatory training. Students in the preprofessional program (ages 7 to 17) participate in after-school and weekend classes during the school year. All levels include ballet training and at least one other technique. As students progress, more techniques such as jazz, Ailey Horton, modern, pointe, tap, and West African are added to their training. In First Steps and Bounding Boys (ages 3 to 6), children develop an understanding of dance, rhythm, and music through a weekly series of fun exercises.
Amanda Selwyn Dance Studio Fall Youth Classes
412 Broadway, 2nd Floor 212-995-9446
ashley@amandaselwyndance. org
amandaselwyndancestudio.org
After-School Dance Programming for ages 3 to 9 years with Amanda Selwyn Dance Theatre/Notes in Motion at their Downtown Studio at 412 Broadway at Canal Street – REGISTER TODAY! Lively classes for all levels in ballet/ jazz, creative movement, and musical theater jazz focus on inclusivity, self-expression, and personal growth. Classes culminate in informal performances for parents and friends. Referral discounts available. Fall session starts September 22, 2025. Contact ashley@amandaselwyndance. org and visit the website to register.
Ballet Academy East 1651 Third Ave. 212-410-9140
info@baenyc.com balletacademyeast.com
Ballet Academy East is home to aspiring dancers of all ages, from the youngest dancers, where classes instill the joy of dance within an environment focused on developing individual potential and creativity, to serious ballet students who receive comprehensive ballet training with professional-caliber performance opportunities to prepare students for success in the dance world. The school offers drop-in ballet and fitness classes for adults of all levels and abilities.
Broadway Dance Center Children and Teens Program
37 West 65th St., 3rd Floor 212-457-0035 w65info@bwydance.com BDCChildrenandTeens.com
Broadway Dance Center Children and Teens offers toptier dance training, helping young dancers achieve their
artistic potential. We provide a comprehensive dance experience with diverse styles, performance opportunities, and elite instruction that New York City and BDC uniquely offer. BDC is a vibrant community for young creatives, with dedicated faculty creating a healthy environment to connect socially and artistically, while developing confidence, a positive self-image, and a strong work ethic.
Center for Performing Arts and Dance
11 West 25th St., 2nd floor 212-542-0780 office.cpads@gmail.com cpadnyc.com
The Center for Performing Arts and Dance (CPAD NYC) offers an exciting experience for children ages 1-13 in Flatiron. This fall, kids can explore ballet, hip-hop, musical theater, STEM, chess, piano, fashion design, and more in a warm, supportive
CPAD NYC: After-School Program
THE AILEY SCHOOL JUNIOR DIVISION AUDITIONS
Register Today!
2025–2026 School Year Pre-Professional Program (ages 7–17)
Ailey.org/Training juniordivision@ailey.org
The Ailey School 405 West 55th St New York, NY 10019
September 6 & 9
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environment. Programs are tailored by age and designed to boost creativity, confidence, and academic growth. With a creative curriculum and passionate instructors, CPAD is where young learners thrive. Enroll now and let your child shine!
Collina Italiana - Italian School & Cultural Center
1556 Third Ave. at 87th St., Suite 602
212-427-7770
info@collinaitaliana.com
collinaitaliana.com/children
From the artwork and literature to the cuisine and culture, the Italian language connects children to a world of beauty. Collina’s immersive after-school programs for kids and teens ages 2-16 and morning drop-off for toddlers ages 2-4 are the perfect way for students to start their journey with the Italian language. Collina Italiana also offers special events, workshops on Saturdays, and
all-year-long language minicamps for kids ages 3-10.
German Language School of Greater New York
Manhattan classes held on East 65th St.
212-787-7543
kidslearngerman@aol.com
german-american-school.org
The German Language School of Greater New York (dba German-American School Association) has taught German to children since 1892 and welcomes children of all backgrounds. Lower grades receive bilingual instruction while upper grades are taught in German. Accredited by NY State Regents since 1911, the school’s students complete the FLAC exam. Collegebound students take AP training and are encouraged to take A1/A2 exams.
Greenwich House Music School
46 Barrow St., West Village 212-242-4770
greenwichhouse.org/musickids
Inspire your child’s creativity and development through music and dance classes that spark imagination, strengthen cognitive growth, and encourage self-expression without screens. Programs for ages 0 to 13.5 include early childhood music, ballet, and private lessons taught by expert faculty in a nurturing, community setting. Plus, join GHMS for the Music & Clay Open House a day of hands-on arts discovery across Music and Pottery for all ages Saturday, Sept. 20, 10 am–12:15 pm
Greenwich House Pottery 16 Jones St., West Village 212-242-4106
greenwichhouse.org/clayafterschool
Discover the art of the wheel this fall in after-school classes for ages 10–17! In a screen-free, hands-on studio, students build focus and
creativity through throwing and glazing. Classes meet Mondays, Sept. 29–Dec. 8, 3:30–5:30 pm, with all tools, materials, and firing included. Plus, join Greenwich House Pottery for the Music & Clay Open House, Saturday, Sept. 20, 12:30–2 pm—a day of hands-on arts discovery across Music and Pottery for all ages.
Kids ‘N Comedy, Ltd. thekidsncomedy@aol.com kidsncomedy.com
Got a kid who keeps the whole family laughing? Kids ’N Comedy is the perfect place for teens ages 10 to 18 to turn their sense of humor into stand-up gold. They’ll learn to write and perform their own material, build confidence, and connect with fellow young comics. Classes wrap with a live show at NYC’s Gotham Comedy Club! Taught by pro comedians, it’s a fun, supportive space where funny kids shine. Let the laughter begin!
Launch Math + Science Centers
173 West 81st St. 212-600-1010 launchmath.com
Launch Math + Science Centers offer exciting and educational STEM classes and camps for kids from kindergarten to 7th grade. Children discover the magic of chemistry, explore the science of space, create architectural structures, code a roving robot – and that’s just the beginning! Launch also offers one-on-one math enrichment and intensive math tutoring for students in grades K-8. For the past 15 years, Launch has delivered engaging STEM programs for children throughout New York City. Real-life rocket scientist Scott Heifetz founded Launch with one mission in mind: to inspire children to love and learn math and science.
New York City Ninja Academy
625 West 55th St.
917-903-7535
ninjanewyorkcity@gmail.com nycninja.com
Does your kid want to be a ninja warrior? New York City Ninja Academy offers after-school and weekend ninja warrior classes for kids of all levels. Kids learn fun ninja obstacle skills, focusing on technique and building their confidence, all while having the time of their lives. 10-week semester-based progressive program; safety is prioritized. Advanced levels are available, and the coaches encourage kids to compete in the World Ninja League. Ages 6 and up.
Play On! Studios
263 West 86th St. 347-709-4149
info@playonstudios.com playonstudios.com
Play On! Studios provides theater classes on the UWS, offering kids an unforgettable experience filled with acting, music, and fun they won’t soon forget! Classes cater to
all skill levels, from beginners to those ready for Broadway. Creative Drama, Theater Lab, Musical Theater Revue, and Musical Theater Performance classes offer different levels of commitment for busy kids. Classes are available for pre-K – 8, after school, or on Saturdays!
School
At Peridance
126 East 13th St. 212-505-0886
sap@peridance.com peridance.com/sap
Established in 1983, the School at Peridance is recognized as a pioneer in dance education within the New York Dance Community. The school features progressive interdisciplinary approaches to dance training, emphasizing a thorough understanding of various techniques while promoting self-expression, confidence, and creativity. From Ballet to Hip-Hop, SAP’s supportive environment — expert instructors, vibrant classes,
and extracurricular activities — nurtures young dancers of every age and ability level, fostering skills that last a lifetime.
TADA! is back with their semester-long classes now with exciting new changes that ensure our youngest stars and seasoned performers all can enjoy everything a TADA! class has to offer. Their 2025 fall skill-building classes are for ages 4–13 on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays from September 15th through December 16th. Whether your child is a budding Broadway performer or looking for a fun afterschool activity, TADA! has the class for them!
Clay Families Workshops Afterschool Wheel for for Teens Classes
Sundays, Sept 28 – Dec 7
2:30–4:30 p.m. $95
16 Jones St., NYC
Ages 6+ with adults. Make memories together while handbuilding with clay.
Create treasures with pinching, slabs, and coil - $95 per person for the first two; add a third for $80 with code family-third.
Mondays, Sept 29 – Dec 8
3:30–5:30 p.m. $705
16 Jones St., NYC
Spin, shape, and glaze on the potter’s wheel in this weekly class for ages 10–17.
Beginners and returning students alike will get a complete overview of wheel throwing and finishing techniques.
After-School Leaders
Ask any kid who their favorite teacher is, and it’s likely to be the one teaching their favorite subject (which explains why there are so many beloved gym teachers out there). So there’s a good possibility that the person leading the exciting activities your child attends after school — when the fun really happens — is someone they admire greatly and enjoy learning from. That’s why it’s so important that the staff at any afterschool programs your child enrolls in are trustworthy, knowledgeable and talented, like the professionals listed below who each serve as exemplary leaders in their respective fields. Read on to learn about the person who might be at the forefront of your child’s next afterschool adventure.
Amanda Selwyn Dance Studio
Amanda Selwyn, Artistic/Executive Director
Amanda Selwyn is a NYC-based choreographer, educator, and Artistic Director of Amanda Selwyn Dance Theatre/Notes in Motion. She has created over 125 productions and developed a comprehensive, inclusive dance education program serving thousands of NYC students. Her work has been presented at Jacob’s Pillow, the CUNY Dance Initiative, universities, festivals, NY Live Arts, and more. Amanda holds degrees from NYU Tisch and Northwestern and integrates creativity, inquiry, and reflection into every facet of her work.
Ballet Academy East
Julia Dubno, Founder and Director
Founder and Director Julia Dubno began her ballet studies at an early age, training with many noted teachers such as Edwina Fontaine, Francis Patrelle, Dick Andros, Richard Thomas, Hector Zaraspe, and Alfredo Corvino. While at the Juilliard School, Ms. Dubno realized her genuine interest was in teaching and administration. In 1978, her mentor, Christine Fokine, asked her to run the Fokine Ballet School. One year later, Ballet Academy East was created. More than 45 years later, Ms. Dubno still oversees all school divisions.
Broadway Dance Center Children and Teens Program
Allie Beach, Director of Youth Programming
Allie Beach (she/her) is a native of Jackson, Mississippi, and has been a proud part of the Broadway Dance Center family for over two decades. She has been a competitive dancer since the age of 6 and still enjoys taking classes regularly. Allie received her Bachelor’s degree in Communication from Marymount Manhattan College and her Master’s in Media Ecology from New York University.
Center for Performing Arts and Dance (CPAD NYC)
Nina Sekhand, Founder
Nina Sekhand is a classically trained ballerina and Nanotechnology Engineer whose journey began at age four in Russia. After performing iconic roles with international companies like the Cuban Classical Ballet of Miami, she shifted her passion to teaching. In 2021, she founded CPAD to inspire the next generation. Combining technique with background in neuroscience, child development, and nanotechnology, Nina created an inclusive space where every child can grow as a confident, curious, and well-rounded individual.
Collina Italiana - Italian School & Cultural Center
Cristina Ciarcelluti-Roberts, Program Director, Coordinator
Born in the center of Italy, Cristina moved to the Bologna area at the age of 19 to study International Relations and Diplomatic Affairs. Widely traveled, Cristina attended language courses in England, France, Estonia, and Russia. Talented in Public Relations, she approaches all that she does with energy and enthusiasm, at work and in life. She enjoys living in NYC with her family, and she is very passionate about singing, theater, and all fun activities.
German Language School of Greater New York
Ursula E. Beitter, Principal, Director
Dr. Beitter received her PhD in German Language & Literature from NYU. She taught at the college level for 30 years and is the principal of the German-American School Association’s after-school language program. Dr. Beitter transitioned the school from a monolingual (German) curriculum to its current bilingual (English/German) model, making the after-school program attractive to everyone. Dr. Beitter expanded the school’s courses with AP preparatory for German.
Launch
Scott Heifetz, Director/Founder
From building NASA rockets as an aerospace engineer to teaching in Manhattan and working at NYC’s largest tutoring company, Scott Heifetz’s career has always been rooted in math and science. He now owns Launch Math + Science Centers, a premier Manhattan STEM center inspiring children to love learning math and science. Scott holds a BSE in Aerospace Engineering from the University of Michigan, an MS in Aeronautical Engineering from Caltech, and an MBA from NYU’s Stern School of Business.
Greenwich House Pottery
Caitlin Brown,
Director
Caitlin Brown is the new Director of Greenwich House Pottery, where children, teens, and adults come together to explore creativity through clay. An accomplished ceramic artist and educator, she has taught ceramics, drawing, and professional practices at Queens College, SUNY Cortland, Marymount Manhattan College, Penn State, Alfred University, 92Y, and Clay Art Center. Caitlin earned a BFA from the Hartford Art School and an MFA from the University of Nebraska–Lincoln, and is passionate about inspiring young makers.
Peridance Center
Nikki Holck, Managing Director and Director of the School at Peridance
Nikki Holck is a dance artist, educator, and director from Honolulu, Hawaii. She studied at the North Carolina School of the Arts and graduated from Canada’s National Ballet School. As a professional dancer, she worked with the National Ballet of Canada and toured with various productions across Europe and Asia. Nikki has been the Managing Director of Peridance Center since 2020 and has been a leading force in the organization since 2010.
Greenwich House Music School
Rachel Black, Director
Rachel Black is a dynamic leader in the arts, serving as Director of Greenwich House Music School (GHMS) since 2013. At GHMS, a historic Greenwich Village institution offering music, art, theater, and ballet lessons and classes, Rachel co-founded the Uncharted concert series, launched the Healing HeArts drama therapy program, and actively collaborates with NYC public schools and community organizations to expand arts access.
Play On! Studios
Lena Moy-Borgen, Executive Director
Lena Moy-Borgen has been teaching drama and music across the country since 1997. She was a teaching artist in every borough of NYC with Arts For All, where she served on the board for 16 years and wrote the curriculum for their flagship program “Literacy through the Arts.” She has taught at the Bank Street Summer Camp, the John Engeman Theater, and more. She is also an accomplished cabaret performer and mom to two kids.
New York City Ninja Academy
Madelyn
Scarpulla, Owner
Madelyn Scarpulla, a long-time music industry professional, made the bold decision to open her first ninja warrior training facility in 2019. Opening New York City Ninja Academy allowed her to combine business skills with a lifelong passion for athletics. Along with her accomplished team of coaches, she has created an elite ninja training program for all levels and a thriving, close-knit community of ninja families in New York City and Los Angeles.
TADA! Youth Theater
Christina Bixland, Director of Education
Christina is a passionate and experienced arts educator, administrator, and musical theater director who has dedicated her career to helping young people discover their creative power and find belonging through the arts. She brings to TADA! a spirit of joyful collaboration, deep experience in transformative youth programming, and an unwavering belief in the power of musical theater to connect, empower, and inspire.
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Education Skills To Develop Before Starting Preschool
By Emily lE vy
With summer winding down and fall up at bat, the reality that your child will be starting preschool may be sinking in. Much of preschool involves play and loads of fun, but arming your child with early academic foundations—in an engaging and enjoyable manner—can help set them up for preschool success. Try some of the ideas below.
Sorting Objects
Sorting objects is an important skill that will be tackled in preschool, so prepare your child with some sorting activities that you can practice at home. Purchase a bag of multicolored buttons, pom poms, or paper clips, and set out a six-cup muffin tray. Explain to your child that together you will practice putting all of the same color object into a single muffin cup. Make sure you model a few first. You should start by putting all the yellow buttons in one cup, blue ones in another, green in a third, and so forth. Then have them practice sorting on their own and praise them when they have successfully sorted all of the objects. Of course, as a bonus, this activity will reinforce color recognition.
Counting and Number Recognition
Counting and number recognition are also important early-learning skills. Strengthen these skills by integrating counting exercises into everyday life. For instance, if you are at the supermarket, ask your child to count the number of apples or oranges as you put them into a plastic bag. When you remove items from your shopping cart and load them onto the checkout belt, have your child count each one to work on one-to-one correspondence. Have them count the number of clothing items you put in the washing machine, papers you need to complete for work, keys you have on your key ring, and so on. To add some number recognition practice, try playing a “game” where you label individual cups 1-10, with one number on each cup. Ask your child
to go around your house and find one item to put in the “1” cup, two items to put in the “2” cup, and so on. The more fun and engaging you can make these activities, the better!
Letter Recognition
While your child will likely learn more about letters once the school year begins, you can give them a prelude with some fun letter recognition games. Purchase a bag of plastic or foam letters and put them in a bowl. Write out the alphabet on a sheet of construction paper, then point to a letter and ask your child to “scoop up” that letter using a ladle or spoon. You can also try using chocolates for another fun letter game. To play this game, write two sets of single letters on small white stickers (two A’s, two B’s, etc), then attach them to the bottom of Hershey Kisses or other chocolates. Together, you can play a game of Memory. First you flip over one chocolate and identify the letter, then flip over another chocolate and try to find the letter match. Your child goes next, then you, and so on. The first player to find the most letter matches wins!
Problem-solving
Problem-solving is a skill that will continue to play a role throughout your child’s academic career, so it’s helpful to start building this skill at a young age with some fun activities. Try playing “Guess the Item”
with your child, where you give them a set of clues and they need to try to identify the object. For instance, you might say, “I’m thinking of something that’s furry and has four legs and a tail,” and ask them to guess the object (dog) or “I’m thinking of something that’s long and thin, has an eraser at the top, and has a point at the end” and ask them to guess the object (pencil). If they struggle to guess the object, offer clues, like “you can write with it or sharpen it” for a pencil, or “it often wags its tail or drinks water out of a bowl” for dog.
Following Directions
Your child will need to follow a lot of directions once they start preschool so try some exercises at home to improve this skill. You can play the traditional “Red Light, Green Light” game with them, but with an added twist. Like the classic game, green means go and red means stop, but try throwing in some additional colors for added following directions practice. You may say that blue means bark like a dog, white means scratch his head, and pink means hop on one leg. Throwing in some of these other colors as directives will teach your child to listen carefully and follow the directions appropriately. Simon Says is another fun game you can play to build this skill. Your child must listen to the “commands” and follow the directions accordingly.
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Preschools & Montessori Schools
Choosing a preschool is one of the first big milestones in your parenting journey, and it’s a meaningful one. For many, it’s where your child begins to explore the world beyond home on their own, make new friends, and hopefully, start building the foundation for a lifelong love of learning. Preschools across New York offer more than finger painting and storytime (though there’s plenty of that, too!). They mix creativity, structure, and play-based learning to help kids grow socially, emotionally, and intellectually. The right school eases the transition to kindergarten and gives parents peace of mind. We’ve rounded up standout preschools near you to help find the perfect fit for your family.
Columbus Pre-School
606 Columbus Ave., Upper West Side 212-721-0090, admin@columbuspre-school.com columbuspre-school.com
At Columbus Pre-School, the classrooms, gymnastics studio, and outdoor spaces are filled with laughter, learning, and friendship. Children are valued and respected as the creative, insightful, and curious individuals they are. Teachers act as researchers of their play, carefully listening and observing the children to discover their interests. They then reflect and build thoughtful curricula, exposing their students to a plethora of materials and exciting provocations. Through handson, multidisciplinary experiences, Columbus students develop strong cognitive skills and learn how to be kind, collaborative friends, confident problem solvers, and flexible thinkers. Along with strong parental partnerships, Columbus Pre-School students grow into joyful lifelong learners with the tools they need to thrive in all developmental areas.
Battery Park Montessori 21 South End Ave., Battery Park City 212-235-2320, admissions@greenivy.com batteryparkmontessori.com
Battery Park Montessori is New York City’s only trilingual Montessori school, offering immersive Spanish and Mandarin language learning for children from Nursery Ones through Kindergarten. Nestled along the waterfront in Battery Park City, its bright, airy classrooms are filled with natural light, open space, and opportunities to explore. Guided by the Montessori philosophy, the school nurtures independence, curiosity, and a lifelong love of learning—empowering children to think for themselves, follow their interests, and care for their community. Each day, students engage in purposeful, hands-on experiences that build confidence, creativity, and respect for others. Families and educators work in close partnership, creating a warm, supportive environment where every child feels valued and understood. At Battery Park Montessori, learning is joyful, discovery is celebrated, and possibilities are endless.
The École 206 Fifth Ave., Flatiron 646-766-1843, bonjour@theecole.org theecole.org
Nestled in the heart of Manhattan’s Flatiron District, The École stands out as a nurturing, innovative, and international independent school committed to bilingual and bicultural excellence. Guided by its mission statement—WE CARE—The École blends the best of French and American education to foster intellectual curiosity, emotional intelligence, and global citizenship in students from pre-nursery through 8th grade. The school’s Flatiron campus includes the Maternelle Building at 206 Fifth Avenue for pre-nursery through kindergarten and the elementary and middle school building at 115 East 22nd Street for 1st though 8th grade.At The École, students are more than bilingual— they are bi-literate, culturally agile, and inspired to lead with care and confidence in an ever-changing world.
German International School New York 50 Partridge Road, White Plains 914-948-6513, admissions@gisny.org gisny.org
As an independent, bilingual pre-K through grade 12 college preparatory school, GISNY provides an exceptional, future-focused education. Rooted in a German-inspired, internationally minded approach, GISNY fosters curiosity, creativity, and critical thinking while building a strong bilingual foundation in German and English. Students are encouraged to experiment, collaborate, and innovate in a supportive, academically rigorous environment. The close-knit GISNY community feels like an extended family, nurturing both mind and heart. White Plains’s beautiful campus offers wide-open green spaces for outdoor learning, play, and exploration. Join them for an open house to learn more about their programs and campus. Experience the warm, nurturing environment of GISNY’s pre-K and kindergarten programs, and explore their bright, spacious classrooms.
Kennedy International School
225 East 43rd St., Midtown East 212-681-1877, admissions@kennedyinternational.org kennedyinternational.org
Kennedy International School, located in Midtown Manhattan near Grand Central Station and the United Nations, fosters a close-knit, diverse international community. They offer two bilingual programs: French-English (Pre-K 3 to 12th grade) and Japanese-English (Pre-K 3 to Kindergarten), providing rigorous, individualized education in a nurturing environment. Small class sizes and dedicated teachers ensure students reach their full potential. Their 50/50 language immersion empowers students to become culturally competent global citizens and lifelong learners. For 11th and 12th graders, the IB Programme offers French and/or English tracks, opening doors to top universities worldwide.
The Gillen Brewer School
410 E. 92nd St., Upper East Side 212-831-3667, admissions@gillenbrewer.com www.gillenbrewer.com
Gillen Brewer’s Preschool program incorporates the most effective methods in special education to support children in developing foundational skills within their language, social/emotional, physical, and academic development to set them up for continued growth and success at a crucial time in their development. Designed for children ages 3 to 5, the program uses research-based curricula and features a weekly schedule that includes music, art, and science classes. Students enjoy daily time on our rooftop play space. With a collaborative team of teachers, speech therapists, OTs, and counselors, GBS provides integrated instruction and support in a warm, vibrant setting. Together with families, we help children build confidence, curiosity, and independence—empowering them to take meaningful steps forward.
L’Alliance Preschool
22 East 60th St., Upper East Side 212-355-6100, preschool@lallianceny.org lallianceny.org/preschool-manhattan L’Alliance Preschool is a French immersion program for toddlers ages 2.5 to 5, founded in 2012 in Manhattan. It aims to foster a multicultural exploration of curiosity while providing engaging French instruction. The Preschool’s mission is to create a joyful, energetic introduction to school life, incorporating the best French and American teaching methods in a diverse environment. The goal is to help children become independent, inquisitive, and open to new experiences. Through age-appropriate activities and group play, L’Alliance Preschool connects learning with excitement and a sense of community, ensuring that children develop a love for language and exploration as they embark on their educational journey.
Lycée Francais de New York
505 East 75th St., Upper East Side 212-369-1400
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La joie means joy in French—joy in learning and growing—at one of New York’s most renowned bilingual French schools. In Nursery, children are fully immersed in French, building a firm foundation for learning that sets the Lycée’s program apart—accelerating language acquisition and laying the groundwork for confident bilingualism in the coming years. Pre-K and Kindergarten classes are taught in both French and English by a team of caring, collaborative teachers. A structured, play-based curriculum nurtures early reading, writing, and math skills, along with creativity through art, music, and movement— with plenty of time for play. No prior French is needed to enter Nursery and PreK—just curiosity, creativity, and an open heart. À bientôt!
NY Kids Club
Multiple Locations Throughout NYC nykidsclub.com
At NY Preschool & Kids Club, children develop a lifelong love of learning in a nurturing, engaging environment. Their new, outcomes-driven Tools of the Mind curriculum uses intentional play to strengthen emotional regulation, executive function, and problemsolving skills. Each activity is thoughtfully designed to build emotional, social, and academic readiness while encouraging curiosity and creativity. The program ensures children are well-prepared for kindergarten and helps shape their early identities as confident, joyful learners. Families value the combination of innovative teaching methods and a supportive community that inspires children to thrive. Limited spaces remain for the 2025-26 school year, offering an exceptional opportunity to begin a child’s educational journey. Learn more about enrollment and programs today.
The Montessori School of New York International
347 East 55th St., Sutton Place 212-223-4630, info@montessorischoolny.com montessorischoolny.com
In lovingly and thoughtfully prepared environments, children explore all academic dimensions at their own pace and interest level, helping them grow in self-esteem and independence. Classes are equipped with a full complement of didactic Montessori materials that encourage the absorption of concepts through play, leading them to become wellrounded, confident citizens of the world. Science, Music, Foreign Language, Musical Theatre, Swimming, Dance, Yoga, and Chess are part of the program as well. Children usually do extremely well academically and are prepared for admission to gifted and competitive programs. A unique Summer Camp, staffed by the school’s year-round teachers, offers a balance of continued learning with outdoor activities, ranging from educational theme-based field trips to group sports activities!
Pine Street School
25 Pine St., Financial District 212-235-2325, admissions@greenivy.com pinestreetschool.com
At Pine Street School, learning is joyful, personal, and full of possibility. Nestled in the heart of Lower Manhattan, the school welcomes students from Nursery Ones through Grade 8 into a vibrant International Baccalaureate World School community where every child is truly known. Immersive Spanish or Mandarin programs begin in Nursery, with German introduced in Middle School, offering students the gift of multilingual learning. Paired with the IB curriculum, this approach sparks curiosity, inspires creativity, and builds the confidence to take on new challenges. Children are encouraged to ask big questions, explore their passions, and see themselves as capable changemakers. Families and educators partner closely to nurture each child’s unique path, supporting academic growth and social and emotional well-being.
Playgarden Prep
95 Franklin St., Tribeca 212-965-9717, info@playgardennyc.com playgardennyc.com/tribeca
Playgarden Prep has been Tribeca’s premier Preschool and Early Education Center since 2008, with a mission to inspire each student’s early love of learning. Parents and children ages 12 months to 4 years love Playgarden’s Whole-Child approach, emphasizing STEM, Language, Literacy, and Social-Emotional Development. Through a partnership with Downtown Kids Therapy, Playgarden has an inclusive classroom environment designed to support all kinds of learners. Playgarden’s school programs offer flexible scheduling, with drop-off options as early as 8:00 am and extended day care until 5:30 pm. In addition to their robust curriculum, Playgarden now offers bilingual programming in Spanish and French. Certified teachers will help navigate families through the ex-missions process for a smooth transition into kindergarten.
Twin Parks Montessori Schools
1 West 91 St. at CPW, Upper West Side 202 Riverside Dr. at 89 St., Upper West Side 435 Central Park West at 103 St., Upper West Side 212-595-2000, admissions@twinparks.org twinparks.org
Pusteblume International Preschool 244 West 14th St.. West Village 212-206-1137, info@pusteblumenyc.org pusteblumenyc.org
Offering immersive environments in German, Spanish, or a dual weekly immersion model, Pusteblume serves children ages 2 through 5. The curriculum, led by native-speaking faculty, seamlessly weaves language learning into music, movement, literacy, science, math, and visual arts—all set within a sun-filled, spacious facility. This total immersion fosters genuine fluency, laying a strong linguistic foundation that benefits academic success and cognitive development. Understanding modern family dynamics, Pusteblume designed a flexible model supporting fullday, morning, or part-time attendance, including extended-care options. Rolling enrollment further accommodates diverse needs, reflecting a deep awareness of today’s working and stay-at-home families. Beyond its core preschool program, Pusteblume offers enrichment classes for preschoolers and school-age children open to students from other schools.
Zeta Charter Schools
Zeta Bronx Tremont Park Lower Elementary School, 1910 Arthur Ave., Bronx
Zeta Bronx Mount Eden Early Childhood School, 1325 Jerome Ave., Bronx
Zeta Inwood Elementary School, 401 West 218th St., Inwood zetaschools.org
Twin Parks Montessori Schools welcome children ages 3 months to 6 years at three Upper West Side campuses. Families can choose from half-day or full-day programs, offered 2, 3, or 5 days per week. The schools follow a classic Montessori curriculum, accredited by the American Montessori Society (AMS), blending childled exploration with teacher-guided activities. Daily outdoor time, art, music, and strong parent communication enrich the experience. This well-rounded approach ensures children gain independence, confidence, and academic readiness, preparing them for success in both public and independent schools. Parents are invited to attend virtual or in-person admission events to learn more about the program and discover the nurturing, stimulating environments that support early learning and development at Twin Parks.
Zeta Charter Schools offers a free, world-class education centered on the whole child. Its play-based pre-K program inspires learning, sparks creativity, and builds social skills, while music, art, yoga, and theater classes nurture children’s passions. With small class sizes led by two dedicated teachers, students benefit from personalized learning that helps them grow.
As the largest pre-K provider in NYC, Zeta’s program lays a strong foundation in reading, thinking, and executive functioning through fun and engaging lessons tailored to young learners. Zeta schools grow by one grade each year to eventually serve pre-K through 12th grade. Apply for 2025–26 today at zetaschools.org.
Boarding SchoolS
If you’re exploring school options beyond the traditional public, private, or charter school route, boarding schools in or near New York are definitely worth a closer look. These schools offer structured learning environments, built-in academic support, and a strong sense of community, all in one place to help your child blossom. Many also provide top-notch extracurriculars, college prep, and opportunities to foster leadership and confidence. Maybe you’re looking for a stronger academic fit, a little more structure, or just more support and resources. For many students and parents, boarding schools can be a solid all-around option. After all, the right school can provide the structure and support your child needs to thrive, now and in the future. Here are some excellent programs to consider.
Bard Academy & Simon’s Rock at Bard College 30 Seminary drive, Barrytown, nY 413-644-4400, admit@simons-rock.edu bardacademy.simons-rock.edu
Bard Academy and Simon’s Rock at Bard College are designed for students ready to enter college early. Complete ninth and tenth grade at Bard Academy, then start college early at Simon’s Rock to earn an A.A. degree, then matriculate to Bard College to earn a B.A. degree. Bard Academy and Simon’s Rock have relocated to a new campus adjacent to Bard College in Barrytown, NY. Bard Academy and Simon’s Rock offer a curriculum in the liberal arts and sciences, taught by supportive, highly trained faculty who are leading scholars in their field. Simon’s Rock is committed to the pillars of innovative early college education that have formed the foundation of the Simon’s Rock experience for over 50 years.
EF Academy 582 columbus ave, Thornwood, nY
914-495-6056 efacademy.org
At a modern, private day and boarding high school in Westchester County, students join a dynamic and diverse community representing over 60 nationalities. EF Academy offers the prestigious IB Diploma Program, preparing students for global academic excellence. Each student is supported in crafting their unique path to higher education with personalized, one-to-one university guidance. For those seeking flexibility, the school provides a unique 5-day boarding program, combining the benefits of residential life with the comforts of home on weekends. Here, students are not just educated—they are empowered to thrive in the real world.
Harrow International School New York 500 Montauk Highway 631-869-1572, admissions@harrownewyork.com harrownewyork.com
Ross School 18 Goodfriend Drive, East Hampton 631-907-5400
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Harrow International School New York, situated on its extraordinary 170-acre Long Island waterfront campus between NYC and the Hamptons, offers a prestigious boarding and day school for grades 6-12. Rooted in 450-year-old British traditions, it provides the IB MYP and IB DP, blending rigorous academics with realworld readiness. Flexible options include 5-day boarding with weekend returns, 7-day boarding, or day school. Advanced facilities such as science labs, arts centers, and athletic fields support a holistic approach to development. Small class sizes ensure personalized attention, while a strong pastoral care system fosters leadership, confidence, and character. With a global student body and a values-driven community, Harrow New York nurtures well-rounded, future-ready individuals. Learn more at harrownewyork.com. bardacademy.simons-rock.edu
Ross School’s mission is to change how education meets the future; foster interdisciplinary, integrated thinking and innovative leadership; engage fully in the global community; and facilitate lifelong learning. Ross School is a co-educational boarding (grades 7–12, postgraduate) and day school (preschool – 12th grade, postgraduate) located on two beautiful campuses in East Hampton and Bridgehampton, New York, about two hours east of New York City. Serving approximately 320 students and attracting a world-class faculty, the School offers a global, integrated curriculum with engaging courses in science, math, arts, humanities, and wellness, with opportunities for independent study, competitive athletics, extracurricular activities, and travel. The school stresses direct personal experiences, inquiry through primary sources, and hands-on interpretation and analysis of information. Ross School has a successful college placement program, with 100% of applicants receiving acceptances at competitive colleges and universities.
Fun Joanie Leeds Releases a Love Letter to her Bubby
By Shara Levine
You may have sent your grandmother flowers or a heartfelt card for her birthday, but New York City-based Grammy Award winner Joanie Leeds wrote and recorded an entire album, “Ageless: 100 Years Young,” in time for her Bubby’s milestone 100th birthday.
“Ageless” is Joanie’s 12th children’s studio album. It is inspired by her grandmother, Sylvia Furshman Nusinov, with tunes that will encourage listeners to, just like Bubby, face the world with optimism, be curious, ask questions, and enjoy your favorite sweets! Adding even more nachas (Yiddish for “pride”), Joanie’s 10-year-old daughter, Joya, is heavily featured on the album, including on the song “A, You’re Adorable,” where she sings a remake of the Perry Como and The Fontane Sisters classic as an ode to Sylvia and her husband Sam’s 74-year-long marriage.
Although all of Joanie’s albums are personal and make important topics accessible through her music on records such as “Freadom: Songs Inspired by Banned Children’s Books” and “All the Ladies,” “Ageless: 100 Years Young,” is “a piece of art that will live on in my family for generations to come,” Joanie shares.
Joanie was inspired to write Ageless while performing at a show in South Florida a few years ago. She interviewed her grandmother in hopes of learning more about her life to be able to write this special album.
“It’s funny because, as a songwriter, there is a time before the songs are written when it’s simply an idea, and then everything after. Consumers only hear the finished product, but sometimes the process is even more fun. As a songwriter who loves a theme, I was fixated on how to tell her story properly. It was meaningful to research and learn more about Bubby in the process through letters, pictures, and storytelling!” says Joanie.
The opening track, “Don’t Worry,” is one of Bubby’s favorites on the album and is based on one of her famous lines: “Never
worry worry till worry worries you.” The song reminds little listeners (and grown-ups, too!) to let go of anxieties and be in the moment, weaving in additional quotes from Oprah and Jon Kabat-Zinn.
We learn even more about Bubby on “Genealogy,” a powerful song following Sylvia’s quest to find relatives lost during the Holocaust. Featuring Michael Napolitano on percussion, we learn the lengths she had to go through to find surviving members of her family on this folk-rock tribute. Joanie’s poetic chorus includes the line “leaves and branches roots that make me,” driving home the importance of knowing where we come from. Through the song, we also learn that Syvia’s search led her to write a genealogical workbook to help other people find their roots through research techniques she applied herself.
If you don’t call your grandmother “Bubby,” that’s okay! I’m sure whatever you call her is included on the track, “Bubby,”
which ticks off the myriad ways we refer to our grandmothers across different cultures worldwide. This song will have your little ones dancing around the living room while they’re reminded of these special bonds no matter if they are grandma , abuela , or yaya !
“Ageless: 100 Years Young,” was released last month, just in time for Grandparents’ Day on September 7. The album is full of sweet, sentimental tunes you’ll want to share with your children and their grandmothers. The message of love and family shines through in each track, making it a must-add to your music collection. Learn more about Joanie’s other albums and tour dates by visiting joanieleeds.com and following @joanieleeds on Instagram.
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Fighting for NY Families
Governor Kathy Hochul offers an exclusive on school cell phone bans, child tax credits, and other family-first initiatives
By Náosha GreGG
New York State Gov. Kathy Hochul is a woman who wears many hats. When she’s not rolling out free community college for New Yorkers 25 and older while wearing her famed Chuck Taylor Converse sneakers, she’s enjoying a ferry boat ride with breathtaking views of the city she loves. Over the past year, Governor Hochul has implemented numerous bills and programs aimed at supporting New York families. Ahead, Hochul gets candid about the positive changes she’s determined to make for New York families — from cell phone bans in schools to child tax credits that would put money back in parents’ pockets.
Q: You recently banned cell phone use in all New York schools. Can you tell us more about that decision?
A: The decision came about after a journey I set forth on, and that was to try to figure out what was happening to our young people. I saw that there was a rise in cell phone use over the last decade in schools, and that coincided with the increase in addictive algorithms that were bombarding our children. They’re so anxiety-driven by this fear of missing out, and even during the school day, students are not listening to their teachers, and children are not absorbing information. I did round tables from the north country way on the Canadian border, all the way to Long Island, Western New York, and New York City. I heard the same thing. I convened schools, superintendents, principals, teachers, parents, and students. I listened to teenage girls in one high school describing the enormous pressure of being bullied, and I realized, you know what? We have to do something. And one young woman told me, “You’ve gotta save us from ourselves. We can’t put these down.”
Q: What outcome do you hope to achieve from the ban?
A: I’m energized by this. Two years ago, I
“i will continue fighting for our families because i ’ve lived that experience.”
was at a school that decided to go distractionfree. Cell phones had to be locked up in a yonder pouch at the beginning of the day; there were set ways for parents to reach their children during the day if needed. If there’s an emergency, kids could reach their parents, but not on a digital device. That school was fascinating. The results and academic outcomes were already improving. The teenagers I spoke to said they have friends in person, and there’s noise in the hallways. They’re talking to each other at lunchtime, and they feel so much more liberated. They feel like kids again.
I know what we’re going to do here is going to be profound. There will be some challenges because change is hard, but we’re breaking an addiction. I’m working with parents and telling them to start winding the kids down this summer, have cell phone-free days in their home, and get them acclimated to the idea.
For two years, we’ve been promoting “Get Offline, Get Outside” and investing in swimming pools, summer youth programs, and community centers, as well as promoting our parks and outdoor life. We’re letting the kids know there’s a whole other world outside, sitting in their bedroom all summer long and staring at their cell phone.”
Q: The ban is part of a larger initiative to address mental health in teenagers. What impact does screen time have on our kids, and what signs should parents look for?
A: The mental health of our kids is far worse than when I was growing up or even when my kids were growing up. We are getting higher than expected rates of suicide, suicidal
thoughts, depression, and anxiety — even from very young ages. I was in an elementary school, and the nurse told me that they have very young children, even from first grade, who are starting to need healthcare services. We cannot let this happen. Protecting our kids’ mental health is everything to me because I’ve seen how hard it is on my nieces and nephews, family members, and friends. I know how bad it has been for our kids, and it has to stop.
Q: You recently proposed a child tax credit to help ease the financial burden on New Yorkers. Why was this such an important bill for you to pass?
A: Affordability is one of my top priorities. When I put together my State of the State address in January, I leaned hard into my strong message: ‘your family is my fight.’
I understand the stress families, especially young parents, are going through. I lived through that. I lived at a time when I couldn’t find child care. My babies were born, and I had to leave my job. My husband was working for the government, so our income went down by half, and we struggled. I went to the store trying to buy discount diapers and formula, my hand clutching coupons, hoping that we could get through another week. It was hard on us. I know what it was like to sacrifice.
Parents today are seeing kids outgrow everything so fast, so I said, ‘How can I take off some of that stress on young families?’ When I first became governor, we didn’t have a child tax credit for children under age 4. As a mom, that is one of the most expensive times in their lives. They outgrow everything so fast, and they’re not eating regular food; everything is expensive. So we decided to give $1,000 to every family with children under age four, and $500 for children ages 5 through 16. That’s money back in families’ pockets.
Another part of our affordability agenda is an inflation rebate. I walked through Target’s back-to-school shopping last year, but this year, I see moms comparing prices on everything, from sneakers and backpacks to clothes.
It is hard. So $400 back for families making less than $150,000 is to help them pay for those back-to-school products their kids need.
Some people just can’t get ahead, and I will continue fighting for our families because I’ve lived that experience.
Q: What other support systems are out there for New Yorkers who may be struggling financially?
A: Another big driver of costs of living is utility bills, so we have programs to help cover the costs of utility bills for families. For people who want to change their circumstances, better themselves, and be able to support their families more fully by getting an education, we’re covering the full cost of community college tuition for ages 25 to 55. I’m building more affordable housing to help open up opportunities for more people to have a safe roof over their heads. We have more to do, but I have been to projects from Gowanus up to Buffalo, and when I see a family a formerly
unhoused mom with her teenage kids opening up the door for the first time and hand them the key, the look on their face is just beautiful. We’re trying to hit all those pressure points.
Q: You recently announced a $300 million healthcare fund for New Yorkers. What kind of health concerns are you hoping to address?
A: Our hospitals and community health providers are the first places people go when they don’t have a primary care doctor. Every person has the right to healthcare. We’re making these investments to build up the infrastructure and cover those costs for our healthcare institutions.
At the same time, we have the Trump administration cutting Medicaid, which is going to devastate so many hospitals statewide. That’s what we’re fighting against healthcare workers losing their jobs and people having to survive without guaranteed healthcare.
That’s scary for a parent. Your child getting sick is your worst nightmare. This money will help stabilize our healthcare institutions and make sure they’re there when people need them.
Q: What can New York families expect from the Hochul administration for the remainder of this year and next?
A: Well, we’ll save that as a surprise for our next State of the State. We’re developing it now, but I assure you that public safety and affordability will continue to be the drivers of that. We’re not done yet. Families are still struggling, and that is my mission as someone who, again, can relate.
Specifically, I know how expensive childcare is, especially because of my own upbringing and my early years as a mom and a grandma. We’ve talked about universal childcare. We’ll be hearing more details about that and how it is going to play out. It’s critically important to give a lifeline to our parents.
Photos courtesy of the Office of Governor Kathy Hochul
There Is No One Right Way to Give Birth
OB/GYN Dr. Jessica Vernon’s new book tries to relieve the pressure
If you’ve ever made a birth plan — or even just scrolled through birth stories on social media — you know how easy it is to feel like there’s a “right” way to give birth.
In this honest and deeply reassuring excerpt from her new book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation about Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood , OB/GYN (and New York mom of two!) Dr. Jessica Vernon reminds us that birth doesn’t always go according to plan — and that’s okay. She shares real talk from her years of working with families, plus a bit of her own story, to help expecting parents feel more prepared, more supported, and less pressured to have the “perfect” birth.
Whether you’re a first-time parent or just need a gentle reminder, Dr. Jessica Vernon’s message is one we all need to hear: there’s no one right way to give birth.
Ionce heard a hospital consultant say that labor and delivery is a cross between a wedding and an emergency room. Just like on a wedding day, you might have a vision for how things will go in a perfect, idealized state, but often things do not go according to plan. It can be disappointing if you are not prepared for all of the possible ways and reasons your birth experience may not reflect what you envisioned. The truth is this: there’s no right way to give birth; there are only preferences. If you do make a birth plan, make a plan that is flexible and give yourself compassion when things don’t go as planned. Sometimes this means small changes, such as birth parents deciding they want an epidural, or big changes, such as needing an emergency C-section. I have seen many birth parents so set on accomplishing their ideal birth goals that when things do not go according to plan, they feel like failures as parents and as people
whose bodies are supposed to “intuitively know what to do.” I always try to help my patients truly believe that every birth is sacred in its own right, no matter how it happens. The goal is a safe and healthy baby and birth parent.
Birth experiences are often shared and publicized across social media. In the best cases, this celebration of birth has helped many women overcome their fears and feel empowered. But it can also lead to a greater sense of judgment and loneliness if you feel your birth experience differs from what you see online. There are images all over social media of women having unmedicated home births, often referred to as “natural births,” as if giving birth any other way is not natural. These birth stories are wonderful, but they are only one type of birth story. The idealized images run the risk of making you feel that if you are unable to achieve an
unmedicated birth or even a vaginal birth, you are a failure.
The truth is that all births can be empowering and beautiful. I was extremely humbled during labor with my first daughter. I had such intense back pain with my contractions that I asked for pain medication when I was only two centimeters dilated. I definitely felt that I must be weak because I could not tolerate the contractions when I was not even in active labor. I never did get into active labor and I share more of my birth story later—however, I will say I was extremely grateful for morphine sedation and my epidural, even though my initial goal (due mostly to the fact that I wanted to prove myself capable in a society where this was idealized, not because it was actually a personal imperative) was to have an unmedicated birth.
I often see patients who come into the
office or to labor and delivery with very detailed birth plans. It’s hard to articulate to someone I have just met that although I’ll try my best to do everything the way they envision, expectations often don’t meet reality. I don’t want to come across as one of those doctors who will move quickly toward interventions, effectively taking away the birth person’s autonomy, so unless I have already gained the patient’s trust, I do not voice everything that I am thinking. So here it is, unfiltered and honest: there is a good chance your labor and birth will not go exactly as you have envisioned. That doesn’t mean it can’t be good.
Birth Plans Are Really Birth Preferences
Birth plans, which I prefer to call “birth preferences” or “birth wishes,” are comprehensive documents stating how the birth par-
“Create a birth plan that leaves room for flexibility and surprises, rank the importance of the elements of your birth plan, and give yourself compassion when things don’t go as planned.”
ent prefers to give birth. There are countless examples of birth plans online, and your care provider or hospital may also have sample documents for you to use. The amount of detail and focus on specific areas of the experience varies among different birth plans. I do not have a particular birth plan template that I love, so I recommend looking at a few to familiarize yourself with them and then asking your provider about any language in the plan that you do not understand. A patient once brought me a birth plan and had checked all of the aspects that she had heard an influencer on Instagram say she should check, including a lotus birth, which neither of us even understood. When I Googled it, I saw that it meant keeping the placenta attached to the baby for weeks after birth until the umbilical cord shriveled and detached. Once I explained this to the patient, she immediately told me she definitely did not want that and would prefer to go home with her baby without the afterbirth in tow.
All birth plans include details regarding the ambiance while laboring and giving birth, such as who will be in the room, how you prefer the birthing environment, if you want pain control during labor and birth, what type of labor augmentation and interventions you are okay with and which you want to avoid, immediate care of your baby after birth, and whether or not you would like to breastfeed/chestfeed. Birth plans are wonderful in that they can empower you to think about your goals and priorities, as well as decrease your anxiety around your birth experience before it happens. It can help the care team to provide person-centered care.
However, they can also lead to expectations that often do not match reality. Just remember that ultimately there’s no right way to give birth, and there is no way to completely control your birth process, so create a birth plan that leaves room for flexibility and surprises, rank the importance of the elements of your birth plan, and give yourself compassion
when things don’t go as planned.
Although it’s wonderful to have an idea about how you want to birth your baby, the perfect birth cannot be planned. Plus, there are many circumstances under which your goals and preferences may change. Being too rigid in your plans makes it harder for you to negotiate these changes with yourself and your support team. Incorporate some flexibility in your birth plan to allow for the unknown. And develop self-compassion around your body and your birth so that if things go off course, you do not see it as a failure.
Dr. Jessica Vernon, MD, PMH-C, is a BoardCertified OB/GYN who has cared for and supported thousands of people throughout their reproductive journeys over the past 15 years. She is the associate medical director and director of mental health at Oula, a midwifery-based women’s health startup in New York City. As a mom of two, she brings her lived experience with the transition to parenthood to her work. She has a deep passion for providing holistic, people-centered, culturally humble care and has developed programs to increase access to perinatal mental health care and improve health equity. She has received professional recognition and has been quoted in the media for both her work and expertise in the field, as well as her openness in sharing her own story. She also serves on the board of directors for Postpartum Support International. Then Comes Baby is her first book. Find her online at drjessicavernon.com and on Instagram @dr.jessicavernon
WHERE: Broadway Comedy Club, 318 West 53rd St., Midtown
AGES: 12 and younger
WHAT: No two shows are alike because this interactive musical comedy is improvised based on the suggestions and participation of you, the audience!
WANT TO GO?: $25. 212-5686560. improv4kids.com
Table of Silence Project 9/11
WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 11, 8:10 am
WHERE: Lincoln Center, Josie Robertson Plaza, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side
AGES: All
WHAT: This annual performance commemorates the loss of life and honors the bravery of those affected by acts of terror, war, and oppression of freedom.
WANT TO GO?: Free. lincolncenter.org
The Feast of San Gennaro
WHEN: Sept. 11-21, Daily. See website for complete schedule.
WHERE: Mulberry St., Little Italy
AGES: All
WHAT: This iconic event stretches throughout 11 blocks of the Little Italy neighborhood, celebrating Italian culture and traditions.
WANT TO GO?: Free. sangennaronyc.org
Sabor on the Street! Celebración Latina: Family Day Block Party
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 14, 12 – 4:30 pm
WHERE: Ballet Hispánico, 167 West 89th St., Upper West Side
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy performances and dance classes, surprise giveaways, special offers, food trucks, live music, familyfriendly art activities, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. ballethispanico.org
Downtown Rosh Hashanah Palooza
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 14, 10 am – 12 pm
WHERE: Hebrew Union College, 1 West 4th St., East Village
AGES: 8 and younger
WHAT: Get in the sweet spirit of Rosh Hashanah with High Holiday-inspired games, activities, and a nosh.
WANT TO GO?: Free. centralsynagogue.org
56th Annual African American Day Parade
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 21,
12:30 – 6 pm
WHERE: 111th St. – 136th St. at Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd., Harlem
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate African American culture at this festive parade featuring marching bands, majestic floats, community organizations, celebrities, and more!
WHERE: National Museum of the American Indian, New York, One Bowling Green, Lower Manhattan
AGES: All
WHAT: Andean culture bearers, Sisa Pakari, will share their culture through performances of traditional dances and music from the Ecuadorean Andes.
WANT TO GO?: Free. americanindian.si.edu
Don’t Let The Pigeon Drive The Bus! The Musical!
WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 27, 11 am – 1 pm
WHERE: BMCC Tribeca
Sabor on the Street! Celebración Latina: Family Day Block Party
Performing Arts Center, 199 Chambers St., Tribeca
AGES: All
WHAT: See everyone’s favorite pigeon jump off the pages and onto the stage in this musical adaptation.
WANT TO GO?: $30-$40. tribecapac.org
Harvest Festival
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 28, 12 – 3 pm
WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, 20 Randalls Island Park, Randalls Island
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the fall harvest with pumpkin decorating, cooking demos, live performances, face painting, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 212-860–1899, randallsisland.org
BRONX
Ferragosto Festival in Bronx Little Italy
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 7, 12 – 6 pm
WHERE: Corner of Crescent Ave and Arthur Ave., Belmont AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Italian culture and delicious cuisine, like pizza, pasta, and pastries from local small businesses, and live music and entertainment.
WANT TO GO?: Free. ferragosto.com
Tim Burton’s The Nightmare Before Christmas Light Trail
WHEN: Sept. 25-Nov. 30, Wednesdays – Sundays, see
website for schedule
WHERE: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Jerome Park
AGES: All
WHAT: Join Jack Skellington, Sally, and Zero for a frightfully fun frolic through the world of the beloved film, now featuring even more of your favorite characters, scenes, and songs.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $33. 718-817–8700, thenightmarebeforechristmaslighttrail.com
WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Crotona AGES: All
WHAT: Follow an animalthemed illuminated Jack O’ Lantern Trail, explore Dinosaur Safari at night, and enjoy live pumpkin carving, Wildlife Theater, new games, and more.
WHAT: See performances by Ellie the Elephant, the Timeless Torches, and a special guest performer, along with food trucks, lawn games, face painting, and more.
WHAT: Young book lovers can expect an exciting lineup of authors, illustrators, performers, and activities, with favorite children’s and middlegrade authors and illustrators.
WHAT: Misty Copeland will read from her new picture book, Bunheads, Act 2: The Dance of Courage, take questions from the audience, and pose for pics with families.
WANT TO GO?: $15. 718-735–4400, brooklynkids.org
QUEENS
4th Annual Rockaway Dog Parade
WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 7, 2 – 4 pm
WHERE: Shorefront Dog Run, Shorefront Parkway and Beach 90th St., Far Rockaway
AGES: All ages
WHAT: Live entertainment, adoptable dogs, raffles, and a costume parade where pups will strut their stuff!
WANT TO GO?: $5. flipcause. com/secure/cause_pdetails/ MjMzMjgy
Jim Henson Birthday Celebration 2025
WHEN: Sept. 20-21, Saturday and Sunday, 11 am – 6 pm
WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria
AGES: 6 and older
WHAT: Commemorate
Muppets creator Jim Henson with a weekend of activities including special guests, a birthday sing-along, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $10–$20. 718777–6800, movingimage.org
42nd Annual Queens County Agricultural Fair
WHEN: Saturday and Sunday, Sept. 27- 28, 11 am – 6 pm
WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy., Floral Park
AGES: All
WHAT: Enjoy pie eating and corn husking contests, hayrides, carnival rides, midway games, live music, and more! WANT TO GO?: $10-$34. queensfarm.org
Don’t Let The Pigeon Drive The Bus! The Musical!
Harvest Festival at Randal’s Island Park.
Swim Safety for Children with Disabilities
The right lessons can save lives
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
When it comes to child safety, few topics are more urgent—or overlooked—than water safety. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), drowning is the leading cause of death for children ages 1 to 4, and the second leading cause of death for children ages 5 to 14. Often silent and shockingly fast, drowning can happen in seconds and in seemingly harmless places like bathtubs, backyard pools, lakes, fountains, and even buckets of water.
However, swim lessons can lower the risk of drowning by up to 88% for young kids. That makes early lessons and water safety one of the best ways parents can help keep their children safe. For families raising children with disabilities, swim safety can come with additional concerns. Lessons should be flexible and supportive, with programs that understand and adapt to each child’s unique needs.
We consulted Brittany Moog, a certified swim instructor and member of the U.S. Swim School Association, to talk about safety strategies, program options, and how parents can feel more confident near the water.
Why is swim safety important for all children, and how does that apply especially to children with disabilities?
Let’s be real: Kids and water go together like bubbles and bathtime. But while splashing is fun, safety always has to come first. For all children, knowing how to stay safe around water is a life skill, right up there with looking both ways before crossing the street.
For children with disabilities, that importance skyrockets. These kiddos may be more likely to wander, have a deep love for water, or simply process danger differently. That’s why we should treat swim lessons as more than just learning to swim; we’re building water superpowers that can literally save lives.
What should parents know about the water safety needs of children with disabilities?
Every child brings their own magic and their own needs to the water. Some may not understand when it’s safe to jump in, while others may not respond to verbal warnings. That’s where consistency, creativity and patience come in.
Parents can start by making water safety part of everyday life: Use stop/go visuals, practice waiting before entering the tub and/ or pool, and get everyone into a rhythm of predictable, repeatable routines. Water safety isn’t just a once-a-week class; it’s a mindset we help families bring into every puddle, pool, and beach day.
How can swim instruction be adapted to support children with a range of physical, cognitive, or sensory differences?
Every child deserves a swim lesson that feels just right for them. Ideally, instructors should get to know each swimmer and customize the lesson like it’s their favorite flavor of popsicle. Maybe it includes tactile prompts, visual cues, a favorite floaty toy or a calming song to set the tone.
If a child needs extra time to ease into the water, instructors should take it. If they communicate better through gestures or need a quieter space, they should adjust. Whether the child is learning to float, splash, or just feel calm in the water, instructors should move at the child’s pace, always aiming for progress over perfection.
What should parents look for when choosing a swim program that’s safe and supportive for children with disabilities?
Not all swim programs are created equal, especially when it comes to kids with disabilities. The gold standard? Instructors with training in adaptive swim methods and hearts as big as the pool.
Look for places that offer small group
or one-on-one lessons, have a calm and sensory-friendly environment, and (this one’s big!) actually listen to you about your child’s needs. You should feel like a partner in the process, not just a spectator.
Pro tip: bring a list of your child’s preferences, sensitivities, and swim goals, and don’t be afraid to ask, “Can I watch a class before we dive in?”
What tips do you have for parents to help their children stay safe around water outside of lessons, at home or on vacation?
Water safety doesn’t stop when the lesson ends; it’s a whole-family adventure! Here are a few of our favorite tips to help parents keep the water fun and safe:
Make it a routine: Use fun verbal cues like “Ready, set, splash!” to practice water boundaries at home.
Turn bath time into learning time: Let your child explore water movement, practice floating toys, or count to three before rinsing. Tiny lessons add up!
Muscle memory is your friend: Repetition is key. Practice how to enter and exit the pool, turn to float, or find the wall even without water.
Add layers of safety: Think door alarms, locked gates, and eyes-on supervision near any body of water.
Involve siblings: Turn them into safety sidekicks! Teaching everyone to look out for each other builds team spirit and responsibility.
With the right guidance, kids can grow up not just safe but strong, confident, and joyful in the water.
To find a reputable swim school in your area, or anywhere in the U.S., visit the United States Swim School Association. usswimschools.org.
