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14 Holiday Hacks to Make the Season Brighter 32 tips and tricks from local moms

10 Staff Page

12 Short & Sweet News | Notes | Tips

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Photo courtesy of Jaclynn Whitehead

26 December Calendar of Family Events

Winter wonderlands, holiday happenings and family fun

13 Column: Ask Ms. Lydia Should parents insist their kids hug other family members?

18 6 Reasons to Support Local Businesses Why it’s important to support San Diego this season 22 San Diego’s Map of Christmas Lights Use our famous map to plan an adventure!

24 Holiday Toy Guide Part two of our kid-tested toy round-up

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In the spirit of “supporting local” this holiday season, some of our staff share their favorite local artisans and businesses. Fabulous gift ideas!

Sharon Bay, publisher For several years I have made quilts for kids aging out of foster homes and for little ones in need. When I need fabric, I go to Rosie’s Calico Cupboard on El Cajon Blvd. Their staff is very helpful when selecting the right fabric for making beautiful handmade quilts (and they carry every color under the rainbow!).

Giovanni Baldan, marketing representative Holidays are all about food! I recently discovered Prager Brothers Artisan Bread in Carlsbad, which is very good, offering delicious varieties of sourdough, and other breads and sweets. www.pragerbrothers.com Seaside Market in Cardiff is absolutely awesome for their tri-tip, marinated and infused with Burgundy pepper.

It’s known as Cardiff Crack. www.seasidemarket.com

Lisa Gipson, managing editor I’m obsessed with the colorful stickers made by Katie Sabin of Just Add Sunshine (Escondido).

See her high-quality stickers (which make fun stocking stuffers!) at www.etsy.com/ shop/JustAddSunshineInc. I also love the gorgeous necklaces made by Michelle Irvine of Coronado: www.facebook.com/MichelleIrvineArtist.

Adrienne Sigeti, editorial assistant I like to buy treats as gifts that normally can’t be found at the grocery store. I love supporting locally owned small businesses such as Chuao Chocolatier in Carlsbad. Chuao has a ton of delicious flavor combinations for every kind of chocolate lover.

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Rik Thiesfeld, art director Taylor Guitars are high quality instruments made in El Cajon. They make a great gift for a first-time guitarist or an advanced player.

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Anne Malinoski, contributing writer If you’re looking for dreamy gifts from local artisans you absolutely can’t go wrong with Sugar Mamma’s small batch caramels (www.sugarmammacaramels.com/shop) or CeeCee & Bee’s Pacific Ocean Body Scrub (www.etsy.com/listing/171140936/pacificocean-body-scrub-sea-salt).

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Little wizards and Woo Hoo! We’re excited to muggles alike will announce that we received love The Unofficial 10 Excellence in Journalism Hogwarts for the Awards from San Diego Press Holidays Cookbook Club — seven for San Diego

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New this year, the cookie kit includes a PJ Library subscription card so that families raising children with Jewish values and traditions can register to receive a free monthly book (geared for ages 12 & under). Learn more in our Hanukkah Round-Up at www.sandiegofamily.com/ things-to-do/seasonal-happenings.

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been communicating with local residents and businesses who want to be included in the “map” — every year they provide us with updated information and dates.

We work really hard to make it as accurate as possible from year to year. Help us make everyone’s season brighter by sharing our updated 2020 map (please be sure to give us credit by tagging @ sandiegofamilymagazine on social media)!

Ask Ms. Lydia We will have extended family at our house during the holidays. My family is affectionate and freely gives hugs and kisses when we get together. I have always told my kids (boy, age 5 and girl, age 3), “Give Grandma and Grandpa a kiss” because that’s what I was taught.

But lately I’ve been thinking about something a friend said: She’s teaching her kids that people (even family) need to ask permission. Should I force my kids to show affection to grandparents (and other relatives) or should they ask my kids’ permission?

— Joanne in Escondido

Hi Joanne, This is a great question. I’m sure you’re not alone, thinking about this uncomfortable topic. This year of social distancing and elbow bumps might make it easier, but it’s still an important topic of discussion. First and foremost, children (even young ones) need to learn that they are the boss of their own bodies. Talk to your children first; how would they like to greet their grandparents? What feels comfortable—a hug, a kiss, a high five? Learning that they have a choice about what happens with their bodies at a young age gives kids the skills to stand up for themselves later in life. As parents, it’s our job to teach children they can make decisions about what feels comfortable.

“The rule of thumb is to never force or guilt a child into expressing physical affection if they are uncomfortable doing so,” says Pattie Fitzgerald, child safety advocate, children’s author and founder of Safely Ever After. “We want to teach kids that they have permission to listen to their instincts or their ‘uhoh’ feelings when it comes to physical affection.”

If your child says he prefers giving relatives a high five, Fitzgerald advises pre-planning so parents can avoid an awkward conversation in front of the child. Before they come over, say something like, “Bobby has been practicing being the boss of his own body and touches, so if he doesn’t want to hug you tomorrow, it’s not personal, he’s just practicing. Please be supportive and go along with it.” Phrasing it this way communicates that they can help Bobby “practice” by supporting his high-five greeting. Explain that teaching Bobby these skills helps him have confidence to stand up for himself with others, should the need arise. This may help ward off any hurt feelings— and it may not. Either way, support your child’s decision.

Some relatives may push the issue, so it’s important to advocate for your child. Have some scripted answers ready so you can respond appropriately and your child sees you’re supporting him and honoring his wishes. Put on a big smile and say, “We allow Bobby to make decisions about his own hugs and kisses. I am sure you understand.”

I hope this is helpful, Joanne. If you want to learn more about teaching children to be the boss of their own bodies, visit www.SafelyEverAfter.com.

All the best—and happy holidays!

Ms. Lydia v Lydia Smith has a degree in Developmental Psychology and was a preschool director/owner/teacher for 25 years. She is a mom of two adult sons.

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We asked local parents to share their tips and tricks for making the holiday season “brighter” (easier, more fun, meaningful, festive, organized, etc.). A big thank you to moms in Poway, San Marcos and Rancho Peñasquitos for all the responses we received on Facebook! Here are holiday hacks to make the season brighter.

HOLIDAY HACKS to Make the Season Brighter Gift Giving

Request gifts that won’t clutter the house, such as zoo memberships, meal prep services or magazine subscriptions.

Ask family members to submit their favorite recipes and make a cookbook. Consider adding family photos and stories. It will be a treasured gift for years to come.

Keep a spreadsheet of gifts: where purchased, how it’s wrapped (in case a label falls off), and which gathering it goes to (when there are multiple celebrations to attend). The spreadsheet can also be used to remember what you’ve given people in previous years.

To avoid going overboard with gifts for the kids, buy them something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read.

Use www.pirateship.com to print labels from home for free and save on shipping costs through USPS. Make mason jar cookie kits as gifts for neighbors and friends. Layer all dry ingredients in the jars; recipients only need to add eggs and butter, and bake. Don’t forget to include the recipe!

Anne Barrera made large themed felt envelopes with Santa’s mailing address on them; her kids write what they want for Christmas, put it inside, and an elf picks them up to deliver to Santa.

On Christmas Day some gifts are specially labeled, “certified” from The North Pole.

Wrapping and Decorating

Buy wrapping paper, gift bags, ornaments, etc. after Christmas (for the following year), so you don’t have to pay full price.

Use fishing wire to string up Christmas cards on the mantle—it looks so festive!

Use cup hooks to hang outdoor Christmas lights—little white ones that blend in if you have white wooden eaves on the front of your house. Leave the hooks up all year so lights are a cinch to hang each year.

Use cloth bags and flannel pillowcases tied with ribbons to wrap presents for kids. The cloth bags are reusable and make wrapping so fast (and quiet).

I take the Monday after Thanksgiving off work every year and decorate EVERYTHING. My kids come home to Christmas awesomeness and we enjoy hot cocoa in special cups. I really get into Christmas! — Emma Romberger

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Celebrate / Fun Stuff Growing up without much, I wanted to find a way to share the holiday spirit with my children that had nothing to do with tangible gifts, but sharing a sentiment that money couldn’t buy.

This was the beginning of our Christmas letter tradition. Each family member writes a letter to the others. Everyone can participate no matter the writing level (preschoolers draw pictures).

Before Christmas Eve, the letters are rolled up, tied with ribbon and placed in the tree. We take a quiet moment on Christmas Day to read them (sharing is optional). The letters have become treasures over the years. — Susan May

Looking for a place to drop off your child’s letter to Santa? Swing by the amazing Candy Land house at the corner of Mt. Albertine and Mt. Aguilar in Clairemont, where there’s a dedicated mailbox. Go to www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/seasonal-happenings to print out a free Santa letter template that kids can color, fill out and drop off.

Get 25 books from the library, wrap each one and put them under the Christmas tree. Each day in December kids get to unwrap one to read together. Hours of enjoyment for only the cost of wrapping paper!

Every year Santa brought my children a new Christmas book, so now we have a great collection. Santa always wrote a note inside the book and signed it.

Take the kids driving around different neighborhoods to look at lights, complete with fun snacks and warm drinks. Use Family Magazine’s Map of Christmas Lights to navigate your way around the county! www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/san-diego-sbest-map-of-christmas-lights

I made an advent calendar that I fill each year, alternating days between kids. They love waking up to get their present (even though they’re now teens). I try to limit myself to $2 per pocket, but will spend more if I find something I really like. Some of the items I’ve given are a Pokémon Pez dispenser, eye pillows, a pack of their favorite gum and hair ties. I also give each of them a meaningful ornament with their name and the year.

Last year we lived in South Africa, so one ornament had a lion on it and the other a rhino. Hopefully the kids will use these keepsakes to decorate their trees in years to come. — Kristy deLange

Put the Christmas tree inside a Pack ‘n Play if you have little ones!

It keeps the presents contained and curious hands off the tree.

Here’s a photo of ours last year.

— Jaclynn Whitehead

Make an advent calendar featuring silly or fun activities instead of treats: sing a Christmas carol, have a dance party in the kitchen, call a relative just to say “I love you”, etc. Sprinkling in a few surprise quarters or dollar bills is fun, too. — Jennifer Mulloy Learn how to make an advent calendar at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/crafts-for-kids (pictured on the left).

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We have embraced decorating store-bought cookies for Santa in hectic years. I’m grateful to the person who said years ago that Santa doesn’t want a ton of goodies because he and his reindeer eat at every house.

— Janice Lew Santos

Christmas Eve Traditions

We let the kids open a box of fun snacks and something to do together as a family on Christmas Eve (a movie, a puzzle, etc.).

Make a fabric “Santa bag” for each child to set by the tree for Santa to put gifts in after they go to sleep. It only takes a yard of festive fabric and a cord for a drawstring—so easy to sew! Bonus: No need to wrap Santa gifts and less wrapping paper in the landfill.

After candlelight service on Christmas Eve, the kids are allowed to open one gift each, which is always new pajamas, so we can take adorable pictures the next morning.

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Check out all the things busy mom and local teacher Alyssa Navapanich does to save time: • Accesses the family’s shared gift list in Google drive, which has everyone’s wish lists, sizes, favorite colors, interests, etc.

Make cinnamon rolls the night before to bake in the morning or make an egg casserole in the crockpot. Prep goes a long way to help have a stress-free morning.

Brittney Vier preps blueberry French toast casserole the night before, so on Christmas morning she just sticks it in the oven. “The house smells amazing and there is no cooking to be done. It’s so yummy!” Here’s the recipe, but she substitutes Challah bread and uses fresh blueberries. www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/ baked_blueberry_french_toast_ casserole

More Hacks

• Packs all stocking items in labeled bags to drop into stockings on Christmas Eve.

Making simple recipes helps when making cookie plates to give away, so you don’t have to bake all day. I love these four-ingredient vegan peanut butter cookies (make them festive with a chocolate star on top): www.cassclaycooking.com/4ingredient-vegan-peanut.../ — Cassie Bains

• Makes side dishes for dinner a few days ahead to simply put into the oven the day of.

• Keeps an address list for cards (already formatted for labels) that she updates as needed throughout the year.

• Maintains a shared recipe book in Google drive with all the family recipes, including (most importantly) the Christmas cookies.

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6 Reasons to Support San Diego this Holiday Season San Diego’s local businesses are the pride of our community. Now more than ever, they need our support, so make it a goal to buy local as you shop for gifts. Here are six reasons to remember your favorite local companies this holiday season.

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Many gifts won’t be given in person, so it’s doubly important they feel personal.

Celebrations have looked different this year and the holidays are no exception.

Once again, my family has scrapped traditions that simply won’t work in a pandemic. Namely, overburdening my mother’s sofas with far too many bodies

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while passing an endless procession of cookies, presents and cocoa—all while laughing heartily enough to fall into each other. Since we’ll be trading our large, close-knit gatherings for small, virtual ones, I’m counting on meaningful, local gifts to make this tradition feel special.

type that are relatively safe right now.

Embrace the power of these small connections! During a recent shopping trip, my son met a friendly retail associate who helped him find justthe-right-thing. She complimented his favorite shirt and listened to his stories.

He smiled the whole way home.

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Human interaction is so important.

Shopping locally provides an excellent opportunity for brief, physically distanced conversations—exactly the

Our favorite businesses need our support.

There is no guarantee that the shops in your neighborhood will survive the current crisis. While the city’s Small

Ready to start shopping? Check out San Diego’s Holiday Gift Guide that supports local businesses. www.sandiegofamily.com/magazines

Business Relief Fund has managed to assist an impressive 2,000 San Diego businesses during the pandemic, an additional 8,000 have applied for grants that may never come. Spending locally has never been more important. Small businesses are often the first to give back to the communities they serve, sponsoring youth sports and donating to school fundraisers. Let’s not forget them in their time of need.

Don’t forget local restaurants! Support restaurant owners by purchasing gift certificates as gifts or having a meal delivered to friends and loved ones in the month of December.

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It’s easier than ever to buy local.

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Local gifts have local character.

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It’s better for the environment.

The pandemic has motivated local businesses to adapt. Many have embraced faster, safer and more convenient shopping options to meet the needs of busy customers. You might be surprised to find your favorite shop now offers online ordering with local delivery or curbside pickup. Take a look!

The products and services available in our beloved neighborhoods are often an expression of who we are as a community. A local gift can be a symbol of solidarity when given to someone who lives nearby. When gifted to someone far away, these items serve as a lovely reminder of the memories they’ve made here in the past.

When we buy products close to home, they don’t require as much packaging as items shipped from far away. In addition, local purchases require less fuel and fewer transportation emissions to reach our homes. Shopping local is good for our communities and good for the earth! v Anne Malinoski is an award-winning writer who lives in Santee with her husband and two boys.

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Just when it looked like the Grinch was going to steal our Christmas spirit, we discovered a bounty of fun ways for families to create joyful memories this year! Your hearts just might grow three sizes when you embark on these festive adventures. So, grab the kids and make plans to get out, explore, and experience holiday magic like never before.

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Experience holiday magic at Noah Homes’ Enchanted Village: A Drive-Thru Holiday Experience in Spring Valley, Dec. 18–23, 5–8 p.m. Gaze at a winter wonderland filled with over 500,000 dazzling lights, a giant musical Christmas tree and beautiful holiday displays (all from the safety of your vehicle). You can even take a photo with Santa! Purchase tickets and learn more at www.EnchantedVillage. org. Proceeds benefit Noah Homes, a nonprofit for people with developmental disabilities such as Down syndrome and autism.

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The magic of the holidays meets the magic of the underwater world at Seas ‘n’ Greetings, Birch Aquarium’s holiday celebration featuring SEAsonal music and decor for the whole family. Deck the Hall (of Fishes) and get into the holiday spirit from Nov. 28 to Dec. 31 (closed Christmas Day). Tickets must be reserved in advance online (even for members). Prices: $19.50 for adults; $15 for ages 3–17. Face coverings required for ages 2 and up. Visit www. aquarium.ucsd.edu or call 858-534-FISH for more information.

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Make magical memories with your family this year by visiting Family Christmas Tree Farm, a family-owned real Christmas tree farm in El Cajon. Take unique family photos (like the one on the cover!), enjoy hayrides, a petting zoo and an old-time Christmas atmosphere. Walk through and smell fresh pine trees and find the perfect one to cut down. Fresh wreaths and greens, many varieties of pre-cut trees (in hard-to-find sizes) and potted trees also available. Opens Nov. 27. Learn more at www.familychristmastreefarm.com.

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Who doesn’t love the sights and sensations of winter snowfall?

Experience enchanted flurries, choreographed lights and seasonal music at Village Walk’s Magical Snowfall, beginning Dec. 3. Be sure to bring your camera or mobile device. You can snap photos of your family with life-size photo props of Santa, the Snowman, Elsa and Olaf, located throughout this picturesque shopping center—perfect for holiday cards and social media. Visit Village Walk’s website for specific days and times for snowfall and photo wonderland: www.ShopVillageWalk.com.

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Revel in holiday magic at the San Diego Zoo and the San Diego Zoo Safari Park outdoor celebrations!

Jungle Bells at the Zoo beckons with festive decorations, seasonal music and roaming entertainers; Dec. 4–6, 11–23 and 25–Jan. 3. Wild Holidays at the Safari Park offers a winter wonderland with twinkling lights, holiday music and seasonal treats; weekends in Dec. and Dec. 26–Jan. 3. More details: www.sandiegozoo.org and www.sdzsafaripark.org.

Visit Candy Land!

Have you heard? There’s an awesome house in Clairemont (corner of Mt. Albertine & Mt. Aguilar) decked out in a Candy Land theme! There’s even an interactive sidewalk chalk Candy Land game surrounding the house. What a fun family night idea: Play the Candy Land board game at home, then drive by the “real” house so everyone can check out the life-sized whimsical candy décor. The kids can even drop off letters to Santa in the specially marked mailbox.

Want to make your own candy house decorations? Visit www.sandiegofamily.com/ for-the-kids/crafts-for-kids for directions on how to make giant gumdrops, Hershey’s kisses and wrapped peppermint candies.

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San Diego Central Jungle Bells at the San Diego Zoo. The Zoo is transformed into a wild wonderland of twinkling lights, seasonal decorations, lighted displays, music and joyful roaming entertainers. Dec. 4-6, 11-23, 25-31; 9 am-8 pm (until 5 pm Dec. 24). Free with Zoo admission. sandiegozoo.org

CLAIREMONT, 92117 Lana Dr. & Jamar. Off Mt. Abernathy Ave. Circular street. “Clairemont Christmas Park”. 40+ homes decorated. Families are encouraged to drive-thru this year. Dec. 5-25, 5-9 pm.

LIGHTS presents the county’s most comprehensive list of holiday light shows and glittering festivities.

If you know of awesome Christmas light displays in San Diego County that aren’t listed, email linda@sandiegofamily.com to be considered next year.

Please note: It’s highly recommended that people drive through light displays to help reduce the spread of COVID. For people who choose to walk, please be aware that residents have requested visitors wear masks and maintain safe distances.

North County Inland CARMEL MOUNTAIN RANCH, 92128 Fairway Village, east and west sides of Stoney Gate Pl. 100+ homes decorated in “Holiday Magic.” Dec. 15-Jan.1, 5:3010 pm. For the safety of our residents, enjoy holiday lights from your vehicles. Pedestrian traffic is discouraged.

4005 Mount Albertine Ave. Life-size Candy Land game decorations with activities and lights. Nov. 27-Dec. 31, dusk-9 pm.

SCRIPPS RANCH, 92131 Stonebridge Pkwy. & Merritage Ct. Nicknamed “Merry-tage Court,” entire street lit up with themes including Star Wars, Minions, Disney, Frozen, Cars, The Grinch and more. Dec. 1-31, 5:30-9:30 pm.

10883 Sunset Ridge Dr. Decorated house with lights, inflatables and animated decorations. Nov. 27-Dec. 31, 5-11 pm.

SERRA MESA/MISSION VALLEY, 92123 2002 Ainsley Rd. Features a 20 ft. star made of lights, multiple blowups and lights. Dec. 1-31, dusk-9 pm.

TIERRASANTA, 92124 5306 Belardo Dr. Off Via Valarta at Via Playa De Cortes. Over 100,000 lights and decorations all sequenced and animated to music at 106.1 FM. Nov. 28-Dec. 27, 6-10 pm. Please see Belardolights.com for the latest display information and safety guidelines

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340 N Escondido Blvd. Peace Family Light Show at the California Center for the Arts, as featured on ABC’s The Great Christmas Light Fight. Nov 28-Jan 3. peacefamilylights.com

Holidays at LEGOLAND. Fun Town turns into a winter wonderland with shimmering lights, live entertainment, the famous LEGO Christmas tree, festive decor and more. Dec. 4-6, 11-13, 18-31 & Jan. 1-10. $14.99.

Tickets must be purchased in advance online. LEGOLAND California Resort, Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

Northern Lights. The California Center for the Arts dazzles with a twinkling lights tunnel, a sparkling light display that dances to music and a snow machine on this self-guided walking tour. Free.

340 N. Escondido Blvd. Nov. 27-Jan. 3, 4:30-9 pm. artcenter.org

Botanic Wonderland: Holiday Nights in the Garden. Stroll outdoors amidst festive holiday lights strung through several garden areas. Dec. 2-6, 9-13, 16-17 & 26-30, 5-9 pm. $12-$20. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org

Wild Holidays at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park. Go on a holiday expedition of light and travel through places that glow and twinkle with holiday cheer. Dec. 5–6, 12–13, 19–23, 26–31; 9 am–8 pm. Included with park admission. 15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido. www.sdzsafaripark.org

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6646 Elegant Tern Pl. Free Santa’s mailbox and treats for the kids nightly.

Santa writes back a personalized letter to each child. Santa visits on Dec. 14 with crafts, music, hot cocoa and cotton candy. All activities free. Dec. 5-25, 5-10 pm.

POWAY, 92064 12631 Stoutwood St. Off Twin Peaks Rd. & Deerwood St. Nicknamed “The Griswolds.” Dec. 1-Jan. 1, 5:30-10 pm weekdays, 11 pm weekends.

Hickory Ct., Hickory St., Butterwood Ct., Rockrose Ct. All off Twin Peaks Rd. & Silverset St. named “Candy Cane Lane.” Entire cul-de-sacs are lit up. Dec. 5-25, 6-9 pm.

RAMONA, 92065 23542 Bassett Way. “Happy Lights Ramona” with 30,000+ lights animated to music on 106.9 FM using 996 computer channels to control the lights. Nov. 27-Jan. 1; Sun-Th, 5:30-10 pm; Fri & Sat, 5:30-11 pm.

RANCHO PEÑASQUITOS, 92129 Oviedo St. Off Black Mountain Rd. “Christmas Card Lane.”

Also enter off Twin Trails Dr. & Carmel Mountain Rd. or park at Sunset Hills Elementary School and walk. Dec. 7-31, dusk-10 pm.

SAN MARCOS, 92078 1145 E. Barham Dr. Festively decorated house with an electric train and snow machine. Weekends only, Dec. 5-27, 5-9 pm.

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3520 Corte Ramon.

Seventh year of decorating, different theme each year.

Lights and characters coordinated to music. Dusk-10 pm.

6646 Elegant Tern Pl.

6774 Vermarine Ct. Light show synchronized to music. Dec 1-31, 5:309 pm.

OCEANSIDE, 92056, 92057 5279 Willow Walk Rd. Over 30,000 lights create a Christmas light show, 13,000 digital lights featuring mega board, arches, singing Christmas trees and more synchronized to music. Santa Dec. 6, 5:308:30 pm. Dec. 1-Dec. 31, 5:30-10 pm.

2329 Snead Dr. Lots of lights, nativity scene, animated elves, Santa Village light display. Walk up to see Christmas scene in garage. Dec. 7-31, 5:30-9 pm.

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San Diego Bay Parade of Lights. 49th Anniversary. “The Twelve Days of Christmas” theme. Dec. 13 & 20, 5 pm. Starts off Shelter Island, goes through the harbor and ends at the Ferry Landing, Coronado. sdparadeoflights.org

1552 Cajon Greens Pl. Thousands of lights plus yard decorations synchronized to holiday music on 97.7 FM. Nov. 25-Jan. 2, Sun-Tues & Thurs, dusk-10 pm and Fri-Sat, dusk-midnight, Wed, lights not synchronized.

Jingle Bell Hill (also known as Pepper Dr. Lights). Solomon Ave./ Pegeen Pl. and surrounding area. Off 67 & Bradley. Dec. 5-25, MonTh, 6-9 pm, Fri-Sun, 6-10 pm.

11456 Pegeen Pl. “Nightmare Before Christmas” theme, complete with Jack, Sally, Zero, the Mayor & Oogie Boogie. Santa may make a surprise visit. Nov. 29-Jan. 3, Mon-Th, 6-9 pm and Fri-Sun, 6-10 pm.

1838 El Pico Dr. Off Hacienda Dr., Fletcher Hills, El Cajon. The 56th year decorating the 18-ft. star sitting on top of an 80-ft. twinkling tree of over 4,000 lights overlooking El Cajon Valley. Dec. 1-31. Also experience over 70,000 programmed lights, a 55-ft. automated train and a view into Santa’s Workshop. Dec. 6-31, dusk-10 pm.

1838 El Pico Dr.

LAKESIDE, 92040 10248 Paseo Palmas Dr. 20+ houses nicknamed “Tinsel Town.”

Dec. 7-25, 5:30-9 pm.

LA MESA, 91941, 91942 6266 De Camp Dr. 22-ft tree of light and more. Lights dance to Christmas songs. Dec. 1- 25, 5-9 pm.

SANTEE, 92071 Starlight Circle/Sunburst Santee. Tomel Court, off North Magnolia Ave. 75 homes lit up in an easy-to-drive circle. Dec. 1-31, dusk-10 pm.

9325 Pebble Beach Dr. Full light display on home and yard set to music. Dec. 1-31, dusk-10 pm.

8575 Shanes Way. The sights and sounds of Christmas with a 25-ft tree of light and more. Thousands of lights dance to over 30 Christmas songs on 91.3 FM. Dec. 1- 31, 4:30-9 pm.

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Noah Homes Enchanted Village:

SeaWorld’s Christmas Celebration. Meet furry and festive characters, enjoy classic shows including Dolphin Island Christmas Presentation and Clyde & Seamore’s Christmas Special, a towering sea-themed Christmas tree and walk through a holiday musicactivated Tunnel of Lights. Nov. 13-Jan. 4. Included with park admission. seaworldsandiego.com Sights and Sounds of Christmas. Walk the San Diego Temple grounds and enjoy more than 130,000 lights and nativity scenes. Free.

Nov. 27-Jan. 1, 5-11 pm. San Diego Temple, 7474 Charmant Dr., UTC. Illuminated Winter Nights. Beachside Winter Wonderland theme with lights, illuminated sculptures and great photo ops including a lighted barrel wave. Weekend nights, Dec. 5-27. Belmont Park, 3146 Mission Blvd. www.belmontpark.com Old Town Trolley’s Holiday Lights and Sights Tour. Join in sing-along caroling with the elf conductors as they share fun holiday facts and traditions and see the festive lights of Old Town, Embarcadero, Seaport Village, Balboa Park and more. Dec. 3–24 & Dec. 26–30. $25; 3 & under free. Old Town Market, 4010 Twiggs St. www.trolleytours.com

POINT LOMA, 92106 Garrison St. & Chatsworth. Off Rosecrans. “Garrison Street Lights”.

Dec. 1-31. dusk-10 pm.

Downtown San Diego The Forward House in Bankers Hill. 22nd Annual Holiday Lighting Display at The Forward House, built for San Diego Mayor John Forward, Sr. in 1905. Santa promises to remain socially distant by making a pre-Christmas stop upon the roof in his sleigh on Dec. 19 between 6-8 pm. All visitors receive a candy cane. 108 Ivy St. (1st & Ivy). Nov. 26Dec. 31, 5–10 pm. www.AmericanSecurityMortgage.net South Park’s Luminaria Season. Trees, lamp posts, roofs and courtyards all decorated with lights. Along 30th St. and Fern St. from Juniper to Grape to Beech. Nov.23-Jan. 8. www.southparksd.com

South Bay Hotel del Coronado. This holiday season thousands of white sparkling lights, towering Christmas trees, ornament-trimmed evergreens and garlands galore transform The Del’s Windsor Lawn into a Winter Wonderland. Nov. 26–Dec. 31, 5–9 pm. 1500 Orange Ave., Coronado. www.hoteldel.com

CHULA VISTA, 91910, 91911, 91914, 91915 Whitney St./Mankato. Circle between First and Second Ave. off H St. & 1st Ave. “Christmas Circle.” 63rd year of decorating 55+ homes. Dec. 5-25, 5-10 pm.

PARADISE HILLS, 92139 Noah Homes Enchanted Village: A Drive-Thru Holiday Experience. Over 100,000 holiday lights, interactive displays and fun attractions from the safety of your vehicle. Dec. 18-23, 5-8 pm. $65 per car. 12526 Campo Rd. www.enchantedvillage.org 4037 N. Bonita St. Lots of lights, music, penguins, Snoopy, Mickey, Minnie and Santa in the window. Dec. 10-Jan. 3, dusk-11 pm.

Limousine Services Instead of doing the driving yourself, why not hire a party bus limo? Make it a party with family and friends! You’ll have a blast being chauffeured around town in style.

2160 Reo Dr. Lights, inflatables and decorations. Nov. 26-Dec. 31, 6-10 pm.

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Holiday Toy Guide

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Presenting Part Two of this season’s round-up of kid-tested toys.

And guess what? We’re giving more away! Turn to page 6 for details on how to enter. Find our complete list of the 100 Hottest Holiday Toys, plus games, books and more at www.sandiegofamily.com/forthe-kids/kid-tested-toy-product-review.

Find our round-up of Holiday Toys for Kids of All Abilities at www.SNRFSD.org.

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Laugh & Learn Grow-the-Fun Garden to Kitchen $79.99; 18 mos.+ Fisher-Price.com This two-sided, interactive playset features light-up juicer, plant-andpick produce, flip-through recipe book and more. Smart Stages technology teaches the ABCs, 123s, colors and shapes through songs, sounds and phrases.

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Grand Castle of Novelmore $199.99; 4+ Playmobil.us Playmobil’s new Grand Castle offers hours of fun and imaginary play. “It has trap doors, elevators, working catapults, cannons and crossbows, so my son has a blast playing with it!” says mom Julie.

GUND Tinsel Yeti $30; 1+ Amazon.com Tinsel Yeti is a friendly monster prepared for winter adventure with his fuzzy earmuffs. “He’s super cute and very soft,” says mom Sara. “My 4-year-old loves her little monster.

Globber Ultimum Kick Scooter $129.99-$149.99; 5+ Globber.com A sturdy three-wheel scooter with back-foot braking system. “Our whole family can ride (made for ages 5 to adults),” says mom Laura. “It’s easy to adjust the handle height for each rider and it’s easy to steer. It also folds to fit in car.”

Casiotone CT-S200 $119.99; 5+ Casio.com This portable keyboard features 61 full-size keys, 400 tones, 77 rhythms and Dance Music Mode. Slim design and carrying handle make transport easy. Use built-in speakers or plug-in headphones.

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KidiZoom Creator Cam $59.99; 5+ VTechKids.com Includes high-definition camera, tabletop tripod/selfie stick, built-in microphone and easy editing tools. “My kids (8 & 6) have created amazing videos,” says mom Kelly. “It comes with different backgrounds and a green screen, which is a lot of fun!”

Feltman Brothers Collectible Dolls $99; 3+ FeltmanBrothers.com Abigail, Carly, Destiny and Parker are exquisite, lifelike, heirloom dolls that children cherish for years. Each doll includes a onesie, bonnet and birth certificate. “The dolls are beautiful,” says mom Kim. “The soft body makes them nice to hold and cuddle.”

Dollars & Cents Lemonade Stand $54.95; 3+ CreateOn.com Young entrepreneurs learn about money while building fun shapes with their own Magna-Tiles mini lemonade stand! “This toy encourages creative play, and can grow with a child who is learning about counting and money,” says mom Alicia.

Vroom & Zoom Interactive Dashboard $54.99; 3+ MelissaAndDoug.com “The dashboard is well made, interactive and fun!” says mom Elizabeth. “My son likes to follow the GPS route and play with all the buttons.” Kids can also beep the horn, adjust air vents, turn on signal, hazard, and headlight indicators, and rev the engine.

Myla’s Sparkling Friends, Mia the Unicorn $14.99; 4+ VTechKids.com Mia the Unicorn talks, sings, lights up with a kaleidoscope of colors, and has more than 100 sayings about her moods and feelings.

Shape Sorter Truck $29.99; 1+ GreenToys.com Kids practice fine motor skills sorting shapes into corresponding slots. “We love the Green Toys brand,” says mom Saerin. “The truck is very sturdy, so it will get great use over the years.”

Made from recycled plastic.

Just My Style All-in-One Jewelry Carry Case $29.99; 6+ Kohls.com “This case has everything my daughter (9) needs to make jewelry and includes instructions to make several types of friendship bracelets,” says mom Tracy. “I love that she has one place to keep her supplies organized. Makes a great gift or slumber party activity!”

Blue’s Clues & You! Really Smart Handy Dandy Notebook $14.99; 2+ LeapFrog.com “My son (2) takes it everywhere!” says mom Danielle. “He can work on counting, shapes, colors (also includes weather and hygiene).

And Blue barks when you push her picture.

The notebook looks just like the one on the TV show.”

Elf: Journey from the North Pole $19.99; 8+ Target.com Perfect for family game night in December! Help Buddy the Elf find his dad by laying a route from the North Pole to New York City. Colorful game board features familiar scenes and characters.

Find more suggestions in our round-up of Fun Family Board Games at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/ kid-tested-toy-product-review/fun-family-board-games.

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Calendar of Events

Still looking for last month’s events? Check out the digital edition of our November issue at SanDiegoFamily.com

FREE Winter Wonder at Belmont Park The 95-year-old beachside park will offer a day-and-night experience featuring 15-foottall holiday-themed sculptures, a free Real-Life Santa photo op, winter-themed activities and entertainment, plus Illuminated Winter Nights when the sun goes down. Weekends through Dec. 27. Visit website for hours. 3146 Mission Blvd. www.belmontpark.com

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Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

tuesday | 1 Seas ‘n’ Greetings at the Birch Aquarium. The magic of the holidays meets the magic of the underwater world featuring SEAsonal music, outdoor exhibits, hands-on activities and holiday decor. Through Dec. 31, 9 am–5 pm (closed Dec. 25). For tickets, visit website. 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu

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FREE Family Christmas Tree Farm.

Find the perfect tree at this family-owned, 10-acre farm where you can choose and cut your own Monterey Pine or pick from fresh-cut Noble, Douglas and Grand Fir trees. Also farm animal encounters and hay rides for kids. Through end of Dec., 9 am–9 pm. 300 Pepper Dr., El Cajon. www.familychristmastreefarm.com VIRTUAL Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol.” Tony Award winner Jefferson Mays plays over 50 roles in a virtuosic, master class of a performance. Through Jan. 3.

$50 per household + fees. For tickets, visit www.lajollaplayhouse.org.

SeaWorld’s Christmas Celebration.

Meet furry and festive characters, enjoy classic shows, see a towering sea-themed Christmas tree and walk through a holiday music-activated Tunnel of Lights. Select dates through Jan. 4. Visit website for admission. Interstate 5, exit Sea World Dr., San Diego. www.seaworldsandiego.com FREE Pinery Christmas Trees. Four locations in San Diego. Through Dec.

24; Mon.–Thurs., 10 am–9 pm; Fri.–Sun., 9 am–9 pm. 5354 Sweetwater Rd. in Bonita, 14550 1/2 El Camino Real at the Del Mar Horsepark, 1740 Camino Del Rio N. in Mission Valley & 13421 Highland Valley Rd. in Rancho Bernardo. www.pinerychristmastrees.com

wednesday | 2 VIRTUAL The Sky Tonight: Galaxies.

An introduction into the world of galaxies.

7–8 pm. $5–$20. To register visit the Fleet Science Center at www.fleetscience.org.

Botanic Wonderland: Holiday Nights in the Garden. Stroll outdoors amidst festive holiday lights strung through several garden areas. Dec. 2–6, 9–13, 16–17 & 26–30, 5–9 pm. $12–$20. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org

thursday | 3 FREE Magical Snowfall at Village Walk at Eastlake. The magical snowfall is accompanied by choreographed music and lights. Free headbands and magic glasses for kids to view the snow falling in rainbow colors. Through Dec. 20; Thurs.–Sun., 5, 6, & 7 pm. 878 Eastlake Parkway, Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com Old Town Trolley’s Holiday Lights and Sights Tour. Join in sing-a-long caroling with the elf conductors as they share fun holiday facts and traditions. See the festive lights of Old Town, Embarcadero, Seaport Village, Balboa Park and more. Through Dec. 24 & 26–30. $25; 3 & under free.

4010 Twiggs St. www.trolleytours.com

VIRTUAL FREE Nature & Me Story Time. Today & Dec. 17, 10:15 am. San Diego Natural History Museum social media channels. www.sdnat.org FREE Holiday Photo Wonderland.

Take the perfect holiday photo with these life-size photo props including Santa, the Snowman, Elsa and Olaf. Through Dec. 20; Thurs.-Sun., 11 am-8 pm. Village Walk at EastLake, 878 Eastlake Parkway, Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com Holiday Market & Trail at Petco Park.

One-way trail featuring artisan shops, magical walkthrough lighting displays, seasonal character favorites and more.

Dec. 3–6 & 9–23, 4–9:30 pm. Adults, $14; Kids, $10. Petco Park’s Gallagher Square. www.padres.com/holiday

friday | 4 Taste of December Nights. This threeday drive-thru event includes over 20 food truck/food vendors offering their most popular menu items from past December Nights. Through Dec. 6, 11 am–10 pm.

Inspiration Point Way at Balboa Park. www.sandiego.gov/december-nights

of the Season. Visit website for dates and times. 1649 El Prado, Balboa Park. www.sdmrm.org Holiday Lights Antique Gas & Steam Engine Museum. Features beautiful displays and barns decked in their holiday best. Wagon rides, photo stands for holiday portraits and Santa. Today & tomorrow, Dec. 11–12 & 18–19, 5–8 pm.

Adults, $5; kids, $2. 2040 N. Santa Fe Ave., Vista. www.agsem.com Wild Winter. Hands-on animal encounters, a craft, a dash through the holiday hall and more. Today & Dec. 11, 5–7:15 pm; Dec. 5, 6, 12 & 13, 9 am–3 pm. $50 per group of up to six. Register for your one-hour time slot at www.animalcenter.org. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6461 El Apajo Rd., Rancho Santa Fe. Holidays at LEGOLAND. Fun Town turns into a winter wonderland with shimmering lights, live entertainment, the famous LEGO Christmas tree, festive decor and more. Dec. 4–6, 11–13, 18-–1 & Jan. 1–10. $14.99. Tickets must be purchased in advance online. LEGOLAND California Resort, Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

Jungle Bells at the San Diego Zoo. The Zoo is transformed into a wild wonderland of twinkling lights, seasonal decorations, lighted displays, music and joyful roaming entertainers. Today–Dec. 6, 11–23 & 25–31, 9 am–8 pm. Visit website for admission. 2920 Zoo Dr., downtown. www.sandiegozoo.org

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Holidays at the San Diego Model Railroad Museum. The Christmas tree will dazzle and delight adorned by the Jewels

Wild Holidays at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park. Go on a holiday expedition of light and travel through places that glow

Holidays in Your Car. This drive-thru event showcases amazing holiday-themed light displays. Through Jan. 2, 5–10 pm. $49–$64. Visit website for tickets. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.holidaysinyourcar.com

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Calendar • December and twinkle with holiday cheer. Today & tomorrow, Dec. 12–13, 19–23 & 26–31; 9 am–8 pm. Visit website for ticket prices.

15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido. www.sdzsafaripark.org Santa Express Train Ride. Take a 30-minute train ride while enjoying holiday music and decorated cars. Today & tomorrow, Dec. 12–13 & 19–20, 10:30, 11:30, 1:30, 2:30 & 3:30. Adults, $25; Ages 3–12, $16, under 3, $5. 750 Depot St., Campo. www.psrm.org/santa-express VIRTUAL FREE Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas! On the Radio.

Edward Watts returns as The Grinch. KPBS Radio 89.5 FM, the KPBS website and app, and on smart speakers. Today & Dec. 20, noon; Dec. 24, 6 pm. www.theoldglobe.org FREE Fallbrook Christmas Parade: Home for the Holidays. Families drive past the parade. 5–7 pm. For details, visit www.fallbrookchamberofcommerce.org.

FREE Pictures with Santa at the Del. Take socially distanced photos with Santa on his sleigh. Today, Dec. 12, 19, 23 & 24; 4–7 pm. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

Mar Village, NW corner of Camino Del Mar & 15th St. www.visitdelmarvillage.com Wacky Wonderland Reimagined. This drive-thru event includes music, sweet treats, Santa & Mrs. Claus, Wacky Willy and more. Free to attend with a new/ unwrapped toy. 11 am–2 pm. San Diego Center for Children, 3002 Armstrong St. www.centerforchildren.org/wonderland FREE Hanukkah Happening Hits the Highway. Find Jewish landmarks and symbols in this traveling scavenger hunt and Hanukkah celebration. 11 am–1 pm.

Register at www.lfjcc.org.

Drive-In Movie: “A Christmas Story.”

7 pm. $25–$50 per car. Cal State San Marcos, 333 S. Twin Oaks Valley Rd. www.artcenter.org

tuesday | 8 FREE Northern Lights. The California Center for the Arts dazzles with a twinkling lights tunnel, a sparkling light display that dances to music and a snow machine.

Through Jan. 3, 4:30–9 pm. 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

FREE Christmas in the Park. Drop off letters to Santa, pick up holiday crafts or Zoom call with Santa from your home (pre-registration required for Santa visits).

Today, Dec. 12 & 19; 8 am–1 pm. Old Poway Park, 14134 Midland Rd. www.poway.org

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FREE Holiday in the Village. Holiday music, craft vendors, a food court and a unique Holiday Joy Globe photo station. 10 am–9 pm. La Mesa Village, 8030 La Mesa Blvd. www.lamesavillageassociation.org

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FREE Holly, Jolly Christmas Reverse Parade. The floats remain stationary while families drive by to view them. 1–3 pm. 25 Main St., Vista. www.vistachamber.com

Paws and Pages. Kids read to animals in a non-judgmental environment. 5–6 pm. $10. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6461 El Apajo, Rancho Santa Fe. Register at www.animalcenter.org.

Hanukkah, Dec. 10-18 FREE Liberty Station Hanukkah & Menorah Lighting. Includes music and the traditional lighting of the menorah to commemorate the first night of Hanukkah.

5 pm. Liberty Station’s Central Promenade, Point Loma. www.libertystation.com

VIRTUAL FREE Little Italy Tree Lighting Ceremony. Musical performances, a reading of Twas the Night Before Christmas

by Santa & Mrs. Claus, the tree lighting ceremony and more. 5:30 pm. For details, visit www.littleitalysdtreelighting.com.

FREE Hanukkah Celebration. Live music, treats, dreidels and more around the lighting of the first menorah candle with the Chabad Center of University City.

5:30–8 pm. Westfield UTC, 4545 La. Jolla Village Dr. www.chabaduc.org

FREE Winter Wonder at Belmont Park.

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sunday | 6 FREE Santa by the Sea. Design your own rad hat and write a letter to Santa’s workshop. 3–5 pm; tree lighting 5 pm. Del

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VIRTUAL San Diego Santa 5K Run. Virtual runners will receive a Sunny Santa Suit, sunglasses and race bib. Through Dec. 25. $40. To register, visit www.sandiegorunningco.com/santarun.

Gingerbread City Drive-Through: Holidays Around the World. Holiday music, entertainment and a grand gingerbread structure competition. 11 am–4 pm. $25 per car, includes swag bag. Liberty Station, Point Loma. www.epilepsysandiego.org VIRTUAL FREE Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony in Poway. 5:15 pm. Witness the annual Tree Lighting ceremony on the City of Poway Facebook page. www.poway.org Kids in the Garden: Stone Soup and Breadsticks. Read Stone Soup then make soup and enjoy the sharing feast.

10–11 am. $5. Pre-registration required at farmerjonesavbg@gmail.com. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr. www.altavistabotanicalgardens.org VIRTUAL The Hip Hop Nutcracker. A contemporary dance spectacle set to Tchaikovsky’s timeless music. Tonight, 7 pm & tomorrow, 2 pm. $25. For tickets, visit www.sandiegotheaters.org.

Holiday Movies on the Beach. Tonight, “A Christmas Story;” Dec. 19, “Elf;” Dec. 31, “Back to the Future.” 6:30–8:30 pm. $20/ chair. Reservations required. Del Beach, Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com Wild Winter. See Dec. 4

sunday | 13 FREE San Diego Bay Parade of Lights. See boats lavishly decorated for this year’s theme, “The Twelve Days of Christmas.” Parade starts at Shelter Island and proceeds to Harbor Island, the Embarcadero, Seaport Village, the Pier at Cesar Chavez Park, and ends at the Ferry Landing in Coronado. Tonight & Dec. 20, 5:30 pm. www.sdparadeoflights.org Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

tuesday | 15 FREE Magical Snowfall at Village Walk at Eastlake. See Dec. 3.

thursday | 17 Drive-In Movie: “Elf.” 7 pm. $25–$50 per car. Cal State San Marcos, 333 S. Twin Oaks Valley Rd. www.artcenter.org VIRTUAL FREE Nature & Me Story Time. See Dec. 3.

friday | 18 Noah Homes Enchanted Village: A Drive-Thru Holiday Experience.

Gaze at a winter wonderland filled with dazzling lights, beautiful holiday displays, and even take a photo with Santa all from your vehicle. Through Dec. 23, 5–8 pm. $65 per car. Noah Homes, 12526 Campo Rd., Spring Valley. www.enchantedvillage.org

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Pet Pals: Whisker Winter Wishes.

Includes a lesson, activity and animal interaction. 4:30–5:30 pm. $10. For ages 6–11. Reservations required. San Diego Humane Society, 5500 Gaines St. www.sdhumane.org

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saturday | 19 Wild Holidays at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park. See Dec. 5.

Santa Express Train Ride. See Dec. 5.

sunday | 20 FREE San Diego Bay Parade of Lights.

See Dec. 13

Celebrate the holiday season at Birch Aquarium with festive decor and more!

Advanced Reservations Required. Book online!

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Christmas Eve VIRTUAL FREE Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas! On the Radio.

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Cranberry Christmas Cake

We can’t make any

promises for a white Christmas in San Diego, but we CAN share the recipe for this gorgeous white Christmas cake by local food blogger, Jackie Bruchez.

Find the full recipe at www.theseasidebaker.com/ cranberry-christmas-cake.

Make frosted cranberries to decorate the cake or any other special holiday treats and drinks.

Frosted Cranberries 1 cup water 1 cup sugar 1 cup fresh cranberries 1/3 cup sugar (for coating) Combine water and one cup sugar in a small pan over medium heat. Bring to a simmer, stirring until sugar dissolves. Remove from heat and cool for 10 minutes.

Place cranberries in a large bowl and pour syrup over the top. Stir gently to coat. Let cool completely.

Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 2 hours or overnight.

Once cranberries have steeped and are cold, drain in a colander. Place 1/3 cup sugar in a shallow dish.

Add cranberries in small batches, rolling to coat with sugar. Spread sugared cranberries in a single layer on a parchment-lined baking sheet. Let them sit at room temperature until dry, about 1 hour. Store cranberries in an airtight container in a cool, dry place for up to one week.

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