Living Well 60+ May/June 2019

Page 1



A Bus Tour Can Take You on an Exciting Adventure Sit back, kick up your feet and leave the driving to someone else.

ALSO INSIDE Bath Remodeling

Green Space Benefits

Resilience as a Caregiver

Resident Perspective

Jacqueline Lester (Jackie) first came to Tanbark as a short term rehab patient. She then transitioned over to being a Resident in a Personal Care apartment and has thoroughly enjoyed the 8 months she has been living at Tanbark.

A Lexington Tradition in Senior Living Since 1989 Call TODAY to learn about our Move-in Special!

Jackie worked as a judicial secretary for most of her career days and is glad to be settled down with new friends and fun activities. Jackie says she “adores the Aides and just loves all the staff”. Her favorite things to do at Tanbark are singing in the Glee Club, playing Bingo, having her hair done in the Beauty Shop, and hanging out with her friends over a nice glass of wine.


Personal care center with apartmentstyle living and a community feel.

• 62 Personal Care Apartments

Setting the standard in Staff-to-Client Ratios!

Visit our website or call today for a full list of services and amenities

• 34 Rehab Beds of which 26 are Private Rooms • Rehab & Nursing Services available

Signature HealthCARE at Tanbark Rehab & Wellness Center | (859) 273-7377 | 1121 Tanbark Road, Lexington, KY 40515 www.facebook/SHCatTanbark

Conflict Resolution & Trainings 400 Etter Drive, Suite 1 Nicholasville, Kentucky, 40356 Phone: 859-305-1900 Email: Family Services

Business Services

   

 Workplace Investigation  Leadership Building  Team Building

Conflict Resolution/Mediation Life & Crisis Coaching Care Community Investigation

Parenting Classes Family Classes

 Are Your Kids Bullying You?  Case Management for Families: Making the Right Choices for Your Loved One

 Thinking Beyond Retirement

Industry Classes

 Planning For The End of Retirement

 Business Etiquette Workshops  All In The Family: Inspiring Families To Choose You!



Body Score


WANTED Body Score




W our best-sounding, multiW purpose hearing 31 People to technology try

31 People to try People to try

our best-sounding, multi-purpose hearing technology

Are you, or someone you know, struggling hearing loss? know, our best-sounding, multi-purpose Are you, orwith someone you with hearing hearing technology Westruggling need 31 people with difficulty hearing,loss? to evaluate the world’s first hearing aid that tracks brain and31 body health while providing superior We need people with difficulty hearing, to evaluate the Are you, or someone you know, ® ® sound Via AItracks from Audibel world’s first quality hearing – aid that brain and. body health struggling with hearing loss? Wewhile will perform thorough hearing consultations ® providing superior sound quality – Via AI from FREE®of charge to ALL callers. We will then Audibel . We will perform thorough hearing consultations choose 31 qualified candidates for this program. We need 31 people with difficulty hearing, to

31 People to try

FREE of charge to ALL callers. We will then choose 31 our best-sounding, multi-purpose evaluate the world’s first hearing aid that tracks Please call (859) 559-4420 immediately qualified candidates for this brain and healthto while providing superior hearing technology schedule yourbody evaluation determine if you are

® from Audibel®. sound qualityfor – Via a candidate thisAI program. callthorough (859) 800-4403 We Please will perform hearing consultations Are you, or someone you know, FREE of charge ALL We will then immediately to callers. schedule your struggling withtohearing loss? choose 31 qualified candidates for this program.




if to you are a Weevaluation need 31 people to withdetermine difficulty hearing, Please call (859) 559-4420 immediately to Candidates selected will receive evaluate the world’s first hearing aid that tracks candidate for this program. schedule your evaluation to determine brain and body health while providing superior tremendous savings due to if you are ® a their candidate for this program. sound quality – Via® AI from Audibel . Mike Ho participation. Audiopro We will perform thorough hearing consultations FREE of charge to ALL callers. We will then Receive up to $500 OFF on Via AI multi-purpose choose 31 qualified candidates for this program. hearing aids, as well asselected FREE in-officewill maintenance Candidates receive Please call for (859) 559-4420 immediately to the life of the hearing aids.

In m

Hurry, program valid through June 30, 2019


REWARD Walmart Gift Card Must complete 30-day evaluation

$50 REWARD $500 OFF Up to

Walmart Gift Card

on any newcomplete pair of premium Must ® hearing aids Audibel 30-day evaluation


Cannot be combined with other offers. Exp: 11/2/18 Expires 6/30/19

Walmart Gift Card

tremendous savings due to their participation Candidates schedule your evaluationselected to determinewill if you receive are Participants who successfully complete the 30-day a candidate for this program. savings due to aids, as well Receive up totremendous $500 off Via AI multi-purpose hearing hearing aid evaluation will also receive a $50 Walmart as FREE in-officetheir for the life of the hearing aids. participation. gift card asmaintenance a token of our appreciation!

Receive up to $500 OFF on Via AI multi-purpose 100% Candidates will receive hearing aids, selected as well as FREE in-office maintenance Money Back for the life of the due hearing tremendous savings to aids. Guarantee!


® Test drive Via AI, our besttheir participation. sounding hearing aids thatsuccessfully tracks Participants who complete the 30-day your brain and body health. hearing aid evaluation will also receive a $50 Walmart

Receive up to $500 OFF on Via AI multi-purpose

Cannot be combined with other offers. gift card a token of our appreciation! hearing aids, as6/30/19 well as FREE in-office maintenance Exp: 11/2/18 Expires

for the life of the hearing aids.



hearing aid evaluation willAudibel also receive a $50 Walmart Back Hearing Aid Money Centers 6 A D D I T I O N A L L O C AT I O N S : Guarantee! gift card as a token of our appreciation! Frankfort, London, Morehead, Richmond, Somerset & Winchester Test drive Via® AI, our beston any new pair of premium sounding hearing aids that tracks

$500 OFF

Intr mu

Via AI iPad m


CALL (859) 800-4403 TODAY to schedule your appointment! Participants who successfully complete the 30-day Must complete

IN LEXING TO N :Up 120to Cherrybark Drive, Lexington, KY 40503 30-day evaluation

Fa a


May/June 2019 Living Well 60+ is a proud product of


Bath Remodeling Adds Flare, Increases Home Value


REAL ESTATE: Downsizing Offers Plenty of Benefits


INDEPENDENT LIVING: Green Space Benefits Aging Population


Senior Adults Opt for Bariatric Surgery

Brian Lord / Publisher David Bryan Blondell / Golf & Special Sections Director Jennifer Lord / Customer Relations Specialist Barry Lord / Sales Representative

11 ELDER LAW: Planning After a Life-Altering Diagnosis

Anastassia Zikkos / Sales Representative Kim Wade / Sales Representative

12 A Bus Tour Can Take You on an Exciting Adventure 15 HEARING WELL: Hearing Aids vs. Over-the-Counter Devices 16 EVENTS CALENDAR 18 SENIOR SERVICES DIRECTORY 20 FAMILY VISION: Macular Degeneration 23 FUNERAL: Never too Early to Plan for Retirement

26 CAREGIVER’S CORNER: How to Foster Resilience as a Caregiver 28 Do You Need a Will?


Dear Friends, One of the articles in this issue of Living Well 60+ made me think of a poem I learned many years ago: The kiss of the sun for pardon, The song of the birds for mirth. One is nearer God’s heart in a garden Than anywhere else on earth.

Website & Social Media PROVIDED BY

Purple Patch Innovations Living Well 60+ can be found in 19 central Kentucky counties and is distributed to over 900 locations, including senior centers, retirement homes, hospitals, clinics and specialty shops. You can also pick up your FREE copy of Living Well 60+ at most grocery and convenience stores as well as many restaurants throughout Central KY.

For advertising rates and to find out how to get YOUR article published:

24 Email Essentials


Janet Roy / Graphic Designer

Tanya J. Tyler, Editor | Share your story:

I wish I was a gardener. I wish I could grow beautiful flowers and herbs. But alas, I do not have the gift of a green thumb. Nevertheless, I enjoy seeing flowers and I admire other people’s gardening skills. The author of this particular article says people who garden keep up the practice throughout their lives and they are all the better for it. And people who spend time

859-368-0778 e-mail © Copyright LIVING WELL 60+ Magazine 2019. All rights reserved. Any reproduction of the material in this magazine in whole or in part without written prior consent is prohibited. Articles and other material in this magazine are not necessarily the views of Living Well 60+ Magazine. Living Well 60+ Magazine reserves the right to publish and edit, or not publish any material that is sent. Living Well 60+ Magazine will not knowingly publish any advertisement which is illegal or misleading to its readers. The information in Living Well 60+ Magazine should not be considered as a substitute for medical examination, diagnosis or treatment.

outdoors find numerous benefits, too. So get out there and enjoy the spring sunshine – and if you’re out digging in your garden, you’ve got a head start on the rest of us! Live life like you mean it!


To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email | |

May/June 2019

Bath Remodeling Adds Flare, Increases Home Value

B E S U R E T O H I R E A R E P U TA B L E R E M O D E L E R by Jamie Lober, Staff Writer

Spring is a time for renewal and fresh ideas, and your bathroom should be no exception. Some people want to create a dream bath while others just want to make a small but noticeable upgrade. Whether it’s big or small, there is something you can do to add some extra function, newness or even flare to this important room. The first step to getting started is finding a reputable remodeler. Never underestimate the power of word of mouth. Consider referrals from friends or neighbors. You may also check with the Better Business Bureau to find out ratings and learn if a business has received any complaints. Most important of is to verify the company is licensed, bonded and insured. This means it is a cut above the rest. Sometimes you may receive additional reassurance if the company is a member of a trade organization because it means its owners and workers continue to learn and meet the strictest requirements.

Call several remodelers and schedule consultations to gauge your feelings on each one and ensure you are comfortable with the one you hire. Ask for references. Remember the cheapest bid is not always the best in the long run – you want top-quality work. There is an option for every budget ranging from $2,500 to $25,000 and more. You can get a new look with fresh paint, a new commode and faucets. You can splurge on a new bathtub or go allout with cabinets, lighting and granite countertops. Walk-in tubs are a hot new craze that will add comfort, convenience and luxury all at once. If you want to focus on the bathtub, decide whether you want a new replacement tub with special features or if you prefer to convert your tub into a spa-like shower with custom seating. A bath liner – an acrylic form that fits right over the existing bathtub – is much more cost-friendly than investing in a new tub. One consideration is whether you need the bathroom to be handicapped accessible. This means you need to take the time to assess the BATH continued on next page



May/June 2019 | |

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email

BATH continued from previous page

One consideration is whether you need the bathroom to be handicap accessible.

size of your space. The Americans with Disabilities Act recommends 5-foot-radius turnarounds for wheelchairs. The top of the sink should be 32 to 34 inches from the floor with at least 27 inches of clearance for a wheelchair. As you do your planning with safety in mind, there are accommodations that can help. Improving your lighting to make it brighter is a small modification that makes a huge difference. Skid-resistant surfaces can prevent slips and falls. A raised toilet seat can be more accessible and comfortable. Grab bars or rails, seating and a handheld showerhead in the shower can put you at greater ease. Once you have decided on your wants and needs, get everything in writing, including a detailed quote and a materials list so you know what to expect. While a new look is very exciting, don’t forget along with the process comes tools, dirt, dust and noise. Cover any furniture in advance to avoid damage or and secure all valuables. Be aware of how long the project may take. Good results do not always happen overnight, but when you have a well-laid-out plan and a trustworthy, reliable remodeler, it will be worth it. You’ll surely have the benefits of better style, function and value in your home.


1908 Bryant Rd. Near Malone’s in Hamburg (859) 258-2200

NICHOLASVILLE RD 116 Marketplace Dr. Ste. A In front of Walmart (859) 899-2300


630 Euclid Ave. Ste. 105 Next to Euclid Kroger (859) 281-1218

M-F 8a–10p | S 8a–6p | Su10a–6p

May/June 2019


Downsizing Offers Plenty of Benefits by Lura Justice, Broker Associate, ABR, CRS, e-Pro, SRES, Rector Hayden Realtors® Herb and Mary have moved several times in their 61 years of marriage. While their recent home provided easy living with everything they needed on the first level, they realized it had too much space and was too much work for them. They also wanted a community with activities and opportunities to interact with people who have similar interests. Mary and Herb have lived in a variety of homes over the years and recognized that their housing needs were changing. While they have moved many times, it seemed that they had never gotten rid of anything in the last 60 years! They wondered how they would ever get moved into a new home and enjoy the benefits of a new community. Mary and Herb realized needed help and they contacted professionals they had used in the past to help sort, pack and move the belongings they wanted to keep. The remaining items were given to family members, donated or thrown away. Then, to make the best decision, they evaluated their current and long term housing needs. Herb and Mary chose a smaller home in a wonderful community. Their new home features the convenience of one story living with universal design options like walk in showers and counter surfaces at a functional level. Also, the new community offers a maintenance package for all the tasks that had become so overwhelming like yard mowing, weeding tree trimming, cleaning gutters, house cleaning and changing light bulbs. In addi-

tion to a terrific new home that meets their needs, the community also offers many activities and social events to keep residents involved. Mary and Herb have more advice for those considering “rightsizing”: Move while you can make your own choices. Don’t wait until you cannot make the decisions and must rely on someone that won’t consider what you want. Someone else won’t know where your want to live or which belongings you want to keep. Some of your most prized memories may get thrown away. Here are some more insights from Herb and Mary: Q: What was the most overwhelming or difficult part of owning your own home? A: The yard work and all the maintenance. We like to do things ourselves, and there are some things we have always been able to do but can’t anymore. While Mary took over all the home maintenance as some tasks became too much for Herb, he recognized he could hire someone to do the work. (There are still times Mary is inclined to do it herself.) Q: When did you realize your home was too much for you? A: The yard work with mowing and weeding was too much for Mary. For Herb it was other maintenance chores, and his balance was not as steady as before, so he needed to stop doing tasks that required a ladder.

THE JUSTICE GROUP AT RECTOR HAYDEN REALTORS® 1099 Duval Street • Lexington, KY 40515 • 859-338-6099 •

Q: When did you realize you needed to downsize? A: One day Herb caught his heel on the corner of a step in the garage and twisted his knee. This injury was worse than a broken leg. Mary realized it was time to investigate other housing options. She recognized Herb’s health was declining and wanted a better place for them to live. In a seven-year period, doing routine activities such as taking out the trash and carrying items down the steps, they had four broken legs between them. It was time to move! Q: What are the benefits of living in a home that is the right size? A: We kept the things that were most important to us and eliminated the extra things we accumulated over our lifetime. Also, we gained a greater sense of community, good conversation and a variety of activities. Q: How did you prepare your home to sell? A: General de-cluttering. We asked family members and friends to consider taking any of the extra items that were meaningful to them. We also donated some items and threw away items that were in disrepair or were really just junk. Q: Do you think it was helpful using professionals during the move? A: It pays to get help! The Justice Group helped with preparing our home to sell so we were able to get the price we wanted and the extra time we needed to move into our new home. We also hired a company to help us pack, move our belongings and unpack for us in our new home. In their experience, The Justice Group has noticed some common concerns for folks who are downsizing: evaluating personal housing needs, the difficulty in getting rid of all the things collected over the years, the realization about how infrequently they need enough beds for visitors and the challenges of keeping up with cleaning and maintenance chores. No matter what specific concerns you have or simply not knowing where to get started, it is important to realize there are terrific professionals like The Justice Group that can assist you with your goals. Most importantly, the long-term benefit of rightsizing is a happier life for you.



May/June 2019 | |

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email


Green Space Benefits Aging Population by Nisa Hanna, Ashland Terrace Retirement Home

We hear about it often in the media: There is no disputing spending time outdoors is advantageous for physical and mental health, regardless of how many years we have under our belts. Most of us have noticed feeling refreshed after taking a walk on a brisk spring morning or getting some fresh air in a local park. This free activity – spending time in nature – can potentially have even larger impacts as we age. What makes being in nature so helpful for mature adults? Nature Sacred, an organization that helps communities create public green spaces, cites several studies that found the following benefits1: • Older adults going through major life changes, such as loss of a spouse or chronic disease, were able to cope better with stressors if they were able to visit nearby parks. • Isolation and loneliness due to loss of friends and family can be lessened through gardening or simply connecting with neighbors in green spaces. • Alzheimer’s patients who participate in horticultural therapy (light gardening activities) have been shown to have higher levels of functioning than those who do not participate. • Retirement home residents who spend 30 minutes or more in outdoor green spaces reported less fear of falling and less depression. The above list is only a fraction of the published research regarding older adults and nature activities. Heeding this advice,

Lexington plans to make green space a priority in future development. Lexington’s Comprehensive Plan, which details longterm goals the city hopes to attain through systematic steps, has listed providing “adequate green space for all neighborhoods within walking distance” as an objective.2 While the city is planning on incorporating more greenery into the daily life of its citizens, Ashland Terrace Retirement Home has already done so. As an employee of Ashland Terrace, I see the benefits of access to a public garden for older women. We take great pride in Ric’s Garden, named after our previous executive director of 23 years and current gardener, Ric McGee. Twenty years ago, this public cutting garden was designed to be accessible for our residents. Wide, level walking paths, seating options throughout, raised herb and cutting beds and two relaxing water features were crafted for the women who call Ashland Terrace home and visitors who stop by. Residents are free to meander through the garden at their leisure and are encouraged to help maintain it. Often, we find an individual visiting to inquire about becoming a resident has already seen or heard about our garden long before she has considered moving in. Many current residents of Ashland Terrace spend in the garden because gardening is something they have enjoyed their entire lives. Violet, a resident of Ashland Terrace for three years, says she has always spent quite a bit of her time out in nature. She frequents Ric’s Garden at least twice a week in the warmer months. “There is just something about the fresh air that makes me feel better,” she said. She appreciates the quiet of the garden, but she also likes the opportunity it provides for

visiting with other residents and community members. Jean, a resident of six years who is legally blind, has played a vital role in the upkeep of the raised herb beds in Ric’s Garden. Known as the “Herb Lady” in the area of Louisiana she once called home, Jean has not let her lack of vision keep her from working in the garden. She says being able to get outside helps her worry less. Jean, as you might expect from a lifelong gardener, feels being indoors all day is confining. When she is not working, she likes to sit in the garden to take in the sunshine and listen to the birds and identify their various calls. Both residents say they could not imagine life at Ashland Terrace without the community garden. It has become an integral part of not only resident and staff life, but also an important part of the community. As someone who works in the senior services industry, I look forward to the day when all older adults have access to green spaces like Ric’s Garden. For more information about Ric’s Garden and Ashland Terrace, please call (859) 266-2581 or email Sources:

1. Nature Sacred, 2. Lexington Fayette Urban County Government – Comprehensive Plan, About the Author:

Nisa Hanna is the assistant director of Ashland Terrace Retirement Home, located in the Chevy Chase neighborhood of Lexington. She and her husband were married in Ric’s Garden in 2017. | 475 South Ashland Avenue | Lexington, KY 40502 | Phone: (859) 266-2581 Nestled in the heart of Chevy Chase in Lexington, Kentucky, Ashland Terrace, a non-profit, 501(c)3, private foundation, has met its mission of providing housing to those in need since 1849. Careful stewardship, coupled with the oversight of a dedicated board of directors and an enthusiastic, caring staff, allows us to provide a loving, gracious environment at affordable prices.

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email | |

Senior Adults Opt for Bariatric Surgery

Mildred walked the entire length of the hall to her doctor’s office, opened the door, paid her copay and took her seat in the waiting area. When her name was called, she arose and met the doctor in the examination room, smiling brightly. “Why, Mildred, what is this? You are walking! I don’t believe it! Only two months ago, you were wheelchair bound. You’ve made remarkable progress,” said Dr. Miller, opening Mildred’s chart. “Let’s see, it’s been six months since your surgery. You have lost over 80 pounds. Your diabetes is no longer an issue as your blood sugar and A1Cs are well within the normal range. You were taken off your insulin and your blood pressure medication last month and here you are, still doing well, doing even better.” Mildred is one of a growing number of formerly obese geriatric patients who were finding it hard to get around and were having many limitations and chronic conditions because of weight-related issues. Some have had bariatric surgery and found a better quality of life. Over 3 million Americans are afflicted with severe obesity. Of equal concern are the other chronic issues that often accompany obesity that plague these individuals. Severe obesity affects virtually every system of the body. Hypertension, renal failure, asthma, gastroesophageal reflux disease, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, cardiac failure, atherosclerosis, arthritis and an increased prevalence of cancers are some of the many chronic diseases obese patients face.

All these diseases are helped by bariatric surgery, often with total and permanent remission. The remarkable effect of this type of surgery is the full and rapid remission of type 2 diabetes, a disease considered chronic and unalterable. It is not unusual to see a patient like Mildred, who had been in a wheelchair, now able to move about even without a cane, or to have a patient reduce their medication list by half. Most striking is the reduction in the prevalence of cancer in patients who have undergone bariatric surgery. Bariatric/metabolic surgery is the most effective treatment for morbid obesity according to study titled “Bariatric Surgery in Elderly Populations: A Systematic Review.” The efficacy of bariatric procedures in the induction and maintenance of weight loss is largely superior to that obtainable by current medical therapies, the article notes. The surgery results in greater weight loss and improvement in weight-associated comorbidities (chronic conditions related to obesity) compared with nonsurgical interventions, regardless of the type of procedure used. Despite these facts, there continues to be controversy regarding the wisdom of bariatric surgery for older people. Some say age 55 years is the limit for choice in this surgery; others say the cutoff is age 60. Others say these patients benefit less than their younger counterparts. The National Institutes of Health says there is some evidence that shows elderly patients lose less weight from bariatric surgery than younger patients. In some studies, younger bariatric patients have better comorbidity, mortality and weight-loss outcomes compared to


Over 3 million Americans are afflicted with severe obesity.

Protocols and safety issues must be addressed by Jean Jeffers, Staff Writer

May/June 2019

older patients. Surgical indications for elderly patients should be carefully considered although weight loss and reduction in comorbidities of patients older than 55 years might be comparable to the general bariatric surgery population. Bariatric surgery is being performed on patients in their 70s without any ill effects. Guidelines and protocols must be followed and safety issues must be addressed. The type of bariatric surgery does not matter in older adults; they offer equal degrees of improvement for the individual’s condition. More studies are needed to discern the side effects, precautions needed by these patients and

what age is truly a cut-off point. There is ample evidence from the literature to show the efficacy of this procedure in older adults. Until better approaches become available, bariatric surgery is the therapy of choice for patients with severe obesity. Sources:

National Institutes of Health ( About the Author:

Jean is an RN with an MSN from University of Cincinnati. She has just published her first novel, “Journey Toward Healing,” available on Amazon.

Trusted Name. Proven Results. From Downsizing to Rightsizing, The Justice Group can help prepare your home to sell and locate your new home! Contact us today to learn how.

The Justice Group At Rector Hayden Realtors®

1099 Duval Street • Lexington, KY 40515 • 859-338-6099 •

“Alan said the best part of hearing well again was being able to enjoy conversations with his granddaughter. Audiology isn’t just my career; it’s my privilege.” — Dr. Tiffany Brewer

A R E H Call today to schedule your appointment. Read our article “Hearing Aids vs. Overthe-Counter Devicess” on page 15 of this issue.

204 Bevins Ln. B. | Georgetown, KY 40324

(502) 642-4322

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email | |

May/June 2019



Planning After a Life-Altering Diagnosis Fundraising for a cure with the Longest Day

by Bluegrass ElderLaw

Whether it is Alzheimer’s disease, dementia, Huntington’s, ALS, MS or another illness, when a family member has been dealt a lifealtering diagnosis, it changes the way you must plan for the future. The family of someone who has received such a diagnosis should seek legal advice as soon as possible. Even if the individual with the diagnosis is cognitively impaired, it does not mean they cannot be part of the planning process. Many times, the impaired individual can be actively involved. Powers-of-Attorney

Individuals should immediately make sure they have current Powers-of-Attorney for legal and health care. A diagnosis of dementia or Alzheimer’s disease does not mean a person is no longer competent to sign POAs. He or she may still be legally competent to sign legal documents. (We suggest you consult an elder law attorney to discuss the legal definition of “competency.”) You should carefully consider what authority is necessary to give an attorney-in-fact or an agent. Does the agent need authority to buy or sell real property, make gifts or manage business affairs? Powers-of-attorney should be as specific as possible. Each person should have at least one back-up agent in addition to the primary one on their POA. In

the case of spouses, if one member of the couple is impaired, you should consider adding multiple back-up agents. You want to be sure if the non-impaired spouse meets an untimely end, there is another person who is able to assist the impaired spouse.

Couples who are not currently impaired can have a Spousal Special Needs Trust in their will with a “trigger” clause to change the estate distribution to this trust if their spouse should become impaired in the future. Living Wills

Special Needs Trusts

without the burden of crisis legal planning. These recommendations are also great for couples and individuals who have not received a diagnosis. However, any family facing an uncertain future should consult a qualified elder law attorney to make sure they are taking the right steps for their specific situation.

A living will is not the same The individual or their family The Longest Day: thing as a “will” or last will and June 21, 2019 can create a Special Needs Trust testament. A living will is a written (also called a Supplemental Needs document wherein you indicate The Longest Day is the day with Trust) to benefit the individual your choices for your future health the most sunlight, otherwise know without disqualifying them care, specifically involving life supas the summer solstice. On this from government benefits. If the port, artificial hydration, feeding day, thousands of participants all individual is likely to inherit from tubes and organ donation. These over the world join together to raise another person, planning needs to instructions only take effect when funds and awareness for Alzheimbe done to make sure any inheriyou are unable to communicate er’s disease. More information is tance will not put the individual’s or are permanently unconscious available at the Alzheimer’s Associabenefits in jeopardy. This may or terminally ill. A living will gives tion Website: involve directing the assets to a you control over your medical Special Needs Trust. care even if you are no longer able Importantly, the law permits to communicate these choices one spouse to create a Special yourself. Providing instructions ATTORNEYS-AT-LAW Needs Trust for the other spouse and indicating your preferences enCall Today: 859-281-0048 in their will. This is an important sures your wishes will be followed. 120 N. Mill St., Ste. 201 distinction. Spouses cannot simply Additionally, a living will provides Lexington, KY 40507 protect their assets (or become great comfort and guidance to your  Asset Preservation L. Kenton Marylessens Ellis Patton Amy E. Dougherty Medicaid qualified) by placing all Carolynloved ones- and the-burden  Estate Planning, Wills and Take Control of Your Future! Trusts their assets in a living trust. If the of having to make difficult deci Medicaid Planning and Crisis Our dedicated, multi-generational, and experienced team of impaired spouse suddenly becomesattorneys sions. We recommend you consult Planning Mary Ellis Patton helps families address the planning and implementation Carolyn L. Kenton  Powers of Attorney of becoming elderly, dealing with disability, and handling the owner of substantial assets, his issues an attorney before executing a livdeath transfers.  Guardianship or her government benefits may When ing will. More information is avail Medicaid Applications planning for your future and the future of your loved ones, you peaceat: of mind throughout the process. At the law office of  Special Needs Trusts and be at jeopardy. The Spousal Specialdeserveable Planning Bluegrass Elderlaw PLLC we listen carefully to your objectives, clearly Needs Trust avoids this problem byand thoroughly consumerprotection/livingwills/ explain the options to best achieve your goals, and to approach your future with confidence. setting aside assets owned by one equip you Documents/livingwillpacket.pdf spouse for the surviving spouse in a Amy E. Dougherty Katherine E. Finnell protected trust. This trust is admin- Conclusion Diagnosis is not the end. With istered to supplement and enhance 120 N. Mill Street, Suite 201 proper planning, families can the surviving spouse’s lifestyle Lexington, KY 40507 enjoy and care for their loved ones because the future is uncertain. | 859.281.0048 THIS IS AN ADVERTISEMENT



May/June 2019

A Bus Tour Can Take You on an Exciting Adventure It’s less stressful, safer and loads of fun

by Jamie Lober, Staff Writer

If you’re thinking about traveling near or far, a bus tour just may be the thing for you to investigate. The best part about a bus tour is you can sit back, kick up your feet and leave the driving to someone else.

Whether you choose to join your church group, garden club or best friend or go solo, there’s bound to be a trip for you wherever you’re bound. Wondering if such a journey can be beneficial? The AARP says bus travel is more scenic, less stressful, safer and less tiring than numerous other modes of travel, and you can meet interesting people. For the beginner, you may want to try a few day trips. For the sea-

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email |

soned bus traveler, there are trips that can last up to three weeks. To get started, ask yourself where you want to go and how long you wish to be away. It all may come down to your budget. A good place to start is by talking to friends who have been on this kind of an adventure. AAA is a great resource; they will provide maps, brochures and ideas and can handle all your arrangements to make planning simple.

Decide if you are thrill seeking or just looking for rest and relaxation. This will narrow down the best options for your trip. Consider the time of year and special events such as art festivals, antique hunting, city tours or distillery or museum visits. If you want to expand your horizons, some popular bus tours take vacationers to see the cherry blossoms in Washington, D.C., the majestic scenery of Niagara Falls |

in New York or the music and vibe of Nashville. National parks are always a big draw as well. The Grand Canyon, Hoover Dam and the Mojave Desert offer breathtaking views and photo opportunities that will be unforgettable. Your tour director will accompany you during the trip and share valuable insights about how to spend your unscheduled time. You will usually travel and eat with your group. While most expenses

May/June 2019

TOUR Continued on Next Page



May/June 2019 | |

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email

TOUR continued from previous page

are covered, be prepared to buy things such as alcohol and souvenirs or to participate in unscheduled activities such as golf. Many tour companies cater to the needs of seniors, so if you have special medical requirements or need a wheelchair, let the company know in advance so the staff can take good care of you. For those who are lifelong learners, organizations such as Elderhostel offer educational programs as part of your bus tour. Elderhostel has tours in both the states and abroad. Some options

you may consider include an expedition to the North Pole, a trip to Mongolia, Greek Island hopping and visits to Western Russia and the Arctic. If you’re looking for something more mainstream, there are bus tours across England that are equally enjoyable. Adventures that don’t involve learning to navigate a new city, renting a car or potentially getting lost in new surroundings await. Consider the unlimited opportunities you may not have explored. Exciting activities, sights and sounds come along with taking a bus tour of your choice.

Sit back, kick up your feet and leave the driving to someone else.


Hearing Aids vs. Overthe-Counter Devices: Why Does One Cost So Much More? by Dr. Tiffany Brewer One of the most common questions I get after recommending hearing aid technology to a patient is: Why are they so expensive? This question not only stems from pricing advertised by local hearing healthcare providers, but also over-the-counter (OTC) devices that can be purchased for a fraction of the cost. Many patients will look at the dollar amount and focus on it. There is so much more to take into consideration when investing in the appropriate technology. The true value of amplification is overlooked when someone focuses on the bottom line only. Let’s talk about some of the major differences between hearing aids and OTC devices that may shed some light onto this cost discrepancy. CHEAP HEARING AIDS ARE … CHEAP Did you know OTC hearing aids are usually not true hearing aids? Soon legislation will be in effect to help consumers understand what they are purchasing, but because no regulations are being enforced at this time, consumers are often being very misled. A hearing aid is a device programmed specifically to a hearingloss prescription. Each frequency within the hearing aid is adjusted independently to make sure the patient is getting the volume they need when they need it. How does this differ from OTC options? These are essentially amplifiers. All frequencies are being either turned up or down, with no individuality. This can cause patients to feel low-frequency sounds are too loud or high-frequency sounds are too soft. Not to mention there is danger some sounds can cause even more hearing loss because the settings are at unsafe levels.

WHAT ABOUT BACKGROUND NOISE? I am going to be the bearer of some bad news here, but it’s the honest truth: There is absolutely no way to completely get rid of background noise. I hear people promise this to patients all the time and it breaks my heart and infuriates me both at the same time. The reason we cannot get rid of background noise is because the devices are turned on. In order for the device to understand what sounds it needs to make louder, the microphones have to be working. This means noise is going to slip into the microphones as well. Think about your ears and brain. They are always on, but when the sound is sent to your brain, it decides what to focus on and what to ignore. The same is true for hearing aids. OTC devices do not have the appropriate technology within them to separate speech sounds from noise. Because of this, there is no way for the devices to effectively lessen the amount of noise being heard. Hearing aids, because of their advanced technology, have the ability to differentiate background noise from the intended speech signal. The microphones within the hearing aids sample the environment every few milliseconds, making changes based on what is heard. When background noise is recognized, specific algorithms go into effect to help lessen the amount of background noise while increasing the intentional speech signal, thus creating an improved signal-to-noise ratio. This has significantly helped patients in more complex listening environments. PROGRAMMING CAPABILITIES What happens when the OTC device breaks? Can the buyer send

it in for repair? And where do they go for help with their questions? Local providers are unable to answer questions regarding such devices because we have no programming capabilities. It’s not because we don’t want to; it’s because the devices are not capable of being programmed. Purchasing hearing aids from a hearing healthcare provider affords a completely different experience. Typically hearing aids come with a two- to three-year warranty for repairs. If there are questions, that provider should be able to answer them via phone or email. Like most providers I know, I welcome questions. We want our patients to understand everything there is to know about the hearing aids they are wearing! PROFESSIONAL ADVICE A local audiologist is the best place to start. On top of the technological differences, part of the reason for investing more in hearing aids is because of the service you will receive. When fitting a patient with hearing aids, providers take time to ensure the patient understands the hearing aid technology, how the device works, all the parts and pieces, how to insert and remove it, how to change batteries ... the list goes on – and that is just at the first appointment. Hearing aid verification is also completed to ensure the hearing aids are actually doing what they are supposed to do. This allows the audiologist to confirm the patient is getting as much benefit as possible. Adjusting to the hearing aids may take a few appointments, but those adjustments are done with ease because of this advanced technology. Fine tuning ultimately allows providers to give patients the listening experience they want and deserve.

AN AUDIOLOGIST CAN HELP Finding the right professional is a personal decision. No matter who you chose, be confident in that choice. Make sure the hearing healthcare professional is willing to take the time to answer your questions and guide you through the process of better hearing. A trusted and valued relationship with your educated professional will make all the difference. About the Author

Dr. Tiffany Brewer completed her Doctor of Audiology (Au.D.) at the University of Louisville’s School of Medicine and her undergraduate degree in Speech Pathology and Audiology at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio. Dr. Brewer specializes in diagnostic audiologic evaluations as well as hearing-aid services, including selection, fitting and follow-up care. She thrives on patient success and is passionate about providing patients with as much information as possible so they can make an informed treatment decision.

204 Bevins Ln. B. | Georgetown, KY 40324 | (502) 642-4322 |

Events Calendar MAY 5 12 19 26

6 13 20 27

7 14 21 28

1 8 15 22 29

2 9 16 23 30



3 10 17 24 31

4 11 18 25

3 10 17 24

4 11 18 25

5 12 19 26

6 13 20 27


7 14 21 28

1 8 15 22 29

Mon, Wed, Fri

Our Yoga Classes feature slow

Free Activities for Seniors at the Charles Young Center

stretch with gentle breathing,

Senior Programs Open MWF

and relaxation techniques.

from 9-1pm, free activities for

Class size is small, to provide

seniors including, Bodies in

careful instruction. Yoga classes

Balance (Fall prevention/fitness

are offered Mon through Thurs

classes), Line Dancing, Indoor

(daytime and evening), and Sat

Pickleball, Technology 101 and

mornings. Our Meditation Starter

other social, educational and

Course teaches simple ways

recreational activities.

to focus and quiet the mind;

Contact Katherine at 859-246-

5-week sessions are offered on

0281 or

Sundays at 5:30 pm. A nonprofit organization operating since 1981, The Yoga Health &

attend the class!

Classes may include chair yoga,

4th Monday

Donations-based class. Fri

List your event for FREE if it’s free to the public*. E-mail your event information to (*$35 fee for events that are not free to the public)

Yoga Health & Therapy Center Classes

gift from the office to those who

levels of physical condition.

and more. Perfect for beginners

Send us your event listings


Way #4103 Lexington, KY. Free

wellness tips for all ages and

as well as experienced yogis!

Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu

2 9 16 23 30

and Wellness: 1795 Alysheba

techniques, meditation and

restorative, yin yoga, tai chi,


Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu

gentle yoga, breathing

Mon & Wed

MELT Method Hand, Foot and Body Healing Class by Shayne Wigglesworth. Mondays and Wednesdays at 12pm - Discover painfree living at any age! Enjoy a gentle foam roller class to reduce pain, inflammation, stress, anxiety and more! MELT Method certified instructor Shayne Wigglesworth will teach you healing techniques you can use for self care at home. All materials and rollers are provided. Perfect for all ages, body types and experience levels. Learn more – call or go online: 859-721-1841.


Free Class: ‘How to Stay Young’ Triple Crown Chiropractic and Wellness offers a free class


twice a week explaining how to keep your body young through

W. 2nd St. Free private parking

Community Yoga Class with Lauren Higdon

is provided for most classes. For

Every Tuesday 10:30am–

who attends the class. To

more information on fees and

11:30am at Centered Studio,

register for the class, please

scheduled dates and times, call

309 N. Ashland Ave. Suite

call 859-335-0419. Questions

us at 859-254-9529, or email us

180 in Lexington. This weekly

to pr.triplecrownchiro@gmail.


restorative class integrates

com. Triple Crown Chiropractic

Therapy Center is located at 322

chiropractic care. Free spinal screening available for anyone

Lexington Area Parkinson’s Support Group Free daytime and evening discussion groups for people with PD and their care partners. Daytime meetings held the 4th Monday of each month at noon. Evening meetings held on 1st Wednesday of each month at 6:00 pm. Both group meetings held at Crestwood Christian Church, 1882 Bellefonte Drive, Lexington, KY. For more details contact Elaine at 859-277-1040 or by email info@parkinsonslexington. com. Please visit www. for details and other free events held by LAPSG.

1st Tuesday

Lupus Support Group Living & Coping with Lupus: meets 1st Tuesday of every month at Imani Baptist Church, 1555 Georgetown Road, Lexington from 7:00pm–8:30pm. The Lupus Foundation of America support groups are intended to provide a warm and caring environment where people with lupus, their family members, caregivers and loved ones can share experiences, methods of coping and insights into living with chronic illness. www.

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email |

Wednesdays Mindfulness and Relaxation for Health

community while adding beauty is on Saturday, May 11th, from

open the heart. Arrive 6:00-6:30

St. in Lexington, KY. Please

and deeply relax, instruction

visit our website http://www.

6:30-8:00 PM. Mobilize inner

resources for promoting

May 11

health, preventing burnout and managing stress-related chronic

John’s Run Local 8k

disease. Study and practice

Join us at the beautiful Kentucky

in a supportive group. Gentle

Horse Park to honor and

yoga, mindful movement, deep

commemorate John Sensenig’s

relaxation, sitting meditation and

40+ years of service to the local

discussion. Instructor: John A.

running community. John has

Patterson MD, MSPH, FAAFP,

been a fixture in the local running

Cost $10. Mind Body Studio

and walking community since

517 Southland Drive, Lexington,

opening his first local running

KY 859-373-0033. Full details

shop in 1977. John’s Run Local

at http://www.mindbodystudio.

8k has grown from the desire


to celebrate all he has given to


the local Lexington and Central

Argentine Tango

/race-calendar.html for more information.

uniquely transformative social

May 21

experience required. Friday

National Diabetes Prevention Program

evening 7:30-9:00 PM. You may

Learn how to manage pre-

drop-in to any class- this is not

diabetes through healthy eating

a series. Cost $10. Instructors:

and physical activity. Class

Dr. John Patterson and Nataliya

starts May 21 and lasts 12

Timoshevskaya. Mind Body

months, 5:30-6:30, online.

Studio 517 Southland Drive,

FREE! Contact Melissa Smith

Lexington, KY 859-373-0033.

( or

Full details at http://www.

859-288-2473) to sign up or for

more information.


June 7

May 11

Down to Earth Garden Club Plant Sale: Community Fundraiser

herbs and spices, honey, beeswax, candles, body care products, organic products, eggs, meats and fresh, seasonal produce.

Kentucky’s Leading Hair Replacement Facility • Genetic Hair Loss • Chemotherapy • Alopecia • Cosmetic Hair Replacement

Free community education event with information and giveaways.Various experts

generously donated by each

scheduled throughout the day

club member. This wonderful

on Safety, Better Business

community benefit will be held

Bureau, Law Enforcement,

rain or shine. Natives, Herbs,

Pharmacists, Nutrition,

Fruits, Vegetables, Perennials,

Exercise, Scam Alert and Elder

Wildflowers, Grasses, Hostas,

Abuse Prevention. 10am–3pm,

Shrubs, Trees, Annuals,

Don and Cathy Jacobs Health

Container Gardens, Succulents,

Education Center, University of

Irises, Decorative Containers,

Kentucky Chandler Hospital.

Gardening Books, and many

For questions contact c.pettry@

plants for sun or shade will be

spring event. Come support your

visit the Lexington Farmers’ Market! Browse

Senior Safety and Wellness Exhibition

Plants are grown, nurtured and

available for purchase during this

downtown Lexington, 241 West Main Street,

Mindful and Meditative. A

therapy. No partner or dance

Every Saturday (April – October, 7am-2pm)

Kentucky community. Visit

Passionate and Romantic-

skill, art form and movement


Lexington Farmer’s Market

9 A.M. to 12 P.M. at Woodland Christian Church, 530 E. High

May/June 2019


to your garden! The 2019 sale

Relax the body, quiet the mind, |

859.263.9811 Hair Institute offers several surgical and non-surgical hair restoration options, including Virtual Reality®, full and partial prostheses, hand-knotted wigs, and human hair extensions. - Laser Light Hair Therapy - Surgical Hair Restoration Options

- Full Cranial Vacuum Prostheses - Enhancements and Integrations

1795 Alysheba Way Suite 7101 Lexington, Kentucky 40509




May/June 2019 | |

Senior Services DIRECTORY

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email

Category Key

Does your business provide excellent senior services?

call us for a spot County Offices & Meal Programs in the directory 859.368.0778 Health Care Systems & Hospitals Transportation, Personal Shopping, Errands Senior Day Centers, Adult Day Centers & Respite Care In Home Care (Non-Medical) In Home Medical Care Mental Health, Family & Caregiver Support, Advice Disability & Rehabilitation Medical Equipment, Supplies & Monitoring Systems

Finances & Estate Planning, Trusts/Wills, Reverse Mortgage

About the Directory Living Well 60+ is striving to make your search for local senior services a bit easier. We know there are many companies available to assist seniors in central Kentucky – so many that beginning a search to fit your need can seem like a daunting task. That’s why our directory features a collection of local companies and organizations who have a solid track record of providing exceptional assistance. We hope it becomes a useful starting point in your search for quality senior services.

Funeral Arrangement & Pre-Planning Legal Services Home Repair & Maintenance Skilled Nursing Facilities, Personal Care Homes, Long-Term Care Senior Independent Living & Retirement Housing Real Estate / Rent- Subsidized Housing For Independent Living Moving, Estate Sales, Downsizing Services Fitness, Healthy Eating & Healthy Living Healthcare, Medicare Help and Insurance Vision Care

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email |


May/June 2019



YMCA of Central Kentucky

Mountain Waterfalls

1221 S. Broadway Lexington, KY 40504 859-258-4000

239 E. High St. Lexington, KY 40502 859-254-9622

Award-Winning Water Features 859-684-0642


Drayer Physical Therapy Institute: Winchester Center

Lexington Clinic

Accessible Home Care 366 Waller Ave. Ste. 112 Lexington, KY 40504 859-313-5167

Alliance Medical & Home Care 3716 Willow Ridge Road Lexington, KY 40514 859-296-9525

Assisting Hands 1795 Alysheba Way, Ste. 7105 Lexington, KY 40509 859-264-0646

Senior Helpers of the Bluegrass 3070 Harrodsburg Rd. Ste. 240 Lexington, KY 40503 859-296-2525

Seniors Helping Seniors Where seniors who want to help are matched w/ seniors looking for help

710 E. Main Street Lexington, KY 40502 859-408-1145

IN HOME MEDICAL CARE Medi-Calls 1055 Wellington Way #215 Lexington, KY 40513 859-422-4369

Saint Joseph Home Health 2464 Fortune Dr. Ste. 110 Lexington, KY 40509 859-277-5111

160 Pedro Way 859-745-2152

Drayer Physical Therapy Institute: Richmond Center 1054 Center Drive, Ste. 1 859-625-0600

Drayer Physical Therapy Institute: Lexington Perimeter Center 600 Perimeter Drive, Ste. 175 859-268-1201

Drayer Physical Therapy Institute: Lexington Beaumont Center 1010 Monarch Street, Ste. 150 859-219-0211


FINANCES & ESTATE PLANNING, TRUSTS/WILLS, REVERSE MORTGAGE Attorney Walter C. Cox, Jr & Assoc. LLC 2333 Alexandria Dr. 859-514-6033

LEGAL SERVICES Bluegrass Elder Law 120 North Mill Street, Ste 300 859-281-0048

SENIOR INDEPENDENT LIVING & RETIREMENT HOUSING Mayfair Village 3310 Tates Creek Rd. Lexington, KY 40502 859-266-2129

Windsor Gardens of Georgetown Assisted Living 100 Windsor Path Georgetown, KY 40324 502-570-0540

Rose Mary C. Brooks Place 200 Rose Mary Dr. Winchester, KY 40391 859-745-4904

The Lafayette 690 Mason Headley Rd. 859-278-9080

Ashland Terrace 475 S. Ashland Ave. Lexington, KY 40502 859-266-2581

Hometown Manor Assisted Living Community Georgetown, Lawrenceburg, Shelbyville 859-229-5914

St Andrews Retirement Community 300 Stocker Dr. 859-625-1400

Hometown Manor Assisted Living Communities 2141 Executive Drive, Lexington (859) 317-8439




MACULAR DEGENERATION LEADING CAUSE OF VISION LOSS by Dr. Rick Graebe, Family Eyecare Associates and Vision Therapy

Age-related macular degeneration (AMD) affects the macula, an area inside the back of the eye in the center of the retina. This is where the eye focuses for recognizing faces and reading. The retina records images we see and sends them via the optic nerve from the eye to the brain. AMD occurs when the central portion of the retina begins to deteriorate, affecting a person’s ability to read, drive, recognize faces or colors and see objects in fine detail. AMD is the leading cause of vision loss in older adults. According to one source, the prevalence of AMD is estimated to reach epidemic proportions of 6.3 million Americans by the year 2030. There are two types of AMD, wet and dry. Wet AMD is a progression of dry AMD, not a separate condition. Macular degeneration begins when waste products, called drusen, build up

under the macula. This is called severe form, the condition causes dry AMD; it causes blurring and the patient to lose central vision distorts vision. As the condition completely. People with very progress, abnormal blood vesadvanced AMD are considered sels grown beneath and into the legally blind, although they may retina, causing retain peripheral swelling, bleedAs you grow older, vision. ing and changes Treatment may in vision. This is include an opit becomes more called wet AMD tion called laser important to have photocoagulabecause the abnormal blood or photodyregular eye exams. tion vessels begin namic therapy to leak. Most (PDT). Another people have dry AMD. treatment involves injecting the Risk factors for AMD include patient with a drug activated by a age, genetics and environment, laser that selectively destroys and although research has not yet seals the leaking blood vessels. been able to show exactly why Although it is not a cure, the drug the cells in the macula begin to and laser treatment can probdeteriorate. Smoking doubles the ably slow the rate of vision loss. risk of developing AMD. Some sight may be retained, but At present, AMD is incurable. lost sight cannot be restored. The In early stages, it does not affect most common and effective treatvision, but as the disease proment for wet AMD is anti-VEGF gresses, patients may have wavy therapy, which entails injecting a or blurred vision. For instance, chemical called vascular endothe straight edge of a door or thelial growth factor directly into sentences on a page in a book the eye. It inhibits the formation seem wavy. You may also notice of new blood vessels behind a gray or dark area in the center the retina and may keep it from of your visual field. In its most leaking.

As you grow older, it becomes more important to have regular eye exams. That is how most cases of AMD are detected. A specific test looks for drusen and pigment or color changes in the retina that may signal AMD. Your eye doctor may have you print out and use an Amsler grid with which you can discern visual changes that might indicate AMD. ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Dr. Graebe received both his B.S degree in Visual Science and Doctorate of Optometry from Indiana University. He is a Behavioral Optometrist and learning expert. He has been in private practice here in the Bluegrass area for the past 32 years.

Family Eyecare Associates 105 Crossfield Drive, Versailles, KY 40383 859.879.3665 |

SERVICE DIRECTORY, CONTINUED FROM PAGE 19 Morning Pointe Senior Living Residences 233 Ruccio Way, Lexington 40503 859-554-0060 Lexington East Facility 150 Shoreside Dr., Lexington 859-721-0350 The Lantern (Alzheimer’s Care) 225 Ruccio Way, Lexington 40503 859-309-4867

REAL ESTATE / RENT-SUBSIDIZED HOUSING FOR INDEPENDENT LIVING Turf Town Properties, Inc. 124 Kentucky Ave. Lexington, KY 40502 859-268-4663

Briarwood Apartments 1349 Centre Parkway Lexington, KY 40517 859-272-3421

REAL ESTATE The Justice Group at Rector Hayden Realtors

Hall’s Moving Service, Inc. SENIORS SAVE 5% 258 E. 2nd Street, Lexington 859-231-0428

Home Care by Seniors for Seniors

FITNESS, HEALTHY EATING & HEALTHY LIVING Yoga Health & Therapy Center 322 West Second St. Lexington, KY 40507 859-254-9529

Well Fed Meals 1301 Winchester Rd. #17 Lexington, KY 40505 859-539-5863



here’s a huge difference in the kind of home care you can receive from someone who really understands your life as a senior. Our caring, compassionate seniors are there to help. We offer the services you need to stay in your home, living independently. Call us today!

Companionship | Light Housekeeping | Meal Preparation | Transportation

859.408.1145 KY 500239

If you are interested in becoming a service provider we would like to hear from you too. ©2018 Seniors Helping Seniors. Each office is independently owned and operated. All trademarks are registered trademarks of Corporate Mutual Resource Inc. Not all services are available in all areas.

2333 Alexandria Drive Lexington, KY 40504 Direct 859-312-9646 | Office 859-309-5033 kentuckyhealthsolutions. com

VISION CARE Medical Vision

1099 Duval Street Lexington, KY 40515 859-338-6099

3288 Eagle View Ln. Suite 300 Lexington, KY 859-278-9486



Caring Transitions

4734 Rockford Plaza Louisville, KY 40216 1-800-458-8267

1411 Delaware Ave. 859-543-9848

Like getting a little help from your friends®

Superior Van & Mobility

Living Well 60+ is just a Click Away Read every issue on your smart phone, tablet & computer.

Lexington Life Services 859-797-8157

Scan here to start reading.

Your Family, Your Health, Our Passion Family Practice Associates of Lexington, P.S.C. Proudly serving Kentucky for 35 years. • Family Practice • Pediatrics • Internal Medicine • Primary Care for your entire family!

Hamburg Pavilion Location

Harrodsburg Road Location

1775 Alysheba Way #201

2040 Harrodsburg Rd, Ste 300

Lexington, KY 40509

Lexington, KY 40503


To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email | |

May/June 2019




PLAN FOR RETIREMENT by Mary Gateway, Funeral Director

Whether you’re a boomer or the child of a boomer, you may have started talking about the next 10, 20 or even 30 years and planning for the retirement years. If you have already had the retirement conversation and started planning, congratulations – you are doing yourself and your family a favor by considering and possibly making decisions about the many choices you have available to you. If you haven’t, don’t worry, you aren’t alone. I highly encourage you to start learning about, thinking about and discussing your future retirement with your family so they aren’t left in the dark wondering what Mom or Dad prefers. Finding a way to start talking with loved ones about retirement and the future is the difficult part. Here are a few topics to start with: Retirement Age

Just because you can retire at age 65 years doesn’t mean you have to or want to. Many people choose to work beyond retirement not because they need to but simply because their job is their passion. If you enjoy working, you should continue doing so. Perhaps consider cutting back your days

so you can pursue other activities you enjoy or always wanted to do. If you are ready to throw in the towel and can afford to do so, by all means retire and enjoy life. Finances

If you’re going to retire, you certainly need to know how you will cover your expenses. No matter how old you are, it is a good idea to meet with a professional who can help you get your financial affairs in order. Legal Affairs

Have you written a will or set up a trust? Do you need to deal with other legal affairs? If not, when you die, your family is likely to spend a lot of time and money in probate court handling your legal and financial affairs. Take time now to finalize your legal affairs. You can always make changes. Healthcare

Will your children or home health care take care of you in your home or theirs? Is it time to downsize so you can live in your own home longer? If necessary, do you have a specific independent senior living or nursing home where you’d prefer to live? Senior living facilities are popping up all over town. Similar to the drugstore boom, the need for senior living facilities is greater than ever. If you haven’t, now is a great time to schedule a tour so

you can find facilities you prefer if you should need to get more personalized care. Funeral/Life Celebration

While no one really likes to plan for death, it is one of those things on the “have to” list. That is, if your goal is to ease the burden on your family. There are literally over 100 decisions that need to be made at the time of a person’s death. Planning in advance is simply a responsible thing to do and one your children will greatly appreciate. Things to consider include whether you will pay for the funeral/life celebration now or through life insurance and specifying what you want done with your remains (burial or cremation) and where you want them placed, as well as how you’d like your life celebrated. Planning all these aspects allows your family more time to grieve their loss at the time of your death. Activities

Retirement does not have to be the equivalent of sitting in front of the television all these remaining years. It can be if you want, but it can also be filled with a lot of enjoyment with friends and family. It could include traveling, volunteering, reading or quilting, exercising, caring for grandchildren, attending spiritual activities, cooking and so much more. The choice is yours. Enjoy

life to its fullest. But also learn about the resources available to you and your family for your retirement. The need for senior resources varies widely depending on how independent or codependent an individual is during his or her senior years. The Lexington community offers a spectrum of services to seniors. In fact, there seems to be more senior services than ever before. Our community is preparing for an increased demand from boomers who have or are about to enter their retirement years along with their parents who are living longer than previous generations. ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Mary Gateway has been a funeral director at Milward Funeral Directors for 15 years. Milward, the 37th oldest continuously operating family business in the United States, has three locations in Lexington. Mary can be reached at the Broadway location, 159 North Broadway; by email; or by calling (859) 252-3411.

159 North Broadway | 859.252.3411 391 Southland Drive | 859.276.1415 1509 Trent Boulevard | 859.272.3414

DID YOU KNOW? Most email services are free, although there are paid services that offer more security and privacy protection.

May/June 2019

Email Essentials

Keeping in touch electronically by Angela S. Hoover, Staff Writer

Email, short for electronic mail, is messages sent and received via the Internet. There are basic core features to each email account. The inbox is the primary area of an email account. This is where new incoming messages appear. They remain here after you open and read them until you either delete them or move them into a folder. To open an email, click on either the sender’s name or the email subject. At the top of the page, above the message viewing window, are tabs labeled Delete, Junk or Move To. These options move a message to that designated folder. If Spam or Junk is chosen, whoever sent that email will forever be considered Spam. Spam includes emails about Viagra or that infamous wealthy prince from Nigeria. It’s a good idea to periodically look in the spam folder for emails you expect or if someone says they sent you an email and you haven’t received it. Common pre-set folders include Drafts, Sent and Trash. Drafts are emails you have written but not sent. The Sent folder contains all the emails you have successfully sent; this is handy if a recipient says they didn’t receive your email. Some email accounts will automatically delete these messages after a certain amount of time; others will keep them all until you delete them. The Trash folder contains deleted emails. In addition to the standard folders, nearly every email account lets you create your own custom folders. These can help you organize the different areas of your business or personal life. For example, you could have a folder labeled Receipts, Paid Bills or Work. Addresses are entered in the Address Book. Most accounts offer a convenient check-and-add system when you compose an email and enter an email address. Most email services are free, although there are paid services that offer more security and privacy protection. The most popular free email accounts include Gmail (Google), Yahoo and Outlook. Free email providers that offer encryption include ProtonMail, Sendinc and Tutanota. Encrypted emails cannot be read by anyone other than the intended recipient(s) except through authentication. Only the most dedicated of hackers will be able to decrypt the emails, thus ensuring privacy. This could be helpful if you’re sending an email to someone about where an extra key to your home is hidden. Encryption requires a certificate to digitally sign your message, which can stave off spam and malware sent in your name. Matters that require a high level of security and privacy would be better served by paying for a more robust encryption email provider. To get access to your email account(s) on your cell phones, download the email provider’s app onto your device.



May/June 2019 | |

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email


How to Foster Resilience as a Caregiver Enhance your ability to cope with changes and challenges

by Lisa M. Petsche, Staff Writer

Look for ways to include laughter and joy in each day.

Although it has its rewards, caring for a chronically ill or frail older relative can be physically, psychologically and emotionally demanding. The caregiving journey is particularly challenging when it continues over a long period of time and the care recipient has a progressive disease, complex needs, a demanding personality or mental impairment. Some caregivers seem to cope better than others with the ups and downs of providing care. The reasons can be varied, but one of

them has to do with resilience. The MerriamWebster dictionary defines resilience as “an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change.” If you are a caregiver, learn how to foster resilience. It can help you cope with the ongoing stress and periodic crises involved in caring for someone who has a chronic illness. Here are some strategies you can use: • Accept the reality of your care recipient’s disease. Denial will prevent you from moving forward. • Learn as much as possible about the illness and its management and educate family

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email |

and friends to help them understand. Being informed is empowering. • Hope for the best possible outcome but prepare for the worst-case scenario. • Pick your battles; don’t make a major issue out of every concern. • Use positive self-talk. Emphasize phrases such as “I can,” “I will” and “I choose.” • Do things that bring inner peace, such as meditating, reading, writing in a journal or listening to music. • Create a relaxation room or corner in your home – a tranquil spot you can retreat to in order to rejuvenate. • Develop a calming ritual to help you unwind at the end of the day. • Stay connected to friends and community groups to which you belong. • Minimize contact with people who drain your energy or make you feel inadequate. • Simplify your life. Set priorities and don’t waste time or energy on things that aren’t important. • Look after your health: Eat nutritious meals, get adequate rest, exercise and see your primary physician regularly. |

• Be flexible about plans and expectations. Recognize there will be good days and bad days and how you and your care recipient feel will fluctuate. Take things one day at a time. • Give yourself permission to feel all the emotions that surface, including resentment and frustration. Remind yourself you are doing your best and are only human. • Don’t keep feelings and problems to yourself – talk to a trusted family member, friend or counselor. Join a caregiver support group in your community or an Internet group if it’s hard to get out. • Seek help from your primary physician or a counselor if you continually feel sad, angry or overwhelmed. Depression is treatable. • Accept offers of help. Ask other family members to share the load and be specific about what is needed. Find out about community support services – including respite care options – and take full advantage of them. Information can be obtained from the local office on aging.

May/June 2019

• Don’t promise your care recipient you will never pursue placement in a longterm care home. It’s important to keep all options open because it’s impossible to know what the future holds in terms of your care recipient’s functioning and care needs or your own obligations and health status. • Do something nice for someone who is going through a difficult time. It takes your mind off your own situation, boosts your self-esteem and strengthens the relationship. It may also help to be reminded that other people face challenges, too. • Look for ways to include laughter and joy in each day. This will enhance your relationship with your care receiver and others with whom you come in contact and help foster a positive outlook. About the Author:

Lisa M. Petsche is a social worker and freelance writer specializing in family life. She has personal experience with elder care.

Maximize Your Visual Performance Personal care with a professional touch

Schedule an appointment for: Complete Eye Exam Dry Eye Clinic Low Vision Visual Rehabilitation/ Therapy: • eye alignment, • reading difficulties, • school performance, • athletic performance, • balance, and • headaches

Dr. Graebe

Dr. Callihan

Family Eyecare Associates 105 Crossfield Drive Versailles KY 40383

Call Today!

(859) 879-3665



May/June 2019 | |

by Angela S. Hoover, Staff Writer

A will is a legal document that dictates the distribution of the assets of someone who has passed away. Without a will in place, state law determines what happens to the deceased’s assets. When someone dies without a will, it is called dying intestate. Usually a spouse and/or children will inherit the assets – but not always. It gets even more complicated if the deceased had no spouse and/or children. In Kentucky, the assets go to the deceased’s closest relatives. When the deceased has children but no spouse, the children inherit everything. If there is a spouse and

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email

descendants, the spouse inherits onehalf of the personal property, one-third of the real property to use during his or her lifetime and one-half of the real property to sell or give away. Descendants inherit one-half of the personal property and the remainder of the real property. Your lawyer can explain other distribution regulations. If someone with children in Kentucky dies without a will, the children receive an intestate share of the property. The size of each child’s share depends on the total number of children and whether the deceased was married or not. Kentucky intestacy laws only apply to children legally recognized

by the state. Foster children, stepchildren and children who were placed for adoption and legally adopted by another family will not receive an intestate share. Half-relatives in Kentucky inherit as “whole” relatives. It is very rare for a deceased person’s assets to escheat or go to the state. Laws are designed to get the property to anyone who was even remotely related to the deceased. However, anyone married with children or someone who has many assets should definitely have a will. Even if you’re presently young, broke, single and childless, you will probably need a will in the future as your life circumstances change.

To advertise call 859.368.0778 or email | |

May/June 2019

Anyone married with children or someone who has many assets should definitely have a will.




$ 00 per issue

Set up your subscription online:


a subscription! Do you or someone you know love Living Well 60+ Magazine? Enjoy the convenience of our bi-monthly issue delivered directly to your mailbox with a subscription. Only $2 per issue. $12 for a year of entertaining and informative content tailored to your generation!

60 Plus


Call Today: 859-281-0048



Amy E. Dougherty – Mary Ellis Patton – Carolyn L. Kenton – Katherine E. Finnell

Take Control of Your Future! 120 N. Mill St., Ste. 201 Lexington, KY 40507


Today: Asset Preservation Our dedicated, multi-generational, and Call 859-281-0048

experienced team of attorneys helps families  Estate Planning, Wills and address the planning and implementation issues Trusts

of becoming elderly, dealing with disability, and

120 N.Medicaid Mill St., Ste. 201 Planning and Crisis  handling death transfers. Planning Lexington, KY 40507 

When planning for your future and the future Powers of Attorney

of your loved ones, you deserve peace of mind throughout the process. At the law office of  Estate Planning, Wills and Applications Bluegrass Elderlaw PLLC we listen carefully to  Medicaid Trusts your objectives, clearly and thoroughly explain  Special Needs Trusts and the options to best achieve your goals, and equip  Medicaid Planning and Crisis Planning you to approach your future with confidence. Planning

 AssetGuardianship Preservation 

Powers of Attorney


Medicaid Applications

Special Needs Trusts and Planning